HeChoseDrugs Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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61	Rihanna invited Bloated Mess #JohnnyDeppIsAnAbuser to her Savage x Fenty Vol. 4 Fashion Show as a "surprise guest" Bet he paid her to back him. Just like he paid Kate Moss to lie on the stand that he never pushed her down the stairs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/22 01:51 PM
8	Glamour Mag: If He Wanted To, He Would Is "Horrible Advice" WTF kind of BS is this response?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/22 12:37 PM
15	Kind reminder for you to never trust a man if he claims to be infertile. This woman was impregnated and ripped off financially by a psychopath. Always take care of contraception yourself. Yup. I was impregnated by a douche who said he was sterile. He then denied the baby was his! Not because he didn't want to take responsibility- he wanted to be a "father" to the child while still being able to shame and dehumanize me. I miscarried, which in hindsight was a blessing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 05:18 PM
86	Where is your kids dad? Not 1 mention of him. Be careful who you procreate with. I take offense to the "you chose to have kids with him line". As someone who married a seemingly HVM who later developed an opioid addiction which then spiraled into a literal anything addiction (now heroin, coke and meth!) I DID NOT choose to have kids with the man he became. I've had to hear that line from judges, family law attorneys (even my own!) and mediators. Their thinking was, "oh well. I guess your kids will have to grow up in a crackhouse half time. Should have chosen better." Eff tha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 04:52 PM
47	Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scrote I went through something similar. Please understand- these women are almost always abused, and they no longer trust even their own eyes. The first time I sensed my ex was a pedo was when I noticed he was chatting with a 13-year-old online. 13! It was on World of Warcraft. I was horrified, but since I didn't see anything "suspicious" (hindsight: WTF? The fact that she stated her age and he continued to have daily conversations with her was freaking disgusting, I know), I decided to CoMmUnIcAte (r…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 01:14 AM
3	Bodyshaming and -negging: It has nothing to do with what you look like, but you NEED to leave at the first sign of it. You must never have tangled with a narcissist. I'm very happy for you. Narcs will use that look to make you question yourself. They'll usually use it when you're looking/feeling/performing your best. They can't stand to see you happy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 05:36 PM
67	Bodyshaming and -negging: It has nothing to do with what you look like, but you NEED to leave at the first sign of it. I wish I was assigned flair, because I've been wanting to write about exactly this- that look of disgust. Once you see it, leave! You did not imagine it. Do not let them gaslight you into thinking you're paranoid. They literally hate your guts. I can't tell you the damage this did to me- seeing my now ex look at me with disgust every single day. It's a terrible way to live.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/22 06:20 PM
264	Say “no” to breaks and open relationships! ..."says he wants to marry her, she’s the one, he realized how she makes his life easy, she always knows what he wants, and she always does exactly what he needs." Ain't that what they all do? Find the one who makes their lives the easiest; who caters to their every whim. It's not even about love.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/22 06:03 PM
16	50/50 trap, listen to this queen! I mean... she's trapped, too. Even if he's paying 100%- that's no way to live.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/21 07:54 PM
8	behaviors that connote power, control, dominance: what to avoid This! This is exactly how my ex was. He had the ability to morph into exactly what he perceived the other person wanted him to be. Around conservatives, he threw out conservative talking points. When he was with liberals, he quoted Huffington Post verbatim. He was Christian among Christians, Atheist among Atheists. To this day, I have no clue what he really believes in. But man, was he able to endear himself to others! He had a way of making you feel so good about yourself when he was around, as…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 01:39 AM