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| 6 | PSA: Late-Night Friend Requests Are Late-Night Booty Calls 🗣 🚩I know you won't queen. It's really hard to combat recurring thoughts of an ex you miss. Your brain continually will try to go back to them to squeeze all the happy feelings out of favorite memories. The most important thing you can do to invest in yourself is this: whenever you feel the urge to think about them, take three deep breaths, and try to feel the warmth in your belly as you breathe. remember your standards, and remember why those NVM don't even meet the bare minimum. keep leveling up … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:59 AM |
| 5 | PSA: Late-Night Friend Requests Are Late-Night Booty Calls 🗣 🚩your brain deserves better than that. the truth is he's so insignificant I wouldn't even waste a second of brain space visualizing him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:01 AM |
| 8 | Seriously?AKA: I'm insecure and can't handle the fact that my girlfriend is better than me in every way. how do I keep getting my cock sucked tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:50 AM |
| 47 | Men who want kidsLikelihood of the mother experiencing PPD increases with an unstable or absent father. How utterly sad that all women want to do is show love to their children and NVM who don’t deserve the gift of parenthood just destroy lives. We are so utterly done with putting up with their behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 104 | Women normalizing r@pe porn on TikTok.I’m horrified. Tik Tok in general has been coming out with some incredibly problematic videos as of late, like how to make money on OnlyFans, how to impress your sugar daddy on the first date etc, and the commenters will literally be children saying “saving this for when I turn 18”. FDS will change the world. get pornsick freaks away from children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:49 AM |
| 5 | The Post-Breakup Revenge Glo Up: Opinions?this is real talk and something I think every woman has struggled with. the thing is: if you are even putting a little bit of your energy into looking good for him, and he SEES that - he will feel that he has won. men collect the emotional attachments of women like keys on a keychain. he will be happy that his keys are still jingling. the BEST thing you can do is to completely remove him from your phone, social media, and head. if you really want a “watch this, jackass” moment, he is going to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:43 AM |
| 74 | Having sugar daddies and “sugaring” is literally underpaid prostitution from men preying on naive young girls. It’s not easy money without consequences and people need to stop glamorizing it to make it appeal to literal children. This is grooming.this girl knows what’s up. I’m horrified that young girls are buying into this. “girls don’t just naturally say ‘I’m going to fuck an old man’ “ it’s this sick media fed patriarchy that is OPENLY grooming young girls to get ‘easy money’ fucking old men. No. it might be money but you lose your soul in the process | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Been feeling very low lately. Today I got surprised with my favorite flowers, candy, and taken on a craft store shopping trip. Then I was told “it’s great to see you smile again. I was concerned after reading your texts this morning.”this seems lovely, but remember you deserve this type of effort consistently for months. so glad you were able to be cheered up today 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:27 AM |
| 19 | Forgive yourself if you can't follow FDS principles perfectly. It's okay to slip up as long as you recognize your mistakes and you vow to do better next time.I struggle with this too : men honestly prey on women that look sweet and approachable and play on that “nice” vibe to get under our barriers. remember that a HVM would never randomly approach you or throw compliments at you. and go from there. so many men out there just want an emotional reaction from women of any kind to get their kicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:23 AM |
| 37 | Forgive yourself if you can't follow FDS principles perfectly. It's okay to slip up as long as you recognize your mistakes and you vow to do better next time.Plus people are afraid to be single for long periods of time. It’s scary to have no guaranteed human contact, and it’s scary to be 100% in control. But it’s easy to see the benefits: you’re actually able to live life and level up. I just wish more of my female friends would take the jump. :-( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:16 AM |
| 37 | What factors are associated with recent intimate partner violence? Findings from the WHO multi-country study on women's health and domestic violenceI think it was meaning frequent drunkenness on his part. when he’s drunk he’s angrier and more apt to harm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:09 AM |
| 6 | Why the fuck would a grown ass man need help with grooming, nevertheless help US pay for it?I totally agree. All of those big companies will always have one thing on their mind: Money. Because media has made us so hiveminded, we really all do respond to the same advertising buzzwords and it’s sad. That’s why I try to stay away from TV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:47 PM |
| 11 | Vetting men while on a date: he should dress like he wants to be there and value you enough to be on time.This all sounds lovely, just remember you deserve this level of effort for several months of dating before you know he’s a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:45 PM |
| 31 | Rejecting your natural form screams “pick me, pick me!”A lot of people consider me beautiful and likeable. Has that changed the fact that I haven’t seen any qualified male candidates in a year of being single? No. Some men even develop hatred for beautiful women because our confidence instantly reminds them of what a loser they are. We’re done catering to ugly, unsuccessful, abusive men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:36 PM |
| 44 | Armie Hammer scandal is waking up some libfems about "kink" culturejust throw the whole porn away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 33 | Don't be an empath QueensI love that. if you’re an empath, bad vibes can seriously funk up the room. I do the same thing - I am much more often alone these days because I’d rather not sour my energy on losers who will just feed on it. that includes friends and lovers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 41 | Remember: in nature, the greatest accomplishment that a male animal can ever hope to achieve is mating with a female. It's time we human women recognize our power over men, and start acting accordingly.Seriously. I believe that if the FDS mentality becomes the norm, it will save the world. We won’t have unloved kids, and we’ll have a much healthier earth due to less overpopulation. Less waste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 38 | Remember: in nature, the greatest accomplishment that a male animal can ever hope to achieve is mating with a female. It's time we human women recognize our power over men, and start acting accordingly.This!! And it actually has begun to completely sour our society as a whole. Think of how many LVMs are out there, just bumbling through life, wasting water, food, and a woman’s time. Contributing nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | This New York Times article might have confirmed my belief in the patriarchy. Are you fucking kidding me.... there is NO SHORTAGE OF SPERM!!!It makes sense to me now. It’s something we already know - there’s a shortage of quality sperm out there 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 05:08 PM |
| 15 | The great clitoris coverupNot sure why this is being upvoted, it seems like a male lurker shit poster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:50 AM |
| 17 | We bow to no oneThis was such a great reminder. Was treated like shit tonight at my workplace by LVM coworkers and patrons. They see me being successful, and they know they could never possibly achieve what I’m doing. So they bring me down. It hurts for a moment before I realize that they’re just jealous and want to do anything they can to bring me down. Keep going ladies. We got this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Since I've seen that u like him... here is another one.Still in the vetting stage & you’re on a weekend getaway? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Mood for 2021Read the handbook babe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?NARC!!! RUN!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Why even bother? Why render yourself paranoid for someone who clearly cares more about his own penis than you and your love? It’s not healthy. Girls. Dump any pornsick losers. They do not care about you.I mean...we ain’t telling men sh** these days. If he watches porn, he watches porn... and if that’s a nonnegotiable (which it should be for all of us). out the door without a word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 26 | What is an early sign of LVM behavior that makes you drop someone REAL quick?Oh hell nah. Those types are manipulative and want to rob your queen energy. Thanks for the reminder! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Is anyone else afraid to have a son / what your son might turn out like after seeing how 98% of men are, and how so many turn out to be no matter what their mother does from them? Stories like this it’s almost always the male child doing some entitled shit to their mother...SAME! Sounds crazy but I feel FDS is the best practical way to apply anti-natalism principles. Only the best and most successful couples reproduce, decreasing accident babies & “coparenting” (occurrences that OFTEN produce unloved daughters and overcoddled sons that grow up into pickmes & LVM). We no longer need to drain mama earth so LVM can masturbate in the shower for hours and play video games all day. we will be free of their food waste and taste for plastic covered palm oil cravings. we ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Is anyone else afraid to have a son / what your son might turn out like after seeing how 98% of men are, and how so many turn out to be no matter what their mother does from them? Stories like this it’s almost always the male child doing some entitled shit to their mother...You sound like a wonderful mother, I wish you the best :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:08 PM |
| 52 | If you actively practice FDS, people are going to fucking hate you.Omg girl. Your comment hit home w me. It’s really hard to be alone & the only person you can really count on. just know you are so strong & you will never be given something you can’t handle. now that the trash has been taken out... there’s room for something beautiful:-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:42 PM |
| 10 | If you actively practice FDS, people are going to fucking hate you.I absolutely love this!! Honestly this is the ideology that is going to save humanity, ladies. If we stop making excuses and just focus on the task at hand, we can do anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Back to the FDS Basics for anyone new hereThis. We have male lurkers, and we have coupled/married and miserable pickme lurkers. Anytime someone says “My HVM does this this this” in a thread on here, I know it’s bullshit. ANY man can “order food for me ... buy me expensive gift....drive me places pay for my food be so nice handsome his family is wonderful....” but unless you see longterm, consistent effort, he is NOT a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:35 PM |
| 7 | I will never ask for the bare minimum. If he truly cared, he would give you the bare minimum and so, so much more. There is a HVM somewhere out there leveling up, dreaming of HVW to cherish. Meet him at the top!!*of A HVW to cherish lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be a roommateIn my opinion, if “companionship” includes sex or intimacy in any way, and the man is NOT interested in dating/marriage, you’re getting played, sis. My best companions are my female friends, because they help build and level me up. I don’t need sex to “sUrViVe” like a man “needs” it. I can spend extended periods of time completely alone without needing physical touch, and it makes me stronger in the end. Fuck companionship, situationships, fwb - this is how men maintain their control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be a roommateMy understand of FDS ideology is this: you either are with someone that completely meets your standards, or you spend time leveling up and growing by yourself. The idea of “companionship” is so against what we work towards here. “Companionship” is a great way to feel comfortable and happy, but if you don’t intend to marry that person, why the hell are you wasting time investing in that person? Invest in yourself, ladies. We are so much better than companionship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:05 PM |
| 36 | “If you never let them hit it, they can never quit it.”I love this. Men seriously will put the absolute least effort into pretending they like you if all they want is sex. Once your eyes are open to their intentional bullshit - it’s easy to walk out. Don’t compromise on your standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:27 AM |
| 23 | Don’t be a roommateI know a few like that too. The truth is the majority of relationships you see around you involve pickmes. They accept that behavior so it happens. But not us ✋ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Don’t be a roommateIf you don’t want to get married...don’t date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:26 AM |
| 103 | she had an epiphany typing it out 😩😩Right!! Like... you drinking with your eyes closed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:07 AM |
| 8 | How to spot a cheating manThis was an amazing perspective. I love how everything you learned echoes FDS. To amazing and lovely things in 2020 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:02 AM |
| 13 | "ONCE YOU HIT THE WALL, YOULL BE ALONE FOREVER! TEeHeeHeHeE" 🙄YES!!! Stop projecting your fear of dying as an insignificant piece of shit on us! We can’t stop the inevitable, baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsNot MY marriage prospects, thank you very much ✋ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:33 AM |
| 106 | The Energy We’re Taking into 2021Straight up like .... and the inferiority complex in a lot of young bald men is astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:30 AM |
| 7 | If you’re dating a HVM right now and you don’t live together, how much do you all communicate?And if he’s “really busy”... beware darling. If he wants to, he will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)Of course, right?? It’s the constant coddling from their mothers leading them to believe they can’t do anything wrong. Nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:32 PM |
| 3 | I got you, babe.Girl this story sent chills down my spine. I cannot believe there is evil out there like this. So glad you’re ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:00 PM |
| 38 | The audacity 🤨If they wanted to, they would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:53 PM |
| 132 | Only 5% of bachelors over 40 ever marryIf we educate every woman in the world about FDS we might save humanity honestly. Not accepting low standards for ourselves OR the gene pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 36 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)Holy shit. I hope she gets free of that despicable NVM. We can breed these types out as long as we don’t interact 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 14 | Way too accurate to be totally fakeThis is absolutely amazing acting. Mans got it right down to the shaky nervous leg. And the “huh?”, I’m dead. Tinder is trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Best line of this movie: Astrid leaves her cheating husband who blamed her for his actions and inability to be a real manI totally agree, it seems really unrealistic. my NVM ex would be screaming at me and shaking me without ever trying to hear me out. Miles and miles away from that now ✨✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:51 PM |
| 7 | He was a translator on a trip. I met him only once for a few hours and we spoke on the phone once. This is the 4th man I have met while travelling that has professed “feelings” in hopes of financial gain. It’s getting predictable and disgusting to see that men try to use women/me this way.Bitch, block and delete this insignificant ass scrote. Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 7 | #KickHimOut2020 happens in 2.5 hours.BABE, YES!!!!!!!!!!! You deserve SO much better and you’ll get it by choosing to respect yourself like this. I’m so proud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:18 PM |
| 38 | i have no words , i can’t believe she’s trying to not hurt his feelings about his hygiene when he doesn’t even wipe his butt ??? and this is a man she’s probably having s*x with ... all the possible bacterial infections he could give her . She needs to leave ASAPI’m going to vomit oh my gosh!!! You deserve so much better. A clean, hygienic, respectful man is out there for you. You got this ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 97 | i have no words , i can’t believe she’s trying to not hurt his feelings about his hygiene when he doesn’t even wipe his butt ??? and this is a man she’s probably having s*x with ... all the possible bacterial infections he could give her . She needs to leave ASAPBabe YES!! Unfortunately I’ve seen that. It’s just straight up fucking laziness. Imagine every time you too a shit you stopped wiping before you stopped seeing brown (y’all know what I’m talking about) and just let that fucking build up. I’m going to absolutely vomit because men like that are out there. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 26 | What are our thoughts on social media?Anti social media for sure. Not only does it cause self esteem issues in vulnerable women, scrolling is actually very addictive and limits our ability to think for ourselves. This is a great topic thanks for bringing it up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 17 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Holy shit. The fact that he never even went to the lessons. I’m so glad you’re far far away from him 💚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:08 AM |
| 2 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?You know what queen? At this point, it doesn’t matter what he thinks anymore. You’ve separated from his bad energy and you’re embracing your amazing self. We can only control the present, and as we see here every one of these ladies has had a similar experience. We got this. :-) best of luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:07 AM |
| 7 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Learned his native language for him 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:04 AM |
| 25 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?YES YOU DID!! Wear those shoes w pride girlfriend 👠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:02 AM |
| 10 | A huge piece of the puzzle that is misogyny is mothers.I love her for saying this. When you don’t discipline a child and just want their affection and giggles, that is abuse. And she’s right. raise your sons right!’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:53 AM |
| 58 | Just saw this on a list of Christmas gag gifts, most of which were genuinely amusing and then followed by an actual gift. But this one I had to share.10 years babe. 10 years!!!! What are y’all waiting for, to get to know each other better?? Nah, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:40 AM |
| 29 | Don’t worry about a man who doesn’t appreciate your value.I absolutely love this!! So spot on. We don’t need em | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:39 AM |
| 49 | My eyes have been open to the truth, that females and males can not be friends.“Doesn’t want to show his info bc he’s a doctor” yeah right! That motherfucker gets 0 swipes 0 messages and got butthurt. instead of trying to better himself, he turns to trying to sleazily lure in females through lies. Wtf. So glad you were able to stay away sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:38 AM |
| 6 | for my socialist sisters: a great read on why decriminalizing sex work is not feministI love the motto too. survivors not criminals. It points to the real reason why many people are forced into sex work: desperate need. not something to aspire to as a solid career. Lord help us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Effort is attractive. Consistency is attractive. If you don’t give me more than the bare minimum : Byeeee 👋It absolutely is. @wetheurban errybody | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:29 AM |
| 10 | Effort is attractive. Consistency is attractive. If you don’t give me more than the bare minimum : Byeeee 👋I know right!! New mindset who dis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Yikes. It’s true ladies - don’t let him know how you’re feeling. If he knows you’re interested, he will also know that you’ll accept rock bottom treatment for his attention. Not me 👋Totally, queen. It’s more like this: If a man knows how we are feeling, he can manipulate us much easier. He doesn’t have to worry about picking up subtle cues, and he’s much less worried about ruining his chance with you if you’re sending him heart eyes and stuff constantly. I definitely will still be using emojis when talking to men, but none that expose anything meaningful to them. Thanks for taking the time to respond! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 10 | Yikes. It’s true ladies - don’t let him know how you’re feeling. If he knows you’re interested, he will also know that you’ll accept rock bottom treatment for his attention. Not me 👋Great thoughts there. This man is so shallow he is easy to pick through it seems. I feel that by excessively showing emotion through emojis, especially positive/excited emojis, could completely destroy any coyness you have with a man and make it clear to him that you’re interested, which we know is a bad thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:05 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020“Never met a man he liked enough to be friends with”. Uh.... that’s a red flag. That’s him admitting to you his own inadequacy. Think of your dream guy. At least for me, he would be charismatic, friendly, and well liked in the community. Someone whose self esteem is so crippled he can’t even make friends with his own is NOT the man for you. I would honestly move right the fuck on. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020It's all a part of their game. They don't want you to know they're not into anything serious so maybe you'll emotionally invest and they get free sex. So proud of you for rejecting these men. Just remember every no gets you closer to the perfect yes. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Umm... doesn't matter how much you can control yourself. The fact that you still went to his house after he cancelled last minute on a dinner date? Babe. That ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Sometimes I send my friends harsh but relateable FDS memes. Or Tiktoks. It's a lighter way to breach the subject. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Can you further elaborate? Meaning you see him not having the social skills to interact with other men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | The logic of men. Each one of these nine arguments can be countered so easily..I absolutely love this. It IS a fucking drug. And if sickens the mind. decent people don’t need to be policed. But there are so many creeps out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:04 AM |
| 7 | So happy I found this groupYES! who?? haha love it. Lie to your own brain. Hmm I’ve never heard that name before... 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:49 AM |
| 5 | Just casually cutting men off before meeting themI LOVE THIS!!! Fuck that guy for even possibly thinking he had a chance with you. He probably felt insecure that he doesn’t have his OWN motorcycle and wanted to break you down 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:38 AM |
| 8 | “I don’t even like banana laffy taffys”and ... banana is the worst flavor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:35 AM |
| 11 | Gaslighting red flagsI can totally relate. I’ve been in a situation like that - not great to a man I was dating, didn’t really care though - it all stemmed from the fact that I didn’t REALLY like him that much, and I had fallen in love with my projections of him. If it don’t feel right, then leave. We can only be responsible for our own happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:31 AM |
| 44 | So happy I found this groupSo glad you found us. When thoughts of your ex come in your head, try not to react with anger or guilt. Simply let the thought melt away into insignificance, like it was something so small it wasn’t even worth giving time to think about. Also: learn how to wish them the best (in your head). I find this has helped me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 19 | Man expects wife to pay for HIS family's christmas presents, saying that she should "pitch in" because she makes more money ~ she's "negative" and "bitter" for refusing.Red flag: wanting to spend so much time with his family. AKA he wants to be treated like the child he is by mommy again despite being out of high school for over a decade. Goodbye. Never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:12 AM |
| 9 | What it means to be a HV person.Yknow, by not answering your texts, an aware person would get the message that you don’t want to be friends. Maybe this is a good riddance for you! Either way, you are only responsible for your own happiness and really don’t deserve any guilt from this situation. Friends come & go! Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 2 | One year ago today I was at the lowest point of my life battling my NVM ex’s abuse in a cramped and filthy RV.Thank you SO MUCH!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Dating someone who doesn't watch porn is better than I expected.Totally agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:03 AM |
| 4 | One year ago today I was at the lowest point of my life battling my NVM ex’s abuse in a cramped and filthy RV.Thank you so MUCH!! I hope for you the same. :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:02 AM |
| 4 | One year ago today I was at the lowest point of my life battling my NVM ex’s abuse in a cramped and filthy RV.Hell ya! So glad to hear that. Having your own place is a new level of comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 5 | One year ago today I was at the lowest point of my life battling my NVM ex’s abuse in a cramped and filthy RV.PREACH!! Don’t worry didn’t even need to vet I can smell them from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:00 AM |
| 9 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Oh gosh. You’re right. Don’t worry, I don’t get offended at the truth! Unlike this guy. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I don’t want to validate him in any way. The best response from now on is silence. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:39 PM |
| 6 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Just like a submissive oh ok girl. Ew. I’m done with his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:38 PM |
| 15 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Honey. Yes!! I totally agree. He was long distance negging me and I literally will never be a part of it again. So grateful that I got to realize this and the block will be so refreshing. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:26 PM |
| 60 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Ugh. It’s a yikes. I think you’re right - he recognized the perspective and hates that it reveals his shitty ways. His low effort behavior might not be able to continue much longer and he’s scared :,( It’s clear to me now that this man is not a friend and he just wants to bring me down. Thank you for helping me realize this! I can now recognize this behavior better in the future. 💚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 18 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Girl I totally agree. I now see that (when he has been “friendly” with me otherwise) this was an attempt at breaking me down so that I’ll stop spreading the vibe for my friends. Gross. So thankful to all of y’all for exposing tf out of this behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:20 PM |
| 20 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Now looking back on it I completely agree. He really was trying to undermine my points there, hoping that I will post less in the future and inform less women of the truth. Ok mama. You won’t see my stories when you’re ✨blocked✨! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:18 PM |
| 13 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Ok girl you are absolutely right. I’ve been thinking it over this morning and it’s like we always say: if you’re offended by the truth then you’re the problem. Yikes for him that he felt the need to reveal that to me when I had good rapport with him otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:16 PM |
| 19 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).You know you’re absolutely right. I’ve been thinking about it this morning and NONE of my other male followers have said anything like this to those type of posts. This guy really did out himself as a LVM with no input from me at all. Lmao. Thank you for the advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:13 PM |
| 18 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Exactly! It’s radical to men who have never heard of a woman standing up for herself. I am cynical based on their behavior, not by the fact they have balls. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:23 PM |
| 15 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).You’re right! Yes someone did hurt me... but that doesn’t affect my behavior today. It’s a no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:59 PM |
| 60 | Maybe she doesn't need to communicate? Maybe he's just pornsick? Have they ever thought about it? Nah! PlEaSe WoMaN cOmMuNiCaTe.I love this. They can’t possibly think it’s their fault. We are so much better than that 🥺🤘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:24 AM |
| 19 | I know my worth, I've paid dearly for every ounce of it. I make no apologies for loving myself and finally living my best life.Yes queen!! Drink that cocktail I can feel the queen energy from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:22 AM |
| 4 | Dirty Nails 😡Acoustic guitar player here and I am not a freak! My nails are normal length and I use a pick for my thumb. Long nails are still a fat no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Same. Every month. You’ll live.I can relate with this so much with male housemates. They are literally adult children that can’t process emotions. “I GOT A BOO BOO” 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Honey... it’s 11 o’ clock at night. Why do you think I would even entertain this? Messages are from a scrote I used to PINE over. Boy bye!!Exactly!! Or late at night at ALL... I’m sure he did text five other people. Eventually me not responding will drive him crazy while I’m just chillin 🌚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:29 PM |
| 13 | Act like LVMs are invisible to youI totally agree. You can see them staring at you out of the corner of your eye... but I’ve found that if you relax your shoulders (they often reveal tension), pretend like they’re not real, and move calmly, you and the LVM suddenly are planets away from each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:53 PM |
| 31 | Beware of men who want open relationships but later decide to change their minds when they see that their partner have way more options than themThat’s not even petty... that’s how to correctly respond | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:44 PM |
| 65 | I snitch on cheating men 😌Girl, in time and with leveling up, you’ll learn that worrying about other’s people’s opinions is a waste of time. You can’t do anything to change how they feel, so focus on something you CAN control : yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Honey... it’s 11 o’ clock at night. Why do you think I would even entertain this? Messages are from a scrote I used to PINE over. Boy bye!!Exactly. Bitch I’m snuggled in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 43 | Honey... it’s 11 o’ clock at night. Why do you think I would even entertain this? Messages are from a scrote I used to PINE over. Boy bye!!I know, right? It’s really just a lack of respect. And if I were to respond it would show just how low I go for attention. Not anymore. Bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 12 | Do I plan on ever responding? No... I’d hope you would have picked that up by now. BLOCKED.And thank you for laying it all out. Yes the entitlement and negging tendencies are strong with this one. The fact that he thinks someone like me would even entertain his late minute grease is so funny. Boy bye!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:05 PM |
| 6 | How can anyone post this and claim this as fact?Honestly? Don’t even respond at all if he tries to hit you up. That’s what he wants. Best of luck girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:34 AM |
| 3 | How can anyone post this and claim this as fact?Ok girl. Listen. In the next week you are going to want to come RUNNING back. It is going to be an intoxicating urge. If you finally want to start investing in yourself and changing your life for the better, leave him on BLOCKED. Each week will get easier. You are NOT responsible for how he reacts to this. You’re only responsible for your own healing. You got this. 💚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:29 AM |
| 13 | Dating someone who doesn't watch porn is better than I expected.Wait... honey, if he’s cumming, y’all have stepped over that line. It doesn’t matter if you’re aren’t actually having sex. It sounds like because you guys are so comfy already he could easily convince you to start fucking him. How long have y’all been together? Also, he very might well be lying about watching porn because he’s detected you wouldn’t support it and doesn’t want to reveal himself too early on. Be careful out there sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:53 AM |
| 40 | Clownery you encounter on OLD, part 1THAT is not effort. Inviting you out on a planned dinner date (& picks you up) is effort. He could have typed that message on the toilet, babe. Have higher standards! If he’s rude you don’t owe any sort of response. Actually, silence drives them crazy MORE than a snarky response :-) best of luck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.Hell yes I can hahah. It really is funny how boring and effortless it is. Like .... did you expect me to hold up this conversation on my own? That’s free labor 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.As if. He exposed himself as trash immediately it’s honestly hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.12:47 AM. Broooo... what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.exactly. use my time and emotional energy to invest in a convo with a stranger? Ummmm. I’m good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.Definitely going to block. So much better to leave him wondering why! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.That’s smart!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:29 AM |
| 25 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.Exactly. Like what does he expect me to respond? OH great, let me now throw myself at you because you acknowledged that you have “seen me around town”? scrote please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:08 AM |
| 23 | Should I even bother responding to this? I don’t know this person, apparently we have mutual friends on Facebook.Haven’t responded and I think I’m going to just leave it that way and block. Good call. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:59 AM |
| 10 | If he wanted to, he would.I mean... I’ve known LVM to do it because they personally enjoy it... not necessarily a green flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 7 | Wow!This is behavior of a jealous and insecure man. So hollow as a person that small holes in her ear caused him to be silent for two weeks. What the fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | It’s sad that this kind of behavior from men is so rare.Babe, so proud of you for getting away from that!! Cut your losses and move on. the only thing we can control is the present. you’re doing great :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 10 | Finally blocked my ex everywhere. You'll never guess who called me two hours later.Love it. Do NOT respond to him in any way. This is how he brings you in. You’re done with him. On to better things 🤘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:39 AM |
| 9 | 'I Come Up Short Every Day': Couples Under Strain As Pandemic Upends Life At HomeOh babe. He hates you. Poor girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:38 AM |
| 5 | Date eating off my plate..?Babe no. Never ever “want to be nice” to a man because you WILL end up hating them. You’re not responsible for their feelings. You only deserve the best of treatment. Block and delete this loser and something better will come your way. Good luck 💚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:36 AM |
| 4 | Queen of the Pickmeishas will help you hide your toxicity for free! Hope she gets picked...Damn... she got time for that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 10:05 PM |
| 25 | The “Arrangement” 🤣And significantly balding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:55 AM |
| 7 | “High Value is not a status that’s granted early on and then rescinded if he turns out to be a douchebag.”So true. Once you get a “crush” on a boy almost anything they do seems perfect. Disgusting. I once overheard the girlfriend of a guy who NEVER showered describe his stink as “sexy”. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Outing an abuser?Honestly girl, i would say definitely submit an anonymous report on him, but that’s the only thing you can really do about it. Interacting with them in any way would be very unsafe for you and unwise from a FDS perspective. Once you submit the report, you can breathe a sigh of relief - nothing else about the situation is in your control. So shift your focus to things that ARE within your control, like leveling up and following your dreams :-) best of luck sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 20 | Ultimate pickmeisha move - proposing to your boyfriend with a watchI literally laughed out loud. How the fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majorityhave you guys seen @awardsforgoodboys on Instagram? FDS gold mine :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Guys that download their personality based on the most popular / recent showsI completely agree. It’s like they’re so insecure of THEMselves that they couldn’t bear to show any real part of it. I knew a guy in high school with kind of a higher voice who tried to deepen it deliberately. It was so embarrassing to hear him talk honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:51 PM |
| 12 | The only way to win the game is not to play!Fuck him!! You’ve moved on and are working on yourself. And you’re doing amazing ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:46 PM |
| 11 | If you don’t meet him half way he really does go all the way.I love this, good on you queen 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight women even bother tbhSo it’s crazy. I have experienced the same thing. How are men so clueless? Do they think we would just orgasm without even mentioning it happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:03 PM |
| 9 | I just found this site and was instantly repulsed by the clickbate-y titles, but then I read a few articles and it's... actually pretty good? Am I missing something? Are these guys actually getting a clue? Please, I need more eyes on this, I need more opinions!It’s ok. There is some hope. But not from internet articles I don’t think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 29 | I just found this site and was instantly repulsed by the clickbate-y titles, but then I read a few articles and it's... actually pretty good? Am I missing something? Are these guys actually getting a clue? Please, I need more eyes on this, I need more opinions!No. It sounds more like a strategy, taken from FDS, and twisted for the benefit of men trying to get easy sex from pick me’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:20 AM |
| 41 | I love when men say “you look like you don’t take yourself too seriously” /sThis energy is it. Fuck relaxing on standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:17 AM |
| 12 | Life after finding FDS. (Art by @violetclair on Insta, makes FDS friendly art)Same queen @ 20! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | “I feel bad for whoever tries to date you”We can only hope. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:36 PM |
| 78 | “I feel bad for whoever tries to date you”Real talk ladies. I think putting the most distance between me and them would be the best move. As I’ve mentioned in other comments, I am quite on my own in my space and able to properly distance. Thank you for all the support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 11 | “I feel bad for whoever tries to date you”I’m actually quite on my own in my space. I can choose whether or not to interact, and I think it’s safest from now on to distance heavily ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 10 | “I feel bad for whoever tries to date you”True. I should have just shut up. He won’t change if I talk to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 147 | Ladies, yet another manipulation tactic we should be aware of! This one is more subtle and absolutely terrifying.So sad because this exact thing happened to me in my last relationship. It is terrifying to try to explain why you’re abandoning your goals, dreams, and happiness to your friends and family. The trauma bonding is so real - I look back now on the disgusting man he was and can’t even believe I was able to have sex with him. Much less when you consider almost all of our sex was non consensual. Bless ladies currently in this position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Here Is Yet Another Reminder to Read the HandbookI agree. I feel like everyone thinks their man is a HVM, because they’ve known him for like four months and he’s still good at acting 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:00 AM |
| 61 | FDS writing exercise: let's practice seeing the truth behind male gaslighting and manipulation by translating this piece of male propagandaSame. Had to stop at “learn to work the toilet seat, you’re a big girl.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 09:56 PM |
| 36 | Eh... I truly feel bad for her and I just cant stop being amazed at what some men r like.... they really don't give a shit, do they...This is it. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 09:54 PM |
| 12 | A man wanting to have sex with you does not mean he likes about you. Male sexual attention is abundant and low value. Also, the same men who are going bareback with women are also the same ones who will complain the woman “trapped them” if she gets pregnant and decided to keep it. 🤡This is the scariest one. If they can put forth a little bit of effort in the first section, it seems genuine, and we feel safe investing feelings. Make sure he is consistent for at least three months. If not, he’s not worth you time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Girl (16) gets free from creep boyfriend(20) in a close call situation.Sounds so much like my NVM ex. So glad she’s away from this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Right, get him out haha. That’s what happens when you lose a friend - I’m sure y’all had some sort of friendship - and it’s a sore spot that will heal over time. Branch out with FEMALE friends and tell them your funny stuff :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Once again, EVERYTHING HE CAN: not just “one day we had food twice”. I’m talking he texts you a few days in advance to schedule something, picks you up looking nice, and there’s a good evening. The fact that you asked him “because you took me to lunch are you trying to get back with me” is headache inducing. Around men, we need to maintain our queen energy : meaning he doesn’t get to know what we’re thinking. It is our job to sit back and analyze the man. I’ve gotten a pretty complete picture of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:27 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020So glad to hear that you’re going to get out. I did the same thing 7 months ago and moved across the country to get away from my n parent. It was the best decision of my life and I encourage you to try to do the same. Usually in a situation like that, the other parent is an enabler. They see the terrible behavior, are negatively affected by it, but keep hanging on because of those rare “perfect” moments when the narc is on their best behavior to get what they want. It’s very sad, but you’re righ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020He has started to try to play games with you, and should be unmatched. If a man does not put his full effort and attention into wooing you, leave him in the dust. Best of luck ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I agree. If y’all need counseling that early then might as well move on and find someone more compatible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020So, this actually is a typical situation ... The fact that you claim he “cares” about you is incredibly saddening. If he really “cared” about you, he would be scheduling dinner dates and doing everything he can to sweep you off your feet. This man feels bad for you, and so he does “nice things” to soothe his own guilt about leaving and to keep you hanging around so he doesn’t have to feel bad about cutting you off. Please see through his bullshit and completely cut off all contact. Once you let … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020And how much lighter you must feel 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:11 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Girl, let me just say this: If a man wants to be with you, he will do anything to accomplish that. His “reason” for breaking up with you honestly wasn’t the real reason he left - like all scrotes are, he just became uninterested. The simple truth of it is this: He doesn’t deserve your precious time. This is not a love story, or a romcom. Just because y’all dated and it didn’t work out doesn’t mean you should try again when you’ve become “more mature”. This is a harsh truth, but if you’re still s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020This. I also grew up with a narcissistic parent, and there is absolutely nothing you can do to change their behavior. Don’t show any emotions around them, it’s how they get off. You and your mom just need to build an independent savings if you’re worried about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:03 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Lol what the hell? What an asshole. It seems like he just wanted to waste your time and get a reaction out of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:01 AM |
| 8 | It’s a trapBabe you’re so close! Not valuing your time and respecting that you need to get to work on time? Leave him in the dust :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Real talk 🥶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:44 PM |
| 3 | When a LVM is too cheap to buy a dessert, so he’s gotta start making up new etiquette rules. 😂😂😂Waste food for absolutely no reason to impress a man. sounds like a great move :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Want me to get up early and go out of my way to fix YOUR problem? I’ll take breakfast and a ride back 😘It is weird. No worries, key switch made and it was done professionally and yes I did get breakfast + a ride. :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Want me to get up early and go out of my way to fix YOUR problem? I’ll take breakfast and a ride back 😘Where I am moving mid - October, but I’m still in my current situation until then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Want me to get up early and go out of my way to fix YOUR problem? I’ll take breakfast and a ride back 😘I was thinking the same thing and confirmed it with my other roommates before agreeing. Definitely careful af with men and cars. Thanks for thinking of me :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Help to rescue my sweet friend from a predatory age gap long distance relationshipWow that’s actually a great thought. I’ll bring that up with her. And her trip has been delayed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:13 PM |
| 13 | Help to rescue my sweet friend from a predatory age gap long distance relationshipI’ll try to. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?Never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:18 AM |
| 11 | Trying to avoid emotional attachment to a scrote that you “really like”?I totally agree, but FDS also preaches that there’s no point to form emotional attachment if you don’t get attention and respect back, so any man (even if I think they’re attractive/special/etc) is scrote status to me until he goes out of his way to treat me correctly. Leveling up for me is about chasing my dreams and goals. The whole fav sports teams comparison helps me put it in perspective. I could date a fan that doesn’t give me anything, or, if I keep focusing on myself and moving forward i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 3 | And if it does, it’s probably gaslightingThis sounds so familiar, I remember it frustrating me and making me sad to no end. Glad you’re away from that queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:01 AM |
| 16 | Upon learning that a close friend of mine had died, I get this dm from a scroteNever haha. I was like wow already calling me babe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:45 AM |
| 60 | Upon learning that a close friend of mine had died, I get this dm from a scroteYes. Don’t forget the cinnasticks 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:30 PM |
| 3 | I got this attached to my tips from one of my coworkers. (It normally just has date/my name)I thought the same thing, his handwriting is bad 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:28 PM |
| 32 | I got this attached to my tips from one of my coworkers. (It normally just has date/my name)Oh my gosh. IMO it’s one of the worst industries for it, what a clown 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Lessons from my momI was in your same situation. Until you can emotionally disconnect yourself from him, you won’t be able to leave him. Remember this: You are only responsible for yourself. You’re not responsible for anyone else’s actions, especially not your mans, and the fact that he’s a douchebag is 100% his creation AND his fate. Don’t let him bring you down. You’re a star. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Lessons from my momBabe. “Not fully cheat”? That is you playing yourself. If a man is not utterly and completely respectful to you, leave him in the trash where he belongs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:35 AM |
| 3 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...Girl make a new email. This mans is absolutely wilding. I hope you never have the misfortune of his presence again ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 11 | I would love to make this meal for my future man🥰Imagine. That amount of sazon on those hotdogs must have tasted horrible!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 2 | 4+ years and I JUST walked the door with a small bag and without even a glance let alone a goodbye!LIFE HERE SHE COMES 💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:30 AM |
| 9 | Never offer a guy your number! If he’s interested, he will offer his (which you don’t accept) and ask for yoursI love this. Let them come to you!! I would have put my own number in but it was such a power move to make him do it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 6 | FDS ideology in Anne Brontë’s ‘Tenant of Wildfell Hall’ (1848) There’s even a little allusion to pickmes (second image, blue highlight)I love how it advises to receive attentions “coldly and dispassionately”. This is so powerful. Don’t let them have any clue as to your emotions, it leaves you mysterious :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾FDS has woken me up to the fact that I am powerful and that I can do whatever the fuck I want as long as I assert myself. Cheers ✨✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 8 | Loser gets caught masturbating on his family's couch. Tries to explain to his scarred 16 year old sister that it "wasn't his fault"So disgusting that “to put himself to sleep” he needs to rub one out. This is kind of weird but I men who have trouble sleeping without a tool (masturbating, drinking liquor, having the TV on, having lights on) have a good possibility of being LVM. If you can’t listen to your own thoughts for like 30 minutes before bed because it’s too scary for you, then yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about the show "Jane The Virgin"I agree the first part when she was pregnant and everything it was still really good. But as it goes on Jane just makes dumber and dumber mistakes. I was done with it haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Female survival tips in a fast paced environment?I am so sorry I meant to type HVW! Not man. Lol 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Female survival tips in a fast paced environment?It is good to be reminded, thank you so much for spending the time to pass on those tips! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Female survival tips in a fast paced environment?I totally feel the patience thing. I feel like my patience has been tested so much in the past few months because it feels like there’s nothing going on, which there is, it just takes more emotional energy to enjoy it. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Female survival tips in a fast paced environment?Yikes. I will try to band together with my fellow females at work. Music in public is such a lifesaver especially against catcalling. Thank you for responding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Female survival tips in a fast paced environment?This is great advice. I have been really careful to talk about the subject. Luckily I am moving to a new place soon (upgrade !) with another HVM! I definitely feel like prey at times. Edit: HVW! Sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Just a rant about comments on makeupAlternatively... he’s cheating on you and wants to make sure if you see any makeup on his clothes that you don’t think of another girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.Babe, you are clearly a sparkling sun. I’m telling you right now that you deserve someone to match that energy. If he’s not excited about being with you, he has started to take you for granted and he’s not worth your time and energy. I say cut your losses and move on, you don’t owe him an explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 2 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.Honestly sis, if he has lack of purpose and insecurity, it’s a cancellation from me anyway. Glad to hear that you’ve moved on <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 2 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.I loved that too - it’s just another way we can sit back and observe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.If they can even sustain that nice behavior throughout the dating process | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:10 AM |
| 3 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.We’re glad u found us ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:07 AM |
| 3 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.Yes. I feel you so hard on the emotionally draining part. It hurts. So glad you left him ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:06 AM |
| 5 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better.“when I was a senior in high school and he’s been out of college for two years” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 5 | The Sick, Sad, Story of Jared Fogle and how Subway Helped Cover Up his Raging Pedophilia for 8 YearsI completely agree, that woman is a saint. The fact that she had to listen his disgusting comments for FIVE YEARS and not being able to do anything about it. I want to vomit. We need a matriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:58 AM |
| 2 | I hate how LVM behavior is coded as "benign/good" in popular moviesThis was an outstanding read. I feel like the “bumbler” phenomenon is honestly just everyday gaslighting. These men know what what they’re doing. I love when she mentions Woody Allen - as an excuse for his terrible conduct he claimed he “barely know what I had for breakfast that morning” and that he wasn’t aware of him being appropriate, but the man could roll out a full length film in a year. Stay safe ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 9 | Keep yourself safe at all times.I also heard that you could say “be careful I’ve just had surgery” and that might freak out a man enough to leave toy alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 57 | 30-year-old man child wakes up at 4 pm. Blocked 🤷🏻♀️Horrifying. You dodged a bullet 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.Don’t worry I didn’t but good thinking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.Great suggestion, I do really need to work on my boundry lines!! I’ll check that out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 4 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.Yes I did get conned, through and through. I’m lucky enough to be able to learn from this one and not have to repeat something similar. I think i’m going to take a page out of your book and ...not talk to strangers anymore: especially when they want a favor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 3 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.hello, thank you. yes, I am a little crazy it seems. But I did learn that I will never do a favor for a stranger again. And luckily I got my money back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, this was me.Girl I can totally relate, my last relationship was with a man in his 30s (I was 19 at the time) 🤢and it was a living nightmare. That was 7 months ago, been single ever since and YES it’s the best feeling ever!! So happy that you were able to escape this :-) we’re free | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:08 PM |
| 19 | Come share some of the wisdoms your moms and grandmothers, or other strong female role models have said to you :) <3My grandmother wouldn’t even get out of the car, she would just wait for the man she was on a date with to come open the door for her. Queen shit ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.This is a rule to live by. I won’t be doing any favors for anyone anymore. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.Exactly ... never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:45 PM |
| 5 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.I honestly couldn’t tell you what led me to say yes on that day...Once I started being cold towards the man he started saying rude things like “oh, you’d never be a bank teller” as I’m tediously trying to count the money. Such bullshit and I will never do something like that again. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:44 PM |
| 5 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.Thank you ... never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 8 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.It’s ... unexplainable. I think it just happened to teach me a lesson. I have been living here and doing really well at my job for over half a year now. But I had my guard down that day, and it had consequences. He was name dropping some friends of mine, acting like the watch purchase would lead me to more opportunities. Which was obviously bullshit, and now I know that and can sniff it out better in the future. I am grateful for this lesson, and I wanted to share it with you ladies in hopes it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:38 PM |
| 5 | I got a powerful reminder this week to NEVER do favors for strangers.Thank you queen. No worries, I will NEVER give him the time of day again, and I now know my worth even more. It was a painful lesson but I’m ready to move forward ⭐️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Remember the worst of what he did/ your least favorite things about him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:23 PM |
| -2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020Babe, you say you’re not a pickme but you’re scrambling for validation on an Internet forum. We can do better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:21 PM |
| 8 | Why do men think "no" means "change my mind" or "give me an alternative"? Doesn't everyone learn the word "no" in primary school?Ugh the responses killed me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Hey ladies, I need advice about dating on OLD.Yessssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 16 | That’s why you need to vet LVM straight away.Holy shit. Vet him ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | It’s always the ugly scrotes with the immediate demandsIn gym shorts ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 12 | This is how a queen ends it with a cheating LVMYessss scrotes couldn’t even imagine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Hi ladies. The one question stopping me from moving on is wondering whether he was just depressed or he wanted to end it. What do you think?Right on the head girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:36 AM |
| 6 | For those of us with unhealthy attachment styles, and overactive imaginations.Thissss lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:19 AM |
| 10 | For Harriet offers an amazing (mostly) FDS analysis of WAPLove this right on the money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 33 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...You deserve one Bebe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 11 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...I feel like I’m going through this right now holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:28 PM |
| 28 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Yesss this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020YES QUEEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Sounds just like me. It’s a really hard trap to get out of, especially with a piece of shit that’s taking advantage of a younger girl like that. Best of luck!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Facts 💅This and only this ... I have saved myself so much damn time just in the last month by applying this principle. If he ain’t it, he out y’all 💃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Energy ParasitesI love this. I completely agree - some of my lowest points were when my own Queen energy was diluted by a LVM’s shitty vibes. Stay vigilant out there, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:09 AM |
| 11 | Porn addiction and cumming too soon?Love this distinction- I hate feeling like a human sex doll :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:35 AM |
| 13 | Early signs of narcissism.Mirror selfies 🤣 so accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:27 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020YES BITCH!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Unfortunately girl, he’s cancelled for that. I would just not ever text him again first, wait it out, see what he says, but at this point there’s no good reason to continue contact from your side. Fuck him though! His loss 🌟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:18 AM |
| 2 | The future contains all possibilities. Never settle for less than what you deserve.THIS AND THIS ONLY!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.Same girl!! You gotta be comfortable with yourself before you can eveerrrr be comfortable with someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Can you imagine how much development men would be forced to undergo if all women collectively raised their standards??? What a beautiful fantasy...Me too, I totally agree with this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Preach 🙌🏽PREACH YALL!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:17 AM |
| -3 | HmmmmActually, during and after exercise, your body needs simple carbohydrates to replenish your muscles! So maybe a few cookies. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/11/18 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Told a girl I haven't had sex in 10 months. Im 22. Is there any way to still be seductive after pulling the ripcord too soon?Who cares. It isn't possible to reach sexual satisfaction, that's just the way humans work. Doesn't sound like she's worth it. | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 01:14 AM |
| 2 | You are what you do!Hey. That's some encouragement. Thanks sir. | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 03:40 AM |
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