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16

Wtff, the ring part is so sad. He can't give one ti the woman he "loves" but only if some other dude want to be with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:38 PM
4

Congratulations girl! Si happy for You, one thing: most men out there aint shit so don't get anxious or sad if You don't finde the one right away, You deserve the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:36 PM
1

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:23 PM
26

Lol bot men trying to be mysterious and looking pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:22 PM
71

"Boring"= shr doesnt do what i want her to do, men lack of self awarness so much is pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 11:50 PM
26

He's SO fucking pathetic tf with this scrote ando hus microoscopic penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:35 PM
4

Proud of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 02:35 AM
21

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 02:32 AM
3

Lol never, just waste of time and mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:48 PM
10

Jo of little women but in the original ending
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:29 PM
62

So good ! Looking forward to do the same if one scrote crosses the line, im sick of being good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:27 AM
85

They are the ones that write this society and rules mostly for having privileges. Well privileges comes with responsability. Also women in army or war? We know how that ended just look ww2 or every war with a lot of r*pe cases of women and children, they know their genre do these things so that’s why they want to evacuate their wifes or children first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 03:19 AM
47

Yes scrote, the beautiful woman is crying because you didn’t bother her, this incel calling other women less attractive when he is ugly inside and out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:25 PM
38

Male ones, they are a lot that just blame girls for everything but if the boys do the same they just cover up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:38 AM
195

It looks like a miracle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:52 AM
1

Okey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:17 PM
30

A men that needs therapy shouldn’t be dating also we know how they manipulate therapy and never really work their problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:07 PM
7

They are beautiful, way more than her partner LOL. Men literally don’t have self awareness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:45 PM
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Men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:24 PM
18

Fat male, narcissist btw looking for a mommy that will keep me entertained 24/7 like a circus, i love playing games, anime and sexualize every woman in the internet or movies. I have daddy issues too so i’ll became an asshole pretty quick, call me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:54 AM
30

6 months? He didn’t change shit, he’ll treat poorly the next girl too. He is just setting. So don’t fall for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 10:10 PM
67

No, don’t even try it. They always have shit going down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:53 AM
29

Told u they were doing this. They are sick and have rapey tendencies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:43 AM
69

Don’t date men that are less attractive than you. They don’t do it, why would you? They are the first ones to tlk sht about other women appearance and never date lower
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:41 AM
14

I only have gay friends. Hetero men? You don’t esnt that believe me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:37 AM
5

More ovaries and bravery that any men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:52 PM
61

You are right about that. I remember my ex lvm that time we heard some noises in other room and we were alone in the middle of the night. I told him and we went to the place, ladies, he put me first almost using me like a shield, this piece of sht. Thanks to god it wasn’t nothing but that really turned me off and i don’t know why i didn’t dump him right away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:58 PM
25

Wtff, they are so stupid fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:19 PM
24

Yes, i said ww3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:18 PM
9

He’s not in a position to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:22 AM
27

Divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:39 PM
3

This scrote LOL if men treated just a little bit like women do, let me tell you we will be pleased. Who stays 8 years being loyal, taking care of you, loving you, cooking even if she’s not married yet? Just women, men never do that. Not even a fraction of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:29 AM
17

Yes, literally my ex lvm🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:18 AM
48

“Shy good guys” are the worst. Media make it seem like they are cute and so shy, quiet. They lack of self awareness and social skills so you’ll have to do all the work while he is playing in the computer. The same media says that shy women are these unapproachable, bad, angry women nobody wants, the hypocrisy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:18 AM
143

You need to be proud of yourself, she’s part of your story. We all learn and keep learning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:57 AM
2

It’s pretty weird and invasive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:53 AM
41

Yeah, he just searched my whole ass family in all social media lol and just told me he was worried lol. It wasn’t the worst because he was/ is a full narcissist with daddy issues so you can guess how that went
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:39 AM
5

Queen speaks facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:32 AM
108

I remember when i disappeared for less than a day and this scrote did a background check about me and my family just because i didn’t answer him. The worst part is that that wasn’t the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:36 AM
29

Runnnnnnnnnnn bitch runnn, he’s abusive just like the other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:58 AM
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You are so right in this. Also men that want women who entretain them is like they see us like some sort of monkey lol. They are the ones that need to plan dates and no just play their videogames and complain why women aren’t dying to do all sort of things for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:00 PM
3

Amen sis, never never stop trusting your instincts that tells u that man aint shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:10 AM
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I’m single and i receive a lot of flowers thanks to my friends and some boy that likes me. I passed the day with my friend and have a nice dinner, you are right is way better this way than staying with a scrote that test your boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:44 AM
13

That is sad girl i don’t know what are you saying. He just love bare minimum and that you are quiet/ shy so you are just avalaible to fuck and shut your mouth when he plays 24/7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:44 PM
24

Now that other person wants the thing i want it back, men in a nutshell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:08 PM
76

Good girls don’t work with guys, they don’t deserve it most of the times (always) Keep that to yourself and your girlfriends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:17 PM
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You think that if they hate us they’ll go fuck themselves and that’s it. But no these scrotes just want attention and love to play the resentful victim card to us lol. Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:10 PM
2

Well recently i found out the story of my auntie of my mom’s side. (She’s 70 years old rn) The story begin when she got married to that scrote i really never wanted to know. In the wedding party he was near another girl crying in her shoulder. My auntie thought she was his sister or cousing, something innocent but then she asked him. This scrote girl, he told her that she was his ex and if she forgave him he will dump her and if she didn’t forgave him he will stay (don’t settle girls, this confi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:23 PM
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You know what is best for your future, do that. Don’t make the mistake of dumping your dreams or facilities for a man that who knows if he wants to marry you or not. Your dreams also matter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:49 PM
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Amen to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:23 AM
5

He’s worst that any younger brother that just doesn’t know what else to do to make u mad. Fuck off scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:54 AM
33

Men aren’t funny at all, their tipe of jokes are just straight racism or misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:31 PM
25

They are digsuting, period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:39 PM
31

Men and women can’t be friends for this and a lot of things, they getting entitled to you like you are his gf or just their misogynistic jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:38 PM
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This! Not any hetero men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:36 PM
55

My nightmare lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:30 PM
5

They just wsnt you to feel low so they can have a chance lol, don’t give then the power to make you feel o think bad, they dont deserve it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:42 AM
8

And then the same guys want their girlfriends to do a triple chocolate pie LOl, assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:35 PM
1

Congratulations!!!! U did it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:33 PM
3

If only he knew how women are pushed to beauty standars since they are kids. They would kill himself if he was a woman lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:40 PM
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Sure scrote, being a resentful asshole is just what every girl wants! Go to therapy, psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:25 PM
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Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:45 PM
5

Amen girl. Men being decent people don’t need to be celebrated, nobody does them to women. Just enjoy if you have someone good wanting to be with you. That’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:37 PM
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Feminine doesn’t mean to be a submissive toy, they are so sick fr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:26 PM
10

This is disgusting. Is he animal that he can’t wait and be empathetic like a decent person? (Well he is a man) but just a little decency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:23 PM
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Yesterday i see one similar case but with the scrote wanting to see spiderman, it looks like a common thing. It’s so stupid and no sense that only men can keep up with that. I hope she divorce him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:21 PM
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Amen sis, is way healthier to stay single that keep idealizing scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:26 PM
3

When they use stereotypes of your ethnicity, RUn. As a latina they are always like omg so hot and wifey material even without knowing me. Also stay aware of colorists, as a pale latina some of them are like “yes you are latina but don’t really look like it” bro,all my family is latin LOL. They are just covered racista that make you pass just because you look white passing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:55 PM
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Yes it happens a lot, i remember a dude told me how i didn’t look like my ethnicity because my ethnicity was that and that like was a part of it☠️☠️ scrote was a whitie lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:52 PM
3

More like just expose yourself to sex assault by fat scrotes🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:41 PM
10

This man is so lvm, sure just let the little boy see recorded rapes. Sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:35 PM
9

Men are so stupid tf, you are doing the same bullshit but yet they want the other girl just for himself. No shit sherlock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:46 PM
5

He sounds disgusting to be around even on internet, maybe that’s the problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:25 PM
11

And they are bald dad bodies LOL haha they tell on themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:00 PM
21

This. They are just thinking about using them and when women have a crush they just say cute things about them and make fan accounts lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:56 PM
2

They suck for real🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:27 AM
8

Most of them let themselves go so easy because society don’t blame them enough like they do to women causing eating disorders, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:11 AM
18

They love girls who don’t really care about them or just don’t give them sny attention at all, they keep trying and trying but if you are nice just no, that’s not gonna end well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:02 AM
55

Yeah that really helps. It shows how they objectify women and they are disgusting towards them. I really can’t like any guy after that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:40 AM
11

Men will do anything just because they feel insecure, yeah asshole she passed the test and you felt threatened. tell the facts, psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:30 AM
4

Someone save this girl gaslighting herself. It’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:13 AM
119

Buy a dildo lol there is not benefit in keeping up with lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:59 PM
1

Amen sis!!!! I used to be so naive and talk about potential when they don’t really do shit. Im about to graduate this year and i remember my ex struggling with his career and he was older than me LOL, he just can’t and isn’t good enough to pass his exams. Because i have the same subjects snd times and I’m already winning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:09 PM
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Amen sis, i see this a lot on kpop they literally change people to debut, whitewashing,double eyelids, face surgery. All of this and men perpetuate this standars too, is sick. Because asian women are beautiful as they are but they keep pushing all this bullshit to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:59 PM
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Yeah they are hypocrite haha just do whatever you feel good about it, girl. I’m sure red will look beautiful in you❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:17 AM
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Well you are still in the mentality of needing male validation, you need to think if you are really happy with the things you do or buy. I buy colourful makeup that men hate because they are always “natural is better” but it makes ME happy. That’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:06 AM
4

Never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:06 AM
2

Diuh fucking psychos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:06 AM
54

They are always like that, they just like to make women miserable and depressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:04 AM
17

DUMP HIM, you are just stuck with a sick men that doesn’t respect women and in the top of that fetishizes poc women and talk like we are objects🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 That’s the dad you want for your children???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:59 PM
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They are sick for real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:39 PM
16

Men act like they don’t know anything of technology and they are the first ones to be boring lurkers of phones or laptops. If you don’t delete your account it will still be there,facebook, twitter, all of then work like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:40 PM
102

This us disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:04 AM
39

Just scrotes consume women like they were objects. That’s not being a cool girl if you let men do that and abuse women because we all know they traffic girls too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:10 PM
78

Amen. We know that training men doesn’t do anything because they don’t even change permanently. Is like relationships, don’t waste your time in them, focus on yourself and your sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:59 PM
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This! When you are more agressive they want you to change for them, if you become submissiw they say you are sensitive . Narcissist fuckers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:57 PM
57

Amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:52 AM
2

Dump him that’s the best invest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:24 PM
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I’ve saying this since forever, that’s why all the videos against porn made by men is always talking about things that affect them. They don’t care if they are raping someone that can be their sister. They don’t care about others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:00 PM
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A bag of chocolates knowing that i don’t eat a lot of calories and eat little. He ended up eating most of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:45 PM
23

Such an asshole. Telling her to everything when she is growing a baby inside that consume energy, vitamins and a lot of things. The fact that he run to his mommy and she scolded him, says everything. She never educate his little baby to act like a decent human being. Divorce him already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:42 PM
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I call it economic reparation for abusive behavior, just block him and don’t give him back anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:48 AM
10

This is a redflag for future abuse, so glad the advice wasn’t communicate and stay with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:44 AM
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They are the ones that always talk dumb shit and keep being an asshole to other men who want to talk about feelings calling them gay and stuff. So they are the 🤡 right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:48 AM
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Just men playing victim after they do fucked up shit part 100938
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:04 AM
6

That’s disgusting girl. They will never think the same if they were the ones that need to provide sexual services to women they don’t like. Sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:01 AM
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You are right, most of them hide their true selfs until the end. There are cowards that just justify their mistreatment via sms and break up. The rare ones that talk about it and still keep respect, yeah most of them are awful in reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:51 PM
18

They always lie about theis stories just to get clout, so pathetix
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:45 PM
1

I will never do it, just going back to the same mistakes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:31 AM
4

When a man calls you insecure or sensitive just don’t listen to them. They are gaslighting or proyecting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:03 AM
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Men don’t change, if he cheats one he’ll do it again. Now when i think of past mistakes i just don’t understand why keep up with his bullshit or give a second chance to someone who doesn’t deserve it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:44 AM
12

Domestic skills? Just say you want a mommy, these scrotes 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:06 AM
28

Wtf with all that porn fantasies, divorce him asap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:22 PM
18

Diuh pickmes sound like they hate women/ if you don’t orgasm then what is the point of having sex lol you are right we are better without porn sicks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:57 PM
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Because they think porn is real life, i remember an lvm saying he didn’t know a lot of pale people (women and men) had darker intimate areas LOL. Literally messed up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:14 PM
4

Diuhh the last comment. Like take someone younger that would keep up with your bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:12 PM
15

Hahahahha just say you are awful irl and in bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:07 PM
52

And he still asks if he is the asshole? Scrote bye, you can’t have self awareness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:44 AM
30

He still will gaslight you to abort, he’s an asshole. Period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:36 AM
41

This, he needs to invest time and gifts. And always trying to make you feel good, better than when you are alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:34 AM
1

When he cheated on her and she took him back it was the worst plot ever, miranda deserves better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:31 AM
2

I’m extroverted and i used to carry all the conversations in that relationship. I’m pretty happy most days, i was feeling more anxious and sad because i was with him making me feel bad and not giving me what i needed. I made new female friends, workout well, est healthy like i always used to. Life is way better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:22 AM
29

This. Sadly is a classic, they can have sex with you and dump you the next day, it means nothing to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:58 AM
4

The audacity!!! I’m done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:56 AM
16

I know that comments are men. They will show empathy for a murderer but not for women. Also in a best place? They are dead, scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:48 AM
33

Imagine having to beg so someone propose, girl that’s sad AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:41 AM
87

That’s true, they always choose partners that are better than them and have qualities that they can’t have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:28 AM
98

I hope you report him and doing well now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:02 AM
33

I stopped reading when i saw the other girls age, he is a pedo and a scrote. Next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:27 PM
77

Everytime a man says something about sex work or human trafficking just because it benefits him it makes me wanna vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:05 AM
15

Dump him and report him! That girl is in danger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:53 AM
8

They are so sick they need to abuse everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:09 AM
26

He was still with her when he meet you, you were the b side. That’s enough to run, that could happen again to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:54 PM
8

Amen, men gave nothing too, they don’t even know how to cook a meal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:20 PM
66

The bar is so low they feel entitled to say they are not bad (they are not good either)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:18 PM
86

Wtf, let these scrotes die alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:17 PM
65

Someone get this man a therapist asap and a restraining order. He is insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:28 AM
5

Divorce him asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:06 PM
20

Diuh a pedo, please protect our girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:17 PM
98

They are giving you time, for sure you are disgusting the only reason they are there is money. As well the only reason you like them is because of the youth and beauty, stfu .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:00 PM
51

Reddit in a nutshell is degrading women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:38 PM
1

Are they married? If not he is not hv, he’s just messing around having benefits that he could end whatever he wants. Also i dont like label hvm any person because they always have traits more if they are family, my brother is kinda good but not hv, he needs to grow snd be mature. It’s kinda difficult but no because is your brother is hv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:16 PM
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I see that a lot how girls that get depressed during s relationship with a scrote start feeling bad and gain weight or look tired. It happened to me, i never felt better when all ended. You described my ex lvm specially the planning part. When they should do it not the girls. And is sad seeing other girl falling but you can’t do nothing, they need to learn by themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:45 PM
3

We can be mad, we deserve to be mad after all they did to us and our sisters. I want to be calm most of the time but if u need to be mad, do it. Is nothing wrong with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:03 PM
17

It all make sense when you see they are all guys and think racism, sexism is funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:55 PM
1

Yeah people are ridiculous for telling you the truth that you are raising a 40 years old baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:13 AM
3

Girl please make this happen, i like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:11 AM
2

Diuhhh they always said that women are dramatic and they literally can’t do their things and be a capable human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:10 AM
2

I dont know what they think, he won’t change and be rocky balboa tfff. He will be the same scrote and show his true colors sooner or later, i told my daughter to dump and don’t come back with this scrote and she still did it, idk what to do. If we are saying this is because we pass trough some shit giving second opportunities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:50 AM
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I always thought he was a scrote, no alcoholic is good. Also we need to stop idolizing famous men, they are most likely acting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:30 AM
97

Girll the part when he says “but i didn’t ask for anything” such a coward asshole. Obviously you wouldn’t stay alone, she’s not an asshole like you. Poor woman feeding this scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:22 AM
3

Trying to use womwn backfired at him LOl what a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:40 PM
10

It’s totally fine, I’m really tired during the week because i work and train so there isn’t many time out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 09:45 PM
6

That’s great specially when they treat women right snd don’t talk shit about past relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 09:44 PM
10

Let him leave but forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:15 AM
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They compate r!pe with offering shelter to women LOL that says everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:50 AM
5

I mean he’s telling himself, believe him. He wouldn’t do it, i remember how my ex lvm had bucal herpes and getting mad at him because he didn’t “know”, girl get mad at him and D U M P H I M
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:57 PM
7

It’s always the narcs telling “sensitive” and blaming others instead of assuming they are sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:09 AM
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He’s a narcissist, good try telling lies no one believes tf. Please put a restriction order
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 11:11 PM
18

He is so entitled that sees nothing bad with doing this shit and putting in risk this woman, dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:23 PM
31

I love how they always want to be the center of attention, you are not it scrote. This is a sub by women for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 07:39 PM
153

I love song jia even if she wasn’t beautiful that attitude girl, is to die for. Also i feel sorry for soyeon but she became so pickme and the dude keep playing her, just let him already and wait someone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 01:36 PM
3

They don’t even respect a no and then keep saying they aren’t rapist. Stfu, they are. Almost every women had a situation like that and it’s not coincidence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:03 AM
3

He knows she is younger than him and illegal that’s what he likes her. Rapist for sure, hope the dad breaks his neck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:56 AM
7

They are a bunch of men and it shows, they see a opinion with a little of coherence and you get banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:48 AM
10

Lol always blaming women, you are just bad dude. Move along
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:43 AM
28

Workout in the evening and dinner with my family maybe karaoke , happy new year💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:40 AM
13

Idk they are always clowns, I’m just thinking about my makeup to go with my family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:33 AM
2

Girl buy yourself some makeup or skincare don’t do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:38 AM
2

Wtf if you want a mommy just say it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:33 AM
6

That happens because the bar is so fucking lowwwww for men and they make us believe that bare minimum behavior is something worth to show off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:27 AM
21

Yes girl, it’s the best you can do for yourself!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:25 AM
14

Lol scrote i hope these robots come soon so all of you can go and leave women alone, compete? For a misogynistic creep? Hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:16 AM
19

Yas queen, that’s my spirit, doing makeup and don’t settle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/21 11:17 PM
60

She didn’t even thank me, NOOO grandpa wtffff go to the hospital and took some viagra to death tf. So scrote and nastyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:41 PM
50

Don’t do it, he’ll think is for sx or that you are easy to please lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:41 PM
5

I hate late minute gifts like they don’t even try at all. All cheap things and without any meaning, scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:27 AM
10

Once a week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:27 AM
55

Amen sister, i cant tell that too even in photos. They always tend to sexualize or photoshop women by what they want. And in the other hand women show more art or reality to the subjects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:25 AM
8

Amen sis, my ex literally blame me for not having plans 24/7 and he just complain. I mesn the audacity. Lesve men like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:52 AM
19

So funny that only now he is saying all this because his ex wife is leaving, bye bye scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:34 AM
3

I laugh hard when these scrotes act like providers or alphas and they can’t even take care of themselves 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:10 PM
59

Yeah they are crazy but hey they used to love them, get it? Who’s lying out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:10 AM
36

They like to make us believe that is hot and empowering (really no, most of them don’t like it. They are just thinking by male gaze)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:20 PM
2

Yes. They always repeat the samw things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:18 PM
5

Ameen girl, they like all the attention but hey they can’t even defend good causes or standing up for something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:07 PM
13

Well, he likes to use women for his benefit and then settle for someone he finds pure. It’s a classic in scrote, it sounds like my ex lol in other hand always following lewd accounts and wanting a pure gf, dump him, he won’t respect you or a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:39 PM
9

Congratulations queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:29 AM
10

Wtf he is a narcissist and abusive af, leave him fast. He is making you his victim and i hope it doesn’t escalate no physical:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:22 AM
141

That man doesn’t love her lol he is just staying because it’s convenient to him and the other clowns telling her to propose(?) i know ir r-feminism, there are a bunch of pickmes that give advice like they hate women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:08 AM
38

The boys that ask too much and gave nothing in return. “But i have to tell you to go out or we stay” yes scrote you should plan dates and don’t put more stress into the woman you are interested. And some of us really are stressed and occupied during the week, we are not all mediocre students. Or “you are so x not like my exs, you understand me blah blah” keep saying that and I’m going to block u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:00 AM
29

Diuh it’s always men like that or fat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:12 PM
8

Amen to that. I see so many still focusing on men right away, there are more chances of you getting disappointed than otherwise. Be happy with yourself, live the present and enjoy every part of it. We don’t know how much we are gonna live so better make it good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:47 AM
5

Amen, stop glorifying bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:27 AM
2

I feel you, they like to left all the charge to you. Literally a lvm told me how i stay at home relaxing and he pouted because i didn’t come out with something every time we saw each other. Tf he has a brain too, he is interested, he needs to keep u entertained no the other way. I remember how i even made reservations a lot of times, they are so boring and can’t make a decision but their own like children and decide to blame others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:21 AM
10

Well they are mediocre and it shows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:14 AM
25

I liked sex and the city but is a pickme mess most of thw time specially carrie begging to get married, so glad x is dead now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:11 AM
13

Well my ex lvm was tall and has a micro peen so im not surprised anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:08 AM
47

This! If you don’t want to do it, dont do it. You don’t owe anyone sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:37 AM
331

If he doesn’t understand it, they perpetuate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:24 AM
2

Becausw they are misogynistic and just see them like objects of use. That’s it. They keep watching and being addicted but hey they’ll never treat them like a decent human, they are disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:23 PM
14

Yes! She was in highschool when sll that happened, she left a toxic relationship with this abuser and he killed her besides all the complaints she gave to the police (the psycho worked there). This is a case from Argentina
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:14 PM
39

In my country are a lot of cases of cops abusing underage women on their watch or when they go in the police car, they are disgusting. Also the case of “Ursula” his ex was a cop and he killed her ignoring 18 legal complaints made in the police , they cover each other. I’ll never trust one, giving a scrote power is dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:09 PM
94

Say it louder, even in the police are rapists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 01:25 PM
2

Yeah i know but when they are mommy boys, they are used to it🤮 better leave them fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:06 AM
13

When i went to vacations with this lvm and i had to do something like that i was exhausted (scrote didn’t know how to cook). Now imagine this for yearsss and kids hell no, you are a slave and still paying 50 when you are the one losong your youth out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:08 AM
116

This, they try so hard but homeboy can’t even cook a tomato sauce without almost burning everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:02 AM
4

I’ll say he is medium value because he always take care of us, economically and all the academic stuff. But he has some reasonings and attitudes that i don’t like and some thinking that he stills keeps because of his culture but he is average after all. My mother is the hvw queen of that relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:57 AM
55

So proud of you, and you already lose a heavy weight of that scrote. The other weight will fade naturally (it happened to me too)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:58 PM
33

Idk about the price anyways i like good stuff, if he hear what i say he’ll deliver the things i like, good makeup, good shoes or some bags. That’s it, he needs to listen and put effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:53 PM
6

She looks like me LOL even with the wavy hair,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 01:09 PM
6

Men always playing victim blaming other women for their bullshit volume 9238383783
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:08 PM
5

I red that you can’t have a pet then you can try going to the gym or some classes to meet people. You don’t need a man to fill that space, you need yourself and friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:33 PM
29

I’ll never text or call a man like a romantic chase. Never. They are the ones interested and they still want us to do all the work? Lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:17 PM
26

Porque no los dos jajaja tal cual. They need to make the effort first, they are the ones interested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:16 PM
69

All of these things and no addiction at all, no anime guys, no “I’m working on it” just a functional man, no narcissists, no mommy boys, men with convictions all the way that speak up against a lot of things like racism, sexism, etc. Empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:06 PM
5

LOL the audacity of the scrote. Sure she obligated you to drink all the time and don’t help around the house with the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:28 PM
14

We cant be friends bacause of them always sexualizing every female out there. And their rapey comments even with “”friends”” fuck no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 07:14 PM
2

Well i see it all the time lol, narcs at the best. A year ago i saw how a man ended a relationship of 8 with the love of his life years and jumped to the next by the month. A pickme for sure, i dont get why young women with a lot of opportunities just fall into giving a chance to a scrote that just exit other relationship. Girl he isn’t over her yet and then you are becoming his mommy again? Please don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:39 PM
45

You need to explain like they were toddlers and even toddlers have more empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:04 AM
29

Great advice, is important to put ourselves first and stop trying with people that doesn’t care, stay with the ones you love and they love u back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:57 PM
390

They always talking sbout themselves and dopamine but it doesn’t matter if they use women of all backgrounds and the traffic of girls that can be your sister or mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:44 PM
165

Girl you are already saying everything, dump him. More than depressed is a porn sick scrote that doesn’t care about u lol he didn’t buy you a piece of bread and you buying everything for him😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:39 PM
17

You are beautiful and your mind is beautiful too. Such a strong woman❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 03:13 PM
7

Wtf the pickme saying “i get it” to a narc creep. Just leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:43 PM
3

I used to like it but i don’t like any of the characters anymore. Carrie being a pickme, begging to get married and i just can’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:40 PM
72

It’s so pathetic. They consume all that but hey they will never treat a sex worker like a human. So sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:16 PM
18

Amen to the last two, men obssesed with games and anime? Lol or pornsick? Hell nooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:23 AM
67

Diuh incels that wanna look like victims but hey r*pe is okey for them. Fuck them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:14 AM
152

Don’t date him. Even if they say they hate their fathers they keep repeating a lot of things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:04 AM
14

Yas queen, so proud of u. You are good role model to your daughters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 09:41 PM
13

This woman trying to convince herself. “Postpartum depression is for men too” LOL girl you have been 9 months suffering backache and a big tummy but now this scrote you have as a husband is also inherited to have post partun depression and being an asshole. Fuck no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:29 PM
50

Good for her, im sure the man is fat and keeps proyecting in her. If we tell we don’t want them to go bald or wrinkly , they’ll cry for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:48 PM
146

Lol manchilds are the worst ever. You dodged a bullet and save yourself a headache
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:45 PM
19

Diuhhhhh he’s porn sick but no so rapey, sure jan. Marry him!!! Lol the bar is in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:59 PM
5

Better for her if the tornado throw that scrote out of there. Such a narcissist and gaslighter piece of shit, she was so stressed and cried because of it plus this scrote telling her, she’s crazy and not doing anything to save the children. Useless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 05:02 AM
7

He’s racist af. Also when they made comments degrading other races or never stand up for racism🤢🤢 men with no beliefs or convictions are a NO, they will never change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:56 AM
14

This is a fact, i saw the most lvm compare themselves to cheaters or violent men and act like they are good enough (no you aren’t) just for not being an abusive man but yes a narcissist and a lot of other things. I don’t know why they have this mentality i used to discuss with my father a lot when he joked saying “i’m a good man because i took care of my children” i was like “thanks for being a decent human being, i will clapp now” but this is a strong ass belief that they keep perpetuating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:39 AM
17

The bathroom is clean for sure there is a woman. Also all the skincare hidden, such a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:35 AM
1

Update: i lost all the weight i put in when i was in that relationship, made some new girlfriends and that i really like and i passed all my exams of this year 💕 I’m one year closer to become a lawyer.I’m felling myself so much, it’s amazing . Thanks to you all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:44 AM
20

I’m watching that series, i see pickmes all over social media or films. Like carrie in sex and the city, the ultimate one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:05 AM
8

That industry sucks and men that consume that are scrotes or worse. Good for u for speaking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:04 AM
78

It’s always the porn sick, anime fans scrotes that put that view of submissive women when they are boring af and ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:52 PM
84

That’s facts for u all, spread the word ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:39 PM
19

I dont even think he is rich and if he is, he is cheap af. And you being his mommy, hell no girl. Dump him and live in peace. You don’t need a 0 empathetic scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:37 PM
534

“Potential” hate that word because men won’t see it in you sis, they don’t see a “””ugly or fat””” women and said omg the potential, hell no. They are the first scrotes even if they are horrible to bring down women. So stop being so pickme with them, is pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:16 PM
7

I find it annoying more if it is some pickme giving u her lvm male friend, is something so pushy that people do like they are engaged to make it work even if you dislike the person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:00 PM
1

Diuh incel shit, good for u, you better run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:57 PM
5

Hahahaha i love them, they age like shit if he’s telling the truth (i don’t think so) my father looks better and he is 50 years old LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 02:04 PM
101

It’s boring af and not funny at all, almost all of them are pickmes and the male gaze is strong af. 😷🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:19 PM
354

Wtf is he saying lol, so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 03:13 AM
21

Facts. In my mother’s culture rape was punished by public death and all your bloodline would be peasants or work for others “incas” that were loyalty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:40 PM
1

I have two (one hetero, one lgbt) , that’s all i need. I don’t trust my other “male friendships” becausw they always keep pushing inecessary compliments or surnames😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:12 PM
15

That’s so inspiring, good for u💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:09 PM
28

What you say is attempted murder, you could die for what he did. Scrotes always taking lv to other level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:15 PM
14

We are with you, do it please he doesn’t deserve your silence. This could happen to other girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:33 PM
10

It’s fucking sick, disrespectful and mysoginistic, all in one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:32 PM
11

Yes ofc, he Is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:31 PM
81

Omg he is an abuser, you should charge him or tell somebody. He tried to do something without consent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 05:08 AM
24

They telling themselves is so pathetic hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:42 AM
91

Follows porn accounts on instagram and talks to exs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:49 AM
89

An outgoing lady with a shy scrote that looks like hes dead, fuck no. Poor pickme, all she gonna get is her energy drained
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:31 PM
18

You are right sis, even the most disgusting ones want a mommy bangmaid that looks like a supermodel when they can’t even earn enough to have a puppy. They always tell us to settle for the bare minimum but they would never😷😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:30 PM
13

You are 100% right, i used to believe when they said “my ex was crazy” and then when i was the ex i understand everything, he was the narcissist piece of sht and feel empathy for the other women. They know how to try to convince us into being always with them no matter what (a lot of trauma bonding telling us their traumas early on). Don’t let them fool you, you deserve better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:00 PM
22

Men are sick. I remember that in my country many of them tried to trick literally girls to send them photos or they would kidnapp their families. They are a so fucking sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:38 PM
92

And then they cry because women don’t initiate lol they don’t deserve shit, hear pickmes on the back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:34 PM
19

I got back at my normal weight and keep working out, skin glowing, stress free, biking like a pro, made some new girlfriends that are like a little family . Just so blessed to be out of that lvm relationship that i had, it feels so fucking great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:54 AM
2

That’s true, in my ex relationship with a narcissist lvm i gained weight due to stress but when it was all over i came back to normal and keep losing weight as normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:15 PM
36

They are way prettier than some men tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:07 PM
47

I’m sure this guy is fat, they want us to be thin but they eat like shit. And make fun of women that do diet or eat little, my ex nvm always told me why i eat so little and no like him (this guy can eat a whole ass meal)🤡 at the final stage i gained some weight for stress that put me trough. Once it was all over I started eating like i used to and drop all the weight, i keep working out and is all better than ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:02 PM
7

It’s not bad to tell that they were assholes even if they are dead is better than be a hypocrite, he doesn’t deserve your tears. I hope you are doing great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:58 PM
13

Amen to that. They aren’t even good people or caring, empathic but yet they want the whole mommy bangmaid supermodel complex🤣 keep dreaming and watching anime dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:56 AM
12

Yes being a rapist is so funny, fucking walking scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:55 AM
6

Well finally they are waking up to the facts, you can be independent but never do that with men they don’t believe in feminism they just see it as a easy way to use u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:53 AM
12

Wow so good!!!!! Say no one with a brain just say you want some men to use u and that’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:45 AM
87

That was me when i ended up a relationship with a narc, love you all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:44 AM
72

Yes. They don’t see women that go upfront like someone that they want, they are just easy to get for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:36 PM
9

Rest in power, queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:56 AM
6

I dont hear words that men tell so easy, just actions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:54 AM
11

What a waste of time and money for a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:53 AM
14

For being a pickme she became an accomplice to the death of this poor puppy. Girl, you could save her just taking her with you, these dumb ass and 0 empathy men just let her die
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:54 PM
6

Okay this scrote telling on himself hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:02 PM
14

So pathetic hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:43 PM
13

Amen to this. It’s time tondo thing for ourselves and be happy with the people we have in our life. No more what ifs by any meaning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:35 PM
6

Yes this is a valid point too but for sure It’ll hurt me to see my sister going that way, who knows what can happen to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:07 PM
1

He doesn’t want you, stop trying to make men commit when they show you clearly they don’t want to. Move
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:56 AM
94

PleasE help your sister, she need help asap. It’s so dangerous for you both :( there are a lot of cases where men r*pe other little sister when the other women was sleeping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:45 AM
3

Did you help her? It happened to me too, i just broke up with a narcissist at that time and this girl told me to get a tinder to distract myself. Sure men is what i need and no peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:15 AM
27

“Ed Sheeran is the world’s biggest pop star, and he sucks. America is now waking up to this fact because this weekend Sheeran won the Grammy for Best Pop Solo Performance for "Shape of You"—over "Praying," Kesha's song about overcoming sexual abuse—but didn't even show up to collect his award, and then posted a cat picture on Instagram to celebrate his eventual double-win.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:11 PM
10

Amen sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:08 PM
20

Look it up, he said bad things to Adele and tried to make himself look “gay” to sell his boring music
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:29 PM
31

Don’t do it, i get several pickme vibes from girls who say to try that instead of being good with yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:58 PM
29

He is lvm for sure plus queerbating and misogynist calling other women boring or fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:56 PM
105

Well u said it you are not cute either. And probably she’s way cuter than you because men don’t have self awareness at all. She’ll be way better this way so thanks to dump yourself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:54 PM
17

I love them showing their true scrote self hahaha yeah we are so good and living great without you, so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:03 PM
172

Every song of ed sheeran or bruno mars “when i was your man” bitter lvm for sure lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:33 AM
58

This! I’ll never understand that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 05:01 PM
235

No thanks, I’m too young for that and most of these men don’t even take care of their children as they should
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:54 PM
18

Well that’s even more sad , i don’t know why they put them trough all that for a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:09 PM
32

This!! They aleays blame women for everything even things they don’t even care sbout
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:04 PM
111

I love good stuff and luxury skincare so yes I’m high maintenance. I remember how in the past i used to make myself more accesible but that’s over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:32 AM
53

He sounds pathetic (he is) and the pickme believing him, that’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:26 AM
103

That’s sick. And brag about being a scrote? Lol the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 05:50 AM
19

I hope she leaves fast, it’s sad how young girls get trapped with a lvm for years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:00 AM
11

Yes to all this, stay with your female friends💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:59 AM
2

When they are the classic bro before anything or just see women like an accesorie🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:26 AM
19

Disgusting🤢 also alcoholics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:50 PM
7

I don’t drink anything lol I’m the designated driver indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:45 PM
-2

Well here we have designated drivers so most of the times the other ones in the group get wasted that’s why i said this haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:48 PM
2

We? Hahahha dont even compare to any of my pets because you are the one getting out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:42 PM
14

If they gave me numerous gifts in the past maybe buy some cute cake for his birthday and that’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:40 PM
10

They are boring and don’t do plans, they just decide to blame women because they are not doing all the stuff and taking them out LOL pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:36 PM
33

That gaslighting thoooo, he’s a fucking asshole and addict. And you still ask if you are wrong? Hell no, just leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:24 PM
70

Narcs are the worst and gamers 🤢🤢🤢 hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:46 PM
3

Thet look and probably are drug addicts lol no way, kardashians always being pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:02 AM
9

He isn’t a hvm. Stop to romanticize men so quick, they don’t deserve that. Dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:43 AM
22

That’s fucking disgusting. “She’s like a child” fuck no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:11 PM
47

Why are they getting beauty sleep and no wasting time in men???? Girl i- scrotr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:56 PM
14

You are so talented❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:48 AM
49

They are sick and normalize this? Tf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:33 AM
23

Girl stop gaslighting yourself. He doesn’t love you that much, if he didn’t do it that itself speaks volumesss. You begging him to do a bare minimum is pathetic. Just dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:25 AM
18

It never ends well, give give and they will get used to it and that’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:30 AM
24

That isnt cute “horrifically tortured” girl wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:42 AM
7

Wtf is this? I don’t know what is worse , That scrote pushing his d into her mouth or she saying that we need to gave them second chances? Hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:44 PM
16

He looks like her dad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:39 PM
2

Oh poor men :(((( say no one with a brain. Also where is the part when we support women to leave abusive relationships where their lifes are in danger? Nothing about that? Okey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:07 PM
2

That’s cute💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:05 PM
2

So glad she is successful and happy now! Thats how a single happy woman is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 02:39 PM
38

Amen sis, they don’t care about change their shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:42 AM
29

When a man says “you make me better” “you did this and this for me” Emotional labour much, hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:55 AM
26

He is just faking it and no, scrotes doesn’t change one day to other for being an asshole to a prince for the next partner. That doesn’t exists, they just know gow to cover up better and this poor girl’ll go to the same path. You are doing much better leveling up and doing things for YOU and not falling into other relationship because you don’t know how to be with yourself (narcs could never)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:13 PM
17

Men act like the ones that really need help, emotional labour, cleaning the house and everything labour of women like their mothers. They are the ones desperate to move with a forever gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:05 PM
17

Amen to that, you don’t really know him in that time. Is something you use to relax and put off your vet. It happened to me too with and lvm that i knew for yeaars and he was a scrote in the relationship so no, they are faking “the good guy” because you don’t know their true colors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 05:08 AM
7

Dump him, if he accepts his lie it will be better but hin trying to gaslight you???! Hell no. He’s broke and he knows that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:55 AM
18

Im so glad that women are not being pickmes and telling her the truth. He’s an asshole and for sure that’s why he can’t date his age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:44 AM
71

Girl they know what they do, don’t even waste energy asking scrotes in reddit just run and don’t talk to then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:40 AM
41

Yeah is always men double standards, i can see it in my black sisters. How men of their own race are the most colorists and treat them like shit but if they do something against them, they go and cry about racism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:09 AM
28

Queen hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:58 AM
10

Hahahaha now the fact that he is pathetic is women’s fuslt😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:56 AM
10

Diub porn sick and mysoginist. And he still wants to blame the girl, THE fault of self awareness and audacity, i can’t. Good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:28 PM
37

That comment has nothing to do about what i said lol i want POC representation without falling in the same “cool guy but ugly” “nerd” or bff of the white protagonist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:24 PM
5

Amen sister! It is never a waste to stand up and leave from lvm. You will be better, happier by yourself doing things you actually love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:01 PM
181

I love to see poc in films but make them HVM or good protagonists, no just like some ugly guy or scrote tf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:56 PM
11

Diuh so pornsick, yeah stranger we love the comments about our body like we don’t exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:35 PM
6

If he’s a friend yes. Romantic? Hell no run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:03 PM
40

Diuh, this scrote treats his wife like a servant and still gets mad. He invite other friends (lvm for sure) and tells his wife to do a whole meal out of nowhere. I’ll be divorced by now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 07:33 AM
4

Tell him to stay away he can be your father lol or your grandfather 😷😷😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:50 AM
23

Wife (girlfriend) boy bye and you are an addict. Yeah dump her because she cheated on you but she will be winning😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:16 PM
3

Amen sister! They go bald and still are scrotes at that age. You are spitting facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:03 PM
2

You are a lawyer and you learned how to be good with yourself without a scrote, i would be so proud of you if i were your mom! She’s the kind of woman that would force their daughter to marry a loser, abusive, don’t give a f about that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:16 PM
5

Amen to that, when they give you off vibes or scrotes just don’t give them the space snd better id you are far away from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:12 PM
18

Hahaha that’s true, i don’t pay and act relax when the bill comes but this for sure work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:04 PM
37

That sounds so rapey girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:53 PM
12

Wow this is sad. It’s like this girl that said “but he didn’t beat me” well he is an asshole and left you with the kids but yeah let’s celebrate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:53 PM
4

I prefer the second one and be mentally stable, don’t waste my time in scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:50 PM
2

I love her voice and attitude omg hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:38 AM
18

I like to be in home but i go out with my friends 1-2 times a week o by myself 3-4 times. This man is low value i mean he is the one that should be doing the effort to make dates and fun stuff to be with you not YOU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:16 AM
8

Yes. Stop putting in little girls mind that they need a scrote man to be “happy” or full in this life. I see so many women giving all for one man that won’t gave them sht or are abusive/ narcissist but they prefer that to be alone and in peace. They are more important things in life than marry some dude and getting divorced with two children, live your life like it’s the last day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:08 AM
3

Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:05 AM
66

He is used to not doing shit and see women like the only ones that have that responsability. Is a big NO once he get past you, you will be his sister doing all his stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:01 AM
4

What you need to do? Maybe be a better lover and no a selfish dude huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:44 PM
7

God hahahah they are so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:42 PM
47

Good for her🕯 he tried and the karma went full on to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:24 PM
6

He looks fat and old, somebody give this man a mirror. The woman is way better looking and younger, the audacity of scrotew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:45 PM
45

This. I’ll never understand how some men complain about “”””inmature””””” women but keep dating below his age, make it make sense! This girl is a queen for calling him out, he sound so lvm and rapey😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:20 AM
7

Divorced that’s how you should feel. That woman is talented and did what you didn’t honey. She provide a future for his son and you NOT. So stfu and let her grow, she has a future ahead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:08 AM
9

That’s what happens when we are vulnerable and aren’t used to being treated nice, you just stick to the bare minimum and he’s wsy older to be acting like that. Keep it like a friend maybe but no a future relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:55 AM
74

Finally realizing that’s a waste of time the majority of time and women don’t have any benefits from it. Also past relationships with a narc and lvm just made me want to be better to never ever gave them s chance to even being with me. Personal growth and helping other women is the way and doesn’t feel tiring or hopeless like many relationships out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:06 AM
26

Yeah they are narcs if they can’t have you , you can’t be happy with someone else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:24 PM
60

Same here! They see sx workers online but if you ever do the same, he’ ll coe crying or upset telling u why you see other man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:22 PM
39

Lol the last picture with the pick me. These men don’t changeeeee, they will keep doing it and you just had their children and do this?? Think seriously woman, they don’t care and are scrotes. I used to talk ny heart out just to find out they will keep doing it in other ways, that’s sick. Stop giving absurd advice to women just to be unhappy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:20 PM
15

Yeah that’s literally most men out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:48 PM
5

It’s so male gaze it hurts, i mean they even sexualize our suffering but making us use sexy outfits and smoke when we have an existencial crisis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:05 PM
4

Yesss, I’m too good to give my time to some lvm that won’t care to waste it. And stop wasting time thinking about scrotes u dated, it’s a new life, you are free and can do everything 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:58 PM
23

When they blame women because of their behavior, narcissist or coward to a lot of things. It’s always somebody else problem not them🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:55 PM
10

The girl is racist and he still wanna be with her? He’s such a whore without dignity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:52 PM
12

Ho ho ho motherfu hahahaha queen indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:48 PM
25

This is real and the orgasm gap, they don’t know how to satisfy a woman. I had a relationship when i didn’t have sny orgasm at all ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:38 PM
17

He’s so caring💖 he acts that’s all that matter more than listening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:36 PM
9

He should be standing for you and choose you because he knows his family is being disrespectful besides their beliefs. He sounds passive to me and he would never do it, been there when he stick up with his mom in everything even if you stand up for him, is so pathetic and doesn’t end well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:23 PM
14

I know that scrotes always choose particular things to hear and not all, that’s why jordan is so praised by them but if you show something like this telling them to stfu and work on themselves, no blaming women. They will prefer to say it’s a lie lol. He’s right in this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:06 AM
16

Girl run don’t even ask you know. The “i hate u” is so narcissist to do, just wanting all your time for himself. And justifying angry men that shout and abuse women because “they are men” sure jan. If he talks bad sbout their exs they are a walking red flag, that woman could be you in a future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:01 PM
15

This!! He was so fcking loud about wanting her and now this? Hahahaha omgg so narcissist and scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:47 PM
37

Wtf they are so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:39 PM
6

Yes, if he follows incel ideology or doesn’t respect women opinions is a huge no. Also when they don’t act up or have a strong belief, sense of justice and just go with it, it makes me wanna run lol. Imagine a man that doesn’t stand up for racism or misogynistic behavior, girl he will never be by your side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:42 AM
45

Amen to that, almost all men tell themselves like “i don’t deserve u” or “u do too much for me” runnn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:47 PM
18

They cant even make u have a real orgasm and talk their intimate things in subs plenty of scrotes. Injust remember don’t feeling more sexual desire at the end of a relationship with a lvm and he still pursue me to have sx and falling for it. Anyways i make him feel insecure doing the same thing that wanting when he wasn’t in the mood and don’t acting anymore☠️ girls stop trying so hard for a men that doesn’t know or isn’t romantic at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:19 PM
70

Periodd, such a queen. The audacity is so real, men really think we care about them that much to be thankful that we’ re in their options
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:10 PM
5

They are so sensitive and say not all men but they feel entitled to the generalization (they are scrotes fr)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:05 PM
15

Divorce him, wtf is more important than your sick wife. Even a strange has more empathy than him and cooks something, this scrote would never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:29 PM
10

They suck with their stereotypes to sexualize everything 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:27 PM
6

They just don’t enjoy simple things like music, they will be so full of themselves and have the audacity to mansplain simple things to women even things they dont know. Scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:25 PM
4

Amen, we need to stop saying women to keep everything to themselves, they break up a relationship and go crying or saying things about us in their songs or talking to friends. Why we can’t do it too? Sometimes is necessary to put all the frustration out, i told my ex all his truth and then block him i just nedeed that in the moment to close that period. It’s okay to show how frustrating is to be with a nvm. Anyways we kinda show that trough the final stage too, i remember telling him i was bette…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:36 AM
16

I hate that so much, lvm use women like they were a pair of socks, they don’t even end the relationship and are already seeing the next pickme who wants something with them, it’s a never ending circle all along. Pickmes need to wake up and don’t give these men a chance, sis he just broke up a month ago with the love of his life lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:50 PM
12

Your friends are low value and it shows because they don’t want to upgrade or be better for a woman or just being respectful, they prefer to talk bad about a good man (idk if hvm but caring)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:57 PM
57

He doesn’t love you and don’t wanna to show you off, even men i dated put me in their profile pictures they could be nvm (they were indeed) but they knew i am gorgeous and they always want people to see their achievements and now you are his WIFE and he don’t wanna show it to the world?? There is something bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:39 PM
6

So creepy, when someone wants to end things almost every time women want to leave anyways lol but if it is the other way they cry and ask for another chance😭😭😭 stfu scrote, been there never doing it again lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:31 AM
25

This is so nice, the fact that they need to brag about it just prove the point that the bar is in hell and no stupid men are like some rare unicorn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:57 PM
11

Truly a coward, if i see someone doing that the first thing is calling him out and throwing him of my house. So lvm and scrote that he has empathy for a pervert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:49 PM
27

The mommy boys are the worstt scrotes out there, they don’t have personality and always blame women for their failed relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:45 PM
0

This is fucking sick, we need to move to mars far away of these psychos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:22 PM
6

Wtf with that pickmes and scrotes, this is why you don’t ask things in a almost all men sub they are all porn sick and think is normal to objectify women. Even the girls that work in onlyfans dont want their bf watching other girls and now they say is wrong to don’t accept a “man” like that? Stfu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:19 PM
28

Thanks i know this know. In past relationships i’ll waste my time and energy trying to explain basic things to a lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:35 AM
4

It’s the best choice girl, you can learn from yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:31 AM
5

I agree i was in a relationship with one nvm that told me how therapy helped him, etc but he was just a narcissist that needed acceptance from someone else, if they always told the part of the story obviously the opinion will be biased snd no truth. Also he will mainsplain you into going to therapy just because they went to talk their things, is a no all the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:38 PM
124

I’m divorcing him, take your jokes anywhere else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:03 PM
14

Most men that act like feminists are scrotes lol we just want respect no a boy that tries to show himself with our ideology
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:58 PM
3

Don’t date if you have low self steem even when you think you have plenty of that you never have enough. Self love isnt about weight or fitting standars is about feeling good and respecting yourself. Don’t date if you can’t be nice to yourself. Start working out if that make you feel better and you can start watching makeup tutorials
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:55 PM
75

Boys who just ended a long term relationship and are dating right away are walking 🚩🚩🚩. They don’t respect their exs “love of their life” and are just using the next one to don’t feel alone and stay with someone else. That just don’t end well, only if you are a pickme and keep up with all his bullshit that made the other girl accept to leave that relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:07 PM
13

Amen sis, is always the scrotes that complain about the bare minimum or brag if they give you one dollae tf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:01 PM
33

If he tryna flex of being a provider your wife shouldn’t be cleaning, she would be buying herself shoes and living peaceful but no you just had a part time job and can’t clean your mess even if your life depends on it. Also im sure his wife can make s better provider than he is, they use stupid excuses to don’t clean and being s decent human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:04 PM
84

This is great! The part “how many had sex when you didn’t really want to?” Almost every woman out there snd they don’t know how to give us a good orgasm, i had one relationship but never an orgasm thanks to that “”man””. Time to take the lead because these scrotes would never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:51 AM
9

This. My ex lvm used to told me about her last crazy ex (i believed him, i know pickme shet) and right now i empathize with her a lot. They call us crazy just because we stand up for their bullshit snd react, calling them out, crying, don’t giving af about them when they leave, they’ll find something to make women look “”””crazy””””” when they are abusive and scrotes af. It’s a whole red flag, a building size red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:43 AM
11

This is why we called them scrotes and they cry about it🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:48 PM
48

Well i hate when they come late so i can understand that but the bill part?? You pay 100 dollars and didn’t have sx? Omg poor thing🥲🥲 say no one. Scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:05 PM
68

Amen, all men decide to tell u “my crazy exs” all of them were crazy for them LOl and they never tell you what they did wrong (abusive behavior, narcissist, porn addict,cheating) these men don’t change. Let’s stop wasting time in them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:01 PM
135

She’s on point and drop dead gorgeous too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:48 PM
185

So both of you are sexualizing random women? How cool! Say nobody with a brain, girl stop being pathetic and dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:45 PM
5

Girl he’ll get used to it and will complain to wash the dishes later. Wtf is he paying you?? I bet no , you are not even married🤢🤢 i would never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:18 PM
7

Actually a lot of women are unhappy in relationships, myself was one lol and they don’t know how to exit that fast when you are naive so you start to realize and hate things of your lvm partner. Men just don’t hide shit, 0 enpathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:09 AM
36

They are finally understanding that their country is full of scrotes that just use culture as a way to abuse women. The way these lvm react to a simple opinion is terrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:06 AM
3

This is straight up pedo shit. Wtf.. this poor girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:03 AM
8

You don’t need to do that at all, just talk maybe suggest that you like something but neverr told him we should go to a date etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:14 AM
25

So he wanted a girl with family issues like him sonhe can trauma bond? Not happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:18 PM
24

Amen, don’t feel guilty for accepting good treatment. They win more money than us and u wanna keep paying and making their life easier? Heck no, i call it wage gap tax lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:16 PM
7

He’s a needy narcissist tf, glad u let him go with his terrible life. You made me remember an ex lvm and my mistske to send him pictures before having intimacy, thanks god i know better know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:43 PM
57

“Anger issues” and alcoholic without a job and two kids he didn’t see until this barb the builder came. Girl you and this whole situation is pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:07 AM
66

Same here, I’m very talkative and react back if i don’t like something. Men don’t like that at all and better for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:46 AM
50

Men like this really need to go to a therapist asap. I notice that a lot in my community too (latin) as a pale latina i notice a lot of colorism going on and men are the first ones to perpetuate it. They can be brown like chocolate but don’t want their equals in color and talk shit about them (proyection much?) and praise pale girls or white girls because they want to “make better his race” no joke, 100% disgusting. I hope poc, black, asian, latin women stop to give a chance to these type of scr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:43 AM
21

Amen. If he wanna see me, he’s paying. We put so much more efforts than them in everything, makeup, hair, outfit, OUR time we can be relaxing and we accept to go with a dude we don’t know at all. I’m not going if he isn’t treating me like i deserve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:36 AM
33

The last part is true, most men with bad fathers internalize their father behavior even if they said they don’t want to be like them. I used to be with one that had an abusive and absent father and he did the exact same things when we broke up over sms and his narcissist behavior. So that’s true af, if they don’t have a good father try to stay away because most times his mother is a pickme too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:24 PM
13

He’s an asshole, you are completely right to dump his ass far away. He felt threatened with your ex and started to say mean stuff to a desd man (??) so disrespectful and lvm. You don’t need that in your life, for sure he can’t be half as good as your ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:55 PM
22

Woman who has her life together cause i don’t and i need you to helpe me like my mommy also I’m married or have a gf that’s because I can’t show my face :) fuck offf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:54 PM
59

She’s beautiful and successful af, wtf with that scrote asking her about dick size? He sounded worse than anyone out there but lvm sre tearing her down for being honest? Hahahaha pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:49 PM
1

Incels are more predatory everyday, if the boss was a little decent he will dump him right away for violating privacy but no. Men always being men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:17 AM
2

Women ate the hysterical ones they said😂 and they are the ones gossiping and crying about everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:06 AM
1

Well the last part, they have a mask and when they show their truth is disgusting af it doesn’t worth it girl, more if he hasn’t the balls to say it in front of you. Just a scrote without any responsability
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 10:59 AM
5

Amen sister, lvm are in all places is our right to don’t give a fuck about them and move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:50 PM
38

“You make me better, make my life better and make the university easy. I don’t know why i didn’t put you in my life earlier” all this bullshit to say that they want a second mom and need us to take all responsability in their shitty life’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:00 PM
20

The audacity. This scrote keeps dating younger women and complains about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 07:28 PM
5

He is a rapist for sure, she said no multiple times and told him her age! And he kept harassing her!!! Tf are wrong with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:09 PM
7

Amen to this, most of then just pretend and then u see the real face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:09 AM
5

Divorce him right away, he cheating snd being abusive with u! Wtf girl, dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:09 AM
25

He’s a grown ass baby, girl wake up and dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:34 AM
28

He’s trying to be the chased one hahaha pathetic af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:35 PM
85

He did it so wrong, it’s pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:34 PM
2

It’s not your fault, he is a lvm and a liar. Dump him and don’t look back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:10 AM
1

Diuh scrote alert, you did well girl but don’t ask men to change it doesn’t work like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:54 AM
71

The bar is lower than paris hilton’s pants in the 2000’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:41 AM
48

The awards wtf with this fucking psychos??? Disgusting afff. They don’t have empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:15 AM
92

Reddit lvm are sooo pathetic omg hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:09 AM
6

It’s so pathetic, he didnt have any empathy until he had a daughter and wow now women are humans and have families too!! Fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:53 AM
3

I really like her and megan thee stallion, they have good songs shitting on men but at the same time they are sexual idk the industry it’s like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:02 PM
13

“Online dating fault “ no. You are just a nasty scrote molesting a young woman in her workplace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:44 PM
15

Yes! They even cry when women have preferences, imagine if they know boundaries. They’ll go crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:37 PM
21

Amen sis, never travel for a man. They get used to it and always ask for more or put all the charge. I did it with an ex lvm and come late at night. When the pandemic strike he need to come to see me and complained about it, the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:32 PM
114

Amen to that. The submissive part is real and fucking disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:32 PM
48

Trust yourself, it happened to me and he was a narcissist. Please trust your instincts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:25 PM
106

That sounds exhausting af, you aren’t his mom just dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:22 PM
17

It’s fuckinnh exhausting. Specially with introverted, shy men. I remember being in a brunch with his family and trying to keep up when he was all quiet and with his phone, as an extrovert i didn’t caren that much but when he pull the “you should make all the plans and tell me to do something to got out” Wtffff, i was so tired with the university + this scrote that all i wanted to do was sleep. So yes girls please find some real men that can stand up for you and his beliefs, and is an actual soci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:50 AM
14

So full of hate like any incel out there because women don’t wanto to be with them, fucking psychos diuh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:59 AM
16

Men are always men and we know there are a lot of scrotes and mysoginistic men out there. I find it very repulsive when women do that with korean men just because they watch k dramas or kpop. No karen there aren’t like that lol just watch korean feminism and how they prefer to stay single nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:26 PM
37

Scrotes are scrotes no matter what but if you keep men in their place and see you as a savage or someone that won’t take shit of them they respect you and some admire you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:12 PM
10

Amen sister, it doesn’t worth the risk, vih, pregnancy, scrotes. Uh no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:02 PM
22

Girl stop doing this to yourself, he left you alone in your birthday and don’t wanna marry you, wasted 10 years of your precious life and you still gonna keep going with that bullshit? Stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:19 PM
3

Wtffffff, he literally took advantage of you.. and make you a pancake with cum??? He’s a fucking psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:52 AM
3

10 years and he didn’t propose? Girl he won’t do it lol like never☠️ and you giving away your childhood house, please don’t do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:44 AM
33

The gym guys so boring like their life depend on it. I run and do lifting too but thats just something more to it no my whole ass personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 04:01 PM
7

How that can make u want to marry her still? He lied to you and HIDE his daughter?!? Also as a lawyer almost all men who don’t fight (if they have the aptitude to raise them obviously) for a part of the custody are scrotes who don’t want to get any responsabilty more than money .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 12:04 PM
22

Im so happy for u, you deserve everything. Yes when you need to plan dates almost always and pay for that is so tiring like it’s a responsability and they don’t plan shet and just gave us all the charge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:43 PM
2

For sure girl, i have male friendships but i treat them like my brother (i always mess with him because of being a man lol) but these girls just want then to be bf material lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:27 AM
8

Good for u, i’ll never prefer male friendships over female ones, it’s just pickme shit and for cool girls. I have ones but i keep them on place everytime, this girl just didn’t know how to value herself lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:37 AM
14

Amen, i’m sick of trying to be so humble even if that means taking worth of myself. Finally I decided to give me the credit, yes I’m intelligent and beautiful. Also the clothing, girl wear whatever you like, people gonna talk always so better gave them something real to talk lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:09 AM
10

Same girl, so much better right now. Keep it up beautiful 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:00 AM
12

Good for u giel, when you start to love yourself all things fall to place, i wish u a bright future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:52 AM
17

I wish she helps her daughter that type of relationship with a narc never end well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:02 PM
41

Shy and virgin? Fuck no haha he is a porn addict or scrote, both. I did that with a 23m and he was a narcissist and any woman will run lol so don’t give him the chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 10:32 PM
6

I love her is always the same thing or if u ask why, “i don’t know it’s just to do something” LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:54 PM
2

This too, obviously! But she doesn’t need to feel bad for him just change him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:23 PM
340

He is a fucking asshole. And now ruining other woman life’s for just being a pickme and he treating her like his mom. Fuck no...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:21 PM
17

They lack empathy, also the part “they put themselves first snd we are kind and caring” yes to sll that, they only think about their benefit and when they can’t take anything from us they left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:47 AM
73

Don’t believe the words just the actions, almost all the men i dated told me they wanted to marry me and etc (future faking) old me would be so happy and sensitive buy nowadays i just laugh about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:34 AM
125

I think she romanticized love like a lot, i can swear that most women out there aren’t that happy in their relationships because they always have something to tell about their partners to their friends (me). I hope she can grow her self esteem and watch the world different. Because that kinda of pressure never lead to something good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:27 AM
5

It’s called rotating dating, i mean you need to do that to not catch feelings so soon and became blind lol. I mean he won’t fall in love that soon so he can date other women too if it’s really nothing serious between you two
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:18 AM
2

Change the therapist and talk to her, she’s just being abused over and over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 02:57 PM
11

They are so useless, also the mothers that do this are other level of pickmes. I remember that an ex didn’t know how to use the clothes dryer and he asked me for help since it was his first time. Also cooking they don’t know how to do a tomato sauce fr, in the other hand i see women doing s lot of things, we know, i do tarts from scratch and fresh pasta, and they can’t even cook something good??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:34 PM
6

Put your energy in something productive, gym, rollerskating, biking, etc. Also a dildo is better than any men out there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:28 PM
5

“Changing everything for me” giirl, leave him wtfff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:22 PM
8

I don’t see it like in used to before fds, i find it disgusting. Also the second one, rapist much? It sounds like he kidnapped a woman to do that. Psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:12 PM
9

Finally someone saying facts. Always they leave when the women really need help, oh but when they are worthless they cry if the woman leaves. Fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:38 AM
33

Love this!! Is really helpful more for people that are perfectionists like myself 🥲 thanks, let’s enjoy the moment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:43 PM
19

This sounds like a nightmare lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:52 PM
18

This is sick af!! Already wanting to sexualize women that aren’t even born?? Wtf with these pedos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:08 AM
16

When he listened more to his mother that mistreated him sometimes even when i was around, when he tried to tell me what to do or wear when I’m half snd less than his weight.and the fact that he is a uncessful student that can’t pass an exam even ig he tries 3 times lol, forever student for sure/ THE ICK. Lvm man in all his glory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:52 PM
3

You didn’t miss anything darling, good for you. Keep working on yourself that’s what really matter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:58 PM
27

I used to be with one that didnt even know how to do a tomato sauce, wtf. Their mothers do everything for them and they don’t learn for them too. I had to teach him like i was his mom😂😂 never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:06 AM
4

Amen to that, we are our most important thing here. Change for good and make ourselves happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:19 PM
9

For me was the belief that they were oh so quiet and nice, something to calm myself too. But no they are shy because they are insecure and don’t know how to communicate that well and prefer to be on the phone with their games or watch bimbos in ig. So no, i don’t want to do all the social work in a conversation in public with them. It’s a no for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:44 PM
12

It’s fine if you don’t want it. I see a lot of women regreting the time they wasted on men in their 20’s all the pickme and the expectations on lvm. Focus on yourself and your growth. I wsnt to fall in love with my life. Preach queen, that’s better that any man out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 03:11 AM
55

Don’t try hard to be with them, they just don’t worth it. Shy men aren’t good just because of that and no, you can’t help them just because you are extrovert. Back off from narcissists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 11:48 PM
35

Amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 11:47 PM
22

*is better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:53 PM
3

Actually he thinks and stalks her LOL “no big deal” that girl sticks up in his head forever hahaha uh men..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 04:32 PM
7

Why they always like to mske us look desperate af. Girl no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 03:43 PM
19

Good for him to stand up for his fiancé and no falling in the common thing of be quiet and stick to family even when they are assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 03:42 PM
32

I love you too sis, we went trough a lot. With narcissists, abusive men but we went trough them and become stronger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:56 PM
4

It’s not your fault. Have mercy of your past young self and learn to not repeat mistakes. A lot of women, me included were pressed into sx with them or without protection. Even when they wasn’t feeling it they just gave in because they are exhausted or vulnerable . It isn’t right. It happens more in relationships or marriages. Don’t do things you don’t desire too, you know now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 06:25 AM
10

My hoe phase is dancing and doing bad bitch makeup. Don’t giving af about men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:48 AM
18

Dump him lol also the men that doesn’t eat vegetables or more fruits than banana? Probably will gain weight fast and is boring aF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 01:28 AM
26

YES. One day i was in my ex lvm house and we hear some noises in the night. We were scared to death because they came for a place that was in rebuilding. So i stand up to see what’s happening and told him to go with me to see. This scrote put me first, PUT me first in the line to see what is going on, so if a fucking thief was in there i will be the first exposed. Thanks god it was nothing but oj god i should left him right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:21 PM
75

That’s a man right there, standing out for what he believes no matter what. Good for u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:17 PM
4

Queen shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:23 AM
36

I used to fall for that shit but no more. First you and second you. They damage and hurt even if they say they don’t know they are sick, narcissist, depressed men etc. All of them need to stay alone, my ex lvm with his daddy issues and weight depression and he turned out to be just like his dad he hates lol, a classic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:55 AM
91

Yes it’s normal to be a scrote and wait for a girl to turn 18 years old to don’t feel guilty. Stfu pedo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:56 AM
16

Well, this is sick. The last part tho, she probably was drunk and didn’t know what to do. And call a scrote (abuser) hero?wtf is wrong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:54 PM
2

You are too young and probably in honey moon phase so far. Enjoy being with yourself and your girlfriends, don’t engage to a man that young, most women regret it late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:46 PM
7

Hi, im doing this too. I reconnected with old friends and they all say yes to meet up and catch up and build something. I felt the urge to expand my social circles because with my best friends is pretty difficult to meet up daily because we live kinda far or the schedules don’t match at all. So i started to go running with two girls i met in ig that live near me, both so amicable and fun to talk to so everything good so far. And I’m seeing more my already friends, i will continue to meet new peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:10 PM
25

Accurate af, when they see their hairline fading more and more they just stick to whatever woman they have in the moment doesn’t matter if she’s not their dream girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:59 PM
43

I agree, men that approach like this saying things like “your eyes are so big/small, photo wise, backhanded compliments” they are just trying to get you to answer them, they will take anything even an insult just to flirt with you. Left them on read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:53 PM
30

Wtf with men. He’s a psycho, just move on dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:50 PM
15

Insult? LOL we won’t be talking to you anymore if you are disrespectful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:08 AM
4

They taking off their hats HAHAHa so insecure omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:07 AM
23

Wtf with this girls, it makes sense but you don’t do his chores and train him like a puppy you just left him and save time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:26 AM
69

Good way to say you are cheap ungrateful scrote. She did way a lot of things for him and he can’t even buy her a ring? When she gave him all her good years with him sick. Never do that much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:21 PM
175

He is an asshole, i run 4 days a week so i can hold up pretty good. Yesterday i went out with two friends that are starting to run, i just keep the rhythm with them and if i went faster I just wait for them because I CARE and want to be with them. He doesn’t care at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:19 PM
38

Same here. don’t even think twice when they follow nsfw girls or whores. These men dont change, i made the mistake to give a second opportunity to one of them in the past, worst mistake ever😝 like don’t even think about it just run. I tried to convince myself that it was ok but is a nono and when you know is wrong it shows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:58 PM
31

Dump him, don’t even think twice when they follow nsfw girls or whores. These men dont change, i made the mistake to give a second opportunity to one of them in the past, worst mistake ever😝 like don’t even think about it just run. He isn’t respecting you and if you told him and he didn’t change, he won’t do it either lol don’t waste your time sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:56 PM
24

Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 12:55 PM
5

You are so brave, i hope you get the justice you deserve. So proud of you, stay strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:33 AM
1

Facts, they cover all with beards that arent even cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:31 AM
68

Some female therapist are blessed for real, they know the truth and they tell you. My ex therapist told me “he’s a narcissist you don’t need that in your life, I’m glad is over” I’m really thankful for everything she made me think and let go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:18 AM
60

Look a fifteen years old is more intelligent that most men out there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:08 AM
20

Good for you girl, I’m in the same page, i dont need men just new friends and self worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:57 PM
19

Do less and you get less, that’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:57 PM
6

Hopefully hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:48 PM
47

Such a loser, using narcissist tactics just to get some felame attention or trauma bonding sounds like a heavier version of my ex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 09:14 PM
22

The men that say they understand a killer (??) sick fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:17 PM
25

When they cheat and see whores on internet is okey but if you dare to do it, they have an excuse to murder u and degrade u????? Wtf fucking psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:17 PM
4

The “all my exs are crazy” is almost all the men out there. My ex lvm said this so much just to not take accountability of his narc shit and blame others. I’m probably a crazy one too😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:08 PM
-3

It looks sweet the only thing that I don’t like is he being an introvert buy if you can with it is okey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:47 AM
3

It’s about consistency, my friend is more hv than my narcissist ex. I tell my friend that i need something or i want and don’t have time to go and get it, he send it to my house. Also is something that doesn’t benefit them, something caring and empathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:49 AM
6

So sweet❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:41 AM
75

Wtf, such a weirdo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:37 PM
29

Obviously no, it will show how he treat normal people in general, if he didn’t treat you good in your other phase. why now? Sounds like an asshole to me, not my type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:23 PM
13

Put a restraining order, girl. He’s obsessed. Thanks god in my case the trash throw himself out but if they talk shit or spread rumors, it’s going down, scrote will be so exposed he’ll never wsnt to leave his mommy’s house🤡 and i warned him so no news
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:58 PM
12

I love her, she’s saying facts. Bad bish move
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:00 PM
13

You can do it girl, I’m rooting for you💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:06 AM
36

Wtf they thinking that if you are confident you will let them do wathever they want with your time. Fuck no, when you love yourself and know your worth, you don’t let anyone to waste your time or treat you bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:05 AM
24

Don’t try to understand a stupid or narc you will get on their level. They are sick that’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:04 AM
69

Dump him girl, he just need a blow doll no a human lol. Stop wasting your precious timw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:22 AM
76

I prefer one thousand times to be single that with a narcissist scrote that shrink my energy lol this women really like to be unhappy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:07 PM
16

They defend men like they will ever do the same for then when in reality incels are laughing about missing woman or rape culture. Woman if you think this is extreme, how about look the numbers, almost 200 thousand in this sub and we are not talking about how to take advantage of men line they do, we just wsnt to protect ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:03 PM
8

It’s always the fat or ugly men that talks like that sbout women☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:49 PM
2

Amen, this also counts if you start talking or dating right away that his ex relationship ended like you were wsiting for it, sis he’ll do the exact same to you, waste your time and then change you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:43 AM
1

I know, suggestions to meet people irl? I don’t wsnt anything virtual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:41 AM
3

Amen, i would never do that again, most of them suck at bed and if you try to be nice you act and do fake moans. Stop it, i hope that some woman tell them they suck fr. And the question, 0 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:51 AM
8

Okay so a introverted narcissist that makes working out his personality, yeah i pass. How they think someone would think this is fine? LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 01:43 AM
74

Wtf. How can you joke about a murder? They are sick fr, psycho shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:51 PM
53

. Introducing his mother early on . Says he talk about u to his friends or mother . Says i love u in the first date . Idealize everything about u and you are perfect phase . Talks bad about their exs they used to idealize (red flag) . Tells you about his trauma or personal stuff .”All my exs were bad but you are so different and special” narcissist alert🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:33 AM
31

Your friends say a lot about yourself, they are shitty and treat people bad? You are likely like them. They don’t respect their gf request? He thinks he got reason and surely will do what he wants and go to a strip club. I’ll never marry him fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:53 PM
43

Saying she finds the 3 dates before sex ridiculous and then this man don’t want nothing to do with her besides sx 🤡🤡🤡 poor woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:30 PM
17

It happens always even if the topic is not related they just find a way to mention fds as something bad and talk shit haha don’t engage, sometimes i answer and block them so notifications don’t show or just don’t answer. They don’t deserve your time🥱 just bored incels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:02 PM
16

This, they make it look like it’s something bad or overwhelming but they caused that, to feel sad or sensitive for the horrible situation you are in. Assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:59 PM
4

Ew🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:36 PM
19

He is a loser, he follows sex workers and for sure he is the one that wants to cheat and you need to be loyal Lol. Always what they want us to do for them but never something good personality wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:01 PM
8

Wtf with that man, he thinks he will live forever? 10 years relationship + other 10 years, he’s getting old AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:55 PM
7

This is truth, they want us to be perfect for his family but they don’t even talk or try to get a bond with ours. Never. And the last question sent me to a deep thought, is so important to think that. You can notice how they treat their children,i would never left them with any of my ex’s mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:37 PM
7

I feel you, im extroverted but i don’t find good people to befriend with or situations to develop one since the pandemic, i just reconnected with old friends and looking if they are friends material long term. You can do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:14 PM
6

So proud of you, keep going. There is always happiness after the storm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:01 AM
5

Okay. That’s a narcissist move. No comments. They are sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:05 AM
5

Yes, they aware, they don’t say it but they know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:36 AM
18

Wtf hahahaha he really thought that you will be his chef 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:24 AM
16

What a woman, we need more women like this. Don’t afraid to act
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:43 AM
58

This is truth, I’m the older sister and i literally raised my brothers in many ways, learned how to cook at 12, etc. Men like this are literally lazy scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:21 AM
7

They are the worst fr, you do something for them and they just feel weak or even defensive, mommy boys are like this too. Sick of them fr, if they can’t even stand by themselves or the people he says he loves, i don’t wanna think how he would handle with kids or someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:30 PM
4

Stop wasting energy, these men don’t change fr. just leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:35 AM
10

I talk to anyone too haha one day i talked about my career to a jewelry seller lol i would keep going if there wasn’t more people waiting 😆 i love older women, most of them are so nice and caring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:08 AM
15

I used to think that i needed to sacrifice and do almost everything to make it work (it’s what society sold us to women) so the worst thing i remember was going to his city in train, being exposed to a lot of men freaks and going home almost midnight, running to get to my home because i was afraid that something will happen to me, he didn’t care about that and when i stopped to do all these things because i knew that this isn’t right he dump all of the things i didn’t sacrifice anymore to my fac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:50 AM
26

I’m extroverted and have 2 cats, get tf out of here😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:47 AM
104

My ex lvm didnt like cats at first then he met my cat and started to treat him like a dog lol he bite the shit out of him😂😂 they don’t like that they are hard to get
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:45 AM
67

Dump him for real, i can’t with weak men or men that don’t have beliefs. My ex couldn’t stand up for himself when his mom made him sad with her nasty comments about his weight, i would never let anyone talk to me like that even if she is my mom so i used to stand up for him snd he never do that for me, this scrote literally told me to shut up and don’t help him, almost blaming me for being good to him. In that time he lost me, i didn’t find him attractive or manly like in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:43 AM
22

Tell him you need more time. Be aware of lovebombing, my ex lvm asked me right away to be his gf and i wasn’t sure but a days passed and i said yes just becausw of all the attention he was giving in that time, it fades all away. Be careful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:07 PM
29

Well i know that I’m that girl to an ex that i used to talk to in my pickme days because i wanted to stay friends. He has or had idk a gf but keep thinking about what he did wrong with me, how much he liked me snd sometimes write his feelings about that version that he has about me. It’s really fucked up if you think about it, they don’t know how to get ride of their things snd close the history forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:12 PM
12

Said things like “I’m not sexist but women can’t drive for real” and shout if he gets angry on the road. Sees women as objects. Follows woman that are being sexualized or sex workers. Watches anime girls and sexualizes them no matter they look like teens If he says all his exs are crazy and never delivered that he is the problem, that’s bullshit and blaming only women for his shitty behavior. Talks bad about the beliefs of other women and makes fun of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:59 PM
5

Nice guys are the worst, period. I used to think that about my lvm, he is introverted more shy and quiet so i said to myself, well he looks like more relaxed than me and probably he will be a good person even though he doesn’t know how to socialize that good, i can teach him. Girl, no joke i used to carry all the conversations almost always in family dinners, i was so fed up, i like introverts but just as friends, as a bf is a charge that i don’t want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:30 PM
7

Comparing to carrie she is a feminist lol hahah but you are right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:30 PM
4

Scully and jo of little women except she married a old man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:29 PM
7

She was a legend, 25 and an olympic queen. This shows how an abusive man can destroy the best life of a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:07 PM
2

I love this, men don’t change is always for some period of time and then they go to their old ways. So girl don’t think the next woman is going to be a queen to him lol and if it looks like that just wait a year or less, he shitty behaviour will show and poor her is she’s a pickme, hope not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:24 AM
7

This is so powerful, I’m sure that if i talked to his ex, she will tell me why she dumped his ass, disrespectful, narcissist, etc. I would do it if she didn’t dislike me lol is the jealous type even with their exs so no going there because she’s inestable too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:18 PM
13

He’s looking better than any lvm out there for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:54 AM
15

Omg girl you are so brave. It happened to me too months ago, it was my first serious relationship and things ended badly because i told him his truth shitty behaviour, anyways go enjoy your life. This sub really helped me to trough that time and nowadays i don’t think about the past anymore. You will be better for sure 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:44 AM
11

Proud of you to know u deserve better. Also 9 years is a loooot of time, thanks god you are not wasting more in that scrote. You will be way better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:31 AM
25

You are doing well honey, i think he has a gf tho and he came to visit her, lvm for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:53 PM
9

I read the questions and say no to all of them thinking about my past relationship lol now that i see this perspective it makes it clearer in some way what i want for me and my future children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:26 PM
3

He is a clown for sure, saying one of your bff is attractive to you? He’s just waiting for a chance with her 🤡 or using her like a free therapist, been there and it’s always like that, i left that lvm friendship a while ago and when i remember how he talked about his beloved one makes me wanna puke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:06 PM
12

When you don’t let them pass your limits and dont do everything for them you are the bad one, well i prefer to be that than lose myself to a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 02:07 PM
56

Good for her, she’s way too pretty and emotional intelligent to him anyway. Letting go is self love. Idk why men think this is bad like she’s looking good and happier without him and most of them age badly so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 01:21 PM
3

Omg i really missed u guys💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:38 AM
8

That’s horrible, you deserve way better. Such a strong woman, i wish you the best and the worst for this abuser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 11:14 AM
12

I’m glad i keep my friends but i see a lot of women that when they broke up, they have 0 friends left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 10:51 AM
6

Change to other one. You are paying a porn addict lol, better find a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:26 AM
25

He is an asshole, dump him. Who says this to someone they love? Sounds like a pedo to me, wanting younger women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:24 AM
13

That’s disgusting. Just say he’s a pedo. Now we know why he’s like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:04 AM
10

Her problem now lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:11 AM
29

I don’t need to keep em if they truly are hvm they will stick with me and my dreams and if not better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:46 PM
49

This is why i never go with male therapist or doctors, they always are biased and part of the problem, i prefer to give a woman more work and they will talk to you like a friend no other man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:38 PM
70

Don’t be friends with an ex like NEVER. I use to think that it can work out with some so this year i talk to one again and it looked like it will be okay but no, they will use u as a backup or ignore you. So i finally block him. Do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:09 PM
24

Period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:53 AM
1

My ex lvm that i think we’ll had a family in these days😵😂 girl no no social skills so whatever -Mommy boy -Don’t know how to study even if his life depends on it, likely to be a forever student of his career -50/50 guy and still complains about doing the bare minimum -narcissist -love bombed me since day one -don’t know how to stay alone -Talk bad about their exs -Bad personality -anger episodes -Always talking about his stuff -Pathetic at having empathy, don’t stand up for himself or others -vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:30 AM
5

They don’t want us to have a space, that’s it period. They feel envious when they isn’t about them or making it easy, all the posts i see this is always to avoid abusive, narcissist men. If they feel entitled for this, it’s for something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:22 AM
42

I remember having 17-18 wanting a relationship, love and all that. Years later i ended with a narcissist in a almost two years relationship, when this ended in the most pathetic way posible i hit rock bottom. I understand that i already had love in my life, love that doesn’t needed to sacrifice myself to get it. Now I’m happier with my family and friend, when it comes it will come and i’ll be prepared but right now I’m good with myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:17 AM
8

He’s a narcissist, gaslighting you, they want you to doubt yourself. You did nothing wrong. Keep the charges
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:12 AM
119

Same, my ex lvm used to talk bad about his exs and now i know why these girls where like that, he is the problem all the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:59 AM
43

Go queen! I am leveling up since my last relationship with a lvm ended, i feel so much better :) i gave you a little prize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:22 AM
3

A nice tour to europe or something like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:20 AM
5

I get it that some women don’t want to marry but make a photoshoot? Other lever huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:10 AM
18

They are so insecure lol, they just expose themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:19 AM
35

They are so insecure lol, they just expose themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:19 AM
182

This! I start to putting first my feelings, desires over anyones’s else and it feels good. I also dumped an ex male friend because of his behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:33 PM
9

HAHAHA for real girl, it’s other level. Glad that you keep the five dollars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:31 PM
60

This is facts literally my ex lvm that thought that just being tall is a personality trait when he’s an introverted 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:25 PM
43

I can’t with men like this, always playing victim. Yes you were bullied in hs (like almost everyone lol) but that doesn’t give you any excuse to be a fucking asshole to others because of your insecurities. This also happens with fat or ex fat men. My father is quite short, I’m taller than him but he never felt less for this, he always told me how he pulled a lot of tricks to do things in gymnastics that were easier for tall people, never complain minus in his adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:19 PM
22

I hope my ex friend or lvm don’t reach out like never haha i blocked him everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:12 PM
17

He is a fucking pedo. And talk to him? Just divorce and save your daughter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:39 PM
21

Yes it happened to me, my ex lvm was one in public and other close doors, at the final stage the mask slipped so hard he can’t even control his behaviour in public and that was my last straw. They are narcs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:36 PM
52

What an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:35 PM
1

Rock bottom helps you build s better life for yourself, i came here after an ex relationship with a narc and now i can understand everything i read here that maybe years before i could not understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:55 AM
2

The last one is facts, such a cutiee🥺💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:22 AM
2

Keep it to yourself, you are no better for saying it out loud and making your gf uncomfortable . Douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:38 AM
78

She is fucking blind by privilege. Is always the same white women that talk positive about sex work, also no age regulation??? He is equal or worse than a pedophile, destroying innocent girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:34 AM
44

Fuck with your bros then hahaha, also making us insecure? You wish, we dgf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:02 AM
48

He’s sick. Wtf with this man???? Chasing a woman in a middle of the night, i would call the police
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:01 AM
6

The sjw are the most racist ones, i used to know one that was always talking about environment and being good person, he is one of the worst people i known. Talking shit about other women all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:44 PM
12

It’s true af, that’s why i ended the things with my ex friend. He literally told me “i feel like I’m all the things you don’t need in your life” in that time i was like don’t say that but a couple months passed and i delete hin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:53 PM
15

A clasic, they are attention diggers for real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:17 PM
26

Most of them are like this, first they tell you a compliment and if you don’t reply they’ll start teasing you hahaha they want attention so bad. I only ignore them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:11 PM
88

He’s a fucking psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:18 PM
10

Wtf dump him and get help girl, he’s literally forcing you to things you don’t want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:24 PM
74

He was the problem, i can relate when they told you to do a lot of things and they only play videogames lol, I’m in a better place without this lvm, before i met him i was better too. Now i lose almost sll the weight i put in because of anxiety (staying with this narc) and i make new friends :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:25 PM
1

Extroverted all around, I’m tired to be the one encouraging talking and all when we are out in public , i need someone who can do it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:19 AM
5

This is why I ended my friendship with this man, it’s tiring to repeat basic social things and it’s not the first chance i gave him so i dumped him for good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:33 AM
52

Well at least he’s gone but she needs to know that he used her just for mentsl health and fucked up hers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:59 AM
1

They lose love like is nothing for beauty standards or just because you are outshining them, you can leave girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:46 AM
4

Yes she was a minor in real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:56 PM
17

I’m sick of men that say omg such a good girl just because they stick with their shitty behaviour and past, this could be me (in the past) because of savior complex, i stayed with a man with daddy issues, confidence, weight, no social skills so wathever, they will never give you the same effort that you give NEVER. If you reveal and told their truth probably they will dump you or be violent. Look after yourself you need help more than anyone, not them. And no, we don’t need more women like these…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:34 PM
5

Sure because showing emotions when they hurt you is bad bad, crying, anger, all of these are a reaction to something worse. Just think about it, these girl trying to blame women when men do the dirty part of the discussion. I don’t want a man to tell my point 68 times like a toddler
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:15 PM
10

You can only dream, i always liked men like andy garcia or stallone and i ended up with a fat blonde in these pickme days (no more, he turned out to be a narc shet, thanks god.) actually i met one or two men that are like these but most of times they are taken so no, i can only dream about a man like that or wait 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:57 PM
6

Is always the fat uncessful guys that are like this 😂😂 i can’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:45 PM
8

Yes i know, pocahontas is based in a real history that’s more deep (irl she was just a girl that a colonizer robbed and r*pe her) is sad that the poc princesses are like this. I think brave is a good one but she’s white
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:10 PM
24

If he talks bad or blame his exs,100% that he is the problem. Learn this the hard way, run if you hear a man like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:52 PM
50

God, i always try to help women but pickmes are imposible. They protect their shithole bf and blame the other woman when the man search for her attention. They kinda deserve it but i hope that one day they wake up to reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:44 PM
24

Absolutely, also the risk of having a unwanted pregnancy? Girl buy a dildo it will give you a better performance and an actually orgasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:25 PM
10

Don’t let other influence your beliefs, you can try helping them but never insist if they don’t wanna do it they won’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:03 PM
50

Try pocahontas is the only one that comes to my mind rn. It happens all the fucking time, latina=sexy bod,spicy,anger and they feel inherited to have you, sure scrote 🤡 And reddit is obviously men dominated, i tried to find a sub to a kpop group and there was 18+ porn subs for this group and one of the singers is a minor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:28 PM
12

Jordan peterson, some scrote comidian (cogh almost all of them), red pill boys, supporting rapist actors, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:25 PM
57

“I don’t have sny money so don’t ask for it but gave me sex for free” the audacity. These man are really fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:54 PM
22

Thats why everytime women regrets doing a lot of things for men and they regret what they don’t do, stop givin these assholes your happiness and youth, they won’t appreciate it with actions. Just words that don’t mean shit after sll your sacrifice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:48 PM
22

Literally my ex telling me in the beginning that i can do better, well he was right. They do thst to create compassion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:36 PM
31

Give him a chance? Wtf girl, dump him. He’s using you and find it funny!!! He’s wasting your time just because he can’t be alone, a lot of men do that to stay in a relationship because they can’t stand themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:56 PM
66

They want us to low the bar so they can be shitty as they are. They’ll die alone if they keep in the forever gf circle for years and hating women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:03 AM
18

Dump him already , these pickmes don’t care to put other women in danger just to be good to men “just talk” bullshit, he’s sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:27 PM
183

I hope she reports him. Fucking rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:43 PM
1

Love this! 100% truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:42 PM
9

THIS!! When they talk bad about their exs probably these men were the problem to begin with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:13 PM
10

You just described my ex lol, they are narcissists af and always trying to be nice in the beginning but since time passes they drop the mask so quickly. It drains a lot of energy of you but if start to don’t give a fuck they get mad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:33 PM
17

Engineers or that tipe of nerdy guys that talks about technology and etc are the worst. Always with their phones and have narcissist tendencies or are narcissists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:28 PM
16

Period, finally someone critical and no just cry babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:38 PM
45

Period, don’t blame other women for your lvm behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:33 PM
4

You are not the problem, girl. Almost every girl out there in one time of their life passed trough this shit, my friends always tell me about how bad their shitty bf treated them and all. My ex also didn’t buy me flowers just one time when i literally begged him and he dragged about it. You deserve the world, nowadays there are more lvm than hvm so always keep vetting. It gets better one friend gave me more thoughtful gifts in these months than my ex ever did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:28 AM
10

This is a way to go, i started doing the things for myself with all the love i have. Being less harsh with myself also helped me to overcome many things in my head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:16 AM
7

He compliments YOU and your personality like you are passionate with the things you love, such an intelligent girl, assertive, funny, something personal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:41 AM
65

So he want to steal 50% of the benefits and he gave none? He’s a mf, never give men this power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:28 AM
22

Is hard being with a cheater narcissist lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:19 AM
93

Yes! Is a red flag, my ex told me how i make universtity better for him, help him to try new things, be more extroverted and always just me doing things for him, fuck him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:10 AM
1

Carrie was a pickme all along
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:15 AM
1

Queen! That’s what we need to learn, no more talking about his shitty behaviour and sorting his bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:30 AM
1

I take myself to go shopping, walk, see all the shops and decide what i want to buy is really relaxing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:14 AM
18

They are the gold diggers tho, she has a good income, works for her money and can’t spend it on her?????? He’s a manipulative asshole taking care of her bank account
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:09 AM
63

In the other hand he looks ugly af, is always the bad looking, fat men that are the most demanding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:01 AM
60

50/50, being always nice snd caring even when they don’t deserve lt, being someone’s girlfriend when they don’t respec you, talk always about their bullshit and don’t leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:59 AM
6

I used to think that they were more mature so i always went 2-10 years older and it’s truth, my last ex was 2 years older than me and is the worst narc clown ever, so inmature. Now i will go my age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:56 AM
33

It happened to me in my ex relationship they put a lot of expectations on a real human being with dreams, hopes, problems. I’m extroverted but i also like to chill in my home because the week being a student is pretty tiring. They just blame you for everything and they don’t do shit to change this, they just demand demand until the mask falls off and you see the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:42 AM
53

He looks like her father☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:34 AM
2

Dump him girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:21 AM
59

Literally hahaha also when they say their exs are ugly or talk bad about them and in the other hand they were like 2 years or more☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:53 PM
91

They need to constantly say they are cute or something about them just to fool themselves or believe it. They hate being alone with their thoughts that’s why they jump into relationships everytime. I’m glad i don’t have one in my life anymore, i love myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:53 PM
59

Amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:52 PM
50

He was always like that you don’t see that because you were in love (i can relate) you’ll be better without him in your life and why are you feeling bad? The trash throw itself out, poor girl he’s just using her because he’s younger and don’t has experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:42 PM
99

Good for you. Not my ex making me go to another city just to see him and make me come to my house at eleven pm alone, i had so much luck. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:52 PM
3

Happy birthday!!! Keep going
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:50 PM
51

The answer is all i need, he just do the bare minimum if he doesn’t do that he just left his child. That’s how it works for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:49 PM
86

This is impressive coming from an anime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:47 PM
80

Girl no. The first time he change his location you say NO, 1km in heels the fuck it hurts me just to think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:47 PM
11

Most of times they don’t know culture at all but hey they always try to say you are wrong and put you down🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:39 PM
40

Us: we don’t want narcissists or abusive men. Them: omg you are sexist and hate us (Well most of you have narc tendencies so..)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:37 PM
151

This is the reason you don’t help build a man. No credit at all. If he goes rich, she’ll be gone. Watch unfaithful in netflix literally what happens most times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:34 PM
34

I saw this, so sweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:42 AM
7

That’s relationship goals? Then i don’t want it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:41 AM
30

He know he’s lucky, so sweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:35 AM
18

I love this😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:34 AM
35

They actually benefit from ltr, women don’t. You are wasting years of your youth to a man who thinks like this? No girl, live your life, stay with your friends and work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:32 AM
4

If you don’t want to dont do it, doesn’t matter what he says or thinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:22 AM
43

Literally most men, it feels like they are scratching your 🐈 and it doesn’t feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:49 AM
11

For real, it makes me sick just to remember my ex lvm that watch that stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:12 AM
25

That’s actually me, im quite small in body proportions except from my shoulders for obvious reason, i need support to carry my chest, i won’t look like a really tiny girl just for that and it’s normal. Stop messing with our bodies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:05 PM
20

He is a narc shit. I hope you are doing better beautiful ✨ never let anyone tell u otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:50 PM
65

She knows the truth tho hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:46 PM
301

She is absolutely gorgeous at her age and all she says it’s facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:16 PM
28

It makes me happy that he is treating you well. Go queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:07 PM
48

Period. Actually amy is one the of the best female characters out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:58 PM
34

I stopped reading when i saw “this is what i get” i mean we’ll been there, me too in an ex lvm but yes you shouldn’t push harder when someone is an asshole and isn’t treating you well. If you feel embarrassed just leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:51 PM
89

Almost all sub reddit beside this is full of scrotes downg every common sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:50 PM
15

Girl i can relate, i thought i needed a closure after we broke up, i needed to say everything he did wrong and maybe broke up in good terms. But life isn’t like movies, i tried to do that it wasn’t successful as i think. The only closure you need is realize how you don’t need him and better without him in your life. Also it helps to notice all the shit he did and the red flags you missed. You can do it, you deserve better and will be better one you get over this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:29 PM
30

My ex is overweight too more like emotional eating, I’m really sorry that happened to you beautiful, hope you are doing okey with hyperthyroidism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:51 PM
109

“Remaining size two” omg they are delusional, i remember how an ex lvm told me that why i eat so little 🤡 and in the other hand me being the half of his weight and less now tho, then when you start eating more they’ll say bullshit to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:28 PM
217

“I want a small girl with boobs an ass” almost all men out there. Assholes😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:05 PM
26

The first gentleman that isn’t a hypocrite at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:59 AM
114

I don’t care lol when you reveal that you know how to cook, bake ( i know this because i raised 2 brothers) they already assume they have a personal chef but they deserve it? Hell no. They don’t know how to cook a tomato sauce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:57 AM
531

Cool girl so worried about men when they’re the first one to bodyshame other women, someone pick her already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:55 AM
15

He’s already blocked but if he tries another block will be the answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:19 AM
33

Girl don’t do it, is so low effort of his part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:49 AM
2

What a queen! So happy to see this. Is a light of hope out there💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:04 AM
3

I hope he gives her a real one tho, all this expectation for nothing? ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:27 AM
52

They want us to be good but irl they’ll never date someone fat or ugly in his standars🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:36 AM
8

Amen sister, i always am pretty out going with my feeling when most men are zero romantic, good for you💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:34 AM
100

They’ll be crying and saying us we are bad and heartless. The double standard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:24 PM
13

Hahahaha i died, looking like stick😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:57 PM
12

All these short men are just insecure and want to feel better putting other down or giving sorrow to women. My bff is shorter than me and never talked about his height like something relevant. The problem is your lack of personality, boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:45 PM
366

He’s a loser, the worst part is that men talk like this like it was normal being an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:39 PM
40

Homophobic religious auntie vibes hahahaha 😵😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:32 PM
80

This is why I won’t cook for any man besides father and friends. I cook since twelve years old, Even women said things like omg she know how to cook, lucky man. If they want all the benefits better earn those
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:14 PM
38

That she’s better than him in many ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:09 AM
64

This is sad actually, they really think that is romantic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:03 AM
153

He didn’t hug her until she came, i hug my friends more if i didn’t see them in a long time. And no, the music doesn’t help the fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:54 AM
12

Marzia is such a good girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:35 AM
5

Yes, already blocked him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:28 AM
105

Asian fetish is the worst thing ever, the way they think they are submissive fucking anime girls, die already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:35 AM
68

This is on point like they are telling us lol hope pickmes see this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:42 PM
30

And when most of them get fat in marriage or relationship they want you to stay otherwise you are a devil lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:39 PM
7

Most of them aren’t even good at it so, no missing anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:58 PM
3

Literally the beginning of my ex relationship, he asking me things like “I’m doing the things right? A good boyfriend?” Or when i talked about my problems he puts the guilt in me just for having them and not the problem per se. They just put their problems first and ours doesn’t matter because if u have them you are not perfect anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:48 PM
168

Granny knows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:33 PM
19

I am so proud of u, he sounds creepy af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:32 PM
49

But she says she loves me🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 yes like all her clients
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:42 PM
8

Is a classic that men do because they know there isn’t gonna be any luck further, pigs🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:34 PM
4

Were you dating my ex lvm? Girl, it gets better. He’s a loser and he knows lol, i bet all my savings he’ll found a new victim to love bomb in months, men like this can’t be alone. It isn’t your fault at all, it happened to me too i was planning to dump him but he did it firt via SMS (girl such a scrote) he always listened to his mommy even if she was wrong and never stood up for himself even if she made him sad with a comment (surely he never stood up for me, like i always did) such a lvm and a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:30 PM
6

CRINGE. If you fucked up so bad you aren’t a hvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:42 PM
244

She’s a prostitute lol i hope she makes you go bankrupt for real, such an idiot asshole. I hope the gf dumps him already, i bet he never spend that much in her gf, don’t live with men for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:07 PM
1

When they call you sensitive and they can’t even tell their problems in a relationship or just burst in anger for almost everything, they are blind fr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:29 AM
6

Easy comes, easy goes. Doesn’t matter if you think you know him, nobody truly know someone. Keep vetting and meeting other guys until he shows you everything you want in a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:22 AM
113

THE FUCK. This girl is gorgeous and is begging this “man” to marry her??!??? Girl please leave him already, if she isn’t begging you to marry him and buying everything you wsnt i don’t get why you are still with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:14 AM
20

Just date men then, is a win win for the women too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:41 AM
29

Keep dreaming scrote🤡🤡 also never sleep with someone in the first date wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:35 AM
34

And she is still with him. Girl get some help already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:22 AM
32

I hope she sees the truth, this so sad at this point. Never let a man treat you bad in any way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:01 AM
107

When you tell men you are sn actual human being with feeling= omg why are you so agressive? Or oh ok:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:43 PM
9

Protect yourself, seek for help in your family. This man sounds like a narc or psycho, 6 guns? Agressive behaviour? Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:45 PM
14

Good job girl, you go!! If you plan to roller skating use protection and remember to balance you weight in your knees so you don’t fall (the first time is scary but by the time passes is more fun)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:14 PM
22

Yes is always the movies or disney ones, I just can’t this is why i started to watch more women oriented movies or realistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:50 AM
175

Huh the fake future kills me for real, i take it with calm nowadays but sometimes it strikes when you like the guy, thanks for the post! It really helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:23 AM
20

Amen sister, his father wanting him to become an incel introvert, god help him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:24 AM
9

This is sad, girl literally trying to convince herself this is fine, she is in denial, hope she sees the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:50 PM
26

Is important af, i can’t stand men without beliefs or toxic ones. When they act like alpha and can’t even tell otherwise what his mother said😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:23 PM
497

Her father and mistress deserved it, well done. There will always be some people getting offended by things they did wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:20 PM
87

This is pathetic, these lvm are goldiggers and teaching her son this way? Dump him already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:37 PM
11

A guy complaining for the bare minimum part 1000 it’s been 10 dates and he didn’t asked her to be his partner? You are wasting her time must as well pay for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:59 PM
28

Girl i- i used to think like this but no anymore is pathetic, why feel guilty just for a present? If he wants to do it, i let him and just say thanks. This guy that is a friend bought me more meaningful things than my ex ever did, things that i really use and enjoy (makeup,skincare) gifts for ME not thinking sbout him, this dude uses to buy me chocolate and candy when i eat little portions (he eated more than i eat “my gifts” 🤡), i gave it all the leftovers to my sister. Also i agree what some c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:22 PM
99

Even the man is right haha poor girl is so needy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:07 PM
19

The first part, it’s so accurate. They found girl completely opposite of them attractive because they want us to help them to become more like us or better in some ways (i aint your mom) The part when he told you how you make him feel is literally my ex, before i throw all his stuff i red it and it was 50% talking bad about exs/bad experiences 25% idealizing me 25% how i make him feel “you make my life better to handle” the university and all. Narcs are bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:14 PM
42

Thanks for this. It happens a lot with mommy boys, my mom said this and this about you and then you feel guilty but he never stood up for you like you did for him. Also when they start to bring other people to sn argument is pathetic, so lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:34 PM
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The last part, girl stop blaming yourself, you did the right thing. Also when girls dump multiple times a man, it is a reason. It happened with my ex, his ex is kinda pickme but even that she dumped him (now i know why because i wanted to leave his ass too) ☠️ i should know that as a fucking red neon light, now you know for the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:56 PM
150

You are amicable with them and they already think you want to marry them. Omg the audacity, some girls just want friends isn’t that deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:11 AM
36

She’s so young a whole life ahead. Stop wasting your time with a narcissist, he’s just using your mental health status in discussions just to blame you. Leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:02 AM
33

If you are introverted and socially anxious better work on yourself first and no date anyone, you want us to ask you to marry too? LOL pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:24 PM
86

You go girl, remember you will be better this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:10 PM
79

The proyecting ☠️ they don’t like themselves that why their cry for a partner or someone who makes them think otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:55 PM
68

Why so angry? She don’t buy it either huh☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:31 PM
42

Follow your dreams, men go and come, don’t waste more time for someone like him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:30 PM
3

You are stronger than you think, never ley anyone to tell you who you are or what to do. You will look back and just use this as a experience. Best wishes✨✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:51 PM
35

He’s an incel and narcissist too. What he did to his ex wife is horrible. And now grimes, i kinda feel sorry for her, she believed thay he can change him when he never respected her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:42 AM
11

Wheres the lie tho ? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:36 AM
52

Hope she stops to be a pickme trying to change a grown ass man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:33 AM
52

Literally most narcissists out there🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:40 PM
15

He’s an abuser that reslly needs a report. Men whi think this is right need help too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:13 PM
47

hard to get already have sex Girl no. You arent hard and he don’t wsnt you for more than you already give, he is playing with you and you being a pickme falling 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:06 PM
76

And the scam is? Your brother actually care about other person that isn’t he, watch and learn. She married him and is giving all her youth years to him. Stop crying about your brother being a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:08 PM
170

The bar is so low that they want an actually healthy and caring human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:06 PM
17

Im so proud of you girl! I was in that place a month ago, you can do better always remember thst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:03 PM
9

The last part is so truth, it happened in my ex lvm the vision that they had almost impossible or they didn’t even count your dreams or beliefs just theirs and when it’s over they even blame you for that, u didn’t adapt to me so that’s it and they are mad at you for not being obedient as they want you to be (better ) they are crazy and most of them can’t say whst they did wrong so they won’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:15 PM
203

Ok rap*sts or abusive men. No is no, is not that deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:09 PM
9

Because your life is already fulfilled in some way! You have fun on your own and you know how men are, some are boring,narcs, love bombers lol why go trough all that if you already feel good? Take a good break girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:42 AM
1

Not she trying to convince herself his bf isn’t shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:53 AM
11

Thanks sweetie, and i really hope is an incel i’ll be disappointed but no surprised as if it was a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:30 AM
19

Disgusting. Women that like this type of humor when they can be your sister or mother are really sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:56 AM
76

He isn’t your son like he’s a full grown man..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:53 AM
50

Not even that LOL sometimes is just attachment and the wasted years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:07 PM
51

It’s really sad women with such a low bar for men, i just hope she realizes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:40 PM
54

Someone save her already!! Is always the good ones, she is so naive to staying with hin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:15 PM
305

This resume what i thought, forever girlfriend or pickme literraly beg for the ring but for what? Just a miserable life with someone that is an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:00 PM
16

Ah yes that’s so true i ganed weight trough the last time in my ex relationship with a narc. 3 months later break up i lost almost every pound and started eating better like i used to (he eated like shet) it was all for the best :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:19 PM
23

She literally do all that too in smaller or bigger portion just say you want male approval already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:16 PM
7

Block him and i don’t think there is a tons of other girls rooting for a loser without money and living with his mommy, he is a pathetic narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:02 PM
22

Her voice is so cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:07 PM
26

Almost always when they talk bad about their exs they are the ones to blame/ narcissists. My ex told me about her ex saying a lot of things about her, one of them was calling her crazy because she told him that seeing him liking,following literally internet whores made her mad. In that day i was like nah is just a reaction until it was my turn, this scumbag literally didn’t have any respect to me and the relationship so, run girl. And remember they don’t change permanently, they do it for a week…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:39 PM
22

Shorts are so ugly tho ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:10 PM
8

Literally my best friend, they are by far better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:05 PM
25

We all been there not anymore like never LOl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:57 PM
3

I know how to cook pretty well, i started since i had twelve years old. I’m never cooking for a lvm again ☠️ also when they use chores like a flirting method is disgusting, u ain’t my father lol at least he paid my bills and education
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:49 PM
3

Same, even in my days this shit is too low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:11 PM
57

Literally most men are narcs. My ex was one too (the worst by far)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:51 AM
52

Just buying someone is disgusting! Only men can do this nasty stuff without feeling guilty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:43 AM
122

Get a good lawyer and take everything for adultery. U deserve it and more, good for your son for staying, hope he becomes a good man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:42 AM
38

Dogs don’t have more option to stay with them lol u can leave him if he’s an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:40 AM
59

That’s so true, it’s better that acting up and do fake moans so lvm doesn’t feel bad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:40 AM
21

These are facts, I’m glad i understand now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:39 AM
35

I saw it earlier in the day, treat him good when they can’t do shit for you, emotionally and physical lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:30 AM
2

Okay he is so pathetic, literally most guys to this like one i knew and his brother, 2-3 months after breakup and already in other relationship like is nothing, obviously it ends up bad if the girl have brain or he uses his narcissistic shit to dump her, etc. Never something healthy until they died alone or find a poor pickme that never answer to their bullshit. Also his mom is the only one who can say he is good LOL besides him, people who say they are good are always the worst, you don’t decid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:28 AM
13

Okay, i feel so sad for her. Leave him. This is reslly bad for your mental ang physical health. He is an asshole!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:07 AM
22

Buy yourself something nice like a dress,books, makeup, whathever you like. Take a nap, relax in the shower, small things also help a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:25 AM
15

Okey they are sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:12 AM
2

He won’t change, been there. Men like that never change, move on sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:14 PM
7

Borh🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:42 PM
38

It happened to me too, this lvm telling me to organize everything for him and call me out if i stayed at home, boy you didn’t even made plans if you want to go out, make one and invite me LOL they always want everything served, I’m happy for you girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:52 PM
77

Deal with it lol we are not witches to know if u aren’t following us or not, just move to other way and that’s it, such a stupid boy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:49 PM
6

“You shouldn’t run from the cops” when they are literally killing you, i can’t with double morality people like the girl you are talking about, they obey the law when they want but if they need to pay taxes, law is shit. Only poc people know how the police truly are and it’s not good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:18 PM
38

You are doing exactly what they want lol☠️ the same goes to girls in onlyfans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:28 PM
5

Esfp-enfp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:25 PM
18

Girl saying this like being POC is easy. So ignorant. Poc women disappear every day and the police don’t give shit or blame them for any action but never the abuser. This system always benefit white women and that’s a fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:25 PM
121

Also youth, emotional support diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:15 PM
93

Girl why u went wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:27 PM
9

Queens right thereee🤌🏻🤌🏻 that scrote literally blaming them just for not saying yes to their ridiculous harassment 😂😂 Also calling themselves hvm or nice guy is the most pathetic thing they do, you don’t decide that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:25 PM
14

She was really annoying ☠️ treating bad other girls and not peter, they even put pick me in children movies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:10 PM
10

Well if this isn’t my ex, the blame is real, if you respond in some way the will make you feel guilty only for stand up for yourself snd take it personal, narcissists shit. It makes me sad that she didn’t have the chance to leave, he reslly get in her nerves snd brain washed her, ladies never let a man or other person do that to you, trust your instincts snd yourself. Qedp i hope she won’t be forget snd ser sn example for young girls and how a toxic relationship can end this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:08 PM
4

Block him and never look back, he is a fucking pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:47 AM
3

Girl wtf!!!! He is sick af, fucking pedo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:46 AM
7

Great comment, so true. Even girls without traumas or any mental condition fall into this, is cultural, society always push us to be the best and help men with everything but never said to look for ourselves and our mental health first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:39 AM
28

Insert : Why are they so obsessed with me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:58 AM
4

She is on point tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:23 PM
140

Love bombing and telling intimate things in the firsts dates is a narc tactic or for mentally dependent men, run away! They arent neccesary to be happier than ever, stick to your dreams snd beliefs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:50 PM
13

He is delusional!! He left his kids and now playing victim??? Talking about narcissist assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:39 PM
24

I’m glad that i don’t end up marrying any of my exs lol glad that i dumped all of then and even more glad the last one throw himself, it would ended up in a miserable life or a premature divorce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:58 PM
33

They don’t deserve shit and still desiring women like that, wtf boy go to therapy and extinct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:29 PM
51

Sis it this👌🏻 near to see the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:42 PM
1

Amen sis💕💕🤌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:35 PM
80

These men need THERAPY for life no some innocent women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:35 PM
3

I’m not stopping, ready to persuade all my dreams and make them come true💕 And yes sometimes I’m hard to myself remembering things that happened (i think it happens to almost every woman) but i don’t blame me anymore just use all this like a opportunity to grow and learn of past mistakes. I’m really thankful that i discovered this sub at my age (20) i have s long way to go! Thanks for the good wishes, the same to you💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:50 PM
3

Girl u are gonna make me cry🥲💕 thanks for all your words, i loved the song, i saved it in my playlist. And yes therapy really helped because i hitted a new low in years that were pretty calm (it should stayed that way lol) and i know that he was the main problem but also me for letting things happen (people pleasing that sticked with me for some events in the past) I’m aware of this behavior and it’s enough to be alert and don’t fall into it. i talked it with my therapist and she understood bett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:43 PM
9

Yes, i noticed that also when i didn’t beg for him to stay and told him my motives he became really defensive at the point i tell him to stop☠️ the trash takes out alone, thanks girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:19 PM
2

No my ex nvm telling me all his high school trauma, exs the third date, glad we know better now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:24 AM
1

Such a strong woman, you forgive yourself and lesrn the truth. You are an example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:28 AM
3

I’m doing that! I write it in a memo pad so it come up all together lol, Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:56 AM
2

I hated that, this lvm told me something nice just if i asked for it or it takes him a lot of time to say something that for some men is something of the day and old pickme thought the same as you i can help him or it’s enough (no it wasn’t, not even a bouquet of flowers or a teddy bear) just I can’t with introverted or emotion-less men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:47 AM
180

They are men, i don’t get girls that romantize them just for kpop or k dramas, this is the real life and they are like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:42 AM
135

Marx’s funeral 😂😂😂😂😂 ikr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:36 AM
606

He wants a maid that can pay his bills, omg please fucking extinct already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:35 AM
10

Girl divorce him already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:13 AM
19

“I don’t know what i do to deserve u” nothing narcissist shit and then you go away, is a hugee red flag Even when his own friends say this like “why this gamer virgin have a girlfriend and not me?” He was right tho..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:05 AM
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I remember he saying that he was tired of living alone, girl i- poor girl sometimes i wish i helped her but is sk Pickmeishs that it hurtss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:53 PM
3

You literally dated my ex except for the other girl part, you and i always thinking about potential when they have none, too pure to be with a narc. I hope you are well and you are strong for finally seeing the truth and that it isn’t your fault .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:26 PM
21

Gym dates? Boy wtff, it’s my personal time and I’m sweating my heart out, how can it be a date??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:12 PM
50

4 months!?? Omg she’s nuts, it’s like this girl i used to know that literally let his bf move to her apartment 2-3 months after they become a couple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:11 PM
38

Girl u were with a narcissist go to therapy please. When you see all the shit he puts you trough you will never feel guilty or wanting him in your life again. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:50 PM
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Yess having sex with a stranger just for revenge to a scrote that doesn’t deserve shit, good logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:43 PM
109

I wish it was that simple, some men are so annoying that only keep pushing if you don’t stand up for yourself (assholes indeed) i can’t keep calm if i see injustice or someone being an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:38 PM
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So sad, please seek for help, i found my therapist and i can talk free about men, relationship, friends and she wont take sides, I’m about to finish the therapy in two weeks it really helped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:01 PM
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Get a woman, male therapists are bullshit when it comes to woman problems or relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:51 PM
4

This, don’t fall for crying. It happened to me and i stayed and gave him a second chance just because i feel sad for him, such a narc. (No anymore in that relationship)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:16 PM
3

He is a fucking narc girl, always playing the victim part when they aren’t. I had to tell my ex lvm that he wasn’t the victim and literally threatened him to show everything about the breakup if he talk shit about me, lesve him and let hin stay mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:14 PM
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He as an asshole, so sorry u have a dad like that, when men talk shit about an ex is a huge red flag, they like to play victims and if your relationship with them broke up they will do the same to u🤡 my ex lvm was literally the queen of playing victim and now i see he was the abuser all this time, idgf about him anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:11 PM
6

My father is a hvm with my mother, always giving her the things she want, he changed the whole kitchen just for her, also do some tables for her plants, a lot of things, sometimes i can’t stand him because he’s sarcastic but they stand each other so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:51 PM
31

They are delusional. Psychos just blame a poor girl and not the abuser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:19 PM
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Lvm always are the first ones to call a hvm that cares and treats good women a simp. Human decency and caring is being a simp for them, disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:16 PM
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All of these are true, the crying part huh it happened in my ex relationship with my ex lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:19 AM
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Rest in peace and yes they always minimize us and our problems but they still want their problems to be main character in every relationship like they only matter and us never felt sad or anxious. It happened in my ex relationship that he didn’t wsnt to hear my problems, blaming me because my attitude change when i had problems with my parents or with him, he was the main problem now that he is not around i’m pretty calm. So don’t hear to them, our problems matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:52 AM
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If you feel uncomfortable and you can’t be yourself, what’s the point tho? Better stay single, leave that lvm the faster u can because they see when things are falling apart and leave u because of the fear, go girl. U can do better without him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:44 PM
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Literally porn addicted lvm telling normal girls to go to therapy just to watch porn with them. THE AUDACITY, disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:23 PM
10

I love beyonce but is true af everything you say, she told us to be free and empowered but she can’t do it for herself and stays with his lvm ugly af husband, just left him already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:09 PM
4

Well this is embarrassing af even if it’s true but put that in a cake? Never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:02 PM
3

You are so strong, you were with a narcissist, a psycho. Thanks for sharing. We can heal snd be better, reach our dreams and more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:48 PM
9

Gamer subreddits LOL girl just put the option don’t messages from strangers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:46 PM
5

Well this happened to me st the end like pointing out flaws that they really wanna believe to put you down like the one to blame (it didn’t work LOL) the i wss thinking about breaking up a long time ago but suddenly i’ll do it now, boy they are manual scrotes. I blocked him everywhere, he is desd to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:43 PM
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It’s so common what you are mentionting it makes me think we date the same guy LOL narcs are so common if you watch the spectrum they repeat. It happened to me too, he told me all his early highschool days, his missing father figure all in 1 months or two, i didn’t tell him my history at all (thanks god) because i didn’t trust him, we are strong and better without them. Always keep in mind that all they said, did are their fault. You are not bad, not your fault, just keep going and heal yourself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:15 PM
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Men make themselves victims when they are the narcs part 1000. Block him everywhere, change your number if you need too. These guys like to play the victim basically playing themselves to think you were the bad one or make u think that about u. Girl you aren’t the bad one, you are a strong woman that left his narcissist ass and he’s mad at you. Also big red flag talking bad about their exs and saying they were bad to him, He was the problem!! Omg it happened to me too and i was so blind and inno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:21 AM
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I can relate. We are pushed to stay friends even if they were assholes to us. I used to think that i wanna keep them like a friend because they were part of my life blah blah, my last relationship i tried this until i realize he didn’t deserve anything so i told him his truth and blocked him everywhere, best decision ever. Never look back and keep moving forward with your life girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:15 AM
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No one cares lol someone texted me saying good luck finding a hvm we don’t focus on fds, and i reply “if u were one you wouldn’t be stalking a subreddit only for women LOL good try scrote” don’t give them importance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:30 PM
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This is so important. Always keep vetting. Some men put a mask that they only it slide in when everything is about to end, it happened with my ex narc lvm, never stay just for “habit” or hope. Just leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:47 PM
1

I hope she gets better, cats really know the energy of people, my 8 years old cat bite my ex once because he touched him roughly and my cat barely know him (he was right)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:52 AM
1

My father always save the most part of meat/chicken for my mom, i find it really sweet because she comes tired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:42 AM
2

Girl that’s a man right there, strong beliefs, stands out for himself, cute, caring with animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:30 AM
12

Proud of you better now than never, you go girl💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:11 AM
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Same i use my main account for everything lol they should be ashamed not us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:50 AM
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I hope all the bad he did come back twice at him, he is a fucking psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 02:31 AM
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Thanks for this info! This will help a lot :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 02:25 AM
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Forgive yourself, you are learning and you will never let a lvm do these things to you again, you are growing as a woman of value, be proud of it and let the past beside and look back when you need a reminder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:53 PM
3

When they ask you is because they know they sucked lol like my ex and i always told him “yes” just to be nice or boost his confidence and he didn’t do nothing in return
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:43 PM
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You are right, all i learn here is the same things my therapist told me so, put yourself first. Your emotions are valid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:30 PM
33

Not my ex talking about every ex he had and saying they were crazy and treated him bad or he couldn’t be himself around them (a introverted gamer lol) i gave him a lot of compassion and time to do his things and he blame for everything at the final of the relationship 🤡 he was the problem right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:07 PM
38

Because they are pedos and mature girls already know what a losers they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:09 AM
26

Never stick up for less than you are. If you work and are successful or u are about to graduate and you are “in love” with a loser that is re-doing years of his career because he doesn’t know how to study or is a 🤡 indeed just don’t do it girl. Stay alone with your things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:03 PM
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Or if the father leave his family, a majority of men learn that behavior, to escape for problems or relationships and duplicate it sometimes without even knowing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:59 PM
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I understand you, he was a garbage but is normal the first month to feel like that, used,sad and miss things. But when time passes you will feel the anger, the truth will come out and you’ll se he was a real asshole and you were just missing the romanticized side of the story. Do exercise, watch a movie (gone girl is top tier), begin to be you again, go out with your friends, family. You are better without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:07 PM
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It’s been 2-3 months that I’m single and I’m feeling so good, so myself, that lvm really wanted to get in my nerves but i didn’t let him. I’m learning a lot trough all of your experiences and advices, thank you so much💕 i m glad that i found fds at this age (20) i have a long way to go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:56 PM
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Same girl, in public u are the one that carry them, for me is a no is so tiring 😆 and if u want to rest is all silence they don’t even try, i know that if i want a relationship in a future he’s gonna be an extroverted like me or more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:10 PM
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He needs to put effort in it. Don’t overwork or talk more just to cover him and expect gifts, love signs, letters don’t cover him with “he is just an introvert” like i did with my ex lvm. Personally im tired to carry introverted men, friendship sure i love my friends and my sister but in a relationship is a no no for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:47 AM
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Some moms are really dumb, they know their sons are failures (career,personality,physical) and want that other woman tries to change him. Girl we aren’t a rehabilitation center lol and they dare to criticize us when we do something they don’t agree with☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:45 AM
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I feel sorry for this situation and your mom too, she really is a pick me. My mom is kinda of strict but she encourages me always to be my best and expect the best for me, i know you gonna be if u want a good mother in the future :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:23 AM
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Actually i feel sorry for her, i’ve seen so many broken women falling into this or sexwork.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:13 PM
6

You should be happy that the relationship is finally over, he was an asshole and you know it that’s why you needed to see it by yourself (it happened to me too) so later you can leave him, he just did it first but you was already planning to so the trash just thrown itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:58 PM
6

I know, i always see them with a dead stare 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:15 PM
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Yas queen. It’s like that, I’m in the same transition. Started working out again seriously 2 months ago and started to learn roller skating (i loveee) you are much better with yourself. A man only is a hvm if they level up your already successful life no less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:09 PM
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We deserve better, once you see the reality you never come back. It’s the time to be spoiled and supported
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:57 PM
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FACTS. I used to think about potential if they were studying like my ex lvm (he wasn’t even good at study tho☠️) and then one day he told me that he’s gonna finish his career in two-three more years. Boy i- you are two years older than me, by that time u will be old af if you make it (i don’t think so🤡) . And I’m about to graduate the next year. So yes ladies, don’t date scrotrs without a career
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:55 PM
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I needed this two years sgo, now i know snd i never gonna look back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:52 PM
6

HAHAHA some men really are 🤡 and think whatever you do without them is bad/infidelity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:44 PM
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Maybe she was raised to that mentality idk is pretty sad. Men aren’t our world i hope she will feel better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:32 AM
6

Well yes. First you need to be someone and have a career to have a sure income, I’m really sorry for your aunt please help her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:18 AM
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We are together in this transition 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:30 PM
3

Girl, the skincare full size yassss, love that. One guy that i’m just talking nowadays bought me a tonic that i was running out and it feels so great! And he is just a friend sometimes i look back and really don’t know why i stay with my ex lvm🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:13 PM
5

The romantic type of men is literally so rare nowadays but beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:08 PM
2

Yes, this is so true. Lvm are assholes we all know that but u can’t change them. The only thing you can do it’s go to therapy, level up your standars, treat yourself in a new better version and never look back to any lvm again. It’s our personal trait. The last item is on point tho they blame you when you can’t chsnge them or give them everything ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:00 PM
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Is human, the thing is to accept and don’t push yourself to fit a man standars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:51 PM
2

Obviously, coffee is for friends and that’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:47 AM
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So proud of u for going to therapy and started to think about yourself, we’re in the same path :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:04 AM
10

Men on reddit are majority of incels so not surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:01 AM
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Literally my ex your first part of the history. Narcissist shit☠️ i will never do that again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:00 AM
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I will keep it, my father with all his flaws (ironic sense of humor) is an example to me, a true hvm that always gave us what we need and more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:44 AM
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This is creepy af kinda rapist vibes. Please ban that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:06 AM
8

He is right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:39 PM
18

Always the “crazy” ex (always they biased opinion when truly they are the asshole almost always)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:42 PM
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My ex went to therapy and all, still an asshole without affective responsibility so. Yeah some of them only go to talk about stuff and don’t speak the truth because they dont wanna see it. Also when they told u that u need it when they are the problem ☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:47 PM
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That’s the truth out there. The majority of us are trying to learn and take advice, some really are still blind with the pickmeisha vision and don’t want to see trough that, you need to. I had to hit a new low to finally decide to see the truth and the behaviour that probably did bad in the past towards men ( this doesn’t take fault of them, they are the one to blame almost always but hey u can’t change them si focus on yourself and don’t blame everything on u)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:19 PM
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Same, i started to be more time with the ones that are really always for me, my friends, family and give them gifts, last week i gave my best friend a gloss that she was running out of and yesterday a blush to my cousin. It feels way better knowing that they truly care for you. No only in a romantic way, since my ex relationship with this lvm is over i feel so much secure and happy to be more time with the ones that really matter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 12:26 PM
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Congratulations! I hope i can say this in a months :) i feel so much better now without my ex lvm and starting to do new things, already lose like 3 kg just for being with myself and not eating like shet like him☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:02 AM
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You are strong, u deserve everything girl. Keep going
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:00 AM
34

Preach sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:45 PM
97

The picmeisha culture, the “talk about it and don’t leave him” fucking stop! Is our life and our turn to decide and have benefits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:16 PM
36

Girl run, he is dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:00 PM
2

Literally my ex blaming me for everything and then playing the victim when he was abusive and disrespectful in a lot of things☠️ narcissists are the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:23 AM
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You go girl, keep investing in yourself is the most important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:15 AM
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The first one was literally my ex lvm, i used to talk alone sometimes and the first date i talked all the important stuff and he just answer, i made it so essy for that asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:06 AM
31

Hell no. They think that her sons are angels and want a second mother for them, submissive that doesn’t talk back and always give her the reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:59 AM
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The worst part is when they think of women like an enemy, girl nobody wants your fat abusive lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:52 AM
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An easy man is not husband material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:25 AM
8

When this lvm broke the relationship via sms when i was the one that passed for sll his bullshit, first i told him to meet up so i can said it in person, he said no ☠️ so i write s long ass text about everything i think of him, behaviour, personality, all the things that he did, send it and block him of all social media, idk if he read it but it is out of our systems now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:52 AM
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This almost make me cry, i hope u are well now, safe. I wish you the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:39 AM
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My moment was when this lvm told me one minute later before leaving my house that i need to change my clothes, something with more colour and then he told me “are u gonna change when we get there?” Imagine me with a cake on my hands with my father in my house and this asshole telling me that, i went with him to his house and in the way i started to cry, i was so fed up of his bullshit (narcissist behaviour and lv) but the emotions all at the same time hit me like s truck, i was angry, sad and th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:29 AM
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I can’t with all these “empowering” rappers acting like they are the best and then fall for men like these, i love beyonce but staying with a cheater is a no. The same to all these women like rihanna, nicki, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:18 AM
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This is true, my ex really loved to blame me for sll the discussions although he had this shitty behaviour or didn’t care about my stuff at all. But hey he likes to play the victim☠️ narcissist shet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:01 AM
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Well this gives me hope, someday i’ll found a hidden gem, hvm really wants to have a good relationship with your family and work for it, being funny and tresting them with respect ALWAYS .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:52 AM
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He aged so damn bad ☠️ I don’t get the hype tho and this is really something that gives me more reasons to see him like a green old man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:28 PM
11

Wtfff what an asshole☠️☠️ so happy he is in the past
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:44 AM
15

This really give us hope, the details are important💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:43 AM
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No one knows them just these lvm, they aren’t famous or have brands working with them, i don’t blame them tho that’s some lvw thing but more low value are the men that consumed this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:31 AM
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Well that’s less disrespectful than my ex that literally follow whores that aren’t famous people on ig ☠️ Trust your instincts if you feel that it isn’t good, do you. Block him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:22 AM
10

Obviously i learned this for that experience, if he talks i’m talking too about your shape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:18 AM
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DUMP HIM. Delete everything!!!!!! These poor girls being in an album of a psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:33 AM
53

They always judge us by appearance, if u were ugly he wouldn’t talk to you in a first place. Yes i been there too, lowered my standards for validation and “””love””” (he was a narcissist lol) in my best after quarantine i was so slim and feeling powerful (wow the time that i was far away from him☠️) and he sfter quarantine was the opposite, more fat and this behavior that i barely stand until i couldn’t. Yet these men have the Audacity to tell things about yourself, your hair, what to wear, your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:59 AM
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Girl. Don’t give a chance to men like that i don’t care if i live in this city all my life and he is coming. He is the interested in knowing me, google a good place and we meet. Dating should be stress-free. Advice for someone who used to arrange almost all the dates, never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:50 AM
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Do what you can, she needs to wake to reality. It’s not very hvw forgive a cheater, she deserves better and she knows that. Stop wasting more time, 8 years is already enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:46 AM
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So true, the way you see beauty really can change the game. I started to do this intern work with myself and it reslly helped me to feel good about myself and my environment, poc women, all shapes, all colours, all beautiful and unique in their way, media really put in your mind white washed beauty all the time is not bad in a certain dosis but no this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:36 PM
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You go girl, a month ago i red the letters that my ex lvm wrote me. Resume: .a paragraph telling me how bad other ex’s trated him (calling him bad names, treating him bad or how they tried to change him because they didn’t like his hobbies) i was thinking about this a days ago, probably (for sure) all of these things are biased by his perspective and FALSE. Because we end bad and for sure he will say something similar about me ☠️☠️ . How much he loves me and how special and beautiful i am and te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:06 PM
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Thanks, it wasn’t that hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:48 PM
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It makes me wanna vomit for real, they are so fed up with their anime stuff that really think every girl out there is like that. Sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:21 AM
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It’s never too late, we have the power and dedication to survive trough all these things, i’m 21 and i still think that i need a lot of learning and healing to do and i’m on it. Eveybody is different and it takes time to wake up and treat all these
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:17 AM
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Girl i☠️☠️ well i’m a pale latina so i been trough that, they don’t deserve sh*t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:50 AM
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White man that have a fetish for asian girls are the worst. I see them because i had/have asian girl friends and they really think of them like anime girls (???) or in a submissive way, i’m white passing because i’m pale af but my ethnic background isn’t so i can barely stand when they do xenophobic comments when they are the immigrants and many of my ancestors have been in this land more time that their’s ever did ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:01 AM
6

He is not a hvm. He just use u to hang aroung but he wasn’t ready since day one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:37 PM
7

This is true,i’m tall “in a womanly range “ but ex lvm keep telling me how i was small, it was kinda true compared to him i was smaller and slimmer but it really feeds you up that some dude keep telling you that sometimes in a cutesy way and other just to minimize us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:13 PM
7

Well, it looks like she needs to fall to reality first, sometimes is necessary for some people but i really hope she wakes up and realize that” potential” is something we use just to keep believing but it doesn’t necessary exists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:44 PM
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Save her. i really wish someone told me all these things before but well i learned it by experience and this sub. If he isn’t showing u his “”””potential”””” studying, having good grades,job. He has nothing girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:19 PM
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.gives you shadow in summer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:53 PM
4

Well that happened and happens to me a lot actually, i’m very extroverted and polite specially if i don’t even know you so sometimes guys really think that i give them permission to stick with me or something, it just creeps me a lot. Yes u have to be dead serious because they already think u are getting married with them☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:46 AM
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Just be you, men aren’t important for u to fulfill your dreams
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:53 PM
11

Well i only can say some men really are egoistic af. My ex lvm was addicted to follow these almost nude girls on ig even when he was in a relationship with a real woman and blame them for being jealous (?? Make it make sense) i told him about this one day, not because of jealousy just because the disrespect man. I’m a woman and don’t do that type of incel shit but he keep doing it and didn’t matter what i told him that dsy (i’m sure he will keep doing it with other couples if they fall for it) H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:53 PM
3

They are so lame, most of them don’t wanna study or have any kind of career (lazy enough huh) and they only want to depend of a man for money (??) one day that man cheats or is an asshole and they stick around because of how submissive they are not only financially, psychologically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:15 PM
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What a 🤡🤡, girl block him and never talk to him again. You did it because you are a good person sometimes we want things to end well but he deserve that? Hell no. U deserve peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:42 AM
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✨i’m prepared and smart in my law career, have good grades because of this. ✨ i will graduate law school in a year in a good time, i never had to re-do a subject ✨i have good habits at the time to cook and eat healthy thanks to myself. ✨i’m supportive with the ones y love and encouraging ✨i’m passionate with the things i love like roller skating, workout,read,biking,cooking,makeup, skincare,law school ✨intense focus if i really want something ✨financially intelligent always looking for that disc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:18 PM
7

Breed sheep, i’m dying literally ex lvm 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:22 PM
10

Keep up with my healthy diet Keep working out more time Look for a new dress to go out with my friends:) Watch movies that i like Study
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:21 PM
3

A price to finally wake up and never gave a lvm a chance again :) i feel u girl, u used to help him financially with some things, please forgive yourself. His loss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:25 PM
2

This dude literally saying that women can’t drive and at the other hand almost killed us one time☠️ boy the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:18 PM
1

Always had good grades beside being with an asshole for almost 2 years but know i already gaining my shape again and happiness, already 3 kg less 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:16 PM
10

Girl.. these men🤡 really think we have 10 years only to waste in a lvm? I only know a history of this type and it’s not even mine (thanks god) a relationship of eight years and he didn’t asked her to marry him not even once, at the other hand they broke up and he blame her for a lot of things with all his friends. And this is the funny part not even 2 months laters he is in a serious relationship with other girl even moved out and all, i saw this girl and tried to be great and all but i have thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:58 PM
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I don’t know why i let this guy enter my life in first place, he love bombed me since day 1 we met in person, he said he loves me and if i wanted to be his gf, at that time i didn’t love him i barely knew him but i said it back a days later because i didn’t want to disappoint him🤡 it was everything really fast and idk why i accept that and go with it (i already treating that saviour complex with my therapist) this story really had a bad ending tho, almost all the first months that i knew him, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:38 AM
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Girl not me trying to clean up his bedroom because it made me uncomfortable watch all these shirts out of place🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:52 AM
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I imagine my life without him, i will graduate in a year of law school, a good friends that really care about me and are extroverts too so i feel free to share with them and be me, working out like i used to do before for ME no because this narcissist told me to , cooking meals for me and my family, listen and sing to my favorite songs, wearing the clothes that i want and feel beautiful in it, start makeup career and be myself. His life? Not even near to finish a career and being the narcissist …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:31 PM
1

Okay my ex did all these things to me ☠️☠️☠️ girl i-, he’s so fuxed up now that i thought about it. He literally said he want to go to x place with me just 3 months after we became a couple, i said yes because love and idealized a lot of things. Then in a second date told me a lot of things about his past like some personal stuff that i will not feel comfortable sharing if i was in his place, a months ago i read for the last time a letter that he gave me a long time ago and i didn’t even smile o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:51 AM
3

This! I was reading before the lockdown and now the link doesn’t work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:20 AM
2

So real that it hurts. Now that i thought about it my last relationship was so fast and love bombing by his part and i didn’t say no to some several things at that time that nowadays i will totally reject. They make you think that is all perfect until it’s not and blame u for it, such a narcissistic behavior. Thanks for enlightening me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:00 PM
1

Queen shit!!! All u need was to let that weight (literally) go and be pathetic again🤡 u go girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:46 AM
1

Girl,i been there, run as fast as u could... a months ago a relationship like this ended for me and i agree with the mask, i used to see him as someone really great but the time and his attitudes in all type of things, anger issues, some incel stuff, etc. Really put me down discovering that all this time he was other thing, a zvm that a long time ago i think was the best. Go away the faster, the better (these guys when they note some changes are likely to lesve first so they don’t feel their ego…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:30 AM
2

This is true af. I used to cover this unaffectionate and low demostrative man because he was more introverted but no, he was a real douchebag at the end sometimes we don’t see it until it’s over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:09 PM
1

Omggg it so beautiful. Queens lift up queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:17 PM
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Congratulations, i know how that feels, so happy you are free now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:53 PM
1

He did something for that, maybe the girl is angry and wants to tell him the truth, in these years all that i learned, men that talks bad about other women/exs are douchebags mostly the one to blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:55 PM
5

Period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:08 PM
10

Thats kind of racist tho, there are lv in all races! White,black, asians. Everywhere! I can tell specially in white men there are plenty of lv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:06 PM
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“Omg i never have to worry about him” girl same, i feel free after 2 months after a breakup with this narcissist boy, is better this way, you save yourself ! And you will feel better by time pass, stay single and find yourself again, inner peace is the best. That type of douchbags can’t be alone with themselves so he probably will fina a new pickme girl and then the same history, very sad if u ask me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:04 PM
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Girl yes, also i see how some mothers encourage this behavior and they are women too?!? Tf girl if u had a daughter u won’t want tha your precious boy treat her like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:35 PM
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