| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | Throw him away, you deserve better...why is she holding on to this trashbag? Divorce him, and put him on child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 102 | That’s her 2nd one??She needs FDS ASAPSo, wait. She’s totally cool with this asshole ignoring her child, because they’re not his? And she wants to have a child WITH him. So she expects that he should engage with his child, while totally ignoring the older one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 6 | the double standards 🤦🏻♀️It’s only poor men who still look for this during the dating stage, IME. When men have money, they have a cleaning service and order in/go out for dinner mostly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 06:12 PM |
| 12 | Almost half a million likes - this ain’t cute 🤢I don’t even have kids, but my automatic response to being handed a small baby is to take the baby! What an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:36 PM |
| 10 | Great job Jaines! You’ve got power inside of you 🙏I’m in awe! You did that!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:05 PM |
| 8 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.Well. That’s one way to make sure your wife never leaves you (unless it’s for someone else named Dean.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:11 PM |
| 20 | Men just being men I guess.I’ve never been in a relationship where someone else cleaned up after me (or even split the chores 50/50), purchased and wrapped gifts for my family members, etc. I might consider dating again if that stuff came standard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | When you have kids with a manchild, you are literally taking away resources from your children. It is child abuse to have kids with a man if you know he is immature, lazy, selfish, needy, and/or insecure.My mother did this TWICE. If menopause wasn’t stopping her, she’d be having the current manbaby husband’s kids now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Why is it the norm to give kids the fathers last name even when he's a LVM/NVM? I think it's time to start normalizing giving kids the last name of the person who's really making the sacrifices. What do you think?They should have to pay for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:56 AM |
| 20 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?That they will fuck anything. So their compliments and degradations are equally meaningless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 17 | So-called "petty" deal breakersPeople expect that you’re supposed to argue/fight in relationships. So someone with an opposing lifestyle is fine to them: you’ll just argue and come to a compromise where either one or neither person is unhappy. If you’re both adults, and you agree on money, housekeeping, diet, etc, what is there to fight about really? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Do Men Really Need This Level of Bro-ism to Wipe Their Asses Properly?Why would you want to walk around smelling like a brewery? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 43 | Saw multiple men repost this on FB - especially the "if I'm giving her (money), she giving me money" took me out... What's your take on that ladies?They sound broke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Diguising anger and frustration with humor...They hate each other, and she’s on the brink of...something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 19 | I saw this on another site and just had to share it here. Holy f.Why are they so opposed to washing their asses? It’s not an arduous task. Are they not using washcloths? Does 7-in-1 cleanser burn your asshole? What is it?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:31 PM |
| 10 | Repost: "People no longer marry other people, people marry the corporation they work for"The cost of living is outpacing average wages. We HAVE to concentrate on work, bc not advancing will leave us in abject poverty. What’s not clicking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 47 | Don't take the bait if a scrote from your past contacts you. They are only contacting you for nefarious and selfish reasons.I’ve had this happen. Oddly, it’s how they start angling for an affair. Like, here is my family, and I love them but they don’t understand my neeeeeeds, and you do! Pussy, please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 35 | "But that's hate speech!"But they get so angry when you opt out 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:56 AM |
| 35 | My county’s prosecutor basically decriminalized sex work and now I’m paranoid that men I date will be see sex workers....hate to break it to you, but plenty of them already are. People do illegal shit all the time. And strip clubs, phone sex lines, etc are already legal. SWers are not your enemy. Plenty of men are having paid AND unpaid encounters. It’s the latter that you have to worry about; pros just want the cash, but the amateurs want a boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:57 PM |
| 3 | She's beautiful even at 56, where's the wall men constantly keep talking about?She’s on TikTok. Grayhairandtattoos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:43 PM |
| 5 | Circle the LieThere was an article some years back about the subjects of that photo: https://www.history.com/news/the-story-behind-the-famous-little-rock-nine-scream-image | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:54 AM |
| 6 | Men respond better to silence vs cOmMuNicAtIonYeah, I also have an N-mom, so I will pack up my shit and never be heard from again if you try that with me. (I once dated a man who also had a narc mom, and lemme tell you, that was fun! /s) I think it works if they already know they’re being shitty, and are counting on exhausting you to get away with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Transactional dates = I buy food, you give sexUnless he’s looking for a streetwalker, $150 isn’t getting you ANYTHING. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 68 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usThe thing that weirds me out is... there is SO MUCH porn. They could literally see a new woman having sex every day, for the rest of their lives. And yet, that’s not enough? You have to bother women going about their lives? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 77 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usI was living in NYC during the first half of 2020, and the men were going WEIRD after a few months of quarantine. Every time I went outside, they were gawking, or asking me to show them my face. It was pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:30 PM |
| 55 | This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this?Why do they act as though you need another person in order to orgasm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 11:23 PM |
| 72 | AhahahahahahahaHe’s a grown man who is obsessed with Sonic the Hedgehog. I think she’s doing just fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:35 PM |
| 2 | THIS VIDEO IS A SIGN.I. Love. Her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 16 | Anyone else have this view on having children?I always say this planet isn’t good enough for my kids. (Which is why I don’t have any!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 28 | B I G FACTSOh, he threw a fit, in public. Screamed that I was murdering his child, blah blah blah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 120 | B I G FACTSI got knocked up in my late teens by an older man who didn’t want the stress of fatherhood, but did want to be able to claim me for all time. Terminating that pregnancy was the single best thing I ever did for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 13 | So this woman I follow blurs her mans face. I thought they were married... turns out they aren’t so now that changes my perception of why she feels the need to do this. She says she does this because “people are weird”. What are your thoughts?He’s just community dick. Better not to post them at all, if you partake! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 15 | I just realizedAll my friends who looked grown when we were kids just look exactly the same now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:56 AM |
| 16 | Thanks for the warningThe worst part was I was in a women’s dating group, and they tried to justify it. “He wants to feel like an adult after dealing with a baby!” Can you imagine having a man’s baby, and him not being absolutely over-the-moon obsessed with you and the kid, mere MONTHS into the child’s life? Your organs have barely shifted back into place, and he’s texting a woman from his past?! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 19 | Thanks for the warningEven (especially?) if they’ve since gotten into a relationship and had a child. Ask me how I know! 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:43 PM |
| 10 | She had me in the first half...All this, just to get cheated on again. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:41 PM |
| 170 | This is so fucking embarrassing watching things like this makes me want to off myselfThis! This is what it was like when I babysat as a teenager. “Wow, what a great drawing! Can you make me another one?!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 7 | Just think of the relief the ex wife must feel. How utterly embarrassing for everyone involved.I wonder if maybe there were Real Dolls involved? That could jack up the price really quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:08 AM |
| 44 | Joe Rogan arguing with Jordan Peterson that incels need to become attractive to women first, and "enforced monogamy" is definitely not going to help that. I 100% agree.Certainly not when we’re over the age of 13 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:59 AM |
| 19 | I'm speechless 👀I met a woman who had come to the US as basically a mail order bride. She was working on her MBA, and preparing for her new career and divorce! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:35 PM |
| 119 | The entitlement when men want to decide what to do to a pregnant woman’s body and unborn child when it doesn’t benefit themLol yes! If you’re actually deeply religious, you’d only be having sex with your WIFE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 8 | UntouchableIt looks like it could be a drag costume | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:49 PM |
| 28 | UntouchableRetractable spikes, please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:48 PM |
| 13 | FAR TOO COMMON: Men with girlfriends who still hit the DMs to flirt and beg for nudes - you think I won’t snitch?I’ve had the same reactions. Odds are, she already knows he’s trash, and now she’s embarrassed that YOU know, and lashes out at you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Men and spittingIt makes me queasy to witness. 🤢 And maybe I watch too much True Crime, but I wouldn’t want to leave blobs of my DNA all over the place! Imagine you spit somewhere that becomes a crime scene. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 23 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?The NYPost has a long sordid history of outing women. I personally know some of their past targets, and it’s truly disgusting what they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:58 PM |
| 36 | Men need to stop complaining that they do not receive compliments from women.Men’s compliments are always a combo of sexual come-ons and putting down other women. Before the plague times, they LOVED to compliment me on “being natural.” Because they’re idiots who didn’t realize I was wearing a full weave (in a kinky texture), and at least five makeup products (just neutral shades.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Saw this going viral on FB. Pick me’s are in the replies saying “hE jUsT wAnTs tO sEe tHe ReAL yOu!”The “logical sex” should just start asking out women who don’t wear makeup/augment their hair. Problem solved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:58 PM |
| 10 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄If a man cheats once, he’ll cheat again. How are you going to justify your choice to stay when you catch him the second time? Or the third? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 89 | Anyone else at a point where you just can't trust what they sayWatch men on mute. Words don’t mean anything: actions only! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:26 PM |
| 14 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicI LOL’d imaging him fuming, as he watched a woman set up bill autopay. Look at that selfish bitch! Working for a living, and paying her own bills! What a cow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:11 PM |
| 160 | Stumbled upon this gem today, I have no words!I said this when I was little! That’s when I found out that my last name is actually my paternal Grandmother’s. She named all her kids after her, because she carried them. The genes are strong! 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:18 AM |
| 260 | Stumbled upon this gem today, I have no words!Could’ve just given the child her name... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Yeah, we’re always to blame. Your Peter Pan complex is totally our fault. Shut the fuck up and buy some furniture and eat with utensils, you Neanderthal.Trash men love to see women/girls laboring. When I was growing up, my mother’s NVM husband insisted I should clean ALL of the common areas in the apartment, as my weekend chores. Kitchen, living room, bathroom. I hate waking up early, so I would clean on Friday night while they were asleep. Then sleep in on Saturday. He pitched a fit because I was sleeping through the morning. Because I should be doing chores. The ones I did the night before. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:04 AM |
| 2 | This is literally my mood each time I read posts on r/relationship_adviceEverytime I think that someone has an admirable relationship, I find out that some major dealbreaking nonsense is going on. I’m GOOD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 11 | Why are women expected to change for men?It comes down to obedience, I think. My dad was always saying that I would “have to” do certain things, when I was married. And when I didn’t (have kids, stop dressing the way I like, etc), he said my ex was too weak to control me. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 30 | Why are women expected to change for men?They’re obsessed with anal, so you’d think they’d be there already... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:00 PM |
| 17 | Why are women expected to change for men?This! It’s so weird that they’re obsessed with sports, but NEVER play any. (And it shows, good god.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:59 PM |
| 93 | Where's the lie?The obsession with anal is so bizarre. Like, I have an elastic, per-lubricated orifice that isn’t full of shit, literally two inches away from there! Maybe try that one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 66 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?I’ve gotten DMs from dudes who have a FRESH baby at home. Like, still got that newborn smell. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 8 | This is why we block.I didn’t think the block had to extend to LinkedIn either, until it did! They real desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:36 PM |
| 20 | The cesspool of online dating is pure male delusion, really dude???It’s not demanding. Men don’t have to deal with half the shit we do. If he can’t play the game better than you, when he’s doing it on Easy mode, he’s useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 33 | The cesspool of online dating is pure male delusion, really dude???This is why I have a zero tolerance policy for men who make less than me. I’m a Black woman who grew up in the projects: if I can wrangle a corporate career, why can’t you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:42 PM |
| 10 | Congratulations sis, you played yourself. DO NOT buy homes and have children for men you're not even married to. 🤦♀️She needs to get her money back, buy her own house and put his ass on child support. Now he can pay his mortgage and part of hers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:29 PM |
| 25 | FDS for women who have or want large families?With trust funds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 05:26 PM |
| 19 | I guess if you’re going to act like a doormat, you might as well beg your boyfriend to propose to you on one.Jesus...the cringe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:26 PM |
| 18 | Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!!My periods actually do drive me crazy, but I STILL manage not to throw a tantrum, because it’s my job to regulate my own emotional responses. Because, you know, adult person! If I can refrain from Hulking out while bleeding profusely and dealing with stabbing pains all over my body, surely men can pull it together when they’re mildly inconvenienced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 23 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.I prefer my face in my 30s to my 20s/teens. It feels more...complete? And I’m definitely more healthy than I was when I just inhaled everything and never worked out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 05:33 PM |
| 22 | Don't make the mistake of believing that men only use women for sex.Fellow former sex worker here. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with sex work, personally, if you can stomach it. Watching women give it up for free is far more offensive to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 32 | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?This! I find this so strange! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | paultrick over here is full of red flags 🚩🚩Maybe because I grew up in NYC. I don’t trust folks like that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:41 PM |
| 4 | paultrick over here is full of red flags 🚩🚩How do they get away with it? I thought we were all doing our Googles before meeting a stranger? By the time I got to a date, I knew his full name, his business tax ID, the value of his home.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:52 PM |
| 7 | I love how OP handled this like a queen 🙌👑 the audacity of this selfish guy trying to pressure her into being a warm fleshlightHe really tried to owe her an orgasm. The first time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:37 PM |
| 9 | Reason #473726 to never entertain a coffee date. No response even necessary just block and delete! This poor woman. Porn/sex addiction is real and it’s prevalent, and easy to hide.Jesus Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | NO, NO AND NO. Women NEVER liked serving men.Only if it’s a cookbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 44 | She did not hesitate to put his ass down lolI almost always wear kinky straight weave, and men literally stop me on the street to praise me for having ReAL haIr. They’re idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:39 PM |
| 17 | Man admitting that women don't like sleeping with him and never orgasm from it 🙊Same! It doesn’t pay to bring men your genuine sexuality. I haven’t been with one in years, because I had to keep it performative unless I wanted to get used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 01:12 PM |
| 20 | Blaming women for their own sexual exploitation and somehow making it about how oppressed men are... just what?Man: Show me your tits! Woman: Sure. $10. Man: You disgusting sex monster! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 6 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?My father’s side of the family does this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Nosleep story 1000 times scarier post-FDS!🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Taking a lady out on a date used to be a privilege for men. When and why did it become a "nuisance"?The economy tanked. Most of them are broke, and resent women for not being free blow up dolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Grown Men with Room MatesNo roommates. We’re grown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:31 PM |
| 31 | Spread the word lurkers. We know what's upI started getting daily street harassment when I was 12. I remember thinking that telling boys off top that I’m not allowed to date would be the best course of action, because they’d know not to waste their time. But they would get angry and say they weren’t hitting on me. But....we don’t know each other, so what the fuck else could you be doing? Do they have a mandatory class that they all attend on how to be pieces of shit? Or is it natural? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 3 | When you complain about a beautiful woman for using barely perceptible filters in her pics, it would be a good idea if you didn't look like a sex offender kicked out of a Mennonite community yourself.She looks exactly like her photo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:20 AM |
| 6 | I ain’t dropping nothing, esp my standards, unmatched bye😬 Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:25 PM |
| 11 | I laughed so hard too good not to share with you ladies 🤣💯👏A lot of wives are desperate to outsource sex with their husbands. That’s what a lot of those unicorn hunters are about. The man is never sexy (if he was, she wouldn’t have to lure women in for him), and she’s tired of blowing him, and wants your help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | I laughed so hard too good not to share with you ladies 🤣💯👏The way I just cackled 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 45 | Girl this is not it.Kids spend 6 hours a day in school. It’s weird how she was trying to make his two classes sound like some Herculean task! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:56 PM |
| 20 | Please, just PiCk HeR already! The drive for male brownie points is high in this one at 5’11.... brave soul. I couldn’t sis.Ding ding ding! He could’ve followed through with a claim to now be engaged or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:28 PM |
| 40 | This post by a husband thanking his wife for their children. How many green flags can you spot? Wow a husband who appreciates his wife for giving life. Treats her like a queen.Not just you. The men who make the biggest shows over their wife/girlfriend in public are the same ones in my DMs/texts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | This poor woman. In her case the LVM trash mentality seems to be genetic. First the racism then the subsequent gaslighting. 😔I look like the female version of my dad (same facial expressions and bearing!), and people always think I’m his date if we go to dinner. Why is the the default assumption?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:34 AM |
| 18 | Go build me a table!It’s such a broke mentality. If he made enough, you’d have a cleaning service, and eat out/get delivery every night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 14 | If the sex is bad the first time, move on.There’s a type of ED issue where they get hard, but can’t orgasm. Could be that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Men trying to get with you when they know you're in a relationship isn't flattery, it's an insult.Seconding! Let HR handle it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:51 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter