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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | Wishing a Happy 20th Anniversary to One of the Best FDS-Approved Rom-Coms of All Time: My Big Fat Greek Wedding!Apparently MBFGW was the most financially successful romantic comedy of all time. Maybe because it resonated with women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 48 | “If Beyoncé can get cheated on, then there’s no hope for us” is a cope, not the standard.I think it's best used in the sense that if a woman gets cheated on, it doesn't mean there's something "wrong" with her. But yes, let's not excuse shitty behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 02:13 AM |
| 48 | Men with social media harems.You want another red hot tip ladies? Create yourself a fake insta of women's butt and boob shots (google them, not your own of course), call it SexxpottSiren667 or something and ssssslide into his DMs. If you get a reply, you have all the info you need. Really weeds out the sneaky ones. You're welcome 😉😉😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 10:25 AM |
| 31 | Men with social media harems.The sneaky ones can easily have multiple accounts--its very easy to switch accounts with insta now. You gotta snoop their phones ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 10:13 AM |
| 3 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?I imagine he would have been wearing tiny leopardskin panties during the oil massage. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 11:01 PM |
| 2 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?You know this poor woman has never had an orgasm in this relationship. It reads like comedy, an I imagine the guy looks like Ron Burgundy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Ughhhh this excuse making ridiculousness. Sometimes it *is* that simple.Mental fucking gymnastics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe in the idea of soulmate or soulmates?Nah, you're either compatible or not. It's just a new age bs fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Let's Talk About "Cool Girls"/"Strong Women"We need to reframe blocking and deleting as strong in the cultural narrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.I was so confused by this. At first I thought he must have hired a surrogate or something....pure audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:51 AM |
| 7 | I have no words...It's so weird it reads like comedy. Cannot be real, SURELY? 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:36 AM |
| 4 | I did it.Only listen to badass happy music. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:21 AM |
| 65 | TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔I can only hope it was written by a male LARPER. I can't really fathom an actual mother who'd not immediately next/report the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Being vulnerable to help build intimacy in relationships.Share minor vulnerabilities...even fake ones. Nothing serious or major. E.g. oh thank god there's no audience participation in this theatre performance, I hate it! NOT: my family burned to death at a Sea Parks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:12 AM |
| 2 | I'm really interested in how society in your country/culture 'discourages interactions in social spaces'!You dropped this 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | I'm really interested in how society in your country/culture 'discourages interactions in social spaces'!The woman just wants to be left alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Something positive for onceSo happy for you 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:01 AM |
| 20 | But sex work is work, amirite?The men crying about the "lack of honesty" in the comments 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:56 AM |
| 29 | Not suprised.She's a legend 💗 true FDS spirit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:53 AM |
| 12 | Has any1 else noticed the Playboy label being plastered all over “trendy” clothing brands… it makes me so uncomfortable this is being marketed in an already porn saturated generation. Both PacSun and Urban Outfitters proudly promote these products despite historical misogyny. It gives me the ‘ick’.Nostalgic misogyny, now there's a new flavour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Has any1 else noticed the Playboy label being plastered all over “trendy” clothing brands… it makes me so uncomfortable this is being marketed in an already porn saturated generation. Both PacSun and Urban Outfitters proudly promote these products despite historical misogyny. It gives me the ‘ick’.Wtf is aheago? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:47 AM |
| 4 | Has any1 else noticed the Playboy label being plastered all over “trendy” clothing brands… it makes me so uncomfortable this is being marketed in an already porn saturated generation. Both PacSun and Urban Outfitters proudly promote these products despite historical misogyny. It gives me the ‘ick’.Holy moley | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:46 AM |
| 10 | Mom gives “Husbands in Training” course to her sonsSame, it's not clear why the "porn quiz" was "too much", it sounds like he was quite young at the time. This woman is a QUEEN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Bad Vegan- Cults and Pickup Artist techniquesOh wow, Freelee the banana girl? I've heard of her. It's like that Black Books episode where Fran's yoga friend tells her to give up wheat, meat, milk and peas. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YP4J2wn1jFw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24True Girlcode is never letting the Scrote know you are woke to his ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:22 AM |
| 139 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24Molly should have kept it even more on the downlow. "Gee I don't know why she's upset. I think her gandmother died?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 04:36 AM |
| 60 | Spotted one in the wild.I have subverted this narrative, so clever, so unique. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 04:28 AM |
| 2 | spotting low effort convos and copypastesLol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:02 AM |
| 2 | spotting low effort convos and copypastesThey sound like scammers at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:01 AM |
| 8 | I sincerely hope the first TikTok here is not a real story. Had to attach some radfem clips at the end to cleanse my soul. When I was 14, I thought the way she did too. But I won’t let any libfem propaganda gaslight me any more about how the cycles of sexual re-traumatization are somehow feminist. 🥴Yep, monitor your kids online and have frank discussions with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:59 AM |
| 5 | I sincerely hope the first TikTok here is not a real story. Had to attach some radfem clips at the end to cleanse my soul. When I was 14, I thought the way she did too. But I won’t let any libfem propaganda gaslight me any more about how the cycles of sexual re-traumatization are somehow feminist. 🥴Mic drop 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:57 AM |
| 5 | Horrifying TikTok trend where boys and men joke about going on a date with a girl or woman and describe how they would murder her.Wasn't tik tok marketed as a site for kids? That didn't last long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:52 AM |
| 23 | No comment.Yes! Thankyou for pointing this out. Not just photos but samples of body odour! Or did they actually sniff the young girls!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:29 AM |
| 76 | Bad Vegan- Cults and Pickup Artist techniquesRaw low fat vegans give me "eating disorder" vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:24 AM |
| 15 | Major Trigger Warning on the topic of War, Rape, Violence. The Mỹ Lai massacre was the mass murder of unarmed South Vietnamese civilians by United States troops in Sơn Tịnh District, South Vietnam, on 16 March 1968 during the Vietnam War. 54 years ago today, American soldiers terrorized a village. 💔The Japanese government has an attitude of denial I believe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:21 AM |
| 7 | FDS seems to be catching on, on Reddit : good job ladies!Damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 08:52 AM |
| 11 | FDS seems to be catching on, on Reddit : good job ladies!Just as I suspected. Poly guys offer nothing but their own audacity and stds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 08:51 AM |
| 7 | FDS seems to be catching on, on Reddit : good job ladies!Trying=coerced into? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 08:50 AM |
| 23 | FDS seems to be catching on, on Reddit : good job ladies!I love promoting FDS on twitter. I deliberately follow libfemmy type girls and I mix fds content in with edgy fashion and pop culture stuff. Slooowly infiltrating minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 08:50 AM |
| 35 | I understand the sentiment of this post was to tell women it is not our fault when a man has erectile dysfunction. I like many of her sketches. However, I think she forgot a lot of men also have (PIED) Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction... May I ask FDS sisters, how can we best tell the difference???If he's that stressed, he shouldn't be having sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:30 AM |
| 11 | I understand the sentiment of this post was to tell women it is not our fault when a man has erectile dysfunction. I like many of her sketches. However, I think she forgot a lot of men also have (PIED) Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction... May I ask FDS sisters, how can we best tell the difference???If it's nerves, it's not going to be continual. Same for stress. Medication? A listed side effect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:29 AM |
| 45 | Yes, you are. 💋Men who aren't supportive of your fashion choices need to be dropped, stat. I've had negging guys telling me to dress down, or look "more natural". ByE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:26 AM |
| 22 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?Oh lord, that's horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 04:04 AM |
| 9 | Big yikesThere was a post on FDS about a husband who got fit and healthy (to increase success rate) and gave his wife a kidney. A husband of 20+ years (who has earned your trust and respect) is very different to a guy who just proposed. How long had they known each other for? Did he propose pre-or post diagnosis? This whole thing could be fake anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 25 | Introducing the New 2022 Flair, #YouKnowWhattoDo2022Lol, love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 02:15 AM |
| 131 | Boomerang Kangeroos: Men Reflect On The One That Got Away"Nothing but fun, loyalty, love, trust, appreciation"....ok, so why did she leave you? Guess what, that 19 year old also had expectations, she knew you weren't going to meet them and left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 02:12 AM |
| 6 | What strategies should I implement for this guy that’s traveling to me?No harm in going on a date with this guy, but have a busy schedule, keep your options open and keep dating multiple men! Also "if the right one comes along" is a recipe for timewasting...in order to meet "the one" you need to entertain multiple options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Makeup Give UpI wear a bit of makeup when I feel like it, but I don't shave my legs or armpits. To each their own. Men have worn makeup historically, it's not essentially a sign of weakness or anything to be ashamed of. Love to see us all supporting each others' choices. Whenever we make a conscious decision that goes against societal expectations, it's great 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 05:04 AM |
| 7 | These posts from tumblr hit close to home because I remember being conditioned to think it’s all my fault and that the only way to cope was through being made to submit in kink. Younger me couldn’t be more wrong. I’m 23 this month and I cringe when I think about how indoctrinated I was at 17.Grooming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:56 AM |
| 12 | These posts from tumblr hit close to home because I remember being conditioned to think it’s all my fault and that the only way to cope was through being made to submit in kink. Younger me couldn’t be more wrong. I’m 23 this month and I cringe when I think about how indoctrinated I was at 17.Puts me in mind of the "a vanilla woman has no hope of pleasing a man" bs. Please, we're not here to please men. They need to please US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:53 AM |
| 61 | If you’re emotionally recovering from dumping a LVM, avoid listening to sad love songsOmg 1000x yes! Curate that playlist to f-you empowering stuff! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Is there any way we can hijack the Latina subreddit? I'm so disgusted my entire ethnic & female identity is a porn sub. Is there anything we can do? Has this ever been done before?Post lots of content about pioneering latina women? Doctors, artists, poets, scientists? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:44 AM |
| 6 | How can you tell if "My ex was controlling, abusive, crazy..." etc is the truth from a guy?HVMs don't talk about their exes, especially not to comment on their character or mental state. OK: My ex was into extreme alpine skiing (if you are talking about skiing) NOT OK: My ex was a psycho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 12 | The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop.Really interesting the way they call out films as stripper/prostitution propaganda. I relate, because 'coolgirl/pickme' is so prevalent in the media too. Not to mention social media, nowadays. The media narrative needs to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 19 | The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop.wow, that's tragic. I swear the media/social media narrative is SO pro-grooming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 4 | How do I avoid men coming up to me?And a hoodie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 11:18 PM |
| 34 | How do I avoid men coming up to me?Dark glasses, big ones, help in my experience. Add big headphones with nothing playing for good measure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 03:54 AM |
| 18 | How do I avoid men coming up to me?💗👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Detaching from the outcome -- how to keep your heart on the lockdown during early stages of dating a man?Go places often and do things where you are surrounded by hot men. Be social, and strike up convos with other men. This will keep reminding you not to get attached to one too quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 01:05 AM |
| 12 | The new Batman is a Peeping Tom😂😂😂 "The Joker sultrily walked around the room in his boxers" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:57 AM |
| 29 | How to tell a guy texting is boring and you’d *hint hint* (or very directly) like to move onto calling/facetiming/talking in person? Should you leave it up to them to progress? Texting is feeling like a chore but the conversations are good. Not into false intimacy anymore.A video chat is a good pre date vetting strategy though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:55 AM |
| 26 | The next time you feel silly, know that there are men out there who will jeopardize their entire bank account funds for the chance to see breasts.I just wish his bank account was cleaned out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:52 AM |
| 3 | What are some good dating green flags?He's willing and keen to step out of his comfort zone with you E.g. you enjoy a very spicy dish he's never tried, he wants to try it, he even tries cooking it for you. You dance flamenco, he takes a flamenco class with you even though he has 2 left feet and never danced in his life. You've always wanted to go to a far-flung destination, he drives you there and makes great travel plans. This is different to "mirroring"--it takes effort and attention to detail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 10:30 AM |
| 20 | In real life, he would have dumped her after 1m of a relationship, because a man would never truly appreciate and respect a relationship where there was no dating phase. It's too much of an easy win.Those movies were created by scrotes to groom a generation of women and get easy sex. My god, what I wouldn't give for some movies where women are shown to be ruthless, savvy and making smart choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Imagine All the Productive Things She Could Be Doing with Her Time Instead 🤦♀️Have never dated a gamer, and never will. If I want to do something, I go and do it, from dancing in a forest dressed as a fairy to firing shotguns or skiing. Pretending to do things on a screen proves what? You can push buttons really quickly? (I'm sure there are logic and strategy-based games, but there's bridge and mah-jong if you want that, with a side of social interaction and tea). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 10:16 AM |
| 28 | I hope I’m not the only one who raised my eyebrows with a bit of concern at the age gap here. I hope for her sake he is HV, but FDS has taught me to be wary and some of the commentary made me sick…So obviously written by a man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 06:28 AM |
| 78 | I hope I’m not the only one who raised my eyebrows with a bit of concern at the age gap here. I hope for her sake he is HV, but FDS has taught me to be wary and some of the commentary made me sick…Sounds like it was written by a man. "My dumb little dreams"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 06:27 AM |
| 31 | Men finding "love" with AI chatbots - Horrifying Black Mirror episode, good alternative to sex workers, or both? - 'I fell in love with my AI girlfriend - and it saved my marriage'How about an FDS-approved AI bot ? Lol -Shuts down and is forever inaccessible at the first sign of disrespect -viruslike it reads everything on your phone and if porn is detected it automatically uninstalls -users are required to pay the equivalent of an expensive meal for each "date" -no chance of cyber sex for 3+months and if vetting tests are failed -inspects room cleanliness, grooming and fitness via webcam -bank account details required and it judges users' income flow -should scrote ever … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 06:21 AM |
| 181 | When men in professional settings treat you like sh*t when you don't wear makeup. I'm sorry, was this supposed to be a date?!Lol, men used to wear heels, powdered wigs and rouge...if he likes heels so much, maybe he should bring a little Louis XIV style to the streets... "I miss the days when men looked like men in their perriwigs and silk capes..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 06:07 AM |
| 72 | The truth about "the wall"Look at the comments for any youtube video of a female celeb in her 30s....there's always a bunch of gobsmacked scrotes saying "I can't believe this woman isn't 21"...they literally cannot tell a woman's age by looking at her, and seem to expect women in their 30s to suddenly look wildly different. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 06:05 AM |
| 2 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?Girls who claim to be "Not Like Other Girls", i.e. coolgirl pickmeishas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 05:58 AM |
| 20 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?Don't start me on the NLOGs who request it as their date restaurant... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 04:02 AM |
| 49 | The Struggle Is Real...Imagine a MALE delusion calculator... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:59 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts as I'm packing my things while he sleeps, drunk after going to bed at 7am (a normal night for him)SO PROUD OF YOU! This is awesome. This is why FDS exists. This Scrote does NOT deserve you. He can't clean up after his pets, but wants to be a stay at home dad for 12 kids? DELUSIONAL. What an absolute manbaby. You deserve SO much better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:57 AM |
| 35 | Asshole tells his wife to lose weight or consent to being cheated onWas this written by a male LARPER in an attempt to further lower the bar? I don't think a real woman could be so dispassionate in the face of such audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:50 AM |
| 17 | Being a more private personYes! Vagueness and small talk are incredibly useful for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 11:32 PM |
| 135 | What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them?👏👏👏 Also, he shouldn't be following thirst trap insta girls, that's disrespectful to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 15 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a child"She's literally asking me to pay her to have a child, turns me off" No, she's only asking him to pay for half(!) the income she'd lose while pregnant and support her financially if she needs more time off work. Scrote: I love her independence (money) Also scrote: her independence scares me (ability to abort my child if I don't support her financially) Like, I want to baby trap this woman, but I also don't want to support her, but I don't want her to have an abortion... Delusional scrote, run la… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 05:36 AM |
| 17 | Kind of mad I wasn't born 2-3 generations later so I can experience "enlightened" menI know quite a few women who have gone the "single mother by choice" route (sperm donor or adoption) and are raising amazing sons, with no scrote involvement, and of course FDS-savvy mothers like Gail Dines. Perhaps in the future the ultimate vetting question to ask a guy will be "Do the letters FDS mean anything to your mother?" Or possibly a secret handshake...It worked for the Masons 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:25 AM |
| 5 | Men who hide their political views from youI usually ask general questions to get a vibe for the guy's political views, without expressing my views one way or another...I try to seem neutral. It's like porn consumption--you need to suss it out without disclosing your opinion on the subject. If the guy happily expresses his political views, without parroting your "neutral" stance then you know he's not mirroring you. If his views align with yours, great. If they don't and it's a dealbreaker for you, dump him. The other test, is if his vie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 11:54 AM |
| 17 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveA whole year? Omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 06:53 AM |
| 263 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveRed flag: he asked her "what she thought of poly"...this is code for "I want to cheat on you with or without your permission". She flew to meet him? He should have come to HER city. She had unprotected sex with him as soon as they met? Sis needs FDS, and her video is way too kind. It should just say "Watch out ladies, this guy is cheating, lying scum". Of course he preyed on a woman who was going through a rough time mentally. Fuck this dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 06:51 AM |
| 91 | Can a man that has done anal be a HVM?The whole "it adds variety" comment is creepy. If a man had done it because the ex gf had specifically requested trying it, ok fine. But if it was his idea? Red flag. Double red flag if he pressured her into it. His points sound like lowkey pressure. A HVM would say "I only want to do things in bed that YOU enjoy". End of story. I say cut this guy off. He doesn't deserve you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 03:39 AM |
| 10 | What in the pick-me hell? Ad on Facebook for virtual mental health help.It's finally here: the Pickme AI | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 07:07 AM |
| 5 | What's the FDS view on "reading" porn?My perspective too. Keep any eye out for secret porn habits. Ask to borrow his phone (come up with a reason) and see how he reacts... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 07:06 AM |
| 4 | What's the FDS view on "reading" porn?I think it's fine if it happens to be true. He could have a browser history full of god knows what. The only way to really know is to snoop. Asking if he watches porn may have made him think it could be a dealbreaker for you. It's tricky, keep an eye on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Euphoria: libfem propaganda or thoughtful series?God, and written by a man no less. I think of libfems as being sexy pozzy feminists...if it's written by a scrote it's...male grooming? Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Even a "pet peeve" like refusing to go to the doc for regular check-ups can be lethal. Be ruthless when setting boundaries and standards!Omfg, never let a scrote pop your pimples in any area, intimate or otherwise! Hnnnghrrghgrrrghhghhhh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Middle aged men who “don’t know yet” on dating appsI think even FWB sounds too committed for these scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 11:05 AM |
| 57 | Hmm, did this seem like an innocent question from him or am i wrong to possibly feel the ick?Misspelling 'genuinely' is enough to give me the ick #Virgo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 11:02 AM |
| 61 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.I think the editor is a man? Creepy as. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:59 AM |
| 103 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.As soon as any "pressuring" starts happening, that's a cue to end it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:57 AM |
| 268 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.I will happily strap on a giant dildo, suddenly they're not so keen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:55 AM |
| 97 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.And Teen vogue publishes articles on this very sex act. Smdh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:53 AM |
| 17 | Am I the only one who's starting to believe I'll never be loved?I was going to suggest this too. Don't be afraid to join group activities, it's great for the soul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Euphoria: libfem propaganda or thoughtful series?Clearly the creators are banking on using it as a drawcard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Euphoria: libfem propaganda or thoughtful series?Omg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 08:38 PM |
| 23 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profileMusician in a "band" that is sure to make it big soon. I specialise in negging and telling women to "not dress too sexy" to cope with my nagging (and completely justified) insecurities. The younger and more naive you are, the better I can convince you of my soon-to-be rockstar status. Incredibly lazy with a strong aversion to work in general. All my exes were crazy, but maybe YOU will be the manic pixie dream girl to fix my depression. I'm sooooo depressed. Quote: This is the 10th bass player to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:42 AM |
| 146 | Euphoria: libfem propaganda or thoughtful series?Yes, that's what I was wondering about. I guess anything that goes against the "porn is fine and if you don't like abusive sex you're a prude" narrative is a step in the right direction. But god, we need more media aimed at and created by women that isn't libfem pickme bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 09:50 AM |
| 7 | Male Postpartum (or, how women cannot be allowed to have anything br about us)The same men that are terrified at the thought of a vasectomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:11 AM |
| 10 | Can you at a later point in an established relationship – bring up exes as a conversation for reflection?The less said about exes the better. In fact you should create the general impression that you were treated well in all past relationships. He will work to treat you better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:08 AM |
| 15 | Vetting is not new or unique to FDS. This movie came out in 1993, the scene presented as old-school wisdom. It was not met with backlash, and comments are in praise of the "door test." Do not be afraid to use similar tactics to see whether your partner shows qualities you want.I love it when men open the car door for me. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Fucking idiot 🤡Fake, fake, fake. "She wears a frilly apron and I can't spell" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:58 AM |
| 27 | Imagine there was a website that catalogued videos of men being beaten😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:53 AM |
| 49 | No words about how disgusting this is.Tell me again how porn is empowering, libfems? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:51 AM |
| 162 | Male Postpartum (or, how women cannot be allowed to have anything br about us)I literally want to punch any man who says "we're pregnant". Excuse me? Will "we" be experiencing morning sickness? Swollen feet? Labour? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:47 AM |
| 316 | Male Postpartum (or, how women cannot be allowed to have anything br about us)Reminds me of a hideous article I read on "male birth trauma". While the interviewees included men who had genuinely experienced hellish things (like their wives nearly dying, doctors not listening to their pleas) it also included men who described "seeing vaginal blood" as "traumatic" and that it "ruined his sex life". FFS give me a break! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:44 AM |
| 23 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityOmg... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 10:22 PM |
| 72 | Man wants to have a kid with his wife's younger sister....the traditional way. This poor woman is actually confused about it. WHAT.For all we know this scrote has had a secret vasectomy.... "Maybe you're the infertile one honey, let's do this the traditional way, and I sleep with a hot 'sperm donor'...." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 10:18 PM |
| 12 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂These men will dive into nfts and crypto, but mock any woman who sells Avon or tupperware. At least the bloody lipstick/lunchbox exists! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 11:17 AM |
| 59 | Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks?Yah, breast tissue is largely fat cells around the actual mammary gland. Men be all like "fat bad, boobs good". Dude, boobs ARE mainly fat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 11:03 AM |
| 2 | LVM are out there thinking men don't treat women like shit. Drew's response is on point as always 👑His philosophical tone has me 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 11:00 AM |
| 18 | Confirmation of Female Dating Strategies + On Shy MenThen they get butthurt and wonder why girls prefer "confident" guys, instead of activley working on their social skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 10:54 AM |
| 18 | Confirmation of Female Dating Strategies + On Shy MenShy guys who can't hold a convo need to work on their social skills before dating. Go join a Toastmasters group and practice your public speaking. Join hobby groups, clubs and societies. Learn to socialise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 10:52 AM |
| 33 | How do you respond to men who ask you to teach them something as an OLD opener?Send them the details of an expensive private tutor in that area. E.g. Unfortunately I don't have the skills or patience to instruct in the art of [camel racing] but Sir Faisal of Action Camels will be able to provide private camel racing lessons at a the going rate. Perhaps once you own your own beast, and have mastered the art, we can go for a little gallop together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 09:52 AM |
| 53 | Women who implement FDS are "groomed, hot, successful, with standards", says FDS-hating manI explained FDS to a male friend. His response? "Sound perfectly reasonable. I want the website to share with my daughter when she's old enough to date." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 09:50 AM |
| 7 | Female Political Strategy Podcast: EP 12 - Could We, Should We, Desexualize Breasts?If we "desexualise" breasts men can grope them and say "but it was in a non-sexual way! Squeezing someone's tits is as innocuous as a handshake!" . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:00 AM |
| 6 | Female Political Strategy Podcast: EP 12 - Could We, Should We, Desexualize Breasts?Great ep ladies! Of course there are tribal societies in which bare breasts are the norm, but expecting the rest of the world to magically drop all previous associations is like expecting people to start hunting and foraging for everything they eat. The people pushing for "desexualisation" are usually men who want to see more nudity on social media to wank to, or weirdo men into nudism (probably exhibitionists) or pickme attention seeking women who want to post boob shots without it being consid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:57 AM |
| 62 | What has been your biggest bullet dodged, and which vetting strategy do you attribute to it?Hmm, homicide. Always a good one to avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:03 AM |
| 42 | scrotey man can masturbste ‘for hours’ but can’t hold an erection with his girlfriend. sex columnist advice ‘oh don’t feel ashamed, just communicaaaaate’Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:01 AM |
| 50 | Can we talk about the difference befween Anna Delvey and The tinder swindler?She also conned female friends, not just banks and institutions. Totally toxic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 09:53 AM |
| 19 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂I died at "hobby chef" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 01:08 AM |
| 24 | Karmic Revenge on Cheaters (share your stories!)And your belongings were safe 💗 perfection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 10:39 AM |
| 22 | Karmic Revenge on Cheaters (share your stories!)Hence the negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 10:38 AM |
| 19 | “How do I ask my boyfriend to stop beating and strangling me?”One good thing: I can hear the hurt and indignation in this woman's writing. She's realising what she actually wants. Leave him, leave him, leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 10:36 AM |
| 12 | “How do I ask my boyfriend to stop beating and strangling me?”THIS 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 10:34 AM |
| 28 | A message to the kinkmeishas: No, porn is not "normal".Remember when doctors encouraged their patients to smoke, and there were ashtrays on planes? When asbestos was used to construct houses? When people would x-ray their feet and you could buy beauty products infused with radium? Just because it's normalised doesn't mean it's a good idea. I feel like the evidence is starting to mount up, and the experts are in denial. Stay tuned for the (sure to be upcoming) studies on men and the effects of porn addiction. I'm not sure where they'd find a control … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 10:27 AM |
| 51 | Someone trolled the tony stark wannabeshe should go in with hidden cameras you've got a must-see comedy-reality series. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:23 AM |
| 6 | “The success of single women is the success of all women.“Preach! 💗💗💗👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:22 AM |
| 31 | Vetting Strategy (US)See, this is a queen move | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:17 AM |
| 17 | Vetting Strategy (US)Well, a really crafty scrote could give you a fake name, but I doubt it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:17 AM |
| 15 | I could not find ONE comment saying she’s in the right. He expects her to come over on the first date but gets offended when she mentions him paying for tea. A $2 item. 🥴It is a massive red flag. Dude was probably a rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:15 AM |
| 6 | Somehow this is worse than those room rentals on CraigslistYeah, they think it's still the 90s and tech is some secret boys club that the wimminz don't understand. The audacity of the guy expecting people to invest in his coding lessons! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:08 AM |
| 52 | Jealous Tech Scrote Sends Woman's Onlyfans to EmployerAnd of course libfems screech "porn isn't the problem, the puritanical values of her employees are to blame, we just need to reprogram society". While porn exists, women are seen as dehumanized sex objects, and therefore the problem exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:00 AM |
| 11 | From a FB group: male rando on OLD sends woman low-effort opener asking for personal information, woman states boundary, pickmes are upset she didn’t coddle him enough."Rude Prude"= based Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Men Who Hate Women Show It When Women Are Most VulnerableI hope she dumps his selfish arse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 10:42 AM |
| 78 | She "taught her husband a lesson" by not doing his laundry or grocery shopping after he refused to put away a handful of clothes from the dryer, because he's a guy and "not good at communicating". Someone pointed out basically he has no empathy and only reacts if there's consequences for him.It's sad that she has to justify her actions because people will tell her to "jUsT cOMmUnICaTe". I'm pro anything that goes against the 'just communicate' narrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 10:32 AM |
| 64 | Somehow this is worse than those room rentals on CraigslistYeah, the ratio of successful to failed techbros is like 1:1,000,000. Plus, if turns out to be the next Jobs/Zuckerberg/dingbat...if he really wants you , he can come chase you in his 30s AFTER he's made his billions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 10:21 AM |
| 47 | I am just so... disappointedThis is also a good example of why is is a good idea to sleep with a man (on your own personal timeline, and sufficient vetting). No-one wants to discover things like this on their wedding night. You dodged a bullet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 01:19 AM |
| 87 | I am just so... disappointedIt also means he was probably using it the entire time you were dating. So much for "loneliness", he was dating a real woman and still using it. If he'd quit porn when you started dating, I bet there would have been no issues. The man is an addict. No, porn has not ruined men, the pornsick ones have chosen it. Alcohol exists, but not everyone is an alcoholic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 01:16 AM |
| 75 | I am just so... disappointedGood move. Men need to learn that PIED is not acceptable in relationships. Walk away. You deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Ideas on where to meet HVMHV women tend to uave HV brothers... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 10:06 AM |
| 9 | Ideas on where to meet HVMMarathon running? Deffo takes dedication. I'd say any activity where a high level of effort, work and planning is involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Comparing the Assault of Stealthing to lying about being on Birth Control | An attempt at a Tasteless 'Gotcha' by menIf men are worried about pregnancy....try celibacy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 10:02 AM |
| 26 | A man i've never spoken to in my life dealing with abuse "allegations" and losing custody of his daughter who is barely a month old decides now is the perfect time to talk to random women. Should pass this along to the mother in case he tries to get back with her?Astrology joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:55 AM |
| 12 | What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement?Yesssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:46 AM |
| 16 | What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement?Moving to your town. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:45 AM |
| 14 | What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement?When you say visible, do you mean through the fabric (like in cold weather) or actually exposed and uncovered? Coz I am annoyed by having perky nips as a taboo, FFS. Having to wear padded bras to conceal a perfectly natural part of the anatomy grinds me. I feel so uncomfortable with perky nipples showing through fabric because men carry on like it's some kind of burlesque show, and I just want to mind my business and get on with my day. If a perky nipple was normalised as much as cleavage is, I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:43 AM |
| 32 | A man i've never spoken to in my life dealing with abuse "allegations" and losing custody of his daughter who is barely a month old decides now is the perfect time to talk to random women. Should pass this along to the mother in case he tries to get back with her?All the FDS virgos, irritated by the grammar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:36 AM |
| 13 | On men frequenting OF/internet models/cam girls etc : If this were the 90s would you date a man who carried around a box of swimsuit model magazines 📖 so he could ogle them a couple times an hour??Whenever a man says "sex work is work" I want to tell him to go be a rent boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:32 AM |
| 7 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?Qho remembers that episode in 6 Feet Under...she tells the boyfriend she had a termination and he cries and guilt trips her, nevermind that he cheated on her with his male art professor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:23 AM |
| 13 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:19 AM |
| 4 | "Vetting is exhausting"If it's too exhausting, don't date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 09:50 AM |
| 436 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?I'd counsel against even telling a guy like this you got pregnant. They can turn posessive and guilt-tripping. Block, delete and move on. Seek support from people who really love you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 09:48 AM |
| 5 | 👏 Never 👏 Stop 👏 Vetting 👏Thank god for FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:57 AM |
| 4 | When being a pornsick pickme trying to fulfill an unasked for male fantasy goes wrongHe was probably pushing her for it...but she can't bring herself to write that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:34 AM |
| 0 | If you can't see any good reason not to date a man with a female best friend, LET THIS BE IT! Selfish pickmeisha got stood up, so she ruined another womans valentines day. To add insult to injury, she & this mans girlfriend are related 🤢Is the friend a guy? Coz deffo gay then... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:29 AM |
| 19 | Ali Wong’s “Don Wong” ShowI always think, what if I were to keep a squeeze bottle of salty mayonnaise next to the bed and cover the dudes face with it, (taking care to aim for the eyes)...would he like it? Lol, of course not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:24 AM |
| 5 | Ali Wong’s “Don Wong” ShowHmm, good point about comedy audiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:21 AM |
| 19 | Ali Wong’s “Don Wong” ShowYeah, I can't with comedians who spread the pornified sex message. Women are being brainwashed enough by men and libfem media... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Valentine’s Day cringe💗💗💗 A+ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:10 AM |
| 9 | Valentine’s Day cringeThat's not even that much effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:09 AM |
| 12 | Valentine’s Day cringePlease no sneakers. If we are going to a nice restaurant I expect dress shoes (and not those ghastly pointy ones). Jacket too, and a fucking tie...and some cufflinks and a tie pin, and a handkerchief in the pocket and maybe even a fucking hat...and nice underwear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:08 AM |
| 7 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?Just gonna leave this here: https://youtu.be/Bz2-49q6DOI | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:01 AM |
| 5 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 50 - The Tinder Swindler is Kinda Mid For A ScammerThis was a fun ep! FDS could have saved these women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:55 AM |
| 33 | dumped a lvm and got asked out by someone much betterRemember to keep a scrotation. You're allowed to date/meet multiple men, don't let the new guy lock you into exclusivity too soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:15 AM |
| 50 | The relationship subs have delivered on my expectations for Valentine's Scrotery but this one really hit me for some reason. I think its the massive cope at the end.If you're supporting him financially dude had better be in a frilly pink apron baking those cupcakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:01 AM |
| 5 | Textbook Terrible V-Day😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:57 AM |
| 27 | Textbook Terrible V-DayShe dumped him. Let the pickmes date the low-effort redditbros. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:56 AM |
| 15 | Textbook Terrible V-DayBless this woman's roommates. Yes she can do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:51 AM |
| 48 | Jordan Peterson + Childless WomenNevermind that these men in their 20s would have run a MILE if a woman had suggested having a baby and he support her. But of course as OP said, everything is women's fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:45 AM |
| 9 | The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts?Yes, the tone was very "I'm soooo low maintenance, not like those other girls". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Holy shit this is genius 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂The Queen energy in this post 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:08 AM |
| 49 | Holy shit this is genius 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂Queen s**t💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s DayGood point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s DayDo not post. Any love messages. About a guy. On social media. Unless he has done 1,000% more. About you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:00 AM |
| 3 | Valentine's Field ReportI literally had that attitude pre-FDS. It truly is a life-changer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:56 AM |
| 5 | Valentine's Field ReportIf the man gets a gift it is directly proportional to the amount of effort spent on the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:55 AM |
| 9 | Valentine's Field ReportYes, why is the one celebration that's about spoiling the woman the most criticised? PATRIARCHY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:53 AM |
| 7 | Valentine's Field ReportIt's also great because it shames low value scrotes who couldn't be bothered. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:52 AM |
| 12 | Valentine's Field ReportIf any man has a problem with it next him immediately. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:50 AM |
| 62 | The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts?Yeah, it seems like the definition has become a bit skewed. We at FDS critique pickme behaviour...women can have any kind of interest or dress any way they want. Pickme behaviour: not holding men to any kind of standard, having your life revolve around a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:41 AM |
| 50 | The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts?The illustration seems a little confused...we have no strong opinions on breast size, or oral sex. Could the 10 boyfriends be a reference to the FDS scrotation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:51 AM |
| 64 | It's almost like sex is different for men and women...For context, Cat Marnell mentions such experiences in her book, and not necessarily in an endorsing or positive way. But gee, sex parties as "no big deal"? Please, men don't get to have an opinion on anything regarding the female body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:42 AM |
| 2 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Buy yourself the biggest bunch of flowers or fave treat 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:51 AM |
| 14 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!"Open to it". My god, these are the type of men who end up calling their wives "the ball and chain". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:49 AM |
| 8 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Oooh, you're right. He was probably spinning plates and trying to push for v-day sex. Which makes him even more undeserving of your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:48 AM |
| 3 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!"Do you think otherwise?" Omg, he wanted you to fall at his feet weeping. Always chasing that ego-boost. SO proud of you! You deserve so much better 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:44 AM |
| 7 | Why we shouldn’t have men as friends….a sequel."An FL6 Carat diamond is actually my worst nightmare" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Men asking for Instagram or WhatsApp prior to meetingSeems like a LV move. Just say no. Plus it makes it harder to block and delete if the guy is following you everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Men asking for Instagram or WhatsApp prior to meetingTHISSSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:52 AM |
| 23 | 22 year old woman killed in Denmark because of misogyni - the most equal country in the world? Femicide and hatred of women - the state of the union 2022.Scandi Scrotes 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:41 AM |
| 12 | 22 year old woman killed in Denmark because of misogyni - the most equal country in the world? Femicide and hatred of women - the state of the union 2022.You don't hear women campaigning for "both sexes should get period cramps" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:39 AM |
| 23 | Can long distance relationships work?If feel like they can start out LDR, each person visits the other in their respective countries...maybe over a couple of years, until they make the decision to live together in a country of choice. I know a woman who met a French guy online (not through OLD but studying the language). She travelled to France, they met, then he travelled to her home country twice. After about 2yrs they married and live in her home country and seem really happy (they have 2 daughters). I think she definitely appli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:31 AM |
| 12 | I finally get itI'd say there's nothing "bad" or "bitchy" about having FDS standards. A man can either choose to meet them...or leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:19 AM |
| 16 | If he doesn't do anything for you on VDay you need to block him. Period. Any low effort? Bye.I think it's still possible to celebrate without the exchange of gifts, e.g. a picnic in a tranquil park, seeing a nice film, a shared experience that you would enjoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:02 AM |
| 34 | If he doesn't do anything for you on VDay you need to block him. Period. Any low effort? Bye.Yes, his efforts need to be tailored to your needs and preferences. So many pickmes dismiss it as "commercial and generic", it shouldn't and needn't be. Whether you love a hallmark card and teddy bear or prefer handmade artisanal jewelry and organic hand-picked flowers...it needs to be thoughtful and you-appropriate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:58 AM |
| 35 | If he doesn't do anything for you on VDay you need to block him. Period. Any low effort? Bye.Valentines Day is especially relevant in the courting stages, a way of making feelings known...but it doesn't mean the man can now take you for granted or see it as a "serious step" that he bought you flowers or took you out for dinner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:56 AM |
| 27 | If he doesn't do anything for you on VDay you need to block him. Period. Any low effort? Bye.A HVM should ask you whether it is something you enjoy celebrating/would like to celebrate, and work from there. Even if you have shunned it in the past (old pickme habits), simply let the man know that it's something you'd like to celebrate this year. A HVM will make sure you have a special time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:53 AM |
| 20 | Valentine’s Day Gifts if you’re in a relationship ?Yep. I follow this formula. Always give the chocs and card at the end of the date. That way, if you weren't happy with it....he gets nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Beards change way men look a lot more than makeup. Makeup comes off every day while you only see what men looks like if they shave. Don't trust men with beards.I think he should be willing to shave it off and re-grow for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:34 AM |
| 10 | Once again, Guard Your Womb, Sisters.Being obsessed with sport is a red flag to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:40 AM |
| 7 | In Australia one step back. This timeline is need fudged…You can bet David is hotter than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:36 AM |
| 25 | Low Effort ValentineDoesn't it take more effort to research "what is the most low effort dish?". Makes no sense. They're wasting their own time and the girl's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 23 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereYou might make $20...a little less after maestro has taken his cut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:17 AM |
| 7 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereWhat the hell is a Bull? (Other than a bs producer) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:16 AM |
| 16 | The Queen behind TinderTranslators gets it. Absolute gold.Omg I see it now. She has captured the slimy aura perfectly 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:14 AM |
| 253 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄You just know this scrote's floor is covered with crumbs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:12 AM |
| 6 | Hey look FDS, I made it, I made it! 🎶We love to see it 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:09 AM |
| 34 | 22F dating a 34M finds out he co-owns a house in the suburbs with a woman sharing his last name - If he’s making excuses for you not to see HIS house even though he’s seen yours, there’s a reason.He's not "dating" a 22yo, he's trying to have an affair with one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:06 AM |
| 21 | Shower thought: Society literally had to coin the term ‘gentleman’ in order to accentuate behaviors that show a minimal level of consideration and respect towards women. Also, it indirectly shows that the vast majority of ‘other’ men don’t care about such values.I think 'gentlewoman' was also used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 02:37 AM |
| 4 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 48 - 37 Lies You Were Taught About Men - Part 2Nailing it as always ladies!💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 09:40 AM |
| 73 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.I also know the word prOtOtYpIcAL. Come get it ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:01 PM |
| 241 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Hi I have no social skills and am delusional about my looks. The 7.5 touched my arm for 2 Mississippis, so she clearly wants me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:51 AM |
| 23 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!Yeah, he really doesn't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:49 AM |
| 52 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!"Check those browsers", um ok, so no filters, no adult supervision, no questions. Who knows if the viewing history was his own and he blamed his child... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:47 AM |
| 74 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!No moral objections=I am a massive porn addict | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:43 AM |
| 6 | The unique relationship dynamics of baby boomers and how they shaped today's twentysomething LVMYou're not the only one. I will not tolerate untidy or unfit men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:49 AM |
| 13 | Her cancer diagnosis causes HIM anxiety so he leaves - now she’s considering stopping life-saving treatment to coax him back home.These same men will call women "superficial" for not preferring dad bods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:29 AM |
| 8 | ✨How I realised if he wanted to he would is true ✨Agree with this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:27 AM |
| 7 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesI attend a martial arts gym. Not a dad bod in sight. If they wanted to they would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:53 AM |
| 4 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesWe literally need that body fat in order to be fertile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:50 AM |
| 8 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesBut expect "hourglass" in a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?I've never been asked. I think it is assumed all women where I live are feminists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 9 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitIt's such a good idea to have a diverse friend group. Not a bunch of people who all know and have dated each other. Blokes who still hang out with their school friends/people from their town are are red flag imo, and you don't want to get enmeshed with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:43 AM |
| 26 | "All the good men are taken! They're all married by now!"YES. This! The "all the good men are taken" myth needs to die in the water, along with "the wall" and "men age like wine". Fearmongering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 15 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.A HVM doesn't want a situationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 10:53 PM |
| 21 | My friends “Thirst Trap Strategy”Kinda genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 10:46 AM |
| 57 | If you ever want to get over an infatuation/crush, just check their Instagram follow listRemember even a squeaky clean insta does not a HVM make. They can easily have multiple accounts. Remember to snoop ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 10:35 AM |
| 26 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.I can't stress the importance of the scrotation more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 04:43 AM |
| 146 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Vagueness is a beautiful thing. "I don't want to limit myself to one particular type of person, I'm keeping an open mind" A LVM will interpret this as an excuse to show their LVM traits. A nice way to get them to show their true colours. Even if you want kids--don't say so straight up. Focus on finding out his attitude to kids (or he'll simply say he wants them just because he's mirroring you). Be vague, vague, vague about all your dealbreakers. "I'm not sure if I want kids yet" is a good answer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 04:42 AM |
| 48 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Yes, the "don't tell them your personal timeline" bit is all too often overlooked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 04:35 AM |
| 30 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.It's in the Handbook right? It should be. Don't tell them your standards. Don't show your playbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Age Gaps in the MediaThe wording was all my own...just capturing the tabloid vibe, if you will... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Age Gaps in the MediaYESSSSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:14 PM |
| 8 | Age Gaps in the MediaMy point exactly! The media is clearly run by male trolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:13 PM |
| 62 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.I saw red at that comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:05 PM |
| 13 | About dating multiple men simultaneously : the etiquette?If you're not having sex with the men, what is there to feel bad about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:23 AM |
| 90 | Daily inspo for my ladies💞💞💞Yes, i am sick of inspo memes about kindness. We need to encourage girls to be utterly ruthless! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:21 AM |
| 55 | This is so true. Adam Sandler and his minions after him in entertainment is why men are so delusional and lonely. They rely on fantasy that's fed to them through media, MGTOW and RP that's not going to happen.I think he's a canny man who made $$ catering to the LVM fantasy. Yes! You can be a lazy, incompetent goof and still get the hot girl! It's calculated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:19 AM |
| 10 | this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣These dating coaches need to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:17 AM |
| 14 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”She had to ask for AFTERCARE. That's a BDSM term...this is the kind of crap women end up dealing with when it goes mainstream....lazy creeps abusing them in the name of kink, with absolutely no concern for female pleasure. omfg...leave this pornsick creep who clearly does not give a shit about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:12 AM |
| 4 | A Professor Wasted Her Time Interviewing 46 Men About Why They CheatBut have they tried CoMUnICAtinG? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:07 AM |
| 234 | Age Gaps in the MediaWhat wall? Male propaganda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:47 AM |
| 140 | Age Gaps in the MediaYeah, the blonde 18yr old. It was soooo tragic. I lost all respect for him then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:45 AM |
| 70 | Age Gaps in the MediaYour mother is a Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:10 AM |
| 9 | I'm sick of Eurocentric beauty standardsAnd I know western women who have frantically tried to "look more Asian" because their white boyfriend/crush has an obsession with Asian girls. Fuck men, beauty standards etc. If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:57 AM |
| 16 | Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway?If the clothes aren't what you wanted return them, that's what return policies are for 💗 Every body is different and different cuts work better on certain shapes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:54 AM |
| 43 | It's too late, the Porn Industry won, the children are corrupted. Todays young people think rape is good and the people who think its bad are the problem. How do we protect kids, teens and young adults from being indoctrinated into Porn and LibFem culture?Also Billie Eilish speaking out against porn was a huge positive step. 💗 she's highly influential to her generation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 22 | It's too late, the Porn Industry won, the children are corrupted. Todays young people think rape is good and the people who think its bad are the problem. How do we protect kids, teens and young adults from being indoctrinated into Porn and LibFem culture?Check out the resources Gail Dines created to help protect young people from harm and provide sex education. https://www.culturereframed.org/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 5 | That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parksYes, I love these type of shops and also vintage...but its so..ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 12:35 PM |
| 14 | That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parksOnly appropriate if you have planned to go to a fany dress party together and are buying silly clothes. Deffo not a date...is it a scrote ploy to ogle your body when you try stuff on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 12:32 PM |
| 41 | Don't Miss Out On YouAngelina Jolie left Billy Bob Thornton's 20yr older cheating arse and became a global humanitarian. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:00 AM |
| 11 | That time I walked out on a date after his first sentenceThis episode of Yidlife Crisis (looove Mayim Biyalik) came close in tone... except she should have video screened, not paid for the date and not "showed her playbook"...but the idea of ruthlessly vetting scrotes is the vibe. https://youtu.be/A2QlWFSakaM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:27 AM |
| 10 | That time I walked out on a date after his first sentenceHe didn't even say ex-wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄In fingerless fishnet gloves, no less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:17 AM |
| 5 | When is the last time you had 5 star sex ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐?FDS principles drastically improved it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Does anybody else get tired of fake women's posts undoubtedly written by men?How to spot a scrote post: ●brests, brestes, jugs etc ●young laydies, feymalyees, broards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:06 AM |
| 7 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Smartphones and the internet have put spy-level tech into every man's hands. This is why we women have to use spy-level tactics against them. Have no shame ladies, and look out for each other 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:51 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Tinder will stop showing your account to people nearby if you're inactive for several days, so don't fall for "I deleted this app ages ago but didn't know I need to deactivate my profile separately!"Yep, this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:48 AM |
| 8 | Cosby Documentary: "Sex Therapist" Sonalee Rashatwar Claims "Sex Negativity" Caused Cosby's RapesAbsolute lunacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:44 AM |
| 33 | Remember this post everytime you feel guilty dropping the guy over seemingly "small" issue. Men won't tolerate even 0.000001% of the crap they put us through.Omfg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:42 AM |
| 7 | Remember this post everytime you feel guilty dropping the guy over seemingly "small" issue. Men won't tolerate even 0.000001% of the crap they put us through.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:42 AM |
| 32 | Remember this post everytime you feel guilty dropping the guy over seemingly "small" issue. Men won't tolerate even 0.000001% of the crap they put us through.This sounds like a joke to me. Surely this person is just trolling? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:40 AM |
| 6 | LVM manipulation tactic: slandering HVM friendsHmm, I meant more things that you could not witness or prove...if a guy actually had obviously friends it would be a cue to not get involved with him. But yes, I'm sure that's a tactic used by guys with LV friends to look "moral". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:35 AM |
| 4 | “Pussy is Not Charity” T-shirtI think stickers is a better idea... I also like " men who watch porn have small dicks" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Podcast humour💀"The Podcast is definitely going to be making us some money soon" 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 10:09 AM |
| 8 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?But keep a close eye on anyone you become involved with, and don't be afraid to snoop their phone. This applies to all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 10:00 AM |
| 9 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?It's fine, completely up to you. I'd be careful about telling guys this aim (waiting for marriage) early on though--as we say on FDS, don't show your playbook. Just date, and if sex comes up, say you're not ready yet. If a guy pushes for a timeline---"so when will you be ready?" You can either say "I don't know, I'll let you know when I am" (lol, on my wedding night) or dump him for being pushy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:59 AM |
| 5 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?I have met such men--super respectful and high value, now married to my friend. So sweet. Yes they exist and they don't need to be religious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:51 AM |
| 8 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 48 - 37 Lies You Were Taught About Men - Part 1Omg thankyou for calling out Carley Sciortino and her ridiculous shock-value damaging columns! If I could sue that woman for bad sex advice I would. Also anyone who shelled out $ for woo-woo sex therapist Kim Anami...while there's nothing wrong with vag exercises, her advice is shit. "Share your trauma with men! Painful pounding of the cervix is the path to better orgasms" NO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:47 AM |
| 5 | Testosterone does NOT cause aggression-men have no excuseI love these kind of posts 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:18 AM |
| 29 | Cooking together in a new relationship - wifey shit?I like dating men who cook for me. In these cases "cooking together" means him cooking and me sampling the food and eating half the raw ingredients (e.g. choc chips). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:16 AM |
| 49 | A very discouraging thread on Reddit about a woman's BF wanting her to starting wearing more slutty clothes because...😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:09 AM |
| 119 | A very discouraging thread on Reddit about a woman's BF wanting her to starting wearing more slutty clothes because...You can bet the guy looks like a sack of potatoes. She should tell him to get shredded abs and dress stylishly and he'd be reeeeeeeeeing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:08 AM |
| 50 | LVM manipulation tactic: slandering HVM friendsThey might not even be friends they slander. See also single, attractive work colleagues, neighbors...basically any guy they are worried you might leave them for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 07:00 AM |
| 11 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄It certainly wasn't a deep dive. Did they even read the Handbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:59 AM |
| 7 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄A grassroots movement can't be taken seriously without slick web design apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄It's not choice when society and men are grooming and coercing you from every angle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:55 AM |
| 12 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄They don't realise just how many women on FDS used to be in the BDSM "community". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 9 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄Hmm...I feel like these ladies didn't quite get the tone of a lot of our comments. FDS humour is dark. Pretty sure they'd jump a mile if their significant other suggested 7-way gang bang strangulation polyamory and called them a prude for not taking part. Libfems are all "you do YOU, it's a lifestyle choice!" And we are literally the same....FDS principles are optional. We're not forcing them on any women. We just encourage women to have their own standards in relationships and to think about wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:33 AM |
| 10 | Act around men you are attracted to but haven't signaled their interest in you yet as if they were takenI think we need to show some interest....but nothing beyond eye contact and light flirting. A true HVM should not hit on a woman who isn't interested in him, it's creepy and rude. Asking the woman out is 100% up to the man. The FDS podcast episode on flirting stratgies is excellent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:57 AM |
| 4 | Act around men you are attracted to but haven't signaled their interest in you yet as if they were takenA simple conversation struck up. Any compliments should be low key. E.g. oh I like your shirt, that's an interesting print. Not: damn, you are the hottest man ever to walk the earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:52 AM |
| 7 | Act around men you are attracted to but haven't signaled their interest in you yet as if they were takenThe FDS podcast episode on flirting is gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:50 AM |
| 6 | Act around men you are attracted to but haven't signaled their interest in you yet as if they were takenThe FDS podcast on flirting suggests flirting ONCE to signal your interest (whether the guy is taken or not--often in public situations there's no way to tell other than a wedding ring) ---this would involve eye contact, maybe a smile and striking up a conversation....and then it's up to him to actively pursue you. And by this we mean asking for your number and taking you on a Proper Date. And from there on it's VET, VET, VET. No crushes. And you don't give them your real number, use an app like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:49 AM |
| 23 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Oh if someone threatens you (e.g. with a weapon, or violence) and tells you not to scream and "everything will be ok, don't scream".....scream. and if you can run, run---preferably in a zig zag. While screaming loudly. Anyone who threatens your safety will not blink at killing or harming you....they simply mean to do it later. You have a higher chance of survival if you run and scream at the first sign of a threat. Your greatest weapon is DISTANCE between you and the perpetrator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 22 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)If a man stops you (a lone female) and asks for directions (or anything, a lost pet, some bs) suddenly become a deaf jogger and run in the opposite direction. Particularly if he's in a car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:16 AM |
| 10 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Ooh smart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:14 AM |
| 16 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:It is an incredibly personal decision and I support women who want or don't want to have kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:11 AM |
| 10 | Saw this on IG. Could say I'm shocked but sadly I'm not.It's good that the message is getting out there. I've always thought parents shouldn't be posting pics of their kids publicly for safety reasons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:04 AM |
| 97 | Strippers are finally coming out with the truth. Faithful and respectable men DO NOT go to strip clubs. you’re not a ‘cool girl’ who lets her man go hang out with strippers. You’re just a fool who is getting playedI love your responses to these creeps 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:01 AM |
| 39 | Strippers are finally coming out with the truth. Faithful and respectable men DO NOT go to strip clubs. you’re not a ‘cool girl’ who lets her man go hang out with strippers. You’re just a fool who is getting playedThankyou for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:00 AM |
| 34 | Late Miss USA, having previously written a heartbreaking essay about turning 30, dies by suicide at 30 years old. Women being worthless at 30 is an idea perpetuated by the manosphere, yet they dare say FDS is toxic?I live in a country where beauty pagents are not popular, and I do not understand the appeal. I think public speaking is a better way to build confidence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 10:56 AM |
| 13 | Late Miss USA, having previously written a heartbreaking essay about turning 30, dies by suicide at 30 years old. Women being worthless at 30 is an idea perpetuated by the manosphere, yet they dare say FDS is toxic?All the fucking ads for botox and wrinkle cream made me think there was a wall. Never looked better. Patriarchal propaganda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 10:53 AM |
| 81 | Elon Musk's Tech Bro Fanboys & VC Pick Mes Think Your Womb Is Inefficient & Holding Back Gender EqualityMy god what an insane concept, and so ironic coming from Musk who has walked out on god knows how many sets of kids, including the new one with the wifi password name. Want equality in parenting? Step the f up men. Do your share and more! Be good parents! But nooooo "artificial wombs" are the answer, when we all know the real problem is deadbeat dads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 10:51 AM |
| 122 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!Or offer to "repay the investment"--does that mean pay him back the $ he spent on you? No way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:38 AM |
| 8 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himI see. I am not too familiar with American culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 140 | Facial expressions- can't control them. Help.Ha! I have the same problem. Don't worry about it. Just control your actions and words. If a guy is acting badly enough to upset you...just don't see him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:25 AM |
| 0 | Friendly reminder: Reality shows are casted and scripted. XYZ did ABC on 90 day fiancé is pathetic for us to be talking about here.Thankyou! Those sort of posts and comments here annoy me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:18 AM |
| 43 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?Greetings avatar twin 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:13 AM |
| 16 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?I honestly reckon most of these are just tall tales. No Bob, you have no friends or social life, and no-one can prove whether this little jaunt happened or not. No, you're not "wild, free and impressive", you're desperately trying to seem interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:09 AM |
| 61 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himShe literally said the one thing she didn't want was her face smashed in cake. Also, who TF does this? Is it a tradition in some cultures? Seems like a shitty thing to do to a bride on her wedding day, given the hair and makeup effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Crystal Hefner Destroys Depraved Hugh Hefner's Revenge Porn StashAAAAAgghhhh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 181 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.OR these men could work on themselves and form healthy supportive human relationships? Replace "men" with women and the scrotes would be reeeeeeing. Women whose husbands have died or have brain injuries.....going off and having sex with other men? Cheating heartless whores! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:44 AM |
| 59 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.I think she meant the wives have the severe brain damage and the husband hires prostitutes? Either way it's all "poor men" bs. Another example of a sex worker by choice (or male troll posing as sex worker) throwing women under the bus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Which book impacted you the most and would be your first pick as a gift to someone?I also really like "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene (but I wouldn't give it to someone as a gift, LOL). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Which book impacted you the most and would be your first pick as a gift to someone?28 Days by Gabrielle Lichterman changed my life. Understanding women's hormonal fluctuations turns "bizzare mood fluctuations" into something you can work with, manage and pre-empt. (It's not just PMS! The cycle involves oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone which all have effects on our mood and body). https://www.amazon.com.au/28-Days-Reveals-Potential-Updated-Expanded-ebook/dp/B07R9XGPKX | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Ladies who have taken back an ex, did he change and what made you take him back?No, never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 58 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪You 100% made the right call. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:08 AM |
| 69 | Marriage is not an accomplishment. Focus on leveling up!I think it's ok to see one's own marriage as an achievement (that you have personally chosen), but it's unhealthy to see it as a "necessary achievement in order to be a successful woman" for all women...as in "what has she even achieved? She's not married!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:05 AM |
| 19 | A Curated Selection from OLDIt is always the MEN who bring up the idea in the relationship. Then they pressure the poor gf until she caves. It's a scam. Run, ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:18 AM |
| 7 | A Curated Selection from OLDTHIS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 70 | A Curated Selection from OLDSuch a boss move on your part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:11 AM |
| 74 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Each side in a war has its propaganda. Pickmes got the "empowering" message from films, TV, social media. We need alternative narratives, and FDS-friendly script writers! "If He Wanted to He Would: The Movie" Script idea...a montage style movie like "Love Actually" with various female characters crying over bread-crumbing, crusty, manipulative scrotes. Hookup culture is depicted us unsafe and unfulfilling. Characters include Nest Guy, Slug Man, Birthday Sadboy and The Swimsuit Thief. The women m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:47 AM |
| 14 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:37 AM |
| 27 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Stickers on the back of bathroom stalls: "Solve all your relationship worries NOW with FDS". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Pretend you can't cookI think being honest about your cooking skills and guage his reaction. I'm an amazing cook, but if a man perked up and expected me to cook for him it'd be over real quick. And I only date men who are good cooks and clean up after themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 11:30 AM |
| 16 | Cars, driving, and HVM: another good testMen who don't hold a driver's license are a BIG no-no. Super lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 11:15 AM |
| 77 | I walked away when my needs weren't metTranslation: I want to see other women--ok, bye! Stop wasting my time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 11:13 AM |
| 42 | Crystal Hefner Destroys Depraved Hugh Hefner's Revenge Porn StashI remember very young girls wearing playboy bunny necklaces in the 00s when the pornstar look was fashionable. SHUDDER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 11:09 AM |
| 31 | Crystal Hefner Destroys Depraved Hugh Hefner's Revenge Porn StashYeah, he had that harem of girlfriends at the end...ewww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 11:07 AM |
| 38 | Crystal Hefner Destroys Depraved Hugh Hefner's Revenge Porn StashEvery pro-hefner article I've ever read paints Crystal as a 'prudish bitch', instead of the badass Queen she clearly was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 11:05 AM |
| 17 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 47 - CATFIGHT!!! Overcoming Conflicts With Other WomenThis was gold. Also, if you're neurodivergent but don't know it, actually getting a diagnosis can be a huge help towards building self-understanding around social strategies. Also many religions frame appropriate female behaviour has "having no boundaries and excluding no-one". Please note, even Jesus had a clique. He didn't just accept anyone as a disciple, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 12:38 AM |
| 24 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.Stay off Tinder ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Studying for a psych test. Thought you would appreciate this tidbit- postpartum depression in men is related to feeling “replaced by baby” 😭😭😭Sounds like a really cute rabbit. And she should leave the Scrote for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 05:59 AM |
| 12 | Mary Berry reveals she two-timed her future husband when they first metYeah, hate the use of tge term "two timed" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:53 AM |
| 8 | West Elm Caleb: Women Warn Each Other about LVM on TikTok, Patriarchy Immediately Freaks OutTHIS 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:50 AM |
| 9 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesHe put the Hobo in Hoboken.,, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:48 AM |
| 25 | Hmmm, Am I Crazy or Are Women Wising Up?Can we get one for porn? Y'know more regulation etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:45 AM |
| 11 | Hmmm, Am I Crazy or Are Women Wising Up?I think mothers are teaching their daughters healthier lessons. It's less "don't have sex or you'll go to hell" and more how to be strategic. Plus FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:43 AM |
| 55 | Men Who Block For No Reason?This could be the plot of a movie 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 04:16 AM |
| 94 | Men Who Block For No Reason?This is the kind of female solidarity I'm HERE for! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 04:15 AM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 46 - Scamming Men in Solidarity: Combating Colorism & Racial FetishizationGreat ep ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 89 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him.Or in case the new woman dumps him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 03:00 AM |
| 10 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersIt makes no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 19 | Men Can Now Respond Directly to The Female Dating Strategy Podcast!The price should be higher, but I love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:36 PM |
| 16 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?None of these are weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockBlocking protects your energy. Some people choose to "restrict" someone's access which means they cannot see if you've read their messages or not. It's not enough. You still subconsciously care about what they have to say to you. Say no. Enforce that boundary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockIt's almost like we should all waltz into a combat zone instead of going to Costa Rica for our next holiday, because anyone who gets PTSD is just weak-minded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 37 | Internal Red Flags: TextingSome women will reply to "wyd" with nudes and a seven stanza Baudelaire poem. You sound like you have high standards and expectations, which is great. I think the FDS guide to "texting like a Queen" is useful for anyone who is starting to formulate those standards. (I can't seem to find the original post anywhere though--was it in the handbook?) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of your partner having long weekends without you?I think it's very healthy to spend some time travelling/away from each other. If he's a HVM, then it shouldn't matter. All such trips should be verifiable, checkable and details shared. If a man is hesitant to share any details or the details are shaky/shady/vague then it's a red flag. If the trips are suddenly sprung on you without warning, it's a red flag. Flip it around: if you say "I'm going on a women's yoga retreat---here is the address, the phone number of the organiser in case of emergen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 12:06 AM |
| 70 | If you ignored the trolls they can't affect you, remember ladies block AND delete!That's one unphased capybara | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:19 PM |
| 21 | Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your ConfidenceYoung girls need to be taught about negging as a priority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:19 PM |
| 27 | Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your ConfidenceThe mental picture you paint 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 52 | Internal Red Flags: Textinghmm, I definitely agree that many of these things in combination are a bad sign. You're being breadcrummed. The FDS Guide to Texting Like a Queen is really good though, and it suggests "matching the other persons energy (minus some)"...it's very helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I know there are creative types here. Shall we use this as a writing prompt?Wow. Just wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 14 | What’s with men not giving a damn about birth controlI like this approach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 12:09 AM |
| 30 | I know there are creative types here. Shall we use this as a writing prompt?I'll take the journalist writing an interview with famous woman style.... "He lounged languidly on the sofa the white linen shirt barely concealing his ample chest hair. He licked beer foam off his full lips and mottled beard and fixed me with a gaze from his piercing dark eyes..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 12:04 AM |
| 23 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 45 - Lundy Bancroft Takes The Queens Inside The Minds of Angry & Controlling Men (Part 1)I literally always thought Lundy was a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 01:23 AM |
| 17 | Potential Vetting Method? "I have a latex allergy."All allergies work well as vetting strategies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 11:09 AM |
| 18 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.You want adrenaline? Enjoy the pain and confusion of me disappearing from your life forever without a word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Thank you thank you FDSSo happy for you 🙏 Video chat is all part of the vetting strategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:58 AM |
| 2 | why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way)Obviously I would not expect cartoons to look 'completely realistic'--but I agree diversity of representation has to be healthy, including a diversity of body types. I think Moana is a good example--she isn't drawn with a hyper-exaggerated small waist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way)Videos like this calling it out are a start. Raising women's awareness. It's possible that critique of Disney films led them to include more racially diverse characters, and then female leads without love-interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 15 | why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way)Those pictures of Marilyn Monroe gave me life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 11:14 AM |
| 36 | why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way)Well there are women who've had surgery to resemble cartoon/anime girls and dolls (a minority, thankfully) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 04:41 AM |
| 12 | Looking the same after babiesExactly. Because they haven't given birth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:38 AM |
| 24 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!Smart. Give a whole different suburb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 18 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!This guy gives off major stalker vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 33 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!My god, the OF girls on SW twitter, that's probably who. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:34 AM |
| 182 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!"I pay for drinks, you pay for food" "Sorry, I have to go...my Grandmother...is on fire.." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:33 AM |
| 97 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same way😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 57 | Flip the scriptAlso, note the use of "if". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 195 | Flip the scriptYou can't spontaneously go to a ticketed event worth seeing, dine anywhere decent without booking...nor can you plan your outfit if you don't know where you're going (the beach vs the Opera are two very different dress codes). I think it's OK to give an idea of the kind of dates you're into (e.g. I like high-end fusion Asian food, and watching interesting foreign films at the cinema, and I'm allergic to peanuts). But if the man can't take the initiative and make plans that cater to your needs an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 8 | Menopause liberates women from the hormonally induced "caretaking" role. In short, menopause makes women act a bit more like men, and men can't handle it.Yes, I thought this too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:59 AM |
| 99 | What to do?Instead of paying for a therapist, he could be paying a nanny to babysit and take you out on romantic dates, which would probably make you more likely to feel like sex. He could also help out with chores more and help with childcare. If you say something like "my god, I'm so exhausted and tired lately looking after the baby and doing housework, I barely have any energy left for sex". See what he says and does. If he doesn't get the hint and step up his game helping out around the house or by pay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:55 AM |
| 48 | Ariana grande’s character in don’t look up called Leonardo dicaprio an “old fuck”. Leo’s current gf is 4 years YOUNGER than Ariana! The irony is killing me!!!The Hollywood double standard is insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:43 AM |
| 6 | How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into youIf he flies off the handle (disproportionate rage) that's a red flag. If he is nervous and genuinely concerned (and tries to remedy the situation)=green flag If he doesn't seem nervous at all, and doesn't really try to fix the issue=red flag Love bombers can become aggressive and/or discard you if you don't meet the "idealised woman" they have in their heads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:38 AM |
| 22 | How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into youA good test of the lovebomber is to get annoyed about something simple and see their reaction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 11:33 AM |
| 13 | How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into youThe good morning/good night texts are a good indicator. Or just over-frequently texting. Showering you with compliments....in the early stages a man should give you space. You should be able to go on dates with other men. A lovebomber will try to hurry things along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 13 | The lack of self-awareness is astounding 🥴Another good reason not to pose nude publicly ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Do any of you NOT want to get married one day?It definitely depends on what "you" want. Marriage is not for everyone, and I see too many "get that ring" comments here on FDS for my liking. It also depends on what country you live in and the relevant laws. P.S. not all of us are in the US and in some countries living with a man will automatically make you his defacto partner after a certain amount of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:53 PM |
| 205 | Does anyone else want a long-term partner, but also doesn’t want to live with them?I think a LOT more women want this than "society" is prepared to admit. FDS is about getting what YOU want, on your terms. Go for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Fangirl moment for FDS!FDS is the next stage in female evolution | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Fangirl moment for FDS!The podcasts changed my life 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:09 AM |
| 16 | Vetting Tips I Learned And Used Just By Dating A LVM: A CompilationI think it's more if he refuses to ever talk about it...it's a bit suss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:08 AM |
| 31 | Vetting Tips I Learned And Used Just By Dating A LVM: A CompilationI always give cheap but thoughtful gifts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:07 AM |
| 11 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 44 - Billie Eilish & How The Media Groomed A Generation of GirlsAnyone want to reclaim Karen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:02 AM |
| 6 | Book Report: The Art of Seduction by Robert GreeneI agree, in the hands of a woman it has some FDS aligned aspects. For example casually mentioning things to guage a reaction (even if false or just suggested), not oversharing and understanding people's characters and true desires. While some might see this as 'manipulation' it definitively falls under the FDS vetting process. E.g. you like opera. Instead of begging a reluctant man to take you to Madame Butterfly, you casually mention your passion and see if he takes the initiative to plan said … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:00 AM |
| 16 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 44 - Billie Eilish & How The Media Groomed A Generation of GirlsIt was great to hear women talking frankly about their experiences! J'adore ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Book Report: The Art of Seduction by Robert GreeneAgree. It just felt like a bit of fun. But it was refreshing for there to be a "type" that included a masculine edge, for all us short-haired, tuxedo-favouring women out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 43 - Best (and Worst) of 2021 - The First Annual FDS AWARD SHOW!Words cannot express how much I love the podcast 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 12:03 PM |
| 147 | It is SO easy for women to access sexYeah, I knew a woman who did it too. It was a sort of low self esteem/jealousy combo with a side of "look how edgy I am". Sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 10:53 AM |
| 11 | Men's ability to make everything about themselves is astounding but also the fact that the same features celebrated on men are shamed on women. Men were telling her she SHOULD get a nose job but saying her hypothetical son is a God. 😐oh and let's not forget how in the 90s people plucked their brows into oblivion...now they sell products to make brows thicker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Men's ability to make everything about themselves is astounding but also the fact that the same features celebrated on men are shamed on women. Men were telling her she SHOULD get a nose job but saying her hypothetical son is a God. 😐(not me, personally--just stupid changing trends) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 16 | Men's ability to make everything about themselves is astounding but also the fact that the same features celebrated on men are shamed on women. Men were telling her she SHOULD get a nose job but saying her hypothetical son is a God. 😐90's "does my butt look big in this? Please no!" 2021: I'm getting surgery to make my butt bigger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:48 PM |
| 29 | Men's ability to make everything about themselves is astounding but also the fact that the same features celebrated on men are shamed on women. Men were telling her she SHOULD get a nose job but saying her hypothetical son is a God. 😐It's true. If Javier Bardem or Adrien Brody were women, they would never have "made it in Hollywood" with those faces. Diversity of appearance is MUCH more tolerated in men, by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?Yeah. They stayed single and are still single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:41 AM |
| 8 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Refers to treating a woman as a human being as "work". Expects bjs and athletic pornstar sex. Has never made a woman orgasm. Wow ladies, real catch right here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:38 AM |
| 181 | I’m so sick of hearing praise for the most basic behaviourOh yeah, guys know the bar is low. I've heard decent men say "good men are rare". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | From all of us at FDS, we wish you happy holidays and have a wonderful new year!Thankyou wonderful mods, enjoy your well earned break! I have to say the FDS podcast episodes on Flirting and the one on Communication were really useful and informative 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:31 AM |
| 61 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.Written by an unfit dude who probably looks more pregnant than his wife 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 09:27 AM |
| 5 | Hilariously Bad First Dates That I Have Been OnCould have been married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 9 | Hilariously Bad First Dates That I Have Been OnGenius on calling the restaurant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:47 AM |
| 7 | Hilariously Bad First Dates That I Have Been OnIf he can't confirm plans, cancel the date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:46 AM |
| 10 | Hilariously Bad First Dates That I Have Been OnAlso never agree to a date where the plan is not made clear to you in advance. This is how walk dates and weid shit happens. We need to know the name of the restaurant, type of food etc. An element of suprise is fine, but these are ridiculous! Suprise, I brought my mother! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:45 AM |
| 14 | and another thing on not ever dating single fathersAgree 100%. I know a HVM single dad who remarried a HV single mother. It worked well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:38 AM |
| 10 | Post nut clarity is real, ladiesThey know exactly what they want at all times, just choose to hide it. let's call it pre-sex lying bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Misogyny in the Words we have for WomenCashed up Queesns? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:11 AM |
| 9 | The tea is hotGood to know a man can wear nail polish and clean the loo 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:08 AM |
| 3 | Was anyone else CONVINCED they were asexual?I'm not even attracted to most conventionally attractive men. I think it boils down to pheromones/chemistry/genetics. So the trick is to find men you are attracted to physically and then vet for compatibility (and vet hard). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:02 AM |
| 140 | Meghan Trainor's new song, "Title" - for women not into FWBsI really love the hot buff men waxing their legs and competing with each other to impress her in the video. Absolute gold! She's deffo FDS aligned. I like that she's not "begging" for anything, the message is just "bye boy". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 09:57 AM |
| 4 | Any halfway decent Christmas films?Last Christmas? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 09:51 AM |
| 73 | Thoughts? To me looks like the Company is pandering to the Lolita look. The facial expressions look sad and the fake tears are sickening. Why do they have to advertise like this?Thankyou for defending true Lolita fashion. It's definitely *for* women and not the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | FDS stance on men having sex toys?Yep, they need to be tasteful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 11:43 AM |
| 29 | From the dad of one of my daughter’s friends, out of literally nowhere.Omg 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 11:40 AM |
| 18 | From the dad of one of my daughter’s friends, out of literally nowhere.Brother's wife more like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Are extremely HV people less common than extremely wealthy or conventionally attractive people?Of course. Discipline as in raising well mannered, respectful people, not oaf-like couch potatoes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 11:36 AM |
| 21 | Are extremely HV people less common than extremely wealthy or conventionally attractive people?I'd say they are more common in strict, hardworking families that rear their kids well. And actually discipline them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 10:43 AM |
| 19 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesYes, maybe some FDS members in more difficult situations/countries could write some content and advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 10:40 AM |
| 26 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesIt's true, without having experienced the situation women in more oppressive countries suffer, we can't really begin to imagine how that must feel. I see articles about women who are burned with acid or harmed by family members and my heart breaks. We certainly don't consider women trapped in such situations pickmes, but maybe FDS members from similar countries can provide the best advice and support? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 10:35 AM |
| 4 | Anyone want some? (FDS sketch by me)We need more fun positive content on the sub! Looove it 💗💎💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:38 PM |
| 15 | Stop Oversharing and Be SecretiveKnow when to hold em, know when yo fold em...Kenny Rogers was pro FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:36 PM |
| 10 | Stop Oversharing and Be SecretiveHonesty is the best policy is a terrible proverb to teach little girls. It's all about context. Sure, be honest in court. On a date ? Keep your deep secrets to yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:34 PM |
| 2 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?And I tend to like gifts that some ladies on here would deem tacky, like makeup and lingere. But it's not just ANY item, it's that specific set from a particular brand I mentioned I liked, or a specific eye palette...it's all bout how much close attention he's paying to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:30 PM |
| 41 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?I am so happy for you. And ladies, never ever mention the shit gifts from exes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 5 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?It's not about the cost, it's about how fitting, special and meaningful that gift is to me. Also drop hints about the kinds of things you like around that time. A HVM will pick up on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:23 PM |
| 48 | When trying to learn more about a man, you can’t directly ask him for his opinion on a topic (porn, cheating, finances) because they’ll just tell you what you want to hear. Instead, bring up the topic casually, gauge his reaction and listen very carefully to what he does or does not sayBut then surely anyone who is pornsick will show other signs... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:29 AM |
| 78 | When trying to learn more about a man, you can’t directly ask him for his opinion on a topic (porn, cheating, finances) because they’ll just tell you what you want to hear. Instead, bring up the topic casually, gauge his reaction and listen very carefully to what he does or does not sayI worry that lurkers will get savvy to this question via reading it on FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:28 AM |
| 52 | When trying to learn more about a man, you can’t directly ask him for his opinion on a topic (porn, cheating, finances) because they’ll just tell you what you want to hear. Instead, bring up the topic casually, gauge his reaction and listen very carefully to what he does or does not sayLol, I have expressed opinions totally opposite to my personal beliefs to gauge how a man reacts. If he agrees, he either believes those things, or is a narc mirroring me. Both red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:26 AM |
| 18 | Pay Attention To Where His Eyes LandNever dated a man who ogled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:23 AM |
| 12 | Love seeing men educating other men :)I feel like the vase of flowers is just an example. If you're a busy mum with 3 young kids, the husband putting the flowers in a vase might be appreciated. But I get it--it's more only doing a mere fraction of a task/gift/gesture. Weaponised slackness? It is a sort of wilful blindness to the scope of a task. Bless this man. More men need to call scrotes out on their shit. 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:21 AM |
| -1 | Rebel Wilson on society's reaction to a woman's body image vs achievementsLet's say "a healthy weight"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:12 AM |
| 18 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 41 -Strategic Incompetence: Men Mysteriously Bad At All The Things They Want Women To DoVery good point about mothers that do everything for their sons and never expected them to lift a finger---bad news! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 11:36 AM |
| 44 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 41 -Strategic Incompetence: Men Mysteriously Bad At All The Things They Want Women To DoI've dated HVMs who cook well, are clean and tidy and seem to enjoy manual "mans" work as well. Also briefly dated lazy toads who thought washing a single dish was "work". Once you've experienced a HVM, there is NO going back. Inexperienced ladies, if your boyfriend isn't hard working, kind and wonderful ALL THE TIME drop thar SOB like a stone. You deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 09:25 AM |
| 40 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 41 -Strategic Incompetence: Men Mysteriously Bad At All The Things They Want Women To DoMale writers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 09:20 AM |
| 81 | Rebel Wilson on society's reaction to a woman's body image vs achievementsAlso she's 41. What effing wall? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 09:17 AM |
| 8 | NVM Ben Affleck blaming drinking problem on his marriage to Jennifer Garner😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 09:16 AM |
| 7 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?Men upset that they don't have a date: work on becoming a good person. It doesn't matter what you look like or if you are disabled. Help others. Help animals. Help the less fortunate--in any way possible. Donate time, money, energy. Show an interest in the lives of others. Be your best self--the most positive, responsible, hardworking, kind. Look after your health. Treat women as friends, get to know them as people. Build a strong social network of friends, who are, above all , good, mind people… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:30 AM |
| 13 | Your thoughts on this guy?Hot and cold--hes trying to mess with your head. This guy is a waste of time. You deserve someone who is serious about you. If he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:16 AM |
| 3 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerI agree, it wasn't as normalised. There were pornsick groomers, for sure, maybe not as many as today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:12 AM |
| 7 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerI'm so sorry you had this experience. I think devices and phones should be banned during school hours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:09 AM |
| 14 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerAnd wasn't Billie home schooled? My god, what hope do kids at regular school have? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:06 AM |
| 9 | NVM Ben Affleck blaming drinking problem on his marriage to Jennifer Garner💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:49 AM |
| 37 | NVM Ben Affleck blaming drinking problem on his marriage to Jennifer GarnerCasting him as the LVM in Gone Girl gave that movie so much more resonance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:47 AM |
| 86 | Rebel Wilson on society's reaction to a woman's body image vs achievementsIt's great that she's calling out the media bs publicly, and I can't wait to see the films she will go on to produce 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:33 AM |
| 4 | If a man is this obsessed with slimness, he doesn’t deserve to have someone carry his child. He is also probably repulsed by pregnant women.If a man has any "body preferences" he doesn't deserve to be near women. I've met stick thin girls whose boyfriends were always enthusing about "curvy women" and making them insecure about their body type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:22 AM |
| 72 | No more wishy-washy menYou deserve so much better than wishy-washy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:08 AM |
| 78 | Is it me or are the dating apps dead or declining in numbers of men?Good riddance. They can learn to ask women in real life on proper dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:05 AM |
| 10 | Great to see more young men speak out against porn !! 👌Always happy to hear an anti porn message. Of course the impact on women/trafficking isn't mentioned, but it's not like the mainstream media covers that much either. I'm not going to berate a young tiktoker for his "lack of coverage" when actual media outlets are pushing the "sex work is empowering" agenda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:01 AM |
| 19 | Reminder: If you want children you need to be 100% clear on what you expect from the dad (for yourself). Division of labor for house, etc and especially child care is so important ladiesThe pets is a good indicator, particularly puppies. Also look at things like housework, laundry and cleanliness. Does he help babysit friends children or nieces and nephews? Ask about his views on child-rearing and childcare. HVMs should have strong opinions on this! How does he react around neglectful/inattentive/chaotic parents? Particularly fathers. If he's not shocked it's a bad sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:53 AM |
| 22 | Reminder: If you want children you need to be 100% clear on what you expect from the dad (for yourself). Division of labor for house, etc and especially child care is so important ladiesHonestly, I have discussions about parenting styles and expecations on the second date, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:48 AM |
| 13 | Reminder: If you want children you need to be 100% clear on what you expect from the dad (for yourself). Division of labor for house, etc and especially child care is so important ladiesNormalise men being exceptional parents! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:46 AM |
| 102 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerYes! I am so happy to see any anti-porn message in mainstream media! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:41 AM |
| 22 | Wonder why he stuck around for 3 dates... Just when you think men can't get any worseExactly. And he knows if he went on a diatribe about her looks that particular rickety bridge would be burned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:14 AM |
| 28 | Wonder why he stuck around for 3 dates... Just when you think men can't get any worseIf he slept with her he'd be sure to broadcast it to the internet. #maleego | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:13 AM |
| 14 | Emotional terrorists will put your life, health, AND beauty on the line.Handbook material. We need more stuff in there about vetting and safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Tired seeing sports on the television at restaurants.I don't live in the US...there are no TVs in restaurants where I live, and thank goodness (except for sometimes in a sushi bar there is Japanese pop videos). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 11:46 PM |
| 13 | It takes men a lifetime to view women as complete human beings.This screams LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 73 | Falling in love should be a stress-free experience for youAgree but we still need to vet and follow FDS handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 09:46 AM |
| 35 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughReturn of the Mack is fine imo. "You lied to me"...everyone should leave a liar, male or female. It's a great comeback song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 09:42 AM |
| 6 | Every rule on FDS is written in bloodThere is also that trick mentioned on FDS where you use his email address to register for OnlyFans and if it rejects it, then you know he's already got an account. Plus if you find evidence via snooping, never tell the man. Just leave elegantly and with a generic reason (we're just not meant to be). If you reveal what you found it just makes them sneakier at hiding it with the next woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:49 AM |
| 5 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?Let's not forget that these men's "inner values" could use some work. Heck, if a mediocre looking guy was funny, kind amazing, engaging, faithful, did lots of yardwork, gave the woman massages, bought thoughtful treats, helped with housework and maintenance cheerfully and generally just made life awesome....the bedroom would not be dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Female Political Strategy Teaser Trailer !Loves it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:25 AM |
| 4 | FDS Gift Guide?Of greater significance is how he reacts to the gift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:17 AM |
| 5 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!Who's seen tge Paris doco? She recently got married and I'm happy for her 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:15 AM |
| 7 | STOP investing in men too early on. You never truly know him until at least a YEAR of ruthless vetting.Here is the article about the man in France. 68 years old! Trigger warning r*pe. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10041897/Sexual-deviant-68-drugged-wife-invited-strangers-abuse-France.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:03 AM |
| 16 | STOP investing in men too early on. You never truly know him until at least a YEAR of ruthless vetting.There was a woman in France whose husband was drugging her food with sleeping pills and pimping her out while she was asleep. She had KIDS with this man and had been married for years. We have to be vigilant ladies. I highly advocate all forms of snooping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 09:58 AM |
| 28 | Don't let the man downgrade you!He pointed out your eye bags and fidgeting? Fuck this scrote. That's negging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 09:51 AM |
| 10 | Don't let the man downgrade you!One at a time my arse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 09:49 AM |
| 131 | The Adorned Woman is AdoredAt the same time, if you feel more comfortable without jewellery wearing khaki slacks, go for it. We are diverse women with our own unique personal styles. Boundaries and standards should be enough. A hvm will respect you with or without a rock around your neck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Every rule on FDS is written in bloodThat sounds positive. Hmm, you could check the browser history as well as settings (e.g. if it is set up to immediately delete history). There is always private/incognito browsing tabs they can use too. Any tech savvy FDSers got other porn snooping tips? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 09:42 AM |
| 14 | Sorry, I'm not impressed with your common courtesy and basic manners.When I stpped dating scrotes and met men who opened doors and planned fun, thoughtful dates...there was no going back 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:23 PM |
| 14 | Sorry, I'm not impressed with your common courtesy and basic manners.Men don't praise the bare minimum or even the amazing in women...to keep our self esteem low. Why should we praise it in them? Be. Hard. To. Impress. 💎💎💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Every rule on FDS is written in bloodSnoop, that's how. Do you have an open phone policy? Is he cagey about his phone? Snooping feels scary, but it's so much better than living with doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:18 PM |
| 6 | I hate this memeAnyone want to make an FDS meme with the flipside? Dudes like that will give you mental health issues. The scrote pic is bang on tho. Pasty faced smoker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:15 PM |
| 23 | Thought I met someone I really liked, but recently he's ignoring me. Last night, I mourned my loss. I deleted his number so I wouldn't be tempted to reach out to him. Then I came to this sub to remind myself that I made the right choice. Thank you all for being my rock 💓All part of tge vetting process | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:12 PM |
| 28 | An increasing number of women are paying alimony to LVM husbandsSo annoying. Feeling emasculated? Go chop some wood or move heavy objects | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 29 | This made me feel dirty, I'm glad I broke up with him"I want to take pictures and video..." wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?Arthouse movies have a lot of shit to answer for. FDS needs to become an empire with its own studios. Films will come with an FDS rating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?The bohemian artist trope is very cruel indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?"I don't need to take my antidepressants now I've met you". Great, making a woman responsible for your mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:21 AM |
| 5 | Male friends are a myth.I'm not mad at you. It needed to be said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:15 AM |
| 5 | Male friends are a myth.😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:13 AM |
| 9 | Male friends are a myth.This sounds so fake. Why is he also getting pics from her friends? Also this man is 100% too cheap to spend 2 grand on this. I call fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:11 AM |
| 3 | The FDS Podcast is doing a 2021 wrap-up. Nominate your favorite Queen, Roastable Scrote, Pickme, or HVM!The HVM who gave his wife a kidney and got in shape for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | The FDS Podcast is doing a 2021 wrap-up. Nominate your favorite Queen, Roastable Scrote, Pickme, or HVM!The woman who took the xmas tree=ultimate queenshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:03 AM |
| 10 | Male friends are a myth part 2 ):Women need to abandon instagram. It has turned into a combo of porn, tinder and a strong dose of fucking with women's self esteem. Between filters, "influencers" and OnlyFans it's a shitshow. Having a "no selfies only sunsets you googled" account is helpful for vetting purposes (no photos from your life to avoid geotags/stalking). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:01 AM |
| 2 | I am a bisexual woman and I was just catfished by a man pretending to be a female on Bumble. Please stay safe.For future reference you can ask the person to send a weirdly specific photo (e.g. holding a eggbeater with a piece of paper that says zkwizxik---for example). If they can't produce this they are using fake pics (unless they are using a female relative or partner to take them, in which case they could also use her to facetime you....god forbid and unlikely) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:55 AM |
| 8 | help me heal the last of my pickme tendenciesThere's a good FDS podcast episode on flirting. My best tip is to not be too impressed by anything the man says. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:47 AM |
| 7 | help me heal the last of my pickme tendenciesThere are 2 types of male interaction, respectful and disrespectful. You know the difference when you experience both. Sitting at a bus stop in a tube top and miniskirt will quickly attract the former. It's scary and feels like it could be followed by assault. Respectful attention occurs in normal interactions where the person has a good reason to be interacting with you. E.g. the workplace, a shared event etc. You feel calm and your boundaries are respected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:42 AM |
| 15 | Title is along the lines of "she doesn't have a sense of humor." Nah bro you're just being a creepWhat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:34 AM |
| 16 | You really are the prize. Don’t let the media and the patriarchy convince you otherwise.Pickmes need to stop making it so easy for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:31 AM |
| 21 | You really are the prize. Don’t let the media and the patriarchy convince you otherwise.THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:28 AM |
| 32 | You really are the prize. Don’t let the media and the patriarchy convince you otherwise.Cats are elegant independent creatures who used to be worshipped as gods. It's all too triggering to the male psyche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:28 AM |
| 22 | You really are the prize. Don’t let the media and the patriarchy convince you otherwise.The trope of the desperate divorced woman who meets the unlikely suitor with the heart of goldwithout any vetting...man that needs to die. Nothing wrong with a romance story, but when they're all written, directed and produced by men, the woman is never shown to be careful, discerning or choosy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:26 AM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 39 - Casual Sex, Part 1: Don‘t Do It, But if You Do, Sit On His Face) + Real Estate StalkerSuch a good ep. You ladies bring the nuance and the laughter 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 01:04 PM |
| 16 | This is too funny 🙄Sounds like it was written by a man. I do know some HV hard working men, and they ALWAYS find the time to make life wonderful for the women in their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 84 | Anne Boleyn Has Had a Bad Reputation for Nearly 500 Years. Here's How One Historian Wants to Change That"the king had been making inquiries in secret about divorcing Katherine of Aragon years before Boleyn came on the scene, and Boleyn actually resisted the king’s advances." Male historians love to take the man's side. The King had his wives executed. We know who the bad guy is here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:43 AM |
| 11 | Normalise shaming men with sex and dating app addictions. There’s nothing cool or ‘alpha’ about a man who spends ALL his free time chasing tail like his life depends on itTiger Woods springs to mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:38 AM |
| 35 | Normalise shaming men with sex and dating app addictions. There’s nothing cool or ‘alpha’ about a man who spends ALL his free time chasing tail like his life depends on itCalling it an "addiction" excuses the behaviour. "I couldn't help it, it's an addiction". If a woman went around kicking 250 men in the family jewels every day, scrotes wouldn't be excusing the behaviour by calling it an "addiction". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:38 AM |
| 17 | I have no wordsWhat kind of monstrous family do you have if you worry they are going to harass this poor woman for her towel choices? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:14 AM |
| 4 | My date before vs. after FDS + vettingI'm just really picky about perfume--hopefully it was a scent you liked, e.g. from a brand you had mentioned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:11 AM |
| 7 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Anything that spreads the word is good. All publicity is good publicity. I hope more women find FDS as a result of that article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:07 AM |
| 11 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:06 AM |
| 33 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.Yeah, calling it "avoidant" makes it seem like they can't help it or something. It's a choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:02 AM |
| 5 | Any advice for my first date in 2 weeks?Handbook material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…My guess is JP has kids? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 11:05 AM |
| 7 | What is your sexuality?Queer is also used by heteroflexible unicorn hunters. Talk about muddied waters! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 11:01 AM |
| 2 | What is your sexuality?100% agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:59 AM |
| 5 | What is your sexuality?Bi guys will take you up on that unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:58 AM |
| 3 | “What we not finna do is waste our damn time!” YES 👏🏻The acronyms and diagrams are 💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Is it crazy to have a goal to make enough money to hire a PI to vet?I think a background check is worth paying for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:53 AM |
| 9 | Information to withhold initiallyNever tell them where you live, work or how much you earn. Or what you do for work exactly. Be vague, vague, vague. We need a handbook post on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Which one of you is this aboutLol, he should just "enjoy the intimacy and emotional connection". Or maybe he should lose weight, or buy some more exciting underwear. Has he tried removing all his body hair, coz that can help too, I'm told. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:45 AM |
| 38 | When Karma come to bite you.I am HERE for these stories! Let them be a warning to pro-poly scotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:37 AM |
| 6 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.Too much anime? Bloody hell. What a weirdo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:02 AM |
| 38 | Why do guys tell you they don’t want a relationship with you but get mad if you date someone else? (long read and rant)Because if we have options...then we might stop being an option for THEM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 12:57 AM |
| 14 | Have you recently met any man who was actually willing to wait to have sex with you under YOUR TERMS?I know an amazing couple who waited 5 years. He's super HV and she's just lovely. Yes, they exist! Think of all the crappy scrotes you dodged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Tropes I’m tired ofAre there films/tv series written by women that are equally bad pickme propaganda? I've not seen "Girls", how would FDS rate it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:43 AM |
| 19 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.A walk date is a damn sight less safe than a dinner date. If you're worried about safety get a burly male relative to drop you off and pick you up. I'm thinking of starting such a business "The Burly Male Relative Chauffeur Service". You will be transported in luxury by a driver (your choice of Jason Momoa or The Rock) who provides bonus "Don't fuck with her" glares at the direction of your date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Have you dated a man that can actually clean up?I've always dated very tidy men. It's a standard of mine. I'm always the messier one, but I think women should have more allowance for this as we are incapacitated by periods and pms once a month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:47 PM |
| 19 | Life hack: 💡Yes, there is a time and a place to “take things personally”.💡It really only applies to people who over-feed their cats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:43 PM |
| 24 | Life hack: 💡Yes, there is a time and a place to “take things personally”.💡Omfg don't start me on new age gaslighting. Kick a yoga-perv-bro in the balls and he should quickly deduce your anger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Pick mes like this are the reason bisexual women have to hide our sexuality.I feel sorry for women like this. Half the time the "cool girl bi" attitude stems from negging and breadcrumbing from some manipulative (usually older) emotionally unavailable scrote. Who is just rubbing his hands together at how he has ground down this woman's self esteem where she is willing to let him cheat on her in her presence. I'm bi, and no, it's not ok to leer at women. It means he doesn't respect you OR her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Pick mes like this are the reason bisexual women have to hide our sexuality.It's such a unicorn hunter vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:06 AM |
| 30 | Always google a man you’re interested in, use the tools we have now.The wedding magazines! Amazing detail 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:02 AM |
| 4 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳Yeah, a real man would be "GTFO of my house!". This sounds like it was written by a fetishist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:58 AM |
| 11 | Young men on tiktok advising against porn usageIf they are in that age bracket, they may have been taught about the issues with porm by FDS-savvy mothers... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | What's with all these shows glorifying casual sex as "empowering"?100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 5 | LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French)Hideous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Did FDS take control of the youtube comments? So refreshingI wonder if the topics are pre-selected by the host. Gay men can be very into "policing women's bodies" for femininity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.There are FDS podcast eps that have a lot of useful info about using OLD wisely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Idk a better case of mirroring than the one I'm about to describe.YES. THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | FDS when you're down on your looksAlso this video explains some useful style tips for body-flattering fashion (can make you feel so much better than body-con styles) https://youtu.be/zybhYJ0vGCU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 2 | FDS when you're down on your looksThe ugly troll of a man was just that. You're a Queen. Hold your head high. I'm a "conventionally beautiful" woman and have also struggled with body image and liking my looks--the messages the world and media bombard women with are insidious. I even had ex-boyfriends neg me for being "too glamourous" and begged me to just wear jeans and t-shirts. Working on self-love and self esteem is so important. Take the time to get into a better mindset. It takes time, but you will get there! I recently lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | FDS when you're down on your looksomg, yes. A huge YES to getting of insta and staying away from face-tuned "influencers". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:25 AM |
| 14 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 37 - Body Shaming Men For Their Own GoodTeach us more about achieving these "ridiculous levels of self esteem"! Sounds great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:18 PM |
| 10 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 37 - Body Shaming Men For Their Own GoodLoved it, as always <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:05 AM |
| 5 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”I'm also going to point an accusing finger at Hollywood movies and their portrayal of men. The only "realistic" movie I've ever seen about how men are not to be trusted was An Education (hardly a mainstream release). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:27 AM |
| 15 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”No-one teaches young girls about narcissists and how to spot them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with HVM that know they have options?All men have options and so do you. Treat the man as an option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:11 AM |
| 137 | Taylor Swift’s “All Too Well”Jake Gyllenhaal always gave me smug creepy vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:00 AM |
| 29 | At this point women should just complain about going 50/50 for the sheer hilarity that'd ensueIf he paid for dates, he might have more success...just sayin' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 10:59 AM |
| 13 | “Never tell men about your trauma”Carefree romance is a myth created by society to trick women into letting their guard down to some dusty scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:58 AM |
| 40 | Anyone see the new show called 'Spreadsheet'?100% sounds like it was written by a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:56 AM |
| 22 | No man is ‘seemingly HV’ — he simply did the bare minimum on the first couple of dates. Stop labeling men HV too EARLY on!When you have this mindset, they can sense it. It's a very healthy one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 13 | No man is ‘seemingly HV’ — he simply did the bare minimum on the first couple of dates. Stop labeling men HV too EARLY on!FDS advocates snooping, and I'm here for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:50 PM |
| 19 | No man is ‘seemingly HV’ — he simply did the bare minimum on the first couple of dates. Stop labeling men HV too EARLY on!Cannot agree more. Also labelling a man as "potential high value" tends to get you focused on one man, when you should be seeing others too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:47 PM |
| 38 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translationsImagine if a woman wrote her profile like these men... CEO at Avon. C cup, because apparently that matters. My cat always comes first! Looking for an open minded man who will pay for everything and plan interesting expensive dates. I will probably laugh at your genitals. NO FUCBOIS They'd be foaming at the mouth and calling her a delusional gold digging cat lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:05 AM |
| 9 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translationsI'm dying, stop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 3 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translations😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:00 AM |
| 19 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translationsI'm sure it means a combination of both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:59 AM |
| 38 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translationsSomeone should turn up to the date dressed as a clown, constantly tooting bulb horns and making balloon animals. When the scrote is confused, reply "But I thought you were looking for fun?". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:59 AM |
| 12 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translations"No nagging"= I'm a selfish arse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:57 AM |
| 6 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:53 AM |
| 26 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.I had a realisation recently: a man's personality is static. It will not change or magically get better if you have sex with him. It will not get worse if you don't have sex with him. You may as well wait and really suss him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:51 AM |
| 8 | Please don’t idealise men from other culturesNo but my friend spent a year there and speaks the language...Icelandic scrotes assumed she only spoke English and the sexist schizz some of them would say amongst themselves (and about her) was not high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:47 AM |
| 26 | The Bar is in Hell ExpressionsHades is currently doing a Scottish Sword Dance with the bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:19 AM |
| 11 | The Bar is in Hell ExpressionsLOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:17 AM |
| 69 | “Scrote’s response to: “What sacrifice have you made to save for a down payment?”Hobosexuals everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Hookup culture is a scamAgree with everything. Hate the term "nut" though, especially when applied to a woman's orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 11:17 AM |
| 18 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 36 -Barstool Sport‘s Dave Portnoy: Let‘s Roast This (Alleged) RapistThe crackling is CRISPY!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 11:08 AM |
| 25 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.They expect me to provide and be good looking!? WAHHHH, DISCRIMINATION! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:29 AM |
| 26 | Please don’t try to pick up people at their jobsI think it's fine to strike up a simple convo about something work related and gauge the woman's reaction. Over time you might return and see if the woman seems interested in you (I met a hvm through work once, but it was gradual, and I think he could tell I was clearly into him. After about 3 months He asked me out and I said yes--there were no cheesy pick up tricks involved). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:24 AM |
| 8 | Hookup culture is a scamSo much truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:17 AM |
| 2 | For any woman who has ever been negged about her appearance...Knocked up was a horror movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:08 AM |
| 15 | An observation regarding hair loss in men versus womenI recently saw a woman who was completely bald (clearly not a shaved head), and just rocking it in chunky hoop earrings and a gorgeous dress. And I though, damn, I wouldn't have looked or thought twice if it was a bald guy. (That said, she had more style than any bald man I've ever seen). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 05:03 AM |
| 67 | Are these negs? Just a bi woman finally getting around to dating men and these are some of the things that have been said to me so farDo not sleep with men who neg. Block and delete. The handbook has all the info you need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:48 AM |
| 35 | Was approached by a man in a parking lot. How to navigate in future?I often don't even respond verbally. Eyes down, shake head, keep moving. For all they know I'm deaf or a foreigner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Was approached by a man in a parking lot. How to navigate in future?Is there someone you can take with you when you go walking? A friend perhaps? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:36 AM |
| 98 | Please don’t idealise men from other culturesTake it from me, they are no different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:33 AM |
| 42 | For any woman who has ever been negged about her appearance...I cannot wrap my head around the fact that this sloppily dressed clown with a hideola haircut was never dragged for his appearance, but if a female celeb gains a little weight or goes out sans bra, the paps are waiting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Vetting/strategizing is not the same as “playing games”, “shit testing” or manipulation.Yes yes yss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 08:55 PM |
| 6 | A litmus test for toxic masculinity: check if he gets upset and thinks you’re less if you can tell the difference between two close coloursIt really was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 08:43 PM |
| 21 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?It's a big yes to a scrotation from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:34 AM |
| 140 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?Don't act satisfied or fake anything whatever you do. Men only improve in bed if you make it very clear he's not doing a good job. Body language should be all you need to get the message across (e.g. roll over in bed, frown). He should literally be thinking "damn I need to please her or I'm gonna lose her". He doesn't get to orgasm until he satisfies YOU. If he takes the hint, he should start asking Qs like "does that feel good? Tell me what you like/want/need". If he doesn't seem to care....bye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:33 AM |
| 19 | It's perfectly fine for you to vocalize how dope you are!Christianity made vanity a sin to keep women down...while Cardinals swish around in fancy red robes. It's only "bad" if you're a dictator's wife hoarding Louboutins while your people starve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:16 AM |
| 85 | A litmus test for toxic masculinity: check if he gets upset and thinks you’re less if you can tell the difference between two close coloursThis shit was in the movie Lost in Translation. Bill Murray's wife faxing him fabric samples in Japan apparently made her sooooo cold and boring he just haaaaad to hang out with a young hottie like Scarlett Johansson......even though he's more ancient than those gongs the monks were playing. OH Sophia Coppola you let the side down with that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:12 AM |
| 37 | How I met my HVM husband💗💗💗💗 I love that he had always had a thing for you and was waiting 💗💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 19 | A real "Cool Girl" is one who turns down Leonardo DiCaprioHer house has a vagina tunnel in it 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionI mean, it reads like he thinks he's being hilarious, but, dude, if you're not into gushy social media posts just don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:23 AM |
| 14 | Its movies like this one where women is made out to be bad person even thought she is 100 percent correct is why men have the entitled view that they do.Maybe men like Sandler have worked out that these sorts of characters will appeal to LVMs who don't want to be challenged and thus make him $$$...I mean, it worked right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:15 AM |
| 17 | Its movies like this one where women is made out to be bad person even thought she is 100 percent correct is why men have the entitled view that they do.God I hated that movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 16 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?KFC the whole time...I can scarcely imagine the stool situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:09 AM |
| 10 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:04 AM |
| 11 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?NOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:03 AM |
| 27 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?I have heard some tales about scuba diving men. What is it with them? Does it attract narc men because it's impressive and risky? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:01 AM |
| 5 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 09:00 AM |
| 9 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?Definitely gives George Costanza a run for his money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:59 AM |
| 11 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?These type of men deserve to be run over by a cement mixer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:57 AM |
| 13 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?This could definitely be a Seinfeld character! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:56 AM |
| 12 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?My god, run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?I have told men off for the way they cut cheese. Maybe I'm a monster? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:54 AM |
| 35 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?When he touched me, they felt like weird cold pokey alien hands. Like I was being examined by an extraterrestrial. God it's so hard to describe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:52 AM |
| 5 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous post😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:48 AM |
| 5 | Cancelled a date today 😌 My first unmatch block delete!!Wanting to Meet at your house is a red flag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:28 AM |
| 17 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE."Cater to all my whims and desires". There it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:16 AM |
| 4 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 35 - The Queens Are Off to Baggage Reclaim with Natalie Lue!Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 24 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 35 - The Queens Are Off to Baggage Reclaim with Natalie Lue!If you have to put "ethical" in front of something, it probably isn't too ethical. E.g. ethical chicken. The bird is still getting slaughtered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 5 | Polyamory and the normalization of dissatisfactionLow value men gravitate to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:21 AM |
| 4 | Bikini waxing?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Bikini waxing?Sometimes I have a giant bush, I keep it trimmed...occasionally I'll get the sides waxed so they don't hang out of a swimsuit...maybe a once a year Brazilian if I feel like it.....I hate shaving as the regrowth is so itchy....do whatever you want. Experiment if you like. The main thing is the man doesn't get to have an opinion on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:11 AM |
| 8 | To dress up for dates or show up as you are?I swear it doesn't matter too much. Wear whatever makes you happy. When I stopped caring if the man liked me or not, I started wearing seriously out-there non-male-gaze catering avant garde shit on dates because IDGAF (e.g. boilersuits, huge shoulder pads, saggy crotch sequin pants)...and they got better. But it's more to do with attitude than clothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:02 AM |
| 30 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla.If women actually enjoyed anal...it would never be shown in porn and most men wouldn't be into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 10:57 AM |
| 16 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla.Pornsick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 10:56 AM |
| 10 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla."You don't get to play Carnegie Hall if you can't run basic scales" !! I'M DEAD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 10:54 AM |
| 22 | “Women catch feelings easier than men”God I hate the term "catch feelings", society pathologising normal human emotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 10:52 AM |
| 15 | Dating When You’re Young/Not Intending to Marry YET?I think getting experience in being ruthless and coldhearted, cutting men off at the first sign of any red flags is good. Go for it, and if the man is truly high value he will happily wait until you are ready to settle down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 6 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneOh my god this is amazing and utterly genius! (The small penis thing) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:25 AM |
| 8 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneThe mental gymnastics! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:24 AM |
| 6 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneTrue. The same men would have a meltdown if you installed spywear on their phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Sharing FDS knowledge with young women and girls is crucial!This is awsome 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Sharing FDS knowledge with young women and girls is crucial!I just drop the wisdom when the topics come up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:18 AM |
| 21 | This weird type of poor communication that I dealt with after talking to a guy for a few monthsIt just sounds like he wants to shift the blame/negativity onto you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:15 AM |
| 5 | How do you strategize outfits and fashion for dates?That detail about the jewelry is super smart 💎💎💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 10:24 AM |
| 11 | How do you strategize outfits and fashion for dates?I understand the point of not wasting the good foundation or your best dress for a crap date. I think dress for you, but a first date with a guy you don't really know yet isn't a "special event". I think it's more a case of saving your high effort looks for the most special occasions, rather than rewarding good behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 10:20 AM |
| 16 | Today in 'having a kid together won't fix your relationship'No cake! 😭😭😢😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 01:33 AM |
| 111 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?Lvms. Remember ladies a good man is ok with you not having sex with him for any reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 01:27 AM |
| 280 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?I do think women who constantly view hot (face tuned) insta influencers feel more shit about their body image. It's not porn but it's the same vibe--just chipping away at women's self esteem and making them more vulnerable to scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 01:26 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts?Having a wide dating pool as FDS suugests means being DISCREET about it. Certainty not posting anything to social media about the men you are dating. And a new guy every 6 months is not rotational dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Future of social relationships between men and womenHopefully the more women self actualise, the more they are going to rear their male children to be respectful, kind providers...thus breeding a new generation of men with FDS values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do?What an awful situation, the guy is clearly a lying manipulator. That point about half naked exes and lying. He's probably doing shady things and then trying to split the two of you so she has no support. I don't have good advice, my natural reaction would be to kick Rob in the nuts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:39 PM |
| 17 | It is great to have the power to “pump the brakes” on a developing relationship. Women should exercise this in the dating phase.Also, you might want to keep your options open and keep a scrotation for a while...taking things slooooow is always smart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 05:40 AM |
| 24 | You should have a “hoe phase!”It can also be a low self esteem thing. Woman thinks she's unattractive, sleeps with random hot guys to convince herself she's worthy. Hun, you are amazing and male validation is not needed to prove that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 09:27 PM |
| 6 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?I only think these are acceptable on people who work in the tattoo industry...or maybe a neck tattoo is ok on a tradesman/blue collar type, and they need to be super well done, no shitty work please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:13 AM |
| 75 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Yep. Joke tattoos are the biggest turnoff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:10 AM |
| 51 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Some Buddhists or hindus will wear the swastika in tattoos but it's usually surrounded by lotuses, buddah and other such iconography. If you're going to reclaim it it needs to be tiny and worked in to an elaborate design of decorative peaceful symbolism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:07 AM |
| 8 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their height😂😂😂the TLDR was savage and I'm here for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:02 AM |
| 18 | Young Women Are Waking UpWow. "And that comment does nothing for your personality, Sir." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:59 AM |
| 7 | Young Women Are Waking UpI agree, it's hard to learn without experience. Hopefully content like this and FDS can help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:29 AM |
| 17 | Young Women Are Waking UpThe "I hate my body" vids are from when she was much younger and her YouTube channel chronicles her journey in healing body image issues. I think she leaves them up so people can compare how she is now to how she was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:28 AM |
| 17 | Young Women Are Waking UpThey also go for naive prey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:25 AM |
| 35 | Weight neggingAnd something else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:57 AM |
| 46 | Weight neggingGot negged about body hair by a guy with a pelt thicker than a gorilla. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:56 AM |
| 37 | Weight neggingI've heard of men in the BDSM scene who put their girlfriends on diets. Mega creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.I really feel for poor innoccent Polynesian people. They get filthy DMs if they use the word Poly to describe themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:52 AM |
| 30 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.Poly propaganda | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:49 AM |
| 13 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:46 AM |
| 3 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endYep and get in your car Asap, and drive off quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:44 AM |
| 3 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endI really wanted him to try and pat the dog and get bitten 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Men Who are Still Friends With their ExesI've known one HV man who stayed on friendly terms with his exes, but it made sense as he would see them socially on the very niche social scene he was into. I got on with the ex girlfriends and even became friends with them (they were in happy committed relationships with other HV men). Friendly terms is very different to friends. It means saying "hello" to them when you see them, not texting every 5mins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:36 AM |
| 16 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 34 - Building Your Girl Gang + Triple Scrote StackThis was a fab episode! Women are fed a lot of crap narratives when it comes to friendship (e.g. the hollywood version) the realness was appreciated! 💗💗💗💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeA real man would have been willing to ditch the poly lifestyle for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 10:11 AM |
| 18 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeYeah, let's be poly means: please bring home a rotating cast of women for threesomes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 10:04 AM |
| 25 | We should work together to ensure that signs like this are posted in bars and restaurants across the country.I have seen signs in women's toilets that say "go to the bar and ask for Stephanie" (it is always a different name in each bar) and that means they will help you out on some way (not sure, maybe they get security to help you). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 09:25 AM |
| 16 | What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth?I feel like there probably were red flags but this woman is in denial about them. Why does she use the term "first day rosyness" to describe his return? Like it's typical for her to only enjoy his presence on the first day? Is it normal fpr this guy to morph into a bastard on day 2? If the relationship was "great" why isn't every day rosy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 11:30 AM |
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| 55 | men's responses to your job/career situation is a quick, easy way to vetPersonally I'm against being too open with details about one's job in the early stages. Give a vague area or field e.g healthcare, education, law. If a guy pushes for explicit detail, it's a red flag (e.g. where do you work, which hospital?) He could be trying to stalk you at work. No linkedin profiles either, or if you must have one give a false name on dates until thoroughly vetted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:51 AM |
| 95 | men's responses to your job/career situation is a quick, easy way to vetIf your career's uniform gets sold in sex shops (nurse, cop, teacher) it also works as a vetting strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:46 AM |
| 20 | Seen on Facebook. No, teach your sons to stop murdering their partners.There have been some murders of gay men by their partners. Again, male violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Watching Sweet Home Alabama after FDSTrue, but those guys really helped out a lot around the house which made it seem more like a fairytale. I'm like, ok, one of them can probably fly and the other two fart rainbows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:58 AM |
| 3 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Lol, I couldn't even spend 2 nanoseconds with a man who checked out other girls in my presence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:54 AM |
| 26 | You rarely hear of the overly cautious woman who was murdered by a scrote.I love this. Rich b*tchy cat lady=life goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:38 AM |
| 24 | Married men live longer because of female care, this is well established and stories like this are not uncommon. Why is it that we hardly ever hear about a woman whose life was saved because of her husband's care and attention?There was a nice FDS post a while back about a man who got healthy and lost weight (they were a larger couple) so his wife could have his kidney. We need more of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:35 AM |
| 23 | quick and easy ways to vet: how to tell there is a mask in the first placeOoh good last point. I like it when a man is a little on edge, like he's genuinely keen to please you and wants the night to go perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:06 AM |
| 36 | Safety when dating men: Memorize a fake numberI'd just say I just got a new phone and haven't memorized it yet. It takes me aaaages to learn a new number. I had to check my own number, which I kept in a txt on my own phone for almost a year. I have Dyscalculia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 09:57 AM |
| 184 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…Bald on the Bayou | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 09:54 AM |
| 535 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…My money is on feminist alligator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 09:52 AM |
| 3 | reminder. none of us like this. but...(if you are serious about wanting a relationship with a quality man) you HAVE to meet a lot of men 🤢. finding hvm involves luck. if you go on as many dates as possible 😢you will increase your bleak, terrible odds.If you make sure you're having FUN while out in the world, doing things you enjoy then it should feel less like a "job". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 12:45 AM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 33 - How to Level Up Your Pick Me Friends + Hair of the DogThis was such a good ep and I wish some of my friends had talked me out of being with low value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 12:34 AM |
| 3 | PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies!You are definitely not the only one who has experienced this. Sometimes they can be too rough, or apply too much pressure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:45 AM |
| 4 | PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies!Here's my tip: no fake performative noise. Only make noise when it feels good...and make sure it's in a direct ratio to the amount of pleasure felt. Stop giving him orgasms until he has satisfied YOU. It works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:39 AM |
| 54 | Men who are virgins late in life are red flags.Also disagree that it's automatically a red flag. Men with ASD tend to find partners later in life. It could also be religious or cultural. But this guy was obviously a porn addict. And the ED is a sign of that. Bullet dodged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:33 AM |
| 3 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.Competence. Meaning capable of basic things? He's patting himself on the back for being competent? Yet admits he can't write a bio to save his life. Spare me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 11:04 AM |
| 6 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.To me it sounds like he goes camping in a tent with a leaky roof and 2 sticks of beef jerky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 11:01 AM |
| 48 | Efficient!I mean, men and women aren't physically equal, but I'm sure that guy didn't mean it in a "you can't go 50/50 on childbirth, so I bought you a Chanel suit and a Lamborghini" type of way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:30 AM |
| 29 | Prepping to leave - biding my timeThis guy lied to you, gaslighted you and endangered your health by having sex with another woman. That's not love. He doesn't deserve soft treatment. Block and delete as soon as you have sent the message, so you don't need to deal with more lies, whining and guilt and step into your new life with your head held high! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Prepping to leave - biding my timeYeah, having someone with you is a great idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:11 AM |
| 17 | Prepping to leave - biding my timeOnce you have your escape plan settled, You could always say you're going to the gym, drive off, then text him "it's over, I know everything that's been going on with you and (other woman), the key is (in the flower pot/biscuit tin/wherever you've hidden it). and then just never come back from the gym. Just realised you have a dog...ok...maybe say you are taking the dog out to a dog park or to the vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:09 AM |
| 21 | Going to therapy is not the solution to every relationship problem. It only works if the person going is willing to be honest about their situation and is open to change, which is why it doesn’t work with addicts.Of course he won't admit these facts on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.Holy. Whaaaaaaat. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:47 AM |
| 14 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.I know this one well. Wise words. In some countries you don't need to repay your student loan until you are earing over a certain wage...so these men will consciously always earn under that amount, never repay the debt and just keep doing more courses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:43 AM |
| 16 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.Beware of any mam who has done multiple degrees but isn't working in the field. E.g. he studied architecture and sound engineering but is working as a bartender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:42 AM |
| 19 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.Men who only like big dogs...have small dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:40 AM |
| 28 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.Next time a guy suggests a hike date too early on...arrange to meet in an isolated place and have seven burly lumberjacks chase him with axes and chainsaws screaming " she deserves a nice dinner date, hike dates are dangerous" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:28 AM |
| 2 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.He kind of proved your point though. Woman: "I don't do hike dates, the man could be a psycho killer" Man acts like a psycho killer gee why woman no want to hike with me? I can't help but wonder if this guy is actually Brian Laundrie. Just like a narc to be online dating while on the run. Not serious, but also kinda serious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:24 AM |
| 5 | "Horsegirl" is a feminist issue - why girls benefit from handling horsesMen who want you to wear boots and jodhpurs in the bedroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:18 AM |
| 14 | A snapshot of the dating world today -So many pickmes make fun of women who aren't having sex like "oh you can just tell by looking at someone if they're not getting that Dick, no glow" etc. Utter BS. Projection, probably related to their orgasm-faking unsatisfied sex lifes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:51 AM |
| 5 | Thanks for keeping us awareEven if they aren't full of masculine pride, a good man would acknowledge the inherent danger a woman faces in helping a strange man, and knows it's more appropriate to ask another man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Thanks for keeping us awareYes, if there is blood, fire or bodies, move yourself to safety first, then call emergency services. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:40 AM |
| 16 | Lies “body/sex positive” influencers tell 🧐 (Mega-post about self-objectification and posting sexy pics)Yes, it makes no sense. Scrotes don't deserve to scrutinize our bodies before they've even met us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:34 AM |
| 14 | Lies “body/sex positive” influencers tell 🧐 (Mega-post about self-objectification and posting sexy pics)The culture of thirst traps and body shots is super weird to me. I think some women haved worked out it will get them more (male) followers, and they are hoping for a paid promo or somesuch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:30 AM |
| 6 | Self-Care, decoupled from consumerism, as a strategy: discussionAgree here. Just taking time and space for yourself is the ultimate self care imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:26 AM |
| 29 | "Horsegirl" is a feminist issue - why girls benefit from handling horsesWomen who work with horses (or tigers, elephants, any large dangerous animal) can still have weak boundaries with people. Ask me how I know. I also hate the fetishisation of the equestrian aesthetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:20 AM |
| 15 | A List of LovebombsCompletely agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:18 AM |
| 18 | A List of LovebombsToo many texts every day Saying I love you wayy too soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:16 AM |
| 16 | Repost from another sub - this just shows how not having high standards is self defeating & we must strive for relationships that benefit usShe's not "asking for too much", he's not even giving the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 11:53 PM |
| 3 | If you're struggling with block/delete try these ideasAlso "Ted Bundy" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Are we starting to see the slow decline of hookup culture? Sisters are waking up…uh oh scrotes 🤭Spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Pre-nupsBut in some non-us countries it is. If you are not in the US consult a lawyer and find out the laws about prenups in your country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 06:12 AM |
| 7 | Always use a sperm bank - no matter what...Yeah, that is a pretty poor choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Would you give your phone number to a guy before meeting for the first time?You dodged a potential stalker, congratulations 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:53 AM |
| 10 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch pornAnd because guys are pressuring them to do so. It doesn't help that libfems are too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:41 AM |
| 29 | I went to a party and was never more relieved to go home alone. 🤣His response to her being a sex worker was just...wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:34 AM |
| 6 | Women are interchangeable, movie editionAny Vince Gallo movie? The ones I've seen always seem to feature tortured "noone understands me" Vince Gallo and a pretty girl with no depth, motivations or backstory who falls for him immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 02:18 AM |
| 12 | Shout out to everyone who told me to lower my standards, that no one would ever meet themSo happy for you. FDS works man. 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Concepts that need to be retiredWoah, thankyou for sharing. Sorry you went through this. Gotta take everything on the 'gram with a sack of salt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:28 AM |
| 9 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I actually dislike the term--sounds too much like work. As you said, it can be part of the whole experience, not some mad focus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:34 AM |
| 29 | Globally, most cultures, books, movies, media, the internet etc portray attractive women or women in general as bitchy, manipulative etc. The whole mean girl trope is so false in reality. In fact in real it it men who are manipulative, liars backstabbing, bloodthirsty, murderous & many worse thingsMale writers: hmm how do we stop women comparing notes on our shitty behaviour and collectively demanding better? I know lets reinforce stereotypes that they really hate one another and can't trust each other. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:29 AM |
| 36 | Concepts that need to be retiredScrotes be all shocked Pikachu face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 10:00 AM |
| 19 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.Lol: latinos "it's my culture!" Woke bros: "you're not very sEx pOsITivE are you?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:28 AM |
| 23 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.I think with woke bros it's less romantic gestures, more "let's try polyamory!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:25 AM |
| 76 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 32 - Jezebel.com Goes Inside UsThis writer needed to be dragged. I really related to (Lilith or Reaux's, sorry, your accents sound identical to me) mention that she once held similar views to Tracey in her pickme days and used to read those type of SeX pOZzy articles. Me too. They feel like grooming and complict with the Porn industry. I'd honestly like to sue SeXPoZzY writers for damages to my younger self. There were no articles telling young women they can say no. Everything is geared towards getting you to try dangerous, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:23 AM |
| 75 | Concepts that need to be retiredOh, that is a shocking one. And it's always directed at women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Concepts that need to dieOh no this post failed, my text is gone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 12:09 AM |
| 3 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….So OP's best friend is also the guy's best friend? Hmm, I'd suggest widening your dating pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 12:03 AM |
| 3 | What communication between dates an FDS lady would expect ?I agree, I don't like a lot of communication. A date once a week or every couple of weeks gives me the freedom to date other men and not be locked down by a guy who might not be the one. Otherwise, say, you're on a date, Friday night with another guy and then he calls? What do you do? Not pick up? Remember, we're not having sex for 3+ months...that's time to be spent sussing him (and others) out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Mod appreciation postYay for tge mods! 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:12 AM |
| 44 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isI hate the way sex between people who have recently met is portrayed in Hollywood as "the norm, "empowering" or resulting in a "happily ever after". I feel like male movie producers enjoy the idea of deluding young women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 54 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isYeah, maybe the term evolved as a way of women who are being pressured for sex to say "no" without being labelled a "prude". I don't think it should be necessary. Wanting to get to know someone as a person before being intimate isn't abnormal, but the majority of scrotes would sure like to push the agenda that it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 10:58 AM |
| 71 | Ground Rules - Take it Or Leave ItSo glad you're back and thankful for all the work you do! Agree with the new rules. I'm sick of "all men are trash, why bother, the chances of meeting a good one are next to nothing woeismeee sackclothandashes" comments. Love the podcast, you ladies are hilarious, always have a good giggle and learn something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 10:43 AM |
| 25 | Ground Rules - Take it Or Leave ItAs a non-US resident, I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 10:39 AM |
| 316 | FDS is BACK!I was literally checking it three times a day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 10:34 AM |
| 21 | Other than Dinner dates what are some FDS approved first dates?First dates need to be safe and public (no hikes, bungee jumping etc). You need to be able to talk and judge him.Later it can get more interesting--tickets (paid for by him) to an event/show/concert you like. Activities that require effort and planning on his part, e.g. picnic followed by art gallery (to see an exhibition you are into). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:56 AM |
| 39 | Found one in the wild!But why the "sports business" bit? Does he specialise in hockey players who've been smashed in the mouth? Or is he part of a team of dentists who pull teeth in a competitive fashion? "And that's a molar for 10 points! He goes in with the scalpel....no! This ones gonna need root canal...can he do it?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:50 AM |
| 9 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.I bet he's no oil painting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:41 AM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 31 - Female Political Strategy: We're Coming For You (feat. Elle)Yes, as a non-American I can't say I fully grasped the intricacies, but found it interesting. Ethnicity, culture, religion and politics are complex when we are talking about someone's personal experience. For example my family is religious but not anti-abortion, even though many would say they "should be". The episode was just a chance to introduce Elle, not grill her on issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 20 | You are not an equal opportunity employer. Your intimate relationships are not centers of civil rights. Your body and mind are not subject to anti-discrimination standards.Hey even if we chose our partners like employees, wouldn't the most skilled, qualified and worthy candidate get the job? And if they stuffed up during the trial period they'd get replaced? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 13 | For ladies who don't like/can't wear rings, what do you prefer instead?I love rings, a Chanel suit might be a nice alternative 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 27 | Sex positive libfem sex worker wants to “help” brutalized and abused ex pornstar by normalizing her traumaI notice she clutched her collar when thinking about the "very detailed requests" she gets from men on OF. Collar Clutchers is going to be my new term for offended Sex PoZZy faux feminists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:13 AM |
| 20 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Also what is this "ring by spring" saying? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 274 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?I think the most important things is "what do you want". Some women might prefer a cheaper ring and for him to spend the $ on the luxurious honeymoon of her dreams. Some women might want a big diamond from Tiffany. Another might want him to mine the stone and craft it himself. The mark of a HVM is, he is listening and careful to get the ring the woman wants, whatever will make her happy. I've heard 3 months salary is a good guide for a man to spend on a ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:00 AM |
| 77 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Vintage diamonds are another ethically sound choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:55 AM |
| 10 | lol so funny and true... don't stay with men who will bring you baggageI do love that one. Truth bombs everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:51 AM |
| 60 | Father playing devils advocate when it comes to sexual child abuse, but wife’s not sure what to do?! Raising daughters is terrifying.He's not "playing devil's advocate", he IS the devil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:48 AM |
| -20 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 31 - Female Political Strategy: We're Coming For You (feat. Elle)Ahhh, so good! Welcome Elle 💗 I love that FDS is opening up dialogue and viewpoints to both sides. FdS is for all women 💗 In my country I am considered "conservative" (though that means different levels in different countries) but I don't hate women with different political views to me, just as I would not hate someone with a different race or religion. I actually hate the way it is seen that if you are "conservative" you must be regressive and bigoted, I used to be left voting, but changed beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:45 AM |
| 18 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherFlunked out of ARTSCHOOL for PLAGIARISM omfg lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 09:31 AM |
| 10 | My HV bf drove 4 hours round-trip to pick me up because I *might* be uncomfortableThis is exactly how a HV man should behave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 09:29 AM |
| 137 | Your intuition as a woman is more powerful than you realiseThis is soooo true. We can tell when men are lying or acting shifty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 09:27 AM |
| 13 | FDS is featured on JezebelA scrote is just a whiny low value man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 09:25 AM |
| 20 | FDS is featured on JezebelChrist, don't start me on Karley Scortino. All the sex advice bloggers be like "If you don't let your boyfriend anally rape you, you're a prude". And then they wonder why FDS exists 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 09:10 AM |
| 12 | FDS is featured on JezebelI mean what's wrong with that? A fucboi is a disingenuous loser who lies, cheats on you and gives you stds. Sorry, didn't realize women having boundaries isn't woke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 09:09 AM |
| 13 | FDS is featured on JezebelOr "not oversharing, not giving away too much personal info on dates, so psychos don't stalk you" is now "tailoring your personality". F-off Jezebel. FdS has always been about common sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 09:05 AM |
| 23 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.I've been in a similar situation. Men KNOW that we are acting out of self preservation and race has nothing to do with it. ALL aggressive males are a threat to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:57 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-InBullet dodged! Also the ingrown hairs from shaving are horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:54 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-InI hate people who discuss money too early. It can be a way to try and force you to say how much YOU earn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:53 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-InEveryone has different standards for what they find attractive, it's highly subjective. For example I've never considered Brad Pitt hot, I guess I'm not into fair haired guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:48 AM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Check-InHe's not worth your time. I'm sure your turn down was a blow to his ego. Let him waste some other girl's time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:45 AM |
| 45 | Having standards is not a hate crimeFDS women are pretty up front...a woman...who is dating...and taking her time getting to know you....probably wants....a relationship!? Who would have guessed!? What kind of a manipulative pickup artist is she, fancy wanting to get to know me as a person!? Scrotes mad. They know exactly what FDS is about, that's why it scares them. And pickmes are quick to slander us, as it reinforces their "pick me I have no standards" narrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 07:34 AM |
| 13 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.Spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I think I just threw up. What a turn-off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Oh god, The Beatles, fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:11 PM |
| 5 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Don't even let people you are dating know that you own property. Make it an investment and keep real quiet about it. Suss the bloke out and if you realllly trust him, and he's plenty solvent then you can mention it, but definitely not early on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:08 PM |
| 216 | Reading a relationship book made me realise I don't want a relationship that muchThe FDS handbook is better than any relationship book I've ever read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:50 AM |
| 9 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsI've met high and low value men in the same field--it is a mixed bag, but I'd definitely suggest being cautious of musicians and anyone who is a "perennial student" i.e. has done many different courses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:42 AM |
| 3 | So wholesomeOur ideas are spreading? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:36 AM |
| 11 | After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a wasteOne vetting idea is developing an imaginary malady that means you can't have sex for several months once a relationship is established. Guage his reaction. Pushy? Whiny? Bye bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:33 AM |
| 18 | The amount of hate former porn actresses receive for speaking out is interesting to say the least…I am so happy to see that she is sharing her story, definitely mandatory viewing for anyone considering doing porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:15 AM |
| 11 | The amount of hate former porn actresses receive for speaking out is interesting to say the least…This comment is gold. 💎💎💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:13 AM |
| 4 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.What in god's name is choreplay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Queens, how do you maintain being an HVW friend when your friends are being pick-me’s?Only provide simple fds advice like "be careful", "no need to rush into things" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:21 AM |
| 8 | Protect your bag, ladies. The scrotery knows no bounds.Yeah, his in case of divorce thing made it sound like a very real possibility in his eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:18 AM |
| 5 | FDS and my "Come to Copernicus" momentI love this! Women are socialised to be subservient, but this is just one flawed workd view 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:11 AM |
| 815 | What in the FUCK did I just read"I have low self esteem". This is why we don't recommend dating when you are mentally all over the place. It makes you more vulnerable to LV manipulators. Dump him sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:09 AM |
| 42 | These are the hallmarks of a healthy relationship. Great insight into what DOES facilitate a high value relationship - and what it looks like in real terms.Trust...but verify. I'm not above background checks or hiring a private investigator, even for the most wholesome seeming guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:04 AM |
| 8 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningMy advice would be to travel and broaden your circle as much as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Trying to find a female subreddit directed towards Latinas but can only find porn…This video is a really good exploration of the "spicy latina" trope in cinema and TV https://youtu.be/HoyJJYRnBjA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:45 AM |
| 26 | Most men don't learn from communication, they learn from consequence"Neither a borrower nor a lender be" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:25 AM |
| 5 | Straight factsI love that he called out the inevitable "simping" comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | If you need more proof that FDS is needed, this stuff is in nature!The "Coolidge Effect" is cited by poly-apologists, but tgey fail to mention that the rooster souces food and gives it to every single hen he mates with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:19 AM |
| 62 | An analysis of hookup/porn culture: Why men benefit from it, why men hate women who participate in it, and why men slut/victim shame.The woke bro flipside of all this is poly. "I want to shag multiple women, and I respect them, and you'd better be ok with that or you're just old fashioned and narrow minded, ok?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:14 AM |
| 126 | Imagine you welcome a new baby and your husband responds by wearing earplugs to bed every nightName a single job that doesn't require focus. Is everyone else getting paid to play tiddlywinks? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:15 AM |
| 9 | Just because you are both HV doesn't mean you will be compatible.You did the right thing and it's hard at the time, but so necessary. Remember ladies, they're big boys and can take care of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:13 AM |
| 17 | Just because you are both HV doesn't mean you will be compatible.I have also experienced this. Even if you don't stay together, dating a HVM is a valuable experience because you will never tolerate low effort again, you know how high the bar can be (he got me some nice jewellery that I will be keeping). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:11 AM |
| 26 | You don’t need to have experience to know he will suck in bedYou also have to be attracted to him. Chemistry is necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 5 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesAt the same time, some of us are strong and resilient and it is a positive quality. As long as you're not having to be strong to deal with the scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:53 AM |
| 23 | The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet.I feel like we could adapt fds rules to "no sex for at least 3 months, and he's proved to be high value and given you a thoughtful gift or flowers". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:39 AM |
| 14 | The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet.A bouquet is just one nice gesture. On its own, it means nothing--any man can buy you flowers, doesn't make him high value. This is why we vet continuously. Sorry you've had a rough time of it, but the positive is you now know how to avoid timewasting selfish losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:35 AM |
| 11 | If you are confused about his intentions, read this. These are the words of men, describing how they behave when they love and respect their woman. Don't accept any excuses, ever!Yes, this is very true. The post shows "good indicators" not guarantees. Vet and stay vigilant. Personally I don't like getting a phone call every night, but agree with everything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:58 AM |
| 14 | Illinois bill would allow women to sue men over unwanted pregnanciesThose men who try to take the condom off should deffo be sued. Not just risking pregnancy but transmissible illness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:43 AM |
| 40 | That’s all women are good for, porn genreI know right? Offended by the "men are shit label" Malcolmsex? Then stop being shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:38 AM |
| 175 | Another horrible online dating story. A good example of why you don't have sex too soon before you have a chance to vet thoroughly.I would have slipped her a note. "Just in case you're in an open relationship and didn't know it. Your boyfriend told me he was single and we went on dates and had sex." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:32 AM |
| 54 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?I cannot name one tv show or movie where the woman makes the man wait for sex (pre 1950s). Can anyone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:23 AM |
| 62 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?Female tradespeople exist, they would probably love to advertise this fact for female clients BUT predatory males would probably call them so they can harass or leer at the lady plumber. It's not safe for women to enter a strange man's house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:19 AM |
| 35 | And y’all are still using OLD?I would tip the girl off. And mention fds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:14 AM |
| 28 | I surveyed a bunch of men so you don't have to! : Why guys ask those VERY personal questionsI don't think there's anything wrong with listening to true crime either. Maybe just don't tell a bloke about it on a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:18 AM |
| 41 | I surveyed a bunch of men so you don't have to! : Why guys ask those VERY personal questionsJust say something you're not truly into..."there is this great podcast about cooking/archaeology/basket weaving" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:16 AM |
| 14 | The most dangerous thing about narcissism is that people think it’s excessive self-love, when it’s actually chronic self-loathing.Yeah, I dont know if i agree with the self loathing thing, it's more of a shallow emptiness. Their self worth is fed through narcissistic supply only. If they loathed themselves wouldn't they just work on self-improvement? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:10 AM |
| 17 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI've dated older and younger...there is no general rule. Both can be mature or immature. It's down to the individual. Both can be broke or wealthy. Both can be scrotes or HV. Beware older men if you're under 30 or naive. An older man has to be super high value for me to consider him, as I dont want to be a carer late in life (he'd need to pay for that himself). There is no simple rule other than vet, vet, vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:05 AM |
| 18 | Sis needs helpYeah I recently read an article that said in all cases of pregancies over 35, where there were abnormalities it was found that the cause was something other than than the woman's age. Yet they still insist on calling it a bloody geriatric pregnancy FFS. Probably something do with the man tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 14 | Sis needs helpPure fantasy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:51 PM |
| 35 | Sis needs helpThere is something very scrotey about the turn of phrase. The description of the new gf as "stunning", cliches like "butterflies in my stomach"...like he's trying to imagine how a woman would write. The emphasis of pregnancy after 35 being "super risky" (myth) And quel suprise the woman's profile 'disappears' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-inIt makes no sense--if a cop has child pornography on his computer he'd be immediately sacked, but porn in which women are violently abused? No kinkshaming!! Thanks BDSM libfems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:27 AM |
| 39 | Traits and tenets of high-value womenDon't tell men about your savings. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Perfect example of a lovebomb - Dr WendyMaybe she wanted to keep it as a reminder to stay wary... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Perfect example of a lovebomb - Dr WendyTrue, he could just be generous...but unlikely. Don't sleep with him for a loooong time. Keep vetting. Snoop his phone. Stay wary. Keep your options open, date other men..... And don't be "wooed" or won over by the exxy gifts. Don't feel that you owe him anything, no matter what he buys you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:16 AM |
| 72 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.Kinda reads like male fiction...who calls strippers "lovely young ladies"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:09 AM |
| 75 | THANK GOD: Sarah Everard's murderer given a full life sentence and will die in jail. This filth will never be loose on the streets again.Yeah, he'd been flashing women....how come he wasn't immediately suspended from duty? A sex criminal. I bet female officers felt uncomfortable around him, but then who would ever listen to them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 0 | I'm sppeechlessHotel room? There are special metal detectors for finding hidden cameras. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | When are women ready to admit LTR don't mean shit? It's not soft marriage.Incel fan fiction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:10 AM |
| 6 | Excuse me?You're so right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:01 AM |
| 19 | Excuse me?The bottle hygiene aspect of it is also very disturbing. He could literally just make himself a cup of formula (weird) but insisting on drinking from the baby's bottle took it to officially batshit levels of bonkers. Please be fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:00 AM |
| 4 | Benevolent sexism - opinions on men protecting women? (Or for example doing the heavy lifting etc.)Subjective generalizations aren't helpful as they're not based on fact, e.g. women are more delicate, all men are stronger than women, all women want children and are slaves to their biology. But not acknowledging sex based differences is harmful-- e.g. most men are stronger than women, women give birth, 98% of sexual predators are male etc (don't quote me on the stats) and as such should be used when creating policies to protect and support women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:09 AM |
| 16 | It's no wonder that men are as dysfunctional as they are... this is from a men's therapist's site...If you don't recognize it as affection....it isn't. Enough with the love languages bs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:54 AM |
| 2 | "It is not in the shallow physical imitation of men that women will assert first their equality and later their superiority, but in the awakening of the intellect of women." What Tesla thought of future, wireless and women almost a century agoWhen every single industry has generous paid maternity leave, then we might get somewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:09 PM |
| 174 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌It's fine that she doesn't care about height, but no need to tell the world (or even the man you're dating). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:06 PM |
| 27 | I don’t want my life to revolve around my relationship. How can I find friends who believe in FDS when I work from home?Agree here. You kind of need to vet female friends. I always suggest try a group outing first (like getting coffee with the ladies from your yoga class) and judge how they behave in the group. If there are some red flags (e.g. racism, dominating convos, me me me, anything toxic) then it doesn't progress. If you gel, then a few more group outings and then you can progress to one-on-one time together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:00 PM |
| 2 | How high expectations are saving South Korean women from unhappinessI see, that's awful. I'm guessing attitudes to gay couples have a long way to go too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:46 AM |
| 18 | This is horrifying, despicable and incredibly frightening.Imagine being the wife. This is why FDS recommends snooping. Right to privacy my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:41 AM |
| 3 | This is horrifying, despicable and incredibly frightening.Christ on a bike. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:37 AM |
| 68 | Having men casually admit their depravity makes my stomach turn.Better to tip off the women if you ever get a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:35 AM |
| 5 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡That's true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:32 AM |
| 117 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡A mall....gosh, how exotic and breathtaking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:31 AM |
| 8 | This is horrifying, despicable and incredibly frightening."He showed her his warrant card" why was someone sacked from the force allowed to keep their police ID and handcuffs? Should have been confiscated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Stop calling women girls!And also we discuss matters that affect women and girls here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:18 AM |
| 69 | A case study on why we don’t ask men on dates! Found on a thread about a woman asking for a man’s number.Any man who is "too shy" to ask a woman out isn't fit for a relationship. Is he also going to be "too shy" to protect you in a dangerous situation? "Too shy" to advocate for you when you're (say) in labour and need certain medical help? "Too shy" is our signal to say "nope, he's not ready, he has to go work on his confidence and social skills". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:11 AM |
| 7 | Saw this on insta today. How cool is this? I've never taken Bcp's for the same reason that they fuck around with your hormones. Same for the morning after pill.Yeah, 4th degree tears and the possibility of fistula...not to mention death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 12 | Difference between men who watch porn and don't watch porn and how they center discussions is amazingThis is a very insightful comment. "Assess how far down the rabbit hole he's gone, the reasoning, the attitude to porn". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 11 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"I've also met some very tall women who married rather short (HV) men. It's like, being so tall themselves, the ladies never saw it as particularly important. I'm tall and I have dated shorter men. It's only massively unattractive if they are obviously insecure about it. E.g. tell you not to wear heels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 6 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"Short men have an advantage if they want to become jockeys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:41 AM |
| 14 | Channeling this energy today.No, you're not supposed to be afraid of ageing. This youth worshipping culture isn't normal or natural. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 16 | How high expectations are saving South Korean women from unhappinessWoah, thanks for sharing. I wonder if South Korean women have the option of being single mothers by choice? (Sperm bank) or is this socially unacceptable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 17 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!I know right? Listen to some Stevie Nicks songs, they're not exactly joyful... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:05 AM |
| 44 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 30 - Gabby Petito: What Women Can Learn From the Police FootageSo excited to listen to this! The podcasts are one of my fave things about FDS 🍵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 11:28 AM |
| 106 | Feminism and it's real life applications. Supporting the growth and emancipation of other women!Horrific. I've read western anthropologists (always male) upholding this sort of thing as wonderfully spiritual and citing things like "tribal societies have far lower rates of violence against women" so that makes it all ok. No, privileged white man, you do not speak for these girls and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 11:25 AM |
| 2 | First dates, vetting tips, precautions, safety.I think it's a little classier than "so what porn do you like?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 11:20 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-inYou can go on as many or as few dates with a man as you like, and stop seeing them at any point. See how things go, and have fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:30 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Check-inI'm seeing a bit more of the "why bother, they're all monsters" rhetoric and it annoys me. This is a dating sub, not Nihilism Inc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:27 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Check-inJust imagine he's gay the whole time. But a boring gay, not your bff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:24 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-inThe following bikini models on insta is very common unfortunately, and they often come up as "suggested people to follow" for men. In some ways an open follow is better than a psychopath's squeaky clean insta (with an alternative account for their porny follows). You've made your discomfort clear, but his excuse was pretty poor. Give him the cold shoulder, keep a scrotation and keep vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:21 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-inThis is textbook fds. If he wants to chase you he will. If not, next! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:03 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-inThe Marie Kondo method means everything has a place which makes tidying up easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:01 AM |
| 153 | This just in ladies, lazy proposals are the pinnacle of romance and just the best!He wrote "will you marry me" on the sofa in Doritos crumbs. My King! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:47 AM |
| 291 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!Free love repackaged, and it's a scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:45 AM |
| 73 | Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker.Also early exposure to said porn is a form of grooming and brainwashing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:35 AM |
| 2 | I set the boundary…Snooping. We need a podcast ep on this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:51 AM |
| 3 | I set the boundary…True, it's a grey area...a guy who has never been exposed to porn would be v.rare, and they may have been exposed very young, thanks to friends and technology (gen z ect). I think some vague questions to guage attitude are a good start, to get a sense of his stance. Guys who have quit porn completely may have been hardcore addicts with ED, so you want to try and work out his reasoning. Then, a bit of a snoop to see if the words match the viewing history. If it's crazy level use, run. More mild? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Found out a man I went on 2 dates with with was married (and not divorced 4 years as he said) by searching public records online! Here's how to do it.Yep, anonymous and typed out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:41 AM |
| 6 | I set the boundary…Don't be afraid to snoop. FDS advocates snooping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 154 | After hearing about savanna talking about long ass paragraph copy paste messages on the podcastTomato? Is his name Tomato or is that the name she has saved him under? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:27 AM |
| 149 | this girl planned a party for her boyfriend, when it was actually her secret proposal party, and a South Asian dating site wants us to believe it’s romantic. thankfully girls are catching on to this low effort bsA proposal party? What if she said no? You don't want other people around at at proposal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 14 | Hinder: A Dating App for Emotionally Unavailable Men (full New Yorker link in comments)Fragile Ego Fergus killed me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Maybe "your dick, your duty" has a better ring to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.And let's not even get started on the dangers of an ectopic pregnancy.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:28 AM |
| 4 | Need recommendations for understanding psychology/behavioursDR ramani's videos on YouTube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.VR porn...of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:20 AM |
| 8 | Keep things in perspective - make an ‘ick’ listIts great after breakups too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Needing advice and supportIf you are worried about him overhearring your calls you can call from within a women's public toilet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Needing advice and supportYes, this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:13 AM |
| -2 | Timing question when it comes to exclusivity?For me it would be at least a year of dating. But each to their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:01 AM |
| 15 | Timing question when it comes to exclusivity?If he brings it up and you still want to keep dating others you can just say "I'd really like to take things slow" (i.e. not rush into exclusivity). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:00 AM |
| 3 | it’s the lack of self awareness that offends me at this pointWhat does mpsh/mpd mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 10:54 AM |
| 154 | Why you should NEVER react to a man's mind games/shit testsLol, male fiction. If this did happen in real life, she probably thinks he has erectile dysfunction or a micropenis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:22 AM |
| 16 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.I love that Borat was your inspiration 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 30 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.Its hard to tell if a bloke is pretending to be anti porn or just is. I don't think any harm can come from the word getting out that women will refuse to date porn addicts, but as people have said here, a true addict will just get sneakier at hiding it. Really the only hope for future generations has tp come from parents educating kids about the problems porn can cause, and empowering girls to not tolerate men who use it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:40 AM |
| 28 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.My brother listens to this really random podcast run by two guys, I checked it out (kind of all over the place) and at the end of this episode they discuss porn and how they think it rots mens brains: https://m.soundcloud.com/pobwpodcast/september | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:34 AM |
| 18 | 16 mins of Nikki Glasser saying Pickme.It feels like internalized misogyny as trauma response. If I laugh WIth the men at beef sandwich vag jokes then they won't get pleasure out of hurting me. It's not the answer hun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:22 AM |
| 5 | 16 mins of Nikki Glasser saying Pickme.I actually quite like Whitney Cummings, read her book where she writes a lot about trauma and overcoming codependency, I think she has matured as a performer and her newer material is a lot healthier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:20 AM |
| 16 | 16 mins of Nikki Glasser saying Pickme.Ohh I think I recall her talking on a podcast about her porn addiction, I remember thinking she needs help. There must be some trauma to unpack for sure. I have no problem with female comedians discussing sex, as long as they call out the bullshit, not play along with male misogynists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | PickMe here, left another idiot. Was I right?Understandable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:47 AM |
| 24 | What Strides and Discoveries Have You Made About Being in a RelationshipAsk nicely, hint at consequences. If no compliance, apply consequences. If behaviour continues, leave. Don't praise bare minimum behaviour. In fact intermittent praise is the most effective. That whole ep was gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:45 AM |
| 4 | PickMe here, left another idiot. Was I right?So he was a sneaky liar. You can't spot that sort of thing immediately, but yeah, well done. I wouldn't have bothered telling him about the age gap red flag-- you don't owe scrotes an explanation. He should have been open that he was in contact with his ex and needed to return her stuff....the hiding of the stuff is shady as. You dodged a bullet sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:37 AM |
| 14 | What Strides and Discoveries Have You Made About Being in a RelationshipThe FDS podcast episode on communication dynamics was a game changer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:25 AM |
| 41 | First dates, vetting tips, precautions, safety.Hmm, you could say you went to an art exhibition and there were a lot of female nudes in the gallery. Ask a question like "Where do you think the line between art and pornography lies?" and see where the conversation goes. He might then say " well the porn I've seen..." and reveal himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:20 AM |
| 17 | First dates, vetting tips, precautions, safety.Have a false last name ready in case he asks. If he ends up becoming your husband one day you can explain that you had a stalker and was naturally hypercautious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:16 AM |
| 7 | Don’t get roped into talking about the break-up. There are no good intentions. Either he wants to “win” the break-up or he wants to coax you into a situationship with less boundaries. He is not your counselor. He is not here to process with you.Post his stuff back to him then block. There is nothing to discuss and you could be risking your safety meeting up with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:12 AM |
| 12 | Guy Shows A Provider Mentality. Some Women are Like "Yes, DO It!" Other Comments Show a PickMe Deprived Mentality - Ladies, Learn to Embrace Being SpoiledI think some women are scared that it's a sugar daddy mentality and he will expect devotion and a doormat in return. Accept money and gifts, but keep vetting character ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Guy Shows A Provider Mentality. Some Women are Like "Yes, DO It!" Other Comments Show a PickMe Deprived Mentality - Ladies, Learn to Embrace Being SpoiledI think some women are scared that it's a sugar daddy mentality and he will expect devotion and a doormat in return. Accept money and gifts, but keep vetting character ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 126 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.Don't make signs, work on your scrotation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:20 AM |
| 9 | Yeesh girl, no 😬 Sorry, but the guy is right here, he knows.I can only hope its a fake scrote account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:16 AM |
| 31 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄Yeah, if I were the new wife to be I'd have handed the ring back at that comment and walked out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Pleas share your tips for getting over someone and taking care of yourself after an amicable breakup!Don't keep any photos of him where they can be seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 3 | 2 DAYS OF NO CONTACT!! 48 whole hours!! Couldn't do it without you. 💖 Sticking this counter onto my door so every time I'm tempted, I'll be reminded of the self respect I'm about to lose.Making a list of all the things about them that annoyed you, that you no longer need to deal with is great. Refer to as required. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:13 AM |
| 3 | 2 DAYS OF NO CONTACT!! 48 whole hours!! Couldn't do it without you. 💖 Sticking this counter onto my door so every time I'm tempted, I'll be reminded of the self respect I'm about to lose.The kitty rolling in money! So cute 💗 You will get through this and you will triumph! 💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:11 AM |
| 9 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.It still seemed like he knew you had high standards and went to effort to impress you. That's all important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:08 AM |
| 22 | The “Wonderscrote”: How men function like corrupt corporations and literally say whatever they can to maximize how accessible women are and make themselves look as good as possible.We need a female vs patriarchy matrix movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:06 AM |
| 68 | Scrote wants woman to pay for dates, even though they’re not exclusive after several dates. Pretty impressed to see the comments from other guys saying that they happily pay for dates."It doesn't feel chivalrous and romantic". You don't ask for these things, you leave. It sounds fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Cringeworthy :/If women actually enjoyed that sort of thing...you can bet men wouldn't want to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?I literally asked men their attitude to having kids very early on. Not keen? Bye boy. Other than that it's just follow the handbook and multi-date to find the best hvm. Vet, vet, vet. The sperm back route is a back up option and will stop you "settling". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:54 AM |
| 86 | Cringeworthy :/I think it's a trauma response. "If I pretend to like it, then it can't be seen as degrading". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-InIt definitely had flirting in the title. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:19 PM |
| 27 | Pickme Logic: I know he's a player and I'm already sleeping with him but will ignoring his texts get him interested in more?Sis needs FDS asap. And an std test. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.Next thing you know they'll be having kids--more witchcraft! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | I hate talking about my abuse to my friends with boyfriends because it makes them look goodIts a bit like those people who when you're grieving a loved one say " well my pet mouse died when i was in 8th grade, so.." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:55 AM |
| 2 | The level of mental gymnastics here😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:44 AM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 29 - 50/50 is a Scam: Why Men Should Always Pay More +Patchy Beard McWhiskeyD*ckThis is embarrassing but I have trouble distinguishing Reaux from Lilith, their accents and voices are so similar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-InDefinitely look at who he follows on social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InOne of the postcast eps covers this topic really well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:32 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-InDude sound like a psychopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:29 AM |
| 8 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....To the gushing women in the class: Im sorry you all have shit husbands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:26 AM |
| 3 | My friend just posted this and it's so depressing.....Yeah, it needs to stop. We need to reverse the mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:24 AM |
| 21 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.Grunge and IT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:18 AM |
| 77 | I don’t really have words for this one.Fds is such a resource. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:09 AM |
| 7 | The level of mental gymnastics hereIs this a joke? Coz I find it hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:03 AM |
| 17 | The FDS Love SpellI was a former woo woo pickme 😉 If every "love spell" I'd ever done was as specific as this, I'd have saved a lot of time and angst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:49 AM |
| 15 | There’s no way these ladies are serious…🙃Invite him over to your place to chop firewood and watch his enthusiasm disappear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Polygamy only benefits menShe's also a rapper 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 29 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 29 - 50/50 is a Scam: Why Men Should Always Pay More +Patchy Beard McWhiskeyD*ckAhh this was spot on ladies 💗💗💗 if a guy turns up in a low effort outfit to a date, just leave immediately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Methods they use to stealth unsuspecting womenBring and insist on using your own condoms ladies. Don't trust scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:24 PM |
| 234 | Pick me cultureIt's 2021, and men are pressuring women to start Onlyfans. Puritanical thinking is not the issue hun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 6 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Any kind of man can be HV or LV. I knew a wonderful couple who were both virgins and waited till their wedding night for sex. Still happily married, the guy was super HV and had a tonne of respect for his wife's religious beliefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 13 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?Having a scrotation is not immoral, you don't have to sleep with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 10:49 AM |
| 27 | Have you guys heard of The Body Language Guy on YouTube? He has a video about Gabby and her abuser that you guys should check out https://youtu.be/E9J0Oz47PAsDARVO right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:15 AM |
| 12 | How I made a whole bar of scrotes triggered ,shook,furious and obsessed with me...Love this 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:48 PM |
| 37 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesThe same thing applies to stripping. The market is flooded now with women who think stripping is an easy way to make cash. It isn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:43 PM |
| 54 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesWhen you bring up things like PTSD scrotes always say " well soldiers and firemen get PTSD too". Yeah but firefighters are doing essential lifesaving work. No one is going to die without porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:41 PM |
| 11 | Bad... But not unexpected... 💔I'm no body language expert but his crossed hands and fists in front of the police immediately suggested he's got something to hide. When the second officer questioned his demeanor "are you usually this hyper?" gave a sense that he noticed something was off about this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:32 AM |
| 16 | Gabby Petito37? I swear media was reporting him as being 23. New info perhaps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:27 AM |
| 44 | A nice summary of some of the common red flags we hear about on FDSNarc abusers steal keys as a means of control | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 10:24 AM |
| 9 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsThankyou for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:35 AM |
| 22 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsIt 100% has to be the woman's choice. This psych should work on normalising HV male behaviour. Then we can talk about stay at home dads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:34 AM |
| 9 | Isn’t it strange how single women are treated of all ages?He probably had bad BO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:28 AM |
| 9 | Isn’t it strange how single women are treated of all ages?Community dick sounds too charitable, but I like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 64 | Imagine tolerating this"The camel" I can't unsee it now 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:20 AM |
| 6 | "If He Wanted to, He Would" The B Side DiscussionAnd the latest podcast ep covered vetting for narcs very well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:08 AM |
| 5 | Sisters, the vetting NEVER stops. Once you accept this, you will feel more confident and less insecure in your relationships with menNever be afraid to walk away is my motto. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:05 AM |
| 32 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?Easier to impress too. Note the 17yr old gf in Scott Pilgrim vs The World. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:02 AM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 28 - Spotting Narcissistic Abusers (w/ Dr. Annie Kaszina) + The Bikini Thief"Dick stroking jabroni" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 28 - Spotting Narcissistic Abusers (w/ Dr. Annie Kaszina) + The Bikini ThiefThis was amazing, so clear and succinct. Also as a woman with a deep love for quality swimwear I felt the pain of our roast-a-scrote girl. I hope she bought herself 10 new swimsuits to celebrate leaving his crazy derriere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:56 AM |
| 14 | What YOU do wrongAhh, the clothing point probably ruffled a few feathers. As OP says sbe used to dress "extremely provocatively" and perhaps toning things down a little could be helpful, but truly, as long as you're not sleeping with a guy you should be able to go on dates in a latex minidress if you like....the ones who are solely after sex will give up eventually. It might even be an interesting experiment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:38 PM |
| 15 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?If you don't have the same name it can be hard to prove you're legally married in a hospital/emergency type situation. Unless you literally carry around a copy of your marriage certificate. I say this because my friend's husband was unconscious and about to be placed in an induced coma and they didn't take the wedding ring on her finger as proof because she had a different surname. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:28 PM |
| 3 | My new definition of BDSMDon't mention bonobos, poly folks are always using them to justify group sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:24 PM |
| 33 | First date quick vetting tipsAnd remember ladies, the vetting continues long after the first date. We know there are guys who can put on a show only for the mask to drop later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:21 PM |
| 34 | AI Deepfake app allows users to face swap women's faces into porn. There are also one where they can digitally remove your clothes. Lo and behold this kind of thing gained popularity on Reddit and was said to be created here.Men are disgusting and this is horrifying.Imagine a technology is invented that allows women to hack men's bank accounts and see exactly what's in there---cue mass outrage and the tech is banned. But deepfakes? Legislators dont even raise an eyebrow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:18 PM |
| 3 | I know it's usually frowned upon, but I want to try vetting/dating/finding HV people (friends and potential romantic partners) using apps and OLD. Any advice for creating an FDS approved profile? How do I portray that I'm HV and attract healthy individuals?This is solid advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:21 AM |
| 3 | I know it's usually frowned upon, but I want to try vetting/dating/finding HV people (friends and potential romantic partners) using apps and OLD. Any advice for creating an FDS approved profile? How do I portray that I'm HV and attract healthy individuals?You can always decline the hiking date, with the "I am accustomed to formal dates" or "I prefer formal dates when I'm first getting to know someone". Any man who would object to that change of plans is LV. Later on (much later) if he turns out to be HV you can go hiking together. I suppose you could replace outdoorsy with "I enjoy nature" and then he can take you to dinner in a beautiful garden restaurant... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:19 AM |
| 2 | I know it's usually frowned upon, but I want to try vetting/dating/finding HV people (friends and potential romantic partners) using apps and OLD. Any advice for creating an FDS approved profile? How do I portray that I'm HV and attract healthy individuals?This is really good--though I have to say the snake handling picture is sure to attract bad puns? Also "yes to pictures of you working if you are a working woman" could attract fetishists if the job/field is obvious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardAfter a breakup I grew out my body hair and wore only giant conmfortable underwear....and not a single man commented on it, nor did impact my sex life in any way. If a guy had made a single negative comment I would have simply walked away and never seen him again. They can sense it, I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:04 AM |
| 2 | I hate how "similar" men on OLD platforms areWaste my time=fail to deliver yourself to my door like a sex pizza | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:52 AM |
| 5 | 'Money can't buy happiness' is a lie women are sold which compels them to seek fulfillment in romantic relationships instead of investing in their education and careersPhrases like this and "all you need is love" are used by men, but as soon as a woman expects them to pay on a date it's "gold digging bitches using us for free dinners". Why are you so upset Trevor, isn't money meaningless? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:45 AM |
| 7 | "All ages considered!"Trying to appeal to the new age woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 79 | The audactiy knows no bounds.The " much much more" killed me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 09:52 AM |
| 8 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.So happy for you 💗💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 09:46 AM |
| 16 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 27 - Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Take on Porn Culture + Culture Reframed Virtual Conference!Amazing as always ladies 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 11:57 AM |
| 18 | We're finally seeing the effects of porn use in boys and menIt's telling that the big tech entrepreneurs are choosing to raise their own kids tech free. They know the dangers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | It’s easy to miss your ex if you only remember the good and not the badMake a list of the crap things about them and the things you will never have to put up with again. Get rid of all the photos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:55 PM |
| 5 | My mother’s analogy on BDSMThat case was just... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:51 AM |
| 4 | Unlearning my perception of pubic hair.Bullet dodged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Most of the women who don't mind a short man tend to be very tall women (I am one myself and don't really care about a man's height...my kids will be tall, got those genes covered)...yet these same blokes don't want to date a woman taller than them, or complain when you wear heels. So yes, the scrotes complaining about height preferences....have height preferences. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:33 AM |
| 3 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?Perfect image choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:28 AM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 26 - The 16 Rules of Misogyny - Part 1Loved this ep, literally spat out my tea when I heard "the bar is in Hades' arse".🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:46 AM |
| 6 | 100%😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 11:40 PM |
| 22 | Always keep your coins snatchedNever tell a man how much you got in the bank. Find out how much he has and claim to have a lot less. Thus you avoid the gold digging bro hoes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:21 AM |
| 7 | Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional loveNew age types like to rail against marriage and committment because "it was invented by The Church to seize land from wealthy widows who would leave their estate to the church" or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:16 AM |
| 2 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Copy pasted to 6 other women no doubt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:11 AM |
| 2 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesI hope the women are pregnant lesbians doing planned IVF, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:59 AM |
| 31 | Shaming men for being virgins objectifies women, which explains the predatory nature of men who attempt redpill tactics to get women in order to impress men.Never on FDS have we said a man being a virgin is a bad thing. It's more the gamer addict/living in mum's basement/poorly groomed/no job or prospects that we shame.😑 A high value, gainfully employed, well groomed virgin with good manners and social skills? No problem! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:55 AM |
| 53 | Notice how she's the one trying to get advice, not himMy advice: RUN. Never date a man with debt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:49 AM |
| 77 | 35 year old scrote gets offended that 16 y/o kid he groomed insults his music tasteThis is so sad. The blokes taste in music should be the last of her worries. RUN child, this man is a predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:47 AM |
| 200 | I’m glad that pick me’s are getting called out on just how crazy they soundHere is a picture of my ass, pickme pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:44 AM |
| 2 | OLD First Date Best PracticesPersonally I would recommend having a friend or relative drop you off to the date so he really doesn't see your car or get a taxi/uber (but dont tell him that) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 11:41 AM |
| 9 | Imagine an unknowing woman finally gets her guy to go to relationship therapy and it's this guy. This is why we never utilize men for any type of therapy or coaching!Does he counsel couples in the nude too? This reads like a comedy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 11:34 AM |
| 8 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.Fan girling over a streamer? Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:56 AM |
| 23 | Normalize narcing. Women deserve to know who they’re married to.Yeah if he's no social media he also better be ploughing a field and raising barns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Normalize narcing. Women deserve to know who they’re married to.I don't know if narcing is the term...made me think of narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:50 AM |
| 15 | Is there a benefit to not adding men on social media, to "keep the mystery" and require them to invest time and effort into getting to know you? What are your thoughts?No selfies, just some pictures of a sunset and dogs that you googled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:43 AM |
| 444 | This is really sad and honestly terrifying"Disfigured down there". This doesn't add up. Yes, childbirth can lead to vaginal tearing but in most cases once the tear is stitched and healed, it should look pretty much as before. Any midwives care to weigh in? Bet he's no oil painting either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:40 AM |
| 88 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.I think it's wonderful that she is speaking out and that the truth about the porn industry is being spotlighted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:35 AM |
| 34 | This is probably exactly how some scrotes process mundane, everyday transactions"Want another one" said no woman ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:19 AM |
| 103 | This is probably exactly how some scrotes process mundane, everyday transactions"Breasteses" 😆😆😆😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:18 AM |
| 4 | Expose them early and often!😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Expose them early and often!Reckon the best response would have been to play dumb. Oh did we? I had completely forgotten. Then block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:14 AM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 25 - Age Gaps & Old Man Peen + Old Scrote Hits NVM BingoThis episode made me think of the movie "An Education" perfect illustration of an age gap predator relationship, buf also a good reminder that it does not need to taint your future https://youtu.be/MMqzmIceAnw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 15 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 25 - Age Gaps & Old Man Peen + Old Scrote Hits NVM BingoA truly HV older man with money will not expect the woman to be his caretaker when he's old and sick. My uncle made it clear to my aunt that he would move into an expensive nursing home and pay for his own medical care when he got sick. He told her "the thought of you being my nurse would break my heart". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:23 PM |
| 22 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Yeah, society needs to stop minimising c sections as "the painless birth option". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:12 PM |
| 28 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁Yes, this is handbook material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:10 PM |
| 16 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁"I've painted with my exs menstrual blood" 🤤🤤🤤🤤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:09 PM |
| 198 | Ummm...yes? And?And check the outfit he put the bangmaid in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:02 PM |
| 7 | Ummm...yes? And?A man made the original, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:00 PM |
| 21 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 25 - Age Gaps & Old Man Peen + Old Scrote Hits NVM BingoLadies, this podcast was fire as always 💎💎💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 01:40 AM |
| 115 | Ask men who want casual sex why they don’t just hire sex workers and watch them explode. Why? They chase women who want commitment because it’s predatory!"My new kink" haha I see what you did there sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:47 AM |
| 6 | BruhI do hope someone makes slug guy a nematode sandwich | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | BruhHe could be stealing her loo paper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Infantilization and the body hair debateI'd have a thick goatee if I didn't pluck my chin hair and my pubes come down to mid thigh. I don't mind walking around as a bearded lady but let's just say I prefer a facial hair free look. As for the mid thigh pubes, I wax 'em (just the thighs) in summer because I don't want to wear swimsuits with legs to the knee or boardshorts --just a style preference really. (the other option, of wearing a high cut bathing suit and the world seeing my pubes I haved rocked on the odd occasion. It's ok but I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:40 PM |
| 118 | Libfems are dying to gain control in a world where they don't have it"Cool girling" and being "Not like other girls" also feels like a trauma response at this point. Misogyny doesn't apply to me coz I'm soooo different and if I act like I don't care...maybe it won't hurt as much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 41 | Dodged a crafty LVM😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 10:09 AM |
| 12 | We need a cure for this ASAPMade my day ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:50 PM |
| 15 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!😆😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:48 PM |
| 48 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑Should I be concerned? That little voice of sanity in every woman, quickly gaslit by strangers on the internet. I hope sis finds FDS and soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 13 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyI mean I'm taking it all with a grain of salt but an interesting read nonetheless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:19 PM |
| 10 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyThankyou! It annoyed me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:18 PM |
| 29 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyI think some people with ADD are more likely to be empaths/people pleasers. RSD or rejection sensitive dysphoria is a possible factor . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:15 PM |
| 8 | You're not hurting anyone's feelingsYou could be deaf or not speak English | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:00 PM |
| 63 | Boundaries in bedExactly this. He ruined it by pulling your hair! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:57 AM |
| 0 | Had to share this 😩Yes! Please try and split the bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:55 AM |
| 8 | WTF is wrong with people? A kink party as a second date?! This is peak Pickmeisha fuckery. ( she posts a bunch of pics of herself in extremely sexual lingerie and then freaks out because he didn’t even bother to tell her the theme is white). Just why?!? What’s in it for her? Make it make sense...Kuru was my first thought!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Just facts ❤️Such a Queen 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:43 AM |
| 24 | What changed when you started giving back the same energy you got?Remember to give even less energy than they do. What changed? Everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:36 AM |
| 11 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy."Evangelical women?". Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorI can only imagine how good the wife feels. Is that a mattress on the floor? What did we say about bedframes scrotes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 3 | The "I have a boyfriend" lie and my personal issue with itOh yeah, I know women who continue to get harrassed even when they mention a husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:27 AM |
| 2 | The ‘Fawn’ response, and how to recover from itThankyou for this...very important | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 11:09 PM |
| 30 | I used to love sexMost women don't want to participate in hookup culture, we're just brainwashed by society to think it is empowering and "the norm". It's depicted everywhere in popular culture. But when we find FDS, get some standards and start having sex on our own terms (i.e. when a man is making us happy in all areas of life) mysteriously it gets so much better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:59 PM |
| 34 | Small wins!! OF to ban porn.Good on whoever these banking partners were. Maybe some FDSers among them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:52 PM |
| 10 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.Mark Manson also wrote some good articles on boundaries and there's alsoTerri Cole who does a Boundary Bootcamp thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:40 PM |
| 19 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.The tribe and a big circle of friends... It's a myth. Most people can count their true friends on one hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:38 PM |
| 14 | Being a people pleaser is a major tenant of being a pickme. Men will only love the 50/50, sex supply, and maid service, not you as a person.Ex people pleaser here. Read everything you can about boundaries. Life changing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Dating Proverbs Updated 😃Men mooning over some girl who rejected them 10 years ago. Run ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 12 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 24 - Pre-Sex Sexual Compatibility Tests + Birthday SadBoyAnyone else researching custom blended signature scents now? Mmm 🌸🌹🌷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:04 AM |
| 6 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 24 - Pre-Sex Sexual Compatibility Tests + Birthday SadBoyI quite like the random tangents | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:03 AM |
| 3 | So I'm deleting my Facebook. A strategy?Ya gotta stay woke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | So I'm deleting my Facebook. A strategy?It's a total queen move. However I'd demand any potential suitors be open to you about their social media use. It can be a vetting tool in some ways. Maybe create a fake profile that can be used to check out guys socials? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:59 AM |
| 141 | This was a new one to me. Be careful out there ladies!Under a false name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:53 AM |
| 42 | This was a new one to me. Be careful out there ladies!Smart. If you need to call/txt someone you could do it in the ladies loos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:53 AM |
| 14 | Sisterhood is resistance!!Just trying to confuse the scrotes 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | I have never met a HVM in the context of dating… how common is this?Yes, they exist and I have known, met and dated some (a guy can be HV but still not necessarily compatible with your life's goals) but I met them all in person. Have never done online dating. Be picky and cast your net wide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 02:30 AM |
| 26 | Sisterhood is resistance!!Yes yes yes! Cultivate your female friends, make time for them and let no man come between you 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 30 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 24 - Pre-Sex Sexual Compatibility Tests + Birthday SadBoyHuge fan of the scent theory. Also not a fan of hormonal birth control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:07 PM |
| 63 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 24 - Pre-Sex Sexual Compatibility Tests + Birthday SadBoyAlso those orgasm gap surveys never think to factor in the fact that there are women who fake orgasms in bed. If they're faking it in bed they're probably lying on the survey---all 40% of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 11:49 AM |
| 165 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 24 - Pre-Sex Sexual Compatibility Tests + Birthday SadBoyOmg I was literally just thinking today about how much I hate the term "withholding sex". 😣 It implies the sex belongs to the man and you're snatching it away. Rather than the truth: he needs to prove himself in all areas of life to be WORTHY of sex from you. The sex on the 3rd date rule needs to be renamed the "Man needs to work hard to prove himself worthy of sex rule". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 11:43 AM |
| 131 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usYou did the smart thing. Violent males have been known to use female accomplices to gain a woman's trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:25 AM |
| 3 | And men wonder why women want women-only spaces…Her response was great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 06:46 AM |
| 9 | Another reason why 50/50 is bullsh*t: PERIOD PAINRaspberry leaf tea drunk every day is great. The effects are slow and cumulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:41 AM |
| 9 | The nerve of this disgusting LVM to comment on his gf’s choice of clothing when his underwear looks like that… and she thinks it’s funny/quirky?! Yikes. 🤢A joke, please be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.Then they should'nt have a problem with us rejecting men who subscribe to OnlyFans 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Vet🙌🏻themMaybe Matt is footing the bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:26 AM |
| 40 | Ladies: Don't be afraid to LIE. Nobody is entitled to any information about you, EVER.I can't upvote this enough. "Honesty is the best policy" only applies to not lying to yourself ladies. Former oversharer here. A guy shouldnt be digging into your past. Stay elegantly in the present. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:12 AM |
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