Vetting involves looking for the red flags of porn sick men. Many of male friends and friends of friends I knew in the past would often say things about porn /OF calling it "sex work" and saying it's a valid job to make money, that she's just doing what she has to do. They have no issues with going to strip clubs, they'll joke about traveling to foreign countries for red light districts, they'll be looking forward to going to their bros bachelor party and hiring strippers for said event.

Yet these same men will curl up their lips in sheer disgust if there's even one rumor about a local woman having a "high body count". They'll call her all the degrading names in the book. One thing common on the dating apps is guys saying "I won't buy your OF!" In their profiles. Other guys will like a woman so much and then watch how their opinion of her flips like a switch if they find out she worked for a strip club or has an OF. Watch and listen to how they talk about women if they think she is "dirty" saying "I wouldn't touch her with a 10 ft pole".

It's the Madonna/Whore complex in action.

These lvm have no issues with the fact they slept around in the past but yet will judge your past. They'll go to strip clubs, they'll buy several OF accounts, they'll even try asking you for nudes. They're toxic. She's always a "wh0re" when it involves other men, but she's a desirable sex worker when he wants her. You have to avoid men like that completely because they see women as objects.