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LibFem Logiclansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:55 AM
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LIES MEN TELLlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:35 PM
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RANTlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:16 AM
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PICKME CULTURElansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:41 AM
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PICKME CULTURElansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:17 PM
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STAY WOKElansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:00 PM
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PICKME CULTURElansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:26 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:17 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCElansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:35 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:24 PM
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RANTlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:13 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:51 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:28 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:42 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?lansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 10:34 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:12 AM
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LIES MEN TELLlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:12 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:08 PM
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DISCUSSIONlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:04 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢lansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:12 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:30 PM
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PICKME CULTURElansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:06 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:10 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:26 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGlansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:45 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTElansburysoda/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:33 PM
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We used to have laws and social norms in place to stop men from doing this. This is at the base of their worst and darkest nature. Unfortunately our culture celebrates embracing depravity and the worst parts of ourselves, and this is the result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:09 AM
445

They definitely don’t wait for us lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:29 PM
145

They’re addicts and they’ll do anything to protect their supply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:17 AM
91

How to Protect a Sociopath 101
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:12 PM
182

It’s almost as if his lack of commitment to her is killing her desire to have sex with him 🙄 because having the carrot 🥕 of commitment dangled in your face in exchange for sex is such a hot exchange /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:13 AM
77

These men have quite literally hijacked their own brain circuitry to be more turned on by pixels than actual real life women. The fact that this is so normalized disgusts me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:08 AM
141

Probably because gay men get regularly tested. We know for a fact that heterosexual men are the least responsible about their sexual health and getting tested for STIs. This is sobering information, but everyone really needs to start getting tested TOGETHER before having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:03 AM
146

How to groom a generation of serial killers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:51 PM
47

Holy shit. She could literally get an infection and DIE, but muh penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:00 PM
123

Women as a class will not be emancipated until we are all free from sexual exploitation and violence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:39 PM
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Revenge porn is a sex crime I’m pretty sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:32 PM
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So if she’s poor, just rape her. Got it. Sadly, that tracks with what I’ve seen from nem. But they love to call us gold diggers for expecting what our grandmothers would’ve called crumbs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:46 AM
115

I’ve been targeted by female traffickers before. They prey on women/girls who seem vulnerable. It’s horrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:07 AM
232

I know this is going to blow some minds, but it’s both possible to Enjoy sex Be choosy about who we have sex with because women bear 99% of the risks of having sex (potential pregnancy, cancer/infertility from STIs)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:30 PM
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Honestly, I know within the first 5 minutes or so if I’m interested in getting to know a guy better. I don’t want to waste my time sitting through a dinner with someone I don’t even want to talk to. I don’t mind getting drinks (like happy hour) and then going to dinner together after if we vibe. And if we don’t, I can easily leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:16 PM
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Maybe I’m in the minority, but I’ve never dated a man who didn’t have a clean/tidy space. The men I’ve dated have been organized and consistently practice basic life skills like cooking and cleaning. One time I did go back to a guy’s place (after a few dates) and it was so disgusting that I left. I draw the line at gross and nasty. I just won’t do it and I don’t see why anyone would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:18 PM
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I wonder what women are tired of 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:55 AM
752

Honestly starting to think this attitude is a maladaptive way to deal with trauma. Like, if you’re going to be treated like shit, but you tell yourself and everyone else that you ~like it~, it’s (theoretically) way less humiliating and makes you feel like you have control when you actually don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:56 AM
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We are the backlash to this, and we are just getting started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:40 AM
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Honestly just picture them as 12-year-olds inside adult bodies. Everything starts to make sense when you realize how immature and stunted they actually are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:15 PM
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Yeah he should absolutely feel embarrassed and disgusted with himself 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:11 PM
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THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:30 PM
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If you feel anxious around him but not around most other people, it’s a red flag. Do not analyze why. Do not pass go, do not collect $100. As women we’ve evolved over millions of years to recognize danger. Our intuitions KNOW when something is wrong and your body will always tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:28 AM
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That was such an obvious neg lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:53 AM
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Disgusting. Notice the pattern of them thinking we’re “stupid” and “naive” for believing that they are good people. LVM objectify women and women humanize men. They know exactly what the fuck they’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:03 PM
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“Choice feminism” is the patriarchy. Women cannot choose to be oppressed. Every decision a woman makes is not inherently “empowering” just because she is a woman. There are many factors that come into play when a woman makes a “choice,” and all those factors have to do with material conditions. Women often have no other choice but to submit to oppression if they want to keep staying alive. Workers under capitalism have a choice between working or starving. Is it really a choice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:39 PM
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I mean most young men nowadays have been conditioned since childhood to be turned on by graphic images of our pain. Our popular media keeps getting more and more depraved but somehow anything can be “empowering” if it’s “her choice.” And if it’s not “her choice,” they don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:57 PM
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This was a whole essay 👏👏 I read the whole thing! I love this—being the “good girl” has never gotten me jack shit. I’ve been brainwashed into a kind of passivity and this just snapped me out of some of it. So thank you for this very important reminder!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:24 AM
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I know plenty of men who stand up for women. Your boyfriend let another man yell at you while you cried. He did not stand up for you. Then he gaslit you about it and made it seem like you’re expecting too much. Now you’re wondering if you’re crazy for feeling this way. Let me tell you this: every time a man has made me feel so emotional and confused I couldn’t think straight, I was being manipulated in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:50 PM
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Sadly true 😕 they only get the long sentences after they murder someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:38 PM
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Very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:37 PM
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Testosterone levels in men are nosediving globally because of chemical pollution…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:34 PM
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In the US this would’ve been a life or near-life sentence for sure. For all our problems, we sure know how to give criminals long sentences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:25 AM
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I see so many people commenting about how depressing this is. It IS depressing. This society (USA specifically) is depressing as fuck. The way we treat old people is horrible. The way we treat poor people is horrible. No wonder most of us don’t want to grow up if we can’t at least get “successful.” Not everyone gets to be rich and famous. Actually, most of us don’t get to be that. When our society is based entirely around celebrity worship and wealth worship, we’ve lost our way. Most rich and fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:53 AM
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I’m glad he knows his weaknesses and isn’t subjecting unsuspecting women to the wrong bc formulations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:59 PM
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I really don’t get that mentality. And it definitely backfired on Travis Scott 😪 he could use Kylie’s $$ right about now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:38 PM
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Stop having kids with NVM losers and expecting things to turn out well. The fact that “baby daddy” is in the cultural lexicon is a tragedy. The only person who should have access to your womb is your HUSBAND or a SPERM DONOR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:01 PM
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Lol true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:04 PM
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I bet he’s going to propose soon if he hasn’t already. She’s richer and more famous than him (not to mention beautiful); he’d be an idiot to not lock her down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:36 PM
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The inevitable right-wing backlash against this is going to be massive. Many of us who once considered ourselves left wing will find ourselves siding with the people who want to ban abortion and gay marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:13 PM
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Oh boy, do I have a bridge to sell you. They absolutely are that bad. According to them, anything can be “empowering” as long it’s “her choice” and anyone who speaks out against this is (insert here)-phobic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:10 PM
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This attitude is a sure fire way to make yourself unattractive to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:40 AM
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The trophy she got for getting picked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:02 PM
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I really wish women would stop sleeping with these dudes and stop having their children. Stop at the first red flag. The more of us who stop putting up with male chauvinist pigs, the fewer of them will be able to reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:46 PM
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The autopsy results showed that she’d ingested multiple date rape drugs but it was still ruled an “accident.” What a fucking joke, I hope the scum of the earth who did this goes to prison forever. Who knows how many other women he’s done this to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:02 AM
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I don’t agree with this at all. Plenty of times I haven’t been the one to initiate sex but I was still into it. Men know when they are raping someone. They KNOW. They know Every. Single. Time. THEY KNOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:23 AM
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imaginary girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:13 AM
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This is the energy we need. So glad to see women finally giving misogynists a taste of their own medicine. They have no fucking idea how much we’ve been keeping to ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:03 AM
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Wow, did we date the same guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:52 PM
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Holy shit, imagine having to realize this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:31 AM
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Fan fiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:07 PM
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First of all, I am so sorry. Second, I’m a similar age in a similar situation. HPV is extremely common and most people get it at some point, which is why it cannot be treated with a typical STI model. I’ve learned a lot about HPV in the time since my diagnosis, and the most important thing to understand is that cervical cancer typically takes a decade or so to develop. At your sister’s age, it is extremely unlikely that she has cancer. She probably has pre-cancer, which is treatable. Unfortunate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:13 PM
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How much do you want to bet that most of them are lying about being in “open relationships”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:34 PM
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Seriously. I wish I knew this 10 years ago. It’s a major red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:44 AM
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Fucked around… Found out 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:16 AM
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🤣 so fucking true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:56 PM
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Make Shaming Depraved Men Cool Again 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:33 PM
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Being with an old divorced man vs. being alone? I choose being alone 🥰 I’m in my 20s btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:18 PM
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Why are they so obsessed with 30+ women if they supposedly “hit the wall”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:54 PM
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Amen 🙏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:20 PM
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The audacity of expecting a woman to RISK HER LIFE to suck a dick… un fucking believable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:12 PM
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Being nice has only gotten me treated like a doormat by men. It’s definitely better to be a bitch. Most men don’t respect nice women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:39 PM
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She recently gave birth, he’s never given her an orgasm, but she won’t give him road head or anal 😕 and anal is his KINK 😢 time for divorce?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:55 PM
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Grooming a generation of men to be violent sexual predators… what found go wrong 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 06:28 PM
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It’s to lower your self esteem so he can call you whenever for a quick fuck and maximize his reproductive potential
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:06 AM
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Lol facts. According to them women are “losing value” starting the day we turn 18😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:28 AM
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Don’t men realize that they’re aging as well? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:02 AM
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Why is it that they claim men are in their “prime” when they’re in their 30s but apparently women “hit the wall” at 25?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:21 PM
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I’m in my mid-20s and I completely relate to how you feel. Every relationship I’ve had has made me angrier and more resentful. I’ve been kind, patient, and accepting, and being a “good person” has done exactly jack shit for me. It’s made me a target for horrible and manipulative men and it’s made me hate the fact that I see the good in everyone and give people the benefit of the doubt. I’ve become cynical because I truly believed men were better than this. And I see people I know dating/marrying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:15 PM
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Men are ruining our sex lives too with this shit. I’m done having sympathy for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:12 PM
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There’s nothing more triggering to a scrote than a woman with standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:01 PM
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And we’re the ones who get called “gold diggers.” Everything they say about us is projection. Imagine thinking a soap dispenser is optional 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:40 AM
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“Day trader” + student = unemployed Glad you blocked him! They’re really out here trying to make us feel like shit on purpose 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:37 AM
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Because porn and libfem culture have ruined how they see sex. A huge % of porn is just rape/sexual violence and now they think that’s how sex should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:32 AM
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How much do you wanna bet that he’s ugly af and she’s pretty? I’d bet money on it. It’s been scientifically proven that men physically and emotionally abuse women they perceive to be BETTER than them. It’s a way to “mate guard” and make sure you don’t lose your breeding mare— break her down physically, psychologically, and/or emotionally. The idea is to break a woman down so far that she won’t leave. If you’re interested in learning more about this, go watch the recent interview with Dr. David B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:52 PM
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I didn’t think of children, but good point. I’d put them first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:05 PM
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Do not use OLD! Try to meet men in real life who are very involved in living their lives—men who play sports, are involved in activities and clubs, etc. These are the kinds of men you want to meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:25 PM
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I’m not donating my kidney to anyone other than a parent or sibling. Fuck that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:09 PM
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And I was never good at telling jokes, But the punchline goes: I’ll get older but your lovers stay my age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:07 PM
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There’s no “sex work.” The “worker” is the product—her (sometimes his) body is the product—and the John is the customer. You can’t buy someone’s flesh and blood like that and call it a “job;” that’s a false equivalency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:22 AM
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I seriously hope so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:28 PM
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I honestly don’t care. I commented on a post. You’re the one arguing with a stranger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:28 PM
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That wasn’t me… I don’t know who you’re referring to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:26 PM
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She claimed she “didn’t know who the prince was” even though she’d written about British royalty on her blog before she met Harry. She also claims that she never googled Harry… I mean come on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:14 PM
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To be fair, Harry seems hopelessly naive. He’s been sheltered his entire life. Meghan seems smarter than him and she’s also bad at hiding her lies/manipulation so the fact that he doesn’t see that at his age is pretty shocking. Or maybe he just doesn’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:51 PM
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Does he even… like her? Much less love her? What the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:18 AM
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It’s like a representation of how degraded our society has become on all levels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:04 AM
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I mean most of these “real” diamonds were probably unethically mined likely using child and/or slave labor. I’d rather have an ethical stone than a blood diamond but that’s just me 🤷🏼‍♀️ Also, he still spent a large chunk of change on that ring. That shows investment and caring to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:57 AM
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Men nowadays mostly marry for money anyway (outside of rural areas where “traditional” values are still a thing). They love to accuse us of being gold diggers but most of them won’t commit even to a relationship with someone who isn’t of equal or higher economic status. So… what the fuck is the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:41 PM
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SO similar. They are boring as fuck. It’s like they came from the same fuckboy island
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:39 PM
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Yeah honestly it makes me want to delete Reddit because it puts me in a terrible mood too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:37 PM
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Honestly the only way I can see to get around this is to avoid being alone with him in a private place until he’s asked you to be in a relationship. If you don’t have sex before a relationship is defined, you never have to worry about being in a situationship. And if he gets frustrated and gives up? Good. He didn’t really want you in the first place. Being alone with a man in a private place (car, room, apartment) gives him the chance to coerce you, drug you, and/or rape you. Finally, date multi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:31 PM
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Same. I believed him when he said his ex was insane and diagnosed with a litany of personality + psychological disorders. He made me feel bad for him. Straight out of the narcissist playbook. Compulsive lying is normal to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:59 PM
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Facts 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:45 PM
140

Wouldn’t be surprised if they never actually broke up officially in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:31 PM
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Liar = you have no idea how many other things he’s lied to you about Apparently claims to be a “victim of abuse”. A classic male abuser tactic is to play the victim and claim the (female) ex was abusive. The bottom line: he was fucking two women at the same time and now he’s trying to cover his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:13 PM
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You should always be dating multiple men if you’re dating at all. Don’t act like you’re in a committed relationship at this early stage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:58 AM
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It sounds like you need to take a break from dating for awhile. This sounds almost like an addiction because you said none of it is even satisfying anymore. Take at least a month off to be celibate and see where else you can channel your energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:39 AM
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There’s no “his money” when one parent is the breadwinner and the other is the child rearer. There is only “our money.” My grandmothers would have been SHOCKED by this question. This shit would be almost unheard of in the 1950s. This is exploitation and financial abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:58 AM
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Imagine if we said this about men 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:28 PM
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Came here to say this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:45 AM
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Both people involved in this story are gross 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:19 AM
38

Facts 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:15 AM
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Nah. They’re expecting us to do all that shit without the commitment of marriage or even a relationship, and plenty of pickmes are falling for it 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:18 AM
132

Some women get back at what the patriarchy did to them by inflicting their sons on other women and living vicariously through their sons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:53 AM
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✨Normalize not having children out of wedlock✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:51 AM
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Yeah if you want to be a “cool girl” you’d better do whatever men want 🙃 sex, anal sex, blowjobs, all without commitment—that’s the definition of “empowering”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:44 AM
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When a man enters a transactional relationship dynamic and then is shocked that he has to uphold his end of the transaction 🙄 the delusion & entitlement are off the charts. If it was only about physical attraction, most women would choose to date men in their 20s. Sorry not sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:31 PM
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I agree 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:39 PM
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Hit the nail on the head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:15 PM
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Liberal feminism is a fucking scam and it’s the newest iteration of the patriarchy. Let me say it again. LIBERAL FEMINISM IS THE PATRIARCHY. We’re supposed to be living sex dolls for men and if we don’t put out, we’re not “cool”. And if we’re not “cool,” it apparently gives some incel jUstIficAtiOn to shoot up a school, or a street, or a supermarket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:32 AM
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I’m so fucking glad I found FDS before this became my reality. I’d be out of that situation so fucking fast. Easier to be a single mother than deal with that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:56 AM
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I’m so sorry. This makes me so angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:43 PM
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100%. They wouldn’t put up with even 1% of the shit we’re expected to be GRATEFUL for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:37 PM
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It’s so fucked up and sadistic. It’s abuse. These are the kinds of perverted and manipulative NVM who inevitably escalate their violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:23 PM
179

I’m completely done using OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:50 AM
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Yup I’m sure he does. The newest iteration of the patriarchy is to brainwash women to be doormats 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 07:38 AM
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It’s the fact that she feels guilty for not paying for a grown man’s (a virtual stranger’s!) vacation for me 🥴😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 07:00 AM
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I wish I could pin this comment 😩 this is literally what’s happening but the emperor has no clothes at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:45 AM
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OP is a fucking loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:12 AM
221

Anyone who says “sigma male” seriously is beta as fuck 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:10 AM
42

On the positive side: you’re already packed up and ready to leave him 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:08 AM
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🤣 I would dump his ass so fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:06 AM
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It’s not cheating if you say it’s not cheating!! /s Seriously wtf is wrong with people 🥴 Philip is a NVM for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:05 AM
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But of course the person who answered her letter gaslit her and wrote, “This is about respecting your adult daughter’s choices. You have substituted your idea of happiness for hers. This is a common (and often well-intentioned) trap for many parents. It’s not productive, though.” What in the pickme hell 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:52 AM
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Linked article here. Of course the advice is to be mOrE aCcepTiNg 🤮https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/13/style/daughter-boyfriend-polyamory-social-qs.amp.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:46 AM
53

Men are terrified of jail because other men are there but turn around and call us liars 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:46 PM
240

4 years after birthing his child she finally gets the girlfriend title. Have we hit peak pickme? I feel so bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:42 PM
14

Tough times make strong men. Easy times make weak men. Or something like that. Men are made by their circumstances and unfortunately most men today have been raised on violent pornography and redpill manipulation tactics🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:36 PM
452

Mick Jagger is at his estate on the Caribbean island of Mustique with Melanie Hamrick, 35, who gave up her ballet career after giving birth to their 4-year-old son, Deveraux. “They’re an official couple. He cut the strings with every other lover,” said my source. “He’s introducing her as his girlfriend, having cast aside his other girls.” Excuse me while I vomit 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:13 PM
32

This sounds like radical feminism—highly recommend you look into it :) IMO it’s actual feminism unlike the bullshit that’s marketed to us today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:32 PM
31

At this point why the fuck would any of us get married to and have children with these monsters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:24 PM
46

Is the sky blue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:56 AM
106

I could feel his entitlement and resentment through the screen 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:18 AM
197

“get to” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:12 AM
230

This is the way. Confusion only adds stress to my life. I’d rather be single than stressed 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:09 AM
338

Classic NVM playing “devils advocate” 🤮 never again. Throwback to my ex empathizing with the guy who raped me (someone he did not know who lives in another area of the country) while simultaneously questioning whether I made the whole thing up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:37 PM
28

Well he got one thing right—I’m sure as hell not getting into a virtual stranger’s car
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 08:46 PM
38

Young women are being thrown to the proverbial wolves with this shit. Like sheep to a slaughter. I wish every teenage girl could be educated about TRP and “seduction” before they end up spending the rest of their lives in therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 08:37 PM
21

That’s actually not true. People only married that young if they were royalty (but wouldn’t live together until they were older) or in times of violence and warfare. For most of history, people have coupled off sometime between the late teens and mid 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 08:00 PM
44

Too many men have grown up with no fathers or LVM fathers, and this is the inevitable consequence. Men need to bring back healthy masculinity as a goal instead of this libertine model of irresponsibility and depravity. It’s up to men to fix themselves. But doing hard things is hard, so most men will succumb to what’s easiest (porn addiction, alcohol dependency, not working out, eating shit food, treating women like shit, etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:48 AM
48

There’s a lot of future faking going on here. Tread carefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:24 PM
5

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:03 AM
17

At least they’re married. From my understanding, his debt became her debt when they tied the knot (I could be wrong though). She’s essentially paying for his bad financial situation now instead of letting interest pile up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:13 AM
29

My instincts are ALWAYS right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 02:09 AM
70

Better alone than Emotionally abused By a loser scrote \ Give me love, respect, and loyalty—or else please Go the fuck away \ To me, love was warmth. To him, a game to break me down. I’m done playing. \ Please threaten me with Ice cream, cats, and Netflix films My favorite things \ RedPill men want to Date us but they also hate Us. Please explain why??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:22 PM
17

The most entitled generation of men in recent history meets the most insecure generation of women in recent history. What could go wrong? /s 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:30 PM
28

He comes from a wealthy and famous family… I wonder if he has money hidden somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:57 AM
72

She’s securing the bag for the rest of her life, I guess. #YasQueen /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:43 AM
5

Thanks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:25 PM
15

Question, what do you do for a living? I’m interested in pursuing this lifestyle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:12 PM
70

I hope they “take a break” and she finds someone better 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:50 PM
348

I’m willing to bet that Sean + his fiancé put this rule in place BECAUSE they’re sick of OP stringing his forever girlfriend along. All OP has to do is propose, and boom, problem solved—but no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:57 AM
153

Exactly this. We’re the ones who always wanted relationships and THEY are the ones who wait until they’re washed up to settle down. Nearly everything they say about us is total projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:06 PM
43

Attempted reckless homicide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:24 PM
26

Playing the victim is a classic manipulative tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:06 PM
59

A large percentage of men are abusive and it is impossible to change an abusive man. Learning psychological lingo will only make him a better abuser. The only thing to do is to learn how to recognize abuse and then set strong boundaries around what you will accept. Walk away at the first sign of abuse. And read why does he do that? By Lundy Bancroft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:41 PM
97

They say “you’ll never find a man” like it’s a threat… have you seen the state of most men nowadays 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:31 AM
109

You may think you’re mature for your age, at the height of your beauty, and simply irresistible for these reasons, but I promise you—you will see things far differently in hindsight. Older men who go after barely legal women are PREDATORS. They are going after you BECAUSE you don’t know what manipulation looks like. They’re going after you because you’re eager to please and easy to impress. They’re going for you because they want to feel powerful. In my grandmother’s generation it may have been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:56 PM
26

Are you talking about The Heart Principle by Helen Hoang?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:40 PM
9

The more successful you are, the more haters you will have. Look at the most successful people you know—they also conversely have the most people who dislike them. Pick your battle: be your full self and risk being disliked, or hide yourself to appease others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:16 PM
76

See ladies? If you suffer for decades in a relationship, sacrificing everything for someone else, one day he will suddenly wake up and treat you with the respect you deserve! 🥰 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:38 PM
159

Where do these child-men come from? NONE of the men in my family are like this. They’re all extremely organized and put together. I wouldn’t put up with weaponized incompetence for a second because I’m used to men who care about the people and spaces around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:52 AM
119

The sex robots they keep warning us about can’t come soon enough 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:26 PM
113

It’s nearly 2022 and they still don’t know where the clitoris is 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:20 PM
143

“We did not use protection.” False. HE did not use protection. NVM will really try to take zero responsibility for their actions. Funny how it’s so often “all her fault” until it happens to their daughter. Then men magically have a solid understanding of how other men actually operate. This is rape culture in action. This is what the perverted libfem media has taught us to accept as “normal.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:17 AM
321

This isn’t groundbreaking or controversial at all. This is what we’ve been taught since we were girls: that our looks matter but his don’t, that we can learn to be attracted to someone based on “who they are inside.” Meanwhile, men don’t give us even a fraction of the grace we give them. So it’s a no from me. I refuse to date a man I’m not attracted to. I like muscular men who take care of themselves. I eat well, work out, and I expect any man I date to do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:42 PM
226

If at least 1 in 4 women has been raped (and I’m convinced this is more like 2-3 out of 4 women) that means that a huge percentage of men are rapists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:52 PM
30

To add to this: another part of the new patriarchal dynamic is men dangling the carrot of commitment while women desperately play the “cool girl” while sleeping with him and hoping they get picked. Meanwhile, men are the ones who benefit the most from being in committed relationships. The channel “Ana Psychology” has a video about this on YouTube but I forget what the title is. Edit: the title of the video is “Watch this if you want him to commit (CLICKBAIT LOL)”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:45 PM
116

The barrier to entry needs to be higher for sex. Women face a high risk of getting STIs and potential unwanted pregnancy, while sex with a man for us usually doesn’t even give us an orgasm—and on top of that, we risk becoming the subject of sexual violence. So no, I will not be having sex with a man until I’ve known him for months and we’re in a committed relationship. This means never being alone with a man in a car or a home if I can avoid it. Ask me why I know to avoid those things. The stake…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:28 PM
44

This is why being “low maintenance” is a libfem scam. Keep your standards high and don’t take any shit from anyone. You’re a woman not a doormat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:08 PM
13

Serious question, but how do we avoid this before having sex? No sex before commitment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:01 PM
22

Ah yes, blaming the victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:43 PM
822

Now… we’re learning to have better sex without you How can we speed this process up 😩 can’t wait for the day when men like this leave me tf alone Don’t threaten us with a good time and then not deliver
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:27 PM
208

Not to mention anal cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:35 PM
165

And they wonder why this page exists. Dating men has become a hellscape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:19 AM
115

Please don’t take this the wrong way, but your epilepsy is not the issue here. The issue is that LVM will cling onto any vulnerability you share with them and use it to try to destroy your self esteem so you settle for less with them. They’ll use literally anything to convince you that you aren’t good enough. One of my friends has epilepsy and she just got engaged to a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:59 PM
6

Thankfully it seems like Hollywood is crashing and burning because their business model no longer works. People only go to the movies to see superhero or horror films at this point. They’re scrambling find purchase and honestly, I hope they go down in flames. They deserve it. And don’t even get me started on how most female characters in Hollywood movies are stereotypical figments of the perverted male imagination—from the “cool girl” to the nagging wife to the manic pixie dream girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:55 PM
17

Is anyone else over Hollywood? It seems like most of their films covertly (or overtly) promote pedophilia and depravity. The writing is mostly shit and the actors mostly can’t act because they’re only there because of nepotism. Leo is admittedly a good actor, but he doesn’t take care of his looks and it shows. I’m over the forced “sex positive” narratives, the juvenile writing, and the promotion of pedophilia and age gap relationships. I’ve mostly been watching Asian dramas lately and the differ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:42 PM
54

Yes, they exist. I personally know an amazing, successful, older divorced man in his 50s with children who divorced his wife after years of her emotional abuse. I’m not sure who decided on the divorce, but LVW definitely do exist. He’s such a kind person and his ex wife was cruel to him. He found a similarly successful woman around his own age who is also divorced with kids and after a few years of dating, they’re engaged. He put on an entire concert banquet just to propose to her. So yes, they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:33 PM
43

Men who call out misogyny and stand up for women immediately become 10x hotter 🥵🔥💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:40 PM
348

Friendly reminder that redpill creeps call women “the oldest child in the house” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:38 PM
307

FIFTY-EIGHT 🤮 Shouldn’t he be with his wife and kids? At that age, that’s where he’s supposed to be. If he’s not, there’s probably something wrong with him. I said what I said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:55 PM
116

Anything other than “hell yes” is a “no.” It doesn’t matter how beautiful, successful, smart, caring, and wonderful you are. You can’t squeeze milk from a rock and you can’t change the mind of a man who doesn’t love you. They know within minutes of meeting you whether or not you’re the woman for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:29 PM
692

The words “pregnant” and “girlfriend” shouldn’t even be next to each other. Good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:39 AM
53

Lazy men are a turnoff. Bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:56 AM
33

Such great points 🙏 I’ve compared it to being in a cult of (his) personality where I was the only member
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:48 AM
503

Scrotes on another post are commenting saying this was “cOnsenUaL” since she agreed to meet him and got in his car. We aren’t even human to them. 🤬 NEVER get into a car with a man alone if you can avoid it. We are living in an absolute cesspool of depravity out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:13 AM
68

I had such an amazing father and I worry that I’ll never meet a man who’s worthy of being the father to my hypothetical future children 😭😔 the bar is set so high and most men in this generation don’t even come close
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:54 AM
314

Lots of abusers start being abusive during pregnancy. That’s when the mask finally drops and the real them comes out. They feel like they have ultimate control and can do whatever they want since a woman is in a vulnerable place. I fear for this woman and I worry this is only the beginning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:50 AM
18

Barring a major come-to-Jesus moment, these men don’t change. Fundamentally, a person who cheats will always be likely to cheat again. Compulsive lying is pathological and it’s a feature, not a bug. Meaning it’s not going to stop. Abusive men—I don’t think I even need to get into that bc fds is very clear on that and many of us have read Why Does He Do That? for this reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:47 AM
276

This is literally exactly what every man I’ve dated has told me 🥴 he was perfect and his ex was crazy/abusive. The projection is so strong with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:28 AM
131

Seriously. If a man is “honest” with you about how he was a cheater, an abuser, a liar, etc—that is your sign to RUN Ask me how I know 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:59 PM
125

“Love Don’t Judge” Nah. I’ll judge the fuck out of anyone who deserves it. Shame is a good thing sometimes. It regulates society and keeps depravity in check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:16 PM
83

Ladies, repeat after me… I WILL NOT HAVE A CHILD BEFORE I GET MARRIED (unless I decide to have a child alone via a sperm bank)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:03 AM
37

The original show was lib fem pickme propaganda and it taught terrible “lessons” to young women about how casual sex is “liberating” and how you should DiScoVeR wH0 yoU aRe by putting a bunch of different dicks inside you. Uh, no thanks. I can think of a million better ways to discover who I am. The show is morally bankrupt, crude, and frankly embarrassing at this point. But then again, so is most of American media. I almost exclusively watch Asian dramas for this reason, highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:12 AM
48

He refuses to accept accountability. Good for his daughters for cutting him off. I’d have done the same. I’d bet good money that this man is fugly af. It’s almost always the NVM who have nothing going for them who pull this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 08:01 AM
101

If he’s been with his “affair partner” and second family for 13 years, then that means he started cheating on his wife with her when SHE WAS 19 AND HE WAS 35 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:49 AM
46

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:44 PM
85

Same here. My dad is amazing. Dating has been a shock for me because growing up I assumed most men were like my dad 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:25 AM
126

I don’t understand how any woman would put up with this shit. My father always did 50% of the housework (or more) and I consider that to be the bare minimum from a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:56 PM
29

Women have literally ALWAYS worked. There was a small period of time where mostly middle class white women got to be SAH mothers in the 1950s and 60s. And even then, many of them went to work once their children were in school. That’s IT. For the rest of time immemorial women have worked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:33 PM
63

I guarantee you if the roles were switched, they’d be demanding that she pay the exact same amount. They hate us when we’re rich and they hate us when we’re SAH mothers. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:23 PM
35

90 day fiancé has entered the chat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 07:55 PM
44

A rich old woman with $$$ can absolutely get an attractive young man. The difference is that most of us wouldn’t want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 07:29 PM
82

Funny how nearly every guy is somehow a “good guy” according to their male friends, no matter how many depraved and violent things they’ve done. I’ve heard men defend their friends even after they’ve been kicked out of uni for rape. Men might be #1 at rape, and they sure seem to love it based on the statistics, and the fact that almost every one of my female friends has been raped🤬but I’m convinced that their absolute passion and reason for living is avoiding accountability at all costs and vehe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:36 AM
7

Therapy. Emotional eating manifests as a physical problem, but ultimately it’s an emotional problem. It’s not an easy road but if you can start taking a few steps, you’ll eventually get to where you want to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:52 AM
17

It’s sad but my first reaction was “at least he didn’t rape her” 💀 as if that proves he’s a great person. The bar is hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:43 AM
83

That’s straight up racist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:27 AM
47

When delusion meets reality🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:13 PM
161

The Wall spares no man 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:11 PM
74

Curable for now. Apparently some STI strains have developed antibiotic resistance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:57 PM
49

This!!! The younger generation of men is getting so fucking creepy 😰 I’ve had fine experiences with older male doctors and surgeons but there’s something off with like 50% or more of the ones in their 20s and 30s. Like they’ve been injecting porn into their brains since childhood and redpill propaganda since they were teenagers and now their minds are completely addled when it comes to women. It’s a completely creepy, uncomfortable, and unprofessional vibe that I’ve never felt from older male do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:46 AM
67

THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:03 AM
45

Wtf is wrong with them 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 03:49 AM
33

3 years and he’s not your boyfriend? BYE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:29 PM
37

It’s not about sex for them. It’s about manipulating and abusing women to feel an ounce of power for once in their pathetic lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:44 PM
25

Tavi Gevinson has a great article about this in The Cut. Taken from the article: If teen girls — or young women — are encountering adult men socially, they are navigating norms and expectations that were built to rationalize men’s behavior. They are not inured to power imbalances or how power may complicate consent. They are not historically taught to leave a sexual encounter the moment that it becomes violent or to subordinate men’s desires in favor of their own pleasure or safety. They are tau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:45 PM
221

We can’t win no matter what we do. Stay at home mom? Gold digger. Working mom? Heartless crone who doesn’t love her kids. Career woman? Post-wall hag who should’ve married someone when she was 20!!!!! Woman who invests everything into her relationship instead of her career? Gold digger 🥴 No kids? When are you having kids? Why aren’t you having kids? Single? What’s wrong with her? It never ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:04 AM
147

100% of the time when I’ve dated men, I’ve ended up in a worse place psychologically, physically, and emotionally. Meanwhile, in all those categories, they’ve ended up way better than before through dating me. At this point, I’m in a position in my career where I’m probably going to be making more than most men in the next few years. If they can’t provide any positives in my life sexually and emotionally, what is the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:07 PM
128

I won’t change my last name. I’m no one’s property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:05 PM
11

Thank you 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:42 AM
19

I’m sad for her too honestly. She deserved better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:38 AM
34

I’ve been there. Never again. I’m still so angry at myself. Thank god for FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:26 AM
8

Holy shit, did we date the same person 😂 he did 80% of these things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:39 PM
21

Yeah, I agree. Plus I was raped twice by two different men who I had kissed/made out with. The safest solution to avoid sex is to avoid any intimate contact with men at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 09:23 PM
52

Honestly I love having PIV sex but I’m done having it in a country where my rights and my personhood as a woman are not respected. My body is not up for debate. Also I’m sick of American men (specifically white men) treating me like a sex vending machine/sex object. I think it’s actually pathological and sociocultural at this point because men I’ve dated in other countries are far more respectful and actually treat me like a human being. I pick up on manipulation so fast at this point and it’s l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:35 PM
50

What about all the poor women living in red states? Are they supposed to just “remain unbothered”? They need us to be their broodmares because they need more bodies to exploit under capitalism. So many young people can’t afford to have children without living in or near poverty. This is an attack on poor women specifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:25 PM
210

It sounds like he told her some bullshit story where he was the victim and you were the cheater 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:56 AM
162

I am already actively looking for ways to leave the country and move elsewhere permanently. It’s difficult legally (I’ve lived abroad in the past) but the future of this country looks pretty bleak, tbh. Between crumbling infrastructure, stagnant wages, mass shootings all the time, and the assault on women’s rights, I really don’t see a future here for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:43 PM
175

He said those things on purpose to hurt your self esteem. Don’t be surprised if he reaches out in a few days and asks to “hang out” or even go on a date (where you feel like you have to prove you’re good enough the entire time). This is a classic red pill tactic and I’m glad you didn’t go further with him. He sounds like a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:53 PM
149

We have to pretend to be dumber than we are because we’re afraid of violent men killing us. I’m always taking in a ton of information around men but I don’t let on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:59 PM
26

They are SO BORING and obsessed with themselves but simultaneously they expect me to entertain them?? And if I get tired of this arrangement… I am somehow the boring one??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:58 PM
306

He was never a HVM… he was a LVM in disguise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:43 PM
263

Is Megan Fox an honorary Kardashian now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:13 PM
20

Chrishelle is dating one of the brothers now but I agree! She looks better than ever after her divorce, it’s almost shocking how much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:06 AM
174

This is why you need to get checked for STDs at least twice a year, even if you’re in a relationship. My last ex admitted to me (months into the relationship) that he’d cheated on all his past girlfriends. He still found a way to make himself into the victim in his retelling 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:26 AM
50

It’s because he settled for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:57 PM
18

I, too, take showers and have a job that pays enough to live. Where is my prize??? 😤 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:57 PM
71

She’s beautiful and he looks like an old pervert 🤮make it make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:15 PM
352

Surely men would never be so shallow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:50 PM
45

I said it before and I will say it again… women must like sex more than men because the shit we do for a CRUMB of mediocre attention from men is just humiliating at this point 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:20 AM
26

I wonder if there’s a correlation between non-abusive men and men who are open to dating someone older… most of the obsession with 18-year-olds has to do with power and control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:29 AM
51

If I am in my 30s and single, I will be mostly dating men in their 20s since they’re the hottest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:14 PM
44

It’s from endocrine disruptors found in chemicals and plastic, but yeah. Sperm counts are down worldwide and an increasing # of men are infertile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:13 PM
108

If he lied about this, you have no idea how many other things he’s lied to you about. Sounds like a compulsive liar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:42 PM
207

Narcissists thrive on your reactions. It’s called “narcissistic supply”— don’t give him that satisfaction. He knows he’s a manipulative piece of shit and he knows (or guesses) the effect his letter will have on you. He’s using your kindness and empathy as weapons against you. He cheated on you. That doesn’t happen accidentally. It takes thousands of micro-decisions CHOSEN over time. He CHOSE to treat you like shit and now he has the SCROTACITY to expect you to come back to him crying and sucking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:20 AM
122

Because they believe it absolves them of any responsibility for their actions in the present moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:52 AM
14

But why date them for 2 years? This is a dumpster fire on both sides
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:28 PM
42

They will literally do everything but take responsibility for their own actions. They will twist themselves in mental circles to convince themselves that they are never the “bad guy” (even when they are)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:20 PM
20

IMO, the only thing you can trust is your gut feeling. If you feel uneasy/anxious, something is wrong. It doesn’t matter if he seems like the kindest and most empathetic man in the world—eventually the mask will drop and you’ll realize your intuition was spot-on. Every single time I’ve felt this way, I’ve tried to reason my way out of it. Surely he’s so amazing that I’m just not used to being with someone this great, and that’s why I feel anxious? No. Something is wrong. You don’t have to know w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:03 PM
128

At this point I’ve dated so many of this type that it’s a red flag to me if I’m interested in a guy 🥴 because undoubtably feeling empathy for him plays into the attraction. I feel like I can understand his insecurities and help him put himself back together again—I can be the woman who helps him become the man he could be—until he turns the tables and knocks me to the ground because it was all an act in the first place. It’s got to be pathological at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:53 AM
185

Settling for someone with poor character is more like it. She probably saw hints of his LVM nature and that’s why she peaced out the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:25 AM
79

Holy shit this is terrifying. Being single is so much better than dating when I read stories like these
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:16 AM
114

I’d bet $100,000 that you’re not the first woman he’s done this to. He got himself into a mentorship position for the express purpose of having access to college-aged women to manipulate. This man is a predator. As scary as it may be, you need to report this to your school. If the school does not take appropriate action, you can threaten to file a lawsuit against them. This is very serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:08 AM
33

I agree with everything you say. It begs the question: why aren’t men writing anymore? It reminds me of an article I read a few weeks ago about how men are opting out of higher education and work. There’s a growing number of men who are NEETs. It seems like men as a class are collectively opting out of responsibility in higher numbers, and that carries over into their dating lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:41 AM
36

The most interesting part of the article (to me) was the part where they talked to literary agents who said they aren’t seeing a lot of manuscripts submitted from men between the ages of 25-35 compared with women the same age. So it’s not necessarily even something systemic. Young men just aren’t writing and submitting manuscripts like they used to decades ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:12 AM
53

All men? Or a lot of men? Maybe there’s a reason you can’t relax around men who throw off red flags… just a thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:49 PM
48

The sad thing is that even if your parents don’t teach you this, society will. Existing in the present milieu is enough to teach a woman that her sole value is her body. Even as we’re taught that education and finances are important—it’s hard to negate or override this programming. Especially when it comes to marriage and children. I think it’s totally “normal” to want a partner and children but we’re taught to be subservient bangmaids in doing so—which doesn’t need to be the case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:30 PM
58

Selling out her fellow women for money 💰 I used to like Mindy Kaling but I can’t stand women who participate in their own oppression and sell out their own class. It’s giving kapo vibes (look it up). Truly disgusting that this is the writing that gets funded in the US and that this is what is considered “culture.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:14 PM
199

I swear women must like sex more then men bc the shit we put up with to get a crumb of mediocre dick… 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:15 AM
5

I like to write, but I’ve never had an idea good enough to commit to to write a whole book. I LOVE reading and I read all the time. Not as much as I’d like to, but a lot. And I’d love to read your book once it’s published!! I’m in my 20s but I love YA fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:39 AM
40

Imagine accomplishing something this huge and the person who is supposed to be your PARTNER reacts like this. I can’t imagine. If he sees you as a bangmaid instead of a full human being, LEAVE. We are worth more than this. And we finally have the CHOICE that our grandmothers did not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:11 AM
15

Is it a YA fantasy series? I’m so inspired by this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:09 AM
106

Massive red flag. Look up “triangulation”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:37 AM
52

She is better and more successful than Jake in every conceivable way but he still rejected her. It’s not you, it’s him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:38 PM
228

Because the entire point was an ego game where they felt like they were “winning” by not committing to a relationship with you while still getting all the benefits. When you call their bluff and peace out, they can’t handle it because they feel like they “lost the game.” They essentially feel like they’ve lost control over you. Basically they fucked around and found out. It’s a game a lot of men play nowadays and it’s not even about sex, it’s about them feeling a small amount of “power” for once…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:37 PM
31

Jordan Peterson is the strong father figure many men today didn’t have. There’s a toxic absence of healthy masculinity that’s prevalent in our culture today. Standing ovation to JP for telling it like it is 👏 he’s someone they actually listen to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:04 AM
41

Please trust your gut. I had the same experience as you and thought the guy I was dating was such a good guy. I thought my instincts were just fucked up. Turns out it was my intuition screaming at me to run. He turned out to be a horrible person—the mask fell and it was like night and day from what he showed me in the beginning. It doesn’t really matter why you feel anxious. I never feel that way around men I trust or around my friends. If your intuition tells you something is wrong, something i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:39 AM
31

It’s emotional sadism. I could never treat another human being like that either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:43 PM
86

I regret every day I wasted crying over a man who never cared about me and saw our “relationship” as a game. Focus on yourself and never let anyone drag you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:03 PM
23

When you feel that way, don’t question it. You don’t need to parse out every single interaction or dissect your relationship into pieces to understand it. You just have to trust it and follow it. If your intuition is telling you something is wrong, RUN. My intuition has never been wrong. I had that feeling when I was on a date (before I was date raped) and I thought it was just me being “nervous” for no reason. I had that feeling when I dated a NVM who seemed amazing but ended up being a serial …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:50 PM
85

Never give your number out to men unless you’ve met them in person already and have good vibes from them. You never know who could really be on the other end of an OLD profile and you have to be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:49 PM
157

It’s pure contempt disguised as “humor”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 04:48 AM
112

You skipped over the part of the story where the police in Whitefish, Montana, cooperated with him ($$$) to cover up his rapes. He raped probably thousands of women and got away with it because even when those women went to the police, their cases were ignored or never followed up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:32 AM
109

I know quite a few men who are neat freaks. I wouldn’t date a man with a dirty or messy house. It’s a major turnoff for me. I also know quite a few women who are messy. The idea that women are better at cleaning/organizing is a patriarchal fiction meant to keep us doing everything on our own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:55 AM
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This is a stretch. He comes from the “stiff upper lip” generation where people (especially men) were taught to be stoic. I’m sure he misses his wife immensely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:30 AM
82

Men will almost always try to get ahead of the truth with some bullshit story. He manipulated and assaulted his ex? “She was crazy.” He has a DV charge? “She attacked me first.” Etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 08:00 PM
139

Taylor Swift is early 30s. This woman is older than that. She’s probably in her 40s and he’s around 10 years older but he didn’t age as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:42 PM
47

Teaching his daughter to hate herself, nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 03:17 AM
503

Men will literally talk themselves in circles to avoid accountability and not “be the bad guy.” They are never “the bad guy,” there is always some bullshit justification they pull out of their ass to explain away their shitty, manipulative behavior. The time to not “string her along” was BEFORE you slept with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:29 PM
65

Imagine my surprise when the guy who I’d been dating for 6 months, who went out of his way to act like my boyfriend, took me on dates and trips, introduced me to his family, and who told me he “wanted a commitment” slow ghosted out of my life because we were never actually together officially 🙃🥴 fucking sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:22 PM
15

This is why I almost exclusively watch Korean dramas. The women in them act like actual real life women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:45 AM
588

It’s the fact that my first response was “wow, it’s so mean not to let him cum”—when I can count the number of times I’ve had an orgasm during sex on one hand. We’re socialized to think our sexual pleasure doesn’t matter. Fuck that noise. Thank you for sharing this post. It’s so important to start prioritizing our sexual pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:45 AM
6

YES. He went out of his way to do kind deeds publicly (and then acted “humble” about it when people praised him) while in private he was actually manipulative and enjoyed hurting people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:03 PM
17

To add to this: “charismatic” does not mean that he’s extroverted. He might seem like a caring, humble, introverted guy. You might wonder how you got so lucky to find someone like him. Then it turns out later that the humble, caring guy was just a facade to hide someone who’s narcissistic and wants to project the best image of himself that he possibly can. Source: I have been there. Publicly he seems like an angel but privately he treats people like shit and revels in being good at manipulating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:02 PM
20

The cool girl pickme brainwashing is so strong 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:54 PM
205

We absolutely should be shaming and stigmatizing pedophiles. What the fuck. This “no judgement” culture has gotten completely out of hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:50 PM
64

100%. So many men give up on life because they can’t see themselves succeeding in this economy, and I don’t blame them. Why would they want to get married and start a family in this fractured, disconnected, distracted & sick society where it looks like our children’s futures will be even worse? Personally, if I ever have kids I hope to raise them somewhere in Europe with a strong state-run safety net and strong social ties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:01 PM
21

This should be in the handbook. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:06 AM
43

These men literally think all women are social media influencers or porn stars. They’re so delusional and they hate women. Speaking of “evolutionary biology,” they’re making themselves so unappealing to women that they won’t be the men reproducing. Thots & prays 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:39 PM
29

Muh eVuluShinarY biOLoGy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:37 PM
217

Lots of young women see how these “red pill” men talk about women 25+ and they’ve decided that they want nothing to do with those men. Source: I am that younger woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:15 PM
13

Tina Turner & Erwin Bach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:55 AM
81

The acting was SO GOOD. His facial expressions were just chef’s kiss It gave me flashbacks to my terrible relationship with a narc that left me reeling for years. The fact that she’s (arguably) ended up being way more successful than him, eclipsing him professionally when he told her that her music was mediocre, is poetic justice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:54 AM
4

I saved this comment. Thank you for this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:32 AM
233

Jake Gyllenhaal is cancelled 🤢 T Swift spilled the tea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:05 PM
91

I bet most men would be way better at sex if porn didn’t exist. It’s pretty intuitive but porn has turned it into an aggressive performance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:12 PM
46

In a world that respects women, this would be a prosecutable offense. Or at least enough to warrant a police investigation. I wonder how many bodies are buried at his farm. Side note: I am so proud of teenage girls for calling out this bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:38 PM
41

The movie was crass, cringey, and dumbed-down. Mediocre all around. This is why I mostly watch Korean films & television now. It’s obvious that American films are almost exclusively written & produced by LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:39 AM
210

So true. It’s a subtle neg. “Why are you single?!” AKA “What is secretly wrong for you?” Love bombing. Anyone who says this to you within the first few dates is laying it on thick because they know most women fall for flattery. Don’t fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:47 PM
4

Allegedly he’s a love bomber
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:10 PM
107

Funny how women used to be able to easily have kids into their 30s and early 40s back when people had 10+ kids. But somehow when the sperm counts start free falling, women have a hard time getting pregnant—and it’s supposedly our fault 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:51 AM
77

I’m not surprised that Megan and Kim are both dating younger men. It’s essentially the first time women have had the chance to freely choose to do so since the dawn of marriage. We’re living in a new era where women have opportunities to gain economic and social power—don’t let any abusive man brainwash you into giving up your goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:49 AM
37

The Venn diagram of men who are male chauvinist pigs and men who abuse women is a circle ⭕️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:50 AM
167

Taylor Swift is one of the only top female artists right now whose lyrics & image don’t pander to male sexuality/the male gaze. No surprise that liking her is considered “cringe” in many male circles. Billie Eilish used to do her own thing too, but now it seems like her record label decided she needed to take her clothes off to stay relevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:35 PM
48

Yes, exactly. And no need to gaslight yourself for “anxiety” “codependency” etc etc. I have been there multiple times and guess what? My intuition was right every time. If you feel like something is off, IT IS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:23 PM
144

If your intuition tells you something, listen. You don’t have to logically dissect it and figure out exactly why you’re feeling this way. You don’t have to parse out every interaction to justify your fundamental instincts about a person or situation. You just have to listen to your gut because it is never wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:24 PM
28

This is the kind of brainwashing that leads to women getting raped, beaten, and murdered in cold blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:21 AM
24

This is why I will never live in SF/LA unless I absolutely have to. It’s gotten completely out of control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:50 AM
32

To be fair, I’d have reacted the same way for safety reasons. Then slowly faded myself out of his life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:56 PM
21

Actually there’s a biological reason for this. Lots of men are color blind because the gene for red-green color blindness (the most common kind) is on the X chromosome. Women inherit 2 X chromosomes, so even if one X holds the gene for color blindness, the second gene will counteract it. Not only that, but a small group of women have what is called tetrachromacy, which allows them to see colors that the rest of us cannot. I’m not surprised that historically, “masculine” art in the west has favor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:14 PM
362

Imagine if older women treated younger men like this?? Just… ew 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 05:58 PM
35

Red Pill men love to complain about “fEmAle hYpErgAmY” Explain what this is then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:06 PM
24

Honestly I applaud her vulnerability. There are many people who relate or who need to see this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:46 AM
113

I’m so disgusted by all the men coming out of the woodwork to defend him. We aren’t even human to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 08:49 PM
22

Ew. I knew it was too good to be true 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 05:43 AM
42

He was so hot when he was younger, but now he’s lost his looks. The women he dates only use him for his fame and money at this point. His relationships are entirely transactional. People love to act like only wealthy men like younger women, but lots of wealthy women date younger men. Money can buy you pretty much anything and anyone you want. Dating has become a commodities market under capitalism. It’s not a flex imo, it’s cold hard economics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:02 PM
167

Wow, finally a man who gets it. Wish there were more of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:58 PM
188

This has to be a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 04:59 AM
85

These men will never admit that their problem is their 1. Misogynist view of women and 2. Hateful personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:20 AM
18

Yeah I have a high libido but I won’t sleep with any man who treats attractive women like an exercise in manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:49 PM
15

“Rehabilitative” justice is a joke. Retributive justice is where it’s at 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:07 PM
221

In nature, women have the power. Patriarchy has subverted our biology and that’s why they’re desperate to keep it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:52 AM
694

Never be Barb the Builder. I’ll be waiting at the finish line 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:44 PM
57

Oh how the turn tables 🙃 imagine if we negged them the way “rEd piLl” men try to with us 🥴 obvi I won’t stoop that low but most men are so insecure and all their games and insults are total projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:48 PM
185

She might as well lie down and let men walk all over her since she’s basically a doormat. Someone show this woman FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:28 PM
69

Came here to say this!! Western movies/tv have become so pornified and soulless. They also center the male gaze. Compare what Hollywood was doing in the 50s-60s and now. There’s no comparison. They’ve completely lost the plot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:25 PM
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I’m glad that he’s realized this at such a young age, but it’s awful that children are subjected to these addictive, violent, graphic images and then left to find their way out of that addiction alone with no help. A 15-year-old shouldn’t be a recovering porn addict. He should be excited for his first kiss. Says a lot about what our society has become
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:26 AM
69

Do you think these men would risk hitting Taylor Swift during sex? Beyoncé? Any other beautiful and successful woman? Oh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:57 AM
73

The “emotionally sensitive” constantly put-upon male victim: is probably manipulating you to make you feel bad for him (guilt) so you’ll do whatever he wants The man who talks a lot but only leaves you confused and anxious? That’s called a word salad. Look it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 03:54 AM
30

The fact that he found a way to neg you for practicing as a doctor in a competitive specialty 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:23 AM
112

FDS is also about being the main character in your own life. It’s about fighting the pathological passivity women are taught to adopt when it comes to… everything, but especially relationships with men. Don’t ask him, “Where is this going?” Tell him where you are going. If he wants to join you, cool. If not, bye! Stop leaving everything up to the men to decide! You get to have a say in your relationships!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:26 AM
193

I regret all the time I wasted crying over men who never cared about me. Be as ruthless as they are. Block, delete, and move on. Be the main character in your own life and don’t let anyone else drag you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:49 PM
44

It’s not about sex for them, it’s about hating women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:27 PM
656

It takes me less than 5 minutes to give myself an orgasm, but somehow no man has managed it. They act like it’s rocket science or some great mystery of life. One time I showed my ex how I got myself off: shocker by touching my clit in slow circles. “That’s it?” he said, incredulously. This man had been with 10+ women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:10 PM
50

POV: you’re a woman looking for a best friend/love, but 90% of the men you encounter hate you and learned strategies to destroy your self worth because one time a girl rejected then when they were 14, which lead them to some red pill bullshit on the internet and now they’re part of a woman-hating cult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:54 PM
19

Even his hand looks unnecessarily aggressive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:50 PM
22

I hope you go to law school, become a lawyer, and (professionally) kick his ass. That would be like the plot of a movie lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:28 PM
460

This is super sus. Good for you for following your instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:07 AM
141

He doesn’t deserve to have a family with this attitude. Maybe he should’ve been child free if he didn’t want the inconvenience of having to think of someone other than himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:36 PM
52

Men hitting the wall who finally decide it’s time to “settle down” and find a bangmaid. Tale as old as time 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:11 PM
27

You can Google “Silicon Valley schools no technology” and there are a bunch of articles about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:35 AM
161

Nobody is protecting children from this. By the time they’re adults it’s already too late. It ruins their social and sexual development and sets the entire human race up for failure. Yes I’m mad at pornsick men, but I’m also angry that no one stopped children from accessing what’s essentially a pocket casino filled with the most tantalizing images anyone could imagine—let alone a child. By the time those children grow up, they are addicted. It’s like trying to get someone who’s smoked since they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:21 PM
75

Humans are a monogamous species, period. It doesn’t make biological sense for a man to “sleep around” with multiple women like our culture tells us is “normal.” Women are only fertile for around a week every month, max. And it usually takes multiple months to get pregnant, even for fertile couples. So it makes far more sense for a man to invest everything into one woman so that he’s the one with her during all her fertile periods (not another man) and then stick around to protect their vulnerabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:51 PM
20

What the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:34 AM
16

Given the police footage they have of the domestic violence call, I doubt that argument will hold up in court. People saw him hitting her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:15 AM
19

😞… overall, the US has an extremely misogynistic culture too. We are barely “better” than those other places, if we’re better at all. I’d even say we’re worse in some ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:54 PM
5

Therapy or emotional manipulation? Yikes. Because women are just means to an end: male sexual pleasure. Got it 🥴 My therapist is a woman in her 50s and 10/10 I highly recommend seeing a female therapist who’s older. They bring a wealth of empathy and experience that is impossible to match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:01 AM
58

The number of younger men who are incels nowadays is extremely concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:32 AM
12

This is completely unprofessional. I’m surprised he still has his license.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:08 PM
53

Most of us like sex but not manipulation, so if he’s cute I could see plenty of women going for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:16 AM
16

Oh no! Anyways,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:33 PM
65

This is just a list of most professions at this point 😭🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:12 PM
68

Lol, good luck keeping assets separated after you’ve been married for years. I’m sure the court will respect that /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:06 PM
18

Very interesting article, thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:17 AM
22

So that means? That his “empathy” is an act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:15 PM
24

My ex was so cruel to me that I cried every day and still thought I was the problem. Seeing Gabby Petito in the police body cam footage reminded me of myself. Anyway, my ex used to say that his ex was so “calm and stable” and “good for him.” It was all a way to triangulate me and make me feel like I was the problem. In reality, I was crying because I was being abused. Listen to your gut and get away from this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:14 PM
66

Every day I wonder why marrying men is still considered a “goal” 🙄Most of them will have no problem bleeding you dry financially, emotionally, and physically, and taking everything you have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:37 PM
46

Any time a woman is alone with a man, it’s a risk. Rape is effectively legal since most survivors never report it and most of the ones who do are treated like shit by our “justice” department. This empowers and enables rapists to do whatever they want (and they do). We do not live in a country that respects or believes women, so start making decisions accordingly. Cori Bush just came out about an abortion she had after she was raped at 17 when an older man she was with on a church trip asked if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:59 PM
51

Why would I ever be interested in dating someone who sees me as a sex doll they’ll turn in for a “newer model” (or wish they could)? Morality has gone down the shitter at this point and most men don’t care about women or respect women/marriage anymore. I’ll focus on getting my coin and nurturing my other relationships until I meet someone worth it, but until then, I won’t hold my breath or plan my life around the hope that a decent man will give a shit about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:41 AM
173

If I’m statistically likely to be the breadwinner then I don’t need to compromise when it comes to anything 🤷‍♀️ most men certainly don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:07 PM
202

I feel bad for the 22-year-old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:00 PM
623

Men will wring every last drop of hope and happiness out of you and then walk away like nothing happened. Never empty your cup to fill someone else’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:52 PM
424

According to them, male violence against women is okay but complaining about it and calling it out is not 🙄🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:54 PM
217

At this point I’m convinced LTRs are a scam to convince women to pay 50% and waste our time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:04 AM
55

Nearly all these “submissive” foreign women are running game, and we absolutely love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:48 PM
249

Oh no! So anyways,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:04 PM
477

This is why I avoid cheap men like the plague. Nothing is more important to them than the almighty dollar. They’ll literally freeze their family to save $10 on heating during the winter, despite the fact that they make well over 6 figures. Also how sad is it that in the capitalist hellscape of the US, he doesn’t even think $7.5 million is enough to retire on. So many people who try FIRE are aiming for $1 million or just above that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:12 PM
17

Same here!! When I finally got away from him I’d feel this immense sense of relief wash over me. But somehow he convinced me that I was the problem 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:12 AM
53

I haven’t dated at all since the pandemic started and I’m happier than ever… go figure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:04 AM
49

Yup. When I subconsciously notice that there’s something “off” about a man, regardless of our prior relationship, my personality changes. I become standoffish and shut down. For a long time I thought there was something wrong with me, and now I understand that it’s my instinct saving my life. As women we possess a deep knowing about how we really feel about a man, we just have to let ourselves listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:00 AM
61

Ideally sex and companionship, but the sex is usually wack and the companionship is emotional abuse so… 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:59 AM
495

They’re playing a game of who can hurt the other worse, and it’s painful to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:35 AM
982

“Girls have suffered injuries” These are journalists and they’re still writing like this. Name the perpetrator. Stop using the passive voice. Men are injuring women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:34 AM
234

At this point, dating men is one of the most dangerous risks a woman can take. Which is sad because I do believe there are HVM out there, but we have to sift through way too many dangerous and LV men to get there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:32 AM
14

I think they’ve targeted it at everyone tbh. Why does so much lib fem propaganda get produced, especially in the music industry? Because there’s a lot of money in the machine, and it’s being run by men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:58 PM
45

Wealthy women who married older men and don’t work/have a cushy “job”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:36 AM
98

She’s rich, so I’m sure she has plenty of help. I know women like her and they usually have 2-3+ underpaid nannies and a housekeeper at the very least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:49 PM
297

I’m still attracted to men physically, but everything else about most of them is a turnoff. I can’t stand having sex with someone who fundamentally hates women, and that’s the majority of North American men (in my experience). Redpill ideology and the normalization of violent porn have mentally ruined most men in this generation. It’d be great if I could find a man who has divested from the women-hate propaganda, but it’s very pervasive, at least in Anglo countries. I’d love to find an actual pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:06 AM
232

Harry is currently dating Olivia Wilde who broke up with her NVM ex after something like 7 years together and at least 2 kids. He didn’t propose. Olivia freaking Wilde! These men need to grow the fuck up. Shit or get off the pot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:52 PM
331

He said the most "unstable violent societies in the world," all have one thing in common: "Young depressed men who aren't attaching to work, aren't attaching to school, and aren't attaching to relationships." It’s almost as if this is the society we are already and currently living in. How many of us have found FDS because of negative experiences with violent young men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:35 PM
36

Tbh I almost feel like famous wealthy women shouldn’t get married. Case in point: Adele, Britney Spears, Kelly Clarkson, Kaley Cuoco, the list goes on… all victims of gold digging men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:11 PM
83

Imagine paying for a man to take advantage of you and waste your time, wouldn’t be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:31 PM
58

Holy shit this is terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:04 PM
62

I’m not a sex vending machine and I would never stay with a man who treats me like one. I will not barter with sex because I will not negotiate my own desire. I am not an object, I am a PERSON. Holy shit, why are women doing this? Sex is not a currency that women give men. It should be a mutually desired and shared experience. He should put the kids to bed because he is a PARENT and she should have sex with him WHEN THEY BOTH WANT TO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:36 AM
15

My dad is HV mainly for this reason. He can come across as abrasive to others and plenty of people don’t like him, but when it comes down to it, he is a man of his word and to his very core, he is a person with integrity. I’ve looked for a man like that but in my limited experience, the men I dare pretend to be someone they’re not and then the truth comes out later. It’s honestly revolting to find out someone has been pretending the whole time—down to fake “insecurities” even. I pray one day I c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:47 AM
67

This is a personality disorder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:43 PM
69

Grimes is way too good for him. Unfortunately I think she truly did like him for him because they have a similar sense of humor and similar interests. I can see how they’d be compatible on a lot of levels but unfortunately, this was never going to work out. No man and no amount of money is worth risking your peace for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:05 PM
76

What in the sex-positive-feminism🙄… I can’t anymore smh… 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:13 PM
58

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:32 PM
53

But treating us like human beings is “simping” now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:10 PM
58

It was the sparkle of empathy and intelligence in their eyes… back when most men socialized and read books and played sports
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:55 AM
59

What the fuck is wrong with people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:04 AM
59

They’re afraid we’d treat them like they’ve treated us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:44 PM
8

🤣😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:58 PM
42

Pickmeisha complaining about other Pickmeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:11 PM
1

I use my phone so I see the comment pop up in my notifications, but when I click to read it on Reddit it’s gone so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:02 PM
161

Also, lol @ the angry men replying to my comment (and not getting approved). Instead of getting mad at me, start getting mad at other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:23 AM
236

Imagine if women talked about men this way. The men would be like “she’s weird as fuck.” It’s the double standards for me 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:47 AM
725

The sheer number of abusive men outing themselves (and imagine how many more there are!) makes me not want to ever date again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:46 PM
59

Giving men the benefit of the doubt has never worked out well for me. Gabby gave Brian the benefit of the doubt. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:45 PM
8

The Venn diagram of violent men and men who blame women for male violence is a circle. A circle of trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:34 AM
9

Or instead of doing this they’ll find a way to blame you for their behavior. My ex used to make me cry every day but somehow it was my fault for not being “mentally strong” like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:59 PM
29

Welcome to the club
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:26 PM
88

Yet another reason why I won’t be “giving him a chance” for any reason in the future. I played that game, and it sucks. Only going for attractive, popular men who are confident in themselves from now on 🙏I’m tired of these men with a massive complex because someone rejected them in high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:41 PM
39

It’s the audacity for me ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:11 AM
384

When you feel on edge and you don’t know why When you suddenly develop an “anxiety disorder” When you feel confused and can’t think straight When you get a break from him and viscerally feel like you can finally let your guard down and relax When you start thinking you might be crazy/broken/worthless When the rest of your life starts falling apart When you’re crying all the time and blame yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:27 AM
8

Convenient that the best age for men to marry is at the last possible minute lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:09 PM
274

Seriously 😭 if he convinces you that you have an anxiety disorder, run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:34 PM
38

If I’d found this sub at 18 my life would’ve been so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:33 PM
59

He gaslit me so much… seeing people’s comments on this (they aren’t all showing for some reason) is confirming to me how truly fucked up this is. Thank goodness for FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:32 PM
99

Mine said the SAME THING 💀 he even said “I used to manipulate people. I was a master manipulator.” And my 🤡 ass thought that meant he wasn’t doing it anymore lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:17 PM
204

He admitted that he watched “porn” where women were murdered, and he wasn’t sure if it was real or not. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:15 PM
66

If a woman did these things to a man, men would immediately call it for what it is: assault. But when men do it to women, we’re just ~cOnFuSeD~ and ✨crazy✨🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:07 AM
24

It sounds like your dad is desperate for grandchildren based on what you’ve said about him wanting you to stay in a situationship. Wow. It sounds like he has some kind of cluster B personality disorder honestly. I’m sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:54 AM
16

Yes 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:17 PM
159

Police aren’t ruling out a connection between him and the murders of the two women in Moab in August. Gabby and Brian were staying in the same area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:32 AM
27

Holy shit dude I’m sorry. 😭 this guy sounds like an actual sack of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:09 AM
11

Stop going for men you perceive as below your league/barely at your league and start going for the men you really want. The part of you that’s hurt is the part of you that knows you “settled” but in the end you were manipulated and screwed over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:34 PM
117

You’re not the one who changed. He did. You are not the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:21 AM
113

To most men nowadays, dating = manipulation. I’m so exhausted from being treated like a game instead of a human being. I’d rather be alone than be disrespected like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:19 AM
116

I’m so fucking tired of always putting men’s feelings first when they don’t give a shit about me. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:29 PM
7

Head Over Heels and The Heart Principle Both are technically romances but they’re more about the protagonists discovering who they are and finding their inner strength
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:52 PM
315

The brainwashing that most of us receive as children is one of the biggest things holding us back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:12 PM
52

I agree that a conversation about defining the relationship needs to be had, but I’m not going to twist anyone’s arm. If he doesn’t want to be boyfriend/girlfriend, I’m done. I shouldn’t have to force or coerce anyone into a commitment with me. If it gets to the point where you still don’t know what you are after dating for a few months, he just doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. It sucks when you’ve already slept with them and you’re invested, but that’s the truth. Not only that, bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:08 PM
295

“Exclusive” is 🤡 level delusion. You are probably being manipulated and emotionally abused. Speaking as someone who’s been there 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:48 PM
8

In a world without men, I would finally feel safe. Men are supposed to protect us from other MEN but the amount of depraved and criminal men out there is absolutely out of control. Sometimes I wish I were Amish or something and completely divest from this society because this ain’t it folks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:31 AM
26

If I have to go to this much effort, it’s not worth it. I want a partner not a child/employee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:27 AM
147

Forcing the pill on millions of young women is the height of misogyny and no one can change my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:22 AM
30

Community dick is STIs guaranteed. It’s such a turnoff when a man will sleep with anyone. If he doesn’t take sex seriously then why would he take sex with me seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:10 AM
157

Hookup culture is mostly just women hoping for relationships while men “play the field” and manipulate us until 10+ years pass and they eventually decide they’ve exhausted their options and they’re losing their looks so it’s time to propose to the next woman who comes along/whomever they happen to be with when this realization hits They are everything they accuse us of being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:07 AM
99

The delusion is off the charts 🚀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:49 PM
93

I think when his exes realize how 1. Manipulative and weird he is and 2. That they don’t want to spend the rest of their life with someone like that, it’s over. The brain finishes developing somewhere around 25 so that makes sense. Younger women are more likely to fall for manipulative tactics and be impressed by wealth, fame, etc. I think a lot of women date him for fame and then dip as soon as they get it. Kelly Rohrbach is an example of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:27 PM
82

We’re finally seeing the fruits of fatherless families and screen addiction. Thanks men, we know you’ll somehow find a way to blame this on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:15 PM
68

Holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:57 AM
81

My ex boyfriend let it slip that he was in love with his male friend. Then it turned out they’d hooked up “a few times.” I’m sure that was just the tip of the iceberg. What’s even more fucked up is that he respected his friend way more than me for the sole reason that I’m a woman. There’s a weird intersection between guys who are secretly bi and guys who are raging misogynists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:22 AM
11

Men who are interested in GIRLS instead of women are pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:58 PM
9

We live in such a pedophilic society, it’s not like this in plenty of other countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:57 PM
10

Also breasts grow when you’re pregnant. My A cup friends grew to C-DD cups when they were pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:56 PM
22

I don’t even believe this. Fertile women can safely have kids from the time they’re 18-19 until their mid-40s. That’s how people used to have such big families. The idea that we’re only biologically primed to carry a child in our 20s is a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:50 PM
51

What the fuck is wrong with these men? The delusion and entitlement is off the charts 🚀 This ad is creepy as fuck, he wants a live-in bangmaid sex doll, not an actual partner. This is how so many men see us: as simply tools to use. I’m glad his ex-wife got away from him, I’m getting major abuser/wife beater vibes from this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:04 PM
58

Let’s not shit on mentally ill people like that. This man is simply depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:58 PM
6

The original fairytales were warnings. Disney did something sinister when it changed the endings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:22 AM
24

We need to start telling men that porn is a secret fEmALe strategy to melt their minds so that we can take over. Looks like that’s happening anyway 🥴 maybe then they’ll wake up and start paying attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:18 AM
34

The thing is, all that shit is already there. And men have amazing opportunities to date women while in college, especially because women outnumber them. But so many of them have grown up addicted. They’ve never known a world without a screen. It’s tragic that no one stepped in and protected them when they were children. Tech companies need to be held accountable for what they’ve done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:11 AM
65

This list is just chef’s kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:03 AM
45

So he murdered her and had a politically correct excuse and got away with it. Disgusting what this world is coming to for women. I’m glad I’m abstinent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:03 AM
12

If 20 isn’t young enough for him, yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:47 AM
43

A lot of them are sneaky and don’t say things like this… unfortunately we have to be vigilant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:46 PM
50

Those are the washed up losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:46 PM
143

Most MRAs are under 25 themselves or they’re washed up losers with a chip on their shoulder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:51 PM
7

I don’t get it. It’s like they think I’m so addicted to them that I’ll put up with anything 😭 they’re so obsessed with themselves it’s pathetic. Why are so many of them like this?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:00 PM
15

OP, I am the same way. I come across and kind, warm, and polite to most people. That’s just who I am. Men misinterpret this all the time. In the beginning they match or exceed my energy, and then the disrespect starts. And when the disrespect starts, I cut them off completely. I don’t need that energy in my life. They’re shocked to see rigid boundaries from someone who they perceived as maybe kind of a “pushover.” My kindness is often mistaken for weakness, so they’re shocked when they see the “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:32 PM
312

John Mulaney is a classic rich boy who never had to work a real job a day in his life. It seems like all of them have a spectacular mid-life crisis just like this. I never bought into his fake “nice guy” image, just like I never believed Bill Gates’ fake “nice guy” image. Most celebrities come from exorbitant wealth and are completely depraved, no surprise there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:31 PM
92

Olivia is on the rebound too 🤷‍♀️ and given that her ex is now engaged to Shailene Woodley, it doesn’t surprise me that she did something like this to “outdo” him. Chaotic energy all around smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:28 PM
45

There’s a difference between being emotionally guarded and emotionally manipulative. Unfortunately they often look like the same thing. The only real way of knowing is to trust your gut. If you’re confused and questioning all the time, trust that feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:40 PM
16

Narcissists are drawn to these kinds of professions for this reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:38 PM
34

Romance is not a Disney fairytale. And most real fairytales have unhappy endings. Understand this now and you’ll be more pragmatic when it comes to men. Say what you want and don’t be gaslit into staying for less than you know you’re worth. If you’re anxious/crying on a regular basis, leave him. He is probably abusing you but you can’t see it. Don’t stress out so much over school. Get your work done but don’t be a perfectionist. Your work will probably be better because you’ll have more time to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:17 PM
10

“Women are chaos; men are order” 🙄 massive eye roll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:12 PM
66

I’d stay in a marriage as long as there is respect and as long as we can be partners when it comes to facing the world together. When the respect is gone, so am I.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:36 PM
8

Just shows rape is about power and control. As women we need to be protected from men like this but we know they almost never suffer any consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:51 PM
160

I’m not going to perform any kind of fake femininity for anyone. It doesn’t work. Eventually the real you will come out. Just be yourself and if it doesn’t work, he wasn’t meant for you. Don’t exhaust yourself playing these games. You’re naturally as “feminine” as you need to be by virtue of the fact that You. Are. A. Woman. Period! This is also part of de-centering men and focusing on yourself. When you plot and plan your behaviors based on “psychology” like this, you lose yourself in seeking v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:17 AM
23

Focus on your career. It’s better to work 1 job for $100k+ than multiple jobs and barely break even
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:32 PM
12

My vagina would be as dry as the Sahara 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:08 PM
235

I’ve heard this one before 💀 spoiler alert: we didn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:51 PM
10

Please read more about FDS. We do not promote nor endorse age gap relationships, nor the idea that a much older man is inherently more “mature.” If he were really mature he wouldn’t be going for someone much younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:33 PM
15

Or you could circumvent this problem by not engaging in age gap relationships 🤨 This post gives me strong pick-me energy. No one should be weighing their value in terms of a transaction in the first place. It seems like just another “eMpOweRinG” post from a covert pickme promoting sugar baby relationships, aka women selling their bodies to men in exchange for money or other rewards, aka prostitution. That goes against everything FDS stands for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:24 PM
29

This is why we don’t do age gap relationships. In 15 years he’ll be 83 and his wife will be 64… 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:31 PM
133

Honestly I feel bad for this guy. Our student loan system in this country is relentless and unforgiving. It sounds like he really needed to take time off school and focus on his mental and physical health. No civilized country would let anyone accrue this much student loan debt, regardless of the profession. It’s completely out of control. As for the girlfriend, she should’ve re-thought this relationship awhile ago. He needs serious help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:32 AM
45

Ed Westwick could have consensual sex with so many women but he still chose to be a rapist. Lock him up and throw away the key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:00 AM
164

Literally could not care less if a man is a virgin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:01 PM
48

It’s all about power and control to a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:52 PM
116

Liberals are covert handmaidens for the patriarchy. Conservatives are overt handmaidens for the patriarchy. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:52 AM
25

Thanks for sharing!! So good. Never, ever build a man. They don’t appreciate it. I’ll be waiting at the finish line…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:17 AM
41

Most men can’t handle even 10% of the pain women go through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:50 PM
59

Vile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:24 PM
130

If you’ve been on more than just a few dates and you feel confused and stressed all the time, he doesn’t like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:31 PM
40

Because people (mostly men) know it’s fucking them up psychologically but they’re addicted and in denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:04 PM
10

And this is why natural selection will not favor these men. Bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:33 PM
9

Start watching new Korean dramas. Crash landing on you is a good entry k drama to start with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:51 AM
59

A woman I look up to who’s in her 40s did this and her baby is adorable. She’s an entrepreneur who probably is worth a few million, and she genuinely earned it all (she doesn’t come from money). So inspiring. Anyway, her baby boy is adorable and she has the money to be able to balance work and motherhood. Such a badass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:12 AM
12

I’m so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:07 AM
173

Unpopular opinion maybe: Women need to stop doing this. Full stop. It’s not just bad for you, it’s bad for children, and it’s bad for society as a whole. If you want a child, make sure you can afford it on your own first. If a man won’t marry you, don’t make the lifelong commitment of having a child with him. You deserve more. Go to the sperm bank if you want but do NOT tie yourself to an irresponsible man who will potentially ruin your life and your child’s life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:40 AM
62

She’s literally paid to talk to you and be friendly bro 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:29 AM
197

Better single than manipulated and emotionally abused 🥴 they really think we’re stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:26 PM
153

When will men realize they play themselves and set us free when they do this? 😂 of course women benefit more from an open relationship dumbasses. If a man suggests an open relationship I’m finding a hotter man and leaving lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:16 PM
223

We really need to invest more in basic human biology and sex education 😭🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:29 AM
113

Community dick is such a turnoff 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:18 AM
82

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who experienced this 😭 even though it’s so annoying and disrespectful. Women are really out here collectively being treated like shit by men in a multitude of ways. Every time I learn I’m not alone, it makes me feel less broken and like none of this is actually my fault at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:46 PM
137

Dating men nowadays is like wading through a dumpster fire of incels, fuckboys, and fuckcels hoping to find a diamond 💎 I love sex but I refuse to be intimate with someone who hates me. They’re really out here making straight women waste our sexuality because they can’t find a shred of true caring, honesty, or empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:38 PM
11

Women have to achieve just like men do, what century are they living in??? They wanna be victims so bad 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:43 PM
11

I laughed aloud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:49 AM
50

I’m suspicious of any man with strong political opinions re: feminism at this point—liberal or conservative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:51 AM
27

This has to be a joke… please let it be a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:58 AM
594

RENT FREE & it’ll only cost you your body your dignity precious time you’ll never get back your mental health your sexual health (HPV, STIs) thousands of $ of therapy in the future your physical safety your faith in humanity To add insult to injury, this guy has a masters and works in finance. I’ve seen it and these men work literally 1% as hard as “sex workers”. Ladies, get an education and try to work in male-dominated fields like finance and tech. They barely work (relative to other professio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:24 AM
263

He set his wife free… he’s about 10 years away from needing a nurse Good luck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:12 PM
12

Yeah I’m honestly shocked by a lot of these comments. Wanting sex and being horny isn’t a sign of sexual trauma or child abuse. It’s normal for women to want sex. That’s why the clitoris has more nerve endings than a penis and it’s the only organ that’s entire purpose is sexual pleasure. It’s also why women’s sexuality has been shamed and controlled in so many places. Honestly a lot of men are mediocre or terrible at sex/don’t care about a woman’s pleasure/imitate violent porn so I’m not surpris…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:24 PM
21

It’s normal for women to want sex as much as men. We’ve just been socialized to think it’s not. I’m with you. I love sex but I don’t like being manipulated and treated like shit by men. I wish I could find a partner who actually respects me. My advice is to only go for men you’re immediately physically attracted to. The most attractive men tend to be the least manipulative and most genuine. Go on multiple dates and try to put yourself in situations where you can meet men (more difficult with the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:02 PM
4

Holy shit. THANK YOU. Bookmarking this post. They absolutely want to drive us to the right—so many other developed countries do not have the pickme lib feminism we have here and people are further left than here generally. Makes so much sense now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:24 AM
83

This. The hottest men tend to be the least manipulative. They’re secure in themselves and know they don’t need to play games to get a woman. Too bad a lot of women are intimidated by them and go for the medium-attractive-manipulative-fuckboys instead 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:30 PM
109

In my experience, jobs mostly done by men are both 1. Better paid and 2. Easier than jobs done by women. It’s a scam. I work in tech and I can guarantee you that my job is easier than working as a teacher, nurse, or other traditionally female job. Most of my coworkers are men and they’re not rocket scientists but they make great money. Ladies, don’t count yourselves out from male-dominated professions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:38 PM
274

I’m guessing something in tech, like he made an app. Or he got extremely lucky doing dropshipping/set up a scam to sell “courses on how to strike it rich” etc etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:55 PM
55

I like sex but I’d never force anyone into it, even if I was horny af. Yet so many men are rapists because they don’t give a shit about women 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:52 AM
145

Anyone with their eyes open could tell you this. Most men are hottest in their 20s and the ones that are hot in their 30s were already hot in their 20s and took care of themselves. Sadly, those men seem to be few and far between 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:07 PM
85

This is sad. Get a real job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:18 PM
147

Leo is the definition of hitting the wall. He was so hot in his 20s, and now he looks like a schlubby mess. His good looks are gone, and the women that date him are using him for fame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:11 PM
92

I love having sex but I hate the way so many men see sex—like it’s a transaction. Like it’s something I’m “giving up” to them. Like I’m a competition and my body is a prize they’re winning. It’s icky and gross and such a massive turnoff. When hetero women say they love having sex but they hate that the male body comes with with a man attached, I feel that. Because the way most hetero men see sex nowadays makes me want to puke. Men who think like this “psychologist” are men who see sex as a trans…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:57 AM
84

Genuinely wondering if it’s the affair partner who posted her info on the dark web or if it was her husband. Somehow I doubt most 24-year-old women are lining up to sleep with a 40-year-old married man for free. Or risk getting arrested just to harass another woman on the dark web. Her husband is probably behind all the harassment and blaming the other woman is another way he’s manipulating his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:59 PM
26

In my experience, men only show how crazy they are after we’ve already had sex. Before that they’re on their best behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:49 AM
22

The only people that need to be fed are children and the infirm… 🙄 it’s a nice gesture if someone makes your plate but why should it be expected?? The entitlement lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:49 PM
133

shocked that a man who should be a grandpa is having trouble with infertility 🥴🙄 it’s so selfish for men this age to have children. He’s wealthy and successful enough that he would have had no trouble having children whenever he wanted. 30s or 40s would’ve been a good time, but no—he had to wait until he saw the need for a nurse on the horizon. She’s going to be 55 and excited to live her life while he’s 78 and falling apart. Not to mention all the birth defects that come with older sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:43 AM
32

I was also banned from there 😂 but it feels good to walk in the light of the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:38 PM
54

Good for her. Tbh, my freeze response and PTSD are so bad that I probably would’ve been nice to him out of pure fear of violent retaliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:57 PM
5

One of these gaslit me so hard that I completely lost faith in myself. He made me think I was crazy. I didn’t know what was real anymore. I didn’t trust my own eyes or ears—only what he said was true, even if it didn’t actually make any sense. Ladies, beware
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:36 AM
63

Man: murders 5 people, including a toddler Other man: why would women do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:01 AM
163

When will these men take the take-responsibility-for-your-actions pill? They think it’s always women’s fault, whether we’re “sluts” or “prudes”. No matter what we do, we always get blamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:02 PM
362

Ah yes, the group that tells women how to avoid incels and red pill men is the same as the two groups it tells women to avoid 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:00 PM
152

Little do these idiots know the most successful abusive men act like Prince Charming in the beginning 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:19 PM
15

Standing ovation to this woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:59 AM
22

This is definitely fan fiction 😂 they’re obsessed with us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:45 PM
150

I can relate to the women in the article. There’s a massive dissonance between what I expected from “romantic” relationships with men and the way they’ve actually treated me. I’ve been manipulated, raped, and abused. I just wanted to find someone to love. I didn’t deserve to be treated this way. None of us do. It’s heartbreaking. Tbh I don’t understand how humanity can continue this way. A part of me wants to find true love but I’m just not willing to put myself out there to be abused again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:57 AM
20

One of my exes literally did both things, two days in a row 💀 I got dressed up and ubered across the city to attend an event at his house and he ignored me until the very end (while socializing with plenty of other women, of course), then the next day he flaked on coming to an event that was very important to me. Then he had the audacity to be shocked when I broke up with him 4 days later 😂 these men’s egos are truly out of control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:00 PM
12

I haven’t dated since 2019 and I’m happier and more emotionally stable than I’ve ever been. Why would I pour my water into a broken cup? They can tell me it’s not leaky but I’ve been there and done that and don’t feel like wasting my time and energy again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:55 PM
80

Ok that’s it I’m going to germany to find a normal man who doesn’t have erectile dysfunction and an obsession with hurting women 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:22 PM
11

Imagine putting a limp dick in your mouth 🤮 would not be me Porn has broken these men. But maybe it’s their karma for normalizing violence against 50% of the population and ruining sex for a generation of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:06 PM
19

Men will say shit like this and then say women are lying about being sexually assaulted and men are “falsely accused” lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:56 PM
52

Working a job and doing nothing else is so much easier than running a household
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:41 PM
94

They love to pretend HPV doesn’t exist. Letting a random scrote have access to your body isn’t worth potentially having pieces of your cervix cut off down the line. I should know. I’m currently dealing with a persistent HPV infection and cervical dysplasia. Mine might have come from being assaulted. Don’t be me if you can avoid it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:54 AM
40

This is so sweet 🥺🥰 wish there were more men like this today 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:40 PM
110

I feel like he did this on purpose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:42 AM
90

I will not be having children in the United States. Pedophilia is rampant everywhere, but it’s explicitly endorsed and promoted in American media—probably because, as it turns out, Hollywood is run by pedophiles and rapists. Not only that, but our healthcare & childcare are a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:25 PM
118

I am a very attractive woman (not bragging. This hasn’t served me at all when it comes to finding a good man). When men would treat me like shit, I had to rationalize that it must be my “shitty personality” because obviously it wasn’t my looks. I put up with worse than I deserved because I felt like I had to compensate for something. Because obviously if men were treating me like shit, there must be something wrong with me. WRONG. There is something wrong with THEM. There are so many men out the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:54 PM
31

Exactly. An extra $30 is worth it to potentially avoid a violent outburst from a scrote who obviously doesn’t respect basic social norms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:17 PM
147

I remember being 16 and thinking I looked like an adult, that I was at my absolute peak as a woman. I look back at old photos and realize I still looked like a child. Because I WAS still a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:08 PM
22

I never get why women in this group assume they’ll be doing all the cooking and cleaning. You’re not a domestic servant. If he’s useless, why are you with him at all? Boy bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:57 AM
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I’ll only consider 50/50 when I’m married. Otherwise, I need to be compensated for my time. No way I’m paying to waste my time with a scrote. In hindsight, I regret every cent I ever spent on a date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:23 AM
8

I never outright reject men. I ignore them and if all else fails, I pull out my crazy chick card. It helps to act awkward/slightly crazy if they really won’t leave. Then they’ll want to leave you alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:19 AM
49

Based on the way the commenter wrote, I’m willing to bet he’s Scandinavian. I have Scandinavian friends and they make similar grammatical mistakes in English. Most men are raised to respect women over there so that’s probably why he responded this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:39 PM
16

The heroic vampire is so difficult to spot right away.💀 this was my ex I did so much for him but he didn’t acknowledge any of it and benefitted greatly from it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:32 AM
55

Congrats to her for giving this poor child a lifetime of trauma. But at least she gets to be the “cool girl” amirite? Avoiding NVM is about more than protecting ourselves. When we avoid NVM we protect everyone else we care about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:17 PM
7

I’m not even a Christian but most men unironically need Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:26 PM
9

Imagine what he’d do to a woman he cares even less about. Future rapist 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:38 AM
40

The bare minimum 👏💖✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:35 PM
176

Henry Cavill is NOT a HVM. He dated a 19-year-old and his overall vibes are creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:52 PM
97

“Special treatment” = getting treated like shit for perceived advantages that don’t actually exist It’s not a privilege when every guy wants to fuck you. For most of us it’s a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:39 PM
19

Medium attractive and ugly men are the absolute worst, I’ll pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:37 PM
10

This hurts so much because I used to be her. Dated a guy for 6 months who told me he was “ready for a commitment” but wouldn’t call me his girlfriend. Said his ex was “crazy” because she “demanded” that he call her his girlfriend… before they moved in together the next week But of course she’s a crazy bitch who made an ultimatum. How dare she want to have a label with the guy she LIVES WITH 💀 He always talked about what a highly sensitive, caring, and delicate soul he was. He tricks most people.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:34 PM
46

Brb dyeing my hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:34 PM
63

One of my friends had a baby at 17 and it has a bunch of birth defects because her body wasn’t mature enough for pregnancy. We need to dispel with the myth that underage teen pregnancy is “healthy”. It is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:05 AM
47

If women in their 20s are so desperate to fuck a saggy scrote in his 40s (his so-called “peak”), why is arranged marriage necessary? 🤔 it’s almost like almost none of us would willingly do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:04 AM
27

Such a good point. It feels like we experience so much more covert misogyny than our mothers and grandmothers did. So many men in this generation genuinely hate women and see us as sex objects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:27 PM
135

Yet another reason why sperm banks >>> LVM if you want to have children. I am so heartbroken for this mother and for this country which protects pedophiles and rapists at all costs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:16 PM
9

It’s almost like that’s the whole point 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:06 PM
87

He’s a rapist. He’s a cheater. She? Had nothing to do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:28 AM
199

Seriously. If you really want a child and can’t find a partner, then make sure you have a good career and use a sperm bank. You both want kids but he won’t put a ring on it? Time to hit up the sperm bank. I can’t tell you how many single mothers I know whose “baby daddies” use the child as a weapon (suing for custody, split weekends, etc) against the mother for 18 years. It’s far better to use an anonymous donor than to tie yourself to a LVM for life If he won’t marry you but he demands a child,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:19 PM
413

Yeah this is an abusive relationship. And since they’re not married, she’s screwed. He’s purposely keeping her in a powerless and degrading position
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:13 PM
345

Stop 👏 having 👏 children 👏 out 👏 of 👏 wedlock 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:12 PM
7

I hope he loses his job. A “man” like this should not have a platform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:08 PM
10

“Male nature” is going to make his children resent him for their entire lives. Congrats Nick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:06 PM
59

50/50 isn’t equal. It puts women in a vulnerable position. My 50% is risking my body, health, and career. Him paying more is the bare minimum he can do, tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:27 PM
36

Also why a man can be abusive in a relationship and no one believes you because he’s not abusive outside the context of a romantic relationship with a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:46 PM
83

What women are raised to dream that sex will be like vs. the nightmare reality of what many of us experience at least once in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:37 PM
28

Bookmarked this 💜 thank you. You’ve articulated something I’ve felt pain about for a long time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:53 AM
60

This was too short 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:50 AM
25

One time my ex literally smelled like shit when he pulled his pants down and I didn’t say anything 🤢 never again will I be that pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:49 AM
57

It breaks my heart to think of the love my grandmother had from my grandfather—the kind she wished for me—and the fact that I’ll probably never had it. My grandmother got sweet dates and kind gestures from my caring grandfather who would’ve sacrificed everything for her. Men today consider that being a “simp”. I’ve given “nice guys” a chance and gotten fucked over. I’ve been raped, drugged, strung along, and taken advantage of. Why the FUCK would I make finding a man an essential part of my futu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:44 AM
113

As an attractive woman, I can attest—most of them don’t respect us either, they just pretend to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:40 AM
40

I would love to meet a man who doesn’t watch porn. Sadly, they seem to be few and far between. My ex became a depraved loser from watching porn. He thought it was normal to wank off to male violence against women. It’s not okay to strangle someone just because you have your dick out. Porn watchers are conditioned to see us as sex objects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:47 PM
29

It’s more like 95% now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:44 PM
3

So did I. My first sexual experience was getting raped on a first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:57 PM
63

🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:01 PM
355

Most American films are written and directed entirely by men. Their audacity knows no bounds. It’s psychological warfare. Women do the choosing in nature. How they look to us is actually the important thing, not vice versa. Remember that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:25 PM
32

As a very agreeable woman who always used to see the best in people, I hate that men like this prey on women like me. It’s made me cynical in ways I never anticipated. I’ve learned that my amiability needs to cloak a tough shell, underneath which only people who’ve proven themselves trustworthy can experience true warmth from me. They’re literally teaching abusive men how to find women who are easy to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:08 PM
32

Women: get harassed, stalked, threatened, raped, and murdered by men LVM: “wAhMen nEed 2 stOp pLaYinG tHe viCtum”🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:05 PM
4

I’ve spent thousands on therapy alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:56 PM
8

I already have a job and a pet so what value does a man bring to my life besides (probably bad) sex? Every man I’ve dated has made my life worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:52 PM
85

Men: “I respect all women, except for my exes who are all crazy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:53 PM
167

Men are hottest when they’re young, sry delusional scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:46 PM
20

This is disturbing. We’ve allowed the most depraved people to dictate our culture and morality and then called it “empowerment”. Glad FDS is here to wake us the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:16 PM
29

Where is the lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:05 PM
117

It feels easier to put up with it and hope it ends soon than to try to stop it. As a rape survivor, I worry that the guy will “flip” and get violent if I tell him to stop. I also deal with the “freeze” response. Being heterosexual as a woman is a minefield
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:00 AM
140

This. I’m 26 and my looks haven’t changed at all since I was 23 but my standards have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:08 AM
40

Stuck at home consuming social media that tells them all they are is a product. So sad. When I was a kid I read books all the time, but now we’ve let kids have access to what’s essentially a hand-held casino designed to destroy self esteem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:31 AM
105

Traumatized women are the collateral damage of their “formative experiences”. And that’s a calculation they’re all willing to make until they finally have a daughter or some other woman they actually give a shit about. Most of them don’t give a shit about us as people or even see us as people, frankly. We’re NPC in a world that revolves around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:26 AM
6

“we girls” “life is good”🙄 a man wrote this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:25 PM
9

This was totally written by a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:24 PM
125

Imagine actions having consequences 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:34 PM
187

My ex: “women control sex, but men control commitment” My ex: drugs and rapes me My ex: dangles commitment like a carrot Me: leaves, blocks & deletes My ex: surprised pikachu face, plays the dicktim, tries and fails multiple times to get me to talk to him again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:11 PM
94

It used to be that both girls & boys were brought up on romance because porn was difficult to access and heavily stigmatized. Now, boys are being exposed to violent pornography before they’ve even started puberty. In a way, it’s not initially their fault. I blame big tech and their parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:00 PM
7

It’s such an important film!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:31 AM
173

Imagine if men had commercials like these. It would immediately be seen as degrading. Now imagine how they see us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:26 PM
93

Ugly and average looking men will always have the most audacity 😩 give me a hot man who doesn’t have a chip on his shoulder any day of the week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:31 PM
8

Vocal cord timbre has more to do with thickness and length. More testosterone makes the vocal chords thicker and longer, which makes their voices deeper. Men who fake it don’t have enough testosterone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:23 PM
26

It’s honestly heart wrenching that young men have been psychologically brainwashed to get off on our pain. It hurts my soul. Imagine what could have been 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:09 PM
31

Imagine how much freedom we’d have if there were only HVM in the world. No worries about being raped or murdered walking alone at night, no fears of being assaulted, no man changing his personality 4 months into a relationship and becoming emotionally abusive. It would be a dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:34 AM
68

It’s gotten to the point where a man who has too many green flags is a red flag for me. If he’s kind, caring, respectful, and thoughtful at the beginning? Just wait until the other shoe drops and you see who he really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:30 AM
87

There are men who don’t. Most of them are older. A lot of millennial and younger men got hooked when they were children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:28 AM
146

They’ve been trained by porn to get turned on by our pain. Are we surprised? I’m heartbroken that these men are our dating pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:52 AM
56

Lol I love that there are 4 comments and all of them are hidden 😂 stay mad, scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:42 AM
22

When my ex who was borderline schizophrenic with a personality disorder tried to convince me I was the one with mental health issues because I would get sad when he insulted me and put me down 🥴 and I stayed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:16 AM
67

Shame on his LVW pickme mother for defending him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:25 AM
34

Men today have higher voices because statistically they have less sperm and are less masculine than previous generations 🥲😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:23 AM
13

How tf does putting rapists in jail harm WOC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:52 PM
12

Their goal is to silence all women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:49 PM
100

Porn & internet misogyny have ruined this generation of men. How are we supposed to find a life partner when most of them hate us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:05 PM
79

$40 a week is nothing! I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. Don’t feel guilty about someone else treating you poorly. This is on him, not you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:04 PM
231

Thankful for HVM like these rabbis🥰 doing the Lord’s work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:33 AM
6

Men who don’t watch porn have a totally different energy. More positive and masculine, it draws me toward them. Men who watch porn all the time are repellent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:18 AM
152

Tom sounds like a HVM widow who misses his late wife 😢 men on average used to be better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:59 AM
11

It was made by two women and then their ideas were stolen by sexist men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:37 AM
53

Rape is effectively legal and men know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:35 AM
8

This is about to be me in a month. Time for my comeback
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:58 PM
28

A significant portion of men are sociopaths. I have known some of them. And then I have male family members who are amazing people. It’s a minefield out there, especially for someone like me who is apparently a terrible judge of character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:13 PM
52

More men should try to be like Jesus. I think we need to bring back religion so men will act right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:19 PM
11

He is a selfish, terrible person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:59 PM
6

Props to you ladies for going on solo hikes. I’m too scared of violent men to do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:46 PM
27

NEVER take a nude picture of yourself. If it ends up in the cloud, it’s there forever. “The cloud” is literally just a code word that means “computer servers you do not have access to, sitting in a warehouse somewhere”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:06 PM
67

They literally think they’re gonna be 40+, balding, with washed up birth-defect-causing sperm & marry a 20-something woman who will be their personal incubator and bangmaid 😭🤣 this is such a terrible deal for us I—- 🥲😂 the propaganda is so strong. This is literally what gets pushed on us but the reality of it is vile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:44 AM
55

6 months into my last “relationship,” the narcissistic scrote disclosed to me that he only started online dating to get over the gay man he’d been seeing for the past year. At first, I was a “distraction” to him. But he “wasn’t bi” 🙄 ALWAYS USE A CONDOM NO MATTER WHAT If they won’t use a condom, try to get away if you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:18 AM
38

I dated one of them. Like clockwork, around 3 months in, the mask fell. It was heartbreaking to watch the person I’d been getting to know disappear and be replaced by a lying, manipulative, self-obsessed asshole. And then realize that the first persona I’d gotten to know was all an act and this was the real him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:13 AM
64

This resonates so much. Yet another reason not to date online—you don’t get to see them “in context”. Narcs pretend to be someone completely different until the mask drops. I’ve experienced it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:44 AM
60

Yes! My ex would rarely reach this spot deep inside me, which was somewhere above/below my cervix, and it felt SO GOOD. Like as good as touching my clit, but deeper. Penetration had never felt amazing before that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:19 AM
30

This is brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:12 AM
30

Over 50% of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:56 PM
65

Wow, are you me? 😂 alternatively: “My ex was crazy, her emotions were all over the place” proceeds to completely change their personality and become abusive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:00 PM
75

“The struggles... men have gone through are so much more extreme and unlike anything a female has gone through (except for physical violence).” Oh yeah? What’s more extreme than physical violence? I’ll wait 🙄🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:29 AM
132

This has been such a pattern in my life!! So eye-opening 🤯 they treat you like the love of their life in the beginning and then turn into a contemptuous person overnight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:03 AM
8

The same thing happened to my friend. Her friends left her alone with strange men and you know what happened next 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:34 AM
80

Rape is about power and control. If you notice ANY kind of controlling behaviors from a man, there’s a near-guarantee that he’s a rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:41 AM
19

Maybe women are meant to sleep with tons of men 🤯let the sperm duke it out and may the best man’s sperm win 🥰it’s “in our nature” /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:34 AM
39

They can’t be tested for HPV, so we have no way of knowing how many strains they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:02 AM
9

NVM energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:01 AM
16

Thank you 💜 yeah, it was pretty soul-crushing. Especially because I had undiagnosed PTSD from the rape. For the first time in my life, I have amazing insurance and can afford therapy. It’s the best money I’ve ever spent. The first thing men think when women tell them about past assaults is: she’s a liar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:49 PM
45

trigger warning I was sobbing when I told my ex about how my first time, I was raped. His reaction? “Was it violent?” 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:51 PM
67

Oh I agree. It’s horrible to hear about how many prostitutes are murdered every year, or how many “disappear without a trace”. Any scrote who pays for the opportunity to use a woman’s body like a fleshlight should be sent to prison for a few years. They are so depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:04 PM
73

LibFems are handmaidens of the patriarchy 🤷‍♀️ if you lie down with dogs, you’ll get up with fleas 🦗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:36 PM
116

Men will rape one woman regardless of whether or not there are other women they can pay to rape 🙄 they’d rather do it for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:34 PM
115

B-but wHy DoNt WoMenZ FiGht bAcK 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:51 PM
7

I feel like a lot of women stop having kids when they’re older because they don’t want any more, not because they can’t. Or they don’t get pregnant at all because they don’t want to. Of course infertility is a huge issue nowadays, but that has more to do with plastic & chemicals than it does our natural biology. I’m sure the human species wouldn’t exist by now if women were only fertile for like 7 years. It takes around 2 years (naturally) from when a woman gets pregnant with her first to when s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:39 AM
11

Yep. She was 44 when she had her second. Got pregnant naturally from her mid-40s husband and had a smart, totally healthy/normal son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:35 AM
88

Wow. Just checked it out and had a good laugh 😂 but my blood ran cold when I read some of the posts... it confirms that they KNOW exactly what they are doing to us. They aren’t stupid. They’re just pissed off that we’ve figured them out 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:01 AM
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It’s a factor but not to the extent we’ve been taught. The age of the man also plays a huge role. We get blamed for everything 🙃 my mother and her friends all had healthy kids from their late 30s-mid 40s with similarly-aged men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:54 AM
23

This is so sad. Why don’t we learn about this while we’re growing up?! It makes me so angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:47 AM
50

It barely declines. It might take a month or two extra to get pregnant but still—pregnancy is very common and possible. Barring reproductive health issues, women in their 30s are very fertile. That’s how women in the past had 10, 12, 15 children. It’s not like we tap out after 25 🙄 women didn’t even used to get their periods until 16-17 A huge issue today is sperm quality. Plastics & chemicals are decimating men. Baby boys are literally being born less masculine 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:42 AM
43

You can always date younger 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:37 AM
27

What if viagra is actually the cause of the increase in autism 😕 too many men having kids at age 45+. You’re supposed to be getting ready to be a grandfather smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:34 AM
11

One of my exes used to wax sentimental about “what if I’d met you when you were 15?” 🤢 he also wanted me to call him daddy. When I was 15 I looked like a child. These men have been psychologically manipulated beyond redemption
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:16 AM
7

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:14 AM
17

So inspired by you 💜can you give us any advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:51 PM
60

They’re making sure your friends can’t see him on tinder and tip you off 🙄 one of my friends did this for me once, and thank goodness she did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:32 AM
5

I wonder why. In Sweden, single mothers are guaranteed 480 days of paid maternity leave. Childcare is affordable, healthcare is free and so is University. Women can play the “I’ll pay” card because the state literally guarantees that they won’t be broke and vulnerable. We don’t have the same guarantee in the USA. Why would I risk my body and my life for a man who shows he doesn’t want to do the bare minimum to support me 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:14 PM
14

And getting cervical cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:08 PM
17

Same. In hindsight, I 10/10 would’ve rather been friends with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:26 PM
105

I’ll pray for her cervix. Community dick is HPV guaranteed 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:54 PM
73

No amount of money is worth saddling myself with a washed-up old scrote 🤢 and every older man who dates a woman 15+ years younger than him is by definition a LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:53 PM
104

Men will shit on astrology but treat everything Jordan Peterson says like it came from god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:52 PM
36

This. My ex-6 month situationship (I know, pre-FDS) always talked about how his mom was “emotional” and “irrational” and how they had a strained relationship at times. It turns out they had a “strained relationship” because she caught him cheating TWICE, was extremely mad at/disappointed in him, and called him on his bullshit 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:51 PM
22

I live in a rural red state and everyone who works at my dentist’s office is a woman. It’s possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:44 PM
54

Time to find a female dentist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:36 PM
10

Global resistance 🌎👩🏿‍🤝‍👩🏼👩🏽‍🤝‍👩🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:23 PM
16

Men who are hot at 28 were probably hot at 20. Sorry. This guy gives me future serial killer vibes 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:16 PM
11

This is how it should be. My grandparents did the same thing in the 1950s. If one partner is staying home to be a homemaker, it’s financial abuse for their partner to withhold money from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:34 AM
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Opposite Day is every day under the patriarchy😭 this applies to FDS principles as well. Like how everything they say about “the wall” and women being “gold diggers” and fear-mongering about our fertility—-it’s all brainwashing and projection. They’re actually the ones who have to worry the most about those things 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:21 AM
19

Jew here. At least the right is straightforward. The left are gaslighting sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:54 PM
49

Jew here. I didn’t realize fighting for female reproductive control meant I’m a nazi 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:50 PM
18

Stop online dating. When you meet men naturally, it’s normal to go 3+ months without kissing. When you get to know someone as a friend first, in the context of their community, you 1. learn so much more about them and 2. don’t have to enact a degrading, performative 21st century dating ritual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:04 AM
8

Isn’t it interesting how when it’s a man, it’s immediately apparent how disrespectful and humiliating it is to treat someone like that? But when it’s a woman, we’re used to seeing it so our reaction isn’t as visceral. We’ve been brainwashed into accepting disrespect and humiliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:32 PM
170

Because men are terrified of the fact that we control reproduction. So they do everything they can to try to control us. They’re inferior to us in many ways and they know it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:20 PM
3

What the actual fuck haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:58 PM
4

We need to stop caring what men think, period. Women, stand together against this shit and don’t let men be the arbiters of the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:49 PM
95

Same here. I love sex but not all the bullshit that comes along with it. Plus, most men are terrible at sex now because they imitate porn and get off on our pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:14 PM
69

I love refreshing posts like this and watching the scrotes downvote. They hate us knowing the truth about them 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:12 PM
67

I hope we’ll see a huge backlash when Gen Z grows up and realizes how much they were groomed and manipulated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:26 PM
38

Women hit menopause after age 24 according to them. Right around when the male pattern baldness starts to kick in 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:11 AM
2

Being HV has nothing to do with being rich. It has to do with having strong values & morals & being decent to people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:18 PM
102

She’s inspiring. From living in poverty and dating an ugly LVM to lifting her entire family out of poverty and becoming a successful businesswoman 😭🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:52 AM
149

The second our prefrontal cortexes mature, we become elders 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:49 AM
158

This is why I’m only dating confident, physically hot men from now on. They don’t do this shit because they don’t need to. It’s the uglies and medium okay men that manipulate the worst... and it’s even worse because so many women think they’re “safe” 😩 (see: Big Ed on 90 day fiancé)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:46 AM
12

I grew up reading a lot of literature from and about the 19th & early 20th centuries. For young girls I recommend American Girl books, Dear America books, Anne of Green Gables, etc. For older girls and women anything by the Brontë sisters, Jane Austen, George Eliot, etc. Women had to be extremely discerning back then because the consequences of letting a LVM into your life could absolutely ruin you. It’s the same way today but libfems love to pretend otherwise because eMpOwweRmenT🥴 I also highly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:13 AM
63

TRP literally just teaches healthy, non-sociopathic men how to be sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:07 AM
104

Pickmes and Libfems (same difference) will tell you that violent abuse is empowering as long as the man abusing you has his dick out 🥴🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:04 AM
34

Amazing post. Thank you 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:13 PM
55

We really need more female writers and directors. Too many hollywood movies are completely divorced from reality when it comes to how women behave and what we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:39 PM
39

I’m so glad I grew up reading books about girls & women written by women. If I were only immersed in our current cultural zeitgeist, I would probably hate myself completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:16 PM
44

Hmm. It seems to me that most successful men in their 20s and 30s are dating someone age-appropriate. The ones in their 40s still trying to date younger are nearly guaranteed to be sociopaths. But also: marriage massively benefits men when it comes to their career. It looks weird to be married to someone much younger. Lots of men put on a good front but secretly are as manipulative as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:17 AM
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Right? Just leave us alone then 😭 I’m a very attractive woman (not bragging, just facts) and they do this to all of us. It’s a power trip or something. Wish they’d fuck off 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:16 AM
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This whole profile said, “I will abuse you and then gaslight you into thinking it was your fault.” So many red flags 🚩🚩🚩 When someone has to tell you how loyal/enlightened/trustworthy/honest they are—-they are NOT that thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:59 AM
30

Oh, I definitely still think it matters. As in, I wouldn’t stay with a man who didn’t know he wanted to marry me after a year of dating. The benefits for him would be massive, so for him to be “unsure” means he’s waiting for someone “better” to come along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:49 AM
29

Fucking disgusting. So much for the “logical” sex🥴. What the hell is wrong with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:38 AM
68

Historically it’s been a tradeoff women had to make if we wanted to survive We were forced to relinquish our wombs and labor in exchange for (hopefully) protection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:33 AM
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The more I learn about most men, the more shocked I am that so many women treat marriage like it’s a flex Congratulations, you live with someone statistically likely to be a leading cause of your death
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:30 AM
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It turns out many of our tech and political overlords are pedophiles. Are we surprised? This is state-and-business-sanctioned psychological warfare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:53 AM
69

I’m calling bullshit on the, “Men care about looks; Women care about money” narrative. Men can be massive gold diggers. Look at how rich women have men throwing themselves at them, proposing marriage to them, etc. Men will fuck anything but they prefer to marry wealthy women. Women absolutely care about how men look. We’ve been brainwashed to think we shouldn’t be “pICkY” 🥴 this is also why incels always complain about women liking “Chads”. Because they know we like attractive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:14 PM
104

Young women need to stay off social media. Give yourself a time limit. Then go read a book. Watch a film. Go for a walk. Paint. Write. Draw. Play an instrument. Please, stop putting all of yourself into something so destructive and pointless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:10 PM
48

I already commented but I’ll comment again. Lundy Bancroft writes about this. Abuse looks different in different cultures. In white Anglo culture, women are essentially expected to show no negative emotion. They’re not supposed to speak out or get angry. This is the insidious way the patriarchy controls us. In other cultures, such as most Latin American and Caribbean cultures, it’s accepted for women to express emotions and get angry. Hence the characterization of Latin women as “fiery” 🙄 no, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:03 PM
29

This kind of cultural conditioning around female anger is common in some cultures and uncommon in others. Which makes it obvious that it’s just another part of our conditioning under the patriarchy 🤷‍♀️ feel your feelings. We should be angry with all the bullshit we’re expected to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:51 PM
86

FDS will tell you to never, ever date a man for 10 years. If you’ve been dating since adolescence, 23-24 is old enough to get engaged. Otherwise, stop wasting your time as forever girlfriends. They’re robbing us of our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:01 AM
5

What I REALLY want in a guy: between 6’ and 6’4” broad shoulders/back muscular and proportional body smells good full head of hair nice smile, straight white teeth no wrinkles clear skin thick dick, uncircumcised (it feels better) strong jaw proportional eyes. Not too close together, far apart, or small.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:50 PM
11

What should I do? Call the police. Try to get him in jail if you can (unlikely, sadly). This man needs to be kept far away from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:25 PM
5

These were really the best men they could find 🤢 this generation of women is screwed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:58 PM
1

I thought the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:57 PM
30

She feels used because she was used 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:05 PM
11

Attractive according to whom? Their own propaganda lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:18 AM
36

“It’s empowering to be treated like shit.” - libfems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:41 AM
30

I feel so bad for her and other young women who’ve been gaslit & manipulated by the patriarchy & libfems (handmaidens of the patriarchy). Most women on OF barely make any money at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:30 AM
32

Right? The few attractive older actors (George Clooney, Brad Pitt—both losing their looks sadly) were objectively way hotter in their 20s. They just took care of themselves and aged gracefully. 99% of men will not do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:44 AM
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Lurker scrotes are downvoting this like crazy 🤣 the truth hurts 😔🥴 we have never, ever wanted old dudes. Sorry not sorry 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:08 PM
54

I’m so tired of these delusional “red pilled” men 🤢 they’re so transparent it’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:07 PM
50

Men in their 30s could look great if they took care of themselves. They aren’t even old. But most of them look like shit because of the things you mentioned—alcohol, smoking, partying, no sunscreen, eating terrible food, living a sedentary lifestyle, having no skincare routine... the list goes on and on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:45 PM
38

Modern psychology is a minefield of misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:36 PM
81

Good luck to her in about 10 years when she’s stuck with a geriatric pedophile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:28 PM
101

If a man is older than 35 and still single after a string of relationships/situationships, 99/100 times it means he wasted his youth manipulating and abusing women. I have no interest in a man like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:26 PM
22

This is what a man should look like 😍🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:56 PM
23

As someone who grew up with a father who did more than his share, it’s depressing that so many men don’t. It’s depressing that so many of them care so little about us. It’s depressing that so many of them pull a bait-and-switch. It hurts that they’d rather see us suffer than thrive. Why do they chase us if they hate us. Most of them ruin our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:25 AM
1

He should go to prison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:43 PM
3

If he’s an adult, he’s a man. Being a piece of shit doesn’t subtract numbers from your age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:39 PM
19

This generation of men never grew up. Tough times make strong men, easy times... well, you know the drill. Most of these men wasted their lives on porn and video games and now they’re completely useless and delusional. Sad to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:25 PM
9

Men try to prove their worth by dating younger women but older women can date younger men by snapping their fingers 😭 we are not the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:22 PM
40

It’s always the ugliest men who hate women the most 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:21 PM
13

“I’m a mediocre piece of shit—here’s how that’s your fault.” 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:20 PM
39

Stop having kids out of wedlock. Stop dating men for 2+ years. Stop thinking these men don’t know exactly what tf they’re doing 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:33 AM
51

It’s way lonelier to abandon yourself in a terrible relationship with a LVM than to be single 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:52 PM
8

The most respectful and kind men are almost always hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:43 PM
5

It was another throwaway TikTok song to me. It’s fun but it’s like every other song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:13 AM
35

I’m so tired of mediocre musicians, so this trend of “influencers” becoming musicians is annoying as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:10 AM
28

She’s a great singer. I think a lot of us fantasize about this. But tbh, this isn’t healthy to do longterm. Just move on and forget him entirely. Bye 👋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:01 PM
101

Yeah, in the end of my relationship I was acting almost exactly how he described his “crazy” etc acting. Crying, feeling anxious all the time. Why? Because he was abusing me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:31 AM
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9/10 times she wasn’t crazy or “unstable” until he made her that way. Having a “crazy ex” is often a sign that a man is an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:00 AM
56

Hot men who like cats are immediately hotter 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:53 AM
289

How about men who spend 15 years manipulating women and stringing them along before settling on the next bangmaid they can find when they realize their hairline is disappearing and the dad bod is creeping in? The birth rate is men’s fault entirely. Women who give birth are in a vulnerable state & often subjected to emotional and financial abuse. Fix that or enjoy the decline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:51 AM
33

Because many of them don’t see us as human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:46 AM
14

It’s really painful to see another woman treating herself this way and noticing the innumerable ways I’ve similarly disrespected and devalued myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:35 PM
32

Her dignity and her cervical health, probably. Community dick is HPV guaranteed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:15 PM
118

Porn has ruined this generation of men. My ex casually mentioned to me once that he saw a “porn” video where the women were (hopefully) fake murdered. People are making it because there’s a market for it. Some men literally get off to us being slaughtered. Stay woke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:14 PM
17

If they’re from a small city it’s not improbable. Especially if it’s somewhere other than North America where most people stay in the same place they grew up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:50 PM
64

Between porn, video games, laziness, and red pill propaganda, it’s a miracle that women are getting with these men at all. There have always been shitty & abusive men, but this generation takes the cake in terms of overall uselessness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:34 PM
29

Right? They both settled for less than they wanted. This is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:30 PM
125

My heart hurts for her so much. The audacity of this asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:03 PM
40

I’m willing to bet that he was mainly only hooking up with one other person, and it was the bully. 💀 he probably wanted to date her but couldn’t so he settled for the one he’d been stringing along for 3 years. At 30, men start worrying about their reputations as weirdos if they don’t get married and project a “family man” facade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:18 PM
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We lie because we all know how emotionally unhinged some men are and we’re scared of being hurt or killed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:44 PM
10

“Friends with benefits”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:01 PM
16

He probably hoped this post would go viral 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:23 PM
8

If “w0mEn are taKiNg aLl mY moNeY,” how come women don’t have as much as men...? When my grandparents got married it was assumed that any money earned outside the household was THEIR money. Now, most men hoard their money from their wives/girlfriends while they do all or most of the domestic labor. It’s emotional and financial abuse. Then they yell at us for not having kids, not being “feminine” enough (code for “doormat”), and wonder why so many women don’t want to be with men anymore. THIS IS …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:28 PM
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Don’t even get me started. I know someone who gave birth at 16 and because her body wasn’t done growing yet, her baby ended up with tons of birth defects and she spent months in the hospital. She’s had a few kids in her 20s, no problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:52 PM
49

I mean, most men hate us. And “pickmes” are happy to be picked as the special one who’s “not like other girls” Same logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:51 AM
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Believing that he is the ultimate arbiter of truth. Ie, his belief about himself & everything else is the truth/“logical” and therefore every time you disagree with him you’re wrong/emotional. This is so insidious but it’s one of the signs you should watch out for the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:43 PM
10

“There were signs I didn’t pick up on.” Proceeds to list all the signs 🙄 He’s just upset he almost lost his bangmaid mommy. This is domestic abuse and manslaughter. He should be in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:47 PM
29

He hit the wall when he was born 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:21 PM
191

All these films were written and directed by depraved men. Shocker. Hollywood needs to wipe the slates and start over. The nepotism & pedophilia are disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:33 AM
115

Our whole system was built to protect rapists. So we shouldn’t take it personally when people gaslight us and accuse us of being crazy, lying, etc. It’s what they do to keep us in line and get us to shut up, so the status quo can continue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:27 AM
130

Their worst insult is to say another man treated you like shit 💀 they really think they matter that much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:06 AM
15

It’s soul-crushing when you find out how little they actually care for you. Classic bait and switch 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:29 PM
29

I feel so bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:59 PM
317

Cockholm syndrome 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:30 PM
174

The fact that he has the audacity to call her “selfish”... 💀 their projection is out of this world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:27 PM
104

Teenage Instagram models * They’re pathetic 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:30 PM
44

I’ve seen this is true in practice but like, I don’t want to be someone’s mom. I don’t want to be constantly setting a standard for them to live up to. I want a grown man and a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:47 PM
108

Who’s paying for these kids...? 👀 oh. Men who say shit like this will literally get a girlfriend and gaslight and abuse the ever living fuck out of her because they think she and all women are the problem. Look in the fucking mirror
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:18 AM
9

I’d think a lack of testosterone leads to worse men, which is what we’re seeing. They call each other simps just for caring about women... it goes against the laws of nature
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:21 PM
12

Let’s keep those men away from women in their 30s too please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:21 PM
63

I wonder if men in past generations were manlier because of higher testosterone levels & sperm counts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:57 AM
298

“I need a woman who still has stars in her eyes so that I can manipulate & gaslight her and get her to devote her life entirely to me while abandoning herself and her needs.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:55 AM
36

It’s so easy for men to look like this. Lift weights a few days a week and the testosterone takes over. Literally just pick up heavy things and put them down. But most of them can’t even do that🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:04 PM
29

So literally what’s the point of men then? 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:20 AM
18

Right? Gets extreme debt? Can’t buy a house. Can’t save and invest. Constantly stressed. Etc etc Be 20 minutes late? Get fired, lose promotion potential, get a bad grade. Hook up with the guy with red flags? Say hello to HPV and years of therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:36 PM
58

On the other side of bad decisions are negative consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:14 AM
49

They hate our intuition lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:47 AM
25

They cherry pick whatever examples they want from “biology” and apply it to humans. As long as it justifies their shitty behavior 🙄 there are still HVM who want to protect & provide for a woman, but the truth is most men wouldn’t stand a chance if they actually had to compete. That’s why they lie, manipulate, coerce & rape us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:03 AM
11

“You are mentally unstable/need help” “His truth” is the only truth - Lundy Bancroft writes about this “My ex was so bad to me... you’d never be crazy like her”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:56 AM
14

Their worst threat is that we’ll be alone with wine and cute, fluffy animals 😂 it’s not the threat they think it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:53 PM
3

If he seems too good to be true? It’s because he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:08 AM
141

Most men don’t care about us. They’re the rapists and the ones who think we brought it on ourselves. Why are we surprised that rapists & their enablers don’t care about us? This is misogyny in action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:13 AM
227

Women who like being single. They don’t understand it. “Aren’t you lonely?” No. I’m better than ever when the majority of men treat their significant other like an unpaid therapist/emotional punching bag. Plus, I have plenty of friends. I love being single!! Men are the ones who can’t stand being single and they don’t understand why we don’t feel the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:51 AM
20

I highly doubt my grandmother was paying 50% and going on walk dates 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:24 AM
84

FDS used to be normal. It’s only in the last 50 years that women have been brainwashed to accept shitty treatment from dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:55 PM
1

You’ll likely be the one taking care of the man though 👀 classic reversal. I totally get wanting kids & a family, but if it’s not with a HVM, it’s not worth it. You can always go to a sperm bank and have kids on your own. Don’t tie your biological clock to the whims of some LVM. Go on r/ breaking mom and you’ll see what “privileges” millions of women get to deal with once they get married and have kids. Having kids with the wrong man is a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:21 AM
238

Women get custody more often because men don’t ask for custody. When men ask for custody, the majority of the time it gets split 50/50 because the courts support fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:24 AM
67

Men are the ones who have miserable lives if they don’t get married 🤷‍♀️ some people might pity a single older woman, but nearly everyone will wonder what’s wrong with a single older man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:48 AM
153

The older I get, the more I wonder why most women get married at all🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:49 AM
154

Billie Eilish is very talented, but she’s been groomed by the music industry. She’s had her career developed and controlled by them since she was a child. She’s not an independent artist, which means that the majority of her “decisions” are made by other people. At 19, she is probably easily manipulated. I really hope that this was her choice, but I have a feeling her label pushed her in this direction... her whole trajectory follows a familiar narrative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:24 PM
0

Could it be that women reach a point where the disregard/disrespect they get from their “partner” outweighs the sexual attraction they feel toward them? Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:09 AM
45

This. I’m in my mid/late 20s and my coworkers assumed I was 21-22. Good skincare & staying out of the sun go a long way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:45 AM
96

He should go to prison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:05 PM
44

“Nice guys” aren’t nice, and most actual decent guys are already taken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:06 PM
99

I used to be super friendly with this guy I liked. He always blew me off. I started treating him like he treated me and all of a sudden he was blowing up my phone 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:05 PM
24

I love sex. But unfortunately nowadays sex often comes along with sexual violence, psychological manipulation, and a male energy that degrades me instead of uplifting me. No thanks 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:02 PM
6

Musts: broad shoulders, strong arms, athletic body, strong jaw, nice teeth. Otherwise, it ain’t happening 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:53 PM
39

Porn isn’t even sexual. It’s pixels on the screen, most of which depict violence against women. Most men have become so depraved that they associate sex more with pixels than actual women 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:17 PM
28

This last generation of men is the most spoiled generation of men in recent human history. Women still have to do what we always have—bear children—but most men live cushy, easy lives that produce weak, pathetic “men”. My grandfathers went to war, could build anything from scratch, and brought home money for the family. There was no “his” and “her” money—it was all OUR money. They were proud to protect and provide for their families. Now men snivel about how wahhhhh it’s so hard to be a man beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:13 PM
4

TRP literally teaches men to manipulate and emotionally abuse women. FDS teaches women how to avoid manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:53 AM
32

👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:03 PM
117

Some men weren’t meant to pass their genes along to the next generation tbh, but the patriarchy has brainwashed us into thinking it’s a privilege for us to risk our bodies to have their kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:32 PM
141

Top 0.73% of all creators and still making the same as an average finance bro... 🥴 this isn’t “empowering”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:03 PM
52

Men want sex. We are sex. We’re the life-giving force of the planet. They’re desperate for a piece of it. The patriarchy subjugated us physically, mentally, and spiritually. We’re the first generation that has the chance to break these limiting ancestral patterns. Don’t forget you’re a goddess 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:57 PM
161

Why would I ever risk my life to bear a child for a man who spent his best years stringing women along and refusing to commit? Most sperm is bad past the age of 35, anyway. Knowing that I’m fully in control of my own finances and reproduction is so liberating. Scrotes can die mad or they can grow the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:42 PM
15

I completely relate. Me to a T. It stems from my subconscious belief that I’m not enough, which developed in childhood as a result of one emotionally absent parent and one emotionally volatile parent. I’m always worrying more about the person I’m dating than myself, and it ruins every relationship I’ve had. Read about codependency. Give yourself all the validation you need—don’t measure yourself by how well or poorly a man treats you. You are 50% of the relationship. Try to talk to him like you’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:52 AM
21

My LVM ex accused me of “looking over his shoulder” at his phone. If your screen is right in front of my face, of course I’m going to look at it! Otherwise, I literally went out of my way to avoid looking at his screen. Why? Because I don’t want to be in a relationship where I’m a detective. Needless to say, that was one of countless red flags I painted white
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:11 AM
181

I love a man between 21-35 who’s tall with broad shoulders, a muscular torso, and strong arms 😍 a full head of hair, a strong jawline, nice smile, and clear skin. Those kinds of men almost always turn me on immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:26 PM
1

This whole post is sad and delusional. Please get off the internet and go talk to people in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:22 AM
18

If polyandry could actually work, I think it would be great. I could have my 1. Girth guy (good in bed guy) 2. Wife guy (cooks, cleans, watches kids) 3. Romance guy (he gives me massages and actually listens to my feelings—This guy is probably more plentiful in a world where polyandry is common, as they have to bring something to the table) 4. Fun guy (he makes me laugh and improves my mental well-being)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:07 AM
6

I could see polyandry ending badly... one guy getting jealous of the others and wiping out the competition, so to speak 🥴 just like how your ex comes back as soon as you’re dating someone new...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:04 AM
38

It was written and directed by a man. I can’t believe this show was even green lit; it’s pure male fantasy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:12 AM
129

This show was pure male projection and fantasy. Written by a man. Directed by a man. There’s the “desperate girl” pitted against the “cool girl”. Noa was just so non-materialistic and laid back and ~not like other girls~ 🙄🤮Both of the main female characters are two-dimensional projections of women. Written. By. MEN. Please do not take these female characters as actual representations of how women are—take them as a cautionary tale that this is really how most men think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:10 AM
17

I’d encourage this move for when a guy won’t leave you alone: be boring and weird. Asking out a guy is weird, and it’s also boring because there’s no chase involved for him. When you hang out with him, try to get validation from him and say a bunch of weird shit. He’s nearly guaranteed to leave you alone. Hope this helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:08 PM
16

Must be sad too see the opposite sex in such transactional terms. Women get fuckzoned just like men get friendzoned. Most men don’t want to be with a woman who doesn’t have her life at least somewhat together. And 40% of breadwinners in American households are currently women. So this “logic”? Is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:00 AM
47

Tons of men absolutely lurk this page. Probably all the “pill” ones, and then some. I wouldn’t be surprised if the numbers of men & women viewing fds were equal tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:44 AM
223

Thanks. I hope an 18-year-old girl reading this sees this and decides not to get in the car no matter how nice he seems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:58 AM
8

At least he was honest 🤷‍♀️ the bar is hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:45 AM
269

As someone who was raped in a car on the way home from a date, this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:38 AM
21

Is it bad that I feel like most of this list was obvious 💀 my manipulative, gaslighting ex was way more subtle and devious than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:02 AM
39

Hahaha most of them literally bring nothing to the table 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:07 AM
6

Have empathy for yourself. This was on him, not you. Don’t feel guilty for feeling all the feelings. You’re human. And do something that makes you feel good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:44 PM
36

He told me his ex was crazy because when he was about to move in with her, she “demanded” that he call her his girlfriend if they were going to live together 💀 even I called that one out... like bruh what the FUCK are you doing moving in with this woman if she’s not your girlfriend?! They’d been dating for months btw. Needless to say, he never called me his girlfriend either. And all the ways he said his ex acted crazy? I ended up behaving in the same way because he made me so miserable with his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:56 PM
3

Whoa. This is the first time I’ve seen this articulated, and it’s so true. When my ex hit that age, what you described definitely happened to him. I wonder why most men age so rapidly in their late 20s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:37 PM
13

Because the idea that women get less attractive at 30 is a myth perpetuated by men... most of them are hitting the wall with their male pattern baldness and beer bellies at that age, but we look hotter than ever and they can’t stand it lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:33 PM
50

mEn ArE vIsUaL 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:29 PM
87

There’s a reason for this. 90% of k drama writers are women, whereas most American films have no female writers at all. Seems like women have more of a say when it comes to casting in k dramas, too... the majority of hollywood productions are pure male projection/fantasy. No wonder most of them are so terrible compared to what korea is putting out 🤷‍♀️ I’ve mostly stopped watching anything new from Hollywood since it’s basically libfem pickme propaganda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:27 PM
10

Too much calmness in the beginning could potentially be a red flag for narcissism. I don’t mind it when someone is a little nervous, as long as they aren’t using it as a manipulation tactic. We can’t win either way I guess 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:19 AM
3

“Facts over feelings” translated: “I’m a man so everything I say is right and logical, whereas you’re a woman so everything you say is emotional and wrong.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:07 PM
3

Or we could stop entertaining 90% of these “men” until they grow the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:41 PM
24

4 was so huge. When I was inebriated, I told my ex about how I’d been raped. He never seemed to actually empathize, and would regularly bring up examples of how some woman “ruined a guy’s life” with a “false accusation.” He also talked about his ex as if she were a child and he was the spiritually enlightened/superior one. He was actually a full-blown narcissist and emotional abuser. Unfortunately, it took months for the mask to slip and his real personality to come out. That’s the hardest part …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:35 PM
25

I mean the response to the original question. It’s called “dear prudence” but the response to this guy is from someone named “Danny,” who I’m assuming is a man. So like, classic that a man encourages another man to be a selfish piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:01 AM
27

Petition to send men who do this to jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:53 AM
19

The response was written by a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:53 AM
14

Heterosexuality is not a choice smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:15 PM
9

HPV guaranteed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:15 PM
219

It’s the lack of accountability for me ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:03 AM
2

Wow, I was almost exactly the same age, height, and weight as the typical rape victim when I lost my virginity to rape. Very interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:48 AM
9

Your intuition is screaming at you for a reason. You’ve finally reached the place where you can no longer ignore it. I’m so sorry. I’ve been where you are. We’ve been socialized to make excuses for shitty behavior. Life is short; don’t waste it with someone who makes your life worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:42 PM
86

THIS. Everything they say about us is projection. From the “cock carousel” to “the wall” to “gold diggers,” every insult they volley at us is what they’re scared of or what they wish they could be. Every. Single. Time. We are life force itself, and it terrifies them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:41 AM
27

He gets it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:24 PM
38

Most men used to bring something to the table—financial support, ability to build/fix things, a stable father figure for children. Now most of them don’t bring anything but problems. They want all the rewards and none of the responsibility. They are like children. Most of them can’t even do the bare minimum anymore. When we say “HVM,” we’re talking about what used to be the standard for men who wanted to marry and start a family. They had to have their ducks in a row. Now the expectations have b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:21 PM
238

Of all the top films in the US in 2017, 83 percent had NO FEMALE WRITERS. Eighty. Three. Percent. That’s ZERO women!! I don’t have to tell you who’s writing female characters like these. We already know, and we’re all so tired of it. Meanwhile, 90 percent of k drama writers are women. No wonder the Korean film industry is blowing Hollywood out of the water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:44 AM
7

Every day I get closer to thinking christian fundamentalists are more feminist than what’s accepted as “mainstream”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:25 AM
183

Since men consider it a privilege to be a woman and get rated on a 1-10 scale, I think we’re doing them a favor by rating them in the same way. Now there’s finally a space for the guy who date raped me when I was a teenage virgin (-5) and the guy who dragged out a situationship with me for 6 months (-1). This scale is inclusive and empowering for men 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:24 AM
23

Because society has brainwashed most women to be extremely insecure and desperate for male validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:43 PM
42

Because we don’t want to date most men. Most men are manipulative and/or violent losers 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:41 PM
25

“Women can’t handle the truth.” - this is how they justify their lies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:58 PM
7

This just in folks, abusers and victims are the same thing 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:22 PM
3

No man has all 3: a big dick, hot body/face, and respect for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:21 PM
304

B-but muh penis 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:17 PM
58

I’m so glad FDS opened my eyes re: sex “work” (prostitution) and how it’s basically women being brainwashed to participate in their own subjugation. Either that or they’re literally being sex trafficked. If it’s so “empowering” then why aren’t all the rich men doing it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:14 PM
19

10/10 rapist vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:07 AM
68

Most men look like shit by 30, and their personalities are even worse. They’re delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:06 PM
53

I feel really bad for all the young women who think these men want them for their youth and beauty. You’ll be just as, if not more beautiful at 25. You just won’t be easily manipulated like you were at 18. Your brain doesn’t stop developing until your mid-20s. When you’re 18 you think you know everything. In hindsight it will all be crystal clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:48 AM
31

We need to stop normalizing everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:44 AM
10

Right lol I’m so grateful to be out of the prime age range for predators 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:42 AM
17

I understand why women stay in these situations due to financial necessity, but otherwise just break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:41 AM
17

Yup, once we’re 25 we might as well pack it all up because we’re over the (pedophile) hill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:04 PM
23

They really want us to think we’re only fertile for like 5 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:47 PM
24

“35 is almost a cap” 🥴😂 for men maybe 🧐 the projection is strong. My mother, who had me at 38, and her friends who all had their children between 38-45 would like to disagree with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:47 PM
43

Women need to stop doing so much. If he doesn’t do 50%, stop cooking for him. Stop cleaning up his messes. No one is making you do these things. Nearly all the women in my family have egalitarian marriages in terms of men actually doing 50% or more of the chores. I feel bad that so many women expect to be workhorses. No one is giving you a prize. Stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:36 PM
23

Imagine looking for and desiring a life partner, but at least 50% of your potential life partners hate you. Welcome to being a heterosexual woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:58 PM
42

I don’t want to stop working from home. Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:46 AM
214

Hope she got picked 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:26 PM
43

They really want us to think we’re infertile past the age we stop looking like children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:12 PM
47

The problem is that men are less fertile than ever. Healthy sperm counts are dropping precipitously. It’s not us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:11 PM
88

My dad does more housework than my mom. It’s not something that’s innately built into us. We can decide to stop doing it and let the chips fall as they may🤷‍♀️ next time I’d go lounge on the couch with your brother and say, “Oh, I thought it was your turn this time.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:46 AM
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