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This is so embarrassing. Girlfriend for 7 years and now she’s her husbands side chick. She’s not happy, she’s boasting about it to try make herself feel better. This is messed up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:13 AM
24

Ah yes, sexpectations. Lingerie is a horrible gift idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 04:55 AM
18

Straight to the point and full of 100% useful info. I love our Strategy Coaches here!! ✨💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 12:15 PM
130

Or how he talks about her to his friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 09:22 AM
136

Tell me they listen to rap music without telling me they listen to rap music 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 07:21 AM
35

We get “skank, slut, whore, ho” and I don’t see why we can’t call them that too, it’s the same behaviour 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 01:38 AM
22

Girl- what is this. Read the handbook. No you should not continue as FWB, nor should you ever be FWB with a guy. You don’t like his opinions, you don’t like how he gossips, you don’t like how he texts you, and you’re not proud of introducing him to your friends. Read what you’re typing. Cut. Him. Off. I love how you called out his man boobs though 😂 if he’s gonna ask if you like the picture, he’s gonna get the truth!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 04:37 AM
120

“I fell asleep” 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 10:08 AM
481

“He’s bad at texting” = he doesn’t care and doesn’t prioritise you. I know this from experience 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:22 AM
85

What’s a red light at traffic mean? It means stop! Red flags are the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 10:48 PM
377

We’re starting to call out pick-mes more than actual scrotes here when I’d bet 90% of us were pick-mes before finding FDS. What happened to this sub being about dating strategies? We have the sub femalelevelupstrategy for a reason. Let’s have some empathy for the women who are just like we were. Most just don’t know any better - I know I didn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 02:38 AM
145

Ugh I would have thoroughly enjoyed a shower after that encounter 🤢🤢 vile!! Good on you for walking away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 06:18 AM
4

LVM aren’t ever going to change. For every LVM, there’s a handful of pickme women in the world who will deal with them. They have free porn, graphic content on every app out there, the ability to abuse women under the guise of a ‘kink’. Think about it, there’s no reason for them to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:55 AM
8

If we don’t want men who act LV, HVM aren’t going to want women who act LV either!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:51 AM
77

I’d put it on a t-shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:57 AM
347

Hate lukewarm water, hate lukewarm baths, hate lukewarm coffee, hate lukewarm men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 07:05 AM
69

“No shame to anyone who likes that” … if someone has a Catholic school girl kink, yes I will shame them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 11:14 AM
40

Regardless it’s LV behaviour. You stated he found it funny, you didn’t and it actually upset you and his response was basically said “well that’s your problem because you have a different sense of humour”. That’s not HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:43 AM
64

Title should say “ex boyfriend”. He gaslit you, it didn’t work, and then he miraculously agrees with you that it’s offensive. Trash. Your boyfriend is not HV and has a LV sense of ‘humour’. He’s literally telling you he settled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:11 AM
94

“Do I look like a man with a plan?” no, you look like a lazy, scrote-y man child 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:09 AM
6

This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:44 PM
5

I’m sure you’re thanking the heavens above that you chose not to go on that date!! What a huge bullet dodged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 09:23 AM
31

“Kink” no he’s a paedophile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:29 AM
97

Hurts my brain that kids as young as 11 are watching porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:18 AM
190

Boys under 18 did this?? I’m horrified. What makes me sick his how they proudly did this in front of every person in that theatre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:57 AM
252

Libfem women will say “ew men are trash they waited for Billie Eilish to turn 18 🤢” then in the same breath say “bhad bhabie has an onlyfans at 18 get that money girl 😍”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 10:59 AM
12

Yeah but this is from the tinder subreddit and you can’t expect much from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:09 AM
12

Sheeshhhh what an asshole!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 11:50 AM
248

Dating for less than a year and moving in 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:49 AM
89

Guarantee he won’t read the whole letter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:28 AM
218

Needs to be top comment. I cringed at the “what I’ll tolerate, pros and cons decision list”. Just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:36 AM
48

Of course, the only way for men and women to achieve equality is by women doing literally everything for men. Makes sense. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:53 AM
73

Like you said, sit back and wait for him to plan anything, if he doesn’t or if it’s low effort, you have your answer! If he doesn’t initiate, he is not interested. Remember to always prioritise yourself though!! You’re in such a fun time in your life, don’t focus too much on some college guy, this is about you. If he turns out to be great, that’s just a small bonus for you ;) You seem to have a great attitude about it!! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:06 AM
52

Of course it hurts sometimes when anyone is shitty. Just because we’re aware they’re LV and trash, doesn’t mean our feelings are invincible 💖 we learn to not take it to heart and know that it’s a reflection of THEM, not us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:23 AM
12

“I’ve been feeling very unhappy in my relationship for a few weeks” so leave. He sounds abusive. This post is so messy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:33 PM
393

People who try to justify “step sister” or “teen girl” porn are extra disgusting and make me sick to my stomach. There’s a REASON it’s among the most popular porn categories, along with “bdsm” aka literal physical abuse 🙄 Porn is nothing but exploitation and there’s absolutely NOTHING empowering about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 10:40 AM
126

The only thing they’re gaining from these men is money. These women are losing a hell of a lot more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:37 AM
212

All the “empowering” comments are practically identical, these women are brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:28 AM
38

Love, I don’t think you should be dating at all judging by your post history. So much in this post is centred around you trying to get validation from this guy it’s so unhealthy. Focus on yourself. First of all, interest in a threesome is a huge red flag that he watches porn. He point blank stated that he’d have sex with another woman (you know it’s not gonna be with a man). Something he said made you feel insecure. 🚩 I wouldn’t mind him being with another girl as long as I’m there Girl, this ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:06 AM
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Awww you are awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:44 AM
36

If he’s not progressing the relationship - HE NEVER WILL. He should be wanting to FaceTime you, call you, organise a date. It’s obvious he doesn’t otherwise he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:24 AM
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My username says it all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:56 AM
41

I don’t trust any man who calls them “boobies”… ickkk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:39 AM
21

Gosh I do NOT regret deleting Instagram
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:14 AM
129

There’s subs on reddit with misogynistic men hating on women for days on end. There’s channels on YouTube with misogynistic men who rip women to pieces. There’s nothing you can do about it except ignore. Engaging with them is a waste of time and energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:16 AM
2

That’s the one! Love how you knew without me saying 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:49 AM
24

There’s this “influencer” in my country who’s boyfriend decided he wants an open relationship, she agreed because she’s a huge libfem pickme woman, and is now complaining that her boyfriend has managed to sleep with other women and she hasn’t 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:38 AM
2

What a piece of trash!! Please update us when you get out of there! Never deal with this again. YOU deserve better. Good luck, honey 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 12:37 AM
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I saw it today and the majority audience was teen boys, how great for that being displayed to them 🙄 I really was expecting Batman to look away but no, of course they really focused on on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:13 PM
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How he treats his mother, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 08:19 AM
11

About one of the last paragraphs, you can’t just say “if you answered no, you’re for sure a HVM!” That can’t be determined online and people need to stop throwing around the term. I hope this post helps someone, but the majority of men who lurk here are the lowest of the low. They quite literally hate women and nothing will fix that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:07 AM
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Literally, I can’t believe I thought that’s what sex was!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 10:56 AM
3

This probably belongs on askFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 11:24 PM
4

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 10:46 PM
6

Thank you!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 10:45 PM
34

No lol. It’s degrading and gross. You’re disturbed by it for a reason. A HVM would truly have zero interest in anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 06:17 AM
19

Not sure why you’re being downvoted to hell, she literally has the pickmeisha flair so the mods agree with you, I think it’s fair to observe and call out sus behaviour and wish her luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:44 AM
14

Just read what he reads and writes, you’ll get your answer then. If he doesn’t let you, that’s also your answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:37 AM
2

Come on, porn is normal!! Every guy watches it… Boys will be boys 😀 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:34 AM
261

If you get the ick, it’s the ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:01 AM
151

We’ve probably all been there, never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:57 AM
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“To be honest I hated every second but he had a blast. So yeah” pretty much sums up 90% of relationships these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:40 AM
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Violent pornography is normalised, that alone is SO scary. I mean, not just porn but it’s all in the media and music on the radio as well! 14-16 year old boys are already exposed to that crap and thinking girls their age like to be choked and smacked in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:27 AM
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Massive true crime fan here and its incredibly common for many criminals to claim that being desensitised to porn and constantly needing more and more content of graphic nature to “sAtiSfY” their needs contributes to why they brutally rape and murder women. They get off on it online and want to do it in real life. But we better not kinkshame, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:10 AM
109

Like they say, water always finds the lowest level
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:56 AM
102

Found it when I was 19 and I’m so thankful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:54 AM
59

Ok doormat such a flex 😩🤚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 01:37 AM
38

Teens should definitely not watch it. As an adult I can put it together that the behaviour is normalised BUT not acceptable. It worries me that teens watch it and think it’s cool!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:35 PM
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Regardless, children should NOT be watching the show. It’s incredibly graphic. It’s weird for adults to watch it too tbh because of how teens are heavily sexualised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:47 AM
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I can see that’s your comment by the cut off profile picture and username, idk why you even bothered. You’re just wasting your effort on a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:21 AM
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I mean I agree and I hate how much the show sexualises teens / minors but just want to mention that its NOT a show for teens. It’s advertised as 18+ and incredibly graphic. Children should not be watching that show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:25 AM
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It bothers me how obsessed the director is with showing characters that are supposed to be TEENS naked. Although, I really liked how it portrays how damaging porn is and the ways sex is viewed by younger people, for example guys thinking girls like being choked and rough and girls thinking that’s what you tolerate to make a guy like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:24 AM
8

Exactly. We can almost guarantee he’s treating this new woman no better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:47 AM
102

For every scrote there is 3 pickmes willing to deal with them. A manipulative, pornsick asshole + an insecure woman who craves male validation = perfect match made in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:42 AM
14

I think we have the same ex OP!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:41 AM
35

“Her past is ugly, but look at how beautiful she has decided to be” 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:40 AM
14

Or just teach your boys that porn is horrible 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:37 AM
11

She meant “But hon, in this city no one who respects your body or wants to be in a serious relationship will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:44 PM
200

“Average pussy” says the jackhammer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:41 PM
62

Sorry I’m not gonna date a dude just because he has a “gOoD pErSoNaLiTy” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:50 AM
60

And then blocking him on the way to the car 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:49 AM
75

This is actually horrifying. I’m ready for the asteroid to hit us any minute now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:04 AM
59

I’ve literally never seen male / female friendships work out. The man always tries to sleep with her or get into a relationship. The one time I’ve seen it work is when the two were friends since childhood and he’s also gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:24 AM
40

Yes because they like the ’idea’ of a woman’s body, aka what they see in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:05 AM
44

Ok grandpa 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:57 PM
338

HV people don’t consider dating until they are emotionally stable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 10:56 PM
326

That’s also why FDS advocates for waiting minimum 3 months INTO the relationship before having sex. Many women here forget that it’s not just 3 months dating the guy, it’s 3 months in the relationship with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:44 AM
240

They hate effort, they don’t want to spend money, they don’t actually want to get to know you, they just want to see if you’ll have sex. Coffee / walk / tourist / drink dates are perfect for scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:56 PM
153

You just said it’s not special and he’s not putting in effort for you. Next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:26 AM
167

Go to a haunted house with him, you’ll see how he reacts under stress and a scary, unexpected situation 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:21 AM
60

So proud of you!! It’s def not easy once you’re in that situation to stick to your boundaries, it can be scary. You’re so lucky he dipped now and not after you actually had sex! Bullet dodged! Onto better things 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:15 PM
34

“Anyone who hates on you is jealous” I’m really not jealous of getting exploited and being used as a translational object to the scum of the earth. I quite enjoy having self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:10 AM
134

They try to justify watching teen porn, dating barely 18 women and “preferring” them completely hairless and it’s absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:40 AM
319

10 YEARS?? Gosh I’m surprised he proposed at all 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:22 AM
67

Libfems: “Yass now that’s queen shit 😩”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:36 AM
400

Why would I treat him like a king when he can’t even wash his face or pay on a date 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:55 AM
30

All I can think about is the trauma this young woman will endure throughout the rest of her life because of the abuse this piece of shit is causing. Yeah “our girlfriend” is being raped by your husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:51 AM
228

Two things Why haven’t you blocked him? He’s weird asf Why does he capitalise every letter 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:40 AM
42

But she was obviously taught or learned these boundaries because she said “I know this is never a good idea… I got carried away”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:21 AM
146

“he did not seem in it just for sex!!” Proceeded to have sex with him after 3 hours of knowing him 🤡 Sleep with dogs, wake up with fleas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:22 AM
-44

Get a lawyer I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:16 AM
67

Once you’ve dated a guy that wears a suit or some nice slacks to dinner with you, I cannot imagine dating a guy that wears jeans instead! Men that really put effort into their appearance (hair, skin, clothing, shoes, cologne) can look so damn irresistible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:30 AM
17

Read my username. Stop excusing his behaviour, do you know how many men are busy with work yet make an effort for their partner? Jeez even LVM will sometimes buy a small gift. He’s trash and expects you to do all the work. He’s not worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:45 PM
5

How nice! I like that it was a gift for you, yet he didn’t assume where to put it and helped you make it perfect 🥰🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:43 PM
24

So embarrassing, man. She’s proud to be with him and he doesn’t say a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:40 PM
502

So she got bailed on, and he “fixed” that by bailing on someone else. He sacrificed his own Valentine’s Day with his girlfriend to take another woman to Victoria’s Secret. Girl this is a trashfest. They 100% slept together. Low value people doing low value things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:57 AM
124

“I don’t know how to move forward with this” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:55 AM
59

education wise he matched me which was good enough Girl, never settle for “good enough”. Glad he’s gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:53 AM
57

Far less exhausting than having them randomly message you and receiving disgusting texts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:06 AM
47

If a guy is into you and wants you to be his, he will blatantly show / tell you. If he’s not pursuing you, he doesn’t like you that much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:50 AM
90

“We’ve been together 7 years with plans of getting married” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:50 AM
173

Something “empowering” doesn’t have negative, horrible life impacting consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:11 AM
136

If this is the same boyfriend you posted about that you’re sick of his LVM/pickme friends, you need to think about how there’s now at least two things that you dislike about him (or are concerned about) enough to post them here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:09 AM
153

Don’t kink shame 😡 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 11:59 AM
178

Through a scrote crossposting something from here onto a sub which I no longer follow 😂 I checked it out expecting to see a bunch of “man haters” and “female incels” and instantly felt like I found my people!! I no longer felt alone. So thankful 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:00 AM
66

And they have a child 😐 great lessons you’re teaching them huh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:26 AM
30

Just my experience, I’ve never heard of any working out, longest is maybe 5 years but then she finds out he was cheating on her. This long distance is when he or she works away in a different state etc or travels for work frequently. You can’t “fall in love” online. That’s a fantasy, not real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:54 AM
7

Does he know how conception works? Of course men have a “visible” and “obvious” orgasm 💀 I love when they try act all superior but expose how they’re just shit at sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:45 AM
7

You sound so positive, as you should!!! This is queen shit right here. Thank you for sharing and cheers to a self care Valentine’s Day 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:12 AM
35

FDS doesn’t support moving in with boyfriends. You yourself said you feel uncertain and not ready. Always listen to your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:39 AM
17

Now I used to love Shallon, but she can be a huge pickme libfem with videos such as “how to cheat and get away with it” and “how to sleep your way up to the top” BUT I will admit her advice can be great if you take it with a grain of salt. She brings up good points, her execution is just horrible sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:10 AM
17

you are who you spend time with Exactly which is why I have no male friends. I personally don’t tolerate any bullshit from men, in group settings I call them out or walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:26 AM
125

Yeah I never date guys who have facial hair, I need to know how they look without it first 💀 my children are not gonna get the weak chin gene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:28 AM
40

A movie for a first date 🙄 oh yeah and I bet you pick the movie and pay for your own ticket too. What a lazy scum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:27 AM
8

This belongs on AskFDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:58 PM
263

I don’t believe men and women can be “friends”. I believe they can be friendly and hangout together with a group of other friends, but one on one male female friendships I’ve never seen work out. It always ends in the guy trying to pursue the girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:03 AM
10

Usually mods don’t allow such new accounts to visibly contribute at all until they’ve had a good, reliable post / comment history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:00 AM
91

I had to do a double take at the caption!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:55 AM
14

This is our safe space 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:37 AM
31

Ummm how is this account allowed here? Joined 22hrs ago and has zero posts and the only comments are from like 6 hours ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:38 AM
21

You dodged a huge bullet. If he gets so angry about you wanting some privacy as a stranger, imagine him getting angry about something in a relationship 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:33 PM
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or HV and LV people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:52 PM
6

It’s not really an FDS aligned song if she ends up going back to a NVM in the film??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:35 AM
9

It’s such a great feeling - growth!! 🥂💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:08 AM
14

Sounds like he told her he has a wife and she didn’t like that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:13 AM
10

How great, this opens the doors for so many more young women to partake in prostitution because now they’re “protected”!! 🙄 I KNOW my grandmother did not fight for her rights so that women can do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:45 PM
26

Wow this is illegal I hope she finds out and presses charges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:42 PM
53

“Ethical feminist porn” oh she’s funny 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:23 AM
27

If his energy doesn’t meet your standards, next him. That’s all. HV women do not play these little games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:54 PM
27

Nah waiting for sex just means you respect your body and weed out the scrotes who are literally just looking for sex or are horrible at intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:53 PM
303

These guys should really just put in their bio “hookups only” and then they’d get exactly what they’re looking for! Yet another “I like my girls submissive” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:50 PM
262

HE’S A MINOR. Talking about sex and educating children is COMPLETELY different to allowing them to watch porn 💀 this enrages me. God when I was 11 I think I still watched Hannah Montana. He should be learning about puberty and not even know what porn is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:02 AM
600

If you call women “chicks” I can assure you no women who respect themselves want you 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:59 AM
18

Exactly! It’s a reflection of their cruelness, not a reflection of us! But we know better now how to detect that behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:22 PM
80

Being naïve and too trusting does not define us now and it didn’t define us then! Not to mention the manipulation and social conditioning! This community is saving and guiding so many women who were just like us back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:45 AM
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If you manage to find a guys Instagram before the first date, it’s so satisfying to block him at the first sight of an Insta model, porn star or misogynistic asshole in his follow list… Such a time saver!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:43 AM
398

Reminder: if you have sent nudes in the past, forgive yourself and remember that you know better now!! You can’t change the past but you can recognise your growth. It’s a horrible feeling knowing someone out there could have such photos but try to find peace in the fact that you have this knowledge now and have learned a harsh yet valuable lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:38 AM
9

💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:31 AM
43

Yeah no HVM would pursue a thirst trap. Why waste energy purposely getting attention from LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:22 AM
32

Yeah OP said it’s not a sexy photo but at the same time said it’s a “thirst trap” like ok, scrotes will jerk off to any photo I don’t want to make it easier for them. But that’s just me. “Thirst traps” are a repellant for HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:23 AM
38

Not me, 1 because I live in a small town notorious for LVM, and 2 because I’m not looking to date, prioritising my family and work life has been the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:21 AM
6

I say “why wouldn’t I be?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:54 PM
143

This is just another why we let men tell how they feel about us first. They should always be pursuing us. Doesn’t matter how great they look on the outside or how you think they feel about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:11 AM
17

Because they CARE about how you feel and don’t want to make you feel bad in any way!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:13 AM
9

The first sentence in my comment literally says it’s not a HV date, on its own it’s not a date at all. I said it’s a fun activity on a free morning or something. And there’s crappy, smelly thrift stores and more expensive thrift stores which are more suited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:12 AM
42

It’s not a HV date though. Perhaps a fun activity for people in a relationship, but it’s not an actual date. Just FDS standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:12 AM
362

These are nice, low cost activities for a married couple or a couple that’s been in a relationship for years to do on their free morning together. NOT dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:10 AM
44

What in the step-mom porn fantasy fetish is this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:21 AM
10

Post flair: actual title 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:19 AM
133

Wow what a pornsick asshole. Scrote finds it pleasurable to block the airways of his pregnant wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:17 PM
203

It’s scary how many of us have been choked randomly during sex without consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:52 AM
51

Anything non consensual is sexual assault. If you report it, try find a female officer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:51 AM
54

LV people do LV things. So let’s continue to be HV and do HV things and likeminded people will come into our lives. They have not won, the numbers on the FDS sub are growing everyday. I’m sure 99% of women here have had their mind changed in some way for the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:57 PM
124

Not to mention that insulting women turns them on, too🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:37 PM
738

You know she was thinking “you know what? Fuck you” and I love her for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:59 AM
43

that’s reserved for the THIRD date 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:48 AM
662

Ah yes nothing says healthy relationship like a man calling his girlfriend a ‘moron’ 🙄 when will scrotes get a clue?? Good on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:47 AM
4

Probably belongs on femalelevelupstrategy or something as this has nothing to do with dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:03 AM
5

Most of the partners and husbands of FDS women here don’t watch porn and are even anti-porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:50 AM
12

Ughhhhh I know. Porn = leave him. Lying = leave him. Plain and simple in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:20 AM
3

It’s tough but it WILL be the best thing for you and your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:20 AM
4

This is not a tough question if you read the handbook. She needs to dump him. That’s all. And there ARE guys that don’t watch porn, that’s why we vet to find them. FDS standards is always be single rather than dating a guy that watches porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:19 AM
8

One red flag is enough to leave, let alone like the 10 in this post alone, plus you said there’s more. WHY would you give up your dreams for… some pig that talks horribly about other girls. Disgusting, lying, depraved, porn addicted scrote. “Is this normal guy behaviour?” Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:48 PM
100

Back to his mother because it sounds like he got absolutely everything he wanted as a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:15 AM
494

Huskies are so difficult to train and need a lot of time put into making them well behaved dogs. Especially around young children. He wants more kids and she doesn’t so I 100% believe he got one of the most highly energetic dog breeds to piss her off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:10 AM
906

I love her response! I wish she left while he was in the bathroom. The audacity of calling someone’s profession childish when he played on his phone the whole time 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:52 AM
5

We all know reddit is dominated by men (particularly incels / scrotes) yet I don’t think this opinion would change if you asked men outside of reddit either ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:57 PM
2

That’s true honestly that’s why it’s so scary that young boys are watching porn and making jokes in school etc. Naïve boys who actually don’t watch porn are learning from their behaviour and normalising it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:43 PM
88

Both of my sons are the cooks in their relationships That’s some great parenting, momma!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:02 AM
11

Very true, OP said this is a new relationship so it’s def too soon to be cooking with him unless it was at some sort of culinary class date he organised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:42 AM
56

$10 I’d feed it to the animal myself 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:09 AM
1

I know!!! They’re the ones to rely on here and if they’re giving “harsh” advice, it’s probably because you need to hear it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:23 AM
6

Someone asked the other day why a ruthless strategist was being harsh 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:11 AM
0

Why is this getting downvoted 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:57 AM
158

“You can cook better than the restaurant!” = I’m lazy and broke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:16 AM
91

You never cook for a man, the one exception I can think of is if you’re planning a special night and want to cook his favourite meal as a surprise or something (this is like years into the relationship). Cooking with him is also wifey shit. He doesn’t get to have those benefits unless you have a ring on your finger. Especially in a new relationship like you said you’re in. If you’re cooking together it could be a fun activity on occasion for like a family thing but not a norm and it’s NOT a date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:13 AM
194

You know we would all join
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:33 AM
226

“You’re overreacting, he just wants to see how hot you look, just communicate” 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:04 AM
1

Their whole channel is LV / Pickme galore. Their videos include telling his wife it was trash after they had sex “prank”, him checking out other girls to see how his wife reacts, wearing lingerie in public to see how her husband reacts. Pretty embarrassing stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:02 AM
7

That is SO true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:12 AM
64

I agree. NO man will call me names in bed or talk about my body in gross ways and tell me what I’m gonna do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:11 AM
181

Yeah “dirty” implies that it’s something you wouldn’t say in public or in front of other people because it’s like a secret for the bedroom, just between 2 people. Now it’s just horrible, abusive, infantilising stuff 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:10 AM
355

“Dirty talk” has been misshapen and warped by porn. A HVM would not say anything to make you uncomfortable, anything that makes him feel in power or like you’re submissive, or from something he heard in porn. None of this “cALL mE yOur mAsTeR, yOu sLut” or “i’M gOnNa dEsTrOy tHat pUsSy” bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:49 PM
8

Oh of course, Covid really ruins things like that. OP, we here all would agree that you deserve better and CAN find better. I think you know it deep down too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:16 PM
12

It sounds like you deal with quite a few issues that would’ve beneficial for a therapist to deal with, not a boyfriend. As well as him. You can’t “fix” people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:11 PM
20

The first issue is that FDS does not support living with boyfriends. He sounds like the “good guy” everyone loves until you get to know him. His friends suck and he chooses them over you. He didn’t have your back when you needed it and that’s enough to say goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:58 PM
3

I understand the red flag Ok and you’re still fine with it, not sure why you’re asking us for help. Him “pleasing” you involves dominating, controlling and infantilising you. That’s gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:13 AM
9

Literally wtf. She needs to read the handbook and… you know, google what paedophilia is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:49 AM
28

“Soft” bdsm? The auto mod comment literally says FDS does not support BDSM. “good little girl” uhh hello? Paedophile vibes! The things he’s asking you to repeat are him trying to dominate you and have power over you. You don’t BELONG to anyone. I’m pretty sure he gets turned on by children considering your size and the things he says to you. Creepy. Only a matter of time before his “soft” BDSM turns into literal physical abuse as he’s currently testing your limits and says it’s “so easy” to do t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:30 AM
335

Omg pedo!!! These young women are so naïve. Makes my heart hurt. It’s hard to know better when all you see in the world is deranged normalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:34 AM
53

Find better friends, seriously. You can level up with like-minded ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:45 AM
5

THIS. A good, caring person that LOVES you never makes anyone cry, and especially not on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:19 AM
6

“I think you’re a bit harsh” uhhh you do know they’re called Ruthless Strategists, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:18 AM
14

/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:14 AM
74

Liberal ‘feminists’ love to eMpOwEr women yet bash the ones that disagree with them 🤡 let them have their coffee dates, abusive sex and community dick, more for them and less for us!! I guess everyone’s happy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:11 AM
13

Unless he’s got some nasty incest fetish… I mean he could be into that step-daughter shit 🤢 I don’t wanna know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:10 AM
66

Nah don’t confront him, what will he say? “It’s natural for a man sweetie, you’ll understand one day” or some bullshit. At least now you know your father is gross?? Sorry this happened to you OP, I’ve been through it with my father too. It’s just a bad situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:05 AM
7

Nah he’s literally emotionally abusing her now. There’s nothing to “clarify”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:48 PM
17

Block him. LISTEN to the shit he’s saying to you, he doesn’t deserve to hear you out. If you must, send him an ‘it’s over’ text and block his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:41 PM
11

OP got on her knees begging for him after he said he wanted a submissive woman 😐 she gotta cut him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:25 PM
14

Nah his true colours came out when they needed to. HVW are not desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:23 PM
6

Trash took itself out. We don’t fix sick men. You cannot argue for hours and be on your knees begging (after he said he wants a submissive woman), and expect any change. Move on for YOUR sake. Focus on being the HVW you know you can be, because we are not desperate here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:21 PM
27

Yikes 😬 I was just going off OPs article they linked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:23 AM
131

She was pregnant with the child before the other one died but yes, pickme women supporting community dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:35 AM
105

“Rapey” is EXACTLY the word I would imagine they’re like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:35 AM
47

The country I live, the adoption process is extremely difficult that even the most loving, dedicated people just don’t bother or eventually give up. It’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:30 AM
292

’joked that he was "starting his own football team," referencing that he has seven children with four women.’ wow don’t you just love community dick 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:22 AM
11

Great idea!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:13 AM
158

Plus people forget that pole dancing ≠ stripping. It saddens me how such a beautiful athletic sport has been defaced by strip clubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:12 AM
68

Do you remember what it was like? I mean I have a picture in my mind but I’ve never step foot into one yet am curious about how nasty it actually us. Would put it into perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:02 AM
318

Seriously though, what man with any respect for women or his partner would go to a strip club?? They wouldn’t and don’t!! I’ve known men who pull out of their best friend’s / brother’s wedding (some even declining being the best man) because the future groom wants to go to a strip club for the bachelor party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:43 AM
253

They honestly think girls just dance on a stage while rich and fancy men in suits throw money and cheer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:39 AM
188

I really want kids, but I don’t want to date and can’t see myself putting in the years of work to ‘find’ a HVM… so I’ll put that time and energy into adoption because that benefits myself and the children in the system. Woohoo 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:03 AM
38

So will the child unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:58 AM
3

Doesn’t matter. The father will be involved in the child’s life. I’d be much more satisfied if Rihanna was a single mother rather than have that LV as the father of her child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:55 AM
29

Judging by his song lyrics, he seems like the guy that has dozens of children out there that he has no idea about. She has a terrible taste in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:17 PM
21

Rapper, lyrics include “fucking” and “bitches”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:14 PM
2

Not when it comes to children sis, she’s bringing a child into this world with a father that’s had an apparent abusive and racist past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:12 PM
457

Never rely on a man for anything. If you are a SAHM you have to be independently financially secure enough to drop everything and leave with you kids if needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:36 AM
121

So many women are getting flairs here obviously without reading the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:13 AM
181

The moment you get into a mans car that you do not know (yes, just because you’ve been on a few dates does NOT mean you know him), he has ALL the power. Once he locks those doors you’d be screwed. Plus, if nothing happens in the car, he’ll know where you live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:12 AM
12

If you don’t live with them, sure. Because the only time you really have to see them is at family gatherings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:33 AM
105

There’s been A LOT of posts here like “ugh my friend is the biggest pick me” it’s like… drop her or put up with her toxicity?? There’s not much in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:32 AM
23

🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:15 AM
34

Never a good reason for any part of your body to smell… they have no excuse!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:38 AM
27

Never date an unstable man. No HVM would be ready to date until they’ve gotten any issues sorted out and received therapy until a clear and positive resolution. I’m unsure as to why you didn’t end things when he 1. Told you he had difficulty reconciling between his American and Indian sides and 2. When he quit therapy because it’s “too expensive” (he’s too lazy) to continue. Aside, therapy will not fix an already broken relationship. We don’t fix men. Anyway, I’m glad you saw your value and stop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:44 AM
15

I love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:32 AM
50

Having a bath and painting my nails 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:30 AM
97

Oh it’s the worst. Plus he’s 50, no one wants his dusty ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:50 AM
235

“80% of women find 80% of men unattractive” yeah because 80% of men are lazy, unfit, smelly and unkept. If you pluck your nose hairs, wash your face and put a tiny bit of effort into your appearance, maybe you may notice a difference in this! We aren’t going to lower our standards to give you a chance because you have a “gReAt pErSoNaLiTy” when you look like shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:24 AM
9

He’s a creep. That’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:03 AM
78

NEVER get into a car with a man you don’t know, and yes, just because you’ve met him a couple of times does not mean you know him at all. Nah don’t waste the word “classy” on him. Nothing about his words and emotions are classy. I love how he says “oh me too I’m not looking for casual sex… buuuut will you spend the weekend with me for our 6th date?” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:01 AM
15

Someone should give her a trophy for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:55 AM
22

“Most loyal bangmaid ever”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:55 AM
8

That’s disgusting, the only thing he can praise her for is her oral skills 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:54 AM
202

Her past trauma is valid, so are her boundaries. She needs to come here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:31 AM
122

Going out for a concert with friends yet told her he had work, on Valentine’s Day 😐 just another reason why we don’t send “6 paragraph messages” on scrotes who don’t deserve our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:34 AM
3

Probably, apparently he keeps getting deleted or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:41 AM
102

Another life lost at the hands of an abusive man. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:54 AM
52

😂😂😂 for real tho, if his “girlfriend” was an active member here, I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t be his girlfriend??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:10 AM
119

This is like a direct copy/paste from another image someone posted here a few days ago. Are they trying to spread FDS propaganda? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:02 AM
17

I think it’s valid to address a fellow FDS lady here when she’s had concern about her boyfriend jerking off to women online in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:34 AM
29

Uhhh no shit dude of course she lost it, because you lied to her. Insecure scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:37 AM
119

But now that I have a normal boyfriend (whom I believe is pretty HV) Sorry OP but if this boyfriend you have is the same guy you questioned us about using faceless ASMR women (basically ASMR porn) to jerk off to, he’s not HV in the slightest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:31 AM
34

I found this sub by a guy posting how stupid it is on a sub I’m no longer joined to, and I checked it out and fell in love as a lost pickme who felt alone in her values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:28 AM
105

“Provide them joy” …yeah, therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:35 AM
17

Who the heck cares tho. They can stay mad. A HVW does not care what these men say about us, we don’t visit these subs that feed into low value behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:45 AM
34

Happy birthday queen!! 🥂 if he can’t listen to a simple fact about you, he’s not worth any of your time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:12 AM
92

Entitlement + anger issues + can’t control themselves from invading a female only space
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:59 AM
9

That’s true, I guess dealing with a narcissist is a whole other issue than your average abusive, manipulative asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:25 PM
11

👍👍👍 if he’s not the one pursuing you and showing / telling you he wants to continue things seriously, waste of time!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:05 PM
20

Like someone commented, lovebombing is usually surface level while genuine interest goes deeper, they will remember what you like / dislike and what your interests are. A person lovebombing will usually only buy things or say things they think you like and not remember key info about you. Very fine line tho, I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:03 PM
3

Uh yeah your friend is a female scrote and you don’t want to be associated with a trash person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:30 PM
25

Yet they say women are the eMoTiOnAL sex 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:26 PM
11

A couple of weeks / up to 4 dates. But always trust your intuition, it will tell you if it’s too early or too late 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:24 PM
225

Proud of you sis!! Your needs should always be met! If not, kick him out. In the future, remember that he should bring up the “where are we going conversation” because he should be the one pursuing you. He should be actively trying to further the relationship because he wants to secure you and show you he’s super interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:12 AM
130

“oMg sHeS sO sEnSiTiVe” 🤛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:10 AM
101

Proof that a woman and her perfect dream life cannot make a scrote change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:54 AM
35

I hope he’s your ‘feminist’ EX boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:42 PM
63

Why don’t you distance yourself and find some new friends who share the same values as you? It may be difficult but it will ultimately benefit you over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:43 AM
105

Wife benefits and maid benefits while doing absolutely nothing except being lazy and addicted to porn and video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:32 AM
87

I think I almost had a stroke reading all of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:56 AM
34

We could go on and on and on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:53 AM
125

Don’t date a broke man Don’t be a partner for 7 years with no ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:16 AM
28

I mean, of course we’re right. I don’t even have to look at data to know that this is a thing. Most of us know from experience. So glad there’s actual data coming out to prove our point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:57 PM
30

Omg what a disgusting person, also she has below zero standards and self respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:56 PM
27

Toys are SO much different to porn 💀 but oh no, now men and pickmes will try compare their human sized blow up doll with a face and huge breasts to our tiny vibrator like that’s the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:55 PM
76

I love how I treat myself, I’d love to date male me 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:53 PM
23

This is kinda gross, 90% of us were pickme women and our relatives or close friends didn’t get us to this community. If I can quickly DM a stranger online who looks like she needs some advice and potentially save her from an abusive relationship, then why not? She can listen or she can not, at least the info is there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:03 PM
28

SO many of us were lost pickme women in manipulative relationships. We didn’t know any better but now we do. It was worth it for us. FDS has helped many pickme / LV women get out of dangerous relationships. That is always worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:58 PM
108

Me too 💕 it’s worth planting the seed in their mind and being done with it if some women like us can be saved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:57 PM
35

Most of us were low value and pickme before finding FDS. It’s worth giving them the advice and they can choose whether to resonate with it or continue with their lifestyle. I know I’m thankful I was told about this community, if we can introduce more vulnerable and lost women to this HV lifestyle, then why not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 11:52 AM
107

Of course it is, most of us used to be pickmes prior to finding FDS and are thankful to have found this community. It’s worth it for the ones who want to be helped or to potentially open some others eyes so the info is in the back of their mind. PickMes don’t want help or advice I know when I was living a pickme lifestyle, I wanted help and advice, I just felt alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 11:50 AM
28

To be fair, she said “go on horrible dates” so yes, it’s horrible advice as some horrible dates end in rape or murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:21 AM
0

Plenty of men these days wear makeup. Almost every makeup brand these days features men wearing the products too on promo photos. Let people apply makeup if they want to, it’s just makeup and it can be fun if you’re not always thinking about men 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:53 AM
4

Not true. I apply makeup at home alone because it’s fun. I wear makeup under my mask. Or with my girlfriends because we like to experiment with products while listening to music, then we wash it off. It’s only problematic if you wear makeup to try be like everyone on Instagram and think it’s what you have to do to impress a guy. Neither apply to me and many women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:20 AM
3

Idk about you but the makeup I use isn’t toxic. I don’t believe I “should” do it, I do it because I like it. If you think women do it for the male gaze or because of society standards, then who do so many women apply makeup when they’re at home for fun?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:19 AM
109

“Be young and fabulous… and experience community dick and abuse from men from so many different backgrounds, don’t bother vetting, have a hookup and take the huge risk of getting raped and killed and just date casually!” 💀💀💀 I hope she gets picked lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:50 AM
6

You do know that dark under eye bags can be genetic right 💀 people can cover them up if they want to. It’s only an issue if you’re doing it to seek validation from others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:51 PM
1

Men can wear concealer if they like. We all agree here that many men look crusty because they don’t take care of their appearance. It’s fine if women don’t wear makeup, and it’s fine if men want to. As long as you’re wearing it for yourself, there’s really no issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:47 PM
8

Girl just because a guy is HV doesn’t mean he’s “the one”. Aside, he doesn’t sound HV at all because you literally said he doesn’t respect your boundaries. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:55 PM
26

Girl I put on makeup for me and so I look fresh and not tired for work. It’s not so I “look good” for other people, it’s because I enjoy the process and like how my skin looks fresh :) Just like how I dress for me. It’s all for me because I’m my #1 priority. I have the freedom to look however I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:07 AM
664

“Get with a girl 5 years younger” = get with a naive woman who doesn’t know what she wants so you can manipulate her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:05 AM
36

Yeah because they’re used to being babied by their mothers and every woman in past relationships and they get jealous 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:32 AM
14

I agree. If you don’t want to get her pregnant but want to have sex, then do it responsibly. Both parties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:33 AM
11

It’s not necessarily how he reacted, but that he literally admitted he would try convince / force her to have an abortion for his benefit. As a pro choice woman you should see how this is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:32 AM
36

Yep. Has sex with no condom or careless methods because he knows he can rely on her to abort. Not even close to HVM behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:30 AM
145

I’m glad it’s over!! Sad how literally most of us can relate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:01 AM
98

Yeah there’s been nothing from what I can gather that since OP is literally pregnant, any support whatsoever from him about where to go next and talking about if she wants to go through with the pregnancy. It’s like he has unprotected or careless sex because he knows she’ll abort regardless and that’s disgusting. Like dude, the point is to wrap your dick to prevent pregnancy in the first place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:50 AM
38

I’m so sorry 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:29 AM
482

Because they love porn and masturbation and using a real woman for it is like a bonus for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:18 AM
165

He needs to invest in you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:16 AM
1

We have a handbook literally for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:16 AM
181

The fact that you’re asking us if it’s a red flag usually means it’s a red flag. You’re not reading too much into it because your intuition is never wrong. Your stance on pregnancy needs to align or it will never work. If you fall pregnant unplanned and decide to keep the baby and he doesn’t and will try convince you to have an abortion, he’s not gonna stay once you say you’re keeping the child. He’s not committed to you. You cannot allow a man to have a say over your body and your baby. NEVER g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:12 AM
20

“OH YEAH SO DIFFICULT SO MURDER THEM” like whattttt?!!???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:34 PM
44

Yet he still never leaves her because he knows that he’ll never have it any better and fears being single. I mean, she cooks and cleans for him while he cheats, of course he’ll stay. SHE needs to drop him and save the child!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:32 PM
100

His first words to her were “I am weed” so I don’t expect much. I think these two love the attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:45 PM
243

You should avoid dating men who don’t want kids if you want kids. There’s plenty of men I know who work with children and don’t want their own kids because they’re around them all day. It’s just something you have to vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:03 AM
61

————————— Hell ————————— The bar is down here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:01 AM
53

“Let’s fight to prevent the exploitation of sex workers by continuing to allow people to pay to use and abuse their naked bodies!!” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:08 AM
20

Birds of a feather flock together… HVM have HV friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:24 AM
13

“Potentially cheating” GIRL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:22 AM
80

Probably because they’ve come to the conclusion they won’t get sex on the first date. Or probably because his girlfriend wants to check something on his phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 10:45 PM
41

Yeah I’d love to try watch it again sometime since everyone seems to love it. I mean, a dirty joke here and there and a sex scene every now and then is ok with me but the pilot was so saturated with it, quite graphic too, and I just can’t engage with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 12:56 PM
301

I’ve only seen the pilot episode because it was too crude for me, but from what I remember, I did appreciate the scene where the guy randomly started choking a girl during sex without consent because… pornsick. And I was glad they portrayed the girl being shocked and grossed out. Very realistic for many of us here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:27 AM
611

Why do men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:19 AM
3

Good luck!! Glad to see you realise that it’s just your community that normalises it. You can do better! Blocking men and deleting dating apps is a GREAT start!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:10 AM
127

I love when scrotes admit they’re shit in bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:07 AM
50

LOVE it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 11:20 AM
71

I think many of us have had to come to that realisation about our ex during a breakup. They’re just shit guys and it’s not our fault no matter how they treated us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:17 AM
54

True and I guess OP needs to decide if she wants to pursue things with a man who doesn’t even have time to text her, regardless of how stressful his work is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:30 AM
5

How did you get a flair…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:14 AM
15

HVW never settle!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:04 AM
33

How is it condescending? You’re asking a question to a group that doesn’t approve of casual sex. Sounds to me like they were concerned about you having an STD rather than judging you. If it’s a vice for you like you said, perhaps you need a therapist or someone to talk through why this is the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:54 AM
84

You need to understand that you will never find a HVM or stable relationship through sex on the first date and hookups. I think your next step is deciding what you want. You said yourself this behaviour is not satisfying anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:51 AM
9

Correct, I changed it to parents xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:01 AM
84

Visible nosehairs and when they are picky eaters - like grow up and eat some broccoli! You can tell their parents never made them do anything they didn’t want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:36 PM
1

Both pre packaged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:08 AM
36

Nah I wouldn’t even engage in conversation about it. He’s obviously incredibly insecure and I’m not about to deal with him taking that frustration out on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:51 PM
237

He’s so insecure about his age 💀 he’s mad no beautiful young ladies want to date a dusty old man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:25 PM
135

Ewww it’s actually her birthday 😷 literally barely 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:22 PM
423

I don’t understand “waiting until she’s legal” because that implies that he is attracted to her while she is underage and knows it’s wrong. Pedophile alert 🚨!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:15 PM
479

Dude if you set up a low quality date, don’t expect her to bring a nice wine 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:55 PM
1

Sounds like he respects his gf but not you and no HVM would disrespect his sister. He doesn’t think you deserve the best. Their relationship might look good from the outside but it may be different from the inside!! She’s a forever gf. Just because he pays for her on dates doesn’t automatically mean he’s HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:16 PM
105

“wHy diDnT yOu sAy sOmeThiNg hE pRoBaBLy tHoUgHt yOu liKeD iT” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:31 AM
102

Without discussing it Without consenting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:20 AM
139

“Other mothers do it alone” YEAH because they don’t have a supportive partner, way to out yourself buddy. Aside, it’s more harmful to her son to be raised with an abusive father than no father at all, she should divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:18 AM
17

Just curious but 44 days ago you didn’t even know how to ask what his income is tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:00 PM
102

He dreamed he came all over her face… how romantic to be covered in someone’s bodily fluids, not degrading at all 🤢 aside, her husband literally just told her the porn he watches in detail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:28 AM
111

The easiest way for a man to tell on himself is when you don’t stray from your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:30 AM
22

Just like why don’t scrotes just date men since they hate women so much 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:14 PM
67

“Gf of 5 years” 💀 what a waste of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:42 PM
16

I never assume every man is innocent and a good guy. I am always on high alert and always looking for red flags and warning signs, with every man. We can’t trust everyone we meet, they have to earn it, plus it’s just about safety in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:34 PM
14

This is so accurate!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:44 AM
24

FDS doesn’t support moving in / living with with a boyfriend. You just said yourself you don’t feel valued. So that’s all I have to say really. On the plus side you’re all packed up and ready to leave his ass in the condo you bought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:04 AM
57

They overthink for a reason, buddy! But it’s a lot easier for you to convince her she’s crazy than lose her and be alone isn’t it? 🙄 Also, why is he holding her by the neck 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:51 AM
35

I see a few comments here saying “it could be an orange flag, keep an eye on it” like… if it makes you question it or keep an eye out, it’s a red flag! It may be minor, but it’s still there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:59 PM
178

If you practice being a HVW, you decide who’s in your league, and that’s the fun part ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:54 AM
41

Yes! And also don’t date if you’re financially unstable. Lessons learned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:08 AM
217

This is why we don’t date until we are financially stable, yeah sure he should buy things for you and pay for dinner etc, however we need to be setup for ourselves if something goes wrong. This honestly goes for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:35 AM
97

If he can lie about smaller things (no pun intended) he can lie about bigger things. Plus, guys who lie about their height are insecure about it and you DON’T want to date an insecure man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:55 AM
38

Exactly. If he’s trash in the beginning or you wished he treated you better, it’s NOT gonna get better. If it starts shitty it will end shitty. Marriage will only make him settle even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:28 AM
404

“I convinced her to take me home” 🚩 because the word ‘convince’ implies she initially didn’t want to. How gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:12 AM
156

“Too busy with school” funny how when I was studying I could still manage to do all my basic adult tasks 🤡 “she payed for all the nice dinners”, oh lord. Funny how now that he has a good income, they want “different things”. This is why we are never forever girlfriends because if we settle, they stay until they’ve gotten what they want from us then they flee! Men don’t get wife benefits unless they are our husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:11 AM
25

That’s literally 90% of everyone on dating sites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:08 AM
54

Probably belongs on askFDS or femalevelupstrategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:23 AM
11

You get downvoted for that? Perhaps we need another pinned post by the mods telling users to read the handbook. I’ve had people reply to my comments saying “what’s the handbook?” and it’s like, how did they even get a flair!!!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:20 AM
22

Not sure why you haven’t blocked him yet. You’re repeatedly interacting with a loser. Our advice wasn’t “delete the texts and don’t respond” it was, block him and move on. Probably time to revisit the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:18 AM
84

Yuck!!! He creeps me out without even knowing what he looks like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:57 AM
582

These two are so cringy. I’m sorry but I would never marry a man whose first words to me were “I am weed” 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:56 AM
30

You’re correct, and this comes from my sister’s and my mother. I’m thankful I’ve learned better thanks to all of you ladies here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:55 AM
117

Honestly this should be the response of any decent guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:02 PM
70

I hope so too. His idea of a “first date” was asking her over to his place where he has 3 male roommates. I was like uhhh hello? This is the perfect recipe for danger and disaster. Thankfully, he ghosted her the day she was supposed to go there, I think I manifested that outcome 😂 but seriously, she didn’t and still doesn’t see the danger in this whole thing!! Some people have to figure it out on their own I guess. I had to take a step back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:00 PM
216

My sister is dealing with a guy that ghosted her, I said “you deserve better, block him” and she said “I don’t want to be petty” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 09:43 PM
91

Like dude, just call your friend and go to the store if u want your bulbs so bad 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:46 PM
29

Ehh I feel like this guy could turn physical real quick. I’d be looking for a friend to stay with while I find somewhere else. He sounds scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 10:35 AM
41

If he’s putting in less effort, he’s not worth your time!! You can do better sis and you know it, don’t you 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:57 AM
6

It’s disgusting 🤢 they’re so addicted!!! Rotten brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:56 AM
12

Oh 100%. It’s the only way to discover if they follow Instagram models, porn stars, have secret accounts, if they keep pictures of their exes and texts etc!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:08 AM
58

“HARD left swipe” should be a post flair here 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:16 AM
26

They will lie! If he says “no I don’t watch it” or “I stopped” ask him why he stopped. We also vet for his jokes, snoop on his phone, see who he follows on Insta , ask if he has any fetishes or is into BDSM (🤢), how long he is in the bathroom etc. Plus while you’re in the initial intimate stages in the relationship, you can vet for if he has an erection while making out, how he makes out with you. There’s lots to vet for but ultimately, if he’s determined to fool you, he will. But I’ve found mos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:08 AM
14

I’m glad it wasn’t already taken!! 😂💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:03 AM
14

This is so wrong. A HVM wouldn’t watch porn in or out of a relationship because like you said, the industry is TERRIBLE among other things. It’s not promising whatsoever that he said he’ll quit. Because he won’t, because… why is he watching it in the first place? There’s no good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:29 AM
83

Literally the automatic mod comment says FDS doesn’t support the use of porn. You already know we’ll say no. A “few times a month” is probably multiple times a week. He’ll say “I can stop watching!” And he won’t 💀 we’ve all been there. It’s not even worth it. If it makes you uncomfortable, DON’T put up with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:27 AM
0

As long as it’s legal and easily available for FREE online, the majority of men will watch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:26 PM
42

This is why I don’t have Instagram. I love my body and the confidence I have from loving my natural body is irreplaceable!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:54 AM
170

If a man needs to have unprotected sex for it to “feel better”, he’s addicted to porn 100% and has no respect for your body or boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:58 AM
44

Pubic hair is literally one of the first signs of maturing into a woman. Men who “pReFeR” women to be shaved down there are creeps and have paedophilic tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:15 AM
26

Girlfriend of 8 years?? Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:24 AM
46

They say they’re “visual creatures” to excuse porn use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:40 AM
1

Me too hun. I’ve found tho that many HVM strictly use social media for business or friends and that’s it. Some, not at all. And I’ve found they never have Snapchat, just Facebook or Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:23 AM
109

We need to stay away from men that are way older than us, AND scrotes our own age. At 17 I was abused by a 17 year old boy. At 18 was abused by a 20 year old boy. Abusers come in every age!! Age gaps are certainly more prone to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:01 PM
31

He admitted he’s totally far behind in life - don’t date a man baby that’s never had a gf. Just his language is off. “Play the next meet-up by ear” no. It should be “I will plan a date as soon as I can with you as it’s unpredictable at the moment” You dodged a huge bullet!! He’s obviously looking for a quick hookup so he can “catch up on all he’s missed” 🤡 don’t blame yourself, he said he wasn’t looking for a relationship so be glad he didn’t waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:55 PM
4

45!!!! Omg that’s disgusting 🤢 what a jerk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 12:39 PM
4

They’re so untamed… talk about dirty fingernails and nose hair 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 12:38 PM
3

An ick before they even introduce themselves 😂 they are so low quality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 12:38 PM
65

Fellow Aussie here and I relate a lottt. The amount of times I’ve seen a guy with a decently handsome face, then realise he’s wearing flip flops and jean shorts (AT A RESTAURANT) and it ruins it for me 🤢 and yep, I haven’t seen a FULLY physically attractive man for years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:33 AM
6

This is exactly it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:41 PM
18

Yep. No mention of how the actions of the father could have impacted the sons life growing up. Just how the mother must have failed raising him being single 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:38 PM
6

What about young single mothers who aren’t in their fourties and fifties? This post is slightly strange. Single mother ≠ the result of a LVM son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:00 AM
9

A single HVW mother would try her best to raise a fine son. It’s not the best advice to say “run in the other direction!” just because he had a single mother, like anything, vet the situation - not because he’s the son of a single mother, but because he grew up without a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:59 AM
15

She needs to leave his ass ASAP then call the cops!! Also we need her here to tell her that ‘snooping’ on your partners phone is not wrong!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:47 AM
9

That’s true, plus if they’re desperate enough they’ll push it further like “it’s ___ how have you been” and that’s when you can block 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:12 AM
22

I feel zero pain being alone. I can proudly say that I’m actually the happiest I’ve been in years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:33 AM
7

Nope because it sounds like he wanted to do something nice for you and surprise you. Get into the mindset of receiving rather than going 50/50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:29 PM
2

Nah girl we don’t go to men’s houses when we don’t know them and we aren’t in a relationship with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:19 PM
12

“bUt hE dOeS tHe hArD wOrK aNd sHe’s sUpPoSeD tO lOok aFteR tHe kiDs”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:00 AM
6

Any woman that is “fine” with her boyfriend / husband sleeping with other woman is either insecure, manipulated and more likely, both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:44 AM
152

Bodycount is just how many people you have had sex with. Men love to brag about it yet women are shamed for it. If a man asks your bodycount, block him. It’s gross and a dehumanising term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:27 PM
9

Yes… it’s almost like there’s a pattern with men, huh, who would have guessed!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:13 AM
8

I feel zero pressure in my life to be a “cool girl”. “Vanilla” is the term pornsick men and women with trauma coined to project their hate about their sex life. “Vanilla” is just sex, it’s literally just intimate, gentle, real sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:14 PM
2

They hate commitment, feel entitled to, and want to masturbate into any woman they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:12 AM
10

Thank god she took the dog! What a monster he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:20 AM
27

Men are repulsive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 08:34 AM
109

“Being a good mate is not about denying there’s a little part of your brain that thinks about having sex with other people” 😂🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:48 AM
95

This is another reason why we CANNOT be in a car with a man we don’t know. Do not allow a man to pick you up for a date. This is also why we do NOT let men we don’t know or partners who haven’t earned our trust into our homes or know where we live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:39 AM
2

“It’s natural for us to look!!!” 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:06 AM
79

Sounds like you would benefit from therapy or living with a friend, not a partner. You can’t just date a guy because you think you’re running out of options and he SEEMS “not repulsive”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:53 AM
64

Because they don’t want to date the porn stars, just masturbate to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:22 AM
6

Scrotes can’t live without women. You dump them, they’re with another unlucky girl a week later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:12 AM
68

cool but they never acknowledge the harm to women!!! The exploitation! They always quit for selfish reasons like “my pp 🥺 I need to get laid in person instead”, they’d keep watching if it didn’t damage their health 🙄 for gods sake MINORS have easy access to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:21 PM
78

Thank you Billie!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:19 PM
101

If a guy said this to me I would think he’s trying to sell me something. Men have no idea what romance is 🤡 I wonder why the men chose a picture of a girl with a ‘revealing’ top who looks barely older than 19 for this question 🤔 creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:53 AM
47

He doesn’t care about you. A man who genuinely cares would want to do anything for you, aside, it’s literally human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:29 AM
112

They are so addicted to their small peens that they can’t make it through a walk in the street… EW!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 05:12 AM
158

This is so funny!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:38 AM
42

This is a major one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:37 AM
47

He responded with an apology and said he “understood” your point to try get you to let it go and redeem himself 😂 he’s not gonna change because a stranger online ‘called him out’. come on sis read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:35 AM
229

His “sister” is probably his girlfriend. By responding you’re literally handing him the key to hiding this for the next woman who talks to him. Ever heard of block and delete? We don’t “confront” these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:18 AM
2

The only thing that sounds good about marriage is the ring. But if I can get a rich HVM in the first place then I can get a ring anytime without the papers 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:39 PM
7

Because men think you’re desperate and thin that you’ll always try to keep them no matter what they do. It allows him to put in ZERO effort from the start. If a man wants you, he will pursue you every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:36 AM
34

Ughhh I’m so sorry that happened to you. Men are disgusting, we’re supposed to trust doctors but it’s scary how many women I know that will refuse to see a male doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:09 AM
110

Ummm no because he planned nothing. The restaurant is so “great” because he can probably walk there and it’s easy to try get you back to his place. The ”let’s shoot for” already screams zero commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:58 AM
156

Yes. There’s been a few posts on here with ladies boasting about how great their husbands are, yet how trash his friends are. And it’s like, what’s he like behind your back? 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:46 AM
7

I’ve never been more happy as a single woman with an FDS mindset shift. I have no interest in men or dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:12 PM
5

So are you dumping him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:42 PM
11

💩 Chris Pratt 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:43 AM
18

Yesss with the crown 💕 looks like she’s saying “girl, you know what to do”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:44 AM
87

Men have zero standards how filthy 🤢 she even admitted herself that she’s their full time maid, does she want an award or something? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:22 AM
36

“You are entitled” yes, and you are not worth a woman’s time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:11 AM
32

Red flag that you were going to move in with a boyfriend before you got a ring. Good riddance to him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:57 PM
189

It’s like, if a guy peered through a strangers window looking at them having sex, it’s fine because they’re not real people, right?? He doesn’t actually know that woman, right?? Jerking off to her is fine because men are just visual creatures… right?? Almost all people would find this illegal and creepy. But on a screen it’s fine?? Oh wait, remember, we shouldn’t kink shame. 🙄 Porn normalises everything that shouldn’t exist in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 11:18 AM
47

Both my exes hated their mothers and sister, for no valid reason. I guess because they were women and didn’t tolerate their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:29 AM
2

Nope. All of these are red flags and he keeps trying to justify it. You know it’s wrong because you’re posting here and you’ve said you’ve questioned his behaviour. Even if he was HV, the right guy for you wouldn’t make you feel this way. Just end things with him now because I think he will only get worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:04 PM
14

This sub helped me. Finding like-minded women really made me feel like I wasn’t crazy or “sensitive” like my exes and the media made me think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:39 PM
5

Men will sexualize anything, cleavage or no cleavage. However, these days what you post is seen as your first impression - and people are quick to judge. I think you should share the photo with people who deserve to see it because not many people will appreciate it for the right reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:35 PM
199

This is going to be a hard pill to swallow It’s only a hard pill to swallow for pickme women. For HVW, you cannot trust or rely on ANY man unless they earn it, and fortunately for us, most men aren’t worthy of earning it. The mindset of “all men are trash” is much easier (and much more realistic) than having wishful thinking and getting let down time after time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 02:20 AM
28

Men will always tell on themselves. Yet some men are very manipulative - and that’s when their actions tend to tell the truth instead of their words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:21 PM
596

“I didn’t mean it like that 🥺 can I still get my pp wet?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:57 AM
2

r/femalelevelupstrategy would be more appropriate. Also, don’t date when you’re insecure, nothing good comes from it - LVM can sniff insecurity. Work on yourself first because all that matters is you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:58 AM
11

Ugh. Men will fetishise anything. The fact that there’s men getting off to mentally sick, physically frail women is one of the most despicable things I’ve seen here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:28 AM
85

Because generally men create these shows, and men benefit from casual sex and hookups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:06 AM
45

There are TOO many “i finally left him” posts on here where they met the guy on OLD. It’s just almost impossible to meet a HVM on those apps since it’s a breeding ground for LVM. You do you, but the ratio of LVM to HVM on those apps is crazy. Better to use OLD as a learning tool. I agree with the part about some women here searching for HVM, what happened to letting it come naturally and organically when they happen to walk into your life?? It’s just so much work and so tiresome to keep dating a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:19 AM
32

Makes you realise how you were never actually loved by any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:58 PM
127

If he’s actually interested, he will take the two minutes it takes to respond to you. If he’s too busy to respond then he shouldn’t be dating. A whole 24 hours of no contact is a no from me. I would have unmatched at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:16 AM
55

They’re so disgusting. All he talks about is the BJs 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 06:16 AM
2

I say I love travelling so if I ever end up getting in a relationship with them they’ll make the extra effort to take me lovely places because they know I like it 😌😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:18 AM
120

Most men don’t clean their private areas. They don’t care. Its disgusting for them to expect our mouths to touch an area with literal piss still on it especially when they don’t wash it at all 🤢 and not even just about us though, it’s disgusting to not wash yourself!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:54 AM
51

It’s because society / the media taught us that feminism is being equal to men in every single way. When in reality, you’re not actually showing him how “strong and independent” you are. On the most basic level, biologically, men are “providers”, women are not. So let’s not try be equal to that because that does not achieve equality. Let them provide. And that is what shows respect and investment to a woman and her worth. Spending your lower wage on… some guy doesn’t prove anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:38 PM
14

YES and the whole “personality matters more than looks” crap men sold to women. Like no, looks matter JUST as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:01 AM
86

Nothing more low effort than walking your dogs together 😐 now all you need to do is block the number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:59 AM
122

Tall, fit and handsome - The ideal visuals of a man! Seriously, what woman wants to date a short, unfit, ugly guy??? What’s even funnier, being handsome doesn’t always have to do with their actual facial features, if a guy smells good, keeps himself clean and neat, and takes care of his skin, nails and hair, it’s an instant improvement. Most guys literally put in zero effort. If I’m gonna date, I’d like a guy that takes care of his appearance, a guy that keeps himself healthy and fit, and a heig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:05 AM
41

I hate how the media made me dislike taylor when she’s literally done nothing. She may have had some questionable pick-me lyrics in her early career (as she herself was probably dealing with scrotes), but she’s actually a great role model for young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:02 AM
156

Men are so insecure. If a guy said “sorry I don’t date short girls” or whatever, I’d be like ok. They project SO much. They think women need men yet can’t leave us alone when we reject them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:47 AM
4

LVM/NVM always tell on themselves. Sometimes they make it so easy for us to spot how repulsive they are and what makes it more funny is that they don’t even care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:46 AM
14

Girl this made my heart happy, I hope your feet are warm right now 💗🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:42 PM
10

Block and delete, to him you’re just someone to meet up with when he’s lonely. You’re an option to him. Next!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:30 AM
38

More like before you even get into the relationship. Also, don’t share your trauma with men. They will use it against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:31 AM
10

That’s sexual assault wtf. He is DISGUSTING. I can’t imagine the number of times she’s submitted to his ‘sexual needs’ because of threats etc. I hope she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:21 AM
11

I just don’t have male friends. Female friendships are completely different to male friendships and I don’t see how the two can be combined. I’ve never even met a HVM let alone befriended one. It’s not worth our time. Just avoid being “fuck zoned” or seen as a potential piece of meat to call when they’re lonely and keep them out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:48 AM
26

I’m SO happy for you!! Know your worth and never settle!! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:59 AM
22

This is exactly right. No sex from me until I KNOW they’re good at the other stuff. Horrible kisser = horrible in bed. Can’t get me off with oral etc? No chance of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:25 AM
100

If he doesn’t continue to peruse you for dates then it’s a red flag. If he’s still seeing other women by your 3rd date / multiple weeks it’s a red flag. He should know what he wants. A HVM is looking for the “right” one just like we are. So unless he makes his intentions clear after a few dates - which a HVM will - it’s a waste of time. Keep in mind, you’re still vetting them too so don’t throw around the HVM term!! For this case - his wording seems very dismissive. Not a fan. He’s also encourag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:54 AM
82

There is no romance anymore because women have been brainwashed into pursuing men first, paying on dates and allowing the use of porn in relationships etc. men are SPOILED these days. They’re allowed to do anything they want to us and anything they don’t want with zero punishment and expect us to put up with it. And they know that one day a woman probably will settle for it. We all know a woman like that. Some of us used to be women like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 01:32 AM
94

Sex dolls don’t sound and look in pain or visibly uncomfortable. That’s the difference. It’s sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:45 AM
21

It’s scary. I CANNOT believe this stuff is normalised. Nothing says porn addiction and complete lack of respect and dehumanisation of a woman than men who fantasise / engage in BDSM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:44 AM
3

Like, how many did you copy and paste that to? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:42 AM
9

I always say, let THEM be the trash person, not you. Don’t try to “get even” or “get revenge” because it only makes you just as bad as them, except they won’t actually be bothered by it. We don’t want to be on the level of LVM / NVM. The best way to deal with being cheated on is to move on with your life and be glad you found out sooner than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:41 AM
35

Right?? It’s literally just sex!! Real, intimate sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:58 AM
55

Love that he offered!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:29 AM
15

We will be labelled as “bitches” regardless, so I have zero problem being called one when it’s necessary. No more being conditioned to be nice at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 06:12 AM
26

Even if the vibrator dies I can rely on my fingers more than I can rely on a man 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:59 AM
3

Thank you for this. Sometimes you just need to be reminded♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 08:00 AM
8

If I ever have daughters or nieces I will wholeheartedly prioritise teaching them FDS lessons. It is SO important, I never want them to be treated like I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 05:04 AM
36

I would like to argue that “most” men ARE bad. The “good” ones are the minority 100%. I’ve never met a HV man in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 08:10 PM
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