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Lord I hope you don’t have friends then if all you think they are, are subhuman beings meant to pass the time. Good luck with this femcel mindset, being this needy and desperate will attract equally weird, needy, and desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:03 AM
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I agree with this. Of fucking course the males here are spewing their bullshit about choice and how women actually like xyz when we know the most vital tenet of liberal feminism is, they are all about the sexual liberation of women ONLY IN FAVOR OF MEN’S INTERESTS. Only when women “want” to degrade themselves and be subject to dangerous, dirty sex acts are men and liberal feminists a fan of women’s “choice”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/22 08:21 PM
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That’s what I was thinking, they’re so horrible and untalented at it. You can literally tell 100% when it’s a man writing, all Reddit males speak in the exact same way even when they’re larping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/22 08:08 PM
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Why are the comments on this post so odd? Most users commenting don’t have flairs, is this sub not being modded anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/22 07:44 PM
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LMFAO going on dating apps as a straight woman is like shopping the dollar discount bin section at Walmart. Worse probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/22 12:41 AM
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“Fourty”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/22 10:48 AM
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I am so sorry I can’t even imagine how horrible they must be. Even previously working in retail and food service I find that men already think they are entitled to my time and attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/22 07:36 PM
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His daughter is so odd. Weird to market your entire brand around being a younger traditional woman when youth is universally fleeting. And I don’t believe an all-meat diet cured her, people who make claims that they never needed surgery or medications for serious diseases are lying about something and I notice this pattern in alt right types
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/22 04:28 AM
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What?? Are they not actually married? Why would he put a fake ring on her to signify she’s seriously committed to him? Proves to me guys know marriage isn’t just a ‘piece of paper’ and they dodge it with their forever gfs on purpose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:15 AM
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They really are very confused. They reject women who party, sleep around, etc but refuse to date women who don’t do that bc they’re “boring.” Not really getting the logic there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:52 AM
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They think it’s all fun and fair games to call vanilla women “boring/prude/nun” but then they get mad when you call them perverted/depraved/disgusting back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 08:03 AM
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Shouldn’t take longer than 2 years for men over 25 in my opinion for a 💍. If not he’s just putting the relationship and woman in a purgatory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 05:04 AM
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We need to bring kinkshaming back lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:57 AM
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The fact that “house husband” is trending is so cringe and notice how they don’t get hated on as gold diggers either, even though that’s what they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 11:04 PM
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She had a recent bit where it seemed she was lowkey roasting her husband saying stuff like “chill don’t pay the bills” and how if she had a wife then the “duvet cover would actually go on the duvet” she’s def been ready to go for awhile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:48 AM
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Yeah I never understood this argument either, men cheat on women who are the ‘total package’ all the time. It’s an internal problem. This is also why pickmes are so dead wrong in thinking if you just behave well enough a man will stay; and vice versa it’s your fault you can’t ‘keep’ a man because of the way you behave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 01:08 AM
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I can’t respect Beyoncé for this, she’s a big perpetrator of liberal feminist values and the only reason she’s hailed as a queen is because of her great professional/financial success, but those things go out the window for me if the woman still shows no self respect. I can’t look up to her at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 01:03 AM
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Yeah an unbroken relationship in itself is not convincing enough to say how well it’s going. Some men probably like to think they’d like to be asked out because men are the only animals to ever complain about having to work to court a potential partner. But in reality it goes against the way of things for heterosexual relationships and this is why they start acting out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:03 AM
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Made this mistake a couple times when I was 20 and younger and thank god it didn’t progress to a relationship or even a date. I think it didn’t help the guys I ‘asked out’ were likely quite conservative. We can thank liberal feminism for teaching women this because I was never aware of other forms of feminism before I JUST found out how horrible it truly is. Women who are thinking of making the first move for the love of god do not under any circumstances. It is humiliating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:45 AM
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Newest pickme on TikTok, she also made a video justifying why men cheating is “not always their fault”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 04:02 AM
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Men are the most dangerous mammals on this earth. The possibility of abuse, SA, and manipulation is too high to ‘practice’ on someone you’re not even into. I feel like this is sold as yet another strategy of eMpOwErMeNt which is yet again just giving men what they already want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 02:16 AM
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Men just like to emotionally abuse their partners for fun. Not like it actually matters, but her outfit is showing what, 3 inches of midriff? And long sleeve/long pant. Clearly just an excuse to drive her away or humiliate her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 05:14 PM
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It’s reflecting and encouraging the current culture of extreme lvm, bc shows tend to reflect what the public wants and whatnot. Really depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:50 AM
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Men are super super defensive and catty. They usually already have a bad attitude, because they very much whine about not getting enough matches they’re already in that bitter state. And ironically people they do match with, they are hostile towards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 02:21 PM
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He’s bad at texting means he either doesn’t like you and/or has you on rotation. Texting isn’t something you can really be ‘bad’ at, it’s not a skilled activity, just one that requires thoughtfulness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:52 AM
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This is so true and it was previously a big cause of stress for me. A woman of any body type, occupation, income level, physical/emotional/financial standards for a partner, etc can and will be criticized by society. That’s why you just do you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 08:02 PM
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Also, any superwoman movie is demonized by men. They get irrationally angry at the very concept and claim it’s only for ‘forced diversity’ or that the character is lacking complexity and it has nothing to do with them being a woman (it does, for them, they are just not willing to outright admit it). Captain Marvel, Wonderwoman, and others were highly criticized for the woman being too fit, not fit enough, storyline too cheesy, not deep enough etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 09:04 PM
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I had this problem in high school— I was regarded as attractive but off putting or strange. Looking back, objectively speaking, you had to be a literal pickme and throw yourself at guys to be wanted, it made it easier for them. I’m very glad I was not regarded as popular in that way now although when I was a teenager I didn’t understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 05:26 AM
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It’s yet another very pathetic strategy they try to use to get women to ‘prove themselves’ to them. This behavior is an immediate block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 10:37 PM
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Men are literally so catty lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 10:33 PM
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Oh yes I meant it’s especially women who are expected to be very nice and cordial all the time. Get told to “smile more” and whatnot 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 02:01 PM
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That’s seriously how they think of it. Men think sex is a cure-all which is why they are so envious that women can get it anytime they want for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 08:00 PM
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Women take much better care of themselves and their health, also why they live longer. My old coworker who is my age and his wife, who is 10 years older than him, look the exact same age as each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:55 PM
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Notice how in these times it is a point of pride for women to show off they can ‘do it all’ ie pay all the bills, do all the domestic work while being a forever gf, let him watch p*rn and follow other women on social media. Do we see this same pattern with men? Do men want to compete with each other to see who can be the biggest doormat to attract a wife?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:46 PM
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I don’t understand the tactic men try to use to ‘scare’ women into settling down with someone, anyone, before they “expire.” If every woman expires at a certain point, what would be the purpose of settling down if the implication is you’ll just keep getting traded out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:07 PM
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Not the last minute grocery store flowers 💀I can’t tell you how many women I saw on Instagram who were posting those with captions talking about ‘omg he loves me sooo much’ ‘how did I get so lucky’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:45 PM
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Are you me? I get a bad rep because I prefer solitude and intentional communication rather than useless small talk. Why does someone have to be overly social to be seen as pleasant? Especially women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:37 PM
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I literally dread seeing male patients. So many of them are not as direct about being weird but rather do things like stare when they think I don’t see or ask extremely personal questions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:57 AM
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I’m not sure about op but I personally know that a bad relationship can hold you back by a lot. My friends who’ve been in this situation were often too stressed or spending so much time on trying to fix the relationship that they neglected personal growth like school, career, friends/family etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:07 AM
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Despite what men want you to believe, women don’t get rewarded with loyalty/love/devotion for “good behavior.” As long as you don’t act like a total piece of shit, it’s all about how the man sees women in general and how much he values you personally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:49 AM
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White males who have Asian fetishes are some of the most lvm I’ve encountered. They are physically unattractive and have very horrible personalities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:59 AM
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Men as a class are very united. They see every other man as a ‘homie’ unless he’s directly threatening them. They defend each other and have affection for one another unlike they do with women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:17 AM
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It literally doesn’t matter if it’s basic as shit or a super rare quality. If a woman has a standard, men are bound to complain. They can stay mad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:02 PM
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They’re trying to go for the same vibe as those studies that assess caregiver burnout, which this is not equivalent to in the least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:28 PM
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This was very sad to realize for me too. I think as children (especially female children) we get told about how most of our happiness will come from other people, most importantly a man. He’s going to be emotionally supportive in every situation, unconditional love etc but that really doesn’t exist. The only person you have at the end of the day is yourself. You can never depend on any man for anything, it doesn’t matter whether he’s openly apathetic or insists he ‘won’t leave’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:29 AM
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Liberal feminism and the men of todays dating pool have rendered me all but asexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:11 AM
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Kind of blows my mind how men will live with a woman, have her have his kids, even propose/marry and still not take her seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 06:37 AM
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I see that too.. what’s sad to me is they’ll often have pics of their wife and kids on their profile with long captions praising what a family man they are like you mentioned. So do they not mean it or-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 09:13 PM
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I’m in healthcare and work around doctors. Some of them especially the older ones say really inappropriate things like that, for some reason many of them shame women for not having partners once they enter their 30s. the new ‘limit’ for pregnancy has increased to 37 and multiple women in my family have had healthy babies past 40. Really I think fertility is a genetic thing and if you’re fertile you stay that way longer than society wants you to think but if you’re not then you could have issues …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 11:36 PM
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‘Sitting at a desk’ has been unfairly demonized lol I sit at my desk to do work completely based on intelligence, fully clothed, then clock out when I’m done. Literally nothing compared to selling your soul in sex work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:29 PM
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It’s code for its only acceptable for men to have physical standards in their partner, not women. Too bad that still doesn’t stop me 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 04:46 AM
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Stuff like that almost screams comphet to me in men or something. Few years ago before I knew how to eliminate scrotes quickly I talked to a guy on a dating app for a long time who fetishized femininity to an extreme level like this. He would even get suspicious and ask if I like boyish activities just bc I mentioned I like Jeep wranglers, total psycho. But what I noticed is he was also constantly mentioning how he’s not gay and would often be blatantly homophobic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:12 AM
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Lol they don’t realize men stop listening at ‘becoming what men want’ they don’t care what happens after that. If they can sleep with them or even jack off to them there is no extracting respect or getting some kind of payback at these scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:03 PM
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People often use ‘the way their parents are’ as an excuse for their own habits/traits whether it’s accurate or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 06:21 AM
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Lmao why tf would they have to consult him on nothing that has to do with him? They are both grown women. He feels ownership over both of them I guess..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 06:13 AM
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65.. so they don’t clock out of their lifelong career of harassing women by then?? Shouldn’t they focus on not dying or something smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 06:36 AM
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It’s mummified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 06:35 AM
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I don’t really know if the feelings themselves are the problem, you can’t help who you find attractive, I think it’s normal to get a little giddy at the thought of them. I think the point is to not take any action that would come across as pickme/desperate ie no pursuing him, especially since u work with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:51 AM
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The not all men thing is extremely sus coming from them because why do men not want their gfs/wives/daughters going out late at night or being around areas where there will be a lot of males? When a man says he’s different he may as well have marked an X on himself to be extra wary of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 08:53 PM
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It’s bc they feel like they’re being denied something, even tho it has nothing to do w them. Almost same concept with when women say no to sex men take it very personally for no logical reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:36 PM
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Wtf is that lyric 😭 I don’t understand why men who ‘want nothing serious’ get angry the woman moves on to someone who does??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:02 PM
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This is why I find it difficult to not resent them as a whole. It’s actually so common yet bizarre but it happens often enough I have that fear/awareness as constant background noise in my mind when I step out the house. Just today while I was getting a coffee and food at the mall some old man was staring and following me for a period of time. So annoying, so disgusting The only time I ever saw a drop in sexual harassment in public was when I was physically present with a male partner. Sad world…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:30 PM
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Or when they refer to it as a ‘gender war’ there is no fight it’s literally just women staying away from men, that’s not what a war is lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:01 AM
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I have a friend who has been dating someone since she was 21 now she’s 24. He’s a med student and he openly told her he’s not willing to consider marriage at all until all of his training is finished which is literally a decade from now :/ I’m pretty sure she’s forever gf territory too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 07:50 AM
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100%. I had a pickme friend who put me down, talked shit behind my back, made fun of me, took out her anger about her shitty life on me basically projecting the abuse and neglect she gets from her constant lvm boyfriends. She can find some other poor woman to take it out on now I guess. Apparently she’s been on her best behavior with her remaining friends after she alienated me and several others, but I give it only until she gets in a bad mood again 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 07:44 AM
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They’re sick it’s like something about the concept of barely starting/not starting puberty is alluring to them 🤮 like once you’re an actual woman it’s not exciting anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:58 AM
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Women are trained to, no matter what, be nice to men. It’s actually very sickening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 12:02 AM
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Yes I don’t buy into the mra and libfem pity party about ‘mens mental health’ I guarantee with complete certainty you don’t just end up that way for no reason. Believe it or not you actually have to work at making yourself a likable person and establishing social connections. My own brother is in his 30s and is headed this direction but he’s convinced he’s done nothing to deserve it bc he’s such a nice guy, yet in reality he puts absolutely no effort into any area of his life. And even my parent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:06 AM
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Femicide is a common fantasy usually among men who have very low success with women. It’s bc of social media like TikTok that we are now aware of their true desires and how they really think. They are emboldened by the fact other males will agree with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:08 PM
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Yeah, in countries where 15 or 16 year old girls can legally have sex scrotes in those countries will go for those ages and justify the ‘legality’ of it as well. They will go as low as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:06 PM
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So the majority of men are literally pedophilic. Makes sense, I never got more sexually harassed and catcalled than when I was in between the ages of 12-15. Started tapering off at 19 or so, but of course I still experience it now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:04 PM
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At first I read this as he was gifting his wife a car for birthing and taking care of their child, and thought, that’s a bit odd but okay. She gifted this though?? Uh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:58 AM
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I notice a correlation between libfem proponents and general lack of critical thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:48 PM
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It’s not even worth giving to a husband, why would she just hand it over so easily to some rando?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:41 PM
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Pickmes really don’t mind totally humiliating themselves huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:36 AM
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Is he trying to be even a little bit believable? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 09:14 PM
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I don’t know that it’s ever safe for a woman with children under 21 to date. Grooming via this tactic is more likely than not to happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 09:00 PM
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You know it’s bad when even men disagree with pickme behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:13 AM
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No woman is investing countless hours and effort into her career/financial stability to be more attractive to men wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:01 PM
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Men will excuse themselves by saying sex is a much lesser commitment than marriage, which is VERY telling of how they actually view their gf and the relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:56 PM
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Yeah these ‘offhand’ sex services do not make money that easily either, I see the argument with women who sell their used underwear/clothes, feet pics, etc to men. They don’t really think all they have to do is post the item and men would just pay for that? Johns demand the absolute most to get a bang for their buck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:37 AM
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SW industry really convincing women that having a normal job is something to be ashamed of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:31 AM
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Imagine the absolute riots that would ensue if there was a movie called Short Boy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 09:52 PM
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Notice how female empowerment is branded as serving men? On international mens day when would you EVER see an ad like this, like cooking a meal for a woman, proposing to a woman etc. when would service by men for women ever be branded as male empowerment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:54 PM
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You did the right thing and taught him a lesson, they can’t just be entitled to think they can do whatever they want to someone and deserve niceness and understanding back. Actually he’s lucky this is all you did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:15 PM
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Men don’t need more than 2 years if they’re serious and happy with her. Personally I’ve never been proven wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:19 AM
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Only women are willing to compromise in relationships and this is what it ends up causing. I have never met or heard of any man willing to bend even a tiny bit for any quality in a woman they don’t like. They have hard, strict boundaries, while women make themselves flexible and kind. I think it would help to socialize and encourage women to be much less nice. Many women are worried about being labeled as mean, a bitch, a gold digger, expecting too much etc for having simple standards and bounda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:15 PM
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So he wants praise for doing basic domestic labor, when his wife is clearly the financial backbone of their family? Is “verbal abuse” supposed to mean she’s critical of his ‘career path’ that is clearly not working out for him in the real world?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:26 AM
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That’s exactly how they sound lmao even at my worst points I’d never have my self esteem drop that low that I would think, let alone broadcast pride in being a total doormat. All this for what, to not be single? They need to get a grip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:22 AM
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I also notice the mental health excuse is only used with men. Even if a woman is mentally ill, no one is willing to take that into consideration if she is acting inappropriately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:56 AM
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He’s making so many excuses. So much abuse has happened to individuals not because no one knew, but because the people that do know don’t speak up about it. This is the easiest way out possible and he’s not even man enough to admit he’s just afraid of his friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:54 AM
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Exactly, there’s many ways to get the message across. He doesn’t give a fuck, he’s only acting disgusted to make himself believe he’s a good person. If he actually cared he’d do something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:51 AM
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The way scrotes are always contradicting themselves. I thought only women under 25 are ‘suitable’ enough to be considered to marry or be serious with but then you have so many of them treating young women as nothing more than a hookup solely bc of their age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:12 PM
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So many men are like this and I just wonder what they think.. women are people too with hopes, dreams, fears, feelings… they really think they are too good to be true that any woman would come running back to them as if she were a blank slate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:11 PM
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Scrotes are so weird, punching himself? So odd. Bullet dodged for certain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:08 PM
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This is so scary 😭 throughout my life I ideally wanted to live with a husband because I thought it would be safer, more peaceful, more fulfilling etc. but I keep hearing story after story. And if it’s not something terrible like this it’s, at best, having to be a free maid for a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:34 PM
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Free maid cheaper rent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:31 PM
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Doesn’t love her at all, I don’t understand how men can be so inconsiderate and lack such empathy they’re not willing to be better for their significant other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:31 PM
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And you have women in their 20s-50s thinking they’re ‘too old’ just another one of many misogyny myths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:26 AM
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Dating much older men or unattractive men is not the life hack women think it is. They are just as likely to be a low value male, some will learn this some won’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:34 AM
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The fact that if a woman was jobless and had an unstable trajectory in life, no one would tell men to give her a chance. I don’t know when it became socially acceptable to badger women into having no standards at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:06 AM
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Men don’t even want to pay for things anymore what are they talking about lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:26 AM
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I wonder if some kind of reverse psychology thing is going on here and he’s perceiving the women rejecting him as more attractive than the women chasing after him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:42 AM
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Shit personality and overestimating his looks. How much do you bet tall and athletic means barely reaching 6 ft and having an average body. Six figures is probably barely hitting 100k. But emphasis again on the shit personality, I can tell how boring he is just by this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:37 AM
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This is why I’m uncomfortable around even male minors, they are watching this and liking it earlier and earlier these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:45 AM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 12:50 AM
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I’m proud to say I will never have any man’s child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:00 AM
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Yeah there has been more than enough opportunity to leave. It must’ve taken a significant amount of time to get to the point of marriage, pregnancy etc. just screwing their life for fun at that point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:59 AM
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Men have such a profound sense of entitlement and lack of self awareness it is almost impressive. I’ve seen this so many times, it doesn’t matter how low value they are, they always think they can do better. Truly, I wonder if the fragmented Y chromosome contributes at all to their utter deficiency and un-intelligence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:30 AM
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Does anyone really give a shit? If he cheats move on. They’re really out here thinking their dick is gold or something??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:15 AM
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Echoing everyone else turn off both your direct message and chat requests, this is done in settings on mobile and you can toggle it off. It brings me so much joy to know none of them can ever say anything to me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:14 AM
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Nothing says romance like immediately testing what boundaries he can push
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:25 PM
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Oh yikes.. I am an animal lover but that’s inappropriate to get from someone not expecting. There is a lot of time, money, care involved to be a good pet owner and it really shouldn’t be done as a surprise gift..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:30 AM
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“25-50” but how much do you bet he’s fishing for a 17 year old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:38 AM
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Women are socialized to be extremely nice/forgiving which is self harming. Because FDS doesn’t operate on this principle, and tells women to look at objective reality using very reliable pattern recognition, the whole ideology is hated by men. Likewise, it is hated by pickmes because they don’t like hearing that being a doormat will not ‘keep’ a man. As a woman, keep in mind what you feel guilty about for being ‘mean’ is what the average man would consider totally normal if he were to do it, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:18 PM
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Why are so many men like this? I’m not particularly short at all (5’6) but I get fetishized for my thinness and ethnicity often as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:02 AM
22

It’s always men doing this shit. They want to harp on about how they don’t need women but then why is the cause of literally every crazy male on earth is their utter failure with women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:00 AM
23

Men are terrible at controlling their mental illnesses, is what this is. You don’t see women going absolutely ballistic because they have no sense of responsibility or self control. Yes, mental illness impairs your judgment, but at a certain point you have to start holding these individuals accountable as well for refusing help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:57 AM
65

Good on you, so many men now who think they’re too good for a relationship, what a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:12 AM
5

I’ve seen the ‘wall’ hit men so bad it’s legit tragic. Projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:17 AM
61

STD risk alone is not worth it, even with condoms. How this is sold as good and empowering is beyond me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:13 AM
164

I don’t understand why they think dating younger is a good solution. I’m 23 and if I’m dating someone late 20s I have very high financial expectations of them, commitment expectations as well. Women under 25 still have cognitive processing skills, much to scrotes surprise probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:33 PM
64

I totally agree with this. I won’t date a man who doesn’t already have a well-kept property. People tell me I can move in together somewhere with a man but stories like this are precisely the reason I won’t. I need to see they are financially stable and intrinsically responsible enough to be a functioning adult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:21 PM
43

Not saying it’s her fault at all (hence why we need FDS) but there were already signs of him being a hobosexual, he moved into her apartment so u know he already had the mindset that his girlfriend would be the provider. I doubt this was the first time he was being cheap. I wonder if he had never paid for dates either, and buys her extremely cheap gifts if any at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:18 PM
77

Pls why is this horrifying to think about 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:28 PM
17

I’m questioning if marriage is worth it anymore because this stuff is so common; a friend of a friend’s parents, who have been married for 20+ years, just divorced and the man left his wife for an 18 year old. There was also other insane shit like him having gay and CP in his possession amongst other things from a seemingly unassuming male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:37 AM
64

TikTok is becoming so based I love getting this content on my FYP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:11 AM
54

They’re very stupid and unfunny lol I can’t stand it either. So refreshing when I found female only spaces it was like finally finding intelligent life on this planet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:23 PM
5

Financial stability is so sooo important I realized this once I snapped out of my libfem phase. People will try to make you feel guilty by “giving up a good man” “just because” of his lack of finances but that’s an extremely important quality and a dealbreaker for me if they’re lacking. It’s too easy for them to engage in hobosexuality at that point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:08 PM
1

Does that… does that say unemployed in his profile..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:46 PM
6

When will these fossils learn women in their teens and 20s aren’t going after broke, ugly, old men which encompasses most of them. The ‘women like older men’ refers to a few years at most, not literal decades. What is there to be jealous of in the first place? Age is nothing to be jealous of, everyone ages, no one avoids it. Stupid arguments from him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:09 PM
14

This is why we need FDS some people genuinely don’t know that’s a bad thing. Admittedly even I didn’t just like a year ago, in fact when I heard men would stay with their gfs for 5+ years I thought that meant he REALLY loved her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:40 AM
13

That’s so true. Tbh I’ve always thought 30s was the best decade for both men and women (especially women) because by that point they’ve already found their personal style and their face looks more refined
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:05 AM
12

Would rather work 5 minimum wage jobs at once. At least then it’s considered illegal if I get sexually harassed or assaulted. And I’m entitled to not give gross men the time of day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:05 AM
87

Men are extreme hypocrites where they will consume and “support” sex work but then degrade the same women, implying that they are not even worth being human. You have to be on some 1984 way of doublethink to really believe sex work is okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:59 AM
87

Sex work cannot follow a single OSHA standard. That in and of itself is a very objective way to show you how bad it is that no one can argue against
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:57 AM
60

Short, aging badly, shit sense of humor. Pick a struggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 09:02 PM
5

I honestly think min wage jobs past the age of 25 or so are a dealbreaker/red flag, formal education or not you really should have acquired skills that break you past that point by that age. To not have that is a HUGE disadvantage for affording adult/life expenses Since you said you’re at a very high paying position you also gotta be careful bc low income men are out here being gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:34 PM
13

Lmao the amount of single shaming targeted at women is fucking unbearable men are not NEEDED anymore. Do I myself want a bf and eventually a husband? Probably yeah but that’s just an added extra, not something that, without a man, would lead to extreme poverty/no means of living like it did in the past. I don’t think there’s anything wrong if women never want to have a partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:31 PM
27

This is what usually happens when they ask for that 😂 shouldnt they know it’s easier for women to pull since they’re always crying about it?? This isn’t a surprising outcome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:17 AM
16

Ugly scrotes with nothing to offer and who would sleep with every woman in sight if they could are a dime a dozen. I don’t get why women would bend over backwards for them lol, that’s like thinking a carton of eggs from Walmart is a rare find to be protected lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:37 PM
16

Heterosexual, unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:19 PM
79

I always see people joke about how he gets all these attractive and high profile women and the simple answer is he’s probably a better conversationalist than most men which already draws women since it’s so rare in the first place. But he can’t keep anyone apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:25 AM
130

Really upset but not surprised to see pretty much EVERY comment on the original post is scrotes and pickmes acting like the man is a poor baby who was FORCED into marriage (like this isn’t an adult who can make his own decisions) and she’s a controlling manipulative stupid bitch. Why is it always the woman’s fault?? They only understand consent when it comes to men. If the genders were reversed they would talk about how shady the woman was being and how she’s immature and a bad person for agreei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 01:37 AM
25

That’s so sad.. he is either embarrassed or ashamed of her, is still not commitment-minded despite being married already, or wants to pose as a bachelor. Or all the above. I can’t even express how disappointing that is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 01:06 AM
27

This is predatory. As a female who often goes out alone I would hate the idea of not one but two depraved individuals looking or thinking of me in that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:04 AM
12

Ive found that so refreshing about talking and befriending other women. They never want anything from me. They never try to get me to sleep with them or say/do things that are sexually suggestive. They don’t care what I look like at all as long as I treat them with value and respect. It’s really nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:54 AM
8

You won’t catch me defending cheap men but material possessions and experiences are NOT worth being a sugar baby for.. I see them defending their position by saying they get to drive this car, have this bag, travel to this place etc. But you can’t put a price on real love and integrity. The most expensive designer whatever in the world can’t provide true, enduring happiness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:46 AM
5

Was wondering this as well. I’m going into a very high paying career and I typically don’t like men of the same industry I’m in so this is a likely situation for me. But I’m glad to see being a provider is a broader definition than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:13 AM
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Everyone else made great points, another benefit of dating apps is that they also allow you to filter things so you can zone in more on what you’re looking for! There’s a filter for height, education, religion, childfree vs not etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:51 AM
134

Lol @ men crying blue balls is painful. Try period cramps every month (plus sometimes accompanying migraines), vaginal pain/tearing, childbirth then get back to us 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:23 AM
45

He’s not attractive, not funny, not charismatic whatsoever. Don’t understand how he became so successful in Hollywood but I guess they’re letting just anyone in these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:24 PM
136

I literally never see men fall in love with potential and do all sorts of voluntary acts of service. If someone/something isn’t immediately up to their standards they don’t invest any effort at all. This must be why they end up suffering less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:10 PM
108

I don’t even know what to say at this point 🤦‍♀️can you picture a man allowing a woman to do this while in a relationship with him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:52 PM
21

Literally yes I’m not kidding I’ve seen men on dating apps use the exact words “ruin your life” in their bios as a “”””””joke”””””” on dating apps and it just comes across as straight threatening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:54 AM
5

Even though marriage isn’t usually good for women idk I wanted to get married but it might not happen if I never find anyone of real value. I think being childfree helps somewhat. I’m going into a very high paying career and it is something I’ve thought about that worries me as well, because yes women have to worry about gold diggers too for lurkers reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:29 AM
174

It’s sooo weird. Like calm down grandpa, I promise she wasn’t even thinking of men your age when she made those videos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:21 PM
22

She is so intelligent I barely made it thru basic general chemistry in college 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:47 AM
99

I had a question related to this.. not really relevant to myself since I’m not dating atm but I see this with women within my social circles. If she’s posting him on her feed, story etc on socials/IG and he’s not, is that a red flag? It makes me think he’s not certain about her or he doesn’t think she’s important enough to post idk. Especially when he posts with friends and whatnot but not his gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:08 PM
14

I hate when men say “imagine if the roles were reversed” they fucking are. Every single day. It is literally the norm/standard. This is why they jump at the chance to call women predators even in situations where they clearly aren’t. “Imagine the uproar” if the it happened to women, how much do you want to bet being inappropriately touched happens to female cast members everyday and nothing is done bc that’s their ‘job’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 10:46 PM
17

Men are only ever afraid of other men. They only take other men seriously, it’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 09:42 PM
28

As someone with chronic digestive issues you would never know I had them if you lived with me. these kind of people are very much not doing enough in terms of diet, medication, and hygiene to make themselves presentable. Such a disgrace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 11:38 PM
8

Tell me again though how it’s single women who are dying alone and unhappy? Jesus Christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 11:35 PM
56

The trash takes itself out. He should be thankful you even took the time to give him an explanation before blocking him I saw in another comment that gaming/anime are now red flags for you and they definitely should be. Almost without exception that culture is man-centric and breeds extreme hostility towards women as demonstrated here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:30 AM
3

They might appear to treat attractive women better INITIALLY for the chase but it does not say anything about how they will respect or value them long term. I think it’s a slippery slope because if women think only extremely ‘beautiful’ women get treated well in a context that actually matters, they’ll always think “oh I’m not pretty enough that’s why” which is totally untrue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:26 PM
38

I am seeing a shift in culture. I think libfem is actually starting to lose its way. And I think is why you hear young men are having less sex than ever. It’s not enough for men to just exist anymore like most of human history they have to add value to a woman’s life, which is an impossible task for most of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:44 PM
92

100%. Actual compliments don’t have this weird overlying theme of hostility and insult. Can you picture a woman saying these things to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:40 AM
62

Then they should do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:39 PM
25

These are what pickmes breed too.. I know so many women who go for undesirable men on purpose because they think it’s a safeguard, could not be more wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:37 PM
27

Tbh as soon as I made this account I locked any way that anyone could message me because in previous accounts that were purely for school/business I would still get weird sexual messages or attempts at negging from desperate scrotes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:35 PM
28

Drugs, alcohol, onlyfans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:28 PM
58

Always boggles my mind when a woman sets a standard like height (“but they can’t control their height!”) and people wanna act like that’s ‘unfair,’ it’s not supposed to be fair. Why would you date someone out of equity as if this is a transaction, this is choosing a life partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:34 AM
9

Lol also I’ve never encountered an even remotely attractive ‘car guy.’ Theyre into showcasing cars so much for a reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:22 AM
202

The way Katherine looks at him in all the photos almost depicts a childlike naivety. I don’t know how else she wouldn’t be insulted by all of the bullshit he spews out about her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:18 AM
117

Since when did vanilla become an embarrassing or bad thing, now people toss that word around like it’s taboo or something and I’m like??? That’s the normal and healthy way of doing things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 10:50 PM
35

Such a weird choice description when that’s the mother of his girlfriend.. his girlfriend is literally an extension of her so..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:00 PM
263

This is why men have a reputation of being wh*res and easy in general. If he actually didn’t want anything to do with her he could’ve just taken legal action like a woman would do. But no men have to sleep with anything that looks in their direction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 08:40 AM
38

I haven’t met one person who didn’t regret having a hoe phase.. literally the most pointless and worst thing you could do for your life. You get nothing out of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:24 PM
24

I genuinely don’t think good-looking women have any more of an advantage than “average” women do in dating. Yes they get more attention but that’s about where it ends. How else do you explain the incongruency between conventional attractiveness and how they get treated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:13 PM
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I know many women of varying personalities and self-esteem and I can’t think of a single one this would work on. Dates are supposed to be fun and romantic.. this negative energy will bounce back on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:42 AM
43

Let them keep circulating this shitty advice and see how far it takes them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:39 AM
14

How?? There are so many opportunities to revisit their name. Unless this is a lie in attempt to be cool/funny..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:52 AM
25

Yeah the reasons for men vs women to be virgins later life are extremely different.. sex does not cause pain or discomfort for men no matter what whereas it does for women, women are more susceptible to stds, etc. so I agree it’s a red flag in guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:00 PM
38

These places are scrote wastelands. Have not been to any club, party, drinking scene etc in years; I’ve never drank but every time I went it was always some scrote being creepy and getting angry I don’t want to dance with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:58 PM
4

Both conservative and liberal sexual culture have women on two different types of leashes. I think liberal criticism has just gotten the most attention/upset reactions because of the overwhelming demographic on Reddit..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:04 PM
270

Males are so fucking emotional and insane and then they get mad when we assume that about all of them. He killed her over her not wanting to go out with him, and you’ve got males always saying ‘well what’s wrong with giving a guy a chance’ ‘you shouldn’t fear men hitting on you’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:50 AM
77

$500 LOAN? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:47 AM
6

I wonder if his confession is even true or if it’s something he’s made up because he wants an out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:11 AM
14

Yeah when I was in my teens I had those very long acrylics. But they are so impractical. Yes there’s videos of women doing impossible stuff with them on but they just get in the way too often and break over normal activities. I stopped getting them when I realized I’m going into medicine but the time and money and convenience saved is underrated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:56 AM
17

When I was 17-19 I did this a lot. I always had long acrylics and makeup took like 2 hrs bc it was lashes, dramatic eyeshadow, etc. and I pretty much fully stopped once I was 20. I wear very light makeup now occasionally and ever since I started doing that I’ve felt better and more like myself. I’m not exactly sure what triggered my switch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:52 AM
32

I wish I was attracted to women so bad 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:49 AM
21

This isn’t uncommon, especially because the fact their child is also a male. Really weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:06 AM
13

That’s true, I used to think too that men only cared about a woman’s appearance and that’s it bc that’s what they say they care about. But realistically they take many contextual factors into account and they analyze almost everything about a woman, especially factors related to how she will make him perceived in social circles and society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:21 AM
31

They do. It’s not romantic to them, whether that’s the woman’s intention or not they see it as the woman sexually pursuing them. Was super embarrassed to realize this bc I asked a couple guys out before I knew any better 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:07 AM
40

Now wtf is this. I swear the other week I read this article with the headline stating girls and women are outperforming males in all education levels. I thought it was going to go on to praise women’s work ethic but instead it questioned how “society” is failing men in the classroom?? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:03 AM
20

this energy >
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:58 AM
21

I think it’s true. When I think of what I’ve joked about it was something I actually wanted to happen or expressing a real belief of mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:57 AM
24

Yes absolutely. I’m waiting on a major source of media to acknowledge this is a sex-based crime but it’s being treated as gender neutral. There’s a pattern here and it’s like this huge elephant in the room no one wants to address
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:06 AM
32

Oh lol is that why tinkerbell looks very pretty and hyper feminine and Wendy is ‘plain’ looking..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:04 AM
13

I think the concept of tinkerbell is so cute. Shame they made her act like that 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:03 AM
73

The only reason he’s so very shocked that he’s being shunned is because our society of normalized cultural misogyny has made him think there’s nothing wrong with his behavior. Wake up call, scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:45 AM
9

I can’t believe she stayed with him after that. No one is that stupid or forgetful to bring water, it would have been so obvious he did that on purpose. That’s literally only something an insane, sociopathic person would do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:53 AM
11

Hiking and picnics in the middle of a nowhere field are too normalized in the name of libfem!! Wanting to coddle men into spending no money at all. It’s so dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:49 AM
13

I think women’s loyalty (I’m still not sure if it’s socialized or natural) is one of their cruxes. Men have no issue replacing anyone with someone younger or better looking or really just anyone at all while women cling too much to one person, even non-romantically..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:47 AM
2

Any argument for men to have it easier I just don’t believe in. The very nature of women’s biology is at the core of her subjugation. We are smaller, weaker, and are the sex that gets impregnated. This is always weaponized and there is no point in exacerbating it more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:44 AM
10

I don’t think they really know what they want. They hate career woman because it’s manly (lol) and means she cares more about career than family, but then they don’t want them staying home either bc they want bills paid and something else they can show off to friends/family?? (“My wife is a realtor/nurse/teacher etc.”)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:41 AM
36

At 27… that’s literally so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:33 AM
59

Most men are fucking evil at worst and opportunistic at best. They know this and that’s why they get defensive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:27 AM
14

Just look at child beauty pageants. They dress girls barely older than infants in heavy makeup, heels, bikinis, even shave/wax them (what is there to remove??) I can’t believe those aren’t outlawed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:55 AM
16

I’d go a step further and say they deserve a negative count of chances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:54 AM
10

I agree.. it’s very uncanny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:32 AM
5

Yup I’ve always believed this. No matter how good they are, your partner isn’t you. They can’t do everything for you and especially when they are no longer here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:29 AM
51

Lol profiles like that make me laugh bc they are never nearly hot enough to be thinking they can just pick up an abundance of women that easily, so quickly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:02 AM
6

The first sentence of this post just described 99% of men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:34 AM
52

I don’t know why any couples think this behavior is acceptable. They are completely tone deaf. Some of the most terrible sexual crimes committed are by heterosexual couples
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:42 AM
26

I was just having a discussion about this the other day with my friends. We were talking about how this is always predatory because of the unavoidable power imbalance that occurs. Think of it, ESTABLISHED couples (people who trust, know, are familiar with each other) are looking for a LONE stranger, of course a female one. The couple gets to have an advantage of their rapport and the fact they have an alliance, their third will be the ‘other.’ Besides the obvious safety issues, the ‘unicorn’ is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:39 AM
11

I was a psychology major for my undergrad and I actually really liked evolutionary psychology. I thought it was unique because of its interdisciplinary features with other sciences, but now it’s being bastardized to the most extreme forms of misogyny that don’t even align with studies. They also skip over the parts where (since women are the selective sex) men battle each other to the death over one woman lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:42 AM
39

Yeah I’m not open to dating a guy who isn’t tall (for me it would be 6’3+, maybe that’s extreme for most lol), fit, good bone structure, full head of hair etc. and why should I be?? It’s just biology after all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:38 AM
32

Although it’s not completely impossible it would just be unnecessary to pick out that specific strategy, if anything having a wife would be more convincing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:30 AM
6

When I was 20 working in retail a 45+ year old customer was showing me his toddler-aged daughter like I would be wooed and impressed 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:24 AM
2

The fucking hesitation in this sentence he can’t even lie or hide the fact he’s broke and ugly when it’s just a text description
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:21 AM
14

The way this is so accurate 😭 don’t forget increased paranoia that women are “using them for money” while they make $100k or less annually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:13 AM
2

Lol that’s not femininity that’s subjugation and intentionally sabotaging their livelihood/independence. I notice this little reactionary renaissance going on lately where now it’s cool to shame women for being ambitious in their careers bc that’s “masculine energy.” I’m a career woman and I’m plenty feminine in my personal life, their minds are too small to comprehend a person can be multi-dimensional Edit: I personally know a few girls like this ~22-26, and like you said many went to college a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:48 AM
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This never made any sense to me!! If you apparently only have 18-25 to find someone (lol) then that’s only 8 years of companionship?? They want tradwives who pay for everything but the women only get 8 years to do all that, oh but also career women are unattractive. Unless they are implying the start date should be earlier.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:42 AM
27

Literally I used to see this stuff on their dating app profiles all the time not just that but them calling themselves boring, bad in bed, small-dicked, poor, inattentive etc. I could literally keep going. In a way that’s a good thing so you just know to avoid immediately 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:59 AM
109

Omg that’s literally the perfect analogy. At a certain point of damage there’s no chance of saving the tooth anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:32 AM
16

It’s shit like this that reminds me of the ever-popular saying “equal lefts equal rights.” It used to be normal for women to get beaten by their husbands and not have the right to vote, in exchange for normal courtship. Now that the former things mentioned aren’t acceptable anymore, scrotes had to disadvantage women in a new way. We are in the peak of that transition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:24 AM
20

I think this sort of situation is so f*cked. How men can make a woman carry their child, have he/she have his last name, and not even propose, is beyond me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:06 AM
95

I’m trying to become a doctor and I wouldn’t date a male doc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:01 AM
121

Oh god one of my close friends is dating an MS1 and she’s so swooned over him. He told her he’s not considering marriage at all until med school + residency/fellowship which is a minimum of 9 years from now. I have a feeling she’s gonna end up just like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:00 AM
64

His options are fucking gone, what is she expecting complete strangers to advise in this obvious lost cause?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:58 AM
58

I notice this too.. almost every man I encounter has a nonexistent jaw. It makes the ones that have a strong jawline stand out so much because it’s so rare nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:19 PM
32

This washed up scrote is knee deep in the grave and still asks for this... is he slipping into dementia or..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:56 AM
18

That’s supposed to be conventionally attractive? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:49 AM
75

Y chromosome was a mistake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:55 PM
130

It’s really not flattering at all. Men have an extremely low threshold for attraction. Even if they don’t announce it I think we know that males are attracted to most females. Why do you think they won’t shut up about how they don’t get any dating app matches while women get hundreds/thousands?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:24 AM
51

The woman on the left and I would get along great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:39 PM
7

Exactly, what is so offensive about being a gentleman and doing something nice for your woman. Whenever stuff like this is suggested they just screech BuT bUt EqUaLiTy!!1 aka they want all of the benefits and none of the work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:19 AM
8

Reddit nvm will make tasteless sex jokes in totally inappropriate contexts then suddenly act serious and philosophical with shit like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:17 AM
53

Extremely vile to do this kind of thing. The definition of a predator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:44 AM
32

Fucking lol at him skipping his own weight and height. Probably balding too. I’m sure women are beating down his door
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:41 AM
169

Really sad but not surprising. Thank you for showing me this sub though, I never would have found it on my own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:18 AM
30

This is legitimately making me wonder if i*cels are becoming scientists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:14 AM
13

I saw that and immediately knew it would draw in the typical scrote comments talking about “woe is me no one likes me no one compliments me men need compliments too” like can they please just... not.... for once.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:09 AM
146

For rapists the goalpost just keeps moving. If someone is dressed provocatively, it’s supposedly fair game. If someone is covered up, they see it as a challenge and get off on perceived innocence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:57 PM
8

The absolute idiocy of thinking you can take action to prevent men from raping would be laughable if it weren’t so sad. Show me one time in history ever that someone’s age, appearance, clothing, gestures, etc were a deterrent for these monsters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:54 PM
7

Liberal feminism is getting worse by the day. I’m early 20s but I don’t even remember it being this ass backwards when I was in my teens. I’m convinced this is why many women shun the feminist label, since libfem has dominated that association
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:31 AM
27

Yes it’s all their character. I’ve seen some horrendous looking broke men sleep around a ton and cheat on their gf and seen some very attractive potentially HV men remain loyal and emotionally present for their gf/wife. Some of them do rise above and actually value romance even while they are a catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:43 AM
152

Lol I found FDS on a random post because someone directly tagged it, saying how insane and toxic it was. I thought it was interesting the title specifically had “female” in it and thought it would be a place that could really cater to my needs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:08 PM
70

Scrotes take everything “seriously” except sex. They don’t respect or have integrity for their bodies at all and want women to be the same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:06 PM
11

From what I’ve seen.. nah. The only thing that stops them is aging getting to them, to the point they cannot attract anyone at all anymore. This happens earlier for some men than others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:51 AM
19

Yeah I don’t like these either. The ‘fun’ in it like you said is that you get to create a negative emotion in someone, but in a theatrical way, so the person can’t be mad since it wasn’t “real”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:22 PM
13

Same, I haven’t been on a ton of dates but every date I don’t offer or motion toward my wallet or whatever, they just knew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:18 PM
88

I know how common it is for women to be used/discarded or be in the shadow/background as a supporting character (both usually), but this is excessive. Shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:14 PM
522

Ah yes, supporting sex work, such a progressive, rare, and groundbreaking quality for a man to have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:08 PM
32

I agree with this. It just makes the woman look bad or elicit pity from others, honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:23 AM
60

Exactly.. I’ve been told before, it’s okay to go out with someone you’re not attracted to, it’s not like you have to kiss/sleep with them on the first date. Okay but why would I even entertain someone I WOULDN’T do that with, because that’s sort of where it should eventually progress. If he can’t get me excited now then he never will.. I absolutely do not believe in growing attraction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:17 AM
12

I see this all the time and see women AGREEING. They say women have superficial and fake friendships that are only based on appearances. They can speak for themselves, I have plenty of genuine female friendships because I don’t believe in befriending males. Just because it’s easier to make scrote “friends” (opportunists) doesn’t mean they have to perpetuate that all women are catty to each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:56 PM
37

That’s a touch of libfem where you’re not allowed to criticize any non-American culture simply because that would be racist. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:48 PM
4

In my experience the reason they have these seemingly contradictory desires is that 1. Our culture has now normalized first time husbands/fathers at 50+ years old 2. Scrotes get women pregnant now without any intention of a ring, or even being present in fatherhood, ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:12 AM
3

Low class is the norm now I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:07 AM
1

It’s hard. I’m biased because I don’t want children but I feel like being a stay at home mom comes with a risk that you can’t leave when/if you need to. I’m not kidding when I say every single woman in my family is a stay at home mom and it’s okay for some but most have felt pressured to stay/did not have the financial means to leave when they felt disrespected or mistreated. At the same time I don’t like the 50/50 mentality that seems to automatically be associated with ‘working mom.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:05 AM
85

Literally this. I vehemently hate being hit on. Just because scrotes are so desperate for attention they think women are the same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:33 AM
22

Zero empathy/sympathy whatsoever. This loser could’ve ended himself and stopped there but he didn’t. And I don’t give a damn about his mental health or that “men’s mental health isn’t taken seriously wahh”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:24 PM
7

As per usual the scrotes and pickmes want to knock down every pillar of benefit a woman can acquire from a relationship. I’m not understanding the stinginess surrounding this lately. We’re not talking about a utility item, this is supposed to have emotional/romantic significance. I know if I was a man I would pull out all the stops to get a woman I was proposing to a costly, high quality ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:14 AM
10

I know several women who unironically say this almost exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:08 AM
29

I think this all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:51 AM
100

The concept of attraction not mattering (on women’s end of course) is actually a huge, overbearing motif in society. Even today I hear all sorts of people who genuinely believe and perpetuate “men are visual women are emotional hurr durr” even though that’s not true. It is also a social tool that manipulates women into thinking that as well. I think that’s why people get really uncomfortable that I won’t bend on physical standards as a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:47 AM
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As a 22 year old I would have never done something so horrible when I was 19.. I wonder if she has no social support. She’s going to regret it faster than she thinks. This time is precious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:22 AM
434

“If she doesn’t want you when you have nothing, you dodged a bullet king. She doesn’t deserve you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:54 AM
3

Yeah theoretically speaking rejecting 600 isn’t even unreasonable (although the guy who posted it is exaggerating if he’s talking about non-dating app interactions). If all options presented aren’t viable what are we supposed to do about that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:28 AM
2

Yes there is a way I’m rejecting all those men. Have they seen the way most men look and act? I thought scrotes complained about how picky women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:23 AM
35

Throwing up 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:17 PM
46

People claim the Oedipus complex isn’t real but shit like this proves otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:04 AM
5

Yeah if women want to keep a baby it’s one thing but too many are guilt tripped into thinking abortion is a bad thing, it’s not. No one cares about women’s suffering for anything but when it comes to pregnancy all of a sudden everyone wants to get sentimental about it and equate pregnancy termination to murder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:50 AM
13

Same!! I cut out every male friend awhile ago and I feel so much lighter. The only exception is my sole gay male friend, he actually invests a lot of emotional labor and genuine communication with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:21 AM
40

Lowkey same, everyone tells me “omg it must be so easy for you to get a bf” and it’s actually not, no one I have ever been interested in took me seriously. Attractiveness as a woman really does not matter at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:26 PM
26

Honestly I wouldn’t have responded and would’ve just hung up. They literally see women as these two dimensional characters that only have one default setting of cheerfulness. Men for some reason don’t like when women are serious, they think it is amusing when they see that. I don’t smile at men anymore (even when they tell me to), don’t explain myself, don’t even look at them if I don’t have to really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:55 AM
321

This is really sad, obviously this would drive anyone insane. I can’t believe this used to be the norm for women. Can’t make a husband out of a hoe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:52 AM
20

Tbh I’m not sure she has always been a no holds barred person when it comes to everything. She literally taught me about p*dos before I even entered first grade so that I could avoid them. Harsh, but I think I turned out okay lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:12 AM
42

My mother taught me this from a very young age as well. Honestly she is the one that pre-set me to FDS ideas bc she taught me men should pay/court, don’t reveal trauma to men, all men are potential r*pists etc. I remember she had told me men weaponize pain against you and this is exactly what I’m coming to understand now. I didn’t get it when I was younger but still listened to her, I am so glad I did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 11:23 PM
7

So he sees being a husband and father as a job he doesn’t like, not a privilege..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:17 AM
58

Lol @ lvm who claim being fit and healthy is “unrealistic” (even though the standard for women now is literally not attainable without surgical enhancement) when they work a normal 40 hr job if employed, and do nothing but play video games and watch p*rn in their free time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:11 AM
139

They’re mad bc they know you’re right. Libfem has women willingly walking into abusive, degrading sexual situations at a disturbingly widespread level these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:16 PM
124

I feel like the evil boss woman trope is borne out of the fact society still can’t accept women can lead or be intelligent without there being something seriously wrong with their psyche/personality. They are always depicted as crazy or unreasonable in fiction like this whereas I don’t see male bosses/leaders portrayed the same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:26 AM
165

Scrotes can’t ever just be normal. Honestly I’ve just started avoiding places that are lvm heavy like this in order to not even have to interact/deal w them at all but it’s so wrong women can’t have fun without being haggled by predators constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:23 AM
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This is def another behavior on the long list of emasculation that men have fully embraced these days. Men want to be pursued, wined and dined, have things bought for them, are cowardly, are physically unfit etc etc at that point literally what incentive do women have for being heterosexual anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:14 AM
100

That is vomit inducing he is talking about his sex life to his own kid. There’s definitely something very sinister going on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:25 AM
144

Perfectly explained as a response to all the “modern feminism has ruined women” scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:15 AM
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People who do this are bad people and lack empathy. I had a LVW as a former friend who thought it was hilarious that she ran over a cat. Surprise surprise she’s stuck with a huge lvm draining the life out of her now (12 years older, broke, selfish, etc) Also, related to what you said, it’s definitely true. I see some women intentionally go after unattractive men thinking they’re safe lol no I promise there’s another pickme who has the same idea about him and will try to “poach”..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:28 PM
28

Don’t forget now though there is an entire movement attempting to say that everyone can be rehabilitated, even rapists. In a college class I took about a year ago they were talking about how not even rapists should be in jails because it “doesn’t help the victim” or “reverse what happened” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:13 AM
21

How any pickme can say this seriously is deluded when every girl/woman has to be constantly vigilant against sexual assault by men as a default of her life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:45 PM
53

I notice women as a class don’t get recognition. Something else always supersedes women’s rights
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:42 PM
12

It is definitely frustrating they are not even open at all to the possibility that “kinks” are not automatically benign just because they say so or bc it’s their choice. It really doesn’t matter how you frame it, many kinks/fetishes are real abuse and depicting it as erotic doesn’t erase that. If a woman is into that, I guarantee 100% it is a trauma response or due to low self esteem (usually both). No one wants to have this conversation in a libfem dominated culture though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:54 PM
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Yeah just reading that part made me angry for her.. that is beyond rude. You don’t have to tell me twice to not date single dads though lol I am so glad I’m childfree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:12 AM
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They don’t want traditional they just want “how it used to be” aka they would like to treat women like shit and still keep a loyal gf/wife. I don’t believe for one second men who say this mean it, just like how it’s a myth men don’t care about your career or education (money). In the past every time I’ve let a guy know about the career I’m going into they have become immediately more interested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:53 AM
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It is genuinely ruining the gene pool. Women are supposed to be picking the fittest men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:50 PM
7

I’m fucking laughing she really thinks this is so sweet and charming the dude is geriatric of course he’s going to say this fairytale stuff to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:43 AM
209

Omg that literally puts the “forever” in forever gf 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:44 AM
136

Omg I’ve had women themselves tell me I’m a wimp for not wanting to get an IUD 😑like sorry I don’t want something shoved up all the way into my uterus and leaving it in there for months to years with no sedative or anesthetic.. IUDs can leave things too like scar tissue/infections/being ejected spontaneously etc We need to start making and normalizing male birth control. The only reason I still take the pill is my period is insanely long/heavy/painful without it Edit: I’ve been shamed for not wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:18 AM
148

Slightly unrelated but more proof that women are the gatekeepers of marriage. I see a lot of rhetoric going around by lvm saying women gatekeep sex but men decide on commitment, which this obviously shows is not true. Pickmes settling for situationships in droves does not mean the naturalistic standard has changed. Women are the selective sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:30 AM
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Yeah I get that her intention was for it to be a selfless act because she wanted to save his life but the truth is what she did was extremely naive and stupid, these are the sort of actions that honestly lend themselves to natural selection. She has permanently compromised her body for someone not even genetically related to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:00 PM
30

I won’t even give men the time of day. She just gave away her kidney so easily???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:51 AM
4

Omg haha I have a friend whose relative is friends with this couple. Nice to know he is like this :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:01 AM
7

Yeah that’s what I was thinking, men won’t think she’s ‘asking them out’ they’ll jump to the conclusion she’s propositioning them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:08 AM
25

“Ladies I need you to do what I just did, to make me feel better about the fact I just wasted time I’ll never get back on the most cringe, unnecessary activity of my life”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:05 AM
31

The comments are full of scrotes and pickmes defending the him since he should be able to ‘do whatever he wants in his own home’ they’re really putting his idiocy above a very serious exam. That is insane to think this is any way acceptable. I would literally lose my shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:47 AM
12

He should do his poor wife a gigantic favor and leave so she can find someone better or whatever else she wants. See how it turns out for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:53 PM
18

Pickmes are so dumb just hearing this makes me livid. Then they expect others to feel sympathy for their literal criminal activities in order to keep their lvm. And they actually are dangerous, pickmes are a huge reason child abuse happens because they would literally rather keep a p+do as a bf/husband than tell on him and save their children. This woman in this described situation prob would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:43 PM
21

No sense trying to argue with lvm, they are dumber than insects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:39 PM
28

Libfems kind of reflect lvm in that they don’t understand boundaries when it comes to other women, they only understand boundaries when it comes to men. (Oh my bf won’t like if/men don’t like this or that/it’s not fair to expect xyz of men). ‘Girls supporting girls’ does not mean just taking whatever trash destructive behavior women do just because they’re female... especially when it comes to things that will inevitably reflect and affect women as whole like you said with sex work and collectiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:54 AM
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Why pickme women are soo concerned about being “fair” to men is beyond me. Men aren’t expected to go through pain with periods, childbirth, or personal grooming, so automatically it will never be a straight 50/50. You don’t see pickme men running around talking down to other men about being fair to women, they all look out for each other and themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:16 PM
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Oh my god one of my friends is sort of a watered down version of this I think. She’s always offering to pay for her food or both their food on first dates. The other day she was telling me how her bf wants to get proposed to as well and she thinks some women ‘expect the guy to do everything’ I hope she wasn’t expecting me to agree with her because I just stared at her like a deer in headlights...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:10 PM
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100%. If I could prevent them from even looking at me I would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:08 PM
8

Tf LOL they can have fun fighting amongst themselves then I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 09:05 PM
11

I think marina has always been really good at capturing the dark side of the feminine experience, ‘Sex Yeah’ and ‘Teen Idle’ are very powerful songs that are very candid about how p+rn culture has ruined women’s mental health and self image as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:07 AM
111

Someone got his heart broken by a woman with dyed hair lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:00 PM
42

He’s past his prime. Idk if he ever had one tbh. Asking for way too much with a condescending attitude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:34 AM
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Wtf LOL there’s a satire sub?? They’re that obsessed? I never go into men’s only spaces bc I’m not interested in what those kind of ‘men’ have to say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:02 PM
150

Finally a realistic depiction of the way they actually are towards women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:41 PM
302

This might be the most scrote thing I’ve ever heard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:40 PM
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To be honest I empathize with you there is always some degree of discomfort when socializing with men. I’ve only ever felt truly comfortable with some male family members and someone I was in a relationship with before. There is just such a high risk of danger and chance of sexual assault you just never know. I have experienced a full spectrum of sexual harassment from all sorts of men from stares, following me, talking to me excessively, trying to touch me, etc it is only logical to start to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:38 PM
22

Yes this is literally my mindset. I think it helps that I am childfree so I can really go all in and choose/pursue a career (which I am doing) that is very intensive but also high paying because all the women in prior generations of my family were stuck, because they couldn’t financially afford leaving. People tell me all the time “guys don’t care about your career” as if I’m doing it to attract men specifically lol nah I want my own professional life and money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:16 PM
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I love this energy. I too don’t give a flying fuck what anyone has to say about my preferences because it is my life on my terms, I will do as I please, and I don’t care who wants to call it “shallow.” The pickmes can have their scraps lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:59 PM
36

And then they still play the victim for not being able to attract any women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:21 AM
52

Like others said most women will ditch it so fast at step 2 lol let alone all that bullshit on the second slide. No woman, not even a pickme, is that stupid to believe men won’t try to turn things sexual at any given opportunity. No woman with morals and self respect will play mistress to some lame scrote, there’s just so many flaws to this “plan” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:12 AM
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I think bios like this one that try too hard always have red flag vibes to them, the flowery vocabulary used seems totally benign at first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:42 AM
14

The same people who make fun of Mormons or otherwise super old fashioned religious zealots for having multiple wives are now engaging in the exact same thing. The irony is unfunny at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:39 AM
15

This is why I can’t take them seriously lol. Walking jokes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:27 PM
6

Yeah this is why I literally recoil when I see a guy say it’s a turn on/attractive for the woman to make the first move. I know what game is being played lol scrotes just want as easy access zero effort as possible sex on command. “Attractive” my ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:25 PM
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My brother is like this. He’s in his 30s and the only reason he has a job is my dad has a good reputation at his company, so basically nepotism. My brother can’t seem to figure out why women aren’t fawning over him Edit: lol and I’m the daughter working part time while doing school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:47 PM
43

Are men even men anymore these days?? Every day I see a new greatly emasculating thing modern men have seemed to pioneer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:44 PM
44

That’s a big cope from him. Wtf is stopping him from doing exactly just that? Nothing. He is free to leave her and find his “””dream woman””” literally right now, but he won’t, because this pathetic dude knows he isn’t shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:54 PM
12

Same, I’ve never been willing to give up physical attraction my entire life, and I never will. I’ve never believed the fallacy that ugly = better personality, how does that make any sense at all? People act on their values and morality, not how they look. Men are already a lot of trouble. No way am I taking a risk or investing time in one that isn’t a beauty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:46 AM
13

In my evolutionary psychology it is known that age gap relationships are literally dangerous and increase likelihood of fatality for women because men engage in more aggressive “mate guarding.” That is, the male is literally more willing to k*ll his partner because she is much younger (and he highly values that in his mind) in attempt to thwart her from leaving or finding another male partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:36 AM
25

It is gross and it’s reasonable to think that, promiscuous men are walking stds and emotionally empty inside. Huge turnoff to find out they’ve been hoeing around Lol what if we start spreading a rumor that dicks shrink from being used so much, the way they lie about vaginas becoming “loose”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:49 AM
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Faking caring about someone in a non sexual manner when it actually is a sexual manner is really creepy and gross. I had this old male friend who was the brother of a coworker of mine, so about 10 years older than me, and he befriended both me and another coworker my age except he didn’t find her attractive. He kept trying to check on me for the longest time claiming to care so much about me but never did the same for our mutual friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:21 AM
10

I think motherhood is profoundly unique and the fact creating human life is carried out pretty much entirely by women makes women very special. I think the physical, emotional, financial sacrifices made in the decision to raise a child responsibly is very noble and certainly a one of a kind experience. I think all these things of having kids, although I never want any myself. I’ve never been interested in all of the ways mothers are treated horribly domestically and socially, or the physical tol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:16 AM
8

Lol yeah most of my peers/friends are in their early to mid 20s, many post 5+ year bf/gf anniversaries.. I used to be jealous of super long relationships when I was younger but now I’m realizing that it just.. means... a ring is never coming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:07 AM
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Exactly, pursuing a career gets you good compensation for doing meaningful work with skills you’ve worked hard to acquire. I personally don’t find tending to babies and children, going through the physical horror of pregnancy, doing all this for free etc appealing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:55 AM
20

No... NO. Oh my god I’m 22 right now but I spent most of my life thinking having sex just ALWAYS has to mean UTIs for women because almost every single one of my friends has gotten a UTI from sleeping with some crusty dude. I have only ever had one relationship and he certainly didn’t treat me right but one thing he did get right (and the bare bones minimum) was that he was always clean as a whistle. Never got a UTI even once. I can’t believe women are letting that slide when a UTI can cause ser…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:28 AM
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I+cels cry all day long about how no one wants to touch their pp wah wah wah how is that even remotely similar to what this sub is about lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:45 PM
40

I think youthdigging is so disturbing because age is very fleeting. One moment you’re a certain age, and not that much time has to pass by before you either enter or start to enter the next age bracket of your life. So perpetually seeking something as temporary and unstable as youth has always been weird and nonsensical to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:22 AM
26

They think it’s okay for men to have height preferences for women because they suppose there is more “variety” ie some men are willing to date short/mid height/tall women, (even though women’s heights are made fun of all the time like this video) while women usually like tall men. But idk what they want us to do about it lol. It’s biology, it is natural for us to want tall fit men who are strong enough to take care of us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:07 AM
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The idea that every bad/unfortunate/traumatic event happens for a reason or that it taught a valuable lesson. I think it’s really insensitive to reduce something that really hurt emotionally to some sort of higher meaning that, really, did not need to happen. Like, no, I’m pretty sure a person could have lived their whole live normally and happily even without said event scarring them for life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:05 AM
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Yeah it really is. This is why I think the best way to go about things is always doing it yourself. People who claim they have some special information/technique/method of doing something that the average person doesn’t, always have an ulterior motive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:57 AM
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I always thought even the title itself sounded stupid. It is the epitome of “those who can’t do, teach” even though there’s not even any real ‘teaching’ going on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:51 AM
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You know, one of my friends is also consistently upset people aren’t more happy about the relationship she has with her bf and I’m seeing a theme of insecurity and needing assurance here. These women know they are in.. unideal situations to say the least, so they want approval from others. But others don’t turn a blind eye to the reality of their shitty relationship and they are seen as being unsupportive when really they care much more about the woman than the lvm she’s with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:46 AM
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Oh wow I just realized there’s no female equivalent to the positive connotation of ‘bachelor.’ Yes there’s bachelorette but that’s always in reference to a woman who is literally on the brink of her wedding day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:47 AM
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“Once women hit 30 they’ll regret being so picky” is hilarious to me like 30 is supposed to be this old ancient age for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:33 AM
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Yeah I’m 22 with female friends all under 25. No one’s boyfriend or husband (some of them are already married) is above 2 years older than them. Some of the bfs/husbands are younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:26 AM
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Yeah I always see this argument used and to me it makes no sense. Like.. that’s the point? The point of women having high standards they don’t compromise on will inevitably filter out men not willing to meet them, and these women are fully aware of that. Why are scrotes like “if you don’t instantly sleep with me some other woman will” like they’re just proving the technique is successful in keeping them away from women with standards lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:19 AM
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That response annoys me to no end. Why does it matter? That’s still a person who is too young to be considered an adult. People who use that word just want to justify the fact they’re a p+do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:17 AM
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Yeah I don’t understand why women think they can change men after months to years. If he’s not instantly acting right, he’s not going to down the line because it is telling of his intrinsic values/personality/intelligence. Although I have a very small amount of experience with sex in relationships, dare I say, I’ve never had this sort of negative experience because there are many signs you can pick up on before taking it that far honestly. I’m not sleeping with someone who’s giving me subpar vib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:07 AM
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Why am I just now hearing about this?? Oh but it only matters with males because tHeIr MeNtAl HeAlTh is soooo overlooked 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:41 PM
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I follow her now and a lot of scrotes and pickmes complain about her ‘delivery’ of it bc they’re mad that not only is she unashamed to ask for the bare minimum and have standards, she’s not tiptoeing around the subject or trying to be apologetic about it in trying to shelter egos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:22 PM
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When I’m asked this I will usually just say I haven’t met anyone I like enough. It sort of spins around the whole narrative of why I didn’t get picked and changes it into a clear statement that I’m not getting into a relationship with someone who doesn’t meet my standards. I could get into a relationship so easily because honestly men practically hound me, I’m not saying that as a flex, I’m just saying I want a quality partner, not the first person who asks me to get in a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:24 AM
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More women need to be like this. Or better yet not perform sexual acts at all until they are serviced from the get go. That’s my deal from my limited experience lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:12 AM
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It’s absolutely true, the original post sounds more like what you would expect of a pet, not a human male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:06 AM
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It’s so true, men with any ounce of self respect and standards for themselves react extremely uncomfortably to these types. Lvm exploit them shamelessly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:05 AM
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Yeah it’s very annoying how nothing gets done despite it being a direct violation of the app’s rules. I’m sorry you had to go through that, that was a terribly gross thing to do. That’s the most inappropriate response I’ve ever heard after you revealed something so personal and sensitive. They should be the one that is embarrassed, having no shame or empathy whatsoever. Ugh they don’t try it with men because men’s sexuality is actually taken seriously. And if they were to try it in real life on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:19 AM
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Yeah I have to say her behavior is really odd and self sabotaging. I vaguely connect this to people with an anxious attachment style, because it is said that those with anxious attachment are clingy and project an abundance of emotional support/loving mannerisms toward their partner not because it’s genuine, but it is actually a way to ensure their partner needs them/won’t leave/coercing them into trust. Sometimes they’re not even consciously aware of it That being said, she really needs to real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:02 AM
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I finished my psychology degree and this was actually one of the first things I learned. My outlook on marriage changed since then. When I was in my teens I didn’t believe that most women are unhappy with their relationships/have subpar ones but now I see it’s true. I do still want to get married I think, but it’s really important for the marriage to be with an extremely high value man so that I don’t end up like this statistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:02 AM
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As a straight woman when I was on the apps I’d see couple profiles DAILY. I reported them every time. Disgusting predators they are. Go find a guy to hookup with, oh wait, that doesn’t follow the scripture of pickmeism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:53 AM
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Why the fuck would you want to “work something out” from this. How are so many women’s self esteem beneath the ground that they even consider continuing being in this situation. It’s like most women have this big collective fear of being single, how is that worse than dealing with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:44 AM
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Always the horrendously ugly ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:41 AM
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Yeah that is an extremely incriminating comment made by him. He didn’t even feel the need to hide the fact that he has those kind of thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:17 AM
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“Women aren’t funny” Men:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:14 AM
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Why are they like this?? Always siding with whatever benefits the male. I bet you if that post was reversed and she had said she would be angry at her husband for not wanting to be in the room their tune would change into some bullshit like how it’s gross for him to have to see his wife like that and it’s a turn-off and whatnot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:13 AM
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Yeah it’s really eerie to me when they say they want traditional women. I think there’s a lot of crossover between this and racism/sexism/extremist far right views. This reminds me of a creepy incident, a girl I know who acts like a pickme on Twitter has drawn a lot of RP types as her followers, once tweeted asking men what they want out of life. A couple replies straight up sent pics of barefoot (yes, really) young white women taking care of a bunch of children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:09 AM
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Men are absolute psychopaths on the road for some reason. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve come across these incidents and every single time it’s been some scrote. Best thing is to ignore and evade at all costs. I have gone down roads the opposite way of where I was headed in order to get away, avoided eye contact no matter what. It is really frightening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:04 AM
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This is so true, and it’s very annoying and enraging but sometimes it just makes me sad. It makes me feel like it’s a waste of time to invest anything at all in dating when this is so common with men nowadays. Tired of hearing the same old sentiment over and over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:53 AM
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Why would anyone want to be unhygienic and stink if not for the sake of themselves?? Even if the guy is single like don’t you feel gross???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:01 PM
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I think it’s hilarious that crowd is convinced they’re worth chasing after. They literally emasculate themselves lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:15 AM
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Yeah, I wonder if he would have felt so compelled to give such a kind act of service if this were a 30, 40, 50 year old woman 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:09 AM
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Now wtf is this. This whole thing is just cringe and awkward. What is he trying to compensate for Edit: is she a minor??! I just noticed he said “not even in her 20s”... that’s really suspicious to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:42 PM
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There are no coincidences. He absolutely did that intentionally. A lot of them love playing dumb which just leads to that horrible feeling of uncanny you described. Don’t feel bad for acting on your instinct in the moment, it was there to protect you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:24 AM
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Most men are selfish and oblivious which is why so many of them are so noisy. It’s always men causing a commotion in public places, yelling in the streets etc I can’t stand the lack of self awareness. That being said, just because most men are like this, doesn’t mean it’s something I would ever tolerate. Don’t know why she feels the need to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:45 PM
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People who use this argument (let them have a ‘fake’ version to prevent real desire) are completely out of their mind. It is a psychological fact that feeding into a negative want (the most studied ‘want’ is giving into anger) it just eggs the person on to pursue it more. There is no such thing as a “getting it out of your system” purge-like concept these insane people want to perpetuate to defend p*dos and r+pists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:37 AM
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Lol that’s such a pickme strategy like you would never hear men doing the same for their gf/wife. Pickmes think this sounds charming but it actually just sounds like they’re engaging as an accomplice in sexual harassment with their bf, this especially applies if they’re ‘looking’ at women irl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:20 AM
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I was also annoyed by the OP’s passiveness. Like acting shocked and telling him to stop wasnt working, why was she so surprised they got kicked out because she couldn’t keep her dog on a leash?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:32 AM
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Hit the nail on the head. To everyone lurking, THIS is why dating broke men is a liability. They are evolutionarily proven to be worse partners. We don’t make the rules
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:29 AM
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They’re mad they know they’re allowing themselves to be degraded and disrespected and don’t want to feel alone in it. So instead of getting over their fear of being single they insult women with actual spines and as a bonus get their much awaited praise by LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:44 PM
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She’s really doing the most trying to impress some internet scrotes. I don’t know any women that chase after men they find attractive on IG the way guys use IG to try and hoe around. Even if there are women like that, be honest, how common is that?? Can’t stand pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:49 AM
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I think this must be why people get so uncomfortable when I bring up physical appearance as a reason I won’t date someone (most get so surprised to learn that yes I do care about things like height, body, face, etc). It’s just assumed women aren’t supposed to have attraction, only be attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:05 AM
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Women have been taught from day 1 how to alter how we are perceived to a diverse audience of male crowds, instead of being concerned about our own interests and forms of expressions that come from our intrinsic selves. Insane to me how it’s allowed to tell girls in grade school that wearing spaghetti straps is sexually inappropriate and being written up for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:02 AM
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Pathetic attempt at negging a woman for working hard at her grooming/hygiene/appearance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:50 PM
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Yeah I’m hoping we can reverse the damage that libfem has done/is doing because I have def seen an uptick in women starting to discourage this sort of behavior And then you get posts from the scrote’s POV where he’s like “I know she wants more but I just can’t date her bc blah blah blah” (he thinks he’s too good for any woman on earth apparently) “but I keep her around bc I like her as a person!!1” (free, easy sex)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:34 PM
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Good, it’s about time they actually get reprimanded for wh*ring themselves out thinking there’s magically no consequences for turning their dick into a Petri dish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:39 AM
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Almost sounds like trafficking when you put it that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:37 AM
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I’ve had several friends try to argue with me otherwise only to eventually admit how empty and ruined they feel in the end. Sorry, can’t libfem logic your way out of this one. This is a fact of life for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:30 AM
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That’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:22 AM
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It’s because “men are visual,” and women aren’t of course! Women don’t care about looks! /s 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:06 AM
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Yeah apparently safety is bottom of the barrel priority for proponents of women having anal. That’s literally having sex with the bottom portion of their colon, I’m not seeing the appeal in any way. And at least men have a g-spot in their adjacent area, so it makes more sense for men to take it up the butt. Anatomically speaking, it makes no sense whatsoever for women to enjoy it, any enjoyment imo must be a horrible mental conditioning because there’s literally nothing there for women..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:31 PM
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I’m not sure any woman truly likes it without outside (misogynistic) forces coming into play. This is just anecdotal evidence but a friend of a friend who claimed to love it eventually admitted it was because she wanted to replicate p+rn in addition to potentially “saving” her virginity since it wasn’t PIV sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:04 AM
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If the guy I was with told me it would take a goddamn lego set to commit to me, I’d think he was (poorly) joking. When I find out it’s not a joke, I’m gone. How low does your self-esteem have to be to make this kind of trade deal, let alone with an aesthetically deficient manchild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:37 AM
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Being alone is definitely not a fate worse than this, no matter what scrotes/pickmes say. My god, she looks so unhappy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:33 AM
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Weird how they expect adult women with a variety of interests to cost them no money.. how does that make any sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:21 AM
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I had a broke as shit ugly as shit former male friend who lived with his mom, and had this exact fear. There’s no gold to dig, scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:19 AM
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Yeah really convenient how every male’s “love language” is physical touch. I always thought it was the biggest load of bull
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:16 AM
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Hustlebros are truly delusional, they also think abstaining from buying a Starbucks coffee will turn them into a multi millionaire. We could keep going with how many false beliefs they hold 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:04 PM
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Hustle culture is so cringe 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:04 AM
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“Not all men” is a personal projection which really translates to “not me, it’s not fair to judge me!” (which may or may not even be true). And like the woman in the video said, they have no qualms about having the exact same assumptions of other men they claim to think are untrue/unfair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:04 AM
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There is truly no limit. People love to blame women for dressing a certain way or even having a flirtatious personality but did they forget children and even animals are often r*ped by scrotes as well. It is a choice fully made by the offender, it has absolutely nothing to do with the victim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:59 AM
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I definitely will, I actually visited many cosmetic surgeons as a teenager bc I was 15-17 when things like Kylie lips and IG model bodies were becoming a big thing. I wanted to look just like them, and adult male plastic surgeons fully encouraged me to get every procedure under the sun (fillers, implants, etc) even though I wasn’t even done developing yet. Some of the surgeons commented to me it’s better to get work done at an early stage of my life to “have a good self image as an adult woman.”…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:36 AM
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Definitely, in my opinion it’s a waste of a medical degree just to do boob jobs all day, it almost comes off as a joke even just describing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:30 AM
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Lol this is why I don’t like most plastic surgeons. They are the leeches of medicine because all they do is prey on unnecessary standards for how faces and bodies on women should look. My breasts look about the same as hers and I love them and have never made fun of them. I also think it’s time women stop using self-deprecating humor about being “flat” because you don’t see men making those same jokes about their physical appearance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:50 PM
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It’s because they’re pretty much always being disingenuous. They’re testing the waters and think anything more than ignoring them means you’re down to instantly have sex with with them. I think most women know this instinctually and it’s actually meaningful to receive a compliment with genuine intentions, meaning it’s from another fellow woman (or gay men lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:58 PM
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Hard to find men that aren’t hoes. It’s legit a rarity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:39 PM
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Lol why are they acting like this is a huge revelation? “Omg manipulation and abuse didn’t provide fulfilling relationships like I thought it would” cry me a river
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:03 PM
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SAME. I’ve had empty inboxes since day 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:57 PM
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Lol that’s funny, women can’t be i-cels seeing as they are the selective sex. I-cels is a uniquely human male reaction (aka crying) that they’re being selected out of the dating pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:56 PM
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Unfunny inappropriate sexual remarks seem to be their only form of “”””humor””””
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:53 PM
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And now “bimbo culture” is trying to say that women can be both the one-dimensional stereotype and someone with independent thoughts and interests. Oh what will libfem come up with next I wonder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:11 PM
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I had the biggest libfem pickme friend you could ever imagine and she said all of these things in an almost identical manner. The lengths they’ll go for cognitive dissonance whew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:52 AM
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They’re not gonna like this one 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:09 AM
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Having a father who is a rich celebrity (and in the entertainment industry which is already a risk factor enough), who only spawned so many children as trophies as a form of a midlife crisis, who will not invest the time or emotional relationship between over half a dozen children and like 5 baby mamas to whom he has no commitment to, will not bode well for the child’s mental health. I would hate my father if he did anything remotely like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:52 AM
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Exactly. Men don’t always start out aggressive or weird, a lot of the time they use being superficially nice as a farce to get women into a place of vulnerability. That’s why now I ignore strange men who try to seem kind to me, I ignore the instinctual guilt I feel, because it could cost me my safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:35 AM
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He doesn’t even care he’s subjecting them to permanent psychological issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:42 AM
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Oh I remember seeing his announcement on how he “never wants to be monogamous again” lol. Trying so hard to get Mariah’s attention I see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:10 AM
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Too many women are too nice. I was like that.. until I realized if you don’t assert yourself, no one’s doing it for you. It benefits others (usually men) when women think about everyone except themselves first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:09 AM
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Never be the supporting character. Thinking men will reward with loyalty at the end of their personal/professional journey is a fallacy, they literally don’t care. I haven’t personally experienced it but have seen it soooo many times. So miss me with the narrative of women being a ride or die for a man who’s at a low point in his life, I want someone established already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:03 AM
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This. I’m not exactly mean to men but I’m not nice to them automatically the way I used to be. I’ll be nice to people who deserve me being nice to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:36 AM
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It is evil that young women are being encouraged to do this irreparable damage to themselves. Libfems will still blame her for feeling this way and go on to encourage how her experience is invalid bc it “just wasn’t for her”. No, sex work is not work and it will never be viewed as such. Just look how this individual woman talks about how people don’t even treat her like a person anymore because that’s what sex workers are to society, they are not human. I hope up and coming women will wake up to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:20 AM
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Omg they always reference outdated comedies and expect you to just know- and when you don’t they’re soo shocked and proceed to make fun of you for not being into unfunny humor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:06 AM
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Yes it’s becoming very normalized, my whole life I’ve always told people I don’t like the idea of being choked, that’s something scary to me and I don’t associate it with intimacy?? Always got looked at like I’m the one with issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:10 AM
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They’ll literally just say anything, won’t they. They’re so mad not every woman they interact with is down with liberal feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:08 AM
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Also now it’s so common to see a pic of an attractive woman on social media and you’ll see comments saying “start an onlyfans” “where’s the onlyfans” like a bunch of mindless drones. The liberal agenda of normalizing sex work is some of the most disgusting rhetoric I’ve ever seen and too many women fall for it thinking it’s easy money with no consequences. What I hate about libfem is the doublespeak vibe of it where they clearly mean one thing and say another, and will not admit they’re not sayi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:30 AM
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Omg that’s real?? How is that allowed?! How sick. I don’t even have words to describe how horrible that is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:50 AM
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The one of the left whose name I can’t remember always looks like he’s on the brink of death lately. Hunching over all the time with an expression like he’s gasping for air or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:30 AM
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Men and their mommy complexes..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:27 AM
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I can’t think of one standard women aren’t shamed for nowadays. I would say the bare minimum that is universally agreed upon is the man being nice to her, but never mind because even then it’s still the woman’s fault for nOt CoMmUnIcAtInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:25 AM
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I really can’t believe it’s a controversial thing for women to want men to pay for the first date. For all the dressing up we do and the safety risk we are taking the scrotes are still trying to (unsuccessfully) guilt trip into 50/50 which by the way is the most mechanical, un-romantic thing I could think of. On an old account I don’t use anymore I once commented on some random sub if men can’t even emotionally invest/commit and pay for dates, why do women owe them their sexual intimacy. I got f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:20 AM
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Exactly of course the media is too afraid to call out scrotes as usual. The entire movement of kardashian bodies exists bc of straight men. I know it’s old news but I would like people to just think about how Kim’s rise to fame started a major normalization of p*rn and sex work in the mainstream. The rise of Dan Bilzerian promoting a gross Peter Pan lifestyle for men to model after. Huge part of “IG” is men liking pictures they really shouldn’t be and onlyfans gateways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:21 AM
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Their entire existence revolves around promiscuity. How stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:24 AM
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I had a friend exactly like this. I told her to not kid herself and she just got offended lol Women who say this are lying to themselves and using this as a farce to hide the fact they’re going to last resort, cheap meaningless sex from a scrote, to fill their need for validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:10 PM
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And they always claim it’s because there’s no “market” for them since they’re a male. Nope, I guarantee there definitely is a market for them, they just refuse to be gawked at by people they don’t consider attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:06 PM
11

Cringe is liberal feminism and the entire grotesque crop of scrotes it’s emboldened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:54 PM
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“Worst gf I’ve ever had” probably means the only woman with a spine he’s ever dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:49 PM
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When they think it’s a flex to say this kind of thing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:43 PM
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Yes!! Literally the moment you say anything REMOTELY out of line with LVM philosophy on any other sub it’s nothing but downvotes and harassment. It’s nice having a scrote-free space
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:40 PM
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Why are they so salty that a tall height is attractive to women? You know scrotes are judging every centimeter of a woman “because apparently it’s important” but they’re mad women have height preferences?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:55 AM
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Everyone agrees that the internet/technology has mostly bad consequences in terms of entertainment consumption. Everyone criticizes Instagram and all other forms of social media and kids using iPads because it rots their brains. But then silence when it comes to prn which is *actually harmful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:11 AM
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“Less amusing than a monkey” 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:07 AM
43

Founding mothers of FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:06 AM
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I’m really over “jokes” about p*rn and sex work. Must be a male/pickme thing to find a culture of abuse funny and something to make light of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:13 PM
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We have to be as stoic as possible. Manners = sexual come-ons to them apparently. Once, I smiled for one second at a passerby scrote in an emptyish mall and he followed me around for an uncomfortable amount of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:11 AM
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I consider myself a moderate but I just have to say personally I see liberal men as “new misogyny” and conservative men as “old misogyny.” A man with actually healthy, reasonable beliefs about women will not subscribe to either ideology’s view on women’s wellbeing/feminism etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:33 AM
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I very much agree with this take, although I totally understand where the original post is coming from, I think it can be a fallacy and a slippery slope like you said to favor the “underdog.” As a mixed, nonwhite woman living in a very diverse area, I have come to understand that no man is going to be inherently better or worse based on his racial background or aesthetic appearance. That’s why I judge men’s character strictly on the behaviors they themselves exhibit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:53 PM
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As someone who did undergrad in the humanities and is now doing more traditional STEM as a grad student, I can say both subjects are very challenging in their own ways. People write humanities off as being easy because of the lack of numbers (and even that isn’t always the case, humanities can have very challenging logic and numerical/computational problems) but I would argue it makes you think more critically and abstractly than most hard sciences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:37 PM
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Pickmes are heavily in denial and do the most to suppress that they actually like attractive men. I had an old pickme friend who would insist all the time that objectively ugly men are handsome to her, and it didn’t stop there, she actually shamed me and would tell me “ew” for liking actually handsome men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:12 PM
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Women have the final say in reproduction for all of society. They are the more important ones as well, because the entire process develops and is carried and is birthed out of women’s bodies. Scrotes can’t stand this/are afraid of this (womb envy), and will conduct smear campaigns against women until they are blue in the face rather than ever take any blame for anything Edit: additionally, the pro-life movement is specifically designed to prevent women from having their final say, as another exa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:36 PM
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100% I hate the fact people will excuse men for anything as if they aren’t fully aware of how shitty they’re being. Drawing attention to the behavior through “communication” will not do anything, if he wanted to behave correctly he already would’ve, it does not take a huge amount of intelligence to understand this (how to behave like a decent person). Meanwhile, women are demonized for almost any mistake they make
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:31 PM
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Yeah, I stopped thinking men were truly stupid a long time ago and I realized they just don’t care about being a good person especially when it comes to relationships. Men play dumb for so many things to the point where it’s not even believable anymore, they’ll pretend to not understand the most simple of concepts as a way to avoid accountability
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:21 PM
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This is legit, I have taken care of my teeth pretty well my whole life but in high school I didn’t floss every day. By 22 it caused me to need two root canals and several fillings and this was with frequent brushing and mouthwash. I can only imagine what neglecting your teeth for that long does eventually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:34 PM
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I think it’s really scary how badly men wish to coerce or force women to be with them. Like, I wouldn’t want to be with someone who doesn’t love me by his own free will.. why would I want some sort of prisoner bound to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:53 AM
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It’s sooo unattractive. Infantilization/feminization is a great way to put it, the way men are now is so un-masculine it is like a repellent. Also the fact they complain it’s too “hard” to court and pursue women and cry about rejection. Sorry scrotes, that’s literally your evolutionary and biological role. You don’t see literally any other animal whining and complaining about the natural way of things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:23 PM
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This is the case 100% of the time, I totally agree. I cut off the only straight male friend I had because I eventually realized this. He befriended myself and another one of my friends simultaneously and when our dynamic broke apart for various reasons, he only continued desperately to talk to me and not my friend. He would always talk about how attractive he found me and make a lot of questionable remarks. Men do not care to make “friends” with women they don’t find attractive, it’s gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:19 AM
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Pickmes always thinking their labor will be rewarded with loyalty and commitment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:03 AM
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You hit the nail on the head! This is what pickmes don’t understand. Literally do not listen to what men say, they love women who are assertive and confident about themselves, their opinions, their standards etc. They do not take self-deprecating, pickme women seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:00 AM
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Omg I’ve taken this up recently and it’s changed the game. I get to not acknowledge them and they don’t get my attention. The biggest ‘slip’ I had the other day was some scrote who had to be in his 60s-70s kept waving at me, as his car was next to mine at a stoplight. I saw so much movement out of the corner of my eye so I looked over, and he was still waving and smiling, I didn’t know this man at all, I’m in my early 20s. I simply turned my head back to face forward and didn’t look again, and d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:56 AM
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With the average scrote’s lifestyle, that’s definitely reasonable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:43 AM
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“bUt iF iTs TwO cOnSeNtInG aDuLtS tHaT aRe HaPpY, wHo ArE yOu To JuDgE”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:41 AM
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Sure, it was casting + talent management
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:51 AM
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I once had a bit of an argument with two former friends (one man one woman) who are prn addicts and when I informed them it’s actual really unethical bc the most famous site has a lot of trafficking/illegal stuff on there, they got *mad and said well how are they supposed to know which videos are or aren’t consensual. That was really their response, I couldn’t believe it. Libfem has pushed society into this way too deep. There’s so much work that needs to be done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:34 AM
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Sex work will never be destigmatized because of what it is (I cannot stand the sEx WoRk iS WoRk mantra) and I totally agree the privileged voluntary ones are no help at all. Sex being neutral, able to be a commodity without consequence is a libfem fairytale which exploits and tortures women at worst and brainwashes them into thinking it’s easy money at best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:27 AM
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The film and entertainment industry is the absolute worst area for girls and women to be employed in. I pursued a career in it (albeit not acting) and saw how unbearable the culture is for women. The whole business is literally marked by p*dophilia and sexual assault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:57 AM
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This is really true, scrotes love to attempt to groom women with a lack of goals/social support. I got preyed on the most when I was 16-18 by adult men, now at 22 on a grad school track the same types of scrotes are literally scared off by it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:48 AM
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Also the “bridezilla” trope like yeah maybe it’s not that abnormal for a bride to be under immense stress due to multiple aspects of social pressure on her during the wedding (appearance, behavior, etc.) while grooms just get ball-and-chain jokes the whole time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:38 AM
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I notice men today have this mentality bc human history has told us all men need to do is exist to have a relationship/marriage and provide for the household, and they haven’t caught up with how things have changed for women (not needing men anymore, therefore higher standards). Except scrotes of today don’t even provide anymore lol they’re all broke, all the entitlement with literally nothing to show for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:34 AM
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Yeah that caught my attention a lot of people “want” to have certain careers so does that imply he’s unemployed?? Why does an unemployed gamer with obviously no social/romantic skills have all these requirements for a perfect woman..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:29 AM
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I think it’s hilarious these dudes are asking for multiple gfs while having absolutely nothing to offer in any department
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:02 AM
16

Not limited to this situation, but women with high-paying careers who have a desire to marry need to watch out. Just look at how Adele got robbed by her lvx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:18 AM
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Just know those men aren’t even someone you would give the time of day of in real life, they are all delusional losers living in a fantasy manosphere and probably eat pill beliefs right up. Men are different from women in that they are predictable by their hobbies; hvm likely have nothing to do with posting on this website at all. No good men I know are redditors, gamers, etc. they focus on building their personal and professional lives. It’s different with women, you don’t see women on Reddit s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:12 AM
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Also the fact they register their age on dating apps as decades lower just to get in your age range. What do they expect out of that?? I’m in my early 20s and more than a handful of times some geriatric mfers would pop up claiming they set their age to 27 on accident.. sure grandpa..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:04 AM
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It is VERY disturbing how many men expect their gf/wife to be mommy 2.0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:01 AM
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Yeah.. tbh I’m feeling that lately as well. Some people criticize me for being too intensely picky because men are frequently interested in me and I’ve been turning all of them down. Past me would feel bad about it but I don’t anymore, I’m not obligated to date men I’m not interested in or who I know are low value. I do think I want to get married (I’m childfree) but it’s just hard to picture someone I’ll be attracted to and who will actually be high value. I welcome it, but I’m not hedging any …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:59 AM
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How long till this goes out of fashion.. I’m sick of hearing every other day how a pickme would rather do some boring gross low effort activity like this than something actually fun or meaningful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:52 AM
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I went through the proliferation of libfem in my teenage years and at first I reluctantly bought into it, then I hated it so much I abandoned the idea of feminism. I couldn’t put it into words but I just knew that libfem was a hollow, meaningless philosophy that didn’t help me or womankind at all. Then I discovered there is actually a different form of feminism that is helpful to the liberation of women. Thankfully I think more women are waking up and realizing this as well recently You hit the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:56 AM
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Yeah this is why I don’t date men with facial hair. Men with attractive faces won’t be looking to hide a big portion of their face like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:19 AM
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I agree, I love that for us. I see that other women-only/oriented subs allow (intentionally or not) male commenters who of course add nothing to the conversation. I like the system on this sub which needs an approval for a comment before it’s published
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:27 AM
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Lol “toxic” has become a catch-all term that’s largely lost its meaning. They’re just crying about the fact women on here are honest about their desires and we’re not all playing the token pickme who apparently loves small dicks, short men, or who will gladly go 50/50 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:15 AM
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So embarrassing LOL any guy who agrees with her is automatically a nvm because she is saying some really backwards stuff here. She is literally implying women should take up the masculine role of provider/pursuer, this is going to be a huge turn off for men with self-respect and who value their integrity as a male If this works so well, why’d she get dumped? I had to go there..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:19 AM
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People who made idiotic comments like that are playing dumb/gaslighting and they know it. Don’t understand why they try so hard to defend moral depravity in men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:53 PM
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She definitely wouldn’t be, isn’t the only thing she has going right now is that shitty cookbook she probably didn’t even write herself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:48 PM
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Biggest cultural misogyny, it’s literally always the woman’s fault for everything. Dating a teenager is okay because they’re “legal adults who can make their own decisions” but on the other end these young women are perpetuated as vultures and gold diggers for “using men for their money.” Most people are really under the illusion taking advantage of women’s youth and inexperience means nothing, it’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:45 PM
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They’re the ones who hate sex workers. Thinking it is in any way justifiable for a person to perform “sex work” is devaluing that person’s health and well-being to nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:27 AM
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Someone I know’s dad had him at 60 years old, and he was dead before the son even graduated high school. It’s honestly negligent, selfish, and delusional to think geriatric fatherhood is a good idea at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:33 PM
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I totally get where you’re coming from, in theory, it is a sweet thing to do, I think you had good intentions! The fact that libfem has a lot of them starting to think they’re the prize (like you said), it just becomes super important to reinforce the man’s natural role as the provider/pursuer and remind them they are in fact the lucky one haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:44 PM
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Men over 40 who say they want kids someday are literally a joke, when is “someday” when they’ve already turned to dust? 💀 Also sperm quality is not talked about nearly enough, everyone claims men can have kids their entire life maybe they can it doesn’t mean they should.. put a middle aged man’s sperm until a microscope and see how defective it’s become. And having an extremely geriatric father is not fair for the child anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:33 PM
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And scrotes still harp on their conspiracy of women being desperate to “baby trap”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:24 PM
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Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:36 AM
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I totally agree, all that expressing your standards does is offend and create defensiveness by the lvm and pickmes. I sleep at peace in the night knowing my own standards and having no one to argue about that with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:49 PM
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You literally can’t make this stuff up, this is textbook scrote, word for word. I literally don’t know a single male in a ‘relationship’ who doesn’t follow this exact pattern
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:45 PM
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This is actually so true. More women in my social circles than I can count have their bf plastered all over everything, meanwhile the bf has 0 posts about her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:35 PM
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This dumb scrote is so upset he can’t comment in the one space he’s not allowed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:31 PM
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This is the funniest thing I’ve heard all year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:57 AM
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Yeah it can be hard to deny the urge for intimacy whether sexual or non sexual, the way I’ve always successfully staved it off is recognizing, no matter what my emotional feelings are, it isn’t a need. I won’t die without having the touch of someone. The thought of being with someone I’m not attracted to and don’t love was always the biggest motivator as well. And like you said, men are extremely predatory and will take advantage of women in their vulnerable moments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:47 AM
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I am 100% childfree while my brother feels extremely casual about it and says he could go either way. F*king obviously, what do men even have to think about in terms of risk factors. Women are usually very confident of whether or not they want kids because the consequences are very serious for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:37 AM
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Honestly it’s likely that’s the case, but on the flip side a lot of these losers are scared little babies in real life and cower over basic social interactions, and only feel brazen like this online. That doesn’t mean they don’t have the capability to act it out though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:35 AM
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It’s right up there with them announcing that they are the lucky one in the relationship, it’s embarrassing.. anyway yeah self-deprecating humor in relationships is heavily skewed on the woman’s side, of course, and libfem eggs this on. Miss me with ever humiliating myself like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:01 AM
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I once tried volunteering for an organization where I would talk to people who were down in their mental health. I quit after two days, but I’m not kidding, every single conversation was obviously sexually motivated and I did not get to help even one person. These scrotes prioritizing their filth over actual crises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:38 AM
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Human males are dangerous. Do you notice how most animals develop a fear or aversion to men specifically most of the time? Even they know how likely it is they are dealing with a predator. In my evolutionary psychology course, we have learned that literally everyone (women, children, and even men themselves) have adapted mechanisms to be wary of human males for this exact reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:24 AM
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They want to be a man without the integrity and masculinity lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:36 AM
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I remember being really confused by the ‘he for she’ thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:28 AM
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Billie usually hits the nail on the head so this was surprising and a bit disappointing honestly. The language and style of dress was definitely giving me libfem vibes Regarding plastic surgery I definite agree. As a 22 year old I’ve already grown out of a phase where I wanted all sorts of fillers, breast implants etc. Libfems will say that if it makes u feel better about yourself, do the procedure. But how valid is that when it’s such an extrinsic reward. It’s a known fact ppl get addicted to g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:36 AM
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Why are scrotes so self-centered. Imagine trying to congratulate someone for getting married and having them respond not with a “thank you” but rather negative, spiteful comments about how miserable they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:51 AM
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Men will use women for status and appearances I think, a close friend of mine has a bf who is adamant in inviting her to events with his friends but then ends up ignoring her every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:47 AM
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Can you imagine the response... it would literally be a mass of: “she had her whole life to learn this basic skill! Women really expect men to do everything for them, this b*tch got what she deserved.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:38 PM
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This is proof that many men are so lazy and self-sabotaging they would actually rather die than put in any effort into becoming a more skillful, better person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:35 PM
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Same with me, bc my parents both cook and do domestic labor I never grew up thinking it was necessarily a woman’s role to take care of all that. That’s why I was so confused when girls/women would talk about being “wifey material” for cooking/cleaning lol???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:32 PM
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I know what you mean, and I’m sorry, I know it really does hurt your feelings. I had a few friends just like this, one whom I very recently cut off. In the same day she told some of my other friends she doesn’t actually like me or care about me, then called me on the phone later to tell me how much she “missed me” (wanted to use me for her own benefit again). Unfortunately there’s not really a way to avoid it besides cutting it off when you see this sort of behavior, because then you are left wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:28 PM
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Yeah tbh the stage where OP talks about getting excited or having fantasies isn’t really pickme behavior imo it’s more like getting giddy over the thought of a budding romance which is fairly normal, it’s only an issue when those sort of thoughts turn out to be unrealistic and manifest thru maladaptive actions, if that makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:22 PM
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And they swear up and down their mental/physical health doesn’t get taken seriously by society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:17 PM
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Dealbreakers are being overweight (I am fit), balding, short (I am taller so I consider tallness at 6’2+), having an unattractive face, small d*ck, so my standards are basically the opposite of that lol. Bonuses are blue/green/gray eyes, tattoos that actually look nice, and of course someone age appropriate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:58 AM
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Honestly being childfree is so liberating, so many things I don’t have to ever deal with or worry about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:51 AM
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Omg.. not to toot my own horn but as a conventionally attractive woman who doesn’t dress super modestly (nothing crazy, usually always a combination of a crop top and some form of full-length pants) women and men have gotten the impression I’m easy or that I would be a homewrecker (someone even once told my friend to not introduce me to men she was dating), meanwhile a former friend of mine had a very girl-next-door look, covered up, didn’t wear makeup, was very shy, and yet constantly slept wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:07 AM
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Thinking ugly men are more loyal/chivalrous is a fallacy. Pickmes are even proud of dating lvm bc they believe it means he’ll be more committed to them. Nah I’m going for gold if I’m gonna be dating a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:02 AM
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Yes it’s a running joke for women to make memes about being aggressive/mean to women that “look” at their man, and I’m just like realistically she’s probably dating a broke/ugly lvm... what’s there to guard or be defensive over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:57 AM
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Male moment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:49 AM
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I literally think about this all the time. Women are the ones who carry the reproductive burden therefore they are the selective sex and males have to compete to get to reproduce/couple up with a woman. This is confirmed in evolution of humans and other animals. It’s just biology, don’t understand what they’re so mad about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:20 PM
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Well said! Scrotes and pickmes will die trying to neg and bully you into being more likable/docile (to them) because a smart woman with high standards and self-respect is horrifying to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:57 PM
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They don’t care about our happiness and even actively want us unhappy, which is why it’s so important to remember to be ruthless into who we let into our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:28 PM
7

That scrote is as hideous on the inside as he is on the outside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:18 PM
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At that point it’s not only disgusting, it’s straight up unsafe. Foul smelling penises are really suspicious candidates for untreated STDs..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:49 PM
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Absolutely, even men who are unattractive and have nothing going for them are always assured by everyone they can still find their dream woman, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:46 PM
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Sorry but why are so many women in that thread tolerating such a fundamental lack of hygiene for more than the first two seconds they find out about it? My ass is out the door at the first moment’s notice of any of this, hygiene and good hygiene is at the top list of basic priorities in a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:02 PM
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She could’ve filed divorce papers faster than she wrote that list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:06 PM
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Why should you be thankful from getting “attention” (workplace harassment) from some ugly random 🙄 not directly related to your situation, I’m not sure if this has been mentioned yet but I would highly highly recommend turning off both your chats and messages. That way scrotes can argue with the wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:50 PM
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They always are, without failure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:46 PM
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Their very poor and pathetic attempt at reverse psychology. They are actually so desperate that they have to act like they’re a prize rarely won
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:36 PM
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Same!! I did it with like three guys from the ages of 17-20 before it hit me lol. I hate that libfem is the dominant form of “feminism” now because it teaches women to do self-degrading stuff like this, and I previously thought its values were with good intentions 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:34 AM
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I’m 22 now but when I was 20 and under, libfem brainwashed me into thinking women making the first move is good. I regret it so much, I did nothing but embarrass myself and waste my time, I don’t care what libfems say, women are not supposed to pursue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:29 AM
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Yeah those same people usually use the excuse “if they loved me they’d accept me for who I am” except it doesn’t work that way, high value people are going to want someone stable and secure in their life and that’s not an unfair expectation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:52 PM
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Why using dating for professional connections?? Wtf why can’t he just network normally on LinkedIn or even bumble bizz.. why does it have to have a precedent of sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:48 PM
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Oh I’m sorry I assumed you were in college! 😭 ugh the high school environment sucks. It’s so good you recognize this so early though, I definitely did not even comprehend how bad the guys were when I was your age. Stay true to yourself and focus on you, they don’t deserve your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:32 PM
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Most remarkable ones for me.. guy #1 I went on a sole date with because I realized I wasn’t physically attracted to him and he had a horrible personality. At the time, we were the same age (20) and his career aspirations were to become a wealthy poker player LOL. He was an hour late to our date because he was playing with his friends in some far away city. He touched and groped me the whole time and I was unfortunately too uncomfortable to stop it at the time. He did it in the theater and at one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:26 PM
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Omg this sounds so depressing + the fact that it’s so common and widespread too.. I have a friend who just went on a trip with her bf and his friends. He just got high and ignored her the whole time even after his friends excluded/made fun of her. An ex-friend of mine is 22 with a 35 year old boyfriend who is socially awkward, ugly, extremely broke (lives with his parents still), provides no financial support for her, so she has to work three very laborious jobs. She always took out her anger on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:08 PM
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College is a swamp of scrotes. I’m at the end of my undergrad and everyone asks why I haven’t found a bf throughout this time? Lol..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:55 PM
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Ugh don’t forget suddenly turning “poly.” Ive noticed a huge uptick of women, especially millennials/older Gen Z being poly with their bf and coincidentally the couple only seeks out women to hook up with. Libfem is really bringing back centuries old immorality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:45 PM
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I would join this in a heartbeat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:38 PM
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Learning more and more I don’t have to be nice. I’ve tolerated too much bullshit in the past to maintain ‘niceness.’ If I’m not getting valued the way I should be then the right thing to do is remove myself and I don’t have to feel bad about it. This goes for any sort of relationship, not just romance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:28 AM
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I can’t really understand the motivation for it either. She’s embarrassing herself so badly for what?? Internet scrotes to hype her? Ew. Her pickme philosophy isn’t even getting her anything either bc apparently she just got dumped really badly by her last bf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:24 AM
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Shaming and ignoring scrotes works, it hits them hard because they love and are starved for attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:35 AM
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Can confirm.. in my early 20s and guys I went to high school with who are my same age look TERRIBLE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:18 AM
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Also there’s epigenetics. Current science is finding out that the experiences of our descendants actually alter the gene expression in the DNA of them which may pass into us. This can sometimes explain fears or tendencies that seemed to have appeared without experiencing specific trauma yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:13 PM
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Dear god I literally can’t comprehend this. Libfem has exploited the fact that women are already raised and conditioned to be too nice. Notice that no matter how horrible the actions of the male, libfem mentality trains women to always see it as their fault? Absolute insanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:08 PM
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I notice they use the cover of “depression” for literally any flaw, no matter what, like it’s supposed to be an acceptable answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:22 PM
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Good on you, honestly this is so common so reacting the way you did was the right call. Just a few days ago I wanted to get chips at a 7/11 late at night, and as soon as I pulled up in the parking lot this stupid scrote was leaving but pretended there was something wrong with his bike when he saw me. In my locked car, I waited like 5 minutes, and he really thought I was stupid enough to not know what he was trying to do. I sped out of there and he glared at me as I left, literally had the look o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:22 AM
3

So beyond devastating, even more so because this doesn’t have to happen but this does. Someone I used to know has a manager who sees prostituted women, I’m so scared and sick to my stomach thinking he might be going to minors, not that it would be better if the women are of age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:16 AM
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Children definitely need to be accompanied by parents the entire time at the beach. I remember as a very young girl my mother and I were rinsing off at the little outdoor showers the beach had to wash off the sand. She had to take me away and cover me up because she had said a grown man was gazing at me. I was just 5 years old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:31 AM
121

Had a delusional ex male friend literally say the words “it was a joke. It was funny.” The “it was funny” told me all I needed to know about how scrotes view their personal trash opinion as objective reality. Wow, nothing says comedy like literally needing to explain that it was indeed a “joke”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:59 AM
148

Libfem logic is.. if it benefits men = women empowerment if it benefits women = unreasonable boundary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:11 AM
61

Same, I agree wholly. I think I subconsciously knew from a young age how motherhood is a punishment physically, mentally, financially, everything. I won’t be participating in reproducing and as a result these scrotes will have absolutely nothing to badger me over while I get to retain my sanity and quality of life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:20 AM
2

I feel so much sympathy and empathy for this poor woman. Genuinely it’s so difficult to go even one day in public without some form of sexual harassment and the level displayed here is enraging and horrifying. Similar to her, I get extremely angry and I’m not afraid of being mean to predators. But the frustration lies in the fact I know I don’t have the physical strength to overpower them so I still have to tone down and control myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:06 AM
90

Sad that a man who has probably never even personally experienced something like that had to explain this concept to this pickme woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:17 AM
6

We are already pretty biologically different and it’s exacerbated by such differing styles of socialization. To deny this reality is setting yourself up for failure as a woman because attempting to be a libfem will only exploit you for all the wrong reasons. It is rebranded misogyny being oversold to women, and often makes women feel guilty if they don’t subscribe to this ideology making them “not a real feminist”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:23 AM
15

This a million times yes!!! My first ever ‘dating’ experience was when I was 17 and I gave this guy a ChAnCe who I knew I had no attraction to, but because women are socialized to get past that I tried for like a couple weeks. It was not working. I was shriveling up on the inside and I actively started to hate and resent him because I found things like holding his hand/kissing disgusting, it never escalated more than that thank God lol. I instantly know if I find a man attractive, and will alway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:10 AM
30

Idk why these guys are completely oblivious to the fact it’ll happen to all of them eventually. The same principle applies to everything, if you overuse anything eventually it breaks and stops working. It’s honestly getting really bad, way before I found FDS when I was in HIGH SCHOOL, several of my girl friends were complaining of what I now am aware is ED in boys that were 15-16 at the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:37 AM
10

Honestly the overwhelming hostile vibes I get from other dating subs are the reason I stopped visiting completely. It’s disturbing to me how every single post is disparaging women regardless of what the original post is about. It is absolutely social engineering and a place where libfem just runs rampantly, at the most extreme level possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:33 AM
94

I’m 22 and actually a significant portion of women in my social circles are getting married off. I used to be sad because I would like to get married someday but then I realize stories like this are so unfortunate and common for women who marry young. I’m on my way to grad school and I aspire to be like you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:52 AM
35

At most, scrotes find pickmes amusing. Despite all of the self-degradation pickmes participate in, it of course never leads to respect or commitment from men, and in fact does the opposite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:23 AM
6

I don’t care how people perceive me, I won’t fall for this or ever feel bad about having standards about a great quality ring. This is just libfem propaganda, they actively want to take away every single source of benefit for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:14 AM
16

This is the one of the most creative attempts of avoiding commitment a man has come up with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:50 AM
6

Weird how there’s a running folktale in our current society about women poking holes in condoms but men do shit like this and it’s never brought up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:46 AM
8

Bold of him to assume any woman even wants to jump in on his “bachelor time”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:47 AM
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An alarming amount of men really think this way I don’t understand how they made it to adulthood. This is psychopathic behavior for something so small, what happened to being the LoGiCaL gEnDeR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:40 AM
28

I think it’s true. This is just anecdotal experience but my mother had my brother in her early 20s and had me in her later 30s equally easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:48 PM
8

The behavior stemming from childhood is extremely horrifying. Of course it was never seriously reprimanded/corrected by anyone because nothing men and boys do is bad if it’s for their pleasure (/s). Even the top comment couldn’t stop itself from somehow making it seem like the basis of this behavior is normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:53 AM
20

The fact that they actually think/do this is evil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:40 AM
15

Is this new or have scrotes always thought they were too good to ever commit to someone. I notice most men now refuse any form of commitment and the root cause is they think they’re better than every woman/no woman is good enough for them. They act like their options are endless when they struggle to even get one woman to give them the time of day. It’s laughable, when you think of the average man’s looks/personality/income
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:37 AM
0

“Eugenics” is just their last desperate cry for attention trying to defend themselves and make women’s preferences appear evil, what a joke. And anyway some women (like myself) are childfree and we won’t be having any man’s children, which throws the argument out of the question entirely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:11 AM
3

I had a male friend just like this. He felt that he was entitled to my time and emotional labor the way a boyfriend would be even though I made it clear I wasn’t interested in him like that. Similar to your situation, he would question why I hadn’t talked to him for whatever period of time, I actually couldn’t believe it. In my experience male friends are a step below guys who pseudo try to date you because the “friend” is just someone who wants gf benefits with no effort and even less commitmen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:13 AM
2

Typical scrote claiming he’ll k*ll himself for sympathy when he doesn’t even mean it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:06 AM
104

They can’t handle the literal sole place on this entire website where women can unapologetically express their likes and dislikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:25 AM
121

So the pickme says women who prefer larger dicks have a stunted maturity, but she simultaneously insults their preference calling it “being punched in the cervix”... why do they always try to cater to unattractive traits of men LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:21 AM
39

Not an ex but a male “friend” I’ve long dropped traumatized me from constantly sending dozens DOZENS of extremely long messages in a row about emotional baggage, or random dumb hobbies of his he knew I had no interest in such as cars and watches. So incredibly happy he has no one else to dump this on anymore bc he’s lost basically every other friend over his shitty personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:08 AM
21

They literally only care about equality negatively affecting women as I only see scrotes mention it when talking about paying for stuff, domestic violence, and dying in wars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:52 PM
32

Pickmes never win. All of their mental gymnastics, bending over backwards labor literally gets them nothing and I don’t know when they will start to realize that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:08 PM
15

Yeah even though women can get that many matches if they wanted, no woman is that desperate for sex that she’s swiping on thousands of people the way men do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:03 PM
16

It truly is. The scrotes eating this up will be hard pressed to find anyone who actually thinks this in the real world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:58 PM
20

I’ve been childfree my whole life originally just because I don’t want the responsibility of children, but this sub has made me realize being a mother is basically impossible without going through misogynistic abuse. Hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:50 PM
2

I’ve never taken the time to consume his content because I’ve always just gotten the impression he’s just another ugly, unfunny scrote who blew up on social media for some reason. Not surprised at all he’s involved with this sort of thing and I hope his career never makes a comeback
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:44 AM
70

This was a couple years back but I had matched with someone on Hinge who ghosted me after a seemingly normal conversation, whatever. Then like 6-8 weeks later he pops back up and apologizes for it citing his episodes of depression and anxiety and if I would give him another chance. I never responded lol why would I want to engage with someone who didn’t even attempt to make a good first impression in a very low stakes way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:29 AM
3

This sub helped me drop a lvm friend who I tolerated for way too long. Constantly made sexually inappropriate jokes and questions, attempted negging, very misogynistic (but he was a libfem follower so of course he didn’t think he was), I could go on. He was obviously was attracted to me but I didn’t like him back because of all those things plus he’s short, unfit, and still lives with his mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:12 AM
19

I think modern men are having an especially hard time with it because today’s women are no longer forced to be with men as they have throughout most of human history. They enjoy the fact they are not really expected to be a sole provider anymore, but they don’t like that it also means women’s standards are raised in many other ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:59 AM
21

This cat is more thoughtful than most adult human men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:35 AM
93

It is so annoying that misogyny and gender-based violence against women is like the final frontier of direct acknowledgment. Most of everyone accepts other forms of bigotry but the line is drawn when it’s time to protect women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:11 AM
15

I agree. I really don’t care whether it’s their fault or not, biological or psychological, it is a disgusting trait to have period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:21 AM
24

It’s not just you. They’re taking advantage of/attaching themselves to ‘progressive’ movements on the rise and these people need to be much MUCH more aggressively publicly denounced to stop this normalization
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:18 AM
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Add to the fact I’m not even sure the person who made this comment is implying the sex worker should be an adult. Many sex workers are underage and literal children so finding a “young looking” one seems to me a suggestion to find a disadvantaged, trafficked child to evade incarceration and societal shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:20 AM
32

I’m just 22 but I’ve been told my whole life to not take men’s looks into consideration when dating because women are socialized not to. I’m glad I never listened. I’m conventionally attractive and most men wouldn’t approach me were it not for my looks, why should I excuse them of the same standard? I’m not dating someone I find physically unattractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:55 AM
13

5’3 and balding to me sounds like a description of Gollum. The height thing is absolutely true, biology is only brought up when talking about women’s anatomy but the most sexually fit men are those who are tall, muscular, and with full heads of hair. Men who lack these qualities indicate low testosterone and are evolutionarily a bad choice for a male partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:48 AM
24

People who say “[insert reasonably desired characteristic] isn’t everything” are usually just telling us we should drop that standard completely. It’s very offensive and backhanded because they are saying we don’t deserve qualities that would make us happy in a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:41 AM
12

Can confirm, one of my closest friends is being a builder gf for her bf who just got accepted into medical school, he has already been slowly pulling away from her ever since
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:02 AM
18

Some people (pickmes and scrotes) really have the audacity and take it a step further to claim men who are fit/who have abs are gross and unhealthy looking due to low body fat. As if the dad bod (borderline morbid obesity) is the epitome of attractiveness and vitality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:51 PM
31

This!! I can’t even put into words the excitement I feel when seeing a very fit man’s body unclothed lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:48 PM
5

I think also important to note is, in the case that a hvm decides to suddenly turn into a lvm, a woman who does not have a career/education to fall back on for money cannot escape abuse as easily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:16 PM
2

Related anecdote, a former lvm friend I had said he would only go to female doctors (and only ones that he thought were attractive) because he complained male doctors never listened to him. Men can’t even depend on male physicians and have to defer emotional labor to women as usual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:25 AM
13

Unfortunately I am straight but I genuinely questioned my sexuality or whether I was asexual at certain points in my life because I am attracted to so few men for the exact reasons you mentioned, like, less than 1 in 100 men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:07 AM
155

It really is. It doesn’t matter what kind of person the man is, he will see himself as having control and entitlement over the entire relationship due to financial holdings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:58 AM
68

Imagine being a grown man married for over a decade and still using language like “easy mode”.. anyway, hope she dumps him soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:56 AM
3

Unfortunately that’s so true, as a 22 year old the peak of pickme behavior I’ve seen in my social circles was at its highest when we were around 18-19, or even high school age actually. I don’t know any woman in her mid-20’s or early 20s even who would stoop to this level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:36 PM
3

I get the concept of an ‘opinion piece’ but how this passes for journalism is beyond me. She’s literally just complaining about something she doesn’t understand lol. Absolutely no structure or professionalism to the writing whatsoever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:27 AM
37

Never befriend a scrote. I have made a couple male ‘friends’ (who are now gone) and they always try to take it to a sexual or romantic level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:32 AM
61

I’m pretty sure this story is some incel fantasy but regardless, why are the scrotes and pickmes so eager to jump on the literal destruction of women. And it’s women specifically because what sort of reaction would occur if the genders of this story were reversed?? There’d be pitchforks out!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:28 AM
9

Lol I used to have a coworker try to tell me I was too picky when her boyfriend was a literal meth addict. The jokes write themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:23 AM
3

Libfem is the most gaslighting thing ever because something that is supposed to be feminism is just straight up rebranded misogyny, reducing feminism to choice which conveniently swings in favor of men. It’s supposed to be all about women’s choices apparently but the second you choose against their status quo its: “Wow, you won’t pay for a date? You want to wait to have sex? You want commitment/marriage? You won’t evenly split bills? It’s 2021!” Wow the rent thing is disgusting. The way scrotes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:28 PM
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