"Taking it slow"

2020-07-23T02:44:17+00:00

If he backs it up with signs that he wants a commitment, it's definitely a green flag that he doesn't want to push you into anything. If he follows it up with flaking or not wanting to introduce you to friends or family, yeah that's a problem, but until that happens, don't borrow trouble.

LanaTownsend · 2020-07-23T02:21:11+00:00

I’d ask him to elaborate. We’re not going to know what’s going on in his mind.

CuppyBees · 2020-07-23T02:27:57+00:00

This sounds like the opposite of a red flag, that was a really respectful and caring answer he gave when you asked him to elaborate. Sounds like a nice dude. :)

Maybelowsmv · 2020-07-23T18:56:32+00:00

If youre having sex, then yes

axlorg8 · 2020-07-28T05:54:34+00:00

Depends. I have told a guy that I wanted to go slow because I'm anxious about relationships and not used to it. Didn't mean I didn't intend to not commit, but I wanted to be comfortable.

lilastr · 2020-07-23T02:43:22+00:00

If serious labels are already established, not a red flag. If you’re entering new level of relationship (fiancé, first date before you call bf/gf, before exclusivity), it might be a red flag.

But from your comment it sounds like he is just anxious type of guy.

Title	"Taking it slow"
Author	quirkypinkllama
Upvotes	9
Comments	21
Date	July 23, 2020 2:17 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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