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#JustLVMThingsBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:38 AM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢BBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:50 PM
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#JustLVMThingsBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:54 PM
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BBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 08:14 AM
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#JustLVMThingsBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:42 AM
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NAH, SISBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:01 AM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:51 PM
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#JustLVMThingsBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:09 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:01 PM
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QUEEN SH*TBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:04 AM
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REMINDER 👑BBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:15 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:45 AM
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LEVEL UPBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:15 AM
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#JustLVMThingsBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:13 AM
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#JustLVMThingsBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:46 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:00 PM
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DISCUSSIONBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:29 PM
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#JustLVMThingsBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:04 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:34 AM
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#JustLVMThingsBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:58 AM
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Tradcon LogicBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:23 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:18 PM
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LEVEL UPBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:32 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:06 PM
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QUEEN SH*TBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:12 AM
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COCKHOLM SYNDROMEBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:03 PM
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COCKHOLM SYNDROMEBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:06 PM
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SCROTATION REPORT BBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:38 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:37 AM
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SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGYBBQCoolRanchQueen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:41 AM
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I was afraid we got wiped off the face of reddit. Thank g-d fds is back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/22 04:25 AM
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This goes for everyone; don't give them what they want every time they want something and see if they change over time. The best way to tell if someone is using you is to become "useless" to them. I used to be a people pleaser until I got exhausted mentally, financial, and so forth. I stopped paying for nights out with friends. I stopped being a psychiatrist on demand. I stopped lending out money that I'd never see again. They caught on pretty quickly that the gravy train was over. They all (the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:31 PM
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This was either written by a man or is a serious pickme cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 06:13 PM
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"Here, hunny! Got a fake beard for you to hide that weak chin! Much better!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 08:51 PM
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Also beware of the deadbeat single father. The one who fought in court tooth and nail to hurt their mother, gain full custody, and foists the kids on grandma every chance they get. That was my NVX. It took a while to get full custody back because the courts saw me having ptsd from my ex's abuse as a strike against me, including the fact that my whole childhood is snap-shotted and recorded in a CPS file due to an awful upbringing. Beware of the guy with full custody who can't say one good thing o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 06:29 PM
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Let's not forget our most valuable resource; our time. Lots of scrotes out there don't give two shits if they waste huge chunks of our lives as placeholders. We have one go before we slip back into the void. Don't waste a single second of your life past the first red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 12:41 PM
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In all cases, they always blame the women for stalking and harassment. Women get fired for being abused all the time. Been there. All it takes is multiple phone calls or him showing up randomly. No care in the world about keeping them safe. Firing women for these things makes it impossible for them to leave their scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 12:33 PM
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This almost happened to me with my youngest. I had a very tiny (I mean a couple of millimeters) tear that the doctor said he was going to put in a couple of stitches. I asked him of it could heal on its own. He rolled his eyes and said "yeah, but I doubt your husband is going to be happy about it", right in front of him. My husband went off on him. He knows all about the "husband stitch".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:13 PM
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My NVX husband used to say that I was "overreacting" to a fucking heart attack. I have heart failure (due to an ED which he activley tried to trigger) and I am a 3 time survivor of a heart attack. Other than that, drawing boundaries was being "masculine and aggressive", being clinically depressed was "hormones", and having flashbacks was "trying to get attention". Glad I left his dusty ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 02:55 AM
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Fucking hell, that's vile 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 07:47 PM
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Yup, can confirm. I'm tatted, very tall (6'2"), dye my hair, play guitar and sing/songwrite, etc. LVM said they were "drawn to" me for those reasons, and later abused me for those exact reasons. I wouldn't be arsed to date anyone who goes overboard in saying they like my style anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 04:35 PM
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Damn, he played the long con on this poor woman. He waited years before using her as an emotional punching bag. I hope she kicks this scrote to the curb and soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 04:42 PM
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LVM get pissed if we spend any dollar amount of our own money on ourselves. Yet they'll happily spend women's money on their own hobbies. My NVX was giving me shit the other day for my "nail habit" and "how much I was sucking (my) husband dry". Scrote just pissed that I'm with a better man with a better dick and a better attitude. When I was married to that loser, he'd be pissed if I spent my own money on clothes at a thrift store, yet he'd spend my money on cam girls and p-rn (what he charged f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:39 AM
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Not tinder, but I've never actually had a full date on OLD, even in my pickme days. The red flags were just so glaringingly out there that it made my past 🤡 ass run. My height was the number one red flag neg. Being 6'2", halfway covered in tats really had the scrotes showing their whole asses within the first 10 minutes. Either that or racism; I'm lily white, for the record, so a few white supremacists "complimented" me on my whiteness, and a few Pacific Asian men were so openly racist against t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:24 AM
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Yep. It's what I call "funishment". My NVX would give me the "day off" for my birthday, or I'd go out with some friends for a few hours only for some dr. Seuss bullshit towers of dishes to pile up and clothing and toys to clog up the living room. It worked, too. I was isolated and depressed. Glad that shit is long behind me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:34 AM
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Ah yes, another form of what I call "funishment". It's along the same lines of a woman having a "day off" for her birthday or a girls' night out and having the chores pile up. Gonna go out without me? I'll make sure the kids destroy your stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:31 AM
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*Morgan Freeman voice; " But he never did pay her back. He ended up dumping her for a pickme after 18 months"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:37 AM
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Damn what a vile POS. Tactical nuke dodged there, sis. Being high maintenance is the way to go to dodge these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:50 PM
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I laughed in my NVX's face when he whined about working 8 hour shifts and how much harder he works than I do. I'm a chef, that means I work 10 hours at a minimum. He was lucky in his job that he never been asked to "pull a double" or to "cover a shift" later the same day mid shift. He's never had to get off work at 2 am to be back at work at 7 am the same day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:41 PM
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L/NVM are parasites who drain women and leave them an empty husk of the women they once were. Then they move on to the next host. Nothing is ever enough for those types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:28 PM
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Japan don't get off easy in my books, neither. They've invaded several countries and were absolutely brutal in every one of their invasions. Unit 731 was just downright fucking horrifying. They did disgusting, depraved experiments just for the heck of it, some on their own citizens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 07:15 AM
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I'm in my mid 30s and still struggle with anorexia. EDs are not just a white, middle class, young woman/girl's disorder. We just don't disappear after our 30s. I've been in recovery for a while but that voice in the back of my mind still effing haunts me to this day. All it takes is a doctor making a weight comment after a weighing at a checkup or hospital visit to throw me back into it, even though my charts say to weigh me backwards and to NOT comment. I've unsubsidized from Insta and most soc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:05 PM
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The key to happiness is competing with yourself. Strive to be better than you were last week, last month, last year, etc. The fast track to depression is competing with and comparing to others (unless you're in competitive sports or similar).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:35 PM
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I had a saying that people like that are only as deep as their Facebook news feed. Lack of originality is a huge red flag to me. It takes zero effort to save and share a meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:26 PM
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"For no reason". Damn, he really gaslit the living hell out of her. This is why FDS is necessary. We've been programmed from an early age to self-gaslight and ignore our intuition. There were probably more red flags than a communist rally before they had a child. This reminds me of my first marriage. I ignored all the red flags and thought all men were like that (hello shitty role models) and marriage was the goal, and to pick the least abusive man. Being a pickme doesn't pan out well. I hope sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:19 PM
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Yep. 6'2" here and can confirm this as well. They'll hate us for giving them a chance. Their anger will revolve around their jealousy of our heights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:26 PM
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This is it. In my household, everyone pitches in. Nobody sits down until all the chores are done, and it takes about 20 minutes at most on the worst days (we have a toddler who loves to mess up the place) because everyone picks up after their selves. The place doesn't turn into a tip if I fall ill. We rotate cooking days as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:56 PM
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Oh I'm going to hear a bunch of stories today when my husband gets home from work. Background story time! So the company he works for virtue signals on International Women's Day. They get a few cakes and everyone gets a slice, the women go first (and boy, do most of the men there whine about that, even). They have around 200 employees, and only around 5 of them are women, and one woman is in management. Every year they have the only woman in management give an inspirational speech on how she suc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:34 PM
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Don't listen to them. Plain and simple. Don't give LVM any of your energy. Let them reeeee into the void while you go about enjoying your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:11 PM
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He's well aware what a joke his little "spiritual marriage" is. He still thinks of himself as single, essentially. He wants wife benefits without the responsibilities of being a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:51 PM
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I had to catch my breath I laughed so hard at that. A "spiritual marriage" won't stand up in court the moment he decides to bounce. Men 100% want a family that not only pays for theirselves, but brings the man profits. No wonder birthrates around the world are falling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:48 PM
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Short answer; it's projection and deflection with a hint of gaslighting. Long answer; they are the ones cheating. In order to take the focus off of their own affair(s), they'll accuse the woman of cheating so she's jumping through hoops to try to prove herself innocent. It's hard to check him on his cheating when you're spending your mental and emotional energy always trying to prove you're not. They also use this to isolate you; first, it's no male friends. Then it's no male family members (yes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:13 PM
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Is this a sub for pickmes waiting to get picked? Yuck. She needs to kick this useless hobosexual to the curb. He doesn't want to marry her unless she foots the whole ass bill. He's a classic gold digger. He wants half the house when he inevitably leaves her for someone else. He won't even chip in for the wedding. It's sad to see how delusional pickmes can be. I hope she finds her worth and fast before he sinks his talons into her estate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:52 PM
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most of them aren't very clever. Men showed their whole asses both during the pandemic and with that Canadian freedumb convoy which is still pretty much going on here. With all of this coming to light, the worst of them will weed theirselves out before the first date even. Current events are a good vetting tool for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:41 PM
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With all the news coverage, men damn well know these are women and underage girls being r---ed and exploited. And they STILL consume it. That's besides the fact that he can't get it up for his fiancee. So glad she dumped this trash bin wildfire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:56 AM
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Damn, sis. You ended her ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:48 AM
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And paying out the arse for the "pleasure" of being his forever gf mommy mcbangmaid gets you what sort of accolades? Zero, sis 🤡. Quit lowering the bar for men 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:47 AM
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This. I caught the end of an episode because I was waiting for another show. The teenaged girls were highly sexualized, I went on to read the description and I'm not interested it watching it as a series. I'm thinking the core demmographic they're trying to reach is scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:45 PM
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NV/LVM behaviour benefits all men. That self-aware scrote wolf knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:08 AM
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I've already seen the proliferation of pornsick memes on Facebook and the front page of reddit. I'm beyond disgusted at the level of depravity, and this is just the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:09 PM
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Ouch. I know your pain. I get hemiplegic migraines as well, albeit not as often as you do. It mimics a stroke, slurred speech (can't form a coherent sentence let alone one word) and partial blindness (scintillating scotoma) as well. Get to a doctor asap because these types of migraines are associated with a higher than average stroke risk. I can not be on hormonal birth control because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:53 PM
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It's sexual assault and battery, plain and simple. There's no "overreacting". I don't have a word strong enough to express my disgust at this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:43 PM
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We are still in the process of getting rights. The pay gap, household labour gap, motherhood penalty, housing gap (women getting higher interest rates on mortgages) still exists. Hell, abortion isn't yet a right recognized universally. And that's just in the west. An injury to one is an injury to all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:35 PM
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I dodged a tactical nuke several years ago, even in my pickme phase. This guy was a Christian. Red flag for me there (a metric shit tonne of christian men are trash), but I thought, whatever, surely an ex Christian can get along. Then he started talking about the end times, and how my grey eyes were a sign that I was a witch, but a "good witch". Starting to ring alarm bells. The he told me the only hope was to get off grid. Yeah fuck no. Not with someone I barely know. So I talk to a few people,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:47 AM
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Amen, sister 👐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:26 AM
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I've never gotten my things from an ex's place or moved out without a police escort or without at least 2 male family members present. I tend to lean towards the male family members because the cops treated me like shit last time I needed a police escort. They were saying derogatory things about me and female DV survivors needing an escort in general, profane language included, so I felt rushed and grabbed just my essentials.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:44 PM
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Looks like someone's got a severe case of uterus envy. Or just a controlling scrote who has no idea how women's bodies work. Would he think of the baby as less than human because they weren't "born" in his books? I've never had a C-section, but I've known many women who have. The recovery is longer and it sounds more painful. Not to mention the risks that come with a surgeon being elbow deep in your abdominal cavity. One of my friends had to be put under because the spinal block wouldn't take, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:41 PM
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I seriously didn't think of that. Being an ad could be true. I saw it on a popular moms' sub, and the posts are usually depressing af so I thought this was a mom who was used to being breadcrumbed and was overly happy to receive something for V day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:46 PM
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I found FDS when I Googled "why do so many men feign incompetence when it cones to chores" and I landed on an FDS post about weaponized incompetence. I noticed a trend in my previous relationships with LV/NVM where they purposely sabotage their chores (breaking dishes while washing them, not wiping down counters, etc). I scrolled through FDS and saw that the posts aligned with my beliefs, so I made this account to avoid harassment in other subs and to avoid being banned in relationship subs for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:41 PM
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It may be a big cope, really. It's on a popular sub that we use for cautionary tales of where women not vetting men properly before having kids end up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:29 AM
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FuCk DIaMoNdS! I'm So CoOl. Yeah she ain't gonna be saying that in a couple years' time after being devalued and diminished to mommy McBangmaid. I really hopes she finds her value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:26 AM
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I got a stainless steel pot for my birthday from my NVX. Wasn't even wrapped. Like what the actual hell is that, even? Men "gift" these things as a way of reinforcing rigid gender roles and the way the really see you. They truly see us as bangmaid appliances. I'm glad your mom got out in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:23 AM
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It's a big red flag when a man refers to women as "girls". It's infantalizing af. And the whole thing about referring to a group of mixed sex individuals as guys is also a red flag due to male being the default for human beings. I caught myself doing this when inquiring about dogs, as in "how old is he?". Now I ask "how old is you dog" and "he or she?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:52 AM
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It is written in law, but the cops are useless in enforcing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:35 PM
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Luckily the comments section is telling her to delete and break up. Sadly, photos are backed up to clouds and there are multiple backup apps that can be hidden. A HVM would never ask, demand, or pester you for nudes. I've been a victim of revenge p-rn myself, some sent, and some taken without my consent or knowledge. I've been married for 4 years to a HVM and I still would never send any intimate photos to him (he's never asked, neither) due to having learned this lesson the hard way. Don't be l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:23 PM
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I'm white and I think most white men are trash, though I'm fully aware that being LV/NVM knows no race. Although I'll never know the experience of being fetishized for race (aside from it coming from a few Pacific Asian men I've known), I know that dating as a WOC must be a different type of hell altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:24 PM
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They're not, unfortunately. These are proliferating since the price of housing skyrocketed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:23 PM
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Sex for rent (or lower rent) schemes are huge now with the housing crisis. It's predatory af. I'm in the process of helping my friend leave a scrote and it's almost impossible to find a place in her price range without an exploitative ad. I live in Vancouver, one of the most expensive cities in the world and I feel sick to my stomach knowing there are possibly thousands of women being exploited to avoid homelessness in this city alone. There are hundreds of millions of women in this situation wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:21 PM
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My current MIL is one and ticks all the boxes of internalized misogyny. At the last dinner gathering we went to, she cooked just enough to feed herself, her sons, and her grandchildren, then went off on some tirade about how mothers should go without to feed their families, just as she had done in her "motherhood journey". We all collectively got up and left. And she wonders why none of her sons or DILs visit her anymore. She's upset that no one brings her grandchildren there, but who would amon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:10 PM
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As someone in their mid 30s, can confirm that life truly begins in this stage of life. So much growth happens and I didn't even begin to figure out life until my late 20s. I find I give less of a shit about what others think and have begun to live life as my authentic self, not a people pleasing pickme. My 20s was rife with insecurity, my 30s, I'm blossoming 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:23 PM
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Amanda Todd's mother was handing out Safeway (grocery store) gift cards when the pandemic started. She gave one to me and I cried. She reminded me that there is some good in the world. Her scrote father, on other hand, is active on dating sites. An older friend of mine was renting a room off of him and he was bragging about all these women he was "snagging". I will forever think he had a hand in what led to her untimely end. He fetishizes pacific Asian women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:26 AM
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Well that actually explains a lot and helps clear some things up for me. I've had a couple of NV/LV exes who were hung up on one. One was divorced and said they'd still be together if "she didn't go crazy" (I'm 100% sure he made her "crazy") and another ex who talked sporadically to his ex who was his "soul mate and best friend" (she suffered endometriosis and he dismissed it the entire relationship and got sick of her being in so much pain and ditched her, she got a hysterectomy and a new partn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:44 PM
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Ugh I used to be this brand of pickme 🤮. And admittedly, I actually deep down didn't enjoy it. I thought that this was the only way to keep a man happy. Turns out sitting in a dark club with a bunch of fat, greasy, unkempt, heaving scrotes sitting up front just isn't it. It's a disgusting culture. Spoiler alert, the guys I was with in this stage of "cool girl" still ended up going behind my back and paid for their backstage "specials". Glad that part of my life is long behind me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:29 PM
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Men are the ones gatekeeping men's mental health. Seeing a psychiatrist or counselor or taking meds is seen as a "sign of weakness". Literally the only time I've seen men complain about society "not caring" about men's mental health is when women's issues are brought up. Men are the ones sticking the pole in their own bicycle spokes. As a woman, it's been hard to find mental health services in Canada. All low or completely no cost mental health services go to people with drug addiction or who ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:33 AM
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Queen 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:15 AM
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My ex husband is currently losing a shit ton of money doing this after getting let go from his job (for good reasons). I dodged a massive bullet there. Funny how he criticizes gambling addicts in the same breath. ETA, wish I could go more into detail but those would easily identify me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:45 PM
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🤮 I need eyebleach, stat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:33 PM
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I get instant ick face when seeing this in action. I want a grown ass man, not a toddler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:31 PM
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Omfg what a psychopath! Sorry you went through that. Shit like that deserves a life sentence. That was an attempted ending and should have been treated as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:28 PM
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Can you imagine if the genders were swapped, though? If a woman had a husband with brain damage and cheated, the internet would happily drag her for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:33 PM
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That came across as some fanfic to me as well. If this is real, well, we know the value of that man. No HVM will take issue with their partner being an active member of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:30 PM
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It will always be a losing game. There's no cure. They get worse with age, and get worse over the course of a relationship. They operate in the same way a malignant narcissist does; the love-bombing ends some time. The compliments get less and less and the insults get worse and more frequent. They'll undermine your every move, they'll slowly sap your energy, They'll make you question your own reality and intuition. They'll get joy from watching you implode. They'll be jealous of any accomplishme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:29 PM
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Scrote is expecting free sex. The makeup we apply alone is worth more than their 2 can dine for $9.99 McDate. LVM are looking not only for a woman and her labour to be free, they look to heavily profit off of them in some way. I just read something off of a certain subreddit dedicated to mothers about a man willing to freeze his wife and kids at home during the day whoke he was at work because he'd rather spend his money on himself. The absolutely despicable entitlement of some men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:55 PM
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Men will absolutely weaponize anything and everything. Smart abuse is on the rise. There really needs to be safeguards with every new tech invention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:32 PM
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That line stuck with me too. So being upset about being lied to, cheated on, abused, gaslit, would make one "insane"? They truly don't view us as humans. Objects don't get jealous or upset at the use of another object. They expect us to behave like objects because they see us as objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:37 PM
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Now Indian women have a new vetting tool. They can now weed out scrotes who publicly announce their negative reaction to criminalizing SA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:33 PM
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The fact that he gives a young woman 1 hour of free time and sets his actual WIFE on a timer is super sus to me. Betting his wife is a former student of his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:43 PM
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Next his ass. If he'll lie about something that can easily be disproven, he'll lie about more down the road. Cut and run at the first red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:58 AM
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Right there with you. I don't have Endo (though bleeding through 2 super plus tampons and an overnight pad every hour on days one and two have me suspecting something is wrong, and not being able to function through the pain also). Been told I was "hormonal" and called a drug seeker, despite having a true opioid allergy. Seriously. Tylenol 3 alone had me projectile vomiting swelling up, and covered in hives. Got shamed shortly after the birth of my youngest and last child for asking for pain med…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:55 PM
86

Yeah I had a half empty beer bottle thrown out a car window at me and my (then) 1 month old son because I refused to get in the car with 3 strange men who rolled by in their car asking if I wanted to go to a party. I've also been chased by a couple of men when I refused to respond to a cat call from a car when I was a young teenager and had to dip into a pet store to hide for an hour. Many countless other times I was screamed at, backed into corners for my number, which is why I keep a fake WiFi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:56 PM
86

It should really be an attempted ending charge. Sadly, the police and the courts are complicit in this dangerous homicidal act. A man is showing you what he's capable of when he cuts off your oxygen. I survived an attempted ending years ago, and all it took was a slimy lawyer who specializes in kink on the side to let my attempted ender off even though I wasn't into that and I had multiple other injuries. A few of the other NVX who used strangulation as a tactic also mentioned that if ending wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:35 PM
134

Dump him. Men can hide p-rn addictions for years. It doesn't matter how often they use it or how much they say they won't consume it in the future, they'll lie about it and use behind your back. Once an addict, always an addict, especially in these current days of living in a p-rn enabling society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:16 AM
40

Nothing is the "truth" with these types of guys. The "truth" is usually what these rage addicts want to hear; that women are lying to them in some way or cheating. They're looking for an excuse to abuse and rage at the woman they're with. I had a NVX very much like this. Always accused me of cheating or lying, despite the fact that I worked two effing jobs at the time (Monday to Friday, weekends I was stuck at home with him recovering from the grind) and literally had zero time to cheat, let alo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:37 PM
326

This is why men have an average lower life expectancy than women. They pass earlier due to crappy diets, sedentary lifestyle, engage in more risky behaviors like speeding, alcohol/substance use, and avoiding medical care. Married men tend to live longer because they're living off the backs of their wives' labour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:27 AM
87

I'm one of the one percent who "bounce right back" in a week and look slim and my NVX still made negative remarks about my body. I have stretch marks and a small amount of extra skin which can only be surgically corrected. Whether you choose to breastfeed or not, there will be permanent changes to your breasts due to hormones enlarging them during pregnancy, and sudden engorgement not allowing enough time for the skin to stretch and adapt. It's absurd to think that a woman's body will look exact…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:37 PM
48

We need more of this. Most men trash talk the mother of their children, the one who sacrificed their career, body, and mind to bring forth their children into this world. What we need most is men calling out other men on their scrotey behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:41 AM
36

Nah, at this point, I'd be leaving. If they'll even once try manipulative tactics, they'll try it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:33 AM
24

It doesn't matter what our space and time point is in earth's revolution around the sun. Shitty things are gonna be shit. All we can do is celebrate all of our successes big and small. I'm right there with you with this pandemic depression. It sucks big time. I've taken an optimist nihilistic approach on this; take joy in which enriches you, as long as it doesn't harm others. Add maximum value to your life, with or without a man. 2022 is your year. Seize it to the best of your ability and always…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:23 AM
13

Karaoke? Awesome! Do it up! Happy new year, sis!.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:15 AM
73

Hanging out with my newly single best gal friend. She dumped her scrote a week ago and we be celebrating her new successes and journey to Queendom 🥳💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:14 AM
51

Never eat a shit sandwich just because you're hungry. We have more meaning outside of men. The whole point to FDS is to de-center men from our lives. If a HVM comes along, great! But if not, we have our own circle of friends and family. Let the scrotes get desperate. We get to select who gets to pass on their genes. Let em die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:05 AM
5

Wow. The people in that documentary are evil incarnate. This world is sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:32 PM
5

I love the Andy Griffith show! Gunsmoke is another one of my old favorites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:05 PM
26

This reminds me of a woman who was a teacher but also a lingerie model who was fired over her pics. There was a male teacher and underwear model who was named "sexiest teacher alive" and never lost his job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:48 PM
51

"Helps" with chores jfc he LIVES there ffs. How these types of men even survive on their own long enough to shit in the gene pool is beyond me, other than their mother coming once a week to clean or them monkey branching off of pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:43 PM
153

It's because LVM don't see women and children as actual human beings, rather, as possessions. "Object had an object".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:38 PM
69

That is just awful. She needs to kick that leeching scrote to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:29 PM
31

The only type of criticism most men have for women is destructive criticism, and usually appearance/age based remarks or swipes at our intelligence or goals/hobbies. It's only purpose is complete annihilation of the soul. The only men I've known to handle constructive criticism well is my grandfather, my current husband, and his late grandfather.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:26 PM
38

Everything in his bio screams "abuser". He'll veg out on the couch watching sports, expects sex on demand, being a "handful" is usually a saying parents use to describe a rambunctious, hyperactive toddler, "bull in a china shop" describes someone who's careless and reckless, his being "sensitive" = someone who whines and has easily hurt fee-fees when one is asserting a boundary with him, and the whole thing about him going into rage mode if he perceives a slight screams of high assault risk. BuT…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:10 PM
76

It's a future faking strategy. He wants women in their 20's so he can waste their youth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:39 PM
373

Ah yes, male attention; the most abundant, therefore lowest value resource in the universe. And 58 hitting on someone nearly a half century younger? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:47 PM
518

Wow. That's just disgusting 🤮. So sorry you went through such an awful experience. Last time I checked, unwashed dick was never on any woman's Christmas list. It's a slap in the face for everything women are expected to do for the holiday season. Though I haven't experienced this myself on Christmas, this kind of depravity doesn't surprise me. On your last point, women are the real magic behind Christmas. If all women left it up to men for one year to shop, plan the guest list and do the invites…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:20 PM
73

I helped a friend out who set up a few roadside floral stands for Valentines day, Easter, and Mother's day yearly by tending one of her stands. Doing floral arrangements is a hobby of mine. The number of scrotes asking me for the cheapest bouquet was astronomical, or trying to haggle the prices on more expensive arrangements. I've made a few snide remarks since we're not with a huge company, everywhere else was sold out, and I've even applied an asshole tax, since there were no prices displayed.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:53 PM
190

It doesn't matter who you are. It doesn't matter what you do, scrotes are gonna scrote. NVM loathe the women who give them chances. Even more if you give them more than one. They'll see you as someone they can drain and walk all over again and again. See the narc hoover technique for more info. They don't respect theirselves, they won't respect others. I've lived it. I commented earlier on a thread about being convinced we were asexual when we weren't. I gave short men a chance, and they happene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:17 PM
82

I've had some friends I had to drop because they would fight me every step of the way. I've seen women fall to heavy drug addiction because of scrotes. I've stuck by for years until I couldn't anymore. But my friend I'm talking about, I knew she would make it. It took a while, but I'm so happy she pulled through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:03 AM
211

I just started by telling her what she contributes compared to him. She works, pays almost everything, and does almost 100% of the childcare. He bought her gifts in the beginning then it became nothing. It took me taking her out on valentines day for a girls date to realize she wasn't being treated right. He griped and whined that he would take her but wouldn't be happy. So I told her how fricked that was and said she deserves to with someone who wants to take her out. So we went out to the arca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 08:56 AM
144

She loved him a lot. She compared her to her NVXs and thought he was the least stinkiest pile of crap. She had a major case case of trauma bonding and I kept spending her links on that. She told him last week that she didn't love him and was actually repulsed by him. There is an age gap as well. She was 20 and he was 32 when they got together. I've been telling her about brain development and how he took advantage of her. I told her to tally up what she does at home and work and to do a side by …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 08:49 AM
18

Eli would probably venmo request her the $5 for half the cost of the gift, more for shipping and handling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 02:33 AM
213

I gave ugly guys a chance. Even one bald scrote. I used to date at age gaps because I used to believe the lie that they were more stable and know how to treat a woman. I thought that maybe they had something redeeming about them (like a kind personality, generosity, puts in effort). Ugly went right down to the core with those scrotes. I gave short guys a chance, and mind you, I'm 6'2" so there was a huge height difference between me and my 5'4" NVX (another was 5'2"). They were massively insecur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:15 AM
139

At the very minimum (and I mean bare-bones minimum, a HVM would aim much higher) the same amount that he would spend on himself when he treats himself. We hear about men buying theirselves 5k gaming setups while balking at buying even the cheapest of plated, fake stone, dental floss sized rings for their SO. Men invest money in what and who they see as "worthy". They will demonstrate it through how they spend money (or fail to do so) on you. Moreover, gift intentions; is it really a covert gift …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:04 PM
41

I survived an attempted ending and 2 years of stalking afterwards because the courts didn't even give him jail time because his slimy lawyer argued a kink defense. Nor did the police do anything about that psychopath stalking me afterwards, despite him sending pics of the outside of my home at 3 am, including a picture he took of my dog with threats to end her while I was at work, pics of my truck outside of my new workplace, all sent via his alt accounts from his IP address. He was so unhinged,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:31 PM
92

The people I've run across who've self identified as "empaths" or, even more cringe-worthy, "super empaths" were narcissistic and toxic af, usually involved in some spiritual new age scrotery. Empathy is something that's been trained out of people via the media, p-rn, shitty misogynistic music, victim blaming culture, crap father figures, etc, to the point where it's seen as a rarity. "Empath" is the new Nice Guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:56 PM
176

He doesn't give a solitary crap about her. L/Z/NVM are notoriously shitty gift givers due to the low or complete lack of empathy and not being able to see people as actual human beings with their own interests and hobbies. They are also just as cheap as they are crappy. The gifts they buy are either secretly for theirselves (lingerie as a "gift", console, games), cheap (second hand clothing that she wouldn't wear in a million years), or just plain old thoughtless and low effort (cookware sets an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:28 PM
3

I used a tracker at first to get a good idea until I found what diet worked for me. It also helped me with my water intake and to cut down on snacking. After a few months, I found I didn't need the tracker anymore and just ate intuitively. I still make sure the meals are balanced each time to ensure my macro ratio. My specific program is basically HIIT on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, compound, full body weight training 45 to 60 minutes every day, Sundays are active rest days (30-60 minutes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:34 PM
23

This is probably better suited for askFDS, but I'll answer; If muscle building is your goal, you don't need to go heavy on the cardio. 3 days of HIIT should be sufficient. Never do cardio before lifting, as it will sap your energy and sometimes form can be compromised if you just jumped off the machine after a vigorous cardio session. Do not neglect your core. Without a strong core, the rest of your lifting will be compromised. I'd focus on 2 abs days per week until you get used to it, then incr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:26 PM
18

Eww. This looks like a 3 a.m. m*** feuled, cast a wide net and see who replies type of DM. Yeah, no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:43 PM
453

Imagine if a woman were to make a guy with crap genetics promise not to go bald or to promise he'll never become disabled and lose part or all of his income. The scrotes and pickmes of reddit would be so quick to tell him he "deserves better". Yet here's this scrote telling his forever gf that she'd better be this perfectly shaped toy until he either drops or he decides to trade her in for a "newer model". The latter is more likely if he's already putting the pressure on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:38 PM
418

Just lock the doors when he goes outside then gaslight him about the tornado.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:27 AM
164

That is absolutely vile of him to do. I've had my phobia "tested" by a NVX as well, also followed by scrote rage at my reaction. I was pushed into a lake into a patch of water weeds. I was struggling to stay above water in sheer panic, then I got yelled at for "embarrassing" him. Any boundary we have, scrotes will absolutely try to cross it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:42 PM
47

Absolutely not. I learned that lesson in my late 20's. Every time someone got word out that I broke up, my DMs lit right up with scrotes feigning concern. It was like there is some sort of collective watch on which woman is single at any given time, as this happened to every woman I've ever known. I got rid of my old social media accounts and now only either have family or women I personally know on my friends list. I don't count friends' male spouses as my friends. They're acquaintances, nothin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:12 PM
347

Trigger warning; physical violence Quite a few years ago, I survived an attempted ending at the hands of a NVM. I wish I could say that he got what was coming to him legally, but his slimeball lawyer used the kink defense even though sex was not involved and I wasn't into that crap anyhow, nor left any evidence that I agreed to such a thing. It left me with permanent injuries. I wish I had known FDS back then, because I disclosed my trauma to another NVM I dated after that. Well he threw that al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:04 PM
74

Goes to show what he knows. He doesn't even know the difference between poisonous and venomous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:17 AM
10

The lowest level of NVM do this in my experience. Spelling "kewl" instead of "cool" and "yer" instead of "you're". One quick courts service online check (I highly recommend running their names as part of the initial vetting), both scrotes had K files (Canadian code for domestic violence). Willful ignorance and willful misspellings are a huge pet peeves of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:52 PM
52

Right? Those are the types that have a decade or two (or 3) on the women/underage girls they chase and still haven't figured shit out. I used to date at an age gap 🤡🤮 and they threw in that "old soul" and "very wise for your age" lines, then later used the "I'm older so I'm smarter/wiser than you" bullshit. I asked the last age gap creeper I dated near the end of the relationshit if that was why he dated women who didn't have their brains fully finish developing because his brain never made it o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:08 PM
41

This. It's called "hidden homelessness". Scrotes will absolutely exploit either at-risk or homeless women and girls by offering them a place to stay in exchange for sex. The streets are downright violent, especially when social services, financial assistance, and resources are lacking. It seems much better to be abused by one than risk abuse by many. The same goes from women who are financially trapped in a bad marriage. It's a form of homelessness. When MRAs cry wHaT aBoUt MeNz ShELTeRs, I laug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:52 PM
383

Money spent by men is about investing in what and who they care about. 5k on a gaming PC, countless OF subscriptions, always buys himself.the newest tech, but balks at paying over $500 on an engagement ring (that is, if he doesn't say they're a "waste of money" to buy one at all)? A man like that couldn't be arsed to give two craps about the woman he's with. No matter how much money a woman makes, a HVM will show her how much he values her by investing in her. LV/NVM don't want independent women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:46 PM
7

Yeah, I am wondering this myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:23 PM
468

The large majority of the men complaining about "gold diggers" don't even have money to bring to the table. They can be outright hobosexuals yet have the audacity to ask us what we bring to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:49 PM
4

Same story here. Having to justify your very existence and having to prove you're "worthy of love" really resonated deeply with me (the whole list did, but those 2 points really stood out to me). This gave me a really bad case of pickme-itis. So I stayed with emotionally unavailable LVM and downright abusive NVM because I had such a low sense of self worth stemming from childhood. I glued myself to any man who'd have me because I truly believed that I wouldn't have a chance with another. Fast fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:02 PM
7

I've lost friends to heavy drugs because of scrotes. Some of them have lost their actual lives, and some of them lost their souls but are still, how can I put this, existing, but not really living. M*** is a hell of a drug. It eats entire personalities. There's only so much advice and resources I could offer before I had to cut ties with them. I just read an obituary of someone who was a close friend about 2 months ago. I asked around. It was an overdose. This is a scumbag tactic real losers dep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:44 PM
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This sounds like a guy who'll nitpick someone to no end and become someone's personal food cop, which is an extreme form of controlling behaviour. Told on himself there and weeded himself out. Block, delete, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:24 PM
6

Fucking trash. Most men are like that (referring to the scrotes in the comments section). Some of the women in there have terminal pickme-itis. Men are protectors my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 01:28 AM
12

He'll be on a certain subreddit complaining about how his wife is repulsed by him sexually. Because having a husband who acts like a literal child would make me drier than the sun facing side of mercury at the equator at its closest point in orbit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 01:15 AM
35

So was he trying to cause her to get a severe electrolyte imbalance (that is life-threatening by the way)? Because water intoxication is a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 01:12 AM
146

If it was really about the "sanctity of life" (which we all know this isn't), they'd have mandatory child support laws with no legal loopholes, for example, men with mandatory child support obligations wouldn't be able to leave the state or country, wouldn't be allowed to quit their jobs and go on welfare or unemployment, etc. They'd have stiff penalties for men who bounce out on pregnancies and children, and harsher penalties for prolific offenders (multiple children, multiple mothers) and mand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:48 PM
10

Hyi 🤢🤮 ei kiitos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:26 PM
53

Yeah this is disgusting. Isolating her from her support network so she has no advice or guidance when it comes to recognizing abuse and nowhere to go when shit hits the fan (and it will with these types). 100% isolation is a guarantee that abuse will follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:37 PM
30

He might as well be a screen door installer on submarines. He's that useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:29 PM
29

Oh men can cook, if it's paid labour. 4 out of 5 chefs are male. And they push women out of culinary all the time or prevent them from getting promotions or raises. They don't want to cook if it's unpaid labour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:47 PM
64

Yup. I've seen this unfold before my eyes. A friend of mine was married to a NVM. She made 6 figs. He made just above 100k, had multiple degrees, no debt. Looked good on paper until he baby trapped her. Well, he quit his job to become a SAHP when their child turned one after her paid mat leave/parental leave lapsed (Canada, we got about a year total for mat leave and parental leave when combined). He didn't do housework, didn't clean, barely kept the kid fed, basically KD and chicken nuggets and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:23 PM
222

Men are emotional cowards. They'd rather abuse a woman out of the relationship and tell everyone around them that she's "crazy" when she develops some form of ptsd, an anxiety disorder, or depression as a result of said abuse. Two birds, one stone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:40 PM
136

The way he gaslights her too; "you're spoiled", "you're not emotionally neglected". I'm enraged on her behalf for his audacity. What he's doing is the exact definition of emotional neglect, it's also emotional and psychological abuse as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:37 PM
142

Damn, I have been in this exact same position in my first marriage to a NVM. He was as pornsick as they get. It's isolating. Lonely. Demeaning. Draining. Soul-destroying. I spent the last three years of that farce of a marriage sleeping in the couch and putting together/executing my escape plan (financial abuse made it difficult to leave). No woman deserves this. I hope she cuts and runs from this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:33 PM
62

Never underestimate the scrotacity. This reeks of him either trying to get some strange on the side (if he has a wife, or, as you mentioned, he got turned down and tried to make her jealous to seem more "desirable" because he was already vetted and "taken". Being at a bar in the evening away from one's wife/family is a red flag in and of itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:26 PM
74

Early to bed, early to rise makes folks healthy, wealthy, and wise. But you couldn't tell that to a pornsick gaming addicted scrote up til the wee hours of the morning and sleeping in til 1 pm without a massive fit from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:46 PM
3

It'S a JoKe! No, it's abuse. Derogatory weight and appearance comments are meant to be swipes at a woman's self esteem. Disguising then as jokes is a gaslight. And how was his mother okay with her scrote husband visually undressing his daughter in law anyways? Oh yeah, pickme culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:03 PM
115

This guy is a k---er. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow. But someday, he'll end someone's story prematurely. Strangulation is the number one predictor of homicide. Every man in jail for spousal homicide has a history of domestic violence, strangulation in particular. Almost every mass sh---er has a history of DV, again, strangulation is one of their top methods of physical abuse. Men who do this are 100% telling women what they're capable of. Run at the first red flag, and don't stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:25 PM
39

Curiosity got the better of me, so I looked up the definition. It's when they draw cartoon characters bigger than they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:36 PM
21

Nice! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:01 PM
92

Me; "Yes, I am like other girls. Problem?" That's a red flag for sure, whether a negative or positive comparison to other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:59 PM
267

Damn I could have written this myself. Besides that, I used to find walk dates romantic because restaurants were "too cliche and mainstream" 🤡, being called "low maintenance", being called a catch because I was "beautiful but didn't know it" (read; my self esteem was somewhere between hell's basement and the bar for men). I used to find picnics with those store prepped fruit, meat, and cheese platters romantic (no more effort than the swipe of a debit card). Hell, I found the fact that one of my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:55 PM
17

I wish I knew FDS before I started dating in my late teens. It would have saved a lot of heartache and trauma. Better late than never though, and it's wisdom for our younger sisters learning to navigate life, and save countless women from being revictimized in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:36 PM
313

He needs to lose his job and be put on a do not hire list. He's publicly having the audacity. Which begs the question; How many male professors hide this shit and fail women at a higher rate? There's a little unspoken rule in customer service; for every one person who's vocal about a complaint, there's 10 that aren't and never return. I believe this can safely be applied to this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:09 PM
77

If ThE gEnDeRs WeRe ReVeRsEd... scrote, please ✋ we've visually had our bodies chopped up and sorted like p-rn categories for ages. And the pieces keep getting smaller and more numerous and more detailed. All these bodily preferences, yet they still can't wrap their brains around the fact that women urinate through a urethra and not through a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:59 PM
131

That ending just warms my heart. Glad she got away from that bum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:05 PM
83

Your point on how expensive rings are posturing to other men on how well taken care of their partner is that is spot on (along with the rest of your post). How are cheap men not embarrassed at having their partner sport a no stone having gold plated piece of dental floss that turns their finger green? They love the "biology" argument when it comes to their standards for a partner until it comes to the part where their supposed to be a provider. It's almost as if they've turned it from a competit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:53 PM
205

Thanks for the free advertising! Anyhow, men love to claim MuH bIoLoGy when they go for underage girls and just turned legal age women who are conventionally attractive, who'll be a 50/50 mommy Mcbangmaid, but heaven forbid she has any standards and doesn't want to raise children in squalor and poverty with an abusive scrote reigning terror down on the family or will just straight up bounce. Women; "we're sick of being abused and exploited" Society (namely, most men when victims blaming); "then …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:16 PM
32

He's doing this to get a rise out of you and coming in for a possible hoover. He cheated on you, he'll cheat on her, too. His fitness routine will fall apart within a half a year once he gets complacent with treating her like garbage, believe me. The amount of scrotes I've seen come and go within 2-6 months at the gym is enormous. He's not happy. Narcs never are. They're a huge black hole with an insatiable hunger. He's a bullet dodged. This is the part where you ignore his ass so hard, that he'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:53 PM
196

Oh no. No, sis, men aren't the prize. Jeez. The way he's standing, too, he ain't in it for the long haul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:44 PM
67

That's an awesome strategy! I'm a casual gamer myself, and reactions are very telling. I got my (so far HVM) husband to play Interloper on The Long Dark (notoriously punishing difficulty level). Zero craps given when he repeatedly loses in the first day. Our neighbour, however, every day he's screaming into his monitor over video games intermittently over 10 plus hours. He's single (big surprise, I know 🤣).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:10 PM
3

This man is effing dangerous. She needs a solid escape plan and to lace up them running shoes. He is capable of taking a life. This is already coming to fruition (not caring about slowly ending her betta, threats to end her cats, actual violence against her). He had no problem taking her cam money, but hates her for doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:23 PM
151

Yet another example of scrotes refusing to take responsibility for their own actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:08 PM
44

This right here. I've always wondered why it took having a daughter for some men to care, when they've used many women and chucked them away their entire adult life like interchangeable objects. Men know that most men are trash. The trash sometimes becomes self aware. It still doesnt make them HV. There are men who have this "revelation", but still continue to dehumanize women who aren't their daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:36 PM
54

So many men are so p-rn fried, that their entire prefrontal cortex is melted. Absolutely no empathy left. They can't wrap their heads around the fact that women are human beings who grieve rather than sentient toys. From what I've personally seen from male grief, they quietly sulk for a few days, get wrapped up in p-rn or use their grief as an excuse to cheat, drink or get into substance abuse, anything but actually grieve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:57 PM
81

What a useless leech he is. Kick him to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:08 AM
20

Right? It's depressing to see all of these new condos with 90 percent of the units having zero patio furniture and permanently shut blinds. They're often bought before the construction starts. The last time I drove into Vancouver, I saw some buildings you can see right through, uninhabited. ETA; this has dire consequences for women fleeing abuse when home ownership becomes a dream, as rents become increasingly unaffordable. This makes real autonomy and economic security almost impossible for man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:30 PM
10

Same here. I'm not huge into astrology, but I won't shit on something someone enjoys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:39 PM
6

Had a NVX Leo who'd excuse his shit behaviour away using his sign. They'll use literally anything at their disposal in order to not change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:37 PM
26

Right? My NVX used to excuse his scrote behaviour by saying he's a Leo and "can't help it", meaning him yelling, hitting walls, insulting, general rudeness, always being right, etc. My daughter is a Leo and he said that "Leo girls are trouble, argumentative, strong-willed, and come home pregnant at 15". He'll also only date Pisces or other "mutable" signs because they're "willing to compromise" 🤮. That relationshit didn't last long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:32 PM
14

This is why the age of consent should be raised to 21 across the board. In some states, some children can be married off as young as 13 if parents consent, which is downright disgusting. It's 16 here in Canada, 18 without parental consent, which is way too young. There's a saying about employers who pay minimum wage; "If I could pay you less, I would." The same applies to scrotes who happily jump and scream "She's LeGaL!!!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:21 PM
25

I'm just thinking about what reddit scrotes would say if it were a man posting about a situation like that. They'd straight up call it disgusting, tell him to leave and call the cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:12 PM
16

Ngl, it's scary as hell the amount of effort they put in when it comes to stalking and possibly making plans. It takes less effort to become HV than it is doing whatever it is they're trying to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:14 PM
46

Do they seriously have nothing better to do than to creepily stalk us and lurk here? You know, like a full time job? Friends? Hobbies? I always laugh when a scrote tries to reply (as I've turned off DMs) because I know damn well they've got nothing going for them in life and have no plans of improving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:34 PM
131

Omg that poor kitty 😢. It would have taken everything in me not to steal the poor thing. De-clawing is cruel and barbaric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 07:34 PM
311

I needed a good laugh this morning. It's always the ugliest scrotes who have the most criticism. Love the kitties in the last pic ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:57 PM
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He said he despises cats, the reason being that they don't listen to commands, aloof, and can turn on people. Cats are creatures of independence. You have to work to gain their trust and put effort in to maintain that relationship. They're not there because they need you, they can do that perfectly fine on their own. They're there because they want to be. They'll leave at the first sign of maltreatment. I won't consider a date with someone who hates cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:53 PM
49

The joke is located on the right side of the picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:33 PM
844

Wow. Negging about her eating and that last little line about 2-3 years. She's a placeholder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:19 PM
230

There's nothing men loathe more than losing privilege. Look no further than the most dangerous time for a woman; when she leaves her abuser. They fear a loss of control. A global pandemic has brought out the worst in men; domestic violence and femicide spiked and the numbers are being sustained. Mass sh-----s are on the rise. There's going to be a lot of pushback for the rights and ground we continue to gain. There's a huge fear of the population cliff, so Texas decided to cut women and girls of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:25 PM
32

I was in the latter category. Didn't matter how underweight I was, I was still "disgustingly fat". My mother was in the former category with my scrote of a sperm donor, would openly say the most vile, crude, and sexually demeaning shit about our mother's weight in front of my sisters and I. Both forms of abuse you've listed are insidious af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:15 PM
6

Immediate nope from me. Anyone I knew of or have dated who was friends with their exes were keeping them in a rotation and/or cheating with them. Most men see the world as purely transactional and women in their minds exist only to serve their needs which usually translates into free sex and free emotional labour. Bumping into someone and a cordial "hi" is okay, but having their number and/or social media is a red flag for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:06 PM
250

"Failed marriage" and "Failed relationship" shouldn't be words we use to describe a woman fleeing a scrote. Those terms puts the blame, usually on the woman, for not being in a successful relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:14 AM
165

White makes the first move
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:15 PM
202

Nothing spews insults, hate, and vitriol quite like insecure, ugly, broke-ass, fossilized scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:13 PM
24

It sure looks like it. Yeah pulling a g-n, pulling the trigger, and dismemberment is a wee bit disproportionate to "hitting and kicking" (though I highly doubt this was the case). Any sane judge and jury would see right through this monster. I hope he gets life without parole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:05 PM
239

Seeing all the hate she and many other victims are getting from men online and reading screencaps like this makes me seriously wonder just how many men I walk past daily who look at me and have my demise in mind. It's truly scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:19 PM
19

This needs to be charged as attempted *ending. If they're willing to cut off your oxygen, even temporarily, they'll push it further next time. It's scary how many men are actually would-be k---ers. 3 of my NVX have used strangulation during an assault, one actually made an attempt at my life and had a slimy lawyer argue that it was kink (it was not, it was done when I was attempting to leave). He walks free to this day, I've got a forever raspy voice as a daily reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:27 PM
61

I still laugh at everyone who sweats the much feared "gold digger". The only guys who I've seen complain have no gold to dig. Heaven knows as soon as men get a raise, they also dump their wife or forever gf for someone else. They can't afford a real gold digger and they're jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:19 PM
23

I've had angry scrotes inbox me that FDS was "literally (my) entire feed". Hell yeah it is, this sub is literally the only safe space for women on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:10 PM
62

Come to think of it, the only women who told me it was "all rainbows and sunshine" in my life were pickme final boss level handmaidens. Two of them were from mothers of my abusive NVX narcs (both boy moms) and one from my (so far) HVM husband's mother (also a boy mom, but we've gone no contact with her a few years ago). All of these handmaidens shamed women with postpartum depression because "real women bond instantly with their babies" (I developed postpartum psychosis with my oldest son and so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:53 PM
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Meaning he knows all the psychology terms and can better manipulate women pulling from the DSM-V. He also has access to vulnerable women to take advantage of since he's an advocate. He's using his position of "advocate" in order to play the "nice guy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:01 AM
2

Size 11 here as well. Hard to find anything cute, or stores that even carry women's shoes in my size dammit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:15 PM
66

I got to do this to an ex I ran into a few months ago. I moved a few towns over to restart my life after that narc did everything within his power to burn me to the ground. It was so satisfying to hear him say "what the fuck" almost below his breath when I kept walking past him like I didn't know him. I paid the same amount of mind I'd pay to any passing stranger on the sidewalk. I documented the time, date, and location just in case of the potential stalking/hoover attempts (blocked him on ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:29 PM
207

The Dunning-Kruger effect in scrotes is real, they're permanently stuck on that first spike of "high confidence, low competence".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:15 PM
9

That's the sentence that jumped out for me as well. DaRk TiMeS is male code for cheating, abuse, addiction, stringing someone along, etc. Generally, men explode, women implode. Men externalize, women internalize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:09 PM
126

I virtually grew up in the woods. Animals are predictable. Humans are way less predictable. There are many things that could have happened to her, whether done by an animal or a human being. He threw an epic fit over the impracticality of his pathetic display of fragile masculinity being called out (overcompensating for being an unemployed bum who's leeching off of her). Those animals that terrorized her all night were semi acclimated to humans (and also their food) in their habitat, making them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:45 PM
38

This. All solid advice. Thanks for adding on to this and going into detail. They are all vacant and not really there. They have this blank, glazed over stare in their eyes. If they don't weed theirselves out in the initial "what kind of p-rn are you into" question, their actions in which you've described will be a dead giveaway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:10 AM
43

Oh we won't be alone. We have friends, family, pets, work colleagues, hobbies, goals, aspirations, etc. We're never truly alone. Message to the lurking scrotes; well for you, that's a different story; you've used and abused, drained dry of the financial, psychological, sexual, and emotional resources of everyone around you. Even your own pickme mothers may have grown weary of your bullcrap by now as you helplessly cling to the hairs pulling the great escape from your blindingly bright, gleaming …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:02 AM
68

That's what we're all about. Taking men out of the front and center of our lives. Most men don't deserve to date let alone procreate. The birth rate decline says it all; we won't take their shit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:50 AM
64

Yeah this is the point where I'd tell him to get nuked, then block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:46 AM
71

Came here to say this. Pornsick scrotes will gladly jump on their favorite categories if you ask what type they're into. Since society sees it as "normal", they'll gladly tell all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:43 AM
15

Balls-shaped sweat puddles on the seats are the worst! I always sanitize the seats before use just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:20 AM
74

I had a headphone fall out yesterday in the gym. I lift heavier than some of these men without making loud grunting noises. They not only want to physically take up space, they must also make themselves heard an invade our ear spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:27 PM
115

He came to the marriage virtually empty-handed. The gold digging scrote can leave the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:37 PM
59

Forced birth, not pro life. They'll shame single mothers and teenaged mothers on welfare in the same breath they use to cry about how precious life is. There is, of course, no outrage from these forced birthers about the fact that men can, and do, bounce out on pregnancies, and that there are far more teenaged mothers than there are teenaged fathers. Men will deadass quit their high paying jobs and work under the table for peanuts just to avoid child support, or they'll flee the state or country…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:59 PM
123

If you have to brag about doing the bare minimum for your kid like it's a personality trait or to get a few internet medals and pats on the back, most likely you're a scrote and not the GoOd DaD you claim to be. Damn I see this all the time. Either men bragging about spending a half hour playing with their kid(s) and twice a week bathing them, or pickmes praising LV fathers for doing the bare minimum. NV behaviour benefits ALL men by lowering the bar to the point LV/ZV becomes exalted as a shini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:43 PM
7

I've given short guys a chance. Never again. I'm 6'2", and I manage to make guys I have only one inch on insecure af for existing whilst tall in a woman's body. The shorter than average guys I've dated complained that no "real woman" would want them. I was like "hello, I'm right here?", then they'd sulk about how they wanted someone shorter than they were, and that "no offense, but you're not what I'd consider attractive at that height". Okay scrote, so basically you lied when you said you were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:13 PM
15

They'll use anything to justify being a straight up asshole and not change a thing. Astrology is a huge one; my NVX gave the excuse that he was a Leo to justify being outright verbally explosive and physically abusive, like somehow that justified him to act like a toddler in a grown man's body. "I can't change that, babe, I'm a Leo. It's like asking a lion to be a vegan". He'd creepily joke about fact that cats like to catch fish (Pisces here), so basically called me his prey. I don't believe in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:37 PM
26

Here's your crown 👑. Keep it on straight, vet ruthlessly and bail on the first red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:08 AM
82

Another example men admitting that most men are trash and incapable of genuinely loving a woman as a fellow human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:01 PM
38

What a fucking psychopath. It's sad to see her defending him instead of getting an annulment, a cop call, and a restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:59 PM
138

He's not mediocre even. If he can't be a father to his kids without sex as a reward, he's NV. Not to mention this doesn't meet the threshold for consensual sex. She is damn tired. Exhausted from living life virtually as a single parent with an extra paycheck. No one who is exhausted and is desperate for something from their partner that bears the semblance of fathering for 30 minutes a few times weekly wants sex. Burdened agency is not consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:55 PM
9

I would have demanded the freshly signed papers from the commissioner and torn them up on the spot followed by a call to the police for assault and battery. This POS is obviously a batterer since she shrunk away a bit when he stormed over. If he's willing to pull this shit in front of witnesses, on their wedding day no less, we can only imagine how much worse it is for her behind closed doors. I really really hope she got an annulment at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:39 PM
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Scrotes can't even imagine a man treating a woman decently without something transactional or forced. "Simp" became an insult to describe men who treat a woman as a human being. That word gets tossed around as soon as the threshold for bare minimum is reached. Low and negative value behaviour benefits all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:18 PM
174

His brother makes him look bad and he knows he's coming up short. He's bitter because he's too lazy to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:11 PM
13

Women are seen as mere consumable/disposable products on the internet, be it OLD or social media. They find women reporting violence as ridiculous as cattle reporting to the farmer that they're headed for the slaughterhouse. No one has our backs except ourselves and our FDS sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:40 PM
35

Men aren't the protectors they claim to be. I find that most are cowardly in these situations when it's a male offender, but wouldn't hesitate to screech if a woman did as little as bring out a mixed up order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:33 PM
30

Yeah that's a block and delete. It's a self-tattling if I ever saw it. He's subtly letting you know what shit behaviour he's going to get up to and preemptively calling you insecure if you later call him out on it. "My ex was soooo insecure about p--n" = "I'm a hopeless p--n addict". "My ex always accused me of cheating" = "I followed and commented and/or DM'd a bunch of IG thirst trap accounts" or "she caught me sexting with an ex/new woman" . "My ex was a delight to start out with, then she we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:12 PM
96

Most men in their 50's don't even compare to the way she looks now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:09 PM
25

I actually got the affection and loyalty of my narc ex's black lab. She ended up sleeping at my feet when I started sleeping on the couch for the last half of the relationshit. Before that, she slept in the bedroom with us. He hated it. I treated her better than he did. It was a shame I couldn't take her with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:29 PM
62

Years ago, I was with a dog owning narc for a couple of years. He made a point of saying that because she was there first, she was above me in every regard, and when she dies, the new dog he gets will also be above me. He made a joke about locking a dog and a wife in a trunk of a car for a few hours on a hot summer's day, open the trunk, and guess who's happy to see you. I found his sense of humor really disturbing. I feel sorry for the dogs they're using to triangulate with. They're just mere o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:25 PM
31

I wonder what level of mental gymnastics and self gaslighting it took for his mom to write that about her son after reading through his epic mantrum. I'd be mortified if I carried, gave birth to, nourished, nurtured, and released this pathetic predatory scrote into the wild. He doesn't want an escort because he can't slowly erode her self esteem in the same way that he can with an ongoing relationship or situationship. Scrote mentions he's sooooo successful while complaining about women wanting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:51 PM
64

What? No. It's bad enough with successful sperm carrying bad genetic material. This is one slice of science we don't need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:39 AM
11

https://www.16personalities.com/ deleted first time because I kinda second guessed the link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:14 PM
80

There are many ways to empower one's self. Self-objectification ain't it, sis. Anything that panders to men is still supporting the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:48 AM
30

He's a cuckoo bird. Parasitizing using his own offspring to foist onto someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:52 PM
5

Excuse me while I laugh myself into an early grave. Seriously what did I just read? I don't even think that the most hardcore pickme will sign up for this gold digging, life-force digging scrote. What a pathetic loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:50 PM
68

I'm seeing so many scrotes in the comments sections of the Gabby Petito case on social media saying that she was "the abusive one" and she was "mentally ill" and pickmes saying that MeNz gEt AbUsEd ToOoOo. Those comments further solidifies my belief that most men are trash and there's always a willing army of pickmes to rush to the defense of abusive scrotes. I'm betting that she was either trying to break up with him, or that he's been needling her for weeks up until that point and she was defe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:44 PM
50

Oh that is just fucking gross 🤮. The day I'm referred to as a "cum bucket" or something similarly derogatory is the day he's packing his shit and walking out the door. I used to be a pickme like that (accepting these gross nicknames in my early 20s). Now I cringe every time I remember that I wore that shit like a badge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:30 PM
12

That's a high genetic risk to take not going to a clinic. Sperm donors are thoroughly and ruthlessly screened to avoid hereditary problems such as developmental or physical disability, cancer risk, heart conditions, mental illnesses such as Schizophrenia (about a 12% chance) etc. Also, she risks being tied to a scrote for the rest of her life because of family law, he may turn around and decide to use the child as a gateway to accessing her. Plus men lie about STI status all the time. The price …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:25 PM
9

It's not worth it. If he wanted to, he would have. He didn't. The only reason he went to couples counseling was when he feared losing what your mother did for him to keep his life on easy mode. He only did it out of panic, not because he wanted to change. Whether it was split rent, guaranteed sex, cooking, cleaning, being a free therapist, he just didn't want to lose those perks in life. The way a man treats his wife and mother of his children is an outline for what he wants for his daughters an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:04 PM
22

Yeah. A fucking race car bed. At what, like age 30? My oldest son asked for a "big boy" bed at 4. This scrote hasn't matured past toddlerhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 02:37 PM
61

If the door is open just a crack, they'll come busting through it like the kool-aid man. No, you weren't insecure about that scrote showing off pictures of women on his lap or bringing up hypothetical situations. If you sent him one of you sitting in some other dude's lap, he'd have a meltdown. He was triangulating you. That's not insecurity, that's a natural response to betrayal and abuse. It can make you insecure in the end, but that's what scrotes want. And these men will blab on about women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:36 PM
17

Good people don't do bad things "every so often". There are people who feed the homeless or work for a charity who talk shit about the marginalized clients they serve. Those are not good people. That is a prop and a mask, and usually that means they are up to more nefarious shit at home. There is no gray. This whole "don't be a black and white thinker" is gaslighting on a grand scale. There's no gray scrotes. Scrotes are scrotes, and HVM are HVM. HVM don't succeed in most areas but fail in some.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:15 PM
5

The audacity is off the charts with that radio show. Ghosting is mostly due to fear of rejecting an unhinged scrote in person. Our lives and health are at stake when most men lash out, either verbally or physically when rejected. Women have lost their lives for refusing to give out their phone number. Ghosting is one of the many ways in which we must protect ourselves. And the audacity of those hosts to guilt a woman into endangering her life makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:05 PM
8

It's easy to explain. You see, we're supposed to be bipedal incubator sex robots who cook, clean, take care of children, and listen without and back talk, and worse, be a walking punching bag, and also not cost men a dime, or better yet, make a profit for men. We're not allowed to have needs, goals, aspirations, or emotions lest we're labeled a "defective device". We're dehumanized to the point where we're not allowed to have our own thoughts or opinions. This shit makes men really hard to love …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:28 PM
18

It's easier for men to wank and play video games all day and mooch off of some unsuspecting woman than it is for them to finish post secondary education. Not to mention that men who fail their courses can succeed on par or better in the workforce than women with top grades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:20 PM
97

Hiking "accidents" are becoming more and more common. This happened to a woman in our town earlier this year. Everyone suspects the husband, evidence is strong, but the police force isn't doing anything about it. We've had several missing women with their cars found on the side of the road, their bodies turn up, but "no foul play" was suspected. Meanwhile there's reports of this silver van and two scrotes in it trying to slowly run women into a small ditch, the cops were called, they talked to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:13 PM
28

Sis, quit blaming yourself. Snooping on your man once in a while is necessary. Would you really marry someone you don't fully know? The only reason it's not "socially acceptable" is that we're in a society that loves keeping women in the dark and allows men to cheat unchecked and for women to go into marriages blind. The anti snooping discourse takes the blame off of the perpetrator (your ex) for planning an exit and break up, and possible infidelity, and making you feel like you're just the abs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:50 PM
3

Gaming in and of itself isn't a red flag, but gaming addiction is. How he reacts to losing is. I'm somewhat of a casual gamer myself, but it doesn't eat up a lot of my time, money, aspirations, family, or self care. Does he rage when he loses? Does he act aggro at other gamers? How many hours does he play per week? What kind of games is he into? How much money does he spend on gaming? Does he practice good hygiene and self care? Where is he in his career for his age? Does he have any career aspi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:24 PM
42

Canada here as well. It's a slow burn for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:36 PM
46

Canada here; Overall assessment, you'd think Canada was progressive. It really isn't. Overall this country gets a C- grade. Access to contraceptives, I would give an A- to. It's easy to access, and completely covered for low income women thanks to our universal Healthcare. Abortion access, C+. We could do better. The clinics are few and far between and rudimentary at best. Yes, it is covered by our Healthcare, but most are inaccessible to remote areas. In the workplace, well, I've been fired onc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:33 PM
20

I don't carry weapons, but I have martial arts training. I'm also 6'2" with a decent amount of muscle mass. I can weaponize just about anything on my person if at any point I'm outmatched. I carry a rectangular vape about half the size of a pack of cigarettes. A knock or two in the noggin with one of the corners would be enough to stun them in most cases. Just avoid the temples because that could potentially k---. Corners of cellphones will also work. Look up pressure points as well, any decent …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:14 PM
9

I am keeled over laughing about what that would look like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:56 PM
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No reproductive rights? No sex then, scrotes. Married or otherwise, we need a sex strike until this law is repealed. The costs (both financial and health-wise) associated with female contraceptives are prohibitive. There are little to no consequences for men if they decide to dip out on a pregnancy or child, which is why there weren't many men at these protests, further proving that most men are indeed trash. If we're regulated to being livestock to be bred half to d--th, then we'll just need to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:55 PM
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I'd rather be explaining why I defended myself with an illegal weapon than dead My grandfather always told me that it's better to be tried by 12 than carried by 6. He drilled it in our heads about defending ourselves now, and explaining it to a judge later. That self-preservation is more important than any law against it. These anti self-defense laws (Canada) seem to be disproportionate weilded against women. I've known men who've used self defense and the cops didn't bat an eye. Every woman I k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:00 PM
12

Damn those are depressing reads. This info needs to be out there. My heart just breaks for these women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:45 PM
31

He hates her. A man invests in what he sees as valuable. A ring is for life. Any man should be embarrassed if the ring his partner was wearing was tarnished metal with a hazy, worn out stone. It's almost as if men are competing in the cheapskate category of olympics. We get it, scrotes, you're broke and you hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:40 PM
14

"I'll help you find your side chick while I stay home and be 100% faithful and d-e a little more on the inside, pick me! pick me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:46 PM
52

Chef here. It's heart attack sauce. The sheer amounts of butter, cream, and cheese would probably raise your LDL a few points instantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:43 PM
88

Yup. They're whole argument about prostitution being needed because it will "reduce r--e and violence against women" goes out the window. A lot of women in prostitution get r----d and k---ed. And the whole "providing sex to inc-ls" myth goes out the window as well. Most sex buyers are either married or dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:36 PM
101

Fucking hell. Cops don't do shit about stalking and harassment as it is. How many women's lives is it going to take before they make apps like this illegal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:20 PM
71

I'm willing to bet she never received any expensive/elaborate gifts from him. He cheaped out on her ring. He spends more on a mobile phone for his mother than he spent on that ring for sure. He buys himself brand name clothing. I'm betting he hasn't bought her a stitch of clothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:06 AM
182

So he's basically starving his family for having the "audacity" to send him grocery shopping. A hurricane lasts a couple days. The aftermath can last anywhere from a week to a couple months, depending on the category and damage done. It took a long ass time to rebuild after Hurricane Katrina. All the shit he bought will last less than a week. She asked for non-perishable, he bought super perishable. No one can be that stupid. He truly hates his family. I'm glad his daughter is just done with his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:58 PM
19

Damn. This is a truly heartbreaking example of how low scrotes can go. Rock bottom has a basement. This needs to be a post of its own, I'd definitely be up for a longer, more detailed read. How men of different values react to grief/death/illness is an important thing to vet for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:05 AM
45

Where's the time when these scrotes won't even change a diaper let alone watch the baby for an hour? She's too busy bogged down with housework, tippy-toeing around scrote's roller coaster moods and jealousy from attention given to baby, chained to the kitchen making meals for the scrote playing video games and/or wanking it in the next room. If she's working outside the home in addition to her domestic slavery, fucked if there is even 30 minutes for a quick workout. The audacity is off the chart…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:47 PM
67

Same situation here in Canada. It ends up costing more to treat uterine, bladder, and vaginal prolapse than it would to cover pelvic rehabilitation therapy after birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:35 PM
418

The amount of men who leave women during cancer or illness compared to women who leave speaks volumes about this double standard. Women get backlash and vitriol spewed their way if they leave an ailing husband (which is rare). Men get empathy and support if they leave their ailing wives (which is common), being called "strong for sticking it out as long as he could", which really isn't that long before they have a replacement lined up. I know someone who works in oncology who can confirm the sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:22 PM
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The amount of upvotes on the original thread is disturbing. I'm betting there's a lot of scrotes and pickmes congratulating him on his "honesty and bravery" for writing that shit down, and consoling/commiserating with him. They hate us for not having children. They hate us for having children. They hate us for the physical, financial, social, and psychological sacrifices we make for having children. They hate us if we stay home, they hate us if we go back to work. Guard your wombs, sisters. Scro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:57 AM
30

Damn, the first pair of men's pants I bought, the pocket space was amazing. I could slide my phone to the bottom of the pocket and I actually had to go wrist deep to retrieve it. I haven't carried a purse in years. Men's clothing is consistent in sizing, comfortable, and durable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:17 PM
252

Eww so much to unpack here. Antivaxxer and conspiracy theorist, check. Advocates for preying on impoverished women from an economically disadvantaged country, check. Putting in as little effort as humanly possible, check. Cheap/broke POS, check. Racist (his little bit on how Asian men and Mexican makes "Filipino" children had me WTFing into next week), check. Using the term "fertile vaginas", just fucking gross. It's a sure win to bet your life savings that this scrote has never given a woman an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:32 AM
106

Our incels wouldn't make it a day there. No alcohol, no p--n, no weed, no video gaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:25 PM
52

MILs are a huge impediment to their DILs. Women in those countries are usually brainwashed into giving their sons everything, even to the detriment of her daughters. It's even worse for her sons' wives. Many women are bullied into *self ending if they don't play the perfect slave for the entire family and fork over every last penny to her husband/husband's family. In some places in the world, a woman is not allowed to care for her elderly parents, she's to take care of her elderly in-laws instea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:24 PM
54

That's a classic neg, really. And it's also very telling; women and dogs are interchangeable to this scrote. It's a way to weed out women with even a shred of remaining self-esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:06 PM
50

Welp, now I know my plans for this weekend 🛸🛸🛸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:44 PM
1

So this broke scrote is calling spending under $200 at a high end restaurant "emptying out your life savings" 🤣. Again with the "free meal" trope. We spend much more in money getting ready than they spend on an average date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:15 PM
5

It's impossible to be sexually attracted to a grown ass man who acts like a tyrant toddler, which a lot of men do act like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:05 PM
35

What is he, a freaking toddler? "Ewww bwoccoli 🤮 me want burger fwies!!!". This is another example of shifting goalposts and gaslighting. Nothing she'll ever cook, no amount of effort she puts in will ever be enough for this scrote. My NVX husband was just like this. I am a chef, for crying out loud, and he'd gaslight me about my "shitty" cooking, then blamed me for the money he "had" to spend on takeout. He blamed me for his weight problem, blood pressure, high LDL cholesterol, and pre-diabetes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:54 PM
3

Men making these comments in support of the talibans should be charged with treason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:07 PM
4

What in the smooth brained shit did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:05 PM
8

That particular scrote brought up his goal of having a family one day and that women didn't want to settle down and have kids anymore, and that he'd prefer his future wife be a stay at home mom. He then decided to blame women for the falling fertility rate and brought on this whole xenophobic rant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:53 PM
134

D. Broke af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:44 PM
1366

Gear up with a hazmat suit while throwing out the whole man. You might accidentally touch the scrote. That's unsanitary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:30 PM
250

Scrote quotes inbound; "You know how hot girls know they look good and can get any guy they want? I'm like the guy version of that.". Followed by me walking out on the date. "Girls should come with a height limit. It's unnatural for them to be over 5'10". I might make an exception for you." Again, my 6'2" ass walked out on the date. "We wouldn't have an immigration problem if women stayed home and had more children." Yeah, noped right out of there. Racism, xenophobia, and misogyny all wrapped up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:53 PM
49

The "wall" is when the brain is fully developed and capable of making better decisions. It's also the age where people start to make some serious career advancements and financial gain. The age of the "wall" has been lowered to 25 in the past decade. I'm in my 30s and still get a shitload of male attention. This wall is a lie, just trying to scare women into marrying and popping out kids for any scrote before they even get a chance to actually live life. They know damn well women are oppressed. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:31 PM
36

They'll shag a ham and cheese sandwich if they are desperate enough. Male attention is abundant and of low value. Tried OLD years ago for like a month. Never again. You know they swipe on everyone when they are taken aback by your height (6'2", literally was the first thing on my bio). After going through a few first dates, I gave up on the cesspool that is OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:22 PM
60

Ah yes, the sonsbands. They have the type of mother who will stand behind her precious prince even if he's the most abusive scrote on the planet. She'll either flat out deny the abuse is happening or she'll convince the woman that's she's at fault for "pushing (her) little angel over the edge". Been there, done that, will never date a momma's boy again. Even if he's not abusive, he will always side with his mother. Many of these mothers will convince their sons that their wives aren't "good enou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:06 PM
62

Funny how men are "visual creatures" when it comes to gawking at women and underage girls, but are completely blind to housework and the fact that their toddler has been wearing the same crap-filled diaper for hours now. I'm guessing "super progressive about race" translates into pornsick fetishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:29 PM
84

Laws without teeth are not laws. Anything that is barely prosecuted or not prosecuted at all is effectively legal despite the fancy writing. So, in a lot of cases, r--e, spousal h---cide, and violence against women is basically legal. What has been made illegal though is carrying pepper spray, carrying self defense implements, or using physical self defense techniques 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:22 PM
76

Then they complain about being "just a paycheck". Well, scrote, if you did things like actually be a father and cook for and feed your kids, change their diapers, bathe them, take them to a park, teach them life skills like how to clean up after yourself, wash dishes, do laundry, and act like a partner towards your wife instead of treating her like a free bangmaid servant, actually take her on dates away from the kids, encourage her to fulfill her own dreams and desires, maybe you'll be viewed a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:54 PM
26

With the way this scrote wrote it, he probably reminded his wife that he could have cheated and had several opportunities, but didn't (though I highly doubt the veracity of his claim). It's a type of verbal abuse designed to bring down the woman's self esteem and to keep her mentally "competing" with other women in order to keep him around and feel "lucky" he "chose" her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:46 PM
37

Which is why I love FDS. Most online spaces are male dominated and male centric, and previously women only spaces often get infiltrated and moderated by scrotes. We have bots and a strong group of mods here, thankfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:39 PM
58

Liking a band with a male lead singer can set them off as well. My ex tried to completely ban me from listening to music because he was so insecure over male singers and accused me of cheating with them. This type of projection goes to show that if they could get a chance with the Insta models they follow, they'd dump their gf or wife in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:35 PM
31

Lord this reminds me of my NVX. I'm older than I look, and one of the things he used to say is that my face was my only redeeming quality (hated my height and frame, 6'2" and a size 10 when I'm down to my bones due to eating disorder) because I "still have that cute little girl face".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:22 PM
10

Absolutely no regret. I had a legal change of name almost 5 years ago (trauma response to my old name, changed first, middles, and last). I only have Facebook now for true friends and for in-laws, and no connection to my old name, so I have no problem with unwanted hoover attempts by scrote exes. I deleted my original Facebook so they couldn't link it through the old page number via script. No pics of me in Facebook, neither. That is all. No Instagram, no snap chat, no Tik Tok, no LinkedIn (I ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:10 PM
56

He's looking for a financial retirement plan, a free old age caregiver, emotional punching bag, and an underage looking bangmaid. He's been vetted and rejected by women his own age for a good reason. He doesn't want a partner, he wants a servant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:29 PM
76

Antiperspirant, a healthy diet and 120 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity per week, a skincare routine, daily showers and brushing teeth, styling hair, and a good wardrobe can go a long way for a dude trying to improve his physical appearance. Nah, it's easier for them to type vitriolic statements for hours on a keyboard than it is to slip in 45 minutes of effort into self care and hygiene per day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:15 PM
97

They feel their slave class slipping away. They want a woman who makes just enough money to cover 50/50 rent, food, bills, kids, but not a dime more to leave when shit hits the fan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:04 PM
49

Who's gonna tell 'em that underpants get soiled when one's been h-t with a mack truck? The "hold it in" mechanism is kinda the last thing on your body's list of things to do when dealing with intense physical trauma, and the underpants are the first thing to go, so I'd be wearing underpants I don't mind losing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:46 PM
69

Right on the money. When I was going through really dark times years ago, I always took into consideration how I'd be found and by whom, to minimize the trauma of an unconventional ending. Men have a way of making it gruesome and public; jumping (building, bridge, or into traffic), n--se in a tree in a park or bridge, messy g-nshot to the head, etc. They don't care if children witness or find them. And usually their reasoning is a bit different then women's; they're in the midst of huge legal tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:40 PM
112

I have crippling anxiety and a major social phobia. It borders on complete agoraphobia with sensory processing issues. I've never expected (or even asked) anyone to do my grocery shopping for me, or to handle my day to day shit. Life goes on, and so do I. I'm in therapy, and on meds. I'm willing to bet this LVM was doing a shit test on her to see how much emotional labour he can heap onto her right off the bat. Also willing to bet a lot of scrotes fake mental illness (just like they fake incompe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:55 AM
55

If he can't afford gas, he sure as hell can't afford condoms. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:46 AM
62

They don't bother reading bios. They basically cast a wide ass net by swiping on every woman's profile they come across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:46 PM
90

Well written post. I'm sick of seeing blame shifting. Some men are master manipulators. It's not like they walk around with the world "abuser" tattooed on their foreheads. Abuse is a slow and insidious process. It's not like they show exactly who they are on date one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:43 PM
48

I don't understand why the flight attendants were suspended. Do we not have the right to be safe at our workplaces? This scrote put everybody at risk, on a plane, several miles above the earth's surface. There's no knowing how much this could have escalated. Duct taping him to the seat is the only correct response. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:48 PM
35

He is there for a couple of reasons; one, he wants the free emotional labour and two, to be predatory and try to pick up women. Being inclusive in a women's only group doesn't mean including men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:38 PM
52

"Hey there hot stud, I see you wiped your ass all by yourself! What a good boy you are! Good job!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:32 PM
87

Ah yes. The hiking "accident". Too many of those lately. They don't think we have the third option; ghost, block and delete. Surprise, scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:21 PM
6

Right? I couldn't imagine being sexually attracted to that. I see so many pickmes proudly boasting how they raised X amount of kids and a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:19 AM
8

Maybe also a tax break as she has an additional dependent on her hands as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:09 AM
106

Yup. There are men out their that'll quit their jobs and become homeless to avoid child support payments. Then they'll try to move in on a woman for free rent and use the old "my b---- of an ex wife took me to the cleaners and left me homeless waaaaaaahhh sniff boohoo take me in". Even shadier is that some construction, paving, and roofing companies are willing to pay men under the table to help them skip out on child support. That's exactly how my "father" dodged paying. He quit his higher payi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:23 PM
9

They peak in their 50s, alright. Peak baldness, peak beer guts, peak body hair, peak slouching humpback, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:18 PM
10

Men understand the concept of consent when it comes to their own bodies, but can't wrap their heads around a woman's right to consent or deny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:16 PM
138

Funny, because without women driving technology, they wouldn't have a computer or smartphone to whine and complain about women on. History has been Y-washed. Women were the major brains behind technology that men took credit for. For the longest time, women were blocked from winning the Nobel prize. It was a woman who did the calculations (and under great pressure) to land us on the moon. Some great minds were lost to marriage and domestic servitude and never had a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:07 PM
17

Hiking "accidents" are increasing. It has the highest amount of plausible deniability and scrotes are catching on. Sick of your wife and don't want to pay alimony and child support? Off the cliff. K--- for sport? Let's take her on a date up a mountain in the hot desert and "abandon" her to the heat. Peak depravity. This cop got punished for lying. Not for what should at the very least be negligent homicide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:53 PM
56

Some men actually have the audacity to expect sex after springing 3 whole dollars for a Timmies coffee. They complain about the costs of dates while completely ignoring the actual social, financial, career, educational, retirement, mental and physical health costs of marriage and reproduction borne fully by women especially when married to one of these whiny ass scrotes. They want all of that for a 2 can dine for $9.99 deal at McD's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:43 PM
22

Neathderthals are thought to be more civilized than the scrotes of today. They had respect for the dead (burials) and took care of their elders and disabled (bone records of neathderthal amputees and healed fractures/horrible arthritis survived into their old age). Lumping them in with scrotes is an insult to their species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:00 PM
20

There's a lot to be said about a man who never tells or shows his wife he loves her. A lot of men actively choose not to do or say anything nice for their wives or forever gfs to keep their self esteem low and anxiety high. They'll instead do "cute" little things like that video to make women grateful for the breadcrumbs they occasionally toss out. The actions/inactions of NVM benefits all men as it lowers the general effort they put in and lowers the expectations of women. That's why we have pi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:45 PM
48

Either way, they still dont view women and girls as actual people. They see their daughters and wives as property to protect from other men, and other men's daughters and wives as disposable consumable objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:35 PM
221

So she owes this scrote her life for a dinner costing around $25? They truly believe we have no right to choose our partners or our life paths. She was probably in a fawn response with this guy during the dinner, which explains the smiling and laughing. No way of knowing how he'd react if she rejected him on the spot. I've had to tee-hee my way out of uncomfortable and possibly threatening situations before when fight or flight didn't seem like options with successful outcomes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:31 PM
89

Yup. There's isn't a magic switch that goes off it the brain at LeGaL aGe (however young-ass age that may be depending on which area of the world you're in), usually 19 in the west. The brain gradually finishes developing starting in the mid 20s and is usually done in the late 20s. I've done some really stupid shit in my 20s. When I look back, I feel like there was almost a barrier or a blockage to higher wisdom and mental functioning. It made me vulnerable to older predatory men. This is why a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:23 PM
19

Wow. Pornsick much? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:47 AM
261

That's not a relationship. It's a r@pe-lationship. Consent is to be given open and freely. Anything else is r@pe by definition. Guilting, causing fear and insecurity, coercing, threatening to cheat and her giving in to the pressure is not consensual sex. It's burdened agency. Edit; not sure why the blue words, not an intended link, just trying to blur out a word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:04 PM
58

Right? And there's only one "right" answer these scrotes are looking for from a woman; physical touch. Time and attention? Clingy. Acts of service? Free labour. Gifts? Gold digger. As soon as the words "love language" flies out, I'm no longer interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:39 PM
256

Ah yes, the love languages 🙄 or how to guilt women into accepting 1/5 of the bare minimum. Something tells me this scrote was looking for "physical touch".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:18 PM
69

She should be able to, yes. Will they do anything about it? Sadly, probably not with the current narrative about p--n being JuSt FaNtAsY and NoRmAl. A lot of social workers are from a generation of libfem sex-pos brainwashing. I really hope that she contacts CPS and she gets a good worker on her side. Men like this shouldn't be allowed around children. This is exactly why p--n is an absolute deal breaker for me. It escalates. It gets more depraved. It eventually gets acted out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:40 PM
31

He's a lazy bum who wants to live off of his wife. I highly doubt the veracity of his story that she wants him to buy expensive money sinks such as boats or aircraft. She's his retirement plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:15 PM
63

Kids actually cost more the older they get. Have you seen a teenager's appetite? They can eat one out of house and home on a growth spurt. My oldest son is 11 (12 soon) and already 5'6". They still grow out of clothes quickly, and clothing is more expensive. Tuition isn't cheap to save up for, laptops are a requirement for school starting in grade 6 now. I am hoping she divorces him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:09 PM
56

That's scrotes for ya. When called out by an actual therapist, they will try to find one that agrees with him. If they're told by multiple therapists that they're in the wrong, surely the merry band of scrotes on reddit will stroke his ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:03 PM
4

🤣🤣🤣☠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:29 PM
82

This flies through the minds of mediocre and ugly men alike thinking they deserve 10/10 runway models. Delusional scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 12:56 AM
89

That was pulled on me before about 9 months into a relationship. I left the party after about 20 minutes alone and being shooed away by him when he was chatting it up with a few women. When asked why I left and him calling me rude for leaving, I told him I knew nobody there and he obviously didn't want to introduce me to anyone he thought was important in his life. His explanation was that he wasn't sure if I was "the one" yet, so I told him that, plot twist, he's not the one for me, blocked and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:42 PM
122

I'd rather use steel wool as a loofah and roll down a hill of fiberglass than to be on a room full of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:33 PM
24

Excuse me while I lose my lunch over this 🤢🤮 I don't know who can sleep with a guy who needs this sort of babysitting. That's just repulsive. And the level of pickme you'd have to be to give out these rewards, just nah. ETA; imagine being the kid stumbling across this pic of daddy-baby on the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:30 PM
7

I've always had a fear of hiking dates as well. Too many women go missing in the forest after walking in there with a man. A woman in my area was found deceased in the woods up in Hope, BC after her long time husband took her out there and returned home without her. He's sus af, and the cops still won't arrest him. I fear getting in a car with a man I'm dating unless I've known him for a good 6 months, let alone going to an isolated area. If I hike, I'd rather go it alone. I love the forest, jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:50 PM
11

This further solidifies my belief that men should not be allowed in a position of power over people in precarious and vulnerable situations, example; teachers, professors, trauma therapists, OBGYN, crisis counselors, police officers, womens' services, family court judges, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:42 PM
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You can actually opt out of the redditcare bot once you get a message from one, so they can only do this to you once. One of our sisters actually had no other avenue to be contacted, so the scrote actually spent money (silver award) in order to message her 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:25 PM
8

It's almost as if scrotes have an ongoing competition of just how miserable they can make their SOs. Scrotes refer to men who don't abuse their wives and do the bare minimum as "simps".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:59 PM
80

Not surprised in the least. Any innovation that comes along, scrotes will always, always find a way to weaponize it. Smart home? Welcome to your high tech smart prison. More inclusive DV laws? Have fun with your new criminal record when you defend yourself against your abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:51 PM
112

A lot of men are drama incarnate. They smash gaming systems over losing, abuse their SO if a televised ball lands on the wrong side of the field too many times, ditto for when they have a bad day at work and can't yell at their boss, turn on a dime when they don't get sex for being "nice", get into bar fights or participate in road rage, freak out if their fast food is taking too long or for a small mistake, rage at cashiers over pricing, the list goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:42 PM
56

My husband is a year and a half younger than I am. Before that, I fell for the age gap myth that those men were more mature, ready to settle down, and stable 🤡. My husband is the first man I've dated who I'm actually attracted to, who doesn't have ED, and who cares about mutual sexual satisfaction. I get along with him on an intellectual level and we're at the same stage of our lives. I wouldn't date at an age gap of more than 3 years personally, but so far so good with a slightly younger man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:36 PM
89

Exactly. I know someone (in-law) who is well-educated, well read, really high IQ, top in his field and well advanced in his career. He has the emotional intelligence of a rock and about as much empathy as a pile of burning garbage. Most condescending, psychologically abusive excuse for a human being I've seen in a very long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:28 PM
55

I did see that, actually. I'm so happy there's a revolution going on where women are we refusing to be incubators and free elder care slaves! Not to mention that girls from low income families there are forced to work in sweat shops and send all the money home to pay for their brothers' education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:11 PM
67

Had a scrote pull this once. Quit his job, said he was looking, wasn't, and pulled the "you can't leave, you'd be heartless to make me homeless". Well, I left. And wouldn't you know it, he moved in with a pickme barb the builder on the first of the month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:06 PM
68

You know these scrotes aren't gonna leave because of the uncertainty of finding another woman who's willing to put up with their crap. Add in 50/50 or free rent, these scrotes won't give up that gravy train. They publicly humiliate their SO because they love a free punching bag in addition to everything else they're digging. They do this because they want to lower their SO's self esteem, thus lower her chances of leaving due to being stuck in a cycle of self blame and isolation. Edit; corrected …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:02 PM
124

Yup. All of this. I was in debt with shit credit before I was even 19. My family treated me like a cash cow since I got a paper route, and later my after school jobs and this continued until I got my first bachelor suite at 17. Their excuse? They had to pay for me as a child so I "owed them" for the food, rent, clothing, and shelter. This created a major psychological crisis for me and had a lot of horrible ideation and attempts in my teenaged years to try to "rectify burdening (my) parents". My…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:25 PM
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I live in Canada. Our Universal Healthcare isn't what many think it is. Cancer can still run up a hefty bill, so can psychiatric care, disability, assistive devices, medication, reconstructive surgery, etc. Women's health is way too underfunded here (yeah, stores holding fundraisers for gynecological exam rooms in hospitals is a thing here, so are fundraisers for women's mental health services) and only 1/3 of our hospitals have maternity wards. Every little bit helps though. At least here you d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:06 PM
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A man not having a skincare routine and sunscreen is a huge deal breaker for me. Most men start looking like hammered shit in their early 30's these days with all the smoking, drinking, drug use, sun exposure, and shitty diets. Most women on the other hand, age so much slower. It turns out that the proverbial "wall" we supposedly hit is when our brains are fully developed in our mid to late 20's and that we don't suddenly magically transform into an old "granny" on our 27th birthday. The patriar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:31 PM
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Are there signs I should look out for when making plans with a man like this? That is your sign, sis. Block, delete, and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:25 PM
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Also, perhaps more than 500 extra calories are needed because of our bodies prepping for breastfeeding. I was so busy during the first few months of my children's lives, I legit forgot to eat for a few days at a time very often. Extra fat stores are necessary for lactation. Human milk has a larger percentage of fat in it compared to other mammals because our large human brains need it to grow at a rapid rate. We're talking millions of neuron connections per second fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:19 PM
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Yup. It's not as if they can't distinguish between grocery items. They don't pull this shit at their jobs. They only do it to push more domestic labour onto women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:46 PM
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I came here to say this. It looks like something I'd paste together for my 3 year old son to help with groceries, not for a grown ass man. I have a feeling men screw up the groceries on purpose (feigned incompetence) so that the wife either gives up and shops herself or has to do this lovely preschool inspired art project. Either way, it creates labour and inconvenience for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:40 PM
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Exactly. I was so sick for so long when I was pregnant with my daughter, I lost a shit ton of weight and ended up looking emaciated afterwards. My scrote ex husband still commented on any food I did get to eat in between bouts of vomiting back up even water despite him being a hairy short beach ball on legs. I had to sneak in foods behind his back. He still had the audacity to gaslight me about my postpartum bodyweight when everyone was complimenting me on it asking how I "snapped back". Turns o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:35 PM
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I thought for the majority of my life that I was asexual. Turns out giving unattractive (abusive) men a chance had me more dried up than the sun-facing side of mercury at its closest point in orbit. I'm with a HV husband (so far, vetting is life long), and I'm just now discovering in these past few years that my libido is actually high. If anything were to happen to him or he turns out LV and I dump him, I don't think I'd risk dating again and my libido would probably fall off the cliff again du…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:24 PM
158

We all know how these scrotes would react to a wife or girlfriend fantasizing about his tall, fit friends who still have a full head of hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:15 PM
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The countdown begins early on. I was 8 friggin years old when I started getting unwanted sexual comments about my body, and my mother blamed it on me saying that I developed too early (as if I willed my body to do this 🙄). All we can do to combat this is to teach our daughters and our friends daughters, nieces, sisters, etc that this is NOT okay. That we live in a perverted society with double speak on feminism. To make p--n consumption shameful again. To change the current narrartive on panderi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:16 PM
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The best way is through demonstration and if you have a husband, he has to be HV for this to work. Who generally does the housework? If he sees mom running the vacuum, hunched over the sink doing dishes, folding laundry, scrambling to cook dinner while dad comes home and puts his feet up after leaving his muddy workbooks on the carpet, he's going to assume it's "women's work". Who attends the parent teacher conferences or runs them to the doctor? How are the chores divided among children? I have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:18 PM
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That wasn't a date, it was a robbery and abuse. He grifted a free meal and ride (both ways) and knew he was going to ruin her birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:22 PM
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Wow. Just Wow. I feel so bad for her, with a dash of second hand embarrassment for posting it to Facebook. I really hope people start ripping on him in the comments section. A cheap ring at Walmart costs less than $20. This broke scrote stooped even lower than most do. I bet him and his buddies are taking quite the piss at her expense right now. Shit like this would warrant an epic dumping for the ages from me. I've received (and rejected) a fake ring before, but this is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:02 PM
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The goalposts will always keep shifting for us. One of the biggest plays in the patriarchy; keeping women constantly changing their bodies to unrealistic standards. It is designed to wear us out and cause a sort of battle fatigue to cloud our judgment and set up barriers to leveling up and realizing our worth and that we thrive better alone than we do chained to some scrote. We're objectified to the point where our body parts go in and out of style. We're chopped up visually and separated like p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:21 PM
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It's never good enough for pornsick losers. Been there, trust me. First I was "too fat" for my NVX husband. Cool. I'll bite. So I became underweight. Then I wasn't "curvy enough". Well, shit. So after hospitalization, I got my weight back up into the "healthy" range. Then I was "too fat" for him again. I gave up and mentally checked out. Then I was the "wrong" race for him. Glad that shit is long over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:11 PM
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A few in my experiences; Yes, fingers in mouth is a huge red flag. Pulling hair, hands around throat, trying to pin you down, asks for "struggle" role play, tries to push your boundaries or sticks hands/fingers where you're not comfortable with, calling you derogatory names during sex (b-----, s---, dirty w----, or any variation of those words), any type of slap no matter where, but especially the face, using spit as lube, refuses to go down on you, rough manual stimulation, wants to ejaculate o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:39 PM
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My brother and sister in law does this exactly every Halloween and costume party. He's a big guy, gives zero fucks, secure in his masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:41 PM
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He's a great dad No the fuck he isn't. This warrants a call to CPS and the police. This man is a digusting pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:35 PM
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Male attitudes on periods are part of a good vetting strategy. Tell him when you get it and see how he reacts, better yet, if you're about to go on a date and see if he cancels. Ask him to pick up period supplies (brand, type, and absorbency) and see how he reacts and if he brings the right ones. For a natural biological process, it sure stirs up a lot of disgust and misogyny in scrotes. The very same scrotes who can watch slasher flicks without batting an eye. It's a damn shame that there's sti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:32 PM
16

Welp up comes my breakfast 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:47 PM
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If he was gaslighting her about a cloth that was in his fucking hand, I doubt she was moaning in her sleep. Even if she was, that gives him no fucking right to do such a thing. What a POS 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:44 PM
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Feminism that panders to and serves men is oppression of women dressed in a fancy pink label. I choose my friends carefully. Brag about watching p--n with your bf? Blocked. Say prostitution and only fans is "empowering"? Blocked. Victim blame or shaming? Blocked. Our feminist predecessors fought tooth and nail, risked life and limb for us to be independent of men and be able to better our lives for equal pay and opportunities. Hell, I know women who lived in a time when they couldn't own a bank …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:33 PM
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I was hoping to reach my mid forties and be left the hell alone. I'm in mid 30's and still get harassed and bombarded by scrotes. So much for the magical wall we supposedly hit at 30. I'm starting to see this is never going to go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:17 PM
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You'd be surprised at the amount of men who wouldn't even defend their wife or girlfriend. I've been harassed by randoms and my NVX would just walk away and I'd be left to fend for myself, then blamed later when we got home for "inviting" the harassment. This has happened with a few LVM/NVM guys I've dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:57 PM
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His comment on that was sheer pornsickness with a dash of cowardice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:49 PM
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I hope he comes home to the locks changed and his stuff on the porch with a stack of divorce papers on top. He doesn't love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:32 PM
97

Try mentioning how hot you think his friends are. He'd have an epic mantrum meltdown. Funny how they expect us just to swallow infidelity and look the other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:28 PM
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The scrote doesn't even know how to use proper grammar. He's in no position to even make a suggestion, let alone a demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:44 AM
74

I've been straight up gaslit about pregnancy and childbirth. My first birth, my MIL and her precious little sonsband were telling me the "shut up" during labour and that my expressing pain was a "slap to the face of every woman on the planet", and that my sounds were scaring her precious little prince. I was 18 and scared. He was a 31 year old creep who couldn't handle any attention not paid to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:13 PM
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Years of grooming, media and society constantly taking swipes at our self-esteem, and conditioning. We're told not to be "shallow" and to give broke, old, unattractive men a "chance". We've been brainwashed since childhood to accept age gaps as normal. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:53 PM
71

Men can be unemployed losers and still have the fucking audacity to control the finances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:49 PM
58

Damn. Alcoholic broke scrote told on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:58 PM
56

It's amazing how much growth you can achieve without someone's dusty ass son stressing you out, sabotaging your efforts, and holding you back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:05 PM
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So, she ordered a small pasta and a water out of guilt over price, I'm guessing. This broke meal grifter orders what I'm guessing is the most expensive menu item plus probably an alcoholic beverage for himself. Makes her split it down the middle to subsidize his meal. She's afraid to speak up because she doesn't want to be seen as a "gold digger", as many women are conditioned to believe for wanting the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:57 PM
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Goes to show you it's not about the one who makes the most money has the "say" in relocating. It's about controlling and isolating the woman. They'll stay in poverty if it means maintaining or taking control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:57 AM
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I hope to see an update where he's your ex. Of course what he's doing is projection. You're leagues above him. Get out asap before he drags you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:18 AM
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I noticed it with my ex husband when he purposely forced himself to hate the music I enjoyed, despite having the exact same taste in music when I met him. I noticed when he became a worse critic about my art/music/body/face than I was. I noticed while going through couples photos and I was smiling while he looked like he held nothing but contempt for me. I noticed when I had to beg him for intimacy and he gave me a "ticket to cheat" (later found out he was extremely pornsick and a cheater). Sinc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:10 AM
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Right? I just don't trust men within leaping distance of me. I've never set out to do this consciously. It has always been in my nature to put a lot of distance between myself and a man, and to always keep my head on a swivel. The things we have to do to keep ourselves safe keep increasing, especially with the exponential rate technology is growing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:11 PM
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Yep. So much so, that it took me a few years removed from abuse to realize I was profoundly depressed and needed to seek therapy. I was so caught up in appeasing scrotes that I had no time nor energy to actually know the depth of my depression. I knew something was wrong, but couldn't quite put a finger on it at the time. Emotional energy is a finite resource. The more of ourselves we give to others, the less we have left to give to ourselves. In a society that has nothing to offer women but the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:37 PM
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Cops have the most audacity. I knew a cop just outside my old friends circle (mutual friend of a friend of mine, met a couple of times at BBQ and beach parties) who contacted me without me or my friends giving out my number. All they need is a name and/or birth date to find your number in a database. They have access via cell phone companies. If they can't get ahold of you, they'll get ahold of someone who knows you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:30 PM
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It depends. I'm a casual gamer myself (no more than about 4 hours per week). It depends. I've never met a guy who plays video games and didn't let it consume his life. There's some sentiment among the male gaming community that if you don't stagnate on a couch/in a computer chair for 12+ hours per day until you develop blood clots in the legs, you're not a "real" gamer. I've never dated a gamer, and I never will. Any grown man I've known as a gamer was emotionally stunted and had the maturity of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:56 PM
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Because he intended on sending this to his wife, I don't really see a divorce happening. Who knows how many times he sent her "not cute" emails about applicants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:46 AM
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I'm very proud of myself. I saw one of my LVM exes yesterday when I was on my way back from an evening walk with my toddler and HVM husband. My anxiety spiked and I felt nauseous. We were walking across a small pedestrian bridge and we were forced to be within 5 feet of each other. I hadn't seen him in years. I didn't let my anxiety show. I didn't engage. It took everything in me not to react in front of him (shake, flip him the bird, tell him off, point him out to my husband, etc). He never rai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:32 PM
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It's pathetic if you really think if it. It's a ball, that landed in the "wrong" area of a field one too many times, and the rage ensues. Over the place a ball lands. So much for the "logical" gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:23 AM
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Right? At the end, I was thinking it was probably written by a 5'4" 🍤🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:48 PM
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I've been asked to cosign by a couple of broke scrotes. My credit at the time was shit anyways (divorce from a financially abusive scrote) so at least I had an excuse to decline. Never cosign for anyone. Doesn't matter who. You don't want to be on the hook for anything. If they need a cosigner, chances are they won't pay it back because they didn't build up their credit or defaulted too many times on previous loans or credit cards. Women are more likely to be stiffed on personal loans to friends…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:48 PM
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And menopause, wage gap, motherhood penalty, domestic slavery upon bearing children for a scrote, single motherhood when scrote cuts and runs, having to flee violence, discrimination in the hiring/firing process, mooched from, the career and social death sentence known as revenge p-rn, avoiding being sexually assaulted or k----d on a date, avoid arrest/jail time/criminal record for defending ourselves, avoid joining the list of missing women and girls, avoid being trafficked as children... yeah,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:36 PM
11

Dale took all of their guns at one point and rendered them all helpless. Lori was a major pickme who verbally put other women down who tried to step up. All of the female characters were re-adapted from the comic book to be weaker and helpless for the live action series. Andrea was a strong woman reduced to a helpless woman who had to be taught how to use her own gun. I stopped the re-watch last night because it was filled with so much of the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:06 PM
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I can't watch a lot of movies new that I view media under an FDS lense. I made the mistake of attempting to re-watch the walking dead series (its been so long that I forgot most of it). It's a dumpster fire of misogyny. Literally the first lines in the pilot is two cops complaining about women. I got through a couple of seasons and it doesn't get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:14 PM
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Trigger warning; mentions of illicit drug use; Wow this just made a couple of date setups by an ex friend make sense to me. I always joked and told her she "sucks at playing cupid" after two shitty guys. I was a pickme back then and still rejected them a week after, they were so bad. One was an alcoholic mechanic who said that schooling would be a waste of time and wanted me to move in with him like right away and that he'd take care of me. This happened a week into dating. I blocked his ass, he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:09 PM
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Right? Scrote, please. The makeup I apply for said date costs more than the 2 can dine for $9.99 deal at your proposed McDate. We already know how much it costs for women to go on a date in money, time, and effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:48 PM
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Yes I have. It was hell on wheels to cancel my membership. I told them why, and that I didn't feel welcome or safe in a gym that tolerates those pigs at the expense of their female customers. It took a few months off fighting and about $500 but I cut ties with them and went to a women's only gym, then Covid hit. Gyms are open again but I don't yet feel comfortable going until after I get my second dose (tomorrow 😃😃😃).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:53 PM
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Hell, a lot of men start looking like hammered shit in their 30's when all that smoking, drinking, drugs, crappy diets, lack of skincare or hygiene start catching up to them. They screw around as the town bike until they're in their 50s looking way worse, then think some young 20-something wants their old fossilized diabetic asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:36 PM
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Dear lordt I'm deceased 🤣☠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:26 PM
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I just loathe sonsbands. I just can't with this Freudian emotionally incestuous married to mom bullcrap with men. These types are utterly spineless, let their mom insult you, cross boundaries, then tell you you're wrong for feeling hurt/angry/annoyed. They'll gaslight you into oblivion, guilt you into becoming mommy's scullery maid, take the piss at you at family gatherings/holidays as a mommy son tag team, etc. And when mommy tells them to ditch you and take the kids with him? He'll happily pac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:15 PM
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Right on the money with this comment! Adding on, do you enjoy things like hiking, fishing, camping, etc? Crohns can and will take that all away. What quality of life would you have together, when limited by it? Does he have a regular caregiver/aid? If not, it could be you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:06 PM
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They look so old that they speak an earlier dialect. Yeah that's pretty gross. The ad below about looking attractive to 10/10 men adds an extra disgusting element to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:58 PM
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Hey congrats and really good checklist! A couple of things though; As for a therapist, go to a female therapist who is trauma informed. Male therapists will usually side with men, or worse, gaslight you into believing it was your fault somehow. A lot of machiavellian types get into psychiatry. There are a few pickme female therapists as well, so if she doesn't align with FDS values, search for a new one. As for a gym, go to a women's only gym. I went to a gym that had a women's only side, men st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:39 PM
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I probably would have been arrested for assault. I've been charged for defending myself twice so far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:38 PM
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He reminds my of my late grandpa in law. His wife was admitted to hospital for flu symptoms. Turned into pneumonia, and complete organ failure (they were in their 90's I believe). She was there for a week before passing, fell into a coma on day 3. He never left her side except to bring her flowers daily. When we'd visit, he was crying and repeatedly asking her if she wanted something to eat, wanted to play cards, and begging her to wake up. The morning she passed, there were 7 flower vases in he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:18 PM
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The last person who spiked my drink as a joke (recovered alcoholic here, scrote friend knew it) got a busted nose. My friends called it an overreaction, I called it an assault on my bodily autonomy and something being forced into my body that I didn't want. Needless to say, I have a new circle of friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:50 PM
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Right? Scrotes don't even come close to comparing to this shining example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:36 PM
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Don't forget bedbugs on his floor mattress and cockroaches from his left out on the counter takeout boxes 🥡🪳🪳🪳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:32 PM
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Red flag; doesn't have at least 6 months worth of expenses in a savings account for emergencies. This is literally the first thing you do when you get your first job. Shit can go sideways real fast. Moreover, have an unexpected expense savings squirreled away. Car breaks down? Bam. Paid. House needs repairs? Done deal. Scrotes don't think ahead like this and expect women to pull up the slack. How many men from wealthier families helped a woman out the same way? Not very many. Poor scrote grew up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:21 PM
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See, where she's going wrong is cutting the meat for him. A good wife pre-chews the meat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:05 AM
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The more you give of yourself that is unearned by him, the more he'll despise you for it. I actually fished out my old Google photos because I have pics of my kids as babies and I found pics of my ex and I when rolling through them. I was smiling, but he looked like he despised me. And I was a major man-pandering pickme back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:33 PM
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He was 40 and she was 33 at the time they got together. She was a single mother after escaping her scrote ex, I backed her up in court. She was single for a few years before getting with him. New scrote was a widower, I went to highschool with his passed away wife (major stroke) and my ex best friend, who also knew each other. Not long after the plug was pulled on his wife he got with her. He stuck his kids with his mother to raise, despite my friend being willing to help raise them. After a whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:26 PM
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They'll always find something to complain/neg about. I had cellulite even when I was really underweight. You could see it in certain lights. They're literally bands of tissue that you can't help the distribution of, and 90% of women have it. I got dragged for strechmarks (because how dare we grow during adolescence or carry a baby). I've had LVM completely do an about face on their preferences when I lost or gained weight. "Thin? I prefer curvy", "curvy? I prefer petite". We get visually hacked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:27 PM
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The same men who rip on women for having full lips will drag women for having thin lips as well. Just can't win 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:19 PM
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More patriarchal brainwashing putting mediocre (or below) men on a pedestal. Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:15 PM
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That is a barrel of yuck right there. She's soooo excited she got picked that she has to, you know, decorate the room with multiple cutouts of this dude's head. I don't hear of bachelor parties where there's cutouts of the bride to be. Nah, the boys are out at a strip club or some hotel partying up with randoms and cheating is often involved for their last night of "freedom". The bride to be is never really even in their minds on stag night. Putting a man on a pedestal like she just hit the jack…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:06 PM
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My ex friend (major pickme) dated (probably still dating) a scrote who hid her away from his friends and family. She got ahold of his mother after begging to be introduced after about 18 months. Turned out he had introduced them to his other gf. Scrote's excuse? My friend was "overweight and not much in the looks department" and was "embarrassed to introduce her to his circle". She stayed with him after all of that. He let her know from the get-go that he found her unattractive but gave her "hel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:28 PM
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He was most likely a pedo trying to groom you. Why else would an adult discuss their sex life with a literal child? I wouldn't discuss that with my children even when they become adults. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:05 PM
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There are loads of men counting down to a girl's 18th birthday because ShE's LeGaL. God only knows they've been wanking it to her for the better part of a decade already. Hell, I've been harassed by friends of the family since the age of 8 because I started developing super early. You know they'd go for younger if the legal age was set younger. That's the reason why "teen", step siblings, and "barely legal" are the most popular genres.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:50 PM
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Dogs bond deeply with their owners. Some men feel threatened that she'll love the dog more. The i*cel types have their own narrartive on women who love animals, be it horses, dogs, cats, etc. Basically anything that takes attention away from the scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:03 PM
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So basically no movies at all, because guaranteed this scrote looks like hammered shit and showers once per month with the way his preferences are written. Also he's 38, with a "no exes at all" policy. He's looking to date at a huge age gap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:00 PM
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Exactly. Bare minimum doesn't guarantee he's a HVM. I've dated one such scrote. Well groomed, showered daily (sometimes twice), clean and well decorated house, cooked healthy meals, decent paying career, two well cared-for and well-loved pets, seemingly "in touch with his feelings". He turned out to be one of the biggest emotional manipulators on the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:36 AM
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Or offer her a place to stay by faking a whole ass relationship to get the sex for free then throw her back on the streets when she tries to build her life up. Seen it happen way too many times in my old town. Homeless men are predatory, homeless women are prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:20 PM
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The audacity is strong in that bum. He still looks homeless, even in a suit. Most men are homeless for a damn good reason. I'm racking my brain here trying to figure out why she took orders from a bum who was late, BTW (probably a shit test, imo). He's an amalgamation of shit choices balled up into one audacious hobosexual. He doesn't love her, he loves the free meals, clothes, roof, labour, and sex (🤮🤮🤮). They won't build up a homeless woman the same way. They'll take advantage of her situation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:09 PM
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And this is why LVM have been collectively giving less than the bare minimum. So that women feel over the moon when they do get tossed a breadcrumb. This is why love bombing works. LVM are good at sniffing out unloved daughters. They aren't stupid. They can read body language and tone of voice perfectly fine when picking a mark, but feign complete ignorance when they say they aren't "mind readers" after they've done something to hurt their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:25 PM
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I was boiling til I saw the last sentence 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:52 PM
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He used weapons analogies? Dodged a bullet there, perhaps literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:50 PM
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Get a wifi or internet number connected to a throwaway email. Remember that number. That way, if some persistent scrote won't take no for answer (they should, but violence from a rejected unhinged scrote is a very real possibility) it will ring your phone, but won't be your real number. Make sure you have data turned on when you give it out because they like to dial to make sure you didn't give out a fake. You can always uninstall the fake number app later so you're not pestered with unrelenting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:32 PM
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Holy fuck what a psychopathic "joke". This is why I don't accept "dark humour" in a friend or partner. You know they're picturing it in their heads, and if it didn't have legal repercussions, he'd probably do it. Especially when directed at a woman, who, by virtue of being born female, is at a heightened risk of violence from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:46 PM
14

It is, but sometimes reposts are good for our newcomers. Thanks to angry scrotes, we're getting more free advertising and new members daily 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:42 PM
50

He's probably envious of the tampon's size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:41 PM
533

Men just can't stand women being better at something than them. Not life threatening like that situation, but I had an in-law scrote mad at me last week because I spoke Finnish better than him (he never spoke or took Finnish lessons in his life, he's not even of Finnish decent). He got all pissy at me because I told him how "sauna" is actually pronounced, and then he tried to mansplain that the English pronunciation was the proper way, then told me that speaking multiple languages is not a sign …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:33 PM
50

Yeah no thanks. LVM will bail as soon as they get a 10 cent pay raise. "New tax bracket, who dis?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:46 PM
41

Red PS5? Don't mind if I do!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:37 PM
88

Also what sort of loser uses a photo with their previous girlfriend on their dating app? I have a theory on this, after noticing patterns in relationships around me. Most LVM are complete shite at taking photos. Even selfies. Women tend to pay more attention to detail when it comes to photos and selfies. We're more empathetic that way in which we want both ourselves and our SO to look good in the shot. LVM couldn't give less of a crap about whether a certain lighting or angle is unflattering, le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:35 PM
95

This is so very common, it's the rule rather than the exception when it comes to boundary setting. I lost a shitload of people (or, should I say, they lost me) when I finally put my foot down. They just hate it when the gravy train comes to a screeching halt. It can, and it will, feel isolating at first. Then, as time rolls on, you'll meet some new friends and you'll vet applying your boundaries from the get-go. Apply FDS principles to your friendships as well. You don't want to be amidst pickme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:12 PM
58

He's gonna need medical attention for that burn 🔥☠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:33 PM
46

That is until she turns 25 with two of his kids and his inflated pornsick ego convinces him he deserves another one plucked fresh from his local highschool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:47 PM
6

And they're misfiring at that even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:43 PM
17

That scrote has the perfect gold digging setup. He's not paying for jack shit, he has a free maid taking care of their child. She's what I refer to as a married single mother of 2. He's not going to leave because there's too much uncertainty whether another woman will come along to take on the exact same role. Classic "have your cake and eat it too" situation. The fact that he's cheating with an ex shows that he wants access to another woman's body without the effort of dating or paying. What a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:41 PM
9

If this post were written with the genders swapped, the scrotes in these comments section would call her a gold digger and tell him to ditch her. They wouldn't say he wasn't being a loving enough husband. My grandpa in law spent quite a few years courting my grandma in law. He'd swing by her work for something to eat, leave her $20 tips (a huge chuck of change back then). She acted unimpressed for quite some time, I suspect she had FDS principles. He built her a 4 bedroom house from the ground u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:02 PM
43

Exactly. Don't think they've lost yours or their exes' numbers. If they still have your number, they have many more. They get lonely and hit the reply all button with that "I miss you babe" shit in case someone replies. They don't care who it is who answers, as long as it's a woman he doesn't feel the need to impress from square one (courting, dating, spending money on, flowers, checking for compatibility, etc). Once a man has had access to a woman's body, he feels like he's entitled to her body…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:32 PM
1

Now that is the most beautiful ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:22 PM
4

Good for that queen 👸👸👸 hope she finds this post and dumps the 🍤🤏 loser. They aren't even on the same page, or the same book, or the same library, and the library isn't in the same universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:10 PM
12

Oh the house flipping scrotes, I've known a few. They usually get a woman they know to design the interior, for free, hire the cheapest labour possible (or a few buddies to mickey mouse the reno for a six pack and a pizza per day), sell it for chump change for profit and call it a win. I know because the scrotes wanted a "woman's touch" to a fixer upper, and I told them I don't do that for free, then got called a gold digger for expecting remuneration for my creativity and time. I wasn't even da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:07 AM
121

AITA is usually women asking if they're the AH for asking for bare minimum (or below) and men asking if they're the AH for straight up abusing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:52 AM
108

He needs to be thrown in the trash like yesterday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:51 AM
115

Wow. She is literally starving herself to be "good enough" for him, and that's still not good enough. He is giving her nothing, what more than the nothing is he giving her that he doesn't want to give more of? Jeebus dump him already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:50 AM
1128

He hates her. He knows damn well she doesn't have an eating disorder. She's starving herself because he is a scrote. I hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:47 AM
124

So you going to therapy and finding out he was a scrote was the "problem". Problem solved. Fuck him. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:40 AM
48

Hey a new form of everything digging; art digging! So sad that she's publicly putting herself down because she's afraid of being better than a man at something. His literally looks like something a kindergarten kid scribbled out in crayon. She brought life to HIS (not her own) vision and she's minimizing her talent to preserve his fragile ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:31 PM
52

First thing I noticed too 🤣 a treacherous high sea of fat, old, balding scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:53 PM
33

BuT fAmIlY cOuRt FaVoUrS WiMmEnS 🙄 yeah fuck that noise. Women are punished for protecting their children, and blamed when the scrote abuses the children on their parenting time. 70% of women who report DV lose custody. DV is relevant to risk of child abuse. Shitty husbands are shitty fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:08 AM
12

I don't reply. I don't even open my DMs. Let them waste their time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:06 PM
17

All of my scrote exes were reckless drivers. I've stomped on the imaginary brake pedal way too many times. Laughing at or telling you to stop reacting to a life threatening situation is an instant deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:00 PM
65

Oh fucking gross 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:51 AM
30

That's the thing; they see communication as an argument with a "winner" and a "loser". And with a narc, they always have to "win". I tried saying to my ex narc that when communication blows up into an argument, that there are no winners. He couldn't (or wouldn't) see it that way. You'll win when you cut them off completely and go no contact and block on every level. What you mentioned was a case of classic stonewalling; avoiding hearing how you feel because it bothered him that you were, in fact…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:29 PM
158

With narcissists, it's a game with only one rule; you can't win. The mental gymnastics they do is Olympics level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:29 AM
35

Imagine how dull the peacock's feathers be if it were the peahens that had to impress. Men have it ass backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:22 AM
99

They won't divorce them though, because deep down, these scrotes know the chances of finding another woman who's willing to put up with his shit is very low. That, and they usually can't stand the thought of their wife doing better than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:15 PM
27

I did a side by side comparison, one before, one at the tail end, and one about 6 months after the relationshit. Both before and the one taken months after were glowing. The one pic at the tail end of the relationshit, I was physically emaciated, skin was devoid of color, even my eyes appeared dull and glazed over. I got myself back up to a healthy weight within months of leaving his sorry ass. It's amazing how much we glow when someone's dusty ass son isn't giving us grief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:03 PM
48

Unlike scrotes, we don't mentally chop people into pieces like porn categories. It's the overall package women are attracted to in general. We were raised to be empathetic and see others as complete, complex human beings with their own aspirations, likes and dislikes, goals, emotions, needs, rights, and autonomy. Someone could be conventionally attractive, but as soon as something misogynistic, racist, or bigoted flies out of their mouth, instant Sahara desert down there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:38 PM
69

Exactly. The patriarchy has groomed women into being over the moon for having a guy that does the bare minimum. I've heard friends say "omg he doesn't hit me!", "he doesn't call me the C word!", "He's the first man to get me flowers!", and other variations of celebrating bare minimum. Sis, that's basic. What does he do to enrich your life? Does he take an active and positive interest in your dreams, hobbies, goals, aspirations, etc? Does he cheer you on to pursue them? Is he in love with who you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:24 PM
9

Hence why I also believe strangulation should be an attempted murder charge, not just assault. There's a treacherously thin line between non fatal and fatal strangulation. This act is the number one predictor of spousal homicide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:32 PM
6

It's a game of scrote roulette these days. Too many men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:30 PM
9

Yeah I kinda wtf'd at that too. He left her for a much younger woman, had his fun, and got back with her after he stole her superannuation from which was supposed to be this poor woman's struggling mother. What level of pickme delusion does one have to have to take back such a POS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:24 PM
42

I'm so got out of that situation. I've been there, done that with cheapskate NVM. Funny how they got their backs up when I called them cheap, and this was back in my pickme days. It's like they know deep down that real men (HVM) are generous in their relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:20 PM
42

Yes! Witnessed an ex friend (major pickme) get with a widower who had three children with his deceased wife (I went to highschool with both of the women in question). He always compared her to his wife. She was never "good enough", pressured her to dye her hair blond, lose weight, dress like she did, etc. Not to mention that there were treatments available to possibly save his wife, but he was adamant on pulling the plug, and they did. In my mind, he ended her life by denying medical treatment. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:22 PM
34

Meh these scrotes aren't worth our breath or time. They know they're ugly. They're projecting. As hard as it is not to respond to their negging, giving scrotes attention, positive or negative, is a win for them. The best response is a non response and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:48 PM
1

Simple, eloquent, and well written 😗👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:02 PM
69

Yet another good solidifying reason why I don't wear makeup. I've seen this article posted all over facebook and the number of men on there laugh reacting and commenting disgusting misogynistic comments that I won't repeat on here are enormous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:45 PM
4

Did he marry her on her 19th birthday? I smell a pedo groomer. Just waited until the legal age for her to consent to marriage without her parents having to sign off on it. No one's happy because they know what a creep this scrote is. No one is happy because he now has her trapped. No one is happy because her future is in ruins with a high af escape velocity if she were to ever get out breaking even. No one is happy because there is a high chance of her becoming a single mother once this creep ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:35 PM
35

I used to run into this a lot in my 20's. One ad on CL actually said he'd "prefer to help out single women or single mothers in financially precarious positions" 🤮 I still get sick to my stomach remembering that advert. Some potential landlords asked for full pics before setting up a viewing, but most of these sicko scrote landlords waited until I was about to hand over the security deposit and first month's rent to tell me they'd cut me a deal if I were to "keep him company once or twice a week…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:21 PM
10

One, he's a cop. Huge red flag. Two, no man is worth this much sacrifice. Their lives obviously have two different paths, and you can't grow together as a couple if one is expected to stagnate and wither away. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:24 PM
20

I see these memes posted in local moms groups as well, along with "humorous" pics of "how to not piss everywhere but the fuckin' toilet" signs hung up in the bathrooms. No wonder women have higher risk of heart disease and are at risk of a whole host of other illnesses and autoimmune disorders because of LV/NVM. Men's mental health is taken seriously. It's men who refuse to use it. And in Canada, we have some FREE mental health resources that men are refusing to use. There's literally no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:16 PM
34

First off, eeewwww the age gap. Second, being a SAHM with no income of her own or plans for her future is a huge risk in the best of circumstances, and a deadly one in the worst. How many women have we seen retire/live out their golden years in dire poverty, suddenly surprised that their recently deceased husband left them completely out of his Will? Countless. I've seen homeless senior women here in Canada on the streets of Vancouver. Although we have some sort of safety net, many still fall th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:00 PM
72

The only reason we hear "girls mature faster" is for pedo and groomer validation. That somehow we're ready to breed as soon as we can bleed. But somehow not mature enough for equal pay, equity, reproductive decision making, handling money, leadership positions, personal autonomy, etc. It all comes down to being "mature" enough to be a disposable, interchangeable mommy Mcbangmaid from an early age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:28 PM
42

I don't even know where to start. NVX husband racked up credit cards in my name just after I left (stole, my ID, applied online) to the tune of $1400 in cell phone plans, another $15k or so in credit cards, and during the relationship, probably in the low 200k range of stolen paychecks, and the courts gave him half of my savings account (about 30k) in the divorce. He made 3 times what I made. Another NVX over the course of 3 years stolen about 120k worth of paychecks, and one other NVX made off …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:16 PM
161

He's banking retirement money whilst she'll be destitute and alone, possibly homeless in what's supposed to be her golden years. That's the thanks 50/50 will get you when you become a mother for one of these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:00 PM
5

He's acting like a spoiled man child. And saying you aren't trying hard enough to fix your depression? Bam! Divorce papers. Depression cured. Go for alimony and child support. Consider it restitution for over a decade of bullshit. Now on a more serious note; you mentioned he owns a gun. This is very dangerous. I suggest you get in contact with a woman's advocacy or women's shelter, because leaving is the most dangerous time for women, and the risk is amplified by about 7× when a scrote owns a gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:23 PM
118

The projection is off the charts with this scrote. It would easily take 6 of her to fit inside a pair of his britches. Reminder #103,476 of why we don't give ugly, fat, broke, short old scrotes a chance; they tend to have the most audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:08 PM
103

She needs a forklift for that job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:05 PM
157

"I'm in love with falling in love". Came from a NVX and it took me a few years after leaving him to understand what that phrase meant when I saw him go through relationship after relationship all lasting less than a year. Translation; tired of my shiny new toy, want a new one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:02 PM
32

I'm a bit curious, does your company allow you to reject scrotes, or is there any way you can tell him there aren't any matches for him (and other people like him)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:57 PM
27

Pretty much clean and organic. I guess the only thing I was lacking was dairy, as I'm lactose intolerant. Well that gave me an epiphany. Maybe my diet was lacking in calcium 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:47 PM
60

I can tell you with the utmost certainty, from experience, yes they do. My NVX husband is a tradcon with a Madonna w---- complex. I found out he had a secret porn addiction, and it was the most vile, violent content you could find on the internet. He hid it well for years. He'd never let me wear anything remotely revealing, even in the heat of summer, pointed out women at the beach and told me they were dressed like s----. He openly stated he hated that women wear makeup (he'd call it "fake-up")…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:53 PM
254

Please tell me he's an ex. So gross that he misses that you were sick from a deadly virus just so he can stop showering 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:40 PM
35

It's a risk, that's for sure. It's not guaranteed that you'll lose teeth, but it's very likely due to what is required to form a fully functional human being in less than 10 months' time. It's taxing, and that's putting it lightly. I've been one who's lost teeth due to pregnancy. Luckily, the ones that couldn't be saved were molars. 6 root canals with crowns, 3 extractions. Currently in the process of getting dental implants. This makes it especially important that we vet ruthlessly and choose c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:35 PM
74

The reasoning behind this special brand of cowardice should be researched more. Like an anonymous survey done on men who have been charged with physically abusing their partners during pregnancy. Current popular theories on this are; 1) Jealousy of the baby, that mom's attention will be on baby instead of scrote. 2) Fear of supporting the baby, whether or not they decide to stick around. 3) They've successfully trapped the woman and feel free to do whatever they want (happened to me in my previo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:27 PM
298

Scrotes resent the women who try to make them feel special. Pickmes get thanked with abuse, string-along relationshits, cheating, discard, and much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:13 PM
86

Intimate partner homicide is the number one cause of death in pregnancy, coming in second is pre-eclampsia. 25% of the women who've been physically abused during their lifetime have experienced it for the first time during pregnancy. You can never truly know the value of a man until years after having children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:50 PM
128

The doctor tried to pull that on me with my last birth. He said I only needed one or two stitches. I asked him if it would heal on it's own. He said "yes, but at (my) partner's expense". My HVM husband flipped out on him (he's well aware of what the husband stitch is). We reported him but nothing came of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:42 PM
98

More proof that men only think in the short term and purely in a transactional way; his free mommy bangmaid left his abusive ass, he no longer has access to her body or mind, resents her for it, and it didn't even cross his smooth brain that this elaborate and overt display of pettiness would show his daughter how much he hates her as well as her mother. Now you're getting exactly what you deserve, scrote; no access to either of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:35 PM
70

If $800 is "a lot of money", then these scrotes better level up and get a better paying job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:30 PM
159

6 root canals and three molar extractions since my first pregnancy here! Can confirm. Never had a problem with my teeth growing up until about 2 years after my first pregnancy. My back teeth just started crumbling away. I brushed and flossed religiously, and my dentist told me that no matter what, some women's teeth just start breaking because of calcium being stripped away from the bones and teeth. She said she had lost a few teeth herself due to pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:25 PM
224

I'm so happy about that. I hope the scrote is aware of that and dies mad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:58 PM
214

"Petty sperm donor not happy about having to provide for his daughter he brought into this world dumps 80,000 pennies on her mother's front lawn" would have been a more appropriate headline. "Dad" and "father" are titles one has to earn. Doing bare minimum or less strips scrotes of the right to be called dad or father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:57 PM
13

Funny how she only cares now when he's in a shitload of legal trouble. She profited off of the dirty blood money for years and had seemingly no qualms about kids being exposed to this sick shit at younger and younger ages. I call bs and think this is an advert for her personal paid porn accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:43 PM
13

Consider it restitution for the shit he put you through. Also, you lost nothing but a LVW friend and a NVM. Both trash bags took theirselves out. You have only peace to gain from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:35 PM
28

This is more common than you think. My NV sperm donor "father" actually limited us girls to using fucking newspaper whilst he hoarded the toilet paper to himself and doled out my mother's allowance for TP. I remember my mother crying and begging him for more TP because she needed more during her period. I legit got in shit when I thought children being regulated to newspaper was so normal that when my cousin came over and asked where the TP was, I handed him a newspaper and my dad screamed at me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:03 PM
46

Do as much for him as he did for you; jack fuck-all. He can get someone else to help him. What has he given you besides painful memories and attempts to annihilate your very soul? He doesn't even deserve so much as passed gas in his general direction from you, let alone a text. You owe absolutely nothing to toxic family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:11 PM
41

External 🤣🤣🤣☠☠☠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:41 AM
2

I also have that (the outer two on both feet)! They were from having shoes that were too small growing up and I've accepted the way they look. No one has ever taken issue with my feet. It's no big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:59 PM
109

Most men can't see anything beyond purely transactional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:05 PM
121

Don't say anything. Just plan, pack, and leave while he's at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:03 PM
185

She can leave while he's mid sentence like he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:02 PM
133

This is the correct response to this brand of scrotery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:01 PM
4

Yup. Implied incest. You know that the pornsick scrotes are fantasizing about actual blood related stuff while clicking through that category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:00 PM
3

That's a line commonly used by male orbiters. They're faking a whole ass friendship in hopes of sex down the road. Bonus points if they use that line to quell any suspicions of cheating with said "she's like a sister" line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:58 PM
1

I've been down that road before with old scrotes. Nothing to be jealous of. Being preyed upon, abused, then tossed away at the ripe old age of 25 by pedo scrotes is nothing to envy. Not bitter, jealous, nor jaded; just educated the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:54 PM
13

It's not defamation if it was said publicly. Scrotes are just eating their own words at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:00 PM
15

There are literally thousands of tutorials for free on YouTube. Scrote wants a medal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:58 PM
26

This is basically an OF advert. Those two "success" stories don't give a shit about the women and girls locked away/chained to radiators being forced to pose for OF photos, or exploited in porn and prostitution. The 1% of privileged prostitutes drank the libfem kool-aid and are actively promoting the fake dream of money and fame. Broken dreams, heartache, and soul crushing is the reality most people caught up in this disgusting realm of exploitation experience. OF is the shittiest MLM ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:56 PM
31

It also strikes me as an isolation tactic. He may be trying to get her estranged from her family so she's easier to abuse and manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:01 PM
10

They'll also have a search/text history that's too clean, like wiped completely out. My NVX was always on his phone, but cleared texts, chats, browsing, everything, before putting his phone down. He demanded random cell checks on me all the time, and said he "had nothing to hide" so he'd hand me his phone. He'd just randomly yell "trade phones! Don't be deleting anything, b----!, hand it over now!" Then he'd get angry that he couldn't find anything shady on my phone, and insisted I must have a "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:51 PM
214

Yup. Happened with my NVX husband. I have a latex allergy and found out he snipped a super tiny piece of latex glove off and put it in my food. I had to be rushed to the hospital before my throat closed up on me, then he admitted he was testing me, apologized for not believing me, and that "girls just make up allergies for attention". I don't tell anyone about my latex allergy anymore unless it's a doctor or my dentist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:31 PM
25

I'm sure he's a really nice guy 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:16 PM
21

Oh my fucking god gross 🤮 no fucking words for this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:02 AM
54

Most men are trash. We're gonna need a bigger dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:22 PM
8

I can buy my own meals, thanks. My time (which is precious, given we have about only 70 ish years on this planet) is not free. The possibility of childbearing and childrearing is worth much more than a two can dine at Applebee's. I'll save myself the hassle of slapping on at least $10 worth of makeup, getting my nails done at $80, $200 worth of clothing, a few hundred worth of jewellery, a couple hours of my life (which by the way, is time I can't buy back with any dollar amount) dressing up wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:01 PM
53

This!!! This is a no effort proposal. Back in my pickme days, I accepted a proposal (with the ring I bought 🤡) sitting on the couch whilst we were both drinking and watching tv 🤡. Wtf was I even thinking? He's an ex now, and I've been sober for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:47 PM
2

Yes. This I could never wrap my head around. The flag has absolutely nothing to do with Canada, but the 4×4 driving, beer guzzling fake country boy scroteweasles will still have em hanging from their trucks or in the form of bumper stickers. They are rare in the city, but more common in the surrounding greater Vancouver suburbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:35 PM
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Men; "I want a perfect ten who takes care of herself" Women; gets hair and nails done, goes to the gym 5× per week, has an actual skin care routine and a plethora of makeup products Men; "you seem expensive", or "you're too high maintenance" Meets a woman who doesn't do any of the above Men; "you'd look a lot prettier if you put some effort into your looks" You just can't win with these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:26 PM
21

Yeah nah, sis. Never going back to being a pickmeisha. I wasted my 20's on that bullshit. Most men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:47 AM
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I live in Vancouver. Lots of fauxgressive wokefish here. Scrotes are all about feminism when it comes to splitting everything 50/50, all about legalizing prostitution, but argue against domestic violence leave for women (paid for through employment insurance, not paid by the government, basically offers protection from being fired for that reason). A lot of men here claim to be in touch with their emotions, but just want a free therapist and an emotional punching bag. We have our alcoholic redne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:07 PM
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I'm 6'2". Most men are shorter than I am. And even then ones who were closer to my height took issue with it. I've noticed the actual short ones, 5'4" to around 5'8", though, were more bent about my height, and all around more abusive. They had the audacity to complain about wanting a 5'0" to 5'2" woman and how they would end up alone if they didn't "settle" for a taller woman. Well now you don't get anyone, scrote. That being said, the only guy I dated taller than me (6'5") also took issue with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:41 PM
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And this is why I just can't even with men who complain about the price of a ring or paying for dates and gifts. The patriarchy has worked so hard at convincing society that womens' labour is usless and that makes SAHM or working mothers who earn less "gold diggers".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:47 PM
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🎵 Barb the builder🎶 "Can we fix it?" 🎵Barb the builder🎵 yeah, nah. Fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:38 AM
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Same here. Like nah, dude. You ain't a baby. I ain't gonna change you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:35 AM
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My NVX told me that r@pe is the same as cheating and would dump me in a heartbeat because I would have had to "put (myself) in that position". Another scrote for the bin 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:58 PM
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Anyone can buy a good camera. My HVM hubby caught an old creep taking pics of me when we were at the swimming pool when we first started dating. He threatened to break the old scrote's camera if he didn't delete the photos. His brother and him also caught someone taking photos of his 12-14 year old cousins in bathing suits on their own property a long time ago. The scrote and the camera both got a good bashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:36 PM
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I just got that memo in the last few years. I always wondered why I wasn't "good enough" and dumped for someone else back in my pickme days only for them to attempt to come crawling back because the grass really wasn't greener. Of course I didn't take them back (I've always had the rule that once you're done you're done). I used to think that I should remain friends at least because I wanted to be the "cool girl" who was on friendly terms with their exes, but I'd be bothered around the holidays …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:31 PM
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Yup. NVXs would often say the hated my laugh (or that I laughed too loud), hated my smile (or smiled too much). Before going very low contact with my current MIL, she'd always find a way to punish any daughter in law she had for being "too happy", whether on the spot or a bit later in the day (for example, criticizing a food item on one's plate or all out gaslighting the "offending" daughter in law about her weight). And she wonders why all of her sons are all VLC these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:09 PM
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This is exactly why we don't give obese/ugly men a chance. Once they have a chance with someone out of their league, they hate the woman for being with them because the scrotes don't even respect theirselves, and simultaneously try to keep her around by abusing her to bring down her self esteem so she thinks she can't do any better. They usually go on to cheat out of insecurity, and because they get their egos super inflated by snagging someone out of their league, and suddenly think the grass i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:50 AM
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Good on making the decision, but block and delete his abusive ass in addition to it. Don't even give him the opportunity to text you. Drop all mutual friends and his family. Block and delete every last one of them on every platform. There needs to be no more communication on any level with him, it will make dropping him even harder if he (or any of his scrotacious friends/family) has any chance to convince you to change your mind. The only escape from an abusive narc is all around no contact. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:17 PM
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Same here. I held my NVX's business afloat while he drank himself half to *end. Helped him get into rehab, continued to run his business in addition to my full time job, visited him every day, and he dumped me when he completed his program. Not even a single thank you, not even a dime of pay. Ended up calling me dead weight (That relationshit at least lasted less than a year). Wasted most of my 20's being a pickme and barb the builder. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:40 PM
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Right? I've had my headphones yanked and my phone smacked out of my hand whilst on transit. If it weren't for Canadian laws protecting men (don't need another assault charge, learned from practicing self defense twice), I would have been throwing hands so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:30 PM
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Congrats, sis! I currently work as a chef. I understand how demoralizing and depressing working in a misogynistic, male dominated sector is. I'm actually working on a career change pretty soon (as soon as covid is over). I too have left many a scathing review on glass door on my way up. I'm glad you got out of that environment. No one needs that kind of stress in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:23 PM
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So beautiful 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:53 PM
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Congrats on getting everything together and deciding to ditch the scrote. One thing though, do not drop the news until you have moved all of your belongings to your new unit. Do it while he's at work. Leaving is the most dangerous time. Do not tell mutual friends. Get a couple of your friends (not his or mutual), or better yet, hire a moving company to get the move done within a couple of hours. Give him the news over the phone. Tell your employers a few days ahead if time that you'll be divorci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:44 PM
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🙌 truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:08 AM
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Men of quality aren't threatened by equality. He laughs at the scrotes and won't hesitate to call one out. He has known me since we were in high school. We were kindred spirits since then, both musicians, both focused on our careers. He didn't ask me out until he thought he was stable enough in his career to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:08 AM
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She's a fucking hypocrite. She hates on "welfare moms" yet she was one. She was anything but submissive to her husband until he had an untimely *end. She wanted sonsbands, because no woman is ever good enough for her boys. Typical boy mom. Her son that I'm married to rebelled, is an atheist, and a huge FDS fan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:01 AM
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My eyes were rolling hard, believe me. I can't believe she raise 2/4 HV sons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:58 AM
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Rather get paid a 6 fig salary than be chained to a scrote relying on an allowance if there is one. Ain't gonna "honey please" it when I want my nails did or a new outfit. Fuck that noise. I set the bar meet or exceed it or begone, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:41 AM
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A good strategy for phone numbers, by the way, is to make a throwaway email, and download a free internet (wifi, but also works for data) number. There are many free apps. You don't want to be changing your number every year or so. It worked wonders for me, especially for unhinged scrotes who won't take no for an answer and want to make sure your number isn't fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:30 AM
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They usually ask in the form of a seemingly innocuous question; "how's your relationship with your mother/father? Are you close with them?", or "my ex had mental health issues, how were your exes?". Men are trauma diggers. They want ammo for their arsenal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:09 AM
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This right here ⬆️⬆️⬆️ take mad notes on this, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:05 AM
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You set the bar for how you're treated. Accept no less. Go 50/50 or for free walk dates or cheap (or worse, venmo'd for the $3 for coffee) coffee dates? Congrats. You just set yourself up for less than bare minimum. You're not a dog that needs to be walked. You are a Queen. Block, delete, and move on. Know your value, then add tax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:50 PM
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🙌 preach 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:46 PM
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Yup. The decade long placeholder gf. Scrotes have no qualms about wasting 1/7 or more of a woman's life for the sake of his limp weiner. Why? Because to them, women aren't people with their own lives, dreams, aspirations, wants, needs, goals, etc. 10+ years of one's lifetime that one can never get back, just wasted on this human shaped pile of trash. That's a huge chunk of time 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:45 PM
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I'm betting a lot of the comments are telling him to cut ties with her. If this was a woman posting this question about a guy, reddit would call her shallow if she didn't give him a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:37 PM
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First thing I just gotta comment on; I owned a catering company as a side gig before lockdown hit (thanks, covid). $15 per head is gonna get you plain cold cut sandwiches, an assortment of pickles, a veggie platter, a salad bowl or two, and a low end cheese and cracker tray (cheddar, marbled cheddar, mozza). This does not include desserts or fruit platters. And this would be an act of charity on the part of the caterer, since at that price, I wouldn't be able to pay my staff and have to prep the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:28 PM
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Same boat, sis. You can't help someone who doesn't want the help. I'm slowly introducing my friend to FDS who's in a verbally/emotionally/psychologically abusive relationship. I'm easing in FDS principles into conversations and she's slowly grasping on one by one and in the process of gaining a sense of self worth. (I find easing it in helps avoid the pickme resistance). She still struggles with the sunk cost fallacy (7 years, one daughter together, half assed proposal after her begging him, no …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:50 PM
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Narcs truly are a bottomless pit. They'll suck their mark dry, sense when the well is about to run out, and set their eyes on a new target and discard. But they never truly discard forever, do they? Since our emotional wells tend to fill back up over time, they'll hoover for more supply and run through their rotation occasionally adding a new target in. They'll triangulate to keep the women from communicating about how much of a human-shaped pile of trash he really is. The see theirselves as the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:24 PM
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Single moms get mad respect from me. They had the strength and resolve to leave an abuser and set a good example for their daughters of what is unacceptable treatment from men, and to show sons that perpetrating abuse is never acceptable. Motherhood is shat upon by society by a large, whether they call single motherhood a "failed marriage" or "broken home", or devalue the unpaid labour of married mothers. Single dads to me are sus. I know of a lot of fathers who go for 50/50 custody to avoid pay…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:10 PM
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The narcissistic injury is strong in this scrote. Incoherently written word salad, negging, accusations of having a split personality which is a form of projection because he's a typical Nice GuyTM. Also, the way he brings up your age, I'm guessing this scrote is 30 plus trying to prey on younger women. "All you have is your looks to offer". $20 says he doesn't even have looks. Keep up the good work, sis. Block, delete, move on. He'll eventually get tired of texting novels from fake numbers soon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:01 PM
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Right here with you, sis. I've been dragged a lot for having a type. Personally, I don't find the majority of men attractive, but I have a particularly weak spot for East Asian men with well cared for skin, longer hair, and ample muscle, particularly handsome Japanese men. My hubby is half Japanese and half Norwegian and has got a pretty chiseled body. Random men in my town have the audacity to drag me for being with him when he's not around me. Like, excuse you, scrote? I have a type. Women are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:59 PM
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Yup. I've had to giggle, tee-hee, and smile my way out of a lot of situations. I actually downloaded an alternate internet phone number with a fake email adress because of scrotes demanding my number (after backing me into corners nonetheless) then dialing it on the spot to make sure it wasn't a fake number. There's been tons of women who met their demise by not giving out a number. There are tons of free internet (wifi) number apps that you can download just in case an unhinged scrote won't tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:42 PM
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I really have no clue what most of them are up to due to block, delete, and ignore. The ones I do know about I've heard through the grapevine (both now deceased, one from heavy alcoholism and the other fentanyl poisoning, both scrotes' social circles blamed my leaving) and one NVX husband I coparent with. NVX husband made himself an i*cel, Alex Jones conspiracy theory, Trump supporting, red pill scrote, no one wants to date him and he doesn't understand why. He was complaining that OLD isn't wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:59 PM
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It's pure projection, really. Becoming pregnant is life altering for women. We know that whether we continue the pregnancy, terminate the pregnancy, or adopt out, it all has physical, financial, social, career, educational, and psychological consequences. If a man messes with birth control and results in a pregnancy, he wins either way. She has been effectively forced to make a choice (or, in some cases, completely stripped of a choice) and neither of them are easy. I've had my birth control tam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:22 PM
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Food and shelter isn't even the bare minimum 😒. Men aren't thankful for the free childcare, free maid services, free sex services, free psychiatrist, free nurse, free early childhood educator, free social worker, free personal chef, free chauffer, etc. Add all those services up and that adds up way, way more than room and board. Being a SAHM without a stream of her own income is the worst move, especially given the rate at which men dump their loyal wives in the empty nest stage. Men truly don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:49 PM
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Not to mention how many brides are starving their ways to the alter. The months wedding boot camps, highly restrictive and expensive bridal diets, being told to buy a smaller dress they have to fit into by their wedding day, being a bride is torture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:55 AM
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No shit. My NVX complained that I was loose. When he could no longer gaslight me when I showed him what the average size was, he agreed and still told me to get surgery to get tighter. Bye, scrote, your loss. Got a guy (hvm husband) with a better dick and with a better attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:39 AM
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Sex work is exploitation. Just because we have a few mostly white "empowered" libfem prostitutes not chained to radiators doesn't mean sex work isn't prey feeding the predator. It is exploitation catering to a male demand. Pure and simple. If it weren't for a pornsick sociopathic demand, there wouldn't be an exploited supply. ETA; Voluntary sex workers are still exploited. They bought into the libfem lie that catering to the male gaze is "empowering".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:31 AM
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Same, sis. Definitely threw my money away years ago into someone else's home. NVX was a reno digger. I paid market rent and for renovation, then surprise! He threw me away and moved in someone else once they were complete. Sudden homelessness with decimated finances, battling in court on false weapons charges, and a broken heart (he talked to a slimy lawyer who told him the only way to get me out instantly and legally was to call the police and claim assault, and he did). Scrote was so cheap, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:00 PM
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Right? Society uses the abused in childhood excuse to excuse men of being abusive and shitty people. "Aww, poor wittle boy, his daddy was an absent alcoholic and mommy was a nagging harpy, no wonder he takes shit out on his wife and kids". Women get abused, gaslit, and groomed; "she's s psycho b---- with daddy issues".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:24 PM
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My husband is like that too. Huge FDS fan. He'll laugh at how pathetic scrotes are. He was a bit surprised at first just how many men are trash. He knew there were LV/NV men, but the sheer numbers surprised him. Now he sees movies and life through an FDS lens and can point out a scrote instantly at the most subtle signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:12 PM
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There's a lot of fun things I'd rather do than to get in bed with a scrote. Even getting a root canal is more fun at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:07 PM
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Ugh the pornsickness just leaks its way into every facet of their lives 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:05 PM
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All males and too many to count. At least 50+ on facebook, even more on Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:02 PM
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The beat around the bush way of saying "I'm a narcissistic asshole who'll abuse, gaslight, then breadcrumb every once in a while, and repeat".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:45 PM
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Exactly. This is why we shouldn't give ugly guys a chance. Most of them are also ugly on the inside due to not getting what they grew up feeling entitled to (access to a "10" mommy bangmaid). I had given a couple of less than desirable looking guys a chance thinking the same thing, that they might compensate by having a kind personality. How wrong I was. I used to question if I was actually asexual. Wrong again. I now have a very attractive hvm husband, and I too found out that my libido is thro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:41 PM
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you're not my mother Yet they expect a BBQ and a gaming system on top of sex on Father's day. You're not my father 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:24 AM
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This right here. I noticed I had skin problems (dry with some oily patches, drained of color, developing fine lines), hair shedding, loss of appetite, menstrual cycle disturbances, and multiple sclerosis flare-ups when I was with a NVM. Those cleared up and went away a few months after leaving them. It's like the aging reversed itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:06 PM
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He must stand crazy long hours in the unemployment line, hours on his phone trying to line up his next mommy bangmaid on tinder to leech off of when his current gf tires of his lazy ass. "Will you wait on him?" Ummm, nah, scrote. Get off your phone/PS5/computer and go get a real job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:00 PM
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I find that the majority of men who go for full custody are abusive and controlling NVM who want to dictate their exes' lives, or to avoid paying child support. Of course they'd dump the kids on grandma most of the week. I've been to family court enough times to see this in action. Usually as soon as the guy gets a new girlfriend, he claims his life in "stable enough" to take the children full time (despite being only 2 weeks into the new relationship) and starts to try to tell the judge what he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:49 PM
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Ugly slobby men are more likely to cheat. They pulled above their weight, so they feel entitled to "do better". They know they're ugly, so they seek validation from as many women as they can get to give these ugly ass scrotes the time of day. Plus they are more likely to be abusive as well because they know their partner can do better. We'll always have the pickmes proudly bragging that they bagged a man (any man) and do anything to keep them, no matter how low value they may be. Nah, sis, I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:07 AM
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This reminds me of when the general public blamed Ariana Grande for Mac Miller's *end. They said she knew he was depressed and dumped him anyways and how cold hearted she was for leaving a depressed guy. Maybe she was sick of being the emotional dumping ground for his untreated issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:01 AM
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Block, delete, and if possible, move. Same for all mutual friends and his family and friends of his family. There's nothing you can do to stop it, and while it sucks remaining silent and not defending yourself, it's for the best. You see, anyone he talks to will hold him in their favor, and if you try to defend yourself and tell your side of the story, it will "prove" how "crazy" you really "were" in their eyes. That in a nutshell is how I dealt with my NVX. I moved a few towns over, since he kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:01 AM
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Imagine spending 30 minutes putting on at least $10 worth of makeup in a go, 30+ minutes styling your hair, coordinating an outfit which no doubt cost a pretty penny, spending money ($70+ where I'm living) on getting nails done and an hour in the salon, all for a 2 can dine for $20 at Applebee's with a chance of being assaulted. No fucking thank you. I'll save the money and take one of my friends out with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:30 PM
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Fucking predatory. "Hungry? How about selling out your future job and educational prospects and be open to lifelong blackmail for an average of $180 per month! Just think of how much ramen you can buy with that!". Just disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:22 PM
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Ugh what a creep. Same here, sis. We laugh too loud, we talk too loud, we talk/joke too much, we smile too much, we stand too tall, we take up too much space, etc. These men want women (and girls) with broken souls but somehow no baggage who still smile (but not too much) and only speak when spoken to. Stand tall, be bold, take up as much space as you need in a world which tells you to shrink yourself down. Kudos on getting through law school this far, and best of luck making the bar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:24 PM
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Supply and demand, simple dickonomics. The supply of dick outnumbers the demand for it, therefore making it of no value. Negative value, even, since dicks come with pregnancy risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:16 PM
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Dear lordt I just created new wrinkles in my face watching the ad for it. I doubt even pickmes will be signing up for that dumpster fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:13 PM
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Plus makeup, skincare, and hair care, that shit ain't cheap, it's time consuming, and it's pretty much expected by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:52 PM
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She can save a lot of money on food, Dr visits, insurance, and utilities by kicking the scrote to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:50 PM
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Same! The algorithm figured out I'm a woman so it's sending me these stupid only fans ads. Same with Facebook, I'm being inundated with this crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:45 PM
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🗑 ⬅️ Right there is where you can drop him, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:22 PM
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I was at a local Keg (steak and lobster house in Canada) on a first date after texting back and forth with a potential date for a few weeks. He asked me if I would like to go out for dinner with him, and asked me if this particular restaurant was okay with me. Of course I said yes, I love that particular restaurant. Everything was going well, talking about interests, hobbies, aspirations, etc. Haven't notices any red flags so far, as he wasn't shit talking exes, wanted to move up in his career (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:59 PM
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The only time I ever paid for dates was in my early 20's pickme days in my first marriage and couple.of relationships because I wanted to be taken out on a date desperately. I stopped paying in my late 20's when I was waking up. I dated a few cheap men in my past. Those dates didn't last long. Coupons on a date? "Something came up, gotta go" followed by a block and delete. Surprise bill split? Yeah, I'll pay my bill, tip (because they won't), and no further dates. Block and delete. The "forgot m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:30 PM
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Schools in BC (Canada) actually stated providing free menstrual supplies in schools, but it wasn't without a huge public backlash from men and older women. I saw a lot of the "then free condoms should be provided" comments. Please, boys can refrain from sex at school, a period can't be stopped no matter when and where. Workplaces, universities, and public washrooms desperately need to get with the times. Periods are expensive and also cost prohibitive for low income women. The "then use a diva c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:18 PM
12

A fully grown man living at his mother's place is still homeless, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:02 PM
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Women get accused of not being able to handle criticism when men use personal attacks, abuse, and negging. We're also accused of not being able to take a joke (which is usually an insult disguised as humor). As soon as we have a valid concern and assert boundaries, men take it as a personal attack and hop on the defensive immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:53 PM
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Pizza topping stuffed baked Portobello mushrooms 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:20 AM
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Had that happen when my ex MIL (not married to him) was in the delivery room with my abusive NVX. She said that I'm scaring her "poor Danny" to death with my laboring sounds, and that she didn't feel a thing when she pushed out her two boys. She said that millions of women do this daily, and that I'm just weak, disappointing, and a slap to the face of all women when I "make a big deal out of nothing". I was young and scared (and groomed), so didn't do anything about it. The labour was just over …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:10 PM
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I have a friend who works in a maternity ward as a nurse. She said that men often complain about small things like papercuts or a blister or something ridiculous and trivial whilst their partner is pushing out an actual human being. Some scrotes complain about their ass hurting from sitting too long, or ask her to speed up the process with labour drugs (which, BTW, is super painful, I had a pitocin induction and that is hell on wheels). A couple of memorable scrotes she said actually went to the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:52 PM
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Since when has a man's life been in danger in the delivery room? Is his life in danger in the case of an emergency c-section? Does he need a blood transfusion when things go south during delivery? Does he get non consensual episiotomies and "husband stitches" because of obstetric violence in a hospital setting? No? Then fuck right off with that pickme shit. I bet she'd change her mind right quick when she's in the delivery bed and her forever bf is complaining about a papercut on his finger to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:46 PM
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Ugh some scrote coworker of my HV husband's told him that it's good that he is expecting a boy because he only has to worry about one dick, and if he has a daughter, he'll have to worry about every dick, and would have to have her under lock and key. My husband told to the scrote off, saying that he would welcome a baby no matter the sex, and that it is up to the parents to teach their sons not to be r@pey bastards. The offending coworker hasn't approached him again since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:24 PM
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So sorry you had to go through this, sis. It's a shame there isn't more protection for women in the workplace from scrote bosses such as yours. I, too have been written up for ny heavy periods (too much running to the bathroom every hour to swap out tampons due to extremely heavy periods on days 1 and 2). I work in culinary, so zero breaks are kind of expected. I told my boss (the owner) that I guess he'd love a bad report from the health inspector if I were to bleed all over the line. He red fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:02 PM
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Yup. The entire premise of Meg (teenaged daughter) from Family Guy being the scapegoat and target for constant abuse was because the cast didn't know how to write for a teenaged girl. I used to watch that show when I was younger. It's trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:55 PM
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Holy crap he's a fast speaker. Spot on though. I read his book a couple of times, great read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:43 PM
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Perfect 👌🤣 had to catch my breath for this one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:42 PM
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I struggle with anemia, it's much worse during my period because of how heavy they are. Smells like pure iron on heavy days, but yeah, the poor menz can go ahead with their pseudoscientific "life force super-spunk" bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:39 PM
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That is sad. I'm so sorry that particular place was hostile regarding you putting in the effort to learn their language. In my country of origin, we love it when people put in an effort to learn our language and culture. Our language is a notoriously difficult language for non native speakers, so when they're finished with what they were saying, I'd answer, then politely ask if they would like to know the proper conjugation of one of the words they were saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:47 PM
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We all know who the real gold diggers are. Too many men lack this crucial little thing called introspection. They project instead. They're emotional labour diggers, childcare diggers, sex diggers, home-cooked meal diggers, housework diggers, time diggers, years of your life diggers, and yes, actual gold diggers (financially controlling their wives/gf). It doesn't matter if he makes 10× the amount she does, he'll demand 50/50 or more. If he's the one who makes less, then he'll demand to either sp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:39 PM
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Some of my male sims manage to piss theirselves mere feet from the toilet every damn time, or drink at the bar until they piss their pants. One male Sim in particular when dating, helped the woman he was courting with chores and randomly cooked for her and was romantic. Days after tgey got married, he stopped cleaning, put on a massive amount if weight, and kept leaving messes, then complained the place was a mess, then yelled at her for serving a fruit and yogurt parfait. I have autonomy turned…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:45 PM
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My NVM ex husband explained his abuse towards me when he tried to say that he needs some sort of "outlet" for his daily frustrations. I told him to go to a therapist, go the gym, or you know, get a punching bag. He deadass told me that punching bags don't cry, bruise, or bleed and you can't hit or scream at a therapist. Glad I left his ass in the dust years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:24 PM
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I used to get this a lot from abusive exes, as English isn't my first language, and some words I've only read or written. I've been told that I don't deserve to speak if I can't pronounce a word properly, or that my argument is invalid and stupid because of a mispronounced word. Most of the scrotes could barely speak one language properly, let alone know more than one. "Irregardless" is a big pet peeve of mine. Those same scrotes often used "big" words they didn't know the definition of. Railroa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:13 PM
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I'm teaching my daughter financial literacy and the importance of making the right financial decisions. The way I grew up, we were dirt poor. As soon as my parents came into a small windfall, it was gone as soon as it hit their bank accounts on new huge TVs, top of the line computers, new gadgets, etc. It took me years to get rid of that habit. Extra cash? Tax return? Work bonus? Straight into the high interest savings account, along with 15% of my paychecks. I'm going to be getting a female fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:14 PM
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Canada is actually tossing the idea around of providing a pension plan for women who've been out of the workforce due to child rearing. It's a step in the right direction of recognizing unpaid labour, but scrotes are always up in the comments sections saying "SaHm Do NoThInG aNd EaT BoNBoNs aLL day!!!1!!1" or "tHaTs DiScRiMiNaTiOn ToWArdS teh MeNZ!!!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:56 PM
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Yup. Living out our "golden years" in dire poverty and possibly homelessness is the thanks we get if we choose to be a sahm and devoting our lives to some scrote would couldn't really care less if we die on the street like an old stray dog. Grey divorces are on the rise (seniors getting divorced, usually scrotes "trading up" for a younger model). Many older widows are surprised when they find out they were left out of the Will and it went to another woman or all of it directly to their children …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:49 PM
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They want a trad wife but with none of the responsibilities of being a trad husband. They want a free loyal mommy bangmaid that pays 50/50 (sometimes more on her end), does all of the child rearing and housework, doesn't want to financially support a stay at home mom, and more, all while putting up with his cheating, lying, and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:35 PM
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The first paragraph alone almost made me fire my phone across the room in immediate disgust. LVM/NVM fathers absolutely do not see women or girls as human beings. They objectify their own daughters. Every woman and girl is fair game to these pedo creeps. As much as you need to save money for school, your safety is more important right now. Get a female roommate, preferably a friend. I have no idea how old you are, but if you're in highschool still, talk to a school counselor (make sure she's a w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:22 PM
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This is mood for life right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:41 AM
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I was told about it once by my mother as a "gross" thing that happens once per month. I was one of three girls. I was openly humiliated and shamed for leaks. Mine are and always were, even back then, extremely heavy and painful. I'm talking about needing to set an alarm every few hours to change my pad or tampon or else the bed would be covered. My mother would parade the sheets around the house in front of my sisters saying how much of a "dirty pig" I was, despite the fact that she'd leave bloo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:09 AM
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Exactly. This scrote almost had me, admitting his porn use is a huge factor, up until he called her lazy. Scrotes gonna scrote. Hope she goes through all the way with the divorce and glows up and thrives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:42 AM
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This. I was in dark places on and off throughout my earlier life. One of the first things I considered was how I would be found and by whom. I live in a country where firearms are hard to get. Even though there are gun courses and permits, women are denied them at a higher rate. No longer in those dark places, those days are far behind me now. Men tend to hang, jump (either in front of a vehicle or from a building) or shoot, often in places they're most likely to be discovered and/or witnessed. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:12 PM
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That'd the thing with AN, it's not about catering to the male gaze. It's about control when there is too much loss of autonomy and very few, if any, choices left for a woman/girl to make over her life. AN doesn't happen in a vacuum. I've dealt with it for years and I feel like it's never going to leave. The voices just get quieter, and we're always prone to relapse. Anyhow, yes, scrotes really do think women/girls having eating disorders is about men. Some of the comments I've heard/read through…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:59 PM
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Well written, sis. This is exactly it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:14 PM
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Men who fetishize a race are still racist. They hold these racialized stereotypes (like being submissive, subservient, polite, etc.) in their heads and apply it as a one size fits all. ETA; I've had men straight up tell me they're not racist because they'd rather jump in bed with (insert racialized women here) than white women. Just like misogynistic still use women's bodies, racists will still use women of a fetishized race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:28 PM
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This is why female friendships are crucial and a societal cornerstone; to weed out scrotes from shitting in the gene pool, to put and end to intergenerational trauma and abuse, and save our sisters heartache and potentially, their lives. We currently have men pitting women against women, girls against girls, mothers against daughters, and pickmes saying they have no female friends because WoMeN aRe CaTtY and BrInG DrAmA. We have the whole NLOG bullshit circulating and preventing a lot of women f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:21 PM
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Yup that was my "father". So moody that one of my first memories of him was him coming home from work in a shitty mood so he booted my mother in the lower back (right in the spine) with a steel toed work boot with no warning whilst she sat outside on the stairs in the back yard. Didn't even say hello first. Other ones were random insults, unpredictable fits of rage, and locking himself in the bedroom for hours and sulking. This was especially exasperated when there wasn't alcohol readily availab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:40 PM
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Here I was thinking I had the ultimate experience of having two narc parents, a couple of narc exes, and a narc MIL. I still couldn't outnarc them. I found that complete estrangement from my family of origin was the best answer to their games, and grey rock/VLC with my MIL works (although my HVM husband put her in her place last time she tried to pull shit with me in front of him). Thanks to Covid, we have an excuse not to run into her for his family get-togethers. The best treatment for narc ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:29 PM
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That documentary was so sad to watch. I developed body dysmorphia at around 10-11 without the abundance of social media today. It's sad to see that the majority of 8 year old girls tried dieting at least once. It's getting much worse now. Filters and airbrushing are affecting grown ass adults, I absolutely abhor what it's going to do to young minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:20 PM
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Agreed. Binge drinking is downright dangerous and he's just as much of an alcoholic as a maintenance user. He needs therapy, she needs to kick him out and level up. He obviously doesn't care enough about her that he's putting his life in danger and not addressing his piss problem and pushing her to her limits mentally. There's only one solution; alcohol counseling (without being asked by her) or gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:12 PM
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If men aren't becoming obsolete, them why is the y chromosome genetically breaking down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:59 PM
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Ugh this goes beyond period shaming. Men can watch a slasher film and not bat an eye. When it comes out through a vagina? They act like it's the end of humanity. Men can't stand the fact that women are not human shaped fleshlights devoid of human bodily functions, can they? I grew up with period shaming family members as well. My "father" thought the most disgusting part of being tipped over in a portapotty as a prank was the fact that there may have been tampons in it. Not the human shit or pis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:39 PM
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Sad that the only thing that makes them aim is if they think they're killing something with a stream of their urine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:58 PM
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Same here. I had zero usable photos of me with my kids from my NVX husband. The very few he did take, however, I had to beg him to take, and he made damn sure the angles were unflattering (taken at a slight upwards angle, taken in shitty lighting, for example). Zero pregnancy photos as well, and refused a prenatal shoot I offered to pay for. Pretty sad when all of my photos of me and my kids from that marriage were selfies. They do this on purpose. It's their way of erasing us. And the unflatter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:57 PM
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I told her this much. Make them scrub the entire bathroom wall to wall, floor to ceiling every time. A few times of doing this will make them think twice about pissing everywhere but the toilet. Most moms there were suggesting using the floating cheerio method, you know, the way we train actual toddlers how to aim. It's gonna take a lot more than cheerios to train laziness and depravity out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:33 PM
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That would get the scrotes' shit streaked boxers in a bunch for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:24 PM
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Such displays of rage is a sign of weakness. As soon as I see someone throwing a colossal tantrum, I've lost all respect for that person. Men are truly the weaker sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:27 PM
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The difference between male eating disorders and female eating disorders is that men will push their partners to join them in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:21 PM
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My NVX husband was very much like this. He said he absolutely hated my cooking (never did hate it in the beginning before marriage) and asked how the hell I don't get fired (I'm a chef by trade) and yet would buy frozen breaded chicken, frozen pizzas, and ate anything super processed and from a box or can. It was absolutely disgusting. Then he had the audacity to complain about his digestive issues (primarily ulcers in the stomach), being pre-diabetic, having high blood pressure (hello daily sod…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:17 PM
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No salt? Them boys headed for an electrolyte imbalance eating like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:55 PM
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Even as a childfree woman at childbearing age, you get discriminated against by employers. They assume we will all leave the workforce to have children. We can't win. Yup. I have children, but potential employers didn't know. Even though it's illegal, I've been asked my age and marital status at job interviews, and sneaky questions that hinted at family status. I usually ended the job interview right then and there, saying thanks but no thanks, won't take a job in a workplace that is this openly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:53 PM
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Legit spat out my redbull through my nose reading this 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:58 PM
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Wait til she gets very ill/recover from surgery and watch the whole house fall apart when she's on bed rest. Sure, she may get a day or two, but the chores will be piling up while she rests and she'll abandon resting early because she can't live in filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:08 PM
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This. If you leave and shut off utilities, he most likely will just trash your townhouse leaving you with tens, if not hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of damage to repair. Pack his shit, put it in the driveway, change the locks, and prepare to call the cops because he may get violent when he discovers it's over for good. Have a trusted friend/family member with you that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:38 PM
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We're gas-digging now? If he's seriously concerned about $1 worth of gas, he's too broke to be dating. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:32 AM
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It's too bad financial abuse is legal here. I live in BC and also tried to sue my ex for the equity I contributed and the money he stole from my bank account. He too called me a gold digging mooch (despite me paying 100% of the mortgage as "rent", paying the bills, and making almost twice as much as him). The lawyers I consulted both said that it isn't theft if money is stolen from a "spouse". It's ridiculous. If he mugged a stranger, he'd face legal consequences. If he steals money from a spous…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:26 AM
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I still have scrotes invading my space despite the six feet apart rule. I tell them to back off in a nice way (you know, because not being "nice enough" can get a woman assaulted), then some of them get big mad and start ranting about how "Covid is fake anyways so what does it matter" or calling me a "typical scared little girl" (I'm in my 30s, scrote). Pandemic or not, my personal bubble is about a six foot radius. Don't get me started on how many scrotes I see with a mask below their nose. Ent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:19 PM
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This right here. While we have men who "stealth" off condoms, IVF doctors using their own sperm, and male gynecologists impregnating patients via pap tests, how can we trust the average scrote to tell the truth and take responsibility? Men actually believe it's a fundamental human right to pass on their crusty DNA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:12 PM
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There is zero benefit to teenaged girls dating, or college age women dating, for that matter. Not until she's fully leveled herself up to the point where her tolerance for scrotes is at or near zero. Women are waking up, and the scrotes are big mad. Women are the ones who biologically get to choose the trajectory of the genetic future, and we're just starting to weed the scrotes out of the gene pool. It's more complicated due to the legislation of our bodies and how society views working mothers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:56 PM
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This. I'm teaching my daughter to focus first on schooling, then getting well established into her career before even considering dating someone. If I had a mother who taught me this instead of driving me out of home at the ripe old age of 16, I wouldn't have had to struggle well into my late 20's to get where I am today. If I had a do-over, I would have avoided dating like the plague until I was at least in my late 20's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:49 PM
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When most men's 'humor" is taking the piss at someone else's expense or is abuse disguised as 'humor", then they're not as funny as they think they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:41 PM
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I like anime too but not to the point where I sexualize it. Especially with a whole ass paint job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:34 AM
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I can't even start to imagine what the driver looks like My 11 year old son laughed and said "what a loser".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:33 AM
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Ding ding ding ☝☝☝ yup have a friend who works in a cancer ward. If cancer doesn't make em leave, a double mastectomy will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:53 AM
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I hope she wins in court. He has no right to access her DNA or another woman's uterus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:56 PM
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They truly view us as cash dispensing sex dolls. The only "gifts" scrotes seem to give is 2 minutes of unsatisfactory sex and the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:00 PM
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The older they get "lower value" to scrotes, the darker their skin gets and the more they weigh. Simply disgusting display of colorism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:55 PM
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Good to know that cycles may be messed up from the vaccine. I want mine, but the rollout here is slow and my age group is not expected to get ours til June (that's if they don't delay the rollout again) 😓 Edit; had the month wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:50 PM
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Straight up nope. Kinks and fetishes and paraphilia? Those are broken men. Furries are a special kind of depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:45 PM
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Multiple sclerosis and autism spectrum disorder, both invisible. My body likes to sabotage with flare-ups 4 or 5 times per year, but they seem to be getting fewer and further in between since I hit the gym a few years ago. I don't know how or why, it just works for me personally, and it's not a silver bullet. It may well be a placebo effect, but I'll take it. As for ASD, I used alcohol to ease my social anxiety and awkwardness. I quit drinking a few years ago and learned to cope in healthier way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:06 PM
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Can confirm; had a NVX and a LVX who just loved going down on women, but would give me shit if I didn't get off in less than a few minutes. One accused me of faking orgasms because I didn't "squirt". Pornsick egotistical scrotes they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:29 PM
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Hence why FDS is the only subreddit I'm active on. It's the only safe space where women are truly accepted. I've said it before and I'll say it again; this sub has helped me heal more than therapy alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:24 PM
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Welp, that got rid of my appetite for the rest of the week 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:11 PM
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I've had complete randoms just vent to me on the streets or at work (back in my customer service days). Like dude, I'm not a trash bin for all of your bad feelings and problems. I don't get how they feel entitled to bog strangers down with their emotional garbage. Get therapy. In Canada, this is covered by MSP (medical service plan) or privately through insurance (not that these scrotes would ever think ahead to get insured without the help of a woman to baby them through the process). My theory…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:10 PM
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It's not eugenics to want a financially stable man who can support children. It's not eugenics to have a sexually attractive partner. It's not eugenics to weed out men who would see their children (daughters especially) as added "bonus" objects for further sexual gratification. It's not eugenics to weed out men who can't be bothered to see women and girls as human beings. It's the bare minimum. Men selecting women (or girls) to resemble children more and more, selecting for smaller hips, smaller…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:13 PM
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Tell him you're busy one more time. Hopefully his balcony is a penthouse in a skyscraper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:56 PM
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I've been on both ends of the spectrum. Some nvm specifically date women who fall into the overweight category in order to bully them about their weight. There's no winning. And there's the type who date skinny women and bully them if they gain a few lbs. I've experienced both. I'm now slim but muscular and at a "healthy" BMI and I get called fat or told to lose weight. We're pawns in a game with only one rule; women can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:54 PM
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I often call these wooden carrots; all fake. They never do really intend to actually follow through on their future faking. They just want their plaything until they get bored or break her down and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:50 PM
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They don't even wait for her side of the bed to cool down before they have a replacement. I have a friend who works in a cancer ward. I get to hear her vent about a lot of scrotes abandoning their wives before they pass away. One in particular had me burning with the fire of a thousand suns; a husband broke up with his wife in the ward 2 hours after a double mastectomy (breast removal) saying, in tears, that she "wasn't a woman anymore" and he "can't do this anymore". Damn, I really hate men in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:02 PM
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A pitocin labour is hell on wheels. My youngest was a week overdue, but for a fucking football game? Peak depravity to put a woman through even more excruciating pain and risk complications for the sake of watching a ball get thrown around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:46 PM
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Men are the real ball and chain that keep women shackled in unpaid and thankless servitude/slavery. Scrotes can never not project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:48 PM
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Having children is not beneficial to women even in the best of circumstances and even in egalitarian households. Who does the school/daycare call when there's a problem or a sick kid? Mom. Who gets denied promotions and a pay cut and refusal to hire? Mom again. Who's retirement savings take a hit and who gets to retire in dire poverty? Mom. Society's view of motherhood needs to change as well as men needing to step up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:10 PM
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Well, then they can have fun being second best to photoshopped pixels and a limp dysfunctional dick. They can come to us after 10+ years of being a free mommy bangmaid forever gf who never has orgasms and being cheated on. Go ahead, pickmeishas. The dating pool is full of the scrotes we don't want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:43 AM
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This is on the money. My NV ex husband purposely changed his taste in music (he liked the same bands as I did) just to insult the music I listen to. Everything he professes he loved about me he turned out hating. It's a power and control thing, definitely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:13 AM
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Had 3, can confim. They get worse with each child. The one with my youngest were so bad I needed meds to control the pain. The nurse shamed me for asking, telling me that all I needed was ibuprofen. The actual words that came out of her mouth; "usually ibuprofen is enough for women. The only thing stronger we have is hydromorphine, and we give that to C section moms. Why did you want a baby if you can't deal with a tiny bit of pain?" What the actual fuck, coming from the mouth of another woman 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:51 PM
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It was pure projection. Introspection is a completely foreign concept to narcs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:10 PM
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Women have had it up to here with being forced into domestic slavery. The male breadwinners didn't often share the bread. They'd be off to the bar after work and if dinner wasn't hot and ready and the kids weren't as quite as church mice when he got on the door, the woman often paid a hefty price. I'm so sick of the veteran pickmes wearing their rose colored glasses. I've heard many old women say "well he treated us like crap but at least he got the bills paid".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:04 PM
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I just don't tell anyone I'm bi anymore. The last NVX knew I was, attempted to bully me for threesomes, then disallowed me to have any friends (women included) and used a barrage of homophobic slurs against me as his reasoning on why I wasn't allowed friends, and accused me of cheating constantly. Guess who turned out to be a pornsick serial cheater?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:46 PM
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Same! I noticed the difference in photos of when I was in an abusive relationship and when I was free. Night and day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:30 AM
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This is another reason we don't tell dates what they did to be blocked and deleted, so they don't know how to mask their beahviour, so it sends red flags to our sis. TRP already leaked their shit. Let em keep going, and let FDS keep growing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:27 AM
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Men are fertile 100% of the time. Women are fertile for about 2 days per month. Time for men to do their fair share. But wait, the male birth control that MRAs begged for has one side effect; headaches. Cry me a river. We risk strokes, cancer, blood clots, mood swings, depression, and much more when taking the pill. Including choosing undesirable mates we wouldn't have otherwise chosen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:23 AM
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All depraved and pornsick logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:37 AM
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When I was a server, it was always policy to ask for ID along with a credit card. I've caught a couple of guys using the woman's card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:01 PM
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First off, I'm so sorry you had to go through that. My father was also like yours, a depraved abusive pedo. I'm glad things turned out for you later on. It's horrid that some men are so depraved as to prey on their own flesh and blood, and view their daughters as objects for gratification. Pickme moms are the absolute worst. I am repulsed by the amount of pickmes who choose fucking pedos over their own daughters. They'd rather blame or gaslight their daughters than to come to terms with the fact…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:44 PM
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This has to be a male larper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:08 PM
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I'm willing to bet he's just sitting on the equipment not using it. Fucking gross pot bellied scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:23 PM
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This resonates deeply with me. Only those who've suffered abuse of any kind knows this feeling. I used to be an extrovert, happy, bubbly, and bit by bit it got chipped away. Now I have severe social anxiety almost to the point of agoraphobia. I watched as my drive to keep up my hobbies and art went out the window. At the end of my last NVX relationship, I didn't even recognize myself anymore. I've been married to a hvm for 3 years now, and I am slowly getting back into my hobbies. Finally have m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:11 PM
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Yes and no. First off, FDS has helped me heal in more ways than therapy alone has. I realized that it wasn't me, just scrotes being scrotes. For the longest time, I've asked myself how I went wrong. Was I not cool enough, pretty enough, young enough, thin enough, smart enough, not talented enough? But no, nothing is ever good enough for someone who refuses to see your worth and value. I tolerated; porn use, verbal abuse, rubbernecking, comments about other women's bodies, strip clubs, physical a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:12 AM
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They calls us all girls until it comes to defending pedos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:42 AM
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No surprise there. Porn rotted their brains and social skills away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:39 AM
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Of course it becomes a panic when men are affected. They threw an epic man child tantrum when the male birth control (which the man folks begged for when crying for EqUaLiTy) contained one side effect; headaches. And women's birth control comes with a whole host of life threatening issues. Glad my HVM husband offered to get a vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:34 AM
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Yup. I got a hvm husband who is an FDS ally. He doesn't feel the need to invade the sub. He won't hesitate to call a scrote out on being scrotey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:27 AM
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Marriage to most men is a scam. Most of them don't value any if the work we do because it's uncompensated. And when work is compensated, it's male dominated (see "women belong in the kitchen" and the culinary industry is male dominated because it's compensated, I'm a chef, I had to work my ass off to get where I am).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:23 AM
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We're used til they day we kick the bucket. Don't forget that in old age, we're also free babysitters for grandkids (not that I wouldn't love to spend time with my future grandkids), and also to care for aging husbands or a free psychiatrist. Men completely ignore the value we offer to them. No wonder women initiate divorce most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:19 AM
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Thanks so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:40 PM
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Do you have the link by any chance? I'd love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:11 PM
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The nvm who don't refuse to communicate (most do refuse by stonewalling) just love to hear how badly they hurt the women in their lives. Regarding that memory of my nvx, I now laugh at it because of how pathetic he was for doing that. It would have been way less effort to, you know, take me on a date or pay a few compliments instead of learning a whole ass new skill to use as a gaslighting tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:57 PM
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I don't have to imagine it. I've dated nvm who called me fat when I was at the height of my anorexia and in and out of the hospital. If I even got close to having a BMI of 19 I was called "morbidly obese" or he'd point out women in public who could be models and say "look at that whale". I swear men love dating women with eating disorders and body dysmorphia because it makes us and easy targets for abuse and gaslighting. One particular NVM put all the effort into cutting off the size tags and at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:03 PM
9

Wait til they catch the common cold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:54 PM
51

I do fear for my safety, yes. While we do not have many mass shootings in Canada, there's been a disturbing uptick in both domestic violence and random violent attacks against women here. And the justice system is not giving any jail.time to the perpetrators. Just releasing them on conditions. ETA; women using self defense is illegal here as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:50 PM
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I uses to date at age gaps because I used to believe (used to, key word) that they are ready to settle down, more mature, more financially stable and responsible. How wrong I was. I even tricked myself.into thinking older men were more attractive. Now when older men hit on me, it knits my stomach up and I have an automatic "eww" reaction. Men who are middle aged and divorced/single are broken in general. Add to that those who have a track record of only dating younger women. They were the most i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:24 PM
106

Came here to say this exactly. My life began in my 30s. More earning power, more career advancement, the ability to walk away from anything and anyone that doesn't serve me well, the ability to not give a crap about how men in general assess me, more confidence, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:52 PM
8

I doubt he's pumping and dumping anyone with that attitude of his. Scrotes like that are too dumb to censor theirselves on first dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:56 AM
26

FDS has actually helped me heal from my trauma more than therapy alone. I love how more and more women are discovering this subreddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:07 AM
8

Vice is a male pandering ass kissing dumpster fire. I'm not surprised. Thanks for mentioning way back machine. I'll use that for when I want to hate read that craptastic site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:52 PM
18

This is why I'm thankful I lived in Canada at the time I was married to my NVM ex husband and not the states. He gave me shit about needing a ride to the hospital. Just a car ride, and complained about gas money spent. Imagine if we had to pay for emergency room visits or doctor appointments, he'd be all about "wasting money" on me. I bet a lot of these religious institutions try to "pray away" women's illness while allowing the men medical care. Not to mention abuse literally hits a biological …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:49 PM
10

That's a shitload of effort into proving just how low effort and lazy he wants to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:40 PM
19

I'm on the autism spectrum. I don't weild it as a form of abuse or use it as a free pass to play mind games or insult people. Autism doesn't mean one can't learn to adapt to social situations. I've learnt over the years by therapy and trial and error how to read social situations, and adapted/applied accordingly. I swear most adult men either lie about having autism or if the do have it, they use it as an excuse to abuse women. My 11 year old son also on the autism spectrum has more emotional in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:35 PM
18

First of all, parenthood traps women. Motherhood gets you penalized in all aspects of life, career, education, social status, and stigma (single motherhood). It lowers her overall income and future prospects and sets her up for vulnerability to all sorts if abuse. Second, men are fertile 100% of the time. Women are fertile for a couple of days per month, so men should take responsibility for contraception if they have male BC available to them. Why should women have to take hormone altering pill…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:38 PM
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The 32% of attacks that weren't against women are disproportionately been against senior citizens. They'll beat on anyone who isn't a man their own size and age. The scrotes see women, seniors, and persons with disabilities as easy targets that have the least possibility of fighting back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:31 PM
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They'll use "lost" children and "abandoned babies" (empty strollers covered in blankets) to lure women as well. Don't help them yourself. Call the police. If they are truly lost or abandoned, the police will handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:16 PM
26

Finally. This needs to be classified as a hate crime everywhere. Gender based violence is hatred. It's been legal for far too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:12 PM
17

The whole thing about using mental illness to justify abusive behaviour is one of the most common invalidating tactics out there. If it were a woman with depression, she is vilified as used as a "crazy ex" validation for a man. If it's a man who beats his wife/gf, depression is used as a free pass. I have (treated) depression, cptsd, and generalized anxiety disorder with a touch of agoraphobia (the latter never used to be the case, I used to be an extrovert before that marriage). I don't go arou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:09 PM
40

I've been the target of many a smear campaign. If my friends want to believe him, well, they weren't really friends, now were they? I've turned smear campaigns in my favour by weeding out toxic people who were in my friend group. I blocked and deleted everyone who took part in the drama. I pretend these campaigns don't exist, because ignoring the narcissists is a huge hit to their fragile little egos and abysmally low self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:52 PM
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He probably started having an affair back in the early stages of the disease. She's not alive to tell her side of the story. He just wants to look better in the eyes of the public and to her family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:40 PM
100

Same. My nvm ex husband told me how much of a drop dead gorgeous model ex "got away" and if she'd give him a second chance, he'd have to divorce me. Absolutely is negging. I asked the same question, why is he with me? The answer I got was that I was better than nothing. Thank fuck that's over and done with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:38 PM
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I don't mean to reduce a woman to a car Yes, scrote, your whole post just did. Nice attempt at gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:33 PM
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It was identity theft online. He had all my info written down and stored somewhere (driver's license number, social insurance number, etc). Never letting a man anywhere near my ID again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:43 PM
47

Men are the real gold diggers. I've never met a man before my HVM husband who didn't ask what I did for a living and how much I make. I've been financially abused and straight up stolen from by nvx's. I've been screwed over by an NVX to the tune of $60k in total upon divorce despite him making more rhan I did (and that was just divorce, not including 7 years worth of wages from work). That one made sure I left the marriage with negative money; he pulled out credit cards and phones in my name and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:55 AM
21

My own father. The one I was supposed to trust to protect me. Nothing came of it because back in the day, police didn't believe children who were victims of sexual assault, especially when perpetrated by a close relative. My mother believed me at first and was enraged (mostly at me for "stealing her man"), then gaslit me about it because she didn't want to believe she was married to and sleeping with an incestuous pedophile. There were no signs. I was 4 fucking years old when it started, and 13 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:58 AM
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Fucking gross pig that scrote is 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:49 AM
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Yep currently going on right here. NVX is emotionally manipulating our autistic 11 year old son to come live with him by saying he'll end himself if he doesn't (several text messages as proof). And the courts ordered him every other weekend. Still fighting in court to stop his access, despite the psychiatrist and many counselors saying access to his father is detrimental to my son's mental health. Edit for clarity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:04 AM
14

Lv/nvm are oxytocin drains. Every time a woman tries to fill up her "well", a scrote comes along and siphons it dry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:07 PM
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Not so much new as finally I have regained time from these time theives called lvm/nvm. I've been an aquarist (aquarium fish keeper) on and off since I was 11 years. I've also played guitar since I was 6, painted from around that age as well. I've lost so much time for hobbies, had them disparaged so much by men, that I temporary gave then up to avoid abuse. Of course they found other things to abuse me for once I gave them up, for them to turn around with a narc grin and tell me that I should "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:40 PM
27

Men create their own dead bedroom by treating their wives like shit. They do it to theirselves when they become another child to their partner. They do it to theirselves when they cheat and abuse the woman into being unable to leave. And this pickme prostitute and many like her panders to these lv/nvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:17 PM
15

Conditioner? Omg my very own bottle of conditioner! We got an HVM right there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:18 PM
9

No guarantee that he won't number the sheets for you there, sis, but at least it's 2 ply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:17 PM
133

I just love this guy! My husband had a few laughs at his content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:12 PM
80

Exactly. Men over 35 are walking red flags in general. It feels like they've been vetted and failed, or they were non-committal and learned through trial and error how to manipulate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:11 PM
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Male depravity is so low that they throw away whole ass families, women and children for the sake of their limp pee-pees. They really don't view women and children as human beings, just toys to be tossed out with the rubbish when they get bored of them. This is why we ruthlessly vet and never stop vetting, and keep our own financial independence. A HVM can easily become lv/nvm after a decade or two. Marriage, commitment, and children aren't even guarantees that they won't go searching for "green…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:07 PM
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Of course the scrote made sure baby had absolutely nothing. This is why we need fds. They will straight up leave an infant with nowhere to sleep or no clothes to keep them warm in order to get back at a woman for skin colour. Colorist POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:23 PM
25

Regardless of looks, I've never known a single woman who hasn't been sexually harassed or assaulted in some way, my female family members included. I straight up went through an ugly duckling phase from ages 8-13 (think female version of bad luck Brian) and I started getting sexual comments from creepy uncles and friends of the family even when I was that unfortunate looking because I also started developing early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:14 PM
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Extremely rare? There are straight up abductions and many women and girls going missing in our area and the police are basically gaslighting women by releasing a public statement basically telling us to shut up and stop being so hysterical. Women are reporting being almost run off the roads by vans at night and some pedestrians being followed by vans, and the cops are saying don't listen to "rumours".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:06 PM
6

My husband just got his first mani-pedi last month and he loves it. Nothing wrong with self-care and wanting to look/be clean. He can't fathom why men think it's "gay" to wash their asses and how scrotes can run around in shit stained underwear and last week's clothes and think nothings wrong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:59 PM
6

They say this like women don't have a set of functioning eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:56 PM
4

Nothing says "manly" like a pair of shit-stained britches and week old moldy morsels clinging for dear life in the beards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:55 PM
24

How many women with mom bods has this scrote dated?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:33 PM
15

Good. More scrotes should snitch on theirselves up front. It would save us a lot of time, money, and mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:23 PM
11

Yeah but they'd probably blame her for it and drive her out of the church
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:22 PM
11

Given that a lot of scrotes don't even wash their limp dicks between hookups or affairs, it's safe to say that men may be the hpv superspreaders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:11 PM
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I got my first from a man when I got with my HVM husband 4 years ago. In the past, I only got them when I with women. I've noticed that men in general don't give a shit when giving their partner orgasms. I had an ex tell me that my "junk must be fucked up and deformed" because I couldn't get off via penetration alone and in a span of a whole two minutes of pornsick style sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:08 PM
11

So if she were short on money and needed to buy baby formula, the scrote would shrug his shoulders and let his infant starve? This is peak scrotacity. My nvx's daughter had a similar arrangement. He makes six figures, she's lucky to break 30k working in a long term care home. She had 3 of his kids, and he said since they "came out of" her, she pays 100% of the child related expenses. "Luckily" for her, there's no medical expenses because we live in Canada. Here's another kicker; due to the natur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:00 PM
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Men's day is every day, 364 days a year, 365 on leap years. They flip epic shit when we get ONE day. Do we even get equal pay and equal rights that day of the year? Pfft no. White scrotes at work be complaining about black history month as well, or any day for marginalized and subjugated people, for that matter. The worst hissy fits I see though, are International women's day and domestic violence awareness month. Fucking privileged pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:46 PM
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Probably by forking over her paycheck to him from her job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:50 PM
71

I was that pickme. I was miserable as well about it. I used to go to strip clubs with my exes, but I'd feel insecure and deeply hurt during and afterwards. I thought that if I was the "cool girl", they'd have no reason to cheat. I learned the hard way that scrotes are gonna scrote no matter how "cool" or conventially attractive you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:10 AM
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You can't even get a coffee for $3 anymore. Next the scrotes will be giving tips on how to take your date to a soup kitchen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:38 AM
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Calling the women should be the first thing these therapists should do. I've read Bancroft's book. It was very insightful and helpful in understanding just how stacked up the system is against women and he highlights the unchecked male privilege which enables abusers. The one part which really stuck out to me was how a psychiatrist diagnosed an abuser's ex wife with a personality disorder without ever having spoken to her, based off the scrote's side of the story 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:01 PM
3

Let's make this easier. I'll bring my John Deer backhoe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:11 AM
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Group therapy for abusers though is a completely different thing. My nvx was court ordered to go to a program called "respectful relationships" after battering me while I was pregnant. It didn't work. It gave him a whole new arsenal of abuse tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:35 PM
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You can't be healthy in a sick environment Completely agree. My therapy wasn't working until after my divorce from my nvx. This applies to everything, though. As long as society enables and encourages scrotey behaviour, they'll weaponize therapy to their advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:31 PM
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What in the smooth-brained shit is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:06 AM
17

Yeah the cops have way too much power here for sure. The justice system here is stacked against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:17 AM
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I tried to go the route of plausible deniabilty since there are bears and cougars in my area. I had a cop (friend of my uncle) tell me that even though I'm carrying it with intent to use it against wild animals, the second I turn it on a human, it becomes assault with a weapon. Pepper spray is not the best option for self defense IMO. The wind can always change directions in a heartbeat. Out of curiosity, I sprayed some in an open area. Even if you're not in the stream, it makes breathing really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:29 AM
37

Martial arts isn't illegal, using them against an attacker is, depending on police discretion. Police frown upon womens' use of force generally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:55 PM
17

My nvx (aged 45 at the time, yeah, yuck, what was I thinking) actually married an 19 year old through mail order (don't know if that's the politically correct term, so please do correct me if I'm wrong) from the Philippines shortly after I dumped him (I'm talking less than a year). From what I understand about the process, it takes a few years. He was literally planning this while with me. His long term wife divorced him about two years prior to dating me. He said he was sick of dating "white gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:14 PM
12

Imagine if it was the other way around; "I dated him for 8 years, I planned on marrying him, them he went bald, so I'm looking for a man with a full head of hair". The internet would be up in flames.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:03 PM
22

I've dated a Ukrainian nvm and a Czech nvm. Never again. They were entirely abusive, manipulative scrotes. I was strongly advised against Eastern European men in general. I have a friend from Croatia who said their men are absolute trashcan fires. I believe her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:01 PM
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I had to go back and check that. Ffs gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:53 PM
10

That $2.30 an hour BTW? Yeah, it is the amount that gets deducted by the tax man. Servers in the states live solely off of tips. So in reality, the bosses are paying servers $0.00 an hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:49 PM
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UBI just got proposed and immediately rejected in my province (BC, Canada). We were so close to getting some semblance of freedom for women here. The status quo of female reproductive slavery favors the current system. I was just on another post here about how women practicing self defense is also illegal in Canada. It seems the government is taking the easy way out when panicking about declining birth rates. It's easier to remain a scrote than to do the difficult thing and change for the better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:36 PM
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It reminds me of when grown ass men melted down like toddlers and pitched an epic conniption over the Gillette commercial. If these incel types put in the same amount of effort working on bettering themselves as they did raising hell over a commercial or a cartoon character, maybe they wouldn't have such a problem when it comes to finding a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:22 PM
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I live in Canada and can confirm. Been jailed (not convicted though after fighting the charges in court) twice for self defense. I know that there's no legal weapon to use. I have a good sized vape I can use to knock a scrote over the head with though. We're not even allowed to use air horns here because they have the potential to deafen an attacker. Women here aren't even allowed to preserve their own fucking lives. I've seen men get off with self defense, hell, even the cops won't arrest or la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:56 PM
131

This is why I don't tell people that I'm bi. They automatically assume I'm into threesomes or try to pressure me into them. Or couples assume I'm a spare toy to spark up their dying sex life. Block, delete, and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:42 PM
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I've been the placeholder over and over again. I've always questioned where I went wrong to be good enough to bed but not to wed. Turned out I was letting scrotes have access to me and ignoring red flags. I've been married before, but turns out it was because my nvx's religious grandmother pressured him. I'm remarried to a hvm now who wanted to be with me for years. Scrotes don't care, and brag even, when they waste years of a woman's life while out finding a wife. Even marriage isn't a guarante…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:35 PM
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Of course they don't want to go the direction of giving women more freedom and equity. That would strip away some of their precious privilege. This is exactly what men fear; giving women a choice to be happily single rather than chained down to some scrote. Men shouldn't have a right to make decisions or arguments in bills which affect women. The birthrates are falling globally. I wonder why. Maybe women around the world are realizing their worth and value and refusing scrotes access to their bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:24 PM
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This is a sad and infuriating read. (Trigger warning) I was straight up dumped because my nvx's buddy drugged and sexually assaulted me at the party said ex was throwing. He said that *ape was still cheating. If course he still stayed friends with the scrote, and spearheaded a smear campaign about how I'm a cheating something rather.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:51 PM
107

I have MS, and I'm preparing for this financially. I've been bolstering my savings since I was diagnosed years ago. My husband is a HVM, and I would like to think he'll stay, but when illness is thrown in, men can become low/negative value. He had stuck with me through flare-ups and has taken care of me when I was in a lot of pain without complaining so far, but I always keep in mind the statistics and real life stories of abandoned women suffering chronic pain and illnesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:43 PM
24

Trump was and is a serial cheater. Goes to show that no matter how "feminine" and thin a woman is, a scrote will always scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:44 PM
5

It's straight up dangerous to live with someone who has sole ownership of the home. This is asking for instant homelessness should he get bored and decide to "trade up". Ask me how I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:55 PM
29

There are actually small silicone stickies you can place over your nipples for going braless. I've found them in drug stores (shoppers drug mart in Canada, for example). Those things have been a lifesaver for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:50 PM
22

All that audacity coming from a fat old dusty. Classic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:23 PM
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Let them get those dolls. It will stop the scrotes from shitting in the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:14 AM
29

Looks like a red pill/PUA tactic. Sounds like a broke ass dusty trying to protect the gold that he doesn't have. We have to render coffee and walking dates as widely socially unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:18 PM
10

These scrotes aren't digging "fertility". They're digging for childlike looks, because they hate the way a mother's body looks (stretchmarks, etc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:01 PM
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Straight from the scrote's mouth. It's doesn't matter if you're conventionally attractive. They'll find a way to disrespect you in the end. Had she been "average" for looks but had more in common with him, guaranteed he'd be on there whining about how he wants a supermodel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:26 PM
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I've had some of the men in my life ask if I have a hobby, only to forget it later on. They've dead on thought I was a horse or dog trainer (must have got me mixed up with another woman). I'm an aquarist (fish keeper) in my spare time. Then I get the "that's not a real hobby. Fish are easy! You just plop 'em in a tank and feed them!". Yeah no, I'm just replicating perfectly balanced contained mini eco systems which have little margin for error but okay. Not as easy as sitting in front of screens…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:51 AM
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I'm right there with you, sis. "Sorry" has been with me since childhood. I'll say sorry when I get asked why I said sorry. Give it a decade, the impulsive need to say it will fade with time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:46 PM
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The perfect response to negging is a block, delete, and walk away. But I'm tempted to respond in the following ways; "How tall are you, really? Looks like those shoes have a bit of a 1", maybe 2" platform to them". "Is that your real hair? They make really good hair pieces and toupees these days" "Do you have kids? You've got a wee bit of a dad bod going on there" *firm pat on the beer gut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:35 PM
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It definitely triggered relapses in my anorexia. I developed anorexia at the age of 11, with several relapses. It's been 3 years since my last relapse. Porn and a few weight-shaming NVX kept me in a perpetual cycle of recovery and relapse. Something about being rejected by a fat, short, ugly, hairy scrote bag in favor of photshopped images and videos of underage "actresses" instilled a deep sense of shame within myself. I was forever gazing back at a reflection that needed to be carved down, whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:29 PM
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I still am in the habit of thanking my HVM husband for basic shit. "Thanks for watching the kids" and "thanks for cleaning the kitchen/living room/etc". He's like "I live here too" and "I'm a father, why are you thanking me?". It's hard to shake a few decades of abuse and men doing way less than the minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:59 PM
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It's not biology though? Secondary sex characteristics such as wide hips, fat deposits on the hips, thighs, buttocks, and breasts that shows biological "maturity". These little things are called "external cues". Men have literally had those melted out of their brains by porn, along with psuedoscientific babble articles on how being attracted to "youth" is a valid biological argument for being a straight up pedo. With all the *ncest and teen categories being top hits, most men shouldn't be father…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:47 PM
33

My NVX husband is just bent about the PH thing. Unfortunately I still have to coparent with this abusive pornsick clown. He spouts off his stupid conspiracy theories and is very pro trump despite being Canadian. He was saying that the "prudes" are trying to take the joy of life away from men and that the numbers of trafficked women are "made up" and that attraction to underage girls is normal because "muh biology" and "in the bible days....". No. Get nuked. My HVM husband will step in, cut him o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:39 PM
13

A lot of men out there having dad bods but have zero biological children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:31 PM
16

The heartbreak in her voice. I felt that to my core. A lot of us had been there before. The men applauding him are publicly telling on theirselves. It's only a matter of time before FDS becomes public knowledge and more women learn how to weed out scrotes. The scrotes know this, too. That's why they're scared. They're lashing out because they know that they'll have to step up to the plate and that the status quo will be no more. They're learning that women are happy with being single. That singl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:20 PM
13

I've been accused of having a "sugar daddy" at a bar (I worked at) once by one of the regulars. I swung around on my bar stool upon hearing this, and told her that I pay the entire rent, bills, food, phone bills, and this "date" (again, it was my after work beer my NVX decided to intrude on and add to my tab) for the unemployed loser sitting next to me. He got pissed, naturally. And I'm over here like "what? It's true. You paid half the rent the first month then refused to get a job after quitti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:15 PM
46

I hate the treatment that I get at hardware places as well. I'll usually go to a female employee if I need help if they have any staffed. My grandfather taught me everything I know about mechanics and home improvement. I don't need a condescending old guy in an orange apron talking to me like I'm a child. Have you heard of the YouTube channel "Dad how do I"? He has tutorials about almost everything from home improvement and mechanics to baking and gift wrapping. He made this channel during the p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:59 PM
6

Once the dual arrests clauses came in, domestic violence reporting has gone down. Basically our justice system is telling us to shut up and sit pretty. Fighting back is considered "unladylike" by society in general, which is why we're seeing many DV survivors locked up. This problem is definitely worse for indigenous women and women of color. 40% only cops are known DV perpetrators. I'll never call the cops for help knowing that it's a coin flip if an abuser will show up to the scene. Men have l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:11 AM
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Studies have shown that the lower a man's dating market value is compared to his mate (money, status, looks), the higher his use of negative "mate retention" tactics are, such as crushing her self esteem through abuse, monopolizing her time, electronic surveillance, mate concealment (refusing to take her to staff Christmas party, for example), disparaging her to competition ("she's pretty, but she's a pain in the arse"). I've dated men who are way below me in looks. They were complete nightmares…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:55 PM
10

They're not too lazy to throw a heart/comment on all of the IG thirst trap pics though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:43 PM
95

It's literally the first thing scrotes talk about when talking about equality; the right to beat/hit women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:28 PM
13

First arrest, my ex had nail marks on his hands from me trying to pry them off of my throat, and I punched him in the side of the head to stun him enough to run away. I was held for about 24 hours after I was treated at the hospital and released on bail. I spent the time in the hospital cuffed to the bed with officers rotating shifts explaining to the doctor what happened to me. Scrote just got booked and released. It took almost a year for Crown to drop the charges against me. I was basically f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:05 PM
11

6'2" here and dated a couple of insecure short scrotes. Got shamed for my height and told I was not "allowed" to wear high heels or any shoe other than flats, and told to shrink myself down for couples photos. One refused to take me on dates unless out of town because he said my height "embarrassed" him, and if we went to another town, it's "not like I'll run into those people again". Also lots of time wasted in my OLD days even when I put my height in my bio and scrotes still thought it was nec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:59 AM
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Fellow Canadian here. Our laws suck, big time. We have virtually no right to self defense, especially if your a woman using self defense. I was arrested twice for self defense, one of them being a nvx who fully intended to end me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:51 AM
46

One direction; that's what makes you beautiful. It's about how being beautiful but not knowing it and being insecure is "beautiful".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:26 PM
37

This is why we have a bunch of pedos and pedo apologists. "Well in the bible days" or "muh biology" arguments fall on deaf ears to me. (Ethical) humans at least give two or three heats to an animal before breeding them, yet if a girl bleeds for the first time, she's a "woman", even if she's 9 years old. Pedos weren't as rampant and as widely accepted as they are today. Porn has been melting the prefrontal cortex of many a male for about 50 years now, eroding empathy til we're left with a vast wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:25 AM
72

He stole that laptop from his ex gf for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:09 AM
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Being someone who dated at an age gap, they're abusive, manipulative pieces of shit. My first NVM boyfriend was 30. I was 17. Thats the same age gap where you're at. What does a creep of that age have in common with someone still in highschool? He sexually assaulted me, isolated me, forced a pregnancy, then his family took that child from me. Fast forward to when I was 19, newly lost my child. 37 year old scrote moved in on me. Took my trauma and exploited it. I married him. Had two kids with hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:41 AM
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No. It's a him problem. He can figure it out when he has to pack his shit and head to his buddy's/mommy's couch or to the nearest homeless shelter. fucking scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:12 AM
46

Like they ever helped us. Do you know how many men on the Titanic cross dressed to board the lifeboats when it was women and children first?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:38 PM
25

The millionaires I knew who came from new money (self made) are scrotes. They're shit towards waitstaff, incredibly cheap dates, and complain about gold diggers. Meanwhile, they have the best of the best gadgets, clothing, appliances, computers, dress flashy and wear huge gold rings, etc whilst asking you to reimburse them for McDonald's (true story) and demand 50/50 for dates. They would also only want to date women much younger than they are. One in particular threw his middle-aged wife and te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:30 PM
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I bet you none of these replies were from men. Men would jump at the chance to tear her down about that post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:53 PM
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My answer to that is "I have no regrets" followed by a block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:57 PM
55

Vancouver, Canada; Fake "woke femeinists" poser scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:09 AM
11

Nice. A married single mom. It's leagues easier to be a physical single mother than it is being with a husband who isn't interested in even holding his own offspring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:47 PM
24

If they get yelp for women then I'll create DickAdvisor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:29 PM
85

I stopped telling people I draw anime because one of the first things guys request is hentai. Sexual attraction to a cartoon characters is a mental illness created by pornsickness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:24 PM
52

If the scrotes knew anything about Valhalla, it is that most people don't go there. They join their family im the underworld. Valhalla was for greatness and accomplishment, not for some cheeto inhaling, mountain dew guzzling, glued-to-the-screen ass neckbeard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:18 PM
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Any man who says this to me would get a reply along the lines of "You're wallet is looking a little thin, like your receding hairline. You're skinny everywhere except for that beer gut you got going on. Hit the gym. Do something. I kinda like you best friend, he's kinda tall, and his dick probably works too, just wow". That'll deflate his ego right quick. Knock him down off that pedestal he puts himself on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:41 PM
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Or men who ask the wrong questions aka trauma digging for his arsenal of psychological abuse. "How's your relationship with your parents?", "do you live alone?", "do you have many friends?", "how were your exes?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:47 PM
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There's a scrote at my husband's work who pulls that shit. Pisses everywhere except the fucking toilet. He's been reported by many, but no one will do anything about it. ETA; it's sad that men will aim better when they think they're drowning out a living creature in a stream of piss. The pure depravity. Edit; spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:55 PM
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These pigs do it on purpose. My son doesn't leave piss puddles all over the place, but his father (NVX) always did, and refused to clean it up because its WoMeN's WoRk. Thank fuck that's over. Edit; spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:53 PM
18

"It's easier dating as a woman", yeah, and it's also easier to be kidnapped, trafficked, sexaully assaulted, beaten, tortured, and murdered as a woman as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:10 PM
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TW; Self harm, suicide attempt, sexual assault I'm not surprised. I unholstered a cop's gun at the age 15 and tried to shoot myself. He insisted that it wasn't my abusive mother, the cocktail of meds I was on that weren't properly prescribed, nor my dad's sexual abuse that was the problem. No. I was the problem. Its not problem children. It's scrote cops and problem parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:13 AM
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Listen here and listen good; the cops are not your friends. At least 40% of them are domestic violence perpetrators. And we all know that the number is much higher, because it's underreported, due to how much power and discretion they have. They will, and absolutely will use anything against a woman to prove her "guilt". If you were drinking, they'll use that against you if you were a victim, saying that you put yourself in "that position". If the male was drinking, they'll use that against you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:56 AM
346

The fucking depravity of this monster. I hope he gets the death penalty to be honest. There is no hope or cure for individuals such as him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:40 PM
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6'2" here. Can confirm, there are not a lot of men who want a woman even close to their height. Most men I did date had a strong napoleon complex. Even had a date 2 inches taller than me say I was too tall for him. Every single one of my exes (and dates I've noped out on) brought up my height as a dislike. My hvm husband, however, loves my height and has never expressed dislike of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:22 PM
31

It's mostly men I see wearing their masks below their noses or under their chins come to think about it. Totally entitled and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:16 PM
42

But she's soooooo cool, you guys!!! Totally not like us shallow materialistic lonely wall-hitting cat ladies! Who wouldn't pick her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:13 PM
6

My husband paid for a Galentine's date so that my best friend and I could get away from the kids for a few hours. Hit the roller rink, bowling alley, and the arcade. Won much prizes! He was waiting at home with ordered in sushi and flowers when we got back. Did not disappoint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:53 PM
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Congrats on your freedom, sis! I was overly happy/borderline manic for weeks after I left my NVX. The absolute freedom left me feeling ecstatic. No reporting in as to my whereabouts or worry about texting/calling back fast enough, no one tracking my every movement via GPS, no one taking my hard-earned money, no one screaming insults at me, being able to eat again without being picked apart, it was an amazing feeling. I also got the motivation to quit drinking and live my life again. I felt this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:53 PM
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So let me get this straight; this "decent human being" is pissed off that women won't let him abuse them (sub-dom shit) and wonders why women are blocking and deleting his ass? The "free meal" was probably a 2 for $20 lunch special at Applebee's and expected her to lay on her back like a cheap prostitute. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:44 PM
45

Your prospective future children are temporary (they grow up), my sanity is forever. Happy breakup day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:39 PM
48

Excuse him? He said he was wasting his youth with her? Fucking scrote. Scrotes never fucking change. They love the privilege of being an abusive nvm. They get worse, trust me. She's wasting her youth on him. She has to come to this conclusion herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:52 AM
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I wish I could update this 1000 times. I'm bi as well and find women in their 30s plus more attractive. I'm in my 30s and I know my worth. I know I'm attractive. My confidence sucked in my 20s and I was told once I get into my 30s I wouldn't give af. And it's true. I'm more attracted to people who know their worth and are secure in who they are. Only predators go after those who are vulnerable. That's why that one direction song about a beautiful insecure woman makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:27 AM
6

Golden roses ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:15 AM
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It happens. Fucking patriarchal bullshit. I got a good lawyer both times. Not surprised when most cops are abusers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:28 AM
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Been on bail twice for self defense all seriousness. They don't even allow a few nail marks on his hands for stopping actual strangulation before they'll jail you, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:25 AM
20

Probably Primerica
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:23 AM
130

The circus rolled into town with this one 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:10 AM
2

At a local salon in Vancouver, Canada. Dont want to give out an exact location due to scrote lurkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:00 PM
240

🤣🤣🤣 so women wanting to be treated with respect are toxic now? They want trad wives, which can't they be trad men? Like paying for dates, having a job, supporting their family, not cheating, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:19 AM
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"Girls" 🙄. Unless we're underage and sexually assaulted, then we're "underage women".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:23 AM
6

My heart failure and recurring bronchitis actually improved when I left my nvx. My complexion improved. My body improved. My acid reflux went away. I had pics of me in the beginning and near the end of that relationship, and a year afterwards. I looked gaunt and pale, emaciated, just drained generally when I was right near the end of the relationship. It's like our bodies have a self-destruct switch on them. Edit; spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:55 PM
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There are women and girls currently going missing in our area and not found and our local police department is calling it hysteria and to not pay attention to social media posts about women being baited and stalked. The gaslighting and victim blaming is real. Edit; a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:33 AM
18

They were attracted to them whilst they were underage. They're just waiting until its "socially acceptable" to wank it to their image. They'll still pull up their underage images, though. Same goes for scrotes who are attracted to women who are of age, but look underage, prime example; Ariana Grande. It's called secondary sex characteristics, a lot of which she lacks. "But she's in her 20's", yes, she is, but she looks underage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:42 PM
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Fellow NIN fan checking in! Trent Reznor is very talented and passionate about his work, and intelligent. He's been calling out Manson on his scrotacity for a long ass time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:33 PM
21

They have a problem with women existing without men. They feel entitled to judge, pick apart, critique women's bodies, which is why they absolutely loathe women only gyms. Mixed gyms are an absolute cesspool of lv/nvm and I refuse to work out alongside men who want so kindly to offer "help" or have their eyes locked on you while you're just trying to do your thing. They can't stand not being allowed to mansplain over women or spew vitriolic shit at us if our opinions differ from theirs. They can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:13 PM
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I wish mgtow would actually shut up and go their own fucking way, as their title suggests. But no, they have to show they world how lv/nv they are and how much they hate women. Edit; spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:57 PM
5

Congrats on your new home! Real estate is harder for women to access without being given higher mortgages, higher interest, and even higher buying prices, or outright denied a mortgage. The system is rigged against female homeownership and independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:51 PM
19

The audacity of this underage baby-faced looking scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:05 PM
11

If he wanted to be financial stable, he would have already done it. Let him drink and wank himself alone til the end of his days in his broke down mobile home or dingy damp apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:59 PM
51

I don't entertain scrotes who use whistles or snaps or "oi!" to get my attention. I used to look around ask out loudly if someone was looking for a lost dog. But I won't even do that anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:56 PM
10

Lesson learned. Ugly or unattractive men are usually the same on the inside. Multiple studies have confirmed that LVM/NVM tend to use negative "mate retention" behaviors, especially when paired with attractive women. Beauty and the Beast is a prime example of how women are brainwashed from childhood to give ugly men a chance because they are probably "beautiful on the inside".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:59 PM
14

My NVX just hated my existence. I consider myself conventionally attractive which is why a few exes worked hard to hide me. One in particular bullied me into deleting all social media and he still found ways to drag me down about my looks. He wielded my eating disorder against me. I became a bag of bones, and he still called me fat and ugly. He laughed in my face when he showed up to the hospital after I fainted and hit my head on the way down at work, saying that I was a "pathetic try-hard atte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:44 PM
36

I used to be one of those "cool girls" who "hated" valentine's day years ago. Truth is, it stung watching other women get showered with love and gifts on that day. Who's fault was that? That's right, my former pick-me ass 🤡. NLOGs and pickmes saying they don't care about that day are just showing lvm/nvm just how low of an effort these men can put in. If he can't, for one fucking day of the year, put in any effort, it isn't going to happen any other day of the year neither. Whether it's a random…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:09 PM
27

This right here. I've seen women in my community and growing up who were thrown out of the home by their middle aged or old scrote for a woman in her 20's. Some scrotes will also go above and beyond leaving them completely destitute, they will leave a woman in debt just before discarding them by taking out loans, cell phones, and credit cards in their names and racking them up. They will fritter away a woman's youth, money, time, life, mental health, everything, just to toss her away once the we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:37 AM
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It happened whenever a movie came on or a show on TV and some scrotes pulled that line, which is just short of pulling out their limp dick and wanking it whenever they see said celebrity. I'm just like "she has so many other more HV options. Is she really gonna go for Bruce the countertop installer?" That pissed him right off. "It's just fantasy", no scrote, it's a deliberate hit to my self esteem you're attempting. Bye, scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:58 PM
33

It's never a small reason. A red flag is a red flag is a red flag. The dishes example? The scrote is a slob, and he'll expect a woman to take over the chores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:57 PM
56

I met him in highschool and knew him for over a decade before we started dating. I had a long-ass time to vet from a distance and observe. He finally asked me out 4 years ago when he got to the place he wants to be career-wise (he didn't think he was HV enough until he was financially secure enough to support a family, which lead to the long wait). We married one year after dating, had a baby soon after. He still pursues me like he did when we started dating. He still puts in the same, if not mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:37 PM
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We met in our senior years in highschool, been pretty much inseparable since then. We're both into music, philosophy, writing, getting outdoors. He was my only male friend, didn't hit on me, protected me whenever men hit on me when drunk (long long time ago, been sober for years now). I've been pretty much a close friend of the family during my 20's. We were both single for a few years in our late 20's, and he finally struck up the nerve to ask me out since we've known each other forever. I said…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:23 PM
87

It's possible, these types are just hard to come across. The key is that he never stops trying to impress you. Most men have it twisted; the gifts start to slow or stop once they think they've got you. Watch for things like that even when you've got a wedding planned. The date quality should not go down neither. Granted, there's covid to contend with, so he still orders in sushi and we make our own order-in dates until this pandemic is finally over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:04 PM
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Also; abusive men are 50% more likely to go for full custody and try to deny access to their ex wives/ex gf. I don't trust a single dad with a sob story. I've never met a single dad who didn't say "their mother is psychotic" or "she left for a life of drugs and prostitution". Their sob stories all demonized their exes, the mother's of their children. Of course, I had them elaborate on their other relationships out of curiosity. Guess what? All "psychotic" 🙄 In roughly 70% of cases where the woma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:39 PM
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Like that dream woman or celebrity would fuck their dusty broke ass in the first place. I pulled that line whenever my exes said shit like "if (celebrity) were in front of me, you'd have to understand, that she'd be a once in a lifetime thing". See ya, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:29 PM
15

Fellow Elaine Benes fan checking in 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:58 PM
6

They don't have a six pack, they've got a keg instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:48 PM
10

They don't have a six pack, they've got a keg instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:48 PM
44

I'm going to go ahead and put on my tinfoil hat here; it's an active femicide. More and more women are being locked up for defending theirselves against abusers. • All it takes is a man putting in a fake report to cops accusing her of DV or nail marks on his hands from when she tried to pry them off of her throat. Dual arrests are getting alarmingly common. A criminal record will bar such a woman from employment, housing an education, etc. • Even in "stand your ground" states, women get life in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:45 PM
40

Strangulation is attempted murder. It is the number one predictor of spousal homicide. Why it isn't charged as such is infuriating. My life was almost ended the same way. She had broken capillaries in her throat ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:26 PM
33

"Not physically/sexually abusive", "doesn't cheat", and "has a job" used to be my standards. We've been brainwashed into elevating less than the bare minimum of treatment from men. One of my exes got triggered when he was trying to make a case of why he should get a second chance; "I never hit a woman in my life", so? That's bare minimum, what else do you have to offer?, "well I never cheated on you and I've had many opportunities to", okay, but still bare minimum, what do you have to offer besi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:04 PM
9

It's another way of y-washing history. Women historically had to change their last names and children automatically got their fathers' last names to signify ownership. The male's name carries on throughout the ages, but the woman disappears completely after a few generations and is all but buried and forgotten in the sands of time. I chose my own last name (had a name change across the board to divorce my toxic family on both sides) and I kept my last name when I got married to my hvm husband. M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:32 PM
427

Some scrotes don't even take headphones as a fucking hint. I've straight up had ear buds ripped out of my ears, and an iPhone smacked out of my hands after ignoring his "take them out" gestures. Men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:21 PM
68

"Wowing" him probably consists of letting him mooch off of you, letting him mentally abuse you (along with other types of abuse), and putting up with unsatisfying sex and possibly sexual assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:18 PM
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My hvm grandfather warned me early on about these types. He said most men out there will buy you McDonald's and expect you to lay on your back like a cheap prostitute, so beware of low effort guys who whine about paying under $50 for a dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:14 PM
46

No. I don't entertain or "wow" unemployed divorced scumbags. He literally has jack fuck to offer. The fucking audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:10 PM
15

I live in Canada where we have paid maternity (15 weeks) and parental leave (kicks in automatically after the 15 weeks is up), our choice of 55% of our wages for 12 months or 33% of our wages for 18 months. Some of us still can't afford to take parental leave, and leaves the door wide open for financial abuse. It's much worse in the states, though. From what I understand, it's 3 weeks UNPAID. What the hell is that, even? Women risk a shit ton when taking leave here. Even though pregnancy/childbi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:30 PM
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I've seen exes on OLD and the profiles are hilarious, as they're all lies. First one was my nvm ex husband; said he was generous, kind, loves to help out around the house, loves going on dates, and a great listener. He was the exact opposite; he's a lazy, pornsick limp-dicked, financially abusive, gaslighting, manipulative, physically abusive slob who believes women should do 100% of the childcare, housework, and fork over her money to him when she works. He didn't want to support his own kids, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:43 PM
43

I've been thrown to the wolves early by my family. Staying in relationships for survival is a cold, grim reality many women are facing. Girls are usually thrown to the wolves on their 19th (18th in some cases, whenever the legally defined adult age is depending on location) birthday often before even graduating highschool. That often throws a monkey wrench in post secondary education plans for many who've grown up in poverty or even middle class. The alternative to survival relationships is life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:31 AM
94

Fixing mickey-moused chores is more infuriating than doing them ourselves. And men know this, and pull this strategic incompetence shit on us to avoid chores altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:04 PM
566

This is the tragic result of the current housing crisis. More and more women are trapped in abusive relationships and rushed into things because of the crushing cost of living and wage gaps. Where I'm from (BC, Canada), you can't even get a run-down mobile home for under $250k, even in the suburbs. Condos start at around 500k for a studio. It's ridiculous, unless you wanna move to some backwoods middle of nowhere town isolated from friends and family with no job or career opportunities. Rent is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:03 PM
42

"Well, your mother certainly struck out with you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:57 PM
27

He is as bold as he is bald.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:32 PM
18

Those same types of men think women can "hold in" their periods as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:30 PM
39

Most comments on there told her to divorce his ass. Luckily, this was posted here before there were too many comments, so FDS had the chance to flood the comments section with some good advice. She could have deleted it because she didn't want her husband finding the post through phone snooping. Hopefully she made the decision to leave him, and hopefully there will be an update saying she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:18 PM
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And porn normalized this shit. It goes from step sibling/step-dad "fantasy" on screen and is poisoning society to turn it into a sick reality. He's trying to test her to see if he has a chance. I hope she and her daughter cuts this perverted pornsick scrotebag out of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:04 PM
341

It gets worse; OP says in the comments section that he wants "real kids" aka bio kids. She's adopted herself. This post just keeps on getting to new levels of sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:32 PM
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He needs to be doing at least half of the emotional/psychological labour of looking. It appears that the most he did was glance at the pics and fake fawn over them whilst she was the only one seeking out agencies, calling places, narrowing down the countries, etc. If your man isn't proactive and actively searching with you, he ain't the one. Men lie about wanting kids all the time, and can waste years of your valuable time doing so. This is why vetting is so important. Most men want their own ki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:09 PM
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I started doing this a few years ago. This kind of self care is food for the soul. I get the odd comment "all dressed up and nowhere to go" or "you're married, why are you all dressed up like that?" because I deserve all the nice things. That's why. Because its an investment in myself. That's why. This shit don't need explaining. Besides, why should I try to render myself invisible, frumpy or give up on myself just because I'm married? HV partners will continue to date each other even after they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:08 PM
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I tried OLD for like 1 year a long time ago (pre fds days, so a lot of coffee shop dates and bar meetups. My advice; avoid OLD like the plague of scrotes it is. I literally put my height (6'2") on my bio, and that if you don't like a taller woman, don't DM me. Lots of first dates ended abruptly due to height negging and them wanting to see if women my height even existed. So much time wasted. Some didn't even read the bio, and accused me of height fishing ("you're much taller than your pics show…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:54 PM
46

She probably didn't buy the man toddler a PS5 for Christmas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:18 PM
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Then bleaching, now cutting (labiaplasties).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:27 PM
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This happened with my family. Grandmother matriarch held the family together. She passes, and her funeral was a non-funeral. It was an unrelated church sermon after a brief mention of her name. After the service, it was weak coffee, dollar store cookies (yes, I saw the empty packages from the Dollar Tree) and soggy tuna sandwiches. Grandfather passes, it's a huge deal and he gets the full eulogy and mourning, full on catered hot buffet afterwards. Calling this a huge disservice is really really …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:18 PM
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Most male attorneys (specifically criminal defense attourneys) are off my list, usually due to the way the disparage *ape and abuse suriviors and divorcing women/mothers. Most dark triad lvm/nvm are attracted to working in the judicial system at some level, something with which they could potentially alter a woman's (or girl's) entire life with. Not all specializations have lvm/nvm, but definitely criminal defense and family law where they defend scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:08 PM
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They straight up can't handle men existing on screen or in eyeshot of their wife/gf. I straight up got screamed at by an ex in public because I got cat called (horn honked, guys shouting "hey beautiful" 🤢). Here's the kicker for the victim blamers; I wasn't wearing anything that would be considered "provocative". I was wearing baggy jeans and an oversized hoodie, and dark goth style makeup. Definitely not someone to be considered mainstream attractive. Yet the scrote went off on a half hour rant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:33 PM
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You're right about sex workers. They're overwhelmingly trafficked and in dire poverty and believe sex work is their only option for survival. Where there's a demand, there will be a supply, and most of the supply is not there by choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:02 PM
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True that. Lost a lot of "friends" who were mooches by asserting boundaries. I'm not a free counselor. I'm not a free food bank for fridge pirates. I'm not paying for anyone's good times by buying the alcohol (lost a lot of friends when I quit drinking). I'm not a free prostitute for exes (or anyone, for that matter). I'm down to one good hvw friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:18 PM
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Awww so sad that a murder conviction ruined the scrote's legacy. Seriously, the way articles are written/headlined is very telling that we have a long ass way to go before women are even considered human fucking beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:00 PM
34

Oh no! She's legal drinking age! Better trade her in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:53 PM
9

Raged at for the following; having my period (and bloating aka "got fat" before and during said period), wearing heels, wearing a bikini/crop top due to "embarrassing" him with stretch marks, wanting a better date than McDonald's, asking why he isn't even decent to me (he said he doesn't beat me, so there's that), for going to therapy sessions for childhood trauma, taking antidepressants, wearing too much makeup, wearing too little makeup, having a facebook account, ordering a burger instead of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:21 PM
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One of my exes demanded to randomly do cellphone checks on me, so I'd say "okay, let's see yours". He'd delete everything on his phone right after doing it saying he "had nothing to hide". He was always on his phone typing away, but no chat logs or search history. I never deleted shit on my phone and he'd rage because he couldn't find anything suspicious. Turns out he was cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:08 PM
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Had a first and only date years ago with a dude who wore khaki cargo shorts, socks with fucking crocs, and a Tapout t-shirt drenched in Axe body spray. I could literally taste it sitting across the table from him. I ducked out early and blocked and deleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:49 PM
15

"Why don't you lose some weight?" "I dunno, why don't you gain some height?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:41 PM
5

Ugh the state of women's clothing is a sad one. They're more expensive, less comfortable, less practical, more transparent, more flimsy and tear/fade easily. All I want in clothing is quite simple; not see through, warm, durable, non-restrictive, and has some actual pockets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:35 PM
5

That's the thing. I shouldn't have to delegate. If men are so ViSuAl, then they can see that the dishes need washing, the laundry hamper is full, the toys are strewn all of the living room. There's this misconception that men are "mess blind". Funny how not blind they are when ogling a woman that they have to scan around to rubberneck at. If you've got to nag, don't nag. Dump his ass instead. Best case scenario, he'll help for about a week then revert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:30 PM
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The "annoying woman" is usually assertive, has boundaries, standards, and not afraid to put a scrote in his place. We see annoying men everywhere on tv; Archie Bunker, Homer Simpson, Peter Griffin, for a few examples. The poor wives are burnt out from constant emotional labour, abuse, and putting out their fires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:25 PM
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He won't date a "fitgirl" because he wants someone to compare you negatively to. These women have confidence. That's the last thing he wants you having. He wants the ability to constantly neg you for not being as toned/thin/young/pretty as they are. Nevermind that there is retouching, heavy makeup, and filters on their pics. He wants an insecure woman (or underage girl) who thinks she can't do any better than this scrote. You know better when the IG circus comes to town, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:12 PM
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That's the way I see it. I'm a lifter, period. Not a "female lifter".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:07 PM
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I always do the transparency test on athletic wear and sadly, like 90% of the leggings are fucking see-through to some degree, so I tend to go a size or two higher (If I can't find anything that doesn't pass the test) so that they don't put my ass on display for the world to see when I do squats. I've mitigated half of the problem by working out in the women's only side of the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:05 PM
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My 11 year old son knows how to do all this basic shit (save and except doctor's/dentist appointments) already. If my middle school aged son can do this shit by himself, why can't (or won't) grown-ass men do the same?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:54 PM
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Half and half Finn/Swede here (primary raised Finnish, my looks are more typically Swedish). You wouldn't be surprised that Northern Europeans are fetisized by a lot of the white supremacist assholes. I get a shit load of attention from men from the southern states, and Eastern Asian (Japanese, Korean, Chinese) men. The latter group fetishize Northern Europeans so much, that the women there (especially in Korea) hack their faces to bits with plastic surgery to look more European. It's downright …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:49 PM
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And this is why older creeps go after underage girls. They don't ever want them reaching the point of self-actualization. If you've heard of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, they don't ever want a woman who's past the bottom tier or two, let alone have the top of the pyramid. This is why they say that conventionally attractive women who know damn well they're attractive are a turn off. Don't you just love it when men say they're attracted to a confidant woman, then turned around to try to destroy he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:30 PM
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Very difficult, especially when friends invalidate me saying "but she's your mother" or "they're your family". People immediately assume I'm a bad and ungrateful daughter for cutting ties. Emotionally, it sucked big time. In my early 20's, I Googled "why does my mom hate me and not my sisters" and I came across Narcissistic Personality Disorder. The more I read about it, the more everything made sense. Ngl, I've tried to reconcile with her every few years to find out she hadn't changed. A few ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:10 AM
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It's usually only "open" for him as well if the wife was strong armed or manipulated into agreeing to an open relationship. Most men lose their absolute shit if she were to suggest she have sex with another man. A lot of bisexual women are used by the scrote for their own entertainment and to play out free live lesbian porn fantasies. Been there, and straight up refused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:49 PM
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"Nice" is bare minimum. It's basic. To pride yourself on such minimal standards is pathetic. And they're usually the most awful people on the planet. I briefly dated (9 months) a "nice" guy who was the biggest emotional manipulator, future faker, and gaslighter. He was shorter than average and complained that women shorter than him won't date him, and hated me for being 6'2", even though it was one of the first things he complimented me on. Once I wasn't "allowed" to wear heels and berated me fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:40 PM
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The cockholm syndrome is real, especially if you've had lv/nv parents groom you for abusers. This goes for friendships, and even your blood family members who are toxic. My mother's scapegoating of me poisoned my aunts and uncles, even my cousins. I cut ties with all but my grandfather. He was the only hvm in my family, taught me how to work on cars, hunt, fish, fix things around the house, repair appliances and plumbing, gave me advice on the true nature of men, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:30 PM
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While there are some pick-mes and lvw who do go after taken men, they are few and far between. I don't blame the women, as many of them have been lied to by the scrote. Many women are taken aback when they find out they're the other woman. A tactic deployed by nvm mooches is to date when they become aware their gf is tiring of them, drained all of her resources dry, and otherwise wore out their welcome. Even in my pre FDS days, I knew better than to pursue a scrote who was "seperated but still l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:22 PM
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straight men really ain't shit I hear ya, sis. Hvm are really hard to come by. I'm also in my 30's, same era. For what it's worth, I'm married to a Hvm who's one year younger than me. I had to go through a few shit men before him. Porn has become so normalized, grown exponentially, more brutal, free of cost (for the most part), and easily accessible. I believe this is why lvm/nvm became so abundant. They've learned to treat women like objects in a more disturbing way than ever, dump them when th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:31 PM
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Lord that gave me flashbacks to my "nice guy" ex. He professed so much that he was "in touch with (his) feminine side", easily hurt, and that he was in abusive relationships. He wasn't technically lying, he was the abuser. Just swapped the perpetrator. He would use his "emotions" to manipulate, gaslight, future fake, and all around muddy the waters. His favorite phrase? "I'm in love with falling in love". He was in love with novelty. The runner up was "I'm friends with all my exes because we all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:13 PM
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This scrote literally wants his family in rags and starving so he can game, but I highly doubt it's gaming though. It's probably been spent on OnlyFans. Ugh breakingmom never fails to make me miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:34 PM
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The rise in bleaching products, labia minora reductions, areola reductions, and liposuction of the pubic area and labia majora are sharp. Women are literally having their genitalia mutilated, bodies hacked to pieces and stitched back together for the approval of men. There is literally no part of a woman safe from male scrutiny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:22 PM
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Just fucking gross. The depravity knows no low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:13 PM
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I'm a chef. I love cooking. I live to cook and cook to live, but I'm not gonna come home after doing this for hundreds (sometimes thousands) of people per day and whip out the frying pans. My husband more than agrees with me. He cooks the majority of nights and prepares lunches for the kids. He works 8 hours, my shifts vary between 8-12 hours. No way in hell do we see unpaid labor fall to the woman and girl of this household. It's shared pretty much equally and the kids pick up after their selve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:12 PM
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I don't even find the majority of men to be all that attractive. I'm more attracted to women, but I won't gawk, ogle, stare, double take, comment, or rubberneck at any attractive person. Objectifying is just plain rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:02 PM
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I got all the scrote lines fed to me; "I'm not dead yet", "I'm not blind", and worst of all, "you don't think I'm not gonna stare at an 18 year old supermodel if she walked naked down the street?" 🤮🤡. Even worse when they compare you to other women; "you're no Ariana Grande so I have the right to look for the beauty you don't have" ummm... she looks underage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:00 PM
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*furiously scribbling phrases in my notebook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:01 PM
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This is rough indeed. Good job on kicking that loser to the curb. As for the financial difficulties, look for resources in your community. It entirely depends on which country you live in and where you're located. I'm not too knowlegeable in what's available in the states, but I can definitely point you in a good direction if you live in Canada. I have DMs turned off, but give me a reply if you you live in canada (I'll turn on DMs for you), and you think I could be of any help. It's a lot to tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:58 PM
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Exactly. Don't waste perfectly good eggs on his shitmobile. Don't waste the calorie burned in throwing the eggs. Don't waste even another second of your life on this scrote. He's not even worth the breath it takes to throw a one syllable insult his way. Any time, thought, breath, money spent is an ego boost to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:48 PM
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That's a thing with me. I don't respect a man who's been with a string of lvw or claims to be a "rescuer" of abused women (abuse survivors not included in my definition of lvw, they just haven't leveled up yet). That means he is looking to manipulate and abuse. I'm married to a hvm, so not in the dating game anymore, but still vetting. Vetting is a lifelong thing due to the fact that a hvm can become lv/nv. But the advice I'm giving my daughter and any dating woman in my life is to ask questions…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:37 PM
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Deceased 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:22 PM
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That's the irony and outright lie with these scrotes. They say a ReAl WoMaN wIlL bUiLd A mAn, but if, and if is the key word here, they ever level up financially and status-wise, they'll trade the woman who's been there for them as well. I'm really sick and tired of these "poverty porn" stories where women get with low level broke ass scumbags and let them mooch and they toil away trying to build this asshole up. The ending is completely cut out where they "trade up". You'd be surprised at the n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:17 PM
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I didn't find out until CPS showed up at my door a few days after the fact. They completely blamed me for it (you know, because it's always the mother's fault) and told me I shouldn't be working those hours if I'm a mother. I was working towards getting my Red Seal to become a chef. I needed to work those hours. It didn't matter to them. I "needed" to be a "proper mother" and working those hours "proved" I wasn't "prioritizing" properly. They stalled my progress but it didn't stop me, as I got m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:04 PM
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Yes I do thankfully. I had to fight the scrote tooth and nail for a few years but I won in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:20 PM
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Ahh yes... strategic incompetence. Purposely doing a shit job at any tasks he deems "below" him, or "women's work". My ex husband was a lot like this; he'd load the dishwasher with dishes that have stuck-on food (we've had to replace 4 dishwashers in 6 years), leave the sink unrinsed with nasty food debris, not wipe the counters, drop his laundry mere inches from the hamper, ball up clean but damp clothes from the dryer and stuff them in the drawers to mold, wrap the kids' lunches (which consist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:15 PM
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I showed this pic to my husband. He laughed and asked how this scrote isn't turning 100 shades of red from embarrassment when both purchasing it and presenting it. He asked if it was a cereal box prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:39 PM
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This seems to be a test of how much of the audacity a woman will take. If she accepts the ring, he'll get away with a lot more. If she doesn't accept, then he'll find another woman who he could easily manipulate and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:31 PM
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Unrelated to the thread, but relevant to your work history. I want a morganite rose gold ring with a diamond frame. How long does morganite usually last? Is it worth it, or should I opt for diamond instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:29 PM
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Fuck that noise. In my pickme days, I've spent an embarrassing amount of money on men who didn't deserve shit. The real kicker of course, was that I used to pride myself on not needing anything myself on v-day, so I'd be seeing myself empty handed whilst women who were valued were bought nice gifts. It hurt, but what did I expect when I didn't even have any self respect and showed just how much of the audacity I was willing to let them get away with to be "picked"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:15 PM
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Men who want a trad wife aren't willing to do the trad man things; like, I dunno, spending three months salary on a ring? Or providing for his own offspring? Or paying for dates?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:01 PM
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The next comment down some scrote said he'd feel safer if his "girl" was in heels, especially on cobble because he could run away faster. He got two laughing awards. So fucking funny that he doesn't care that a woman he is with will try to scramble, break her ankles just before being beaten, mugged, *aped or murdered while he gets away unscathed. Scrotes literally paid money to publicly laugh about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:45 PM
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You wouldn't believe how many times dudes rolled up to me whilst I was walking somewhere in broad daylight even, asking if I wanted to go to a party, then turn hostile towards me when I didn't want to. I've been straight up chased by two 20 somethings in the middle of the day when I was 15 because I didn't want to get in their car. I ducked into a nearby pet store and they stopped chasing me as soon as I went through the doors. The staff let me stay in there for an hour looking at fish until I f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:38 PM
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I'm telling you, the freedom is real. I feel like a damn sociopath for it. My sisters had a parallel upbringing due to me being the scapegoat. They were brainwashed into believing I deserved such poor treatment. But knowing she'll never be able to triangulate, shit talk, bring down, or interfere with my life anymore comes as a huge relief. It brought me closure. I kept trying every few years to try to reconcile, but she never changed. She was a tetris parent; my accomplishments disappeared and m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:30 PM
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There was this woman in my complex who was in her 40's and passed away from stage 4 colorectal cancer. It took about ten years for her abdominal pain to be taken seriously. She was called a med seeker, hypochondriac, attention seeker, told to lose weight when the mass was growing and suggested she was pregnant. After a negative pregnancy test she was admitted for an abdominal scan. The mass was huge. She was at stage 4, given 6 months to live. She passed away last year. I have a mole on my back …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:17 PM
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Men feel entitled to act like every damn woman on earth wakes up in the morning, does her hair and makeup, dresses up, and diets for his dusty ass in particular. I had acquaintances and complete strangers comment on how I "ruined" my naturally blonde hair by getting done chestnut brown. I respond with my usual "Well good thing I'm not trying to impress you, then." Or make off hand comments on my weight, even if there's been no change (I bust my ass at the gym, I prefer to have a little muscle). …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:39 PM
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Men literally can't stand to see neutral faces on a woman. I've been called "aggro" for not smiling. No scrote, ain't gonna "smile" for you on demand like a puppy preforming for treats. Male attention is an abundant source of low or even negative value. Last time I checked, it was men who get aggressive when women ignore them. I straight up had a beer bottle come flying out of a car at me last year when I didn't want to get in and "go to a party" with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:30 PM
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My ex husband would scream at me for what seemed like hours every month because I got a period. Yeah. It was a financially abusive marriage, so at the time I had to beg him for my own money to buy menstrual supplies. His solution? Just "wad up toilet paper and stick it up there". I'm sure that will fly at work. The whole neighbourhood pretty much knew when I was bleeding by the rants and raging about me "literally haemoragging money" and how disgusting I was. So fucking glad I levelled up after …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:05 PM
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There's an old mother in my complex who has her two (one lv and the other nv) 40 something year old sons still leeching of their parents and living there. Her husband wants them out, but she's so soft hearted and her husband doesn't want to upset her. It's sad to see how they are absolutely draining this poor woman, both financially and emotionally in her retirement. Some young women (some still girls) don't even get to finish secondary school before they're thrown to the wolves. Then these same…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:23 PM
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That part about mothers really hit me. This was my mother to a tee. She hated the fact that she had 3 girls and no boys. She said we get put out on our 19th birthdays (coincidentally when she'd stop receiving child tax benefits and welfare benefits for us). She made good on that for all of us, though I was 16 when I ran away, went into foster care for a few months, then got emancipated at 17. My sisters moved in with their boyfriends on their birthdays. Levelling up was a struggle through my ear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:15 PM
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Any man who lifts up a woman to disparage another woman does not respect women, period. He used her as a tool in order to abuse his wife. Edit; a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 12:49 PM
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I had a creep for a 5th grade teacher. Literally gawking at, passing remarks on, the bodies of 10 year old girls. He would whine to the class about his dating life/failures qnd his family. I went to my parents, went to the school counselor, and even the principal. They told me that he was just being "nice" and it was "harmless". One day I put scotch tape over a thumb tack on his chair. He sat on it not once, but twice because he thought he brushed the tack off. How else was a ten year old going …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:08 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Pre fds days, I had an ex try to give me one when I was 27. He spent like $5 at a sidewalk kiosk (tried to pass it off and pure silver that he spent $400 on, I walked by that kiosk on my way to work all the time, so I could call bs on that) and he called it a "placeholder ring". I laughed and asked "seriously?", and he said at least he "made an effort" and called me ungrateful. He put it in my hand and told me to hang on to it at least. I broke up with him not long after tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:29 PM
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To me the whole concept is just a cheap ass way to string someone along. My husband and I were talking about how pathetic those things are as a lukewarm non-committal token. It holds as much value as a ring pop or crackerjack box ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:18 PM
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Get what money? He's a mooch. He doesn't pay for shit. This "man" belongs in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:42 AM
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The current patriarchal regime in place pretty much already has us trapped. Women get arrested when they flee, because a man can make a false domestic violence accusations. I was arrested twice, once for fleeing (made a false assault claim, no evidence, but still arrested) and again when I defended my life (strangulation, had to right hook to get away when faking limp didn't make him release his grip. Despite my extensive injuries, I was arrested for the crime of preserving my own life). Women l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:25 PM
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Secrecy, lies, blaming, projecting, and gaslighting are all hallmarks of addiction. Any form of addiction is an automatic lvm status. We aren't here to "build" a man. We aren't the societal dumping grounds for poorly raised men. We are not a rehabilitation center. We are human beings with needs, and we were conditioned from a very young age to be completely selfless and brush our own needs aside in favor of building, rehabilitating, and helping a man "grow". Sis, if he wanted to, he would have. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:39 PM
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The old saying goes; you give them an inch and they'll take a mile. Once he tramples one boundary, there's no limit to what he'll trample. That's why leaving, blocking, and deleting is the only answer. Do not unblock, re-add, or accept the scrote back after he crossed the line. They'll promise to change, but honey, they won't. Once they reel you back in, they'll go back to where they're comfortable; crossing your boundaries, and escalating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:33 PM
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This right here. I was 23 when I found myself in a sexless (age gap) marriage with a pornsick scrote. His reason? I was getting "too old" for him to find attractive. At twentyfuckingthree. I was slim, fit, and someone who'd be considered conventionally attractive. He was 41 when he made that comment. He was overweight and hairy. He was short (5'6"). I was a bounce-right-back body type from pregnancies. You couldn't tell I just had a baby about a week or so after birth. And he still hated my body…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:26 PM
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Men don't get to discuss what or who we deserve. They don't have the right to decide on what women who have been duped and dumped by lvm "deserve". Nice that every single scrote who commented and voted on that is very publicly telling on theirselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:49 AM
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And the added scrotacity of consuming porn with women and underage girls in full fucking makeup. Either they are deluded into thinking that looks natural, or they think all women are ugly and deceiving them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:54 PM
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I must have read through a little too fast. She's the final boss of pick-mes 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:49 PM
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I don't get what goes through their heads when they think they can lie about their age to the tune of 20 years. Is his aim to go for a blind woman? Because we're gonna see that shit and not appreciate the lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:47 PM
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I hope his wife finds his post and gets a family protection order. This is fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:41 PM
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Oh the pestering, sulking, even begging and whining. Shit gets me drier than the sun-facing surface of mercury on its closest point of orbit to the sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:37 PM
29

Lvm/Nvm sperm is an abundant resource of negative value. Imagine the genetic diseases (and possibly std's) a lot of scrotes are so "kindly" offering right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:31 PM
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Finding a random guy, even if you know them, is dangerous. If sexual assailants can get custody of their victims' children, so can random sperm donor guy. And the courts are absolutely biased against mothers; some 70% of domestic violence survivors lose custody of their children to their abusers, even when police and hospital records prove abuse. To hand over your power on a silver platter to a random guy who will most likely be a scrote is a life sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:26 PM
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Scrotes also tend to tout us living longer on average as proof of "female privilege". Yeah, it's such a privilege to have a smaller (or absolutely no) nest egg for retirement due to the pay gap and motherhood penalties. It's such a a privilege to live longer on a smaller pension that barely affords a cat food diet. That senior women are disproportionately left destitute in what is supposed to be their "golden years". What's more? What's becoming a growing and disturbing trend lately is senior me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:14 PM
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I had to fight the general manager for this. He asked "well, what if there's a family emergency or someone passed away? Wouldn't you want to know? I think everyone who works here would agree". I said that if they're family, they already have my number. Besides, I can be contacted via Facebook if there are family members who don't have my number. I keep my contacts minimal. Non toxic family members, one good hvw friend, my hvm husband, and work. Besides, I work in culinary (chef, back of house). …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:24 PM
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Because he's always trying to approach me, follow me in public until he illicit a response. Maybe I thought I could enlighten him that his behaviour was scrotey, maybe hoping that he won't harass other women with his bullcrap in the future. I've finally had it with the unsolicited compliments and backhanded shit. It was my final fuck off speech to him and his friend. Scrotes are gonna scrote and they're incapable of change. I was wrong, and should have just walked away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:25 PM
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I've had random men and exes get my cell number from my workplace stating they were family. I've had to change my number 3 times in one year before they finally made it against policy to give out employees' personal phone numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:18 PM
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I've received a lot of hate from lv friends. I've cut ties with several "friends" when they got angry for me setting up boundaries. Yes, I've changed. I'm no longer a people pleasing doormat pickme who's so desperate for company that I'd take abuse and negging from friends, family, or partners. Nvm who I've had the misfortune of being acquainted with got right pissed at me this morning when I wouldn't respond to being whistled at like a fucking dog in order to get my attention. He went full on r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:10 PM
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That's pretty scary, tbh. The truth behind the joke is that he could one day take her life and would have no remorse about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:02 PM
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He's the type who wants a trad wife but also a cash cow when it's time to pay the bills. He literally wanted a family who doesn't cost him a fucking cent family that actually he could profit off of. Funny how "trad" men are usually mooches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:51 PM
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My ex pulled the same thing, until one year I didn't get him fuck all. He sulked on father's day when all he got was macaroni art and a handmade card our kids made for him at school and daycare. I said "You're not my father, why should I get you anything?". He flew into a rage saying "motherhood is earned after years of dedication when your kids buy you gifts as adults to thank you and fathers are automatic since they pay the bills". Hint; I paid for almost everything, had to beg him for my own …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:31 PM
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When this is applied to women survivors of abuse, this is used to gaslight her into believing she's the abuser. When this is applied to men, this is used to justify abusive behaviour. Yet another societal double standard used to gaslight women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:18 PM
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But men are the least emotional, least dramatic, and more rational of the sexes 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:15 PM
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There's only so much a mother and even a father can do to minimize the chance that a son will become a scrote. Pop culture, peers, patriarchy, and male privilege usually has a larger influence on children. I've known a few hvm and hvw who've raised sons, tried to mitigate the outside influences, and they still became total scrotes. Whether they were raised by a strong single mother who struggled time and time again and they witnessed their mother's plight or whether they had a hvm as a father. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:11 PM
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They're mad when women maintain themselves. They're mad when we spend our own damn money on ourselves because they can't take credit for it. They can't stand the fact that their narrative of women being "mooching gold diggers" is being debunked. They can't stand women treating theirselves the way they deserve to be treated, without a man. They don't want to treat a woman well, they can't measure up to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:04 PM
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Most of my exes were ugly. I was raised not to be "shallow". I've never met an ugly guy who wasn't an lvm/nvm in some way. All were abusive either sexually, physically, psychologically, financially, emotionally in one, a mix, or all ways. All used negative "mate retention" strategies. All tried to obliterate my self esteem so I honestly didn't think I could do better. I looked past the exterior because they could be funny, intellectually stimulating, or at least, in the very fucking least suppor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:45 PM
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I started looking for a place right after that comment was made. The rental market is horrendous for women, especially when scrotes destroy credit scores and finances. It took me almost 6 months to find a landlord willing to rent to someone with damaged credit. Credit score is fixed now, and living in a much better place than my starter rental. Got a good landlord who won't put a guy's name on the lease (not even my hvm husband) because she wants to be able to boot lvm/nvm from her condos if thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:50 PM
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So many times I've heard "I don't want to talk about relationship shit, I'm happy, don't ruin it for me.". Scrote, I know you're happy. That's all that matters to you. As long as your needs are catered to, then to hell with mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:23 PM
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That's a huge telltale sign of a lvm/nvm; how they treat you when you're ill. I had the norovirus once (like a flu, but hell on wheels). Treated me like shit. Asked him about how he'd treat me when MS ends up putting me in a wheelchair if that's the way he treats me over a temporary illness. His response? "The day I have to build a wheelchair ramp for the front steps is the day I won't and you'll find your shit on the front lawn instead". Funny, because they'd expect us to baby them when they ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:20 PM
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While I'm not as educated as you are in this arena, I've taken all of the prerequisites and dropped out of my bachelors of social work at about the halfway mark. I wanted to work for child protective services (as a family development specialist, aka NOT removing children) until I found out mid course how patriarchal, misogynistic, racist, and ableist CPS really is as a government institution. How women are held accountable for male violence against them. How they traumatize poor, often single mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:20 PM
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Seriously? I'm not the only one? I had an ex pull this yard sale ring shit with a Tiffany's box. Dumped him on the spot. The box had sharpie marked over the worn areas, CZ was faded and dinged up quite a bit. He screamed at me about being materialistic followed by a bunch of slurs. I can't believe how common this lvm shit is. Then he went around bragging about what he did, like it was some sort of genius stunt he pulled and how I was a pathetic gold digger for not liking the "thought" behind it.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:54 PM
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What? Was a ring pop or a cheap "placeholder" finger turning green ring not good enough for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:28 PM
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Well, the best most men have to offer is a ring pop or a cheap ring that turns your finger green.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:30 PM
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I changed my number last year, made new accounts on social media under a my two middle names (none cared enough to even know them, so one is used as my first and the other as my last), and preemptively blocked all of them. I moved 3 years ago and none if then know where I live. Haven't had a single holiday hoover text this year or unwanted "gift" on my doorstep and it feels great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:46 PM
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He's a run-of-the-mill bum who only has a continuous lineup of women between him and the streets. When he senses he's close to wearing out his welcome, he'll be hitting up social media and dating sites for his next host. Fucking hobosexual parasite. Never let a guy know where you live unless marriage is imminent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:27 PM
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That's the truth! The difference between a lvm and a hvm when it comes to being good gift givers is that a lvm thinks he's buying you, and the hvm is buying for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:12 PM
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I'm betting that he only sees his daughter for a place to crash at his parents' place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:13 PM
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Obstetric violence; Doctors abusing women during pregnancy and childbirth. Non-consentual episiotomy, rushing delivery with oxytocin (let me tell you, birth by oxytocin is a pain of it's own class I wouldn't wish on my own worst enemy). The husband stitch; one doctor tried this. I wasn't torn, he said that he needed to do a single stitch. I asked if it can heal on it's s own, he rolled his eyes and said that yes, it can, but my husband would have to live with it. My husband knows about this, pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:46 PM
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I didn't even get past the title before I said "block and delete, sis" out loud. The more you read the worse it gets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:50 PM
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I'm cringing hard at my past rn. I used to be pretty much NLOG and said I "didn't like jewellery". I had it twisted; I love jewellery and why in the actual fuck was I trying so hard to impress lvm, when women are the prize all along? Broke/cheap guys aren't worth a second glance. Ring pop "proposals" are for elementary school, not grown ass adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:47 PM
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It's a crime in Canada but the cops rarely pursue it. I was drugged by an ex and he took and uploaded videos of me. It was rohypnol, which is odorless and tasteless. I had no idea I was drugged or that the videos were taken until he started distributing them after the breakup. The cops said they couldn't make him take them down or delete them from his phone because there's "no way of knowing" if he didn't have a "sleeping fetish" that I was "playing out for him", and that the videos are his prop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:31 PM
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First off, I'm very sorry for your loss of a parent. It's tough for sure, even for those who've had not so great parents. I lost an extremely abusive mother about 2 weeks ago. Still lost on how to feel about it. The lvm guy you had hanging off you didn't make it any easier for you, that's for sure. It's a huge indicator of value on how they treat you when you're grieving. This guy is a complete scrote devoid of any human empathy and compassion. Lvm/nvm will definitely dig for trauma info to wiel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:17 PM
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There's that old saying about giving them enough rope. Most of the guys didn't really have a lot of valuable knowledge to pass on. It was mostly whiny sob stories about how all of his exes are crazy and how "nice" of a guy he is. Thank you, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:03 PM
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Good job leveling up! You definitely don't deserve to be a free psychiatrist, atm, or any lvw who wants you to stay on their level. I've spent this year culling out the lvw as well. One in particular was trying to convince me to leave my hvm husband because she was miserable with a lvm she refused to leave. I'm down to one friend now, the only one who's been supportive and doesn't mooch or try to bring me down in any way. Lv friends are a dime a dozen. Cut em loose, don't waste any more time, mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:23 PM
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It seems that way with narcs. It's all too common to see comments such as "did you date my ex?", and "I could have written this myself".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:07 PM
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I swear that's official anthem of all cheaters. Bonus points for the men with a "loyalty" tattoo. That's the super cheater stamp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:53 PM
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It's a theory my husband learned in uni in anthropology class. It may just be his professor's theory. The size disparities are the largest in the middle east and southeast Asia, where women are expected to do all the household labor, cook, and not be allowed to sit at the table and had to eat the table scraps if there were some left after the men and boys were done. Malnutrition in pregnancy leads to lower birthrate. This does affect both sexes of babies, but the preferred feeding of boys over g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:27 PM
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Exactly. They'll always find a way to make it someone else's fault. And I think his "like a sister" friend is a lot more than friends. She has every right to feel that something's fucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:10 PM
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I've had my body reduced to parts by men who look like the human equivalent of a hairy Jabba the Hutt. It started young as well (around 11) as I developed early on. I was also in the midst of an ugly duckling phase, so I'd get comments from male family members on how I'd have to study hard because the best I can hope for is being a "sugar momma". I got apologies once I came out a swan, albeit it was about how fuckable I became at the ripe age of16 🤢. I still get negged on a lot by acquaintances …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:06 PM
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Not blind, probably just really daft, or so insecure that they just had to try to gaslight me completely. I'm just as confused about their math skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:37 PM
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6'2" here. I've had men who were 5"10" try to gaslight me about my height because of their insecurity. "No, you gotta be like, 5'10" because I'm 6'2" lol"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:25 AM
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It's often used by creeps and pick-mes to justify older men going after underage girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:21 AM
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I had a nvm ex who just loved to pretend to punch me in the face, laugh, and told me how "cute" it was that I flinched or cowered. Whenever I became desensitized to it, he'd hit me for real, then do the pretend punches again. I fucking hate him for that. The one time karma got him was when he punched the wall beside my face and broke his hand in the stud. Fucking scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:57 PM
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Or my all time favorite; "omission isn't lying". Yes, scrote, yes it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:45 PM
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Here's the thing; cheating is NOT normal among humans. A lot of men use the caveman argument about polygyny, and that among animals with sexual dimorphism in size where the female is smaller have harems. Here's why women are smaller in stature; in areas where men and boys were fed more than women, and men staved food from women and girls during food shortages, it was advantageous for women to require less calories to live, ergo, smaller stature. You'll notice that in Scandinavian countries with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:51 PM
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Porn use = automatic lvm status. There ARE men out there who don't use porn. I'm married to one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:40 PM
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I call them hobosexuals. They're not lvm, they're nvm of the lowest order. They'll constantly hit you up for cash and make you feel guilty if you are anything more than a free unlimited atm with legs. Nothing makes me drier than the Sahara than a man who can't support himself. Studies have shown that people value things less if they get that shit for free; that includes you, your home, your car, and your wallet. Here's my points on my experience with a hobosexual (scrote claimed squatters rights…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:46 PM
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•"I'm extremely loyal" ends up being the biggest cheater on the planet. Bonus points if he has "loyalty" tattooed anywhere on his body. •"I'm honest to a fault" usually translates into being am emotionally abusive asshole, honesty not included, possibly a compulsive liar. •"I'm a nice guy". No. Just no. •"I won't treat you like most guys treat women" Yeah, technically the truth, as I have a feeling you'll treat me much, much worse •"I'm a feminist" for every woman except the one he's with. His "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:29 PM
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I have no words for this level of depravity. I want off this planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:18 PM
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So, let me get this straight; he's basically riding off of her finances, will probably sue for alimony if she leaves, has abusive backwards ass in-laws and is pissed off that she's spending her own fucking money on a maid because the scrote wants to "put her in her place" for the sheer audacity of being more successful and ambitious than he will ever be. I'd say he's the one who's financially abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:14 PM
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I have never known a wealthy man who feared gold diggers as much as a broke-ass/lower middle class man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:20 AM
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Momma's boys are a straight up nope for me. Narcissistic enmeshment with mommy will guarantee that his wife will be abused by proxy for the rest of the marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:33 AM
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How is he supposed to mooch off of her domestic labour if she's dead? Surely he'd resent her if she died as well if he was stuck raising the child alone. Or maybe he was planning on getting a pickmeisha insta-mom a few weeks after she passed. Either way he's a scrote of the lowest level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:30 AM
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Being a housewife is one of the most disempowering things around. The ones I knew of growing up were pretty much domestic slaves dressed in rags having to beg their lvm/nvm husbands for grocery money to feed their kids. The year I was off on paid maternity leave when I was married to my nvm ex was a wakeup call. I got called a gold digger for having the audacity to want to properly feed and clothe our kids that he had more than enough money to provide for, but wouldn't. And besides, where was th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:17 PM
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Yikes. That money is going directly to my 401k, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:47 AM
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I wouldn't give it a second thought. That's psychologically abusive. They know we want commitment and marriage. That'd be one joke he would regret for the rest of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:43 AM
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They'll gaslight the shit out of us, with the constant negging, nitpicking, crazy-making just to get us to lower our standards and value. I used to get gaslit about my weight (was underweight most of my life, told I was "cute for a chubby girl"). One even made the effort to replace my jean tags with a size double of what I wear. Gaslighting on looks as well, nitpicking about "flaws" on my face, the "offending feature" is a random sparse freckling in the shape of the big dipper constellation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:38 PM
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No tutorials needed. Be a hvm and don't be a scrote. It's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:32 PM
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Adding on to lvm and lack of holiday effort, the holiday emotional labour is huge. Women are still expected to shop, cook, plan gatherings, clean up after dinner, decorate, then take down the decorations and recycle the cardboard and tattered wrapping paper. Not in my household. One cooks, the other cleans. Christmas shopping is done together, gifts for the kids selected by both of us, and kids clean up after their selves. And the other point you raised on people changing; it happens. To literal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:26 PM
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This is something I tell victim blamers as well; men don't abuse on the first date. Some wait months, years even. Some are really good social chameleons; they often are well-liked by friends, colleagues, even their own families. Only a woman who has been close to him would know the true nature of the lvm in question. Which is why when an ex contacts me, I'm going to believe her. I don't fall for the "all of my exes were crazy" line. One of my exes was well-liked by everyone, everyone except for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:25 PM
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Scrotanese translation; "I'm worth a Playstation, you aren't worth a decent date". He forgets who the prize is. It ain't him, sis. So happy we found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:45 PM
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Omfg gross! Fathers have absolutely no fucking right to be involved/proud/ashamed of their daughters' sex lives. Talk about incestuous psychosexual enmeshment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:42 PM
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I'm sick to death of the glorification of women being with lvm/nvm. We are not going to build a man. When these men, on a rare occasion, level theirselves up, they usually "trade up" because they don't respect a woman who'd date them at their worst. You're just there for them to mooch off of while they "find theirselves" and all the while searching for the one they really want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:22 PM
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