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I agree. I look at the majority of guys out in public and think, “no wonder male celibacy is at an all-time high”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:06 PM
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I’d leave that alone. He doesn’t sound interested or engaged.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 12:19 AM
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There are literally tons of videos on YouTube about this. It's also good to take into account your body shape and color season when reinventing your wardrobe.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/22 04:59 AM
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Just block past guys. Idk why women are so reluctant to block men from their past, especially if you were never married and/or don’t have children with them. I think many women lowkey like the attention from having men from their past do pop-ups, that’s why they don’t block these dudes.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 07:24 PM
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Not as much as ppl on this sub claim 😂 lots of the ppl on here are socially maladjusted with limited social skills. I would take their opinions on real-life dynamics & interpersonal relationships with a huge grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:55 PM
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It is normal. The vast majority of ppl in the real world don’t go around asking what other people’s body counts are. Y’all need to get off the internet, interact with ppl in real-life and understand the rest of the world does not abide by the standards of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:46 PM
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Exactly. I've never been asked this question. Too many ppl think online is representative on real-life dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:31 PM
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You have more bodies than a morgue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:48 AM
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There are literally hundreds, maybe thousands, of videos on YouTube on how to tap into your feminine energy. Jillz Guerin is a good start.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 12:10 AM
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"Study the masters" - said by one of my favorite feminine content creators :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 12:05 AM
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I echo the other comments that say consider a career change. You also bring up a good point. Being able to rest in our femininity is a privilege. Living in a small-town being a sweet, delicate homemaker is not a possibility for all of us. When you're constantly in survival mode, cultivating femininity gets pushed by the wayside. On your days off or downtime, try to write in a journal, read a few chapters, do your nails, soak in a bathtub, take a short walk outside, practice applying makeup, bake…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/22 12:50 AM
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Yes, I agree! I wanted to write a few articles for them too
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/22 08:47 PM
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PPD women will deny that preselection exists until the cows come home but I can't count the number of times strange women have felt comfortable enough to come up, introduce themselves to me and initiate a conversation for no other reason than the fact that they had previously seen me talking and laughing with a platonic female friend. Men deny this too. Men who other women feel comfortable around are automatically seen as more attractive/interesting than some guy who is a weird hermit or only sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:31 PM
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Finally a reasonable post on this sub. I see way too many people of either gender with outlandish demands and expectations when they're not willing to hold themselves to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:13 AM
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You sound dumb. Not every woman responds well to BC and condoms don’t protect against everything. You can still contract STIs via oral or skin-to-skin contact. It’s all the more reason to be sexually selective. Women are selectively horny, men are horny for anyone who’ll let them hit. For a woman who is horny, not every man has earned the privilege to experience her sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:29 AM
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Yep, promiscuous men are more likely to be vectors for STIs or unfaithful. I’ll pass too. Lots of ppl think condoms protect against everything and act like they’re a free-pass to be hoe-status.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:41 PM
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Lots of ppl with high n-counts have self-esteem, substance abuse or mental problems as well. Those types use sex as a means to raise their self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:35 PM
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Phew! At least there's some reasonable people here. Thank you for that. In other circles, you'd hear inane comments. I know a man from Ukraine who said he doesn’t spend too much time entertaining or being too friendly with women who are not his wife. Invites too many complications. He’s polite to other women but still keeps a distance. He also said Americans are too open in their relationships & have poor boundaries. The divorce rate is his native country is much lower than ours! That’s not a co…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 12:03 AM
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Good choice! I have one male friend who is engaged and I prefer to hang out with them together. "Third-wheeling" be damned. It's less complicated that way.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 09:35 PM
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True, not everything is about looks but rather the person’s temperament and personality. An outgoing, personable, highly social 7 is going to get more attention than a reserved, shy, homebody 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:15 AM
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Porn addiction can & does ruin a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:10 AM
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True. OP sounds like his entire life is the gym so he thinks that's an accurate portrayal of male-female dynamics in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:21 AM
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You need to get out more. Not everyone lives at the gym. Do you actually think more nerdy, introverted, homebody types of women are into roided-out dudes? Or alternative, goth-type chicks with multicolored hair and multiple piercings/tattoos? Corporate, boss-babe women? Female college professors? The aforementioned types of women are rarely checking for super muscular dudes whose lives don't go beyond the gym and taking more roids, and vice versa. You don't sound too bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:20 AM
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Everyone settles to some degree, it's just the degree in which that varies. No one is going to have their dream guy/girl who caters to their every whim 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:44 AM
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People who aren’t into rap are rarely gonna go find some rap music they might be into. That can be said for any genre of music.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah but so many women conveniently forget their domestic violence & misogynistic past because they want to twerk to their own degradation. I don’t like Trump and did not vote for him either time. I’m consistent in my disdain for misogyny & misogynists though. They’re all POSs as far as I’m concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:38 PM
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It’s the selective outrage that is laughable. I don’t care for him and did not vote for him either time. I’m consistent in my disdain for misogyny & misogynists though. No self-respecting woman supports music that regularly refers to them as “bitches and hoes”. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:34 PM
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It’s the selective outrage that is laughable. They pick and choose which misogyny & misogynists to get offended by.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:28 PM
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In the four years Trump was president, I never had inflicted on me what Dee Barnes had done to her by Dr. Dre - not anything close.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:01 AM
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A lot these rappers have a history of inflicting physical violence on women so it's not "just a character".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:08 AM
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I've never heard that song in its entirety. Thank God. So many women will condone these types of lyrics because they "like the beat" but God forbid a man IRL actually treat them or speak to them in this context. They twerk to their own degradation. Make that make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:06 AM
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But will swear up and down that Trump is the worst man alive for his misogyny, all the while turning a blind eye to the MANY instances of physical violence male rappers have inflicted on women throughout the years. Dee Barnes is a prime example of this. Because what?? They make good beats they can twerk to? *rolls eyes*
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:54 AM
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was easier to convince to have sex without any form of birth control. And you know this because? Were you in their bedroom (or wherever) pre-conception? It takes two to tango. "Baby-trapping" is a bogus term men use for refusing to take responsibility for creating a baby. Lots of men do not want to wear condoms either, and will try to convince the woman to let him hit it raw. When a baby results, they want to act indignant about it or, worse, pull a vanishing act. He is a grown-ass man in his la…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:49 AM
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A lot of these women twerk to their own degradation. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:45 AM
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You’re not missing much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:35 AM
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No, I hate trashy music, especially rap & hip-hop. I also despise misogynistic stand-up comedy, video games & reality-TV shows. Funny how so many women were up in arms about Trump’s misogyny but they supported misogynistic music, movies, TV shows, etc Selective outrage is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:34 AM
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If just "being yourself" was enough, we'd all be living happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:34 AM
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Some men are naturally more dominant & imposing without doing too much (I.e. your list). I’d rather talk to one of them instead of some bootleg version.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:57 AM
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You forgot the most important tip: Be a masculine and imposing man in demeanor Getting a bunch of tattoos, fake tanner & yoked won't do much if you still act like a footstool with "nice guy" vibes I'm not interested in some fake-ass masculine decoy reciting star signs. Also, I’m not into that Jersey Shore look. Some of the most masculine, dominant men w/ high sex appeal I've known had no tattoos or fake bake. It was all about how they carried themselves. They were assertive, dominant, commanded …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:46 AM
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Good for you. More women should be armed. I find it puzzling how soooo many women (especially liberal, progressive, feminist ones) are so anti-gun but if a man tries to harm her or her children, she just expects the police to show up on time & save her and her children. Depending on who you are, police are not to be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:05 AM
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Most women are not capable of fighting men and winning. A man hits back and she's on the floor, picking up her teeth. Not all women are capable of protecting themselves and their families with their bare hands. At 5'2 and 107 lbs, I'm not. That is why I'm a 2nd amendment supporter. If you think that the average woman is capable of fighting a man and winning, you're sorely deluded. Assume there's an average-sized woman and average-sized man. Do you really think them brawling is a fair fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:48 AM
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“Should” is often wishful thinking with minimal critical thinking skills. A lot of women pipe-dream gender equality or “men and women SHOULD be equal” until it’s time to actually ACT like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:33 PM
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Whatever. Women claim equality until it’s actually time to ACT like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:31 PM
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Because men and women are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:09 AM
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If it was the missing piece then why did it end? If everything was perfect and both parties were happy then there is no reason to end the relationship No relationship or partner is perfect though. Interpersonal relationships are much more nuanced than what your quoted understanding of them is. Fact is, some people thrive better when they are in relationships. Not everyone is meant to be single forever, most of us aren't, and they shouldn't be derided because they crave relationships other than f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:04 AM
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Stuff I've heard (Not always directed towards me): - "I don't like the way he looks!" - "He works....security?" - "I'm looking at 'Beauty and the Beast'." - "Why would she move all the way out here to be with a busboy?" I've learned not to take dating advice from women seriously though, unless the woman herself has proven her ability to foster healthy, functional LTRs herself. And even then, they can say stupid shit. I only listen to my trusted male friend or my FATHER as it pertains to dating m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:58 AM
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The female equivalent to friend zone is fuckbin. Good enough to fuck, not good for much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:52 AM
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True! I’ll be honest and say that I don’t need much external validation because I’m seen as generally attractive & thin by our dominant culture & beauty standards. If I were overweight & not as “pretty”… then external validation would hit much differently! Ppl need to be honest & exercise critical thinking skills more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:45 AM
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We’re not talking about just you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:25 AM
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Or they’ll seek it throughout their adulthood. External validation is more important than ppl realize. To hell with this “I don’t need external validation” fakery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:18 AM
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2 that I know of. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:15 PM
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Agreed. "Stringing people along" does not always have to be done in a malicious or calculated way either. I knew a girl who still lived with her ex but had some male "friend" who she'd talk to everyday knowing full well he was into her. He was aware she was still living with her ex but she still continued to talk to him daily and thus - string him along. I used to be that girl too. But now...it's better for my male acquaintance to be left to find someone who DOES harbor mutual feelings & affecti…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 08:58 PM
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Good for you! I've known a few men who were good LTR catches like that & thus snatched up pretty quick. They were also relationship-oriented guys. A man could make a good catch but if he doesn't want to be in a relationship, he won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:46 PM
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Yep! I knew of a guy like this: conventionally attractive white guy, nice build, made six-figures and was a serial monogamist. He didn't sleep with women he wasn't dating either. He was always in LTRs and has been married for 8 years now. Men like him tend not to stay single for long, unless it's 100% their choice to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:42 PM
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Of course external factors cannot and should not be our ONLY source of validation but we cannot always be our own biggest cheerleader either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:18 PM
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Exactly. We strive off external validation, some more than others. I can sit up here, gain 200 pounds and let myself go and tell myself I'm "beautiful at any size". That doesn't make it true though. For example, we are only as beautiful as we are treated. If I go out into the real world and men habitually ignore or dismiss me in favor of other women despite me putting forth effort into my appearance, then I must not be that beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:12 PM
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When I see redditors say they haven’t received a compliment in years, I’m genuinely baffled. LOL....I'm sure the majority of redditors are not really worthy of physical compliments. I mean...have you SEEN the pictures of the various Reddit meetup groups throughout the years? I'd attended a couple of local Reddit meetup groups and the women were average-to-cute but the guys were pretty busted, not only in looks but their social skills too. If you want compliments, you need to be worth complimenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:46 PM
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Nothing and I mean nothing can substitute validation from the opposite gender. Interesting, and thanks for being honest. There's too much of this fake, disingenuous advice like, "we should only be concerned with our own self-validation" but hearing and/or experiencing it from others is important too. It's not the MOST important thing but we cannot always be our own biggest cheerleader.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:42 PM
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Every human likes validation of some kind from others though. Yes, we should only seek acceptance and validation from within but hearing or experiencing it from others helps too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:41 PM
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Thanks for your perspective. I blocked him last night, right after I created this thread. No need to have a man around if there’s no romantic future there. I know he harbors feelings/affections for me and he should go find someone else who returns those same feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 05:03 PM
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Straight men usually have no intention or incentive for being purely friends with women. If they wanted pure platonic friendship, they have their homeboys for that. I work in a male-dominated environment as well & I’d be careful about being too friendly and open with men you work with, especially since you said you’re not single. Invites too many complications. I would not be OK with my partner being too friendly/open with women he worked with. If you have to reject these male coworkers like you…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 04:50 PM
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I doubt he’s “moved on”. He texted me a few nights ago to tell me about some book and last time we hung out (a month ago), he made some comment like, “Wow….I’m surprised you haven’t been remarried”. You know… that fake disingenuous flattery thing that many men do. I’m pretty sure if I told him today, “let’s date”, he’d drop everything and date me. Anyway, I’ve blocked him as of last night, right after I created this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 04:38 PM
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I blocked him last night, right after creating this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 04:34 PM
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Per your last paragraph, gay men are an entirely different discussion. My friendships with gay men have always lasted longer than acquaintance-ships with straight men. That’s not a coincidence.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 04:33 PM
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Your last sentence speaks volumes. I’ve already blocked him as of last night, right after I made this thread. I know many women keep male orbiters around just to validate their self-worth and to use them as an emotional tampon but that’s indicative of poor character.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 04:30 PM
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The biggest takeaway from "male nature" I've had is men, for the most part, are much more sexually motivated than women, especially in regards to dating. If you sleep with a man and he likes you enough outside of the bedroom, a relationship MIGHT be on the table. If you don't sleep with him, then a relationship is definitely NOT on the table. Re: my previous sentence - I'm not referring to two religious virgins waiting for marriage either. I'm referring to mainstream dating culture.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 06:02 PM
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Depends on how old they are but typically....20+ is hoe-status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:46 AM
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Yes, I'm already aware. Sex for women takes absolutely zero effort. I still look down on promiscuous men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:33 AM
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No. I find men who have high n-counts as not relationship-material. They're either cheaters or very careless/reckless with their sexual standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:14 AM
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There are literally hundreds or maybe thousands of videos on YT addressing this very topic. I recommend Mrs Midwest, Jasmyne Theodora & Cynthia L.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 11:00 PM
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I'm not a proponent for asking men out. Yes, it has and does work in women's favors at times but more often than not, it sets the precedent that he doesn't have to pursue or put forth too much effort because you have already shown that leadership role. YMMV
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 10:53 PM
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Funny you mentioned Jasmyne! I just discovered her channel a few days ago and quickly subscribed :) I find feminine WOC inspiring as well. I also follow The Feminine Fancy & Ebony Nikita Okeke for their femininity content.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 02:50 AM
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You can find her on YouTube
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 02:48 AM
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Get off the internet and go have a real social life. It's common sense.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:36 PM
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000 female sounds like a literal child
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:48 PM
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Looks get your foot in the door, yes, but good social skills will help you seal the deal, get the date, get laid, etc. This should be common knowledge.
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:14 PM
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How do you know? Are you with them on dates and during social situations?
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:59 PM
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How are your social skills though? Too many men are too hung up on height, race, looks, etc when their social skills need fine tuning too.
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:38 AM
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Yeah, for the most part people date with their own groups. Naturally limiting for minorities. Well, here's a thought for "minorities": date other WOC. If all you do is worship White women and they don't give you the time of day....stay in your lane. I've no sympathy for POC who chase White people and then get disappointed when they're unsuccessful. Dating is about finding your audience. Go where you are appreciated.
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:37 AM
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If he were to online date, I don’t think he’d have the same success Yeah, dating apps don't really work that well for Black men from what I've heard. If you are charming, charismatic and confident IRL, why waste time on apps anyway?
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:33 AM
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I’m incredibly charismatic/charming. Something more men on this sub need to be if they wish to be more successful with game. Looks, height, income, etc will only get you so far if your social skills are off.
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:27 AM
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I come from an Asian background where shaming and brutal honesty are commonplace. Asians are big on shaming and there needs to be a bit more of that imo. I've never bought into those inane beleifs that we are all "perfect and beautiful at any size". Instead, my mother and grandmother would greet me with, "Have you gained weight?!?", "Why do you look like that?", "You have crows feet", "Don't eat that....you're going to blow up!" etc My self-esteem is healthy enough that it rolls off my shoulders…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/22 08:17 PM
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LOL!!!
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:54 PM
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Not everyone deserves our vulnerability - and vice versa
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 06:58 AM
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You sound painfully insecure and quite immature as well. Why be so obsessed with how some men view a random hot actress? There will ALWAYS be someone hotter than us. The vast majority of us do not and will not ever look like Sydney Sweeney but we don't have to be to find a boyfriend or husband. Guard your mind by not engaging with forms of media that will erode at your self-esteem. If looking at Sydney, Emily Ratajkowski, etc makes you feel crappy, stop doing it and spend your time more wisely. …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 06:29 PM
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They aren't though. Have you seen & interacted with masculine-acting women before? There is life outside the echo-chamber that is Reddit. It's only online where I've read men claim they like vulgar, crass, aggressive women. IRL...that is not usually the case.
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:08 PM
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There's a fine line between women exhibiting some positive masculine traits and being "one of the dudes," which I find unattractive. Yup. This is something I've heard many men say over the years. The vast majority of men are interested in dating feminine women, not only in looks but behavior too. Like my best male friend told me, "If I wanted to date a dude, then I would".
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:14 PM
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Thank you. Masculine-acting women are unattractive, just like I as a straight woman would not even consider a feminine-acting man as a dating/romantic/physical prospect.
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:12 PM
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She sounds kinna masculine. I find that a lot of men may claim they want "aggressive women" but the ones who are pursued and sought out by many men tend to be on the feminine, sweet and demure side. Aggressive, masculine-acting women may get dick or be seen as one of the homies but very rarely are men actually serious about committing to them. Only low-value men like aggressive, brash women. If you view high-value men in certain social situations, the women they have on their arm are not aggress…
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:11 PM
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Good tips. Too many men don't do anything to escalate physical attraction on dates. They stand/sit there with their hands in their pockets and wonder why they get friend-zoned.
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:42 PM
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College. You're at the prime age to meet men but many around your age are not relationship-minded. I'm not saying it's impossible but it is a tall order. Other options are like-minded hobby groups, co-ed sports, volunteering or work. The last one can be a slippery slope. That adage "don't shit where you eat" exists for a reason but many married couples originally met at work.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 07:11 AM
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They want you as an option, even if you're not their second or third choice. You're the standby guy in case the guy(s) they DO want don't work out.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:47 PM
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True! Dating is about finding your audience. Location matters a lot more than people realize too,
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:44 PM
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LOL as politically incorrect as your post is, there is some truth to it. BM have the lowest standards out of any race of men.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:44 PM
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OP...I'd seeking out specific advice from people in your similar community and culture. I'm not an expert on Islam faith or your specific community and I doubt anyone else here is either. I know many Muslim people get married young so talk to one of those young married women for their perspective. Not only that, but they can see you IRL and can more properly access your build, energy, demeanor, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:39 PM
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I've cut down my screen time tremendously. Instead of staring at screens during most of my free time, I've begun to cultivate daily hobbies and habits such as home work outs, journaling, reading, stretching & working on my YouTube channel. I still look at screens but I've incorporated the aforementioned hobbies and habits into my daily routine. Bad: Still being standoffish and cold to others, especially when there is no good reason. There are very few who DO deserve the silent treatment but not …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 08:40 AM
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I said nothing about “friends”. My last two hookups were with guys I already knew but they weren’t friends. One was an old coworker of mine and the other was an old lab partner I met in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:36 PM
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Yeah…. If a woman is in her prime (young, fit & hot), why would she need to pursue?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:02 PM
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Only feminized men want & expect to be pursued by women. Truly masculine men pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:01 PM
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Yeah, most women aren’t gonna want to fuck a stranger. If you’re a guy she already knows and there’s some mutual attraction, even if you’re not dating, the likelihood of sex is greater.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:58 PM
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Approaching random strangers is low-value & last resort behavior. Ppl would have much better luck approaching people who were already in their existing circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:56 PM
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One person's "great in bed" is another person's "terrible in bed". There is no ONE way to be good in bed but a few tips are go slower - take your time with foreplay: women require more time to get turned-on & "buttered up" than men. Too many men think that her giving him head and him rubbing her clit for 2 seconds is enough for her to be warmed up. Also, if she feels comfortable and safe with you, she'll probably perform better compared to with a guy who's only out to pump & dump. Women can usua…
/r/seduction15/01/22 11:38 PM
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I've had men cry in front of me and it wasn't a turnoff but these were men I was already invested in be it romantically or platonically. It'd only be a turnoff if it was a man I barely knew who was dumping all of his trauma onto me. Then again, I don't like when ANYONE dumps their trauma onto me and we are not even friends. I've had waaaayyyy more female acquaintances do that than male ones....trying to use me (and probably others too) as a free therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:18 PM
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I love her! Her content has had a profound impact on my life. I began following her in 2019 but was already a thrifty, tidy, self-disciplined minimalist way before that. A lot of her cleaning, cooking & financial tips were old-hat but she helped me with character growth, guarding my mind & how to be more feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/22 07:50 PM
2

Too many smart ppl think that all they need to be in a successful relationship is their smarts. People like others who have good social skills & who make them feel good…reciting a bunch of historical facts is irrelevant in the context of cultivating interpersonal relationships. OP sounds like one of those ppl who lacks social & emotional intelligence- which are forms of intelligence that are more important in the context of relationships. “She needs to be interested in what I’m interested in”… e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:53 PM
3

There was a woman on YT who claimed Onlyfans was a practical option for women who had children & still wanted to or needed to work. Sounds facetious at face value but from a time standpoint, it sounds OK. I’d be concerned about the potential fallout it could cause for her marriage or children.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 09:25 AM
1

Wonderful, insightful response!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 04:16 PM
1

Most people’s lists are bullshit. We are more than boxes to check off on lists and women make A LOT of concessions for men if he makes her feel good enough. On the flip side, how many slender, child free, gainfully employed pretty women have men dismissed for whatever reason(s)? Most ppl will eschew their lists if they liked the person enough, and that’s not always a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:57 AM
25

All the more reason why fucking randoms is not a good idea, no matter how horny you are. Fucking complete strangers who you don't even find attractive just to end a dry spell is not high value behavior.
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:00 AM
1

You must have no other options.
/r/seduction28/11/21 09:19 PM
1

LOL!!!
/r/seduction28/11/21 09:19 PM
1

Why exchange social media instead of phone numbers? Now you're in her endless orbit of male "fans". She was probably just collecting followers & male attention. Next time, phone number or nothing.
/r/seduction28/11/21 09:18 PM
0

Do you believe everything you read online?
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:59 PM
1

There is a difference between “showing interest” & “throwing yourself at”. The former is fine, the latter is desperate & thirsty…. & no one likes that regardless of gender. I’m pretty sure the guys mean they don’t mind if a woman shows interest, which a few already mentioned, but no one, even men, likes it when someone is “throwing herself at him”. Sure, he may fuck her because she’s easy but he won’t respect or take her seriously otherwise.
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:50 PM
8

The clowns in the comments who claim they "love it when women throw themselves at them" have obviously never had a woman throw herself at him. I knew a woman at my old warehouse job who was pretty with a great body and was doing just that, throwing herself at men....showing her lower back tattoo and asking "do these pants make my ass look big?" Some of the men there told me that was a huge TURN OFF. No one likes that shit. Sure, one guy at that job was fucking her but he would also be talking sh…
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:31 AM
3

Yep. I've had men tell me that if a woman is too easy/available, that can be a turn-off. He may smash because it's being offered but he won't take her seriously otherwise. The clowns in the comments who claim they "love it when women throw themselves at them" have obviously never had a woman throw herself at him.
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:13 AM
3

"prison" lol
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:10 AM
25

One big example is phone behavior. Too many guys think that texting a girl all day and night when you barely know her is an attractive quality. If anything, only use the phone to set up dates, especially in the beginning stages of dating. Do not use the phone (calling or texting) for idle chit-chat. That gives the impression you have nothing else going on but to talk to her from sunrise until sunset. It can come across as too available and/or needy. Check in every few days if possible. You don't…
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:08 AM
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For the most part, I agree. I like how you highlighted not being completely invisible to women either. Too many guys think that being a completely silent hermit will get women fawning over them. Show her some attention, but not being too eager or available. Of course, there are some women who are privy to this game and will completely ignore your ass if you think she's gonna pursue you. Many women like feeling desired by a man she likes. If you're too cold or distant, she'll move on.
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:41 PM
4

Approaching strangers is low-value and last-resort behavior. Women like familiarity and are more receptive to men we already know, not random strangers. Men w/ decent social skills who have a fair amount of female friends or acquaintances tend to do better as well. Even if you're not interested in any of them, you never know who they can introduce to you. It signals to other women that he is safe, not a creep & that other women feel comfortable around him. Hanging around attractive women will gi…
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:29 AM
1

A lot of men want to cum in women but don’t want to be a parent. This is nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:16 AM
1

Clubs & nightlife are not the only ways to meet people. You need to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 07:12 AM
2

Yep, social status/skills are HUGE and should be developed. That's why it pays to be a regular at a particular establishment. The guy who walks in and has other people greet him makes a much better impression than the guy who comes in, sits in the corner and stares at his phone all night. Women like familiarity. It conveys to us that he isn't a creep & that he is social, likable & people like being around him. Become that guy.
/r/seduction19/11/21 12:54 AM
4

Women don't approach random, everyday, average guys. If you want to be pursued by women, you need to stand out, have a certain presence about you and/or an elevated social status. Guys who believe women should just approach them just because are sorely deluded.
/r/seduction19/11/21 12:52 AM
-1

I don't use dating apps. When I choose to sleep with or date a guy, it's someone I already know - not random strangers. Dating apps are low-value & last resort.
/r/seduction19/11/21 12:44 AM
-4

You know nothing about women. We don’t choose to sleep with ppl based on pictures 🙄 that’s more in line with how men operate… not women
/r/seduction18/11/21 10:58 PM
1

Pay
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:06 PM
7

Are you serious? There are literally thousands of news sources. You're on the internet. Go look them up.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:26 PM
4

Agreed. You're not a performing circus monkey. I find a lot of daters these days just want to be entertained. If you're not their definition of "entertaining", you might be labeled as boring or having "no personality". If you just want to be entertained, go to a comedy show, movie, concert, etc of some kind.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:25 PM
0

Everyone has a personality. Theirs just might not gel with yours. If that's the case, it's an issue of incompatibility - not them being "devoid" of a personality. Get off your high horse.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:19 PM
3

Go talk to someone else. Do you have no other options?
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:42 PM
2

You ARE giving off "boyfriend vibes" by being emotionally unavailable. Amateur.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:20 AM
124

Volunteer at a retirement home
/r/seduction24/10/21 05:08 PM
5

Also not cool the way you said the other girl was “less than ideal”. OP sounds "less than ideal" tbh.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:09 AM
1

Social intelligence is very attractive to women and it doesn't get talked about enough in my opinion. Also clubs are not a good place to meet women in my opinion. You are right. Social skills & emotional/social intelligence are much more important and not addressed enough here. Clubs are places for women to get free drinks & free attention, not to meet/date/fuck men.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:08 AM
0

You're a weird creep. Next time, try asking a girl to dance instead of pressing your sweaty disgusting body on hers. Amateur.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:04 AM
4

Match her energy. You've reached out enough times it sounds like. Stop being so needy (neediness is a HUGE turnoff btw) and go live your life. Talk to other women and don't be so hung up on one person who's blowing you off.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:00 AM
5

You can still contract STIs with condoms, including HPV.
/r/seduction16/10/21 06:12 PM
3

Cultivate a social circle if you haven’t already. Women like familiarity and are more receptive to dating/fucking men we already know. Casting a huge net and hitting up randoms is low-value & last-resort behavior.
/r/seduction30/09/21 09:33 PM
8

Great point on the social proof. Having more female friends & acquaintances introduces a man to other women & experiences he might not have otherwise. It’s absurd when guys on here want to meet more women but only hang out with other men or completely alone. How’re you gonna meet any girls like that? If anything, that’s a repellent to most women.
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:45 PM
6

Great points! OP is reasonable but many women think just having a pretty face and nice body should entitle them to a high-quality man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/21 08:13 PM
1

Then why be on tinder anyway? Do what works for you. Online dating is garbage.
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:12 AM
1

How does he talk to and treat other women at your job?
/r/seduction15/09/21 02:37 AM
7

Were all of your cousin's friends male or wtf? If not, why not try to get to know one of them instead of strangers? Most women are more receptive to men they already know or men who know people they know. It shows he's been vetted somewhat.
/r/seduction12/09/21 01:38 AM
3

Yep, and considering most people meet their SOs via work or mutual friends, fishing in one's social or professional circle usually has a higher success rate. Being solely dependent on dating/fucking strangers is low-value and last-resort. Women are often more receptive to men we already know, not random strangers.
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:45 AM
0

Yeah, you may have a harder time dating if you don't want to be around people. Kinda sounds you might be shooting yourself in the foot. If you're a loner with hardly any social life, fine, but don't expect to have lots of dating options that way.
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:42 AM
1

Yeah, social status is huge and should be developed. People who are sociable, personable and engaging are more attractive. By "attractive", I mean people want to be around them....not strictly their looks. It pays to be a regular at a particular place. The guy who comes into an establishment & has people greet him makes a much better impression than the guy who comes into a place & sits in the corner all night staring at his phone. Women like familiarity and most importantly - a guy who makes he…
/r/seduction09/09/21 05:37 AM
1

Is having a car absolutely necessary where you live? Where I live, having a car is paramount. It would be a turn-off because there are TONS of men with cars so why would I settle for someone who doesn’t have one? We’re all in competition in the dating & sexual marketplace whether we want to admit it or not.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:18 PM
8

THIS! It pays to be a regular and women especially like familiarity. It shows women that this guy has been vetted and is not a creep. A guy who enters an establishment and has everyone greet him makes a much better impression than someone who enters a place and sits in the corner all night alone staring at his phone.
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:53 AM
7

Developing good social skills is vastly underrated. Good looks, a nice body and/or high income will only get your foot in the door. If your social skills are trash, you won't be attractive. By attractive, I mean someone that people want to be around - not strictly looks.
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:50 AM
2

Yeesh. I was going to suggest bringing another girl too but bringing another girl to the home of the girl you had some physical contact with is a dick move.
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:14 PM
1

Act normal. If you see her, be polite and keep it pushing. Keep your attention on socializing with others.
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:10 PM
-9

Spoken like a 17 yo. At least you have the excuse of youthful ignorance on your side. Anyone over 25 should already know this tho 😒🙄
/r/seduction27/08/21 05:03 AM
2

Social skills and status are HUGE and should be developed. That can make someone infinitely more attractive. And by "attractive", I mean a person that people WANT to be around - not strictly their looks. An easy first step would be to become a regular at a place. The guy who walks into an establishment and has everyone greet him makes a much better impression than the guy who walks into a place and immediately sits in the corner staring at his phone all night. Women like familiarity and men who …
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:08 AM
1

I married someone I met through work. There are ways to navigate a workplace romance the right way. It sure beats being solely dependent on rancid dating apps or random cold approaches. Most ppl meet their SOs through work or mutual friends anyway, regardless of what ppl on Reddit say. Only dating strangers is low-value, low-rent and last-resort behavior. This guy gives some decent advice about dating a co-worker: https://youtu.be/yvq9FMN_sG0
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:57 AM
3

That's why I said "a bit". It's in the text you quoted as well. It's also another reason why I prefer to date men I know such as a co-worker, classmate or mutual friend. You already know some of their backstory and relationship history before setting foot on your first date. Dating strangers is too big of a question mark.
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:33 AM
31

I personally don’t mind hearing a bit about past relationships. How they regard their ex(es) speaks volumes. I’ve dodged plenty of bullets that way. One man and I matched on Tinder, had a single phone conversation & I promptly unmatched & blocked his number afterwards. I could tell he still had major trust issues and was clearly not over his ex-wife. I could also tell that if we were to date, he’d probably take that resentment out on me. He was inquiring whether or not I liked to go out at night…
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:25 AM
-2

Yeah, lol. I don’t have patience for socially maladjusted or awkward men who can’t tell if I like them or not. I’ll go play with someone else who’s more socially in-tuned and able to escalate physical attraction.
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:18 AM
2

Cultural competence is sorely lacking.
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:16 AM
2

If you only date or approach strangers, you’ll run into this uncertainty a lot more. Whenever I dated men I already knew through work, school or an existing social circle, the attraction & crushes were often greater compared to strangers. It’s hard to get excited about a stranger.
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:15 AM
2

Exactly! I didn’t start learning how to cook until I was 29…all thanks to this little thing called the internet. OP obviously has internet access so she could easily learn how to cook, among other basic life skills.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 02:23 PM
10

You can learn to do pretty much anything online, including cooking.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 05:08 AM
-1

How are you gonna move if you don't even have a job? Moving costs $. Your priorities are all messed up. From what you've said here, no woman in her right mind would want to date you. Even if you just want sex, there's plenty of dick out there that has a job and doesn't live with mommy.
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:51 AM
2

Go away
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:36 AM
9

Forget men. You're awesome. Huh? More cliche garbage that is fed to women by the dominant woke feminist culture, telling women they're awesome no matter what and that women don't need men. That doesn't help, especially if OP seeks to get married and have a family someday.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 04:51 PM
6

You sound like you're gonna have to pay for it.
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:39 AM
8

Yeah, I question her husband more than anything else. Surely he should know his wife well enough that she wouldn’t “gel” with his friends’ crude & immature humor. If my husband’s friend loudly asked me if I just took a shit right after emerging from the bathroom in front of everybody, I wouldn’t be the most friendly either.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 11:37 PM
4

If all they talk about are crude and raunchy things, then their social intelligence is off too. The masculine female friend who asked OP if she just took a shit. Really? There is a time & place for everything. I don’t blame OP for being standoffish or distant in that sort of company. There are plenty of other topics that can be discussed where everyone can be included and/or feel comfortable contributing to the conversation. A huge part of social/emotional intelligence is knowing your audience.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 10:17 PM
11

Hmmm who cares what they think? I relate. I work in a warehouse full of men and the other few women who work there are pretty brash, crude & masculine. I don’t relate to their profane, vulgar humor and don’t want to. many of them probably think I’m stuck-up and standoffish too. I wouldn’t put too much thought into it. This sounds like women trying to fit the mold of the “cool girl” to be accepted by men.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 09:11 PM
3

Good point. OP probably comes off rapey and weird and women don't like that. Reminds me of a guy at my job who works in facilities (maintenance) & stares at me a lot. He has barely spoken to me but I've never spoken to him. Even another co-worker noticed and asked me, "why is that man staring at you Lana?" I give him dirty looks and he still stares. I bet he's not gotten laid in a long time.
/r/seduction18/06/21 04:20 AM
2

I don't date strangers. I've held eye-contact with men I was attracted to and 9x/10, it does garner a positive response such as him asking me out. Thing is, these were men I saw on a regular basis such as co-workers. Dating strangers is not the only way to date.
/r/seduction18/06/21 04:16 AM
3

Yep. it's better to fish in one's existing circles rather than approach strangers anyway.
/r/seduction18/06/21 04:10 AM
1

Girls probably do look at you more than you realize, you just don't like them. We always discount those who we're not interested in.
/r/seduction18/06/21 04:09 AM
6

Yeah, too many ppl take what they see/read online as gospel. What you see online does not always reflect real world dynamics. OP, get out more & live in the real world.
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:14 PM
2

I never meet a guy and think right away, “I want to sleep with him”. Most women don’t operate that way. I’d have to spend more time with him to determine if I want to sleep with him or not. I prefer to host, it’s safer that way. I live with 2 roommates, one of whom is in the military. I wouldn’t mind if he lived at home because I can host. If neither of us could host, I wouldn’t be interested. Find someone who is able to host.
/r/seduction31/05/21 04:26 PM
2

Gotta pay to play. Even it's not actual money, you'll have to invest time and/or effort if you want to get laid.
/r/seduction31/05/21 02:49 AM
3

Maybe it doesn't work for you. This'll work better if you've already built a rapport or connection beforehand. That's why "social circle game" is important and should be utilized. I know I'm a hell of a lot more receptive to men in a romantic or sexual way if he's someone from my existing social or professional circle.
/r/seduction30/05/21 10:11 PM
6

Move on. Talk to someone else. Don't be stuck on one person who left you on read for week or more.
/r/seduction30/05/21 09:45 PM
56

Yeah, my male friend already has an interest in cooking, vinyl, wine & is well-read. He wasn't cooking and collecting records & books just to get laid. It makes him more interesting that the guy who just has a Netflix account, a game console & Hot Pockets with freezer burn. Reminds me of a quote by John Waters, "If you go to someone's house and they have no books, don't fuck them"
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:27 PM
3

That's such high-value behavior. It's akin to throwing shit at the wall and seeing if it'll stick.
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:11 PM
5

This thread is referring to before the sex. That should be obvious by the thread content. You don't know if a person is good or not in bed if you've never slept with them.
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:02 PM
2

cooking dinner in your own home is a big investment & a "ton of effort"? But going on dates is not? Any functional adult should be cooking dinner regardless, even if it's just a meal for themselves.
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:00 PM
-4

I literally just made a thread about that, that you commented in nonetheless.
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:39 PM
12

Most women are not comfortable having sex on the first date though. Just because it happens sometimes does not mean the majority of first dates end with sex. If he wants to get laid, inviting women to his home when they just met him is not the best way to do that.
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:25 PM
18

Nothing low value at all about this. If she's into you, she'll come over. If not, you saved yourself a night and some money. Her loss. And no, I'm not changing my day or night. I'm going to cook and watch whatever anyways, with or without her. Yeah...wtf was that comment about low-value men doing this? Low-value is texting women at 2am and hoping one of them will come over. Only a low-budget desperate woman would respond positively to that as well. Like attracts like. Water seeks its own level. …
/r/seduction30/05/21 07:07 PM
8

I think this is arbitrary and more to do with social circle than actual game. True, people would have more luck fishing in their existing circles than random people on the street or online. If a stranger from online or the street said "I'd like to make dinner for you" I'd never speak to him again. If it was a guy I already knew & was comfortable with, I'm a hell of a lot more likely to accept his offer.
/r/seduction30/05/21 06:22 PM
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I nearly brought 2 girls back to my apartment, but they changed their mind right in front of the building and didn't want to come in. Had you ever been out with these women before? Or was this on your first meet/date? I wouldn't go into any man's house or have him in my place unless we're already familiar with each-other.
/r/seduction30/05/21 04:29 PM
1

Good for you. I pay attention to skincare in general and it's a rarity when a guy has nice skin.
/r/seduction29/05/21 10:55 PM
2

Youtube. You can learn and look up anything online.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 10:51 PM
2

You sound off.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 11:22 PM
3

But most girls I know will only go out with people who have some kind of connection to their social circle. That's a better bet, fishing in existing circles rather than trying to date online strangers. I'm not alone when I say my longest-lasting relationships, including my marriage, were with men I already knew from work, school or mutual friends.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 09:44 PM
1

online dating is trash.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 08:10 PM
1

With the eye contact, just enough to keep him intrigued without looking creepy or weird.
/r/seduction15/05/21 05:35 PM
1

Eye contact, smiles & lose the RBF That might help
/r/seduction15/05/21 03:50 PM
1

No. I prefer to date people who don’t use social media actually because I don’t.
/r/seduction08/05/21 07:37 PM
1

Not sure where you are but here, places are starting to open up and go back to somewhat "normal". People are gonna be more open and receptive to being approached in public because they've been cooped up in the house for so long & starved for human interaction. There have been posts in here of men doing their "field reports" where they've met women IRL during covid. This sub seems to be full of every excuse in the book. Apps are trash. YMMV
/r/seduction07/05/21 04:10 PM
1

I like this story! Congrats on the upcoming date, keep us updated if possible 👍🏽
/r/seduction07/05/21 02:56 PM
2

Online conversations are often tedious and boring. I know I come across a lot more disinterested online than in person. Get off the app as efficiently as possible or stick to daygame, where you can gauge the person’s body language, vocal inflections, facial expressions & interest a lot better than reading font on a screen.
/r/seduction07/05/21 02:50 PM
3

It’s been 3 hours lol, not 3 days 🙄 As far as being “needy” there is a fine line between being too available/needy and being uncommunicative. If a man leaves me on read or doesn’t reach out after 3 days (72 hours), I delete & block their number. Women respond well to men pursuing her if she likes him. More men should take note instead of this whole “let her chase me” bs. Give it a few more days OP. 3 hours is not even worth making a thread over.
/r/seduction06/05/21 09:11 PM
5

Timing is everything. Especially in light of covid and everyone being cooped up in the house, people might be a lot more receptive to being approached in public. That will wear off the longer things go back to “normal” though, so strike while the iron is hot.
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:10 PM
5

Social status is more important than people realize & should be developed. Men who have a lot of social connections are often more attractive than those who don’t.
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:48 PM
10

Hmmm...maybe you can pose as the janitor or groundskeeper instead but that prolly won't get the girls interested LOL
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:08 AM
8

No idea. It sounded like he was just trying to get laid so less likelihood that he'd ever have to come clean about that. My university is known for having some gorgeous girls and when I was there 8-10 years ago, there was a guy who lived nearby who'd go jogging. I know this because he approached me & we spoke a couple of times. In that case, he wasn't posing as a student.
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:57 AM
47

I knew of a guy in his mid-30s who did daygame at his local university. He'd pose as a grad student and looked young enough to pull it off. He said too many guys are too focused on apps or nightlife but that college campuses are untapped resources.
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:14 AM
16

When it comes to having children though, there is such a thing "too late". OP seems like a sweetheart but let's not insult her intelligence or pretend that certain realities are not true.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 10:24 PM
9

The comments & advice in here are already good but I just wanted to add that your post is so wholesome and made me smile.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 10:22 PM
1

Frequent the same establishments as people will get to know you over time. The power of being social matters a lot. Social status is huge and should be developed. The guy walking into a club and everyone coming up to him to say hello makes a much better impression than the guy who immediately heads to a dark corner with no interaction with anyone because he doesn't know a single soul in the building. Social, personable, outgoing people are often more attractive - regardless of how they actually …
/r/seduction27/04/21 02:49 AM
1

Getting to know someone in person is the only “proper way to get to know someone”, not following them on social media & sliding into their DMs like every other guy. But keep doing what you’re doing, since that seems to be working so well 👍🏽
/r/seduction17/04/21 03:48 PM
0

I don't entertain conversations with people who are not available. Not sure where you live but I'm in a big city w/ millions of people so why be stuck wasting time on people who have incompatible schedules, physical ailments that prevent them from meeting, "people who fly in for a few weeks at the time" (wtf?), etc Why waste time trying to keep contact with people who move away? Do you live in a very rural, sparsely-populated area? Location plays a huge part in the amount of luck you'll have. Gi…
/r/seduction17/04/21 03:14 AM
1

Set up a date & meet them in person instead of becoming just another orbiter in her social media. Use the phone for setting & confirming in-person dates. If you’re not able to do that, stop wasting their time & yours. If I’m “vibing” well with a guy on a dating app & all he wants to do is exchange messages for days on end, I’ll just unmatch/ignore him too.
/r/seduction17/04/21 01:29 AM
0

There are many, just search for “femininity” on YouTube.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 04:35 PM
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This is the 3rd post you’ve made about giving him sloppy toppy that’s shown up on my feed. Next time, maybe wait until you’re exclusive before sexual activity because once you’ve played his skin flute, he’s gonna want more!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/21 07:04 PM
8

Super long hair has a tendency to look dull & brittle, especially the ends because they are so old. Just because it’s very long does not mean it’s healthy or styled in a flattering manner. A decent trim may revitalize your hair. If it’s down to your butt, you have many inches to spare and it’ll still be long. Many men do like long, natural-colored hair, yes but there is such a thing as too long. I’ve never heard a man say he liked butt-length hair. A good “sweet spot” is between the cleavage and…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/21 03:17 AM
37

Yeah, this is what I was thinking too. People often accuse others of doing the same stuff they do. And if this guy is actually a good-looking doctor, he has plenty of options.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 07:02 PM
3

It’s human nature to gossip, especially when you’re with the same group of people 8+ hours a day, 5 days a week. It’d be naive to think otherwise. I’ve worked in all-female environments and all-male ones and the gossip train still rolls all the same. And gossip doesn’t always equal “talking shit”
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 03:22 PM
2

a lot of RP men are misogynists who are just interested in pump & dump. I can already hear them targeting OP's insecurity surrounding her weight & hopelessness in finding someone. They feed off women with low self-esteem & self-worth. It's like a game of cat & mouse.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/20 05:21 PM
54

What is the race & ethnicity of said guys you’re referring to? Where are the locations of these interactions? Your results may vary based on who you’re around and where you are in the world. In certain parts of the world, thin is not in.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 05:30 PM
10

Which men are you referring to? Depending on locale, culture and ethnicity, thin is not the beauty standard.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 05:28 PM
3

You can research which ones are more ethical & still have cute clothes though.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 07:17 PM
5

Fashion nova has very unethical business practices. Some of their pieces are cute but I don’t support them for other reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 07:14 PM
15

For me it shows a couple red flags. They’re probably unfaithful, especially if they racked up a high body count while they were also in relationships. It would also indicate they may see me as just another notch.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 07:09 PM
1

Roosh V’s forum
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 04:10 AM
1

I focus more on the type and quality of man who has these stipulations, not just any man, especially one who ascribes by RP philosophy 🙄 Many people have high demands of others when they are no prize themselves. I take that into consideration as well.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 04:23 PM
4

Interesting take. I take it with a grain of salt because men who follow RP usually have very narrow, Eurocentric standards when it comes to female beauty. I'm pretty sure a man or group of men created that checklist too.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 06:26 PM
2

That scorecard makes me feel better LOL
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/20 05:55 PM
4

We don’t give advice on how to get ran through by random men (I.e... being a “plate”) This sounds like a sugar baby/daddy situation too. We don’t give advice in that arena either.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 07:55 PM
1

The only male friends I’ve made and kept have been with gay men. There are only 2 straight men I’ve remained friends with but we dated many years ago. Most straight men have no interest in engaging with a woman they can’t see themselves sleeping with. I’ve had straight male friends but eventually they wanted sex or to date and the feeling wasn’t mutual so I had to cut them off.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 04:25 PM
1

Another thing, for all you know, you may not be his only side chick. In fact, with these types of "situationships", you're not his first mistress and you won't be his last.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 04:07 PM
1

Yep, they all read from the same handbook. It's Married Man 101: "My wife and I don't have sex anymore", "We're only staying together for the kids", "Divorce will be too expensive/messy".
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/20 04:01 PM
2

Lol, it’s especially triggering for me because I have this tomboyish coworker who was super loud the other day. She was talking about her baby daddy drama & how she gives him $ and he’s spending it on some “scrubby bitch”. The entire warehouse could hear her. It was very irritating 😵🙄
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 02:54 AM
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Flowers for a first date may come across as if you're trying too hard. Hold off gift giving until you've gotten to know her more & you're more sure whether or not you like each-other. Some of the best flowers I've received were from a guy who I had been dating for a week or two. We had talked about our favorite plants/flowers and I mentioned I loved purple plants & flowers. On one of our next dates, he presented me with a bouquet of purple roses! It was the fact that he remembered which color I …
/r/askFDS12/09/20 05:50 PM
9

Yes! Including being too loud, especially on unpleasant, dumb or overtly sexual topics.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 04:30 PM
2

Don’t be in that situation to begin with. I’m sorry OP but this sounds like settling.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 02:33 AM
12

Wow, I’m sorry to hear that 💔
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 09:08 PM
23

If he’s gay it’s much easier.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 04:50 PM
2

Curly hair is unfeminine? News to me. I have long naturally curly hair and it is a conversation starter, show-stopper and men respond favorably to it. There are millions of resources online to help you enhance your hair's beauty. If it's been damaged by years of heat and/or chemicals, you'll have to be patient.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 04:07 PM
1

Interesting username. Do you have an SO that you spend time with?
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 04:03 PM
2

YES!! This can also apply to dating too, as well as platonic relationships. People are not looking for genuine connections. They're looking for help - or to be entertained.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 04:02 PM
3

SAHMs have some of the most noble jobs around. It's a very quiet life that doesn't have some huge spotlight shown on it thus it doesn't get the recognition it deserves. It's not a life for me. I prefer to work outside the home and don't want children but SAHMs get nothing but respect, especially if they are home-schooling their children.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 04:00 PM
7

Small talk serves a purpose. Not every verbal discourse has to be thought-provoking, deep and introspective, especially when it comes to new people. Virtually all meaningful relationships started off with some level of small talk.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 03:41 PM
5

I follow many conservative female youtubers but her videos are disproportionately bashed and hated on compared to other similar content creators.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 06:30 PM
2

Yes I do follow the Feminine Fancy. I relate more to her content as a WoC.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 08:19 PM
5

if her hubby did say that, that's a very tone-deaf thing to say in this political climate. You can choose to be a cop, you don't choose to be black in a society where your life and existence are continually invalidated. Not the same thing at all. I can take a lot of conservative women's advice on beauty, character-building & femininity. However, at the end of the day, I know they are not my allies. Mrs. Midwest, Brittany Sellner, Lauren Chen, Robyn Riley, NollaGirl504 & Blaire White have been so…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 05:51 PM
8

As long as his actions and patterns match his words, you may have yourself a keeper!
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 03:28 AM
9

How is any of that possibly a red flag?
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 02:23 AM
6

I’d ask him to elaborate. We’re not going to know what’s going on in his mind.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 02:21 AM
1

No because I look young for my age, not in a pedophile way either. I’m 34 but could pass for 23-27. If I were older I might mind more.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/20 12:11 AM
2

That is idealistic at best. It may sound great in theory but how many of them actually practice what they preach? RP men don't respect women and have no regard for women's feelings. It's best to stay tf away from the vast majority of them, especially in OP's case, she said her bf was semi-Black pilled? RUN. In fact, she should have ran a long time ago.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 10:26 PM
2

I am not (left-leaning libertarian) but I am familiar with the Black Conservative Movement. I don't know if you have seen this but this is one of my absolute favorite features by Vice. The conservative commentators on the panel were very articulate and refused to fall into the victimhood mentality, although I may not agree with everything they said. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVIoC5ROaHk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VspjfNMPHyc
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 08:09 PM
1

Look at the top post of their group. you don’t even have to search for their stance on transwomen.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 03:49 PM
9

Why is this even a thread here? Why not? This sub would have the most realistic & level-headed approach to this topic, not just what is "PC" to say. I'm a member of 2 other women-centered subs r/TwoXChromosomes & r/AskWomen. They'd lose their shit & I'd probably get banned if I posed this topic there.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 04:46 AM
1

LOL!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 08:58 PM
15

Thanks for the heads up. I had some self-proclaimed “former incel” send me a DM this morning after reading one of my posts in this sub. Delete and ignore. Works like a charm 😊😇
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 03:54 PM
6

Give yourself an honest chance to get to know him. Attraction can grow overtime, especially if you don’t find him to be hideous. Lust and sexual attraction have very short expiration dates anyway. It’s best to know if you can enjoy each other’s company outside of the bedroom.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/20 01:47 AM
3

At first read, I thought it was somewhat silly to think so deeply about a fictional persona, but she (Barbie) has been a fundamental part of my development and childhood. Mrs. Midwest reminds me of Barbie. I don't mean that in a superficial, image-conscious way either. I think Mrs. Midwest would be flattered by the comparison too.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 08:56 PM
7

I’m “post-wall” (34) but I don’t want kids, never have wanted them. I’m short, thin and also look very young for my age (Black & Asian genes). I don’t place all my self-worth in male attention but I still have no issue getting it. Despite looking 22-27, I have the life experience and maturity of someone my actual age. That that puts me at an advantage compared to a younger girl who may look hot but she’s dumb and immature as hell.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 08:24 PM
6

Interesting and insightful! I’m working on my femininity but it’s always a thought in the back of my mind if I’m not “feminine enough” despite looking the part. Behaving feminine and exuding that grace, softness and elegance is what I struggle with 🤫😖 This may sound shallow but how do men respond to you?? That may be an indicator of how feminine you come across. Most people are not going to say “You’re so feminine!” although I wish they would 😂 That seems to be another F-word in our increasingly…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 07:36 AM
49

Agreed. When dating a guy, especially in the beginning stages, I step back & observe how much effort he is putting forth and then respond accordingly. Even if I like a guy, I won’t be blowing up his phone if he’s barely reaching out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 02:40 PM
2

Yes, women can get rejected for asking but that’s pretty rare. And how you’re asking too. It also depends on who you’re asking. There are so many variables. Are these men you barely know or is he your significant other?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 04:11 PM
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True. Most men will fuck just about anyone. She doesn’t even have to be all that cute. Instead of basing worthiness off how many men want to hit it, women should be basing worthiness on how many men want to actually marry or commit to them! Of course not all of our worth should be tied into men’s opinions. However, that’s the only male opinion that should count.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 01:04 PM
26

To many men, "low-maintenance" means they don't have to put forth any effort and/or take you for granted. Physically I am lower-maintenance but intellectually and emotionally - I'm high-maintenance!
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 04:16 AM
10

Same! Embracing femininity has raised my confidence & self-esteem.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 12:50 AM
3

Yeah I’m surprised no one else has mentioned the especially disgusting and exploitative nature of her father’s dalliances. This goes beyond just cheating with a female coworker or some local floozy. I wouldn't be surprised if her father was cheating locally too. A cheater is a cheater is a cheater. They are opportunists.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 09:33 PM
4

lol, steal away. I originally heard it of on this woman's channel. She's not RP but gives women advice on leveling up in the dating/love department and being more feminine. She is Black and her audience are mostly Black women & she warns about dusties all the time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-rRQq2ruxJ0
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 08:56 PM
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Yikes! First off, don't get with a man who has yellow fever. Another thing, in the vetting process, ask the man what his views on sex trafficking & the sexual exploitation of young women and girls are just to pick his brain. Most of those women in developing countries are performing sex acts under duress and quite possibly could be underage. Make sure the man is self-aware and cognizant in those arenas. If any man you vet tries to excuse being that desperate to fuck to the point where they're mo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 03:33 AM
8

Anna’s videos are entertaining but I don’t take her advice. I’m not her target demographic. She is right about women being desperate and men being lazy. And it’s largely women’s faults that these men aren’t putting forth any effort because they simply don’t have to. Too many dust bunny women have made it advantageous for men to be dusty & still get their desired outcome.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 11:56 PM
5

I doubt she even wants kids.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 05:45 PM
1

Are you just trolling or are you this seriously troubled? Either way, log off the internet and get some professional help.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 06:42 AM
2

Colorism is a widespread issue.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 06:41 AM
4

Lol, the majority of us are not looking like Zooey Deschanel at any time or day. Yeah, I don’t buy what men claim they like. Actions > words. They say they like all-natural women with no makeup but the majority of women look better with some effort put into our appearance, and that includes some makeup. There’s a whole lotta grey area between cakeface and bareface too. I know I’m treated much nicer and more polite by men with contacts, curls cascading down my shoulders, nice outfit, light makeup…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 01:28 PM
4

I was making an observation on how men treated her vs. ignoring me. Trust me, there’s nothing to be jealous of when men habitually see you and treat you as pump and dump material. Your comprehension is lacking btw. I never said I was “turning guys off”.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 01:03 PM
2

You don’t know what you’re talking about. “Not giving off great energy”... ? Back in my heyday of going out (2011 - 2013), I was the friend who got the most attention. Those going out days are long gone. I’ve since married & divorced. I’m not “obsessing” over my friend. We stopped speaking back in February and it’s probably for the better. Whenever we’d catch up, which was once every few months, it was always the same ole story about some new Tinder guy she’s fucking and how he’s not treating he…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 12:38 PM
7

Yes I know. Whenever I’ve gone out, I’ve worn contacts. I’m treated noticeable different by men when I’ve worn glasses v. contacts. It’s a big reason why I’ve always hated when men claim they love girls w/ glasses or the “nerd chic” look 🙄 I’m pretty much a homebody now and my female friends have all settled down, married and have families of their own so we don’t go out like we used to. I’ve married and divorced too. 2011 - 2013 was the highlight of our going out years.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 12:25 PM
11

Mrs. Midwest on YT has a good minimalist makeup routine. She emphasizes just 5 steps 1) Concealer 2) Mascara 3) Lip color (doesn't have to be lipstick) 4) Eyebrows 5) Blush
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 05:23 AM
8

Usually when I've gone out I've been the fine friend. But not all attention is quality attention. I'm cute but not gorgeous or "hot". I do smile a lot & have high energy so maybe that's why I tended to get a lot of attention from guys. There is one friend I had who'd get more attention. She is pretty, bubbly, blonde, blue-eyed & White with lots of visible tattoos and a big ass. Men would literally bypass me to get at her but it was always the worst attention and from gross guys. She's hotter tha…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 05:09 AM
9

O-KAY. I've also heard of some average-looking girls who'll use their hotter friends as "bait" to hook more male attention in hopes they'll get a crumb of it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:38 AM
2

Humility is a huge one.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 09:15 PM
8

I’ve read RPW philosophy because it’s interesting to see how more traditionally minded women think and I realize that it’s just not for me. Then why post here? Thank you for sharing but this seems inappropriate or just plain confusing on why you're posting this here. Surely there are other subs where there are more like-minded women similar to you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 09:11 PM
8

I shave completely but it’s mostly by habit. I wish I could be more comfortable letting it grow. I would still keep it trimmed though.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 04:55 AM
6

Sweet, generous, caring & thoughtful are a few that come to mind. if she is musically or vocally talented, that helps as well.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 03:34 AM
1

LOL!
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 08:48 PM
23

Dyeing your hair a light color is usually a good strategy. Mark my words. Not really. Depends on your ethnicity and coloring. I am mixed Black & Asian and would look absolutely ridiculous with blonde hair. From my experience, most men like women who enhance their natural beauty. If you can pull off multiple hair colors without it looking fake or damaging your hair, go for it. That's not the majority of us though. ​ I received more attention back when I had dyed my hair red. I don't think I even …
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 07:58 PM
11

No. RP & MGTOW men (there's a lot of overlap) are not viable catches nor do they respect women. Did you ever meet him in person? If he was MGTOW, he was not "perfect for you".
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/20 12:21 AM
4

Well-thought out list. I enjoyed reading it and will save this to glance at every now and again. Thank you 😊
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 09:03 AM
3

I’ve had that on my Amazon wishlist for a least a few years. No one has bought it for me although they’ve purchased several other books 😂 Maybe I’ll buy for it myself
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 06:20 PM
1

I’m not RP but you could have just said what you just responded to me in the original post and left it at that. No need to bring up your sex work past/present on a group like this.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 02:19 AM
8

This is a full-on mess. You’re in the wrong group. Try sex-positive, pro-polyamory and/or pro-sex work groups.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 02:13 AM
2

There are already many good comments in the comment section but I’d question the self-esteem, sanity and self-respect of the women he’s allegedly sleeping with 🤢🤮
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 07:12 PM
2

90s alternative rock, pop, EDM & 80s
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 07:00 PM
6

Feminism is what you make it. I have feminist principles as well as RP ones. Also, I am liberal-leaning but there are some libertarian and conservative values that I agree with, albeit not the entire ideology. No one should blindly believe one philosophy or ideology without questioning or researching opposing views, that's a complete and total follower.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 12:17 AM
3

Yeah, I was going to ask if there’s any way she could move away from NYC. I understand the timing is off NOW but perhaps in the distant future? NYC is a soul-sucking place and I’d hate to be a woman there.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 07:40 PM
8

It’s normal for a straight man to be physically attracted to his female friends but not to pursue it. Gross. The guy should be 99.9% certain that it’s reciprocated. If not, he ends up looking like a fool and jeopardizing the friendship. I once had a male acquaintance ask me if we could be FWB and I stopped speaking to him. My reasoning is, “if I wanted to sleep with you, we would have been intimate by now.”
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/20 01:36 AM
2

So I’ve gotten into the habit of unsubscribing each time I get one - it feels very liberating and I’m reducing the issue bit by bit. Good for you! It's feel good to have that sense of self-control. I'm a minimalist & that is something they touch on a lot as well: self-discipline
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/20 06:52 AM
1

No. If anything, they are a bit too complementary. I find it disingenuous.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 04:59 PM
5

I never claimed I was RP. I like to lurk and read the posts here. Sometimes I'll contribute but I understand this is y'all's space. Even if I disagree, I would never be combative or disrespectful.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 09:34 PM
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I used to read Roosh-V's PUA forum & it was pretty interesting. I steer clear of any RP/MGTOW sites and forums now because it is so toxic and pretty scary to know there are men like that who lurk among us. I hung out w/ a guy at work a couple of months ago pre-Rona who was RP and ugh....I don't speak to him anymore. Way too misogynistic, bitter/angry at women, insecure and lacking in confidence. Within the first 20 minutes of our first meet, he started talking about "Alpha males" and even claime…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 07:50 PM
1

There are literally millions of recipes online. That's how one can get started cooking. I didn't start cooking until I moved out of my family's home and in with my then-fiance. We lived together for over 4 years. We broke up and I still cook, it's just a daily habit now that I don't put much thought into, much like getting dressed or doing laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 10:33 PM
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Lol, I first found her channel because I'm a minimalist and YouTube started recommending a bunch of minimalism videos. She has a lot of content about that as well. I see she's almost at 1 million subscribers! Good for her :) She was nowhere near that when I first stumbled across her page. & feminists are generally miserable anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/20 10:15 PM
1

Interesting mix of faiths (or lack thereof) we have here. I'm new to this group and assumed most of y'all were Christian. I'm a tepid atheist.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 08:01 AM
3

No. Just take a look around here. We don't discuss how to pick up strangers from the club. Guys tend to do that. Women don't.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 08:39 AM
4

It sounds like you handle it well and gracefully but not partaking but still being nurturing & sweet with bringing in homemade baked goods. If someone pries, a simple, "I'm not comfortable discussing this with you" should work. I work in an automotive manufacturing warehouse with 99% men and they gossip too. It's not a female-centric issue. It's human nature to gossip. People's behavior always gives others something to talk about.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/20 12:40 AM
3

Many years ago I used to be a vehement feminist/SJW after taking a women's studies course in college. As far as being Red Pilled, I did not have a single epiphany or a-ha! moment but it was a gradual journey. It began by following conservative female Youtubers such as Lauren Southern, Brittany Sellner (nee Pettibone), Lauren Chen, Blonde in the Belly of the Beast & NollaGirl504. I also used to lurk on MGTOW spaces & Roosh-V's highly misogynistic forum, because it was good to "know your enemy". T…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/20 03:26 AM
3

Congrats! Here's to a wonderful journey and life together <3
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/20 03:17 AM
7

just do a youtube search for 'femininity tips'. you can find anything online.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 09:59 PM
6

a DYI pedicure....I'm trying to think of things that can be done from home because of the social distancing/quarantine situation we are in. If you can get your hands on some zinc, try to. Not only does it build a strong immune system, it's done wonders for the skin. It has reduced my acne scars tremendously and now my skin glows. As for me, I'm not into beauty treatments. All I do in my routine is fill in my brows & paint my toenails. I leave my hair in its naturally curly state. When I was work…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 03:21 AM
2

REAL #relationshipgoals. Not the covid-19 aspect but being someone’s LAST love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:39 PM
1

I like her channel too because I'm a thrifty minimalist too. I didn't bother to watch the video of her cleaning her bf's mom's bathroom because, well, it just wasn't very interesting to me. I figured she was just being sweet and helpful because she does come across as very kind and genuine in her videos. However.... I am a clean/tidy person too and refuse to clean up after grown folks. My roommates are quite messy and they're in their 40s. I keep my room & bathroom clean. Once you start cleaning…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:50 PM
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