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GLOBAL RESISTANCEqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:20 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:57 AM
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LEVEL UPqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:33 PM
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FDS TRANSLATES MENqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:12 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:44 PM
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DISCUSSIONqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:01 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:47 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:15 AM
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SNATCH THEM COINSqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:18 AM
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DISCUSSIONqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:42 PM
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LibFem Logicqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:58 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:31 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:46 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶queenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:38 AM
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DISCUSSIONqueenofswordsxxx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:27 AM
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I wrote this as an Asian woman myself who lives within this cultural dynamic. It's not racist. We make generalisations about men all the time on this subreddit... please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/22 09:06 PM
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These mathematical calculations conveniently leave out other basic facts of life/ how nature works. When these math bros say "Your standards are too high! Only 0.00001% men meet your criteria", it is literally the easiest thing to rebut - "Ok, yea, because only 0.00001% deserve to have a mate and procreate. Sick, defunct animals don't mate. And most men shouldn't either. Survival of the fittest, honey."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 06:44 PM
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IDK which state/ country she is in so I can't comment on the specifics. But chances are legally she may have a proprietary interest and therefore a stake in the house if they were married and she had done significant work to maintain/ increase the value of the home. (Some Land x Trusts Law) I'm assuming she has her name on the title but that still puts herself in a precarious position since they were not married. This is why we never listen to men/ block and delete when they use the "marriage is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 11:26 AM
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Read the bloody handbook please. The section on the argument against 50/50 and listen to the FDS podcast on cohabitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 04:49 PM
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Having worked in law and being on the side of literal criminal defence teams, it's so common for barristers to 'coach' and tell their client to use the right terms to invoke 'sell their side of the story'. It's a courtroom, it's literally designed this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 09:06 AM
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Barbara the builder copium
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 04:32 AM
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Yep that was the voice in my head too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 05:07 PM
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Celibate for 4 years and I’m in my 20’s. I consider it a huge achievement for not letting dirty pigs into my sheets. Train your imagination and use toys. :) Direct your energy towards errands that you’ve been putting off etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:28 PM
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I think it’s very tacky to talk about class. HV people usually keep these things to themselves and just prefer to use loose terms to describe aspiration and ambition e.g. “work hard”, “build a financially free future”. It’s enough to use code without having to spell things out. I personally find men very cringe when they obsess over class and lifestyle signifiers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 03:17 AM
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I love to do the ‘gender flipping’ test to see if something is high value / makes sense for women- Imagine men collectively as a whole, putting up with BDSM from women.. being like “she slaps my ass in bed and it means she loves me hurr dur”. Screeching “She needs this! She needs an outlet! She needs sexual variety!”; “BDSM is pleasurable for men because we have prostates!!”; “I want mommy/ insert name of celebrity to choke me” Etc. It literally sounds so absurd. Men would never be willing to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 03:40 AM
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It seems like men only have the ability to empathise with other men. What about the woman’s feelings? What about her feeling used and her time being wasted? What about all her young fertile years and the opportunity cost of her not being able to find a HVM that loves her? How will she feel when she realises she’s been kept around as some pet for entertainment? Wtf I’m literally frothing at the mouth from anger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 03:19 AM
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In my experience, the HVM I knew actually didn’t want blowjobs (and actually pushed me away when I tried for it/ offered to reciprocate) because they think it’s degrading to the woman that they’re with. IMO men who want oral are usually pornsick. There’s no reason why regular PIV shouldn’t satisfy. Obviously there’s a double standard here because not all women can orgasm from regular PIV. So my stance is that men should put out and women don’t have to. Also aesthetically, dicks are just so much …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 06:27 AM
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I feel like this kind of dynamic is common for women who find career success later than their husbands. Ali spoke about him liking that she was lower value than him - Her words not mine - “He was smart enough to choose me, to invest in me when I was 20 pounds heavier, had chronic acne and no money,” “He bought low, and if we get divorced, he gonna sell high.” I have to wonder if he liked that she was less attractive and less successful. It’s very common for Asian men to date down, they like dumb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 05:38 AM
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I once met a guy (in his 20’s) that openly admitted to future faking his girlfriends & wasting their time because “my future wife is still in middle school”. 🤮 These are the types of conversations LVM are having in locker rooms. Infecting each other with degenerate philosophies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:40 AM
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Why are rappers so cliche? Ahem correction: Why are men so cliche?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:50 PM
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My narc ex was indeed on a tight schedule - he wanted a bloody British passport before getting kicked back to his home country LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 03:45 PM
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Or he sees you as mommy for taking care of him for so long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:15 PM
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It's literally impossible to do it all/ be the perfect modern woman. It would be equivalent to having 3 full time jobs at the same time - mother/ full-time worker at XYZ corporation/ model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:11 PM
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Yup. These RP bros use the 'you're not getting any younger' fear-mongering tactic so much and their logic literally makes no sense. If I were to "expire" soon and be considered undesirable, why would I go through all the trouble of giving my heart and soul to a guy, getting married and knocked up only to be disposed and left a destitute single mom later down the line?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:08 PM
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I had an ex that, the day after we broke up, posted a photo of him lounging on the couch, looking at his phone all while ignoring his sister's crying baby (right next to him), captioning it with a joke "The world's best uncle". He was living with his sister and brother in law for free for the summer. His sister had just given birth and the baby couldn't have been more than a month old. Flexing his incompetence on social media? EW. That was when I knew I'd dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 02:34 PM
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I lost a friend over a similar situation. The girl met some rando off Hinge and decided it was appropriate to move in with him after 3 months of knowing him. I tried to warn her and pointed out a shit ton of red flags. Then she got all offended, pulled the ‘My mom has cancer and she likes my new bf’ card, and slow faded me out of her life. Right now she’s his free chef, cleaner, pet sitter etc.. And on top of that, letting him live at her place FOR FREE. Pathetic. I’m stepping out and she can le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 02:36 PM
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Yes. Whether or not we get to meet the HVM that is the love our life is beyond our control (probability wise) but it doesn't mean we should stop trying. I find comfort in the fact that this is a universal experience. Most people don't have any control over who they get to meet & whether or not they meet a HV person. Amal Clooney once said in an interview (referring to love and marriage):“It's the one thing in life that I think is the biggest determinant of happiness, and it's the thing you have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 07:42 PM
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Their ‘compliance’ is often surface level and just a veil to appease you so that they keep getting gf/ wife privileges. Think the ‘shut up’ ring. E.g. A woman cOmMuNiCaTes her desire to long term commitment and marriage. She hints and nudges for it in a variety of ways. He ‘complies’ to keep her on the hook & proposes. Then he gets sick of the whole charade and leaves after leeching off her youth and wasting a ton of her time and energy. Tale as old as time. Pickmeishas dragging a LV (but compli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 07:36 PM
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I wonder what made you act ‘crazy’. Was your intuition off because you didn’t feel comfortable/ secure with him? Why did you have to check his phone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 01:15 PM
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Abusive and misogynistic men love to compliance test. When we fail these tests, they blame us for not following ‘the template’ and conclude that we’re not worthy of any love or decent behaviour. Then they discard us, because in their mind, his commitment & bare minimum decency is the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:10 AM
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You would look so much better if you worked out and got a hairline transplant surgery!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:46 PM
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Extra tip: Definitely lie! Lie about everything - especially your intentions! Whiplash them day to day with a different story! Today you want a relationship, tomorrow you want to be friends with benefits to keep it casual, next week you want to break up because of your “commitment issues”, and next month you “miss them” and want to get back together!! Extra credit for future faking! Suggest getting married and make future plans, then rug pull. Genius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 04:31 PM
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Why is it always the supposed lOgIcAL and educated professionals that let themselves be brainwashed by red pill propaganda and let their dicks drain all the blood out of their brains?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 12:02 PM
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Agreed. Love often obscures the obvious bare minimum- a man should make your material conditions objectively better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 11:57 AM
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But men are the rAtiOnAL and LoGiCaL sEx!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:13 PM
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LMAO Cassie is fitting pseudonym (euphoria reference I’m assuming?) Let her go. Women like this dig their own graves. Survival of the fittest. Smarter people deserve and work for a better quality of life. Be the smart one and leave the toxic ones behind before they drag you down with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:41 PM
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This is straight up financial abuse wtf. She should have access to her money and more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:35 PM
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Not only do I cringe at all the energy I spent worrying about what guys thought of me, 'should I have done more?' 'should I have presented myself in XYZ way? been less sensitive etc?'... I cringe at all the Pickmeisha friends I let myself be surrounded by and how I let their horrible advice dictate the way I live. Especially how I let them talk me into lowering my standards for men who clearly didn't deserve it. All the times they told me to 'jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe', to text & chase the guy (because i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:30 PM
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Suggestion to FDS to start using & popularise the word Mantrum instead of tantrum !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:54 AM
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If I were her, I literally wouldn’t even let this entitled scrote know what’s up Let these NV genes die out, please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:02 PM
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I was that ‘new girl’ and ignored the red flags when he told me his ex dumped him for being ‘immature’. Guess what happened? She was right. Immature indeed. He was a selfish, non-communicative, gaslighting fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:09 AM
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I cringe at how his idea of ‘growth’ is becoming the bare minimum version of a semi-passable decent man. The bar is in hell. Also proof that men lie about their intentions ALL THE TIME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 08:36 PM
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Just world fallacy. It’s a delusion instilled by the patriarchy that if women act justly and honestly, men will reciprocate with the same good will. In reality it just opens women up to manipulation and exploitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 05:08 PM
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So she’s fit but he wants her to be anorexic?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:41 PM
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Not controversial at all IMO. Most women add tremendous value to a men in a marriage context. Most men take and take and take. Us women have to be worried about marrying the wrong man & getting cheated out our time, energy, emotional labour, money, sexuality etc. because most men simply don’t give much back in return. LVM who worry about ‘marrying the wrong woman’ are usually just garden variety misogynists who think that there are an antiquated set of wifely duties that modern women may or may …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:47 PM
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Crime escalates. Abuse too. (Lundy Bancroft even writes it). He starts with a misogynistic and disgusting comment today, next week he throws out your clothes, next month he kicks your cat, next year he pinches and slaps you, next decade he kills… She needs to leave before the push and pull cycle of abuse starts. He’s only on Reddit to try to find a way to win her back. Also wtf is wrong with the mother-in-law?!?! Serena joy vibes much???? Literally it’s women like this that are complicit to the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:28 PM
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Older men who date younger often have the wrong motivations and intentions. You can live in la la land and dream about dating older and how that gives you access to mature men who are more established etc., but if they were so mature, they wouldn't be dating 8-10 years younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 05:39 PM
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Took one look at the handwriting and knew this is an unhinged NVM. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:01 PM
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Gloria Steinem. Amazing lawyer fighting for women’s rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:35 PM
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Just another way to put the onus on women, like we’re supposed to be the ones doing all the emotional heavyweight lifting, establishing a connection, because men are (insert XYZ excuse… bad texters etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:31 PM
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Gaslighting from men is very common. Then when we react reasonably & emotionally, we get blamed for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:24 PM
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Don’t get me started on the men who glorify American Psycho, Mad Men, or Fight Club 🤢🤮 Find your own personalities, scrotes. Stop copying whatever is popular on TV right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:12 AM
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The sperm chases the egg but the egg needs to chase the sperm first LMFAO This man is literally delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 11:58 PM
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Yep. Men who want anal are straight up undateable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:36 PM
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Meanwhile LVM see us as nagging balls and chains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:15 PM
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This is embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:14 PM
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You chose the mask, the person he was pretending to be. Then the mask dropped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 10:07 PM
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Remind yourself: Patriarchy is designed so that women get treated shitty NO MATTER WHAT. I mean look at Kim K, rich, white, successful, beautiful - still abused by Kanye. It’s not personal. Their shitty behaviour is never about you. It’s about power, control, sex and misogyny. It’s systemic. It’s directed at all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:36 AM
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Literally stop buying tickets to the circus. Stop joining the circus, you’re not a clown. 🤡 He may be holding out a knife but you’re also the one constantly volunteering to run into it. Stop. Literally stop. Block and delete. Exit this entire shit show and stop thinking about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:57 PM
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Literally these red pill idiots are also the ones telling each other that men peak at 35-40 and that they should play the field & wait till then to get into serious relationships so that they have access to ‘the best batch of high value women’…. So which one is it? Do women level up and wait till our 30’s for our age appropriate mid-30’s HVM? Or do we settle down ASAP in our 20’s before we ‘hit the wall’? Do we work hard, save money, so that we have something to offer financially and pay 50/50? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:54 PM
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The fact that this is a college campus populated by majority white girls… I wonder what the statistics are if this was done in a less prestigious college, with a more representative/ diverse student population
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 10:47 PM
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Exactly. If she dated a HVM that understood these things (the inequalities that women face), there would be no “negotiation” needed AT ALL. She shouldn’t have to constantly assert her needs and boundaries. And she wouldn’t have if she was dating a HVM. The reality is - Good men (and I’m mean truly good men) get it. And bad men don’t get it. If they get it, they get it. If they don’t, kick them to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 11:27 PM
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This is why FDS advocates to NOT do 50-50 finance from the beginning. It sets the tone for the entire relationship and getting men to do MORE/ give MORE later down the line is extremely difficult. She shouldn’t have dated him from the beginning if she wanted to avoid this issue. 50-50 men are straight up undateable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:08 PM
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Read Lilith’s article on Backfooting on the FDS website https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com/post/backfooting-the-disturbing-dating-trend-men-don-t-want-you-to-know-about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:35 AM
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Wasn’t she the nurse that lied about being a COVID frontline worker? Lol guess water finds it’s own level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:32 AM
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Male, 30, only 5’10 but will tell you I’m 6’, failed windsurfer that never made it pro. Will lie to you about ‘pure and good intentions’ and use you for sex, only to dump you when times become inconvenient. Looking for immature pickmeisha who will overlook messy room, irresponsible personality, complete lack of compassion and social graces. You will be distracted by my above average looks and law degree until you realise I’m a manchild with a receding hairline. Quote: “Please believe me, my inte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:17 AM
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Why do men always resort to these ineffective negs? It’s always the ‘you’re arrogant/ too masculine/ vulgar/ rude/ not feminine and you turn alpha men off’ As if the demographic they are talking to cares about letting LVM down lightly/ being attractive to LVM. I had a date get butthurt and call me ‘vulgar’ when I had the ‘audacity’ to reject him. LOL he literally thought that would offend me when it’s clear that women like me, women like us… are head strong feminists that believe that ‘well beha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:54 AM
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But we’re the GoLd DiGgErS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:59 PM
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They need someone as Low Value as them to coddle their egos. Water seeks its own level. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:49 PM
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Too cliche… She builds him up for the next girl. He breaks her down for the next LV guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:45 PM
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I had a similar experience where a ‘friend’ blamed me for a man’s abusive gaslighting behaviour when I was complaining about the patriarchy. Pickmeisha’s are in denial and it’s best to just cut them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 10:13 PM
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In the FDS podcast with Lundy Bancroft - he explicitly says that it’s never our fault, there’s just such a substantially large abusive scrote population 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:49 PM
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My NVX didn’t even have the courage to break up face to face 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:03 PM
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I like how he thinks that he was aBuSed into ‘subsidising her living’ when it’s literally HIS financial abuse when HE demanded 50-50 from a woman that makes substantially less than him. 50-50 in these situations are NEVER equitable. Chances are she’s doing the bulk of the domestic labour too so it doubles down on the unfairness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:38 PM
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West Elm Caleb cheap date LV vibes 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:33 PM
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My friend had a breast lift after losing 100 pounds (she gained the weight/ got obese because of a traumatic event - r@pe). Breast lift scars look like an anchor and her boyfriend ended up negging her for it. Despite her putting in the effort to get healthy and level up, she still got punished… sigh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 08:30 PM
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Homeless king 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:46 PM
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Funny how he literally got famous by constantly making videos about how 'family, wife and children' made him a successful entrepreneur ; and now that he's all clout-ed up, he tosses them to the side O.O
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:44 PM
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Once had a guy call me 30 times (missed calls) because I’d said I was hungry and wanted to go to X restaurant. He assumed right away we were gonna meet there ASAP and thought he was being stood up LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:33 AM
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And to add on to this because not every abusive guy has a criminal record to be found: You may see him all lovey dovey on IG/ FB with his next victim/ narc supply - it doesn’t mean he’s changed for the better. You don’t know what goes on behind closed doors and chances are, he’s still a LV/ NV abusive prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:50 PM
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Absolutely. I would rather have 20 boyfriends on their 🌈best behaviour🌈 for a year per bf vs. 20 years in some miserable torturous marriage with an abusive LVM that does nothing but take from me. FDS is about pure profit and maximising female benefit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:28 AM
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This is what happens when pickmeishas act as psyops/ serena joys for the patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:24 AM
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How ENTITLED of him to think that he deserves a woman’s attention without paying for it in some way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:30 PM
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I like how she has 6M followers and him 249k 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:15 PM
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Leave it to men to try and police/ tell us what women are supposed to want. As if we don’t know ourselves what makes US happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:59 AM
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I have this tiny fine line under my right eye (only one eye LOL) and it appears when LVM are in my life (probably because of all the tears irritating my under eye). When they’re gone, the line is gone too 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:43 PM
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The age gap though 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:35 PM
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Given the fact that he has emotional/ anger issues, I would suggest that other women that find themselves in a similar situation with a dangerous man pretend to ‘lose the baby’ instead and then make an exit. If he can punch himself, he can punch you. As the saying goes - If someone is suicidal, they can be homicidal. Hope OP is safe and he doesn’t use the abortion as an excuse to abuse / mistreat you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:19 PM
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Has she tried cOmMuNiCaTiNg mOrE or tHeRaPy??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:02 PM
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Ugh what is wrong with the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:47 PM
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He’s posting this on Reddit so that him and all the LVM’s can join in, back him up about this being a ‘funny joke’ and gaslight women into accepting this immature behaviour 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:58 PM
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Cringe age gap and stingy too 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:46 AM
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In the words of Taylor Swift “Casually cruel in the name of being honest”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:07 PM
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Homeless king 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:58 PM
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Don’t get me started on Mambo No.5 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 08:51 AM
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He sounds like he copied and pasted his response from some creepy red pill guide on ‘how to respond to re-schedules from defiant females’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:28 PM
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Boo hoo his sex doll has working legs and is running away… I’d be pretty upset too if my vibrator started running off with other girls 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:55 PM
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Beat up flaps 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:11 PM
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I was 12 when boys in the schoolyard started harassing me by making porn references and telling me the things they watched. It’s common. 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:53 AM
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His blasé attitude suggests he’s probably pro-porn and watches it himself. Like father, like son. 🤮 I’m gonna go ahead and predict what happens next: Son grows up. Violent sex is the only reference point he has. At 16, experiments with high school girlfriend, ends up choking and hurting her, she gets traumatised; he gaslights her by saying this is how people have sex now, look at the internet!! ; a new pickmeisha is born where she ‘copes’ by justifying more violent BDSM sexual practices and tell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:42 AM
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Yea he’s the common denominator so it’s him that’s the problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:38 AM
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Sounds like you’re the common denominator here, prick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:19 AM
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“You can use the couch until you’re comfortable enough to share the bedroom” Aka Yea imma rape you in the living room too but eventually I want to rape you in my own bed 🤢🤮😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 08:52 PM
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These types of women seem to buy into the strategic incompetence that men have traditionally pretended to have. That’s why these women think men are “simplistic”, “not detailed oriented” or “can’t do simple chores and unable to be domestic”. But ok men are somehow smart enough to be doctors and lawyers. But they don’t have the self-control to NOT sling their dick around and be a community d!ck But they have the self-control to sit down and study to be doctors and lawyers. You can’t help but shak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:56 PM
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Yea there was a bit of triangulation there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:06 PM
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Trolololol I’m in my mid-twenties and relate to this so hard. Another male-patterned ‘crime’ / violation of the tenth degree. These men are so entitled that they’re exempt from the unspoken agreements that comes along with participation in decent society. How can you agree to be exclusive, sleep with a woman then skr skr make a U-turn the other way round? Men like this are sick in the head, because they think a woman’s value is directly correlated to being sexually ‘un-gettable’. They lie, manip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:55 PM
48

Gatekeep. Gaslight. Guy Boss. Scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:18 PM
272

I tapped out after the first paragraph because we all know this is some pickmeisha show off shit show where some scrote wants and tries to benefit off of women’s exploitation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:54 PM
131

“Because I don’t like to date down like you do” *flips hair *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:51 PM
7

I relate to this so hard. Dated down once (I know, I was such a pickmeisha once at the tender age of 17). This college aged dude was literally 5’6’ with ugly slanted eyes and on a date, he started just randomly taking photos of me without my consent, I kept covering my face, he kept snapping until he got a side-eye look of me when my hands got too tired. The next day he posted it on IG with some faux confession lovely dovey caption about how special the night was (The night was horrible for me),…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:56 PM
244

Technically men have better skin too cuz when collagen breaks down in men, their skin sinks at a slant whilst women’s sink straight down. But they’re still horrible at skincare and still end up looking worse than us 🤷🏻‍♀️ Men literally have no excuse. Their metabolic rates are higher, they can tolerate eating more food, they can work out more because they don’t have to be worried about being harassed outdoors or at gyms. They can go running in the middle of the night and literally not worry. Yet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:50 PM
26

Fair weathers friends…. More like fair weather scores 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:06 PM
259

Rooney Mara literally looks like a child next to Joaquin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:58 AM
42

Yuck she just wants to sell ‘courses’ and ‘coaching’ 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:50 AM
153

The way he’s emphasising that he was 12 is super disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:46 AM
89

If I was her, I’d find a way to get in contact with his family and wife. Since he’s so afraid of shame/ haram, watch what happens when you rain it down on him 🌧🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:54 PM
336

Literally I can’t believe someone can be so disgusting as to say that out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:46 PM
180

His sperm, his responsibility. His job, his responsibility. His pornsickness, his responsibility. His gaming addiction, his responsibility. His finances, his responsibility. OP should run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:43 PM
159

Main reason here - they divorced for a reason. And 99% it was probably him that was the problem. AKA DIVORCED DADS ARE USUALLY LOW VALUE AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:08 PM
130

Yup. Another male-centred “me me me” narrative where he’s the victim and everyone should be sorry for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:07 AM
24

In the words of Taylor Swift “Casually cruel in the name of being honest” - aka it’s all just an excuse to be misogynistic and sexist 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:08 PM
81

Slow fade them out. Go from meeting every week to meeting every month, slowly de-escalate the friendship from 100 to 0. Go from best friends to ‘hi and bye’ acquaintances. Then if you bump into them just blame it on the ‘we grew apart and I got really busy’. Before you know it, they’ll be strangers and you’re on your merry way. Narcs can get angry and combative when you cut them off abruptly. You want to make them forget about you and insulting their ego by confronting them certainly won’t help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:54 PM
317

He has googly eyes. The vibes are so creepy. But also WHY WOULD U FLY TO ANOTHER COUNTRY TO DATE SOME SCROTE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:28 PM
71

Accuses her of being petty. Yet is also petty enough to try to ‘teach her a lesson’. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:29 AM
45

Promise rings give me 2010’s Jonas brothers vibes and I never liked them 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:48 PM
16

Yea, I agree. Money is a proxy for power, but it’s also a proxy for freedom too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:42 PM
13

Omg too real & literally such a good vetting strategy though - ask them on a date which potion they would choose… I would include money too; since most men are obsessed with wealth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:27 PM
250

His wife appliance malfunctioned. I’d be pretty angry too if my coffee machine started making Diet Coke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:18 PM
61

It was the biggest paradigm shift for me when I realised that men and women are simply socialised to be motivated by different things. Men by sex, power, domination, basically most things reptilian. And women - love, community, male validation etc. And these motivations screw us over, especially women 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:17 PM
24

With peace and love - Tbh I really don’t think you should be dating if your self-esteem or whatever psychological splinter you have leads you to going down on your knees begging for a man’s XYZ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:01 PM
52

Don’t take it personally. Scrotes gonna scrote. And men are literally socialised to have nothing but the 🌈audacity🌈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:36 PM
12

Just another NVM using veiled language trying to get us lower our standards 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:46 AM
39

If it was me and I was only a few weeks pregnant, I’d be running to the abortion clinic 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:00 PM
304

It’s almost offensive because when they’re rude/ manipulative/ down right abusive during the breakup it usually indicates that you were no more than a girlfriend appliance to them. Like literally an object to use and dispose. The best relationships I had were the HV guys who were cordial, calm and we were still able to be distant friends afterwards. They didn’t kick me to the curb just because I no longer had sexual/ romantic utility to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:38 PM
171

The way he treated Rose as some sort of dirty mail order bride was everything we needed to know 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:07 AM
9

Thoughtful gifts > thoughtless gifts > ‘Do you want one’ gift > Zero gift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:55 AM
10

Men are so cliche with their transgressions & entitled mentality. I swear this whole thing sounds like a template in a psych 101 class about a standard client in his 40’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:06 AM
347

Imagine being in your 50’s, meaning you’ve been working for at least 25 years, and still being such a cheap f**k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:56 PM
48

3 words: Peter Pan syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:08 PM
285

The last screenshot was really illuminating - Basically men are offended that women in normal relationships want equality and have expectations So they head to strip clubs where they can abuse women under the guise of ‘unconditional servicing’ of ‘traditional women’ YUCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:43 PM
5

Strategically incompetent here! 🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:42 PM
8

Horseplay. He treats you like one of his bros that he can just casually punch or shove in the name of ‘fun’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:04 PM
52

The reality is that most people are chicken shits who have zero moral character. It’s hard to walk against the grain so men tend to just lean into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:32 AM
8

It's disgusting how men always use the 'just date younger' cop-out as a solution to every incompatibility and their own incompetence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:43 PM
143

Exactly. Mommy bangmaid at home while he enjoys cheating on the side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:15 PM
112

Absolutely. She’s been gaslit and abused left, right and centre. No contact is exactly what she should be doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:03 PM
434

If he’s so sick of her then why doesn’t he leave? Answer: He knows he can’t actually do better 🤷🏻‍♀️ The scrote can die mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:00 PM
93

Golden penis syndrome and pickme moms. Literally had a boyfriend that said ‘behind every great man is a great woman’ insinuating that he wanted me to stand behind him 🤢 Guess where he learnt that from - his parents’ family dynamic, ofc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:31 PM
13

Liberal feminism is just the patriachy packaged with the flowery terms like 'empowerment', 'her choice', 'sexual freedom' and 'her bodily autonomy'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:55 PM
73

YES. Big Chris Pratt scrote 'I need a Christian pickme to admire me' vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:52 PM
30

3 words. Don’t date potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:41 PM
139

In one of his new songs he was also complaining about wanting ‘her’ but not willing to make any sacrifice for it… code for: boo boo I’m sad because I can’t have u while simultaneously cheating on u relentlessly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:35 PM
127

Reminds me of NVM Armie Hammer carving his initials into his BDSM victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:29 PM
145

To simplify: Men use feminism to impose financial 50/50 while completely minimising and ignoring our non-paid domestic and emotional contributions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:50 PM
173

Who’s gonna tell him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:54 PM
28

When cosmopolitan started writing columns like “How to keep him interested by hypersexualising yourself at the expense of your own comfort and sanity”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 02:49 AM
27

Women and children are the collateral damage for whatever ‘personal development journey of healing’ crap men decide to go on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 02:26 AM
55

He probably has a girl there, that’s why he wants to go back and have a fling again while he neglects all his responsibilities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:34 PM
271

I like how us employing tactics to protect ourselves = abusing men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:10 AM
69

Men who are little too slick = lovebombing aka they’ve done this before, they know what to say, they’re reciting whatever lines from romantic comedies and they know what women generally like to hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 08:24 PM
203

Men are so immature and avoidant. I had a friend whose LV boyfriend literally brought a friend with him to break up with her at a cafe LMAO. Imagine being that big of a coward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:55 PM
141

Body shaming is a tactic of manipulation, it’s about the NVM moving the goalpost and making you insecure so you don’t think about whether he’s attractive to you (while you’re super concerned about your own attractiveness). I’ve only been negged once by man who was literally the ugliest one I’ve ever dated. He was 5’6’ and smaller than me, slanted eyes and looked like an underdeveloped teenager. He pinched my arm and insinuated that I should work out more - when I was 17 and literally at the peak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:52 PM
27

He’s probably going to cheat on her so that he can have his cake and eat it too. Men are so immature. They don’t seem to understand a fundamental principle of the universe - there is no gain without loss. If you’re in a committed relationship then you deal with the cons of it too. If you want to sling your dick around then there are cons too. The fact that men are entitled enough think that they are somehow the exception and can ‘have their cake and eat it too’ is peak immaturity and idiocy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:30 PM
29

In the words of Taylor Swift “I gave you my best and we both know you can’t say that”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:42 AM
36

When men say they want women to ‘reciprocate’ it almost always means ‘I want her to overfunction and do more like the 50’s pickmeisha stepford wife’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:38 AM
156

I lived with a female roommate for 1 week and she noticed that I drink Earl grey tea every night so she would put it in our grocery order. My male roommates though, didn’t notice shit and bought us any random cheap breakfast tea available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:07 PM
198

I was once working for a HV male lawyer. He told me that he prefers female interns because we’re more conscientious and simply do better work. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:05 PM
26

Oh look, another predator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:03 PM
3

“Found one!!” Found one of what? An annoying feminist with standards and boundaries?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:29 AM
115

Men always get so sensitive about us being ‘superficial’ when it comes to height, meanwhile they’ll tear women apart for our insignificant physical flaws. Hyprocites 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:30 AM
14

These are all classic DARVO techniques. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. So now he’s the victim and you’re the offender. These men truly make me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:32 PM
202

Not to mention the sunk cost fallacy + the patriarchy conditions women to SELF-CENSOR instead of being honest about how shitty it is to give up your entire life for some mediocre scrote and kids, overfunctioning emotionally to give them your all and still have them be ungrateful lil shits Instead pick-me moms will go on and on about how good their life is (the lady doth protest too much vibes) and try to pawn off their low value sons on to you in the meantime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:12 AM
26

Imagine what he was telling these women - “I’m looking for a relationship bla bla bla”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:39 PM
155

I’ve had friends that did the whole sugarbaby/ gold digging thing. It never works because men aren’t stupid, and the women who do this are super naive. The reality is men are essentially getting a bigger bang for their buck with sugarbabying. They get hotter girls that are more naive + sexual exclusivity for a longer period of time aka lesser risk of STD’s + free emotional labour + arm candy for events - all for a price comparable to a one-night high-end prost!tute. For men, sugarbabying is simp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:27 PM
18

My relationship with my LVX started with a hookup too. I was brainwashed in college by hookup culture, and all it did was make me a convenient lay for him to play with until it was time to graduate. In the few months I was with him, it eventually became clear that he was never going to be high-effort or court me properly. And I felt a huge hole in my heart for it. I kept waiting for him to do more, say more, be more, but I’d already given up my bargaining chip. By the end of it, I was just a nag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:16 PM
30

Mixed British Asian here. Beware of Asian guys trying to love bombing you quickly and trying to marry you for your Western passport 🙄 don’t ask me how I know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:05 PM
92

They’re like ‘I can’t believe this girl wants to give her time, babies, her entire life but ew I can’t believe that I have to text her back’ 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:01 PM
186

And to add to that - you’re not being demanding, they just don’t want to do the bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:58 PM
217

I like how she’s like ‘I WILL NOT LET HIM MANIPULATE ME’ meanwhile she’s been manipulated and scammed this entire time. The pickmeisha delusion is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:56 PM
46

You can’t and won’t find healing in the same place you got hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:04 PM
90

What’s up with that cringey heart 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:20 AM
267

It’s like they don’t understand how systemic misogyny/ patriarchy works to abuse women from all directions (including relationships)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:10 AM
20

‘cOmMuniCatE’ is often just a tactic men use to skirt blame and accountability. My LVX used it to shift the deterioration of the relationship to me, citing ‘one-sided communication’ which was absolutely BS because I was always vocal & he was the one who was too lazy to pull his weight and maintain our relationship. He just wanted an excuse to breakup & gaslight me on the way out. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:52 AM
4

This is so eff-ed up I can’t even
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:22 PM
46

Looking at myself in the mirror and tapping into the reality that the most supportive person for me IS ME. I owe it to the girl in the mirror to protect myself and my well-being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:21 PM
362

Pornsick + male entitlement + objectification of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:48 AM
30

Read Lundy Bancroft ‘Why does he do that’. He has a section on why playboys are potential / actually abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 11:02 PM
96

This shows how you can be the most demure, Christian, pickmeisha good girl and a man’s accusing finger will still find you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:24 AM
1

Don’t forget how he strung Nikki Bella along for the better part of a decade. He dangled that marriage and kids carrot 🥕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:30 PM
6

Shutting down communication = Stonewalling Accusing you of abuse = DARVO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 01:50 PM
16

I just got a seizure reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:04 PM
26

Anything Drake makes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:02 PM
108

Isn’t the entire premise of the Hinge app ‘people looking for commitment’? Then why is this dumb LVM telling on himself being like “my irrational fear is commitment”?!?!?! Go on tinder and waste someone else’s time then. 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:02 AM
69

It’s everywhere tho - Country clubs where rich men swap stories about their mistresses and oblivious wives. Football teams where gymshark bros swap stories about their pump and dump conquests. Board rooms where higher ups brag about who effing the intern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:22 PM
166

Also avoid the guys that kiss you on the lips so that you stop talking. Disrespectful f**ckers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:18 PM
144

Men will claim to be protectors then go out of their way to harm our self-esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:15 AM
87

You’d think with all that money he could hire a trainer, get a hair transplant, fake tan a lil, Botox his wrinkles and get a cleaner haircut… But no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 02:42 PM
27

Ahh yes the classic double standard - When men ‘scrutinise and ridicule’ women it’s called joking When women ‘scrutinise and ridicule’ men it’s called being ‘derogatory’ ‘belittling’ and ‘reinforcing misogyny’ Emma Sayle @ Killing Kittens - I hope you got picked 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:00 PM
16

Add to the list: a NVM once dated me and proposed super early to try to get a British passport
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:41 AM
8

Lol men these days don’t have any meaningful money or resources. I’m sorry but I’m in my early twenties and I’m richer and financially savvier than all my male peers. These losers have nothing to offer 🤷🏻‍♀️🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:09 AM
10

Snow White ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:06 AM
32

I wonder if she has ethnic hair and is sensitive about it. Either way, men should stop harping on high maintenance women 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:13 AM
140

The playboy type is an extreme minority status that most men simply cannot achieve. And even if they do achieve it, most men struggle to hold on to it bc of the sheer amount of difficult factors at play. First off, good genetics and bone structure, 6 ft or above, privileged background meaning accruing wealth was easy especially with a good job/ education. And second, the persistence involved to stay physically, financially and mentally on the top of their game. The reality is most men simply tap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 08:06 PM
111

He probably groomed her. And yes 18 is still young enough to be groomed. I’m 23 and looking back I was so dumb lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:56 PM
111

I was dating a LVM years ago and he told me that he was watching that show. I didn’t realise till after I saw it on FDS that he did exactly that to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:18 PM
307

There’s no such thing as a ‘reformed playboy’. Playboys are abusers. And according to Lundy Bancroft - abusers don’t change because there’s no benefit to them leaving a system that benefits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:36 PM
18

Because they are weak and way too concerned with power - “if he loves a woman, she will then have the power to hurt him, to deprive him, to engulf him, to abandon him” - the Tragedy of Heterosexuality by Jane Ward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:26 PM
14

This is so true. Guys that are just looking for an average girl ‘just good enough’ to fulfil his needs without having to work to keep her/ connect on a meaningful level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:03 PM
31

Emotional abuse and gaslighting - making you question your entire reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:28 AM
42

My LVX forgot his dads birthday until everyone in his family group chat was sending out hearts and emojis. That’s when I knew he could never be a viable partner (cheating and gaslighting aside). I want to be with someone as thoughtful as I am. And I do a lot for people’s birthdays. Simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 05:52 AM
17

Did a scrote write this? I really can’t fathom a woman being highly educated yet so financially irresponsible that she didn’t have enough savings to tide herself through… and have to resort to sex work?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 02:50 AM
72

The average man doesn’t really have any meaningful power/ dominance in the world. But men have been socialised to define power/ dominance over something or someone as success, so they find twisted methods to satisfy that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 02:48 AM
8

More proof that men don’t actually love women; but rather what we do for their egos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:40 AM
51

They clearly don’t care about the emotional pain women suffer from all these unrealistic beauty standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:08 PM
400

“No amount of visual perfection can ever satisfy a pornsick man. It’s like trying to fill up a pasta strainer with water. You can’t.” AMEN SIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:05 PM
430

Imagine if we played on loop ‘fifty shades of grey’ but exclusively the scenes of the rich guy impressing the gal with his hot bod, expensive vacations and gifts - these men would have a field day about how this makes them ‘self conscious’ and we’d tell them ‘hey don’t feel bad about being a massive mediocre loser, I love you as you’ 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:23 PM
5

Men using women to circumvent their own coming of age = women being collateral damage for the 🌈personal development journeys🌈 of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:09 AM
91

I like how the red pill guy was waiting for JP to agree with him about how women have an ‘elevated sense of self’ and that we’re entitled because of feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:54 AM
108

Having a mid-life crisis? Cheat on your loyal wife of 20 years with a 19 year old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:43 AM
101

Men don’t want to love, they just want to be an abuser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:47 AM
61

Imagine getting your 🐱 ripped apart for passing on this LVM’s sociopathic genes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:17 AM
48

Men really do lack empathy don’t they
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:39 AM
582

Exactly! It’s never flattering when someone asks you to be their side piece. It only means he sees you as a doormat, fuck doll, not worth any meaningful investment. Also I doubt he and his wife are actually separated. He’s just a garden variety asshole that wants to have his cake and eat it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:26 PM
7

Imagine being so lame and LV that you spreadsheet out the days you have sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:13 PM
72

‘all the responsibility for the heterosexuality-repair to be put on the woman’ = cOmMuNiCaTe, twist yourself into a pretzel, accommodate his needs and his desires rather than your, your career dreams are secondary to his, you perform all the emotional labour 😤 We’re done. Women are done. ‘Men’s desire for freedom and power over women’ my my is this the problem of LVM. They want to have their cake and eat it too. You don’t get a relationship with freedom. And you don’t get power without responsib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:55 AM
106

Not to shame someone for having trauma and mental issues - I have those things myself But the way this LVM pulls and parades the ‘my dad died at 9-11’ card to defend his shitty actions from 1. disgusting love bombing style serial dating 2. drug problems 3. being a general mess with his horrible tattoos My dude, it’s been literally decades. Your ‘dead dad’ shouldn’t be an excuse anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:51 AM
121

Women show more camaraderie than men ever know how to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:45 AM
71

LVM aspire to be successful so that they can do disgusting things and get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:41 AM
16

Divorced men are damaged goods bc they usually screwed up in some way in order for the woman to kick him to the curb (especially because the majority of the time, it’s the woman filing for divorce).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:47 PM
177

Men hate ‘generalisations’ because they understand that women are harder to abuse and victimise when we’re sitting around in circles comparing notes 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:42 PM
20

Men want us to suffer in silence so that their reputation stays intact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:20 PM
2

Leeches and vampires too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:03 AM
164

He’s brings nothing to the table yet wants you to make a full presentation about what you bring… hypocrite much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:52 AM
335

‘Friends with yummy benefits’ god just take me now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:48 AM
3

Dont forget “American Psycho”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:23 AM
50

Boo boo she died and I had to find another wife appliance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:45 AM
93

This is so disturbing. I can’t even
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:48 AM
224

Most of the relationship problems I see on these forums really just boil down to one of 2 things My LV bf is not thoughtful -> therefore lazy and low effort My LV bf is not empathetic -> therefore mean and abusive You can’t cOmMuNiCaTe your way into changing the fundamental traits of a person. 🤷🏻‍♀️ just block and delete before he gaslights tf out of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:58 AM
82

Yup. In big cities you can easily pull a game/ manipulate multiple women at the same time and keep your reputation in tact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:19 PM
7

Pierce Brosnan and Keely Smith
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:24 PM
15

Do you know who else doesn’t care about your pain/ grief? Strangers. Imagine your husband treating you like a stranger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:21 PM
33

Leap of faith 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:58 AM
386

Ahh the classic gaslighting line “you’re too needy/ demanding for wanting the bare minimum”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:40 AM
248

IMO it’s not a problem that you’re replaceable. We’re all replaceable in the grand scheme of things. The real issue is that you don’t feel special or he’s playing the classic LV red pill tactic called ‘dread game’, which is a lot of immature signalling that he has other options in order to trigger your scarcity mindset and anxiety so that you chase him. Either way, if your intuition is screaming no, don’t date him. No matter how ‘high value’ you think he is, it could all be just for show. And to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:22 PM
84

I can’t help but feel that this is emotionally abusive in a way “I’m tired of it” = I’m sick of you not being a doormat, I don’t care about your needs and standards, completely an unempathetic person “If you don’t like it then you can go” = using abandonment to threaten you into lowering your standards “I’m not changing” = a refusal of acknowledging personal accountability aka immaturity, also he probably has a streak of red pill underlying mentality that ‘misogyny isn’t really real’ and it’s al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:07 AM
3

Well done, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:01 AM
50

Misogynistic jokes are the most low hanging fruit of all. If someone has to rely on them, it means that they’re probably not a funny person. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:01 AM
215

TRUE. My LVX ghosted me for 3 weeks then gaslit me by telling me that I’m the one who’s ‘non-communicative’ because I confronted him about it and tried to hold him accountable. Blocked and deleted. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:35 PM
105

If he was replying to Rich Cooper then it’s clear this was all a red pill circle jerk of mediocre male podcasters that make a living out of publicly voicing their misogyny + support for abusive dynamics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:09 PM
23

The lib fem dating market is basically this - Let’s see who’s willing to lower their standards most and be a doormat to get the guy Basically it’s a game of “How low can you go”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:22 AM
23

It’s so vile that it’s becoming straight up comedy, imagine if someone said: “I just slipped and my dick fell into her, I didn’t cheat on you” “I just picked up the dollar bill and put it in my pocket, I didn’t steal it” LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:18 AM
70

It’s the echo chamber effect so I completely understand. It helps for me to take a break from FDS and social media once in a while so I don’t feel completely disillusioned by the state of the world and more specifically, dating and the dating market. Employing some stoicism helps too. Level up and enjoy your life. Take care of yourself. And if a HVM shows up to add value, appreciate it. If not, we are strong women who will find a way to make life enjoyable and productive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:49 PM
114

I’m so sick of men and their mental gymnastics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:07 PM
117

THIS. also the “I don’t understand. I don’t know what you’re talking about” So infuriating! Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:57 PM
98

It’s so cringey when white men/ or women in a privileged position come out to defend predators by using the common argument of “Well I didn’t experience any of XYZ when he was working with me!” LOL it’s like the fundamentally don’t understand how humans work. Just bc someone puts up a certain facade/ shows a certain image in front of you, doesn’t mean they aren’t shitty to other people. Not to mention, if you’re rich, white and privileged, chances are you were even the target of such abuse. You …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:44 AM
646

He traded Anna for a younger, bouncier, cool girl. How predictable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:05 PM
23

I love Tina fey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:40 AM
354

I’m sure a dude made that comment, literally no girl has said ‘I want him to impart worldly knowledge to me’ before 🤮🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:06 AM
2

Oof no one on FDS would approve that 12 year age gap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 08:45 PM
80

He’s short af too. I don’t understand why Gigi would want to mix her great genes with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:43 AM
101

Yep he gives peak LV vibes. From his lyrics to his fake ‘anxiety’ cop-outs from performing on stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:18 AM
16

I meant old in a sense that he took that much time to realise objectifying women is bad. But absolutely, good for you and congrats for being fit, educated, happy and scrote-free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:57 PM
14

Exactly. His whole post is more of a publicity “feel sorry for me” stunt rather than a “I’m sorry for objectifying and abusing women”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:39 PM
12

Please don’t take it personally, OP. I’m criticising his self pitying sentiment, not you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:34 PM
60

Because men see women as collateral damage to their own personal development journeys. No thank you. We’re not rehabs, we’re not tutorial centres or lecture halls, we won’t give you constructive criticism and fEeDbAcK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:16 PM
86

All is see from him is a bunch of “Wawa I’m a victim booboo” BS. He can blame porn, movies and toxic masculinity all he wants. But at some point he’s going to have to take some goddamn personal accountability and face the truth - he was complicit, he used women and hurt them, probably abused them too. The fact that he somehow had this epiphany at the old age of 43 is embarrassing. Any HVM would have realised this in their late teens/ early twenties. You treat people like shit, you feel like shit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:13 PM
41

The snake eating it’s own head Ouroboros symbol is apparently a RP / Jordan Peterson tribute 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:15 PM
346

I’m predicting that a lot of men will become Red Pilled. They’ll continue blaming us for being ‘unfeminine’ just because we don’t live to be their doormat mommy bangmaids. Lots of women will be brainwashed into RP ideology. Men will double down. This will become a popular political right wing movement as we slowly move towards the Handmaids Tale type regression to ‘traditional relationships’. It will become violent because men are violent. They know they’re losing their privileges and access to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:20 PM
11

SAME. “I Don’t know” triggers me so much because men use it as a tactic to simultaneously dread game and avoid telling you the truth. My LVX matched someone on tinder after telling me he wasn’t seeing anyone else. I confronted him about it and he straight up ‘I don’t know-ed’ the way through it. “Do you even like me seriously?” “IDK”. “Do you even want a relationship?” “IDK” “What even are your intentions?” “IDK” Bruh. I would almost have more respect for him if he straight up said ‘I’m just usi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:14 PM
2

Yes! I totally agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:07 PM
62

Exactly. Men are socialised to think whatever they do is right and what women do are wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:26 AM
104

Even if we are fit FDS women, we should stay away from LVM that show no sympathy/ neg fat women. These are the men that will torture their precious wives that are about to/ just had their babies. And these are also the men that will abandon their loved ones when they’re sick/ mentally ill and gain weight because of it. They have no understanding of what ‘in sickness and in health’ means. No thank you. Stay away from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:03 AM
206

Very likely this is true but I think most LVM simply aren’t that smart. A lot of them are good at gaslighting because they genuinely think women are in the wrong (due to misogyny). This combined with their male entitlement to the illusive ‘cool girl’ leads them to a twisted world view and they try to impose their narrative onto us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:49 AM
15

He’s a walking tattoo that’s only personality trait is being a tall hwwwhitte man. Why Megan is dating him, I have no idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:43 PM
3

Ya welcome! They’re so effective with scars even though you’ll look like a burn victim for two days after
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:48 PM
12

THIS. THIS IS CLASSIC DARVO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:31 AM
6

Accutane was such a game changer for me. CO2 laser for scars. But literally so many women have acne and acne scars I don’t understand why he has a problem with it. Pretty sure he’s not a perfectly airbrushed himself! There’s no need for OP to feel bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:27 AM
73

Pickmes can ‘Kumbaya’ all they want, it doesn’t change the fact that most men are dangerous and LV. They’re in for a very rude awakening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:07 PM
10

It's actually really just "Stop making me feel bad for making you feel bad" LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 10:06 AM
12

Your husband. Your husband that probably got down on one knee and promised to love and protect you when he gave you a ring 💍 Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 10:30 AM
70

I’m fucking traumatised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:03 PM
42

This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:52 PM
96

Exactly. It’s their insecurity. When men say this I know immediately that he knows he ain’t shit and he knows he doesn’t bring much to the table to a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:17 PM
322

It’s just a way to blame you for the relationship ending rather than taking responsibility for his role in it. He would rather see you as an ‘annoying unfeminine feminist biatch that has to do it all herself’ than admit his low effort ass pushed you into it. Rule no.1 of misogyny: Everything is the woman’s fault. You dodged a bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:09 PM
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IMO it’s just another way of moving the goalpost & pointing the finger/ shifting blame in relationships It bothers me how they want to ‘feel needed’ yet whenever you ask for something to be done/ for them to be more high effort then you’re a ‘needy, demanding bitch.’ Which one is it bruh? What’s more convenient for their ego? ‘I could never satisfy her needs because I’m a lazy prick & that’s why she has to do it all herself ’ OR ‘Feminists are so unfeminine, she just doesn’t make me feel needed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:06 PM
43

Little do they know these jokes contribute to an overall sexist rape culture that objectifies women and reduces us to household tools. But sure if you’re not the one being oppressed, oppression is funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:46 AM
139

Exactly. He won’t change for the next girl. If anything he’ll probably feel more entitlement and therefore double down on the bad behaviour. Exploiting her further by making her carry all the weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:54 PM
216

Lots of women will vye for the spot but these women aren’t quality women. They’re LV pickmes. Water finds its own level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:39 PM
45

So many words from a pickme that all translates to one line: “I use feminism/ empowerment as an excuse to more comfortably perform femininity and cater to the male gaze”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:37 PM
575

“that minor ask was oppressive for him” - THIS. How many times have we asked for the bare minimum and watch men complain about this being oppressive?! We’re exhausted and rightfully so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:28 PM
380

Learning the language to describe emotional abuse is so important for women - Gaslighting, lovebombing, negging, stonewalling, DARVO, financial abuse, strategic incompetence, strawman, dreadgame/ competition anxiety etc. knowing what these tactics are and guarding yourself against them will literally change your life. I highly encourage any women on FDS to look into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:23 AM
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Yes! The bar is so freakin’ low bc of how Asian mothers coddle their son so much. Their sons end up feeling entitled to a pickme baby maid that pulls all the weight in the relationship. My LVX decided to blame me for the ‘one-sided relationship’ when he was the one who ghosted me for 3 weeks & I wouldn’t chase after him. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:15 AM
7

I love how the 2nd line of this article is “'Did you say you met him on Hinge or Un-hinged?'” LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:03 AM
134

Women are loved unconditionally? Are you effing serious? Have a look at all the abandoned women that are fat, sick, poor, old etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:53 AM
133

Hope she gets picked for being the cool girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:47 AM
43

Women are a whole lot more emotionally intelligent than men. Just have a look around and see who’s more willing to admit fault and improvement themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:55 AM
53

Yep. It’s the 80/20 rule. They get the 80 then spend their entire lives being immature lil cucks complaining about not getting the 20. Like bruh, welcome to earth. Life isn’t perfect. And I’m willing to bet you aren’t either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:48 AM
41

Equating femininity with submission is dangerous. Which is why this movement is so suss & just another cash grab for dating gurus and ‘how to be a gold digger’ coaches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:42 AM
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It’s about getting strangers to validate his experience/ victim narrative. Almost similar to how children tell on other children by advancing their narrative in front of teachers/ adults. How immature, cringey and embarrassing. It speaks to how beta he is, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:33 PM
42

Watch the Fifty Shades movies with him and gauge his reaction. Does he make fun of the plot progression and the weird kink? Does he say ‘I want to try that’? Or is he kink-averse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:35 AM
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These passive/ lazy types are also the kings of making promises they can’t fulfil. E.g. LV ex that knew I was sick, offered to come over and bring some homemade sick people food, then showed up empty handed while I was dying from a cough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:33 AM
5

LVM probably be like ‘sToP kInK sHaMiNg’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:02 AM
258

Yup. RP guys like to complain about modern women being ‘hard’, ‘standing in their masculine energy’, ‘unfeminine’ with ‘unrealistic standards’. Like bruh. You LVM made us this way. You and your male entitlement buddies decided to pump and dump us, play silly power/ dominance mind games, while most women were ready for the ‘endgame’ type long-term, committed and loving relationship from the moment we started dating men. And now you’re surprised that we started imposing high standards, vetting str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:04 AM
95

This. They dump their loving girlfriends so that they can ‘play the field’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:40 AM
165

This. It’s also the insidious philosophy that considers women as objects. Objects that have an peak consumption/ expiry/ sell by date. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:45 AM
236

Triangulating her with a younger version of her. What a mind fuck. Dump him, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:44 AM
31

Exactly. She flip flopped around and honestly I walked away being completely confused as what she meant by being a conservative x FDS woman. She needs to get her own party line straight and clarify what she stands for. Otherwise, when she claims to be an ‘gold star republican’, we can only assume she supports the worse (anti-woman) part of republican policies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:40 AM
40

Exactly. We came to FDS for a space free from men and complicit women of the patriarchy telling us what to think/ playing devils advocate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:36 AM
103

This. Freedom of speech isn’t freedom from consequences. People are allowed to be angry at others’ opinions, criticise, quit watching/ engaging etc. Just as the women here are allowed to dislike and withdraw support from certain elements of the FDS podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:06 AM
93

Reading this was so nauseating that I almost had a seizure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:37 PM
36

I like how he thinks it’s his right to decide “what’s appealing to females” or what’s not. How about no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:25 PM
52

They embody the opinions of mediocre and misogynistic men. Half of their content is just them victim-blaming women by telling them to ‘take personal accountability’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:38 PM
88

How pathetic can these couples be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:42 AM
40

Write me a fat ass check :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:00 PM
7

Notice how he uses the term “design flaw” like women are objects to be ‘designed’ ‘modified’ ‘altered’ face palms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:49 AM
143

Yes. I had a date that straight up said “Shut up. I don’t care” while I was sharing an anecdote and proceeded shove his tongue down my throat. I quickly made up an excuse and left after that. Blocked and deleted too. Obviously he didn’t care about me at all, I was just a sex doll meant to sit still, shut up and stay pretty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:44 AM
141

Big red pill ‘treat her like a dog’ vibes. He obviously learnt this ‘power move’ as a compliance test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:51 AM
13

Rollo Tomassi (or whatever way you spell it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:48 AM
68

Look up sea otters and see how they groom their thick furs. And you’ll realise how LV some men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:29 PM
804

As someone who works in law - I’d say don’t date lawyers. They are the kings of gaslighting, finding loopholes and manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:21 AM
85

He’s going to end up dying alone one day and wonder what he did wrong :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:53 PM
22

TLDR: I love my money more than I love my wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:46 PM
209

Are we gonna forget about their special handshake ‘bAd mArRiAgE fOr LiFe!!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:33 AM
156

Yikes. Who has sex with someone moments before dumping them?! LVM really do see us as sex objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:29 AM
293

Imagine bankrupting your husband with FaCeWaSh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:40 AM
11

Yes, great post. OP can you please share the source?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:17 AM
20

Yes. Balding is a systemic issue but sexism, rape culture, misogyny etc. aren’t issues at all. One of the rules of misogyny: Men get to decide what issues are important in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:15 AM
7

Pickmeisha strategy 101 - Martyrdom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:27 AM
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Nor do they take photos with old/ sick/ bigger women. The actual women that deserve to ‘see something in themselves’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:45 PM
19

Why do men only love women & children when it’s convenient for them? Oh yes it’s because they’re entitled and selfish assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:22 PM
315

The way they look eerily alike freaks me out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:19 AM
190

Sadly this is exactly how a pickmeisha x LVM relationship progression works. My pickmeisha ex-best friend is moving in with a guy she met OLD after only knowing him for 4 MONTHS. They lovebomb each other and get codependent faster than no other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:39 PM
27

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. What is she hoping she gets at the end of this? He gets angry his supply is running away? Then he temporarily placates her with words of love and affirmation? Then he can’t help but keep dicking around? And the cycle repeats….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:36 PM
46

This. Men use this to justify their Madonna-whore complex, put us in the ‘slut’ category and further justify mistreating us…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:35 PM
48

He was a short dude too, 5’8’ 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:14 AM
156

He's probably safe and sound. Narcissists don't hurt themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:37 AM
137

This. My anxiety, depression, OCD, eating disorder, 90% of it practically lifted once my LVX saw himself out the door. That's when I realised he was the problem. He was emotionally abusive and all of that was a side effect of being with stuck with his sorry ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:29 AM
87

Exactly. I wish more women would get asked this question "Are you actually ____ (fill in the blank it could be depressed, bipolar, OCD, whatever) or are you just with an abusive man?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:25 AM
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The way our emotional reactions to abuse (e.g. panic attacks, PTSD etc.) are minimised into mental illness (e.g. anxiety, depression, OCD etc.) is just the repackaging of the same 'She's just crazy' manipulation tactic. I really wonder if she was actually mentally ill (she admits to OCD, anxiety in the bodycam footage) or if all of this 'hysterical behaviour' was just the byproduct/ side effect of being with an abusive man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:08 AM
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In the bodycam footage she says “He doesn’t believe I can do anything” and she was so obviously being gaslit -> then this gets repackaged by some youtube body language expert into the “their lack of synchronisation in a relationship" like stfu... All you men want to do is to shift responsibility and avoid accountability
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:02 AM
95

The juice ain’t worth the squeeze. Men have always disappointed me. Even the seemingly HV ones have chronically wandering eyes and are actually LV af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:34 PM
66

Oppressors need to keep the oppressed in line when they feel like their power and privilege is being threatened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 11:20 PM
59

This. Typical deny, attack and reverse victim/ offender. DARVO shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:44 PM
15

Absolutely! Men have a high reward and 0 risk regardless. Except for the occasional expensive divorce/ child support. They reap all the benefits, at the expense of US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:27 AM
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‘Settling for less’ never works for women because either way, we take on more biological, financial and emotional risk. So when we consider the risk to reward ratio -> Being with a LVM: low af to 0 reward, super high risk. Not worth it. Being with a HVM: mediocre reward, medium risk. Still a roll of the dice but proportionally so much better than the former. Being alone: super high reward for your peace & quiet, 0 risk. Logistically & logically, what would you choose? The latter two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:16 AM
55

‘Why am I the only one putting effort into this relationship?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:05 PM
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Rule No.1 of misogyny : Everything is always her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:32 PM
82

This. And Bancroft also says that underneath of all the abuse is the deep entitlement to a mommy bang-maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:31 PM
55

What else can I say. Pick-me moms raise LV men. Bet she’s gonna tell the OP to ‘cOmMuNiCaTe’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:29 PM
98

You said challenge the police and I’m here to further clarify something OP should look out for .:. I don’t know which town OP is in and since she’s a POC she needs to be highly careful about her attitude towards the local police / authorities. (Especially if she’s in a racist area). The last thing she needs is to piss an officer off and risk her entire case. OP needs to be diplomatic and careful. OP is absolutely going to have to defend herself but she needs to be cordial whenever she makes stat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:13 PM
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I would also add that at this point there’s no need to block and delete. OP should let him send her more abusive messages. This would serve as more evidence at a latter point to prove her case - that he is abusive and she’s a DV victim. Let him hang himself with his own rope. If she can’t nail him for the violent assault that happened, she can nail him for the (upcoming) online harassment. Abracadabra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:06 PM
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I would say that until she gets out of the battery charge (either declared innocent or the charge is dropped), that she stay silent & keep to her family & friends. Yapping about to everyone & the entire city could open her up to slander / defamation lawsuits from the other side. Legally, it’s not the smartest move. This is not the time to worry about optics/ the perception of others. She’s facing a serious charge & potentially more lawsuits and that should be the priority to focus on dealing wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:53 PM
14

I would say being too hysterical and emotional is not a good thing right now. Telling her to just let it all out is not the best strategy. OP definitely should be careful with how she acts and what she says, just in case she slips up and gives the other side ammunition to discredit her. Anyone in situations like this should be extremely careful of what they say to the doctors and the police/ authorities. She’s allowed to be sad and angry, I’m not saying that she should shut down and be a robot. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:44 PM
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Hospital. Get multiple doctors, photos taken, tell them to write an official letter verifying the damage. If you’re really paranoid, go to another hospital & get another doctor. So that you have extra copies & stronger proof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:18 PM
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Soon to be qualifying lawyer here, I majored in criminal evidence law and have extensive legal work experience in it. Will be willing to give free legal advice, just dm me. Are you British or American? Some laws are similar & many legal principles relating to criminal evidence are universal. Let me know. But definitely get an in-person attorney as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:03 PM
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Was she not a pickmeisha when she started dating a LVM and tolerating LV behaviour (including violent abuse)? Seems like a chicken-egg-chicken situation. Who knows what’s really behind the scenes anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:29 PM
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I replied with a neutral tone. I wasn’t offended. I’ve deleted the story since none of you get where I was coming from and decided to start coming at me from your high horses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:18 PM
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I wasn’t taking it out on you. I was clarifying facts with a neutral tone. At this point you’re just misunderstanding the entire story. Forget it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:17 PM
1

Yes. I agree. Perhaps I should’ve clarified better in the post. I am cutting all of them off and I’m not going to the event. The contact with the narc was for damage control & to make him think I was still friendly & dumb so he won’t go full attack mode on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:05 AM
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I didn’t lie to my friends. I was pretty honest till I had do damage control by my lying to narc so that he wouldn’t go full angry narc mode on us. It’s not about treating myself better. I don’t think you are getting the point. Have you encountered a narcissist before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:03 AM
1

I know they aren’t my friends. I was blindsided too and I said I’d be cutting them off. My boundaries are pretty clear and I was relaying this story for FDS purposes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:00 AM
3

Perhaps I should’ve clarified. He’s going. I’m cutting all of them off. So I won’t be going to the event & none of them are my friends anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:53 AM
0

I just said I’m cutting all of them off. I had no idea my libfem friend was a narc too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:51 AM
141

Rihanna is major pickme vibes. How can she go on Oprah and tell people she still ‘loves’ Chris Brown despite his violent abuse… ‘He’s the ‘love of my life’ bullshit galore, you’re ducking kidding me🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:15 AM
6

My friend fell into exactly this type of trap. She met him on tinder, couldn’t find anything about him on social media, no accounts, no nothing. Later found out he lied about his name by going through his electricity bill. He used a fake name on tinder… 🤮 who knows how many other shady dating accounts he had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:13 AM
375

“I had a dream repeatedly” you mean you’re delusional & mentally ill?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:38 PM
66

And I quote : “At a recent press conference, Priyanka revealed that their marriage was a beautiful experience. She added that Nick and she shared all the expenses of the wedding equally. According to Priyanka, except for the engagement ring, which her husband paid for, everything else was a partnership in their marriage.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:20 AM
105

THIS. Men use the ‘family man’ persona to prop up themselves at work ALL THE TIME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:48 AM
228

When are men going to stop treating women & babies as collateral damage for their personal development journeys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:08 PM
573

They want us to have unnaturally ‘beautiful’ bodies and then get mad when we need to use unnatural methods to get there. They complain about their girlfriends wanting commitment & marriage while simultaneously complaining that ‘modern women don’t commit anymore and are for the streets’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:50 AM
78

“Pybus said he arranged to go to Moss’s house to have sex on 6 February this year, after his wife had gone to bed. “ Oh so he had a wife and cheated on her too. Hope she’s doing ok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:57 AM
26

Love was created so that men can fuck for free. And who owns Disney / media corporations? Men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:28 AM
139

This ‘my way or the highway’ type is exactly the type of abusive misogynist that Lundy Bancroft warns against
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:16 AM
3

I understand your sentiment. But this is FDS. We focus on women. Not some other social issue like marginalising refugees or minorities. If you wanna talk about it, this is not the place. No offence to you personally… You bringing this up feels a bit like the ‘men get abused too’ logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:41 PM
2

Don’t forget the toothpaste stains on the shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:33 PM
9

My LVX literally whiplashed me from"I'm not ready for a relationship" to "My intentions are pure" to "Will you be my girlfriend" back to "I'm not ready for anything serious" Dude. Leave me alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:13 AM
68

Don’t forget Chris D’elia, Jeff Toobin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:51 PM
141

Funny how men expect unconditional love from women, but you never see them unconditionally loving someone who’s ugly, fat, sick and poor. Unconditional love is a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:48 PM
80

Lundy Bancroft writes this in ‘Why Does He Do That’. Appealing to their empathy or the morality of abusers simply don’t work. They’re not concerned about morality, rather, the benefits they reap from being abusive to you. They don’t have any empathy either, that’s why they were able to mistreat you in the first place. Just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:58 PM
41

What in British white trash is this I was living with two LVM roommates at uni (UK) and even they weren’t that bad despite being alcoholic + video game addicts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:59 AM
4

Normalise leaving a relationship when you’re feeling uncomfortable / your intuition feels off. There’s no need for ‘evidence’ to justify leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:43 AM
222

Cheap men should just remove themselves from the dating pool. You better be a damn good provider, or leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:16 AM
39

CONGRATS FOR ESCAPING THE SCROTCITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:22 AM
99

It shows that he’s not that invested & has no intention in the long run. Did this with my LVX for 8 months, once a week dates (on the weekend). He dumped me after. Pattern of communication + escalation of effort = potential for long term relationship. Pattern of communication + no escalation = he’s a fuckboy that’s using you for a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:20 PM
586

High effort dates too, their first date was a cross city helicopter ride. And he proposed with a massive ring within a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:14 PM
84

“You deserve more and I wanted you to be proud of me.” Why do men always use this line….. it’s so ineffective and unoriginal 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:06 PM
449

You’re 66 and you want someone under 40…. Where do you get your audacity from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:03 PM
14

If I have to hear another man quote Brad Pitt’s character from Fight Club …..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:18 AM
59

Behind every abusive, misogynistic man is a string of women he exploited the life force of. The new girl he’s dating is just his newest victim. Don’t delude yourself by looking at the smoke and mirrors of social media. Even in ‘Why Does He Do That’, Lundy Bancroft tells us that these men seldom change because they themselves benefit from being abusive & continuing such behavioural patterns. Abusive LVM don’t just wait up one day and decide to treat women better out of their own conscience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:32 AM
86

I mean, just the way he described Jessica Simpson as ‘sexual napalm’ was enough for me to never listen to him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:32 PM
18

You could’ve spent all that time & energy building a child that won’t cheat on you & leave. But I guess some women like being Barbara’s 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:30 PM
281

Her self-esteem doesn’t matter to him either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:47 AM
184

You’re right, you should hate yourself. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:41 AM
24

Don’t forget the ✨gaslighting✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:30 AM
76

They pass these ideas down to their children too I’m in my 20’s and a 25 year old LVX told me verbatim “You make me a better man. Behind every great man is a great woman.” YIKES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 11:01 PM
10

The exact same happened to me too. You’re not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:29 PM
14

Dude is so greedy for chump change Imagine having a kid with him - one day he comes home with said kid, and tells you to pay him $1 because he just got your kid an ice cream. Financial abuse is a real scary thing. My dad does exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:33 AM
9

Until your best friend turns into a raging pick-me & disappears once she gets a boyfriend 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:07 AM
23

“This creature”. “It”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:34 AM
396

Because most women are socialised to be emotionally invested & want ‘the real thing’ aka ‘love’ -> they do more, forgive more, give more Men are socialised to be detached and fear ‘the real thing’ -> they take, take and take and forget to reciprocate Have fun living with your regrets, LVM 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:32 AM
19

I’ve seen this on the Craigslist for London too (also HCOL city) Men really have no shame. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:29 AM
192

“I'm not trying to scare you... I'm trying to prepare you... These people are children of Rihanna born in the fires of chaos...” LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:04 PM
29

Would also highly recommend reading ‘The Beauty Myth’ by Naomi Wolf. She posits that by keeping women obsessed with catering to the male gaze (with spending so much time and money on beauty), beauty is actually an agent of the patriarchy. The obsession keeps us distracted from developing our own goals and autonomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:57 PM
9

This. And adding on to your point - FDS women realise that there actually is no ‘reward’ to being with LVM or gaining validation from them. That alone is enough to snap you out of the conditioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:55 PM
258

“I’m not ready for a relationship” why’d you take me out on dates and act like you were then? Why are you then acting surprised when it’s exactly what I ended up expecting from you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:26 PM
14

What else can I say. These young men don’t even realise that they’re in social media echo chambers that are radicalising them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:51 PM
25

Golf is a class signifier. But maybe they just want you to bend over and show your ass. Then mansplain how to golf and teach you by feeling you up.… you can imagine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:35 PM
148

Erm women want to be sexually desired too! And that means you don’t cheat, you don’t have wandering eyes, it means you pay ALL the bills, it means you perform emotional labour etc. But I guess they never really cared about what it meant FOR US to feel sexually desired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:32 PM
14

I got a ‘I’m sorry I didn’t know what I was doing’ like wut dude what do u mean u lied about ‘not seeing other people’ then got caught on tinder Men know exactly what they’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:25 PM
274

How do LVM even have the time & energy to two-time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:12 PM
47

yOu sHoULd cOmMuNiCaTe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:04 PM
235

Can’t turn a hoe into a husband My question to the women here is why would you want to date a guy who has a past? RP/ MGTOW guys always tout the phrase “Men care about women’s pasts, and women care about men’s futures” That is categorically untrue. We do care about your past. We care if you have some dormant STD from your hoe-ing days. We care if you’ve left a trail of broken hearts and have no remorse because it shows you’ll do likely it to us. We care if you have a history of misogyny/ objecti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:17 PM
11

What is up with men and their wall analogies lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:15 PM
7

Whoops typo corrected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:10 PM
193

Yep. Very suspicious. I don’t know a single guy that’s that smart at 20-22.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:50 PM
323

I also wanna know how he managed to start/ grow a 6 figure business in 2.5 years and basically leave his business baby behind / autopilot it?! It doesn’t make much sense. I don’t believe people win the lottery of life like that. Something is fishy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:45 PM
173

So many red flags here: ‘Oh my god’ & visible annoyance when she opens his man cave door - Clearly video game addict who views games more important than her, not to mention disrespectful ‘I wouldn’t flatter yourself, love’ - A man that is unwilling to compliment you clearly doesn’t hold you in much high regard, not to mention to backhanded nature of this, suggests that he’s probably believes in not complimenting women/ RP ideology of ‘humbling these bitches’ ‘I didn’t have much choice, did I? Ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:54 PM
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Meanwhile women wake up earlier than their boyfriends to put on makeup, brush their hair, spray perfume, and jump back in bed to act naturally clean and fresh And men won’t even hide it their yuckiness What went wrong with our world?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:30 PM
5

RIP to the poor little fishies with the useless dad that forgot to feed them for a month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:43 AM
409

The true miracle is how he managed to stay with the first 2 girls for 5 years. You’d think the grand high daddy of fuckboys would pump and dump within 3 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:27 AM
1

Perhaps you misconstrued my tone. What I mean is that it’s wrong for people who don’t have enough knowledge to be passing around misinformation. OP clearly mentioned how she hasn’t done done enough research / learning regarding the area. She’s not a CFA either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:17 AM
41

Yes you’re the asshole. JuSt cOmMuNiCaTe..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:46 AM
152

The sperm chases the egg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:29 AM
124

Nope. Never actually met a HVM outside of my family. In the context of dating, I’ve encountered nothing but LVM. I’m also in my 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:00 PM
95

Sounds like sex trafficking to me, they pay pick-mes to drug girls for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:37 AM
213

Yep. Deleted fb, ig, snap, all of it. It’s a strategy. If anyone’s worth having in your life, they’ll have your number and stay in touch with you via the phone/ text. Everyone else (including orbiting LVM) is just noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:24 AM
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First of all, yikes with the age gap. Second, he probably brainwashed the daughter into thinking stepmom was the ‘witch’. Big yikes. I wonder what the indoctrination has done to her well being. Probably a pickmeisha that lets men walk all over her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:39 AM
9

Funny how he’s not even pretending to be a good person. Men really like to out themselves, don’t they.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:42 PM
3

Thanks for the recommend. Just bought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:42 PM
36

By the time she makes sure, he’ll be even older with even more expired sperm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:36 PM
3

This is the type of delusion that the character Serena from “The Handmaidens Tale” had. And oh boy did she regret it after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:01 PM
201

When you’re introverted, you’re hard to read/ catch/ manipulate. When you’re extroverted, you’re a desperate/ thirsty slut. There’s no way we can win. Just don’t play the game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:57 AM
97

All it takes for evil to prevail is for good people to do nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:06 AM
296

I mean, are we surprised? If 80% of men leave their spouses with breast cancer, what happens when they’re own lives are at risk? Abandonment is something that men do best. If anything, this phenomenon / filmed moment reflects the very misogyny within their society. When things are hard, their women aren’t their partners, rather, objects / burdens to be left behind. Notice how barely any of them have packed either. They’re leaving, pretty much bare handed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:00 AM
1

female politicians will be executed. It’s so heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:52 AM
49

Totally can relate. Recently made quite some substantial money through day trading and smart investing. Told my dad about it. He was happy at first but after a few weeks it was clear to me his ego was bruised. He would repeatedly tell me that I should be grateful that I’m rich at such a young age (and that he never made it that big at my age) and started mansplaining + showing an attitude whenever we would touch on the topic of finances. Absolutely keep things to yourself. Men have the most frag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:52 AM
81

I would’ve totally been like ‘omg I’m reporting you for child porn!! This is obviously a little boys dick!!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:10 AM
42

White men in rich western countries who play the victim are equivalent to great white sharks that decide they don’t have teeth to hunt and starve to death
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:03 AM
21

I would like to refer back to the no.1 rule of misogyny : Women are responsible for what men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:51 AM
118

Because being an unmarried ‘baby mama’ is some sick trend / ‘cool girl libfem’ badge of honour All the celebrities & insta girls are doing it E.g. Halsey, cardi b, khloe kardashian, malika, kehlani etc. Somehow it’s also linked to basketball/ athlete & black culture. Which I don’t understand. ‘I don’t need marriage to know he loves me’ BS. No honey. If he loved you, he’d marry you first. The sequencing of things is all switched up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:31 PM
4

Echos 50 shades of grey: Some how merely Ana’s presence turns abusive sadist Christian grey into Prince Charming. How about no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:38 PM
5

Translation: I’m delusional enough to think I have a magical poom poom that will change him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:36 PM
28

I’m willing to put good money on a bet that he’s a MGTOW red piller that’s gonna induct his little boys into the mAnOsPhErE later on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:55 AM
4

Modern Medusa’s ‘Common word salad and excuses from cheaters’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:11 PM
87

It’s also common for supposedly ‘talented’ men getting a pass for having mental health problems & being abusive to women because they’re gIfTeD and they’re tOo CrEaTiVe to be NoRmAL/ they tHiNk iN a diFfErEnT wAy !! E.g. Chris Brown, Shia LaBeouf, Kanye West
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:44 AM
151

What’s wrong with using men as a cash cow? They’ve been using us as pocket pussies since the beginning of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:44 AM
96

The website seems to be painfully correct “There doesn’t seem to be anything here” Reminds me of Justin Bieber writing that tacky “Yummy” song about his wife, talking about her long legs and yummy p***y. How about no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:38 PM
249

Not to mention calling her a child = disrespecting & patronising her and infantilising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:30 AM
256

So he ‘yelled at her till she woke up’….. mhmmm I’m willing to bet he probably did more than that… probably shook her, probably was violent and punched a wall etc. There’s a gap in the story that he likely isn’t admitting to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:26 AM
9

This was just a poorly pieced together regurgitation of the red pill ideas he’s been consuming. They don’t follow a consistent logic and he doesn’t care. He’s just pissed off that women won’t worship him for having a pp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:25 AM
22

The ‘daddy’s chores’ chart with a BJ award 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:16 AM
27

Another reason why we don’t encourage age gap relationships is the difference of values. I’m willing to bet that he probably has some old school antiquated ideas about women and our place in the world. Especially since he’s using terms such as ‘duty’. Yikes this is some 1940’s retro housewife shit. If she dated someone her age, he’d probably be more ‘woke’ and less ‘here’s a list of things to be a good wife’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:26 PM
402

What’s up with men and their self-fulfilling prophecies that marriage = boring and sexless ?! He doesn’t understand that maintaining any type of passionate, romantic relationship requires effort. What a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:38 AM
67

Men: Rules for thee but not for me. Moral standards for thee but not for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:10 PM
89

Notice how he did ‘clean up throw up’ the most so that he could get a BJ reward 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:32 PM
36

Asians can probably relate: Dad paying for your schooling, college etc. and then getting angry that you don’t end up getting a high paying 6 figure job in order to subsidise their lifestyle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:46 PM
10

Welcome to earth, we’re all judged by our looks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:54 PM
10

This is the same as the ‘he’s just not that into you’ trope. Putting the onus on women to bend over backwards/ pretzel/ lower standards and dissolve any boundaries so that they become ‘the one’. Nope. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:32 AM
1

Sheldon : ‘A woman is like an egg-salad sandwich on a warm Texas summer day - full of eggs and only appealing for a short amount of time. ‘ 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 07:49 AM
83

I don’t like the ‘he’s just not that into you’ reason because it almost puts to onus on women to work harder to be more attractive, more tolerating, more bend-over-backwards-pick-me, and to be ‘good enough’ in order for men to finally have their ‘she’s the one’ moment and start being high effort. The truth is most high effort, high value men, will chase properly and come correct even if they’re not ‘in love’ yet. They care about selling themselves & presenting their best selves the women they’re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:57 AM
5

Edward dumping Bella in the middle of some random forest and zero contact for months after = modern day text ghosting 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:21 AM
18

Can’t make a husband out of a hoe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 01:41 AM
5

What is this porn sick society we live in 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:32 AM
2

Have a little consideration, not everyone here is a native English speaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:16 AM
7

And whether he has the self awareness to approach conflict in a mature way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:04 AM
5

Does he monkey branch from girl to girl? Is he the type to have a girl on standby/ shopping on dating apps before even breaking up with his current gf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:57 AM
1

I realised what I was afraid of was the sunk cost fallacy. The idea you could pour your heart, soul, energy, and time into someone who ends up making the life you live and your decisions look foolish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:56 AM
80

Don’t forget the poor hygiene! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:14 AM
65

“How am I supposed to know you Essence” you mean use her pussy? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:01 PM
27

Yep. He’s probably a pornsick LVM and is jealous he didn’t get to act out his own porn-inspired fantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:28 PM
29

With freedom, comes 50/50 dinner bills!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:26 PM
133

Yuck. First of all what is up with men and their twisted version of “masculinity”? Fuckbois be regularly using women for sex and tossing them aside and this is glorified and celebrated BUT now that two of them raped your girlfriend you feel that ‘it’s incredibly emasculating to envision her being casually used by two guys who tossed her aside once they had their way’. Second of all, get some bloody therapy. Both of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:23 PM
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This is the sick logic that was the backbone “The Handmaids Tale”….. If the birth rate drops, so be it, you can’t just ignore womens freedoms and force us into ‘eMbRaCiNg OuR bIoLoGiCaL dEsTiNy’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:16 PM
10

I used to respect my parents, then I lost all my respect for my pickmeisha mum and low value scrote dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:43 AM
52

Read this book for my A-level Lit class at my all girls high school. We became raging feminists after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:37 AM
7

Avril Lavigne’s “Girlfriend” = Taylor Swift’s “You Belong With Be” PICK ME HELL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:31 AM
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Yikes. This is what those awful rom-coms do to us. BTW in The Proposal, Sandra literally kneels down to propose because she needed Ryan to fake marry her for a US work visa…. Not because of love…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:23 AM
3

Notice the description is "Some hunt for love. Others love the hunt." LIKE EW what is this predator-speak-hunt-to-use-women lingo is this?! EW EW EW EW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:07 PM
7

That’s actually inaccurate. If you’ve studied it you would know. Not all crypto currencies harm the environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:57 PM
32

I'd also like to add one thing: In another recent FDS post, we were talking about a wife who didn't want to give her husband money to trade and FDS commentators were saying that he has a gambling addiction. Yes, I agree that trading can be dangerous and can be perceived as gambling. But I do not have a gambling addiction and I do believe there is a way to trade intelligently and in an informed way (which is exactly what I did). I never traded more than I can lose and I'm also proud to say that I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:47 PM
48

I'd be willing to share more tips/ answer questions in a reddit group chat if there's enough people that are interested. Pls DM me if you're interested and I'll add you in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:24 PM
10

See below.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:22 PM
64

Ok. Since so many of you are asking about investing - I only pick growth stocks and high volatility crypto. The trick is to always be making moves, minimum 10 trades a day. This means constantly checking your account and making buys and sells. It also means you have to be willing to take small profits. X goes up 10% and you sell, and you reenter once it drops 10%, goes up 10% and you sell, rinse and repeat. Everyday I could make a few hundred dollars and that would add up throughout the year. In…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:22 PM
68

overcooked sausage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:36 PM
59

Usually when I experience something like this I tell myself to walk away and do not engage. These men are committed to misunderstanding us, misunderstanding feminism, minimising our issues and ignoring them. Like the viral tweet says 'Men are more angry at imperfect feminism than systemic misogyny.' HVM know NOT to make this 'men have it bad too, boo boo our lives are so hard' pathetic argument. Most men KNOW it instinctively that women have it worse. For LVM, It's just a game to them when they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:34 PM
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I agree. LVM have no empathy whatsoever for women. It comes from the delusion that women have it easier than men. I once told a former LVM friend (pre-med) about my endometriosis & my fears about surgery, you wouldn't believe the nonchalant blase attitude I got from him - "Oh just surgery will do, burn it off' and turned to walk away to get himself a drink (we were at a dinner party).... Like bro, if you're in the healthcare industry, would you not know about the pain and suffering something lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:25 PM
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This feels like some Jeffrey-Epstein-Ghislaine-Maxwell ‘take a young girl in to use and abuse’ situation. BIG YUCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:15 PM
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Yes, there's a perceived social capital in marrying white. Growing up, my asian friends envied me for having a white dad. But personally, I don't find that it's actually benefitted me or my mum at all. Sure my dad has a few good business connections but that's about it. He's still middle class and has never been able to break through and go any further than that. My mum still had to struggle as a bangmaid and I will still have to work hard and fight my way up the social ladder. Class affects you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:07 PM
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I'm half brit and half chinese and this is indeed true. Some asians from top metro cities are extremely judgey as to class/ education/ net worth. I've even had Chinese friends that won't date guys without dual citizenships/ multiple passports as it's a sign of class. Some won't even date guys who haven't had braces before (again dental health as a sign of class). Unfortunately, libfem ideas are getting there too. Many asian chicks, well educated, rich, are tolerating these white men looking for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:45 PM
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The other woman! Funniest movie ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:40 PM
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Because women are sex objects = why not pick a younger bouncier toy They don’t care about genuine connections, they don’t care about partnership. They want a young toy. A young Lolita f*** doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:08 PM
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The LV scrote after her suicide decided to write a book filled with love poems for her… despite him being the abuser that pushed her to suicide. Suspiciously, his 2nd wife killed herself along with their newborn. His son (with Sylvia) committed suicide as a grownup. Funny thing is, till his death Ted wouldn’t admit that he was the problem. Erm hello the common denominator was YOU!!!! If your 1st wife, 2nd wife, then son all killed themselves. Maybe you’re the problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:51 AM
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Another popular example: Sylvia Plath. She would have been the greatest writer of all time if Ted bloody Hughes didn’t abuse her, domesticate her, cheat on her and take, take, take until she shoved her head into an oven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:58 AM
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Cheers! Recently had to let a BFF of 20 years go too! It’s hard but after that life gets so much better. I feel so much lighter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:53 AM
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Why bother explaining this all to the scrotes? Let them delude themselves with grandeur that at 40 they’ll magically turn into a George Clooney looking billionaire, only to end up fat, bald and single. Let their inferior genes DIE OFF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:49 AM
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Boo boo my toy breaks so easily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:58 AM
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‘What’s up, short dwarf?’ And see them unravel….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:52 AM
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What can I say. When men truly don’t love you, they are STINGY AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:27 AM
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I realised he hated me when he’d call me vulgar for swearing despite him doing it regularly (double standards galore). When he ghosted me for 3 weeks but blamed me for not cOmMuNiCaTiNg (again with more double standards and gaslighting). And finally when he wouldn’t even bother to text a simple goodbye when it ended, despite me being a class act and wishing him well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:22 AM
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My Pickmeisha past included swiping on these guys with cringey bios like ‘in town for 2 weeks looking for some someone to go on aDveNtUrEs with’ like ew you mean sexcapades with strangers without your wife knowing????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:31 PM
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When I was 13, I was snooping around my dads office and found literal email receipts from escort companies. Even the most HV appearing men can end up being the most LV scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:28 PM
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What’s up with all these men thinking they’re Netflix special comedians with their sexist jokes… it’s not funny, it will never be funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:19 PM
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Erm… The sperm chases the egg, thank you very much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:15 PM
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This is why I’m totally FOR snooping in a relationship. Men will always lie and hide things. And it’s almost a MUST to snoop and make sure you haven’t married a total CRIMINAL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:10 PM
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- Only Marry and breed with HVM (he has to be HV to set a good example + actually proactive in doing so) - Education at home (majority part of it is undoing all the LV trash libfem culture that permeates the news, tv shows, movies, video games, music). Every time I see my little brother watching/ consuming some form of media, I have to point out what's sexist/ misogynist/ not a good way to approach life and tell him what's wrong etc. It's super annoying and if I ever have kids I will pray to eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 08:31 PM
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Don’t build a man. I repeat. DO NOT BUILD A MAN. He is not a baby. If he wants cream he can find and get cream himself. It literally takes 2 seconds to google a good men’s moisturiser and then another 5 seconds to order from Amazon. What in the pick-me hell is this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:45 PM
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Also in general, just don’t date poor men. Women can be afraid of gold diggers too. Consider why they’re poor - lack of intelligence/ skill, bad habits, addiction, generational trauma and weakness… why would you want to be near that or help BREED that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:38 PM
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Most men leave us whenever life gets hard (or any changes happen when we get old, fat, sick, poor), they never build. So don’t ever build them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:37 AM
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So sorry for what happened to you. You’re stronger and better than him. This reminds me of my friend’s story. She was raped in the bathroom of a house party and after the guy did it to her, she went back out to the party and tried to make out with him. She said that it was a trauma response, and that in her mind she justified it to herself that if they made out and they were boyfriend-girlfriend, what had happened would have been consensual loving sex. She didn’t even know the guys name when thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:10 PM
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They are the architects of their own demise. Says they don’t want gold diggers then reinvent themselves to become the exact ‘alphas’ that attract it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:15 AM
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You don’t know what their relationship is like behind the scenes. If he discarded you, he can discard her too. Who knows maybe she lets him do anal at a Walmart parking lot, she puts up with his sexist bs etc. You dodged a bullet IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:17 PM
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R u that dumb or have you just not been paying attention? He pays for everything, everything in full. Why should you have to pay down in order to be on the title? What were you going on about with the utilities? You mentioned house work fairly divided, but are you sure you're not the one contributing more in general? Are you not the one that's going to suffer through child bearing and rearing? Are you not going to have to take time off work? Do you not spend money to look good for him etc.? Do y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:16 PM
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But…but… aren’t men the sTrOnGeR, more rAtIoNaL, more iNtEllIgEnT sex????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:32 PM
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I was the captain of the debate team in an all-girls high school and our team did a debate competition against an all-boys team. One of the boys literally started shouting/ screaming at us during the 'timed argument' session. I decided to raise my voice and argue back with strength since he wouldn't pause to let me talk & wouldn't stop interrupting me (still not screaming, just louder). After the competition was done, my MALE teacher wouldn't stop harping on about how I acted 'arrogant' and 'unp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:21 PM
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Notice how literally none of these RP MGTOW men have these 'feminine and submissive' women that they are so eagerly looking for. Kevin Samuels, the 'Fresh&Fit' guys, 'the Roommates', 'Better Bacherlor' on Youtube, Jack Murphy. All of them are single and alone. None of them are happy/ fulfilled. Because happy people don't make their entire careers about woman-hating and harping about gOiNg tHeIr oWn wAy on social media. Its the blind leading the blind. And any man we encounter that are dumb enoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:03 PM
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BOYFRIEND APPLICATION: What is your net worth and yearly income? (Will not accept applications lower than 1mill / 100k) What is your dick length and girth? (Will not accept applications lower than 6inches/ 6cm) 🙂🤑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:16 AM
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To me this has nothing to do with ‘boundaries’ or ‘the art’ or ‘Pygmalion’ whatever cringey faux-deep philosophical psychological artsy fuck reason people come up with… It has to do with pain and discomfort. He’s been ignoring how this triggers her and makes her uncomfortable FOR YEARS. If your partner doesn’t care about your happiness and your peace of mind.. what’s the difference between him and a stranger on the street??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:10 AM
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I’m experiencing this problem too. My friend of 10 years got into her first relationship over quarantine (big red flag, she barely knows the guy). And her usual HV self has completely disappeared. She’s acting like the biggest pick-me in the world, losing a shit ton of weight to feel worthy, 50/50 dates, walk dates, ghosting friends including me, tolerating him putting her down (the scrote literally made her cry on the second date by saying her education and job isn’t impressive). And all this i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:45 AM
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Wow. And I thought my pickmeisha friend’s ‘5 year forever girlfriend till marriage’ carrot dangle was bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:45 AM
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Yep. Not only is it immature, it’s also a question of consent. I never consented to this type of roughhouse childish boy play. It’s not sexy, it’s not fun, it’s painful and violating. And he forced me to engage by initiating it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:27 PM
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Roughhouse playing like you’re both 7 year old boys. My ex would start whacking me or shoving me in the name of ‘fun’. If you look at some of the videos of Hailey Baldwin and Justin Bieber you can see that’s how he treats her, it’s not fun and it’s borderline abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:40 PM
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Omg that’s totally what my ex did. He would take pictures of me without my consent, post them on Instagram to flex having an attractive gf that was out of his league..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:38 PM
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Unfortunately, it’s a common male fantasy to have a vagabond lifestyle and fuck + impregnate multiple women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:32 AM
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I had an experience like this too. My dad is wealthy but he made it a point to NEVER share any of it to me and to foster a frugal & ambitious culture (unless we had nice family trips, birthday gifts, special occasions, I had no access to any of his money). My ex, while we were dating, must have been able to sniff out my ‘wealth’ (again, not mine and will never be mine) and used it to 50/50 on dates and desperately wanted to move into my place - a swanky one bedroom luxury flat in London’s financ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:25 PM
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1) I’m half English and I can assure you there’s plenty of English people who don’t care for football AT ALL. 2) LOL it’s so typical of selfish men to turn it around on you & call YOU selfish for wanting the bare minimum from him….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:06 AM
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Yikes. What’s with the ‘women are objects and after being raped they’re used goods’ mentality…. BIG BIG BIG YIKES BLOCK AND DELETE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:41 AM
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Monkey branching from girl to girl basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:21 AM
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What in the Dirty John pick me hell is this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:38 AM
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Men who power trip like this are usually overcompensating for something + have an entitlement complex in conjunction with a victim mentality. This means they feel out of control in some other aspect in their life and feel the need to subjugate other beings (either women, children or animals). Classist, misogynistic & selfish finance bros are an example of this, they never feel rich enough so they harp on poor/middle class people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:38 AM
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Back in my pickmeisha days, I dated a guy who I couldn't even trust not to cheat on me. He had lied about being exclusive and not seeing other people when we started dating, then a few days later my friend swiped him on. tinder. I confronted him, he gave some shoddy excuse, 'not ready for a relationship bla bla bla' and manipulated me into staying. I spent the next 8 months of our relationship worrying about not being good enough for him, constantly worrying about him meeting someone else, when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:07 AM
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Insecure people will cut down others to prop up themselves. Rejection from them is not real. It has nothing to do with who you really are and your value. Soul-less men with empty values will find it hard to stay with HVW who want real love, authenticity and an equal partnership because they are simply incapable of these things. They write their own stories of emptiness, pursuing meaningless sex, money, hedonistic pleasure... these are the men who will never rise to make themselves truly worthy o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:55 AM
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Free bleed on all his nice suits and shirts and white towels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:55 PM
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Literally everything he’s saying is some gross copy/ VERY POOR IMITATION of rom-com cheesy dialogue and what he thinks women want… ‘your heart is beautiful’ like YUCK DUDE U DONT EVEN KNOW HER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:50 PM
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Totally agree! This should be done more to help us breakdown red flags and show us what manipulation looks like! 18 year old me would have needed this so so much, and 4 years later now I still need it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:48 PM
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The laziness in dating now is truly an epidemic. I think it’s a symptom of porn culture and liberalism (which prioritises individualism/ selfish pleasure rather than partnership/ family/ higher values of loyalty, duty etc.). Men are dating for pleasure, not because they want a partner or family or kids or anything that means more. Because anything that means more = more responsibility = more effort = more sacrifice = boo boo I can’t be a selfish little boy anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:29 PM
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Imo this is also just another manifestation of male entitlement to 'unconditional love'. Men don't give women unconditional love yet they expect us to give it in return. Never have I ever seen a man love a woman 'at her worst', they never love her when she's fat, sick, poor, old..... Yet they want us to love & accept them when they're that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 08:00 AM
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Regina, is like, so fetch! (Mean Girls reference)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:22 PM
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Sex related gifts are usually super tacky anyways. Also, imagine if we gave men vibrators because ‘that would encourage me to have sex with you more’ they would totally flip out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:35 PM
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I find that these cautionary tales or the tiktoks useful when we post them here. Not only did looking at FDS commentary help me dismantle my internalised misogyny/ society brainwashing, the posts themselves helped me realise the high stakes if I don’t follow FDS (I’ll end up like her or my daughters will end up like her). It can come off like we’re negative or using people as clowns for entertainment but it contributes to a general ‘enlightenment’/ paradigm shift that correlates us to using bett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:16 PM
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Imagine if she stopped having sex with him, and started masturbating to porn every morn with her hitachi…. he’d be like ‘dO I NoT sAtIsFy yOu?!?!?’ and she could be like yea dude u don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:52 AM
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Yes, I totally struggle with this too. It’s hard when men already expect us to look a certain way + are completely ignorant to the methods in which we get there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:44 AM
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But… but… Men are the more logical and rational sex 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:36 AM
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I’ve thought about creating something like this too. But we would bump into problems with defamation/ slander. The way we could skirt around this, I guess, would be to list initials instead of names, and maybe list some defining physical characteristics. Keeping it vague but also indicative? Idk. I wish we had something like this. Would save women from a lot of trouble and even keep them safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:42 PM
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In the words of Jada Pinkett Smith “Don’t let marriage stop you from finding your true love.” And true love can be your career!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:38 PM
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I’d ‘accidentally forget’ we were having dinner and leave out the restaurant backdoor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:42 PM
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He’s clearly exploiting her but let’s run a thought experiment based on her logic: Say he really did forget his wallet, and say he’s the type to consistently forget his wallet, and also forget about your needs and your circumstances… and he also consistently forgets about how to be a decent human being so he regularly makes dumb etiquette mistakes like this that you have to constantly educate and correct him for… Why would you want to be with someone so reckless and unthoughtful? Why would you w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:08 PM
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I’m willing to bet she spent 25 years hinting and proving and arguing and on-and-off-ing and dragging him across the finish line…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:29 AM
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Yes. I totally agree. Also another way to think of it: Your time and energy is precious. Why make/ maintain/ focus all your energy on a friendship with a pickmeisha? When you can have higher quality FDS friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:22 PM
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I've noticed that pickmeishas and their pick-me tendencies can rub off on you. Especially if you ask them for advice or they consistently volunteer opinions about how you live your life. E.g. I was once being slow-faded out by a LVM and pick-mes around kept telling me that 'Women are allowed to text first/ chase!', believing them, I kept texting and dating him, he must have thought I was a convenient option to pump and dump and that's exactly what he did. In hindsight, if I had stuck to my 'Men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:18 PM
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Imagine if she spent her time & energy actually FLIPPING HOUSES she’d be so much better off emotionally and financially lmao Also: you’re not Shakespeare, tragedy is NOT romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:51 PM
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Public proposals are literally the tackiest thing on the entire planet. What on earth do people on the street and their opinions have ANYTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH OUR PRIVATE AFFAIRS??!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:03 PM
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How about we stop playing therapist for men who are CLEARLY SICK and just call the po po?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:00 PM
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Men aren’t taught empathy, they’re taught to be providers (to family) and therefore cold and ruthless takers (to everyone else). They start their lives with the paradigm that everything is a transaction. So everything (including giving and being generous) has to have an end goal. They’ll be nice to get your number, they’ll date for access to sex, they’ll volunteer for their resume (not because they believe in being good). As kids they’re taught to be takers, and taught that women are givers. (Ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:52 AM
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The media, specifically movies, simply don’t portray the female gaze enough. That means that men have no idea what women notice/ prioritise/ care about. And men don’t actively look for movies/ read non-fiction books targeted at women either (and when they do they’re called ‘gay’ by their peers). So when society is inundated with the male gaze, men think what is desirable by the both sexes are similar / the same I.e. the Tarzan like Hemsworth Abercrombie models, quiet, dark, unemotional and brood…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:44 AM
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Ahahahaha the KARMA for this guy LMFAO Funny how women decide to help men pick up the pieces when MEN fuck up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:15 AM
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Exactly. It’s not about whether the girl is mature. There’s something DEEPLY WRONG about a guy that finds dating someone young enough to be their daughter to be appropriate. Definitely not high value, and when women your age don’t like you, it’s a sure sign something is off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:13 PM
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Let’s think about it in another way - I’d be in a good mood if it was super clear that I just dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:07 PM
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Men with more experience also know which buttons to press, how to finesse you into submission, how to make the violation of boundaries come off as sweet and loving. This has nothing to do with wealth. Olivia Rodrigo is NOT mature. Have you listened to her recent album? The lyrics that she wrote come off as extremely pickme, extremely naive and it’s evident that she’s very much a teenager with an immature mentality towards love. (Very strong Taylor swift ‘you belong with me’ circa 2010 pick me vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:04 PM
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Ryan Reynolds’ humor comes off as very patronising with a hint of condescension. I wouldn’t be surprised if he regularly puts down Blake and then tells her to ‘lighten up! it’s just a joke!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:02 PM
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I agree. Women are constantly receiving harsh and hypercritical messages from the world. We should be the people that gives them solutions rather than shaming/ constantly pointing out how they effed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:20 PM
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Thank you for this post. It’s easy for women on FDS to simply criticise and put down others for their decisions, without putting thought into whether trauma/abuse played a part in their decision making. We have the opportunity to make this forum a place of positivity, focusing on concrete tips to help women improve rather than just shaming them. Personal accountability is important but so is compassion and empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:18 PM
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She’s been ‘serving’ him like a ‘good Christian wife’ should. YUCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:55 PM
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Notice how being with him is an entire NET LOSS Financially: She pays for the house & bills with INHERITANCE MONEY, unclear how much he provides and he’s ‘not ambitious’ Emotionally: Ignores her clear emotional need to get married, pressures her into sex and commitment with false promises, spiritually bankrupts her Christian beliefs and her peace of mind Career: She gave it up for their ‘relationship dynamic’, she’s ‘busy with the kids’ so she’s likely dealing with the bulk of the household resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:50 PM
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Mhmmm I wonder what happens when we start to associate violence with a release of happy chemicals Fucking Pavlov and his dogs knew better than this dog right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:03 PM
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I once had an Asian dude love bomb me and propose marriage within 3 months of meeting each other. He wanted a British passport. Definitely a “IS EVERYTHING DIGGER” !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:38 PM
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What in the ‘i actively involve in drama to make my low value self feel better’ crap is this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:32 PM
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Sings Ariana Grande “I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it!’ Men: WHAT AN IMPULSIVE EMOTIONAL RECKLESS CREATURE Whatever we do, we can never win…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:50 PM
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Classic LVM behaviour, sabotaging your life and then making you apologise for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:00 AM
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He forgot to wear a pillow, ya know, for the dad bod.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:27 AM
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Or the ‘nagging shrew’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:49 AM
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It’s literally common among men to make the joke that when they can’t last that long while doing the deed, they’ll stop and just kiss… And the women they’re with mistakes it for love.. When is she gonna realise that he’s not stopping because he ‘loves’ her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:08 AM
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Looking forward to his daughters losing all their respect for him Next time: “My daughters won’t talk to me anymore. Why????!!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:39 PM
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YIKES. And they’ll still say hypergamy is a female trait… I’m willing to bet that you could be a 6 figure earning Victoria’s Secret model and still not enough for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:33 AM
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Being with someone like him is a NET LOSS for her and I wish we as women would look at strictly how much value a guy brings rather than just rely on our fEeLiNgS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:29 AM
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I never understand these AITA posts. If you have to ask, you’re already an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:35 PM
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These guys actually have collaborated with Kevin samuels lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:45 AM
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For more entertainment, I'm here to share some actual LVM comments underneath these guys' post (copied and pasted): "You don’t have to prove anyone that you like them. Either she likes you or she doesn’t. Best way is to ask directly and save your time,money, energy and heartbreak." "Yes, you should only invest into a woman that’s already half naked and giving you lap dances" "You’ve got nothing to prove to this girl; if anything, SHE has to prove her worth to you. Men have to be the stoic ration…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:15 AM
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What is up with these LVM needing women to ‘invest first’ and ‘text first’ and ‘chase first’… There is not a single species in the animal kingdom where the female chase the male. The sperm chases the egg?!?! What is up with their mentality? Do these red pillers want us to serve ourselves up on a platter?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:18 PM
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Darn it, these low effort scrotes don’t deserve any success in life if that’s the attitude they have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:16 PM
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My uncle is an extremely HVM, lawyer, 6 figures, been married to my aunt for 30 years and still super in love, great to his kids and great to me. He’s told me that he doesn’t respect dogs because they’ll love anyone and anything. (So basically he doesn’t respect dogs because they’re massive pickmes) He likes cats because cats decide whether they like you based on how well you treat them and that shows pride and dignity. I mean, isn’t this the essence of the book ‘why men love bitches’?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:41 PM
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I cry over the amount of expensive perfume I wore to impress LVM that wouldn’t even show up with their shirts ironed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:30 AM
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We all die alone. I don’t understand how men used this as a veiled threat to get us to bend over backwards for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:38 PM
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Men and their selective blindness : “I haven’t seen him do it so it just means it never happened” 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:36 PM
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“Lower your standards and put up with my BS otherwise you’ll end up being a spinster!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:38 PM
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“I go for younger women because they’re easier to manipulate and exploit!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:38 PM
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She openly admitted in an interview that before she met Clooney she was ‘worried about becoming a spinster’ BIG PICKMEISHA VIBES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:36 PM
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So much money and he won’t even get a little hair dye, Botox and a stylist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:28 PM
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My ex did the same thing. Every time I set a boundary, he said ‘Damn that’s harsh/ cold’... shifting blame and gaslighting like I’m the problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:45 AM
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Absolutely, once they know they've got you, their 'mask of respect' slips and they act out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:13 AM
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My friend dated a LVM for 5 years, he kept dangling the marriage carrot in front of her while they spent 4 years saving for a house. Then he said he didn’t want to commit and get married. Why are men like this ????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:14 PM
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THIS! I've noticed that pickmeishas and their pick-me tendencies can rub off on you. Especially if you ask them for advice. E.g. Was once being slow-faded out by a LVM and pick-mes around kept telling me that 'Women are allowed to text first! Women should be able to chase men too!', believing them, I kept texting and dating him, he must have thought I was a convenient option to pump and dump and that's exactly what he did. Used me for 8 months and dumped once he was done. In hindsight, if I had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:29 PM
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Men are so afraid of 'gold diggers' but won't allow us to be wary of their 'beauty/ sex digger' ways... Such hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:32 AM
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