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Same. It took me years to figure out that's what he was doing, because, ew, but yeah, he paraded me around when I was in high school and college, and would bark directions at me about how to stand and walk so it would seem more like we were together. One of the biggest scrotes I have ever known.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:42 AM
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Omg, it's my Ukrainian coworkers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:45 PM
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As soon as I read the news account where they went on and on about her "anxiety" I suspected it manifested to a debilitating degree only after she got involved with this guy. Even in his photos he looks smug and awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:12 PM
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I've read some about The Captain and Tenille (for the youngsters, they were a very polular singing duo in the 70s and 80s). They were a couple. Tenille (Toni) did all the vocals (plus 3 or the 8 or so keyboards they always had going) and seemed to direct them lovingly towards the captain, who rarely showed any expression. They divorced quite late in life, reportedly because Tenille tried her whole life to "break through" to the captain, and was never able to. There are some indications he was ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:51 PM
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I know guys who dismiss #metoo by saying that women just need to say no clearly and they won't be harassed. They have no fucking idea. Scrotes don't hear anything that doesn't fit their desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:38 PM
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Gaslit shitstained bow - oh, the imagery!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:25 PM
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Ugh, I have thus awful coworker who thinks he's super woke and feminist, but says that he doesn't clean because he just doesn't notice mess as quickly as his wife does, doesn't cook because "she's just so much better at it," doesn't grocery shop because he just doesn't know what to buy. But he thinks it's cool because he does some yard work and takes the cars in for oil changes. He also thinks he's super progressive about race. Narrator voice: he's super racist. I honestly want to slap him every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:56 PM
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Ugh - reminds me of the time I was at a friend's house and mentioned that my previously injured leg was sore and her husband, who, she had confided, was trying to take their relationship poly, disappeared into their bedroom and emerged waving a Hitachi Magic Wand around and asking if it might help my sore leg. And yes, he was exactly the guy that you look at and think "dude, you are luckly ONE woman will give you the time of day, don't go getting greedy." I couldn't get out of there fast enough,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:12 AM
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Courtney Stodden? Edit - name correction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:41 AM
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Same. I got with a 37 yo when I was 18. He started out possessive and ended up violent. Thank God I was on birth control the whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:41 AM
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I have had a parallel experience where women want to be my friend because I'm unconventional and I give off a funny/cool but also friendly vibe. Somehow it makes some women think I'm an evergiving teat of free therapy and that I can also help them become more like me. They want to dump all their insecurities on me and have me fix them, not realizing that I had those insecurities too, and I got over them through hard work and self-reflection, so the answer they're hoping for from me, that I'll so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:27 AM
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I'm your parents' age, and while I used to get all snarled up in trying to get unavailable guys to like me, I had a huge shift about 10 years ago where I realized I hated dating, and usually took time out from stuff I love to do in order to go out with guys who would immediately start playing games (though I didn't recognize the games then) I gave myself the gift of giving up on dating, and it has been great. I pursue my passions, I have amazing friends, I travel, I do sports, I play an instrume…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:47 PM
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I love that he tries to sell you on a second date by pointing out how pathetic and unappealing he is. Like, sign me up for this wonderful experience!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:49 PM
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IKR? And it's so weird, because I spend so much of my 30s and part of my 40s terrified of winding up alone. Now I'm older and I love being alone. A guy would have to bring something incredible to the table for me to be willing to give up my sweet lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:17 AM
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This might explain the horrible experience of a friend. She owns her own business and spent way too long with a scrote who would monopolize her time whining about his own loser life, and whenever she would make noises about needing to get back to business, would reply with "oh, I'm so SORRY, am I wasting your precious TIME?" Her relationship with him might actually wind up ending our friendship because it exposed so much of her own dysfunction. Standards will save you ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:16 AM
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I'll play. LVX and I were on a weekend away, playing checkers at a cafe. I was winning when suddenly he stood up and said "I want to leave." At the time, because I hadn't groked how ridiculous guys can be, I couldn't quite believe he would be trying to quit the game before I won. I didn't say much, just waited to see what he would say, and he said something about how the woman at the next table was really annoying and he had to get out of there. Fast forward a couple of months, I was flying high…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:12 AM
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Yeah, like 10 hours of surgery would be.... not exhausting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:23 AM
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Thank God they're finally pushing bukowski off his pedestal. The guy was a substandard human and a horric misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:37 PM
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Maybe they read here, because it's been fixed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 11:48 PM
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A friend and I were talking about the NYT LAT article. We think it's a great idea, because we both take good care of ourselves, but have encountered plenty of men in our age group who can't or won't change their unhealthy habits, and yeah, you're right, I don't want to take care of some guy whose health is failing 20 years before mine does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:27 AM
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He absolutely worked to lower your boundaries, by flirting, and then propositioning you for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:23 PM
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It's based on a book by Fay Weldon - The Lives and Loves of a She-Devil. I highly recommend the book, and Weldon's other books as well. Edit to correct spelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:03 AM
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Ugh, he demanded to see your paychecks? That's gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:40 PM
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Exhibit a: Louis CK. Blech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:13 AM
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Wait, is your name Midge Maisel? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:42 AM
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Thank you, both for your well-thought-out post, and for showing a picture that explains to me why old guys wear their pants up around their armpits :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 06:29 AM
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Yet I got comments like, “What did you expect wearing a skirt?” “You asked for it” and “Do you go out looking for trouble?” “I want the guy’s side of the story” “You’re not entitled to privacy in public places.” So, basically, "you deserve it because you're female and you exist."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 06:24 AM
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When I was abused I tended to think "oh if I was a 10/10 dreamgirl he wouldn't be treating me this way." One of my friends is absolutely gorgeous - like, male fantasy, playboy bunny gorgeous. And she's married to a guy who says stuff like "no one give a fuck what you think" in front of her friends. So ... abusers gonna abuse. I feel horrible for her, but the denial runs deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:41 PM
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When I get crap like that from guys, I calmly contradict, in a very matter-of-fact voice, with no facial expression. So, in response to "wow, that guy really broke you," I would say, "actually I'm doing really well, thanks." No defensiveness, just state the fact, and by not showing emotion, you take away his reward for needling you. If he tries to re-engage with something like "wow, you're touchy, I was just making an observation" you can respond with "thanks. I prefer to stick to business." Bas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:57 AM
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People would save themselves so much grief by understanding that whatever a person is doing, is what they want to be doing. It's not some mysterious outside force putting up the walls - it's HIM putting up the walls because he doesn't want to be close to her. I can't act all superior, because I have been there, but so glad I learned. Once I figured out that people do what they want to do it changed my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:43 AM
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If he's going back out of town for his summer job, maybe you can use that time to get yourself somewhere where he can't find you. Does your city have a domestic violence shelter system? That can be a very safe and healing place for you, and I know from having volunteered at one that they are very hard to find - they are just regular houses in neighborhoods, and their locations are kept secret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:48 AM
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