Thanks for the warning

the_moocher80 · 2020-12-21T16:09:06+00:00

Pandemic plus cuffing season has had them reaching out in droves testing the waters. FYI lurkers stay in your boat! The waters are ice cold!!!

honeybeeroll · 2020-12-21T16:41:01+00:00

Block any man who's ever had your # who you're no longer interested in. Even if he stopped talking to you. They LVM always come back. And if you didn't talk to a guy long enough to determine if he's an LVM or not, assume the former, block, and save yourself getting pissed off about it. These men are thirsty af and have no shame, they'll reach out three years later to someone they exchanged five messages w/ and don't even remember what she looks like

souredskittles · 2020-12-21T17:58:13+00:00

Incase this wasn’t enough warning, remember that if they are doing it to you, they are also doing it to other women on his contact list. You feel special now?

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2020-12-21T15:34:47+00:00

Good for you! 😃 I wish I had this warning with my first 2 exes.

QQueenie · 2020-12-21T16:27:54+00:00

Blockity block block!

riseaboveagain · 2020-12-21T16:52:19+00:00

Yep. Brace yourself for every guy you ever dated, ever, to text you happy new year. Groan.

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2020-12-21T16:03:57+00:00

Ahhh yes, the good ol' holiday hoover. Yeah no thanks.

Risoa · 2020-12-21T21:09:24+00:00

Yuppp. Had this happen to me last week after two months of no contact. "I miss you" quickly turned into "want to come over?" on a Monday night. Yeah, definitely want to cab 30 mins out of my way for medicore dick for him to roll over and mumble some empty promise of texting me the next day and then cab back. Sounds fucking awesome. Honestly this was the final push I needed to fully get over this guy. Desperation and disrespect are so unattractive. I can't believe he had the nerve to even ask me. Here's hoping that every other girl he reached out to rejected him too.

Gourmay · 2020-12-21T19:27:06+00:00

I got contacted by one on email at thanksgiving; I had blocked him on every social media/phone. FYI you can’t really block addresses on the big email servers but you can make them go to trash directly and/or have an auto-reply that makes them look blocked if they email.

galian84 · 2020-12-22T02:30:38+00:00

Yes, block block block. They are shameless. Agree with the poster above to block and delete any guy who has your number and you’re no longer interested in. On any messaging app, too. I’ve had guys who I stopped talking to find me on WhatsApp and WeChat and try to talk to me there.

I went on 5 dates with a guy who ghosted me, and then tried to get back together. Blocked him and he calls me 2 years later from A NEW NUMBER. Of course I picked up because I didn’t know it was him.

Like I said, desperate and shameless. Don’t fall for it, ladies. You’re not special, they aren’t just that in love with you, and they’re just going down the list of women they’ve talked to/dated trying to get anything going.

straighthairgreece · 2020-12-21T18:09:30+00:00

Yeah it's cuffing season now unfortunately. I have one man that knows I moved to the other side of the country and is still shooting his shots. I didn't block him yet because his texts are entertaining.

fancypantsdance92 · 2020-12-22T01:57:02+00:00

I had one that comes around around every. Damn. Year. I finally blocked him for good and it feels good.

Title	Thanks for the warning
Author	keep_my_stuff
Upvotes	209
Comments	18
Date	December 21, 2020 3:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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