I’ve unfortunately had my fair share of experience with pornsick men but I also have been with a man who did not watch that much porn. The man who did not watch that much porn admitted to me that he had viewed porn before but he did not watch it frequently, he didn’t watch it while we were in a relationship as far as I know. Sadly it is extremely rare to find a man who never watches it but you can tell a difference in the bedroom between a man who views porn frequently and a man who does not. Here are some things I noticed when being intimate with them:

Pornsick scrote:

-Complained about wearing a condom and wanted me to be on birth control instead, claiming the sex didn’t feel as good with a condom

-Fixated on a specific body part, in his case he would say he was an “ass man” and wanted his partners to be well endowed in that area

-Had an obsession with anal, would ask to try it, I always said no and he would make jokes about how great it would feel and would share memes about it with me and his friends

-Put very little effort into pleasing me but demanded me to give him a top notch blowj*b and used the phrase “slop slop” to describe what he wanted.

-Was into the rougher and hardcore sexual acts, got bored of me and started distancing himself from me after I refused to perform degrading acts for him

-A lot of porn addicts have an addictive personality so they often have other addictions such as drugs, video games, alcohol, gambling. In my example’s case, his was alcohol

-He was also very misogynistic and would talk about women like they’re objects. He didn’t seem interested in my accomplishments or ask much about my career. He loved talking about himself. He also shamed a friend of his for treating a girl with respect and called him a “simp”. Once in a group chat he used the n word (he’s white), cuk, and whre

Now this is my experience with an ex who did not view porn frequently:

-Always wore a condom, never complained about it and was aware of the bad side effects of birth control

-Did not fixate on a specific body part of mine and appreciated all of me

-He was grossed out by the thought of doing anal sex and said that it did not sound appealing to him at all.

-Now a man’s taste in memes says a lot about who he is. This guy did not share sexual memes or other dark humor

-He was willing to listen to what I wanted and even willing to use a vibrator to bring me to orgasm. He said using my favorite toys added to the fun

-He was into what is considered “vanilla sex”, no BDSM

I hope this comparison helps and feel free to add more!