Scrote is mad that his date has standards

AnniaT · 2022-01-23T13:53:42+00:00

Why is he wasting time getting angry at some woman's standards? If he's not up to her standards then just date someone else and stop complaining.

ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-01-23T09:05:20+00:00

“Get with a girl 5 years younger” = get with a naive woman who doesn’t know what she wants so you can manipulate her.

Determinedblonde · 2022-01-23T10:08:49+00:00

If she’s not happy with his finances, that means he’s telling us only half of the story. It means she comes from money or has more than him.

Bad men and their bad advice. A 24/25 year old could still want the same things. Dating younger isn’t the answer, growing up is!

capresesalad1985 · 2022-01-23T19:22:08+00:00

Ok so something super weird about this post is the timeline. I went to his post history and he has been posting about this girl for atleast 6 months and each time her says “I’ve been seeing this girl for about 2 months, a little over 2 months” it’s just a bit weird. Also if you have to post about a new relationship like 7 times…something ain’t right on one of the sides (I think we know which one!)

Junior-Lion7893 · 2022-01-23T16:29:29+00:00

I’m in my mid 20’s. Trust me, girls in their early 20’s don’t date guys in late 20-30’s. They won’t date younger or older, since they’re so picky at that age. Often they won’t date younger guys and men three years older than them. The idea/ trope that girls like to date older men (e.g high school girl dating a college student) is dying out. I work with female adolescent youth and young adults, and most of them express that they want to be with someone their age. Dating any younger would be dating a baby and older would be dating a grandpa. In fact, I’m seeing a trend where most of them think that it’s cool to have kids later in life. If anything I think that girls in their early 20’s have the highest standards due to their ambition.

callmebubbles92 · 2022-01-23T14:34:24+00:00

This post screams fake troll to me. It's either an excuse to brag about how much his condo cost (the "aren't I good in terms of finance?") is some annoying bit of self-deprecation and/or it's a way to shit on women in general.

Or maybe he's trying to get a woman who's able to land a man who can afford multi-million dollar properties, and is annoyed he isn't good enough despite doing better than 95% of his peers?

East-Willingness513 · 2022-01-24T00:52:07+00:00

I dated a 30 year old when I was 24 and we ended up breaking up because we had NOTHING in common. I then started dating a 26 year old and it was so nice to date someone around my age who had the same experiences growing up. To a 24 year old- 30 is OLD.

FI-REfox · 2022-01-23T16:22:26+00:00

He "owns" a 700K condo does he? It sounds more like he owns a 650K mortgage on a concrete box in the sky and his gf actually understands land appreciation.

It also sounds like he's pretending his new-car-fund could also be for a wedding in order to appear more serious about the relationship, when all he really wants to do is brag about his pennies to the internet.

cutiebranch · 2022-01-23T14:22:26+00:00

He has 30k saved for a wedding AND a car.

Um. What. How much would go to the car and how much to the wedding?

ultblue7 · 2022-01-23T16:35:25+00:00

Is anyone else wondering if by “own a condo” he actually has a mortgage? He didnt specify whether it was paid off

bleda_princezna · 2022-01-23T10:14:50+00:00

So what? She can want whatever she wants. 🤷🏻‍♀️ If he doesn't like that, then why not just stop seeing her. Clearly they're incompatible.

Why does he have to get mad over it? Men always say how they value honesty and want a woman that know what she wants and is able to be direct about it. Then when they find her, the just get angry with her...

foxorhedgehog · 2022-01-23T21:41:44+00:00

Years (decades actually) ago a friend of mine was dating a guy who owed a ton of money to the IRS. She sat him down and said “I won’t even think of marrying you or starting a family till you get your finances in order”. So what did he do? He consulted a tax attorney and got his tax debt squared away. Then he got a better job with a higher salary to make sure she’d never have to worry about $$ again. That’s how a man HVs. They’ve been together almost 30 years.

alpinepunch2021 · 2022-01-23T20:37:18+00:00

If men in their late 20s and 30s aren't financially ready to get married then women shouldn't be dating them, because if they want kids they can't just conform to some forever-manchild's timeline.

daisy_0720 · 2022-01-23T12:20:06+00:00

Watch as he cheats on her to 'settle the score'.

myheartisfulloflove · 2022-01-23T22:04:33+00:00

That stupid quip from the other butthurt scrote about how acksually you can date a 24-25 year old as a 29 year old man got me rolling because I dated an older man and every year when I asked him about marriage he would drag his feet and got mad at me for asking. These men really gonna be surprised that younger women can also be marriage minded too? I thought they wanted a pure traditional woman who wants a serious commitment and wipe his ass…. Until they meet her. 🤡

lansburysoda · 2022-01-23T16:01:03+00:00

There’s nothing more triggering to a scrote than a woman with standards

BiscuitWoof · 2022-01-24T01:13:01+00:00

Men who have the same or less education/assets as most women act like it’s SOOO hard and soo impressive to be where they’re at. Women in the same or better situation are never egotistical about it.

I’m younger than him by a few years, I own my own home (not condo), and have 3x what he’s saved up. I guarantee the women he is dating has a better job than him and more assets than him.

No gold digger would go for what he has - it’s honestly lacklustre and not impressive. He has big ‘I think I’m a millionaire’ energy lol.

queenofswordsxxx · 2022-01-23T19:43:06+00:00

It's disgusting how men always use the 'just date younger' cop-out as a solution to every incompatibility and their own incompetence

xfelugirlx · 2022-01-23T20:12:41+00:00

Diuhh the last comment. Like take someone younger that would keep up with your bs

Salt_Satisfaction · 2022-01-24T12:42:06+00:00

Yikes at the advice of dating women 4-6 years younger. For me there is a big difference between someone being 24 and their partner 30 compared to 34 and 40. I'm in my mid-twenties and men above 26 seem too old for me. Not because of their appearance necessarily, but I feel like we're in different stages in life.

lolmemberberries · 2022-01-23T19:32:12+00:00

It sounds like she knows what he wants and he isn't it. Of course he's going to make it out to be a personal failing on her part when he whines to his internet sycophants.

xScarWintersx · 2022-01-24T07:34:14+00:00

This guy is delusion. If you're 29-30, you should be financially stable. Simple as. You're a whole ass adult and you have no money. The story is also fishy and lacks details so he clearly is leaving bits out from her side to make himself out to be the poor abused man who gets financially used and abused by W0mEn

Maingurl · 2022-01-24T02:12:46+00:00

Someone added this comment underneath his post as a gotcha

Looking at his previous posts, seems like she does a lot suspicious things. Apparently she didn't even tell OP her name until a month into dating.

Lmao, they're re trying to find any reason to hate this woman. I'm kinda glad she didn't tell him her real name from the get-go.

quirkypinkllama · 2022-01-25T17:38:50+00:00

I think that it is important to have standards but to not go overboard with them. Sounds like he's financially in a good place. I don't see the issue?

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