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DISCUSSIONDavina33/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:15 AM
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Not according to the incels it isn't. Already had one say I've hit the wall. I know women past menopause age who are still fighting men off. Every woman is different. We will always be the more desirable sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/22 07:12 PM
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What a horrible, selfish so called friend she sounds like. I do not blame you for blocking her. People like her don't ever stop to think whether their friends have the spoons to cope with their never ending dramas at times. Covid is serious and to be in a foreign country as well? And she couldn't support you? Sometimes it takes a while to wake up to how selfish some people are. When you're ill, you don't need to hear how someone is more ill. A little empathy wouldn't go amiss. This ex friend cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 05:41 PM
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That's the main thing, you can spot them now. I was exactly the same. My narcissistic mother primed me to attract those sort of people and they react badly to boundaries. Glad you are now free of them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 11:58 AM
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It's scary. One of my brothers in one of these paedophile hunter groups. Someone he targeted got my info and other family member's info from the electoral roll (from England), this was years ago and I didn't even realise the information was available. Now I'm not on the open register and I've had to go through hoops as I escaped a violent ex at the end of 2020. It's just too easy to be found online and I definitely recommend periodically Googling ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 08:23 AM
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I'm sorry. This kind of behaviour is very common with narcissistic people. They want something to beat you over the head with, even if you always offer to pay your own way or try to reject their gifts. It's so manipulative and untrue. It's their loss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 08:02 AM
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I recently ended a friendship with a woman I had known for 13 years and it hurts. She was mean and selfish. We would meet up for coffee, she would just talk about herself and I never got a word in edgeways. We both have chronic illnesses and she was always suffering more than me, even when I had just had major surgery. She always had some crisis going on which I would do my best to support her through but she was silent/absent if I had the same. Recently she snapped at me twice within a 6 week p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 07:59 AM
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Wish I had an award for this comment. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 07:53 AM
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Did you ever find certain friends distanced themselves from you and refused to visit your new place? I have two friends who live at home and they're acting very funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 08:00 AM
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My ex wouldn't let me decorate when I lived with him. He had this ugly old coffee table which was 30 years old and had kitchen tiles as a surface. I bought a nice new modern one. He threw such a hissy fit and threw my large vase with flowers out into the garden. He got violent not long after that and I left him. Feels so good to just decorate as I please and answer to no one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 07:52 AM
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Definitely, it's amazing what you can learn when you have to. I knew how to paint/wallpaper already but using a drill was not something I had done until I lived alone. Things like new carpets and kitchen/bathroom flooring I didn't want to attempt, so I hired professionals. The fewer times I have to have workmen in my house, the better. I have a Dewalt drill and they are pretty good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 07:41 AM
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Couldn't agree more, plus Bosch is definitely one of the best makes. It should last you a long time. I hated washing dishes by hand long before I had arthritis and never used a dishwasher before I moved in with my ex. I could never go back now. I don't think they are a luxury nowadays and being single doesn't mean we don't deserve one. It's mind boggling people have a problem with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 07:37 AM
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Another thing, half of these men don't even want children themselves. They know childcare falls all on us and it has the added bonus of trapping us as well, leaving us open to more of their abuse. I'm childfree. Every boyfriend I've had has pretended to be the same but ended up dropping hints about children years later. I'm thankful I've always been strong enough to never give in and eventually dumping them but not every woman is that strong. I know from experience there's nothing worse than a r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 08:45 AM
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Truly awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 08:36 AM
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My ex used to do that, why can't they clean as they go? It's so much easier and cleaning all that up is much more labour intensive than cooking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:44 AM
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Ugh having a dishwasher as a single woman is priceless. I used to live with a load of people in a women's refuge and no dishwasher. I had to wash up their dirty pots and pans before I could use them by hand, then wash them up again afterwards. I have arthritis in my hands and it can be a right pain. One of my neighbours couldn't understand why I bought a dishwasher and judged me for it but I can do what I like in my own home. I don't miss clearing up after other selfish people. I don't ever want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:42 AM
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This is true. As a sufferer of several chronic illnesses, I found this quite tough as I never got the rest I needed. My hyperthyroidism turned into hypothyroidism recently and I quickly learned the feeling of tired. My body ached from head to toe, I could not stay awake for long during the day and still had night time insomnia. My ex never understood and I was expected to do everything. Now I rest whenever I need to and don't get judged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:33 AM
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So I've been hypothyroid for a few months and being constantly cold is the pits! Heating on, dressing gowns and several layers but my feet feeling like ice blocks. I'm improving slowly but I really empathise. It's horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:24 AM
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Ah the sleeping in any room I feel like! I had that pleasure when having a bedroom carpet fitted and I ended up sleeping in the lounge. Gosh that was nice lol. My ex used to make me feel like shit if I ever fell asleep/slept in the lounge when I lived with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:22 AM
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Investing in a good drill/tool set and YouTube has been priceless. I've done everything in my home apart from the flooring, some plumbing and putting a tv bracket up. Sure, I've made mistakes but I'm pretty handy now, I don't know why I was afraid to learn before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:17 AM
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I absolutely love it. I have lived alone for a year now. My workload has halved since leaving my shitty ex. I can't believe how much time I spent cleaning up after him! My home is beautifully decorated, no one to answer to. I can watch what I want when I want one my televisions. No pissy toilets or sport on 24/7. The resentment I used to feel when living with messy ex boyfriends and flat mates was horrible. I wouldn't ever want to feel like that again. I have high standards and always felt ill a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:14 AM
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He definitely sounds like a rare breed. My ex boyfriend's father was the only HVM dad I knew. May he rest in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 07:59 PM
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Definitely, the shock on their faces when they realise how old I really am sometimes is amusing. The max I'll go is five years younger. Anymore just seems wrong to me and I would prefer not to go more than two years younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 01:34 PM
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37 and still waiting a ha! I get men young enough to be my sons chatting me up. Unlike predatory men, I don't find that appealing at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 09:54 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 08:00 AM
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They are definitely defective. It's not normal targeting women so much younger than yourself. Most people are in relationships with an age gap of a couple of years at most according to statistics. They know women their own age will know what's up immediately. One much older ex used to triangulate me with businesswomen his own age. I was only 20 and in no position to earn as much as him or them. Funnily enough he ended up alone, no businesswoman or any woman his own age wanted to know. Thank good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 05:58 PM
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Definitely not your bad lol, it's mine. I'm hypothyroid and nothing seems to wake me up today ha ha. He definitely gave himself away to you there. It's amazing how they trip themselves up. I'm still having that extra coffee though! Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 05:54 PM
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A lady on here the other day said she has one profile with a different mobile number where her age is 18, so she can avoid the creeps who hit on her on her real profile who go for 18 year olds. I think that's an excellent idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 05:15 PM
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Most of them don't look younger at all but even if they do, why do they think that makes it okay to lie? I know from experience unfortunately that the lies can get much worse than their age. It's a huge red flag. Now I genuinely do look younger but I'm proud to be 37, I would never lie about it. The knowledge and assertiveness I've gained in my 30s is valuable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 05:09 PM
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Their yeasty bald heads and beer bellies are a turn off for women of all age groups, thankfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 04:58 PM
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I must need another coffee because I read that as getting married to his seven year old girlfriend! Mind you, anything is possible with these scrotes. Seems most 35+ men try to target younger women. As we get older the much older scrotes who target us just get older too. Sick of men old enough to be my dad daring to think they have a chance with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 04:56 PM
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Really need to know the tenancy laws where she lives to help more. Does the boyfriend work? Is it possible to change the locks and throw his stuff out when he is out? I can't imagine staying somewhere I'm not wanted. He truly is a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:15 AM
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Can, can I have pussy 🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 08:10 AM
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Deepfakes are so scary, men are depraved enough without women joining in and behaving like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 08:44 AM
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I'm definitely with you on that. I love seeing men caring for animals, your bf sounds lovely. I can still remember the pain of losing my shaggy big black boy nearly four years ago. He was a tough looking cat but very soft and I used to love his fluffy black chest. Never once bit or scratched but would gently play fight with my ex. We were both devastated when he dies of a stroke. He was gone so quickly and I stopped eating and sleeping when he died. My ex definitely wasn't the most caring person…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 07:55 AM
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Oh yes. Being able to get sloppy, orgasm free sex whenever we want is so great! Running the risk of being raped, murdered and stalked is so much fun. Being a man's free mummy bang maid is all we aspire to. Us women really do have it so easy/s Men are pathetic. Just because getting their dicks wet is all that matters to them, we must be the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:54 AM
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Thank you! I'll look into a door jammer too. I've got a baseball bat in my hallway. So on my front door I have a lock, door chain, top bolt and a bottom bolt. I have CCTV as well. It's just keeping myself safe whilst I'm out and about. I have osteoporosis and inflammatory arthritis. So I must be careful. I've got nail varnish remover, I'll just have to put it in a spray bottle. I want that racist piece of druggy crap to be sorry if he attempts to assault me. If he got in my front door that day, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:19 PM
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Definitely agree with this. Don't use any photos on OLD that are on your social media either, they can find you that way apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 07:13 PM
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Great thinking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 07:09 PM
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I've got a few ideas but for the sake of anonymity, I won't say on here what they are. By lying about phoning me, which is very easy to prove, they've shot themselves in the foot. The more badly they behave, the more determined I get to take them to task. Lazy, good for nothing sods. They are misogynists as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 07:05 PM
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I was going to spray it in his eyes if he approaches me. I'm going away for the Easter weekend but I don't want to go away for too long otherwise they will think they can bully me out of my own home. I'm going to stay here and I'm going to get his shitty mother evicted. She's an alcoholic and he is a druggy. It's a nightmare dealing with people like that. I've heard nothing from the police for 9 days now and to make matters worse they are lying about it. They told my MP they tried to call me on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:43 PM
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You're so right. As a working class woman, I've had so many experiences in life that prove this all to be true. I can see the U.K. descending into riots in the not so distant future. The cost of living is untenable and only getting worse. Tempers are fraying, the Government do not care. Very big trouble is ahead this year. I've got 5 adult brothers. Not one has offered to protect me from the male racist who is harassing me at present. I'm on my own with a can of Deep Heat spray for protection. P…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 10:23 AM
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The police in the U.K. are a waste of space. I have been racially abused twice in 8 months by my neighbour and her son. Her son kicked my door in and threatened to beat me up. The police came out three days later, took a statement and I heard nothing afterwards. I got top Government officials involved, made a complaint directly to the force and nothing. I'll probably have to take it further. The current Government cut their numbers to the bone. No wonder people take the law into their own hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 10:09 AM
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Yep. I never hear of women stalking incels, trying to inbox them and so on. They are irrelevant and we do not care about them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:43 AM
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Yep. I had a scrote go on a post I made to a medical sub about my dead 33 year old cousin. He started making nasty comments about her. Other scrotes have gone to other posts/comments I've made elsewhere as they cannot contact me any other way. They are that desperate for my attention. Cannot imagine being so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 01:37 AM
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I've seen my comments shared in other subs. There are lots of scrotes obsessed with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 05:46 PM
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He sounds horrible tbh. I don't drink, smoke or do any sort of drugs, so I would disqualify him on that alone. You are not a priority, so blocking and deleting is the right way to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 08:56 AM
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This is so true. They overestimate themselves and underestimate us and their competition. I've never had to dip my hand into my purse once when on dates with men and I'm not about to start now. Then they wonder why they can't get a date lol. His comments show he knows he has messed up. Too bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:30 PM
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Good for her, I wouldn't want a drink or a picnic either with some cheap arse scrote. There's never any point in doing anything other than deleting/blocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:26 PM
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My late shaggy male cat never bit or scratched me even once. He would with my ex when play fighting but he was so gentle with me. Men know what they're doing and being 153cm and 43kg, I stay away from taller bigger guys as I have even less chance of defending myself than against the shorter ones. I'm screwed either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 08:21 PM
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Even vermin have a purpose lol. What's his? He is a leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:00 AM
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A good man? Yet his poor baby isn't even here yet and he already doesn't want to know. Of course fella...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 08:48 AM
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Absolutely crazy! So much for the rational sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:37 AM
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Congratulations sis ❤️💍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:12 AM
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Same yet there was this scrote yesterday on a dating sub who was leaving racist comments and commenting on naked women's bodies despite having a girlfriend, yet no one batted an eye. Men get away with everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:10 AM
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Exactly. I'm non-white and I hate it too, nothing to do with the colour of the men doing it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:45 PM
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Black people are never given the same level of benefit of the doubt that white people are. Especially black woman, anything that isn't appeasement is seen as aggression. It's a very big problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:53 AM
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The obsession black men have with black women's hair is downright creepy. Makes me think of that prick Tommy Sotomayor. It's weird and no one really respects men like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:19 AM
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I'm so sorry, is there anything I can do to help? You cannot lose your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:59 AM
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That's an interesting perspective that I appreciate hearing from you. Low value men definitely fetishise us, without a doubt. I actually have a racist alcoholic downstairs neighbour. She's 50 and looks about 70. I got called a P@ki Cunt by her son because I had the audacity to decorate during the early afternoon and his opinion that meant I was deliberately banging around. Scrotes and racists are everywhere. That isn't the first time a white woman has recruited a racist male family member/boyfri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:57 AM
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Yes my mother used to punish me with silence for weeks/months/ years at a time. Having a narcissist for a parent opens your eyes up to abuse at an early age. I dated one man who had a rough day at work, he drove like a mad man and snapped at me on the date. After that he didn't apologise but gave me the silent treatment. I can imagine his surprise when I blocked him. The mask can slip very quickly with some men. I won't put up with it, we have so many other options and can just be happy single. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 09:40 AM
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I think some women are just jealous and competitive. It could be racism with some of them but it's never my first assumption, unless they make a racist remark and that has happened before. I like to look good but I keep myself to myself in public. I'm used to it and I'm 37 now. Maybe in the next 10-20 years it will stop but who knows. There's another lady on here who has said a couple of times she gets pushed as well. Some women can't stand to see others happy and put together. To think it's all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:01 PM
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Yep and I also think it's a sort of high school mentality that most women don't have or they grow out of it by then. I have some close older white women friends, like mother figures. It's hard but I try not to take it personally, women like that are extremely insecure. I got bullied out of a job because the supervisor struggled with her weight and would make jibes about mine. Accusing me of being anorexic as I was drinking coffee on my breaks 🥴. It was so bizarre. I got so sick from the bullying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:18 AM
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Same. I'm mixed and living in a predominantly white city. I've been made to feel an outcast lots of times by groups of white women. I have white friends, Asian, black etc and just stick with my friends. I'm a friendly person but when you are a slim, attractive woman of colour, you're instantly disliked. I'm only 5ft tall and I've had white women push me in supermarkets, invade my space on pavements and so on. It adds a whole new layer to the competitiveness some women feel towards other. Older w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 08:56 AM
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Who does this old scrote think he is? The age gap is bad enough, without him thinking he can demand a super skinny sex doll as well. I don't think the problem is his wife at all but his erectile dysfunction has another cause. I hope his wife wises up to this. This makes me feel sick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:35 AM
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This is so sad man. He will never marry her and I would never propose to a man anyway. Four years, he is just using her. I hope this is her wake up call. No man is getting so much as a cooked meal out of me without a ring on my finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:50 AM
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Ugh I learned about Talcott Parsons and his 'warm bath theory' in A Level Sociology and it reminds me of this post so much, fuck that. Where is the woman's soft place to land? Just puts me off ever marrying/living with a man ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:38 PM
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My mother is the same. Only one of my three brothers is actually decent and she has criticised all their girlfriends. My mother is a misogynistic, narcissistic man's woman. I don't speak to her, she has two grandsons that she has nothing to do with. I cannot stand women like this and my last MIL was a very sweet woman. Nothing like that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:08 PM
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Never been on Tinder, I haven't done OLD in 12 years and I have no intention of ever going back on it ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:49 AM
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I'm 37 and 40 is the max I'll go. I prefer a man in his 30s, preferably 33-39. I've been there and done that with older men, no desire to go there again. They are worse than their more handsome, younger counterparts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:31 AM
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Don't do it. I've dated older men in good jobs and they are just as bad as the younger ones, with beer bellies and drooping dicks too. Age doesn't stop a scrote from being a scrote. It's better to be single than settle for a much older man in my opinion. Very few of them are interested in younger women for the right reasons. You'll find yourself being taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:17 AM
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Yes. One of my best friends is a nurse and she's on her third relationship with a different consultant. I keep telling her, work place romances are never a good idea. We all get crushes from time to time. Recognise it OP and let it pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:12 AM
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His x box or whatever would be taking an almighty, damaging tumble! I bet he did this and not the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:48 AM
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I was going to say, I used to do 12 hour days during the week and 6 hour days on weekends. My health put a stop to that. I never minded as I was earning well, he doesn't sound like father or husband material to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:23 AM
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These ladies must have a scarcity mindset or something. I don't get this behaviour at all. Men only want equality when it suits them. There's still an unequal pay gap yet they expect women to go 50/50 whilst still picking up all of the domestic labour and emotional labour. That's never going to be me and part of the reason I don't want children. There's are plenty of men around if a woman wants one, no need to settle for a tight fisted man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:09 AM
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What an embarrassment, yet he has already got two children out of her and other wife stuff. It's all too easy for these users. Most of us have been there, I hope she knows now that he will never marry her and is just waiting for something better to come along. He is a time waster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:59 PM
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Nothing makes my womb shrink more than that sub. It's bad enough putting up with NVM but when innocent children are subjected to him as well, it's even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:39 AM
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I'm English and in shock at this behaviour. The only woman I know like this is a close family member. None of my women friends would do this much work for a man. Men are so easy to get if you want one. Outside of birthdays, I've never paid for a man on any date and that isn't going to change. It's even worse when it's men with such large salaries as well. I remember the one time a man was chatting me up and he said if I accepted his offer then he would expect me to buy rum so we could sit on a f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:35 AM
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I'm so sorry. Men who go with prostitutes are the lowest of the low, taking advantage of vulnerable women like that. I had one boyfriend with a large group of friends. His best friend was a much a better man than he was and looked out for me. He basically told me not to waste my time with his best friend and berated his best friend for not helping me out more. He was also the only one to stand up for me when one of their friends made a racist joke when we were all out. That best friend is happil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:10 AM
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It's very scary and a reason I want to stay single. My stepfather almost done away with my mother one night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:42 PM
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Thank you. Unfortunately my mother wasn't any better, she was abusive too. She met my stepfather whilst she was still pregnant with me. She is mixed but white passing and my stepfather was white. I have a south Asian biological father. Not long after meeting my mother, my stepfather bottles her over the head. I'm sure you're far more astute than my mother but I totally understand why it would put you off. I don't know why people would become a stepparent if they cannot love their stepchildren bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 11:38 AM
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Definitely, we do not want to be guessing. If I was able to use lethal force against a rapist then I would. Going to jail is better than being dead. Living in shitty England means it's difficult to defend myself anyway. It's disgusting. If I could have a gun then I would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:48 PM
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Sickening!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:44 PM
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When I was in my early 20s, another teenager who was 16 and myself were stalked by a neighbour. This neighbour would post drawings through my door of knives and blood. He would write things on them such as "if you're depressed, I'll help end things for you". It scared the shit out of me and my older scrote boyfriend accused me of being hysterical and immature. He was also hassling the single woman living above him for sex. He would be creeping downstairs outside our flats. We all went to the pol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:32 PM
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That is so scary! I don't know why misogyny hasn't been made a hate crime in England after that incel shot people up last year. I would definitely advise a woman in danger to always run. You can always set up a new home, find another job but once you lose your life, that's it. It's even more important if you have children. The Government don't care about any terrorists unless they are looking to harm them specifically so as much as I hate to say it, incels targeting the Government too should wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:16 PM
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I wonder how many of these pro-sex work women were raised by an ex prostitute who was so fucked up by her experiences that she was inebriated all of the time? Very few prostitutes are privileged women who have a choice. Most are like my mother, homeless, ran away from care and have addiction issues. It is not glamorous. It is not empowering. Being pro-woman is being anti-john and sex work because it exploits women and girls. I don't care what they call me. I have had to live with the consequence…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:55 PM
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As a multiple childhood sexual abuse survivor, I'm not at all surprised. Men are deviant paedophiles. You only have to take a walk and observe them looking out their cars or on foot at girls. So many of them look at incest porn, I am glad my stepfather was a racist because that kept me safe from being sexually assaulted by him. I suffered every other type of abuse from him though. I'm glad I don't have children because I swear they would be going nowhere without me. Paedophiles will go to the en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:42 PM
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What a heartless bastard! Glad you're not with him anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:48 PM
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They say women and children are loved unconditionally when the only thing they love about us is our looks! Look how many disappear when a woman gains weight and/or becomes sick. The reverse is a lot less common. As a slim, good looking woman, I wouldn't give a chance to a man's whose love depends on my appearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:27 PM
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How many of them are understanding when we don't want sex? I don't remember a single one, I have an endocrine disorder that causes a low libido and all I would get is sulking and shitty treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 10:03 AM
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They still don't do half of childcare/housework either. They want a bang maid who pays half or all of the bills. There's a woman in my family and she's married. Her husband earns more than her and keeps all his money to himself apart from occasional food shopping/takeaways. She pays for everything and does everything. She came to me asking for £1,000 towards her council tax bill. Of course I said no and asked about her husband and that's how I found out about his tight ways. I would never, even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 05:50 PM
152

I have never been on a date with a man who refused to pay. When I didn't know better I would get my purse out and offer to pay but no man ever took me up on it. I definitely would not see a man again if he expected me to split the bill, us women have plenty of suitors. If he wants to impress me then the least he can do is pay for dinner. I saw some PickMes on another post about a man who went on a coffee date with a racist woman say "that's why coffee dates are better because it's easier to walk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 05:44 PM
9

Yep. We should never try to change them or ascribe to sink cost fallacy. Dick is abundant and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 05:39 PM
96

We're the ones in demand, we're the ones in control. OLD figures speak for themselves. I can only speak for myself but men want sex from me far more than I want anything from them, let alone a relationship. We can afford to be choosy, we are just conditioned otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:51 AM
14

Very true. This reminds of a programme I was watching yesterday. It was about psychics who work with police detectives. There were three women living together in a house. A man came to murder one of them because he felt she was taking his fiancée away from him. He murdered the other flatmate too and was going to murder the third one but luckily she escaped into the garden. It's a risk, us women are in danger but it seems to increase when we have women flat mates who are careless with the men the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:06 AM
4

This is true of my experience in a women's shelter as well. There were a lot of mothers with children, particularly babies/toddlers. Men absolutely do unleash their worst behaviour during and after pregnancy. My own stepfather bottled my mother over the head whilst she was still pregnant with me. She could have easily miscarried me, the way he behaved towards her. I do not want children and that's part of the reason why. How sad is it when we can't be vulnerable with most men? They need to be fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:46 AM
9

Yep. There's something so cruel about escaping childhood abuse just to end up in the arms of a man just as bad. I'm pretty sure my shitty childhood is the reason for my collection of autoimmune disorders that make my adult life difficult. You can never get those voices out of your head. In my case it was a drug addicted mother and alcoholic stepfather calling me all kinds of names. I feel for this woman, he is going to destroy her if she doesn't get out. I feel too vulnerable to ever get involve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:36 AM
29

You're best not reflecting at all but just cutting your losses and running. This man scares me after reading your letter. Your letter was very well written but we all know men don't care when they read them. He will still be thinking that you'll come back. He is a loser and a waste of space. No man worth his salt would feel comfortable having his partner pick up all of the financial side of things at the very least. All he is doing is creating a lot of work for you, your life will so much easier…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:03 AM
19

Yuck. He probably doesn't wash his nasty arse for days on end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 09:23 PM
21

Great comment. I wouldn't ever want to hurt another woman like that. I will put other women before men every time. I wouldn't want it done to me either and I believe what goes around, comes around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:59 PM
43

Had a man come round to fix my oven when I was living with my ex. He saw my pills on the table and struck up a conversation about them. He told me his wife just had a baby and proceeded to ask for my number! My jaw hit the floor and I told him no. For my own safety I didn't say anything else after that as I was alone with him. Such a creep and I felt sorry for his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:56 PM
31

Most married men are looking to cheat. I've lost count of the amount of low down dirty married men who have tried it on with me. Doesn't matter how successful they are either, they are on the hunt. It does put me off marriage a fair bit. I just have to trust that I would be able to vet men like these. I don't feel safe just because an acquaintance tells me a man is married. That means nothing to a lot of them. If they think they can cheat and get away with it then they will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:53 PM
110

What chance did this poor woman have? This is heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:39 AM
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I completely agree and I'm so sorry what happened to you and OP. I also have suffered sexual abuse abuse. Most of mine was in childhood. Men will blame you for it, whether you were a child or an adult. I saw a post late last year on a male oriented sub where someone asked the men if they would date a woman who had been raped. It was an eye opening post. A lot of men were very judgmental towards the women and I could tell they would treat her as a lesser person. I've also had my abuse used agains…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:30 AM
77

The poor wife, those doctors are pure trash and horrifying to learn the husband went on to work in a women's prison. Male doctors terrify me tbh. I've had some unpleasant experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:18 AM
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Most of them do, the only thing that changes when you get older is the 20+ year scrotes who target you get older too. I think it's disgusting, I would never target someone so much younger than me. Men are looking for someone who they think is naïve enough to manipulate. They have no problem wasting a young woman's life on their geriatric arses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 08:28 AM
70

Yes definitely don't give them a timeline. Some men will have infinite patience and use you just the same. We really cannot trust them and there is so much work we have to do to vet them. I'm happy being single for now. How dare that guy speak about her that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:37 PM
280

The way Kanye is treating her is atrocious. As a mentally ill black man, he enjoys privileges that a mentally ill black woman would not get. He is powerful and benefits from male privilege. I'm not Kim Kardashian's biggest fan but she does not deserve this. Most women will do what they can to protect their children and themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:28 AM
99

Once you stop holding the anger in, which in turn makes you ill, it feels so good! I had a very abusive childhood and was too timid to be assertive for a lot of my adult life. Something changed now I'm in my mid 30s. I don't tolerate any shit from anyone, no matter what their career. Being mixed race, I get a lot of shitty treatment and I'll pull it up every time. I don't always get it right but it's improved my health a lot. Us women are conditioned to internalise everything and it does no good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:17 AM
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This is the real face of men. They can absolutely detest you but still want to fuck you. Don't believe a word they say and I definitely wouldn't have sex with them whilst being kept their dirty secret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:09 AM
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Yes the double standard is unreal. They say a woman who has sex with five different men is loose but a woman who has sex with the same man five times isn't. What's that kind of logic? If a woman's vagina can snap back after childbirth then no man's penis is going to make it loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 03:11 PM
13

Arse to vagina, eeurgh! I can imagine that would cause great problems. I just don't get it personally, at least periods are natural.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 08:20 AM
45

Funnily enough, I've heard a lot of these men who aren't afraid to get shit on their dick are repulsed by period blood. I know which is worse in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 08:07 AM
118

Yep plus anal sex can damage a woman for life too. It was only the other day I read about a woman on this sub who at only aged 36, has incontinence and fistulas due to her ex basically anally raping her. We have to guard ourselves because no one else is going to do it. If they aren't happy with a perfectly functioning vagina then they can piss off in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 08:03 AM
18

This would be a no go for me. If this guy turns out to be abusive, he now has a weapon to use against you. I feel for you having Crohn's, a close family member of mine had it before she passed and she suffered a lot. I have IBS so that adds another layer to why I also would not do it. His comment about women's anatomy is not only wrong but a red flag about how he might try to persuade you at a later date. Two months in and he's probably still on his best behaviour. Feeling the same way about it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 07:59 AM
22

Sickening! 🤢🤢🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:01 PM
65

You're so right and I love how spot on this comment is. They really do rank us in certain ways. They expect all single mothers to be desperate, even the good looking ones as they put it. I'm just enjoying how mad they are that she wouldn't touch their dicks. Any woman is allowed any damn standard she likes. Most men aren't even mediocre, they are downright unworthy and it shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:03 PM
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I'm out of luck then because my surgeon is supposed to be one of the best. He's written something like over 30 peer reviewed studies and is highly qualified. I won't say anymore as I don't want to be doxxed but he won't leave me alone. I've already complained about him once last year. A bunch of matrons from the ward phoned me up and tried to take his side. So I've only recently put in another complaint. He walked in on me unchanging even though I told him not to come in yet. He makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:46 PM
19

That's disgusting! Knowing how egotistical male docs can be, I'm not surprised. I'm currently going through a complaint at my hospital against my arrogant bully of a surgeon. The medical profession like to stick together so I suppose nothing will come of it. Something needs to be done about their God complexes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:39 PM
65

That certainly makes sense. So many male doctors are attracted to the prestige and financial benefits of their careers. So certainly they will seek the same in their wife/girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:02 AM
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That explains it all if he thought she was a med student! It's a shame she can't see that he is just using her and he hates her. One of my close friends is a nurse, she has dated a few consultants, only to see them end up with other female consultants or similar income women. I know a male GP who married a school cleaner and he is in his 60s now. I don't know any other couples like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:49 AM
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Oh my goodness. That poor woman 😞 I swear men only want to do anal to see women in pain. They get off on it. I've heard stories that once a woman really enjoys anal that the man stops doing it. I can't imagine having incontinence, especially at such a young age. The ex should be in prison for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:45 AM
126

I've noticed a lot of male doctors and surgeons go for their female equivalent. There aren't that many that marry nurses. I think that's what this guy is going to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:21 AM
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I just couldn't imagine fawning over a man this much, surgeon or not! It truly is pathetic. The male surgeons I come across are arrogant arseholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:20 AM
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So glad to hear of more female surgeons. My surgeon is male and an absolute bullying pig. He has had me in tears a few times now and the hospital won't take me seriously. I so wish I had a female surgeon to choose. Too many male medical professionals lack empathy. It's something you either have or you don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 11:47 AM
45

This is horrifying and the worst thing I've read so far today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 11:36 AM
52

My mother's best friend suffered from alopecia totalis. Being a black woman too, it was even harder for her. Women are expected to have a long shiny mane and it's even more devastating when we lose our hair, especially the way society treats us. It's seen as such a big push against social norms when women embrace being bald and I really wish it would change. Nothing wrong with going bald but it's a shame men don't think that way when it comes to the normal changes a woman's body goes through as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:58 AM
44

Yep, I'm sick of the double standard. The reason men on OLD do so poorly is because most of them look like shit. It wouldn't take much to smarten themselves up but they think it's something only women should have to do. The entitlement is unreal. We all get ugly LVM coming after us, I really wish I was that confident lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:54 AM
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Bald men aren't sexy in my opinion. Men should think themselves lucky they aren't judged for every single flaw like women are. Crazy that dad bods are seen as sexy when men don't give birth and rarely get the hormonal problems such as hypothyroidism that can cause weight gain. Women are judged for being overweight though, I rarely hear a mom bod being called sexy and I say that as a slim woman myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:50 AM
86

Most men are trash. Men are the lucky ones because far more women are decent, loving and make great partners. I've only met one decent man myself, the good ones are hard to come by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:46 PM
18

Precisely this! They want a slim woman who scarf down burgers and not eating salad. Well as an overactive thyroid sufferer, I did just that and my ex hated it. He would make comments and give me filthy looks. He hated me going out, I went out with a friend clubbing and he didn't speak to me for nearly a week lol. I will never put up with such bullshit again. He would sit there eating 6 doughnuts and letting his diabetes get wildly out of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:16 AM
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When you're fit and healthy there is nothing worse than having a slob of a partner. They will try to sabotage us at every step. I'm so glad I'm single now and don't have to put up with a man's slovenly ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:06 AM
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I've just got up as I'm in the U.K. and no way shall I be eating breakfast. Even my cup of coffee is looking like diarrhoea right now 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:02 AM
29

So disgusting! As an IBS sufferer, the last thing I want to do is see my shit for a moment longer than I need to. I cannot think of one good reason for him doing this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:59 AM
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Oh my goodness. That's so disgusting. Where is her self respect? Her husband is a nasty piece of work. It's so sad to read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:33 AM
41

The amount of subs dedicated to hating us is unreal. I'm glad we rent space in their shitty heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:16 AM
44

My ex ended up with type II diabetes. I decided to join him on a keto diet even though I didn'tneed to to support him. So one day I served him steak and salad when he threw a huge fit. He had a meltdown over the food not being enough for him. So I never bothered again. It runs in his family but he didn't help himself with his incessant binging. He was in his late 40s and eating like he was in his early 20s still. All of this even though his cousin lost a foot when he was younger and died by the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:01 AM
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I've never had a problem with my weight, especially now I have an overactive thyroid but I definitely eat better now that I live alone. My scrote ex would eat four Mars bars in one sitting or several bags of crisps. It's much harder to resist when that junk is in your house. He was much older too and jealous of my slim figure. So many men say they want a slim girlfriend who can inhale burgers but I can tell you it's not true. They get incredibly insecure when you're in shape and will try to make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:56 AM
42

Wow, talk about insecure and crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:30 AM
72

There's no gentleman more perfect than a man who hasn't fucked you yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:22 PM
39

I tried talking to them but they didn't want to know. One lives with her so I can understand why he took her side, the other one lives with his violent alcoholic father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:34 PM
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No it wasn't, which makes her actions even more puzzling! That was the last straw for me. This happened in 2017 and I haven't spoken to her since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:33 PM
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I'm not surprised at all. My mother was witness in my childhood sexual abuse prosecution case with the police. For no reason at all, she refused to cooperate with the police, was too much of a coward to tell me why and then ghosted me. When I tried to question her about it she spread lies about me to family and friends. Two out of my three brothers took her side and haven't spoken to me since. I did nothing wrong but this is quite common in abusive families. I really feel for this poor woman. So…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:45 PM
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This sounds like something my narcissistic mother would have done had any of my partners found her attractive. I bet you the mother in this story has always completed with her daughter and made her feel like shit. I would have to cut her and the husband out of my life for good. Could there be a worse betrayal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:42 PM
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This is shocking to me. Unfortunately casual sex is only a win for the man. It's rare for feelings not to develop and most men lack empathy, let alone one just using you for sex. It's going to be a painful lesson for this poor woman but hopefully she won't get involved with a scrote like this again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:06 PM
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Lol the comment on this post are killing me this morning 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:00 AM
2

Same! I argued with one because the sad sack commented on posts I made outside of FDS, if they can't message you then they'll try whatever they can to get your attention. Best option is to report, block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:01 PM
16

Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:52 PM
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Every time these trolls attack, I've noticed they're busy begging women on Gone Wild subs for their attention. They're the lowest scum on the ladder. Normal people don't spend time harassing others that want nothing to do with them. I've never harassed an incel in my life and I bet no woman on this sub has either. They only make themselves look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:45 AM
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I come from a deprived area. Most boys went on to become criminals and ended up in prison. Most girls ended up pregnant and on the dole, being abused by scrote after scrote. It's my mother's story as well. It's very sad and I knew I was not going to go that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:45 AM
111

Love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:19 PM
77

The scrote misses his fuck puppet! He doesn't want her but doesn't want anyone else to have her, it's a tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:18 PM
21

Yep I am immunocompromised. I'm on high dose steroids and take an immunosuppressant called leflunomide. I've been celibate for over a year and got tested regularly. HIV would kill me without a doubt, my thyroid is already killing me. So I am not and have never taken any risks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 10:35 AM
7

He deserves to have it wrapped around his neck. There's no way this lady is telling the truth about how she feels. I enjoy baking so I would be happy with a gift related to that but not something needed for the house, that's an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:47 AM
9

It will only put the scrotes off. So we can only win with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:28 AM
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I found this sub through an incel sub. I'm forever grateful lol. May they continue sending women here. It's nothing like they describe. Men feel threatened by us all waking up to their manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:27 AM
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I don't want to live with a man again but if I was dating one then he must have his own place. I have my own place, so it's the least I expect of him. One of my good friends also has her own place and was dating a man 20 years older. He was staying at hers so much that he was practically living there. All her bills went up and he didn't contribute anything to the cost. Someone snitched on her to the council so she lost her single person's discount. I am not going to fall into that and it's obvio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 10:46 AM
20

I don't like beards anyway. Do you know how much bacteria men get in them? It would be like kissing a Petri dish. I'm my opinion very few men look good with a beard. I hate that it's in "fashion" these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:17 AM
125

My parents were addicted to drink and drugs. It was a terrible environment to grow up in full of abuse. When my stepfather ran out of money for drink, he would beat us all up and stole the pennies out of a jar I had. We lived on welfare and it will all go on drink and drugs. My three younger brothers and I would starve for days on end so I have a fair idea of what I'll see in that documentary. My stepfather is a catholic and would not allow my mother to have any abortions. Honestly it's a shame …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:12 AM
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Yep most men I've met only brush in the morning or not all day. Twice a day is the bare minimum. I have an autoimmune disease that causes dry eyes and a dry mouth so I'm very particular about my oral hygiene. Rotting teeth are no joke and tooth pain is the worst pain going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:51 PM
8

Yummy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:37 PM
23

Gary Puckett and The Union Gap song Young Girl really makes me feel sick! I don't like this one either and so many. Seems like most music is misogynistic in nature. It's probably why I liked TLC No Scrubs so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:45 PM
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It's funny because it's always a majority of male redditors claiming that. I hate that so women go to a male dominated website for relationship advice because men will stick up for their fellow men always. Thank goodness there's women around like us. Trying to cause trouble between her and her neighbours. What a tosser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 08:34 AM
137

Such a catch 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:22 PM
114

He is preying on her. I feel for her and his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:19 PM
35

Yes definitely don't. I would add the same for work as well. I had the question about sharing one weakness I have at a job interview. I was honest and the woman at the interview bullied me throughout my time there using that weakness of my mine. I will never be honest about it ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:51 AM
36

They absolutely don't have a clue. That is crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:18 PM
243

Over 5'9" and not allowed to be over 120lbs? Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:20 PM
22

I'm so sorry. Narcissistic mothers are not normal, it's not normal to see your daughter as a rival.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:40 AM
12

What a wanker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 08:19 PM
69

Spot on. My mother is a narcissist. I've noticed with women narcissists that they hate other women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:51 PM
21

This is unbelievably gross and predatory. I hope no woman falls for it. He is such a pervert and abuser. Red flags galore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:50 PM
127

For a start you don't tell them what you're looking for. If they ask you what sort of man you like, you don't tell them that either. It doesn't sound like that much time passed before they had sex anyway, the longer you wait then the more chance there is of a fuckboy losing interest and disappearing. If you let them know you are looking for exclusivity then some will treat you as a challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:11 PM
6

Mine was due but my overactive thyroid had other ideas lol. Glad to be single!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:37 PM
2

Hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:24 PM
20

Heartless scumbag of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:49 PM
15

I learned from my mother's mistakes. Even though I'm half south Asian, I'm not accepted and never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:17 AM
25

I remember that. That poor woman, it was heartbreaking. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2510542/Britains-white-honour-killing-Teenager-brutally-murdered-Muslim-lover-exposing-relationship-family.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:04 AM
34

It's the same with a lot of Jamaican men too. My maternal family is Jamaican and you wouldn't believe some of the things I've heard. I've even had white boys/men approach me saying the same thing. Like them shitting on white women is going to make me feel more attracted to them. Dating men is hard enough but the ethnicity side of things brings extra challenges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:02 AM
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This really stings. My father is from Bangladesh and a Muslim too. He was a married man with eight children and had an affair with my mother. He treated her like shit and abandoned her after getting her pregnant with me. I tried reaching out to him and his family last year. All I got was abuse and denial. He refused to have a DNA test but he fled the the place I was born in with his wife. So I've got the answer I need. Piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:52 AM
8

It's a figure of speech. I don't mean literally one wank. She needs to bin the scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:19 PM
136

Yes this sounds like a porn addicted scrote knocking one off in the bathroom. He is lazy and this is unacceptable. I'm so glad I've never wanted children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:20 PM
15

Men wouldn't put up with "weight fishing", so why should we? Even though they do hat fishing, age fishing and so on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:31 AM
3

That scrote sounds unhinged, calling from all of those different numbers. Glad you helped her see sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:30 AM
77

I feel this. I'm half south Asian, part Irish and part Jamaican. Short and slim. I have brown skin, look more on the South Asian side but you can tell I'm mixed too. I grew up with a white passing racist mother and a racist white Scottish stepfather. I used to absolutely hate my skin and my looks. My three younger brothers are all lighter than me and got better treatment from our parents. It's taken a lot of counselling and hard work to undo all of that and I'm not immune to societal pressure. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:18 PM
106

This post tastes really sweet this morning. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:44 AM
3

I'm so sorry. That sounds frightening, thank goodness you were able to get away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:15 PM
66

It makes me feel sad that there are so few men with empathy in the world. I'm glad you've found one of those men. I have chronic illnesses and only one boyfriend ever had any empathy for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:22 PM
26

This is so disgusting. I hear about scrotes being jealous of their partner's pets a lot. Just like being jealous of their own children, you have to be evil to suggest to your partner that they put down their pet to prioritise you. I really hope she dumps him and he sounds dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:10 PM
69

What the fuck? He wanted to humiliate her. Why else would he want her to suck on his cheese encrusted dick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:23 PM
15

Yes this true. My first ex was a scrote but he best friend was much better. I'm not sure if I would call him HV but he looked out for me far more than my ex did. He would stand up for me when one of their friends make racist jokes (I'm mixed and they were both white). He also let me know my ex wasn't looking to commit to me. He shamed my ex because my ex didn't offer to help me pay for driving lessons. His best friend was very good looking and treated his girlfriend (now wife) very well from wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:00 PM
5

I've never experienced this either. Every single man I've dated has paid and had no problem with it. I know it's not an age thing because I've heard of men even in their 50s and 60s going 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:26 PM
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What they're forgetting is that they are in no position to make these demands. When OLD is 80% men and only 20% women that means they have NO power. We are the choosers and nothing they do or say is going to change that. They want our underneaths far more than we want anything from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:21 PM
45

$35 for my time, my effort and my temple of a body? Fuck no! Never fallen for it and never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:10 PM
241

Poor woman. I was watching a series on Netflix called My Lover, My Killer and a scrote in his 50s killed a woman in her 20s. He was rich and his wife kicked him out after she discovered his affair. He put this young woman in a cottage in the middle of nowhere to isolate her. Bugged her home and everything. Scrotes are dangerous but scrotes 10, 20+ years older? Even more dangerous! Stay far away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:23 AM
25

Hookers? He wouldn't even get a sniff of me for the amount he would have to pay a prostitute. Most men don't even want to pay a prostitute. They want to skip dinner and for us to Uber ourselves to their house. Low effort scrotes deserve nothing but Mrs Palm and her five daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:32 AM
7

Reminds of that time I posted an advert on gumtree about being a domestic self employed cleaner. I said I was a woman. Some pervert phoned me up pretending to do a survey for the NHS, asking about my boyfriend's penis size. So disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:19 AM
23

Absolutely, America do it much better than we do over here. I'm sick of it. Our rape sentencing statistics are appalling as well. Rape is pretty much legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:16 AM
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Never mind 10 years younger, he wants to go 20 years younger! This is such a red flag and he sounds like a paedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:56 AM
16

It was so much harder to come by. I'm only 36 and the first time I saw porn was when I was 17. I was living with my friend and their lodger was out at work. So she showed me a pile of magazines from under his bed. Loads of porn mags of different categories 🤢🤢, now I can't scroll on social media without a woman's bum in tight leggings showing up every five minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:46 AM
2

Thank you, I never told my mother about that because I didn't think she would believe me. When alcohol or drugs are involved it just makes everything so much more dangerous. If I had a child, they would probably be home schooled and not allowed anywhere out my sight. The ones closest to you are the most dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:42 AM
3

It truly is. I had to take a break a quarter of a way through. I've read one story about the angry paedophile and it made me cry. How can anyone do that to a child? They have no conscience or remorse. It just goes to show that it could be anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:38 AM
47

Pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:26 PM
7

So at the start of that book it says 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 6 boys have sexual contact with an adult. Also the most common age which sexual abuse starts at is just 3! Holy shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:48 PM
2

Thank you. I've just bought the second book. Will definitely buy the first one as well soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:38 PM
6

That is so gross. Those poor girls! Men really don't care and don't even try to hide it. My mother had a lot of male friends who would drink with her, do drugs or buy drugs off her. One evening when I was 14 years old, my mother popped out and left her with two male friends, who were in their late 20s. They kept asking me to dance on the dining room table and strip. I didn't do thankfully. Another one told her he thought I was attractive when I was 13 years old. She replied "she's thirteen years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:37 PM
10

I'm teetotal and it's true. I hate the assumption that I must have been an alcoholic. My stepfather was the alcoholic and it put me off. I don't like the bitter taste of alcohol either. They definitely don't like it when they can't use drugs to lower our inhibitions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:08 PM
12

Don't use the same photos for social media and OLD as well. They can find you that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:55 PM
5

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:28 PM
22

Yep. Someone I know developed Graves' disease during pregnancy. She had a thyroid storm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:03 AM
3

There's a sub on here that targets fake accounts. Unfortunately people on there come across CP on reddit. It kills me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:06 AM
8

Paedophiles have done so much damage to that community. Gay men have consenting adult relationships with each other and have been accused of being paedophiles. How dare they do this! This is what's so scary about the likes of P.I.E and similar organisations. Their members are of the upper crust and clever with it. I seriously believe most judges are paedophiles as well. I recommend a book called Playland by Antony Daly. There's so much day to day crap like Covid, Russia and inflation to keep us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:04 AM
11

Absolutely! I decided to browse it last night and I regret it. Some PickMe went on there and made a post saying she forgives them all then there were people on there minimising the damage they've caused! I don't believe in reform for these sort of people. It's a shame they can't be locked up for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 08:57 AM
7

I'm definitely doing this. No one is going to bully me into softening my language for predatory paedophiles. When it comes to taking advantage of children who cannot consent, it will never be a legitimate sexual orientation to me. I hate how they've latched on to the LGBT community as well. They are nothing alike and it's insidious. I like British journalist Sonia Poulton and ex police detective Jon Wedger. They are two of many people fighting against this. We all have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 08:55 AM
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It's probably unverified women or scrotes. The mods are very much on the ball here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 08:09 AM
21

Neither my stepfather or my mother taught me about stranger danger. I grew up a very naïve child and I was abducted at the age of 10. No one had that talk with me about the evil things grown men do to children. It's part of the reason I don't want to have children of my own. I know I would be a much better mother but the sheer worry about paedophiles would have driven me crazy. My cousin who is more like my sister, warns her two sons and is a great mother. I feel like she learned by what happene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:59 AM
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My mother didn't date either after she kicked my violent alcoholic stepfather out. I'm grateful to her for that. My stepfather almost killed me once and did enough damage to us all. Scrotes target single mothers because they are more vulnerable. I wouldn't put anything past them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:54 AM
3

Have you heard of Bulic Forsyth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:17 PM
4

Thanks for this. I knew they were still going. What chance do we have when it comes from the core of Government? It makes me despair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:08 PM
38

I'm so sorry about what your ex husband did to your daughter. Utter scumbag! I can't even begin to imagine what he put you both through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:47 PM
58

You're doing really well and I think you have the empathetic nature to be a great nurse. Good luck with the exam ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:32 PM
97

There are sex offender support subs on reddit and the things posted in them, crikey. I've yet to see even one of them show any remorse for the things they've done. It's all woe is me I'm struggling to find a job etc, sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:17 PM
106

Big hugs. That's so terrible, I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:13 PM
18

When men are doing nothing to lock paedophiles up or stop them, what difference does it make even if they are seen to object to NAMBLA more? Toxic masculinity is the very reason boys who are sexually abused are less likely to talk about it or receive more empathy. I've mentioned before whenever there's an article about a woman teacher grooming her male student there's always men typing things like "where was this teacher when I was school" or "lucky sod" when the women are rightfully outraged. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:11 PM
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I'm really sorry. How are you doing now? I totally get it. I've been in situations in my adult life where I've had to practically hound social services over protection issues I've seen with children. Nothing makes me angrier than that. Pets are cute as heck too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:48 PM
6

Also to make sure you tell the police it's a man you don't know. They have a nasty habit of not taking it seriously otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:24 PM
8

Me neither. I live alone and only answer to someone I'm expecting and I'll check through my spyhole first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:17 PM
28

There's two documentaries on YouTube you should watch. One is called Boy's Business and the other one is called Wolf Pack. They are about U.K. paedophiles who have targeted boys. These men don't care. Boys may be male but they aren't men. This won't stop them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:15 PM
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Same. I swear I would never let them out of my sight which I'm sure will end up damaging them. I was targeted by more than one man as a child. I don't trust any of them. It takes real scum to hurt children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:10 PM
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This is true. As a victim of childhood rape, I'm glad to still be alive. As much as I would like to see the state gut them like a fish, it will backfire big time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:08 PM
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I really want to know what to do. I came across the MAPS acronym when I was a support worker. Absolutely sickening and they are paedophiles to me always will be. I'm really scared for children, it was bad enough when I was a child. We can't allow it to become legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:05 PM
70

Another thing that's pissing me off is all of the trendy women's clothes shops posting them on their social media pages. Gushing over them. She can do so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:55 PM
250

I agree. Men like him always go for the light skin woman with light eyes. I'm mixed myself and know men like this in real life. It's on us to call colourism out and not support it. She has gone down in my estimation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:52 PM
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I'm bothered that he seems low value. I would suggest marriage but I can totally understand why a woman as rich as Rihanna wouldn't. It would be a bad move on her part. I thought she knew better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:50 PM
36

Absolutely, you are so right. How many times to do read about fishy vaginas compared to cheesy dicks? I found his comment misogynistic and it wasn't at all relevant to the discussion at hand. Luckily I wasn't the only person to pull him up on it. In my experience, if I come across a smelly person, 9 times out of 10 it's a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:33 PM
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Totally! I had a lanky, ugly single father of three try it on with me recently, plus he reeked of BO. I just shut that down quickly and he won't be back to do any jobs for me. I suspect he tries it on with every woman he works for. At least you aren't lowering your standards. Keep on slaying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:29 PM
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It's true. Ugly men and LVM go for everyone. That doesn't mean you're unattractive at all. They like to "shoot their shot" with every woman. Men don't think like women. A lot of them don't think they're beneath more attractive/successful women at all. Just swat them away lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:23 PM
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It's easy for her to be smug now. What happens when she has a baby? What about if she falls sick? We know most husbands/partners leave their sick wives. She is in a risky situation. I would recommend any woman not be in this position. Men are fickle and you're vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:30 PM
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I'm saying there are loads of incel subs still up. I'm also saying there are subs up that are dedicated to getting us banned as well. One of my comments was posted to one the other day. I don't think I'm allowed to name them so I won't. Hope that clarifies things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:02 AM
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They have to bring us up every time, even when their discussion is nothing to do with women. I've just come across a post by a man who said his parents never taught him how to wash his penis. Then some twat chimes in saying washing a penis is much easier than washing a vulva. Their misogyny is everywhere. I honestly think they are jealous of us. Sex drives so much of their existence and they would rather be us because we get it so easily. Obviously there's a lot more to it than just sex but sex …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:19 AM
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I love being childfree. I love having the freedom and money to do what I want. Lay in bed on Saturday morning with my cup of coffee. It's bliss and cats are amazing. I can feel my blood pressure and heart rate go down as I stroke my cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:39 AM
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Doesn't surprise me sadly. Reddit fully supports the degradation of women. We don't matter. Why are so many incel subs still up yet so many subs are dedicated to closing us down? Subs like GC banned. The amount of porn and abuse on here against women is astronomical. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:26 AM
18

Doesn't matter. Most OLD sites are roughly 80% men to 20% women. We are more in demand and hold the power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:53 AM
51

Yes exactly. It's a symptom of their lack of effort but oh no, it's our fault. Like we have impossible standards. Like I want to kiss someone with halitosis and week old dick cheese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:51 AM
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I live with an A & E nurse last year. She used to work in a care home and you're absolutely right. She had some horror stories about what males in hospital/nursing homes would do. I take my hat off to these women because I couldn't do it. They get nowhere near enough pay or recognition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:36 PM
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Another thing. They like to get you off the app and texting them so you're not on the app and getting attention from other men. Last time I was on OLD was 12 years ago, men know we are inundated with messages. They like to have our attention all to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:22 PM
8

That's frightening! I'm glad you had the sense to drive to a police station. Psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:16 PM
30

Crikey. I really wasn't aware of that. I just find it all so sad, I really do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:52 PM
26

Utter fruit loops. This behaviour is unhinged, can you imagine doing the same when you see a handsome man in shorts? I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. It's not normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:49 PM
2

I think it's quite common. This happened to all of my girlfriends in real life as well. If men are desirable even into old age, then why do they lie about their age? Hmm? Could it be that 20s women don't want old scrotes? I'm in my mid 30s so my years haven't gone, I've just wised up to the manipulation and bullshit coming from older scrotes. Us women will not struggle to get a man, even into old age. Men want us far more than vice versa. I don't think abusive parents really realise how much dam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:46 PM
2

Totally, I don't believe he would have ever told me the truth. It's just lucky for him that it never came up before. I wasn't with him that long, thankfully. I got really fucked over by abusive older scrotes and having an awful childhood didn't help. If I can help one woman, protect even just one woman then it's worth it. I don't want any woman to go through what I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:58 PM
79

That's amazing, you've made such Queen moves and left him in the dust! 🥳❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:49 PM
109

This poor woman. It's not uncommon for men to have a rein on their abusive behaviour until he gets a woman pregnant, or marries her and so on. If she stays with him, her and the baby's life is going to be hell. Her mother seems sensible and I hope she can guide her in the right direction. That man is such a scrote. He doesn't deserve a wife and/or child!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:42 PM
3

I didn't find out for six months. I only found out when he asked me to get his credit card and I found his passport next to it. He told me he was in his 30s when he was really 46! Oh that wasn't even the worst lie either. He was meeting men and women off seedy websites behind my back. He got a dodgy birthday card from his secretary that made it plain something was going on there too! I was only 20, I know better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:45 PM
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Us women are visual too, aren't we? You deserve better and I'm glad to hear he is out of your life. I dated a much older scrote and he lied about his age too. He was as crazy as a bag of mice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:59 PM
11

Call it off. No healthy man of that age would be going for someone ten years younger. Men like this tend to be abusers. I think you've got the intuition sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:56 PM
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Yep it's still a reality for a lot of women, even in the Western world. Incels want to go back to that time, without being providers. I feel for these women. Consent should be given freely and enthusiastically, not coerced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:54 AM
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I knew a guy who did this. He had a well paying job at the local authority. He married a lovely woman and they had their own big apartment. He was in his mid 40s. Next thing I know, he packed everything in and travelled around the world. He sold their apartment for this. He came back and cheated on his wife and they split up. He was a friend of my ex. When he got back, he wouldn't have had a pot to piss in. It's like he just disappeared off the face of the earth. It's reckless, crazy behaviour. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:48 AM
5

Definitely, I wouldn't blame you. I grew up in an abusive home, got kicked out at 17 years old. I was homeless for a while but luckily a work colleague took me in. I fell very I'll with an autoimmune disease. I think this is why I ran into the arms of an older scrote and he was awful. I've had a lot of therapy in between then and now, at age 36. I know I'm smart enough now not to fall for that again and I'm able to support myself. Sleeping in a car or on the street is much preferable to me than …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:50 AM
2

I agree with this. He sounds like a hobosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:27 PM
5

Oh yes. I like to ignore my phone and get my arse into bed. Men are looking for a booty call and nudes at that time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:51 PM
25

That's horrible. What a creep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:22 PM
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Yep the media always tries to minimise the pain of women and children. For example "woman got raped", nothing about a man actually raping her. She magically did it all by herself. I don't believe in the term "child prostitutes" either as children cannot consent. It is a lifetime of work to undue all of the socialisation that the patriarchy inflicted upon us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:45 PM
113

I responded to a post on a dating sub recently where the OP had not had a text from a man she was seeing in three days. She text him on the Tuesday asking him when they would next go on a date, he said he would get back to her with a date for next week. She tells him good luck in his new job and yesterday he had still not text her. I told her to dump him and some scrote tries to argue with me, that she should just text him again. Fuck that noise. He is probably married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:15 PM
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Crikey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:35 PM
69

Very true. The smarter men will do those things but most won't. Women have got to start raising their standards. We deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:34 PM
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The men who say this are being disingenuous. Wanting protect ourselves from LVM/NVM doesn't mean we hate men. We believe in HVM whilst incels insist AWALT (all women are like that). Fundamental difference. We deserve to have this space as a male free environment where we are safe enough to discuss how we can keep ourselves safe. We are being murdered every second by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:21 PM
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All he is doing here is revealing his wishful thinking. I don't earn that much and I'm perfectly fine with money to enjoy myself with after paying all my bills. Thank goodness the days of that is over. I just feel for women who live in countries where this is not yet a reality. Men are pissed these days as they know they can't provide us with something we can provide ourselves. They've got to step up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:29 PM
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Same. I live in the U.K. so I don't mind being called hen, duck, sweetie or whatever from women but men definitely not. It's too intimate from anyone not my boyfriend/husband. This is usually a problem with men 40+ in my experience. It's forced and false intimacy. Plus men juggling different women do this to avoid calling one woman by another's name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:47 PM
28

Definitely going to listen to this later. Looks interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:41 PM
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I think he is lying. Scrotes make up posts to try and make us look bad constantly. Like any of us would take the time to do that to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:12 PM
57

Now that sub is where the incels migrated to when the ban hammer came down. There was a post in there a few days ago by a 21 year old scrote saying he felt very upset about sub. Said he felt judged for his penis and everything. It's trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:11 PM
18

Absolutely. I would never go on OLD again. Men are thinking at the tap of a button they can get a free Uber prostitute. Men used to have to put a ring on your finger first. Of course I won't romanticise those times because it was awful for women in other ways. Also I don't need to go on OLD because I get chatted up at least once a week with the area I live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:29 AM
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Lol why is that always the case with these scumbags? I had one recently and he would post thirsty comments on go wild subs. Imagine being so pervy and desperate 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:10 AM
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See what she says when she manages to get out of this abusive industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:04 AM
189

Rather go fuck myself than deal with the rapists who seek the services of prostitutes. As a daughter of a woman traumatised and abused by Johns, I know what I'm talking about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:04 AM
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Exactly! Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:01 AM
7

He didn't even have to get you anything food related at all. You did the right thing. I have IBS and I try to avoid food with too much iodine as I have an overactive thyroid, so if a man done that to me then I would have dumped him as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:14 AM
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It definitely does. My older scrote ex got me a pink playboy watch for my 21st birthday. Thing was disgusting and I've never liked Playboy. I'm glad Hugh Hefner is dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:04 PM
12

My heart goes out to your sister. I'm so sorry. She's so young and this is what she has to deal with? These shitty older fucks that have fucked every woman going need to leave young women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:00 PM
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I don't blame you sis. Men are definitely not worth moving for! It certainly seems to vary by location but I think as time goes on we'll see far more childfree for life men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:54 PM
52

Lmao way to tell the world you're a broke low value male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:58 PM
15

True! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:49 AM
12

That's another thing. The figures for OLD speak for themselves. There's always is and always will be far more men on them, we are the pickers. I don't believe men are the gatekeepers of relationships either as I've turned plenty of men down for one. I'm not the one wishing he would commit to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:37 AM
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Exactly. Whilst his dick was flying around unprotected into women, no one baby trapped him! Sick of men placing responsibility for their fertility all on the woman. No sympathy for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:10 AM
10

Absolutely! Does give me a good chuckle to browse with my cup of coffee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:49 PM
7

They definitely do. I'm not signing up for all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:48 PM
10

I'm in the U.K. but I've never had trouble finding a child free man. I'm 36 and know a few. Even if there weren't any about, I would much rather be alone than raise someone's children. I don't think men get that, they think we are all so desperate to be in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:31 PM
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They say their cocks are precious and so is their time. When dating apps are like 80% men and 20% women, the statistics say otherwise. Dick is abundant and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:28 PM
19

You're right. I've mentioned this before but a few weeks ago I had a tradesman come round. He was boasting about being a single dad and this wasn't his first visit. He absolutely reeked of BO and he chatted me up. I won't be hiring him again. They seem to think we go all weak at the knees for single fathers? It's delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:26 PM
32

It wasn't a gift for him? Seriously? What a wanker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:13 PM
71

One thing about RP, they at least have the decency to agree with us on not sleeping with men on the first date. They will do everything to sleep with a woman on the first date and call her a whore for doing so. My experiences with older scrotes is that they are worse than younger ones. At least ones my own age look better and have harder dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:57 PM
67

We actually have beds and not an air mattress on the floor for years on end!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:19 PM
91

I know! I wonder if he would have done that if I wasn't a naïve 20 year old. I still left his arse in the dust though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:16 PM
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I stayed through the meal (I was only 20) but after that I ghosted him. He told me his son's mother was a drug addict. The boy was really nice and whilst I like kids, I'm not mother material. It's such a turn off meeting men desperate to find a mother for their children. It's not right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:06 PM
30

Amen sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:12 PM
70

Not to mention men aren't judged as much as us for being childfree anyway. There's no excuse anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:11 PM
479

Yes I've been in the same position as Eve. I even had a man say he was childfree then turn up to our first date with his 5 year old son! Claims I wouldn't have given him a chance otherwise. Well of course not! I'm childfree and I'm going to stay that way. I would rather stay single until I die than date a father. Even when their children are adults, along come grandchildren which I'll be expected to care for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:08 PM
52

50/50 is bullshit. How many men do half of housework, childcare and emotional labour? I don't know a single one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:03 PM
51

Prostitution is rape because women need that money to survive. If you are only doing it to survive then that's not consent. How many women do you know who wants to be a prostitute as a living? FDS is against "sex work". You really ought to think about that before commenting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:13 PM
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Any man who has paid for sex is the lowest value scum in my opinion. It's rape, how can anyone take Kevin Samuels seriously? Can't get a woman so has to pay to rape one instead. Edit. My comment was shared to a sub that makes fun of us but someone actually stood up for us lol. Not my fault desperate incels can only get sex through rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:48 AM
12

I had an incident yesterday where I became aware of yet another sub made off the back of this one. I have one post left on my profile where I had asked if I was shadow banned over a year ago. I have chat and messages disabled but I had a ghost notification of a message that didn't get through. So this sad sack of a scrote commented "I hope so because you are on FDS". Lol. After cussing and blocking him, yes I shouldn't have even responded, I noticed that he comments on a sub making fun of ours. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:45 AM
129

Yep I'm a U.K. size 4 and I've been body shamed. It doesn't matter what we look like, a man will always find something to tear us down about. Men love to to try and break a strong woman down too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:33 AM
77

Men's obsession with anal is a very big problem in my opinion. I'm 36 and admittedly the last time I was dating was 12 years ago just before I met my ex. No man expected anal. I only had one man ever bring it up and I finished with him. I'm not planning on dating anytime soon but it's worrying they are so obsessed with porn and expect anal. It's simply something I won't do. I have IBS and even if I didn't, I wouldn't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:44 AM
19

Definitely going to try this! Ugh my ex got lovely cooked food and cakes. He didn't deserve it and I won't be making the same mistake again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:21 AM
82

Totally! She doesn't owe him her body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:15 AM
13

Huh? He only wishes he could get a FWB, let alone a girlfriend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:12 AM
38

Talking of showering, there's a post on a male sub by a woman complaining her boyfriend only showers once a week. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:07 AM
3

I looked through his history and he comments on a sub which is a parody of ours. Quelle surprise! I told him us women can have as much dick as we want but he and other men can't have as many women as they want. Men are jealous of us. They want to fuck as many people as possible and they're pissed they can't but we can. Thing is, most of us aren't like that. We aren't out here seeing men as objects we can masturbate into. I just find it funny we bother him so much that he has made the effort to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:09 PM
54

I got my period just before I turned 12, which I'm very grateful for and it wasn't before I was raped at age 10. I'm mixed race and was never what you would call conventionally attractive. I'm half Bengali and back then I looked fully South Asian. I had hardly any clothes, one pair of knickers and dressed like a tomboy. I was first molested very young when I was in primary school by a boy my age. He molested a few other girls in my class as well. This boy was the cousin of the teenage boy who ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:04 PM
14

It's so misogynistic how women are the only parents who stay and get all of the blame. I get there are abusive mothers, I had one myself but what about the fathers? So many men think nothing of leaving their own flesh and blood. It's so common and people barely shrug their shoulders over it. It should be much harder for men to get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:52 PM
1

Did you block it? Another scrote thought he would try commenting on one of my posts like the other did. Pathetic. Truth hurts them lol. https://imgur.com/a/OpiEYuu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:42 PM
8

I don't blame you! It's such a shame they don't understand they bring these problems on themselves. I know short men who are secure in themselves but they are rare. No, no one is going to dictate to me that I can't go for taller men either. If they like me and I like them back, tough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:40 PM
15

Exactly. These men wish women were interested in them so they make up little fantasies in their heads and online. No one believes them. Since the incel subs got banned they are spreading their poison to other subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:35 PM
11

Lmao look. Scrotes mad https://imgur.com/a/OpiEYuu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:29 PM
74

I've noticed so many posts on dating subs and offmychest subs where men post about women abusing them and forcing them into sex. I'm not saying this doesn't happen buts it's clear they are making up posts to make women look bad. I even saw a post by a man claiming to be 21 years old and being absolutely devasted by our sub lmao. It was such a pathetic larp that I busted out laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:57 AM
28

I find dead eyes so chilling. I've seen it in so many men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:50 AM
38

Spot on. Also I would add if he claims his mother was abusive, it's likely he will see all women as the same and will try to control you. I've had that experience before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:49 AM
55

This is such an important sign, my ex did this, took him 12 years to hit me but he finally got there. Another man I dated had short man syndrome and had road rage. Thankfully we only dated a short while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:26 AM
35

That's so disgusting, what a bad day to have eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:50 PM
34

I feel for her but this kind of lifestyle sounds very exhausting. I don't know how mothers do it. Men these days expect you to go 50/50, undertake all housework and childcare etc. if he wants a pat on the back he will take his children to the park and boast that he is "babysitting" his own children. I know only two HVM in real life, one is married to my cousin and another married to a friend. They pull their weight and don't expect praise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:49 PM
35

Scary, there are just so many ways of doing it. Isn't it exhausting trying to catch up with the many different ways men will try and stalk us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:39 PM
183

I also read a story about a woman who had one of these hidden in the wheel arch of her car! She had an iPhone with the notification if I remember correctly. Yet another danger for us women to worry about. There is an app for android users to download apparently that will detect AirTags as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:25 PM
10

Was it the reddit care bot? I've heard you can block it. I've disabled my DMs and followers. A scrote was so desperate to get at me he commented on a post I made on a medical sub for my dead 33 year old cousin. I had to delete it. They are depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:08 AM
30

Yes they behave like their younger counterparts. My ex neighbour is 61 and she would tell me about men her own age and how they behaved. They are even worse, not paying for anything and wanting to sleep around. Women of all ages have it hard. I'm 36 and I even I can remember a time when anal sex was taboo. Not like it is now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:02 AM
37

Bad men are attracted to all women. It not you, honestly. I'm in my mid 30s and I've been there as well. As you get older, your detector for bad men will get sharper and you will become more discerning. It gets better, it really does. For now I'm happy being single and levelling up. I don't need the distraction and mind games from men. They are not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:28 AM
28

Yep. Now they're getting pissed because women are wising up and leaving dating apps, sorry, hook up apps in their droves. Men feel entitled to our bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:46 AM
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I just looked at his post history and he is fucked up. He hates his parent because they took him to the Cheesecake Factory when he got into university. He is on some heavy medication and has serious mental health problems. Not his fault but he should be focusing on that and dealing with it. Lots of posts with weed and moaning about a "bitch" at the gym. No wonder he has problems finding someone. Just another entitled below average male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 06:44 AM
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I've noticed that too and I'm none of those things, despite being on steroids for most of my adult life. Men are just undesirable. I would not go for a man in his 20s but they are hardly much better. As for older scrotes, no thank you. They just don't feel they have to make an effort. Only they deserve an attractive partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:14 PM
115

But Womenz get loads of matches. Never mind the fact these matches will call us whores and bitches, stalk, rape and murder us. The poor oppressed man with his couple of matches, who I bet are nice women and definitely won't rape/murder him. The poor oppressed men are upset women have standards. He has abs, so he deserves the most beautiful, desirable woman but he must not have to approach them! His Uber prostitute has gone with the wind! Oh the horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:10 PM
92

I commented on this. He has absolutely no empathy for what women go through on OLD. He blatantly said he would rather be in our shoes even though it means he could get raped and murdered. No wonder he can't get anyone and his comments about overweight women say it all. Such a scrote backed up by other scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:04 PM
3

Exactly. Life is too short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:46 PM
15

That's so fucked up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:50 PM
81

Yep and the statistics back that up. I brought this up to some incel moaning on a well known sub once and he said "You're only bringing up statistics to suit you". Well it's true, women who date much older men are not common and have problems. I should know because I was one and not one of my girlfriends was into older men either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:40 PM
93

You've done so amazingly well and I'm proud of you! I can relate having endured sexual abuse in childhood. There's something about a man in adulthood basically raping you that destroys all the trust you had in him. How can so many men be willing to rape an unwilling partner? I will never understand it. What you've been through is incredibly difficult and here you are doing well on the other side. I hope you're proud of yourself too ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:17 PM
23

At least you realised it, some people never reach that level of self awareness. As women we are socialised to give men too many chances and second guess our intuition. It takes a long time to unlearn. Well done Queen for working on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:02 PM
186

Very true. Male privilege again. These men will feel no shame as his mother with ailing health runs around after him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:57 PM
73

I get where you're coming from but believe me being in the right isn't going to save you if he attacks you. I'm worried about you after reading your post. Men get obsessed with women who reject them and some of them are very unhinged like this guy. Please report him to the police. Please don't underestimate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:54 PM
2

Look you did bring it up. We definitely have got our wires crossed because I mentioned it in the first place as something I do to protect myself from colleagues like the one you're mentioning. Usually with these type of women they are jealous of you and will try to ostracise you from everyone else. In her mind, you being childfree is the only thing she could think to pick on. It's sick and you have the right to be how you are without this harassment. I've been the very friendly colleague in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:49 PM
16

That's terrible. What's up with these people? I don't understand it. Bullies are the worst and I've met my fair share of them. Usually there's something about you that they're jealous of and the worst of them will pretend to befriend you in order to find things out to use against you. Hopefully you don't work with them anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:43 PM
33

That's awful. I think sometimes these women like OL are jealous that they either lived in a time when not having children was far more likely to be frowned upon than now or didn't have the intelligence/guts to follow what they truly wanted. It certainly seems to me that my mother is this way. She has nothing to do with my two nephews yet she used to beg me to have children constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:36 PM
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Well like I said. If she is harassing you then continue to go to HR. I'm just saying these kind of women are toxic and they'll never change. I don't know about you but I've had about 18 years of dealing with women like this. I'm hoping once I reach menopause in the next 15-20 years that it will stop. I mentioned social media twice because you keep bringing it up, yes we'll go out separate ways if you don't like that I have a different opinion on things. You'll save yourself a lot of grief if you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:31 PM
-2

Hang on a minute. I said I don't add colleagues to social media. Don't get it twisted and try to say I accused you of doing so. Learn to read or don't bother speaking to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:25 PM
8

You can never win with these. Don't think for one second that you being friendly with her is going to change her opinion of you because it won't. You're there to work, not make friends. Not adding colleagues to your social media doesn't make you a bitch but makes you smart. I've seen it go wrong for other colleagues in the past. Just keep reporting her to HR or get another job. Life is too short and I should know because I became very ill after being bullied at work in 2015. Don't take it out on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:22 PM
37

I've dealt with the same thing in the workplace as well. I do like children and I have two nephews. I just have no desire to have children of my own or care for children for more than a day. I have health problems and I tend to find I don't get judged as much if I say so. Why should I have to though? It's no one's business whether any woman wants children and why. Another thing, there are always going to be that one bitter woman in the workplace. I've had one in every single job I've had. Like y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:11 PM
35

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:29 PM
7

Totally, I've seen these threads. Most of it is because men lack empathy. They can't empathise with why their mother had to do it to survive. What didn't help is my mother's so called best friend would throw her past in her face at least once a year after they had been drinking or whatever. I could never do that, I know it would hurt her a lot. My biological father? He is and was a well off Bengali man who owned restaurants. He knew my mother was pregnant with me and just left us to rot. My step…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:27 PM
140

They can barely be bothered to stay for their able bodied children, let alone disabled ones. Not worth making most men a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:23 PM
2

Black men's obsession with black women's hair is so creepy and weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:03 PM
32

I hate that subreddit with a passion. Looked at it once and saw they were obsessed with us. Won't look again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:54 PM
28

Couldn't be me! Do these women think their man is the last man on earth or something? Also I get mean mugged by these type of women a lot, usually because their scrote is looking me up and down like I'm a piece of steak in the refrigerator. Truly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:23 PM
46

Most men treat women like a Uber prostitute, except they don't pay you. Just jump on Tinder or some app and invite you round for sex. No thanks! I don't want my body found dumped in a river at worst or feeling used at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:58 AM
87

Same. I had an Iranian man I was dating get pissed at me for remonstrating with a man who pushed in front of me to get on a bus. In the U.K. we are big on queuing. He also made some comment about how I would look good in a hijab when he knew I am agnostic. I'm not changing my beliefs for any man. I dumped him after that for his misogyny. I was only 19 at the time as well and he resented me for my English language skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:31 AM
28

Maybe he should try being raise by an ex prostitute then. It fucked my mother up and I had to bear the brunt of it. I dread to think what happened to her because she would warn me now and again to never have anal sex. She didn't have any choice because she was put in care by my grandfather and I suspect something happened to her in there as she ran away. This is the story of most prostitutes. They have had a hard childhood and sexual abuse is most often involved so no, I will never be "pro-sex w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:15 AM
36

Absolutely, I know they killed her. We all loved Princess Diana, she deserved so much more out of life,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:52 PM
21

With you there sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:48 PM
91

Oh yeah the Brits love a Royal wedding, irrespective of the participants. There's still a lot of racism here, I'm mixed myself. It just tends to be more covert. There are people who just think Meghan is a narcissist but as a child of narcissistic parents, I don't think she's the narcissist. Most people who dislike her are just racist though, he should have married a "nice English Rose".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:16 PM
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One because she's a woman and two because racist pricks can't stand a mixed woman marrying their precious Prince. I'm British so I've heard it all. Still too many people think the Royal family are pure and led astray by Americans, like with Wallis Simpson and King Edward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:43 PM
68

True! As long as they aren't doxxing us or commenting on here, they can do what the hell they like. I'm not going to their subs or letting rent space in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:19 PM
139

Well what's even more sick is some scrote posted on a sub today that he jerks off whilst browsing this sub. We really do live rent free in their heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:51 PM
223

Cheeky get. Not a very clever one either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:47 PM
263

A cup of coffee is something I buy friends without even blinking about. I expect more than that from a man trying to date me. I've never been on a coffee or walking date. When I decide to date again, it will be dinner. Men like to offer coffee dates so they can juggle many "plates" as they like to put it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:46 PM
3

Blimey! As a 5 footer, even 6ft is too tall for me, never mind 6'7". I would be even more afraid than usual and that's saying a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:46 PM
2

Fruit loops and fruit cakes. I went on it years ago. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:40 PM
88

Women always look better. It's a shame sexual orientation isn't a choice because I wouldn't choose to be straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:34 PM
34

Men like this end up in dead bedrooms and swear they don't know why! We deserve pleasure too. I've never faked an orgasm and any man that can't give me one is truly useless as I'm one of those rare women that can orgasm from PIV sex. They really are telling everybody they are no good in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 07:59 AM
35

I get you. It's tough reading all the posts about young women/teenagers being abused by old scrotes because I've been there. If I can save just one woman/girl, then I'll be happy. It fucks you up in so many ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:30 PM
53

How cool would that be? Be a lot safer for us to go about our business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:08 PM
15

Nice to see men like your dad around. Short men create most of the problems they have. I'm 5ft and my ex was about three inches taller. I remember some incel scrote accused me of being a liar! Lol I've never cared about height. Thing is it gets exhausting dealing with short men lying about their height or trying to knock tall men over like skittles when we're out as they're so jealous of them. The insecurity shows big time and I haven't got time for it. I know some short men are confident and th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:52 PM
8

Smoking is a dealbreaker for me as well. I'm teetotal so I'm not keen on heavy drinkers either. If a man only drinks on special occasions, I don't mind that. I'm not into men who drink daily or weekly though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:54 PM
45

You've been lucky so far but you can still get crabs, hpv, herpes and syphilis even whilst using a condom. There's probably more STIs I've missed out there. You could meet a man who could either seriously injure or kill you. Do you need to see a medical professional? Because usually there's something wrong if you have such little self control. It's not worth losing your life over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:12 AM
10

Omg. Definitely a hobosexual!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:07 AM
14

Lol @ knackery dumpster! Sounds like a horrific experience and yeast infections suck. I think they've got no self respect at all when they don't wash their genitals. It's not difficult. I think most women would find the idea of not washing their vulvas unthinkable. We're not the same at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:45 PM
8

Never done it and never will. I'm far too good to be some man's side piece. My father was a married man who had an affair with my mother and it caused so much damage. She didn't know at first though. Men like this are entitled, selfish scum. I wouldn't want to hurt another woman like that either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:35 PM
22

I can't swim and had this weirdo who lived on a boat who kept on insisting on a swimming date. He just wanted to see me in a swimming costume but I was having none of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:26 PM
9

That sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:18 PM
14

Those poor fish 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:16 PM
48

They are, my first thought. Fish are innocent too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:14 PM
4

If only the fish were this good looking! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:13 PM
37

Living the U.K., almost all men are uncut here, unless they are Jewish or Muslim for example. I've got no problems with it at all but men must pull back the foreskin and wash underneath! Once you come across that smell, you never forget it. I'm on strong medication so a UTI quickly becomes very nasty for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:03 PM
14

There was a man working on the roof of a house opposite me yesterday with his builder's bum just hanging out. I went to make my coffee yesterday morning and it put me off my breakfast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:00 PM
12

Football hooligans are vile. My stepfather was one. He supported Celtic and he was very overbearing with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:57 PM
31

Same. Cats are amazing! I will not ever not have them for anyone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:54 PM
16

Is it possible to find a no win, no fee lawyer? I'm so sorry you are going through this. It must be very hard to bear. Let me know if you have a fundraiser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:48 PM
45

They are perverts and peadophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:08 PM
6

Yes I commented on this post. The age gap told me everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:23 AM
56

That is frightening with a good warning why we should never said nudes. Who the fuck does he think he is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 08:48 AM
3

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:03 PM
12

Single dads expect so much praise for doing what women do all of the time. I had this tradesman come round a few times and he went on about being a single father in a way I knew he was trying to impress me. He didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:50 PM
15

Yep. Actually my biological father got punished and I'm glad of that. My biological father is from Bangladesh, a Muslim and was married when he had an affair with my Jamaican/Irish mother. He didn't want to know how after he got her pregnant with me. All this time he only lived 30 mins away from us. Grew up having never met him until I started looking for him with help from families in the Bengali community. Basically, the whole Muslim population of my home town found out, especially that he aba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:48 PM
24

Happened to me the other week. Some scrote was defending a man who was in the closet, used this girl and poked holes in a condom to get her pregnant at 15! 15! All so he could appear straight. I'm nit ashamed of commenting and being a part of this sub. When they do that, they know they've lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:42 PM
29

So cringeworthy and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:22 PM
258

Yep exactly. His thirty five year old ex was young enough and then he went for a twenty six year old afterwards! He doesn't want to treat any woman like a lady. He deserves to be alone, I bet doctors and finance women don't want to date him either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:13 PM
43

Gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:10 PM
138

Nothing but a sperm donor. So glad I never wanted children because it must be so hard doing it all on your own. Poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:03 AM
20

So true. My mother is one of these mothers, you know what? I think these mothers are jealous of their daughters and suffer from a lot of internalised misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:45 PM
185

Funny that. They love humiliating women and that's what anal is all about. I will never let a man try it with me. Only one man asked and I never saw him again after that. My no wasn't enough you see, he had to argue with me and disrespect my boundaries. I'm not having it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:30 PM
6

Congratulations Queen 💍 ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:20 PM
83

I'm as chill as a capybara ignoring these fools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:51 PM
171

Reddit is a shithole. Men and the majority of women on here will stick up for men no matter what. No way would a man put up with this and I bet he doesn't give her oral sex. I feel sad for OP, she's a PickMe and she claims him cumming on her face is now her fantasy too. Yeah right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:07 AM
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If the roles were reversed, he would have left her long ago. Also I saw a comment on the original post, someone looked through OP's history and she made a comment somewhere where she thinks her husband is gay. Who's got time for that? 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:03 AM
7

Thank you. There are a few single women not dating on this sub, it's for us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:54 AM
16

Absolutely. It's so wrong the responsibility is put all j our shoulders. Our anatomy even makes us more susceptible to STIs than men. I've never done casual sex and never will. Men don't care about their health and definitely don't care about ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:16 AM
25

Disgusting! I would ditch her as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:25 PM
29

Yep which is why girls who have been raped were at bigger risk of cervical cancer before Gardasil. How fucked up is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:23 PM
15

No worries and I'm doing much better now thanks. Hopefully I can avoid men like my ex in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:30 PM
46

Because I was in a women's refuge last year after fleeing domestic violence. High value women take time to work on themselves and do better instead of jumping from man to man. Plus you don't need to be dating to be on this sub. You can be here for any reason, especially to level up. I hope my advice is helping other Queens here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:27 PM
30

That's fucked up. Why do people enjoy these mind games? Maybe they know they're not good enough for us on their own merit, so they have to mess us around. Great idea by the way. I've never used WhatsApp web.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:52 PM
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I'm 36 and I'm still waiting for men not to hassle me like the incel scrotes claim they will. I had a tradesman round this week doing some plumbing work and he hit on me. Apparently he is 37 but looks a good 10 years older. I live in a busy area and have men in cars and on foot hassling me when I'm outside. When I was 20 I might have found it flattering but now I just see them for the jerks they are. I haven't worried about ageing yet. Hopefully I won't. I think at my age most women still look q…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:23 PM
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If there are any male lurkers who want to see how bad old man's sperm is. I've linked this article. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6710060/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:43 AM
59

I didn't lol, I thought I shouldn't go there. Shame I never met him first! 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:28 AM
77

Absolutely, same thing happened to me. Funnily enough alarm bells started ringing when he text "I don't want to piss anyone off, let alone you". That's exactly what he wanted to do, he wanted to piss me off because if he did, it meant I cared about hearing from him. I ghosted not long afterwards. Ghosting, block and delete is all these dickheads deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:10 AM
130

I don't even want to text a man, let alone date him. Every single man I've talked to apart from one ex has played minds games and texting is a part of it. They will obsessively text until you reply back on a consistent level then they will pull back, come and go with inconsistent texting. It's not worth it and you can't win. It's a power struggle and an ego boost for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:06 AM
174

As a mixed race woman who has dated white men. Nothing pisses me off when their friends say something offensive and racist (which has happened to me more than once) and they don't defend me. I remember one ex, his best friend was much better looking than he was and a much better man. When a guy in their friend group made a racist joke, it was his best friend who backed me up and not my ex. When you're mixed and not black passing, some white people think you're safe to say this shit around. It wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:24 AM
79

Daddy wants his sugar now. shudders and throws up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:52 PM
4

This is so gross, I lost my dessert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:49 PM
60

Liberal feminism is a betrayal to all women. I can't get with it, they work in men's best interests and not ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:39 PM
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Oh I wasn't talking about you specifically, just women in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:59 PM
13

They don't make men like that anymore unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:55 AM
11

Yet straight women who don't date bisexual men get dragged over hot coals. Makes as much sense as vilifying straight women for not dating lesbians. As long as you don't show hatred to bi men, I don't think a sexual orientation should be criticised. I saw a post about this yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:01 AM
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So I recently came across a post where a 26 year old man with a 2 year old targeted a 20 year old, childfree woman. When the woman turned 26 and the scrote turned 32, she realised how wrong it was to be in a relationship with him when she was just 20. She wanted to split up and the scrote was whinging about it. 95% of people on the post stuck up for him saying they were both in their 20s, it's okay blah blah. I disagree. There's still a lot of difference in maturity between a 26 and a 20 year ol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:22 AM
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Talking of that. I've noticed there are a lot of made up posts by incels claiming terrible things about women on the relationship subs. It's very obvious which ones these are. Anything to make women look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:17 AM
48

I want to hear more about this! You had a lucky escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:10 AM
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Lol no woman of any age wants a loser who gambles all of his money away. A friend of mine married a gambler and things ended very badly. He cleaned her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:06 AM
36

Gambling, gold digger loser scrote! Glad it blew up in his face and she's divorcing him. He wanted his money to be his money and her money to be his as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:05 AM
10

Ibuprofen does work for me but I have gastritis. I will throw up if I have it, which is a shame. Paracetamol lowers fever for me but little else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:14 PM
37

Thank goodness she had you looking out for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:57 PM
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I've got an overactive thyroid and it's caused an arrhythmia that can kill me. I called an ambulance two years ago and the male paramedic was sceptical despite a heart rate of 170bpm! Anyway they took me to the hospital, I have an arrhythmia and such low levels of potassium that could have given me a heart attack! I have a family history of death caused by hyperthyroidism destroying our hearts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:53 PM
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I'm sorry for you and your boyfriend OP. This is typically common treatment for women by medical professionals. Can you believe some medical professionals believe that black people don't feel pain? I'm mixed race and I didn't get given any pain relief to take hike after I had surgery for a lump on my abdomen. I have arthritis as well, I can't take ibuprofen because I have gastritis and I'm on steroids. I asked for painkillers and get treated like a druggy. It took months for me to be given Napro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:53 PM
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That's awful but I'm really not surprised. I've had experiences with white social workers taking my childhood abuse less serious because my mother is mixed race. There was and still is an ignorant belief that violence/ abuse is inherent and acceptable in our cultures. I've never been able to find a therapist of colour. There are just some things only people with our background will understand. It's terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:43 PM
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She'll remember you when she wises up. Just like I remember the older women who warned me about my decades older boyfriend when I was 20. If she's anything like me she will be thankful you at least tried. Honestly I don't think my brain even formed until I was mid to late 20s. Twenty to twenty- five year women are just as vulnerable as 18 year old teenagers in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:49 AM
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They see women as free Uber prostitutes. It's so disrespectful. I would get men old enough to be my father or grandfather thinking I would want to see their wrinkly old ballsacks. They aim far too above themselves but women with a healthy self esteem will see through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:29 AM
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I would say most men claiming to want a relationship are looking for hook ups. They know they'll get more matches that way. Now the only way around that is to make them wait a very long time while you vet them. Most men won't hang around and that's far better than being used and feeling awful. We've got to be much smarter and to be fair, it's not difficult. Most men are not intelligent enough to hide their true intentions for long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:22 AM
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Lol I've got arthritis and heart problems, yet I assembled a divan bed myself. I weigh next to nothing, so I'm sure an able bodied man has no problems. I moved into my flat almost 9 months ago, I had an air mattress for a couple of months and I had hardly any money yet I managed to get a brand new bed. Most women I know would do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:46 AM
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This is such a great post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:39 AM
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I'm in the same boat as you. I've been through every type of child abused you can imagine. Yes my mother is of Jamaican descent but it doesn't excuse the shit she put me through. In the past I've shared way too much about my family and childhood with ex partners. Two ex partners met my mother and disliked her instantly. I think in the future I will just keep it vague/simple until I trust a man. I will still never tell him everything though. Most men will blame us when it wasn't our fault, especi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:39 AM
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Yep and a person isn't inferior just because they cannot forgive either. Or you can forgive without having the person who harmed you in your life anymore. I've never met a single person I've forgiven who hasn't hurt me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:33 AM
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I don't believe in it, unless we are talking about cats of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 08:38 PM
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I'm not sure I could ever type a reply which gives your eloquent comment justice. I also say that Governments cause cure 90% of society's problems if they got serious and tackled child abuse. Child abuse is costing us all too much. Whilst I know it occurs across all socioeconomic groups, it's definitely worse in working class society. Social Services were a waste of space. I actually got compensation from them after raising a formal complaint about their neglect of me in childhood. No money will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:34 PM
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I agree. This one of the reasons I say we are the stronger sex. I'm the only one out of four siblings not to turn to crime, drug/drink addiction and abuse. I was abused the most because I wasn't my stepfather's biological daughter and I have brown skin. My three brothers are fucked but the eldest one refuses to take responsibility the most, he is the worst one because he has two sons that he has abandoned. Us women don't get the benefit of the doubt. One example I like to think of is Azealia Ban…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:20 PM
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At least if you have your own condoms, he can't poke holes in them. I definitely wouldn't trust their own condoms, especially if I wasn't on another form of birth control as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:06 AM
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I'm so sorry. That's really fucked up! There's no helping these people as they see themselves as perfect people. The worst thing about having narcissistic parents is you can't escape them. My mother gets worse as she gets older and as we flew the nest so to speak. My mother had a very traumatic childhood, her own mother died when she was only 12. Feeling sorry for her meant I just took her abuse and made excuses for her. She would get drunk and talk about her childhood and it would make me feel …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:58 AM
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So disgusting 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:52 AM
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I can relate. My mother is a narcissist and my stepfather a drink addicted abusive piece of shit. My mother didn't see me as her daughter but as her competition and fucked me up. I have permanent health problems because she starved me, I wouldn't get to eat for days at a time. I'm no longer her supply and she tried to ruin my reputation. Thank goodness I have pages after pages of evidence from Social Services of the shit they both put me through. I've had so much therapy. CBT and DBT are very he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:28 AM
106

You would be safer sleeping in your car. In fact I did just that last year when someone I was living with threatened to stab us all up. He is too dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:22 AM
79

Please get out OP, I think he will rape you. He is dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:21 AM
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I'm getting really bad feelings about this. I think if you stay there, he is seriously going to hurt you. Is there anywhere else you can go? Like ASAP? This man is a predator and he isn't going to take no for an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:18 AM
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Yep it's very disturbing. I don't have Instagram and don't come across these images often but I know these women aren't even real. Editing is one thing but these overblown lips and various other body modifications aren't good either. Men will never understand the pressure women are out under to look a certain way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:27 PM
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I saw that, it was awful. They all found it amusing the boy looked up a website named with a sexual slur aimed at women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:20 PM
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I'm a millennial as well and you were right. My mother was quite strict and I never wore a mini skirt or any skirt until I was 16. I was a bit of a tomboy really. Young girls and teenagers now absolutely have it harder where that is concerned and it's awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:16 PM
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Thank you! I'll give those a try 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:49 PM
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It's terrible. It reminds me of cat pee as well. No wonder it's suggested men pee in the garden to keep foxes away. I don't want any man using my toilet because they can't do it properly. There's no excuse for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:47 PM
30

Ugh 🤢🤒🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:45 PM
29

I found something strange in a men's toilet that I'll never forget. It was a little girl's head band soaked in piss in the urinal. The women's toilets were always far cleaner. They aren't piss soaked for a start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:16 AM
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Yep. Even though I'm a U.K. size 4 I suffer with bloating due to IBS. I take three peppermint capsules three times a day. It does help. When I was on the antidepressant Sertraline, I would wake up with a flat stomach but by 13:00, I would look 6 months pregnant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:33 AM
15

No man could ever pay me enough to have his kids. I would rather die, seriously. I can't wait until I reach menopause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:27 AM
83

My days cleaning a restaurant were interesting. Filling up the toilet rolls holders and the hand soap dispensers in the ladies toilets every shift. The mens toilets? Very rarely. Says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:58 AM
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That's because we wipe our genitals and arses, scrote! So many men whinge about this, whilst they put their dick dripping with urine back in their pants. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:56 AM
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WTF? They don't do anything but sleep 8 hours a night and work 8 hours a day. Stressful my arse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:07 PM
7

Brilliant 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:18 PM
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I'm not a mother either and I think it's awful. A new mother has bigger things on her mind taking care of her newborn, rather than losing weight. What's a man's excuse for putting on weight then? My cousin let me in on some things I didn't know about when women get pregnant. It seems like society treats mothers as burdens when we would all die out if it wasn't for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:15 PM
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Gave me a laugh on OLD though. Men that would send a nasty message if you did not respond in an hour. We are drowning in dick on there. So they would throw a hissy fit like it's going to make us want to talk to them or something lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:18 AM
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He sounds nutty with a hint of mint lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:14 AM
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Men love playing mind games over text. They will text you constantly to start with. Once they feel they've got you they'll start leaving you on read for hours, days or even longer. It's like their relationship with us is nothing but a power struggle with us. I've only met one man who didn't do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:09 AM
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I hate it when they do that. It might be understandable if I didn't reply for over a day but that's just being pushy. Best to block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:07 AM
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This happened to my mother. Her story is a bit different because she met my stepfather whilst still pregnant with me. He started beating her. He even smashed a bottle over her head. She still has the scar. He is a catholic, so when he got her pregnant with my three younger brothers, the abuse got worse and she was trapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:32 PM
43

Ugh military men. I used to live in a place that was full of them and one harassed me whilst I was filling up my car with petrol. Saying that he I was exotic and he saw women just like me abroad. You can spot them a mile off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:17 PM
33

I saw some other scrote wrote a comment about how older men are above a younger woman's league? Seriously? There's no way he believes the deluded nonsense he typed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:00 PM
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Now why would we be jealous of anyone who bags an old scrote? They wish. These men are bottom of the barrel. I know because I've been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:53 PM
77

That's so gross. I'm in my mid 30s and 18 year olds are like kids to me! Unthinkable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:51 PM
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Cheap get deserves everything he gets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:47 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:43 PM
8

Thank you. Reddit is a misogynistic hellhole outside of this sub. The whole post was about a man who claims his girlfriend falsely accused him of rape for no reason. I know false claims happen but they're rare and nothing that guy said was ringing true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:37 PM
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I've never allowed a man to get me pregnant. As sick as this sounds but I've been raped and I wonder what would have happened to me if it happened after I was old enough to start menstruating. Oh and I just got banned from a legal advice sub for talking about statistics which prove rape victims pretty much never get a conviction. Men use pregnancy to control us. No man gets to cum in me unless we are in a long term relationship and after we've both been tested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 12:18 PM
24

Aww! Men could learn a lot from roosters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:32 AM
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I left my LVM in December 2020. A lot of the advice here really helped me and he turned abusive. I'm still working on myself and have my own beautiful home. I've got no interest in men right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:12 AM
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It pisses me off that it's so easy for men to do, especially when every woman doesn't have access to an abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:07 PM
11

Oh no! I like Cheetos too. They aren't as common as Wotsits over here but I'll buy them now and again. Hey, at least we don't sit eating them whilst wearing ripped boxers in our mothers' basements.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:40 PM
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Yep he did. My step grandmother is a very selfish woman and I could never do the things she has done. Oh and this woman was racially abusive to one of her daughters as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 11:20 AM
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Can people please read this as I've seen some discrimination on here against people with HSV 1 affecting their oral health. Most people have this and it's usually parents or adults kissing children! Both my mother and stepfather kissed my three brothers and on the lips and they certainly weren't educated enough to know they could pass on cold sores to us. I had my first outbreak at 8 years old. It's not fair to compare people like me to men slinging genital herpes around to different women. The …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:07 AM
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I'm don't think you're being fair at all. Most people get HSV 1 from their parents or adults kissing them as children. That's how I got it. I first had cold sores when I was only 8 years old! Why do people like me deserve the same stigma as mostly men going around raw dogging women and passing it on? I don't give men blow jobs ever. So it's unlikely I've ever given a man a HSV 1 infection on his genitals. Since I was 8 years old, I've only had two outbreaks and that's because I'm immunosuppresse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:54 AM
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This poor woman! Thank you for planning to help. This woman cannot consent to this, I hope she gets help in time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:32 AM
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This is such a huge burden placed on daughters. Do you have a brother? The daughter is expected to do everything and I don't blame you for moving out. My parents are evil, well I hope my three younger brothers will be taking care of them because I certainly won't! I have a heart condition anyway so they'll probably outlive me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:29 AM
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I'm sorry you've been through it as well. My grandfather's behaviour was terrible and I think him treating me so well was his way of trying to make it up to my mother. I don't know if he actually ever apologised but she did forgive him. It caused so much damage to my mother and uncle. My auntie was sent to live with a family friend and she's the only one who is able to live a normal life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:26 AM
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It pisses me off that he will never see justice! Let's face it, even paedophiles from normal backgrounds do not face justice either. Whilst men are in charge, men can rape everyone as much as they like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:06 AM
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I can't stop laughing at your profile photo! I'm just imaging a scrote eating Cheetos in his mother's basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:46 AM
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Exactly! We know if the shoe was on the other foot that he wouldn't take care of us. We find much older men repulsive for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:24 AM
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Fantastic post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:59 PM
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One of the good things about having an overactive thyroid is I am much bolder now. I speak up when something upsets me and get things done. I wouldn't be surprised if it's knocked my oestrogen out of whack as well. I think a combination of being in my mid 30s and hyperthyroidism is making me intolerant to male bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:55 PM
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Most of them have bigger tits than I do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:49 PM
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I've heard people say that as long as a woman is over 30 then large age gaps are fine. I really disagree with that. Even at 36, I know a man 20 years older will still know how to manipulate me. It is grooming and only benefits the old scrote. This man is scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:39 PM
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She's doing much better these days. She has met a man that seems far more supportive. I don't blame you for preferring to date women either. I just feel like 9 times out of 10, women are far more empathetic. Yes we become a target for LVM. If I met a man again then it's something I wouldn't tell him about until I'm sure he's a decent person. Fortunately I can still live a normal ish life but it's still a vulnerability. Think I might do a post for chronically ill queens soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:31 PM
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Yep. At 12 years old I didn't think much of it but I had been abducted when I was 10. He should have been sensitive to that but when are men ever sensitive to us? He made me feel so bad about enforcing a boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:27 PM
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I hope so too. A lady down the bottom of the page suggested it might be a scammer. That seems likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:26 PM
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Please tell me that profile is a prank?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:24 PM
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Sadly this doesn't surprise me. My grandfather had an affair with my grandmother's best friend. When my poor grandmother died of a thyroid storm at only 37 years old, my grandfather promptly moved the best friend in. Then he put my mother and uncle in care because my grandmother's best friend didn't want to take care of my grandfather's children, only hers. That hurt has carried on to us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:15 PM
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He was a real arsehole. He would ask me for money and owes just everyone in my family money. He isn't liked at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:31 PM
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I hate this so much. I remember when I was 12 and my uncle hugged me when I didn't want him to. He shouted out me and said he wasn't a paedophile. It made me feel horrible. It's part of the reason I make sure I don't force cuddles and kisses on my cat. I say "kisses' to her and she'll rub her head on my face if she wants to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:44 PM
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That's awful. I have a friend who is the same age as me (36) and she had breast cancer at 35. Her husband cheated on her and left her. The bastard put her through so much pain. Men lack empathy. I'm hesitant to get into a relationship again because I have health problems and there are always scrotes who want to take advantage of that. I hear too many times of men leaving women with cancer, it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 09:36 AM
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I'm wondering what the way around this? So far, I've never come across a man that wants to do these things in the bedroom. Maybe we have to record ourselves sitting a man down and telling him we do not consent to any violent acts during sex and sending it to a friend? Because we all know if we get killed this way that they will trash our legacy and say we were into violent sex in court. I'm afraid of coming across a man like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 08:10 AM
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Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:58 AM
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I've even heard women can lose their ability to orgasm from it. Yeah no thanks! My orgasms matter more to me then worrying about some scrote and his beef curtains insults. I'm so glad I'm mostly immune to the pressure put on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:55 AM
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Men can come as hairy as they are but us? We are expected to have no hair below our eyelashes and we are nowhere near as hairy as them anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:49 AM
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I was so shocked by that. Going hairless down there can cause so many issues for some women, like bumps from ingrown hairs, intense itchiness when the pubic hair grows back and so on. Then if you're like me, the same height and weight as a 11/12 year old girl, I feel much more comfortable having my secondary sexual characteristics. There's something wrong with men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:45 AM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. How have things changed so much in such a short space of time? Men are so depraved and their love of porn isn't helping. They are not interested in pleasing us, only hurting us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:02 PM
107

Vanilla and proud here! He can choke his meat but he is not allowed to choke me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:00 PM
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I was so glad when he left. He was also in the paper for mistreating one of the employees there. An all round arsehole and weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:07 PM
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I couldn't get through his self absorbed rant. Even without seeing your post first, I would have known he was the issue. I watched the video last night. He is full of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:38 PM
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Thank goodness you're out of that relationship. The audacity of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:26 PM
47

Karma is real and does it taste so sweet! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:20 PM
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I really hope he isn't putting his daughter's life at risk for weaponised incompetence! So now she's got no choice but to do the sleeping routine every night. He is downright evil!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:15 PM
3

That's so awful. In 2014 I had an operation. When I came round I heard a nurse make comments on my weight and how I was too light to operate on. Thing is I don't know if I could have been hallucinating or hearing things? So I didn't report it. Black women have a hard time being taken seriously by doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:16 AM
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I had a male GP who was obsessed with my ethnicity. Every time I saw him he would ask me about my ethnic background. I remember he once grabbed my hand to check for signs of anaemia and he looked at me like I was an animal in a zoo, he creeped me out. I had another one that kept massaging my head when I complained of a headache. He was really tall and would comment on how short and slim I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:13 AM
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Do you live alone? I highly suggest you get some cameras too. I managed to get a cheap one on Amazon for £30 and it works well. How secure is your door?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:17 AM
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Wouldn't surprise me if he was jealous and just wanted to "bring her down a peg or two". One thing not talked about much is how jealous men can be of their girlfriend/wife's talents. If a man did those sorts of things for me then I would appreciate it. I know most women would never dream of behaving that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:41 PM
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I hate the way so many men expect us to pay for the mistakes of their ex partners. It gets worse as they get older too, they become more avoidant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:49 PM
44

I'm actually really shocked at that. Is this purely down to smoking? My mother did hard drugs, is a hard drinker and smoker. She didn't lose her teeth until she was 50. Very sad state of affairs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:45 PM
75

Whilst I'm sure women of all ages are screwing up their faces at these guys and their ugly selves on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:43 PM
98

Didn't you know? Only women have fertility problems as they get older. Mens' sperm never goes crusty and they're never responsible /s 😆😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:40 PM
33

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:36 PM
66

It truly is. My grandfather was always so smart and you get men these days turning up to a date in grey jogging bottoms and a stained muscle tee shirt. Men definitely have never had it so good with all the FWB PickMes around, back then they would have had to put a ring on her finger and court her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:23 PM
15

Yes absolutely! They just want to feel desired and they'll manipulate you any way they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:24 PM
35

Nice one sis! Yes they do. They want to keep certain women on the back burner in case it doesn't work with whichever woman they're currently interested in. These types are very easy to spot. They're usually the ones who pop up with a HNY text as well. Sever any access they have to you. They hate being left on read or blocked lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:39 PM
67

Good on you sis! Did you block him? Because I can guarantee he will hit you up again one night when he is feeling horny if you haven't. What I've noticed is with some men, they'll see you're guarded and rightly so, so they'll love bomb you until you're ready to feel vulnerable with them. Then they'll start taking days, weeks to answer your texts in the hopes you'll chase them and boost their fragile egos. It's so easy to spot after a while. I don't like mind games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:30 PM
407

Yep and I see a lot of men writing about how they wish they could go back to the "good old days" when women needed a husband to survive. They all want their own sex and household slave at home popping out babies for them. They just don't measure up and don't even try to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:42 AM
184

Nothing worse than men playing mind games. Texting enthusiastically for a few days then not replying for weeks on end. Expecting a woman to chase them. No thanks. I don't do emotionally unavailable men, immature men and abusive men. I expect open and honest direct communication. Nothing less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:03 AM
3

Ugh! So good that you had sense though. Us women are so different to men, I don't know any 38 woman who would be comfortable dating a 23 year old man. Even if so, the dynamics are totally different anyway. It's all about control and an ego boost for these old scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:50 AM
7

This post really got scrotes and PickMes mad. Well done to the mods for keeping on top of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:44 AM
7

Are you being sarcastic? Because if you think a man much older than a woman and with much more life experience can't take advantage of her, I don't know what to tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:36 AM
80

Us women are conditioned to feel bad about everything we do to protect ourselves from shitty men. I'm hoping it's something she will grow out of as she gets older. I definitely think we should be doing this type of research before we even meet men for a first date. I read on another sub about another woman who did her research too late, the man she had been having sex with had a long term girlfriend and she possibly gave this man herpes which he can now pass onto his long term gf. We can save ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:11 PM
17

Ugh 🤮🤢 https://wtop.com/science/2015/05/microbiologists-tests-show-beards-are-full-of-poop-bacteria/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 09:07 PM
20

Yep. I got a scrote triggered on this page already 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:10 PM
8

I'm really sorry to hear that. Your father is one man you should feel safe around. The anxiety around this sort of thing is part of why I never had children. It's a scary, dangerous would for girls. You deserved better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:20 PM
17

If it was up to me, this sort of thing would be talked about in schools. Maybe I could set up a petition or something. I was so naïve and my parents didn't even teach me about stranger danger. More needs to be done to protect girls and young women from this predatory behaviour from older scrotes. I know some excellent women who talk to their children about this sort of thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:17 PM
24

The age of consent doesn't even stop them all. I was groomed by a 26 year old man when I was 12-14 and then I had a much older scrote lie about his age when I was 20. Luckily I wasn't with him long. This behaviour makes me so angry because I've been directly harmed by it. I want to save other young women/girls being damaged the way I was. Yes they will hide it if the girl is under 18, they know it's wrong and they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:14 PM
169

A man old enough to be her father. So disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:07 PM
32

Totally even though it's morally and ethically repugnant. They're happy to waste these young women's lives and abuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:05 PM
115

Preying on a 23 year old? WTF? I'm only 36 and wouldn't touch any man in his 20s. What's the matter with these pervy men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:27 PM
3

Thank you, I'll have a read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:40 PM
28

Men that age not being attractive really says something! I thought I had it bad seeing men my age (36) which makes it even more ridiculous when old scrotes think they have a chance. It's a sad state of affairs. They don't have any self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:08 PM
21

Black furniture is so classy. Can't believe that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:59 PM
39

They are. I'm slim and they make the mistake of thinking they can talk that shit to me. I'm not a PickMe that gets off tearing fellow women down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:58 PM
20

Thank goodness you gave that lumbering gobbler the red card! The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:56 PM
28

I'm sure Amal would run a mile if George Clooney lifted up onion scented armpits towards her and had a cheesy knob. Poor hygiene is such a turn off, I've seen so many posts on reddit of women complaining about their smelly men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:51 PM
28

Thank you for believing us. I've had people try to shut me down when bringing this up previously. White feminine beauty is still the seen as the most desirable and top standard. I've noticed this is even more pronounced when travelling to different European countries with a pretty, red haired Irish friend of mine. I don't want to detract from the original post though as I do still get treated better than women who aren't considered attractive. I was just pointing out there are different tiers to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:02 AM
95

I also don't feel pretty privilege is the same for all women either. As a mixed woman, I've been told I've been beautiful. However a White woman who isn't as beautiful or equally as beautiful will generally get better treatment than me, same with Asian women. I've noticed beautiful Black women get even less privilege. Still, the point stands. I grew up ugly due to severe neglect from my parents. I remember the horrible things boys used to say and how they would try to chat me up as an adult. It'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:22 PM
30

Fantastic! Well done on messaging her 🎉🎊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:14 PM
17

I find with most of them they try to make you feel bad because you don't want to take on their kids or date them. I've been called every name under the sun as a childfree woman only being interested in childfree men. They can't stand it yet men go on about not wanting to date single mothers constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:05 PM
9

Exactly this. Whenever there's an article about a woman teacher who sexually abuses a boy, I read the comment section. Almost always you'll see women saying how terrible it is and empathising with the victim. Different comments from men though. Comments like "where was this teacher when I was at school?" Or "get in there son!". It's sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:49 PM
7

Thanks to toxic masculinity men will high five other men who were abused by their women teachers, then turn around and blame all women for the lack of support instead. Men are their own worst enemies and they're the reason sexual abuse of boys by women isn't taken as seriously by other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:41 PM
10

Old deluded men who read anything about a younger woman not wanting their old penis get so mad. I've just seen something similar on another sub today. They have to bite and they're pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:37 PM
3

I've seen a sub on here that is horrifying as well. I can see the naïve young women that I used to be. I hope they wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:35 PM
14

Reminds me of when I went on a girls holiday with a friend to Greece when we were in our late 20s. A couple of German boys started shouting out sexual expletives to us, they must have only been about 12. They were quite sweet previously and as I can speak some German, I had spoken to them before. We were horrified but I do wonder how men would have reacted if it were 12 year old girls. Bet they would prey on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:32 PM
36

Such a piece of shit. His penis matters and nothing else. A lack of empathy is very disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:50 PM
6

I've found that. One avoidant man I was dating had a father who was very passive. He claimed his mother had some sort of factitious disorder and that she was extremely manipulative. Luckily I was at the age where I could see he projected his hatred of his mother onto other women and just wanted to use us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:39 AM
12

Yes! I'm sure any self respecting younger woman would want children with a man her own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:35 AM
11

I agree. I'm sick of people saying that just because a woman is 30 or over 30, that a man ten or twenty years older is okay for her. No it is not! We are still at very different stages of life and they still have more power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:40 AM
17

Completely agree. I grew up in an abusive home with drug/drink addicted narcissistic parents. I was kicked out at 17 and I feel my trauma from my parents made me seek out the arms of LVM. Well when I was 20, I met a man who lied about his age. He said he was early 30s, which in hindsight was still too old for me but I sound out 6 months later he was 44! He was manipulative and abusive. Made me feel inferior because he was white and I'm mixed. The lies got a lot worse and I found out he was sleep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:28 AM
30

I only know one guy who is still fit and muscular in his mid 50s. He is East Asian and looks very young for his age. Just one man whereas I know lots of mid 50s women who make the same effort. Says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:49 PM
14

Yep. Even worse are the ones who employ you anyway just to fuck with you. Had to me a few years ago and messed up my health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 05:54 PM
40

I'm a WOC too, of multiple ethnic groups and I've experienced this behaviour so many times myself. I try not to react as much as I can because their insecurities are not my problem but I'm only human. It's pure jealousy and I'm glad I can look at a beautiful woman and think "good for her" instead of trying to hurt her. I feel sorry for women who have to worry about their scrote undressing other women with their eyes. It's led to me trying not to make eye contact with anyone on occasion and it sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 05:52 PM
4

Yep old/older men are just as tight as the young ones. My ex next door neighbour is 61. She told me of two men she dated who were her age. The first one came round for dinner nearly every night and never took her out. The second one complained about spending fuel on the 10 mile round trip to eat her food nearly every night. He took her out just once, to a pub round the corner and only bought her one drink! Her ex husband was a wealthy stockbroker and he was tight fisted as well. Fortunately she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:43 AM
48

Yep, it's a lot easier for them. Also as they don't carry babies, it gives them even less of an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:39 AM
74

I don't understand fat men at all. Unless they're on corticosteroids or have something like hypothyroidism (which affects women 9 times more anyway) then there is no excuse. They have higher muscle mass and metabolisms. They don't have to take hormonal bird control which fucks them up. I'm 36, on high dose corticosteroids and anti-thyroid meds. If I can stay slim then so can they!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:51 AM
19

This sickens me so much. Commented and a scrote who brigades on anti-kink websites told me to "clutch my pearls harder". I bet he is into this nasty stuff. Men love hurting women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:33 PM
3

I commented on that post before seeing this one. Thankfully most people saw sense but there were still people minimising what that boyfriend was up to. That guy should be turned into the police. I bet he watches CP as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:23 PM
27

I had an experience with a closeted gay man. It was awful and he made me feel like shit. I found text messages of him phone from seedy sex sites. He even saved someone as "kinky" in his phone. He would get out of sex by saying his stomach felt "bubbly". Thankfully I wasn't with him for long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:21 PM
35

I've never faked an orgasm and I never well. I expect to be pleasured and if I'm not, he will know about it. I'm one of those lucky women that can orgasm from intercourse so it's not exactly difficult for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:09 PM
10

I feel the same. It's offensive when they try to get to my place before I'm ready. I won't have it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:29 PM
73

That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:07 PM
46

Yep and the equivalent abusers in the U.K. were all hushed up. There was a B & B in London called Elm Guest House where young boys were pimped out to high level men. A South Asian boy called Vishal Mehrotra went missing near there and he is linked to a paedophile gang who were also believed to procure boys for Government officials. A brave journalist over here called Sonia Poulton did a documentary on it and was then shunned by major broadcasters. I'm so sick of it. As far as I'm concerned paedo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:31 AM
14

My stepfather. I had a pet cat which my evil mother had dumped in a car park. Before that though when my stepfather was still living with us. He would shout at me for holding my cat and my mother for giving him attention. My stepfather was a violent alcoholic and my mother kicked him out when I was 10/11. That man was jealous of me and my brothers (his children).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:22 AM
2

He may have won an Emmy but he is scum in my eyes. Any person that harms an animal is a piece of shit. You did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:15 AM
5

Women initiating is losing situation so you're right. We don't have to do it and we won't do it as we don't want our time wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:34 PM
1

Ugh as someone with an interstitial lung disease, black mould makes me gag. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:55 PM
2

I do the same. I bulk buy all hygiene items including loo roll and kitchen roll. I decant my hand soap into dispensers and keep a couple of bottles of it under the kitchen sink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:53 PM
1

Nasty rass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:50 PM
1

Lol 🤣 at least small dogs are cute though. I remember one short guy I dated, a very angry little man. He tried to knock over a bunch of tall men like skittles on the way to the toilets. He was very lucky he didn't get knocked tf out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:44 PM
5

shudders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:13 PM
9

That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:40 PM
24

They are. Old arse men looking to steal a woman's youth, naïveté and waste her time. Don't fall for it ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:36 PM
1

I know a woman like this too. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:33 PM
83

Yep I've worked with people like that. He's looking for an easy ride and a promotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:30 PM
8

Yes. My mother used to be a sex worker. My grandmother died when my mother was 12. My grandfather was having an affair with my grandmother's best friend and promptly moved her in after my grandmother died. My mother and uncle were put into care. My mother ran away and was abused by men as a way to survive. She was drinking heavily and I'm not surprised. I have never judged her for this but shitty people from my place of birth keep dragging it up. I found out about it when a school friend was tol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:23 PM
7

I was very disappointed to see the reactions to porn being discussed on a medical sub recently. Some doctors were talking about how they spoke to men with ED due to porn use. I only remember one person on the sub describing porn as the destructive industry as it is. I thought doctors were supposed to be smart, sad to see so many defending it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:16 PM
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Even just from my anecdotal conversations with my friends as early teens and adult women now, I know you're right. Rape is underreported anyway but I think most women have been here sexually assaulted/raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:41 PM
24

Too right, he doesn't deserve to be any where near either of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:14 PM
20

This is so fucked up. Cats are the cleanest animals around and I have no qualms about kissing my cat's head. Also we don't kiss with our teeth so what's the brushing teeth after thing about? That man is crazy and jealous of Crumb. Glad she dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:12 PM
20

See this is another thing. Don't these women think about women like you? Who want children and haven't been able to have them yet or at all? It's tactless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:15 PM
11

I'm going to try this, thank you. It makes me angry as I respect the choice of people who have children. We deserve the same in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:07 PM
31

I find it also minimises the love I had for my ex boyfriends. The comment I get is "when you really a love a man, you'll want to have his child". How sexist is that? I like children but I prefer cats. Plus as a woman with crap genetics and autoimmune disorders, I don't want to pass my genes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:06 PM
14

I get this a lot too sis. I'm 36 and knew since a very young age that I would never have children. My ex next door neighbour was the worst for it. She had her last baby at 43 and is now 61. She kept telling me it's not too late. I think people still think there's something wrong with childfree people, especially childfree women. I also think some of it is jealousy over the freedom we have. I know it's probably wrong but I'm tempted to just say I can't have children, to embarrass them into silenc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:01 PM
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That's so sad for his new woman. Honestly women would be better off getting a sperm donor and having a baby on their own than letting some scrote waste their fertile years. Glad you got out and you did well for yourself though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:34 AM
11

I feel this. For me developing multiple autoimmune disorders and ending up hospitalised scuppered my dreams. I haven't given up and still hope to get to a point where I can go back to them. Also for those of us with abusive parents, sometimes running to the first man who takes interest can be used as a means to escape. Then learning you're just running from one abuser to another. These things take time to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:22 AM
10

I hope you're not being too hard on yourself. The fault lies with men. We live in a 24/7 age with unfettered access to porn, dating websites and so on. So many men now try to just have FWBs, not even give the woman a title of girlfriend, let alone wife. I will never judge a woman for this as it's a man's job to put that ring on the finger, they just want to be Peter Pans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:19 AM
7

This is so true. I've made this mistake in the past. I don't think I'll ever live with a man again, marriage or not. I got tired of cleaning up after them and cooking for them. I don't want children and they behave like children. It's even harder when you have multiple chronic illnesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:15 AM
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No, usually I'll give them some story about a male friend going to Thailand and using prostitutes. I'll try and make it sound like I don't have a problem with it so he will open up to me with his feelings about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:36 PM
10

I reckon he was. He was so butthurt that I knew the post hit him personally. It was about a young woman who went swimming, only to be hit on by some nasty perv in around 30/40 decades older. I said I speak for most women when I say we don't want to be hit on we we go swimming and it being someone so much older makes it even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:06 AM
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Your point 4 is the worst part for me. I'm a petite lady who is half South Asian. Having men messaging me and enquiring about my "tight pussy" is the worst and I'm going to be honest makes me think of paedophilia. I had one black ex boyfriend who after dating me, heavily pursued other Indian and Bangladeshi women I worked with due to this stereotype. It was humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:04 AM
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Even though I'm half South Asian, not East Asian, I hope I can still chime in. I'm also part Jamaican and Irish. I have been fetishised by all kinds of Asian men. All women get fetishised but I think it's worse for WOC. For me, what I hate the most is White men thinking they're better than me and how pissed they get when I have the "audacity" to reject them. One of my best friends is Thai, she gets hassled so much it's unreal. Wouldn't it be nice to be seen as a woman first and not an ethnicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:57 AM
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I'm guessing this is aimed at East Asian women? I'm half South Asian and the way East Asian women are fetishised, especially by White men is disgusting. I like that you included the innocence of Black women in this discussion also because it's true. I've seen Asian men make so many comments disrespecting Asian women because they are desired more and being jealous of them. It's pathetic and I hate the mentality that certain men think they own women who are the same ethnicity as them. No one owns …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:49 AM
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Yep the statistics on men/women's orgasms back them up. They orgasm every time and we don't. Says it all. Scrote replies "you're fucking the wrong men" that would be most men for all of us then lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:08 PM
22

Lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:06 PM
53

I agree. I see men who pay for escorts as rapists. It's something I alway try to find out about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:59 PM
64

It always pleases me to hear women dumping LV men after joking here. I did the same a year ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:40 PM
62

Had another man mansplain to me earlier on another women's sub that there's nothing wrong with large age gap relationships and I'm trying to control everyone's preferences lol. I told him he was probably a predator himself. He took it all so personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:38 PM
59

There's always posts about us somewhere. I just laugh about them letting us take up so much spaces in their empty heads. LV scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:33 PM
30

Wouldn't that be nice lol. I've got 6 seasons of Power to get through!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:28 PM
9

I remember doing that when I used to work in retail too. So awful we should have to go through that. I just wish my managers would have banned them altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:22 AM
9

The only time where I felt like I got a genuine compliment from a man with no ill intent was a gay man I met who complimented me on my waist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:16 AM
6

I wouldn't want to date a 60 year old if I was 42 either. From now on, if I do date again then he will be no older than two years my senior. I'm done with older men preying on me. Even at 36, a much older man still has much more life experience and the ability to manipulate me. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:12 AM
26

Yep. I complimented a woman on her braids the other day, she said thanks and we both kept it moving. Are men even capable of that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:07 AM
9

58 and perving on an 18 year old? Disgusting, old letch. Do they think life is one big porn movie or something? Leave women and girls alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:04 AM
8

I've had them too. Nothing ever good comes from them, numbers I forgot to block!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:53 AM
6

Bloody cheek of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:13 AM
10

If I came across a real filthy house I would expect a huge payment. If there's pests in the property then I would leave. I used to work as a domestic cleaner to support myself through college. The amount of times I had a woman's creepy husband chatting me up was horrible. I'm glad I no longer have to do it. Oh and Miele vacuum cleaners are the best! Pricey but worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:07 AM
10

You deserve so much better than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:03 AM
4

Yes. I want at least a Yankee Candle or something similar. I love candles but not huge ones which are gone within 3 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:49 AM
9

That's despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:47 AM
9

Ugh. I commented elsewhere on reddit about this recently. My ex spent £100 on a Pandora bracelet for me with cupcake charms as I like baking. The thing broke within 6 months. It fell apart and I had to put it in my handbag. I hope to never get one again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:43 AM
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So true! It doesn't help when you have family members who scrub you like you're a dirty pot but your brothers weren't made to wash. Even the simple fact men can carry yeast on their penis is nowhere near as acknowledged as it is for women. Expecting a woman to suck an unwashed penis is abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:31 AM
14

When I was 20, I met a guy who claimed to be 38 but really he was in his mid 40s. His friends would make jokes like "I thought you were at school". I'm petite and could have easily passed for 15-16. They still weren't high value enough to challenge him though. I couldn't see then what I see now, a manipulative pervert out to use me and waste my time. They're foxes out to prey on the rabbit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:44 AM
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I agree too. No way was I mature enough to consent to relationships/sex with older men at any age under 23. I agree with you, we could save so many teenagers/young women trauma with laws like these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:36 AM
11

I would never accept this behaviour from a woman friend but funnily enough women have enough morals not to prey on teenagers. If a friend of mine did this, I would tell her about herself and ghost her. I hope this man confronts him. It's wrong yet so many men see nothing wrong in it. This poor girl is going to feel pretty hurt once she gets into her late 20s/30s and matures enough to understand what this 35 year old scrote has done. I'm 36 and even a 30 year old man seems young to me, our tastes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:33 AM
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Same thing happened to my ex boyfriend's LV best friend. His wife actually left him for a man she met. He deserved it the old pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:27 AM
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I feel sorry for the women of this men. I got so fucking sick of dirtbag men on OLD looking for me to be their third, it was ridiculous. Men have got it too easy and we have the power as a collective to change that. Very few decent men around these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:25 AM
55

I'll never understand this either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:54 AM
56

Plenty of men want to waste a woman's time and think nothing of having a baby and living with her to do so. He doesn't want to marry her otherwise he would have already done it. The idea of proposing to a man is humiliating. I hope she doesn't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:50 AM
18

Uncouth, vile excuse for man he is. How on earth do they think this is acceptable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:10 AM
20

Same except my stepfather is in his mid 50s. He was very violent as well. My biological father was a married scrote and waste of space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:01 AM
29

My ex boyfriend's were scrotes but 50/50 is something I've never done and it's something I'll never do. I don't even have children and I still did more than them. I'm not paying for it on top. I have chronic illness so in all honesty, my earning potential never matched theirs anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 10:22 PM
24

It's a shame we can't say what we truly mean. I just now as an adult that I could never look at a child that way. It's sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:28 PM
3

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 10:10 AM
103

I'm so sorry. I wish these paedophiles would get bashed over the head with an axe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:41 AM
28

This is so horrible and important. I always remember one incident from my early 20s. I was out with a friend. A man walking by with his girlfriend/wife was almost salivating at the sight of her and then the girlfriend started verbally abusing my friend. It was in a shopping centre and very embarrassing. I vowed never to be like that and I'm not. If my partner can't keep his eyes to himself then he is out the door. It's so disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:40 AM
46

Autofill feature is what told me. One ex looked up a medical condition I told him about on his phone. Pornhub came up on his search history. Another let me borrow his laptop on his auto fill appeared a named transvestite from the midlands. Same guy had a porn website name saved in his messages. That particular guy could rarely orgasm. Makes sense. Finding a porn free guy is so hard but I'll never settle for less again. I know they wouldn't like it if they walked in on me masturbating to some hun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:46 PM
3

I was gobsmacked. I was only young but I knew there was something very wrong with that old man. I've been skinny shamed by a few men actually but that's their problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:16 PM
3

It's really sad. As an IBS D sufferer, maybe I should have let him go ahead. He certainly wouldn't ask another woman again after that 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:14 AM
9

Also sis, I've been targeted by much older men as well. I'm so sorry you went through it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:21 PM
14

Yes it was. Obviously there were men who still wanted it back then. Of my own personal experience I've only had one boyfriend who asked for it and I told him no. It definitely wasn't talked about or celebrated as much as it is now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:19 PM
56

According to porn, women do not have any labia minora. So many women getting labiaplasty and thinking there's something wrong with them whilst mens penises and testicles are allowed to look any way they come. When I first started dating, anal was considered taboo and I'm only 36. Now men expect it like it's nothing. Porn has a lot to answer for and is responsible for so much suffering for women and girls. I hope I live to see the end of the porn industry and can only thank Billie Eilish for spea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:22 PM
30

Same. If it affected men this way it would have been banned long ago. Can't even go out food shopping without some man give you that pornified stare. It's degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:15 PM
6

Oh I know sis, trust me on this. I have an overactive thyroid. I have a BMI of 18.3 at 153cm and 43kg. I literally can eat what I want as my metabolism is on overdrive. It's from experience that I know I can speak on this. I don't think it's right to say it's all about control either as most men do find slim women attractive. I think a lot of it is driven by societal expectations though. I'm 36 and usually when you get to my age, you start to gain some weight. Most others with a BMI like mine ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:58 PM
65

Such a big turn off and downright dangerous. Glad you unmatched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:37 PM
8

I looked at that sub once and they described women as wet, slimy holes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:02 AM
10

You know, I think it's an ego trip for them if they can convince a childfree woman to carry their seed. I'm the same as you and every partner has tried to change my mind. It's something I know I'll never change my mind on. I knew from the age of 6 that I never wanted children. I even got my stepfather to burn my dolls on the bonfire lol. I hate the idea of being tied to a scrote forever because I've carried his child as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:53 AM
38

Men want sex far more than I want marriage, so I hold all the power....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:44 AM
9

I'm so glad I'm childfree and do not want children. It's so true about the old farts and their "want kids someday" profiles. It's exactly about landing a younger woman. They get pissed off because they can't neg me about something I don't want. It does get harder to find childfree men as you get older but it's a boundary I will not compromise on. It's all a lot easier if you're happy being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:42 AM
20

More like 20. I read something once that men prefer a BMI of 19, makes sense when they perve over teenage girls. I would be exhausting having to remain skinny for a piece of shit like the guy in the OP. He has not even put a ring on her finger and is making all sorts of demands. Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 10:58 PM
31

Well done sis! 👏🏽🎉🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:24 PM
23

Exactly this. Gosh I hate women like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:15 PM
42

I commented on this. Her boyfriend is a control freak and a miser. I hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:53 PM
45

The amount of times of been hit up on Facebook by white men with racist stuff on their page is astonishing. One had a girlfriend and I sent her the messages he sent me. I can't stand it. The white men I have dated have just treated me like a woman, my colour didn't come into it. At the same time it's important that they are sensitive to racism and will have your back. I'm from the U.K. and there aren't many black or other men of colour around where I live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:45 AM
10

I have a tortie girl with a very fluffy chest and stomach. Cuddling her is the best and I swear I can feel my blood pressure go down. Pets are pure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:29 AM
62

Yep. This woman doesn't need to sit alone in a bar to find a man, I'm sure she probably gets harassed just walking down the street. That's the reality for most of us. Men are deluded and expect to find a 20 year old naked in their kitchen as if life is one big porn film
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:16 PM
30

This is inappropriate, the question about how much breast you had at 12 made me feel very sick. You not overreacting at all. I used to be of the mind to never complain about medical professionals and I have suffered for it. I think you should consider making a complaint. I had one male GP who was obsessed with my ethnic background. He would stare at me like some animal on display at the zoo and always commented on it without fail. He checked my medium brown skinned hand for signs anaemia and wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:20 AM
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OP the hairs on the back of my neck stood up reading this. I'm so sorry. It really isn't a safe world out there for us women and please don't blame yourself in any way. That man was pure evil!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:10 AM
34

Those poor pets man. Any man who could harm an animal is pure scum. I imagine he could easily move on to killing a woman next. Thank goodness you got away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:28 AM
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I watched the first episode yesterday, I will try and get another two episodes today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:25 AM
12

It's such a good idea. Years ago, I read in the newspaper about a group of four friends who bought houses next to each other on a terraced street. The women would be in and out of each other's houses. Sounds like a great idea. I would love to start a dog free, childfree street/block of flats that are women only. At present, there is too much legislation in the way. Edit. Maybe not dog free but free of dogs that bark for hours on end. I hate that. I would love a German shepherd dog one day. Best …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:22 AM
12

Disney has a lot to answer for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:19 AM
6

I really need to watch the series about her. I hear about her a lot. I watched the first series of Dirty John but not the second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:14 AM
11

I'm happy to hear you found a HVM and sad to hear he has passed away. I agree on the stepmother thing. I knew since the age of 6 that I never wanted to be a mother. I was forced to raise my three younger brothers as my parents were drug addicts only to be blamed by once of them when I was old enough start working. I've done my fair share of childcare. I've been tricked and lied to by men pretending not to be fathers. No thanks. There are childfree men around but a lot of them seem to be Peter Pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:06 AM
12

So true. My ex was useless and so was the one before him! I've lived alone for 7 months and apart from fitting the flooring, I've done pretty much everything myself. Got myself a drill and consulted YouTube lol. I've made mistakes of course but that's how you learn. This is the first beautiful place I've lived in and it's because I made it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:58 AM
5

I'm loving the sound of this sis! That's goals right there! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:53 AM
11

Thank goodness you got rid of that old scrote! Nothing worse than older men preying on younger women. Was he pornsick as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:48 AM
46

Living apart together appeals to me too. I like my own space and I want it to remain clean and cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:43 AM
10

I'm open to the idea of marriage but not children. Trouble is finding a man worth marrying. Men these days want to be chased and from what I'm hearing expect nudes/anal. No thank you. Porn and online dating has fucked most of them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:42 AM
13

Love this. We need to normalise single people feeling complete by themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:11 PM
64

I've noticed there are a lot of men like this now. They want to swap roles with us and talk about how they want to wined and dined. They soon shut up if you mention would they like to be afraid to go outside at night though. I'm not sure what's happening but it's not good. All I know is that I'm not pursuing any man. We don't need to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:05 AM
32

Unfortunately these ZVM are all too common. The only value to them is money, I had an ex like that. Bringing up children and running a household is work that never ends. Not to mention she did work as well, when did his wife ever get a break? She's far too good for him, he doesn't deserve her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:58 AM
33

Especially male surgeons! The one I'm seeing now is a right twat. In fact I don't want him opening up my neck after I've made a complaint about him. He will probably cut my vocal cords.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:45 AM
24

Another thing I forgot to mention. When I was 18 years old and hospital for an autoimmune disease that affected my sight, I had a lump on my vulva. Syphilis was a consideration back then as I had not yet been diagnosed. I told my ophthalmologist as he was in charge of my care. I'm a childhood rape survivor and when he said he wanted to examine it, I asked for a woman medical professional to do it, even if I had to wait. Well no, he said there was no one and he had to do it. It turned out to be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:38 AM
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This is a very important post OP and I thank you for it. I have a lot of health problems and I've been in and out of hospitals, doctor's surgeries etc for all of my adult life. I've come across creepy doctors and the most recent one was a male physiologist who performed my lung function tests. He was quite intrigued with my ethnic background and looks. He made me feel horrible. I hope I don't end up hospitalised again. Not only do we need to protect ourselves from perverted male medical professi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:29 AM
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I think you're right. Money talks and until these clubs lose custom from all women, nothing will get done. I've heard of quite a few cases in England. A barmaid was spiked and found dead in bed the next day. I certainly wouldn't want to go to a pub or club with this going on. I already had my drinks spiked when I was 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:41 PM
44

I can't believe it either. I would have never dared to do that in my mother's house. The liberal attitudes of today are just making it easier for scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:40 AM
47

Calling these men animals is an insult to animals. Animals usually only kill to eat, they need to. I'm really against calling these men animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:38 AM
47

I remember this case, poor Grace, it is heartbreaking. I think there has been more cases like this as well where men lie about women and say they are into rough sex after killing them. It's not safe to go back to a man's house when you've just met him. Of course you get downvoted for saying it but I do not care. I came across a post today on a dating sub where a woman drove to a man's apartment on the first date and he was completely covered up at 11pm where she couldn't make out any of his feat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:30 AM
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Totally. He left his wife Marina, who was battling cancer for Carrie. He is so disgusting, not to mention he is homophobic, Islamophic and racist. I can't believe my fellow Brits voted for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:39 PM
75

Yep Boris Johnson is a misogynist himself. I don't see it happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:51 AM
10

Not to mention the grandkids you will be expected to care for. You're right that parenting never ends and I'm not cut out for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:18 PM
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As a childfree woman, I've been in the situation where these adult children have children and then I'm expected to care for the grandkids. So no offspring full stop for me. He must not be a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:11 PM
14

I agree and this is what I do as well. I'm 36, I expect a man to have married by then. Us women get a pass as it's harder for us to find a quality man than vice versa. Plus men ask for our hand in marriage, I'm not proposing to any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:08 PM
2

A divorced man at my age is less of a red flag than a never married one. I wouldn't date a man with kids though, even if they were adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:06 PM
13

I don't know my Bengali father but in my maternal Jamaican family, the men all cook as well. That's as it should be. Cooking is a life skill and I hate how it's still expected to be a woman only job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:53 PM
36

What's with that? As a woman of colour myself I feel like white men see us as inferior. They see us as easier to pull them a white, blonde young women. It's not true of course, I don't want their crusty old arse anymore than a white woman does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:46 PM
19

Spot on! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:33 PM
16

Amen sis! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:03 PM
10

Keep on doing what you're doing and you won't get used. They definitely treat bedding virgins as a challenge as well. It's his loss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:02 PM
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Hey OP it's normal to feel sad and disappointed. You did the right thing though. You sussed out what he was up to and got rid of him. You're right that men will pretend to be decent in order to get sex. He revealed his cards early and that is good for you. Never have sex until you're ready and you're sure he is a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:22 AM
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Honestly, I'm so glad I'm not a slave to my vagina like men are to their penises. Hyperthyroidism knocked my libido right down and I'm not sad about it. I feel more level headed when dealing with men. There is nothing men won't do to get sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:19 AM
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Lmao! I have autoimmune disorders and they make me very fatigued at times. I love going to bed by 8/9pm sometimes. It's really helps even if I'm still fatigued the next day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:32 PM
13

I hate that so much. All I think of is how desperate they are to get their penis wet. That's all it is as a man genuine interested in us would make an effort and be patient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:52 PM
16

I walked in on my mother doing this to my stepfather when I was a child. I'll never forget it and it's scarred me for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:56 PM
22

Anything to do with watersports and scat makes me shudder. I'll never understand it and I'm guess I'm fortunate I've never met a man who wanted to try it. It's so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:55 PM
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It doesn't matter what any man says, they don't like being chased. I know a man in real life. He is mid 50s and being pursued by a mid 30s woman. She's gorgeous but so desperate that she writes things on his wall such as "It cant wait to see you naked". She asked him out on a date, he accepted but now he's ghosted her. I think it's really sad to chase/propose to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:34 PM
6

Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:27 PM
43

It will only bring more women our way 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:12 PM
64

Women looking out for our best interests are always treated like the devil. Well, suck it up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:08 PM
68

It's a all womenz fault, typical scrote 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 07:30 PM
46

Just excuses. On a serious note, I believe women are far more resilient generally. Society doesn't give us the benefit of the doubt like they do men. We are more likely to internalise our pain than men do as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:37 AM
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No, women shouldn't be judged for that as women give so much already. Not to mention it's men who ask for our hand in marriage. That's why I never look down on unmarried women but I find the same thing strange in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:26 PM
11

Men love taking advantage of nurses. I've got a couple of loving, fantastic nurse friends and the troubles they've had with men is unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:25 PM
20

The smell of Dettol takes me back and I love it! Yes with hot water on demand and inexpensive soaps and shower gels, I just don't get. Brushing teeth and flossing doesn't take long either. It's laziness and disrespect. I don't fancy getting gingivitis from a man who doesn't take care of his oral health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:09 PM
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It's horrible how unclean men can give us UTIs. Most men are uncircumcised in the UK. I'm on immunosuppressants so UTIs always quickly turn into painful kidney infections which I need intravenous antibiotics for. I had two of those with my last ex. I would gladly stay celibate for the rest of my life to never experience that loin pain again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:07 PM
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Poor woman. I can't imagine how hard it was for her to move and try to adapt to his country. I have Jamaican maternal grandparents and hygiene was their top priority. I would get two Dettol baths there a day lol and lots of tooth brushing. I don't understand dirty people. Every boyfriend I've had has only brushed their teeth once a day? Only one flossed as well. It's so gross. Smelly people are unpleasant people to be around. I'm from England and the cleanest people I know tend to be from hot co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:52 PM
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I wouldn't say I'm jaded, just cautious as I need to be. I was definitely naïve as a younger woman. What didn't help was having abusive parents, they prime you for shitty men. Self work lasts a lifetime and being content on my own means I'm less likely to fall prey to any more LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:21 PM
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Well you can always go younger. I would go as young as 30. I've looked after myself really well and have no problem attracting a man that age. Hell, what am I saying, it doesn't matter because us women will almost always have no problem choosing whichever man we like. It's not easy because they rarely ever take care of themselves as well as we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:52 AM
35

They're so see through!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:15 PM
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Same thing happened to my ex boyfriend's LVM best friend. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:10 PM
24

I dated a much older man when I was 20. His best friend was a HVM and was vocal in his disapproval. He said in front of me that my ex would never marry again but I was too young and dumb to understand. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:39 PM
64

Same. Older men suck even more than the ones my own age. I'm 36 and I wouldn't date anyone older than 38 now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:30 PM
19

This is true, I was looking on an incel forum once and the men there were criticising a woman for having big hips. They weren't even big, she just didn't look like a 12 year old girl. Before anyone accuses me of body shaming, I literally am the size of a 12 year old girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:35 PM
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That's terrible, how is she doing now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 09:04 PM
22

Wow nothing like that to make you angry! He is lucky she didn't break it over his head. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:22 PM
11

One ex sat and said nothing whilst one of his friends told a racist joke in a pub (I'm mixed). It took his best friend to say something to the guy. I immediately lost all attraction to him after that and we split up not long afterwards. This same ex accused me of being overdramatic because a crazy male neighbour was stalking me and put a drawing of a knife through my front door threatening to 'put me out of my misery'. Obviously I was afraid and only 20 years old. He was an older scrote of cours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:52 AM
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Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:58 PM
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Something similar happened to a friend of mine. Diagnosed with breast cancer at 35, her ex husband went and cheated on her. They're divorced and she's got a new man who recently proposed to her. She's so much happier and she deserves to be. How could someone do that when you need them the most?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 09:30 AM
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Doesn't surprise me. I've been I'll my whole adult life. Whilst the men never left me, they didn't support me either. It's much easier dealing with my health problems alone. Now I'm pretty sure I've got Sjögren's syndrome to add to my list of illnesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 09:28 AM
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Exactly. When I lived in the women's refuge for 5 months I was the only one to do a proper job cleaning. One other woman would vacuum now and again but I was cleaning up after five women and 6-8 children! It was so horrible,the place was infested with mice and carpet beetles and I wasn't surprised. I live alone now and never want to live with anyone else ever again. Having a clean environment is very important to me. I'm sure all those mice have left me scarred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:14 AM
17

Yes same here. We are just not the same as them, thank goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:27 PM
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I don't understand why they do it though? Surely no one's underwear smells pleasant? I know with a lot of men, their pants should come with a biohazard warning due to all the skid marks they contain. I've read all sorts of horror stories. Men jacking off in their friend's wife's underwear. It's so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:24 PM
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Yep at least you're not getting hurt like you would be if you had had early sex with them. I'm such a big believer in this. I cannot have sex with someone I don't love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:28 PM
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The laundry is a big thing. When I was in my late teens, a close friend told me her mother's male friend was caught sniffing her knickers out of their laundry basket when she was 14. This man was in his 30s. I do all my washing before any maintenance man comes as they often ask to use the toilet. I'm so sorry that happened to you as well. That's so disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:10 PM
29

That is awful, such twats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:07 PM
16

I love Great Danes. When I was a child, I used to see a one being walked near my house and I thought he was so handsome. I like them and German Shepherds, Labradors and Springer Spaniels the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:06 PM
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Maintenance men creep me out. I had one point at my packet of pills, ask about them then ask for my number. I get creepy comments. Now I live alone, it really bothers me. An electrician is due soon to replace my hob and I'm hoping I can have a friend round at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:01 PM
8

I definitely will sis. Toxic people only bring us down and we don't need that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:30 PM
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Especially my brothers and step/biological fathers. They are all low value. I'm the only one in my family who doesn't abuse substances and leave children everywhere without a parent figure. I'm so ashamed of them and pretty sure their abuse contributed to me accepting LVM in my late teens and twenties. Those people should have been sterilised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:03 AM
20

Well said. I want this printed on a tee shirt or something. It really hits home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:48 AM
56

Reminds me of my diabolical lazy, alcoholic and violent stepfather. When I was a toddler, I was scared of pipes. I would be too afraid to use the toilet even if I saw large pipes in there. My stepfather would chase me with a big white one and beat me with it. He was constantly ordering my mother around to make him food whilst we all starved but I remember once he threatened one of my mum's friends. This friend's tall, stocky boyfriend came banging on our front door to remonstrate with my stepfat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:47 AM
56

They really do. I'm extremely pissed off with a male surgeon and a doctor who couldn't give a damn. I rarely experience this with my women medical professionals,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:24 PM
54

Same. It's 08:51 over here. No breakfast! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:51 AM
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Exactly. Why is she so eager to move out of home. I suspect she probably has abusive parents like I did. I was kicked out at 17. She is still so young and I definitely hope she wakes up one day, poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:48 AM
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Welp! No breakfast for me this morning 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:45 AM
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U.K. black and mixed men of Caribbean descent are the same. I don't know if I ever see it changing? I'm so ashamed of my own mixed brother who has two sons by two different white women. He wants nothing to do with my nephews and their mothers are lovely women. I'm being the best aunty I can but it hurts me to see my nephews upset and blaming themselves for my brother's disgusting ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:14 PM
2

Lmao they are butthurt because it's the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:10 PM
23

I read a lot of Chinese men went to Africa and married women there as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:45 AM
5

They only want equality when it suits them. How many men do 50% of housework and childcare? How many men still open car doors and walk on the inside of the pavement? Far fewer than women splitting the cost on dinners, that's for sure. This is part of why I do not want children or to live with a man again. Us women have it much harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:51 AM
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That is so awful. How dare they make us feel this way, it's like they think they own us. All of my black and mixed friends/family members have experienced the same thing. I wouldn't do the same to a black man and white woman couple. It's not my business. It's a shame none of the white men stood up for you either. They should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:14 PM
22

It honestly makes me sick just how many people praise him, particularly LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:58 PM
8

Please share?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:01 PM
46

Please do not invalidate rainisthelife's comments. As a mixed woman, I've had this done to me. You can tell by their body language what they're up to. I've even had it happen when out with a white boyfriend. I'm just minding my own business and black men hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:14 AM
49

It starts young as well. I remember when I was 14, this white boy asked me out by claiming white girls are sluts and slags. It's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:08 AM
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I believe you. I'm mixed with brown skin and the amount of white men that hit me up on Facebook, just to see their pages filled with racist stuff and a girlfriend is staggering. I even messaged one man's girlfriend with screenshots of his messages. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:05 AM
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This true. Another thing, as a woman of colour who has dated white men, I had to keep that private from black men as they would make my life hell. I've even been kicked out of a pub by a black bouncer when I was in their with my white ex. I quickly learned to say I was dating a 6ft, stocky black men to get them to leave me alone. I'm mixed and I'm not impressed by black men who put down black women. Their self hatred is horrible and I would stay far away. No woman should feel good being with a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:40 AM
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Yep. I'm 36 and get hassled by men every time I go out. Many women say it never stops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:50 PM
11

I think it's time to make new friends. You'll always get jealous people in life. My next door neighbour does the same thing so I started to distance myself from her. They are insecure, bitter people looking to bring you down. It's good that you recognise it because it's not always easy to pick up on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:26 PM
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I've had my heart broken over this. I'm not talking about my dating choices but my mother's. My mother is mixed, Jamaican and Irish. She had an affair with my father who is a devout Muslim from Bangladesh. My father is married but he lied to my mother then finished the affair when she told him about me. My mother hated South Asians ever since. I was constantly beaten up and called a P@k* by her, which is a racial slur in England. She told me he was Indian but my mother is so ignorant she wouldn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:31 PM
10

I can't understand why so many of them don't brush at least twice a day, not to mention floss and everything else. Your mouth would feel nasty, never mind smell it. My autoimmune disease causes dry eyes and dry mouth, so I'm obsessive about my oral hygiene. I expect the same from a partner. I grew up with parents who rarely bought toothpaste and never took me to a dentist yet I still learned to take care of my teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:59 PM
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She can have any man she wants. Those scrotes are bitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:28 PM
5

I don't understand that. I remember when I was at college and we had an open day to check out different universities in England. I spoke to this lady who was representing De Montfort university and talked about a law degree. She was South Asian. I'm mixed South Asian, Jamaican and Irish. She pretty much said to me as a woman of colour that I wouldn't get anywhere. I didn't enjoy law in the end but she was out of order. Things are difficult when you are a brown woman but she was just outright try…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 11:12 PM
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Good to hear OP. I was manipulated by an older man when I was your age and it was terrible. I will never make that mistake again. Stick to men your own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:12 AM
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This is absolutely disgusting. I have to ask though, 35 if far too old for you. Trust me, at the age of 20, you want nothing to go with a man that age, if you want my advice, I would go no more than a couple of years older than yourself. That uncle is a dirty git. I hope the wife finds out and dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:09 AM
10

I have IBS too and I would rather die than leave any of my excrement around for someone to find. I have IBS A/M so I'm not going to the loo as often as the guy in this post. Why can't he clean the toilet after each use? Most of us women do. I also make an active effort to avoid food that sets me off, like onions and tomatoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 09:52 PM
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We will definitely get there sis. It gets easier the older I get. It becomes easier to spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 08:51 PM
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I don't know about you OP but sometimes I'm too nice for my own good. She saw me as someone she could boss around and manipulate, well she thought wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:29 PM
21

OP, do you know about the journalist Sonia Poulton? She does a good talk about this on her channel on BrandNewTube. It is terrifying, he had something like 14 million images of the most depraved porn out there. He is sickening and it's upsetting knowing it's one of your loved ones he raped. No punishment will ever be enough for what he has done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 08:10 AM
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Don't you just get tired of people violating your boundaries? I'm having this issue with a friend and I've just dropped her. These people never change. They don't deserve a space in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:26 AM
50

I hate that so much. Before I got an overactive thyroid in at the end of 2015, I was so cold in winter. I would have to turn the heating on and hope my ex wouldn't notice. There's only so many layers you can put on. He was so mean and proud of the fact he never got cold. I've got enough money to put the heating on whenever I want if I need to. It's nice to know I can just do it and not have a man telling me off for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:01 PM
40

That's so true. One of my favourite things is watching what I want on tv and not having to wait because some boyfriend is watching sport all of the time. I wake up to a clean home, that was rarely possible with my ex as he was a messy night owl. The home decor thing too. I've lived alone only 6 months and I've completely decorated my flat. I've never had a home as cosy and nice as this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:59 PM
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Housework is so much easier living alone. Everything stays clean because you don't have some snobby man messing up the house constantly. It's not attractive having a partner who acts like a child. Edit, thanks for the award!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:08 PM
42

Such truth! Knowing you can be shagged at any moment by some random man is not flattering and nothing to be happy about. My body is precious and I'm very selective who I share it with. I remember reading magazines like Cosmopolitan when I was a young teen in the late 90s. So many articles by PickMes focusing on giving men sexual pleasure. No thanks, I'm not just three holes on legs. Oh to the scrote that replied to me, I don't give a fuck how old I am. Unlike you, there's more to my life than at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:52 PM
145

I'm convinced the hatred so many black men have for black women is because the black woman and her womb reminds them that they are also black. They hate being black and blame black women for it. They are always trying to escape their blackness. I'm part black myself and I've seen this attitude from colourist men in my family, it truly is disgusting and I know men of other ethnic groups despise them for it. I despise men who think like that. You know my white passing mixed mother and my white ste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:44 AM
35

I know right! I'm certain my ex wouldn't have done anything. He did nothing when a crazy ex neighbour male who was obsessed with me, marched into our home, up the stairs and started shouting at me. I lost all respect for him that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:36 AM
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I'm so sorry. I've never experienced anything as bad as you from homeless men. I'm the last town I lived in, this particular homeless man would always shout sexual comments out at me. It put me off going to town a lot. I'm from England and I never saw many homeless people until the last 10-15 years. Either the problem has got much worse or they are just more visible now. Men talk about how life is worse for men because there are more homeless men on the streets. Do they have any idea what happen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:32 AM
19

Wow that is so heartless. What a scrote he is! Yes I will definitely never make the mistake of moving in with a man again, let alone a boyfriend. I enjoy my own space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:22 PM
17

I'm really sorry. I would give anything for a mother that wanted me around. Some people don't realise how lucky they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:07 PM
20

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:04 PM
16

My experience is the same as yours. A man spiked my vodka and orange. Then he raped me. I've never struggled with substance abuse either. The most I would do is have one or two drinks when going out clubbing or on dates. I don't even like the taste of alcohol, I hate bitter tastes. I don't smoke either, if a man wants to make assumptions about me then that's his problem. All of my boyfriends have been the type that rarely drank themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:38 PM
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I'm teetotal. I don't like alcohol and I'm scarred by my violent alcoholic stepfather. So I just say I don't drink. In the U.K., you get treated like a pariah for not drinking. I've never been offered a coffee date but I would say no to that as well. I haven't been on OLD for 12 years and have no plans to go back on it anytime soon. When I was in my early 20s, I got fed up of geriatric men preying on me. I'm sure it will be no better now I'm 36.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:33 AM
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I haven't been dating for 12 years so I'm behind on what the scene is like. Dinner dates are considered old fashioned now? All of my first dates were dinner dates. Sure, there were still men who tried to offer so,etching else or nothing but even at 23/24 years old, I was never down for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:22 AM
2

That truly is so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 08:53 PM
13

I had an ex who was well off. He had a big three bedroom place but for some reason wouldn't buy a washing machine and tumble dryer or washer dryer. He would leave his dirty clothes for ages and then eventually go to a launderette. We didn't live together fortunately and I never understood it. I can't live without my washing machine and tumble dryer. My income is nowhere near as big as his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:17 PM
13

Thank you for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:08 AM
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I know, it's so sad. He takes drugs and drinks a lot. He is such a pain in the arse. I've only lived here 6 months and the police have been over twice looking for him. Must be frightening having a stroke at that age. My grandfather had four strokes but he was in his 60s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:51 AM
46

They couldn't show their hatred for women anymore if they tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:37 AM
12

In real life, I only know only older guy who is still fit. He is East Asian. Has thick black hair, worked out his whole life and is lightly muscular. He could honestly pass for late 20s/ early 30s. Just an all round nice man and he is in his mid 50s. Even so, he is too old for me but if a man looks after himself, he can look good. Most men just don't bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:26 AM
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I'm 36 and most men my age are busted up. Fat, strong wrinkles and balding. They don't even have children and they have naturally faster metabolisms. What's their excuse? I'm still the same size as when I was a teenager and I look the same as when I was in my early 20s. There's nothing wrong with ageing but so many men don't even wear sunscreen, let alone try anything else. One guy in my building is 35 and he has already had a stroke from his shitty lifestyle. It's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:15 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Also I'm a petite woman that is the size of a 12 year old. So I have to do all that I can to make sure I'm not attracting paedophiles. I like looking post pubescent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 01:28 PM
2

Too cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:58 AM
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The last guy knows the true and I bet he had loads of LVMs arguing with him? I see short men with wives and girlfriends all of the time. I bet they aren't the short guys with a big chip on their shoulder though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 08:43 AM
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This is definitely a no go for me. I'm Indian, Jamaican and Irish. I love spice and can cook pretty much anything. I can bake as well. It's nothing impressive as I believe every adult should be at least be able to cook. I've never dated a man who couldn't cook. My ex could cook. He was white English and was open to trying most foods. He would bake as well. I don't want to be the one doing all the cooking either, I much prefer cleaning at times to bd honest. It's important to me that a man isn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:37 AM
2

Thank you. I suspect it's autoimmune in origin but I'm having an ultrasound scan in 2 weeks' time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:07 PM
4

I'm so sorry sis, I hate to hear you've been through it too. Big hugs to you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:48 PM
7

Three was a Rotherham type ring in my home town as well. I was sexually abused as a child by more than one male. So much of it goes on and I just know if I had a child and anyone touched them. I would be down for murder, that's one of the reason I didn't have children. Poor children. It upsets me so much. You just know it's mostly men. Women paedophiles are not common at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:16 PM
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I think you're right. Do you know about Elm Guest House? I absolutely believe our Government facilitated the sexual abuse of children to blackmail each other. I think this idea is still preposterous to most people but with Epstein, Prince Andrew etc, they will start to wake up. Even 16 is too young in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:45 PM
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Does your friend talk to her children about this sort of thing? If I had a child and I was in this situation, I would be tempted to arm them with a secret camera as well. I so feel for your friend. It must be her worst nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:38 PM
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I find a lot of men are jealous of slim women. Men are becoming bigger than ever these days and have the nerve to criticise women. I'm not as toned as I used to be, as I suffer from muscle wastage due to corticosteroids and hyperthyroidism. I am slim though and my ex used to be jealous of me for it. So they will neg no matter how fit and slim you are. Good on you for staying out of their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:19 PM
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Halloween skeleton 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:09 PM
35

What the fuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:36 PM
13

It's true. I'm mixed black and Indian. I'm 36 and get mistaken for early 20s, being petite helps. I have led a healthy lifestyle, moisturise, sunscreen etc but it's a fact some ethnic groups age slower than others. Of course there are always exceptions but it's generally true. I've got a 50 year old Thai friend and she looks 25, seriously. Black and Asian women usually age better than the men, from what I've seen. Could be something as simple as moisturising and sunscreen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:37 AM
21

Don't blame you. I read somewhere that dental bacteria can be passed on through kissing. I wouldn't want to catch gingivitis from someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:56 PM
39

That's so sad. Why do they do it? I've actually got a huge lump on my neck. It extends from in front of my ear to the back of my ear. I think it's just a swollen lymph node due to a dental abscess I had. Im getting it checked out at the hospital today. Most women would never ignore something like that. Update. Looks like I have a parotid mass, tooth isn't to blame. I'm going for an ultrasound scan soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 08:33 AM
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I've got medium brown skin and I wear it all year round. I don't know what their excuse is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 08:29 AM
12

I second this, he needs to not be able to find her. I really think this scumbag will kill a person one day, I bet it will be a woman or a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:14 AM
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I'm glad you're going to do that. He is dangerous and I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up murdering a woman one day. I'm so sorry he raped you and I really hope he is going to be punished as much as possible. Killing a rat as well? They're so sweet. How could he!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:12 AM
9

That's awful, your poor mum. Men like that are weak and all too common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:09 AM
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To think he is studying to be a doctor as well? Could you imagine him with his patients? It is frightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:50 AM
7

Sickening, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:01 AM
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No. I've always been slim, underweight even. The thing is with me was back at school I didn't have access to soap or hot water. I'm mixed race, so boys would make fun of my Afro-Asian hair. I suffered racism. Being half south Asian, I was naturally hirsute, which males would make fun of as well. As I got older, started studying and working then I could suddenly afford to take care of myself. These days I would be considered a glamorous woman. Like most women, I've had scrotes from college etc co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:57 AM
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This is what happens when women say no https://whenwomenrefuse.tumblr.com/ Plus a lot of men will ring that number on the spot. For maximum safety, might be better off using a Google number if possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:58 PM
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Difference is with us and and cats is would we take pleasure if our cat killed a bird? Killed a mouse? I know I certainly didn't. I was devastated. Hell, I cried when a pigeon flew into my bedroom window and died on the floor. I can't imagine most women taking any pleasure in that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:44 AM
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Glad you cut contact, he sounds like a psychopath. Poor Guinea pig, having to listen to your scrote father as it died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:42 AM
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This is making me so angry. I shouldn't have read that, I know it's my own fault, I hate it so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:41 AM
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I second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:37 AM
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I only read the title but I will say I do not like snakes. I would not date a man that has snakes. I hate live feeding and I've heard there are snakes that won't eat defrosted mice etc. What do I object to is fucking YouTube showing me a snake eating a duckling when I looking up cute duck videos. It really pissed me off. I saw people objecting to this in the comments and the snake owner was a cruel fuck who took a great delight in it. Of course he was a male too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:37 AM
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They say that like we care. It's so much nicer to be single and drama free than putting up with a horrible man. Even if HVM do not come, it's a better life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:59 PM
3

Well done you! I did all my own painting and decorating, which I learned to do when I was 17. However last year I did not know once side of a drill from the other. Now I'm quite handy because I've put up everything apart from the kitchen blinds. It saves so much money doing it yourself and YouTube is so handy. It's surprising how easy something is when you just get into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 02:03 PM
3

Just had a look on Amazon. I'm from the U.K. and found a reasonable pair I might like to buy. I've got issues with my downstairs neighbour. She isn't violent but her sons are a different story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:44 AM
3

Even better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:40 AM
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I'm so sorry. I really feel for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 08:40 PM
22

I actually considered a body cam recently. How sad is that? What kind of world is this for women and girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 08:36 PM
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I just got one of these. A Tapo TP link camera. It has motion detection, 360° view, you can talk through it etc. I have pointing towards my door from the hallway. I want to get a camera on the outside facing my front door. I cannot have a door bell cam as my neighbour's front door is directly opposite and only about 2m away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 08:33 PM
89

I've never faked an orgasm? I'm sure I'm not the only one. I'm not here to stroke his ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:43 PM
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When I look back at being a teenager, I realise the Cosmopolitan and other magazines I liked to read were so toxic for women and girls. Lots of articles like this one, giving your boyfriend the perfect blow job etc. All designed by men to take advantage of women, sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:43 AM
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That's awful, you would expect nurses to understand with the training they have to do. I met an A & E nurse this year who worked in a care home. She got told off for helping a carer lift a patient and that she should "stick to prescribing". She witnessed this attitude amongst management and other nurses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:39 PM
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It really is. Are you thinking it might be men pretending to be women? You never know, although I'm sure there are women that are that much of a Pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:37 PM
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It's not the same woman but I've come across the one in your comments history before. She is one hot mess and has no business giving anyone advice, seems she likes trolling people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:39 PM
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How horrible you were told it was better off to be in your car than in a refuge, that isn't how it should be. I hope you're okay now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:41 PM
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I'm in a much better place now thanks. I have made my flat beautiful and cozy. I never want to put women off seeking help but my time in a women's refuge was pure hell. There were mice and carpet beetles running about. I would sleep in the shared lounge to get away from them, I'm sure it's left me with some type of PTSD as I look behind my kitchen plinths for mice. There was a woman in there who was abusing her children and threatening to beat us up. I had to pester Social Services and people hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:40 PM
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You're not wrong. A lot of them thrive off trolling, it's best to cut them off. I had a guy on a sub to do with my country randomly start insulting me because I said poor children deserve to eat and shouldn't be punished for their parents' mistakes. He was insulting my parents, me, everything but I just kept laughing. He couldn't hurt me and I think my parents are scum too. So nothing he says about them would bother me. I just put some laughing emojis then blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:26 PM
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It might even be the same woman but something similar happened to me. She had the lowest self esteem I had seen in a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:23 PM
2

Recently a scrote couldn't contact me anywhere. He couldn't follow me, message me etc so do know what that sad sack did? He found a post I posted onto a medical sub back in July about my 33 year old cousin. My cousin was the mother of five children and died at the age of 33 of a massive heart attack. Want to know what he said on my post? "Fucking scrotes" "Fucking scrotes probably gave her a heart attack". The post was answered back then so I had to delete it. I didn't dove him the satisfaction …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:17 PM
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Same, not mention my health problems have made me vulnerable in the past. How much harder would it be with children? Women get the shitty end of the stick and I didn't want that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:58 PM
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I most people want to feel above someone, even if they're oppressed in some way. Wealthy women will never be as powerful as wealthy men, so a lot of them abuse poorer women instead. It's like how some black people are homophobic towards gay men and lesbian women. It's something I've witnessed in my family. Or how some non-black people of colour abuse black people. Some of it can be jealousy too. The woman who got my fired was not attractive and 20+ years my senior. Instead of taking it out on he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:15 AM
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I was a domestic cleaner whilst at college, I absolutely experienced contempt at the hands of wealthier women. I remember one woman whose husband used to work from home on Fridays, the day I cleaned their house. He was a creep and she picked up on it one day. Following Monday, she tells my agency I did not clean her mirror properly and I'm sacked. I did go self employed not long after. I do enjoy cleaning but I wouldn't want to do it again, most people have no respect for cleaners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:12 AM
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I watched this. It was very well made. I do not have children but as a woman who fled domestic violence last year, parts rang true. I must say I much prefer the shelters in the programme than the one I had to stay in. Alex had it so hard and how she managed to find the strength not to give up was amazing. Not to mention her piece of shit father who would not back her up in court and say he witnessed Sean abusing her. He let her down as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:08 AM
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I'm only feeding pets, women friends and children, if I see them needing food. Adult men can feed themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:00 AM
24

Yes! I started living alone this year and I've become good at DIY. I've always been good at painting and decorating. Picking up a drill was new to me though, the amount of men that confess they are no good at it. My ex was useless, he did not do so much as paint a wall. Imagine how much money save by not having to hire a handy person whenever you need something done. One plus side to using a drill is to get back at my shitty downstairs neighbour and her constant barking dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:52 AM
24

I'm a good cook and baker but I don't enjoy it too often. Same as you, my ex partners were good cooks. My last ex would bake excellent cakes as well. I don't see why we should have to do all the time just because we are women. I'm not cooking for any man that isn't my husband, full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:48 AM
2

Aww, same. I was working in a woman's house as a domestic cleaner years ago, she had a tabby cat and this ginger tom broke into the house through her bathroom window! He ate her cat's food and made a beeline for me. He came and sat next to me and let me stroke him. Sometimes when I'm walking outside, random cats just come up to me. They are amazing, I like dogs as well though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:37 AM
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Male biological clock. I told this one guy his insistence that it was all down to a woman's and not man's biological clock was misogyny. Next thing I know, I get banned and a message from the mods that I take part in a sub with "sexist" content lmao. So I'm sexist for pointing out misogyny, reddit doesn't like women standing up for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:33 AM
9

He will be very sad when he sees no young woman wants his old sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:24 PM
1

I got banned from one of the dating subs for pointing this out. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:21 PM
114

He is being very emotional there, isn't he? He needs to sort himself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:19 PM
1

Yep...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:15 PM
4

I've found the opposite. Dog owners' homes smell most of the time. Dogs do not clean themselves as much as cats do. My downstairs neighbour has two dogs in a one bedroom flat and they piss all over her sofa and cushions. She lets them shit in our communal garden and doesn't clean it up. At least cats bury theirs if they go outdoors. Dogs that don't get washed by their owners do smell bad. It just depends on the owner. My cousin has an indoor cat and her home is the cleanest/nicest smelling home …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:14 PM
2

I'm so sorry. I still miss my cats that have died. My cats have all been rescue cats and turned out extremely loving and good natured. My big shaggy male cat never even scratched me once. He would give me nose kisses when he wanted his breakfast. They are lovely animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:07 PM
3

I don't ever pet dogs out of nowhere. I remember this boxer dog that weighed more than I do nearly knocked me over. He was just excited but it really scared me. I let them come to me first. German shepherds, Labradors and Springer Spaniels are my favourite dogs. I like cats even more though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:04 PM
14

Yep my narc mother was a prime example. She was jealous of the affection my first cat and I lavished on each other. She would scold me but I didn't care. I had hardly any food to eat but I would give it to him. She lost interest in us children once we were no longer toddlers and developing personalities of our own. Narcs do not like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:54 PM
11

I was looking up my one of my favourite animals and enjoying the cute videos. Imagine how distressed I felt when YouTube automatically showed me a video of this cute animal being eaten alive by a snake! I was furious and the guy uploading it took great pleasure in it. Great pleasure in upsetting people, the psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:51 PM
11

Sickening!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:40 PM
2

Poor woman. So awful! I hope she rests in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:11 PM
8

Yep. Having lots of money won't make her physically stronger than men or immune to other forms of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:09 AM
44

Recently, my LVM brother told me he does not want me passing his details over to my nephew's mother and for no good reason. This woman brought my nephew up all alone because my brother ran off doing drugs and impregnating another woman. I'm so angry with him but he doesn't listen. It breaks my heart when my nephew doesn't understand why his own father doesn't want to know him. He should have had a vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:10 AM
35

Tight fisted men are the worst. I'm not rich but I'm a generous person and like to treat friends and family. One of my ex boyfriends was tight fisted and would complain about spending any money. At the time I was on £10,000 a year and he was on £50,000 a year. I was struggling quite a lot plus had a lot of health problems to contend with. He didn't help me out at all. Even his best friend who was a lot closer to a HVM would have a go at him about it. I'm so sorry you have children with that Scro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:05 AM
93

I don't give them. Not only do I not like it but I have a very small mouth, with already causes issues with dental work. It's my right not to give them if I don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:27 PM
43

Yep. It's just after 10pm in the U.K. and I'm sitting on my sofa, scrote free. Phone is scrote free too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:06 PM
5

Manipulative sod, you made the right choice OP. He was sowing seeds of doubt in your head from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 08:00 PM
5

So glad to see the sub back! Yay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:10 AM
2

They can, I witnessed it from a shortie. I think he was jealous of the tall woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 09:35 AM
12

This is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:18 AM
7

Boyfriend sounds like a red pilled LVM, I hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:15 AM
70

What's interesting is the same guys who get pissed about us having a height preference are the same guys rejecting black women and being mean about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:50 PM
60

I got called a slut by a bunch of older girls when I was 14 because my ex boyfriend lied and said we had sex together. Funny how when girls are bitchy there's a male spreading lies behind it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:29 PM
65

Why of course, that man is a misogynist himself, not to mention racist and homophobic too. He will never be on our side. He cheated of his wife who had cancer with a woman 20+ years his junior. I hate him. Oh and his dad Stanley broke his mother Charlotte's nose!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:21 AM
40

Not wanting marriage or children is so freeing. Negging doesn't work on me when I'm content by myself. I don't feel men are anywhere near as comfortable with it as us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:14 AM
43

The mere thought of that would make me die of embarrassment. How are they not ashamed of themselves? Laundry is so easy to do. Stick it in the washing machine, hang it on the washing line in summer or stick in in the tumble dryer in winter. They're so lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:12 AM
43

What's more gross to me is the piss soaked, smelly toilets so many men have. At least we use the toilet in a civilised manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:00 AM
18

I worked with a guy who drank 6 cans of Monster a day. This was just retail so nothing too difficult to do. He confessed to me he couldn't sleep and that he drank alcohol to get to sleep! I was incredulous. With that amount of caffeine floating around his body, I was surprised he was still standing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:23 PM
34

What an insufferable buffoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:04 PM
72

Same and I'm mid 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:57 PM
33

No non-racist white man would want to do this. My ex partners have been white men and I'm mixed. Not one has even suggested we do this and if they had, I would have dumped them. Having any sort of relationship/friendship with a non-white person does not mean they are not racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:55 PM
14

I sympathise. When I lived in a women's refuge it was a nightmare. We had a very bad infestation of mice and carpet beetles. Only myself and one other woman did any cleaning and it drove me nuts. I grew up in a very dirty home with mealworm and carpet beetle infestations. I feel very uncomfortable around nasty homes. Dirty kitchens and bathrooms trigger me the most. There were times when I ate nothing but packaged sandwiches as I couldn't be sure where in the kitchen the mice had been. I would s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:02 AM
4

I read online today that another cop from his same unit was arrested for rape. It's absolutely dreadful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:41 AM
7

So adorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:12 PM
7

Rabbits are lovely. My favourite are the Flemish Giant rabbits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:52 PM
26

Similar thing happened to my nurse friend. She married a carpenter. He was gambling their money away. They moved into her grandmother's house after the grandmother died. She divorced him after he gambled £10,000 away then she had to give him £30,000 out of the house!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:30 PM
31

I had a male lurker comment on a post I made for help from doctors to understand why my 33 year old cousin died. He said "fucking scrotes probably gave her a heart attack, fucking scrotes". The piece of shit. I deleted it because I had a reply from a doctor already. They can't inbox me or follow me. So they comment on my post instead, losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:19 PM
14

I was in so much shock. He phoned me months after I dumped him to tell me he had been arrested for possession of a class A drug, which was cocaine. So much made sense after he told me that. He was on a really good salary but kept getting letters due to not paying bills etc. He also showed me £5,000 in a envelope once and said he a visit from bailiffs for not paying his tax bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:08 PM
27

Cats are far better anyway! They smell good too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:04 PM
82

So disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:02 PM
3

I've had ones in shops flirt with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:51 PM
36

I dated a pilot. He quickly became very controlling and probably had women at every airport. He was very arrogant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:46 PM
24

Yes one of my ex boyfriends was a sales manager. I found out after I dumped him he was sniffing coke every night when he claimed he was awake answering emails. He wouldn't come to bed until 4am. He worked away all week, was on sleazy websites trying to arrange liaisons with men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:44 PM
59

I really wanted to complain about the way a police officer handled a hate crime case against me. I decided not to because I didn't want his colleagues going after me. I've never been in trouble with the police before and don't want to start. I'm very cautious with them and definitely wouldn't date one. I remember a police officer chatted me up once and tried to impress me with his career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:38 PM
15

The shame! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:34 PM
3

Either way, the pain he has put you through has to be unbearable. It's definitely a man problem, it annoys me how they try to deflect by bringing up the small number of women offenders, who are usually doing it to please a man, up. It does make me wonder about judges, legal system and politicians as they never give decent punishments for it. In my case, I did report it to the police but my cases didn't pass the CPS threshold test due to my scumbag mother and childhood friend going on their word …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:20 PM
3

They really don't. It gives me joy he will face a hard time in prison. Let's see how tough he is standing up to fellow men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:12 PM
1

Fantastic ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:04 PM
3

I am so sorry, that is terrible. I'll never understand how a father can do that to his own child. Big hugs to you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:01 PM
14

I agree. I am British and not the biggest fan of the Royal Family for these reasons. I loved Princess Diana, like most Brits and the way they treated her was the start of my dislike for them. Harry is the only one I like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:59 PM
8

I was raped by an older boy when I was 10. When I was 14 I was talking to a close group of girlfriends about it. There were 5 of them, not including me. Every single one admitted to being sexually assaulted in some way. If this is for girls than just how many women have been raped? I think something like only 3% of rapists ever get prosecuted for their crimes. It's crime men know they can get away with whatever the legislation may say. Also I am mixed, predominantly Indian and black. Most of my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:52 PM
73

He is the only one sounding triggered right now. He is beyond pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:43 PM
2

I've seen enough times that men fantasise about having the power to change a woman's body with his seed and lumber her with his baby. It wouldn't surprise me if they did this deliberately a lot of the time. It's easier now than ever to run off from their responsibilities and I'll never let a man do that to me, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:00 AM
10

As soon as I saw the 15 year age gap I knew this was going to be a pile of crap. She's the breadwinner and he is still controlling her? The audacity of this loser is unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:55 AM
27

I love German Shepherds. Really hope I can have one some day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:59 AM
4

Yes you've got it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:56 AM
19

This case really breaks my heart. He was known to have indecently exposed himself twice prior to this. Apparently he was nicknamed 'the rapist' at work and they still missed this. Actually I saw a post from someone that said women police officers that brought up concerns were left in dangerous confrontations by their male colleagues. I'll post it if I find it. Just going to look. https://imgur.com/a/uKo81Xf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:44 PM
25

The no hook ups bios are the ones they like to roast on the incel subs too. They deliberately target women who write this. I agree with another poster about not putting what you don't want on there. I tried once, in an effort to stop fathers from messaging me. It didn't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:26 PM
16

Interesting she said he was showing off like a shiny new car. I rather suspect that's all he sees women as. A shiny new object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:11 PM
51

Yes the plastic gangsters in England would say their version which is "you're butters anyway". Yet we are the emotional ones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:05 PM
43

Yep that's true. Older men are so cynical generally and make you pay for the ex partner's mistakes. Unfortunately I have a past of dating older men but I stopped that last year. If I do date again, he is definitely going to be the same age or younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:03 PM
92

I can only imagine. Thirty six year old men are bad enough. I think I would rather stay single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:58 PM
245

When we start raping men and shooting them up like incels do, maybe then he will have a point. It's not possible for us to be like incels. We leave men alone, don't abuse and kill them. All we want to do is avoid LVM/NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:04 PM
2

They wish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:03 AM
240

See, so many men hold women responsible for their fertility. I could never do that, yet they always claimed they were "baby trapped". I've got no sympathy for them when they won't wear a condom or get a vasectomy. They expect us to take hormones that mess us up, too entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:56 PM
24

That the men are victims too and she sees no problem with most refugees being men. Basically, she was calling people misandrists for being upset there weren't more women and children refugees. It was pathetic and she might as well had a Neon PickMe sign by her name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:40 PM
24

Thank you. I'm managing it better since Lugol's iodine. It does have a tendency to stop working after a while but I don't think I've hit that spot yet. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:53 PM
51

At least we like things that make sense. Men are generally taller than women. Women are not born with a full face of make up, perfect hair, rarely built tiny with huge bum and boobs. Their expectations for us are unrealistic. We generally aren't that much of a fantasist. I won't feel guilty for my preferences, I'm allowed them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:49 PM
62

They're never happy. My ex was overweight and jealous of the amount I could eat. Towards the end I became hyperthyroid so I was eating everything, tempted to eat my utensils too. I don't think men truly admire it, especially when they aren't slim themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:42 PM
48

Those trash libfem are everywhere. I put one in her place on Facebook. They are traitors to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:16 PM
13

They don't treat us short women any better either. I don't want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:43 PM
21

I believe it, I went on dates with a short guy who almost shoved a bunch of tall men away like bowling pins as he made his way to the toilet. He had a huge Mitsubishi L200 that he would drive aggressively all of the time. He was a nuisance and even criticised a woman's body. She was minding her own business walking in a restaurant. Was glad to see the back of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:41 PM
229

I think you best bring money just in case, you never know what will happen. Even if it's just to help you escape from him in an emergency. I just think having no money/card on you will leave you vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:30 PM
11

I've read about stuff like this before as I want to become a doctor. Can you imagine faeces leaking out of your vagina? So many bad things can happen to us when men abuse us. It beggars belief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:25 PM
7

Yep. I've spent two weeks working hard decorating my home. I've done everything myself and as a reward, I bought myself a lovely new handbag. No man has done that for me. I'm spoiling myself because I deserve it and I'm all I need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:22 PM
2

That was The News Of The World, who were just as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:09 PM
5

What the hell am I reading? That poor girl. This is terrifying. The most boys got to look at when I was a child was women in undies in a clothes magazine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:03 PM
20

That's tragic, the poor little boy. Life can really be so cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:12 PM
93

She's so pretty. She could probably have any man she wants. Like a lot of women, she doesn't realise how beautiful she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:04 AM
59

She really does look pathetic. I hope she wakes up because it is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:02 AM
5

He is looking to have sex with you that day. What a scrote! He isn't even asking for your consent. He is telling you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:46 AM
53

Sometimes I wish I could have a gun to hide in my bedroom when I'm asleep. Seriously, living in England where you aren't even allowed to carry pepper spray is a joke. Even if you defend yourself, you're ripe for prosecution. However I will do it, I do not care as I want to live more than anything else. I have my own sprays and weapons, you've just got to be creative if ever challenged by the police. We aren't safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:33 PM
37

Exactly. No glove, no love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:10 PM
13

Poor rats man but yes, a man stinking up the bed at night is the worse. No one wants to sleep, get a whiff of onions and sour cream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:42 PM
29

I've noticed black men in the U.K. usually smell and look nice, definitely something cultural at play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:32 AM
77

UK men aren't much better. A lot of them like polo tops and deck shoes but that is preferable to the hoodies and pyjama looking bottoms they wear. Scraggly beards which harbour a lot of bacteria, greasy hair etc. I always look nice, part of the reason why us because I grew up poor and often had to wear my brothers oversized tee shirts and combat trousers. Or my cousin's hand me downs. It doesn't take much effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:30 AM
48

Without realising it, he handed you the scissors to end your relationship. Whenever men have said stuff like this, I found out their ex was valid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:52 PM
41

Good for them! People like that deserve no less. Thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:08 PM
270

I wish it was more socially acceptable to be honest about nasty people who die. Not that it would stop me anyway. Serves him right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:19 PM
90

Exactly. I'll never forget this doctor walking behind me in the hospital car park as I went to climb some stairs. He could see I looked worried, he apologised and walked the other way. I thought it was so refreshing, most men won't give a damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:22 PM
30

This is all he can complain about? Such a scrote. Us women have very real reasons to fear men walking up close by us. I'm not like this with all men out on the street so he is obviously giving off some creepy vibe which is frightening women. Probably doing it on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:14 PM
24

My mother suffers from a lot of internalised misogyny. Granted, she was not house proud but any chores were assigned to me whilst my three brothers sat on their arses. Even when I had full time college and work. She would lie in bed until 11am, do nothing all day and bark at me about housework. So glad I live alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:11 AM
14

I absolutely hate toilet brushes, they are disgusting. Never use them. This doesn't surprise me at all, none of my three brothers were ever asked to clean a toilet. Sorry if this is TMI but I have IBS, so my toilet gets cleaned every time I use it. I don't want to see another man's piss soaked, shit stained toilet ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:07 AM
134

This is such a good one and something I did in the past. Never again, I'm sure they get off on reading these paragraphs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:52 PM
14

What a piece of shit he is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:18 PM
43

Yep, single dads have got no chance with me. Why would we want someone else's children when we don't even want our own? They're just after our resources. Let's face it, a childfree woman is expected to be far more hands on with a single father's children than a childfree man is with a single mother's children. Single mothers have got it all covered. Women get the shitty end of the stick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:38 AM
42

What he means is he wants a bangmaid to transport, look after and pay for his children! Any real woman would be turned off by his attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:06 AM
8

Isn't it exhausting living this way? I've tried the hold my space challenge many times lately whilst walking to the local supermarket. So many white people will just bash into me. Why should I have to move, especially when they deliberately walk into the direction I am going. I believe you Sis, it makes the racist white women mad to see a brown skinned woman looking good and minding her own business. I've found myself dressing down on occasion because I don't have the energy for the aggravation.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:40 AM
73

Sorry without changed behaviour is just manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:58 PM
42

My eldest brother is a hobosexual. It's so embarrassing. He takes stimulant drugs. He runs around getting women pregnant and when they get sick of his lazy arse, he moves on to the next one. He is 35 and on baby mother number three. All three women are lovely and I feel sorry for them. He ditches his sons and plays daddy to the children of the latest woman. I'm certain he has a very serious health condition but he has never registered with a doctor, claimed benefits or paid national insurance. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:52 PM
19

Sounds wonderful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:47 PM
37

Same, I can't bear mess and dirt. I don't miss cleaning up after a fully grown man. I can eat what I want and when I want. Watch tv whenever as I don't have a man watching sports on it all day etc. So nice to have your own space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:46 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:24 PM
9

Definitely not all white women, just a small minority. You're right, they've got to find a flaw and sometimes the only one they can find is your ethnic background. Its interesting that when I was a child, most racism came from boys or adult men but since turning into a woman, it's been 90% of the time from women. Every time it's happened it's because I don't stand for their hostility. I don't see myself as less than them, no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:25 PM
11

Poor Eno, that must have been such a painful way to die, this is one of the most barbaric things I've ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:44 AM
25

Same. I've already been raped and I don't want it to happen again. I would rather the English police put me in prison for carrying a weapon than some man successfully attacking me. We have to take the law into our own hands because the police/criminal justice system do not care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:39 AM
19

Yep, Aileen Wournos being a good example. I have a lot of sympathy for her. Generally speaking, we aren't like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:37 AM
36

Attractive women just have more LVM to sift through. It's not great plus you get bullied and resented a lot by other women. My experience as an attractive mixed woman has been very interesting. The amount of racism and bullying I've suffered at the hands of white women has been astronomical. You're expected to know your place and if you don't see yourself as lesser than a this type of white woman, you get treated like shit. I can honestly say I am friendly to other women, no matter what they loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:20 AM
20

They've let me down time and time again. I was racially abused by a man and woman alcoholic neighbour recently. The woman's son was overheard by my neighbours threatening to beat us up once she has moved out. The police promised to give them a warning and visit them. Well the nice empathetic male police officer changed in an instant when he visited me with someone representing my landlord. Now they won't take action. I've asked him to email it all to me and he is trying to get round that by phon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:04 AM
45

Not to mention food in your belly makes getting you drunk take longer. They think they're so clever...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:22 PM
31

I don't drink and even if I wanted to, I couldn't. I'm on an immunosuppressant and you cannot drink whilst taking it. I'm like you, I hate the taste of alcohol and like to be fully alert. I had my drink spiked once and that put me off, plus having an alcoholic stepfather. Men hate it when they can't get you pissed, it's definitely used as a rape tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:21 PM
5

I'm sorry you've been through it too. I hope it never happens again. Nothing is worth the price of your health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:14 PM
31

I would extend this to employers as well. I took a job in 2015, the woman who became my manager asked me what my greatest weakness was. I told her and then she bullied me so much I ended up with two autoimmune disorders through stress. She used my greatest weakness against me at every turn. From now on I will make one up if I'm ever asked this question at an interview again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:03 AM
9

Isn't it a lovely feeling? Sleeping on your own in bed at night, without a man waking you up at 2am and sexually abusing you. Life is much better now I don't need to be worried about being badgered and coerced into sex. I have a endocrine disease which has put a stop to my libido and I never got any empathy from my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:46 PM
19

What the fuck? No one like that should be working for a sexual assault helpline. I am so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:43 PM
15

Fascinating. I definitely want to read that book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:14 PM
57

Well said, I said something similar on Facebook and of course a libfem PickMe came along to try and put me in my place lol. I believe Lundy Bancroft and what he has to say about male victims of domestic violence. Most of them are the perpetrators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 10:18 PM
21

Oh yes. I went through this once and he had the cheek to say "I don't like upsetting anyone darling, least of all you" when the night before he described how he like screwing with a man an at work he didn't like. I'm so much happier alone than being pulled into twisted mind games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 10:12 PM
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You're definitely doing the right thing. I say this from experience of being abused by paedophiles. A disinterested/abusive parent is much more likely to have this happen to their children. The internet wasn't a huge thing when I was a child but I was groomed in the offline world. I wasn't exposed to porn at all, it was less likely back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:47 PM
47

Nothing makes the vagina like the Sahara quicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:39 PM
29

Ugh! I can imagine he had a head of hair perfect for frying on. Unwashed hair smells so bad too 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:50 PM
7

That sub does my head in. There was a post on there today basically saying a woman told a man off because he stopped when she said no and did not rape her. I knew straight away it was one of those incels larping as a woman but they lapped it all up as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:34 PM
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I cannot believe what I'm reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:12 PM
66

So glad you are finally seeing the back of him. Living with lodgers absolutely sucks. I hope I never have to do it ever again. He sounds so gross. Outside of mental illness, how can he be comfortable smelling so bad? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:10 PM
141

I consider myself single unless I'm married now. No forever girlfriend business for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:36 PM
8

I've never met a fat man yet who wasn't very critical of overweight women. They think because I am slim that I will agree with them but I call them out every time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:20 PM
39

I'm 36 and a 40 year old man is too old even for me, I've been there and done that. Men like him are manipulators. Your intuition is telling you not to trust him, please listen to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:35 AM
5

My ex thought my periods were hilarious. He would make constant jokes about "the painters being in". I only have about three periods a year due to having the implant so I never needed to ask him to but me sanitary products. I don't think he would have done anyway. Thank God he is an ex now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:11 PM
117

How can a man not be ashamed of this behaviour? My past boyfriends weren't HVM but they would never have expected this from me. The most I ever bought was their birthday meal and groceries now and again. They paid for everything else, holidays, bills etc. I have a childfree friend. She's lovely but gets taken advantage of financially by LVM scrotes. Her last boyfriend was on decent money. He reeled her in by buying her a Ted Baker handbag. So he starts staying in her flat. He was a lot older tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:25 AM
90

As a vertically challenged 5 footer, that made me wince. I would not want any man saying that to me ever. Due to my small size, I'm already very cautious about what sort of men find my attractive as it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:54 PM
15

Yes and I read on here once to never tell the police it's your ex. Claim it's a man you've never seen before and they're more likely to take it seriously. I will certainly lie if it saves my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:03 PM
16

My gay male fiends do not date and haven't dated in the 6 years that I've known them. They tell me they are sick of straight people and other gay men assuming they're promiscuous. It isn't easy for them. One of my friends faced prejudice at the hands of his doctor. I won't repeat what happened on here out of respect for him but I was horrified. What I also like about them is they are men who actively call out misogyny. They do sympathise with women because they have to deal with similar stuff at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:42 PM
13

I'm so glad I'm a woman, hard as it may be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:35 PM
1

Yes that's very true sis. Hopefully the police will attempt to see them again next week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:26 AM
4

I don't understand it either. If they are saying that then they truly don't understand what FDS is about. It's not like we are looking to date them or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:48 AM
85

Hang on a minute, but... but... according to LVM, we are just bitter spinsters. Some of us are in relationships/married? shocked face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:07 PM
1

Hang on a minute, but... but... according to LVM, we are just bitter spinsters. Some of us are in relationships/married? shocked face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:07 PM
11

It truly is and it stinks. I wish pepper spray was legal at least. I have to be on my guard whenever I leave my flat, it's an exhausting way to live. A reality for all women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:12 PM
6

Exactly. Should be obvious to anyone on this sub. Men are generally bigger and stronger than us. Oh and my racist neighbour has two adult sons and her daughter's boyfriend. They've all been threatening us, I've got the police involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:11 PM
5

What does that matter? I'm 5'0" and 90lbs. Riddled with osteoporosis and arthritis. What chance have I got against a male 6ft thug? He doesn't even need a weapon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:10 PM
25

So disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:34 AM
29

Like the U.K., where my racist neighbour's adult son has threatened violence against the rest of us neighbours. All I've got for protection is a can of Deep Heat spray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:24 AM
23

Absolute fruit loop. He is the only one with issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:21 AM
6

I'm in a similar situation. I don't have a baby face but being too kind means LVW and LVM come flocking. I've already had it with two neighbours and I've only lived in my flat for 4 months. It's even worse when you're single, people try to take advantage. It's a sad when most people take kindness as a weakness. I'm trying to toughen up and keep my distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 07:19 PM
42

That's awful. Such shitty men! The racism from them is off the scale. I'm not ambiguous, I have medium brown skin, look more Indian than anything else and you can tell I'm part black. I attract mostly white men, most men, no matter the colour will make a big thing of my ethnic background. We have to vet so carefully, I'm not interested in being some man's exotic fetish. Coming across black men that hate black women is a huge turn off and thankfully they don't come my way often. I just know it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:58 PM
28

Yes unfortunately black women don't have any choice, there's a page on Facebook you might like, if you haven't heard about it already. It's called Say No To Struggle Love. It's aimed at black women but all women would find it useful to follow. Thank you for the link, I'm going to watch it after I've finished my dinner. The colourism is a huge issue and I know no other group of men who bash on their women more than black men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:06 PM
42

I need to watch that Tiktok debate but my own real life experience tells me this is so common amongst black men. I don't know where you are from but I'm from England. British black men are just as colourist, they wouldn't go near the black girls, they dated white girls. Even my mother's cousin would say in front of me to my PickMe mixed mum about how he hasn't had a white woman in ages and he would try to pick white woman up whilst driving me to the shops. No doubt black women are titled, they'v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:49 PM
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I can't see all of your last reply to me as I can only read it in my notification window but that sounds typical for a man to gaslight you about this, they know the truth but will insist all women have it better than him to save face. In my opinion black women are the most beautiful but I'm not a typical racist male. I've seen it for myself and have called it out on the occasions I've felt safe enough to. It's no better here in England with these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:43 PM
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u/Winter_Magician2594 sadly that doesn't surprise me, I've heard similar things from black women members of my family. I used to go clubbing with one black woman, she would ask me to approach men for their numbers, they would look at her and say no. She was better looking than most of them. I bet men call you a liar when you mention this as well, don't they? So much racism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:31 PM
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I don't understand it either, they must be mad. When I was a teenager I had a good black friend who was much prettier than me and she struggled to get a boyfriend. The hate black women get is awful and too many people want to deny that it's even a thing. I have some colourist people in my family who won't date any woman but a white woman. They hate themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:27 PM
4

Talking of blocking, am I the only one who is able to see blocked people's comments again? I will see a name blocked author, with an orange profile photo. Then I can see their comments. I do not like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:16 PM
116

Typical male double standards. Every day there is some scrote on the dating subs moaning about women's preferences for taller men. If all women really did only ever date 6ft or taller men, why do we see so many shorter men with wives and girlfriends? What we don't like is how insecure and shitty most short men are. You're so right about black women as well. As a mixed woman I got chosen over them all the time and white/Asian women get chosen even more. Men are perfectly happy to be racist agains…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:10 PM
18

That's scrotes for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:00 PM
23

Yes and I'm so thankful they do. The mods do a great job. Everywhere else on reddit I see non-stop posts from men about women supposedly 'baby trapping them'. I'm sure it does happen on rare occasions but they are full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:44 PM
7

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:17 PM
11

Why can't they understand we are complete by ourselves? Maybe they are so insecure that they don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:14 PM
10

Absolutely. My mother and stepfather didn't want me or my three brothers. However, my stepfather is a catholic and met my mother whilst she was still pregnant with me. They were substance abusers too. I believe this is why she didn't abort any of us. Honestly? I wish she had done so. She did have one abortion after my youngest brother though which she managed to keep from my stepfather. That's why I feel so strongly about women being able to have this right. There's going to be even more pain in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:03 PM
22

I'm from across the pond, I also worry about other women. I know a doctor who lives in Texas, we were messaging about it and it's devastating. No woman should be forced to have a baby she does not want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:59 PM
27

Well said. I know this is the only part of reddit we can say this unbothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:52 PM
12

When men can birth babies, then they get a say. I've been lucky enough in that my contraception has never failed but believe me, if I was impregnated, then I would have an an abortion. Too many men act like victims when a woman gives birth to their baby, apparently against their wishes, when they could have just got a vasectomy and worn a condom. Tough shit, biology is unfair on women and we make the decisions. Once his seed leaves his body, he knows it is out of his hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:50 PM
16

I haven't noticed this, thankfully. I have friends who are mostly single too. All are childfree, most around my age and two are gay. I'm a mixed race woman in a white area so we are all a bit different. I am mid 30s and also have two women friends in their 50s, one is married and one is single. Is this more common with friends who have children?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:44 PM
10

I'm sadly not surprised to read this. I went to get my nails done at a Korean nail bar. I'm mixed (Indian and Jamaican descent) but born in England. One woman used to creep me out with the way she stared at me. It came across as hostile. The last time I went there was when she just came out with "What are you?" I do not like being addressed this way, no matter the skin colour of the person asking. I'll spend my money where I'm treated as a human being and not a zoo animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:58 AM
10

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:40 AM
29

It's true. Two out of three of my brothers are absolute scrotes but they are very good looking. Despite not having much to offer, they get a lot of attention from women. My other brother is good looking too and he is better in my opinion but still needs to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:39 AM
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There really is something so great about being older. For me, it's the experience and intelligence to see right through men like that. I cringe when I remember how impressionable I was as an 18-25 year old. Good on you sis, too many men want sex for the least amount possible, no matter how rich or poor they may be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:33 AM
11

Yes that's true. I have three younger brothers. My stepfather was a violent alcoholic. My mother was a violent drug user but my stepfather was far stronger of course. Two out of my three brothers are women beaters. I warned my eldest brother's two baby mothers about him. He has nothing to do with my poor nephews. Makes me feel so ashamed. I could never treat a person like that. ETA. One of those brothers was asking me for money to buy drugs recently, I told him where to go. He wasn't even smart …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:18 PM
10

Yes that is how I feel too. It's a horrible world out there for women/girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:12 PM
63

It's funny how they try to make us feel insecure about getting older yet some of them are on OLD lying about their age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:10 PM
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