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MOOD FOR LIFEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:52 PM
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Equal-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:53 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:15 AM
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QUEEN SH*TEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:18 PM
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LIES MEN TELLEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:15 PM
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#JustLVMThingsEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:31 AM
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REMINDER 👑Equal-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:06 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:02 AM
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STAY WOKEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:21 AM
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STAY WOKEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:53 PM
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FDS HUMOREqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:49 PM
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REMINDER 👑Equal-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 11:48 AM
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LIES MEN TELLEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:12 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 02:22 PM
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QUEEN SH*TEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:48 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:49 AM
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FDS HUMOREqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:10 PM
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DISCUSSIONEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:27 AM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:14 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Equal-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:42 PM
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STAY WOKEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:59 AM
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STAY WOKEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:42 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:44 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:16 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:22 PM
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NAH, SISEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:47 AM
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QUEEN SH*TEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 04:07 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:25 PM
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SCROTATION REPORT Equal-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:59 AM
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LEVEL UPEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:00 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:04 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:01 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:38 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:18 AM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:29 AM
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RANTEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:19 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:40 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:38 PM
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STAY WOKEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:42 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 08:30 AM
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FDS HUMOREqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:34 PM
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Equal-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:58 AM
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Equal-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/21 11:47 AM
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COUCH CREATURESEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:23 PM
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REDDIT HATES WOMENEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:59 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:53 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:35 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:40 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:29 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:18 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYEqual-Ear2312/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:34 PM
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That's reactive abuse on your part and it's natural response to his abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 04:12 AM
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Gee men should use mathematical calculations to pay for their food and housing. Not gonna listen to you while you eat your momma's food and live in her basement, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 04:11 AM
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Like the person above says, it's gonna be a bit awkward but instead of focusing on virginity, better figure on getting tested together. If they can't put a condom properly, funny get too enthusiastic yourself. You maybe want to grow into a relationship together with someone and that is very sweet. But think again... Be wary of making deep emotional investments, especially if you don't know the deeper stuff about them like porn consumption, previous relationships etc. Taking about your virginity …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 05:49 PM
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One thing. Don't. You can reveal it later in the relationship. But if it doesn't work, don't let them have the smugness of having "taken" your v card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 05:45 PM
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"support" of SW because they wouldn't mind not paying a prostitute or stealing her content and praying links on Reddit for millions to access it for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 05:34 AM
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Women are not total slaves anymore like they were 100 years ago so this doesn't benefit men 100% anymore. And the sad fact is he's right. That old scrote is right. Men are in it only when it benefits only them. They don't care for equal rights as long as they have theirs! Also wanted to say that men always tell on themselves. Just listen and you'll see how they have no problem being misogynistic and exploitative with every occasion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:04 AM
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☝️ This! That's their response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 06:07 AM
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It sounds like it's written by the husband that cheats...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 06:06 AM
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If he doesnt want you long term he will refuse. That's a good thing. If he says no to testing and still wants to cling to you, just drop him. Health should it us be important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 06:05 AM
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Utah?🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 Bible belt? Mwahahaha... I am dying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 06:03 AM
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With a LV man, women can't have fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 06:01 AM
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The traumatic event he went through, where you have been there for him - I need to point out that LV men start hating/ hurting those who stay because that's what they feel they deserve. Deep down, this man is a weak man. After being there for him, if he starts not only to take you for granted but using you to hate on and spill his anger onto, then it's time to make him a thing of the past. There are men weakened by life and circumstances who begin to resent the woman that stays strong and suppor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 05:50 AM
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An acquaintance of mine gave up custody of her daughter and pays child support. But guess where the daughter stays at most of the time? At her place! Most divorced men don't want to be parents. For him it was a power move and she didn't play his game. She just wanted to be done with him because he is an a-hole. He started very soon a 2nd family and realized that his new wife cannot stand "the other kid" so he sent the kid away, even though he demanded and obtained "full custody"...🤡 This is what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 10:51 AM
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How about: how to STOP even considering a dad as a partner? Divorced men have lots of baggage. Most of them are keen on starting 2nd families because they don't like how the past ones make them look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 10:46 AM
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I know one woman whose bf have her the present of "vaginal rejuvenation"🤡. He's giving himself a present, ladies. A man only pays for stuff that he wants. He pays for clothes that he gets to take off her. He pays for lingerie - that's for his boner. He pays for fake eyelashes - that's for the male gaze right there. I've day he'll pay for her silicones and for her barbie innie pussy and anal bleaching. He does it for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:28 AM
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Any hustler, crypto bro or exploitative-minded man is a 🚩 You need a man that has stability in their social & professional life. Instability is linked to hustling and male MLMism. They are the equivalent of the hunny on Facebook that wants to sell you some cereal that has amphetamines in it. Drug usage goes hand in hand with hustling as well. Is his dream a yacht full of models, a bathtub full of champagne and then squirreling for cash and hustling again? Losing massive amounts after his trading…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 06:23 AM
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Do this instead: you lose interest when he doesn't meet the checkpoints. Say "um, yeah, that's a deal breaker for me, sweety." It will put them in their place. It's them that have to compromise for you, not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 05:55 AM
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I agree with equality in rights but I'm thinking equity also. My dream is not to be "treated like a man" I mean, double X is the matrix. Men are just a variation. They can die mad for all I care 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 05:51 AM
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It's cute. But I refuse to be a nephew's piggy bank
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 05:40 AM
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Some porn sick men don't even hide their addiction. They market it at as normal. They will take out their phone and scroll through hundreds of women next to you right after sex. And they'll claim it's nothing because all those women are nothing because you as a woman are a nothing to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 05:39 AM
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Men's bullshit is at every street corner, it's everywhere. You can't avoid it from happening but you can choose to remove yourself from their presence in a mingling - dating situation(I mean going out and getting to know each other at first, not sex). Making it clear that you don't put up with their tantrums and later abuse means you know how to recognize it and leave at the first red flag. Continuing pest it is gonna put you on the danger zone. Don't be scared that you won't find another. You a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 05:30 AM
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Because what about those 80% dudes who like equally as much having their dicks sucked!?!🤡 They can fck each other all they want 😉. Women don't owe them shit. In nature, a female animal would not mate with a male that lost all the fights. This is not 1 man - 1 corresponding woman but that "Hinge scientist"🤡 thinks it should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:53 AM
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reported on the Gini coefficients he had found in his company’s abundant data, treating “likes” as the equivalent of income. He reported that heterosexual females faced a Gini coefficient of 0.324, while heterosexual males faced a much higher Gini coefficient of 0.542. So neither sex has complete equality: in both cases, there are some “wealthy” people with access to more romantic experiences and some “poor” who have access to few or none. But while the situation for women is something like an e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:49 AM
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He sounds like Shane from Love is blind show. A total addict. When he's not hyper, he's depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:33 AM
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You kept him away from bar fights, hookers, crack and oxies, and several Chlamydia diagnoses. How dare you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:29 AM
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This is what happens when she loves him more than he loves her. A man will always think that the grass is greener on the other side. Also, these men behave as of the"relationship" or the gf did "not let them live their lives aka hookers, crack and feeling the thrill of the chase. They resent their gfs for having lost that time. You see... These scrotes think it's because of the gfs. They could have broken up at any time. But they didn't. They choose to resent the gf that loves them very much, in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 04:25 AM
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sorry but Beyonce, Rihanna, Minaj & co are all major pickmes. they can afford to be pickmes and stay with LVM who will cheat on them or have a record. you can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:39 AM
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It sounds like this because this scrote suffers of main character syndrome when he's at best a 2-lines on repeat NPC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 08:23 AM
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He definitely is the type that thinks "your not like the others" is the best compliment out there. He's just a misogynistic dkchead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 08:19 AM
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Watch out! Men can dish it but cannot take it! A woman who wants to have sex just because she wants to? Unheard of! Too much for the male ego!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 08:18 AM
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Yeah. Let's get real here for a bit, mmkay? Men like him DO think that we are stupid. They dehumanize us from the very beginning. That's how they feel comfortable about pumping n dumping. Her being a whole human being gives him an uncomfortable feeling because when he fcks, he doesn't probably think of her pleasure, of her future or of her needs. She's an object. That's some toy story - worthy realization right there. Did he think she's less than him? Yes Did he think her less than human? Yes Di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 08:16 AM
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An old case of: it's her fault He did it because he wanted to. Not insanity. No "she made me do it". It's all on him. Todt testified that his wife was the one who murdered their children and that he came home one day to find her with blood on her shirt. He added that Megan then killed herself and that he was trying to cover for his wife in the weeks after. I see he tried to pull a Chris Watts on the police. Honestly when will women stop being thought of as responsible for men's actions? See jada…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 07:59 AM
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Unfortunately, this is true. He has to want it more otherwise it's a loss for the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:28 AM
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He just knows he'll extract sex easier from the person that does this. That's why he will "stay" all the whole looking for someone to chase. It's ingrained in their socialization. They will then claim they feel emasculated and not respected if you take lead. Even though they are lazy!!!! Men like this fall very easily into resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:27 AM
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My old teacher told me: make sure he does most of the loving and giving than you do. My teacher was an old man. He wanted what's best for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:22 AM
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Yep. A man even told me this. I still did it. And I came to regret it. He was below average and had lots of issues but I was in the phase of "giving chances" to people that did not deserve me. I behaved like a charity and I was treated as such. A first move from the woman is off-putting to them. No matter how good she is, they will think she's desperate or broken for having done it. So don't do it. Maximize your comfort and your benefit by having him want the relationship more than you do. Make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:21 AM
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"but what about his side of the story? Uwu" Yeah, fck that. Not wasting time ever again. You cut the spaghetti out of his mouth. Let him stew in his own scrotery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:01 AM
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I wouldn't have bothered to explain. I would have straight out reported him 🤡 also. Good luck, Joe! It's an improvement, especially since we are conditioned to see through explanations and give out second chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 05:21 AM
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"normal" because this type of aggression is super normalized. But there's nothing normal about it. My experiences back in the day was people were easier to flag. It was more obvious they were crazy or knew they were trying to get away with something they shouldn't. And we see day-in day-out some crazy example that's normalized through tv shows, movies, songs, YouTube etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 05:16 AM
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This is old. I mean it has been around for some time. But the message stands: controlling behavior can be noticed from the first date. Don't brush off the red flags. Also Don Hennessy' How he gets into her head/ How he wins: abusive men abuse from the first date, they hope you'll just have a tolerance for their crap. What doesn't stick and it's meet with questions from your side will get you a dumping. But the thing is, they need you more than you need them. They are constantly searching for wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 09:58 AM
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oh... I remember other "period" / fantasy tv shows that had loads of sex too: vikings, game of thrones, rome, spartacus, the tudors, borgias (which was stopped for a season 3 because of the raunchiness & other things. like the incest). but when they are solely centered around 'romance" and just sex... wtf are they called? not so softcore pornos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 07:04 AM
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LMAO - never watched it but now that you mention this I am curious as to what's the hype with it! thinking back on when 50 shades hit the screens, I remember my roommate in college saying that for Valentines she was asked to go see that piece of trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 07:02 AM
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It's a fckd up culture where women have "an obligation to date". Wake up and go to every date possible, plan dates, have 2 - 3 dates/day, speed date, have a date with a different person every day of the week after work. Your on vacation? Don't worry, you're not exempt! See the dadbod divorcee? Date him! The hobo shmuck? Date him! You have 2 legs? Go on a walking date or run after a date proves a serial killer. Some Thoughtcatalogue articles need to burn in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 04:55 AM
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Only perfect practice makes perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 04:45 AM
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Lmao I love your take on this! You're so right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 08:29 PM
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Men are using old to get sex mostly. They don't need to know someone's life story to f them. They are too lazy and fast moving to give a f.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 10:56 AM
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This is too real. My whole life's interactions with men= a meme/ sketch and this pink guy skit perfectly sums it up. It's too real it's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 08:56 AM
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I'll add here: he forgot his phone in the car etc.... 🤡 When your entire life is depending on 1 small device, a deduce that is usually in your pocket, you don't just forget your phone in the car. Come on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 08:47 AM
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I mean ... We should know if he's worthy of giving us oral before giving us oral but I'd love to see the reactions!!! However, I am afraid of the possibility of violence towards me. If I'm in a vulnerable position, naked or in a bed and he just starts yelling or something - no, I wouldn't do it! Last time I asked a presumably hvm about body hair on women and he got me with a "it's a sign of respect on the women's part to shave their legs"🤡 So my body hair is disrespectful to him☠️? I don't even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 07:43 AM
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That channel is scourge. Takes the controversy on which vice thrives but adds a dr phil-esque touch. It's like they're trying to normalize the extremes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:19 AM
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and he wasn’t giving me the opportunity to decide whether I’d want to be with someone who uses drugs. Very well said! By withholding from you they manipulate your thoughts of them and taking from you the opportunity to see their real face. A classic example of: he had his cake and ate it too. He deceived you into continuing your relationship with him. LVMen know when they do something bad or disgraceful or something that's a deal breaker for you. They just want to get away with doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:16 AM
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And if we ignore said red flag, society will blame us as well. Women are seen as being responsible not only for themselves but for the behavior of the men around them too. Coupled with victim blaming, the damage this does is real and terrifying. What we should understand is that we are only responsible for ourselves and we are the only ones that can keep us safe. Forget "man as a protector trope"... We cannot afford being apologetic over our livelihood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:07 AM
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Maybe we should just normalize women existing at all stages of life? That older women are just as important as young women, but especially as important as older men? this is probably the best take I've read on this. older women - they are just declared invisible by patriarchy if they do not conform to men's standards on "how women should be". it's gross to think that at 20 I was scared shitless of the fact that I will one day be 30. and then I hit 30 and nothing bad happened, except discovering …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 04:07 PM
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you know what? you are very right! we could have had an interesting conversation! we could have that still. I couldn't care less about my username since it was randomly assigned. not a good idea to project on me "bitterness" &co. I love the laughing emoji at the end, though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 03:54 PM
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hey, let's be happy she's happy! how about just that? we all need to deal with our internalized misogyny and our ideas of "what a woman should be".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 01:10 PM
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but she’s very obviously trying to act like a millenial and not like her actual age. how should she act, though? maybe start on that ball of yarn? darn some socks? get a perm? wear a hairshirt? why are we standard shaming women on here? if you cannot watch it to the end then don't comment only to miss the point. she never said she did this for "men's attention". she even says so starting at 3:40. she says she doesn't appreciate the attention she gets from them at all. you missed that, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 12:38 PM
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We have little girls growing up with fairytales like these, learning how to center their whole life around a man, meanwhile we have little boys watching hardcore porn. It breaks my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 09:12 AM
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Emotional incest 🍼😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 09:10 AM
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You have perfectly described what a scrote is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 09:08 AM
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What he was trying to do was some sort of hurt and rescue. Creates a bad situation then claims that if he came clean about his lie he did her a favor. Typos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 09:33 AM
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his poor mother tries to dump him on some other woman. she's probably tired of the basement dweller son and his hormonal BO that permeates the area : "please take him, I'll even make you supper. I just want him out of my basement". I can see... also, his mum saying about him "he's a good boy" & "I told him we don't treat people that way" - I died! that poor woman is crushed under so much misogyny and pickmeism...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:39 PM
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scrote needs therapy, not a GF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:34 PM
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Nah. We need to stop calling these emotionally abusive men childish or stupid. They play a role to get what they want. Pickmes think it's cute. It's not. They are luring unsuspecting women and shit-testing them. I have a feeling he paid for one of those TRP courses online and was applying every shit-tactic in there. Of course, given that she has a healthy self esteem and standards, she could see through his bullshit. But that's RP/ PUA in action. Not during to the date? Check! Giving her ultimat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:10 PM
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Muh baby 🍼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:05 PM
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Yep and then his momma called her to ask her to give her baby boy another chance 😳☠️😖 cringefest See the link in my other comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:17 PM
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there is more... towards the end.his mom called her, trying to make her accept a date with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 02:24 PM
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There must have been something really wrong with me a couple of years ago before I found FDS. My ex said the most horrible shit to me, unprompted I'll push you in the lake and push your head down and watch you struggle until u drown That was on my first date. We went kayaking and he "jokingly" hit me with the paddle or shook the kayak so I eould be afraid we would fall into water etc. He swerved into my kayak with his as well (we kayaked together and then individually). Later after we broke up a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 08:48 AM
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Flash news: you cannot kick a large dog. The dog will not take shit from an abusive BF. Too many cases where men hurt their GFs pets! A large dog = active person, money spent on grooming dog professionally at least once a year, vet visits, proper diet and involvement... Reminds me of the post where men hate "horse girls" because they feel emasculated somehow. Large animals = huge commitment from owner. And I go back to the idea that a bad man cannot easily kick a rottweiler. He'll be in pieces😂 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 08:11 AM
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it's pretty neat that most posts here are about acceptance. if he hates a certain food, do I oblige him to eat it? absolutely not! that will never be the case. I always respected that. but isn't it strange that when I expressly say I hate something or that I do not wish to eat a certain thing, my ex would specifically bring that or try to "make me" eat it? I think we can all agree that food is about control. and men's attitudes towards food, when unjustified (I know autistic people who cannot ea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:55 AM
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weird food hungups? I would understand an autistic persons. But would I date one? No. I have a choice not to. But a man that insists on being weird around food just because he has nothing better to do? Yeet him. been volunteering all my youth at a center for autistic kids and that world is not for me. I have second hand trauma from that. In all honesty, I do not have the patience anymore to deal and date someone with dietary restrictions and weird approaches to food. or someone that is dangerous…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 06:47 AM
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yeah but can we also mention the blatant pro-pedo vibes it has? "little" mermaid? I notice the same kind of vibe in cinderella. The shoe is too small for the step sisters of Cinderella. A child's foot would have fitted there. to me the message is: that she should be as close to a child as possible, not "grown", both physically and mentally, but naive and sacrificial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:51 AM
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nd foot fetishes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:48 AM
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my take on this: cinderella - if he has a foot fetish, run! and where's Aurora "he molested me in my sleep" from Sleeping Beauty? and the Barb the Builder "I clean after 7 grown-ass men" Snow White? and the virgin with no debt and tattoos Rapunzel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:47 AM
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It's because women were pushed to stay quiet that men dare to say "not all men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:38 AM
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girl... from experience, the men I dumped turned worse. It's always from bad to worse. These men just turn rotten to the core. Take the hope that a bad man will "somehow" turn good and put it in a box. or that all they need is the love of a good woman. you are shitting yourself. you are self-gaslighting. men try to have it easy. being a HVM needs effort. LVM fear effort and self-actualization more than anything. they will always pick women they can easily control and who will pick up after them,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:50 PM
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proof that men haven't evolved their view on us from "the help" to equals. men see other men as their equals and women as props. how many of us haven't fallen into the role of personal assistant, therapist, secretary, cook, cleaner, mom? yeah, it makes my pussy dry to play one of these roles for a grown-ass man that calls himself an 'alpha", a "leader" or some other made-up bullshit having to do with his skewed up view of masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:18 PM
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For all men, there's no bad sex. They're biologically made to feel pleasure when stimulating their penis. This is why they are not very preoccupied with women's pleasure and comfort. LV Men don't have sex when they can't (ie: can't get it up or feel pain in their penis) but they push it on women. It's an abyss of differences between us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:43 AM
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Great advice! If I were using old 😂. How come past -me forgot about the "no chasing men" and why should we even entertain copy-pasta individuals or men who can't keep a conversation past "sup, hi or hello pretty"🤡??? Leveling up, this seems like impossible for me to go through again. Be merciless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:39 AM
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👏👏👏truth! At least an exercise in imagination or empathy but something tells me they don't know women very well or didn't interact with women besides sex. This type of men who perform this type of thinking should be met with prompt rejection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:30 AM
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You perfectly described their mind. It's an ugly place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:27 AM
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Hell yeah! Good insight as usual! That's also a good vetting strategy!!! Aaking him that. My ex would tell me if he were a woman, he would have fucked the whole town. I looked at him and told him that's unrealistic without are least several hospital visits for STDs and police reports for rapes and beatings. He looked at me like I grew a second head. Men like this do not think sex has dangerous, drastic consequences for women. They have no empathy (they don't use it) and compassion. Le: typos typ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:22 AM
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Scotes take something beautiful and make it dirty. Most men that hurt me were LV and they thrive on projecting their issues on women. It takes a lot of self reflection to not identify with the projected image and immediately drop these porn sick individuals. My ex immediately assumed I was "riding the CC" after he hurt me so much. I was sickened by his presumptions. He could not see past his projections. You cannot compatibilize that. Ever. One more thing... After birth, I don't think LV men sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 05:52 AM
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That's because these are narcissistic approaches. Most nvm have covert narcissistic traits. Check out dr ramani on something about this topic here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 08:07 PM
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Men want to treat other women like free prostitutes yet have their daughters be treated like queens. Until all women are treated with the respect they deserve, we won't have "equality". They know they don't respect prostitutes for example, yet they don't want their own daughters to end up like that. Men need to turn on their empathy for ALL women, not just their flesh and blood. But who am I kidding? Some men take their daughters and treat them like trash too. Typo*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:17 PM
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"why did she allow these men to treat her like that" And that is the difference between men and women, sir!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:02 PM
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Gentlemen prefer blondes 1953. A pickme movie but that line holds a lesson. My take is: have higher standards, don't accept less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:58 PM
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My God! How many women have to cluelessly post to aita sub to ask a reddit audience (80% scrotes) if she's an asshole if she asks for more than 5 bucks allowance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:06 PM
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Resent him a bit? Remember that post ehere he invited her to an exotic vacation with his family but she had to pay her half? And he was upset eith her because she skipped most lunches cuz she couldn't afford them? I mean .... How can a man just be like this? ☠️ 🤡"Sorry, mummy..Cindy can't afford to eat lunch with us today and the day after tomorrow. You see, she is poor." 💩"Poor, you say? How awful! Then who is going to go shopping with me?" 🤡"Oh, no, mummy, those are the money she saved to pay …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:42 AM
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Regarding violent and degrading porn, antiporn sub has someone that makes efforts to expose one vile man who cocooned himself with the protection of contract law while running some of the most degrading sites to the day. Most of the "performers" disappeared/ abandoned their social life and some of them ended their own lives after he repeatedly broke them physically and tried several techniques to break them mentally/ psychologically by using government torture techniques. Information is being ga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:34 AM
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Nooooo 🤡 Do they think that's attractive or that we are stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:28 AM
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And what do you bring to the table, sir? Chlamydia! Ain't that enough? (Was he high on meds? I doubt it☠️)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:26 AM
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Oblivious, he is not. An asshole, he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:46 PM
245

Uuuuu... You called them out. They only want to stick their dirty dick in a clean virgin with no debt and no tattoos. Pornsick men are the ultimate hypocrites!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:07 PM
11

There's nothing more full of potential than spring cleaning If it doesn't spark hot, yeet it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:05 PM
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Don't threaten me with a good time😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:21 PM
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They keep having these kids and funny imagine for a second they do actual care for them. They pay someone else to do it. It's the same for Musk and Grimes. None of them spend actual time with those kids. They are props used for publicity and fans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:33 AM
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They are down voting him because they still haven't moved out of their momma's house and still mooch stuff outta her fridge without giving anything in return. The image he's projecting affects the average male redditor who thinks women should contribute to their life without them contributing to hers. They are average, mediocre men who spend too much on the internet. Reddit males do not count as a dating pool. 90% of them are trash, really needy takers. They need a helpmeet because they cannot h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:28 AM
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Take her on a date? After he used her as Mommy MacBang Maid ? After he had sex with her? After he made her pay half the rent? Kind of defies the purpose. He now has the whole cow, why pay for her milk? What she can do is dump his ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:23 AM
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We live in the time of the alarming trend of the mediocre man who is so entitled he stomps his foot to get his way. We have men taking over women's sports, men barging into and protesting to be able to barge into women's spaces, men legislating over women's bodies, men demanding their sexual "needs" to be met at all cost as if their penis is the center of state affairs. That guy is average at best. Ugly mug, bad teeth and so much entitlement one could fill up Sahara with water. Average men are j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:20 AM
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Women have been conditioned to still take back and want used men like him, as of they are Jerry's shoe repair shop😂 I won't be too surprised that he finds an idiot who didn't even if now he's not single and embroils her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:01 AM
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If he retreats and gets colder, it's not time for you to be the chaser. It's time you dropped his ass. We don't compromise on that. There should never be a point where the woman wants the relationship more than the man. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:59 AM
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But it's via surrogate. Nope, it's all natural. Maybe she's baby addicted and this is her way of staying relevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:51 AM
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They have to make it a competition to make the men bite. ☠️🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:49 AM
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A lukewarm man? We don't handle him. We drop him.. Anything except enthusiasm is meant to make you chase him. We do not chase.. A man has to want the relationship more than you do. He had to be the one that dedicates more, the one that loves more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:46 AM
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her future can go both ways: she leaves; starts anew; has everything to gain. she stays, becomes a forever GF, has his kids, gets in debt with him, cosigns for his gadgets; reaches 37 with kids and a man that treats her like shit. he doesn't even bother to hide his cheating (because he will cheat). 2+ kids and no marriage = perfect ground for him starting a second family. dumps her when she gets a health hiccup and starts "enforcing boundaries" (sweetie, you cannot enforce boundaries after years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:48 PM
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that's a fucking enabler, not a friend. girl, grow tf up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:43 PM
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at least we can agree on something. anyone who is pro porn is not a feminist. anyone who is pro sex work/ prostitution is anti-women. if a man lived long enough but still hasn't reached the stage where he says porn=bad, prostitution = trafficking and anti woman, then he is not the man for you. turn around, walk away, you'll find another. never, and I mean never approach a relationship from an approach of lack. no, YOU are not lucky to be dating, in fact, your risks just increased 30%, your risk …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:42 PM
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and for those of you who want kids, make sure a nanny is paid before and that he contributes with money (yes, like a fund) for baby care after birth. do not have kids if you cannot afford care for them or a nanny. I would opt to have a live-in nanny/ help & cleaner. I could cook and breastfeed and be more present to play with the baby and still have time to myself, go to gym and plan our meals and entertainment but I will not be on high alert because there will be someone to do the house care an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:38 PM
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exactly! my cat never ever bruised me. we sometimes play and she faux-bites me or very gently uses her claws, especially when she's kneading me. she is very careful. my cat is a 6 year old, half outdoor cat and also hunts rodents. she brought me dead mice as presents. even a "dumb" cat knows variations of force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:41 PM
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girl no... he's abusive. reminds me of my ex who bit my lip so hard, i was purple for a week, grabbed my leg so hard, i got bruises for another, bit me - especially when he knew I would go see my family/ go see my friend etc. I think it was jealousy. he never apologized. never! he pretended nothing happened. this is how they start. even a pinch or a movement that is intended to cause harm should not be dismissed. ​ and I do not buy this bs about "men don't know their own strength"... they know. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:35 PM
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YES! 100% CORRECT! it is about control! but there's something else that you put very well into words: You can best believe they view any woman who's enjoying herself / having those kinks herself as "dirty". ALSO YES! as a woman, I am not allowed to enjoy sex! because that belongs only to men to enjoy. they hold the limit of my enjoyment. why? because sex ends when he cums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:18 PM
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"stronk woman" (yeah stronk) = any woman that is very careful regarding male feewings. when she's hurt, she gets her feefees and bottle them in a jr and she throws them into the sea. and then she's cool because when the LVM says "sup" she just smiles like nothing happened. if he needs stronK woman beside him or kewl grrrl, kindly tell him to go get fck by a train at full speed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:50 AM
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not only ... but to also let him try and "stop being so judgy!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:35 AM
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but kinksters always target people who do not share their own kinks. this was my experience. the more I said NO, not my scene, the more kinksters were inflamed and began insisting. the truth is they think that people who willingly go into this shit are damaged. especially women. take my words for truth because I met these people and they DO NOT want the women subs on their scene because they are "used and no fun" (because they are already broken in). instead, they facebook and Instagram target w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:34 AM
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kinks and fetishes are not examples of a healthy sex life. if you cannot get it up without kinks or fetishes, you do not have a healthy sex life. they are paraphilias aka sickness. the only kink I am endorsing is kinkshaming. vanilla sex is love! gentle sex where both partners respect each other's bodies and boundaries is healthy. sex that doesn't result in an STD, STI or a fatality is healthy. boring lovey-dovey sex is the way. do I need to make a hypno session of this? vanilla sex is the best …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:27 AM
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I'll bet 15 and say he doesn't even have a job or he's in between. because who has time to pay for child support?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:51 AM
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I have been there. and surprisingly, he nailed the pikachu face too. I mean... do they rehearse it beforehand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:50 AM
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he's looking for a nanny bangmaid, obviously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:47 AM
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I know men hurt you in your past but I assure you (I am not one of them) now have sex with me and what actually gives these LVm away: their preference ranging from casual or committed. what is it you want, man? casual, committed, long term, short term or all of the above??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:46 AM
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woman's health vs how does his penis feel about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:43 AM
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give me a standard, I will ruin it. women can't have standards because it's sexist, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:13 AM
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There are so many weird borderline incel type men that are god-tier at this and even many of the mainstream reactions around low status men ("give him a chance!") are based in the fact that people give them the benefit of the doubt and more empathy even more than other people (i.e., vulnerable women) that are low in the power hierarchy in the same situation women are vulnerable every day. they are tired of it. men are vulnerability tourists, like some people are poverty tourists (dunno, grimes a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:10 AM
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whoever raised you did it right so they get to be the first to see your dickpic. more like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:07 AM
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omfgg! love the lyrics! she will be needed! sounds so FDSy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:36 PM
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There will be no relationship they just want sex. Low effort sex, low having fruit sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:49 AM
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Nailed it! He wants to tell her that he's doing this for her so she would be better to be grateful (1) and at the same time that she's not that important (" something") and that's the neg (2). All the while he can deny it and say that she misunderstood😢👏😂 They know exactly what to say to make women feel a certain way. It's like fine-tuning school for scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:49 AM
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Smooth (not!). Notice how he tries to get her off the app? Do I look like a man with a plan!? Then what are you here for? 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:45 AM
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But in all these cases they are the cockblocker themselves, they and their Pinguin brethren.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:43 AM
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Yeah, just report her other 5 porn sccounts, okkay? That's a good deed for the sake of humanity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:39 AM
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"hey guys, we akshually love to be molested by patients" 🤡☠️🤡 Fucking pickme! They are worse than incels at siding misinformation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:26 AM
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All OF girls do this. They are everywhere, very hungry and ready to say whatever for some more views and a new subscription. Her "medical gear" looks like it's from the Halloween shop. LE: she has 2 more porn accounts and the equivalent of OF pay per view on beacons. I urge you all to report her for posting inappropriate content, minor safety and spam (she made 3 accounts that duplicate her content, she desperate). remember, little kids love tiktok. they have access to everything because these s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:22 AM
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The video that starts with "men are more attracted to women who"... I swear, she's like one of those OF girls, perpetually ready to bash other women for some extra cents 🤡 "Have you ever wondered why women love having their haired pulled during sex?" Aaand REPORTED! FOR IMPLYING THAT WOMEN LOVE VIOLENCE. it's a take as old as time: she lives being abused. Nope. Not gonna let this shit pass..re-fcking-ported. she can start saving for a new account and soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:20 AM
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they do NOT want to. but they are told, like I was told when younger, that all women do it and I am a prude if I refuse. they are told they are beautiful. come on! don't be shy, show me how beautiful you are! because if he says it... if he says she's beautiful or pretty or has "nice" boobs at least, then maybe, maybe it's true, tight? so the males that manipulate girls and women into taking and sending nudes know very well how they respond to social pressure. girls and women feel obliged to comp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:03 PM
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I prefer health rituals. and I am all for it! beauty can mean so many things to so many people. we wash our hair not because we are vain, we cleanse our face and brush our teeth and make small adjustments to hopefully fit our personal idea of "beauty", again another abstract concept, just like femininity. but then comes a moment when we need to start reflecting our behavior and approach to "beauty". are we doing it because it's today's standard? is the standard timeless? or is it a trend? becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:41 PM
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being down on your luck, hurt, depressed, being at your worst makes LV people act in 2 ways: this is easier and it tells you immediately who they are: they leave you and pretend you do not exist. attracts all sort of LVs who claim to want to help you (but they don't because your being helpless is what attracted them to you)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:20 PM
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will smith hit chris rock for himself, not for jada. stop thinking that make violence is female related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:54 AM
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penetration alone can give you an STI. my ex, who claimed he just wanted to know how unprotected pussy felt like. claw their eyes off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:53 AM
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I honestly decided to weed men off by their grammar. i swear it saves me 50% of the hurt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:51 AM
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Little boy egos cannot face adult stuffs, like responsibility, accountability, consequences. They need mommy to take the burden. I know men that did stuff just out of curiosity, to see what their gf would do/ how they will react. They have nothing better to do! Too little emotional labor and unpaid labour. Their manservant took care of it. No dishes to clean, no laundry to load, no break to cook, no kids to care for. Why? Because she's already doing it for him also! Surely, she invested too much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:46 AM
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There was an aita post (obviously, it's always the aitas)😂😂😂 and they condemned her that instead of cutting the unemployed man baby's 70 dollars monthly subscriptions, she should cut down on her makeup and frivolities. And not surprisingly, she also has 1 baby. Because men think makeup is useless and doesn't help the woman at all. She also used to give him an allowance but the males on the internet all colluded so she gives him allowance and the subscriptions. Because he seemed depressed and did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:47 AM
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and this "simply" because they want to have sex with a breathing living warm human woman... instead of their own hand. they should stick to fucking their dirty palm for all I care. men like these are aplenty. there are some "relationships" where she saves up for the future and thinks of their children and he's there going through the motions, telling her: whatever you want, sweety, while he's waiting for his "real-deal" woman. of course, the real deal never comes but he'll end up fucking what he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 06:36 PM
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Studies after studies have shown that women are taught and encouraged to save their way to more money where as men are taught to focus on increasing their income. Even that super high income is their birthright yeah, we need to look at this critically. the media damns women as "irrational spenders" while men make "investments". okay, saving up is a good idea but not always. you cannot multiply money by saving up. you do not generate anything by saving up. you just stash up what you already have,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 05:20 PM
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throw it in mordor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 06:01 PM
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"Look at him in the eyes, feel the love you have for him, tell him exactly how he hurt you and what you don't like about the situation. lmao. no. he'll get a boner at that. sadists always love to hear how they hurt you. it validates their whole existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 03:26 PM
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the clitoris is satan's doorbel, didn't you know? and man owns woman's pleasure - that's all there is to FGM. it's like branding, its ownership. things haven't changed that much since 200 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 03:25 PM
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yep. it's a good prop but even a feeling that they might be LV is enough. LV women will always take the male's side in a confrontation. They are "adamant" that you should always consider male feelings. even after being SA'd themselves, they will still not believe other women with regards to their SA. They will most likely blame other women for being "weak" simply because they blame themselves. they hate seeing other women succeeding because it reminds them that they are failures. I do not recomm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 12:51 PM
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even with mounting evidence against them men want to be given the benefit of the doubt. we have to be the bigger person, right? so they can behave childishly, right? how about no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 12:19 PM
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yeah, but sex is defined as a need only for males. not for females, if you pay attention. we as women, we're supposed to hate sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 11:54 AM
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I stand by the fact that sex is not a human right. Sex is not a need. Sex is simply a desire, otherwise, monks and nuns would all be dead by now and no one would choose to be one anymore. I love it when I bring this up, along with Maslow's pyramid of needs and scrotes not only prove they cannot see reason and logic, but that they reject all science simply because all that matters if it keeps their dick hard. they like to think that their penis is above human rights. And don't tell me... Do all t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 11:53 AM
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And got turned down 😂 No one's laughing, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:34 PM
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I was a teen when she was blasted all over tabloids and called names for "splitting" up Dita and Manson. Manson's scene was the perfect breeding ground for this kind of abuse. Just look at Manson on stage with his male bandmates. He's utterly deranged, hiding in plain sight. He's not doing things for shock value anymore. This is his lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 10:11 AM
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I say let's malign a dead scrote. Because Pam is wrong. Maybe Hugh did not abuse her specifically but she is a survivor of SA as a child. Seeing Hugh as "paternal" is just a trauma response. He kept revenge porn on all the models. He basically dictated their life. Money doesn't make it okay. Just because scrotes pay for their degrading porn doesn't make it okay. I'm disgusted at all the female supporters. Calling "me too" boring (pam Anderson) is peak pickme response to earn favour with the boys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 09:24 AM
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He looks like he woke up in a public toilet but his pants were around his ankles 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:06 PM
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She's old! Women can't look old! If you're old, you're fucked. That's the message. Like old women don't have a place. They're either examples of decrepitude or invisible. But the man, he has whiskers and blonde locks and sex appeal. It's terribly hypocritical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:15 PM
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He might be thin but the unkempt look hits too close to Woody Allen territory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:19 PM
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B-but he has "whiskers and blonde locks" and is hot as hell🤡 what? Don't you agree?/s I'm tired of men appearing unwashed and tabloids still praising them or projecting sex appeal on them when the opposite is truly the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:15 PM
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I am not very updated on these "stars" but one thing I know is that he looks and he is old enough to not look in his prime. The fact that media expects us yo be gushing over these men, even unkempt, is preposterous. Meanwhile, it bashes women as soon as they hit 30 and calls them old/ older. Older than whom, in this case? 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:18 AM
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I had a man try to make me want to be his girlfriend. Among his pros was: "and I will never cheat on you" like that alone should have made my panties wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:50 AM
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18 - 19 - where was she then? oh... John Mayer. Age differences when the woman just "turned legal" are always cringe. I cannot stop thinking about the Evan Rachel Woods and Manson situationship. She was 18 and he was 38... I mean... nothing said there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:48 AM
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he was not only a "feminist" he was also a "Buddhist". bish puhlease! after 3 dates that went surprisingly well, he decides to dump on me that he still cannot let go of his ex (been apart from her for 1 year+)but that he really loves sex so he decided he wants us to see each other for sex. after this he also decided to trauma dump on me and tried to make me think that I was in the same boat (like we both had exes that "sucked us dry")as he was so I would agree. It didn't work because I was disgu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:09 AM
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you can also see from the downvotes. OPs & mods can see the upvoting percentage. Your post seems to have upset some fragile male egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:52 AM
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I am shedding tears. I am sorry that you went through this. It's always their blatant cruelty that hits us in the end. Like... they never ever cared for us from day one. All it takes to identify a sadist (like I presume your ex was) is to place yourself in a situation you're vulnerable. I am currently thinking of strategies in which to test for that. They are very well at pretending and have learned their social game very well so it's hard to tell without being in a specific situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:51 AM
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he engineered a situation where he had the upper hand. I learned the hard way that even in a relationship, being away from my support system (ie: on a vacation, at his place that is far away, in another city/country alone with him, depending somehow on him for something, being far away from family/ friends and with no means to communicate with them, being low on cash, having no phone/a broken phone, a broken car etc.) the rapist type will always use it as an opportunity to extract from you whate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:44 AM
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they are the men that say: it's only gonna last 5 minutes, all she has to do is lay there with her legs open. they really do not care past getting their dick wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:38 AM
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I've been in the position where I was afraid of saying no. not because I knew that they would leave the same moment because in the back of my head I knew what they were after but because they create situations where you are alone with them and very vulnerable. they specifically engineer situations in which you depend on them. it might be a romantic move, you think, that they drive you in their car through a forest or to their place that is miles away in a very secluded area. you're in a relation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:35 AM
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also true! they are just... things. it matters who uses them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:21 AM
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agreed. they are tacky. but then again, I do not think it's a matter of owning these items. it's about the person that uses them. maybe the chair is really comfy and if they work from home, it doesn't do a number on their back. maybe they use the headphones when they skype with their family or friends. but the bottom line is they do not. they may not even have a job or they might be extremely unhealthy if they were to have a job. and there are way better alternatives to that horrendous chair and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:16 PM
35

This type of content so easily betrays a fundamental unawareness of the mere existence of all sorts of typically adult social spaces I tend to think that lack of awareness is one of the cases The other case may well be a lack of care as in the case of psychopaths who have power. they are very much aware of societal rules, they just do not care enough for them. The latter is even more reason to deny such men the opportunity of interacting with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:09 PM
44

He wants something specific from her under the guise of what is wrong with society at large. this. now the main reason strange randos start "conversations" with women outside of a valid contest - literally strangers in the street - is because they want to f her. that is it. she is visually appealing enough to them and that is all that matters. there is nothing telling of her personality or of her inner world or of her mind. and he definitely doesn't care if she wants to have him in her space or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:07 PM
16

if we are strangers on a bus there is absolutely no need to talk to you. if we are strangers in a queue, there's no need to talk to you. If we are strangers at the supermarket, get the hell away from me. I do not like interacting with strangers and strange men give me the heebie-jeebies. all the men that tried interacting with me did so because they had a sexual ulterior motive. I had an octogenarian approach me and try to touch my butt while I was waiting to cross the street he said I has somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 07:51 PM
6

First of all, so thinking that you're so broken and that he drained your youth. He didn't and he didn't have such power over you. Don't give him more power by paying into the broken ex mind frame. That's what he would love to see he's done to you so do not give him the satisfaction. Cut all contact and get in touch with a therapist. You need that self esteem back. Yes, you hurt because that was his intention. You wouldn't be hurting now if he wasn't set out to hurt you. Edit: autocorrect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 08:13 AM
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It is a very uncomfortable reality that we have to face. Consent is not that respected. In most of the cases consent is simply seen as implied. Most men want to get their own way and to have their desires fulfilled like they have been conditioned by media. Either through years of watching pornography or commodified sexual content on TV and computer games (ie, not labeled as pornography but it can be a commercial or a movie with softcore imagery or references to taboo practices like incest, BDSM,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 07:53 AM
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To me it looks more like she's passively aggressively complaining...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 07:25 AM
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Yeah, they are delusional narcissists. It happened to me just when I was 18. These men a are sick and dangerous. They can take their geriatric asses straight to the retirement home because when my gran was in a retirement home for her dementia she had a roommate that was involved with many of the old men in there and was very... Erm... Active. Love of her nurses made a comment that: she (the roommate) keeps them away from hitting on the nurses - which was a very common thing apparently. Of cours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 05:25 AM
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a woman will claim 50 - 50 is the way if she knows that she will never be backed up 100% by the man in her life. she knows this is the most she can hope for. so she settled for this and now needs to validate her own experience by pushing it as "the truth" on us. I know women like her. they make entire videos and podcasts in order to convince themselves they are "okay" with the decision they made. but they're not and they are too ashamed to face it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:35 PM
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when I disclosed I have my own place, I could see the wheels turning inside my ex's head. he became obsessed with my place, it almost seemed he was doing research on it. he almost always wanted to come by. the other ex, when he found out I had my own place, grew extremely contemptuous about it because he wanted me to move to his area. I said I could move and Airbnb my place but he actually was against that because it would have given me too much independence. he still lives with a roommate in a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:11 PM
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well done and keep us posted. I want to point out that what seems to me that was the incentive for him to propose is that he got his job back and the finances that go with it. I would never trust a man that's well - intentioned if his finances aren't stable. I am a financially stable person with savings & house. this alone attracts scrotes and I refuse to divulge my fin situation to them from the beginning. I did that and the next thing he wanted was to move in with me and live rent free. no thx…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:12 PM
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"so if I did this he would put my name on the deed" no, he wouldn't. :) she's a clown if she believes that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:27 AM
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my take on this is the following. he hates her makeup and thinks she shouldn't have any but that she should look "beautiful" at all times. if she were to not supervise the kids and they were to take a hammer to his PS5, then this would hit the news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:26 AM
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I honestly thought he would actually feel empathy for once but all I got was "I'm sorry you felt that way" great! a non-apology and a smug reply. a breakup and you hurt is exactly what he wished for. he got what he wanted but he wants to be the cat that plays with the mouse too. they will not have the satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:24 AM
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I know men do this in order to shittest women. I know men will intentionally behave like jerks to women and wait for their reaction. the thing is they have zero respect for the women that take it and pretend it never happened. the other thing is that when the woman that does not take shit from anyone leaves at the first case of disrespect is to these men a 'sign" to chase her more and get her back. to all scrotes out there: don't push away something you are not ready to lose. a good woman knows …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:22 AM
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exactly! he won't behave like a jerk and then playing surprised you are upset. men are so comical. I swear! their behavior is 100% conscious. example: he hit his GF because he wanted to see her in pain, not because his hand slipped. actions have consequences. he is acting and triggering the response he wants to see. it is purely intentional. this "he is not conscious about how he hurt me"/ he doesn't realize is pickme mental gymnastics bullshit. in between men, this type of shit doesn't pass mus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:18 AM
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He’s texting you asking why you blocked him because he wants a reaction out of you. He isn’t as stupid as he acts. He knows. He hurt you, and he knows. yep. this is 100% correct! he just wants t hear the million ways in which he hurt you because he's an emotional sadist and he's reinforcing his idea of toxic masculinity by hearing how you hurt. ​ your pain is his joy. your pain and you storytelling about it gives him strength and reinforces the idea that he's god on earth. grandiose narcissism, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:14 AM
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remember the post where the BF took out of her bag the microfiber towel she used for her hair? or the men that hide tampons or throw them way because they feel somehow emasculated by them? ​ it's all about control and the fact that he interprets masculinity as control over a woman. masculinity is fragile and men react very violently when their idea of masculinity is threatened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:05 AM
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now, what more proof do we need? pickmes are chronic narcissists. forever envious of their own daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:02 AM
5

I'm not sorry. I was intrigued. I learned my lesson. It only took 2 hours of my life and a conversation that was always turned to sex. The lvm told me he wanted a relationship. Well, he was lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:25 PM
5

When I was tinder "dating", since tinder was the most popular online dating app where I'm from, I had the displeasure of meeting a guy who called out date an audition... It was an audition for me. It instantly reminded me of something perverse, like a porn set. In very few words, he was telling me exactly who he was and what this was all about, I just didn't listen. O went on a date with him in broad daylight with the intention of making it back in broad daylight also. I did that - pat on the he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:26 AM
5

What about the rest? He doesn't care about the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:11 PM
51

Girl? 20 year old girl? Is it so hard to call her a young woman, unless she's enabling and mitigating his lust for jailbait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:09 PM
62

Uuuu mad scrote. What else is new☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:08 PM
74

Yep. They sheets go from zero to one hundred in terms of text rage in matter of seconds. One second you're "the love of their life" and the next you're "the vilest woman in the world"+ every name they can think of. This just proves not only that she didn't a bullet but that she has proof the man is unhinged, emotionally dysregulated and very capable of unprompted aggression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:07 PM
79

He contributes to the bills: she pays double for his unemployed ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:02 PM
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It's usually a lot of drugs, partying, casual sex, gaming to try and cover the stench of unemployment and deadbeatness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:02 PM
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oh yeah, my laptop is an extension of my mind. and having tapes of abused children in there is inviolable duh can we get the flamethrower and torch this guy? ​ so this guy is a perfect example of devil's advocate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:52 PM
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he's Ukrainian? then he might be a teenager because the men there don't have time for reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:24 AM
5

He does not want to marry HER but he needs her womb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:33 AM
4

I love flowers but I prefer my potted plants. Not gonna lie, i do have a couple of vases that can be filled with flowers. good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 05:21 PM
344

Men know they will not get any pussy of they tell women they want to f that they only want to pump and dump and do it as often as it's possible. They know. So they lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 05:45 AM
170

Okay, in translation, he had never seen Molly as a friend. Ever. Molly was a potential for as long as she did what he liked her to do. So as long as she was a spineless automatin, she would have been in his circle. Like a bro with a vagina because the bro code protects each other from naming the potential rapist and predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 05:43 AM
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This guy is 5'5. And had long hair. Can you imagine? Long greasy rocker hair, dressed all in black, the whole faux rock fashion ensemble, big platformed combat boots and he's short 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 05:24 PM
45

seems like these days if you have a death wish all you need to do is be a with a man. (these days) pffft - it's always!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:53 PM
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not only greasy but he looks short. my senses are not lying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:59 AM
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I mean, when is the last time you fought a saber tooth lion and chopped some wood, scrote? when did you last hunt a mammoth? do you even eat, scrote? pffft... after 2020, don't tell me your skills resumed to preparing for the ps5 arrival and elden ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:58 AM
13

What I grew up hearing: beauty is pain. Time to destroy another myth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:56 AM
39

Manipulator's delight if ask over his post.. "I shat on her plate and she ate it all up. Guys, me so smart"🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:21 PM
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Entering a fwb situationship with the intent to transform it into a real romantic monogamous relationship is like scratching your head in the hope that it will alleviate your backache. I know it rarely works for women. They are going in vain, like trying to transform a minivan into a racing car. It's being blind to incompatibility. But whenever I want only sex and I don't want to see their faces or even know their names or worse the name of their momma and his many siblings they have, they start…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:01 PM
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☝️👏👏👏 He'll always give the benefit of an STD and more trauma, though 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:56 PM
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Friends with benefits without the friendship. But only for the woman because the man will demand free therapy and "the GF experience". It's a loss for her- win for him. So why do it at all? 😂 friends with batteries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:52 PM
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okay so I agree that love is blind is super trash tv but hey - I learned some things through this analysis that I wouldn't have seen for myself otherwise. i binge watched all 12 episodes of this and all I can say is that without time to vet and see for yourself, no relationship created like that is going to survive. the premise is all fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 10:17 AM
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Only upon being told that Curtis' death appeared imminent did [Father] travel to Albuquerque to visit just days or hours before the child died. b-but he was stressed at work and stressed by life. don't you get it? ​ (because this is the most prevalent excuse for rapists and deadbeat men)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:45 AM
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not even the scrote's mum wanted to donate to him! the generosity shown to another often has detrimental consequences for the benefactor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:00 AM
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he was a BF and she didn't even know him that well yet SHE was the one that felt a sense of urgency to help him? his own siblings and parents did not want to donate to him but she did? ​ what the F? ​ LOOK, I know that what I am going to write is going to sound very very harsh. because I do not believe in forgiving and forgetting. you know those sayings? be the bigger person, forgive and forget, turn the other cheek? give away your kidney, I still don't regret giving away my kidney to my cheater…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:59 AM
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unfortunately, this is what my father told his divorced "friend". "get yourself a wife! this way, you will have someone to cook for you and iron your shirts! and she'll be obliged to f you as well".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:39 AM
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yeah ... but why should she give the chance to a liability of a man? see that? we women, we want assets too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:37 AM
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It's women like her that the patriarchy encourages. Because it benefits the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:21 AM
17

I'd rather pay a nanny or a nurse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:20 AM
115

Ha ha. Grace could easily demand that this clown looks like a model instead. Must be kind of hard to dump the extra large pants held on by an elastic and that red nose, though! Instead, the clown wants the wife to go back to looking like a model. So good to have eye candy on your arm when you don't even wipe your ass. I hope he continues to sleep on the couch for months and she divorces him..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:11 AM
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Most men need therapy but they refuse it because "they're not crazy" 🤡. Instead they trauma dump on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:07 AM
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I bet my money he has a beard which he trims probably once a month and wears joggers to work. All her has to do and look acceptable for society is show up at work..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:05 AM
145

He equates shaving with being beautiful. Men really fucked with women's beauty standards. I'd have him plucked like a farm chicken and place him in the highest most uncomfortable heels and then put a barely covering skirt on him and a tight bra that strangles his chest. I would also laser hair remover his facial hair so now he feels the harsh cold and the sun directly on the skin. I'll also make him drink a load of bullshit and read some magazines that tell him he's not good enough. And then I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:03 AM
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Hahaha - therapy for me as well, because I would be so harsh on myself and I would be thinking that was "accountability". To me accountability was taking the blame for everything. It was a very naive view of what it really was and it brought me to very dark places. I'm in luck that my therapist is a woman that really wants to take me to the heights before the trauma hit. She currently helps me disidentify from the trauma. It really helps putting things in perspective. Last weekend I had a sessio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:54 AM
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They think of porn as a human right but they don't think of the abuse or trafficking behind it. That makes their pp soft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:00 PM
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"my wifely duties"🤡 ☝️😂 No " sis ", but check your internalized misogyny. "Needs"🤡 Sex is not a need, sweetie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:56 PM
3

a single man in his 40s has needs 0_0 he believes his own bullcrap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:51 AM
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He also tweeted; “naw I take that back, you can be dark and mixed. I like that too.” 🙄 girl. that man's no good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:50 AM
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Mother in laws that prioritize their son in laws over their own daughter = narcissistic mother. Narcissistic mothers tend to see their daughters both as threats and as annexed to their own egos. Through direction and criticism, they try to shape their daughter into a version of themselves or their idealized self. At the same time, they project onto their daughter not only unwanted aspects of themselves, such as self-centeredness, obstinance, selfishness, and coldness but also disliked traits of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:47 AM
4

anyone who is a frequent poster on cringetopia does not deserve my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:44 AM
8

Why do women keep protecting LVM?! It’s infuriating. (And I know why, bc I was one of them once) dickmatized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:41 AM
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do they think they can't get laid because of us now? sis, the Y chromosome is self-destroying and that's science and we cannot do anything about it. I am cackling right now! "ladies" these ladies come from a place of lack and they think we are stealing their men or stealing their men's confidence? what in the pickme hell is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:36 AM
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he ended it? with whom? with you or his GF? because he definitely didn't end it with his shenanigans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:33 AM
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it's transgenerational trauma. from mother to daughter, from older women to younger women. no husband = destitute, no house, no shelter, no money, no food. if the man left them, they wouldn't have had the financial means to get back on their feet. imagine that they have been fed this shit since they were little girls. all their life was less or more male-centered so that in their 20s they were very focused on relationships with men and making male attention their number 1 focus. this makes women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:31 AM
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Honestly... Shane struck me as the men who ask for nudes and then masturbate while having a conversation about what you're wearing. Whether Shaina cake in there he almost touched himself. She was the porn material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:32 AM
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The girl unloaded her trauma too soon. It changed all optics for me. She used to be spunky petite woman and then she was just resilient rxape survivor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:27 AM
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It's like he chose her because she told him she was rxped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:26 AM
1

You think Shane is bad? I think Nick is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:23 AM
3

They always sexualize a woman simply because she is. The mommy/ madonna is also used for her free labor. The hottie will not even bother with that. Men will have no problem having both. A woman that is akin a trophy GF that makes heads turn and a woman "friend" that does all the boring mommy things, including the free therapy/ free meal/ shoulder to cry on from time to time. It's all about what he gets and women who play into this roles want to satisfy that because they suffer from secondary cha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:20 AM
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Definitely. The pornsick men are bad at sex. That's not news. They are unimaginative and unempathetic. They simply want to reproduce the porn they want. This means a lot of proteins where the woman is uncomfortably displaying everything, as if for a camera. They want the woman to moan in pleasure when they ram a finger up here butt. They've seen it in porn and thought: well, women like this so I'll do it. They'll slap their dick on your face and then ask him Pikachu voice: did you cum from that?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:11 AM
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it's the perpetual dichotomy that we face as women: de-sexualized or hyper-sexualized. assigning yourself the "mom" role means you're the polar opposite of the sex-on legs hottie. it's a form of wanting control because of men's madonna-whore complex. I know because I played the same part. but what happens next is that they will try and bang up the mommy too. that's how they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:53 PM
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yeah, I want to believe this too. fingers crossed it isn't something stolen from his GF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:46 PM
145

I'd rather buy baby vipers and supply the national herpetology society with their venom, scoop viper turd than labour for free for a bunch of sweaty adult males. chances are if one viper bites me, I'll have the cure at hand. yep, I'd choose dangerous animals over scrotes all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:32 PM
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Alpha Sig is really just preparing me for children, but you gotta love them. look, I get it. I have been there in college. It's usually the young women who tend to idealize men and fawn in response to their aggression. the "caretaker"/ 'mom" role means they don't bang you outrightly and that you're a "friend" but don't worry, they would still hit up on you and locker room talk about you when you're not there. they use you and will want to extract sex at some point as well. well, after they go th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:30 PM
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Sherry Argov's book tackles this very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 12:02 PM
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You're here now and we all grow through our decisions. It's funny how in retrospect I do not feel like I had a choice. Not at all. That I acted solely on the past trauma. Don't be hard on yourself. Your getting better. It's just patriarchy that likes blaming women for the faults and misdeeds of men. Don't internalize their guilt. Let it seep uncomfortably and float all over their heads. Single women by choice upset men the most. We're the #1 enemy, remember that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:47 AM
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It's even more hurtful when they tell you themselves. No, you don't want to be with your man 24/7 and ditch all your friends. And this isn't "it's our biology" drivel. It's codependency at its peak. It's obsession and an abnormal reaction. Women who uproot their whole lives for some man that might be gone in 3 months are clowns. Been there, had my own private circus, no thanks. It's usually a lack in themselves, a lack of understanding and self respect and confidence, something that gets trigger…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:42 AM
7

Omfg we selected the same scrote! This riled me up so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:23 AM
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My "favorite" by far was: From V*ginalRiptide: I had a single issue with one of my girlfriends. ONE flaw I didnt like. Holy sht, nowadays I probably accept 5-10 flaws as not bad. Goddmn I wish I knew how quickly the good women would get snatched up! Nobody to blame but me... I was 22 years old and she was 19. She wasn't jaded yet from bad relationships. Nothing but fun, loyalty, love, trust, appreciation, all of that. Nowadays I am involved mostly with women 25+ and goodness me, most of them jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:22 AM
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This is so beautiful. It's almost as of it was written by a woman because empathy is rare among the xy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:21 AM
9

It's easier to jizz in a cup. Heck, they even jizz in their sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 11:06 AM
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Not only organ donors but surrogates are always women.. That's another can of worms...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:49 AM
157

We do not need men. They need us. But our brains are fucked with in order to give in to their parasitic efforts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:48 AM
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It's a sign they should spread their seed across the globe. We'll see that on 2 years they're in an open relationship. He couldn't keep his own kidney, he cannot keep her. I'm very judgy. Why? Because I refuse to do stuff to Fuck up my body that much. I understand that there might be things outside your control but if you're a man and you do drugs, drink and put a lot of toxic shit in your body and do not take care of it while you are still healthy you do not deserve a kidney. You deserve dialis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:47 AM
144

No. Not your kidney!!!! We do not give away body parts for men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:43 AM
220

Yes. Men do this manipulation thing a lot. Just to wet their dicks in new vaginas. They overestimate yheir ability to get pussy after a good woman puts yp with their shit and stays 4 years as a GF. His ego was boosted to the max, he thought he was hot shit. But he was only shit. It's not FOMO or some other dumb thing. It's disrespect and taking for granted a 4 year relationship. He was too comfortable and thought that marriage and commitment would be good for her but not for him. It's actually t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:37 AM
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Do men think that all we do is in order to get them to notice us? Yes, they do Do men think that all the women walking on the street want to bang them? Absolutely. Do men think that just because you looked at them once, you're absolutely in love with them and want their babies? Yes, they do. It's called the male delusion strategy. It's to protect their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:27 AM
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Woo hoo girl! Welcome to the hoover club, baby!😂 My sick sock fucker ex who stealthed me and gave me an STD and wanted to crush my soul, and get me pregnant, tried coming back numerous times, but only when I seemed to do better. Even one year, on the day of our anniversary, this shit scrote wanted me back, sent texts to test the water. But I was already FDSing hard( I found FDS on Reddit because I was scrolling through his porn subscriptions on Reddit 😵 - so a good thing came from this) plus, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:54 AM
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This sounds so entitled. "I feel like he doesn't deserve her but I do because scrote"😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:28 PM
9

And being a reddit mod doesn't count as a job. Or a mod on twitch either. 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:36 AM
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Shorten first date to 2 hours and shorten texting time (funny stay with phone in hand ask day for this guy) and do not touch him or allow touches on first date. Hug your friends for oxytocin. I know this might sound off but masturbate before at home. It's better if you do not entertain any scenarios with the new date. This isn't Disney. We don't date with our vagina, or our heart we date with our brain so crushes are crushed. Tbh, my last relationship with a scrote only happened because I didn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:34 AM
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Some men would fake illness to get pussy. A ONS I had once and found out only later he was married was really pissed that I wasn't a cheater too so he couldn't use anything as leverage against me. So he wanted to see me, even 5 years after and he faked an illness to get my attention. I accepted to see him but kept it public. He tried all the tricks to make me come to his car - he wasn't that sick after all. No life threatening illness, just something to do with tinnitus (I mean fucking tinnitus …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:30 AM
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I was really young and stupid and fell for: "my boner hurts, I have blue balls, you're evil/ cruel of you don't take care of it, look what you do to me." 📸 His boner and his biological reactions to you are not your problem! ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:22 AM
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It's all a game to him. He's having fun at her expense and other even plotting something nefarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:28 PM
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Empowerment =/= power Empowerment = subjective Empowerment = a lie Listen to political strategy, the podcast on feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:25 PM
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Yeah Maddie, please don't get mad when you get Chlamydia from Susan or Sally. You need to explore STDs from other people through your wondering, community dick first. ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:21 PM
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I took her to the hospital as she told me. But I didn't stay, because she didn't tell me to, duh! I can't like... Be there for her all the time or at all. Aita? Guys, aita? UWU 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:11 PM
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Of course, that's a gold digger/ s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:03 PM
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Yep. They fetishize a section of our bodies and they focus on that. Feet, hands, breasts, lips. It's never a whole person. It's never the person. Just a body. Men would eat literal shit if they get to bang what is a 10/10 in their book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:02 PM
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Oh my fking goddess this is brain rot inducing 😵😵😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:07 PM
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I've read some tips on how to arrange your workspace at the office. For men: family photos in order to play the donestic hero For women: diplomas, prizes won, commendations etc in order to disassociate from her domestic slave image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:03 PM
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But he didn't get HER a beach house. He got them a beach house. And she works too. This can be the fate of all women who are working middle-upper mgmt and have to take time off work to bond with the baby if they go through a pregnancy. So you're stuck with the house and the baby and the dog and no job. And he's advancing at his job and earning more Because married men are seen as stable and having their shit together so they are promoted. But the reality is that their wives take care of shit at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:48 PM
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and funnily enough. Valentine's day is also seen as "a celebration for the ladies". why is that? but men always expect sex on it. like what the f!??!?!!?!?!? I mean, look at this reporter reminds pete davidson of V day presents for kim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:57 AM
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ha ha ha ha ha laughs in frog he's a gold digger. he'll never leave her because she has so much money and he wants a piece of that. I hope she gets the prenup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:51 AM
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She was seething with disgust at them and accused them of being users. that is jealousy. I am guessing that these women wish happiness on no one just because they got themselves a really bad deal. pickme friends be like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:44 AM
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this is honestly the best advice on how to deal with nosy people! "it's not working for me" should be enough. and besides, your life is not a telenovela to be discussed over coffee or at the dinner table with people who think they know you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:42 AM
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of course, they are not attractive. but they eroded their wives' self-esteem and fucked up their looks, their youth and their life. so those women have invested just too much to let go (which is a lie btw) and what they fight over is those years they have thrown away for him. so in their minds, he is their "prize"/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:03 AM
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you know what? you're totally right. we as women need to live in our hed with these gruesome scenarios every single day. if I were younger and more naive, I would have probably think "oh, wow, what a nice person! he even wants to help when I don't even have too large a bag to carry, and they want to take me home too". but I am not. and I have a history of this, especially coming from older men. they are predators and they disguise their evil intentions with a "good deed". you get into that car a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:59 AM
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Dread this more than reminding him to pay the bill for x y z Yeah because this will rock the boat. You reminding him to pay bill and to sweep before he mops will turn into you paying the bill and you sweeping and mopping. Why? Because he will push this mental workload on you harder when you're married because "he got you". And he will use weaponized incompetence too. There's a hint of people pleasing there. You read their reactions to your decisions. But he should dress losing you more than doin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:34 AM
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eMpoWeRinG. I am at risk of being raped, murdered on the street, left for dead and society tells me I should get down on my knees to ask him to marry me? This is 1984 but worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:20 PM
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No. Men are seen as the default in our society. 😂 My 2 cents: porn centered on women's genitals and fetishization of women's body parts are very conducive to developing autogynephillic sentiments. And of course, add to these misogyny and toxic masculinity. I'd recommend "whose body is it" podcast on YouTube but once you listen and start understanding you just become depressed. Thanks for the award, also. Happy women's day🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:46 PM
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Yesterday a middle aged scrote wanted to help me carry my shopping bags and offered me a ride home. It was so creepy that the cashier had to tell him to back off. I said I don't need any help and he wouldn't take a hint. Instead, he began taking things out of my shopping cart and putting them on the counter. He wore a ring ffs. He exited the shop after me and began shouting and harassing me. I continued to look behind my back because he drove very slowly behind me. So imagine being that scrote's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:37 PM
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Not to mention that we are being erased by men and they're pickmes. We will soon not even be allowed to say we're women or that we love being women, that we're mothers or that we have breasts with which we breastfeed. Oh no... We have to say we "chest feed". Men really are so, so, so easily offended, they now claim they're better at being women than women are. links between female erasure, prostitution, surrogacy, porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:46 PM
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he thinks that's a compliment because he hates and despises women so much they cannot think women can hold a conversation or be interesting or have knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:21 AM
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it surprises me that in the male delusion calculator their "ideal woman" should earn > 65k/ year. why is that? why don't they aspire to someone that earns 15k/ year that could satisfy their delusion of masculinity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:18 AM
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"no one wants you bitch" ​ because to them young = dumb = easily manipulated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:35 AM
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this needs a fast intervention. from what I understand she is being prostituted by her "husband" to his male friends and coworkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:31 AM
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Glad you're not. I ended a friendship when she asked me to sleep with her boyfriend. Proves that he saw my social media and didn't even propose her a threesome at first like most jerks do to have an excuse for "experimentation". He straight-up told her to introduce him to me. And she was ok with this because as she told me, she knew I wouldn't want to steal him from her because "I had bigger fish to fry than involve myself in something like stealing boyfriends". She cut all contact with me when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:37 PM
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You're too much for them. Then the reverse happens. They start getting mad at you for making them feel inferior just by existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:12 PM
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They are not incompetent. Women are more selective in choosing a partner than men are. If he proved himself to be an incompetent jerk from the very beginning, she wouldn't have been with him or married him. He chooses to behave like this, to weaponize his incompetence because it's an outlet for his aggression towards her. Imagine how this man rages inside at this woman. It's pure hatred. He can't do away with her because he still wants sex and the companionship society tells him he should seek. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:02 PM
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I used to think I was enLigHtenEd for agreeing to FWB and I don't even know why. you will laugh at this, then. "only evolved beings can have open relationships duuuh"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:54 AM
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In fuckzone you only hookup and that's it. You both do the deed, get dressed and never speak to each other until the next hookup. It's not as abusive. ​ this is very hard for men to do. very very hard. and it is easier for women who like to have clearly defined boundaries. it's like a sex schedule and I honestly understand not wanting to know anything about their lives because I do not care. but you see... men want you to care even when they don't. that's the catch. I tried this and it failed. n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:44 AM
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being a fat woman is seen as a crime in the eyes of men. it's almost as if they take this one personal. before FDS, I have seen and been subjected on their remarks on weight endlessly. there is nothing worse, according to men, that you can be in the world than a fat woman. is it because far women take more space? there are fat men all around, but I see no one is criticizing them. in movies and tv shows they are even paired with a thin-stick woman who "loves them unconditionally" because she's no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:34 AM
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the only dumping they like is the one done on their terms. you know why. and if they reached that point, dumped you, they will hoover (return to check if you're still available to give them supply) because they have many narcissistic traits. all the exes that behaved badly, made you suffer and never apologized and left you in shambles don't reach out to tell you how sorry they were. they reach out to get an ego-boost. they know they hurt you and they fell superior to you because of it. I know me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:12 AM
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I learned the hard way because I thought I had to tell him what went wrong. big mistake. if he does something bad he doesn't need you to remind him of it, because he knows what he did. explaining myself and my decisions = waste of time. also, a man would never extend the same level of patience, understanding and empathy to a woman. this is why he perceived all my attempts at 'communicating" as weakness. men do not care to learn what they did wrong. manipulative men us that in order to override y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:07 AM
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She's angry about her husband rightfully being called a rapist and is still defending him so fuck her too, honestly. This is why these women need to be held accountable too. Most of them are used by men like attack dogs. They're loyal and want their "happy marriage fantasy" at any cost. They must probably know about any infidelity but instead of putting him on the spot, they turn on the other woman. There's something super wrong with a woman like this. I couldn't be friends with someone like thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:44 AM
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Yeah but if you're gaslighted since infancy that you're nothing if you don't have a man, and you don't have a sound psychological support system, you become her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:36 AM
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Imagine how gaslighted she is if she has to ask a bunch of strangers on the internet"is this normal?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:32 AM
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It's never easy leaving an abusive relationship and I wish you'd keep us posted. Good luck🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:52 PM
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I have a former work colleague that was not given custody despite being the main carer of her daughter because she worked long hours in a highly competitive domain. her ex-husband is a Phys Ed teacher at a girls' high school (imagine!) and the judge sided with him. as you can imagine, it was an ego thing. he wanted to take her daughter away because he wanted to take something away from her. she "let him" have their daughter, and he immediately remarried and formed a second family (with his mistr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:53 PM
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can we also add: not extending the first date past 2 hours or a similarly reasonable amount of time? also, we need to LISTEN to their body language and tone of voice as well. men future fake a lot with no remorse just to have sex. they will say all sorts f things. the first date exists to receive more material to vet. the following dates exist to connect the dots. shorten the time, do not allow touches and get a dildo if you're horny and you think that's going to make you think less clearly. it'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:18 PM
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also men: have some standards (but not too many)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:03 PM
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divorced is best case scenario. forever girlfriend comes to mind. broke and depressed comes second. sick and abandoned is third.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 10:43 PM
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seems like evolution hasn't touched this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 07:25 PM
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my favorite is "protection". from what? sexist bears? rabid dogs? rapist bunnies? murderous cephalopodes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 07:24 PM
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okay... so I got this movie and the very beginning describes perfectly what women go through on the dating scene. I'm only 30 minutes in and I already spotted these red flags: ​ comes onto her like a creep and asks for her number while playing the 3 days waiting game from that it goes straight to a date, resulting in her not even having the necessary tools to vet him (he could very well be a serial killer) goes on a drink date with him, ingests alcohol goes to her place, ends up having sex with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 07:34 AM
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I'm replying here because I've been harassed by scrotes that bothered to reply to me in other subs and "kindly" let me know they have detected this meme being discussed here. I'm starting to guess that a good 30% of the lurkers in here are mad scrotes that are dying to spew some ignorant shit but are quickly shooed by our mods. They even receive alerts on new posts on FDS. I mean... How sad is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 05:51 AM
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I bought that book and I'm gonna read it mwahahahaga
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 05:43 AM
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has the same woman hating look in his eyes that my ex did. honestly, men ruined men so much I don't know I can be heterosexual again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:16 PM
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we all know "women"... ahem. cough cough. they need so bad to be among women....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:15 PM
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that sub is riddled with men pretending to be women, larpers and morally bankrupt libfems. unless you subscribe to the female erasure agenda, you don't need to be there. good riddance to them imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:14 PM
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he IS the perpetrator in that case or an accomplice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:12 PM
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the voice inside my toilet bowl screeches "n-not all meeeen!". it whines for a bit and then I flush. the LVM turd is gone! bye bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:11 PM
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men just want to impregnate. most of them do not even love children. they just love the control and change it exerts and manifests in a woman's body. it's abuse via fetus. men have no fatherhood instincts. recently, they want to twist this in the hope that it will humanize men and detach their image from all the wars, rapes and crimes they have committed. but no, men do not have a fathering instinct. they just have the need to reproduce and protect their property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:09 PM
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most men do not have any capacity to love. appealing to their empathy or their sense of duty is useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:06 PM
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Their entire relationship has been “transactional” the "modern" man has transactionalised everything and commodified everything. they have no respect for the order of nature, for what is sacred or for nature itself. they hate and detest women since women are a constant reminder of their substandard existence fuelled only by delusions like games, porn and fast sex. intimacy is lost, respect is nonexistent, relationships are a trap, a trap for women into emotional, sexual and economic slavery and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:05 PM
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I'd rather be a single mom, adopt a kid than ruin my life with a xy petty, delusional scrote. women these days work, go through a lot of sexist shit, through female erasure, then they deal with a grunting scrote jizzing in two minuted inside them without foreplay and then they go through childbirth only to realize they have been fucked over 10 x by society. ​ thanks for posting. "I am turned off by this because she is asking me to pay to have our child/ children" this one's PP got soft and his b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:01 PM
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men who rage in front of a screen with a console in their sweaty hands... how brave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:44 PM
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You're only here for me, and I'm only here for me too!" - LVM never foget!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:36 PM
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well said. "losing control"is a myth that men perpetuate so they can "abuse in peace". Myth #14: Domestic abuse is a ‘crime of passion’, a momentary loss of control. Reality: Domestic abuse is rarely about losing control, but taking control. Abusive men rarely act spontaneously when angry. They consciously choose when to abuse their partner: when they are alone, and when there are no witnesses (if there is a witness, then usually they are a child). He has control over whom he abuses. To find out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:06 PM
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and then they go on defend the abuser mode with theories pulled out of their asses about how "she must have done something to set him off like that". no action deserves abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:02 PM
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Bad behavior of one man benefits all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:16 PM
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Look at all those bad men but I am not one of them so have sex with me ASAP. This is how whiny this sounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:49 PM
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I'm not criticizing OP, just the brainwashing that the media pushes forth to manipulate our empathy. Words like "loving father" have no place in the same sentence as "family murderer". You cannot be both. It's absurd. The media manipulates so well that people start thinking"what did the family do to deserve the capital punishment?". Wasn't he a loyal husband and a loving father and a good neighbor ? It creates cognitive dissonance and it manipulates people into creating opposing teams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:52 PM
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It's pure projection. I also would go as far as to say it's not just insecurity but a toxic cocktail of entitlement, misogyny and thinking of women and girls as last of the "masculine domain". The kind of man that thinks he is owed your body and attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:22 AM
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It is like Highlander 😂 And they spread this propaganda that women without a man (to take care of) are bitter 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:09 AM
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Getting your ex to move out boils down to several things. Whose name is on the lease? For his long is the lease? Who pays the rent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:07 AM
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You wanna know why men see single mind as damaged goods? Because they see sex with a woman as deneaning, damaging, exploitative of her and they make it so as well, they think have taken / stolen something from her and this gives them pleasure. So when men see sex as an exploitation, then of course, the woman is the one who "has less" in their eyes. Must men start losing"respect" for women after they have sex with them because they see sex as a form of exerting power. This is no different from ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:19 AM
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Exactly. They are not "insane". They name desire for control, entitlement and the idea of having a "masculine domain" (which consists of complete power over wife& kids), of owning it and dominating it. They also refer to familicide as a gendered, premeditated action. So it's not like "he lost control" that is a lie because they never lose control.. A loss of control over “masculine” domains is at the heart of familicides, even where there is no clear history of domestic abuse. Some perpetrators …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:14 AM
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loving husbands and fathers PSA: they were not, are not and will never be loving. This is a lie perpetuated by media, patriarchy's lapdog. They are cold, calculated, controlling and cruel criminals. Not loving fathers who "happened" to annihilate an entire family. They were cruel long before they began murdering. They were problematic long before. Why are men given these portrays of "he used to be a sweet loving father and husband, he always paid his taxes and said hi to the neighbors"🤡🤡🤡🤡 No, y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:05 AM
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Gee, I wanna play point and shoot at your ex. Glad you're rid of him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:51 AM
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Women consume porn to learn and accept how to be dehumanized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:36 AM
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Murder is control. Unstable men are everywhere so I don't think they're a small percentage or dinner black swan. Also men are less willing to take care of their mental health and instead embrace have these copes that negatively affect others. Men try to exert control over women first by reproductive coercion.. Sex itself is a form of control because the woman is the passive party, the one being penetrated. How would a man react if I were to tell him: "babe, from now on I will only peg you and th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:36 AM
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This is correct. Men who like anal hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:29 AM
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You are loved. Stop equating love with men. Society brainwashed us from infancy to think that we need a man and that we are incomplete without a man It's time to take that power back Sending love to you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:08 AM
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I got it! My ex and the pay gap. He really blew through that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:32 AM
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Ewwwww. Not even gonna watch it. A middle aged man who is more prone to frequenting prostitutes lying that prostitution is empowering? Where's his daughter? 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:29 AM
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He's watchimg porn and is worried about his deposit? 🤡 men are money hungry and petty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:24 AM
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Really? Did he now? Mr doctor is petty? Why didn't this come as a surprise? She had charisma and I feel that he might see her as competition. I think he hates her. Most men feel emasculated by women having even a small amount of success. Their small boy ego cannot take it. I've been someone that had to endure hours of complaints that my x felt emasculated because I decided our vacation destination - he did but contribute and told me we go "wherever I wanted". And of course, he didn't even make a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:22 AM
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another shit study was made in 2016-2017 on how men deal when their partner has endometriosis. "how endometriosis affects men's sexual life." aka how a woman suffering of endometriosis inconveniences a penis-haver. fucking clowns meanwhile, there was no study on how endometriosis affects women. the sufferers of endometriosis can only be women. endo is still very hard to diagnose because male doctors usually brush off women and do not take female pain seriously. it takes around 10 years to diagno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 10:36 AM
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with her shorts, obv, because she doesn't speak any English.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:29 AM
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The disgusting fucks saying they could host refugees that are men, are only after one thing: access to sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:38 AM
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It's because men really think we're stupid. They make demands and we respect them. They set boundaries and we respect that. But wait for a woman to make demands.... Men will try to get what they want. My ex was the same. We reached a point when we would see each other 1 day/ week only at my place. No weekends. That is not sustainable. He said it was because of his job. Only a full would have believed that. Of course it wasn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:36 AM
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No. Don't ever feel bad for his wife n kids. They don't deserve to live in ignorance. He, on the other hand, deserves to lose everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:33 AM
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"eXoTiC JaMs"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:54 PM
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gives me horrible ocd like Leonardo DiCaprio's character in Aviator, who pees into milk bottles and stores them. and on top of that, this whole thing reminded me of the snail guy. the one that would blend snails and feed his GF. why is he storing his shit? maybe he puts it in her food? also, there is the huge age gap she's 24, he's 42...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:53 PM
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Dating men who are grieving ​ =not a good idea. it's almost as bad as dating someone right after their breakup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 03:00 PM
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woman: saves money ​ scrote: financial abuse! ​ this made me chortle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:58 PM
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this whole thing reminded me of when my ex drove past a reservation that I wanted to visit on our vacation. I remember planning for it. We went horse riding. He seemed to hate it. Made some lewd comments on women and horses. I was still shaken that the previous night, in the restaurant, he began attacking me and berating me and putting words in my mouth. In a fucking restaurant. Like... who TF does that? Abusive men do! And I remember I innocently asked him: how long do you think we have? It sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:54 PM
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exactly. she was 100% alone. the flowers and the "caring" were done by him as a gift to himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:40 PM
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I am so sorry you experienced this. You deserve so much more. It's because of your story that I need to point out some things that may help others. no V day gifts or B-day gifts he has stopped investing in you a long time ago. It was 100% a preemptive move. He knew what he was doing and there wasn't even a breadcrumbing. this can help confirm a lot of things for other women on here as well. it's bad behavior followed by cowardly behavior followed by cold behavior. He showed up on the night of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:39 PM
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I think it's because many women play stupid for so long just to be near them. how many of us haven't heard from our friends' advice like " you should dumb yourself down a bit. do you want to be right or happy?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:45 PM
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It's always filled by "and please don't change your attitude towards us, the good men" (aka please don't clamp your pussy shut and open your legs).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:39 PM
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Same for French & Romanian. It becomes "Ils" or "Ei".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:38 PM
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"women" sure 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:36 PM
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Exactly. After tinder & old will get more and more exposed because women will come forward (how many women have been date raped after meeting some jerk who played them?) I am convinced women will begin boycotting it. The bottom line is tinder & old in general are sparring grounds for women with very tough shells. You're sweet and good and idealistic and give the benefit of the doubt? You'll suffer. The woman that survives OLD can survive anything. The only advice is to never commit and always ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:34 PM
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I've just arrived at a mall and I'm eating Chinese food and as I was sidestepping a couple and he was yelling at her for buying herself a coffee. A fucking coffe from a nearby place. The kind that is served in a paper cup. And she was defensive and I caught her saying: that's one of my small pleasures and I paid for it myself. I feel like I wanna douse that guy in soy sauce. LE: to stay on topic. Coffee dates suck, okay? How much coffee can you drink in a day ffs? And I agree with OP.. Confirm a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:20 PM
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#persecution fetish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:32 AM
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And let's be serious here, men are starting to invade women's prisons too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:03 AM
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yes, it isn't. that's reddit for you, unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:56 PM
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as a woman you cannot be an involuntary celibate. het men will always want pussy. they may not want the woman but pussy is gold. all it takes for a woman to be hit on is exist. there's always someone. but men? they really let themselves go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:48 AM
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love&dating columnists always churn articles like" why you should duty date" but at the same time they write stuff like " why you should like being single". it's so contradictory!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:46 AM
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he is balding and has a rat face. sweet. also, I am reading this on bolde since it's not available in my country. link here ​ I am dying from the cringe: “Brad goes to the gym because it makes him feel good about himself knowing he is in shape and living a healthy lifestyle. He also tells me all the time that he does it for me because he wants other women to feel jealous of what I have,” Jennifer explained. “He is a real alpha male but behind closed doors this relationship lets him put his guard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:37 AM
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she's amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:12 AM
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I think it works like this: you block them, you do not see them. they can still see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:09 AM
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same here and I am glad to expose the anti women faux feminist subs too. I mean, they always tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:08 AM
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you move away after this or he moves out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:07 AM
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seems to me like he needs the placeholder element. is the cabin his? or does he rent the same cabin to go to with every women he has relations with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 10:55 AM
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FDS - making men better since 2019
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:25 AM
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Edited because I was confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:56 AM
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The Simon scrote didn't target rich ladies. He targeted middle class borderline upper/ new money. They were hard working women whom he manipulated ruthlessly. I've given in and watched some manosphere vids on this. The scrotes claim they were women that hit the wall and their bio clock was ticking. So this is why he took money from them to party with 20 yo. But no 20 yo rich girl would have given him the time of day or used Tinder. He was specifically targeting women that weren't quite there fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:49 AM
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Good for you! It would have been downhill from there. Money is not the issue anymore. We work too. And even though there is a pay gap - which is proven annually by statistics, us women have escaped the Victorian era / 50s mentality. In the Victorian era, unless you were marrying some man, you would have been just fodder for the asylum - if I recall correctly, becoming a financial burden for the family (aka whamem hysterical/mad) could have been reason to be committed by a brother or an uncle or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:41 AM
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He committed bank check fraud with those fake checks he sent to the women but other than that... They cannot hold him accountable because the women were the ones borrowing money for him. He got a very good cover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:06 AM
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Women are judged harsher and held to a higher moral standard than men and their MO differs. See a woman shooting an abusive partner in self defense and getting life vs a man who strangles his wife or punches her and goes for manslaughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:03 AM
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And men who speak emoji and who sends you too their IG and the always kinky types who overuse these emoji 🔝⛓️🔗⏏️⏯️▶️ (as in porn) or are self proclaimed "doms".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:59 AM
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I swear that I've met several people who claimed they loved the office, how I met your mother and the big bang theory. They were also the most sexist, woke bros on there. Oh and I swear that if they mention Rick and Morty one more time, Bojack horseman, family guy and south Park.... So done! And cinema-wise, the only movies that exist are the Batman movies, the Joker is their favorite character, and they always identified with Iron Man and need some Pepper Potts (some pepper spray, more likely).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:48 AM
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Male privilege. Thre manosphere just crowned him their hero, this homeless 🤴 because they claim women have always been gold digging their simps and "it's only fair" the reverse happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:46 AM
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There's the cheating, std riddled manchild that will make you pay for his enchilada and who cannot hold a job because he's an activist of unemployment and then there's Simon who will ask you on your second date to wire him $10,000 after triangulating you with his baby moma on a private jet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:43 AM
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Please add the:about me:......... and about you:....... section guy Me: dadbod, gamer, good vibes only, in between jobs About you: (all oddly specific) under 5'5, 100lbs, D-cup, platinum blonde, natural makeup, no surgery, no hair except on head, no kids, !!!no single moms!!!, Works a profession approved by me only: nursing, doctor, lawyer, is feminine at all times, no feminists!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:40 AM
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I so agree with this. Any woman on here is bound to have met some guy like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 12:08 AM
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My main reason of leaving dating apps is because of the anxiety coupled with an adrenaline and dopamine surge it gives. I personally, become more impulsive and less careful. It's bad for me so I will never use it again. I stop eating, I stop seeing my friends, I become overinvolved and erratic because the app is apparently rewarding. 100 matches/ day and you start to think you can do anything you want with these people. It's dehumanizing. It's apparently "unlimited" access to other people's live…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:50 AM
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Bad. The long version: very very bad. My ex had a grandma that was a second wife. The first one died. The second wanted a divorce. She would leave for extended periods of time and "go away" / "get away" from a drunkard of a husband. My ex didn't have to mention that his grand papi was physically abusive towards her. I drew that conclusion. She divorced. My ex said he was very resentful of her because she broke the family and she continued to do her disappearing act until very old. And she didn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:12 AM
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His Tinder is activated 100 miles +
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:31 AM
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Amsterdam only from the Neths, Thailand & Philippines, postcommunist countries known for "exporting" "legal teens" to German brothels. Sex tourism in disguise: yeah, that have such an interesting culture (knows nothing about it) 🐊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:31 AM
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That's why I would replace the knives with dildos. For lulz. I mean, Barack's pretty HVM. But all LVM out there compare themselves with him. They be having these fantasies but they're still unemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:22 AM
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I am sorry but if I had photoshop skills I would have added dildos instead of knives in the Michelle-Barak photo. it's funny to me that these LVMs compare themselves with Barack. ffs... they can't even reach his ankle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:24 AM
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he begrudgingly paid for 2 dollar tea but I swear he entertained thoughts of having her repay him with sex. I mean... a prostitute would have given him a black eye if he pulled that stunt. scrote's so cheap, she's actually losing money by even being around him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:31 PM
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and men tell on themselves when they say that nothing is less attractive than a "girl who chases". we need to learn to be less impressionable. at least on the outside. I personally have a tough time but I managed to have a resting placid face and look like I am patiently listening while on the inside is a tornado. I still have the internal squeals of a pickme, a giddy, easily impressionable self. It can happen to many women with rough childhoods who grew up learning they were not good enough, wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:25 PM
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men weed women out with this technique. your empathy is being used against you. they have an eye for identifying women who will stick around after they drop the "poor me" sob stories. it's time to yawn and go for a walk by yourself when they start. trust me. I have been the shoulder to cry on for an ex. men don't like to be reminded of their tougher times/ poor me situations. this is why they ditch barb the builders. I say it's a technique predatory men use in order to play on women's kindness. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:08 PM
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that to me is the definition of a woman who started at the bottom and only worked her way down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:41 PM
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those are "gold diggers" didn't you know? also FYI, the T swindler speaks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:55 PM
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okurrrr... let's debunk this shit. so... if he treats you bad it's because you don't treat him like he didn't treat you bad? hoping that someday he will catch on? that's the perfect response to a passive aggressive move, right? he's only treating you bad because you don't treat him like a kang? so if you treat him like a kang, then he will respect you? why TF is he treating you badly in the first place? this shit doesn't make any sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:36 PM
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how about we dont find excuses for them. he wrote this while sober. he will claim he was high because he cannot take the heat. reminds me of those " I was drunk" messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:08 PM
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if you're lucky you will make 70k+ in 5 years (by working 2 jobs at macD to support me) this means around 12k - 15k / year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:07 PM
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you're pepper potts and i'm tony stark here, I made a meme https://imgflip.com/i/65xsuo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:05 PM
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all women are simply gambling with a dating app. but after 30 is russian roulette. not because of some wall but because most men on dating apps think there is some wall but only for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:02 PM
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men have told me how they feel about old: it's like window shopping. they see women as nothing but meat. the "connection" is superficial: he either likes her looks or doesn't. most men don't even read the bio. most men immediately ask to change the platform or the app. most men get sexual with innuendos and dick pics the very same day. they think that there's a sort of "understanding" that the app is solely for sex. some men laughed at me when I told them I was looking for a deeper connection. i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:47 PM
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It's important to remember that misogyny is taught to men when they observe the behaviours and lives of other men, not when they observe women. I imagine a boy watching his father.his father, his hero. the father treats the mother badly but the mother doesn't leave. the boy slowly learns to despise the mother and will try in some ways to undermine her authority. most men have perfected misogyny while still living in the parental home. they may not verbally abuse their mothers but they will treat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:41 PM
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1 studio 2 people = zero intimacy. I would go crazy if I were to be locked in 1 room with one person. I would literally lock myself in the bathroom. I like my space. I cannot think of someone being in my face 24/7, especially with covid quarantines and so on. it's simply hazardous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:04 PM
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another hobosexual used the age difference and played all his cards to get bed and breakfast. this poor girl is barely an adult, never lived even with a friend and has no life experience and he's 30, homeless, jobless. he really is living the life. ​ LE: oh, he works, apparently? then he's just using her to save up money. she's another starterpack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:02 PM
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how did I miss this post? there is no comparison and why would a woman lie she's on BC? are women now obliged to be on BC? ffs, BC messed up with my body in ways I don't care to explain. No glove, no love, scrotes. my ex did try to baby trap me (I guess) and stealthed a couple of times. I was very very paranoid whenever he pushed for sex (notice the choice of words please). besides the fact that he would talk non stop about babies and crotch goblins knowing very well I did not want any, besides …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:57 PM
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this is a disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:44 PM
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For 2 years I've been off. These apps really mess with your mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:54 PM
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very good article by Nancy Jo Sales: No, dating apps didn’t invent misogyny or womanizers. But they did give straight men – unvetted men – unfettered access to women. They gave them a new sense of boldness through a seemingly endless set of options. They gave them the ability to decide with the flick of a finger whether a woman was “hot or not” enough for them to date or have sex with. They gave them the ability to create false identities who can’t be held accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:23 PM
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exactly. why do these women call sex dating. sex=/=dating they don't be spending their macD coupons on her ass. she's left to deal with the crusty pots and cockroach infested bedrooms, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:38 AM
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I think she's cooked. or coked. but she's definitely a cool girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:36 AM
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sing-a-scrote: she cooks she cleans she works and brings home money she even squats down on my peen I need my bangmaid mommy! - 1 minute guitar riff to make up for PIED- affected performance -
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:31 AM
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this whole artificial womb thing is pure dystopia material. the tech bro complain there are not enough humans? what for? to accept to do low-paid labour? to become workers in their tesla works? women need to be gatekeepers of the womb and eggs. they really want to create hundreds of compliant workers for the tesla works. they will probably alter their brain in the synthetic womb too - a good example is Aldous Huxley's brave new world. and besides..... who will provide the eggs? will they mandate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:57 AM
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and then he said he's attracted to her but that he wants to see other women to get his dick wet in various ways. he didn't feel any pressure, like she tries to reframe it, especially not to commit. she should have let him pay half for the abortion then ditched him to the curb. even better, she should have told him to pay for all of it and say she'll pay the other half back but never do so. talk about self gaslighting. "I make more than he does". women need to stop sleeping with broke men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:52 AM
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this! let's not pretend that the investment a man makes is minimal. it's not his body that undergoes pregnancy. he can always say that she "tricked" him to trap him. but she cannot say the same. the only thing she needs to do is abort and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:47 AM
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didn't he know the condom broke? didn't he feel the fear in his bones? that's right. he didn't because it's not him that should pay for an abortion and take time off work to heal after that! men have it on easy mode. ​ and it's not 4 days and a pregnancy. this pickme is in delusion. it's 4 times he pumped and dumped and a pregnancy. let's not pretend this scrote took her to dinner and a movie first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:44 AM
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Lack of money is never an excuse - there are so many cheap weekend adventures you can take with someone. =_= this! it's all about organizing and getting good deals which implies a level of investment not many men are willing to display. there are cheap flights to really cool destinations. 10 euro to fly to Florence stay a weekend in a hotel with 50 euro/ night + included breakfast, have lunch while sightseeing and dinner at a nice restaurant and then go back on Monday. It's not about money in mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:40 AM
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scrotes be like: if she passes the 10000...000000 + infinity litmus tests, then maybe... you see forever GFs with 8 kids in tow and 2 mortgages still waiting to be taken on a proper date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:32 AM
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"he was the perfect gentleman. then he switched up." sounds like he developed immunity to the Mr Jekyll pills already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:31 AM
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look what you made me do to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:26 AM
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never talk to a man that capitalizes each word. some chef's kiss replies to this would be: - you got your priorities wrong, you don't need a GF, you need a therapist or a lawyer -I don't date single dads - I don't date dads -you're testerical, get checked -block & delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:14 AM
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it's never about you, it's all about him. so never worry that you are too smart, too beautiful, too successful. or that you are not smart enough, not beautiful enough not successful enough. here, I made this: https://imgflip.com/i/65tbhr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:11 AM
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the worst thing was that my friend matched this asshole and he's played her before. he's burnt her real bad. that very day he told her he was very busy at work. so I matched him and told my friend who agreed it was an opportunity to get to know some of his motives. he immediately brought up dinner and gallery night. he seemed desperate to secure me that day. meanwhile, my friend would text him and ask when would he be free to see her - again, he told her he was very, very busy, many deadlines, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:01 AM
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Ha ha ha 🤡 I can confess that in the past I was like that and I would interest first only to be extremely disappointed and heartbroken later. It's such s bad strategy. It's not even a strategy. It's pure libfem pickme rhetoric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:50 AM
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Or frigid spinsters when we won't have sex right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:48 AM
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I've been through something similar only he was giving me ultimatums to meet him that very day. He said he had these tickets to a gallery and wanted me there with him. He instantly wanted the phone number and me off the app. For a few good hours I tried extracting some info on why would he hurry like that. I said I wouldn't, not unless I got to know him better. He would reply that to know him better I should talk to him face to face. Aggressive and demanding. I concluded with: no thanks, I like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:47 AM
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Her response was perfect. What is up with men always demanding that the woman changes the app and immediately gives them the phone number? Oh, so if he prices he's a creep in conversation she can't report it to the dating app? Gotcha! The dating app is good hunting ground. The other app or the text messages are the shitting ground. Men want to keep them separately because they know they are shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:43 AM
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📣All men profit of other men's bad behavior👏👏 The first 2 were horrible and erroded her self esteem and her patience and get hope so she forgot to vet properly and turned a bit desperate with the 3rd. Well, color me surprised! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:39 AM
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Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected? Not necessarily smarter but when a man is misogynistic, he will always hate women. He hates his mother, his sister, his co-workers, his friends, his girlfriend, his wife and any other woman. He's always lived surrounded by misogyny and he's seen it thriving in his father and brothers and friends and he automatically sees women as second class citizens that stole from men "eq…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:37 AM
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Long gone are the days when men would get porn by leaving their house, making the effort to disguise themselves and avoid eye contact while searching for the latest dirty magazine in the back of a seedy Sin Bin store. They knew, even back then that looking at and for dirty magazines and strippers and porn videos were considered fringe activities, frowned upon by society. They would look behind themselves twice while procuring someone for paid sex. They would suspiciously guard their wallet and l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:28 AM
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IDK if this works for OF except for trafficked persons who are exploited and for who these accounts are created by pimps. the sw prostitute will be probably obliged to pay the pimp - if you read articles on Paradise brothel in Germany, the prostitutes were beaten if they did not reach the target of 500 eur/ day. also they were paid salaries but they had to bring in immense profits. imagine being given a target to have sex with at least 10 men/ day and then asked to pay for the entrance fee and v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:49 PM
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it would honestly be foolish of her to think that he will treat her better than this. after taking so much shit, does she think there will be honey? men like to blame women with this." you knew he was like that, why are you expecting otherwise? next time choose a better man!" the woman is damned if she does, damned if she doesn't at this point. if she leaves because he took her to McD's, then she's labelled as a "gold digger". If she endures and grits her teeth - there is no guarantee that he wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:06 PM
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b-but h-how can you tell if the woman's real uwu?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:21 AM
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"surprisingly, she didn't slap me and break up with me. now I know she is a real one" we need to tear this shit down with logic, ladies. yeah, she's really traumatized by it alright. or really afraid to leave. or really brainwashed. anyone notice the obvious age difference? or maybe they're the same age but he looks worse for the wear, like his style is stuck in the early 2000s, his face places him in late 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:18 AM
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I think that men who pay for sex then turn around and try to get their money back are the worst kind of people. People who choose to give them their money back are enablers. I've read so many accounts from prostitutes who claimed they have been raped by the Johns and robbed as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:07 AM
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they hate they paid to nut. on one hand you have these guys moaning that sex work is empowering and it's a "health service" men need, on the other hand, the same men moan that these women scam them and play on their lustfulness. ​ decide, already! which one is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:05 AM
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so they may not even get paid? but the Johns get access to their content after all. I need to understand how this works. it's like they are scamming themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:02 AM
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Flash news: there are other activities besides sex, scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:17 PM
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you have the doctor that cheats on his pregnant wife,then the self-appointed influencer and then the low-range "I'm a part-time bar tender/ dog walker yo!" and many many unemployed, in-between jobs men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:51 PM
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This can be so dangerous. I've had men try to steal or appropriate those passions and then I've had men who just loved identifying my passions only to keep me away from them, "break me in" how they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:50 AM
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It's a pretty good book and exemplifies on how men are usually jerks to women and how women are ready to forgive and forget because from the start they didn't have good boundaries with them. Treat every man like a potential hazard until he proves he's trustworthy. Very good advice but IDK of the book is that easy to find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:47 AM
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It was a power-control thing. Apparently I was too independent for a woman. He began saying these weird things: "oh, you'll change allright, just wait and see when you have a baby"."I'll change" meaning he will change me somehow, break me in. The big attraction was my independence and he wanted to quell that. There are men out there that go for specific types of women with the pure desire to break them or change them into something else. I displayed no interest in babies and he took me to a park…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:43 AM
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Yelling to a LVM = woman not agreeing with him or asking for her needs to be met. They label boundaries as abuse. I would tell my ex that I didn't like x and y behavior and he interpreted it as me being mean towards him. Boundaries = abuse to LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:34 AM
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As if that would make a woman feel special? Smart exes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:27 AM
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1."make her a single mom' Exploit her That's about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:26 AM
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This all the way! How else could I explain the stealthing I experienced with my last ex? He tried to entrap me with a lot of things, starting from the basic: I left my clothes at your place 🤡. The fact that he tried on multiple occasions to gauge how I'd react to having a kid was too him just fodder for his dark fantasies. When I told him that there's no space in my life for a child, he began calling me selfish. Like... Dude, we've been together for 2 months and you're talking children and tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:20 AM
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Yes, it's all power and control games. Sex becomes something they extract from you whenever, like a price you have to pay just so they stay in "mr nice guy mode".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:10 AM
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So the price for child visits is blow jobs and pussy? Seems to me that they entrap a woman with a child only to sexually exploit her afterwards. "No, Mary. If you don't give me that pussy now, the way I want it, I'm going to bail on our children's school dances this year." So pussy is the price women have to pay to just... What? Have the children think they have a father? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:06 AM
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Well duh! They can dish it but you can't. Years of thinking of women's bodies as public property does that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:01 AM
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The last one hurt my brain. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:58 AM
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha The circus is on! This is so embarassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:46 PM
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Wooo hooo trashfest of the week 🤡💔🤡💔 He didn't "sacrifice" anything. Men throw away whole families for stranger pussy because this over didn't know him like his GF does. They like to appear heroic and shit to feel good about themselves and they shit on the woman that stays because they know do down they don't deserve her time and her love. This woman just used him. I love how she used him. It's too bad she thinks that she's friends with his GF, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:41 PM
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This is actually.... Correct. 🎩👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:39 PM
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Imagine if she gifted him a rusty cock cage and threw the key in Mordor. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:38 PM
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🤡 I checked. It's her that twitted him in a bikini, though https://pbs.twimg.com/media/D0hQpL-WoAAtUwM.jpg What the fuckity 🦆? The whole family is weird. "Look dad, more bait for your incel fans"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:35 PM
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he's oscillating between threats to expose her and her family and "I love you". this is deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:04 AM
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exactly. they see a cry for help and tears as a manifestation of "hysterics', imbalance, "women being emotional", overreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:44 AM
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men bringing up work as if we women don't do it too is so transparent! they even say it as if we're the ones profiting off it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:42 AM
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not a sex toy, unfortunately. he's too scared of buying her a real vibrator (that'll be competing with his prowess or lack thereof, and we can't have that!). he bought her a pseudo science mumbo jumbo yoni egg that should - in theory - make her tighter. that's like a big F U right to her face. I hope that she drops his ass before that thing arrives in the mail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:57 AM
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well, at least that's what the ones that sell them claim they do. they might be totally useless, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:54 AM
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the yoni eggs - they're pseudo science. he's probably wanting to make her "tighter". he is giving himself a gift through her. besides being a lame ass he's also a passive aggressive scrote. there is no scientific proof that yoni eggs help with anything: incontinence, muscle tone, hormone balancing. it's a fad and a bad one at that. if he wanted to gift her something that mattered, he would have bought her a vibrator so at least she can get an orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:54 AM
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I love it when men bring up the work excuse. ​ it's like they think we don't work or pay bills or something. that we just sit and look pretty and somehow all things get solved for us. by pussy magic. ​ "I've been so busy at work uwu" "and had a flat tire" ​ scrote please. ​ what's next? telling us you were busy wiping your arse too? or was he too busy shoving that crystal yoni egg deep inside his arse and it got lost, somehow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:48 AM
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it is and apparently his daughter is the only exception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:39 AM
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Itune out when a drug addicted middle aged man starts telling young women what should matter for them in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:38 AM
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just as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:57 PM
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is he ted bundy-ing these women? yes he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:34 PM
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glad someone did the math. she was 18 when she got with him. he kept her as a fwb. now that there's competition, he realizes he "loves" her. jerk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:32 PM
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yo. remember gaby petito? remember that cop that stopped their car and how gaby cried in front of him? remember with whom that cop empathized? not with gaby. law enforcement doesn't empathize with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:30 PM
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The same type, definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:18 PM
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he had a lot of female cousins and apparently he also discussed his sex life with them a lot. by the time I ended that 2 hour phone call post breakup, I was glad I was free of him. that family is wrong. you meet a guy but wait till you get to see his family... that's the hard vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:20 AM
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yep... I thought that it was weird too. very close to our breakup he began making these presumptuous comments about me. completely out of the blue, with the sole purpose of demeaning me. it was a truly WTF moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:17 AM
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scrotes always bail on highly demanding holidays. it's X-mas, they disappear. it's your B-day? they are gone. it's V-day, they disappear. they are not prepared, nor will they ever be - to step up and do something. this is a test and they failed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:57 AM
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either way, they need to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:54 AM
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they taught the rapists to be more careful in profiling and picking the victims. that's all they did. because a woman's body is seen as public property, not belonging to the woman, there's a lot of "allegedly" or "if it's true". the truth is they want to rape without any consequence. they get off on rape and their sadism shows. if it wouldn't be incriminated, they would just rape away, intimidate the victim to stay silent, discredit her, rape her again, victim blame and say she made it all up. t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:53 AM
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supermarket flowers for the price of two Greek yoghurt bottles. men giving theses semi-wilted flowers to their wives and girlfriends as "payment" for some sex. like... if you need valentine's day to give her flowers, you're a jerk. or giving her the flowers but she has to find the vaze, trim them and change the water... that's no present, ladies, that's more unpaid labour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:45 AM
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they even hate that these women were paid. some were not but they will just assume they make more money. and that the "knew what they were doing" or "consented" or were... "adults". they view prostitutes the same way. the mental gymnastics they go through in order to justify them visiting a certain prostitute are astounding: "I only pick women who smile and look at me enthusiastically, this was I "know" they weren't trafficked!" (insert huge clown emoji here). they will always justify their beha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:40 AM
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porn is female humiliation. it satisfies no one except the deranged women-hating men who learn to only cum when they see porn-like scenes. the male brain on porn is rotten. these men are rotten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:33 AM
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it's the old: they should have kept their legs closed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:32 AM
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That's oddly terrifying weird at the same time it's the most pathetic attempt I've heard of. Clothes? When my ex left one night, I threw out of the window all the stuff he left. His charger, a lighter, shitty cheap stuff like that. I said if he wants his stuff, he should pick it off the floor and if god forbid I left something in his car, he can gift it to his next victim 🤡. He isn't above that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:08 AM
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Yeah, like what's up with this behavior? We were driving and I'm telling him the number of our destination is 49th street abc. And he makes a comment about how it only needs 20 more to be 69. My perfume bottle, Tom Ford black orchid, he accused me of masturbating with it. Like wtf? Some men are so fucking wrong it's mystery to me. He was so bloody disgusting and sexualized everything, besides he brought his small 🦐 in every conversation. When we were broken up he told me on the phone that his co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:04 AM
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I work with scrotes. They keep the wimen as forever GFs. Only one is married and has 2 school children and he's old, August in his 50s. Two have kids but did not marry their forever GFs. The rest are living the good life, they get to play "baby" and GF child, cleans and mommies them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:11 PM
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Yeah, I too was in shock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:46 PM
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Fuck me that actually makes sense. 🤣 I've been in a relationship with a guy and though I knew his address, I've never been there. I knew he lived with a "coworker" but then again... 🤡 It could have been anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:44 PM
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31 with 3 roommates Giiiirl 🤡 I'm dying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:29 PM
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I feel you. I think he wants his space to continue being his. You don't know what he's up to white he's there alone but he's in your house and all of a sudden you are the one that has to accompdate. Count the bills and see what changed from when you lived alone. All my bills doubled. Scrote even wanted to charge his battery car at my place. And that shit makes noise. It's not just this level of exploitation. It's when they think they get a personal driver/ cool/ assistant/ organizer for free. U …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:01 PM
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girl, that's the spirit! I saved money and worked so fucking hard! I spent time to measure and look at color schemes so that things are the way i like them to be. I am a perfectionist. my bedsheets are 100% great cotton quality. I wash them with specific detergents and I know the washing instructions for everything I own. My dishes are part of a limited edition set. I love cooking so my pots can sometimes cost $$$$. this is my place, my home, my safety haven. I know my shit and it knows me. it i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:07 PM
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please put yourself first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:52 PM
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girl, is your friend me? my ex was left with the lease for the apartment his ex made. when I visited his place, most of her unwanted stuff was there. she took the cat and left him the litter. the litter still had dried poopies in it.. I found on his balcony a box with some old makeup of hers, some stuff she probably didn't even care to take with her. she left him with the apartment but the bills were not doing his wallet any favours so he cut on the bills by eating, shitting, sleeping and shower…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:35 PM
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He probably didn't tell her yet but may want her to pay 1/ 2 of rent or "contribute". We know what that entails.. Girl, stop self sabotaging. Don't move in with him! Visit him to check on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:23 AM
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most men now want to have dinner like this: come by your place at 7 pm empty handed after you worked for 2 hours on a meal, ingredients you bought alone. eat. have sex. sleep. shower. eat breakfast. leave to their place and play on the console. order some take away. scroll some IG models. go to work. ​ we all know this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:18 AM
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no chin guys always grow a beard. acne riddled men with horrible face structure always grow a beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:11 AM
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it's obvious the woman in this post has a boyfriend who doesn't care about her. it starts triggering so many scrotes and pickmes too because their little bubble of delusion is being bombarded by logic. "I took it too far!" the usual scrote screeches in my DMs. gonna close them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:08 AM
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all my exes, except my first bf did that. my first bf got a job in another city while I was at uni at 300 miles away. I could stay at his place whenever, nothing asked because his workplace paid for bills & rent there. but what he didn't have was company and someone to come home to. bullshit. ​ then I got my own place with great sacrifices and I saved money to make it nice. My other 2 exes had their own place. one rented a very ugly apartment and another lived with a coworker of his. they both i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:04 AM
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Right. I have a feeling that what he likes about her is that she pays 3k for an apartment where he can stay at bit didn't have to pay a thing. He probably didn't want to move with her because he doesn't want to pay 1/2 of the rent. Men are really petty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 10:03 AM
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Probably the best part he likes about her is that she's living alone and he can drop by whenever. But when she's in need of help, he gives her twisted logic that their relationship might get stained because of roomates. Why should only the woman compromise? Scrote gets to spend time with his roomates and have company and then he gets to spend time at her place and have intimacy. She already mentioned that he drops by frequently - probably to have sex, eat and shower, maybe stays overnight too bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:59 AM
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I have a wonderful boyfriend who wants us to move in together. He’s moving to Boston for school and wants me to move there as well. I’m about to start studying online and I’m very eager to begin, but I feel taking such a serious step in this relationship would rob me of my focus. then don't do it. he goes to Boston to study and you will study online. I am sure he is a wonderful person but have you 2 discussed the crux of teh problem? money? who will pay for the rent? will he ask you to pay your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:30 AM
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exactly. when they make you totally dependent on them, they can hurt you easily. in the end, all scrotes show you who they are, given the circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:22 AM
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I hate it when men think they can order the woman around and when they get serious, he feels entitled to tell her what changes she needs to make to continue to be in a relationship with him. I have seen women change their hair color, their hair length, their wardrobe, their friends, lose their pets and sometimes their jobs in order to please a scrote. a pickme ex-friend who put her 5 year old cat online for adoption because scrote boyfriend didn't like it. my neighbour's daughter married again a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:21 AM
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another passive-aggressive meme that tells women that they're the ones that need to make sacrifices. remember 2020? how many women had to quit work and stay at home and care for the kids alone because their LVM didn't want to "babysit" them? ​ also, remember 2020 when we've experienced a 10% increase in DV cases? ​ oh baby... I know women who seek refuge in work because at home they are told they're totally replaceable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:29 PM
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I am sorry. WUT? another scrote pointing attention back at himself. he's so pointless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:24 PM
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even men know this yes! and they rely on the other behaving badly in order to make women to settle. I was on OLD - big mistake- and I went on a date with a man who was jumping up and down because, as he told me... he could not believe his eyes that yes, 1. I looked just like in the photos 🚩 and 2. I wasn't fat 🚩. what a scrote! He lied about his height (how basic!) and his job and he was stupid AF but that's besides the point. he began by trying to make me think I am not like the other girls bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:11 PM
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men assuming that the husband is "dead". no, boy, she dropped him out of the picture because he was a cheater!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:24 PM
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a week ago I watched the news channel in my city. a man pushed his GF out of the window. she is lucky to be alive, had multiple fractures. the news proceeds to remind the audience that violence against women and DV like this is on the rise. in 2020, 27k cases of DV have been registered with the police, 80% of victims are girls and women. 91% of offenders are male. 1/4 of the offences were sexual abuse and violence. so it is very interesting to me when these numbers are pitted against a populatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:21 PM
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When I was on OLD almost all men wanted to switch apps. Most wanted Whatsapp and asked for my phone number. I never gave my number. I always made them write down theirs and I didn't want to use IG or Facebook or Whatsapp or Snapchat or whatever. I used this Telegram app where I could add them via phone number but they couldn't see mine except for my username (control through settings). They couldn't call me except through the app. They didn't even know the number they were calling. And they didn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:30 AM
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Imagine telling a slave that he's working. A slave is not free to leave labour. A slave had no protection. A slave was beaten if they did not perform or if they tried to run. People forget so easily: Slavery =/= work And definitely prostitution =/= work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:19 AM
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Sex work = prostitution = trafficking What work is this? I will never call it work again. To make more money, the pimps traffick women. If it's legal, the Johns demand accessible prices. They label it "male health centres". So it's 50 euro for 30 minutes. The women have a sum target to hit so the pimps can profit. So the pimps need to bring many many women so they are on 24/7 availability in rotation. Most of those women are held there illegally, most don't have a place where to go, havin been t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:13 AM
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I will never not stop to share this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8G6nx2Q6G0M Iyanla Speaks to 6 Men Who Have 87 Children with 50 Different Women | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN let's check.... he can barely keep his dick in his pants. how is he going to distribute his attention to 8 kids with 4 different women? or is it 5?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:51 PM
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this woman is young. that's all she needs to be for him. the way this looks from afar is like a sugar baby-sugar daddy arrangement tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:48 PM
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I noticed how he talked about her cats, very disparagingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:46 PM
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I never want to hear men say that women need to be more accommodating. LVM like this old decrepit scrote think our boundaries are "abuse" to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:45 PM
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he gives me Big Ed vibes, not father vibes. he pits wife with "daughter". I cannot help but see the sexual tone of it. ​ men really are clowns ​ yeah... he watched too much stepdaughter porn. he planned all this. this man is a flaming, fuming trash that triangulates his wife. he hates his wife. he hates all women, in fact. he just wants some young thing to move around the house to accidentally rub his 3 seconds erection on. I swear a female only commune is what we need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:40 PM
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LVM ballads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:27 PM
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That hit me as well. She also had a video where she reads Johns reviews and justifications. It's just pure evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:19 PM
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Too bad he's rotten on the inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:02 PM
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exactly. seems this post has enraged those that think prostitution is work. how come that for all types of work out there exist safety regulations. it's the normalisation of the use of vulnerable women’s bodies. to protect women you do not legalize prostitution. otherwise, the state is a pimp. you create jobs and you pay them fairly. you create opportunities for them to live decently and learn new skills. I know that the person who is downvoting us here wouldn't want their child to become a pros…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:45 AM
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The new corona... Geee... That's so irresponsible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:11 AM
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Louder for the people in the back: sex work is prostitution is trafficking is abuse. Sex "work"/ prostitution is exploitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:10 AM
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I'm tired of all the pickmes extolling that their bf didn't rape them and how that makes him a good bf. Sure honey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:34 AM
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"I create opportunity to hook up with you after getting you to my place and give you a list of his I want my whamen Why aren't you jumping up with joy?" It needs to be on a billboard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:55 AM
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Savannah's explanation on why building a man backfires is chef kiss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:27 AM
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"sTeAk aNd BloWjOb dAy" Is this like an unofficial "holiday"? The women have what's been referred to as the ball and chain but this takes it too far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:25 AM
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This American holiday is all about consumerism now. It's just a reason for other countries to follow into the bad example and sell hearts-everything. As for the above love = sex = porn = distasteful. Where are the fucking roses and the heart shaped chocolates?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:19 AM
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There are many pro ana subs on here modded by men. They prey on these girls but evade bans by calling it a "fetish"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:53 PM
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Wow 😆 no women over 5'9? So these dudes are all 6'6 and taller, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:49 PM
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Totally agree. It is their perfect excuse. This and the joke that is evolutionary psychology 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:21 PM
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Their self esteem is directly tied to their penis, this is why there are statistics about penis size by country with mindblowing accuracy and repeat studies every 3 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:39 AM
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He's telling us he's drowning in pussy and we sure believe him 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:37 AM
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For context she stopped having children after she finally had a son, which is the only kind of child she really wanted, and has constantly told her daughters (my friend included) that men and boys are just better than women. This type is the worst, imo. These women tend to empathize only with men. They have transgenerational trauma, most probably because they witnessed how women overall were being treated by the men in their lives. So she decided to be "strong" and side with the sex that held al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:32 AM
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Pickmeisha "it's that easy! Next time I'm gonna gift him a dog maw fleshlight for his furry tendencies" Fucking 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:26 AM
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thank you for this correction! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:32 PM
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"I can rape you for 400 bucks. you pay upfront" owen there's no other way to read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:16 PM
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man fucks woman Subject verb object It suits men just fine. After all, it's not them that get fucked over with HPV, unplanned pregnancies and no orgasms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:41 PM
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👏☝️ this I can personally vouch for this. I did the same thing for a friend who was very hung up over a man that treated her hot-cold on Tinder and whom she met several times. He treated her badly but got her on the hook. She was crushing hard over this asshole. He was on several apps at once and immediately customized his likes/ dislikes to mine... With her he liked red, with me he liked blue. She wanted a serious relationship, I wanted marriage. I said the most outrageous stuff and asked a lot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:38 PM
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Also, can we get this into our skulls? 🚩A man jerking off to your photos is not a compliment🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:22 PM
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These apps should make sure you can't print screen. Ffs. I've stopped posting since 2020. Men will jizz over anything, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:21 PM
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Men sometimes don't even check past the 1st photo. They don't even read the bio. If the first photo is a thirst trap, be sure that a lot of LVMs looking only for hookups will swipe on you. A woman is too them like a hot pizza on display: they want it, they want to consume it. No further thoughts about her personhood, really 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:20 PM
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Cannot agree more! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 11:31 AM
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My ex was navy then he became a special forces paratrooper. The ship he was in was stationed all over Europe in the biggest ports. He fucked around with whomever, whenever the opportunity presented itself. SF is the same and they can be sent for weeks or months away from home. The same scenario. If the opportunity presented itself, he will have sex. He was in a relationship with me but when the opportunity to have sex on the side presented itself, boom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 11:27 AM
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This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior. check his stability points. Or rather, his instability check points ✔️ There is always a tell. A man who is paying through a town, who is not from your area, who is in between jobs, who doesn't have a stable job or who has a highly demanding job that her needs to be "away" for(army, navy etc), who doesn't have things he should account for (a house, a mortgage, a family), who doesn't have a 5 year plan, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 10:36 AM
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I was thinking about that as well and it's because what sex means for men. Sex is low risk for men. In a hetero situation, the chances are very low that the man gets coerced into sex or hurt/ beaten up after. In a hetero situation, the chances are very low that a woman will assault a man and coerce him after being alone. The vulnerability to STDs is lower for men. Women are also biologically more vulnerable to STDs than are men. Women are more susceptible to STDs during sexual intercourse becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 10:08 AM
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Im sorry to go back like this to the subject but I feel we need to deconstruct what she said he said: "He apologized profoundly and said he was too stressed and overwhelmed with work and felt like I've been ignoring him lately but I (..) just wanted to grieve..." -he made everything excuses for his rape of her -and of all the excuses, it was work -which was stressful and overwhelming -and he also had a feeling that she was ignoring him, a feeling -so he decided to place the attention back on him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:34 AM
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As far as I know, he moved back with his parents so there's that 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:06 PM
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I cut off contact with my abusive father. He's all confused Pikachu "what is wrong with her" when I stopped paying him visits for 5 years and counting. He's the definition of: suceeded on the backs and labour of women. He cannot see women as human and he definitely cannot see me as human. But he's very pissed that I, a lowly woman, will not give him my attention. I found out from my mother that he's very "depressed" about it too. Oh well, you make your bed, now lie in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:04 PM
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My ex timed the breakup and the ensuing dramatics to a very big exam I had to sit. I would hear afterwards he wished I would fail so that my ego would take a dive and I wouldn't think myself better than him. 🛑🤡🛑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:46 PM
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What’s with men being assholes when their spouse is grieving? My take: he's an inveterate abuser who cannot stand not being her whole focus. Has some narcissistic traits. Probably some psychopathy in there because he just proved himself to be lacking any empathy for her loss. (Or did he think his dick will magic away the sadness?💔🤡) The type that will dissapear her pet cat because he thinks she's spending too much time with it, the type who will send the kid to boarding school and the type that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:40 PM
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"he apologized profusely" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 What a shit show. "After he finished, he exited the room" Jesus fucking Christ He sees her as a portable hole. Her grief, her space = nonexistent. She married a sexist piece of shit who only caresabout his dick and jizzing at all costs. He probably thinks that if they are in a relationship, he shouldn't even bother with consent. Lori Alexander vibes. A relationship =/= consent Marriage =/= consent Being naked =/= consent I swear, men get more awful by the minu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:33 PM
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What men can act as: predator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:02 PM
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Men see sick wives as damaged goods. Why? Because they think of them as objects, as property. Men objectifying women = the source of perceiving virginity as women's value. A woman that has had other relationships and has had sex = is seen as "used". A woman that gets sick is left by her husband because he sees her life threatening disease as an inconvenience to him. Fucking 🤡. No mercy for these men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:00 PM
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Gee... A guy I was dating would take the most unflattering pictures of me. That was his purpose. Meanwhile, I took only flattering photos of him and I always sent them to him afterwards or I took them with his phone. I bet he still has a stash of photos with me showing some double chin, eyes half closed, me eating, all blurry pictures. Disgusting shithead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:34 AM
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He sent her nudes to someone else and in his defense he says: I was bragging about you, look how hot my gf is. Men do this all the time. It shouldn't be a point of not sending a man nudes but that the man shouldn't spread them. However, the man always spreads them. This is why you shouldn't send anyone nudes and sensitive videos of yourself. You will become someone's entertainment. My ex used to take photos of me while I was sleeping. Another douche tried to take random photos of me while we wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:25 AM
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Good analysis! Gino reads to me like "most guys". He is today's socially approved regular male: deceitful, basic, boring and opportunistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:23 AM
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Close your legs and hold your nuts! Hold it in, boios! Rational sex my ass🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:17 AM
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The most important lesson is that not everyone thinks like you and has the same principles. People always end up surprising you and not many times pleasantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:15 AM
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He doesn't need a soul to profit off of CP, trafficking and unconsensual pornography ("amateurs") - which is what his audiences mostly want. A soul would very much stand in his way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:12 AM
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I'll shit on his grave. Not wasting any saliva on that. Also, they did a really good cleaning on his name from search engines and fiddled with the algorithm. It wouldn't surprise me that his IT teams are selling CP over secure networks to some very sorry and rich people or that he has his own prostitution and trafficking ring which is so well hidden because Mindgeek does what it does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:10 AM
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Coffee? Better watch out for any drink some rando brings to you. Roofies in coffee are not a novelty. Might be a rando at work (ew), a rando after work (ew) or even your boyfriend (ew ew ew). I refuse to believe any FDS woman guess out for a walk and a coffee as a date. Or has unprotected sex and thinks the pull-out method is real contraception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:04 AM
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She communicated alright. Wanna bet what his answer was? "I'm fine, Just more anal" There's nothing about her in this "relationship". This woman doesn't need more "sex" with him. She needs a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:52 PM
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he was wearing mostly Gucci, rich in kitsch. also some versace. but the way he talked... that was his biggest giveaway. he didn't sound cultured at all, just mafioso.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:49 PM
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yes, more fodder for my nightmares. I have a tale too. a pickme acquiantance who is now 45. when she was a fresh 20 year old she began sleeping with her boss while being his secretary. he drove the business into the ground and did some sketchy stuff. he started a new business with the money he frauded. they moved in together in a rented apartment but he did not divorce his wife. he had kids his GF's age as well. he used her as bangmaid/ cook/ trophy for 15 years when she caught him cheating in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:58 PM
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I am sorry for your friend. she paid a harsh price for this lesson! too harsh! ​ LADIES, GET THE FREAKING FAMILY CODE IN YOUR STATE/COUNTRY AND READ IT. IF YOU'RE LAZY AND HAVE MONEY, PAY 1 HOUR LAWYER'S TIME AND YOU'LL GET THE DRILL. YOU DON'T CO-OWN SHIT UNLESS YOU'RE MARRIED. YOU WILL NOT OWN A BUSINESS THAT'S IN HIS NAME ONLY AND THAT'S STARTED BEFORE MARRIAGE. DON'T PAY A BF'S MORTGAGE UNLESS YOU'RE ON THE PROPERTY DEED. DO NOT LEND HIM MONEY DO NOT BUY HIM CARS AND DO NOT HAVE HIS BABIES U…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:38 PM
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now if she gets pregnant and gives birth, imagine this scrote spending the same amount of money on OF pornography instead of contributing to nappies &co, because that's the future that awaits her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:15 PM
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begezus! he spends >$100,000 to buy a property management company in a developing foreign country in his name only, don't tell me! they'll both have to immediately move to the foreign country isolates her! he proposed to her within like 6 months (with a cheap ass cubic zirconia ring). proposed =/= married, right? she isn't even married to him! she helps him build a business before their marriage, she IS FUCKED, YOUR FRIEND IS FUCKED. I AM SORRY BUT FUCKED by a giant rusty metal dildo. he builds …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:12 PM
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He invited her to go to another country on a private plane.🚩🚩 and please she "played it cool" by IMMEDIATELY AGREEING AND GOING after ONE coffee date IN THE SAME DAY 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 on a plane with the baby momma! that made me cringe so hard! and he sent her the same texts and copy pasted the same videos to all of them! this scrote was recycling a lot of material and I wouldn't be surprised if he's swindling some other women now via Tinder! BOYCOTT TINDER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:39 PM
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Did anyone watch it? What are your thoughts? ​ yes, and at the end, my blood boiled for very different reasons. that scumbag scammer got 15 months in Israel out of which he served only 5. those women he scammed are still in debt. I admire their courage to come forward to the press. I admired Cecilie's resilience and her honesty when she said she even got herself committed to the psych ward. I admired Ayleen's cold blood and wits because she's the one that tipped Interpol. I admire Pillina for ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:37 PM
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this! I hope more and more women read this post! please upvote pursangria's comment! women need to think of a future. they will have none when they have invested all their energy in "his business". sure in a divorce, she might get a part of his business if it's business he made while being married to her. women who drop everything and become an "aide" or a carer or worse, an unpaid worker in a business have the most to suffer and lose. there will be no record of their work. and when he cheats wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:29 PM
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disney is a fucking scourge. there's nothing pretty about it except the art, maybe... and not even that. Another point i loved is how he consistently said "every action has a reaction" directly after HE made a massively evil step. gee... yes, I remember that! to me it sounded like a massive threat. poor Cecilie, she is a real fighter. I got emotional when she admitted she put herself in a psych ward. that's the level of abuse she was under. deep, tremendous psychological abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:20 PM
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doomed? no. laughs in standards! ​ doomed is the woman who cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel because day in day out she's scrubbing after a disrespectful scrote. doomed is the woman that is afraid of being alone and would rather choose disrespect and abuse than freedom. I’m human and I need sex too buy a dildo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:17 PM
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I mean she's slowly waking up but for years she's done a job and will not get pension benefits for it. she really married a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:54 PM
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he looks like an inarticulate scoliosis-ridden incel who thinks it's classy to have blond tips on his hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:30 PM
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single moms are a special category that all the men that have been touched by the redpill teachings love to shit on. they are an extremely vulnerable category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:03 PM
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I interviewed 2 divorced men with kids, late 20s when I was on OLD. one of them had absolutely no respect for boundaries and tried video calling me multiple times, even though I told him it was not a good moment. he facebook stalked me and IG stalked me immediately trying to monopolize my free time. the kid was with his ex wife and he immediately tried organizing trips for the 3 of us. he really needed a live-in babysitter for the kid/ bangmaid. ​ the other one was pretty much deadbeat and like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:01 PM
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very good observation! Rather, he very intelligently targeted women for whom he represented a kind of social acceptance: the woman on her way to becoming 'new money' who was now accepted by the truly rich crowd because she had a friend/partner who was 'old money'. He wasn't offering money so much as he was offering social acceptance into a group they were currently moving up into anyways. what the hook was, even from the very beginning: he moved fast and "opened up" fast. In short, this scrote l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:12 PM
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these have been saved to my playlist, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:53 PM
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bottom line is: don't consider divorced men with kids. or men with kids in general. that's a headache right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:52 PM
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Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway? ​ internalized male gaze. it's the disease we all suffer from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:49 PM
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BDSM is misogynistic. rough sex is misogynistic. all kinks and fetishes that made it into the "acceptability zone" revolve around rigid and oppressive structures where women are the exploited and men are the exploiters. all libfems, cool girls and pickmeishas and kinkmeishas need to be exposed and avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:27 AM
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his victims have been gaslit by the culture and the halo that has been placed around Cosby. It all became about their shame and their humiliation, not about "America's dad misdeeds". These women who alleged the rapes were viewed with a great deal of suspicion and the judges would even caution the jurors to abstain from downright believing these women about having been raped or SAd. Gloria Allred, an attorney at law is also interviewed for the purpose of this documentary and she reminds the audie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:48 AM
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the "tinder swindler" is scammer Simon Leviev who conned millions of dollars out of victims using the popular online dating app. Though he disguised himself under various aliases, the swindler is widely recognized as Simon Leviev, who claimed he worked in dangerous diamond business and was the son of billionaire Israeli diamond oligarch Lev Leviev. He conned an estimated 10 million dollars out of women he attracted on the popular dating app, Tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:17 AM
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created multiple accounts because was blocked on his main account. stalked me for 5 years. I changed my phone number and my email address. I went awol on social media. I would receive "happy birthday" messages that included stuff he knew about me - they all sounded like terrorising attempts. they made everything about him, and he took a sick pleasure in knowing he ruined my birthday several times by reading his shitty messages from different numbers and different emails. he is a sick sick person…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:18 AM
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this is very true. I can vouch for this because I was like this! I was groomed early that the only sex that mattered was the bdsm-like rough sex. emotional unavailability and using people was seen as cool. it was the media we consumed. this was the message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:11 AM
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I had sex pozzy friends. HAD. everything was a competition about: who had the most sex, who had the most partners, who had anal, who did God knows what! it was sex and the city the stupid version. there was this pressure to be "easy" and to say yes to a lot of meaningless dick. there was nothing in there about "healthy relationships", "mutual respect" and not being treated like a "cum rag". the same women would tell me: "men are easier to get along that you are, I don't have to put up with them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:07 AM
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remember! a pickme would see that as a compliment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:02 AM
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"Rape is just a kink and don't you dare kinkshame!" Wtf? Making rape a kink is like shitting on all the rape victims out there. I wouldn't even give the time of day to rape apologists, kinksters or fetishists. If he has this "kink" guess what, he's a rapist and the best think you can do is stay the f away from him. Pickmes & libfems who encourage it are just as wrong and toxic. The best thing you can do is cut them off from your life. All these "kinks" are a sign of something deeply disfunctiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:21 AM
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Cheater: "I love you but you don't meet my needs of fucking you over; I have this condition where I need to cheat on you constantly in order to feel good. You game?" 💔 New agers have normalized this "unmet needs" bullshit. I believe I heard it from some self appointed guru. "I have this unmet need to shoot drugs and do meth. It's a need so you gotta let me duh and you can't say anything bad about it!"🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:59 AM
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sometimes what holds us back is other people's limiting beliefs of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 08:39 AM
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wonderfully said! "the need to fuck things up!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 08:26 AM
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Will bag a woman way out of his league who meets x y z high criteria and has more way options than him And ….he will still cheat. That’s male privilege in plain sight. yeah, because there is nothing you can do to patch up the black hole inside these people that need therapy. primarily, there is something wrong with them, not with their partner. and because something is deeply wrong with them and they do not acknowledge that, they will always cheat. once a cheater, always a cheater. can we all gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 08:25 AM
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another vice article... ugh... what a shit reel. vice is the worst. "I am not an infidelity apologist but..." gotcha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 08:23 AM
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"he puts up with me and my silly little hobbies" uwu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 08:18 AM
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yeah... she should test for giardia, especially 5 months pregnant. blergh! anyway, I second normalizing to saying NO to sex ina relationship. just lay back and think of England doesn''t cut it anymore; also NO to unwashed male junk. how disgusting is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:25 AM
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okay so it was the second date 🙃 but still, I knew he was a keeper after that 😌 did you know... you can self-gaslight? 🙃 Self-gaslighting is when we pick up the torch from the gaslighter. We internalize their abuse (or lack of protection from it) and begin to gaslight ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:19 AM
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LVM will put women with children choose between them and the children; LVM will put women with family to choose between them and her family. LVM are seriously narcissistic and they cannot stand that she gives attention to someone that is not them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:14 AM
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I would put him down. :) not the horse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:12 AM
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you cannot beat "underage girl" that's reserved for tabloids! and didn't you know? they're all "mature for their age"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:10 AM
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I love this! I wish I did this whenever I heard problematic commentary from men just like you did. unfortunately for me, at the moment, I was so brainwashed by misogyny and NLOG bs that I thought that would be a "compliment". Of course, now, 10 years later myself I see it for what it is: a neg, shitty comment in scrotalese. As I reach the table he says, “Now there’s a body that would make my ex wife cry.” what is this anyway? a neg? what's it called when men bring u their ex in every comment? ph…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:08 AM
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This looks like it's a competition between them: who treated women the worst and got away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:57 AM
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If this is enough to ruin the relationship with his friend... That is not a friend 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:53 AM
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Having been a student this happened to me as well. They would stop us and get in our faces and surround us and give us these cheaply printed flyers. I noticed something was off because they never approached girls in groups or accompanied. It was always: lone girl walks on the street, just outside of campus but far enough from the security on the campus. And there would be 2 of them, a man and a woman, each on the side of the street. The woman would approach you first and start talking -she basic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:46 AM
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I know there is a technique where the man pursues the woman romantically, makes her invest in him etc. The man is a pimp in this case. He gets her invested and she reaches the point where she will do "anything" for him. He will tell her some bogus about how he needs x amount of cash or hoe his grandma needs a very expensive surgery to survive etc. And he will present to her the "option" of prostitution. Because she thinks she loves him and because of his manipulation, she will go into prostituti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:30 AM
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Aka "Be friendly, give pussy" 🤮 Notice how he's 230 lbs but doesn't want a "BBW"? What a shitstain!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:37 PM
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Vive la révolution! I'd rather it be off with his head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:42 PM
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Because after the shitty "who hurry you, brah/bro" that's the cherry on top of the poo poo. It's typical passive aggressive bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:41 PM
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Basically, it's so common for avoidants to do this that there's actually a term for it - "The Phantom Ex". An idealised past partner that all new partners are compared with and fall short of. But it's not that the old relationship actually was ideal, or that the avoidant was really happy with the phantom ex. Thank you for this awesome piece🙏! It helped out a lot of things in perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:39 PM
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha. I named trash after my ex and burned it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:38 PM
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I'm not even Asian and I know that's a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:37 PM
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You mean most gone wild porn subs (I'm not including here the obseq OF promos)and a good majority of relationships sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:35 PM
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My favorite is: " she must have done something that pushed him to behave like that"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:33 PM
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If you think of leaving, it's clear...leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:47 PM
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Your mother told you this. Imagine that my male history teacher and headmaster in highschool told me this. He was a grandpa that always looked out for us girls (he had a class full of girls) and always warned us about male depravity. "Think about it! Do you wanna be the one that loves it the one that is loved? You need to choose well!". I wish I listened and didn't buy into "both sides" drivel. There is no both sides!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:48 PM
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My ex "picked" me because I resembled his ex. Guess what!?She's the one that got away, I was second choice. He used to stalk her profile while we were together. He also told me she was mean and crazy 😂. I guess he tells the current victim the same about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:44 PM
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We need another flair : "the one that got away" or "dream girl". These stories are too prevalent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:42 PM
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They want her friend to do all the labour for it. They are zero effort and thus zero value. It reminds me. I wouldn't even be comfortable wearing a ring that the best friend picked instead of the husband. Reminds me of those CEOs that ask their secretary to buy their wives' presents and write cards and she messes up and confounds the address with the mistresses'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:01 PM
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If it's work, it's something we BOTH do in order to maintain the harmony in the relationship, not a one sided struggle of the woman (usually) that is met by the man with a "but I'm ok, I don't understand what is your problem - end of communication"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:22 PM
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"Baby please let me call you slurs as I slap your face and jackhammer you" What a panty dropper!🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:54 PM
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I refuse to become "friendly" with the SOs of my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:58 AM
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"I want you to officially be my mommy macbangmaid incubator fleshlight! Say yes and I'll never be worried you dare to leave when I disrespect you!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:56 AM
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He can't even pick a ring for her? Excuse me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:55 AM
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Tell her she confounds excitement with abusive behavior and toxicity. Show her some examples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:52 AM
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This makes so much sense. When women start taking care like mommies of these men the sex appeal is literally gone. Imagine those in relationships with men that have diaper fetish. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:42 AM
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Porn sick men cannot cum with real women. They need the fantasy, the drug. They need to recall porn scenarios imprinted on their brain from an early age. In that moment, a woman is the ultimate object. He doesn't even cum with thoughts of her but with images his brain associates with sex and arousal. They're broken, their brain is, at least and so is their dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:00 AM
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That's it! I was usually unaroused during sex and scrotes interpreted that as "tight" 🤡😩 Even my pussy tried telling me he's a scrote! Drier than Sahara now at their lame attempts. Dirty talk just annoys me, it's a red flag that immediately tells me the man should be avoided. If during sex, when you as a woman, are at your most vulnerable, he degrades you, that's his true opinion of you! The "heat of the moment talk" is his real opinion of you! Listen to your pussy, ladies! 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:58 AM
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"dirty talk" 🤡🤡🤡 I remember the post of the diversity officer who was reported by his neighbor as he shouted racist slurs to his POC Gf during sex. "B-but it was race-play! It's a kink." He was rightfully fired. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:52 AM
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Yeah, it's a safe approach since most taken men behave as if they're bachelors 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:36 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:34 AM
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Men ruin women's lives on a daily basis and male judges empathize with male criminals like this because of a history of misogyny and failing to see women as humans having the same rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:29 AM
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this is true for veggies and salad as well. always a red flag with men these days. most have the palate of a toddler or think themselves "carnivores". pitiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:34 AM
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and being thrice as responsible! "oh, I am getting tested for gonorrhoea since I am suspecting my poly husband's new unicorn!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:33 AM
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I know someone whose actual boyfriend has insomnia and starts walking around the apartment at strange hours, starts yelling and even peed on the bed several times. she recounted all this as if she were talking about a toddler. I asked: did he see a doctor? she frowned at me. like.... they kind of want men like this and they think it's funny and cute. wait till he shits on the bed next to her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:31 AM
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Why he will punish you for giving him second chances thanks! great post! he truth is- if he’s honest, he loses this grey area he gets to exploit. Instead, he prefers to treat you disrespectfully until you get the hint. If you don’t get the hint, he will take advantage of this opportunity to be abusive. exactly! it's like he hates you even more if you tolerate his disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:22 AM
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oh my gosh vicky, that's so funny! the joys of man ownership, right, girl? or is it the other way? oh, wait... why are you confused? wife.exe stopped working as per usual, of course, he got upset! if your printer started to print in pink ink instead of black, wouldn't you get in a rage and call maintenance too? what? he's not a yet-to-be-potty-trained 5 -year old? what are you doing with him, though? have sex too? ewww. oh, girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:14 AM
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And did you block him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:23 PM
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Patriarchy puts women in 2 categories: fuckable (breedable) and invisible. Older women are seen as invisible. I mean, I've seen an older woman be pushed at a side in a queue like an object by a young scrote. If men have trouble seeing young women (that are in their fucking range) as objects (as in "not human"), then imagine "how difficult" it is for them to see the elderly as human. Penis havers' brains are just wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:03 PM
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I'm early 30s and I feel great. A woman's worth doesn't depend on men's sexual desire. I get thirsty looks but I don't care anymore because I know I'm worth more than that. Every 20 year old gets like from flaccid scrotes and if you've grown like me in an abusive family in a small town, you'll think they mean something. No they don't. Men always have a hard-on for what they cannot have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:34 AM
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😒 I can't wait to be 89. My goal in life is to be the hippest, most fashionable octogenarian. And then at 100 I'm gonna throw a large party and dance on tables if my hips still hold 🎉 What's your goal for 80, 90 and the big 00? 💯Normalize80s💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:26 AM
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I have a feeling he gave her a target. And most abusive men do this. You should see how many men prowl ED subs and encourage women to relapse. There's one of the worst things a woman can be: fat. That's like a hate crime for these men. They are purely with someone for their physical appearance, mainly. And they call us hypocrites and body shamers for saying we don't want slobs with tiny flaccid dicks and bad teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:31 PM
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It's ownership. It's pure slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:25 PM
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Making a living is not impossible. Being the slave of one person isn't stability. It's erasure. These women need to be called out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:22 PM
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I say good riddance, bby! These redflags are soaking of their own instability. I'm not taking a one time thing, I'm talking full-blown personality disorders, dsm5 worthy, bby. Men don't go to therapy as much as women do. They don't think they have a problem. Binge drinking, wasted nights, drugs, prostitutes, casual sex and untreated STDs, unpaid bills and deadlines missed at work, cockroaches and rats, musty bedsheets, weekend visits from mommy who cleans and cooks while 40 year old baby recover…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:52 AM
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I've seen this type of bad advice in a relationships sub. despite the fact that OP wrote that she already communicated to her husband that his behaviour impacted her negatively, he responded that he was ok with it and continued. Guess what the 90% of the advice was? Oh yeah You're right Exactly "Did you communicate?"🤯🤯🤯 LE: fking grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:02 AM
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I'm so happy Prudence have sound advice. It really is a humongous red flag. And those family members can go f each other. They see her only as a tool, they don't value her safety and her happiness. Honestly, I would do the same. If the groom knows it can take 1 thing to ruin an emotional investment like that and he still goes on with it, then he's a massive jerk. She saved herself from someone who would have escalated this behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:00 AM
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you got it. thank you! I hope the most vulnerable of us see this and there's a eureka moment. accusatory statements? "you" speech? gaslighting? that's the scrotes' bolognese sauce and they know it. we all have our vulnerabilities but by playing into their spaghetti game, we can become trapped. so when there are statements like these and projection and accusations, disengage and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:45 AM
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I fucking hate when that happens. And it's always a pickme involved, who, at the sight of dick ditches all the friends she has.. Very similar to the women who disappear from their circle of friends after meeting "Kyle".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:23 AM
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Amen to this! Without a strict curfew and a meal timetable I'm other to be a workaholic who didn't drink enough water. That's disastrous for skin and brain. The last thing I need in my life is a man who didn't have his shit together and encourages my bad habits over the pretense that I should 'live a little'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:21 AM
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There's this song, Why’d You Only Call Me When You’re High? And it applies perfectly to this whole mess. Do men know this is low value? That it reeks of bad attitude? That is emanates desperation and that it speaks of only one thing, that they could "use somebody" and they thought about you🤡 and why aren't you jumping at the opportunity of their whiskey dick? Hell nah!😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:17 AM
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and who does she think she is? mother Theresa? no, she'll always be considered by these men whom she offers pussy charity as forever less than and one with the dregs of the society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:00 PM
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probably stalked and followed her? but yeah, there's no "add". no, scratch that! he just stalked her and made a wild guess. we all know men's reddist are full of porn subs unless they make like 50 other accounts. nah, this is fake. he has no girlfriend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:55 PM
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"FDS is known for being toxic towards men" I don't know what can be toxic to a radioactive cockroach but it sure ain't FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:54 PM
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Anything but logistics, invitations, making plans, and clearly formulated simple questions are now responded to with "Call me when you have time." or simply ignored 💅 can you automate it to certain contacts that you know are flaky? like... the ones that wish you happy new year in late January? I know there should be a function
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:52 PM
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My point. An appliance. Incubator, more precisely. I think he's the wrong type of conservative too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:34 PM
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my pickme roomate from college got in touch with me after 5 years and started the message with: "I have a husband, I have two kids, I have quit my job and moved with my husband in a foreign country and I feel fulfilled blah blah blah. My husband has a friend who says it's very difficult to find someone to his tastes and I was thinking of you because you're more conservative and I think you two will make such a nice pair, you know, the type of couple that goes to the opera and visits castles. he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:41 AM
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Women who run with the wolves. I've bought several copies and sent to some cool women I used to work with. It's nice to have mutual appreciation and respect. Also "all men are jerks until proven otherwise" given to me by my pilates teacher who was very upset with my pickme ways back when I was dating mr GI Joe and robocop. It was a great book and those were bad relationships 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:47 PM
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"Your message has been redirected to the trash can where trash goes to decompose."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:45 PM
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I'm with you. Ditched all OLD back in 2020. My life improved 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:40 PM
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I'm very ambiguous about my single / self partnered status at the job. I feel like I need to pretend I'm engaged or something mostly because I get these weird phone calls from clients of our company who only later disclose they're married and who talk a bit too much about their private life and I don't want anything to do with these people besides work. I'm saying very little, mostly basic, unimaginative stuff simply because I don't want them to know much about my private life or start thinking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:38 PM
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"and I am gonna film it and add it to my stash of revenge porn for later when she says she wants a breakup/ divorce. But I'll tell everyone she's crazy and then I'm going to hit on her best friend's teenage daughter" 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:23 PM
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"What she doesn't know can't harm her": what a married man told me one on OLD trying to convince me. I said pass. Men are so comfortable making decisions about how women should feel. They don't see women as human at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:20 PM
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One of the scariest movies I've seen and I thought- cool, this is something I can learn from and be careful about, is called hounds of love (AUS movie) and it's about a young woman being manipulated and kidnapped by a couple and detained and kept like a 3rd wheel and abused etc etc. I would never trust the women that are a-okay with their "man" always bringing some fresh pussy that he hitchkiked in the "home". Or the women who help him kidnap and torture the fresh meat. I mean, what does she get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:17 PM
15

Yeah, I see it. It doesn't depend anymore on the dating app. Men want casual sex or sec when it suits them, on their terms. The women are either together in a social experiment or they all know what's going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:09 PM
47

Well obviously. That's the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:32 PM
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I mean, if he asks you out... decides the place... then he should have the common sense to pay. it shows investment and interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:01 PM
48

if they want the 5 dollars back then there's no gold to dig. they can delude themselves all they want, though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:00 PM
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ladies, I work with a lot of men. a lot of bad testosterone out there. I used to work with women and the queen B syndrome was floating high in the air as well. I also used to work only with women at one point in life. there are 4 max women at my current workplace but I tell you, men are more difficult and backstabby than women. I am navigating the system but if there's any advice, throw it in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:01 AM
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I absolutely love the movie "promising young woman" with Carrey Mulligan. Men who insist on stag nights and strip clubs before the wedding need to be left at the altar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:27 AM
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And a sexual encounter with a healthy woman is worth at least hundreds of dollars. What does this tell us? men expect women to prostitute themselves for 30 bucks, for a lukewarm coffee and a bagel. 30 bucks? where did he take her? macdonalds? pffft. that's pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:25 AM
10

30 bucks? what is he? a shop? block and delete! there's nothing to prove!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:24 AM
21

to bend over backwards for him in return for giving her little nuggets of approval every so often breadcrumbing her + operant conditioning (intermittent reinforcement)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:23 AM
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You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away. wise words! not after 5 years together, not after 2 kids, 3 dogs and 2 mortgages!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:21 AM
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exactly; inferiority complex galore. I bet he would also be a complainer and harboured feelings of emasculation. he was not a provider 9her family paid for all, he was a "sahd"), just a sperm carrier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:19 AM
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this POS was never on her level. he fed off her. from the get go that woman married an opportunistic POS. he might have had a great lifestyle but he never ever appreciated what he had. he threw it all away for some "wet dream" with a secretary. both women are better off without him, especially the ex wife! and who knows what he told his secretary to rope her in. men do that all the time, especially lecherous men like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:17 AM
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he roped her in. she was his wet dream as he mentioned and men say anything to get themselves laid. I mean anything! I had a guy say the most ridiculous things hoping he'll get in my pants. men make promises, future fake, they go all extravagant just for some pussy this is why I never place much importance on love bombing. and then they turn their back on you after they've had a good time. we can't know for sure she decided to just get pregnant with a married scrote. good for her that she left a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:15 AM
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man who used his wife as barb the builder claims his receptionist "baby trapped" him. oh wow! "she thought I was rich so she fell pregnant" ​ how, Timmy? how? did she steal your sperminators and magicked them into her vajay-jay? this man has no understanding of the term "accountability" "muh dick fell in her vagina - I swear it was an accident!" or she fell on his dick, more precisely! accident! ​ stories like these make my day. I am laughing. laughing and laughing! this proves me that you shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:05 AM
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I will always support a man in achieving his dream by setting him free. :) there's potential and then there's reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:59 AM
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12? hahahahahaha. they can't remember facts about 1 of them but 12? you give them too much credit. and don't get me started when pickmes say this is cute: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHPbOGEUvZA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XgQpjJnGLcE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGuXINeFjD8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:58 AM
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I was listening on a crime podcast and at some point it was mentioned the Chris Watts family annihilator case. His wife was gluten allergic but his mom cooked only contaminated food. There was some sickness that spilled from his family onto him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:36 PM
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The old: don't threaten me with a good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:31 PM
57

Exactly. This is why no woman should ever date these men. Let them be "peaceful". They can complain later on a podcast or on a red pill board.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:30 PM
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If he wouldn't date himself, u don't have to either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:27 PM
27

The shithead that left 28 kids with no child support is even proud of it. At this point he's just a walking lvm sperm hose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:26 PM
27

Let's cut the crap: I take my words back. I wouldn't. What if he murdered his wife? *If I were to date this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:23 PM
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omg! you're right! it kind of makes you wonder why he couldn't keep her alive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:12 PM
183

Men that look to actively date have no clue or care for parenting In both instances the ex was "crazy" If you give them a chance, they will prove all your suspicions right. Don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:11 PM
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Shit. This is so true. The stigma on single moms out there is unbelievable. This is why we need to make single "fathers" a proper exclusion of our dating pool. I know exactly how much "parenting" these dudes do. They leave a litter of offspring to start a second/ third/ fifth "family". I mean, you should see this (Iyanla talks to 6 men who have 87 kids with 50 different women): https://youtu.be/8G6nx2Q6G0M
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:04 PM
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Tbh, I wouldn't date a single father either, unless he was widowed or something. I've had two video calls with such specimens and let's say, you're better if you eliminate them as prospects from the get-go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:59 PM
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Hmmmm.... Even better, pretend and start believing it's them that should know how to cook and do it for you gratuitously and eagerly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:58 PM
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Mwahahahaha! This is why we never disclose history: it's always 2 at most, bby and all on good terms. Let them wonder and eat shit while waiting for the "juicy" details. They're never coming their way. You owe them nothing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:56 PM
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Well.... Now she knew exactly what she was signing up for but committed to self-gaslight. She probably told herself: I don't even want a ring, or a marriage, or fidelity. That's how you talk shit to yourself - it happens. The worst outcome is you start believing it. The least bag is that you're taking to yourself out loud, in order to convince yourself off something that you know it's bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:54 PM
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I think no one should worry. High value and low value had been around since the first ever podcast came alive on good ole' YouTube. They're just words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:51 PM
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how you do it: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizbelortiz/video/7056565928557038894?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id777777777777777777777 you delete everything after the first string of numbers and copy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 12:05 PM
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you killed me with that one: "my mom had 4 kids and 17 different jobs... so when my daddy was out there smoking hay and drinking crack and putting all our money into hookers, my mom was at home with her kids or slaving away at her job" XD dead!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 12:03 PM
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I wholehertedly recommend everyone interested to read the research blog of Clare Murphy PhD: https://speakoutloud.net/intimate-partner-abuse/mens-motivations her you will see some of the motivations that abusive men have in committing physical acts of abuse. it is important to know that the author dismantles the belief that violence performed on the woman is a loss of control of the man. that is untrue. that is a very shitty excuse that even the investigators of Chriss Watts have seen through. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:14 AM
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imagine I had to look these things up. I had to google what he told me there. I did my reading on it and I felt incredibly sick. I only felt sorry for him, like he was some sort of victim of his own making. my stupid, naive side wanted to help him get out or befriend him and slowly help him get out of that "scene". and I think that's what his intention was: to rope me into this and then be the one to abuse me. but you are right. Add in a manipulative narcissist, he is a malignant manipulator. he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:53 PM
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I was hit on by a guy on facebook (we've been in the same year, same uni, same classes) who wanted me to fist him. Just out of the blue I was honestly... appalled. I gathered the resolve to ask him how he became like that and his answer did not surprise me in the slightest: he watched violent porn from an early age (11), and he basically started with medical fetishes and rough bdsm and he couldn't cum unless he had a fist up his ass or was violently hurt in some way. he told me that since he dou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:24 PM
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threats from kings with ED ​ how oxymoronic! kings without a crown and even without a staff... men just can't take the heat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:03 PM
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if you go on a horrible date, you might end up accepting an even more horrible outcome. give the Matthew effect a thought. the man who gets a date out of his league starts thinking he's hot shit. the woman who goes with a jerk has more chances to have a plummeting self-esteem. the last success for either of them determines their next approach. you do not like him? nip it in the bud, leave at the first sign of dishonesty ( he's not 6 ft, he's actually shorter than you and you're not even wearing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:39 PM
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A lot of women would benefit from true casual dating (without casual sex) yes ma'am! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 can we also mention how important it is for women to not feel like they need to find a man to satisfy them sexually? you'd be surprised how many men "date" only for the sex. relationship = sex to these folks. get toys! plenty of! this way, you will kick to the curb the idea that dick is magical! it is not! this way, you will feel more in tune with your body and your needs. you prioritize them, not some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:25 PM
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exactly! dating =/= having sex with. but sometimes there needs to be a stop on the dating when you realize it's just a waste of your time. drop them fast. never keep a man "just in case". he's either best option or no option. we know most men are biding their time, hoping they could bed the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:17 PM
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when feminism to some means collecting crystals and tarot cards and banging left and right with no discrimination. sis, that ain't it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:14 PM
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I'd rather scoop cat turds and smell them. no thanks. an ex is an ex for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:17 PM
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Men getting hard and jacking off to women is not a compliment. 🤣 Some men get hard at the weirdest shit. I mean, there are men out there that get hard over seeing poop. Women need to acknowledge the analytical, composed part of themselves and not read too much into it. Men get hard easily. It can be a goat's ass, it can be you. No thanks. Not a compliment, not an achievement. Just another day in jerkoffville.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:27 PM
10

Scrotes know that sometimes the best way to keep a woman that's too good for them is to trauma bond her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:11 PM
11

One with spikes on the inside. "Love is pain" bby 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:10 PM
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She should put his dick in a cage and throw the key in the ocean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:08 PM
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Proof that the best that LVM can hope for is to attain superfan level. The rest, they can die mad🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:00 PM
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he's a passive aggressive narc. he is too spineless to tell her upfront "no" and is definitely unprepared and unwilling to share a space with another human being, let alone a GF. he's borderline pathological in his actions. this man is cray-cray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:13 AM
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that's gaslighting right there... also... is it just me or do these men really hate their girlfriends/ wives/ whatever? like... they cannot wait to have someone to shit on and gaslight? these men hate women. they wouldn't do that to one of their bros. though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:11 AM
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I hope that video stays up forever. enough so the whole internet trashes this man. I love the response from the wife - hope she ditches that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:34 PM
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there are these men that think women leech off them if they are sahms. they start thinking: she's a lazy ass that sits all day on the couch, does her nails, reads beauty blogs and eats pizza... this is almost never the case since these women usually are quite prone to depression, isolated and tired. but then why is this so pervasive among men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:45 AM
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meanwhile, this poor overworked sahm puts money in his hands. if she continues like this, he will shit on her soon. men like to play push-pull on boundaries and if he determines she's an idiot, he will treat her as such. I see this developing with the man getting a mistress or getting involved with someone at work while she will still twist into a pretzel to make some money and hand it to him. that's the fate of people who just ask to be shat on. I look at my mother and I cringe. worked full tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:03 AM
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fair??? wtf? this word should be scratched from your vocabulary! is it fair that women have been seen as 2nd class citizens by men for thousands of years? so... why do women forget this? I will never be 50-50. I was and I think he resented me for it, secretly hated it. what is the man in question work overtime for if not for the woman he made to stay at home with the kid he sired? is he working double to sustain a mistress or an additional shit hobby like buying more cars? let the man work for t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:58 AM
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I'm unreal so I'll never do that 😵again😵 It's the biggest lie women believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:36 PM
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she said she never wanted kids but got pregnant and now has a son, they moved into a bigger house and are getting married soon. if it takes a baby to get him to marry her it's suspicious. after 5/6 years no less....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:22 PM
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I know for a fact that women that can afford it these days choose to have a donor and go through the single mom life completely aware and willing. this must be frightening to so many LV men out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:04 AM
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if he wants to marry her he will marry her. it's not like she's from the mafia and someone put a gun to his head to take her hand in marriage. now... there might be some men who think marriage is the best response to the obligation they created but given today's culture (I am not talking about people that got married 20 years ago), I doubt men who don't love that woman and never before considered marrying her will step up. they are more likely to ghost her and ask for a paternity test or disappe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:48 AM
41

"my sweet perfect boy can do no harm and he shits gold too" type of boymom. + a whiff of emotional incest (he's her "little man")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:43 AM
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goes without saying that she was so caught in housework and family stuff (taking kids to appointments, doing 100% of the parenting alone etc.) that she did not even have time to read between the lines. the jerk that is her BF wants his cake and t eat it as well. it's amazing that with all this shit she managed to get away enough to clear her head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:42 AM
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there comes a time when we as women realize that sex and the lusty looks from men, married or not is not a freaking compliment. sleeping with a married man is not a flex. 'stealing' a man from another woman is not a flex. this is not middle school politics... geee... if women did the vetting as the handbook and the numerous articles here advise, then there would be no more concern about " when is he going to leave his wife and move in with me uwu?" by the handbook's standards, you shouldn't even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:38 AM
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I bet the comments are all: communication is important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:05 AM
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Insecure men can't stand women that are better than them. They compete with women. And then they neg these women. So she messed up by marrying this jerk. Instead of hypergamy she chose someone that repeats classes and had to make use of frat humour to put her down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:20 AM
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He's a grade-A asshat and loser. She's too good for him but he thinks her humanities major is less than his because he's in STEM. Men surround themselves with men who think alike so his scrotum buddy there told on themselves when he made that MLK "joke" .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:15 AM
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"I didn't think she'd be annoyed by terrify wife jokes" What a stinky scrote! Next will come: " I didn't think she'll not laugh with me at 'wife bad jokes' either" And if she doesn't dump him already, it will only escalate to "why is she so pissed? She can't take a joke, especially mistress jokes"🤡 Also this scrote:" you people calling me out is abuse uwu 🤣 I refuse to apologize for the joke because I didn't think she would care and she never interacts with petite from STEM uwu"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:13 AM
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In my case it was: don't stop, keep that pace. This was followed by: already? Ex never lasted in bed. And the previous one couldn't orgasm without giving himself a handjob immediately after pulling out of me. He was so pornsick!🤮 He could only come with death grip or if he looked at his penis, go figure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:09 AM
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My ex was like this 🤡 I was afraid I would come off as clingy of I asked. He said he was busy on weekends. I am sure he cheated. 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:05 AM
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there’s this pressure where showing emotion is weak and giving people the upper hand, so especially women (aka the “more hysterical sex”) try to not display any sort of emotion. I think this is what they (sick men) want from us, ultimately. We can't cry. We can't show emotion. And since we don't, we don't bother them with our heavy emotions. This is another way in which women and girls are coerced to comply to the expectations of patriarchy and to coddle male egos, in the end. A woman showing em…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:04 AM
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Yeah, that's fine level of gymnastics that gets it so wrong! So it wants to tell you that it's practically your fault for letting it get to you? 🤡 That's some law of attraction level of advise right there! If you're bothered it is still your problem because you're letting yourself be affected. No, I am entitled to take measures to protect my peace. I'm not playing. I used to think that I should make them block me. But they can always unblock and then abuse me some more. Why would I leave that do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:59 AM
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Omg! Thank you for this! 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:53 AM
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a boyfriend of 2 years is practically an unblemished saint. This! When I demanded tests, they always asked: "new partner, eh?" And proceeded to treat me like... I was an insatiable nympho. Otherwise I would have to pay out of pocket something for which I already pay a lot of insurance 🤡 I'm gonna tell you a story of how I landed in a pickme's cabinet after catching an sti/ std from my x. "But there are plenty of women who have it much harder than you" "Oh sweety, this is nothing" "Woken can't be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:51 AM
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And they also expect the men to be exempt from testing because of the woman had no symptoms then the man is healthy too. One of my exes: but she was fine (when taking about his ex). 🤡 They are basically tested through the woman , if that makes any sense. An obgyn refused to test me for a series of STDs and STIs "because surely the BF wouldn't have that disease!" 🤡 How would she know? I paid extra money just because she refused to write me a recommendation for the tests that could have covered it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 07:46 PM
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If they don't want to get tested together, they are hiding something. Don't play Russian roulette with your health by giving these men a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:40 PM
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It's the Mariana Trench of age gaps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:38 PM
65

But did he marry her? No. No wifey privileges for when he gets Cindy, 29.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:37 PM
26

Gee ... now might be the size of a raisin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:35 PM
10

He could pass for her grandpa 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:34 PM
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This was cute and they're definitely goals. "A little bit of give and take" , "both compromising and always caring for each other" - this is good advice as we always need to accomodate the other as long as they're willing and happy to return the favor. I've noticed they got married in plain WW2 (1941) and I'm sure he was enrolled. That must have been tough for both of them because they did not have the certainty of tomorrow. But... Can we talk how the Queen's card says Mr & Mrs Ronald Bond? Is t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 10:10 AM
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My experience, maybe it's useful to some of you: I have a very strenuous remainder with my grandmother, of all people. My parents are toxic and abusive but not too the degree granny is. It came out in a discussion with my ex. He said he was extremely attached to his grandma and was devastated when she died. I said I'm sorry for his loss and the subject was closed, at least to me. He pushed for more information since I had to visit and care for mine for a week, previously. He picked meet up from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:32 PM
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didn't you read? he's now hot shit and "making doctor money"... can you imagine building this scrote up? the higher the baboon gets in the trees, the clearer his red asshole stands out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:50 AM
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jesus! yes! I was also expected to do emotional labour for my family and give THEM money! that, besides two majors, 12h/ day and cooking, cleaning and paying for my dorm and stuff. I never got a breather. after Uni I was burned out. meanwhile, I got male colleagues who lived with their mommies and who all they had to do was "focus on their studies". their mommy waited on them with cooked warm meals and clean clothes and even cleaned their rooms and gave them pocket cash to burn. I had a pickme r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:48 AM
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kept her as a forever gf too... she was mommy bangmaid for 15 years and now he's making "doctor money" - whatever that means and thinks he's suddenly superior to her. he's a douche and she should have taken off the rose colored glasses after the 1st year. never build a scrote, never do wifey shit for a BF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:44 AM
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Or some shitty rose emoji
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:47 AM
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"girlfriends" = women who never responded after the 1st or 2nd date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:46 AM
3

They use an auto swiper? They should be using an auto wiper!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:45 AM
5

And that's supposed to be unsanitary...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:43 AM
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I've seen 18 year old women on tinder looking for a young woman (a unicorn,?🤣) for a threesome. It's usually women's profiles because men can't be arsed to procure their own. So they need their gf to lure in unsuspecting victims. All the men that wasn't threesomes do so only for themselves. They don't give a f about their partner. It's usually the partner having doubts about the relationship and being coerced into a threesome because they threaten they'll break up if they don't comply. Usually, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:50 AM
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Trauma bond = basically every other love song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:45 AM
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Maybe it's one of the male larpers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:08 PM
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Agree. My ex said the exact same things: honesty, no lies, communication. You'd think he was good at these things. Guess what? He failed at all of them! He also failed at sex but that's not my problem why more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:07 PM
12

"anything"? This man would literally fuck warmed up dog shit in a taco. Give him a chance? Run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:04 PM
37

Their heart is deep inside their ass 🤡 but they don't touch their ass, not even wiping, of fear they might turn gay. They're also homophobic fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:00 PM
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I can only hope Jolie doesn't have a romantic relationship with him like so many tabloids implied. I don't think so. She's more likely to sue him for "lips like Angelina" 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:57 PM
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She's not mine 😵 She got away 🤡 Most men sing these songs that paint them as victims, as if a woman rejecting them means she did the worst thing imaginable. Scrotes, get a grip! I remember this awful horrendous piece of crap of a song from a cheater it was blasting everywhere when I was a kid. Scrotes just lick their wounds and never take accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:56 PM
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Are they seeing what I'm seeing? 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:51 PM
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"Uplifting" in scrotalese: she's a first responder and rescuer who takes responsibility for them and does the emotional work in their stead. She's the SWAT team for when they don't want to behave like adults, she takes the reigns and smiles at them, never "making them feel" inferior. He's still her "kang" 🤮 She babies his ego but did never tells him he did wrong. Her kang can't take that. It's too much for his level of self reflection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:39 PM
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There's a saying in my country: she could, she cleans, she cares for the kids, she makes money, she pays bills, she gives sex and support and she also pees gasoline for the car. 🤡🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:35 PM
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They need mommies not wives. Next will come what? Wiping their ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:34 PM
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There was one asshole who burned his initials on female patients' wombs. I mean several. this one this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:21 PM
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I'm sorry. It must have been harsh and hard. Good you're away from him. I just wanted to add that stress affects people differently. Some gain weight and some lose it and every experience is unique. Men think that if they got you pregnant, they baby trapped you and you won't ever leave, no matter how bad it's going to get. They are wrong. Maybe a woman couldn't just leave back in the 50s but now she can ask for and get help. The times have changed a bit and this pisses them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:42 AM
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there are some personality disordered types that thrive on chaos and that need to even create chaos in a relationship "just to feel alive". I am talking about the "dead inside" men. I've been friends (no, not dated!) with such a man whose extreme cynicism and mind games made me cut tie switch him. I was very young, he was much older, I met him at a low point in my life and all that darkness resonated with me at the time. I didn't know back then about "incels" or "red pill" but now I can put thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:05 AM
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This is so true. If you claim you want casual sex they will label you as a w+++ or a s+++ or a nymphomaniac and claim it's impossible for a woman to want that. Surely we all want to be their GFs. I've been called this by a scrote who was beyond disapointing even for casual sex. I stopped the sex because it sucked but I didn't kick him out and this probably hurt his feefees. In the morning he was all passive aggressive and tried to make me feel like I was the one "who wanted him". No shit. I gath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:38 PM
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We lived walking distance to the grocery store so if I was in the middle of cooking and forgot something or they forgot something I'd just keep sending them back until they got it Yes! This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:06 PM
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"Babe" - gets closer to her, suggestively. "I'd rather shovel the whole driveway" 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:04 PM
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Right? I still remember that post where Anna Faris's ugly ex claimed his actual wife, Schwarzenegger even cuts his toenails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:02 PM
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So good she has this egghead spawn to take photos/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:00 PM
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Even the high end prostitutes that have just a few regulars need to obey to sick fantasies to keep the exclusive clients. But does a business oriented prostitute that reads books in her spare time drink piss for a living? No... She will go recruiting. It's a pyramid scheme with lady privileged at the top and some hungry, misguided runaways at the bottom. After Ghislaine Maxwell's trial we could see exactly how the head of a sex pyramid/ sex MLM looks. She's the "last with the appointed book" and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:59 AM
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sex work is prostitution. voluntary prostitutes, aka women who have other options but want to do prostitution for a living and claim they love it or the prostitutes that screech "don't ban my porn, it is my dollar" are hypocrites. the bulk of prostitutes are made of human traffic victims. I have never seen a voluntary prostitute empathize with the million of underage women and abused and trafficked women whose images have been uploaded on sites. all they are interested in is "where's my dollar".…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:41 PM
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I have a better one: it's because they think of women getting a pussy pass and stealing their places. they hate all this "affirmative action for women" in politics and in corporations. almost all these men are also racist but every xenophobe and misogynist has an eye for spotting those they deem "inferior' to them. almost all of Jordan peterson acolytes and the incel terrorists and apologists would say that the source of their lack of success in life = women. women stole their jobs! women stole …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:23 AM
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we "don't need" feminism anymore because we've achieved "equality" oh have we? this article is satire. only men would want this to be over. the only thing they like about "equality" is "equal rights, equal fights".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:17 AM
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at the first signs of sickness, men would run away, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:10 AM
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too bad the marketing relies on images of him and his costar Jennifer Lawrence as if she'd be his partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:04 AM
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Leo is positively geriatric. In don't look up he looks fat and bloated and wrinkly. there is nothing left from the boy that played Jack in the Titanic. also here's the funny reality check. men his age oops, pervs his age constantly attack teenage girls and very young adults. teenage girls - first year of college.no, they are the most attacked age group. and whenever it happens, it's like these old scrotes have their views set to this age group only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 09:01 AM
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There is a saying: helping someone who is ungrateful is like letting them f your mother. Some people don't like to be reminded they were in a vulnerable position. This is why all cases of Barb the builder backfire..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:44 PM
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I know it is satire. We do have people that put ot next to rape though. It's usually those who never even bothered to read through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:42 PM
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she will dump him, she's not in the fog anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:20 PM
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there is a dark side to oxytocin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:17 PM
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it's essential to know the hormonal fluctuations that those that get a period go through. I am definitely more reckless when ovulating. I used to have huge anxiety before my period. having that knowledge has put me a bit more in control of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:16 PM
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I don't think she does or that she is serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:55 PM
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the "Ok" at the end: scrote capitulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:54 PM
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as defense against the dark arts I love this! if the mods see this - can you please consider making a flair for it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:29 PM
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Great advice ☝️. Print it up an sick it on your walls. Just because you are a certain way, doesn't mean everyone else is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:00 PM
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All women should read 48 laws of power.Here. It's a good reminder that men are not some innocent well- intentioned beings. They love this shit. They lap it up. It's their Kool aid. Caveat: it's a psychopathic book Bonus: offers a glimpse into what most men would choose to read and learn from. If you follow Art of War, this is going to give you insight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:08 AM
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How is this the same thing🤯🤡 Male brutality is as bad as women being selective? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:00 AM
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This needs more love. In most countries, there is no obligatory draft anymore - I know for sure in EU and the US. Israel is different. Now men choose to go to war. And the consumption of such games is a reflection of a deep and violent desire. At least in enlisting for service they would do something. The scrotes that keep playing these games have never seen a trench irl. It's pathetic. War is not something fun but these scrotes think it might be because they are having fun and desensitizing the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:58 AM
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That is wild. That is fucking wild. I cackled. And he was so fucking serious too. What did he say "sorry we couldn't work it out"? I died. 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:40 AM
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Want to stop idealizing a man ?- esp for younger women: Meet with him often and sometimes unexpected and visit his place if safe to do so. Dig info on his exes and listen. He's not some chaste, spotless perfect being. He shits, he sweats and he scratches this butt and probably masturbates to fb or ig pictures. You can't know this but you should always consider it. Let him price you wrong he's a jerk, that's his job. All are jerks until proven otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:45 PM
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This is fucking sad and disappointing to read. I have been choked and I never consented. He told me: "I thought you would like that'. As if! Perhaps he encountered women who wanted that or bought into some scrotology that claims "all women like to be dominated" (by being brutalized, ofc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:38 PM
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I will not link that shit here. It's already on YouTube. If you want to find it just go on YouTube and write down CoD baby. The same works in a browser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:36 PM
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CoD is extremely problematic, addictive and violent. There's a mission called Clean House where the players can choose to shoot a baby in its mother's arms. CoD is M rated, 17+ up but we all know that there's always some 12 year old kid playing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:51 AM
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I wish I could find the original commercial on which this was based - if anyone knows, hit me up. I remember it was a 2 minute scene with "daddy goes to war" or similar, where a scared toddler is appeased by the mother as they sidestep the room in which the father is playing CoD. I think the original commercial was banned/ taken down. I had a work colleague who would constantly be late because all night he played call of duty. he was also a new dad. he would proudly tell us how he would come hom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 08:41 AM
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Many relationship advice posts are some form of fanfiction from scrotes larping as women then deciding to reply to comments pointing out the abuse that they think it's ok and that they like it. They are trolling massively these subreddits. It should never be discounted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:40 AM
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Scrote science from deep down their butt: " a lot of women initiate violence in the bedroom, akshually" 🧐 No, they don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:38 AM
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"I never said that" Pikachu face. Had literally said that 5 minutes before or in a text message... They think we're stupid and fall for they blatant gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:36 AM
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Wow. In know the case. It's been swamping tiktok a few months ago. But the last comment "you ok?"... They think it's fine flex to shut you up permanently, the same with the redditcare messages after some scrote gets sensitive and pissed. As if you having an opinion that's remotely different from theirs is in fact, a firm of "sickness,". These men grew up on porn and violence against women. And they call the ones that can them out as being "in need of help".😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:33 AM
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I'm Eastern European and according to scrotes, we are a submissive homemaker category. Men think we'll put up with everything, work and give them out salary, cook, clean, care for the kids and wait for our "king" on our knees, head bowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:25 AM
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Sunlight? He's gonna melt if you put him in the sunlight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:22 AM
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He's old and ugly and a famous never of the Coppola family. She's young and pretty... And I've never heard of her until today. He's 30 years her senior. We all know why he's with her: trophy wife + baby. She's no more than a pretty incubator for his middle aged genes. I wish I hadn't seen this. It's so prevalent and reinforces to scrotes the idea that they peak in their 50s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:21 AM
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Guess what, that's what my pickme self would say after having been presented with a man that never contributes. Don't swallow this lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:17 AM
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happy b-day sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:15 PM
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I am starting to think that these men haven't interacted with women too much IRL. I am also starting to think that if a man got his idea of how women are from pornography, then it's no wonder they are so critical and think that's the average woman. the enhanced, tanned, blond, slim and pretty object that's ready to fall on their knees and satisfy them sexually. oh... and white, mostly, because porn is racist too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:45 PM
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it's gonna be year of the tiger rawwwr, February 1st 🐯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:27 PM
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Good point☝️ I would go as far as to say that if he's talking too much about the ex.. then it's time you take a hint. Happened to me. In both instances, they were not over the ex or resented her deeply/ hated her and had fantasties of revenge on her and projected this on me . Some men will get into new relationships and look instead for all placeholder for their ex in all aspects. It's definitely unhealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:27 PM
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Count the red flags! What happens when you set boundaries with a narcissist the best thing: they leave you ​ the worst: they insist and try to manipulate their way back and make you look like the bad one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:11 PM
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in their mid twenties, some men can look like they are 30 or 30+. this includes: baldness, beer belly, deep wrinkles, bad posture. I have seen too many men with scoliosis and bow legs who walk as if they have shat their pants or who toe walk and do nothing to correct it. not to mention terrible skin and bad teeth. men don't care about their bodies. they buy axe shampoo/shower gel, 7 in 1 product and would rather get implants than wash their teeth regularly to prevent cavities. of course, they al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:06 PM
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in scrotalese, that means he is ugly and unkempt and looks 10 years older. men always overvalue themselves. women are way too critical of their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:59 PM
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he is stringing her along because he has absolutely no intention to marry her. let's be honest here. if he wanted to marry her, within 3 years, they would be married. even as uni students, they could get married - if their love was so great. he's with her because he doesn't want to be single. that's his only reason. she's a forever gf who will be cheated on and dumped in her 30s if she doesn't wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:58 PM
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yet more dangerous is a man who knows how to behave as if he's not dangerous but he is dangerous.... ugh! no abuser will slap you on the first date or tell you that all their exes ended up in therapy and with low self-esteem. they will push the charisma to the max and rope you in and gauge your reactions so they can get you invested and then brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:53 PM
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Every time a woman expresses a standard like “I need flowers gifted to me consistently” or “he needs to open doors for me and pay for dates” if only every woman would express this! but we didn't. we said instead " oh, you forgot my b-day? oh, it's fine." How many of you went half on everything, but would still buy small thoughtful gifts for your partners constantly? if only! if only I went half but more modern for scrotes is to pretend they cannot hear the clerk asking for their card or to say: …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:21 AM
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Now they satisfy their thirst for violence by watching violent porn and committing violence on the women they "date". Psychological violence as well as physical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 06:13 AM
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The good old days with drafts would have ensured that after 2 years of marriage they would be widowed. Alas... The mortality is lower these days .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 11:14 PM
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Yeah but he'll provide you with gaslighting and domestic slavery... STDs, marital drama and cheating with a woman half your age. Why won't you want that? Doesn't it sound appealing? 🤯🤡🦐 Why are you so picky!? He has a job!!!! And he washes his own plate! Obviously satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 11:12 PM
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It's a pickme writte article judging solely on the photo: "oh look, an old man in his decrepit home office only in his yellow stained underwear! He needs a woman's touch to have a decent, socially stirred life! A live in bang maid that offers her free labor!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 11:08 PM
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Single women, meanwhile, earn the same as they did 30 years ago, but those with partners have increased their earnings by 50%. Found the actual problem. Forget about men getting sorry for themselves they're single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:59 PM
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"I am 46 and in my prime" Only if mumified. Like a flower in antifreeze or glycerin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:37 PM
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Men only peak in one area: geriatric complaints.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:35 PM
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What was I thinking before?! 😂 Who even teaches us to "train" red flags out of men?! Those (in)famous male dating coaches and those horrible cosmo articles: "how to guess what's on his mind"🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:19 PM
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In truth, after FDS, men have become more tolerable to me because I have the confidence of boundaries. I'm literally doing them a favor by vetting and ending things after finding and interpreting the red flags. The red flag is now not a task for me to twist into a pretzel and make things work. No thanks. I can work on myself and my finances or hobbies instead. It really is a huge and positive change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:39 PM
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Yes 100% they have agency and access to information. Not excusable.👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:35 PM
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Glad to see this type of content. As usual, it's super useful! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:51 AM
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I think he rated himself already, embraced the RP & incel propaganda and drank the cool aid. he's thinking of himself as a 6.8/10. pathetic mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:19 AM
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I hope she makes her own news agency one day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:18 AM
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he's got a -53 just for the shitty attitude ​ that's a below negative sir!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:17 AM
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a sheltered bumpkin who has never tried eggs their way you mean fried in burnt oil with pieces of eggshell? that was how one ex tried to demonstrate to me that he had no idea to cook and I should do it instead (weaponized incompetence).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:13 AM
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but when women said it a long time ago, it falls on deaf ears because of a culture of mansplaining because of a falsely perceived "male authority" encouraged by a patriarchal society (just by being male, a person is perceived as having more authority or power) Women are often assumed to be ignorant and unintelligent, at least compared to men. (Cookman, 2015). the psychology of mansplaining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:11 AM
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good quality post, OP! this is sound advice! how many of us have been there, I wonder? me? I have been there: made to think that it was okay to accept whatever was on the menu. why would a man insist you date him then only be able to see you once a week? what are you? the Friday friend? if men can't be dedicated 100% to a relationship, guess what: they shouldn't ask for one! oh... it's sex they're after and they call that a relationship.... boy, you're in for some news. it's not. sex does not a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:02 AM
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Truth: a man that doesn't spend 2h every single fucking day working out will not appreciate a woman that does. If he looks like a burger with warmed up salad wtf are you doing, woman? Do you think that a man that never worked out gives a shit that you do pilates every morning? Or a man with overdue haircut and unintentionally scruffy look will appreciate that you're polished? Or a man that literally tried to fuck a taco will appreciate that you're toned? Do you fucking think he appreciates any o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:54 AM
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It's frightening that in Korea the word "feminism" has negative connotations because some politicians there don't do their reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:25 AM
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Honestly, all age gap, unbalanced power dynamics that end up with people having sex are a freaking bad idea. Those men were raped but they are too brainwashed to see it. This is why they don't empathize with female victims either. They learned to see it as a good thing, they can't imagine it would be otherwise for another person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:46 PM
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One is from a guy I don't like, the other is a guy whose credit card I found while I was hiking and who is, to this day 'eternally grateful' - too bad he's old enough to be my dad and the other is some Arab fuckboy looking for pussy away from home. Leaving all of them on read is the best I can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:45 AM
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Seen too many men that finished college with girlfriends in the first year of highschool. That shit is too normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:13 PM
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I have the same aversion : to barely-an-adult men because I put myself in their shoes and to older men because they're perverted and can't take a hint. I would find it repulsive to even touch an (-)18(+) year old < "mentally still a kid" person. I prefer people my age, + or -4 years at most. It makes my skin crawl. I remember how gross those teachers that abused male students really are. Yeah, I understand teenage boys are horny etc but this doesn't mean an adult should profit off their mental i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:11 PM
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was him yelling at him next you find her on AITA asking: AITA for telling my BF that yelling at me hurts my feelings? and I was sure to find the BDSM/ kinkster defender telling her it's perfectly nAtUrAl and that it's FaNtAsY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 01:30 PM
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I got 3 "good morning beautiful, it's 2022" from 3 assholes. left them all on read. I know it's 2022, ffs. the low effort just made me snigger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 01:28 PM
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He even made comments about white men using WOC prostitutes. Yes, he's white (she is too). And yes I'm a WOC. don't know about the J names but something tells me he has visited prostitutes because no GF would satisfy his depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 01:17 PM
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She acted different with him even saying she had "dark humor". your friend is already making excuses for him. you could try sending her a FDS meme or something targeting this, maybe she wakes up one day, who knows? from experience, I know that if she is getting in too deep with him, he will turn her against you. that's the worst red flag that she is actually entering an abusive relationship. I have been there too, in your friend's place and I did not react well at all when my friend pointed out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 01:15 PM
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🚩Whenever I'd insert a comment, he'd roll his eyes, mock me, or tell me to listen because he wasn't finished talking. After a few attempts I stopped trying. He did the same thing if my friend tried having an aside conversation. If I spoke - he looked at her and made faces at me. 🚩🚩🚩🚩The real kicker is she's 28 and he's 45 🤡🤡. I shit you not. They work at the same company and met when she was hired. when i read he made faces at you, I thought he was a 15 year old pimply kid. I am sorry. It was a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 12:02 PM
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Women are starting to wake up from this matrix bs. Red pill my ass. As if we have a choice once we've experienced violence from men to still put on our rose colored glasses. We are not stupid. And they are getting mad and madder that we can't go back to the slumbering state we were in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:34 AM
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I think they troll to make women seem like they see them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:42 AM
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It amuses me that they try to equate women who refuse to engage with this type of men to the men that go on to commit violence because they cannot get laid because they secretly and not so secretly hate women. That is a problem. That is a huge problem that the patriarchal society refuses to acknowledge it has created and encouraged. First of all, it encouraged misogyny. Secondly, it always treated women as 2nd class citizens. And it's the same society that encouraged some mouthbreader as they gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:07 AM
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Didn't you know? One does not simply ask a confused person that posts on relationship advice to join the dark side🖤 Also, I tend to think that most women on RA might actually be men who like to troll. Too many OP replies with: "thanks for all your advice and for telling me to leave my abusive bf and for minutiously pointing out he's abusive and how but I think I'll stay in this bad relationship because he's the breadwinner and I suddenly love him and I suddenly like violence, especially in bed u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:55 AM
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these days they will just get a tattoo or a branded t-shirt that says "feminist" and will ask women in bars to sleep with them, just like in the snl sketch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:38 PM
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only allow the most watered down, feel-good 'feminism' that doesn't make men feel too bad. spot on. I honestly love another sub called nametheproblem. we know who and what the problem is. all the other "fem" subs cannot point at the elephant in the room. it's just gaslighting: "maybe if you communicate better"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:35 PM
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gee OP - it's not worth the hassle on reddit. of course you didn't do anything wrong but it's a witch hunt. they want to silence women down because they know we are right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:31 PM
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I usually would disappear when some of them would bring their babies at work. They just expect other women to coo and aaaah over their baby. Why? I find babies ugly. I told one of them: "your baby looks just like you" and she said "you're mistaken, it looks like my husband.'🤣 okurrrr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:44 PM
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this is why we don't stay "friends" with exes. I never understood why they would ask me that: "let's stay friends? insert cringeworthy wink"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:45 AM
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men also like to claim they don't catch feelings easy. so maybe that's them sampling the sexual pantry and shitting all over the emotional investment you wasted on their "friendship".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:44 AM
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starts talking about how he has found that sleeping with his friends has been a way for him to deepen his connection with the people in his life. Another way to show love you don't need to fuck someone to "deepen" the connection, sir. I always heard that sex ruins friendships. Once a man enters that territory he is either a boyfriend or a future something-something. there is no in-between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:42 AM
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And he probably feels needed. Her weakness makes him feel manly, a protector, a provider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:30 PM
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I think this is the caveat of dating divorced men. It's good he wants to be in the kids' lives, don't you think? You have to accept it or move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:29 PM
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At my previous place of employment, older women who had kids would talk only about their husbands and their kids. I mean, they talked primarily about that. They were all also married so there is that. I have no right to judge them. It can get annoying when they start showing you 10 videos in row of their pride and joy and you're not as touched as they are. I hanged out with the younger crowd, me being the youngest but as we got older some of us decided to reproduce. It did have a negative effect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:25 PM
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It's always good to have a deadline for "working things out". I prefer an honest man, so if he claims he is, he will prove it on no time. You either like someone or you do not. It's something easy to imagine: do you see yourself with them or not? Anything on between, any indecision is just a masked "I like her but I think I deserve better so I'll just hang around her until my dream girl appears". I mean I can tell whether I like a man within the first 10 minutes that we meet. The worst you can d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:24 AM
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narc gaze to me is when they keep their eyes on you all the time, eyes wide open like they're a predator watching their prey. this gaze is hollow, emotionless, very similar to the "I am dead inside" pornsick gaze. I swear you feel it when you're subjected to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:14 PM
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my question is: she said yeah it's over and that she doesn't want to be friends. why the f is he still there, talking to her!?!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:01 PM
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he sure is worth all her therapy sessions after he's done with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:59 PM
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men need other men to treat women like shit so they could have a free pass at being super low effort and collect the praise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:57 PM
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today I found a list I made from my previous relationship. it was with things he hated so I would keep them in mind. Imagine how many fucks he actually gave about me: zero. I once asked him about my favorite color. he looked sheepish and said I dunno, blue, maybe? my favorite food: I dunno. my favourite season: ugh.... why are you asking me this, as if I care? and after a session of that, I too would have been a walking talking pickmeisha if the bubble didn't burst. after being treated like crap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:55 PM
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He was planning on doing it after academy, but because she brought it up and because he cared about her, he made his move because he didn’t want her to feel like this woman feels. the girl worth having won't wait for anybody in a nutshell. I detest the lack of decisiveness in men. if he's not planning marriage in a year, max 2 years since he met you he doesn't want you. all he cares about is to use you as a woman to get to another woman. the famous branch swinger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:50 PM
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I am sure about that too. all the dates probably led to sex at his place and all the communication probably revolved around planning for when he'll smash next time. she was just a FWB with no return benefits. sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:47 PM
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she did all the things people do in relationships (talking every day, being there for each other, going on dates) + had sex with him ​ he tells her he does not want a relationship and does all the things people do when they're in a relationship ​ she's the one confused. he only wanted steady supply of sex like you get in a relationship and all the relationship benefits without the commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:45 PM
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after all the pain and shit I have been through with men I learned some things: -never lend money unless I want to lose them -never lend books unless I want to lose them -never do free labour for a man unless I want it to be a thankless job -never pay and give them more than I afford to lose - treat men the way they are, not the way I wish them to be (this is the hardest part and I can explain if necessary)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:19 AM
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she should keep the PS for herself and call him to her house to watch her play and make her a sandwich. I would do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:16 AM
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I have nothing against games, really. I do enjoy them there, I said it. but what is annoying the hell out of me is that men who say they are gamers are in reality capitalist consumers and timekillers and use gaming as a form of escapism because their life is so shitty and disgusting (my ex, for example). they do not know about stuff deeper than what's popular or what other scrote plays on twitch. their taste in games is pathetic too. I mean, there is very little brain matter involved when all yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:15 AM
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wanna bet she is the one that bought the tree and put ornaments in it as well? that she's the one that also swiped the floor clean? that she also made dinner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:05 AM
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branch swinger this term is valid and shall be used from now on! *added to my dictionary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:03 AM
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Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away? been subjected to 2 splits like these. in both cases they had some side woman that mysteriously popped next to them on IG and in FB stories the very next day. I mean, my last ex sent me a photo of him just 2 days before we split. at first it was just a photo of him smoking in a garden and there was a dog by his feet. he use dto send me often photos like these. but after the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:00 AM
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b-but they like it in porn. the moment they touch dick they're in heavenz! how can you tell me porn is not real sex, grrrr?! I've come to realize that men shaped by porn really are emotionally stunted and incapable of seeing women as human beings. they really are of no worth to me. I reject them all. if for the lurking scrotes, seeing women as humans comes with great difficulty, you have a problem and it's your obligation to fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:54 AM
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nah, we don't need to be f***ked and then forgotten- they even admitted it. tell me you get in a relationship because you only want sex. tell me you equate sex to having a relationship. a sexual relationship, sure, but this is not a long term, get old together type of thing. you see, pornsick men are obsolete to me. community dick is obsolete to me. hobosexual men are obsolete to me. they are bad in bed. like bad-bad. no, I am not even trying to be mean here, just objective. for how obsessed wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:35 AM
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yeah, you need mental help because how dare you point out their petty manipulation? a woman that sees the truth is crazy in their eyes where I think that it's crazy to put up with men's insanity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:15 PM
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the honeymoon phase should not be over. that's just some breadcrumbing abuser shit they spew so they can be low effort with a free pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:04 PM
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to be someone that is iron-clad with her boundaries and standards, take no shit from people and willling to walk away the instant something is off, and don't mind dropping men like hot stones if you aren't satisfied with him. I like this. A relationship is work but most importantly, work on yourself never stops. Emotional hygiene and mental health go hand in hand. Are you willing to compromise just because you put so much hard work? If you don't enforce consequences, you're just a doormat. I see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:03 PM
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IDK why you are all so surprised by this. I have real life examples of people that got married and they hate each other's guts too. since when does marriage equate love!? marriage is a contract and if it's not beneficial to a woman, she shouldn't say yes, she should get out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:59 PM
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in a nutshell: if he wanted to, he would. now repeat after me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:01 AM
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huh? I try to see your point but all this ensures is that from now on, when he does and gives something, she will compensate by giving and buying something too. so she wouldn't feel indebted. this is bound to backfire. we as women need to learn to receive. we do very poorly in that aspect. I know I did. can we just accept a gift and just say thank you? can we just accept a dinner date and he pays and we say thank you only once? LE: also, if he gifts us something and we do not like it, we should …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:00 PM
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say thank you and smile and that's it. I say you shouldn't gift him anything because honestly... now you need to pay more attention to vet for lovebombing. I am not saying you should be paranoid and interpret every gesture. just be clear headed. if for you it is too soon for gifts, don't give any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:46 PM
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Make sure if you’re dating an employer, or a teacher of yours in any way, that he isn’t treating you the same as everyone else. girl, what? ​ date a teacher? as a student? fuck nah! ​ date your male boss, as his direct underling? hell nah! come on, sis, we can do better than that! ​ being a boss/ teacher to an employee/ student is already an imbalanced relationship. the power dynamic is never in the employee/ student's favour. and if things go sour, do you think you'll still be working/ studying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:42 PM
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If you date down, I will be upset. don't do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:34 PM
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I mean he might be one of those gross geriatrics men on tinder that pose with a dead fish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:33 PM
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"b-but she looked 18. she had a womanly body that spoke directly to my scrotaceous perversions. and it's her fault I wanna bang her. surely she must be legal! she was soooo mature." old scrotes always rationalize their perversities. they always seem to forget that they are old and scrotey and they always seem to hit on teenagers and women who are never even interested in them. it's like these men have zero self-awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:31 PM
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entitled male finds out he is not the center of the universe. gasp! entitled male thinks that this woman's whole self-esteem hangs by his compliment. ​ "but I was just complimenting her" fucking clown Sir, you're 58, you should be looking for retirement homes not compliment teenage girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:26 PM
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because all women are good for is being incubators for men's genes and having nice, desirable bodies, hairless and tanned, just like in the porn he's used to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:23 AM
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She's pregnant. I have a bad feeling that he's testing waters to see how much she will accept just because she "can't just leave". But I honestly think that people who come back home to the family/ partner and limit the few hours they have left to spend with their SO because of work-related issues are stupid. Men who constantly have a bad day at work have a problem and they could address it guess where .. ? At work with their boss and their colleagues. 🤡I bet good cash that that clown does not d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:05 AM
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All the questions my nvx had for me followed his long tirade as how he thinks his ex cheated on him. He asked me: and you? How many you've been with? I want to know the details. 🤡 That is all he cared about. Some time in the relationship I asked him: what's my favorite color. He didn't even answer. He pretended he didn't hear. That's the level of interest he had for me. He was more interested in what I could do for him then in my person. Meanwhile, I had my ears talked off with his dislikes and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:56 AM
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she's not impressed by his $4 tip? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:45 AM
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I just realized that men never teach other men, or boys, how to swing a baseball bat or a golf club by sliding up behind them and mimicking the swing. In a scrote's words: "that's gay".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:43 AM
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Yes, I don't care. IDGAF for real. It's time women live their best life and be the architects of it for once. Men who want to be picked but have nothing that it takes for a stable and wholesome relationship should just screech into the void because no woman wants to be the receptacle of their childhood trauma and scrotey genes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:42 AM
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Idk how these men are, how they even exist. When my ex yelled at me because he had a bad day at work, it was over. I've had good days and bad days but I never acted upon them with people who have nothing to do with my work, ffs The only intelligence I aim towards is to continue to be able to separate the 2 lives: personal and work. Having a bad day at work is a shit excuse. This is never a good reason. If you're stupid enough to bring work problems at home, you're fucking stupid. There, I said i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:39 AM
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From a bookshop in my country that I visited with the NVX.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:29 AM
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sometimes it's men's other people's limitations that hold us down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:14 PM
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I have several gifts that I bought for LVX and never offered. Some are still in their package. I could use them, as they are quite practical. I also have a Marcus Aurelius luxury edition. I think I'll read that, as LVX can borrow some from the public library of he wants to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 09:49 AM
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he is The Provider℠! he provides her with extra dishes to clean, extra dirt to clean, extra clothes to fold and iron, extra bills to be paid along with her rent. he also provides her with the wonderful experience of gaslighting, manipulation and a hands on approach to weaponized incompetence. ​ and also UTIs, BV, more chances to get yeast, STDs and a pregnancy. ​ he is The Provider℠! and that's unquestionable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:50 AM
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he's looking for a mommy mcbangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:46 AM
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Not everything is about them but being LV, they take everything personally because their narcissism comes with hypersensitivity (and not the good kind).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:28 AM
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It's the usual narcissistic sour grapes situation. When they know they cannot achieve something, they throw with dirt and shit on the other person.. To me, it just reinforces the fact that they're LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:25 AM
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I honestly.... Who tf wants to be equal to men?🤡 As if that's all I'm aspiring for in life 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:35 PM
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Look. Yeah, he's rich, he's paying the bills, he's saying he keeps fit but this doesn't make him a HVM. The pilot said his main wife was a hot hotel hostess. He's been with her driven mainly by lust, not cherishing her. What would make someone start a second family? Finding lust and novelty in a younger woman. Despite all the sex his wife would give him. He used to send his main wife dick pics and molds of his penis ffs. No matter how much sex or attention she would give, he was bored. No matter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 08:07 PM
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you can read it because it's still up. she was talking with someone online. she cheated emotionally... meanwhile he went on to have a whole second family behind her back, while still married to her. it's a real shitshow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:05 PM
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they are two different users. yellow ( pilot with foreign younger women) and red (banker with "Thai girl") funny, that yellow decided to comment on red's post about how he made an oopsie and started a "second family" and how he doesn't see it as a mistake because his wife didn't do certain sexual acts despite being, as he tells the readers "his best friend". it's a shit show, a train wreck and a SNAFU dramedy all rolled into one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:51 PM
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interesting as I have read on here a lot of posts and confessions by scrotes who practice sex tourism to Thailand and complained that the women impregnated themselves with used condoms, especially if they were white and seemed rich. these women would try to get in touch afterwards for child support or to obtain some favour but of course, were met with silence. yes, some are scammers but if these women really had a choice, they wouldn't even have to do it. Rose and big Ed from 90 days fiance come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:36 PM
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He refers to his American wife as "his main wife". 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:20 AM
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Ay 😂ay🤣 ay 🤣 he refers to her as the "Thai girl". I've gathered a timeline from his posts so she was 20 when she met her white corrupt American savior. Besides being on a job there, he decided to mix business with pleasure, added in some sex tourism. His workplace should be notified... Especially since they paid his travel fee for "work" in Thailand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:18 AM
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He started cheating on her long before her 'emotional affair' but hey... Double standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:58 AM
12

great insight from a great woman! RIP bell hooks (1952 - 2021)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:06 AM
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gravy train ftw! when are you going to create the sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:04 AM
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i am in and I think wallet witches is a super cool name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:02 AM
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My mom of course said, “well, boys will be boys!” Ew. well... of course she is an enabler. Same with my mother, only she dared say in front of me about a teen male rapist: "poor boy, now his life will be very hard." I was a teenager back then and I have been SAd by a family acquaintance. Should I mention that he doesn't want to acknowledge it to this day and says: "we don't talk about that!' I guess... yeah... for an enabling pickme, boys will be boys. as for your question, it all depends... I'd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:58 AM
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you can block the reddit cares, btw. because reddit does actually NOT care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:52 AM
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oh yes... because telling on them is a sign of "illness" on my part. that's just another scrote tactic to silence women. men have been doing this silencing for millennia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:51 AM
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I tried dating someone who thought feminism meant female supremacy. I brushed it off at first and explained to him. but he didn't accept my explanation. let's say things didn't go well. others might say: he told you who he was then and there and you refused to believe it and thought you could educate him. I was a clown. when someone tells you who they are, believe them. if that's not something you wish to put up with, dump them. it's not our job to educate adults who refuse to educate themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:50 AM
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these are men in their 40s we're talking about. If I am not mistaken one expressly mentions he's 48 years old... I mean... it doesn't take a genius to catch up on the fact that they are, in fact, shit fathers. I've gone through all those posts and honestly... the comments are chef's kiss. ​ NVM logic; "I've come clean and apologized, now why won't they take me back uwu?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:28 AM
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malignant narcissism. will deny their kids winter clothes but will gladly give a hobo $100. ​ example: my own father, the grandiose narc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:32 AM
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Maximum risk, minimum reward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:17 PM
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the tea is scalding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:05 AM
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Girrrrl ... They all say they don't know how to cook but surely none of them is starving. Men only care about themselves. I pity those women who think that without their efforts the man will somehow suffer or starve. He's not a child. If he's old enough to f, he's old enough to cook. I went on a date with a school teacher when I was freshly out of college. I was hungry so I bought myself a burger and a salad and ate in front of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:13 AM
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Or everything is a competition to check who has the douchiest husband or the most incompetent. "Oh, you should see my hubby. I asked him to clean the kid's clothes. He put bleach and ruined then, poor thing. He's so cute when he didn't know what to do in the house and I feel like a superhero all the time"🤡🍟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:53 AM
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I've sent this article before. I'll do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:50 AM
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Oh my gosh! They know they are doing it! Lots of men complaining that she's telling on them! ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:49 AM
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It is a trap. He thinks that if he trapped her with a baby and keeps her busy with picking his dirty socks off the floor, that she'll never be able to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:48 AM
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Girl, I hope I'm 2022 you get rid of him. I was looking for an article about how women who live and work with men don't fare that well as women who live and work with other women. I didn't find it again but it exists somewhere. I work with lots of men and they are fucking lazy and stupid. And my stress levels increased since I chenged my job. I also noticed that they would love to put the blame on me for their stupidity as well. It's weaponized incompetence at the workplace, not then necessarily…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:43 AM
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almost ended up there myself. my ex began treating me like his personal assistant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:07 PM
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breakin-mom? there's a lot of women self-blaming for being baby trapped out there... but then there are also the ones that make it look like it's a competition with the other moms to see who picked up the most socks discarded on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:06 PM
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it's all about the weaponized incompetence and men behaving as if they need treats for doing what adults should do: take the trash, wash the dishes, put the dirty clothes in the basket...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:27 PM
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I think my friend is still in denial about the extent of her abuse but she's in therapy. I started to doubt that her new boyfriend is the HVM she brags about... I found out he made her move to the countryside and she doesn't know anyone in that place. she is 100% isolated, doesn't drive, but has internet because she works from home. ever since she got with him, she ditched all her friends. there are women who forget about their friends and then remember them back but only when they have no man. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:12 PM
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Girl, glad you didn't and it seems you found someone that supports your dreams. Happy for you and congrats!!!!! here's some random strangers kudos to you! to y'all in school/ uni/ other forms of eductaion: don't lose your heart and more importantly, don't lose your head after some man. if he does not support your dreams, doesn't let you study, doesn't let you sleep, never helps you out and always sabotages your finals/ theses/ projects/ job applications.... YOU gotta RUN, girl! RUN! we are happy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:06 PM
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I am a survivor of a man trying to sabotage me to fail my Masters (he went so low as to threaten suicide if I stop talking to him). Instead I graduated with honours. My friend, who was in her 20 lived with a 40 year old rapist and abuser throughout her doctoral studies abroad. he took all her money and isolated her. made her give him his savings then stole from her to buy a plane ticket and go back home only to return afterwards and abuse her some more. she got her PhD, got to teach but he left …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 03:02 PM
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exactly. you have identified the exact approach that is used in other subs. it's fine that women complain - but god forbid that they name the problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:48 PM
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according to libfems, women didn't exist before 1960s either. they were called whamen. all those factory workers in industrial-era Europe, all exploited and underpaid... they were just whamen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:25 AM
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I think most of those subs are alive and doing pretty well. rape porn and rape subs exist while radfem subs are considered hateful. we live in such a complicated world...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:27 PM
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yeah, it's liek women ther etoo are afraid to point out the elephant in the room. everything goes unless it directly points the finger at men and their sexism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:26 PM
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didn't you know that you cannot mention the root cause for women's misery? oh my!!!!! al 'feminist" libtard subs have male mods. the only real way is radical intersectional feminism. there are no in-betweens. women for women, not women for male egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:23 PM
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Therapy? You see your kid is depressed and behaves strangely. What do you do? You ignore it 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:20 AM
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11? So her parents .. what did they do? Did they consider it educational? ☠️ She was also homeschooled. Ffs ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:42 AM
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men: porn makes my pp bad; better get live action with girls uwu ugh. how shallow. how about, porn: literally ruins women's lives and is a precursor to trafficking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:43 PM
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as I was reading this, I was struck by an idea. we need pussy corporation. that way, we'll get the value we demand $$$$$$$$$$$$. men got used to give zero for access to sex from their fwbs/gfs/ wives/ concubines and they keep getting worse. they even feel entitled to it ad the women feel pressured to give it. at this point, a prostitute gets more value for her time than a wife who lies down and thinks of England multiple time as day while her husband pushes several times into her body and ejacul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:38 PM
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but wait ! if we were to ask the question and add "would you date fat/ugly/ disabled woman" instead, I bet they will be given a free pass to say no. double standards, double standards everywhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:38 PM
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mid-read I almost expected the contrary. glad it wasn't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:35 PM
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The DAY the Criminal Investigator placed the final report on the Attorney General’s desk for review— the Ex filed stalking and harassment charges against me! 😳 big DARVO vibes but girl... he broke your wrists! I'd have that piece of trash castrated yakuza style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:30 PM
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men overestimate themselves and the attention from a beautiful women makes them overconfident. this is why we should never go for under-looks. ​ my ex was by all standards below average. sure, he had an ok body, but NOTHING special. if you ask me, he had a tendency to grow a gut. he was of average height and if I wore my platform heels, I would be slightly taller than him. he broke his nose numerous times and he had a deviated septum. in the looks department, his face SUCKED ass. he even wondere…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:23 PM
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you have brightened this sub with your art! I love you! ​ uuuuuuuuuu!!!!! love love love all your contributions!!!! thank you for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:18 PM
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#breadcrumbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:16 PM
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how crazy it is that women everywhere need a code to deal with men who harass them. meanwhile the dirty unwashed asses hordes of men who screech "not all men" continue to ignore this fact. women need to be protected FROM men not by men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:15 PM
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in short, men think women who do porn or prostitution or OF do not value themselves/ are less valuable ​ but also men: porn is empowering for women! ​ WHICH ONE IS IT, SIR? PICK ONE! ​ ALSO: "OF/ Insta girls/showing your body for money is not relationship material" but men who consume OF/ jack off to Insa girls/ watch porn should somehow be tolerated because it's nAtUrAl? ​ the (il)logical sex strikes again and it does not deserve: a) your attention b) your pussy c) your empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:09 PM
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true. whenever I see male posters in female-centric subs, I chuckle bitterly. they want a pat on the head just because they're men. they always claim their views are equitable. it's always this fear in the female posters that if they call things by their name, then their post will be removed. because "w-what about the meeeen uwu?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:07 PM
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I have been BANNED from dating, relationship and ALLEGED "fEmInIsT" subreddits for even suggesting that women have EYES that SEE and that attractive males are hot. LITERAL bans. this is so true. it's like we are not allowed to say we are not attracted to someone without making it seem like our fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:51 PM
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I think the main trigger for them is the fact that they cannot post here. there is something about female=-only spaces that rubs them the wrong way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:49 PM
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I bet he sent the same to 20 other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 05:22 PM
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if you chase, they automatically categorize you as "desperate", their ego gets inflated to the moon and they will take every chance to treat you poorly. ​ your choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:15 AM
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I love t his, it cracked me up. especially the >your time is ticking, you're almost 30 ​ Sir/ Goblin, I hit 30 and it is wonderful. Speak for yourself! your time is ticking; you're 55 and you want "kids someday" also you claim to be "young at heart, almost 18", as if your immaturity could somehow compensate for your saggy unwashed ass. ​ oh scrotes... ole scrotes... still scrotes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:12 AM
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Exactly. The last thing they want is for their partner to get better. There in the same category are the ones that create and enable addictions in their partner that will literally destroy then (meth smokers come to mind, feederism, "wife-sharing/prostituting" and many more)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:44 AM
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I didn't see any bitchiness either. I just think that women expect to be seen as bitchy if they are not agreeable and all-welcoming or if they assert their preferences from the start (in her case, what she doesn't tolerate).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:23 PM
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I don't think he even paid any rent 😂 yes it's too generous. Even 3 days would be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:59 PM
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100% he approached her first, he sent her a Facebook friend request. she was barely healing from a dark period in her life - People article She added: “Because I got so sick, I let him in, and he only knew me … at my worst. And he accepted me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:17 PM
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this is a fragment from a post from some years ago. the woman's boyfriend burns the candle that her late sister gifted her, knowing very well it would be hurtful for her. that candle was handmade by her sister and she cherished it very much; it was the last project they did together. her boyfriend knew about that; everybody knew about that, yet he chose to specifically burn that candle, when she had ten others. he then proceeds to display passive aggressive behavior, deny his guilt and finally l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:02 PM
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we all know men watch adult content and most have been doing so since going through puberty. why force them to stop becuase you're insecure? what the F did I just read? insecure? more like... why are we not encouraging the humiliation parade of trafficked and degraded women? so men now come with pornography addiction and if we point it out we're isnecure? who is the clown here? this girl forgot her big red nose!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:04 PM
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wtf is the Sunny he mentions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:59 PM
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Bumbling Ryan, more likely. 🤡 Oh yes, unfortunately, men judge our behavior as much as we judge theirs or we should at least. They come up with the these crazy theories: -watch how she eats, if she eats a lot she's not good because she'll get fat etc. -watch how she's reacts when you order for her whatever you like They still try to get away without paying for a date they invited her on but they expect to be given a pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:13 PM
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There's a saying: don't chase after a bus and don't chase after a man. There will come another one. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:06 PM
4

Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:04 PM
15

cake was foam & came along w/ the decor. I am laughing but this is the most tragic thing I've seen in a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:33 PM
7

what does L stand for? Lies? and W for Wins?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:31 PM
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If women needed male validation to survive, we would all be dead by now, the whole species. Sis believed these lies. She needs to wake up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:43 AM
8

Never date based on potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:19 AM
5

You don't have to start low to go up. I'm Eastern European too but men these days have no desire to do the right thing by a woman. Read the handbook and level up. It's not your job to build him up. Your job is to find someone on your level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:18 AM
11

No therapist in their right mind would agree that bdsm is on par with therapy. Bdsm is an excuse to abuse women these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:35 AM
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Keep them coming, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:33 AM
21

The same with asking women's fathers first for their daughter's hand in marriage. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:32 AM
13

Awesome point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:30 AM
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The incel terrorism of 1989. Sad to hear about this ad how would to just about anything to quell female progress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:06 AM
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“It’s hard to imagine a more vulnerable adult than the victim in this case,” said Superior Court Judge Margaret LaBianca, adding that Sutherland exploited his position of trust as a caregiver to sexually abuse the victim. So why was this piece of shit offered a plea bargain? Was it that hard for the prosecution to prove that he's guilty? Especially since she gave birth in a vegetative state and it could have easily be proven that the "baby" was his. Before the punishment was handed down, Sutherl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:46 AM
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some of my girlfriends are with men (pickmeishas) and they split rent and some of them cannot seem to live alone because, as they say, "it's easier to live when you share stuff with someone". uh-huh - sure, when you feel like you have to prostitute yourself or else you won't have a quiet night because he shouts for sex from the other room. it makes me sick. I would rather go without than have to think I have to have a man just so I can have 5 extra hundreds in my pocket. Ever since I finished Un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:51 PM
53

he is sweet and attentive exactly because he works a minimum wage job. :) when he upgrades on the jo department, and mooches as much as possible from you, he would have ditched you for a clueless younger woman who works a menial job for the minimum wage SO HE CAN FEEL SUPERIOR ONCE IN HIS LIFE. I know this type, they silently resent you. been there, done that. if he can't afford a vacation for you both or a luxury item for you as a present, why is he there? to be given stuff, attention and made …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:43 PM
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funny how men realize they're not ready for a relationship after they did relationship stuff with you... like plan vacations together and concerts for next year, meeting their grandma in the hospital, their friends and their family. oh, not to mention the sex and literally living together for weeks. ​ but I guess they are't ready so.... block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:48 AM
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Link it, post it, pin it, slap it for all to see. I for one, am very interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:31 AM
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Oh my gosh, OP... That quora post says everything. I hate how men defend him and call her "not having a right to judge". So porn to them is like romcoms to us? If that's the case then incompatibility 💯 from day 1. What a stretch, what clowns they are🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:29 AM
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I love your art! It's on point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:25 AM
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I doubt men look at a romcoms. They look at porn. Women who get brainwashed by romcoms + men who look at porn= relationship advice material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:10 AM
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Yeah, what you described there in the first part is your usual romcom. Be it literature or film, it's always in the realm of the bombastic and unrealistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:08 AM
11

M/W in this case is a stretch but I do see your point of view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:14 PM
19

In the video she makes not only the distinction between the two but she says that they are NOT mutually exclusive. someone that cherishes you, and now I am in the love interest territory, can desire you at the same time. but someone whose MO is primarily desire/ lust, may never learn to cherish someone and becomes addicted to the rush and novelty that desire manifests in their inner life that they will resort to cheating without much thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:03 PM
6

that's too good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 05:10 PM
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it is! I just love how she makes this distinction! I never knew I needed this in my life. cherishing = listening and respecting the other, whereas desire = love bombing that burns fast and makes them lose interest even faster. but the worst of them all, she says is having a partner that cherishes and the other that functions solely on desire. that's really imbalanced!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:23 PM
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I am of half a mind to send them this meme but I will continue to ignore them. It was the 1st of December when a long forgotten ex sent me a DM with "Merry Christmas", then 2 days before, he sent me a "hey" and then a "still alive?" in text message. i did not answer to any of them. I was disgusted by the "merry Christmas". it's barely the beginning of December... oh well,,, here we go again... block and delete... oh, he is also recently married... can you imagine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:21 PM
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I would have loved to pluck his eyes out with a straw. I have learned to not drink in the company of men. I have been told once by a man that he was waiting for me to be drunk enough or pass out just so he could rape me. he said that as if it was the most natural thing in the world. he dared to say that at the table with all my friends. things didn't end to well for him but the way he said it still makes e shudder. he was so convinced that the men at the table would just let it happen. or that I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:17 PM
5

It will be enough to let one in and soon she will have a purplepill situation, where boys "just want a voice" but will soon take over the conversation 🤮 Glad I never considered it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:28 AM
5

Apparently this is something she has planned since the very beginning, but I find she has made sure to keep that part quiet when trying to recruit as many women as possible Nothing gets a pickme wetter than winning brownie points with the boys. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:26 AM
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When will we stop glorifying terrible men? I think pickmes will always glorify these men because they think they don't deserve better and they think they need to settle for someone. Now don't get me started on the drugs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:24 AM
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Girl what? Your credit card? That's theft! He could have asked. And you could have said no. But he chose to sneakily use it behind your back.... Wtf is wrong with men? 😤 And why when it's our stuff, our car, our house they appropriate or and make it "ours" but when it's his stuff and his money, it's his alone? Something wrong about the way his parents raised this one. I would give gold to observe the dynamic between his parents. I'm sure somewhere, the mother is "under" the father in a house hie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:20 AM
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out and clubbing is so passe and only benefits scrotes who harass women and even drug their drinks... women need to prioritize their wellbeing, mental hygiene and brain health. sleep is more important than we give it credit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:41 PM
21

it's good to be in bed at 8. sleep deprivation affects your mental faculties. sleep should not be a luxury but it is. 6 hours of sleep doesn't cut it for everyone. sometimes we need 9 hours. men who keep women awake for no reason are no better than torturers. if he keeps you awake at night, dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:40 PM
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>For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery? words too big. self-reflection failed activation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:59 PM
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"single dads" are always mooching off women on OLD. They are dads every 2 weeks on a weekend. And even then they dump the kid on their moms or girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:01 AM
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In short: "why didn't she let it slide" 😤😤😤🤡 Because there are consequences and this scrote had never been recorded to them until now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:15 AM
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Men don't seem to be of any use, really. His only job was to make sex pleasant for you as well, just that. It seems that what men are very good at is best case scenario being self centered, and the worst is messing up women's lives and becoming statistics in violence against women. He no cook, he no clean, he don't take care of the children, and no orgasms for you, then what is he good for? Give you a headache? Complicate your life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:43 AM
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I loved Savannah's take on what sex positivity means. "Sex on your terms" not fast sex with whoever. And I applaud the dive into the relationship between casual sex and STDs. It's a huge risk for women, condom or no condom, and tests or no tests. It's so true! They can test for STDs but have unprotected sex the next day so it's not valid! It is a very different game for men than for women!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:38 AM
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The same with porn. The more porn is produced, the higher the demand, the more taboo the topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:27 AM
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This, so much this ☝️ Men see social media and dating websites as "window shopping," "looking at the menu," or "seeing what's for sale." Women need to understand that men on OLD do this in your face. If you're on OLD the scrotes redirect you to understand that it's part of a "deal", even if you don't know the deal or you aren't getting anything in return. To these scrotes, women exist for men to consume them. LE: autocorrect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:26 AM
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"this is definitely normal" 😤 Also the other scrotes that encourage him. How seen they call those girls "friends"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:23 AM
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Biohazard ☣️☣️☣️ 🤡 Not just for partners of cheaters but also polys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:14 AM
22

the biggest clown? pickme hall of shame trophy goes to: author of "do the patriarchy to me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:53 AM
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they are not generous. they are codependent and have huge abandonment issues. the need to please that stems from deep insecurities. there's nothing "feminine" in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:50 AM
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sis, that's not a "feminine" urge. that's the need to please at all costs because you're fucking codependent and need therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:49 AM
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I wouldn't care much, it's their body but if I have stare at it, then it's bad. You mentioned sleep deprivation. Sometimes men like these do not respect the family life either, waking up their wife or kids once they wake up or disrupting their girlfriend's sleep too because in their head, everyone should suffer because they have to go to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:23 AM
5

omg! I had no idea it was Hailey from Paramore! wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:20 PM
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I googled him and thank god that at first. I got the nice pictures... thank god! per today's standards that's nothing impressive, I mean, he did look fit when he played in a streetcar named desire. but then I found the pictures when he was older and I read somewhere he got so fat he couldn't act properly anymore. I don't want to link it because it truly is horrendous. women in Hollywood are obliged to keep such high standards but the men are basically given a pass for simply existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:01 PM
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I just looked at the first picture and you're so right! his gut/belly is so large and protruding and the low waste speedos don't do him any favor. he has the glutes of a septuagenary who's worked sitting 12 h in an office most of their life. If I imagine him naked, his body would look like a fish. blerg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:44 PM
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and while he's "chasing success" she has to put up with his unwashed ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:40 PM
46

the success code does not mean working yourself into the grave. there's a difference between working smart and being a fucking workaholic who forgets about healthy eating, healthy habits and mental health. these people nauseate me. I would understand working hard and more hours if it's your startup or you're chasing deadlines on a big project but people who work more hours at the expense of their health and private life don't actually work smarter. so yes, I will shame these people who put work …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:38 PM
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men don't have friends. and men don't have female friends. they just wait in line to f those women one day. that's how this works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:32 PM
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scrote: "she is like a sister to me" masturbates over her photos and videos anyways. oh wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:31 PM
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The last photo.. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:07 PM
14

I now have to play dumb, nod and smile or he'll feel emasculated. also, shut up and don't seem too smart. just smile idiotically. -I regret doing this; it was the source of all my misfortune.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 01:46 PM
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because they've grown up learning that women's only value was in being married and having kids. a single woman (and even worse, a woman who loves being single) is a threat to them. they would even play matchmaker to "right this wrong". it reminds me of a Japanese movie in the 60s where the female character didn't want to get married and on numerous occasions said she was content like that, but her late father's 3 friends try to match her up with various men they know because they cannot fathom a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 01:42 PM
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and how is that not coercive?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 01:02 PM
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