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| 28 | Why we shouldn’t have men as friends….a sequel.I find it hard to believe that someone who is unequivocally clear about her needs and boundaries with the men she actually dates, would be this rattled by a male “friend” for two full days. Idk. Doesn’t pass the smell test for me. And AITA is a notoriously LARPing, baiting, nonsense sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 12:26 AM |
| 30 | Complimenting other women - red flag?Vet tip: Ask a date or male “friend” what he thinks of AOC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 01:50 PM |
| 74 | A warning against having children with NVM. Can’t even join a pregnancy sub without seeing this shit. Oh but it’s okay because she can work on her “insecurities” and of course ComMunICaTe! 🙄Then they are gaslit into believing they have a mental disorder, personality disorder, or PPD. The prevalence of this bothers me so much. It’s like the modern day version of “hysteria”. The reality is if they weren’t being treated like shit, demoralized, and without options, they would probably not be so angry or internalizing their anger (depression). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Handle Friends Trying to CompareI meant original post. You too! Same team here 🤝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 08:10 PM |
| -1 | How Do You Handle Friends Trying to CompareI guess I don’t see being able to party and have sex more freely a privilege, especially as compared to saving for ones future. The premise of course that the family is stable, emotionally supportive, etc. which is itself also a socio-economic privilege. Again, I fully appreciate the good faith discussion. And I don’t want to derail from the OP further. Competitive, undermining, unsupportive women have no place in any of our lives. Period. I fully support cutting them off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Handle Friends Trying to CompareLiving rent-free is a privilege. Most people if given the opportunity to live with a loving and stable family while they pay off student loans, develop their savings, etc., would take it. There is no financial advantage to living independently so I don’t see how it can be considered a privilege. No argument from me that her “friend” was being shitty about it. Thank you for the good faith discussion! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Handle Friends Trying to CompareExactly my point, thank you. We can have different circumstances and be mutually supportive and respectful. I would argue that acknowledging our privilege is something we should do as HV women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 07:19 PM |
| 92 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”So true, but in my experience they play it off like “I’m just making conversation… sheesh” and act like you are paranoid or strange. Personally I just don’t want to engage it. I’m not explaining shit and I don’t owe men answers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 7 | How Do You Handle Friends Trying to CompareUgh. I call this info-taining. It’s so transparent when people talk to you just to dry to dig for dirt. Best to avoid these types. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 0 | How Do You Handle Friends Trying to CompareI don’t know that I’d call that ironic, it’s a natural outcome of each of your circumstances. Presumably you were able to save a lot of money by living at home, and that was likely not an option for her. If that privilege is acknowledged it would probably help the friendship, if it is worth saving. Edit: re-reading and seeing from your other comments there are issues that make this relationship sound like it’s not worth preserving. I just want to point out that it’s a little… smug to look down o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 173 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”Women should lie for self protection. “Where do you live”? And other seemingly innocuous questions easily create dangerous situations for us. Until someone is thoroughly vetted, they’re not getting that information from me. Why should I provide it? So they can look me up and track me down? Pass. I’m also not getting into a weird conversation by answering “sorry I’m not comfortable telling you where I live”. I don’t need to justify my own safety and mental peace. Until men stop being rapists, abu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | A real "Cool Girl" is one who turns down Leonardo DiCaprio💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 03:25 PM |
| 4 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneI’ll do it for you. It’s a hobby of mine 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 8 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.He absolutely enjoys emotionally abusing and humiliating the wife. It’s possible the gf does as well, but she is more likely completely gaslit and psychologically abused herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 05:54 PM |
| -1 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)FDS stays diverse too. I knew I’d be downvoted, but I also know I’m not alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 23 | Perfect example of a lovebomb - Dr WendyHarem to show off to his boys club is the truth when it comes to exceptionally wealthy men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:56 PM |
| -19 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)Vote for keeping FDS a covid-free zone. Every space on the internet doesn’t need to be about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:53 PM |
| 6 | Why it Never Works When Forever Gf Finally Gets the RingIt’s so very strange and surprising that some of the ultimate racists, exploiters, and destroyers descendants wouldn’t treat women properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 75 | I set the boundary…Been there. Dig deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 06:52 PM |
| 174 | Are we clear? Any questions?Pro-gun laws and divorce laws that are fair to women are highly difficult to find together in any US state. Please correct me, if anyone who knows where these places are. My experience is that it’s one or the other. Look at the new abortion laws coming out - pro-gun states are often the more anti-women states. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menSource Source | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:20 AM |
| 37 | NEVER admit insecurityI tell them I don’t think we share the same values. This is one area where I think it’s worthwhile to tell them why you’re not interested. It’s so normalized that it will never occur to them otherwise. The more women that outright reject them for their social media/online behavior the better. I also point out that if this is what they are putting out publicly for all the world to see, what do they consume privately? They have demonstrated to me their brain is warped by spending so much time onli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:58 PM |
| 23 | I don't give a shit about what men think or what men care for in a woman🥇🥇🥇🏆🏆🏆🏅🏅🏅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 09:15 PM |
| 41 | I don't give a shit about what men think or what men care for in a womanI am so glad this has not been my experience. I’m going to call the many wonderful older women in my life and thank them. I feel really grateful now. I am so sorry many of you had this experience. We will never be those older women to our younger sisters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 09:13 PM |
| 18 | I don't give a shit about what men think or what men care for in a womanI tell them this every chance I get. “I like women who…” “Don’t ever change your…” ✋ I don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Raising sons to be HVM as an FDSer momYes I wouldn’t put one in traditional school either, but surround them with like-minded families via alternative schooling. There are a lot of great schools out there that are educationally sound. I also think seeing it once on a friends phone is not comparable to having constant unfettered access to this material on a device that is incredibly addictive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Raising sons to be HVM as an FDSer momAt this point, I wouldn’t give a male child access to a smartphone or internet, as long as he is under my roof. I think a tremendous amount of damage can be removed right there. The (perceived or real) social downsides are worth it. I deeply believe that. Their attention span, learning comprehension, and overall emotional, social, and psychological well-being will thank you later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:25 PM |
| 152 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.He is so ignorant it’s insulting. He literally says on the last slide that in modern times there are no sexual risks to women. Ok Brett. And remind me what makes them the prize? Because we oh so badly need their precious dicks? We are horny all the time and strategizing how to trick them into bed? (Wait…) What is it that would possibly make them the prize? Can you imagine a dude saying to you “I only buy drinks for women I’ve made out with passionately”??? EWW even the most pickme of pickmes wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:15 PM |
| 14 | Men need to stop complaining 😂😂She’s wearing color contacts, 99% confident she had a nose job, and her hair is European strait (not even counting the other modifications)… doesn’t read black is beautiful to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Are there men who don't look at porn?Me too. He took a lot of pride in it. Talked to me about human trafficking and how it’s the biggest social issue he cares about. Years later, in an extremely deep dive, I found the vilest “teen” porn. “Teen” = clearly trafficked and underage. He claims he quit because he realized on his own it was wrong. Wonder if I should believe him? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Just read a thread about the worst rejection men have experienced from a women that made the front pageParler was taken off the internet in a day. That’s when I knew this is intentional. We all know these sites are full of child porn and trafficked women and girls. AWS could stop hosting these sites too. Any. Day. It’s a choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:02 PM |
| 28 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | If you are just wishing he would hit you, so you can have a legitimate reason to leave, leave anyway.Ew. I can ID this guy and just reading it grosses me out. Ruthlessly disregarding them is all they understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 10 | How should we raise our sons?I talk with mine about internet porn and send him articles. I’m sure he doesn’t appreciate it, and idgaf. He needs to know if he partakes, he is hurting people. It’s so ubiquitous with phones nowadays I don’t think you can avoid having this conversation (more than once, and from several angles). And again, I don’t care if it makes him uncomfortable. The women in “exploited teen” videos surely are so he can deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:54 PM |
| 14 | Queens with healthy, successful relationships: where/how did you encounter your HVM?I’d be interested to hear what makes these guys so HV. I was composing a post on this recently re: my ex. I could make an extremely compelling case. But, ultimately, he isn’t. Until you know his search/porn/phone history, these guys aren’t HV, and I don’t care what else they say or do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.If I had a dollar for every one of these entitled, ridiculous messages. Block & delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Dan Savage, sex & love advice columnist, encourages a woman to stay with her husband who SEXTS his COUSIN. 🤢🤮 You can Google “Dan Savage” & “cousins” to see how much Dan Savage has defended incest over the years. Why hasn’t he been cancelled yet???Used to be a fan, but he is just another old white boomer, with the predictable stupid and problematic old perspectives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:54 PM |
| 32 | Women's lives need to stop revolving around menThis is why I don’t accept violence against women in entertainment or music. Who drives those industries? Men. They want it normalized and I’m not listening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:11 PM |
| 7 | Trigger warning ⚠️ "Tell me your secrets" on Prime VideoI’m not interested in watching women be hurt for entertainment. Constantly seeing women harmed in our media is desensitizing and traumatizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety and depression can be the result of. your unconscious mind withdrawing it's approval of your life choices. Confidence comes from living in a way that you can be proud of.^ | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 12:03 PM |
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