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That doesn’t make money though! It’s not about moderating. Plenty of women would be willing to help. It’s about someone trying to take the FDS community and turn it into a brand and then sell it [back to us].
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/22 05:35 AM
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Women is hysterical and men testerical! Hyster is the root word meaning womb while test coming from the root word testis. Basically a scrote!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/22 03:21 PM
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I mean they aren’t supporting Reddit.. or anything else. The sub will die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/22 01:06 AM
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You have to verify or something and there’s not many posts/comments anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 09:36 PM
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Yeah the website sucks! If it was good maybe I’d go.. but the platform is awful. I even downloaded and tried wix a while back. It’s no good. Maybe it’ll get better one day but until then I’m not going out of my way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 05:18 PM
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The fact that you’re trying to prove something to some random woman on the internet means you do not have those things lol you’re underpaid job and no relationship. And to be fair, I think the question is would an only fans girl date YOU? No. Men who think they are turning down women they could never get in the first place 😂🤡 cracks me up every time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 04:35 PM
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To who!? This sub is dead. It moved to the website. There are no mods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 04:31 PM
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How is demanding respect and proper treatment toxic? Go read the sub! Either your a pickme that lets men walk all over you or, you’re a man that uses pua tactics to get women bc you don’t know any other way. Either way 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 04:10 PM
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Yup! I’m guessing it’s money. Between the website and the podcast there is money being made. Can’t make money off Reddit. We could just make our own alt sub!? Someone quick! Copy the sidebar 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 04:05 PM
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I thought incel meant involuntary celibate!? Most of the women here are voluntary, if not all. Men don’t really have standards and will fuck anyone and anything. I guess a more appropriate word would be volcels!? P.s. you’re telling on yourself relationship/sex wise. Not going well? Why else would you be upset with women having standards? Guess you don’t fit the bill and it upsets you. I am sorry you’re lonely. It’s not a great place to be. I’m sure if you wipe the Cheeto dust off your fingers a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 01:10 PM
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It helps women look out for red flags from men to make sure we don’t get into bad relationships :) some people think it’s hardcore and we have too many standards.. but it’s not true. We just want a good relationship or we’d rather be single. We also think men should pay bc it prevents serial dating from them. Also, no walking dates :) no porn either. Causes erectile dysfunction, encourages misogyny and most importantly, trafficking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 10:41 AM
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♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 10:39 AM
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It’s not. I don’t even think it’s modded. There’s all kind of scrotes on this post itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 04:30 AM
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It’s not back. It’s here to save posts you like. That’s why no one posts anymore. I think it’ll die out (sadly) on another platform eventually. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 04:28 AM
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Because the sub is dead. It’s up but anyone can comment and it’s not modded and no one posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/22 10:42 PM
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They shut it down once a month for modding. That has nothing to do with this. It’s not modded anymore and no one posts anymore. You can still see it but it’s going to get overrun soon. It already is. Look through the comments on my post and you’ll see..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/22 10:39 PM
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Some other app idk but seems like a hassle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/22 10:01 PM
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Hence the different girl every time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 06:57 AM
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Right? Like, unless it’s vintage 1960s Chanel lingerie that he special ordered knowing I’d love, then nah. 💅🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 11:52 PM
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Right? Like, you wanna go back to the 1800s? Fine!! There’s a reason women didn’t have sex back then……🤡🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 10:16 AM
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Yup! Laws are for men. The just can’t handle themselves 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 09:56 AM
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That’s what I tell my daughters! “You can’t please everyone so please yourself! :)”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 05:32 PM
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Right? If it was any other protected class there would be outrage. Gays? Blacks? But women.. meh, who cares?!! Just another regular day on planet Earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 08:11 PM
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Yup! Imo men only become faithful/honest when they HAVE to. For the most part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:45 PM
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Yeah it’s like 30 percent more than men so a huge advantage. It makes sense that we have more vision to protect ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:30 AM
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Divorcing my husband for being a “disagreeable person.” The almond milk is spot on! I asked for it after trying oat for a while and he went on about the planet and how almonds use more water to grow. Sir, I have raised our daughters vegan and am vegetarian myself. I’ll drink the damn almond milk if I want to!! He doesn’t think me being vegetarian is compatible with his veganism. So he can go find a vegan! Good luck out there. And as far as disagreeing.. it’s every little thing. Even if it’s some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 09:48 PM
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Bar? What bar!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 04:53 PM
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It’s so early and I’m laughing at this bc it’s my new best phrase. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:53 PM
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Yup! Trying to re-enact those, and excuse my French “porn theatre Threesomes”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:48 PM
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I’m thinking Ukrainian bloodline. Like his parents immigrated to America 40 years ago and he’s in their basement writing this in Idaho while drinking a Mountain Dew and licking Cheeto dust off of his fingers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:25 PM
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Omg I never knew that! I zoomed at the way he is holding her and WOW 😳 it’s so obvious now..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:24 PM
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“I do the same shit I told you that I never would, need you stay! Need you to Stay stay..” idk who sings it bc I immediately change it for having the Scrotiest lyrics ever. If I had to guess it’s J biebs or something.. he’s pretty scrotey. Edit: I went and looked it up. It was jbeebs 🤣🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:17 AM
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My soon to be ex husband went on tinder and then when I made him tell his parents he let me take half the blame by not fully taking it himself. “Takes two to tango.” When his parents found out the actual truth (I told his sister) they told him it “wasn’t a big deal unless he acted on it.” Like what!? He also told his sister that “we had an open relationship at one point” to soften the blow which is not true. He was just pornsick and pushed me into it. Anyway his parents can’t figure out why I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:52 PM
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That would be a hard fight. These companies know addicting children is 🤑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:40 PM
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Omg. The last part. With my stbx he would always do that. When I liked something I stopped telling him for this exact reason. It’s like they think they are sex gods or something. “Oh you like that!?? Wait until you feel THIS!” must be what they are thinking. I can’t think of another reason…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:31 PM
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Right? There’s a reason why women have been pushed down since the beginning of time. And it’s not because we are weaker. They fear we will take over. And we will one day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 02:52 PM
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Lol @ pickme patty! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 02:27 PM
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He is absolutely insane. Batshit crazy imo. I can’t believe all the female celebrities line up for him. Wtf!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 11:22 AM
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Is that bad? Dating someone with the same experience as you? I could also see it bc when he was a kid his parents weren’t allowed to be together. His mom would walk on one side of the street with him and his dad on the other pretending not to know each other. Racism was (is) really bad in South Africa. I could def see that affecting someone’s dating life when their older. “Dark is difficult” prob messed him up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 11:20 AM
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Especially for women with children. You can’t have roommates with kids. Unless they have kids. And that’s hard to arrange :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 03:46 PM
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Omg! He dumped you and then when the world went silent and he realized dating would be hard and lonely he changed his mind. Men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:22 PM
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Honestly the only person id give a kidney to was my child. Doesn’t matter how much I love them. Kids only!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:11 PM
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No, he’ll just finally marry her when he needs her other kidney..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:10 PM
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Lol when they start creepin on the LinkedIn you know it’s not going well for them 🤣 block them proactively!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:16 AM
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More like no woman wants THEM! Its like when you break up with a guy so he tells everyone HE broke up with YOU! Its just like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:44 PM
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I caught mine looking at men in panties on Reddit (history) and he was like, “i never clicked on that. History logs just from scrolling!” 1. No it doesn’t. And 2.. Sir, what subreddits are you subscribed to? And 3. A bunch of them were in different subreddits so even if he WAS telling the about the first two.. it still wouldn’t add up 🤡 Edit: I also (re)downloaded some popular dating apps on HIS phone such as tinder and snapchat. Then did a data download with the results to MY email and deleted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 10:12 PM
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Homemade valentines card that I thought was mine and I had forgotten it in the car. Really she had forgotten and he made us both the exact same card with the exact same note inside. I only knew bc the only thing that was different was the name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 10:03 PM
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I think they’ll get better. Because women will take over the world. We are at the tipping point now leading in university study. After that the rest is history. The LVMs will fade away somewhat imo. For a while anyway until they become angry that women run things. Then it’ll be a war. Damn.. that sounds like a good book!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:38 AM
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They’ll HAVE to be! The world will be ran by women. Respect or perish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:34 AM
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Right? He left his wife and baby homeless. Did he just think he'd be like "yo mom and dad! so that will is still good right?! Me and my new gf wanna vacation and buy a place. The divorce was super rough and I need some help financially" Fucking delusional. *wife rolls her eyes at him while making the baby's bottle in his parents' kitchen 10 ft away* lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:22 AM
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Right? It's nuts. My ex has never paid child support and became shittier the older we got. He still lived with his dad. Like, he relied on his dad while simultaneously getting mad that I needed help financially raising a child. He's in his 30s. Protect your fucking womb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:18 AM
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My husband told his parents we were getting a divorce and that it was his fault. At first, they said, "well, thefutureisXX had her issues!" My "issues" were being ignored and neglected by their son and not pulling his weight. It caused a lot of depression. Then when he made it clear(ish) that it was his fault and not mine...His mom (not knowing I was there) replied, "well you'll always be my sweet baby boy." And then smiled sweetly at him. His sister said she was so sorry that happened to me. Bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:15 AM
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But if they didn't lie they would never get anything they wanted...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:14 AM
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This is exactly why I chose my username. It's not long until we take over the world. The porn is ruining men and making them just.. sit there. At this point, they are literally handing it over on a gold platter. They don't change tires, or build houses, or plan dates, or pay for anything (50/50). They're dropping out of college at higher rates. They cant do handy work around the house or fix a car. Like, what's the point? Once we have all of our resources in place.. it wont even be a competition…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:23 AM
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Lol how are these ugly scrotes getting these gorgeous women. Can we all boycott men for the foreseeable future? I’m talking no sex, no cooking, no dating! They can 50/50 with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:11 PM
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I thought the whole show was about how porn messes you up. Nate Jacobs found those videos as a kid. His mom says he "went dark" around that age and she could never figure out why bc he was such a sweet kid. I thought a huge component of the show was how it really messed him up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:08 PM
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I was reading and googling if the US is letting refugees in. So I could like, ya know, help them?! I can’t imagine the scrotes out there! So crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:44 PM
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Plus, like, he wouldn’t need to have sex with her right!? Like can’t they turkey baste it? He gets the goods hands it off to wife who hands it off to sister. I just don’t see why they would need to have sex..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:31 PM
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aka p*rn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:38 AM
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Is that not what it was? Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:08 PM
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Yup! My husband got me the most scrotatious gift. Just wait for it. I just caught him on tinder and although I am leaving I don’t think he believes me. Idk the boxes and new job aren’t convincing enough I guess. ANYWAY! So I caught him on tinder so I’m expecting something nooiiiceee. Jewelry at the very least. This motherfucker gave me a kids nerf dart gun. Wrapped in BATMAN children’s gift paper and chocolate even though he knows I don’t really like sweets. You can’t make this shit up! At this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:42 AM
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For all the scrotes that get mad that we tell lies and don't allow it from men, it's because the lies are for different reasons. We lie to protect ourselves and weed out users/abusers. Men lie bc they are trying to use and abuse women. Just thought I'd clear that up in case ya'll were sitting in your mom's basement going "buu.. BUTTTTT!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:52 AM
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Ah yes, when they cheat on you and then cry in your arms because "they feel so awful for what they did to you!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:16 AM
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I say girls for my friends “the girls” and then everyone else is women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:58 AM
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Also, no wifey shit too. A woman who wants something long term is more likely to be an emotional support, sex, cook etc. They want pickme benefits. So even if a guy doesn’t want a commitment, I swear they prefer a girl that does. Also, men lie and pretend to want a relationship, while women are SUPER upfront and make it clear if they don’t. Night and day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 10:03 AM
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He didn’t “recognize you.” This motherfucker stalked you and made it look like it was “chance!” People talk about stalkers that get caught. Not the ones that don’t and then women marry them thinking “what luck!” Nope. Fell right into a trap. That’s scary AF to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:14 AM
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Can you imagine if we did this? The world would be crawling with mass shooters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:41 AM
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God made a man and was like, “hmm. maybe I’ll try again!”🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:40 AM
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Right. Women don’t do this as a general rule. Online or in person. Whenever I disagree with someone online it’s so obvious whether they are male or female. Women agree to disagree. Men mansplain and then call you names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:37 AM
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Omg I saw this comment once on this YouTube channel and it was a man talking about needing to get into his prime before getting married and having kids. Saying he still needs to grow and learn and have time to travel etc. THEN he will settle down. He was 50. Maybe I’ll post it once I’m flaired!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:45 PM
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Omg I saw this comment once on this YouTube channel and it was a man talking about needing to get into his prime before getting married and having kids. Saying he still needs to grow and learn and have time to travel etc. THEN he will settle down. He was 50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:45 PM
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Wine and cuddling cats in my own * clean * apartment? Oh no! 🤡 also males age really badly. Well, not badly but males don’t attempt to retain their youth. The male I married is younger than me but over the years he has aged and I haven’t. We are getting divorced bc he was tinder swiping without my knowledge. Good luck out there buddy! 👍🏽 Edit: he didn’t meet up with any of these women or even converse with them really.. But if I have FDS right then that’s instant divorce right? We have two daugh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:31 PM
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I was the worlds biggest pickme and even I knew to put my last name! Makes me wonder about the world..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:49 AM
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There was this guy the other day on Reddit claiming to hate FDS and how he’d never date one of us! I was like “perfect we wouldn’t date you either.” He was TRIGGERED! Listed all his “HVM” attributes right then and there. Lol! I still said it’s not enough to be FDS material. But that it’s perfect because FDS isn’t his style and it works out for everyone. HE DID NOT LIKE THIS! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:09 PM
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Guys are using tinder as “porn” these days just fyi to y’all that don’t know. Real girls are preferred! They swipe and jerk when they find a girl they “like!” 🤢🤮 If anyone needed another reason to get off online dating… Edit: ask me how I know………
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:28 AM
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I mean, Taylor swift gets shamed for dating when guys just keep fucking her over and she has to move on. It’s not even her fault and she gets shamed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:12 PM
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Like it’s literally a contract they sign but for some reason it doesn’t hold up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:58 PM
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Yup! Bc they won’t make it to the porch. He’s going to play hostage instead when he doesn’t get a reaction out of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:38 PM
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Go to something women oriented instead and try to meet girlfriends 💅🏽 like womens only yoga class followed by an event. Look for friendships instead ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:29 AM
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I get this a lot as a mother. “You don’t look like you have kids!” Like, trashing other mothers doesn’t make me feel good. It makes me hate the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:02 AM
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Same! I like to think at least I learned my lesson early in life and still have a chance to do things right :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:14 PM
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Oh I’ve seen this! It’s super informative. I’m always thankful for these people that betray their “people” by telling all their secrets. Especially the pedos, abusers and narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:21 PM
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You can download all of Tinder’s data! I just did it yesterday. You can see how many swipes. How many times they opened the app. Allllll the messages they ever sent for the lifetime of the account.. and other stats. I re-downloaded on my husbands phone and requested a data download to my email. I got the spidey-sense and found an undercover 🤡! Luckily I JUST got a new job, a brand new car and packed my stuff a couple months ago bc he wasn’t doing enough as a husband and father. I was going to le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:51 PM
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Wtf. I would’ve packed up my kids and been gone the second I got a whiff of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:10 PM
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Tell him you have an onlyfans and never said anything bc you thought he’d be disappointed you were in the industry! But now that you know he supports it you’re gonna start trying to go mainstream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:08 PM
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This should be a major sign that you shouldn’t marry someone if you can’t even figure out what ring they like. I think men do this bc they are cheap and lazy. They don’t want to put in the effort to look and they want someone to blame for the shitty ring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:03 PM
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Does anyone still vet their husbands that they fully trust? I figure all these women trust their husbands and it still happens. He’s never given me a reason to doubt at all. But I still keep an eye out. I think I always will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:16 AM
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That guy looks like a textbook pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:46 PM
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My friend had a bf like. Slashed all her tires in a public parking lot while she was eating lunch with some friends. I wish we could have women-only communities with gyms, shopping, apartments and food!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:29 PM
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The playboy bunny stickers for tan lines on the hipbone was the creepiest one imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:13 PM
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Same! I did a little vet the other day. Pretended FDS was “too much” and I “didn’t agree with everything they said!” He AGREED WITH ME! When I asked what beliefs of FDS were too much for him.. he didn’t have an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:55 PM
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Yep! Dating a loser and/or ugly men puffs up their ego. Then they think they can get anything. They get a couple hookups but then realize that no one wants them for REAL bc their gross. I don’t even feel bad. They have all the resources I do. They can pay for a gym membership. They can get therapy and mental health treatment. Get good haircuts and a full skincare routine! They can buy they expensive KP lotion and they can sit on their bedroom floor waxing their assholes. They can clean their nai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:36 PM
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Right!? I diet every year to lose the 15 lbs I gained. Sometimes it’s worse or I don’t lose it that year. You def have to keep up with it. It’s never a one time thing for most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:29 PM
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Lol he’s complaining about this plain-Jane but he can’t afford her upkeep 💅🏽 That’s why she’s plain. Meanwhile the lawyer is paying for HERSELF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:27 PM
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I bet they aren’t even together and he’s following his heart to his hometown since he can stay with his parents while their budding romance develops! I can bet everything that he hasn’t even won this woman yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:25 PM
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Idk, do they? She’s talking about a scrotation. He thinks “date” = “sex” bc mens brains are so pornfried! 🧠🍳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:41 PM
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Nah! They just need to change the programming so that it alerts you almost instantly. Or someone should just create an app that shows ALL frequencies following you. That way it won’t matter how big (or small) the tracker is or whether it’s on you or your car. If it’s close and following it’ll tell you. There will always be creeps. There will always be trackers. We need a different angle! 👩‍🔬 this would also help if someone was following you in person. Any smart women out there? Is this possible …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:19 PM
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Pregnancy causes tooth loss for some people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:53 AM
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Which is so odd bc in the olden days a woman would date as many men as she wanted and a man wouldn’t dare get jealous and instead work harder to win her favor. But she was still considered a pure golden rose! They really flipped things around on us , huh!?? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:26 AM
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Honestly it sounds like financial abuse. A lot of women escape by getting cash back at the checkout. So he goes with her, they buy a LOT so she doesn’t get a chance to go again or run out of something. Obviously you were there and I wasn’t but just offering a different point of view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:57 AM
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“Come pay off my house and cook and clean and fuck me and in return.. I’ll gaslight you.” Wild! Looks like I need a girlfriend! Pickmes out here doin errythang!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:45 AM
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Yes!!! I was learning about this at my job. I never understood before until they showed a simple picture. It was three people looking over a fence to see a baseball game. A man, a woman, and a child. Only the man could see. In the next picture they were all given the same size box to stand on. Although it was equal it wasn’t bc the child still couldn’t see, and the man was much taller on his box when he never even needed it in the first place. The third picture showed equity. The child had the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:47 PM
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He prob told his buddies it’s real, and then gave her the blood diamond spiel to save money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:48 AM
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Makes me think he didn’t really spend 20k!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:46 AM
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She’s already risking getting assaulted by going to his place alone on a second date. Now he wants her to ride the subway, at night, TWICE! And increase chances of her being harmed even more. For a cheap crappy plate of pasta. Scrotes in full swing out hurr! 😳🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:16 PM
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Yes! If we are on the subject maybe something vague and then move on. Personally, talking about failed relationships is embarrassing to me. And telling everyone means I def don’t have a therapist which = unstable if you need one and aren’t getting help. Even if it failing wasn’t my fault.. still embarrassing to me that I willfully prob ignored red flags. So talking about my ex is gonna be a NAH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:23 PM
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My best friend is the biggest pickme lol! I won't give her up though bc as far as a friend goes, she's amazing. We've also been besties for like almost 20 years (highschool). She just gives bad dating advice. And I laugh at her. And tell her she's wack! She's getting there tho little by little. She's worth saving :) I wouldn't wait it out for anyone else. I used to be an even bigger pickme than her. She waited and pulled me up a level. Now I must do the same for her haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:02 AM
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I feel like it’s money. Women not being able to support themselves fully. I can bet my life that if you gave all those women access to unlimited funds they would be GONE. For example. When I was 19 I lived in a place without public transport. I didn’t have a car yet. My college was COMPLETELY reliant on my douchey bf giving me a ride. We’d break up but had to take him back for that Tuesday morning ride. Or at least offer up a sexual favor. This isn’t ever talked about but I feel like it’s more c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:11 AM
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I think it’s super easy for women. I watched for years. Started as a kid. When I got older and found out about how bad that industry is for women I quit cold turkey. Never looked back! I find it repulsive now. The inner pickme is what kept it going, but she’s dead now! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:43 PM
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Yes!! I always found it crazy that even though my ex is a shit dad, and didn’t pay child support.. I had to be careful. I had to wait to move to file bc I knew if I filed first he’d never let me leave the state. It’s just crazy how so much power goes to him in where our child resides when he doesn’t even bother to be a father! Edit: Just wanna throw in a fun story that when I first asked for child support he said he'd pay me in Fred Meyer gift cards bc he didn't want to give me cash bc I might u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 09:10 PM
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I had my daughter young before I knew everything was photoshopped and fake. It thought I was the only one and actually got surgery for it! Although I had figured out it was all fake a decade later.. the mental damage was done and I went through with the procedure. Although I’m happy with the results, I wish the world would accept women’s bodies. Mom bods get judged in a bikini but for some reason “dad bods” don’t. Hmmm 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:22 PM
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Don’t do it! I ignored the red flags. You really can’t vet properly. I thought I married a HVM and so did my sister with her husband. Turns out even though mine doesn’t cheat, he’s lazy and isn’t ambitious and has a touch of the man child. My sisters husband straight up had another family and never saw my sister and their son once he had his visa. There’s that saying, you can fall in love with a rich man just as easily as a poor man. Well, you can fall for someone close by just as easily. Anothe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:43 AM
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Yeah idk what’s up with men. Those Valentine’s Day threads when they talk about all the stuff they want from their wife. Like, what? Women are expected to get men gifts on Valentine’s Day now. I shit you not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:01 AM
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I'm going through this right now. I couldn't pinpoint why exactly my husband is low value and this is it! He pays the bills and does kid stuff but it's always half-assed and whenever "something has to give" (financially, energetically) it's always on my behalf. Whenever he needs something he rationalizes using our wedding money from his parents. But when I need something it's "we should save it and try to work it out ourselves!" Idk what to do. I really wish someone would write a post IN DETAIL …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:05 PM
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