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| 17 | Red Flag Of The Day: Grown Men Referring To Adult Women As ‘Girls’…..🤮It's really hard to unlearn certain things we were predisposed to growing up. I had to do the same. Now I only use it when talking to women I know I can be informal/friendly with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 01:21 PM |
| 26 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.Anyone else notice the lack of ages? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 12:46 AM |
| 31 | Women who play video games and want a partner to play with; Navigating the toxic wasteland of Gamer BoysI love building in the Sims. It's therapeutic while listening to aesthetic Lofi. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 02:47 PM |
| 24 | "You're a Saint!" isn't a compliment...You all should see some of these replies I'm getting from salty men. Some don't even make sense. 🙄 Edit: Thank you, mods!!🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | queen sh*tThe cuddles could've been with a dog/cat, but no, it's got to be "another dude". Lol cry away, dude. I bet she was even relieved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 43 | losing friends ever since accepting FDS valuesI have grown out of several friendships over the past few years. One friend had double standards and was fine making choices (with men) she might regret one day to help her grow? I guess. It seemed hard for her to not see our friendship as competitive. We had a poorly timed talk where she decided to go off on me and put words in my mouth. She never apologized. 🤷♀️ So, I stopped talking to her. Another was always financially anxious in her marriage, she rarely ever told me when anything good hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 02:01 PM |
| 30 | Men talking about ex's physical attributesEven if you're the one shown in a better light as the winner, it is still triangulation. It makes you realize that all you have to do is break up and he'll be talking down about you the same way he used to "talk you up". If it's that easy then it means nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.Same with the attempt at IG stalking/latching. I went back in a msg with a friend and found the cat pics are of the same cat he used to send me "sad selfies" with. Back when he still thought we would get back together after he improved on himself or whatever he thought was the key. I feel bad for lying, but it felt like the safest way of getting him out of my house, at the time. Dude seriously needs therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.I have had run ins with crazy close to this level. I was years younger, but it just made it scarier. They weren't exes but they were men. I was too nice. Too trusting. So, I just block as soon as I can after they become exes. Just try not to personally or directly interact. It feels safer to tell them through another person. That way they know multiple people have a heads up about them and what they did. They know I have a strong support system. I'm aware there is a chance for some men to see it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.Happy cake day!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.I've been living here a long time (closing in on a decade) so I am not very surprised he found me. There was a lil card in my mailbox with my last name and I removed it recently so that it's one less bit of proof of where I live. It sucks but an asap move is necessary. I am really going to miss having a support system within my neighborhood. I'm also so done with renting. It will not be an easy or quick fix because of prices, but I do pride myself on getting shit done. Thank you very much for yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:19 AM |
| 12 | Escort only moaned because he paid her. Hope he gets the therapy he needs, but I rly hope his wife will leave his toxic ass too. Many comments are advising him on how to hide his fucked up secret or justifying his infidelity & saying the marriage can be saved. Received ‘the wholesome award’? WtfAnd then she should promptly divorce him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 09:34 PM |
| 67 | When LVM think they’re God’s gift to our world because they’re ~*nice*~🥱My favorite part of this movie was probably the savage burns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.Gross!! Yup. Two years here. I am dead set on him being back at his mommy and daddy's and unable to stop thinking of the last person who "saved" him from them. 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.I have cameras recently set up. Doorbell cam and one of my neighbors moved one of their motion sensitive cams to see my driveway. She showed me what it would view and I know all of my neighbors and informed them. He just wanted my attention. I know he would have preferred for me to unblock him and respond because then I would have to wait 48 hrs to block him again, but I was glad I had friends to do that for me. 🖤 The one who warned him lives super close too. Thank you. I am moving asap and I ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 08:57 PM |
| 110 | Escort only moaned because he paid her. Hope he gets the therapy he needs, but I rly hope his wife will leave his toxic ass too. Many comments are advising him on how to hide his fucked up secret or justifying his infidelity & saying the marriage can be saved. Received ‘the wholesome award’? WtfImagine being such a disgusting waste of oxygen your wife get the "ick". Nothing gets better and instead of leaving, he risks his and his wife's health by getting a hooker. Then it's somehow more "poor me, I feel bad after getting my pp touched by someone I went to for that exact reason". I really hope these are just pent up "April Fools! LOLOLOL 🤡🤡🤡🤡" posts but none of them are funny and I just want to vomit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 06:37 PM |
| 18 | Pick female doctors whenever possibleNo joke. They do this to basically all of their female clients to shoot their shot so it's not like they'll be able to figure out which one it is anywho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 24 | He lied to her for two decadesThat old guy looks like he owns stock in little blue pills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 12:03 AM |
| 36 | He lied to her for two decadesI hope she can sue him. This is heinous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 12:02 AM |
| 92 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?The cringiest part of this, imo, is that I feel l have been friends with this guy. I remember the cringe of "an animal lurking" and other such "dominant" self proclaimed descriptions. This reminds me of guys who feed off a woman's discomfort when he asks about her sex life (whether or not he has an active one himself) under the guise that it's fine because they're friends. Who also tells that same woman about his past experiences in an attempt to create some sort of quick bond and set the mood w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 11:59 PM |
| 18 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control PillYup. I am vehemently childfree and started with Mirena and now have Paragard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 82 | Positive for chlamydia- the audacityWhat?! Seriously? That is some kind of mental gymnastics. 'I know its her job to talk to me about this stuff but she is talking to me to tell me I have a serious STD, so she obviously accepts me despite that and totally digs me. Might as well ShOoT My ShOt.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 06:05 PM |
| 56 | How to deal with men who want to be “orbiters”You don't need to apologize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | I have no words...I thought she was suggesting that other people would see her absence at her sister's wedding as a sign she was homophobic. Her sister was worried about how her decision to stay home with her husband would look to those who didn't know about her husband's "condition". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 05:35 PM |
| 158 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone."I just resent him a bit." How is that a great relationship? It's amazing the pattern that pops out when you read these regularly. First it's the, we have a very great/secure/happy relationship. Then they explain abuse/neglect/BS they have dealt with for so long its become normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | It took me years to get out of the Pickme mindset.Just because they're at the head of the shit pile... Don't be too hard on yourself though, a lot of them hide the smell by bathing in Axe body spray and 5 in one shampoo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 05:49 AM |
| 41 | 63 year old scrote with 38 year old woman expecting a 7th child together 🤢🤢. Good luck sis!It's like they want to star in the new Cheaper by the Dozen...but real life. 😬😬😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 05:26 AM |
| 71 | "Moving the goalpost" at its finest. Nothing good comes of long-term relationship, especially ones with wife benefits and no future in sight. At this point, this guy is enjoying making his girlfriend BUST for a ring while he blows money on a boat. A BOAT.Yeah, he just wants the benefits, like her money and her body. If she is lucky, this woman is going to leave him and he is going to marry/propose to the next girl he meets in like 5 months so he can hurt her one more time and keep her thinking something was wrong with her. 🙄 He has her so wrapped up in this it's damaging her mental health and he couldn't care less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 01:50 PM |
| 57 | & that’s on porn addiction… SMHKinks were part of one of my relationships and, even though I was on the other side of it, it felt wrong and I didn't like it. He told me what he wanted to do if I was the sub (it was so disgusting I still remember it years later and shudder) and I was like "nope, here is fine." Here should have been out of the relationship. I felt that way a lot in that 5 years. What they want to do to women is a great sign of how they feel about women. If you want a man, find yourself one who can't imagine rai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 01:26 PM |
| 70 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.And he still calls himself a dad instead of a sperm donor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 177 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.That "looking for" says it all. He'll let you think you're dating and then go all shocked Pikachu face and call you something wayyyy more casual. "I didn't mean to make you think we were like that." To get you to chase him. Dude just let his 🚩🚩🚩🚩 wave like bait on a hook for someone who won't see them for what they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:45 PM |
| 28 | TIL: iMessages on Mac doesn't BLOCK your blocked contactsGross. Thanks for info. Glad I don't ever plan on getting a Mac now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:38 PM |
| 59 | My 3 Year Old Son's bus driver this morning was disgustingly inappropriate with me . .You know he probably got that job for the chance to hit on moms. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:34 PM |
| 39 | I'm sick of media romanticizing male infidelity, this needs to stop NOWLove Actually. Spoiler alert from the movie! The healthiest relationship there was a paternal one between the dad and the kid who weren't even biologically related. 🥺 After that it's between the two who meet at a pron shoot because their relationship is built on something other than sex. They clearly want a deeper connection and just need to keep communicating the way they do. He respects her. The most disgusting one (apart from that idiot who thinks he has a cute accent and that he will get lai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:55 PM |
| 13 | Blocked & DeletedRight?! I almost spat out my coffee. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 15 | The Hardest HVW Lesson *for me*: No one is going to save you.My elder goth mother always says to live on your own for at least a year to remind yourself of your ability to get shit done on your own. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:45 PM |
| 21 | Do not be jealous of the new girl… abusers do not change. Even if they somewhat “get better”, you deserve more than whatever half baked fuckboy shit this ex-douchebag has to offer you. Leave him in the past sisters, pray for the women who encounter him, and thrive. We are worth more than we know. 💞We were all part of the same social group from high school/Jr high. She was part of the group that romanticized the wrong parts of her relationships...or the length of it. 🤔 Like mistaking sunk cost fallacy for something way different. Sometime before she started dating my 2nd ex, I got the hint that she didn't like me or that she got caught up in thinking there was a competition. So far, all she's done is realized they were crappy sooner than I did. I'm really just glad she left them in general… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 01:57 PM |
| 49 | Do not be jealous of the new girl… abusers do not change. Even if they somewhat “get better”, you deserve more than whatever half baked fuckboy shit this ex-douchebag has to offer you. Leave him in the past sisters, pray for the women who encounter him, and thrive. We are worth more than we know. 💞Ah, yes, the "I'm here to brag about how much better the new girl is than you to cover up how bitter I still am that I still think about you and how you didn't put up w/ my BS forever." letter. It has a few variations. This is on the ballsier side since he is asking for pictures. 🤢 Idk why crappy men are fine with using so many empty words to just say they're bitter you didn't try hard enough to "fix them with your love". They're just telling on themselves.🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 01:41 PM |
| 44 | Do not be jealous of the new girl… abusers do not change. Even if they somewhat “get better”, you deserve more than whatever half baked fuckboy shit this ex-douchebag has to offer you. Leave him in the past sisters, pray for the women who encounter him, and thrive. We are worth more than we know. 💞So, FDS showed me how common this was. I was friends with an ex's like 2nd new gf after me and she had told me that he talks me up so much she often feels inferior. It made me really angry for her. I really used to admire her, so seeing her put up with this guy's crap was weird. Then she dated my most recent ex like she was trying to "date them better" and I stopped feeling bad for her or being her friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Brooklyn 99I just realized it. I see it a lot more in anime and children's movies...like Hotel Transylvania. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Brooklyn 99Jake seems to fit The Everyman trope. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | The next time you feel silly, know that there are men out there who will jeopardize their entire bank account funds for the chance to see breasts.🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 11:32 PM |
| 2 | A simple trick to combat negging...I think I posted this comment in a negging post somewhere here a while back but I still remember it. He said: "Since you admitted to having chosen wrong in your previous relationships you probably won't choose me because I'm not a wrong one. 🤣" Me: "You know what? You're right. And since I am just so stupid and unable to decide who/what's best for myself as a grownass woman, I think I am going to stop talking to you and just block you. Have a great evening." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | He came back.The last one left a creepy letter and booze on my porch earlier this month...like 2...or 2.5 years after I kicked him out. The only way for him to have really contacted me since I blocked him on everything else. It's in my post history. :/ Turns out the one before him tried to show off at a place I worked... also about 2 years after I dumped him, only I wasn't there. I heard he tried to bring his new gf in with him but she mostly just walked/stood around awkwardly. It's the closest he ever got t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | He came back.It's incredibly accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Red flag - A man who likes to pit women against other women.Triangulation was what an ex of mine did a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Avoid the clever Hobosexual!Mine had a good job when we got together but no car or drivers license. Found out around the time he stopped getting called in. 🙄 Oh, he future faked to the MAX. "When I get this job, you can quit yours and get back into writing." "When we move into our own place, I'll help around around the house more." Took me three years to realize I never should have given this guy the time of day. My friends were shocked I went out with him. Learning that after I left him was news to me. 🤣 No one told me. B… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Scrote Bingos from the red flags"Lied about kids" always reminds me of Kelly Stamps and that horrid date she went on w/ a guy who looked like "Irl Alladin" but had a voice like "Bill Cosby". He had 3 kids and didn't tell her until later (left it out of his bio) and then tried to make it seem like she was the unreasonable one when she was like..."I kind of feel lied to." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Yes, you are. 💋I listened to this on YT omw to work recently. The audacity of this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 09:00 PM |
| 4 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.I think this should only be the beginning. If science can do this for men, they can do this for women. I want hormone free BC with as few side effects and as little pain as possible...for everyone. It'll decrease the number of women who end up infertile waiting for the right time to have kids because their BC did its job too well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 93 | Can we talk about how aggressively men get off on cheating, getting caught, and NOT getting broken up with immediately? Their egos are astronomical at this point.Yup. Was in a 5 year relationship and didn't know the guy cheated on me until I dumped him and he told me in a final attempt to hurt me. Dude had no respect for me, got off on publicly humiliating me, and had the audacity to think I would want anything to do with him after he'd lied about the cheating for three years. Not even once. That's just a vague list. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Stop dumpster diving through other women’s garbageI once knew a woman who would do this. She dated 2 of my exes...in succession. The first one made sense because she had dated him before...idk, like 2 years before we dated? Maybe 3? I don't really care to remember. Then, once they dated again for however long and I remember her admitting she had been in love with him the whole time. At the time, I just wanted to be a supportive friend. It was hard because I was worried for her despite knowing she was strong enough to handle if he cheated on her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 05:45 PM |
| 16 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…Gold digging old man is mad you didn't let him "pay you back" with marriage/sex. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 02:04 PM |
| 10 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…I know it's a little early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 02:00 PM |
| 20 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…OnlyTheAudacity2023 ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 02:00 PM |
| 11 | Y’all they want to be applauded for not cheating nowI love the obvious top comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.Considering how this guy was...I'm sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 3 | 🧽 RantI can definitely see that, but if they aren't blocked, I get these guys that are like "I still have access to you" and I feel watched and gross. At least with em blocked, I don't feel my anxiety ramp when I get notifications. Apart from the doorbell cam, I also notified the neighbors around me to keep their eye out. Some are retired veterans that I get along with. The wife of one remembers him and (of course) not liking him because she never really saw him go to work, but always saw me leaving. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 8 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.I see exactly what you mean. And I am not surprised. Like he's just going through the motions to seem romantic or whatever it is. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 02:21 AM |
| 6 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.C. Final answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 02:18 AM |
| 15 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.No idea but I am so done with closure crap. It feels like a final attempt to relatch or gage how I'm doing without him. Or some final word where he just HAS to paint himself as better than he was? As if him being toxic wasn't just as bad as his being perpetually jobless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 12:18 AM |
| 4 | 🧽 RantI still get his mail sometimes and I am pretty sure I know where he lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 3 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.It was in a bag but I wouldn't call it a gift bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 11:48 PM |
| 146 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.Basically, "Love at first sight. Upset you weren't mine. I saw you but you didn't see me. Then I got to know you more. Should have given you more time to process your last relationship. Didn't want to be a replacement but it happened anyways. Learned about emotional intelligence. Sorry for being the worst. Wish we could meet so I could apologize in person but I doubt that will happen." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 04:16 PM |
| 85 | The most effort this dude has put into anything. Block and Toss.It would have been a waste no matter what. It was all going in the trash or somewhere else anywho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 38 | 🧽 RantI ordered one and put it up shortly after this happened. Doorbell cams rock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24Of course he blames her when he could just as easily stop dating women who are clearly looking for more than "something casual". But that's not nearly as fun as leading these unsuspecting women on. Go, Molly. I hope she manages to find a way to keep ruining his "fun". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 03:19 PM |
| 15 | Ok, what to do when another girl finds out her crush has a crush on you instead of her?Yeah, he might feel he is in a good position to triangulate the two of you against one another for his ego. I too am on the "Ignore both" train. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | he wants a FWB that acts like a GF or who eventually falls in love with him. he wants the GF experience on his terms and with zero investment. how about ... no!Oh, grossss!!! I am sorry you ended up on a date with a self absorbed peen peddler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 03:00 PM |
| 5 | he wants a FWB that acts like a GF or who eventually falls in love with him. he wants the GF experience on his terms and with zero investment. how about ... no!It is his desire for his own reverse (often perverse) Hallmark experience. I never recommend auditioning for the part of FWB to "love interest". It usually just leads to being a FG. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | How are you leveling up?Got my dream car last year! In the middle of switching careers. Saving for a down-payment on a house. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Spotted one in the wild.Reading this almost lowered my credit score. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:26 AM |
| 5 | Best friend is on her way to being a forever GFThen they say they're trying whenever you dare to bring it up. 🥺 Future fakers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:24 AM |
| 4 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringI'd really rather just buy my own home. Even if I have to save for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:17 AM |
| 3 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringWasn't there an episode of Golden Girls like this? Of course the dude turned out to be trash but no one is surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Men who glorify villainsSooooo many Joker addicts...🙄😊 Glad they're all blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Happy Friday beautiful people 💖 buy your own flowersI love seeing flowers on here. It always reminds me of how my parents consistently have flowers on their dining table. My dad gets her flowers often. I see a lovely yard in the background! Happy to see another woman doing so well for herself. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:07 AM |
| 8 | 💯It's stuff like this that encourages men to take on that "edgelord" persona and keep to it. You see a lot of it in high school and too many cling to it after. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:02 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??This sounds like something an ex of mine would post, except this was written better... He called me a "girl" too. I was in my early 20's when I dumped him for good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:00 AM |
| 11 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??They want us to be grateful for the bare minimum. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Men when they say "it's so sad when women don't want to date and live a little! Men and women need each other because of their differences!"You know what? I live in America, you know, the melting pot? We pride ourselves on that but what we all truly tend to celebrate and talk nonstop about are.... Our similarities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:44 AM |
| 16 | It's deplorable that men call women crazy when they behave in a way that isn't subservient or "nice". A woman's actions (this doesn't excuse destructive/bad behavior) are usually a direct result of abusive, controlling, or manipulative behavior. Why aren't men called crazy for their wrongdoings?Or she "never tried to trust him" she was just "so insecure". I even listened to a radio thing where this guy tried to play dumb after he got caught cheating on the air. Then it was "have you been following me" and stuff like that before she just told him to stop changing the subject and that she was done. Gods, to think she was going to propose to HIM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:28 AM |
| 125 | I’m begging...please! End the cultural idea that husbands are an extra little kid women have to drag along and care for - if he’s not making your life easier/better, drop him off at this “day care” and never pick him up again.You just KNOW a man started this business and has a bunch of women working for him that he doesn't pay enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 38 | Her Husband Slept With Her Mother. For Decades.An ex of mine would have definitely tried to sleep with my mom if she let him. He would regularly tell me she was "hot". Glad my mom doesn't think younger men her daughter dated are fair game. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)Nvm. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 2 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)Oh, do I have to start all over again because it's been a while since I've been on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 6 | I've been seeing so many posts and comments of you ladies speaking about celebrating dumping LVM and I thought you would enjoy this! Truly, breaking up with a trash man isn't the end, it's the beginning. It's freedom and happiness! You've got a beautiful life ahead of you now! Celebrate it Queens!💕Idk but I think he responded on Twitter? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Don't wait for a "Special Day" to do or wear something...Yesss!!! That sounds so fun! I bought some new make up recently and love the idea of playing with highlighter colors. Still definitely working on my eyeliner skills but creative makeup is so great! Back when I was in college, I was like this a little. I didn't do face makeup yet but was super into eye and lip colors. I remember using a small angled brush and carefully making my fave lip colors into pretty little matte wings. I will get into this again! 😊 Next day off, I am playing in makeup. Any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:27 PM |
| 43 | I've been seeing so many posts and comments of you ladies speaking about celebrating dumping LVM and I thought you would enjoy this! Truly, breaking up with a trash man isn't the end, it's the beginning. It's freedom and happiness! You've got a beautiful life ahead of you now! Celebrate it Queens!💕I love seeing this every time!!! I find it even more hilarious when he responds (or seems to) and his response shows he is hurt by it. Sorry, not sorry, TC, but you cannot fake that level of joy. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 79 | LVM are not a prize, they are the pipeline to women's poverty. Financial, social, physical, mental, spiritual and generational poverty.The terrible thing about "50/50", the engagement ringpop, unemployable house boyfriends, and all other "low maintenance" nonsense is that the more ambitious and empathetic you are, the more likely it is to ruin your life. 🤮🤮🤮 This section of your comment jabbed at me so hard I think it punctured my left lung. I'm afraid to see who else here has been "proposed" to by someone who has ended up a kept man when they aren't even attractive enough to be a kept man. 🙄 Perpetually unemployed manchildren … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 04:01 PM |
| 211 | Gaslighting, manipulation and mental abuse in 60 seconds. How much do we bet that he also expects his girlfriends to pay for his food and calls her ride or die when she forgives his cheating?What even IS that facial hair pattern? It is heinous! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:42 PM |
| 12 | Husband "doesn't remember" raping his wife, he's hurt that she tries to work through the trauma in therapy... I really hope she leavesTime to get a better therapist. 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Who knew it was so easy to vet a guy by simply insisting he be responsible for making plans?Oh! Gotcha. 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:35 AM |
| 7 | What’s the worst neg you got?From one "well endowed short girl who played cool girl pickme to gross men for too long" to another... I definitely get it. I really should have opened with that. I had an ex who would say things like that (sometimes in public)and I got angry for you. I know we throw around the "Did you date my ex?" Question a lot, but damn if that doesn't sound like the guy I was with for 5 yrs. 🤮 I am so glad you found FDS too. 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Who knew it was so easy to vet a guy by simply insisting he be responsible for making plans?Hey! Thanks! Same. 😃 Is it a reference to Il Corago by chance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:40 AM |
| 9 | Who knew it was so easy to vet a guy by simply insisting he be responsible for making plans?He probably tried. 🤣 Instead, I learned of a great place to treat my mom to.🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:31 AM |
| 15 | Who knew it was so easy to vet a guy by simply insisting he be responsible for making plans?I went on a date with a guyfriend after a breakup years ago and it was WONDERFUL and super fun. We went to this fancy fondue place (he paid, of course), and then to an old school type arcade and played so much air hockey my arms were sore the next day (again, he paid for all of it). Nothing came of it because he was like a decade older than me, not my type, and I didn't like the way he talked to me (later I discovered it was because he was talking down to me like I was one of his daughters). I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:21 AM |
| 7 | Don’t dwell on something that didn’t even benefit you!I almost burned myself out because of a NVM. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:14 AM |
| 8 | What’s the worst neg you got?I would have stopped midway and kicked him the hell out. Sorry he was ever a part of your life. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 10 | Throw away the whole man.Fucking socks!? Too much time/effort/money to replace? They wouldn't if he hadn't gotten rid of them. Toss that trash out and get more socks. How self centered and inconsiderate can one man be?🤬 Don't answer that btw. Subs like that answer it...it just angers me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Exclusive but not in a relationship...seems like not a good ideaShe should get away from that crap and then get checked asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:38 AM |
| 9 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.OMG!!! I did a double take! You're right!!! Why tf would they do that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 9 | Joking “insults” are still insults and reveal an LVM. Name calling is never ok.🤮🤮🤮 Mega deal breaker because I knew a guy like this and he was sooooo gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 45 | Found this on Twitter and felt it in the gut!Who they go 50/50 with. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 31 | Of course, everyone is telling her to coMmUniCaTe. If a woman did this, she'd be called a gold diggerHe would probably marry her just for this. She would have to find a decent lawyer for the divorce so she doesn't end up with even half of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 12 | Think long and hard before dating a gamer😂😂Seconded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 8 | Think long and hard before dating a gamer😂😂Like BO, feet, and unwashed ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:51 PM |
| 16 | Think long and hard before dating a gamer😂😂Kids? They'll talk shit to their own adult friends and say its because they suck at the game. 🙄 Usually, I have noticed they're just salty they aren't always winning at the only thing they put any effort into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 2 | I stopped being his mom and it pushed me to end the relationship.That's a relief. 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:57 PM |
| 15 | I stopped being his mom and it pushed me to end the relationship.Gods, he stopped taking it out on you, then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:03 AM |
| 318 | I stopped being his mom and it pushed me to end the relationship."I didn't wake him up..." Oh, gods. The more I am on here, the more I often remember more shitty stuff my ex did. He used to have an alarm and he was hard to wake up, in general, and cranky af when he did actually wake up. I left him sleeping in my car before because he wouldn't wake tf up. This would annoy him. I am no one's alarm. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:07 PM |
| 76 | Whyyy...I don't even want to know what the options are for this depraved scenario.Yeah... these types of mobile game ads are generally all 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:42 PM |
| 5 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+668 subscribers today; 324% trend score)That was hard to watch. 😰 Ugh, and I read that too. 🤮 You know it’s the truth that as women we live in a world that goes beyond satire. The hardest part of all of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:21 PM |
| 5 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+668 subscribers today; 324% trend score)I had a feeling. 😅 Edit: No need to apologize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 9 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts."You don't know anything about us or how our ReLAtIoNsHiP works."🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 08:11 PM |
| 9 | MEN WANT DEBT FREE VIRGINS!11 Nah, they want anyone they can control.Because "n0 GoLD dIggErSss." 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever been too embarrassed to accept your man is an LVM? Share your experienceYup. Dated n/lvm and it was embarrassing. Shitty men are embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 8 | NAH sis 🤢🤢🤢This! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 6 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+668 subscribers today; 324% trend score)You've probably explained this before and many a time...but why are you still with this man? Is he really a great dad or was that sarcasm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 6 | I went from this to living a much better life almost instantly.Oh, I have been. 🥰 Been pampering my cats and myself. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | #KickHimOut2020 happens in 2.5 hours.Which one? A lot of other subs hate FDS on here. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 3 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?This was almost me and we weren't even married. Stomach bug (he didn't wait like he was supposed to and probably seriously damaged his digestive system), strained chest, and terrible dental hygeine. His medical began during our relationship with the only issue starting before it being his gross dental issues. 🤮 Never again. Last time I saw the bill feels like forever ago, but I still remember it was like 1400. Few insurance companies here seem to cover emergency walk-ins or whatever. This was ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Friend and I are going to have a distanced Xmas and watch movies together over a streaming app. Any good recommendations for movies that feature awesome women?Oh I LOVED that movie!! 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 3 | What are our thoughts on social media?My SM once said I was single...I should have listened to it then. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:47 PM |
| 34 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationI wouldn't be surprised if this was someone's experience with my ex. Small tool he didn't know how to use, PSLD, needed reminders for showers/cleaninf himself, masturbated multiple times a day, first time had tons of foreplay but it still sucked. I didn't know anyone could suck at oral so bad. I stayed and the foreplay dropped like my physical attraction to him after he basically told me he was too depressed to get a job. Then he'd get upset and throw a tantrum when I didn't want to fuck.🙄 Three… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:29 PM |
| 3 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.Omg! I JUST posted this. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 4 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.... Al Bundy, is that you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:38 AM |
| 11 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.Make him go down the stairs before you and don't tell him why when he asks (he fucking knows). Then look into a great divorce lawyer. That's your life and the life of your unborn child. She should also document every single account of him "jokingly" pushing her down the stairs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:34 AM |
| 29 | Thankfully all the comments said he was in fact the a**hole🤣🤣🤣🤣 I doubt it if she's having 2nd thoughts about marrying him. Hopefully, she is starting to see all of his flaws in him since he brought up this thing that he absolutely had to find to try and make her feel less confident in herself. He is intimidated by her. I bet she is gorgeous, especially when compared to him. Edit: added words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:38 AM |
| 50 | Don’t be a second: when guys want to settle down and contact you. Because THEY’RE ready.Had a guyfriend from fucking middle school msg me a couple months ago, after I wished him a happy birthday. He wanted to meet up so bad for "food" like lunch or dinner. Twin girls and recently divorced. I mentioned therapy and he said he "just needed friends". Had a crush on him over a decade ago, now IDGAF about meeting him. Get therapy. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 21 | Straight from a man’s mouth about excessive masturbation and penis sizeNah, they'll just use that to demonize us more. We're better than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 28 | Yet Another Reason Not to Share Your Rape Story with a ManPorn sick limp dick. The lot of em. Quora...ugh, used to have more faith. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 43 | Thanks for the warningGood for you! 😃 I wish I had this warning with my first 2 exes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | imagine referring to women as a different ‘race’ as the only thing you say in your OLD bioMen would rush over to tell her how she needs to lower her standards because xyx. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Cheating & murder- The number of pregnant women being killed by their husbands and boyfriends so that they can be with their mistresses 🤮Ah, the yes. Woman on a Train was a great example of this. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Today it's been 1 year since I decided to break up with my toxic LVM exCongratulations and Happy Drop Anniversary!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:25 AM |
| 22 | His wife is battling breast cancer, is opting for a mastectomy, and he’s upset because he prefers her natural breasts. Mods want to KeEp AlL cOmMeNtS cIvIL. HOW IS THIS EVEN A THOUGHT IN YOUR MIND?!"But muh penis need real B00bi3s for get hard." 🙄 "I want MY opinion to matter even though my wife is going through something I KNOW is jarring and traumatizing."🙄🤬 Another older man who sucks and feels the need to tell the whole of reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:18 AM |
| 3 | SO sick of seeing this bullshit at this time of year. It takes a couple of YouTube tutorials to teach yourself and actually put in some effort for your loved ones.One of the places I shop at has a giftwrap option for a lil extra and I tend to take that because I suck at wrapping and its exciting to see what wrapping paper they used. 🤣 I sometimes do this when gifting myself stuff too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 34 | Even when in a happy relationship they want to ruin things. This is disgusting, can't help but feel sorry for her.Exactly. Then they say she was horrible and gave up or whatever. 🙄 She seems happy and doesn't want other men, so he must be "amazing". Maybe he can get away with sharing his love with another and call himself "ethically nonmonogamous".🤮 The other side of the same LVM wanna be community dick coin. Their pride, their dicks, and themselves above everything else (especially women). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 02:52 AM |
| 8 | He needs to subvocalize. All this hollering will come to naught.I bet dildos have more husband skills than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 2 | My Ex-Friend Is Engaged to a LVMOh...oh no. 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 01:12 AM |
| 2 | I met this scrote SIX years ago while on a trip to Korea (before moving). He has blocked and unblocked me multiple times, belittle me after I (stupidly) told him about past trauma, and told me he would f*ck but not date me. Created to send future message from him straight to trash where he belongs.Jesus!!🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 181 | Even when in a happy relationship they want to ruin things. This is disgusting, can't help but feel sorry for her."I married this great woman and now I want to see what other great women will sleep with me." He doesn't love her, he just doesn't want to be called the bad guy. 🙄 Guys like this don't typically divorce their wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys demand you tell them why you rejected them?If you say “I’m not in the right headspace/ have too much going on” in an attempt to again let them down gently, they will try and “support” you (with their dick cough). LOL like anyone's dick is big enough to support a woman. 🤣 That killed me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Just casually cutting men off before meeting themHappy cake day!!!😃😃😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I keep coming back to the anger in my stages of GriefI always recommend burning such letters afterwards. Its a little soothing to watch the fire destroy it. That or you can go back to that paper anytime to remind yourself why it ended and that you have a right to be angry. We never let a man know how much he hurt or affected our lives. They like that shit too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 07:43 AM |
| 5 | Lady Justice is a woman but so are the FuriesThe Moirai/Fates are all women too. Probably irrelevant but even Zeus feared them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:12 AM |
| 3 | I FINALLY BROKE UP WITH MY EX!!!!I recommend this and want to add that anytime you feel the urge to talk to him, write it down on paper instead and burn it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:49 AM |
| 3 | So true, why do old creeps always have 3 out of 4 of theseAll this is missing are the slightly too short/tight shorts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | The urethra and clitoris are very different body parts. If she says it doesn't feel good dont double down act like you know better.I have been told that shaving your pubes isn't that healthy for you overall because it makes you more suceptible to bad bacterias and so on. If you must, though, they said to use baby oil or something else...it was on Twitter. Forgot her name. Coconut oil is good for shaving underarms and so on, if you want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?Beautiful. 🥰 Happy for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?We will all be here for you when you do. Will there be an issue getting him out of the house/apartment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?Oh gods, yes. My last bf was a porn addicted gamerboi who wanted kids but not a job (I refused, of course, because childfree). He could barely be bothered to take the trash out, lied a lot, and I wound up doing most of the housework while working 60+ hrs. I talk about that life 🧽 a lot in my comments and stuff. 🤮 He tried telling me what to do every now and then too and I would just stare at him like "You want to say that again, you brokeass mf?" It doesn't matter where you are in life, do not s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:23 PM |
| 3 | I’m not a child who is incapable of making decisions 🙄Oh! Thank you! 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:22 AM |
| 30 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male...Probably written by a man who is also a rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:28 AM |
| 2 | I’m not a child who is incapable of making decisions 🙄Probably Match? Looked like match. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:22 AM |
| 55 | This is what they really think of you.My ex once reached over me while we were having sex and got a handful of cereal (there was a box tucked in at the head of the mattress). Played it off like it was nothing, so it made me question if it was okay. Never again. Water breaks only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:19 AM |
| 5 | That’s a pretty low bar for ‘relationship goals’. And they say women are gold diggers.Who even is he?! I am really out of the loop with celebs and stuff, but I know who Simone Biles is. Really sad for her rn. She deserves so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:11 AM |
| 9 | Two years ago I joined Reddit bc of a shitty guy, but I found y’all so it’s all worth itI too was brought to reddit by a NV ex. I found this sub shortly after finally kicking him out towards the end of 2019. Welcome to FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 110 | Do not let him gaslight you! You're not crazy, it's your intuition saying something's up, follow it.That's how they monkey branch. Idk which lovely lady it was on here, but one once said that men invented it. And men don't usually leave unless they have found someone they consider "better". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 31 | Even Dear Abby gets it!Step 1. Make him get a heater. Step 2. Kick him out anyway. Step 3. Live your best life without that shmuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Maybe he’s trying to do her a favor by kicking himself out of her life so she can move on to better things...Absolutely terrifying but easy enough to decipher. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:57 AM |
| 10 | That’s what you get for dating someone your kid’s age.Could have been used for his ex gf? Lines up with her age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever experience having disturbance in your monthly cycles with you were with an LVM/NVM?Actually, I found out he hasn't. It was funny because a friend of mine was describing a friend of her's FWB relationship thing some months back and telling me about this stupid guy who made a racist joke when they were at the mall (my friend straight up told him he wasn't funny) about another girl. She found him on fb to confirm and he looked worse. 🤣 Like he had massive struggle Merlin going and he looked 40 instead of 30. Thankfully, her friend dropped him easily when the pandemic got worse an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 8 | Maybe he’s trying to do her a favor by kicking himself out of her life so she can move on to better things...A little after my first sexual partner, I would have dreams that my ex was with me in the back of a van friends were driving and he was mlesting/rping me. 😐 So, I get it. Damn. Shortly after my most recent ex, I dreamt that he came over with his new gf and tried to move back in (with her too this time) because he had eaten her out of house and home. 🤣 Edited for symbols/censor fixes. Gave up. Idk what I am doing wrong but I have since learned how to bold words and letters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever experience having disturbance in your monthly cycles with you were with an LVM/NVM?He was my first and even after all the partners he had he was still grossed out by me bleeding. (🤮) Maybe if he was actually good at sex and foreplay, I wouldn't have bled at all. 🤔🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever experience having disturbance in your monthly cycles with you were with an LVM/NVM?I already have a rather inconsistent period, but my first "partner" was the worst. 🙄 So much stress over someone so toxic and gross. Sleep problems, memory problems, and when my period seemed later than usual (thankfully after he dumped me), I freaked. Starting the bleeding part was replaced with 3 mornings of what seemed like morning sickness. I was horrified. He said he would help if I was really pregnant, but it just made me never want to be anywhere near him. That man? The father of a child … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 6 | A solid checklist ✅Two more just tried to comment on my first comment...almost like they're proving our point. 🤷♀️ Telling on themselves. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:48 PM |
| 16 | A solid checklist ✅Yet their feefees and orgasm are our responsibility. Lol!!! Miss with that BS!! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:29 AM |
| 14 | Handled it like a Queen. Backstory: he disappeared from the dentist without paying for the services in purpose. Realized there were more than that in his character flaw and kicked him to the curb.Yes! I hope she gets them coins. They could help her feel better about buying that thing for him in the first place.🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:27 AM |
| 38 | A solid checklist ✅No idea. Just saw there were no comments visible yet comments said 4 comments were there. 9/10 here if you see the comments not match up with how many it says are here, its men who attempted to comment and got deleted. 🤣 Its hilarious if a lil sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:25 AM |
| 2 | How many of you have been in sexually coercive situations/relationships? For me it's been pretty much 90% of men I've dated. And it's haunting me to this dayYup. Last one was the worst. 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:22 AM |
| 68 | A solid checklist ✅2 hrs out and 4 men have already tried complain commenting on this. 🤣 Why not just get a life and stop being so boring and intrusive where you obviously don't belong? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:42 AM |
| 46 | Handled it like a Queen. Backstory: he disappeared from the dentist without paying for the services in purpose. Realized there were more than that in his character flaw and kicked him to the curb.Honestly, with how in demand it is rn, I wouldn't be surprised if she has already managed to sell it for full price. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:39 AM |
| 2 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSI can definitely see that being the case. 🤔 For both the marrying thing and Joey/Rachel seeming forced (for plot purposes and Ross character purposes). I haven't watched it in a long time, but the characters all felt rather 2D. fuckboys generally never change Exactly why I said his was temporary. At the time, I wanted Joey to do more than seem legit. I was beyond sick of Ross consistently disappointing a woman he claimed to love. Also, I had a thing for the idea of the "changed fuckboi". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 5 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSRoss or Joey? If ross, I agree but I think it was just a part of why he wanted to marry her. He saw marrying/being with her as him owning her. He didn't actually gaf about her happiness or feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 26 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSI don't think ross really loved rachel, he just wanted to own her. Joey probably loved her more. It was temporary but it felt like he did some growing when he tried to date her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOOYou're* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:31 AM |
| 11 | Spend money on your car, not men. Your life may depend on it....I was gifted a tire iron recently by someone who had a spare. Love that thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:24 AM |
| 23 | They say polyamory but they just mean cheating"Sure, hunny. Right after we get a divorce. I assume, since you only want to sleep with her that you have no interest in raising our children anymore so I am more than alright taking custody and your child support money." And then you stick with it even after he tries to backpedal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 12 | The comments on this are so sad...I use mine for my cats and the business I used to promote with a friend. Now, it is again mostly my cats. 🤣 I follow art, animal pages, and goth stores. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 233 | Which of you saved this girl?I almost bought one of my exes a very nice shirt for 100 dollars. As luck would have it, that shirt was actually out of stock and they msgd me about it. I never bought it and didn't really see another I liked. He cheated. 🙄 Found out much later, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:59 AM |
| 6 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?"Then motivate me." While I was breaking up with him (one of the reasons being he was too unmotivated). It just pissed me off. I worked two jobs/60+ hrs a week and he couldn't be bothered to actively try to get even one. Let alone his GED. 🙄 So, in my last ditch effort to motivate him, I kicked him out. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Does he? Dang. My bad. 🤦♀️ I didn't see anything about a wife and just assumed. Now, there is a chance that he just made what they wanted him to. 🤔🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Just got divorced today.If he isn't bringing in some kind of taxable income after 8 wks, I'm out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:50 PM |
| 11 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Anytime. 😊 That was the meaning I saw some years back, when I was researching flower meanings and getting into poisonous plants. It seems to have been updated when I did a lazy search but the result is still fitting: "The amaryllis commonly means determination, beauty, and love. The Victorians associated amaryllis with strength and determination because of their height and sturdiness. Amaryllis can also mean success, and are commonly given as gifts of hard-won achievement. Amaryllis is a Greek f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Sex with a NarcissistAfter awhile of dating this guy too soon after dumping an ex, I didn't see how bad the sex was from the getgo. He liked me so much and I had a hard time seeing past that at the time. He told me he was a narcissist and I should have listened. I could swear the handbook wrote him almost word for word in an example. 🤦♀️🤣 Its what really hooked me. He was pornsick, small dicked, too rough, perpetually unemployed, manipulative, self pitying, stopped giving me head after while of us dating (still exp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:20 PM |
| 8 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...What a weird way to show how you live and that you've never been in a single woman's home in one cover. For those who are unsure about the name, its a dude. He makes covers for the NY frequently and he is best known for creating comics. Surprise surprise, I see nothing about him having a wife and I didn't care to look long enough to see if he even had a gf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:53 PM |
| 22 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...It's in a renovated mansion that is made into a apartment complex and looks legit like a hotel with the ensuite bathroom, wooden floor, black and green kitchen and marble going on. This whole sentence is so aesthetic.😍 Edited to say: Congrats on the move!! Amarylis flowers mean "pride", right? You have much to be proud of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Just a week ago, I would have JUMPED at my recently seperated husband offering to take me somewhere because it meant I got to see him. Last night I couldn't be arsed seeing him even if I did need him to drive me to the hospital. It was him telling me my lips looked good before offering help....Just read this and then your comment about your BPD. You're making amazing progress!! ✌😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 37 | Did you know that "aftercare" was a thing with BDSM?Many years ago, I was in a LTR with a guy who said he needed these "sessions". They were for him and I was a temporary femdom for him. Aftercare every time. He explained it to me and all that. Classically, I was better at the aftercare than the femdom thing because I didn't like hurting him. Then, one day, I asked him if he thought about switching things up (he was a sub, typically). His answer, which I will not repeat, disgusted me. He told me what he wanted to do to me and I should have dumped… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 5 | I feel like a lot of us have been here- never again.Yup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Asking for men to pull their weight is MaNiPuLaTiOn🤣 I was being general but that certainly works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:05 PM |
| 27 | Asking for men to pull their weight is MaNiPuLaTiOnThis sounds a lot like a former friend of mine, but her boy is older, she has a job, and the man is her husband. 🙄 I hope they both leave these useless polyps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:24 AM |
| 7 | Holidays make it easy to spot LVM. Thank goodness my pick me days of cooking a full thanksgiving meal so a LVM can drink, watch football, and nap are over.Probably not used to being called out on his shit. 🙄 Jeez... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Holidays make it easy to spot LVM. Thank goodness my pick me days of cooking a full thanksgiving meal so a LVM can drink, watch football, and nap are over.Are you serious?! I am so sorry. 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 05:54 PM |
| 7 | I cancelled a ‘date’ last minute. It was the right thing to doHad a guyfriend msg me on his birthday after I sent him the usual short "Happy Birthday!" thing on fb. It'd been...junior high when we last really talked or saw one another. I'm 27. It was the usual "friend on fb but don't We talked for like two days before he said we should catch up in person, which I didn't feel was necessary, so I suggested coffee. Its like he thinks true catching up is only done in person. He is a little older than me with twin girls and an ex wife he says isn't "mentally st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 05:19 PM |
| 10 | Boyfriend doesn’t like when tables turn on him and he doesn’t get to finish after months of not caring if his girlfriend does! Also confused why it’s considered a high standard for her to expect him to want her to enjoy sex too?I hope she dumps this loser. She has already let him have too many chances to disappoint her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:16 PM |
| 18 | 41 y.o. husband and father is upset his wife no longer wants him to spend several nights a week partying with friends now that they’re married with a childIf she leaves, she'll probably have the kid and the house. Especially, if she works. Then she will be a young homeowner. He probably couldn't have had the house without her credit anyways. 🤔 He probably married her, not only because he is gross but because he figured she would be easier to manipulate and more likely to support him being gone most of the time. 🙄 He is in denial that he is and has always been boring. He wants to show off his much younger wife like a trophy to his friends instead o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:05 PM |
| 7 | Saw this on dank memes and laughed cuz they do be useless thoYou can only expect so much from a show starring a woman but created by men. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:43 PM |
| 3 | My friend’s reflection one month after kicking a compulsively lying LVM to the curb 👑Same! I love working and move forward in life, and there is no baby carrier big enough to fit a whole ass man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:24 PM |
| 14 | When men act clueless it’s because they want you to chase HIMStarting a conversation with a guy like this on a dating app is like asking for a back ache because you will be carrying the conversation any and every time. Good on OP for saving her time/energy and blocking this shmuck. 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | A HVM will always support you! 💕🌺Yup. When you screenshot or get pics of actions, it almost always feels staged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:52 PM |
| 5 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMFucking leave him and take half his shit. Sometimes its "post nut clarity" and other times its post marital clarity...while you're pregnant with this asshole's child. Girl, get out of there! Dudes like that don't help with child rearing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:51 PM |
| 8 | If a man and his wife makes approximately the same money and no kids in the picture, what would be expected from a husband in terms of providing?Ladies, if he doesn't respect your chocolate/wine/whatever stash, get rid of him! There's no excuse to have absolutely no self control like that. If anything, he should add to your stash now and again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:55 PM |
| 14 | They think this is an accomplishment.I have legit almost fallen asleep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | When men are trying to be against porn for the wrong reason.Who tried to order Hugh Jackman off Wish? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 5 | I am in need of help amd supportDon't do it! You're stronger than that!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisWhat uncanny sportsmanship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisI have a feeling there were a lot of angry lurkers. XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:33 PM |
| 3 | People really think "communication" is going to help herHe's 30. He is doing it on purpose. He won't change. Kick him out yesterday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | A pickmeisha lesson: LVM are expensive.Put a 1 in front of that and that was about how much my 3 yr relationship with my ex cost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:49 PM |
| 3 | what are you proud of?Being productive can often scrub away the emotional dirt LV/NVM try to leave behind. Congrats!😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | what are you proud of?Writing has gotten me through a lot!! You got this!! Congrats on your Masters!!😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:04 AM |
| 3 | She took out a 300k loan for her boyfriend of 5 years— he disappeared. i-I....Damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 90 | So thoughtful 🥰That emoji is laughing at women who actually think that "You up?" text is thoughtful. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 26 | Shoutout to the bare minimum! ✌️I will always remember the saying "The road to Hell was paved with good intention." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Probably one of the most thoughtless gifts to be given, and absolutely rampant around the holiday season. No thank you! ✋The last time I picked up groceries, I saw the spot for these with about 5 boxes like this left and one was opened. 😰 I thought they were cute but instantly felt off about getting them myself. I have friends who adore make up samples and the sort but this felt juvenile. Then I came home and saw this on my FB feed and then here. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:02 AM |
| 10 | I bet Clint’s WIFE doesn’t even know she’s in a non-monogamous relationship.God forbid her life be easier without him. She should totally allow him this much. If anything, he should open his marriage with her actually knowing and consenting, so he can see her having a better life without him while he consistently ends up left at home with the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:41 AM |
| 26 | This would have saved me so much time.I might as well have used it in previous relationships, but I typically just typed it alllll out. 🤣 Don't be too hard on yourself. You are constantly moving forward. The steps to doing so can be as small as deleting crap off your phone.😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 37 | No if’s, and’s or but’s. Porn causes mental illness. Period.That bowl looked bomb until I read "Chokwit ice cream". Shudders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:16 AM |
| 65 | This would have saved me so much time.It took me a minute because I don't use my notes app. 🤦♀️ But this is gold!🤣 Great advice!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 16 | I bet Clint’s WIFE doesn’t even know she’s in a non-monogamous relationship.I swear we have seen Clint on here before but it may just be that there are LV trash OLD gamer boys playing EM visiting for a roast semi regularly. Divorce your wife and give her half your shit and the house. After a while of being "second home gamer dad", they'll see how little you contribute to anyone's life. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 31 | I think the f*ck notAnd if he is super classy, he'll whine about you never being in the mood anymore and probably accuse you of cheating. 🙄 After consistently guilting you into maintenance sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:14 PM |
| 80 | I think the f*ck notAs someone who dated a couch creature, it doesn't work. It isn't even remotely worth it. Even if you decide to fork out the effort to raise them like a child with extra steps(arrange their appointments, buy them what they need/want, teach them every week how to do basic personal care and chores, sleep with them even though the sex is bad, etc)...🤮🤮🤮 All that effort could have been put into something more practical. Basically, anything else. Even if they don't leave, they have no respect or love … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | what are you proud of?I read your story! Omg! You are consistently leveling up and it is so inspiring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | what are you proud of?You too!!! We got this! 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 04:34 PM |
| 29 | what are you proud of?I've had my own space for a lil over two years now and it is finally starting to show more of me. It took kicking out a 🧽 to start it up. I have 3 indoor cats I can give a good life to. This was the year I was able to move from 2 jobs to one job and I didn't think I could do that for another 3 years minimum. It happened at the end of Feb. As of yesterday, I completed therapy for a while. Now to keep up with my coping exercises and mental mantras. 🥰 Mom gave me a sewing machine, so I plan to star… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:47 AM |
| 173 | How To Shut Down Woke Bros Who Think Women Exercising our FREE SEXUAL CHOICE is a hate crimeHe thinks dick has value. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:31 AM |
| 112 | If this ain’t the truth 😂 Love this generation of women lovingly giving pickme’s a reality checkThis post couldn't be up for 30 minutes before some dude had to try to bash it. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:53 AM |
| 7 | Thank youIf its full of the essentials, it can add up quick. Her go tos could be in there. Also, congrats, OP. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:41 AM |
| 9 | Thank youDid you get your make up bag back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | How to leave when you don't have a "good" reason?Please update us when you can. The time after a break up is the most dangerous for women. You said he has some anger issues and that is all it takes. :/ Even if he actually is working on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:35 AM |
| 11 | A discussion on how to deal with the pickmeishas we interact with in every day lifeI can't relate to women like that anymore. I want to learn skills and keep up with them outside of my relationship. You are supposed to grow with your partner as individuals, not let one consume the other and have that be your joint personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:25 AM |
| 35 | LVM on OLD... seriously, this is the garbage we have to sift through with online dating. Recommendation... just don’t...Can confirm. Dated a guy when I was 18, who said he never lied unless he was angry and, let me tell you...complete prick. With anger issues to boot. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:20 AM |
| 34 | FDS Answers To QuestionsMy answer to that is living in a villa I inherited from a man who loved me deeply, but had a tragic death on his way home from work, a work from home set up, the ability to sew all my clothes, and a gothic wardrobe that never seems to end. Don't worry. I have so many cats to comfort me. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:04 AM |
| 19 | This is an AD I always see for Hinge (OLD). Hinge is showcasing, encouraging, and promoting LVM behavior. Stay away queens.Then he will carry that shit into every relationship after that, saying he just "never managed to get over her" in order to triangulate the new girl into staying and putting up with him. 🙄 It'll be worse if they meet on Hinge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:44 PM |
| 12 | Scrote trying to move in with HVW.She cut him off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:02 AM |
| 9 | How are some women so accommodating to men who literally don't change their underwear?I have gotten UTIs from men I dated and the last was the worst. 🤮 I have an implant based BC and they recommend you wait 2 weeks minimum to have sex after insertion. Not just for recovery purposes but because you are more likely to get infections if you don't wait. Had to get mine changed because it expired. Nbd, right? Wrong. I was a pickme and the guy was a NVM. Sex after a week or week and a half was painful af and I got a UTI. Yeah, I made the choice to sleep with him, but I read that articl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 3 | “I didn’t know what you meant”Ewwwwww. 🤮🤮🤮🤮 You basically saved his life, probably. He'll find another way to gross himself into an early grave. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:51 AM |
| 12 | “I didn’t know what you meant”Sticking out of a hole made for it, making the cling wrap useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:10 AM |
| 88 | He invited me on a 4 day trip. Thanks to you ladies I said no and held my ground. This is his response. How dare I assume!"i'M dIffEReNT." 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:30 PM |
| 32 | Heard by my senior at work: Men don’t leave unless they already have another women waitingOr unless they think they do. When I was 18, I dated this sleazy POS for a few months. I got sick of him after that and dumped bs baggage on him so he would drop me. Success. All the way up until how we were still FB friends. Dude was on/off with this woman for YEARS. Idk the deets, I just remember that he had been trying to meet up with her and get closure. He was sooooo sure this woman would want him back. 😂 She was a hardworking lady who made herself very busy so as to not meet up with the gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:27 PM |
| 12 | Ladies it’s never good to be a “live in mommy” for your man 👏🏽 Don’t fall for it!I always imagine her going to reddit to get reinforced to keep him. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Ladies it’s never good to be a “live in mommy” for your man 👏🏽 Don’t fall for it!I just saw Big Bird on his shirt. I CAN'T. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:50 PM |
| 36 | “I didn’t know what you meant”They got the pic a lil wrong. Most men wouldn't use a lid and/or would put that stick wrap stuff on it...and use too much. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 26 | “I didn’t know what you meant”Gods, rice cooker horror story flashbacks. 🤢🤮 I had two rice cookers. One I bought and one my parents gave me when I moved out. NVX used to make rice and forget to tell me. He would also "forget" to clean it. Guess who got stuck with that?🤮 So, when I kicked him out, I gifted him the most recently used gross one. 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Don't let these men use you!Oh yeah! An eldergoth friend really helped me see what a life blockage he was. 🥰💜🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Don't let these men use you!No worries. I kicked him out before he could do any more damage to me financially...or completely total my car. 🙄🤦♀️🤷♀️ It gave me financial anxiety but I have since almost completely recovered (thank to therapy). It is much easier to talk about now and I am making as much or a little more with one FT job than I was making before with two (An FT and the other PT). 🥰 He had so little appeal (once you rip off the rosy glasses, all NVM do), it took me longer to stop reeling from who he moved in w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:30 PM |
| 14 | Don't let these men use you!When I started dating my ex, he had a well paying job. That ended a few months or so in and I found out he hadn't saved up much to help him look for another. No diploma. No GED. A guyfriend helped him get that job, but when he asked for better work in the company, they stopped calling him. No drivers license at the time either. 🙄 His friend drove them. I was with this guy for three years and the only other job he got was four hrs a day, five days a wk, and within his dad's company. He had that j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 78 | 30 something BUYS A HOUSE with 18 year old then "Pushes her out"Everything diggers. When the man in your life is that much older than you, chances are high he is preying on anything and everything you might give him. And what you won't, he will try to manipulate/abuse out of you. Hoping that child gets her house back. She might not be able to reach him but she can reach a lawyer. By this point, she is learning early. She was willing to share this place with him and look what happened. This "man" should be ashamed of himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | maybe its considered creepy because this man is 11 years older than her ? if he is so successful & in his prime (🤣) why don't you shoot your shot limpdick?He for sure ain’t in his prime, he is in decline lol. Where are our embroidery queens? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | PSA: You don't owe any man anything for any reason.Yes!!!! Recently had a childhood guyfriend "try" to plan a catch up dinner with me. I didn't respond how he wanted and he straight up hit me with the "K" and didn't text me until the day I mentioned having my soonest possible free day. About two weeks later... "Hey." Like he was going to plan it day of or get me to do it. Yeah, I know. 🤣 Oh, you aren't mad at me anymore? Done "punishing" me? That's nice. 🙄 Block. This divorcee, (possible) child regretting, travel scrote thinks I still gaf about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Hot tip: If his idea of "being a good dad" is microwaving chicken nuggets, do not procreate with him. The bar is literally on the ground.Yeah, and she did it because she knew he would clean it wrong on purpose and she doesn't want the place to set fire. 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:59 PM |
| 63 | Never Chase a ManOh gods!!! Not Olivia Wilde! 😲😭 Glad she is out of that mess now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:22 PM |
| 17 | HVM vs LVM: period editionWhat a real piece of work...🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:20 PM |
| 6 | “I know a place” 😑Oh, thank goodness. Totally missed the timeline. 😅🤦♀️ Sorry. Glad your housemates were there for you. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:24 PM |
| 5 | “I know a place” 😑Did you call a cab or something? Omg! Was he mad? 🤣 Edit: sp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:17 PM |
| 7 | “I know a place” 😑Ew! You got away from that, right?!😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | NAH, SISA lot of the time, yes. Lol most even. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Basically lying on the internet to get gullible guys to sexually harass women. How can people be so disgusting?This reads like something a first grade boy would say to his buds to impress them. 🙄🤣 How sad do you have to be to have that kind of fantasy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:06 AM |
| 8 | The cesspool of online dating is pure male delusion, really dude???How come people expect women now to make money and have a good heart, but men get to pick one and its okay? Like since when did those things become mutually exclusive? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Oooh! The mindfucking ickle bastards👿🔥!!!Same! Almost threw up reading this. Not even going to look at the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:27 AM |
| 6 | NAH, SISA good gamer bf can manage his money and his time well. You both like gaming on consoles? He'll get 2 PS5s. One for you and one for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:25 AM |
| 22 | The True Gold DiggerThat is terrifying...😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 10:14 PM |
| 27 | The True Gold DiggerInstead, it simply gave men an excuse to say "oh that sounds like hard work. You do it." This. 🙄 Oh, the flashback. "I sabotaged my only real chance to make good money without a GED. 🥺 So...instead of me getting that GED, you need to work for the both of us and quickly get famous by way of that hobby you already told me you don't want to have as more than a hobby. Then I can be your editor."- Summarized and paraphrased my NVM ex who doesn't know the first thing about editing. This 🧽 tried to pre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 10 | This man is the only HVM I will agree onA friend and former coworker once told me that sometime before prom, an asian couple came in and she GUSHED over the handmade tulle skirt we used in one of our shows. It was 100 yards of tulle in the colors black, white, and red. It would have sold sooner but the model/creator is lkke a size...2, iirc... So the girl wanted the skirt badly and straight up started to cry in the shop because her mom couldn't give her the money. The boy, without saying more than "Be right back", leaves, walks to the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 05:47 AM |
| 11 | This man is the only HVM I will agree onThat is so appealing. And they coordinate so well that it doesn't look too matchy. Good for her. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Miami Marlins hire first female GM in major North American sports (finally)They'd better be paying her bank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:18 PM |
| 39 | This man is the only HVM I will agree onIdk if this was a intentional, but he even seems to wear clothes that make her stand out when they are next to one another. Are these clips from a show/movie they are in together? In the top picture, their necklines are similarly shaped even though hers is bowed. The symmetry of them in the second picture is even more...balanced? It just feels like their chemistry is shown down to how they dress. Like his and her sleeves are rolled up on opposite arms and their shirts are both soft in color. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Married scrote can't sleep without teddy bear that plays a recording of his dead exThey dated for two months and he is dragging this shit into his marriage...for 20 years?! I get she was his best friend, but he's just using her death as a weapon, by this point.🙄 Throw the whole man away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:56 PM |
| 14 | In all my years living on this earth, I have seen only ONE marriage that I admiredThis! That isn't love or even potential, that's peer pressure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Facebook friend posted this. 🤮🤮🤮A friend told me I was almost/basically like this (when I was with my ex) and it was what really helped me kick him out. If the description of your relationship can be confused for incest, fucking run! That is absolutely repulsive. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:14 AM |
| 24 | We are not responsible for who is attracted to us. But we do need to be discerning when it comes to the kind of people we entertain and keep aroundYup. I have recently blocked a few people I was friends with due to this. One I knew for ages. :/ What's the point of being high quality if the people you let hang around you aren't willing to be on that same level with you? Not even to try...😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:11 PM |
| 9 | THE BAR IS SO LOW ITS UNDERGROUNDThis is so accurate. Glad I didn't have kids with him, though. He got his new girl for that. 🤢 Poor child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 8 | Pedophile impregnates teenager and she marries him due to lack of insurance. 🤮Ewwwww. I am so sorry. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 04:13 AM |
| 6 | ahhh, the real hystories:Thanks for this! Saved your comment!🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:22 AM |
| 14 | It’s my friend’s birthday. I got her some little gifts and I’m taking her out to a nice restaurant (that I found and picked and I will pay for our meal) She’s an amazing person and I want to make her feel special on her day 💗Of course some girls are out here doing the same thing as these scrotes but nowhere near as much as males do. It’s not even close. Exactly. Women doing this are the exception, not the rule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 23 | Reminder of why you should never settle 💖I don't believe in the "perfect person for you" thing, but I get it. As for the job...YES!!! I heard of a job that paid better than mine and had better benefits. Not only did I encourage her to take it, I jumped on that shit too. Think smart not hard. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Start glamorizing your single life like this so you don't need a manI love how her dog is in all of them. 💜 These are so aesthetic! The bath with the hanging plants and the candles. The wine night in front of the fireplace. 🥰 Sweeping and unpacking. Simply lovely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:22 AM |
| 8 | Sounds like this guy found a woman who was willing to be a bangmaid, pay all of his bills and plan his life like a toddler 🤡Sounds a lot like the lovechild of the last 2 guys I dated. Go figure. The woman sounds like an ex friend. Ugh. Just gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Beware: After years of a committed relationship, a SCROTE will decide that you were just FWB the entire time. He will play dumb and try to gaslight you. Do not believe his lies girl.Wtf...even the NVM I dated for 3 years (🤮) freaked when he saw FB had changed my relationship stat to single one time. I have heard of this though. Sounds like something an FWB I had might do, if we had continued our arrangement. 🙄🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 4 | "I only go down on women that are special to me"."I only go down on girls who have had less than 3 partners."- Lvm fuckboi "You're too wet for me to go down on you." -Same LVM fuckboi who clearly didn't care that I never got off. 🙄 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Gag.It's satire, I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:51 PM |
| 16 | have you ladies seen this? I’m laughing so hard (but also crying)His hairline is old and he looks like he cleaned up a bit for a mugshot rather than a pic for a dating app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Yikes...Big Tex over here telling on himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Yikes...Looks like pizza bites and something in the corner. No idea. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 4 | An ex hit me up to “check-in” with me and see how I am doing. Check-in for what? What am I, a fucking hotel?That's fair. 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:40 PM |
| 8 | An ex hit me up to “check-in” with me and see how I am doing. Check-in for what? What am I, a fucking hotel?Do you refer him to your lawyer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 6 | toxic men are so petty!Idk who he is. Who is he and why does he think his opinion matters? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:30 PM |
| 30 | Mr. Right vs Mr. Wrong. Feel free to add more points in the commentsHelps you as a way of just making your life easier, not just because he wants something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I cleared my school debt to qualify for a mortgage, and used the downpayment I've been saving to buy my first house in a safer area! What was something you achieved that you never expected?I was a "man builder". Unsuccessful, of course. I was doing damn near everything and ignoring how shitty my relationship was. I worked two lower paying jobs (one FT and one PT, so about 60+ hrs a week including nights) and did most of the housework while he steadily became fused to the futons (he brought them and I hated them) in my game room. I only had one full day a week off of work. I kicked him out almost a year ago now, and I work FT at one job that pays me more than I was getting from the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:33 PM |
| 13 | Came across this today and thought of y'all~I saw 15 comments but only counted 10. Yeah, lurkers got salty. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:07 PM |
| 2 | LVM do not like seeing us happy.I am so sorry that your father is a POS. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:53 PM |
| 17 | Saw this and instantly thought FDS."The Wall" has to be decribing nvm/lvm. The only time it describes women is when they've been carrying a man through life for too many years and it shows on their face (and, even then, most snap back after they kick their life sucking vampire of em). Shitty men age you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youAnother creep struggling to continue the motions of basic human decency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:25 PM |
| 29 | REMINDER: No, You Don't Have "Resting Bitch Face"Didn't men create the term RBF because they tend to read a neutral expression on a woman's face as contempt/negative? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Don't EVER move abroad for a man.Thank you. 🥰 My momma would have called me so many times and my dad would have gone to get me or paid for my trip home and met me at the airport...no doubt with my momma unless it was a late night flight. All the same, it would have taken me a long time to get over it and then more time to find a place like the one I have now. 😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Don't EVER move abroad for a man.The last man tried to get me to leave my state with him and go to Texas. His reasoning was he had a friend we both knew there and he could get a job. 🙄 Because his friend could help him. I regret even considering it. Me? Leave my job and family?For him? I love what I do and I make good money. Should have been like "Yeah, if you or your friend buys the tickets." And just left him at the airport. Sometimes, I think back to that day and what I almost did. I would have been away from my support syst… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:08 PM |
| 12 | Classic example of scrote stringing his forever girlfriend along. I hope she dumps himIf its just her name on the house, kick him out. If he pays but his name isn't on the house, put it up for sale, find another place, don't tell him about what you're doing, and move. Next, change the kid's last name to your maiden name. You never got married so why would they need to have his last name? And if he starts trying to marry you fucking reject him and stick to your plan because it's all just one more ploy to add to the list. Once you get your head on straight and show him you can leav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Do something for yourself before the weekend is overI plan to make hot cocoa tomorrow night and add some peppermint schnapps (just for taste) while I do a bit of reading before bed. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 08:19 AM |
| 15 | Can someone explain this so called “Nice Guy” phenomenon that men behold?Just another narc dude acting like the prize. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 38 | This is why I don’t like male teachers ...Well, that has got to be the most creative way I have seen a man say he hates women in a while. Interesting how they're all automatically worth killing no matter how the relationship ended. Of course, he's just joking.🙄 Probably thinks his humor is comparable to the satirical work of Jonathan Swift. I would rather eat babies. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:21 PM |
| 25 | I practice CICO and at first I thought oh that's cute he saved calories all week so he could eat whatever he wanted on the date. Then I realized what it actually meant 🤮🤮🤮Porn probably. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:04 PM |
| 8 | Saying a man will act right for the “right woman” is deeply misogynist and a huge lie.And she probably was the one to propose in the first place. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 158 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 Run, woman!! Run!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Women TRULY are the prize!I once read about how looking in the mirror in the "power pose" (hands on hips, wide stance, standing straight) and saying at least one thing you love about yourself a day is a great way to build self love and self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Ah yes, only interested & want to be affectionate to your gf when you want to get your dick wet. The dudes in the comments defending this as “Post Nut Clarity”He probably defends it because he put "effort" into it. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 11 | Reading this made me so sad and angry. Guard your womb like your life and that of your future children’s lives depend on it. Because it does.Wow...this hits close. It was the last straw for me with a long time pick me friend of mine. I just blocked them the other day. It took me a while but she wasn't acting on any relationship advice given to her because it involved her leaving him. I don't do that ComMuNiCaTe w/ him crap anymore unless it is something small or understandable. CWH was a mutual part of our advice to one another and it wasn't helping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | I can’t remember the last time I was up until 2:20 am on purpose.This! Just because your dick is up, Bobby, doesn't mean I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Sis, kick this man child outYour garden variety scrub. Not to be mistaken for your garden variety shrub, that actually adds oxygen and helps create a delightful/soothing atmosphere when brought into the home & watered regularly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:40 PM |
| 6 | The 'funny' ways in which men hurt women. 'It's just a joke!'I hate being tickled too and I am ridiculously ticklish. Pushing/disregarding boundaries isn't cute ever. Good for you, standing your ground on it. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:56 PM |
| 17 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.When I dumped my first LVM, he almost immediately started looking for another woman better than me. It was weird to hear he got with one that looked like me at a less developed part of her life. Idk how long they lasted but he was with a girl I knew the last I heard of him. He sent the last guy I dated a msg in a game, asking how I was doing. That guy said they broke up around that time. A few months later, I kicked that NVM out. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:13 PM |
| 18 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.That poor girl. Sorry your dad is trash. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 121 | I love how she remains unbotheredMy favorite part is the headline because Demi Lovato's name is put before his in something. I know it is because she is more famous and he tried to use her as a stepping stool, but you know that is the kind of shit that still stings. 🤣 I hope she levels herself up and people forget who he is again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:54 PM |
| 19 | I love how she remains unbotheredIf this wasn't so pathetic, it'd be funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:51 PM |
| 89 | I love how she remains unbotheredIts like he is thinking "I wonder which picture of me crying will get me the most sympathy likes." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:48 PM |
| 10 | Your age is your age....it’s not a sliding scaleLol reminds of that episode of Younger where, upon being asked about her age, the lead sputters and says she is "age queer". He knows he can't pass for younger than 46. That's the real reason and he is also being extremely generous. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.Oof. 🤣😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:04 AM |
| 5 | I never get a good vibe from the “brutal honesty” guys.Bet he'll never tell you the real reason the mother of his kid left. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:12 AM |
| 10 | What would you do if a NVM took you to a grocery store and gave you $50 on your first date? I’d take the money and go straight home.I think they're trying to get an idea of how you can add to their life? Like that stupid "joke" story thing about the 3 girls who were given 300 or whatever and all used it differently as a way of proving themselves to the guy. 🙄🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:06 AM |
| 8 | Hard to choose just one flair for this NVM...Idk. It shows the full steady step by step progression of someone who made a promise and then regretted. After a time of it being okay or "hot". 🤮 But there is a small chance some guy is doing this and writing about it from his gf's point of view. Knowing what a pornsick POS he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:50 PM |
| 50 | Boyfriend's "RULES"On this episode of "If you Have to Ask...". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:38 AM |
| 284 | 'CoMpRoMiSe!!'But maybe he needs her to communicate through Mr. Hoskins. 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:33 AM |
| 27 | When a HVM messes upI figured she'd been with hin for a year. 🤔 Still agree. HVM thus far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:56 AM |
| 9 | Is it just me or has negging become the default for men?Telling on himself with wanting to get you drunk. 🙄🤮 And really, why would a woman waste a perfectly good and profitable work day to go to some man's house? We all know the booze is going to be just like the "sex"; subpar. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Mugshots of 8 of the right wing terrorists who plotted to kidnap the governor of Michigan, Gretchen Whitmer, who is a woman. Nobody is talking about this, but would they have tried to kidnap a male governor? I think we women know the likely answer.They all look related. Like grossly related...inbred even. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 9 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.Some actual fucking foreplay for starters, you nugget. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:39 PM |
| 66 | Happy Friday. Remember, know your worth.Bringing over leftover bar fries so he can act like he's thoughtful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:11 PM |
| 47 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Yeah, he is pissed she didn't just let it go or laugh with him. 🙄 So now he has to make it seem like she did something to make him upset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 297 | Happy Friday. Remember, know your worth."I'm staying the night." Says the guy who is probably the type to bring most of his gross shit to make his new nest at your house and never leave. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 5 | 1. Get your own PS5 2. Never talk to meI know we have some amazing lawyer queens here. If those girls kept that reciept, they break up, and he tries to keep the ps5, can they take him to small claims or is said claim too small? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:24 AM |
| 27 | Another trash Tinder profileExpects you to have a career (pay for everything) Loves travel...well, I didn't see anything about him having a car...so you'll be driving him everywhere you go. Probably looking for his "dream girl"/"twin flame". 🤮 Expects you to chase him. Edit:Meant for this to say 15, 16, 17, and 18. 🤷♀️😮 No idea what I did wrong here. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Agree?"Just rub the magic conch until the feels go away."- Kelly Stamps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with my sociopathic boyfriendOh, fair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with my sociopathic boyfriendAh, yes, the "ethical polygamist". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:25 PM |
| 16 | LVs will fake support you and when you start succeeding theyll try lowering you down. Drop the deadweight.I dated one once who tried to pressure me to get successful, so he could continue to leech. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | (Repost to blur handles) "No LTRs for me" from a guy who never had one. Deeply insecure men are not diamonds in the rough, they will accuse you of shit left and right and expect you to put up with it or you "don't love them."I am right there with you but this dude sounds like he wants to be chased. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Wtf why are men literally obsessed with anal sexYes. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Washed up LVM/ZVM logic as to why they prefer to marry women in their 20’s when they are pushing 40. It is truly mind boggling. As a woman in my early 20’s who has been approached by these type of old men, I find this vomit inducing. 🤮It’s disgusting that he can be so brazen about seeing things like having low self esteem and desperation as qualities that will benefit him in a sexual partner. This is the same kind of man who will complain that men aren't allowed to express themselves if he gets any push back from a woman in these forums. 🙄 Men shouldn't be proud of being gross as fuck, Richard. This guy needs to be creep shamed and heavily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:Thank god. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 6 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:And he slips in "jokes" about you owing him because of the "effort" he put in. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 5 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:"But walking up to you and talking is effort." 🤪 Woman has been led to think she should be happy for scraps instead of enjoying fine dining from a man who sees value in her company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:09 PM |
| 2 | They need us to teach them how to start a conversation?Has he even read and choose your own adventure books? A lot of those endings are death. 🤣 Maybe he has and the intent is to bore you to death because he has nothing original to offer? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Oh no!!!!! Wish I cared :)I love seeing this pic in FDS memes. XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:34 AM |
| 7 | Can't walk my dog in peace."Its at a coffee hut, just waiting for you to gtf away from me and go buy it." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Someone in the WOW community is keeping a detailed list of which women are single or notYes, they need to start going out to fields by themselves and just stop coming back. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:12 AM |
| 27 | This is posted on Bumble's IG page, meaning they condone it. It's dangerous and there are so many women fawning over it."You must have been the guy I met on this same site before I met my husband. 🤦♀️ Silly me. 🤣😅 Bye." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:45 AM |
| 40 | This is posted on Bumble's IG page, meaning they condone it. It's dangerous and there are so many women fawning over it.I would have been like "Oops, wrong guy." Blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:36 AM |
| 9 | Friends, #KickHimOut2020 was blazing success. Lets start the discussion for the theme of 2021MeBeingWithMe2021 QueenMe👑2021 LeaseOfOne2021 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:48 PM |
| 19 | Should I leave him or can we work it out?This. Girl, I didn't read so thank you for the TLDR at the top. If you have that many doubts, just leave. Like last year. I can relate to feeling like you can work on it because you have spent soooo much time with them...but there are big and beautiful houses that get built faster than most men get better and that's too long imo. Plus, a house doesn't just get comfortable after a while of being built and go back to being a giant empty hole dug in the ground, you know, like a lot of men do. Edit:… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:50 PM |
| 7 | Yet we are the “too sensitive” “overly emotional” ones...okPretty sure you're on the money or close to it, unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 12 | Expecting me to accept toxicity as a price for dating you.Those men think they're the prize. 🤮 Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:02 PM |
| 7 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?I stopped faking orgasms after the last guy I was with. Out if the last 4, only 1 legitimately got me off regularly. But he was also mega LVM (If you read the 3 letter post, that was him). 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 16 | LVM be like🤡🤣🤣One of my fave parts about this, aside from her flawless makeup, is I thought she was mumbling at first and it was still insanely relateable. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:30 AM |
| 3 | The red flags here... so painful to read after FDS!! 🚩But OP. WoMen ArE tHe GoLdiGgERs. Not men. 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 7 | The red flags here... so painful to read after FDS!! 🚩This is a damn good summary of a tragic post. I saw the age gap and was just...not surprised. I stopped reading. 😅 He is 46. You shouldn't need to support someone that much older than you, especially not for a whole ass decade. 😥 Glad I stopped after like 2 or 3 years. She's upset because she is angry at herself. Therapy will, no doubt, help her resolve all of that internalized anger. I hope she takes the therapy and a lot of her time to work through it and gets into living her life and loving h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Beware of the “meet cute” guys.Way off but Perdita means "lost" in latan, apparently. I saw it while looking up character names some time ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Sometimes I read other women’s horrible dating experiences and I wonder if they’re dating the same guy I did. Does anyone else do this too?Memberberry time! Member when we made LVM ex whatever collages and they were all too similar? It was deja'vu central. 🤣 All the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:36 AM |
| 17 | Always listen to your body.My first period after breaking up with a guy was 3 days late and, even though I was particularly inconsistent then, it was 3 days of what morning sickness could be like (from stuff I had heard and read). I was horrified at the idea. He said he would be around to help if it happened to be true... and reading that made me want to throw up all over again. 🤮🤮🤮🤮 I wasn't, thankfully, but would have def terminated it if worst case scenario happened, and then never told him. Fuck allll of that noise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:08 PM |
| 5 | It's Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Did you know that almost half of female homicides are committed by current/former male partners?And now I am tempted to share it there... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 10:49 PM |
| 27 | This is how I see it...I agree with this.😊 I definitely missed some points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Loser is discussing babies in first messages..smhSo true. He wanted you to chase him so bad. 🙄 Good for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Loser is discussing babies in first messages..smhOld dusty garbage being "upfront", thinking he's clever and desirable. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 29 | y’all know he’s a catch🤢He should. I mean just look at that picture! It looks just like him. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 56 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsIf you can't afford a hotel room while living with your mother, then GTFO Tinder and use your hand. 🙄🤮 I hate hook up culture. It doesn't benefit women at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Wow. You girls know what this means: girlfriend experience without responsibilities. I am always chocked that women would accept to have a heterosexual male roommate.Serial killer ad that will disappear as soon as you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | my LVM narc ex whos an abusive cheater left me in may ..after i finally went no contact two weeks ago and stopped being a pick me begging for him back he hits me up today... i prefer ‘Devil’He doesn't seem nearly as interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:40 AM |
| 26 | His reasoning for messaging me 10 times in 2 days with no reply was...”it was worth a shot”Oh yeah! When I was working at a boutique some years back, one of the shop's models did car shows. She would be that woman by the car, giggling as every other scrote said the same thing: "Do YoU cOmE wiTh tHe Car?" 🤪 Her response? Was to giggle and tell them she was wayyyy more high maintenance than the car. She also knows everything about the cars she models in front of. No idea about her pay. I don't ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 54 | They hate us cause they can't have us.Yeah, a lot of em look like thumbs with sunglasses. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Another day, another LVM crying and some BS excusesI despise how hard it is for women (including myself) to just straight up dump shitty men on the spot. He cheated? Dump him. Yesterday. Taken into a different but similar context are some of the best lines for moments like this. From Bang by AJR 🎶I'm way too young to lie here forever I'm way too old to try, so whatever🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.Me too please! God, I am a nutter for juicy stuff like this. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Have you had a man who was a complete stranger or you barely knew physically assault you or threaten to?I rode public transportation to and from work/college/home until I bought a car. It was all threats and verbal harrassment. I have been followed at least once while heading to work. If it wasn't for L/NVM, I wouldn't have had to learn RBF. I was far too approachable those days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Recognize when you’re doing this and block that man on everything. When you’re truly over someone, you won’t care if they see you leveling up.I just reached this point. I have all of my exes blocked and I just recently also deleted them along with their current gf. 🤮 I already feel lighter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:07 PM |
| 2 | idk if this is the right flair but this had me dying 😭. No a coffee date is not acceptable! If you’re broke........ THEN JUST SAY THAT! 😭Right?! I am so glad I quit that app. It is full of toxic pick mes and L/NVM. After a point, it felt like I was doing too much by replying to their crap with more than a 🤣 or 🤮. The attention. They are so desperate for attention from a woman, they pull crap like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Men who won't move over for women. What do you do?Your tag is a new one and I love it!!!😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 3 | FDS Approved Must-Have Products??Oooo! 😍 Great idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | When the trash takes itself outThere are literal lists of date ideas you can Google. Whether its your first date or your anniversary. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:50 PM |
| 11 | Scrotes KNOW 50/50 is for THEIR benefit, not OURS! See red box, posted as a response in r/Germany: "How come [consumer] prices are cheap..." Scrote admits, were it not for having a GIRLFRIEND, his friend would live like a COCKROACH!🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:56 PM |
| 4 | I made my ex cry on the phone. Did I do something wrong?It doesn't sound condescending at all. If you have no interest in sex, then you can tell potential partners that you are ace/asexual. They can respect that or they can gtfo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:49 AM |
| 10 | I made my ex cry on the phone. Did I do something wrong?Wow...there is a lot to unpack here. Block and delete asap. Boy is trying to manipulate you big time. I can really only suggest you read the handbook. Otherwise there is a long list of 🚩🚩🚩. Get him out of your life, continue therapy on your own, and stop telling men about your trauma. They will use that against you when they have no right to those personal bits about you in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:38 AM |
| 7 | What would I cook?Shit pie like in The Help. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 4 | We don’t stalk male only subbredditsAre there even any legit "men only" groups here? I have seen them crop up, only to drop after a few months or so. I doubt they have the drive to consistently mod the way FDS does. Go figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:32 AM |
| 6 | How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me?I agree with what a lot of these ladies are saying. I've also seen this crap firsthand from an ex. They do shit like that to make you seem like the problem. There is minimal/no real change, but they're probably talking crap about you. If you aren't ready to block/delete them, try to stay off SM and away from the booze. Chances are that the woman is a pick-me ready to take on her next full time boy-man remodeling gig. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Male entitlementIf asked why he texts like a child, he'd probably just say he's young at heart. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:55 PM |
| 11 | Not Mr. soyface having the audacityI saw a close up of his face and I just. 🤮 There is so much assymetry with his face even if he wasn't making such a smug expression. -True struggle bangs. Look at how hard they're trying. -The kind of facial hair that tries to tell him he needs to always be clean shaven every time he looks in a mirror. -It's probably for our benefit that the glasses hide a decent view of his eyes. Seriously, did she reply? I doubt it. She probably saw his face next to his comment, laughed, and then forgot about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Thank you, ladies!Yes!! Push him out of the nest! 🚮 He'll just go back to his parents or living with roommates and making his own. The difference is that his "effort" filled nest will probably be a bed made from brown/yellow pillows without cases and his unwashed laundry. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Acquaintances reveal on FB that husband cheated on her, got caught, cheated again, got the other woman pregnant, & they're staying together. Here is his post vs. hers.Agreed. I am always sad/worried for a child born from an affair. The same way I am for a child born as a means to try and fix a relationship. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 23 | Tf you think, bruh??Ew. Look, man, I know you wanna show me something you think is funny, so I see your sense of humor, but... This should not be Exhibit A. Edit: a word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:06 PM |
| 12 | It's confirmed. Some men are demons.They wish they were demons. That would be soooo cool. 🙄 When really they're just a POS. It is not awesome and it is even less unique. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:27 PM |
| 4 | A male friend of mine shared this and joked “Time to disappoint you ladies twice!” and this was my response.Its about asset size. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Male entitlementOmg! You're right! I looked and he is in his mid 50's and texting like that. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:06 AM |
| 8 | 👑 You’ve got this, sis. Don’t forget.Oh gods! That reminds me of when this watch salesman guy came into this shop I used to work at when I opened one morning. He tried to ask me about if the owner was in and I told him the Lady of the Shop was not going to be in until later. This dusty mf has the audacity to ask if the "Man of the shop" was due at any point of the day in a tone that dripped with condescension. It was really hard to maintain my composure and smile before letting him know that there was no such person (no men even wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 53 | My favorite part is how her female friends are surrounding her for this epic momentRight?! Frikkin gorgeous! Her and her friends. Bet the dude is a scrub.🤣 Good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 6 | When the LV ex comes back (as they do) ...I have had an ex do this but not since I was 18/19. Both times (when he was trying to hit me up before we dated and then after he dumped me) I asked him who he was because I didn't save his number in my phone. The most recent time, I blocked him. My body straight up punished me for sleeping with you. Bye. 🙄🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 9 | Never settle for less than you deserveEw. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 27 | Never settle for less than you deserveReminds me of the post about an older article on how there is a new type of "alpha woman" or whatever, who are "unable to love". This was an article by a woman. Like, lady, noooooo. We can love just fine but we love ourselves first and foremost. 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Bought this for myself while preparing for my job interviewsPlease let us know how it went! 😃 This picture of your home has such a serene and peaceful feel. 😊 Fingers crossed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 4 | When the guy you've been seeing suddenly starts taking hours to reply and is sending you boring LVM messages.My last ex did this when he seemed to realize I was done with his shit and suddenly was sooo interested in texting me at work, question after question, freaking out. 🙄 Then he was trying to accuse me of cheating on him and finding another boyfriend. 😒 I don't do OLD, where tf am I supposed to be finding this amazing new bf that I am replacing you with while working 2 jobs? All because he branch swings. The projection and audacity of it all. Never should have let that 🧽 move in with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 11 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.Is that a norm? I just figured she was terrified of him finding out because maybe her post gave away too much information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | 😒 Damn, I hope you get pickedNo dude on there agreeing with her will give a woman who buys them a ps5 a bag that costs more than 100. They'd try to say they looked but couldn't find it, its sold out, try to lowkey blame you, say they saw one they thought you might like more (that was conveniently less costly), etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜It is. The caramel topping is very gooey. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜That sounds like a great plan! 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 5 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!I think I found this sub from someone complaining about it. 🤔🤣 But it has helped me recognize red flags that hide in innocent words and stay strong with my boundaries. 🦇🖤🦇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜I am very happy with how it turned out. Edit: fixed typo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜I wish I had the skills to make cute desserts like that. 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜I can totally see this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜Of course! Enjoy!! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜Lol it was a quick one from a box. 😅 I am not much for baking. The next one will be from snappy gourmet. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜I took a screenshot. 😊🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜Thank you! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 11 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜Those sound fabulous! 😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:30 PM |
| 10 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜I am sorry if anyone has a tree nut or walnut allergy. It has walnut bits in it. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:30 PM |
| 8 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜Thank you! It is great with coffee/tea. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:29 PM |
| 71 | The accuracyLove her makeup. 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 3 | When i saw people calling this a sub for "nasty/evil/crazy/scary" women i immediately got hopeful and wanted to see whats up, not despite of the reputation but BECAUSE of it. Because every time women are doing something RIGHT it's rebranded by men as "nasty/evil/etc"Yeah, there are a ridiculous number of anti fds subs cropping up lately. Pretty much all just men getting offended and trying to call us out on everything remotely "negative". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, I found another gem on the dating sub. I don’t care how they explain their need for coffee dates. It’s a no for me, but all the other pickmes can have these men. 🥴Yes, it is. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | This is why we don’t sit around and put our eggs in one basket and remember if a man wants you he will say it directlySomeone posted one of his tiktoks a while back and there were very similar reactions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Just gonna leave this here. I’m sure he didn’t even apologize about the fact that he basically broke his promise, as small as it was. Heck, I’m sure he even forgot about her after he got his dick wet and finished. I hope she wakes up and leaves this man-child.Sounds like a more extreme version of my ex. Who knew him masturbating 5+ times a day would be bad for our sex life? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 27 | The “not all men” guys are the worstYeah, and most women don't care to because, if we can't relate, we don't take the bait. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 17 | And what do we say to all the scrotes?"I'm sorry you feel that way but you really don't have to be so dramatic." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:26 PM |
| 19 | Ladies, I found another gem on the dating sub. I don’t care how they explain their need for coffee dates. It’s a no for me, but all the other pickmes can have these men. 🥴If I spend time and effort to get dressed up and made up, it won't be for a damn coffee date. My cheapest lipstick still costs more than my usual 20oz coffee. My presence at the same table as you makes you look good. So, if you aren't even reasonably good looking. I'm out, Jimmy. High maintenance usually means busy with work and/or taking care of yourself in order to support your lifestyle. Low effort dates are tacky for high maintenance women. Do you think Amanda Priestly would make time in her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:22 PM |
| 24 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersI'll make Turtle Brownies. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 7 | Life after LVM: Visions and GoalsI love the smell of witchcraft and coffee in the morning too, sis. 🦇🖤🦇 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 119 | Blocked a LVM and want to share what happened here. Please share your thoughts!Its like he set it up just to see if you would accept his bullshit. 🤣 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:57 PM |
| 3 | This girl’s boyfriend is clearly so generous! Is even worried about how much toilet paper she uses 🙄Reminds me of my ex who would use the excuse that I use more TP than him so, of course, I have to buy the TP. Now, I buy all my groceries without the added bullshit from him. 🙄 Gods, seriously. He started shaming her for using too much TP because she wouldn't sleep with him on her period, so that she would break up with him...all so he could feel better about talking shit about her to the next girl. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Romance novels vs. Pornography... hmm 🤔George of the Jungle was pretty FDS, wasn't it? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 34 | Women Describe What Happened When They Took Their Husbands Back After They Were Separated because he got a new girlfriend. So much FDS Motivational Fuel."Going back to a guy after it didn't work the first time is like putting your dirty underwear back on after a shower." -The pickme (former friend) that took in two of my exes. One of those was an ex of hers she decided to date again. 🤷♀️🤦♀️ I don't go back to exes anymore. I would rather be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Where are all my girlfriends now who used the tell me to get a man asap, because "how are you going to survive without a man?"If anyone needs FDS, it is pickmeishas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:26 AM |
| 21 | What about STI tests?A man that pressures you to do anything is LV af. Easy weed out. 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:08 AM |
| 13 | So I found a HVM and wanted to point out some of his early on green flags...Yeah, my ex future faked out the assss, so I am always wary when a guy starts things like this. Working on not being so quick to get my hopes up, though. That was a me "hoping he would develop his potential" and come through thing. Idk how I managed to trust his word after being consistently let down. 🙄 Or the times he was clearly trying to push me to be successful so he could benefit. He also did this with friends. It was ignored for too long. Potential might as well be a muscle. Use it or lose… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 8 | I love it when the trash takes itself outIt might be as prevalent here in the states but less of a legit "dating staple". They can never take it. 🙄🤣 Banter is humorous. Negging is childish. Especially when you throw in not being able to take it back. Shows you how they don't actually "mean it as a joke". Ew. Congrats on trashing OLD! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better."I want a divorce. Here are the papers. Since you never took me on any dates, we will not be going 50/50. You should do me this one fucking favor and cover all of it. No, I don't care that you finally have a date planned now that I am serving you divorce papers." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 22 | I love it when the trash takes itself outWhat the actual fuck? 🤣 He knows why he is single. He is just trying to find a woman who doesn't immediately see the crap that comes out of of his mouth for the red flags they are. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:17 PM |
| 15 | I love it when the trash takes itself outDid you laught at him more before you blocked him? Because that is hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 33 | I love it when the trash takes itself outBecause then you might LeArN yOUr LeSsOn about how he's the prize. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 7 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"If you have a screenie of the msg, you can post it to SuperFDSFans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:17 PM |
| 29 | The ”Dogpill”, AKA They think we reject them to fuck dogs.Idk "Cat Lady" was a great game. Loved the first one. Brutal but impressive. On a more serious note, they're just jealous that most women with cats will choose their cat over a man any day of the week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Confessions of a former pick meMake it a chant. "I am not into hobosexuals. I am not hobosexual so I will not date hobosexuals." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:36 AM |
| 7 | UGH!"Lemme smash." Why did it take me this long to realize that was a trash meme? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 18 | UGH!"Ex lodger". 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Future goals: become a painter and live a quiet life ✨Love your handle btw. But that violet/red and green pallette with the ivy and plants is pure aesthetic. Its pretty clear that you're an artist even if you didn't tell us. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Future goals: become a painter and live a quiet life ✨Those colors!!! Those pictures!!! 🖤💜🖤💜🖤💜🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:46 PM |
| 37 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNEThis is basically my dream lifestyle. I see nothing wrong with this. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 16 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾Oh yeah! I love those headphones! I learned my lesson after spending more than 0 dollars on one of his medical bills. It was only less than 100 because I couldn't figure out where to go for the billing.🤡 I am very thankful for that being the case since his med bills totalled about 1400 at the time. 🤪🤡 It'll take a lot before I buy a man something nice again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 27 | Why are you so obsessed with us? Aren’t you supposed to be “going your own way”?Yeah, the saddest part about it is they're this way but in adult bodies. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Mine is more of a grid. LolThe last one was when I stopped replying the night my friend reminded me that I am worth more and do too much for him, etc. When I finally msgd him back, saying I made it to work okay...this dude actually texted me something like. "I'm sure you're new boyfriend is happy to know that." At first I was angry because I felt like he was suggesting/accusing me of cheating. Now, I'm like "Wow, he's so right. Any other guy I let date me would be happy I made it to work safe." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:42 PM |
| 18 | 'Why don't women just tell us "no"? They complicate it all so much' (found on twitter)I really hope she learns to stop apologizing to men who can't seem to take no for an answer. And then I hope she gets trigger happy with that block button. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 7 | LISTEN to what your date says and make note of it- if they say something that doesn’t sit right, follow your intuition!They're either delusional or lying. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 4 | "Your lipstick highlights your crooked teeth"This and they tend to have poor impulse control which develops into a dependency on cig, vape, alc, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Confessions of a former pick meThis one! Gross hobosexuals with an excuse for everything. Usually that excuse involved things they could fix until it devolved to them just saying they were assholes. My friends couldn't fathom what I was doing with these sluggy boys, who usually hated their mothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 27 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾They want to "change" when its too late, so why can't we buy their consoles late...but for ourselves?🤷♀️🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:43 PM |
| 46 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾I bought mine a controller and regretted it instantly. Let him know he is SOL if he breaks it. Guy was 27. Grown ass men and their child tempers. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 3 | My goals and aesthetics. Might talk about these with my therapist. 🦇🖤🦇I aspire to have a large bathroom and a pretty tub. Bonus would be clawfoot (dragon claw 🥰). Being CF and having cats, I want to be able to give my cuddle bugs everything (comfort, happiness, health, etc). I don't have any plants or succulents at my place but I would love to develop my green thumb. Yoga. Working from home, learning to code, modding, and making a video game. Working to relax more and make candles. And overall saving up and leveling up to live how and where I want. 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 2 | My goals and aesthetics. Might talk about these with my therapist. 🦇🖤🦇My mom has some in her front yard and every time I see them, I imagine how great it would be to have them on a window sill. I adore window planter set ups. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 2 | My goals and aesthetics. Might talk about these with my therapist. 🦇🖤🦇Thank you! I want to give my cats the love and luxury they all deserve. I have a fluffy dark Empress who would look great in one. I would have to use a mattress texture for the inside, though. I will find a way, even if I have to make it. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:36 PM |
| 2 | This is how a queen ends it with a cheating LVMYes! No attention and no drama from you means they don't matter to you. They have no hold on you. You choose cheating over me and you're nothing to me. It is that easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 16 | Typical Scrote attitude right here. It’s not fair that I don’t get sex right away when she had sex with other people! https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/iv4itd/a_lot_of_cynicism_from_men_about_dating_revolves/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmfThey're more scared that she'll laugh at him for being bad in bed or something like that (compared to the others), so they pull this shit to try and make women feel like less than they are. Complete 🚩🚩🚩. Talk like that means they probably suck in bed and won't actively care about her pleasure anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Kicking off the weekend with flowers for myself. This is a reminder for you to do something you love this weekend 💛I am going over to an eldergoth friend's for a delicious pasta dinner and I am bringing her a gift. I saw it and instantly knew she would love it. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Mine is more of a grid. LolFeel free to add pornsick/limpdick as a flair too. Not just bad at sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Mine is more of a grid. LolI used that for a personal laugh because he tried to get me to buy him one. "You can play Skyrim on it." Dude, quit tripping. We both know I won't fucking be able to touch that thing for months after you get your grubby fucking hands on it. That's if you don't break it after you get pissed off at it for dying. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Mine is more of a grid. LolNo joke. I also had trouble finding something describing "riding on the tailcoars of another's success". Didn't matter who it was friend or partner. I am no one's magic carpet. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:35 AM |
| 28 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Just more proof of a man wanting to be the girlfriend. 🤣🤣🤣 🚮 Buhbye, dude.🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Looks like my previous post struck a nerve 😪This guy just followed me. 👀🤣 Edit: Naturally, I blocked him after peeking through his comments. Surprise surprise, he has tried commenting on fds twice. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:57 PM |
| 8 | Mine is more of a grid. LolWhile he still had stuff at my place, I kept him unblocked and he still tried to get me to emphatically validate him for working out, drinking water, and eating a little better. As if it was okay to ignore how it shouldn't have been a big change for him. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 2 | He wants to "pull up outside and talk in the car" and not arrange a date.He tried to "give her one last shot" to go one what is basically a breadcrumb of a date. Men like that only tell women they're going to block them because they think it'll freak them out and make them wanna do whatever they can to make the dude not go away. The audacity this cheapskate had, acting like he's something a woman should be afraid to lose. 🤣🤣🤣🚮🚮🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | My Ex NVM collage!Just shows they think a pricey PC set up is better to prioritize over their bed/sleep...and then they complain about not sleeping well when really they stay up all night gaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Very cute!That is beautiful! 🥰 I love woodwork. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | How did you stop feeling guilty about standing up for yourself?Realizing that I am my person and deserve respect just as much as any/every other person in the world helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What an asshole. ITS NOT EVEN YOUR HOUSE GTFO. YOU DONT EVEN PAY MY BILLSI would have laughed and been like "OMG! Guys! Its my roommate's creepy couch hopper friend! Remember the one I told you about the other day, who doesn't pay for shit but walks into rooms that belong to other people with food that they paid for? That POS." GIRL, don't let that ugly scrote neg your happiness away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, we’re all interchangeable objects.Wooooowwww. I have friends who are dating to marry who are CF and wanna be DINK couples. Wonder what he thinks of that. Okay, that's a lie. Idc. 🤷♀️ He is such a NVM. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 14 | It’s the audacity for me 🙄"Be bisexual" 🤣 Someone is salty that more than 1 woman has told him that other women are better than him. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Man runs away at wedding after girlfriend catches brides bouquet. LVM alert, run sis 🏃♀️Gods, ew. Look at him. 🤮🚮🤮 Dad bod and without even having being a dad as the excuse (probably). 🙄 Did I see a receeding hairline already? No wonder he is so fast. So experienced at chasing after signs of youth that will never return and knows he'll look like a thumb if he shaves his head. The struggle. 🥺 I hope she dumped that cocky ass embarrassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Ex collages for your amusementThen he can go and have a relationship with his bro code buddy. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | I love how I can’t speak about how women feel uncomfortable, only for men to say it’s our fault.The funniest part about this, to me, is that the only thing this guy can think of other guys being attractive is them wearing muscle shirts. He says etc etc but can't think of anything else. Otherwise, he just thinks that that's all men have to do. HVM who wear suits and dress shirts to work aren't looking to impress the women at their workplace. They're just dressed for work and because it assists them with their job. People take them more seriously. I dress nice for me. Men would still gawk if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | I do complete me ♥️Yes! If you're going to be a pickme, pick yourself. Always. 💜🥰😊🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Collage of my ex- this was so cathartic and made me giggle loadsLooks like a forest critter living in the wall. Do maybe he literally let the place fall apart and/or let animals live in his walls. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 3 | um... I’m hoping this is a joke🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 6 | There’s probably still pickmeishas thinking they can make him commit. “Friends” on a dating app 🙄Bet he's ugly and thinks his answer is peak humor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:31 PM |
| 18 | um... I’m hoping this is a jokeI mean, I almost did. I might save up for one but I know I would probably only play Skyrim on it. 🤣 Edit: My ex owned the only console in the house and took it with him when he left. A friend who noticed I was a gamer without a console for years bought me a PS4 PRO for my most recent birthday. When I asked him why he would spend so much money on a friend he basically shrugged and said it was because he considered it almost criminal for a gamer to not have a console to game on. Then he wished me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:18 PM |
| 12 | LV date Hall of ShameYou considered that 2nd chance because society has raised you to hope for the type of satisfaction that you deserve...but will not get from men like that. You caught yourself. 💜 Edit: The type of guys who talk about being worried about gold diggers at all...ever don't have any gold to dig. They just want to guilt you into having lower expectations and standards. Fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 55 | um... I’m hoping this is a jokeMine really tried to get me to get him a switch. Lol I got a switch alright. Not the little console, but I switched to having him out of my life, bumming off me. 🚮🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:24 PM |
| 16 | This is what men have in mind when they suggest coffee datesLol I can see it now. Him (completely fine you bought your own coffee but looking at your clothes weird):"Hey, where are you going? I thought we had a date?" Her:"No, I have a date. With this coffee. At my house. Bye. Have fun learning what the term date means." Then he can't really say that you ghosted him after a coffee date, but he will. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:13 PM |
| 6 | Saw this in a different sub. This is the state of scrotes in 2020. They never learn because pickmeishas act like they're into being talked like this. Stay safeI'd probably send a gif of someone vomitting before blocking. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Found this on instagram.. ladies, don’t let lvm bring you down. 💋I love these and I know I am doing better than all of my exes. I still get angry and have revenge fantasies but know I just have a hard time remembering that I am already doing better than them. They don't need to even occupy my thoughts for longer than the time it takes to use them as an example. From the moment they leave your life, you are doing better than them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Queens don't settle or compromise.One of my friends did this. She had her kid by incident with an NVM (who she almost married) and then found a LVM that she fell in love with, married, and wants to have a girl with, but I know its also a codep thing. 😥 I really wish she knew her worth passed the man she is with and loved herself more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:57 PM |
| 14 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄Part of me does too but the other side of me is like...they get too much attention on here as is and we will probably be disappointed (I usually am). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Resisting the urge to send a final text to my exIts pretty fun. Mine has alcohol, mistreating/taking other people's property, being mean to my cat, being unemployed, lying, being cheap, manipulation, no GED, almost never doing housework, no motivation, and no car. Yeah.🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:42 PM |
| 34 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄Because they're so shit at pretending to be women. Its almost like its harder than they think it is (not that many of them really try). Whereas its wayyyyy easier to pretend to be a guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:20 PM |
| 25 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Yeah, my NVex was mean to my cat (I only had one when I kicked him out) and he wound up very skittish around him. 🥺 I was so mad when I realized it. I gave him extra treats, catnip, and love for a bit. You can also tell how a guy would probably feel if you had a kid, by how he talks about your cat. If he is jealous of the attention the cat gets, he will get jealous of the kid. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 2 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Take alll the time you need. Congrats on the house and having it all to yourself again. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Just got done wasting my time and this is how I'm about to be 🤷Ooooo!!! Congrats, 👑!!!!!🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 7 | "But what do you bring to the table?"I wouldn't say anything. If they made it to a dinner date and asked that, I would laugh as loudly as I could, stand up, and leave. They text me that and its an insta block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 47 | I was disgusted when I saw this, not gonna lie 🤢A really good/expensive one, dump the pathetic loser, and block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 8 | Lectured for not returning a guy’s call (who I am not even friends with!!) Why do men feel entitled to my time? See comments for backstory..Ah, yes, negging. Its so gross and exposes how insecure they are. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 2 | ‘Like an Experimental Concentration Camp’: Whistleblower Complaint Alleges Mass Hysterectomies at ICE Detention CenterI have a couple of guyfriends who are willing to go act as the bf of their women friends to help them get signed/approved for a hysterectomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 6 | Resisting the urge to send a final text to my exThere was a post here a while back involving making a collage of all his bad habits to look at anytime you get the urge to contact him for really any reason. Remember that he is repulsive and leave him behind silently. Most guys like that like the attention of a last letter or text, whatever gives them. They like knowing they hurt you, that you think of them, and had an impact on your life. Leaving silently is the best revenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:03 PM |
| 9 | A warning as to why you should never, ever let a LVM into your life.Start making police reports. They probably won't do anything but its good to keep record of his behavior. Get antiharrassment and restraining orders, if you can. Nothing is overdoing it when it comes to being worried for your own well being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Of course the pick me gets upvotes while the WOMAN gets downvoted for acknowledging her worth and stating facts.I bet he actually went. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:45 PM |
| 9 | Of course the pick me gets upvotes while the WOMAN gets downvoted for acknowledging her worth and stating facts.I just imagined a strip club in the middle of a forest with a blizzard constantly blowing. 🤣💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Imagine being this insecure that you feel the need to go around and humble those GORGEOUS, confident black woman...patheticThis dude puts all his effort into 2 things. 1)Lifting weights 2)Audacity Lil bullied band kid thinks bulking up and negging gorgeous girls is going to make him feel better about all those girls who rejected him in school. I was expecting one of these women to be like "Who the hell decided to let you, the overconfident 2, go around asking total babes to rate themselves?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 22 | Imagine being this insecure that you feel the need to go around and humble those GORGEOUS, confident black woman...patheticWhat even IS that on his head? It looks like someone glued a phone up there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Dreams for the win!!!🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:03 AM |
| 76 | Go build me a table!Ohhhh, I despised that joke trend. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:31 AM |
| 3 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Age really doesn't seem to matter when it comes to LVM behavior. 😰 And they're always sooooo shocked its actually happening. Like they had no idea you would go through with it. That part used to made me the angriest. I put most of his junk on the back porch and told him he had like 2 wks to get his stuff. Didn't tell him I would take it to good will (or several) or the dump if he didn't. He tried to get upset with me for packing his stuff, saying he wasn't comfortable or didn't like it. Sounded … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Ummm did y’all see this?I saw this a little bit ago! Glad they're calling him TA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 5 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Right?! Some scrotes will draw the process of packing and leaving as much as they can and give you big sad eyes like it will make you want to keep them and their bullshit again. 🥺 No, I'm not changing my mind, now hurry up before I decide to finish the job for you (like I did with everything else). And if I end up doing it, you'll be missing some stuff. Whatever I come across that isn't mine, I throw away. 🚮 You are kinder than me there. Yes! I feel the "working a lot of hours to stay busy" part… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:46 PM |
| 3 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?I was going to suggest making him out of CGI and have him be like a Gollum/Predator lovechild. Sometimes, I wonder why its so hard for them to be the HVM they act like. Then I realize it doesn't matter because, at the end of the day, an LVM is just an LVM. It doesn't matter why they suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 11 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?KICKHIMOUT2020 That is scary. Patient narcs are particularly terrifying monsters. Like from Lifetime to Criminal Minds level unpredictable. Take your time. This is a fresh wound and its going to be filled with a lot. I am sure you're tempted to scream him deaf sometimes. Besides, if you made a movie that guy might be flattered. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 9 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Same! If my LVex had a job and paid half rent in the time he was an extension of my couch, I could have potentially saved over 16k. Then he had the nerve to whine about a skillet. I don't even remember if he bought it, but if he really cared about it that much he would have grabbed it. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 14 | Dude, just say that you hate women and move on.I came here to say "Bet he thinks he's funny." 🤣 And now I find its not even an original "funny" but a copypasta... At least, you can be sure that he'll probably treat your accomplishments like his, if he doesn't get salty af first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 7 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?How do some of them even make it a month expecting to have a woman around to do all these important/essential life skills? Congratulations on your nearing freedom and all you've accomplished!!!!🥰 Love to see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 27 | FrOm ThE pAsT...best father of the yearI was waiting for the addition of "engineering" somewhere. Like wow, just say unemployed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 24 | Before I joined FDS, I went on a coffee date with a man (38M) who told me he planned to buy a Tesla. He asked me to dinner and suggested a place, then asked if we can go to a place of my ethnic cuisine. The next day he asked if the place was $$ bc he was on a budget.. Sigh!Exactly! There are blogs of legitimate date ideas/lists for basically any budget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 108 | New Zealand passes legislation granting domestic violence leave!I can't wait for this to become global. It just sucks it ever had to exist in the first place because of violent scrotes. Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:57 PM |
| 9 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Oh my stars and moons...you really can't ever truly be sure, can you? Well, I am glad he is no longer in your space, physically. It is also great that you aren't saying more to him than "Talk to the lawyer." To discourage him from contacting you in the first place. Are you his first marriage because this doesn't sojnd like his first time offending. 😰 I am so sorry he did all that to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How can I find a helpful therapist (during these pandemic times), in order to level up?I use Ginger and my insurance through work pays for it. Things are good thus far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 15 | For the ladies who have kicked him out recently, how are you doing?Exactly. He would waste no time throwing your stuff out so why should you when the situation is flipped? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Recently blocked my LVM ex (whom I haven’t seen or spoken to in a year) then TWO DAYS later my best friend gets a text from him asking how I’m doing...Oh that's so grosssss. 🤮🤮🤮🤮 After you dump them, they don't have the right to miss you, see you, check in on you, etc. They're dead to you. Good riddance. All the blocking. 🥰 Edit: typos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 8 | Keep Him Blocked.. Forever!This is great incentive to always keep them blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 92 | 😂🤡 ain’t that the trufThat is some quality advertising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 33 | 🙄Men are oppressed too. 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | First and last conversationsYup, to him, if they aren't at his beck and call like a living blow up doll, they're "bitches and whores". That mindset is mainly just fueled by his audacity because he has no value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 48 | Polyamory: where women get to do emotionally labor for multiple men! A meme brought to you by the polyamory subI was once asked on Whisper (of course, deleted that crap recently) by a woman, if I would be interested in being a part of her and her bf's poly relationship. 🤮 I asked her if she was okay having a boyfriend like that? Then I asked her if it was just women he was looking for. 🙄 She said yes. 👀 Your fugly ass bf wants a harem. He hates you. Dump him. Just....ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Don’t do it sis.Very little saved me from having to deal with a whole month or more of my ex being on the lease and having a joint credit account with him. I am sorry but I should have known. Thing is, he never paid a dime of rent. No job. I was told by a friend that the way he left meant that I could get his name scrubbed from the lease just by asking her to. Next day, I went to the bank and got him removed from my savings account (there was a time he had a job so this boy job breadcrumbed me if that's a thing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 50 | It's not your responsibility to make your or any man feel like a manHer expression in the picture is so relatable too. I have a feeling it is a universal one women are born with to make at men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 43 | I only have one question: WHYI can't believe I used to think a guy jerking it 3+ times a day was normal. Then trying to sleep with you...like..."you basically just said you masturbated all day. Just use your hand again." 🤷♀️ "But I need something warmer/wetter/etc." "Use more lotion/lube then?" He would get sooo offended, hurt, and upset. I was waiting for the day he pulled the: "Fine! I guess I'll just never try to have sex with you ever again." "K." "Or sleep in the same bed as you." Ooooo! "Promise?" Waits for more. "Ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:05 PM |
| 19 | This is why I don't even date.Then even when you try to say that its "not just about sex", they still only initiate things like cuddling or a hand touch when they want something from you. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:50 PM |
| 15 | This is why I don't even date.WhY No PrEtTy GuRl WaNNa DaTe MEeeE?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 6 | One of the creepy messages I got on my old account. Reading this shocked me since I never heard any man say such weird and disgusting things to me.Creep shame him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:45 AM |
| 6 | Rant: My masters degree and (probably) pick me friend dgaf?Queen, we are all happy for you here (all 99k of us)! That is your Masters degree!!! 👑👑👑 It sucks that your friend chose scrotes over genuinely celebrating your happiness and your achievement! It was a girl's night, not a damn mixer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | How many of you dated a narcissist who was into "ethical non-monogamy” and/or Polyamory?No, but those types are all over pof. 🙃🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | If you haven't checked out the show "The Great", you should. Catherine was such a badass woman.Love this show!!! Wanted tobbn post about but OMG!! I am so happy another 👑 posted about it. 🖤🖤🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Longtime lurker but gotta share: ex LVM bf literally asked me if I wanted to have car sex with him after he broke up with me and drove me to my final destination.🚩🚩🚩🚩🚮 Good job getting out of that! 😃 And welcome, sis!👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Woman has reasonably solution, comments are full of "NoOoOo! It'S nOt NoRmAl FoR a WoMaN tO hAvE hEr OwN rOoM iN a ReLaTiOnShIp!!!1!1!!11 That'S nOt HeAlThY!1!!!“Is that ComicSans? 🤨 Only thing I see wrong about this. That and there are more issues in this relationship than he is telling. She probably needs to dump him. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 5 | FDS Mantras as quick reminders. Any suggestions?Real men pay for real dates. Walks, drinks, and/or coffee aren't real dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | I am a pickmesha and I'm marriedMirena especially. If she gets Paragard, it'll help but it still takes a while and she'll be at a higher risk for infections like UTIs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:37 PM |
| 9 | What will happenThere was a man who once rode his bike for a good 30-45 minutes to see me. He still cheated. 🤷♀️ It will happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 3 | It’s always the best ones, isn’t it? 🤣🤣🤣No one is surprised the man who looks like something you'd get off Wish is poly. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 36 | Reminder, it's never your fault when a man hurts you.Nearly did this when an ex tried to apologize to me AFTER I dumped him and told him to GTFO. Then he texted something about how "his stupid mistake" almost ruined our relationship. 🤨🤔🤪🙃 No, me still talking to you is NOT to be mistaken with us still being together. Feck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Reddit males proving why young girls need FDS. A 16 year old virgin needs to be punished for grown adult men preying on her and "just needs to have sex already" because "it's not a big deal".Its a dude. Has to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Remember these men WANT to be hated! Don't give them the satisfaction.Yup. I have trouble with grudges, mainly against myself for putting up with NVM for however long despite having a HV dad. It moves to me (sometimes) getting angry at them for how they treated me in the first place, and then the shame for thinking about them at all hits. 🤦♀️ I have mantras I use now to remind me that they aren't worth thinking about. On the off chance that I do think about them, its about how they are just a bump in the road (an obstacle/a thing) that I have learned to avoid and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 2 | LVM and assertive womanA backseat? More like a fused on backpack. Wayyyy more attached and dependent on your motion and then they cry like the leech they are when you finally burn them off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | I feel like FDS is the only place I can breathe.This is how my cats are trained too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:53 PM |
| 6 | This subreddit helped me leave my bf of 5 years the other day! Thank you:)Its usually because they're realizing their emotional rock and sure thing won't be there anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 3 | These companies owned by scrotes, Telling us to “fix” ourselves by paying them money. The message to “fix” our “broken” and “not good enough” selves is EVERYWHERE in advertising and media with objectified images of women used to sell us things. Vet culture and companies too not just menWhere's the lie? Its the best way to lose weight too. I lost like 165lbs when I kicked my ex out. 🦇👑🦇 Edit: punctuation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Self care is best careOhhhh I am soooo taking a nice hot bath after work today. 🥰 With some Bare Minerals moisturizer. Yessss. 🖤🖤🖤🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:33 PM |
| 3 | I wonder if men are okay sometimes because..Lol he didn't think she would actually meet someone let alone try to. 🤣 Sis, I hope to God you leave that sludge where it fell and walk away before you step in it again. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:30 PM |
| 10 | At first I felt for her until.. (let me know if you got to that part in the comments). 😣😣😣Probably anime porn. Mostbof my exes were intobit. Its the same with that one where the girls lactated when they were turned on. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm just focusing on myself!Chipotle, nachos, travel, and friends. Love it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 4 | My ex sent me this tonightSounds like one of my best friends. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 4 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.Yeah, so they can make you look like the bad guy when really they're just too lazy to. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | No thanks.Omg...pretty sure that trait was in every guy I dated. 😮 The guy who went back to his ex when I was in hs because I wouldn't let him kiss me. Who went back to me later and we "dated" for like 4 months. 🤮 He also happened to be soooo hung up on a completely different ex. I should have posted alllll the laugh emojis when he told me (I was young and pre FDS, I was still laughing but didn't show it on msgr). Grossest guy I have ever met. The guy who bounced off the girls in our mutual social groupin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Day to day ManipulationI love lists! Always remember, the best part of dating a man with a list of red flags, is you have so much you can spot from men before it ever gets passed talking to them online. 😃👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 7 | Remember ladies, plants are lower maintenance and actually prolong your life ;)I need plants in my life. I adore little hanging planters. They're like house earrings. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 30 | Why do men online always have such a negative reaction/hangups over dinner dates?? Yet they want to meet you ASAPAny guy who thinks a fucking dinner date is a commitment is probably broke. Imagine being 40 and broke yet trying to "score". Ew. Did he hit the wall physically too, sis? Or is it just his brain? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Can we start a petition to update the DSM5 because these scrotes will use any excuse to normalise sexualising literal children.This looks a lot like the shit I have seen Onision from youtube try to pull. 🤮 Being a pedo is gross and creepy. May it always stay that way. Shame that creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 8 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂"I don't like when you tell other people nice things like that. Only tell ME nice things or I won't be your boyfriend anymore. WAHHHHH!" Child, bye. I swear, if I see a post about this woman coming on here to make an AITA a little out her grown ass baby man, giving her an ultimatum, we can just let her know he was already tagged TA so she is fine. Edit: And then encourage her to dump his ass because sometimes that's all a girl needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 20 | I meant this as a joke but his response just gave me a great insight into him as a person. Gonna start telling lads I’m “crazy” more often to weed out the weak ones.Embroidery, sewing, coding, and making Skyrim house mods for the PS4 because there are so few. Edit: ps4 not psa. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:53 AM |
| 18 | I meant this as a joke but his response just gave me a great insight into him as a person. Gonna start telling lads I’m “crazy” more often to weed out the weak ones.Its going on my list of things to learn. Along with sewing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:24 AM |
| 20 | I meant this as a joke but his response just gave me a great insight into him as a person. Gonna start telling lads I’m “crazy” more often to weed out the weak ones.I wish. So many things to make. 😮🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 42 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄I wish it showed her shoes. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:03 AM |
| 121 | Because marriage it's a torture, of course. Way to ruin happy marriage photosExactly. Its "jokes" like this that spawned subs like Are the Straights Ok. We aren't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:39 PM |
| 18 | "I will kill us both"Yes! OP, strengthen your support system and keep them all updated as you get out of that unsafe space with your dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 27 | "I will kill us both"Exactly this with my last 2 boyfriends... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 7 | A LVM trying to convince me why our third date should be Netflix and chill. I told him it’s not going to work out and I hope he finds the woman for him.Gods, that last bit makes me shudder. It's so gross. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 13 | Your self hatred = profits for old white men. LOVE YOURSELF TO SPITE THE PATRIARCHYOmg! You can wear anything without worrying about annoying button gaps! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Asking for snap red flag?You don't need to apologize to him for your boundaries/standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:13 AM |
| 51 | Why is society so obsessed with sex? It dawned on me that despite it being glorified as “healthy”, the only reason modern humans can have an excessive and unnatural amount of sex is because of birth control—which usually has a shitload of unhealthy side effects.And not by word from him either. I wanna see some medical papers for proof of said snipping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:03 AM |
| 4 | Some pickmeishas are too far gone... Speechless.This is a hugely aesthetic dream of mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | When you look back at your past self and remember how much you cried for a LVMA handful of songs for an LVM who used to inspire me... ugh ewww.🤦♀️ So much shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Make Leveling up your full time jobLove yours too! Is it a reference? 😊 I love The Bell Jar and will probably start with rereading that. Watership Down tugs at my heartstrings and I also have a book of horror stories titled Thriller my little sister gifted to me (I love horror/psych thrillers). I also have a deep appreciation for books by Shirley Jackson. 🖤 Girlllll, I wish. I'll be starting on Skyrim ones for PS4 because I might become a PC gamer but I love my PS4.😭😭 Haven't played Sims in a hot minute, though. 🤔 Are house mods … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:42 PM |
| 9 | "Act" being the operative word here. Anyone had this happen to them lately?Oh, ew. Glad you're away from that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 14 | I don't bother with men who say they want to "build a friendship that could lead to a serious relationship".Idk if this was recent but you will STILL have an easier time getting dates than he will, if you decide to join the dating field again. He isn't/wasn't the prize. Women "hitting the wall" is a lie. Thirty and on hits men hard and they know it. LVM often introduce the girl to their friends/family to help with things like future faking. Be kind to yourself and always remember that YOU are the prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 37 | "Act" being the operative word here. Anyone had this happen to them lately?Its because you're showing them that you won't actually stick around while they throw shit at you, and they're realizing just how scary the idea of being a single man is for them. Never give them another opportunity to disappoint you because they will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 7 | Been finding out about the type of man my ex-fiance, who broke up with me in June, is. I'm not surprised anymore, just in disbelief that at one point in time, I physically felt safe with this man and felt that I could trust him. There are too many men like THIS. THIS is who fds is talking about.Please tell me you have since blocked him, OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 13 | What will it be, ladies? Equality or oppression?I can see one of my ex's posting this and then arguing with every woman who commented saying they would choose feminism...just so he could argue with them and have their attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:07 PM |
| 24 | It's funny because it's true.That reference. 🤣 I always love seeing your handle btw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:34 PM |
| 16 | Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣Not even any real manners. Legit like a reg at a fast food place. Wasn't a complete dick at the end but the last bit was definitely him trying to get her to be like "What? We have chemistry. Pick me! Let me prove myself!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 71 | Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣I always read stuff like this in Morgan Freeman's voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 6 | LVM only concerned with his wife’s exercise routine when it affects his physical attraction to her. The comments support the heck out of him (as if I’m shocked).He'd better keep to that yoga. He's gonna need it once his metabolism drops through hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 9 | Make Leveling up your full time job-I'm going to learn how to budget better (I've always been rather lucky with money but I don't want to depend on it) from a woman I am friends with. -Reading legit books to keep my attention span from shortening. I have plenty of books for this. Plan to start with at least an hour. Used to read all the time. -Therapy. Therapy. Therapy. My work insurance covers an app called Ginger and I have really benefitted from just having therapy through there. If you have questions about it, feel free to PM… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 48 | I’d like you to consider making a dating handbook for pre-teen and teenaged girlsLove these! -The power in the word "No." And how it should stay your favorite word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Scrotes' way of thinkingI completely misread this, at first. Like I discovered this sub thanks to you. 🤣 I legit thought you said he tried to get validation for his thoughts on him being the devil. 🤦♀️🤣🤦♀️ I was so confused, but also used to know guys who would say shit like "I'm the devil/a demon." Because edgy. Not even a teen boy, but a grownass 20 something yr old dude. 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 11 | Scrotes' way of thinkingDated a guy like this. 🤦♀️ Never raised a hand to me but he said that at every opportunity. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Bought a woman a necklace that you regret? Why not traumatise her to get it back? /sHe'd set up a way to not be there when it happened. Just a "drink with the boys" and he either turns his phone off or he's "too drunk to call an Uber, let alone drive", but he'll be right there. 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | 48M Seeking 28-34FYou miss out on the (most likely) subpar tinder sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 9 | We have to dump them because they will never dump us. They will ruin our lives and self esteem before they let us go. Dump him sis, he wants you to.My ex in a nutshell. I kicked him out and he reached out to some guy friends and one girl (can't really call her a mutual friend because I never really felt like her friend). He barely even likes her and she swooped in and plucked him off my porch. He only tried to get back with me until he found out her intention to give him the life he "deserved" and "always wanted". Its like she knew she would have to build him. Bet he considers/calls it building with her. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 6 | We have to dump them because they will never dump us. They will ruin our lives and self esteem before they let us go. Dump him sis, he wants you to.KeepCryingIAintBuying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | If men focused as much on self-improvement as they did on pornography, the world might be a better place... (Stolen from a FB page)He calls it poison...and is still okay putting that into a woman? JFC.🙄🙄🙄🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:34 PM |
| 2 | From a thread where a man said that they need explicit instructions for them to do something for their SOs. Imagine being the wife of this man, how sad is this :(Oh my gods!!! I love your houses! 😍 Current and future. They sound absolutely beautiful and aesthetic. 🦇 And its really that easy to think about loved ones and gift accordingly. When I was a little younger, I wanted to get a big dragon statue for one of my eldergoth friend's gardens but I had never been over to her place and didn't want it to take up too much space, so I got her a smaller one (think a little older than baby dragon) and wrote a cute little letter "from him" to her, asking her if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:36 PM |
| 10 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!Oh, how do you even live with yourself? Or sleep at night?! 🤣🤣 Fucker can go get it fixed. What a baby. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:08 AM |
| 4 | “spiritual guys”are trash too"Let's test our sexual compatibility. How else are we going to know?" Just less words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 12 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!The tooth thing!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:18 PM |
| 15 | Insecure yet cocky men men are a disease. Avoid them like the plague.Idk how what else to talk about with this significantly younger woman, better neg her about what I am insecure about.-LVM who (for whatever reason) grew up thinking he wouldn't have to even try. 🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:38 PM |
| 18 | And todays catch of the day ladies! Red flag central with a generous serving of emotional baggage"Doesn't matter at won't tell you yet." Thinks he's funny but it really just comes off as juvenile. "Doesn't judge a book by its cover." So he isn't a looker. I am still looking for the redeeming green flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:26 PM |
| 8 | The cashier at Wendy’s just gave me his number 🙄🤢"First off, he wouldn't approach me out of nowhere and act entitled to my time." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 3 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!Omg, my ex was like this too with the driving. 😣 He didn't even have a car. Dude was jelly af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Try not to take low value behaviour personally. They’ve treated women badly before you and it’s very likely they will treat women badly after you. THEY are the problem.That was me some years back. I also let her age be a reason to not listen to her instead of seeing it as a 🚩🚩🚩. 🤦♀️ He was like 23/24 and she was barely 18 when they started dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 14 | Try not to take low value behaviour personally. They’ve treated women badly before you and it’s very likely they will treat women badly after you. THEY are the problem.This is the part I need to remember. Edit: If his ex talks to you and tells you where they themselves went wrong and where the person you are with went wrong...just listen. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 2 | For my fellow women dealing with creepy men right now. Hope this article gives you some courage to stand up against the creeps.Like speed dating that's harder to leave. 🙄 I got away with telling a few men I was underaged and that made them leave me be. After a time, I just preferred to stand near the exit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 16 | Blocked a LVM who tried to come crawling back after 4 years 😒Oh no, OP! He's going to flirt with other women! Better go be his friend and do wifey things so he doesn't flirt with and pick some other girl. 🥺🥺🥺🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 16 | FDS is not only about celibacy : you can date, be married, just do not forget about your goals, interests and safety."I'm not gonna yuk your yum." I love this so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 3 | For my fellow women dealing with creepy men right now. Hope this article gives you some courage to stand up against the creeps.Reminds me of when I used to take the bus. They seem to be full of scrotes on the reg. Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 22 | Peak LVM right here😐😑😣😑😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 25 | From Legend of Korra. I thought it fit. Lol.I hate when men use lines like this.🙄 Edit: WoMeN aRe tHe DrAMaTIc OnEs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 19 | Thought I found a HVM, then I told him no to hanging out on weekend, explained I’m only comfortable socializing about three times a week to keep my social battery happy...Awwwww, he thinks his words are going to make you want to change your mind. How cute. Sorry your friend turned out to be...like that. Good you know now, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 16 | A girl had my back todayCongratulations on your break up! We are all here for you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020That sounds lovely! I hope you have a great time! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Women helping women. 💜 Do any of you lovely ladies have similar stories? I would love to read them.Oof. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Women helping women. 💜 Do any of you lovely ladies have similar stories? I would love to read them.Damn right! 🦇👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Women helping women. 💜 Do any of you lovely ladies have similar stories? I would love to read them.That is so unhealthy.😰 Glad its over. Do you miss your friend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Women helping women. 💜 Do any of you lovely ladies have similar stories? I would love to read them.I am sorry to hear that. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:50 PM |
| 31 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻Same. I am still waiting on approval for my website account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:23 AM |
| 13 | PSA!!!!!Typically, the only reliable man in my life is my dad. One of my essential requirements for a partner is reliability in such emergencies now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | NEVER AGAINIts basically a hobby lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Am I just a bitch? The amount of times he mentioned my school drive me bananas. I think I may just suck at this online dating thing.Bet he actually dropped out or got rejected. Edit: On mobile and can only see the first 2 panels. Edit 2: I read the rest and he definitely dropped out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Men can't provide for families, can't pick up after themselves, can't pay for a whole date, and now they're demanding that they don't ask women out on dates at all but they still want access to us. Don't ask men out, leave these losers to die alone.I want to see his sources. Did anyone ask to see these? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:58 PM |
| 5 | Thank you, ladies. I told a man to fuck off for the very first time and feel incredible.Only if he has enough AUDACITY to ask. My gods... Then you can remind him how unprofessional personal conversation is at work. 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:17 PM |
| 4 | As requested, the Lasagna of Male DepravityIt needs to be as flat as the pillow they sleep on.🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Excuse me, what? She shouldn't have even stayed the night, much less even THINK about moving in with him.He is clearly not embarrassed about the "nest". If he is, he needs to be MORE embarrassed about it. He said that to make her feel bad for (naturally) being horrified by the thing. The guy wouldn't have brought her over if he didn't think he could get away with living like that. How repulsive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:02 PM |
| 9 | NEVER AGAINIts true. The connection isn't seen or it is entirely ignored. 🤷♀️ I think it took me wayy too long to realize the way they treat themselves and relationships is seen in the condition of the essential parts of their home/room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:10 PM |
| 4 | NEVER AGAINWho else seems to collect pillows and blankets? I swear, I have like 10 different sherpa blankets. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 9 | NEVER AGAINFlatass bald af yellow pillows on a floor mattress with no sheet. Sounds like the boy in college, but I have a feeling we have all dated this man. I know I did. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | NEVER AGAINThey all have clear hate for us on their subs, so cLeArLy we're a hate sub tOoO. 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 01:48 PM |
| 9 | It’s okay to mourn the loss of a connection/relationship, even if it was not right for youI went through months of emotional ups and downs. It felt like that bit in Tangled after Rapunzel left her tower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 10:51 PM |
| 4 | My dad decorated my mom's garden space.I don't know. 😅 My mom collects fabric and uses it as she sees fit or as she is paid to (like making masks). I can definitely see why you'd ask, though. If it isn't, its close. 😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 7 | My dad decorated my mom's garden space.Please show us what you get when you find one you like!🥰 Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 10 | My dad decorated my mom's garden space.You can barely see it, but he put her big metal key decoration on it too. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:42 PM |
| 23 | And that’s on periodtGirl, same! Took me years to realize this is how I should be treated by a partner too. No idea why. 🤷♀️🤦♀️ Better late than never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 6 | Divorce filings have soared in the United States since covid. IS ANYBODY SURPRISED?Yesss!👑👑👑 A few months later I was finally able to drop one of my jobs, get myself a pair of cute wedges, and spoil my (now three) cats. 🥰🥰🥰 Love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:06 PM |
| 11 | Ex sends me this message, 11 months after we broke up 🤔 BLOCK AND DELETE!Reading this gave me a headache. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | I broke up with him after 6 years. I'm in pain but I know it will pass.Oh gods, a lot of this felt almost too close to home. Congratulations on getting out.😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:28 PM |
| 6 | Divorce filings have soared in the United States since covid. IS ANYBODY SURPRISED?Yes! Did you celebrate? I took a nice long bath with wine and sang to my cat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Divorce filings have soared in the United States since covid. IS ANYBODY SURPRISED?Same! I kicked my nvm ex out in like november 2019. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:36 PM |
| 12 | No man should be ashamed of us ladies!Its 2020, how did his fragile masculinity survive this long? Edit: Oops. Read the date. It was 3 years ago? And I hope he's grown a dick since then. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 6 | Omg 🙃 LVMThis cheating "good guy" here is SO broke, he's looking for some poor young girl to be his new provider and bangmaid while he gets his degree. He wants a new life boat because his current one is about to make him homeless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 7 | Omg 🙃 LVMA slim one that he can fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | There is no "one that got away"Oh, I did. No worries. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | One month curse and not letting LVM get to me👑👑👑 You got this!!!💜💜💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | The level of disrespect from this LVM was astronomicalWhat was his first name, if you don't mind me asking? Because he sounds like someone I dated. 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: block negative LVMs and NVMs who bring you downToo many men do this crap and are never told they aren't funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:52 PM |
| 6 | One month curse and not letting LVM get to meWas just about to say that he probably found someone in that time, who was okay with putting out. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Just substitute “Taurus” with “LVM”I am a Capricorn who has mostly dated other earth signs. The Taurus I dated was more motivated and active than the Virgo I dumped more recently, but it might not be fair because I never lived with just the Taurus LVM I dated. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 3 | When was the last time a man you didn't know helped you with your groceries/lift something heavy/held the door for you/ complimented you on something OTHER than your looks?When I went to the bank the other day, a guy leaving with his wife held the door open for me. 🤔 I don't get out much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:54 PM |
| 5 | I’m moving out on Saturday.Congratulations, sis! 🥰 I know the feeling on the crying. A guyfriend that used to stay with us for a few months (who paid rent, cleaned, and shit unlike my nvm ex), in our game room would frequently help us out monetarily (bills and stuff) even though I didn't need it. NVM expected it but I tended to just cry because I was so thankful and not used to being helped. It was sad how threatened my ex felt towards his own friend. This probably just goes towards how shitty men hate when other men do m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:47 PM |
| 10 | Just LVM things with a side of gaslightingIts amazing that their version is synonymous with devolving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 15 | There is no "one that got away"My most recent ex decided to act like we were on break when I dumped him/kicked him out before the pandemic really took flight in the US. He would message me from his new "roommate's" residence and tell me about how he was drinking more water and/or working out. I wouldn't msg him back. I was way too pissed. Wtf was I even supposed to say? Responding would be validating his late attempt at something low effort. Like, seriously. Good for you but you're not coming back here. I'm tired of your bull… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Omg I’m iNvItEd to his party! This LVM always sending me the me LV ideas to “hang out”"I've sampled that before, trust me, its not a party." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever regretted blocking someone? Share your story to encourage other women to block the LVMs that they're being too nice to right now. How did you feel when you blocked him?I always block exes now. Most recently I blocked an ex and his new "roommate", a set in her ways pickme (poor thing) who will probably be having that hobosexual's child. Its really sad how she didn't learn how much better she deserved after divorcing her ex husband. She moved on to date my last 2 ex l/nvm (including this current one if she hasn't already realized his severe lack of value and left). I regret neither, but I was stuck on her for a while because I felt bad. She was about to put her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Hahahahaha I just....WHAT?! I’m sure you know why you deadbeat.Sounds like one of my exes if I ever had kids with him and dumped him. 🙄🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Smh....I lurked it and was SO RELIEVED to see she called the engagement off a month ago. On step at a time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 10 | “Even if it means giving up my rights to wear certain lipsticks” Girl I–Lol no. I wear vampy lippies all the time because I love how I feel and look in them. No man is going to stop that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:35 PM |
| 8 | He's depressed" "Try couples therapy" "Give him your love and support" Are they serious? DUMP HIM, GIRL!He's got you where he wants you and now he's going to use you. Why the fuck do men do this?! He was doing so well and now he is just going to drop it so he can be taken care of by his new mommy/gf? Girl, if you didn't carry him in your womb for 9 months and birth that thing, then why are you carrying him now?! Kick it from the nest, if he falls he falls. Not your responsibility. 🤦♀️🙄 My ex had a great job when I met him but since he didn't have his driver's license at the time he asked for bett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Will this ever end? I know I’m enough, that I would rather be single than with an LVM. But I feel sick w loneliness—I live alone and we’re a communal species. The lockdown is fucking me up. I re-downloaded OLD in a moment of weakness and this was the first guy I matched with. JfcHis name is Gaston. Gaston would definitely try spontaneous drink or home dates. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?That's a mix of 2 losers who were (kind of) friends. I should have known not to date his friends theu seemed different in the good way. Not just because they showed interest in me. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Where is the lie?I get that but I like how modern stories are being added to try and alter that. If only a little. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Where is the lie?That's why I (mostly) love Hades/Persephone stories. You know, apart from how even Persephone gets raped by Apollo or Zeus. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:57 AM |
| 5 | Where is the lie?Athena's "gifty curse" wasn't meant to be a punishment. It was meant to protect her from future rape. :/ Still. Poor Medusa. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:26 AM |
| 29 | Just another manipulation tactic!My ex reacted this way when I told him I didn't like how angry he got while playing Black Ops video games and said he would just get rid of it and never play it again. I said "Okay. Your choice." 🤷♀️ Guess what didn't last. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 4 | What's a queen without her king? Well, historically speaking, she is MORE POWERFUL 👑 🙌👸I just finshed the first season of the show a while back. Its on Hulu. Holy shit is Peter III absolutely infantile and monstrous. 😰🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:50 AM |
| 6 | Could y’all imagine?Wedding cakes like this monstrosity are why people ask if the straights are okay. We are not okay. 😭 And I thought it said Peaceful at first. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:44 AM |
| 48 | “She takes care of me and the kids and provides financially...but I like sleeping with you.” Can we take art supplies away from men?Right..."Loyal to her just like I am loyal to you." Its nothing. A whole lot of words that mean nothing. His loyalty means shit because he can keep "adding" women he's "loyal" to. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | It’s Happening!I blame being brainwashed by a society that sees women more like things than people. Being the "cool girl" is letting men walk all over you and letting those red flags fly. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.Someone mentioned John Wolfe but I think they were removed for whatever reason. I watch John Wolfe too and I enjoy his gaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | It’s Happening!Does he think you're joking or something?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | It’s Happening!Is he actively trying to find a place? Yes! All the bed! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | I’ve just watched it on Netflix. She is very funny and FDS minded. Recommended!I watched this in bed last night and it was wonderful! Think I startled my poor cat with my cackling, though. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?TL;DR:...A LOT. 🙄🤡🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤢🤮 He tried to pit me against this imaginary other girl, saying how she was "next" and had been wanting to date him for a while. 🙄 I was 19. Very pre FDS. Should have noped out there. The hateful way he talked about most of his exes. (THIS ONE WAS 🚩🚩🚩 CENTRAL) All of them dumped him btw. Never made that connection before. The gaslighting. Saying he loved me 3 weeks in. Unrealistic future goals. His inability to take responsibility for his actions. The way he talked … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | I don't fw grown men who quote Monty Python anywayIsn't that the easiest one to learn? If so, that makes sense. Still sad, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 7 | It’s Happening!When is he set to leave your nest? Congratulations, 👑. Stay safe. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 27 | Woman's BF "playfully" almost drowns her, cue LVM in the comments saying it's "nOT aBuSIve"TaLk To HiM. 🤡 Oh, spare me, he's 26 years old, not 6. He fucking knew what he was doing. 7 months in and showing signs of abuse that he frames as playing. Bet he'd do the same after killing her. "Oh, we were just playing. Idk what happened. It was an accident." She means nothing to him but can't even see he's showing her that because he's getting tired of wearing his "good boy" mask. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:24 PM |
| 3 | LVM & NVM be like, "I wAs JuSt ChEcKiNg In tO sEe HoW yOu WeRe DoInG bEcAuSe I aM sUcH a GoOd gUy." then get salty when you don't accept their shitty outreach attempt because hE iS TrYiNg!Failed interpersonal relationships. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:35 AM |
| 65 | Ex tries to shame me. Read the room, man. I don’t want you back. I wish the kids and I lived in another country.He wanted you to mean it that way so bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 6 | LVM starting young. 😂Idc how old he is, I like to imagine he read her response, got all sulky, and slumped away... But chances are he just went to go try the next Bailey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 92 | How do we get more of these?!?!?This makes my heart feel full. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.Let me know if you find them. We can both look. 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.Same! Seeing them made me decide I wanted to make a game (just one) that followed similar themes. His indie LPs are from his earlier days, I think...maybe 4 years ago or so. 🤔 Now I want to watch them again. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.I have a soft spot for some of Jack's older indie game playthroughs. The simple and lovely point and click story based ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, I've just had to block a NVM friend who I never thought I'd have the courage to block.Congratulations!!! I am so proud of you! 🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:28 PM |
| 12 | This story made me ill - woman discovers husband’s affair, topped off with pregnant.Yup, abort, divorce, and block em both. That's not a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:13 PM |
| 9 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.Jacksepticeye and Splattercat seem safe, but its been awhile if there has been anything new on em. Markiplier is pretty funny. I love his space obsession. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Sent to me from a friend ... a hard pass if I see one 😂My mindset isn't ready for a relationship but that doesn't mean we can't share a bed- Yes, it does, Sam. Now go get some fucking therapy. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 22 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?21/22 and I was STILL being too nice until a real scare hit and I had a anxiety attack in the kitchen at my work. Then I devoted myself to really learning RBF from my elder goth friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 12 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.It was his "chillness" and voice. He was relatable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 14 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.That's so sad and gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 12 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.Right?! The more he spoke and talked in circles, the more hurt and angry I felt. Like I used to watch his horror game playthroughs all the time and this just tainted all of it...😥 I hear this is common but, damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.That is such a blantant disrespect/disregard of your time. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Hesitating to BlockThe only difficult part of it will be blocking her on everything, eventually. Breaking up with friends hurt more than regular break ups do. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 30 | One way it could have happened...Has to be the case. If it was just a pinch, I am sure they would have died out already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 17 | Recently got hit in the face with this. I was a big fan of this youtuber for a long time because he was less boisterous than a lot of other video gamers/Lets Players...he cheated on his gf (who was rumored to have been underage when they started dating) with minors.I found out after awhile of not watching his stuff and then came back to see if he would be doing a playthrough of TLOU 2 because he played the first one and it was huge for a while. The first video that popped up about him broke my heart. Is there anyone else here who used to watch his stuff? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 11 | Husband makes birthday gifts for his wifeOmg! Thank you for posting this! I had a blast watching this sweet video. I read the comments. I too wish to be one of Jun's cats. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 9 | Romantic movies that are FDS horror moviesExactly! The only time its okay for a guy to memorize my schedule is if he lives with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Am I just being a prude or is this too much for someone who has only spoken to me for 5 minutes? #datingwhenyoure30Happy cake day! 😀💜🖤💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:45 AM |
| 6 | “We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”Let it out!! Threatening suicide, especially in response to your partner leaving is one of the shittiest things a person can do. 😡😡😡😡 My ex, when I was breaking up with him over text (crappy, I know and idc, he deserved it), sent me a picture of him with my cat, saying something about maybe Othello can tell how he feels. 🙄 Dude looked like he was going to pull the kind of shit you're talking about or hurt my cat. Its hard to block someone who lives with you. This is why we have the flair KICKHIM… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Just...why?!I know he thinks he's being clever like "My dick is so good, it'll be all you can think about." But its just...ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Just...why?!I think I accepted the chat only to block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:56 AM |
| 12 | When men “apologize” they be likeSorry I slapped myself but I thought you wanted me to leave and I wanted to show you how much that hurt ME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:48 PM |
| 19 | “We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”Talked to an LVM who tried to slide "men being oppressed too" into our conversation and I was just like "nah." He then pulled the "Oh right. What do I know? I'm just a dumb man, right? Clueless." card. "Amazingly self aware, though." Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:47 PM |
| 10 | Just...why?!And he looks so proud of his words like it gets a positive reaction all the time. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 13 | Just...why?!Absolutely, but this level of desperation to tell me about his dick is just...🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 12 | Just...why?!Just posted it there lol thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:23 PM |
| 21 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡Yeah! He didn't have a job. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤡🤡🤡 Blehhh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:11 PM |
| 56 | When women just want a safe space to encourage and empower one another, hence the creation of FDS, this ish happensBecAuSE MeN NeED sAViNg ToO. 🤪🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 14 | What she said. 💁♀️I love this! Even though it shows how much shit she has had to plough through and probably still does from disrespectful scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.Lol I was sad about this one too, but its the stalkery dude again. Guy doesn't take no for an answer because he is so infatuated with the girl. Disrepecting boundaries to try try try until she gets worn down enough to say yes but they never frame it that way because Love interest. Unfortunately, that goes for that cutesy boom box scene. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 16 | Three hours between these messages... that mask came off QUICKCrap like this is why I ask guys what their favorite poison is and tell them that I have an unhealthy attachment and obssession with poisons, so we should talk about them since he wants to "click so bad". Then watch em scramble over their Google search if they don't dip. 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 21 | Three hours between these messages... that mask came off QUICKThose are the types who are quick to accuse you of cheating. One of my girlfriends dated a guy like this. He was horrid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.--There's Something About Mary --Wedding Crashers --Say Anything --Love Actually (this realization made me particularly sad because I used to adore it) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 20 | To the men that always say things like this to try and separate/differentiate themselves, shut the hell up. Infantilizing yourselves makes it easier for you manboys to not hold each other accountable when a woman experiences real harm/danger.Some guy tried to say this when I said "Telling a girl you want to sleep with them or that you jack off to them is more like sexual harrassment dressed up as a compliment." 🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:46 PM |
| 19 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.Oh gods!!! Exactly! Guys and pickmes alike see that crap and use it. Like that dating site post I saw "I want a girl who will make me want to be a better person" or whatever. Then, when they aren't changing for the better or whatever, they get to blame the woman for not being THE ONE. 🤢 I used to think that was introspective and mature, and it triggered my pickme for YEARS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:42 PM |
| 19 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.Yes!!! Or played off and romanticized not being able to agree with one another about ANYTHING. I detested The Notebook for this reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 17 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.Girl, same. My dad is retired army and he taught me routine and communication. I have had friends try this as well. We're adults. That needs to have been planned like a week ago, not the day before. And then they get upset when you point this out and/or cancel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 71 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡THIS! To get out of going to my parents after a while. I love visiting my family. It was way better visiting them alone. He was such a dark cloud in the corner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:27 PM |
| 48 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡My NVM ex almost totalled my car around the holidays one year. So I had a rental on xmas THAT I PAID FOR. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Another day another ugly man being unnecessarily rude to me on OLDI think he needs to smile more. The attempt he is making, makes him look constipated. Or like he just crapped his pants. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 10:05 AM |
| 66 | Woman finds out husband raped his cousin when she was 13 and continued affair throughout their entire marriage. Just when I think I’ve seen it all, men manage to sink to new levels of depravity.Came here to say this. 😥 That and divorce that sicko. My gods. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:55 AM |
| 7 | Blocked and deleted! Thanks FDS. (Please don't come at me for my obvious errors, I've learned)"GoTTa ShOoT My SHoT." Because you never know. 🙄 Pretty sure I know. You literally just got done telling him you didn't want to play casual bed casualty with him, so now he's just like "well, then just give some mental sex stuff because I have no creativity of my own and was planning to be the only one to get off anyways." Or he thinks he can seduce you by telling you he's jacking off to thoughts of you (because that's SOOOO romantic). Ugh, good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 68 | Man asks for tips to help him stalk a Twitch streamer because her likes her. We can’t have anything nice without men trying to insert themselves and their desires.Bet he thinks the effort he is putting into stalking her will be seen as romantic. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:43 AM |
| 5 | Because why admit that you were wrong if you can always gaslight instead 🤷♀️Sorry. Does it again I already apologized for this. Why are you bringing it up again? My bad...😥 Spends the next 5-8 hrs being mopey while expecting me to tell him everything is fine so he can try to get laid Sorry I am such an asshole. You really shouldn't take what I say seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 11 | Know your worth girls!I just blocked him. 🤷♀️ 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 11:51 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone else get sick of men telling them to smile more?This reminds me of when I was doing a work errand some years back with a friend/coworker of mine. We were walking down a hill and this guy was trying to talk to us/walk with us, something about us looking upset. My CW straight up STOPS. "Do you know this guy, Coffee?" I shake my head and she makes a face at him. "Then why is he talking to us?" AND KEEPS ON WALKING. Woman is a 👑 to this day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:33 PM |
| 6 | Wow, they are truly disgusting. We haven’t spoke in 3 years. Old me would’ve thought “Aw I was on his mind”. Nope, she’s dead now.GeEeZe. jUst SEeiNg WhAt wAs Up. Trying to make her feel bad for her getting more grossed out than wooed by his low effort BS. 🙄 I swear. Men think this is modern romcom shit when really its low effort and even creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:01 PM |
| 16 | I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort.This is definitely POF. Ran into so many guys like this on there, I probably talked to that one. 🤢 Relieved you're off all of that. Most other sites are just as bad or worse. 😥 That one tended to toss women in their 20s into a pool of dudes in their 30s almost 40s usually. Ugh.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 44 | I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort.This!!! OMG! Hit me like a ton of bricks...damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 13 | My NV ex moved out last year. I converted his old gaming area into an art studio for myselfThat's exciting!!! 🥰🥰🥰 I love stories like this! Goodbye, NVM! Hello new and inspiring lifestyle that makes me happy! 🖤 Yes! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 67 | My NV ex moved out last year. I converted his old gaming area into an art studio for myselfI thought I had a VG addiction until my ex and I moved in together. We only had the one console (his) for a long time and he would complain everytime I was playing to the point that I lost interest and just stopped. Then he would try to get me excited about new games that only I would really be into of the two of us (Like the second part of The Last of Us, I don't like playing live much). I just started squinting at him until I eventually asked him why I would want to waste my money on a game if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Daniel from Lady-Like Netflix movie is the HVM 🤩I'll have to check it out. 😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 18 | I'm not yours boo. I belong to myselfEspecially, at that angle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:15 AM |
| 6 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?Okay, I have mixed feels about Elf. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:19 PM |
| 10 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?Any movie with Will Ferrel in it, for me. I just do not find him funny. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 5 | ...anyways,Love your last reply. 🤣 Guessing you blocked him after? 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | ...anyways,That's like waiting for the other person to stop talking instead of actually listening to what they're saying. 🙄🤦♀️ Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Why do men seem to get enjoyment/pleasure from telling women they look tired?Before I got a car, I took a bus to college and work. This post reminds me of a time I was heading to open and was about to walk by some guy with coffee in his hand. I didn't really see him but apparently my lack of a bubbly smile bothered him. He obnoxiously said "Good morning!" AT me. Loudly. In my face. Its sad how sensitive men are to women they don't even know. Fucker, I am not tired, but I am not going to walk around smiling for your overgrown, bald, petulant ass feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.And they start so young! What is it with men being so dramatic over break ups? My first used me for sex, broke up with me when I got either "too emotional" or "too much because baggage, tried to get back with me as fwb (LOL) when I was dating someone else, and then had the audacity to say he "loved me so much" in front of his mcds date to a friend of mine who was working there. 🙄 When he told me he missed me and asked me if I wanted to be fwb with him while I was dating someone else, I tore into… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Hesitating to BlockOne of my best friends is married to a LVM. He works a great job but bitches about helping with her kid (from another guy, but he married her knowing this would be the case). She regularly has/had issues with how much money he puts into his car/bike when they already have a hard time financially. He doesn't do any housework. He has let a woman whose daughter may or may not be his into his home, spent money on said child, and manipulated my friend into thinking it was normal and that she should m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to continue having a busy schedule with a boyfriend?He doesn't like your cat? Its a no from me, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 2 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?It doesn't blow anyone's mind that he's married, but I bet he is mind blowingly bad at sex. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:21 PM |
| 9 | How disgusting! This douchebag really thinks the world wide web revolves around him. 🤮I might just delete mine and keep msgr. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Something I got from The FDS Instagram page. How true is this? I’ve just realised why sex was so good with my NVM! because he had starved me for affection otherwise- literally! No hugs or kisses only in the bedroom and that’s exactly why it felt good.Same. My ex would masturbate several times a day, apparently. 🙄 Ugh, and the only time he initiated affection of any kind was when he wanted something. Things started off with him being attentive to my needs but really slowed to a full stop once we started dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 5 | This is harsh but true. Married women with pickme tendencies don’t like single women because they have agency. It’s important to remember that marriage is a patriarchal institution that advises women to deprioritize themselves.I had this thought for a long time about relationships. Idk why I didn't see long relationships equated to shit when they lacked healthiness. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.He doesn't work with her, luckily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Not for FDS women!Would have been my pickme future sans the age gap had I stayed with my ex. For anything his loud af alarm couldn't get him up for, which was basically everything.😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:56 PM |
| 9 | “I want to play my video game/watch porn instead.” Of course consent is super important and like any person he may not be up for it whenever you are, but if he is constantly rejecting you or even replacing you with PORN, that’s the easiest way to get dumped 🤡I remember when I wanted to play video games with a guy I was dating...all the way up until I heard how he talked to the people he played video games with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 5 | How to stay single: Scrote edition!Just because you're lazy and controlling doesn't make you an alpha male. That shit is BS anyways. Besides, I bet he would expect her to move in asap and do all the housework. Automatic bangmaid just moved in with him and he doesn't have to propose because she is already assuming "wife roles" (why else would there be nothing about "must be interested in dating with the intention of marriage"?). Then, once he sees her friends don't like him, he would end up giving her too much to do around the hou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.Thisnis such a weird and random happening for her that she is sure he doesn't work near her let alone with the union she works for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.I doubt he really showed them. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 9 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.Thank you for suggesting it. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:51 AM |
| 23 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.That's sad and horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:30 AM |
| 18 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.Ooooo! Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:05 PM |
| 30 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.Yes, as far as I know. Her replies have been consistent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:05 PM |
| 38 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.Oh, I'm fine. That was found on another sub. It just fit here, to me. Thank you for checking, though. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:54 PM |
| 15 | Actual r/wholesomememesTheir sexualization of your body isn't professional. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | What would you say to pre-teen you?Keep up your therapy and self love routine. Don't let boys act like being mean/teasing is acceptable because "they like you". Then focus on work and college. Don't chase men. Or date those boys. Make a list. No relationship should be the way most movies/shows play em out to be. Don't romanticize love. Your happiness is your responsibility not theirs. If they don't add to it, they can be clipped from your life. Be kinder to yourself. What happened is not your fault. You were just in the middle of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Hi ladies. Whenever I tell someone I blocked my ex after an ‘amicable’ breakup they tell me I’m over the top and rudeRight? I used to just let it go and stay friends with them, but once I became friends with a couple of older ladies at my work, they advised me to block my exes for ME. I shouldn't know how long my ex did or didn't take to get with another woman. That stunted my recovery from the breakup itself. :/ But when the door is left open, both sides have the ability to see what's going on on the other side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:44 PM |
| 5 | One more time!? I would of killed him the 1st time!Throw the whole man away! He obviously isn't adding anything good to her life. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Ignored my cheating exGood for you!!!! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 3 | If this is love I do not want itLook at her face!!!! Anytime I see shit like this, I always look at the woman's face. I have a feeling they never really bothered her to do anything but act natural during this because they knew/thought the attention would be on the fucker who cheated. I hope she doesn't think she is stuck with him forever. Gtfo, girl!!! Gender doesn't fucking matter here, someone cheating= they suck and have some shit to work on ALONE. And HIM!! THE AUDACITY in him practically glowing through how proud he is at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Men call you an asshole when you dont lower your stardards. NOT KIDDINGI think I found the guy who actually said you were an asshole for not lowering your standards for men like him. 🙄 Gods... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman...Yeah, it really doesn't work with the part about being bossed around. Maybe he has rationalized that its not bossing around if she always says yes. 🙄🤔🤢 Altogether, it is very anime girl with just a pinch of real look bits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 2 | This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman...Well, he definitely would approve of that then because it goes with her thinking Meyers Briggs is a hot dog brand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Someone commented about OP making the ring himself because it's also cheaper and all the pick mes obviously started saying 'BUT IT'S THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS 🥺'...but the replies on the plastic one were too much for meI still have the ring a High school bf made for me and proposed to me with. Its metal, with wrapping and a melted stone like bit where the gem would be. He liked the second attempt at making it better because he messed up the wire wrap the first time. I'm glad he ended it, though. We were way too young. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:50 PM |
| 6 | I hope he picks the second girl 🥴😴No, he doesn't care. In his eyes, if she doesn't react like that Carly pickme, then she doesn't deserve to feel safe seeking medical attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:34 PM |
| 7 | I hope he picks the second girl 🥴😴Stalker behavior isn't nice or cute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 9 | A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸Girl, no. I have a guy friend who ubered over to my duplex to help my mom and I pack my ex's crap (only the 2nd room/game room stuff). He rehung a large painting in my living room because I mentioned the slant it was at. He had a work injury (shoulder has no connective tissue holding it in place) while doing it and I was too short and too emotionally exhausted from a recent break up to do more than sit on the couch. This same friend made me and my mom (who is more than fine being catered to lol)… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | The ruminations of Sir Scrot! He condemns attention seeking sluts while he commiserated with his fellow scrots over women who know their exalted worth!The projection with this one is as strong as his illiteracy. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:20 PM |
| 3 | I cackled. Somebody come get their uncle.I bet his hairline would come running back before any of his exes would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:01 PM |
| 4 | My abusive ex would regularly get mad at me for talking to my friends, suspecting it was always about him and ‘lies’ about what he was like. His reactions pushed me into deeper cycles of isolation and abuse. Nothing that hurts you is sacred. Run the very first time he does anything like this.And it was embarrassing to admit that he was still unemployed and not even looking/trying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 32 | The double standard is astoundingI think women have enough of a burden to carry throughout their lives without adding a man to the load, regardless of bra size. This is why we don't build men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Ab so lu te ly worthless. I felt like a generous goddess today so I told him off instead of just blocking him outright as is tradition. You can't polish a turd to make a sparkly diamond, unfortunately.They aren't even sorry for anything except getting caught/called out on their BS. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Virtue signal? That is definitely a new one for me. 😮😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Never go back ladies. Why give him a second chance when there’s a guy out there who’ll get it right the first time 🤔I went back to my first and second. I stopped that cycle 4 years ago because I hated how much of my time it wasted. I "homie hopped" to my third to help me pull away from the second and I don't feel bad for doing it anymore. Not since I saw how little his love for me was worth. 🙄 Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:05 PM |
| 9 | My abusive ex would regularly get mad at me for talking to my friends, suspecting it was always about him and ‘lies’ about what he was like. His reactions pushed me into deeper cycles of isolation and abuse. Nothing that hurts you is sacred. Run the very first time he does anything like this.They act like its your fault they're an asshole. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 8 | My abusive ex would regularly get mad at me for talking to my friends, suspecting it was always about him and ‘lies’ about what he was like. His reactions pushed me into deeper cycles of isolation and abuse. Nothing that hurts you is sacred. Run the very first time he does anything like this.I saw this and its like a slap until you realize N/LVM really do surround themselves with others like them. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 23 | My abusive ex would regularly get mad at me for talking to my friends, suspecting it was always about him and ‘lies’ about what he was like. His reactions pushed me into deeper cycles of isolation and abuse. Nothing that hurts you is sacred. Run the very first time he does anything like this."I don't really like going over to your parent's house. I feel uncomfortable there."- LVM ex That's just because every time we go over there, my dad asks you if you've found a job yet. 🙄 What a bum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | What are some things that you used to think were normal/cute but now realize are red flags? 🚩Girl, yikes! I went on a date with a guyfriend 8 yrs older than me when I was 22/23. He took me to a lovely fondue place downtown and then we played some air hockey at the late night arcade place nearish there. He told me not to worry about the cost. He had asked me to come (I have a feeling he would have paid anyways). We chatted and I thought the main problem was he wasn't my type. Turns out, I didn't like how he talked to me. It was condescending. I don't remember pet names, but it made a gre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 06:56 PM |
| 3 | What are some things that you used to think were normal/cute but now realize are red flags? 🚩Teasing you until you smack him. He'd laugh but I did NOT like doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 3 | "She cheated on him, omg what a b*tch!" vs "He cheated on her, yeah well ALL/MOST men cheat"What a fucking putz. 🙄 Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:46 AM |
| 8 | Whisper is a goldmine for LVM!LVMs, NVMs, and pickmeishas oh my! Whisper's motto... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 26 | 🥴🥴Men like this have gotten very good at hiding the way they are, so try not to be too harsh with yourself. 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 9 | The texts from this man.... then take a look at the woman he’s saying this to. MindblownYeah, because instead of being a pick me, she up and left like it was nothing. Good for her! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 7 | Saying too bad he couldn't sleep with me is apparently a compliment 🙄Right?! Like seriously?! If you think saying things like "I masturbated while thinking about you x night" or "Damn, I missed my chance to hit that." Are compliments...you aren't the type of man I want in my life anyways. 🤷♀️ Edit: He's just trying to hurt her for using such a witty remark on him, and that's his best. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 10 | Unconventional red flagsNever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 12 | Unconventional red flagsYeah, it was a greeeaaat way for me to be introduced to communication in "romantic" relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 9 | What guys on online dating really mean by causal is essentially is fuck buddy.They don't properly take care of their hands, which exposes you to whatever is on those hands if they finger you. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:33 PM |
| 9 | Just say you are broke and go. 🥱God forbid she ask him to spend 60-80 dollars on her. His poor, limited, and precious gold! Without it even ending is sex?! How crazy of her to suggest something like that?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 27 | Unconventional red flags"After something happens and it bugs you, you have 3 days to tell me about it. After a week, assume I forgot. Then after we talk about it, its done and talked about. Why bring it up again?"-LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Whisper...wow.Yeah! Where's the effort? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:41 AM |
| 23 | If they can’t stand women so much, why don’t they date men...I came here to say this. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:08 PM |
| 83 | Stating facts like they're compliments. 🙄"He can afford big doors." 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 12 | Stating facts like they're compliments. 🙄🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 46 | Stating facts like they're compliments. 🙄When they have nothing else, men always have THE AUDACITY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Why do guys get back with their ex?Right?! I am working on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | The woman that was kicked out of Paradise and snuck back inIs Lore Olympus FDS approved? I really hope it is. I love that webcomic... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 3 | The woman that was kicked out of Paradise and snuck back inYeah, I've read that she left Eden and became the wife of the devil. Reminds me a bit of Greek mythology where Hades is the only faithful God amongst his brothers (Zeus and Poseidon) and was smitten with Persephone from the beginning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Not sure what the hell this was about?Right?! Like why do you think shit talking your current girlfriend and then saying you're going to break up with her makes you even SLIGHTLY attractive? All I can picture is IF that ever worked once, they would try it again behind her back once they got bored/sick of her. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 7 | How to react to abusive behaviourOMG! A girlfriend of mine has a name like that and I swear she ran into the same dude last year at a party. She only corrected him the first time, let him refer to her masculinely two more times after that, and her response was to say. "Oh, you think you're funny." Laugh." And here I thought there was something wrong with you." And walked away. She is my hero. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 7 | Can’t believe this is even a question. Just goes to show selfish men can really be.Even the way he describes her work sounds dismissive. How many hours does she work? Anyone with a slightly more than basic concept of math can work in finance! The same cannot be said for scientists. Ugh! Throw the whole man away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:52 PM |
| 4 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Yikes! Such a toxic pattern... Its easy to get caught up in that like attraction/lust cycle. There's chemistry but not much else. 🤔 Add the oxytocin and its hard to break it. Glad you got you got away from him, though. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:55 AM |
| 5 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Gaslighting too. What a combo. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:18 AM |
| 4 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Ow. Why the negging? I can't stand negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 6 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Camoflauged NVM! That's scary shit! 😨😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 5 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Gotta admit, you had me in the first half. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:56 PM |
| 4 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?I feel healthier just reading this. 🥰 Yes! So much yes! Quarantine is the perfect time to just work on and take care of yourself. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 4 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 4 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?I love that!! Enjoying single life and being okay with it is so important. 💜😊💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:26 PM |
| 4 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?That's fantastic! Someone can be at the front of the shit pile and still be shit. I had a similar mindset. No idea it had a name! 😮 Also, a tendency to date guys I knew well enough, like within my social group/circle. Not always a good thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:24 PM |
| 8 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?I get it. And now its not enough. 😀 Good for you! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:20 PM |
| 4 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?And he just wanted to lock you down...jeez. Yeah, the age gap thing that's mentioned here a lot threw me for a bit, but it made sense FAST. Went on a date with a guy like 8 years older than me. A lot of what he said came off as condescending. No second date and I was glad to still be living with my dad. 🙄 At least no kids were involved. Those seem to be the roughest/most expensive divorces. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Fair! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:10 PM |
| 6 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Girl, YES! SAME! I tell all my girlfriends about this place! I followed society to a near T there, once I started dating. 🙄 One day at a time, sis, we got this! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:10 PM |
| 7 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Ew. Yeah, and this is why we have to wait them out and see if that mask drops. Hope you're doing better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 2 | I fell for a f**kboy straight out of a break-up and need help on how to cut tiesOh yeah. One day at a time. Therapy. I still find something of his lying around the house now and then, but I just chuck it and move on. Still hurts sometimes, but few truly miss having a man child around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:58 PM |
| 9 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?That's a lot of debt. I cringed after a visceral reaction. Elon Musk Wannabes sums up the trait/type well.I have gotten caught up in one of those fantastical ideas. He said he could work the insulation job (with his dad) and I could quit my job to focus on my dream of writing for money. It quickly morphed into him saying I should make it big as a writer...🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 9 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Probably how she coped with her husband dying. 😥 Whereas he just used her drinking as an excuse to do the same and say she was abusive and that's where he gets it. Gods. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:36 PM |
| 6 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?And you scrubbed that sponge out of your bedrock! Go you! 😀 Perpetually unemployed men who either can't keep a job and/or suck at managing money because of low impulse control are horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 17 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Same. I usually go for the lankier type because I found more muscular men intimidating. Ah yes, and the sad boi background that seemed to prevent him from continuing to grow as a person? Did he use it like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:30 PM |
| 7 | What originally attracted you to your LVM/NVM ex?Yeah, love bombing is intense! Good on you for getting out of it. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Eye fucked by a 70yo at a rummage saleScrotacity. Is this in Urban Dictionary? If not, it needs to be. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | A guy asking If I’m good at cooking?Oh Gods, the last part with the actors killed me. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Hmm. No reason to trust this man yet 😂"Maybe if I pretend to read what she says, agree with her, and give compliments, she'll fall for it and do whatever I want." He literally didn't even read what she said. That is how little he cares about what she has to say. 😒🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Just a few LVM showing off their red flags.I read this several times and it hurt, but I needed it. I had someone who did all of those things, and tried to ride on the tailcoats of his friends's successes (including mine). Thank you for saying this. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 15 | How high does an average LVM really rate himself?My ex was like this. Insecure but acted like he was better than those around him, namely the other men. The one before him? Very comfortable with his sexuality and secure in his masculinity. He was just an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 3 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.Thanks! 😊 I like yours too. Its like that "I'm afraid of a million dollars." meme. 😀 Yeah, I liked that I was able to get this out. Its like a weight off of me. Plus, I have my elder gothmother in my head, reminding me to just keep on doing what I'm doing in life. Love this subreddit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:21 PM |
| 3 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.Makes sense. Then its probably that he really thought nothing was wrong and whatever was could be talked/worked through. That I'd stay and just let him walk all over me. Gods, the first time around, he pulled the dramatic guilt trip thing of "do I have your permission to kill myself?" Or however he phrased it. 🙄 That isn't why I took him back. Since I didn't know about the cheating, I thought our fight was stupid so we wound up talking through it and getting back together. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 4 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.You're are so sweet! Thank you! 🥰 I'm not looking, right now. I have three amazing and ridiculous cats who add love and excitement to all of my days. There is no lack of supporting friends around, either. I wish the same for you! 😊 Oh, I remember wanting to write something back, like his post, or comment more details, but I'd already unfriended and blocked him on everything I know. That and my elder gothmother reminded me that he was looking for a public reaction. Especially, one from me that he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 8 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”"OthEr GiRlS WeNT oN WalKiNg DaTeS WitH Meeee." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:33 AM |
| 6 | I fell for a f**kboy straight out of a break-up and need help on how to cut tiesYeah, he was definitely trying to swoop in while you're vulnerable. Edit: I've had that happen. I should have blocked him instead of date him. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 26 | for those who we're the " chill/ cool" girlfriend what happend and Is being the cool/ chill girlfriend ever worth it ?This! I let him disrespect me WAYYYY too many times. Apart from the obvious stuff, he pushed and ignored my boundaries on the regular. 🙄 Not worth it. Never worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:41 PM |
| 17 | Pickme coworker falls over backwards because her LVM bf uses her hard work to propose to herIf him using her letters to propose to her is a mirror of ANYTHING, its of how he'll just keep piggybacking off of her work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:36 PM |
| 4 | I bet he’s fun at parties🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:31 PM |
| 17 | When a boy just plants the big red flags straight out the gate 🤟Reminds me of another poster, who called a look like this "heroin chic". I am sure his face follows suit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:15 PM |
| 9 | When a boy just plants the big red flags straight out the gate 🤟A starving fool at that. Jesus... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:11 PM |
| 8 | Judge Salas statement: I’m heartbroken for this woman. Ladies be safe out there. Constantly google yourself to see what information pops up. My only issue with her statement is that it seems she wants information protection for judges only. This is something millions of women need protection from.I have the same name as an author's pen name so, that's the first thing to pop up. The problem arises when facebook suggests a search with my name. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.No, those are the kinds of friends who grew out of him shortly after the break up. I have two cool buds who dropped him and, before the pandemic hit, I used to meet up with them once a week at a local bar, and catch up over a drink or two. One of them helps me with my writing (bouncing ideas off of them) and is just a genuinely great friend. Edit: At least 2 of those like reacts were pickmeishas who wanted to be picked "next" and show him how "not all women are like that" and they can "make his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:58 PM |
| 6 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.You should see the stuff he didn't spend a week writing. That's the cleanest/best thing he has ever typed. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 9 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.I have dated 3 different LVMs in my adult life and this break up was, by far, the ugliest and most drawn out. Much like the relationship itself. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 9 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.Oh no. I broke up with him months ago. He wanted a mommy/gf. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 16 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.Yeah, this was my first "real relationship" of my adult pickmeisha life, so I chased that for a long time. Shortly after I dumped him, like a day or three, he asked me to meet him in a more public location so we could "talk about it" or whatever. All I could think of were all the ways he would try and make a scene or something. Nope! Edit: I really like your computer analogy. Spot on.😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:26 PM |
| 8 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.Oh, yeah. He was classy. 🙄 I lost count of the friends he lost since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:22 PM |
| 9 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.At the time, the dude asked me and I sorta shrugged. It wasn't a good sign that I figured something like this was coming EVENTUALLY. I told him to let the guy hang himself. Whatever he posted would say way more about himself than me. I never posted anything or responded. Any revenge I got on the guy was silent and private. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | The lamest thing you've hear/seen LVM do?Oh, yes! Thank you! 😊👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 10 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.He got with her 2 months after I dumped him and was with her 2 months before he posted this. He asked my current lvm bf if he was okay with him posting it. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 31 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.Right?! How dare I be resentful of him sleeping with my best friend or cheating on me with a roommate after all those years? Worse yet, to express it and break up with him?!?! Like I'm the one with the audacity. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 31 | I found it! Hoping it stays in the appropriate order.Just the usual LVM crap. At least I never let him move in with me. Pretty much all I can say about that. At the time, I was upset but wound up more worried about his current gf and how she might feel knowing he spent a week writing it just so he could post it on V-day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:52 PM |
| 3 | The lamest thing you've hear/seen LVM do?Most recent: He was jealous of my cat and showed it by being mean to him. I know this because he didn't start off skittish around him. 😡 I try to make up for being blind to this every day. Felt it proper to one up my depression whenever I mentioned it, but never sought out counseling or therapy of any kind. The "I guess I just won't do this anymore then" bs was a regular thing for him along with poorly washing dishes on PURPOSE so I would stop asking him to. Would ask me to wake him up at a cert… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 4 | The Abusive Man in ArgumentsAwhile back, I once tried to CoMuNicAte to my lvm bf I just wanted to be alone to calm down and gather myself in the living room...away from him, after a fight. I told him to leave me alone, and HE SLAPPED HIMSELF because he interpreted that as me telling him to leave IN GENERAL. I fucking should have just gone with it, instead of letting him leech off of me for another 6 months before I finally kicked his ass out. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 04:08 PM |
| 5 | One day, when you have leveled up significantly, you will come across a picture of a man you used to pine about and think to yourself, "he's not even that hot"Their eyes are raccoony and sunken from all the late night video gaming ("wHo NeeDs SlEep LoL?") and porn. Their gauntness is either drugs and/or a metabolism thing. Later, you find all of the smiling they do in pics are lip ones only because their teeth are gross usually from cigarette smoking from a young age and just NEVER really quitting. 🙄 Sometimes, the eyes are bloodshot and that's usually alcohol or because they're high almost all the time to DeAl wItH LifE instead of a legitimate pain i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Never let a LVM know that you are angry with him. Men simply don't fear female anger in the same way that women fear male anger. In fact, men seem to actively enjoy it.I was with a guy like this for 5 yrs. It was my first real relationship and I never should have chased him like I did. 🙄 Never worth the trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one.$30 says he doesn't even have a car and she'll end up taking time off work to drive him to that interview. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one.Hobosexuals: The only sexual orientation someone could make an acceptable rehab center for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:34 AM |
| 7 | Pickmeisha accepts proposal in McDonald'sLook at how miserable she looks in that picture!!! Her mouth says "trying!" and her eyes say "dying!" No self respecting man would think this is REMOTELY okay! No self respecting woman would say yes. Oh....I hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:25 AM |
| 6 | How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM!Don't let it get you down. There should be no hostility when dating someone of value. Take a break, remind yourself that his treatment of you expressed his lack of value and not yours, do things you enjoy by yourself, make a list (there is an amazing post on here somewhere about making a detailed list of your standards before dating and sticking to it), and then, when you're ready...Vet ruthlessly. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM!I like it! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:38 AM |
| 19 | How do I stop picking LVM? I don’t think I’ve ever dated a HVM!LVM/NVM. Hardly a difference. A man of high value would not just agree with you but state that he wants to be exclusive and ask for that exclusivity with you. It's easy for a man to say nice words and build you up until he thinks he no longer has to in order to get benefits (sex). Antagonistic and dismissive are not HVM traits. HVM don't make excuses. They own up to what they did, apologize, and do not repeat the behavior again. This just sounds like he was trying to make you his emotional punch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:23 AM |
| 14 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?Ian, Jason, Josh, Robert, Anthony (ew), and basically any variation of Richard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:57 AM |
| 32 | One day, when you have leveled up significantly, you will come across a picture of a man you used to pine about and think to yourself, "he's not even that hot""He looks like Spongebob when he had the Suds. How did I find this attractive?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:20 AM |
| 12 | FDS 101 👑Before the pandemic started, I did this a lot. I took myself to the movies, went out to get clothes instead of online ordering (we all have our fave shops <3), took myself on drives, dinner (I love diners), etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?"You look like you're 3 months pregnant."- Most recent ex who later tried to tell me not to take the stupid sht he says personally when I cared about his opinion. Funnily enough, it was 3 months into our relationship. I cannot wait until his metabolic rate drops. Had an ex who compared me to other women "positively", thinking it would build me up. Bet that switched up during every relationship he's had after me. The guy before him did the opposite and chalked it up to him "just being honest". Sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:49 AM |
| 11 | What was one of the most infuriating neg comments an ex LVM/NVM said to you?Ew. Sounds like my first sexual partner. Thought having a big dick (turns out he was avg) made up for his lack of technique, personality, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:55 AM |
| 30 | What was one of the most infuriating neg comments an ex LVM/NVM said to you?I was on an OLD pre-FDS. The guy fetishized my goth aesthetic because he associated goth women with dominatrix. I told him early on about my LVM/NVM exes so, of course, he uses it against me in his last text to me once he finds out I'm not changing my tune. It was something like: "Considering what you've told me about your history of choosing men poorly, it only figures you won't choose me because I'm a good one." He used the cry laughing emoji and everything. I got so annoyed I told him he was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Turn down for what?Congratulations!😊😊😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone ever dated a man who was so low or no value that he would watch movies or shows without you after you both had planned to watch it together?My ex would do this with his excuse being that he couldn't help it or whatever. 🙄 His impulse control died and was buried 6ft under before it could ever begin to exist. He DID cost me money. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Just no!We would HAVE to tell them. No way they've ever checked the prices themselves. It would suggest they've thought about buying something even remotely worthwhile for a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:04 PM |
| 12 | For all the pickmeishas and LVMs in the backOh god, yes. My ex was like this and he never stuck with any of them for long before realizing so many of his gaming buds had the new game and went there instead. Once he didn't have an income anymore and I was still a pickmeisha, he would get upset with me for not buying him his new game. 🙄 We both like to game but I don't care for many new games and prefer offline. We only had one console (his but still). He'd whine and complain about not having anything to do while I played my games, so I got… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | He's NOT your friend (and likely never was) - any man who gives you creep vibes under the guise of a platonic relationship, especially when you have made your disinterest clear, should be cut out of your life ASAP"I figured that if we talked and spent enough time together, you would like me and eventually want to sleep with me and stuff."- LVM I knew almost word for word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:24 PM |
| 6 | "You should’ve asked"I can definitely confirm this and I hadn't even considered it. My ex's parents had the arrangement where she was the SAHM for 4 other kids and he worked 5 or 6 days a week to support the family. My ex used that saying almost religiously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 10:56 PM |
| 3 | What has been your experience with dating a LVM who cannot support himself?🤣 Just goes to show the saying is true. If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | What has been your experience with dating a LVM who cannot support himself?Oh my gods! And here I was just pissed for a bit that they never called me back to let me know it wasn't going to work. Their excuse was that they were already helping a family they were close with by letting them stay with em. 🙄 A woman we both knew (shockingly, a pickmeisha)picked him up that same afternoon. He took a TV and his game console. The next day, I packed his clothes and removed anything with both our names on it. The day after that, I was too exhausted. A friend and my mom came over… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 4 | What has been your experience with dating a LVM who cannot support himself?She saved me from my last two relationships. The first one just took longer (probably because I wasn't living with him). She calls him a shlub and a sponge. Sometimes all a pickme needs is a soft lecture from a strong HVW with more clout in their lives than the boy. So glad I found FDS. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:55 PM |
| 6 | What has been your experience with dating a LVM who cannot support himself?I got out of a 3 year relationship really close to this in Oct 2019. Long comment ahead. On mobile. He was employed at the time and it was a good job until he was let go 4 months into our relationship. No drivers license, he got that during our relationship. No GED. Living with his parents but at the time, I was living with my dad so it wasn't a big deal to me. He could cook and bake well enough. I lived with his dysfunctional family for a year (telling myself it was fine because I worked closer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How I Feel After Reading the First 3 Words of Some Scrote's Lengthy Time Consuming Post Knowing I'm About to Ban Him and No One Will Ever See It But Me And I Didn't Even Finish the First SentenceHappy Cake Day!!!🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | LVM makes gf have sex with his two friends then treats her like shit and manipulates her because of itAnd he should pay for her therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:15 PM |
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