If he doesn’t care about his health and well-being, he will not care about yours.

-Does his diet consist of junk food and sodas? -Does he rarely exercise or drink enough water? -When was the last time he visited the dentist and has it been ages since his last teeth cleaning? -Has it been years since he last set foot in a doctors office and got his blood work done? -Has he never been tested for STDs or did he not check to make sure he was clean after being with his most recent partner?

If the answer is yes to any of these questions, he does not know how to take care of himself and/or does not care enough about himself to make sure he stays healthy. I value my life and want to do what I know is best for my mind and body so I go to the doctor when I feel something is off and I make sure I get enough exercise, water, and vitamins.

Also if a man makes jokes that are self-deprecating that shows he is insecure. Insecure men will neg confident women and try to bring her down to their level.

I dated a guy who would send inappropriate memes about how being good at disappointing women in bed and when we were intimate for the first time he was having trouble with his performance and then told me he was scared of messing up and not being good enough. Later on as we continued dating, he would make subtle negs about me needing to improve my bj giving skills. I found out he told his entire group of male friends that I was “bad at sex” and I couldn’t give a good bj🤢 he was definitely pornsick and felt entitled to receiving the best sex of his life and he didn’t stop and think that he was not pleasing me.

Another LVM ex of mine was self conscious about his weight and the way he looked. He would talk about how I could lose a few pounds and he criticized the way I lost weight before I met him. He claimed calories were the only thing that mattered. Once he told me how he thought my looks were “above average” but I wasn’t model hot where a guy would get aroused just walking by me🤢🤢 he claimed he was just “being honest” and he’s sorry if he offended me but he “didn’t want to lie to me”

Avoid insecure men at all costs🚩 watch how they care for themselves and others. If they don’t give a crap about their own well-being, they won’t give a crap about yours.