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SHOWER THOUGHTZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:01 PM
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QUEEN SUPREMEZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:47 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:56 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:16 PM
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Zurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:51 PM
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NAH, SISZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:32 PM
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RANTZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:04 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:25 PM
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NAH, SISZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:52 PM
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NAH, SISZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:16 PM
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SCROTES MADZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:48 AM
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DISCUSSIONZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:30 PM
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PICKME CULTUREZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:01 PM
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Zurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:42 PM
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STRATEGYZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:37 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:04 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Zurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:42 PM
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COCKHOLM SYNDROMEZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:48 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:34 PM
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NAH, SISZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:11 PM
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DISCUSSIONZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:00 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESZurflu/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:12 PM
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This is probably a shout into the void but does anyone know what's up with the old FdsSuperfans sub?? I think it's closed or everyone was banned or something. I miss the FDS subs lol i was just cracking up reading y'alls comments on my old posts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/23 11:28 PM
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Omg I just was looking through my old Superfans posts and I saw some of your comments on them! I miss that sub lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/23 11:16 PM
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Yea but the website sucks, it's like a mid-2000s message board with weird scammy ads cluttering every page and loads slow af. I understand the mods don't want to reopen this sub but the website is just not an adequate replacement currently. It also doesn't allow for new people to find FDS or for anything to truly go viral like it used to here. FDS principles are starting to become somewhat mainstream thanks to some tik tok and Twitter users sharing it along to the younger generation of women, so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/23 04:00 PM
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Loved to hear y'all roasting the hypergamy girlies at the end for thinking a BBL and "acting feminine" will make a trust fund man fall in love with her like Cinderella
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/23 10:32 PM
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They should do more eps about old top posts from the sub, even if just reading the post and some comments and discussing together. It is kind of disappointing how many episodes have been about reality TV shows. For bonus eps I get it but I wish the main eps would be either directly related to FDS or something else more broadly relatable. Maybe a series reading and discussing the FDS posts that caused the most significant triggering/backlash/scrote tears?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/22 04:52 PM
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The part about not being Bob the builder is so important and one of the most valuable things I took away from this sub. In your mind: "everything really sucks now and I'm sacrificing a lot for this relationship, but once I teach him how to adult properly and get his business off the ground/help him finish school/learn a trade we will be such a power couple one day!" In his mind: "I really suck now but I somehow convinced a woman to fix me up, focus on my career instead of hers, and make everythi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/22 03:09 PM
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It never occurred to me before that men being the majority of the homeless population is because they commit the majority of violent and sexual crimes. It's the same picture! Savannah is brave as hell for going to work serving gangs of pedo scrotes with attempted murder charges 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/22 03:20 PM
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A dude who shows up to a first date unshowered in his dirty work clothes probably has a wife/gf at home who thinks he's working late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/22 08:03 PM
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It is sooo true that a big part of hetero male social hierarchy is based on women. The guy who has the "best" wife or gf in the group gets a lot of man points for it from other men, just like having the best job or biggest stature. I would even argue having the best wife/gf can trump the other things from my observation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/22 05:02 PM
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It simply means she has a house 🤣 doesn't take much for these dudes to line up begging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/22 05:11 PM
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It kinda goes to show how much more valuable women are in relationships when even a GAY MAN would rather be married to a woman than another man and recognizes she still has more to offer than his boyfriends do 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/22 12:39 PM
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I'd bet $ the "joke" was either cheekily propositioning her for sex, negging her appearance, or asking her to prove she isn't a bot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/22 03:27 PM
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It's dudes like in the podcast disgusted as women, talking to incels disguised as Chads lmaooo. At least they're staying busy with each other...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/22 03:10 PM
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Re: how the guy got kicked off the app 20 minutes after making a female profile... He probably was spam liking every single dudes profile and the app recognized the male behavior 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/22 03:09 PM
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Lol the first guy is straight up asking how to have sex with a woman who wants to wait til marriage without marrying her. He dressed it up and made it into a paragraph but "every woman I've met so far wanted to wait until marriage" combined with "how do I initiate sex in a relationship?"... you marry her apparently?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/22 03:29 PM
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Of course there's more men on dating apps when their users are single women, single men, and cheaters! The single men are competing with the cheating men. They never take that into account. Get your cheating friends off the apps if you want to increase your odds getting a date...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/22 08:48 PM
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Yes, it's a shame the sub is not fully active during these recent times. I understand why they shut it down but imagine how much more female momentum we could be generating in times like this. On the up side I've seen lots of female-first ideology spilling onto other subs and social media because of it. Subs that used to downvote people for having FDS in their history are now highly upvoting some of the same things we used to say here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/22 06:42 PM
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I've never seen a man online admit that male entitlement is the problem before this article. They all want their dream girl, fine. But you have to be a dream man to get her. They refuse to work on themselves and then complain that their dream girl doesn't want a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/22 02:49 PM
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He's clearly not that happy with his wife if he has spent hours talking to other women on a dating sub and getting so worked up about it too lmao. Men who have a wife they love don't care what other random women think about dating, it would be irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/22 01:36 PM
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Quick, which of those bullet points are YOU doing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/22 12:57 PM
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What if the woman isn't "cheating emotionally" and just needs a better dick than yours sometimes? By your logic that would be no big deal right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/22 12:40 PM
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Would you prefer to also get cancer on top of all that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/22 07:38 PM
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MY intervention? Bruh you're the one replying to my comment picking apart what I said. Go ahead and be gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/22 01:51 PM
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But you and the other commenter both knew what I meant before I replied somehow lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/22 01:45 PM
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Yes, in a hetero relationship the man cheating is more likely to bring STDs including AIDS into the relationship than the woman cheating. Did you think I just threw that in to be homophobic or something? Why else would I say it? Males ☕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/22 01:39 PM
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I explained why it's worse in a paragraph long comment. You replied to said comment. A woman cheating can make a man sad, a man cheating can permanently damage a woman's health. Learn to read. You, as a man, will never be diagnosed with cancer as a direct result of your wife or girlfriend cheating on you. It happens to women every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/22 12:53 PM
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Re: the snooping/cheating double standard: y'all almost touched on this but men also cheat worse and more dangerously than women do! If a woman cheats it's most likely with a man she knows, trusts, and has formed some kind of bond with. Men have an entire industry dedicated to helping them cheat with a different woman every day without ever forming any bond. Most of men's cheating is with sex workers and possibly other men which are way higher risk activities than the wife having sex with her co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/22 01:52 PM
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I just have to say, it's kind of jarring to hit play on a FDS episode and the first thing you hear is a man talking about his other podcast lol. Hilarious episode so far though, I always love the viewer stories!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/22 03:27 PM
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Shout out to 666! Has anything else from FDS triggered reddit males so badly for so long? It used to get thrown in anytime FDS was mentioned somewhere for years. MRAs brought it up constantly on other subs and we mentioned it so little on here I didn't even know it was actually from this sub originally!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/22 12:37 PM
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Not just "many" of us, and not just "within a week", literally ANY woman could have a man in her bed in like an hour or less lmao. Dick and all it's attached to is nearly worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/22 03:24 PM
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Also, shouldn't he have been honest about just wanting sex BEFORE the date happened..? It's dishonest to show up to a date with false intentions and then clarify them after a few drinks. If she truly has this new boundary she shouldn't have been on the date with him at all and if he was truly honest he would have told her before the date not once she's drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/22 03:43 PM
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both men and women date a lot more these days Sis, that's because these men aren't "dating" you, they're looking for free meetups with locals and you're providing that to them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 12:48 PM
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"No gold diggers" Yet... "I can't fuck your degree." Which is it?? They want us to be just broke enough that we can't call any shots financially but not broke enough to be a gold digger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:58 PM
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It seems like soo often "you're a saint!" means "thank you for letting me walk over you!" or "thanks for throwing yourself under the bus!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 05:12 PM
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Reddit scrotes HATE the suggestion that women don't have to give out second and third and fourth and fifth and hundredth chances to shitty men they date. I'll bet any amount of $ this post will be screenshotted and reposted heavyyy on other subs. Newsflash males: we can and WILL cut you off, dump, divorce, or ghost you for any reason at any time we feel like. If that scares you, be better 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 08:55 PM
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Adult baby men are so scary. The dude sounds like he's in his 40s and he still believes he can boss random people around??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:11 PM
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The way he sees it, now that he has a STEM degree/job he is better than the version of himself that married his wife. His wife belongs with bums like his past self, he can get a new woman with higher standards now! And he's not even considering paying her back, he just wants to make sure no one notices what he did... such blatant leeching lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:05 PM
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Yes ma'am! It's basically about trying to "trick" a rich man into marrying you instead of an equally rich woman. How to pretend to have higher social status, how to fit in at hypothetical charity events he will take you to, etc 😬 real life Cinderellas planning their whole lives around meeting a prince one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 05:41 PM
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It's like how so many average men think they're one step away from suddenly becoming a billionaire, a lot of average pickmes think they're always just one glance away from marrying one 🤡 there's actually a certain sub full of these women so I wouldn't be surprised if some of the DMs were legit. Looks like they either went super private or got banned though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 05:22 PM
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Better yet start going to the gym with him, let him spot and train you, and take selfies together 🥰 then make sure he's extra fake-nice to your boyfriend to keep him gaslit into believing this is a normal friendship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 04:28 PM
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Omg, a very attractive woman wanted to go on a nice date with him and he blew it up for what?? 🤣🤣 scrotes stay stupid as hell I wonder how it felt sitting in his gaming chair that night browsing P*rnhub, knowing that he could have been at a steakhouse with an attractive woman who was into him for the first time in 10 years instead... Also, do men genuinely not enjoy eating at a nice restaurant? Why is it so offensive to want to go to a nice place with them? The only answer I can think is if they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 02:15 PM
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And never vacuum again, in fact throw your vacuum away entirely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:51 PM
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If he asks you to start helping with the kids more, just tell everyone you know he's a huge bitch and move across the country with your side D 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 04:54 PM
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How about "you're so cute, I love shorter guys!"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 04:40 PM
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You're so right, if we stop being ~insecure~ and start watching p*rn every day we can finally be logical like men! Just make sure you're watching the right category... if you're married to a 30 yr old white man you need to be watching the teen Jamaican BBC category. If your bf is a black businessman, you're only into hispanic construction workers getting pegged now. Finally 50/50 can be achieved 🤩🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 04:26 PM
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They jerk off and orgasm to women they have negative feelings towards, then they wonder why their dicks don't work when they try to have sex with a woman they love. P*rn gives a Madonna-wh0re complex to every man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:57 PM
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No matter how generous you are they will want you to go lower
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:56 PM
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Me too I can't get enough of these comments!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:55 PM
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There is only "no secret family he's going home to" because it's not a secret! Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:33 PM
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This is all the self proclaimed "good men" on Reddit who we're never going to be lucky enough to be with ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:32 PM
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He could just be wanting to go on some dates to play the dread game on her and make her feel insecure, too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:16 PM
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I didn't even consider this is probably supposed to be his ticket to moving out of her place 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:55 PM
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It's a serious relationship til you get pregnant, then it's casual 😍 I'm dripping wet over this profile!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:50 PM
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"My ex will be having our child in 3 months so I'm fully ready to date now ☺️ no drama allowed!! Good vibes only."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:44 PM
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I wonder if these "baby on the way" ass dudes would date a single pregnant woman? Also, this shit is like a slap in the face to humanity. The one, ONE time a man is REALLY supposed to be taking care of a woman he's trying to get random hookups online instead. It doesn't even matter who initiated the breakup, his job is still to help out the mother of his child and it will be his job for 18 years. And let's be real, if he had been helpful and non-abusive to her up to this point he'd still be with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:26 PM
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hE DeFEnDED hER hOnOR!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 02:45 PM
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It doesn't matter how qualified black men are to help black women if they will never do it and just murder y'all instead. I appreciate the perspective of your post but it kinda sounds like you're expecting black men to suit up into shining armor and save you from themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 02:32 PM
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It's because it's so relatable to men 😬 cheating is just part of their life progression for some reason...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 01:23 PM
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"Boys trips" where the wives aren't allowed but female friends are? 🤡 cmon now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:02 PM
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I love the second to last comment of the dude explaining how his gf has no reason or benefit to be with him and he assumes the relationship will eventually end because of it. He will just sit there cool as a cucumber offering his gf nothing until she goes mad and dumps him. All this effort women put into trying to "save" failing relationships and ~communicate~ our issues meanwhile the dude is fully aware of what is wrong and just choosing to watch it happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 04:12 PM
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Pussy scavenger, bum, same difference
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 03:02 PM
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It's got to be a bit of consolation knowing that the woman he was paying to talk to didn't give enough of a shit about him to read any of it. Tryna have an affair but he's really texting another dude... lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 02:02 PM
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Half the time the woman in the photos isn't even associated with the account in any way 🥴 it's just an upgraded version of the "sexy singles in your area!" scams
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 01:51 PM
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Exactly, "men don't care about your degree or career!!" really translates to "if you aren't so poor you need my grocery store manager salary to survive I have nothing to offer you!!" Back in the day every man made more $ than every woman. The lowest paid man still had more economic power than any woman and therefore something to offer her. Now that we are catching up and out-performing them in some areas the low-paid low-performing men have had their dating pool eviscerated. To get back into the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:09 PM
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Mind boggling. Women will stay with men who have never once given them an orgasm but men need to consult Reddit to find out if they can stay with their wife/gf for not doing anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 03:48 PM
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Soo, where are the young able-bodied male prostitutes lined up to put their tongues to work on old disabled women? It's just like any other job right? For some reason I never see males bragging about the lifestyle of servicing undesirable women for $ on Twitter... why aren't they all quitting their careers en masse and switching over to easy-mode??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 02:37 PM
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At this point the market is so saturated that 99.99% of anyone who tries to start a new Onlyfans without already being famous is just putting a permanent catalog of nudes online in exchange for like $50 over the course of a couple months before giving up. But they keep drinking the Kool Aid and trying it anyway...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:47 PM
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Ikr, and my desk is inside my house currently 🤣 it's like sitting on the couch but with more back support. I don't see the issue. I'm literally doing it rn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:39 PM
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The part that gets me is how some of them really seem to believe they have discovered a secret sexy loophole to wealth and success. They fall for the narcissistic pipe dream that THEIR body specifically is SOOOO much sexier than every other woman's that they will never have to work in their life. They truly seem to think there is something about them that makes them more desirable than everyone else. Any woman can do what they do, most of us choose not to. But they really, literally think any wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:57 PM
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Another thing men do is subscribe, download all photos and videos, then unsubscribe and start their own OF, OLD, or Snapchat account as "her". They call it a "ewhore starter pack" or something like that. Worst case scenario and also most commonly, they use the pics to create fake prostitution ads to scam other men. The men stealing their pics to scam with probably make magnitudes more $ than they do. The scammers get paid prostitution rates using HER FACE AND IDENTITY and she gets $5/mo from him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:17 PM
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Does anyone else think it kinda sounds like he'd rather fuck a dude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:30 PM
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Damn, they should have chose better. 🎻🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 06:23 PM
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Yep she followed mainstream relationship Reddit advice to a T!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:19 AM
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"He did what you asked!" Oh fuck off. Dumb ass males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:02 AM
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And while she's literally making dinner for him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:08 PM
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She was making him 3 meals a day EVERY DAY and he called her a bad housewife??? Bruh... is this the life trads dream of??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:57 PM
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Most likely every scrote trying to comment on this post has one or more women in the back of his mind who he prays will never come to this conclusion or expose what he has done to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 04:10 PM
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It's not consent if you're paying $ to change a no to a "yes" either! You can see this in action when a SW gets stiffed after providing her service and claims she now has been r-ped because of the lack of payment afterwards. You were getting r-ped either way if you didn't want to fuck him babe... Edit: only half the comments on this post are visible, scrotes are trying to chime in 😬🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:12 PM
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I'm pretty sure they have an EASIER time picking up women when they aren't single, that's probably why they want a pat on the back for not doing it. To some women, a seemingly decent guy who is in a relationship is more appealing than a seemingly decent single guy because the guy in the relationship has a stamp of approval from another woman. Also, when they're in a relationship they usually won't be so outwardly and obnoxiously creepy/sexual in their flirting with other women since they have to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 02:19 PM
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"Let's play 20 questions!" "Ok sure. Favorite color?" "Blue. Favorite sex position and kink?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 02:13 PM
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It's not even "which ones", all men are capable of abusing women. Some of them choose to do it at certain points in their life and not others, some never do it, some do it just once, some do it their entire life. Some don't start doing it until you're pregnant. Some find a mistress at work and murder/suicide the whole family (that pesky male suicide rate!). We literally have no choice but to assume that it IS all men because any man could start at any time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:39 PM
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It's not ALL snakes, either, but most people are going to avoid getting close enough to find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 06:06 PM
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I've caught myself staring at old man/sugar baby couples out of bewilderment, I think they do notice but hey that's the whole reason he's paying her to go into public with him right? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:46 PM
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I wonder what part of my advice he didn't like 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:44 AM
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I think this post we're currently commenting on is deleted since the upvotes/downvotes are frozen, maybe it's just locked? Idk how all that stuff works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 08:39 PM
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Aww the post got deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 03:11 PM
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Right? It's way too easy to write this stuff because you don't even have to use your imagination it's literally considered normal and common advice to give women 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 07:12 AM
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Omg I love your additions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:58 AM
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It should be worth it to save the relationship right?? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:52 AM
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What if his dream girl wants to put her fist up HIS ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:34 PM
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But when a woman complains that her porn addict husband decides to stop having sex with her it's her own fault for not being pornographic enough for his fantasies/fetishes. Maybe this dude let himself go? All he needs to do is get some lingerie, a wax, hit the gym, learn and practice new hairstyles, update his wardrobe, work on his tone of voice, bleach his asshole, skip a few meals, find the right cologne, get a mani/pedi, clean their house, cook a nice dinner from scratch, and then sit around …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:20 PM
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They can't fully comprehend that we don't need them (or need to turn them on) to live a nice life anymore. Men are optional to us now and the ones who start to realize this lash out because we are NOT optional to them and never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:07 AM
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Omg so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:49 AM
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A lot of them rent billboards on the highway, too 🙃 you can see a happy ending billboard and then a "stop trafficking!" billboard 5 miles later. I think people just don't give a shit? I don't know what other explanation there is. Imagine how many men all around us frequent these places for them to be in every strip mall across the US. Soo disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 09:15 PM
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At a certain age men can access more women if they're married than unmarried, probably mid 30s like you said. They know if they stay unmarried they will look like a skeevy bachelor but if they get married they will become more attractive to other women since they have that female stamp of approval on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:01 PM
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Right? It seems like once they're married it's just the next step in their life progression. Lock one down and find another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 09:29 PM
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Years of devotion means nothing, 1 random fuck is more valuable to him than his entire family of 20 years. They see the world through the end of their penis only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 09:18 PM
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I've seen men say that they think most OF subscribers to small/medium accounts are men the woman knows or knew IRL and it seems pretty believable to me. She assumes she has 12 randoms buying her content but in reality it's her dad, 5th grade teacher, neighbor, 3 "friends", 5 coworkers, and her boss. Which is more likely: men you've never met are so struck by your OF profile pic that they choose you out of the thousands of other women to subscribe to, or the men in your life who have always perve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:56 PM
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Yepp once they've trapped a traditional woman at home with some babies it's time to start looking for their dream girl 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:41 PM
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Oh yes I'm not saying it's a compliment to be called a unicorn, just that men certainly don't dislike successful women in fact they pedestalize them. It's also who they try to cheat on their SAH wives with :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:44 PM
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I had a dude from work proposition me while his wife was on high-risk bedrest with twins who would become their third and fourth daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:39 PM
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No one is more single and available than a married man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:59 PM
59

Lol I've literally been called a "unicorn" by men for being educated and successful in my field as well as being attractive/likable or whatever. I've never been insulted for being successful but then again I don't hang around black-manosphere dudes in their podcast rooms 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:42 PM
11

I can't form an attraction to a strangers pictures and bio so for me it's in person the natural way or nothing. It's so much more comfortable getting to know someone in a platonic context first and you're more likely to be meeting the real them and not some first date mode sex-seeking version of a man you'd get off an app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:09 AM
66

I got me one of those! Dating isn't just a random game of chance. For example, if you work in a professional high-paying field you could meet a variety of men who make over 100k every day. If you take care of your own health or are attractive you're more likely to be with someone who is also healthy and/or attractive. Weeding out the men who don't meet your standards also raises your chance of being with someone who does meet them, regardless of your own circumstances. Also, imagine what happens…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:41 PM
4

Imagine how much worse this video would have gotten had the second guy agreed and played into the pedo shit instead of ignoring it. Not saying he's a hero or anything ofc he should have called the guy out and maybe told the instructor about him. But imagine how much more depraved the first guy would have gone if he was getting positive feedback 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:13 PM
123

R*pe is decriminalized. This is the world we live in. Yet men will say 1 conviction is still more life ruining than 500 assaults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:54 PM
273

I caught that too. Instead of taking her proposition at face value and deciding if he wants to move forward or not, he went straight to searching for a way to manipulate her. Even if he agrees to pay her, would it be legally binding? She should just abort and find someone who actually wants to marry her. I would rub it in his face (subtlety, somehow) that he's losing another potential child and then tell him to gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:42 PM
12

What woman has ever been offended that her "uglier friend" got hit on?? It sounds like he flirts with women he sees as being in his league visually and has to make up an excuse to justify why he isn't flirting with the hottest woman at the bar instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:13 PM
273

They don't realize that outside of Peddit/Manosphere it actually isn't that "cool" to be an old man with a young wife. People will lose respect for you. ACTUAL rich and successful men want an equal partner not a recent high school drop out with a BBL. No offense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:26 PM
16

Men are starting to read "feminist" and think "50/50 on everything and free sex". It's funny how they can't comprehend that being a feminist might mean you have HIGHER expectations from men and not lower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:38 PM
134

Scrotes don't want women to know we can be seriously injured from anal. They will argue that it's impossible because some men fist each other (which probably also results in injury).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:26 PM
108

Give it a couple weeks and he'll be on reddit asking why she's not interested in sex anymore 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:46 PM
125

This is part of why sex will never be an equal "trade" for men and women, the WHOLE INSIDE OF OUR BODIES are involved! Men's external genitals means unless they're doing anal with another man they are soo much less likely to have anything like this ever happen to them. And I agree with the other commenter who said this probably happened while he was fingering her since the pimple thing doesn't really make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:42 PM
163

Probably was intentional to make her regret not doing it herself. He was on the way there already thinking about how he was going to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:15 PM
59

"Don't know yet" = just offer me something I'll take whatever I can possibly get from you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:14 PM
93

Men on the internet probably told him that's how it works lolol. Just keep waiting, the younger women will come running to you eventually!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:10 PM
135

If you aren't locked in a storage unit pretending to be a toddler slave getting r*ped by her dad's friends for money you don't even know what sex is 🤪 like if you're boring just say that 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:29 PM
270

You heard it here folks. When men use the phrase "submissive woman" they imagine a lifeless female cock sleeve filled with cum, not a beautiful tradwife to love and cherish. Wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:31 PM
11

Idk about their prenup specifically, but prenups can definitely be invalid. There are some states in the US where a prenup will not be considered at all during a divorce. Fingers crossed she is protected in every way she can be, though 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:26 PM
347

His ex is such an "awful person" that he spent a 30 year marriage thinking about her 😳 imagine comforting a man after his breakup and you become a 30 year stand-in for the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:19 PM
59

Shhh, don't tell them it's other men scamming them on OF too... they think they're talking to the women in the photos 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 10:43 PM
126

What a coincidence he found this new woman at work right after he told his wife he's leaving her for unrelated reasons 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:13 PM
109

Why don't they go their own way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:10 PM
93

Imagine if a man got a huge bonus in secret and his girlfriend demanded he give it to her in full once she found out since it wasn't accounted for in their rent splitting agreement. The comments would be having a field day on her for the level of entitlement society just considers normal and fair for men to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:06 PM
47

I could have used that money elsewhere and her lie prevented me from doing that. Soo, he wishes he had spent the 20k she saved? They can still use the money, she saved it... where is his savings? Does this dude blow 100% of his higher income on vidya and OF? What does he wish he spent it on? 🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:52 PM
91

Right? Even if they decided to retroactively re-calculate everything why would she owe him so much?! There's no way it would add up to 20k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:42 PM
46

He could've taken 5-6 of the women he was the most interested in on $100 first dates and made a really good impression on each of them. Or cut it down to 3-4 women to have $ left over for second and third dates. Probably could've got at least 1 or 2 of them interested in a full blown relationship after that. How is spending $10 on 60 women the better idea?? Do they believe in love at first sight or some kind of "spark" to happen if the right woman simply lays eyes on him? This isn't porn lol!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:10 PM
39

I pretty much always knew I didn't want children for the normal reasons like not wanting to damage my body or work 18 years for free, but seeing how men don't even consider themselves mandatory participants in raising their child has brought my decision to another level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:22 PM
83

I've been seeing the nails stuff on twitter! It seems to be black women with long nails claiming the long nails makes them more fuckable, versus black women with shorter nails claiming long nails are ratchet. They are fighting about what black men who literally hate and k*ll them think of their nails. 😬 Idk if it's toxic femininity or just the pickme special Olympics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:55 PM
162

My 666 boyfriend better watch himself when a 777 walks by 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:15 PM
57

Are there even any benefits to having a family with a man OR waiting at the finish line?? You either wait at the finish line and end up equally successful but 10x more attractive and 10 yr younger than the men who are crossing the finish line with you after dumping their wife and kids who built them up to that point, or you build and grow a family that will be dumped at the finish line for the woman who built herself up and waited. Like both scenarios sound shit??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:13 PM
225

Exactly! Imagine you went to a car dealership and spent hours looking at all the different cars. You got your financing set up and waited for all the paperwork to go through. But once everything was ready to go, the car told you it didn't want you as its owner. The bewilderment, anger, and confusion you would feel is what men feel when they learn that women can have dating standards. Now they are basically standing outside the dealership screaming at the top of their lungs about tall men with bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:57 PM
645

Wtf would toxic femininity be when girls are raised to be selfless, caring, mothering, helpful, polite humans? We aren't raised to fight, dominate, k*ll, and take like boys. Side note, I just saw a comment in a sub for making fun of neckbeards saying one of the main rules of FDS is the 666 rule with lots of upvotes. Some poor lady was on the replies saying it's not true and downvoted to hell. These scrotes honestly wouldn't know what femininity was if it hit them in the face and they don't care …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:36 PM
62

We don't chase men because we know they are mostly incapable of saying no to sex and will happily fuck women they don't like and aren't attracted to. "Chasing men" will literally turn you into a nonprofit charity prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:27 PM
100

Money they spend on a woman they've already had sex with is money they can't spend on the next woman they want to have sex with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:25 PM
265

Scrotes be like "you already had sex with me, why would we go on any more dates???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:17 PM
110

She needs to make sure to never send him any pics because you KNOW half of the "fat pussy" talk stems from him talking about her body with his bros. She's not the only one hearing about how fat her pussy is I guarantee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:20 PM
27

A porn addicted scrote too mentally deficient to function in society, he can die mad. Not everyone gets to reproduce, it's just too bad he sounds like such a strain on his mother. NGMI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:28 PM
54

She thought the ~cool girl points~ would make her soo unlike other girls and an absolute golden unicorn in the eyes of her bf to the point where he would barely even notice or care about the friend. But guess what.... ~cool girl points~ aren't redeemable for anything IRL lmao more like clown points. You're literally only a ~cool girl~ to other ~cool girls~ on Twitter and the scrotes who enjoy their free prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:25 PM
96

Omg ☠️ talking about women hitting the wall when their "wall" was being born lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:22 PM
68

Not just to incels, this is literally how the average man sees us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:20 PM
3

I bet he is doing way better financially than OP thinks and lives with his wife/family. OP thinks he's struggling because he "lives w 3 roommates", yet he's willing to start paying her without moving in to keep their arrangement going. Probably tells the wife he has to do overnights for work several nights a week. It would explain a lot right?? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:02 PM
5

Has she ever been to his place before or are his "3 roommates" his wife and kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:35 PM
1

I think the meme is saying you're irreplaceable to your husband/kids, so you should be laboring for them at home instead of laboring for $ at work. Otherwise the "replace at home" part makes no sense like you said because how could you be replaced. It's saying you're (as a woman specifically, notice the pink background of the meme) more useful around the house than at work basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:27 PM
185

PUA/Redpill tactics rely on the assumption that the woman wants serious commitment and the man wants sex, so he pretends to commit for easy sex. If the woman doesn't want serious commitment none of their scripts or tricks can possibly work. They don't know how to just get to know someone without it being a bait and switch game...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:42 PM
150

When you learned all your jokes from reddit and didn't know women could have opinions about you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:37 PM
5

She's not like other girls 😌 her p*ssy is MAGIC and makes men stay loyal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:53 PM
2

I get what you're saying, I don't think it applies or is targeted to single women. To me it seems like it's saying your labor done for your husband/kids will always be more valued than your labor done for your employer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:54 PM
20

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:36 PM
8

I definitely think it's targeted to working mothers or wives. It gave me a weird feeling, bad energy like you said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:21 PM
4

Love that for you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:29 PM
63

Exactly! I just don't want young women and mothers having the idea that a job is inherently more likely to abandon or harm your family than your man/husband/whatever is because that is soooo false.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:56 PM
56

If the meme was targeted toward men (who actually tend to use work to avoid their family) I would completely agree, but something about it being pink and plastered all over women's fb groups makes me think it's more about talking women out of their jobs back into the home 🤔 Idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:39 PM
121

Reddit is a great anti-desperation tool, it's like a zoo window you can peek through and see all the men in their natural habitat jerking off and throwing feces everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:50 PM
214

This is why you give 0 value to men's opinions or their respect. They'll try to suck their own d*ck, break their back, then have sex with the chicken sandwich the nurse brings them in the hospital.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:57 PM
7

Yep, let him fuck around and find out! What baby??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:32 PM
56

"My FWB of 9 months" has me DYYYYINGGGG WHO TF counts the months they've been together but believes calling it a different name makes it not a relationship ☠️ he clearly is more possessive of her than vice versa yet he's the one who believes it's a casual FWB somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:54 PM
76

I see it as the biggest red flag ever if a dad is kicked out by the mom who has his baby/small child (which is what they all claim). If he was changing even 1 diaper a day or doing the dishes once a week he'd probably still be there with her but to be kicked out he must have been doing NOTHING OR WORSE THAN NOTHING around their house. Yeah no thanks!! If your baby mama, someone you OWE help to, doesn't even want you at her house, you must be either the laziest POS ever or straight up abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:05 PM
63

I would recommend searching reddit for "FDS" or "female dating strategy" and try sorting different ways, there's a lot of whining and creative writing about the sub posted to other subs pretty much every day. Just don't interact with any of it and if you find any good ones you can submit them to the FDS Super Fans sub for everyone to laugh at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:26 PM
19

Omg pleaseeeeee do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:00 PM
268

I love all the fake stories about boyfriends finding their girlfriend's FDS posts about them 🤣 they just pick out a post from here and decide to write a narrative around it. Pretty creative!! Reminds me of that post here that was like "scrotes should be scared, we're coming for your girlfriends!!!" anyone remember that one??? It was really good hahah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:00 PM
66

It's especially true for relationships that started young, like the high school/college relationship from the post. The young girls tend to grow up into successful beautiful women while the young boy grows into a lazy complacent man. The woman might stay with him a couple more years because he was her first love, but by that time she's too good for him. When he goes back into the dating world he won't be in the same league as her anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:01 PM
3

Exactly, you see it all the time! She would be in for a hell of a surprise to find out his side chick isn't an ~unemployed wifey~ like she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:24 PM
51

All it takes it getting cheated on one time and they'll change their minds lol. I understand thinking a life on a pedestal would be nice, but you have to realize that's not how the men see you. They'll switch you out the minute a prettier face says hi to them. Men already objectify us regardless, don't ASPIRE to be a replaceable object... Get a career and you will have successful men flocking to you (probably way more men than Ms. Unemployed Wifey Material) and you can switch THEM out if you wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:21 PM
18

What is stopping disabled men from dating/marrying similarly disabled women? Are they really "unable" to have sex otherwise or are they just unable to have sex with an in shape 20 year old otherwise? Argument is ret*rded anyway because even men who are able bodied and "happily" married with no trauma or issues will still seek a sex worker to cheat with just for the hell of it LOL. Like ya I'm not surprised some of the men have mental or physical problems but don't pretend normal men aren't renti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:34 PM
6

Same, in the times that I've used the apps I have neverrrr had my age range that high 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:59 PM
123

It's a time they look forward to their entire life, that magical time when the women start chasing the men! /s I challenge these guys to make fake dating profiles of their ideal 40-50 something bachelor Chads and see how many younger women will actually be chasing them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:36 PM
125

I've heard this before. They legit think as long as the baby mama is alive and taking care of the kids, they aren't a single dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:09 PM
14

There have been "sons of prostitutes, how did it affect you?" threads on reddit and the overwhelming consensus is that these men resent their mothers and looked up to pimps fondly as father figures. They blame their bad childhood on their mom prostituting herself and not on the fact that she was desperate and helpless enough to need to resort to that. Also, no mention of where their fathers were during this time. It's sad, they HATE their mothers for it. I can't imagine a daughter ever hating he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:22 PM
122

Lol I saw that. Better they jerk off to our sub than to videos of women and children being abused at least 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:08 PM
227

Y'all should see the cope comments in other subs this was posted to 😁 saying habitual p*rn use breaks your dick is like saying the sky is blue, we don't even need a study because we can see it all the time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:04 PM
78

You mean like when they dump their Barbra the Builder, higher earning, more attractive, forever gf since high school at 26 because they're worried they'll never get the chance to fuck random women off Tinder otherwise, and then they never get to anyway? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:20 PM
100

Maybe the true "wall" a woman hits is when she realizes men as a whole have nothing to offer her that she hasn't already given to herself. And then you crawl your ass AWAY from them 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:28 PM
207

If these men are just patiently waiting for women to start "hitting the wall" and crawling back to them.... what about all the women who should already be supposedly "walled"? Why aren't they crawling back yet? Shouldn't there be a constant stream of women crawling back at all times as they hit the wall? Where are they? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:57 PM
200

You know he would never do that bad of a job on a work task. This is a deliberate "fuck you" to the wife and a message that he believes he is above doing household labor. He'll be on dead bedrooms soon asking why his wife isn't sexually attracted to him anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:06 PM
6

It was a sub about neckbeard things, I tried to go back and find it to send you the link but I'm not finding it anymore :/ I guess it's good it was deleted since it was such a stupid post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:20 PM
215

unzips pants is like their favorite joke ever lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:10 PM
48

Source? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:03 PM
108

You literally can't go into the comments of any main sub post without one of the top comments being at least vaguely porn/SW related
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:50 PM
190

Just before seeing this, I saw a post about how p*rnstars often have life-long health issues or injuries from having rough anal sex. BUT... it was posted to MAKE FUN OF THE IDEA AS FAKE/BADANATOMY. Majority of the comments were saying it's impossible because some men fist each other. Other comments said "your vagina can prolapse too why aren't you worried about that?" 🤯 the absolute state of Peddit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:46 PM
169

BuT thiS ONE WOMAN I KNOW (who used a surrogate) loOkS exACTly thE SAme!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:05 PM
16

He was probably stewing in anger and drafting up his novel text to her the whole time he was waiting to get home, just to see it not go through when he finally hit send 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:38 PM
20

He thinks he's entitled to make her read paragraphs of his rambling, directionless thoughts about her now that they've had sex once. He says it like he had a right taken from him!! He probably thought he could manipulate and string her along after their encounter. Guarantee whatever he wanted to send her would be some Redpill negging and dread game shit. But instead she's just.... gone, like poof 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:36 PM
44

It's hard to feel any sympathy for him when he starts the entire story with "I asked my gf of a few months to live with me because I needed a caretaker and a roommate to be able to afford to continue my education".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:26 PM
34

Agree 100%. I was just surprised all the comments are either coddling him or calling her mentally ill, a bitch, psycho, etc. Not a single one saying maybe he should have chose to live with someone because he WANTED to, not so he can have a free nurse and afford his education easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:53 PM
39

He replied to a couple comments saying he's not going to break up with her yet because he doesn't want to rock the boat. Like duh, you told us right at the beginning why you wanted her there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:43 PM
320

"My body, my choice" unless the scrote has $200 cash and rent is due.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:36 PM
-27

But did she really know she was exposing herself to Covid and contracting it? He makes it sound like she was flippant with safety but maybe she was just going to work every day... Idk I do agree their relationship will not work out, I just don't understand how anyone can read what he wrote and think she's some huge crazy asshole and he did nothing wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:08 PM
26

Literally EVERY SINGLE COMMENT is telling him to run away and that she's a huge asshole. Not a single comment pointing out what he says at the beginning about wanting her to live with him for her $ and her good health. No one pointing out how he wants her there in case he has a seizure, but he is PISSED she got Covid?? Their biggest issues include eating each other's food??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:07 PM
37

After re-reading he didn't even technically "move her in", it sounds like they signed a lease on a new place together. So I wonder if he was living with his parents or roommates before this. He is soo mad that she got Covid and is slightly annoying??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:54 PM
26

He basically won the relationship lottery by getting into a relationship with her before she became successful and he didn't. She's definitely out of his league now and if he goes back to the dating market he will NOT be having the same luck. He even says he's average looking or something like that which means he already thinks his looks may be an issue, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:28 PM
94

Men really see a profile pic of a pornstar with some generic computer generated text and think the woman in the picture is talking to them ☠️🤣 this applies to OF too as many accounts are ran by the models boyfriend/pimp so she doesn't even see anything those men pay $$$ to say to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:31 PM
138

If she travels for work 2 weeks a month she probably knows plentyyyy of men ready and eager to take his place. She likely is the breadwinner, too as those types of jobs are usually high paying. If he dumps her she'll find a replacement so easily (if she wants) and he could spend years unsuccessfully looking for Tinder hookups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:28 PM
38

The problem is that we have already listened to and communicated with them TOO MUCH. I'm sure almost everyone here has been in a relationship where they had to try to explain basic decency to a scrote over and over. We already know what y'all want to say to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:07 PM
24

The problem is that we have already listened to and communicated with them TOO MUCH. I'm sure almost everyone here has been in a relationship where they had to try to explain basic decency to a scrote over and over. We already know what y'all want to say to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:07 PM
86

They don't want this idea spreading 🤪 but it makes perfect sense to me, why should he get to pass to the next "base" without completing the one he's on??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:17 PM
78

When they say "relationships shouldn't be transactional" it's because they have nothing to offer but still feel entitled to be in a relationship with someone who does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:32 PM
45

I love this! 🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:05 PM
450

Seeing the 200 paragraph manifesto someone wrote "analyzing" us was fucking hilarious. They really believe women having dating standards is some super fringe feminist incel idea. And you know the guy who wrote it has probably never even spoken with a real life woman before if he thinks it's so wild that we have thoughts and standards in our pretty little heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:16 PM
130

Years of devotion means nothing to them. "Women marry, have kids, build a life with these men" yep, and most of them will resent you for it. They'd rather make out with their old crush in the car outside. This is why although I'm not against dating/marrying altogether I think it will ALWAYS be a bad idea to start a family with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 03:06 PM
48

I've seen men on dating apps who would be met with looks of visible disgust if they ever dare stepped foot into a grocery store or gas station. I mean like, unshowered, ungroomed, dirty bedroom in the background, smudgy glasses, neckbeard, pale as paper, literal twig arms. On top of the horrible appearance they are unemployed and uneducated with a creepy/demanding bio. Why they would even create an account without working on themselves first is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:04 PM
72

The men who are in demand can pick out a woman they actually LIKE and pursue her. Men who aren't in demand know they might never be good enough for their dream girl so all they want is to use whoever is willing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:57 PM
90

It's like asking "Why don't prostitutes ever pay ME for sex??" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:55 PM
84

This! If most men are so desperate they ask out/proposition multiple women per week (dating apps, SW, or IRL) while most women are just living our lives normally.... what do they expect will happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:52 PM
126

You know they're just going to pick out the first cheapest/most on sale thing they come across and get out of there, too. No regard for what color she likes, if she wants earrings or a necklace, etc....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:35 PM
50

You don't want a grown man playing video games in your own damn house, TRUST ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:24 PM
56

Yet somehow he manages to get up and go to work every day. Interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:37 AM
12

She already gave him kids and a home, why would he marry her now? 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:55 PM
307

He thinks it's ~so awkward~ yet he continues to hang out with them knowing she'll be there 🤔 maybe he should ask himself why HE keeps hanging out with a 17 yr old girl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:36 PM
365

Any time his friends go out with the two of them they are publicly co-signing the relationship. They're normalizing this. In case OP somehow reads this, people who see you with them in public 100% think you're a p*do sympathizer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:52 PM
26

Ya I have them blocked and dms/messages off. Triggered scrotes can scream into a pillow or punch a hole in their childhood bedroom wall or something instead 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:27 PM
4

All the women are NPCs to him. He thinks if he can just say the exact right thing, his lives will be restored and everyone will forgive and like him again. Maybe he should just move to Thailand and start taking care of his other family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:33 PM
127

Browsing reddit altogether is a great birth control method! 99% of this site is males displaying their depravity like apes flinging their shit at zoo-goers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:35 AM
45

Talking about small 🍆s triggers them bad too 🤏🤏🤏🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:13 AM
45

If you search reddit for "FDS", sort by new posts, and scroll a bit, you can see people have been posting about us a lot today actually! Hi scroties 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:12 AM
140

You'll get those care messages if you say anything about sex work not being the most empowering job ever in any sub but this one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:23 AM
116

So so obvious yet as women we're supposed to just look away and pretend most men are good people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:13 PM
113

Honestly these places pretty much blackpilled me into believing relationships with men are pointless. How many men are paying 50 bucks to r*pe a trafficked immigrant on their way home from work every day? Enough to keep these places open on every block across the country. And as women we're supposed to just cover our eyes and pretend our communities aren't full of adulterous rapists?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:09 PM
54

I have a secret for these males that will GUARANTEE they don't get "divorce r*ped" ... Marry a woman with similar wealth, status, and assets. No one is forcing wealthy established men to pick out a broke impressionable 18 year old and divorce her at 32. If you marry into an unbalanced power dynamic, the courts will take that into account when you divorce 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:30 AM
109

FDS Women: "I want someone who is a near equal to me in most aspects of life and has accomplished some things like I have." This Dude: "WHAT?!? He doesn't exist!" 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 03:37 PM
110

Ass on sale for 27.99?? Nah it's literally like $5-10 a month max or free. Their income comes from way worse stuff than pics of ass. The worst part is how these scrotes not only demean the OF women, but some of them also seem to be extremely jealous. SW-ers like to paint a picture of regular women hating on them for being too sexy or whatever but their absolute biggest haters are their own clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:45 PM
199

She's crying and he basically drops a nicer version of "whatever you don't want to give me sexually, another woman will 😏" and she's relieved. Lord almighty...... I kinda want her username so I can read the updates a couple months down the line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:38 PM
19

This reminds me of how some sugar babies like to say they're "scamming" and "outsmarting" the older men by receiving money and gifts from them. Until one day they realize their time and attention was worth way more than what they were paid for it. You have to remember the house always wins. These old scrotes are trading a $500 purse for something so much more priceless and valuable, they're the ones outsmarting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:43 PM
651

They have nothing to offer but money and still want us to go 50/50 on that. And they wonder why some women are losing interest entirely?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:42 PM
38

It doesn't say he didn't sleep with her first 😬 he might have told her all this as they were putting their clothes back on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:36 PM
26

I have always dreamed of accidentally finding the reddit account of an IRL acquaintance and reading some juicy stuff I wasn't supposed to know about 🤣 I'm living for this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:45 AM
68

They're mostly porn addicts who are either CHOOSING not to have sex with their wife or maybe she saw what he jerks it to and lost all attraction. If they stopped watching porn and actually tried to woo their wife they'd probably be successful. The only dead bedroom I've been in was one sided: dead for me (I got turned down by him no matter what) while he was cheating. He told me every excuse in the book for why his libido had "disappeared". LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:46 PM
49

People can definitely change for the worse. Any HVM can turn low value if he decides to, good people don't always stay good forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:52 AM
120

The most previously-HVM in the entire world can still wake up one morning and decide to leave for any reason or for no reason at all. You can never 100% trust that anyone but yourself will be there for you in a time of need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:28 PM
101

Omg, he blames not proposing on being sad from his mom having cancer in the past 😳🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:24 PM
132

If MEn aNd WAHmen arE EQUAL 🤔, doES thaT mean I CaN PUNCH YOU IN THE FACE 😍👊?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 02:43 PM
3

I'm sorry but it's kinda funny that he thinks we don't already know most straight men don't actually like us. Woaahh groundbreaking 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:27 PM
82

I thought that if I looked like a digitally/surgically-altered porn actress that my ex wouldn't want to watch porn anymore. Which was false, as no amount of visual perfection can ever satisfy a pornsick man. It's like trying to fill up a pasta strainer with water. You can't. I've been there too 🤡🤦‍♀️ we have to remember that even the porn actresses don't look the way they do on screen IRL. If these scrotes walked by some of their favorite "models" on the street they probably wouldn't even recogn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:39 PM
59

She sounded surprised that instead of him watching videos of a man and woman having sex he was watching solo stuff by OF models. They want us to think "it's natural, just videos of sex!" when in reality guys these days are chatting up OF models and paying them tips to see personalized videos, etc. He's not watching videos of sex, he's having a virtual affair with a specific sex worker. And he was looking at OF photos while having sex with the wife? If she gave him a meetup price he'd be buying s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:27 PM
40

I know right! He really came out blazing with the "social media inflates the average women's self worth" incel Pedditor slogan. Nevermind all the studies showing social media is extremely detrimental for young girls mental health and self esteem... You can almost see the hatred for women just oozing out of his pores as he asks the question. Kinda scary ngl. Also, aren't these guys telling on themselves when they imply women get endless propositions/praise from social media and dating apps? For e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:11 PM
41

This is why women get confused/bewildered when her SO stops wanting to have sex with her. He's a man, he likes sex, and he used to like having sex with her, what changed?? Well he made you a Madonna and now you are simply not an object of his arousal anymore and never will be again. It's a hard pill to swallow and it likely happens in MOST heterosexual relationships. Men see sex as inherently degrading to the woman. So when he views you too highly to want to degrade you (Madonna) he will cheat, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:57 PM
14

She's having fun playing trad gf online and probably thinks he will be so happy and impressed by her cleaning job that he will want to keep it clean. Newsflash.... You're not the first woman to try to train a man to be clean 🤣 that shit never works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:59 PM
274

Scrotes always say women talk and nag too much, but then they turn around and tell us all we need to have a good relationship is to communicate more with them 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:55 PM
22

I'm sure it's possible the story is true, but if someone tries this at home it's much more likely that the dude won't even notice anything is happening and the woman will just get more frustrated. There's lots of other stories on reddit of women going on a "housework strike" for a couple days and realizing that their husband doesn't even give a shit and now she just has more chores to catch up on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:46 PM
44

I bet she exaggerated the extent that he actually cared about her dress, the dirty dishes, etc. She probably had to point each of those things out for him to notice. Most guys aren't gonna see their gf wearing a ruined dress and think "oh shit, I should start caring about housework more and pull my weight!!". Whole story kinda sus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:28 PM
37

He was just tired So then why didn't he come home? ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:15 PM
222

Media barely even talk about women's actual sex lives unless they're fucking for money. LITERALLY THOUGH. Why do we get so much shit about normalizing "sex work" shoved down our throats from every direction but no one gives a fuck what women actually want WITHOUT having to be paid or coerced? Can we normalize NOT being paid or groomed into having sex instead? And why are sex workers considered by these media sites to be the highest authorities or "experts" on sex when they don't even get to have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:17 PM
136

They would find a way to sue us for lost sexual labor or something lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 01:06 AM
62

Same energy as guys who tell you about some crazy, super unstable woman who cried and tried to k*ll him after each time they had sex. But of course he kept showing back up to her place to fuck again. They are animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 01:49 PM
15

Omg 🙈 i only made 3 comments yesterday haha I'm glad you liked them though 💕 some days I'm way more spammy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:08 PM
16

Yeah if someone appears to be on vacation 90% of the year without having a high paying job or an ultra rich family you can pretty much assume they're sugaring for someone who does 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:29 PM
254

Yesss. When a LVM levels up and can meet higher standards he will want a new woman whose standards he didn't meet before. For example if he never lived on his own until age 28, once he has his own apartment he'll want a woman who wouldn't date a guy without his own place. If you were already with him at his lowest, that's not you sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:44 PM
41

Most men see a wife/kids as a big shiny toy like a boat or car that they can trade after every promotion. They want to have a better wife and kids than other men, it has nothing to do with being a family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:44 PM
11

As soon as that new bed set hits the mattress he will believe he's too good to date a woman who would ever have agreed to sleep on a bare mattress lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:24 PM
55

Men showing us again and again why we should wait at the finish line for them instead of helping them run their race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:33 PM
71

It's so embarrassing to see beautiful women marrying balding short scrotes. I've been in a long term relationship with a busted dude before and yes, it sucks. People will straight up ask you why you're with him while he's still in earshot. These women aren't just blinded by love, they know their scrote is ugly but don't believe they can do better. I think p*rn plays a huge role in convincing women they hardly even deserve the bare minimum from men if they don't look like the 2D images he jerks o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:22 PM
37

Yeah there's no way in hell any woman would still be on his line by the time he got to "woman who was mad at me for not calling her back". Do men think it's normal to talk about dating/exes with literal strangers? Even if I hadn't seen the clip it would be so obvious that he was repeating some shit from a bro movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:43 PM
314

Women project their female humanity onto men and men project their male depravity onto women. This is why women sometimes have a hard time understanding how a man was able to act so cruel to her when she would never treat a person in the same way- she is assuming he has the same humanity and moral compass as her. Likewise some men think women have sex with their dogs- they assume we are as degenerate as they are 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 07:25 PM
191

Others have already replied with some great tips, but to be honest there is absolutely nothing you can do to "ensure" this doesn't happen aside from not having children with a man to begin with. Even if you got impregnated by the most 100% FDS approved, thoroughly vetted, seemingly HVM, this could still happen. The best man and father this world ever saw could still wake up one morning and decide he's done. Sorry to be bleak but if you're gonna have kids you should probably assume you will only …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:17 PM
23

Omg ahahahahaha ☠️☠️ I want to say more but I will keep it in my head. Ty for this comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:39 PM
18

I have no idea if he's happy or not but she inadvertently makes it very obvious that she is not 😕 and the crying in the middle of the night example was not an exaggeration, she actually shared that with everyone on Facebook (a multi paragraph version of it) thinking it sounded sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:09 PM
55

There is a woman on my Facebook list who starts off every positive post by thanking her husband for supporting her and explaining how she wouldn't have any of her accomplishments without him. She starts every negative post by saying how scared she is that she's a bad wife for going through stress/struggles and praising her husband for telling her she's not actually a bad wife. (Example: "I woke up crying in the middle of the night about how inadequate I feel as a wife and hubby was there to tell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:27 PM
28

I've noticed sometimes one mod will approve a post, it will get hundreds of upvotes, awards, comments etc, then a different mod will come along and delete the post a couple hrs later. It's kinda cringe, you're not the only one noticing. In case any mods read this, when a post is deleted after people are already engaging with it could you at least leave a comment on the post first saying why it is being removed? Sometimes I'll go back to a discussion and see the post is disabled but there's never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:06 PM
10

It triggers scrotes because they see women as objects. Imagine if you went to the car dealership, picked out a new car, were approved for financing etc, but then the car just decided it didn't want you to buy it. That's how misogynists view women having standards and encouraging other women to have standards- it's an absurd nonsensical concept to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:37 PM
19

Exactly, this problem only exists because she is too insecure to trust her partner and took his 15-20 p-do defender accounts out of context! She should go to therapy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:13 PM
35

He probably uses them to upvote his own comments too so when normal people see his comments they think others must agree. I literally saw a comment saying "being attracted to newborns isn't p3do" earlier today arguing the semantics of the different levels of child r*pe. Maybe it was him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:10 PM
122

There are so many ways to have sex without chancing pregnancy. In fact, only one very specific act (a MAN ejaculating into a vagina with no condom or vasectomy) can result in it. Men choose to do the only act that can make a kid and then go shocked Pikachu when they make a kid. The fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:22 PM
172

Meanwhile elsewhere on Reddit..... "Am I the gold digger for being disappointed that my (20F) fiance (38M) refused to buy the $75 Walmart engagement ring I settled on? He makes $250k and I'm a student. I suspect he may have spent all his money deep faking p*rn of my mom." Top comment: "Stop being such an insecure gold digger! You should show some appreciation that he proposed at all and he gets along with your mother so well. HE should probably leave YOU for invading his privacy. Do you even lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:58 PM
91

Has she tried not being so insecure and trusting her partner? 😇 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:33 PM
29

When the ego stroke from Tinder isn't good enough anymore so you turn to Peddit 🤒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:42 PM
38

She should have said "send me a video of your set and I'll let you know if it's enough" (or not replied at all, but if she had to lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:05 PM
48

Do not fear, there are more of us out there. You realize these dudes are just looking to pump and dump you, right? You're pandering to short LVM? If you're going low value at least get an attractive one...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:10 PM
46

It's a cope they try to keep up with so they can believe there's a female equivalent to having a small D 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:47 PM
371

Men will fuck literally anyone or anything, they have no standards whatsoever. This is why you don't ask them out or chase them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:16 PM
89

Literally how can he type that out and think it's true when in the sentence before he says he's been buying sex from her lmfaoooo 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:32 PM
119

You can be the best FDS vetter in the world and still end up in this situation- choosing the right partner won't make you immune. Anyone is capable of deciding to leave their partner no matter how "right" they were before. Of course you still should try to choose the best possible partner but never trust that another person (especially a man) will always keep your best interests in mind because that's just not how the world works. Always be able, willing, and ready to look out for YOURSELF, even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:07 PM
53

Haha Ikr eat my shit scrotes, actually just take half since that's what you're into 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:31 PM
91

How about also being equally faithful: if the woman doesn't watch porn, the man can't watch porn either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:17 PM
264

We say 50/50 is impossible because a man can never go 50/50 on birth/pregnancy/child raising, which is true, but... I've also never seen a man capable (willing) of going 50/50 on chores, either 🤷‍♀️.. if you have to do 50% of the work and then beg/remind him for days to do the remaining 50% (poorly, most likely, if at all) that's NOT 50/50... it is almost guaranteed that the woman will not be receiving 50% of the orgasms... to be 50/50 in physical appearances he must be as groomed, healthy, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:25 PM
27

Sometimes I think the better the relationship is going, the higher the scrote thinks his chances of getting away with it are since everyone is unsuspecting. Because you're right, their cheating seems to so often happen right at the same time they're doing very intimate and/or serious things with their gf/wife (love bombing, moving in together, proposing, etc) 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:51 PM
28

Maybe nOt AlL meN cheat, but it's got to be at least 90%+ of them with no sure way to predict or prevent it from happening. Like it's really sad but if you enter a relationship with a man you can pretty much assume you will be cheated on at some point. To assume a man will stay faithful only leads to heartbreak and emotional devastation. It's nothing personal but it is what it is. Forever is a fairytale when you're a heterosexual woman :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:39 PM
76

100% this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:12 AM
65

Projection. Those men probably jerk off or talk to other women when they're on the toilet so they're trying to catch their wife doing what they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:11 AM
54

No, pp hard more important! 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:02 PM
8

Yep, catering to rapists and changing the definition of consent doesn't change what happens physically or mentally to prostituted women (or even OF models, porn stars, etc!). It's all about making the rapists feel like they're doing nothing wrong, maybe they're even ~empowering~ those women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:31 PM
199

Haven't you heard? All men become handsome, successful and rich at 40 no matter what! Just 20 more years of vidya and porn and then he'll have his pick of younger women fighting each other for him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:57 AM
110

There has never been and there will never be a safe platform for sex work. It's just contradictory. Men who buy sex are dangerous and no amount of legalization or safeguards will change that. They will never have respectful "clients" because respectful men don't buy sex. We don't live in fairytale land. It's like asking "how can I safely cut myself with a razor?", there are ways you could do more or less damage to yourself but you will never benefit from it and it will never be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:51 PM
7

What's he going to do when mommy answers their front door to the FBI? Cry and shit himself I'd imagine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:36 PM
12

😭🤮 yep that is horrific, if I saw a pic of some girls ass right next to our relationship pictures I'd probably get nauseous IRL. Same with the birthday thing 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:41 PM
50

You don't have to apologize for snooping here, we recommend it 🙂 keep your head up, you will be better alone than with someone bringing you down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:11 PM
88

You ever hung out with a future mother in law all damn day and then found out the scrote was cheating while you entertained his mom? The ultimate ick. Even a 1% chance of that ever happening again is enough to scare me away from serious relationships. Men just aren't worth it. Keep one as a pet if you'd like but never fall in love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:07 PM
68

100%. Men complain about women who "wait for them at the finish line", but it's because they always look for a new woman at the finish line lmao. Like the existence of the phrase proves itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:37 PM
145

Does anyone else find it so disrespectful that after showing up to the event like that he would still take photos with other people there who actually dressed appropriately??? Like he didn't do the assignment but still wants credit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:27 PM
115

Communicating to a man that his repeated obviously scrotey actions hurt you and doing nothing else about it is like showing him a "level complete, continue to next level?" screen on a bar-lowering video game. Best to exit the game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:24 PM
63

Part of it is the false idea that they are "tricking" or "scamming" the older men into giving them things. They think like this because they don't understand their own inherent worth. Everyone is worth more than a day on the lake and a designer bag. Some women don't believe they are, so in their minds they are "tricking" the man by getting these things from him for nothing but sex/company in return. It also is validation that if nothing else, she is at least worth as much as a purse. (It sounds …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:26 PM
151

This is what happens when you take 50/50 pickme libfem male-pandering logic into the real world. Normal people will be confused. The real question should be: "everyone on reddit says engagement rings don't matter, you're a gold digger if you want one, and you're special if you don't want one. Why does no one I know in real life agree?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:28 PM
42

Yep, the men keeping them in business are all around you. Horrifying isn't it 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:39 PM
15

Cohabiting with most men is like having a poorly behaved teenager you can't discipline who also might give you an STD or k*ll you. "I don't want somebody in my house" -Whoopi Goldberg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:21 PM
151

It is common enough for there to be Asian Massage Parlors in every city and town in the US. Also, Google "escorts in _______" and you can see how many are operating where you live. So... yea it is common for the average man to buy sex. Even more disturbing, prostitutes say most of their clients are in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:38 PM
226

Right? She's literally paying him to be his gf. Like, her entire income is donated to a man she isn't even married to. She has a rich boyfriend and is doing WORSE financially than she would be with a lower earner. Proof that rich does not = HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:45 PM
68

I bet somewhere there's a "have you asked her if you can visit escorts while she's recovering? We see dads of newborns all the time! 💕"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:07 PM
141

This was my first thought too- she probably doesn't even look that bad and the problem is mostly in his head. She's a Madonna now and he's looking for a way to blame her for it instead of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:06 PM
32

I think guys wanting to go "50/50" is a dead giveaway that he doesn't imagine himself being with you forever. He's saving money for a potential new life. What other reason is there to act like this? Money spent on his family isn't money lost unless he has another plan for the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:36 PM
101

Somewhere there's also a poor soul doing her hair and makeup to go stand in a field he knows and look at his photography
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:16 PM
22

Ya it's weird, literally every female influencer (especially fitness) has a gang of scrotes worshipping her in a subreddit. Annoying af when you're trying to find normal stuff about said influencers and every reddit post is just screenshots of workout videos and guys drooling over her abs/ass/whatever...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:42 PM
108

He has a fiancee 8 years younger than him and still wants an open relationship.... SIR... is nothing ever enough for them??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:33 PM
12

If you don't blindly believe every word out of his mouth your relationship must not be as good as mine. I'M the exception and my man would never stray from me! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:00 PM
135

Right? Most dudes would never say no to like 95% of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:03 PM
24

He deactivated his account and later he'll create a new one that she won't know about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:46 AM
15

For real 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:05 PM
122

If they're all celibate who is creating the demand for human trafficking? Something doesn't add up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:27 PM
28

Yeah he's 100% a gold digger. He wants her to spend close to all her income on HIS house? Nah. Have fun paying it alone now, he'll be sooo much better off on his own I bet 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:13 PM
13

First of all, why is a wealthy 23 year old woman dating a man 10 years older than herself to begin with? And then add a kid that isn't hers? Tf does he have to offer her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:38 PM
155

You have to assume at minimum half of reddit users are under 18, maybe even more than half. I would bet 75% of reddit users are under 30. She's pretty much asking a crowd of male high schoolers and 20 somethings how a 30 year old woman should date 🤠 sis please post here instead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:38 PM
46

there are other ways a guy could pleasure you They always say this and it's true buuuut.... a guy with a small D isn't any more likely to do those things than a guy with an average or big one. So best bet is to go with what you actually want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:55 PM
61

Nice 😃👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:40 AM
76

Yep that is a major 🚩 you can basically translate it to "I will sometimes choose this other woman over you and you aren't allowed to question it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:55 PM
130

At the very least he could have just posted his photos and not mentioned he was male, no? Instead he had to announce that he shouldn't be there on the way in. What a weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:07 PM
94

ArE yoU imPlyiNg WOmEN dONT liKe SEx? Sex is a mutual benefit between men and women 🤡 she should be happy to get to fold up and hand jam my half-limp 🍤 into herself in exchange for her time, money, risk, beauty, and effort!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:12 PM
83

A HVM will think FDS ideas are just normal, every day dating talk because it is. Nothing about FDS is new, but it's incompatible with red pill tactics so of course those types and incels hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:12 PM
56

Exactly my first thought, a straight up confession that they treat girlfriends better than wives? Isn't that the quiet part lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:22 PM
36

Or a Google Play Store employee got banned from the app 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:51 PM
51

Don't you know? It's not prostitution anymore if it's the same couple of men writing you a check in exchange for sex every week 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:32 PM
6

It's not just their appearances, it's their entire lives they put no effort into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:37 PM
8

I think I'm the same. Having kids with a man is like taking out a loan together that only you sign for. And yea exactly- these are the "perfect traditional SAHM"s they want us to be and they still get ruthlessly betrayed for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:59 PM
11

I had a higher up manager try to make a move on me at my last job. His wife was on bedrest at home with a high risk twins pregnancy and two kids already. Nothing you do for a man will ever make him truly care about you, look out for yourself first always...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:34 PM
116

Men will never care about preventing pregnancy even a fraction as much as women care about preventing pregnancy since a pregnancy doesn't affect them in any way. Can't even make them pay child support most of the time which is the only potential consequence they face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:18 PM
31

So she was basically just a free live-in mommy mcbang maid to him... a 50k big earner? 😬 that's how much most 24 year olds I know are making, a man in his 40s should be well above that by now. What did he ever offer her besides a cheap place to live??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:01 PM
7

Yes! Women are more vulnerable to harm in a relationship and we absolutely should use all tools available to us. Those who are "too good to snoop" could be in for a nasty surprise one day... better to find out after a few months than after many years. Edit: I want to clarify- any of us could be in for a nasty surprise one day. I'm not better than those who don't snoop, but I would recommend they start doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:39 PM
10

They call each other simps and cucks as insults but dudes who do this are making themselves into the biggest cucks ever- they literally can ONLY enjoy watching other men have sex through a screen even if a woman puts his thing in her mouth 🤣 cucked to the whole world...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:30 PM
13

HAHAHAHA At least he's self aware saying "there's nothing kingly about this". I think he has a chance to turn himself around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:22 PM
28

Wait a second, I thought "sex buyers" and BDSM types were supposed to be sooOoO much more polite and respectful of boundaries and consent than ~vanilla~ men? What went wrong here? BDSM + sex buyer should equal top tier empowerment and respect right? Isn't that what SWers and kinkmeishas try to tell us every day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:19 PM
239

Wow, good for her spreading that message!! It's not normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:45 AM
27

"How could FDS post pictures of attractive men, don't they HATE how we have porn subreddits to comment on every piece and part of women's bodies? Hypocrite!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:18 AM
145

These dudes will throw their whole life away to see some snapchat filtered implants. Who wants to bet it's cam girls/escorts nudes he's viewing- not even a side chick or anything. Straight up monkey brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:29 AM
31

It's also not queen energy to shame other women for not 100% trusting the man they're choosing to be with. I sometimes see things like "I'd never snoop because I would never stay with a man I didn't trust 100%! I guess I'm just lucky I found a HVM." - not helpful and dangerous, some women here would have never known their ex was a p*do if they didn't snoop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:56 PM
43

Women: "this is what I'd do to men if I acted the way men act towards women" Men: "but you don't like when WE act like that! Checkmate, hypocrite!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:42 PM
23

Too real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:21 PM
7

I'm guessing it means he wants a long term relationship but she has to start fucking him right away to make it casual 🙄 probably also means no commitment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:23 PM
125

Aka "you don't need to know anything about me, I'm just going to mold an entire fake persona off whatever you tell me you want until you let me fuck you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:47 PM
15

When they say "the one" but they really mean "the two" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:41 PM
16

Reminds me of guys who leave their # for a waitress on the receipt but don't leave her a tip All that after not even helping your mom at all... what was he thinking? Why didn't he at least get your mom what she wanted if he was so interested 😐 like you're gonna want to go out with a douchey employee who can't even make a sale lol??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:24 PM
36

This is how to hit the wall in your 20s... These men are gonna be looking roughhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:53 PM
54

The LVM are mad because it's obvious she'll be better off without him and that he's practically useless to her. She can achieve her dreams better without him and his dream of turning her into mommy bang maid is going down the drain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:48 PM
39

He wanted OP to pay for the rest of his schooling so he could bounce out debt free with the side chick afterwards. Hellllllllll nah. Do not ever build-a-man if it costs you even a penny. If being around you inspires him to build himself that's great. When men level up in their life they will want to find a woman who wouldn't have accepted them when they were down/poor/uneducated before. If he was good enough for you while he was down, how much better might he be able to do once you've built him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:14 PM
127

This is exactly it. If we could see the scrote comments on this post a lot of them would be "but we can't CONTROL our height, women can control their ________!" We know you can't control it... sorry? Life is full of things we can't control. But women's attention isn't a charity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:33 PM
67

What about tall guys with big dicks? ☺️🍭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:26 PM
21

⁠Bitter men pissed off at losing assets in divorce, pissed off at an ex, or wanting cathartic release via anger at women. The ironic thing about this one is that if a man has lost a large amount of money or assets in a divorce it almost certainly means he was exploiting his ex wife to begin with. Why else would he marry someone so far beneath him financially?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:43 PM
83

Isn't it funny how "big brother advice" basically just means "here's what I'd say if I wasn't trying to manipulate you into fucking me"? Only when sexual attraction is 100% removed as if they were siblings can a man give a woman legitimate advice. The fact that the phrase "big brother advice" exists gives away that men's default advice to women is manipulative. So much so that non-manipulative advice to women needs a new name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:07 PM
213

He's hoping his peddit bros will help him figure out why his sex appliance is malfunctioning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:12 PM
20

This comment right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:32 PM
150

Speak for yourself sis, nothing wrong with makeup but some of us look great without 😅 and honestly she looks like she's beautiful without it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:51 PM
57

They try to return with long messages, send money (keep that though 🤑), better attitude and other stupid shit that could’ve made a difference when you two were together. This is the most insulting part because it shows that he knew all along EXACTLY what he was doing wrong leading to the failure of the relationship. And now he thinks if he finally fixes it he can have you back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:46 PM
8

A lot of these "good men" have aggressive outbursts whenever being good doesn't get them exactly what they want 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:30 PM
209

She knows that actually happens, right? R*ped while dying? It's not fucking kink it's a real thing that happens and he told her he wants to do it to her. Why even bring kink up in the post wtf. I'm disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:20 PM
386

17 and gets nothing out of sex with his gf 🤯 at that age sex should be a pretty huge deal...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:55 PM
9

Me too, it was a noticeable absence!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:33 PM
161

"Tried to fuck every female in the friend group" Hahahahaha this one is too fucking real, there's ALWAYS that guy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:19 PM
39

Noooo to oilfield guys unless you just want to have fun. 99% of them are fuckboys who have girlfriends or wives at home. Just a warning to anyone who is considering changing their location to the nearest oil town now 🤣 Loved the ep, thanks for breaking everything down and giving examples! Y'all are starting to be a highlight of my week now 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:55 PM
88

"I got a girlfriend who seems to be better and more successful than me in every facet of life despite being younger. Now I hate her for being better than me. How can I drag her down?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:06 PM
11

Exactly! He probably doesn't want an equal. I work in a male dominated STEM field and all of my male equals at work seem to to go after women who may not even have a job/education. I always got the vibe that a lot of men in high paying careers want a woman without a penny to her name so they can own her. It was actually pretty other-ing to me because the vibe at work was always that men are the ones making $ so their beautiful wives can just relax at home and then there I am in the midst... But …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:22 PM
113

Or when they get together to complain about paying child support to all the evil women they impregnated by their own free will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:37 PM
66

Men go to therapy challenge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:24 PM
21

Some of these guys will spend hundreds or thousands of dollars on twitch streamers/cam girls etc. for next to nothing in return from those women. Paying to eat a nice dinner with a real woman is a good use of their money and a way better deal for them anyway. I'm really starting to think this 50/50 first date talk only exists on reddit because I've never seen it irl. Maybe it's where I grew up but literally everyone knows if a man asks a woman out to dinner he pays. Whether that man is a strange…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:28 PM
14

Yea I've been on dates that I thought went pretty ok, but then the guy has a meltdown when you aren't ready to sleep with him right away like "are you not comfortable with me?? Why did you agree to this if you aren't attracted to me? What did I do wrong?" As if I did something wrong and owe him now for even showing up to the date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:22 PM
9

He wants that free escort with a free cam show thrown in too 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:18 PM
206

Just because one owl ate a mouse doesn't mean mice should be afraid of owls! #notAllOwls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:59 PM
39

I love this, you are so accurate in describing what so many of us get from this sub and why even in relationships we need to remember we are still the choosers. My interpretation of that is to always have my own home that I can afford alone whether a man is there with me or not to make sure I NEVER become reliant on another person my whole life (unless by tragedy or some horrible circumstances...). If you have financial freedom you can be a chooser your whole life! Thanks so much for the great p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:00 PM
270

Remember, the whole "men below your league will treat you better/be more loyal since they're so grateful!" idea is a LIE. Give a man an inch and he'll start wondering if he can get a mile from someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:21 PM
151

At the very least, the response would be "she clearly is only into bigger dicks than yours, you should leave her before she starts cheating". But if a man only watches porn of women of a different race than you are? Don't be insecure....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:49 PM
37

Yes, it's quite awkward "playing" with something that is smaller than your palm 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:21 PM
54

There are so many things women commonly put up with that nearly any man would instantly leave a relationship over. That is one instance where we actually should "date like men" because men will drop you EASY if you don't meet their needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:34 PM
54

Aside from the fact that a lot of women can literally only (PIV) orgasm with a big dick those posts always ignore asthetics too... Big dicks look strong, juicy, masculine, and delicious. Tiny dicks look like disgusting baby flesh worms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:04 PM
460

Can you imagine the meltdown that would ensue if one day all of the "ladies does size really matter?" posts just got hundreds of comments saying "you're insecure go to therapy" instead of ego stroking? Imagine what the IRL news channels would look like that night... rampages everywhere probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:56 PM
31

So, going off these charts one might say 1/5 of men never really become adults these days? Not surprising at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:32 PM
23

That Justin beiber song tho!! "Am I the monster?" depends on what you did bro... you might be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:44 PM
71

I think in some countries a background check will show where you have been employed before. And if you get a tax form from OF you were employed by them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:43 PM
73

It's basically dedicating your life purpose to strangers' penises. You only get one life, please don't spend it like that... who wants to look back and say "at least I made lots of dudes c*m"? So did McChickens 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:42 PM
141

Exactly. The ones making bank are doing things with their fans in person too. If the "fans" have the option of paying $200 for your sex tape or $200 for actual sex with another user which one do you think they're gonna pick... Edit: some accounts are also just a straight-up front for prostitution. A prostitute will make an account and charge her Johns $200 for a selfie when he gets to the room and then the income looks legal. Soo yeah that's probably where most "OF money" is going... I think OF …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:38 PM
172

Make porn shameful again. Dudes used to go into the forest to jerk it to a magazine they were so afraid of being seen. Deep down they still know how bad it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:08 PM
10

Well OF itself takes a chunk of all their profit to begin with, and if they were recruited by someone they send a portion of that to the recruiter. I don't think you lose money by being recruited but the recruiter makes money off you. I could have some details wrong though this is just what I've heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:46 PM
22

It's partially a pyramid scheme, the highest earning creators (who usually already had a social media following pre-OF) show everyone how luxurious and easy it is and offer to help other women get started if they use their recruitment code to sign up. Then the recruiter gets a cut of your profit forever. They're on twitter basically Epstein-ing other women into it 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:18 PM
69

Yea it's not a replacement for normal employment, it's more like trying to sell macaroni necklaces on etsy. They won't tell you that though because women who "refer" other women into it get a cut of their earnings like a pyramid scheme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:17 PM
100

They pick their own prices but I think most subscriptions are either $5 or $10. Some are completely free and they just rely on tips. The market is so saturated and there's so much free porn already on the internet they can barely get away with charging anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:20 PM
32

It's her fault if she gets abused or if her child ends up fatherless, but we also MUST give EVERY man an equal chance with us or we're misandrist eugenecist gold diggers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:46 PM
167

What better way to heal from getting cheated on and dumped than by letting him continue access to your body for $5/mo? 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:44 PM
1

Interesting, thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:31 PM
5

What dna service did you use & is there a way to do it without giving away your personal data?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:44 PM
78

You know what? If an adult man would rather kill himself than do household chores I'm not stopping him. Die mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:14 PM
58

I think a good goal for anyone who struggles with weight issues (or for anyone at all really!) is to learn how to cook a variety of foods at home. Doesn't have to be kale salads and plain chicken breast, you can make delicious foods for yourself that will still be healthier and cheaper than fast food/takeout. It gives you a new hobby to learn, something to be proud of, something you can impress family and friends with, and is good for your bank account and your health. Quitting alcohol and learn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:44 PM
7

Fake. This is just a new variation of the "prostitute reminisces fondly about a nice John who just wanted to cuddle" story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:29 PM
27

Who else is calling bs on the "nights and weekends for YEARS" claim?? If he's a respected & experienced law enforcement officer shouldn't he be able to move around easily? Why are they basing their decisions around the career of the non-breadwinner anyway?? Insanity 🤯 she's a professional and he's a cop bruh...... 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:22 PM
185

Doesn't the Bible say men who can't control their eyes should pluck them out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:13 PM
104

Does SHE have the option of just locking herself away for days at a time and ignoring the baby without a homicide charge? No? But what about muh 50/50 tho 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:23 PM
33

Wait what? Do guys just assume most women have an OF now? 🤣 if she likes short fat guys but still won't date you....... 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:32 PM
74

do you really think women wouldn't care to know if you have children before they date you? Newsflash: these men aren't on the apps to date. She is projecting morality and common courtesy onto men who are just looking for a free sex delivery. Don't waste your mental energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:26 PM
17

Then perish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:47 PM
32

Ugly/nerdy guys can cheat too, never think a man will be faithful just because he "doesn't have the option to cheat". Go ahead and Google "your city + escorts"- those women are his options. Seriously, do it. ANY man can cheat on you with $100. Don't get too comfortable or trusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:18 PM
260

In high school one of my best friends hooked up with a guy who had a girlfriend. When it got out everyone stopped associating with my friend and she got death threats from the girlfriend's friends. The guy who cheated got to remain in the relationship and kept all his friends. My friend had to change schools over the bullying she endured and everyone kinda just thought it was normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:01 PM
70

No they're pretty much just a FDS hate sub. People always use their posts as "evidence that FDS is toxic" even though as you can see here a lot of the claims are made up. Literally no one said gay or bi men shouldn't be allowed to give blood, but that statement will be used against us anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:40 PM
39

I like this! I've always overshared in every relationship I've been in (romantic or friendships) so this thread is giving me so many good tips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:33 PM
49

Adding on to this... you can get HSV1 (herpes type 1, commonly known as oral herpes) on your genitals if someone who has it on their mouth goes down on you. It's a less severe STD to have physically and less transmittable than having either type of herpes in the "proper" place (type 1 on mouth or type 2 on genitals), but still is a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:19 PM
253

They won't date her, but they'll date some other woman they're not even attracted to and continue consuming her nudes 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:26 AM
8

Sometimes when that happens to me it's because someone gave an award to one of my comments which triggers an automatic award message, but the message doesn't actually show up if you have messages turned off. You can click "mark all as read" if the notification doesn't go away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:57 AM
21

Sorry, I thought the rewording would be vague enough. I'll just delete the whole comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:58 PM
3

Pickme man-defenders detected on that sub: 0 Actual scrotes triggered by other scrotes on that sub: more than a couple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:46 PM
4

More incentive to want a man who pays for dates and has average or above height/dick... he will have nothing to cry on reddit about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:45 PM
191

If prostitution becomes legal it won't be good enough anymore and they'll just look for the next illegal thing. For example if condomless prostitution is still illegal that will become the new market. If condomless is legal, they will want underage. It's a snowball effect, just like with porn we know scrotes are only happy when the acts become more and more depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:17 PM
140

Oh man. I haven't seen this as much lately for some reason, but remember when every pickme and kinkme on social media was posting about how they have a magic p-ssy that can make men bow to their every wish because of how much better it is than every other p-ssy? I swear it was like a trend to proclaim that 🤣 You could be the #1 most popular p*rn star in the world with the prettiest genitals ever seen and he'll still lock himself in the bathroom to jerk off to others if that's who he is 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:32 PM
33

Same goes for guys who try to convince you you've been scammed for going to college 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:08 AM
29

Aww, they get to have fun together pretending to be us 🥰 I've seen posts from their sub shown as "proof that FDS is toxic" on other random subs already. They're spreading our name like wildfire 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:43 AM
10

Part of this is bc of Madonna/whore complex, too. He wants his Madonna wife to be low maintenance and natural while he jerks off to porn stars with red lipstick, blue hair, fake boobs, facial tattoos, etc etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:27 AM
17

Yes, it was a rough comparison of pain/physical damage only. Of course there is no true equivalent as he doesn't have a cervix or womb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:12 PM
30

Doubles as a Fine AF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:33 PM
12

If that girl on your screen is "the ideal gf" go be with her then? What's stopping you? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:43 PM
6

He's literally using her as a biological experimentation. Don't they call that torture when governmental bodies or entities do it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:19 PM
8

Right? He could just slip a peanut between her lips while she's asleep next 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:16 PM
65

Imagine if he had some fresh, deep stitches on his nut sack going all the way into his testicles and she started yanking on them. That's basically the equivalent of what he did to her. What the fuck! Reading this might have just ruined my whole day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:00 PM
213

Him at 28 looking for the "post wall desperate 28 yr old women" 👀 gotta be around here somewhere right???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:16 PM
943

Well he's right about one thing: if women didn't like him at 16-20 and he continues on his same path there's no reason they'll magically like him at 28 either lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:06 PM
40

A "true" 50/50 on chores would mean both partners do chores every day without needing any discussion about it. If she has to think about his chores for even a second it's not 50/50. I think men know this but play dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:59 PM
159

This is what a "50/50" relationship looks like. He does nothing unless she asks and teaches him how and reminds and reminds and reminds and yells at him then apologizes for yelling and reminds him again later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:13 PM
20

set up a furlough scheme for all the sex workers Haha, yea right. You could tell SWers that not seeing clients for ONE (1) day will bring world peace and they wouldn't even consider it. They can't even agree to all require condoms for their own sakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:39 PM
64

Men can be ugly AND an asshole and still get a girlfriend/wife! Happens all the time. Incels must have some... advanced issues. I'll take the Chad who worships the ground I walk on, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:45 AM
66

you're an incredible sex goddess Ok this comment is gonna be super embarrassing but there have been a couple times lately where instead of even thinking about sex I just close my eyes and get visuals of a beautiful spring nature scene and the beauty of nature and fertility and flowers etc. and being "one" with that beauty. Please roast me 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:38 PM
13

I bought this book a while back but never started it. Thanks for the reminder!! 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:35 PM
24

It's because they don't want to have sex with women, they only want to r*pe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:28 PM
27

Yep. She probably had a moment of clarity and realized that what her bf really wants and enjoys is to rape women. He's into "rough noncon bdsm" because it's the closest legal thing to rape. I don't know how more of these women don't realize they're just letting men act out their literal rape fantasies for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:26 PM
11

I make enough money to eat at a nice restaurant 365 days a year if I wanted. If paying for my dinner one day this year triggers you we're simply not compatible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:37 PM
25

These males are fucking obsessed with us. I can't believe we have shit like this going on and yet there's still plenty of pickmes giving "FDS is bad, not all m*n!!" speeches on the other "female oriented" subreddits. These pedditors are not your fucking friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:01 PM
149

Another angle I could see is that they're trying to be super click bait-y. Like, if you saw that subject line pop up for an email on your phone you might do a double take. But still super cringe. Honestly I think young girls today are on the brink of waking up and rejecting all this shit. At least I hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:32 PM
35

Almost everything good in this world has come from women and almost everything evil has come from men. While women nurture, raise, teach, care for, feed, and guide humanity men are out r*ping, murdering, harassing, molesting, starting wars...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:54 PM
33

Anddddd my vagina sealed itself closed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:30 PM
53

They never take them to the vet or give them a monthly anti flea/tick. If you get with a guy like this be prepared to be responsible for his dog unless you're ok with watching him neglect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:19 PM
15

Yeahh he would ask me to come over specifically to do that and he started ordering a bunch of sex toys online to try to achieve a "prostate orgasm" which I'm not sure is real or not. That wasn't the only reason it ended but it was the final straw lol this was back in college though so I wouldn't consider it to have been a real adult relationship anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:20 PM
36

One of my past relationships ended because he let me peg him and then decided that was the only way he wanted to have sex anymore 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:03 PM
28

What an idiot. Why is he pretending to care now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:01 PM
21

Yeah, it's kind of bad/suspicious timing for this 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:27 PM
196

My insurance covers one per year so I do it every year when I go to the obgyn. I get a full std panel each time too even though it's not covered. I will never trust a man enough to stop doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:26 PM
41

Omg I never knew it was an ad! Now it makes more sense, the "18-20 year olds" are mostly the bots and SWers. There are probably way more female profiles in that age range. If the graph represented real life wouldn't we see every man on the street walking around with a 20 year old woman? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:52 PM
9

Amazing. You're giving me a little fraction of the feeling I imagine you're having right now and it feels so good 🥳😂 thank you for sharing that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:02 PM
14

I think this is why women so often get confused about our relationships with men without the guidance of FDS. It's incomprehensible to most of us that someone would go through the motions of a relationship with someone they don't actually like at all. Yet it is very common. The missing piece of info that explains all your "confusing" relationship problems: he just doesn't like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:48 PM
47

Hila is so beautiful. But you're right, basic LVM dudes love to trash her appearance. She's not a blank slate and she's probably taller than a lot of them so I think it's insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:56 PM
254

The paradox of men claiming to be the superior sex but also unable to do any basic adult tasks or functions without the help of a woman 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:53 PM
45

Damn, straight from the horse's mouth 💀 even reddit itself thinks men in relationships are usually assholes and women usually aren't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:26 PM
3

Mine was before Covid, but yes it was the laptop not the virus lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:16 PM
6

You must be one of my friends 😬🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:11 AM
431

Yep, looking back Jim was kind of an asshole through the entire show. He also bought his parents house in secret because he knew Pam would say no if he asked her about it. How is that ok??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:06 AM
23

I reported that other comment you mentioned. Implying that leaving some earrings will make a HVM think you have an std is a incel-level reach IMO. That combined with a post they made about garlic healing their vagina makes me think they're larping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:18 PM
17

Don't spend so much energy being accommodating to men and worrying if they might be insulted by a completely harmless act. They certainly don't put themselves in our shoes like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:09 PM
43

If he's only seeing you then he'll probably text you as soon as he finds it to ask if you left it, that's the point. If he's seeing multiple women he might be too afraid to ask any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:02 PM
96

Aren't men usually the ones withholding sex in long term relationships because they're choosing to watch porn or cheat instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:01 PM
179

I had heard of doing this to let other potential women know you've been there, but I had never thought about testing for the man's reaction! Genius. The earrings thing might work even better if they're not a pair you were wearing that day so it's harder for him to remember who they came from if he's seeing multiple women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:59 PM
25

He used his sister to bait his gf into a red herring argument, while ALSO actually cheating? Doesn't this dude have a job or something to do all day other than drain women's energy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:02 PM
93

This is how all males are treated (equal/better than females despite being at least 40% worse) no matter who they are or what they do- sounds like this school is the only place to say it out loud lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:41 PM
13

You're welcome!! Keep in mind you CAN clear the history of the "purchased -> not on this iPhone" screen but I don't think you can alter the battery screen in any way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:27 PM
61

Just throwing in a little tid bit: on an iPhone if you go to settings -> battery you can see which apps someone has used in the last 24 hours or the last 10 days. If they have deleted an app they used it will show up as "deleted app". The real app will appear on the list to replace "deleted app" if you redownload whatever app it was!!! Very useful. Also if you go to the App Store -> click user profile pic -> purchased -> not on this device you can see which apps might be the deleted app. Keep in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:39 PM
36

What you did is valid! I bet if you had looked through his current phone you may have found even more. I know that sick feeling, felt it when I found screenshots of escort ads a couple weeks after moving away with him. You made the right choice and saved yourself from so much more hurt in the future. That gut feeling is primal instinct!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:15 PM
14

They try to act like there might be ~super confidential stuff~ on their phones. No, it's porn and sexting. They're not worried about you reading their mom's secret recipes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:59 PM
126

He lost his right to privacy when he decided he wants to literally enter your body This ☝🏼️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:49 AM
41

And that's a 2% success rate of the men who actually recognized that they had a problem (rare) and tried doing something about it (even more rare). God that's fucking depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:30 PM
29

I wonder how many couples out there have only had fights about porn usage/cheating. I certainly have been in relationships like that. A lot of these guys are decent partners and potentially HVM minus the porn use, it's pretty sad the grip porn has on our male society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:25 PM
35

So true. You see this on the other relationship subreddits when the OP is clearly in a horrible relationship and people will say "well don't break up with him before you try X" or "it wouldn't be fair to dump him for that". Newsflash, you can dump anyone for any reason and even for no reason at all! Also, "he is the love of my life so please don't suggest we break up!" girl your man sucks and there are 10 more waiting for a chance with you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:48 PM
152

Uh oh, sounds like another rapist wondering if we'd call him a rapist too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:41 PM
89

Probably testing the waters to see if she might say "oh haha how can you r*pe your own gf?" and then he'll use that as permission to do whatever he wants to her from then on out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:03 PM
24

I've seen that claim too- that women get just as much out of sex as men do so it's ridiculous for women to not have sex with them or to expect something from the man first. And if you disagree you must be having really boring vanilla sex 🤪 Let's assume that is true. Where can I go to buy safe sex from hot men who won't stalk me afterwards? That market must exist, right? Since women are just as into sex as men? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:10 PM
26

This was my first thought: why is he so unstable that he's changing what he does every couple months?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:04 PM
42

He probably wanted her efforts to go towards his account lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:49 PM
8

As if looking at IG models wasn't bad enough, following ones in the area you live is reallyyyy bad. That probably means he either found them originally through an escort ad site or he specifically searched insta for ones near him. At that point you can't even say it's "just looking"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:02 PM
5

Right. We don't need to be suspicious or for the relationship to be dying to look through his phone. It should be a standard vetting procedure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:48 PM
191

Have they ever stopped to consider that maybe the micro cheating is what CAUSED the insecurity issues to begin with? How maybe she thought she was beautiful until she found out her partner was jerking off to other women every day while passing up sex with her? WHY IS IT HER FAULT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:02 PM
105

This should be pinned, I have never seen a more thorough explanation before. Love it! I like how you also touched on "what if I ask him out?" because that's even worse. If you ask him out he'll assume you will be paying for 50%-100% of the date AND he will expect you to sleep with him immediately. Worst of both worlds! Not to mention men will say yes even if they don't like you, it sets a precedent that you are the one chasing him, and he'll brag to others about how a desperate chick asked him o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:00 PM
19

Yeah you articulated it better than I did. He's saving the money for his new life after she dies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:07 PM
84

Couples were all stuck at home together for the pandemic, yet birth rates are still down... hmmmmm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:57 PM
381

A REAL gamer girl is a cam girl who plays video games for a couple minutes at the beginning of the stream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:42 PM
156

I mean is it surprising that the members of a species who use all their energy masturbating to a screen instead of having sex (or improving themselves to move towards having sex) will soon die out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:29 PM
22

Nah, anything catering to p*dos is the real worst. I was just trying to think of another example of how OF content isn't the same as a regular nude you take in your bathroom mirror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:18 PM
51

Well whether it's for himself or for another woman it sounds like he has accepted that she may die so he is cutting off his contributions to their relationship (edit: not relationship, their MARRIAGE AND HOME) ahead of time. I can't even imagine the added trauma of having your husband abandon and resent you while you're dying of cancer. I wish I wasn't heterosexual so bad some days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:21 PM
31

I've seen photos leaked where the girls are nude, whole face and body in frame, with phrases like "dirty slut whore who wants to get rped by Tyler's Ngg*r dick!" sharpied all over themselves. I feel like that would be significantly more life ruining than a vag shot or even a tame porn scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:24 PM
80

He's saving his money for someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:19 PM
176

Make no mistake, there are groups of scrotes taking screen recordings, doxxing those women, and keeping extensive databases of their real names pictures and info etc. It's sad but we are already in a time where these things are PERMANENT permanent. Their names and pictures will be on internet lists until the day they die and then scrotes will joke about finding where they were buried. PSA, you can be submitted into lists like that by exes who have your nudes as well... I know lots of us have don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:03 PM
9

Anything a woman says in an argument is "feminism" and anything a man says in an argument is "logic". They kinda tell on themselves when they imply that logical thought is something they use when they're in an argument against women. I'd like to think I'm logical all day long most days and don't really feel the need to point it out to everyone as if I'm special for not being stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:33 PM
12

"Women will NEVER be equal to us because they will NEVER be as violent or depraved as we are! Checkmate feminists!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:16 PM
63

I've never understood what the point was supposed to be. Sure, you can punch a woman. You will either go to jail for it or maybe she'll have a gun with her and take care of you herself. Same as what would happen if you hit a man except you're less likely to get hit back? Plus men are already hitting women in the face all over the world and getting away with it. Ever heard of domestic violence? Kinda part of why we have feminism?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:57 PM
141

If women are equal, then I can punch them in face? CHECKMATE! Destroyed by logic 🤯 the whole room clapped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:45 PM
21

There is a subscription service you can use where they will find every site that has your info a couple times a year and submit removal requests! It's called Delete Me. Idk what happens if you stop paying the subscription though 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:25 AM
6

They probably aren't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:01 PM
27

Maybe a couple days from now she'll post an update where she announces that she has launched her own OF to get back at him. I totally believe the whole thing could be made up for promo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:35 PM
58

She's trying to compete with the porn. She knew she'd never make an account but still asked him about it to see if he thinks she could. She is begging her own bf to pick her :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:32 PM
25

Ew. Scrotes hitting themselves is one of the most disturbing and revolting things to see. It's like the ultimate biological red flag. I hope she can get the fuck out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:17 PM
25

Exactly. To any scrotes lurking who think they'll turn into a rich handsome playboy at 45: there are men your age ALREADY making that money and already at their peak. What makes you think you'll ever be leading the pack?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:47 PM
21

So trashy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:53 PM
50

So true. They spend so much time in their porn fantasy lands and then get upset when their real life starts rotting away beneath them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:51 PM
17

On one hand I think the scrotes would be even more mad if they knew how attractive I am, but, yeah that also makes them go after you crazier once they know what you look like... I'm not tryna get my house burnt down in the middle of the night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:48 PM
12

This is so true 😔 the knee jerk response for a lot of women (myself included) when you find out your bf/husband has been choosing porn over you is to try to compete with the porn. ALWAYS a losing battle and the porn will always win anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:46 PM
58

Literally every website and media that exists has been taken to advertise p*rn or prostitution 🙃 twitter and reddit are basically just for onlyfans ads. Why can't they stay on their own websites? It must be shoved down our throats at every corner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:41 PM
214

Those subs are hilarious. Have any of them ever been to a grocery store before? How about the DMV? To claim celebrity women are average means you have never been outdoors where you live lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:37 PM
9

They're less evolved and the link between their brain and penis is easily broken. And by "easily" I mean years of heavy porn consumption but that's considered normal now soo...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:17 AM
12

We hear a LOT about how "instagram" is ruining people's self esteem but is it really the app or is it the soft porn/SW catalogue that it has become?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:15 AM
20

Exactly. Plus if something goes wrong with her relationship and she doesn't become the step-mom I don't think she would have anything to fall back on or any part of her own identity left 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:34 PM
59

I have a friend from childhood who is dating a single father (not sure how often he has the kids but at least part time) and she has made being a (future) step-mom her entire persona now. She really loves those kids and I'm happy that she's happy but I can't help but wish she was focusing more on herself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:22 PM
209

None of my women friends or family members irl have ever bragged about liking ugly guys (they might like certain features that others find ugly, but not guys THEY THEMSELVES view as ugly). If they're dating an ugly guy they usually feel the need to explain his good qualities that make up for it. I don't believe that comment was written by a woman lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:59 PM
52

Yeah that's what their nice dinner should have cost that night after the engagement lol but go ahead bro, find someone else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:56 PM
224

Men be like "My (45M) wife (31F) is everything I could ever ask for and more. But here's the problem, she is not 18. How do I make sure I don't get divorce raped here?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:59 PM
13

Ain't it dark? 🎶🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:01 AM
75

They are weeding themselves out of the gene pool. These 20 something year old porn fried men who already have to bend and shove their limp dicks into a woman by hand are gonna have a helluva time trying to conceive once they settle down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:34 AM
217

BRUH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:08 PM
55

Imagine how much trash he can fit on that bed frame now with such an economically sized mattress!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:07 PM
50

I'd love to see this place a couple months from now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:02 PM
17

I've seen comments HERE saying that FAF makes us as bad as manosphere subs. Really makes you wonder who's behind the keyboard sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:03 PM
12

I got my first crisis hotline message! I gotta say these photos do take my breath away...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:34 PM
68

Don't forget the pickmes tripping over themselves to condemn the rest of us for this horrific act against men and against our own reputation. I can see why the mods might want to change the way this works (having one thread for the pics instead of individual posts, etc) but I don't think one day of shirtless men is going to "ruin FDS" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:00 PM
96

THE MORAL HIGH GROUND!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:36 PM
149

B-b-b-but posting a picture of Matthew McConaughey on the red carpet is just as bad!! What will the manosphere think of us now?? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:24 PM
52

There's a lot of butt hurt out there lately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:16 PM
10

What a sweet smile!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:48 PM
19

That leg!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:47 PM
18

Mods introduced Fine AF Fridays starting this week!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:29 PM
9

Yes his insta is CHEFS KISS 😘🤌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:39 PM
32

He's an actor and model who broke out from the Netflix show '13 Reasons Why'!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:35 PM
22

Sometimes I see people on here say "well my friend/sister/whoever found her husband on OLD so it's not ALL bad!". Like, sure, a man from OLD fell in love with your sister. I do believe that. But it doesn't change that he was originally on there looking for a free escort when he found her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:12 PM
15

More boys need to be taught "you get what you get and you don't throw a fit" growing up lol I mean a lot of them are gonna end up getting nothing at all but you get the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:17 PM
15

If we went "all natural" with no mrder/rpe laws (like how they fantasize) all non-Chads would be k*lled by the Chads in like a day. They don't even exist in their fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:57 PM
20

For them to have sexual selection skills would imply that there are women they'd reject attention from lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:54 PM
13

They have nothing to offer us these days but the audacity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:48 PM
44

The Red Pill is all about men trying to turn themselves into the choosers. They want as many women as possible in their orbit with as little effort as possible so that they will have the opportunity to choose for once. It's very unnatural and doesn't really work out for these guys because they have to literally create the inverse of a natural situation. It's like trying to reverse entropy. PLUS it's very easy to detect if a man is trying to use you to create this scenario for himself because the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:38 PM
55

Yes! I'm most comfortable in shorts and I don't get cold easily so I get asked "aren't you cold?" completely unprovoked from strangers in public at certain times of the year, usually from elderly people. I used to reply "haha, no I'm not cold" and would feel so weird after that I had felt the need to give a reply to such a stupid question. Now when I hear that question it's an automatic ignore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:26 PM
159

It took me way too long to learn that I don't have to talk to someone just because they're trying to talk to me. You don't have to say no to homeless beggars, to men asking for directions, to someone trying to ask you about your shirt/shoes/whatever... just pretend you can't even see them. It's easier than saying no and less likely to extend the interaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:21 PM
25

Even if their intentions are to get into a serious relationship, bragging about your material goods on a dating profile is literally begging for gold diggers who they claim to despise lol They hate gold diggers until they have something gold diggers want, then they LOVE gold diggers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:55 PM
110

If you ask a guy out he will say yes, sleep with you until he finds a woman he actually wants to pursue, and then brag about what happened to anyone who will listen for the rest of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:00 PM
36

Yep, if a guy has a ~quirky~ fake school listed as his education it can mean he has a complex about not being college educated and will try to neg you if you have a degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:52 PM
72

I would never put "owns a house" on my dating profile because I don't want guys to try to use me for a place to live or try to marry me just to take half of my house. But I see "homeowner" on men's profiles all the time... they have no problem with women using them for a place to stay as long as they can have sex with her lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:50 PM
47

Love it. Thank you for another banger. I sent this episode to my mom. She thinks I always have really good advice for her now, time for her to learn where it's all coming from! She's a Boomer herself so I think she will appreciate the commentary on how she dated as a young woman vs how she has to date now. Got her to read Why Men Love Bitches last year, we leveling up together 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:37 PM
19

I've had exes and male friends tell me that most prostitutes have a sex addiction and that's why it's such a good job for them bc they love what they do. That is the imagery in their heads we're up against... not just voluntary, but optimal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:33 PM
16

I have seen several sex workers being devastated when their own partners cheated on them and abused them, but somehow they hold not one ounce of empathy for the women whose husbands are their clients? You can't have it both ways! What the??? If you're gonna base your whole "career" and lifestyle on getting men to cheat how are you going to be affected by cheating... like dude you've joyfully helped give tens if not hundreds of women the feeling of being cheated on, your turn bitch...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:15 PM
5

If he is now 28, above average looking, with his life together, why do the past 8 years matter? Why can't he find a 28 year old woman with her life together now? These dudes are so focused on losing out on chances to be with younger women they're letting their life tick away before their eyes. Soon he'll be 35 wishing the 28 year old women would respond to him instead of 28 wishing the 20 year olds would reply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:01 PM
43

I think they hate that we're the choosers and they're our dancing monkeys waiting to get chose. Combine that with the fact that for a lot of men, sex/relationships is their only life goal and the only thing they have going for them. Then it makes sense why Red Pillers exist, they want to find a way to turn themselves into the choosers by trying to get as many women as possible. Unfortunately their shit never works out because it's just not natural for men to be the choosers, they have to put WAY…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:53 PM
29

I mean, this sub is full of stories like hers. She took a look, called it a dumpster fire, and jokingly offered to teach us how to get married. I think a bit of roasting is appropriate but of course if she decides to come to the sub (which I hope she does!) she will be welcomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:31 PM
76

Yeah issa lie. He's telling that to the prostitute meanwhile the wife has probably tried everything to get him to start sleeping with her again not knowing this is the reason he stopped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:57 PM
44

The lurkers wouldn't be so upset if the descriptions didn't seem almost universally accurate to them 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:54 PM
73

Oh no... This dumpster fire has the house and the career she's worked on for years in her own name at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:25 PM
59

Yep she needs to leave him and take a portion of THEIR business with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:05 PM
79

This is where they go after living in mom's basement til their 40s :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:48 PM
63

Yep, they are providing tons of engagement which is actually really good for the sub and post metrics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:43 PM
105

Agreed. You can be married for 15 years with 4 kids and bam, one day your husband has picked up a diaper fetish and wants you to pretend he's a baby during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:17 PM
72

It's only going to get worse for them if it hits the front page of Peddit. There are a looooot of upvotes and comments on this post for only being 2 hours old...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:14 PM
205

The existence of single women is proof that some women would rather be alone than be with a low or negative value man. They can't comprehend it since to them ANY woman will automatically add value to their life just for being a woman. They hate that women have inherent value and they don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:01 PM
71

Name The Problem 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:07 PM
161

I first saw someone calling this site Peddit (as in p*do plus reddit), I didn't even realize til now that Pedditor also sounds like predator hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:59 PM
47

I'm talking about the post we're commenting on right now, not the post in the screenshot. Idk where the screenshot is from, sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:56 PM
212

This brings it back to the 80/20 rule again. 80% of women meet this criteria and only 20% of men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:40 PM
345

It clearly struck a nerve with a lot of pedditors who relate a little too much to the description 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:36 PM
129

Even male animals can survive without sex and it's their only purpose. Shouldn't human males be more evolved than that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:14 PM
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50 comments so far and only 10 are visible... this is gonna be a good one 🤡🎪🎡 Edit: we're up to 100 and still only 10-15 comments are visible. Keep going scrotes!! Lmfaoooo you know your comments will push this to the front page?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:03 PM
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Literally... without a woman or family LVM's entire lives are going to work, masturbating surrounded by trash, and slowly rotting away to be forgotten. No contribution to society, just sucking up resources and harassing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:59 PM
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If I like a man I will ask HIM on a date 🤪 it's such a turn on and they always sleep with me afterwards! In other subreddit: I just got ghosted by the 10th guy in a row, what am I doing wrong?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:46 PM
14

If you watch her tik toks about this it's even more disturbing than these screenshots imply. He googled "daughter rape" like 10 times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:48 PM
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Thank you porn industry and sex workers for teaching these men that it would be hot to rape their daughters 💕 what a positive impact on society 🦋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:39 PM
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Imagine the reaction if it was a teen boy who found out his mom had been masturbating to "MILF pegs teen son and r*pes him until he cries". The internet would probably try to get her arrested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:28 PM
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L
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:21 AM
9

Omg noooo that is so sad 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:36 PM
17

One man I've had sex with had a significantly bigger dick than any other guy I've seen. Think baby arm soda can elephant trunk. After he put it in, he said "you're so tight are you a virgin" and I started laughing a bit at the absurdity of what he said. There's no way any vagina in the world wouldn't be tight to that guy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:34 PM
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Out in the real world we have a name for guys like this: pedophiles How do people get so disconnected from reality? Could a 21 year old woman really need to ask the internet if it's ok for her to not want to roleplay child r*pe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:29 PM
73

Don't you know, everyone takes sexy solo beach photoshoots of their opposite sex cousin on family trips!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:26 PM
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Yeah, even if the female cousin had a legitimate reason for wanting the photos taken (she's a wanna be insta model, etc) which is probably not the case, it's extremely rude not to suggest he take some pics of OP too!! I mean they're both gross and probably incestuous as it seems they both enjoyed excluding OP. I can't believe an answer like this is controversial on reddit. Go in real life and any normal person would say the same. Go on reddit and get gaslit to hell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:21 PM
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Omg I'm so happy she ended it and is back safe with her parents 🥺 I love seeing today's teen girls making good decisions and being smarter than I was!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:13 PM
8

Exactly! Most guys are Chads on the inside, would you rather have a hot Chad or an ugly Chad 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:35 PM
13

I have an ex who cheated on me with some, so they did have a John I fucked for free 🤮😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:47 AM
16

It's weird for a first conversation with a potential future partner to be while walking. You can't see their face very well or make much eye contact, it may be hard to hear each other at times, etc. Have they ever thought maybe it's not ONLY about it being free vs paid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:45 AM
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Step 1: get a girlfriend who is way above you and out of your league Step 2: cheat on and neglect her to soothe your insecurity about having a gf who is better than you A tale as old as time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:37 AM
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Good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:31 AM
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Being alone with a man you don't know is not safer than being completely alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:05 AM
40

Sometimes I wonder if they're just doing the pickme thing as a reddit survival tactic. A woman who isn't familiar with any women-centric subs and only hangs out in defaults/male subs might feel like she has to throw a pickme line into any comment she posts just to avoid getting shit on for being a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:59 AM
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Dude someone on there commented "FDS has this weird obsession where all their dates have to take them out for dinner and pay for it" Hol up Isn't that, like, the most commonly accepted definition of a date across the globe? Am I crazy or is that literally what a date usually is? LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:17 AM
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"A walk is a low effort, often unsafe idea for a first date." = "If you like walking and holding hands with your boyfriend you have low standards"? What a reach. Sounds like a man tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:59 AM
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He looks like somehow his entire body sags downward, head to toe. I think the baggy clothes don't help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:46 AM
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Don't you know, those guys only have to turn to prostitutes because their wives are frigid harpies who deny them sex! 👹 Most of the Johns only want to cuddle and talk anyway 💕🦋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:38 AM
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A lot of the LVM reading FDS quickly recognize that they're low value for legitimate reasons but instead of taking it as a reality check and turning their lives around they'd rather spread "you have to be 6', 6", and 6 figures or you're a LVM!" all over every other sub to discourage people from taking us seriously and coming to the same conclusion he did about himself. Gotta protect those egos 🤕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:22 AM
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They really were mad about Adam Sandler earlier 😂 if you search reddit for "FDS" or go to FDSSuperFans you can see there has been a lot of commotion in the past day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:10 AM
21

Don't forget the anecdote about how 5 years ago a woman asked HIM out and it was such a turn-on! What was her name again?? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:42 PM
20

I don't feel any empathy or sisterhood for anyone who identifies as a "sex worker" - aka the ones who wake up every day and not only choose willingly to continue down the path they're on but virtue signal online about it. I hope each of them can and will turn their lives around one day and ask for help if they need it. But until then I will lump them in as complicit abusers of women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:22 PM
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They're buying the roleplaying almost moreso than they're buying the sex. They can get sex for free from their partners :/ without her playing the role it wouldn't be a business at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:12 PM
144

How many children have been born with stds because their dad was secretly buying sex while mom was pregnant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:14 PM
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privacy left alone Not phrases one would usually associate with being a prostitute 😬 don't they normally advertise on public listing sites? Plus twitter, snapchat, and reddit? Prostitution is constantly in your face if you use the internet in any capacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:59 PM
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Isn't half the shtick of men buying a prostitute the roleplaying that his wife/gf is so evil and the prostitute would just lOooOoOOVee 💕 to take care of him in her place? I kinda doubt any of them would ever give that part up 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:15 PM
24

hahaha good luck finding a man Oh no! Anyways...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:39 PM
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"They need help dating but don't want to take any advice from men!" They misunderstand the purpose of the sub since for men dating is all about trying to find as many women as possible (or even just one woman) to give them a chance. FDS is about maximizing female benefit and raising your own value and standards, not about attracting more men. Most of the women here have been in long term relationships before or are currently in a relationship. It's not an inability to find a date lol. But yes, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:13 PM
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They warn us about "The Wall" meanwhile any woman of any age can just type "I'm a single woman with no kids and a job" and have suitors lined up immediately lmao. Good for your friend for not being a free nanny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:04 PM
34

"She was just always bitching about everything!" Translation: "she was unhappy the entire time we were together"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:49 AM
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It's literally advertising that 1) he's willing to knock up women he isn't 100% serious about, 2) he will not stick around after, and 3) some of them even include pictures of the child?? 🤢 pics of your child on an app full of horny men? Bro. ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:29 PM
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They believe sex is something a man does to a woman until a woman gets pregnant, then she's the one who did the sex to him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:22 PM
116

It's like how every woman has a friend who has been raped but no man has a rapist friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:48 PM
69

E X A C T L Y! It takes two to tango but it takes one to seal the deal....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:42 PM
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Agreed. If I can avoid hearing it at all I would but sometimes it's a coworker, family member etc who is looking for a response from you. I used to actually believe some of those stories but now??? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:21 PM
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More than likely he changed his age range on the app to show all women 18+ (or ONLY women 18-20, etc) instead of picking a range around his own age. I think that's what they meant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:51 PM
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I think it has to be fake. If it was real why would he include anything about the condo?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:45 PM
20

Reminds me of oilfield. The guys all tell their wives that they're surrounded by only men and doing manual labor for 12 hours at a time when in reality it can be more like a whole second life. They will find a "girlfriend" in whatever town they're staying in that week. The wives usually are SAHMs to multiple children and the men expect to be worshipped on the days they get to go home. One I knew would drop off his laundry to his wife and bragged that he has never touched a dishwasher since he go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:14 PM
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He went through some mental trauma during her pregnancy that made him ~unable~ to be in there. And now she's pregnant with their second child. Please have standards for who y'all reproduce with I'm begging... he was too traumatized to witness your birth but he's not too traumatized to get you pregnant again? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:53 PM
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I just last night got down voted to hell on a default sub for saying I would feel betrayed if my husband chose not to be in the delivery room during my birth. Apparently that makes me super evil 😂 it's soo obvious that the majority of reddit is young men who have never even considered a woman's issue or perspective in their lives. Ladies, don't you dare ask your husband to be there for you during birth or you're a needy bitch!! Think of his mental health, what might happen to him if he sees you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:44 PM
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It's simpler than that, they probably just aren't single. They're sneaking onto the app sporadically to try to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:52 AM
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She enforced her personal standards which is always the right thing to do. Her standards may seem high to some, but that's the point. She wants to filter out a lot of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:24 PM
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"Is it normal for a guy to not want to put a label on things but comes over all the time for free food and sex?" Yes. Yes that is what they all want. You're not supposed to indulge it 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:05 PM
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and will pay for the services of a much younger male accordingly. What do you mean by this part? What services?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:16 PM
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I'm trying to imagine how fucking a giant, immobile piece of silicone could possibly be any better than just using your own hand. They have to keep their eyes closed to pretend it's real, right? Or do they just watch porn while they do it anyway? Is it just a porn addiction with extra steps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:34 PM
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A fairly wholesome screenshot is what set them off?? Also, my relentless comments are good for something? 😳😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:30 PM
25

Peddit good, whamen bad 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:25 PM
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Yeah, it's hard to explain because it seems illogical to be put off by someone else's act of kindness. But there's the clout chasing/ego stroking part of it, plus for my story in particular I was thinking why would he do that when she obviously could just call her parents to help instead? He WANTED to do it for his own reasons, she didn't really need his help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:22 PM
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I have an ex who told me a story about how he once picked up a stranded teenage girl in a parking lot to help her change her car battery and he also paid for the battery for her (not someone he knew, just a random girl he saw in the lot). He didn't understand why I wasn't impressed? Damsel in distress stories kinda gross me out when you know the guy would never go out of his way for someone he didn't want to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:27 PM
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"Babe why don't you like her, she wants to be friends with you!" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:24 PM
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Yes! I have been wanting to make a new fresh FDS account forever but it's daunting knowing I may not even get approved again and will have to build myself up etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:34 PM
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Yep, it's just an easy out to avoid punishment or ridicule for their crimes. The ultimate coward move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:57 PM
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Men commit die because they think they deserve more female attention than they get, they got caught raping a underage family member, or they have ptsd from killing other men. All mega snowflake reasons. Who gives a fuuuuuuuck lol Edit: looking back this was kind of harsh, but it's true that male suicide is mostly driven by them having committed an unforgivable or unforgettable crime or act against society. Pedos, rapists, and war criminals make up most of the fallen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:29 PM
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I just LOVE sex 🤪 with strangers especially! I'm the luckiest bitch alive to get paid to do what I love 💅🔥 Then they switch back to the SW subreddit to ask for advice after getting stealthed for the 3rd time that week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:49 PM
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The vast majority of OF content creators will never reach the income of a minimum wage job and eventually give up, but they will have a catalogue of their naked body and degrading acts online forever. Girls are signing up on their 18th birthdays every day- it's over. The market is way too saturated for them to even get by anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:20 PM
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"we want to find something that works for both of you" Hmmm... how about the two of them only have sex with each other and not with a screen? Could they try that? How is there going to be a compromise when the man's porn addiction is literally the reason they aren't having sex? Why is the woman even at therapy with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:59 PM
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I like this. A man who doesn't actively harm anyone but says "not all men" is a 0. Maybe it will help lurkers understand that even if they aren't breaking the law or abusive they can still be worthless to us if they aren't adding to our lives 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:10 PM
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I am currently in a committed relationship so same- just here to have a laugh. It's also good for my confidence and helps me make sure I don't float back towards pickme. I love everyone's comments and posts on here so much 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:53 PM
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Also what happened to sex/your sexual side being largely a private thing and also not your entire identity? This part.... why are you dressed up in your chains and collars for Twitter and Facebook? Ma'am this is a Wendy's. We don't give a fuck how kinky you think you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:19 PM
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Such a funny lyric coming from a 17 year old boy. You've probably been watching hardcore porn since you were 10 and will have ED by your 18th bday. Who's gonna wife you anyway??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:03 PM
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A piece of advice I see thrown around here a lot that honestly changed my mindset so much is that even if he could be with his favorite porn star he would still jerk off to porn of someone else! It's nothing to do with the quality of the woman as a sexual partner and everything to do with getting the rush of feeling like he's cheating. If it were possible to identify the most "perfect" woman on the planet men would still cheat on her and hide shit from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:41 AM
10

He just explained how adults are supposed to do household chores...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:18 PM
6

I find the idea of what their day to day lives might be like a way more uncomfortable thought than what the men raping them might refer to them as. "People are dying, Kim" kind of thing in my opinion...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:22 PM
18

Thank you for sharing that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:05 PM
20

Same way some people will refuse to watch a movie if a dog dies of old age in it, but women (especially prostituted women) being murdered is just a normal plot line in CSI shows or mob movies...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:41 PM
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I don't think which term we use online is the biggest concern for these women tbh. If you search this sub for posts about SW it's very clear that we are against glamorizing the industry, not against supporting the participants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:38 PM
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We know it's not to feel special, it's to soften the reality of prostitution as being "not much different from stripping or camming". If you think allowing random men into your body by choice or by force isn't much different than sitting on your bed alone in lingerie with a webcam Idk what else to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:00 PM
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Idk what you mean, this post is about animals not humans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:23 PM
58

Oh deer 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:05 PM
141

That would be so empowering 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:48 PM
71

The lions who live in Africa and have to actually hunt for their food instead of getting it for free are probably sooo jealous 😩 In this economy, hunting for food is just as exploitative as sitting in a cage for food!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:47 PM
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It's sterilizing it (prostitution) because you just implied that strippers and prostitutes are both "sex workers". Those are two VERY different things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:40 PM
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Calling prostitutes "Sex Workers" is like calling the lions and the penguins at the zoo "Zoo Workers". Sure it's cute for Twitter but kinda ingenuine no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:37 PM
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Don't you know it's harder for men because they NEED to spend 75% of their income on p*rn 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:42 PM
5

I'm in my 20s and have a STEM degree/career, my student loans are paid off, and I have a house. This dude would shit his pants and cry if he met me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:40 PM
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They need more laborer men to build all the houses us young women are buying up lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:38 PM
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If he had a labor job he wouldn't be talking down about them like that because you're right- they're pretty highly paid a lot of times. I'm betting he has no job or fast food or something. We certainly know he wouldn't qualify for a house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:12 PM
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He's trying to objectify the very women who he just said are doing way better in their lives than he is!!! The irony!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:45 PM
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Context: I had to crop the title of his post out to remove the name of the website and his username- but the title implies what triggered his post was him watching a YouTube video about how to buy a house and noticing that all the comments below the video were young women getting ready to buy houses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:35 PM
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I had a similar thought... how exactly is he wasting his money on impressing women? I'm assuming that is referring to OF/Twitch streamers and not everyday women. Also, yes you can make VERY good money working blue collar jobs as a young man if you are healthy and have a good work ethic. Women who don't go to college don't have as many high paying career options as men who don't go to college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:25 PM
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Wow, thank you so much for putting that together. That's very interesting. It seems safe to say that if a man gets HIV from outside of his marriage it's unlikely he will give it to his wife through vaginal sex but just as likely he could give it to her through anal sex as if he was giving it to another man? Getting HIV from a cheater has always been a huge fear of mine so I feel a bit better knowing it's not very likely. Also another reason to avoid anal if I'm understanding this correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:14 PM
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Which is a higher risk for HIV: being with a man who cheats on you with other men or a man who cheats on you with escort women? I'm not trying to make any point or anything, legit just curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:01 PM
7

Their plan is the underage to single mom pipeline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:40 PM
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Every dad who is behind in child support by a certain amount or actively avoiding making the payments should all be sent to a remote/guarded island together. They don't deserve to see women or children at all anymore once they have failed us like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:42 PM
41

Imagine listening to this guy complain about his situation in court, knowing that your next 5 cases that week are for dads not paying child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:48 PM
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Imagine being born all because your dad wanted to trap your mom, and then you don't even get to have your mom and your dad only sees you as a failed ploy to complain about on reddit 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:46 PM
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If she was emotionally manipulated into going along with this from the start that makes it even more badass that she was able to make such a firm boundary from the birth onwards 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:39 PM
9

What video/episode is this from? I like Danny and Kurtis, curious to see how Danny was acting based on your description!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:30 PM
89

Omg he wanted to Uno reverse card her into being the single parent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:23 PM
80

normal married single mother Deceased 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:20 PM
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The only differences between her and a surrogate: 1. She gets no compensation and then pays HIM for 18 years 2. he got to have casual sex with her a few (?) times first Like if she was willing to do all that she could have been compensated to the tune of 100k+ and no strings attached if she had just done it for a stranger instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:06 PM
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Tbh I do kinda think the story could be fake for that reason. It is a HUGE gift financially, physically, and emotionally she supposedly gave a man that she didn't even want to be with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:48 PM
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He thought she would change her mind once the baby was born and mommy bangmaid him. You can tell he's still very interested in what she's up to and how her body is looking... he doesn't even give a fuck about the kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:41 PM
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Almost reads like he was hoping her body would be more damaged so she'd be "forced" to stay with him 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:39 PM
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I kinda thought so, but in this story the woman pays 125% child support. Normally their point would be "child support is theft!". Edit: after some more thought I do think it's fake, but only because I refuse to believe any real woman would take up this free surrogate plus child support deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:20 PM
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He basically got a FREE surrogate except the surrogate is also paying him child support. The majority of single mothers don't even get their child support money...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:19 PM
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There are still innocent wives and girlfriends getting HIV like that, once the vaccine is available (I heard there was a break thru recently?) I'm getting it bc I don't trust any of these sickos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:43 PM
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This was the first thing my mom told me after I started birth control! I didn't listen but she was right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:12 PM
39

Prostitution is pay-to-rape, so she was raped whether she received her payment or not. Maybe that regretful feeling when realizing she wasn't even paid that time opened her eyes slightly to what she was allowing to be done to her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:45 PM
13

Men don't have high standards for women, but they prefer women who have high standards for men (or at least the highest he can reach)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:45 PM
25

He'll look for a woman with higher standards who would never date a broke guy! This is one of the many reasons why we need to have high standards always. Men want to be with women whose standards they just barely meet, so set them high!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:59 PM
80

In real life as soon as he gets super-rich he dumps his girl and goes back to the gold diggers anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:42 PM
110

Yepp. LVM know that they're low value, and if you're dating/married they see you as LV too just for being with them. If a LVM levels up at all, even slightly, he will want a new prize even if you were already better than him to begin with. Edit: isn't it funny how people on other parts of peddit always say "most men will leave FDS women and go for someone with lower standards", when in real life men are always looking to upgrade to a woman with higher standards? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:39 PM
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Oh yikes, she asked him out and had to double text to even get a reply, and his reply wasnt really a resounding yes 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:27 PM
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No mention of what his father was up to during this time, either...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:04 PM
107

They really will talk and ogle over prostitution from any angle and perspective other than the victim's, won't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:48 PM
7

I don't get how anyone can think there is consent involved. A guy comes to her house with $200 and they will have sex. What do you think happens if he shows up without the $200? They wouldn't have sex, because she never wanted to in the first place. Now, what if you put your boot on her neck and say "I'll take the boot off if you let me have sex with you" and she says yes. It's the same thing. How is it consent???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:53 PM
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I agree with your comment. Just wanted to point out that FDS is one of the subs that suggests using the word prostitute over "sex worker" too. It's not disrespectful, it's just reality. The term sex worker was created to glamorize prostitution and trafficking, not the other way around. I think if you want to get fully PC while still fully FDS the best term would be "prostituted woman".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:49 PM
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"sex workers of reddit, tell me the most horrifying experiences you put up with so i can get some fresh ideas!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:45 PM
10

Yep, and that's assuming you don't get assaulted that day. Beaten, injured, stealthed by guys with stds, or murdered. But it's sOooOo fulfilling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:22 PM
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They will never make the connection. Those threads don't help either, it's a bunch of LARPers pretending to be happy prostitutes. Half of them barely even have to get naked and mostly just talk and cuddle with the poor lonely men. The other half are nymphomaniacs who just can not ever get enough sex and live a lavish life filled with great sexual experiences. In real life they tell Johns both of these things- every prostitute claims she isn't penetrated very often and she just really LOVES sex w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:52 AM
50

Well you aren't allowed to rape your therapist to make yourself feel better so it's not really a good option for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:48 PM
34

If he's crying it's because of how disgusted he is with himself to have just had sex with her and he still probably imagines she's going to fall in love with him for it 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:18 PM
4

Yep, the single mom/SAHM/divorcee hate makes way more sense now. The manosphere guys assume that by default all women are unemployed and actively looking for a man to provide for them. Could this be projecting since men are the ones always looking for women to have sex with? In their fantasy land women are either unemployed but getting free money from men they're in relationships with, or "whores" who instead get their free money from random men on the internet. They could never accept that not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:47 PM
54

I'm sure some johns might cry while they're there (lol) but he's not leaving without doing as much damage to her holes as he can muster himself to do. That's what he paid for after all. So sick I kinda grossed myself out typing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:33 PM
161

I'm pretty sure the "he paid just to talk/cuddle/cry!" stories are 100% fake. It's propaganda to make the industry look better. Every John who goes to a prostitute is going there to rape her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:33 PM
13

I think this speaks to how deeply men dehumanize women, to the point that her economic reality doesn't even exist for him. Wow. I've been on here for a while and this is the first time I've considered this but you're so right. They only care about how fuckable a woman is to the point that they can't even imagine she is a real person who has a job and bills etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:29 PM
25

I don't think they meant it as a last second "women can be harrassers too!", I think it was more just a super outlandish unexpected end. But I agree they could've ended it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:57 PM
21

Haha what the heck? She is a free sugar baby to this dude literally. They've been together 3 years, he's mega rich, and doesn't even help her with any of her bills or tuition?? Either he's lying and not as rich as he says or this whole story is fake because whaaaaat 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:36 AM
4

They prefer it that way. When he was saying "it's not like that" he probably meant "it's fine, I don't even see them as human, they could die after for all I care" Edit: there is some kind of phenomenon where dudes will compile clips of porn videos where the woman has "dead eyes" or looks like she wants to disassociate from the hell on earth her body is being subjected to. So yes, they like it and are fully aware it's not always "just acting".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:40 PM
7

It's just a fantasy but now he can't perform IRL 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:35 PM
8

He'll have to comply at some point if he doesn't want to be impotent for the rest of his life lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:22 PM
14

Another good one is "it's all fictional, they're just acting". As if the fact that he prefers to ejaculate by hand to women and children being abused is now voided and it doesn't say anything about his character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:17 PM
10

The dude in OPs story is going to have some serious post nut clarity after he gets home and realizes what he did...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:48 AM
68

He would have cheated on her either way, but at least now she can move on easier since they never had sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:12 PM
72

Even before I found FDS, this was the exact reason I found online dating so useless too. How am I supposed to form a natural attraction or a "crush" on a complete stranger when we're both meeting up HOPING to like each other? It's like everything feels fake and forced because it is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:54 PM
61

Yep, when a guy can tell you're not interested as you're leaving it sometimes gets uncomfortable or even dangerous. I had a guy try to stop me from leaving his house before (yes, back in college I would go to the houses of guys I didn't intend to sleep with. I'm lucky nothing bad ever happened to me for this) and demand a yes or no on whether I would see him again, he wouldn't take a maybe. It only took that one time for me to never go to a strangers house alone again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:37 PM
76

He probably brought up random shit he has in his house every 2 minutes during the whole walk lmao "wanna see my puppy?", "I have candy, what kind of candy do you like?" hoping something would get her in there. I'd be so scared
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:06 PM
107

Guys who have only been with escorts have no idea how regular people date. He's probably used to putting money on the table and getting pounced on and confused as to at what point this girl is going to pounce on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:40 PM
147

Yes! He definitely got rejected trying to get her into his house after the walk and left that part out of the story. She probably had to give some bs like "let's maybe hang out again next week!" to feel safe and blocked him before he even texted her. He sent the text thinking she'd beg for another chance with him if he pretended he was the one rejecting her and not vice versa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:33 PM
3

All I did was call you a David dobrick fan since that's your only post history lmfao why are you trying to get me kicked off the sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:56 PM
4

I do agree with most of the callout, there was a period of time where every h3 episode for weeks straight had some sort of porn/OF segment or caller and I fucking hatedddd it. Wow cool, some girl and her boyfriend are kinky, let's talk about it for 45 minutes? Ugh. I think once they got backlash for the Zach stuff they backed off the sexual content so it's pretty watchable to me again. But I prefer Frenemies, that show is definitely held to a higher standard because of Trisha and the lack of Zac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:12 PM
2

Thank you haha I was starting to worry I had done something really wrong?? But I think they're just a troll account, if you look at their comments history they're all a bit excessively hateful.. Edit: I think they're vote manipulating too, hopefully they get banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:50 PM
53

This should be a pinned post, people jump to "female incels" the second this sub is mentioned anywhere. Part of FDS is about realizing we have practically unlimited dating options so I don't see the correlation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:31 PM
2

You came into a thread full of women who have obviously watched the H3 podcast to say that everyone who watches the podcast is an incel. It was pretty rude. I don't need to prove anything to you as my history speaks for itself but I hope you can learn to get along with people better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:10 PM
2

What? You think all that about me because I also watch a really popular podcast that everyone here is talking about? I'm not sure what I did to upset you but sorry. Mods go ahead and check my history since I'm sure this person probably reported me lmao Also, I've been in this sub for over a year and your account is less than a month old with no history except one FDS post and a David dobrick post. So I mean... just chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:50 PM
3

Of course <3 maybe if they do read it, Hila can be honest and tell Ethan which parts of the post she agrees or disagrees with because he does deserve a bit of a call out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:47 PM
2

They are multi millionaires, neither of them do chores or childcare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:32 PM
4

Yeah honestly this post kinda seems like OP is trying to bait them into talking about us which is weird but whatever. Sundays are the days to make a scene if you want to get onto Frenemies on Monday so she got that part right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:10 PM
2

Umm ok 😅 Edit: oooo a David dobrick fan? Makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:08 PM
8

I can't, I hated the porn segments enough to complain on their sub haha. Makes me physically cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:45 PM
26

As a fan of the H3 podcast, I'm sad that they will definitely read this post on the show and paint FDS as crazy man haters now. I don't really want to see these worlds collide BUT we'll see what happens I guess! Free publicity for us at least. Edit: I do agree that all the attention they were putting on SW/OF for a while was weird and cringe, I actually made a post about it on the h3 sub and people seemed to mostly agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:35 PM
142

There is a huge population of single men who become legal adults but never make an adult life for themselves. It's WAY more rare to see this in single women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:50 PM
31

It is so common for a man to move you into the Madonna box and never touch you again the second you move in together or get married (whichever is first). He will turn down any sexual advance you make but be trying desperately to find fuck buddies on his phone all day at work. And then like you said, he will act like everything is fine! He's just too tired for sex, or maybe it's your fault! No problems here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:41 PM
11

Yep, he will still prefer the porn. Next he'll say "well maybe if you lived with me I wouldn't need it". She moves in and he starts hiding in the bathroom every night to be with the porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:29 PM
11

Why not legalize prostitution and then these acts can be included in your job description? /s 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:10 PM
17

The only women I know from my old high school who look worse now (mid-late 20s) versus at 17 are the ones who gained a significant amount of weight or had a significant health decline either through their own fault or unfortunate circumstances. Everyone else looks way better now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:06 PM
6

This mindset started so early for me. As soon as I was 20/21 I started being jealous of high schoolers. Now I'm in my mid 20s and I think I'm finally getting over it. I mean, I have a degree, a job, a dog, and a house... I don't need to be jealous of youth anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:35 PM
21

I've seen people trying to say that if you assume the victims were "sex workers" or the parlor was a brothel then you're racist and part of the problem 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:36 PM
15

"Babe it's just acting I would never have sex with my step-sister like in porn, it just makes me ejaculate when I imagine that I am!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:54 PM
31

It's not "basically fictional". If one of those women DM'd him asking to meet up, he would. If she had a 'menu' in her bio he would buy her services. Nothing fictional about it to him, "fictional" is a cope/gaslight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:54 PM
8

You would think with all the "hot milfs in your area!" fake/scam ads they see on their favorite websites they would be able to spot a similar ad by now... these catfish are just a different version of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:01 PM
28

This is what blows my mind. In every city and town in the US (and i would assume most countries) men have 24/7 access to buy cheap sex from a variety of women. HOW IS THAT NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR THEM?! WHY?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:26 PM
24

I'm sorry but I am sooo fucking disgusted by men I don't know how I can even be straight anymore. Men get a rub and tug on every corner of every town on earth and raping those women isn't enough, they must also be MURDERED? This honestly is giving me such a grim outlook of society rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:21 PM
2

Final boss pickme literallyyy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:09 PM
2

For real, imagine you made him his favorite dinner that night and he misses it because he's complaining to a prostitute about how horrible you are LOL fuck!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:03 PM
24

If men didn't have prostitutes and porn, dead bedrooms wouldn't exist because they would do whatever it takes to have sex with their wife/girlfriend and be happy doing it. Complaining about a dead bedroom while paying to fuck someone else, huh??? side note: who wants to have sex with a guy who has been seeing escorts? Talk about a panic attack when you realize your husband and therefore YOU likely have whatever diseases your town's prostitutes have... a woman who played by the rules and gave her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:37 PM
15

And who exactly is he scared of? Other men, I assume? So he agrees we should be afraid of men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:43 PM
10

It's a complete lie they tell that ugly men can't cheat with physical women. There are prostitutes in every city or town on earth- fucking ugly men in relationships every day.. It's their main customer base. They are only a Google search away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:09 PM
6

I thought those posts were weird as hell too (especially the one recommending zapping your labia with a laser..), but please don't forget that some women actually do look like that naturally. I don't think my p*ssy looks like an unaroused child 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:12 PM
82

It also can mean "I delete the dating app every night when I get home from work to my family and I don't want you to pick up on that"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:27 PM
5

I don't think most men who say things like that even care about being body shamed. They already know that the way they look has little to no effect on their life. If they cared about how they looked then they would look way better on average. They're only complaining about it to try to derail or deflect the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:30 PM
5

The number of men who don't see women as other humans until/unless they have a daughter is basically the exact issue this post is about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:24 PM
12

Exactly... most men don't even view "sex workers" as real life people. how TF is making yourself subhuman empowering? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:16 PM
35

True, but I don't think women forced into the industry by poverty are the ones calling it empowering and pretending to love it. Also, you can "not afford to be proud" and not have to resort to prostitution. Most waitstaff, fast food, etc. hate their jobs but would be in poverty without them too. Now of course for people who are trafficked and/or can not legally work in the US it is a whole other story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:12 PM
59

Omg this dude looks exactly like Jenna Marbles dressed as a man Edit: this comment got me flagged? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:26 PM
1

You can avoid both those issues by asking for consent and always wearing a condom/getting a vasectomy. If you nut in a woman and she keeps the baby, that's your own fault as much as it is hers.
/r/askFDS31/08/20 01:05 PM
4

Yes! An extra firm bed with lots of big fat pillows 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:00 PM
7

I'd rather get nagged at than murdered or raped
/r/askFDS29/08/20 04:31 PM
14

That's not what violent crime statistics say
/r/askFDS26/08/20 03:09 AM
33

A guy friend once told me the story of "the most awkward thing he ever witnessed". One of his relatives who lived a few states away had to evacuate his home before a storm, and when the relative got to my friends house he broke down crying worrying about his house getting destroyed. That's it, that's the story. Men are not capable of empathy, sometimes not even towards other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:20 PM
17

Agree completely. Men who have that "mask off" creepy asshole mode, or even complete abusers, don't show it around their friends and family! I think as women we don't exaggerate how many shitty men there are, we're just the only ones who get the pleasure of seeing them act that way...
/r/askFDS16/08/20 03:42 PM
14

Way more men turn to prostitutes than you might think. In my area (in the US where it's strictly illegal) each town has at least 3-4 handjob parlors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:50 PM
8

Yeah men don't have the Bob the builder mentality, however much together your shit is before getting into a relationship it's gonna either stay the same or decrease lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:49 PM
12

It's not even just that, if you're trying to date before you "have your shit together" men can sniff that out from a mile away and will swoop in to help (use) you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:15 PM
3

Well, would you date without having your shit together by your definition?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:45 PM
16

Based on the title and the part about how she "could have had support from a partner" I don't think she's just talking about being gorgeous and rich before dating, but maybe it's just an exaggeration. Of course no one is perfect but the title really sends a bad message imo. "Having your shit together" to me usually means having a job, roof over your head, and being in control of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:32 PM
2

Omg, same with this exact same song. I heard it and liked it but then realized it was making me soft lmao. I started thinking "yea I probably would go over 🥺 ". Barf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:05 AM
4

It was deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:03 PM
12

Yes, it does feel insensitive to say but she definitely dodged a bullet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:19 PM
31

If men were the ones who get pregnant they'd probably give male babies some kind of reversible bc at birth, and to reverse it when they were ready for kids they'd go through a court and have tons of legal protection and probably government grants and parades lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:42 PM
23

Yes, I think in this day and age it's a huge risk to have a baby with a man! No matter how high value he has seemed for however many years, men are so unstable they can change on a dime. I also believe most men cheat in some way and my worst nightmare is to have a baby with a cheater soooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:37 PM
65

How many fathers would even give their life for their already living child??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:26 PM
156

Luckily some comments were telling her that she is in danger now if she continues to be with someone who would choose to let her die in ANY circumstance. For instance what if they try for another baby but this time she isn't conscious to make that decision and it falls into his hands?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:20 PM
204

Also never shack up with a mommas boy or you'll just be an incubator for MIL and husbands baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:03 PM
191

She almost became a mother to a child whose father doesn't care if she lives or dies! I truly don't think there are many men on this earth who actually deserve children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:54 PM
4

Oh yeah. You don't have to hang out in shady areas or "know someone" to do it, you just need a Google search and $100. I was shocked to find out its not even a dark web type of thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:14 PM
0

Yeah I'm kind of confused why two strangers would pull over and get out of a car to chat just because someone waved at them from their driveway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:29 PM
35

How is he both kinky and a virgin? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:14 PM
7

"Guys kept groping me at my last job, so now I just let them fuck me <3"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 01:49 PM
74

I mean at least she didn't beg and cry for him to stop, I think it's kinda funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:13 AM
1

So hilarious. He thinks as long as he doesn't admit to it, he still won and she doesn't REALLY know. I think it's a common way of thinking for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:46 PM
3

I'm sure each time the partner probably presented pretty good evidence and he just lied and denied and he counts that as not really getting caught??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:23 PM
8

Right? How can you keep his balls empty when he always says no to sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:57 AM
7

Totally agree. I don't think dating apps align with FDS at all. We shouldn't be submitting ourselves to an online meat market. How is a guy going to chase you if you've already made it clear you want to meet up with strangers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:33 PM
78

I kinda agree because I've never felt attraction to any man unless I've known him for at least a few days in a non-dating environment such as school, work, activities etc. I've gone on first dates from dating apps and it's just so awkward for me. Both people showing up with the intent of hopefully liking each other... it's just weird. I'd much rather see how a man treats me BEFORE he knows he might have a chance romantically. Also, would you rather be a girl from tinder that he picked out betwee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:17 PM
7

Yup...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:45 AM
22

Like I said, I used to work in a male dominated field. I've met hundreds of men in real life as a young adult at my last job. You can read in the other comments how many other women have had the same experience their entire lives. Nothing I typed in my post came from the internet except the porn stats. Also, a "small percentage of depraved men" didn't push rape porn to the top of pornhub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:40 AM
9

Great reminder thanks!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:19 PM
10

True, buuuuuuut... most 70 yr olds probably can't even be photoshopped to look like this without just copy and pasting an entirely different body. Photoshop or not the point still stands I think haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:30 PM
65

I mean shit if I can be photoshopped to look like this at 70 I'll be beyond thrilled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:15 PM
133

Yeah my takeaways from this are work out, wear sunscreen, and get that $!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:57 PM
62

I could barely believe it either but yep. Born in 1949!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:52 PM
3

FDS does not endorse the commercial porn industry or sex work. There's prolly more about it in the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:47 AM
3

You know what I meant haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:47 AM
16

So true. With how popular OnlyFans is becoming, there are probably girls making accounts the second they turn 18 every single day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 12:42 AM
21

Yea Idk if she realizes that if all women sold their bodies she wouldn't be special anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:43 PM
54

I think the notion that "nudity should be more mainstream" is pushed by these OnlyFans girls because deep down they know it makes them low value so they want to drag all of womankind down with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:09 PM
49

This is a little different from what you described, but I think women trying too hard to impress their man's mother is very subtle pickme behavior. I have no issues with my boyfriend's mom nor does she have issues with me but I would still find myself nervous about her opinion of me. Why? I'm just a human and she's just a human, right? I had a bit of pickme in my brain saying "make her pick you for her son!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:01 AM
37

The false goals thing is HORRIBLE. My boyfriend owes me money right now (I know, big mistake on my part, don't roast plz) but constantly talks about how he wants to renovate a school bus into an RV. I straight up told him I don't want to hear a single word about his bus dream until he has paid me back. Now instead of "here's how I can afford a bus one day" it's "here's how much of each paycheck I can give back to you". My ex boyfriend from college would talk about how he wants to buy a plane onc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:47 PM
2

They're both wrong for getting the dog, he's asking if he's the asshole for forcing her to keep it after she realized how big of a mistake it was. They can easily give the dog away to family, friends, or a neighbor and still see it sometimes if the husband is that attached already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:39 PM
15

Having a dog of any age in the same house with a newborn is already sketchy, but getting a puppy is straight up insane. They should rehome the dog. How can he "refuse" to let her rehome it when she's the only one taking care of it? Just give it away to a trusted new owner while he's at work sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:05 AM
3

I could only find a few NTAs before I posted this here, most of the people siding with her are from this post haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:01 PM
5

From the original post it doesn't even sound like he was upset about it, but there sure are a lot of Reddit users upset FOR him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:09 PM
5

Very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:29 PM
23

I will say, I've offered to pay half on first dates before just to be polite. I have NEVER had a man let me pay half even if I try to insist. My current boyfriend never let me start paying at all until we were very serious. Keep in mind what you see on AITA and most of Reddit in general does not reflect the general consensus of the real world. If I were to take a wild guess I would say most of those YTA comments were either from high schoolers who literally can not afford to pay for people's mea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:43 PM
11

She's already on this sub but let a tinder date pick her up from her house? Maybe the AITA post is fake.... I hope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:38 PM
2

She was replying to me misreading your original comment at first and explaining to me what you meant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:08 PM
17

Ohhh hahaha yeah when I'm single I sometimes forget sex even exists, I thought you meant the characters were talking about their partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:22 PM
24

You never know, maybe their wives do want to have sex with them but the scumbags only desire something new
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:20 PM
15

Maybe I'm just at a different place in my life but I start getting unhappy after a week or two, if my boyfriend went a month I would seriously consider leaving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:16 PM
2

Your story sounds so similar to that of my boyfriend and his ex wife. They spent years improving themselves and their relationship but he worked an out of state job and could only be home for a few days every other week. She got tired of it and divorced him but ended up regretting it and now he works a normal schedule job and gets to go home every night. If it wasn't for the ages being a few years (from your post in another sub) off I'd think you were her for sure. But to the point of your post,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:24 AM
9

I agree with OP that trusting a man enough to give him privacy (ie not snooping) is earned. If I check his phone several times over a few months and never find a single red flag, then yeah I'll probably stop checking as much or at all. But how can you completely trust that he's not using his phone for wrong if you've never looked at it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:13 PM
2

No, I don't enjoy doing this but it doesn't really upset or disrupt me that much either. I get bored and kinda like snooping sometimes. On the contrary, does FDS not recommend checking phones and watching for signs of porn sickness? I completely agree with what you said in your comment, but those things are endorsed and recommended by the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:04 AM
34

Follow these 10 rules to make a girl think you're aloof!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:38 AM
30

True. If porn is the only thing that has made his dick hard for 23 years how is a regular human going to do the job?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:34 AM
65

Just read the top posts of this month, one that stood out was a 23 year old posting about his first sexual experience. He finally got a girl into his bed but couldn't do PIV because of whiskey dick but was still SO proud of himself. So many of these guys are just setting themselves up for failure even if they do find an interested girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:37 AM
183

He's probably crying because he has a months worth of dirty dishes and laundry sitting around lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:36 AM
1

Thanks for this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:49 PM
7

Those are some good points, thanks for the response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:21 AM
2

I have no idea, but it sounds like it wouldn't be a thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:31 PM
7

Right? If he couldn't even save up half a grand for her kids just leave him in there and save on the grocery bill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:55 AM
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