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It's like a shoplifter getting offended and insisting that only low quality stores have a security guard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 03:27 AM
5

Just look at dating site statistics. We get brainwashed since early childhood to want a wedding and family more than anything else, but even that isn't enough to get women onto dating sites, 90% of the active members are always men. Just imagine how much worse it would be for men if little girls didn't get fed lies from every piece of entertainment media targeted at them. Not to mention that most of these men won't even let you have a family. That's just the carrot on a stick that they dangle in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 03:13 AM
17

This is what slowly squashed the desire flat inside of me. It's just gone. It reminds me of shopping fixation. Some things seem like they would be so great to own, then you buy them, and they just sit in a corner forever. I know the odds are against any random man actually treasuring me, those feelings are one sided, so I just don't care anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:09 AM
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I agree, it's fishy. The overall tone is that even though the situation is abnormal and primed to explode, everything is actually fair, equal, and nobody is mad, which are points that dishonest scrotes tend to fixate on when justifying their bad behavior. Good catch on the "businesses". It takes a lot of work, research, and knowhow to keep one small business in operation, you don't just open a cafe, then a consignment shop, then a home service pool cleaner. Most small business owners have one bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 01:06 AM
12

I've experienced this from random men trying to pick me up in public, who think they can just push me into going some place with them. Maybe they think they can embarrass me into agreement, because they think being "shy" is shameful. I'm not shy, I just want nothing to do with random skeezy geezers. As if I should be grinning ear to ear at the sight of these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:12 AM
50

I would be 100% suspicious of why a fully grown man is acting bashful or shy about being seen in public as a boyfriend to a woman. It can only boost them socially, they aren't in the 3rd grade anymore, nobody will tease them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 12:33 AM
235

It was probably $1.99, and the cheapest thing in the store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 09:26 PM
274

It's funny how nothing makes men feel more entitled to violence against women than rebuking the forbidden topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 08:51 PM
43

These sites are run by people who don't care about the wellbeing of their users, the last thing they deserve is more free content to profit off of, especially considering how even mundane pictures can be taken out of context, misrepresented, and misused. They depend on an army of women working hours a day to fill the site with semi-pro photography, all for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 10:15 AM
165

They have rigid, weird views on how a woman should look, and what she should do. They will try to push you to do certain things, act a certain way, or get confused when you don't. 🤡 "A nurse should have blonde hair." 🤡 "A teacher should wear skirts like this." It will seem nonsensical to you, because you haven't been watching the porn he has, so you don't realize that he's trying to turn you into a porn stereotype. It's subtle, but keep an eye out for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 08:42 PM
493

We need at least three funerals, one for the women we used to be, one for the fantasy of upstanding men who never existed, and another for all that lost time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 05:39 AM
57

Once the middle class baby boomers start to die off, a lot of 45 year old basement dwellers are suddenly going to crawl onto dating sites out of necessity, looking for new mommies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 05:34 AM
65

And even if a HVM could be interested in a violence fetish, he wouldn't be using regular dating websites to try and ensnare women who don't share the fetish. Fetish websites are as old as the public internet, that's where men looking for fetish sex belong. When they creep off of them, they're up to no good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:18 AM
137

I really hope he dumps her, returns to the party scene, and slowly realizes that he's the weird old grandpa that no "girls" will tolerate. That's what all these delusional, grossly immature, worthless men deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:11 AM
13

I agree with this. When I was with my worst boyfriend, I truly believed that he was helping me, doing positive things for me. He really didn't do one single positive thing. It was like cult indoctrination, nobody just decides to join a UFO cult one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:13 AM
45

One of my trash boyfriends used to whine to me about how women never gave "nice guys" like him a chance, and it was while he was dating me for years. I didn't understand that he was unintentionally admitting that he was cheating, something his roommates later told me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 11:44 PM
25

Nobody should be surprised, except young-ish NEETs. Of course men who aren't complete shut-ins have had some success with wasting the time of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 11:40 PM
5

Exactly. A man like this will never treat a woman like a priority, or even show the slightest bit of respect. This is why they have to plan in advance, and "spontaneous" dates are a no-no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 10:02 PM
30

It's terrible, men who think this way never treat any woman well. They get jealous and try to get revenge, assuming that pretty women have had the whole world handed to them. It definitely doesn't work that way when half the population is trying to get revenge. They're so convinced of it, too. I was always open about growing up in the ghetto and having a shitty childhood and youth, and men still think that I somehow wedged a "princess" lifestyle in there somewhere. And some of these men had the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 12:33 AM
92

I have a better solution for his dilemma, leave men who can barely function in society completely out of the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 09:28 PM
134

Yeah, there is no "dating economy", dating is a transitory phase. Men are the ones trying to stretch it out forever, and then crying when they're 30 and alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 09:16 PM
1

For what it's worth, he hit just about every red flag possible, but she was determined to make it work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 07:57 AM
121

Yet another tragedy caused because the woman had heath issues, and couldn't provide full bangmaid services to a scrote anymore. Maybe the husband didn't want to tarnish his public image by divorcing a sick wife, maybe he just didn't want to divide their assets up 50/50. You don't ever want to be the living obstacle between a scrote and his next sex target. This happened to a woman in my extended family. She was the brightest person in the whole family, and just got snuffed out because she stoppe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 01:12 AM
392

The only good thing is that 99% of these men are never going to turn 40 and marry a teenager. Time and their own antisocial behavior will warp their bodies and personalities beyond repair before they turn 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:55 AM
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I agree, at this point the cycle has probably been restarted in a lot of families where it had already been broken. Somebody here said it best a few days ago, this modern "prove yourself" behavior is even worse than the worst cliched crap from the fifties or earlier. It's an even higher dose of the exact same demands, but with absolutely nothing required of the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:35 AM
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Women these days are so eager to show how worthy they are, how generous, self-sufficient, understanding, forgiving, and affordable. The joke is that no man worth a damn would care about any of those things, beyond the woman being a functional member of society, because a man who has his life together has his life together and wouldn't need a woman to carry the whole relationship. He wouldn't need a date at Target. We were lied to by TV and stupid books made for children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:47 PM
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I hope more women in their twenties realize this. Millennial men are fucked in the head, they thought they could mess around forever, using and discarding women, until they finally spent one too many Christmases or birthdays alone, because they never made a family of their own. But they don't want to raise a family, they want a convenient family they can store in a closet, like a Christmas tree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:27 PM
393

And there are absolutely men who have no problems with casual sex and coercing women into pump & dump sex, but are suddenly "conservative" about abortion. Just because they are greedy for sex, can barely wipe their own dirty asses, and can't even provide for a house plant, that doesn't mean they don't expect women to birth and raise their babies alone, off in a section 8 trailer park somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 08:26 PM
137

If he really liked them so much, he would have already married one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:23 PM
405

And it doesn't just stop there. If you expect him to call, but he doesn't call, you don't call him. If he doesn't text/message you, don't send the first one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 05:34 AM
109

Sadly, I don't think most women are educated enough on abuse and manipulation to recognize it in action, even the older women. I saw some anti-abuse cartoon video for teenage girls recommended on YouTube. It only featured aggressive "jock" type abuse, of course. Manipulative abuse from weak scrotes is much more common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 04:13 AM
120

I didn't read the whole thing, I'm just glad she got out. It's pathetic to watch a "cool girl" try to patch things up with men. When men snap on you over any little thing, and call all their friends to insult you on social media, they do that shit because they all absolutely HATE you, and only barely tolerated your presence. It's amazing how they value "chill" so much, but then they freak out and have to call in a dozen friends to mob some woman's facebook. How is that chill?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 11:37 PM
643

It's even worse that it's another woman this time, just looking to humiliate another woman, stir up drama and trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 10:48 PM
99

This is true. Negative people bottle up their negativity, until they find what they think is an acceptable opportunity to blow up, and all hell breaks loose. It's definitely a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:12 AM
51

I think the worst message they give is simply obscuring the existence of sex, while shoving it in little girls' faces. I think more people should reconsider why sex stories (with the sex cropped out) are wholesome for little girls, but we generally don't present this same kind of material to boys. Stories that don't involve "romance" are easy to create, just look at all the media made specifically for boys. Disney itself made a whole Little Mermaid cartoon series that completely avoided romance,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 09:50 PM
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It's terrible, because if you listen to these morons and only date the "hopeful nerd provider", he still treats you like shit and cheats all over the country. And his justification will just be calling his victim a "slut".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:57 AM
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This is true. The men attracted to polygamy never have a provider mindset, it's always about acquiring servants who don't require a paycheck. Even in America, the poly men who drive their wives to post sob stories online are usually underemployed and not the breadwinners. It's laughable how these men pretend to be good guys, they're just slightly less evil than the men running cult compounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:41 PM
466

There should just be a public registry. By the time you're opening a bank account together, or buying a house, it's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 10:59 PM
52

This is common, bizarre, and true. It drives that delusion that they will all be like George Clooney some day. In that 40 year old virgin neet blog from a week ago, the guy honestly thought through his twenties that he was too good for retail work, and going to become some kind of genius scientist, even though he had no apparent field of interest, and dropped out of high school and never got his GED. The sad thing is that it's not even shocking. There are tons of men out there with delusional pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 05:04 PM
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He probably got jealous of the daughter, and mad that he couldn't have sex with her. LVM have no business around children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 12:00 AM
4

Reason number 100 to not let a man be a "stay at home dad".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 03:49 PM
161

Bedroom LARP is the most cringey thing I've ever been asked to do. I don't even think they are necessarily getting off on humiliation, they just have cringey shit taste. One guy wanted various sex worker LARPs, one guy wanted me to LARP an anime character. I refused to do both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:54 PM
14

I don't trust any man who looks at me like that, unless I just let one rip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:09 PM
9

And he's mad that he passed up opportunities to mistreat her. Other guys got to hurt her, it's only fair that he should enjoy it, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:12 PM
316

MM is solid proof that being beautiful enough will never fix things. I remind myself of that any time I get to feeling down about my looks, it's a good boost. If MM wasn't pretty enough, none of us ever will be, so there's no reason to stress about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:49 PM
22

I'm so tired of "trust" being weaponized against women. It reminds me of the three booby traps scene from Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade. Only the third trap had anything to do with faith. The prayer trap was just a death trap, there was a second blade to kill anyone who did get on his knees. So many women are like Indiana Jones in this scene, repeating mantras and hoping their souls are good enough, but they're just stumbling into a booby trap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:00 PM
361

LVM can't even be honest about basic things that wouldn't hurt the relationship if they had just been honest from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:00 PM
180

Yeah, the whole first paragraph is just clown thought dressed up in therapy language. 🤡 "I would never have married my wife if I had known that my ex girlfriend would end up single again. I just did anything I had to do to secure a bangmaid in the moment. That's not fair!" No restraint or forethought, expects a do-over at life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:22 PM
24

Bruh, women don't owe anyone to coddle them and resolve mental health issues. Imagine the genders swapped. Most men refuse to even accept ANY responsibility for the problems they directly, intentionally cause. I used to worry about being cruel, fuck it. Even if I treat men with indifference, that's better than how I've been treated by boyfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 02:40 PM
117

Watch this guy fuck around and end up paying thousands of dollars in lawyer and court fees just to act like a petulant child. And then he'll run crying to his next 20 tinder dates about how he got screwed over and cheated out of his money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:53 AM
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OF COURSE she's a "spender" and there are kids. A man who would get angry over $200 of Etsy sales, while waiting on his own $12,500 bonus, is exactly the sort of asshole who thinks things like bath mats and winter coats that fit properly are unnecessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:16 AM
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Don't beat yourself up over it, just use it as a learning experience. I suspect he's been snubbing you or cutting you down longer than you even realize. If this truly is the very start of the behavior, you don't want to stick around any longer. Get your stuff and block him. My worst ex was very manipulative, and messed with me for years, I was completely oblivious, and when the relationship ended it really felt like a family member had died. You'll be better off if you never have to go through t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:45 AM
65

Exactly. I wish young women knew that "a break" is just code for time to cheat. They aren't using that time to go on a personal journey, reevaluate their lives, do soul searching, work their hardest, etc... It's just cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:14 AM
33

Definitely. It's part of that technique of putting women on the back foot, pushing them to be neurotic about their own behavior to prove themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:12 PM
191

I don't think so. And even if it was, so many men are massive liars, there's no way to know if any part of their personality is real. A lot of women are in love with fictional characters, and I'm not talking about romance novels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:48 PM
16

Truth. That first guy tried some mean, broke, lazy scrote BS with hot gym women, and they knew they could go line up a new, better date for every day of the next month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:42 AM
32

It's funny how women are supposed to be the frivolous spenders, but in the US single women are buying up twice the number of homes compared to single men. And it's definitely not the women on onlyfans and twitch paying for boob videos and text message sex chats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:01 PM
142

Exactly. And he thought he was better than all their men. What do you want to bet he has zero charm and isn't even slightly better looking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 07:56 PM
50

If only there was a way to de-bloat the massive teenage male ego. The only people his warning could help are parents. So many baby boomers raised almost identical sons. A report found something like 1/5th of working age men in the US are on disability or trying to get there. Men getting an adulthood autism diagnosis are definitely part of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 01:47 PM
123

I have zero sympathy for the men who get sucked into this. If they really wanted love, they wouldn't be sending messages to a porn site. They want the affection of a modern courtesan on a strip club budget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 12:58 PM
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It's sexual doublethink, where women are supposed to believe that sex is no big deal to men, but men are also willing to ruin their own lives and go to jail just for a few minutes of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 02:28 AM
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This. He's a fart away from 50, and illegal hormone use is common with gym guys. He probably had to ramp up the steroid use years ago, and finally shrank his peanut. It also makes them very emotional, moody, pissy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:02 PM
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Yep. It wouldn't even happen to most of them if they weren't spending years taking advantage of "girlfriends" they have no intention of marrying. If you don't want to marry her, stop having sex with her, problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:50 PM
155

The murder of Cassie Jo Stoddart is another instance where two teenage boys murdered a female classmate. She had unfortunately invited them over with her boyfriend, they left early, crawled back in through the basement, and waited for her BF to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:11 PM
24

This is the truth. There's no telling how many women are out there limiting their career choices and life opportunities just to make sure they can still date and have time for kids. And the dates will be worthless, the kids will never come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 05:47 PM
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The hate fuck lady is right. Millennial and younger women are at a huge disadvantage, because so many of them think men think the same way women think, and want the same things women want, and think women should give men what men want as part of "equality". They fundamentally don't understand how most men get off on humiliation and degradation. All the nasty shit they masturbate to looks nasty because it is nasty, that's the whole point. There are no misunderstandings, there's nothing there to r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:25 PM
41

This is exactly the truth. LVM know that any functional adult woman is good enough, they aren't holding out for a "soul mate". And it's obvious early on if a woman is mentally ill, nasty, vindictive, too lazy to function, etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:05 PM
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LVM know what women are wary of, so they pretend to be even more scared of the same things, just to take advantage of women. He's not scared that some woman who seems normal is secretly "crazy", they treat women as fungible and replaceable because they know most women are OK. He's not scared of commitment, he can run away at any moment. He's not scared of having kids "too soon" before 40, he has no plans of ever even raising them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 03:02 PM
31

There's a NVM 40 y/o that I follow on social media just for schadenfreude, he's always butthurt at the holidays, because none of his extended family invite him to their celebrations. He does nothing for them all year, has no wife, no gf, no kids, but he expects a "family" to show up at the holidays. It boggled my mind before FDS, but this is how LVM think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:50 PM
22

Exactly. I don't believe for a second that two teenage boys are living in that house, and the living room is completely unused and staying clean on its own. That's the sort of crap said by men who never clean anything. Add in the weed use, who knows what kinds of gross messes he's OK with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:27 PM
57

It's worse than pointless pandering, because you can't even verify that it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:25 PM
179

One of the reasons it's important to never be the provider for a man is that the instant his free ride is over, he has absolutely no use for you. Providing for men attracts the very worst men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:53 PM
171

A letter on ripped notebook paper, and a $3 sampler booze. He couldn't even buy a $1 packet of stationary and a bottle of grocery store wine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:55 PM
35

And not all hours of labor are equally strenuous. It's much easier to putter around "tidying up" than it is to get all the dirt out of the bathroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:38 AM
34

IMO this makes the most sense. They drove out of town for a family wedding, then he left before sunrise to drive back home and "pickup records" for work on a weekend. They spent the whole morning wondering where the hell he was, then he came back wasted. They had to prop him up at the wedding Weekend at Bernie's style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:49 AM
173

Men don't get to talk about "morals" and casual sex in the same breath. Any man with morals wouldn't be trying to take advantage of women, which casual sex is 99.9% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:39 AM
25

"Shake the Disease" by Depeche Mode is one big scrote whine. It used to be one of my favorite songs, back when I believed these lies and dated an identical scrote. It's a shame the lyrics are all lies, because the music is great. 🤡 🤡 🤡 🎪🤡 🤡 🤡 I'm not going down on my knees begging you to adore me Can't you see it's misery and torture for me When I'm misunderstood try as hard as you can I've tried as hard as I could To make you see How important it is for me Here is a plea from my heart to you No…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 03:44 AM
203

Sad. This is why you never help men with their dating problems. They can't get laid because they're too dysfunctional and antisocial to interact with women. Helping them put on a false face to scam sex just makes the situation exponentially worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:58 AM
205

It's pathetic that he wasn't even the favorite child, and he knows it, but he ruined his own new family to try and win over his parents. And he acts like a moody teenage brat to his own wife. He's absolutely stunted. And since she started the story by mentioning how she had to wait half a decade to have a baby, it sounds like he probably took forever to get his life together, or dragged things out. I hope the health issues weren't the result of having to postpone her baby until after age 40, LVM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 05:14 PM
46

Women have to push back on this nonsense more. It's the first step in running a woman ragged, or using her up. The men who say these things never do nice things for women. They make you feel guilty so you won't notice how they subtract from your life. It really is gaslighting, they lie to your face about how they have zero expectations, and then their real expectations are a trophy girlfriend college graduate with a well paying full time job, who also works as a full time maid and cook, and stil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 07:48 AM
25

Yet another man who needs to take the word "love" out of his mouth. LVM can talk all day about "love" and never actually say a word about love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:52 AM
486

He mentions "creating a lasting bond" while he's looking for validation for dumping her. He's trying to gaslight the damn internet, too. If the past 10 months of sex didn't create a lasting bond, WTF will? It's a rhetorical question, we know the answer is nothing. At 10 months in, he knows he's never going to marry her. I hope she stands her ground and forces him to do the dumping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:29 AM
28

There was a study done in Japan that found baby boys parked in front of the TV for hours a day were 350% more likely to have an autism diagnosis by age 3. There was no impact on girls. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapediatrics/fullarticle/2788488 The saddest thing is that studies like these will just be ignored, instead of a massive wakeup call for parents. Some of these boys obviously had the worst reactions to antisocial or neglectful parenting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:37 AM
84

Yet more proof that we shouldn't date men who don't have any hobbies or activity-based interests outside work. So many millennial men are going to crash in middle age, and I don't feel sorry for them at all. It's funny how they decided that cooking and nutrition education are things to leave to the women, then decided to screw around and put off marriage indefinitely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 09:20 PM
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Same. It's the premise of almost every piece of modern media for girls, that if you suffer to make virtuous choices, you'll create the situation that leads you to happiness. That can only work in situations like education, job training, or mastering an art, never romantic relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 09:15 AM
429

Maybe you will feel more resolve if you secretly pack up your most valuable and sentimental things, and move those to your mother's house. Just to start the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:47 AM
258

I hope a lot of people told her to GTFO of this relationship immediately. Being in chronic poor health is one of the most dangerous positions for a woman to be in. He has endless opportunity to stage an "accident" or drug overdose, and the coroner is less likely to ask a lot of questions. He's ready to take all her money and move on to a fresh bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:41 AM
62

It sounds like he's no good in the kitchen, or at cleaning, so it's questionable how much housework he really is doing. I'm so used to women in nerdy spaces having extremely depressed expectations, who knows what her spending sprees are really like. I've seen people balk at paying anything more than Walmart prices for clothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:20 AM
120

Yeah. The men don't even want to marry anybody. Their unearned free access to exploit women depends on women feeling desperate for male attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:01 PM
117

I wonder how 50/50 works with a man taking his girlfriend's credit card for a joy ride. If a man has to do that, he's either too broke to support his own 50%, or he's just plain taking money. That's robbing Peter to pay Peter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 01:01 PM
116

LVM say they need to feel needed, but then they rant at a girlfriend the instant she just wants to spend some time together because she's having a bad week. 🤡 "You need to be stronger, you need to be more independent." Make it make sense. They dump their troubles on women, but won't even offer a woman a one hour distraction from hers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:53 PM
83

I can't see male "vulnerable" woe is me stuff as anything but manipulation at this point. I don't even believe in it. I think it's just a broken bird act to elicit easy sex, low expectations, and more coddling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:33 PM
378

They say it so we will be too confused when the mind games start, or so we won't notice the way they expect women to jump through more hoops than a circus animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:51 PM
89

I hope everybody told her to get an annulment. He gets off on degradation, of course he knows it was wrong, that's why he did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 09:03 AM
27

Exactly, there is no "success code" to find, life isn't a videogame. These men goofed off in school, teachers spent years begging them to do better, but they all thought they could hustle and cheat the system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:42 AM
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I'm looking forward to seeing all the butthurt articles and editorials that will come after millennial men finally realize their time is over. They were given the most permissive and passive generation of women ever to live, and they still 🤡 just never could find the right girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:51 PM
60

This crap is so disrespectful. If a man is too busy, he should act responsibly, and not engage in any romantic relationships. If a man is already in a serious relationship, he should act like it. But the truth is they're not that exhausted and busy, they just want free prostitute services.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:22 PM
36

Yeah, pretty much. Here's an article from 7 years ago. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2015/07/31/upshot/millennial-men-find-work-and-family-hard-to-balance.amp.html In short, despite saying egalitarian things in surveys, American millennial men failed to do anything differently once effort was required. I think it's hard for younger women to know how men have been static at best for 25+ years now. The educated ones know exactly what to say in public, they just take advantage of wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:26 AM
143

Exactly. And only about 3% of American men under age 35 have ever served in the military, the number that have seen real combat must be less than 1%. They want you to pretend that they are the image on the left, while they act like the image on the right full time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:38 AM
446

It's not safe for civilian women to stay around in a war zone, and men know it. The invading force isn't even as dangerous as the local criminal men who will come out to vandalize, loot, rape, and murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 11:23 PM
268

I understand sticking by your family, because your family should always be there for you, but shitty men like this aren't ever family. They won't be there for you, quite the opposite. They are opportunists and predators, letting them loiter around your family is a disaster waiting to happen. This won't be the last shitty, dishonest thing he does in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:40 AM
116

"Men are just simple creatures. We only care if a woman is hot and doesn't cause drama." So they say, and then we see stuff like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:47 PM
76

You were right to have the ick. He's definitely one of the men who thinks that women who want independence, i.e. having control over the decisions in their own personal lives, should be punished for it, to be treated like a work mule. Because if they can't control every aspect of your life, fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:02 AM
266

One of mine tried that trick multiple times, but his mushy PIED weiner just crumpled like a wad of Play-Doh every time. He never learned that it was never going to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:07 AM
106

Nice catch. He tried to hide what he's really sore about, but he still had to slip it in. They aren't "financially interdependent", he's a dependent mooch. She broke up with him, he's the one scrambling to keep the cash flowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:50 AM
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The truth is that he never should have lied a year ago, never should have proposed, never should have made a deposit. Men should just leave alone incompatible women. Don't lie to them, leave them alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:44 AM
274

I can't imagine wanting to unnecessarily hold a hungry, crying baby. It's not pleasant or cute at all, the noise is designed to be so irritating you drop everything and attend to the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:01 AM
15

This is exactly it. My worst ex was a frequent complainer like this. He was cheating through the whole relationship. It was absolute doublethink on his end, but I doubt that he truly thought he was a "nice guy" while cheating, negging, standing up dates all the time, and lying. If he could, it was only because he had built up such a cartoonish concept of what a bad man is. He never hit me, but he is definitely a bad person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:20 AM
14

Going by age and location, I know my worst ex likely didn't have private access to a computer with dial-up internet until he was almost an adult, and he had already completely ruined his brain and dick before he met me in his twenties. Looking back on conversations and sex, he genuinely thought that softcore porn was reality. His only frame of reference for women was porn, and he obviously thought I was weird and defective when I wasn't a porn caricature. What a mess. And the next generation wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:34 AM
74

It feels like every other week there's another news story on adult millennials talking to minors about sex or sex-adjacent topics, and most of the time it's presented as a good thing. It's a nightmare. Predators will quickly single out kids who have no boundaries, accept sex talk, and have confused ideas about sex. And when kids get their education from these illogical people, their ideas will be confused by default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:00 AM
78

On top of the theft, he's trying to manipulate her to subsidize his week of groceries. Where's the $20 going? You can go to Dollar Tree and get pancake mix, syrup, a dozen eggs, almost half a pound of sausage, a big bag of frozen fruit, and Jumex juice. That's a whole buffet for under $8.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:43 PM
182

🤡 "You can't expect other people to make you happy. You have to be responsible for your own emotions." Said right after he deliberately did something hurtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:08 PM
62

The other interesting takeaway for 2022 is that even a trashy criminal character in a 30 year old movie says that a man is supposed to impress a woman, and judge her personal qualities, even in a likely short-lived high school relationship. The concept of maintaining your own personal dignity through how you treat others has gone out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 10:26 AM
107

IT IS ALL THROUGH MALE LENS. This is all true, and I think it's one of the reasons why Asian media and fashion took off with girls in the US over the past 25 years. It's not all great, or even necessarily good, it just allows for female tastes to exist in their own space, without being 100% processed through a male filter. It feels almost magical if you grew up with corporate American media. The vast majority of men have no idea what women enjoy. That's what makes it so funny when they LARP as w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:21 AM
13

Right. He should have just left her alone once he realized that she was barely getting by. She would have been better off with a roommate on her own level. Now she's been used as a roommate, free maid, free prostitute, and just handed over her life savings to a man who might as well be a stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 08:45 AM
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Third, listen to what he says about other women. This is especially true for the men who try to sell themselves as some variety of liberal or "male feminist". Don't interrupt them, just watch what they say about conservative women, or any women who go against the male-centered libfem agenda. So many of them will let all kinds of sexual aggression pour out of their mouths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:30 AM
279

How pleasant is a walk date in NYC in November through February? The temperature alone is horrible, crime is way up this year, and you have to walk yourself home before the sun sets at 6. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:31 AM
411

Woman #2 won't agree to a "poly" relationship, but then he wants to cheat anyway behind her back. What a catch. I'm glad woman #1 woke up, I hope she tells woman #2 about his offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:59 PM
294

just because a guy is shy does not make him a more "emotionally sensitive" does not mean he is more thoughtful or caring partner. This is so true, women have been lied to about this concept. There are so many weak, cowardly, spiteful men out there pretending to be "sensitive", when they have no empathy for anyone but themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:43 PM
13

Oh, I agree completely. They don't deserve off limits zones, because they'll just wedge all their bad behavior into that one place. It's disrespectful to trap a woman in a relationship if the man is "too broke" or "too busy" to properly maintain the relationship. We shouldn't feel any shame for turning these disrespectful men away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:12 PM
83

One of the reasons why they use the "work" excuse so much is because men know it's off limits to questions, and you will look or feel controlling and delusional if you start asking questions. 🤡 "My wife is so mad because I'm working so hard these days. I guess I'm just not supposed to have a job, and sit around the kitchen table all day."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:19 AM
118

It's such a lie that only the "top" men get women. All my boyfriends were average or below average in looks, and none had money. I'm sure none of the women my worst ex cheated with were driven crazy by lust, they just got fooled by his liberal nice guy shtick. I think something similar is true for most of the women I know. Lots of broke, ugly dirtbags get a chance in their twenties, they take it for granted, and then whine after their luck runs out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:06 PM
120

This is the same reason they won't just buy a sex doll, there's no thrill in mistreating a lump of silicone rubber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:32 PM
120

You're right. We all know how LVM get pissy if they don't get exactly what they want, it's definitely easier to keep buying safe junk foods than to risk a guy having a month long fit over a serving of cauliflower rice. Women have to start saying "no" to being run ragged. There's no prize or appreciation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:13 AM
362

LVM never stop with their business delusions. Some guy who tokes up every day is never going to launch the next big tech business. He can't even launch his own breakfast out of the refrigerator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:08 AM
176

I agree. His mask had just started to slip, even though it was a very nice mask. It would have been all downhill for the OP if she had stayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:22 AM
89

It's a sad example of how women can't believe that a man is safe just because he seems cute and twee, literate, or deeper than a mud puddle. He was copying and pasting that same message to every woman on the app. One of the men I regret ever dating pulled that love bombing move where they pretend they wrote you a poem. I saw that paper, I immediately knew it was too old, I knew he had used it on other women. I just didn't say anything because I thought the effort at the moment was still valid en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:48 PM
9

It doesn't sound like he's employed at all, it sounds like he submitted an application for spec work and got turned down. So the girlfriend is probably the one paying the bills, on top of everything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:36 PM
95

Yet another smug POS who uses his family as a way to devalue and degrade his forever girlfriend. I have never heard of a woman treating a man this way. He wants to act like his family is so close, but they obviously didn't even give a shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:50 AM
55

Immediately trying to escalate the relationship, like a slimy salesman with one foot in your door, is never going to go good places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:25 AM
123

It's sad, because one good man can definitely meet all your man needs. Orbiting junk men just guarantees that she won't ever meet anyone decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:39 PM
70

To prove the point, one of my ex boyfriends was regularly going out to bars, clubs, and parties to cheat on me, while I got the fast food dates with him in ratty clothes, or the home "date". They can make the effort when they want. He even drove out to another city to keep a second girlfriend there, but would whine to me about how tired he was every time I saw him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:32 PM
75

LVM eat up trash like this, because they all want to pretend like they have a real payoff planned to reward women's self-sacrificing behavior. If women all finally stopped trying to pay it forward in relationships, and demanded effort up front, these trashy men would all be SOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:08 AM
37

This is my suspicion. He wants a busy woman with a good enough life, so she won't notice him subtracting value from her life for a long time. After that, he can accuse her of not being independent enough, strong enough, etc... Drag things out even longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:03 AM
11

Nobody could have invented anything half this funny. It's hate mail from an actual man baby with an Oedipus complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:23 AM
79

I would be suspicious that he wants a woman who is passionate about her job, so he can mooch and fail to provide anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:13 AM
375

All these dirty T-shirt guys could find decent clothes in an instant if their friends wanted to go to a club together to chase other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:44 AM
35

Even the pickme women I've known want to build a stable life with family and friends. An atomized society is what LVM want, they can screw over women for years without worrying that their behavior will get them blackballed out of work and society. It's just a situation that also burns the men too weak to take advantage of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:16 PM
155

Remember shit like this every time some creepy man calls other people "bigots" for rebuking their disgusting behavior. Most of them really don't care about women's rights or gay rights, but they will try to hide behind those groups. And these men claim to care so much about fertility, yet most Millennial men won't reproduce, because they ran down their own clock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:10 PM
60

This is true. She needs to divorce him ASAP, he's already into sissy crap, he's going to pretend to be her, jerk off in her clothes, his life is going to go down in flames. She needs to get away before he starts screaming that she's a bigot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:08 PM
70

I don't think it can be overstated just how deleterious LVM can be to your mental well-being, due to how dishonest and manipulative they are. My worst ex wrecked my mental health, I had just climbed out of major depression when I met him, and then he sucked me into his pity parties and negged me until I idealized him. His mean bullshit, and the recovery afterward, wrecked the years of my life when I could have been happiest. Other things outside of him later wrecked my life even more, and even t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:34 PM
183

It drives me nuts when people realize that a man is a rotten liar who can't be trusted, but then they still believe his stories about his wife/gf being a bad person. Of course he says that stuff, he knows his behavior can't be justified any other way. He'll say equally bad things about anybody else if it serves his interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:55 PM
66

Honestly, you might not even be the sidepiece, you could still be the home plate girlfriend. If he was "too busy" to do anything yesterday, there's no love or loyalty in him, it's still time to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 07:30 PM
2

I distrust why a man is mangling a common saying. I think this is true for your friends and family, but absolutely not true for LVM, who just prey on the most vulnerable women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 04:52 PM
38

I'm glad that my own stubborn refusal to deal with hormonal birth control side effects probably protected me from exposure to more than one STI. His own friends ratted him out for cheating twice, just imagine how many they didn't meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:21 AM
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🤡 "We don't need to use condoms anymore, we can trust each other." So said one of my trashy boyfriends for years, and he was pissy that I wouldn't go on birth control for him. Spoilers: At some point he had a whole second girlfriend in another city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:32 AM
75

The recent push to normalize spreading STDs really disgusts me. HIV infection is lifelong and the treatments cost a fortune.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:29 AM
51

And once they reach 35-40, they get mad that none of the wealthy, hot, 21 year old "party girls" at the club want to settle down and pair bond with some balding pudgy dadbod.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:09 PM
226

Exactly, complete projection. He's big mad that he has to put any effort at all into mooching off of the time and efforts of a woman. As if all women are required to give mommy love to random men they did not birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:55 PM
138

The only "humor" most LVM have is insulting you. He'll insult you, then say you "can't take a joke" when you respond appropriately. When you make an actual joke, he will use it as an opportunity to insult you. There are no jokes, just passive aggressive trash talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:30 PM
104

LVM will call women "crazy" or "needy" for catching feelings, but they still expect it to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:21 PM
56

"A good man is hard to find." Somehow, even men know this when it comes to finding another man they have to rely on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:14 PM
70

This is just sad. She should have helped enroll the girl in some kind of youth mentoring program, and washed her hands of the situation, not let a random teenage girl wander around her house every week. Don't be afraid to refuse weird situations. Weird is weird for a reason, it doesn't make you stuck up, old fashioned, or a bigot to avoid people behaving strangely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:11 AM
1

The husband is either lying about his weight, obese, or as jacked up as Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime. I know which ones seem more likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 08:20 PM
66

Exactly. He obviously thinks that his years of porn usage and abusive sex are a special skill. It's not like he's a concert violinist, literally any jacked gym bro could do the same thing better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:51 PM
68

A lot of us have dated a scrote who abused therapy language, would do mean things, then say that you have to be responsible for your own emotions, you can't expect another person to make you happy. Here is the actual situation where that statement is supposed to be applied, while breaking away from a person who blames you for his misbehavior. It was never meant to mean that men can "accidentally" do hurtful things over and over, and you have to overcome all the negative emotions with Yoda skills…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:15 PM
23

50 💀. At this point, I just roll my eyes at men near or over 30 talking about how they need to travel and discover themselves, time to learn more, space to grow as a person, blah blah blah... Women twist themselves into pretzels to accommodate these men, but it's nonsense. If he really wanted to, he already would have. It's a completely, totally different issue for women. Women grow and learn a lot of things, and most of them do it while working full time, often while raising children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:23 PM
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Exactly. Calling it "sex work" just allows pretty, young, well-groomed cam girls, and role-playing liars on twitter, to push themselves as the face of "sex work", while the lives of street prostitutes remains gross and miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:27 PM
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LMFAO. tl;dr he wants to fuck a model who hasn't done porn yet, and record it, then give the model 50/50 ownership in his onlyfans account. The gender ratio of wannabe porn actors must be 1000:1 male to female. Good luck with that. Why in the world would a hot young woman in great shape want to split her profits 50/50 with a second digital pimp, when she could go solo and hire a male escort?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:56 PM
288

Most men have "sex-negative cultural values", regardless of what they say to get you in bed. They wouldn't get so turned on by "dirty talk", by humiliation, by degradation, if they were really positive about sex. There's a reason they get turned on by the thought of prostitutes, strippers, and porn stars, but not just a happy, healthy woman going about her life joyfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:35 PM
114

Agreed. Some women probably feel they have to buy the most offensive joke gift possible just to get any reaction at all. Anything normal would just be immediately ignored and discarded. If only they knew it's not their gifts that suck, it's the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:34 PM
22

It's true. You realize how unbalanced things are when you see how men automatically can assume that every woman they meet is safe and won't rob them blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:07 AM
16

I think it's an issue where women know that offering women-only housing will just attract legal complaints from the most depraved, perverted men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:48 AM
19

Exactly. My "simple guy with simple needs" spent years manipulating me with whining and negging me on the sly. At some point, he kept a whole second girlfriend in another city. They put so much effort into being human garbage. I need to know what part of that shit show was as simple, honest, straightforward, etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 12:32 AM
35

Now that I've thought about it, it's funny how women have to work so hard to make themselves "perfect" for these simple men who don't play games, don't have a long list of expectations, and would never deliberately do anything negative. LVM make it sound like any woman would be good enough, then make women dance like fools to prove themselves worthy. Where's the simplicity in doing that for 20 years, before they go completely bald and have to start begging teens for sex on dating sites?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:18 PM
36

I personally mostly heard it from men. Looking back, it's obviously a manipulation tactic, to make women focus on proving their own goodness, instead of looking honestly at the behavior of men. It goes along with the lie that men are simple creatures who just want a loyal, pretty woman, food, and quiet. I guess a lot of women double down on trying to be that "perfect" woman to finally win men's admiration, when it's not possible at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:15 PM
204

I died at the "republican" part. So many men expect the traditional, conservative wife treatment, but also expect "free love" social arrangements. Women have to stop letting themselves be coerced into pretending they can have both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:54 PM
105

Yeah. This is a disaster for any woman who gets caught up in it. They will either end up supporting a broke man in his chintzy attempt to immigrate to Europe, or trapped overseas with a broke man, in a country with the hardest possible language to learn as an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:27 PM
60

I've heard and believed most of these things since I was a teenager. (Although I never heard anybody say that men are more intuitive.) I think it's because we accurately see the evil things other women and girls do to us, but males have "benefit of the doubt" culture. In quotation marks, because that benefit is usually straight up denial. One good example is how men will schedule in advance a big date, or big event, but at the moment you are supposed to meet, he will call and say he's busy with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:07 PM
312

It's my pet peeve when women provide one-sided sexual pleasure to scrotes, and insist that their own pleasure is just in seeing him happy. Been there, done that. Fuck that nonsense. That mentality should be reserved for nice children and pets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:56 PM
52

Exactly. A "stay at home dad" is the worst thing to have. Unless they're completely screen addicted NEETs, men will not stay at home. In every relationship I've ever seen where the man was unemployed, retired, or even faking disability, they all still go out somewhere every day, and you can bet the low value shitty ones were out meeting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:45 PM
211

I personally just try to look clean, neat, and tidy. I gave up on "sexy" years ago. I spent years dressing for men, and it got me nothing positive. I cleaned out my closet and storage bins, and donated trash bags full of years of cute, fussy "date" clothes. I now only buy things for the me who exists right now, things I know I can use and truly enjoy regularly, without any stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:49 AM
16

It's amazing how all women over a certain age have dated that one person. If only we could find that one person, and throw him off a cliff, everybody would be better off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 10:09 PM
133

Yeah. The whole "soul mates" thing is a lie. If a man can't find anyone within his own geographic area, something is wrong with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:19 PM
64

This. He's only "nice" right now because he's getting free or reduced price rent, maid service, and food. None of the other young women he wants to fuck can offer him that. When he meets a better "deal", he'll be gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:44 PM
66

Even his family is involved, over a 9 month relationship. He hasn't even proposed, and expects her to rearrange her life for him. Let me guess, he wants her to come over, fix his dinner, and have sex every single night. She's nothing more to him than a free escort service and free maid. And we all know the "family" is his rotten mom looking to make sure her precious baby prince is coddled from the cradle to the grave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:14 PM
81

Never. 🎭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:14 PM
346

Men with fetish shit 🚮. He's never going to view her as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:10 PM
81

This was one of my many mistakes. Men will tell you that they're trapped in a rough spot, and things will change some day, but it's just emotional manipulation and future faking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:52 PM
84

This is beyond awkward, and he thinks it's a win. As soon as he pulled out his phone and started recording her, he lost any chance of a second date, or her ever going to his house. He might as well shit his pants in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:33 PM
38

After all this, she's too stupid to realize that he wouldn't have immediately kicked the daughter out if he had really been on the verge of homelessness himself, or some great guy trapped in poor circumstances. Some women's eyes just glaze over, and their brains turn off, at the thought of a penis. I swear. It used to be that people excused men who were losers at school because they made up for it by going to trade school or working extra hard to get ahead at work. Now I guess we've entered the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:13 AM
16

It's funny that he's so obsessed with sex, but also horribly offended by the fact that a woman who had casual sex with him probably sleeps around. What a genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:55 AM
115

Caregiving towards able-bodied grown men is so pointless, it's almost never reciprocated in any way. We can only wonder how many women cooed over this stupid picture, do similar things, and won't get anything more than a bag of Hershey's kisses for Valentine's Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:51 PM
141

Most of them are clones of each other, and they're not exactly hard to get. This is painfully true. 99% of the time, it's not like you're meeting a guy with remarkable talents, creativity, skills, genuine intelligence, perceptiveness or kindness. Even the "not like other guys" guy usually has nothing to back that up. Most of the anime scrotes and "science fiction" scrotes aren't particularly whimsical, most of them just haven't developed new interests since childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:48 PM
199

Men just don't care about the suffering other men put women through, because they take it for granted that women can be treated like shit for years, will fix themselves up ASAP, smile like they were never hurt, and quickly be available for other men to trash again. The only funny part is when these men get old, and throw public tantrums because they can't find any more victims to take their negative attitudes out on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:21 PM
15

Don't blame yourself. Most men will latch onto any woman who will tolerate them, even women they hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:12 PM
81

Poor lady, if only she knew that what lies on the other side of 30 is the perspective to care less. It's not a downgrade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:35 AM
271

If a man talks about strippers unprompted at all, dump him. I thought one of my exes objected to the seedy nature of going strip clubs, only to realize later that he objected to the PAYING EXTRA FOR SERVICES part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:26 AM
87

I know a lady whose vision started deteriorating during pregnancy, it never healed, and slowly keeps deteriorating for undetermined reasons. Doctors can't even put an official diagnosis on all the ways pregnancy can permanently injure a woman's body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:17 AM
56

Men who let negativity run their lives are such a drain, and losers by default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:31 AM
199

I think that bragging about their "spontaneity" is just a way to slowly manipulate women into subconsciously assuming a zero expectations position. Most women wouldn't pursue a man who told them upfront that she would always come last, always be stood up, always be left hanging by the telephone, always waiting for somebody who gets "delayed" or "busy at work" most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:21 AM
50

Also watch out for men who try to bypass the courtship phase and skip straight to behaving very casually, as if in a LTR. They are just doing it to be cheap, and fake you into believing the relationship has a stable future. A few times early on, one of my shitty ex-bfs remarked that it was just like we were a couple that had been married for years. It made me uncomfortable at the time, I should have trusted my gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:19 PM
88

This is such a sad example of why women shouldn't date broke men. That man was a hideous ogre, earned minimum wage, a divorce would have sent him to destitute living in a trailer park. He decided to kill his wife, and keep everything she had earned so far. He probably only married her in the first place to get money. Broke men are dangerous. There are so many true crime stories where broke men murdered multiple people just to steal a few thousand dollars worth of stuff. A broke man will murder a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:25 PM
133

What do you want to bet the allegedly priceless watch was jumbled up in a pile of junk on the floor of the van? If he really valued it that much, it would have been secured some place that isn't an automobile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:18 PM
90

Nobody decent would ever show up and expect to dig through all of a stranger's personal grief. Don't feel bad if you have to gloss over things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:58 AM
5

Men hate, hate, hate even the tiniest crumb of accountability that FDS represents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:47 AM
37

Exactly. The way they go through elaborate mental gymnastics to justify how they're still "good guys", despite doing lots of nasty shit, shows that they do know that goodness exists. Unfortunately, most men don't have the personal integrity or self respect to make the good decisions when it counts. They just want to invent excuses after the fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:32 AM
96

Seriously, women would be so much better off if teenage girls were encouraged to find an employed woman roommate who cleans and doesn't take, instead of moving in with a boyfriend. Nip instability and squandered resources in the bud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:00 AM
28

In the same spirit, I really doubt that this guy had an accident. He probably had other plans, wanted her to leave, and got pissed that he had to go to a strange house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:37 PM
7

He also probably had a whole list of justifications full of buzzwords for begging for cash. And there's always the emotional coercion for a woman to "prove herself", show her trust, show her worthiness, and take the relationship to the next level. Women have to wake up and realize that men are the ones who have something to prove, because they usually fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:26 PM
86

I would be worried that these "accidents" will escalate. He knows what he did, he has already forced her to miss classes that cost a fortune.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:45 PM
25

It's even worse, men can't be expected to stop hurting women, because women are expected to achieve a total suppression of negative emotions, as if Star Wars movies were real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:16 PM
264

Women need to know from the start that this just isn't a viable career path for some random middle class guy with no connections, probably living in the ass end of nowhere. Bernie Madoff had to scam just to report a 10% yearly gain. Think about it. Even if this guy could do as well as Bernie Madoff only pretended to, he would only have earned less than $3700 over the past year. He could earn more money working weekends at Taco Bell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:46 PM
208

And nobody would ever say that men are solely responsible for women's happiness, and should ruin their lives to make women happy, it's quite the opposite. Women are expected to be the mommy of every man in existence, but the majority of men won't do a damn thing in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:16 PM
75

Women are expected to derail their lives to provide "joy" to random male strangers. Compare this to the many men who abuse therapy language, who do something mean, then say, " It's not my job to make you happy! You can't blame your emotions on other people! You have to be responsible for your own feelings!" Amazing how two totally opposite things can be true, yet women lose out on both sides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:54 PM
40

But they don’t think they have to work on themselves to get a woman? As much as men like to do nasty things and then say that love isn't like it is in the movies, they 100% expect the protagonist treatment when it comes to their boners. Loser boomer cinema taught them that the whole universe should move the stars just for their cheap "love".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:18 PM
7

Wear "being a lady" like a suit of armor. So many women these days are preoccupied with proving that they are "real", strong, down to Earth, low maintenance, or not stuck-up, not scaredy. Man, fuck it all. I don't have to prove a damn thing to any scrote. I'm not going on a warehouse date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:38 PM
29

I hope they grow up with a healthy outlook on the trustworthiness of men, and ask those grandparents for advice frequently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:32 AM
185

It blows my mind that he was living entirely off the money of his wife and her family, and still had the audacity to ask to "open" the marriage. But then, not really, because these "poly" horror stories usually involve broke, leech men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:08 AM
296

What an utter piece is shit. Stay at home dad, his wife financed his hobby business, and he knocked up the secretary his wife paid for. He still thinks he was a good father, after he fucked up the lives of his teenage daughters, as if they didn't have enough problems already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:29 AM
118

So many men are very messed up and sadistic, and the male-centered feminism does everything it can to cover that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:29 PM
384

Imagine the hell that would rain down if a woman said she was embarrassed to be seen in public with another woman because she had basic clothes and natural nails. Women have to stop telling girls to be non-judgemental towards "boys", because nobody is out there training the catty, superficial, judgemental behavior out of boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:30 AM
20

The salon makes money when the model comes in to get her wax, hair, and nails done. Ulta makes money when she has to buy bulk foundation and concealer. Random Amazon sellers make money when she has to buy a lighting setup. Best Buy makes money when she has to buy a decent camera. The ISP makes money when she has to upgrade to a useable package. Ikea makes money when she buys that chair. Some ebay seller makes money when she has to buy a backdrop. Some AliExpress seller makes money when she buys …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:57 AM
27

It's sad. I don't know how these super insular family dynamics are formed, but they're a trap for women. They look healthy from the outside, but the scrote will always judge the woman as lesser than his family. Meanwhile, the woman's family is bending over backwards to be accepting of some weird scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 11:25 PM
34

Yeah, the women are just interchangeable bangmaids to serve a purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:41 PM
45

Yeah. The choices are private mule or public toilet. And the men who want you to be a public toilet still get mad when their public toilet isn't as clean and fancy as the toilet at a private country club.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:31 PM
102

Exactly. Girls get "nice" shoved down their throats from the time they are barely self-aware, but it's all a lie. You bend over backwards to please them, and they just hate you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:07 PM
36

It makes me see red at this point. I'm sure it has always been a part of lazy LVM behavior, but at least older generations were ashamed of it enough that they didn't outright whine in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:34 PM
69

This is the truth. He probably married her after years of failing to entrap anyone better by his selfish standards. Now he wants to party after work, come home and crash at midnight, and expects her to live with zero expectations, like some sad college girlfriend who comes over for sex and leaves right after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:31 PM
175

One of my exes mentioned driving blowjobs a few times, I assume this was in a movie or porn 20+ years ago. It's absolute idiocy to expect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:04 PM
336

Looking at his timeline, they were probably college-era girlfriends, living off parents, loans, and/or some educational stipend, without a care in the world. Of course he never thinks of that. He never thinks of what those women are like today. ETA: That wasn't even fair to college women, they still work hard in class. I'm so tired of this parasitic cycle where useless men decide grown women are bitches, devalue their work, then go use women who are barely legal and living on borrowed money, res…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:59 PM
207

Page 4 has one of my pet peeves, the men who feel wronged because they had to go from school to work, because their parents wouldn't/couldn't sponsor any party years. Work, work, work, WAAAAAH! Welcome to life, buddy. He's 29, the baby has been in existence for less than two of those. If he had a regular college education, he had years 22-27 to go to work, come home, then go out to party. He had roughly half a decade to cruise for ass at bars. These men never grow up, and their childishness usua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:35 PM
90

So many people under 40 these days never learned to think of money on an adult scale, and living around immature men who never aspire to do anything more than living like literal children only makes it worse. You know they have never paid a $200 grocery bill, and think actual furniture is unnecessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:51 AM
149

And he still lives with his parents, while grasping at his pennies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 12:56 AM
11

"Thank you for putting up with me." Walking on eggshells has been completely normalized. And the dirtbags who benefit from it would play stupid if you ever called them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:26 AM
115

It's shocking how many men make no distinction between a wife becoming a mother, and a wife becoming the second mother to the husband. And you have to compete with his mom in weird Oedipal contests. 🤡 "I could never love some woman as much as my mom." Fine, go fuck your mom, then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:26 AM
85

The same with carpets, they eat the mess and wear so the floor doesn't get destroyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:10 AM
38

Yeah. 24 is old enough to be an adult. We have to be less accepting and understanding of these men who want to have sex, but still live in a play pen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:37 AM
50

I used to look back on the period with my worst boyfriend, and wonder what happened to my self esteem and smarts. He really destroyed my mental health with his negs and games. It really is insidious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:23 AM
204

This is so familiar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:54 AM
39

The illusion that men are responsible or strong, and that women are frivolous, completely shattered for me. It's been almost entirely men freaking out because: They don't want to wear a mask in busy stores. They can't watch sports in crowded stadiums. They can't chase women at bars and clubs. They can't chase women at parties. They can't chase women at college, and so are dropping out instead of taking online classes. They can't eat without restaurants, or chase women there. Women have always be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:02 AM
431

Ugh, you're right. He wants to have sex in a closet-sized partition of an uninsulated sheet metal shack, on the cement slab floor, while it's below freezing inside. And it's a public area, so security could come open the garage door at any moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:11 AM
145

What the fuck. Come stand by a freezing cold sheet metal shed full of garbage, and help haul the trash to the dumpster. What a great experience! And neither is really single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:04 AM
118

Imagine a business that let one single customer test drive all its merchandise for free, with no obligations, for years at a time. It would be beyond bankrupt the very first month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:22 AM
246

I think a lot of millennial women have now fully realized what a farce modern romantic relationships with men are. We were the first generation to strive for the porn ideal, do "cool girl" shit with smiles on our faces, and most of us just got strung along for years. 20 years ago, there was an expectation that if you were a good pickme, you would actually get married, not get used as a forever girlfriend until menopause. Even though the men weren't perfect, a lot of shitty nightmare millennial m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:51 AM
45

I don't have to feel lonely when I'm alone. I don't have to act or dress like a dumb bimbo ever. My mind is clear when I don't fixate on a boyfriend, I have access to a whole deeper pool of creative influence and energy when a boyfriend isn't eating up my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:31 AM
39

I hope she leaves him, and he will be the only person in that house when it burns down or turns into a gas chamber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:43 AM
59

Scapegoat-maids. My grandmother was raised to be the family maid, and refused to pass that curse on to the next generation. As soon as my brother was big enough to make messes, my mom blamed his messes on me. The desire to worship baby dick is STRONG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 01:28 AM
8

He's got eyes like a shrimp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:16 PM
55

If they have only been together for a year, WTF have they already been fighting over?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:33 PM
70

On top of everything else, internet fame is not a career path, and people have to stop treating it like it is. The success rate is less than one out of a thousand. Nobody should feel obligated to support a spouse (or forever fiance) in chasing after that kind of "dream".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:47 AM
11

He must have scrounged that makeup out of the mother's trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:54 AM
218

My first red flag was when he assumed a grown woman was using crayons to draw, as if she was a little child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:19 AM
9

This is why young women should never believe the sugarbaby hype online. The johns expect a 100% regular girlfriend experience out of it. They know they don't have to pay in cash, and they will try to weasel out of paying in "gifts" or actual favors, because that's not fair and they wouldn't do it for a regular girlfriend, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:58 AM
66

Even straight men are determined to use online dating as a way to coerce women into serving as free prostitutes. No wannabe "sex worker" should be surprised when there are no gay or bi johns lining up to pay on Twitter. Grindr is free. I'm too lazy to check and see how many publications have credulously given these "sex workers" a platform, when it's all a game of pretend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:52 AM
25

Same. Any time I start to doubt whether one was really that bad, the neg sandwiches help re-convict him. It's amazing how one guy was a complete shithead, but genuinely only complimentary towards me, yet the guy who dated me while I was in the best shape always gave those negs stuck between compliments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:54 PM
126

It brings into clear focus how ridiculous it is when grown men are in relationships 3+ years, and still going on angsty little monologues about how they still just aren't sure and need more time to figure life out. Women are the only ones who should slow things down. It's not like most men vet women, anyway, they view women as interchangeable, because most women don't have the kind of disastrous mental problems that would bring a family to ruin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:27 PM
59

You have to swim through the cans like the ball pit at a Chuck E Cheese's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:11 PM
387

An exbf was future faking me (and himself) one night, and I brought up some similar big "plans" the husband of my friend had. He immediately laughed and told me the other guy was never going to do shit. I was so confused, because I honestly thought he would be interested in how a similarity ambitious man was making plans. They definitely know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:03 AM
647

"repeat classes" "with students a few years below me" Surely this means that he failed multiple classes, or had grades so low that the faculty wouldn't let him register for higher level courses. And he's trash talking his "wife" around younger men to take the heat off himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:36 AM
18

Women have to stop screwing themselves over by chintzing out on the things they really want. In all the hobbies I follow, there are always women who buy the cheapest, lowest quality options or substitutes, act as though it's the only sensible choice, and then their whole hobby experience is kvetching and trying to squeeze blood from a stone. And they inevitably get jealous and passive-aggressive towards other people. It's an epiphany to see how this connects to the same behavior in engagements a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:01 AM
12

I didn't start to heal and grow until after I dug up all the things I had forgiven over the years, and examined them with fresh eyes. Burying things just left them unresolved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:04 PM
58

"If he wanted to, he would." If a man really cares for a woman and wants to marry her, he'll make it known, and not only after 2+ years of dating. This is one of the many ways I messed up, thinking it was improper, trashy, or rude to be anything except 100% accommodating to the male-made timeline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:32 AM
181

What a piece of shit. He didn't even have the balls to break it off immediately when he decided he was ready for his new upgrade bangmaid, he had to waste a whole extra year of her life being petulant. He'll have his upgrade girlfriend knocked up ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:53 AM
191

I can almost guarantee that if a loser like this got a chance with a rich-looking woman, he wouldn't pull this shit at the very start of a relationship. They size up women, and decide how little effort they can get away with. The same way that they will wear ratty clothes on dates with you, then get dressed up to go to a club 60 miles away with "the boys".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:48 PM
32

She's probably desperate for one day a week where the floors can dry before somebody walks dirty footprints across them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:21 AM
6

This is the ultimate reason why you don't move in with a man until he has moved mountains to prove how devoted and committed he is to you. Even the ones who will never marry anyone still want to harvest benefits from having women around. They act clueless and offended, and ask what you bring to the table, but they know exactly what they aren't getting if you aren't there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:23 AM
88

Being the "cool girlfriend" doesn't even work. The men who ask for it will never participate in a real relationship. You just get sucked dry by a user, and he will move on at his own pace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:51 AM
7

I pretty much agree, he acted like a child because he knew he would still have free housing, food, transportation, and toys. My first stop would be GameStop just out of personal pride, the second stop would be for some empty cardboard boxes, because he would start packing up all his other junk to move out immediately. I doubt all the electronic toys combined would even pay for one month of health insurance, food, and half an apartment. It wouldn't even make a dent on the student loans he just wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:41 PM
69

I know what you mean about the overheard conversations, COVID really brought out the worst in lazy men. I recently heard part of an irate conversation, a lady's adult son had secretly goofed off for a whole semester of remote courses, and tried to blame his lack of submitted work on computer trouble on the final day. Can you even imagine? It's so childish and stupid, it's shocking. I would have packed up and sold every TV and video game compatible item in the house, I hope she didn't co-sign any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 10:24 AM
17

It will also be the perfect opportunity for male feminists to meet easily impressed, easily manipulated, easily abused women with no boundaries or positive expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:25 AM
27

I'm going to bet that very few actual street prostitutes are going to show up for this thing. It will mostly be college-educated women, their LVM, and a few XY chromosome prostitutes who insist that their experiences are exactly the same as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:41 AM
44

It's a terrible idea, just from a financial perspective. Marriage doesn't automatically guarantee citizenship, he'll still have to hire a lawyer and go through the full expensive process. He'll probably still have to leave and re-do the visa at least once. Since he's pulling this nonsense, he probably has little money, and a low demand career that would put him at the bottom of the regular immigration queue. It's just my observation that a lot of these guys seem to come from wealthy homes in poo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:06 AM
184

Yeah. He's probably several years older, and bombarded her with ridiculous pipe dreams. There's not much for a person who isn't full of shit to say in response. If she avoids entanglement with scrotes, in ten years she'll probably be working an ordinary job and enjoying her hobbies in her personal time, while he'll still be bullshitting young women in bars about how at 37 he's going to start his own business (no idea what kind yet) and join the navy to become a general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:02 AM
92

Exactly. She probably expected to go back to either of their places, or a hotel, not to be potentially humiliated in a public park. And he won't accept responsibility for the miserable sex, that took way too long, in the back of his shitty car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:20 AM
140

Yeah, those "female friends" he has been whining to about his sex life are probably women he's preparing to cheat with, if he hasn't already started. He's laying down that foundation by making his wife look so cruel and evil, waiting for one to take pity and have sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:59 AM
8

I feel for girls, because it seems like the juniors department has tinier, more transparent clothes every year. When most of the casual clothes are borderline club wear, there is no choice. You have to either look "weird" or buy something uncomfortable, and then adults blame the girls. And now we have creepy grown men talking about "her personal choice" while pretending that there's absolutely no sexualization going on at all. It really disgusts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:00 AM
20

Men view "clubbing" as a search for drunk sex, nothing more. Most of these shitty boyfriends wouldn't even put on a clean shirt and take you to Olive Garden, yet you're supposed to believe that he put on a dress shirt and paid a cover charge to go party at the club with his loser friends? The same losers who would have been happy getting drunk on a patio watching sports? Women have to stop being naive about this trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 12:36 AM
46

It still blows my mind. It's such a lesson in why women have to take their time with cohabitation and granting access to any property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 12:10 AM
149

It's like a textbook example of the "upgrade life, upgrade wife" maneuver. If he can get a better job, he's gone. He'll even throw his children in the dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:16 PM
162

I'm honestly surprised that the police enforced her rights. I knew a lady who dealt with her ex stealing her car for months, until he finally destroyed it. The police always told her to take it to small claims court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:49 PM
13

They never talk about mommy issues, and those are definitely real, and most men have them. Men are the ones who have to pontificate over whether or not they can ever love a wife as much as their mothers. I have never ever heard a woman questioning whether she can love a husband as much as her father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:16 PM
20

These women who serve their underage daughters up to teenage scrotes need a wakeup call. Especially after COVID, these boys can't provide any positive experiences at all, just unsafe sex in a tool shed somewhere. They have never had real jobs or responsibilities, are still bottle babies living in a crib. They need to grow up. No teenage girl should sacrifice her mental health so a scrote can have free NSA sex delivered to his play pen on a platter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:18 AM
143

Teenage boys do not deserve any sex at all. It only helps turn them into even bigger sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:39 PM
165

Same here. They probably want a small service just for family and close family friends. They will have to entertain some random woman they know is just being used, for hours, instead of their actual family from out of town. It will probably be one of the last happy formal events they have with some elderly family members. That's how weddings go. Imagine looking back at the photos years later, there are all the people you knew and loved, and then there's some poor random woman who was only there …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:47 AM
54

The men who whine like this will never give a girlfriend a gift, anyway. They're in a relationship to mooch and dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:21 PM
26

I agree. It also doesn't say anything about whether or not the women are still cohabitating and providing single men with every benefit of marriage. Broke, selfish, stingy men try to squeeze the most benefits out of women, and a lack of marriage doesn't mean they aren't churning through women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:15 PM
35

Pair it right up with: 🤡 "You can't rely on other people to make you happy." Right after he did something hurtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:21 PM
9

The question clearly didn't come out of nowhere. If you're going to lie about being short, don't upload group photos like a moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:22 AM
42

It also ignores how women have been trying hard to raise better sons for 50+ years now. That's where we got the manipulative sad boys and sensitive intellectual neckbeards. I don't blame the women, they put in 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:06 AM
49

To be honest, I don't think therapy can help men with relationship issues, only help them to not be an emotional train wreck. And even in that instance, it needs to happen in middle school age at the latest. I don't think you can completely fix a life spent in years of misplaced resentment and anger. If you can, it's a journey that will take a decade, and most men are fine with the dysfunction they cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:05 PM
47

Never let men make you feel ashamed for not having kids. Some of the very same scrotes would still be mad for different reasons if you did have children. It doesn't make logical sense. The fact that some women make it to 40 without kids shows that it's not impossible, and makes scrotes feel embarrassed about their poor life choices. But they also want a childless woman to care for their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:51 AM
10

Syngin seemed to have the "legend in his own mind" syndrome seen in many unambitious "nice guy" LVM/NVM: "maybe I'll be an opera singer or a fireman!" This hit close to home. Even the LVM who are employed will present pipe dreams as actual plans. It's hard for a young woman to understand, it would look so foolish if women did the same. It turns into another way that men can look down on women for being "basic", and future fake or delay commitment. 🤡 Can you even imagine how people would react to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:32 PM
377

There is no reason that a man she has only been dating for 5 months should have ever yelled at her. Not that yelling is ever acceptable, but especially not at only a few months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 11:37 AM
14

I agree completely. There are so many people in this world, it's ridiculous to attempt to befriend somebody with disturbing behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 09:29 AM
34

I wish people would backtrack on the heavy "always give everyone a second chance" moralizing messaging that has been pushed on kids since the eighties. It sets girls up for a lifetime of learned helplessness and abuse. It's good to be able to forgive and look at things from an alternative perspective, but we can do all that and still remove the offenders from our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:06 AM
9

Write down all the most egregious and absolutely unforgivable things that he did, so you won't idealize the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:53 AM
150

The complete apathy here is what kills me. He's not upset that his relationship failed, he just doesn't give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:39 AM
99

As soon as baby Boomer men had a foot in the door, they released a flood media that idealized loser males. Just watch old "square" TV and movies, the most obvious common denominator is that men who are lazy, low effort, dishonest, cowardly bums are shown as traitors and villains. I grew up thinking this was unrealistic and narrow-minded, and that guys who aren't "perfect" still can be good. Honestly, those older generation male writers knew men, they knew bums aren't secretly heroes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:32 AM
18

Exactly. One of my exes was absolutely porn-fried, and I mistakenly thought he was passive because he was secure and not possessive. He wasn't open minded, he wanted me to get into sex work because he had no plans of staying with me, he just wanted the most out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:52 PM
105

One of my exes tried this, but I didn't want to move in with him by the time he finally asked. Looking back, it probably only happened because he got a bigger place, didn't find any male roommates, and expected me to come pay half and be the free bangmaid. He was pissy about the fact that I didn't want to move in, but he moved out months later. He would have uprooted my life just to save money on rent for a few months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:02 PM
11

He's never " on call" for his job, that's his wife or main girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:50 PM
37

You can do all the housewife things for him AND hold down a full time job. It's his gift to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:58 AM
96

Exactly. I never got any nice dates, favors, or even genuine kindness and emotional support out of dating men, and neither have my friends. I didn't even get orgasms. I usually had to do top with the PIED porn addict, he was overweight and impotent. I thought all this was part of building a real relationship with a man, it was all wasted effort on my end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:32 PM
68

She won't get in trouble unless he takes the time to pursue it in small claims court. The police won't do a thing, Lord only knows how many unemployed men have used that to their advantage and stolen all their ex-girlfriends valuables weeks after the actual breakup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:26 PM
85

I would also bet that any good things he did were grossly exaggerated in her mind. He probably never gave or loaned her more money than a casual friend would, the same for school work help or emotional support. But he also got over half a year of sex, and this type of man definitely knows the retail price of sex. If he had to hire a decent, clean looking prostitute, that would cost him hundreds of dollars every week. Maybe he gave her an occasional $20 for gas money, he still got a great bargain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:49 PM
71

The loneliest I have ever felt was when I was in shitty relationships. Just feeling neutral and undisturbed is a relief in comparison. I'm thinking of past holidays and everyone I miss tonight, and not a single ex boyfriend is in that. None of them ever did anything for me for me, I don't have a single happy memory that I can look past the bad things and hold on to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:34 AM
18

What a mess. How bad off does this guy have to get before Hollywood puts him out to pasture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:26 PM
12

All I can say is that I will never again date any man who tells me that he's looking to change careers 1+ years away. They won't take any real action on it, but they will always use it to stave off real commitment to you in the near future. Just like with this guy, one of my shitty exbfs never finalized anything about his plans, they were always a year away, but he would present his pipe dream of the moment to others like it was a done deal. I have no idea how much he actually believed, or how m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:43 AM
544

I used to be one of those thin women who dated fat guys and never felt shorted, because the important part was the nice personality I hallucinated for him. Never again, you guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:34 AM
69

Exactly. If I don't do chores, I will end up living in squalor, and people definitely judge you for that. This guy is going to downsize into a smaller apartment, never clean, destroy everything with filth, and the landlord will have to gut the apartment when he leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:23 AM
20

The sad thing is that I've never needed a sex toy, never had to use one, but no guy ever gave me a single orgasm in the years I was sexually active. Not a single one, and I really tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:15 AM
80

LVM balk at the idea of being inconvenienced in any way at all, but they're happy to do much worse to women. Just look at all the ones who privately think they're too good for marriage, but still cycle through girlfriends who pay half the rent or mortgage, while also playing free maid, chef, and escort service, at a minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:24 PM
52

It was for an athleisure brand event, she was more covered up than half their mannequins. The guy sells spandex tights and sports bras as outerwear, and he's supposed to be offended?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 09:08 PM
318

I hate the "sheltered" bit. Are we supposed to look at the results of decades of deadbeat dads being normalized and be impressed? I'm impressed by the women who can keep on going, but a lot of them would have had better lives if they had been ruthless about condom enforcement. Most men don't care about whose life they ruin, just as long as they can run away and ignore it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:34 PM
65

And no matter how bitter men get, no matter how abused they claim to be, they never stop chasing after women. After a few shitty relationships, plenty of women just stop dating, and get called "bitter" for minding their own business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:59 AM
135

More like most women were out there trying to have a real relationship, while their worthless boyfriends were just trying to mooch maximum free benefits and services out of women until either the bills came due or a new target came along to exploit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:41 AM
184

They didn't even combine households until right before the first child was born. So he learned he could get a whole baby 100% free, while still living like a bachelor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:20 AM
154

Buying Pandora just shows how cheap and thoughtless he is, you can get the same quality of ring at Claire's for under $20. It's an almost $100 markup on a rhinestone ring that cost maybe $5 wholesale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:23 AM
300

This shitty man hates her, and is so devoted to his ego trip that he has carried around a cheap junk ring for two and a half years, just for the pleasure of not giving it to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:07 AM
115

It's a shame that girls aren't taught from the beginning that attraction from a man is no prize or rarity, there will always be multiple men who "like" you. The challenge is finding one who respects you, and is mentally healthy and capable of an adult relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:22 AM
158

I'm so tired of women being expected to trust in men and their intentions, as if the men were literally God, and all of life is just a test to show your devotion and faith to God. It seems even worse in nonreligious women. These men have done NOTHING to deserve that kind of devotion, they can't even keep their dicks in their pants, they are the worst possible partners, and demand the highest level of self-sacrifice from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:44 AM
14

Even loudmouth atheist men expect that religious helpmeet behavior from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:56 PM
43

The IRS also just dropped the threshold for businesses reporting payouts from $20,000 to just $600 per year. They're definitely going to start prosecuting people who lie about their income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:21 PM
16

I think it's naive for "experts" to assume that the men doing this are motivated by a goal more than meanness. It reminds me of the way burglars have always gone out of their way to unnecessarily destroy and trash my property, as if the theft was just secondary to hurting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:25 PM
14

I know I can never have a puppy, they require as much work and supervision as an actual human child. I just can't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:53 AM
36

It blows my mind that his solution to having problems with his ex-wife is to torture his new girlfriend. He sought out these relationships, he could go live alone in a cave if he wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:45 AM
286

And she still believes that the mother "brainwashed" the son. It's time to reconsider a few things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:01 AM
48

There's a saying that angers a whole lot of people: "Charity begins at home."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:44 PM
79

Blink and you'll miss the horrible manipulation. That bit about PPD is him trying to imply that she'll kill the baby if he's not hovering over her all the time. This guy is a piece of total shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:21 PM
56

They can assume any relationship is good by default. It shows that regardless of what LVM say, they know that a woman is almost guaranteed to bring some benefits into a man's life. When they act dumb about it, they're just trying to extort the maximum amount of free benefits they possibly can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:02 PM
34

“I am who I am” This really was the spirit of the 1990's, and it burned so many of us in so many ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:30 AM
12

I agree. It does women a huge disservice to pretend that women were all living like a princess in a tower prior to the past half century. It erases women's accomplishments, and is a favor to scrotes who pretend that women were all living life on easy mode. We all know that fancy households for millennia had female maids, household servants, nannies, or slaves. It's a complete blindspot to pretend those women and girls weren't working. I've noticed lot of messaging in the past 20 years only focus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 01:47 AM
73

If they would spend just 15-20 minutes a day tidying something up, they wouldn't feel so depressed after a few weeks. There's no way to feel good if you live in a knee deep sea of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:39 AM
183

And it really is an instance of bleed dry and discard. He divorced her to go be with an actress 20+ years younger than his wife. He's probably only got a decade or so left, that "forever" alimony at 150k per year isn't going to last forever. Household name celebrities have connections, as long as he asks, somebody will pay him money to involve him in their products, he won't go broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:44 PM
41

I know I have far more creative energy and a more diverse pool of inspiration when I'm single. This is why I think creative women in particular have to be very picky about men. LVM will suppress the talents, knowledge, and skills you spent years cultivating. What's even worse is that they do it for no reason, they will diminish the work you give the world, but they would be just as happy to drain a woman who blissfully has no creative bone in her body. It's not like they are madly in love with y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:02 PM
47

you’re supposed to be a team. It's the same with all the men who get jealous of their babies. These things are so completely incomprehensible to women, most think a man behaving this way is a rare fluke instead of bog standard misbehavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:39 PM
168

It blows my mind, but their delusions truly do last to the very end. There have been several other horror stories posted here about men in nursing homes, dying in the hospital, etc... who still won't commit to their forever girlfriends, or are still trying to hook up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:28 PM
69

It's sad that she has put so much work into her body, but even after regular head to toe salon treatments, probably daily workout and planned meals, and all the makeup, she's still not enough for her LVM. I feel like this is the end result of trying so, so hard to please a POS man who can't be pleased. The stupid song makes it even worse, she's physically perfect by porn-brained LVM standards, and he still obviously doesn't treat her well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:51 PM
283

If there was shit on the walls, the father almost certainly wasn't watching the kids at all for an extended period of time. He was probably parked in front of a TV, completely ignoring the vague smell of shit for 30+ minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:45 AM
13

This is true. He's probably chasing and failing to keep wealthier women where he lives, his girlfriend is just the backup plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:09 AM
28

You’ll ask him, what are you doing this weekend? He’ll say, oh nothing, but he’ll be partying. When you call him out, he’ll say oh yeah my friends wanted to go out, no big deal... (except it was planned a week in advance…) This is so true. If a man acts like a homebody or mature intellectual, but claims his friends are always dragging him out to parties, bars, or strip clubs, he's two-faced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:56 AM
35

Yeah, if a man ever introduces you to somebody as "my friend", he's a cheater. They aren't bashful 12 year old virgin boys, they're grown men who brag about having sex with women. It's NOT awkward for them to call you a date or a girlfriend, it's completely awkward to stand there while a clueless idiot man lies, and the other person clearly knows that it's a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:19 AM
24

I'm convinced, because it happened to me, that one of the reasons why women get trapped for years as a forever girlfriend is because they don't make enough money for their LVM. This won't stop the same LVM from using the resources women DO have, while they wait for their own Princess Jasmine to show up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:44 PM
63

Notice how most men act offended when a woman refuses to pretend men are all like Disney's Aladdin, but men are the ones always happy to point out that men aren't fairytale princes. They can't have it both ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:41 PM
14

I feel like it's a red flag when men nonchalantly say upfront that they have been dating around for years, and the women were all great nice women, but nothing worked out. I wouldn't listen to a man trash talk his exes, but I also don't trust a man who is too glib, because he probably never invested anything in any of his previous relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:55 PM
4

This. Men make even harsher and more exploitative choices all the time, and most people do not judge them for it. LVM just can't handle it when they're on the receiving end, plenty of forever girlfriends are in that spot because LVM are always looking for a higher earning bangmaid. 2 months of dating is nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:17 PM
10

Women need to run the instant a man tries to elicit a "pity me" caregiver response. Once they figure out that it works, they never stop being so tired, so overwhelmed, so overworked, etc... That will forever be the whole dynamic of the relationship, and it will never be reciprocated. They will just act bemused if you even mention how hard you're working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:54 AM
12

Their love just = penis. So much limp, deflated penis to give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:43 AM
33

Younger women also need to know that no decent man would be asking you for PIV sex in an area where you can't get an abortion, especially not if you're in college. What's he really going to do, get married at 22 to a woman he has only known for a few months? Even if one would agree to it, 99% of them would be angry and resentful forever about how you "stole" his bachelor party years of endless one night stands with a different supermodel every night. And if you agreed to put a baby up for adopti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:20 AM
53

Nobody ever writes about how often women in "great" relationships are loney, tired, anxious, and stressed out. LVM will drag you through hell, and fool you into believing that the misery they cause is from some external force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:46 AM
25

I hope this is a parody, because the princess stickers really sell it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:25 AM
266

When he cheats and she has to divorce him, she'll end up paying him alimony. Men aren't women, most of them will not stay home all day, and she has to trust that he's not online cheating even when he is home, which there will obviously be plenty of opportunities to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 05:44 AM
3

I would advise against dealing with this man. It will take years of attorney visits, and cost thousands of dollars, to immigrate to the US after marriage. He or his family would also have to own a certain amount of assets or money to be eligible to start the process. He's 38 and apparently owns nothing, there are so many ways he could ruin your life, even if his intentions are good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:36 PM
23

Thumb-twiddler Crypto Crypto
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:50 PM
15

WTF did I just read? This is some of the most manipulative man baby shit I've ever seen. He just can't suck it up and admit that he has a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:58 AM
88

When I first found this place, I thought some of the rules were a little strict, or unfeasible, but after thinking back on all my bad experiences, and all the bad experiences of other women I have known, I realized that the rules would have prevented all of them. So few girls are raised to put themselves first in their own lives, even in allegedly liberal families, you feel like a harpy or scrooge once you start to move your focus to yourself. Women can't figure all of this out on their own, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:22 AM
22

🤡 "I'm not like other guys, I'm a nice guy. Tell me I'm good and be kind to meeeeee or I'll hurt myself and cry all night. I support you and know how you feel, that's why you should send me some nudes." Boy, that's just what I was looking for in a website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:55 AM
19

That man looks 40, and his hat is still on backwards. And he cropped his ex out of the photo. I didn't even know T-shirts with pockets still existed. Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:37 AM
27

Many LVM will even tell you that they do the same thing to women. Just watch how many will tell you that they could never love a woman as much as their parents or siblings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:33 PM
70

Honestly, probably a lot more horrible manipulation and coercion forced on the youngest women by lots of passionate male feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:42 AM
26

And the woman often doesn't even realize that he WAS mean for two years, because he always had some kind of excuse, sob story, or guilt trip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:17 AM
15

I hope the whole "surprise overtime" excuse gets obliterated, along with the "so tired" guilt tripping. It's awful. Every woman should know that this is just a default trashy male manipulative behavior. They don't cry about how tired they are in front of their bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:07 AM
12

This this this. He didn't just get off working overtime at 9, he gets off work at 5 every day, goes to a bar with his friends, and fucks his sidepiece. THEN he's exhausted in front of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:01 AM
63

So many women would have saved themselves years of grief if they had done this. The kindest possible answer is that the men are just too overwhelmed to be dating, the worst is that it's all a pile of lies and the alleged turmoil and the transitory phase will never ever end. They'll still be figuring things out and unable to make decisions or commitments at age 45.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:04 AM
254

You wouldn't even spoil your own child this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:58 AM
132

It's sad. As soon as his mother began dying, he secured the next girlfriend as his forever Mommy2, and even that took more than half a decade and a child to finalize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:47 AM
70

Most men think TV wrestling is real. Once you realize that, their validation truly no longer matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:26 PM
235

Women really need to push back on the idea that all men care about is looks. It helps cover up the insane amount of everything-digging that men do. Men want a chef, maid, laundry service, taxi driver, personal shopper, live-in nanny, escort service and stripper, who still has full-time job that pays at least half the bills, and you have to look beautiful and salon fresh, on top of all that. We sense all these expectations, and pickmes try to do all these things for free to show how good they are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:20 PM
11

It made me so angry because I grew up poor and know how humiliating and shameful it is for the children to have to grow up like that and that "less than" feeling stays with you for life. Definitely. At least I know both of my parents tried hard. This is part of why I'm glad I didn't have kids, I didn't have to force another generation out into a depleted world, and any man I could have chosen as a father would have ended up a negative value, lazy POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:25 AM
25

As if her seeming like a "party girl" was an actual red flag to him, and not the very reason he drove two hours to meet her. He was probably chasing a younger, wealthier woman, who can afford to do what she wants, and wasn't about to entertain a bum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:06 AM
11

The really terrible thing is that nursing homes charge enough money that they could pay their employees a living wage, they just don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:39 PM
656

I think it's just a lie as an excuse, or a rationalization for bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:05 AM
115

Down near the end is the truth. She had to get after him for spending a bunch of money at restaurants or bars. Instead of finding cheaper places to hang out, he started dragging his friends back to his house as often as he could to punish her. What a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 09:12 AM
263

Never trust a man who says he's OK with you doing porn, it's never going to be true. Something ugly like this will always be lurking. He's been seething for months, but apparently he was happy to take the porn money, or he couldn't even provide enough for the both of them, ineffectual loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:46 PM
74

I think you made the right choice. If he learns that a good enough excuse will allow for any bad behavior, he will always seem to be overworked, overwhelmed, exhausted, depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:51 AM
42

It's definitely something from porn, that male idiots think is a documentary instead of fiction. It's one good reason to not date any man while in college, he will probably be an angry porn addict on top of being broke and having nothing to offer a woman except grief and frustration. This is how men who aren't actual virgins end up incels at 30, they blow their best chances with compatible naive young women, while chasing after the porno dream girl harem that doesn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:12 AM
5

If men want to pick an ideology, they should have to stick with it. Too many millennial men either want to be "conservative" while also being lazy failures, or be "liberal" and still expect a woman to just be an airbrushed bimbo and a mommy bangmaid and have a high paying job that requires a 4 - year degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:27 AM
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Good on both of them. I know from personal experience just how hard it is to believe the truth about a man when a 3rd party tells you. It's so easy to think the other person doesn't understand, has a misperception, or is jealous or spiteful. And so many women take it beyond even that, and treat it as a personal attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:18 AM
174

Men misbehaving has made the huge gap between male and female aspirations so much more apparent. Even low value women usually still want a clean furnished home, clean body, clean clothes, and have some willingness to make some sacrifices to have children, they have some vision of a future. LVM as a whole don't want any of that, just a bare minimum shelter to crash at after work (if they even work), games/TV/porn, drugs/alcohol, and to pick up random women to fuck at bars/clubs/parties. It's blea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:40 AM
31

The insane thing is how many millennial men have completely absorbed the idea that they are all the nice nerd hero, while they do mean things to their girlfriends, and are always quick to say that love isn't like the movies. Women need to start spitting that little nugget of wisdom right back at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:06 PM
45

Not just Hollywood celebrities, if he got a chance with a hot sorority member, or a well dressed lady who works in a fancier office in the same commercial building, he would take her on a real date. That doesn't mean he would be high value for her, but there are few things as humiliating as realizing you spent years as the free prostitute alternative, while he was at least making an effort for other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:36 AM
105

24 hour shifts while pregnant. So many women would have better lives if lazy, apathetic men didn't lie just to stick their dicks in women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:01 AM
185

A big epiphany for me was how girls have to be trained to believe shitty adult relationship themes, and make excuses for idealized men, yet nobody makes the same kind of material for little boys. Everybody knows boys will be bothering girls nonstop after puberty, they won't shy away from it. Nobody has to make media to convince men to interact with women, or that women truly care about them, or lie about how bad behavior is just a misperception. We lie to girls about the foundation of relationsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 10:26 PM
2

It's true. They act so smug about women having no interests, but their own interests are just passive TV, games, and radio. And if they do get a woman who has real hobbies, they don't appreciate her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:10 AM
718

This one really has everything, and he uses so many words to say NOTHING. He has no interests, no hobbies, no money, no life, but he expects a free cook and prostitute to self-deliver to his house. They are all so proud of how smart and unique they are, but they are all the same. Every city has thousands of copies of this same exact conceited, immature, boring guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:07 AM
190

Women have to return to being absolutely merciless when it comes to having pity on male "biology". No other creature on Earth coddles deficient and misbehaving males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:41 PM
31

Who knows how many other women he has done this to. These two probably died because they were the only ones who kept fighting back after the first dose of cheap street drugs laced with fentanyl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:56 PM
12

The terrible thing is that they probably felt safe going out at night because they were together. It's also terrible that men automatically associate parties, clubs, and bars with a desire for casual sex. Dirty and messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:48 PM
24

These days, I honestly endorse being a bit "crazy" if a man is trashy. As soon as boys start dating, they start benefitting from girls attempting to be "classy" and "respectful" towards them. Fuck it. They are only trashy and disrespectful in return, so go Jerry Springer on them. It's not high value at all, but they're the only ones who benefit when they can do years and years of trashy things, and never get called out for it. So many men do horrible things, and we just cover it up, maybe to avo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:05 AM
160

I hope modern women will start to wake up to what a curse this kind of stunted, mean childishness is. It's not just a joke, it's going to permeate every aspect of your life. We're expected to act like the supporting cast on the set of an Adam Sandler movie. This is real life, we aren't paid actors standing around so some moron can make a mess and then go home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:57 AM
143

If he truly wanted to be a provider, he wouldn't be whining about not being able to bag a house husband career. He wouldn't view having to work as a "penalty", in his own words. So many men born after 1980 never grew up, at 30 and 40 they're still lazy, sulking teenagers who view work as an aberration, but they still want a traditional bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 11:17 AM
16

"Sugaring" also encourages even more antisocial and dysfunctional behavior in men. The johns don't sit and think about why they can only get "dates" if direct payment is involved. They just get angrier, more entitled, and more wrathful towards the women who didn't demand a cover charge and refused them completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:13 AM
14

Like, how are you cheating? Your dick doesn’t even work. I've seen the exact same. It was one of the reasons why I felt I could trust him in the first place, too. He acted embarrassed about it, but was actually embarrassing himself in front of multiple women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:25 PM
109

It's true! "Working so hard" is usually scrote speak for sex after work with a side piece. The sidepiece is newer and might walk off if she doesn't get priority time slots. The devoted girlfriend can wait until 10:30 PM on a weeknight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:49 AM
72

It's also future faking. One of my exes brought up "sexual compatibility before marriage" many times over the years, I thought he was just assuring me that we were on a path to marriage and not "sinners" in some way. In truth, it was just a way for him to lie about wanting marriage without directly saying the lie. A lie is still a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:20 AM
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The game cafe is also an attempt at building false sense of an established relationship. We really have to be careful of men who want to do "old friend" activities ASAP instead of an actual date. It's also my opinion that if a man asks a woman on a walk date or "quirky" date, he has already categorized her as worthless trash. I got played hard by men who presented themselves as normal boring future dad types. They will take a naive woman on $0 manic pixie dates at odd hours, and be up in clubs a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:36 PM
51

I hope that more and more movies will be made that show fiction based on the realities of heterosexual male behavior. I feel for pickmes, because almost everything made for girls lies about men and their "love". A "boyfriend" wasn't even a real relationship to value or consider in the early 20th century, as soon as "boyfriend" became a thing, men worked hard to enshrine it as something to be sacred for women, instead of a brief audition phase for the men. And even that wasn't enough, now "FWB" h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 01:53 PM
20

I wasted years on a "too busy" guy who was cheating the whole time, and even he could call me back within 48 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 12:35 PM
239

Men who hate themselves really hate the women of their same ethnicity. Check out every twitter thread complaining about white women, the ones having a nuclear rage meltdown are always white males. ETA: It's especially egregious when the original complaint applies equally to white men or involves them in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:33 AM
26

There's also a 100% chance that he has whined about women being superficial and not appreciating men for who they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:20 PM
129

I've realized that if you only ask a man for love, you won't even get the love. That's the evil joke of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 06:54 PM
37

He probably met another woman at a bar who immediately had sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 06:23 PM
21

I think a lot of LVM are probably attracted to the military specially because this works so well as a trashy lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 06:21 PM
93

This is exactly it. They want to be seen as "good" in public, so they create what they think is a legal loophole to excuse future bad behavior. If a man ever starts with this "I'm not sure" nonsense, leave him ASAP. You could date him for years, nothing you do will matter, the relationship will never be "real" on his end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:15 AM
262

Remember that you don't ever have to teach men anything, your life isn't a PBS cartoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:00 AM
94

Somebody here posted a study a few weeks back that showed that after age 30, men father progressively lower IQ children, an average of 1 IQ point drop per year. I don't blame women for putting off children, because I know they had real reasons, they weren't just dragging their feet for the sake of dragging their feet. I will shame the average vapid scrote who put off having children until age 40+, just because he didn't really want a wife or children. That's a curse on children, mothers, and all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 08:59 AM
14

*pictures all in a suit, in the office, mentions career in profile (I achieved only one thing in my life and I will continually use it to: rub in your face, an excuse to cheat, excuse to not see you consistently, excuse to not commit) This is so true. If the only pictures are in an office, he probably has nothing else going on in life, he has no decent casual clothes, his home is an empty beige and gray wasteland, and he at least has the cunning to not post photos of himself at his Monday-to-Fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:50 PM
9

The minivan rear seat as a sofa is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:36 AM
27

One of my LVM exes really hated my cats, and insisted that cats only stay with humans to use them. It was complete projection. It kills me how they will scapegoat a tiny pet before accepting their own evil behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:44 PM
32

It's just poisoning and assault at this point. It sounds like they aren't even trying to have sex with the women anymore, just make them sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 04:03 AM
266

Unless there were visible presents and cake, she just walked in on a regular family dinner. The odds are only 1 out of 365 that it was a birthday, that's more than 99% against her favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:16 PM
51

I don't think any anti-porn sentiment will ever gain mainstream media attention from the left or right. All the writers are too connected to other writers involved in books, TV, and movie writing, and all media benefits from people using sexualized media as a replacement for sex. A lot of the people writing modern fiction are probably sexually fixated on older media properties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:56 AM
19

It really shows the different ways men and women process mass media. Regular women work to follow the standards of millionaire celebrity women, or just feel inadequate, while many men seem to just assume they already have whatever Brad Pitt has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:55 AM
15

Exactly. That's the real evil of this mindset, these men will enter relationships to use and discard a few forever girlfriends, until women wise up. If a relationship is doomed to fail, at least let it fail with some minimal good faith effort made by the man, not a farce from the very beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:30 AM
271

So delusional. When strangers hit on me while in line, I swipe my card and power walk out of there as fast as I can without breaking into a run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:47 AM
374

That post is almost pure elemental LVM delusion. First, if a man at 20 isn't a smooth talker with women, nothing is ever going to change that. About half the USA lives below the poverty line, the majority of men are never going to be flush with cash. Most of these guys are looking at something under $40,000/year at best, unless they were ambitious since childhood. At 40, most will be bald, wrinkly, living on fast food for decades, fighting the low testosterone of manopause, and even the gym is g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:36 AM
59

Most men don't have the same sorts of warm feelings towards women that women have towards men. They don't build women up in their minds, and usually resent them by default. Whatever warm feelings you feel, it's better to assume that they are not reciprocated, even from "emotional" or alleged liberal men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:21 AM
83

This happened to an old friend of mine, it really shocked me that his whole damned family lied and covered for him. Especially with the broke LVM, the families just want to find another person to pay their bills, and they're desperate to get a "legacy" grandbaby out ASAP before he inevitably goes to jail for assault or theft/burglary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 08:04 PM
1

It goes to show how JP is from an older generation, and just how far men have deteriorated in recent decades. The truth is laughably obvious to him, but most young(er) men now really do think they are all undiscovered gems. Women at least are quite capable of blaming themselves for problems, when the thing they are doing wrong is tolerating fools in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 07:03 PM
74

I agree with this. My worst was my worst just because he superficially seemed like a generous, ambitious, very hard working, kind, considerate golden boy. In truth, he was just an ordinary scroogey POS who was out trawling for ass every time he said he had called off a date for the 100th time due to work, helping a friend, helping family, etc... And when he did show up, it was just to have sex and neg me. It ruined my mental health, but the years I was "dating" him, I would have insisted that he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:18 AM
133

It also never gets any better. 20 years ago, women who accepted habitual porn use and strip clubs were rare. Women slowly got pressured into accepting those two things as healthy and normal, and now you have to accept polyamory, sexual violence, and prostitution as good. "Age play" pedos, simulated CP, diaper fetishists, and guys who abuse animals are working hard to gain acceptance. There is no upside for women, it's one big race to the bottom for men who can't control themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:03 AM
40

These guys actually have up an archive of some of the old public pages from the site. Your page might still be in it. https://geocities.restorativland.org/ A nice glimpse of a friendlier internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:13 AM
480

I used to think men who had doubts about marriage were as sensible as women with doubts about marriage, but now I realize that they're just trash, the only exceptions are the men who completely leave women alone. Women are cautious because they don't want to give up everything they enjoy and live like a slave, men are scared that they might have to make ANY compromise at all. They just want to extract wife services from women, for free, with no commitment or effort at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:08 AM
178

Absolutely. Growing up in a poor neighborhood, I learned to not put fancy things on the exterior of my property, buy thick curtains, and make sure nobody can see anything expensive (really just decent) through my windows. That was my mindset since childhood, for my home and for my person. Men have to be treated the exact opposite way, because the appearance of maintenance and responsibility scares them off. It's very sad, because almost every piece of media for little girls valorizes being "low …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:18 PM
935

This is why women act "crazy" after a man finally dumps her. You get taught since childhood that you have to climb every mountain to prove yourself to man, so you do. You spend years climbing every mountain, paying bills, rearranging your life, making any sacrifice you have to, and then he just walks off and insists he doesn't owe you shit, you never did anything for him. This is the true face of most men. It's not your place to do one single thing for a man. Men are supposed to prove themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:41 PM
77

I think that it saved a lot of millennial women from crummy marriages and divorces, and removed a lot of scrotes from the gene pool. I wouldn't necessarily say it's a good thing, since most of those women probably went through years of mistreatment or outright abuse as the "disposable" starter forever girlfriend. Men who pulled this shit without the money or looks to back it up deserve to be laughed at. I really think some of the most antisocial and delusional male genes are currently culling th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 10:45 AM
381

I'm so tired of hearing men who don't have an ounce of love in their bodies talk about "love" at the same time that they put an innocent woman down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 01:48 AM
410

I really wish that women would stop letting men bluff about "love", when they don't show any actual affection to women at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:00 PM
866

Even before FDS, any time a random man would try to tell me about myself, I was completely repulsed. One time a guy was telling me about how much of a quiet homebody I was, he didn't know that I had just broken a tooth a few hours earlier, that's why I seemed shy and really didn't want to talk to strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:20 PM
59

Imagine how few men would be left alive if women killed cheaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:54 PM
30

The first one, I don't want to have the "people are not so bad, you need to trust and be open" conversation with a pickme for the 1000th time It's hard to deal with the fact that even women who should know better still want to deny that there's something mentally wrong with a majority of men. It's like women embraced "be nice to everybody" as a religious conviction, even though men don't. Nobody should ever find out exactly why a man is acting off, there is no prize to be won. 🤡 " It turns out h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:26 AM
165

Let me guess, he didn't actually do much of anything nice for you. Good riddance. They think porn is real life, and likewise expect personal credit for the nice things they saw an actor do in a romcom movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:34 AM
532

They will also be burning up with resentment and an inferiority complex, two of the most important things to avoid in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 04:13 AM
90

The delusion is truly amazing. He's ancient, obese, can't even stand up straight, yet he thinks a literal model would want to be seen in public with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:10 AM
79

Most men are romance scammers, they're just getting a taste of their own medicine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:08 AM
39

Definitely. Also, never believe a man if he pretends that he doesn't know/can't commit fully due to this or that reason. Whatever it is, it's just an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:32 AM
142

This is the sort of guy who keeps the thermostat set at 50 all winter, even though that means nobody can do anything in the house except sit and shiver in survival mode like a caveman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:07 AM
55

And if you work and don't have children, and don't even force a man to be tied down, they will call you a selfish waste of space. Imagine that, a whole functional wife appliance just sitting alone in an empty house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:50 AM
4

Absolutely. Men can neg and badger you again and again, they never back down when you try to shut down the conversation politely, but when you finally break down, it's "manipulation" and "making him look bad". Men don't do this to other men, another man will explode in a rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:28 PM
5

That's my takeaway. They don't repress it, it was never there to repress. If anything is repressed, it's either too evil or foolish to speak out loud, or repressed around other men, because they know how sociopathic and predatory other men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:52 PM
46

I wish there was a big database of every time an actor, author, or musician told fans that their work is either bullshit or not something positive to base your life around. Because there are lots of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:39 AM
167

What better woman does he think he's really going to get? No hot virgin teens are lining up to date a 36 year old single dad of 3 kids. He should have tied down that relationship back in the day if her body count was so important. He's going to destroy the mental health of all 3 kids, just to chase other women who have had sex with 5, 10, 15 other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:07 AM
60

The terrible thing is how many of these useless, envious men will use their imaginary scenarios as justification to mistreat every woman they date. Always a withdrawal from her life, never a deposit. And they will be the ones envious and mad at the person being drained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:36 AM
70

It's like shopping for a PC, where most of the floor models have mislabeled specs, and are just old Compaq Presario parts shoved into a new case. You can't check the system information, you just have to poke at them until you figure out which ones came straight from a landfill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:24 AM
96

The only women who are loved unconditionally by men are women who stay attractive, thin and fit, sexually available, compliant, and willing to provide free maid and cook services. Even their own female family members only get unconditional love on the condition that they are unobtrusive, don't get in his way, and never cause him any grief. That unconditional love seems like it might have a few conditions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:57 AM
64

They're living in denial of their own mortality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:37 PM
8

I agree. Men of all political groups instinctually move towards positions that benefit men over women. There's no downside for women if women of all political opinions put themselves at the center of their own lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/21 04:05 AM
90

35, still broke, and looking for free prostitution services. Don't even throw this one back, he'll never be ready. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:00 AM
139

Don't even believe the whine about men only getting "girls" when they're older. Most of men get plenty of attractive options in their youth, they just don't value them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:23 AM
60

💀 These "conservative" men who wait until middle age to marry, and then act like they are dainty virgins shocked that women have had sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:33 AM
18

Flames shoot out of my eyes every time I see some young naive woman talking about her "privilege" or "easy life" in relation to her LV boyfriend. If anybody can impugn your lifestyle, it's not some random guy who's harvesting benefits from you. Most men need to watch a whole series of TED Talks just to pretend to understand why child sex abuse is bad. Don't take advice from random men who are probably self-serving scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:03 AM
404

I wish she would dump the account list, even though she probably shouldn't tip him off yet. I'd just love to see how often his sock puppet accounts were talking to each other or tag teaming an unaware person. 15-20 is a ridiculous amount.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:47 AM
365

I'm sure all the stranger men who have ever harassed me on the street felt justified in their heads. They didn't know me, they just invented something nasty and lashed out, while I was minding my own business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:39 PM
5

My eyes are rolling out of my head every time I see a an unmarried or childless "conservative" man over age 30 whining about abortion or birth control. They are happy to live a carefree life, and hate women for the cleanup job that allows men to live a Peter Pan lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:13 AM
5

Never believe the oppressed, dark horse mythology a man has invented for himself! The proof is in the pudding, he can't even hold down a minimum wage job. Odds are that this guy's life wasn't particularly harder than many people had, he just started making incredibly selfish, sociopathic, stupid choices as soon as his balls dropped. I feel angry for every woman who gets sucked into these scrote's downtrodden hero lies. Don't listen to any boyfriend who guilt trips you about your "unearned benefi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:50 PM
261

It's much more projection than they will admit. Most men prioritize absolutely everything over their girlfriends or wives. They're just sad now because the last two generations thought they could all mistreat women and still have access to an unlimited supply of new naive women to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:38 AM
5

Exactly. If a man doesn't have a provider mindset, it will turn to a leech mindset as soon as he gets the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:37 AM
7

I think that a lot of liberal women have an almost religious devotion to their idea of a truce between the sexes. They have to pretend that men have the same exact motivations as women, otherwise men won't behave well toward women. Unfortunately, there is no truce, and men keep on doing their things uninterrupted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:02 AM
617

The squandered money alone is likely obscene, she needs to have her attorney go over all their joint bank statements, and slap an accurate monetary value on his hoard of pornography, porn-consumption devices, and sex toys. Don't let him sneak off with enough wasted assets to pay for a whole new car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:29 AM
38

And she's the one who is going to end up alone, after he either returns to his wife, or finds his next sidepiece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:24 PM
14

I do think that pushy men with no real hobbies are spending that spare time chasing women at bars/clubs, or with porn. They really don't have anything else going on, utterly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:20 PM
23

This. Never take a man's stated "dreams" at face value, especially if he isn't actively 100% engaged in achieving them right now today, future reservations and "plans" do not count at all. LVM know how to use "plans" and "dreams" as excuses and weapons. I've seen it in the turds I've dated, I've seen it in the turds my friends dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:18 PM
40

I also don't think it was necessarily OCD to clean. She was probably filming every day, she needed everything to always be as clean as a TV show set. Since they were moving every day, there wouldn't be a chance to re-shoot scenes later. I'm sure he was completely oblivious to the hygiene aspect of daily filming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:59 PM
63

It's amazing how they mistreat women for years, know their friends are pulling the same crap, and then they act shocked when grown women don't want to be tied to any man with a baby. Women are perfectly capable of understanding the existence of cause and effect, hence all the pickmes ineffectually trying to earn good behavior from men. Most men seem to be stunted with a toddler's understanding of causation, complete with the expectation that an unseen outside force is going to clean up all their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:12 AM
160

Never believe men who insist they aren't like other men. Poor lady, I hope she comes to her senses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:17 PM
3

And she's probably already suffered through years of loneliness and stress from him being deployed or busy thousands of miles away. Meanwhile, the first thing he did after leaving home was cheat. If he did it this time, he did it before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:35 AM
21

Took the words right from my mouth. It's amazing how many men took music videos and Hollywood teen movies as documentaries, and are mad 20+ years later because they didn't get to live that party fantasy. Male-made media loves to paint women and girls as superficial airheads, but check out which sex throws temper tantrums because they can't party 24/7 and have sex with strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:48 PM
8

Remind her that you can catch plenty of STDs on other parts of your body, just from casual contact or an infected man wiping his diseased smegma hands all over your living space. It would be terrible for little kids to get hepatitis, or herpes in their eyes, or warts all over their bodies. Most men don't wash their hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:20 PM
203

I hope people tell her that she needs to divorce this asshole. That whole family has decided that she owes them money because they think she has lived life on easy mode. It won't stop here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:41 PM
75

I wish women would start admitting the final piece of the puzzle. Men commit shocking domestic violence because most of them enter into relationships just for the benefits and bragging rights, not because they care about the person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:57 PM
95

Just sitting in my home, listening to the neighbors, I've heard so many of these fights over the years. The woman is in tears and still clearly values the scrote, the man has a "ha ha bro" attitude. I have never once heard a man plantively beg a woman the same way. They get really mad if they come "home" drunk at 4AM and the GF kicks them out, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:32 AM
165

Wow, that's even worse. They may have housed a murderer in the same building as abused women with children. And men act offended that women don't want men in women's shelters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:15 AM
89

I know exactly the videos you are talking about. The authors think they can just swap the genders of creepy stories about men. It doesn't work that way, women don't get off on roofied men, imprisoned men, injured men, or dead men. Creepy men are a dime a dozen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:51 AM
158

"Everything else about him is amazing" She needs to ruuuuuun. He might truly be putting on a good show today, but in a few months he will start nitpicking her body. Odds are 100% he has been watching underage porn, has a completely distorted view of women and girls, and is a pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 12:23 AM
101

Men should have to eat their own words, he should have left her if she was abusive. And, truthfully, he would have, if she had really been abusive, and all of his decisions were in good faith. But an ex-girlfriend doesn't give you free sex or access to a free middle class lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 12:02 AM
7

I've been in the same exact situation on a different holiday. "You wouldn't enjoy it, it's just some guys I know." Male depravity is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:46 PM
70

Gabby doesn't seem like a party girl - and most young scrotes love to get drunk and whoop it up. She probably liked Brian cos he was 'down to earth' and 'more mature' than guys his age. I really felt this. I experienced exactly this, it was all complete lies. You get trapped, because if someone this "nice" is so hard to date, how much worse are the worse guys? They are all the same, of course. I feel sad and angry thinking of this woman. Her last hours were probably spent confused, crying, tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:39 AM
54

Men aren't happy to hang around the house, mind their own business, and get the necessary things done. Not that women are happy to be stuck at home all day, but men absolutely won't do it. A "house husband" will end up at bars, gyms, the mall, every single place in town where women are, and he will cheat because he has nothing else to do all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:24 AM
96

Most men don't have shit to "discover" about themselves, nothing at this point can convince me otherwise. Women are the ones who have to discover themselves and grow, they're the ones forced to live in a box made of lies for 18 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:09 AM
13

We hear constantly about how nothing can infringe on the desires of male "biology", but even fundamental needs of female biology are ignored. Human society is so diseased, the cart is always before the horse. I wish women would realize that most men contribute nothing to their lives, so those men shouldn't dictate anything at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:42 AM
3

The same thing happened to me. I was just stunned as he kept talking to his mom while fondling me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:50 PM
60

This is why it's so important for a woman to never put herself in the provider role with a man. Don't pay for their birthdays, man toys, dream vacations, dream careers. I'm sure this woman genuinely cared for this ugly POS, since she definitely wasn't with him for his looks, personality, or money. But he only cared about what he could get from her, and once he knew the freebies were over, he killed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:42 PM
9

It's funny how even alleged conservatives have completely thrown that out the window these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:47 PM
36

And we know he's never going to save another penny as long as this relationship lasts. He's already thinking up ways to have an "emergency" to drain some of that cash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:32 AM
36

In just ten years, the girls who endured peer sexual predators in elementary school are going to start growing up. I can only hope there's a tipping point where women will start demanding separate schools and living accommodations for women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:17 PM
39

👍 I don't really believe the free therapy angle anymore, I just see it all as emotional blackmail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:31 AM
46

I think he's definitely fudging the truth about their financial situation. Neither of them work at around age 40, with kids? I don't believe that. It just sounds like the usual "passive income" LARP a million loser guys use to cover up their unemployment. A super wealthy investor wouldn't need to write to an advice columnist, he could just contact a porn publisher, take some of his own money, and co-produce the porn on his own yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:35 AM
142

One of my ex boyfriends wanted me to RP as an anime schoolgirl while I was around him. I just refused every time. I avoid any show that plays into that. Honestly, Yamishibai is the only new anime I've followed in years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:53 PM
596

Exactly. Everything is just one big meat market instead of groups of fans of things. You're the odd one out if your sexuality isn't somehow tied up in the convention. That, and a half dozen corporations bought out everything and homogenized it all down to the very lowest common denominator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:18 PM
68

It blows my mind that even with teen pregnancy fouling up the lives of so many girls, they still outperform and graduate high school in higher numbers than boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:09 PM
131

I hope the wife leaves him ASAP, he's in for a big surprise. There's no way on Earth a real teenager is interested in a man in his seventies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:42 PM
155

I'm glad that she could get supportive comments, hopefully more women are getting clued in to male golddigging behavior. It would be too easy to accuse her of being stingy, starving his kids, not being appreciative of everything he will bring to the relationship someday 🙄, and not being a generous enough "mommy" to children she should barely know. It's so easy to deflect male misbehavior, especially when kids will lose out, but those kids are not her responsibility, she's not a needy children ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:04 AM
183

I think they are trying to avoid saying the truth, without using a lie that can be held against them in the future. They just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:18 PM
46

Exactly. Even if they say you'll be a great mom, they aren't serious, and will just waste your youth, so you might not even get to be an actual mother. They don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:05 PM
9

It makes me sad to think of how many women would have had completely different life trajectories if they hadn't been brainwashed since birth by LVM-centric culture. We tether women to relationships that are closer to 100/-100, and you have to work even harder if you want to do anything more than just keep your head above water. Why not have a culture that just pushes all the -100 LVM out into a shanty town? TBH most of them would be happy living in a toolshed, as long as they had an internet con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 11:04 AM
26

It really shows how even "liberal" parents can easily value sons over daughters. They were willing to do anything to cover up for their sons who slept around, and worse. They were wealthy, they could have sent her overseas to party and live off a trust fund under a new name, Lord only knows how many sons of wealthy men do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 08:24 AM
18

The only thing JFK had going for him was the public "family man" image he created with a wife he abused in private. It really is incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 07:57 AM
33

I think women should maximize their privacy by signing up for the minimum number of websites/apps possible. A big site or app gets hacked, or "leaks" user data, almost every single month. The men running these things don't care, they're all either too small or too big for anybody to launch a class action lawsuit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 06:35 AM
188

It really drives home that you have to avoid any man with a chip on his shoulder about "jocks", "preps", rich guys, etc.. I know that eliminates more than 95% of men immediately, but that's men. Your messed up life will just be collateral damage in his lifelong attempt to get revenge on the sort of men he thinks you have slept with. It's pathetic to think of how many men over 20 are still mad about their first grade bully. And how many men over 35 are still mad at their parents because they were…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 06:12 AM
56

It's this. Self-proclaimed "nice guys" excuse their own frequent bad behavior because they think they have earned the right to slack off a bit by being such "nice guys" every day. The truth is that they were zero value to a woman on their best days, and negative value when they act up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 05:30 AM
21

I wish women would stop giving men the benefit of a doubt. It doesn't matter if their predatory/leech behavior is a conscious decision or just an inherent evil part of their character. The second option might honestly be even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 05:08 AM
45

If he really was so worried that no other woman would ever settle for him, he should have been married 9 whole years ago. Imagine scamming a woman for over a decade, and then feeling sorry for yourself when it all falls apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:48 PM
373

LVM will always talk about all the other, "non-materialistic" ways they can show love. But watch these assholes NEVER actually do any of that, even in relationships that last years. Driving you to a cheap restaurant date before having sex with you is not an alternate way to show love. Neither is some cheap talk about how much he supports whatever you're doing, empty flattery, or empty encouragement to do something big--with zero actual help offered. A man who actually does demonstrate love and d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:36 PM
64

Ugh. He's guaranteed to be one of the ambitionless losers who wants to retire at 45, and live like a broke minimum wage employee for life. Of course they have to twist the truth around women, because even a woman earning actual minimum wage wouldn't settle for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:17 AM
114

Amazing how men get so sensitive when the "just a joke" is on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:48 AM
6

They’re like schoolyard bullies This is exactly true. There are so many mean bully things "boyfriends" do to women, that women accept excuses for, but we would instantly see the truth if we swapped out the gender and ages, and it was one 12 year old girl doing a similar thing to another 12 year old girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:29 AM
157

I like a story with a happy ending. A lot of NVM didn't realize it in their prime, but they only had a brief window when they could fool any woman into tolerating them, and they blew it. It saved half a generation of women from divorces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:21 PM
517

The sad thing is that she probably doesn't fully see yet that she's being gold-dug. After all, she's just paying her half. But if she was with a female roommate, they would be in an apartment that already cost half as much, buying groceries that cost half as much. And, in reverse, he wouldn't be able to find a guy roommate willing to pay for half of an expensive apartment, when the other guy could just live on his own at the same price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:50 PM
19

I feel like an actual business owner would say that she runs a shoe store or boutique, not that she "sell[s] shoes and bags". AFAIK there isn't a shoe MLM out there, so if you want to sell shoes, you have to own a real registered business and deal with suppliers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:14 AM
246

He doesn't realize that repelling men like him is the entire point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:58 PM
400

It's horrible that he found out the other woman was divorced, apparently poor, and living with a "sick" mother, and he saw that as an opening to inject his dick and his drama into her life. Not even an ounce of decency towards what damage his FWB nonsense is going to do to a person who is already suffering. I hope his wife realizes there are better dicks in the sea. And what a pathetic sod he is if he can't afford a $50 motel room at age 32. It's like a rule of poly horror stories that these men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:27 PM
1

Modern men at 18-45: "I don't owe you anything, I never promised you anything, I didn't ask for you to do any of that." The future of these same guys at age 55: "Why doesn't SOCIETY value men. Why doesn't SOCIETY take care of men?" 😭😭😭 Every community dick will go to the grave feeling wronged because he didn't get the treatment of an actual beloved father figure. They will never connect it to their own behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:43 AM
42

Exactly. The majority of heterosexual relationships I've witnessed as an adult involved moocher men who still got lavished with completely undeserved love and praise. But they don't care about those things when they come from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:35 PM
27

These guys could watch Moby Dick, and walk away idolizing Captain Ahab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:25 AM
83

🤡 "I should be able to hurt my partner without feeling any guilt or blowback." So many men are completely worthless. Don't feel even the slightest hint of love, empathy, or pity once you realize you're dating one of these soulless pieces of trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:57 PM
2

It's amazing how they will compare you to a car, but then they expect the free "test drive" to last for year after year. Can you imagine walking into a car dealership and demanding to test drive a car for 5 years, with free maintenance and gas? They would laugh at you and tell you to call Budget rentals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:16 AM
112

The bit about discussing seedy topics really cements in my mind that women have to behave like "a lady" around dates, not to be fake, not to be perfect, not to act better than other people, but to protect ourselves from men we don't know yet. A date is not your friend, you can't treat him like one. I felt an intense need as a teen to not be "prudish", "stuck up", "fake", etc... I can't pinpoint where exactly it came from, obviously nowhere good. "Not like other girls" is like a modern religion a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 08:33 AM
209

I had never thought about this until FDS brought it up, but male reactions show it's the truth. How does a male prove himself? By staying out of jail, getting an education, a job, any car, and moving out of Mom's basement. The same exact things that are expected of young women, except women are also expected to give away their spare time as free sex dolls and possibly free maids without experiencing any negative emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:42 AM
6

Here are three 1990's tracks I particularly like, Even 20+ years after I bought the CD. Peach "Sorrow Town" https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HruIn3AGKtc A song about pulling away and leaving. Joydrop "Spiders" https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wheoSIW7lew A song about the ick. Taste of Joy "Dear John" https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7iZdeGCXFKc A song about having a weak, useless ex and a dead child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:00 PM
16

The scary thing is realizing that this isn't too far advanced from the double life lies a lot of scrotes already use to cheat. Never ever trust boyfriends around your money, private data, or valuables. I know some people will make it seem like you're antisocial and disconnected if you don't immediately give men your full trust, but to hell with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:50 AM
81

I guarantee that every guy who drives a beater car, and bitches about other people buying fancy cars, is going to buy the fanciest car he can the first chance he gets. It's all a ruse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:44 AM
29

He even makes an argument for polygamy. I can only wonder how many women and girls the average LVM thinks he's entitled to wreck the lives of, on top of abandoned children. There was a recent study that found 30% of women 25 and under don't want a sexual relationship with a man. Even if you subtract the lesbians, that must be almost a quarter of the women 25 & under. Another 30% are married. It's a laughable situation, men of all ages are chasing an age group that has only 4 out of 10 women avai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:15 AM
22

I guarantee that this very non-materialistic guy will immediately buy the fanciest new car/computer/video game thing he can afford the instant he gets a bonus or raise at work. Especially if he has spent time whining about people who do frivolous spending, which we know he has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:52 AM
5

I wonder when the "take it slow" lie first started to circulate. I feel like men realized that women are wary of rushing into marriage and babies in their early twenties, so men exploited it and started to pretend that they feel the exact same way for the same reasons. That's what I thought it meant, that he was cautious like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:45 AM
89

Absolutely. When I was a Hollywood level of thin, I dated a guy who was 20+ pounds overweight, while I was about 20 underweight. He eventually started "suggesting" that I should join a gym to lose "the last few pounds", and also get breast implants, and negged me for eating at dinner a few times. He would bullshit about his own exercise. I hate that I loved him and tolerated that. I refused to lose any more weight, or join a gym, because even famous actresses don't stay super thin and super fit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:42 AM
1

I used to be perplexed by documentaries on serial killers, and the statement that they usually work to maintain a false self who is a "good" guy. If I got to the point where I was stacking men in a crawlspace like John Wayne Gacey, my conscience would be completely checked out and gone. I eventually realized that all LVM do this nonsense, it's one and the same with "nice guy" lies. They all pretend to be nice guys while they do mean or evil things to sex partners or sex victims, It's just a ques…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:32 AM
349

This story puts these kind of "sweet" blended family vows into an entirely different light. Which really shouldn't be surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:48 PM
90

LVM fixate on party girls, resent them at the same time, pretend all women are young party girls, because that's the only kind of women they want. Of course bars and clubs have to bribe women to be there, most women have more beneficial things to do with their time. Men are pathetically obsessed with trying to get sex at bars and cheap clubs, and get pissy because clubs reject them and their entrance fee. It's their own fault for orbiting these places like mindless zombies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:37 PM
115

The men are the same ones who wouldn't even fight for their own freedoms, because they can just flee solo to another country overnight once they miss alcohol, music, and carousing too much. And they will try to assert the same domineering religious laws into whatever countries they run to, because it's about avoiding being on the bottom layers in a hierarchy, not an honest expression of culture or religion. The same as "trad" "Christian" men in America who jerk it to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 05:18 PM
32

Most of the clarity I've gained from FDS came because there were no men here to make excuses for abhorrent male behaviors. I've spent most of my life trying to understand and justify trash male behavior from a perspective of actual love and respect, it's all crystal clear once you realize that they don't even like you, and you're just a status symbol, and literal or figurative punching bag for when they feel like bullying somebody. There are common things mentioned here that you never even see p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:48 AM
77

Whoever first started telling men this lie 20-ish years ago pulled off the con of the century. So many of these jerks are going to end up alone, where they belong. If only they had left women alone in the meantime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:15 PM
21

Of course fewer men are fathers, the majority of men do not want to be fathers. I'm sure those percentages are not accurate, but the point still stands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:32 PM
427

She was spot on. There needs to be more awareness of male gold digging, it's common as dirt, and women often don't recognize it because men scam women who earn far less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:39 AM
90

If a man is too awkward to hold a conversation, he just needs to gtfo. A grown man should have enough social skills that he doesn't have to plan a first date around distractions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:45 AM
44

There really should be a public military-style school single moms can dump resentful sons onto, all ages. Seeing what a spiteful disaster these men are as adults, I can't imagine letting that brew in my own household for years. If they want somebody to hate, let them hate a drill sergeant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:03 PM
23

I'm glad for every piece of terrible advice he gets. I hope he keeps working on his speaking skills, and inventing new novelty money-free dates. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:25 PM
26

The terrible thing is that he's absolutely going to escalate, that's a part of paraphilia, and there is no way to undo it. Fetish material used to be limited, so it took decades to escalate to serial killer shit. Creeps today can reach that before adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:02 PM
70

We're supposed to believe that nobody ever makes the jump from cartoon CP to real CP, while the existence of fursuit sex, animal dildoes, adult baby diaper furries, anime sex dolls, and all cosplay porn show that men try to recreate every other kind of cartoon sex content. Even rated G shows for little kids inspire hoards of horny men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:04 PM
19

Definitely. I got a peek at his reddit account before it got deleted. He was ranting a few days ago about how modern girls only want to do housewife things for hot men. It's so cartoonishly delusional and lazy. It just shows that as childish and naive as some of these men may seem, they are still predatory and 100% ready to use and abuse women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:31 PM
142

Same here. It's impossible to feel sorry for them once you realize it was never about a decent guy who's just too shy to make friends at the anime club, or approach a woman at the book store. It's always going to be a mess of seething resentment built up since childhood, entitlement unswayed by adult failure, greed, completely failed social climbing, and obsessing over women and girls as trophies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:10 PM
522

He knew what he was doing, he wanted to shame her, probably because she showed up at his house menstruating instead of ready to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:25 PM
63

Daydreaming is what it is. I think that's why we see single women in the US buying up houses at twice the rate of single men. So many men are still trying to live like teenagers at 35+, "not looking to rush into anything", as if they have infinite time. I hope all the single women with houses remember the story of The Little Red Hen, especially when these men are 55+ and trying to insert themselves as the "devoted husband and father" in a house they never paid a cent towards, to kids they didn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:34 PM
62

It's a long time coming. I think we can see now that around Y2K the majority of men had already turned "dating" into a way to get free prostitution/escort/servant services, instead of courtship. The con could only last so long, men have only men to blame. It's not like these guys had their fun and then turned into responsible adults, the men who were in their early twenties in 2000 are still out there chasing the women who should be their daughters. 45 "still looking for the right girl" " wants …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:40 PM
198

We all need to go out of our way to do more nice things for the girls in our lives, and tell them they are important and loved, so that grown women aren't impressed when LVM make a non-effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:11 PM
146

I hope the next generation of girls squashes this manic pixie dream girl nonsense flat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:05 PM
101

Negative value men absolutely love to pull this cruel nonsense to cut women down. It's evil. It's also the most catty, "mean girl" type behavior possible. Men try to act like they're simple and good, and females are evil genius bullies, but nasty men use every kind of girl bully behavior against their own girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:04 PM
263

He doesn't want a wife or children, but he knows he won't get a girlfriend unless he lies. He's going to end up one of those 40 year old "wants kids someday" guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:47 PM
81

You were smart, and dodged an STD bullet. I guarantee he left early with another woman, had sex with her, and fell asleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:51 PM
26

I think this is also true for sussing out boyfriends who future fake, lie about their ambitions, and lie about future plans. If a man has ambitious plan after plan after plan, and insists he's really going to do enough ambitious stuff for four lifetimes starting the year after next, he's not really going to do any of that shit. It's just lies to manipulate you one way or the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 08:39 PM
109

He is going to absolutely destroy her quality of life for years, then go 🤡 "It was all legal, I didn't do anything wrong! You can't blame me, I didn't control her life or her choices!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:31 PM
48

If a guy's behavior on a first date seems awkward and contrived, it's probably because of nonsense like this. All you can do is walk away. I wish I had known this. Don't date men who read "self help" books or pua shit, their manipulative behavior is going to escalate, and they don't care if their poorly planned nonsense wrecks your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:04 PM
69

It makes me genuinely sad, and pessimistic about the future of humanity, that so many baby boomer women genuinely tried to raise better sons, and in adulthood they just ended up even worse than previous generations. The only positive I can see is that some of the Peter Pan gene carriers have removed themselves from the gene pool unintentionally. In 20 years they will be calling all their ex-girlfriends to find out who wants a chance to change an adult man's diaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:36 AM
163

I really hate these guys. At least if some man tells you that "strength" is how much you're willing to suffer for 5 kids and Jesus, you can laugh and move on. When a leftie scrote tells you that you need to be more "strong", "independent", "open-minded", "confident", less "needy", less "insecure", it turns into a whirlwind of a mindfuck, and women usually double down on screwing themselves over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 10:53 PM
488

He probably booked a vacation with a girlfriend just to manipulate her, and got dumped after the refund deadline. I bet he has called every single woman he has met in the past decade. Sorry about your mom, he really is a trashy fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:47 PM
8

We have to re-normalize refusing to entertain broke or "broke" men in any way. Too many girls watched Aladdin and Lady and the Tramp and grew up to think broke men could be that way. IRL you're just dating an ugly fat Jafar with no job or car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:56 PM
6

This could have been any apartment in the last 10 years. It really is that impersonal. If it didn't have the fake reclaimed wood decorative tables, it could be any apartment in the past 25 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:55 PM
71

Women have got to stop handing out homemade purple heart medals to men who probably work the back room at Walmart or TJ Maxx. If the night janitor at Wendy's is going through a personal war every day, he needs to look at his own choices, not a TV. Men do not do this for women. If anything, most men think their wives or girlfriends have easy bullshit jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:24 PM
58

He's not going to do anything more than lightweight performative chores, he's going to cheat because he has nothing else to do all day, then he will drive off with the van he dumped his girlfriend's money into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:57 PM
14

He's definitely the type of abusive asshole who looks for opportunities to "loose control", when somebody has done something he thinks is bad enough to justify his meltdown. She must have been walking on eggshells for months. She's lucky she got out before he could rationalize hitting her, which he may already have done here, but he didn't have a public justification for it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:47 PM
76

Right. Gummy candy is basically the same as the lining of a petri dish. Those gummies were infected, sealed in a dark, warm package, and sent through the mail in summer. Ugh. He might as well have eaten a package of baloney that was sent first class. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:43 AM
15

Several of these guys' horror stories have shown up here, and it's always so sad for the wife. She thought she was investing in a future success story, and then finds out 10 years later that he wants to live on an Amazon warehouse worker's wage until death. They would literally have been better off married to ambitious auto mechanics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:32 PM
108

We can simultaneously be both a conservative prude and a filthy used-up liberal harpy, all depending on why some LVM is sore today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:04 PM
14

The same thing happened to a lady I used to know. Her husband was left home alone for a bit, she and the kids came back to a sink full of dishes and maggots. She emptied the whole sink into a garbage bag. It's repugnant that men can create such a disgusting mess, and expect someone they "love" to clean it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:31 PM
50

Exactly. If he thinks a boat or plane are a waste of money, what is he doing with his early retirement? It sounds like just sitting around the house, pinching pennies so he can live on a $40k/year poverty budget. It's like a higher budget hobosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:16 AM
21

That story from Arizona is "male bumbling" taken to an extreme. This 1996 murder of two women in a national park has never been solved. https://www.fbi.gov/contact-us/field-offices/richmond/news/press-releases/shenandoah-national-park-murders-25-years-later I would immediately block any guy who suggests a hike date, it shows he's not concerned with your comfort or safety at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:27 PM
36

I think that if you can unlearn the act of idealizing men, half the problems on your end will be over. This is something modern girls are taught to do, especially through media. You aren't supposed to worship men. Save that intensity for your work and hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:51 PM
25

Men who say this are never going to give a girlfriend the loyalty, respect, and generosity they show to their moms and male friends, though. Assuming they have any loyalty, respect, or generosity for anyone at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:31 AM
5

The "not like other guys" guy will build an image in his head of what other guys are like, and it's a combo of every jock bully in a children's movie, and a violent felon. Their reasons for being nice are all asinine if said in public, they don't hit women, they don't commit crimes, or they have never been to jail. One of my exes actually said that he was a nice guy because he would never murder anybody. 💀 Chris Rock had an act about the black guys who expect praise for doing the things they are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:24 PM
9

Every young woman should learn from my mistakes, and RUN the first time some guy starts to act pitiful, act hard done by, complain, whine, or make self-deprecating jokes. Just run. A man who wallows in negative emotions around other people either still has an antisocial teenager mindset, or he's manipulative. Or both. I made the terrible mistake of thinking these negative guys were more self-aware, more honest, more real, less superficial. Negative is called negative for a reason, they were hold…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:21 PM
13

🤡 "I've dated much hotter women, you better work extra hard to impress me." NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:21 PM
383

She moved in with the guy with no furniture in his dirty empty apartment. 32 and still living like a college freshman, shows exactly where his priorities aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:20 AM
65

I definitely think it can stunt you if you get caught by a man who fetishizes a young bimbo act (most men), or wants to talk down to you, or "show you the way" to do things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:11 AM
80

I suspect a lot of these numbers are heavily tied to women with normal lives who adopt stray hobosexual manchildren.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:38 AM
20

I hope more women raise the next generations of girls to be absolutely ruthless with "boys". Save all their sweetness for girl friends, family, small children, and pets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:34 AM
149

Male logic just shows that most men aren't interested in real relationships. 25% of the men wouldn't be getting 100% of the women, 25% of men would get 25% of women. 75% of women would just be waiting. Trash men expect all men to be human garbage and endlessly cycle through women the way they attempt to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:49 PM
43

Some of those same men have probably ghosted women they were in long-term relationships with, just to avoid damage to their own serial killer-like good guy self image.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:44 PM
31

I agree. Nobody will tell girls that almost no teen boys or men, if any, "fall in love" and start feeling warm protective emotions the way girls and women do. They just want to fuck. Half the world will "love" you if they get the chance. If girls knew that their challenge was to find somebody who demonstrates real world respect and generosity towards them, girls could start making smarter choices. But it's easier to just say that life isn't like the movies, and go on without potentially looking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:39 AM
33

It's a disaster that women have been shamed and convinced that it's too uptight to ask for marriage before children. Nobody would shame you for being too serious about a mortgage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:52 AM
7

I'm glad that I always refused hormonal birth control, because ones of my exes cheated for years, while he asked me to go on BC the whole time, so he could avoid condoms. As much as he took advantage of me, at least raw sex and BC pills weren't part of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:25 AM
13

I'm glad that at least she understands it was serious enough to report the assault to the police. At least leave some paper trail, some potential red flags for future background checks. You never know when these men could attempt a job working around children, teens, disabled adults, or the elderly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:46 PM
44

There was a time when I would have felt terrible for Baldy, empathized with him, and compared it to my own bullying in school. Not now, these men can go to hell. They're the ones who drain or wreck women's lives, and then run off to the next woman with zero consequences or worries. This bald POS just failed to dodge his consequences. And you know he was a jerk, because he kept badgering her after she told him to go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:21 PM
132

It's ridiculous to think that a woman should be interested in a grown man with poor social skills. Why wasn't he growing and learning for all those years? I don't want some antisocial gremlin, it's better to be alone than saddled with that mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:28 AM
146

Exactly. No chance for him to argue, hit me, steal something, break something, or make me feel even an ounce of pity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:04 AM
66

Yep. My mom somehow had an extreme poverty mindset, even though her parents did not raise her that way. With the occasional Christmas toy exception, every single time I needed or wanted something, I would get something cheaper and lower quality, along with a lecture about how it was functionally the same thing, or the nicer thing wasn't necessary. She could have afforded better, but stuck me with things that were weird, awkward, and often inappropriate. I know she thought she was raising a more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:02 PM
53

If a woman has a smelly vagina, it's probably because she had sex with a man with a stinky, dirty dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:56 AM
54

The worst is when baby-body men wear brightly colored striped polo shirts, shorts, and sneakers. They look exactly like toddlers. It's an outfit for actual children, they don't even own real chinos shorts and a pair of real shoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:30 AM
412

This woman needs to learn that there's no reward in playing kind kindergarten teacher to misbehaving adult scrotes. None. If a grown man yells at you and tells you he hates you, FINE, it's a done deal. This isn't a Saturday morning cartoon, there is no reason to offer friendship to some shitty guy just because he exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:05 AM
135

He needs 200 swipes because nobody is taking his bait. That's the only good thing here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:00 AM
37

Notice how this prude thing never works on men when you ask them if you can stick a candle up their ass. Quoted for truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:33 AM
63

I wish I had known this when I first started dating. Ninties media really did me a disservice, I thought that being self-deprecating meant that they had some introspection, had self-awareness, were honest, and not ego-driven. No, no, no, and no. It's not a good thing at all, nothing good comes out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:13 AM
51

You can never be so independent that a LVM won't call you "clingy" or "needy" as an insult. And it is an insult. I was down to calling one of my exes just once or twice a week, to give him SPACE, and he still did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:38 AM
9

It's amazing how they all want to be seen as the "good guy" so much, but they never actually do good guy things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:31 AM
29

Exactly. We can only wonder how many unfortunate women he has bled dry with that line. The only joy will be watching this whole generation of grifters shift from bragging about how they are too good for marriage, to whining about how "society" doesn't take care of men. At least the women around 40 have had a 20+ year head start to come to terms with their future. Most of the men are still mentally 18 years old, at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:14 PM
291

IMO narcissistic men played women hard mid-century, and worked hard to reframe themselves as victims, and male misbehavior as something that arose from men allegedly being too stoic. But they obviously aren't too stoic, a man with a real stiff upper lip wouldn't have fits of rage, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:52 AM
69

😹 Of course it's the poorly groomed, heavier guy with a blank expression. Yet another reason to not give ugly guys a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:56 AM
75

Wow. He's outright admitting he wants to lock down a bangmaid he doesn't even like with a baby. And he's 38, his sperm has already turned to yoghurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:33 PM
49

I agree with this. They're trying to present themselves as cute and harmless, and an intimate friend, which is why I wouldn't trust anybody who does it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:19 AM
176

He still didn't accept responsibility, he tried to blame it on his problems. He didn't even admit to what he did. What a dodgy non-apology. Amazing how women can go through hell, and not accidentally sexually abuse other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:17 AM
22

Statistically, single women homebuyers in the US outnumber single men two to one. Homeless men vastly outnumber homeless women, because women actually give a damn and know they can't live on the street. This guy is just making facts up to shield his own ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:02 AM
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after he literally did not address me once for this one whole camping trip, Some LVM have this need to passive-aggressively show you that you will never be a real part of their family, without saying it outright. It's so disgusting. Maybe it's another way to manipulate women, make women feel like they're lesser and have to work harder for approval. All for a guy who probably has no savings, but a bigger ego than a Kennedy or Windsor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:18 AM
18

Honestly, they would do better to wait. Wait until the men your age at least have secured real adult position jobs. That will immediately filter half the trash, and you don't have to judge them for their "potential". Most of these men will NEVER achieve their alleged big plans, and they will drag women down with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:04 PM
99

Men don't care about women's degrees... Right up until the moment his uneducated wife has a big bill to pay, or his friend buys a ridiculously expensive man toy with the help of his wife, or one of his male coworkers balks at the fact that he married an uneducated woman. The instant it makes his pp feel smaller, she'll be absolutely hated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:11 PM
18

Humiliation is the word for it. In the last few months of one of my relationships, that boyfriend made noises about wanting to move in together, but I tried to dodge the topic. Even though I knew my family wouldn't say anything negative about it, I knew it would have been humiliating if we had moved in together, and then broke up after I had played wife for months/years. He didn't understand why I didn't jump at the opportunity. Of course he was a POS who talked out both sides of his face. He ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:39 PM
60

This is do true. We are trained to not think of other people as exploitable resources, we get told to not put a monetary value on ourselves. Unfortunately, most men still view women as exploitable sources of freebies, so we have to look at our own choices from their perspective. One trap for women is forced naivete, where we feel evil if we don't act like a "good guy" character in a dumb cartoon meant for little kids. There's no evil in realistically assessing what we have to lose, or what can b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:01 AM
122

The problem is also that they aren't looking for one woman, but infinite women, because they feel entitled to be playboys, despite being short, fugly, antisocial, and broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:03 PM
26

I've been there. "Sorry I didn't call, I ... 🤡 got held late at work." 🤡 came home from work and accidentally fell asleep." 🤡 had to do something for boss/coworkers/Mom/a friend." It was all lies. I know that now. They deliberately choose excuses that make us look unreasonable if we complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:05 AM
88

Unresolved small dick energy collected since the very first time a bigger boy bossed them around the playground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:30 AM
26

I've also lost my will to police women. What did it for me is the realization that many men date mentally unwell women, just to exploit and mistreat them. Those men then cry and whine when a "crazy" woman finally takes advantage of her predatory boyfriend, or wrecks his life. That's exactly what he planned to do to her. He preyed on other naive women, made their existing problems worse. Most men would not have this problem if they dated in good faith, and vetted women like real partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:11 PM
22

Fewer boundaries = the men are going to demand free sex days or months after the paid sex. And most women won't be emotionally strong enough to resist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:35 AM
53

If a man can't keep a regular, stable job in a stable location, he should do women a favor and leave them alone. Don't date them, don't marry them, definitely do not breed with them. Don't even flirt with a woman until the vagabond lifestyle is over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:00 AM
28

Exactly. Making plans, following through on commitments, and earning money are how men prove that they are responsible and reliable. Women don't owe free sex to irresponsible man children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:37 AM
185

The truly sad thing is that 99% of men, unlike women, feel absolutely no class loyalty to the opposite sex, nor any obligation to help lift up their relationship partners. And then we get blasted with accusations about "gold-digging", when most poor women don't even have a chance of marrying a wealthy man. Years ago, a friend of a friend, who actually did go shamelessly gold-digging on the weekends, wanted to show me the ropes, and I was so mortified at the thought of abandoning my "hard-working…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:52 AM
39

Yeah, I think they play dumb because they know most women won't enforce consequences. And they get off on tricking the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:16 PM
19

It's bullshit to treat your boyfriend or husband like a VIP celebrity. Been there, done that. There is absolutely no reward for it. You think of some schlubby guy like he was your own personal Jon Bon Jovi, but he won't think of you in that same way, even if you look like an actual model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:41 PM
62

Enabling dysfunctional behaviors just makes them escalate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:07 PM
17

I have some nice photos of local murals that I wanted to post to my instagram, until I realized I had much older pictures of my cats on or around my front yard. On their own, the cat pictures aren't detailed enough to identify my city or building, but if I had posted those murals, somebody might have been able to "drive" around the neighborhood using Google street view to find me. I'll just keep those pictures to myself, since my cat photos are more beloved. I do my best to not associate any pub…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:57 PM
14

One of my exes was this way, nice to the face of a guy he obviously didn't respect in private conversations with me. I guess he was attempting to use him to socially climb/network. Clown me didn't realize he was the same way towards me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:36 PM
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🤡 "I want a strong and independent woman." What they really mean is no effort required on their end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:37 AM
20

Anger is like a fever, it's unpleasant, but it's necessary for maintaining health. Even extreme allergies are preferable to having no immune response at all. It's no wonder that so many women have to deal with mental illness, when they're pressured to behave in ways that put their wellbeing last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:27 PM
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Plus, every decently sized city has at least 50 restaurants where you can eat for less than $15 a person. If a grown man can't spend a whole $30 on a date, he needs to work on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:10 AM
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Nice. I especially like the part about not dating "potential". A man mentioning his alleged big plans should be a huge flag. Women see that behavior, and we're impressed, because most of us don't announce every fantasy that passes through our heads. Men are shameless bullshitters who will jabber about daydreams as if those are real plans. And men will judge women for the women's current accomplishments, while judging themselves as the fantasy future success.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:09 PM
133

I agree. The internet male left, and anybody influenced by them, is a hot mess. It's the most self-involved and parasitic group of men ever, and they are convinced they are the "good guys" while they drain women and their parents. It's a nightmare. Women with diminished resources desperately need to pull away from men, and only interact with them using FDS-type principles. Even men who should have empathy for women just fake it, and exploit the women all the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:21 PM
63

1980's media definitely helped screw up expectations. They were full of the idea that male losers, failures, lazy bums, were actually the real good guys deep down, who would step up and become heroes. Too bad that doesn't happen in real life. They are what they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:44 PM
42

My thoughts exactly. A single square foot cube of junk is almost nothing. That's like two pairs of old sneakers and a few baseball caps. If I ever got to the point where I had to pay some man $50 to haul off his junk, I would at least expect a whole closet to be emptied. At least get some value. Better to just not live with a man who hoards up his living space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:37 AM
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Yes, especially for the second lady. Men get off on humiliating women. They knew what they were doing, they wanted to force the women to waste all their budget on the man, and then feel stupid. The same way men will call to cancel a date 1 minute before the arranged time, or 30 minutes after, or leave you waiting at the location until you give up. They get off on wasting your time, money, resources, emotions, everything. They feel smart by making women look foolish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:17 PM
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Here's the problem, most women already do treat men like kings. Most women have their care-taking instincts hijacked and misdirected into servile behavior towards men, who take everything they can and don't offer any of the reciprocation an actual family member, friend, or child would. The reason ex-girlfriends act act "crazy" (angry) is because they damn well know they didn't get out what they put in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:50 PM
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Ugh. He's a pedo. And he's also not "working a lot", been there, done that. LVM will use "work" and/or "school" as an endless bag of excuses for being no value. They don't even have to be enrolled at any school to use "school" as an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:15 PM
2

The crazy part was he felt like he was robbed of his youth when he only had his job and money thanks to her. This is one of those LVM mindfucks. They will eat up all your time, and any other resources you can offer, and THEY feel victimized the whole time, 🤡🎈 because obviously they deserve better, though that better woman hasn't arrived yet for some reason. Every time a woman finally realizes her worth is a miracle. You could own half a county, and some man who owns nothing more than a 1999 mode…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:19 PM
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This site says the murderer was the ex-boyfriend of the host mother, and that she had stayed "friends" with him. https://www.kahawatungu.com/francis-ngugi-arrested-poisoning-two-toddlers-in-canada/ A terrible example of why you don't stay "friends" with your ex! He used the access to her home to poison her child's food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:19 AM
17

Exactly. $1k won't even get you out of the ghetto in most American cities. $1500-2000 would get you an apartment in a high rise that isn't 60 years old. Let him go spend his $2000/month on his own place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:36 PM
35

It's truly disgusting how men will fight to the end to defend the modern idea that men only have to bring a dick to the table. Just a dick, literally nothing else. The woman is expected to provide everything else for free, or else she's needy, greedy, stuck-up, a gold-digger, etc... At least broke men in the past knew to leave women the hell alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:57 PM
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This is true. When a woman dates a man with a job, she respects him and the job. It doesn't even have to be a good job, she will build him up as "hard working" in her mind. If he's a LVM, he will probably whine and complain daily. When a LVM looks at a woman, he belittles her job, assumes it was east to get, easy to do, stress free. It's exactly what this guy is doing. He refuses to see how hard she worked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:24 PM
30

I think most LVM really do want to live like a college freshman with a trust fund forever, but they also expect life to hand them the outward signs of real adult success.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:29 PM
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When his wife kicks him out, he'll show up on her doorstep within the hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:30 PM
45

That's the first thing I noticed. This guy didn't have his life together at 23 OR 33. He's acting like totally normal adult accomplishments are impulsive or out of the ordinary. A 28 year old person should be able to start a small business, buy a car, buy a house, get a dog, get more education. You're not SUPPOSED to spend your twenties languishing in un/underemployment. This is the trajectory college is supposed to prepare you for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:07 PM
16

Thanks. I agree, truly. It's pointless to settle, they will absolutely take their insecurities out on their girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:41 AM
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My shortest boyfriend was also the one who spent the most time suggesting improvements for my body. They fixate on getting the most stick-thin woman possible, they absolutely do want an androgynous 12 year old boy's body with d-cups bolted on. I was below 90 pounds once, and that boyfriend still was after me to exercise more and lose more weight, and told me I should get implants. 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:56 AM
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This is where you encounter the golden: 🤡 "You can't control what other people do, you can only control how you react. You have to be responsible for your own emotions! You can't expect other people to make you happy. You're supposed to be an independent woman." Right after he left you standing in a parking lot for two hours on your birthday, or similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:26 PM
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If they live together, he has definitely been gold digging her daily, by jacking up her living expenses sky high and expecting "50/50" on the most expensive things he can find, when she would have been happy to live in a regular apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:48 AM
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I agree with this, but I think it's something you don't tell to men. Men have caught onto the fact that women think like this, and use the same language to enforce their usual lying, no commitment, Peter Pan bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:52 AM
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And you will see how much men really care about "fairness" when those topics come up, too. They will say that's "just life" when it comes to burdens that fall on only women. As soon as men are expected to step up, it's suddenly not fair to those same people, their stoicism vanishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:12 PM
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You will never get an equal shot at happiness if you don't carefully guard against trashy men in your life. Maybe it's not "fair", but most men aren't fair, either. I guarantee none of my ex boyfriends were ever genuinely concerned about what was fair to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:33 PM
477

Even the fat guys who drive 20 year old cars and live with 3 roommates think they're too good for relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:48 PM
108

They're never really that emotionally affected, they never really "need space", they just don't give a shit about you. It's that simple. Men have enough polite-sounding excuses to fill a whole book, and they're all lies. Edit: And he's NEVER really working late at work. I guarantee this asshole was not working 80 hours a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:04 PM
15

The whole culture around dating and "boyfriends" hasn't been updated since the 1950's. The relationships now are more drawn out and serious on the woman's side, but men have opted out of any obligation. Back in the day, a man you had sex with for years and years was your husband, but we've bent over backwards so that a man doesn't have to be a husband to mooch benefits anymore. Today, your non-husband blows up your life, and you get advice made for a 16 year old girl in 1950, who never had sex w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:18 PM
2

Exactly. The sort of guy in the screenshot, who thinks that owning a single duplex at 40 is "passive income", could never even maintain or afford a decent home for himself. A whole generation of slummy scummy men is going to die without a bangmaid nurse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:23 PM
10

Oh man. I hope that anybody out there who has done this to herself will take our examples to heart, and stop hurting herself. Scrotey men will never achieve even the basic stuff women dream up to hurt themselves. The scrote dream life is to scrape by with the lowest obligations possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:41 AM
53

I think almost every one of us can rest assured that bad men rarely truly improve. I spent years beating myself up over my worst ex bf, I imagined a clear picture in my head of him with a beautiful wife, nice kid, nice dog, in front of the nice house he bought after upgrading his job. If only I had just worked harder, so he would have appreciated me. I eventually checked one of those people finder sites. Over a decade later, he never got the better job, he never bought a house, his name/address …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:00 AM
30

I usually just respond with some kind of noncommittal acknowledgment, and say "thanks" or tell them to have a nice day. I never ignore them completely. Years ago, I tried to ignore a deranged woman who was yelling at me while walking on the street towards me. I don't know if I tried to pass her, she hit me so hard, I can't remember what happened leading up to it. I just woke up on the sidewalk, with her on top of my body, screaming in my face. I struggled away, and was too confused to go to the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:55 PM
15

I agree. A "boyfriend" is not a casual acquaintance or a roommate. It's ridiculous that men have successfully reframed their duties in sexual relationships to that level. Parasites deserve to be called out, shamed, and rejected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:27 PM
30

when i imagined myself being a prostitute i had a vaugh feeling itll be like doing something good for others, This is one of those critical differences in how men and women think. I suspect that most pro-porn women think this way. Women think of sex and porn as something nice that men will appreciate and like you for. In reality, LVM feel entitled to unlimited free sex on their terms, so they just resent these women even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:52 PM
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He doesn't want you at all. This is exactly it. Men will date and marry women they dislike, or even HATE. So if one won't even claim you as a "girlfriend", you aren't anything to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:02 PM
34

Exactly. One of my exes was also fond of the phrasing, 🤡"You can't depend on other people to make you happy. You have to be responsible for your own emotions." There's a world of difference between depending on a man for happiness, and a man actively hurting you. I assume there was some book or article published 20 years ago that told men to say this same exact shit after doing something mean. It's supposed to be advice for barely tolerating a narcissistic or evil person who can't be avoided. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:34 PM
43

Exactly. There's no point in disadvantaging yourself for a man, most of them aren't looking for "the one", so your LV boyfriend will still end up feeling slighted because he didn't get a wealthier younger 10/10 runway model with a STEM degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:36 PM
16

Same thing, exactly. I will only have people over when I'm in a place where I can easily lock off access to my stuff. And I will only lend out disposable books, things like $20 DVDs and CDs will never even be offered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:01 AM
161

Almost every woman will go through life with an inner preschool teacher in her head, constantly chiding her to always be respectful and always be considerate of everybody else's feelings. Most men apparently don't have this thing. Every bit of social instruction goes out the window once their balls drop, and it never comes back. I refuse to ever listen to that inner voice again, at least while dealing with men. It makes as much sense as trying to play an honest game of cards with the devil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:59 AM
37

That sad thing is that at the time, I only focused on the financial aspect, and felt like I deserved to ultimately be degraded since I didn't bring enough to the table. But he really didn't even have his own shit together, he couldn't have offered stability to a woman who had money. So 💩 This is why women should never have sympathy, never go 50/50, never "give a chance", never date a "work in progress" man. A LVM will take years of your youth and feel like he's the one getting a bad deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:13 AM
52

Exactly. It's just more hypocrisy from men, especially ones who probably aren't successful in any way. One of the reasons an ex boyfriend said he broke up with me (after using me for years) was my lack of money. He didn't just want a younger, better-looking woman, she had to have money, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:22 AM
52

That nurturing that leads directly to: "women my age are so bitter"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:46 AM
64

What a jerk. One of my ex bfs was this way. He spent years standing me up and always blaming "work" or some emergency with friends/family. I thought he was worn out and working so hard, it fucked up my mental health. And shitbag men like this will insist that they're really nice guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:43 AM
50

Millennial men are pioneers in adult onset autism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:46 PM
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Something like 1/5th of all prime working age men are angling to get diagnosed with a disability. Source: https://www.milkenreview.org/articles/the-male-non-working-class There's just no way that many men in the US are legitimately so disabled they can't work at all, especially not the ones under 40 who have never even worked manual labor. 40% of unemployed men refuse to work jobs they see as "below them", and even the ones with no college education think they're too smart and important for basi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:31 PM
1

The terrible thing is that I don't think 99% of these men ever really want the free "therapy", they just want to wear down your guard, and make you feel pity so they can manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:02 PM
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They're just jealous that smoother narcissist assholes can manipulate women, while they can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:50 PM
14

I've even had trash men say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:44 PM
17

Good luck. People-pleasing behaviors are deeply ingrained in almost all women. Even the women who think they're independent and strong usually default to man-pleasing behaviors. It really is very hard to break away from. I think if humanity ever can advance beyond what it is now, the first step isn't technological, it's removing the servant mindset from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:40 PM
58

I'm sure Hollywood and the publisher picked it up specifically for its ability to normalize abuse. Men with fetishes are always trying to sneak it in wherever they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:14 PM
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"If I had known I'd be making this much money I would've done so much better." I hope he divorces her and tries to make that happen. He settled once he thought he had peaked, more money isn't making him any hotter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:17 PM
33

One of my exbfs had a "friend" who I could tell he didn't respect at all, definitely looked down on. I guess he was trying to socially climb and felt the guy could help out. It should have been a sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:40 AM
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I want to see this. I hate most sitcoms, not only because they are unoriginal and stale, but they help brainwash people (especially kids) into male excuse-making, and blaming women for having reasonable reactions to absolute bullshit. It's how we learn to reeeeeeeach for any far-out scenario to excuse scrote behavior. I watched a promo for this, and the actors all know these characters would be hell to live with. I think that's probably true for most sitcoms. But you truly can't parody LVM, beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:47 AM
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Of course they won't release the list of toxic products, because the multinational corporations that sell these poisonous things basically own the planet and every person on it. Who knows how many women Johnson & Johnson killed with their asbestos baby powder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:03 PM
31

The men born in the eighties knew exactly what they were supposed to do, and just didn't do it when the time came. https://www.nytimes.com/2015/07/31/upshot/millennial-men-find-work-and-family-hard-to-balance.html I honestly don't think anything will change until several generations after men finally have to make a genuine effort to attain any female attention at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:25 AM
37

Terrible. He's been using the fictional ring as an excuse to cheap out on her for a whole year. He's either too poor to ever afford a house, or he still has the broke mindset of an unemployed teenager. And of fucking course his top priority is spending hundreds on another time wasting machine instead of improving his life in any way. When I first found FDS, I didn't understand why people hated gaming so much, but it really is like the free space on scrote bingo. There will be a whole generation …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:12 AM
12

A real nightmare would be women all covered up in shapeless pants suits acting exactly like men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:59 AM
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He had the complete lack of awareness to try and shame the woman who said she needed men for sex and entertainment, and asked what would happen if a man said that. Duh, jackass, that's exactly what 95% of the men in your other video said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:07 AM
31

Absolutely true. It's terrible that she can't even see that someday he will feel humiliated, or get angry that she isn't employed like his coworkers' wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:25 AM
71

He's an "engineer" and she didn't even finish high school. All the "compliments" he giver her about her intelligence are probably just stealth negs to make her feel insecure and undeserving, and she doesn't even realize it yet. He will eventually get embarrassed about having a dropout wife, and the abuse will start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:14 AM
87

Don't forget the part where they will try to hold every woman ever born indebted for prom, as if they never have to make any effort for any other woman, because that one night effort will cover every shitty cheap date afterward. As if they deserve a purple heart medal for renting a $50 tuxedo and spending $15 at a florist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:30 AM
71

I agree with this. Some of my worst experiences of being hurt by other teen girls, and then women, came from situations where I forced myself to be accommodating and friendly to girls/women who obviously did not like me. It doesn't make snobbish or personality-disordered women befriend you, it makes them really hate you and want to humiliate you in the worst ways possible. Girls get so many bad messages, especially from media made to teach them "good" things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:28 AM
29

They're also always trying to get into women's homeless and domestic violence shelters, one way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:37 AM
25

Men will spend hundreds of dollars a month to "win" on cell phone games that will be erased from existence within a few years. It's sad that women have been convinced that women are materialistic for expecting any effort from these same men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:49 AM
119

I wish all girls could be told that 99.9% of men obsess over hierarchies, especially the men at the very bottom, who insist the hardest that they don't. Men view women as existing on a hierarchy, and it doesn't matter who or how you are, you either move straight up or straight down, you can't exit their hierarchy or make lateral-then-up moves. Most girls get that kind of thinking trained out of them. Most women won't look down on another woman just because she doesn't have luxury-signaling produ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:12 AM
50

Men on the right are like a red infected wound, men on the left are like an abscess full of rotten puss, that only looks healed up from the outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:58 AM
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Like a lot of women, she probably feels guilty for having wants and needs. I wish I could tell every woman that she's not 10 years old anymore, she doesn't have to stifle herself anymore, it's not greedy or shameful to accept things, and you don't have to feel guilty or indebted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:25 AM
45

She almost made it to safety, but didn't. Keeping your accounts separate doesn't necessarily mean they are off limits in a divorce. And his name is literally on the account in that screenshot, so it isn't even separate. He can still divorce her, claim that he was always buying tacos for two, and walk off with a chunk of her savings, while she gets nothing out of him. She's ashamed to ask for anything, but what happens if he gets cancer or injured, and has no savings? He will definitely expect th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:57 AM
126

The women who are desperate to get married have been sold a lot of lies. They expect things they can't even get from men. I bet most of them really just want to level up and move on to the respectable "real" adult phase of their lives. That time is already now. Don't wait for a man, start your plans today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:11 AM
39

And force women to double down on "being the adult" in their hellish relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:06 PM
14

Exactly. Run if the advice is basically about money, even if it seems to come from a good place. If he has a provider mindset, he won't be thinking about your money. Most women don't sit around thinking of how their employed boyfriend should work harder to earn more cash, why should a boyfriend do it to you? Either he's a 90/10 mooch right now, or he wants a "50/50" bang roommate instead of a spouse, and you will be driving yourself all alone to your own abortion, c-section, or chemo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:44 AM
34

If he had been straightforward years ago about how luxury spending is absolutely non-negotiable for him, and everything has to be 50/50ed, he wouldn't be in this situation now. His wife thought she was starting a family, but she legally bound herself to a random roommate and had his baby. If you want a roommate, be upfront about it, and don't have sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:58 AM
5

Exactly. There are men who genuinely are both conservative and traditional, but that's just regular life for them, they don't need a name for it. "Tradcons" online are mostly porn brains playing dress-up. A shibboleth is real, most of them give themselves away without even realizing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:44 AM
22

She might as well save herself some trouble and get the local child support office to administer their test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:56 PM
16

I guarantee he would be the sort of guy to be late to a date in his own city, call only after he should have already been there, to say he got held up at work and wouldn't arrive for another 45 minutes. He might even do it multiple times in one night, before calling the whole date off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:50 PM
33

My sympathy for these men was completely destroyed when I realized that they're all wannabe playboys. It doesn't matter how many matches they get, they will pick a few women and mistreat them before moving on. How am I supposed to feel sorry that he can only abuse a handful of average women, instead of free unlimited supermodels and free premium escorts? I don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:08 AM
6

Exactly. If he had wanted a family, he would have moved her into his own apartment. She wasn't chained to his hometown or parents' house. He bailed on the baby to party for another five years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:17 AM
58

Exactly. That man is not Michael Phelps, he's probably 400+ pounds, and he just lies to her about the gym. There have been a few other horror stories posted to FDS about huge men who do this same exact thing. It's about aggression and control, not food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:26 AM
20

They should lower their standards to be more realistic, and worry more about how a man acts toward them, rather than how he looks!" It's so pathetic, because they never do treat women well. The same way they bitch about all the ways they can show love that aren't presents, nice dates, an engagement ring, or a real wedding, but they never actually do those mysterious unnamed demonstrations of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:16 PM
11

I think that in the past half century, for every one man who was raised to be genuinely more conscientious, another twenty stayed the same, and devolved into either porn-brained opportunistic "liberals" or porn-brained feminized "conservatives". The only people who adjusted their mindsets were women. Most of us probably didn't even realize how fucked up our own age group men are, and always were, until we got close to middle age, and the dysfunction was impossible to hide anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:41 AM
9

Pornculture as in actual porn shows how women also fuck a pizza guy and all these completely degenerate scenarios, which makes these sick men think that women in real life are the same. I had somehow forgotten how one of my exes thought this. He thought that hot housewives are sitting around all day, just waiting to fuck random service employees, and got turned on at the idea that that would be me eventually. 😬 At the time, I thought he must be joking, but I realize now that it's never a joke. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:40 PM
64

It's completely possible to respect somebody as a human being, but not want to have sex with them. Certain men these days want to pretend like it isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:47 AM
3

He told a woman to "spay" herself after whining about vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:04 AM
21

This is true. Being "in love" completely drained my creativity. The longer it went on, the more "basic" I was. I don't know if a high value man would create that same relationship tunnel vision, or if it was just the result of years of stress and mind games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:21 PM
66

He tried to kill her once and faced no real consequences, of course he finally escalated it. It's insane that he was able to walk away from shooting his wife the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:08 PM
59

I agree. I would not trust any man who claims to want a super frugal lifestyle, because most men these days have latched onto that as a validation of their own broke or skinflint behavior. Men can BS all day about things that sound philosophical or new agey. I no longer believe any of it, 99.9% of the time it's just an excuse, or a future fake, a delay tactic, or a way to control a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:38 PM
15

What will happen to her will be a lot of pain and betrayal. A man who won't commit isn't worth shit. I promise he's not really on a mission to "discover himself" or explore the world without being chained down, he just sees women as interchangeable bangmaids to use and discard. He'll still be working at Office Depot in ten years, and telling yet another younger woman about his life journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:13 AM
8

Half the "nice guys" whining out there probably already have at least one girlfriend. Poor nice guys, it's so hard to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:05 AM
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Jeeze, this is why women shouldn't date down. He's been angrily obsessing over the younger, more expensive sister for years. He's acting out against their whole family out of jealousy and shame. Society pretends that jealousy and drama are women's vices, but look at this fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:30 PM
36

This is where you end up after a lifetime of people telling you that the worst things you can be are jealous, insecure, needy, clingy, controlling, greedy, demanding, nagging, etc... You completely cast yourself aside and reach this zen-like enlightenment of pure bullshit. I know because I've been there, and honestly thought all the relationship problems were because of my issues. If I could just overcome all my problems, the relationship would be fine. In reality, the problem was just MEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:01 PM
35

They absolutely did. That's why mgtow stopped having anything to do with its original stated purpose, and became a catch-all dumpster for men who still won't leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:20 PM
21

Future faking. I agree. One of my exes future faked me this way. He even said on several occasions that our relationship was just like we had skipped the dating phase and gone straight to the comfy being married phase. And naive me thought it was a weird, but great, thing to say. Looking back, it was obviously some kind of manipulation technique he read somewhere. I just wish I could have seen the fallout the next times he tried his low value crap on higher maintenance women. Like most LVM, he h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:35 PM
3

As if he's really going to break up with the long distance girlfriend. Anyone foolish enough to engage with him will get played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:50 AM
26

She's mad because he squished her flat with all his baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:45 AM
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It's true and sad. Girls in the eighties were simultaneously raised for a past culture that had already expired, and a "gender neutral" future that never arrived. A lot of us are probably only realizing it now. Even more will refuse to see it, blame themselves and feel guilty, and keep bending over backwards, as if women are the reason things didn't work out, as if women alone can make things right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:44 AM
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One of my ex-bfs said this sort of crap about a miserable job I was working. Most of the new hires quit within the first month. They are absolutely compelled to demean work done by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:50 PM
20

I wonder how many years he expects us to believe that his wife has been exclusively paying off student loans with $80k per year. Even if half that money went to taxes, those debts would be paid off in a year or two. Most student loan debt is under $50,000 per person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:46 PM
15

He's definitely somebody who thinks that the floor, ceiling, light fixtures, curtains, windows, and walls all stay completely clean on their own. There would be little sand dunes of literal dirt forming on the floors if she didn't clean. All the curtains would be covered in a visible layer of filth and dead bugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:55 PM
13

I hope more women do this. I doubt it would dissuade LVM from trash behavior, since most are in complete denial, but women don't deserve to have their bodies and lives trashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:02 AM
11

I hate that I entertained these kinds of whining monologues in a LTR, and didn't understand that he was trying to manipulate me and get sympathy from me because he was having such a hard time cheating. It's so rotten. He could get multiple women at once, and that somehow still wasn't enough for his ego. I hate that there are women all over the planet today derailing their lives and souls for men who just use them as ego boosts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:18 PM
106

I wish there were more accomplishment-based celebrations, starting in at least middle school. If schools want to give kids a chance to "grow up", a frequent achievement ceremony would do more good than urging little girls to choose some lumpy boy to grind against in a tacky gym dance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:49 AM
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It really is profound when you realize that nobody gives a fuck if a man opts to not chase women, but women are hated for avoiding men. They are also hated for being weak if they submit to men. It's sad that women who work the hardest are the most directly hated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:32 AM
21

I wish I had known that last paragraph before the breakup with my worst ex-bf. If he uses his final conversation to smear your character, he was never a good man to start with. 1000000% if you were respectful and he just dumped his bullshit on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:59 AM
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I think women get bamboozled, because most of us are already doing our own housework anyway, so we don't put a monetary value on it. We miss the part where we don't owe any random man an easier life for no sacrifice on his end. You might as well stand on a street corner and hand out your own money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:11 AM
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The most dangerous ones are the ones just a few years older who prey on college-age women. They know what they are doing. Just having any job makes them look so mature, miles above idiot party bros. They can play the enlightened, empathetic lefty guy role, and then laugh behind her back as they party with the regular party bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:40 AM
80

I wish Christians would call out filthy, perverted men more often. There's absolutely no place in Christianity for pornography, acting like an animal, mistreating your spouse, or lusting over women in general. It's rancid to see some scrote complain about "holiness" right next to a doodle of a penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:25 AM
21

I can no longer watch any show that requires the viewer to give a male character the benefit of a doubt for misdeeds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:44 PM
99

I think we're already starting to see that with older manosphere flunkies who have started to claim that all they ever wanted was one faithful, traditional woman. If that had been true, they would have been married years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:17 PM
33

I'm more inclined to believe that he felt threatened by the unstated expectation of reciprocation and commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:15 PM
23

Exactly. This is half of all Judge Judy episodes, but nobody ever sticks a name on it. Even men who aren't dirt poor will do this same thing, they just drag things out longer so the relationship looks a bit more legitimate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:23 PM
45

Exactly. And it doesn't even have to be a lot of money, just a few thousand in a savings account is enough for a man to start begging, nagging, and badgering you. It's amazing how "gold-digger" is a term, but there is no term for a man who cleans out all of a woman's money and leaves her destitute. The first is rare, you might never even meet one in real life, but everybody knows a woman who has been drained and discarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:50 PM
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She paid to use a toll road to go on a walk date. He probably has no car. He's got a map, walking shoes, and a weatherproof jacket in May because it gets rough at the bus stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:40 PM
45

Exactly. If he had enough money to support himself, he would have already left her for the affair partner. He's already poor, and about to be beyond broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:59 PM
38

Men can be so stupid and dishonest. If a man was faithful, he wouldn't be "on break", much less having sex with random women during it. A faithful man would marry the woman he made pregnant, he would have already ended the previous relationship, he wouldn't run back to the first woman to cry in front of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:53 PM
14

Women are taught to doubt themselves so much, they feel guilty and ask the internet about very basic self preservation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:59 PM
39

They aren't even engaged, and he already has her paying all his bills, so he can pay some strip mall scammer almost $2000 a month for nothing. Don't move in with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:59 PM
12

The thing about men over 40 (NEETs excluded) is that each one has probably had well over 100 first dates, at least a dozen girlfriends, and several of those were long term relationships. The majority of men have had plenty of chances with decent women, so a lack of "love" isn't the reason they are still single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:53 PM
36

Somebody actually gave that caveman a chance, and he completely blew it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:24 PM
40

I'm so tired of all the ways people try to put a pseudo-spiritual spin on women suppressing their emotions. Real life isn't a Star Wars film, your emotions are not evil. If you want to pursue some kind of emotional regulation, look into actual religions, not a sexual relationshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:33 PM
57

Not that there's anything wrong with doing these things. But knowing the nature of men, why would you do this? The former forever girlfriends are lucky in one way, hopefully most of us will realize that there is no point in doing nice things for men. I would have been happy to do things like this in my twenties, but now that I know my boyfriends never loved me, there is no way in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:15 PM
30

It seems like most episodes of Dateline that don't involve teenagers feature a grown man shamelessly exploiting a woman's money somehow. I don't think it's even a red flag for murder, but that exploitation is just part of being a woman. And it's never a straightforward situation like a trophy wife. Women bankroll substandard, cheating, ugly men every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:49 PM
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dear Jesus god how much money and time are you spending on those pictures just for some fire emojis from a bald 45yr old man in venuezla? He will savour it for all of two minutes b4 liking the next one. This is what killed social media for me. Whatever you're doing, it's so much work to be completely disposable. Your account will rot in obscurity unless you post professional-level photography daily. And it's even worse if you have to exploit your own body daily to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:34 PM
99

She sounds young. Poor lady. She doesn't need to know or care what the definition of "free use" is. Don't even give scrotes the right to create even more bullshit terms to abuse. Just because some worthless jackass of a man coined a phrase doesn't mean you have to pay it any mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:41 PM
27

I believe it more every day that goes by. Most men do nothing to benefit their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:01 PM
119

It's like a horror movie. I can't imagine marrying a grown man, and then later finding out that I took custody of an overgrown lazy, moody teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:46 PM
69

It really is shameful, they should stay away from women. And it truly shows that most women will tolerate almost anything, contradictory to what men will whine about. Mine managed a whole second girlfriend in a city an hour away. I bet she also never got an orgasm, and tolerated it out of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:53 PM
119

Same. I wasted years on a boyfriend like this, who never got any better during the relationship. He also cheated throughout the relationship, even with his penis in an almost nonfunctional state. Nobody even knew PIED was a thing back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:03 AM
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IMO dating apps have just taken the place of phone sex hotlines, and those seedy "meet hot local singles" 1-800 numbers. It's not about dating, but giving some scrote something to do at 1AM. Companies effectively found a way to eliminate almost all the overhead of an actual business by outsourcing it to random women for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:45 PM
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I'll save everybody a lot of time. It was 100% intentional. Free dating apps took over the space that used to be filled by paid phone sex hotlines. Don't let some bum jerk you around, you aren't even getting paid 99 cents per minute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:50 PM
11

It was inevitable. There is no shortage of hot women with digital cameras. Even the market value of regular skilled photography, illustration, animation, and videography has been completely obliterated by the internet. People are rushing to undercut other people who are already making less than minimum wage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:16 AM
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I think they are trying to change the narrative so that it is empowering for women in the future, by acting like it is now, I agree. It's like a cult, a martyr mentality. Very few men changed for the better in the past century, the majority only got worse. It's pointless for women to wreck their personal lives today in the hope that men will change in the future. ESPECIALLY when the women's sacrifice is something that pleases men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:54 AM
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"Many couples aim to split their responsibilities 50:50, yet for various structural and socio-economic reasons, end up allocating tasks along typically gendered lines." I'd like to know what structural and socio-economic reasons keep men from cleaning up after themselves, or looking after the children they created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:43 AM
2

Ah, the Green River Killer first date. I'll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:41 PM
26

I can get behind this. My mother had an extreme poverty mindset for some reason, even though her parents didn't raise her that way. Even when the money was there, she insisted on buying the cheapest abnormal crap possible for her kids. Even the housing projects kids had better things. She loved us, but those actions did not show it. It would be nice if we really did live in a world where material things don't matter, but that's not reality. Children should know that they are worth the extra effo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:10 PM
36

She absolutely knew that his "love" for her was conditional and based on just one thing. Whatever problems she was dealing with inside, she also had to worry about displeasing him. And since 99% of men are scrotes who play mind games, who knows what kinds of covert evil things he did to further destroy her self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:00 PM
51

Those erotic anime figurines aren't going to import themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:46 PM
142

The average wedding is definitely not $40k. Anyway, this is just a glimpse into the future if we keep enabling cheap, broke, greedy, lazy men. We've already stigmatized your engagement, your wedding, your birthday, your Valentine's Day, your Christmas present. The next logical things are funerals, graduations, Thanksgiving, Easter, your family's Christmas presents from you, kids' birthdays, kids' Halloween, your daughter's prom. 🤡 "What kind of stuck up person wants a whole ceremony for high sch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:19 PM
38

So much media made in the past 50 years is full of romanticizing loser men. It's fucked up. It wasn't always this way. The creep set in when baby boomers first started getting into the industry. Once they had control, they spent the next decades mocking older media every chance they got. I don't think it was the frequently cloying female roles, or lack of non-white actors that made rich men butthurt, it was the idea of male protagonists who had no loser qualities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:08 PM
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I wonder how many of these women were raised to think that being "good" meant not asking for much, always asking for the cheaper thing, and never making a fuss about receiving cheap shit from the dollar store. My mom was absolutely terrible about this. Forcing asceticism on children just sets them up for inferiority complexes and other neurotic behaviors, and lots of childhood bullying and adulthood abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:36 AM
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They just want a lifetime supply of free bangmaids, who give grown men the mommy experience, without even requiring a $20 CZ "engagement ring" in return. I don't think for a second that the whiners really want a family. They just want the doting, dedicated woman, but they don't want to show her any loyalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:20 AM
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Yep. They only care about "pair bonding" because trusting women are easier to extract benefits from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:05 AM
11

Read these absolutely worthless comments, and realize that this is why you should never give men the benefit of a doubt. There are tons of "sweet, great guys" who think exactly like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:43 AM
73

Yup. LVM are especially skilled at creating excuses to avoid commitment that sound responsible or reasonable. If you try to argue with them, you will look like the irresponsible person or dream stealer. Because it's always been his dream to teach English in Japan for at least one year. So, he needs to look for a better job and save up a bit, then the year after that he wants to take Japanese 101. Then the year after that he can enroll in the teaching program. Then he wants to spend the summer af…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:40 PM
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"women can take care of themselves" In other words, he'll never give you any empathy or genuine support, you'll cry alone, pay for your own STD test alone, drive yourself to your own abortion all on your own, then bleed into a maxipad in a public bathroom all on your very own. And he'll call you selfish when you don't want to have sex a week later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:12 PM
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He is embarrassed that a bank teller would see how he treats his non-wife. These men who pretend in public are absolute scum. They know. Don't think for a second that men don't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:39 PM
3

She needs to dodge this bullet. Even after that dog is dead, he's going to be the sort of filthy, lazy, avoidant person who lets a house rot to pieces around him. He is destined to fuck up hard in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:07 PM
92

He just proved that she was 100% correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:45 PM
155

I wish every woman who has been used and discarded by a LVM could understand that everything he ever said was a lie, everything he did was a scam. It doesn't reflect on you at all. Even the nice guy liberal lefty "woman respecter" guys will try to cut you down. Don't let them get under your skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:39 PM
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They do. They expect women to be a free public service to use and forget. Any time they support any cause for women, it's not for the benefit of women, but keeping the price of bangmaids down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:06 PM
54

On top of everything else, it's generally a lot of boring effort to edit and clean up photos. What's the point? You work for 30+ minutes to create one "pro" image, for free, just so a dozen strangers can jerk off? If you post enough free images regularly, maybe dozens or hundreds of men will jerk off to your pictures. Social media has become a mass grave for actual creativity and skill, I don't even like to use it for hobbies anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:10 AM
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And if he's not married, he will resent his girlfriendS for holding up the delivery of his free upgrades, but also resent them for being gold diggers, even though he hasn't provided anything more than an occasional cup of diet soda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:04 AM
21

I agree. It's not travel itself. Travel is just one of many things LVM use as a way to future fake, and push their fake future way past the visible horizon, like a raft swept out to sea. Before he can get married, he might want to travel, go back to college, change careers, find a new job, start a business, move to a new city, study abroad, learn a new language, buy a house, re-join his old band and get a record label contract, volunteer for an overseas missionary trip, train for an Iron Man, go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:38 PM
143

What an absolute loser manchild. She's beautiful, odds are she is already way out of his league. At least more women can see what bullshit this is now that LVM put their trash in writing, instead of a surprise phone call or fight in front of an apartment complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:17 PM
17

Same here. I can at least listen to somebody who seems like a normal person, this guy has the personality of a murderer in a police interrogation video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:23 PM
15

This is a highly underrated comment. They always see themselves as the "nice guy", even while they are doing something cruel and/or abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:45 PM
28

It's true. About 40% of unemployed men won't take a job if they perceive it as an "immigrant" or "woman" job. It's pathetic and shameful. Source: https://www.milkenreview.org/articles/the-male-non-working-class
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:17 PM
30

I've been overweight and underweight, and now at a healthy weight, and will never date a fat guy again. They will nitpick you even if you are Hollywood thin, I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:10 PM
259

You know he's going to drag a woman back to this sad apartment ASAP. She probably won't even get her own lawn chair. If you ever see a man with an empty, miserable home like this, just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:37 PM
89

LOL If men plan on delaying fatherhood, they should consider banking sperm before their 35th -- or at least by their 45th birthday Just bank it straight into the toilet if they're almost 45. I know the many valid reasons why women delay having children. What excuse does the average man have for waiting until age 45? It's not like he was worried about having to give up all his hobbies, intellectual interests, career, body, friends, and spare time. Just tell these guys the gene pool is CLOSED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:31 AM
27

I agree. I wish advice columnists would just tell it like it is. Men who act like this do not love their partners. It hurts women to pretend there's love in there somewhere, or some alternative way to express love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:14 AM
28

During our last argument, he exasperatedly told me that he does not love people the way others do, and that if his love wasn’t enough for me, then I should leave. Oh boy, it's Mr. Different. He's not like other guys! Oh, wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:58 AM
7

This. 100% this. Women try so hard to be "good" and show how good they are, but it's a scam. LVM dish out the same trash talk to all women. You end up even worse off if you have a non-conforming personality and lean into it. LVM hate "bimbos", but they hate "weird" women even more. LVM see "weird" women as already broken and OK to mistreat and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:10 AM
114

I think I've realized more about life since discovering FDS than the almost 20 years of adulthood before, and it's just because male excuses are banished. If you listen to men, most of them work 80 hours a week, every house has clean gutters and a fresh coat of paint, every wife is pampered, every child is on honor roll and plays backyard sports with Dad every evening, before they do homework and get put to bed with a story. Every man you meet is a golden boy. The decrepit state of the world out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:50 PM
149

It's detestable because it's all fiction. Once you realize that it's all bullshit, it's impossible to listen to these losers go on and on and on about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:19 PM
89

I agree. FDS has opened my eyes to the fact that you can't really compromise when choosing men. A chain is only as strong as its weakest link. If he's failing in one area, it will eventually creep over into others, and then you're headed towards divorce or an episode of Dateline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:19 PM
536

NGL I wish every woman had a magic mirror that would let her see the exact moment when her ex-boyfriends finally had to accept that they aren't all George Clooney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:42 AM
67

Exactly. He had no contrition until the result of his own lazy, neglectful behaviors came to a head. He didn't feel anything but apathy until his bangmaid landed on her deathbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:29 AM
46

This feels like something that should have been written by a teenager, not a grown adult. Screen time retards the mental development of men, I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:14 AM
27

Of course overly emotional scrotes had to show up to prove the point, and dump even more stupid, illogical hypocrisy in for good measure. It's amazing how many social media Mr. Logical guys default to throwing out any random ad hominem insult, even ones that make them look foolish. And they miss the point that the day women get their shit together is the day women stop giving such emotional men the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:34 AM
17

This is maybe the biggest reason why I think girls should be dissuaded from spending much time around male friends after puberty. They get acclimated to this disrespect, while they think they are learning how boys think. Men don't do this same thing to each other. Looking back, certain boys and then certain men would always question me with a bemused attitude, I thought it was because my original behavior was foolish, but now I see that they were just mocking me. I realized in my mid-twenties th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:01 AM
41

It truly is sad how much effort women put into humanizing and inventing heroic narratives for men, who just ignore everything and treat women like strangers for years. I remember being in that place, and wondering what I could possibly do to earn a place beside my boyfriend, after years of just being the outsider. I wish all women who are forced to feel like interlopers in men's mediocre, banal lives would just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:00 PM
65

Ryan Long uploaded a video to YouTube last night that is a parody of how lazy, self-emasculated men use "equality" as a way to demand more labor from women. The top comments underneath it are mostly men who completely failed to comprehend the joke. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MzpMRCeTHYE LVM are literally beyond parody at this point. There is no shame at all. They all expect premium labor and respect from women just because completely different men have busted ass at some point in recorded his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:17 PM
5

Who wants to bet he has absolutely nothing to offer a woman who maintains a fitness model body all year? It's even worse if he's 30+ and doesn't realize that his days of fucking college hotties are over. Also, I hope the next generation of girls isn't ashamed to demand more. If you are the always the hottest girl in the room, own it. Don't date some broke scrote, he will not appreciate or love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:04 AM
26

And after all this, he will still cheat with some "basic" woman who hasn't touched a game since childhood, and lie to her about how mean his gamer girlfriend is. And he'll also be fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:32 AM
159

The non-bio father needs to get an std test today and then file for divorce. It's terrible that the bio father is going to go through life forever trying to trap a new male or female bangmaid to nanny his children. Nobody should think this is about a nebulous concept of "freedom" for a second, he just hates being around his children and wants to fuck random people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:11 AM
66

This right here is behind all the men who refuse to reciprocate gifts, refuse to return favors, refuse to put in effort, refuse to meet the bare minimum, and then act SHOCKED when there isn't unconditional love waiting for them. Who act shocked when they are judged for their actions instead of the far-off mirage of their "nice guy" personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:57 AM
14

I agree. For every woman who decided on her own to not marry and breed, there are probably several more who were respectful, responsible, and absolutely fastidious about birth control, and their "boyfriends" never appreciated any of that and just played them for years. It's why I will never again feel sorry for any man who whines that the birth control failed and his forever girlfriend won't get an abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:00 AM
72

Most of them are permanently so limp they could barely penetrate any vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:25 AM
137

She probably has been saving this money for over a year, and he hasn't given her an engagement ring yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:54 AM
44

It's really depressing how women have been so thoroughly conditioned to accept any fat, bald, ugly, miserly, broke, lazy, rude, cruel, small-dicked man out there, and sing his praises like he was a Nobel Prize nominee. Meanwhile, men do absolutely none of this for women, and will even bag on the bodies and faces of supermodels and movie stars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:05 AM
9

A new adaptation of Howards End was on PBS recently. I didn't watch it, but it seems like a very lucid story about loves. I was surprised to learn that the original novel was written by a man, his story is very perceptive and honest. I personally can't handle romance-based plots anymore. It's just too unrealistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:29 AM
118

I would have said this about my slim dick ex when I was ridiculously in love with him, because I thought he loved me back, and I was willing to tolerate bad sex for true love. But wait! He never loved me, and was just using me as a convenient placeholder. So I put myself at risk of disease, cancer, and pregnancy all for some bad sex with a guy who resented me. Great. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:57 AM
258

"women aren't taught how to treat men" IF ONLY. As soon as a baby girl can hold toys, somebody hands her some kind of wedding playset and a baby doll. Call me back when a Power Rangers or Ninja Turtles movie is centered around a wedding. Or Disney makes a cartoon where a boy goes out of his way to fall in love with a belligerent ugly girl. People would rightfully call the cops if somebody tried to publish a gender flipped Tiger Beat magazine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:07 AM
93

This is a highly underrated viewpoint. As long as women try to base their viewpoints on an extreme opposite of whatever loudmouth men say, they will be stuck acting and thinking like a teenager going through an edgy phase. The men won't burden themselves with this, they won't feel any need to make any sacrifices for their causes, they will keep making clear-headed choices for their own benefit. In the meantime, women will still be trying to rationalize whatever lies and manipulations the nearest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:49 AM
54

The friendly, educated, lefty "nice guy" scrote is 100x more detrimental to women than the basic "conservative" scrote. They both use women, but one knows all the right words to make you feel like he can't possibly be a bad guy. You must feel bad all the time because fate itself is screwing you over at every turn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:29 AM
38

I agree, there needs to be more hidden camera scrote footage. People need to see what these men are really like. Men like this will later lie and play stupid about what they did, and act like they were just having a normal conversation before the woman broke down crying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:10 AM
124

Honestly, the reason men act like this is because they know women won't serve them some physical consequences. They don't push other men into fits of rage, they know when to stop. From my own personal experience, even if you stay calm and don't cry, they will still get mad and yell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:19 PM
147

Schools got feminized and boys need to run around like rabid dogs and be disruptive in order to learn. ok lol. Boys can't sit still and learn by rote/repetition. The joke is on them. It was completely normal for teachers to spank students through the 1970's. My mom was a teacher, and in her last few years teaching, that were also some of her last years of good health, she always got stuck with at least one little boy student who just would not do any school work at all, period. She would have to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:32 AM
61

Yes. Part of LVM behavior is to find exactly where a line is drawn, and then they will stand right on that line and lean over as far as they can. Just shut it down. A decent person wouldn't live that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:18 AM
266

His own family is going to realize that he's a weird mooch and a loser. I hope the girlfriend starts to realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:14 AM
110

I have done this, and the terrible thing is that I was a walking doormat at the time. I genuinely gave that shitbag zero trouble, and he still wore down my self confidence to nothing. I'm sure plenty of women who post this trash are beyond easy to live with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:24 AM
10

He does something disappointing and then says: 🤡 "I'm just different from other guys." 🤡 "Just because I'm different doesn't mean I don't care about you." 🤡 "It's not wrong to be different." 🤡 "Some people just have different values/different ways of expressing things." As if this clown asshole thinks he is Edward Scissorhands or Mr. Spock. Also, beware the 🤡 "I care about you." Nonsense from a man 12 months or more into a relationship. It should be upgraded to love by then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:37 AM
29

Note, this is the cycle of poverty. I wish all women could understand this. The men who whine are not working harder than other men. They are just trying to extract the maximum benefit from women. They don't whine to their bros the same way they whine to women. They know they are supposed to be providers, but they are takers. It's disgusting. Like the OP here pointed out, they whine even when they are unemployed. The whine has nothing to do with anything. It's just a kind of stolen valor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:33 PM
49

Some of them really do get upset about BOOTS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:28 AM
18

I agree. Women have to be judged by a different standard, because women already live through a completely different set of values, and women are lied to by society and their worthless partners daily. These men shouldn't be forever-girlfriending women, then acting shocked when a woman gets pregnant after years. They should also be upfront and truthful about how they don't love women or want children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:57 AM
32

Michael Jackson used to be a walking billboard for the dangers of plastic surgery. If he hadn't accidentally ODed on some drug in 2009, you can only imagine how badly his facial surgeries would have aged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:34 AM
279

PIV sex never got me an orgasm, either. The only reason I craved it was the closeness with a partner who loved me, but it turns out nobody I dated ever really loved me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:22 AM
9

I'm glad that some companies finally paid to remaster this in Japanese and English. I like for girls to have as much non-Disney type media available as possible. Older girls' media tends to get pushed out of print and ignored by publishers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:12 AM
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I don't see it as a contradiction, because I have no idea what's going on in some man's head. I know my love is only half of the total possible love, and my 50% can't conquer anything. All I can do is judge a man by his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:10 AM
14

They tell on themselves. If these middle-aged men had been genuinely interested in family, they would have been married by their early thirties. They would have something more to offer to women than just jizzum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:11 AM
78

My thoughts exactly. At 40, a man has already had over two decades of experience in stringing women along, and degrading them every day in the process. Any reproduction-minded woman would be better off with an actual sperm donor and a nanny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:27 PM
55

At this point in my life, I feel that however humans evolved, the original social unit was made of women and their children. The majority of men are dysfunctional, and can't fill any actual need of women, except dick. It's such a bad joke that almost all human societies are centered around pairing a woman off with every man, isolating women, and leaving women to try and fill their emotional void with scrotes. Even the "protector" and "provider" part is a myth for most of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:00 AM
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This is so true. Just look at the massive piles of self-proclaimed "nice guys" who call themselves great just because they don't beat women, or violently rape women, or murder women. That's it. The "nice guys" can lie, cheat, yell at you, manipulate you, insult you, stand you up, wreck your dates, and still insist that they're GREAT guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:37 PM
30

I don't blame you. It's like they wrote that scene to push the buttons of every woman who has dated in the past 20 years, but he's supposed to be the main character, not a villain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:15 AM
63

I have zero interest in the show if the protagonist is this trash guy, but I'm glad fiction is finally catching up to modern life. It has only taken a whole generation. I hope we will see more shows that at least acknowledge that most men are are time wasters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:46 PM
45

As if this guy could possibly have less time than a woman who works 7 days a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:41 PM
26

It's not much of a "two way street" when one spouse has stalled out in the middle of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:03 PM
25

Lord have mercy. Women need to stop dating men on government disability, unless they're literally confined to a wheelchair or utterly disabled. Somebody posted this link a few weeks ago: https://www.milkenreview.org/articles/the-male-non-working-class 11% of American prime working age men aren't working, period. About 20% are trying to get on disability. There's nothing physically wrong with most of these men. I have a permanent grudge, because a brilliant woman in my extended family was killed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:54 PM
13

Men under age 63 still want credit for the Vietnam war-era draft. There is no sacrifice or good deed one man can do that a greedy, lazy scrote won't steal as a justification to be a leach on society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:59 PM
20

Man that design is hideous. It's like somebody attempted to build a second empire home out of all the leftover materials from a fancy strip mall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:31 PM
62

I think this is especially true of the eighties kid scrotes, and why the aggression has exploded online over the past decade. The ones who didn't start adulthood as actual incels assumed they would get endless access to attractive younger women. They hit the man wall, young women don't want them, and most of the single women their own age have moved on from dating. There's whole world of men out there realizing that there won't be a legacy baby, a bangmaid, a Mommy 2, or a nurse with a purse. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:19 PM
41

There really is nothing to miss. Dating young can destroy you emotionally. I got no lasting value from boyfriend relationships, the time would have been better spent with actual friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:10 PM
46

I'm so damn tired of the arguments that if women or society would only bend over backwards more, men would finally act right. Here's something fresh out of 2015: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/07/31/upshot/millennial-men-find-work-and-family-hard-to-balance.html And full of excuses, of course. If he wanted to, he would. Men basically haven't changed any outlook since 1900, even though they vaguely know that they can't say so in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:14 AM
22

It's even more ridiculous when you factor in how most men purposefully date women years younger with much less life experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:01 PM
113

Exactly. Men don't need any fiction to make them want women, but how many modern women would really want a boyfriend if they had never been exposed to 20th century media?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:49 AM
19

It was "The Necklace" episode. The show didn't even ask him about the circumstances that lead to him, a mere boyfriend, getting such huge gifts. I'm sure he has always played a stupid bumbler about it, he pretended on the show to not even know how much it cost. I would bet my own life that he manipulated and badgered the victim until she spent the money, and he insisted that she could stall the repayment until he got some cash, or maybe just legally skip repayment altogether. And then he left th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:28 AM
95

The summary should also have a bullet point for all women who do date boring nice responsible guys, who still somehow end up miserable all the time. The nice guy/bad boy false dichotomy is part of how they play us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:32 PM
31

This is what changed my mind about porn and prostitution. Just see what men say about prostitutes and porn models, even the coomers who fixate on them. Look at the weird aggression you see on any site where people post any sexualized content. I feel like an idiot for watching the aggression and anger for 20+ years and not seeing the truth until recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:50 PM
68

There was a sad story on Dateline last night, where a woman was murdered by a female friend. The police think the victim had been helping the murderer hide money during a divorce, less than $40,000. But the victim for some reason secretly spent most of the money buying man toys for her scrote boyfriend. I've been pressured to loan money to a scrote before. I know it wasn't her idea to spend $20k on a motorcycle and other scrote toys. He helped get her killed, and clearly didn't give a shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:33 PM
58

LVM always have this self-victimizing delusion about how all women have snookered all the other men into giving them gifts, taking them on fancy dates, sending flowers, etc... And LVM expect personal repayment for this crime, even though LVM never actually do any of these nice things, and neither do any of their friends. They get so mad over things that don't even happen. They want to pretend every date has been as expensive and fancy as high school prom. They want every date to give them credit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:54 PM
26

Being a miser and being a wastrel are two sides of the same dirty coin. If he's already acting like a skinflint in the dating phase, just leave. I don't want to trash talk her, because she meant well, but one of my grandmothers was very cheap, and it severely impacted all her children and grandchildren. She loved us all very much, and we still grew up with messed up mentalities. Now, think of the average man, with much less love and empathy inside of him, and all the damage he can cause with his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:18 PM
13

I had a creepy ex boyfriend who went on to rape his next girlfriend. Years later I found out he must have gone back to get a 2nd degree to become a grade school teacher. Another shitty ex apparently abandoned getting his teaching degree after he broke up with me. I just wouldn't date a male teacher. In the best case scenario, he has already normalized acting like a cheap asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:30 AM
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🤡 "Looking for a strong/independent woman." He's going to be zero value in your life, and emotionally blackmail you about being strong/independent, so he can continue being worthless while reaping benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:40 AM
18

Exactly. LVM are going to call you crazy, or manipulative, or controlling, or needy, or something no matter what. If you give in to one emotional manipulation, you end up in a feedback loop, where every concession you give makes them insult you and manipulate you even more. You can never be "cool" enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:19 PM
25

If only the problem was exclusively a white guy problem. 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:45 PM
299

Women need to spread this message far and wide. Parasitic men need to be called out every day. It's definitely not just "boys" or immature men, even the Mr. Responsible types pull this shit. And there's no way to even know if you have a Mr. Responsible or just a wannabe party boy with no money to party. Also, all forever girlfriends get mistreated in other ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:31 PM
151

37 💀. I wondered just how ancient this guy would be. If he really wanted a "trad wife" he would have been married 15 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:31 AM
267

"He never really liked you anyway" Why would a woman brag about building up a man who's been sleeping with women he didn't even like? Think about that for a second. He's never going to change. You just get to be the current host of a parasite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:58 PM
14

I wish I could tell her that everything he has ever said was just slander, and has nothing to do with her. He's the privileged one, he expects a nice life for free and without working. The same for the other privileged and self-entitled kids who thought it would be funny to trash her family's home. This shaming technique is so common with men. The first boyfriend I had after high school pulled it on me. He shamed me for living in my parents' big house. That house is in the absolute ghetto. He ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:28 PM
31

Sperm behave the same way most men do. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:27 PM
10

Even the worst jobs in the developed world still somehow have a few people who don't mind working them, that doesn't mean the conditions are OK. A few years ago Amazon was paying off news orgs to write about the cult of retired wealthy baby boomers with $100,000 RVs who would work at Amazon and live in a trailer park across from the warehouse. These are the same warehouses where workers can't even get their legally mandated 15 minute breaks, and have to pee behind the product shelves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:57 PM
54

I bet the #1 driver of this is men impregnating women and then running away, that's why the difference is smallest around age 45-65. There needs to be real actual outreach to girls to explain that "falling in love" just isn't a thing. There's no telling how many talented and ambitious women have had their potential completely squandered by "boyfriends" who never gave a single fuck. It's intolerable. I could only tolerate it when I still believed that these men had some honest emotions inside the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:51 PM
20

Manipulation and abuse are just instinctive reactions for most LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:34 PM
15

They know what they’re fucking doing. Exactly. Then they howl that not all men are like that when a man finally can't weasel his way out of trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:32 PM
6

She was probably up at Lowe's at 9AM on a Sunday, hauling 20lb bags of cement, and he calls her lazy. And then he blew up at 1PM because she wasn't done and home yet. I hope she catches wind of his impending divorce, and doesn't do any more free contractor work on their property. Let them split it as-is, don't put more money in his lazy pocket. He'll end up homeless without her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:00 PM
114

I will never believe LVM and their fictional time frames ever again. This relationship didn't sour a year ago, it's been 0/100 on his end forever. A man does some scumfuckery, then invents any timeline of events that can excuse it. It's more likely that he cheated a year ago than that his wife suddenly underwent a 180 degree personality change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:17 PM
32

🤡 "Everybody is different, you can't expect me to be exactly the same as other guys." The joke is that every LVM is almost identical. And they all are seething over the same fantasy of every woman as a pampered princess who needs to be taken down a peg, even though they never do anything nice for a woman. And of course they would throw a shit fit if women all said the same thing and started to treat men like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:03 PM
22

I agree. A coffee date is the sort of thing broke teenagers do. They might as well ask you out to Chuck E. Cheese. It's not age appropriate for adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:11 AM
3

No grown men with old cartoon/movie character sheets on a twin bed, or ancient ratty house furnishings in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:21 AM
11

IAWTC. Even the LVM who pretend to be HVM and superficially encourage you succeed (never actually help you get there) still do and say underhanded things to tear you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:08 PM
11

It's almost impressive that the very first thing the atheist "science" guys did after they gained a very marginal upper hand was to start normalizing mistreatment of women. And women will feel obligated to continue to go along with these same self-absorbed lefty guys, even as the obvious disrespect continues to grow. It's very depressing to realize that most of these men chose their political affiliation just to get access to sex and possibly an unemployable man dole. I don't know when women wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:00 PM
69

It's OK to judge men. Don't feel ashamed about it. When LVM can't measure up/they do something hurtful, they like to bullshit about how they shouldn't be judged for being different from other men (HA!), or how being different isn't wrong, but I guarantee that every one of them has also judged women for utterly benign things. I guarantee it. Do not feel bad for judging LVM, they have or will judge you for the most minor things. They will judge you, devalue you, for things that never hurt anybody,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:11 PM
15

He just hit the real wall, the middle aged man wall. No more "no strings attached" sex for this guy. And he's seriously surprised that his free ride didn't last forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:44 PM
6

It's just the logical next step down from a squalid bachelor hovel with no furniture but a single chair in front of a TV and a mattress on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:25 PM
20

I could kvetch about career homeless men all day. They will try to badger money and free things from people daily, but it's the same bums for years, and you know the nearby homeless charities have their actual needs covered. These same assholes will break into your yard, your garage, your car, your home, and steal anything they can, and since they're all penniless and senile from substance abuse, the legal system won't do anything. And you have to politely decline them every day. Once you fail t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:16 PM
6

1000% truth. Women have got to stop filling in the gaps in their knowledge of the world with bullshit said by men. Men lie, libel, slander, defame, degrade, scapegoat and project their horrible behavior onto women any time they don't want to take a hit to their own egos. Every woman here has been the subject of male lies and whining. We need to throw out the modern myth of the "party girl". Most of us have met maybe one true "party girl" in our whole lives, but every "nice guy" is absolutely fix…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:38 PM
4

The whining is definitely terrible. I also think it's low key manipulation so women will feel guilty and do whatever the whiner asks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:54 PM
7

I agree. The vague "make money" stuff has always been a red flag to me. Different professions have different seminars and professional development courses available. Only the most generic and basic advice can apply to everyone. It's the dedication and real effort part that is hard, not reading a big book that just tells you to work harder and smarter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:22 PM
25

I truly hope that this year has been a sign to enough women to make self-beneficial changes to their lives. The day a woman is finally through with LVM behavior is the day she enters a whole new world of peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:29 PM
94

I genuinely wonder how the average young woman in the year 1800 thought of men. All of us have grown up with several generations of fundamentally dishonest books, movies, and TV shows. Any time a woman starts making an excuse for trashy male misbehavior, I bet she is repeating a defense of a fictional man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:51 PM
27

Women need to be wary of any man with a shady "business" or job that involves shady lying. It's not just the way the world works, he has a choice in a career. If he's OK with lying at his job, he'll lie and use you in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:25 PM
89

People keep saying this summer will be crazy, but I hope it's mostly men saying this, and a lot of women and girls carefully noticed how the past year unfolded. Women had to quit their jobs to care for their families, women were extra cautious to protect their families, while "the protectors" threw absolute fits because they had no friends to hang out with outside of bars and casual parties, and getting drunk in public and carousing for women was genuinely more important than not killing the peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:22 PM
13

100%. And you don't even have to move in to get used. Strippers, escorts, and prostitutes cost real money, they are not cheap. There's no telling how many trusting women are out there every weekend giving their "boyfriends" free sex with no orgasm in return, while thinking they are earning love and a future marriage. They are saving each shitty man hundreds of dollars every weekend, and every single "boyfriend" will be a skinflint asshole about spending even a penny on a real date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:53 PM
40

This is what I think of every time I see a man calling a woman mean, evil, cold, lonely, whatever, just because she doesn't want to date or marry. Of course it looks "mean" to them, look at all the benefits they get out of it. A woman who only tends to herself is hogging all her benefits to herself. Meanwhile, 99% of these men have nothing to offer women, except maybe money, and most of them don't even have that. You won't get love or companionship. You will get treated like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:55 PM
52

LVM act like it's fine to think with their dicks, as if that's not 100% hormonal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:54 PM
101

Make a mess? Mommy or wife will clean it up for you. This is one of the defining philosophies of LVM. Whatever happens in the world, whether it's entirely or only partly their fault, they just don't give a fuck because somebody else will be the one stuck with the mess. They do not care until it burns them, and then they think it's a crisis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:03 AM
60

LVM really do expect women to be sitting around 24/7 waiting for their call, BUT LVM can be excused for cancelling a date at any moment. Or even leaving a woman standing around a parking lot until she gives up. 🤡 "Sorry, I got busy and didn't have time to call."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:16 PM
11

Women have trouble removing themselves from abusive relationships because society beats them down into tolerating LVM behavior in the first place. This guy had smaller red flags, and she got shamed into overlooking them. He has destroyed their floor, because he hates her, but he's too much of a lazy coward to end the relationship. And there are STILL a few people who will make up excuses for his behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:25 PM
15

When will adults finally decide enough is enough? Advertising to children and school bullying go hand in hand. I used to naively think that companies were innocent in the bullying cycle, but they run it. Nike alone has probably made billions of dollars through bullying at schools. These assholes are determined to make sure kids can never escape the bullying and product placement. I hate it. They can say it won't have advertising, but obviously it's going to have advertising, either through spons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:46 PM
5

This works out worse for LVM, most of them are truly negative value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:55 AM
5

I know how you feel. My worst ex boyfriend destroyed my self esteem in the years we were together. The regular complete lack of concern wore me down. Like yours, he looked like a GREAT guy because he had time to help out his mom, dad, siblings, friends coworkers, everybody on the planet except me, and I was always the person getting stood up so he could go do those things at the last minute. And I would have looked like a selfish bitch if I had complained any. I spent years afterward feeling bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:57 PM
77

A responsible man wouldn't let himself end up jobless or bank account-less for longer than a few weeks. It's not funny or sympathetic. The men who do this are straight up trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:10 PM
42

I hate that sexual partnership has been reduced to this asinine juvenile bullshit. So many men need to grow the fuck up, and women need to stop being bangmommies for overgrown children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:44 PM
26

As much as they whine about women "trapping" them, they obviously don't really fear it. Most men will go out of their way to prey on emotionally desperate, unbalanced, or mentally unwell women, even when they hate the personality. Those are their FAVORITE women. The "trap" would rarely happen if men weren't out there trying to take advantage of every troubled woman they come across. Cry me a river when one of the many years of forever girlfriends finally forgets a pill, or the rare time a pump-a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:53 PM
65

Even the men with mushy PIED dicks will pull this "sexual compatibility" crap on you. As if there's a years long test for YOU, but his broken penis is fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:20 PM
27

God why do men hate it when we love them??? LVM know they are worthless, and wrong for using women. The last few generations of trash can't even maintain a poker face when women show feelings that men can't reciprocate. It's pathetic. I have less loathing for the smooth manipulators than these shitty awkward self-loathing men who project their bad feelings onto women instead of dealing with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:00 PM
21

I agree that college-age is the danger zone. It's when women will meet slightly older men who seem so much more mature, intelligent, accomplished... But it's all just fake bullshit from LVM who don't have the money to be party boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:57 AM
16

IMO inducing guilt and shame is one of the core behaviors of LVM. Even the ones who don't yet actively abuse women will still privately engage in pity-seeking behavior around women. It starts with them whining about how mean women are, or about being busy or tired from work. Any woman who tolerates these whines will end up treating him like the biggest martyr since Jesus Christ, while he fools around behind her back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:10 AM
76

Both of these men resent her, they hate their house, they don't want to do any renovations because it's a placeholder situationship for both of them. Either one will bail if he finds another woman with money, but neither are probably catches themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:20 AM
113

That last sentence can't happen unless men jump through some hoops. The hoops are what the effort is. Women seriously do not understand that men will "date" you for years, and resent and hate you the entire time. That's why they "accidentally" say mean things, or stand you up, or show up 3 hours late to a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:58 AM
43

He doesn't see two things. First, men are only spending money to impress other men, they don't care about women, that's why they end up 35, unmarried, with a dozen ex-girlfriends. Second, there are three distinct categories of women. There are married women, single women who want male attention, and then single women who do not want men. More than half of single women do not want dates, there are at least 2 single men for every 1 available single woman. And the statistics on home purchases mirro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:13 PM
98

I'm vaguely impressed that a male columnist called out the manipulation without giving the scrote any undue benefit of a doubt. I scrolled down, and the next one called out a guy for forever-girlfriending a woman. All sex advice columns should be this lucid and straightforward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:50 PM
35

I was unprepared for how bleak the numbers in that article were. No wonder dating is such a mess, 1 out of every 5 men is trying to claim some kind of "disability", and more than 1 in 10 aren't working, period. If they could get Uncle Sam to rubber stamp their "back pain" or "adult onset autism" diagnosis, 20% of American men would happily never work again. And of course all those men still expect a free bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:42 PM
15

Every time one of these huge debt stories pop up, I'm certain the husband did it out of spite. It's so passive-aggressive. He probably started spending like crazy the instant he got tired of the relationship. The wife will end up financially ruined by a divorce, he will just flake on the bills and go live on his mom's sofa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:44 AM
81

If a man earns far less than a woman, Utah is clearly no longer the place to pump and dump her after she gets pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:22 AM
18

Be careful about dating men who work or have worked in jobs that are stereotyped as physically demanding, because those jobs teach LVM how to WHINE LIKE BABIES forever. This lazy ass bum is seriously whining about working part time and taking 2 whole online community college courses. There are men and women who work full time and take a full load of classes in person. He's going to be "exhausted" forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:58 PM
33

Absolutely. It's so childish to fixate on something you know you can't/shouldn't have or do. Most girls get greed and foolishness shamed out of them, but men just don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:31 PM
27

Same here. They will call themselves "nice guys" while they cheat, and actually have the nerve to complain to the primary girlfriend about how hard it is to score secondary girlfriends. It's beyond parody. And then they whine that women don't appreciate "good men". What good men? The guy who was cheating on me? Where's the goodness in that? They say this nonsense with zero self awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:58 PM
13

It wasn't always quite this bad. The mindset was already in full swing 20 years ago, but 40+ years ago, professional adults would have assumed an unmarried man over age 30 was either gay or mentally off and intolerable to women. There wasn't always this delusional Peter Pan playboy nonsense run amok in the working class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:45 PM
40

Exactly. She had a personality he couldn't control or crush, so he dumped her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:15 AM
8

I am 100% certain that "nice" businesses encourage charities and do-gooders to herd bums into areas where they will be in conflict with residents, instead of camped out in front of businesses. It's like crackhead management instead of the charities' stated purpose of "ending homelessness" or whatever. It makes me livid to see even more "charities" spring up to attract them, because they get to go home ten miles away, and I have to always watch out for members of the crack herd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:20 PM
344

I felt this comment in my soul. There are so many women who get made up enough for a beauty pageant, just so they can go meet some dirty scrote at a bar and go back to his hovel. And the men are the ones smugly looking down on the women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:44 AM
9

One thing I've realized way too late in life is that boyfriends are not friends, so a date shouldn't be the same as a trip out with friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:19 AM
103

Even in a LTR, insist on condoms. They cheat, even the "exhausted from work" broke PIED ones cheat. One of my shitty cheap ex bfs begged me forever to get on the pill so he wouldn't have to wear a condom anymore. Spoilers: He was cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:15 PM
331

It's chilling that the followup was that she left him, went to the hospital, and found out he'd been swapping out her heart medication AND probably feeding her pesticide. He would have killed her if she had forgiven him for the "joke".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:50 PM
59

They really hate it when women are the busy ones, even though LVM weaponize being "busy" any chance they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:42 PM
37

Exactly. Nothing good can come from dating a man with known mental health issues. It will just be another excuse to cause pain. And he would eventually end up resenting any woman for having a "perfect life" or "living life on easy mode", even the women with really shitty lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:28 AM
620

This is why I've stopped giving men credit for having intensive or skilled hobbies. Of course they have time to devote to hobbies. Pregnant women end up liquidating their hobbies in destash sales, and then they're too busy or too exhausted to ever start over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:20 AM
26

Maintaining health can't be understated. Some men don't even care if they get HIV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:00 AM
44

Exactly. If it was a perfectly normal sex act, people wouldn't need to spend months expanding their anuses with butt plugs or dildos. Honestly, no man deserves to demand that, but absolutely no boyfriend has the right to demand it. They won't even commit, and still feel entitled to ask a woman to warp her body, drink laxatives and clean out her colon with an enema before sex. WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:12 AM
30

As much as men like to insist " not all men" about things, if a man is very poorly adjusted, and that's honestly most of them, he will hold every woman accountable for every rejection or social failure he ever had, all the way back to grade school. He will also expect payback from every woman, for ancient things like the 2005 high school prom, or the one and only Valentine's day a decade ago when he bought $20 roses. He will even expect credit and payback for nice things he never personally did,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:38 PM
29

These are the men who will end up resenting their partners, and insisting that women live life on "easy mode", while they ignore the woman's real problems, and even deliberately add pain to her life. One of the absolute evilest things LVM do is think up angry delusions about how pampered and spoiled women are, then they try to hurt women to make things "even".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:06 AM
17

I think their mistake is believing whining men in the first place. All my ex boyfriends whined about how hard they had it. I only realized too late that it was just a manipulation tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:57 PM
12

Sadly, not much foreplay after the first 2-3 times. Never an orgasm for me. I tolerated it because I thought he actually loved me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:42 PM
93

One of my ex bfs would frequently try that. I don't know what he was thinking, he couldn't even stay hard enough for regular vaginal sex most of the time. His marshmallow dick didn't stand a chance. It must have been the same scrote logic that lead him to cheat with a penis he could barely get up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:01 AM
1173

It's a rare day when the bullet does the dodging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:04 AM
7

Just remember, it's not simply what he does, but the root reason of why he does it. The bad behaviors are like roaches, if you see just one, there are more still hiding. At least today you can see a red flag that doesn't yet put you at a huge personal loss. The next red flag could be HIV, or him borrowing money for a "medical bill" and wasting it on onlyfans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:50 AM
306

Any woman who says she likes "dadbods" probably has made the mistake of thinking that fat men are more devoted and loving. Or she thinks that a fat man can see the value in a woman, since a woman saw value in him. Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:35 PM
16

If only society really did cockblock men who don't have a stable job, stable residence, functional car, social skills, good mental health, and an overall ability to be non-detrimental to a woman's life. To the complete contrary, society usually tells women to give losers a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:47 AM
16

It's insane and depressing to watch so many men collectively decide to behave worse than animals sexually, while they expect the female half of sexuality and life to be completely inorganic and sanitized, as if they were having sex with dolls. It's some Brave New World shit. Expecting to live like a pet animal in a cage, while other beings care for all the unpleasant life things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:34 AM
13

I agree with this. A lot of modern adults act like vegging out in front of a screen is a biological need for children.The best thing for kids and teens is to minimize their internet usage, and overall screen usage, and push them towards hobbies that actually exist in the real world. Leaving kids, especially boys, to sit and stare at screens all day absolutely destroys their minds. They don't learn how to interact with people, they don't learn anything useful or constructive. Most of them just le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:35 AM
33

I hate how women are trained to give men endless second chances, endless benefit of a doubt, but none of these are ever given to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:13 AM
7

You made a good call. The men who want to live with their brothers forever are too absorbed in their own birth families to ever respect a spouse. The women they mess around with will always be treated worse than strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:38 AM
36

Just watch how many men will say something asinine like, 🤡"You can't expect me to be a fairytale prince!" But nobody ever asked them to be a fairytale prince. They just asked for common decency, honesty, and the same low level of affection that one would give to a dog, and that was still too much. And notice how GROWN MEN are the ones who get all pissy about Disney shifting production to movies that aren't centered around a romance. Shouldn't they be thankful and grateful that girls aren't given…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:31 AM
29

This POS isn't an introvert if he's been out there finding and using random women for years. He's just sullen, moody, and antisocial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:33 PM
10

Yep. And even if you share those hobbies, and he talks about how rare women like you are, he'll still cheat with any random woman. It does not create a special connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:36 PM
56

Trusting men that much is honestly dangerous and pointless. Trusting a man in this worshipping way isn't a virtue, he isn't Jesus. Real life isn't a children's movie. In real life, even the cheap Mr. Responsible, Mr. Sensible type, complete with a dadbod and no money, will cheat. You could be an actual model, and he would still cheat with some woman he met at a bar while you thought he was "working late".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:12 AM
170

Just this week i saw some headlines even in my local newspaper saying "men are increasingly single against their will" and "fewer men have a family". This was the inevitable conclusion to modern dating. They really thought they could all treat women like worthless trash until some day after age 35, and then there would be a crowd of unclaimed sexy, sweet, naive, nurturing women waiting to take care of them. What alternate dimension were these women supposed to come from? A breakup from a years l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:53 AM
35

Nice. Investigations with black lights have shown that most hotel rooms have been covered in semen and urine, and never thoroughly cleaned. At least here you could vacation peacefully, and know that the walls aren't covered in years of jizz residue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:46 PM
158

I bet a lot of that 27% came from families where the parents said boys are easier to raise than girls. Oops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:26 AM
125

Doctors have known this was coming for at least 20 years. It's so ironic that a generation of men is going to grow up with shrunk dicks because women's bodies get treated like a toxic waste dump by the corporate beauty industry. The cart is placed before the horse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:44 AM
85

Men can carelessly treat women as interchangeable persons, because we're so successfully trained into our role. They really have nothing to worry about, even mentally ill women generally will go out of their way to provide a premium girlfriend experience at no cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:15 AM
25

I feel pretty much the same way. There shouldn't even be too many occasions where you feel the need to buy an expensive gift for a random man. When the first Christmas and birthday come around, you will probably have only known him for a few months, but by the second ones, the relationship is already dead if a proposal isn't imminent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:25 AM
19

I think that when people bring up "gf benefits" and "wife benefits" here, most of the time they're talking about traditional benefits being given to men who have done nothing to earn them, and not that you should have to do them. It's so prevalent. They all want a traditional woman, but they aren't even willing to put in the same level of effort baby boomers did 50 years ago. Women even end up making the fancy romantic gestures that the men SHOULD be making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:11 AM
131

If a man says pregnancy is hot, I guarantee he's been watching porn made with athletic models who were not bloating yet, and he hasn't spent any real time around an actual pregnant woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 09:52 PM
9

Yep. If you live near any apartments, you definitely live next to at least one sex offender. One of my neighbors next door is a convicted child molester, I've never actually seen him IRL, but I took a good look at his mugshot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:36 AM
13

I think it's because we are taught from childhood that the absolute worst sin is to be "mean" or judgemental. Women are expected to lower their boundaries to a deleterious level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:50 PM
9

Exactly. NVM just want an endless supply of desperate doormat women to mistreat. Modern "dating" requires women to accept endless cruel behavior and abuse. If women were allowed to develop self respect, most of these clowns would never have had a single date after college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:57 PM
31

The same thing happened to lady I used to know. She even converted and wore an abaya, but within a year he was abusive, cheated with another non-Muslim woman, and she finally divorced him. She had been fighting tooth and nail to get US citizenship for him, I don't think it was anywhere near finalized before the divorce. I hope his stupid, spiteful behavior got his own visa revoked. He obviously just married her for citizenship, and had zero respect or love for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:06 AM
26

Younger women especially need to hear this. If you are young and want children, don't partner with some "eighties kid" manchild born before 1986. Their time for children has come and gone. The age gap alone would be bad enough. You and your children deserve the healthiest possible lives. Don't feel any pity for men who goofed around and ran out their clocks. These same men are likely to abandon their whole family if a child comes out with a birth defect, mental disability, mental illness, cancer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:12 AM
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If anybody out there needs to hear this, he really isn't THAT busy with his job. We have all been bombarded with movies and TV shows where the protagonist works so hard and goofs up even though he's a good guy. That is NOT who you are dating. One of my ex boyfriends would whine about being exhausted from work, but he was driving to a different city to have sex with a woman there. They will do anything except be decent human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:14 PM
11

If he even actually believes any of that, it just shows that he hasn't matured or adjusted his way of thinking about people since he was a small child. These are the things we tell little kids, so they won't feel guilty about giving macaroni necklaces as gifts. $16 an hour is still over $30,000 a year, he could afford the $25 it would have cost to buy a small piece of real silver jewelry, grocery store flowers, and a card. I send that much to the children of distant relatives I haven't seen in y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:31 PM
4

IMO child molestation is the natural conclusion to men being socialized to behave in predatory and exploitative ways. It's incomprehensible to women, because we were not raised to think of sex in terms of picking the weakest person and hurting them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:32 PM
10

Exactly. Every douchey man thinks he's not like other guys, he thinks he's a "nice guy". They can recognize the terrible behaviors of other men, but they conveniently excuse all their own trash behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:32 PM
25

he just didn’t want to do things that would make the relationship official. This is so true. Beyond simple cheapness, they don't want to do even inexpensive "boyfriend" things, so they can pull the plug immediately and play dumb. After dating for years, or even having children and buying a house together, they want to act stupid and confused about the nature of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:17 PM
2

All these looser men have an angry fantasy that every woman has men buying her flowers, nice restaurant dinners, jewelry, candy, etc... But effectively no man under 40 actually does any of this. And they all want credit eternally for how "nice" they treated their high school prom date. Even at 25 or 40, they still want to hold those 1 or 2 fancy prom dates over the head of every woman they date. (Two thirds of my class skipped prom, I don't owe anybody a damn thing!) If they can even get a girlf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:51 PM
87

He wants her to drive half an hour, but going 50/50 on 99 cent scoops is too much commitment. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:26 AM
24

I wish children were taught this. Men who continually try to elicit pity are manipulators. They will destroy your mental health. We all have problems, but most of us don't blast other people with those problems in a way that wears them down. Just look at the way these guys talk to their male peers, I guarantee they don't say the same exact things. It's not intimacy or therapy, they know they can trigger caring instincts in women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:26 PM
13

Don't forget all the men who are happy to defame any woman who doesn't see a zygote or fetus smaller than a lunch as the same thing as a fully formed postnatal baby, but they still slander the women who get attached to their fetuses and don't want to abort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:02 PM
31

The condom whine. 💀 Just think of all the women who have either been accused of "trapping" a man, or trying to gold dig a man, but they spent years having to enforce the condom every single time. It's insane. If I had truly been a gold-digging monster, I would have let them do what they wanted. I have no kids. Men don't get trapped, they play the fertility lotto hundreds of times, and each man thinks the 1-10% chance of birth control failure is really a 0% chance for his magical self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:45 PM
7

Exactly. One of my ex bfs was earning enough to modestly support a whole family, but was miserly and "broke" and still had to borrow money from me. Who knows what he was really doing, or what I bankrolled. Which is another reason to not date "broke" men, they will ask to borrow money, and most women will feel pressured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:56 AM
2

Even though my mom tried to not expose me to overtly sexist things, she still babied my younger brother and made excuses for him every single day, because he was the "baby". The end result was the same, I grew up thinking that the mature thing to do was to make excuses for boys/men. It makes me think that just the birth order of an older daughter and younger son is disadvantageous. No matter what the parents do, the daughter will be taught to tolerate bad male behavior. At least it wouldn't be s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:05 PM
79

100%. Most child-accessible media in the eighties put a huge emphasis on not judging people (mostly boys/men) at all, not calling anybody a loser, and showing that so-called losers were misjudged. Losery guys were treated in media like saints. I didn't fully think about it until adulthood, there's no reason anybody should be a loser or a screwup. If you're lacking at something, you can always work to improve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:50 PM
2

He took a few hours out of every week to do something nice for his girlfriend, while being employed. Sex isn't a need, if a man won't put any effort into a relationship, he should leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:53 PM
2

I never believed in the "fate" portion of soul mates, but I did believe one person could be much better than most others. At this point, I don't even believe in anything beyond basic compatibility. Men don't believe in this stuff, it's why they can cycle through endless women without regret. I would not believe any man who says he feels some kind of unique connection to me. Has he been living in a hole his whole adult life instead of dating? If he's been dating, he has felt the same feelings bef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:14 PM
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I never believed in the "fate" portion of soul mates, but I did believe one person could be much better than most others. At this point, I don't even believe in anything beyond basic compatibility. Men don't believe in this stuff, it's why they can cycle through endless women without regret. I would not believe any man who says he feels some kind of unique connection to me. Has he been living in a hole his whole adult life instead of dating? If he's been dating, he has felt the same feelings bef…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:14 AM
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Anybody who feels this way is probably just ashamed from being tied to a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:30 AM
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Same here. Even when I was young and naive, I decided that the BC pill was something I would save for marriage, because it made no sense for me to pay for and take a pill every day just for a few minutes of sex 2-4 times per month. Nobody took me off the market before I got older and ornery, so that pill is never going in me now. The boyfriend who always begged me for condom-free sex cheated on me multiple times. It's just not worth it. LVM dishonestly makes it 200% not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:04 AM
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Poor woman. Modern "dating" forces women into unnatural situations, and men won't even let them have a natural reaction after the fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:44 PM
51

Yup. One of mine claimed that he couldn't say "love" until he knew he really meant it. He strung me along for a few years, and then dumped me like a sack of rotten potatoes. Somewhere between 6 months to 1 year, they know if they want to marry a woman, and they know from the very start if it will be a "real" relationship. If he's still acting skittish past 1 year, he's a liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:08 AM
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I believe it. There are tons of intentionally underemployed/unemployed men who float from one woman's household to the next woman's household. Women need to get the word out that a broke bum is no prize at all, and none of them will ever even love any of the women who house them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:51 AM
23

The print on that shower curtain looks like actual feces. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:47 AM
24

It's hard to admit that lots of us have spent years waiting for a man to recover who he was in the beginning. Even the Deepwater Horizon couldn't find his good layer, it was never there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:13 AM
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It makes me so happy to see more women have seen the lie in men's "strong woman" and "independent woman" rhetoric. It's an incredibly effective manipulation, it gets affected women offended at any advice that would benefit them. The most freeing thing is to just not give a shit if some man calls me "weak". Whatever. I don't give a shit if a burglar thinks I'm "weak" for having a steel security door, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:14 AM
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They are definitely hoping a girlfriend will clean their messes, and hopefully replace or repair some of their trashy home furnishings for free. They know they can break up with you, and keep their new curtains, tablecloth, and towels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:22 PM
26

Just imagine how this wasn't even the whole confrontation, he was probably yelling for 30+ seconds before somebody laughed and picked up a phone to record it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:33 AM
34

What a lout. I hope more women outside of FDS are starting to realize what a scam these men are. They all use the exact same lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:53 PM
24

It's true. One of the most important things in a partner is cleanliness. When they say a man is "perfect" except for being a filthy lazy pig, they might as well say a man is "perfect" except for being violent, or a nonfunctional addict, or a habitual thief. Being dirty and lazy is horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:27 PM
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The other possibility is that he deliberately dates women with obvious mental issues, because they are easier to hurt and manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:44 PM
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I think it's especially wonderful every time a creative woman dumps a LVM. Who knows how many works of art never got made, just because a LVM hijacked that attention for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:51 PM
12

Exactly. Just look at all the LVM who simultaneously whine about "hypergamy" while they fixate on sorority/party girls. They don't care about some woman working 40 hours a week, they want to use the college-age socialites who can party on a Monday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:39 PM
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I wish there was a way to get through to girls that the only side "destigmatizing" their attitudes is women. Men will demand porn, obsess over it, fixate on the porn models all day long, and hate them at the same time. It is 10,000% NOT like a woman daydreaming over photos of her celebrity crush in a magazine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:22 PM
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If the toys all fit into a claw machine, it wasn't an unreasonable amount of stuff at all. I'm reminded of all the horror stories of men who hoarded up necessary living spaces full of plastic "collectibles" and toys, and then had existential meltdowns when their partners got tired of living in a dirty cramped warehouse and asked them to get it under control. A woman is expected to get rid of her cute nostalgic toys, but somehow it's reasonable to dodge a sealed retail case of 2019 plastic whatev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:48 PM
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I can't believe I never saw this mentioned anywhere before FDS, but it sums up almost every dysfunctional heterosexual relationship. The woman is constantly trying to be prettier, sexier, healthier, more trusting, more forgiving, more "open minded", less insecure, less controlling, etc... And the man does nothing but selfish nonsense that he blames on other people or circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:48 PM
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If there's a high value traditional man out there, I guarantee he's out there living life, not online mingling with men who orbit around obscene and negative content.The internet is full of male liars who who want to reinvent Christianity into something that is OK with porn and sexual content, though all other restrictions conveniently must stay in place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:59 PM
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I wish more women could accept that women aren't to blame for the existence of male perverts. If people want to be mad because the world can't be turned into a gender neutral paradise, be mad at the disproportionate amount of perverted criminal men, not the women who want to avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:18 AM
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This is why it's so important for women to never feel any need to "be nice" and pickup her boyfriend's interests. Odds are that whatever his interests are, he dumped at least one woman who genuinely liked those things, because he thought he could get a woman with a better body. So absolutely no woman should feel tempted to infringe on her personal time and mental space to help him obsess over car parts, dirt bikes, games, cartoons, Star Wars, whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:38 PM
7

Yup. He gave it away by waiting until they were in different cities. He will ghost her if she pays him they money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:35 AM
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Right. There's no way to "heal shame" while having sex with random men, almost all of them have a fetish for humiliating and shaming women. Even women like me, who started off with no shame about "natural things", will get men's perverted shame heaped upon them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:58 AM
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I agree. The only solution is to not bring more people into this mess. There isn't enough housing or infrastructure to support more people, and the sales tax from diapers isn't going to be enough to revitalize any city. The US has been in a slow downward spiral for half a century, and it's been impossible for young adults to support themselves for at least half of that. And people are only now starting to care, but still do nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:32 AM
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I agree overall, but I have to quibble a bit. I don't think the manosphere guys ever valued women, or will value women in any way, which I think she's about 98% of the way to understanding. I also don't think most women turned into thots, but the few thots who exist are highly visible thanks to men obsessing over them. She's right, the men who grew up with proto-manosphere crap have started to turn 40. They thought they would be playboys until 35-40, then snatch up a teen trophy bride. Their hig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:33 AM
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For what it's worth, my mom tried, but she underestimated the total depravity of males, and didn't understand that even "innocent" 14 year olds can be almost as bad as grown men. If my mom was still alive, I would ask her what she would have done differently to raise me, considering that most of the men in my generation grew up to be worthless users and manchildren. I think moms are still today raising daughters for a 1965 vision of relationships, even as men crumble and degenerate into toads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:13 AM
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This is the truth. As much as I want something to help destructive men to self-isolate, robot sex dolls aren't going to be it. The price would never go below the price of industrial machinery, and no business would want to provide the 20 year loan for a $100,000 sex doll, something they couldn't even resell easily if they had to repo it. It would only make financial sense for robot brothels, and broke men would immediately start doing catastrophic damage to the robot prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:19 AM
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The funniest thing is that he almost certainly ruined his prior relationship through neglect or malice, because he expected an ample supply of hot childless women to meet all his requirements, and fuck him for free. But none of that is happening, he wouldn't be harassing women online if it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:44 AM
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This is just sad. We have to start teaching teen girls to NOT do this sweet, romantic stuff for boyfriends. 99% of the time it is a complete waste. Men are the ones who have to make grand romantic gestures, women don't, because women aren't the ones who have to prove themselves different from any bum on the street. Nobody out there, except incels, doubts that a young woman really loves her boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:07 PM
6

I'm glad that I didn't have to deal with pornsick body degradation from a man I was having sex with until I was at least a legal adult. It's good that her family finally intervened, but I wish more parents valued their daughters' time and mental health enough to not leave them alone with teenage boys. This is the shit 99% of them will pull. It must seem great from the parents' perspective, since it's financially a "free" activity to them, but it's also a low value experience (negative value tbh)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:53 PM
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LVM say this stupid crap because they are massive hypocrites who ignore all their own negative behaviors. They desperately need the existence of nightmare bad guys, so that ordinary LVM look good in comparison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:06 AM
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Heterosexual relationships are full of paradoxes, and the worst is that a woman who only asks for love will NEVER be loved by a man. You have to demand some sign. Any bum on the street can say he loves you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:16 AM
24

Boomer and gen x parents really raised a bunch of coddled, weak, entitled sons. As soon as I started reaching genuine self-awareness after puberty, I realized that improving my social skills was absolutely vital to having a better life. But loser guys never realize this, they are permanently 12 years old, and expect hot women to fall over men with the social skills of literal children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:06 PM
13

What ever will I do without men offering some kind of favor as a way to guilt trip me for sex later? Wait, I'm 100% fine if creeps feel any kind of negative social pressure pushing them away from opportunities to exploit women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:52 AM
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I've seen this my whole adult life, dressing in a very feminine way sets off certain educated people, as if we're required to stifle our own gender and look a bit frumpy to be intelligent. Maybe it goes all the way back to puberty anxiety, and girls being shamed for growing too adult too soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:35 PM
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I think that most men just plain aren't suitable for romantic relationships. Maybe they can be acceptable coworkers, neighbors, and extended family, but they are too self-centered to be in any romantic relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:39 AM
7

I'm wary of any kind of therapist phrases coming from a man. I'm talking about things like: >🤡"You can't control what people do, you can only control the way you react." >🤡"You can't rely on other people to make you happy. A man who tells you these things is a manipulative bastard who is about to treat you like shit, and then blame you for having any reaction at all. It's very effective gaslighting, because they twist accepted pop psychology into situations it was never meant for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:47 PM
2

Female coddling exists in the same hypothetical area as all those ways men can show love that don't cost money, or all the ways they can show devotion that aren't marriage. They love to talk about it, but none of the ones who talk about it actually do any of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:17 AM
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Every interaction with LVM turns into a compromise from the woman for a promised reward from the man, some time in the vague future. "I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:26 AM
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50% leads to a half-assed relationship. You would genuinely be better off with a regular roommate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:04 AM
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If only I knew. I went out in the world and thought I could have mutually enjoyable sex with a person I cared about, no shame or sin. But men want the shame and sin, even the friendly lefty guys drag it into the bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:06 PM
5

I don't think there was ever a golden age for marriage, but prior to the past 20 years, at least men knew they had to have a job to chase women, and there was a real expectation that men would eventually marry one, not mooch wife benefits and/or job benefits off a long line of , while providing nothing in return except soft serve dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:10 AM
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Yes. The complete disinterest in who or what the problem was, and the arrogance to announce that the whole group was secretly a pay porn site, and the assumption that the woman would just accept it and fuck off without a word, are all such male things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:11 AM
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Once you stop believing in male romantic love, most media is completely ruined. Whole TV shows stop being about a man and his struggles, and turn into stories of men victimizing women for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:08 AM
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I really do hate to say it, but parents needs to discourage girls from hanging around male "friends" outside of school, because the girl will always be the odd one out, and she will try to fit in while boys triangulate against her. The murder of Cassie Jo Stoddart is another example. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Cassie_Jo_Stoddart Even though murder is the worst case scenario, a girl still shouldn't be put in situations where she will be manipulated, scapegoated, and bullied. It sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:57 AM
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So many baby boomer mothers encouraged their sons to cry a bunch, and thought they were raising empathetic boys, but instead they raised self-centered, self-pitying, completely not empathetic men. I have no idea what the magic key is, but men crying definitely isn't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:52 AM
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It's really ridiculous that we've dropped to a point where a man can drive a woman back to his place, and then feel no obligation to get her back to her car/home. It's also so telling that he opposes engagement rings, because he should be able to show love in other ways, but he's fine with his roommate stranding a woman away from her car, because his dazzling presence alone is enough to show that he cares about her. It truly shows that the ones who won't buy a ring absolutely do not give a shit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:00 AM
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Yeah. We all know this sort of zero effort dirt bag would not have asked for a $400 gift if he was really going to pay for the same amount out of his own pocket and drive all over town buying stuff. It would have been easier for him to go to a single department store and buy a $400 gold chain. But he didn't. Because he wasn't going to spend $400, he was trying to game the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:17 PM
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I think that resentful behavior is almost synonymous with LVM behavior. It should be the ultimate red flag, because he thinks he's entitled to something somebody else has, and he's going to act like a spiteful child about it. If he acts resentful over money, jobs, having to work at all (lol), prestige, other men who can have sex with party girls, etc... He's settling with you, and he's going to be resentful towards you soon enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:30 PM
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This is pretty much my feeling. So many men whine about how "mean" and "empty" modern women are, and blame feminists. How many feminists does anyone know in real life? How many women does everyone know, who have been regularly mistreated, if not outright abused by male partners? Also, while there are a few women out there who try to shame women for being women, almost every man out there actively resents and shames women for the same things. I expect more dumb think pieces that ignore the obviou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:39 PM
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It's certainly a shame that male puberty completely wipes away all memories from most male humans. Small children can be taught not to hit other people, but not grown men. Such a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:51 PM
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I think 18, at the bare minimum, because men need to be able to bring something positive and high effort into a woman's life, and men can't do that until they have their own money. Women need their own money, and especially learn to judge how responsible and reasonable the man is. I do not think girls should ever be encouraged to hand out affectionate attention to teenage boys who have made zero effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:41 AM
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He even said he anticipates he'll revisit his single college days when COVID settles. Truly a WOW. Let's hope he tells all his dates this, so they can stay far away. And he'll inevitably whine about child support after he has completely abandoned his three children. I don't even have kids, and I can't imagine saying something so completely delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:36 PM
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I think you're right. We can't fight or struggle for relationships, good men wouldn't put us in situations where we have to struggle. Those of us who had bad childhoods are used to fighting, used to hanging in there, used to struggling and hoping that one day we can get what we want. In a decent world, a man would at least respect that, but most see it as a reason to look down on us, to treat us like shit and manipulate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:43 PM
1

LVM will put in the bare minimum to attract the next woman they want. It might look like an improvement to the previous woman, but it won't be sincere or permanent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:03 PM
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I don't think that romance movies are appropriate for little girls, even if you remove the actual sex. Removing the sex might actually make it worse. Girls fundamentally do not understand the relationships on screen. No woman thinks she's going to marry a fairytale prince, but almost every woman alive in the first world today believes plenty of other movie lies about men, or we have felt guilty about prioritizing ourselves because of TV/movie plots about judgemental women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:19 PM
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