I used to feel AWFUL for doing the cutting off. Now that i have been talking to a range of different men and dating more, the minute I feel like something is off or they get defensive when i ask questions...I cut them off.

just recently found out a dude was using a burner account and his other account had pics of his “ex” gf all over his bio. but he starts defensively say “that’s my ex girl i could call her and definitely have her back in one call. why u lurking already? u still comin out w me?” me: “ew not anymore, BLOCKED.” right in the middle of him typing. oops. always google or search their number thru fb before meeting men! something told me to check before getting too fly to go anywhere.