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| 69 | I'm sick of media romanticizing male infidelity, this needs to stop NOWTHANK YOU! And in season 1 Anthony proclaimed to be in love with Sienna, yet look at him switch up so fast. He only wants what he can’t have. He is in no way HV yet is portrayed as a huge catch. Bridgerton teaches us that all men should be forgiven no matter what they do and how trash they treat women because of a TraGiC BacKstoRY. No, not all men are deserving of love, especially ones who are the epitome of Madonna Whore syndrome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:43 AM |
| 94 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.I feel so sick and sad that this scrote has dragged her along for so long. Also, I checked her post history - the ring she found is from PANDORA!!! She thought it was a charm at first. Literally this cheap ass scrote has been carrying some Pandora ring around for years, it’s literally so laughable. Even a 14 year old boy can give his first gf a Pandora ring for Valentine’s Day and he can’t even give it to his loving partner of 7 years and mother to his two kids. He also never posts her or their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 73 | Men know this is what they watch and they don't care. They keep this horrifying industry alive. Never date a man who watches porn. TW:rapeAll the men commenting are trying to be justify porn use by saying ‘this is why I go out of my way to watch ethical porn’. Their definition of ethical porn is OF and amateur porn. When told that OF is a pyramid scheme just as predatory and grooms young women, and amateur porn is revenge porn, they double down and act like they didn’t hear anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 22 | Women and IG vs Internet PornMen literally don’t deserve to even see or watch porn or look at women ever. It only exists so men don’t revolt and go on a mass raping and shooting spree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 06:13 AM |
| 26 | S*xual assault, Patriarchal Religion, and the LawThank you ❤️ I am doing much better these days. The sad thing is it took being sexually assaulted for me to take the blindfold off and realise the harsh double standards women have to live by. I firmly believe religion is like The Red Pill - some things seem logical (and helpful) at first. Just like how TRP tells you to focus on yourself, work on your body (exercise) and strive for self improvement, but masks all the extremely dangerous ideals under genuinely helpful general self help advice. Re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 80 | Major Trigger Warning on the topic of War, Rape, Violence. The Mỹ Lai massacre was the mass murder of unarmed South Vietnamese civilians by United States troops in Sơn Tịnh District, South Vietnam, on 16 March 1968 during the Vietnam War. 54 years ago today, American soldiers terrorized a village. 💔I read about the Rape of Nanking when I was younger and I was traumatised, I couldn’t believe the inhumane activities men were capable of. And it was always men. So when men say not all men, know that it is all men when they have the opportunity to get away with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:54 PM |
| 63 | S*xual assault, Patriarchal Religion, and the LawI grew up indoctrinated in the faith, and I had so much cognitive dissonance trying to reconcile how women were treated as second class citizens and blamed for any and all actions. That’s why the church will tell you that Sunday church sessions are not enough - you had to start getting involved in the church, with weekly bible sessions, Sunday school teaching, etc. Constant exposure keeps you in the fold. They keep drilling the same indoctrinated ideas over and over into you to the point where I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:32 PM |
| 4 | SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.Wow thanks this really put it in perspective! No wonder it’s rationalised as real power when it’s really an illusion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 04:45 AM |
| 10 | SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.A legitimate job will pay you extra to work those hours (she says she starts jobs at 10pm finishes around 5am Etc), she drives herself to jobs (petrol and mileage/depreciation on her vehicle she can’t claim back) plus she pays for parking, makeup, lingerie, laser, waxing etc etc, Literally the money is so so little for the work they actually do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 39 | SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.Amazing take. It’s so true that it’s a virtue signalling bubble. They can lie til they’re blue in the face, they and everyone else knows it is not an EmPOWerIng job | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:22 AM |
| 144 | SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.That’s what I always thought. There’s no way they pay $1150 for 3 hours for the girls to just serve them drinks topless/nude. They swear up and they down that nothing happens besides dancing/waitressing etc but I don’t believe it. We know how stingy men are - they believe the dinner menu special at Olive Garden entitles them to sex What would they think $1150 for 3 hours entitles them to I wonder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:20 AM |
| 80 | SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.Same. I feel like some of them are SO close to de-centering men then the sex work stuff comes up and suddenly we’re way pre-feminism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 03:14 AM |
| 28 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidHonestly can’t wait for that day where they crash and burn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 10:35 PM |
| 16 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidLMAOOO INTELLIGENCE OF A BONOBO! I shrieked hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 10:34 PM |
| 35 | I’m the girl who exposed him to his long term girlfriend. I believe he has more victims.Don’t expect to come here to be coddled - FDS is the place that gives real life changing advice, not to soothe you into continuing to walk into the devils arms again. People do have empathy - they’re being kind by telling you the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 10:18 PM |
| 21 | This quote from Bell Hooks reminded me of why I no longer do 50/50.How is this sub anti feminist??? This is the only true feminist sub on reddit. Mods - this person is an imposter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 01:54 PM |
| 40 | I hope I’m not the only one who raised my eyebrows with a bit of concern at the age gap here. I hope for her sake he is HV, but FDS has taught me to be wary and some of the commentary made me sick…Yea she’s a total pickme. I hate when women put themselves down, it affects all women. Other men then see it as justification to call our dreams dumb and little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 48 | Bring back - fine af friday flairNah scrotes don’t need to get a bigger head than they already have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:02 AM |
| 10 | Some of the most telling screenshots from men from that front page post about 🌽⭐️s needing to face the ‘consequences of their actions’. Men don’t think coercion exists on ‘big name’ websites and think sex work = any other industry, ignoring that exploitation is a key feature, not a bug, of pornThey are literally smooth brained idiots who think PHhb and BangBros is somehow ‘ethical’ just because they are a ‘bigger’ company. Ever heard of Amazon …. Facebook…. Any company ever ???? Also all of porn is owned by one huge exploitative billion dollar company anyway, and may I add, it’s these disgusting faceless men at the top that never had to take their clothes off that are ‘immensely successful’, not the poor abused women who do all the work but make a pittance in comparison I never see th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Some of the most telling screenshots from men from that front page post about 🌽⭐️s needing to face the ‘consequences of their actions’. Men don’t think coercion exists on ‘big name’ websites and think sex work = any other industry, ignoring that exploitation is a key feature, not a bug, of pornWow never made this connection! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:14 PM |
| 108 | Some of the most telling screenshots from men from that front page post about 🌽⭐️s needing to face the ‘consequences of their actions’. Men don’t think coercion exists on ‘big name’ websites and think sex work = any other industry, ignoring that exploitation is a key feature, not a bug, of pornLiterally the funniest scrote mental gymnastics: Porn stars don’t have the ‘riGhT’ to deny others (aka depraved men) of something that has value to them (the depraved men). Aka ‘I am an InCEl and get off to rape and trafficked women’. This braindead idiot is literally saying because the videos they were coerced into making have value for men, then the women who were victimised have no right to deprive others of it. Way to rationalise slavery! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:04 AM |
| 211 | Some of the most telling screenshots from men from that front page post about 🌽⭐️s needing to face the ‘consequences of their actions’. Men don’t think coercion exists on ‘big name’ websites and think sex work = any other industry, ignoring that exploitation is a key feature, not a bug, of pornKey points - men scream the ‘women have agency’ and ‘stop infantilising women’ cards when comments rightly point out the exploitative nature of the porn industry - men don’t believe women, particularly sex workers who they hate even more than other women on a more intense level. These women are, from their own mouth, saying how these videos made them felt degraded, humiliated etc and men are claiming they are lying/doing it for attention/asking for these women to give all the money they earnt ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 4 | Sex work is EmPoWeRinG but you "have to face the consequences?"They were saying the poor girls’ requests were akin to a labourer asking for things they built to be demolished. They have their heads in the sand - acting like sex work is in any way comparable to any other job out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Sex work is EmPoWeRinG but you "have to face the consequences?"That post is the most disgusting thread I’ve ever read. I feel sick at the blatant selfishness and entitlement on display. I took lots of screenshots - will share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | 22F dating a 34M finds out he co-owns a house in the suburbs with a woman sharing his last name - If he’s making excuses for you not to see HIS house even though he’s seen yours, there’s a reason.Lol my partner drove 1 hour to get me and 1 hour to drive me back home pretty much everyday when we were in our initial dating stages and hadn’t moved in together yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 12:22 AM |
| 298 | 22F dating a 34M finds out he co-owns a house in the suburbs with a woman sharing his last name - If he’s making excuses for you not to see HIS house even though he’s seen yours, there’s a reason.Lmaooooo imagining this scrotes face when she says ‘ok boomer’ is the best. She’s a queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:36 AM |
| 29 | If you ever want to get over an infatuation/crush, just check their Instagram follow listYou just go to their Instagram profile, at the top it shows how many people follow them, and how many people they follow Click on Following and it will show the full list of which accounts they’re following | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 03:47 AM |
| 49 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”That is sick. Exactly why I left religion - sick hypocritical men masquerading as holier than thou | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:32 AM |
| 28 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?They don’t need to be religious, my partner waited years and never whined or complained. We are very happy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 225 | Strippers are finally coming out with the truth. Faithful and respectable men DO NOT go to strip clubs. you’re not a ‘cool girl’ who lets her man go hang out with strippers. You’re just a fool who is getting playedI saw so many pickmes who were the first to put their hand up and say I’m a woman and I loveeee strip clubs because of the AcROBATIcs and SKilL on the pole. Like really … come off it. They were trying to act like strip clubs provide amazing performance akin to a musical, concert etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 04:53 AM |
| 25 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.It’s a profession known for being full of ‘hot people’. It’s like real estate agents - charming/smarmy/sleazy character traits who use their looks to push sales. Lots of intermingling with socially awkward/introverted doctors/medical professionals, but the salespeople know how to be ‘people people’. Also full of extroverts. Don’t need a medical background to get started. It’s marketed as an industry for the beautiful to thrive. Throw that in with all expenses paid conferences, parties, work trip… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 03:14 AM |
| 16 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.The crazy thing is that men who cheat on their SAHM/W ALWAYS do it with a woman who works outside the home, usually their coworker. Men lie lie lie and lie some more. They say they want a woman who stays at home and is tRadItioNAL but watch what their actions are, rather than what they say. They almost always resent and lose respect for their dutiful doting wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 21 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.There’s one on Tiktok whose entire persona and videos is around ‘my life as a stay at home girlfriend’. She has many young girls looking up to her as the ideal aspirational life goal, she just sells a life of mindless yoga, shopping, cleaning and cooking for him. She’s 20, he’s in his 40s. Patriarchy has repackaged domesticated unpaid servitude as the ultimate princess fantasy and liberal feminism is lapping it up as some sort of misguided F U to late stage capitalism. Late stage capitalism, the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 17 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.Amazing comment, thanks so much for your perspective and I completely agree with everything you said. There’s a reason why this wave of videos and sentiment comes solely from young, usually conventionally attractive women. They’ve been sold a lie that this is the idealised/glamourised lifestyle, and they can’t understand why anyone would want to work outside the home, when this lifestyle sounds like much more fun. Well of course it sounds more fun, that’s because it’s not reality. It’s not even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:34 PM |
| 121 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.It’s well known that medical sales is very lookism based, it’s become a punchline even (there’s an episode in How I met your mother which talks about pharma girls being the hottest profession). I think Penny from Big Bang even goes into it (and she was always heavily sexualised on the show). So it has a reputation for being shallow, lots of intermingling between goodlooking people etc, plus it’s sales so a mix between charming/sleazy character traits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:58 PM |
| 224 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.He’s already sowing his oats. Judging by his taste in underage and barely legal girls (he publicly follows hundreds of OF and thirst trap accounts on TikTok of young teen girls), his wife is already too old for him. Plus his job is medical sales …. Uhm…. Shall we count how many red flags or have we already run out of fingers?? The sad thing is her ideal situation of what she wanted to do in life was all about him. Make him breakfast, lunch, dinner etc. it was all centred around him. No ambition … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:40 PM |
| 157 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.I firmly believe women who aspire to this have low self esteem and internalised misogyny. They want to feel loved, but they think only the love of a man is valuable, so they think becoming the idealised picture of femininity, the doting mother and wife, will make their husband respect them and love them them. They contrast this picture to the harsh, uncaring corporate boss, and act like slaving away to their husband/for their family’s sake is far preferable than slaving away for a company. But a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:38 PM |
| 358 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.She trusts him blindly because she said they’re high school sweethearts. Who is going to tell her …. Mid life crisis hits hardest on people stuck in the same ways since they were like 14 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:32 PM |
| 109 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.Great pickup !!! For context, his comment on her video (the follow up video where she smugly says she trusts her husband unlike other women out there and that women can just get a job) was “Oh I can go south alright…..” That was in response to other women’s legitimate concerns that the situation could go south and blow up in her face, warning her she could be left with nothing. The pickme then commented “👆🏻👆🏻my husband y’all!!!! 😂” The whole exchange was so cringe and disturbing. Pornsick LVM al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 44 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.I used to think this but children benefit from seeing two working parents as role models and an example of a equal partnership relationship that they can seek to emulate when they themselves are adults. Also childcare is crucial for children in learning how to socialise with peers and they pick up skills much more quickly, and thrive in a structured environment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:35 PM |
| 265 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.The kicker - her scrote that she’s so smug about ‘trusting’ is a pornsick LVM LOL. I could laugh if it wasn’t all so predictable. Pickmes and LVMs gravitate to each other He’s publicly following thousands of thirst trap 18 year old girl accounts on TikTok Edit: He also works in medical sales. And they are ‘high school sweethearts’. Mid life crisis + red flag career = fairytale bubble bursting wide open in 1, 2, 3… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:50 AM |
| 763 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.Amazing comment I read in response to this video: The reason why we fought for the right to work isn’t because it’s fun to work, it’s not. But if your husband turns out to be abusive, you now have your own resources and a way to leave. Clearly you (referring to the girl in the video) missed that part. Don’t align your freedoms to relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:49 AM |
| 383 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.Search her handle in Tiktok to find the video - it’s the Top Liked one. People in the comments were warning her of the dangers of being left high and dry with nothing. She responded by acting smug that she ‘actually trusted her husband unlike other women other there’ out and claimed it’s easy to start over and get a job, completely dismissing the fact that 20 years out of the workforce will render your degree worthless and you’ll end up struggling to find any employment. ALSO THE KICKER - Her hu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:33 AM |
| 31 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪Most men are so thoughtless when picking out gifts. I was once picked such a horrible gift I was actually insulted to receive it, it made me realise he didn’t know me at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:01 AM |
| 9 | What did she do to him?The fact that provocation is a legitimate legal defence to murder (usually when a man is so ‘provoked’ by catching an adulterous act) means they truly believe murder is justifiable. And they have written it into the law | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:21 AM |
| 12 | Scrote is mad that his date has standardsHe def has a mortgage and probably only had a 5% down payment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:17 AM |
| 8 | Scrote is mad that his date has standards30k is not even enough for a wedding alone, yet he’s acting like he’s Mr Moneybags over here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Scrote is mad that his date has standardsLOLOL brag about his pennies to the Internet 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:16 AM |
| 10 | Scrote is mad that his date has standardsMen who have the same or less education/assets as most women act like it’s SOOO hard and soo impressive to be where they’re at. Women in the same or better situation are never egotistical about it. I’m younger than him by a few years, I own my own home (not condo), and have 3x what he’s saved up. I guarantee the women he is dating has a better job than him and more assets than him. No gold digger would go for what he has - it’s honestly lacklustre and not impressive. He has big ‘I think I’m a mi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:13 AM |
| 27 | 'Body count': Do people count and what even matters?Agree. My partner also waited 5 years. If they love you, they will wait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 8 | Relationship status = singleLol couldn’t be me. My husband cooks and serves me first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 01:37 AM |
| 25 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Only acceptable if he was making a joke to call you acute 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:21 AM |
| 56 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?OMGGGGGGod I’m dead lmao literally this guy heard I like when guys wear caps …. I kid you not….. he came out in his WORK CAP and uniform and modeled it for me expecting me to fawn over it What was the work you say? LITERALLY A SUPERMARKET !!!!!!!! UNIFORM !!!!!! So much ick I think I crawled inside my own body | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:19 AM |
| 81 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Soo many: 🚩First date with a guy - he showed up late, in flip flops. His gross toes gave me so much ick, I will never forget that feeling lol. I was wearing a gorgeous summer dress and heels, with hair and makeup done. What a waste of effort Also he ‘forgot’ to bring his wallet so I had to pay. 🚩Guy I was crushing on got a haircut jt looked awful I realised he was actually ugly lol 🚩Guy talked about how hot certain celebrities are to me, the girl he liked 🚩Guy modelled his work uniform for me (h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:37 AM |
| 31 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersWomen know when a man is truly into them. If they don’t know; then they’re deluding themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Old white men literally think that way… they think women or younger people don’t earn any money at all, when in fact the wealthiest people I know are power couples with no children (DINK - double income no kids) in their late 20s/30s. Several retired due to investing early in Bitcoin and are now angel investors It’s not about gross scrote old men hoarding the wealth anymore - young wealthy professionals with the hustle mindset (and increasingly single women are in this category) are the ones wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:15 PM |
| 4 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Lmaoooo I just about died when the ‘woman’ commenter specifically mentioned that the 40 year old she was dating had a ‘chiseled jawline’. Sure sounds like something a woman would say /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:09 PM |
| 11 | Men literally believe murder is a justified response to a woman leaving. Also men still think a woman who was literally murdered by her partner was just “pulling the abuse card”Great articles, thanks for sharing! The media has a lot to answer for. I’ve seen reports where they’ve been deliberately vague and said ‘he heard her with a man’ which sounds like they may have been engaged in romantic relations They should be careful how they write and speak, she was talking with a friend who had come over for protection. The media also needs to expose that HE was the cheater. This poor murdered woman’s name has been slandered. She did everything right - she reported him, restr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:51 PM |
| 12 | Men literally believe murder is a justified response to a woman leaving. Also men still think a woman who was literally murdered by her partner was just “pulling the abuse card”Amazing advice! This could save lives | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:37 PM |
| 94 | Men literally believe murder is a justified response to a woman leaving. Also men still think a woman who was literally murdered by her partner was just “pulling the abuse card”Further info: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZSe2kP3Pb/ She had made a video about him cheating on her in their house and he forced her to delete it FDS ladies, let’s have the same energy as these scrotes - she should have been justified in killing him and his lover back then right? Seeing as this is how men think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:39 AM |
| 416 | Men literally believe murder is a justified response to a woman leaving. Also men still think a woman who was literally murdered by her partner was just “pulling the abuse card”The ironic thing is apparently he cheated on her during their relationship. Rule number 1 of misogyny: everything is always a woman’s fault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:00 AM |
| 34 | Is this Instagram activity acceptable in a relationship?I just figured out the fastest way to knock those rose coloured glasses off your head is to go through his IG follow list 😂 Tested it with a random scrote - yep, models galore. And their name pops up as having ‘liked’ the bikini pics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 10:54 PM |
| 42 | "The talk" about pornI don’t have this conversation with men. My partner chose to not consume it on his own, and I trust and know that he doesn’t ever since being with me (he was very infrequent before he was with me anyway, and he said it always left a bad taste in his mouth due to the violence, misogyny etc). If you are enough for your partner and they respect you and you are both satisfied in the relationship, there’s no need for them to consume it or even think about consuming it. It wouldn’t cross a HVM’s mind … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 02:29 AM |
| 15 | men's responses to your job/career situation is a quick, easy way to vetThere’s a trend online now where if you say you’re an accountant, it’s code for ‘sex worker’. Disgusting, nothing is free from their sexualisation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 10:11 PM |
| 14 | Watching Sweet Home Alabama after FDSI would love this! Maybe a dedicated day? Instead of Fine as F? I don't care for Fine as F because men need further ego boosts like a fish needs a bike lol (i.e. not at all) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 11:40 AM |
| 144 | Rewatching Friends and realizing sweet, funny Joey is actually T.E.R.R.I.B.L.E.Barney is a disgusting person but because he cares about his friends’ it’s condoning treating others like disposable entertainment in your life. Even in the finale when he ‘changed’ after his daughter was born, he still shamed the two girls at the bar, telling them to go home, cover up and to call their dads. Way to project onto innocent women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 07:25 AM |
| 25 | Rewatching Friends and realizing sweet, funny Joey is actually T.E.R.R.I.B.L.E.Apply all this to Barney Stinson from HIMYM - same story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 07:23 AM |
| 181 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingWhoever says strip clubs and being a stripper isn’t degrading is lying. Think about all the movies where the stripper dies. What genre of movie are they? Hint, they’re not horror. They’re comedy. Yep, if a woman is a stripper, culture says it’s funny if she dies. They’re the butt of the joke. They receive negative respect to the point where their death is treated as a joke to see the “hilarious” reactions of men freaking out, then cut scene to the bride being oblivious. The existence of sex work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Buzzfeed pushing dangerous LV shitI saw that video too! What is wrong with lib fems?? It’s to the point where she is so brainwashed she sounds like a man in disguise. Who could possibly gain from a woman telling other women to sleep with someone on the first date? It’s obviously MEN that stand to gain from this, NOT women! That’s how women ACTUALLY end up pregnant, raped, abused and murdered, plus pretty much zero guarantee of an orgasm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 10:21 PM |
| 7 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workexactly!! Everybody has stressors. Literally I hate how people can’t think critically anymore. They think you say or did one thing = you are that thing forever now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:43 AM |
| 7 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workSo true!! Men want to be oppressed so bad. They act like having a paid job makes them the second coming of Jesus in terms of their ‘sacrifice’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:42 AM |
| 31 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workThat is SO true!! She’s made a much bigger sacrifice, she is the vulnerable one relying on him now should anything go awry. Opens up for potential financial abuse yet they always find a way to blame women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:58 AM |
| 182 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workIt was disgusting the way everyone tore into her, calling her a useless bottom feeder. People even stalked innocent videos she posted of her daughter saying her daughter was just ‘another waste of space’ in this world. Women - watch and learn. This is a man’s true nature. Your sacrifice of your youth, sanity, body etc to birth a child (no amount of money except an obscene possibly illegal amount could get someone to birth your child and they physically cannot birth their own) is equal to being a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:51 AM |
| 71 | If you stay at home and look after the children, never undersell your contribution. Woman makes a joke video about her husband stressing whilst she thinks about coffee, comments blast her calling her a lazy leech gold diggers. Men think birthing and looking children and the home is not “real” workSome comments that have all been upvoted: “Imagine if he had a woman who could help, men need to get some standards” Likening her to a worthless lazy bum who does nothing because “millions” of other women raise their children and also “work” at the same time (even though she said in the comments she works more hours than him, SAHMs work 24/7 so this is true) Saying “any woman can do that for him, y’all ain’t special” (referring to giving birth to his child and looking after their child. So yes, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodIt’s because libfems have cheapened casual sex to a woman being “eMpoWEred” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Following hot girls on instagram - red flag?Any time I see a man do this I lose all my respect for him. Trashy, creepy, desperate, tone deaf and so unaware of how others perceive him. He thinks he’s the man but really, HVM and women just see him as deluded and disrespectful. Why is he, an old geriatric scrote, so entitled to see young women’s bodies? And he probably thinks not only does he deserves to see them and that it’s his right as a man, but that the girls are also doing it all for him lol. Just know if you stay with him, at best, o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 04:48 AM |
| 19 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮It’s all due to religion and cultural influences from 1 million years ago. Man is the default human and was made first. Women were made to be man’s companion and helper, and told to be happy with their station in life. Mass brainwashing and entitlement since the beginning of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 05:01 AM |
| 150 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮All the comments I see are that men suffer too, not just women and children, and that men’s lives matter too. Wow. They even downplay how much worse it will be for women and children. That’s the REALITY. But under the guise of ‘equality’ they say all lives are equal now and these men have an ‘equal right to life’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:56 AM |
| 28 | Bar set too damn low. Help you with something? No thanks, that turns into lifetime years of servitudeWhy do pickmes get so excited about breadcrumbs? He must not be staving her of attention otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:01 AM |
| 13 | Male fragility means that a picture of a small sausage in a South Korean ad makes men there feel bad about the size of their genitals. So the answer is getting back at feminists by playing cancel culture towards the supposed companies they work for. (You can't make this shit up!)Korea is extremely racist, insular, sexist, heavy on lookism and has a strong bullying and suicide culture. If you’re not a beautiful woman, you literally don’t exist and deserve to be actively hated on. If you are a beautiful woman, then you are a mere plaything for men and seen as entertainment only. Women quit their jobs when they get married and compete viciously for men, including engaging in plastic surgery at extremely dangerous young ages. They’re then cheated on repeatedly and ignored w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Male fragility means that a picture of a small sausage in a South Korean ad makes men there feel bad about the size of their genitals. So the answer is getting back at feminists by playing cancel culture towards the supposed companies they work for. (You can't make this shit up!)They’re offended for a reason - it’s all true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | "By age of 35, 66% of men will have experienced some degree of hair loss" B-b-but MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe WoMeN aGe LiKe MiLk"Yesss. Teen girls love Harry styles, boy bands etc, not their geriatric saggy balls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:38 AM |
| 3 | "By age of 35, 66% of men will have experienced some degree of hair loss" B-b-but MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe WoMeN aGe LiKe MiLk"OMG so funny there was this fat scrote who liked me and I rejected him, he was real creepy, preachy goody-type and a woman-hater. He’s younger than me by 2 years. I recently saw a pic of him on social media and I couldn’t believe it, he’s literally bald and could be my dad. He’s also fat still, ugly and sweaty. Meanwhile I have beautiful long hair down my back, an amazing job, my own business, my own home, and thriving ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | "By age of 35, 66% of men will have experienced some degree of hair loss" B-b-but MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe WoMeN aGe LiKe MiLk"They’re all so ugly bruh. Shitty skin, ageing quickly, balding, fat flab, bad fashion. Gross. Men don’t deserve women forreal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:32 AM |
| 2 | "By age of 35, 66% of men will have experienced some degree of hair loss" B-b-but MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe WoMeN aGe LiKe MiLk"Lmaoooooo I literally can’t with you ladies you’re hilarious. The F in female stands for funny. Bye men. Time for them to go in the trash, scrote looking ugly asses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:31 AM |
| 2 | "By age of 35, 66% of men will have experienced some degree of hair loss" B-b-but MeN aGe LiKe FiNe WiNe WoMeN aGe LiKe MiLk"God im glad to be a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Hypothesis: You can tell if a man is ready to “settle down” by looking at his hairline. 😂😂Will add link in comments.Lmaooo you’re a queen. Gross I hate them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Women choose to reduce their quality of life to let a man go raw and I‘m tired of itThat’s the whole mantra behind pro-life: it’s punishment for women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Women choose to reduce their quality of life to let a man go raw and I‘m tired of itGREAT POST! Thanks for all the insight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 02:23 AM |
| 17 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanSame energy as a woman getting lectured for slapping her boyfriend in response to being mentally, emotionally and physically abused Women usually only get physical in response to extreme situations when pushed beyond breaking point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:00 AM |
| 142 | Meme inspired by another FDS postI saw this meme that said women are expected to put hot wax on their vulva for men who leave skid marks and half heartedly use a 3-in-1 near their balls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:05 AM |
| 8 | 😂😂Men have come up with a new excuse for cheating. It’s not about the “female” it’s fighting “his own demons”🙄LMAOOOOOOOOOOO you know who actually fights demons? All women, because we have all experienced mens depravity and assault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Not having children in this pedophilic society.Story time: I was about 19/20 years old and used to attend this youth group. The hosts were a married couple from my church. I believe he was around 30 his wife was a similar age. One night I came over but was evidently too early as I was the first one there. He told me that he couldn’t let me into his flat because he had to be ‘above reproach’ and his wife wasn’t home yet (i.e. it was just him in his flat, and no other youth group members were there yet). I had to stand outside in the cold, a y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 07:08 AM |
| 42 | Difference between a great man and a garbageIt’s so insidious but so so true. I didn’t like my first bf at all (I cried after I said yes to him asking me out). But I was so scared of being labelled an evil b*tech for “leading him on” I felt I had no choice but to say yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 06:30 AM |
| 14 | OF COURSE women initiate 80% of divorces.Literal wimps. If only survival of the fittest bred them out of the gene pool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:27 AM |
| 25 | OF COURSE women initiate 80% of divorces.Even worse is when scrote men defend male family murderers (like Chris Watts) and say that his only choice was to murder his family due to how ‘skewed’ in the woman’s favour divorce is. Yes really they blame a woman being murdered on the woman. Don’t read YouTube comments on any Chris Watts videos if you want to have any hope in humanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:08 AM |
| 81 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.Hahaha amazing. Thanks for the mental picture, I’m cackling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:23 AM |
| 276 | Difference between a great man and a garbageI hate seeing those comments on posts of the (rare) good deeds that men do. They are so transactional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:20 AM |
| 26 | Comments under a TikTok of a woman who talks about how much she loooooves anal. Disgusting.All that pandering but where will it get them? In adult diapers, that’s where. Pickmes, enjoy your prolapses and skid marks 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 09:11 AM |
| 7 | How male entitlement starts young and from top-down: Boys at an Anglican school asked to rate their ideal girl. ‘Virgin’ is worth 6x as much as qualities such as ‘generous, adventurous, sincere’. Girls were instead taught to ‘stay pure’. Cue smooth brain scrotes defending this garbage.It is Grade 10 :) that means 15-16 year olds here. It is completely disgusting at age 10 and grade 10 :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 05:38 AM |
| 33 | How male entitlement starts young and from top-down: Boys at an Anglican school asked to rate their ideal girl. ‘Virgin’ is worth 6x as much as qualities such as ‘generous, adventurous, sincere’. Girls were instead taught to ‘stay pure’. Cue smooth brain scrotes defending this garbage.From a news article about this fiasco: The boys laughed about the lesson afterwards. “They think joking about it was OK because their own teacher was telling them it was OK,” said another student. The girls did not have a similar lesson, and instead were given articles on the importance of virginity and how Satan provides opportunities for fleeting sexual encounters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 03:58 AM |
| 25 | It's that time of the week again! Mods will be posting pictures of hotties for your reviewing pleasure!Yea, I prefer Monday memes. I don’t care for these FAFF days because 99.99% chance the men being posted are LV 🙄 men need their ego stroked like I need an extra hole in my head (read: Never). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 433 | “Build with him”That’s disgusting. And they call women gold diggers! Men are everything - diggers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 01:16 PM |
| 32 | Is anyone else here a virgin who is disgusted by slutty guys?Yesss!! I stumbled upon red pill back in the day and I thought, how on earth are these men so delusional that they think women are attracted to the slutty player ‘Chad’? I am so actively disgusted by promiscuous men. They clearly think of women as just a number to them. The reason why think this way is because they don’t value womens opinions or the concept of a female gaze existing. They literally think of women as objects and get their self esteem and respect from other guys. They respect othe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:52 AM |
| 119 | I Like How She Handled This 😂It’s because society has socialised women to not want to orgasm and ‘enjoy the journey’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Are there men who don't look at porn?My partner legitimately does not watch it. This is not to say he has never - he did here and there before we were together but was never addicted. Ever since we have been together he has never watched it since. I just checked his phone - squeaky clean history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:45 PM |
| 7 | 🤨Thank you. It’s a horrible feeling when you go through assault but people don’t mention that when your friends don’t believe you and abandon you, it feels worse as though you’re reliving the assault all over again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:02 AM |
| 14 | 🤨Yep. I was assaulted and my ‘friends’ left me for dead. When I tried to talk about it after, they just said ‘oh he’s just like that’ and made excuses for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:58 AM |
| 70 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersSince I discovered FDS, its so obvious to me now. I can see right through their actions down to their intent. He clearly wants to have sex with her sister. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 12 | Do they...do they not know it's an okcupid ad?In our patriarchal society, nothing ever makes men look bad as they still retain the power. I doubt anyone who saw the data beyond feminists/FDS users etc were thinking it portrayed men badly. WE know it does because we know men’s true natures. But men see that statistics and just think ‘truth’. It’s an ad as it scares women into thinking they’re no longer attractive after 20 so they need to settle down quickly before they lose even more attractiveness, hence get on all the apps etc to find a LV… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?If a man loves you he will care about your preferences for engagement and ring. Those pick me girls claiming to be happy with their cheetos? Couldn’t be me. The man does not really care to see her happy, he is just smug that he could get away with so little. My ring is a 2 carat solitaire diamond with diamonds all around the band. The proposal was an intimate and perfect picnic surrounded by a floral ceiling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:27 AM |
| 13 | And this is why you demand more for yourself and set clear boundaries and expectationsI smell an imminent break-up. He checked out of the relationship years ago and doesn’t want to marry her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | When pickmes compete with each other on who had the most low maintenance first date, engagement ring, wedding, honeymoon etcWoah! Mind blown. I think you’re completely right. The one-upping is their way to gain back power | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 10 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"I once read something a scrote said “Imagine doing all the work and providing for your family and you aren’t even able to give your children your name”. Women don’t have to imagine. Pure projection yet again. Women grow the child inside their body for months, give birth, then raise the child pretty much as a single mother, yet when have they ever complained that the child does not have them name? Pickmeishas even claim they could never ever see themselves not giving their children their father’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:33 AM |
| 8 | my friend, the wife, is upset with me for being rude to her husband. I’m sad for her.They don’t want to hear it because it forces them to look at the truth. They don’t want to illusion shattered. They’d rather have the wool over their eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:03 AM |
| 6 | my friend, the wife, is upset with me for being rude to her husband. I’m sad for her.Lmaooooooo. Is he on his peRiod? Also, he acts like because he is trying to do something “for his wife”, that makes him the good guy in this situation. I can already tell from the last minute planning and rude texts that he waited til the last minute to plan something and he is angry that he has to do it - hence why his piss poor attitude is coming out and is being misdirected to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:57 AM |
| 10 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"Lmaoooooo. Ain’t no one want your lactose intolerance, shitty vision, pre disposition to heart attacks, and acne covered face. Natural selection, please do your work 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:47 AM |
| 8 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"Children should absolutely take their mothers last name. It is through force and violence that men forced children to take their name. Think about it - there is always 100% chance you know who one parent is for sure, and it’s is always the mother because she has to grow and birth the child. Why even give the child another name when the father might not be the “real” father? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 14 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"Oh, don’t you know ladies? Scrotes believe they are 16th century kings descended from God himself. I know a LVM who proclaims that he has to get married and have children to continue his legacy because he is his father’s only son. He treats women as disposable creatures who should only exist to better him. What, you may ask, are these all important genes worth passing on? Wow, is he a billionaire with multiple charities for good causes? Is he a genius in his field? Is he an outstanding sportsman… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:53 AM |
| 16 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"Same energy as scrotes who say raising women is sooOo much harDeR than raising men. Cos they actually expect something from daughters and are happy to unleash their useless rapist abusive sons into the world to terrorise women. They’re content to leave the raising of their sons to future bangmaids. Or they always comment RIP wallet when they see a dad with a daughter (or worse, in their mind, multiple daughters). Cos men don’t ever spend money amirite? Why is only fans so popular then? Whose mon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:45 AM |
| 59 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘I hate how whenever women ask for advice about a man, it’s always ‘how do I address this sensitively?’ If it was a man whose gf had gained weight and stunk, they would NOT be asking for advice to address it sensitively on the internet. They’d straight up tell their gf ‘you’re fat ugly and stink GTFO’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:23 AM |
| 21 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisBoys NEVER respect their mums. Flat out, an ex told me that he has no respect for his mum because she’s so “emotional” and “childish”. Imagine carrying this ungrateful spawn for 9 months, going through traumatic labour, raising them for 20 years, just for them to turn around and not respect you and call you childish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Wedding push these sexist ideas onto women that they need to do everything perfectly due to the ‘privilege’ of being a brideSo true. It’s a lie that it’s the bride’s special day - it’s compensation to have one day (they planned to the T) to have some attention and love before being whisked away to thankless domestic slavery | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Daily reminder that men don’t consider women’s backbreaking unpaid labour as real ‘work’AMAZING! Thank you for the resources queen. I will surely be looking into this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:57 PM |
| 421 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisHaving kids is overrated. Chances are, as a woman, you’ll be a single mother (even if you’re married or have a male partner). They literally will sit back, relax and know if they don’t do it, it’s all okay because the woman will, she alwayssss will. New mindset - let men fail. I don’t give a crap if their life goes down the gutter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:29 PM |
| 56 | Daily reminder that men don’t consider women’s backbreaking unpaid labour as real ‘work’Men and their ‘mUh lEgAcY’ reeeee I just watched a tiktok video about a sweet family with 3 daughters. All the comments were men complaining ‘this is my worst nightmare’, ‘poor dad’ etc. Their justification for their misogynistic drivel is that it is sooo important they have a son to continue their ‘lEgAcY’. Men out here really thinking they’re 16th century kings descended from God. What legacy? Oh right, the legacy of being a deadbeat, abusive POS with Cheeto-encrusted fingers and a p0rn addict… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:23 PM |
| 94 | Daily reminder that men don’t consider women’s backbreaking unpaid labour as real ‘work’Also, men will never see the (piss poor low amount) of money they earn as ‘joint/our money’. Notice how it’s always ‘Wah Wah my gold digging wife took half of MY money’ (which was what, a shitty median income at best? Wow, I’m sooOoO impressed by your $75k annual income /s). When a woman earns money - its money for the family and in fact, men (the real “gold diggers”) consider her a “dream girl/a real one” if she spends it all spoiling the man. When a man earns money - its ‘my’ money, ‘my’ kingd… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 121 | Daily reminder that men don’t consider women’s backbreaking unpaid labour as real ‘work’Women are retiring with much less superannuation than men due to sacrificing their career to raise children and manage the household. Men should be thanking them every day for their noble sacrifice which enabled them to go to work without having to worry about their children and their household and pay for a maid, cook, clean, babysitter etc and sharing all assets so they can enjoy their hard earned retirement together. Mens reactions: Dump their faithful and loving wife who should have been “gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:54 PM |
| 16 | Be cautious with your lifeYessss. My friend told me to date this guy because he was her bf’s friend and the attitude was pretty much ‘why not?’ Worst decision of my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 06:03 AM |
| 116 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesHe for sure is. Narcissistic in his post about how much she did for him and loved him despite what a piece of trash he was. It’s like wow, look how badly I treated her yet she still stayed with me! Struggle love y’all 🙏🏻/s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:14 AM |
| 29 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesGod this a nightmare horror story. Worse than anything you could read in no sleep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:12 AM |
| 76 | Just read a thread about the worst rejection men have experienced from a women that made the front pageI hate when pick me’s pull the ‘you’re being too harsh’ when we are just responding appropriately to a guy who has crossed the line. Why don’t they save that energy for HIM? For example, girl on Tiktok was saying how her bf never compliments her and called her ugly etc. Comments were telling her to check up on him as he is probably depressed and not be so mean to him. Did he give a crap about how SHE was feeling when he called her ugly? Of course not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:03 AM |
| 4 | My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable?Lmaoooo. Where he belongs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:41 AM |
| 13 | My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable?100% truth! Men are the true gold diggers. I hate how when they have less, they turn a blind eye to whether things are ‘equal’ and just leech/take advantage of women’s generosity and lack of backbone to say anything for the sake of keeping the peace and being ‘nice’. When it’s them who have more, everything must be “50/50” down to the bite of ‘his’ food that she took (that will be 20cents please). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:39 AM |
| 29 | The real reason you shouldn’t date “frugal” (cheap) menAre you me? Wow. I once went on a ‘date’ with a scrote to get frozen yoghurt who also ‘forgot his wallet’. Pick me self was really into him for some unknown reason, I dressed up in a gorgeous outfit, hair done, makeup done, heels etc. He came late and wore disgusting flip flops with his gross feet and toenails picking out. When we got to the frozen yoghurt place, he didn’t have any money (he even pretended to be embarrassed) and I ended up having to pay for both our cups of frozen yoghurt. Here’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:31 AM |
| 12 | “YoU dOnT LiStEn!1!”Omg. Lightbulb moment. For me it’s always you having to defer to their opinion on how you should handle that situation. You don’t listen = why don’t you just do what I say. I used to reply why do I have to listen? Why do I have to do what you say? Enraged them, the fragile little creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:50 AM |
| 10 | Even a sub about medicine is full of misogynyHe’s in fantasy land. Guarantee it’s a fanfic he wrote lmaooo. He WISHES he was a successful doctor with a young beautiful gf. Fake posts everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:09 AM |
| 3 | I should really stop lurking around. From a post about age gap relashionships and how they aren't weird. Yes they are.Yup. When I was in university I thought an older man having a job was amazing. Now I am a full time worker myself, I realise his job was bad-paying and he had no ambition and was not career driven. I’m at a younger age than he was when I was sooo impressed by him, and I probably already make double what he does. No crusty scrote can impress me with his bare minimum ‘having a job’ now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:14 AM |
| 39 | I should really stop lurking around. From a post about age gap relashionships and how they aren't weird. Yes they are.‘Full of life’ = doesn’t have the life experience to know he’s a used up washed up hit the wall loser who has never made it, and will never make it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:00 AM |
| 28 | I should really stop lurking around. From a post about age gap relashionships and how they aren't weird. Yes they are.Hahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:59 AM |
| 3 | What men want as presents aka male depravityI got him a luxury cologne :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:18 AM |
| 74 | LVM makes creepy, objectifying comment about a woman athlete. HVM tells him why that's creepy and grossGod what a creep. I hate when they do that then act innocent ‘oh I just complimenting her blah blah blah’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:31 AM |
| 29 | Took myself out on a date today!Wow! That brownie looks so droolworthy. Nothing better than spending time with yourself 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:30 AM |
| 14 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenThey can’t compete with these fictionalised men that they know are much better than they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 11 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenYes please! Why can’t we have both? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 17 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenThat is so true! Yet another thing they blame on women. ‘Women have high expectations because they’re watching rom coms’ Who made these rom coms? What agenda do they have and what are they pushing? It’s usually ‘strong woman realises she needed loser man all along’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:09 AM |
| 46 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for women100%. There was a post on FDS recently about a woman who found out her entire sex life with her husband was a recreation of his porn addiction with a particular porn director. Yep, Rom com behaviour is not even that far fetched. Wow, man meets woman in meet cute, they go on dates? Suddenly it’s oppression to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:08 AM |
| 101 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenExactly! Are women breaking up their families to go watch romantic movies in secret at 2am in the spare bedroom? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:40 AM |
| 42 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenThis is sooo true! How easy it is for everyone (both genders) to pick apart ‘dumb’ rom coms and it’s all seen as a bit of fun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 13 | Of course Reddit somehow convinced her this obvious case of porn sickness is ok...She’s trying to justify that the porn her husband consumes is somehow ‘ethical’ or ‘different’ because it focuses on the woman, as if he is consuming it for a completely harmless ulterior motive lol. You’re right - since when is porn NOT woman centric? It is made for the consumption of the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 9 | Of course Reddit somehow convinced her this obvious case of porn sickness is ok...What. The. F I just found the post and read through it all. All the advice is delusional disgusting and blatantly gaslighting her. Here were some highlights: scrotes repeatedly emphasise how lucky she is that her husband doesn’t beat her and isn’t cheating -scrotes encourage her husband to ‘lawyer up’ and ‘hit the gym’ because of how much she is ‘overreacting’ scrotes turn the narrative back onto her for being on his PC scrotes say how thoughtful and loving her husband must be to do ‘research’ a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 01:13 AM |
| 7 | The Cool Girl trope and how men are making us their puppetsThank you so much for your insight! I learned a lot from your post and can draw parallels to my experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 12:19 AM |
| 172 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂LMAOOOOOO! Best description. If you’re going to look like that yet demand a 10/10 unicorn woman, at least be rich AF. Vibes of a sad angry bullying high school science teacher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 21 | if you have to call yourself “nice”, you probably aren’t!I feel like the women of tiktok are closet FDS-ers! There is hope for the new generation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:35 PM |
| 12 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenBesides literally being the ones to carry and birth the children, women also need more body fat to protect the uterus and be able to have a period. Men literally have ZERO excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:55 AM |
| 171 | They are definitely more fragile.Male anger is so accepted in society. Every time a man is angry, it’s always ‘what did she do to make him angry?’ There’s a reason why provocation was allowed as a legal defence (usually a man committing murder upon being so overcome by his emotions when finding out his wife or partner has cheated. Sometimes it turns out it’s not even the truth and he was just that paranoid). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Why is every male-dominated corner of the internet lecherous? The comments on every single female pole vaulting video are just like these.ohh, thank you for educating me on that! Even worse then :p | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 11:02 PM |
| 7 | Why is every male-dominated corner of the internet lecherous? The comments on every single female pole vaulting video are just like these.Like bees haha! Male bees just become worker bees with no power | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Boy moms and their pickmeisha tendencies?I used to only want sons and the reason why was because I was so scared of disappointing my future husband or making him angry. Also I cherished the idea of my son providing me with love, even though now I realise it’s daughters who do all the caring, nurturing etc and sons treat you like you’re dead as soon as they find a gf. I can’t believe how internalised misogyny was so apparent from day 1. Also on an unconscious level, people say boys are easier to raise than girls because they believe it’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Don’t Be Kate Middleton. Imagine How She feels Watching Meghan and Harry. Why You Should Never SettleThanks. I don’t get why we are now victim blaming Kate. I have nothing against Meghan but Kate is being vilified now in order to uplift Meghan. It’s awful to call her low value because of William’s behaviour. She doesn’t ‘allow’ him to treat her badly (if he does), he does it because he is responsible for his own behaviour. It’s like the OP is saying Kate is only high value if she leaves William which makes no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:33 AM |
| -13 | Don’t Be Kate Middleton. Imagine How She feels Watching Meghan and Harry. Why You Should Never SettleI never said Harry and Meghan both dressed up as that. I just used it as an example. There is no point in comparing them was the point of my post. The media makes one a villain in order to uplift the other, and now the script has flipped. We don’t have to play into the comparisons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Piers Morgan Continues His Hate Obsession with Meghan MarkleHow do you know Kate’s mum made her change colleges? Why does everyone believe everything about Meghan when she says it but just discredits anything Kate says? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 04:44 AM |
| -31 | Don’t Be Kate Middleton. Imagine How She feels Watching Meghan and Harry. Why You Should Never SettleI respectfully disagree - Kate is a high value woman with class in spades. There are plenty of things that Meghan and Harry have done that are low value (dressing up as a Nazi, throwing family under the bus on both sides etc). There is not point comparing two women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 04:29 AM |
| 28 | I thought I knew the full extent of pornsick men's hatred of women and inability to see us as real people. They managed to surprise me!That’s beyond disgusting. They’re like primitive animals, why even be human if you’re going to think and act like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:20 PM |
| 47 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceAmazingly well written!!!! Thank you to our mod heroes for everything you do. This sub has helped me immensely to see beyond the veil of lies and pick me behaviour that have been ingrained in us since birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 38 | What kind of twisted thinking is this? „If Sex Work wouldn‘t exist, men would be even more violent to women“ I‘m so tired of this BS that libfems spread to justify exploitation of women to „prevent“ more violenceI always felt there was a direct link between comfort women and the way the Japanese army treated conquered cities (see: The Rape of Nanking) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesThe virtual equivalent is following Instagram influencers publicly for all to see. The amount of pickmes that say this is normal and expected for men is ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:26 AM |
| 67 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveIt starts with all those movies like revenge of the nerds, American pie, etc notice how these LVM always only for for the hot popular girl? And they get her too! Breeds this sense of entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:31 AM |
| 29 | Do not feel bad for having physical standards - women deserve to be with a man they find physically attractiveThe men you give chances to who are not your type end up taking out their low self esteem on you and resenting and hating you! Funny that. Scrotes gonna scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: DivorceIf I ever get divorced, and the father insists so much on wanting custody, I will give it to him. Be careful what you wish for men. I refuse to let them manipulate me through my children. So many bad things happen to women because they care too much. Oh he won’t clean his own laundry etc or take care of his own health, I’ll do it for him etc. oh he won’t take care of the children properly. GFFO with that. Just stop doing it, stop caring. Does it look like they care about us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 5 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.Thank you!! ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:18 PM |
| 10 | What are you ladies opinion on this? Do men deserve a material gift? I think that Valentines day is for us Women and my presence is the present! I don't like the idea of going big... My Lv ex wanted us to be set on a (equal) spending limit for both of us. Never againI do get stuff for my SO for Valentine’s Day but it’s usually food related. The prize is my time and company which is more than enough for him. This year I will be getting some diamond pearl earrings, a bouquet, home cooked dinner and dessert and we’re going to see a movie. I will be paying for a casual dinner tonight which he is more than happy with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:04 AM |
| 345 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.Cowardly scrotes always hide behind the excuse ‘you shouldn’t need Valentine’s Day to treat your SO well! It shouldn’t be one day, it should be every day’. Every day: Treats SO like crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:58 AM |
| 36 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!And single! A lot of FDS ladies are happily married or in stable relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:55 AM |
| 92 | Which age you believe is ideal for a straight girl to start dating?20/21. Anything other than that is too early. I was in a horrible relationship in my teens due to wanting to fit in/have the same experience as other girls. The consequences from that relationship still affect me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:00 AM |
| 28 | Red flags that I didn't know were red flags, from my "perfect" "conflict-free" relationshipWow. Was your ex my ex??? Literally EXACTLY the same red flags!! I was inexperienced and thought he was a good guy because he thought I was the one, didn’t have any girl friends, etc. Literally I was blinded and missed how sexist and misogynist he was (he hated other women and always disparaged his mother as stupid) and passive aggressively shamed me for always shopping (even though I would mostly shop for others, including getting him gifts, and I made more money than him). I was such a pick me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:05 PM |
| 9 | The logic of dating: double standards of "satisfying needs". Watching porn.Nope. They make this porn obsessed scrote to be the hero of the story whilst the woman (ScarJo) is vilified because of the crime of liking romantic movies and wanting her partner to be a better guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:18 AM |
| 25 | The logic of dating: double standards of "satisfying needs". Watching porn.Has anyone seen that movie Don Juan? A lot of men believe that watching porn is equivalent to a woman liking romance movies or novels! How is that even comparable? Oh but it is for them. They are both considered ‘fantasy’ (yet one fantasy aka men’s depraved porn watching habits routinely dehumanises objectifies and demeans women and children and is frequently illegal and/or immoral). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 5 | Misuse & appropriation of feminist language/concepts by men on RedditCue all the men and pick me women screaming that Daphne from Bridgerton is an abusive rapist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:01 AM |
| 12 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?This is the best 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMI agree with you. Hookup culture has made people think demi sexual is very unique and different when it’s how all normal humans think and feel. Do you think that girl who hooked up with a guy in the club did so because of her huge, uncontrollable sexual attraction and passion towards him? Probably not. There’s so many societal factors as play, she was coerced, she felt guilted, she didn’t want to be labelled a ‘b*tch’ for leading him on etc.... They also live to regret those experiences (and if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 05:41 AM |
| 18 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.They need to bring you down because they are regretful of their choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 05:23 AM |
| 21 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.PSA to women: They literally do not care if you live or die. See Gabriel Tostee. Tinder date, they slept together, she feared for her life so badly she jumped off a balcony after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 05:03 AM |
| 30 | Misogynistic Reaction to Women Screaming/YellingScrotes: “Women are allowed to be emotional Wah wah men’s mental health is not taken seriously” Also scrotes: “STFU women always freaking out and screaming over nothing, useless creatures they never take action they just stand there doing nothing” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 02:52 AM |
| 56 | One of the truest things I’ve ever heard is that men who say they’re “brutally honest” are more interested in the brutality than the honesty.Here’s some brutal honesty for them: you’re a sad balding fat short man fast approaching middle age with nothing to show for it. You neg women to feel superior because of the ‘trauma’ you went through in high school when the hot popular girl didn’t touch your pee pee. Your parents are disappointed you turned out this way. Them: you’re a crazy psychopath 🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 01:25 AM |
| 76 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedI have a few single girl friends and unfortunately they’re pickmes. One of them said their ideal guy is someone who treats others badly, but treats her well. She says it makes her feel special. Newsflash - I tried to tell her - these kind of guys are not good people and he doesn’t think you’re special. It won’t be long til he does a 360 (he gets angry at something you did, etc) and then bam - he knocks that pedestal off so quick and he treats you the worst out of everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:53 PM |
| 4 | What LVM really mean when they say...This is gold!! One time a guy literally put this in his dating profile (he actually put not negotiable in there too) ‘She must like games/ gaming (not negotiable)’ Translation: she must be a hot gamer e-girl, but she CANT be better than him at games. He will give her hell if she tells him to do something other than gaming. He won’t do chores or help around the house willingly. Not handy with DIY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 05:36 AM |
| 19 | "You should've asked" is a comic made by Emma that describes the mental and emotional load put upon women. You can find the English translation hereI hate when men do less than the bare minimum (cue the helpless men with a written shopping list looking confused) and are applauded and lauded because ‘at least they’re trying’. It’s always when men are typically doing what is seen as a ‘female’ hobby or activity (e.g. all the support men get when they knit, or do makeup etc). They never extend that same energy to women, it’s either you must get it perfect or you’re a poser pick me (e.g. oh you carry a skateboard? Do 100 tricks right now and re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 05:26 AM |
| 50 | I'm not apologizing for not checking your pockets before doing the laundryThe audacity! It’s the same as when women have to clean up after men because they leave their stuff everywhere, then the man rages because she put it in the ‘wrong’ place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:49 AM |
| 25 | "Boys are way better friends than girls" - I've never met a woman who has said this that ended up being a good friend and wasn't a Pickmeisha.Men try to maintain friendships? Lol. Watch them all fade away the second you express interest in another guy or get a S.O. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 29 | He acts like those rings don't represent her disappointment. And she's fifty when do women get to claim their experience?Even worse - 24k likes. 24,000 men with 🍤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:08 AM |
| 10 | What Should a HVW Say When a Man Asks Her to Pay Half on a Date?Make sure if paying, pay only for what you ordered. They usually get bigger more expensive meals, drinks etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:30 AM |
| 199 | The Tea ☕️Yup! I’ve never heard of them say either. Do you ever see men say only fans is work? No they only complain that life is on ‘easy mode’ for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 07:22 AM |
| 8 | Is it just Canadian guys?Thank you for saying this! I like the occasional travel but I never got people who made it their whole personality, and they acted like they were holier than thou because they travelled. Don’t even get me started on spending a lot for a wedding (their comments: ‘why do that when you can travel instead??’) when heaven forbid it’s important to us celebrate a milestone the way we want it, and more important to me than travelling. Travelling is deemed as an acceptable use of money whilst material go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 9 | [Rant] Men are far more 'high maintenance' than any 'high maintenance' woman I've ever metI hate other pick mes who always called me high maintenance because I liked to present myself well (makeup, hair, outfit etc). How is that high maintenance? If anything, I’m the only one doing the maintaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:25 AM |
| 37 | That’s what I thoughtLol! My ex claimed he wanted to be the breadwinner. The second I said yes to dating him, he argued with me about going 50/50 and how I was a spoilt brat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, I present to you, The Scrotes of PPD: Where Male “10s” are 5ft6 and 58 years old, racial discrimination is unfair to men only, and Adriana Lima is Ugly and Masculine. Screeeeeaming at the delusion 🤣🤣Omg once I went on PPD, I was disgusted, it was not an open discussion at all - just a circle jerk. One guy said he had a gf, but he made sure the other red pillers knew he wasn’t ‘stupid’ and that he had already made her agree to a pre nup lol and that they went 50/50 on everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"Agree. My partner does not watch pornography. The last time he watched it was when he was single a decade ago - even when he did, which was rare, he only watched the ones with a romantic storyline (never anything depraved or violent). He is an extremely considerate lover. He makes sure I finish first EVERY time before he even tries to finish himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"They’re all disgusting POS. Literally no one I know in real life is even aware that this happened (I.e. the mass removal of videos) because they’re not porn addicted losers with shrimp PPs. Bask in the knowledge that these incels are all ruining their brains with their pathetic sad lives lmao. Porn addiction steals your time, health, energy and brain matter so they’ll never excel in anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:31 PM |
| 5 | I don't understand the point of this situationship, getting anxiety over a delayed text, knowing its gonna be over on his term, letting him take up space, for what?It’s partly timing, partly finding a girl they actually want to commit to. They were just not that into the girl previous (I.e. the girl in the post who was fretting about the photo), but were happy enough to stick around for the free sex, company and emotional labour until they did find a girl they truly wanted to commit to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:47 AM |
| 115 | I don't understand the point of this situationship, getting anxiety over a delayed text, knowing its gonna be over on his term, letting him take up space, for what?So much mental space and energy lost trying to justify what this situationship is or isn’t. Notice how he says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship ever, but they also spend big holidays together and dress up in matching outfits with ‘their’ dogs? When this is over, he’ll be engaged to the next woman in 3 months, and she will be heartbroken. She will realise that she madly was in love with him the whole time and was lying to herself that he didn’t want to be in a relationship ever (newsflash … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:38 AM |
| 15 | Porn causes mental illness and paraphilia and everyday there is a post like this one asking if it’s ok to be bothered by this apologetically. How to keep shifting the tide?Disgusting. Some of the advice provided to her was for her to approach him to ‘explore his fetish’ together. The absolute audacity that a man can commit crimes, hide things from his fiancé, be a disgusting voyeuristic pervert, and society will tell his poor fiancé to explore his fetish with him! What should happen is this creep should be publicly shamed to all his family, friends and coworkers, and then be dumped to the trash and never be able to speak to a woman again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Do not coddle men!My friend is a hardworking single mother to 3 ungrateful boys. The day before her birthday, she reminded them it was her birthday tomorrow. She also told her sister (the boys’ aunt) to remind her sons the day of her birthday that it was her birthday, which she (the aunt) did. The boys all still didn’t wish their mother a happy birthday (let alone any sort of present, card etc). On the flipside, this woman saves every penny for her boys, foregoing food so that her boys can have the best etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Single dads are not more attractiveLmao so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:58 AM |
| 25 | Single dads are not more attractiveYESS. This is the reason I never swallowed the lie and saw right through the hypocrisy. If you look at any thread of men asking tips for dating etc, all the pickmes ALWAYS go crazy for single dads, yet if you ask if a man would ever go for a single mum, they always insinuate she’s ‘used up’. For example, every incel who thought Evan Spiegel was insane for being with Miranda Kerr who was a single mum. They also all call her a gold digger as well. What a joke 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:56 AM |
| 38 | Stop over explaining yourself. LVM don’t care about your feelings, and nothing you can say will change that.Yess. I wrote a letter to my ex - extremely heartfelt, saying I wished him every happiness in life etc. He showed all his friends who made fun of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:51 AM |
| 5 | He needs to subvocalize. All this hollering will come to naught.Fun (/s) fact: in China, men want to marry ‘plain yoghurts’ - women who don’t have any ‘flavour’ on their own so that they can be moulded around the man. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:42 AM |
| 74 | Men are really weird 🤨I had a read of that thread. Omg, the amount of entitled disgusting man babies who thought because they earned a ‘lot’ (lol peanuts), their future wife should essentially be a workhouse slave who deserved to be punished because she chose to work in a career she ‘enjoyed’ rather than studying harder to go into a career that paid better. Never, ever, ever lose your independent source of income. A man will always lord finances over you. What, like it’s so hard to earn money? Pssh. Men overestimatin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:04 AM |
| 20 | Just sitting here lol'ingThey’re all so stupid and fried in the head. One of the comments was about how regular porn use means they can’t be a functioning healthy relationship with a woman IRL, and it was heavily downvoted. All the replies said that person was f*cking stupid and brainwashed. Also its so incredibly pathetic that they’re all crying about their favourite category being wiped from the site. Men nowadays are so proud to be voyeuristic cuckolds watching other people have sex. Also betting that a majority of t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:34 PM |
| 7 | This is sad. And nearly every single comment says “as long as I’m in his presence 😌”Why do women bend over backwards for men’s interests, but they literally could not care less about women’s. I’d love to see a video of a guy watching a girl, feeding her, bringing her drinks etc whilst she does her makeup, but that would literally never exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:56 AM |
| 6 | Coomer logic: "You can't jerk off to MY loved ones abuse but I should be allowed to jerk off to yours! 😡".Preach!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:26 AM |
| 13 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.You hit the nail on the head. Why are women always wrong for ‘choosing wrong’? When I was getting abused, the only thing I thought of was my (also) abusive ex is going to laugh so hard at me for choosing wrong, and that I deserved all this abuse because I made the wrong choice. Men should be held accountable. 100% of the time the man is sweet, kind, wonderful etc in the beginning, his true colours only show later. But why are women blamed when they do a 360?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:38 AM |
| 26 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.They’re like unhinged animals. It’s ridiculous how women are called emotional. Seriously they think this kind of behaviour is not emotional?? I wish him 100 years of bad luck for breaking that mirror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:32 AM |
| 22 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.Definitely abuse. I reckon ‘Christians’ have fragile egos and are secret women abusers. Because my (previous) pastor’s wife told me that as a woman, we should be submissive, meaning if a man is driving the wrong direction, never ever call him out on it. Basically he should make all the decisions even if they’re wrong, and he will realise his mistake on his own. Probably they were at risk of having things thrown at them if they ever dared to tell men they were driving the wrong way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:29 AM |
| 3 | I got you, babe.Thank you! I have since realised this and we are not close anymore 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 11 | What a QUEEN 👑💕He has headphones in his pajama pocket because he’s watching porn in bed in the dark when she is asleep. Guaranteed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:21 AM |
| 25 | I got you, babe.I was nervous at an event and I drank to calm my nerves. I started getting pressured to drink by the guys there who saw me as some source of entertainment. I got plastered very quickly and tried to rest and lie down. Rather than take care of me or call someone to drive me home, my girl friend there left with her boyfriend and I was alone with only men. I was sexually assaulted by one guy who tried to corner me, force me to kiss him, and felt me up. People saw and recorded me but no one helped me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:01 PM |
| 4 | 'Christian' husband doesn't like how teen babysitter dresses, so his wife reprimands her 🤦🏽♀️Ahh brings back memories. I used to be a conservative Christian pickme, convinced that any guy I married as long as they were ‘Christian’ would treat me right. Until all the women in the church turned against me for daring to gasp go out with my coworkers, and bare my shoulders during blazing hot summer days. They even kindly offered to come over and help me throw out everything in my wardrobe /s. Cue brainwashed me crying and begging God for forgiveness for leading my brothers astray. Girl, I k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:16 AM |
| 30 | The amount of times I see posts like this makes my eyes roll so hard that I’ve probably fractured my optic nerve. The entitlement is realMen don’t appreciate what they haven’t ‘won’. Extra props if you, as a high value woman, have multiple suitors, especially if the suitors are all HVM (e.g. prestigious careers, handsome, tall etc). The one you end up choosing will always remember the feeling of winning his dream girl and this will sustain your relationship even as you both grow older. Men who want to be chased are lazy, can’t read emotional cues, and are just not that into you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 79 | Please, share your HVM stories/ relationshipsI’m engaged to my HVM. Some HVM stuff: - works hard on his career, fast promotions, no problems with his coworkers who all respect him. He always says how he wants to earn a lot so that I have the freedom to go part time if I wanted to once we have children. - cooks every meal for us and meal preps my lunch for work during the week. Cooks fresh dinner after work every night. Always asks me what I want to eat and factors in my taste (for example, I didn’t want to eat this dish he was planning on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 02:39 AM |
| 54 | this is... embarrassingThis is why pickmes make all women look bad. You can tell by her tone of the tweet that she secretly resents doing this for her ‘grown ass man’ but she has to pretend to be ‘chill’ and ‘cool’. It’s so embarrassing seeing women bend over forwards, backwards and sideways for men who use them. His first reaction was to call her upset asking where his fruit snacks was. That shows that he’s come to expect a certain level from his bangmummy and you best believe these scrotes don’t appreciate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:54 PM |
| 27 | Pickmes are just as toxic as the low quality men they worship and defend.What gets me about pickmes is they’re always so defeated, the ‘it is what is it is’ attitude when it comes to men. Like oh well he looks at porn on Instagram, all the pickmes say that’s every guy and that’s normal and that’s expected. Why can’t they stand up and demand better? They make all us women look bad and like doormats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 19 | Giving up birth control?Yessss!! Why do women bend over backwards for dusty ass scrotes? Who cares if they want to cum in you? I can’t be pregnant at all right now so guess what - I’m abstinent. So is my partner. I don’t hear any complaints. It’s my body and it would be my pain/ consequence if I was to get pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:23 AM |
| 33 | It's sad that many women still believe that being "chill" and a "cool girl" is where it's at. Sis, it's not.If we enforce our boundaries, LVMs and pickmeishas call us spoilt, high maintenance and having princess syndrome. Don’t let them gaslight you! Keep that confidence and self esteem high ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 01:35 AM |
| 14 | A word about Insta-voyeurs.Men are disgusting, they have no shame. I always see my friend’s partners like thirst trap photos, and I lose respect for the man immediately and pity my friend. Any man who follows or likes these photos publicly shows that he is okay with publicly humiliating his gf or wife at the expense of a fake image of a creation that doesn’t even exist (overly photoshopped pixels that do not even remotely resemble a real life woman). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:51 AM |
| 20 | Is marriage really worth it ? Are men even worth the trouble ?I watched a YouTube video on that case, all the comments are disgusting they are victim blaming the wife for being murdered, saying she was crazy etc. They also blame the divorce system and saying that it’s so hard on MEN who have to pay child support (for their own children lol) that men feel trapped so it’s easier to murder their entire family. WTF!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Another example of men being entitled whiny little bitches, stay mad losersThis man got a date with a gorgeous woman, he took a lot of funny pics throughout the date. The caption was ‘when you finally get a date with your crush’. The last pic got so many sad reacts and pathetic comments because it showed her going home on the train. All the comments were saying he tried to hard yet it didn’t matter because she didn’t sleep with him. Wtf?? Then they said she was only with him for his money and that women have high expectations, calling her a gold digger, a rent a girlfr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 10:44 PM |
| 6 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayWtf he is a sad sad manchild. I’ve left my bloody pads out when I’m showering in full view I’ve never been made to feel bad about it by my partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Why 50-50 men make undesirable partners: The hidden ugliness of the 'equality' mindsetI’ll never forget the first time I experienced a HVM. We had already gone on a date that he planned meticulously, paid for, picked me up, dropped me off etc (met IRL as friends first so no potential OLD murderers). He texted me after the first date that he really wanted to see me again so asked when I was free next, I said potentially after dinner the next day. He picked me up again on my schedule, drove me to a dessert place and bought me my favourite dessert. He then watched me happily eat and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:54 AM |
| 11 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandThere’s no reason you can’t do that for yourself or your family, other friends etc. why make your life revolve around him? So many girl friends I know who completely abandoned everyone but their BF, got dumped and then come crawling back crying because they have no friends left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:05 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandI’ve been with my fiancé for years (dating a few years, engaged 1 year, wedding pushed back due to COVID but date set) and we still haven’t had sex. I’m saving that for when we get married. I’m not taking any chances on getting pregnant and I hear horror stories about birth control pain, failures etc.No complaints on either of our ends. We both have never had any previous partners. Once we get married I’ll let him have that wifey benefit, I think it would be a big change. It’s disgusting how ran… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:03 AM |
| 8 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂Lmaooooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡There’s this guy I know who is fat, short, ugly and has the grossest double chin of all time. He’s bitter that women don’t want him and lashes out with angry Facebook posts saying women are only good r be bangmaids. Disgusting scrote. Hilarious when the trash takes itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡On another note why TF are all younger men in those ugly ass curly perms nowadays? Just have a look at Tiktok. Looks so bad on the guys who don’t have it naturally. Seriously looks like a whole ass joke, men are such followers SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Tribal pick me-ism : stop trying to make his family (/friends ) like you! (Especially his mum)Agree. I don’t care. Just stop caring. I read about and see women organising presents for their partner’s families, siblings etc, Nope. That’s up to my partner to organise if he wants to do it, that’s not my job. I’m not here to be your son’s slave and try so hard to impress you, GTFO I’m my own person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Resisting the urge to send a final text to my exThanks lovely. It was a hard lesson to learn that men change 360 right after a breakup. Never give them that power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:41 AM |
| 3 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?The audacity of men. I constantly have to level my tone and come off ‘softer’ in order to not offend. Sick of walking on eggshells. It’s hilarious when they start their incessant whining about things feeling unbalanced. Don’t lie about wanting this and then get pissy about it because you were dishonest the whole time. Men are so ungrateful. Mind you he wouldn’t want to pay for a cheap $30 meal for the two of us when I constantly bought him gifts, clothes etc worth way more than his measly dinner… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 23 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Omg your last paragraph just made me have an epiphany. My ex always said he wanted to take care of me, had to be the breadwinner, that he was happy to work and I could do my hobbies (never mind that I’m smart as heck and I also love working, it was never about what I wanted). But at the same time there was some dissonance because whilst at first he paid for dates etc, this slowly transitioned into him making us go dutch. I told him I was used to the man paying and that I contributed in different… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:38 PM |
| 33 | Resisting the urge to send a final text to my exHey. Don’t reach out to him. I wrote my ex a letter when we broke up. Only thing it achieved was he showed all his friends and they laughed and made fun of me. So I learned the hard way but you don’t have to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:12 AM |
| 3 | This thread made me realize how much I have been groomed. I remember this man called «Batmanforever» that wanted to meet me when I was 13 years old. He told me he was 25. Its heartbreaking to read.I remember some girls at my high school (minors, around 13/14) used to go on omegele on sleepovers. Of course random men would message them and be creepy. The girls would then post photos and screenshots from their sleepover on Facebook. The girls didn’t post the photos to shame these creeps. They did it because they were the cool girls. I remember being jealous and wishing my parents would let me go to sleepovers and be on cool websites like Omegle. It’s because men groomed girls from the begin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:21 AM |
| 20 | Why is society so obsessed with sex? It dawned on me that despite it being glorified as “healthy”, the only reason modern humans can have an excessive and unnatural amount of sex is because of birth control—which usually has a shitload of unhealthy side effects.I’ve never used birth control. I feel bad for poor young teen girls who are pressured into going on BC. I hear stories from my friends about the pain of getting them put in (the ones in your arm, the ones up your uterus), the breakouts and weight gain from the pill, etc. why are women forced to bear the burden? I’m terrified of getting pregnant. So I don’t have sex at all. No chance. My long term partner and I are waiting til we are married. No pressure from him and it’s the only way to feel sec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:37 AM |
| 4 | Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?My ex was really insecure because he always said I was so much better looking than him. He was a skinny, lanky little man child who expected me to worship the ground he walked on. His insecurity made him an asshole. He always treated me like crap and would pretend that it was for my own good. He would tell me off and criticise me for every little thing - as if he himself was mr perfect! When I would treat myself to a dress with my own money, he would tell me off for always shopping. When I would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 18 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?This is 1000% true!!! There were two guys that approached me first. I wasn’t interested at first but when I started being direct, they lost all interest and became cold and distant. This one guy asked me to prom. I didn’t like him at first but I said yes. After prom I developed feelings for him, I started to chase. He got distant and then ghosted me. I tried to analyse every conversation, every little thing, I called his friends crying as to what happened and they were baffled because they said … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:50 AM |
| 23 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?The right HVM will wait. 3 months is not long at ALL, it’s just men conditioning and guilting women into thinking it’s long. It took me 3 months to KISS my partner. In fact, I still haven’t slept with my partner (engaged) and it’s been nearly 4 years together by the way, we do foreplay etc but not the final ‘deed’, saving for after wedding. Never once have I heard a complaint, pressure or was guilt-tripped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:22 AM |
| 16 | The double standard behind “not all men”Men to women: “Not all men!” Dads to their daughters: “Yes all men!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Step 1: Try to sound smart while not actually saying anything. Step 2: Make it known that you don’t know how to plan dates. Step 3: Get blocked.Lol or any guy name starting with J! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 31 | Remember that it is not your job to fix anyoneThank you! Absolutely. I’m very happy now with my HVM fiancé 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:04 AM |
| 107 | Remember that it is not your job to fix anyoneIn China there is a saying - men actively seek out ‘plain yoghurts’. Essentially the same concept. They want the girl to be submissive and mould her personality around him, the ‘Man’. Personal anecdote from my cringe pick me days: My ex was a huge football fan. I used to dress up for his games to cheer him and his friends on (full themed makeup, outfits in the colours of his team), I would wear his jersey for him when he came over, I even watched football for him. I would proudly tell him ‘I’m n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 5 | LVM "friend" who I'm platonic with hmu for a quick bang after he broke things off with his perpetually on & off again gf. Needless to say, they're back together 🙄 thanks to this community, I've learnt that men are not your friends. You're just a sex toy that also gives them free therapy.When I broke up with my ex I wrote a long heartfelt letter to him, explaining why I made this decision, thanking him for everything and that I genuinely wished him all the best. Turns out he showed the letter (private) to all his friends and they made fun of me for it 🙃 I wish I found this subreddit when I was younger, it would have saved me so much time and heartache. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | No birthday present...Solid advice!! Once I had an argument with my HVM on Valentines Day, and we didn’t text all day. He told me he was working late so I took the bus home in a huff. When I got home turns out he had taken the day off and set up a Valentines Day surprise for me with rose petals, candles and a steak dinner. If he cares, he will show it. This guy just told you he’s petty and cares more about winning an argument than being there for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:00 PM |
| 3 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsNever settle girl!! It’s extremely disrespectful and women are gaslighted into thinking ‘all men do it’ and it’s normal. My ex used to call celebrities hot in front of me. The first time I was really upset and cried and told him how I felt, he said he was really sorry. Turns out he complained to his friend about my complaint and his boys all backed him up and said it was normal because he was talking about a celebrity. Anyway he clearly didn’t feel sorry, we had only just started dating and he w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 07:08 AM |
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