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| 1 | How can I get more in touch with my sensuality? Struggling with a low libido and I’m concerned it may cost me my relationship.I know see a doctor isn’t what you necessarily want to hear, but look up the biote pellet. I had low testosterone, something a lot of doctors don’t test for. I got the pellet along with reducing my work hours and my sex drive has been way way better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/22 08:51 PM |
| 50 | I’m finally getting over himSeriously getting over the relationships that never happened are the worst because you have no data, only the fantasy of what could have been. Chances are dating him would not have been anywhere nearly as great as you thought it would be. I had the biggest crush on a guy I worked with in my early 20s. We hooked up a few times and since he knew I liked him he kept me on the back burner for in between girls he actually liked. We didn’t see each other for a bit and then I saw him again through work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 69 | Women have it way harder then men in almost everything.I did something to my knee recently and I have an appointment with an orthopedic tomorrow am. I’ve been an athlete my whole life and I’m fairly certainly I tore something (most likely meniscus) because I can’t walk without pain/clicking. I work on my feet and I cannot afford to be out right now (I’m a costume designer, I need to run up and down stairs to storage and do fittings, and I have a show opening in a few weeks). So my bf was like “ask the dr to give you some pain meds” because it’s also… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 04:51 PM |
| 14 | The amount of pickmes on reddit is too highI just posted a stupid cute story in another sub about a girl flirting with my bf and of course people looked in my history and gave me crap about FDS. And one girl told me that what we look for in a relationship is extremely toxic and I need to get out of there or things won’t end well. I checked out her post history, girl is 19 and posting about her toxic ex. Another person was a hs kid. Just remember who is behind the comments lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 10:29 AM |
| 7 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Yea I tried to go back and find it and atleast a preliminary search didn’t bring it up. I know the picture was her engagement ring with a rose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do men gain weight after getting engaged?I can speak for myself and my partner…we both gained weight since getting into a relationship. Mostly due to life circumstances, he got injured, I got Covid…but also comfort eating. We’re working on it though, we started picking a hike to do together every weekend. Hopefully we can get back to our previously fit selves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 22 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Not all comments of course…but there are quite a few. I also have it set that reddit comments are sent to my email, so even if they are deleted by a mod for not being helpful or appropriate, I can still read them. And there is alot of negative stuff in there. This could be bots, male lurkers or newer users who don’t know the rules yet…but I still see the barrage of negativity. It’s also hard to communicate context in one small post too. There was one post where a girl talked about her engagement… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:56 PM |
| 72 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Yea it’s more like if I post anything positive that my bf did or another male did it’s immediately like “that should be standard, why are we congratulating this??” Or a list of all the things that could go wrong. It’s sort of exhausting. I’m a member of this sub so I can continue to vet, I don’t need a reminder every time I post something positive. I get that there is concern, but sometimes it comes across and jealousy and bitterness. I stay in this sub because it reminds me to be appreciative o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:24 PM |
| 68 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Yea I hate to say whenever I post anything positive about men, it tends to be completely picked apart within a few minutes. I kinda gave up trying :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Jesus Christ, is she in the Pick-Me Olympics? Did not see 1 tiktok encouraging men 2 give their woman oral sex. Her feed is just pandering to male pleasure constantly. Women get enough pressure from porn fried society to give head. It’s men who need a reminder to eat a woman out and make her orgasm.Omggg this made me hate tiktok even more that I thought was possible. Where are the womens facts!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Who are all these 20 somethings making 6 figures? I feel like they are all full of it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.The comment is gold!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 21 | He resents his wife because his ex texted himAs the other poster said…it’s because he wants to keep the ex in orbit. She can go to a therapist. She doesn’t need to go to home “because she’s lost in life”. Absolute bullshit. Just like the girl who needs a ride, needs someone to fix something at her house, needs help with a recipe…she was able to figure these things out before him she can figure things out on her own now. What do you want to bet he texted her first? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:24 PM |
| 11 | I did it.There will be a point in the future where future you will thank past you for this decision. It’s going to hurt, but it will hurt a little less each day. Luckily you didn’t have kids and didn’t have two much intertwined so hopefully the moving on process will be expedited. Work on you, take care of you and enjoy your new found freedom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️Yea I had to have a few surgeries. Endo is a real bitch. Sometimes you can barely have any visible implants and be in excruciating pain. My friend just had a cyst removed and when they went in she had stage 4 endo and literally had no symptoms (other than symptoms caused by the cyst). It’s really nuts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️Even when removed properly there is a very small percentage that will have grow back. I was in the small percent and mine grew back 4 damn times, so I have to take hormones to stop my period so it doesn’t grow. After I have kids my uterus is getting an eviction notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️Yup. I took me about 4 years. So many drs. They knew “something” was wrong but couldn’t pin point it. By the time they operated my Fallopian tubes were completely shot. 5 surgeries later I’m still trucking along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:21 AM |
| 16 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️I wonder if women 200 years ago said the same thing and if they took a time machine today, would be sorely disappointed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:58 PM |
| 20 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️We have all tried to coach her, but she’s really young and still working on asserting herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 05:52 PM |
| 19 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️Oh wow that group was started by your friend!? It’s a FANTASTIC resource!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:53 PM |
| 60 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️God I need another rabbit hole like I need a hole in the head. Birth control has some pretty messed up history too, I remember some documentary saying they tested it on men or would make women in the study give it a top rating because they didn’t get pregnant even though they had horrid side effects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 192 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️Ha I know right? My bf’s cousins gf has a lot of endo symptoms, she’s in her early 20s and has the exact same symptoms I had in my 20s…anemia, exhausted, can’t put on weight, tons of pain. She has really crappy health insurance and is having a horrible time getting any kind of treatment/relief. It breaks my heart because I’ve been there, crying in drs offices to drs who wouldn’t listen and kept telling me nothing was wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:38 PM |
| 58 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️Right. How about we focus on all the things we don’t know about the disease like what causes it and how to cure it. I have endo which is where I found that image and the best fox is hormones. Lord knows what that’s doing to my body in the long run, but I need to be able to go to work, so it’s what I gotta do. Most doctors figure as long as there’s a bandaid on the symptoms your fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:26 PM |
| 30 | Just sharing a song I think many of us can get behind, wait for the endThe girl with dark hair has like the best hair I’ve ever seen!! It’s so thick and luscious!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:54 PM |
| 69 | Ofc he blames it on her and not himselfAlso…do either of them work? Like how can you work out 3x a day and have a job unless your actual job is being a trainer? Damn I can barely get in one work out a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 01:02 PM |
| 13 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herI totally agree. She has one video where the dude showed up at the restaurant in PAJAMAS. And her point was well I’d rather have atleast someone to go out with than no one. Most of us here would choose no one, then go out with the dude who can’t even be bothered to shower and put on a pair of jeans. She’s just not there yet :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 05:16 PM |
| 16 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herYup. One of the points she makes (not sure if it’s this one or the follow up) is that as women we are told to have high standards, and that can lead to a very boring, solitary life. And I don’t think she is wrong. But most of us here are ok with that. That is we decide the requirements to ride our ride is X amount, and most dudes don’t bring X amount to the table, so we are ok with just not having a dude in our life. I don’t think she is there yet. I was absolutely her for the lost part of my 20… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 04:05 PM |
| 9 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herYes I don’t mean her any ill will by posting, I more identified with her cause I’ve absolutely been there!!! I’ve definitely read into things way too much, spiraled, blocked and unblocked. And when you hear someone else say it your like wow…it sounds insane. She reminds me a lot of a girl my bf works with. My bf is just really friendly and would grab coffee for his office staff every once and a while and one girl turned him getting coffee and being generally friendly into his undying love for he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 13 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herIt made me crazy how many reg flags there were that she just ignored. The “no social media” one is so obvious!! It killed me that when she found the other woman she couldn’t accept that was his gf. She kept giving him an out that he didn’t just cheat on that girl by my saying they are “important” to each other, yet her friends are like they are in a relationship. Mind boggling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 38 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herShe really is gorgeous. I don’t get where her mindset of I don’t have pretty privilege comes from. I feel like she looks that good because she doesn’t have a man and kids draining her life force lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 12:22 PM |
| 27 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herSorry I didn’t mean to mislead with the title but the reason I chose that is I felt like how she talks through the situation is how a lot of us in our pickme times end up in the situations we end up in. Especially when she says that he left her house fed and moisturized. I was like girl…he did NOTHING to deserve this treatment from you. Literally nothing. And what killed me in the update video is she found the gf or partner or whatever and talks about the reasons she is better than her and why t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 12:20 PM |
| 41 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herI know this is a long one but if you have a long commute and like to listen to story times…this is worth a listen. We have all been her. And there are so many points I want to take her shoulders and tell her to kick this guy out. There is also an update that is worth a listen where she talks through her decision making and shocker, the dude in question has a model gf of over a year but told her she was just a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:11 PM |
| 7 | How to get rid of this school girl crushThis was my bf too - we met at work and he waited until I left to ask me out. Now he asked me out a few days after my last official work day so he didn’t mess around but I was technically a higher rank than him and he said he didn’t make a move because it would have been inappropriate (which he was right). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 07:15 PM |
| 177 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.Ok, so I went down the rabbit hole of this profile. For one, he’s in recovery (which good for him) but I don’t take his memory as fact. Also the “boys” are in college. So if you were that concerned about your wife’s attitude affecting your kids…the ship to address this has passed. Shoulda been dealt with YEARS ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 07:05 PM |
| 41 | Nuff saidLolol I thought he was going to say something about if he says he can’t afford to take you to a nice place but owns one of those chairs he’s full of it because those things go for like 1k and up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??Yea I’m a little confused on that element of the story if they were at werent engaged. I think he proposed but didn’t want to except until she told her mom? I’m not sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:23 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??Exactly. This is my only and true account of what happened and anyone else’s account is a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 07:14 PM |
| 15 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??He posted a text from the MIL where she was losing he sh*t on him and he was like “woah calm down I don’t know why you are so upset!” And it just gave me very narc vibes, like how they push push push and then act surprised when you finally lose your mind. Plus why post that for everyone to see? What is the goal of doing that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 07:13 PM |
| 15 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.I read through her other posts and the ring he bought her was from PANDORA. Where the most expensive “engagement” ring is $160. Buying a ring from Pandora screams I don’t want to marry you, but I’ve got this back up because I know you want to marry me and might try to do something crazy and leave me over it, so let me get this cheap ass ring to throw at you just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 04:24 AM |
| 90 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??Exactly. He’s trying to make it seem like they got mad at him for sleeping in the couch during the day? I almost feel like he’s an alcoholic who was sick from being hungover and was up partying which is why he needed to sleep the next day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 07:37 PM |
| 96 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??Ayup. He’s trying really hard to paint a picture that he’s the victim. I would love to hear her side! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 23 | I just realized that women are encouraged to apologize for wanting, well anything and I'm done GAFI have a friend who has the WORST taste in guys. She kept pushing her student teacher at me who was fat and balding, so I gave him a chance and the a-hole cheated on me! She then tried to set me up with a creep friend of her husbands and I finally told her she was fired from trying to fix me up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 06:31 PM |
| 25 | Men who glorify villainsI knew a couple who adopted the joker/Harley aesthetic as their entire life and it was super bizarre. First…it’s really unoriginal. Second…that’s a hella dysfunctional relationship your idolizing there Third….develop your own personality instead of stealing one from a comic book. They broke up and of course she came out with a bunch of stuff about how abusive he was which off course is not ok…but we all saw that comin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 06:24 PM |
| 34 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24I love how he says all these girls know it’s a casual thing but get mad and leave as soon as they hear about it from molly. So they clearly don’t know it’s casual. Good job Molly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 18 | I’m so sick of women having to question whether they are crazy for getting upset over things that are completely normal to get upset over!!!!Ha when I first got one of those I was so confused. Then I made the connection and rolled my eyes so so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 07:26 PM |
| 23 | I’m so sick of women having to question whether they are crazy for getting upset over things that are completely normal to get upset over!!!!Apparently you have to do it by a certain age (this is the 80s we’re talking about too) he said he remembers his mom rushing to get it done because he had to have to changed before he turned 9 or 10 and he was coming up on the birthday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 07:25 PM |
| 30 | I’m so sick of women having to question whether they are crazy for getting upset over things that are completely normal to get upset over!!!!Now those are the stories I come here for!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 07:24 PM |
| 93 | I’m so sick of women having to question whether they are crazy for getting upset over things that are completely normal to get upset over!!!!I think I read that story too! She told him ahead of time he better not dare and he did it anyway. I think she was asking if she was AH for making him miss the birth but the resounding response was uhhh no, he made himself miss the birth by being an idiot. I know stressful times brings craziness out of people but I couldn’t even fathom my current partner doing anything like this. He’s so concerned for my well-being all the time (to the point where it can be a bit annoying at times!) that he woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 194 | I’m so sick of women having to question whether they are crazy for getting upset over things that are completely normal to get upset over!!!!It seems like if your married, both parents have equal rights on naming the baby. In the US, if the parents cannot agree, both names are put on the birth certificate in alphabetical order. I’m not sure where OP is, but the laws seem to be different in Europe. Fun side story, my bf originally had his dads name as his first name. When his mom and dad divorced, his mom had his name legally changed. She couldn’t stand to call him by her ex husbands name. Good for her, she’s a woman you don’t want to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 394 | I’m so sick of women having to question whether they are crazy for getting upset over things that are completely normal to get upset over!!!!I can’t believe that he said “good riddance” to his wife recovering from child birth. WHAT. I would tell the hospital staff he is not allowed in. I’m sure they deal with alot of drama between parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:07 PM |
| 244 | I’m so sick of women having to question whether they are crazy for getting upset over things that are completely normal to get upset over!!!!Exactly. And her thought process is completely correct. She doesn’t want her son to be living in the shadow of a dead person. Her parents in law are looking at this baby as a do over and that’s completely f***ed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:05 PM |
| 19 | I read this thinking there would be a positive ending and it never came 🤦🏼♀️RIGHT! I’m like ummmm if you work during the week you have to do adult stuff on the weekend. It’s just how it works. Saturdays I clean, do returns and errands blah blah blah. It’s just the stuff I have to do to keep my life running! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:40 PM |
| 19 | I read this thinking there would be a positive ending and it never came 🤦🏼♀️I don’t want a man I have to push to make 5 year plans. We both should bring goals an aspirations to the table and I couldn’t imagine being with someone who didn’t do that and whined when you tried to help them be a better person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | The fake proposal -- anyone else?My bf took what most people would consider a really long time to say I love you, but for me because I had a lot of trauma, it was a good thing. I still had a mild panic attack when he said it the first time. But looking back now I’m so glad he’s a “took too long” than “said it too fast”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Female Political Strategy Podcast: EP 15 - Work From Home Is The Future And All It's Critics Can Die MadA girl I work with suddenly disappeared and I asked what happened to her. Turns out her bf of 7 years “kicked her out” and she had no where in the area to live so she had to leave her job and go back home to live with her parents. It sucks because atleast with a remote option she could have kept her job. I didn’t have her number but I wish I could tell her that her ex is an ass hat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 3 | this is why I will never settle for less until I meet someone who loves me and respects our relationship like thisI can’t tell you how many of my friends have told me they just married their husband to check off the box of getting married, that they got along with or had bigger sparks with others. I literally couldn’t imagine a worse life. I’m way too blunt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭This reminds me of in high schools how make teams will have a few girls serve as team “managers”. They basically get delegated the feminine tasks like setting up the snacks, collecting the laundry, keeping attendance records. They start them young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭I was on a competitive figure skating team in college and when people would ask me why I didn’t join a sorority I was like why would I? I already hang out with a group of girls 20 hours a week with a common goal. And it’s hella expensive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:08 AM |
| 5 | CLINICAL ANALYSIS of How A Cheating Male Narcissist Talks/Deflects in a Therapy Session (Demonstration - Video Example)His acting out scenarios make me cringe because they are really really accurate. Especially mother daughter ones…they are quite close to home. He’s very helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:39 PM |
| 73 | HVM Two years and still impressing me.What’s the show? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:38 PM |
| 75 | Husband Hates Wife: CEO Edition. He refers to his wife publicly as a "sucker", she asked HIM out, they dated for 5 years before getting married. This is his anniversary post after 12 years of marriage.I had a friend once too force me to give my number to a dude working at a kids park. I was so embarrassed. I wrote the wrong number just to get her to shut up because she I wouldn’t leave until I gave it to him. Of course she has a complete NVM for a husband. Absolutely useless. Blames his complete lack of participation in anything on having a social anxiety disorder. She even prepped me before meeting him for the first time…telling me he might be awkward. Nope. Just an asshole. And he would con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:11 PM |
| 15 | Yes, you are. 💋Goddamn this is so true!! When I worked in a professional work place I spent so much on clothes and I remember looking at guys being jealous they could rotate the same 5 shirt and tie and pants combo every week. Now I have a job where I wear jeans and a tshirt and have blue hair and no one gives a sh*t as long as I get my job done. It’s glorious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel competitive with men?Oh yea. The male principal of the Hs in that district was literally the worst person I’ve ever worked with in education. He was a teacher for 2 years before becoming an admin. He would NEVER meet with me one on one, he would always call one of the male vps to be in the meeting to agree with him so it was two against one. One of the worst situations with him is he wanted to put too many students to be safe in cooking classes because they were popular. I told him I ethically could not agree to tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 8 | The difference between low and high value men • Eloho (Did any one else find Black feminist YouTube before stumbling upon FDS? I remember when finding this subreddit, I was like omg that’s what our good sis on YouTube is talking about. Please recommend any more FDS aligned influencers in comments.)I know she’s controversial, but I really do like Shallon Lester. I don’t agree with all her points or political views, but I have gotten a lot of good advice for her. I think one of her best is the first fight you have is the last fight you’ll have. That first little red flag is often the thing that in a year your like omg I can’t believe I didn’t break up over this sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:44 PM |
| 6 | Mother in laws that prioritize their son in laws over their own daughterOne thing I see posted ALOT is the mother of the son insisting on being in the delivery room even after the mother giving birth has said absolutely not. And the son will side with his mother. What in the actual f. I barely want my s/o in there, my vagina is not a circus show for tickets to be sold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel competitive with men?I used to be a public school administrator and it was an absolute joke how much better men were treated than women. We would be in meetings and I would throw an idea out there and then a man would say my idea 10 mins later and everyone would think he was a genius. Our whole jobs revolves around putting out fires, but if I suggested a way to make sure the fire didn’t start in the first place, I was ignored. The woman were ragged on so incredibly hard, and men who were incompetent were promoted. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:35 PM |
| 3 | I’m costume designing a show about a man who leaves his pregnant girlfriend. This is the letter he sends her with no return address…the FDS’er in me HATES this show.Heart attack. But the whole show is about her going to identify the body of the man who left her. They call her because he tattooed her name and number on his left butt cheek 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 5 | I’m costume designing a show about a man who leaves his pregnant girlfriend. This is the letter he sends her with no return address…the FDS’er in me HATES this show.It’s actually a woman. Which makes me wonder who she is writing about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 08:56 PM |
| 16 | I’m costume designing a show about a man who leaves his pregnant girlfriend. This is the letter he sends her with no return address…the FDS’er in me HATES this show.I can’t stand the “please don’t give up on me” part. Like if your going to be garbage and abandon a pregnant woman…the get gone. Don’t keep her on a string as a just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 14 | I’m costume designing a show about a man who leaves his pregnant girlfriend. This is the letter he sends her with no return address…the FDS’er in me HATES this show.Seriously. It’s an original work so I can’t help but wonder who this character was based off of in the play writes real life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 06:11 PM |
| 46 | I’m costume designing a show about a man who leaves his pregnant girlfriend. This is the letter he sends her with no return address…the FDS’er in me HATES this show.Reading the script is making my skin crawl. It’s so cliche. She’s recalling the letter like “why did you have to break my heart??” And she’s just sorta stuck. I’m screaming at the pages…time to move on girl!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 01:55 PM |
| 11 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Omg please, they are not not showering because of plastics in the products. They are not showering because of laziness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:33 PM |
| 11 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????I don’t get this mentality either. Where guys think any kind of grooming is “feminine”. I teach college fashion and I have a few guys and when we do the unit on makeup/body cleansing ect I always tell them moisturizer with sunscreen is their best friend!!! I also tell them that smelling good is really important to not only interpersonal relationships but networking too. If you have a good signature scent people are more likely to remember you in a good way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 4 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????I have absolutely saved after terrible men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:57 PM |
| 7 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????This is my first dog and holy crap it’s a lot of work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:52 PM |
| 4 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Odoban | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 01:04 PM |
| 12 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????I didn’t try baking soda yet but I will! I think it’s because I never seem to have luck with backing soda in the past with my cats. But atleast my puppy is…a puppy. And doesn’t know any better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:34 AM |
| 12 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Ugh goddamn. That sounds sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:32 AM |
| 21 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 45 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????This strikes me as a situation like when you guys break up everyone is like “what? Why? He was perfect!!”. People saw a college dude with healthy gym habits. But no one knows what’s going on behind the veil except you. Ewwwwwwww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 112 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Lolol it’s called Odoban | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:38 PM |
| 99 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Right? I remember when I first started dating in my teens I was super grossed out by kissing another dudes mouth. I would be like would if they didn’t brush? What if they have bad breath…turns out they were just gross! Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:16 PM |
| 83 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????I sent this my bf and he said the same thing…sounds like terrible diet and he needs to see a dermatologist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 70 | Poor woman terrified of her own husband. 💔Omg. This poor woman. Of course he doesn’t want her to get therapy, because the therapist would tell her to GTFO!!! He needs to keep his abuse victim. I worked for a woman in college who ran an alterations business out of her home. I got made fun of a lot for not dating much when I was younger (I just thought guys were idiots and gross and it turns out it’s because alot of them are) so I did alot of soul searching in why I wasn’t like every other girl who had a bf. One time I asked her “do you e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 04:59 PM |
| 537 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????My puppy peed on something and I’m having trouble getting the smell out. An article led me to looking up this specific detergent and it said “read the reviews!”. This is the top review. What in the hell led this poor women to thinking living like this is normal????? I can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 23 | As a Ukrainian living in USA, here is how most of my dates used to go for the past 10 yearsI just did a tailoring job for a musical with an older woman from Ukrain. She was a trip. She gave ZERO f*cks. We got a bunch of costumes custom made and they are all messed up so we had to fix them. Now when I fit actresses I’m pretty good at making them feel like it looks good, even when I’m seeing a bunch of issues. This Ukrainian lady puts the dress on our Broadway actress and goes “it looks like it was made by blind person”. I nearly died laughing and trying to keep it in. She certainly mad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 02:18 PM |
| 15 | These posts from tumblr hit close to home because I remember being conditioned to think it’s all my fault and that the only way to cope was through being made to submit in kink. Younger me couldn’t be more wrong. I’m 23 this month and I cringe when I think about how indoctrinated I was at 17.Omg the one with the kitten makes me want to cry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:43 PM |
| 25 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidAwww thanks that means a lot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:39 PM |
| 125 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidWait wait wait…the best part is this post has ZERO comments 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 03:15 PM |
| 128 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidMe too. When I was reading this the part about how he looked back in his phone and had probably 15 girls who were clearly really into him…all I could think about is the girl on the other end who had her heart broken. I was totally that girl in my 20s to this one dude. I was in the backup rotation. And I liked him so freakin much that I allowed myself to stay there. Thank god I finally opened up my eyes and got out of the situation but, still. I know how that girl feels and it’s freakin awful. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 03:12 PM |
| 32 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidI mean…sometimes the are nice right??? Ewwwwwww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 03:10 PM |
| 20 | Woman tweets about her divorce and the comment section is….yikesI got a dog last year and I literally think it pushed me in the opposite direction on anting kids. I love him but holy sh*t this dog leads an expensive life. His neutering was almost 3k, we went to puppy kindergarten, play train dates, toys, new bed, the works. I’ve spent 5-6k easy, so I can’t imagine how much a kid costs!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 29 | Woman tweets about her divorce and the comment section is….yikesAnd someone else commented that the number is more like 90% with college age women and people were like…weird what phenomena that should be studied! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 230 | Woman tweets about her divorce and the comment section is….yikesYup yup yup…I feel like every woman who left a relationship will tell you about all the things she did to try and fix it. Couples therapy, blow job tutorials, love languages, YouTube videos, lingerie….your just out of solutions so the last solution is to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:41 PM |
| 142 | Woman tweets about her divorce and the comment section is….yikesI don’t think I know a single woman who got a divorce because of another dude being in the picture. They get divorced because they are tired of dealing with his sh*t and taking care of everyone and everything. The last thing they want is a new dude in the picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:01 PM |
| 40 | Anyone disgusted with the way men talk?There main issue was how the steak was cooked. Everyone was like it’s cooked wrong. We both like rare steak. It came on a hot salt block so you could sear it a bit which was a delicious touch. I can’t stand anyone who is a snob about a topic. Like let people do the the things the way they want to do it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 96 | Anyone disgusted with the way men talk?Man I posted a picture of a steak I got with my bf and the amount of hate for just a steak picture was kinda mind blowing. Like relax…I like my steak rare, I’m dating a good guy who takes me for $200 steaks. It’s like I insulted the world or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 37 | I wasn't asexual, nor aromantic, I was just really put off by LVMGrowing up I absolutely thought I was asexual as well! I was so repulsed by 99% of the men who came in to me…because they were creeps!!!! I found a good guy and realized, yea I’m 100% straight. I just had my lvm meter set to high and my gut wouldn’t tolerate any bs!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 62 | Fucking idiot 🤡This was a Seinfeld episode! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | When you move in with a man that doesn't even respect youHoly sh*tttttt! Please please tell me he got completely ripped apart in the comments. How is she supposed to get any sleep????? He literally ruined her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:01 PM |
| 13 | Be careful posting elsewhereI tried to create another account for just FDS but it takes so long to get a flair now that I keep coming back to my already approved account to post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:18 PM |
| 10 | LVM are out there thinking men don't treat women like shit. Drew's response is on point as always 👑I love that she calls him out on the no shirt look. If your going on social media with no shirt that means he thinks he looks good with no shirt….🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | ✨Bring Nothing To The Table✨Her hair in the second video is fabulous!! This is also hysterical, but completely true!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:27 PM |
| 161 | Can we talk about the difference befween Anna Delvey and The tinder swindler?Anna already went to trial and served her time. She was sentenced to 4 to 12 years and served about 4 and was released in 2021. She is currently in detention with ICE, waiting to see if she is going to be deported to Germany. There is an interview with her from a year or two ago on YouTube and she is a very frightening person. Absolute sociopath. After watching that interview I don’t know how anyone could look at her in the positive. It’s extremely unsettling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 05:15 AM |
| 2 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingExactly. If we took away all the work done by people who followed their passion, there would be a lot of work not getting done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 06:38 PM |
| 16 | FDS lessons from a social worker-in-trainingYou should check out my recent post in true off my chest about jobs in my field offering garbage pay but requiring a masters degree. The reactions are INSANE. So many people (I’m going to guess conservative male) shit all over my choice of career calling it “useless” yet if my industry just up and disappeared everyone would be naked. I feel like the attitude is the same in your field and it’s so sad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 05:52 PM |
| 29 | Pickmes contributing to the idea that women should be low maintenanceMy bf works for an elementary school as a computer technician which means his colleagues are like 95% women and he said the amount of women who complain about their husbands and relationships was unbelievably sobering. It made him hyper aware of the things that piss women off and makes him check in with how we’re doing even more than he already did. His stories are sad. So many women just want someone to talk to and listen and they sorta hold him hostage while he’s fixing their computer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 05:48 PM |
| 169 | If you can't see any good reason not to date a man with a female best friend, LET THIS BE IT! Selfish pickmeisha got stood up, so she ruined another womans valentines day. To add insult to injury, she & this mans girlfriend are related 🤢Ughhhh this is awful. You don’t go into Victoria’s Secret with a man you don’t plan on hooking up with, or your cool with the tease of making him think about you in underwear. Both of those suck. I would be so pissed if I was his gf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:27 PM |
| 13 | The relationship subs have delivered on my expectations for Valentine's Scrotery but this one really hit me for some reason. I think its the massive cope at the end.She will never get a Valentine’s Day celebration again now that this standard is set. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:21 PM |
| 10 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯Also anyone wanna talk about the fact that she was 18 and he was 26 when they started hooking up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:00 AM |
| 15 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯He was counting on her always being back up and now that she’s not his ego is hurt. Absolutely f*ck this guy if he goes and says something to her. Utter selfishness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:57 AM |
| 45 | Love is blind JapanGood lord that show is a train wreck. The reunion season was so bad too, it all revolves around putting pickmes against each other. It’s the worst of the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s DayLord the work place pickme is THE WORST. My bf works in an elementary school so it’s like 97% women and he’s one of maybe 5 dudes working there. He does IT so he has to interact with pretty much everyone and he gets hit on like crazy. Sadly, it’s mostly women who are really unhappy in their own relationships and just attention starved but there are some that I want to go into his work and smack. He got hurt two months ago and has been working from home and often talks speaker so he has his hands… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:59 PM |
| 17 | BuT DiD YoU CoMmUniCaTE??I love that if there is the slightest bit of tension my bf is like “hey, are we ok?”. He recently got testosterone pellets and the first week you can be a bit more aggressive then your normal personality so he was just a hair more on edge about a situation with one of his friends. I told him that I felt he was being this way and he acknowledged it and said he would correct it. But I very much appreciate that even if I’m a little annoyed he doesn’t let anything fester and pushes me to say somethi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:16 PM |
| 58 | Why we shouldn’t have men as friends….a sequel.The doublest of the double standards if I have ever seen them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 05:48 PM |
| 124 | Why we shouldn’t have men as friends….a sequel.I would think with the fact that like 90% of dudes pull the “I’m not looking for anything serious” card she would have her pick of dudes cool with this arrangement. But it’s not controlled by the man’s side, so she’s in the wrong here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 48 | Mixed feelings about this meme. Yes, you can be replaced at work. But if your "home" is with a man you can be replaced there too. I would argue a lot of jobs are less likely to replace you than a man is and more likely to benefit you for a longer time. Thoughts?I feel like we’re reading it at that “home” equals partnership with a man. At home I’m a dog and cat mom, I’m an artist, I’m a derby player and I’m a girlfriend. Being a gf is a very small part of that equation. It’s not healthy to have any parts of that balance out of wack whether it being your workplace dominating your life or the responsibilities of being a wife or partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 30 | Mixed feelings about this meme. Yes, you can be replaced at work. But if your "home" is with a man you can be replaced there too. I would argue a lot of jobs are less likely to replace you than a man is and more likely to benefit you for a longer time. Thoughts?Oooof lady Gaga I beg to differ. I was in an incredibly toxic line of work and it basically did wake up one day and tell me it didn’t love me any more. I went from receiving top reviews to “needing improvement with my communication skills” the most bullshit unprovable statement ever. It was all a build up to fire me at the end of the year for not playing along politically and reporting a colleague to hr for harassment. I really had to dig deep and figure out who I was if I wasn’t that job anymor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 04:51 PM |
| 48 | Dating Apps Are Not Only Mentally Dangerous . . .I was just reading a rant about how dating apps are awful for men…and I’m sitting here like yup uh huh ok. I’d love to see the percentage comparison of men to women who go on there and pretend they are single but really have someone waiting for them at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Scrote seduces his boss on a work trip, has sex with her, and shares her photos on Reddit in his profile for everyone to see. Someone needs to find her and tell her.Yea I’m with you that I really doubt this actually happened. Those subs where people post stories of their sexual exploits are 90% fantasy stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 02:11 AM |
| 155 | How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS?I was already dating my bf when I found FDS but it confirmed what I already knew, that he was a really good man. He doesn’t do anything without thinking about me and our partnership first. He constantly tells me that it makes him happy to see me happy and then follows that up with consistent actions. He’s honestly like that with everyone in his life, he threw a lovely party yesterday for his brother’s 40th, didn’t sit down to eat until everyone had their food/drinks, kept the room circulating an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 02:32 AM |
| 22 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitThere is no way he’s not banging Jane at the wedding. Hope she is ready for kid number 2…and it’s not going to be hers!!!! I’m willing to be Jane got pregnant thinking it would cause him to leave the OP for her. And I’m sure OP feels like if she walks away she lets Jane win. Girl…let her have him so in 2 years he can cheat on her with someone else while your happy on your own or with someone who doesn’t treat you like absolute trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 10 | Scrote obviously has a porn addiction and is neglecting his kids and gaslighting his wife. I can't even with these men anymore.I don’t know why I never realized that dudes are jacking off when they are in the bathroom for a long time…I always just thought they were reading on their phones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | He wants her to…kill her horse for him? Did I get that right???Aww shooot! I’ll take it down :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:39 PM |
| 6 | I love herDamn straight! So many dudes would also be like “ so that means you can hem my pants?”….no, I will not be hemming your pants! Funny I’m just remembering I met my current bf (we worked together, but didn’t date until I left that job) he had a rip in his hoodie and I was like hey, I can fix that for you if you want. And he was very like, oh no, I don’t want to put you out or anything. So I grabbed the hoodie off his desk when he wasn’t in his office and fixed it and the next morning I came in to b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:16 PM |
| 47 | I love herI work in fashion and costume design and I can’t tell you how many guys gave me the “aww that’s cute” pat on the head or just completely disrespected my work as “easy” or unimportant. Bitch, you got clothes over your pot belly, don’t you? Then let’s keep hearing about how fashion is a stupid profession. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:19 AM |
| 5 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!Right…like she’s says they can’t afford it without her rent?? Then how did they get it in the first place? How was he handling it before she moved in? And why would you want your daughter to stay with someone who was in such a financial mess? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:56 PM |
| 22 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!Op confirmed she is her mother | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 01:15 AM |
| 24 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!Omg I love your username!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 121 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!It’s funny because I really didn’t date much when I was younger and I always thought something was wrong with me because most guys just severely turned me off. I realize now my subconscious thankfully kept me away from sketchy lv dudes. And I remember one day my mom was just like “I don’t think you like men” and I was super offended and didn’t really know what to say but I feel like she was sorta shaming me for not having lower standards? On the opposite side I was telling my uncle when I was in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 182 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!Right. It sounds like the daughter is sick of being a mom to a man child and is like…peace. She also mentions in a comment it was so nice of him to take her in and only charge her half the rent!? So basically she also did him a favor by moving in. To hell with this whole situation. I hope the daughter finds her way to us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:22 PM |
| 71 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!The op’s comments back make me think it could possibly be a troll but…there are people who think this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 133 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!I’m not sure, but I assumed it was the mother. She also says in a comment that she raised her daughter to know the only way to keep a man happy is to cook and clean for him, so my money is on a pick me momma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Pays 40K for his gambling addiction or his incompetence (dunno which is worse)Yup yup yup - you have to understand the market as a whole, what patterns it produces, how it’s likely to act ect. There is a good episode in dirty money on short selling a pharmaceutical stock and the female trader they interview shows all her binders of reading and it’s INSANE. It can be done, but it takes a lot a lot a lot of work!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 17 | Pays 40K for his gambling addiction or his incompetence (dunno which is worse)On top of it there are a bunch of mlms that offer “trading services” and definitely prey on women looking to get in the game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 09:13 PM |
| 10 | Pays 40K for his gambling addiction or his incompetence (dunno which is worse)Omg I saw this. There was also a post where a guy was upset that his wife was upset that he was investing in crypto, but wouldn’t clarify if it was his money or his/her money (it was definitely their money). This is why crypto and trading gets such a bad name because people get stupid with it and think they are going to be the next meet Kevin (a YouTube trader chad). I posted a little while back about my bf getting into trading because of having extra time on his hands due to an injury and alot … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEI know, I was terribly misguided at the time. My school didn’t even call me in for a talk when my dad passed. And what happened is my mom got life insurance from my dad to live off of, and that screwed my fafsa basically showing my mom had plenty of money to pay for my schooling. What a mess. If I ever break up with my bf I would seriously consider moving to another country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEUnfortunately student loans in the US are extremely predatory. I have insane student loan debt. My dad died 6 months before is started college and my mother had brain damage from a stroke so I had no one to be like “hey taking out this much debt is a really bad idea”. I even spoke with financial advisors who told me it was “good debt” which is an unbelievable lie. Luckily, atleast in my state, my debt does not become my husbands debt when we get married. But some people just have really poor gui… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 09:11 AM |
| 6 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANESomeone commented that they didn’t understand why there man was expected to pay for the ring at all and that the man and the woman should split the cost. I was just like…I don’t have 5 hours to give you a lecture on the important of cultural and societal norms 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 12 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANESo the “you need to spend x months salary” on a ring is a marketing campaign by debeers. I teach college fashion and it’s literally one of the most successful campaigns in history, it went from one month to two months to three months and increased diamond sales by 80%. There is also a lot of inventory hold back to drive up the cost of diamonds, they are actually not very rare. And a lab made diamond is chemically identical to a mined diamond. With that being said, if a woman wants a diamond for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 10 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEI was curious as to their ages, I don’t think it was mentioned. There’s a big difference if they have been dating since 16 and are now 23 still living at home (that would be understandable) vs in their 30s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:02 PM |
| 7 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEWhaaaatttt!? This was a flip of a story but this jeweler said he sold a man a 3ct diamond to propose (so your talking like a 50k ring) and a week later he brought it back because she originally said yes, then changed her mind. Turns out she swapped out the stone not thinking he could bring the ring back and tried to sell it. Not sure if he ever got the stone back or if there was legal action or anything but the jeweler overall just felt bad for the guy that he got screwed over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:00 PM |
| 28 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEThere was a thread of stories from jewelers where the woman will bring her ring into be fixed/cleaned/whatevered and find out what she thought was a diamond was a cubic zirconia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 02:45 PM |
| 21 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEOmg yes 100%. I teach college fashion and I know the only reason diamonds are important is because of a marketing campaign. Even if he doesn’t get her a diamond, I still don’t think $7500 is that much for a piece of fine jewelry that symbolizes a life long commitment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 11:43 AM |
| 112 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEI don’t think so either. I work in education (people with salaries ranging from 50-80k) and 7 to 10k seems to be the range. I thought the majority of the comments would say $7500 is a fairly average cost for an engagement ring but holy moly was I wrong on that one. There were so many comments from women saying their ring was $20 to $100 and that it’s so stupid to waste money on a ring. I feel like that just cognitive dissonance helping their brain survive through the fact that their husband only… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 137 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEI will say I pulled this from a sub I don’t usually find gold in but given our recent post about not being ashamed to want a nice ring and wedding…i figured this post was perfffeccttt for us. I think my favorite comment was the guy who said if it wasn’t for all the money he spent on his wife he could have retired at 50. Uh huh, in your non furnished sad bachelor apartment with a mattress on the floor surrounded by empty boxes of Mac and cheese | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 02:04 AM |
| 193 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEI love that she’s kind and big hearted but “demanded” a $7500 ring. I’m pretty sure that was her just setting a boundary for once in their relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:21 AM |
| 88 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEWhat’s going to happen is she’s going to marry him (after saying yes to a cheap ass ring) and I’m 5 years be making way more than him and he will resent her. And at that point she could buy her own damn diamond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Exactly. Because I feel like in your 20s as a girl you are in this unspoken competition to be married. She already moved up in the race by him moving in, it’s hard to stop the momentum and be like uhhhh NO. This guy is not it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 04:26 PM |
| 28 | Scrote is mad that his date has standardsOk so something super weird about this post is the timeline. I went to his post history and he has been posting about this girl for atleast 6 months and each time her says “I’ve been seeing this girl for about 2 months, a little over 2 months” it’s just a bit weird. Also if you have to post about a new relationship like 7 times…something ain’t right on one of the sides (I think we know which one!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 62 | Cheating husband wants advice... My advice for his wife is "be less forgiving"When I started dating my bf we were having a random convo and the topic of cheating came up and I dead ass stopped and said “if you ever cheat on me, I will disappear from your life. There will be no excuses, no pleading, no crying. I will simply disappear from your life and that will be your punishment, that you will never have access to me again”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:58 PM |
| 177 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂If you go looking for it don’t feed the trolls that are under it! But basically it stated that subs like this exist because so many women have had to deal with clueless/useless/opportunist men who don’t have a clue about being an adult (like moving into an apartment costs money!). And there were a myriad of stories from women who had this happen to them and then when they moved out and took EVERYTHING their actors ex’s were equally as shocked that they really owned nothing. And then of course cu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 15 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Right. I get the argument that some people are like “well it wasn’t fair to surprise him with a $700 bill”…sorta. As an adult you need to realize the expenses of moving. A truck alone is a few hundred. If your a girl moving on her own, you either need really good friends to help out you need to hire help for the big stuff which is another $500 (on the cheap side). I lived on my own for over a decade and furnishing an apartment, even just the basics is not cheap. I got a couch/love seat set from … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:46 PM |
| 91 | Cheating husband wants advice... My advice for his wife is "be less forgiving"The affair partner is NEVER as good as they seem, it’s all fueled by the thrill of the secrecy and newness and chase. I saw a story online once where a woman discovered her husband was having an affair with his young secretary. The wife bought them tickets and a hotel room in Hawaii and said go have fun. While he was gone she packed all his stuff and put it in storage. When he got back from the week with the secretary he was BEGGING for his wife back because he saw who the secretary really was, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:40 PM |
| 31 | Cheating husband wants advice... My advice for his wife is "be less forgiving"Right. It’s all about him and his ego. She didn’t leave her husband so it’s all about why he wasn’t good enough to get her to leave. That’s the only reason he’s obsessed. If she left he would get tired of her in a few months and go running back to the wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:37 PM |
| 21 | Cheating husband wants advice... My advice for his wife is "be less forgiving"Don’t forget about the TRT. There will definitely be TRT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:33 PM |
| 5 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Omg this is genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:12 PM |
| 74 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Omg yes! My first apartment was practically all thrifted from freecycle! I was broke as hell but I made it work and as I made more I slowly rebought things. Now I’m looking for a house and a lot of the furniture I have now will not be coming with me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:46 PM |
| 46 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂And the very few ESH are saying she needed to have better communication. She did communicate by asking him to come and asking his opinion. They are adults and you never assume someone is paying for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:43 PM |
| 18 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Hahahahahhahah 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:42 PM |
| 44 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:28 AM |
| 30 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂All those stories made my night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:27 AM |
| 115 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂I have a feeling they witness a lot of couples squabbles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:15 AM |
| 218 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂Welcome! Don’t believe all the bad things they say about us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:14 AM |
| 232 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂I love that he’s getting torn a new butthole over saying things like bath mats are unnecessary. And like…where did he put his clothes when he lived by himself?? Just on the floor???? He’s confused why he needs a dresser!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 34 | Male attention is inherently low-value.He tried to connect on LinkedIn….I don’t think you get much lower than that!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 03:00 AM |
| 32 | Scrote is trying to take his date to a storage unit to make her clean it!Ommmgggggg this is awful and it’s winter!!!!!! No one wants cold sex. That’s the goddamn worst!!!! I moved a little while ago and my bf helped me with the whole thing. And when we were 100% done, it was almost midnight so it was dark, we went for one final ride in the closet lol. We made a lot of good memories in that apartment (he didn’t live there but it’s where we started our relationship) so we had to go out on a good note! But I think that’s the only time I’ve ever been down for a tiny empt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 25 | Men wanting to have sex with you is not the compliment you think it is! Men will have sex with a mcchicken sandwichThere was a dude I’ve mentioned on here before that I had this rediculous on and off thing with in my 20s. Basically he came after me anytime he was single to get some and I really liked him so I was like a little puppy. But I am really proud of one thing. I never slept with him. I straight out refused until we were in a committed relationship. And he begged pleaded called me a tease blah blah blah, but I never caved. I hope I live in his head as one girl who wouldn’t give it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Purposefully doing things to drive up his gf’s utility bill…I thought I read it all 🤦🏼♀️ (repost!)Right I would never pay into someone’s mortgage because unless I’m married to them I have no legal ownership of that house!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 20 | Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settleI don’t remember a lot from the show but I do remember one scene from the first movie (I think) where Samantha asks the group how often are you happy in their relationship and Charolette answers “everyday”. And the girls are all like flabbergasted by that answer and it’s like yes, you have a right to happiness with your partner everyday. That should not be a shocking thing or concept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settleI don’t remember - did she finance his bar? Or was that just with aiden? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settleI think a lot of pickmes have anxious attachment styles which is why they hold on so tight to guys who aren’t good for them and are probably avoidant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 07:50 PM |
| 14 | Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settleOur brain can really do a number on us. There was a dude who really messed me up in my 20s and I was a hardcore pickme for him. He was such a loser, he had a job that was never going to pay him more that 40k, his only hobby was football and beer and he was a douche. He kept me on the bench and would pull me off whenever he was bored and we did a weird back and forth thing for years. But I was so twisted up by what could have been that he really imprinted on my psyche. Years later my friend still… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 07:44 PM |
| 12 | Male to Female Gaslights in the OfficeI do have to point out, there are administrative assistant roles that make damn good money. My bf’s aunt is a confidential Human Resources secretary for a school district and she makes 90k. I make less then her as a college professor! But besides that, I feel like I have seen this happen a lot even when everyone at the work place is on the same level. I used to be an academic supervisor and it was a mix of men and women, and any time something needed to be “planned” like a goodbye party or baby … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 43 | What could be better than this? India Plans to Criminalize Marital Rape, So Some Men Are Boycotting Marriage - VICEI don’t get what the mean by the first line it is a crime for a man to get married? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 03:03 PM |
| 38 | Purposefully doing things to drive up his gf’s utility bill…I thought I read it all 🤦🏼♀️ (repost!)Yea I agree I think they usually know what they did was probably leaning on the “I was wrong side” but they want a bunch of people to make him feel better and say she overreacted or as they say there - ESH. Most of the time they get pretty grilled but the one about the guy not letting his wife have any alone time in the house put me over the edge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Purposefully doing things to drive up the utility bill his gf pays….just when I thought I’ve read it all 🤦🏼♀️Thank you! I’m gonna delete and repost! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Everyone engages in some form of art. Whether it’s listening to the radio on the way in, setting up your office, or just picking a tie you like to where to work. And learning an instrument at a young age builds neuron connections that improve your ability to learn for the rest of your life. I had to get out of that line of work because I was just mad at idiot (mostly) men all the time and getting no where. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 15 | This is what we mean when we say don't go 50/50. You'll be doing 100% of the childrearing while he's at work and he will expect you to give up your savings as well.Um no. In the time I’ve been dating my bf I lost my job and was really struggling to find a new job that was a good fit. I found a job, but I wouldn’t get my first paycheck until a month after my unemployment ran out. My bf covered all my expenses that month, rent, food, bills ect. No questions asked. He said what sort of man was he if he couldn’t take care of me when I needed assistance. HVM’s don’t ever want to see you stress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:17 PM |
| 15 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Ughhhhhhhhhhhh I can hear it. I used to supervise the music and art programming for a k-12 school district and the number of mostly men but some women too who would crap all over music class and musicians was disgusting. They would specifically be like “how hard can it be to play an instrument?” And I would always answer with “oh yea, how many do you play? I also had a guy (a really fat one) call our dance studio a waste of space. So the room where we are teaching students to use their bodies, c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 01:13 PM |
| 20 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Spin is really hard!!!! I give props to anyone who does it regularly, I gave it a try and it was too hard for me! I’m more of a kick boxing girl to which of course most guys go “well that’s not real boxing” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 12:16 PM |
| 195 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?This isn’t a small thing but any man not open to someone else’s hobbies or interests. The amount of times I had dudes eye roll, put down or I fantasize something I was passionate about is way too much. It’s never like “oh wow that’s cool your into that!” It’s “oh….you actually like that?” with a gross smirk. Because playing video games is a much cooler hobby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 195 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Tastes like a roll of nickles 💀💀💀 I’m dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:12 PM |
| 17 | 'He proposed and a few days later we went ring shopping'A little while ago I saw a post where a woman was disappointed with her bf’s proposal. He did the same thing, he wrote a poem and stuck it in their advent calendar. She said it was on a piece of paper ripped out of a notebook (so with the little pieces on the side) and just scribbled on there. No ring. So she was upset because she expected effort and an actual ring. This poor girl got eviscerated in the comments….telling her she should be grateful for the effort, it’s the feelings behind it that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 61 | Why vetting is SO important. I hope this woman gets a divorce and full custody asap.Omg yes! I remember in my 20s I thought my main job was to be a good wife and mother (I mean most 20 y/o’s think that) and this dude who broke up with me basically married a girl who would stay home barefoot and pregnant. Now he’s fat and bald, she’s had 3 kids and I’m delightfully living my best life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Why vetting is SO important. I hope this woman gets a divorce and full custody asap.HOLY CRAP. That is legit terrifying. There HAD to be signs ahead of time. We got a dog in January and how he treats the dog is the test for how he will treat our baby. He’s passing with flying colors thankfully! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 01:07 PM |
| 8 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍Congratulations!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 32 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.TIL what crabs in a bucket mentality is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 65 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.When I worked in public school, lunch time was just women complaining about their men. What they don’t do, how incompetent they are. And if you didn’t join in you were the weird one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:37 PM |
| 9 | Guy is sexist and racist, shocked that makes him an assholeI feel like a lot of guys know implying that a girl is stupid us a way to get a rise out of them so it’s sort of low hanging fruit. Getting your PhD by 25 is insane. Hope the girl realizes her man does not respect her and moves on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | This is all for usWe watch “stock markets with Bruce” on Yt, he broadcasts daily in the morning and in the afternoon and is a retired stock broker with 40 some of years off experience. He generally stays away from crypto but he is great for people looking to get into writing covered calls and has a few paid classes too! Not sure if your husband ever watched him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 36 | What do you think of your partner having long weekends without you?My bf went to universal with his best friend and his best friends daughter for 4 days and a lot of people were like omg you let him go on a trip without you!? I mean of course, I want him to have experiences outside of me. I also went to dc for a few days by myself to walk around museums. I think it’s good to give each other space and cultivate your own personality and well as relationships with friends and family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 06:56 PM |
| 0 | This is all for usSorry if I worded it weird but he didn’t JUST get into it, he’s been trading for about 2 years. Now that’s he got a lot of free time on his hands he’s got more into the “day trading” side of things. He’s very open about targets and they are very realistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | This is all for usThat makes me happy ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 06:04 PM |
| -1 | This is all for usJust like any financial endeavor there is risk. I do YouTube. I have to invest time on making videos. My highest viewed video made me 5 grand. I have videos that have 100 views and have made pretty much nothing. I had a video that I put a TON of work into and for like 6 months it got about 150 views. Then it picked up a wave and now it’s got 60k views and I’ve made about 2k, plus brand partnerships from it. Most things in life you need to risk a bit to move forward, but you never risk more than … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | This is all for usIt’s absolutely worth looking into. But do your research!! There’s tons of “sh*t” coins and scams. That’s what gives it a bad name. I’m mostly in ETH for steady growth and my bigger gamble is LRC. The big prediction with LRC is they are going to team up with GameStop to develop an NFT market. And then of course people say NFT’s are just a way to launder money but…what do you think the high end art market is? If anyone who is reading through these comments is interested in a really good video on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:55 PM |
| -3 | This is all for usIt was in context of a whole convo. That was just the statement that really moved me. He also wants to make sure his 71 year old mom wants for nothing. She’s from another country, so for his mom’s 70th bday he flew in a bunch of her family members to celebrate. She cried so hard when she walked in the room and saw them all. It was a really beautiful moment. I recorded them dancing together because it was just super sweet. He’s the oldest of three siblings so he takes the responsibility of taking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 0 | This is all for usSeriously! It honestly for a while felt uncomfortable. When he wanted to buy me stuff I refused. I’m my own woman right? I support myself! But now I’m like…oh you want to gift me a $200 backpack? A $350 trip to the salon? Thank you. Let me give you a back rub because I appreciate you in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:45 PM |
| 103 | 35+ Queens - He Still Ain't S**TI swear when I saw the attack on the capital, I have never seen more ugly looking middle aged dudes all in one place. Like damn. So many beer bellies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 03:52 AM |
| 4 | This is all for usThanks for being positive. I legit welled up too. I know everyone keeps saying to watch out that he’s love bombing or a narcissist. He’s not. He’s just a plain old good guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 02:11 AM |
| 5 | This is all for usHe’s very open with every thing he’s doing and I’m very well educated on finances, he’s making many small, smart moves. He’s a math nerd. Also you can make money on the market whether it’s bullish or bear if your working with puts and covered calls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | This is all for usI know crypto gets a bad name in some spheres but he’s a super nerd and in the computer world in his full time job. His portfolio is diversified enough to be safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | This is all for usHe just gets a little quiet but nothing crazy. We go for a walk or something. He does a lot of stretching and yoga. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:51 AM |
| 8 | This is all for usI did alot of talk therapy (CBT) but I found the most progress with EFT, otherwise known as tapping therapy. It was emotional, and you would be like what is this going to do?? But it really did wonders for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 11:10 PM |
| 94 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”That sounds like an appropriate comment from Janice dickenson | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 23 | girl whatThat sounds like the dude who suggests an open relationship and then freaks out when he realizes you have dudes lined up down the street and NO ONE wants to sleep with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careRight. I’m an adult. I know when I have a yeast infection and I know when I need a diflucan. I hate that I can’t just call my dr and be like “hey…I have a yeast infection” and she calls in the script. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:51 PM |
| 6 | This is all for usI got a nice little nest egg just in case! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 65 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.I had two friends at work who were a married couple and I started hanging out with them outside of work. The first time I witnessed them fight I was terrified. They threw the worst of the worst curse words out of their mouths at each other and like we were all together on our way to a resturaunt. It was the most awkard dinner everrrrrr. Then like a year later, the male half and I were coadvisors for a club (we are all teachers) and I said something super non chalantly that offended him and he lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:13 PM |
| 19 | This is all for usGood to know I’m not alone. I honestly was confused for a while, my mom thought I “just didn’t like men” and I was like…am I gay??? Am I asexual? Why do I freak out when a guy comes in to me? The reaction is so unbelievably visceral. But when the guys made me chase them it felt much more comfortable (which is horrendously toxic). Enter therapy. Lots and lots of therapy lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:05 PM |
| 151 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.A YouTuber I watch makes a really good point that the first fight you have is the last fight you’ll have. So if the first fight is how he’s checking out the waitress and you figure it’s just that one time? It feels like a small thing now but chances are it won’t go away and will end up being the straw that breaks the camels back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:54 PM |
| 25 | girl whatIf I was making 300k, what the hell would I need a man for??? I’d have a hot ass pool boy to service me when needed and let that be that! I used to work in a very stressful career where I made about 115k/yr which is pretty decent money. One of my male coworkers had a wife who worked for CNN I think, some very high level job making close to half a million a year. God this dude was so beta. I remember around Christmas when we would talk about what we were getting people for Xmas he was just like “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 88 | girl whatAfter reading the thread about if we know any men who actually INITIATE a breakup with out the intent of immediately going to another one, I’m completely not surprised by that statistic. Guys are perfectly happy to stay in a miserable situation and bitch about it to everyone because they are getting their house cleaned and food served. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:12 PM |
| 62 | This is all for usI think receiving is the hardest part for a lot of us! I know it’s hard for me, I came from a very cold unaffectionate home and we didn’t say I love you very much if at all. So it still makes me a little uncomfortable at times, and of course I get scared that one day it will all go away :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:04 PM |
| 25 | This is all for usI look at it that we are all just protective of each other and don’t want to see someone else walk into a trap we walk into ourselves. I like to hear the good stories though too so I don’t lose all faith in humanity lol. I tell my bf I am active in this sub and I read him the “qualifications” to be a HVM because he meets pretty much all of them and he jokes about it, “I gotta work hard to stay high value!” A lvm would probably get super defensive or run for the damn hills!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 30 | This is all for usYessss I want to hear more of the good stories!!! I am pretty avoidant so I never went for the love bombers, any dude who came on too strong literally made me throw up. My m/o was more the unavailable dude, who was single (but not really) and you would have a great time and then they would disappear. My current partner was a perfect crock pot, slow and consistent. And I know myself, I opened the door for him to walk because that what I expected but he’s proven over and over that not who he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:33 PM |
| 7 | This is all for usNah it’s not future faking. He’s got one of the most genuine hearts I’ve ever met. I’m really lucky to have him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:24 PM |
| 58 | Always be ruthless, Always be vetting: a reminderFor funsies I look up dudes I dated in my 20s to see what absolute sh*t they look like now in their mid 30s to remind myself of the bullet I dodged. The girls they locked down can keep their pot bellies and receding hair lines, my man still has all his hair 😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careIt makes no sense. They thought I must have celiac but…nope. I eat meat and eggs and lots of other animal products. But if I don’t do shots, my number drops by about 100 a year. And vitamins/sublingual won’t cut it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 02:10 AM |
| 15 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careW.T.F. I was also in a car accident and they said I was banged up and I maybe fractured a rib. Went home and absolutely couldn’t breath without excruciating pain. Had to go to two more doctors before the told me I actually had FOUR broken ribs. How did you miss that!?!? They weren’t tiny fractures, they were full on breaks even I could see them on the X-ray. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careHa no worries if you didn’t read my rambling!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 11:54 PM |
| 14 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careThere is now an app called wisp that you can get meds for a yeast infection through for a small fee. It was 100% worth it to me to pay $80 to not have to call the dr, wait for the appt, drive 40 mins to my gyno, beg for the meds and then get it filled. It was filled within a few hours and you could ask for a second pill if you know you are prone to yeast infections which is common with endo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 28 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careThere was a story similar to this in another sub that a woman’s cervical cancer signs were blown off. So freakin sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:37 PM |
| 41 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careCheck out the YouTube channel “How to ADHD” it’s all about adhd from the female perspective, it was such a huge resource when I first got diagnosed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 7 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careThank you I appreciate it! He’ll live, and he’s been getting into day trading with his time off and made us an extra couple grand to take me to Portugal once he’s all healed up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:56 PM |
| 23 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careBecause of my endo, I have to do IVF if I want to have kids. My dr wanted me to have my eggs frozen as early as possible for my best chance at viable eggs and she fought through 4 rounds of appeals with my insurance company to get it approved. I got two rounds that would have otherwise cost like 20k. Female doctor of course lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 10 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careOmggg so I’m not crazy! I don’t even bother because it’s never done a thing. I use Kratom for pain, it’s awesome but can be a bit habit forming so you gotta be careful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 08:45 PM |
| 29 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careMy bf is Hispanic and I’m white and I will say, he has definitely opened my eyes to a lot of the white privilege I receive. But I’ve shown him a lot of the male privilege he receives too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 08:35 PM |
| 31 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careOmfg!!! I didn’t have a reduction but I had lipo on one side because my boobs were uneven and I was really uncomfortable and the bruising just from that was intense. That probably the one surgery I was prescribed plenty of pain meds because it was plastic surgery and it cost 5k. I now get a testosterone pellet to help my hormones and it’s also not covered by insurance so I pay $400 3-4 times a year for it because it’s so helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 08:31 PM |
| 20 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careYes this definitely happens in some places. Especially pay to play. I had plastic surgery in my mid 20s to fix my boobs, I had one side 2 cup sizes bigger than the other and it was honestly just really uncomfortable, could never find a bra that fit so they did a very simple lipo on one side. They gave me 50 Valium so I could take 1 to relax me before the surgery lol. But that’s what happens when your paying 5 grand for your surgery! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 105 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careHoly heck that’s a great story and she was really lucky to have you on her team. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 190 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careObviously not as life threatening, but there are similar issues getting woman diagnosed with adhd. Womens symptoms often manifest as perfectionism and chattiness and we get reprimanded in school for it instead of being sent to be evaluated. I just got diagnosed as an adult and I think back on all the clues from my days in school. I gave myself so much anxiety to be perfect in school that my nervous need to talk was always just chalked off as being a social butterfly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 07:07 PM |
| 91 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careIt was like 2 days worth. For major abdominal surgery. They told me to go back to work in a week and I was still so swollen I couldn’t put my work pants on!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 26 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careI recently brought up to my gyno that I’m gaining weight and it’s really hard to take off (now I know I’m eating crappier so I’m working on that part) and she was just like “it’s probably your birth control”….well if we know that’s a problem then why don’t we try to fix that???? I also looked into getting some testosterone replacement since being on the pill, especially continuously can tank your T level and we need a little bit to feel good and balanced. It’s a controversial thing, if you look … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:43 PM |
| 41 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careNot at all. And unfortunately there are too many drs who focus on a specific symptom and don’t look at the whole picture. I have b12 absorption issues. I don’t know why, typically is you don’t absorb b12 you have pernicious anemia and I don’t have that. So I have had drs completely argue that I can’t be b12 deficient but numbers are still in the trash. And that can cause a myriad of unidentifiable symptoms like brain fog, tingling in the hands and toes and for me, I get the geographic tongue and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:26 PM |
| 103 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careAt todays appt they wanted to double my bf’s pain meds. And they doubled them last time. He very honestly had an issue with pain pills in his 20s, so he is careful with them even today (he’s 42). At the er the doctor was joking about seeing this a lot in “weekend warriors”, so dudes who sit around all week and then try to do something physical like go golfing and tear their calf muscle and my bf was pretty annoyed at the comment as he stretches and does yoga daily. So we can give pain pills to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:14 PM |
| 49 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careI’ve heard the comment alot that endo is genetic. No one else in my family that I know of has it. There absolutely needs to be more research. I take the pill continuously to just not get a period and when I asked my gyno about possible insulin resistance or estrogen dominance she said she never heard of those??? What???? I know people aren’t supposed to get Google md’s but come on! And I second those subs as great resources. If you are a lady reading this and you think something is wrong…don’t l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:10 PM |
| 138 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careHoly sh*t yes! Don’t even get me started on the mess that is getting endo diagnosed. It was ONLY 4 years for me but that’s still insane. I was so visibly ill, I was incredibly anemic from losing so much blood during my 2 week long period that was deemed normal. I had ever abdominal test you could think of to check for a bleed because no one would be like oh hey, her periods are way to heavy that’s why her hemoglobin is at 8! First I had my gallbladder removed first which but that dr suggested I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:43 PM |
| 104 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"It’s easy to see in alot of other subs where woman post “ya know he keeps meeting up with his coworker once a week for drinks and even though I’be seen her number come up on his phone over and over again and I told him it makes me uncomfortable he says I’m being crazy. Am I being unreasonable??” Like yessssss girl, listen to your gut!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseWe skated a bit no contact in an outdoor rink over the summer and I just couldn’t do it. It was too hot to skate with a mask and both times I skated off the rink and puked. We are hopefully going back to our rink in March but I feel old and like I don’t know how to skate any more lol!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 30 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseIt’s crazy how important routine is to humans. If she had a good routine with the kids, like 10am snack, then a game, then nap time, he could have completely messed that up. But he only sees it as the benefits for himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:55 PM |
| 24 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseI work a lot of contract work which means I have times where I need to be at the theater (I’m a costume designer) for 12 hrs a day and then my contract ends and I have a few weeks off before I start the next gig. I honestly love my schedule versus a 9 to 5 because It doesn’t get monotonous. During tech week which is the heaviest week my s/o does all the household stuff. I don’t have time so he takes care of it, makes sure there’s dinner for me and food to take with me to work (I’m bad about want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:53 PM |
| 12 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseI don’t think she’s wrong for voicing a need. She didn’t ask him to completely go back to work, she asked for one day. A seventh of the week. It’s their house, not just his house so she has a right to have her needs met as well and the fact that he wasn’t willing to see it from her side is very concerning. The other commenter who talked about her dad retiring has it spot on. To go from having autonomy during the day to always having someone around is a really extreme change and she’s been handli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseThe issue is that some people really need alone time to recharge. And most couple get away time from each other at work, and that’s what she was used to. Then he was home all the time. I am assuming he doesn’t have a hobby or something else to get him out of the house, and being around some one ALL THE TIME really can drive you nutty. For my bf and I it kinda works because a job where I work super long hours once every 6-8 weeks so he practically gets the whole house to himself for that time per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 01:12 PM |
| 103 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseAnd all the dudes agreeing with him are the same guys who are “blindsided” when their wife asks for a divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 04:17 AM |
| 168 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseI don’t believe for second he goes in his office and works all day. He absolutely is either bugging her for sex or just bugging her to do things for him like make lunch. And he seems REALLY averse to just going to the office to work. What about just going to the library for a few hours or a coffee shop? There are no other solutions offered other than she’s just wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 01:01 AM |
| 83 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseGod your so spot on. I was honestly shocked with how many people think she’s nuts but then I remember…Reddit is mostly men and forget that women have thoughts and feelings outside of them. I live with my bf (yes I know the handbook is not a fan of this, but I really do love living with him and he essentially pays for everything) and he hurt his leg about a month ago. We are working on drinking less at home and eating better. I also got Covid so we couldn’t really go out for over 2 weeks. There a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 65 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseThe comment section is giving me an absolute meltdown. How dare she kick him out of his house!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 65 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseHe’s doing the victim thing where he’s doing it, but sulking around the house about it which is so much worse. What I don’t get is after almost 2 years of many of us switching to work from home, how more people aren’t encouraging some space. It’s NOT HEALTHY to be with your partner all the time. But I guess it’s the ideal situation for men who want to control their partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 182 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseIf you ever want to see that Reddit is mostly men, go to this comment section. What an absolute sht show. The few women trying to speak up for her that she deserves space are being called sexist. And the amount of people that say she can leave if she wants alone time also makes me want to scream. Just because he’s a baby and has gotten used to screwing off during the work day and doesn’t want that ship to end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:42 AM |
| 86 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseI got that vibe too. I have a feeling he is driving her nuts. He’s probably bothering her for sex way more and they way he responds to this request, I’m sure he’s the same when she says no to sex. She’s asking very kindly for a little bit of space ti save their damn relationship and he can’t give it to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:40 AM |
| 3 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?I think I’m gonna go for it. They have a 5 week option (teaching 2 hrs a day) and a 3 week option (teaching 3 hrs a day) and I think I’m going to go for the 3 week on to start. My bf would fly out for the last week and then we would stay another week past that. We did Rome, Florence and Milan last summer and we really want to southern Italy too so. I’m a college professor and normally don’t work over the summer, so this would be an extra 5k to work 3 hours day in an amazing country. My professor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 03:57 PM |
| 27 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?My job just offered me a 5k stipend to go work in Rome for 5 weeks. I don’t have kids but I do have pets and my bf was like go! I’ll take care of your animals! It’s a great opportunity! I haven’t decided if I’m going to go yet but just the fact that my bf a willing to take on the responsibility so I could consider living in Italy for 5 weeks is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 28 | Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is.Ok so I’m gonna breakdown exactly how this is going to play out. This dude decides he’s missing out and breaks up with his long term gf. This poor girl is going to be shattered because after 8 years, I’m sure she is waiting for a ring, assuming he’s the one and I’m sure he’s been placating her for a while saying it’s coming. He will be on top of the world for a few weeks, has all the time in the world for the bros, heck he may even bang a few girls who he’s had in the wings. He’s going to post p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 13 | Is this turning into a texting situationship?My so and I legit text all day every day. As soon as we traded numbers we texted a lot and 6 years later we still text each other an amount that anyone else would probably find really uncomfortable. But I think that’s one of the reasons we click so we’ll is we are both just super chatty people and we tell each other every little thing. I think we had both gotten feedback about being a bit “clingy” to other partners but to each other our attentiveness and interest is exactly what the other one wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 36 | High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream DressAfter being in education for a while, I would really like to study fine motor development through education. I get students who have really well developed skills and then I get students who struggle to cut a straight line. I’m just curious how much is talent/natural skill and how much is lack activities at younger ages. I tend to think the cutting back of arts programs more focus on testing instead of hands on projects has something to do with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 06:53 PM |
| 20 | Be a Foster girlfriend today and make a differenceOmg this is so accurate!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:39 PM |
| 34 | High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream DressI have a channel! I sent you the name in a private message :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:36 PM |
| 86 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.So my bf works as IT support for an elementary school, he spends his days fixing tech issues in classrooms and for teacher/student devices. Anyone who knows elementary education knows it’s like 96% women and everyone treats him like the school hairdresser and vent all their problems to him while he’s just trying to fix their projectors. He said the number one thing he has learned after years of working there is MOST women are in awful marriages/relationships. He said it’s literally all he hears … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:29 PM |
| 411 | High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream DressSo I am a college fashion professor (and taught hs fashion for about 10 years before jumping over to college) and I have noticed that men just tend to have weaker fine motor skills than women. I don’t know if it’s because little girls are encouraged to do more activities that develop those skills than boys are, but it’s just something I have noticed over the years. Also my female students tend to have much more attention to detail. So…I give this young man A LOT of credit. Learning to sew is har… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:00 PM |
| 12 | Remembering Valentina Grigoryeva: 1 Year Anniversary of Being Murdered by Youtuber BoyfriendI think the birth rates for most developed countries are down from past decades | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | "I WORK and pay ALL the bills" and "she agreed to it" does not justify being a man-childJesus. What was this guy trying to prove with that video….that he’s a piece of garbage airing their dirty laundry on the internet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:18 PM |
| 10 | Being polite to a faultI hate to say this happens in the reverse too. My bf works with mostly women and is generally a really good conversationalist, and mywe women love to vent (I joke he’s like the hairdresser of his school). He’s had a few women mistake him engaging in convo with them for being interested when he’s really just being polite. I’ve totally had it happen to me to, it’s so uncomfortable!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 124 | Why she doesn't care for him during sex...He paints her out to be absolutely awful and he has no hand in their toxic relationship. Maybe a week ago there was a thread asking if any of us knew a man who INITIATED breakup without another woman ready to go and barely any of us could think of one so he will most likely stay in it and complain about it until he has someone to monkey branch over to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 28 | Age Gap Gross OutGod there is an age gap relationship group I’m in on fb that is horrifying… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:48 PM |
| 5 | I Met My Friend's LVM During The HolidaysWhen I think of a female bringing a male friend to hang out as adults I can only think of two reasons. Either she likes him and wants to know what you think or she wants to try and fix him up with you. But I can’t imagine any other reason this dude is orbiting her other than waiting to hit it…there has to be some kind of history there. And any dude that says they are a history buff makes my eyes roll so far back in my head. It’s code for I’m about to talk for an hour straight, so strap in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 50 | Realities of being with a manchildWHAAAAATTTTTT. Honestly, why is she still even there having this argument. I shut down after part 2 and was like nope, I’m out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 25 | Men of ALL ages will take advantage of women when it suits them- 62 year old man whines that his girlfriend wants him to contribute rent to her home.I seriously need to take some basic home maintenance classes, I feel like it’s such a cost saving skill to have. I personally sew, and the amount I have saved my friends in alterations is a lot. Don’t even get me started on the whole mess of things we should be teaching in high school and college to help people just…adult. I’m an educator if you can’t tell ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:24 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Ewwwyyyy when I see couples like this that’s all I can think of!!!!! He’s gross flub as he gets tired after a few pounds and then makes her get on top. Get yo self a tripod girl it’s the only way to go!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 33 | [deleted by user]This is legit the description of a guy I dated in my 20s. He was overweight, short, balding, and he was nice at first but then got super douchey. And good lord was I a pickme. I had to avert my eyes when we had sex because I just didn’t want to see his giant belly. And guess what!? He cheated on me with another queen of the pickmes!!!!! They are married now but he wanted a girl to stay home and be barefoot in the kitchen and that ain’t me sister. I’ve seen a few pictures of him now and thank god… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:01 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Ohhhhhhmygooooddddddd this is insane. If she’s happy, great. But that dude can’t be healthy. And the reason we have subconscious attraction standards is because we are programmed to be attracted to health. Just like a guy wants a small waist and big hips we are allowed to want big shoulders and a small waist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 02:48 PM |
| 56 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Omggg I went to the comments…my eyes, my poor eyes. There are dudes competing in the comments section for who has better advice, more dates and more lays. And the OP put up examples from all the girls he talked to and they all just thought they might be talking to a nice dude, this makes me so damn sad for them :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Diamonds Are ForeverYes they aren’t for everyone! I teach college fashion so I’ve shown my students the Diamond episode, athliesure wear one and watched the tattoo one with a student who was doing an independent project on designing a temp tattoo subscription box. They also just put one out on attention and creativity which I thought were useful for college students, especially those in a creative field! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 11:56 AM |
| 8 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!I think if you don’t like pets then find someone you are compatible with who also doesn’t like pets! The issue comes when one side tries to control the other side by making them get rid of previously owned pets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:32 AM |
| 19 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!Crumb is the cuuuutttteeessstttt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:21 AM |
| 99 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateThis is exactly what I thought too. This dude absolutely knows he’s hot and knows life goes a lot smoother for him when he lays on the charm. I’ve seen it plenty of times in the work place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:44 PM |
| 37 | Diamonds Are ForeverIf anyone is interested in learning about the Diamond industry I would suggest checking out Netflix’s series called Explained. They have a great episode on diamonds (as well as many other great topics like monogomy, the female orgasm, mental health topics, plastic surgery) that talks about the cultural significance we place on the Diamond as well as some of sketchier business practices over the past 100 years. It’s only 25 mins and totally worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:41 PM |
| 9 | Diamonds Are ForeverMy bf and I have picked out my engagement ring and just because my hands are on the bigger side, a 1ct Diamond would look kinda silly to me. So we opted to look at moissanite so I could get about a 4ct stone, what I thought looked nice for my hand and not be freaked out about having 50k in jewelry on one finger. If I wanted a 4ct Diamond my bf would get it for me, but I’m also older and more pragmatic and I’d rather him put that money toward our savings/down payment on our house. The ring I pick… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:36 PM |
| 23 | Diamonds Are ForeverI teach fashion history and unfortunately, the Diamond market is heavily manipulated by a few major sellers. They purposefully withhold stock to make the value seem higher, and if you try to resell a Diamond you will get no where near what you paid for it, making it a horrendous investment option. We also didn’t consider the Diamond a standard for engagement until the early 1900s (I think it’s the 20s or so but I might be wrong) although giving a ring of some kind as a sign of marriage and commi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:28 PM |
| 27 | Diamonds Are ForeverMy bf gave me my Valentine’s Day present in crypto last year, telling me I could take it out or leave it in to learn how the crypto market works. It’s tripled in value, and now that he taught me how to do basic investing (with other stock options, not just crypto) I have a 10k nest egg! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:21 PM |
| 56 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!My cats are my babies too. Maybe 10 years ago I dated this dude who didn’t come right out and say it but danced around the fact that he didn’t like cats and when would I be getting rid of my cat (who I had in my life since I was 17)…guess who lasted longer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 03:35 PM |
| 121 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!I read so many posts about a dude coming into a chics life and being either weird, controlling or abusive to their animals. If they will do it to an animal they will do it to you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:28 PM |
| 169 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!Because if she kisses a cat she will kiss anybody 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:33 PM |
| 238 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!I love the “are you seriously breaking up with my for a stupid animal?” Yes. Yes I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:36 PM |
| 5 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.Yea trust me I don’t entirely get it either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭I know this sub doesn’t like guys that play the field but my current bf was that “player” type before we settled down and lord have mercy am I reaping those benefits. I had sex in my 20s but didn’t know what sex could be until I met him. Just holy hell. I am totally fine he had lots of practice before we met because a few years later he still has to help me make sure I don’t scream so loud the neighbors hear and call 911! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 54 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.I didn’t realize it until it was pointed out, I have very pretty feet. Like the kind that dudes would definitely pay money to see things done to or with. I have, in very dark moments, considered some things….but I have a tattoo on my foot which has always made me turn back away from that idea. I have a masters degree. I think it’s says way more about our culture and pay of women that so many are having trouble earning a living that we think about these options from time to time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Just another year end reminder to NEVER EVER build a man. Focus on yourself and only yourself.Holy goddamn hell. That was a ride. Good for her for the execution, but she dealt with his sh*t for way too long. But also sounds like the bf and the ex were in an mlm and she was essentially funding it. I know alot of couples who drink that koolaide together. I know this is a small detail but one thing I read about a lot in posts about train wreck relationships is how does he react/treat your PETS. This starts out with him giving her crap about her cats. I have read stories of woman dating men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?My bf and I are pretty solid so many coworkers/friends will go to him for relationship advice and then he of course comes to me with it and the amount of men that are in just….blah….relationships is insane. I am not saying it is either sides fault, but they just aren’t compatible and the relationship sounds just plain boring and unfulfilling. The thought of doing the breaking up never crossed these dudes minds and my bf will almost always tell them it’s worth it to move on and find someone more … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?Yes if they don’t jump right into a serious relationship, I can almost promise there is some girl around. I don’t believe any dude when they say they are single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?I’ve been to Thailand and the amount of creepy older men with young Asian women there is insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?I legit can’t think of one. And I would love to say it’s like a sort of relationship next, but it’s almost always been like days later they are in a serious “let’s buy a dog and move in together” relationships (as someone else in this thread mentioned). Two guys I dated in my 20s were engaged within a year of our break up. There is an acquaintance of my bf that recently broke up with his gf of 3 years and within a week he was official with one of his clients (he’s a hairdresser) This dude was tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 09:07 PM |
| 272 | Advice for Moving In with a BoyfriendOk so not to be a total creeper but I took a look at your post/comment history to get a better idea of the situation. It makes me nervous you would be moving in with him to get away from narc parents. Growing up with narcs is going to make you more vulnerable to a narc relationship. It also seems like there is a big power imbalance since you are still working in school and he seems to be in his career, even if there isn’t an age gap. I would really focus on moving out on your own first. I worry … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 08:55 PM |
| 119 | Why you shouldn’t live together before marriage: 2 real-life examplesI am with you on this one. The living together vs not living together thing is probably the only part of the FDS bible that I decided against. My simple reason is I had never lived with another person in my adult life. I lived by myself for 12 years and was very happy with that fact. And when my current bf and I realized he was staying at my place more than his own, it just made sense to have the moving in together talk. And it’s worked out for us so far. It gave us both time to learn about livi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 14 | Your partner should never ask you for a gift wish list.The only cooking thing I would approve of from my bf is a really nice chefs knife or set of knives. I know good ones can be a pretty penny and it’s something we really would both use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 08:07 PM |
| 22 | Your partner should never ask you for a gift wish list.The best gift I have ever gotten cost my bf nothing. He went to a concert with his friends and the next day he said he had a surprise for me. He sat me in the middle of the room, told me to close my eyes and lit every candle he could find and brought a few from home. He then put a pair of paper glasses over my eyes and told me to open them. The glasses turned all the points of light into holographic hearts. And he wrote on the inside if I ever needed to see how much he loved me to just put the g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 07:37 PM |
| 29 | For the angered men lurkingMy bf plays video games but very occasionally, maybe once a week, and it’s usually preschedule to have some “guy time” with his best friend or brother. But he does it for maybe an hour or two and never at the detriment to our time together. I think alot of guys think having a woman in your life means you have to completely give up gaming but if it stays in the hobby category with a well balanced life, most women would be happy that you have something that makes you happy! It’s when we are doing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthOmggg I got like 3 of those alerts and blocked them. I’m doing fantastic. I have an amazing HV man who worships there ground I walk on and walk up every morning to an I love you. Just because I participate in this sub doesn’t mean I’m some man hating life hating harpee! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭I had to show this to my bf and he agreed that any girl who is starfishing is doing so because she doesn’t want to be there!! Any dude who was half way decent at sex doesn’t get a starfish in response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:54 PM |
| 33 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭This dude is definitely forgetting that we make the babies! So we are literally the ones who don’t need them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:03 PM |
| 8 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)I def agree with you after working with mostly women, that we out far too much pressure on ourselves. In my younger years I used to buy gifts and make cookies for all my colleagues and I finally realized how much money I was spending on it all and stopped. I used to supervise a department in a high school and my female colleagues would go all out, hosting a party and buying gifts for every member of their department. My male colleagues didn’t do SH*T. I still treated my team to a breakfast, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 11:56 PM |
| 4 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)I think my dad did most of the purchasing and wrapping but then was a zombie on Christmas Day. I remember having to do a whole ritual of waking him up with his coffee, waiting for him to shower and be awake enough, it felt like torture as a kid. I kinda wish he just pretended long enough for us kids to open our presents and then we would play while he got his coffee and shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 11:53 PM |
| 195 | As I was reading this... I was thinking "He must be significantly older than her." But she handled it perfectly. 💅 👑I mean he owns boats! That totally changes things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:46 PM |
| 269 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)Besides how disgusting it is that men use holidays as a way to force sexual acts, there is another huge point in this post that for some reason just hit me this year. I had no idea how many dads completely don’t participate in Christmas. I was sick the past week and the amount of posts I read from women about how they do EVERYTHING for the holidays and then they get attitude from their husband/so for not getting the right toys or messing up a dish is insane. The audacity never ceases to amaze me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 12:05 AM |
| 18 | Man in a hetero relationship doesn't do housework -> solution = "get a cleaner!!!!"I have a house cleaner once a month simply because I work all the time and it’s worth it to me to pay someone to do the nitty gritty cleaning. What they do in 90 minutes would take me an entire Saturday. But it’s definitely not a replacement for the daily tidying and organization that a house requires! So suggesting it as a cure all to relationship inequality is a fools errand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:25 PM |
| 30 | Anyone heard of the Tobe & Fat struggle love story?I listened to maybe 10 seconds and ewwwwww he’s so rude to her!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 32 | Why you should vet harshly. Please learn from my story.This part of the story blows my mind. I recently found out I have low T due to years on continual bc pills for endo and holy shit is testosterone important, male and female. But also if you want to get rx meds…you can get them and then I hear so many stories of people who actually have adhd having to beg for meds. But man, I’m so sorry for your story. My dad essentially committed suicide with poor health. I can only imagine the stuff that came up when my mom went through his stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Can you share your thoughts about “Why men love bitches” by Sherry Argov? I personally don’t understand why it gets recommended so much, half the book is about modeling yourself to male expectations.I know shallon Lester is a bit controversial around here but she did a whole series reading excerpts from the book and talking about points woman should pay attention to. The author then filed a copy write claim making shallon take down the video. Now I don’t always agree with shallons points of view but she got that book more publicity than it had in YEARS, and the pickme author had an issue with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 12:14 AM |
| 82 | Roe will likely be overturned.This bomb ass pussy. 💀💀💀 Damn straight sis. Damn straight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:43 PM |
| 83 | Roe will likely be overturned.This is my thought process exactly. Funding social programs for low income moms should go hand and hand with this because let’s be honest, that’s who this mostly effects. But they don’t care what the heck happens to the kid after it’s born, or they would be fighting for universal health care to ensure the mom and baby are healthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:41 PM |
| 94 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.I just started on tiktok to post silly videos of my dog. And for some reason the algorithm sent me down this rabbit hole of dating over 30, mostly from the man’s perspective. Holy sh*te…they have some complaints lol. But most of the videos center around women having baggage or commitment issues, all things that shouldn’t matter if your just looking to smash and move on correct? A feel like they all pretend to want (or live) that life to cover up the fact that no woman will put up with their crap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 11:17 PM |
| 40 | My mentor confessed to me. He's 24 years my senior.This is so not ok. I am a college professor and it wouldn’t matter if we were the same age, you don’t have personal relationships with students. Period. He deserves to be removed from what ever position he is in but probably won’t be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Another negging tactic: Men asking your interests then telling you how they dislike themAwww thanks I sent you a message! I tried out for pr about 10 yrs ago and made it through about 3 of the 5 rounds which I consider a total win! The tryout process is A LOT so just the fact that I did all the stuff to actually try out I consider an accomplishment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 69 | "I’m Convinced That A Lot Of Y’all Men Don’t Like Woman, Y’all Like Little Girls" | The granddaughter story actually made me gag.Omg the girl talking about when she was stripping for a dude in his 60s and he said she reminded him of his grand daughter. “Sir, I am not clothed” - I died. But seriously, why is your hard on and memories of your granddaughter even in the same spot in your brain!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 12:01 PM |
| 42 | "I’m Convinced That A Lot Of Y’all Men Don’t Like Woman, Y’all Like Little Girls" | The granddaughter story actually made me gag.Ha yea I’m 36 and I’m a college professor - I tell my kids all the time my life is awesome. I’m good for $$, great relationship, no kids, travel a lot and I’m knowledgeable in my field. Life is good and I’m enjoying the hell out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 11:33 AM |
| 27 | Another negging tactic: Men asking your interests then telling you how they dislike themThis is my number one vetting tool. I sew. I started sewing when I was 8. I started making costumes when I was 12. I went to school for fashion and costume design. I worked as a hs fashion teacher, freelance costume designer and now a costume design professor at a college and have a fashion/sewing YouTube channel. I’m really f*cking good at it and very passionate about it, it’s a huge part of who I am. Every single guy I dated did the pat on the head thing and acted like “awww your little sewing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:42 AM |
| 44 | [deleted by user]My bf has the BEST hair. He’s 42, and has beautiful thick black curly hair with a little bit of grey to it. He grew it out during covid and it’s past his shoulders now and has gorgeous natural curl to it. And his man bun makes me crazy. There is something so primal about a man with healthy luscious hair. And his skin is lovely too. Soft and clear, caramel color. Like you said in your post, I just love to touch him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 06:24 AM |
| 28 | Today I actually realised that "if he wanted to, he would"Omg the comments on the IG reel....yikessssss. I think what kills me the most is other girls saying she has nothing else to do with her time than save the petals. Like damn stop tearing other woman down and asking that everyone sets the bar as low as you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.This new girl is so damn hot and this is dude is...not. Such a shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:22 PM |
| 16 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.My bf has a friend who broke up with his gf of 2 years and was on a date 5 days later and a month later they are official. I honestly don’t think anything was going on between them to overlap, but it still strikes me as odd to move on to a new relationship that darn fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:02 PM |
| 15 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyThey also have very specific areas in the country from which they recruit (atleast in the states). I’ve worked in a bunch of different school districts and in the richer, more liberal districts I barely ever saw a recruiter. In the poorer, more rural and more conservative districts, they would be there every day at lunch time talking to kids. The principal in that district would also constantly talk it up because he was in the army (and a NVM). There is definitely a certain demographic they go a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:33 AM |
| 229 | Pickmes and 🤡🤡🤡: “If you are so picky, you are going to be single forever.”I seriously think men invented the “crazy cat lady” trope as just another mechanism to force women into a crap relationship. I was a single crazy cat lady for more of my 20s and I enjoyed that life just fine. One dude I dated made it super clear he hated cats and expected me to get rid of them should we move in together. I of course said that wasn’t happened because they were here long before him and shocker...they have been here long after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:27 PM |
| 2 | A HVM will WANT to plan a wedding with you a LVM will check outI love safiya and Tyler so much - I teach fashion so I show a lot of her videos to my classes. I SOBBED at their wedding video. The whole thing was so beautiful. And I love that they did the dance together. They are such a great example of a high value couple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Just a reminder that negging is not always going to be so forthcoming, these scrotes get intricate and creative because they are cowardly and hoping not to completely miss out. I mentioned in my bio that I’m a writer as well as my intelligence being clearly communicated block and delete guys.God nothing infuriates me more than a man who panders a woman’s career or hobby. I went to fashion school, taught high school fashion design and work freelance gigs as a theatrical costume designer. In my 20s, every guy I dated treated my sewing skills as like “awww that’s cute your little hobby”. Like no, this is my career and I’m really good at it. Now I teach college fashion and have a paid YouTube sewing channel...not so bad for my cute little hobby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:02 PM |
| 25 | Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your childrenThis is seriously it - I feel like the dog adoption is the test run for kids later down the road. Of course they can’t be compared but it’s a good glimpse at how they handle stress and emotional situations. I got a puppy with my bf in January and it’s going well - we went to puppy kindergarten together and teared up when our little guy got to go out into the pen and play with his friends, we’re such saps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 18 | Woman killed by apartment maintenance man, who had a key. We need to push for a Miya Marcano law. I was always scared of this happening.A few months ago I was just chillin on my couch when a maintenance working walked right in my door. He got the apt number wrong and was supposed to be next door. I was just chillin there in my morning pjs, no bra. Thankfully he backed out while apologizing, but the incident still really freaked me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 11:54 AM |
| 4 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.By 12 to 16 waist I’m wondering if he means like 12 inches across (so a 24 to 32 inch waist)...I can’t find another way to make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:31 PM |
| 53 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.I am a professional costume designer and I have measured hundreds, maybe over 1k people at this point and it’s crazy how two people can look exactly the same and have totally different measurements or have the same measurements and look completely different. I am 5’10”, 190 lbs and wear a size 12. Honestly, size is a completely arbitrary number! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Don’t mess with a queen.I also wouldn’t consider the daily beast a reliable news source. As someone who has worked in a high level political (and by that definition extremely sexist and conservative) work place - the fight is constant. And we don’t exactly have a great track record of of respecting women in their queen roles. So if she can take a win where she can get it...than good for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Don’t mess with a queen.I get people want to sh*t on this post and point out all the issues wrong with the royal family. But I don’t think for a second she has completely autonomous control over everything that happens with the monarchy. We all have no idea what goes on behind the scenes and I have a feeling she takes power back and makes her point where she can. Some people don’t even do that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:22 AM |
| -2 | Don’t mess with a queen.I don’t believe for a second she has much freedom to dictate what the monarchy does as a whole. None of us can pretend to know what goes on behind the scenes. At least she is making statements in the best way she can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Ladies - NEVER let anyone control your income and spending. Financial abuse is still abuse.Red flag number 1 of 463 red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:49 AM |
| 6 | Ladies - NEVER let anyone control your income and spending. Financial abuse is still abuse.I know...this poor girl. And I’m sure the thoughts are “he doesn’t hit me so he’s good to me”. Really sad. And she words it like the other two aren’t hers but they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:49 AM |
| 16 | Ladies - NEVER let anyone control your income and spending. Financial abuse is still abuse.I’m hoping it’s a troll post because I would hope someone smart enough to begin and continue a successful business would be smart enough to not let a man control her money...but stranger things have happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 20 | This dude is SHOCKED his wife is mad about him wanting to miss a wedding for a football game that he isn’t even going to!! Thankfully he gets roasted in the comments.Because it’s one step away from “the ball and chain” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:18 PM |
| 44 | Ladies - NEVER let anyone control your income and spending. Financial abuse is still abuse.He made her pay back the $200 by selling her stuff. WHAT FRESH HELL IS THIS????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 21 | Daily reminder: IF HE WANTED, HE WOULDIt really is true. My bf came home from work last week with roses for me. He got pink ones to match my hair. He’s being considered for a promotion so they were a thank you for believing in him. He’s not perfect, but he’s a good dude with a good heart and makes my life significantly better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:10 PM |
| 7 | This dude is SHOCKED his wife is mad about him wanting to miss a wedding for a football game that he isn’t even going to!! Thankfully he gets roasted in the comments.The more you know!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:37 PM |
| 61 | This dude is SHOCKED his wife is mad about him wanting to miss a wedding for a football game that he isn’t even going to!! Thankfully he gets roasted in the comments.I grew up in Rhode Island so I know the cult that is the fans of Tom Brady - he’s an awesome player, but he still left his pregnant girlfriend for Giselle. I’m a college professor now and when we talk about famous people, I point out to them that just because someone accomplishes greatness doesn’t make them a good person. We have plenty of people who did great things or excelled in some way but are still total as*hats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:35 PM |
| 137 | This dude is SHOCKED his wife is mad about him wanting to miss a wedding for a football game that he isn’t even going to!! Thankfully he gets roasted in the comments.Please tell me the break up was soon after this. As cheesy as it is, I feel like for a girl one of the best perks of having a partner is not being single at a wedding. Being partnerless at a wedding can be really awkward, having to endure the “one day it will be your turn” pity comments. So to actually have a date and have them bail is like a mortal relationship sin in my book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:23 PM |
| 36 | This dude is SHOCKED his wife is mad about him wanting to miss a wedding for a football game that he isn’t even going to!! Thankfully he gets roasted in the comments.I grew up as a highly competitive figure skater, and skated all the way through college. I went to a specific college for their competitive skating program. Some of my friends I skated with transitioned into the world of adult skating, and are still pretty obsessed but they are still doing the sport so they have a right to be. One girl I skated with in college (15 years ago) stuck with it all this time and is currently at the top of the adult skating circuit. For me, at 23, I decided I had accom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 42 | This dude is SHOCKED his wife is mad about him wanting to miss a wedding for a football game that he isn’t even going to!! Thankfully he gets roasted in the comments.Oh man I feel this. When I was in my 20s I was really "into" football so I had something to talk to the guys at work about and looking back now i realize how stupid that statement is because if they didn't have anything else to talk about why was I bothering? Thank god it was a phase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 01:38 PM |
| 44 | Seeing too much bad things. Sharing my favorite TikTok couple. (They’ve met in 1992). Get yourself a man who is excited to take you out.I love that he opens the door and makes sure she is in the car safe. My bf does that for me and it’s so sweet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:03 AM |
| 7 | Excuse me?Ommmggggg what in the what in the hell!? The worst part is that she pays for it. Jesus Christ on a stick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:00 AM |
| 29 | 3 days, a whole 72 hours on NC .. Spent the weekend distracting myself with my family; had a lot of first times: bowling, mini golf, laser tag ✨ saw the city at night after what feels like a decade 🌃, then drank until I cried - but DIDN'T stalk him. Thanks so much for being patient with me 🙏🏽Roller derby girl here - I second this!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:53 PM |
| 184 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.I saw TWO posts over the past few days of women planning to propose to their men. Absolutely not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:00 AM |
| 3 | 1 DAY OF NO CONTACT!In the moment it was because I was going through a breakup and a distraught mess. It’s easy to look back and be like I probably would have been ok with out it. But he’s super sweet, easy to talk to, it was good therapy to just some things out of my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...Have you been tested for celiac? The extreme nausea, low b12, poor memory, cloudy brain ect all could be signs of low absorption which can be caused by celiac. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 10:20 AM |
| 2 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...If your not vegan, you should be getting enough b12 from a regular diet. One of the good things about the shot (it’s just a small shot in the arm) is you start to feel better pretty quick. I need to do a shot every 2 weeks right now since my levels got so low and then once we are at a good level my dr will reduce it back to once a month or every 6 weeks. It’s crazy how many drs either don’t check it or don’t look at the actual number, just as the “in range” column and if it’s not out of range th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:35 AM |
| 2 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...Low b12 definitely causes fatigue, brain cloudiness, shortness of breath, general feelings of malaise, and tingling in the fingers and toes. For me when I’m low I get really bad cracks at the sides of the mouth. If you get it checked, ask for the number. Most labs say above 200 is normal, but many people will have major symptoms once they fall below 400. A b12 level of between 800 and 1000 is optimal. My b12 was in the low 300s when I got it checked last year which is why the new primary kept in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 3 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...It’s absolutely insane. I have endometriosis and it took years to find a doctor to diagnose me. I also consistently have low b12 and don’t absorb it normally so I need shots. I moved last year and got a new primary and when I asked her for shots, she said my levels weren’t low enough. I told her that’s because I take shots, I need the shots to keep it level. She still wouldn’t prescribe them. I’ve also felt over the past year my hormones have been off. I talked to my primary, she said I was fine… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 11:23 PM |
| 9 | 1 DAY OF NO CONTACT!Somethings tells me your behavior wasn’t that bad and he was twisting things around to make it seem like it was all you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 10:55 PM |
| 3 | 1 DAY OF NO CONTACT!Oh yes I second Craig Kenneth! I did a private session with him years ago before his rates got crazy expensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 10:54 PM |
| 25 | Gabby Petito's case; Police bodycam footage shows how Brian made Gabby seem hysterical while he played it off coolWhen I was 15, my dad picked me up from a friends party and he was drunk (he had an alcohol problem). He got pulled over on the way home and arrested for a DUI. The cops brought me to the station and sat me in a room where I could hear them questioning my drunk father. Then when they tried to figure out what to do with me, they made a bunch of sexual comments centered around “giving me a ride” before throwing a phone book on the table and telling me to call someone to pick me up. I didn’t even k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Not mine. But we all can relate.That fb group is BAD - but it’s entertaining which is why I lurk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 16 | Not mine. But we all can relate.One of the best lines I have ever heard about relationships is “he doesn’t have to be an F to not be an A”...which basically equates to he doesn’t have to be crazy abusive or lazy or an a-hole to not be a great partner. I think far too often women rationalize relationships with “it’s not that bad”. Yea he raises his voice, but he didn’t hit me so I don’t have enough of a reason to break up with him. You don’t need one. I don’t want to date you anymore is reason enough. I commented this am on a p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menI didn’t watch dr grandes but I usually like him. I think what turned me off is making the video while the case is still in progress and making money off it. They are obviously jumping on this because it’s a trend, but it feels scummy in a way. I wouldn’t mind then covering it if they did a fundraiser or donation to the search effort or something because otherwise they are all just making money off this poor girls tragedy ( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:09 PM |
| 6 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menAre you talking about Observe? I generally really like him but I felt like he was off the mark with the body cam video, it made me really sad. He saw it through male glasses, while us females watched it and saw a terrified victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 80 | Be careful out there with these hobosexualsOmg I could not agree more. I recently hired a cleaning service...it’s $150 a month for my 2 bedroom townhouse. It’s three women who come in like a damn swat team and clean my house better in 1.5 hours than I ever could in a whole Saturday. Best $150 dollars a month I have ever spent, simply to not worry about it. Those women are amazing!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:10 PM |
| 23 | Man claims he has gotten "absurdly hot" over the coarse of his marriage and now resents his wife....good god the AUDACITYYea among the MANY red flags the one that jumped out was when he said he spends his free time pursuing hobbies and business interests that align with his passions.....ummmm...what about your kids? Shouldn't doing fun things with your kids be a top priority? I guess not when your dreaming about being a porn star. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:22 PM |
| 17 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.ME TOO! I always thought he was one of the good ones!! His wife deserves ALOT of the credit because a lot of his comedy was based on their life and her part in it - I can’t wait to see how he tries to dig himself out of this hole in his next special | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:56 PM |
| 9 | short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type.I used to watch millionaire matchmaker and a lot of guys wanted what patti would call a “spinner”. Basically a girl so pettier that she could be spun around while riding her guy. There were ALOT of episodes of guys who wanted “spinners”. So this is not uncommon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:18 AM |
| 42 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.He also completely scrubbed his IG - I remember seeing pictures of their puppy petunia on his IG and all his pictures are gone now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:08 AM |
| 70 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.And when did they announce they were dating....like may. Atleast that’s when they officially announced is so obviously things are in motion before that but still, there was clearly a thing going on while he was still married. I have no respect for him for stepping out on his wife and basically immediately knocking a chick up and I have no respect for her for engaging with a dude who is married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:32 PM |
| 18 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.Oooo can you link it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 42 | In 8 months out of rehab he got a divorce, a new gf and is now expecting a baby....this is going to go great.I can’t imagine waking up and seeing this blasted all over the headlines - I would be devastated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?I don’t know what it is but I look up nvm from my 20s. There is this one guy that really had me twisted and I was such a damn pick me - it was so obvious he would use me for hookups in between gf’s. We met at work and he started “dating” another girl from our work and would flirt so hard with her right in front of me - he obviously didn’t give a single shite. We chaperoned prom together one year and we were flirting hard core, I had this hot red dress on and I thought somethjng would happen afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳I’m rewatching Always Sunny right and holy f it’s the nvm playbook. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 26 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️I tried to be understand and think to some people $2600 is a lot of money and I didn’t want to judge...until he commented that between him and his “fiance” they bring home more 9k a month....depending on your health insurance or union stuff that like $120k a year which is pretty good in USA. He’s just a cheap ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 47 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️I literally didn’t even know quarts was a thing for rings besides fashion jewelry...there’s moissanite, sapphire, even cz....but quartz???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:07 AM |
| 118 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️Right? I’d bet $$ that he’s got a 1k plus video gaming system! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:21 AM |
| 8 | My experience with Female Vets vs Male VetsMy cat is also terrified of vets. He scratched his cornea and when I brought him in thankfully it was two women and they did a cat burrito with him and had just enough time to examine his eye and knew when he was done. They were so good with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:16 PM |
| 47 | My experience with Female Vets vs Male VetsI really hope so too - his limp is a bit better today so I’m hoping it was just a strain but if we need to have it xrayed I’ll just take him to the emergency vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 20 | I thought this belongs here...Literally what made me fall in love with my current bf is he is a GREAT conversationalist. It’s such a gift, he can make anyone feel welcome, knows how to listen and respond. He told me that a girl he dated when he was younger called him out for not knowing when to shut up and he made a point to get better. And I can see the huge difference between him and his brother who just talks over everyone at the table. The problem is though because he is such a good listener and that’s soooo different th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:26 PM |
| 12 | I thought this belongs here...Omg I kinda want to watch this show now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 73 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.Not only is she a reminder, she made a permanent reminder and posted it on the internet!!!! And he’s going to John mulaney her - his wife stood by him through rehab and then he gets out and divorces her because she’s a reminder of the negative times!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 9 | It was too good to be true.This makes me really sad, what ever the story line behind it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 15 | A fascinating deep dive of pickup culture - I love Illuminaughtii!Right!? Men bitch about the FDS sub but there are actual programs on how to “baby step” women into the bedroom with you...makes me want to puke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 01:25 AM |
| 8 | A fascinating deep dive of pickup culture - I love Illuminaughtii!So I have a small YT channel and YT is very temperamental over demonitizement which may account for why certain channels avoid delving too deep into certain touchy subjects. I like illuminaughtii because she has episodes that she knows will be demobilized and does the anyway because they are important topics. I think this was a pretty good one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Any time a guy says a girl is “crazy” all I can think of is what did he do to make her crazy...So to fill in a bit of the story - in another post he talks about “ex number 2” - she was a girl he met from tinder who they were doing the weird sort of dating (hooking up but not committed) and she wanted a relationship but he didn’t so she continued to see other dudes, which then made him not want to commit to her because he couldn’t trust her to be loyal....all the while he was seeing other girls as well. Sooooooo he didn’t trust her for the thing he was also doing. Double standard much?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 53 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboyI have heard this story about Leo too! That you just ride while he has his head phones on...I can’t in any imagine that being enjoyable for anyone...90% of the enjoyment of sex is the noises and the heat and the getting tangled up in each other. How sad is that life that you just have a woman sign a contract and get on top. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:37 PM |
| 15 | This girls IG is every red pill mans fantasy 🙄It’s from a crazy right wing chic who has a post viral on fb right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 12 | This girls IG is every red pill mans fantasy 🙄Ohhhh yea she is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare.Holy moly - thank god she got out. I have mixed feelings for the kids, they obviously don’t understand the situation and need therapy now as adults. I didn’t have a good relationship with either of my parents but I’m now as an adult I wonder what adult problems they were having that made them they way they were (my mother is stroke victim and my dad was an alcoholic - they were not living at all). I’m also surprised he didn’t wrangle some other young 22 year old for the job after her...maybe FDS… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:17 PM |
| 7 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Ewwwww he’s so gross!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:07 PM |
| 11 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Absolutely not. That’s ridiculous. Could you imagine how embarrassed you would be showing that to everyone because everyone is going to ask you to see the ring. When I picked an engagement ring I wrote down my top preferences and the top one was a large stone. Now I priced out a diamond for that size and it was like 50k...which I frankly don’t feel comfortable wearing that sort of money on my hand. So I got the size I wanted in a moissanite and it cost what I feel is an appropriate amount for so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 48 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.One of my bf’s friends “type” is a girl with basically a prepubescent body - he wants no curves, completely flat chest and tiny. I told my bf he’s basically a pedophile because he’s into the body of a child. So disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 7 | Man leaves girl for someone else but tells her she still owes him her virginityI hate to say this is a situation where she is going to learn the hard way. I certainly hope it’s not the worst of the worst and she gets out of it with just an uncomfortable interaction but she’s 20. I was pretty damn naive at 20...and I learned by being in bad situations and learning when it was appropriate to speak up for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:29 PM |
| 38 | Man leaves girl for someone else but tells her she still owes him her virginityAll the comments were telling her to BLOCK this guy - I just hope she listened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:20 AM |
| 35 | Man leaves girl for someone else but tells her she still owes him her virginityYup she’s 20 he’s 28 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:19 AM |
| 21 | Scrote keeps gf as bangmaid, grossed out by her wanting future with him?I read this before it was posted here and the comments are PAINFUL. He’s so passive and gross...people genuinely trying to help are met with shrugs and I dunno I just don’t wanna talk about it. This dude has zero redeeming qualities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:17 AM |
| 62 | Scrote keeps gf as bangmaid, grossed out by her wanting future with him?There will be no stigma while the Leonardo DiCaprio’s make it look cool to be banging 20 year olds into his 50s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:15 AM |
| 108 | Man leaves girl for someone else but tells her she still owes him her virginityGod I’m so sorry this happened to you. When I was a freshman I thought I was so cool because all the seniors hit on me and my favorite teacher would split us up in class and do everything she could to make sure we didn’t work together. Of course as an adult I realize she was a hero in more ways than one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:02 AM |
| 277 | Man leaves girl for someone else but tells her she still owes him her virginityI literally wanted to throw up after reading this. He’s depressed so she has to give him her virginity...what in the creeper manipulative mental gymnastics is that!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:30 AM |
| 23 | “But sex is only a small part of a relationship.”This was a huge realization I had when I started dating my current bf with one of my friends. She had always tried to fix me up with dudes that I didn’t find cute but she would say “he’s nice, he has a good job, blah blah blah”. And she was not thrilled when I met my current guy and would always put down anything we did or the nice things he would do for me. She doesn’t have an awful marriage but I remember she said to me once “I never feel so alone as when I’m sitting on the couch with X”....wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Regretting meeting and old male "friend"Whenever I get a male friend suddenly interacting with me on fb more than normal I check their page and they are always just divorced or out of a relationship. And over the years I’ve tried interacting with old male friends and I swear because I’m in a relationship I get totally blown off. I’ve learned that it’s just not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:49 PM |
| 223 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.I was at work today and my bf sent me a voice memo to let me know know my usual route had traffic and to take another route. There are good dudes who actually just do nice things for their gf’s because they love them. Anyone complaining about that is just....I don’t even know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 04:24 AM |
| 192 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationMy aunt had a bf who we all pretty much considered her husband (I called him my uncle, he called me his neice) for 20 years and they never lived together. I remember when I was younger thinking it was weird but now that I’m older I’m like holy sh*t she was on to something. And he was absolutely an HVM. When I was in 8th grade my male friend asked me out and I told them I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go out with him and I remember my uncle telling me that just because someone gave me attention, did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:10 AM |
| 23 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Prince Charles too - he met Diana while he was dating her sister. She was 16 when they met and 19 when they got married. He was 32 at their wedding. He married a teenager. I think the whole world agrees he sucks tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleOmg this dude gets hammered in the comments section. I sincerely hope this is a troll but I think it’s true. He really thinks he knows better....as one of my favorite you tubers says, men in their late 20s are at the “peak douche” stage of their lives and this is a perfect showcase of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 29 | I am so glad I didn't get marriedHoly bullet dodged Batman!!! Can you imagine if you put his name on a mortgage!? I hope you have a nice chunk in the bank from all that hard work. Have a glass of wine, breathe a big giant sigh and relief and know he is someone else’s problem tonight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 26 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??I totally can! I have a YT channel called Meghan Grace DIY, lots of fun tutorials and costuming stuff, feel free to find me there id be more than happy to help!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:59 PM |
| 24 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??Its insane. But its all about what will sell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 29 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??Yea movie costumes are pretty bug offenders. Most historic movie costumes are over sexualized to appeal to a mass audience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:10 PM |
| 93 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??I think whats also bad is couples costumes that like...aren’t a romantic thing, like brother sister costumes but worn by a couple. Its super weird. Im also over seeing harley and the joker, jack skellington and sally and the couple from pulp fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 27 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??I love costumes that have like a pun...like one year i was a bumble bee with velcro letters...spelling bee!! Insert rim shot here!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:54 PM |
| 81 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??Ugh god i know...the cheap fabric and production of commercially produced costumes makes me want to die inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:34 PM |
| 23 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??I love this costume!! You guys look so happy :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 2 | The only advice needed is to break up, delete and block the liarI’m sorry I’m so confused about the timeline here. They have been dating for 3 years, serious enough to be planning to get married. I would assume that means they spend a very decent amount of time together. If the mother abandoned the child 4 years ago, wouldn’t the child be living with him? How did he hide a kid he was taking care of for 3 years??? Like didn’t get have toys at his house or need to get a sitter every time they went on a date? This whole story makes no sorta sense. If he can hid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 9 | I don’t know if you’ve guys have seen this account. But it’s literally just the husband “simping” over his wife even after 24 years of marriage. And I’m down for it, it’s so bloody cute.This is so sweet. Absolute couples goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:45 PM |
| 39 | Again with the height thing....I am a professional costume designer and have measured TONS of people, guys almost always lie about their height on their resumes by adding an inch or so and girls almost always round down. If this dude was 6’ he probably had 6’ 2” in his bio and she would have seen that at the beginning, so he just made himself look crazy. But yea this is total bs but it was posted in a legit bad date fb group. Most of the comments called the dude an incel or atleast called out his rediculous bitterness toward … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:39 PM |
| 54 | Again with the height thing....100% didn’t happen. But the fact that some dude is trying to pretend this happened makes it even worse!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:40 PM |
| 521 | Why do men get so angry when women like tall men?I got chewed at in some other sub for saying I was attracted to tall men. I’m 5’ 10” and most guys shorter than me don’t want to date me. I was actually dumped once because the guy was uncomfortable being with a girl as tall as me. So men can f* all the way off with their anger about girls wanting a taller guy. Plus who ever is mad is absolutely short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:30 PM |
| 36 | The lies of the 90s - the "romantic" red flagsWith all the movies that are like “were suddenly in love and getting married” I’m like hold on...how do I know if you chew with your mouth closed? Do you leave wet towels on the floor? Are you going to do laundry and dishes!? That vetting process is way to short sis!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | If he’s a mama’s boy, next him. You’ll have two people making your life miserable instead of just the oneIt’s so bad because for our own sanity, myself and my mothers twin sister have to just...stay away. I may look into the elder abuse thing that the other poster said because my mom is 69, but I think my mom would just say everything is fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | My favorite YouTuber reflects back on finding out her husband cheated...every woman needs to watch this QUEEN 👸🏼Right!? I need one too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:07 PM |
| 3 | My favorite YouTuber reflects back on finding out her husband cheated...every woman needs to watch this QUEEN 👸🏼I started watching her beginning of 2020 when she was a small channel, like maybe 30k subs. I have a small YouTube channel, at the time I was just growing over 1k so her channel is really helpful but once she started to blow up it seemed like her personal life fell apart and I immediately went to “she must be giving all her time to work and not leaving anything for personal life” and that scared me because I have a tendency to do that too and I was afraid if my channel ever blew up my relationsh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:06 PM |
| 10 | My favorite YouTuber reflects back on finding out her husband cheated...every woman needs to watch this QUEEN 👸🏼Her dog fancy is literally the best. I was watching she all this went down and I was so happy she was keeping the dog. My bf asked once who gets our dog if we break up and without hesitation I said I do. I’ve raised him. He’s been a part of it...but i bought him, schedule his vet visits and and take him to training. He’s my baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:11 AM |
| 39 | My favorite YouTuber reflects back on finding out her husband cheated...every woman needs to watch this QUEEN 👸🏼There is some fluff at the beginning but she gets into it around 5:40. I know it’s a long one but so so so worth a listen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 07:24 PM |
| 60 | If he’s a mama’s boy, next him. You’ll have two people making your life miserable instead of just the oneThere is a whole other sub devoted to this but I have the same situation with my sister. She’s almost 40 and still living with my mom, constant victim, always talks of doing all these things but then has a million reasons why she can’t. When you reach adulthood I think you start to think about “yes I love my family but do I like them?” And my sister is a very unlikable person. My mothers enablement has all but destroyed our relationship. It’s really sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | I am so triggered by cardboard cutouts if the grooms face at my former students bridal showerTravel bachelorette parties are another pet peeve of mine. Like you don’t get to make all your friends pay for a 4 day trip to Vegas because your getting married. I think it’s really self centered to not realize just how much a wedding costs for the bridesmaids/other people close to the bride. I was a bridesmaid for a close friend like right out of college and the dress was $300. I barely had furniture in my apartment...lord knows I couldn’t afford a $300 dress. A friend had to loan me money to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Girl, just no. And of course he’s turning 40 and she’s early 20s!!! Nooooo.Someone I worked with had a similar story of the guy before her husband. They were together for a really long time, like 8 years or something, and it turned out he had a whole other relationship and he was telling his family that she was obsessed with him and if he didn’t keep talking to her she would harm herself. Like thank god it all fell apart but that level of lying, it should be criminal because you are destroying everyone around you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 12:03 PM |
| 2 | I am so triggered by cardboard cutouts if the grooms face at my former students bridal showerYea I usually unfollow people who post nothing but wedding stuff once they get engaged or nothing but baby stuff once they get pregnant. I just don’t need to see it everyday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:38 PM |
| 7 | I am so triggered by cardboard cutouts if the grooms face at my former students bridal showerYea I’ve got one particular person who posts constantly about her relationship. Constantly. And then they broke up and she had moved in with a new guy within weeks and is now posting all about the new guy. And trashing the old bf. So clearly it wasn’t that good if now he’s a psycho right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:56 PM |
| 14 | I am so triggered by cardboard cutouts if the grooms face at my former students bridal showerYea I have to picture someone at a print store making these things. Like thankfully he’s a decent looking dude but imagine with some balding less then stellar looking dudes head on a stick being waved around???? I’m dying. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 07:26 PM |
| 31 | I am so triggered by cardboard cutouts if the grooms face at my former students bridal showerTrust me I thought the same. And there were lots of different shots of her posing with the cut outs, there was one on a stick that they held during group shots....just like what fresh hell is this. She doesn’t have enough pictures of them together, when they aren’t together they need a picture of him there?? Jesus. I don’t know if it was this sub (I think it was) but a woman posted to make sure you take pictures by yourself while in a relationship because she had just broken up and realized she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 27 | I am so triggered by cardboard cutouts if the grooms face at my former students bridal showerI don’t want to know this is a trend - grosssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Dude abandons his girl at the hospital after surgery to see an “important” football game and she thinks she’s being dramaticI don’t think she is. Her responses to everyone’s comments made me really sad. She 100% defends this dude. She met him while he was married (4 years ago, so when she was 22/23 and he was 34/35), then he got a divorce 2 years later and a few months after that they moved in together, right before the pandemic. He’s got her super manipulated and she’s probably never had a big relationship before this guy. He even went into work instead of working from home like he had initially planned to take care… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Rejection is a ScamDamn I wish 28 year old me could have read this. I was rejected by this ugly fat not nice guy and it TWISTED me up. I was as fit as I had ever been, had a great job, had just tried out for project runway, was killing it in every other way possible...but this social studies teacher didn’t want me and that was all that mattered. I want to shake her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:05 PM |
| 4 | I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a BushOmg if the is actually becomes a movie it will be the rom com from hell and probably win an Oscar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:47 PM |
| 40 | Girl, just no. And of course he’s turning 40 and she’s early 20s!!! Nooooo.If this isn’t fake...my money is on married with kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 5 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsYes yes! So this is one of our favorite memories from Thailand - my bf does Mt and it’s been a life long dream of his to train in a real mt gym in Thailand. So we found one and he did one private and one group class. I loved watching him get sweaty :) Anyway he exchanged info with his trainer and that night he texted him and said we could meet him at a real mt fight. It was this under ground ring in Ching mai, kids from like 10 years old having matches up to the top level fighters. We had a box … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsOmg couples goals right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 12:11 PM |
| 5 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsThis is exactly what we want to do...we keep talking about what we could do work wise to be able to travel more. I have a small YouTube channel that if it ever got bigger I could totally do it from anywhere and my bf does tech so he really could work from anywhere is a different role but right now he has a really good job as a tech for an elementary building with great pay and time off. We do have a puppy tho and he would need to come with us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsIs Italian not such a sexy language???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 11:03 AM |
| 8 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsThis is all so typical. I saw a guy at the airport just drop his bags at his partners feet and demand “watch this” and just wander off. The worst offender I dated was just so against anything that wasn’t a trip to like a Florida amusement park. No cruises because he would get car sick. Sushi? Gross that’s raw. Why have wine when you can have beer. Just nothing outside the comfort zone. There is so much out there that I want someone who is open to new experiences like I am. I will try anything on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsIt’s such a sappy story. I started in a school district a few years ago and was doing a training at another building and saw this really cute guy walking in and out of his office. A year later her was transferred to my life building as the computer tech. I was an assistant principal so we had to communicate a lot because of testing and tech for students. At the end of the school year I left and a week after I left he asked me out. I was over the moon :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:51 AM |
| 9 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsThat’s good that they balance each other - honestly traveling helped me realize some areas that I could improve. I get cranky when I’m hungry and can get kinda snappy. Being aware of that this trip and getting food when needed helped make me a more HVW in a few situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 10 | Traveling with your partner will separate the HVMs from the LVMsI think you would be ok - almost everyone speaks English and there are tons of expats. The rooms and food are dirt cheap and beaches in phi phi island and Phuket are the most beautiful places on this earth. Also grab (their version of Uber) is very helpful in getting around!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Beware the ones who “forget their wallet,” ladies.Charcuterie is the food of the gods and wasted on most men. On a very early date with my bf we got a charcuterie plate and he had never had one before (I mean a proper one). Now he’s obsessed and looks up different combinations he can make for us. With wine of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Oh no honey, that’s not something to be proud ofShe basically paying him $100/hr for work he should be doing himself as an adult. Kids don’t get paid that high for chores. What in the actual hell is this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 08:10 PM |
| 55 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?I think we often see men who are friends with women as a good thing. I was reading a post in another thread the other day about a guy who admitted his feelings to his female friend after a few years and she turned him down and blocked him and everyone in the comments was calling the girl awful names saying she was horrible and mean. Ummm no this dude was waiting in the wings to bang her, probably being creepy and she had to block him to make him stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 04:06 PM |
| 88 | Strategy/ Mentality Shift Suggestion: How about we stop thanking men for acting like we’re the catch?She gives me major pickme energy which is a shame! She’s really a full package!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 10:17 AM |
| 6 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meI find the opening super creepy. Like he has been clearly chilling in the side lines...claiming he’s her friend waiting for YEARS to slip it in. He knows she doesn’t need him, for money, for sex, for anything...and he hates her for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 08:47 PM |
| 11 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.And what’s crazy is good is one of the best parts of traveling! Don’t you want your loved one there to taste things and talk about it with you? I’m in Italy with my bf and firstly he was brought up it’s rude to be eating when someone you are with isn’t but like everything we have eaten here has been the absolute best version of that thing we’ve ever had. I can’t imagine going out to eat to tell you gf afterwards how awesome it was...don’t you want them to taste it? To share your amazement?? I re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 03:23 PM |
| 7 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.I read through the original post and my opinion is that this is fake. But on the off chance it’s not....holy sh*t. I can’t imagine this level of unawareness. The other thing too is when you work in public education...you get far more taken out of your paycheck than the private sector. When I worked k-12 I had over $300 a month taken out for my pension, another $200 for the Union, and was contributing to a 403b. That’s an easy 8k a year, and when your only making 45k that’s a HUGE chunk of your p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 09:58 AM |
| 16 | Couldn't have said it betterI have bright pink hair right now and I’m visiting Italy with my bf who speaks Spanish...he can understand a good amount of Italian and beard a woman very enthusiastically saying “her hair!! It’s so beautiful!!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:41 AM |
| 6 | Men don't want a FWBI recently found out what sapiosexual means...attracted to someone based on their mind/intelligence. That’s another one that I was surprised we needed separate category for that, should you be attracted to the mind body and heart of the person your with?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 10 | Men don't want a FWBI think that’s just it, a lot of women pretend they don’t have feelings...and even if you don’t at the beginning they will eventually bubble up. I really don’t think a fwb relationship can be “successful” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 09:10 PM |
| 21 | "right person, wrong timing"I hate to say I agree with this assessment. I think because women are the safe place to fall (vs make friends) a man going through a tough time is more likely to drag a woman into a falsely close relationship instead of just disappearing. I hate to say I think he freaked and ghosted and needed a reason to not feel crappy. I wonder if you found him on social media if he posted anything to imply how things are going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Comments are all like "Shes a keeper", "queen shit"Firstly - put a warning alert on this...this is NASTY!! Secondly - how do your feet even GET THIS BAD?????? Thirdly - if a dude had feet like that and tried to get in bed with me??? Nah. That’s not happening. Go scrape your crusty feet against someone else!!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Seemingly HV until you find out how he wants to raise your childrenAyup. I was the one who posted the other day that my puppy freaked out and pooped all over our apt. My bf just me sit on the couch with him, calming him down (the puppy) and cleaned up everything. It took him a solid 45 minutes. Made me feel better that he won’t freak if our baby has a blow out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 03:08 PM |
| 29 | Seemingly HV until you find out how he wants to raise your childrenMan this is hard to read but so important. I know a dog is not a child, but I would like to say adopting a dog together gives you the teeniest peek into how he will be as a father. My bf and I adopted a dog in January and it forced us to talk through many situations that easily could have been situations with a child. We enrolled our puppy in puppy kindergarten which was a 6 week course that really trained the owner to handle a dog well. We went together to every session. It was very telling whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Avoid chasing after low effort men and wasting your energy on a one-sided relationshipGod this is an exact description of me in my 20s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 01:35 AM |
| 12 | Do not tolerate LVM just because they’re family.This is insane and I’m so sorry it happened. Hopefully it’s ok to tell you to check out justnofamily - a it’s a group that supports people with toxic family issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | She’s 19 and pregnant by a 28 y/o 🤡 The age gap strikes again! 🤢🤢🤢NJ - our large metroplitan areas have a very high immigrant population | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 12:50 PM |
| 14 | Has anyone else had this pop up on their Instagram feed being promoted by influencers? I don't even really know what to say. It appears to be a new dating app with a "bedroom feature" where you select your preferences.Is this supposed to mean furries? I had to get in the shower to wash my puppy today and I wore a bathing suit because I felt weird about him seeing me naked!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 01:44 AM |
| 5 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??I hate to say I feel like she is being a little dramatic. She will most likely be able to go back to some kind of job in her field, I really doubt all STEM careers are going to ban her for life!! And then when she said it will take YEARS for him to recoup the loss of moving he’s been working in that career for what...10 years? Cops retire after 25 years so he could technically retire at 47...so now he retires at 57 instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 30 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??If she says she has know this guy since being in the military, then most likely she’s known him most of her adult life. I feel like the dude blew her off for a while and then came around when he wasn’t getting anything better, hence the desperation. He’s gotta knock her down a few pegs so of course she needs to leave her high paying job. She needs to CoMpRoMiSe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 10:32 PM |
| 23 | I can’t unsee this now…Definitely this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:53 PM |
| 6 | I am so sick of hearing how men don't care about heightI was dumped by a guy for being taller than him. I’m 5’ 10” and he was 5’ 9”. I went out and bought all the cute flats so I wouldn’t make him feel bad. When he dumped me I pulled all the heels out of the closet!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 06:01 PM |
| 14 | What’s with some scrotes’ obsession with high school life when they’re well into adulthood???I feel like kind of a jerk saying this but when I see pictures of girls I went to hs with all still hanging out together I feel kinda sad. I mean that’s awesome you are still hanging with friends from your childhood, but didn’t you ever want to grow beyond that? Move to a different city...experience a different life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:57 PM |
| 12 | If he did not ask you to be his girlfriend YOU’RE SINGLEOr out of pressure from their gf. I wonder what the percentage is if couples get engaged (aka the shut up ring) but never actually get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:54 PM |
| 7 | She’s 19 and pregnant by a 28 y/o 🤡 The age gap strikes again! 🤢🤢🤢I used to be a vice principal for a very low income school district. ALOT of the girls had boyfriends that were in their late 20s that lived in either DR or PR, with a whole other wife/gf and kids. So these dudes would come to the states, knock up their 14-16 y/o gf and then go back to their home country. And they would get pregnant in clusters so if we found out one was pregnant, there were almost always another 5 or 6 to follow. It was so sad because we knew once they had the baby there was a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:52 PM |
| 31 | If he did not ask you to be his girlfriend YOU’RE SINGLEMy bf made a joke about us being “stuck together” and I laughed out loud and went “do you see a ring on this finger? I ain’t stuck with anyone!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 10 | If he did not ask you to be his girlfriend YOU’RE SINGLEI saw a statistic that if a couple moves in together the chances of them getting married is 85%. But if the man waits over 18 months to propose, the percent drops to 11%. Men just be running out the clock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:43 PM |
| 45 | If He Wanted To, He Would: A Short StoryUghhhh I had a friend whose husband was absolutely NV. We went to the mall once (all three of us) when she was about 7 months pregnant and I forget exactly what happened but she got held up at the car (I think she needed her water bottle or dropped it under the car or something). This guy gets annoyed at his 7 months pregnant wife holding him up and walks off without her. And she just kinda sighed. I felt really bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:13 PM |
| 7 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??Good lord this was awful. I am in higher education and I make GARBAGE money, if she has a job that pays that much she needs to hold on to it for dear life!!!! All for a long distance dude!? Who the heck knows who he actually is!!!! I hate to say I feel like she is super hung up on the getting married part that the rest doesn’t matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:09 PM |
| 90 | To have the audacity of a white man...It never occurred to me that guys try to rent a room with a woman for the sake of having a clean apartment...jeez louise!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:32 PM |
| 3 | A hard part of FDS for me has been seeing the LV behaviors of my male family membersI didn’t really date much in Hs/college because most of the guys I knew were gross. I couldn’t wrap my brain around putting my mouth on their mouth, it just completely repulsed me. I honestly thought for a bit I was asexual or something, but thankfully my brain was just rejecting the grossness. I can’t imagine having to remind my bf to brush his teeth!!! 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:30 PM |
| 11 | I feel like I saw my Past Pickme self standing in front of me in line today... Thank God for FDSGod I can’t stand the Bachelor. Do any of these girls consider if they actually like him?? That part just never made sense to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 10:23 AM |
| 33 | We don’t want love as much as we think we doLord this rings home for all those girls who got married in their 20s, had the giant wedding, and now have the house and the 2.5 kids and are looking at their life at 35 and are like “why am I not happy??” And I tell you what, I have a friend who is 42 who I thought was 25 when I met her. She spoke the truth “I look this good because I don’t have a man and kids stressing me out” get it queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 12:59 PM |
| 5 | I came across this on Tumblr and had to share it. THIS is what love looks like, day to day. ❤️ - Text is from "Your Faithful Servant" by S. Bear Bergman)Yea I agree. That’s why it’s important to be a HVF in return. But it’s hard to find someone not already jaded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:22 PM |
| 13 | I came across this on Tumblr and had to share it. THIS is what love looks like, day to day. ❤️ - Text is from "Your Faithful Servant" by S. Bear Bergman)I went with my bf to get something at Home Depot yesterday and I stayed in the car while he ran in. A few seconds later he popped back in the car to turn the volume on the radio down. He had his phone playing through the radio and when the phone disconnects the regular radio comes on, usually really loud. He didn’t want it to hurt my ears. I couldn’t believe he even thought of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:21 PM |
| 35 | FDS cured some major wedding FOMOSame with the whole white button shirt (undone at the neck with no tie) and linen pants. And worst of all...barefoot. The typical beach wedding vibe. It has to be one of the lowest effort wedding looks just above a tux tshirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Men lack selfawarenessAyup I’ve gotten that comment too - I lost about 60lbs and got waaaay more body comments when I was in the healthy range then when I was over weight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Men lack selfawarenessI had a HS teacher who would make comments to girls if they had a snack in class - “once on the lips is forever on the hips!” Now that I am an adult and a teacher I realize what LVM bs that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:00 AM |
| 4 | Marriage Benefits Men!The marriage industry itself it’s a giant scam too. I’ve watched a bunch of videos where people call vendors saying they are having a wedding and get a quote and then call and say they are having a birthday and the quotes are ALWAYS higher. I’m glad that covid made the “backyard” wedding a more normal thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 11:53 PM |
| 21 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???When you find a guy who pays attention to the little details about your life an accommodates them - then that’s HV. I find that women do his automatically and men have to work at it. Of all the relationships I’ve had, the guy I’m dating now is the FIRST who respected the fact that I sew. I learned to sew when I was 8, did costumes all through HS, went to fashion school, made figure skating costumes for the olympics, tried out for project runway, have a monetized YouTube sewing channel and I am c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 6 | This is on the front page of Reddit- disgustingLol I didn’t even know there was a front page other than my own feed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 12:11 PM |
| 29 | Basically sounds like what most men can offerIs “hits the stratosphere” good here or bad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:50 AM |
| 33 | Why does this man feel the need to go out of his way to ask for pats on the back for something so mundane. Wow congrats you have empathy which is the bare minimum we expect from people. Idk gives me nice / woke boi vibesThis dude is absolutely grooming this poor girl. The whole “things turned personal pretty quick” is creepy. For ages people have had professional, non personal relationships with colleagues. You can talk to a work colleague without getting into personal deets, frankly a lot of people live by that motto. Also of all the friends I’ve noticed go from bf to bf, the dude in the peripheral always starts out as the sounding board about the current bf. She’ll start out with “well things might not be tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:43 PM |
| 48 | Why does this man feel the need to go out of his way to ask for pats on the back for something so mundane. Wow congrats you have empathy which is the bare minimum we expect from people. Idk gives me nice / woke boi vibesAnd the whole “we got the personal topics pretty quick”...the reeks of grooming to me. I wonder who she will turn to when things go bad with the bf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:39 PM |
| 43 | Yes! Finally my taste for FDS content got picked up by Instagram algorithm 😂This girl is a belly dancing queeeeeeennnnnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:33 PM |
| 11 | When the mask comes offI know the husband is absolute garbage fire here but the friends too!!! What the hell!? Not surprised he is surrounded by NVM. Laughing at prostituting your friends wife?? That’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:34 PM |
| 26 | Yes! I always felt that people gave too much shit to Miranda and none to LVM Nate 🙄Omg I love this - and Nate was a little b*tch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:25 PM |
| 6 | I have no wordsI have endo and the period after surgery is RAGING HELL. Your body is adjusting to the lack of scar tissue emitting hormones and it’s not just the vagina canal that’s in pain, it’s your entire abdomen. What a garbage fire man child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:13 AM |
| 42 | Why do people measure the success and happiness of a women based on her relationship status? (Long story)They eventually stop and then they get jealous you didn’t get locked down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?I can’t believe this. I could never get in bed with this man again. And anyone notice it’s ALWAYS with a man that’s way older than the girl? Like 32M 24F? Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | This guy gets it.My bf was also raised that he is the man, he treats. Gets him in trouble though because he’s gone to work functions and been like “let me get you a drink” to work colleagues (he works in an elementary school so it’s all women) and they will totally take it like he’s hitting on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 19 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️Oh I’m def going to look it up. I have a YouTube channel and EVERYONE keeps telling me to get on tik tok a d I’m just not a fan. The whole company is sketchy. And then tik tokers will upload the same content to YouTube shorts and get millions view. It’s kinda frustrating :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:41 PM |
| 18 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️I also love this song! One of the first tik toker songs that is decent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:41 PM |
| 6 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamI was like...he does know what he looks like right? Like shoot for the moon I guess but don’t get all butt hurt when a chic who spends a lot of time taking care of herself expects the same in return! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:26 PM |
| 73 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamHappy cake 🍰 day! My bf is a firefighter and his chief is single. He’s got his stuff together on paper, he’s 30, owns a house, is a chief which is the highest rank in a fire house, so he’s not a total mess. At a party this weekend a mutual friend said she was on the lookout for a girl for him, that he can’t seem to find a solid relationship. The dude just isn’t good looking. He’s pretty over weight and on the shorter side, like 5’ 8”. In the past year he seems to have gotten on a better diet pla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Polyamory foibles - my experience and some cautionary advice for queens on the fence (don’t do it).I’ve seen that bs phrasing on profiles too - what an absolute crock. It’s the new “I can’t show my pictures for work reasons”. I would love to make one of them explain what that actually means to them but I don’t want to lose iq points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:13 PM |
| 55 | Don't be a weekday chick!He’s not cheating on her if he doesn’t acknowledge their relationship... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:44 PM |
| 48 | My self-esteem glow-up since FDS:I was editing my latest YouTube video over the past few days and I was like “damn my hair looks GREAT”. I dyed it teal April and it faded out to a really pretty mint green and my blue eyes were just poppin. It was all working and it’s not often that we look at ourselves and go “I look really freakin good” but yea...I look really freakin good 😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:17 PM |
| 13 | Ain't that the truth. 💅🏽😙 It barely takes an year to figure that outIt’s gotta be over a year - atleast on your end. You need to do a full calendar year to see all their triggers and weird times of the year...you never know if they have a weird anniversary coming up that you want to see how they react. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:51 PM |
| 24 | This was posted in a subreddit (which I can't name as to not break FDS rules) where users share "cringe" content. I fail to see what's "cringe" about a woman having standards? This is why males on Reddit are singleWhat rabbit hole did you guys just send me down!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:24 PM |
| 56 | Men: Marriage is till death do us part, not till "I don't feel like it anymore". Time to get off your entitled high horse.I have two couples in my life that genuinely have good marriages. They are both in their 50s. They are both amazing positive women in their own right and their husbands know they are lucky. One of them has beat breast cancer twice and her husband has been by her side through it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:19 PM |
| 18 | Weird "Male oppression" myths on redditI feel like I have noticed far more male “compliments” since I got a dog. I take him to the park and I get a lot of dudes who see it as an in...like “oh man what a cool dog, oh wow you’ve got really cool hair too!” And then try to chat me up. Here’s a fun fact, I’m trying to train my puppy. I don’t need you coming up and interrupting that! I actually bought my puppy a vest that says “in training” to stop people from coming up to pet him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 12:42 PM |
| 5 | No, This Is Not NormalOmg this is so adorable. I have two cats and when my bf moved in he was really apprehensive about the cats. The cats willingly accepted him and we adopted a French bull dog puppy in January. I love our animal house! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | The Irritating Gentleman, by German artist Berthold Woltze (1874) https://i.imgur.com/HMa0cro.jpg (saw this on another subreddit)Yes you are correct! I got the stages mixed up...Queen Victoria really made women’s fashion after rehearsal death of a loved one a dismal affair!! https://www.google.com/amp/s/enoughofthistomfoolery.wordpress.com/2016/07/17/women-in-black-mourning-fashion-and-etiquette-1870-1939/amp/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 08:51 PM |
| 38 | The Irritating Gentleman, by German artist Berthold Woltze (1874) https://i.imgur.com/HMa0cro.jpg (saw this on another subreddit)That was my first thought is for that time period, a woman (more specifically a widow) would dress entirely in black for 3 months. That dude SHOULD be aware of this tradition and mind his own business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:07 AM |
| 66 | How involuntary is male celibacy?I feel like when guys hear “hit the gym” they immediately think “oh girls only want a chad with 6 pack abs” and that’s not the case at all. Working out is good for your brain, which is good for your mood. It generally makes you happier. Sweating is usually good for you your skin, it gives you a glow and gives you more energy. So overall, you don’t have to be super fit but taking care of yourself by working out regularly is very sexy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!They had all been friends for a while and I had been introduced to the group a few years prior since I had just moved to the state. Honestly they did me a favor, I was young and didn’t have great boundaries then and now that I’m older and look back it was absolutely for the better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 55 | What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks?They don’t call thin and tall men a tripod for no reason 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:03 PM |
| 16 | Is anyone really surprised about this?Holy crap I never looked at it this way. I always felt so bad for the girls who got married off so young and their first sexual experience is that night with someone you barely know. I feel like I would be terrified. And I’m sure you can’t say no if your not ready. It’s gods will. Just makes me so sad for all the girls in these types of situations that don’t have a choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 48 | Since y’all liked the first one so muchThis is hilarious but I also just need to say I love that top and matching earrings, girl is working that style! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:49 AM |
| 145 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!Omg yes there was like a whole 4 course meal of bullshit going on. The guy had a lap band and lost 100lbs. Good for him but he still wasn’t what I would consider attractive but since he started to get more female attention he thought he was gods gift to women reborn. After his wife and the other women of the group made it clear I wasn’t welcome I was super confused. Finally my friend who introduced me to this group of people confronted me about my “behavior” - because this dude had been telling … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:37 AM |
| 83 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!And looks is great but he is also genuinely a good dude. He opens the car door. He pulls out my chair. We’ve been dating 5 years and he’s away this weekend with his best guy friend on a trip and he sent me a video saying he misses me. A few months into dating him when I met his mother she pulled me aside and said “my son, he treats you well?” And I was like “oh of course, he’s a total gentleman” and she was like “good. If he ever doesn’t, you come tell me” I just hugged her and silently thanked … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:22 AM |
| 56 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!Beard that connects 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 27 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!This is it I swear - heave forbid I say my bf is hot, it’s like not allowed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:37 AM |
| 205 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!I’m in my 30s and most of my friends, coworkers, whatever have long been married since their 20s. When I met my current boyfriend it was just like animal lust - he’s 6ft, fit, gorgeous caramel smooth skin, thick black hair, sexy Latin man. And good lord...blew every guy I ever dated/had sex with out of the water. And I swear to god it was like a dirty word for me to be excited over how hot he is or how great the sex is. Like none of my friends wanted to hear it. And I look now and all their husb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:35 AM |
| 211 | Stop dating men that you aren't attracted to! Stop giving ugly a chance!I got basically black listed from a group of friends because one of the chics thought I was going after her husband....I was just like uhhhh no. Never. Not in 1,000 years am I touching that with a 10 foot pole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:19 AM |
| 5 | I DIED With This! HILARIOUS!!Omg omg omg....omg I’m crying so hard. I’m in a relationship but if I ever go on a first date again I’m playing this before I go. I also just got a French bull dog so.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:04 AM |
| 69 | The Kind of HVMBoth of these people are amazing! I hate to say I see far too many women who don’t have a “thing” and that’s when they have too much energy to focus on why that guy doesn’t like her. Over the pandemic I started a YouTube channel and my built me a credenza to store all my supplies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Another truth bomb from this guy!This guy might convince me to get tik tok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 4 | Yep...I just got a frenchie and I feel so unsafe walking him at any time without my bf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 48 | Male Egos are so fucking fragile.D’angelo wallace is brilliant - I can’t believe he’s only like 22, I feel like he’s going to somewhere in terms of journalism and documentaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Indeed, how dares she to think of not going nun after break-up with a man?I looked this up because I was curious and all the articles paint Irina like she’s some witch who just wouldn’t relax and have a good time, what absolute garbage and so is our media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:34 AM |
| 30 | If this isn't Queen Energy I don't know what is! Makes me happy to see a woman on tiktok showing what it means to be a HVW 👑Awwww I wish it showed the final product after all her hard work!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Beauty standards are a prison.I pulled out my prom pictures the other day for a lecture on fashion in the 1990s and I was so pretty!!! I told the girls in my class that they are so much prettier then they are giving themselves credit for right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 12:59 AM |
| 7 | I just get more and more flabbergasted with what women put themselves through to be in a relationship. I just think it's just so sad they don't have self-respect enough to drop a guy like this.I threw up in my mouth a little bit reading this! How do you make out with that!? Let alone have sex!?!? Bleeeccchhhhhhh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:54 AM |
| 66 | No thank you sir.I think it’s funny that he stalked my profile so hard he missed the fact that I’m in a happy relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 89 | Single dad “can’t make you the center of his world” yet.... can’t leave women alone. Four kids and two baby mamas, this guy is a catch! Leave women alone and raise your kids!Something tells me this dude didn’t make women number one without the kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:54 PM |
| 17 | This guyI can’t stand when they put in their profile “keeps in shape” - translates to unrealistic Instagram model. I keep in shape, I work out and I play a sport. When I go to the dr and get blood work or other tests done, I’m in great health for a 30 something year old. But my BMI standards I’m a little overweight. I’m 5’ 10” and weight 185. I got a little extra cushion around my midsection but for all intents and purposes I’m “in shape” but I bet to this guy I’m fat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 11 | The "other woman" should be an ally, not an enemy. Instead of getting mad at the other woman, you two should be working together to get revenge on the man who cheated you both 😈😈😈I did not know this in my old OLD days but now I get why these idiots were like “I can’t have pictures on here because of my job” what absolute bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:11 PM |
| 7 | The "other woman" should be an ally, not an enemy. Instead of getting mad at the other woman, you two should be working together to get revenge on the man who cheated you both 😈😈😈They have them on snap chat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 13 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?I remember in my mid 20s I worked with this guy who bragged about only dating “younger” girls but would then bitch about them dicking him around. He was in his late 30s and he was dating college girls. I asked him one day if I was too old for him and he snuggly answered yup and then two days later he was bitching that he spent all this money to take a girl out and in his perceived mind she screwed him over some way. My response was like “what do you expect when you date girls way too young for y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?STOPPPPP - I watch so much YouTube and I have never tumbled down this rabbit whole...I’m 35 so that makes me damaged goods??? No no no that makes me financial smart and aware of who I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:38 PM |
| 22 | That time my ex complained to me that the girl he was trying to cheat with was only trying to sign him up for a multi-level marketing schemeWhat the hell is this crap!? Atleast the guys who cheated on me had the courtesy to take the trash out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | I’m sick of being “trapped” into conversations with menYes I hate that I feel uncomfortable being home alone. I also had another weird issue with a guy who lives on the other side of the complex who happened to be the manager of the restaurant we threw my bf’s moms surprise 70th at - he gave me his number to set up the details but proceeded to text me “good morning beautiful” until I blocked him afterward. He lives with his wife and daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:34 PM |
| -8 | What are you ladies opinion on this? Do men deserve a material gift? I think that Valentines day is for us Women and my presence is the present! I don't like the idea of going big... My Lv ex wanted us to be set on a (equal) spending limit for both of us. Never againI bought him fancy cookies and he gets my cookie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:38 AM |
| 12 | I’m sick of being “trapped” into conversations with menThat’s what I had today but I have very low profile ones that you can’t tell I’m wearing - I going to wear my more obvious white apple ones next time. I feel like headphones are the universal signal for I don’t want to talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:29 AM |
| 32 | I’m sick of being “trapped” into conversations with menGod I can’t with men who don’t shut up. And using your precious 15 mins off just to stroke his ego. So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:27 AM |
| 15 | I’m sick of being “trapped” into conversations with menRight!? The teacher dude one day came out when my boss was siting with me going over my evaluation. He just butted into our convo thinking he was invited. He did not take the hint that it was a private professional conversation about my work. Holy shit was I embarrassed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:26 AM |
| 3 | The amount of women in the comments who are going through the same thing as the woman in the video is too many. We need to stop the abuse and we do that by vetting hard, blocking/deleting at the FIRST red flag. Even if that flag is microscopic. If that means being single forever than sobeitThe middle finger at the end is the smoothest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 7 | This post will haunt my dreamsI feel like there was no bigger display of this then the recent riots. After the shock of the insanity wore off...I was sitting there thinking this has to be the ugliest collection of overweight weak chinned white dudes I’ve ever seen. I squeezed my tall dark Latin man a little tighter that night!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:44 PM |
| 3 | This post will haunt my dreamsRight!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:41 PM |
| 2 | This post will haunt my dreamsOmg dying at “whoops my bra popped off!” One of my favorite youtubers is alpha m and he does have some very “masculine” content, but he does a lot of hygiene videos for men that should be common sense but someone needs to tell guys if you don’t smell good, no girl is coming near you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:41 PM |
| 3 | This post will haunt my dreamsYea like everyone gets dry. If your looking for stuff to try, I LOVE the body polish from European wax center as a skin exfoliant. I always get compliments on my soft skin on my legs and it’s 100% that stuff with aveeno lotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:39 PM |
| 3 | I just read 85% of affairs start in the workplaceYea sometimes the woman sucks real hard too. When I met my bf there was another girl he had hooked up with once at his work but he had long told her he just wanted to be friends and then we became serious. But in his head they could just be friends and that would be fine. She didn’t get that memo and thought him talking to her meant he still had feelings for her. They didn’t text, weren’t friends on social media, he didn’t even go to social events for work because he knew she would be there. Yet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:38 AM |
| 88 | This post will haunt my dreamsHe’s a good looking dude but they don’t get how goddamn fast things like crap attitude and not taking care of yourself will take a man from an 8 to a -2 REAL FAST | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.Oh he told you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 30 | This post will haunt my dreamsRight?? We all get dusty...it’s winter. But take care if that sh*t. Get some lotion for $3 at Walmart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 11:42 PM |
| 7 | The sexism on mainstream RedditStop it with this nonsense. My bf prides himself on smelling good. And god does he smell good, it’s one of the biggest things that attracted me to him. But of course he gets hit on all the time by women saying omg you smell so good. Is the bar really that low!? Guys just shower and find a nice cologne it’s not that hard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Almost burnt outAwwww that’s very sweet. Glad the mom wasn’t a crazy helicopter parent like “watch it your hurting my daughter!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:51 PM |
| 19 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?Omg I just cried laughing at this...they do ALL. MAKE. THAT. FACE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:45 PM |
| 10 | When men think your options will dwindle without their golden penisOne of my friends told me her fiancé told her she wouldn’t find any one better. I burst out laughing and told her to walk to the nearest and find 8 dicks ready to go. Fucking hilarious they think we can’t do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:28 PM |
| 30 | The double standard is astoundingGod if I could count the times someone jumped down my throat for saying I found my bf’s height attractive...like I’m not allowed to or something. I’m 5’ 10” and i like to wear heels. I’ve been dumped by a guy who was uncomfortable with the fact that I’m taller than him. So excuse me for looking for a guy over 6ft. Atleast Im with a guy who loves being with a girl who is model tall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedGood girl. God I can imagine him groping me after I said no, I would have tuck and rolled out of the car. I’m like you...I take a long time to wake up and if you pressure me then the wall goes UP. Three dates would not be enough to want to sleep with someone I just met. Shivers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:33 PM |
| 8 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedJust curious did you answer? Or just leave that ridiculous text on read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 5 | notice the double standardRihanna said it best...”if you want a butt, your gonna have a gut” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Stop worrying about what men think. Who cares if they like long hair? Or a lot of makeup or no makeup? Who cares if they like high heels on women? Or if you're soft spoken or not? Let's stop caring about what they like or don't like!I was a high school fashion teacher for a while and I would always dress nice because I’m in to fashion of course. I would come in with my hair blown out, pretty dress and I had a collection of fun heels. I did that because it’s what I liked. And I had a male teacher make a joke one day by going “who are you dressing up for?” And with out missing a beat I said “myself”. So proud of 24 year old me for not taking some 40 year old creepers shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:32 PM |
| 4 | I’d rather be single forever. Who the heck would ever want this life?!If he is reciprocating then I say treat your man like the king he is. But something about this post makes me doubt that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 13 | Yep 👏🏼This might be an unpopular opinion but I say wait until atleast 30 to consider getting married. I’ve been a teacher for 13 years and I’m at the point where I see former students of mine getting engaged at 23 and posting it all over social media like they won some prize before everyone else. I want to shake them and be like “go live your life! You are barely formed as an adult yet and your entire outlook may change 5 years from now!!” As girls we need to stop putting getting engaged and married o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:05 PM |
| 18 | Well ain’t that the truth... (not my original meme, found it floating around on fb)Sadly I remember having a total 12 year old crush on John Smith, especially because he was voiced by Mel Gibson. Oh how times have changed... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 31 | Well ain’t that the truth... (not my original meme, found it floating around on fb)Yes I’m pretty sure in actual history she is forced to marry John Rolfe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | A little wise advice about engagement rings and generous menI’m really happy with getting a moissanite! I’m in the fashion industry and I’ve done a lot of research into the diamond industry and the marketing from debeers and just feel like it’s not a wise investment. I’d rather spend the money on a house or a trip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"My bf and I are in the process of designing my engagement ring. He gave me a budget that I very honestly didn’t want him to spend. If I was to list the things I want in a dream ring, the number one thing was a larger stone and a unique setting. So I told him I would prefer a moissanite vs a diamond because a 3ct diamond would cost what....40k? I honestly don’t want to walk around with that kind of money just sitting on my hand...we have better things to do with that kind of cash (like travel and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"Does anyone have the link to the original post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Ex Happy BirthdayMy current bf and I broke up for a very short time 2 years ago, and that time included his birthday. I battled the whole day but didn’t text him. When we got back together he said being at his birthday party and looking around and not having me in the room made him realize what was important to him. It’s a hard NO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 03:25 PM |
| 30 | Is it possible to go from FWB to a committed relationship?I’ve done it but the big difference is we were practically a couple just with a FWB title. We were still going out to eat, movies, hanging out, having sex ad the biggest thing is we NEVER lost communication. We talked every day. And here’s how I did it. We had the talk about what we wanted from the relationship. I wanted to be official, he wasn’t ready. So I was nice about it but I told him I couldn’t just be his friend and CUT CONTACT. No text, fb or insta. Nothing. He would still like my posts… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:40 PM |
| 6 | When you think there are red flags...believe it!Oh Jesus the female friend. I dated a guy who had a lot of female friends. Like ALOT. So finally I just straight out asked how many of them had he slept with. It was about 75% of them. Those are not friends honey. Those are bench warmers. And the worst part was a lot of them HATED me. They would make all sorts of veiled comments and put downs and in not going to put up for that crap. That eventually broke us up, but I’m sure he banged one of them that night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:31 PM |
| 6 | Still Being Strung Along? You May Be Dating MPI Guy (Minimum Possible Investment) 😂I live Matthew Hussey when he does skits of male absurd behavior lolololol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:51 PM |
| -1 | When LVM let's you know from jump, they are in fact LVSo...just to play devils advocate here...my bf got a dui 6 years ago at 32. And thankfully it was his wake up call. They impounded his car, he lost his liscence, got a 10k fine, the works. He didn’t disclose it to me right up front, but he left the cops writing on the window of his car (they marked the car when they impounded it) as a reminder to get his shit together. I don’t think we should judge by mistakes but how you learn from them. Lord knows we have all screwed up at some point...it’s ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:00 PM |
| 39 | Listen up ButtercupGod damn it now I want Reese’s.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | This absolute piece of shit.I hooked up with a dude for years on and off whose last name was Harrison...so his friends called him Harry. He was such a sketchball, he would HMU when he was single but still flirt and be just generally inappropriate while he was in a relationship. I really liked him so I would let him get away with it. We eventually went our separate ways and a few years ago a mutual friend of ours went to his wedding. All I could think is “I feel so bad for his wife” knowing how gross he was with me behind a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | What’s your cocktail party moment?Do you remember which one? I want to watch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 2 | What’s your cocktail party moment?I also think her bigger point is would be be proud of telling someone how you met? If you were to honestly describe it? If he jerking you around then you probably won’t ever get to a point in time when you are describing how you met to someone, and even if you do it will probably be pretty cringey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | What’s your cocktail party moment?Did he cheat on her with a subscriber? I know she doesn’t really come out with what happened between the two of them, she just describes it as a bunch of micro decisions that pushed them apart, and not a big event. I’d like to think of he cheated on her that would count as a big event. I know she definitely talks an bout subscribers getting up in his DMs but I’m curious where you heard that actually happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | What’s your cocktail party moment?I just found her and I’m addicted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:13 AM |
| 2 | What’s your cocktail party moment?I definitely feel like that’s fair. My current bf and I were friends for 4 or 5 months before anything romantic happened. BUT I do very distinctly remember the first time I saw him. I had just started at a new job and he was working as a computer technician and I saw him walking in and out of the library. I just remember thinking he was so damn cute. But I was actually working in another building and I actually didn’t see him until a year later when he was transferred to my building and I rememb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:09 AM |
| 12 | What’s your cocktail party moment?Yes I love the part about getting things DONE. We all want a partner in crime...and by crime I mean good things for humanity 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:47 PM |
| 11 | I’m slowly learning that I’d rather be singleOmg ri ri- the Queen right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:01 PM |
| 107 | Kevin Hart: rich, and funny does not mean HVMGod that documentary was cringeworthy - he blames everyone else for his cheating. He actually said because he didn’t have his bro’s around to tap on his shoulder and tell him he was screwing up, that’s why he made bad decisions. Dude....your bro was IN THE ROOM!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 04:42 PM |
| 18 | He simply moved on by texting me against six months later... LVM always come back 🙄I love that YOU need to learn...boy please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:25 PM |
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