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quirkypinkllama/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 02:17 AM
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ADVICEquirkypinkllama/r/RedPillWomen15/01/21 01:09 AM
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I agree that they should each contribute a percentage of their incomes for the joint bills like house, electric, water, food, etc. and that he def can take her on nice dates here and there. If he's not, then he clearly doesn't value her and she's better off discussing her needs and then if no change, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 08:30 AM
1

How the hell did you even decide to be with him in the first place? Leave and figure out the details later...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:51 PM
3

Wat? Lol. I want someone good looking, health-conscious, considerate, witty, smart, stable in life, and someone who will let me love him and vice versa.... nothing about cheekbones, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:09 PM
5

wow, that's an eye-opener!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:58 PM
4

the WORST thing a woman can be is accommodating. because he will push that boundary further and further until he pushes you right out of his world. take notes, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:35 AM
1

I think that it is important to have standards but to not go overboard with them. Sounds like he's financially in a good place. I don't see the issue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:38 PM
1

What kind of world is it where he GETS OUT EARLY and also that SHE MARRIES HIM? what the total FUQ!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:54 AM
1

Honey, never send your boyfriend nudes if you don't want them shown to others or sent to others. All men do this. This is Dating 101. I would tell him why you're dumping him and then never send nudes to a guy again. Tell anyone, "You want to see me nude? Gotta get there first and you'll only see it in real life, with your own eyes."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:49 AM
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yes, i've considered it. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:35 AM
2

Honestly? Dump him. You're better off being single. And tell him exactly why. You've already wasted 3 years of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:41 PM
1

Yes, it doesn't bother me. As long as I'm not expected to jump into a mommy role right away. I want to get to know him and go on dates without kids for awhile before bringing the kids into the picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:34 PM
3

I don't think I'll ever change my last name. I've been me and he is he.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:16 PM
15

I totally agree with all this! Happy for you girl! I hope to find this too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:12 AM
8

Wow, you do all that for him and he treated you that way!? He might as well be scum on your shoe for how he's acting. Why are you even with him?? Does he expect if he has a possible cancer scare that he would be in "party mode"??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:02 PM
5

If you want to kiss him, then go for it. If not, then don't.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 07:09 PM
6

I would tell him what you need and ask if he's willing to give it. If not, then say that you need to end things cause your needs aren't being met.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 11:59 PM
6

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:34 AM
3

this is a whole 'nother level of creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:39 PM
26

claps you're so right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:54 AM
117

Amen, sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:53 AM
144

"They're overplaying their hands. They need us, we don't need them." 👏👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:52 AM
81

This is exactly why I would rather be single than have a man that thinks he's a god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:50 AM
21

His mom should not be enabling him like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:22 AM
5

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/RedPillWives26/09/21 07:05 AM
9

And ain't that a shame? I think so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:02 AM
8

You're not a total asshole. You're actually level-headed....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:09 AM
1

I stayed home for 8 months with my 1st child cause I couldn't imagine leaving him with a stranger. Then later I opened a home daycare and spent 4 years with my own children, working the daycare, and raising my own kids as well. It was the best thing I could've done in so many ways. Now I'm a high school teacher. But I don't know if I would want to be a SAHM fully. I didn't ever want to give up my financial earnings or allow a man to have power over me, if I decided I wanted to leave but couldn't…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/21 04:55 AM
4

Nope, not even for a while of dating. I drive myself or we meet there
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 02:51 AM
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Go in with the intention of meeting new people, not more. Have a relaxed attitude, be yourself, and ask for her number before you head out of the venue.
/r/seduction19/06/21 08:16 PM
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I think that having standards and a desire for a healthy relationship with someone and not just a FWB is the better choice for numerous reasons. How you think trying to sleep with as many people as possible as not "toxic" is almost laughable.
/r/seduction19/06/21 04:59 AM
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I think any slut should be shamed for it. Being promiscuous is a sign of trauma and a need of healing. Face your problems, don't go banging every person in sight cause you can't handle your feelings or grief.
/r/seduction19/06/21 12:52 AM
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Yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:47 AM
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Yes, it's shallow and skeevy. Seduction should be reserved for someone meaningful, not to just fuck everything in sight. What an empty existence. And don't insult me saying that you thought I was a "modern" woman. Casual sex only benefits men and I don't partake in that. I respect myself too much.
/r/seduction19/06/21 12:42 AM
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Liking someone doesn't put them on a pedestal. And if the only thing you're after is getting laid, then you're a shallow excuse of a man. I am interested in a man that isn't hunting down every single woman at a location. It's skeevy.
/r/seduction19/06/21 12:23 AM
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Because I'm a woman and this would work with me. If I saw a dude that was just trying to talk to me also talk to another woman at the same venue, I would figure he's a player and would immediately lose interest.
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:16 PM
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Send her a drink. Or go over there and say, "Hey, apologies for interrupting girl time, but I just had to come over here and say hi to you. I think you're stunning and wanted to chat. Shall I stay and chat a bit or prefer to exchange numbers?" I would be receptive to this approach. And if I wasn't interested, I would say so. Then you go back to your table and eat then leave. Don't try to flirt with another girl while there, it'll make you look like a player. 1 girl per location.
/r/seduction17/06/21 02:02 PM
1

He was diagnosed and I think was even on meds but I was so exhausted. There was no breathing or quiet it was just constant fast talk with no time for reflection.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/21 07:52 PM
1

I went on a date with someone that had such severe ADHD that it was giving me anxiety. He could hardly stay on a topic for more than 3 seconds. I said "severe", which that case was. If it's mild or regulated, I have no issue
/r/RedPillWives15/06/21 06:42 PM
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I know that he's not the one for me if he's messy, way too hyper/severe ADD/ADHD, a picky eater, if he is scatterbrained, doesn't have intelligence, or is a country boy.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/21 05:14 PM
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yessss, idk why so many women are so obsessed with looking young. take care of yourself and look your age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:45 AM
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I think that he's gotten into superficiality and porn and wants her to be a doll instead of a human
/r/RedPillWives09/06/21 12:12 AM
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If you're both working and you are doing nearly everything around the house, that's no good. I suggest you get a job and divvy up household chores. I would leave a man if he was gridded out by the light push fuzz on my arms.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 11:02 PM
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Yes, body hair bleaching can help. But she shouldn't have to be hairless everywhere...
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 10:57 PM
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Same, I use a women's bikini trimmer to keep things manageable down there
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 10:56 PM
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You don't have to wear something just cause he likes it...
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/21 10:49 PM
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Lol. They expect girls to look good then complain when we do the things it takes to get that way. Taking care of yourself isn't expensive. Now if EVERY week she's doing some expensive stuff then ok mayyyybe she's expensive. But it's her money so.... where be the problem? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:39 PM
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You need a license, but not a special degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:08 PM
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Sounds gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:29 AM
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Amen sista!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:20 AM
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I agree. But to be a daycare worker, you don't need a special degree for it. Only some inexpensive training. It's hard work caring for young children, I know. Parents don't want to pay more than they already are for childcare. It's already expensive, like college tuition, for daycare. Other than government funding idk how that could get them to be paid more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:37 PM
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Oh I totally agree. Everyone deserves a living wage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:19 AM
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Mechanics require a certification and special training. A lot of the things women do don't require that, in this example. There's a pay gap for sure, of equal qualifications for the job of a man vs woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:36 PM
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Well virgin sex is no fun. I want someone who knows what they are doing and what they like, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:34 PM
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Could say the same thing about grocery store clerks, mechanics, etc. Someone has to do the job, though I think the pay should be better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:43 PM
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Who wants to have sex with a virgin anyways? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:42 PM
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amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:26 PM
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Yep. I'm not a man's keeper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:31 PM
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claps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:40 PM
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Oui oui
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:29 AM
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Amen sista!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:36 AM
11

Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:11 PM
9

dang girl. I'm glad you know your worth and have self-respect and dumped him. better off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:09 AM
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I don't remember that scene, but damn. It's true that men i think only want a beautiful woman. They will put up with bad treatment, a bad heart, irresponsibility, dramatic, etc from her, but hey, as long as she's hot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:49 PM
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I'm sorry, but your weight and height are totally normal. he just wants to be free to do as he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:55 PM
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yep, i def ask the questions that need to be asked. always feels good that i know and tried.
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:52 PM
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I have this chart and that's partially why I know these things. But I need to revisit since it's been a few years since I've looked at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:59 PM
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Nice. I maybe need to teach mine how to fold clothes and put away. Mine are 5 and 7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:47 AM
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As it should be. I do this with mine too. How old are yours?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:29 AM
7

Dump the whole man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:27 AM
1

She could just be polite. Maybe instead say something like "Hey, you're cute. Are you single?" then ask "Is it ok if I get your number?" and then she'll answer. I've found I get more honest answers this way, though I'm a girl talking with guys, so it's a little different.
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:51 PM
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I think the trick is to be a good listener to your conversation partner.
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:20 AM
1

Sounds like depression. I suggest you do weekly counseling. The girl i go to is $25/hour without insurance and she's fantastic. Let me know if you want more info.
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:09 PM
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I'm probably turning my head, blushing, giggling, having short comments, can't make eye contact, and trying to run away. Lol
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:56 PM
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For me, the first thing I look for is if he's got a cute face. If that's a no, then it's a rejection based only on that.
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:29 PM
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I get VERY nervous around a guy I like and can't hardly make eye contact if I'm super attracted. It's ridiculous. But it's me. Getting better. Maybe ask if right then and there if she could grab a coffee so you're all seated and the height thing isn't as much a factor?
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:27 PM
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I think 1 is first and 2 is important as well and you need to constantly be doing 3. Plus also living a fulfilled life with people, a career, family, and following passions. It all ties in.
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:11 PM
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Get some books on self- improvement, self-confidence, and start doing weekly therapy calls. My therapy sessions have helped me tons with self-worth and self-confidence and self-care. The girl I go to charges $25/hour and she does teletherapy (over the phone). Lmk if you want her info.
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:09 AM
1

Do a phone call. I find that it's easier to see if there's a connection after a call. Also lets you know if someone has manners (interrupting etc)
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:49 PM
0

Well some of the best things to do is to ask what she's been up to and build conversation off that. Or to share what you did and to ask what she's been up to. Use that as a springboard for conversation. Or ask if there's anything coming up that's exciting.
/r/seduction06/03/21 02:45 AM
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I think you need to know your values and what you stand for and to speak your truth when it needs to. If she says that abortion is wrong and you think it's ok under special circumstances, then say as such. You need to know yourself well in order to be able to stand up for what you believe in.
/r/seduction02/03/21 05:14 PM
2

hell of YUCK right there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:37 PM
1

Add in short and cute touches like a hug when you first meet, touch her arm gently when you make a point or say something funny, play footsie a little, wink at her, when it's time to decide on a dessert ask her if you can sit next to her to look over the menu together and get a little closer but not too much. Can put your hand on her knee as you're talking there or scratch her back a little, I personally love head scratches once I'm comfortable with a person.
/r/seduction13/02/21 02:09 PM
3

amazing info. and yes, this was the life I led and I love where I'm at cause of it! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:31 AM
5

Right!? I'm not doing all that if I have an able-bodied partner....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:45 PM
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it means that you have a good life with friends, enjoy it, take care of yourself, aren't too intense with them if you're dating, have your life together, don't sweat the small stuff, are a good friend and person, relaxed and laid-back, don't freak out over nothing, and also speak your mind when it comes to boundaries, comfort, etc. with TACT. :)
/r/seduction28/01/21 11:22 AM
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oh wow, really? that's scary...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:15 AM
1

I can do this, I just don't always know what to say sometimes. lol. not being tied to outcomes helps
/r/seduction23/01/21 11:56 PM
0

dayum girl. truth hurts!! maybe he'll stop being an ass to patients too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 11:55 PM
1

amen and AMEN!!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:37 PM
1

Live your best life, talk to strangers, be friendly and kind and playful and if you see someone you like then ask them out! If they say no, say "ok, gorgeous,no problem" and off you go. Bring BDE to the table.
/r/seduction17/01/21 05:03 PM
0

Awesome job, girl!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:47 PM
8

That's gross on his part....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:04 PM
1

Yep. I'm in that park already with that one. Be free n clear or I don't want you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/21 05:10 AM
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Yes, totally agree. As I get older I see the benefits of a pre-nup honestly... lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/21 05:09 AM
1

Exactly. Trust starts at 0 and builds over time. It doesn't start at 100. "Here, take my debit card. But don't use it though. I trust you." 🤣😂
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/21 05:09 AM
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For the record, divorce information is public record and if I had his last name, I could look him up. When I was dating last time, a guy I eventually had as a bf was asking me questions about if I was ever married and what the name of my business was and if it was registered with the state. He told me later that he looked it up out of curiosity. I had nothing to hide so it didn't seem weird. I liked that he did his hw. He also showed me his divorce papers and his vasectomy papers, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/21 05:07 AM
1

Constantly? He still lives with "ex" and isn't able to prove he's single. I'm not entertaining a guy like that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/21 05:04 AM
1

Atta girl!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:13 PM
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I texted mine and got me a lil lovin. 😅🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:04 AM
2

truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:44 PM
2

women don't want to just fuck, they want to find someone to love and then share their sexuality with that person. maybe men could learn from that....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:28 PM
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the way a woman dresses has 0 to do with rape. has everything to do with a rapist being near her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:02 PM
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so sad that a man can't take NO for an answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:57 PM
3

Sounds like you both need to be honest. I would tell your parents to back off and to let you live your life. And I would tell your bf that he's now single after doing that. Boy bye.
/r/RedPillWives06/12/20 05:43 PM
1

Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:03 AM
1

So true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:18 AM
13

So cringe!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:17 PM
3

I think so, yes
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 10:21 PM
5

Damn straight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:28 PM
2

I'd say she has low standards
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 09:57 PM
3

So disgusting. She needs 6+ weeks to recover. There ARE other ways...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:26 AM
3

Yes yes indeed!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:15 AM
1

It's trendy and I like it. But my walls are white :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 01:46 AM
1

Ewwww. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:34 AM
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I'd say that you honestly need to think about what your long term goals are. If you were a single woman come a what path would you take? Granted you are not single, but you always on the it should think and look out for yourself as number one until you are in a marriage with someone calmer then they are also your noble 1 and you needed taken both of your needs and opinions into account. But I personally would not be making decisions about my life or career based on my boyfriend at the time perio…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 01:30 PM
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Yep! Always have a work plan as a woman and mother. If you need to leave him, if you're just a SAHM, you won't be able to get out. Don't do that to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 01:29 PM
3

Sure sounds like it...
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 01:27 PM
8

Life is lived in freedom. Husbands not allowed. 😛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:22 PM
1

Try not to bring up past mistakes. Do your best to deal with things as they come up.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 07:31 PM
1

Me :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 07:30 PM
1

Damn straight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:19 AM
2

For me, mine is based on personality/lifestyle stuff. Like: nonsmoker, no drugs, not overly religious, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/20 08:31 PM
1

For me, I say that too but it's cause I'm just trying to say that my priorities are different.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 03:43 PM
6

This makes SO much sense with the laziness part!!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 03:42 PM
7

Probably really true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:16 AM
1

How do I tell him that I'd like him to take charge? I'm ok with doing some of it but used to the guy doing a good amount of it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 03:44 AM
1

Yep! Queens be queens!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:37 AM
1

No sex
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 12:16 AM
3

He says he's looking for a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 12:16 AM
3

Yes, I have seen that in him. But I've been fooled before too by "good behavior" early on, so...
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 03:21 AM
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I'm also trying to navigate between words n truth.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 02:48 AM
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I'm just trying to avoid liking and falling for someone that isn't looking for what I am.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 02:35 AM
3

I did. He says "means I'm not gonna push you into anything. Or expect things to go my way. I want you to be comfortable, until we develop trust."
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 02:22 AM
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1) improv 2) home improvement projects 3) pampering (face mask, bubble bath, jacuzzi, etc) 4) reading 5) tv shows with sexy guys :p Whenever I get to do these things, I'm totally invested and involved in it, love it, feel happy when I do it, and feel refreshed afterwards.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/20 05:36 PM
2

Haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:46 AM
1

a lot of it is just doing your thing cause you want to. having an opinion cause you believe in it. doing your things cause you're the one excited about them. live for yourself and not to please others and you'll find a way to be cool in your own skin.
/r/seduction17/07/20 07:13 PM
7

Lol. 5'8" isn't even that tall either! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/20 06:19 PM
57

5'6" isn't "too tall to be feminine"... whoever said that is honestly retarded
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/20 03:18 PM
1

I like a guy who is up to 2" shorter than me and up. My height limit is 6'2". I'm 5'6". A guy that's 6' tall, it's honestly hard to kiss them, lol. I prefer same height through 5'10" the most for ease of kiss ability and holding hands. :) honestly, I may be the minority with my height opinions, but it's important to embrace EVERY part of who you are. The right person will dig you for what and who you are. <3
/r/seduction12/07/20 01:41 AM
5

Very true. I'd say a 2 year difference there is max for that age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:54 PM
17

16 and 23 should not be dating in the first place, but yes, we need to always be diligent with our kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:38 PM
6

Amennnnnn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:28 PM
2

Well, we both are parents with split custody and homeowners so, I guess that changes the dynamic a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 03:57 AM
2

When I was with my bf, we saw each other 2-3 times a week and usually had sex as often as we would see each other. Sometimes it would only be 1x/week that we would see each other. How do you see your SOs so often?
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 03:45 AM
2

Yeah, totally different if they literally CAN'T. another if they can but WON'T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:30 PM
26

Lazy fathers are forgiven. Lazy mothers are chastized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:15 PM
2

I like a guy that knows himself, is himself, is cute, and who isn't afraid of expressing himself in any way. I like a guy that's witty and playful and that has a positive disposition. I like someone who is intelligent whose lifestyle is similar to mine (not into partying, eats healthy, enjoys varied activities, etc)
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:05 AM
1

An activity is good, board games at a coffee shop, a class of some sort, drinks n tapas in a cool venue, tourist kinda stuff in your area, museum, art gallery, wine tasting, cooking class, etc.
/r/seduction17/06/20 06:05 PM
6

Yep!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:15 PM
1

He absolutely was cheating. Dump his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:30 PM
2

Yeah, screw that. Get you some wholesome friends
/r/seduction15/06/20 03:30 AM
1

You can't trust that your friends wouldn't try n steal your girl? That's honestly quite awful...
/r/seduction14/06/20 11:46 PM
2

If you can, try n shower right before asking ;)
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 11:40 PM
1

Let your body n desires take over and help you to feel out the moment. But not too slobbery, use tongue minimally, and touch n caress their body, wherever your hands go.
/r/seduction14/06/20 11:33 PM
1

The right girl will like you even if you're clumsy or awkward or whatever. Just sayin. Lol
/r/seduction14/06/20 01:23 PM
1

Yep! I always tell people to let others decide if they like you or want to do something. Don't decide for them. Make the ask
/r/seduction14/06/20 12:47 PM
3

Why wouldn't you want to continue on with her if things went so well?? I only want to love someone madly. It's the only way to do it.
/r/seduction14/06/20 12:42 PM
1

Yep!!
/r/seduction14/06/20 12:38 PM
8

Ewwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:56 PM
6

It's creepy if it's the first thing you say to someone. Has nothing to do with gender....
/r/seduction11/06/20 06:40 PM
18

Approaching a woman and asking her name IS kinda creepy, lol
/r/seduction11/06/20 06:11 PM
1

I like casual n comfy. That's just my style, lol
/r/seduction11/06/20 03:05 AM
3

Awesome!
/r/seduction10/06/20 05:52 PM
3

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:04 PM
4

Having an age range you're willing to date is soooo important! I'm 31 and mine is 5 years younger and 11-12 years older. I won't go above that. Have other parameters that they must fit within as well. It will help you weed them out early before you have feelings. Cut n dry gets easier when you understand WHY you have these rules in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 10:03 PM
5

High value man
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 02:03 PM
3

Haha omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:57 AM
3

Could be that you're a bit wishy-washy. If you're concise and say "Hey, let's do something this week. I can do Mon or Thurs, which works better for you?" and then after she answers, make your plans/move. Can use this in friendships too. If she says "I don't know" or "I'll get back to you, check back in a few days. If still no definite answer, likely that she's not interested, but you should always ask. Some weeks I am too stressed n busy to want to go on a date so it's not ALWAYS the guy, just s…
/r/seduction06/06/20 07:41 PM
3

You sound like i need you as my mentor! Lol
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 02:50 AM
1

I use an electric bikini trimmer with shave gel. Keep it short and use it once ever few weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 06:57 PM
12

Yep. Nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:52 PM
1

I'd say take a female friend with you to a boutique thrift store and have her pick out things that she thinks you look good wearing. Try on a lot of different things and see what you like and what looks best. Generally, more form-fitting things look good, just not TIGHT. lol.
/r/seduction03/06/20 06:16 PM
6

Haha, omggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:25 PM
3

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:50 PM
3

This is insane....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:17 PM
15

He's going to fuck the shit outta her. Dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:11 PM
11

WFH period?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:44 PM
5

This is what my last ex did...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:08 PM
5

Can visit thrift shops for cool stuff that you can wear during maternity. Don't spend a lot of $ cause you'll only use that stuff shortly
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 06:41 PM
2

Being playful is a personality trait. I'm that way around everyone in general
/r/seduction26/05/20 02:15 PM
2

You're working double time what normal people do. Be sure you have time for you and time for couple time, but don't be hard on yourself in the meantime. Have designated days for both (couple time on Tues, Thurs, Sat night. And solo time the other nights. Or whatever works for you). Can tweak it if it's not working. Be sure you're contributing around the house too so he doesn't feel like a housewife (do some trash removal, cleaning, laundry, etc). Ask him what you can help with.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 10:45 PM
2

.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 02:31 PM
1

Get a man/woman funnel going and you'll hardly notice
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:13 PM
1

Not a bad idea. I prefer paper, but good to know :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 06:13 PM
1

Thanks, added that to my list!
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 02:04 PM
3

Beautifully written
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 02:01 PM
10

Yes, it's important to share your imperfections, faults, fears, be vulnerable in your doings and mistakes. Show you're ok with yourself as you are. Have prolonged eye contact. Ask the 36 Questions to Make Someone Fall in Love With You. Ask him what he fears most in life, in marriage, in being a parent, in being in a relationship. Ask him what his fondest childhood memories were. Share yours. All kinds of stuff like that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/20 01:57 PM
2

For me, when i kiss with tongue that's my signal that i am horny and want him. Find something like that which signals that for you and he will take notice. Grabbing a guy by the dick is way too yucky, i'd never do that in a million years. Could guide his hands to your boobs while kissing or grab his butt a certain way, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/20 03:10 AM
3

Awesome news 😍
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 05:39 AM
1

Yassss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:18 PM
5

Yep!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:42 AM
1

this is so scummy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:25 PM
1

what's an example of bragging about oneself? is saying that they made a bangin cake for their mom's bday bragging?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:10 PM
2

Wowza....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:47 PM
3

Put your hands in her hair, touch her neck, hold her face with 1 hand, put your hands on her lower back and pull her in to you (not too much), wrap both arms around her above her arms. This kinda stuff happens after you've had some normal kisses and seen each other at LEAST 6 times or more.
/r/seduction05/05/20 08:08 PM
1

Make out, get handsy
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:57 PM
2

I make out with tongue and start touching everywhere to indicate i want it ;)
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:54 PM
1

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:27 AM
3

When they say "we should go do X together" or "i want to show you X" or "I need to take you to go do X, i think you'd love it!" Or "let's go on a cruise together"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:54 AM
5

I would leave. He isn't caring about your needs and won't compromise. I'd be gone.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 03:36 AM
-1

Ebay is SMV?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 07:15 PM
9

First qualifier for me in attraction is a person's face and body. If they are really big or heavy, I am not interested in them. They might make a good friend, but there is no sexual attraction. Weight is a very big part of that for me and I assume that for men it's even more so
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 04:28 PM
7

Yes, agreed. Not everyone is worth your effort or time.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 10:05 PM
1

Every few days is good to have some meaningful conversation
/r/seduction28/03/20 09:57 PM
22

I've had to learn that not everyone wants to hear my opinion. And that's ok, I can keep it to myself :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 08:54 PM
1

Interesting, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 04:00 PM
1

How's that beneficial though?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 03:10 PM
1

"Rhythm to think"?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 03:00 PM
1

Thanks for the info!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 02:39 PM
1

Howso on running helping you mentally? Quiets the mind?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 01:54 PM
7

Work on self-development, like internal stuff. Confidence, self-love, being patient, levelheaded, growth mindset, relaxed, surrender to what is, etc. Some of my best stuff has happened recently in the past 6-8 months due to personal development. Tons of books to read and groups you can join to make it fun.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 01:54 PM
5

Very good analogy. I figured if i was pretty in general but didn't really try with my appearance that guys would still like me cause of my personality and my accomplishments, intelligence, etc. Backwards it seems!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 05:38 AM
8

Dark circles can be combated by taking more vitamin C in your diet :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/20 07:43 PM
1

I have been seeing the guy I've been dating about 2-3 times a week recently but it will likely die down a bit with kids and custody schedule and such. Respect his wishes though, but it's gonna be hard... they suspect this will last til fall or later.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 03:25 PM
2

"Huge energetic penis" ha!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 02:57 PM
2

I am sorting through and filing papers, catching up on deep yardwork projects after work and on the weekend, doing sleepovers with the guy I've been seeing the past 6 months, doing some baking and cooking of things on my bucket list, bought some board games so my kids and I can have some fun in the evenings, got them both used kids bikes too for neighborhood walks, am diving into my bookshelf of self-improvement and knowledge books (also have fiction books to get through), I'm planning an exerci…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 02:54 PM
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