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| 161 | Pornsick Scrotes Want Their Money Back!67.6% of all Human Services Workers in the US are women, while 28.1% are men. I feel soo, so bad for women in customer service and call centers. Companies want money, managers want promotions, scrote keeps buying porn, all at the cost of the mental state of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:30 AM |
| 68 | Something icky to laugh about tonight. We were talking about planting grass for our cats and ofc he had to make it gross and awkward. My intuition was telling me from the start he was weird, but societal gaslighting told me to give him a chance merely bc he was giving me attention 🤷♀️. Blocked.Yeah that’s the start. It’s “just a joke haha”, then “I’m just rubbing you like a friend” then he will fucking assault you when you least expect it or feel vulnerable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:29 AM |
| 5 | Watch "VALENTINE'S DAY ADVICE: A Cheap, Sexy Valentine's Gift He Will Never Forget! | Shallon Lester" on YouTubeOh Shallon is still in Montana? She’s libfemmy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Dating Apps Are Not Only Mentally Dangerous . . .i was dumb enough to use my real name and put my job info there so yeah I bet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Dating Apps Are Not Only Mentally Dangerous . . .Stalking someone for 2 years? That’s new low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:09 PM |
| 82 | Dating Apps Are Not Only Mentally Dangerous . . .Guys I’ve talked to on OLD in the past sent flowers my jobs reception, went to the same bar I go to just to run into me. Last week, I got approached by some guy while grabbing coffee, apparently he recognized me from the app Ive used 2 years ago. He talked to me like I was his old friend but I was disturbed cause idk who he is! I’ve talked to so many men there, now these creeps recognize me on the streets and I don’t remember their name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 231 | Scrote wants to "adopt" a 20 year old "adult daughter"....a homeless pregnant woman from Austria who lost her father at a young agrHow much daddy daughter porn did he watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:43 PM |
| 29 | Obvious things I never realized until someone else pointed it outThey’re not even trying to be decent friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:06 PM |
| 18 | "All the good men are taken! They're all married by now!"They live with parents to “save money” but still broke. Maybe living with 5 roommates and do OLD coffee dates to get sex, no commitment cause he’s “too busy with work” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 05:24 PM |
| 22 | Thoughts on a particular sort of female-perpetuated misogynyI’ve met plenty of these women in certain circles so part of this issue might be cultural and men are babied and treated special because they’re “future providers”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 28 | "All the good men are taken! They're all married by now!"I was hustling trying to grow in my 20es and was terribly broke, but now I have a career and a life that i always wanted. I didn’t know what I want until 25. I’m exited for my 30es. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 55 | "All the good men are taken! They're all married by now!"I might be downvoted for it but most women I know that had babies or got in serious relationships before 25 settled for LWM. I almost became one of them under peer pressure, no shame in admitting it. If they level up they will be single mothers in their early thirties. It also depends on cultural , religious or socioeconomic values( there is some women that still need a man to survive or downplay their life to have a man around). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 04:32 PM |
| 17 | How to avoid men that let themselves go while in a relationship?Perfect. Thank you | /r/askFDS | 08/02/22 04:05 PM |
| 167 | "All the good men are taken! They're all married by now!"I’m tired of hearing that women hit the wall. When I walk around all I see is cave trolls, cargo pants, beer bellies and literal Barbie’s walking next to them with nails and hair done. Women on average are more attractive and pay attention to their looks while men think the world should accept them looking like bean bags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 03:12 PM |
| 144 | Obvious things I never realized until someone else pointed it outWhen I “Friend zone “ guys I’m not attracted to I care about their feelings and wellbeing. I don’t mind to be their friend. When a guy fuckzoned me once all he wrote is “don’t text me unless you wanna fuck. I don’t care if you die in the ditch otherwise” And that’s all I needed to know about my mistake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 01:32 PM |
| 370 | Age Gaps in the MediaThat Leo pic makes me barf Alexa is 38, Orson is 24.... but they look the same age | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 78 | Comments tell her to "commUNIcate", OF is Not BAdI can't tell how many bright, successful, smart women I knew had this "team mentality" that allows men to take advantage of them. I was the same before I've dealt with enough men. Women are too good for their own good sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 08:31 PM |
| 78 | Barb the Builder: don't do unpaid labour for a manOne of FDS episodes talked about "starter wifes" that struggle with men, then he reaps the awards and upgrades her to newer model he couldn't afford when he was broke. Men don't respect you for helping them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:33 PM |
| 17 | TW: r*pe very triggering, I almost logged off of the internet after reading this but I decided to post here so we can all seeThe fact she was even strong enough to spend time reporting 6 people just to defend herself shows why not many women have the guts to do so, unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 06:01 AM |
| 13 | It's too late, the Porn Industry won, the children are corrupted. Todays young people think rape is good and the people who think its bad are the problem. How do we protect kids, teens and young adults from being indoctrinated into Porn and LibFem culture?ITsssA KiNkkk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:07 AM |
| 18 | Singles events and speed dating popping up around Valentines day?THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 38 | A Dude leads her on for 2.5 months leeching her emotionally daily saying he wants to take things slow. Of course the advice is to *communicate* and talk to him honestly.She would understand how hard she settled for this loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:00 AM |
| 78 | That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parksHe takes you shopping like he's you gay best friend to pick outfits for each other? I have friends for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:49 AM |
| 77 | No words…He got a dog but she's the one looking for youtube videos with 1 and 2 yo on her hands ALREADY?wtf does he do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:31 AM |
| 15 | this is why we need to vet!Please contact queen herself u/Pain-of-the-smell and wish her the best she's planning to get a motorhome and don't look back after this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 02:47 AM |
| 32 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.PEDISTOOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:09 AM |
| 56 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.for everyone wondering, try googling: Whats the worst thing you've ever done to a woman reddit and What is the worst way you've ever treated a woman that wasn't deserved?These are old archived posts on AskMen from 2-8 years ago, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:42 AM |
| 87 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.next time my hair tie snaps imma drag some man by the throat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:30 AM |
| 54 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.i think most men just proudly own it and tell the world to piss off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:05 AM |
| 233 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.mostly just don't want to get caught | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:01 AM |
| 360 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.i laughed at that one, he assaulted her for no reason but comments are like "you both are toxic" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:00 AM |
| 18 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.i cant message you directly and FDS does not allow links | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 11:56 PM |
| 71 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.they support him for admitting the painful truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 88 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst."i was a bad person haha i feel bad. ok, who cares, back to reality" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 11:23 PM |
| 23 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"You can deactivate your profile and it won't show up anymore. I deleted mine back when I didn't need it and all the guys I still talked to told me I disappeared from their matches. He's lying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:22 PM |
| 8 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬"perform other duties as assigned" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 64 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬I think he's looking for a sex slave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:46 AM |
| 12 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!We know divorce won’t happen cause women screw themselves with sunk cost fallacies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 07:31 PM |
| 89 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Yeah, they mostly do that to avoid consequences (debt, crime, child abuse), or wipe his own family off the face of Earth due to personal insecurity (Sharkey's murder and many more) or because they're inconvenient (Watts murder). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 46 | Love it when a friend reminds me how much OLD sucks. I appreciate that he showed himself so quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 03:46 AM |
| 19 | Found on another sub. I was grossed out by how many people thought this was so cute and #couplegoals material 🤢her update is"If you’re here from Reddit leave me alone ✌🏼" lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 03:18 AM |
| 14 | Beware of men who repeatedly turn conversations sexualThey never admit anything and make it seem like you can’t take a joke,clowns 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 17 | Beware of men who repeatedly turn conversations sexualYeah, I fell for this many times too, you're not alone. I was too polite. They always try to discuss sexual topics or jokes and if you don't diss them right away they always escalate. My most traumatizing experiences come from guys groping and making things sexual,me thinking he likes me and responding, just for him to ignore me the next day, and people telling me "he just wanted to bang haha". As if it's supposed to be OK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 05:15 PM |
| 189 | Beware of men who repeatedly turn conversations sexualThis is my OLD experience in a nutshell. Also, male “friends” do this often (turn things sexual) when you least expect it. For many years I thought ignoring it and keep talking will make them get the message. BIG mistake. HUGE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 05:12 AM |
| 14 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?i already slid in her dms with rescue mission | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:45 PM |
| 221 | Nothing Good Happens After 10pmSmart scrotes know this! They hit you up before 5 to book for after 10 slot 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 18 | Need advice…also learn from my mistake!Claiming you have a bf does not work with men that don’t care, I had scrotes saying “we won’t tell him” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 47 - CATFIGHT!!! Overcoming Conflicts With Other Womeneh, I feel you. I tried to do the bro thing when I came out of school and it got me nowhere. I went out with them to each drinking party and was too friendly. Men praised each other, helped each other and nobody had my back when it was needed at work although they treated me like one of the guys during drinking nights. I was still talked over in meetings (maybe because I was also the youngest). They were also weirded out by my friendliness and soon as my (married) coworker made suggestive passes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:24 AM |
| 23 | I walked away when my needs weren't metyeah he sounds like guy who wants to date around/string a lot of women and end up not in a relationship cause he realizes he doesn't want one they will string you along for as long as you let them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:41 AM |
| 49 | A Curated Selection from OLD-These young women are manipulated into believing they’ll be respected equals in the relationship but in reality they’re just sex toys that are always at risk of being disposed of. THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:31 AM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 47 - CATFIGHT!!! Overcoming Conflicts With Other Womeni work in same environment as you, we need all support we can get lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 06:37 PM |
| 43 | Crystal Hefner Destroys Depraved Hugh Hefner's Revenge Porn StashOh you mean, a depraved rich white guy that collected women in his mansion like trading cards also had loads of gross depiction of their bodies in a pile? Hard to believe lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:51 AM |
| 103 | Crystal Hefner Destroys Depraved Hugh Hefner's Revenge Porn StashAfter Hefner died in 2017, he left much of Playboy Enterprises to his son, Cooper Hefner, who never bothered to destroy the revenge porn. BECAUSE HES ALSO A SCROTE with 0 empathy for women (his wife prob too) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:39 AM |
| 49 | No second date, so he wants moneyOhhh my god, back in my pickme days I had a guy from OLD asking me on ice cream and walk date, I showed up, he bought us 3$ ice creams and wanted to walk around in a 100+ degree heat, I declined, he said we can sit on a bench, I declined, he got mad and said "this isn't going any further" turned and just walked away while I WAS STILL TALKING, I ate my ice cream in my car and he requested 3$ on venmo from me :))))) loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 12:16 AM |
| 51 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.Preach ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 06:23 PM |
| 31 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.They will beg women they hate for companionship when that dry spell hits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:45 AM |
| 31 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.All they do is tell you how to act to be taken advantage of easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:45 AM |
| 8 | Men More Likely to Be Single, Living with Parents, Than Women (FDS CONFIRMED!)This explains the trend of why all of my high-earning male coworkers still live with their parents mid to late twenties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 127 | 🤮🤮🤮🤮don’t do this!!! Have some self respect. No thank you.Ah, great throw back to college days when the guy I crushed on and slept with casually talked about how hot my friend was and it sucks that she has a boyfriend… while we were having sex. No thank you , sir. Fuck off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 10:31 PM |
| 7 | Gradually dropping a male orbiterI think it's important to notice when a guy becomes an orbiter to get rid of him immediately. Practice makes perfect because they act the same. Usually, they choose not to participate in your life and sort of float in and out, you don't really know much about them. It's not flattering nor worth you time to try to get to know him because he won't let you. He's doing this to a few women at the same time to hopefully get sex, and you are not a girl he's actually interested in if he chooses to orbit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 06:34 AM |
| 63 | Proof that the main beneficiary of casual sex & relationships is men!!!!This also leads to men not trying enough knowing women will get desperate for anyone that stays | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 15 | Unhinged stalker believes I’m someone else or her friend. Threatens to keep calling me until I give him her number. Creates new numbers each time I block.I would like to add that SIM swapping, if true, gives the perpetrator access to all your personal enfo, emails and passwords, so you might have to change that just in case | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 36 | Unhinged stalker believes I’m someone else or her friend. Threatens to keep calling me until I give him her number. Creates new numbers each time I block.Sounds like you've been SIM swapped. Contact authorities and get a new number ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 36 | “Do You Like Kids?”, Being Used to Judge if You Are a Bitch or a Nice PersonThis behaviour is rampant at pink collared jobs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 23 | Ladies please don’t do this. You deserve your dream ring!This will speed up proposal?? HONEY NO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 5 | What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved?do they look at white women the same way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:15 AM |
| 11 | Lil Miss Cheetah catches a Cheater red-handed 🥴😂I think she knew he was cheating before and this was the confirmation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:02 AM |
| 55 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.sons have to be treated with far more discipline and authority that daughters my grandfather said all men have to be drafted in the military at a young age for this exact reason... As much as I find the military institution rather problematic, I agree with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 196 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.Please don't give up, you're doing the right thing by saving girls that will date them in the future! Don't let them bully you with complaints and "shut up" money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:31 PM |
| 218 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.I've known a woman that immigrated to US with her young son, bough her own house, then politely asked her son to move out to his gf when he turned 34 and she got a new bf, her son turned so violent her new bf had to call cops on him. She still said she loves him and hopes he forgives her… sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 17 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 46 - Scamming Men in Solidarity: Combating Colorism & Racial FetishizationI liked everything in this podcast but didn’t enjoy the prolonged laughter, I’m sure there is a way to cut that out and proceed with the topic without wasting listeners time. Great job though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 248 | The things I had to freaking hear.how is anyone accepting the fact that these dudes probably pumped and dumped till their mid-thirties and now they're desperate to settle down and prey on the youngest and most naive women? how is this not scary? and the moment they trap one they ditch her simply because "she's dumb, naive, needy, has no direction, has no life experience, no money to uber herself , etc" It's like they only understand it after their peen is satisfied and shift the blame on her so they can dissapear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 236 | I’m still confused as to why some guys still expect us to put out on the first date or do casual hookups. This is why we don’t. Shit like this isn’t fun for usLook a dating and sex subreddit,90% of all messages made by women are:" this male is disrespectful and abusive or am I overreacting? what did I do wrong? " and then people proceed to tell her to COMMUnIcate and if she did they tell her to suck it up and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 03:02 AM |
| 7 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”He cut the strings with every other lover OH PLEASE men like this who call women "ladyfriends" for sure will find a way to keep them around until they're ready to switch to a new ladyfriend *clownemoji* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:52 AM |
| 91 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleSame! Had a few dudes half-assing conversation until asking for couch date. Not even coffee first, he just wanted company in his new house. I laughed and he unmatched. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 03:01 AM |
| 410 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleI was legit unmatched after refusing walk and coffee dates. Wasted so much time matching/talking just to be introduced to the same walk date by dozens of guys. THEY KNOW what's up and they look for the cheapest option possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 01:09 AM |
| 22 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockI chose not to block because I thought its cruel and impolite What was cruel is how those guys kept sliding back, ignoring my discomfort and insulting me after I stated my boundaries. Then I blocked and never felt better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 9 | Guy is sexist and racist, shocked that makes him an assholeyes, I feel bad for her because her liking of him is probably genuine, but he's with her for his own clout and her looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 195 | Guy is sexist and racist, shocked that makes him an assholeI feel like his “joke” is not a joke, thats actually how he feels about having attractive gf. It’s like he feels inadequate and overcompensates by insulting her career choice and looks to feel In control. He can’t be with woman without insulting or dominating her. She has to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"When I told my LVM date that I experienced sexism at my last workplace he seriously said "you know theres worse places to work at than X? you can't condemn a company just because you didn't like it" I felt silenced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:07 PM |
| 96 | Giving up sex with men has been the best thing everYou can’t care too much, they will go out of their way to trash your reputation. I’ve denied guys in hs who went around saying I’ve slept with a whole football team, did drugs, and my teachers because I was in cheerleading and a late classes (I was a virgin). Just be yourself and people will recognize those are lies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:46 AM |
| 8 | Have you found that men on OLD lie about wanting/looking for a relationship just to get laid? They will look for any excuse to hit on you they evolved now, sending mixed messages until you initiate is what they do nowadays, zero effort for max benefits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:32 AM |
| 7 | Men who are hot/cold and don’t expect you to bail when they go cold...?I don't think they even care, they just want to "shoot their shot" and forget who they texted after busting a nut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 04:08 AM |
| 38 | When men make fun of women who get unwanted attention- like “I’d kill to have a woman hit on me”Average woman is far more attractive than an average man, so of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:03 PM |
| 92 | Have you found that men on OLD lie about wanting/looking for a relationship just to get laid?this sea of potential matches out there but 2/3rds are not remotely, and I mean remotely dateable This is why men think women go for top 1% when in reality most men are undateable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:38 AM |
| 139 | Have you found that men on OLD lie about wanting/looking for a relationship just to get laid?Yes! One guy said he's looking for wifey, we texted for week and talked about deep topics, didn't even meet he got hot and cold on day 3, then asked to come over on 5. I declined and he blocked me. Next guy was love-bombing and texting, I was busy. He asked a million questions, started calling, sent gift when I traveled for work. Never asked me out but said he'll come over to cuddle if I ask. Then week of texting. One day he just went silent and posted pics from parties on IG, that's after 2+ we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:22 AM |
| 64 | Men who are hot/cold and don’t expect you to bail when they go cold...?It's dunno but once you give them cold shoulder they ghost again but come back in a few months to check if you still respond :D clowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:08 AM |
| 212 | Men who are hot/cold and don’t expect you to bail when they go cold...?lol i've fallen for this once before FDS because I liked the guy in college and gave him a benefit of the doubt after he went cold, but that dumbass did it again, so it was clearly a pattern. I felt like ghosting was overreacting on his part but figured he's not into me. So it sucked for a day but I've moved on. One month later he's in my inbox all sad and lonely, I said no thanks like...what did he expect? Me being excited to be a backup? I knew he wasn't into me. My attraction was gone anyways… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 13 | Attracting HVW on Bumble BFF?Here are some rare cases but you basically need to initiate everything. One thing i've noticed is that women on BFF are low effort, they usually are new to the area and convos never lead to anything besides weather talk or compliments. Also, you need to vet women, and age is not the issue here. Some are toxic LVW who want to complain, cheat on their bf, chase guys or have LV boyfriends... no thanks. Of course, you need to find your "niche" of women, and I don't think age is an issue, it's more o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 47 | I'm tired of hearing about women who take scrotes backMy mom took my stepdad back a few times. Every time she dumped him he serenaded to her at her job, bought her flowers and gifts, paid her children with ice cream to tell her to take him back. He asked their friends to tell her she's dooming herself to be a single mom with a bunch of children without him. His parents called her to tell her he's drinking himself to death and it's her fault. She took him back and he cheated on her again, rinse and repeat. I assume when women do this they experience… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 37 | Do men understand the difference between flirting and being friendly?She didn’t care she just wants money out of them and feels like this is a lot of work and waste of her time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Ruined my own taste??It does not! Thank you , you're right | /r/askFDS | 09/01/22 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Ruined my own taste??This helped with my anxiety about this, thank you. | /r/askFDS | 09/01/22 05:36 PM |
| 32 | Would you persevere with this?A guy will almost never turn down the opportunity of free sex so if you pursue them, even if they are not that into you, they will likely use you. They need to convince themselves that their conscience is clear because you came onto him. Block | /r/askFDS | 30/12/21 09:31 PM |
| 29 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)Nothing screams insecurity more than men hitting 30es, thinking of themselves as hot commodity and running after barely legal tiktokers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩it’s a college town and it happens too much. They don’t get paid enough to sweat about it. Some get a cut from drug dealers selling drugs inside and pretend not to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Men date you to level up. Don’t date men to level down.Oh please! John Cena as other LVM fucks have no problem wasting years of women’s lives who they don’t love nor respect. Gf's are for free sex and company. But wives? They always try to marry up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 06:44 AM |
| 56 | The Forever Girlfriend Phenomenon: Why do guys do this, and why do girls put up with it?I've seen a few different versions of this, not necessarily because the guy doesn't want commitment. My current neighbor is a woman in her early 40es, living with her bf of 8 years, they both have kids from previous marriages that live with their ex-partners. She told me she will never marry again or have more kids, but she "needs a man around to do work", they have separated everything, he's really committed to her (and seems to be more into her than she is into him). Then, I know a woman that … | /r/askFDS | 08/12/21 03:10 AM |
| 19 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩Oh totally an “accident” https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/sep/07/darlington-man-jailed-for-four-years-for-choking-woman-during-sex https://www.google.com/amp/s/au.news.yahoo.com/amphtml/uk-backpacker-murdered-during-rough-sex-with-tinder-date-081434917.html https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.the-sun.com/news/1189440/dad-woman-killed-millionaire-devastated-freed/amp/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:03 AM |
| 374 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩When i worked at night club bouncers laughed about "underage chicks getting spiked every night" and them having to deal with it like wow, so funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:37 PM |
| 16 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipI’ve had a few men tell me that they hurt/ scarred women for life when they were younger. They kind of shrugged like “I was an ahole, glad I changed before I met my wife”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:01 AM |
| 101 | Boyfriend’s family doesn’t like me, I’m afraid. What to do?My boyfriend of 1 year and a half has purchased a house with me Ladies, until you are married, there is no "we". you don't combine finances, house, or share a place for the "greater good of a relationship". It does not benefit you, and the whole point of FDS is to have leverage in a relationship. If you have invested in a house, it's harder for you to leave, and you probably won't break up with him because you will convince yourself that it's a stupid reason for a breakup after x amount of years… | /r/askFDS | 05/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 16 | In light of Roe v. Wade: Please be aware that not having PIV sex is a realistic, pragmatic, modern solution that does not have to be mixed in with religious convictions or shame.All I can think of is a bunch of Pickmes reeing "but I need a dick to cuuuum" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 08:29 PM |
| 71 | Normalize telling men they don’t turn you on anymoreusually female-talk OOooo.... you females mmmm.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Don't let the man downgrade you!He told me he isn’t much of a drinker before so this made me think that he went out with some other girl he was talking to and fed me excuses instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 08:20 AM |
| 9 | Don't let the man downgrade you!I see where you coming from, but I don’t feel comfortable going out with strangers, which is why it takes me at least a week of talking and scoping. Going out with someone I’ve been taking to for a day or two is madness to me. That’s why I ditched OLD. Also I travel a lot because of my job so meeting up instantly is impossible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 08:19 AM |
| 31 | Don't let the man downgrade you!I didn't think about this at all, now I see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:25 AM |
| 16 | Don't let the man downgrade you!This was him telling you about himself and what was about to happen or had already started to happen. I felt that way too! I just don't understand why he proceeded to talk to me afterward or deny it, he could grow a pair and say he's not interested anymore, especially after I called him out. A week later my friend sent me a pic of a guy that was crossing the road in front of her car with a girl holding his hand and the guy looked bizarrely like him.... so idk! Just don't waste people's time I gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:24 AM |
| 13 | Don't let the man downgrade you!Thank you for telling me a name for that thing! I totally have issues with emotional addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 42 | Don't let the man downgrade you!He had pearl white veneers so I think he meant normal teeth with a small tint of yellow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 12:42 AM |
| 78 | Don't let the man downgrade you!Thats what I thought too! I don’t take that personally at all, I thought its weird someone would drop a person for accent or teeth color… screams insecurity to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:10 PM |
| 14 | Don't let the man downgrade you!No, he was actually pretty careful not to be like that and seemed self aware and genuine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:44 PM |
| 10 | Remind me I did the right thing?Okay, I see your point. Bad wording on my part, no trust issues just.. sensing things. | /r/askFDS | 03/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Remind me I did the right thing?Seem like an incompatibility to me, he wouldn't drop his friends for a new woman he started dating, and you have trust issues and suspicions. He didn't try to understand where you were coming from and instead just told you to give him a chance. You did and he continued doing things that triggered you so you bounced. If he was that keen to keep you he would go out of his way to show you his friends are harmless, he didn't do that for whatever reason. | /r/askFDS | 03/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 52 | I'm going to sound ridiculous...did you do all this shit for sex? yes, they do. they want the sex and companionship all as one bundle. I think you have answered you own question here: I think men are starting to clue in that women are no longer willing to put up with LV behaviour and are starting to play the part of a HVM for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 41 | FDS opinion on casual sex with other women (as a wlw)?As someone who tried I would like you to take a few things into account. First, most out-of-closet lesbian or bisexual women are much, much more prone to try to push for a relationship after said hookups. You won't be ghosted like with men, and you won't probably be mistreated unless you go for butch lesbians who often mimic male behaviors (for some reason). The LGBT community tends to be tiny and those women tend to be eager for newcomers, nothing's wrong with that. Some LGBT women can be prett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:09 AM |
| 84 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.I've been in a situationship with one of these, super traumatizing. Edit: they make you anxious, lost, and sad when they pull away you feel crazy for asking for their attention you don’t feel in control you ask for validation all the time (from them) you can’t stop thinking about them (when they neglect you) you go with whatever they want and lose boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 01:21 AM |
| 36 | Keep those career goals high, Ladies. Fight the system and aim for those top professions!!Boise State Professor: Keep Women Out of Medicine, Engineering, and LawSTEM female, I want to get my doctorate and I'm an engineer, fully childfree. I will personally create a fund for girls to get educated and not waste time on men and kids until they achieve their financial freedom. WATCH ME SCROTE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 01:10 AM |
| 43 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?I used to get a lot of crushes and pursuing men because I thought it romantic and things will play out like in hallmark movie and guy will fall in love with me… they never did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 01:03 AM |
| 33 | Men will do anything for sex (except actually put in effort): A refresher course on the DENNIS systemI've dated a FEW men on OLD that managed to fake interest by love-bombing and future faking me to nurture dependence, bragged about their jobs and lifestyle to demonstrate value, then start ignoring me after a month when they realized I am not initiating sex with them while lazily talking to me, then disconnect entirely after they found a better victim, even if I still reached out to them (basically, ignore me). They also pointed out that I look young and cute (!), and that I seem to be shy and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:03 PM |
| 110 | Imagine trying to pick up women by negging about living in a van down by the river. Yikes!It’s one thing when these guys are nomads with humble, high hygiene lifestyle (perfect pinterest-like expensive trailers) and 6 figure remote jobs and lots of hobbies that contribute to the environment. But something tells me these dudes are literally homeless, can’t hold down a job, on the road /drinking all the time and use that excuse not to shower/ brush teeth for weeks. Or even bring their drunk buddies back to trailer with them and one of them rapes you. That’s not a safe of acceptable env… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 11:52 PM |
| 31 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?Because their guys are shitty abusive LVM's. The breakups happened because those women were probably mistreated and wanted an out. He didn't get that because he's selfish and came up with his own story so he can keep shitting on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 04:23 AM |
| 33 | SHORTCUTSThey brag to you because they think they are better than you and you should be impressed. When they complain it's like dumping their emotional baggage out and getting attention from a woman, nothing to do with you, everything with him. They also think you owe them things later (like sex, attention, etc). Powerful men are sociopaths and egoists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 04:21 AM |
| 56 | Lvm telling on themselves: "sex work is a valid profession" and yet he would "never touch that sk@nk with a 10 ft pole"Their definition of relationship is 'exclusive sexual access for the rest of their lives', with no effort on their behalf. you forgot to add 'with multiple women', and 'casual'. Basically, a harem. Don't apply if you're older than 23, that's too old. won't even get off their couch to go on a date. you shouldn't ask him to put effort, that's taking advantage of him. what's next, paying money for you? what a gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 10:49 PM |
| 108 | Lvm telling on themselves: "sex work is a valid profession" and yet he would "never touch that sk@nk with a 10 ft pole"LWM want to have a lot of casual sex with hot barely legal girls and watch a lot of porn. They also admit they would never date or marry them and justify it in any twisted way they want (biology! Science! Logic!marriage is jail! Feminists run the government!) just to get off the hook and keep doing it with no consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 09:18 PM |
| 4 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialThey are pushing your women to have a lot of casual sex to find a serious partner and it’s a really problematic trope (because cs is the least likely way to get commitment, even then it's not gonna be with HVM..) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:47 AM |
| 4 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialI second this! Most I’ve seen an average guy get is one -two gfs max during college and only if he offers serious intentions and exclusivity. Only athletes were getting laid regularly by multiple women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:39 AM |
| 2 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialThey’re promoting this show with sweepstakes : https://www.hbomax.com/series/urn:hbo:series:GYXBzKw3n5aJmOwEAAAAE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 35 | Men’s Rights and TeachingBecause women getting more rights in their minds automatically takes their rights away. It's like in their head there is a finite amount of rights only one group of individuals can own, and if other groups get some then they lose theirs (like hourglass sand timer). Young males seem to prescribe to this idea a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:05 PM |
| 12 | I’m not sure where to go from here in terms of meeting someoneI didn't come across any single HVM I was attracted to. I recommend joining activities for the sake of having fun! Most guys I've met through them were already paired up, but I managed to create a social circle and meet their single friends. Unfortunately, none of them were HVM but there's still a chance to meet one, it's all luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:13 PM |
| 12 | Any advice for my first date in 2 weeks?If you don't like him, if you don't enjoy your date, if, for some reason, you just want to be somewhere else, practice what you're going to do/say to get out. Don't sit there out of politeness and don't waste your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:00 PM |
| 71 | Is it crazy to have a goal to make enough money to hire a PI to vet?THIS! Save the coin for yourself, not some PI scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 48 | Why do guys tell you they don’t want a relationship with you but get mad if you date someone else? (long read and rant)yeah it's the game of who cares less, and they always enjoy being one that wins. WHen that doesn't happen they lose their shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:37 PM |
| 103 | Why do guys tell you they don’t want a relationship with you but get mad if you date someone else? (long read and rant)Men who fuck you think they are entitled to have access to you, if you go and have sex with someone else they get jealous and their ego is hurt, they act weird and immature about it. Yet, they still don't care about you, they only care about having you available when they want it. On top of that, they have madonna/whore syndrome, they will see you as a whore and irrationally despise you more after each time you fuck them because they have no respect for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 08:47 PM |
| 9 | Have you recently met any man who was actually willing to wait to have sex with you under YOUR TERMS?Ok, I've never tried that mostly because I'm bad at making jokes at the expense of someone else, but men I've met will joke back without skipping a beat and won't suffer any masculinity loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:40 AM |
| 28 | Have you recently met any man who was actually willing to wait to have sex with you under YOUR TERMS?you just ignore the innuendo and steer convo back into non-sexual territory Fair, but this never worked for me. Guys wait and try again later to see if you've missed it the first time. They want to absolutely make sure you got it, with a shit-eating grin. If you keep ignoring them it won't go away. I found verbalizing my thought better to help this issue, especially stating my boundaries regarding sex.If he backtracks or says he doesn't understand why are you so sensitive/what you referring to -… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:27 AM |
| 14 | Have you recently met any man who was actually willing to wait to have sex with you under YOUR TERMS?hey, you don't have to tolerate it! you can speak up and tell them that you're no interested and further ignore any "I didn't mean that jeeez...its my humor" bs they will pull, I'd snap back with "then it's not funny, it's creepy" and continue like nothing happened. If he pulls it again just ask him to leave because you are fed up. Yeah, you might lose a client but you'll preserve your dignity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:20 AM |
| 15 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonHe’s proud of his mental issues, watch his interviews, he seeks pity all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:48 AM |
| 54 | Anyone else become disillusioned with their male friends?If your “friend” gets a girlfriend, he will drop you because his intimacy needs are being met by her. This. is. my. experience. with. every . male. friend. Be aware most women don't want her guy to have a female friend either so you will be dropped either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 02:43 AM |
| 35 | Is this HV behavior?Despite him being a student, he has a full-time job Do you think he will have enough time for a relationship with a woman that lives 4 hours away? He is driving the 4 hours for a date. Please do a pre-date call before he does that. Make sure he does not expect to stay over. Don't let him lovebomb you. Good luck otherwise! | /r/askFDS | 21/11/21 03:17 AM |
| 64 | Is this HV behavior?He lives 4 hours away. Yellow flag. Why bother with LDR unless he's actively planning to move closer to be with you. he mentioned I “look young” and that I have a “young voice”. Orange flag. His culture finds it attractive to he's just looking for someone younger or naive to fall in love with him. Tread carefully. “ do you want to come or do you want me to come” Orange flag. An HVM would drop everything to come and see you. Maybe even as surprise (but careful with lovebombing!) He is on a studen… | /r/askFDS | 21/11/21 01:22 AM |
| 64 | Do not date men who are “separated”.50% this or 50% just too broke or don’t bother to divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 11:40 PM |
| 68 | Never beg a man to marry youYour first paragraph describes roughly 90% of middle class boomer families I’ve encountered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 11:37 PM |
| 16 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manFrom what I’ve seen this behavior is prominent in male-dominant work fields, or religious / traditional circles. Only first ones tolerate women as an annoyance (because they have to by law), and others tolerate them for breeding/free labor purposes. But they always cling to other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:28 PM |
| 5 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsSo he likes a woman that always agrees, likes everything that he likes, never asks for anything, never complains, settles for anything he gives her, has no opinion, eager to have sex for free whenever/wherever, is supportive, ... FOR ABSOLUTELY FUCKING FREE. A free girlfriend, free blowup doll, free buddy/listener. That free prostitution. The woman gets NOTHING out of this, not even a human treatment(because humans have opinions and needs) and he doesn't even hide it. What even does he expect fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:23 PM |
| 15 | ConfusedThat's sexual assault and I don't care what anyone says. You've said you don't want unprotected sex, multiple times. Get STD/pregnancy checked with your gyno please, and file a police report on him (get a restraining order), you don't owe anyone an explanation to what happened. If turns out you've caught something, lawyer up ASAP, rip him to shreds. | /r/askFDS | 20/11/21 06:34 PM |
| 81 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manBonus points if they grew up in a family where their mom gave up on work, education, etc., to raise her kids and his dad was the primary provider. They seem to pass the condescending attitude on other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:19 PM |
| 29 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manTHIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 50 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manI was hot and I must be stupid. excuse me? :O how do you logic this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:02 PM |
| 201 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.yeah he was horny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 09:54 PM |
| 192 | "Hyosung (Korean idol/celebrity) targeted at anti-feminist protests after participating in campaign against dating violence"When I saw Korean it told me everything I needed to know. It's an extremely traditional society, even from Korean dramas you can tell those women live in an old-fashioned sexist hell. They're being sold a lie of waiting for a perfect Korean husband while in reality they get abused into domestic servitude, and pressured into looking like a prepubescent teenage girl all their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 07:35 PM |
| 214 | Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour????If you judge you think “he’s not human wit emotions and needs” No I think he’s a creep that groomed someone Normalize for these guys to find women their own age | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 7 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.I agree, she was def trying to secure a bag by baby trapping him cause she’s the only yellowbone he had… she learned that didn’t work. The dude wants A vagina around and he don’t care who it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Bi & wlw gals, how have your experiences compared in hetero dating versus wlw?This comment worded my experience so well!n in LGBT community that seemed to be judgy, close-minded, possessive, and VERY pushy. So I enjoy sex with men much more in general and if they fall for you the dynamic works better for me personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 03:27 AM |
| 139 | literally"now, because my head is balding, and nobody else gives me free college p*ssy at the bar, and all my friends are married, I think it's time for me to cuff you, too" what an honor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:03 AM |
| 5 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.Ok! I actually agree with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 12:09 AM |
| 62 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.Very few men marry for love and its VERY OBVIOUS when they do so, they worship the ground that woman walks on and marry her, like, NEXT WEEK. Everyone else settles down with whoever is currently with him Then, if she's not really his type he becomes Mr. Stringer, Mr. "Saturdays are for boys", Mr. "50/50 ", Mr. "I want to go to the bar pretend I'm single", Mr. "marriage is just paper". If she is, he pops the ring and provide's for the kids, buys a house, slowly "falls in love". Real instant love … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 07:49 PM |
| 43 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.One has a forever girlfriend of 20 years who he has two kids and a house with. She is quite frankly, out of his league. Women's low standards breed LVMs like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 07:40 PM |
| 31 | The importance of lying about your disfunctional familyLVM on OLD are preying on vulnerable women!!! They snoop around figuring out if you have family issues, mental issues, money issues, any issues. They want validation and attention from lots of women that they don't care about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 07:07 PM |
| 43 | Whenever I fight with boyfriend I believe he will leave me the next day. How do I cope with this?Ok, have you consulted an attorney, especially regarding the shared account? If not, I recommend doing so ASAP, cohabitation laws are tricky and it will ruin you financially. If you are unmarried and buy a home together you have no means of forcing him to sell the home. He could stop paying--you still owe the full amount. The mortgage company doesn't really care who is paying. Your options are to pay or to stop paying and go into foreclosure to get out of the situation (and then be sued!). You a… | /r/askFDS | 14/11/21 12:21 AM |
| 134 | I feel like there are no good menWhat did women do to deserve so much hate and cruelty?!?!? patricrchy treating women like shit benefits all men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 54 | Whenever I fight with boyfriend I believe he will leave me the next day. How do I cope with this?You're not married, there's no "we". Who's name is on the house? How do you guys plan to split the ownership in case you break up? Are you selling your share? Is there a cohabitation agreement? | /r/askFDS | 13/11/21 11:02 PM |
| 120 | Whenever I fight with boyfriend I believe he will leave me the next day. How do I cope with this?Ima be harsh. Your fucked up by buying a home with someone you’re not married to, and this is the time where you learn why. You’re both not happy, you’re stressed and crying, you guys did well dating but this sort of deeper commitment is already killing the relationship. How long have you guys cohabitated before? If not you guys rushed into something that wasn’t worth it. | /r/askFDS | 13/11/21 10:17 PM |
| 26 | Straight from the horse’s mouth: men who ask you to hook up with them literally only want you for sex. These comments were in response to a woman who was complaining about the audacity men on Tinder have in asking her if she “wants to fuck”" Don't like her, don't give a shit about her, not attracted to her, I don't even care that she exists in this world BUT I'll stick my dick in 'it' the saddest thing is THIS is what guys like when it's been a while and they really need to get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 09:42 PM |
| 34 | Straight from the horse’s mouth: men who ask you to hook up with them literally only want you for sex. These comments were in response to a woman who was complaining about the audacity men on Tinder have in asking her if she “wants to fuck”When I was in that situation I was gaslit that "guys are simple creatures, they don't turn down young p*ssy so you should CommUnicaTe that you're looking for something serious". Only I was very clear about looking for a serious connection from the get-go and he still pursued me and told me what I wanted to hear, then got too busy to text back after we had sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 101 | Straight from the horse’s mouth: men who ask you to hook up with them literally only want you for sex. These comments were in response to a woman who was complaining about the audacity men on Tinder have in asking her if she “wants to fuck”She has "power" to waste her energy and discern if he is or not interested. Pick up signs, compare facts. Guys who say this are good at hiding said signs until they get laid, then after the fact say it was obvious that he wasn't interested and she still went for it. Liars. Let's be honest, young women believe what they see and go and sleep with shitty guys thinking the relationship is moving forward since he didn't say otherwise. Then everyone blames her for not knowing better when that guy boun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Dating experiences of intelligent/highly educated/successful women: Tell me your stories and give me some advice!ohhh gocha! Either way, immaturity is a huge factor in mid-twenties when guys barely start having their first flings, they're selfish to the core and lack empathy, they tend to think they need to sow their oats and run through women till his buddies settle down (and so should he), so I hope you'll get good filtering skills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:45 AM |
| 141 | Car mechanics need to respect professional boundariesthey will talk about it behind closed doors where manager will ask him to go cheat somewhere else or keep it on DL so it wont harm his rep men have each others back and don't police each other (even if women are harmed): that's patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.I honestly think they're trying to get us to chase them and also they're lazy. yes and also they do it so they can focus on chasing other girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:18 AM |
| 36 | Dating experiences of intelligent/highly educated/successful women: Tell me your stories and give me some advice!I'm about to turn 24. My PhD will be wrapped up in a year. I'm ready to take dating more seriously and establish a life with someone. That's a tough call. Most dudes are immature and don't want to establish life with someone at 24, unless it's for religious/traditional reasons. Good luck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 01:33 AM |
| 11 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Ohhh I'd like to bet money on 2 things: he's immature and his primary reason for dating is to collect notches and "sow oats", he's not taking these women seriously even though he likes them. Thus, he's "not ready for a relationship", but will take attention and affection from them he went out with some other girl that night cause she's open to have sex I've been there soooo many times, I'm willing to bet this guy is young or in UNi. Its sucks cause they lead women on when doing this BECAUSE THEY… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:32 PM |
| 25 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.WHY SHE THINKS ITS HER "ROUTINE"?? why an adult male cant clean up after himself...daily? That's the bare minimum for an adult. I get sick and I clean up later , if I have roommates. He's entitled to have a mommy that he can bang , while she realised that marriage to him is a scam contract. WHats her benefit? GIRL YOU DONT HAVE TO STAY, YOU WERE SOLD A LIE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:13 PM |
| 67 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?Answer: no, she would be made fun of like Lizzo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:47 AM |
| 5 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?she has cover images (with tentacles) like this:https://img.redbull.com/images/c\_limit,w\_1500,h\_1000,f\_auto,q\_auto/redbullcom/2021/5/5/xbzsihfonpve2xrrqid5/ashnikko-tentacle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:57 AM |
| 29 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?Slumber party is about threesome I think? Also, Ashnikko came out as bisexual in 2019 she not lesbian | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.he owns his own startup company, that's all I know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:40 PM |
| 6 | How should we act around guys we are attracted to?None of this will work unless you genuinely carry an air of confidence like you have options even if you don't you have to act like it! if you overextend and make yourself easy with no consequences he will use you (passive reciprocation). All men want free sex. | /r/askFDS | 09/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | "Good friend" sent me a dick pic "accidentally". He has a great partner too. Let this be a lesson to me for trying to play it cOoL instead of going nuclear at the first message.THIS!! OP PLEASE! One guy did this to me AND I DIDNT EVEN RESPOND next week his gf got my number and started calling me names because he told her I am drunk dialing and texting him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:21 PM |
| 17 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.They want these things to gaslight, use, and abuse women without them asking questions or fighting back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 73 | Please don’t try to pick up people at their jobsTHIS! I worked as cashier at a gas station in my teens and creepy men always tried to talk to me, ask me out and leave their number (I was underage). That’s men in their 40es and 50es. Married. One dude legit said just because we talked about sports we have “a connection”. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 10:26 AM |
| 8 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...My list of different men from OLD: -porn addict, bdsm -unemployed, living with parents -Handsome but not looking for anything serious handsome but only wants ego boost -handsome but has serious issues (no thanks) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 105 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.i know tech guys that live downtown, make eight figures, buy 20k gaming rigs, buy takeout but go 50/50 or go on walk dates cause women are expensive :) then bitch about women not dating him for being a great guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:31 PM |
| 68 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.if you say no sex they will neg you or act terribly and gaslight you that its your fault :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:28 PM |
| 53 | I left a perfectly good man because FDS made me believe I could do better. And you were rightI always dump guys that don't plan anything thoughtful after 1-2 dates because they're a dime in a dozen. They're charming, handsome, successful, but I m not interested in 50/50 relationship. Pre-FDS i'd try hard and end up in one-sided situationships when guys gave up and did 10/90 barely(especially in the city when there's so many choices an average guy can string along 5+ women with little effort) There's always more guys wanting a shot with me, all I have to do is filter out. Thanks FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 07:00 PM |
| 28 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexI was somewhat of a model in high school and college and there a incredible amount of older rich men luring these girls in , abuse them then spit them out and say she came onto him and drag her through mud. I’ve had receipts from many of these men preying on me and hoping I will be naive and bite. Many guys in college worshipped Portnoy for being an alpha males, and raping young women that “will do anything for fame”. Lots of women buy into in thinking these men will love them and give them a fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:28 AM |
| 48 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sex“Forced” or “painal” , “teen” is a highly watched porn category | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:54 AM |
| 9 | The Icki legit almost threw up on nose part... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 12:33 AM |
| 29 | The Ickomg did we date the same person? I dated an engineer too for like 2 months, nothing serious, just homework and sex. He was moving back to his state after school. Same profile - white, tall, rich family, smart, really good time together. But total coward in social situations.He couldn't stand up for me. Also, he was cheap. I stood up for this girl while this dude was hugging a wall with his back while I was dragged by my hair by a guy twice my size. He told me I shoul've been smarter later. I got… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most Psychopathshe was very unclear about what he wanted from me and gave mixed messages he wanted sex... They know acting like bf has consequences so they act like friends then occasionally treat you like a "woman" to see if you bite. It's a test for casual sex, if you let him in, he will use you then bounce because (insert an excuse here), he never promised anything blah-blah. They never focus on one woman, its ALWAYS a bunch until it works on one, then he moves to another one and strings others along. They w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 29 | Men will date/marry women they aren’t even attracted to/like, if their appearance brings them status.My ex was like this but with money and education, totally social climbing scrote. His family legib believed they’re royalty, and need to have an Ivy League educated rich girl that’s “domesticated “ and a housewife as a great fit for their son, and he should not accept anything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 04:23 AM |
| 21 | 🤮I think it’s a bare minimum requirement, not something you should be “impressed” by | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I hate how "similar" men on OLD platforms areI wish all of them had abs lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlI’ve noticed that lots of young-er women I spoke to said they don’t use condoms at all and she just gets on the pill. It “feels better for bf and less messy”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Are these red flags, or am I reading too much into things?The way I read it seems like he’s not really interested in this relationship anymore and is checked out but too polite to break up maybe due to not having other options. I can’t give you more info but I see where you feel confused because he’s still technically didn’t say anything yet he already acts like it: - two weeks no dates - cancels last minute - no apologies or understanding -cracking jokes about your age -not empathetic because he don’t care about your well-being -too busy with other pr… | /r/askFDS | 27/10/21 01:42 PM |
| 36 | Women need better standards!It’s easier to just blame it on the woman. Participation =consent for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:30 PM |
| 22 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."I always said men fuck around due to male socialization and then pick the youngest, most desperate for kids Pickme available and marry her. They don’t love her, it’s just for someone to take care of his kids and make him look good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:26 PM |
| 42 | I’m always the rebound or placeholder, what am I doing wrong?I had the same issue, and people around me said I was fishing in the wrong pond. I let that sink in. It wasn’t about me; just the guys I’ve picked. So I think your situation is close to mine. It’s them being sleazy, not you being bad. | /r/askFDS | 25/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 3 | A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call itAfter being on Tinder I realized most men on there are LMV that prey in young, vulnerable, or traumatized women in order to extract free sex and attention from them. More than 10 guys had legit approached me with this whole “you probably haven’t been loved, got used before, let me show you I’m what you’re looking for “ vibe from average guys , and “come over and suck my dick cause I have a lot of money and career, I’m GOD “ from good looking LVM men…. Yet they’re still the ones that go after you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 03:23 PM |
| 25 | read those micro-expressions, they tell everythingOne of the guys I’ve seen in my pickme days had always said “tsk” to every opinion I made and raised an eyebrow questioning is most of my statements are valid. It made me feel anxious. I would avoid making myself seen of heard because of that just to avoid his judgmental stare and that “tsk” he made feel like I’m dumb. His statements were unquestionably true while mine had to be triple-checked and "tsked". Glad I ghosted him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 05:12 AM |
| 5 | What was your last straw?We dated for a few weeks in college and he was hot and cold, he disappeared a lot saying he's been hanging with family of spring break, then came back when he wanted to have sex. He didn't want to be a good bf and wasn't ready for a relationship, but verbally always told me he did want a gf (not to be with me, just to have a gf).He had zero communication skills and preferred to ghost or throw tantrums when something went wrong. My sophomore year he attempted to hit me up for sex repeatedly until… | /r/askFDS | 24/10/21 08:10 PM |
| 4 | I went to a party and was never more relieved to go home alone. 🤣yes! parties are great for outing LVMs because they never failed to go with the easiest lay available that night, even if they were talking to other women that has more to offer than just desperation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 01:41 AM |
| 119 | Men don’t always marry the woman they love the most: a n insight from an OLD convoThis!! But these men always turn out to be trash. They treat the girl that got away like trash, get the new girl, use her for free therapy then treat her like trash, then the next one, and next one. I truly believe it's a maturity thing, they don't reflect, learn or feel empathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 03:51 AM |
| 12 | How to deal with hostility from other women without becoming depressed about itIt disheartens me hot many straight Picmes out there prefer not only to be ambivalent towards women, but sometimes openly hostile if they feel threatened. They mostly stay close to men and do anything for crumbs of their approval. When something terrible happens, Pickes grind other women down and its so, so sad. | /r/askFDS | 08/10/21 02:09 AM |
| 15 | They always come back for a temp checkThe guy I have blocked for being a "fake friend" decided to Venmo me 1$ with a message "miss you, wish we can meet up to have fun" I never liked him besides the basic decency and considering him a male "friend" that worked on the same projects as me. I reported him and wired that dollar to my bank account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:02 PM |
| 33 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningpreach, there are some handsome guys in big cities, but after talking to a few of them one way of another I found most being LVM don't mean we can't look | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 08:24 PM |
| 22 | If someone tells you that men are picky show them this!I used to work part time in a night club and this is what I got from it as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:30 PM |
| 179 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.If you want to be jackhammered with lights off, not kissed, no oral, and half-ass cuddled after when the guy is texting someone else with one hand while you're laying on his chest and asking you to go in 30 mins...go ahead. Oh, and don't expect a text the next day. At least that was my experience. 0/100 would not recommend. edit: thanks all lurkers telling me I might be fat or socially offputting, therefore unworthy of any effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI would looove to find those young men, but as a recent college grad I can say all (somewhat attractive) young men hookup,all watch porn, all want to fuck older lady , but if your area is different I'm happy for you sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:15 AM |
| 41 | Men flirting with other women in front of you…Honestly, I would have excused myself during the waitress incident, send him last message about hoping he could get her number, and block him. The disrespect is extreme and he seems to be too much. He's supposed to court you while you were there not act like a clown. | /r/askFDS | 03/10/21 01:50 AM |
| 20 | Weekly Reminder: OLD is trashMen seek validation and sex online, not a relationship. They know all women online potentially open for one. They don’t value them because they know it’s a meat market and they don’t have to pick someone specific. They don’t want to settle for one woman (even if they think they do) , they want ALL women. But they will never tell you their real intentions and you waste time figuring it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:58 AM |
| 7 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI agree! Guys in their 20es are fuckboys, especially in college, dating them would be a headache and a waste of time. I’m not sure what older ladies are raving about here because young guys LOVE to brag about bedding a "MILF" and rarely want anything but sex with older women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:43 AM |
| 22 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysMale Engineers are in the same bucket. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:32 AM |
| 79 | Sis needs help“All my exes were heartless bitches, I wish I found a desperate pickme to appreciate me…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 269 | Sis needs helpYeah we all came across the self-proclaimed “asshole” That wants women to chase him after initial stage where he showed interest then pulls away. They count on women doing the 50-50 bs and running after him while he’s into another one, they create a rotation that way , never committing to one woman. You can find a lot of these on OLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:51 PM |
| 127 | Sis needs helpAnother Redditor has messaged me asking to submit this because she wasn’t approved to post. I would message the woman as well if I could | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 8 | The most painful part of heartbreak is realizing that he’s never truly loved you. He might’ve even hated you. How to cope with it?Working on boundaries by yourself or in therapy is a big one too, I forgot to mention it. Mine sucked, I was insecure and they took advantage of me. I acknowledge and don't allow that anymore (because those guys that did it once WILL circle back and try again at some point so you can practice what you've learned). There will be also more of them coming, so as long as you see the signs you should have boundaries strong enough to cut them off early, at least that's what I do now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:33 PM |
| 272 | The most painful part of heartbreak is realizing that he’s never truly loved you. He might’ve even hated you. How to cope with it?The guys I hooked up with never cared about me and probably even hated me. They took advantage of my crushes and strung me along. I remember how they treated me and shudder: ghosting, lies, hot and cold, pump and dump. Assholes. There’s absolutely no way they treat one woman like shit and magically change for the next one. They will mistreat their girlfriends and wives. They might marry or fuck them, have kids with them but I doubt they will give them respect those women deserve until they grow … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:27 AM |
| 23 | The most requested item at the Afghan refugee camps are condoms! As an Afghan American this disgusts me. So these men that already have 4+ kids while their wives are probably exhausted with no real home of their own and he’s just thinking about his penis. Not surprised.Wait what’s is this about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 04:32 AM |
| 12 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.I think he’s porn sick and into depraved stuff that Marcia refuses to do or he knows won’t do (Madonna/whore) lol that’s why they have dead bedroom. Of course he’s keeping her around, he can’t do better that her!! she’s young , beautiful, naive and hardworking. I think he’s also her first so she’s in love with him on a whole another level. She looks like those girls who believe in eternal love, soulmates, Cinderella dreams, fairly innocent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:26 PM |
| 15 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Julian is a perpetual man child, his vlog videos show that he leaves shit laying around . Jenna’s ex bf Maxnosleeves cheated on her multiple times and broke up with her. So makes sense she chose a “safe” option. Julian was working at the same bar nearby and was her “friend” before that. IMHO, she could’ve done sooo much better but he was close and familiar. They both act like friends in a relationship, she even talks to down to him but Julian takes it well cause he’s truly in love with her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:23 PM |
| 68 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.Rollback facts: She wrote him first back when he started making videos and he came to visit her in Italy from Sweden. She’s been forever gf for 8 years before they got married. He invested in her clothing brand and bought her a house in Japan. He talks over her in his videos and she has this weird child high pitched voice and dresses up like a shy teenagers which makes me think he has a fetish for young “cute innocent” girls. He’s insensitive and disrespectful and she laughs it off like it’s jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 17 | Needing advice and support🚩 3 years too long 🚩21 and 24 too young, focus on school and your own life, don’t marry young 🚩told you he’ll never marry you 🚩sucks as boyfriend 🚩broken up gotten back (why? Not other men around? Get therapy) 🚩24 yo boy with a lot of guns 🚩mental issues 🚩jealous and aggressive (he will murder you when he gets angry!) This man will ruin your life and murder you, you should file a police report for stalking, start screaming “help” the moment he approaches you, get a restraining order and therapy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | British/ European woman in their twenties, how do you navigate dating while sticking to FDS principles?I live in college town. Lots of men on OLD in my area specifically look for naive young women to take on walk date, use for sex then bounce under a guise of “not feeling the spark” and onto another one. Especially, if a guy is attractive or plays sports it’s a running joke because it works so well. Guys never date any women from OLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 07:02 PM |
| 18 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Oh my god I had the same situation happen to me in my prime freshman days. I kept trying to make myself seen to him, went to same parties, initiated the kiss, we had sex. I texted him, he took days to respond, too busy, traveling, exams, etc. So I just asked him out and he said sure then ignored me all day and when I texted him an hour before meetup to confirm he told me he “just don’t wanna”.I got the message and moved on. But this 🤡 still came back begging for sex during his dry spell months l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:21 AM |
| 140 | I told her she sounds like a forever girlfriend and asked how after 7 years, they've discussed what he will end their relationship over but not what their future and commitment will look like. Other scrotes trashing her for "making him" give up his dream school.Even if they give up on their dreams to be together they will break up later, seen it happen too many times. Their goals are incompatible at this point but they think the sunk cost fallacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:46 PM |
| 15 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.It was clear he won’t marry Grimes!!! Hes a sleaze bag that gets bored with women like men get bored with toys….probably after finding out that they have personality. i feel Grimes was trying to baby trap him tho for his money. I think he had a fling with Amber Heard before too but that girl would 100% ask him for ring before he would hit it and he politely got “too busy” for her 🤡 he just gets them pregnant to spread his seed and dumps, and LVMs worship him for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 06:08 AM |
| 145 | Most men are NOT capable of genuine love. In order to love a woman, they have to see her as human. That’s why most of them would rather keep the privilege of seeing you as an object — to feel less bad about the mistreatment they put you through.It's weird because most men NEED women more than women need men :D They want to get picked and "get" a woman cause patriarchy told them they should get it for free and women are just annoying and difficult creatures so men have no other choice but to bully them into submission. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, In Desperate Need of Advice…Meeting Up with A Former Coworker who I have a crush on…Its not pathetic! We all been there... Even the sex pozzy Shallon Lester has a video about this. Its ALL in your head, might be anxious attachment, but if you don't address it you'll get used a lot by guys that only want sex... You need to find something to shift your focus. I don't know the full situation with your coworkers but if you talk to them ONLY for networking purposes, don't talk personal and keep your life private you should be fine. Also, DON"T DRINK ALCOHOL if you go. Order a fake c… | /r/askFDS | 23/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, In Desperate Need of Advice…Meeting Up with A Former Coworker who I have a crush on…So do you plan running from him all the time now? You have to go. I feel like you can control yourself better than you think, your have to stop saying these things like you’re a child who can’t stop eating forbidden cookies. Self -restraint. Don’t engage with him outside of small talk, don’t even look at him. Talk to other people, be respectful but distant, leave your feelings out of the door, network, you’ll need this skill as a working professional. You have better things to do other than droo… | /r/askFDS | 23/09/21 04:18 PM |
| 22 | Feeling humiliated and objectified *trigger warning*Please please get therapy and learn to say no. No is a great word, you deserve your needs to be catered to abs your words valued! It’s a great boundary setter, you have to learn to actually say it out loud when you don’t want something! Meanwhile, report this rapist, word it EXACTLY that’s he RAPED, FORCED you against your will, don’t use ambiguous language like “ugh I guess he kinda moved me and I went down on him” this is rape. It’s not the time to mince words please report!!! | /r/askFDS | 23/09/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn’t go back to OLD.There’s always the same guys on it. My friend has been trying to battle her post-covid breakup loneliness by getting on and off these apps every few months hoping to find someone to date, she said she went out or otherwise talked with every guy she saw there at some point and next time she’s on it they’re still there 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:13 AM |
| 14 | How common it is for men to lose interest mid-way?Thank you for this I appreciate your analysis. I find it hard to disconnect from liking them, I think that's why it was hard for me to drop them early and not give them a chance. Is there anything I can do about that? | /r/askFDS | 21/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 9 | How common it is for men to lose interest mid-way?Yes thank you!! The thing that confused me is that I liked most of them and tried to see where things go so I left room for them to act, but I see now it's a boundary thing. Thank you for your comment | /r/askFDS | 21/09/21 06:46 PM |
| 11 | How common it is for men to lose interest mid-way?Ok will do! Do you think any of them were LVM or it was mostly my fault? | /r/askFDS | 21/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, In Desperate Need of Advice…Meeting Up with A Former Coworker who I have a crush on…this guy will happily have sex with OP. He will not date her since shes not his type, depending on his moral compass he will either string her along afterwards or rudely cut her off cause he dont want her lingering in his life. I’ve experienced both. Source: me, fresh college grad having crushes in corporate environment | /r/askFDS | 20/09/21 08:31 PM |
| 9 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.Growing up conventionally attractive taught me I can have sex with any man regardless of his age or marital status(as sad as it is to admit it). But it doesn’t mean they will care if I’m dead or alive next day. I’m just fun experience they want to brag about. I always have all the men in the room interested in bedding me, with less than 3% of them actually wanting a relationship or getting to know me. Gross attention and sleazy compliments wherever I go. They all say the same things as if they w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 08:19 PM |
| 11 | "Men protecting other men" and why you should keep you standards sky high cause of it.“How can you be pressured into sex? She consented then and now she’s screaming rape? Poor brotha stuck his dick in crazy. Life is so unfair to men 🤡 “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:31 AM |
| 27 | Avoid using OLD to meet menWhen I was on OLD I just got all the guys looking for ONS and FWB. A few ones I actually like and tried to talk to eventually turned out to be emotionally unavailable and wanted only casual. Waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 17 | Not even 3 weeks post break up, and he's already back on TinderCan confirm that most men use it to get laid, single or taken! When I used tinder I got swarmed with dudes texting me for ONS and FWB like I was a fresh meat on the market that they didn’t want to buy, just taste. 99% literally stopped responding after I made it clear I’m not into that which at first was a major shocker to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:29 AM |
| 41 | What are some of the reddest red flags you’ve ever seen on a date or during a relationship?Omg this is my last date! Great looking, great career, making 3x what I make, has his own condo downtown big city… said he can do coffee date 🤡 paid for his own coffee and then we went for walk 🤡🤡 was only talking about himself. When I said that I’m struggling with grad school tests he also took (we majored in same field) he laughed and said I must be dumb cause those tests were easy 🤡🤡 I’ve noticed a lot of his habits are annoying to me, and he comes off arrogant an complains about everything. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 05:58 AM |
| 13 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.I've engaged in cs before and it left me nothing but feeling empty. I regret every single moment I shared sleeping with those men because I could really go without. I wasn't that into them and they were not that into me which is actually pretty frustrating and should've been left as it was. But every time I saw those guys with new women it gutted me and I don't know why, just seeing them holding and loving their actual girlfriends made me feel less than. The sex was just to fulfill needs and sub… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 06:34 PM |
| 12 | "All ages considered!"Keeeping herself happy (with her own money cause she’s no golddigger)🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit bigI'm new to the sub but I am ANGRY for her. My friend went through this and the amount of gaslighting that women go through is insane. He doesn't care about her, she needs to leave ASAP but I don't think she will... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 02:12 AM |
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