This is why you never send nudes. Doesn't matter if you were together for 1 year, or 10 years. In most cases, your intimate photos WILL be weaponized.

ceramicunicorn · 2022-02-11T17:29:13+00:00

Yeah it’s too late. You can’t put your life on hold for that. You just break up, knowing there could be some blowback, and know for next time. Maybe she can grey rock him by swallowing pride and insisting he can do way better, “prove” that, get him to initiate the breakup, block and delete, and hopefully he forgets all about her. I’ve seen it work.

Nudes could be a nice private thing. Men ruin things for each other, then expect women to fix it, never holding each other accountable.

lansburysoda · 2022-02-11T17:32:32+00:00

Revenge porn is a sex crime I’m pretty sure

ASeaOfQuotes · 2022-02-11T17:33:41+00:00

Men will pass around women’s nudes like trading cards. There is no sanctity in anger. The minute you anger a man who has even an ounce of vengeance in him he will be looking for any way to retaliate and make you suffer. Do not trust anyone with nude photos of you, it doesn’t matter if you have a perception of trust, a man who values you will not feel slighted by a lack of nudes, and if he does he is a LVM.

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2022-02-11T17:23:47+00:00

Luckily the comments section is telling her to delete and break up. Sadly, photos are backed up to clouds and there are multiple backup apps that can be hidden. A HVM would never ask, demand, or pester you for nudes. I've been a victim of revenge p-rn myself, some sent, and some taken without my consent or knowledge. I've been married for 4 years to a HVM and I still would never send any intimate photos to him (he's never asked, neither) due to having learned this lesson the hard way. Don't be like me in my pickme days. If you have in the past, forgive yourself, and don't ever send intimate photos in the future. Men as a class are not to be trusted with such things.

Drpyroxene · 2022-02-11T17:38:03+00:00

Everyone commenting is saying the victim is a woman but in the original post it looks like it was posted by a man about his bf? Or am I confused.

keep_my_stuff · 2022-02-11T17:39:39+00:00

Interestingly, this is a man doing this to a man in a gay relationship. Further proof that gay men are just as toxic.

Title	This is why you never send nudes. Doesn't matter if you were together for 1 year, or 10 years. In most cases, your intimate photos WILL be weaponized.
Author	BBQCoolRanchQueen
Upvotes	32
Comments	9
Date	February 11, 2022 5:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/sq4i85/this_is_why_you_never_send_nudes_doesnt_matter_if/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/this-is-why-you-never-send-nudes-doesnt-matter-if.1101216 https://theredarchive.com/post/1101216

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