| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | This is not funny or endearing behaviour,. A HVM is responsible and can handle adult things like grocery shopping, because he respects himself, you and your time, and he doesn't need a substitute for his mommy. | NAH, SIS | icy_lilies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:43 AM |
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| 51 | Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore.Explaining basic shit will just enable him to 1. say that you're wrong about how you feel, and 2. do all the emotional labor of explaining basic shit. HE KNOWS, he's jut playing dumb and casting his fishing rod because you MIGHT bite and give him aNoThER cHaNcE. If he's allegedly too dumb to understand what he did wrong, why on Earth would you spend more of your valuable time explaining basic stuff to a grown adult? It's a trap. He can just google it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:09 AM |
| 8 | Avoid the clever Hobosexual!Anything about unconditional love. It's used like a immunity card. Cheating? Stealing? Being dishonest? All good, because he said he loves you unconditionally. Don't you? 🤡 Also, it's 4AM, he needs a place to crash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 32 | Guy wants to go on a date but wants me to pick a place and time.It's a huge red flag. What we look for in a partner isn't someone who sits in the passenger seat and expects everything to be planned out for him. This is how women end up being the ''manager'' of everything household-related while the guy vegetates comfortably in the weaponized incompetency zone. Asking a woman on a date and asking her to plan it = low/no effort. It's direspectful of her time and energy and shows that he's not interested (otherwise he would suggest something that impresses her)… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 01:04 AM |
| 8 | People in the comments are debating whether or not this is a good thing 🤡Satan called, and said he'll build yet a new circle to accommodate this new low. From now on, we can say ''the bar is in the 8179th circle of Hell''. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 04:25 AM |
| 92 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂The soap dispenser is unnecessary because 'why not just buy a dispenser that already has soap in it?' And then the comments try to explain the logic of refilling a soap dispenser (sigh). In other words, that clueless dude never washed his hands enough to be made aware of the concept of refilling soap. These entitled men-childs will shamelessly drain every ounce of physical and emotional energy (and money) out of any woman they come in contact with. Hopefully he won't go back at being his poor mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:54 AM |
| 174 | Men Abuse Women Who They Perceive to be BETTER THAN THEMThe idea is to break a woman down so far that she won’t leave right on, and he will do that so he can keep abusing her. Abusers gonna abuse, it's the brutality that they love, it's what gets them off. I'm 100% sure that a man that abuses a woman he perceives to be better than him will do the same, if not worse to a woman he perceives as lesser than himself (e.g. sex workers). It's just going to take a different form. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 62 | Scrote abuses and manipulates wife into thinking she is ugly and blames herself for his cheating and abuse.And she's still wondering how she can fix this? Oh my god... No amount of effort, of pounds shed, of home-cooked meals or money will put an end to disrespect from an individual as twisted as her deadbeat husband. Disrespect is disrespect, and the moment you somehow think it's your fault and don't immediately GTFO, the only message received by these scrotes is that treating you with contempt is not only accepted, by welcomed. They'll only get more creative with their 'reasons why they can't treat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 436 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupAm I overreacting? This must be the most common question asked on every female-centric sub. And it's always when a woman or a girl feels like she's in danger. And the answer is, 99.99% of the time, no. You're underreacting. Your instinct is telling you very important things. Take the appropriate measures and don't let him make you second guess your very basic, essential needs (your safety). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupAm I overreacting? This must be the most common question asked on every female-centric sub. And it's always when a woman or a girl feels like she's in danger. And the answer is, 99.99% of the time, no. You're underreacting. Your instinct is telling you very important things. Take the appropriate measures and don't let him make you second guess your very basic boundaries (your safety). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupAm I overreacting? This must be the most common question asked on every female-centric sub. And it's always when a woman or a girl feels like she's in danger. And the answer is, 99.99% of the time, no. You're underreacting. Your instinct is telling you very important things. Take the appropriate measures and don't let him make you second guess your very basic boundaries (your safety). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupAm I overreacting? This must be the most common question asked on every female-centric sub. And it's always when a woman or a girl feels like she's in danger. And the answer is, 99.99% of the time, no. You're underreacting. Your instinct is telling you very important things. Take the appropriate measures and don't let him make you second guess your very basic boundaries (your safety). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupAm I overreacting? This must be the most common question asked on every female-centric sub. And it's always when a woman or a girl feels like she's in danger. And the answer is, 99.99% of the time, no. You're underreacting. Your instinct is telling you very important things. Take the appropriate measures and don't let him make you second guess your very basic boundaries (your safety). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 02:49 AM |
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