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Feeeemale
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:35 AM
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Not a man but this used to be one of the few male centered places that I would defend because there were so many regulars that were actually sane and felt like women were people. But the negatoids are like a freaking tsunami. Now I guess you guys can experience a little bit of what it's like to be a woman Online because they follow us everywhere and pull this shit but its directed at us. It's like, don't you have a job or anything better to do?
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:34 AM
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I saw someone link this. Chrome extension to overwrite and then delete your reddit history without losing any karma (which you need to post in many subreddits because it prevents spam) https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/nuke-reddit-history/aclagjkmidmkcdhkhlicmgkgmpgccaod?hl=en
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:16 PM
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I just went on craigslist and flagged free room for female and woods photo photo posts because of this post. I do it regularly and this session had a lot fewer. Found an obvious sex trafficking scheme and I'm wondering how to set this person up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 02:30 AM
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We should all make our own ads in our areas just like the creeps but maybe with a little more money offered and then reply back with warnings and advice on not to pair with male photographers This is a war after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 12:36 AM
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I think I'm becoming an advocate for using common lines used on us as a way to deflect criticisms like the OP is talking about. We're constantly asked why we stayed with abusive people, so say your just listening to their comments and using them. Same with rape. Don't go for walks or be alone with him. Don't go back to his house or have him at yours. Don't drink on dates. Everyone tells you not to . You're just doing what victim blamers are telling you to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 10:44 PM
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Long anticipated moments are always anticlimactic. I used to chase that feeling after some struggles but I found another more amazing feeling that I didn't know existed until recently. Contentment It's so much better. You're almost there. You'll experience the sun coming out through the window and it hits your face. And you take a deep breath. And suddenly, you feel it. Content. No excitement, fast heart rate or anticipation. You just are. And it sometimes a cute little bug lands on your arm or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 06:02 PM
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Here you go. I have no idea how I ended up on this page years ago but I still remember that night and i just was into this . I also responded to I have no mouth and I must scream . ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Pre depravity: https://warhammer40k.fandom.com/wiki/Aeldari Post depravity: https://warhammer40k.fandom.com/wiki/Drukhari
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 05:04 PM
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Its not the most relaxing existence but I'm learning to balance it. I'm ok with being alone for a while until I find a way that can channel my energy for the greater good. But now I'm just doing the 40 days in the desert shit as I'm transitioning through my existential crisis and getting my bearings. I feel like a laser. Terrible if pointed in the wrong direction but very utilitarian if used correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:53 PM
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I'll throw up on him . Some of it might land near his penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 11:52 AM
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I'm not slow at all but I don't want to be punched with a fist with brass knuckles either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 11:49 AM
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Did you guys see that post on aita about the guy whose love language was service acts? They evolve like viruses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 11:47 AM
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Seriously! I think Cenobites or Dark Elders from warhammer40k are an apt description. Both chased novelty and pleasure until it became more and more depraved and then some sort of hell was created for them both . I've never seen hellraiser or played warhammer 40k but I read their wikis and was kind of fascinated . I didn't realize it was because it was just another warning about what men are truly capable of . Caligula was real though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 11:46 AM
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It wasn't a mainstream thing when I was still dating. It's gone so wrong so fast I'll admit that I wish some guy would try that unexpected strangulation shit with me, though. I might have some bloodthirst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 11:39 AM
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They have no sense of self and are terrified to face it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 11:37 AM
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I've started bookmarking reddit posts featuring men who total their partners cars just for you guys. Strategy is about picking up on common lvm trends and that's definitely one of them. Don't let them drive your car. They destroy everything and might even steal your keys to do it if you're not adhering to the rules and let him get access to your assets if you stop vetting. Sabotage and destruction is absolutely a fall back in their manipulation wheel if they sense you're onto them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 11:35 AM
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I'm avoidant/attachment with men and have fallen for that threesome shit as the third. Not always willingly. A couple have ambushed me. The women are never actually into it and neither am I. I'm not into that stuff but I've discovered I'm biromantic so it makes sense now that i was more interested in getting to know the woman I'm supposed to perform with. Its interesting being awake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:33 AM
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Nice autocorrect. Boeing is the nvm of aviation. Don't get me started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:18 AM
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5 years is spot on too. I'm about that age and all the men are hitting the wall. Homeless, no license from deferred child support. Running out of pick mes to move in with. Well, some of my friends are still pick mes and artificially keeping some of them afloat. It's pretty frustrating. But I've been through transitions like this before. I always end up on my feet with people that suit my leveling up. Mourn the losses and move on .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:16 AM
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He should meet my ex Tyler. Called all women 'crazy'. Ended up with this amazing woman who moved up here to be with him and was way out of his league. A scientist in Boston and cute, smart and everything else most women are. Of course, he magically became unemployed once he had a meal ticket and he drank and did lazy fuck boy things all day while she commuted the mass pike everyday only to come home to trash and flies. She left because she's smart and he called it a 'toxic' relationship. I laugh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:10 AM
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I want to know what kind of quirky you are now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 09:44 AM
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How old is he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 09:31 AM
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That's an insightful little nugget. It kind of made me sad because its true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 01:25 AM
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Not sure how accurate this is but I've heard some reports of men cosplaying as non binary to gain access to some more radical spaces but apparently, they don't even try to hide their intentions. Like , they're just completely average creeps who just use the term to get in and that's it. It wouldn't surprise me because they have audacity for sure. No need to play a part because of 'shooting your shot'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 11:51 PM
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The dude said he lost a decade of his life? Who forced him to do it??? Reminds me of that guy who whined on an Advice sub about his wife who abused him by being a sahm and raised his kids. Shes financially abusing him by not being a full time homemaker and mother AND paying over 50% of the bills. Because it is actually more than 50%. Groceries are usually the tipping point but the it's also the gas and other small wears and tears getting all of the food, which he'll eat much more of, and sundrie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 11:40 PM
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I'm a manic pixie dream girl and trust me, they can't handle it. That person who's energetic and talkative and gives off intense energy that convinces you that I'm super interested in you? I'm always like that. And I'm not interested in you particularly. I'm interested in everything. I'M ALWAYS ON. They want an off button . It doesn't exist. Fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 11:31 PM
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Is boring a metaphor for having responsibilities and goals? Because people with goals often do go to bed at a reasonable hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 11:27 PM
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Funny.. I'm a binge drinker but it's not really much of a part of my life unless I spend a lot of time around an alcoholic. And my ex drank pretty much every day. So I'd drink too but I'd listen to headphones, be on my phone doing shit like this and stay up all night. It's my circadian rhythm. But he'd get annoyed that I was drinking. He'd be tripping over shit and would try to cut me off from drinking only. I'm not the one ranting about why I dont clean my utility closet at 9pm because it needs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 11:24 PM
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Does anyone here, that's been part of a large friend group, NOT have a rapist in the midst that people enable/ignore? Just wondering how ubiquitous this experience is. Statistics would suggest that one of them is a rapist. I thought there was one but turns out there are at least two. At least one of them is dead but the other is practically immortal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 11:12 PM
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I think hes talking about prioritizing women who are perceived as easy to sleep with immediately sounds like you dont have any respect or consideration for women.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:15 AM
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1) Not gambling/having addictions/visiting brothels, That's actually a very difficult standard to meet . I've always said it's not how much they make necessarily but how they spend it. It's amazing how shitty men can be with money considering how much they worship it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 06:08 AM
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How many tabs do you currently have open to check out and save later?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 05:20 AM
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That post is absolutely amazing. I copied and pasted some of the points In my notes on different topics that frequently come up. I'm such a data hoarder .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 05:02 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, I saw a guy say that he is doing in person approaching since OLD has 'run its course'. That made me happy and he's one of the only men who seems to know that. Other men are focusing on irl approaching too and they're all befuddled because they know that they shouldn't approach women that are wearing headphones , reading or working. Only to find that every woman is wearing headphones and being busy because none of them want to be approached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 04:39 AM
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But of course, we know the value of female sexuality is high because we know most straight men would be crushed if the order came down on high that they could never have access to female bodies again. I've seen a few posts from men about being suicidal because they aren't able to pick up women or have no woman in their life and feel like life is meaningless. Hope all that money they are terrified of losing even a tiny bit of keeps warm at night. But everyone knows the only reason why they really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 04:34 AM
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I'm glad to hear you say that because I was concerned that you were using it as a lubricant to wear down her wits. Which is rape You still amuse me, u/Canadian-Seductioner
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:19 AM
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Having one or two drinks doesn't really seem like enough time to establish a connection.
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:13 AM
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Why not dinner?
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:03 AM
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Disagree. Best first date is a drink at a bar. Still cheap, sets the right tone, and is more conducive for a same night lay. Why?
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:56 AM
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Women don't like people who only take value and give none, be more like them. Sounds like an FDS endorsement if I've ever heard one.
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:55 AM
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40% of sex trafficking victims are black women. That's a lot. And the 6 hours thing is probably under reported like most femicides. What can we do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 05:32 PM
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There is a distinct, smug conclusion of "tough shit, ladies!" What do we say about returning energy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 05:20 PM
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Black women are always at the bottom of every list when it comes to treatment. Like every freaking study I read about healthcare, abuse, quality of life, employment, etc. I'm sick of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 11:13 PM
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Cool, thanks for naming the particular SNPs. I'll check mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 07:48 PM
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Block em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 07:47 PM
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Reflects how society expects women to literally absorb the punches of violent men so they wont go on terrorist sprees. Or to civilize the men like during the gold rush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 07:44 PM
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Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 07:42 PM
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Iirc, theres a difference between how white kids boys are treated va black boys too. Again, probably not a surprise to people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 07:41 PM
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They socialize as a way to gain dominance, not a connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 08:56 PM
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I saw a confession about a guy who went on Bumble just for revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 08:54 PM
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Some of these guys are like the dude sitting on the curb smoking pot outside a convenience store. Just him last night!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 08:53 PM
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I'm a woman so I have objective insight. I should post one of your more ridiculous claims. You truly amuse me.
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:23 PM
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Omg, just stop with your over the top lies. The numbers you spout on this sub are literally impossible at times.
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:20 PM
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I keep a bookmarked named gold diggers. This is going in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 08:53 PM
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I said something like that on here and should have deleted it immediately like I felt it should. I thought to myself, wait a second, what sub am I in? Fortunately, there are other female only subs now that people can post off topic stuff on like fourthwavewomen. Maybe the mods can direct people there if they think it would help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 03:36 AM
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Yep, he had me until the bar skank thing and then I skipped down and wasn't surprised that the rest of it was trash.
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:11 PM
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Well, sounds you just came up with a strategy that we can use to do exactly that. Might be worth it's own sub-movement with a mission statement and how to guide. I'm dead serious about feminine separatism as a way to fight back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 08:07 PM
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Good advice. Because doing all of that stuff just to get a woman and stop doing level up activities because the goal is achieved will only end up with a breakup because the woman signed on to be with the person he falsely advertised and then hes in even a worse place. Shit that that is why women are opting out of dating and arent on OLD . Everyone is faking who they are.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:16 PM
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Lol. What a toxic mindset.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:13 PM
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My marvel loving, elon worshipping friend couldn't handle 15 seconds of Joaquin Phoenix putting on makeup at the beginning of Joker. He just pouted and complained: 'This is boring' . With contempt. I mean, any movie scenes that aren't action , jokes or have shots more than 10 seconds mean it's not good. But since he'll watch stuff from his youth no matter what pace it has because he is terrified of new things. I cant stand him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 08:46 AM
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Easy do that when they don't even have a job because they're 'depressed ' that they are forced to play video games and watch torture porn to distract themselves from their hurt feelings of not being promoted to ceo already and being cheated on by a 15yo girl in middle school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 01:55 PM
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Men dont want to put in work for anything. Hobbies but only for peacocking and simulating violence in some way, abstract or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 10:16 AM
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It's so important that it's legal to burn a woman alive (or worse) for making a man look bad in front of another man. That's pretty extreme but speaks about their highest priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 10:15 AM
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I mean, considering that they don't believe us when every day things happen because they personally haven't witnessed it reveals a pathological lack of ability to perceive the world in any significant capacity. Its disturbing and makes the state of the world not only unsurprising but inevitable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 10:11 AM
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Like any sex work pays anything to comfortably live on for 90% of people in that field. Porn sites made billions of dollars, sex traffickers made $99 billion , the strip clubs made $7 billion and not sure about Only Fans. I wonder where all the women millionaires are considering none of those industries would exist without women? This isn't gold digging anymore. This is demonic. Mens gold digging obsession is fascinating considering how neurotically transactional they are about doing ANYTHING th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 10:02 AM
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Truly. I was just saying yesterday how men literally consider all women whores by default. I mean, need an abortion?. Shut your legs. What if every single woman did that? It would include every married woman and every woman in a long relationship. All of them. Every woman in the bible (eventually after revisions) was either a prostitute , Mary or someone that was part of a side story for a main character where their fertility status or looks were mentioned often. A serial killer wanted to rid th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 09:37 AM
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Why flight attendants? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:56 PM
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And they delete female profiles en masse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 05:09 PM
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Delete your account completely, I'm guessing. They must be really desperate for more female users if they're pulling that stunt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 05:06 PM
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They'll just lie about it like they do with every other comparison concerning men vs women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:00 AM
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They don't know the definition of that term like many others they weaponize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:23 AM
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For some reason, certain types of men view relationships as transactional and think it works in the same way legally. Like innocent until proven guilty when women compare notes about someone being a creep. And since men run the legal system, they should have a say in how we view them. So it makes sense that they view relationships as equal opportunity employment where anti discrimination comes into play. You see that with the incels 'government gives girlfriends' stance as well as disabled men t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:11 AM
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Funny because I saw these comments in a different thread. Funny how 'misinterpreted ' is used again. A very famous scholar called Raewyn Connell describes repeatedly told variously, that she is misinterpreting Robert Connell’s work and that she needs to study up on Robert Connell’s work. Obviously the punchline is that that’s her deadname and HER work Had the same experience with Judith/Jack Halberstam when I did debate. I would read evidence tagged as Jack, then read evidence tagged as Judith, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:47 PM
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'Classist' is one I heard recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:41 PM
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He gets bothered when a woman indicates anything specific at all because it's a signal that she - a resource/object to him - is not accessible to the NVM hive. He is reacting in order to bully her into being more accessible to a guy that is basically with her because she sees her in generalities (is female) rather than individual characteristics I mean, that sums up the hate for this sub. They want us to close our legs and stop dating idiots but those same people rage at us the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:39 PM
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They did that for plan b and birth control in the prepping sub and in childfree when someone said that men were the number 1 threat to women in the context of discussing abortion laws . They sabotage us to fail or even put in harm's way by suppressing information like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:55 PM
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Lol In good faith? Partially misinterpreted? The rest of the excuse is more of a non apology. I bet this study prevent them from getting laid, ironically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:50 PM
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They sue over their reputation constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:45 PM
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I was just reading a report study on femicide and the men were noted as having mental issues in their defense. The report coldly said that being neurodivergent wasn't a mental illness. I could totally see some entitled little murderer try to whine about not being able to read signals to a judge after he rapes and strangles his ex girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:05 AM
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Wow. That explains my dads dislike for sandwiches. He's right you know. It shouldn't take that much effort to eat something that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:54 AM
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They pull that 'my job is harder ' shit now. Well, more like 5 minutes ago. Dont know what new BSin they're putting all their energy into selling instead of just fucking doing anything to contribute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:52 AM
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I'm a woman and an active member of FDS and even I liked this place because people here encouraged men to see woman as humans. I hope the moderators see the value in that and try to keep it on track. It could actually save women from some very bad outcomes and most male oriented subs not only don't care about that but encourage those outcomes. We really don't need any more violence in this world.
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:44 PM
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I'm curious to know exactly what manipulations you're talking about.
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:41 PM
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This post immediately reminded me of an article on mansplaining and why men do it: Well, that might be too simple an explanation. Georgetown linguist Deborah Tannen says "the inequality of the treatment results not simply from the men's behavior alone but from the differences in men's and women's styles." Tannen argues that men talk to determine and achieve status, while for women, it's about making connections. Women view life as a network, while men view it as a ladder. When women and men get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:20 PM
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Seriously.
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:04 PM
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What did OP do to help the team? Made her feel safe just like the mod was saying in the last part of point 1.
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:34 PM
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Good thing those qualities aren't useful to us anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:55 PM
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I want to know more please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:54 PM
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Add in cryptocurrency and daily fantasy sports, gaming microtransactions, opioid addiction because of 'back problems' and 'depression ' and you've got a perfect storm . I expect to see more stealing and gold digging posts. Coincidentally, I'm listening to Grimes world princess part 2. (Too bad she went pickme) Its mine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:17 PM
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My ex grabbed my wheel and tried to run my car off the road when I didn't go to the bank in the middle of my shift to get him $250 for a car repair he hadn't done yet. (And never did after I foolishly gave him the money. He used $20 to cover his and my fast food meal and then said I owed him $20 for that. Hes still a loser but much more extreme. )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:22 PM
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I can already hear the self righteous and defensive yelling now. And also the silence as he punishes you for not 'trusting him ' . Oh , I forgot about the projections of gold digging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:19 PM
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Whose house was it? I've noticed men really want to sell off a womans house as soon as he finds out about it. My bffs last two bfs go after her properties and the former moved his friend into one and kept the proceeds for himself and doled her out an allowance. He was also a licensed plumber and refused to help her with her other multi family property because he thought she should sell it. The current one is on her like flies on shit to sell it and this time she probably will. Almost lost a frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:17 PM
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Was reading about Qatar and found this to be illuminating. Even though it was only specifically stated here, the entire culture had this motivation for all the evil things they do to women. Um Qahtan said her ex-husband tried to prevent her daughter, age 17, from having a heart operation in April 2019 shortly after she filed for divorce, even though she was granted temporary “custody.” She said her daughter had kept her father informed of developments, but he turned up at the hospital and threat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 05:04 AM
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Yeah but when the guy you "gave a chance" ends up (surprisingly /s) treating you badly, somehow it's your fault for not picking better guys. I bring up that dynamic a lot when people say that a woman is being paranoid or overreacting, etc. Its surprisingly effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:29 AM
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I thought I was alone . I envy people who have the option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:23 AM
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But 2 women's testimony is worth 1 mans. Literally part of the law in some countries. Funny how the numbers always work in their favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 02:42 AM
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At least he seems to pay for it. Sick of women saying that they don't go to work since childcare will take up their entire paycheck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:43 AM
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If women had that power, night vision goggles that detect body heat would be a booming industry. And not illegal in some countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:34 AM
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Solipsism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:30 AM
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They've always been violent. Even in extremely restrictive countries, they're violent to the women in their homes. And all of them are pressured to be evil by society if a woman dares leave so it really is all men in those places where they are allowed to be violent. There are exceptions to everything. Like saying all dogs bark. There are some that dont but that's a rarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:24 AM
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It's so engrained that even leaving the house for a second like OP means you are game. Or if a maintenance guy or landlord comes INTO your house, he has a right to have access. Even the ones who don't bother you in those examples will consider it at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:22 AM
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That's called 'day game' as many of you know. Men are turning to it since they chased women off the dating apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 12:28 AM
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This is literally just like informing your employer that you've received a better job offer and hand in your notice, only for your employer to give you a decent counter that you accept. Only for your company to use that extra time to find your replacement and then fire you . And if anyone here reads antiwork or personal finance will, you'll often hear a chorus of users telling the OP to NEVER accept the counter offer because its probably a trap. And I bet the amount of times that accepting a cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:36 PM
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Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:12 PM
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Please don't give these guys a mic here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:11 PM
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Women haul the wood in Kenya. started as a group of homeless women looking for a place of their own became a successful and happy village. About three dozen women live here and run a cultural center and camping site for tourists visiting the adjacent Samburu National Reserve. Umoja has flourished, eventually attracting so many women seeking help that they even hired men to haul firewood, traditionally women's work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:12 PM
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It's so easy that women don't even have to search for it. Its forced on us. How fortunate we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:02 PM
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They also complain about homeless men and lack of resources for them while shitting on womens choice of career that helps those causes. Also, I keep hearing about mens lack of access to social welfare but most of those things are income based. I'd bet 1 million dollars that they are too lazy or proud to even apply and then complain about being hungry or homeless. Also, every homeless shelter is a mens shelter. 50% of women are homeless because of domestic violence. Often fleeing with kids in tow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:54 PM
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Susan is the author of Against Our Will. I've linked to it here before but I'm sure others have read it. This is what permanently emancipated me from men. That and Woe to the Women. Here is a link to read it free but you might have to reborrow it to continue if you time out. I think this should be up there with The Gift of Fear in terms of suggested reading. https://archive.org/details/againstourwillme00brow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:24 PM
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Funny how they dont have a plan to get the 30% of men who arent working back to work but generously implement policies designed to starve out women and force them to depend on men again instead. Thinking that they'll actually step up and help us because being a provider soothes the ego and is why they're dropping out. Relationships are welfare for men indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:02 AM
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Sounds like they should install a remote lock that screens all visitors before entering , like a jewelry store or even a hotel after hours. Women are targets of 'theft' so to speak so it makes perfect sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:58 AM
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But they need ALL the personal data access because they need to protect those same precious girls and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:39 AM
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My ex has told me that I seem like I'm always on the edge of snapping and murdering him or other people. Yet he texts me regularly to come over. He's one of those 'all my exes are crazy ' types but hes probably right about me at least. I'm hypervigilant and can be aggressive when navigating the world because I have to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:31 PM
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They will rabidly argue with actual porn stars on Twitter about how they're wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:55 PM
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They will rabidly argue with actual porn stars on Twitter about how they're wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:55 PM
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A Barna Study revealed that: • 68% of church-going men view porn on a regular basis. • Of young Christian adults 18-24 years old, 76% actively search for porn. • Most pastors (57%) and youth pastors (64%) admit they have struggled with porn, either currently or in the past. • 21 percent of youth pastors and 14 percent of pastors admit they currently struggle with using porn. • More than 1 in 10 youth pastors (12%) and 1 in 20 pastors (5%) said they’re addicted. • A survey reported 50% of all Chr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:09 PM
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I just read this hilarious court case of a completely deadbeat dad who wanted a portion of the mothers wrongful death settlement for a son he never saw and actively ignored. Even when the son needed a bone marrow transplant and the father was contacted , asking him to be tested for a match. Fortunately, the court denied him quite savagely: 5} After the hearing, the trial court issued a letter ruling. The court specifically found: Throughout Curtis' life and [his sister's] minority status, [Fathe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:07 PM
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I just read this hilarious court case of a completely deadbeat dad who wanted a portion of the mothers wrongful death settlement for a son he never saw and actively ignored. Even when the son needed a bone marrow transplant and the father was contacted , asking him to be tested for a match. Fortunately, the court denied him quite savagely: 5} After the hearing, the trial court issued a letter ruling. The court specifically found: Throughout Curtis' life and [his sister's] minority status, [Fathe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:06 PM
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Every single classic accusation directed towards women is pure projection since the dawn of man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:00 PM
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Well that backfired. OF content was easily hijacked by men. Dont bring a knife to a gun fight. Women will always lose if they consider men in any part of the path to freedom. The sooner women wake up to that, the better. I'm done mincing words and I'm not afraid .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 08:01 PM
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I love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:23 PM
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Yeah, I've got a similar past. Except I started dating at 12 lol but my first 'real' relationship was at 16. Another short one at 18 . Stopped for about 16 years and tried my luck at again at 34. Had 'success ' there. Great age to get back into it. However.. Had two bfs that were so annoying, I developed an almost complete FDS mindset before I even knew about this place. I thought I was alone in a world of pickmes. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:04 AM
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I think it does for college freshman . Or sophomores if they don't live in campus the first year because of reasons like covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:00 AM
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My 'favorite' takeaways from this link and from one of the references listed : One study showed that about 92% of prostitution-related arrests in Boston were women and only about 8% of arrests were men. Similarly, 89% of arrests in Chicago were women, 9.6% were men and 0.6% were pimps. It really is about the cruelty. And half a cities budget goes towards police that make your situation so much worse. Demons gonna demon I guess. Almost two-thirds (64%) of the intervieweesreport having been arrest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 08:37 AM
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No one here will be surprised but women make up a much larger percentage of organ donors. And especially live organ donation like the woman in the OP. They're selfish even in death. Won't even give someone something to save a life. They'd rather it just rot in the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:43 AM
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The reason that it is so hard to forgive yourself is because there is actually nothing to forgive That's an amazing insight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:07 AM
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I was reading a study on homeless violence and so many homeless women have infants. A disturbingly big percentage. They must be incredibly desperate to flee with a baby considering how dangerous it is to be an unhoused woman . Just goes to show you how incredibly dangerous men are. They'll risk the lives of their own offspring because their violent urges are so strong. Its unnatural.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:00 PM
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The bible says that good wives should be afraid to talk to their husbands. Again, they're trying to replace god .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:54 PM
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had a short fuse and would act childish over any problem Men have absolutely no resilience. The ones that do don't have the time or energy to devote to sniveling manipulations and responsibility avoiding schemes. They prefer to spend their time finding joy in where they can and value self control . amygdala hijack exhibits three signs: strong emotional reaction, sudden onset, and post-episode realization if the reaction was inappropriate. Goleman later emphasized that "self-control is crucial...…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:47 PM
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I just sent someone a message who posted a heartbreaking story of DV. I hope she comes here. I wish I was omnipotent so I could quietly put one of these monsters on a feeding tube for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:32 PM
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Omg, my dad would leave the house and everyone would start to relax. But he ALWAYS forgot something and came back to get it so it was an extra shot of cortisol that we didn't need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:27 PM
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Saw a post a bit back how a man charged past a bunch of other guys that had more in common with him to vomit his problems onto an unwitting woman shopper putting groceries in her car. We've all heard the classic line ' I just want to talk!'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:30 PM
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Then go on to molest a passed out acquaintance they're camping with at a music festival.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:27 PM
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Uh oh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:25 PM
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🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:15 PM
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Homebrewing, painting dolls figures that go to war against other dolls figures, punching digital trees with digital fists, themed pageants conferences where they dress up cosplay cartoon comic book characters, and watch ouch, my balls sports
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:23 PM
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Papers, please! Like an unofficial border control check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 01:32 AM
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Rude? You literally couldn't put it any more politely. Men are like Karens shopping and think any response but an affirmative one is mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:06 AM
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I swear I've heard this before. Have you commented on him before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:01 AM
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Standing up for your woman will turn her on plus altruism works too. But both of those things for a woman require sacrifice and that causes most men mental pain. It literally does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:00 AM
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Nobody wants to watch you repeatedly try to roll up your cookie dough dick and try to wedge it in. Omg, that's exactly how sex is in my dreams. I cant feel anything because I'm not actually having sex but I'll try to do what this guy does but it doesn't work. Its the worst but at least I wake up alone and don't have to coddle the faceless dream entity's ego, plus no STDs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:58 AM
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They're like cops in how easily and inherently the lies flow. And they think absolutely nothing of it. I bet they actually do believe themselves when they say one thing in front of us and deny they said it in the same conversation. They just do it all the time so it's not like it takes effort. I think they have different standards for men and might be honest with their buddies or other men they have a basic respect for . And since they're the only ones they consider human, they truly think they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:53 AM
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Here is a guy who convinces himself that his ex has slept with up to 59 guys (who has been in DV shelters and programs since they broke up early on). Most of the posts are from when she was less than a month post partum and the others are a little over a month later when she was still in a DV program and less than 2 months post partum. He hired a private investigator to find her and try to get stuff to slander her since the DV shelter/program obviously wouldn't tell him, especially with an activ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 10:52 PM
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Ok, I'll get on it. I probably saved some in FDS folder or screenshotted some too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:13 PM
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That's why I lurk on mens subs that are relatively normal. I see some new strategies they post to manipulate us and I should start posting them here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:34 PM
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You probably could have filed him as a dependent if the conditions met up to standards. But sounds like you got on fixing that shit too fast for it to be legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:05 AM
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I love it when they think a newly postpartum woman leaves, which means she really needs out, she's been cheating or is immediately sleeping around. Found one guy on the custody subreddit and you can see him convince himself that she's got a parade of men in the newborns life . Like a domestic violence shelter is known for being a great place to meet men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:40 AM
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When they need us the most too. You reap what you sow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:55 PM
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It's hard to maintain those spaces because men are constantly trying to destroy them just because they exist. Some of them stand firm though and that's hard to do .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:51 PM
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As someone in their late 30s, I've seen so many men that skated by in their 20s, have nothing to show for it and are doing worse than ever. And the ones in relationships are fucking it up as I speak because they're delusional and think they can get some depraved action at the expense of their loyal gfs/wives by messaging people like me. Even men well into their 40s are asking for nudes now. Btw, assume every man that has access to your computer or phone, but especially professionals, will search…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:45 PM
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Makes even more sense that there is an epidemic of boys and men doing anything to get womens nude pictures and taking hidden videos of women . Which they'll sell to enrich themselves at the expense of women, as they are the real gold diggers in every single way and they inherently seek to take what isn't theres without remorse. They truly believe they're entitled to it. It can also be used as fodder to prevent a woman from getting a promotion or a job. As we've seen with that guy who thought his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:36 PM
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Also, men project that we are spending that time on education/career/life advancement on sleeping around like they do so they want to get in and fuck up your life before another man can. It's not like we arent getting coerced and assaulted en mass in our youth by people just like them. Many women get sexually assaulted for the first time as college freshman. Often before any SA awareness campaigns can even reach students. An alarming number of them happen on the first day on campus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:12 PM
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Wow, that's a great sign of respect. Its something I prefer to do to. Although I've had quite a few people insist on showing me text receipts when they're mad at the person and stuff. I just want a run down if you're going to make me listen to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:07 PM
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It's a constantly repeated strategy all across the manosphere. Even the tamer groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 11:13 PM
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Yep. Some shithead in my friend group admits to taking a very long time to fix his female friends computers and of course takes all the photos off them for 'personal' use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 11:11 PM
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I recently was told that its 'classist' to expect a man to pay for dates .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:37 PM
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Read an article where it states that men with ruthlessly pre-block any non biological males and do it without negative social or legal repercussions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:17 PM
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That's because their neurological differences that exist between genders are still there. There is a distinct lack of cognitive empathy activity in biological male brains. It explains a lot .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:15 PM
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Speaking of, don't donate to Wikipedia ever because its just men with too much time controlling the narrative again via sexist owners and moderators plus incessant edit wars that they can only pull off because they are living off women .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:08 PM
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Every single mention of women in the bible is tied to her appearance, her reproductive functions or her sexuality in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:07 AM
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A future faker called a tramp because I slept with him . Literally blamed me for believing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:05 AM
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Kinda sounds like its not just extreme , violent middle east countries that think like this, huh? Islam sees women's rights as equal but different, which "Together, add up to a secure society that works." Princess Al-Faisal argues "The ultra-conservatives and the ultra-liberals both want the same thing, the destruction of the Islamic way. We are preserving it...There are problems mostly with the way the law is interpreted, mostly in the courts, but those are changing." According to Princess Al-F…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:55 AM
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Read this among other things and there is a strong trend towards complete lack of personal responsibility for their own depraved obsession with sex. Funny thing is, I read stories from all over the world and the entitled attitude and lack of personal responsibility is has the same scope in the US as it does in saudi Arabia, Nigeria and Pakistan. College guys and 'normal' men are just as evil and commit the same atrocities. • Allowing women to mix with men is the root of every evil and catastroph…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:50 AM
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Heres a quote from an article on pornhubs inaction to requests to take down videos: I got pissed-off emails from guys who uploaded clips of themselves jacking off, only to realize that these videos — of which there were hundreds — were eventually placed in the Gay section. I’m not gay! they would fume, demanding the video be removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:53 AM
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The average lifespan of a woman in porn is 37. So many die from trauma and diseases that are caused directly by the complete disregard for the safety of the women involved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:50 AM
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The equivalent word for a man would be: cynical. Maybe we should start calling logic bot males bitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 12:18 PM
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Its the classic delusion that women that are being nicer and less on guard with married guys are doing so because they're interested and not because women feel safer around someone that is less likely to hit on you .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:19 PM
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I did at the hyper-boi because that's my brother. Even looks like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:18 PM
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Haha. Oh man, my ex used to take me to the woods in his parents backyard to camp in a tent to fish and screw. Hoodie/cargo shorts, watch south park and get grabbed at, always texted last minute and wanted me to deliver myself in 30 minutes or less even though that's how far away he lived, bugged me for some of my adderall and whatever beer I brought, etc. .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:17 PM
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I do have the time and I will! Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:54 PM
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Socks full of peanut butter. Chunky style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:30 PM
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They sure love to talk up their risk taking qualities when being dismissive of the wage gap though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:27 PM
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'Do all the work against the system we created over and over again with every man you meet. '
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:21 PM
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In the past and sometimes in the present, they just burn widows alive because theyve outlived their usefulness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:59 PM
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Seeing a lot of male on female violence being addressed as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:21 PM
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or they reserve their cash/time for going out with his bros 'Buddies' is what they call their friends here in Massachusetts. Every single one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:41 PM
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They're like icebergs. The first shit you see is only a small fraction of the rest of the shitberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:15 AM
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Exactly. If they're going to blame the wage gap on our 'bad choices ' then they can get money from people like other men who made 'good choices '.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:40 PM
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I think women might be already doing this. I had read that Tinder doesn't release its active user stats because everyone would realize just how few women are actually on the app. Mostly people making fake novelty accounts, onlyfans promoters and bots. Not a single woman in my social circle is on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:34 PM
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I didn't even know that flair was a thing! You guys are on top of everything. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:01 PM
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I started a new bookmark for sleep deprivation torture as it seems to be trendy again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:46 PM
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I've been thinking that some posts that concern specific groups of women would be beneficial as different cultures have their own signs of risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:43 PM
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Many of them are run by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:18 AM
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I found it interesting to see men react to A Marriage Story , myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:49 AM
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Same logic that religious men used when denying women pain relief in child birth .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:59 PM
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Yep. Here are some quotes on that concerning rape during wartime. In medieval times, opportunity to rape and loot were among the few advantages open to common foot soldiers. Raping an unwilling woman and buying the body and services of a more or less uncooperative woman- go hand in hand with a soldier's concept of his rights and pleasures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:59 AM
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This article is one of the worst things you'll ever read but I see everything through a different lense now. And I wish every woman on earth was provided this to read. Men are a direct and hostile threat to your safety. The contempt they feel for us is biblical. I'm just sitting here terrified that women in this sub are even considering dating. https://www.academia.edu/5832605/Against_our_will_men_women_and_rape_blackatk_
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:44 AM
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Ha. This sub is killing it with the metaphors today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:24 AM
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'To those we marry are those whom we fight' -Bantu proverb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:58 AM
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Sucks being stuck on a planet with a race of monsters who will never let us leave alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:52 AM
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Some people are just couch dwellers. My mom never used her bed in like 3 different houses overall 20 year period. Not sure what the psychology is behind that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:50 AM
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I went searching for a study I bookmarked that supports this but randomly found this gold nugget : How to Tell a Man He Has an Anger Problem First, when deciding to tell a man he has an anger problem, it is important to consider safety—both of self and others. Having the conversation in a safe, public place with other social support or a professional. The conversation should take place as soon as possible. Again, the earlier the intervention, the better. Some preparatory work is necessary. It is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:59 PM
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I'd like a link to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:17 PM
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Statistically and biologically, the safest and most ideal age for a woman to give birth is 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:16 PM
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I was laughing at cargo shorts but stopped laughing at hoody..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:34 PM
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Thata That's actually a huge factor for rape in all male dominated communities . They tend to foster an enabling culture at the very least and it's the men that DON'T partake in the perpetration, enablemen and cover up that are then ostracized from the community. The vast majority of the world is like this, even in first world countries 30% of college men admitted that they would rape their classmates if they knew they could get away with it. And 1/3 of teen men groped a woman in a survey on pub…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:42 AM
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Glad this place was able to save another woman from traumatizing abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:42 PM
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Sad part is, these are the 'normal ' ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:41 PM
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Nice scranslation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:32 PM
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And the footage will be uploaded, probably for profit. Leeches gonna leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:35 AM
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Yet when they're vunerable, the first people they turn to are always women. Whether by choice or because women are the only ones with enough empathy to go into low paying fields to actually help society instead of leeching from it and destroying it and life itself. Mom, teacher, nurse, social worker, essential worker, caregiver, wives/gfs and so on. Funny how it's never reciprocated but still act like we owe them even more. Selfish to the core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:34 AM
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Flag these posts every time. Whenever I end up on craigslist against my better judgment, I'll spend a few minutes flagging everything in the section I'm in that's a scam or a mass realtor/seller thats posting under filters designed to weed them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:28 AM
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Did you get 'discrimination ' complaints?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:22 AM
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Can we make the translator a common theme here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:20 AM
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Even worse because they double down on the abuse when you're pregnant and immediately post partum like the demons they actually are. So many of them are completely 'normal' too. This place will literally save someone life someday because the monsters try to hide themselves among the actual human men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:19 AM
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They're still trying to do it by forcing narratives through edit wars on wiki. They have way too much time on their hands that they steal from our hard work making the world a better place despite their destructive and violent tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:55 PM
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I love you guys. <3
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:49 PM
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Basically toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:10 PM
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Even applies to jobs. Most men would never put up with the amount of abuse women deal with at their jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:09 PM
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That totally applies to me and fortunately , I've been aware of it since the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:04 PM
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Not only are they not protectors, but they are actively more of a threat to women and children than anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:17 PM
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Oh, I was making a joke by insinuating that it's such a common theme that I wouldn't know which post it was. I do remember that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:20 AM
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Funny because they usually try to use women as resources to improve their situation after the first time they fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:41 AM
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To get around filters because after all, women don't know what they actually want plus they actually think they haven't visibly aged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:39 AM
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They immediately lash out at any criticism so while on one hand it protects their extremely fragile ego, the downside is that it fosters delusional thinking and low resilience when they eventually are forced to face the truth. Low resilience is an especially big factor in white men. Read that in a couple articles about how 30% of men that are of working ate are unemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:38 AM
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Studies show that men initially are ecstatic to be free at first but find out how good they had it within a month or two. While women are initially upset or even devastated but after a couple months (maybe less) , they realize that the relationship and the ex were terrible and struggle to imagine wtf they were thinking putting up with that for so long. And they never look back. Where as the men might never get over it and completely idealize the entire thing. A decent number of men are still com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:48 AM
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I love it when they immediately jump on tinder the second the gf walk out the door but gets infuriated to see his ex on old 2 weeks later. Like he wasn't only able to see that because hes on there too. Then he does that delusional spiral thing they all do where they convince themselves that she was cheating the whole time .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:40 AM
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Which one? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:37 AM
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Its well beyond that. They want a to be supported financially as well. We are just resources in every sense of the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:02 AM
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Still better than this guy who raped his wife in exchange for driving her to the hospital while in labor. The worst raping occasion was the morning I awoke in labour with my first child. The hospital I was booked into was a thirty-minute drive away, and this being the first time had undergone childbirth, I had no idea of how close I was to giving birth, or what was to happen to me next. I laboured at home for a few hours until perhaps 11:00 a.m., and then said to my ex-husband that I thought we’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:40 PM
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Did you see one with Theodore, the black lop rabbit that followed OPs gf around and he got jealous ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah, if you build nests by arbitrarily dropping shit on the floor .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:41 PM
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I was just gonna say that. They pout resentfullly that she took ' everything' while also slowly convincing themselves that she's sleeping with every guy on the planet and was probably doing it before she left, too. Soon, they start to believe their own lies and then they'll tell the next woman that his ex was toxic and he has trust issues because hes been cheated on so much. Boo hoo. Repeat and rinse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:34 PM
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That's truer than you know. https://www.martindaly.ca/uploads/2/3/7/0/23707972/wilson_daly_1992_chattel.pdf He contends that criminal or delinquent behaviors result when the bond to conventional society is weak or broken. People who have a strong social bond to conventional peers and social institutions (e.g., school, nuclear family, religion, etc.) are more likely to obey the law because these bonds all promote mutual respect and pro-social behavior. Godenzi et al Õs offering is also a theory o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:09 AM
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I'm glad fds saw that uber money post. Haven't been on reddit enough to see if a discussion about it was posted here yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 11:31 PM
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Like what guy can fix a car or build a spare room as his household contribution these days? And I mean actually finish the project in a timely manner without having unfinished parts and moved furniture for the better part of a year after starting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:07 PM
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Dont date men. Got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:01 PM
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InTiMaTe PaRtNeR ViOlEnCe is 40% wOmEn pErPeTrAtOrS!! Strauss, Mommy Issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:01 PM
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Sounds like you were channeling some Queen Sophia energy. . Her husband was so much in love with her that while he had an official mistress, Catharina Rickert, at his palace – in imitation of Louis XIV – he never made use of her services; however, his love for Sophia Charlotte was not reciprocated. Here she had a Baroque summer residence erected by the architects Johann Arnold Nering and Martin Grünberg, in order to live independently from her husband and have her own court. Frederick was only a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:52 PM
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That's so sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:47 PM
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Has to be a narcissist . Sure but that doesn't mean it isn't standard behavior. I wonder what it does mean..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 08:01 PM
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I've heard histrionic and he has hallmark symptoms for it. But these days, everyone is either bipolar/borderline/schizophrenic. You can treat those with medicine. Not a personality disorder so you can see why it's not a popular with doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:12 PM
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Funny how someone you've been talking to less than a day starts accusing you of being sadistic because you stopped replying to his sketchy dialogue and didn't even 'talk it out '.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:09 AM
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Good strategy. A distant cousin to the disinformation campaigns that people sometimes suggest children of narcissistic parents that like to deprive them of things they like. Become very into watercolor painting when you couldn't care less and it won't hurt when gets thrown away. Feeds the narc too but that takes a lot of energy for a kid .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:07 AM
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If it involves moving house, I would bet that statistics would show a connection there. I bet it applies when living with other situations with roommates or troublesome family members too. Moving and everything about it makes a lot of people freeze with inaction because of how much anxiety the process is. Plus you're exhausted because these men just pick at you incessantly to provoke you to show any annoyance so he can abuse you to deflect blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:03 AM
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My friend used to have her bf bring over his buddies and their kids on their weekends and just dump them all off at the house while he and his father-of-the-year buddies went and got high by themselves way up in the hills of the property . Like having 5-6 extra kids running around a small apt during dinner and homework time isn't a big deal. He was baffled when she put her foot down. And he says she doesn't contribute anything, of course. I could go on but we know the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:05 AM
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Extra time being when you have a fun exertion planned or holiday with the kid. And he needs you to take the kids on his days last minute after you bought tickets or paid for whatever without the kid. I don't even have kids but I have plenty of friends that do and this is often the M.O. , at least at the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:01 AM
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They start fights over date nights, vacations, when shes sick and in pain, holidays, anniversaries that don't pertain to him (like the anniversary of her sisters death 2 years ago), etc. Anytime its expected that he think of someone else first. That's too much because he cant argue his way out if it since its usually a social pressure that will make him look like an a-hole and he can't admit that he just doesn't want to. So he creates a reason to feel justified in treating you like shit because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:56 AM
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Mom had this book called Nasty People and one part I remember clearly was an anecdote where the husband started to get threatened by his wife's new confidence that she started to develop by taking this class. And he issued an ultimatum saying that it's either the class or the marriage. And the book says to flip that around and make the choice his. He chooses. Either he ends the marriage or deals with her taking a class that doesn't affect him at all besides making him feel irrational and demandi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:46 AM
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I mean, histrionic personality disorder is nothing to fuck around with. It's not just meds that those people need. Personality disorders need psychological treatment. And the entire industry that both of them are in is terrible for recovery and honestly, keeping kanye at an arms distance from the kids until he stable might give them a chance. She certainly seems to care. I really hope those kids dont end up with too much damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:41 AM
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Murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:20 AM
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And any extra income goes soley to their toys while they eat the majority of the groceries she spent all that time and effort shopping for and hauling home but still only pay 50% of that cost and dont even cook it or clean up after .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:13 AM
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With abortion soon becoming illegal, it will be the only safe thing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:05 AM
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They put chemical waste into the beauty products as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:56 AM
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Always coming into womens subs asking where the mens domestic violence shelters ars. Why don't you and your bros on mensrights pull together and raise money for one ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:08 PM
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Someone took me grocery shopping after the bar inside the restaurant immediately refused to serve him. Must be a regular. Same parking lot as the grocery store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:00 PM
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Ja. I guess Newsweek reposts reddit content from AITA and titles it as : internet backs/blasts woman/man for X . Internet Backs Woman Taking Revenge on Boyfriend Who Did Chores Badly on Purpose https://www.newsweek.com/woman-revenge-boyfriend-who-did-chores-badly-purpose-reddit-1646878
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 09:47 AM
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There was that woman who put dinner onto the dirty dishes her SO incompetently did. He was appalled. She also wore a black dress he purposefully bleached out to his work event and she offered to fill in the bleach spots with a black sharpie. On another occasion, he loaded their dishwasher incorrectly, resulting in several cups and bowls coming out of the wash dirty. Rather than wash them again, the woman served food in them. He told her the dishes were "dirty" and serving food in them was "disgu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:07 AM
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Women are lazy for staying home and not contributing financially when its them who wanted the kids and agreed that daycare would be cost prohibitive. They don't consider their constant lies to us marks on their character because they've already saw us as the enemy after the first time they got turned down in middle school. So throw a lifelong tantrum like their father did . Lying to women doesn't register as morally wrong because the only metric they judge morality on is violence. Underdog or do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:22 AM
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Exhaust the pregnant woman and newborn so much that the children will feel the trauma in their DNA decades from now. So rational and logical. All of that extra money, benefit of the doubt, power and resource only to contribute to making the world a worse place. Men are a cancer or maybe they are more akin to a micro plastic which rips apart the cells it comes in contact with and can pass through the blood brain barrier. Pretty accurate considering their leadership perpetuated this problem along …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:11 AM
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He babysat the kids while she puts dishes away and that's him giving her alone time. I expect men to believe that is giving her a break equivalent to the one he gets on a boys weekend during he first month home with the baby, but that's just your everyday male delusion (all men). But if she doesn't see it as anything but the most basic and logical solution, shes a certified pick me. Absolutely zero reason why men can't clean up after a meal that a woman cooked. Married, single, sahm or working, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:09 AM
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Delusions, Michael
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:13 AM
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That's a flat out lie anyways. Take out isn't cooking but congrats on keeping yourself alive, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:12 AM
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Because they did not understand the technology and did not have to pay for it , they treated the doll like barbarians." We rest our case, your honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:10 AM
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Fuck yeah. My dad has one and he doesn't even know how much money he has in the bank. And since he married into a patriarchal culture, he doesn't inherit her families money even though they live with him. It goes to his wife's do-nothing brother. He recently told me he had to borrow money from his wife. At least he doesn't bitch about it because he knows what he gets out of it and hes fine with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:47 PM
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The enemy is both strong and weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:41 PM
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That's a support group. So is AA. Obviously, that guy has never sought out support or therapy and it shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:38 PM
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Push past them or push them away when they do that thing where they follow you around the house yelling and then corner you to force you to either deal with the intimidation or make a a path to escape. The latter is the preferred response so they can claim assault and abuse . Then theyll respond to a domestic abuse survey for a study by that mommy issues poster child Strauss and he'll put several answers and respondent demographics under the same categories so it looks like women 'abuse' men 40%…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:29 AM
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I'll talk about current events, their job and ask if there is any daily job drama like a Kevin coworker or anything noteworthy, bring up stupid observations like why do cartoon suns always wear sunglasses, what they like to do for fun. 6 inches is the same but I'll tease or talk too much nervously until I impulsively kiss them because my mind blanks out and and then I have to act. Because some events have a time to start. I prefer men to be silly, adorable like using a teddy bear to talk to me t…
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:38 AM
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Have you noticed any common denominators in how or where you meet these women? Are you younger? She shouldn't even be dating right now. Shes gotta stop being a pick me for her own good but just like some men, certain women just always seek out relationships when they are too insane for anyone to fix because they're not professionals. I have trouble understanding why people dont just opt out completely and nurture other relationships to fulfill them but LifeScript™ is too deeply encoded in them. …
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:00 AM
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I was about to scoff at the obviousness but I did mention laziness a couple times and that could mean a lot worse than what my standards are. Lol
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:43 AM
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Make sure they fit then. No baggy dad jeans or you should just start eating at cracker barrel every Sunday until you die of boring dad disease.
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:04 AM
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Sounds like you ran into that neurotic sarah Jessica parker character type from sex in the city. She'd go insane at the slightest hint of a relationship. Why do so many sit coms insist on having total shitbags for the main character?
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:00 AM
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Shit, guy I know met his wife at a co ed softball league which a whole crowd of friends participated in. Neither were part of the originally formed pick up league. He was the supervisor of one regular and she was the sister of someone who came along from the bar scene. Another friend was part of a bar volleyball league which I didn't join but seemed like a fucking blast. So many different people and repeated encounters is the perfect environment for women to get to know you and maybe even find h…
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:51 PM
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Dont wear loose, ill fitted and faded dad jeans and fucking new balance sneakers. It's an epidemic for men over 27 in Massachusetts and I dont want to date someone who looks like a senior citizen. Get some skater shoes, decent pair of skinnyish jeans (maybe be easier than finding the right fit), and a nice wool or knit sweater in colors like navy, black or other color like that. Coat should be military or pea coat for winter. Alternative is a coat designed for outdoorsy like loft coats whatever …
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:31 PM
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What happened recently? New gf and home to leverage for custody?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:28 AM
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I've seen that too. Here actually. I really want to get involved in activism that helps even out the bad outcomes for WOC on like literally every single front but I know how annoying and ignorant it is to tolerate white people in discussions about how to fix it and im no exception. I mean, I'm pretty aware of a lot of things my other white friends arent. But when I showed up at our annual camping trip last year and asked my black friend (who's a regular) if she and the other black dude at that s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 01:35 AM
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They usher in WOC but seldom let them voice their opinions. That seems to be the standard MO for male led and dominated spaces these days. It's such a troupe, Brooklyn 99 addressed it . Real diverse diversity panel because it was all white men .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:39 PM
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And that stress passes down to any children yet if the children are male, they'll blame the mom for trying to mitigate all the damage the father did FOR THEM. Yet the male wont appreciate any of the sacrifices and go on to blame the mother and all other women under the guise of anti feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:15 PM
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Might be her age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:15 PM
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They dont consider that because theoretically, he will do all of those things. And intent is enough is enough in their minds because they're delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:20 PM
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World of Tanks took priority over fathering his own child? They're just caricatures at this point. And they are in charge of everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:29 PM
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Holy shit. As an xennial, you're spot on. Kind of have chills rn. Ngl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:14 PM
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They must be attractive because the men that aren't in a relationship at that age in my circles can't find anyone to date at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:05 PM
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Has he actually met her? Sounds sus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:04 PM
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It's called avoidant attachment disorder and there are dozens of us! Now that I think about it, I'm never going to give those body pillow gf dudes any flack as long as they're not being toxic about it. Because it's better than what the guys described in this thread are doing. The future is trending single for everyone anyways and the former fuckbous will have their chickens come home to roost. I've seen it happen a LOT lately. I know 5 men off the top of my head who have no options now. There is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:03 PM
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Yeah, just not being treated as prey by some drooling pennywise type character is enough to make me comfortable around the chill guy and prefer their company at the very least.
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:42 PM
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I'd wonder what the catch is. Lol
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:36 AM
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Nah, I have sensitive nipples. And eyeballs.
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:20 AM
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Cool. For a second I thought you were some sort of Rob Schneider facts bot as I got this notification right under an Alpaca facts bot.
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:51 AM
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Sure. I do a camping/tubing trip with my friends. Some guys don't go camping. That's cool. I wanted to try lazer tag for the first time. Also, going to a driving range, disc golf, symphony (can get discount tickets) , zip lining, mountain coastering , go to Clearwater Florida to get freaked out by the scientologists and experience visceral paranoia, see a rocket launch irl, go to the beer garden and LED display at the zoo, see some alpacas at a local alpaca farm, etc. If you're looking for date …
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:48 AM
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I know, its ridiculous but Cyndi Lauper wasn't kidding. I just want to have fun!
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:28 AM
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Pretty sure the lack of empathy is innate but people aren't sure if it's always been that way or its because of lack of use. Either way, shouldn't that fit under some umbrella of psychopathy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:54 AM
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Yet, still so many men ask , with total seriousness, what a woman brings to the table. Others I regularly hear are that women don't do anything (for society) and men alone invented and created civilization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:52 AM
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I'd like to add that women want to meet the types of guys that are willing to try new things and get out of their comfort zones so just doing it alone makes a guy more interesting Its probably the #1 quality I'm always looking for in a guy but it's so uncommon , I gave up. You can DO it. -rob Schneider in that movie where he says that.
/r/seduction26/11/21 08:27 PM
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Gonna send this to my parents with a cheeky 'you're welcome'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:33 AM
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Yet men are the ones to say marriage is a scam. Yet they won't fucking leave us alone and want kids. Until they are born of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:39 AM
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They literally took and took until everything on this planet pretty much died or is dying and they're still taking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:37 AM
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Of course they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:32 PM
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Every woman loves traveling. It's on every one of our OLD profiles for a reason. It's not a cliche or a low effort description. Its the truth. But 99% don't want to travel with their partners. But they'll drop everything and thousands they dont have to attend a buddies weekend in Vegas despite him basically telling his endlessly sacrificing SO that it's pretty much impossible for him to ever get enough money to even do a staycation in the nearest city. Or do cheap camping. And if you do manage t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:18 PM
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Plus, how is his double shift your fault? That doesn't have anything to do with work either so the entitlement is even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:05 PM
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I've dated one of those. First real bf. Decent guy. But boring because they all are. But the boring ones were pretty stable and I want stable and fun which doesn't seem to exist so I took myself off the market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 10:15 PM
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I mean , there are men following women out to their cars because they need someone to 'talk' to even though there are other men their age hanging around outside the store , smoking or taking a break. Or they'll message a complete stranger that has a female avatar in a game instead of talking to their bff gaming buddies they spend hours every day gaming and talking with through a headset. And then threaten you if you aren't even online to reply. They start this entitled behavior young too. They t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 10:12 PM
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Well, it's not like we choose it. We get yelled at, written up , assaulted and punished Into it by teachers, relatives, customers, bosses, boyfriends, husbands, friends and anyone else so included to punish us for not fulfilling our 'role's. That we do for free btw. Men don't a single single thing for free and even the work they do get paid for, they resent. They throw tantrums and dont clean up after themselves like toddlers because it's easier than having to actually perform the work themselve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 10:07 PM
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Some cultures would set the widow on fire when their husbands die too . Just to make sure they knew how little they were valued as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:57 AM
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You've dated men who do fun things?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:55 AM
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And playing video games. That's a huge chunk of their time as well. Its another extremely common theme seen in the advice subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:13 PM
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Yep! Good guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:55 PM
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Its interesting to see how one of the issues is explained in part by another one of the issues you posted. The shrinking middle class looks to religion or cultural institutions for support, which also gets hit hard by economic decline. Those types of places mostly rely on free or exploited low pay labor by women. The US is not too different from any other country in that respect. We're already starting to see the strain after covid hit and women are forced to leave their jobs to do fresh care fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:45 PM
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I thought psychopaths were the ones born that way (nature) and sociopaths were products of their environment (nurture?).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:14 PM
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They do say that people bond more easily over mutual hate than mutual interests. Too bad misogyny is so deeply ingrained that its next to impossible to bond with many men over shitty men because they're mostly all shitty deep down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:59 PM
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On the bright side, I'm seeing FDS vernacular being used by women all across reddit. Like LVM . Also, the concepts here are being adopted as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:55 PM
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The previous partners thing just shows how deranged men's logic is. It makes no sense for someone to consent to every man on earth if she's had sex before. But they victim blame a 10 year old so I guess it's just another cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:53 PM
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bUt MaYbE tHeY're AUtiStIc Or DePrEsSeD!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:50 PM
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Great post . Which is another reason why its infuriating that the UK refused to sign off on a list of convicted domestic abusers, rapists and stalkers so women could have 'informed consent' before entering a relationship with a stranger. Theyd literally prefer women to get raped or die than have even such a small percentage of men be denied a chance to 'shoot their shot' as LVMs love to say. Its incredibly hard to get convicted for those things in the first place so you know they really, really …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:49 PM
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I mean, the stuff the new guy does for her is just equal to what she puts in just being an average woman . That's the crazy part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 06:29 PM
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Hmmm, maybe that's why its projected in the Christian religion that God is a jealous God. I think that was stated when they were trying to do away with worship of female goddesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 02:42 AM
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I've racked up many bans for even mentioning this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:16 AM
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Then men outsource the childcare to school/daycare or worse a new pickMe gf eager to play house with someone else’s kid They always dick around with their lives and never pursue having the kid regularly because they would never pay extra on their own to afford a two bedroom apartment by themselves so he can have the kid over with their own bedroom and shit. They'll sleep on a pile of blankets in their buddies spare room for like $400 and be fine so it's a waste of money. Plus buying all that hou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 10:15 PM
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Cheated even becomes literal in their minds that you didn't 'honor your promises ' because they think that consenting to a relationship at all means a marriage like commitment vow on the part of the woman. A woman that they won't even have a discussion with when it comes to questions about future plans but mentally has his future options wide open. But they can't really deal with being rejected for anything that they themselves did. He is a good guy and there didn't commit a fireable offense and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:47 PM
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As am I. Some people just really have a gift of language. A portion of them are just quote machines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:29 PM
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switching hair dye from blond 07 to black 01. That is next level effort right there. I mean, they're usually pretty lazy about this stuff if they're a generic paint-by-numbers abuser. But this is sleeping with the enemy , witness protection sort of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:18 PM
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God forbid you ever get sick enough to be so incapacitated its expected of him to help out. The behavior that they pull is astounding in how desperate and acute their manipulation becomes. Anything to relieve them of the expectation of putting someone else first at the risk of looking like a jerk if he didn't step up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:12 PM
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The sleep she needs to be able to work to get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:07 PM
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Some of the children that post about these monsters have learned to provide misinformation about their likes and interests so they'll destroy or deprive their kids of something that doesn't mean anything to them. Imagine having to act like a double agent in your own home from day 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:06 PM
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This reflects highly in those DV data dredging studies that claim 40% of DV victims are male. Or that 40% of DV perpetrators are women. They claim both depending on which person is posting the fake stat. I've read that study that the 40% claim comes from. Its bs. It includes everything from feeling ignored to murder under the same standard and it's mainly based on self reported questionnaire results iirc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:04 PM
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by cheating and spreading that dependence between more than one person while also gaining a bully-ally to triangulate against their victims) I've been talked into being one of those bully-allys by men who force their partner to accept a 3 some arrangement. I noticed when I was having piv sex with the man and his gf ran out of the room upset (because she def wasn't ok with it after all), he would get excited in a 'I'm giving her what's been coming to her. Bitch' sort of smirking way and go at it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:00 PM
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We've all been there . It's too bad we are made to feel so ashamed of just wanting to love and be loved and thinking that these men were actually genuine to us. Instead, we are embarrassed that we ever believed their lies that they flawlessly pull off as part of their nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:08 PM
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Wait, did he not have a bed so you both slept on the floor or did he sleep on something and made you sleep on the floor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:05 PM
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I'm just angry that we will get harsh penalties for defending ourselves from these things. The cops relish any opportunity to punish us just as much as our harrassers do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:39 PM
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There's literally nothing you can do though. We never know which thing is or isn't a deterrent or will be considered a sign to go ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:37 PM
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I got barked at like I was a dog because I genuinely didn't hear some contractor say hi to me some unknown day before that when I was walking to my car from my apartment in my late teens. Wasn't out in 'public' 'after dark'. Wasn't dressed inappropriately and it was broad daylight . Just trying to go from my parents apt where I lived to my car 200 ft away and I get insulted just for being a young woman. I only remember it because I confronted him and asked him why. You can guess how belligerent …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:35 PM
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I don't think she could have put that any more politely and firmly. Excellent example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:26 PM
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You forgot resource leeching and hoarding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:33 AM
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My mom has been a victim at least twice. Lost everything she saved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:09 AM
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Lol. It's like squid game in the /u/merseyway universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:20 AM
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I wonder how much a bank tellers salary has decreased since then now that it's mainly a womans job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:15 AM
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And men get offended when I call them psychopaths. Hey, that's just what an FMRI will show. Don't blame me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:44 PM
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Still happens every single day. Dont forget it. In the US too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:43 PM
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I can't watch that shit. I can barely get through a day of just keeping up with the news because of the atrocities committed every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:41 PM
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My dad just stole all the money from my brothers bank accounts when they had paperboy jobs. That's what men would do too. Steal their money and throw the mother of their children out on the streets to starve after their bodies were massacred by the children they were forced to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:38 PM
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I've read that IOWA is basically allowing children in the foster system to disappear because of their lack of accounting for if children are meeting educational standards now that homeschooling is completely without regulations . Plus private foster care is becoming quite lucrative as an Income. Pretty sure that's one of the main reasons why there is such a push to make abortion illegal. They're looking to privatize adoption. Since consumers will no longer have expendable income, investing in ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:36 PM
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He'll claim he was the DV victim and it will go into those bogus stats about men being 40% of DV victims. And the same percentage being claimed that 40% of women are the aggressors but it's always someone theyve heard of or read about, never them that claim this. Anything to escape self reflection and responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:30 PM
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Yep, duel arrests are becoming standard in my area. Women need to avoid men altogether. Its far too risky for no benefit. They don't provide and they DEFINITELY dont protect. They'll watch and blame you as their friend, relative or neighbor literally assaults you in front of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:27 PM
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There are still people who put the mans name on a house or car title without permission and refuse to allow only a womens name to be put as the sole person on the title. They'd rather ask forgiveness than permission . They're obviously projecting .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:25 PM
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It takes up like 40% of image searches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:32 PM
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This is what happens when they have too much time on their hands because they delegate all of their mundane tasks to women. Or neglect to take care of themselves and their spaces. Women always use that time to keep themselves busy with leveling up , volunteering or hobbies . Men just get depressed and hateful because that's their true nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 09:46 PM
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That is why women should sit and listen to the shit men talk about I do. It's very insightful. I was just saying yesterday how people on here sometimes ask me 'who hurt you'. Not really anyone. Ive had some negative experiences but so has everyone. I am probably much more fortunate than the average woman and my dad and brothers are pretty cool. Still men, but pretty cool. It's what they say and do and what I see on the news, on here and what my friends go through (the stuff I've witnessed especi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:55 AM
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Yet men will suggest legalizing and popularizing prostitution in highly conservative and misogynistic countries where there aren't enough women to marry ..because they killed the girls in favor of a Male child and neglect the women that do survive to the point of disability and death. Or some family member or other person coerced or forced them into domestic servitude before they could even get married. Yeah, I'm sure those trafficking victims will be treated well and any violence will be strict…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:48 AM
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See my post history for an answer to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:40 AM
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They're like cops. They lie so much and so naturally, it just doesn't occur to them how wrong it is. Even if they don't like it and think its shitty, theyll never stand up to other men because they're afraid of them. Yet they tell us just to ignore men or tell them to leave us alone when men corner us after waiting for the right moment when others that might intervene leave the area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:38 AM
11

How would someone like me be able to change that situation? I'll buy them drugs too if its about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:35 AM
13

Of course she gets shit pay too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:35 AM
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Now that I think about it, I can see why some are mad that they were majorly lied to about what to expect and what constitutes a 'right's like how Polygyny is touted as a human right in other countries But women didn't do the lying. It's like parents who voluntold their kids time or skills to do something for their coworker or book club friend so the parent can look generous on someone else's labor. Guys make more, have so much more free time, resources and everything else but they are so incred…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:34 AM
30

The private bachelor parties where you hire strippers from a company are even worse. Been to a ton of them. Friend needed a 'driver' and even a woman is better than nobody. I pretended I had a gun but all the men were surprisingly respectful except for frat guys. Nobody slept with anyone but its def hands on and way more. A ton of guys lied to their gfs about it. Sometimes they were allowed to hire strippers but the fiance's were told it was only one stripper and it was just topless or whatever …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:22 AM
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My ex seemed to have this 30- 45 mins or less policy but would never plan ahead and I lived 30 minutes away. He literally treated women like he was ordering a pizza. He hit the wall and is now perpetually single and sleeps on a full sized floor mattress with smelly blankets and an out of commission bathroom after ending his 'toxic ' relationship 2 years ago It was toxic because he was unemployed and didn't do shit at home while his smart, scientist gf commuted an 90 minutes in heavy traffic to B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 10:38 PM
9

You know fathers that do their own taxes? And men will throw women to the wolves when it comes down to it. Squid Game is accurate on that account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:05 PM
90

That's the thing. They refuse to even just clean up after themselves . Just drop their shit on the floor like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:03 PM
30

They dont contribute to society either like we do. We make less and have less resources yet we provide unpaid labor and support to multiple people regularly throughout our lives on our own afford and sometimes by getting guilt tripped by a parent/boss/teacher/friend. They have more of everything yet they want to take what little we have because they feel entitled to it. Can't even act unselfish long enough to trap a bangmaid anymore. Thats how lazy they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:54 PM
26

All they talk about on mens centered communities is having the date near his place so he can naturally segue to suggesting you finish the date at his place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:50 PM
26

The walk dates are such a terrible idea not only because they're dangerous (what if he drugged your coffee when you weren't looking) but you can't see how they interact with other members of the public. And what if you want to leave early because you felt insulted or alarmed? Women get shoved off cliffs on hikes all the time too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:46 PM
28

That last part is really what the 'crisis' is that modern men are facing in all of those articles about how unhappy they are .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:44 PM
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I here people on here say that constantly too. Here meaning reddit. They say we should legalize prostitution to take care of the 'problem'. We really are just disposable livestock to them and they consider themselves good people too. All men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:31 PM
6

Her friends might have recognized that she was too drunk or high to consent.
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:41 PM
15

Can't take responsibility for owning their shitbagness. Thats why they always start fights on birthdays, holidays and vacations. Can't stand being expected to contribute to the greater good of the group and be expected to 'protect' their woman from society should they be disrespectful. They would shove her to the wolves if it came down to it and justify it easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:42 AM
20

And they think the pump and dumps deserve it for being naive and stupid and a sl*t for putting out so early anyways. But they'll be pissed when they don't even get the option to make that choice with a large pool of women to exploit like chads. That's why they hate preferences too. They don't care that 1 woman might love that trait of his. They want numbers they can spend their years having fun before settling down with their perfect angel 19 year old virgin. They are the ones who build the caro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:20 AM
8

What do they mean by that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:06 AM
1

Hang out and talk with all sorts of women. Senior citizens, that black mom in line with you, snotty girl nieces, whoever. Strike up contextual conversations like about self checkout or that song on the store radio. Get to know them if the opportunity presents itself like being at the same table at a wedding. Seeing women as people helps take the unknown factor down a bit. Also, as a woman who approached plenty , having no shame helps a lot. I never took it personally because i just didn't care. …
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:02 AM
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This guys post history is quite the treasure. Either, he's lying or a rapist. He doesn't repeat women but bangs ...lemme check And now consistently sleep with 2-3+ women a week, every week, every month, every year, for the past 10+ years.. But doesn't take plates out on dates. But they must all be plates at that rate. Because all of these women who hes never taken on a date just sleep with some guy, nevermind those numbers and wouldn't he run out of new women in his area? He says he was a virgin…
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:43 AM
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I mean, the fact that girls succeeded in spite of schooling being more male focused is somehow sexist against men? And men just lacking motivation in general is more of a crisis than women single handedly expected to hold up the entire economy by ourselves despite receiving the absolute shit end of everything (health benefits, pay, time off,. vacation, constantly changing jobs to escape sexual harassment, etc) but we are supposed to put time in to nag some dudes who aren't even our partners, fam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:35 AM
0

Oh lordy. I'd suggest to the other commenters not to listen to you but it seems they're way ahead of me.
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:24 AM
0

Give your number instead. Men sometimes make fake complaints to the workers managers as retaliation for being rejected and more than 1 woman has been harassed or murdered for the same reason. Many managers would have no issues considering giving her personal number 'good customer service ' if that prevents complaints and any drama caused lster by the man being rejected coming back and causing problems can be blamed on the woman or girl resulting in her termination. All of these things have happe…
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:19 AM
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She sounds kinda insane. Sounds like she had some seriously fucked up things done to her and has no idea how to process it. If you can't handle her telling you she was raped , i wouldn't pursue a relationship as it would really be fucked for her to trust you then get dumped because of why she has trouble with trust.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:35 AM
2

But the manosphere is claiming that school is sexists against boys and men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:58 PM
1

would really want someone to educate me about men sooner. Thats something that won't ever happen in a co-ed school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:54 PM
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Maybe that incident is the 'sexual compatibility' BS that men are always going on about as justification for insisting on sleeping with all women so quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:21 PM
11

And blame women when they get 'baby trapped ' despite them doing next to nothing to take responsibility including asking about her BC at all past the 'you on birth control, right? ' or just demand 'no babies' . Not even what kind. Or, they'll agree to condom use begrudgingly, fucking take it off halfway and no say anything and then say she is 'ruining his life' by deciding to keep it. Baby trap claim. True story and I was there when my bff told me about the stealthing and subsequent preg tests. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:37 PM
30

'YOu'Re gOInG tO bE DOinG iT aNYwAyS!!'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:53 PM
2

Like her insta stuff while you're deciding. Buys time
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:03 AM
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Well, if a woman in the US is going to have kids with a man and sacrifice her career or education taking care of them or supporting her SO, than not being married is more of a scam but yeah, for most of the world, its literal slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:39 AM
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It iust occurred to me that inheritance probably made a lot of mens head-of-household lifestyle possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:36 AM
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They have more time too. Thats how they can chase off differing opinions. Its amazing how much freedom hateful people have. They can comment away on every platform until that gets shut down for everyone. But their platforms are always open to commenting yet its never enough. They have to spew their vile shit everywhere or else their attempts to shut down conversations is 'censorship ' or the place hosting the discussion is an 'echo chamber'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:29 AM
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I remember a guy friend who cheated regularly but when i brought up how he felt about the scenario being reversed , his face got all dark and he firmly said that he doesn't like his women sleeping with other men. Well, she left him. He got severely depressed and suicidal and really never bounced back. He's got to be like mid 40s now and has no luck with women. Is perpetually on dating sites and is one of those guys who initially put his dating range way below his own but now realizes that he's l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:22 AM
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I watched a comprehensive documentary about WW2 and millions died miserable deaths because of 1 man's bruised ego. And women were drafted too for all the idiots who whine about the draft despite it never affecting them because hypotheticals are the only things they can bring to a discussion when women discuss how they got shafted this time. In a random womans sub made for women based topics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:04 AM
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We need to see that men lie effortlessly and naturally to us . So much that they don't even think twice about it. Some people prefer not to enter spaces like the manosphere or far right conservative spaces. And for the most part, i don't either but i will subscribe to subs like seduction, askmen , oney or some random weirdo conservative sites just to keep aware of the mindset that people are approaching me with. It's funny when I'll say something that calls these attitudes out and they think I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:46 PM
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Ive noticed how much men have used programs, funding and safety nets set up by women and for vunerable women for themselves. Either by suing the programs out of spite or pretending to be disadvantaged and laughing their asses off publically while they exploit our tolerance and scoop up 'freebies ' just because they can. Mens entire existence is individualistic and fatalistic as a whole. It's just short term thinking as we can see for ourselves when we read about the inevitable fate that our plan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:32 PM
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The offspring will not have enough resources to develop to their potential because of the lack of male parenting contributions but they'll blame it on the woman who stayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:26 PM
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Well, men are likely to fudge the studies if they've felt like they've been treated unfairly in their education . Which is probably most of them so i side eye a lot of studies with all male authors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:24 PM
5

Are we all starting to understand just how big of a problem gaming is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:18 PM
5

That's an excellent point that a two income household should add to the economy by hiring out more for cleaning, laundry, cooking, childcare services. But men always, always fight back because it's a 'waste of money'. That right there says how much they value our contributions. Bringing that subject up before having kids or living together is yet another way we can vet before committing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:17 PM
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Its the same sentiment that i hear everywhere when men mention #metoo and how that prevents men from asking us out or offering us jobs .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:13 PM
3

What about survival of the fittest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:09 PM
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You're right that school was designed for men but we are succeeding despite it because of our resilience. And considering all of the rape, harassment and stolen credit that we go through the entire time, they must be even more useless than is being reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:08 PM
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How many of those societies are matriarchal or have a decent percentage of women in charge and in the workforce? Yeah, that's what i thought. Can't use that as a threat when it hasn't happened yet. And men are dangerous and violent even when they have literally 100% of the power over the female inhabitants. Theyre more violent actually. Its like dealing with narcissistic or cluster b sufferers. You're going to get a tantrum either way. Might as well do what you want .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:02 PM
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At least there will be less female children that grow up having their fate be worse than death if there is a backlash. Which is just things going back to the way they were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:49 PM
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It's amazing how many women fall for the 50/50 thing in that scenario as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:41 PM
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Controlling the narrative is why they. HATE it when women warn each other about the predators in a community. They'll flip out and insist the women 'name names' so they can threaten and harass the women into silence. And fail to see the irony when they insist that women report these things to the people in charge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:38 PM
3

Any interesting stories?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:57 PM
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I've always thought that getting access to backstage at performances, auto entry to clubs and parties, free drinks , etc is factored into some of their minds. Especially if they're socially awkward. But that is still dependent on how attractive a woman is, just like for men. At least men can get access for accomplishments. An ugly woman gets none of that and is treated as badly as any neckbeard or creep would if not worse .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:55 PM
20

Literally spoiled in the true and original definition of the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:49 PM
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This is actually the truth. In a thread discussing a 2 child policy in India, plenty were on board with suggestions that they legalize and/or bring in prostitutes because of the huge disparity in genders there because they've already aborted and murdered millions of their own females already !. But poor assholes can't find free slaves to subjugate, much less sleep with because the rules forbid that too so bring in more like its a fucking government bail out but with actual humans People were arg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:43 PM
17

Its amazing how much they lie about everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:05 PM
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I'm going to switch things up right now and say that plenty of these idiots who try to order pussy and try to implement a 30 minutes or less policy, end up alone on a bare mattress and constantly shits over the previous pile of shit in his half bath down the hall. Once the shit lasagna bathroom becomes a thing , he's already lost. The interesting thing about The Wall , is that its not only projection, but its literally every man's future if they don't figure out how to lie convincingly enough to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:21 PM
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You forgot bitter. Just talking about an incident, any incident, where her SO is portrayed in a bad light is labeled as bitter or hateful. That's when they actually think the account sounds too plausible to be labeled a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:14 AM
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Some woman uber driver that suffers from internal misogyny spoke up on a thread on a thread about being an uber driver and how having an interior facing dash cam will shut a lot of guys up when they notice it. She said that women can be just as volatile like complaining or kicking the back of the drivers seat when they're having a drunk tantrum is any comparison to a male passenger grabbing the drivers hair and trying to force the car off the road so he could rape her. Another had to use a claw …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:42 AM
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Sadly, that is why this suggestion would never fly. Women get the book thrown at them if they do anything that goes against societal expectations of how women should conduct themselves. (Be passive and non violent all the way up and through your death.) Not even kidding and i have a bookmark dedicated to articles that mention the harsh charges and sentences for women that defend themselves or do similar criminal things as men but happen to be untouchables or aren't perfect victims and/or are arr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:21 AM
1

Why wine?
/r/seduction10/09/21 09:47 PM
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And yet the fish often dies after release. Guess they weren't all that invested in the fishes well being or they'd know that. I mean, you're just revealing how on the mark my original comment was.
/r/seduction05/09/21 12:29 AM
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I think i get the most hate by far when I say I won't date gamers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:07 PM
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And they'll admit this too when they think we're not listening. Just like every other criticism we talk about on here. If it's written in text, it goes right into my bookmarks or screenshots folder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:50 PM
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I have hope though. FDS attitude is spreading to women outside the movement as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:43 PM
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Also, hes a fucking stranger who wants to dump on another stranger and keep doing it without giving any support back. Also, don't they constantly shit on us for choosing abusive men because we should know better and no one is holding a gun to our head so why not just leave if we don't like it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:41 PM
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I low key joke with old dudes by negging their bigot asses and they fucking love it. They try to buy me shit and flirt but i duck out and disappear because I'm faster than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:29 PM
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Even if you do agree with him , don't say more than an 'wow' or 'totally ' because you'll see their eyes roll back because you're not supposed to talk. But they still choose you to talk at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:20 PM
18

Reminds me of that mattress subplot in Brooklyn 99. Amy couldn't sleep on his billion year old dumpster mattress and he just couldn't comprehend why its even worth spending money on a new one. But obviously still wanted her to stay over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:57 PM
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I'm going to ask men this question when i run across them. As well as if they think cognitive empathy is something you're born with or something that's learned through experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:54 PM
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I mean, women are even leaving their abusive service jobs in favor of ones where you only get verbally assaulted or even left alone! It's just going to be thousands of 20-50 yo women living the Golden Girls life and not have to wait for our lifesuckers partners to give us that sweet reprieve that is their death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:06 PM
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We always make millions with a wave of our hand. They're money was earned after millennia of heroic world saving battles and every $5 is metaphorically drenched in the tears of their entitled rage at being denied their birthright of Greatness over all and eternal leisure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:30 PM
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Some shitbag on another thread had this great solution for former only fans nude models to just switch over to chatburbate and stick stuff up your vagina so you can be a prostitute by proxy instead of being a model who goes topless. Same exact thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:23 PM
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I want to know more about it but all of the (many) articles I've stumbled across this past week are all written by men and they obviously can't be objective in any capacity. But i bet there are so many self insinuated experts who will tell you with gusto just how much the women are outraged. Probably 5he only time it will ever be acceptable for us to be angry, no matter if we actually are or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:20 PM
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Taking in male refugees is idiotic and thankless. All of these 'heartwarming ' or 'heartbreaking ' photos of healthy men holding infants up immediately made me wonder where the hell the women were. This is mens state without women to civilize them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:56 AM
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Its a personal distress reaction. Aka, their only way of experiencing innate empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:49 AM
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Lol. I totally missed the guitars on first pass. I don't see any amps or pedals anywhere either indicating frequent practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:25 AM
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Nah. Its either GME shenanigans and/or dogecoin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:22 AM
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I'm not offended, i just think there can be a compromise. Complete segregation of genders in society is extremely troublesome, i agree. Someone else brought it up in an earlier thread in response to one of my comments and they were right. They were from a country where attempts to separate genders in places like subways was exacerbating the victim blaming. I just can't see a scenario where boys, men and women with internalized misogyny wouldn't completely derail that sort of syllabus with their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:53 AM
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All womens schools are still a thing. A college near me (Smith) is still womens only. Middle school is only like 3 years afaik. The nude photos pressure and violent sex as the norm is an epidemic for young women and it can destroy lives before they even start. Public schools have done nothing to stop it and 1/4 of female freshman and sophomore university students are sexually assaulted in the first 3-4 months every year and they can't even report it to the police. Reporting it increases your har…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:24 AM
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And even if they believe you and think they're kind of a creep too, its not important enough to them to delete them from their Facebook or stop associating with them even though they are your good friend who you went to high school with, who's in your close friend group who consider each other 'family' , talks to you almost every day in the 6 person group chat you've been in for years and is currently dating your brother who you're very close to. 'Feminist ' of course. I need new friends. Theyre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:03 AM
4

Does that actually play well for a jury?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:51 AM
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I want to start an all women's middle school that prepares women for the lifetime of lies and how to avoid the ~40% of the worlds population that want nothing more than the worst things for you. Its literally like we're surrounded by dementors that are trying to steal our life force just as we're starting out in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:48 AM
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was not assaulted when I slept at a straight-male-friend's house because I was too intoxicated to go home. And i was. It still proves your point. It was my fault for being friends with him, i was told. They prevented their other sleeping friend from being assaulted but that was at a campground right in front of witnesses. Guess some people are more worthy of being a proper victim that deserves to be rescued because no one blamed her for passing out drunk among a giant group of other drunk people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:44 AM
1

Fucking demons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:47 PM
1

This is a very fruitful conversation. Thank you for your candor.
/r/seduction14/08/21 09:57 PM
1

Wow. Ok. I really never thought I'd have to say this and mean it , but you're mansplaining right now. It's not as prevalent as some click bait site like Vox will tell you. Same thing with 'Manspreading'. Its not an epidemic . However, when it presents itself, its over the top ridiculous. Which is why someone came up with a bame for it in the first place. That's how i perceive your comment. I mean, come on man. Level the fuck up.
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:04 PM
3

Girls just wanna have fun.
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:06 AM
5

Its not about being treated as lower value. I wish that myth would die. (Maybe it works on abuse survivors). Its about being treated as a person and not as someone being hunted. Its easier to feel safe around a guy who isn't locked in on you and acting tense and unnatural. That behavior comes across as sinister, regardless of intentions. If you had some huge dude who could easily crush your skull staring at you and skulking around trying to force an encounter against your will every time you lea…
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:04 AM
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The entire top half of his face is identical to caleb followwill (?) , the lead singer of king of leon. He even got pretty ripped in the weight lifting photo but might be below 6' like a ton of chads are. I mean, this guy must have had a truly god awful personality if he fucked up such a good foundation. He's definitely projecting the shallow thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:51 AM
6

Why didn't any of the chads at his school take him under their wing and extend some encouragement and support for one of their brothers their so sympathetic to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:47 AM
5

I have an entire sub bookmark named 'men as protectors '. Obviously its a sarcastic title but its getting to be quite a large library of links.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:28 AM
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Of course he would. Why do you think hes even subscribed to that sub? Hes hunting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:26 AM
4

BOtH sIDeS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:24 AM
3

We need to call him out on his enabling and ask him why he has so much sympathy for them that he won't follow established definitions to describe the type of violence accurately. Anyone have any ideas for a hashtag directed at wallace?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:22 AM
3

How many men are voluntarily jobless and leeching off their gf and ruining their credit, their futures and their offspring by sucking everything possible off a well meaning woman who just wants to experience a loving partnership? Its a tremendous amount of young men in this country. Many aren't even entering the workforce at all when they graduate. And others only work long enough to trick an innocent and hardworking young woman into providing for them literally like a mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:20 AM
4

Why don't they CoMmUnICaTe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:15 AM
8

You know a female oriented sub has been taken over or started by men by how fast you get permabanned for mentioning that they check out FDS. Also, you can tell by which related subreddits they link to. Like Feminism links relationship_advice but not relationships. Because the original sub has a very low tolerance for shit. I even got banned from the original but i deserved it by being a jerk in the comments. And theyll link TwoX but not TrollX. Stuff like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:12 AM
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People need to turn their focus on him and others in power that are enabling this sort of violence. Its Its fairly obvious he relates to these people so lets tell him we know that he's perpetuating rape and violence himself by his (in)actions . And that we will crowdsource information to find out how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:05 AM
6

I recently met a stranger who was homeless, friendless and broke because he said he was mentally ill. But it became quickly apparent that he completely lacked empathy and was one of the most blatantly manipulative and entitled people ive ever met. His only problem was his complete inability for delayed gratification, hide his contempt for everyone and put on any sort of front. It clearly exhausted him. That was his problem. I guess he does have an underlying mental illness but that's scary as he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:02 AM
5

If he killed his own mother for trying to put him on a normal path, imagine how he would treat any high school gfs or women he meets in college. He would be a college party rapist in an alternate universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:56 PM
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Saints responsible for everyones mental health and well being but not good enough to make any decisions on how to carry out those responsibilities. It's a built in way to blame us. It's machiavellian. Maybe we are idiots for thinking they are even capable of creating any society or micro civilization that actually benefits everyone without quickly devolving into shit. The tolerance paradox is a great metaphor for the entire man/woman dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:54 PM
0

You're in the UK?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:30 PM
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It is an option though. Its not like gay guys are going to be more moral than a het guy and refuse to do a guy who's straight out of respect to their preferences. Men are perfectly willing to screw a trafficked lesbian woman or perform corrective rape. I imagine a ton of gay guys would love to open a legal male only brothel in Germany and force unemployed hot male bartenders and servers to accept their job offer or lose benefits. They can get picked out of a online job seekers site just like a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:29 PM
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Do they have any proof to make that connection? And legalizing it was a quick slippery slope to forcing the poorest women into it or become homeless and starve. Hope she isn't a single mom. Of course, nothing in this article mentions the same enforcement for men. 'If you don't take a job as a prostitute, we can stop your benefits' https://archive.fo/wDGhT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:03 PM
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The UK vetoed a list for convicted domestic assaulters and rapists to protect future potential partners because gendered rape and violence is an epidemic over there. Absolutely no idea what the downside could be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:57 PM
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Thats why they claim they work 90 hours a week or act like they just returned from the crusades every time they get home and scream away their responsibilities to their SO . Their money is the hardest earned money that has ever been made by any single woman. Not flipping out on workers and having to fake politeness and empathy must be truly exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:55 PM
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That's a good insight. Trees need wind to succeed as bending and blowing the branches around when they're smaller makes them tougher yet flexible enough to withstand storms and be able to stretch enough to get enough sunlight . And i just answered my own question that i posted right before this one asking why these guys always ask others for a womans number or steal it from their customer accounts instead of asking for it when the woman is right there . They can't handle the ego blow of a public…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:51 PM
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Why can't he ask her for her number herself? Why do they always resort to clandestine tactics like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:43 PM
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I don't buy this shit about them being 'doomed' because they barely make any effort in the first place. I picked up on that vibe in a big way while reading the article. There’s something special about being young, I don’t know what it is, you just have that drive, you have that fresh bounce to you you know It's being legally required to go to school until you're old enough to drop out or you graduate. The end of mandated school usually coincides with your mom becoming more hands off about trying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:51 PM
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I heard the phrase 'emotional violence ' to describe what this woman was doing by saying she didn't feel a connection after 1 date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:18 PM
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If i recall correctly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:47 PM
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They'll be let off because its 'consensual'. But you can't consent to that. And isn't it still a crime to scam people out of money they consensually give or to groom someone into giving them your kidney , or a thousand other scenarios where trust is slowly established to take advantage of someone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:22 PM
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Well, the woman was murdered by law enforcement iirc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:40 PM
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Could be a missing stair scenario. Ive got that problem myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:40 PM
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My friend got her intimate video stolen by my creep ex friend when she asked him to do some settings adjustment on her computer years ago. It was on a flash drive and he just took it upon himself to steal it after he checked to see what was on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:38 PM
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And your photos will be rifled through and saved whenever you give your phone or other device to be serviced by a man or at a place where a man works. Its amazing how many reviewers for repair places have people complaining about their devices being taken home to fix for no discernible reason. My ex friend is a data hoarder and admits that the perks of fixing up a womans computer is going through her photos to get off on later. They save it then sort through it at their leisure. I've read a dece…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:36 PM
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. It seemed apparent that he took these photos without consent. That's the problem. We can try to set boundaries and avoid their horrible exploitation but they will always adapt . Non consensual stuff it becoming more and more popular as men turn themselves in Cenobites so check for hidden cameras and keep up on the latest technology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:31 PM
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Wow, sounds similar to the cognitive effects of functional alcoholism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:25 PM
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I think they also want their woman home at all times so they have someone to talk at, take things out on and to give them a reason to complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:17 PM
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Not just us. The entire world is on fire and millions of species of every order are dying everyday. It's called the holocene extinction. Women certainly didn't do that. We aren't in any positions of power to influence shit. Especially as its cumulative so recent appointments in a few western countries have no role in it. Its about to be all over for us and theyre still grunting around trying to win pissing contests and fight us because personal responsibility is impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:48 AM
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Its all just a game of simon says like what the cops did to Daniel Shaver . The intent for violence was there from the beginning. The only difference between some people is that they don't know why they're doing it . It protects the cognitive dissonances that is the firewall before reaching the ego. Which must be protected at all costs because core collapse is a real possibility. It's a pretty fragile ecosystem for many. Men aren't known for their resiliency. They think they're pulling it off bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:42 AM
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Just over 35. Seems to be all downhill from there. For the lazy ones anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:28 AM
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Its like ordering a pizza . My ex used to act like that. He wanted me to get there within 30 minutes or less. Funny though. He hit the wall after a couple decades of promiscuity and now can't get a date at all. He complained that they all want to 'go out '. Its over for so many guys my age. They fucked around and now they found out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:50 AM
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But they work 1,987,408 hours a week!! The number of hours i hear men claiming they work is getting more and more ridiculous. I suppose it does add up when you stop and sit in the municipal parking lot near the lake and sit on your phone to avoid responsibilities 3 times a week. Seriously, i started noticing men doing that (and also sitting parked in their trucks) a bunch and my male friend told me why they're there. Then i started noticing it a lot more when im out at rush hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:09 AM
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My dad took me to the movies by himself and cooked these things called porcupines on Sundays. He taught me how to drive and then taught me to drive a standard . He always launched into action when i said i needed new clothes. He always complimented me from the heart and got me help when i had trouble with college and jobs. He tore the salon a new one when i wasnt happy with my perm and again when the dentist fucked up my x rays and had to do them again. He made us fake business cards giving us t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:02 AM
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Can you think of other examples offhand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:16 AM
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Wow. You're right. Getting away with it is the sort of privilege that would entice an every man Joe type person because that's the sort of privilege usually awarded to people well above their own station. Kind of like how Kyles and Karens have used service workers as a substitute for having your own private servants to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:16 AM
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Yep. Some woman got stabbed 120+ times by a guy in a relationship after she mistook his car for her uber. He just spontaneously did it. No stalking or planning. Hes already in a relationship. That's how close we are every day from being murdered. No dark alleys. No forced abductions. Walking your dog in broad daylight, trying to catch an uber to work, getting pulled over for a tail light being out. Sorry that I'm not focusing on the draft though. I'm the monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:40 AM
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A thread on a potential 2 child policy and subsequent discussion on the lack of women to marry ended up with a few suggestions of legalizing prostitution so the single men don't go off on killing sprees. I'm still disgusted by that suggestion. So throw more women at a nationality of men who already think women are subhuman and have no problem gang raping and torturing a 10 year old and throwing her barely alive body in a ditch afterwards? They don't even care about their sisters and daughters ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:55 AM
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Looks like you have to ask yourself how you feel about breaking up a relationship again. Im a woman and I'm pretty sure she wants you. But she also comes across as a woman who would be a lot of drama. Not sure why i get this impression but maybe i subconsciously pick up on that stuff.
/r/seduction07/08/21 03:17 AM
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Probably stress from shit in her life. It's pretty rampant among every woman i know irl the last few months.
/r/seduction07/08/21 12:29 AM
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I knew the reaction it might cause . It happens every time i mention how ill date gamers. I find it fascinating how men will vehemetley argue about things that are personal choices, mindsets, boundaries or conclusions that you've made. And they will attack an entire group of women, not just me, if they have the audacity to have an unapproved opinion that did not go before the board of gaslighting logic bots that were assigned to make sure nothing will happen that might not benefit them. I see th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:07 PM
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I got piled on an entire day this past week for saying that i definitely am one of the women who would preemptively eliminate any prospective date if they had casual sex as relationship option they are interested in. So much rage and entitlement. But they gave another guy crickets when he stated further down the thread that he would preemptively eliminate women who go on dates with different men during the OLD process. He said he'd ghost as soon as he knew that he wasn't the only one she would b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:32 AM
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Favor sharking is a red flag that seems to raise its ugly head early on but that's just a theory so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:09 AM
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I'm surprised you didn't catch shit for opting out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:06 AM
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It sounds bad but i also think that his attitude is how most men are. As a default. Some just hide it better or just don't bothet with it and mentally blame everything you say on typical insane female logic. It's their baseline mentality towards us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 08:41 AM
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They take everything out on their partners, to be fair. Thats literally why they need to seek out relationships despite hating us. They are hard wired to protect the ego before all else so they have to have women as a living straw man thats responsible for the bad choices they make every day. And if there's not a woman around to blame, theyll make one up. See sailors and their mermaids, sirens, fata morganas, etc. Check this shit out: Early sailors also attributed strange sounds they heard at se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 08:29 AM
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Web archives? And the entire retreat thing is a common thread, I'm finding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 08:16 AM
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Its the first time they've been told 'No'. Its obviously a very memorable event for an entitled , selfish being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:59 AM
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I hope shes not quoting from that ridiculously biased intimate partner violence meta study that all the MRAs link to . It puts literally every relationship issue under the violence umbrella and gives the .majority of its weight towards self reporting shit like we're describing here and just completely glosses over serious injuries or deaths. A man being called lazy is put on the same level as 27 stabbings and blinding via shattered orbital socket from a female abuse victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:57 AM
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It makes sense if you think about from the perspective that they resent us for having to put so much effort into pretending not to be a monster in order to lock us in. They'll admit it clear as day too. Its amazing. Again, i save and screenshot this shit for a future imgur gallery. Can't imagine the rage that will ensue despite me just silently posting their own moral bankruptcy back at them. Cause, gotta blame a woman. Self reflection is death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:40 AM
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You are a domestic violence victim. There are a lot of resources for you. You should qualify for free health insurance and emergency financial aid, food stamps, bill help, rent help, etc. It sounds overwhelming but i believe you can dial 211 to get numbers for all that stuff to start and then fill out apps online for the Gov stuff. The upside is that you have time to do it. I would prioritize seeking help for your injury immediately. You can call 211 first to see how to get in to see someone for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:34 AM
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Can you dm me that link or is that against the rules. I don't subscribe or participate in those subs by personal rule but that one sounds like that legal advice child support guy who wanted his sex partner to keep the kid when she got pregnant, so she gave birth and ghosted but paid 110% child support but he wanted to court order force her to be his bang maid as well. How many men would completely lose interest in getting custody if their exes did the same thing. It's not about the kids or the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:26 AM
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And don't even think about pushing past him to get away from him literally trapping you in a corner while screaming death threats im your face. Some creepy neighbor of my ex responded to me telling him to get away from my car ( my bf was under the hood and i was in the drivers with the door open, doing the turning on/off car stuff ) by smirking in a threatening manner and standing right outside my door, just to let me know that I didn't have the option of setting boundaries with him. And he was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:07 AM
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He would literally go on rants to strangers about how evil I was, for actually expecting regular child support based on government guidelines and a set visitation schedule. It was unacceptable, since he didn't have access to my body anymore. Holy shit. This place is so insightful because we all know how any child support money requirements are abusive to them . Also, they all have this mass delusion that the mother is supposed to be destitute in order for her to be eligible, like its food stamps…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:22 AM
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They say that their gf cheated if she moves on at any point before he does. If a guy says 'all my exes cheated' that is always a lie. They just can't handle that them sucking is the reason why she left plus it's projection as well. Because they never leave a woman unless they find someone else lined up already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:11 AM
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Its video games all the way down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:52 PM
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They'll gladly accept that x box on their birthday though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:17 PM
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Had the same thing happen where i was walking to my car in the apartment lot and this guy in a work trucked barked at me. I went straight up to his window and said that he better have a dog in there. He didn't, but he did have a 6 year old son next to him. Then he starts whining that he said hi the other day and that i ignored him. Never seen the guy before in my life and I'm pretty vigilant. I said i didn't hear anything and that he should be more respectful of women for his sons sake at least.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:20 PM
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Have you ever accidentally made eye contact with one of them because your subconscious noticed you being stalked in the periphery and you just knew that your entire time there is going to be ruined? You instantly can tell that theyre going to be a psychic vampire pest in one form or another until you can leave the area. Which is not always possible. I've literally had people follow me around the entire event, party or activity asking whats wrong because they can feel my visceral need to avoid th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:12 PM
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Thats exactly the problem for me. Stop worrying so much about what im doing and literally mind your own business. Your laser focus on me or the women around you is palpable and makes you come across as a literal predator . And then you try to act like your intentions are all innocent and you were just going about things just like everyone else. I remember reading about the illusion of asymmetric insight and it seems to fit this type of behavior .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:57 PM
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I mean, these guys certainly get it when another guy choses the urinal right next to you when there are tons of open spots, if not all open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:31 PM
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Yep. Thats what happened. I commented something like 'oh wow. Thats insane' and got banned for that with no warning and no real previous participation before that. Definitely no rule breaking except the unspoken one which is an FDS comment within my recent history whatever i said here brought irrational rage to their mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:45 PM
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There never is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:17 AM
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Ive started saying that i believe them when they say they'll do that stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:57 AM
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I'm enraged that they force all incoming freshman to live on campus but let rape thrive and do everything possible to cover it up. Even changing legislation so they can't report it to local authorities to prosecute either and of course, the cops love that. 1/4 freshman and sophomore women get sexually assaulted in the first few months of the school year. Who knows how many women have to had to forfeit 50k in tuition because they were raped and traumatized just when their life is getting started.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:55 AM
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It hasn't? Do you have any more info? Also,I've noticed that creators of subs aren't admins or moderators of them a lot and i have no idea why .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:23 PM
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ID gEt NO maTCheS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:11 PM
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There's a reason why male led subs like Feminism has male led domestic violence and rape subs as their sister subs . They don't list any that are female led like trollx.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:10 PM
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They've chased all women off the platforms. So they're doubling down and doing it in person I lurk pua subreddits and can definitely confirm that these types of meetups are the top suggestion aside from cold approaches in public spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:33 PM
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That may be why mens shelters and charities don't have much luck. They probably expect women to freely volunteer their time for the benefit of people who will just chase them right back out with stalking, harassment and threats and then complain about lack of help when it closes down. Because men sure as hell aren't lining up to help people for free. They probably would tell women that nobody asked them to volunteer so stop complaining or just leave if you don't like it (their solution for every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:29 PM
15

And violence begets more violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:49 PM
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The problem with a lot of these guys is that it never ends. There's a sport for every season and then they are pre-season shit that's just as sacred as a playoff or championship. So its just constant prioritizing for something they passively participate in. I would find it much more tolerable to date someone who actually participated in sports because at least that gets you in shape and can forge strong irl bonds. Gaming doesn't count but has similar addictive qualities as obsessive sports watch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:47 PM
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But they claim being forced to hold your feelings inside is exclusively a men problem. Usually its brought up as a counterpoint to womens problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:41 PM
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Men should always do the dishes when the woman cooks for the family . What possible reason wouldn't he? Her labor cooking is doing both parents part of feeding THEIR children and so the dishes are picking up after himself and doing his half of after hours childcare as it should be split as its supposedly 50/50. And its not like she's getting a break with dishes either since she'll still be occupied with the kids but giving any effort whatsoever towards the family means she's getting 'time off' l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:07 PM
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And who's paying the deductibles and hospital bills for a baby born from an unmarried couple anyways? I also think we should organize a greeting card boycott to show these male-led corporations which genders paycheck is keeping th in businesses as so many men see women working as taking 'their jobs'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:46 PM
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It never occurred to me that women would be more likely to get screwed out of money she lent or trusted a man with. Makes total sense both in our socialization from society to be a nurturer and unconditionally give men the benefit of the doubt to infinity, and because of their innate tendency to lie as well as their eternal bitterness over getting turned down by Becky in 6th grade that all women must pay for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:35 PM
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Considering how often they have to bring up hypothetical hardships that haven't happened to them and most likely never will. (like the draft, having nowhere to go after fleeing a gf that beat you up, working in one of the most dangerous jobs sectors, etc) In fact, women are now 49% of the workforce and the majority are either breadwinners or co-breadwinners. While men's participation in the workforce has plummeted. Especially young men 18-40. And most of those aren't in education either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:30 PM
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But when you leave it and it keeps happening, they'll say: why didn't you just tell him to stop? MAyBe He'S aUtIStiC aNd DoEsNt KnOW aNY beTtER!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:42 PM
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Men are brought up to believe that women exist for them. Yes all men. I literally saw that sentiment expressed on a youtube comment recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:34 PM
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Gold diggers. They get paid in gold and cars by a womans family so she can be their broodmare slave and that's rarely enough. They collect dowrys, beat and torture the women to try to extract more. Then when they realize the brides family doesn't care, they murder her and toss her body away like garbage and move on to the next innocent victim. Yeah, its illegal but so is rape and we all have been raped and assaulted without regard in the US every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:04 PM
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I want something more than what the average human experience can give me, i guess. I've been that way and my only mistake was trying to be anything else. I want to be post human. I want to level up in terms of consciousness. I'm not bound by the cloud of horniness like most men* so I'm probably better equipped for it . It's not for everyone. *Disclaimer: aside from 2-3 days of elevated sex drive due to ovulation. And i doubt it matches the average male)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:20 AM
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When are we going to make our own society/country?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:29 AM
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My dad has no memory of his father because his mother walked in on his father trying to smother him with a pillow and i guess that was the cue for her to gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:27 AM
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I've done 5 year celibacy stretches since the beginning. My mind seems to reset after 5 years and i delve into the dating pool foolishly for a brief period before men quickly drive me back out. Most women get driven out just as quickly for one reason or another, I've found. There is a reason why tinder execs refuse to release their active user demographics. Its a sausage-bot party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:21 AM
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Great insight. Saving this quote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:13 AM
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I just read about a policy rescinding some higher currency rupee bills so many women are getting thrown from their homes as their emergency funds are discovered by their husbands .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:09 AM
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Oh yeah, i know a few of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:20 AM
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I've asked multiple men if they had the opportunity to take a pill to eliminate their sex drive with no health effects, would they? They all say no. One says that constant horniness is the only reason why men don't just sit there and do nothing. That mens only motivation is to present an image to attract a mate. That civilization as a whole would die out. I'm like????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:17 AM
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https://www.goldcoastbulletin.com.au/news/crime-court/new-data-shows-gold-coasts-domestic-violence-crisis-being-fuelled-by-links-to-pornography/news-story/7127cbfea7cf71af12ef0193886f605c A concerning new trend tracked by welfare workers at the Gold Coast Centre Against Sexual Violence reveals clients who have been raped had been subjected to increasing violence. Centre director Di McLeod in an address yesterday to more than 50 community stakeholders detailed the shocking violence which included…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:12 AM
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I don't even personally know of any man in my life who has paid for trafficking victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:17 AM
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For all their talk about evopsych, etc, they seem to forget about survival of the fittest. Even after eradicating so many females through killing and eventually, selective abortions, they still insist on maintaining the narrative that men are the prizes to be fought over and for their survival to be prioritized. When its women who run economies and civilize humans enough to survive long enough to not only prevent extinction, but to thrive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:16 AM
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That plays into the overiy represented just world fallacy thats used to victim blame women raped all over but especially in places like Saudi Arabia or Pakistan. Where indecent clothing can't be blamed but women still must have asked for it so they blame it on something because of their moral luck or puritanical bias.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:11 AM
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I have a bookmark dedicated to incidences of womens super harsh charges and sentences if they do anything that's fighting back against violence .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:16 PM
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Im guessing a former or current rapist downvoted me. So many monsters in our midst.
/r/seduction22/06/21 02:47 AM
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Is your goal a quick lay? Plan a date close to your house, I had a few bars around 5 minutes walking from my house so I went bar hopping and ended in my house if that was the goal. Also, late night dates tend to work better for this. I vehemently advise against this tip, especially the bar hopping before taking the woman home. This could land you a rape charge as the woman could very likely be too inebriated to consent after drinking from multiple bars . Or if she gets roofied without your knowl…
/r/seduction21/06/21 09:10 PM
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Thanks for the idea. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:09 PM
12

Yeah, 24k magic is probably one of the most overproduced garbage songs ever. So much theft in one song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:25 PM
7

Your description of this is fucking hilarious. That last line was a little too real for me though. Blech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:24 PM
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This is one guys dating strategy when a woman doesn't look enough like her pics on the first date: When women do this and they're still in my range that I could find attractive after a few drinks, I like to turn on the charm, have sex then ghost em'. Waist my time with lies and games and I'll do the same. This is the third time ive heard that strategy in a week. First time it was justified if a woman changed her mind a lot when OP got more and more aggressive with pushing boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:29 PM
13

It makes you wonder just how much more women have contributed to all societies when they have so much spare time to dedicate to destroying them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:12 PM
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Wow, so he put all the costs and health risks of BC on you so he wouldn't need a condom and then bailed when his sperm got through anyways? Typical delusional male entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:18 PM
15

Holy shit, its so obvious. Why didn't i see that before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:07 PM
7

It gets me when they post ads that not-so-subtly look for this in the domestic gigs section.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:03 PM
18

Yet women contribute nothing to a mans life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:01 PM
2

They'll just try to get in and take because they cant stay away from us. Not even online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:30 PM
64

What is with the shit news coming from that place lately? Has anything changed or is it just being reported more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:19 PM
16

The lying 'women' are bots. But they literally don't see any difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:26 PM
2

So...'saint ' paul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:41 AM
18

How long did it take for the mask to come off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:59 PM
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I just saw a comment where her totally thought that that the mass amounts of missing indigenous women in canada just ran away and killed themselves. Like, all of them. No explanation behind why anyone would do that. He just couldn't handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:12 AM
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It was in person told to me by a friend and we were talking about her former tenant and his nice guy rants and envy about not getting laid compared to his brother. Apparently he was able to pick up all these attractive young women who were supposedly not paid for but drugs and alcohol were involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:07 PM
18

The picking up a woman to do different guys who are strangers but the woman totally wasn't a prostitute or kidnapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:04 PM
15

Ive heard this same thing the other day. It supposedly happened to this guy. Hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:37 PM
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And gets convinced that it must be because shes cheating and will tell everyone that from then afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:30 PM
4

Why is rational in quotes?
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:29 PM
39

The mormons church is a living example of your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:09 AM
52

Ive noticed that too. I had the entire philosophy in my head before this sub was even created. I am the most average person ever and see my thoughts and desires manifest themselves throughout society. Its neat. This ideology is going to catch on like wildfire. Mark my words. There are dozens millions of us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:14 AM
37

Wtf? Im not sure why im surprised because i just witnessed some dude come into my dentist and bug the receptionists because he was bored. He asked if so-and-so was working and they were all fake nice and steered the conversation towards making an appointment which he obviously was not interested in. All women work there, including the dentist so I should bring this up to the provider at my upcoming appointment. Sometimes a customer has more weight .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:11 AM
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Iirc,, its to avoid being banned for brigading. Women are held to much higher standards in all aspects of life and this place enrages a lot of men who have nothing to do .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:06 AM
38

Look at the male run sub named after the most well known womens movement and check out the approved affiliated sub list and unsubscribe from them all and suggest others do also. Notice how all of the subs have long since been overrun by men. Edit: removed the name as another comment had a mod request to remove sub names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:01 AM
40

He just had to 'even the score' because he felt emasculated and embarrassed himself. Tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:45 PM
4

Paradoxically they end up wanting to have sex because I’m the first guy to be alpha while not chasing them for sex. Make them feel safe because you're acting like you're looking for a partner and not like a predator seeking to snag prey. I could give the same advice as a woman without all of the ridiculous evopsych BS. I'm not surprised it worked for the OP. It would work on me too.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:05 PM
14

You're welcome. Please check out that first link further to read all the info that the site has to offer. I think the entire movement is in line with FDS and i would like to see us adopt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:58 PM
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Ive been reading a lot about how it's necessary to criminalize buying or selling sex and decriminalization for the women Use word prostitute Amnesty – making the exploited conform to the language of the exploiters? | Abolish Prostitution Now! https://abolishprostitutionnow.wordpress.com/2014/06/16/amnesty-making-the-exploited-conform-to-the-language-of-the-exploiters/ https://cnsnews.com/news/article/patrick-goodenough/buying-sex-human-right-amnesty-international-endorses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:48 PM
32

What is with their entitlement to the household shit you spent your hard earned discretionary funds on? Its not like they'd ever Express appreciation for you improving the shared space. In fact, a man would more like disparage you for spending money on 'frivolous things ' (like expansion packs for software you dont even own outright is a worthy buy,,)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:39 PM
3

Yeah, the seeking out is definitely an unambiguously good sign. I actually think the interruption by the nurse was good timing as it seemed to happen during a natural lull but too bad the end didn't work out. Sounds like OP was just caught off guard.
/r/seduction03/06/21 08:29 AM
2

Wow.
/r/seduction02/06/21 09:48 AM
40

I got banned from Feminism earlier by replying to someone and saying how prevalent #13 is when it comes to online spaces. Ironic how the male mods decided to immediately react by proving me correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:46 AM
5

Speaking of bias: Funny enough, i got banned from feminism after making comments here and ironically one there about how #13 on a posted misogyny list (about how talking being mistreated is misandry) is especially prevalent in online spaces. Naturally, the moderator list is hidden because its all male and they don't want to be called out on their lies. The list of recommended subreddits are all spaces where men have screamed and harassed women out of the subreddits enmass. Like relationship_advi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:04 AM
9

I WORK 90 HOURS A WEEK! translation: he works 37 but the hour commute and the hours of him sitting in his car to avoid having to contribute to the household because his irrational bangmaid at home will bug him about doing what he promised yesterday just to shut her up. Anything he don't want to do is work and its not his fault that he can't be lazy so therefore, in his mind he's working. Sound familiar to anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:11 AM
6

Well, when your entire reality is clouded aside from a few minutes of 'post nut clarity' than its probably worse than we think considering post nut clarity is a phenomenon that is so common that men came up with a name for it. But we're not supposed to actually believe what they say unless they tell us we can, otherwise it's a joke. But its only a joke when they tell is it is. Basically, just like they say, let men do the thinking for us. Or is that a joke too? What a logical gender!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:06 AM
8

So many women recuse themselves from sexual violent cases when being screened for juries because they're admit its happened to them . They want to follow the rules and be honest about their potential for being biased. I bet you a million dollars that women overwhelmingly recuse themselves voluntarily over men if there were proper statistics on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:02 AM
5

If that guy who tried to date you is mental than it's super common in men. They HATE being reminded that we have memories and they don't get to start the level over and erase everything some arbitrary 'save' point that even actually video games don't allow. . Maybe thats why those amnesia romance comedies always have male trying to manipulate a woman with memory problems and not vise versa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:59 AM
8

I'm gonna go ahead and guess its to cover up cheating and abuse. Its pretty obvious as you compare historical rules made by religious and leaders in government .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:55 AM
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But, its rude.
/r/seduction02/06/21 02:32 AM
11

That second part especially as women use it as a tactic to look unapproachable to strangers as they are not receptive. Its a good indication that very women want to talk to strangers If you don't see anyone not on their phone, than theres always another place and day.
/r/seduction02/06/21 02:29 AM
14

Also getting sued is a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:42 AM
11

Like its the financial equivalent to this choking out trend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:09 PM
15

The majority of quoted bullshit thats used as fodder against us is again, written by that literal pharisee Paul. The guy was a creepy neckbeard, a blasphemer and actively did what the old testament forbid. Epecially about taking care of widows. He made it pretty much impossible for them to be eligible for church help. But pay him twice as much, young widows need new husbands or theyll visit other women and exchange notes about whos molesting who and whos been raped. 2 or 3 verses late he writes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:08 PM
18

Shit, I'd just be happy to live with a partner that has their own home and gives me a corner and a spot of yard. What is wrong with these guys? They could totally pawn off lawn work if they live at their gfs property because its her house. Not cool but plenty of pickmes would agree. Unless a guy is actually into lawn maintenance because guys who dont want to do something will moan and whine in a war of lifelong attrition. They despise expectations of service and giving coming from women, family …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:36 PM
13

Just one house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:54 PM
53

We literally get our life force sucked from us and is given to them. They live longest when they are most successful at extracting everything useful from their host and when the host gets sick or expels the male parasite, it desperately seeks a new host as it cannot survive long on their own. They leech credit, labor, ideas, recognition and industries and co-opt our best qualities that they are incapable of producing amongst their own yet they claim them as their virtues alone. Such as goodwill,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:18 PM
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Because they truly feel entitled to us. Someone on YouTube said that women were created for men. He also said that women are sacred and not for other dirty men to see and eye fuck. Apparently, God forgot the part where we all start off as females but lazy greedy takers gonna take, amirite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:57 PM
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The common thread I've seen most often is that they want the woman to sell their house and put all the equity you earned into a downpayment for your new house that he will have half ownership of immediately upon closing despite not contributing to the downpayment at all. Ive even heard of them trying to be listed as sole owner on the deed but not mortgage for some convoluted lying reason or another. One post on a subreddit had the guy asking for her to sell for a joint house super early in the r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:49 PM
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Nobody falls in love faster than a guy who needs a place to stay. Another quote if no one has said it yet it: women are just collateral damage on man's path to enlightenment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:42 PM
3

He didn't even get that far. He just saw the short man caption and knee jerk reacted. So basically, a video version of a typical males response to a post in any female oriented sub. They really don't even bother to think twice about what we say, do or express. They just skim over us and ;tdlr our entire existence. ALL MEN . Maybe some don't skim over their wife but have done it to most other women , most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:48 AM
3

One of the problems this addresses is that it protects disabled non verbal women and girls as well as coma patients as men have been acquitted because the victim didn't (couldn't) say no. So this is actually an important way to close that loophole that exists in some places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:36 AM
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And none of them get contributions put towards their social security or retirement yet in the event of a divorce the husband will cry 'she wants to take half of MY business !' They mean it too. They appreciate NOTHING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:30 AM
4

Its pretty common for men to offer their one piece of useless advice which is almost always another way to reinvent the wheel or worse, just completely irrelevant. And you can explain why you've dismissed that solution ( early in the process too because a child would think of it) but still, they'll throw their hands up and accuse you of being impossible to help and how you just want to complain. Even when you pay them , they'll ignore your directions and do some other task that is completely irr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:27 AM
3

My anecdotal experience 100% agrees with yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:41 AM
4

But you don't understand. Spending $20 on a woman who doesn't put out is JUST like being used , treated and respected less than even a prostitute while getting an STD, or having to take an excruciating abortion pill or even getting your encounter shared in a group chat or even to a webpage when you didn't even know you were being recorded and losing your dream job 2 years later. Or getting doxed and unknowingly painted as a rape target or if you're lucky...not get cervical cancer because of the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:25 AM
4

Sounds like he reads pua or rp stuff. Although some men are naturally like that without any outside help. Edit: also, never Express any willingness to participate in anything but vanilla, especially through any text format or even in person. It can be used against you when they're on trial for murdering you. Oh, im sorry. I mean when you consent to be choked to death as an option if things 'go wrong'. (because any consent is a valid and often successful defense whether initial consent results in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:57 AM
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You don't even have to lie. Femboys is totally a thing. I made a wrong click last year and found that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:32 AM
3

I think theres some sort of nudes exchange site thats based around what company the target works at. Similar to slutpages where you can search by school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:28 AM
3

I was instantly surprised that people assumed it was written by a woman. I assumed a man .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:51 PM
9

We're expected to give them the benefit of the doubt when they are in the process of murdering us. Brittany Smith Loses Her Stand Your Ground Hearing | The New Yorker https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/brittany-smith-loses-her-stand-your-ground-hearing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:25 PM
5

Entire religions were founded to justify cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:24 PM
9

Considering how much we're pressured to let them go condomless and how much easier it is for women to get life threatening STDs, these lies about cheating aren't harmless is any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:50 PM
35

We risk having intimate encounters recorded and spread to complete strangers in your partners group chat where there are other degenerates sharing their intimate photos of the partners that trusted them, or posted anonymously on the internet and put their former partners at risk of doxing, death threats and job loss . Among other things. Most men have no problem looking at photos or videos taken without consent, according to statistics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:35 PM
0

I've taken myself out the dating circuit. Best decision ever. And women statistically will always die alone because we look after our health and the health of our family . Its surprising actually, how we still outlive men considering how we work so much harder and bear such a detrimental blow that is child bearing. It wrecks you in so many ways and not having help (and having to work and manage not only their childs health, schedule and home as wells as their SOs because men only work their 1 jo…
/r/seduction24/05/21 01:02 AM
0

You talk to them at the gym or irl like texting or group chatting?
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:18 PM
1

They can approach at social events, on OLD and at gatherings when its expected.
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:17 PM
0

Its not 1%. Im a woman and have like a ton of female friends plus am am active part in all sorts of feminine communities. No idea why you think you know better than hundreds of women when you admit you aren't good socially, don't do well with women and dont spend much time with them even platonically. You're complete refusal to even entertain the idea that i know womens experiences and preferences is a perfect example of a guy who refuses to respect boundaries , is emotionally manipulative (you'…
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:16 PM
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We're just telling you the truth. Why don't you read a couple articles to educate. How often are women interrupted by men? Here's what the research says. | Advisory Board Daily Briefing https://www.advisory.com/daily-briefing/2017/07/07/men-interrupting-women Guest Blogger Starling: Schrödinger’s Rapist: or a guy’s guide to approaching strange women without being maced – Shapely Prose https://kateharding.net/2009/10/08/guest-blogger-starling-schrodinger%e2%80%99s-rapist-or-a-guy%e2%80%99s-guide-…
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:38 PM
0

Being asked out by a guy in the library is not "life threatening." It is when he threatens you after you reject him and it happens fairly often.
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:21 PM
3

How in the world is a guy supposed to know that she specifically doesn’t want to be interrupted at a specific time? It’s nonsense By reading about women telling you not to online constantly. What part isn't clear enough for you?
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:18 PM
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This person is wrong about every single point. I could do a full review of this post but it would probably be a waste of time. He's obviously taken a lot of time and thought to come up with justifications to dismiss the boundaries that 99% of women want men to respect. Whoever reads this thread, PLEASE don't listen to this guy. His attitude and philosophy is why none of us are on OLD anymore and why women just stop going to the gym and avoid places and times where having interactions with people…
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:15 PM
3

Considering how many news articles have already come out on how birth rates are plummeting and the people who are most concerned about it , its clear to see how much the 1% will do to maintain a healthy reserve army of labor. And it needs to be even bigger to account for all the deaths from lack of healthcare and early deaths from poverty and stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:12 AM
3

They tried that in the US as well. https://www.ctvnews.ca/mobile/health/ohio-abortion-bill-would-force-doctors-to-reimplant-ectopic-pregnancies-which-is-impossible-1.4708422
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:50 AM
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Also , we apparently suffer almost exclusively from sleep issues while men fall asleep immediately and sleep like rocks ( comparatively). Having no empathy seems to be very relaxing for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:59 AM
17

"What are you doing, you devastated one? Why dress yourself in scarlet and put on jewels of gold? Why highlight your eyes with makeup? You adorn yourself in vain. Your lovers despise you; They want to kill you. " Jeremiah 4:30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:16 AM
1

What environment are you seeing these women in?
/r/seduction20/05/18 02:09 PM
2

Yes , yes we do, yes we do.
/r/seduction09/03/18 04:00 PM
1

Shoes matter though.
/r/seduction26/10/17 05:42 AM
6

I mean, she doesn't have to be ugly, ugly but someone normal enough to remind OP of an actual person. You men are fascinating. You treat good looking women like unobtainable celebrities. And judge us like them too. Don't look for an end game with every interaction. Being treated normally is pretty nice. So is having a naturally occurring interaction with someone as opposed to feeling like you've suddenly ended up in an audition you didn't sign up for.
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:01 PM
3

You're fucking awesome.
/r/seduction15/10/17 10:12 AM
1

True. Maybe a third date, then.
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:49 PM
1

Thats not even really considered a date, more a hook-up but its not really an exciting first "date" to most women . Depends on what you're looking for I guess.
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:09 AM
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Every guy is going to do those boring things but its better than suggesting a movie at your house. I'd say lazer tag, escape rooms, arcade or anything that gets the heart rate up.
/r/seduction02/10/17 11:41 PM
1

Wall, floor.
/r/seduction29/05/17 05:18 AM
2

You're welcome. I realized that you did cover the changing locations bit. Must have skimmed over it.
/r/seduction16/05/17 04:32 AM
8

I didnt downvote you but some of your suggestions are much better than others . Here is an example, early in the interaction: Me: Are you single? Her: Yeah Me: Well that’s good for me. Her: Why? Me: Because that means some dude isn’t going to come from the shadows and try to kick my ass. This conversation clearly has an undertone of “I’m glad you are single because I am going to try to fuck you” but can also be framed as “I am glad you are single because I don’t want to get beat up.” I think tha…
/r/seduction16/05/17 03:57 AM
1

Sounds like you are going after the wrong kind of girls then. Try Craigslist for hookups.
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:54 AM
1

Were you looking at her first?
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:36 PM
8

This is a great post. There's a certain type of man that just doesn't hear women. Sometimes ill be talking to a man (professionally, platonically, romantically ) and Ill make a point during the discussion. He'll be like 'yeah but...' and then explain back to me what I just said! Im like' yeah, I know. I just said that.' Cue the confused look and an admission that I did just make that exact same point. These people were so caught up in hearing themselves talk and viewing me as someone who needs t…
/r/seduction06/04/17 05:44 AM
3

I've always wondered if women are just not as instantly attracted to us from the get go That's definitely true for me. a "hey, how are you" is the least likely thing I would respond to. I've replied back 'fine, you?' a bunch of times and the conversation is always boring. I basically have to carry the conversation and they never have a plan so Id have to make all of the date plans too. It gets tiring real fast to always be the one to manage the social life . Those types of guys generally just wa…
/r/seduction17/03/17 07:25 AM
2

Haha, that's cool. I feel silly. I'll check it out now.
/r/seduction11/02/17 04:50 AM
5

That's kind of genius. Is it negging? Either way, it's unusual.
/r/seduction11/02/17 04:33 AM
39

Look at this guy with his standards.
/r/seduction11/02/17 03:39 AM
3

Do it. I would love to get that compliment. Unless it was from a crack head all creepy like. Ha.
/r/seduction11/02/17 03:37 AM
1

I'm a woman but you're welcome. Women can see right through that shit he's pulling, even if your hot roomie isn't saying anything about it. He just comes off as desperate. Dont engage him. Just be like "k, man". "Thanks for the opinion." Then go back to what you were doing or change the subject. "Hey hot roomie, I'm hungry, want to order something? " Minimize his opinions and any attention he's trying to get.
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:02 AM
1

What a creep. Just roll your eyes when he makes those comments. Also, why is he even in your apartment? Edit: i misread that you didn't live together. I'm sure hot girl picks up on his 'sublteties' and sees him for the insecure guy that he is. Keep doing what you're doing. Fuck him.
/r/seduction02/02/17 07:25 AM
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I wrote up suggestions similar to this articie a few weeks ago (up until #14). No one cared. :(
/r/seduction01/02/17 01:17 AM
1

I notice the opposite myself with most guys I know but once in a while the 30s guy is more confident. It seems that the confidence goes down when the first marriage ends. And then they cant get the girls that they thought were flirting with them when they were married. There's a stereotype that men are oblivious to signals but quite a few of them over estimate interested just as often. Or life, deaths and jobs get in the way so theyll become more serious, not sure Id call it confidence. Someone …
/r/seduction31/01/17 07:00 AM
1

I don't feel like you understand guys at all if the urgency for sex is why you think their hearts are racing with each new interaction. Perhaps not. Ive approached often and rejection can suck. I tend to file it right into my subconscious so it doesn't hurt as much. Totally healthy.
/r/seduction26/01/17 12:18 PM
3

Just speaking for myself and other women I know but its because we're usually not super into anyone that we don't know very well. It's not really about abundance mentality as much as it is keeping a guard up for our safety. Also we like to connect (generally) on a more personal and sometimes emotional level. Obviously it's a bit of a generalization but most of us don't have the sense of urgency that lots of men have so its safer and easier to wait for a connection. If it doesn't happen it doesn'…
/r/seduction26/01/17 10:15 AM
1

Yep, that's the right answer. Women like to look good for other women maybe even more than they do for men. Even the 65 year old guy with no teeth passing by in his beater car can tell a woman shes hot. Complimenting her shoes would work but then ask her what she thinks of yours. Tell her where you bought them and why. It can be self-depricating a little bit. Bam, instant conversation and its a non threatening one at that. Nothing works with everyone but it's way better than concentrating on loo…
/r/seduction11/01/17 06:08 AM
2

This guy is right. Maybe you happen to be a serial monogamist. My brother is one and I'm not (I'm a woman). It's a personality trait more than anything. You don't have to have loads of sex with randos to be a man. My brother turns down women all of the time. He did get super burned by a woman who beat the shit out of him too though . He's been into MGTOW lately which makes me sad but I hope he can find the good part of it. Casual sex can be empty and finding "the one" can be a nightmare and dest…
/r/seduction06/01/17 06:55 AM
5

Make sure they're relatively sober.
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:09 AM
3

Oh gosh, she works there? That's a hard one because they technically have to be nice to you. Plainly asking her out will never work. The best bet would be to give her your number and ask her to meet you at a specific event that you, her and your friends would all go to. Like a local show, festival, trivia night, whatever. Like 'you seem cool, my friends and I are heading to this show this weekend of you want to meet up. Pre-game is my friend Caitlins, bring a friend " or "my buddy is doing an op…
/r/seduction15/12/16 07:49 AM
3

I meant risky in that you'll be shut down more likely than not. It depends on how much it will discourage you I guess. I've done it and its gone both ways. Sure, if you try to start a conversation as opposed to complimenting her on her physical appearance. That should be a given though. Are you kidding me? I will say this from experience, the majority of the time that it happens its from beat up old guys 20+ years her senior so if you're close in age, go for it. If you get rejected the first tim…
/r/seduction15/12/16 07:12 AM
5

Cold approach is pretty risky. Women usually prefer some sort of connection so it would be more fruitful if you tried it on a person that you see on a regular basis. For instance if you run into the same girl every morning at Starbucks before work. Attractive women get cold approached in public often and sometimes men can get angry or stalkerish if the girl isnt cautious. Some sort of familiarity will go a long way. If your ego can handle it, keep trying the cold approach but starting out friend…
/r/seduction15/12/16 06:27 AM
1

Where are you approaching these girls? What's the scenario?
/r/seduction15/12/16 06:17 AM
1

those are nice. shoes and jeans are two of the biggest fashion faux pas I see men make with fashion.
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:46 AM
2

What kind of shoes do you wear? Just curious.
/r/seduction10/12/16 04:54 PM
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