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I have ADHD, I am also high functioning (and medicated) and most people would never know. I wouldn’t tell someone I’m dating until at least 6 months, maybe more. Women in general take care of their mental health so it is not an issue. There are so many ways a LV guy can use the knowledge of mental health against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:03 PM
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It was none of his business how much money she was making. He probably pressured her into telling him and felt uncomfortable. He should want to provide for her regardless of how much she makes. I hope she leaves him. He didn’t need her money he just wanted it. Also saving for yourself is an expense, a lot of financial planners say to pay yourself first (ie saving)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:35 PM
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Never married, no kids for either of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:56 AM
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There has not been any 50/50 he has paid for all dates, weekend trips, and vacation. I paid for breakfast once on our trip to Vegas and for drinks two times on a week tropical vacation. That is it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:14 AM
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Yes, I am planning on buying my own home. However if I ever get married I would assume my husband would provide the home that would be ours. I would keep my home and rent it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 12:08 AM
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Yes I think we are on different pages. I was second guessing myself because of the multiple properties aspect. I appreciate the feedback.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:03 PM
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I am 33 he is 42. I am definitely focused on purchasing a home that is mine. Hopefully before I am married. I live in an area that blew up during COVID so housing inventory is really limited right now. If I got married and had not yet purchased my home, could a prenup assign my 1st home purchase to me or should I just definitely buy a home before marriage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:57 PM
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I am looking for the answer to this as well! I just posted in ask FDS. On the weeknight my boyfriend has requested whoever’s house we stay at would be in charge of dinner that night. I said yes that would be ok because he takes me to dinner and makes me dinner at his house. He has also cooked for me at my house including buying all the groceries. thoughts?! We have been dating 6 months and are in a serious committed relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:01 PM
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🙌 Great post. FDS has completely changed my views on divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:27 AM
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This is so true. LVM are delusional and don’t think aging applies to them. When I was on online dating I was really shocked how some people seemed to be aging a lot differently. The guys that looked 10 years older probably just were and lied. Haha I never even thought of that because who would do that! LVM will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:14 AM
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This is a great index of LVM responses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:46 AM
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WTF, this is fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:08 PM
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Yep, I am in the same boat. I also listened to her songs (Hi, it’s me, deal with it, and special) on repeat as part of my break up playlist. It helped me keep him blocked. I can see that sex positive culture has more benefit to men and is not in the best interest of females. I just used a couple of her songs as tools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 11:35 PM
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Looking back it is so easy to see how low effort “good morning” and “good night” texts are. Before I thought that it was sweet. Now after learning about intermittent rewards and that he can easily text that to a dozen women with minimal effort, this picture sums up everything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:48 AM
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Happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:18 AM
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Tips or resources for recovering kinkmeisha? That last paragraph hit me hard. I found FDS after my kink situationship ended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:57 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:41 PM
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Damn. Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:40 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:39 PM
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Thank you! I’ve read the handbook but after this I’m definitely going back and reading it again. A good reminder to use it as an ongoing resource. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:31 PM
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He told me about the vasectomy, he said he was nervous to tell me. He has offered to show medical documents and sperm count. I was upfront about wanting a family. He said he was upset because his feelings were hurt about me still seeing other people. I agree it seems soon. I doubted myself and thought maybe it just seems too soon because in the past I have dated people that are avoidant and non committal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:30 PM
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This is my favorite post about this! I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:37 AM
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I’m 100% here for these comments. Thank you! Not being upfront about the vasectomy was not good. He has said he is open to having it reversed. But yeah I’ll take that with a grain of salt. Previous girlfriends have been his age or older. His dick - sob story yeah I’m not totally buying it. I’m sure it probably happened but he also probably left out some details. Could you expand on keep an eye on others things? Just future red flags or something specific? Wedding- I told him I don’t make plans w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:52 PM
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I thought it was odd, I’m in my early 30’s and 10 years younger than him. This hasn’t happened before with prior partners. We talked about it more extensively and he said he had performance issues while in a relationship in his early 30’s for about 6 months and it was a mental thing and he doesn’t want to risk it happening again and would rather just wait. We are waiting to till results are in from getting tested. He got tested right away. My appointment is a few weeks away. He seems totally fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 07:42 PM
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This is amazing, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:24 AM
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Seeing someone for about 6 weeks. The first week we went on two dates and then they left for a 3 week trip. Upon return went on two dates. The night of the fourth date we tried to have sex (I know not FDS, I’m still learning). It didn’t work, he says that condom is the problem. I reply that I don’t have unprotected sex unless I’m in an exclusive committed relationship. He assumed that we were exclusive and when I told him I had dates with other people he was very upset. It was awful, he reacted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:30 PM
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Yes! Recently was seeing someone that way over shared early on. Turned out to be a total fuckboi. There is an older post about emotional fuckbois and fit him to a T. I think they are more dangerous than the typical fuckboi. -2/10 would not recommend, but led me to FDS 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:21 AM
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I wonder if covid has increased this problem? Some guys I slept with (pre-FDS), had to finish themselves and just couldn’t orgasm with sex (with a condom) and I have never had this happen pre-covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:48 PM
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Second date I agreed to go to his house for dinner, initially his friend and friends son were going to be there as well (they were visiting from out of town). So I felt fine accepting. Well that day was really busy for me so he offered to delay a day, great! The day of I find out he has just dropped them at the airport. So dinner was just the two of us. It was fabulous, he bought me flowers and had a glass of Rosé which is the wine I ordered on our 1st date. Anyway we had a heavy make out sessio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:43 PM
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