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MOOD FOR LIFEAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 05:39 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:44 PM
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STAY WOKEAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:04 AM
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REMINDER 👑AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:59 PM
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RANTAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:23 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:24 PM
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LVM LOGICAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:02 PM
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PICKME CULTUREAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:52 PM
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AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:23 PM
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REMINDER 👑AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:48 PM
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PODCAST DISCUSSIONAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:34 PM
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LVM LOGICAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:04 PM
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AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:38 PM
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#JustLVMThingsAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:32 PM
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STRATEGYAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 11:06 PM
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NAH, SISAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:25 AM
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#JustLVMThingsAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:21 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:36 PM
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LIES MEN TELLAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/19 08:38 PM
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LVM LOGICAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:42 PM
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SCROTES MADAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:38 PM
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AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:21 PM
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STRATEGYAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:12 PM
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STRATEGYAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:40 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:19 PM
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AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 06:36 PM
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REMINDER 👑AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:50 PM
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AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:52 PM
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BOOK REPORTAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 09:15 AM
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DISCUSSIONAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:47 PM
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AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/19 11:13 AM
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AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/19 11:45 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨AnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:00 PM
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LIES MEN TELLAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:06 PM
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LEVEL UPAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:09 AM
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NAH, SISAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:52 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:50 PM
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DISCUSSIONAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:45 PM
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FDS HUMORAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:26 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYAnniaT/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:44 PM
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She wants to be picked, but she's still not being picked because those same podcast bros and men in the audience don't actually want her, she's not their "dream girl". They just see her as one of the bros which is the ultimate fail for a pick me. But yes, she's getting the bag, so the money is a bonus.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 11:30 AM
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But she's still not being picked. But yes, she's getting money out of the manosphere.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 11:28 AM
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Did some of the mods break some rules?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 07:13 PM
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Apparently the sub is not modded anymore so no one is controlling who comments. I hope it's eventually deleted if that's the case and that everyone moves to the website and patreon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 12:00 PM
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Thanks. So technically the sub is visible but not modded and not working anymore and instead we should go to the website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 11:59 AM
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I think that it could be a good idea to have the handbook on the website. I'm on the website too and it has some interesting articles but don't remember if they have the handbook there or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/22 05:36 PM
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Wait I'm so confused... I thought the mods had deleted it for good and suddenly out of nowhere I see it's up again? I'm a member of the website and thought that from now on it would be only on the website, podcast and patrion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/22 05:35 PM
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Lmao the Fresh and Fit scrotes say that the 1% men have women fighting for their attention all the time and that if you're to be with one of these men you need to accept them cheating on you if you want to keep them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 07:47 PM
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Also don't forget that some men will be paying for gifts, drinks and food for their bros but will leech on their girlfriends/situationship with no second thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 07:24 PM
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The audacity of these hobosexuals! I'd have to almost beg friends to buy the food or buy them drinks when I'd stay at their place 1 or 2 nights despite them saying I don't need to. I can't imagine staying at someone's house 5 nights a week and not offering at least to contribute to something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 07:22 PM
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I've watched an horrific documentary about extreme cases of "roommates" and "housemates" that end up committing crimes and terrorizing people. It might not be the case here and my point isn't the crime aspect of it but one of the things that made me more worried is how difficult it is to get rid of a leach roomate/housemate. In the US apparently if they've lived there for a month and are getting their mail in that house, it's incredible difficult to remove them if they don't want to go. Even if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 07:19 PM
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This. I smell an hobosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:25 PM
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What advantage does it bring to you him moving to your house? Who will win more from this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:24 PM
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Yes this is a big red flag. I think we can all have different opinions about co-habitation before or without being married, but something that FDS advises against 100% is moving in with men when it will only benefit them and when they're in it just to save money. OP is lucky that her boyfriend slipped up his real reasons and motives so she knows this just ain't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:23 PM
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Totally agree. Amber is not an example for women and much less FDS. She's very low value and toxic. Both are. Johny Depp is an alcoholic who got together with someone much younger and that as you said strung Vanessa Paradis along for decades. I do think that at some point both were abusive towards each other. These 2 shouldn't be in any relationship before they get extensive individual therapy and stop being toxic, much less these two individuals should've never been together. We can defend wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 04:44 PM
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In the country I'm living now if you don't say nothing your cellphone and address are publicly online when you get yourself a cellphone number. I guess I didn't read some small letters when I signed for the cellphone. I didn't know this and only found out later. I had to ask this information to be deleted took 2 weeks but it's not there anymore. Google yourself from time to time to check if there's information of yourself online. I also don't use my full name/actual surname on social media and h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 12:21 PM
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I use Bitwarden but I'm sure there are others that are good too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 12:17 PM
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Takeout as an interest but an expert chef? Yeah right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:43 PM
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He's a glaring red flag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:42 PM
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If he ignores you, you ignore him back and move on. It means he's not interested. It's actually better that he ignores you if than that he leads you on like many men do. 5 to 6 days without responding means not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 01:45 PM
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There's nothing wrong in flirting and showing an open body language or even go and talk with him (casually). But he's the one who has to take the initiative in asking you on a date and take things to the next level of he's actually interested in you. If he does nothing of the sort then you should give up on him. And while all of this is happening regardless of his response, you shouldn't hyper focus on him and should be open to date other men (if they're quality men of course)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 11:16 AM
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I have no attachment to either of them and feel like both are toxic and abusive towards each other. There are also cases of them being toxic in their previous relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 11:13 AM
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This. I believe both are toxic and LV. I don't think this is a case where one of them is the abuser and the other the victim. Both seem very abusive towards each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 11:12 AM
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I think both are toxic. And the media didn't side with Johnny at first just when Amber's lies began to be caught. I won't defend Amber Heard as she has a pattern of lying and being abusive in relationships before Johny Depp. But I don't think Johnny is a saint either. So if I'm unbiased both are toxic and LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 11:10 AM
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I actually didn't even notice that part. It wasn't my intention to go there. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 07:27 PM
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And they'll jackhammer you and then get pikashu face when you don't pretend like you had multiple orgasms from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 08:01 AM
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I know this is not very FDS to say but I think it wasn't just the majority of the men there that were LV, many of the women were also very LV. Anyways the whole concept is very LV and it's not how you solve the problem of someone not wanting to marry you. You just leave them and stop investing your time in them. You don't need an ultimatum nor breaks to date other people. If he/she wanted, he/she would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 07:39 AM
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I think the issue is that she wanted to marry regardless of with what man it was. She had a plan and it didn't matter to her who the guy was. If I'm not confusing the names, I found both to be LV and immature but in different ways. I haven't watched everything yet so that was just my initial idea of them and their relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 07:34 AM
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I don't even think this was such a big effort and sign of being serious about a relationship and that he's a once in a lifetime guy (🤡) like the manosphere were saying. It was low effort to ask a random woman to a family dinner and probably just because the family has been pressuring him to get a wife and so this was probably to appease the family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 04:37 PM
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I think I had seen this before but I thought it was trolling. If it's true he's out of his mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 04:33 PM
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I love this idea of "talking man to man". Most women end up either doing emotional labor to go into long explanations to men who won't care or have the empathy to understand or try to avoid being direct with men as to not cause them discomfort. Sure in some situations it could be dangerous to bluntly reject a man and make him feel humiliated but if it's safe we should always try to be brief, straight to the point and "no fucks given" because this is how men interact with people they don't care a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 01:00 PM
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I think shopping on first dates is tacky (yes, even millionaire men that take you on a shopping spree) but I was at least expecting he had bought her something. So it was just a walking date but on a target instead of outside. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:44 PM
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Wtf is this? This is not a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:42 PM
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If it's safe, it seems like a good way to go past these laws. It's also important then to detect the pregnancies early on. How is it in terms of access to the pill and emergency contraception in the US?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:41 PM
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Wtf?? I'm not in the US but how is this possible??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:02 PM
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This. Even in countries like mine with legal abortion, abstinence is the only way, even more in the US with all these anti abortion laws. If men want to be conservative when it comes to abortion rights, then we have to be conservative with sex too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:00 PM
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I had never heard of menstrual extraction before. I'm reading about it now but can't quite understand it. Is it a method of home abortion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 08:58 PM
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In this specific situation and in that setting there was absolutely no need to slap him. He could've either yell at him from his chair like he did after or better yet wait for his acceptance speech to throw jabs at Chris Rock and humiliate him verbally. Or at least wait until the ceremony to confront him. I think a man should defend his woman but you need to read the room. That wasn't the time or place to set Chris Rock straight. I understand that it's not the first time he throws jabs at Jada a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 04:16 PM
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He's had other people making fun of him and his wife on his face before but he held it together. Also he laughed at first. It was odd to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 02:37 PM
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It's against FDS. Violent men are a no for us, for our own safety. If he's fighting other men like this who's to say he won't become violent against us eventually?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:37 AM
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Same. I've been skipping some of her parts when she derails from the topic at hand. I love them but they should distribute the mic time better and don't go so much off topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:36 AM
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This. I love them but Lilith often monopolizes the topics and goes off topic and even says things that are the opposite of FDS. I don't know if she does it for comedic relief or satire but still, I'd like to listen to the other 2, specially Savanna. I haven't listened to the episode yet but noticed this tendency in other previous episodes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:34 AM
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I'm awful with names and haven't listened to this episode yet but I feel like Lilith (I think it's her) though very funny and insightful often speaks in a LV way. It's great to have self confidence and she's a queen but sometimes she falls on the caricature spectrum and distances herself from the topic to say these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:32 AM
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I didn't know Reaux was black. Not that it matters, just surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:29 AM
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Yes. I love listening to Savanna's point of view because she often keeps to the topic and adds interesting perspectives. I also understand that she's shy as she said it herself several times and so that it's probably hard for her to take the mic and take the initiative to speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:27 AM
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I love the 3 podcast queens but I think many times they diverge a lot and start talking about things that have nothing to do with what's talked about. That is a bit annoying sometimes. While Savanna most often keeps to the topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:26 AM
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Polanski was literally convicted for r*ping a minor and fled the country. Yet he kept getting awards and standing ovations. Hollywood is hypocritical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:24 AM
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This. I've never seen a woman chasing a man ending well. Yes some of them end up marrying these men but you can see in their interactions that these men don't give 2 shits about them and that the relationship is at best mild and boring or at worst toxic. I've never seen a relationship with a man fully in love with the woman that began with the woman chasing. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:17 AM
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Yes. If you haven't been on dates with them or just a few you don't need to explain anything. Or if they've been disrespectful you shouldn't explain either, just ghost. When I did online dating I also didn't expect men to write explanations after 1 or 2 dates or they decided not to continue. Block and delete always. Also beware of texting relationships. He has to take you to dates to get to know you better. Hour long texting conversations don't count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:58 AM
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This. You need to know what kind of restaurant you are and what type of server it is. Read the room as they say. Also as you say wine taste is very personal. She could've asked instead what he recommends and made sense for him to say his personal favorites or customer favorites. If it was a sommelier (which he wasn't) she could then ask what wine matches best with that food and listen to a more detailed explanation of the wine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 10:27 PM
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This. It would be different if it was a sommelier but being just a regular waiter who wasn't trained to know what's the best wine or not, there was no reason to berate him. Unless he was rude to her. I like the moral of the story applied to dating though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 10:22 PM
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I agree with multidating/keeping a roaster while dating but these should be men you're interested in going on dates with and get to know better and not men you're giving chances to/"just for practice". Time is a valuable asset and we shouldn't waste it in men we're not sure about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:09 PM
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This, you should keep a roaster of men while still just dating but these men should be men you actually have interest in going on dates too and that are being veted properly. And yes HVM know you have options and that go secure you he has to commit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:07 PM
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I remember seeing this before, or was it another one? Hope she dumped the scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 01:07 PM
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This. Some men are just jerks. Not every jerk LVM is a narcissist or a sociopath. It might not serve our best interest to waste time studying the pathology of men that simply selfish jerk and trying to make sense of it instead of working on ourselves and moving on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:20 AM
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He's acting like the one rejecting lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:17 AM
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Whenever someone tries to express these things in mainstream publications/outside of radfem circles, they're always afraid of the backlash because men will throw mantrums and start arguing out of context "not all men, women do it too" and deflecting from the subject. They'll get attacked by angry "not all men" men and pick mes, so they try to be political correct and mild as to not piss off men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:10 AM
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I think these questions can be useful but not by asking them on the first dates and not all at once like a questionnaire. If you introduce them naturally and slowly it can be a vetting mechanism. I don't agree though that they'll make you fall in love, just that if applied in an organic way they can give an idea of your values match him and vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:07 AM
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And he makes pretty good music if he's the one I'm thinking about. I was shook lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 10:59 AM
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Same. Buzzfeed seems to have always promoted the "chill cool girl" and "sex posi" narratives so I was surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 10:58 AM
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Yes, men only respond to consequences. You can waste hours and days of emotional labor trying to cOmMuNICaTE why you feel disrespected and violated. They know, they just don't care, they know you won't leave. But once you show them consequences of their actions by leaving they finally get panic. But also don't get it twisted, he won't change for you if you leave. If he ever changes (unlikely) it will be for someone else. And if he never changes, at least you dodged a dangerous bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 10:57 AM
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Abusers can often keep the facade until they see they got you locked. Moments where men tend to do the bait and switch: cohabitation, after marrying and the worst of all, after baby trapping you. Some men will get very kind and romantic right before and during pregnancy to then become total monsters after the child is born. Add to it financial abuse, years of isolating you from family and friends and you're stuck with a child unable to escape from this man. And got knows what these men are able …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 10:48 AM
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Even if the guy isn't an abuser or doesn't kill us, wasting time in relationships with LVM will mess with our mental and physical health and if we have children with them it will show awful examples to the children on how to treat others or how to be treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 10:45 AM
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HV actions my boyfriend did for me (some of them small, others bigger) I've had some health issues. We had just begun dating and he insisted to take me to the hospital for some blood work that would mean having to be there at 7am and him having to work right after. There was other instances where he went out of his way to help me and got mad one time I didn't tell him I had to go to the hospital in the middle of the night (so to not disturb him) because he wanted to be there for me. cooks for me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 09:41 AM
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I want to watch the ultimatum if it's available in my country because it was talked about here but I guess I'd get angry at the pick mes and the lvm so maybe better not. BTW everyone talked about love is blind and I've never watched it. Is it a pick me show? Where can it be seen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 08:36 AM
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Sorry my ignorance, but does it mean that before people couldn't divorce without the 2 wanting to divorce?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:54 PM
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This. An high value man is also selective so he won't try to have sex or even an intimate relationship right a away. He'll treat with respect and show interest, initiate dates and all that, but he'll be vetting you too, so men that rush things are often a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 12:20 PM
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Also realize that texting creates false intimacy. Just because he's texting all the time and you're having deep long conversations by DM, it doesn't mean you know him. Leave the conversations for in person dates. He still has to take you on nice dates, and spending hours online chatting is not a date. Texting is low effort and doesn't mean much if he's not being consistent with in person dates. Another method of creating false intimacy is several hour long dates. It's even a PUA trick. He'll hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 12:19 PM
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"He doesn't care" "He's not serious about you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 07:40 AM
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Pick mes and disgrunted women are extremely dangerous. We might lower our guards because they're women and we trust them but they'll go just as low to destroy us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 06:31 AM
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But women can get many tinder dates, women have it easy! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 02:23 PM
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Dumb question but if this register was connected to their ID number, would it solve the problem with changing names? (I don't live in the UK nor know the system, just wondering)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:10 PM
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The unhinged sociopath energy. This is not just a tik tok joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 08:11 PM
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I'm an introvert and always deep in my own thoughts or listening to podcasts or something when out and about alone so I always feel uncomfortable when someone random approaches me and even more if it's with flirting intentions. Maybe in the context of me being in a library or park and a man approaching respectful to comment something about the book I'm reading or something and then Segway to an interesting conversation would be fine. But not like PUA scrotes randomly cold approaching me on the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:22 PM
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"I suck at dating and relationships" - then if you suck so much why are you going on dates, scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:57 PM
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This happens a lot with porn sick men. They think that all women orgasm through porn like jackhammering them hard and barely no foreplay and then get Pikachu face when women don't come and don't even have the self awareness to think "maybe this is not how it works and I should try to understand how she orgasms".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:21 PM
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This is a good point too. Most of my dating app dates were low effort LVM but with my current boyfriend he always went all in on our dates but we met in person through a mutual friend and got to know each other a bit before he took me on a date. When I look back, most men who took me to amazing dates (specially first dates) were men who met me in person through mutual friends or acquaintances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:16 PM
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I used to use dating apps and only found low effort scrotes in there. I quit the dating apps for a while and met my boyfriend organically through friends and he's been showing to be HV so far and one of the best relationships I've been in so far. He was respectful, didn't push for sex and always shown genuine interest in me as a person and in making me happy. Consistently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:00 AM
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I think there's a high possibility the redditor was a man pretending to be a woman. Anyways I'm sorry this happened to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 08:57 AM
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If she was an actual friend for him like one of his bros, he'd go above and beyond for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 11:27 PM
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I've never seen a man who was LV towards me becoming HV towards me, but I've seen some exes gaining apparent maturity and leaving their fuckboy ways after a few years and in seemingly stable relationships nowadays. I don't have enough information to confirm if they've truly become HV or if they just appear so nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 11:21 PM
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Some men are such clowns 🤡🤡🤡😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:06 PM
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Queen. Block and delete low effort men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 12:46 PM
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I think that being aware of male depravity can be full of lessons BUT screenshots of male depravity without a commentary with the lesson/red flags/or strategies just ain't it. This sub is called female dating STRATEGY for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 12:20 PM
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This. I need to do a cleanup on my social media because though I have it, I barely use it, it just sits there, so I have lots of cringe stuff in there that don't reflect me anymore and that I had forgotten for years. For example I have likes on libfem pages and that's not me anymore. However I also agree that she should listen to her gut and that liking/following pornified stuff like playboy, hooters and hot models is a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 09:31 AM
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These scrotes will complain about their dead bedrooms but never use time to reflect on why their wives don't want to have sex with them anymore/don't have libido for them anymore. Not a sense of self awareness. Since he's porn sick I can imagine he thinks that he just has to take his dick out and jackhammer her until he comes and then go to sleep. Or maybe even a madonna whore type of complex enhanced by his porn usage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 09:09 PM
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This. Always ask yourself in a relationship if your life is getting better emotionally, physically and financially. If not, dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 03:57 PM
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When I was a young raging pick me, I was made to believe that on and off relationships over the years were a sign that 2 people were in love with each other and therefor couldn't keep away from each other 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 09:44 AM
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Men know that "sex work" isn't like any other work. They just say this argument and convinced pick mes and libfems to say it just because they want to have more sex workers at their disposable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 10:47 AM
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That last woman will end up putting her daughters in danger, mark my words! I hope someone can protect the children from that pedophile! And the man with the pictures of his daughter? Absolutely horrifying! Even if not real, just getting to write about it is absolutely depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:50 PM
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This is just as baffling to me as men who are ok with co-habitating and having children but will avoid marriage like the plague. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:32 PM
130

Yes. I'd have more respect for him if he admitted that he just pumped and dumped without these mental gymnastics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:30 PM
189

This. Men know. If an early morning was such an issue he'd have rescheduled their date. He just pumped and dumped but wants to feel like he's not a jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:28 PM
100

I think he knows. Men like to act oblivious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:26 PM
96

This. Most men are brosexual. They live for the bros approval and will go far and beyond for their bros while not moving a finger for the allegedly women they say they love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 01:58 PM
11

Lmao "objectified". Frugal that never takes their girlfriend on nice dates despite having the possibility = dusty mentality that isn't that into her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 01:54 PM
47

This. Texts are a low effort way of communicating. It just means nothing and takes just a couple seconds to send one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:48 AM
48

I've never had relationships that went somewhere with lukewarm men. We don't want men love bombing us and overly enthusiastic when they barely know us, but we don't want lukewarm "meh" men either. If you feel a man is lukewarm then you know already deep inside that this ain't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:47 AM
85

I know this is not the point but on the first screen shot she talks about how her ex asked for a couple months break on the relationship and with such a scroty excuse. This is a huge red flag. If someone loves you and is serious about you, they won't risk losing you by asking for a break. They'll also not take you for granted thinking they can go around have sex with other women and then come back. This should be all the information she needed to break up with him right away and don't move for h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:09 PM
39

I think genitalia in general is ugly. Why would I want to see a pic of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:06 PM
64

Wtf, why would a man "raised right" with respect for women and consent and not wanting to sexually harrass even mention d pics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:05 PM
23

Hope she got picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:12 AM
79

The audacity of these lib fem pick mes in devaluing the traumatic and scary experience of women being cat called by making it a race issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:45 PM
185

Yes. Radical feminists don't exclude SW women. They're a usually sw abolitionists because they care about these women and want to include them in the conversation. They point the finger at the John's, pimps and other people (often men) that actually profit from SW and not the SW themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:44 PM
16

I hope she got picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:40 PM
17

K bdsm (aka domestic violence in the bedroom), poly, kink etc men need to be blocked and deleted immediately for our own safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:13 PM
27

Yes, they not only want free sex, they also want free emotional labor from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:00 AM
78

And most of the men that go on these gold digger rants are men who don't even have gold to dig 😂 Why so pressed about 5$ in a date with a woman you allegedly are interested in meeting without knowing he'll get sex in return? We're not sex vending machines. You still have to be vetted even if you pay us a 5 course meal in a Michelin star restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:58 AM
42

Haha it really sounded coming out of a red pill podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:54 AM
17

He's so mad and bitter lmao Dusty broke resentful LVM? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:53 AM
9

I wasn't even aware that the Oscars were yesterday lol What a mess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:57 AM
0

When did this happen? But yes it sounds like a big redflag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:44 AM
4

I think that's perfectly valid too. As you say we need to do what's best for us and what makes us feel more comfortable. Hahaha I like the idea of asking to see it make sure the size is OK 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:12 AM
44

Which is why we don't tell men/give instructions that we'll only have sex if in a relationship or if this and that and we don't give them time frames. I've seen this over and over again with women and also it happened to me men pushing for commitment because they knew that I'd only have sex if we were in a relationship to then dump or ghost right after. It's not just about waiting to be in a relationship to have sex, it's also about waiting a reasonable amount of time after that. Some men won't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:26 AM
32

You need to move on if he doesn't bring commitment within a reasonable time frame. If he wanted he would. Simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:22 AM
58

This. Never reveal your cards to a man (don't say what you want, don't make demands nor explain your boundaries), just let them show them who they are and what they want without your guidance. The men should be the one taking the initiative of asking for commitment and be the one to bring it up within a reasonable amount of time. If not bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:21 AM
111

Many men rather cut an arm than breaking up a relationship honestly before having the next woman lined up for monkey branching. Instead of just breaking up they'll complain, mind games to make her mad and break up but also using the commodities of sex and emotional free labor from women. And while they complain about how they feel nothing for this woman and this and that, they conveniently forget that they could end all this quickly by simply breaking up the relationship. But maybe they actually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:19 AM
11

Agree if it's not religious or personal like you said. But I'd say that it's wise to wait a fair amount of time before sex. I'd even say that it's better to wait until at least a few months into a committed relationship and of course never tell them your plan of waiting or he'll do what he thinks he wants him to do or say in order to get sex. Most men who aren't really interested in us won't put up into waiting that long with no guarantees of when they'll be able to get sex. It weeds lots of LVM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:13 AM
39

What is even girlfriend material for these scrotes? And does he think he deserves a super model just because he makes 6 figures?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:03 AM
13

What a massive scrote. And the lack of empathy for those women, not even ashamed of admiring he future fakes or pretends to want relationships with women he just wants sex with. Men will have relationships and/or have sex with women they don't even find attractive, hate or don't feel the slightly interest in out of convenience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 11:54 PM
77

Plus both men and women should ensure they have safe means of getting home regardless of the outcome of a date. I wouldn't be driving a man home on a first date and would probably not want to be driven home by a man I just met, for my own safety. Him being pressed that he wasn't offered a ride home when he should've ensured himself he had a way of getting home (which he had, a scooter!) is his own doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:18 AM
22

And even when they evaluate beauty nok related things on these pageants, it's usually things inherently "feminine" and traditional that conservative men enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:51 AM
324

Don't waste time and energy explaining. Just block and delete. He knows, he just doest care. Edit: I had only read the first message and thought the black one was you/the woman lol But the sentiment of never explaining still applies. What a NVM he is! Also men who refer to women as "females"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:23 AM
171

I've had men telling me I was stringing them along/making a fool out of them just for being nice and friendly to them. It's as if they can't conceive the idea of being nice and friendly to someone without sexual/romantic second intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 12:05 AM
184

At least we don't fuck or string along men we find unattractive. Men will still (hate) fuck and dump women they don't find attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 12:03 AM
180

Never ever propose to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:40 AM
214

Even if she doesn't leave there's always the possibility that he'll dump her "out of the blue" when he gets the next one secured and can money branch. Then he'll marry her within a year as you said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:39 AM
219

This is exactly it! He's just waiting for the next woman to monkey branch her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:19 AM
55

He resented her that she dared to ask him to do something. It doesn't fit the power dynamic he's enforced in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:08 PM
150

If sex work was a job then men would have to participate in gay porn if offered that job or they'd stop receiving unemployment. What, don't want to? Don't feel attracted to other men? Sir, it's just a job and many women do it and you say it's empowering and just a job. Tough it up, and take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:40 PM
288

Because for them sex workers aren't humans and much less people worthy of love and relationships. Hence why they'll jerk of to violent porn and then be disgusted and shocked when they get involved with someone who did porn. It's the cognitive dissonance with a dash of mysoginist madonna whore complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:36 PM
208

This. If you watch porn and support its existence, you can't be mad when someone close to you, in this case a girlfriend, has done porn. Die mad thinking that porn actresses aren't human beings that could be your mother, sister or girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:33 PM
62

Sex work is empowering and great for women, therefor he should support her and even convince her to do more porn since sex work is better than boring 9 to 5 job. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:31 PM
241

I still remember one time I was with a group of friends and acquaintances where one of them started asking everyone in the group if they had cheated on any partner in the past. When I said "no" he acted shocked as if not cheating was a big achievement. At first he didn't even believe me. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 05:01 PM
12

I've always been scared of falling into the rails while waiting for trains or subways. I didn't think specifically of the possibility of some men throwing me in there but always thought of the possibility of a crowded stop that someone could accidently push me to the rails. Plus it's scary being so near when the train comes. Now after watching videos like this I'll be even more scared and will stay even more away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:05 AM
89

Have no doubt that these men screaming that they want to be courted like a woman in return would never respect a woman that pays for dates, opens doors for them and takes courting initiatives. At best he'd use her as a forever girlfriend for convenience and at worst as a casual hook up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 11:27 PM
349

How do scrotes who tell their girlfriends they're not even sexually attracted to them have then the audacity of asking to pay mortgage/things? What men never lack is the audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:32 PM
91

Almost stopped reading at "8 years boyfriend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:24 PM
144

He tells her she's "Still the love of his life" so that he can have her waiting for him work open arms in case his cheating attempts go wrong. He's already warning her that he wants to cheat or he'll try to pull some "polyamorous relationship" BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:22 PM
330

This is more than a simple sleeping hat and him not liking it. This is him exerting control by withholding something that makes her happier/relaxed from her. Huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:19 PM
54

I like watching true crime (though I need some breaks in between for the sake of my mental health) and I now have the habit watching for the red flags in the intimate partner murders. Everything we preach here on FDS reduces (though not fully eliminates) the chances of being murdered by a partner or ex partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:16 PM
14

"just playing the devil's advocate here"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:08 AM
18

Not only that but he means there's nothing wrong in rping children. CP is always rpe of children so he doesn't see anything wrong that the material is produced? And he doesn't see anything wrong in being aroused by the r*pe of children. Wtf??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:07 AM
80

He's said disgusting jokes about children and is a whole mess too. Also the way he treated Ariana Grande was awful. I think he pops up on purpose during these times and probably also to get clout from these famous women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 01:00 PM
222

Funny how success for men is having lots of random hookups and not really quality dating and being selective. Specially former incel men have this fantasy that hooking up with random women every weekend and being douchy is living the dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:57 AM
95

This happens with lots of famous black/mixed men I've observed. I have nothing against him and don't know him that well, but he gives me some sort of off vibe/performative vibe sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:52 AM
150

Unfortunately she's trying to escape Kanye West running to the arms of another nut job, Pete Davison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:50 AM
40

I like some of his movies for lazy easy entertainment on a Sunday when I have nothing to watch/want to just relax and not think much but what you said about him becoming Adam Sandler and being a blank slate for other men to project themselves is so true! Not the same but Seth Rogan and other men on the ugly side and lazy that always play comedic roles where they always somehow end up with the hot woman are also used as blank slates for men, it's their fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:48 AM
64

Night rides = will try to coerce you into having sex in his car after the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:41 AM
20

Lmao he wish 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:29 AM
22

That sub is full of women in horrific relationships asking if they're the A for being upset at being abused or abusers trying to get validated on the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:52 PM
24

He doesn't give 2 shits about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:42 PM
197

This reminds me of Chris Scrote Pratt humiliating his now girlfriend or wife on social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:04 PM
44

But then these same scrotes will be crying calling us shallow for wanting a man that is not a bruke dusty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:39 PM
22

I wouldn't advice this either because a HVM wouldn't want such a woman (were it to be true). But he'd also find it odd if she suddenly was able of doing these things after showing she didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 05:35 PM
2

A man wouldn't ever send money to an ex (specially one he doesn't want/can't have sex with again) because she once helped him financially. We've seen countless of celebrity men and current milionares dumping their Barbara the builders for other women and doing everything in their power not to give these women who supported them for years a cent. She's a raging pick me and her current boyfriend has every right to be upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:42 PM
1

Didn't he die in prison?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:32 PM
27

This. We don't need to prove our point to men. Also we shouldn't be teaching them ways of pretending to be the type of man we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:13 PM
42

"she just needs to communicate. Maybe he doesn't know she doesn't like to be raped. Men aren't kind readers" /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 12:43 AM
111

This. No where did she say she invited men out. She just said that men paying for dates is basic politeness due to the "who invites pays" etiquette rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 12:42 AM
178

This. If men spent time vetting woman before inviting them for dates (you can even do it through facetiming if met online), they wouldn't have issues paying for a date with a woman they vetted and are truly interested. But they won't. Many men will invite many women for dates regardless if interested in her or not with the intention of getting sex and then if things go well perhaps a relationship. Online dating is a mess by itself but one of the biggest mistakes women do on dating apps is assumi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:13 PM
22

It's called furure faking and many men do it for the most varied reasons. They'll dangle the commitment carrot in front of a woman's nose with no intention of following through if it means getting benefits from the woman believing the relationship has a future. Some will also future fake when they don't love the woman but feel convenient not breaking up and the woman keeps on nagging them to marry. So they'll future fake to keep her of his back. It's called a "shut up ring". All of this is why I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 05:38 PM
45

A user here who is a family lawyer has a very good thread here where she says that women who cry in court and show too much emotion are seen as less suitable to get custody of the children. The judges respect them less if they show distress and tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 12:47 AM
45

This. Never ever send paragraphs. Just leave with dignity and head held high. Begging, pleading and explaining are symptoms of addiction to that person and ways of not letting go of them. They won't change and if they change it's usually for the next woman and not for the one they hurt and disrespected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 12:36 AM
4

Hope she's saving money because women in the sex industry have a very short shelf life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:53 AM
4

Also most of these women aren't in street/brothel prostitution or hard-core porn. Sure only fans women and camgirls also suffer from abuse and trauma but I don't think a middle class woman that has a big following in her social media and is doing only fans soft core content out of choice and making good money from it is the same as a woman doing prostitution or erases the trauma and abuse that women in the trade and porn industry suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:48 AM
10

If "sex work" was empowering and a great way of making money, men would be doing it themselves instead of just owning the "industry" on the backs of women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:19 AM
8

Exactly! Like I said in a past comment, a HVM wouldn't be disclosing this like that calling names to the ex, even if it's true. There's no reason for a man to call this to an ex whether true or not to his current romantic prospect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:32 AM
3

I think that even if it's true that she was so (yes there are such women), a HVM wouldn't disclose such informations and talk bad about an ex to their current romantic protect. There's absolutely no need for a man to disclose you that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:30 AM
13

Why does this even matter? Why even staying after finding out he had a girlfriend? Who cares how he felt about her or you? Who cares if she checked out or not emotionally? He lied to you. It was at this point that you should've blocked and delete and don't engage with him or any of his girlfriends again. And good for the "pick me" girl for not being too emotional invested in him to care about drama about a man she probably doesn't even know in person either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 12:23 PM
35

How do you know his long term partner didn't love him anymore and why do you even believe what he says about his girlfriend? It looks like you wanted to believe him after you learned that you were the side piece. I wish you heal enough to keep away from this drama forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:57 PM
110

Please be honest with yourself. You don't want to expose him to save other girls, you're just still too obsessed and still wanting to keep connecting to this scrote you don't even know in person. Please block and delete him on everything and stop! You're just hurting yourself more and more. Your girlfriends are right you need to delete him completely and heal. And if possible with therapy or not understand why you're so wrapped up in this so you don't get in another situation like this again. Pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:49 PM
105

I thought the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:35 AM
122

Men, always gold digging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:34 AM
10

I'm so scared for her! I hope she manages to escape and that this pedophile ends up in jail! Also this girl is a queen. She's so brave and smart! She managed to get a secret phone and bank account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:35 AM
111

There's nothing wrong in playing video games but gamer men (men who game all the time) are often LV. Can spend hours or days trying to pass a certain level on a video-game, watching tutorials and build entire online gaming communities but can't bother to make the tiniest effort for their girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 11:23 PM
58

These movies present low value relationships. It's just fantasy as you say it'd never happen in real life, or almost never. Men very rarely fall in love with FWB and want to have a proper romantic relationship with them. They also don't fall for women they had sex right away. But movies and series, scrotes and pick mes keep trying to convince us that this is very common and therefor we should relax and just have sex right away or no strings attached in hopes it turns into an actual healthy commi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 11:15 PM
1

He hates her and she needs to leave for her and eventual children safety. This hatred will only escalate. It's abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 08:32 AM
19

Now that you talk about it I've never seen such article in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 12:13 AM
285

I've seen the website before and I got the idea that it was incel cope. I thought it was made by incels to show women that having standards will make it impossible to find someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:58 PM
64

Disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:02 PM
162

What? Your ex boyfriend had sex with another woman while you were there, knowing you were in your apartment? What a major scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:57 PM
36

What???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:13 PM
9

This is horrific!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:13 PM
21

Don't send thirst traps to men and dump and avoid men who follow social media thirst traps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:11 AM
9

Incel projection 😂 and why is sex in a bigger don't than the rest? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 05:26 PM
21

Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:26 PM
19

Who is the couple in the picture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:45 PM
70

Please tell me #f*rthwavewomen is not moderated by men. I really like that sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:48 PM
333

He knows he can just dump her and let her deal with the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:19 PM
759

So this scrote thinks that a marriage is more binding than having children. Having children is OK because he can walk away at any time? You can't make this shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:19 PM
181

He was proud of her and her smarts because it meant she could pay for things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:17 PM
71

Why can't they even marry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:16 PM
35

"she's asking me to pay for having our children" Get the fuck outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:11 PM
98

Exactly why women that are not waiting until marriage should only have sex with men after at least a few months of a committed relationship and don't tell them when sex will be on the table so they don't futurefake for sex. The mask usually slips before we risk our bodies and minds on these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:34 PM
66

This guy is a huge scrote and I'm sorry for her. But no actual HVM would show up at a date in work uniform. HVM plans a proper date instead of fitting it between shifts. Or at least change clothes at work and show some effort. Anyways remember that men will do anything for a lay so better hold of from sex until minimum a few months committed relationship where he showed up to be HV consistently (and if course don't tell him this boundary)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:32 PM
9

Preach sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 08:13 PM
130

Agree! Abuse usually starts small and escalates. Sure there are men that take a 180 and drastically change (usually after cohabitation, marriage or pregnancy as the chances for the victim to escape after these milestones decreases) but there are usually small signs that can be caught in the beginning stages because men rarely hold their mask perfectly all the time. Maybe these small red flags might not be indicators of future abuse but it's better do vet too much than too little. It's better not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 08:11 PM
33

I have no idea who this man and I feel very sad for this gorgeous girl is but what can we learn from this? dump block and delete a man at the first mentions of polyamorous. If he's thinking about it he for sure will want it and either manipulate you into accepting it or do it behind your back you don't fly to see men. He has to come to you if you're not in the same city -unprotected sex is a huge risk even if in a relationship. If you want to go unprotected it has to be a long term relationship …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:08 PM
69

It happened to a young teenager that tried to do porn sex with her boyfriend and friends of the boyfriend. It was very awful to read. Teens are taking dangerous ideas from porn and ruining their lives permanently from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:05 AM
26

Agree. I like when male depravity is posted accompanied by an informative post explaining what went wrong there or how to possibly avoid being with such scrote in the future, red flags, strategies and stuff or as a warning to possible outcomes of pickmeism. But just pure male depravity with no "lesson" then we could just go to any relationship subreddit to find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:30 PM
7

Maybe I understood wrong but I think she still wants to marry him? Also I hope that where she lives there's no crazy cohabitation or whatever rule that he gets the name on the apartment just by being with her for a few years living there. And don't be surprised if even without wedding the scrote tries to convince her to put his name on the apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:23 PM
13

The hobosexual won't even hide his gold digging intentions. He's told her everything she needs to know to dump his dead weight for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:22 PM
22

Exactly. Such selfish man won't be there to support their parents when they get old or sick, so why treat him like family? I'm sure his parents still love him as parent love is usually unconditional, but they did the right thing by standing by their former daughter in law and grandchildren who are also family and will probably be there for them when they need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:15 PM
34

I live in a Scandinavian country where old scrotes will go to Thailand and Phillipines to get a submissive young wife since the women from their country won't put up with them and they want muh legacy. To their dismay when the women are here, not knowing much of the language and therefor not being able to work here easily, they start managing their finances and calling the shots. He has to provide for her and send money to the family home. Not all of them as some scrotes will abuse these poor wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:06 PM
90

They want a submissive Asian wife but don't want to do the bare minimum according to the wife's culture and costums. Minimum investing always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:02 PM
10

I feel like I'm going to be very trigged if I read this so I just want to say that if a man even just asks for anal please dump him. Anal is porn sick. No man that loves you and his HV wants to do anal with you. Plus anal is incredibly dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:58 AM
23

Why does she need to communicate with her rapist about the rape?? These scrotes are out of their mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:35 PM
179

Why are they so pressed over a random woman having standards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:40 PM
95

"Mark inbred alien Zuckerberg", I'm whizzing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:06 PM
19

They might have made the mistake of buying a house together before marrying or other things that intertwine their finances. If it was just the depositum then yeah it makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:58 PM
10

Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:51 PM
22

They literally chose porn over the relationships they have in real life. They know that doing it will hurt their girlfriends, fiances and wives and eventually risk them leaving them over it, and they still CHOOSE to do it anyways. Let that sink in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:50 PM
31

It's ridiculous that men can risk everything, a whole relationship and pending wedding just to watch and masturbate to women being abused on camera. It's not like she asked him something impossible like stop breathing or eating. She just asked him to stop going to websites that degrade women and stop watching this women being dehumanized on camera. How is this so hard? He literally chose porn instead of his fiance. So what if he's embarrassed? It was his choice and now it's time to face the cons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:35 PM
105

Libfems/modern western women think that if you invest on a man early on, he'll then share his assets with you when he makes it big. He won't, he'll use the assets and status he earned with your investment in him on the next woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:01 PM
40

He probably resents her for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:14 PM
87

This a classical case of Barbara the builder and being a placeholder for a man's convenience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:14 PM
44

He hates her or at least doesn't respect her and is tired of putting up with her. But he doesn't break up with her because he gets many perks from being with her and hasn't found his dream girl yet to monkey branch. Just wait until he's finished residence, he'll dump her for a doctor dream girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:48 AM
29

She left her nurse studies/career?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:45 AM
63

I think the doctor with nurse thing was true before because men were usually the bread winners and they liked the idea of being with a low income less academical prestige woman. But nowadays I also don't see many doctors marrying nurses. Having affairs with them and hook ups yes but not actually marrying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:45 AM
76

"Man don't do loyalty like that" - exactly! And if women realized and accepted this, they'd spare a tone of headache and problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:31 AM
102

Even if he's not an asshole and even og there are exceptions, most surgeons will use these women as starter girlfriends while at this busy stage of their lives and then dump the pick me for someone else they want to marry when things calm down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:11 AM
49

Why is she buying him a house? What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:58 AM
73

But if they leave women they know aren't compatible with them how are they going to get a bangmaid, free emotional labor and all the perks of being in a long term relationship/marriage? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:23 AM
63

Maybe he convinced her not to divorce in order to not having to settle with her court and give her money. This is not the first time I've seen millionaires taking wives, mothers of their children and children of their will last minute. Not that anyone is entitled to anyone's money, but it seems like a scrote move to prevent someone you're married with and allegedly in love with or children with whom you have a relationship with from getting assets when you die. Not saying they have to get everyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:10 PM
61

And even when they decide they don't want something serious with YOU, they'll still string you along why they search for the woman they want something serious with. Men are monkey branching experts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:22 PM
23

They want to keep the bachelor life as long as they can while they get sex, attention and free emotional labor from women without having to invest and commit. Hence why the "don't know yet". If they were honest no woman would give them a chance and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:20 PM
79

May I ask why he took her not his will if they were married/had been married for long? Or did they divorce before he died? Was he very rich? Why did he cut his own children? Where did the money go? I think I've read this story before but don't remember the details. I loved the analysis here, very true and useful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:03 PM
36

Has he come to visit you in these 7 dates? I'm usually against long distance relationships but since he has a concrete plan of moving near you, I think it's ok. I'd say to use the same vetting strategies you'd use on any man. Don't make the whole relationship by texting. Have him traveling to meet you as often as possible or if not possible FaceTime with the same duration a normal date would. I'd also say that it might be good to keep roaster dating with men in your area (if they shown HVM behav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:00 PM
30

Lmao wants casual but not hook up. Wants connections but doesn't want relationship. Oh I see, a bangmaid free therapist without the commitment and investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:49 PM
17

It's obvious libfem propaganda. Sexualizing teens as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:36 PM
12

It's obvious libfem propaganda. Sexualizing teens as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:36 PM
43

It's obvious libfem propaganda. Sexualizing teens as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:35 PM
48

What the fucking hell!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:46 AM
33

Not only that but it's also about timing. In the 5 years men spend with the forever girlfriend they're getting all the perks, learning how to be in a relationship and cohabitation. With the next girl they've already gone through all that and are ready to marry right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:37 PM
74

When will people realize that good porn doesn't exist? Porn is evil and dehumanizing as a concept from the start. It's like wanting ethical slavery, ethical child labor or ethical woman trafficking. It doesn't exist because all these things are evil by principle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:32 PM
37

Or date other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:29 PM
103

The imaginary Chad that gets sex whenever and wherever is a cope for incels. It allows them to stay in perpetual victim mode not having to level up because they're not Chads so the game is always rigged for them so why bother being a decent human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:29 PM
178

These are incels that have no idea how women or relationships work. They imagine that women have no standards and boundaries when it comes to this mythical Chad. By crying about the imaginary Chad and how women make exceptions for the Chad they can excuse themselves from leveling up and have the excuse that the game is rigged for them from the start. Then they don't need to get out of their mom's basement, stop gaming 24/7, groom themselves properly, be an interesting and cultured person, etc be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:27 PM
166

But if he dates other men how will he abuse women in porn sick ways, who will do free emotional labor, who will be a bangmaid, who will put with his BS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:24 PM
595

Men reducing relationships to sex and women to pussies and making decisions based on sex, how original. Whenever I hear a man coming crying with the "women have all the power because they're the gatekeepers of sex" it's immediate block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:23 PM
481

I just saw this. He stole her card. It's a crime. No amount of cOmMuNiCaTe will change a thief/scammer/manipulator. She needs to dump his ass and block and delete as soon as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:20 PM
28

Rather have no one than having someone that won't even bother to get to know me without sex for a few months. I don't want a porn sick man that can't control his impulses and to whom having sex is over anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:46 PM
1

I'm very scared and believe this war will spread itself into other countries too. This is a 3rd world war and Putin is a mad psychopathic man out of control. Unfortunately I don't believe that NATO or anyone will intervene. I'm trying to find ways I can help from this corner of the world. For now we have keep to at least the information spreading around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:45 PM
80

Dating married men is LV. It's sad and usually based on insecurity but that makes her LVW. And I have some good friends who also went down that route at some time. They have to realize that this is messed up by their own. We can try and say something but they usually won't listen. Some people only learn after suffering the consequences of their mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:40 PM
139

Lmao pure incel the first one at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:22 PM
7

There are lots of mixed opinions about this. I've had what I consider good friendships with men where there were no feelings or anything attached and I treasure these friendships a lot. They were there for me in difficult times and I was there for them. We also had lots of fun. However it wasn't the type of friendship where we sleep together on the same bed or overly intimacy and closeness like that. It had also lots of group hang outs but also solo hang outs. Some of them had girlfriends and I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:01 PM
15

This. A lot of it is luck and being at the right place at the right time. And even if you come across a HVM he might not be a match for you for some reason. There's not much we can do besides ruthless vetting men so that we don't end up with LVM or waste precious time on them. Plus avoid abusers and all the dangers of dating men in general. So it's better to accept that it's possible we end up alone and make the best out of it and keep leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:53 AM
309

I can't deal with male depravity anymore. I'm terrified that the men in my life that I'm fond of are secretly like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:24 AM
417

Yes this is clearly pornsick fanfic. This is an incel neckbeard doing rich chad role play on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:21 AM
18

Is this porn sick fanfic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:19 AM
112

This. And who's the audience for these horrific things with men as victims? Other men too. It's not women watching this stuff and being a big chunk of the marked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:18 AM
85

Also some porn stars go into set thinking they'll do one thing and then are blindsided and threatened to do more extreme acts. Also the usually time in the industry is 3 years because it's all so violent on the body and mind. Jenna Jameson and other long standing porn stars that actually make big money are very rare.,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:15 AM
22

I had never thought about this like this. Wow, this is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:12 AM
33

Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:04 PM
207

I've heard men admitting to this. That they've been with a woman for decades while waiting for something better to come along and that the relationship is comfortable for them. Then when their unicorn mythical girl doesn't appear or appears but doesn't give a shit about them, they'll settle with the current forever girlfriend or even wife while holding massive resentment against her. As if it's her fault he didn't get the woman he truly wanted and as it's her fault he strung her along for decade…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:57 PM
34

Men will marry and be together for decades with women they hate/care nothing about if it serves them. Once they monkey branch to the next woman/women they'll discard her with no mercy or care. Zero empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:32 AM
22

She gave him what he wanted but now he has a new shinny toy so it's time to discard her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:28 AM
18

Of course he was monkey branching. Believe me when a man breaks up suddenly and at an awful timing like this there's always someone else in the picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:27 AM
15

Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:47 PM
23

This is so disturbing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:38 PM
487

I hope she divorces this scrote. He just wants an excuse to have sex with the sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:17 PM
107

I think that if they're just fuck boys they're even more willing to have sex if they know she's a crazie they'd never have a relationship with. I think since he sees she'd never be relationship material for him anyways, he might even disrespect her more because now it's only about sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:24 PM
61

The sad thing is that men won't break up relationships in which they dislike the woman or feel nothing more for the woman and will string along. The only times he'll break up and stop wasting her time is when he gets a woman lined up to monkey branch from her. They'll string her along because it's comfortable and will dangle the marriage carrot in front of her to keep the charade going. Then when he sees he can't get someone else and won't be the bachelor with beautiful women lining up and sees …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:53 AM
83

I think that waiting several years while being in high-school or college is totally fine because the finances and stability should be in place before marriage. And if there's a mutual plan to wait then it's alright. The problem is when both are already full adults, he knows she wants to marry but is stringing her along getting all the benefits but not being honest about just coasting along and always avoiding to marry her. Until many years later he sees that nothing better has come along and he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:49 AM
12

I've never been through it myself but I've observed others doing it and the relationships always seem so dull and boring and that the woman has to drag the man along for everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:47 AM
95

I also prefer saying no than finding excuses or things to say to make him uninterested. If leaving or saying no doesn't put me in danger then I rather say no or ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:52 AM
53

Inviting a man for a coffe was already a bad move. Is this Simon? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:49 AM
2

I also like the show and take it for what it is. But I've noticed that men who love the office and quote it all the time and are on OLD are usually douches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:08 PM
1

I didn't know some of the actors were writers too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:07 PM
2

Entrepreneurs are the worst. Tech bros and crypto bros too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:56 PM
7

Watch the documentary tinder swindler. It's about Simon, a scammer that pretends to be a billionaire and scammed women out of hundreds of thousands with lies even making some of them take huge loans to help him and live in debt for the rest of their lives. That's the Simon the drawing is referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:55 PM
8

Exactly. A man giving lavish gifts to a woman because he finds her beautiful and she acting coy and getting ways of getting more money and gifts or even marrying these men for money is not the same as lying and scamming leaving these rich men in ruin. Also if a 55 year old geriatric man really believes that a 20 year old gorgeous model is in love with them as opposed to her lookmatch men in her age bracket and decides to shower her with money, why aren't these men shaming these rich old men too …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:53 PM
4

Your username too 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:45 PM
8

This. Something many women neglect is the fact that men keep to the initial dynamic of a relationship and to the most low effort state if that's how it began. If you start by pursuing a man you'll always be the one pursuing and carrying the relationship on your shoulder. The same goes for abusive dynamics or cheaters, they won't change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:40 PM
22

But if these out of their league women approach them they'll soon lose value to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:30 PM
242

I also have this feeling the sms were his. They had the living together plan shortly before and then she went to OPs house to escape. How does she go from there to taking her own life in such a short period of time? It just doesn't add up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:13 AM
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OP here post an update.. I'm almost sure he was involved though the police says nothing suspicious seems to have happen. It just doesn't add up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:11 AM
9

What injury was his? A car accident?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:27 PM
46

So another man that traded his wife that helped him build his empire for a new model when they make it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:27 PM
24

Is the woman in the photo his wife? I have no idea who these people are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:22 AM
20

I deleted too. I live in another country alone in a place very difficult to meet people so I though that apps were the only way to find someone. Deleted all that mess and still found my boyfriend organically anyways. I never had a good experience on the dating apps, just low effort men that never got nowhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:28 PM
18

Slavery?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:31 AM
21

This. Some scrotes isn't even sex, it's just boredom or wanting attention. I've had a few exes or men I dated sending "hey how you doing" years after out of nowhere and doing so every few months. Just boring and dry conversation. Some of them we didn't even end things in good terms but they reach out as if nothing has happened lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:25 PM
3

It's the every word with capital letters for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:48 PM
14

Red pill men will cry and rage online about women shit testing them and will discuss tactics with PUA scrotes on how to bipass the shit tests. But they applaud men doing humiliating shit tests to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:54 PM
142

Exactly, zero tolerance! Not only that but instead of creeps oggling swimsuit models in magazines, we now have creeps oggling and orgasming to women getting violently r*ped on camera, called degrading names and having degrading things done on them at the distance of a click!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:46 PM
30

Wtf is this?? This was a wild ride! I'm glad she and her father are at least taking steps into removing themselves of these disgusting people. Both the ex husband and her mom are zero value and I can't believe some family members took the mom and husband's side wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:26 PM
118

Like this case shows us, even if you use condom things can happen. It's not worth the emotional and physical risk of casual sex EVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 10:38 AM
6

The others have already given you great advice, I'd just say that from now on to avoid talking details about your life to people that know him too and tell any friend or family member you have that he knows or could get in contact with to also not disclose any information about you. Abusers pray on the people around you to get to you. It happened to me when I broke up with an abusive ex. He tried to talk with all my friends that he knew too reel me in again but luckily I'd already asked them to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 10:18 PM
6

Does he know the exact address of the new place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:35 PM
104

Why at 31 he doesn't have a place to live without parents?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:50 PM
16

May I ask what has he done? I know he produced lots of series and films but have no idea about his wrong doings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:58 PM
63

When I watched Buffy the first time I loved her with Spike. Yes I know it was an awfully toxic relationship, I just loved their chemistry and somehow I never liked Angel lol Of course now looking back I know that all the relationships were a cluster fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:58 PM
29

It's not the end of the world if he has to sleep somewhere or walk around until next day to get back home. If he had money to come to the city he has money to leave too. And if he doesn't even have money for a hotel room then he shouldn't even be on a date to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:25 PM
46

Not giving money to men ever will spare you from scammers, hobosexual and LVM in general. Men can ask their families, bros or banks for money. Not our responsibility giving money to men we're not even married to, and even married I'd proceed with caution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:22 PM
16

Yes, she's trash too. Both are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:19 PM
14

Exactly. It's good to learn how to not be the gf nor the low value woman this girl is. We know already he's a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:19 PM
184

He was a full on hobosexual that was probably trying to both have sex and have you paying for food and a place to stay. Maybe even a scammer. But we live we learn. Hope you blocked and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:12 PM
32

Yes he's a LVM too for accepting the kink and everything that followed. I hope she dumps him and heals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:45 PM
123

Solution is divorce, keep all the evidence in case is needed and cut all economical bonds with him in the future with the help of a lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:01 PM
105

I don't want to be harsh but she brought it upon herself. I don't feel sorry for her, sorry. And yes he's LVM too for the simple fact that he accepted this threesome clownery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:56 AM
145

Sorry but I don't feel sorry for her. She brought this upon herself for being sexposi kinkmeisha. It was even her idea, not his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:54 AM
477

This is not the flex she thinks it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:51 AM
28

Maybe it's to train the muscles in the vagina to give him better sex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:40 AM
28

Even with the flat tire the planning for a proper date would've happened before that. The excuses of these scrotes for their low effort!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:38 AM
397

Then they think the woman that dumped them is the one that got away and will string along an unaware woman or even marry a woman they don't even care about just to get over the fantasy of the one that went away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:27 PM
44

This scrote will commit to a forever girlfriend or even marry a woman he doesn't care about just to have a bangmaid, not be alone and have his chores done while pinning the rest of his life for "the one who got away". Typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:22 PM
33

As if she's going to dump her fiancé who actually wants to be with her for a man that in 5 years never wanted to commit. And what is he expecting? That him saying feelings for her, yet still no guarantees of commitment will weight more than her engagement with someone who actually wants to be with her? The delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:18 PM
25

She needs to cOmMuNiCaTe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:26 AM
39

I've seen countless of true crime documentaries where mothers will choose an abusive and sometimes pedophile devil that abuses her children over her children. Or women who even give their children to these boyfriends or new husbands to abuse. Or women who have children from a previous relationship and will let their new boyfriend abuse their children. Or women who will abandon their children to be with a scrote. It makes my blood boil!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:23 AM
53

Always the old scrote manipulating the young girlfriend. I'm also shivering at age she probably was when he started grooming, I mean pursuing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:21 AM
87

If you wonder why you've been years with a scrote that never wanted to commit or marry you in all those years and then rushed to marry the next woman less than a year after they began dating that doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. It means he wasn't ready for such commitment and knew full well you wouldn't be his future wife but still strung you along to get free consistent sex, free therapist and free house maid but when the other woman came along he started thinking "muh legacy" an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:01 PM
62

I bet he doesn't even take her on dates, does foreplay or goes down on her. I also bet that she does the brunt of the chores hence why too exhausted for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:55 PM
34

Or maybe he wants porn sick sex and she's too vAniLLa for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:54 PM
21

He should break up with her if he doesn't want to marry us but she does. Simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:52 PM
70

This horrifying! Please for you safety never accept performing kinks and ditch men who even suggest them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:48 PM
4

The cope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 10:01 AM
88

Even though men call us gold diggers, most men marry out of convenience and some of them even marry women they hate, it's just that considering their options and the advantage of having a wife, they choose to marry that woman they hate or don't even like. It's all about what brings them more advantage vs the level of investment they have to put on. The advantage for men of having a wife are among others: - Dividing expenses - Someone to cook and clean - Bangmaid - Give them heirs and do all the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 09:07 AM
24

Has to be trolling but if not this man is unhinged and a danger to society. Soon will start punching his wife and kids if he hasn't started already over the sports team.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:56 AM
24

This. If a guy is rich but is stingy with his money and is not generous with us, he's not HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:21 AM
35

We're called shallow and gold diggers for wanting employed men with their finances in order. Yet they see no issue in judging women for their looks and rating them in numeric scales.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:58 PM
45

Why don't they get together with men then? Or men that transition to women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:47 PM
17

I don't think you should tell a man that you were abused or cheated on. If he's a good man this won't make a difference but if he's a scrote he'll think you put up with this stuff or respect you less even if he does this unconsciously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:39 PM
19

And they say men aren't gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:36 PM
8

This makes me so angry and sick! Where is this girls' family that she has to stay with this abusive scrote? I'm so sad for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:34 PM
132

If you pay attention the men that complain about valentine being just a commercial day and that romance should happen all year long and not just on valentine day are men who aren't romantic at all ever and don't take women on dates. I don't care much for valentine and I'm not a hearts and teddy bear type of person either, but I take it as a red flag if a man complains too much about valentines day. Why so pressed? I don't mind a man not giving much important to valentine day, it's the complainin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:32 PM
71

This is my first valentine with my boyfriend. I haven't bought him anything but he's taking me on a valentine date. I don't put much importance on valentine day but I think it's a good way of vetting men. Some men say that valentine day is a commercial day (fair enough) and that romance should happen all year round (and I agree) but if you take a look the men who say this aren't even romantic the rest of the year. If you want to give something I wouldn't go all out. I'd maybe give a card or some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:29 PM
134

I always die laughing when men use the bare minimum like being employed and not being obese to feel entitled to top tier women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:25 PM
36

I moved to a Scandinavian country a few years ago and I'm happy with a Scandinavian boyfriend now but holly molly it's LVM and low effort men central up in here. Not my boyfriend but most men here just want casual sex and would rather cut their arm than taking you to an actual date. And since I'm foreigner they'd see me as a fetich and make ignorant sexual remarks about me for it. Awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:30 AM
11

Here everyone uses snap chat and scrotes from OLD would always ask for it. Lots would ask for Instagram too. Instant unmatch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:25 AM
32

It's a huge risk to live with a man but a lot can be prevented (not all of course) through out meticulous vetting and not moving in with men too soon. I'm sure this scrote had already shown red flags of being selfish and disrespectful that she maybe chose to ignore due to being in love and hoping he'd change. And even if she just found out how he is after moving in, she should've left at the first sign of disrespect to avoid the situation scalating even more. I hope she finally leaves soon becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:42 PM
20

I relate so much with your "feeling like I deserve this treatment". I didn't go through half of what you did, but have been through relationships and situations that affected my self esteem and sense of self worth. I'm happy that you got out of there and found someone who truly loves you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:30 PM
28

Being truly loved and adored (beware, don't confuse it with being lovebombed) is wonderful. Everything that is less than that is not worth our time. Relationships itself shouldn't be an effort. We shouldn't fight for relationships or with our partners, but instead fight together as a team against external factors. It's not relationships that are difficult, it's life in general, hence why it's fundamental to not be with someone that makes our life even harder. Better be alone then. If someone is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:27 PM
7

Lmao I don't get this at all. Make it make sense please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:22 PM
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Probably because he wants to make her pay at least half rent or expenses. A man that plays games until 4AM or more can't be someone who actually have a job or at least a good earning job. Also doesn't seem the type that cooks or does chores so probably just wanted her to be his bangmaid 50/50 (or more) while keeping up with his gamer schedule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:33 PM
287

Does he even work with such awful sleep patterns and gaming? I won't be surprised if she's paying rent for "his apartment". What a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:49 PM
10

Exactly! It's important that you mention that a HVM wouldn't love bomb us as some people think they're choosing better by choosing lovebombers instead of low effort men. As you say a HVM will court us respectfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:21 PM
33

Exactly. The first dates are where men are usually at the top of their game and determine the rest of the relationship. Men usually spread this lie that they won't invest much in the beginning but once they see your worth and fall in love with you they'll shower you with dates and romance. I've never seen this happen in real life. If it starts low effort it will always remain low effort. This is just a myth they spread to keep women lowballing themselves and accept low effort from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:33 PM
44

I agree, but at the same time men have selective incompetence when it comes to women. They'll be at the top of their game for their bosses, planning business dinners for work or organizing dinners and drinks for their bros, but when it comes the women they're allegedly interested in, suddenly they forget how to book a table on a restaurant ahead of time and make the necessary arrangements.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:25 PM
101

How come observers/accumplices don't get charged with anything?? This makes me mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:41 PM
297

This happened many years ago and we don't hold contact anymore. I've seen this several time through out my life, men just minding their own business and not helping in such situations or not taking such situations seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:06 PM
514

Me and a girlfriend were once harrassed (no physical contact just a scary drunk man not letting go of us and insisting to talk to us and getting uncomfortably close) and our male friend who's a black belt in taekwondo just walked away and came back when we finally managed to make the man go away lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:46 PM
89

Someone tell me the rapists got time in jail please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:39 PM
127

I'm surprised Netflix let a documentary against sexy posi and porn culture pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:38 PM
120

I've had scrotes pulling the "I'm not a good planner, I'm spontaneous" to justify not being able to do something as basic as planning a date. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:37 PM
63

I think the meme is about workaholics. People who will do everything for their jobs such as working overtime for insane hours and missing time with their family at home due to that. The work can fire them at any time and doesn't give a shit about them but they'll never be able to make up for the time they missed out on their family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:34 PM
50

Saying "no" to something they want and see their reaction is one of the best vetting strategies in dating. If he throws tantrums, tries to negotiate or loses interest, then it's instant block and delete and move on. The trash takes out itself when they don't get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:32 PM
23

I'm not on the dating scene anymore but when I was the strategy that worked best for me was something as simple as having boundaries and don't backtrack on them. I'd see the mask fall whenever I wouldn't want to go to a man's house on the first dates (most try it by the 3rd date, it was so predictable) or refuse physical advances on the first date. Some would throw mantrums, others would try to convince me to not uphold my boundary for them as if this was a negotiation and others would simply lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:30 PM
9

I love me some mantrums 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:24 PM
8

If the dating app has a chat or message function there's absolutely no reason to give phone numbers to men until we've met them and feel comfortable with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:23 PM
39

I've once revealed to a NVM that I've tried something many years ago and didn't like it. Huge mistake. This scrote didn't stop pestering me about giving him a chance to try with him and even tried to force it on me once. I was still a pick me and unfortunately didn't dump him at the first sign of insistence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:05 AM
8

Sure let's risk sexual diseases, pregnancies and emotional trauma or unpleasant sex with men we barely know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:29 AM
5

"Longest fwb strike". Boy bye lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:21 AM
38

When will people understand that ethical porn doesn't exist? It can't be ethical when the fundamentals of porn were never ethical. Not even the so called "feminist porn".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:17 AM
102

Because no girl wants men that over inflate their value and seem to have narcissistic traits. "chicks"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:48 AM
17

Wait what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 11:12 PM
172

There are r1pists on the same scale as men who use prostitute services. Just like with prostitutes the sex is being coerced with money and in this case specifically a roof over their head. This should be illegal. It's legalized r1pe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:20 PM
55

Why is he assuming that it has to be a woman to get chores done? Why is he assuming that a woman will ever feel comfortable in sleeping in his room? And the age gap, get the fuck out of here! Also the "no male friends" lmao bitch please. And pay 400 on top of it?? I'd rather be homeless for real! Edit: I hadn't seen the other pics, I'm even more appalled at the male audacity now! The last one who wants to r1pe women on his parents' home reeks of disgusting neckbeard incel. 40 years leaving with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:12 PM
21

If I was the boss I'd have dismissed him from working with me again after sabotaging a person who was actually skilled and passed all the test in a legit way. I'd also wonder why is this his business and feel that I couldn't trust a petty bitter snitch to work in my company. I'd also wonder why he feels that OF is so bad to work in the company of he himself was subscribed to her OF and enjoying it. I'd then hire her. But this is the world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:41 AM
20

I'm with a man that so far as shown to be HV. I leveled up before it happened and also used some of FDS principles to better my self as a person and be more selective. It works. Even if you haven't found a HVM yet, you'll avoid lots of LVM and NVM and don't waste time in bad relationships that do nothing for you. Always better to be alone and leveling up than with a LVM or NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:37 AM
46

Lmao he's really triggered and mad writing paragraphs and paragraphs. Why so emotional? Shouldn't the logic sex calm down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:35 AM
135

I would say that men who use social media a lot and follow lots of people in general can already be a redflag of itself. Most men that seemed HV that I met in my life didn't seem to care much about social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:34 AM
68

If you've already sent nudes to a man please be strong and don't let them dangle that over your head, blackmail you or feel bad about it. Don't send anymore from now on. It doesn't matter if he's apparently HV (though a HVM wouldn't probably ask for nudes!) or you've been married for decades, NEVER send nudes. Even if the man is not planning on doing anything with them and is seemingly a good person, someone can hack into his phone, friends or family can accidently find the photos or if they tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:28 AM
79

I'm still vetting of course but I found my boyfriend who's been showing to be HV so far in my 30s. The myth that all the good men are taken is to make us settle for LVM. Also a HVM is selective so even if they have many women interested in them, they'll be selective choosing the one they truly want to be with. Not all women are HV either so they wouldn't be with the first woman that comes along or endure bad relationships just because. Being HV man or woman doesn't mean being desirable and that'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:23 AM
24

This is some sister wives crazy type of arrangement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:12 AM
22

I rather be called a selfish monster than this. Their child their problem. Divorce and take you to the cleaners. If this is real I'm so sad for this woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:11 AM
51

The mistress is disgusting too. They both deserve each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 08:41 AM
5

I couldn't finish reading after the first paragraphs as I was already seeing red! 😠😠😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 08:30 AM
101

This! Don't ask questions. Don't send paragraphs. Don't beg for chances. Don't do accommodations. Don't show disappointment or sadness. This takes effort and practice but once mastered it will make a world of difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:15 AM
72

Military men are usually a no no I agree. Specially if they're deployed somewhere. I had a similar situation to the OP happen to me many years ago. Except we'd known each other for years, I thought we had a friendship before and had lots of friends in common. I've heard many other bad experiences from women with men in the military. I've met a couple of them that seem to be good men but they're rarely "single ready to mingle" men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:06 AM
57

I know this is not the point but oil rig men that spend long times there are usually scrotes and cheaters. Never met one that it wasn't and I've met many due to my line of work. I wouldn't say my boundary or standard to men to see if they naturally act like that or if they let the mask fall by themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:53 PM
386

He's an unhinged obsessive scrote. The pettiness, the lengths to destroy her chances, he didn't expose her real name on reddit by accident, he wants to broaden his revenge and make it so she never finds a job anywhere. He gives me creepy and dangerous vibes. He seems the type of man that will destroy or even take your life if you dare to reject him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:02 PM
85

I also got this feeling. He seems extremely petty and obsessive. No one unbothered would care enough to go snitch someone to stop them from working at a company. Even if he's going to work there later it's not his business and it's for the recruiter to decide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:58 PM
172

Also he seemed shocked and appalled that she got the job instead of his male friend. What a deplorable hypocritical scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:54 PM
51

Men: "There's no stigma in being a sex work, I respect them and see them as equals. Sex work is empoyering!" Also men: "I'm going to snitch on this OF woman regardless the fact she earned the internship fairly based on her skills because I think OF women shouldn't have good opportunities in the market place" This little snitch sounds either pressed because he tried his moves on her and was rejected or because his misogynist ass can't fathom this woman being so intelligent and doing better than h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:53 PM
89

This. I'd love him to get justice and be taken to the cleaners but he seems capable of taking their life. I got scared for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:46 PM
92

He's a murderer in the making. I hope she's safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:31 PM
35

Also she's doing a disservice for their son and possibly even her SD. She's showing the children a dynamic that will turn her son into a porn addicted scrote that uses women when he grows up and teach the SD to accept this behaviour as normal in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:03 PM
63

He might even want to get more custody so that he can get child support from the ex while his current wife works 2 jobs to support him. Gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:57 PM
21

He was truly mad 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:17 PM
10

Why are they so pressed over a joke? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:16 PM
53

Of course the boyfriend is an abusive scrote but what makes me more sad is that she's questioning if she's AITA for not wanting to kill or sell her pet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:47 PM
76

"Maybe she's depressed" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:54 PM
11

Tell me you're a pedo porn sick without telling me you're a pedo porn sick. Instant turn off for me if a guy said this to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:21 PM
72

He probably wasn't that in love when he was with his ex. It's more the appeal of wanting someone he can't have and ego bruised from having been rejected by this women. Many men can't let go of rejections and break ups decades after. I think it's more of an inability of dealing with their bruised ego. And of course they don't have enough self awareness or reflection to go to therapy to deal with this, abstain from relationships to heal and confide in their friends and family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:54 PM
121

"The one that got away" is mostly because men idealize what they can't have. Hence why some men in their 30s and 40s are still crying about high-school and college exes or random women who rejected them years ago. They also use this in their minds as excuse to use and mistreat women. It's more romantic and more accepted to say to themselves (and others) that the reason they're using and discarding women is due to some romantic unicorn woman love story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:51 PM
189

Another common cause for suicide in men is debt. I've seen countless cases of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:44 PM
144

Also men are experts in monkey branching. They don't take time to be single to heal. They'll just move quickly to the last one. No wonder they're in new relationships still full of unresolved feelings for the last woman. Also men idealize what they can't have, hence why they lose interest for their wives after the honeymoon initial stage and why some men in their 30s and 40s are still crying over high-school and college ex girlfriends/random women who rejected them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:40 PM
72

They think it's a compliment. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:19 PM
9

I think she's been on and off with him for many years. He's still LVM though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:44 PM
5

They think these black men will treat them better than the women they've demeaned. They're in for a big surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:44 PM
63

This. You need to have your own money, "fuck you money" so you can leave at any time and not be dependent on him. Preferable good investments that give some passive income. I think SAHM is perfectly valid and can be beneficial to the mother and the children, but it's too much of a risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:41 PM
5

Some examples of trait of a HVW: woman with a sense self worth not letting men or anyone push her over. Accomplished or at least working hard to accomplish her goals and dreams. Doesn't need a man to be happy, has boundaries that actively enforces. Is a good friend for her girlfriends. Doesn't trash talk women trying to win points for men. Has hobbies and interests. Taking care of herself in terms of physical and mental health. Resilient. As to redflags for men to be aware of in LVW I don't thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:40 PM
8

I've had my share of low effort lvm excusing their lack of effort with "being spontaneous and wanting a spontaneous woman". No sir I'm not leaving my home with a short notice to go on a walk to a non specified place or have a coffe or drink because you're bored at home. When I was younger I was attracted to the "nomad Jesus" van life travelers but as I grew up I realized that these guys are unreliable if you want an actual committed relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 12:13 PM
49

This hobosexual loser doesn't care one bit about his forever girlfriend. Hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:05 AM
45

This. We shouldn't be afraid of leaving at the first sign of abuse. It will only escalate. It doesn't matter if it's one day after the wedding or while pregnant or years after. It will only get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:00 AM
37

You're totally right. It's already abuse that will only escalate even more with time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:56 AM
53

There are usually signs but many women either ignore them or don't see how it could get worse or lie to themselves that once certain commitment milestones are met it'll get better. I think some men really do 180s that look unexpected but most time there were already some signs, albeit more discreet. The longer it goes the harder to keep the mask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:46 PM
57

You should always vet, and continue to vet even if engaged or married. Even though we can leave at any point, vetting is very important to minimize the chances of being in such situations and to allow us to catch the red flags early on and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:40 PM
153

Is this an American tradition? I've never seen this in any wedding I've attended personally but I've seen it a lot on videos of American weddings and never understand why someone would do that to a bride in such expensive dress and makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:34 PM
23

Omg it sounds terrifying! I'm glad you escaped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:31 PM
15

Are these men seeking therapy? Are they confiding in their bros? Are they practicing self care? Yeah I thought so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:19 PM
118

Great advice! Also do your best to not let abusive men baby trap you. Luckily she found out his true nature before having children with him which would've made it much harder to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:54 PM
1121

Finally a relationship columnist that doesn't tell them to cOmMuNiCaTe. This is a huge redflag for future abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:52 PM
7

It has to be trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:49 PM
252

This. I've had several male friends saying kissing is too intimate and they won't kiss/won't kiss much or cuddle properly if it's not someone they see a future with or in love with. This is not true for every men but for many it is a huge redflag if he doesn't kiss nor cuddles. Even in actual relationships if he stops doing so it's a big red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:51 PM
26

He was one of the biggest scrotes on Hollywood. His obsession got Marilyn Monroe didn't stop there. He released old nudes of Marylin on playboy from before fame where she didn't even use her name without her consent! It almost destroyed her career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:37 PM
36

What rules is this scrote talking about? I didn't understand. BTW it's very rare I see women becoming arrogant and cheat just because they became hot. But ugly or fat men get insufferable when they become hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:53 PM
87

I don't have to pretend either 😂 Luckily my boyfriend is amazing at cooking so I end up reaping some benefits of my "non weaponized incompetence" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:49 PM
140

Definitely sounds like an incel pretending to be a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:11 PM
54

And her "blowing out/having a meltdown" was just a single message and then move on and delete. By the title I thought she had written him pages and pages lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:55 PM
21

Would it been that hard to just shut up and wish happy birthday?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:52 PM
13

I think that having a roaster of suitors we go on dates with and not being too serious about men we just hade a few dates with is a good advice, BUT this doesn't mean going on dates with men we know already we're not into or that don't match our standards for a serious relationship or marriage if that's what we want. It also doesn't mean casual sex or giving chances to scrotes. Even if we date several men at the same time and are exploring our options, we should still vet all of these men ruthle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:49 PM
21

Wtf I'm going to throw up, this is horrific!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:27 AM
41

This. No man with good intentions and actually into the hobby will look for exclusively opposite sex partners to do the hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:35 PM
47

When I used to waste my time arguing with men about porn, many would swear up and down that porn stars have actual orgasms because they said so in interviews and that real life women had pleasure performing porn sex. They couldn't fathom this not being the case and would try to explain me, a woman, how women get off. Sure every woman is different but we women know better what women enjoy in general than men lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:26 PM
39

If men truly believed other men are good they wouldn't be trying to lock their daughters from other men and getting mad when their young daughters get boyfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:18 PM
44

I'm a true crime junky (trying to stop watching true crime because I don't think it's good for my mental health though) and I get absolutely shocked with the victim blaming that goes constantly in the true crime community. There are whole subs and fb groups defending Chris Watts. Even in cases where they're not blaming the wife/gf or wondering what she did to deserve this, they'll blame the mistress (there's usually some sort of cheating involved) as if it was the mistress that somehow pointed a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:10 PM
153

When I was a pick me cool girl many years ago I went to a strip club 🤡. There were older men there with very visible wedding rings on their finger spending thousands and thousands on these women and even bringing them flowers. These women were just trying to be nice to them to get their check but I swear some of these scrotes seemed to be really in love with these women and hoping to get a chance. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:00 PM
15

It's not like men are chasing emotional support from their peers/bros or even actual therapy. They usually unloaded to their girlfriends/wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:26 PM
201

Why is he wasting time getting angry at some woman's standards? If he's not up to her standards then just date someone else and stop complaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:53 PM
108

I have absolutely no sympathy for this scrote. He hates his wife and desires his former mistress. He's just using the wife as a placeholder bangmaid while he plots how to get his cheating mistress back. He came back with the tail between his legs because he can't fanthom the idea of not being with a woman. I hope his wife wakes up and kicks this scrote out for good and take him to the cleaners. I also I know that columninsts and therapists shouldn't be rude to the people who seek their help and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:06 PM
121

Omg wtf! There was also this thread of a disgusting man that was stealing formula from his son and offering to feed the baby just so that he could drink the formula.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:43 AM
28

My father felt threatened by me when I was born and how my mother would put all the focus on me when I was a child. He even lashed out at me as a child and even blamed me for their divorce. I have a good relationship with my father now and he deeply apologized for his actions and harsh words but at the time this hurt a lot and I think some of my pick me behaviors came from this situation. I've also seen this in several couples. In more extreme cases we have physically abusive men or even straigh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:41 AM
113

I saw this post and everyone was roasting him, men included lmao they were also roasting him for thinking that bathroom mats and soap dispensers are luxury/unnecessary 😂 Some queens also shared stories of men pulling this and when they left the scrotes they took basically every kitchen utensil and furniture except for their mattress and TV system because they had bought everything and the scrotes got mad lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:06 AM
14

When there are sub reddits defending Chris Watts and blaming Shannan none of this surprises me anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:47 AM
816

Men whose "sexual education" comes from porn (aka majority of men with access to the internet) are usually terrible in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:21 AM
107

Yes that's what I didn't like in his answer. Not wanting to have a child at this point or even not wanting big commitments yet at 9 months of relationship is not the issue for me and it's fair. Kts5 the saying he'd try to convince her to abort anyways that is the red flag for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:18 AM
75

Wtf??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:50 AM
96

Men never respond to great acts of sacrifice with gratitude or the same levels of devotions. We've seen this with men cheating on women who supported them financially and emotionally for years, or women who took care of them while sick and this case where they even gave them an organ! Men are programmed to do what's convenient for them, always. If they can receive and receive without having to give back, they will, specially if it's women. It's another story when it's other men who've helped the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:42 PM
33

What is the point of marrying a man that didn't want to marry us in the first place and we had to jump through hoops to beg the man to marry us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:02 PM
27

She knows it won't happen and that he's just stringing her along, hence her anxiety and trying to rush this with schemes and trying to pry for updates. If he wanted he'd already have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:01 PM
89

It's not a proposal from the man if it's you begging the man to marry you. If he wanted he would and he apparently doesn't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:58 PM
131

If she needs schemes to speed up the proposal and remind him she's anxiously waiting it means she already knows or at least senses that he sees her as a forever girlfriend and is just stringing her along or stalling the most he can. I'm betting they've been together for god knows how many years and him avoiding the subject like the plague. She's just a placeholder or a bangmaid for him he doesn't feel the need to commit to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:56 PM
138

Fantastic! Hope she sees it ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:52 PM
159

These men will abuse and groom women from early age to accept more and more abuse and cheating and then trap them with children that these women think naively will make these men become decent human being. No, it only gets worse after having children and now she's too emotionally and physically trapped to this man unable to even considering dumping his ass for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:25 PM
276

Can some fdser with access to the post send her a PM referring her here? But more than that she needs to dump this loser and get therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:23 PM
317

Saying his wife is getting old at 23? Pedophile. She asks why would her husband date her if there's nothing he likes in her. One more evidence of the sad reality that men will marry and spend decades with women they hate and despise. This woman was so abused and manipulated to the point she won't leave her abuser after a decade of cheating and is still trying to "win him back" and blaming herself for her husband being a cheating abuser major scrote. I'm almost betting he isolated her from friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:22 PM
3

This is delicious though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:54 PM
19

Zero tolerance to any kind of emotional, physical, financial, destroying objects, whatever type of abuse or aggression. Leave at the first sign. But not just against you. Even if he treats you "well" but shows aggressive or abusive behaviour towards exes, family members, children or workers at shops and restaurants, leave at the first sign. You're saving your life and possible offspring's lives. The sooner you leave, the easier will it be to untangle from this person and the less repercussions y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:30 PM
32

This, it's cognitive dissonance at their finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:05 PM
43

I like the anti work sub but this post is a disappointment to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:02 PM
44

This. Even women on OF that make good money and though they're not on the same level of abuse as street prostitutes, none of them thought of this as a dream career path and they wouldn't be doing this if there wasn't an economical need, even if they're middle class well off white girls. They also go through the dangers of stalkers, abusers and doxers every day. And it will be extremely hard to leave the industry because unfortunately they won't be respected by their peers in future jobs. And jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:01 PM
30

because you firmly believe women are out here with a job guide and a red pen pondering this as a legitimate career I think the worst is that deep down inside they know that this is not true. And they don't care because it makes their peepee hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:57 AM
59

Men are so hormonal. "The lOGiC SeX"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:57 AM
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Men be out here fighting against big corporations because they are unfair and abusive but then in the same breath defending an industry that abuses and r*pes women for profit. No, you can't be anti capitalist and defend the sex industry. And you can't commit logic fallacies of saying that anti-porn and anti-prostituition people are against the "sex workers". Would they say that anti-capitalists that are against the big corporations that abuse and explore the workers are against the workers of sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:55 AM
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You can't be anti capitalist (therefor aligning with the anti work movement) and then support an industry that abuses women, children and even men (yes, men too) just because your dick gets off with abuse and r*pe. It always baffles me how men can say they're anti capitalists and anti corporations because they abuse the workers and destroy small businesses but then go out of their way to defend the "sex industry", one of the most damaging and abusing industries in the world which is even ruled a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:51 AM
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Why would a man even take a woman to a storage woman for a date?? And what does her being a part time nanny have to do with her cleaning the storage room?? Why can't this scrote take her to a restaurant or something? Hope the replies roasted him. If you don't have money to take women on proper date you don't date, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:20 AM
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Sexual attraction isn't a pre-requesite no. I've heard stories of men hate f*cking/r*ping desfigured women, very disabled women or women they consider ugly and bragging about it to their bros. It's horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:16 AM
77

I remember this story and it traumatized me! Even men who end up not being casual, end up marrying and having children can have violent fantasies and snap. It's scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:14 AM
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This and I'm glad more women are realising this painful and even dangerous truth. Also having sex with a woman doesn't even mean they find her attractive. Some men brag about having rage and degrading sex with women they consider ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:12 AM
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I don't like both of them very much either but I think a lot comes from racism and the tendency to treat women as the villains and men as poor clueless individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:36 PM
24

This, it's disgusting and sadistic how they see these women! Also "sex work is work" liberal feminists and scrotes can spare me the BS that wealthy women with a healthy family and social background would still choose to do porn or prostitution by choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:33 PM
21

This. And you can also opt out of a dinner if it's not going well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:54 PM
27

I'll go to a coffee with my boyfriend now and then when we're out and about but had he invited me to coffee dates I would have laughed in his face and wouldn't be with him now 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:53 PM
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They wouldn't take Megan Fox on a coffee date in the beginning and would try to impress her so they can have a chance with her. But later on they'd stop trying, begin saying she looks better without makeup, asking what she brings to the table after stopping paying for the dates, triangulating her with other women, living in her mantion not paying bills and playing video-games all day, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:50 PM
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I once had a guy wanting to go have a coffee. I was still a pick me and accepted. He actually meant going for a walk but brought a coffee for us from home to drink at a park. So I got the worst of two worlds: walk date and coffee date 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:48 PM
57

I once had a scrote getting real mad when I referred to porn as rpe on tape. They know, they just don't want to be reminded that they get off on rpe and women being tortured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:09 PM
23

The logic sex simply can't use logic when it comes to defend porn and prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:08 PM
88

I have no idea if it was PIED but a friend of mine was was dating a guy that would get hard when they were making out and all that but as soon as they'd start penetrative sex he'd get soft. This was a young and healthy looking man. At the time we talked about this we had no idea what was going on but now I think it could be PIED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:06 PM
37

Imagine what he'd do with their eventual future children to prove a point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:08 AM
25

What are the replies? But also why did she offer to pay our the mortgage of a house she doesn't own? Hope she dumps him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:07 AM
7

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:54 AM
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Is that the case of the son who killed his sister, mom and dad just because they stopped giving him money after he had stolen from them and even stolen and other frauds to his own grandmother? And he was expecting to inherit their money and life insurances. I'm awful with names so can't remember the names but that case was horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 07:49 PM
4

Tell me you're awful in bed and don't care to be better without telling me you're awful in bed and don't care to be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:13 PM
25

This is what I'm scared of. This man is certainly capable of murder or physical violence and these were just the first signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:07 PM
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Not even just country clubs or fraternities. I've seen men going all in to please co workers they barely know while neglecting or mistreating their girlfriends/wives. Or humiliating their girlfriends/wives just to make their bros laugh and look cool to them. Or paying for expensive dinners, drinks, hollydays or lending lots of money to a bro in need but then making a scene if their girlfriend or wife wants to be treated with a nice date or flowers or refusing to help her out when she's in need. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:08 PM
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WTF this is terrifying! And he shouldn't get suspended sentence because he's dangerous. If he went through all these lengths to control her, he can escalate in the future now that his plans are in the open. He's a danger to society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 11:56 AM
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But then they say it's us who overthink and make drama. He just has to tell her he doesn't want to continue seeing her anymore, he doesn't even need to go into details if he doesn't want to. Men hate to fully cut off relationships because they're always thinking about eventually monkey branching if things go south with the new girlfriend and so they have this need of keeping exes around just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 11:53 AM
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When I was on some dancing classes guys would always turn it into sexual innuendos if I talked about it as my hobby, so I stopped mentioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:59 AM
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This has to be a troll. In case it's really an incel going mad or not, always block and delete after the first sexual innuendo. It shows what he's there for and lack of social skills in dating. It will never get better even if you tell them to talk about other things and they comply at first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:56 AM
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I was also wondering why he hasn't married her by now. And what you said about protecting men as a class is so true. I've met several men who display high value behavior and are very kind to their girlfriends and wives but then will defend their peers when they do something LV or even gaslight women for feeling hurt about what other men are doing. Or like her brother will be against strategies that decrease the sexual availability of women to men in general though they're in happy committed rela…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:13 PM
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It's common for men to have "selective respect". Usually with LVM it's respect for the family women (if even that) but not respect for the women they're in relationships with, but it can also happen the other way though more rare. I'd question if the brothers opinions are our of genuine care for the OP or more out of possessivity. Some men have this feeling towards sisters and daughters. They'll hate every men these women date under the guise of wanting to protect them but don't want women to ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:09 PM
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I'm not going to question how he treats his girlfriend because no one knows that but it seems odd to me that he doesn't show enthusiasm that you have standards. Having standards are the bread and butter of FDS and a HVM won't be bothered by a woman, specially one in his family following the vetting strategies of FDS. What specifically doesn't he agree?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:03 PM
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Congratulations! Such a beautiful ring and proposal! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 12:40 PM
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Exactly! It took me so long to come to this mind blowing and scary realization. It's a psy op and a very successful one at that. We're also gaslighted and pitted against other women when we express that we are against this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:52 AM
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Most of what liberal feminism fights for is indeed things that only benefit men and low value men at that: the sex trade, the "kink" and casual sex as empowering among other things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:50 AM
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When I was a teenager and early 20s though most of my friendships were girls and women, I had this underlying feeling of jealousy and competition towards other women. I also had this internalized mysoginy "not like other girls" stupid mindset. It took me a while to realize this and work on this feeling. Women were never the enemy, it was my self esteem and lack of self worth that were. Nowadays I do my best to cultivate and maintain my friendships with women and show the women in my life my appr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:48 AM
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He's a dangerous r*pist. I'm glad she got out of that alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:40 AM
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My dumb ass hadn't clicked on the pic and just saw the first pic and thought it was a pretty damn well done bed and then read the comments here and didn't understand why you were complaining about the bed. Until I opened it and saw the second pic 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 12:14 PM
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There has to be men hijacking and infiltrating libfems, there's no other explanation. Everything they spew only benefits men and their depravity and only brings disadvantage for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 07:25 PM
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The lack of empathy of some men never ceases to shock me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 07:22 PM
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I love when it happens. Also common that the scrote doesn't get as many women as he thought he would while the woman starts living her best life and going on dates with more attractive men. He then gets mad and wants to stop the polymorous dynamic he suggested (and coerced) but then it's too late 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:12 PM
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This! If it's polymorous why can't she go on vacation with her family without him and enjoy her time with them and then see him later? It's not like there's urgency in spending a week together when they share each other with others and he's not even committing enough to her be involved in her family's gatherings and hollydays. She shouldn't care that he spends that week with his wife and that he's not involved with her family at this point. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:09 PM
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I have no idea who this Phillip man is and if he usually writes such scrote advice but if so he deserves a roast from the podcast queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:05 PM
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She's had knee surgery and in huge pain, he's on holidays and she's still doing all the house chores and child caring?? And this scrote times the time he spends with her and probably flirting with a 20 year old student?? He hates her. She needs to leave him before it gets even worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:20 PM
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Wtf I had no idea about this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:01 PM
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They give me a bit Shawn Mendes and Camilla Cabello vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:10 PM
8

What did he do or say that it was sexist? I had no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:06 PM
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Are there reports of him cheating on her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:05 PM
14

Does Zendaya have some kind of relationship to Jason Momoa or Tom Holland? (sorry, i don't know much about these people)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:03 PM
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They announced their divorce? They used to be presented as relationship goals lol I liked the fact that he chose an older woman and seemed to love her and I thought he was a good guy from the little I knew about them, but at the same time I found a bit odd the whole lusting for her on tv before he got to know her and how it looks like he pursued her too much. He was getting GOT money and Bonet was established in the industry too. Why were they so broke that they couldn't feed the children?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:53 PM
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This. It's the same with men that will pay dinners, drinks, gifts and drive across states for friends and co workers but will be adamant in not paying for a dinner with a woman they're allegedly interested in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:15 PM
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This. He wouldn't pull this with Megan fox at the beginning but after a while when the excitement is gone and Megan Fox is "secured" he'd try to convince Megan Fox of how better she looks like without makeup and he'd also stop taking her to dates and eventually pull this BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:13 PM
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They want all the benefits of a woman without any sort of investment either time or money. Then they cry that women are shallow and gold diggers when we're not interesting in spending time with a zero effort scrote whose date will be a nuisance for us. I'd rather stay home watching Netflix than getting out the house to meet a man while they do their errands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:11 PM
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I've seen several horror stories of tinder and other apps dates where the scrote invites the woman to run errands with him. Men want all the benefits of having a woman with zero investment. Coffe and walk dates are terrible but this is even worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:08 PM
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At least he could come early and help with the chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:06 PM
8

He's cheating (whether emotionally or physically or both) or wants to cheat. If he wasn't it wouldn't have been a big deal not having dinner alone at home with her. He'd either cancel with no arguing or he'd invite you too. Then he lied to seem like the good guy. He probably got back to you because she didn't want to participate on the cheating but he had to act like the good guy to have you back . Plus he's probably trying to triangulate you two. Please don't fall for his BS. His reaction to yo…
/r/askFDS12/01/22 11:20 AM
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100% this scrote is a red pill redditor. Luckily it didn't work on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:55 PM
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We're supposed to believe that men with rpe kinks wouldn't do it for real if they had the chance. I don't care that it's a sExuAl faNtAsY. If you get off women being rped and suffering you're a r*pist already or about to be and you deserve consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:42 AM
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The amount of "spontaneous" scrotes on online dating I found back in the day was enough to cause me indegestion just by thinking about it. If they wanted they would, it's not rocket science to plan a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:30 AM
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Why would we go for men who live in foreign countries and that is so complicated to date instead of men that live near given the choice? I don't care about how many women got success with this as it's complicated and unnecessary to choose it actively when other easier and more comfortable choices like dating a man in our area or being single exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:26 AM
19

Actual radfems are abolitionists of "sex work". But yes very scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:23 AM
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Men and the porn lobby have infiltrated the feminist movements. Lots of well intentioned women support these initiatives because they were brainwashed by the infiltrators to believe that supporting the sex industry is fighting for women's rights and well being. Many women are also brainwashed to believe that the sex trade isn't evil in and of itself but that it can be good if only certain conditions are attained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:21 AM
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This. Plus the "prostitutes" by choice who say they love it and make money don't have much choice when the scrote is paying and is already inside them. It's a known fact that many Johns will often try to do more than the agreed before hand or that prostitutes will feel pressure to do certain acts to maintain clients. Even the high end prostitutes that have just a few regulars need to obey to sick fantasies to keep the exclusive clients. Also not only do these women not have empathy for the victi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:17 AM
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It's the cognitive dissonance we have these days in feminism infiltrated by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:11 AM
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I've always find it funny the "my body my choice" when applied to sex work. Let's be honest, most women in the sex trade have no choice over their bodies. Even the "privileged" ones making money with high end clientele have no fully control or choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:11 AM
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Lmao it serves him well. He wasn't interested in her and just wanted some sex too/only did it just because. So what's he crying about her unmatching the chat and leaving as fast as she could?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:23 PM
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Us women never get 3 months to focus and don't get the luxury of being able to pause our responsibilities as parents to focus on other things. The audacity. He wouldn't do the same for her if she asked him for 3 months. Also I smell cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:31 PM
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The father was probably already cheating with the nurse before his wife died. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:29 PM
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Because she's probably a fake profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:02 PM
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This. It goes both way. I'm not defending deception on any of the parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:01 PM
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I think her profile is fake. And if it's not wouldn't it be much safer to go to a sperm bank? Sure more expensive but at least she wouldn't have issues afterwards, quality control and legally protected plus no std risk. And she wouldn't have to have sex with these men. These scrotes could want visitation or custody battles (most probably wouldn't want to deal with children from a random tinder woman but still a risk in there). Just makes no sense and is extremely dangerous if real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:58 PM
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This is very common with men and it's often talked about in self help relationship books and videos and comedy. Men will literally do anything to break up a relationship they're not interested anymore except actually being upfront and ending the relationship. If they ever do that they already have another woman lined up as they love to monkey branch,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:38 PM
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Men be telling their girlfriends they hate them or that they don't give 2 shits about them in the loudest ways and women still won't listen. Nothing good ever came from accommodating and being supportive of men that hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:50 PM
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He has her living in his home to avoid paying child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:34 PM
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This. When I was a teenager and sadly twenties and was a total pick me, I used to think that the women who wouldn't take no sh*t from men and were provided, spoiled and taken care of by men were "high maintenance women" who used men and how unfair it was that men would always pick these women instead of pick mes and Barbara the builder like me. After some inner work I realized that I was in fact jealous of these women and that's why I thought so low of them. These pick mes shame non pick mes bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:24 AM
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This. I could provide for a man as I have the means for it, but I won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:20 AM
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This. At least when men are the full providers they usually get home to a clean home with cooked meals and can rest after a day of work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:18 AM
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Rich men are worthless if they're not generous. They're actually worse than poor men when they're not generous to the women they're dating with. An extremely low value millionaire is Elon Musk. When he was dating Grimes she had to ask her fans for crowd funding her new album when she was dating and having a child with one of the richest men in the word 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:13 AM
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I'll provide for my children if and when I have them but never for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:11 AM
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Relationships with no ring are only doomed if the woman wants to marry and the scrote knows it and keeps dangling the marriage carrot but never proposing, future faking and stuff just wasting her time. That's what a forever girlfriend is. But if you don't want to marry and he's ok with it then it's not a forever girlfriend situation nor bad. What's important is only being with men that are on the same page as us and ditch men who don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:08 AM
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Abusive NVM lied to me about lots of things like his education degree, education and other lies in order to get money from me and when I caught him on the lies and broke up with him: "I did it because I love you and didn't want to lose you. You put so much pressure on me and made me lie just to please you. If you really loved me you wouldn't care about my lies and would forgive me and love me for who I am. But apparently the money and superficial things are what matter to you. You're greedy. If …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:56 PM
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I know that subreddit and it's disgusting. Chris Watts somehow has fans and people who hate shannan and think it was her fault. I think the most are men but what saddens me is that some of them are also women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:51 PM
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The comments are awful but I'm glad that the reasonable comments were upvoted and the sociopathic scrotes supporting the dude got downvoted. It doesn't mean much, just that the majority doesn't think like those scrotes. Also I always shudder with these men who will kill their ex. They say the most dangerous time in a woman's life is when they finally get the courage to leave their abuser. It's scary and tragic because they should leave these men and it's progressively dangerous if they stay with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:48 PM
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Even an autistic man understands what many apparently neurotypical men won't. I've had men up in arms just because I didn't want to go to their homes on the first dates, or didn't want to tell him exactly where I live or work or let them drive me to my home. I live in one of the safest countries in the world and so when I wasted time explaining some of my boundaries (I know, never waste time arguing with scrotes) they'd say that "oh but that doesn't happen here" or that I was watching too many f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:02 PM
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You should've written that you tried to CoMmUNiCaTe and are on cOUplES tHeRApY now trying to make the relationship work. Then you'd have been upvoted x 1000 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:39 PM
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Yes. Also this idea that men should be able to participate in conversations about dating from women comes from the idea that women want to please men to get them into relationships and therefor that women need the imput of men to know what men like. This is also where male relationship gurus that target women enter and act as if they're authorities because they're men and know what men want. Most of us know what most men want and what makes them "tick". I believe that some conversations with men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:32 PM
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How is it "snooping" worst than this man lying about his age? Why is she feeling bad about the snooping?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 09:57 PM
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I also have awful fine motor skills and need my boyfriend to help me with some tasks. I once was in a sewing course and I needed lots of help from the teacher with the sewing machine. And even simple things like hand sewing something or putting the damn line in the needle took me longer than the others. I don't know if this is something that I'm just bad at or is it because I never had lots of practice or incentive as a child to do stuff that uses fine motor skills. But I'd love to be able to se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:33 PM
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Great advice! I had no idea that there were apps to detect camera and infra red method.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 11:29 AM
8

I haven't watched anything SATS after the first movie. How did she lose Big?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 10:44 AM
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The more and more it's obvious that there's absolutely no advantage for women (and big risks) in sending nudes. I don't care if it's a new relationship or a 2 decades long marriage. There's never any reason to send nudes. And we also need to be aware of being filmed or taken pictures of without our knowledge. Absolutely terrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 10:40 AM
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He also wants to leave quickly if he sees he won't get sex out of the date. Also walking dates alow for the suggesting of going to his apartment and have a drink if he makes it so they go near his house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:51 PM
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And the being confined to a table excuse. Why are they so terrified of sitting on a restaurant with a woman? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:49 PM
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The excuses scrotes give for walk dates lmao Low risk only if it's for him. For women it's too much of a risk to go on a walk with scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:47 PM
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Exactly. Even if it was a scam he still had sex with her while she was drunk and he still didn't use protection. We women suffer the consequences of sex, even when it's not with our consent so it's perfectly fine that men suffer the consequences of their actions too. I genuinely hope it's a scam because that'd mean the girl is not pregnant from her r*pist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:41 PM
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If the age of consent was 10 year old men would go for 11 year gold anyways and would justify it with "aGe oF cOnSenT". They don't care as long as they can get their penis wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:37 PM
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They don't care. It's the same as rappers and deadbeats who keep having children with several women, have to pay child support to several women and still won't use protection and keep on having more and more children. Muh penis is always above any hint of common sense and logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:34 PM
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Even single pick mes can be dangerous as their need to get a man is above the friendship. But yes regardless we should just keep HV people around us and avoid pick mes at all cost. I think it's ok to try and help a pick me friend to see the wrong in her ways and be there for her when her pickeism is still on a non damaging state and if they show to genuinely be your friend but if they don't want to listen or if her pickeism goes up and up then it's time to let that pick me go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:22 PM
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Not long ago I read an horrific news of a woman who offered her 12 year old daughter to be rped by her boyfriend. Pick mes if manipulated by ZVM, predators and rpists will even sacrifice their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:18 PM
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Or when you're in a relationship and they ask you constantly when will you have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:24 PM
8

Ugly men or non attractive men in general are usually resentful that they don't get many women or suffered rejections in the past and they'll take that anger and resentment on women. If the woman is attractive and out of their league they'll be even worse because they'll see you as the girls who rejected him or never gave him a chance and take it on you as a projection revenge. Also their ego loves the idea of cheating on a beautiful woman because it makes them feel like they're very desirable a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:10 PM
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Sex is just work according to scrotes and liberal feminists right? Then when on unemployment men have to take works as male prostitutes or they'll lose unemployment like it happens when people refuse several work opportunities. And since men constitute the majority of clients then they'll have to serve other men sexuality even if they're straight because that's just a job like any other where it doesn't matter how the sex worker feels about the whole ordeal or the customer as long as they perfor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 02:55 PM
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This. Also most women on porn have a short shelf life. You either can't handle the abuse or you simply don't make enough money. And when these woman want to leave porn it's very difficult to get jobs in other areas. It's a lose lose situation for women. Even those who supposedly make lots of money (due to their big fanbase/social media following) are short lived. Unless they invest their money wisely and save, they're in for a harsh reality when their sexual marketability declines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 02:08 PM
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Yes and probably also trying to convince women that you can make lots of easy money through it. Some women will read and feel attracted by the idea of making 1K in a day just by selling pics of their nipples to scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:40 AM
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Yeah that part seems fake to me. Yes you can make money by selling pics to desperate scrotes but 1K in a day if you're not already IG famous or with a following of some sort from before? I don't think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:39 AM
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Can I get it too please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:53 AM
23

I'm getting more and more enraged with the audacity of the scrote the more I read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:29 PM
3

Have them try be the recipient of anal sex if it's not painful then and if it's so pleasurable. Actually with their prostata they'd have much more sexual pleasure through anal than us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:13 PM
10

Some men derive pleasure in breaking up boundaries. You say you don't want anal and these porn sick men will be with you for years trying to coerce you and manipulate you into doing anal. It's even better for them if you didn't want at first because they love wearing down your boundaries and feel a self confidence rush when they manage to break down a boundary. Even Johns do this with prostitutes and brag about it on forums. He also maybe even expects her to now pursue him and give in to try to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:10 PM
4

She dodged a porn sick bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:02 PM
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Same here. And swore up and down there was no other woman in the picture to be in a full on committed relationship with these women a few days after. 🤡🤡🤡 Not with me but I've also seen men breaking up as soon as their ex or friend of many years they've been orbiting around gets single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:53 PM
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I've never seen a man initiating a break up without having someone he's interested on (even if not already cheating) or without having the expectation of at least getting sex and hook ups as soon as he's single. And when it doesn't work out or they don't get as many options as they thought they would, they'll contact the ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:36 PM
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No sis! Relationship goals? It has to be trolling lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:33 PM
32

No sir, I don't have to compete for anything. You still have to compete to be chosen by us and you still have to come and do the work to please us. But don't worry because we don't want you either so don't even bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:30 PM
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I've been seeing a shift in the popular relationship and the A*TA sub. I've been seeing upvoted advice telling women to leave scrotes and less cOmMunIcATe when a few years ago the subs would be full of men and pick me advice telling them to stay and solve things with talking, couples therapy and effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:57 PM
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We need to keep vetting 24/7 even if we've been married for 20 years. He has to actively show with actions and words he loves us through the whole duration of the relationship. And sudden changes of patterns of behavior and interest are red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:53 PM
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Was it first date? Please don't do first dates at their homes. Even after the first dates proceed with caution. Also don't meet at places that more convenient for men than for you. You shouldn't be going through the hassle of long public transport or driving travels just to meet a man. It should be on him to either arrange to meet you in a closer location to you or take care of your transportation. Having you travel so long to his place is extremely convenient and low effort for him which might …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:45 AM
13

Men will be complaining about child support when if not made to pay child support (which many women won't even demand of them) they can just run away consequence free and never have to deal with the children they helped make. Then they'll also throw mantamtrums when we decide to be selective and only have children after marriage with with a man with good economiza assets and HV character. But when we're single mothers we're also told we should've chosen better. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:26 PM
4

BD= baby daddy? Just the term makes me want to puke. Same with baby momma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:24 PM
25

This. I struggle with depression and other issues that make it hard for me to keep up with chores and other things when I'm going through it but at least I don't use it as an excuse and will still force myself to do those things because I have to. I'm tired of seeing mental health weaponized and used as excuse to hurt, use or manipulate others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:04 AM
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He will work and even get therapy and meds to improve his performance at work because not doing so has consequences. He won't get his money and co worker approval if he treats work like he treats his wife. At home he doesn't care because he thought he had his wife secure and trapped with the children. He thought she wouldn't go anywhere so he purposely made her do all the labor at home. Men do what's convenient for them and what will give them the least of negative consequences. But he miscalcul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:41 AM
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He's a huge scrote but she's supplying him with validation and attention by crying about what he did online in this manner. She should've blocked and deleted him on her way home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:14 AM
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Even if you accept to have have sex with a man out of your own will you can take away the consent at any time or you can not consent to certain acts. But unfortunately men don't understand this. Men even think that just because you consented to something 20 years ago, it means you must consent to that thing now with them. It's horrific how they see us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:20 AM
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I'm always baffled by how BDSM and sub/dom relationships have all the characteristics of abusive relationships and domestic violence but just because involves sex and male sexual pleasure and coersion disguised as consent suddenly it's not DV of abusive and you'll be called prude and kink shaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:03 PM
69

Psychopath eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:57 PM
31

She needs FDS desperately! This is a full on abusive relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:57 PM
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This is so disturbing!!! Who are they?? I feel a very bad vibe from this pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:03 PM
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But when women spend years with scrotes that pretend not to know what a clitoris is then suddenly they need to "cOmmuNiCaTE" and give the guy more chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:38 PM
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I didn't have this happening to me with proposing but many years ago I dated an abusive LVM that every time I broke things off he suddenly had these major romantic plans he was going to pull through and had to cancel because I broke up 🤡 I also feel this is a shut up ring to hover over her head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:36 PM
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He might even propose to shut her up but keep staling the wedding date. I know a couple that has been engaged for over 4 years. She wears the engagement ring and doesn't know when they'll marry/ there are no concrete plans 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:32 PM
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I've read some study on FDS that said that after 3 years of relationship the chances of being proposed/getting married decrease drastically. Can't find it now but I remember it being posted here several times. If he hasn't done it yet nor will do it soon then she better either accept she's his forever girlfriend or ditch him and find someone who will want to marry her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:30 PM
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Ask them if they're ok with their mothers, sisters and wives doing it since it's such easy and profitable work. Nothing wrong with sEx WoRk right? Fun and empowering according to them 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 08:29 PM
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Men think it's easy because for them sex is jackhammering hard for 1 minute and orgasm, so they project this to us. Plus they're pornsick and truly believe that women love pornsick test and being objectified by scrotes online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 08:27 PM
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I think that in addition to not have the red flags he has to have several green flags. He also must be interested in you and showing you. A man can actually be HV in general but if he's not into you he's not HV to YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:58 AM
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I have no idea what the goal here is but the pics look creepy and disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:26 PM
8

I've had an ex doing this to me many years ago. Go figure he was just covering his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:09 PM
69

This is horrifying! When are we going to admit loud and clear that the biggest perpetrators of violence and murder against women are men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:20 AM
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If you mention that some women did not consent and were abused and r*ped on camera they'll tell you you're overreacting and mention the famous pornstars that got lots of money and say they love every minute of it on interviews and how you only cherry pick the worst case scenarios. I've heard this from several men. The mental gymnastics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:34 PM
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I don't know this subreddit but seems like a feminist sub infiltrated by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:29 PM
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50/50 is only good to pay bills, not to divide assets 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:24 AM
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Not only that when you work in a job you clock in and clock out and that's it. Sure some jobs are very demanding and you take work home but in most instances you're not working 24 hours. Being a full time mom and homemaker is a 24/7 job and you don't get to take hollydays from it or just look for another job if you're not happy in it. You get absolutely no money or credit for it and are dependent on the generosity of your husband and wish such long gap in your work story and that companies don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:14 AM
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The amount of LVM JLo has been associated with, she needs a FDS intervention ASAP. It proves that you can be beautiful, rich and famous and if you're a pick me and can't vet men properly you're also going to be subjected to LV scrotes. And even if these LVM are rich and successful in Hollywood, they're still LVM/NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:43 AM
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This. Which is why I don't take anything they write personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:17 PM
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I'd be telling him to pass me the divorce papers then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:30 AM
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This. There's been a trendy movement against porn (he even says there's Tik tok videos about it) but it's always from the perspective of the damage it does to men's physical and mental health. It's never about what the woman in the industry goes through or how vile the sex industry is overall (I don't know if they know this or not). Men will only listen when they feel that affects them. So if telling them they'll get erectile disfunction is what takes for the porn industry to lose viewers then i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:26 AM
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Such a sweet young man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:15 AM
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This. If he has a absolutely no idea he could buy something generic as you said or buy an experience like a massage or romantic get away or if he's that useless simply ask or offer a gift card with a nice written card so she can choose what she wants. If he wanted he would. He just doesn't care nor wants to be bothered. And he's comfortable at it because 2 years in of no gifts she hasn't dumped him yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:11 AM
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Curious to know if the redditors came to his defense, minimized her feelings and called her shallow or came up with the usual "CoMmUnIcATE, men are not mind readers!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:07 AM
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Get ready to see her be canceled soon... The porn loby is prevalent in all institutions and branches out to the entertainment industry too. If she keeps calling out porn and influencing other young girls to avoid it the porn moguls will pull some strings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:03 AM
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I have a co worker that I considered a good friend. I noticed that he slacked a lot at work to prioritize his side hustles and that I'd end up working more. I considered him a good friend and not just a co worker During a whole year I was nice about this and took the work load (some pick me residuals that stay present in my work life) because I knew he needed the extra money and I thought he didn't notice that I was working more or didn't mean to make me have more work load. To my shock on a con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:59 PM
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It's easy to have male acquaintances or male friends that you only see in group settings and I have quite a few that I appreciate but if there's lots of one on one time and constant communication sooner or later they'll make sexual innuendos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:53 PM
3

These same men defending rpe as biologically useful and ingrained will throw a mantrum if a woman speaks about male violence and rpe without disclaiming several times "not all men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:36 PM
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I can see being a SAHM if you're married and wish so and have enough savings and "f*ck you money" to take the risk and be able to leave the husband if needed plus a good plan B. But doing it for a boyfriend and in these terms? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 11:43 PM
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He can also along the line use this to guilt tripping her if he cheats physically with a woman. "you weren't giving me sex so I had to fulfill my needs". And since he's porn sick he might even suggest porn fantasies to do in bed like threesomes or polly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:09 PM
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This. If he had just stopped and calm her down that's fine but saying he can simply watch porn is outright disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:07 PM
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Yes. I'm tired that the focus is on the victim (usually the woman) and not on the disgusting Johns, pimps and similar. If a man sees nothing wrong with the idea of men paying (sometimes not even paying) women for sexual services then I doubt he's that HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:38 AM
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I'm going to start asking every scrote that defends prostitution and porn as work like any other if that's so if it's ok then to support their mothers, daughters, wives and sisters if they decide to pursue a career in prostitution and porn. I'll also begin asking them that since when you're unemployed you have to accept jobs or you lose unemployment if they get unemployed that they have to accept a job as prostitute for other males. What you don't like the idea, Kyle? Well deal with it, being pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:32 AM
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This! And if she suddenly got money and success he'd throw a mantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:45 PM
34

Why isn't he visiting her instead? Anyways NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 09:22 PM
39

He gives me Brian Laundry vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:39 AM
38

Even if the woman was just a sister or a friend why is the man posting pictures with a woman on his tinder? Did the woman consent to be on display on his tinder profile. Same with men that post pics with children either theirs or others. Just no for the sake of the children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:38 AM
29

They're not even trying to hide it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:37 AM
134

"cuddling partner" 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:05 PM
153

Even at dinner dates men will find a way to avoid paying for the dinner. During covid you had to order and pay with your mobile telephone. Plenty of men used this to order just for them and pay just for them and then act clueless. I heard countless of stories of men doing this and even heard a man saying that this order method was great so everyone would just pay for what they eat and not a cent more. There is also the famous "I forgot my wallet" or "I have to go to the toilet" when the check is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:30 PM
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For me I also experienced the opposite: coming a few minutes before, ordering and paying for them and me coming on time to them already with their drinks or foods to avoid paying for me when I order 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:25 PM
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Agree. Plus men value the way their male peers view them. Some men will be bystanders to violence and questionable acts against women or even other men perceived as weaker and worthless by them just not to lose their social status among the male perpetrators they want to please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:23 PM
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I have no idea what are the traps but there was a time I lurked PUA red pill type of forums many years ago and men were always worried with 2 things: being seen as a desperate simp by the woman and therefor advised to neg her and falling in the dreaded friend zone and therefore advised to always keep the conversation sexual. There was also another trap they kept talking about which was that in their minds women will shit test the PUA and so the PUA needs to find technics to pass or deflect the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:40 AM
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Also they're porn fried. They see women as prey and that you need to find the right formula to get sex out of them. They don't act like this with their peers because they see other men as humans. But they don't see women as humans with complexity, interests and wants. In porn the men gets porn sex just from existing but these men haven't realized that in real life women aren't going to give them sex just for existing and saying a few riddles taught by red pill PUA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:36 AM
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In some hypergamy circles and sugar baby circles women are advised to "freestyle" aka going alone to bars and places where they know rich men usually attend looking good. But this is not the every day reality. No women would go dressed like this alone to a bar and talk to creepy incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:28 AM
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I used to lurk on a forum for many years ago and men would go on these rants about what women wanted: "women want alpha males, women like men who mistreat them, you have to neg her. You have to escalate and descalate. Ignore her and pretend you're interested in her ugly friend, her ego won't stand and she'll be chasing you! No you can't take her to nice dates and offer gifs or she'll think you're a simp and will cheat on you with Chads that treat her like crap! ". Like who the hell told them thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:21 AM
29

Has he even got authorization to use this woman's photo for his pick up BS? I've seen these pick up IG posts several times, it's just cringe. Edit: hadn't seen page 2. Wtf weird pick up is that and what traps is he talking about?? I'd be creeped out and run if a stranger approached me to just say such non sense things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:14 AM
33

They can't even wait to get home? Wtf. How not to be scared of men who can't control their impulses for even a few hours??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:29 PM
6

I thought the vikings had raped lots of women in the places they took over. But yes there's a lot that could be done in today's society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:27 PM
3

WTf this this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:25 PM
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I hate the "I was going to" the manipulative scrotes like to pull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:44 PM
62

I had no idea who he was and he's disgusting no doubt about it and I fear for his daughters. However I'm also baffled that only now his friend and other people close to him are revealing that he confessed to abuse minors. Why did none of this people do something or thought about protecting the victims when they got to know he was a pedo??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:32 PM
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I'll take a look at more of her videos. Another channel that talks about prostituition and the whole "sex is work" non sense is Elly Arrow. Her channel is very informative and she provides receipts to all her claims and arguments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:22 PM
20

This. The dissonance and contradiction is just too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:19 PM
232

This is exactly the issue. If you approach a man he'll almost every time will have sex with you or have situationships or a relationship for his convenience if he's not interested. We've seen time and time again that men will have sex, relationships, even married and have children with women they hate and despise just because it benefits them or they're waiting for something better to come up. Most women who is approached by a man that she's not interested with will either straight out reject wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:02 PM
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I was on those MSN chat rooms too and around 13 or 14 I had 30 or 40 year old men wanting to sext and exchange nudes. Some of these men also wanted to send me porn. Totally disgusting and scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 11:20 AM
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I don't have children yet and I feel very worried about this. I want to control my children's access to the internet and shield them from porn and social media the most I can but I know that once they are at school there's not much we can do. They'll get access to these things anyways through friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 11:16 AM
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I think there's no fast set rules. If you don't want to marry and don't see advantage in that then that's perfectly valid. I think FDS views on marriage are more to avoid situations where the woman WANTS to marriage but the man is LVM and is stringing her along as a forever girlfriend. It is also because marriage to a HVM is usually beneficial. If he's a HVM and if marrying is of advantage to both then I see no issue in marrying. It takes luck and careful long term veting to find a HVM and have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:23 PM
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Men will scream "gold digger" at every chance they can but that's just projection because some of the biggest "gold diggers" I've met were men. And if it wasn't gold digging it was sex digging, emotional labor digging or something else digging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:46 AM
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Some men aren't even providing/willing to provide on top of all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:25 PM
15

Dustin Hoffman is also accused on misconduct against women? And uses that interview as an evidence of not doing so? It's almost news if a hollywood actor is NOT abusing or harrassing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:00 PM
41

Where I live many men in their 40s, 50s and 60s that end up single through divorce or no one putting up with them will go look for wives in third world countries. They get them to the country. These women are often younger than them and expected to take care of them, eventually have children with them and do all the child caring and house chores for these men. These women rarely get to learn the language properly and therefor don't get the chance of networking and integrating society or get good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:55 PM
4

What's rug rats?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:52 AM
20

Is the daddy something sexual? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:52 AM
4

Why does she even want to marry a porn addict scrote who hates her and doesn't even make an effort to hide his contempt for her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:56 PM
36

I'd have either frozen or ran away too and call help. I couldn't fight men with guns wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:56 AM
6

Not only that but she's child trapped by this man. Probably in a dire economical situation to dump him. She's tried and considered everything except for leaving him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:38 AM
4

Are they married? She needs to dump this asshole immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:17 AM
13

It's always the Office.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:23 PM
35

This. I'd say mirror the other person but a bit less than what they gave you and always within your budget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:13 PM
31

Or the good ol "wife material" if you can cook and clean lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:08 PM
42

On my OLD days 90% of the men mentioned they liked cooking or were foodies in their profiles lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:08 PM
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I can't cook that well and never liked cooking but never put on my boyfriends or other people the obligation to cook for me nor made a big deal out of it. Also with YouTube nowadays there's no excuse to not being able to cook something. It's my go to when I want to take cakes or other food for my co-workers or when I want to cook dinner for guests. I'll only do simple things but I'll do it and won't be ranting about how inept I am. My boyfriend is an amazing cook and I've learnt a lot from him. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:05 PM
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Men who understood that many women won't fall for first date sex and want to pretend they're good guys usually follow this script: - 3 dates where they act normal and thoughtful - go for sex on the third date expecting the woman to trust them after the earlier dates When I was doing OLD I had so many guys inviting me to their home on the 3rd date almost everyone of them. They'd preface it with a "why don't we have dinner at my place?" or some other BS. Most of them would get Pikachu surprise fac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:52 AM
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Wasn't he dating Megan Fox and is a major scrote too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:22 AM
26

I had never thought about the sexual abuse haze they inflict on each other and the blackmail aspect of it. It's scary just thinking about what these frat men will do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:19 AM
19

This is one of the reasons why even on my pick me days I avoided men in law enforcement like the plague. I always imagined that if I wanted to break up with them they could make my life hell. Or if they wanted to hurt me they're colleagues would protect him. I know some high rank military men that seem alright but most low rank military men I've met up close were scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:17 AM
36

Men will treat their girlfriends or dates like crap and not spend a dime on them and then do everything to please their bros, paying them rounds of drinks and dinners, lending them money and even abusing other women in front of them to please them. It's almost as if they're actually in love with other men and hate women. Go date your bros and leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:12 AM
23

Where I live men are generally polite and calm when they're sober but when they drink and are together in group of men they become aggressive and animalistic yes. I always hated going out with girlfriends and being scared of these men throwing things to the ground, bumping into people, fighting other men and not leaving us alone if they noticed us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:09 AM
11

Hahaha I really thought it was him 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:52 AM
2

It looks like Seth Rogen unless I'm seeing things 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:38 AM
58

Try to date up or at least men of the same wealth and status as you. Though if your boyfriend had 2 ivy leagues I'd suppose he's rich too but you never know. Had he talked about engagement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:01 AM
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These men aren't even physically attractive. Do they really think women, even pick mes will find these profiles attractive?? Also the last one sitting with Seth Rogan who always act as a worthless ugly scrote that gets to be together with a beautiful supermodelelesque woman on romantic comedies lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:53 PM
8

I had an acquaintance that would either go to women's houses on the first date or they'd come to his place. Constantly and they only met online. I was baffled with how these women who barely knew him would take this risk. Sometimes they'd have just been talking for a couple days on tinder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:48 PM
13

Even if the other person is a woman I don't send nudes to anyone and recommend everyone not to send. I wouldn't trust actual women with nudes either. Why is anyone wanting to see me naked on camera? If it's a partner they can see it in person, if we're not dating or I haven't even met them yet instant block and delete. Even if they don't use it for revenge porn or blackmail, phones can be hacked and you never know what the people that repair phones will do with the pictures they find. An unneces…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:46 PM
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This. Even if the person isn't LV phones can be hacked or fall into the wrong hands. It's a tremendous risk to send nudes and no one in a relationship or not should be asking for nudes. Instant block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:41 PM
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Yes why does a partner need photos of our naked body if they can see it in person? And even if they don't use it as revenge porn and don't send it to other people, someone can always hack their phones or if the phone has a problem the person they send it to repair can download the photos and spread them. Or even a friend or family member that needs to use their phone might come across it. It's such a risk even if the other person isn't LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:38 PM
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Never send risqué or nudes to anyone, even if it were actually a woman. Too much risk for so small reward. If someone wants to see your body then they need to see it in person only after being veted properly in the course of the relationship of course. This applies to both m/w and w/w. I'm so sorry you went through this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:35 PM
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Omg. Was this also when he said that the only reason he didn't take his own life was not to make his mom sad? I think he also said he was bipolar and struggled a lot with mental health. I have no idea why and how he's dating hot Hollywood woman instead of focusing on therapy and his mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:24 PM
85

Probably repeated the pattern with Ariana Grande. I always thought that the engagement with just a month of dating was pure love bombing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:22 PM
70

Wait what? I knew he dumped his ex for Ariana Grande but didnt know he was abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:08 PM
63

Who is the one on the left? And why do they follow each other's trend? At least Kourtney is free from Scrote Dissick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:07 PM
133

This. Men with their "Madonna Whore" complex say they want a woman with high libido but when they get one they lose value for them, they don't respect it and use it as an excuse to perform degrading porn sex. Or they'll delegate her to situationship while they look for a "wife material" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:06 PM
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If you're making me do all the chores and child caring after a long day at work and you're not even trying to make me orgasm when we have sex or assume that porn jackhammering is what gets me off then of course I'll get tired and dry like the Sahara.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:04 PM
198

Men hate and joke about the cat lady because she's single and happy and they can't stand this happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:01 PM
19

That is one of the hardest pills to swallow for me: men will be in decade relationships or marriages with women they don't even like... In some cases even hate. When I realized this for real, my mind was blown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:55 PM
20

I went on dates with scrotes before who would say they're not good at planning or that they're more the expontaneous type 🤡🤡🤡 No dude you're just lazy, low effort with too much time on your hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:52 PM
52

Yes. And he didn't behave like a married man. I watched his videos for years and had no idea he was married. Some OG fans knew he was married I think from past posts but he never mentioned being married in years so no one knew. It would be for his benefit to play the part of the happily married relationship guru but he probably had some sort of sex and cheating addiction so preferred to play the single hunk part. His wife is extremely religious and thinks divorce is a sin and he uses this for hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:46 PM
10

I'm not good at this either. My boyfriend has been amazing to me so I want to give him something nice for Christmas. I think that there's no rules, you just shouldn't go over the top with the present. It always depends on how long you've been together and if he's shown he's also thoughtful with gifts to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:38 PM
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I'm ashamed I used to like some of his advice. He has children yes. Many fans noticed that he had all his videos in his car and never at home and noted a baby chair in the back of the car. People found weird because almost none of his fans knew he was married, only recently did he reveal he was married. Then he pretended to be single to have sex with some of his followers. He even had an apartment to cheat. He had lots of pics of him shirtless and acting like a bachelor so these followers that h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:33 PM
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I thought he had been canceled long ago lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:28 PM
33

And men smell insecurity from afar. They'll use it for their benefit. That's the reason why men stay in relationships or marriages with women they don't even life for years and years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:49 PM
45

I think that in some aspect those men hate themselves. They see themselves as trash (even if on a subconscious level) and so they don't understand why you're treating them like kings. They resent that because they're unable to provide and be on their "masculine". You spoiling them so much reminds them of the failure they know they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:47 PM
32

This. It's ok to give gifts to your boyfriend or husband on special occasions and within reasonable limits but if one is spoiling their men rest assured they won't retribute and will even resent her because men don't respect doormats. They use the doormat services of course, but they don't love and respect doormats. Next thing she knows he's with another woman spoiling that other woman and using the gifts she gave him to impress that other woman he truly wants. And then she wonders why if she ga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:43 PM
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Probably. I also believe this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:59 AM
1

What is NPR?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:34 AM
15

There are lots of men (specially boomers but not only those) that brag about never having taken days of or hollydays in several years. They can't even be present when their children ar born or special family events because all they do is work. There is also now this entrepeneur culture in which men work 24/7 on start ups and have these productive rituals they see online of working 12h a day and working out. Why would we want to date these men if on top of never being available we still have to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:30 AM
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This. And then these men will want 50/50 on the expenses because "you woman work now so you can pay bills too" and we'll work just as much or more than them, come home to do all the chores and still be expected to perform sexually and have energy for it and look good. And then they post on "dead bedrooms" subreddit and don't understand why their wife is not giving porn star performances every night for their lazy limp dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:21 AM
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When I was a pick me teenager I was dating a man in his twenties (I know, age gap) and he'd spend days without texting or not having time to see me and his excuse was work. He'd visit me sometimes and we'd just be sitting on his car (🤡🤡🤡) and then he'd leave 30 mins later. No one is 24/7 at work with no time for a simple text or to set up a proper date one a week. And if they indeed are then they have no business dating as dating takes time investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:17 AM
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Same here. I've been in two HV relationships, my current one (so far, still vetting of course) and another one years ago. These men always got time for me and to take me on dates even if they had lots of work or had some days they had to work late at the office. It's about the priorities of a man. I've felt more neglected by men who barely had a job or part time job than these men with demanding careers that still put me high on their priorities and took the time to make me happy. If he's so tir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:14 AM
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Not wanting to speculate on anyone sexuality but I always believed these were PR relationships where they act as his beards and in return get more fame as models. Still feeling sorry for these girls for having to put up with this old non commital Hollywood scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:36 PM
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CoMmUnICaTe "They just don't know what ladies want"... They know sis, they just don't care and know they can get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:28 AM
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Same. I used to think on off relationships were romantic and it meant that the man couldn't get over the woman despite having dated several other women in between 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:18 PM
53

I will never understand men's fetichishes and kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:15 PM
25

I'm scared of googling this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:14 PM
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I almost felt the need of giving her a standing ovation! It's very inspiring to see women getting out of abusive marriages and thriving plus getting strong and self confident! I'm glad she pushed through and fought for her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:19 PM
98

This. If they're not LV then why are they mad that LV are being called out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:16 PM
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Yes all these dragging articles bring more women to us. Several of the users here came here from media articles defaming FDS or popular scrote subreddit to see what the fuss was all about and ended up agreeing with FDS and staying. We should thank these articles for the publicity lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:12 PM
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Men are socialized to only be in relationships that benefit them socially, sexually, financially, or emotionally (or a combination of these). Men are supported by other men on this. And they'll do these things with no empathy or consideration for wasting women's time and mental health. Yet when we also want to have standards and not be in struggle love relationships that don't benefit us, nor our wombs or offspring we might have, suddenly they lose their mind. Even king of reddit manosphere Jord…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:02 PM
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The person who wrote the article is mad and misinterpreted a lot as usual lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:52 PM
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He still wants to live together to avoid paying child support and to still have the bangmaid, house made and paying 50/50 "sister" while he's still looking to secure the next victim. Men always pull this stuff when they've trapped a woman with children. He'll probably want her to move out when he needs to play the good guy single divorced dad if he invites a woman in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:15 PM
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I think it's a dominance over women kink and not specifically related to the method of dominance. Golden shower on someone is degrading so of course they love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:08 PM
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He ain't even bothered he's married and how his wife might feel. He's just worried his free emotional labor therapist with a vagina is leaving their job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:06 PM
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All of this and also most men will put less effort in courting and dating you if they've known you for years because they think they can just skip the basic courtship steps on you since you've been going out as friends, maybe have been to each others' homes as friends and all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:00 PM
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I think surprises are fine if you're already in a relationship but I hate the "surprise date" on the first dates because it's usually a cover up for lack of planning and low effort. My boyfriend surprised me with a dinner at an extremely luxury high end restaurant with an amazing view at sunset that he had to make reservation months prior and make sure we got to see the sunset there at the right table, pay a reservation depositum and held quiet about it for all that time but informed me before h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:52 PM
2

I understand. He should've showed at least concern in how you'd get there. Ask if you have a way of getting there or if you need him to pick you up or get you a uber. I noticed that men who we've known for years put even less effort in courting and plan nice dates because they think that you knowing them for years eliminates the need to court and impress you. Totally wrong, a man still has to come with their best efforts and court and date properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:43 PM
3

I think a beach picnic can be beautiful and romantic but don't think it's a good first date. Also I think the beach picnic is only a good date if it's well planned: he chose a nice and guarded place on the beach with a nice view, checked the weather report for that day and has a backup plan in case things go wrong with weather and wind, brought good food and drink (cooked by him or bought at a good takeaway restaurant), a nice towel and pillows and maybe some blankets in case you get cold, if yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:39 PM
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The "surprise date" is usually a cover up for not having planned the date in advance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:33 PM
2

This! There's a lot to unpack here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:31 PM
4

I think it depends. If you don't want to come with him in the car it's OK but a man should always show concern in how you're going to the date and back home and not make it too far away or hard or inconvenient for you to get there and come back. If it's a far away place he's proposing and you don't want to be dependent on him to come back then he should offer to pay for a uber or taxi to make it easier for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:31 PM
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I actually would avoid both for doing that. A woman is not my friend if she belitles my self improvement efforts. To succeed it's important to surround ourselves with people that support our goals and have empathy for us. Sure some family members, friends or co-workers can be impossible to fully avoid but at least we should keep some distance from such men or women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:59 AM
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This also applies to men getting mad at female comedians for making comedy that is relatable to women and that women find funny. I remember the outrage in the manosphere for Whitney Cummings making comedy about avoiding to pay at dates or that other comedian I can't remember the name now making comedy about being scammed by a scrote. Like why are you crying on a YouTube video about a woman making comedy other women can relate and think it's funny? Go watch your male comedians that make depreciat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:46 AM
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Yes. They want you to look like out of the saloon and Instagram filter influencer everyday from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to bed. Men are even enough delusional to think the Kardashian makeup look (with the bronze natural looking makeup) is natural low maintenance no makeup and will get shocked when they realize it's makeup and filters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:14 AM
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When I was a pick me I used to have "savior complex" on men as a form of getting validation from men. I'd do so much emotional labor for broken men and always got nothing in return or only got to see their worst side (because they confided in me and didn't care to put their best foot forward with me due to me assuming the therapist role) while their bros or other women got to see a redacted, fun carefree version of them. I'd pride myself for listening to these men talking about their problems an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:07 AM
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This. Something that boggles my mind is that men think that it's a right to have a mate when in fact it's normal in nature for several males never getting a mate and not dying for it. Having sex is not a basic need. People can live without it and without a relationship and still have fulfilling lives. Many women live without sex or relationships (most of them by choice) and have amazing lives. Sure it's sad if one craves for romantic company but it's delusional to be low value and demand romanti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:58 AM
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This and also for men who didn't have success with women in their youth to have hope, grind to make money and then achieve the ultimate incel delusion "when I'm 40/50 and well established, tones 20 year old beautiful models will want me and chase me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:49 AM
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This. They want to peg you down a notch and "humble" you so that you display pick me behavior and try to please them. They know beautiful women have more options and can quickly get another men plus these men are insecure so they amp up the negging to make the woman feel insecure and not aware that she has options. Plus most men are envious of women having options and of women being able to have standards and still have options. They want the same for them but unfortunately for them women are ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:46 AM
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He probably haven't changed. Social media only shows a curated version of a person. And luckily he's not your problem anymore. Awful men won't come on social media looking miserable out of breakup to show that karma works. They'll keep going with another victim and act like they're the happiest ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:24 AM
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And sprinkle a little "Madonna Whore" complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:16 AM
112

Most men simply won't work on themselves nor rely on their "bros" to help them. They feel entitled to women's free emotional labor and put the responsibility of being better men on women. They can't take responsibility themselves. They're lazy, hypocritical and entitled. This goes in line with men who blame a breakup from decades ago for being shitty men or men who emotional blackmail when you leave them "I was now turning my life around, I had just begun my sobriety and now you're breaking up w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:14 AM
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Yes. I've seen cases where couple's therapy for violent or general abusive men kept the victim even more trapped. Maybe in rare cases the therapist will find a way of talking to her alone and advise her to leave and help her finding a shelter or other resources but in most cases the victim is trapped in therapy with an abusive man that is learning new ways of manipulating in therapy and that will use the fact that they're attending couples therapy as an excuse to abuse even more because "they're…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:08 AM
30

She should be getting paid money for her maid services or better yet leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:03 AM
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Yes it looks like she wants to gain cool girl points from the boys and that they take her under their wing but men like this never respect pick mes and makes no sense trying to please such awful men. She should move out to a place where she doesn't have to be a maid of start charging money for her maid services.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:02 AM
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Omg that's awful! I admit that when my depression sets in it's very difficult to do house chores but I never let people come into my house without it being clean and tidy and was always careful with cleaning and everything when living with others. There was also a period I was living alone in a rented house and was going through an awful depression period and hired a cleaning service to help. If you can't do it yourself at least pay a cleaning service. It's unthinkable to expose others to filth …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:57 AM
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What is she gaining out of this? Why??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:51 AM
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Men always look like fantastic guys to their friends or women they're not dating with. Men can fake being this empathetic people for years to their closest friends and then manipulating them into seeing the women they've hurt as the villain or the "crazy ex". I'm sorry you had to go through this awful ordeal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:37 PM
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Same here. I had a scrote almost r*ping me, me ending up blocking and deleting him and him crying to a mutual friend that he didnt understand why I blocked him abruptly when he treated me so well. Wtf is wrong with these men? No paragraphs will make them gain empathy and good character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:35 PM
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Also never send paragraphs to scrotes, just block and delete with no explanation. They won't read and they won't care. If being known as a scrote affects their reputation in their circle they might reply to the paragraphs to placate and calm you down but believe me men don't care about paragraphs expressing how hurt and angry you are. Been there done that and took the t shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:11 PM
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This. One of my best friends is married to a man she met on tinder. They've been together for several years. This was one of the reasons that I kept using tinder when I was a pick me because I thought of her example. The truth is that cases like that are 1 in a million and most men use tinder for casual sex even if they disguise it as "let's see what happens" because they know that if they say directly that is just sex that most women won't do it as most women are in dating apps to find relation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:38 AM
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This. I know a few east Asian and south Asian women and they tell me they go through lots of sh*t and men being extremely mysoginist. I think it's an issue that occurs every where.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:34 AM
65

Wow this sounds so sociopathic wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:18 AM
44

Yeah this isn't even influencer aesthetic van life 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:24 AM
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She says some of her friends agree with him I think. Many pick me friends will give awful advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:18 AM
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I also always say my income pre tax so of course it would be more than what I actually take home and shows up on my pay stubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:54 AM
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One of the people who hurt me the most in the past was also someone I'd know for several years but we were dating just for a few months before he revealed to be a scrote that was also just using me. Knowing someone for years before dating them means nothing. Men can pretend to be good friends or good guys in general when they're not dating you and then become totally different people when we're in a relationship with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:49 AM
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8 months of dating is very little plus you shouldn't be willing to move in with someone that you have other issues to overlook. Apparently this issue was just the tip of a bigger iceberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:44 AM
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Not only moving together with just a boyfriend and recent one at that but also applying together for a lease or bank loans with a boyfriend is incredibly risky. Sure this could have gone wrong with an husband too but only doing these things with a husband that was throughoutly vetted during the whole relationship is safer than taking such big steps with a mere boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:43 AM
120

Yes that Sierra Burgess film was awful, I wasn't remembering the name. Sierra Burgess was an awful person for sure but it's funny how men were furious at the film and how she "won" in the end yet won't probably be outraged now that there's a film with the genders reversed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:40 PM
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It would never happen in reality and there was that Sierra Burgess film with that trope where the girl catfished the guy (awful trope too and she was awful as person too) and men were furious that the guy who was by the way the most popular hot guy in high school forgave her and ended up with her if I remember correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:38 PM
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I hated this trope already on that netflix film Sierra Burgess where it was a girl catfishing the highschool hot boy and doing all types of messed up things and being rewarded in the end, and I for sure hate it when it's the guy catfishing the girl and being rewarded in the end too. And also because I bet that this set up didn't get as much backlash as the first one I mentioned despite both being awful, because women are socialised to settle and give chances to liars they're not even attracted t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:36 PM
22

I've seen men in their 30s justifying not wanting a relationship or being cheating jerks due to a break up/heartbreak when they were in high-school. Sure men don't usually go to therapy or try to be better when they go through traumatic events but I believe that in most cases the "ex, the one who went away that they're still pinning decades after" is actually just an excuse to be a scrote and use women for sex and emotional labor and not actually that they're still traumatized by the break up. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:00 PM
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Oh I didn't even know she had dated him. Isn't he much older than her? I always had a neutral opinion of him but that was a scrote move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:56 PM
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This. He was probably afraid of the red pill/pick up artist jerk community archi enemy, the friend zone. And he probably wanted to go for sex after the date hence why turning to physical comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:17 AM
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I think that if I was alone with a man I'd be scared of doing that for safety reasons and just block and delete when far away from him in safety but I get what you mean. He's a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:12 AM
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He was probably expecting sex after the date so he started the body complimenting creep comments on the way to the car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:10 AM
31

Yes. She's pick me and LV too. She should've never gotten back with him and much less ask him to propose. They're both LV for different reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:06 AM
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This. She should go for a walk with the children while he does the cooking and hosting for the extra people to see how it feels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:44 AM
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I also spotted this. He threw at her that her family cut them off. I'd like to know why. Narcisists and abusers will do everything in their power to isolate the victim from their family and friends and her being SAHM isolates her even more and prevents her from socializing with coworkers and having people convincing her that he's an abuser that needs to be dumped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:40 AM
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This happens all the time. I've seen men paying expensive dinners and rounds of drinks to friends all the time and then complaining they can't take their girlfriends/wives somewhere nice or give gifts because they're on a budget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:35 AM
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This. He also said he wouldn't do the chores or serve the guests and that it's her responsibility. Wtf? Get up of your ass and serve them yourself you scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:33 AM
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I love the edits at the end when they probably get some comments saying they're TA and then suddenly back track and say it's not like that. Also since when does he do 50% of the child care if she's SAHW? And why doesn't he do the cooking and hosting then if he wants so much to have these guests home? And bringing up OP's family was a low blow move. And he totally meant "its my house".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:31 AM
2

Can you explain the reference? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:09 AM
12

This. I've been at parties with my boyfriend's friends and he always makes sure to introduce me to people and include me in the conversations and when he goes a bit far away to talk with friends he always asks me if that's OK and checks often how I'm doing. He knows I don't know this people well, I'm shy and I'm from a different country and language. But I've also had scrotes doing this to me and the feeling is awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:04 AM
24

This wtf. Unless she sexted the other scrote and he saw the pics on her phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:18 PM
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If he was actually turning his life around to be a better person then his path would be independent from what she does in the relationship. If he's been a scrote for 10 years, tried to be better for a while and relapsed, he wasn't actually changing. He's just putting all the responsibility on her and doing emotional blackmail and guilt tripping refusing to take responsibility for his failures. It's not her job to make him better. What she did was low value, sure but it's not her job to make him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:17 PM
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Cheating is low value (and I say this weather it's a man or woman cheating and regardless of the "motives") but he's also extremely low value and has kept the forever girlfriend shannanigan scam for all to long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:14 PM
5

I was a total pick me through my teen years and early twenties and it didn't get me nowhere. But I don't feel jaded somehow. I feel that I've learnt from my mistakes and FDS helped me a lot on my journey. I'm in a relationship now but still use FDS principles to vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 10:40 AM
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That the bar is in hell as expressed in this post is already worrying, but that women feel the need of performing sexual acts that need safe words is also disturbing on its own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:50 PM
4

This. If we feel that something is not adding up, we're usually right. It's our intuition warning us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:06 PM
27

This. I wouldn't waste money to investigate a LVM. If I'm hiring a PI I know in my gut already that this man is up to no good and spending money investigating would be a waste of money and energy. Having money to leave and be independent from men makes us better at vetting and leaving LV and potentially dangerous situations easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:25 AM
37

This. I've dated a man 13 older than me when I was in my early twenties and though he treated me fantastically well and gave me a lot, we were at totally different stages our lives and I wouldn't recommend age gap relationships to others because 9/10 times it doesn't go well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:43 PM
35

And they don't like it and other men advise them to leave whoever is treating them the same way they treat women. The irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:21 PM
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It's about the journey, not the destination /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:06 PM
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I'm not a fan of his ideas in general and despise the red pill men who idolize him BUT I had seen him before supporting the idea that women face far more risks than men on dating and therefor it's only natural and in our best interest to choose well. He also tells men to take responsibility for their failures. So at least on something we agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:16 PM
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I love Keanu. I have no idea why the manosphere loves him too since he's the opposite of every reddit manosphere scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:45 PM
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Though such racists exist, it seemed too over the top. Most racists/"karens" won't make such a scene knowing they're outnumbered. Plus the Latino and Mexican food commentary seemed out of a comedy sketch about racists. Too unrealistic. Maybe she displayed racism and is very low value, it's possible but I think he overexhagerated it. Plus she thought he was Latino but then made the immigrant comment in front of her "Latino late"? Weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:43 PM
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Men will have sex even with women they hate. That's one of the reasons why they're dangerous. Being sexually desired is not a proof of value or that a man cares for us or respects us. Both of them are extremely low level btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:36 PM
21

I somehow missed point 3 with the texting. Another sign he's an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:02 PM
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This! Him being the director of the company and it belonging to his father and of course the fact that they're dating are 3 BIG NOS. Not only because of what you said but also the power imbalance. She'd probably be his subordinate. And HR wouldn't side with her if something were to happen because he's the director and his father is the owner of the business. He wants to have all the control in her personal and professional life. This together with him arguing for 20 minutes for his right to be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:48 PM
25

He's full of redflags like the ones you mentioned, specially number 1 but I also see a redflag in him wanting you to work in the same company he works which also belongs to his father (and probably him too). Hell to the no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:40 PM
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I regret now not having done this when I had breakups but I now thing the best way of coping is setting a goal and work on it. It can be learning new skills, focus on studying, a project or simply a through out house clean, a training goal or something that was slacking or being delayed during the relationship. Other than that travelling, self care and reading are also great. Also I'm a fan of blocking and deleting exes even if the break up was amicable so that it's easier to move on with no urg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:37 PM
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This. Having women believing that prostitution and other sex posi narratives are free choice and empowering for women only benefits men and patriarchy. I wish liberal feminist understood this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:00 PM
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Same here. The Kardashians have a new season of their reality show coming I think , they need to milk on the Kim Kanye divorce drama but at the same time people are tired of the divorce drama and didn't believe she actually got together with Drake/the publicity wasn't good, so they had to orchestrate a new relationship and chose this guy. Kim and Kris probably also took inspiration from Kourtney being happy with Travis, a white tattooed musician and how the public is loving it and supporting the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:31 AM
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I think his relationship with Kim Kardashian is just a publicity stunt. For both of them. I never understood his appeal either. I only know him from having dated Ariana Grande and even at the time I never understood what she saw in him. He was a major scrote. Love bombed her and in interviews would only talk about her physic attributes. Proposed a few months in as part of the love bombing and then they broke up (can't remember who ended the relationship). He's a major scrote (mental health issue…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:25 AM
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Yes men are master projectors. They say all that because they're the first ones to consider leaving or cheating when things aren't fun for a while (aka not as much sex as before and not being the center of attention).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:17 AM
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Men expect you to do most of the house chores, raise kids, work full time, workout (to be attractive for them) and still have the time and energy to do hard-core porn sex 7 times a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:10 AM
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And it looks like she is a stay at home mom by some of the posts shown here so she probably didn't have a place to go if he dumped her hence why she felt coerced/forced to try to give him the "porn sex" she thought he wanted and that still isn't enough because he doesn't care for her and has already probably been considering cheating if not doing it already. Her libido didn't change, she just had the threat of divorce as a stay at home mom hovering over her head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:07 AM
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They'll go above and beyond for their bros they barely even know because men don't usually talk about feelings or display emotional vulnerability to each other. But then will treat their emotional support mules like shit. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:16 AM
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Plus when you clap back you're explaining them why you won't give them the time of the day and they might use this knowledge in the future to hide their scrotery from other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:13 AM
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This. Coffee dates have become the "go to" of dating due to OLD. People barely talk or get to know each other before meeting for the date a and therefor don't invest in proper dates because they're not invested in someone they barely know and only traded some messages on a screen. Sure I've seen men asking for coffee dates in real life but it's mostly conditioned by the online dating culture and wanting to invest the least possible and getting the maximum return possible (sex, etc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:05 AM
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This. And I've had men arriving to the place before me, sitting down and order their coffee/drink so that when I come I have to order and pay mine myself 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:01 AM
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They want to walk around outside until you're tired and accept going home with them for sex. They don't want to choose a nice comfortable place in case you want to keep warm and comfortable inside and waste time talking instead of going to his apartment. They also don't want to pay for food and spend money with no guarantee of sex so a quick no sitting Starbucks does it for them. It's on purpose, he knows what he's doing. Walking dates and coffee dates are the worst type of dates being maybe onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:57 PM
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Another reason why I think coffee dates are being normalizes is due to online dating People don't meet each other organically anymore nor take time to get each other properly hence why everyone is so luckwarm about everyone and doesn't invest on proper dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:52 PM
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This. I always felt it was a publicity stunt from both sides but I don't think it benefited their careers in the end. The public never believed their relationship was genuin and as you said it was getting old. So they probably decided it wasnt worth keeping it up anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:48 PM
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He yelled at her? Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:47 PM
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I actually think that their relationship was a publicity stunt made to benefit both in their careers. It never seemed genuin. And I don't like to speculate about people's sexualities but there's also those rumors. I think that their relationship staled his career a bit specially after many canceling her due to the Normani situation and so he probably decided to call the quits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:46 PM
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It's a business deal. Men in general see relationships as transactions and choose according what brings more advantage for them whether it's financially, socially, physically or emotionally. Since he sees it as a transaction he's keeping count of what he gives and receives in return and mad that things aren't the "50/50" transaction he expected. Men who are worried about 50/50 are always egotistical scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:43 PM
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Also why would chores be exactly 50/50 if she'll do most of the child rearing work and is the one carrying the baby on her womb and getting all the physical and emotional consequences of it. And she's working and studying on top of this. The best he can do is helping in every way he can because having children will never be 50/50 for the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:39 PM
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I'm glad that for once the redditors took the woman's side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:36 PM
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Because men are the biggest gold diggers, sex diggers, emotional labor diggers and house chores diggers. They only think in terms of what's advantageous to them. He hates her but married (begrudgingly) because his benefits were at risk if she stopped accepting being forever girlfriend all together and because of the tax bracket. Plus he's probably cheating and doesn't want his mistress to know he's married hence why he didn't want a party where attendants could take pictures and is refusing to p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:55 AM
41

How did he juggled the 2 families? It's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:45 AM
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How is this even possible? Do they tell both families that they're traveling? How do they do on Christmas and other holidays? It's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:44 AM
7

He's cheating on her and doesn't want the mistress and other people to know he's married. This man doesn't care about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:43 AM
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Where I live there's this rule that you have to be one year minimum separated before you can divorce. And even so and even if the man is actually separated and wanting to divorce and just waiting for the end of this period, it's too soon to be dating. I'd never date a separated man or recently divorced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 01:28 AM
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Whenever a man uses the term "female" it's always a woman hater incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:24 PM
7

I also always felt some weird from Bill Gates. I feel that most of these tech billionaires are sociopaths/psychopaths: Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Steve Jobs and Jeff Bezos for example. These people are known to step on anyone, lobbying and stealing ideas if needed to get where they are. They are extremely intelligent yes but I always felt that something is missing there, like empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:50 AM
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My abusive ex contacted most of my friends and acquaintances to tell them to tell me (I had blocked him on everything) that he was going to do a surprise concert for me at x location and for me to show up. I didn't show up of course. Some acquaintances thought the gesture was romantic and that I was breaking his heart. As if he stalking me and threatening me was a romantic man suffering from broken heart. As if I had no reasons to leave his abusive ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:45 AM
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Men who always play the "devil's advocate".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:49 AM
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Sorry, I've never watched Tiger King, who is the sicko that tried to murder her? Her ex husband that disappeared and is alive in Costa Rica?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:44 AM
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That's because bro friendships don't involve actually talking about their feelings and genuine support of each other. They're sexist to the point of thinking that showing emotion is for "pussies" and "women". With the bros they always have to be fun and cool. They need to show the "best" of themselves to the bros, to be seen as fun to be around by the bros. They leave the emotional labor for the women. These are also the same men who will pay their bros thousands for drinks, dinners and borrowin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:29 AM
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Yes they can't seem to be able to choose a narrative. They'll also make jokes about buying a weapon to protect their daughters from other men or will act all intimidating when their daughters get a boyfriend. What are they so scared of and what are they protecting them from? I thought "not all men" / "must a minority of men". Also if it isn't a "male issue because women kill and r*pe too in the same numbers as men" then why aren't they keeping the same energy for their sons?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:11 PM
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I used to be in a manosphere forum similar to reddit many years ago and some men would make analogies like "you wouldn't go in a dangerous neighborhood with a Rolex on your wrist or let your apartment's door open and then complain you were stolen, therefore as women y'all shouldn't be out alone late at night/wearing revealing clothes late at night" and similar stuff whenever a woman was r*ped or assaulted. It was absolutely horrific the mental gymnastics and "just playing the devil's advogate" t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:10 PM
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They are saying one of the men is an underground pornographer. Of course they filmed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:05 PM
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They might even twist it to make it seem that the girls went willingly to their place and did everything willingly but just that they had an overdose and things went wrong and then the men simply left them at the hospital to be treated/saved by doctors. They might pull an involuntary manslaughter or charge them just for abandonment of the corpse or something else that gives them a light punishment that the lawyers always find a way to pull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:04 PM
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This is true. I watch true crime often and in the YouTube comments it the victim is beautiful most comments mention that she was beautiful and how sad it is. Some women who are not so conventionally attractive but are wives and mothers also get some sympathy. If it's a non conventionally attractive woman or overweight I see that the comments are much more neutral. Also these cases don't usually make so big news. But as you said all women get abused regardless of their looks. Rapists and abusers …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:01 PM
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It's one thing to come a bit late but send a message on the way saying they'll be a bit late and apologizing. But if it was like he said, she acted pretty LV. He doesn't sound very HV either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:26 PM
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Some men will pull the "no reservations" card to then say "ups they have no tables" and so change the plans to a cheaper place, walk date or worse "home date". Maybe not the case here but I've seen this trick being played several times. That being said I don't think it was HV of her to come late with no hears up or apologizing nor thanking for the dinner. Good manners are important too. This is of course if he's telling the truth. Both seem LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:23 PM
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This. It's not always that just one side is LV or is in the wrong. Sometimes it can be both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:43 PM
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I hadn't even noticed they were 6 hours at the restaurant. It's also not advisable for long first dates (several hours long) as they create a false sense of intimacy. But yes even though she was late, he's a cheap scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:43 PM
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When I tried OLD the type of profiles mentioned in the article were like 95% of the profiles I came across and some of them had several of these redflags on the same profile. A total dumpster 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:08 AM
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What is the rbg documentary about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:06 AM
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I've seen the "should have just communicate more clearly" being used on cases where the woman is coerced to sex or to doing sex acts she didn't want to do during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:13 PM
13

These LVM out here trying to gaslight women into accepting clownery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:38 PM
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Every man who talks about "test the sexual compatibility" always ends up being a major scrote. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:36 AM
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I'm in a relationship now but I apply FDS principles to my life in general. My pick me ways also extended to work and friends so FDS has helped me a lot in other areas of my life too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:25 AM
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She was groommed by this pedo scrote and I'm worried for their children growing up in such environment. Also if I had to take a guess he either isolated her from her family or her family is absent and doesn't care about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:23 AM
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I think most people in general aren't black and white. Someone who is HV or displayed HV behavior might simply not be the right fit for you even if they have many qualities and treat you amazingly. Sometimes for one or other reason we have to leave men that so far have demonstrated to be HV. Or other times these men devolve. Or some men who show themselves to be HV are actually sociopaths and narcissists and the mask will fall off eventually. It's not always black and white and easy to discern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:17 AM
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Of course he leaves all the child rearing and educating to the mothers, hence why he wants to go for batch nr 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:15 AM
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Wait isn't that a literal child??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:10 AM
13

This. Plus life long therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:57 PM
16

He's a textbook narc. He uses these women and have them on rotation fighting for him and making a fool of themselves due to him triangulating them against each other. He reminds me of Future. If only they stopped having babies with these scrotes and stopped coming back to them. It's the only way of "winning" something. These scrotes don't care about them. But they'll get big mad if these women finally gain some self respect and dump them for good. Just look at how Future was having a mantrum ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:52 PM
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Preach! Btw, wasn't even debunked that she isn't even latina, just white or something like that? I was shocked at the N words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:42 PM
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She's a master pick me but ended up getting the same treatment and being as humiliated as the women she demeaned and acted as if she was better than.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:09 PM
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He recently called DaniLeigh a mere side chick. He doesn't care for her nor the baby. He literally wanted to kick out a 3 months baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:07 PM
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She thought that she was special and with her it would be different (he probably triangulated her against other women of darker skin as the narcissist he is) but she ended up getting the same treatment and same black men as the other women. He has 2 other baby mommas and treats all of them like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:04 PM
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He's been dangling this Dani woman and triangulating her with the other baby momma. And he even had a baby from a third woman and Dani still stuck with him and had a baby with him. He's a narcissistic scrote that put all these women against each other and made them believe the trope of "with me he'll be different than with the other women" (she bragged about men preferring her light skin complexion as opposed to darker skin complexions in a song) but then ended up getting the same treatment as t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:02 PM
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And if someone is too busy to meet you or talk to you often, then they have no business in dating and chasing relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:46 AM
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Yet when women are fat there's no sympathy. There are scrotes (some of them fat and unattractive like this man) that will treat them like garbage. And then the manosphere will scream "pussy privilege" because some fetichists are attracted to fat women as if being seen as a sexual object due to your physics is something that benefits women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:36 AM
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Agree. I've observed that many black men see white women as a sex fantasy and some times some sort of trophy but when it comes to marrying (with struggle love) they usually go for the black woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:04 AM
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He was a cop?? Why does this not even surprise me? I'm grad you healed and got some sort of justice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:55 PM
8

I can't. I always need clit stimulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:10 PM
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They're pornsick and truly believe that porn sex is pleasurable to women and when women don't pretend they love their porn jackhammering they get mad and shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:09 PM
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Men are masters of projection so I wouldn't be surprised if it was this too. I think most men know by now that dick pics disgust women but they're still hoping to get a woman that has sex with them by sending those dick pics because that gives them green card to disrespect her and to have sex with the minimum effort possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:58 PM
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This is amazing progress. We're told all the time we're supposed to settle for men who don't make us feel appreciated and that wanting romance and gifts is shallow and lame so that men can keep getting maximum reward without putting any effort or time. Men will scream about gold digging if a woman wants flowers and romance but it actually costs almost nothing to do it. It's just that men are out here doing less than the bare minimum and still getting what they want. When I was a pick me I also u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:55 PM
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This woman thinks she might have been the AT so she needs to go on reddit to have the unbiased opinion of strangers. That's the result of abuse and manipulation she got from this trash negative value gold digger scrote. They'll gaslight and destroy our self esteem to the point we're afraid of being unfair or TA when we ask for basic respect or enforce any kind of reasonable boundaries. This is abuse but because it isn't explicitly physically but instead emotional and financial, of course some of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:42 PM
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Another example of men golf digging and destroying women's mental and physical health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:36 PM
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Men are the biggest gold diggers. At least the so called "gold digger" women care for their children and want to give them the best. While gold digger men will destroy their children's lives just to get money and have "the last laugh". Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:35 PM
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Someone please DM her and send her here (we're automatically banned from relationship subs if we post publicly with the account we use on FDS)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:28 PM
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This is an horror story! A cautionary tale to never be the breadwinner for men. He sits all day watching his channels and is not actively looking for jobs and she's still doing all the house work (he's not even contributing by being a "house husband" by taking care of the house and the children). And the he has the audacity of demanding that she pays for his subscriptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:27 PM
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I think he's a full blown psychopath. The way he was unapologetic about everything and how he felt entitled to have his own way not even providing fake excuses to soft the blow... Not even once pretended to care about her cancer scare. Even for a lvm this lack of empathy/fake empathy after being caught and unapologetic discarding without trying to pretend he's a "good guy" is not normal. It's scary and evil, total devoided of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:32 AM
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I wouldn't even date someone who says they're going through a divorce point blank. Even if it's true that going through a divorce, a person going through it is in no condition to date. They should wait until there has been a considerable amount of time after the divorce is finalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 07:19 AM
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He's a full blown sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:17 AM
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He wants to lower the bar so that you keep going out with him (and have sex) but not expect commitment from him or anything that takes effort on his part "because he's not ready". Men do this all the time even if there has been just 1 or 2 dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:34 PM
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This! A man even if HVM can't do much about our past trauma. Even friends can't. That's the therapist's job. It won't make the relationship better or more honest/loving to trauma dump or trauma bond with our partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:13 PM
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Also sharing trauma with men puts us at a vulnerable position if we didn't vet enough or for long enough time to know they're HVM. And even if we know they're HVM, I'd reserve my trauma to very close friends and therapists if possible. A man can't do much when it comes to such things, that's the therapist's job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:10 PM
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Wow I had never thought that the reason for the pics carrying a fish or sitting on trucks and cars was to impress other men and now it all makes so much sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 11:46 PM
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And some men won't even pull all the stops to impress on the first dates. They'll just do the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 10:15 PM
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I think plenty of men have the fantasy of having the woman pursuing them and the online flirting stage. When faced with the reality of meeting the woman in person they just ghost because either they're cowards or they're talking to lots of women (that he sees as casual sex/situationship prospects) and just didn't want to do the effort of going out with the woman that day and because they know they can keep on stringing the others along and eventually go on a cheap coffee date with another one wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:14 PM
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Probably a catfish or scammer. Or married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:03 PM
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This. The man is the one that has to travel to see us as it's much less riskier to them than for us. They need to prove themselves. Also, I'm not a fan of long distance. And even if a guy comes to visit he should get his own accommodation. Never invite a stranger to your home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:02 PM
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Is that sub moderated by men? It's ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:04 AM
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Some subs ban you automatically if you're part of FDS, even if you didn't post on FDS or if your comments on their sub have nothing to do with FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:02 AM
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MiSaNdRY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:59 AM
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Beyonce says Tina is one of her biggest idols. Yet she let Jay Z say that line on his song with her (drunk in love I think). Jay Z is also another major scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:30 AM
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It's even part of pop culture at this time. I remember when Jay Z (another major LVM) made a joke punch line about an abusive episode between Ike and Tina and it was very awkward because the song was a collab with Beyonce and Tina Turner is one of her biggest idols. And I'm not American but I've heard several jokes and punch lines (how can someone even make jokes about this?) about Ike beating Tina Turner. It's so inspiring how she got out of there and won in the end!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:29 AM
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And he also doesn't understand that it's uncomfortable to be flirted with at work, interested or not. He's an entitled creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:18 AM
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It's because he thinks that just because you ask a woman out that she should accept. He resents her for not wanting a stranger flirting with her at work and that his "romantic comedy move" /" courage" wasn't rewarded. Yes the entitlement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:16 AM
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The second one blaming online dating for women not wanted to be picked up by strangers at work. Wtf. Since before the online dating times that being picked up at work by strangers is embarrassing and creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:11 AM
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I was recently commenting with a man about the horrors of the sex trade because we had both watched a debate show about only fans. He said I was overreacting and only talking about the cases where it goes wrong and not the positive ones. But even if there were positive cases, why should we allow an industry that puts women's physical and mental health at risks and kills so many? Who cares if there's an only fans worker making millions and a luxury escort talking about how they love their job whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:00 PM
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There's a lobby. They go hand in hand hence why the media is always so favorable to porn, sex work and all the propaganda they love to spew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:53 PM
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Specially if an ugly old scrote gets these women they'll be full of resentment for having been rejected by beautiful women in the past and will take it out on her. Plus they'll be insecure because they know they ain't shit compared to these beautiful women. There is no way out whether we conform to the beauty standards or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:06 PM
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Is this on tiktok? Poor girl, this is terrible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:57 PM
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Men who can't handle your success don't deserve your time anyways. I'd also suggest dating men that are not under you academically or career wise (hypergamy). There will of course be highly accomplished LVM that will still threaten of course but you don't want them anyways and those are eliminated through veting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:48 PM
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Wtf is this??? Isn't this sexual assault and full on abusive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:44 AM
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Her family has some power in Hollywood. That's probably why the abusers always acted nice with her because they didn't want to risk their careers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:26 AM
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And how do you tell your friends and family "hey, don't tell my girlfriend I have a child. Don't mention her even. Thanks" and they simply say yes no questions asked and never mention the child not even by accident?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:28 AM
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Men might be mad but this is the only way to make them be better. Only with consequences will they get better. I don't mean for him to get better with you because that boat has sailed and we don't want porn sick jackhsmmerers in our lives but if more women behaved like you did, than the ones who have at least some self awareness could have an epiphany that they are the problem and better do better or no one will put up with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:48 AM
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Agree. Performance anxiety or bad days are a thing but sometimes there can be physical issues. If he has erectile disfunction even if it's not porn or unhealthy habits related, it will be hard to get better and then we have to make the decision if we can live with it or not and leave. If it was just one night, he makes an effort to please and open to do better and he's a caring and generous partner at everything it might just have been a one off. But I'd also suggest to vet carefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 10:45 AM
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I have a feeling that Chris Pratt is seen as a good guy in Hollywood and I don't understand it because he's a cheater and apparently left Anna Ferris to deal alone with their son's health issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 05:15 PM
4

I'm happy in my current relationship but dealt with several LVM in the past too and can see both sides. I feel for her but also know that many relationships aren't that good and it's better to be alone and not be with someone out of feeling lonely. It will turn of our "veting sensors" if we do that and we all know how destroying it can be not to vet properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:57 PM
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It looks like Chris Pratt is resentful and wanting to rub it in Anna's face. I don't know much of their story but it's the vibe it gives me. At the same time he also negs his new wife. Scrote all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 09:59 AM
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I don't know much about Hollywood celebrities but leart here that Chris Pratt is a scrote and what he did to Anna Ferris. Is the son Jack his too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 09:58 AM
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It's not a real dom when they can't find excuses for the disgusting abusive behavior of the dom and want to dismiss the woman in case other women read and become scared of also feel abused and want to leave the bdsm community. But actually these are the "real doms" in the community because every dom is an abusive scrote, no exception. Even if they just do light bdsm at first, they'll escalate to more hard-core abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 10:23 AM
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Yes because if they did the same thing out of the bedroom society would see them as abusive and someone could even call the police but when you do it in the bedroom and coerce your partner into accepting this (because most times there's no informed consent on this mess and there's manipulation involved) it's suddenly OK and not frowned upon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 10:08 AM
19

He might have a contract with these agencies. I wouldn't be surprised. Some agencies are almost escort services agencies desguised as model agencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:57 PM
30

Jack Nicholson is a creep. He made some creepy comments towards Jennifer Lawrence that made her uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:56 PM
19

Yes. At this point it's pathologic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:54 PM
54

Even though he's considered a Hollywood hunk that women want to get it, I feel that he somehow feels his wife is way above his league and the need to peg her down a few notches disguised as jokes and quirkiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:50 PM
17

She's much younger than him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:48 PM
221

"more 2-3 years". She's a placeholder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:46 PM
159

He does that too? Do these men think this is cute and charming? This is negging and a sign they don't respect their wives. It's as if they love humiliating them and knocking them down a few pegs but under the desguise of being quirky and funny. And many say these couples are relationship goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:46 PM
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I've only seen his 2 posts that were posted here and both were humiliating her publicly. Why is he telling the world this?? Why is he oversharing? It's obvious he doesn't respect her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:44 PM
24

Which church did he support? Is it the church where he says he met her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:40 PM
29

Yes why are these men following advice of angry resentful men that couldn't get laid in their twenties (and thirties even) and who probably can't get laid now either unless they use their money and coercion tactics? Why are they following and idolizing losers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:56 AM
9

Lmao no young woman wants geriatric ED penis. Actually no woman in general. The incel/red pill delusion is the comedy gift that keeps giving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:40 AM
71

And when you ask them to do something these men will purposely do it wrong or act dumb so that you don't ask them again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:24 AM
63

My boyfriend loves to cook and host too. I'm not a big fan of cooking nor that good at it and he knows that and it's fine. He cooks for me all the time. And sometimes we cook together (and I have fun doing it). It's much better this way than being with a scrote that uses us for sex and free labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:22 AM
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Yes but HVM won't be wasting the time of women they don't want to commit with and that they know wants to commit so you won't be taking away HVM that want to commit. These HVM as soon as they see that you're not on the same wavelength of commitment as you, will end the relationship and eventually move on to someone who wants the same as them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:16 AM
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You're totally right. The manipulation is much more nuanced and insidious than what I conveyed. In the end as you said they make it so we interiorize that we're the problem and feel guilty for wanting better and then the next times they can always do their half ass sex and not be bothered with no repercussions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 01:08 PM
12

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:52 AM
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I luckily have always work in environments where the majority are women and the few men have always been respectful, but if I ever am in such environments I think your method is the way to handle it. It will be impossible for them to keep on ignoring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:52 AM
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This. My boss divorced her ex husband because the mother was overly involved in everything. From what they ate to the house decoration to their plans of having children to how they managed their money. And her ex husband never took her side and just let the mom medle in everything. She got tired of it and left. The mother then got nasty and helped the son to make the divorce difficult and long. I think she even paid the divorced lawyer for her son so that the son could make the divorce process l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:08 AM
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And these mothers will also then be highly involved in raising the children and trying to control everything and then the LVM will take her side creating the known stereotypical "mother in law VS wife" dynamics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:04 AM
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If her parents and sisters attend the wedding they'll make it all about the other sister. I've heard countless horror stories of narcissist parents and golden child taking over entire weddings, baby showers and other important milestones or announcements. He did well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 05:46 PM
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There are plenty of men that aren't even sleeping with multiple women (because no woman wants to put up with them) but they'll still treat dates like a cheap investment for sex and show up at their worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:23 PM
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Even if this was true why is a man on a date if he's so tired and overworked. An overworked man is in no condition to date and give quality time to anyone. But no, men must always try to wet their peen. (I can't see the post as it was deleted by Im going by the comments here)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:21 PM
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The audacity when most men don't care if the woman has come or not and stop everything once they've come and are satisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:17 AM
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How so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:15 AM
8

Exactly what mine did with acting entusiastic about me going out with friends or colleagues, even saying that he wanted me to come without him or acting supportive of my exams or goals and then making a drama when I was there and making a big fuss to make me come home or to not being able to focus on my exams or work. This is pure isolation tactics and manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:51 PM
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Very good post and very important! This also reminds of men that will always have an emergency (that ends up not being an emergency), get depressed or something happens at job of with friends that he needs support always right when you'll go on a trip with girlfriends, something job related or anything of the sort that doesn't revolve around him. I've had this happening to me. Their life was good when mine wasn't going that well but as soon as I'd meet my girlfriends, got some success at univers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:48 PM
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She might be sugarbabying or escorting if all her followers are men and has no girlfriends. Or maybe not and simply gets to meet men to date who take her to expensive places. If you want a relationship then there is nothing to compare or envy because she's not getting it either, just a few fun flings and nice photos for Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:03 PM
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This is what I usually do. I'll act as if I don't listen or dont understand the language and keep moving quickly but of course somdtomes it's still not safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:12 PM
20

This is another evidence that men don't value if a woman provides for them. He'll either resent them for it or get amnesia. Barbara the builder never gets the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:00 PM
11

This is sad but totally true. Men see the world as benefit vs disadvantage. If at some point they see that marrying will provide them the social, monetary, emotional or whatever benefit he'll do it with the woman who's there at that time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:41 PM
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I've come to realize this with experience. The men who displayed HV behavior on other areas and actions with me, always walked by my side, even though their natural pace was faster than me. They always slowed down for me. The LV men I've encountered didn't care and walked ahead if I wasn't able to keep up their pace. I believe it can be seen as a red flag and indicator other future issues in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:15 AM
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I think it's a red flag. I don't mind him having some female friends among his group of friends but if it's just female friends I usually see it as a red flag based on my experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:57 AM
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Then they get big mad when the redpill pick up artist tricks don't work on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:50 AM
16

I also had friends in situationship that would say "but if he wanted just sex and no hopes of wanting a relationship in the future, why does he cuddle me, sleep with me, has meals with me and talks to me and texts often instead of just fucking me and leaving right after"? It's a myth perpetuated to gaslight us that men who just want casual won't do affectionate or relationship things with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:09 PM
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That scrotes are mad guilt tripping her was already expected, but pick me comments from women like this one makes me even sadder: "... I dont understand why having conversation and actually just being normal is so taboo these days. Everybody is so uptight and incredibly annoying. Just say "yeah I'm not interested right now and I am just enjoying the solitude. But thank you anyways. I hope you have a good day." And freaking get on with your day. People are always complaining that they dont make f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:01 PM
31

It's as if only being loyal to another man matters to them and not a woman's agency and comfort. Men usually have a strong sense of "community", they protect each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:58 PM
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Maybe it was a disgusting joke about her trying to find female ejaculation liquids with black light (I'm not in the area just trying to guess what they meant)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:12 AM
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He's the proverbial "nice guy". If he had reddit he'd be crying all day on the incel subs about how women only go for bad boy Chads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:15 PM
92

They also forget that when women leave abusers (as they should of course) is when they're more vulnerable to murder or other type of retaliation from their abusive partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:11 PM
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They also forget that when women leave abusers (as they should of course) is when they're more vulnerable to murder or other type of retaliation from their abusive partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:11 PM
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Most men see the world in terms what benefits the most at a given time. When having a wife stops being advantageous for them like the wife being too sick to serve them sexually, emotionally and the house chores, etc they'll leave without much thought. Women on the other hand are socialized (in addition to natural tendencies) to take care of others and put others' comfort and needs above theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 10:24 PM
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Probably but then the scrote will come to reddit and cry that women are gold diggers or shallow and won't give him a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:53 PM
42

On what world does a man think that this type of reply is attractive to a woman and will make her want to meet him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:51 PM
33

It's probably male lurkers and cool girl pick me lurkers down voting. Most users who are seriously on FDS and are active here don't support casual sex and hook ups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:47 PM
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Yes. If the man is caring and generous, spends quality time (and money) on us and genuinely builds a connection with us, is patient and respects our boundaries, there's more chances he'll be good in bed. Later on we can access if the sex will be good by kissing and how he touch us (if we're ready for those steps). No need to have sex with men to know if the sex will be bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:45 PM
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All of this. Plus men who barely know you have no interest or motivation in being good in bed and give you orgasms. For most men isn't that easy either to give women orgasms when they like them but if it's casual they probably won't even try. You're just a fleshlight for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:38 PM
15

You should see the amount of scrotes on YouTube fumming from their mouths in rage about the film and calling her gold digger just because she fell for him when she thought he was truly educated and rich. Others were crying that she was making money from the whole ordeal through the movie. They were really mad. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:29 PM
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Men will marry who they can have access to marrying if and when they see that the benefit of being married surpasses the benefit of being single. If he wants to have sex with other women but he knows that marriage brings him more social status, homemade meals and clean, stable bangmaid and of course emotional labour and that these benefits give him security that being a single bachelor doesn't, then he'll marry and then cheat behind her back knowing he always has these things to come back to. Me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:23 AM
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Even if she were (which I don't believe), still doesn't explain the use of a gun to shoot her, dismember and hide the body. He could've easily went away or overpower her physically without guns or without killing her. Of course I don't believe him but even his version doesn't hold up. He must think people are stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:17 AM
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Is this POS trying to allege self defense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:14 AM
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This. Resentful men with inferiority complex are dangerous. Always avoid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:03 AM
25

You forgot also the "women are gold diggers and only like rich Chads" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 11:16 AM
4

What is Fico? Smells like conservative red pill scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:54 PM
6

It could be walk date followed by going to his home afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:57 AM
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What was he expecting? To turn it into a home date at his place or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:54 AM
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Never tell them anything about your past sex life or any details even if it's about mundane sex things. The only thing related to sex that you should tell a partner is if you have STDs. Everything else is not relevant and men will either resent you or pressure and coerce you into doing things you did in the past but don't want to do nowadays. Anyways I think this scrote already wanted to leave her anyways, he just needed an excuse that made her the "bad guy. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:26 AM
214

Wtf this is horrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:39 PM
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Because by then it's too late. These women have already moved on while they got stuck on this unicorn that got away. The fact that these women are unavailable is what draws them. And I think that if they got this woman again they wouldn't value her again or do something to mess it up because she'd suddenly become real and not a mythical fantasy. Because men use "the one that got away" as a rationalization on why they're emotionally unavailable and won't commit. They use it to justify the casual …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:44 PM
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You're absolutely right. The article also makes the distinction. It's strangulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:22 PM
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I had no idea these 2 had a feud and I didn't even know Ryan Reynolds was married to Scarlett Johanson in the past, but always loved Hugh Jackman's relationship with his wife (seen from the outside) and how she's older than him (unlike most celebrity men's relationships) and how they've been together for so many years. But yes, his behavior regarding Reynolds seems LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:28 PM
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I love Villanelle as a character but I wouldn't call a sociopathic murderer a HVM. And Gabrielle cheated on her husband with a minor (predator bahavior) besides other things. I liked her character for entertainment value, but far from HVW haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:24 PM
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There are DV shelters that ask immediately if the victim was choked and if they reply yes they'll give them place immediately. ​ Also it doesn't matter if the choking is outside of the bedroom or "consensual bdsm choking", it's always an indicator of abuse and that the chances of this man murdering you are high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:19 PM
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Not to mention that the girl was crying in the morning. How was this hook up good for her if she was crying in the morning after??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:06 PM
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The mental gymnastics of the last comment trying to defend that hook ups and casual sex are great for single mothers and their children lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:04 PM
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Yes if I remember correctly Gabby was a cheater. Not HV at all. She was gorgeous and fun but still not HV. And as you say none of the SATC friends was HV, though I loved Samantha and Miranda for entertainment value and being less pick me than the other 2. But still they both displayed LV behavior through the series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:26 PM
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Of the 4 I'd say Samantha was the least pick me but she was an absolute pick me with that scrote Richard. And Miranda was amazing but ended up settling with that guy and forgiving his cheating on the movie, plus the whole narrative was made to make her the villain for not wanting to forgive his cheating and kicking him out at first. Probably to distract us from how ridiculous Carrie and Big were and how absolute pick me Carrie was from the first episode to films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:23 PM
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I loved Samantha (and Miranda) as a character and she was one of my favorites. She was a good friend, confident and unapologetic but she also had some issues and wasn't perfect and I think the amount of casual sex and how hard it was for her to accept Smith's love and how she let that scrote Richard walk over her are a stain on her otherwise HV persona. But I think in the end of the series (I'm purposely forgetting the movies) she had gone past it. At least she wasnt an ultimate pick me like Car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:18 PM
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This is so true. When I was in college I had a relationship with an abusive LVM who did everything to sabotage my studies. He'd always be extremely "sick" or something big happening to him or tramtrums when I had exams or would try to minimize every success I had. Many years later I know how to detect this red flag right at the beginning. If a man shows anything less than enthusiasm for your achievements and support for your goals you have to leave him immediately. They'll do everything to sabot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:06 AM
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We don't have to go further when we had high profile cases like Gabby Petito or Chris Watts which both happened in western countries by white people. And of course all the other cases that happen every day all across the globe and in most ethnicities and races.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:57 AM
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I enjoy the melodies of his songs and his voice but he's one of the biggest scrotes in the music industry. Just look at his relationship historic and how he treated his exes. He done Jessica Simpson and others so dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:58 AM
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Being HVM and having HV relationships does wonders for health (mental and physical) not only for the women but also for the men. I notice that most people in HV relationships look younger and radiant than those stuck in LV stressful relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:56 AM
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Dumb question but can't we just lock ourselves from the inside and leave the key on and that way no one can enter using a key?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:30 AM
34

Not long ago I accidently broke my boyfriend's super expensive computer screen and he wasn't angry or mad. I was crying feeling bad for having broken it and offered to pay and he reassured me and said it was just a screen and he'd either get it fixed or buy another one and that I didn't need to pay or buy anything. He said that accidents happen and no need to feel bad about it. Men who go on rages over these things are a huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:27 PM
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Hahaha I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:42 AM
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Having 20 different accounts online is disturbing already by it self but having them to defend pedophilia is horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:30 AM
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Yes. I wouldn't ghost someone who's not abusive that I've been in a relationship with for years but would for sure ghost someone I met on OLD and just went to a few dates with. Even if we went to many dates but things aren't evolving to a relationship I'll ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:41 PM
11

I once met a man that was with a woman for 20 something years and had kids with her and lived together but though she wanted to marry he didn't want to. He'd always find excuses not to marry her. He ended up admitting that he stayed with her all these years because he couldn't get better and avoided marrying her because he still had hope someone else would come along though he was seeing that possibility decreasing more and more as he's getting older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:41 AM
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Probably cheating or attracted to another woman he wants to cheat on her with. Men don't risk being broken up with without having a back up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:37 AM
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This. I've had men in their 30s justifying their cheating or inability to commit with a break up that happened when they were 16. You can't make this shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:35 AM
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Does someone have the link for the first post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:20 AM
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Yes. I wouldn't leave a movie I'm watching with friends for a man who arrived earlier than we had arranged by their own will and I wouldn't expect them to do so either. But anyways they weren't meant for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:23 AM
31

The second hand embarrassment I felt at his fantasies. These are just incels writing fanfics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:00 AM
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He's not even doing 50/50. He's only feeding the baby 50/50 because he has some weird desire of drinking baby formula from the baby bottle. Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:37 AM
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Pick me cool girl mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:51 PM
111

Most men who threat suicide because you're leaving them are doing it for manipulation. Many years ago my abusive ex pulled this one on me and I said I was going to call 911 on him and he immediately changed his tone and didn't want to disclose where he was. Of course he never caused any arm to himself and still living and breathing. It was just manipulation. Even if a man does it and is true the best you can do is call 911 and remove yourself from the situation. If it were true (which rarely is)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:54 PM
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For men they're not selective to have sex with you. They actually want 1st date no investment sex. But to be in a committed relationship suddenly they have all these table excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:57 PM
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And she says she doesn't want anything serious then why does she want to play hard to get games to make him chase? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:52 PM
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She's with a problematic LVM, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:49 PM
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The proverbial "nice guy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:33 AM
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That first one blew my mind too. Never share the abuse you've been through with men nor act like the bar for you is low due to past mistreatment from other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:19 PM
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They look so similar! I've been following gaby 's case closely but haven't paid proper attention to his pics yet and the similarity is jarring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:03 AM
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What are the comments saying? There's no amount of CoMMuNIcAtInG that can solve the fact that the husband stole from her and feels entitled to her savings without asking and his family is also low value enablers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:01 PM
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In the event she was abusing him it still makes no sense or right to leave in her van and refuse to provide any information about her whereabouts to her family or police. But I also don't buy the she was abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:07 PM
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It was even her van. If he had just broke up with her and left her at least leave her with her van. And no decent human being can be provoqued into murdering someone even if that was true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:57 PM
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I've also seen men rambling about how maybe he killed her in self defence or didn't kill her and just ran away in self defense because she was crazy and abusing him and using the police report as evidence. Several men were defending his behavior and how it was totally valid self preservation abandoning her and not helping the police or family find her. Other men were saying maybe he wasn't speaking to police to protect her because maybe she asked him not to lmao I've also seen several of them sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:43 PM
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I've read comments on the crime subreddits that maybe BL left Gabby in the woods to die in self defence because she was abusing him and was mentally unstable and using the police report as evidence. Many were playing the "devils advocate" and "let's keep to facts".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:51 AM
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When I was a young pickmeisha I used to admire the nomadic lifestyle and the van life hiker traveler guys. As I grew out of it I realize these are some of the biggest scrotes and leeches. I think there's ways of being nomadic without leeching but most are leeches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:04 PM
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Aren't there rumours that Will Smith has/has had a mistress too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:49 PM
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I think at this point they're together just because they're a brand and probably think they make more money with their joint ventures and brand power than having to split everything and go through a tiring divorce and splitting the assets and etc. Still pick me though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:45 PM
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I get what you mean. But for some women on the beginning of their journey reading about LVM behavior with examples can be part of the learning process of detecting it and preventing. I understand that empowering content is the most important so that we can uplift each other but don't mind some exposing and calling out of scrote behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:16 PM
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Let the trash take out itself. Celebrate you're free from a NV scrote. Good luck. It gets better I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:57 PM
25

This! I was also on an abusive relationship many years ago and the NVM also flipped out when I snooped and found what he was doing behind my back and cheating and made it all about me being controlling and snooping. Also I was single for many years and I'm now in a relationship with a man that so far has shown to be a HVM and I never felt the need to snoop. Same with another last HV relationship I had. It's typical deflection tactic from abusers and cheaters to make it all about the snooping to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:56 PM
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Yeah he kept her around for free bangmaid services and company while he looks for other women. As soon as he found someone he'd either cheat or dump her. It was a blessing in disguise she found out he was using her so that she could break up with the scrote before being too late. And I suspect he'll try to get back with her again if he doesn't get success in getting women while single. We see this all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:50 PM
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Men do it all the time. You find out they're cheating or outright disrespect you by snooping and they deflect and make it all about the snooping and not what they actually did. It's typical reflection tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:43 PM
24

They're watching too much porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:52 PM
52

And they're not even married (but even if they were) and going 50/50 then why is he mad she has her own money? Wtf makes no sense and sounds like a controlling abusive scrote. Financial infidelity? I call it more financial abuse from his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:48 AM
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It looks like financial abuse. Why is he mad his girlfriend is financially smart and has savings? Controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:33 AM
96

Hence why I never understood why some women think that it's a sign they're meant to be when it's an on off relationship. I've seen women saying "oh, he always comes back, it means he loves me and we're meant to be". But if he really loved them and was meant for them, he'd never leave in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:22 PM
6

They don't need communication because they know fully well they're doing things that hurt us, they just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:19 PM
7

Exactly. And men who need you to "communicate" when they knowingly do things that hurt you won't change no matter how many times you cOmMuNiCaTe. They know, they just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:18 PM
125

I was in a relationship with an abuser and though I was in college and not working, that NVM hated that I was in college as that meant my way to financial independence. He'd do everything to sabotage college. Also pretended like he was very sick and needed immediate help whenever I had important exams or was socializing with my college friends. This is classic manipulative abuser behavior. I hope she finds a way of leaving him ASAP but she needs to do it safely as this man seems dangerous and un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:10 PM
101

Yes wtf is wrong with his dad that he thinks women shouldn't go to work when their husband is sick? He had throat issues, not hand issues, so he can perfectly fix things himself and leave his wife the F alone while at work. it really looks like an abuser who can't stand the idea of his wife being out of his reach and control making money which contributes to her independence and then has to play mind games to make her feel guilty for not being 24/7 under his control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:07 PM
37

She needs to leave this useless scrote ASAP! With such parents that coddle him like that no wonder he's like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:05 PM
9

This is valuable advice! I once left an emotional abusive man and made the mistake of meeting him alone after I broke up with him. He hit me and tried to prevent me from leaving. God knows else he could have done to me had I not managed to run away. He held the fact that he had my belongings and didn't want to give them to me over my head. And also cried on the phone that he wanted to explain himself and get another chance with me and promised no more lies and no more stealing my money. They'll …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:18 PM
72

My kink is to be provided and getting gifts from men. Also good sex with good dick from non manlet men. Hope scrotes and pick mes don't kink shame me then. On a serious note: if a man gets off in misogyny behavior he's a misogynist and can't hide behind the excuse of being sexual kink. If a man has racist kinks he's a racist. And if a man has rape kinks then he's a rapist. If he gets off on abusing women he's an abuser, it doesn't matter that it's just in the bedroom (it almost never is just in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:48 PM
53

These comments excusing the porn addict scrote and putting blame and responsibility on her plus the good ol "just communicate" are so enfuriating but not at all surprising! Yes let's coddle men that get off on the abuse and rape of women on camera and keep doing it even knowing it hurts their partner and risks them leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:40 PM
2

Time is of essence in any murder investigation (and even more if the victim is alive and kidnapped). On true crime the murderer always try to make believe the victim just ran away and the police often falls for it. It's very important to keep contact with family and friends frequently giving them tabs on our location. Have a trusted family member or friend as an emergency contact. On certain phones you can click on a button 2 or 3 times and it automatically records and takes pictures and sends y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:41 PM
8

I read some where that one og the main causes of death for pregnant women was murder (by their partner). It's terrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:05 PM
17

Even if he didnt kill her it's possible he's following red pill advice of self preservation due to boyfriends and husbands always being the prime suspects. They always say to lawyer up and dont speak without a lawyer. Regardless even if hes not involved he's a disgusting scrote for not cooperating with the Police and help find her. But I'd bet he did something to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:59 PM
7

This man is crazy! What a psycho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:08 AM
30

Totally agree. It's all or nothing. Either he's consistently displaying HV behavior or he's out the door and doesn't get our attention anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:12 PM
56

This! I'm in a relationship with a man that keeps being HV and court me daily so far but noticed in the past that most men will suddenly get lazy and sloppy when they see they got you in the bag (relationship or situationship). If a man does this it won't ever get better and he's showing us how a relationship will be with them and probably getting even lazier and taking us even more for granted as the time passes. I also think that's what happened with this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:10 PM
7

I'm not a fan of texting relationships and prefer to leave the conversations to in person dates and not talk over text besides planning the dates by text and good night and good morning texts. I also can't reply right away if I'm working, then people have to wait 2 or 3 times until I get the time to read and reply. However if you have a pattern of texting with someone, then them suddenly not texting anymore is not about being busy but instead a shift in priorities or approach. No one is that bus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:06 PM
155

Hes a future predator or murderer. She has to leave now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:30 PM
17

This and photos with random children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:14 AM
2

Hei! Can you also send me the link? I'd love to listen to our queens on the conference and of course Gail and the rest of the panel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:00 PM
5

What is a PA?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:56 PM
51

Went on a couple coffee dates and bar dates (🤡🤡🤡) where the scrote came first, sat and ordered for him and never even asked me if I wanted anything, much less pay. Also went on a date once where he took me to a questionable kebab place (🤡🤡🤡) ordered the cheapest item on the menu without asking me what I wanted and not even ordering drinks or anything and being all proud that he paid for the meal ending the date with the audacity of suggesting a second date at his place because he's not very much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:46 PM
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Some redflags I witnessed in relationships or dates: - Not helping me carrying heavy things seeing I'm having a hard time with it - "All my exes were evil" and variations - Still resentful of one or more exes - Following instamodels - Into BDSM - "Porn is empowering for women" / "watching porn together is a great way of spicing up the relationship" - Only available to talk during "work time" and going MIA after 5pm - Thinking women have it easy just because women get more matches on tinder/men i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:40 PM
22

You're right. We need to be very careful. We never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:17 AM
39

Wow! I hope i can find that post. It sounds delicious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:42 AM
75

Even if you take nudes just for yourself you can lose your phone or take it to reparation and some creep can then get your nudes. Or the phone can be hacked. I know I might sound paranoid and this might be a rare event but I think taking nudes in general is always risky business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:31 AM
165

This actually smells like "pOLy" relationship with the use of "we".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:50 PM
43

Wtf is going on with all these bangmaid house renting ads??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:48 PM
25

Yet they'll only reveal they won't pay/want to go halfsies when we're already on the date and the check has come . Then they put us in this awkward situation. But granted they won't get a second date. They should regardless say beforehand they won't pay so we don't waste our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:51 AM
40

Can they procreate and have the child on their womb 50/50 and do exactly 50/50 of the child rearing? Do they have to take pills and handle the secondary effects in order not to procreate? So then shut the f up Steve and pay for the pleasure of our company and courting us to show you're more worthy than the other candidates. Plus it's basic etiquette that when you invite someone (date or same sex friend) you pay and if you invite but can't pay you have to tell beforehand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:48 AM
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"Breed sheep on Minecraft" - I laughed so hard a coworker came in checking what was going on 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:43 AM
1

Which show is that with this Kim and Pam?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:41 PM
13

I think they're doing this to get girls to have sex and since they don't get matches on the dating side, they try that BS on the friendship one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:10 AM
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