warinmymind94 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3082	Block and Delete Him, Sis. Otherwise he will suck you back in or try to gaslight you.	MOOD FOR LIFE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 11:03 PM
2319	Now that's a movie I'd want to watch!	FDS HUMOR	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 12:43 AM
1724	Divorce Him. It's not a woman's job to be your secretary and don't even let him start with the "babe where is my/have you seen my..." Men don't do this for us and it's exhausting to manage their lives for them. Run.	#JustLVMThings	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 04:34 PM
1587	My grandpa is dying in a nursing home and STILL gave me a Birthday gift- "If he wanted to, he would"	WHOLESOME CONTENT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/21 06:51 AM
1310	FDS isn't "wild" it is the same standards i learned in therapy especially with how to recognize abuse	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/21 07:47 PM
1270	Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/21 09:02 PM
1197	Looking out for women's safety should be the norm.		warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 06:38 AM
1163	Run the first time he disrepects a boundary, no matter how small	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 03:18 AM
984	Woman killed by apartment maintenance man, who had a key. We need to push for a Miya Marcano law. I was always scared of this happening.		warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 02:01 AM
941	Abstinence is one of the most powerful weapons against scrotes.	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 08:06 PM
939	dude pretends to be a woman and makes a post just to prove harassment exists, he isn't a hero for this, he is part of the problem since he couldn't believe women and had to see for himself	MALE DEPRAVITY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/21 08:23 AM
938	New to me LVM tactic	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/21 10:21 AM
900	It's 2021 why is it still on women mostly to take birth control? 79% of men think it should be a "shared responsibility" its msyogynisyic that we still have to carry the burden as women	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/21 10:16 PM
887	When he says you're out of his league... time for you to tell him bye.	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 10:19 PM
876	Men who try to trick you into coming over on the first date or early on	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/22 06:28 PM
873	Stop getting into cars with men.	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 09:46 AM
823	Use actual conditioner, groom, shower, wear nice clothes, and utilize the treatments for baldness. Us women take care of ourselves you need to as well.	MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 01:34 AM
801	don't date him "as practice" when you don't like him or saw red flags	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/22 07:33 PM
795	FDS when seeing pickme nonsense	FDS HUMOR	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 02:15 PM
795	The Pickme Paradox.	LibFem Logic	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 05:23 PM
786	"f around and find out" as a mindset makes it easier to block	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 08:34 AM
748	Part of vetting is seeing if he can grocery shop and cook without being spoon fed like a toddler.	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 07:50 AM
732	If he doesn't do anything for you on VDay you need to block him. Period. Any low effort? Bye.	QUEEN SH*T	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/22 08:37 PM
716	Boundaries, block/delete, and keeping your standards high are all worth it in the end.	MOOD FOR LIFE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 09:35 AM
698	Block & Delete isn't always Enough	GLOBAL RESISTANCE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/22 10:56 PM
671	don't chase him	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 05:28 PM
657	"I just fell asleep" Men that won't say goodnight or just dip from convos	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/22 08:05 AM
655	epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ring	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/22 08:18 PM
617	Lvm telling on themselves: "sex work is a valid profession" and yet he would "never touch that [email protected] with a 10 ft pole"	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/21 07:25 PM
596	Remember you can love and work on yourself, but you can't fix others.	MOOD FOR LIFE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 07:44 PM
568	stripping / OF aren't actually "empowering" no one genuinely wants to do them	SHOWER THOUGHT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/22 03:53 AM
562	"Have no expectations, then you won't be disappointed" and "Stop expecting so much" being thrown around like they'll help you.	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 04:56 PM
542	This is a new low. The bf is a doctor and social media famous and yet she is buying him a house 🤡	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 04:51 AM
524	I feel like I saw my Past Pickme self standing in front of me in line today... Thank God for FDS	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/21 11:49 PM
524	My grandma "I don't understand why women would even bother dating today! I wouldn't, I would just get a dog."	Mama Said	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 10:13 PM
519	Spotted sneaky red flags in my old messages when I was still learning and analyzing them through FDS lenses	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 11:41 AM
507	Let's discuss: my walmart is locking up condoms and pregnancy tests! This upsets me, these items need to be easily accessible. They literally page an employee to family planning for the whole store to hear and make you checkout asap.	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 07:26 PM
503	Low effort flirting and low effort dates I have been shutting down all week	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/21 08:03 AM
492	Are the dates he offers for HIM? is he just having you tag along to his fav restaurant or to the movie he's been wanting to see?	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 10:01 PM
484	He KNOWS where the clit is, he just doesn't care	SEX STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/21 11:56 PM
477	Beware of "men are programmed to cheat" and fake woke scrotes saying cool girls are "real women"	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 12:15 AM
469	The new "shit test" and Another common Neg Found on OLD	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/21 01:07 AM
453	Start calling it what it is when you can.	GLOBAL RESISTANCE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 08:46 PM
453	pickme glamorizing doing it all. there's no prize for doing it all🤡	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 05:49 PM
452	"All the good men are taken! They're all married by now!"	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 06:43 AM
445	Introspection- when you aren't sure ask yourself would you do the same to him?	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/22 07:23 PM
433	Tired of getting ads for cheap engagement rings and society telling me I have to lower my standards for essentially costume jewelry	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/21 09:00 PM
428	you're allowed to want a fairytale wedding & a pricey ring	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/22 05:11 PM
424	Listen to your GUT not your Heart: guys will fake a nice first date and drop effort OR try a switch a roo as their masks slip	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/21 01:20 AM
422	Beware: don't respond to Holiday / New years Texts from New numbers	NICE FOR WHAT?	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/21 01:15 AM
417	if you are using OLD here's some tips from my experiences	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/22 04:08 AM
398	💩Scrote sits on a literal toliet to talk about being green and poop at his booth, a woman stops briefly, he makes a public post to hunt her down and spam her DMs... then he plays the victim. 💩	THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/21 08:14 AM
395	The Benefits of Living Alone vs living with a LVM	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 07:01 PM
388	The dangers of the Slow Fade and circling back to small talk/Good morning texts	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 07:02 PM
385	He can still send Postmates/venmo for a Skype date but would rather have you cook for him bc he wants a mommy. He's talking you for a walk because he's CHEAP not because he cares about everyone's safety. He's no prize for sometimes wearing a cloth over his chin when it's still required 😷	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/21 07:19 PM
383	in response to "female decision calculator" here's a scrote delusion calculator and a response site	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/22 07:12 PM
379	beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you know	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/21 08:07 AM
377	Lvm disrespect pickmes because they feel emasculated	SHOWER THOUGHT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/22 06:00 AM
374	If he says this it's a red flag	PORN SICK, LIMP DICK	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/20 09:01 PM
366	Scrote Bingos from the red flags	FDS HUMOR	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/22 05:52 AM
357	Other things he does in Bed that are Red Flags and Manipulative!	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 03:52 AM
355	If you can't see him being a good potential father/good around kids he isn't the one. Swipe for a reminder to not get too invested too soon	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 09:20 PM
354	Vetting: if a worst case scenario happens to you, can you rely on him?	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 09:17 AM
352	We need to talk about exit strategies for those of us with LVM.	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 08:05 PM
348	Him making new numbers to text you after being blocked is harassment. My state says it's "not enough" to file a restraining order. I am not changing MY number bc a scrote won't listen to "no"	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 07:18 AM
347	LVM: asks her to marry him then dreads his own wedding 🤡 if you're fiancee isn't actually excited to marry you then drop him before you tie the knot (and spend so much $ + time on a divorce and lawyer)	#HeAin'tTheOne2021	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 02:24 AM
345	More negs which aren't always obvious and guys try to act like it's "normal conversation"	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/21 01:27 AM
343	If you haven't already, get to know yourself sexually. It'll make it easier to stop desiring LVM and make it easier to drop men that are selfish in bed.	SEX STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 08:58 AM
337	Vet the restaurant or venue he asked you to, especially if you're new to town	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 10:40 AM
328	Treat yourself well & Treat Yourself ... you will be less likely to fall for LVMs	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/21 12:14 AM
323	Proof FDS works... I just discovered you can access blocked numbers! Look at the coffee dates. Swipe for the guy that asked me out to mcdonalds and what he messaged after being blocked	LEVEL UP	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 11:27 AM
323	Misogynyic ads from "awkward essentials" implying women are responsible for cleanup and only the man has pleasure	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 06:59 PM
320	Two OLD apps have coffee dates as part of their ad... admitting they're trash. Made me laugh.	FDS HUMOR	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/22 05:20 AM
308	How often is he responding to you? Does he only talk to you when bored? If he isn't actively planning a date with you drop him. You aren't a back burner option.	STAY WOKE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 01:48 AM
299	LVs will fake support you and when you start succeeding theyll try lowering you down. Drop the deadweight.	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 06:45 PM
299	more examples of "subtle negging" and what's in a Neg Sandwich?	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/21 02:33 AM
296	Dodging LVM feels like extreme Dodgeball some days		warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/21 12:57 AM
294	A modified strange planet meme... because everything about coffee dates are strange.	FDS MEMES	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 01:17 AM
292	Things to avoid saying in early stages or on OLD	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 05:49 AM
290	The results of applying FDS to my dating since having moved.	Story time ☕	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/22 08:04 PM
287	That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parks	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 12:37 AM
284	Don't Stroke His Ego, especially in the early stages!	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/21 08:00 AM
278	Bathroom lines and "I'm glad I'm a guy" comments from scrotes	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/21 09:09 AM
267	And remind yourself you are worth more, so don't accept less.	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/21 04:01 PM
266	This is why its key to vet and follow FDS. this is why you run at the first red flag. Imagine being in labor and your man plays video games. So many pickmes were saying lol and I dont mind, hes bored and waiting on the baby. Pickmes are defending this. Dont have kids with LVM	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 10:36 PM
260	Ladies if he refuses to follow basic instructions take out the whole man. I commented "dump him" and got harassed by several different people it's a joke, get the stick out of your butt, you're a karen, etc. Also recieved sexual advances🤡 This is man child and a lvm. It's not funny its pathetic.	#JustLVMThings	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/20 11:05 PM
256	"I WORK and pay ALL the bills" and "she agreed to it" does not justify being a man-child	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 08:13 PM
253	Imagine if for 1 Day women all acted like stereotypical scrotes, what would happen?	SHOWER THOUGHT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/21 04:57 PM
252	For those of us that have been gas lighted, told we are too much or not enough, or called toxic by a man... delete and block him. Learn to vet to avoid more of this	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 01:54 PM
234	The woman my LVex cheated on me with told me "You have to trust your man" when I was catching onto them	Story time ☕	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 06:59 AM
225	my childhood friend's parents are examples of a HV Marriage	Story time ☕	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/21 06:06 PM
225	"Good Morning" small talk and other irks	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 08:34 PM
218	What's up with guys bragging they can go for multiple rounds? And wanting women to moan?	SEX STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/21 05:54 AM
217	New year, fresh start. Know your worth and block that lvm	LEVEL UP	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/01/21 09:33 PM
214	Since following FDS I have low/no libido! I rarely find a man attractive these days. Anyone else turned off from most guys?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	18/02/21 10:26 AM
211	Seeing former friends/lvexes Get Married is a bag of mixed emotions but mostly a big Relief.	Story time ☕	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 07:11 PM
207	New moms get less sleep and it's linked to aging... what do you think? They only studied women, but where are the dads helping out?	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/21 11:13 PM
202	Gasoline Limbo &LVM are a match made in hell. It's bad for cars to run low on gas but endangers you as a woman and yet LVM can't stop playing limbo.	#JustLVMThings	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 07:48 PM
201	No one's laughing. If you think vetting is bad imagine having kids with an LVM and him influencing the kids. Its pure nightmare fuel.	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 04:32 AM
198	OLD Men that use nicknames / different alphabets when they don't speak that language	RED FLAG 🚨	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 01:25 AM
193	Pickme coworker strikes again she was giggling "this is so my fiance" like she was actually proud. Then went on to tell me and the other coworkers how "he never likes my cooking?" &I Asked what does he cook? "OH HE WORKS" me: "you do too! He should cook too!"	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 11:19 PM
193	Husband replaces wife's lost ring and upgrades her too! Never settle. Story in the next pic and comments.	How-To High Value	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/21 12:02 AM
192	If you're struggling with block/delete try these ideas	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/21 02:41 AM
188	Where he asks you out to the first date should be appropriate for how much he makes & why splitting the bill is even more offensive logically	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 07:47 PM
185	Rose from 90 Day finance talks about loving yourself, being genuine, and accountability as ways to heal after a LVM (Ed)	QUEEN SH*T	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/20 06:13 AM
184	That sounds more like having a child than a marriage. I'm glad to be single rather than deal with something like that.	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 04:30 AM
181	He better be getting you presents for Valentine's Day - FDS isn't just about dinners	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 04:12 AM
175	getting closer to true 50/50 so he can also take a pill, men wanted 50/50 so	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 05:22 PM
169	COVID is NOT an excuse for Low Effort Dates.	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 08:35 AM
166	How much is your time worth?	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/21 06:12 PM
161	Holiday Dating Reminders & Tips	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/21 07:01 PM
160	Start embarrassing them for low effort or for seeking a mommy, calling it out helps combat some of the scrotery	NICE FOR WHAT?	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/21 07:52 AM
160	spotting low effort convos and copypastes	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/22 05:03 AM
155	stop dealing with LVMs in bed, stop falling for their excuses	SEX STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 07:30 AM
154	The Holidays are Coming: You dont need to buy him a Gift or show up with him	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/20 09:07 AM
153	You don't have to get him any gift, and do NOT buy him socks, underwear, or clothes in general!	MALE DEPRAVITY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/20 04:33 AM
153	So many pickmes / lvm were making nasty comments on this. A man should be finacially secure plus be able to afford to take care of you! This shows he can take care of himself and has enough leftover for you. If I wanted to go Dutch I'd get a female friend roomate or go for a girls nite dinner.	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/20 01:13 AM
151	Liz and Big Ed are a cautionary tale (90 day single life spoilers)	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 10:40 AM
150	Live action Cowboy Bebop won't dress Faye as scanty as original, actress speaks out	QUEEN SH*T	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/21 02:20 AM
142	Beware of guys that "make plans" then flake out or change it	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/01/21 11:55 PM
133	Thank you FDS. this is a screenshot of the type of 🤡s I dealt with before joining. I wanted him to take me to a restaurant and suggested a nice sit down place that was affordable and he wanted fast food and a hangout 🤭 now its just me and my career	LEVEL UP	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 02:37 PM
131	Rant on some more LV things to warn you all about	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 07:47 PM
131	This pickme is traveling across the country for a man and wants to dress so she can get laid. Shes wanted him "forever" and seems like they only met once before. Do NOT chase a man and do not rush into sex! She is lowering the bar for him!	PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 11:18 AM
128	(TW Abuse) Divorced parents: weekends visits with my deadbeat dad were detrimental + fostered Pickme behavior	Story time ☕	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 09:28 PM
125	My female coworker had this on her social media. I hate that these type of posts are supposed to be funny. This idea women have to suck it up for guys is toxic.	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 02:37 PM
124	What are your standards? Write them out and reference it! Add your dealbreakers and preferences too! What are your standards?	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/21 12:29 AM
121	Know Your Worth - People line up for LV but Toss Old Navy & Walmart on the Floor	SHOWER THOUGHT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 09:42 AM
120	It's almost summer beware of "hiking" or "walk around dates"	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/20 05:28 AM
114	Spotting red flags in old Convos and passing on the lessons	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/22 08:46 PM
113	Infiltration of LVM's coming off quarantine- huge time wasters and fakers	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/06/21 07:17 AM
113	Of course the grown husband is taking notes on how to clean along with the kids 🚩	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 07:43 PM
112	Found a discarded notebook at the thrift with this inside, sis is a queen.	QUEEN SH*T	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/10/20 03:10 AM
112	I figured out why I was a Pickme w friends & Dating - My Mom was showing me bad behavior my whole life.	LESSON LEARNED	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 12:09 AM
108	2 reminders in response to posts I've been seeing	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/20 08:34 PM
107	How does he look next to YOU? + Holiday Reminders	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/20 07:21 AM
104	Scrote hollered at me and random women today "I can be your sugar daddy I found a quarter"	THINGS SCROTES SAY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 05:30 AM
99	Singles events and speed dating popping up around Valentines day?	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 06:33 PM
97	Whenever a guy tries to open with the "you're beautiful" or "how are you"	FDS HUMOR	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/20 04:56 AM
97	my stepdad my a sexual innuendo to me while me and my mom were talking on the phone and my mom doesn't see an issue... help?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	30/04/21 06:32 AM
96	If he asks you out, make sure to vet the restaurant too!	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 09:19 PM
95	How pickmes look 🤡 I used to love howls moving castle. Seriously be careful what movies you watch and show to you kids/younger siblings as they can promote misogyny and pickme culture.	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 06:23 PM
94	More pickmes posting this thinking they're "real women" for doing 50/50. You already are a queen dont demote yourself to bangmaid. Throwaway this "wifey" aka being an unmarried bangmaid nonsense.	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 01:59 PM
88	The advice here works. A scrote just texted me out of the blue and they only get worse.	FIELD REPORT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/20 02:05 AM
83	this is going around Tok Tok + Facebook, trying to get women to accept LVM and shame them. anyone sharing or making videos to this needs to get Cutoff	SCROTATION REPORT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/21 06:19 AM
81	Welcome to the block party. We arent friends and I wont hang out with you. #blockedhim	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/20 10:12 PM
81	lvm approached me and I made a disgusted face at him	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/22 05:40 AM
75	how to deal with the fact men in your family are LVM/NVM, not having good examples of healthy relationships?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	22/12/20 06:50 AM
74	Holiday checklist if you're dating	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 05:36 AM
74	Talked to him	SCROTES MAD	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/20 10:38 PM
74	How to spot a man faking mental illness to use it as a pass?How to handle it?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	08/08/21 07:54 PM
70	"It Ain't Me" One of my Favorite songs about dodging a Bullet	FDS ANTHEM 🎶	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 12:54 AM
70	stop this bragging about cheap men. it perpetuates that this is ok	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 09:25 PM
69	More pickme nonsense floating around on Facebook. Beware of anyone that makes a habit of last minute plans. Last minute invites generally mean you're their last option- with friends and dates. Dont accept any last min plans from men!	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 10:16 PM
67	Men are invading my business pages online for hitting on me, and keep hitting on me/gawking when I run errands. I need some support, am I handling it right?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	08/06/21 11:55 AM
66	Anyone else notice guys settling and rushing into marriages after you rejected them?		warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/21 05:28 AM
63	His Bucket list includes making it to japan and his other picture is him sticking his tongue out. The fact hes dressed as the joker already shows the clown nature. I downloaded and deleted after 5 min	ROAST-A-SCROTE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 07:24 PM
63	Some of the many buzz words which all mean hes a F Boy	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/21 11:14 PM
62	Thoughts? To me looks like the Company is pandering to the Lolita look. The facial expressions look sad and the fake tears are sickening. Why do they have to advertise like this?		warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/21 09:15 PM
56	Why young South Koreans aren't interested in dating - no money or time. Thoughts?	GLOBAL RESISTANCE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/20 08:25 PM
54	The image that comes in mind whenever a guy messages/calls and answers with a long HEYYYYYYY or starts saying "youd be surprised by how good I can do you in bed" or "well I'm depressed but my penis works just great!" 🤡🦚 boy bye! (The guy is a stock pic)	Muh PENIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/20 07:04 PM
53	saw an ad for a book that essentially plans dates for you, and of course its being advertised to women. NO! not our job to plan the dates! pickmes and their LVMs are raving about it YIKES	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 05:00 PM
48	When you ask lvm for help they do a bad job so you don't ask them again - she has kids with him and they're all subject to his dirty ways!	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/20 05:25 PM
48	anyone else feel hard to make a connection since being lovebombed by a LVX?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	15/08/21 05:42 AM
44	Saw this awesome shirt today - if FDS made t shirts this would be one! Never settle for low value!	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 10:19 PM
43	Saw on fb... what you look like when you're a pickme with an LVM! shame when you see pretty girls get all dresses up and he takes you to McDonald's or to Netflix and chill 🤡	FDS HUMOR	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/20 03:11 PM
41	More LV behaviors and reminders	LEVEL UP	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 06:56 PM
41	From tinder a while ago, have at him	ROAST-A-SCROTE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/20 05:20 AM
41	he will call you a gold digger a for wanting a dinner date and high maintenence when he spends $$$ on HIS hobbies	LIES MEN TELL	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/22 05:27 AM
40	Did I spot the breadcrumming?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	14/07/21 08:18 PM
36	Thank You FDS, Reminder Why I want to Level Up	REMINDER 👑	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/20 12:58 AM
34	The old scrotes keep popping back up ... go through your contacts and all your social media make sure they are blocked everywhere.	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 06:12 AM
33	What things have come out when talking to guys that are red flags that we havent really discussed before?	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 01:33 AM
30	LVM will look for any excuse to job hop and turn down any extra work. Didnt know he was a cashier. He had off today and refused an extra shift because of a coworker. Hes applying to another grocery store 🥴 bye	#JustLVMThings	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/20 06:33 PM
27	My coworkers friend hit on me and hes an LVM	NICE FOR WHAT?	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 08:59 PM
27	I found some social events and meetups to do in a nearby city, but I feel scared AND not good enough / too much of a hot mess to attend? should I stay focused on myself or seek friends again?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	16/06/21 05:46 AM
24	Pickmes think this is funny and everyone online is tagging their boyfriends. The she tripped, fell, and hit her head. He knew about it still kept the gate up and then also fell. This is awful.	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/03/20 05:49 PM
22	Got a DM In response to my post about a dude saying fast food is a hangout "date". Imagine having to turn to reddit to pickup men and still getting no responses	SCROTES MAD	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 07:30 PM
21	old classmate is creeping up out of the woodwork do I block or distance myself? I need help with this one.		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	17/12/20 08:30 AM
18	Anyone else have a sour mother's day? The moms of LVMs failed as parents they don't deserve a holiday.		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	11/05/21 08:11 AM
17	What does FDS think of feminine men? He keeps saying everyone thinks he is gay but is obsessed with saying he isnt?	SEEKING ADVICE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 02:02 AM
16	looks like she agreed to a walk date and the LVM implies the dog is mad when she is there. imagine settling then being made a joke of online. DON'T do walk dates!	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 03:01 PM
14	Disgusted they marketed a mens shirt to women so its easier for her to clean it, they even show him gaming	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 07:29 PM
12	found a scrote OLD told him off	SCROTES MAD	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/20 03:02 AM
12	How to not feel sad/hopeless when you're watching all your friends get married? How do you deal with comments from your family?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	20/09/20 02:18 AM
11	lvms are pretending to be interested in my business and then be asking me if I'm single. This is what I get for pretending to be nice and chatty for potential sales. Page is getting closed and only selling through my website now. Lesson learned.	NICE FOR WHAT?	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 02:07 AM
10	Not all grapes (men) age into fine wine, many age into raisins. Botox and their money couldn't save em, I barely recognize Chandler. Meanwhile, the women have barely aged and all look stunning!	FDS HUMOR	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 05:44 AM
9	The first date really should be a restaurant.	STRATEGY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 07:22 AM
9	My ovaries just dried up. Flexing isn't doing basic chores. Notice the "we" made pancakes aka his wife made it and he only cleaned the griddle. This is why we dont date or have kids with loosers.	#JustLVMThings	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/07/20 05:58 AM
9	How do you handle running into an EX or his wife? Did i handle it correctly?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	31/01/21 04:05 AM
8	Leveling up found a better place to move, feeling very nervous, any advice?		warinmymind94	/r/askFDS	27/02/21 03:13 AM
3	Pickmes getting all done up to meet lvms for coffee or walks. I used to get so dressed up and was so polite for $3 dunkin in my nice car 🤡 Never again!	FDS HUMOR	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 06:23 PM
3	Woman comes home to a trashed house after giving birth, spends 2 days cleaning while carrying the newborn. Scrote allowed the mess to happen, doesnt help a bit	PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 02:58 AM
3	HVM will listen to your fears and make you feel at ease	How-To High Value	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/21 06:37 AM
1	How many former pickmes sat at home and couldn't go on actual dates because the LVM was always broke? If a man isn't consistently making effort to see you he needs to be gone.	LEVEL UP	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 06:08 PM
1	I can't make this up. Somehow they manage to keep getting worse. Stay off OLD.	MALE DEPRAVITY	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/21 09:46 AM
1	Do Not be Fooled: Dates = Time + Place + Day and other Tips	Story time ☕	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 09:27 AM
1	Best way to level myself up?	SEEKING ADVICE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 03:24 AM
1	Women worrying their husbands will yell at them for buying themselves stuff / not carrying in packages to avoid male criticism	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 12:30 PM
1	What does FDS think about these Corona virus weddings? I'm seeing so many classmates change their plans are they settling or working with the situation?	DISCUSSION	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 02:28 AM
1	Why is it so hard to find the bare minimum ?	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/20 08:04 AM
1	These types of memes aren't cute or funny. Don't let a man have financial control over you.	NAH, SIS	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/20 02:49 AM
1	Dating like the "Old Days" where guys made effort VS today we dont need them and we get WALK dates and Netflix	RANT	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 06:02 AM
1	stop it. bragging about this and now more men think they can do this.	PICKME CULTURE	warinmymind94	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 09:22 PM