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STRATEGYriseaboveagain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:04 PM
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I’ve only ever seen it used by men, trying to persuade themselves that they have chance with a woman who is out of their league 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/22 06:20 PM
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Not a word came out of his mouth that wasn’t preplanned, coached, and rehearsed. He’s an actor, that’s what he does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 02:54 AM
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This. I gave and gave generously. Then I had to back way off, because I started being taken for granted and treated like a walking wallet. It’s actually a lot like dating 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 03:17 PM
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Eating greasy ribs for a first date? With some dude’s family?? Uh, no way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:40 PM
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Thank you for doing this! ❤️ You’re helping make the world a better place for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 01:59 PM
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If you get sick or injured, and he can barely be troubled to help you out, or is the least bit resentful - he lacks empathy and is too selfish and lazy to be a good husband, or father
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 04:21 AM
67

This. She had to hear it. You’ve planted the seed of self respect, hopefully it will bloom and grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 01:52 PM
51

I dated that guy, too! It was a real relief to dump him, all that backhanded bs can really drag a girl down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 09:56 PM
52

But! He needs a young woman with good eyesight to pick the hairs out of his ears 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 03:47 PM
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More proof that porn is ruining men and relationships and society in general. How depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 03:40 PM
25

A LOT of the “not local” men using Tinder Gold are, in fact, very much local and very much married. Tinder Gold is a married man’s playground because they can set faux locations and control who sees their profiles, thus concealing their activities from friends and family as they portray “traveling businessmen” looking for p*$$y
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:00 PM
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That whole movie was full of revolting male behavior. The old scrote who bought his girlfriend jewelry and gave his wife a CD was the final straw. If the betrayed wife would have dried her eyes and started packing his bags to throw his cheatery old ass out to the curb, though, the whole movie would have brightened up considerably! ☀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:49 PM
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The whole dom/sub thing is such a joke Yes, I want to call a mediocre middle class nobody my lord and master sir and do as he pleases Ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 11:41 PM
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Poor guy! He thought he was the prize 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 11:32 PM
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😂 I love you ladies! This made my day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:51 PM
53

A man who constantly begs for validation is deeply insecure. He will seek praise and attention from every source he can get it from, and will frustrate you and wear your out. These men will cheat on you, or leave you for someone they perceive as an “upgrade” without a second thought. Based on my experiences, I’d pass on this guy and keep looking for a more stable bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:20 PM
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YEP. I’ve also seen scrotes who “never wanted kids” suddenly become excited to be dads with the next woman. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 06:23 PM
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And present you with a bill for his Uber service at the end of the date if you decline sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:34 PM
13

Exactly. This person is looking for a life size cardboard cutout of a woman to prop up in the corner of the room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:21 PM
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Reminder: Stay-at-home dads are the demographic that is most likely to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:16 AM
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Agree. I also question the “affluent lifestyle”. Most women in porn earn virtually nothing. If she was making that much money, she’d be a famous porn name, her occupation would have been revealed long ago. That whole post sounds like a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:19 AM
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“I sent him an extra $5,000 for taking care of me” Get that clown wig on, girl. You should have deducted $10,000 for being his cook, housekeeper, counselor, and escort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:40 AM
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Not just romantic partners, but law enforcement, legal system, etc gives no respect to women who show excessive emotion during stressful times. Gabby Petito might still be alive if the law enforcement officers who responded to their domestic incident would have taken her more seriously instead of discounting her for her distraught emotional state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:42 PM
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Doesn’t FDS warn women away from Tinder? This is why!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:32 PM
129

Right? He’d improve her life, like, how, exactly? Oh, yeah. He wouldn’t. He just wants her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:52 PM
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We hear all this outcry about sex trafficking, but why does nobody do anything about those sketchy massage parlors with blacked out windows and sly back doors that are located in literally every strip mall around here? The employees are rarely seen, but they all seem to be Asian women, and newcomers to this country. It is hard to believe that there is no prostitution going on at these places, and that women would willingly to come to the US for jobs like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:01 PM
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A single dad is a superhero and a saint, but a single mom is just doing what women do. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 02:39 PM
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My career improved greatly when I adopted a more ice-queen like personality. Quit smiling all the time, quit making chatty small talk, and started walking with my back straight and shoulders square. Started expecting more from others. All the sudden I got far more respect and far less BS. OP, from my viewpoint, consider yourself lucky and on track for promotions and raises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 06:07 PM
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Love this! 👊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:54 PM
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Right? He treats their lives together as a business transaction, then is upset when his not-wife does the same. What a cheapskate douche. She should run. He doesn’t give a fuck about her. Men who are cheap with money are cheap with love, too. Enter a relationship with a frugal man at your own risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:51 PM
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Exactly! And how much did she charge him for cleaning, laundry, shopping, cooking? She’s a financial whiz, so she probably paid their bills and did the finances, since he apparently had no clue, and she probably also dressed and groomed him so he looked respectable and got those raises and promotions! This fool will someday realize what a catch she was, but by then, she’ll be long gone 👋🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:39 PM
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Agreed. Honestly, I wouldn’t even give it a second thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:45 PM
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You forgot - legally separated, but living in the same house (married) - traveling businessman (married) - unethically nonmonogamous, tee hee (married)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:17 PM
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Thank you! How offensive is she? Who among us wasn’t a struggling, broke 18 year old, or college graduate with a degree and no tempting prospects? Most of us sucked it up and worked and economized and saved and succeeded, without having someone’s grandpa pay to watch us pull anal beads out of our assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:47 PM
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A poorly aging hobbit with a Disney princess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:37 PM
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Or when all the men who fork out money for Only Fans get tired of seeing her naked and move on to the next new thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:57 PM
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LOL!! I was thinking his genius startup was “Here, hold the camera for my YouTube performance!” or porn. This is just as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:32 PM
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This urge to prove yourself is rooted in low self esteem Practice the are of not giving a single fuck about peoples opinion of you, it will set you free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:42 PM
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Men NEVER test you and then surprise! reward you like this video They test you to see how little they can get away with. That is the treatment you’ll get for your entire “relationship”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:00 AM
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Suddenly gets new underwear, particularly if it’s different than what he usually wears Suddenly manscaping, or paying attention to being more careful about cleanliness or grooming Taking showers when he first gets home, or at times that are not his usual Phone has lock code on it that you don’t know, or is changed He smells different. Car passenger seatbelt smells like fragrance that isn’t yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:37 PM
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This is NEGGING It is designed to make her feel insecure about her vulva so she won’t want leave her scrote boyfriend Run, girl, he’s an insecure, rude, self centered manipulator and he will never stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:52 PM
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They can’t plan a date because they don’t want to date They just want you to magically materialize in their doorway holding a sack of burgers and then suck their pee pee and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:49 PM
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This! He doesn’t want to marry her or anything, he is just sorry for himself because the former cute, innocent, ignorant little fuckbuddy that he took advantage of grew up and walked away from his worthless ass “Waaah! Toy gone! Me want toy back!” 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:50 PM
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Yep. Hopefully therapy will point out to him that women and men are all actually people, who share a planet, and who have hearts and feelings, do kind things for one another…or he can just keep on being a weird-ass loner who has to trick women into talking to him so he can do sex to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:47 PM
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Typical lazy NVM with the “how about you you come over” Sorry, not looking to be your free sex Uber, scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:37 AM
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Come on guys, it’s just “breath play”. PLAY 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:34 PM
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Can’t you just imagine it? This wannabe Chad is in the basement, typing up his bold MGTOW manifesto with his super manly, Cheeto-stained fingers, when suddenly, in the background, you hear: “Kevin! Get up here and take out the trash!” “Okay, mom” 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:01 PM
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He’s supposed to sound like a brutal man king, but he just comes across as sounding sad and needy, and insecure. Yes, like a stalker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:27 PM
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This made my day 🥰 And not that she found new love, but that at her age, she stood up for herself and kicked out her cheating spouse. YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:59 PM
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My guess is that a lot of them are cluelessly walking around thinking they’re the prize, so they don’t put sufficient effort into hygiene. OP - I hope these aren’t dating situations. If so, I hope you’re leaving the instant you get a whiff of stank breath. This might be just the tip of the iceberg as far as poor self care, don’t stick around and find out 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:54 PM
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Stop being so nice to people when they’re being rude to you! “Why do you ask?” is always my go-to, and works in so many different situations. It derails their intrusion and puts the awkward explanation on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:06 AM
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Just jumping in to say (obviously) that all this information applies not only to men and dating, it applies to relationships and family members, as well. I experienced similar behavior from a female cousin and aunt, and to my great relief, finally stopped tolerating it and removed them from my life this year. Be strong, my queens 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:50 PM
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This is a new twist on the same old scrote “I’m a photographer” ploy of trying to trick women into fucking them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:37 PM
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He sounds so boring and entitled. This guy will be single forever, like my incel neighbor, because he is not desirable enough to attract the beautiful women he wants. Ha ha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:42 AM
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Yes. PAY for the privilege of sucking an unwashed dick, kissing an unbrushed mouth, then scrubbing his shitty toilet after you wash the dishes for the nauseating bacon fat breakfast you cooked him. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:16 PM
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“Why are you still married?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:26 AM
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Yeah, that good looking scientist plotline was painful. He was just like any other generic dumpy, unkempt, and socially inept suburban dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:33 AM
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This woman is a queen, and will go far without her cheap, disrespectful, and unappreciative husband. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:38 PM
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Yep. I’ve done this for friends and relatives who asked for assistance getting a job with my very large employer. It was an utter waste of my time. After 5 or 6 total crash-and-burns after putting a huge amount of effort into helping people apply for jobs and prepare for interviews, just to have them never follow through or not show up, I now forward the online link to job listings and leave it at that. They’re adults. If they want it, they’ll do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:33 PM
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It honestly seems as though many male doctors become doctors for prestige and adulation. I’ve had so many mediocre to downright alarming experiences with male doctors over the years. Sigh. Also, reading about the horrible work for low pay nurses have been suffering since the pandemic shows that it’s likely much of it is because nursing, like teaching, is predominantly female. So unfair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:46 PM
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That was my first thought. She prob drives an SUV that costs $ to fill, insure, and maintain, while he has a Honda Civic that he didn’t buy snow tires for because he HAD to buy the latest video game upgrade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:54 PM
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Yep. Are you smelling an insecure, manipulative control freak scrote? ‘Cause I am. Phew! 🙊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:36 PM
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He probably was originally attracted to her because she’s healthy, fit, outdoorsy, and happy…and now he’d like her to get rid of her beloved hobby that gives her those qualities 🤷‍♀️ You cannot win with LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:22 PM
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90% of men have become pitiful, porn-addicted cartoon characters and are no longer desirable to women for either sex or relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:34 PM
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“…right near my place…” NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:27 PM
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Ugh. At work, if I had to spend time with older scrotes, they’d ALWAYS eventually do the tired, old “If I wasn’t married…” I’d inwardly roll my eyes and quietly finish their sentence with “…you’d never have a chance with me.” Their audacity and delusion knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:52 PM
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Aren’t you willing to bet this man never shows any of this weird compulsive behavior around people who are bigger or stronger than him? Just like the typical bully who somehow only loses his temper around women, but never men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:01 PM
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Yep. He saw that his paycheck was about to walk away, prompting him to grudgingly quit gaming for a half hour and go allll the way to the nearest CVS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:52 PM
563

If your family encourages you to stay with an abusive SO, you need to distance yourself from your unsupportive family members. Sometimes other married or partnered people are miserable and perversely would be happy to see you just as miserable as they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:11 PM
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We women can’t win, though. I was minding my own business, eating by myself at a table in a breakfast buffet in a nice hotel, and wouldn’t you know it? An older scrote comes and, without asking me, sits right down across from me at my table. There were multiple other tables available. I barely glanced up, muttered hello, then ignored him. GTFO with your audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:57 PM
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Gawd, this is like a “how many red flags can you count” joke. Except it’s not funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:49 PM
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That was just an excuse to stick his dick in a hot young woman. “The wife refused to open the marriage” was his other excuse. As if it wasn’t his fault. This guy’s head is all the way up his own ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:30 AM
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Yes! I’m dying to know! I’d join just to get a laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:00 PM
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This faux controversy and scandal is all engineered simply for publicity, and it’s obviously working
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:35 PM
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Also, men do not take breaks because they love you too much and have to “deal with their feelings” They take breaks because you love them too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:59 PM
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It’s probably not a lie, it’s things his ex left in his bathroom when she moved out in a hurry to get away from him 🏃🏼‍♀️💨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:46 PM
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This. You’ll never completely dodge the bullet, though. The moment one of your elderly female relatives dies, you know who will be expected to step up to the plate and care for the surviving husband? YOU. For two reasons - One: because you have no children, so obviously you have all the time in the world, and two: you are female, so you must automatically nurture whoever needs nurturing. If you dare refuse, prepare to be ostracized by your family members who should be responsible for said family…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:10 PM
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I once saw a sad and very telling quote: “Runt work is c*nt work” Reflects the general male attitude about women and children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:21 PM
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She’s actually higher value than he is, he resents it and feels insecure. His immature and jealous cope is to whine about her behind her back to Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:12 PM
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Precisely. Men don’t even acknowledge women they don’t find fuckable, so if you compliment a man, he’ll automatically assume you want his dick. So, here’s a big NO to complimenting men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:46 PM
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Please, yes. Make it inaccessible to minors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:38 PM
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She might not have a supportive or protective parent to turn to. It is probably why she’s talking to this adult man. She lacks boundaries and self respect and the reason for that is usually neglectful or abusive parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:29 AM
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Correct. Stay at home dads are the demographic most likely to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:12 AM
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He is still married to his ex? This flaming dumpster fire is probably lying about getting divorced and is hoping to find someone dumb enough to be his side piece
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:32 AM
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Totally agree. Any man who is willing to lie to and hurt his family in in order to feed his ego and dick is very likely narcissistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:10 PM
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Yep. If a married guy starts complaining about his marriage to you, he’s a worthless turd who is testing to see if you’re “soft” enough to be manipulated into being his side action. You handled it beautifully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:02 PM
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Exactly. You aren’t different or special, you’re just the fool who was dumb enough to believe his lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:18 AM
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Not just verbal, but physical negging exists, too. The guy always seems to be touching the little pooch on your belly. The guy puts his arm around you and grabs hold of your muffin top. The guy who holds your foot in your hand and rubs the corn on your toe, despite the rest of your foot being soft and perfect. Etc, etc, my ex did this. It’s a sneaky, mean way of pointing out your imperfections and making you feel insecure about them. Beware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:48 PM
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YES. It implies you are not desirable to other men, and you should feel grateful to scrotey for stooping down to date you. Walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:43 PM
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Right? Any time a man says, “I had this dream that you…” drop him like a hot rock and walk away It’s THE go-to phony, lazy, manipulative line to get you to do something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:32 PM
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Agreed. I don’t know why, but that’s where I stopped feeling he was very attractive and lost interest in him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:13 AM
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This is pure FDS gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:38 AM
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Agreed. When I left my LVM and started a quality new relationship, I gained a few pounds because I lost the bulimia he had triggered and I was really happy without him negging me any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:16 AM
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All this, plus “festive season” sounds like a cheap schmuck of a guy who professes not to recognize Christmas or Hanukkah - so he won’t have to buy any gifts. But probably accepts gifts from others 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:54 AM
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Same. Plus, my dad was street smart and knew that there are people who will ask for help with their cars and assault you or rob you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:27 AM
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Yes. This happened in my family. The husband just “forgot” to take care of his sick wife. She would have died if family hadn’t intervened at the very last moment. So scary and sad. I have very little faith in men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:40 AM
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With a love bomber, there will ALWAYS be strange small inconsistencies and false notes in things he says and does. You will notice them, but overlook them, because you’re caught up in the whirlwind excitement of the new relationship. Once you’ve survived a relationship with a narc, you recognize and react to the red flags by leaving the love bomber
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:52 AM
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Girl, SAME And the more I gave, the more people took, until one day I finally ran out of generosity, got tired of letting myself be used, and stopped caring so much what people thought of me. My life improved radically from that point on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:38 PM
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Well said, I agree. I no longer have any doubts or qualms about sniffing out male shenanigans and putting an immediate stop to them. Have you noticed how it seems like men attempt to mess with you a lot less frequently now that you have a confident new mindset? It’s refreshing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:01 PM
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It’s pretty telling when, if FDS is mentioned in a thread, the next 30 replies will be men outraged about FDS, with a few pickmes agreeing with them. On the rare occasions when TRP, MGTOW, or PUA is mentioned, nobody bats an eye. Man being misogynist = ok. Woman objecting to misogyny = very very bad and must be firmly stomped out of existence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:58 PM
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If you don’t already know it, here’s a man admitting that men do not value women who chase them !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:23 PM
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Similar experience. I’ve told the story about how the same men in my building at work who had completely ignored me when I was chubby, started hitting on me after I lost weight. I went from being ignored to “Helloooo, (my name)!” It was impossible to take any of them seriously and in fact I was sort of disgusted by all of them, in fact, by all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:20 PM
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It does greatly expand the number of men available to you, though, so you have your pick of which shitty men to date 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:14 PM
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This. And if you’re going to a job interview and one of the interviewers is a woman who makes a strange expression when you walk in - might as well turn around and leave, you’re wasting your time. Jealousy among women is still common in the workplace, unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 04:57 PM
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All of this is just an EXCUSE to cheat If it wasn’t the baby, it would be “she gained weight”, “she’s not into my kink”, etc etc The vast majority of men don’t give a single shit about anyone other than themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:19 PM
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This so much. She’s trying to tell him what she wants and needs, but he’s not listening. This man is a tone-deaf Neanderthal who would probably fail in many other relationship aspects as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:10 PM
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Agreed. It’s laughable. Everything about that is cringey and would never fly with anyone who has the least bit of self esteem or any knowledge of guys or dating. Anyone can get sex as often as they want if they have no standards. This guy is a 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:25 PM
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I’ve been disappointed by men over and over again so many times over the course of my long life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:44 AM
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Right? He’s indignant that bangmommy got tired of him and left. Nothing about heartache, no feelings other than pure selfish resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:25 AM
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Thank goodness you woke up and put all that behind you, and that FDS is here to prevent other women from living the same misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 02:46 PM
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Exact same experience here. The short boyfriend would turn inside out with delight when any women paid attention to him. It was exasperating and embarrassing. Found tall, handsome boyfriend - problem solved 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:43 AM
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Agreed. The explanation and wording, etc. just sounds wrong. She prob isn’t who and what she claims to be. It takes absolute top level grades to get into a US veterinary college. Harder than med school. You can attend vet school for pay outside the US, you don’t have to be a good student and they don’t care about your depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:02 AM
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No kidding. Remember the guy that started a rent-a-realdoll brothel? He had to close down shortly after opening because guys BEAT and damaged the realdolls. Even the brothel owner was appalled. Men are trash. Dangerous trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:36 PM
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Exactly. Stay home and masturbate, what do we care? No women are looking to do Olympic-level gymnastics on the dick of a selfish, cheap, lazy scrote anyway. Feh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:29 PM
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It’s a lie. They aren’t actually “just visiting”. These are locals who are either married, or use travel as a handy excuse to fuck and duck, so you don’t expect any kind of relationship with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:37 PM
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Male relatives WILL NOT take care of you, but as a woman, you will be expected to take care of them. Even your spouse’s male relatives will expect you to take care of them if there are no other women available. No matter that they’ve NEVER lifted a finger for you, nor would you consider imposing upon someone you barely know. Grrrr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:32 PM
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Yes! That made my day. This young woman is a queen, and I am very proud of her 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:18 PM
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This reminds me of that old saying, “The odds are good, but the goods are odd” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:34 PM
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This is SO true, and a reason why I’m pretty burned out on parties and holidays. Us women go through SO much stress and effort to decorate, shop, cook, and buy and wrap the perfect gifts for everyone while men can just live their usual lives, maybe buy one or two gifts, and be all “I love Christmas!” 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:31 PM
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You did the right thing by blocking. You probably don’t have to worry about much else - a great deal of what he said was lies. He was shit testing you, and lucky for you, you failed. He’s back on the beat looking for women who will fall for his lines and be easier to take advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:37 PM
17

Or your own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:47 PM
27

It’s because they’re too cheap and socially inept to suggest a date. They don’t even actually want a date. They just hope you’re dumb enough to drive to their place and jump on their teeny weenie for FREEEEE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:05 PM
10

Like the ol’ “Oops sorry I was drunk” excuse when you object to a totally intentional dick pic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:03 PM
16

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:30 AM
22

Yep! 🤏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:29 AM
59

I get Reddit Cares messages whenever I share my bad experiences with short men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:55 AM
45

Massive Queen energy. This is ABSOLUTELY what I would have done - “Here’s my half - byeee”. I can’t believe how excessively polite the vast majority of women seem to be, to the point of letting a man backhandedly swindle you out of money. Just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:12 PM
28

Yep. Then you’re stuck doing increasingly humiliating things like Belle Delphine has to do in order to keep those subscribers titillated enough to send their monthly pittance “Next up: watch me shove a lightsaber filled with live guppies up my hoo-ha! Tee hee!” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:15 PM
85

I have lived this, twice. Dated the unattractive guy, who felt lucky and happy to have me for about, oh, four hours. Then went out looking for more pretty girls since he just got a massive self esteem rush, only to come crawling back when no other women wanted him. Don’t date down. Waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:40 PM
111

Ugh, that is depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:24 PM
15

Older guys who are trying to appear young and hip also do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:51 AM
25

Correct. “I’ve been hurt before” is a fat lie they use to manage down your expectations and buy sympathy, so you’ll accept and forgive poor treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:31 PM
38

Yes. He was an angry, miserable person, but it was okay! I was a balanced person full of happiness and would use it to heal him. Did I heal him? No. He simply stole my happiness and it took time and a therapist to get it back. I’ll never make that mistake again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:29 PM
124

I hear you. Had to do the same with a couple of greedy family members. I am really low key about money, I also play my cards really close now. The less other people know about your financial status, the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:57 AM
54

So amusing when men say “mature for her age” as a justification for an age gap. If they cared so much about maturity, they’d date someone their own age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:52 PM
30

Precisely! Nor is he pulling away because he’s scared because he’s falling so hard for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:15 AM
46

He’s so angry, his blood pressure is probably so high that he rarely gets erections, which he blames on her. Along with everything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:27 AM
141

My LVM ex NEVER laughed at my jokes, but he’d scurry away as fast as his short man legs could carry him and tell “my” joke to others without giving me any credit He was such a jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:44 PM
244

Big steaming pile ‘o psychotic copypasta Also: Perhaps not in this case, but men who use slang badly are usually delusional older scrotes trying to pick up younger women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:18 PM
16

Super insulting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:34 PM
64

Yep. Subtle attempt at negging that totally failed. It sounds wonderful, and he’s envious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:03 PM
120

“Maybe the men who took and took from me are the ones who should hate themselves” - Ooh, why did I never think of it from this insightful aspect? Thanks for saying this. So tired of women always blaming ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:13 AM
15

Suggesting couples therapy is a brilliant, polite cold shoulder. Kudos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:00 PM
39

THIS. A man who badmouths his wife to you is testing you to see if you’re sympathetic and “soft” enough to manipulate into an extramarital fuck toy. It is more than a red flag, it is an immediate confirmation that the man is a worthless sack of sh!t. Avoid forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:38 PM
10

This person might not be a good match for you if you are only a year into the relationship and you’re experiencing this sort of trouble. I’m sorry. 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:03 AM
15

Ask around. I managed to find a tiny, private, old-school iron gym through friends. The owner/trainer is strictly professional. So refreshing. I love working out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:36 PM
49

Agreed. Took martial arts training that encouraged me to walk tall and confident and all the sudden the male harassment I had gotten as a sweet, polite, people-pleasing meek mouse disappeared 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:33 PM
188

He TOTALLY KNOWS what he’s doing is a complete waste of his life and he is uselessly leeching from his wife. He loves being exempt from the hustle and bustle of unpleasant things like bosses and clients and responsibility. This man isn’t delusional at all, he is a lazy, manipulative user. His wife will eventually tire of being his host and rightfully oust him from his cozy cocoon. And hopefully throw a party when he’s gone 💃🕺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:16 PM
3

As someone who throws big parties for her big family, HELL YES six extra people is a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:16 PM
6

Yes. That’s the shit thing about it. If the guests are men, you’d better believe they’re not bringing a bottle of wine or a side dish or dessert, won’t lift a finger to help, and will treat you like waitstaff. The fact that their presence means a fuckton of extra effort doesn’t even dawn on them, nor do they care. And you get to feel bad that your favorite relative doesn’t get any of her favorite scalloped potatoes because surprise guest scrotey greedily and thoughtlessly scooped them all up. Ug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:08 PM
238

Exactly. Pack a suitcase and run, girl. He’s an addict who is seeking reasons to drink. As someone familiar with alcoholism, if you can choose not to have a drinker in your life, walk away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:19 PM
114

Having the type of sex that requires “safe words”? Oh hell no!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:18 PM
12

Stupid horny scrotey about to get catfished in 3..2..1.. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:14 PM
82

As if that was something likeable about a person! “I’m an asshole, get used to it” NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:10 PM
386

My NVM ex pulled this on me with gifts. “Well, I was thinking of buying you (fancy item), but couldn’t decide what color to get, so I got you (super cheap item).” As if he’d somehow trick my brain into giving him credit for a splendid gift 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:30 PM
40

Yes. Red flag. It’s too soon in the relationship to discuss such deeply personal matters. I see it as rolling a Trojan horse into the room. Some kind of shit is going to happen, and it’s not good If your brain sends you a cautionary note, always trust it. You posted this on Reddit because you’re uncomfortable and doubting. Trust your gut and move along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:54 PM
48

He was embarrassed and ashamed by her nice car. His strategy for the evening was to drop coin and impress her, but oops! saw her lovely new Lexus and knew she wasn’t going to be sucking the weenie of Mr $100 Man. Too bad so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:41 PM
21

It wasn’t even $100. He had half, right? So she should have dispensed sex since he dropped his Royal $50 on her. Any guy who would complain about a date is automatically LVM. I couldn’t imagine any of the HVM I know doing this. It’s poor form that makes a guy look at best like a whiner and at worst like an incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:57 PM
20

I always wear boyshorts under skirts for this exact reason. No free show!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:32 PM
52

This. The unpaid, unappreciated physical and emotional labor done by women is the glue that holds society together. We’re getting tired of holding weight of the world while the men are busy gaming and watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:21 PM
34

Ha! I do the same. I say something mildly outrageous or absurd, whatever comes to mind, it catches most people off guard and they don’t know how to react. You get to snicker internally and are free to move on with your lovely day. My favorite was the chubby middle aged man who came hustling up to me with his pickup line ready while I was putting my grocery cart into the corral. “Would you like to hear a funny dad joke?” I looked at him dead eyed and tonelessly said, “I don’t like funny jokes.” P…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:50 PM
35

Wow. How could any woman resist this? The “if YOU want” is the kicker - he couldn’t care less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:39 PM
91

A woman as utterly gorgeous as her would have already heard every possible line and endured every exasperating pickup attempt any desperate and delusional scrote could ever dream up. She would immediately be bracing herself for tiresome male flirtation and internally rolling her eyes instead of trotting meekly over to him. Male attention is never confusing - we always know what they want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:15 PM
469

It was a shit test to see how you’d react to his threat of assault. This guy is a predator who is feeling your boundaries to see if you’d make an easy victim or not. Your choice, OP - continue working with him. Stop being nice. Don’t smile, don’t laugh at anything he says. Or, ask your teacher to be reassigned to a different team on the basis that this freak said something to you that made you fear for your personal safety (no need to elaborate).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:24 PM
44

Or married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:11 AM
44

Bathroom mirror was dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:09 AM
33

Right? What’s up with that? If I into a time warp and woke up in my 20’s, I’d go to med school and then open up a surgery center that deals strictly with male gynecomastia. Make bank off moobies 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:06 PM
104

Obviously projecting his own social ineptitude onto her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:45 AM
48

Happy ending, though! She realized he was a lazy scrote and scooted boot 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:12 PM
128

This is both infuriating and disappointing in its truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:11 PM
20

🏆 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:30 PM
39

Totally agree that men are not in short supply at any age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:28 PM
184

It’s happening. Women will soon rule the world. Things will be neat, clean, orderly, and safe. No more war, no hunger, medicine will be free, we can go running at night. Hey, a girl can dream, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:31 AM
20

He was lying about it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:16 AM
43

They hope to turn riding his pee pee into fame and stardom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:13 AM
97

Nicotine is death for erections for middle-aged men. Take an aging circulatory system and add some nicotine to replace some of the oxygen and it’s bye-bye, boner 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:10 AM
19

Apparently the profuse hair that sprouts out of aging scrote’s ears affects their reading comprehension as well as their hearing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:08 AM
17

Yep. Same with the 21 yo virgin I dated in college. He was a porn addict (check) and a narcissist (check). I chose to overlook the scrotacity that other women had swerved him for because I was a pickme. Older and wiser now 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 12:57 AM
34

Gold medal advice right here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:46 PM
226

That “not a real dom” excuse shit you see on other forums is such bs. What, do you take a test and get a dom license? Such a joke, all a cope to cover abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:20 AM
17

Yep. Traditional society pretty much hinges on women being doormats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 04:56 PM
14

I dated several narcissists who had very limited palates. They’d stick to food kids would like. I think it’s a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 04:40 AM
23

Married cheaters also do the artsy/mystery pic thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:30 AM
20

Ahh, thanks, sexual revolution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:24 PM
148

Yes. Guys used to be beyond excited to be in the same room as a naked lady. Now, we keep hearing about men who lose their erections when changing positions!!! Pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:22 PM
108

This is the truth. It’s sad how common porn-related dick problems have become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:01 PM
105

She must have to get up very early every morning to polish her enormous clown shoes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:09 PM
60

As good as the ‘short kings’ trolling 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:29 AM
14

Hotel is THE WORST place to meet a man. Roofie her drink, slide her up to your hotel room, bam!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:48 PM
14

Probably broken after tugging it 4 hours a day every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:24 PM
117

That was PURE GOLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:58 AM
27

The only reason a married man would get hair surgery is so he could cheat. Since when do any married men give a single fuck about looking good for their wives?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:54 PM
29

He didn’t hate you, he hated himself Not your problem, though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 04:32 PM
32

Correct. He never intended to go to that restaurant at all. A bit disturbing to ponder what his real plan was. Perhaps faking a leg injury so she’d have to visit him at his apartment? Who knows. Scrotes stoop to creative new lows all the time and it’s on us to stay vigilant and cut NO breaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:38 AM
188

With the wind whipping your carefully-styled hair around as you swat bugs and squint in the sun. No, thanks! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:52 PM
35

Don’t you wish more women had the nerve to do that? Put their clothes on and leave mid-act? The world would be a better place, hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:15 PM
67

Yeah. I stumbled across my ex’s Reddit account, too. One old post saying something fairly enthusiastic related to me, a bunch of posts in some weird research forums, and a ton of blather about himself, with lots of gross exaggerations and half truths, as in, exactly what he is like in person, ha ha OP I bet finding it was sort of unsettling, as it feels like a peek into someone’s unfiltered psyche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:58 PM
77

Yep. Usual term for this is “triangulation”, and it’s toxic as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:59 PM
12

My first thought, as well. Starts off his profile with a red flag. “Dentisting”? Suuure. Profile pics in scrubs are always another automatic turnoff. Isn’t it always someone hoping to con you by posing as a doctor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/21 06:40 PM
88

I watched my dad treat my mom like an appliance, yell when he was in a bad mood, and decided I’d make my own money and never kowtow to a man Money is power and freedom. I’m married, but have gotten educated and worked hard and carefully invested $$$. I could afford to walk away and be a cat lady at a moment’s notice if I was unhappy. It feels MARVELOUS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:39 PM
11

Omg. You can follow that appalling, self centered crazy crap with Val Kilmer’s biopic - what a narcissist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:19 PM
35

Just a note, a shared email or social media account usually means one of the couple was caught cheating. So your friend may have that going on, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:54 PM
36

Good job immediately identifying a predator Shame on him for using his position to hunt for women. I’ve had terrible and disappointing experiences with men from all walks of life, including relatives and “trustworthy” professions. I don’t trust any man any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:50 PM
25

Oh, my. The kind of act that you applaud when it ends, not because it was good, but because it’s over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:09 PM
10

Yep. If you chase, you have immediately framed yourself as easy and desperate and therefore low value and subject to being used and discarded in a scrote’s perception
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:04 PM
5

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:01 PM
26

All this, and men have turned sex into a painful and humiliating experience, thanks to porn. What woman wants this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:51 PM
26

Exactly this. If you have to TELL HIM something as basic as this, he’s a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:42 PM
23

In addition to the great advice you’ve already gotten: Take charge of your mind. Do not permit yourself to think fond thoughts of him. The instant you start moping and thinking he was such a great guy, immediately replace that thought with something he said or did that really disappointed you This will train your brain to stop revisiting him for dopamine hits, and replace it with indifference. This works, I’ve done it. You’ve got this ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:36 PM
65

Why do male comedians get to joke about everything, but with women, it’s often sex talk? I got tired of Amy Schumer for her persistent eye rolling vagina blather.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:28 PM
32

Yep. He’s trash. Angry trash, to be precise This guy’s best cheap romance option would be to jerk it to porn as he eats ramen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:32 PM
8

These are the men who will never get promoted at work. Dating isn’t the only stumbling block, their professional careers are negatively affected, too. Forever entry level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:29 PM
11

I laughed at that line. Here’s scrotey, telling women to ‘man up’ - and he is a man and failing to up 😂😂 Whooshed by his own irony
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:20 PM
36

Mmhm, yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:39 PM
56

Totally 100% true My SO and his closest friends are HVM. Lead by example, honest, hard workers, upper level managers - one thing in common is they NEVER brag about themselves. Or spoke poorly of exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:48 PM
198

“My ex girlfriend said that men who are in relationships shouldn’t watch porn! Ha ha! Can you believe that?” His ex turned out to be right. He used porn excessively and couldn’t finish during normal sex, he had to jerk off. Sometimes, he wouldn’t finish at all. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:00 PM
9

He did it to make you feel bad, and it worked Pack his bags and put them on the porch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:30 PM
29

Taken from Reddit? Most of the stories here are bs. Journalism reaches a new low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:11 PM
5

Spot-on translation of scrote speak 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:42 AM
41

Agreed. In addition to everything you’ve stated, excessive porn consumption is an avoidance behavior. There are things out there this guy is refusing to face and procrastinating in order to blow his load “just one more time” These guys are mental and physical trainwrecks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:56 PM
95

I totally agree with this, I was groped by an older relative as a teen and again as a 20-something. Still despise him, but karma struck him years ago and he had a stroke so his groping days are thankfully over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:44 AM
37

Ooh, well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:55 PM
49

Ludicrous kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:52 PM
63

This. I’ve been disappointed by the perviness of men from all walks of life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:47 PM
148

Here it is in writing, confirming what we already know 🙄 “If she’d have sex with me, I must be hawt! I’m going to get a harem of women to worship me and make me feel like king!” - every incel or shortcel, ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:37 PM
70

“You’re too good for me” is scrotespeak for “I’m cheating on you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:52 PM
179

Totally agree. Tried two male therapists, both gave me creeper vibes. Were too quick to start talking about sex and were far too interested in the subject. Finally found healing and an understanding, supportive space with a woman therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:12 PM
132

Stay at home dads are the demographic most likely to cheat The only scrote I knew who was a SAHD confirmed this. He lost his job so he got childcare duty. He spent his entire days watching porn and hunting for women to cheat with. His wife found out and divorced him. He deserved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:03 AM
70

Brace yourself for a bunch of “Reddit Cares” messages. 🙄 That’s how those outraged incels feel like they’re getting back at FDS, hiding behind their screens and madly pounding the keys with Cheeto-stained fingers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:50 AM
36

Pitiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:43 AM
21

You have exactly described my ex. He did his damn best to present a superhero facade to the rest of the world - cocky, confident, muscular - but inside he was a vicious black hole of NEED and insecurity who only cared about himself. Literally his entire life was designed around propping himself up so he looked good to others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:53 PM
3

Agree. EMDR is absolutely amazing. I gave it a try, not really believing it but trusting my therapist’s opinion. I was able to let go of the emotions surrounding a tragic event in one session. Highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:17 PM
35

Scott Peterson, also. What a dope. As if nobody would notice the enormous holes in his stories and lack of concern right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:39 PM
10

No lie. Especially when that “depression” is self-generated. Guys stay home and play video games excessively to the point where their self esteem is damaged, so they stay home and game more. 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:21 PM
5

Good. Protect your emotional space. Nobody is obliged to give time and attention to relatives who’ll neg you. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:17 PM
43

Once a scrote is accustomed to controlling you, they cannot believe it when you finally reach your limit and reject them. I was also a pickme, and when I finally gave up on my longtime bf, he was totally shocked. In their eyes, it must be like the Barbie doll they played with came to life and walked away lol To this day, his shocked pikachu face amuses me greatly, and helps soothe my embarrassment of my old pickme ways 😊😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:56 PM
4

That cutesy font 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:58 AM
28

Has any man ever said anything to you? None have ever said word one to me I’ve been playing the refusal to yield to approaching men game for a looong time. I love it, too haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:28 AM
8

This. Every other day, two sets of sit ups, two sets of pushups, two sets of squats. It’s free! I work my ass off to maintain a fit and attractive body, so should he. No excuses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:26 PM
25

No lie. Why go to college and get a job, when you can stay home and play video games all day courtesy of mom or gf’s support?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:12 PM
29

How exasperating! Let’s make it a women’s responsibility, like every other damn thing on the planet, instead of expecting men to do their part. Pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:09 PM
20

Thank you. Who amongst us hasn’t been hit on by married scrotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:27 PM
5

Read up on narcissists and narcissistic relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:01 PM
5

Yep. When they aren’t wanking or gaming, they’re irritably waiting for their next opportunity to game or wank. Scrotey be hoping to find the right woman to be his cook, bank, and housekeeper so can indulge his addiction 24/7 and never has to leave the house again. Shudder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:56 PM
4

Add my voice of agreement. These men are narcissists who would say just about anything in their efforts to procure more supply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:42 PM
9

They DON’T think they’re all that, though. If they did, they wouldn’t feel the need to lie about themselves to attract women. They’re insecure, and we all know insecure men are horrible relationship risks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:39 PM
40

Indeed. I didn’t mind my college bf’s thinning crown, he was handsome regardless, but he’d constantly fuss in the mirror and basically beg for reassurance about it to the point where I asked him not to mention it any more. Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:23 PM
13

Interesting, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:12 PM
60

Those are also the men who are most likely to cheat. Give themselves a thin veneer of masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:07 PM
28

The opposite happens, too. If they want you, they’ll complain about their girlfriend (or wife) to see if you’re sympathetic and “soft” enough to manipulate into an affair. Women are just tools and toys as far as LVM are concerned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:01 PM
13

Be proud of yourself that are responsible and successful enough to have plenty of money to spend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:29 AM
7

Agreed. Apathy, or the appearance thereof, IS a power. A lot of times in flimsy relationships, he or she who cares the least is the one with the power. The needy person is forced into the role of supplicant to the uncaring God. Toxic dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:47 PM
6

So is my SO! My gosh that’s an in-depth, nerdy hobby. Have a space pic or two on my walls, also. Lol love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:17 PM
11

Exactly. The moment I read that, I mentally said goodbye to that guy. Red flag. Similarly, I also hate self-deprecating humor early in a relationship. For example, if a short guy jokes about being short the first date or two, not only is it awkward af, it’s a sign that he is self conscious about it, and guys with ego problems are bad relationship risks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 11:06 PM
81

Agreed. It totally dehumanizes women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/21 03:40 AM
13

Yeah, he looks like one of those typical high school football players who good hooked on junk food and porn after graduating, now he’s the flabby dadbod of defeat Busily swiping Tinder while on the job to see if he’s “still got it”, thus missing out on money-making opportunities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:36 PM
28

I was thinking the same…scrote’s pourin’ extra thick luvv sauce onto his copypasta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:03 PM
76

CRINGE Any time I hear “king”, I immediately either think short, incel, or both. No normal, emotionally healthy man needs to be called a king.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:03 AM
45

To me, “over 35 pleasures” sounds like pleasant things you do when you’re over 35, like paying bills on time, taking off your heels after a long day at work, etc 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:36 AM
7

Even if he’s an every-other-weekend parent. It’s a verrry handy excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:56 PM
98

I had to have major surgery. SO walked me in the door at home afterward and decided on the spot that our bed was too far from the bathroom, so he quickly made the guest bed for me. Then, he sat down and made a chart with times and checkboxes for all my meds and set a timer on his phone. He emptied my drains with no complaint despite ordinarily being squeamish, put on my leg compressors, made me drink water. He squished his tall body into the tiny bed next to me at night, so he could be there to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:48 PM
19

Yes. It’s also very likely that he has been both verbally and nonverbally dragging her about her new body, damaging her self image and making her turn to food to soothe her anxiety. She already knows deep down that although her life as a new mom is tough, but it’s going to get harder because she’s going to have to make some tough decisions about the manchild she had the misfortune to marry, and reproduce with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:22 PM
57

You’ll need an alternate u/ when you start posting here. Men and pickmes on other even totally unrelated subs get ENRAGED when they see FDS in your post and comment history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:46 PM
6

Good job cutting this manipulative manbaby out of your life 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:32 PM
50

Unfortunately, a lot of women who would blindly accept a relationship like this were raised by uncaring or downright abusive parents who cannot be counted on for support 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:19 PM
205

Forever translates to until he gets tired of her and the kid, and recycles her for a brand new 18 yo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:12 PM
373

These men are utter trash, and I’d suspect they’ve chosen to hate women because women have rejected them many times for being either unattractive and too lazy to do anything to improve themselves Or for being self-centered, uninteresting human beings 🤷‍♀️🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:47 PM
17

Yes. You’re not hot or special if a guy cheats on his wife with you. You’re just the woman who was fool enough to say yes to his thirsty come-on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:11 PM
39

Yep this is what happened to a woman college friend who did a threesome with two friends. The guy started contacting her behind his girlfriend’s back right away, asking to meet up again. Guess he justified it to himself as not really cheating, since he’d already stuck his dick in her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:08 PM
67

Exactly. Men automatically categorize women who are willing to cheat with them as trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:00 PM
234

Lashing out like a 7 year old because he got rejected. He’s probably a divorced 42 year old, deludedly thinking his new single life was going to be hot teen sex like the porn he’s been watching way too much of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:16 PM
3

Like an evil character in a Stephen King novel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:00 AM
26

They are very much addicts. My cousin’s husband is a serious gamer. Family parties, he just sits there with a glazed look in his eyes. He’s simply putting in time, waiting until he can get his next gaming dopamine hit. Wonder how long that marriage is gonna last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:53 AM
20

But if he plays the victim, it’s easier to find other sympathetic women to watch his child! For freeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:43 AM
44

Couple of years ago, I was feeling wild and thought it would be fun for SO to pull my hair during sex. His reply: I can’t. Disappointed for a bit, I then had to appreciate that a good man does not want to hurt a woman, no matter what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:29 AM
16

Yep, that’s a sad fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:25 AM
21

Haha! Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:44 PM
13

Ugh! I often get those “Reddit Cares” notifications after I post here. Any way FDS as a forum can turn it off? Reporting us to Reddit seems to be a popular pastime for angry scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:18 PM
14

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:42 PM
48

Yep. This type of guy will cheat after marriage and having kids and excuse it to himself because he “didn’t really want all this”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:14 AM
74

Joke’s partially on him, then. They didn’t really want his kids, just his money and some of his reflected fame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:38 PM
39

If you want to keep your social media, delete and block every ex and every guy who has ever tried to hit on you. You can continue to peacefully enjoy your social media. You owe nobody an explanation of “why”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:07 AM
62

Precisely Kiss the toad, he starts thinking he’s a prince. The delusion is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:42 PM
2

Right? “Oh, you own a house? Can I park in your driveway?” Um, NO, you drifting grifter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:34 PM
43

Stay-at-home dads are the demographic that is most likely to cheat. So, nah to van dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:51 PM
51

That’s how I found FDS. A guy was knocking FDS in another sub. Intrigued, I took a peek over here and fell in love. Thank you for publicly dragging FDS, men 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:26 PM
24

Yes. Also, you may forgive, but you will never, ever forget, and it will poison the rest of your relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:04 PM
20

Yeah, but does it bother him much? Is he seeking therapy, reading books, doing anything to change? Nah, he’s too busy beating off to pics of his fantasy girl, while probably surfing Reddit and porn and doing nothing around the house The man is a mental midget
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:40 AM
321

He was simultaneously managing down your expectations of him by giving you a bs “I’m so fragile and damaged” pity story, and testing you to see if you were dumb enough to fall for it This clown is warning you that he would forever be emotionally unavailable to you, due to the handy excuse of “I’ve been hurt before” 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:08 AM
302

Oh, riiiight. I believe this story. It definitely proves that FDS is turning the women of the world into vicious bitches. PS scrotes: IT IS NOT YOUR FACIAL FEATURES THAT MAKE YOU A LOW VALUE MALE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:27 AM
58

Right? “Eat less! You need to stay thin and sexy!” He proclaimed, as he stuck his finger in his hairy ear, picked a Cheeto off the groove where dirty tee shirt strained over his bulging belly, then spun his chair back around to face his gaming console
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:05 PM
750

It isn’t “the silent treatment”. She’s busy quietly mulling her options in her head, none of which include a future with a man with zero empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:09 PM
29

Well said. They love to frame it as being these beneficial, wise mentors to young women, but the only thing they’re teaching is how to cope with having sex with a hairy old scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:34 PM
129

Agreed. Too-easy access to increasingly horrible porn just took what was bad about men, and made it worse. Much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:57 PM
29

Blocking him probably felt like washing dirt off your hands after an intense gardening session, a session that probably would have been 100 times more satisfying than sex with this LVM 😊😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:08 PM
23

Haha exactly. Guy says something that makes you roll your eyes? No explanation needed. Enjoy your free trip to Blocksville, scrote 🙋‍♀️ byeeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:36 PM
39

Had the exact same thing happen last week. Guy from college, a friend of friends, who had been a singer in a wildly locally successful band popped up in my DMs. I knew exactly what that was gonna be all about. Getting older, women getting harder to hookup with...hey how about this pretty lady? Lol NOPE BLOCKED 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:33 PM
136

“A worthwhile, quality human being”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:51 PM
17

Exactly this It’s why we marry good looking men who are accustomed to being approached by women. The novelty of easy sex wore off, ego feed is not necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:28 PM
12

This. Take what is supposed to be a very intimate and loving moment and turn it into a public spectacle? No. This is one of the reasons why I love FDS. One of the few places where we can state these truths and not get shouted down by an outraged pickme choir
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:23 PM
59

Sis, same! He was my height with shoulder length blonde hair, and was frequently mistaken for a woman when the two of us were out and about, despite his fairly muscular shoulders It was a “give a short guy a break” situation, and like you, I’ll NEVER do that again. He was mean, cheap, and insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:38 PM
390

Terrible. The whole thing was totally planned to steal her thunder and put the spotlight on him. No doubt this guy is a manipulative turd. Could you imagine a woman doing that to a man, how crazy it would make the woman look?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:20 PM
28

I was the type who would just do it anyway. Is the bf gonna call the cops? Doubt it. Even if he does, what will the police do, break down the door? I doubt that, also. I’d bet that most guys would just give up and leave. Not that I’d care. Of course it’s all history now, because I’m in a pretty solid relationship and will never seek another if this one ends. 90% of men are a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:58 PM
11

He has no self esteem or confidence, so he tears down women in order to feel better about himself The man is trash 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:39 PM
131

In our current pornsick society, that’s not a benefit anymore The scrotes want you to puke, cry, and ruin your makeup so they can feel like their pee pee is really big and manly and destructive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:36 PM
20

This is actually genius, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:32 PM
13

He doesn’t seem like the kind of guy who pumps and dumps, because obesity makes it difficult for men to get an erection. Also to pump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:10 PM
1

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:58 PM
62

Yes. I def wouldn’t have mentioned this to him, or any other even mildly unflattering things about myself or my past. The start of a relationship is where you are putting your best self out there. You can decide later in the relationship if you want to tell the man anything, or not. It is totally okay to keep things to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:37 PM
3

This. I made the mistake of returning to live with my parents to save for a down payment for a house. It took an unanticipatedly TERRIBLE toll on my self esteem to have to cope with my NVM father again. In hindsight, I should have stayed away from him instead of mistakenly thinking I’d be fine and returning. OP, take care of yourself and get out as soon as you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:52 AM
28

Mmhm. For sure, he’s in an “open marriage”. Except his wife doesn’t know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:33 AM
22

Looks like this buffoon has been reading the Red Pill bible and hoping to flex his brand new imaginary alpha male muscle. What a laugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:57 AM
3

“Thanks, but it’s important that I remain professional so that clients don’t get any mistaken impressions that this is anything more than business” as in, fuck off and don’t try my boundaries, scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:10 PM
8

Stay-at-home dads are most likely to cheat. This man is a losing proposition in so many ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:03 PM
313

If I was a single mom with daughters, I’d stay single until the girls were grown and gone. Look at the top porn categories - daughter, stepdaughter, teeny, tiny teen, awful. I just don’t trust men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:08 PM
4

Girl, same. I’ve done my best to cope with ADHD my whole life. Sitting still and waiting for a slow-moving story unfold is murderously boring to me. Occasionally peeping at my phone keeps me awake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:02 PM
83

I also wish young women didn’t have to see such BS. They’re being persuaded into prostitution under the guise of “just talking” Go peek at the sugar baby sub on Reddit, and you’ll see the myth of “the men just wanna talk” get laughed right off the board
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:52 PM
484

I’m from a small country near Russia where women sometimes become glorified mail order brides for American men. I know of an instance a few years ago where the bride walked off the airplane in the US and kept on walking...right past her new husband lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:46 PM
83

I know. I was low-key boiling with rage as I read that post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:10 PM
194

True. Nobody cheaper than a cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:09 PM
6

Would being lied to and lectured by a date cause you to improve your opinion about less appealing men? No? I didn’t think so 😒 Scrote logic fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:04 AM
120

Even if this absurd tale was true, how is a tall guy lying to a woman supposed to help out short guys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:02 PM
24

Ha! Report the ad - stolen image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:56 PM
19

🏆 Winning comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:55 PM
28

Honestly, to me, her 50/50 video is so powerful, I have a hard time judging her for anything else. I’m so grateful to her for putting that message out into the universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:14 PM
112

This. I feel so bad for young women who are being raised to accept abusive and painful sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:44 PM
32

Oh girl. Wait till you’re in your 40s on OLD. Some men still mention their high school sports achievements right up front because it was, and will always be, the high point of their lives. And ugh, don’t get me started on their delusion regarding their bodies. You mention fitness, they say they played high school football and have “a linebacker’s build”. Bahaha, not anymore they don’t. It’s dadbod city, beers, televised sports and porn flab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:59 PM
35

All this, exactly, and I laughed at how true #2 is. I was finally over him. He craftily thought that finally dropping the “ILY” bomb would get me back. I cringed and dropped his note into the waste bin, where I should have dumped him years earlier. lol byeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:52 PM
27

My LVM ex was also shocked when I finally left him. He absolutely could not wrap his head around the fact that he no longer able to use me at his whimsy. I would have gloated, but I was too busy being delighted at how marvelous it was to no longer be with that chump lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:32 PM
34

Exactly this. I do not regret the time I spent with the tall, muscular guy who resembled Aquaman. He turned out to be a bit of a fuckboy, but damn. Worth it 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:22 PM
37

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:14 PM
53

They’re not nicer, and they’re only grateful you picked them for as long as it takes to update their Tinder bio. “Newfound confidence! Must find more hawt women! Oops none want me 😭😭 slinking back to the ex now...oof, she doesn’t want me, either” Like many women, I learned the hard way that giving a less attractive or shorter guy a chance was a mistake I never made again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:09 PM
16

🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:56 PM
45

Omg this. From a person who likes to run after dark in the summer. Pepper spray in pocket. So not fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:03 PM
10

Yep. Funny how that works - we women are always expected to be empathetic and give men the benefit of doubt and multiple chances. All that gets you is used. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:02 PM
46

Any time you say no to a man but he insists, that man does not respect you or your boundaries and is to be treated with suspicion. You definitely made the right choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:51 PM
13

Exactly this. It’s so low effort, it’s laughable. “You seem really interesting” - without fleshing out what he thought was interesting about you is typical lazy OLD copypasta. Even a pickme could see through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:43 PM
3

I would have stopped wasting time trying to please my toxic parents and moved away from them. I’d stop trying to please others at the expense of my own happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:36 PM
26

Yep, those lines fill me with cringe. Just play into the hands of the patriarchy and porn industry, Billie! Pick Meeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:06 PM
15

This! This! Also, don’t ever make any small talk with him. No personal conversations. Zero. In fact, don’t ever have any non-work conversations with any men you work with, other than the weather. They mistake your cheery conversation as interest every time. Take it from a long time professional employee and manager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:32 AM
53

Majority? Hell, she’ll do everything, while 50/50 boyfriend is busy gaming and yelling at her to bring him dinner from the other room, while the kid sits crying in dirty diapers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:10 PM
6

That would have totally filled my day with happy energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:31 PM
142

Oh wow. This hurt to read and filled me with rage because it’s all true. As a person with an awful upbringing who had a hard time standing up for myself, all of this happened to me over and over until I reached my 40s(!!!) and finally developed some healthy self respect. Predatory men are experts at identifying women who won’t speak up, and take horrible, insulting, degrading liberties at your expense for their cheap thrills. There are SO many predators, in my experience at least one out of ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:13 PM
64

They don’t communicate their feelings because they don’t have any. Not for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:12 PM
7

Him: “Sounds like you’re looking for Prince Charming” You: “I’m seeking a man with class and manners. Sounds like it’s not you, ha ha! Have a nice day” Block, and deeply breathe the refreshing air that comes with being a powerful and happy HVW 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:29 PM
13

I did this...having a smaller chest is G L O R I O U S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:38 PM
22

Trying to use you to pull his saggy self esteem up from where it was puddled around his ankles like sad, old gym socks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:29 PM
6

PSA: If there are no clear pics of his FACE anywhere in his ad, he is a CHEATER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:19 PM
10

Exactly! Save your empty threats for someone who cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:04 PM
20

In a clean house, in the part of town you feel like living in, surrounded by art and music that you love Sign me up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:03 PM
32

Something like this almost happened in my own family. He was downstairs all cozy watching TV while she was starving, dehydrated, dying in bed upstairs. She was frail and had gotten sick, he “forgot” to take care of her, but I think he was just done with having a wife who was no longer able to cook and clean after many years of serving him. I found her at the last minute, she’s now thriving in a senior home. He died of Covid. I’d happily die alone rather than be married to someone like him, and I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:56 PM
46

Totally agree I regret the cute but short guy I gave a chance to, he was a vicious little turd behind his joker facade I’ve never regretted dating any successful, good looking guys. They’re happier, better adjusted and have better manners in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:01 AM
24

Exactly this. He was lukewarm with his praise because he wants you feeling low and insecure so you’re primed to accept his subpar, manipulative behavior Expect the praise and compliments to shrivel up to nothing once you’re in a relationship with him. I’ve dated that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:46 PM
31

The opposite might be true, too. I know an LVM who is a big time porn enthusiast. His wife quickly went from normal to very obese after marriage. I strongly suspect his porn use damaged her self-image and she turned to food for comfort. Very sad. Porn is terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:23 PM
81

Interesting that Vice actually posted something other than cheerleading for prostitution. Vice is a tired, old misogynistic and patriarchal site that’s all about libfem and easy sex for men. Let’s not forget their pathetic hate article about FDS, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:25 PM
59

Ignore them and live large, sis. It’s just the big green ENVY monster flapping it’s ugly lips. Happens a lot when you refuse to cram yourself into patriarchy’s box of social norms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:58 PM
17

They want to be given attention and be told they’re attractive. It’s mostly an ego thing. They’re dying to know they’ve Still Got It 🙄 Also, to sext and get nudes. They hope to find a free cam girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:19 PM
48

College pickme me gave a short guy a chance. He seemed so smart and fun at the time. Made the mistake of dating him on and off for 7 years while waiting to get wifed. He was an insecure and sneaky mean narcissist and really ground down my self image. Finally got tired of him and left him for a much, much better man I met at work. The ex finally graduated college after switching schools due to getting kicked out of the prestigious school where I had met him. Instead of getting the great Engineeri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:09 PM
4

Yowza
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:56 PM
21

Installment #50,556 of pretty woman is polite to man in public, man mistakes it for sexual interest 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:52 PM
24

If you don’t have $100 for an STD test you shouldn’t be dating So much truth here!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:42 PM
47

One point: A man in a long-term relationship who has let his body go is a man who will NEVER go to the gym and start working because he “saw you glancing at his stomach” The only motivation for a man in a long term relationship to suddenly start working out is for one of these three reasons: 1. He wants to cheat 2. Medical reasons - His doctor told him to get in shape or die, or 3. He wants to cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:34 PM
48

“Moving to your city” goes hand in hand with “travel to your city often for work” It’s absolute bs. It’s scrote code for “I’m married, let’s flirt online. Tell me how attractive I am, and please send nudes”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:17 PM
19

👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:25 AM
10

Same. Laughed so hard I cried a little So much truth here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:41 PM
6

Ugh. Very accurate. Reading this slammed me right back into childhood. I was raised by an intelligent, successful, charming, secretly vicious narc father and unwisely and unknowingly chose abusive men just like him for many years. No more. I’d rather be happily single rather than hooked to another narc (or any man) ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:42 PM
38

That is why I could never vote for Hilary Clinton. She lost my respect when she stood by Bill. Broke my heart. What a shit example for the women of America.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:08 PM
9

This. Your brain sends you a tiny warning ping. Never ignore that tiny suspicious thought. Each time I discovered I had a cheating boyfriend, instinct told me to investigate, and it was true every time. Got to the point where the moment I got a sudden suspicion, the relationship was over, because I already knew beyond a doubt what I’d find. “The Gift of Fear” explains this in better detail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:53 PM
7

Came here to say this!!! A scrote who has been status quo sloppy for a long time, then suddenly gets an interest in upgrading his appearance is doing it because he wants to cheat 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:42 PM
11

Thank you. Hated that movie, too. In fact, I’ve never made it all the way through, despite trying several times. Whenever I see it referenced, I internally roll my eyes and know that’s a person I’d probably not get along with lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:30 PM
18

Also why cock rings are now sold at convenience stores. Porn sick, limp dick 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:22 PM
52

This. It will only result in one of two negative outcomes: 1. LVM will not listen. They have their game down, that’s their strategy, they don’t give a fuck about what you say. 2. They might actually listen (gasp!) and learn to improve their game so they can fool future dates. Don’t even bother moving your lips. It’s an exercise in futility to try to educate a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:34 PM
71

That was my first thought, also. 29? Suuure. Any time you see a man stating his age on OLD, if it’s a number followed by a 9, add four or five years. They lie so hard in hopes of finding a younger squeeze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:29 PM
22

Precisely. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:44 AM
131

Homeless people. Point out a homeless person to an LVM, listen to the LVM dish out scorn and hate. They have zero empathy, zero pity for their fellow human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:58 AM
11

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:16 AM
53

Right. Apply to join and subject to verification by a SCROTE? When you totally know said male admin is running it like his personal dating pool, like, oh, every other site on the internet where males exist? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:06 PM
137

It’s like golf courses allowing non-golfers to wander around the courses. All they do is make a mess and get in the way 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:14 PM
13

Woof! Nailed it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:57 AM
78

So sorry. I went through same thing - NVM narc dad would have starved my disabled, sick mom to death, but I visited and found her at the very last minute. Horrifying, and really destroys one’s faith in men. If you aren’t talking with a good therapist who specializes in abusive relationships and does EMDR, I have one I highly recommend. Hugs to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:34 PM
23

“It’s all her fault that the relationship failed. She didn’t inspire me enough to stop gaming 8 hours a day” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:32 PM
347

He’d probably been subtly negging her for her labia for years, now he’s acting like he’s doing her a fucking favor complimenting her. NVM supreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:11 PM
19

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:02 PM
79

I have always had absolutely no problem with getting up and moving away from someone who is annoying me. Yes, it would preferable to hold your ground and not let some rando make you move your feet, but it is very satisfying to take immediate action and get it over with. I’ve only been called on this once or twice in my lifetime, “Why are you moving? I’m not a threat” by whiny scrotes. My response is to glance at them, emotionlessly say “I’m minding my own business”, and continue doing exactly th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:59 PM
2

Exactly Women who have been cool-girled into accepting this abuse depress me. Sex used to be called “love making” and was supposed to make us women feel good, what happened? 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:21 PM
14

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:10 AM
28

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:04 AM
14

Ooh, one of my biggest regrets for my younger self was that I didn’t give into my instinctual urge for self-preservation and move far away from my toxic parents and family. You did good, sis 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:03 PM
7

Exactly my experience: guys who are cheap with money are also cheap with love, and are poor relationship material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:53 PM
30

I’m in my 40s. Most of the women from high school still look terrific, but the men - eek
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:45 PM
78

We dated the same guy! Wife left him for another woman. It did not take long to figure out why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:28 PM
92

Your last sentence is pure gold If only more women activated their bs detectors instead of their empathy when meeting men who spew fake sob stories. You are not “connecting”, he isn’t opening his tender heart to you, you are being primed for manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:26 PM
114

Right? What really happened: Pretty neighbor kindly fed scrotey’s dog while scrote was visiting his mom in Milwaukee for Easter. Scrote’s other neighbor brought over a sample of her husband’s home brew. Scrotey got home and was lonely, spun up his “plates” fantasy and posted it on the interwebs. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:53 PM
17

When a guy wants to keep a woman feeling insecure and okay with breadcrumbs, he ALWAYS describes his previous girlfriend as perfect. He hopes that the comparison will manipulate you into striving to be as good as his sainted previous girlfriend. It’s pure bullshit, she wasn’t perfect. If a scrote tries this tactic on you, walk away IMMEDIATELY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:20 PM
35

Yeah, and the groom and groomsmen will plan some horrible “funny” clowning stunt like carrying the reluctant groom down the aisle, as the bride giggles while dying of humiliation inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:17 PM
132

She was busting ass doing CONCRETE on their investment home. She’s amazing! He was probably left at home with instructions to watch the kids for a day, a job he was unable to accomplish. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:01 PM
56

My first thought, too. All the blind, self centered I, l, I, me, me, me. This guy’s a narc. His wife finally had her fill of this lazy, hedonistic scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:56 PM
22

No shit! “We’re sorry you’re upset”. Pffft! They must have attended the narcissist school of marketing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:29 PM
65

The first thing I told my nieces when they reached teenage was to ignore all women’s magazines. They’re designed to destroy your self-esteem. I’ll never forget reading Cosmo growing up and feeling bad because I wasn’t a willowy 5’10 model dating a rich broker named Sean or Josh with a swanky apartment in a midtown high-rise. And giving him bjs with ice cubes or whatever based on their horrible slutty sex advice 😂 Fuck those magazines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:36 PM
88

Correction: Rubs what he THINKS is her clit, but doesn’t make any effort to actually find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:14 PM
7

Snicker. This! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:25 PM
10

Men who make comments like this are losers. We don’t want them. He’s young now and thinks he’s hot shit and can judge women, but in ten years, he’ll still be a tire technician at the local auto repair shop, wondering why hot 19 year olds don’t want him any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:40 PM
69

Men hit the wall HARD. Bellies growing, ear and nose hair sprouting, ballsacs sagging. I don’t know any young women who actually want older men, either. The only thing attractive about them is their wallets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:33 AM
70

I know for a fact that men lurk here alllll the time. Every time I’ve commented on dick size or height, I’ve gotten DMs from men. Mostly angry, some really sad ones. Saw one of my comments quoted on another sub, with derision and indignant replies. Too fucking bad. Guys, this is a women-only space. Go back to every other forum on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:58 PM
58

Scrotey probably pulled out the laptop and got busy in a childish attempt to impress her. I’ve had guys do similar things. It reeks of insecurity. She was smart to walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:21 PM
79

The ending made me sad. Sounds like she just ran to a new man instead of taking time to heal and learn how to be strong by herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:18 PM
17

Only you’d never be alone, you’d be in the company of your wonderful, agreeable, cozy SELF 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:58 PM
26

Pretty sure the ladies over on the sugar forum are quick to scoff at those “most men just want to talk” claims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:54 PM
20

Lol. Does anybody even read Vice anymore? Vice: Doing their best to stir up controversy to generate traffic to their faltering site 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:10 PM
10

Exactly this. I’ve planned my life so that I’d never be at the mercy of any man’s whims. Being financially dependent on a man puts you in a very weak and vulnerable position. No, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:59 PM
46

This. We’ve all known, and heard all about, coaches and doctors who are straight-up predators. These men seek jobs that give them access to young women for a reason. Let’s not even get into college professors. Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:47 PM
4

Late to the party. Need to make the observation that if pedo 32yo scrote has to get a hotel room for sex? He is a married cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:48 PM
4

Yeah, but calling it “sugar” makes it sound sweet and nice. Which it isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:08 PM
19

I do both these things, too. If I’m feeling feisty, sometimes I’ll even yell “FINE!” into the empty house and close the door with energy when I leave, if there’s strangers around, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:06 PM
11

It’s just like pepper spray - aim quickly, then close eyes and hold breath while spraying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:01 PM
33

Silly strategies created and sold by goofball “alpha men” to insecure men, who think that learning manipulative tricks will help them get sex from attractive “females” 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:14 PM
10

Everything about him screams “douche”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:21 PM
75

Was so happy at my cousin’s wedding three years ago when I watched her husband-to-be struggle to maintain composure and wipe tears of love and joy from his eyes as he watched her walk down the aisle. They’ve been so happy together. Wish the world could be blessed with more men like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:20 PM
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Okay. Good start. If he proceeds to add “Women are actually people, too, and deserve your respect”, then I’ll be impressed. ‘Till then, he’s just another scrote lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:11 PM
36

The Redditor making the comment about kids and marriage like he’s some kind of freaking authority is probably a young, single guy who lives in his parent’s basement. That’s Reddit. Everyone’s an expert, and if you’re a woman, you can expect harsh judgement and scorn from men 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:14 PM
29

I’ve heard cans of hornet and wasp spray are good, better than pepper spray for home defense, because they can project the spray over a very long distance. I have pepper spray and a stun gun. Also have regular guns that are locked in a safe, but I grew up on a farm where guns were no big deal and part of life. We target shot for fun as kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:01 PM
26

Exactly this, thank you. Only women? Why? What is the advantage men have that prevents them from having to sell their bodies to afford basic necessities?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:01 PM
26

Paying for a motel for the purpose of sex usually means you’re cheating. Paying for any man’s hotel, or ugh, motel, is bad, but paying to give a married man the privilege to fuck you? Sheez. Get you head on straight, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:55 AM
39

Yes, this exactly. Fitness sparks jealousy and insecurity in lazy men. These couch creatures know the effort and discipline it takes to build muscle and fitness and know they’ll never have it, so they resort to mocking those who do. Scrote cope. Pass them the Xbox controller and another Sprite as you run past on your way to the gym 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:38 PM
4

Although I had gotten exBF expensive gifts and usually paid when we went out since I have an excellent job, he didn’t get me anything for my birthday. He described the valuable item that he had considered getting for me, but didn’t, and went on to actually say, “It’s the thought that counts, right?” 🤦‍♀️ I do not miss him at all. Or my old pickme self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:27 PM
28

In case this hadn’t been mentioned yet: Talking about exes, comparing you to them, complaining about them, is an extremely common narcissistic tactic. It’s called triangulating. The purpose is to manipulate you by creating a competition in your head with the ex. It’s a red flag and your cue to RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:29 PM
13

Yep. Age is also not an indicator of maturity level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:06 AM
32

This. I’d have been more impressed if she opened the door, saw the other woman, laughed and said something non-awful like “Guess we both had the same boyfriend for a while, haha, good luck with him” and left. Hoes before bros, and all that. It serves the dual purpose of making the new woman gently question the value of her new boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:48 PM
39

Yes, while I appreciated her trusting her gut and her self control in this situation, that also immediately struck an uncomfortable note with me. “Much younger”? Eesh. I hate when men do that, too. It’s a straight up brag, usually used by people with low self esteem: “Look at me go! I’ve still got it!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:40 PM
16

He was testing your self-esteem, “humble face” is a soft neg. If you’d gone further with that comment and replied saying “Yes, I am humble”, he’d have leaped around the room to celebrate finding a pretty pickme to use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:32 PM
82

“Pity me! I brought four lives into this world, it makes life so difficult to get new pussy 😭😭😭”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:36 PM
6

This. All the more personal conversational topics are red flags. And if scrotes ever complain about the state of the relationship they are currently in? This is the biggest red flag of all. They are testing your empathy to see if they can soften you up to be a side piece, or their brand new squeeze. RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:24 PM
6

Don’t engage in personal talk with male co-workers, ever. Do your job and be civil and polite. Act as if you deserve respect, and you will get it. Start enthusiastically mentioning your new boyfriend often. Even if you don’t have one, if boss insists on making personal small talk with you. Start looking for a new job. This topic gets me steamed up because I had to deal with it for a long time until I adjusted my smiley and nice personality at work, and became very quick to walk away from men. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:50 PM
7

He’s trying to appear deep by saying something utterly generic and ambiguous. Like the rest of his copypasta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:31 PM
35

She probably plans and executes every other holiday and his birthday to make him feel good. Here’s his chance to return her consideration and effort, even something small, and he does...nothing. He’s just another lazy, ungrateful, uncaring LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:23 PM
6

Facts. My dad built and repaired just about anything around the house, and worked on cars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:57 PM
10

I’ve been where you’re at. You’re like a hostage in your own home, and have to develop ninja skills to get outside without being accosted. It’s exasperating and infuriating. Surprised how common this is for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:38 PM
15

Apparently this is a very common problem. I’ve had it, too. My new house is farther away from neighbors, so no more unwanted mail and trash pickup attention, but there are certain homes I’ll quickly jog past when I’m out for a walk. If aging scrotey neighbors are out there, they’ll run their mouths while they eyeball my tights, and I’ll never get my exercise finished. Men have NO respect for women’s time, or women in general. They don’t care if we’re interested or not. It’s maddening. I’m a pret…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:26 PM
39

So is the oblivious delusion! Sir, have you looked into a mirror in the last half-century? Are you actually so blindly entitled that you’d think I’d be interested in a dusty fossil like you? Climb back into your Chrysler minivan and begone! Oof, be careful of that hip replacement, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:59 AM
22

“A great philosophical choice”! Hahaha, thanks for the laugh :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:35 AM
41

...and the subs they have for men’s parts are mostly commented on by...men. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:23 AM
102

Took out a LOAN? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:15 AM
26

Being excited that older men are approaching you is like being proud that ants chose your picnic 🐜🐜🐜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:54 PM
36

Yikes! He looks like just the dusty old scrote who runs the security booth for our local gravel quarry. What a catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:57 AM
81

Ha ha ha! Yes. Taxes eat up half, then he’ll buy a $200,000 Lamborghini, a townhouse, and oops! In a year he’ll be broke and begging for people to spend $4 a month to subscribe to his girlfriend’s OnlyFans page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:51 AM
13

DDLG 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:16 PM
41

Also fancy words for “I watch way too much porn”. Basement boy needs to ascend the stairway and get some healthy hobbies that include fresh air and exercise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:16 PM
9

Agree. Blocking is a power move ✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:58 PM
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She needs to track the time she spends cleaning, cooking, and grocery shopping and deduct from the rent a fair hourly wage for her time. Or nah, she can just walk away from this cheap, unreasonable scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:56 PM
46

Ahh, but men DO enjoy the EGO FEED they get from convincing a woman to climb into bed with them, and violating the private space in our bodies. We validate them. At the expense of our dignity and health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:09 PM
10

Have a strong suspicion you ran into a narcissist. Read up on it, and if you agree, talk to a therapist figure out why you’d be attracted to one. Then, address it so nothing like this happens to you again. Good luck and stand tall!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:52 PM
13

Oh, yeah. When confronted with seriousness instead of the expected “tee hee” reaction, the wheels come right off their buses. It’s priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:37 PM
19

Gotcha. I was venting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:01 PM
102

Breath “play”. PLAY. No, it is cruelty administered by pornsick men who hate women. The “niceification” of abuse is revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:39 PM
18

Delusion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:37 PM
25

Oh, girl. It could be worse. Twice, in my foolish younger days, I was gifted with things LVM had stolen from their mother’s jewelry boxes. Didn’t catch on until the time his mom was looking at me with a very strange expression...later found out she had presumed I was the one who had stolen it. How embarrassing. Glad those days are gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:16 PM
14

Right? But their own birthdays and christmases are somehow very important to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:07 PM
44

This. Those guys who scornfully define Valentine’s Day as a “Hallmark Holiday” are cheap, lazy, self-centered, no-effort LVM. Source: myself. Unfortunately dated several of these, and even accepted it (!!!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:06 PM
23

Whoever Thomas is? He is spewing wisdom. Absolutely nailed it. ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:45 PM
7

Actually, sometimes there are good comebacks. One fine spring break in a popular boating cove, a guy in a passing boat stood up and yelled at our boat, “Why do doctors slap babies when they’re born? To knock the dicks off the dumb ones! Ha ha ha” I waited a beat and calmly yelled back, “What happened with you, then?” He stood there for a moment with a look of shock on his handsome, fuckboy face, then sat back down as everyone got a good laugh at his expense. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:33 PM
4

I’m crying 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:19 PM
20

Old white men in particular are THE WORST. So accustomed to their presumed supremacy. They can be insufferable. I get my eyes ready to roll when they come tootling up to me in the supermarket with that goofy look on their faces, thinking, “I’m gonna make this pretty lady laugh and get positive attention from her”. Um, no you’re not. I owe you nothing. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:00 PM
13

For some reason, it seems like lot of narcissists have delusions of future careers in stand-up comedy, so you dodged a bullet with that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:53 PM
75

Just another way to try to diminish us by defining our opinions as silly, since the person who wishes to control us doesn’t want us to have them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:32 PM
10

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:27 PM
12

“Yes.” Negging asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:10 AM
18

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:33 AM
23

He’d love to be a powerful predator, but is instead a weak and whiny blog writer. Too bad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:15 PM
26

Yes. At least he completely oblivious as to how transparently needy he comes across that it helps keep women away from him. Very telling that he’d compare himself to a cult leader, but the parallels are so obvious: All he wants is pretty, naive girls to worship him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:13 PM
4

Yup yup yup. A walk, then come home and pet my dogs = I want to spend zero on you and get you over here in my house for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:33 PM
140

Not only that, but a guy who is that much of an attention whore is probably not a good relationship risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:00 PM
71

“Have you ever looked into leg-lengthening surgery? If you were 4 inches taller, you’d actually be attractive!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:27 PM
9

So sad that women have politeness and courtesy and “don’t hurt people’s feelings” ingrained so hard into our brains that we’re afraid to stand up, loudly say no, and make a phone call or leave if we’re feeling threatened. Secretly begging for help from bartenders is pitiful. It’s a nice idea, but still sad. Get up, walk into the kitchen, walk behind the bar, ask for help, dial 911 if you have to. Do something unusual to get attention. Make a scene if you have to. Think outside the polite box tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:06 PM
6

Yes. Ironic that an establishment that makes its money off objectifying women would gallantly post signs about protecting them. Suck it, Hooters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:55 PM
26

Tell him only if he inserts a furry fox tail buttplug and lets you ride his back around the bedroom first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:28 PM
26

This is true. The most promiscuous man I know is 60 and has zero self esteem. He tries to generate it by getting approval and admiration from an endless stream of hookups. It doesn’t work. He owns a successful electrician business, but despite that, he is a trainwreck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:18 PM
88

He probably has an M4F ad on another sub that is being ignored, so he figured he’d set some WoKe GuY bait out elsewhere on Reddit 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:56 PM
41

The weed’s not even in there! Ha ha ha ha Then it would have been the ultimate care package: A smoke for the morning after to try and ease your regrets for hooking up with an LVM 🤡😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:45 PM
33

Her career is going to burn out way, way before that. She’s going to run out of exciting new lows to exploit for attention and just become gross and pitiful, and the only money she makes will be from signing shit at porncons for nostalgic perverts. Guys will get tired of whacking their peens to her and move on to the next 18 year old. That’s how porn goes 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:38 PM
12

You don’t have to ghost HVM. You both discuss, agree that you aren’t compatible, and politely move on. The average scrote? Send a message if you like, ghost if that’s easier, then block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:22 PM
62

Exactly this. “I’d never cheat, but I couldn’t restrain myself! You’re so wonderful and different!” Men who cheat on pregnant women are the lowest of the low. This shitbird is about as woke as Chris Watts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:03 PM
44

I thought it was short for simpering. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:36 PM
45

A guy who expects you to commute to his area to meet him. Nah, bro. A guy who pressures you to meet right away after you start talking. Also no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:37 PM
12

There’s no changing people’s minds on some things and it’s a waste of breath to try. Sometimes side eye and saying nothing is the best response. All you can do is hope it sinks in later, when they are puzzled because they didn’t get the applause and approval they were hoping to get from you. The awful thing is that most pickmes know their behavior is self defeating. They just don’t want to let go of their dreams of creating happy families and beautiful homes with useless LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:03 PM
17

This ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:42 PM
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Yep. I’ve lived this. Some people will get really mad and attempt to verbally abuse you to return you to your previous position as doormat. All this does is strengthen your resolve to improve yourself. Stick to your newfound guns. They ALL eventually give up. The world respects (and fears!) a strong woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:46 PM
1

Certainly. Will DM you. I can’t say enough good things about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:00 PM
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No, it does not have to be in person. My therapist offers EMDR via zoom. Count me in as another person who was set free to be happy by EMDR. Glad to see it being recommended here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:58 PM
34

Know quite a bit about cars and driving. Complained about the suspension on my new Z. Every scrote ever rudely implied that I just don’t know much about sports cars. Car turned out to have a factory defect, and was recalled for repair 🖕🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:16 PM
7

Even more pathetic to go on the internet and brag about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:42 PM
8

Ha! Agreed. Love you sis xxoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:43 PM
23

For real! “Play” that hurts enough to require a fucking “safe word” to get someone to stop abusing you? How has society conditioned women to accept this shit! Breaks my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:42 PM
43

How hilarious that he was FORCED confess that his “generous gift” was mom’s yard sale crap when gf wanted to resize it. Like all the women who get diamond engagement rings resized, just to find out that oops, it’s CZ. LVM and their duplicity. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:22 PM
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Haha! Comes home, exhausted, dirty, and broke with his duffle bag in hand, knocks on the front door, “Honey! I’m finally home!” and a complete stranger opens the door 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:45 PM
15

My first thought, also. His shit would be piled on the front porch and the locks would be changed that very night when he got home from drum circle, or whatever thing useless scrotes do to occupy their time. Pah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:41 PM
7

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:31 PM
54

Felt blue, needed attention and an ego stroke, reached out to you and pretended to care in the hopes of getting some luuuuv from an ex. Classic lonely scrote script.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:46 PM
18

“Stoic” is a plausible-sounding explanation for “I don’t actually care enough about you to even pretend to have emotions for you” A RealDoll is the ideal partner for a stoic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:19 PM
5

If this guy was worth two dirty socks, he’d be wondering about how he could please his girlfriend. But no. It’s all about MUH LIMP DICK. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:49 PM
9

Looking back, I can’t believe how badly his poor treatment continually damaged my self respect and held me down. Agree with everything you’ve said. I’d never even give a man like him the time of day again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:40 PM
5

Never underestimate the low things a guy will do to manipulate a woman for sex. Many online guys are flat out perverts and rapists who get a big charge out of tricking women into sex. It’s a hobby for some.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:21 PM
11

If they don’t try to act on what they mistakenly believe is your romantic interest immediately, they will, at some point in the future. Every time. Keep them at arm’s length. Be polite and civil, then walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:06 PM
9

This. How many questions about you did he ask? Let me guess...none. Gimme, gimme, gimme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:40 PM
23

Pro tip: NEVER be friendly with male co-workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:39 PM
30

Should? Must! Even back in my weakest pickme relationship, I adopted this policy. Fuck you, boyfriend! I’m not putting my face in your crotch unless you do it, first. Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:00 PM
81

Isn’t their dream girl “Beautiful, but she doesn’t know it”? They want us to be insecure and groveling for their approval so we will be easy to manipulate. Nope, and byeee 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:46 PM
19

All this. True. Gamers will ferociously defend their addiction like a hyena on a dead gazelle if anyone dares suggest it might be an addiction. They literally do not care about a single other thing in their lives and do not take any part in society. Between this and porn, men are SO fucked up. Soon, women will run the world, because all the men are locked behind their consoles...heheh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:37 PM
40

Ooh. Good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:13 PM
15

Thank you. I made a similar statement and caught a similar reaction on another sub. Beyond exasperating, more like enraging how entitled all men think they are to getting pleasure from us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:07 AM
12

True. I was thinking of the physical reactions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:04 AM
89

Agreed. It is terrifying when a person bigger and stronger than you menaces you physically. For me, my trigger is blocking exit. The three basic human reactions to a threat are fight, flight, or freeze. Take away my flight ability, even casually, and I’m instantly on full red alert. One step away from panic and looking for ways to escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:49 PM
7

Blocking is a power move 💪🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:35 PM
30

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:23 PM
9

This, precisely. It’s also a very common tactic for married men who are hoping to work your sympathy to soften you up to be their side piece. If a guy at work, or wherever, comes to you to whine about his wife or gf, shut that shit down immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:22 PM
12

Hang in there, I hear you. I went through a long period where I had so little self respect that it was hard to be friends with women. I felt intimidated by other women who seemed to have their lives together, and felt inadequate and awkward around them. It was easier to be “friends” with men for companionship. Over time, I worked on myself, got therapy, and the problem resolved itself. Am now grateful to have a new best friend as of 2020, whom I found through a hobby. Stay true to yourself, good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:11 PM
65

Yup. Anyone who asks isn’t anyone I’d be interested in, anyway. It reeks of insecurity and intrusive nosiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:12 AM
55

Self defense from predatory scrotes is the reason I take martial arts. My petite self was physically assaulted three times (!!) in 2017 and finally said NO MORE. I wish more women would do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:04 AM
21

Why is she wearing a leopard print top in the first scene, then black in the next one? Confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:27 PM
15

She doesn’t appear on his social media because he wants to keep his options open. Red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:22 PM
41

Trash. He’s lucky a girl that lovely would even speak to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:23 PM
10

Too bad he missed his ballsack! POW! 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:20 PM
22

Manipulative tactic to give you the opportunity to boost his ego by sprinkling sunshine and roses upon him about how much you luuuuuv him. Glad you stayed quiet. I would have done that, too, but added a wide-eyed wtf stare to let him know I saw through his ploy. But I’m mean that way, heheh. And I found that my no bs policy at work got me a TON of respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:41 PM
3

Thankfully, that pitiful post is getting a rightful pounding in the comments. Sure did get a lot of upvotes, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:31 PM
63

Truth. My LVM ex was always trying to get me to drink when I’d visit him, even though I’m a strict non-drinker. “You have to try this Fireball! Tastes like cinnamon! So good!” Nah scrote. I know why you’re trying to get me to drink. Also, thanks for totally ignoring my boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:14 PM
44

I’ve had that happen with wives of co-workers, too. Ha! As if!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:30 PM
53

Right. As if we’d actually want that lazy flab monster we had the misfortune accidentally see pissing in his yard while we were out watering our tidy flowers 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:29 PM
11

Ha ha, yep. This is all the guys on the rateme subs, calling absolutely stunning women 4s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:43 PM
22

This. They want a happy reaction from you for doing nothing. This was my exBF, who always talked about the nice things he wanted to get me. But never did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:13 PM
7

Good move. In fact, it’s best to keep ALL co-workers apart from your personal life, and off your social media
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:08 PM
3

Or gives her a pay boost for “special favors”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:06 PM
6

My thought was food service or restaurant, also. My first job as a teen was at a tiny restaurant. The owner was an old dude who fell in love with all his young women employees. He was gross. At least he didn’t push himself on us, but ew. It shouldn’t be too hard for OP to find a new place of employment. Hope she does, and soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:05 PM
6

Yikes. So disappointed in her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:59 PM
23

Yes, red flags everywhere. Likely unemployed, but just about to open up that imaginary shoe store, which is like the worst business decision, ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:48 PM
116

A guy who is that dodgy about the timing for a simple freakin’ phone call is likely married or living with someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:14 PM
11

The VR porn has been previewed, that’s why it’s already open 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:02 PM
10

This, exactly. He will fail at everything, but none of the failures will be his fault. He will complain endlessly about his bad luck to any passerby who will listen, as he hangs over his wife’s garden gate on a lazy Monday afternoon, beer in hand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:09 AM
19

Dirtbags with young kids, wanting to cheat on their partners are the lowest of the low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:23 PM
65

He sees you living in a nice house, driving a nice car, life organized and neat and thinks, “Who needs these kids and bills? Let me in on that sweet life!” Haha no, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:32 PM
13

Right? What a letdown! Can I get back the 30 seconds of my life I wasted watching this fool and feeling so happy for her, then getting my hopes dashed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:14 PM
33

This delusion is what leads men to leave their wives, thinking their marriages are all that is holding them back from a giant fuckfest of hot horny 23 year olds Then, sad lonely scrote when they discover real life isn’t like porn, and nobody actually wants sex with balding dad bod bookkeepers. At all 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:09 PM
36

Yep. Brace yourself for every guy you ever dated, ever, to text you happy new year. Groan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:52 PM
35

To devalue women and make them feel vulnerable and accepting of poor treatment and manipulation - we will “settle” for some loser scrote who is gracious to bestow his attention upon our lowly selves If a redpiller tries this line of bs on you, shrug your shoulders and cheerfully say that women don’t actually need men. Takes the wind right out of their sails 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:42 PM
50

Narcissistic men are less likely to have actual friends, also. Might have people who tolerate him, but don’t actually seek his companionship often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:32 PM
67

His 7 figs are all lined up on the counter over his kitchen sink, right next to an artichoke and an apple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:39 AM
68

Appalling. Planning to spend HER hard-earned money so he could look like the generous family benefactor!! What a sneaky little PRICK. So glad she shut him down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:25 AM
8

Can’t help but suspect that statement is nothing but another OLD lie to help scrotes attract women. “He might be serious about settling down! He says he wants kids someday!” Yeah, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:10 PM
7

I think it describes a lot of our exes, hence, here we are. FDS for the win!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:07 PM
20

But he’s legally separated! About to divorce any day now! The fact that he’s sharing a bedroom with his wife doesn’t mean anything...said every cheating scrote, ever 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:27 PM
28

If you’re Jeremy’s lucky choice, he might let you cook him lasagne in his kitchen, too! You buy and bring the ingredients, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:24 PM
35

Yup. Double standard alive and well. Women are supposed to be happy in the kitchen, raising babies and tending to men. Men, however, are supposed to be out there, spreading their seed, and if they are held back by marriage, waaaah! Biology has been thwarted! The tragedy 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:17 PM
12

Oh girl. I’ve lived this. It’s so true. I used to be the pickme who gave short guys a chance. You end up being nothing but an ego boost to launch them on their search for other pretty women, just to have them come slithering back when their newfound confidence deflates like yesterday’s sad birthday ballon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:10 PM
4

Ha ha ha! So much truth here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:05 PM
3

Hell yes! It’s about time ✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:12 PM
3

A barnacle 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:07 PM
143

It’s crazy. To be so traumatized from violent sex that you need to hang on afterwards and hope for kind words from your abuser? I feel so bad for women who think that painful, degrading sex that leaves bruises is somehow enjoyable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:02 PM
138

After complaining about their wives on deadbedrooms, their next stop is r/ adultery, where they complain about their inability to find a side piece...🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:36 PM
14

Yep. Last-minute effort to try to conceal what subhuman shitbags most men are, by quickly trying to include women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:16 PM
14

This, right here, is the reason why we BLOCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:06 PM
33

Yep. He doesn’t even want to try to understand her, but posts on Reddit, hoping to be told he’s right and she’s an unreasonable bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:23 PM
17

I read it as she “packed a small bag” because she was so done with him, her belongings were less important than her determination to get the fuck out of his life. Made me smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:18 PM
19

You forgot craft beer. Groan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:03 PM
6

I get it here on Reddit 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:00 PM
37

Yes! I’ve noticed that trait with the narcissistic men I dated in the past: Picky eaters, for the most part ate food young kids would like. Odd. Beware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:40 AM
87

The kid is probably crying in poopy diapers while wonderdad sits there gaming. Wife gets home and gets to clean up both their messes. I’d be furious, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:15 AM
195

“Cum for me, baby” Like it’s some trick we do on command 🙄 Shut UP and learn to please real women, clueless scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:18 PM
17

Often, men who quickly want to move a conversation private are married or cheating on girlfriends. Beware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:00 PM
27

Ooh, good point. Women stepping capably into roles that they have traditionally been denied, like Rosie the Riveter days when all the men were gone fighting WWII. We really CAN do all that “man stuff” - who knew? 😊😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:34 PM
397

This is likely a married man, a fat old scrote with hair coming out of his ears and nose, hasn’t done a situp or pushup since high school, and has literally nothing to offer a young woman other than his nonexistent “maturity” The delusion and entitlement level is staggering Fucker should bust out his wallet and get an escort...but wait! He doesn’t have any money, either 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:28 PM
2

The second undercurrent being that women are pitiful creatures who need men like their dads to look after them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:17 PM
27

I caved in, too. Before I had a reduction, I was very busty. Of course, both boyfriends thought boob sex was hot. Fact: it’s pretty boring for the woman, and I did not like having my boobs squished together - just another of the hundreds of porn misconceptions 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:58 PM
30

Exactly this. They’ve watched so much porn, that they think a woman’s anus is just a second vagina to pound away upon. They have no conception of what goes on in real life. Hello? That’s where shit comes from, it requires a ton of prep, and most women don’t LUV it like porn. YUCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:53 PM
7

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:58 PM
54

Um, the opportunity for housecleaning, shopping, cooking, and keeping track of his meds, doctor visits, and sending his relatives cards and gifts? 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:45 PM
37

If he was really a gentleman and an HVM, he’d be more concerned about getting rid of the “perverts in the bushes” But no, he’s a misogynistic coward who thinks women need to change to fit into his world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:48 AM
3

Thanks for the info! I’m from a country with a high incidence of the mutation, so I ordered the test out of curiosity. Some smart ladies here on FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:56 AM
5

He misled you about having kids, that wouldn’t be much of a stretch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:11 AM
7

He’s not separated, or even planning on leaving his wife. This lie is as common as and frequently used as toilet paper Yet another cheating scrote hoping to lie his way into some side action...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:03 AM
15

He’d probably been lurking around there all day, hoping for the opportunity to use his brilliant pickup line 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:27 AM
63

Yup. And that sloppy, lazy selfie indicates exactly how much effort he’ll put into pleasing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:23 AM
3

Excellent. And by the way, you did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:14 PM
5

Strongly suspect that a lot of the older scrotes are men who are terrible in bed and hope that a younger girl wouldn’t know better A vile older co-worker hit on me a few times with offers of “hours of great oral sex”. Probably because his dick didn’t work that well? Disgusting. Also: older men try to sell you the idea that their experience makes them better in bed. This is NOT true. A man who’s deluded enough to hit on younger women will also be deluded about his bedroom skill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:06 PM
2

Been training at a Krav gym for years. I’ve had the opposite experience - most of the guys (but not all) are genuinely good people. I’m embarrassed that the weirdo in the post is associated with my pastime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:47 PM
3

If you haven’t done it yet, BLOCK HIM EVERYWHERE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:33 PM
13

Same. I regret the times I didn’t speak up, but I’ll never regret the time I finally did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:14 PM
10

This. You probably weren’t the first person he’s harassed, and there would have been more after you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:14 PM
3

Thanks for the laugh!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:13 PM
5

This. NEVER worry about being mean to people who aren’t being nice to you. NEVER. Make this your mantra!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:47 PM
7

This is the guy who will be inviting women to come over and “chill”. Watch Netflix from what, the floor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:22 PM
5

“You are too good for me” is also scrotespeak for “I am cheating on you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:55 PM
3

Also means will subtly manipulate you by keeping your self image low :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:54 PM
107

“I’m not single because I’m undesirable and have nothing to offer, I’m single because nobody meets my high standards” Lol keep coping, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:40 PM
7

Hysterical 😂 It was worth the effort of blowing the image up to read!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:02 PM
44

Lol! To the lurking incels: Chad’s penis is awesome!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:22 AM
6

My cousin’s wife left him for this exact reason. He’d rip the place apart, then start the next project before finishing the last. She got sick and tired of constantly living in shambles. I don’t blame her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:01 PM
2

How does this woman not understand that you can SAY NO and STOP and any point? How does any woman not understand this?? This post breaks my heart 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:55 PM
4

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:13 PM
3

She wouldn’t even have to worry about “keeping the house” if his goddamn lazy ass wasn’t home all day, littering it with cups and trash while he watches porn and games. Amazingly, houses don’t get messy by themselves while you’re gone at work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:10 PM
7

And will be constantly hooking up with men behind your back. He probably writes “Bi” because he actually despises women, but is hoping to find one with no self esteem who will take care of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:42 PM
18

Yes! 💜 Can we all chip in to buy her a a gift card to buy more cheery fabric in celebration of her dumping this selfish turd?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:32 PM
111

“DoN’t KiNk ShAmE MY rApE FeTiSh!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:12 PM
41

Byeeee to a not-aging-like-fine-wine Depp and his famously monstrous diva ego 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:01 AM
14

He was just hoping to be reassured that No! He wasn’t too old for her at all! Girls LOVE older guys! We do love older guys...’s wallets lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:30 AM
3

Was just gonna say that. He probably got her name from her receipt, then used that info to hunt her down on FB, which is an APPALLING no-no I hope she wakes up and tells him to get lost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:16 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:53 PM
14

“I am/was a stand-up comic” is red-flag scrotespeak for NARCISSIST
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:46 PM
25

...and that’s an average FILTERED face. Eesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:45 PM
42

This. It is infuriating and exasperating. Most of them are waiting for your attention - they fucking love that women gush over them with praise for caring for their child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:34 PM
40

That jumped out at me, too This text exchange filled me with fury and alarm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:27 PM
24

Yep. It also means he probably cluelessly trying for women way out of his league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:07 PM
18

Did he use “shooting” and “shot” enough? This Cro-magnon has barely evolved beyond grunting and pointing! His primitive logic and language have failed to convince me that I need to pursue men. Feh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:58 PM
28

This guy’s next post will be on one of the relationship subs, crying about how none of us awful women ever answer his ads 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:42 PM
57

The only reason a girl that young might want a guy that old is money This scrote doesn’t have money, and isn’t willing to share the few meager coins he has, so he is going to be alone for a looooong time. Too bad, so sad 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:38 PM
2

Men who say they’re confident are trying to convince you and themselves that they’re aren’t insecure and needy creatures Avoid dating them, they will seek validation and ego feed from as many women as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:49 PM
10

Thank you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:32 PM
9

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:29 PM
4

Wants to either physically cheat on his wife with you, or hopes he can finagle some online flirting and nudes from you...behind his wife’s back. Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:15 AM
4

Have to admit, I love posts with really outrageous ads from Tinder, etc. I get a giant kick from reading the FDS ladies’ replies. It’s a little bit education, and a lot of fun. It’s marvelous to know that other women despise those exasperating ads as much as I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:01 PM
33

Same. Those who reply on this thread should probably ignore their mail for a while. I noticed some downvotes, too. Scrotey be lurking, and he is punishing us by pounding the down arrow 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:39 PM
55

Jackhammering with fingers is TERRIBLE 😳 It’s the sign of an amateur with no concept of what women actually like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:36 PM
54

I have. The guy was 6’4. Great guy, small D. He put so much time and effort into pursuing me. Then, I finally saw him nude. The end came shortly afterward when he wanted me to beg (I know, riDICKulous) for his teeny weenie. Sorry, but sex when you’re trying to stifle laughter is not fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:56 PM
2

Wants sex and lies to get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:49 PM
7

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:55 PM
9

You’re speaking my language! I like resting my head on a bulky shoulder with a big arm wrapped around me. When do you ever put your head on a guy’s stomach? Particularly on a guy’s flabby gut? Has the pickme who wrote this ever actually been with a man? So many questions 🤔😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:53 PM
36

I was forced to do the same thing earlier this year when caring for an unwell parent Family members who weren’t aware of the extent of my dad’s illness were giving me terrible advice and criticism and gossiping amongst themselves while I worked hard to do my best Finally, after spending weeks jumping around and trying to keep everyone happy while suffering some of the worst stress and misery in my life, I backed away. Stopped replying to their texts and answering their calls Suddenly, everyone w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:27 PM
5

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:52 AM
2

Yep. ‘Roids was my first thought, too. Scrotey’s resorted to the needle to be more manly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:24 PM
8

And how about his awkward “masculine” gesturing? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:21 PM
3

Yet another affirmation that staying single is an absolutely wonderful lifestyle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:15 PM
74

“I am confident” Immediate red pill or other PUA nonsense red flag. All their propaganda is about how confidence wins women It means they are not confident, but they’d like to convince you that they are. Genuinely confident men don’t ever say that, it’s as natural to them as breathing or blinking - not something they’d ever think about, or feel a reason to say it to someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:52 PM
46

This is what I was going to say. Totally agree about HR. They are useless in what they see as interpersonal situations like this, and only react if there’s a direct threat to the company. And yes, they’d protect him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:48 PM
53

You only know what he’s telling you. Men who wish to cheat often tell outrageous lies about their significant others. For all you know, she’s a really terrific person being fooled by devious manager scrote, who bought her a ring last week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:45 PM
12

Ouch. Your heart must have dropped down into your socks as you read his posts. I’m so sorry you had to experience that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:04 AM
36

Yup. A new twist on the old “Let me give you a massage” pickup line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:55 AM
60

“I coyly mentioned my collection of bed restraints and toys” BLEH! That’s probably where her brain shut off with revulsion and she smiled politely, thinking of how soon she could slide away from Scrotey McDungeonmaster and his slimy accoutrements 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:32 AM
62

Scrote is married. Stock photos, landscapes, and puppies are cheater red flags. She started asking questions, he disappeared
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:23 AM
12

LVM rocket launch to planet loser leaving in 3...2...1 🚀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:54 PM
20

Usually, women who put up with this sort of man are women who were never taught to value themselves by their parents. Sadly, her parents probably don’t have her back, and cannot be relied upon to support her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:52 PM
86

The term “Gold Digger” is simply a manipulation LVM use try to shame a woman who is OUT OF THEIR LEAGUE into going out with them It’s an LVM cope. Nothing more, nothing less Consider being called a gold digger as a compliment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:48 PM
26

Totally hear you on this. My entire dating life, I had been spoiled with good enough guys, so when the narc snuck in, he messed with my head really badly. I never saw it coming. Now, I see that good guys are very rare and I had been living in ignorant bliss. Yay, FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:21 AM
12

Hopefully she’ll never be a mother to a daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:02 PM
1

They could at least TRY to make a good Impression. But, no problem - we see them and know right away to dodge the LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:13 PM
2

Hunters! Aren’t horses the happiest addiction? So nice to see another FDS horse woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:50 PM
12

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:54 AM
3

Those are the ones who overdid it. With skilled work, you really can’t tell And, hello fellow equestrian 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:49 AM
2

Watch out for RealSelf. It’s slowly morphed from being an actual reviews site to a paid advertising site. Unfavorable reviews are removed. And some of those “XX % of people raved about this procedure” are complete bs Your best plan of action is to research doctors near you, consult with the ones you like, and go with the one you feel you trust At my dermatologists office, his PA does most of the cosmetic work. She’s an expert, it’s a big part of what she does every day. Also very honest about tu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:46 AM
17

This! Well said. If he doesn’t care about pleasing you by paying, he doesn’t care. Expecting a woman to pay on those first few crucial dates means he’s not that into you. If he was, he’d be on his very best behavior, busting out his wallet to make a good masculine provider type impression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:52 PM
6

Call me jaded. But to me, “just here relaxing” translates to “sitting here and hoping to jerk it to sexts and nudes with you” Or “Just finished watching some porn” Whatever it is, relaxing is a weak and uninteresting reply, unless they say they just finished unloading trucks for the food bank, or cycling around a very large mountain range :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:15 PM
7

Yep. They have plenty of time to sit and type out this rage because neither women nor employers want anything to do with them. The only satisfaction they get is banging the stuck keys on their ancient, jizz-encrusted keyboards 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:40 PM
5

That is absofreakinlutely negging behavior. It sounds like some pitiful seduction technique suggested by the PUA crowd. Ladies, the moment a man approaches you in public and says something like this that has a even a whiff of being rehearsed, walk away. Do not ever be afraid of being “rude” and hurting a man’s feelings when he’s making an attempt to manipulate you. You owe nothing to nobody. Standing up for yourself feels GOOD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:19 PM
6

Yep. That immediately hit a sour note. Then the “niece’s birthday party” - suuure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:02 PM
29

Insecure, a control freak, and will forever use “I was hurt in my last relationship” as an excuse for bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:33 PM
70

Yup! Had to neg her a little and drag her down, since she was getting into shape and he wasn’t. She is at risk of attracting a new guy who isn’t a lazy, self indulgent couch creature. And she will 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:19 PM
5

The kicker is, that most of the scrotes giving this sage advice are guys who have never had kids, or even been in a serious relationship. Reddit, ughhhh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:37 PM
3

Every time, sis 😂💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:06 PM
10

Oh, GAWD “He might be depressed” is their favorite defense lately, when “He might be a loser” and “Launch him like a rocket” are the actual, correct answers 🚀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:00 PM
3

Precisely this. If an adult male was not raised to have a moral compass, sense of decency and fairness, and a work ethic, you’re not going to give him one. Communicate all you want, but your words, tears, and time will be wasted. Can’t teach an LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:53 PM
12

After a great date, the man will typically text you shortly afterwards to tell you he had a good time. He likes you, he’s smart, he wants to stay on your mind. If he doesn’t, move on. He’s either not into you, or has the social skills of a dirt clod. We don’t want men like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:51 PM
15

Don’t be embarrassed - you’ve seen the light, a misstep you won’t be taking any more. Admit it: even before FDS, there was something at the back of your mind, telling you it was a weak effort on the guy’s part....😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:37 PM
80

Popular with married cheaters 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:57 AM
28

Written by someone who doesn’t seem to know much about women and assumes we all possess kindergarten-level thought and reasoning processes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:55 AM
4

They only hear what they want to hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:23 PM
46

Men at 50 also have hair growing out of their ears and noses, while their beer bellies grow firmer and penises get softer 😂 We women, on the other hand, just get wiser, stronger, and lovelier, inside and out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:22 PM
54

Right? Many times, I’ve overheard better men strongly disapprove of and laughing at other adult men chasing too-young women I’ve also happily overheard a group of men in my living room speaking very poorly of one of their friends for cheating on his wife The scrotes on that forum are generally losers at the game of life who have zero luck with women and feel small, so they spend their evenings bloviating about how superior they are 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:19 PM
26

Having fun? Sure. Having sex, not so much. It’s just a stupid FOMO mindset. Missing out on lots of sex also means missing out on wonderful experiences of pump and dump, of feeling like a sex toy for an undeserving LVM. Honestly, looking back on my own life, I really can’t remember more than one or two experiences where I thought, “I’m so glad we had sex!”...but I can remember several where I really regret it 😓 The times I enjoyed were the times I was in a solid relationship with a solid man, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:06 PM
12

Exactly. The good news is that you can grow out of this behavior and mindset so that you never, ever fall victim to this sort of predatory male again. This depressing piece of $hit article completely neglected to mention this vital and empowering message, and we women have been failed yet again. This time, by a member of our very own sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:54 PM
39

Here’s how many of us FDSers will be involved with a man like that: None Keep your faith in yourselves, and keep standing up for yourself, queens! 👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:55 PM
14

He was probably hoping you’d want to test it out with him, too I’m sorry, but I have verrrry little faith in any man after being exposed to cheating scrotes for much of my work life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:52 PM
120

Bleh! The thin arm/big tummy combo is repellent and screams low effort, lazy male For a short while, had a bf with this combo. He was a good enough guy, but seeing all 6’4” of him slouching around nude was the last nail in the coffin of our relationship. Not into guys who don’t put at least a little effort and pride in their appearance. I put a lot into mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:15 PM
11

Best answer right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:28 PM
11

Did anyone else’s stomach churn a little at the guy’s horrible hair in the pic? Sad old scrote tryin soooo hard to look young, lookin like a sheepdog in need of a trip to the groomer’s instead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:04 PM
27

Wow! Am sipping coffee and relaxing after exercise, scrolled around over there for a moment for amusement. The amount of hate for FDS over there was totally stunning and rewarding! 😂 Obviously we’re striking a nerve with the LVM of Reddit. Keep up the good work, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:48 PM
31

‘He’s in the process of a divorce..’ Suuuuure....that’s what literally ALL married cheaters tell their hopeful side pieces. He’d be getting the divorce right now, but this, and but that...🙄 Girl, he’s not getting a divorce, his wife isn’t an evil witch, and he doesn’t love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:51 PM
11

Yep. In a week or two when he feels horny, he’ll text you again and actually be nice. He’ll play you for as long as it takes to get whatever he wants, then go right back to his nasty ass self. Block now, block everywhere, and don’t look back 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:30 AM
9

Dodging the issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:26 AM
9

He wants to dictate the terms of the relationship to you. The hell with what you want, it’s going to be his way, and your need to be treated fairly is annoying to him. Block now. Throw this LVM out with the trash 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:25 AM
7

Sheesh! Did you dance around the house with relief and happiness once the divorce was final? 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:46 AM
7

These are the guys who are absolutely relentless about not leaving you alone if you don’t block them right away It’s like they simply cannot believe you don’t want what they have to offer. Which is dick, and nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:22 PM
23

These guys are straight-up losers in the game of life. The world is a rich casserole of people, passion, opportunities for joy. Instead of sharing a slice, they’re arguing over who gets to lick the dirty spoon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:16 PM
55

Yet he expected you to make a big deal about his birthday, right? I had the same ex. He was such a douche. Leaving him was one of the best presents I ever gave myself 🎁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:08 PM
2

The short penis isn’t the problem - it’s the insecurity having a small penis wreaks on their psyche This guy is not a good relationship risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:01 PM
139

Pay for a short fence, or a truck to come and dump a few big boulders on the border of your property My best friend went through a similar dispute with her disrespectful neighbors. That’s how she solved it, they never had a problem again Continue to walk with your back straight, head high, and speak your mind as needed. You’re doing it right. Fuck that guy. Lousy neighbors are the WORST - you have my sympathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:55 PM
26

Yikes! Too busy pervin on porn in his parents basement to be bothered to emerge into the sunlight for a shampoo and a hair cut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:03 AM
15

Brilliant reply 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:55 AM
20

Copypasta PUA bs This is a lazy, no effort, No Value Man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:28 AM
59

‘Easy going’ is scrotespeak for low self esteem and therefore no boundaries This man is a predator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:50 PM
2

This. I’ll never sit alone in a hotel bar again. They are nothing but pickup zones. You literally won’t get a minute of peace before horny scrotes swarm in on you like mosquitos. I’ve even been offered free drinks by a hotel bar when I was just walking past. They know. They want women, helps add appeal to the male business travelers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:12 PM
3

They hate having their lazy incompetence exposed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:44 PM
13

Perhaps she’s been watching those nature documentaries of the rain forest birds who bring gifts to the females they’re courting? Which is so cool. Because otherwise? NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:40 PM
35

Yes. Men get infuriated when women date younger. We’re supposed to go for the older dusties. You know, with all their “wisdom” and “experience” 🙄😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:36 PM
33

Not just that, but older guys tend to have a dating/relationship formula that worked at some point in the past, so they try to apply that formula to each woman. Even if it’s basically a square peg in a round hole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:33 PM
68

How strongly do you suppose that his current girlfriend lives with him and is raising his child? I hope she leaves him. She needs FDS stat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:24 PM
13

She’s thinking of his flappy, malodorous ball sack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:14 PM
10

Oh girl. They never stop Always remember that they do it because THEY want attention You are correct. They are the barely evolved Neanderthal versions of apes, beating their chests and hooting so the females will notice them: ‘Look at me!! I got testosterone! Ook ook ook!!!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:13 PM
21

Thank you. I’ve never cared much for his psychotic and unsettling art, either. Sure, art is supposed to make you think, but I’d rather enjoy lighthearted artists like Shag, dreamy impressionists, or plein air
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:08 PM
89

This. Don’t even make friendly talk with male coworkers. Keep them all at arms length. They WILL misconstrue your friendliness as romantic interest, and it will lead to awkwardness and discomfort later that will make your work days unnecessarily unpleasant Source: my own long career
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:52 PM
15

The best reply is the good, old “Why do you ask?” while turning away and getting busy elsewhere. Usually, any response other than kindness will turn them away immediately. “Oh. Haha. That line doesn’t work on me” also works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:01 AM
5

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:36 AM
8

I was thinking the same thing. Addiction and cheating are both common narcissistic traits. She probably stuck by him because she’s codependent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:18 PM
11

Ugh. Nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:13 PM
66

Wowwww You are absolutely right, he is a cheater who was caught again and is doing whatever it takes to get back in his unfortunate wife’s good graces Guys just don’t spontaneously have epiphanies like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:00 AM
26

She needed publicity, the Kardashian clan is losing its sparkle. Nobody is presently talking about them. So, her media crew said, ‘hey! We need attention and controversy. Khloe, take some pics with your shitbag ex! That’ll get the world talking about you again” And obviously, it worked! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:51 PM
15

Ha ha! He had plans to bang someone Saturday night. Those fell through, so he was hoping that you’d be his Sunday fallback girl. Good job smelling the cow manure he sneakily tried to serve you, and shutting him down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:30 PM
156

A man using the word ‘modesty’ early in conversation is a massive red flag. It reeks of moral judgement and religious nuttery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:16 PM
12

THIS is why it’s so terrible that we women are taught to be ‘nice’ and avoid hurting peoples’ feelings or making a scene in public. I wish I knew when I was a kid, that I now understand as an adult that it’s totally fine to scream and run, to loudly say ‘GET AWAY FROM ME!’ - anything that it might take to protect yourself! Argh!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:04 PM
13

Talk about no sense, from a health care professional! That is APPALLING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:55 PM
12

This. Eject him totally from your life and work on being the best person you can be 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:26 PM
132

Wow! Nice combo of lying, bragging, and putting you down Glad to hear he’s an ex! 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:23 PM
5

They only care about how low they can degrade the women Most men are awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:13 AM
2

Agreed. I’m a little surprised and totally delighted that Joe is taking this stance on porn. Was never a fan, but my respect for him just jumped up notch. Go, Joe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:22 PM
64

Uncle Fester wants to bone you! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:16 AM
81

If a guy approaches you and says something that sounds rehearsed or too smooth, stop listening. Walk away if possible DO NOT humor him and be polite and go along with his gambit Any time your brain gives you that tiny, uncomfortable ping that something is not quite right, never ignore it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:13 AM
7

My coffee just leapt up my throat 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:04 PM
10

Her: ‘Pick me! I’m the easiest hole you’ll ever fill!’ Him: That was fun but eesh, she was too easy. I don’t respect her. But I’ll keep using her...for MUH DICK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:03 PM
5

Married Or a narcissist - completely dodging your questions like that was a habit of a narcissistic guy I knew. He only wanted to talk about what he wanted, when he wanted to. This guy is probably not a good relationship risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:54 PM
4

Ohhh, good catch! On a closer look, cheap LVM is even more tight than initially realized...sneaky, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:19 PM
16

Love that you mentioned his energy and work ethic right away. To me, that’s one of the key factors in a happy relationship. A driven man is a very good thing. There’s no limits to what the two of you can accomplish together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:53 PM
5

100% this I bet ‘trash pickup’ is just a ruse to get women out on a free bikini date and he’s the only trash involved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:40 PM
4

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:06 PM
40

Ah! Those delusional dusties who will always be single Always good for a laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:50 PM
13

Precisely. All the communication in the world won’t change a liar and cheat into an honest man Nor will it give a lazy slob a work ethic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:54 PM
20

Yup. Ancient fukkboi tactic, successfully diverted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:24 PM
20

PERFECT analysis of scrotespeak, sis 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:21 PM
24

Oh no. It does serve a purpose. It hides where his hairline once was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 08:19 AM
5

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 08:17 AM
3

I didn’t realize that about Insta, I’m a very casual user And yeah. Guys can try to find you by your [email protected]. Hasn’t happened to you yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:56 AM
14

Same. But they find ways to sneak back to you via email and making new insta accounts, using things like Covid as an excuse. Groan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:32 PM
28

Trying to guilt or shame someone into dating you is a really weak strategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:15 PM
18

Nobody respects these girls, though. They’re the ones who won’t have any worthwhile relationships until they wake up and value themselves and stop accepting low effort men. FDS for the win 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:34 PM
2

Ooh, I like the way you think!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:56 PM
12

It’s not just so they don’t use it against you, it’s because often, it’s none of their business. Exposing your trauma to others usually serves you no purpose, and can work against you. It’s something that should usually remain between you and your therapist, unless you’re considering marriage. For those who have experienced trauma: Seek out a therapist who specializes in EMDR. It can permanently change your life in a few short sessions 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:40 PM
57

Yup. I’m seeing a guitar strategically placed to hide a big gut. Look at the flappy clothing and what’s supposed to be his pec, loosely bulging over the top of his guitar shudder Also. If he was an actual musician who actually played gigs, finding women would be cake, so you can go ahead and presume that he is unemployed and this pic is from open mic Monday at a local restaurant Good luck finding arm candy when you have nothing to offer...and please do keep those awful clothes on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:22 PM
11

Your family is a big part of what made you vulnerable to accepting abuse from your partner If you aren’t doing it already, seek counseling from a therapist who specializes in abusive relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 01:02 AM
14

Narcissist, love bombing. If you keep completely ignoring him, he’ll eventually wither without your fuel and move on to easier sources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:50 AM
76

Good job sending him and his delusions packing, sis 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:46 AM
68

Add in “and not married cheating scum” and this is all the truth you need, right here 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:42 AM
111

“You deserve better” is scrotespeak for “I am cheating on you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:32 PM
3

This. Text him a screenshot, write ‘gfy loser’, and block him forever He does not care what you think Do not waste one more instant of your wonderful peace of mind on this clown, sis. Much love to you 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:48 PM
8

Not sure you can legit call yourself a Mechanical Engineer if you only went to trade school That’s deceptive. Hard pass 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:40 PM
15

All this. He sounds simultaneously very insecure as well as narcissistic. No wonder he’s hostile about online dating. This profile wouldn’t appeal to any woman 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:34 PM
9

A queen on this forum posted the perfect reply: “Not if it’s going to make me uncomfortable” However, all of us probably already know that a guy who makes this query shortly after a starting a dialogue is a write-off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:52 PM
17

With front teeth that a gopher would envy, no less!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:10 PM
32

Ohhh geez. Yes, it is always sexual. That goes right along with “I took a special pic for you, would you like to see it?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:05 PM
31

My father yelled at all of us constantly, it was awful, and it’s something I’d NEVER tolerate from any man now that I’m an autonomous adult. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:58 PM
58

That is barely visible underneath his bulging gut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:31 AM
5

It’s up to you, but he’s a mature adult who’s had many years to make himself and his life successful. If he hasn’t done it yet, he probably never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:42 PM
8

You will NEVER regret leaving him. Trust me. I have been exactly where you are, years spent (wasted, oh well, it was a learning experience) in a relationship with the exact same man. I missed him for a week or two, then my life changed and improved so dramatically that I never looked back. Staying down to stay with an “okay” man had been holding me back in more ways than I ever imagined. He was absolutely fine after I left, too. Never did find anyone quite like me, too bad, not my life any more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:47 PM
27

Of course so many women don't want to be intimate with a man who spends his entire day ignoring her while she desperately tries to rekindle a flame that was never really there. VERY well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:34 PM
99

Reads like a bitter divorced guy who is mistakenly thinking he’s going to be fending off eager pussy with a baseball bat lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:29 PM
42

Lol! Then he can be as “emotionally unavailable” as he wants No women with half a clue would want this cluelessly smug, self-congratulating douche
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:58 PM
4

Yes to all of these, but #4!! So true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 02:37 PM
47

One single mark in the “lying” column would be an immediate goodbye. There is absolutely no point in trying to have a relationship with a liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:12 PM
20

Exactly. Do not tell. If you do end up talking about past relationships, I hope the conversation on both sides is super brief. No need to bring up age or any other details that you don’t want to talk about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:15 PM
4

Thank you for being a mod 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:39 PM
9

Yes to all of this. The way he so calmly describes everything and refers to her almost in third person to me indicates Cluster B personality. It’s so cold, almost like he’s describing his fridge contents and asking for a recipe, not heartbroken over a fight with a dear loved one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:35 PM
3

This poor, ignorant, immature scrote is 35?! Hard to believe. Getting resentful because she got a laptop that’s fancier than she needed? Ha ha ha! Is he also angry that she drives an Audi instead of a Kia? That she wears new clothes from Urban Outfitters when Poshmark would be just fine? Hopefully, girlfriend woke up and moved on from this jealous, unreasonable loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:10 PM
29

“He’ll do the dishes for me” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:56 PM
7

Yes - exactly this. Appreciation is an important ingredient of a happy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:12 AM
119

😂 “He who complains about a free service, gets no more free service” is an old saying in my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:44 AM
26

Essentially everything about this bio is either cringe or red flag. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:07 PM
6

A thousand times this. Long career, experienced the same things. Avoid being friendly with all men at work unless they’re gay. Literally all of them will take your friendly advances the wrong way, and they all hope to have sex with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:48 AM
66

The men who laugh are the only ones who are honest and realistic enough to admit out loud that it’s a joke of a relationship that will never be equitable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:48 AM
20

This breaks my heart 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:22 PM
48

Fake. A self-centered, insecure douche like this guy would never know his GFs birthday without looking at a calendar 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:17 AM
1

Thank you. Way to objectify and make a total classless fool of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:12 PM
5

That was a very enlightening read. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:51 AM
26

Huh, yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:48 PM
4

Yep, haha. However, we wouldn’t even bother with this guy - no FDS ladies are cheap side dishes for married men 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:19 PM
5

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻⬆️ This, exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:02 AM
16

Tell him you want to get it on with him and ask him to have her text you her approval It won’t happen She doesn’t know, and would be devastated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:45 AM
2

Smart!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:05 PM
20

Noooo! 37? Permanent manbaby 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:28 AM
14

How do those bird-thin calves support that swollen chub middle? Yeeee! Def not a look to want to show off to the world! 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:29 AM
15

This was my experience, too. Being “older” doesn’t make a difference. I learned to never share any personal or friendly moments with male co-workers. They all took it the wrong way. Male friends don’t exist, unless maybe you share a passion for some sort of hobby and relate to each other through that, but even so...guys hang out with you because they hope to eventually have sex with you, 99% of the time. It is a sad realization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:40 PM
40

He’s probably messaging old high school girlfriends as we speak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:28 AM
20

Yeah, I’d be impressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:26 AM
13

Great realizations, very well written 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:33 PM
35

Good point. No daughter would have deep, detailed personal conversations with a dad this judgmental and unsupportive. He’d be an unsympathetic and poor listener. That post is fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:01 AM
2

That was a really bad suggestion. Perhaps next time Stoya with all her relationship and counseling brilliance will get a fresh idea like hiring a skywriter to spell it out in little puffs of smoke? That would be just as effective as writing a letter - as in, not gonna work - but with more excitement and style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:02 AM
16

Oh, girl. I had an ex who pulled the “It’s the thought that counts” on me, too, and I stayed with him for another year. Thankfully, both you and I are wiser now and we will never accept LVM nonsense again 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:45 AM
3

Cheap scrote didn’t even suggest making dinner. How insulting. Zero Value Man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:26 AM
54

Great news! You’re not married to him, nor do you have kids together - you may pack your bags and leave Jizzmaster Zero today!! Haha gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:24 PM
51

Let’s have a porn actress give relationship advice to women! Doesn’t that sound like a great idea? Oh, Slate, you’re trying too hard to remain edgy and relevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:01 PM
14

Right? Gee, thank you, your royal highness, unique and supreme god and judge of women 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:27 PM
50

A “bit” ridiculous? You’re too nice! I’d go with “super fucking ridiculous” 😂 In fact, I’d dump BDSM as a whole into that category. As if I’d let some tiresome scrub be the boss of me? Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:35 AM
8

Agreed. We’re not allowed to have self confidence anywhere men are participating. It’s easier to manipulate us when we feel unattractive and unworthy. Go FDS 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:37 PM
4

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:05 PM
62

RIP to a true hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:58 AM
11

I did the same thing with the same result, and concluded never again to give less desirable men a chance. Scrotes’ egos swell to ludicrous proportions and they quickly become insufferable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:51 AM
7

Maybe he has poor personal hygiene and nobody wants his dick near their face?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:09 PM
56

The way he throws statistics around, sounds like he bangs lots of partners, which means ONS. From what I hear, ONS sex isn’t the best. What does he expect when he’s getting something for nothing? If he’s not happy with his free sex, he can bust out his wallet and pay an escort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:32 AM
17

Not just that, but it reads like copypasta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:02 PM
26

Right? Waaah, my wife doesn’t want to be my sex slave 24/7, poor me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:38 PM
6

Yep. You’re just opening the LVM floodgates to cheating. An HVM would never ask for a threesome, anyway. That poster is both a liar, and trash. His little peanut brain justifies his cheating by pretending that bringing home a paycheck and not divorcing his poor, unsuspecting wife makes him a great guy. Ha. Unfortunately, there are lots of LVM just like this one out there. Luckily, none of us will get stuck with one 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:59 PM
56

Men like that aren’t even attractive. What woman would want someone that childish and useless?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:25 PM
13

This is what happens when you are only valued for your looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:30 PM
16

Come on! Show some appreciation - they had to take their hands all the way out of their sweatpants to type that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:10 PM
45

I think sex is one of those things a person either has a feel for, or they don’t. You have to be able to pay attention and read your partner. To be invested in their pleasure. It’s physical and mental. Some men never get it. Some men just don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:43 PM
14

Stay away from them. Be polite but distant when forced to engage. You are not required to interact with people who make you uncomfortable. Your comfort and peace of mind must always come first. They aren’t looking out for you? No need to humor them in order to protect your image and be seen as “nice”. My world improved greatly when I finally stood up and said “No, thanks”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:10 PM
218

Also, if he’s past 25 and isn’t good at sex, he’s not going to suddenly have a revelation and become a good lover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:36 PM
22

One idiotic quote you constantly hear on the dating forums is “You lose 100% of the shots you don’t take” Scrotes will try to get an attractive woman who is way out of their league. No shame. Don’t take it personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:07 PM
11

Ew. That’s tacky, and I would have noped out of there right along with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:26 PM
22

Yup. He either has a gf, or an ex left them there and he never cleans, so he never got around to throwing them away. For your friend to think he’s something special for this is...questionable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:24 PM
51

Love it. Sorry to say it, but one of the reasons I didn’t want to vote for Hilary was because she didn’t leave Bill after the Monica scandal. It infuriated me, and I hated the message she sent: Turn a blind eye and stand by your cheating husband. Um, NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:13 PM
17

Yes! Men seeking loyalty is a big red flag. Loyalty is a huge thing for men with NPD, in particular. They want women who stick with them despite shitty treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:56 PM
47

It’s actually quite simple: The scrotes who are doing the criticizing are actually the unattractive ones. They are guys who very rarely get lucky with women, so they set their standards impossibly high. That way, they can pretend they don’t want women, instead of facing the painful self-admission that women don’t want them. This also grants them an exemption from making any effort to better themselves to become more attractive to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:35 PM
2

Doesn’t it give you the feeling that this woman would do and say absolutely anything for attention? Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:08 AM
10

Looks like it was drawn on with a cheap ballpoint pen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:49 AM
21

Great! Let him get the other apartment, then change the locks and file for divorce. Let the trash move itself out 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:47 AM
23

If you want to be sweet, you can add, ‘Have a nice day!’ as you get in your car and zoom away with the wind in your hair and your fave Spotify playlist blasting 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 10:09 PM
6

Dad bod = Lazy. Doesn’t care about health or improving his appearance to impress women. Hasn’t done sit ups or push ups since high school, even though they’re free, effective, and you can do them any place or time. Yet, probably wants to meet fit, sexy women...ughhhh no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:00 PM
6

Easy to see why they don’t have girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:29 PM
33

“Separated” = married “Open-minded” = married “Discreet”= duh, married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:11 PM
23

SHEESH. Another reason why we NEVER disclose our financial details until we’re very seriously committed. ‘Gimme the money you saved and worked so hard for!’ - LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:07 PM
20

Yep. MARRIED scrote, looking for free NSF sex. You host.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:19 PM
13

Cheap men are rarely happy men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:07 AM
70

Yeah. How could a man be SO cheap and ignorant, yet be making $200k per year at age 28? Something smells funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:56 PM
100

What a shitbag Hope he enjoys the slap life is about to give him in the face when he gets out there to hook up and get tons of that hot sexy action his wife was keeping him away from. Suddenly, he’ll find out there aren’t many women out there looking to give away hot sexy action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:19 PM
41

My thoughts, too. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:28 PM
12

Let him. If he’s the type who’d say bad things about you, he probably says bad things about lots of people, causing nobody to take him seriously. We all know people who bitch and moan about others. Do their words and opinions mean much to us? No. They do not. Make sure you block him on all your social media, too. You don’t want to stay fresh in his mind. He’ll soon forget about his indignation at your disinterest as he moves on to others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:42 PM
11

Using the “I was under the influence’ excuse 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:55 AM
12

Yeah. Actually paying for advice from LVM? Bwahaha! They mouth off for free here on Reddit, allll the time, whether you want to hear them or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:37 AM
40

Dress in a way that flatters your figure. The clothes don’t have to be revealing, and it’s probably better if they aren’t Good posture. Stand straight, move confidently (sounds like you already do) Make eye contact and a quick smile at men you are attracted to. Make a friendly small-talk style comment if you’re feeling bold If a man is interested, he’ll be excited that you opened the door to interaction, and he’ll take it from there. This is what works for me. I do it all the time to keep my ski…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:53 PM
8

Winning comment right here 🏆😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:06 PM
26

Agreed. LVM and narcissists in general are way too lazy and won’t go through that much effort to stalk and trap a woman. They just move on to easier targets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:55 PM
2

Not just that, but the double standard is still alive and well. I see it at my adult friend’s homes, just like when I was young. Sons get to do whatever they want, parents turn a blind eye. But daughters need to stay away from boys! Sex is bad! Save yourself for marriage! Can’t close the door with a boy in your room...while sons stay out till 2am and nobody says a peep. I got myself into some terrible situations that might have been avoided if my mom would have had a realistic talk with me, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:10 PM
3

It’s particularly important to talk to kids about sex now that porn is available everywhere! I don’t know why parents don’t address this - tell daughters they don’t have to participate in those hate-filled things they see on screen, and tell sons that porn sex is in reality very bad sex that makes women unhappy and leaves them unsatisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:02 PM
16

I lived this, too. Glad those days of being held back and put down for doing things you love by insecure, manipulative males are over for you. I also can’t believe I put up with it for so long, but that’s what happens when you’re raised to be a people pleaser and tolerate shitty behavior. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:52 PM
16

Right. Smiling and saying hello to a man as we select fruit in the market or walk our dogs is something we do because we are positive and outgoing people. It does not mean we want to rip our clothes off and jump on their peen, which is what their twisted little minds interpret any attention from a woman to mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:45 PM
195

This, exactly. Man watches gigabytes of porn, decides his marriage is standing in the way of his getting tons of hot 20 something action. Opens marriage, finds out none of those hot 20 somethings want anything to do with him. In fact, NO women want to give away free sex to some beer-bellied, flappy-ballsacked aging dude. Ha ha ha! Back to watching porn and dreaming, scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:19 PM
24

Older than dirt, and lord those spaghetti arms!! 😳 He wants nudes, but he’s DEF got nothing I’d ever want to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:56 PM
11

He was married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:14 PM
5

‘Car dates’ are also something married men do, because it’s cheap, and also because they don’t want a hotel charge to show up on their credit card bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:13 PM
7

The guy pushing this has had some MAJOR work done. Facelift, fillers, fake hairline. He’s the type of man you instantly would not trust upon meeting him and taking one look at this face. The only women he gets are ignorant and desperate women who want what’s in his wallet. Men who pay for this sort of nonsense training class are zeroes, and deserve to have their money taken from them. Ha ha ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:10 PM
11

Came here to write this. Is his wife happy after all these years? If yes, he needs to get over his ego. It makes you wonder if there’s something else going on, like is he thinking of cheating? Why does his dick size matter all the sudden? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:56 PM
10

Only you can make that decision. Is he an excellent man in all other respects? Is he hardworking, positive, honest? My friend’s husband is a plumber and he’s an all-around wonderful person. My nephew is a trash truck mechanic supervisor and a fantastic dad and husband, I’d call him an HVM any day. It’s up to you. If he treats you well, that’s the most important thing. However, if this is something that will bother you long-term, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:53 PM
68

Why is it when they don’t get what they want, their first reaction is to drag you? Women don’t do that to men 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:32 PM
3

There’s frequently men in my fave salon. Most of them are maybe 50s and give off a creeper vibe, except the ones whose wives drag them in. I’m happier when they’re not there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:30 PM
22

If you have to think about this, it’s probably not a relationship worth having.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 04:45 PM
63

He will continue to disappoint her over and over again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:20 PM
5

“Cuddle buddy” is the new fuckboi lingo for FWB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:53 PM
24

Oh yeah, let’s ask a porn actress for her insight on the psychology and preferences of average women 🙄 Slate has been really sinking some bombers lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:49 PM
64

When you act like you deserve respect, you get it. LVM get scared and run for the hills. It’s a good thing 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:28 PM
9

Exactly. Shrug your shoulders and laughingly say, “Good thing I’m not a cow or a car” and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:38 PM
8

😂😂😂 This story was brought to you by the author of The Great Book of Things That Never Happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:16 AM
73

She would have also gotten 15 horny scrote DMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:09 AM
146

“Men like you are not rare” Lol, perfect reply 💯🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:11 PM
10

They seek childfree women because childfree women don’t have “anchors” weighing them down - they can devote all their time to raising daddy’s existing kids! Doesn’t that sound like a great deal? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:37 PM
15

That was probably a lie. Three of his kids likely live with him. His age and marital status are also probably lies. He’s already proven himself LVM by pretending his other kids “didn’t matter”. Yeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:34 PM
10

Moving on was a good choice. Stay strong, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:18 PM
14

People become celebrities because they want attention and admiration. Many of them are narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:03 PM
44

He wants you to feel beaten down and small, so that you’ll be grateful for any scraps of attention that little man sprinkles down on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:42 PM
12

That’s how I found this place! FDS was getting dragged on another sub. Once I started reading here, I realized this was a far better fit, and quit the other. Hello and welcome to the new future queens that have found us from that thread!! 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 05:14 PM
12

Correction: Most of Reddit is full of misogynistic pricks. Not just that sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:54 PM
17

This is fabulous! She dated down, but before he got a chance to act on the typical scrote script of getting delusions of his desirability and leaving her in search of more gorgeous women, she left him. Instead of feeling lucky that he dated a beautiful girl, he’s feeling sorry for himself. Ha ha ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:31 PM
33

Correct. My cousin married her high school sweetheart, and what a train wreck that marriage has been. Both were star athletes with seemingly bright futures. She went into a very successful tech career. He became a drunken, verbally abusive couch potato who works part time at his fathers house painting business - when he’s not too hung over to work. Why cousin stays with her husband is totally beyond me. He is LVM supreme. Never marry potential. Sometimes it’s just an illusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:29 PM
11

It’s just an excuse he uses not to marry her, and poor fool pickmiesha just pretends to buy it because she’s too weak to run away and keeps hoping he’ll change his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:00 AM
52

Ha ha, true. You do it once, it will be expected from you forever. Not only that, but it will become a responsibility that you will NOT be appreciated for. There’s no winning here. Don’t clean his place, no matter how crazy it drives you. And think twice about connecting with a slob - the rest of him had better be damned fantastic to make up for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:23 PM
1

They cracked down on Craigslist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:51 PM
8

The oldest trick in the book, and very common. I’m a photographer! You’re gorgeous! Let’s do a swimsuit shoot in my apartment...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:24 PM
27

Yuck. It looks like food men would like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:28 PM
68

Yep. The instant a guy you’ve recently met mentions his rough childhood? That’s your cue to run for the door. Delete, block, goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:11 PM
18

Very much the same, only swap the parent genders. We were never taught to value ourselves. We had to learn it as adults, after finding out the hard way that being too nice and bending to other people’s wills brought nothing but misery. Learning to say NO was pure joy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:42 PM
13

Yup, narcissist. Any time a guy spends too much time talking himself up and says anything that makes you raise an eyebrow (“they were all virgins”), that there is a narcissist. I’m certain more than 7.7% of men are on the narcissistic spectrum. I’ve run into far too many of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:33 PM
26

Yep. And if you’ve ever wondered what kind of guy sends unsolicited dick pics to women? Here he is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:27 PM
148

Right? It’s WORK. Even if he was a fitness god, the office is NOT the place to show off the body. Inappropriate no matter what you look like. He might have gotten some love if he thought of dressing as Willy Wonka and handing out candy bars, but no! It had to be about MUH DICK 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:36 PM
26

It is sounding like her resolve to stay with him is crumbling and some light might be shining into the cracks :). The awful thing is, I’ve seen it happen quite a few times times where a forever girlfriend finally leaves and the ex ends up getting married to his next squeeze within a year of the split. I’ve also known guys who claimed they never wanted kids suddenly becoming excited dads with their next woman. Men are so not worth waiting for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:30 PM
16

He rolled himself downhill so quickly! It was all bad, but it couldn’t have gotten any worse than the invitation to see more of him in his Snapchat. “Hey, lady...you got nice boobies...wanna see MUH DICK?” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 01:57 PM
4

Neither of you should give a single fuck about her throwing a fit. She and her opinions and drama shouldn’t make one iota of difference in either of your lives. If it is a problem for him, that’s a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:10 PM
5

It does sound like she is just trying to get attention from him. If you ask him to stop, he should do so, immediately and with no fuss. If he does, no problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:54 PM
12

Good ideas. Here’s another: Don’t even exchange items, if that’s on the agenda. Nothing you own is worth getting tortured for. Your safety and peace of mind is priceless, and worth more than “stuff” If you have to: Put his things in a box and leave them on his friends/family’s porch and run. And if you must - Have a friend pick up your stuff. That you probably don’t even need, unless it’s your grandmas heirloom necklace, in which case, it probably won’t be returned. He’ll just hold onto it so he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:32 PM
42

It’s a bad sign that he’s texting her outside the office. Unless it’s a work-provided phone, he shouldn’t even have her number. Red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:23 PM
5

Yup. The patriarchy and all the major corporations (who basically run our government) promote it. Family is everything! Get married! Have babies!! It ensures their next generations of Nike wearers and Big Mac eaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:30 AM
23

Honestly, I think often the women are so relieved to be free of the constant burden of cooking, cleaning, and keeping a husband happy, that they don’t bother to look for a replacement. The women I know who’ve been widowed seem very contented and cheerful. One of my friend’s mothers lost her husband after 12 years of marriage. She never dated again and spends her time doing yoga and riding horses. Sounds pretty ideal to me 👌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:15 AM
10

You will rarely see a healthy attractive man taking care of a disabled unattractive woman. Ok. I already replied once, but I need to follow up and confirm this. Last year, I had major abdominal surgery. After a follow-up appointment, I decided I felt good enough to stop for lunch. SO was helping me hobble slowly across the street, and I noticed a number of people staring openly at me. I mean, STARING. Scrutinizing. Thought on it for a while, it was so odd. Then, figured out that these people wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:51 PM
4

Everything you said. 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:25 PM
10

Your first example is spot-on. Had a boyfriend just after I graduated college who was a very kind, honest, hardworking man. Exceptionally good looking, but not particularly intelligent. I grew tired of him because he never grew, never changed. He’d make stupid mistakes. I left him for that reason. People of normal or better intelligence are always changing, learning, growing, developing. He did not, it got boring and frustrating. He was not stimulating to be around, it was like spending lots of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 02:50 PM
7

I get one or two generic-seeming, apparently male follow requests on my private IG every day. Today’s request is from “”DesmondXXYoung55”. I’m guessing they are scammers from anyplace who will tell me they love me truly, then ask for money <<Edited the actual user name>>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:36 PM
5

Alarming, to put it mildly. That there is a genuine run-for-the-hills, deal-breaking red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:28 PM
42

And she’s the type to give the ultralong bjs that pornsick men require. Until she gets terrible jaw pain, because giving in to jaw pain is for quitters! And her upper lip gets stretched and prematurely wrinkly. Ha ha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:08 PM
71

An observation: The HVM in my life NEVER do this. The LVM pretty much all do. I think at least part of the behavior comes from insecurity. The LVM have an unending need to prove their masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:01 PM
28

Ugh, I actually went to meet one of these scrotes. Handsome guy, working a part time job, claimed he was a struggling musician. He picked up a guitar, strummed a few very basic chords, then set the guitar down, resting on the strings. I immediately knew he was completely full of shit, and left. Anyone who knows anything at all about stringed instruments knows that you never, ever do that. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:10 AM
10

I choked on my cashews 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:03 AM
35

He wants to come over to your place and do laundry and use your shower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:00 AM
7

You are a terrific mom, raising the next generation of HVW. Your daughter is lucky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:16 AM
3

Block party! 💃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:15 AM
23

“You’re too good for me” is man code language for “I am cheating on you”. Every time. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:13 AM
13

It works. I used my appearance to my advantage in my all-male workplace. Heels and feminine blouses every day, paired with a straight back and a no-nonsense attitude, combined with kindness and thanks when I got my way. The men did not know how to deal with me. Would recommend to any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:44 PM
9

He probably gave them drinks so they’d pose with him for this tacky pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:35 PM
66

Because it’s the perfect excuse for cheap-ass scrubs to get a chance to fuck without even bothering to pretend to want take a woman out for food or a movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:00 PM
17

This is a good life practice, and I cannot agree enough. Keep your financial info to yourself. Do not lend money, unless you totally and unquestionably love the person and are just fine with never seeing the money again. Of the 7 times I’ve lent money over $1000, I was paid back exactly twice. Now, when people ask to borrow money (which doesn’t happen often now that I stand up to it) the answer is “I can’t, I’m sorry”. Lending money ruins relationships and causes much resentment. Best not to go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:16 PM
69

One of the first things I told my nieces when they reached teenage, was to never read those women’s magazines - Cosmo in particular. They’re designed to make you hate yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:25 AM
34

You totally know it wouldn’t be just sex, either. He’d expect her for sure to clean. Probably shop and cook, too. Sleep in some gross loser guys spare bedroom and be his sex slave and bangmaid? Not worth it. Ever. How degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:18 AM
2

Ahh, I’m sorry. You’re in the same situation as so many others right now. Times are tough, we will all prevail ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:58 PM
32

Oddly, I hear this is not an uncommon desire for powerful, successful men. I wouldn’t dump him based on that, unless it’s something she doesn’t like doing at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:09 PM
1

And I’m glad you’re done with it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 08:06 PM
6

I love dressing up. I’m petite and people take me much more seriously when I’m nicely turned out and wearing some sort of heels. Can’t wait to get back to all my salons for all the various self-care services. I feel so bad for all the women who are not making any income right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 02:33 PM
8

Same. Thankfully, despite my former pickme sex pleaser attitude, BDSM was something I could never get into. I HATE being told what to do with the heat of a thousand suns (unless it’s my exercise trainer, ha ha) Only I am the boss of me 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 02:12 PM
8

Yep. “I’m damaged” is a classic manipulation tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:13 PM
11

Cannot stand Esther Perel! Ugh. Cheaters love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:50 PM
7

He’s hoping to soothe and cheer you with pics of his Buddha belly? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:44 PM
18

Yep. This will likely be the experience that makes the wheels in her head start turning in a different direction. “Hmm. I pursued him and it didn’t work out. I don’t like feeling like this. Maybe next time, I won’t do that.” What see here is another future FDS queen starting to see the light ☀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:38 PM
20

Whoever he is, this ungrateful turd does not deserve this terrific woman. Easy to see why his daughter’s mom is no longer in the picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:52 PM
18

Why does Ry’s bicep look photoshopped? It doesn’t match his flabby pecs, puffy tummy, or plump and straggly-nailed, stumpy fingers...imagine him touching you with those fingers - eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:52 AM
67

“I want to understand her psychology” BS! No you don’t, you depraved, untrustworthy sack of dog shit. You are posting this pathetic plea on Reddit because want to be told that it’s totally okay to bang her. Your wife’s sweet, innocent little sister. Even if the girl WAS flirting with him, like young women sometimes do when they discover the power of their sexuality, it’s still not okay for him to buy into it. it’s up to him to act like a morally correct ADULT RELATIVE. Ugh! His poor wife. Men ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:32 PM
4

Any emojis at all = immature, and not caring at all about making an effort to make a good first impression. Use your words, men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:43 PM
12

Pictures of them as children is a big red flag. In my experience, those men are likely to be narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:37 PM
3

Think of looks as an asset you can use to your advantage when you need to, a persuasion tool to influence men’s thinking. It is an advantage we have as women. Own it, sis. It is a power we have that men really don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:30 PM
26

No. They just get too old, fat, or lazy to cheat. Honesty and self discipline are learned in childhood. Men don’t have an epiphany as adults and suddenly get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:41 PM
15

He’s casting desperately around for his next worshipper since his “dime piece” got tired of his self-centered shit and walked away. The ex will do. He needs his ego feed stat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:09 PM
23

I know one man, known him a long time. Social circle friend, over 40, lifelong single, tall, not ugly, polite, fun, great guy and HVM in all aspects. Based on offhand, jokey comments he’s made over the years, I suspect he has a very small penis and is very insecure about it, so there’s that 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:58 PM
11

Ooh, good one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:59 PM
40

He’s got the smirky grin of a guy who would be an awful sex partner. Two pump chump, then leap out of bed and leave, claiming he “forgot that he needs to pick his buddy’s car up from the shop”, while patting his own back for his amazing cleverness as he drove away 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 06:27 PM
47

Ding ding ding! We have a winner. That’s precisely what he was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:21 AM
18

If he was really all that, why is he spending his valuable time sending bitter messages to women on Reddit? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:20 AM
11

Right? That’s the line that jumped out at me. This is a man who thinks jackhammering a woman from behind is the epitome of good sex. It isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:06 PM
24

He’d like you to wear a schoolgirl outfit, buy you a hotdog from the vendor cart (complete with mustard!He’ll pay half!), and get a bj in the park. Doesn’t that sound amazing? Who could resist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:16 PM
19

“Will fart in your presence with no shame”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:53 PM
8

No to emojis. Also, I don’t feel obliged to answer questions I don’t feel like answering via text any longer. If a guy or even a family member asks me an annoying or wtf question via text, I ignore it. If it’s important to them, they can follow up in person. I refuse to be a slave to my phone and be constantly available to suit everyone’s whims. Protection of peace of mind is everything 🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:31 PM
45

Yep. You’re in public. You see a guy looking you up and down. Stares at your face - how old are you? He locks on - you’ll do! And sure enough, here he comes... He might be 27 or 77, attractive or very much not, but you, you feeemale! Man dick want! Aren’t you flattered?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:46 PM
15

You read a “clever” opener and you immediately know the guy put a ton of effort into finding the right words he thinks will charm your undies off. You also know he’s sent the same cheesy lines to a hundred other ladies. We can smell the f*ckboy insincerity from a thousand miles away ~~~~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:41 PM
12

He mentions he’s retired? Older Engineers are the worst. I know a lot of them through both my profession and personal life. Usually misogynistic and very conservative. My most exasperating example: I used to carpool with an aging Engineer. He would go on and on about how women didn’t belong in the workplace. As he and I drove to work together! Hello? Idiot. Good on you to stay away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:10 PM
55

Sing it, sis! I finally got over being “polite” when other people were basically being rude. It’s a very freeing feeling. If it’s a close friend, I can listen as long as they need me to. But if it’s just a person with talkarrhea, nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:38 AM
9

He is just inventing excuses to keep stringing her along. Say she lost the weight, he’d start complaining about something else, like needing bigger boobs and getting breast implants. Etc. It wouldn’t end. This scrote has no intention of making any sort of commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 09:12 PM
20

SO probably doesn’t know he’s looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:58 AM
12

That also applies to any man who describes himself as sarcastic, blunt, or mentions anything about dad jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:18 AM
5

EVERY damn “I’m looking for another girl” ad has “and I hope it would be okay if my boyfriend occasionally joined in, tee hee”. 🙄 I stopped looking at those ads a long time ago, but then I also finally admitted I’m not bi. Thankfully, as it seems decent W4W are even harder to find than HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:40 PM
14

Same. It would be game over. Any man who ever dared hit me would immediately be bashed upside the head with the nearest hard object, or be subjected to a fast and nasty groin kick. Nobody hits me. If I wasn’t able to do it right away, I’d recommend he never turned his back to me, and slept with one eye open. Completely unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:59 PM
49

He sounds like a useless scrote, but if her sole criteria for being a good husband is that he never leaves the house, this immobile chair-dwelling manchild sounds perfect for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:53 PM
110

Everyone pokes fun of women who have cosmetic surgery to fight aging, but what about him? He looks like a freaking space alien 👽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:12 PM
26

When I was new to Reddit three years ago, I was blown away that a forum dedicated to Nofap existed. Why on earth would a guy need something like that? Now, I know. Pornsick, limp dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:18 PM
36

No joke! Look at the Reddit comments on any given thread - porn is constantly referred to in threads that aren’t even remotely sexual. Gives you a dark look into the minds of the average male. A freakin’ Rate Me post that somehow made it into my Reddit newsfeed compared the woman posting to Mia Khalifa, and dozens (hundreds) of creepy, stalker-ish comments about Mia Khalifa followed. Male society has become completely and utterly pornsick, and that’s somehow totally okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:13 PM
22

Agreed. It’s too easy for children to find. I don’t even have kids, but it breaks my heart that young kids have their minds corrupted and innocence stolen while they should be enjoying childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:02 PM
28

The only reason he even knew it was her birthday is because she probably told him LVM don’t bother to remember birthdays, but they’d be outraged if you forgot theirs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:55 PM
2

Yes! I have frequent text conversations with my nephew and godsons. These young men always write with correct grammar and punctuation. It prompted me to stop sometimes being lazy and pay attention to my own writing style. If 15 year old boys can do it, there’s no excuse for an adult male who is supposed to be trying to make a good impression on you, unless he doesn’t care much about what you think 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:47 PM
22

I know. It’s heartbreaking. But that’s Reddit for you. The other day on another Reddit sub, a guy posted about his wife not really being enthusiastic about bjs. A bunch of men replied that it would be totally okay to cheat on her due to this. Oh yeah. That’s great advice! Abandon all your commitments and promises and family and tell your wife a bunch of lies so that you can get your dick sucked in a pornstar style. I can’t even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:41 PM
53

Ah, they DO lie. And the older they are, the worse they fudge their age, in hopes of banging younger women. You can assume any age with a 9 behind it is a guy who’s at least 5 years older. 29 is 34, 39 is 44+, etc. Height is usually a lie, too. Subtract two inches to get closer to the truth. Male deception and delusion, as always. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:58 PM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:47 PM
69

“You need to CommUniCate WiTH HiM”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:36 PM
28

Right? I’d believe 49
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:48 PM
19

Totally photoshopped the sides of his torso Also, what is that haze along the tops of his shoulders/traps? Is that back hair, peeping up over the horizon? GAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:30 PM
9

Yes. When a male teacher molests a young female student, we never hear about it because it is sadly so commonplace. However, when a female teacher has sex with a male student, it’s a media sensation that makes the national news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:51 PM
3

Don’t let yourself think of alcohol fondly. Instead, associate it with vomiting. Think of alcohol, then picture yourself puking in the toilet. Think of hugging the cold porcelain with the awful feeling of your stomach heaving, and let the thought of the misery go right along with the thought of alcohol. This worked for me. It’s been years. The mental training is so powerful, I still feel a little sick when I so much as walk down the liquor aisle at the supermarket. The mind has powers we don’t f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:36 PM
27

It truly is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:19 PM
10

This means horny dad is going to pop up in his daughters’ friends OLD searches 🤮 How embarrassing for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:20 AM
5

HE felt “wounded” because he said something rude and he hurt your feelings? Sis, this is classic DARVO. Look it up. This man is no good. Consider his leaving as doing you a favor, and cut all communication with him. There are better men out there, hoping to meet someone like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:05 AM
20

Pseudo-intellectual - nailed it! Come on, don’t you want to listen to someone who thinks he’s WAY SMARTER THAN YOU talk about how amazing he is? I’d be tempted to reply to this buffoon just to snicker at how many more paragraphs he’d write about himself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:55 PM
65

A whole lot of words to explain why men constantly hit on women who are way out of their league.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:29 PM
68

That’s a pretty damn long list of demands from a guy who’s looking for a side piece. Who wants to be the lucky lady who sends this pompous blowhard some nudes? You also get to pretend to admire his chubby, hairy body and mediocre penis in bathroom mirror selfies he took while his innocent wife was folding his socks in the other room. If you play your cards right, you can maybe even meet up for some bad sex and listen to him talk about himself in a hotel room that will go on your credit card so h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 01:24 PM
7

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:49 AM
38

From briefly reading another forum, it sounds like scrotes try this gambit all the time There’s the guys who go to strip clubs and hope they can talk the dancers into sex outside the club for free. Then, there’s the sad old scrubs who go to happy ending massage parlors (gross), request the same lady repeatedly, and start thinking, “She really likes me!” Nah. She’s no dummy - she wants you to think that, so you keep bringing your wallet back. Nobody actually wants a guy that has to pay women to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:32 PM
24

Don’t be friendly with your male co-workers. It gets you nothing but trouble. Yes, they DO want to bang you. Scrotes will be scrotes, regardless of the completely inappropriate situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:19 PM
6

Yep. I permanently stopped going to all offsite or after-work parties in my early 20s too, after the first tipsy, horribly awkward pass by a co-worker. Even official holiday parties. No, thanks. I do my job, I go home. Period. Edited to add: This also cut off getting stink-eye from the older co-workers wives. Poor things. Marry an LVM? You get to worry about what he does away from home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:12 PM
7

A guy with this level of ignorance this could never afford it. He reminds me of Larry, the fat, balding, misogynistic guy who runs the security booth at the local gravel quarry and thinks he’s all that. Lol. Yeah, that was mean, but...a little introspection on what you realistically have to offer to a woman goes a long way. This scrote sounds like he has nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:04 PM
13

I’m at the point now, where if I meet people and get any sort of uncomfortable feeling, I’ll preemptively block them on social media OP, block the person now. You don’t owe anyone any explanation for your actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:50 PM
3

Same. Very much so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:41 AM
5

It looks like a dick 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:07 AM
6

It doesn’t matter to them if the sex is bad, the ego stroke of actually having gotten a woman into bed is worth it for them. “Go me! I got a lady to take her clothes off and poked her with MUH DICK, woooohooo!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 01:25 AM
6

Yes. Most won’t quit until they hit their rock bottom, whatever that happens to be. Often, it’s a DUI. Staying with them is enabling their behavior, and is a tacit agreement that you accept their addiction. Sad, but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 06:11 PM
9

SO much whining about paying. Sheesh. Also, so much “She wouldn’t get off her phone” - hello? That is a woman who is NOT INTERESTED IN YOU, do you truly need to be whacked with the clue bat??? 🤠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 06:08 PM
30

Kik and Telegram are also instant, major red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 05:36 PM
30

YES. And it’s totally okay to snoop, if your intuition tells you something is up. It’s called self protection. Hopefully, you will always be in the type of relationship where you don’t feel the need to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 05:35 PM
54

Why pay a cam girl if he can find a pick me to do it for free? Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:27 PM
5

The only RedPill guy I know (neighbor) is an intelligent but offensive and utterly socially-inept goober who NEVER has any luck with women The closest thing he has to relationships is stalking women who are way out of his league
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:10 AM
45

Yes! I’ve told the story here before of how a male friend of a friend married a lovely woman from a tiny former USSR republic. She got off the plane in the US and literally walked past him at the airport, ha ha ha! Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:18 PM
30

“Photos reserved” means he sends them when he’s sure you’re not his wife or any of her friends. Cheaterrrrr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:49 AM
40

😂 Always!! Every time. Or an intimate, nauseating sexual question about you. You see that and immediately think, “Brace yourself! Do not sip your water right now, because you’re about to choke on it.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:44 AM
7

Found the psychopath!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:58 PM
174

A guy who proudly puts the words “I’m a DOM!” in his ad is doing us a favor, because we can scroll right on by that scrub like a happy honeybee buzzing past an ugly, wilted dandelion 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:42 PM
37

Right? An HVM would listen, sympathize, and then calmly offer advice on how to handle the situation. Been there, done that, back when I was a new hire. My boss wouldn’t leave me alone, kept making unwanted advances. so I asked a very well-respected HVM colleague for guidance. That HVM ended up going to the division head and having me reassigned! It was amazing. The poster’s husband is an insecure, jealous sack of lard, and I bet he dragged his poor wife down in a million other ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:45 PM
15

Thank you. As far as dating, it shows such a lazy, sloppy, disrespectful lack of effort. Do guys really not care about their first impression on a woman? There’s a wonderful very young man, an immigrant from a tiny third world country, who I occasionally hire to do various jobs. He speaks very little English, but his texts to me are carefully run through Google translate so they are very polite and correct. If he can make the effort, why can’t a guy who is supposedly trying to make a good impres…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:23 PM
26

Nice try, but it smells like a cut ‘n paste
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:14 PM
3

Ever heard that song “No One’s Gonna Love You” by Band of Horses? Love them, and it’s such a pretty song, but that statement makes my skin crawl and finger shoot out to poke the fast forward button. No thanks. No matter how lovely you try to make it sound - those are the words of an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:47 PM
47

Advertising MGTOW in men’s rooms? HA HA HA The sign should have been hung lower so that it could get the pee all over it that it deserves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:32 AM
7

I noticed a HUGE difference in how both men and women treat me when I’m wearing heels, so I wear them any time I want to make an impression. High heels to work every day, and any other place where I want people to take me seriously. Or get noticed :) Men LOVE them, so do I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:54 PM
9

Yup. 2020, got disgusted and finally did a purge and got rid of all my male “friends” except one. Also deleted and blocked from social media and phone. Even my best friend’s husband has said sexual things to me once, when he was drunk. What a disappointment. Men are awful, dick-driven creatures, and I no longer trust any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:54 PM
8

Insecurity is a GIANT turn-off. So is overconfidence! Ughhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:35 PM
1

The only terrible thing about it is finding a decent FWB. It is nearly impossible. I gave up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:28 PM
14

Mmm. With bulging delts, bangin’ biceps, and firm pecs 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:34 PM
47

After a while, she’ll tire of the unappreciated and unreciprocated effort and start thinking differently, and her mindset will totally change. Till then, keep feelin’ special, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:31 PM
26

Same. Love that big (or average size) dick energy. It just “does it” for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:42 PM
25

Huh, exact same experience. His small penis was a turn off, and oddly out-of-place because he was 6’4”. Plus, I think he felt self conscious because he’d ask me if I enjoyed the sex. Actually, I didn’t, and cut the relationship short even though he was a great guy otherwise. Sex is important to me, what can I say 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:28 PM
16

Oh, it’s HIGHLY inappropriate, and if that man is in his 40s, he knows it. Workplace romance is always a no-no. It’s awful, but I’d like to suggest never wearing short skirts or low cut or tight tops to work, unless you’re in a career that requires this. Men WILL think of you in a sexual manner. it’ll be men you never expected, and you’ll be stuck fending off their unwanted advances. It’s easier to shortcut all that crap and not look or act at all tempting. It’s 2020, but we still live in a frea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:40 PM
72

Disagree. This sort of thing will happen to her over and over during the course of her career. Her best choice is to stop interacting with male coworkers in a friendly manner, and keep it strictly professional. HR does not want to hear your interpersonal problems,. Their mission is to protect the company. You WILL be labeled as a problem employee. I’ve seen this from both sides, as the women who was approached on multiple occasions, and as a manager. Until it becomes direct harassment that impac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:11 PM
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She needs to get used to it and cut her friendly chats and interaction with the men in her workplace down to a strictly professional level. Keep them at arms length. Sadly, this kind of bs with men happens all the time Source: my own long career
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:55 PM
13

Yep. The guy telling the story is a creeper who has a crush on the girl. She probably told him this because she senses his attraction to her, and wanted to drive him away. He’s a weirdo. Who gets on Reddit to type this kind of story about office mates? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:27 PM
17

Get in shape and dress to flatter your physique, learn to do makeup and a hair style that works for you, and you will have no problems dating or meeting men everywhere you go. At any age. You’ll be fine. Go have fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:43 PM
49

What do you want to bet that he is actually40? I’m guessing more like 46. Older guys routinely lie about their age on OLD in hopes of bagging younger women. “A young 40” — snortlaugh 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:34 PM
173

Lol! The delusion! Massive eyeroll to him, and applause to you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:35 PM
2

A huge, flabby NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:53 PM
4

Exact same with my narcissistic ex. Grill steak once a week, take pics, post on social media. Yeah. You’re a master chef, fucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:52 PM
2

Overlooking every other repulsive thing about him, of course, pretty much any guy saying “consultant” or “entrepreneur” is unemployed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:40 PM
11

Beware of the guy who does not compliment you Or, the guy who compliments the same feature over and over again, like your collar bones or something else weird, at the exclusion of the rest of you Remember, PUAs are deeply insecure losers, and their goal is to bring you down to their level so that they can use and manipulate you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:38 PM
3

Same. I’ve never had a man say word one to me about makeup. What kind of weird dudes are these ladies hanging out with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:01 PM
9

I consider the years I spent with asshole LVM boyfriend when I was in my 20s as the training period I needed in order to truly appreciate the HVM in my life. It’s also a great way to find out the kind of men you dont want. Isn’t it nice to look back and think, “Thank God I didn’t marry that man”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:57 PM
10

This 💯 It was okay up until that point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:34 PM
22

Thank you. I've always thought that public proposals were tacky and embarrassing and questioned the mindset of a man who would do that. But then again, I'm automatically suspicious of any sort of attention-seeking behavior due to negative experience with narcissistic men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:43 PM
9

I feel so bad for her. Does she have no friends to discuss this with? Why in the world would she post something like this on Reddit? How depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:58 PM
8

Same. It took me a long time to figure out that constantly giving love, tolerance, and forgiveness got me nothing but used by narcs. The moment I decided to quit rolling over and accepting bad behavior was the moment peace of mind finally took root and began to bloom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:03 PM
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They are wolves trying to disguise themselves as harmless teddy bears I put cuddles in the same bag as “I love to give massages” and “Let’s just make out”. Uh huh, sure. Get her alone so the sex will hopefully happen. Manipulative bs. Even worse than the average fuckboy, because deception is being used as a seduction tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:48 PM
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Sounds so simple, but it’s true. Oddly, I learned a lot about interacting with people when I adopted a pet with behavior issues and had to learn to train him. Negative behavior must get a negative reaction immediately, or it becomes an acceptable habit. Desirable behavior gets an immediate positive response. Works well for men, too 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:25 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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