Why we shouldn’t have men as friends….a sequel.

Zurflu · 2022-02-12T22:42:37+00:00

PUA/Redpill tactics rely on the assumption that the woman wants serious commitment and the man wants sex, so he pretends to commit for easy sex. If the woman doesn't want serious commitment none of their scripts or tricks can possibly work. They don't know how to just get to know someone without it being a bait and switch game...

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-02-12T17:16:34+00:00

Lmao. He apologised saying he said what he did because of alcohol, but deep down she knows it must be true. So, actually HE still believes it’s true and his “apology” meant fuck all. What a judgmental twat.

Edit: words

myheartisfulloflove · 2022-02-13T03:02:19+00:00

"Deep down you know it's true that you're a dumb slut." Sir, on which planet did you landed here from that taught you such asshattery?

Also, love how this woman basically decide to live for herself and date casually, the same exact way nearly all men do to women by dating/fucking us casually and stringing us along for years before dumping us once they're tired of us or found a suitable replacement, yet she's the evil one and abnormal lmao!

purasangria · 2022-02-12T19:48:32+00:00

Isn't that what men want, zero commitment, and just sex? From what I've seen of the dating scene these days, that pretty much sums it up.

I just hope she doesn't catch and STD; men are total sluts, which is why they want to trick you into being committed, while they still fuck around.

He's big mad because she's fucking around too, and is open about it. Reeeeee!

discoveringliberty · 2022-02-12T17:27:06+00:00

Classic scrote - soo angry to find that a woman is reserving all of her energy for her own life. He is angry that she's stopped being a servant for men, and angry that she has created a sex life for herself that is 100% on her own terms. Scrotes think women are supposed to spend their lives suffering and being used, they think this is why we exist. That's why her happy, stress-free lifestyle angers him.

BrightIdeaGenerator · 2022-02-12T17:44:03+00:00

Men expect to be able to date women without catching feelings, but they want the woman/women to all be pining for them, and if they aren't, they are terrible people..... double fucking standards.

bleda_princezna · 2022-02-12T16:43:49+00:00

Wow. How dare she to live her live the way she wants, huh?

That garbage is no friend to her. She should drop him. There's nothing wrong with her. She's clearly done with being treated like shit by her partners and just wants to be happy and enjoy her life. How unforgivable. 🤦🏻‍♀️

She's upfront about everything, giving everyone an out if they're looking for something else, not giving any false promises and yet she's called a bad person. Wtf? So many men go around promising commitment and just using women for sex and people seem to be okay with that, but she's somehow a bad person?

katiekat0214 · 2022-02-13T02:47:49+00:00

Yeahhhh, as a divorcee and now widow, and as a childfree woman, this resonates SO HARD.

First of all, her so-called "friend" has a very NARROW definition of normal that preferences men and excludes her. He wants her to change and be completely different, in order to cater to men's preferences. What she's doing is awesome, strong, and absolutely female-centered, so you know she's on the right path! It centers HER wants, HER needs, HER preferences. She should not change a damn thing.

Said it before, will say it again: there are men out there who are not manbabies, who don't want a mommy bangmaid. Her "friend" proves just how immature and selfish he is, and I hope she drops him, too. Keep on with her bad self.

I just hate like hell how this man and so many others think they can define what normal is, have that universally accepted, and just expect everyone to hew to that extremely subjective definition. And I'm very happy to say THE WORLD DOES NOT WORK LIKE THAT ANYMORE. You need to live in 2022, not 1952, dude. Work on that.

FDS-GFY · 2022-02-14T00:50:04+00:00

Colleagues, yes. Siblings, yes. Lovers, yes.

Friends? Absolutely not unless I am friends with husband and wife, and not in the creepy threesome vibe way.

2022-02-13T14:58:53+00:00

Dude is mad that he didn't get some.

gcthwy · 2022-02-13T21:13:59+00:00

He’s not jealous she’s dating other men, he’s jealous she won’t date HIM.

gentlewins · 2022-02-13T00:26:08+00:00

I find it hard to believe that someone who is unequivocally clear about her needs and boundaries with the men she actually dates, would be this rattled by a male “friend” for two full days.

Idk. Doesn’t pass the smell test for me. And AITA is a notoriously LARPing, baiting, nonsense sub.

Madholley · 2022-02-12T23:47:02+00:00

Why we shouldn't have LV men as friends.

Title	Why we shouldn’t have men as friends….a sequel.
Author	capresesalad1985
Upvotes	318
Comments	37
Date	February 12, 2022 4:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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