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SHOWER THOUGHTDrpyroxene/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 02:55 AM
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SCROTATION REPORT Drpyroxene/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:06 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. My mom has gorgeous flowers in her well tended front yard and if some goon came around and started lopping them off I would flip out. My mom LOVES her flowers and puts a ton of time into making her yard beautiful. 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 04:21 PM
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Exactly! But as soon as we comment on their looks (hair, height, dick size, etc) it's all "ThAt'S LOw hE Can'T HeLP hOw HE LOokS!" Fuck that. They can say we look old/fat/saggy/whatever but one pinky dick joke and WE'RE the assholes??? My scumbag abusive ex cheated on me and I found out and went to his house to call him out and said loudly "IDK WHY YOU WANT THE WHOLE CITY TO KNOW YOU HAVE A SMALL DICK!" I told my dad about it and he gasped and said that's not fair blah blah I said "DAD, HE HIT M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:20 PM
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Really? Ha omg maybe it is just me then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 06:45 AM
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I was thinking about them blaming the failure percentage of the pill and going to court and getting out of paying child support because "I was on the pill it's not my fault!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 08:09 PM
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I just want to say this; semen with sperm and semen without sperm effect our bodies differently. Idk if this is the same for anyone else but I can ABSOLUTELY tell the difference between the two. And honestly, after the first time being with a man who had had one, I never want be with a man who hasn't or isn't willing to discuss it (I don't want kids).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:53 PM
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"We have a great relationship otherwise," she lied to herself. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:53 PM
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The amount of men I actually wanted to sleep with is less than the amount of men who got me shit faced drunk and took advantage of me or a guy who was only friends with me in the hopes of sleeping with me and basically bullied me into it. It bums me out to think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 02:56 AM
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I relate to this so much. Looking back I wish I could have just slapped some sense into myself. I knew these guys weren't worth the salt in my tears but I still cried oceans for them. Not anymore. However, I related to this on a work issue too. My supervisor is...omg idk even how to describe him. He's narcissistic, egotistical, manipulative, gaslighter, a massive liar, just...the WORST. And he does shit purposely to get emotions out of me (or like say "get me worked up"). Then uses that against …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 08:46 PM
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This! I mean, my furniture and things are not nice or expensive, but they're MINE. I had an ex that would just... accidentally break shit all the time. One ex would push my cat off the couch so he could sit down. Um, no?? I let a male relative move in with me and my god, the bathroom. Like, I keep my shower clean as time goes on and rarely deep clean it (like 2x a year). Dude moves and all of a sudden my bathroom and shower are just...dirty??? I don't ever want a man to live with me ever again. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 09:41 PM
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Age gap is okay if it's happening to ~him~ (hypothetically any man) but if the woman he's obsessed with is in an age gap relationship all of a sudden it's bad 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:13 PM
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My world and reality would crumble if men (checks notes) stopped holding doors for me. 😆😆😆 Hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:05 PM
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I wish we could do gifs because this needs a super long eeeewe from David Rose. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:36 PM
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That dude just turned the family tree into a stump! The age gap between the 34 sister and the younger brothers is... telling. I wonder if they look like her husband! Not exactly the same situation but my father had an affair with a woman from our town who was married with children, one was in my grade, one was older, the rest younger than me (I'm the youngest of a large family myself). This came out when I was 11 and the youngest daughter from the other family was 3. I wasn't sure how long the a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:44 PM
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I loved Star Wars and Captain Marvel, didn't see the others. This kind of reminds me of how one time I was talking with a group and a guy referenced "The Hangover" and I didn't get the joke. He about went into a coma at the thought that I hadn't seen this HILARIOUS movie. Later I brought up "Bridesmaids" and the guy said he hadn't seen it. I said oh man, it's really funny! He scoffed and said well WHY would I watch THAT movie?! It was...odd. You should see what he thinks about the movie Gunpowde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 07:17 PM
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Lol!! No Vegita but I'm thinking about getting a Thor one 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:46 AM
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See that's where things got weird for me...is it okay to have a crush on a dude and his son? Bonus if they're... cartoons? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:54 PM
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He's a grower not a shower lol. I love that vegita is in this meme lol. When I was in high school a guy I knew from work found out that I like DBZ and for COURSE asked who I would fck. Without hesitation I said Vegita. Cue the eye rolls and the "oh of course you want the ASSHOLE, no one ever wants the nice guy blah blah blah." I said "hold up, you asked who I would fck, not who I would marry. There's a difference." Whether that's the right mindset or not, idk, but I was also like 17 lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:36 PM
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I've posted here and on other subs multiple times about the long term damage caused by STRANGULATION. This shit blows mind. These "choke me, slap me, spank me, pull my hair, gag me with your dick, call me a whore, spit on me, r*pe me" PICKMEs me angry because, seriously??? But I also feel bad for them because they've been brainwashed into thinking this shit is; normal and healthy (wtf), that if they DON'T do this stuff they'll end up alone, that ending up alone is a BAD thing...like, I wish I co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:49 PM
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Lol yes! When I was a teenager a guy in a group of friends told us he used to fuck the couch in his parents living room. Mkay. Sometime during a different hang out he said "damn you look hot today, want to (idk what he said, but have sex essentially)" I was like "do I look like a couch to you?" Lol...it was great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:47 PM
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Omg I read the "sucked my own dick' post. Dude had done it successfully in the past and one day he BROKE HIS BACK trying to do it, recovered I guess, and in the post he's asking if it's safe to try again!!! Dude you broke. Your back. What the actual fuck. And as an aside, not that it matters, but I don't know how it could possibly be enjoyable to orgasm while folded up like a possessed pretzel. 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:44 PM
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Everyone commenting is saying the victim is a woman but in the original post it looks like it was posted by a man about his bf? Or am I confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:38 PM
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I feel like there are so many made up stories by these loser guys. Further, I feel like even a lot of the trashy stuff that is posted by "women" are actually men hoping to convince anyone who will listen that that's how women are. I love reddit for a lot of things but I really wish they would take out the trash 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:54 PM
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Not sure if this qualifies, but I hate the terms "catty" (women being 'bitchy' to each other) and "catfight" (a fight specifically between two women). I've always hated how it depicts women as incapable of getting along, being cordial, or even gasp being FRIENDS, when we're obviously only jealous of each other and our interactions are solely based on the only things that matter to use; men/relationship status/our wedding and clothes 🥱It also pisses me off that it is yet another negative dig at c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:13 PM
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I don't really like valentine's day but I like to go to the store the next day and score some discounted candy ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:41 PM
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For her-society bullying women into believing that if they're not married by 25 no one will want them. For him-idk, entitlement to his wife's body I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:10 AM
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Every man I've known that drives a manual is VERY proud of that, works it in to any conversation possible, and basically make their whole personality "I drive a stick and I'm so much cooler/better/more badass/etc than YOU" and it's just...🙄🙄🙄 I guarantee this guy was like that and it's part of the reason he's bringing it up. Like he's saying "I gave up my whole personality so you could give me road head and you still don't!!😭😭😭" This guy makes me want to barf. Like something else said, I hope sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:08 AM
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What's even scarier is the whole choking thing. Choking (whether during sex or an assault) can cause PERMANENT DAMAGE. My abusive ex would choke my against my will in both ways to the point where, after I finally ran away from him, my voice had changed temporarily, my throat (the outside) would hurt to the touch (like say when washing in the shower or putting on lotion) and would instantly send me I to a coughing fit, outside of the excessive coughing I was already doing. But also one time he wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:56 AM
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My abusive ex bullied me into oral, which I'd never done to anyone before, and didn't want to do ever, and haven't since. One night he said "you should go put on your mascara and let me jam my cck down your throat so far it makes your eyes water and your mascara runs down your face. That would be so hot." 😳 My response, "um, I don't...have ...mascara....?" Yes, I should have said a million other things, but I couldn't get past the fact that we had been together for over two years and never once …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:36 AM
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Probably with a woman who was either super drunk, severely emotionally damaged/previously abused, or major pickme. Okay so my phone autocorrected "pickme" to "pickle" and I can't stop laughing about "major pickle" 😂😂 whoo. Sorry 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:27 AM
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OMG one time after we had sex a guy tried to convince me that I had gotten off. Like, him: did you get off? Me: no (I'm honest when they ask lol, I've never faked an orgasm.) Him: yes you did! Me: uh, what? No, I didn't. Him: I felt it! I could tell when it happened! Me: dude if I would have actually gotten off the neighbors would have known. 😒 I can't even think of the words to properly describe this situation, much less how dumbfounded I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:19 AM
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Raymond Babbitt could have seen through this BS 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:42 AM
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Omg, I saw a post saying something like "my wife let me have one room with no objections" and...holy teenager. I can't even fathom how much money went into this (it looked like he took over a room and then it even had like a loft area where an attic would be). I'm not going to lie and say it wasn't cool AF although a lot of that stuff I would never use myself and I would have something else there but good grief it just seemed so childish to actually invest that much into basically a game room fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:15 AM
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https://people.com/movies/all-about-nicolas-cages-5-marriages/ Not sure why I decided to do this to myself but....his last three marriages were to a 19 year old Korean waitress after two months, a Asian-American makeup artist after 4 days, and now a Japanese woman 30 years younger than him after only a year. Asian fetish ✔️ Way too young for me fetish✔️ Gross. Kind of parroting what everyone is saying but good grief, poor kid. I'm shocked he could actually get someone pregnant in the first place…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:25 AM
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I recently rewatched "9 to 5" (released in 1980) and despite comically old technology, it is still 100% relevant. Movie is hilarious, one of my favorites, but that realization was just depressing. (Anyone who hasn't seen the movie I recommended it, it's on Amazon)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:26 PM
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Also "hE LovEs yOU MorE tHaN hIs kiNkS!" Fuck that noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:18 PM
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OMG i felt the same way! "Oh honey"..."OH FUCK NO."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:17 PM
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It's interesting, a lot of times when I make comments and someone engages I can tell the think I'm a man. Why? My username. "Dr" makes people assume, both men AND women, that I'm male. Usually if I'm going back and forth with someone they eventually look at my comment history and realize I'm a woman. If I'm talking to a man I can usually tell when he checks if he doesn't outright say that he did. It's wild. Irl, I have an extremely feminine name (which as a tomboy I loathed, but as an adult tomb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:48 PM
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Oh, and my ex friend would have DEFINITELY pushed me off a bridge if it would get boys to think she was cool and funny. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:04 PM
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Dude this happened to me too!! My "ex" friend sounds so much like yours it's crazy. Except mine had the audacity to "break up" with ME after 18 years of her straight up abusing me. This was 4 years ago. Just recently she posted something on FB about counseling being "hard" and she's "digging through 30+ years of trauma and abuse" blah blah blah. My eyes rolled so hard they one a gold medal at the Olympics. SHE was the one abusing everyone, especially me, and especially her sons (3 boys by three …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:03 PM
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I was thinking, well, maybe he's been on that app for a long time and just forgot to change it. Then I saw "new here" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:17 PM
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This is so weird like, how many of her friends send her pics?? I've literally NEVER shown my pics to any women, sent them/shared them whatever. That's just super weird. Also, I too have gotten shingles from trauma; in a relationship with an abusive POS. I was 20 years old. I'm TERRIFIED I'll get them again but they won't let me get the vaccination because I'm "too young". 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 03:10 PM
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Omg yes. When I was in high school my sister and her bf were damn near bullying me to date bf's overweight, unattractive, dim witted friend. "It will be so much fun! Double dates! Just give him a chance!" Eh, no? It was such bullshit. And that was only the FIRST time I dealt with that shit. On the other side of the coin is when have men EVER been browbeat into giving an "unattractive" or unappealing woman a chance? I feel like the only time they "give a woman a chance" is when it's a woman with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:30 PM
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Also because they can't STAND the thought of being compared to another man sexually (Wang size/performance) so they seek women with little to no experience to protect their fee-fees, and most of the time knowing they can manipulate them or abuse them claiming it's fine, the know more because they have more experience. 🙄 Every time I see that stupid meme of the guy and woman in bed and the woman has her arms folded and glaring at the guy "thinking" I bet he's thinking about other women and the gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:28 PM
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Johnny and Roland did on Schitt's Creek lol. Any time a guy had done this to me (even when I was a kid and the guy wasn't my dad or brothers) I would say WHAT ARE YOU DOING really loud and that would usually get them off of me. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:00 PM
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They all need vasectomies but that's a different story for a different day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:14 PM
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Currently there are more "see results" votes than yes and no combined 🤔 900+ redditors need to get a life 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:51 PM
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I love him 🥺Also, I trust my cats' instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:41 PM
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Thanks for reminding me that I have this book, sitting on a shelf collecting dust...next to "Why does he do that". There's never enough time! Anyway, I agree with this. I was living away from home going to grad school and dating an abusive POS. Had they been around, none of my cats would have stood for his shit. They probably would have made a wall around me (at the time it was 3 male cats and 1 female). One time I was in my bedroom with a different ex (not a bad guy just dumb lol) and he starte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:22 PM
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Oh, I know. I'm straight and have been in two relationships that were abusive, and one of them I was forced into BDSM acts. Never again. I was just wondering about demographics of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:03 AM
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I've read a lot of posts by women who have been assaulted or worse and they say they got in to bdsm as like, a form of therapy to overcome their abuse. That is some of the dumbest shit I've ever heard in my life. Idk what's worse, the women who buy into that way if thinking or the people (men, I'm assuming) who spread this complete nonsense. It really blows my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:51 PM
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I was talking to a male coworker about funny movies and I asked if he had seen Bridesmaids. He scoffed and said, "Uh, no?! Why tf would I watch that movie!!" yet five minutes earlier he was SHOCKED that I hadn't seen The Hangover (not my style of "funny" 🤷)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:57 AM
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I just hope she took her towel and whatever else was in "her drawer" with her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:44 AM
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Came here to say this too. I thought he was cute and hilarious in Space Force but if I'm disappointed in this movie 😒 Edit to add I'd choose him over the "hot" guy any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:32 PM
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I just noticed "relationshits" and I'm going to be using that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:18 PM
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But they still want to fuck you. Like, I find this so insane. They want us and hate us simultaneously. And I feel like all men really care about is sex. Any they "pay" for it by spending time with us and taking us on dates, and then when they get too old/fat/ugly/whatever, they KNOW they have to commit to ONE woman to make sure they can keep having sex. This act of commitment, which is just another form of "payment", is supposed to make us feel SPECIAL but really it's just sealing the deal of "g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:36 AM
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What about Patton Oswalt or Rick Moranis? Not specifically a character they played but how they are in real life. Also, Seth Rogan plays total dbags in a lot of movies but his involvement with helping people with Alzheimer's has really changed my opinion on him. Also Jon Stewart, especially how he stood up for the 9/11 first responders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:01 AM
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"You all need to stop your judging!" NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 06:19 PM
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SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:31 PM
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I'm white and I dated a Korean man (born in America). He was abusive in every way. He was also horribly racist towards every single race except Koreans (even other Asians). He would complain to me (his GIRLFRIEND) about how Asian women were stuck up and didn't want anything to do with him because he's Asian, and also complained about Asian women being "Americanized" which I realized what he meant was "Americanized Asian women only date white men." I feel confident saying that he would prefer an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:27 PM
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When I was on OLD and would start chatting to a guy through Kik they would almost ALWAYS send a dick pic within a few minutes. I would be like, um, thanks? He would always respond "now you send me something." Me: "uh, no." Him: "Why not? I sent you a pic, it's only fair." Me: "I never asked for a pic???" I'm 100% convinced it's simply a bartering tool to get nudes from a woman.... literally ANY woman. It's so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:09 PM
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I was strangled multiple times by my ex (not in bed). I know he would have killed me if I had stayed sng longer. If you or anyone you know has been strangled they need to look for a thumbprint bruise behind or close to their ear. It is proof of strangulation. Further, being strangled can cause permanent damage and can lead to life long micro strokes. I'm worried about my future because of that honestly. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:31 PM
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Same. My heart just broke when I read about this 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:21 AM
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feEmay-YuLs 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:05 PM
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Oh, I fully believe this too. Current BF was like...so random tbh. I was fully living the single life and loving every day and then it was like oooh,....hey. Lol. Also, I'm not really a "I want and need flowers all the time" kind of woman, it's more about the gesture in general. But again, I wasn't trying to be like "you'll find someone!" More like "hey, sometimes it really ISNT all men" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 06:33 PM
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My dad too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:48 PM
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I'm on a skateboarding sub and I never see any girls or women on it. I thought, "surely there's a sub for skater girls right?" Then went to "oh God, maybe I SHOULDN'T look for one...." I took the risk and was actually surprised to find one and the most recent post was of this little girl just SHREDDING! I was so happy I almost cried. But how ridiculous is it that we have to be cautious just searching for a sub of our interest 🙄 Someone mentioned a website like Reddit that bans porn, I'm so down …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:35 PM
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Musicians should be on the avoid list, I have enough experience there. Comedians too lol, but maybe just risky. Bartenders are a no go for me just in general for like...so many reasons.... My blanket rules are basically, how long have they been at their job, do they at least try to grow and/or move up, how many jobs have they had in the span of 5 years and are they similar, stuff like that. I've been really lucky (I guess?) with the last two men I've dated but hoo boy, I've had some real winners…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:22 PM
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I told him to set his bangmaid free and find a girl he legitimately likes leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:22 AM
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This has definitely happened to me more often than I can count. It was very painful and I all but gave up on men. Then, a guy I was just hanging out with who I'm now with bought me flowers before we were even together! All those years if feeling like shit about myself because of the way these men treated me, who were total trash and never deserved so much as a conversation with me, seemed to wash away once I got with my current BF. There's hope, I promise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:10 AM
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Yeah and then the scrote can't be bothered to be clean beforehand and guess who ends up with a UTI because of his dirty dick. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:46 PM
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I refuse to do this and always have. If a guy isn't cool with it he can get lost. I tell him before anything is even close to happening so he can make up his mind. If he still want to be with me fine but if he starts begging I don't put up with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:31 PM
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I would have walked right up to then and been like "OMG, Hi (wheelchair guy)!!! How are you? Is this your sister? Wow it's so cool to meet you!" And let it roll from there 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:46 PM
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rELaYsHunsHiP GoWLs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:54 PM
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I can attest to this. When I found out about the awful shit my abusive ex was doing behind my back I just said "I don't get it, like why do you want the whole town to know how small your dick is??" (That went over well lol, luckily it happened in front of other people and he was smart enough not to physically attack me, although I could tell he wanted to.) And the truth is, I had no problem with his size, but he often complained that it wasn't big enough. I know he felt/feels that way due to his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:22 AM
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9 years!!! I hope OP directed her here 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:56 AM
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"needs therapy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:55 AM
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Dude for real! I've suffered from migraines since I was a child and one time, ONCE, I let my abusive scrote ex talk me into having sex even though I had a headache and NEVER AGAIN. It made it SO much worse and I didn't even get off. "I have a headache" is a legitimate excuse. Hashtag-ihaveaheadache
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:54 AM
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Idk it was a pretty sick burn. Dude like that are so intimidated by pieces of plastic that vibrate unless it has a screen that can show them porn lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:50 AM
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ALLLLL OF THIS. I've been in 2 abusive relationships and this is exactly what happened to me. I was even arrested once after being assaulted while my ex stood there and told the cops I was crazy while being buddy-buddy with them. 🤬 And just when I thought things were going good for me, bam, I get a new supervisor at work who does this shit. So now I look like trash on paper (the man literally triggers shit in me, like PTSD from my abuse, I get horrible anxiety attacks and have to call out of wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 01:37 PM
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What....the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:12 PM
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I've seen so many posts of men outright admitting to "having sex" with their (almost always) younger sister. When I read women talking about the same scenario, they are calling it abuse and rape. Essentially, these teen boys are raping their younger sisters and have no qualms about it, but the sister is most likely super fucked up over it and realizes when they're older that it wasn't normal and it was abuse and rape. It's so sick. Wtf is wrong with them?!? Like every time people I know have kid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:44 AM
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The easiest thing would be like, idk, men could stop being psychopaths, but when has anything ever been easy for us/women?? Physiologically everything sucks for us; periods, uncomfortable boob situations, menopause, hormones, being sensitive/having human emotions, constant pain, pregnancy, child rearing (if one chooses) etc, and we have to deal with ALL this shit, on top of being constantly pushed down, ridiculed, harassed, gaslit, manipulated, abused, tortured, raped, murdered, etc by MEN. I'm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:12 PM
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I wish either police officers were trained better for these types of situations, and if there is a woman involved that there is always a woman officer present, and/or they had crisis people to evaluate the situation and they have the authority to make decisions! I feel like most of us here saw and predicted what was happening and what would happen. I think that if the right eyes, ears, hearts, and brains were handling this situation, things could have been different, not some dude-bro cops. Like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:15 AM
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Omg Lydia from Beetlejuice, amazing. I wear a lot of men's clothes but started wearing men's shorts now too and huge baggy shirts (sensory shit) and boy do people give me looks. I'm like, yep, I AM dressed comfortably, care to join me? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:33 PM
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Counter strike - a water gun with cat pee in it 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:30 PM
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I was just thinking the same thing! Imagine being roasted by a dictionary 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:17 AM
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I know, me too. At points I felt sorry for him but he's beyond hope. He'll never change his mind about women, especially "asian american women are stuck up bitches and white women are whores/sluts." He even said at some point that he was thinking about moving to Korea for a few years. I later realized it was both a cop out to commiting to me, and also so he could get a "real" asian woman (in his mind I'm assuming; subservient, among other things), provided he could actually make the move and eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:32 AM
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Idk if this counts for anything, my my abusive narc ex is part Korean (I'm located in the US). Looking at him there's no doubt he is Korean even though he is mixed, those genes are just more prominent. He thinks that the very real and very dangerous problems that women have are "little women issues that men don't care about" and told me he was voting for, eh, you know who back in 2016. It's crazy how he treated me and abused me in every form, yet thought the problems women face from men were bas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:05 AM
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For real, I had a friend who would brag that she could give BJs like "belladonna" whoever that is, and then complain to me later that the guy she took home only wanted a beej but didn't want to fk her....um, hello??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:42 PM
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Im the vein of coercion, ugh....I have been small my whole life. Not just my body but my voice, feelings, etc. I have been bullied into having sex with guys (casual/friends) so many times it's unreal. Just pushing and pushing until I finally give in. And I hated it. However, a lot of the times the guy would ask "did you get off" and I'm straight up like "no". I've had guys argue with me that I did, they could tell. Uh, no. Just ridiculous. Fortunately I'm out of that horrible loop and with an am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 11:18 AM
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Oh, and me "going crazy" was confronting him about cheating and him going absolutely ape shit on me, screaming, then hitting me. Like, what? It irks me to no end thinking about the people in his life that think he's such a great guy 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:52 PM
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This is exactly what happened to me; bf assaulted me at my place then called the cops. Acted all cool and that I was crazy even though I was covered in bruises. He literally said to the (male) cops "yeah she just goes crazy sometimes and I have to 'deal with it'". Essentially he admitted to THE POLICE that he was hitting me to "control me" and they arrested ME. I am so tired of hearing these stories! And the sad part is I didn't get it until it happened to me. We MUST believe women. If I hadn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:49 PM
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Okay. I constantly feel like I'm being judged for every little thing I do. The way I walk. My speed. The way I move my arms. Why? Because people just feel the need to say out loud "why do you walk like that..." So I govern how I walk. Steady pace, not too fast, not too slow, hands in my pockets or at my sides, hips straight... The way I eat, what I'm eating, how much or how little I'm eating. Because they said something. So I hide when I eat (like at school or work). Would I like to watch a show…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:32 AM
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Exactly. It's such a mind fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:18 PM
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I had a similar experience; bf assaulted me at my apartment, called the police and I was arrested. What. Anyway, after I got out of jail (after being treated like a criminal despite my black eye, fat cut lip, bruises around my neck, scrapes on my hands and elbows, walking with a limp, swollen eyes from crying and being absolutely terrified) a friend came over and took several pictures of my injuries because I was thinking about filing charges against him. Luckily, the DA dropped the case against…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:36 AM
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This. And make sure they get the thumbprint bruise from being strangled, it will be close to your ear. Very important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:42 PM
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There was no need to take a jab at cats in this comic 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:25 PM
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Oh but it causes throat cancer in men (NOW it's important 🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:57 PM
54

Yep. An ex of mine was sleeping around behind my back. When I found out he said "well I was safe!" meaning he used a condom. I said "okay so did you get your dick sucked?" "Well, yeah." "So you're actually trying to tell me that you put a condom on your dick and then someone sucked it right?" "Uh, uh, yeah!" BULL. SHIT. Also, very important here, about 5 months in I asked the "what are we" question. He said "I don't like labels" 🙄 I said that I needed to know because I was planning on moving awa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:48 PM
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Andy makes me so angry. Everyone loves him but he's such a child. He treated Ann like shit then was surprised Pikachu face when she finally dumped him. Then he stalked her. April was a total pick me and is now married to a man baby. Andy also is insanely lucky with how he lands jobs it's so unrealistic and irritating. I love this show to pieces but I always fast forward through most Andy scenes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:24 PM
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All of this. It really does make you feel sick. I now just get irritated when I think about my abusive ex but it did take awhile to get over (or as over it as I'm going to get anyway). Unfortunately for me I slipped into a pretty deep depression after escaping from him. What I should have done was focus on myself, treat myself, spend time with family and friends, dive into hobbies, maybe make new friends. Sigh. Don't be like me, that turd isn't worth the salt your tears. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:40 PM
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Same here. I'm so worried for the girls and young women in my life, the the US, in the world etc. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:48 PM
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Lol "can it fog a mirror"? 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 12:51 AM
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True!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:43 PM
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Yes! Lazy writing all around. Sigh. Angela and her cats were more interesting than Jam/Pim lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:39 PM
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I honestly think it's more of a gaslighting technique. If they can convince women it's "empowering" (edit: and look, they're supporting women!) and the mass majority of women believe them or remain silent, we who are opposed to it can't take it away from them. Or something like that. If they had a shred of guilt about watching it for the countless reasons they should, they would be disgusted with themselves, but they aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:37 PM
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Ugh I never liked Hermione and Ron. She deserved better. And not even Harry. Other comments are Ross and Rachel, agree, Ross was trash, and Jim and Pam, Jim was pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:04 PM
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So he moved back in with his parents after getting divorced. Hm, wonder why he's divorced? He didn't pay rent, instead did "household chores" uh....what. He was asked by law enforcement to move out a year or so later...okay...then has the gall to ask his parents to BRING his $25,000+ porn and toy collection (SERIOUSLY, $25,000????) TO HIM that he LEFT AT THEIR HOUSE...wtf??? This guy is a psycho. Normal people would be horrified if their parents found a vibrator or porn DVD, whatever. These arti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:05 AM
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Sounds like projection! My abusive narc ex did this all the time. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:37 PM
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I can't believe someone took the time to draw/make this. Pretty pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:13 AM
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Bootleg Fruit Snacks new band name lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:07 AM
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Wow if Red Flagging were an Olympic sport this guy would win the gold and break world record. I ~hate~ how I always feel compelled to give a guy a chance and be overly nice to some turd. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:37 PM
14

Manlet 😆😆😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:18 PM
14

I had one that refused to file his tax return! 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:18 PM
228

Oof. I moved across the country away from my abusive narc ex without him realizing. If I had stayed I know he would have killed me. He spent months begging me to take him back...all while dating a new girl and claiming he was in love with her. New gf reached out to me asking about him, asking if he was trying to get with me etc. I told her about the cheating, all the forms of abuse, his sick sexual desires, etc, but I also said that I felt like her and her child were in danger because of him. Sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:50 PM
111

Right, "sorry I hurt you" = "sorry I got caught"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:38 PM
158

Ha they've already posted about this post 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:37 PM
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I haven't heard of it, I'll check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:41 PM
14

Thanks for posting this, just another thing I'll be checking my new dude for. I dated an abusive narc for way too long a few years ago. I could go on for days about the BS this dude pulled but here's an example. One time we were hanging out at my place and we were in my bedroom. Someone knocked on my door. I went to see who it was and I didn't know them so I didn't answer. After about 15 minutes abusive narc put his clothes on and gathered his stuff. I asked what was up and outright he said he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:39 PM
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The medical field enrages me. I have a friend who had HORRIBLE periods and any time she brought it to her doctor's attention she was told to lose weight. She was actually overweight but it was used as an excuse to brush her off. Turns out she had MASSIVE fibroids on her uterus that were so bad she had to go to a specialist to have them removed otherwise there was a huge risk of her not being able to have children (she wanted kids). She had an awful time recovering from the surgery, had to have a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:06 PM
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Ugh. I hate BBT and Sheldon makes me want to scream. The Good Doctor and Atypical just got eye rolls out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:55 PM
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Exactly! I also feel my work life would be different too. Autism paired with anxiety is just downright awful and some days I just CAN'T be around anyone. I've explained over and over my situation even though I shouldn't have to say a damn thing -my supervisor doesn't accept "I'm not well and won't be coming in today", instead, he bullies me until I tell him exactly what's wrong. Sometimes I have a headache, sometimes I have diarrhea, sometimes it's anxiety, etc, and none of those excuses are goo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:06 PM
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Yes. Just...all of this. My family refuses to accept my diagnosis (not only autism, but anxiety and PTSD as well) but I KNOW that if I had been born male my entire life would be different. It's makes my blood boil when I think about it and how poorly I've been treated and also forced to participate in things that I didn't even want to do in the first place. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:20 PM
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"I think this time I will forgive her because I as well have done things" among other red flags here. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:21 PM
51

Exactly! Wtf!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:32 PM
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Why do dudes this old think it's okay to have kids? It's not! But they think it is because society tells them they can have kids until they're 80 and blames women solely for a child's medical and mental problems. Yet recently, study after study has pointed to men's age as a significant contributing factor but scrotes continue to turn a blind eye so they can convince themselves that they don't have to start a family until they're practically in a nursing home. So frustrating. And gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:02 PM
9

Omg "putz" is one of my favorite insults 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:59 PM
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Like a credit score of "over 750" matters when you're a "full time student". Also, how are you going to brag about being a full time (college/university) student when you can't even use proper grammar that is taught in 3rd grade (your/you're) 😆 Lastly, this dude is 33 and a full time student like, when is he planning on starting a career, when he's 50. We have a winner here! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:48 PM
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Been meaning to do this thanks for the reminder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:20 PM
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THIS. I have fallen into this trap more often than I would like to admit because I kept telling myself "at least he's not beating me/raping me/cheating on me/gas lighting me/manipulating me/etc. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:31 PM
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That is awesome that your school had a course like that. EVERY school should have a class like that (and better sex Ed and personal finance classes but that's a different story)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:52 PM
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I know this is not for everybody, but I wear mostly men's clothes and it seems to keep them at bay. Hat, baggy shirts and shorts/pants, hoodie, etc. I started dressing like this as a child because girls clothes felt awful (too tight, too short, too just...not me) and later realized it was due to sensory disorders from undiagnosed ASD. I am pretty small (5'2", 100 lbs) so it feels like a security blanket against a man who might be overtaken by his, idk, craziness, to attack me, instead he probabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:24 PM
11

Holy SHEET, I found where they're all crying about us 😆 Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:04 PM
12

Yes to all of this. I'm dating a guy right now who "likes to play devil's advocate" and I just outright said "don't." Suggestions are fine, whatever. But I'm not going to outright argue over stuff that has nothing to do with him at this point (ie: I have a lot of stuff just, in general, due to abandonment issues, long story lol, and he keeps suggesting I get rid of this or that or donate something like, no, we don't live together, don't argue with me about my belongings!) and I now just give him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:18 PM
23

Point blank, I hate arguing. I understand it's necessary at times but just...no. I can't stand it when a guy wants to argue with me and just talks louder/yells over me instead of listening to my side. Like, arguing is defined as "an exchange of diverging or opposite views" so when the dude starts making sure I'm not heard, it's no longer an argument/exchange, it's just him screaming, sometimes like a child, about how HE'S right and not listening to me, he might as well stick his fingers and go "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:18 PM
23

Omg this movie is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:39 PM
3

Omg! Lol, although I've thought about it I've never done it. I work in a lab most of the time 😁.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:59 PM
9

So someone commented "Wait are you Midge Maisel" or something like that...no, I'm not. Idk who that is lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:24 AM
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Dude it is so a thing and it has irked me to no end since the day I put it together 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:29 AM
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Ha! I dated a guy who was trying SO hard to be a comedian and he was just....NOT FUNNY. Like, at ALL. He was so unfunny that that was the only thing that actually WAS funny. After the shows we (me, him, the other comedians) would hang out and every time they would loudly remind this guy how i was more funny than him, i should be on stage not him, etc. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:38 AM
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I assumed it was a dog. Males like him LOVE having dogs (and it's ALWAYS a female dog). They get to control them and the dog gives him attention and unconditional love. They treat the dog like royalty, never correct/always excuse the dog's unpleasant behaviors, are cute and fun with them, practically make out with them, spoil them, etc. They do (OVERdo) this just to make their girlfriend/wife; feel like shit about herself, feel insecure, and allows him to; say things like "you're jealous of the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:30 AM
87

Should I breathe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:17 AM
119

THIS HAPPENED TO ME!! BF (living with his Mom and step dad) was working at a warehouse and I (living in my own apartment) was working at a grocery store and barely scraping by. I finally landed a job in my field and was beyond excited and proud. The job paid more than twice what I was making at the time too! I was busy transitioning to the new job and we didn't see each other for the two weeks leading up to starting it. The night before my first day he called me, kept me on the phone past midnig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:10 AM
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Omg this is cracking me up. For reference I go camping every year with my family and as far as tents go for us, we have a tent we use until it's in shambles then we use the back up tent we found at a yard sale, hunt for a new back up, etc etc lol. A 5k tent sounds like..."glamping" or whatever lol. I'm used to having an open umbrella over me while I sleep 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:47 PM
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Is this a play on the "fEMaLes cAnT EveR PiCk wHerE tO eAt" bullshit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:47 PM
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I know these ads too and I play NO online games. I'm so sick of them! Also the one that looks like some medieval maybe war-ish where it seems to be all women in "armour" and another that starts with a woman in a loose bikini...? for real idk how to even describe it, shooting at like hoards of zombies. Like, why does this have to be in my eyeballs. Edit: Did not see that someone else had already talked about this but, yeah...lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:43 PM
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Truth though I really need to see this 5k tent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:26 PM
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Omg yes when they came out with "boy shorts" I was like yep definitely going to try those. I was so disappointed about the fit like don't call them boy shorts, boys don't have underwear up their butts 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:03 AM
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I have a few male friends that are genuinely my friend and it's amazing. But if course for that small handful of guys there was a sea of LVM I had to wade through to find them. Multiple times I had the friend who waited until I was single to tell me they had a crush on me/was in love with me and then disappeared after I said I just wanted to be friends. I work in a male dominated field and only one guy that works there is single but he's never hit on me. I wear men's clothes for the most part be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:19 AM
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Ha, omg, I was half asleep when I wrote my first comment and apparently was very confused 😆 That being said, I've had exes who would get made about my intense/deep bonds with my cats. Like dude, either a) you're going to be around longer than my cat(s) because animal life span is tragically short or b) my cat(s) will be around longer than you and you wasted my time whereas my cat(s) did not and/or I missed out on time with them because your bitchass. Don't come between me and my cats bro lol! (F…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:10 PM
7

"Decidedly non-human animals"? What does this mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:12 AM
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I've always been short, skinny, and young looking. Like, too young. I'm 38 and get carded constantly. The older I get the more skeptical of the legitimacy of my ID the people checking it become. So when I was 18 I looked like...12. Thinking back on my past relationships i feel like the guys who pursued me were total creeps, always commenting in how young i looked. In fact i know one of them was a pedo. After i dumped him he slept with a 16, 14, and 13 year old. He was 30. But back to OP's topic;…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:13 PM
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This reminds of the old "wHy cAN't fEmaLeS evEr PiCk a pLaCE tO EaT" like why do we always have to pick? So they can make fun of us? Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:59 PM
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I kind of like to take it from this perspective; not everyone had to eat a poisonous mushroom to learn it was poisonous. I feel like that is FDS's mantra. I just wish this sub could reach the younger women before some NVM drags them to hell and back and THEN they find this sub and hope to heal and share stories to help save the next woman from similar pain...like I did. If I would have known about it this place could have saved me from years of agony (among a million other things).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:54 PM
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I would have just taken them all back and not said anything. He would know that someone found them and took them and hopefully would be too scared to do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:28 AM
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THIS! I have been in a couple of relationships that at one point I said I wanted to ended (in the NICEST) way possible, and the guys just said "no." What?? And THEN, months later, they'd say they want to break up with ME, and I'm like, oh, so YOU get to decide huh. Wtf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:40 PM
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I'm actively looking for a job... seriously???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:18 AM
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As a grown up tomboy, i was confused about that. Like wtf does that have to do with anything?? Also, what is stupid about being a tomboy, like what was the point of saying that?? Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:47 PM
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For real, i cringe at the term "lost my virginity." Like wtf, i didn't lose shit, i know exactly where I left it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:36 PM
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buT kINksHaMInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:36 AM
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How are these men not embarrassed. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:54 PM
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