50/50 trap, listen to this queen!

GlitteryMoss · 2021-12-17T19:04:29+00:00

all the while the extra 180 lbs in the house does nothing.

so not worth it.

BasieSkanks · 2021-12-17T20:52:22+00:00

This reminded me of a certain subreddit dedicated to moms complaining about their life and how useless their partners are.

wont_read_or_reply · 2021-12-17T19:59:51+00:00

Also, I can never understand how men can call a woman doing all this INCLUDING the emotional and physical pains of pregnancies and childbirth 50/50?? How do the child-bearing and child-rearing add into this?

albahe12 · 2021-12-17T21:14:57+00:00

If he's the KANG, he can handle 100% of the bills.

Orangecat72 · 2021-12-17T20:25:43+00:00

I’m child free but I’ve never met a man that I could imagine being chained to for 18+ years.

StrawberryMoon3 · 2021-12-17T18:58:38+00:00

That loooong list of labour....damn! I would never sign up for that

drowsypillowprincess · 2021-12-17T21:07:01+00:00

Been there. It IS hell. Never again.

saint-jezebel · 2021-12-17T21:57:22+00:00

Your vagina is priceless. As a woman, being independent is men working hard at you forgetting your vagina is priceless. Take care of yourself, don’t lose yourself.

LionelHutz2018 · 2021-12-17T23:23:01+00:00

Ladies this is for real. Wish no one had to put up with this. It doesn’t have to be this way! My first husband was a NVM, but my current HVM husband of 12 years pays 100% including for housecleaners, landscapers, our vacations, my law school tuition, everything. He is incredibly generous which is one of his best traits.

Despite his high income, we share an equitable division of labor including the fact that he does the dishes, his own laundry, takes care of the pets, etc. etc. without complaining or needing to be asked or reminded like a child. He is also so grateful for my labor. I make a nice dinner every night, and every night he thanks me sincerely. It’s so enjoyable to be married to a self aware, high emotional intelligence adult. I feel protected and taken care of.

We have a prenup so if for some reason things don’t work out, I know exactly what my payout is (net worth percentage with a vesting schedule lol) and that I’m taken care of and will be okay. Every day I tell him how happy I am with him and how lucky I feel to live the life we do. This is true and it makes him feel valued and appreciated. He tells me the same.

HVM exist ladies! They are out there, don’t settle for less than you deserve. Vet like your lifestyle depends on it because it does! My younger pickme self could have benefited from this group so much.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-12-17T18:05:22+00:00

The servitude alone that women are socialized to is disgusting enough, but adding 5050 to it is plain insult. What a scam!

thejigisup88 · 2021-12-17T20:11:12+00:00

Girl you not married, you a slave.

RBGs-ghost · 2021-12-17T19:52:24+00:00

My former marriage is in this picture and.....it's completely accurate. RUN, BITCHES! IT AIN'T WORTH IT

modernmedusaa · 2021-12-18T00:55:43+00:00

Yep it’s not for me, respectfully

She also forgot to mention the part they’re cheating on Tinder every time you have an argument over their incompetence/ suss behaviour and rubbing disrespect in your face

Also them breathing down your neck when cooking criticising every little thing you do so they feel in control

Throwing clothes on the floor expecting you to pick them up then crying ‘where did you move my shirt?’

Staring at you like you committed a crime bc you made a cup of tea without them

Also them whinging that you’re not sending them nudes whilst busy working :S

And they’re SURPRISED we don’t want kids with them

Bonds_Girl · 2021-12-17T18:12:55+00:00

She just described hell.

Cocoo_B · 2021-12-17T23:06:55+00:00

Although I agree that 50/50 is a terrible deal for women… I also think that even if the man pays 100% of the bills, having the woman be the primary caretaker and domestic laborer while she also works a full time job is still an unfair situation. The bigger problem in my opinion is men refusing to pick up their fair share of domestic & childrearing labor

Forsaken_Software394 · 2021-12-17T18:28:18+00:00

Everyday I wonder why men impregnate women and expect them to go to work to take care of them…..

If you cannot afford children on your salary why are you having them? Why not be single?

millennialpink2000 · 2021-12-17T18:27:46+00:00

Watching this was a religious experience. Every woman should be forced to watch this before she dates

lansburysoda · 2021-12-17T19:56:42+00:00

I don’t understand how any woman would put up with this shit. My father always did 50% of the housework (or more) and I consider that to be the bare minimum from a partner.

ChgItToRayGunYouFuck · 2021-12-18T02:24:50+00:00

If nothing else, this makes me even happier that I don't have kids with a scrote

piskie-starlight · 2021-12-18T01:41:27+00:00

I am so glad that I am not tied to any children or men. Thank goodness!!! Think I will be single for life thanks.

Ordinary_Bar3338 · 2021-12-18T03:04:51+00:00

Just her listing all those things exhausted me. Sounds like a trap

HK_Gwai_Po · 2021-12-18T00:46:37+00:00

Most families in Hong Kong have a live in helper for this. The culture is so different but the quality of men seems the same in general except for that the majority of the time they are so much better behaved here compared to the west (I’m from the U.K. lived in London and Cardiff which is so damn scary at night and been followed plenty of times). Like you can walk down a dark ally at 2am without fear of attack. Even though I’m having a stalking situation right now, it really is an anomaly for this city.

There’s no way I can do all that for the kids and go to work. My adhd brain will explode, I need a part time helper just to keep on top of my own house in which I live alone. I’d either follow the Hk way or be a sahm. No in between.

Ericaeatscarrots · 2021-12-17T21:16:33+00:00

I ain’t fighting her because she is 1000000000% right, anyone who says differently is mentally ill

Cantimetrik · 2021-12-17T22:39:32+00:00

Unrelated:
$1 a minute late fee? Is this actually a thing in the US?

xfelugirlx · 2021-12-18T07:08:37+00:00

When i went to vacations with this lvm and i had to do something like that i was exhausted (scrote didn’t know how to cook). Now imagine this for yearsss and kids hell no, you are a slave and still paying 50 when you are the one losong your youth out there

FDS-MAGICA · 2021-12-17T22:02:02+00:00

It could be worse. Some women do all that but as forever girlfriends instead

PicoPicoMio · 2021-12-17T21:55:34+00:00

Oof hard pass

Davina33 · 2021-12-17T22:22:58+00:00

My ex boyfriend's were scrotes but 50/50 is something I've never done and it's something I'll never do. I don't even have children and I still did more than them. I'm not paying for it on top. I have chronic illness so in all honesty, my earning potential never matched theirs anyway.

HeChoseDrugs · 2021-12-17T19:54:39+00:00

I mean... she's trapped, too. Even if he's paying 100%- that's no way to live.

liberal_queen21 · 2021-12-18T00:26:33+00:00

And heyyyy kudos to the single mamas that do 100% of that on they’re own showing kiddos what a real parent and role model is!!! Hard work pays off - our children are investments and they deserve our dedication - with or without that man …. cheers :)

mothboon · 2021-12-18T18:09:58+00:00

Amen to this.. nothing I did was good enough. Be a full time mom but also be full-time at a welding factory. Lose all that baby weight, but don't show it off beyond the confines of this house. Do all the chores and cook for me, but it's missing something.. you need to cook better.... Bad sex on the daily/ expected to be a porn star...

I'll just stop there.. it goes on for a while. TOTAL SCAM.

Lulu-lily · 2021-12-18T09:34:03+00:00

Tell them girl 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2021-12-20T19:53:07+00:00

I PROMISE you that I'll die single before going 50/50 with ANY man.

I go 0/100. I pay NOTHING. He pays everything or I'm single and serial dating until I die.

anobletruth · 2021-12-18T04:04:17+00:00

She said fight me 🔥🔥

witts_end_confused · 2021-12-18T04:17:32+00:00

Yaaaassssss maam!!!!

Truth369123 · 2021-12-18T10:13:08+00:00

This sounds like hell

Ok-Appearance5982 · 2021-12-22T01:27:41+00:00

I’d rather be single forever. Side note: she’s pretty ❤️

Title	50/50 trap, listen to this queen!
Author	Equal-Ear2312
Upvotes	1410
Comments	98
Date	December 17, 2021 5:53 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rimwfg/5050_trap_listen_to_this_queen/
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