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QUEEN SH*TxScarWintersx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:04 AM
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QUEEN SH*TxScarWintersx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:04 AM
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It's the same way how girls will film a guy fully harassing them and people are in the comment section like 'but why do you have to film him?' 'If it was the other way around, all you FeMaLes would be crucifying the guy for filming her" 'what about consent? Lol I guess it only exists for women' but then similarly there's videos of women talking about their experiences with SA/Rape etc, and people have no shame to ask for proof and call her a liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:05 AM
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I think by now most of us have seen that depraved video, that I'm pretty sure is still lurking in YouTube to this day of a guy literally grabbing a fish forcing it to suck his D 🤢🤢🤢 So yes, men would literally fuk a sandwich so please do not take their objectification and sexualisation of you as a women as a compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:39 AM
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Yeah i saw a documentary of Chinese men travelling to pakistan and going to pakistani Christian women and lying saying that they ate Christians and they are very wealthy and can provide for them and their families and they will have amazing comfortable lives in China and convince the girl into dating/marrying them and also parents into letting her go to China and then they would take the women and sell them into human/sex trafficking in China because apparently in places like china and Dubai, Pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:32 AM
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I think its because we are constantly told that we'll regret this or that and so we never trust out own desires or opinions. Because for a women it's always 'what if'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:27 AM
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It explains why we always have that stupid trope of body swapping in movies. Like whyvare they so obsessed with body swapping. I would rather jump off a cliff than wake up in the body of a man but what do they do, they wake up in someone else's and begin to violate it even though it's also kind their own body. I can't remember where I saw it but i remember reading comments from men saying that if the woke up in a womens body they would essentially spend all day masturbating because it's A WOMEN!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:19 AM
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Yeah I've seen a few tiktoks of women showing all the precautions that we have to take and every video always has comments like 'lol it's not that deep, you all like to make yourselves feel paranoid', 'you're not that in danger, just calm down #notallmen, 'did you know that insert random fake statistic_% of men are more like to.be assaulted than women, lol you don't have to worry about getting violently attacked or robbed, WE DO! You only have to worry about rape'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:13 AM
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I saw one about a women's only train carriage in Mexico (?) A while ago on reddit and some deranged freaks really were upset that high levels of sexual violence towards womna results in governments needing women's only sections in public spaces and that it's WRONG to separate the sexes. Same thing with a tiktok of this women who lives in Dubai showing how in some (not sure if all) Dubai (grocery) stores have completely separate entrances and sections for women and children so that they can shop …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:06 AM
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I saw men on tiktok complaining about SEGREGATION because women on tiktok started advocating for more women only gyms and began forming them and going to them after numerous (please note; NUMEROUS) videos of women exposing men for harassing them at the gym were posted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:58 AM
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Don't you know? Men can't wash their asses, it's GAY! If you touch anywhere near your lower regions - (But not the penis, a manly man always fondles his dingleberry)- then you are gay for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:50 AM
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He can't handle the fact that she's waaaay out of his league and he would need a jetpack to get to where she's at 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:38 AM
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Exactly, and how would you raise children in a condo!?! He makes it sound like she's ridiculous for being practical and wanting an actual house where they can have enough room to live comfortable in rather than a damn condo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:37 AM
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This guy is delusion. If you're 29-30, you should be financially stable. Simple as. You're a whole ass adult and you have no money. The story is also fishy and lacks details so he clearly is leaving bits out from her side to make himself out to be the poor abused man who gets financially used and abused by W0mEn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:34 AM
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Thank you! I'm 23 and every girl I know in my age group only dates/is interested in guys our own age. Older guys are not 'attractive' cuz their old and young guys...its just very weird when you're in your twenties because even though a 19 year is legal, it just feels wrong and you are in very different phases in life, so that's a no go. Like you said, this notion that college age or heck even teenage girls, find older men attractive is a farse to.make pedophlic older men feel better about themse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:29 AM
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This man did not just complain about the fact that he had to SPEND TIME TO BOND WITH HIS KID🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:18 AM
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Exactly and even if you are and educated smart woman who understands that these men ain't shit and that you won't pit up with it, you suffer from social isolation from family, friends and the community in general. Also the immense pressure that us south asian girls face from our parents is almost inescapable. They will neat you down mentally until you feel like you should find the first guy who seems nice enough to not beat you and make your life a living hell, just to get the pressure of marria…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:13 AM
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Stuff like this is what absolutely terrifies me. To know that you could be in such a vulnerable state and someone is literally assault you and a group of people just stands there and watches without helping you. It's despicable. It's like the scene in squid game when sae-byeok is getting best by the tatted guy and everyone just stood in a circle watching and offering live sound effects like this it's 90s tv sitcom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:05 AM
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Before I got to the bottom, he was speaking as if they were +40 years old. NOT ONLY 9 YEARS OLDER THAN THE PHOTOS! How is 29 so drastically difference from 20? He's saying he missed her hot years. Like how? She's still in her 20s and even if she wasn't, it's disgusting that he so openly disrespects her and calls her ugly 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:53 AM
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What the heck did I just watch....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:52 AM
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Im sorry if you don't believe that but it is. At the end of the day, if they are being fed information like that, then it will inadvertently affect women because they are quite literally being programmed to believe they need sex, and that any way that they can get it is justified since it's 'biology'. This is one one of the reasons why men are absuers/rapists because they feel entitled to a women's body. If we don't acknowledge this, then we will never be able to tackle sexual violence against w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:06 AM
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What are you talking about? I only stated that you seem I capable of understand that there are to sides to this. I'm not defending anyone, you are the one who initially countered my first comment when I simply pointed out that the normalisation of the notion that men require sex is determintal to youth epseiclalu young boys because they are having this 'fact' reinforced in their minds from such a young age and this cements sexist notions regarding women and men's 'right' to have access to sex fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:48 PM
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What you don't understand is that IT IS HARMFUL TO BOYS. My focus is not only little boys and not girls, I am perfectly aware of how this is detrimental to young girls, but you cannot ignore that it does not affects boys as well. FDS is not about hating the entire male species. It's about unravelling internalized misogny and socialization that has resulted in the patriarchal and anti-woman culture that our global society now exists within.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:53 PM
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Please, I'm British! And this is not what deadpan jokes are like at all. We may say, 'oh don't get full of yourself/think highly of yourself' but it's usually in a lighthearted voice and with a smile/laugh. He has no humour in his voice at all. He's completely serious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:50 PM
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I understand that, but we shouldn't forget that they are perpetuating this behaviour by reinforcing it in the minds of young impressionable kids. Yeah young boys are shits but they are further being socialised by seeing other, older males that they view as role models presenting this behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:28 AM
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Apparently it's sexist. They all were screaming and crying on tiktok when loads of women began to advocate for, (and some even opened up) women's only gyms. They were spamming all the comments sections of all the women who wanted them and/or created them crying that 'it's SegReGatioN!'. Lmao, as if that's a bad thing. I want to be segregated from men, I am sick and tired of women having to exist in male only spaces where we are not welcome and not respected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:00 AM
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There's a misconception that communism is about equality when it's not. Communism requires the existence of the nuclear family (which is inherently linked to the patriarchy and capitalism) as a means to control the population. The use the family unit as a way of emotional manipulating people into doing what the state wants. Communism and capitalism are essentially the same but on different sides of the political spectrum. With communism, EVERYTHING belongs to the state. The concept of a classles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:39 AM
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The way he's looking her?? He's looking at her with pure disdain! He didnt flinch once when he began insulting her, everything he said if true and he knows he can outright say that because she's so deep in denial that she will accept that at his affirmations of love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:56 AM
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If he's so damn picky, then he should cook for himself! This poor girl sounds so mentally drained, she needs to drop him is useless ass ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:31 AM
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Let's not forget the spaghetti legs 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:06 AM
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I've noticed that too! They has a group have really let themselves go! They have no pride in their masculinity anymore but yet want women to treat them like they are Men. So many guys nowadays even in their 20s dont even brush their teeth, shower regularly, don't even clean their asses properly. It's just disgusting. No wonder women are increasingly becoming abhorred by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:05 AM
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Lol, to be honest I like being S.Asian but most south asian guys are an absolute joke. Super mysgynistic, useless, can't even book an egg, etc. Their mum's clearly suffer from Oedipus complexes from the way they latch on to their sons, I have a cousin who got married and his parents wouldn't even let him move in with his WIFE, instead he visits his wife like he's going over to his GF house and then goes home at night. I never said this to her, bit obvious never imagine living like a drive throug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:01 AM
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Exactly! Men seem to think that only women age and that they're all out here walking around looking like George Clooney when they are 60/70 but really and truly, most men's prime time of attractiveness is their 20s (only some look good after +30 years). They all project onto women but due to societal pressures most women have to look after their bodies/skin so women tend to age better/look very attractive even after their 20s. It's why I never understood the whole dadbod thing. Why do you find t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:56 AM
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Exactly! He's complaining now like he can't get out of it and she's pulling his leg, when he clearly agreed to it prior. There's nothing wrong not being able to afford something but he could.. i don't know CoMmuNiCaTe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:30 AM
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I hate this stupid concept of the first date of you scoping out a potential partner so don't go above and beyond. FIRSG IMPRESSIONS MATTER. I completely understand if he can't afford a expensive resturant, and yes he could negotiate a new venue but the advice he is receive for this 'good Samaritans' is appalling! But there are plenty of great restaurants that's are affordable and have great decor and food. Also, I hate that they are convincing him that she's after a free meal, if she has a highe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:27 AM
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I never understood men's panicky disposition for being single. They act like they're going to die if they haven't got a partner! They're supposedly fighting tooth and nail for a message, like this isn't hungry games. It's a bleeding dating app, it's not life or death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:19 AM
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Thank you! You articulated this in a way I could never! There's nothing wrong with treating your spouse well and it's cute that they would become attached to your mannerisms BUT in this case, he's a manchild having a hissy fit that his GF didn't pack his lunch properly, as if he doesn't have hands and could do it himself. It's her pick me attitude paired with his entitlement that ruins this! And you are absolutely correct, girls are out here giving wifey privileges to mere boyfriends and guy fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:15 AM
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Libfem is plagued by pick me politics and scrotism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:50 AM
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It really irks me that scrotescience has become so popular/overused to the point that it holds agency in society BECAUSE PEOPLE GENUINELY BELIEVE IT. It's so damaging for everyone including the young boys who see older guys throwing around their bullshit science facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:49 AM
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Exactly! They love to complain but never actually try to fix their behaviour, feelings, situation or problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:37 AM
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Is that the bed frame against the wall??? If you have a functioning bed frame why wouldn't you use it? Instead he decided to put his mattress on the bare floor? 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:19 AM
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Lol the guys face when he said women are healthier and better leaders. He looked pissed 💀😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:59 PM
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S/ Yes, just hand us out like Christmas presents. It's not like we are human beings or anything. Sex and a relationship will definitely stop the indoctrination of men into incels and women killers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:36 PM
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This is the cold hard truth. Pick me's are complicit in maintaining the systems of oppression in which we exist. They bend over backwards for men (knowingly) and then will complain and whine about how men always do them dirty but never actually do anything about it and then when another guy even breathes near them, they're back to bending over again. My own grandmother acts likes this and no matter what hppeens or ehat anyone says, she will never learn because she doesn't care. She sits around s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:56 PM
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I can't stop imagining how badly his FINGERS must smell. Like does she HOLD his hand because...that couldn't be me 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:53 AM
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I wouldn't even want to pass him by on he street
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:52 AM
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LMAO, I can't believe i have lived to see the day people call cannibalism a kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:48 AM
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As a non drinker, I genuinely don't understand why people think that if you've never drank you are not fun and have never let go or let loose. I find it quite insulting that you believe that to have fun or relax, you need to have alcohol involved. Also, the comments basically calling for the dude to sexual coherse his s/o are vile. Why do men assume Sex always has to "level up'. This isn't a video game. If the sex is good already and she clearly doesn't want to introduce anything new nor likes a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:38 AM
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That's pure narcissism jumping out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:22 AM
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Tbh from what I have gathered, a lot of people have confused breathe play with full on strangling and choking their partners and that's the problem. Breathe play if done correctly is ok and pretty 'gentle' but porn has fucked with propels heads so badly that they think being physically abusive and violent to their partner is 'kinky' or bdsm when it's just unadulterated physical abuse not anything kinky. Beating your s/o till they are black and blue and strangling them to the point that you are a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:29 AM
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The 500 a month is probably, a majority of the parking fees he is counting. Let's say he meets her once a week x by 4 weeks = $320 already. Also I love how he's making it sound like this has been going on for a while. You've literally only been seeing each other for a month! 500 from that month taken from his 80k a year, (without taking in consideration any other expenses he spent on in that month) still gives him around 6k to play around with and pay for bills and other expenses, every month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:59 AM
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You shouldn't be dating or getting married if you are not 'mature' enough. Relationships are a responsibility for both parties in which you need to mentally capable of taking on. You need to be 'mature' enough to understand that shouting and abusing someone isn't right. You have to be 'mature' enough me understand how to communicate your feelings and thoughts. You need to be 'mature' enough to understand that once in a relationship, it is your responsibility to maintain said relationship and to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:32 PM
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LMAO, how about...No. Men's haircuts cost no more than £10 (in the UK). It also costs a lot more to exist as a women because we are ' required'and socialised to groom ourselves to be 'presentable' at all costs. We as expected to spend more to fit societal values of what a woman should look like whereas men can quite literally rock up to events in week old shirts and jeans and no one bats an eye at them but God forbid if a women doesn't come in looking like she's about to attend the met gala then…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:27 PM
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A drive by compliment.....you mean catcalling? LMAO is this what guys are doing now?? Thinking they can change up the wording and add some flowery language to 'hide' the fact that they are indeed catcalling you. Also, getting a random compliment whether vulgar or strange but a strange man in public is not something to be thankful. How about in public, we mind our business and not speak out of turn to people who we have no association with? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:13 AM
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Love how they're trying to call her our but when women are having a hard time or going through something like that, men turn and run for the hills and never look back. I mean look at the statistics of how many men leave or cheat on their wives when they are sick/get cancer. There's a great post on here (somewhere in the tags) and if I remember correctly it was like 80% of men abandon (either divorce, leave or cheat) their wives when they get diagnosed with illness such as cancer, to the point th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:21 PM
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I'm doing a history degree and when the Aristotle fans come out is when my soul leaves my body...I can relate to this on a spiritual level, these dudes are EVERYWHERE...Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:55 AM
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LMAO what's winter got to do with anything?😂😂😂 Go pay your heating bill and stop trying to place the brunt of your seasonal depression on someone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:59 PM
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Nothing you said was hate speech at all! They're just trying to silence women who are finally speaking out on blatant issues in society that affects us because they don't want to be called out on their BS and passiveness. They definitely banned to because they saw you were following FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:54 PM
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Yeah it's very strange. Some men have a really creepy and irrational hatred for cats...I always took hatred for animals, especially cats as a sign that a person is not a 'good' person or rather as a red flag because why would you HATE an animal for apparent reason...??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:21 PM
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Abuse if animals especially when younger is a sign if psychopathy/psychotic tendencies. It's very commonly seen in serial killers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:17 PM
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Bats, you can keep in your house and what not and probably your car but things like knives and stuff, if you get caught with one, you'll be huge trouble. Knive crime is a HUGE problem over here in the UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:58 AM
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Nope, counts as a dangerous weapon. You can even get in trouble by the police, at least in the UK, if they stop you and you have a pair of scissors on you. Obviously if you have a reason they're not exactly going to arrest you but they are allowed to question as to why you're walking around with scissors since they can inflict bodily harm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:57 AM
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I just checked this and found out my email was leaked in two days breaches! So I just spent the last 2 hours changing all my passwords!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:51 AM
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When i found our there was hijabi porn, I was disgusted. women wear the hijab to feel closer to God, like nuns wear their veils and habbots and to think there are sick freaks making porn of religious figures is disgusting. There's even nun porn. They will find a way to sexualise ANYTHING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:35 AM
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Yeah I've also noticed if you walk in a confident manner; head up, shoulders back, fast paced as if you've got shit to do and you don' have time to stop for anyone or dont have time to walk slowly like you have all day (but not dont look rushed as in scared or anything), they kind of just leave you alone. Atleast more so than like how you mentioned above. It's so true, they're terrified of strong, intelligent, independent and confident women who know they are the shit because you're a harder tar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:30 AM
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Dude as a Muslim woman, men even sexualized the abayah (which is the long black dress that Muslim women wear, usually to pray or sometimes as fashion)....There is now escaping it. It's honestly vile and disgusting and just sad that we can't even exist without being sexualized. Men have sexualized nuns! They even get turned on from women breathing because seeing her chest move up and down as her lungs bring in oxygen and take out carbon dioxide is somehow sexy! Like we can't even breath without s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:25 AM
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I hate hate when they use that. They almost always date outside of the religion and actively shit on on Muslim women and make fun of us for just existing but then turn around when they to 'settle down and suddenly they've always admired and loved 'strong Muslim women'....like stfu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:11 AM
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LMAO, Muslim men take the piss tbh. They fuck around with everyone under the sun even non muslims but us Muslim women can't like someone who isn't Muslim. They benefit from their individual cultures which tend to be misogynistic allow them to commit all sorts of wrongs even ones which unforgivable in the eyes of God and everyone just turns the other cheek but if a Muslim women breathes, we are labelled hoes, non believers, etc. On the plus side, it's refreshing to see that a lot of Muslim women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:09 AM
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I never understood this. The whole point of a date IS to see if you like the person and want to continue seeing them! Even the interview analogy entails that you would be a more 'formal' or professional setting since you don't know each other well enough to meet in a casual setting such as a coffee shop and also because you are trying to show your best self off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:39 AM
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Yeah we even have an app!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:34 AM
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Yeah even some sub reddits I used to enjoy a year ago have died down or have become cesspits of all sorts of racism, misogyny, antisemitism, islamophobia, etc. Reddit is really going downhill. I 'll guessing it's linked to their blatant tolerance of extremist/degenerate subs and mods no longer being able to handle the weeding out of seriously alarming posts. It's kind of turning into what 4chan was back in around 2012-14. When they were having issues with actual school shooters, terrorists, etc …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:34 AM
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Yeah all of those subs even the banned ones have other adjacent subs that are essentially bunkers so when they get banned they all just move on to the next sub and so on so forth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:18 AM
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Yeah I also hate this pressure that we have to put it out and if we don't We DoNt TrUsT THeM. Woman and people in general have the right to decide whether or not they want to have sex and when! Sex does not ultimately determine whether someone loves or trusts you. She's not a prude for wanting to wait till marriage and she's not a slut for wanting to have sex earlier on in the relationship! You can't win. You're either a thot or a prude so just do you. Do what makes you comfortable and if anyone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:19 AM
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Why is a 34 man taking in the same mannerisms as as a 16 year old fuckboy on tiktok?....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:11 AM
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There are perfectly healthy 50 year old women giving birth without problem. I feel like the whole body clock thing for a women is hyper exaggerate to be women into settling and getting married earlier to lvm because they feel like of they don't snag the first guy to show attention/desire to wife them, then they'll be failures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:09 AM
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They're just mad that actual men of value are showing them up and they don't want to called out on their BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:44 AM
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That sounds amazing!. I personally love stuff like that! and there is nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is when you can tell the guy doesn't want to get to know you, it feels like he came up with the idea 10 minutes ago. E.g. a walk in the park. There is no real effort in the date itself. A lot of dating nowadays isn't even dating any more. It feels like guys have confused wanting sex with a date. Or rather they use people's desire to be courted as a means to gain access to easy sex. A lot …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:03 AM
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Men claim women are the gold diggers but they're the ones on social media demanding their girlfriends buy them the new PS5 whereas they are the ones rpckomg up on anniversaries/birthdays and Christmas with discounted flowers and a shitty present the got off of the clearance aisle for no more than £10. And not to mention, the woman will most likely never use the ps5 which he'll just stay on 24/7, rotting away like a crusty slice of toast whilst she carries the entire relationship on her back with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:15 AM
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Exactly! No one said a coffee date was bad or shows that a guy is a waste of time/not good for you. However, coffee dates and more casual dates are like you said for established spouses in exclusive relationships. NOT for first dates, second dates, third dates, etc. A walk in the park is a cute thing you do in the morning with your spouse not a potential boyfriend. The first few months or before you are exclusive and he has been vetted extensively is for you to see if he would be a good s/o, whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:55 AM
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Tiktok picked it up and although people have the general gist of the term down, they use it completely wrong. I've actually seen a lot of FDS terms being used on Tiktok and I wouldn't mind if they were used correctly but they're not unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:36 AM
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Yeah you're 20s are that age range where you are still young and 'naive' but you are no longer considered a child despite that fact that you're frontal lobe is still in development until the age of 25. So you're exposed to the adults whilst also being young and fresh mentally and otherwise. Tbh age gaps over over 4 years on each side are kind of 'wrong' wlor weird for lack of better term and should be avoided. For example, at 20, what would have in common with a 25 year old?, you are in complete…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:45 AM
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The quarantine beards 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:03 AM
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Yeah and also who started the trend of dadbods being hot? Because there is a difference between Jason mamoa dadbods and greasy, beer belly, unmoisturised men who have a receeding hairline and man boobs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:02 AM
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Yeah if the subreddit gets shut down, we can all just migrate to the discord server and the website. I do hope it doesn't though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:58 AM
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I actually am actively trying to do this because it genuinely sounds so stupid. It never sat right with me that we have DOCTORS and then female/women doctors, etc. I understand if you are specifying something like asking can you be seen by a FEMALE doctor but in a general context it's stupid that woman and never seen as equal to men in anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:51 AM
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Lmao he's your be not your husband. I can 100% guarantee you that it's it's name on the deed and not hers. She played herself with thinking that him getting a house would benefit her in any way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:09 AM
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Being an athlete doesn't make you inherently attractive...😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:02 AM
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Exactly. How are you sleep deprived when all you do is work and come home and sleep???? You clearly don't take care of your child or help your wife out with chores and other task so how can you possibly be deprived of sleep?? Wouldn't you're wife be the sleep deprived one? And secondly I cannot fathom how someone can stand there and call a CHILD that they helped create an ASSHOLE for crying. Like wtf. If you hate your wife and kid that much do them a favour and pack your shit and never come back…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:18 AM
12

If you don't want to pay for dates, here's a great idea...DON'T ASK PEOPLE OUT ON DATES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:01 AM
12

Lmao go complain about women not paying for dates once the wage gap is eradicated and men start pulling their own weight around for once instead of relying on women to do everything, including maintaining a household; childfree or otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:59 AM
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Yeah I think it's a deep rooted resentment at the fact that in comparison to women, there really is no real reason or purpose to a man's life.. they have very little to no actually effect on anything. Women have the ability to and have essentlaiiky created humanity. They don't have any power or purpose that equates to that and so, the created a world such as the one we exist in today to make up for their fragile egos and to feel like they have power or control over something but women still pers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:55 AM
5

First of all. Saying that 'you would still be single if your wife hadn't approach first IS NOT A COMPLIMENT. You are literally saying that if you had the 'choice' or rather weren't a lazy mf and had your way you would be single and you're wife was not you're first choice or even you're second choice and that you're only with her out of convenience since you know, she did all the work for you and you got a free mommy maid sex slave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:08 PM
4

Unfortunately some countries such as in Europe, not only are guns illegal but also pepper spray. For European women I would suggest keeping an aluminium bat handy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:03 PM
5

Yeah my dad always told me to close the door after myself when going to throw out stuff. Why, because people will slip in when they see your door open whilst your back is turned and then the hide and wait for you to come in. And then threaten you with weapons and Rob you (maybe even more than that. My dad was involved with csi work so I don't think he would like about that tbh)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:59 PM
12

Lol the same way there are legit 50 year old men walking around on this earth thinking women can choose to switch their periods on and off. Like we only bleed for a minute or some ish 😂 I heard from this one girl that her 60 yr old boss who is a grandfather thought women could switch on and off the urge to pee 😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:53 PM
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Divorce rates may be going down but let's not forget how common it is for young couples to be +5 year relationships. People need to understand that just because he hasn't popped the question or anything doesn't mean he isn't reaping the benefits of having a wife. Take tiktok for example, most of the couples on there have been to dating for +6 years. A really popular one for 10. The only issue I have with this is that, I just can't image dating someone for 10 years and not even be engaged. That's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:47 PM
9

Yeah I unfollowed recently after boycotting it for a year because honestly, that sub is fucked up that everytime I even glance at it I can feel an aneurysm forming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:35 PM
6

Exactly! You won't die without sex! It's not that serious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:36 PM
12

Maslow's hierarchy of needs for physiological needs is: food, water, warmth and rest as that is the basic needs of a human being. Sex is linked with intimate relationships in the 3rd tier who is love and belonging which is a psychological need. Also why is sex at the bottom and sexual intimacy in separate from that? Sex is an intimate act, you're literally naked, between each other's legs. It's sad that men out here have conivince themselves that not only is sex a required need for survival (not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:35 PM
8

That's what it sounds like...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:40 PM
20

If it's not made of metal what is it made out of?? And rhinestones for an engagement ring, really? It sound like it's made of plastic or papermache 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:39 PM
1

Excuse me wait. Is they've been together for 15 years that means she was 19 and he was 37 when they began seeing each other ???????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:04 PM
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That's what grossed me out. He's old enough to be her dad. That's the same age difference as me and my own father so he's literally role-playing that's hes sleeping with his actually daughter 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:20 PM
24

This is why I love women only gyms and why there should be more available
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:44 PM
2

Kitchen towel doesn't cost that much for a multi pack...how are you out here sobbing like he just paid off your student debt????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:18 PM
4

Not sure. He might be a foreign speaker or just an idiot trying to act learned. Same way how he used Stigmata instead of stigma which is a completely unrelated term. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:26 PM
7

Yep. Just you're typical fake philospher trying to act like he's highly educated by using academic phraseology to hide the fact that he's sexist and doesn't know what he's talking about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:23 PM
4

LMAO let's not forget if all SAHM did was go out shopping and hanging out with mates all day, it would come out for their cards and then they would have a bitch fit over the stay at home parent for wasting their money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:21 PM
22

I think we should definitely use 'I know right!' more frequently. Although I use thank you as genuinely humble response. Occasionally, especially if it's a guy saying that (and one I do not know personally) I always try to actively respond with 'I know right'. One it's a great confidence boost for you to acknowledge that you ARE something positive but negs hate itband don't knoenhos to respond because they were hoping you're insecure and would use self depreciation to deflect the compliment beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:00 AM
3

I love LM! It's sad that their talent isn't as recognised outside of the UK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:08 PM
6

Umm who's going to tell her that that's not how communism works...😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:05 PM
5

Yeah my dad had this issue, as a single dad when my younger sisters had to go to the bathroom, he had nowhere to take them. So me and my sister had to always go with her to the women's bathrooms or he had to go with her to the disabled/handicap toilets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:02 PM
2

As an asian myself I know what it feels like to be isolated or to be treated differently but honestly the only thing I can say is not let it get to you. The people who judge you are close minded and ignorant and I have had the same thing happen to me. Just brush it off. They like knowing that they make you upset and angry, so act like you're the baddest bitch there is. I have always been more alternative and adrodhynous with my fashion and always dye my hair crazy colours. Yeah, I'm not going to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:02 PM
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Same my dad is 5'6 and he's never felt insecure about it. When I talk about guys getting pissy about their height he was quite disgusted but tbh he works in the public sector so he encounters a lot of scrotes and let's just say he's very anti-man sometimes 😂 Though I think that may be because he's had to see men from the point of view of a father of 4 daughters his whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:44 PM
3

Thank for the reply and all the information! Its been very helpful and raised some issues that i never thoguht to look into. I will be sure to get checked by my doctor as my mother suffered from hyperthyroidism and even had to get surgery to have it removed so I was always worried about the possibility of having it as well. Also with regards to bloating. I think we just get pushed this unrealistic image that our stomachs are meant to be comlpletely paper flat all the time that it is ingrained in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:59 AM
2

Thank you for this! Also I hope I was making sense, I wrote my comment at 4am so sorry if it was a bit non sensical 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:50 AM
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I think the reason why it sounds fake is because the conversations taking place sound completely unrelated to each other. But even if it is fake it a glaringly accurate representation of what women face in male dominated sectors or just in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:17 PM
5

My body had always been a slight problem for me because I'm not going lie I'm not as active I used to be. I went from (teen years) being moderately accurate doing martial arts 6 hours a week and also football to light exercise/sedentary and just kind of sitting a lot due to exams and stuff, but I do go outside daily and walk for about 30 mins and try to do atleast 2 sets of 30 sit ups (as of the past couple of week) so I'm.guessing this would count as light exercise right? My stomach bloates up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:04 AM
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It's looks good!! Definitely going to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:04 AM
6

British desi men are a complete waste of time. They are all l/zvm who want the girl to be well educated, attractive, fit, good job but also a a submissive house and trophy wife. UK dating pool has been poisoned by OLD and PickMe's. I don't know if before I just didn't notice the sheer amount of pickme culture in our fellow UK women (not all of them of course) but it's BAD. They are out here accepting scraps... like below the bare minimum and they're ok with it. Also UK men love to verbally/emoti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:08 AM
3

LMAO, if an apocalyptic war took place, who the frick do they thunk is going to be available or willing to not only continue to produce products for Amazon/Costco and also deliver it?? Also that stock is not eternal, it will run out. So go ahead Kyle, rely on your delivery service, whilst is women will be out here growing whole farms and making cakes and dandelion tea (high is vita A, C and D and good source of iron, calcium and zinc) when you can't even fry an egg properly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:21 AM
3

Yes, I love Qveen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:50 AM
7

Ysah i was reading fhe comment section and it evolved into a bitch fest on how 'dad's are usually the ones who get fucked over with child support' because of the fact that the agreed upon amount and the actual amount their are ordered to pay are different. Like bro...this isn't a damn game. You created a living, breathing human who has needs, it's hard enough being a single parent, it's worse if you have to also fret about whether you can provide a good life for your child as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:49 AM
3

Also side note. What's with guys expecting their girlfriends/ S.O being ok with their friends legit treating them like shit. Like so many guys allow their mates to bully their s/o and will just sit there and laugh. Never understood that level of disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:43 AM
2

Oh honey. This dude is serious. I've heard of and seen plenty of guys whose entire personality is that exact profile...😅😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:40 AM
9

Word of advice; if he can murder his wife of 8 years and two daughters without remorse because he find a new side piece. Then he can easily do that same to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:19 AM
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Would have been better with actual breadcrumbs....only you need is bread and then crumble it. It's honestly not that hard. Also I love how guys think a actual dinner date at a resturant is too intimate and serious for a first date (which are all about first impressions, they are meant to 'serious') but inviting a random girl off of the internet INTO your HOME isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:06 AM
2

Edit: *in depth exploration of her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:26 AM
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I watched an in-depth YouTube exploring on her and she was way more involved in this then she let on and tbh the police should have interrogated more. Her search history was interesting to say the least also if I remember correctly she apparently said to him that she wants to be the one to give him his first son...when his wife was pregnant with his first son and then of course he ends up drugging his wife so she has a miscarriage. I defo think the documentary could have gotten into more depth a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:25 AM
2

Unfortunately in the UK pepper spray is illegal 😑😑 The only thing we can have are rape alarms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:18 PM
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I still can't believe a 32 YEAR OLD man has not yet completed his undergrad and is still living with/being supported by his parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:49 PM
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They can take the time to dissect and overanalyze everything in order.to deflect their blame and responsibilities off of themselves but they can't take 5 minutes to wash the dishes or their teeth or unclog their heads from their asses to realise that washing YOUR ASS is a non-negotiable and necessary step of general hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:55 AM
4

Rick and Eviey are my fav!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:50 AM
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All races/ethnicities have their lvm/nvm. It's about understanding that no one country or race or ethnicity's men are better than the other. Men are men no matter where on earth you are. You just need to find the hvm people that you are looking for. I know that you we should be careful of guys who date, who date outside their race/ethnicity due to fetishisation. You can usually spot that by paying attention to the way the mention/speak about said ex's or nationalities in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:08 AM
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Definitely. It's sad because I've genuinely seen some atrocious behaviour exhibited from black men to black women that I honestly breaks my heart. The only reason why we don't hear much about this with regards to Asian women is because we don't speak about it (at least out mothers and grandmothers didn't). Asian women are taught to just suck it up and we are silenced from a young age. I remember when I was a kid and my grandmother got me in trouble because my spoon was make noise whilst I was sc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:43 AM
2

Exactly, men are men no matter where they are from. Just because you're in the U.S doesn't mean patriarchy and sexual isn't prevalent abroad. The only difference I've noticed is each place they have different ways/tactics to manipulate or neg women. One place may be more aggressive and in order face (very open to showing misogyny) and another place may use single jabs and side remarks to neg sat women. Doesn't mean men from that country or race are better than the former it just means you need t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:50 AM
2

Yeah even recently we had an issue in Pakistan where out the the blue there was a huge wave of chinese men coming over for the sole purpose of marrying pakistani women. Now don't get me wrong, inter-ethnic/national relationships are common place is Asia, especially in areas close to borders however this wave of chinese men marrying Pakistani women caused such a problem as these women SOLD to them. We were literally being abducted and shipped off to china, Cambodia,etc as mail order brides for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:17 PM
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As an asian women, it's fact that asian men dont respect us but they bend over backwards for white girls/white passing latinx, etc, most often than nkt who are all pickmes who hate on u too. they openly praise them, call us ugly or too aggressive (because we have to deal with the pressure of the entire community's bs on our shoulders) and sadly it's because they view white women as easy sex/targets. But then when it's time to settle down, they throw away the white girlfriend who they probably co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:37 PM
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I swear if I saw my kids dumped outside like that, that man would be begging the earth to open up and swallow him up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:52 PM
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I don't understand why people feel the need to shame individuals who don't have the overwheliming desire to be in a relationship, as if they are freaks. It's sad that's it's become the norm for people to assume that you should always be in a relationship and of you are not, then there is something wrong with you. Well sorry Jack but unlike you I don't feel the need to hide my childhood trauma and insecurities behind the mask of relationship. And also, there are plenty of women who are highly sou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:50 PM
3

Your partner going to a strip club is not a 'minor slight' it is a sign if disrespect to you as their s/o and complete disregard to your feelings. Whether you realise it or not, your s/o should not be out here looking at other women, letting alone be hanging eith their buddies in a strip club ogling scantily clad ones. I would go as far as to say it's in par with cheating. Of he's ok with being in sexually compromised situations and openly watch other women's bodies then what else could he do? H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:25 PM
9

He was raised to be a gentleman and would never dirty talk but he's ok with you giving him a strip tease... She needs to return him to the dustbin she pulled.him out of. He's literally using her as a living sex doll but she wants to fix things despite his inability to understand and unwillingness to provide her with the correct stimulation and pleasure she needs and wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:42 PM
2

People need to realise there is more to abuse than just physical abuse. Abuse comes in different shapes and forms. You can be mentally abusive, sexually abused, financially abused, verbally abused, etc. Also, sexual aggression can and most likely is abusive. Also, I'm disgusted at the fact that a grown man made his penis bleed from masturbating too much in ONE WEEK 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:23 AM
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FDS is the only place on this darned site where I never felt nervous or apprehensive to voice my opinion. On other subs like AITA even if I had the searing desire to say something... I never did, or if I did, It felt like I was forcing myself to because I've seen how one person's opinon/comment can result I 100 people jumping on them and attacking them. And I guess I just didn't want to deal with that if someone took a comment of mine the wrong way. This is the one sub where I feel empowered. Ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:15 AM
6

LMAO and people still think that women don't deserve pay for maintaining their households. She's legit running around non stop every hour of the day except at midnight where she is graciously allowed to watch her soap operas for an hour...whoever thinks they demand this from a s/o should honestly going to die alone. That's a slave not a partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:47 AM
3

Wtf kind of clownery did I just read?? You want you s/o to work 23 hours a day and only sleep from 1:30am to 2:30am???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:44 AM
2

Washing shoes for a man who you haven't even had a date with?? LMAO it's the first date 😶😶....what are you doing! Tbh I would even wash my husband's, I would tell him to do it himself. What is up with these women and acting like wives for men they barely know??? Also side note, although I'm pretty bad with cleaning my shoes as well, if a dude pulled up for a date with mud caked shoes I would honestly never see him again. It Shows no genuine interest in you or the date itself, if he couldn't even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:42 AM
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My favourite response is to say a simple 'bye' in the bitchiest tone I can muster up and then turn back to what I was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:50 PM
1

This is why, in the wise words of Judge judy; never have a joint account. Not with your partner, your best friend, your child, your dog, or the damn spider that's been living rent free in the corner of your room. There is no need to have a joint account. I never understood why people conjoined their income. It's your money. If it's due to bills, then each person should be allocated their respected bills to pay. Or rotate monthly on who pays what. I hope she's ok though. I'm glad she's not fallin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:51 AM
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