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Men: “women that are high maintenance are too hard!” Also men: “she needs to be thin, long hair, had labiaplasty , wear French tips, and know Versace “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:21 PM
5

It’s part of the larger culture. These women were told these things by their parents, grandparents, etc. It annoys the shit out of me but I try not to focus on them too much. They’re also victims of the patriarchy, and not the worst enemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:40 AM
110

“Standards”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:54 PM
219

“I have nothing against only fans, but I don’t believe it’s respectable in any way, shape, or form” The nerve of this man. And the fact he is so sad his bro didn’t get called back even though this woman who is terrible at coding (but passed a test) did. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:49 PM
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Ditto. Like, who in their right mind in this day and age doesn’t know men can leave? Even men joke about it “dad went for a pack of smokes and never came back” Like, that’s a “joke” because it’s so fucking common “Mom said she was going to the store and never came back” is never said as a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:39 AM
13

I had to reread at that point because “we’re applying for jobs” wait did she lose her job too?! After three rereads I finally read forward and was like “oh hell no”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:57 AM
31

Guy dropping red flags left, right, and center and it’s a $10 OF charge that makes her worried?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:00 PM
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I think it’s because as women we’re conditioned so hard not to neglect our duties that it’s almost unfathomable to us that men do this regularly. There was a study that showed it took women about 5 minutes on average to “do a number 2” while it took men on average about 30 minutes. The men admitted they were taking advantage of alone time while the women said they’d rush so they could get back to work. The toilet paper doesn’t add up either. I’m inferring that you and others think he’s using to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:27 PM
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That must be in the comments but with two women and two men in the house two rolls could easily be gone per day - im not seeing where the rolls are only used by him. It’s still unacceptable but I’m just hesitant to link all of men’s bad behavior to porn, because it might give younger women the hope that her guy will be good because he’s not a porn addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:42 PM
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I think you’re underestimating how far men will go to avoid actual parenting. You’re acting like he’s going to the bathroom to do a task (pooping, cleaning, masturbating). He likely is not. He is going there to avoid tasks (caring for his child, cleaning). I dunno, I feel like the portion of men who are absolutely driven to avoid any and all personal responsibility (childcare, chores) is much higher than those actually addicted to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:32 PM
46

Yeah I remember crickets. It was the same year as the Steubenville rape case, which was infuriating. Because the message that we were getting at the time was “it was through the Internet, you can’t track the man who did this to her. Women, take responsibility because when it’s on the Internet it’s untraceable!” But when that anon leaked the Steubenville videos to pressure the police to do their fucking jobs, suddenly THAT could be tracked. They put more effort into finding the person who made th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:08 PM
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Honestly may not even be porn. Many fathers admit to retreating to the bathroom because they won’t be bothered as much in there It’s a gross male behavior but not all gross male behaviors are linked to porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:24 PM
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Ugh this has been bugging me all week. It’s not even obvious to them, but they can’t do shit for themselves. At work I had an issue. Man A wanted to know why Man B doesn’t have item X which they need to do work! B is under A and A is under me so not an unreasonable request for me to look into I look into it - I gave B the form they needed for X in December and told them I filled out the first part and they needed to send it to Dept Y. It is February and I come to find out man B sent it to man C …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:36 PM
65

But if he were even capable of that he wouldn’t have pulled this shit to begin with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:43 PM
42

“If I told him this he’d be disgusted with himself” Bull fucking shit. If she told him he’d play the victim and pressure her into more gross sex to “earn” his forgiveness. Man she kept saying that she was nauseous-I kept hoping it would end with her puking on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:42 PM
211

Yeah. So fucking annoying. You’re allowed to discriminate by sex is the space is shared and I’d always put “females only”. And 90% of the responses were from men. All “I know you said women only but” But nothing, shithead, you’re not special
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:05 AM
23

Hey, he’s not boring! He’s colored a strip of his hair red!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:50 PM
76

I never go to male doctors if there’s a chance my reproductive system could be involved. Male optometrist? Fine. Male gyno? No. Male pcp? No Males get all pissy because they’re being “pushed out” of the obgyn field (because god forbid they not make up the majority of a field) but don’t take a fucking look at WHY women don’t want to go to a male dr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:53 AM
65

Yeah. A lot of these anti-kids posts seem to focus on the “tying yourself to a man!” Aspect. Like, sis, we’ve moved beyond that now. You don’t have to tie yourself to a man to have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:47 AM
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No, it says more on the men. Men feel entitled to all women they seem more attractive than themselves (eg a “5” man will go after women who are 6’s or above. A “3” man will go after 4’s and above) A bunch of 2’s or 3’s going after you doesn’t mean you’re a 2 or a 3, it means you’re above that and most 2’s and 3’s don’t have gf’s/are cheaters and are more likely to go after women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:21 PM
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GOAT is greatest of all time. It’s still gross but not in the way you think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:24 PM
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At least she has a supportive mom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:19 PM
69

Bold of you to assume he was washing every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:32 AM
168

“How to correctly send men to the grocery store: Marry a man who is a functional grown up.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:31 AM
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If you’re a gay woman on Reddit you’ve probably already been banned. Icky girls are acceptable to these dweebs, but only if there’s a chance they might want their pp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:54 AM
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No no, they’re actual lesbians! I mean, you need to use “evolved language” but they’re totally lesbians, like that totally female mod from Antiwork that went on fox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:21 AM
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It’s all of them. The left is just as bad as the right, maybe worse (in terms of women’s rights) The right wants women to be quiet when the men speak and just cook , clean, and make babies. The left wants women to be quiet when the men speak and just cook , clean, and make babies, but they also need to go to work full time to split the bills at least 50%, if not financing his “dreams” completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:43 AM
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Yeah. I admit I jumped on the GameStop play. It had been a while since I’d invested in anything risky. But i didn’t invest anything I couldn’t lose, and since it was so volatile I kept an eye on the market. Made a bit of money. Not a ton, but it scratched my day trading itch for a while and I’m back to the boring stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:29 AM
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A few years (before covid at least). Unusually bullish for ten years. Okay. Is that long in terms of the stock market? No. But is that a reason to panic sell at the first sign of loss and never invest again? Also no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:42 AM
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I mean, there is also the opposite. I found this sub because a dude and libfem were talking about how it’s an anti man hate group and I was like “I doubt that, let me see”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:25 AM
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I mean, this post and thread does a disservice to women. While I agree OP (of the original post) should NOT support her husband becoming a FT investor, it is fiscally irresponsible for her (and posters here) to encourage selling when you’re losing. Lots of comments about how bros think they’re hot shit when it comes to investing, but the sad fact is this is being used to discourage women from making good financial moves. Like, someone above says you’ll only get a 10% return and only if you’re as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:43 PM
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What? My gains are 25% average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:34 PM
4

I guess fair enough, I don’t see the point of LinkedIn at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 06:22 PM
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Yup. I was watching something where they were like “rom coms would be horrible if the genders were reversed!” Like dude, the fact you admit you’d be horrified at the behavior if the genders were reversed shows how shitty they are to women. (And if was, “horrible if reversed” not “let me demonstrate how horrible they are by flipping the genders)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:03 PM
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What indicates the man is useless? I chose to have kids, but I chose to do so with the knowledge that daycares were abundant and available. Saying “you chose to have kids” to people with kids over 1 year old is myopic at best and shitty at worst. Few people chose to have kids in this environment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:50 PM
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A desperate cry for attention or help? You say both. The childcare situation is appalling right now, and it has almost nothing to do with “who you chose to procreate with”. Choosing a HVM doesn’t magically staff daycares (which is the primary reason people are having difficulty). Women earn less overall and it makes sense if you’re in a situation both parents work in the first place, it’s likely he makes more and you’re strapped for cash so it doesn’t make sense for him to quit his job. The reas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:49 PM
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I get that but I think you’re coming from an assumption that all women do this thing. And we don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:47 PM
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Oh please I have no idea who she is but I’m 100% sure she did not mean go on dates that are likely to end in your rape or murder. I am 90% sure she means go on dates you may not otherwise. He wants to take you to the opera and you’re not into that - go anyway, the experience might actually be one your enjoy. Or maybe you hate it and it was a horrible date. But you still tried something. Too many people say “I don’t like that” about things they have never tried (and would not hurt them to try).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:45 PM
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I don’t. Occasionally I curl my lashes but that’s practical as well, mine are so long they can sometimes get a bit tangled between top and bottom, which hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:51 AM
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I mean, to be fair she said “date” not have casual sex. There was a post here a while back telling women to date around more (that was received positively on FDS). This is the same message. That the dude took it for more isnt her fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:35 AM
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Yeah I was gonna say twoX has become overrun with “he didn’t rape me tonight, he’s such a saint!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:32 PM
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I love that he specifies sex toys “for women” No problem with the fleshlights causing ED and female dissatisfaction, but oh no vibrators!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:01 PM
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He has 30k saved for a wedding AND a car. Um. What. How much would go to the car and how much to the wedding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:22 PM
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….I snorted at that….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:51 AM
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I think he is wrong in admitting he’d pressure her to do what he wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:11 AM
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The person who says this believes that every man rapes his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:08 AM
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The article is trash but the comments give me hope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:27 AM
14

I swear Reddit has destroyed my caring about any issues related to men. I used to be all “people are equal and we definitely need to bring men being abused by their female partner into the discussion “ ….but then I realized most reported female on male “abuse” is her not doing everything he wants when he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 11:50 PM
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So let me get this straight. If she’s not emotionally invested in you that’s why she can’t orgasm but if she is emotionally invested in you she won’t care she can’t orgasm …sure dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:28 AM
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Your brother has been dating someone for four years. Why hasn’t he popped the question yet? Doesn’t seem HV….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:31 AM
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Yep, everyone talks about their poor, sainted father who couldn’t wrestle them from the grips of their horrible mom. Nope, if dad doesn’t have you, there’s a reason. He’s either unfit or didn’t try. And as for women “manipulating” the system, when women testify to the unfitness of a father it is actually MORE likely he will be given custody. Courts assume women are exaggerating and trying to hurt the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:16 PM
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One example doesn’t disprove the rule, it has been studied scientifically. Furthermore I said lesbian couples. Your mother with a list of partners wouldn’t be considered that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:14 PM
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Ugh this makes my heart hurt for this woman. Children raised with negative male role models will be worse than those raised without male role models. Lesbian couples raise the happiest kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:07 AM
1

Where are the mods on this one? I’ve had comments removed for saying a woman should not lie about having a food allergy (because it was “low value” and not supportive of women - but the woman was lying about a food allergy) but here we have a ton of comments remaining up saying this woman who pays half the bills is or might be an asshole for asking for a nice cake one day a year?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:45 PM
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Yep, the entire situation is fishy. He was at a six figure job, but has no savings? It’s not the cake, it’s what the cake represents to each of them. To her it was the second nice thing she asked of him for her birthday (after he said no to the first one) and he couldn’t even be bothered to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:08 AM
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But that’s YOU. She would have preferred a night out, or a nice cake on one day of the year. Just because you wouldn’t prefer that doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve it. And this isn’t him doing “thoughtful legwork” this was her asking for a specific thing, him saying no, her offering a lower item and him taking the cheapest way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:06 AM
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Nah, he was earning six figures until a year ago. Six figures to a lower job and you can’t afford a nice cake? For someone paying more than half the bills? Even with children that’s a sign of bad financial planning. I don’t even make six figures but if I lost my job tomorrow I would be able to go about a year without a job (it would be hella tight but manageable). Now add to the mix that I’m still working (just at lower pay)? Completely doable for at least two years (that’s kind of my intent, ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:04 AM
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Nope, the opposite. They did a study maybe five years back that showed men almost always swapped the two. Being friendly? He thinks you’re flirting. Flirting? He thinks you’re just being friendly. This wasn’t in the study but imo this is likely influenced by the fact that men often want to date “above” themselves in looks. So my guess is that if a “5*” woman flirts with a 5 man he’s all, “no she must be being friendly because I’m too good for her” (even though he’s not) While if an 8 woman is fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:24 PM
168

“Message her and let her know my experience “ This dude literally things women are a service to leave feedback on user experience. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:13 AM
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Yep. My BIL was a SAHD for about two years. My sister was constantly cleaning and house managing when she got home from work. He got mad and decided he wanted to go back to work because their kid preferred mom, and he was like “I spend all day with him! Why?!” Because when she’s home she’s bathing and feeding him, as well as playing and putting him to sleep. You are spending a small portion of the day playing with him and feeding him one meal and then(very likely, based on what I know) playing v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:14 PM
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I get it’s the rules but I kind of wish the name weren’t blurred so I could follow her! (Not that I’m on tumble much these days)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:12 PM
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New term, volcel. But at the same time most incels are also voluntarily celibate. They CHOOSE not to do the things that could get them sex. The bar is on the floor. If they can’t get over it that’s on them. Take a shower. Do something to improve yourself (that is not based on sex). Maintain a job or some aspect of responsibility. Don’t be an absolute asshole in your interactions. Choose not to do that? You are choosing not getting a gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:12 PM
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Disgusting. “It happened in bed not real life”?! So the bedroom is now non-reality?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:29 AM
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I just read this post and those were my exact thoughts! Seven years, she’s not that important. Brother might be trying to do gf a solid by pressuring op to finally propose but honestly too little too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:33 PM
4

As an aside, I also love egg whites. Hate the yolk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:59 PM
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I believe studies have shown men and women take in visual cues differently- men are more fixated while women look at the entire area. This is entirely contradictory to “women are not visual creatures”. In fact it means we see MORE. A guy sees boobs on a woman. That’s about it. Women are looking at his face, his body, his cleanliness, his attire, everything. In just about every other species with internal fertilization the females are much more selective than the males, and males need to be beaut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:40 PM
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Hmm yours sounded more complex than mine. There was no kit for me, and the process was so simple I couldn’t imagine actually paying anyone to help. Then again I think the first place I tried packaged their vials in a weird way so there were like adaptors and stuff? And the packaging made it really easy to send less than they promised. The second place was very straight forward though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:21 AM
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Thanks! I was probably searching single moms or smbc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:17 AM
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Seriously, again? I could only find a single moms group that basically spent the entire time complaining about baby daddies and then got hijacked by an erotica writer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:36 AM
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I have a wonderful daughter this way, and am connected to other families that conceived with the same donor. Depending on where you are located you can choose to do it at home (eliminating paying a clinic). The first place I tried I didn’t really like. The second one was great - full genetic profile, childhood photos, etc, for no fee. They also do specials and have message boards. It’s very tough at times (if you’ll need daycare try to get on a waiting list as soon as you’re pregnant) but when I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:29 PM
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I didn’t know this - i tried to find one once but couldn’t…. Maybe my search skills are just lacking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:19 PM
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You can also do it at home too depending on your location
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:18 PM
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Yep, quit two x when every other post was “my boyfriend is amazing- he didn’t make me have sex when I was on my period and feeling awful!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:17 PM
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Yep. A lot of the mods are men and are very angry towards “feminism” that doesn’t primarily support men Like, actively angry, like banning people who are on other subs that support feminism (like FDS) or even other SITES that support feminism (someone from TPP said they were banned from a Reddit sub bc their Reddit username was the same as a TPP username).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:15 PM
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Considering he is still free after this, she is likely unfortunately right. This isn’t romance, this is survival in a shitty environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:18 AM
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Stockholm syndrome is apparently made up, and based on misogyny. I believe it was something like the woman’s captors were actually very respectful of her, and the cops were being assholes and, in her opinion, the ones who were making the situation worse and putting her life in danger. When she was set free and expressed these views she was labeled as having this new mental condition, because otherwise the police would have to take responsibility for their behavior. No, no, easier to say bitches …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:16 AM
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Bizarre. Also, if this guy is as hot as she says he is, he knows it, and is probably flirting with everyone….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:51 AM
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Of course you don’t. And narcs don’t ever believe they’re narcs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:02 AM
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Why can’t the coworker just not talk to them, or, like an adult, excuse themselves from a conversation? My coworker who I usually get on with is a conspiracy theory nut. When she starts on the latest conspiracy I usually say, “wow it’s wild people believe that. Anyway I need to really concentrate on this task.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:01 AM
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When you’re raging about completely innocuous incidents, it’s either because you’re not understanding where the other person is coming from, or your a raging asshole. I chose to assume the former about you, I apologize if it was the wrong situation for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:59 PM
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What you need to realize is that when you have a child that takes up a huge part of your mental space. Huge. It’s not that they refuse to talk about anything else, but it’s likely they can’t. You barely get time to sleep and eat, nevermind cultivate hobbies. Most your time is spent talking to people who are more interested in your child than you (doctors, childcare workers, even most friends and family) that talking about the child is the default topic. Additionally all the people who I’ve met w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:46 PM
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Oh I agree, but those are also high paying degrees. Get an expensive degree if it’s in a field that will pay you back, because you’re still not going to be one of those “ive been out of school 20 years and still have 500k of debt!” All my doctor and nurse friends were able to pay off their loans within 5 years, without much trouble Getting into a program you’re not serious about without doing the research (and I can’t take anyone who says “dogctor” seriously) is a personal, not societal, failing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:42 PM
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She acts like someone forced the degree cost on her. I got my undergrad and grad degrees for under $50k, total. When I tell “college always costs $500k and that’s why someone else should pay for it!” people how, though they counter with, “well I also want to have a good time!” …. If you want to have a good time, there are other options that are much more fun and much less expensive than college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:40 AM
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And usually with the 3-4 months the guys says, “I wanted to say it earlier but didn’t want to scare you”. They do know early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:49 PM
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Or she. Or they.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:57 PM
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Oof I see this again and again but I still don’t understand the degree of intertwining some couples do. If you’re not married, you shouldn’t have a joint account, or card, or give access to your media sites etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:34 AM
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Men love to complain about women “starfishing” but will cover their ears when they are given even half a chance to prevent it. If a woman is “star-fishing” it is for one of three reasons 1) she is from a culture where this is the only acceptable thing for women during sex, and any activity on her part is considered emasculating to a man (but this isn’t common and it would be unlikely she’d be having sex with a man who didn’t know this….but it DOES exist) 2) YOU are not good at sex, and consisten…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:24 AM
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The sad thing about sex dolls is that I believe one was displayed at a con and men could play with it a bit and within hours it was destroyed. Like, not worn out with sex, but fingers broken, head bashed destroyed. I honestly don’t even want robots to be subjected to these creatures. Let them take turns in a barrel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:15 AM
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And with technology, women don’t even need men to reproduce. They have absolutely no necessary worth, so yes. You guys do need to do some actual work to make yourselves valuable to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:11 AM
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“We already learned to cook for ourselves” lol if only. I love this this threat and admission - “you have to work hard for women” and “we can live without you”. Well which is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:58 AM
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I love seeing people get mad about these posts. Guys saying it’s infuriating for women to want respect, or facepalm worthy for a woman to ask for respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:17 PM
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“I don’t want to force you into doing anything you don’t want….I’m just going to pretend it’s okay until you’re emotionally invested then whine and complain and threaten to break up with you” Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:15 PM
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Nope. Nope nope nope. If they have debt they incurred it for a reason, and need to take responsibility. If it’s a “necessary” debt, like a student loan, mortgage, car payment, etc, money spent paying it down would have been better spent invested, as interest rates are lower than average roi. Plus they might have a plan for that debt (I could pay off my mortgage today, but between tax credits on interest and the low rate, I’d rather invest that money) If it’s unnecessary debts (mounds of CC debt)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:10 PM
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I know I say it all the time, but time. If he hasn’t proposed within two years, he’s waiting on something better. Likely these men were 3+ year proposals and the women should have seen it coming. I unfortunately see post after post of women who are still dating someone after 4 years, or even 10 years and being shocked that he’s not as serious about the relationship as she is. It sucks but women are often taught to settle and men not to. If he’s waiting more than two years it’s because he’s tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:43 PM
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So many “feminist” subs have banned the feminists and installed men as mods. No wonder they’re just full of pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:33 AM
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And that was being called abuse, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:33 AM
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A study a few years back came out showing men and women are equally funny - had a bunch of people do cartoon captions without names linked and there wasn’t a statistical difference between men vs women being voted as funny And you are 100% correct about the type of humor - even the study said that men used blue humor much more than women. The study also showed that, when asked, the participants usually believed the funniest comments were men, and the study was titled something like, men aren’t f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:21 AM
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Yeah. I think it’s way over diagnosed, especially when you get down to how a lot describe it. Like, in my experience a lot of people are declaring themselves (or others) as asexual because they are comparing to people who are hyper sexual (ie porn sick). I’ve met people who like sex and have sex, but still claim to be asexual because “they don’t need sex 24 hours a day” Like? Who does? It’s become like that stupid Demi sexual thing - and ime really common to find people declaring themselves “Dem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:26 AM
27

I feel like it’s a way to show dominance/authority. Belittle your wife and children because you can. I had a PI who I thought was fantastic. Went over to his house for a party and the way he treated his wife (who was the lab coordinator) was appalling. Like, she was always in the lab and he was always in his office so I’d had no idea. Really soured me on working with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:14 AM
216

They literally have no idea. I was talking about how sex can be painful for women to a guy friend and he was like “no, it’s enjoyable”. Reddit has one of those questions like “what was your worst sexual experience” and the guys were complaining about how they’d been raped…, and their rape was like “she invited me in and I said I wanted a blowjob with sex but she wouldn’t give me a bj we just had sex and that’s not what I agreed to and I didn’t even enjoy my orgasm so it was rape” A survey a whil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:18 PM
30

From my interactions lately with radfems it seems like most “feminist” subs kicked out actual feminists for being “uncivil” and “hateful”, and most mods in these subs are men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:16 AM
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Yep. I was on a thread a while back and someone said, “as a woman I blah blah blah” And I said “no, women don’t work that way. You’re not a woman” Dude immediately confesses, “ok I’m not a woman but it was faster saying that than I watch a lot of porn where women do blah blah blah, so yeah, women do do this.” I say “considering I knew immediately you weren’t a woman when you said this happens proves how unrealistic porn is and you should stop watching it “ ….anyway. Yeah they’re mostly men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:14 AM
6

Well duh. But It doesn’t look like any racial slur we (me or the other commenters) know, so considering how many of us are in the dark about this supposedly slur your inability to believe/forgive eilish for not knowing it’s a slur is a little silly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:10 AM
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I don’t even know what word you’re referring to so…. Sometimes when people aren’t raised with slurs they don’t actually know why it’s a slur. I still cringe when I think back to 13 yo me yelling “f@g” at someone. Because I’d heard that word all of maybe twice and knew it was an insult. I thought it was like asshole or idiot. Zero idea it was a slur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:32 AM
90

Ugh and that dude probably thinks he’s invincible now. “How bad are tornadoes! I drove through one and survived!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:05 PM
32

I’ve never heard of men dating down. There was even a study - a while back - on how men and women see themselves and their partners. The scenario was something like a speed dating thing and at the end the men and women were asked who they’d like to call them for another date. Men always shot higher than themselves while women stayed around their level For example a woman who was a “5” asked men who were 4’s, 5’s, and 6’s to call her A woman who was a 7 asked 6,7, and 8 to call. A man who was a 5…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:36 PM
2

They can’t have shared financial goals if he doesn’t know her information. We support women here who fucking burst into tears when they find out their so told them what they gross not net (absolute ridiculous IMO). She knows how much he makes. So she has obviously asked him. But suddenly asking is taboo and the action of a gold digger? So op is a gold digger? Give me a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:29 PM
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I don’t understand what’s going on. If a man did this - didn’t talk about finances, you’d be out. The reverse has to be true. If she wants a relationship she needs to be honest. If he ends up being a mooch you cut it off. Better to find out sooner than later, IMO. Tell him, get his reaction, and move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:27 AM
12

Glad someone else realized this…. To many people on this sub using words and terms they don’t understand and getting praised for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:25 PM
9

??? The Madonna whore complex means that women are categorized as Madonnas or whores. That this man has put her in the whore box while he wants a Madonna doesn’t mean it’s not the m/w complex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:24 PM
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I find this quote so confusing….is it saying Christmas lights don’t look alike? Because a lot of them do….is it saying Christmas lights don’t look like flowers? Kind of dumb and flowers are prettier…. And like. Flowers don’t look alike? Lilies and orchids are different and beautiful What is going on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:49 AM
51

I love the fact that he “didn’t ask” her to take on child rearing. Like. Who the duck do you think is going to do it? It’s obviously not the guy so who else is left?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:44 AM
78

Nice! I used to go to an all women place- it was even titled that, something like “women’s health by women” (but catchier). But then they started taking on male staff and obgyns but kept the name?! Um, no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:51 AM
108

My first obgyn was male and, when I first began seeing him, recommended daily douching …for what later learned (from my female ob’s) was absolutely normal cervical fluid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:48 AM
40

Yeah, sometimes I feel like people on this sub get bogged down with each thing that should be a warning (like the ridiculous “if he doesn’t like astrology, run!” Post) It’s a holistic thing and what you need at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:53 PM
47

Exactly. I know a guy who works a min wage job with little responsibilities because he wants to be able to devote his responsibilities to others (eg if you call him for help he will drop everything to come to you, and can because even if he gets fired he can get an equivalent job without a problem) Despite that he is financially savvy and has quite a bit invested, and knows when to take advantage of refinancing his mortgage vs when it would be more of a hassle than a gain and things like that. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:51 PM
17

No, she’s supposed to not complain when he expects her to clean the shit stains out of his tmnt boxers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:23 PM
30

Yep, dressing up to “ward off scrotes” is still dressing for men. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:55 PM
142

Not unless he knows his kids are HIS. A friends husband recently left her. She was in her early twenties and when we first met she said she had four kids and I was like “what?” Well, there are from her husband’s previous marriage and one is theirs together. Well, she became a SAHM, he got about 3-4 years of free babysitting out of her, then divorced her and is onto the next young twenty something. I see a lot of comments from people who are child free (and that’s fine) but even if you want child…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:30 PM
18

When guys complain about their partners not wanting sex or being preoccupied during sex or whatever I tell them it’s on them. If your partner doesn’t want sex from you it’s either because you’re bad at sex, or leaving her with a ton of chores that exhausts her or something. And they’re all “it’s not my responsibility to give an orgasm!” Well it’s not your responsibility but if you want a woman to want sex from you you need to make it worth her while. Like that woman who only let her bf go down o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:26 PM
31

Dating 5 years with a 1 year old…. Guy put in no effort because even after she was pregnant, even while she was nursing his child, he was looking for other options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:46 AM
47

Because many men refuse to acknowledge women as actual people. It’s rude to do these things to a person! It’s outrageous. But since women aren’t people to them they have no qualms in enacting this double standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:49 PM
185

I love how the “dark side” of women dating is….having standards. Jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:22 PM
42

Yeah and at least with the kid they’re likely to forget five minutes when it’s out of sight. No way a woman is going to do that with something she uses regularly and packed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:10 AM
23

They’ve given fucking convicted rapists visitation to children conceived by rape. If a man isn’t getting visitation it’s because he didn’t ask or is a danger to the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:20 AM
17

Urgh. Tina fey has an awful history of producing misogynistic television. Many of her SNL parts (which she wrote) were about how sad and pathetic single women were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:35 PM
2

There is literally no single way to determine something about someone, despite what a lot of these posts claim. “Ask him about X, if he’s not super excited you love that it means he’s a narcissist!” …or maybe he’s had a bad experience with X in the past and your enthusiasm of bringing back bad memories. And maybe you shouldn’t be together if your interests don’t align but it’s hardly a red flag….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:12 PM
23

Evolution still plays a heavy hand in our day to day lives, whether we recognize it or not. Society has been working against evolution for decades, pressuring women to marry and mate with men that were awful. FDS is, believe it or not, endorsing evolutionary play. Evolution says that if he seems terrible, leave him alone. Better to not reproduce this season than waste your time and energy reproducing with someone who is not a good mate and will not pass desirable traits onto your offspring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:49 PM
24

But honestly meeting someone on tinder is probably the sign they’re a FB so….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:46 PM
72

Mods can also be awful, banning for no reason and shutting down threads because someone said “man baby”. My money is on this guy being one of those
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:51 PM
125

Oh my god. A homemaker contributes to the home! They are considered “unpaid labor” because it’s a spouse who is doing work that must be done and would cost money to have other people do (eg laundry, cooking, etc), and which assists in making the breadwinner’s life easier. It’s not a catch all for any volunteer activity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:48 PM
125

Yep. The number of weddings I went to of guy friends marrying women in their late 20’s early 30’s and I’m like “oh girl. Why are you settling. He’s my friend and you’re practically a complete stranger and I know you deserve more than him”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:31 AM
14

This is messed up, but the title doesn’t make sense. MBAs are the most garbage grad degrees. Several of my friends got MBAs solely because they were quick - they wanted to teach science and you needed “a masters” and like, 18 grad credits in the specific area you were teaching so while they were already pursuing an MS in STEM they did a side gig to get their MBA and were able to complete that in their spare time, and sooner than the degree they initially started with. AGAIN none of that means th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:31 AM
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I’m guessing part of it is women aren’t required to become bang maids at age 16 anymore. So more women can become novelists and more men have to = gasp= do their own dishes (pulling them away from their “creative” pursuits)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:23 AM
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I had the most Unbelievable conversation with a guy years back. His take : women never contributed anything. Me: what about anonymous writers? Him: those were men me: but if they were anonymous, how do you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:21 AM
15

“My boyfriend didn’t rape me, he is such a saint!” Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:26 PM
42

Right and I think the above is saying the only “right” men lost was their “right” to control women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:06 PM
10

Yes! I don’t clean at my mom or my sisters after dinner - I don’t even offer because of the dishwasher issue. All these comments from people who are like “what?! Not cleaning up at someone else’s house?!” I feel need to chill, because they don’t know the full situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 08:26 PM
22

Not necessarily. At his sisters? I can understand you wanting to bring his sister something, but a family member doesn’t need to be brought a gift every time you go over, unless it’s a special occasion. Ditto for cleaning up. I’m sorry but I hate when people try to help clean up. Last time someone offered after a party and I said no no, it’s okay. They insisted. I ended up with disposable plates in my sink and finding non-disposable items in the trash. Cleaning up after their “clean up” was more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:25 PM
201

“tHiS Is aBuSE!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:11 PM
2

Pregnancy subs and boards are depressing as shit. Time and time again I’m just like “why you having a baby with a man who’s a baby”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:51 PM
9

So wait a minute. She is an accomplished writer, but holds down another job for the benefits. What the fuck is this man bringing to the table? You’ve got a woman who has the talent to earn 385/hr with her writing….and this guy can’t even do the decent thing to take on the shit job for benefits? Or is he one of those SAHD who expects the mom to do exactly 50% of parenting, cleaning, etc, even though he’s staying home all day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:10 AM
-9

Wow. All of this is stupid except the actual point. If he’s been off social media for almost five years she should know this and not bring it up. It can be like ab addiction to some people and some people (myself included) don’t want their pics on social media. I’m not “hiding” anything, I just don’t want that part of my life to be open to public consumption. But the guy sounds worthless anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:09 AM
14

Yes. Like I don’t like when women wear hijabs. And I’ve been told “that’s their choice” but my problem is it’s not. When they’re making that “choice” under the pressure of a religion that says they are a pos if they don’t wear a hijab it’s not truly a free choice. That’s just one glaring example I see but yeah, all religion is shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:46 PM
7

If he’s interested he will make time. Even if he’s busy, he will tell you that in advance, not just stop replying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:20 PM
17

Some places will give staff impressions of a donor, as well as a writing sample (some questions to answer). Many will screen for multiple diseases that could be recessive, and give you that information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:57 AM
32

Yep. I know someone who has a kid with her ex then they split. She hated the hassle of a man and had another kid through a sperm donor. Much happier with the second kid. Not that there’s anything wrong with the first kid, but there’s so much added stress of having to work our visitation days with the ex, then half the time the ex not nothing to show and having to console her weeping child for hours. Easier without a man involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:55 AM
57

Yeah a 35 year old woman getting annoyed at the way worse shit 18 yo boys get up to is labeled a Karen and usually threatened with death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:20 PM
8

Yep. I know a couple of comparatively “good” guys and their overall behavior and just ignorance of women’s issues would get them flagged as a raging racist if they were talking the same about a man who was a different race
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:02 PM
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Stop. It takes a lot of work to do this and just about anyone CAN do it. Is the amount of work needed going to be doable for many women? No. Does that mean it’s impossible or nearly impossible, physically? No. Does your personal low milk supply negate other women’s experience? No. Does your anonymous and vague “medical professional” cred make your input more meaningful? No. I know a lot of “medical professionals”. Almost none of them are obgyns and most have a shocking misunderstanding of genera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:04 AM
1

Yeah I probably wouldn’t have known maybe two years ago but geez that was out of control. Good luck to you - it’s such a challenge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:30 AM
8

So there’s a comment here saying it’s possible to breastfeed after stopping and this FACT has been downvoted into oblivion, by people who would rather believe emotions instead of taking five second to do some research. PEOPLE. NO ONE is saying this particular woman should go back to breastfeeding if she doesn’t want to, but breastfeeding after you’ve stopped IS possibly and parroting/perpetuating the lie it’s not can emotionally harm women who have had to refrain from breastfeeding who wish to s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:23 PM
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This is correct. A lot of people are downvoting a fact because they’re too lazy to even Google it. https://breastfeedingusa.org/content/article/breastfeeding-your-adopted-baby-0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:28 PM
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No it’s not. Women have done it. It takes a LOT of work though. A lot of it has to do with the specific stimulation of suckling, so with just a few hormone pills a LOT of pumping you can start producing milk, even if you’ve never given birth. Edit: Simple Google would have shown you this https://breastfeedingusa.org/content/article/breastfeeding-your-adopted-baby-0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:27 PM
13

The pinned comment enrages me almost as much as the post. Call a female poster a gold digger, call her a monster, say she should be executed with how she is treating a man, and that’s fine. But call a third party male, who will never see the post, a man-baby? In a sub where you’re supposed to call him an asshole? How uncivil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:21 PM
6

Please don’t, the analogy is disgusting and wrong if the terms are used properly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:30 AM
36

No. predators aren’t apex unless they’re called “apex”. That’s why we have to say “apex” predators because there are a bunch of non apex predators. This is like saying “we need to stop calling them males because alpha males are strong” Predators can be sneaky and take advantage of prey. It’s doesn’t mean they’re apex or particularly strong or anything. Calling them vultures is akin to calling every woman nothing but a corpse in waiting Sorry, I know you probably didn’t intend this, but for someo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:29 AM
5

Yeah, I don’t think this is a good strategy or good advice at all “ask him about something you’re passionate about and run if he’s an ass” sure, but astrology specifically? Nope. If a man started earnestly talking to me about astrology during a date that would be it for me. I’m out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:06 AM
25

Two years. If you’ve been with a man for two years and he hasn’t proposed he is either 1) not going to 2) might propose but will leave you the moment something “better” comes along. This is why they waited so long in the first place. If he proposes next year it’s because he was thinking for 10 years something better might come along - she wasn’t “enough”. So he might eventually say “well I guess this is it” and propose, but he will always be waiting for something better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:00 PM
1

I think if they behave ghastly that lets you know to move on. But I would say to be well-groomed, however you define that for yourself. On the first date you’re supposed to be putting your best foot forward. If you show up without any grooming and in poor clothes your date is going to think “ this is the best?!” Think about it - if a guy showed up wearing sweats and a t shirt, would you be impressed? Probably not. If he showed up to your first date in a tie and slacks does that mean even after d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:00 AM
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Traditional wife now is one who works, but only 10-4, so she can make sure hubby has everything he needs before he leaves for his job and also so she has time to get home and have a hot meal waiting for him. Needs the job because the man’s paycheck is his so if she’s going to live there she needs to pay her own way. Also she needs to clean but she can do that before he wakes up or when he’s watching the game. …ugh so sick of all the posts here whining about this set up and telling men they are a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:41 AM
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If he doesn’t act like he likes you, he can’t like you all that much. That is, if he’s not pursuing you even if you do end up dating he’ll never be invested or if he’s pursuing you put putting you down it’ll be trouble down the line. Honestly it’s like what you said - they’re not very hard to read unless they’re making an effort to lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:35 AM
17

Translation: “you need to lower your standards like me because I’m mad you’re happier than I am”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:13 AM
2

Gross. If you like doing it, it’s not a duty . A duty is something you HAVE to do whether you like it or not. If you always enjoy it, it’s not a duty (and please let’s not talk about sucking cock like it’s volunteering to defend your country). If you don’t enjoy it, stop. Edit: the fact you say you eat cookies when you don’t want to because they want to be eaten…. Like. Cookies do not want to be eaten. A better food analogy is when you don’t want to eat a cookie but the baker whines at you about…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:16 AM
1

Just because it’s in a book doesn’t mean it’s true. Lots of blatantly false things have been written and passed off as fact. I have a book on my shelf that meticulously details the experiments that prove prayer affects plant growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:12 AM
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Because they lack awareness that all media is centered on the male gaze. They assume when men are half naked it is done in a way that is appealing to women, even though it’s for other men. So they copy that. And when women try to teach them using that very clear cut hugh jack man example they still don’t get it. What would women know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:04 PM
4

Strong = a pillar for men to stand on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:24 PM
31

He wants her to wait to have sex with him until she’s legally locked in so once she realizes how bad it is she can’t get out easily …. I dated a guy who was a virgin at 25, not for any religious or choice reasons. We had a messy breakup and I went to therapy and my therapist literally said “If he’s still a virgin at 25 there’s a reason for it”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:47 PM
196

I would ALWAYS say “female only” on my room ads and always get 75% men replying. Not even “I know you said women only but…” just straight up “I’m Kevin and want to rent the room” Even if they aren’t looking for a girlfriend 9/10 they want to live with a girl because “living with guys is gross” IE they know guys won’t pick up their own shit let alone someone else’s but a woman will, so he can be a slob, do no chores and still live in a nice apartment .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:44 PM
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So you’re saying that if someone told you they were allergic to chocolate, then, right in front of you, pulled out a normal Hershey’s chocolate bar and ate it right in front of you you’d still go, “yes. I fully believe you are allergic to chocolate.” Really????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:04 PM
19

It is, but in light of the recent posts, people don’t trust other people. The whole “I’m allergic to dairy but eat dairy ice cream and for some reason my SO thinks I’m not allergic to dairy” DOESN’T help. Defending people who do this DOESN’T help A friend used to tell people they were allergic to onions. I listened and took notes. Always made onion free dishes for parties. At one party they asked me for my potato salad. I took out a dish for them - my usual stuff has onions, which is made for ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:51 PM
5

The guy will post this on another women’s sub and get 5 million awards for being so amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:46 PM
13

As a side note, and I don’t mean to offend anyone, but I hate when rape victims are called “survivors” instead of “victims” “Survivor” in just about every area is what you’re called when things are completely out of anyones control. Cancer survivor. Flood survivor, etc. People who are shot are the victims of a shooting. People who are mugged are the victims of a mugging. But victims of a rape are “survivors” Why? A “victim” implies a perpetrator, while “survivor” does not. This terminology also …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:02 AM
6

Well, I would assume she’s on pelvic rest which means the husband is right - nothing is supposed to be going up there, including tampons and cups BUT since that wasn’t his explanation for why, then yeah, she should bleed all over his stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:41 AM
2

It is not innate - if it were innate there wouldn’t be a “Madonna” portion of the Madonna /whore complex Are they being taught explicitly? No. But they are being taught by society and the media they consume. If it were innate the “problem” with porn wouldn’t be a problem, since the issue would be there whether or not porn was fueling it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:41 PM
3

Yes! Give my daughter the option of short hair, not straight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:07 PM
4

Yessss Plus my mom was obsessed with me having long hair. I have straight hair but it’s thick and playing as kid the knots would be insane. I remember crying while my mom did my hair - and my dad wasn’t any better I cut my own hair in HS to should length and it was such a weight off, literally and emotionally, and a time saver. I’m definitely going to give my daughter the option of straight hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:40 PM
20

On your last edit - this is true. They did a study a while back. I can’t remember all the details but it found that when they worked with women who wore skimpy outfits they judged her to be less competent at her job than she was AND they found that, while working with these women the men also judged women who were wearing more modest clothes to be less competent than they were. That is, ignoring things like porn addiction because it’s “not hurting you” isn’t true- when men are taught to view wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:38 PM
25

Ug I was reading that thread yesterday and it was telling that most were like “my family would be surprised if found someone to have sex with in the first place” Did you ever think this general attitude about women and sexual exploitation is one of the reasons you’re not having sex, hmm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:32 PM
21

Because women are born knowing how to do their girl child’s hair and no child has every hair their mom accidentally hurt them while doing their hair….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:28 PM
40

“….except I still do it, and freely, but people tell me I’m not supposed to and that’s an infringement on my rights!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:11 PM
48

On my baby board there were men literally complaining about the cost of an infant swing. The reasoning? Why spend 50 whole dollars on something that gf/wife can do. If wife is capable of holding the baby, no need for a swing. Not that he will hold the baby, and he will expect the dishes and laundry to magically get done LVM will always balk at the smallest expense, while expecting women to do something for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:52 PM
60

Yep, there’s a reason you get an engagement ring! It’s money in case he fucks you over (and telling the chances of that are so likely it’s an actual tradition to give such a piece of jewelry)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:28 PM
5

The first case of parthenogenesis in humans!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:08 PM
19

There’s a difference between education being made freely available vs being able to actually access it for free. Some schools - even public ones, depending on the country- require uniforms and specific supplies, and don’t provide transportation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:17 PM
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Yes. When I got pregnant I wanted it to be a boy at first because he’d had an easier life by default. But then I started thinking about all of this. I decided to not find the gender out beforehand but everyone said I was carrying like it was a boy and one tech slipped and said “he” during a reading. At that my heart SANK I don’t usually believe in signs but a month before I was due I saw a “sign” that basically said “it will be a girl”. And that calmed me down. And it was. I have other things to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:08 AM
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“The incidents point to how far some companies will try to go to control the lives of their workers” WOMEN. They are trying to control women, not all their workers. This goes back to when women couldn’t work at all. But then we’re allowed to work as teachers - but only til you gota man (some people think women were actibely choosing family over work, but some jobs said you literally could not have a bf or husband and be employable). Ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:56 AM
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They assume if they are interested in Y everyone must be. Because to them opinions are not actually subjective Had that with a friend. One day he blew up because I had been talking about a shared interest for a while - a book series. To be fair he’s read it and liked it, but I LOVED it. Too much, apparently. He finally snapped about how he didn’t want to talk about that and can we get back to talking about things we both enjoyed. I stared at him a moment and asked him, had I not just let him tal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:39 AM
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Yep. Those studies that showed older women have a higher incidence of birth defects….how many of those women were banging 20yos that they could definitely rule out the older sperm’s contribution? I was reading an actual scientific paper that laid all aneuploidy events at women’s feet. It wasn’t an opinion piece, mind, it was just a throwaway comment on gametogenesis of “and nondisjunction only occurs in eggs, since they pause so long in metaphase II “ And it’s like How THE FUCK Do you explain th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:27 AM
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Yeah I hope the “I don’t know what to do” is about HOW she’s leaving him, not if
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:57 PM
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Even women don’t need to put in their entire fist to get to the cervix depending on the time of the month, and men have longer fingers than women, AND most iuds have strings that dangle out of the cervix AND a lot of guys don’t understand how much is enough for fingering. So a guy getting into attachment area for iud isn’t surprising at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:56 PM
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Oh lord. Not very into ST but I remember there was an episode Dean Stockwell was on and I was just like….”please have them ask who he’s talking to!” But no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:01 PM
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Yep, there shouldn’t be a “next time”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:36 PM
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I really hope she doesn’t dump him…. ….until she’s had a chance to bring up EVERY embarrassing private moment with his during dinner parties with their friends. Then she should DTMF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:02 PM
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Oof reminds me of a “discussion” I had in one sub with an “as a woman”. One or two back and forth and I was like “you are not a woman, women’s bodies don’t work like that” They immediately admitted they weren’t a woman but insisted they were right because they watched a lot of piss porn. And I had to explain to him how women in porn have so much plastic surgery. He kept insisting for a while but I pointed out that I discovered he wasn’t a woman because his anatomical knowledge came from porn. So…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:52 AM
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Yep. There was a female artist I didn’t care for. Tbh I thought she pandered to men in a “not like other girls” way a bit too much. The guys in my life said I was just jealous this woman is a talented genius, it’s not even about her looks. Then she cut her hair and they refused to buy her work until it grew out again. Like, I get preference - when my favorite male singer cut his hair I was bummed….but I still bought his stuff and enjoyed the hell out his concerts because I liked HIM and his work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:24 AM
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Is this the sub where every other post is some pickmesha nominating her man for sainthood because he bought groceries one time…? :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:21 PM
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“You seem expensive” = women are objects Uh no dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:36 PM
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Man good luck getting out. He sounds awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:17 AM
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FFS cops don’t arrest male abusers in the first place most times. It takes a lot to actually be arrested in a DV incident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:11 AM
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Exactly - I just get a little wary of women pushing for male bc. Because it honestly should not change how you behave. Condoms unless okay with baby. Even in situations where it’s like “I get side effects from bc so I’d love my husband to be able to take it instead” nah you still gotta plan for him forgetting. Even “good” husbands require management.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:12 PM
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Honestly, bottom line I just wouldn’t trust men to take male birth control. Men already lie about having had vasectomies. If male birth control is actually available they’re gonna lie and say they’re on it to get out of using a condom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:40 PM
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Yep, and in the height of covid there were all these articles about how men were so much more likely to die from it and oh my god what can we do?! And you look at the numbers and it’s like a 1% difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:39 PM
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“You shouldn’t punch anyone in the face!” “So I can’t punch women in the face? So much for ‘equality’!” I swear these fuckheads act like male on male violence is totally fine, and they use it as a measure of what is acceptable to do to women, but when women bring up violence against women they’re all like “but more men-!” I dgaf. If our mutual neighbor broke into your house and stole your tv and you were too much of a wimp to call the cops that doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to call the cops when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:11 PM
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Ugh one of the worst situations in terms of emotional and financial storm is when a white friend, whose husband is black, had a white baby As a geneticist I know that’s a probable outcome (even two black parents could have a “white” baby!) but I understand how it might give the average person pause This guy didn’t pause he went OFF. He said there was no way the kid was his, she must have cheated, and divorced her, and refused to pay child support. She got a court compelled DNA test. He’s the dad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:22 PM
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Hey now! They’re also feminists when they think it means they could randomly punch a woman in the face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:53 AM
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He gave her the perfect out “You can’t get here from the toll road you’re on!” “No? Dang, guess I can’t get there tonight byeeee”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:45 AM
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Ugh especially during covid when male landlords were coercing women who couldn’t make rent to give sexual favors (….is how the news outlets reported it. They were raping women) all these fucking men were JOKING about it “Man I wish I could get free rent for just sucking a little dick!” Like. How do you know you can’t, dude? Have you actually gone up to your landlord and offered to suck his dick? And I mean, to be fair considering there was an eviction freeze and these men were threatening the wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:47 AM
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replying to your edit: teaching literally revolves around boys. We give lip service to getting girls involved but it’s more putting the burden on girls Like in science we put up posters about how girls can be great at STEM But when it comes to the actual lessons it’s all about how boys learn. The newer “inquiry” based learning and stuff? It doesn’t actually help students learn (since they are just as likely to retain incorrect information they discover, without learning it’s incorrect) but it’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:45 PM
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Exactly, came here to say this. Affirmative action is not just for “equal numbers” it’s for “equal opportunity “. Those boys HAD the opportunity. They blew it. And I believe Japan was where, a few years back, some doctors were artificially grading women’s med school results low to keep them out of the program (and send them into being homemakers) So women are excelling and STILL being denies opportunity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:56 PM
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Lol same I came here because I was told it was so toxic and was curious. And I’m like. Wow. It just shows how toxic the REST of reddit is that this is toxic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:26 PM
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It’s not washing clothes. I lived with someone (not a bf thankfully) who showered every day but did not wash their clothes regularly. And everything smelled. At first I thought the same thing - why? They shower every day! I hear the shower! But then I started realizing that I rarely saw them doing laundry, and when they did there was a layer of grime left on the tub. Again the first time I noticed I thought they must have had an unusually heavy load, but then I realized it was the machine trying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:33 PM
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You nailed it when you said broken. A study showed that men were less likely to be aroused when a woman was crying. But that study was done before porn addition was so common. By nature a guy will not want to have sex while you’re crying. It is supposed to turn him off - even if he was hard before he should go soft. If he doesn’t it’s because he’s overwritten his natural state with porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:58 AM
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unfortunately went through and read OPs replies on this thread. He basically doesn’t believe women are raped and killed. It’s like pretending you honestly don’t know why black people are more fearful of the police than police are of black people....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:20 PM
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The police don’t take actual rapes seriously and false rape reports are as common as false reports for other crimes. If you’re not afraid of someone falsely accusing you of a mugging you shouldn’t be afraid of a woman accusing you of rape Unless you know you actually raped them and have a non-zero (though still depressingly close to zero) of going to prison
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:49 PM
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Fucking convicted rapists who have their assaults videotaped don’t even have their lives ruined. Fuck off with that “an accusation can ruin a life”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:46 PM
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Exactly a this guy thinking only women cheat. What planet is this guy from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:39 PM
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Yep! I called it - last year people were like “there’s gonna be so many 2021 babies” and I was like, “when women don’t even have a break from their man child for work hours their libido is going to zero”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:20 AM
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“There is a history of men killing women. There is a history of women cheating on men. But for some reason women go to greater lengths to prevent themselves from being killed than men do to prevent a ONS from cheating on him! Women are so irrational!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:10 AM
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I think it can also be about vulnerability. Long hair is easier to pull so a woman with short hair is less easy to physically dominant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:52 PM
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