This was my experience as a teen. Black boys were terrorising all the female students, but were especially cruel to Black girls and the school always handled them with kiddy gloves, afraid to punish them like they punished the other boys. They were the most coddled demographic.
It's cause girls are adultified more than boys. Little boys are often babied, even if they're the first born child in their family. As the eldest daughter, I see this all the time.
Beyonce was groomed by Jay-z and Jay is a lvm. Despite how successful and beautiful she may be, people should not be idolising her marriage. In fact, many women in the music or film industry end up with lacklustre men in their lives.
It's a real problem. So many older guys tried to groom me the millisecond I turned 16. Luckily I've never been intonops geezers. They're predatory and disgusting
The Foster care system and orphanages will have to brace themselves for an increase in children. And this will be the fault of men as all they care about is controlling women. All men do is cause problems, they are truly unfit to rule.
She should call his father, if that doesn't work then another man in her family (brother, father) who could pit pressure on him. She should also change the locks. And last option, the police.
Men are on OLD for fast easy sex, none of them are on there for a relationship. And because they're hiding behind a screen, they feel more comfortable being disrespectful and misogynistic upfront. That's why it's mostly a waste of time for women to be on there.
It's cause these T community is full of men. They use their male privilege to get all that. They're no different than men who present themselves as men.
They should focus more on getting these men convicted and locked up in prison. They shouldn't be free and roaming about in the first place. They should also try and work together with dating websites because often when women report abusive men on Tinder, their profiles don't even get taken down, nor shared with the police.
There's also FB groups for it, and even books that teach women how to bag a billionaire and how to an adequate wife to high earning men. There's even YouTube channels for it.
Teens having sugar daddies is becoming more common because Hook up culture is heavily pushed on teens. It's even depicted in teen TV dramas now. I also think that society is already crashing and burning. I read an article saying that for the first time in forever, heterosexual people are now leading with STD rates because of hook up culture and men never getting tested.
Yes and it's not surprising at all. Just history repeating itself. Since when do men champion women's rights and women's well being enthusiastically? Since when do men have women's best interest at heart?
I feel the same way. I've seen Chris Rock bully women, namely African American women since the early 2000s, he was never called out for it and this is also not his first time attacking Jada. He deserved much worse than that slap. In fact, such a public bully should no longer find work hosting events.
Yikes, the delusion. A man who's made a career of bullying women, specifically black women, on a public stage for over a decade is kind? My goodness me!
Colonising womanhood is exactly what they're doing. And attempting to define womanhood to suit them is the pinnacle of the patriarchy. We don't see Ftm attempt to do that.
Exactly. Most men make these videos for views, money and fame. They know that's what women want to hear. Plus being high value is what a man SHOULD be, so I don't get why women roll out the red carpet treatment when they see one, considering that there's many HV women out there who never get any acclaim.
The Elon Musk fanboys are literally stans. And the men who like him love him like a cult leader. Elon could ask these men to suck his dick for a free Tesla and his fanboys would do it.
Men who glorify the joker are losers. The joker is not even a compelling character. He just appeals to the loser and abusive mentality that many men have.
In her new song Grimes says : "Young men's love doth lie never in their hearts, only in their eyes" It definitely applies to this. Men use women for their looks and can't look past that.
This is scientifically true. I learned this in university. Men's bodies are primed for muscle gain and they can shed a lot of weight by simply cutting out processed foods in their diets. Women's bodies on the other hand cling to fat because it makes pregnancy and childbirth easier. And this process happens whether or not a woman is pregnant.
These naïve youg women still don't know what happens to prostitutes in Dubaï. There's nothing empowering about a stranger buying your body. And someone's body should not be something that can be purchased.
I share the same sentiment. Most of these games are time-wasters. You're better off doing these fantasies in real life. Showing your creativity and skills in real life.
Why do so many women like it when men act like children? I see this on Instagram all the time. Young women fawning over guys who wear kiddie pj onesies, guys who have Minecraft bedsheets, or guys who wanna be held like children by their gf, guys who play video games all day long. Seriously what is up with that? Why do so many young women find that attractive? I find it repulsive.
I find that most men who hide their political leanings are right-wing bobbleheads. They know that they don't appeal to most women. They're highly aware that we can smell their eau de incel cologne so they try to appear apolitical to widen their chances on the dating scene.
Michelle Obama is gorgeous. She's far from ugly! Macron married the woman who groomed him. And as for the other two, they're not bad looking either. Lvm are trash
Not surprised. Society is porn sick. I'm gen z and some folks my age were addicted to porn before even reaching adolescence. That's how bad it is. I highly doubt that finding a porn free man in my age group is even possible. Our generation was granted uncontrolled and unlimited access to this shite and it's being consumed like its oxygen.
Men love to play dumb to undermine what women say or to somehow get their way. It's never an innocent question. They are aware of how patriarchy works and how it affects women in every way.
Hook up culture highly contributed to this. Those who participate in it don't get tested often enough, if ever. There's a lot of folks who think a condom will protect them against everything.
Your friend is a pimp. She made you a profile and used your pictures without your permission to make money. Don't be polite in your response and don't be afraid to take legal action if need be.
This confirms that many men use women as free prostitutes. And the more "sexually positive/liberated" you are, the easier you are to use. It's sickening.
This is why I wouldn't date religious men or men from conservative cultures. I've seen this stunt happen many times when they date westerners. It's not worth it.
I low-key mentioned the same. There's a huge difference between making a mistake in choosing a mate and having no sense of self preservation at all. I'm afraid that an FDS rescue mission won't save ther because, you can't tell someone that they deserve better if they don't want better. She wants to "communicate" with a rapist and predator, whilst being pregnant.
All I have to say is that self preservation is the first law of nature. And this woman doesn't seem to have it, that's why it's easy for her man to take advantage of her in such a vile way. You can't communicate with a predator
Young women today severely underestimate how much men hate us and they also turn a blind eye to male predators. We've been conditioned to always be nice and not to judge a book by its cover, whilst men get get complete opposite upbringing.
Oh ok. I thought you also wanted a guy that's a virgin before marriage. Personally, I'm waiting too, but not until marriage but until engagement. I wouldn't be comfortable with sexual intimacy before getting engaged.
I'm gen z, there's no way men of my generation are willing to wait unless they're religious (and I'm not into those types). Therefore I don't believe that I'll find a guy who's done the same. Some gen z guys are willing to wait until marriage when they find the right woman but they sure as hell won't be virgins.
I fear that many of the members here are attracting unnecessary attention here by sharing this subreddit and their reddit account with their boyfriends. This will contribute to this sub potentially getting banned.
He's probably lying. I bet he doesn't have a girlfriend and he just made this up so that he could karma farm and laugh with a bunch of dudebros. Members of FDS, if you are dating someone, please stop sharing FDS with them. Don't tell your S/O and don't share your reddit account with your S/O.
As a woc, I see this all the time. Moc hide behind the cover of "racism" so as to not be held accountable for their patriarchal behaviour and violence against women. And libfem only holds yt men accountable as if moc are not active participants in the violent oppression of women. I once had a libfem tell me that only yt men benefit from the beauty industry destroying the self esteem of women, she wouldn't believe that moc benefit as well. However moc also benefit. For example some own skin bleac…
I never liked this man and he always looked like an unkempt caveman to me. I don't get why so many women found him attractive. I remember also reading an interview of his where he said that enjoyed r&ping the female characters in GOT. Made me gag.
It's also not normal for a man in his 30s to date university students. These predators cast their net on anyone significantly younger and less mature. I've seen many uni girls unfortunately fall prey to older men.
I can relate to this. I look younger than my age, I can pass for a teenager. And I've seen so many predators try me. I've always escaped their bullshit and put them in their place but it's disgusting how this behaviour is common amongst men.
Thanks for sharing. Now I'm interested in watching the show. I'll check it out. I basically gave up on American shows as the lack of diversity in female characters on American TV makes it almost unwatchable. I've stuck with foreign TV for a while.
Precisely. This is why I can't take the whole "diamonds are a scam" rhetoric seriously When will folks tsaybthe same about luxury vehicles or premium football/basketball tickets? And what about video game consoles? When it comes to all that suddenly they don't think it's a scam. Interesting.
It's a trauma response. The brain rationalises complying with the abuser in order to avoid more harm. We're biologically designed to survive, even if it means sacrificing our happiness and well-being.
If women went around throwing acid at men at the same rate that men do, legal systems everywhere would do everything they could to nip this in the bud. Men throwing acid as a way to control women is becoming a serious issue.
Simone also thought that mem were better philosophers than women. Her personal life didn't reflect what she wrote about. She did a lot of male pandering. And I'm disgusted by how she sexually preyed on her students. Just deplorable.
As per usual, they failed to mention that he's responsible for the breakdown of the relationship. He cheated on her multiple times and with women that are young enough to be his granddaughters. He is responsible for this. And on top of that, he's not homeless, he's affluent enough to buy another luxury home.
No. Some women enjoy being beautiful for themselves, it's not always about male attention. And whether a woman is conventionally attractive or not, she'll face male harassment. Men target and harm all women, not just those they're attracted to, so "uglifying" yourself won't stop it.
Precisely. We're the only mammals willing to endanger our progeny for "feelings" and "potential". When it comes to reproduction, other species are smarter. They make sure the male is completely fit for the job. The feelings don't cloud their judgement. Hell, female seahorses don't even raise their young, they leave them with the father and he has to do the heavy lifting.
Men with mommy issues and men who use any oppression they face as an excuse to abuse women. The latter is very common and most women give men a pass for it.
Please stop being a pick me for bm. Why are you defending them all over this post? Let women air their grievances and share their experience and knowledge.
Omg this brings back memories. I remember taking the test when I was a teen and being classified as INTJ and joining the subreddit. I quickly found out that it was dumpster fire. All the males are garbage juice who think they're "geniuses" and all the girls are professional pick me's. It's sad. That myers briggs stuff is a hot mess and attracts damaged people, especially the INTJ category.
Have you seen the male psychopaths in third world countries? I can't even begin to explain female genital mutilation in Africa or terrorist organisations that aduct women and girls like Boko Haram. White American males are the ones that get caught.
Violence against women was depicted so often in Vikings and the scenes were always so random and added nothing to the plot. You could tell that the writers and directors just get off on seeing women get brutalised.
Why do men have such a hive mind? Why do they worship another man to obsession like this? Cause I could never imagine a woman doing this. Men fall deep into groupthink
Any tattoo of a woman, "tribal" tattoos, celtic crosses when they don't have celtic blood, snakes, dragons, Chinese characters, and anything tacky looking.
Canadian men do this too. I noticed that North American men don't cater to the female gaze at all which makes them all look somewhat unattractive compared to foreign men.
Definitely cultural influences. Look at how porn, teen dramas and the music industry sexualizes teenage girls. Men are taught that it's okay to abuse young girls and women and that teenage girls are their for sexual consumption.
It really does. Female choice leads the species and if we all pick trash, then we populate the world with trash. Btw, I'm not absolving men from guilt, they also need to be held accountable for their behaviour and choices.
I was sorted into that sorry ass category and all I encountered were Emotionally dumb wanna be geniuses. And the women were all part of the "not like other girls" club. It was so lame and cringy
Men know that they're monsters. They just don't want women to know. That's why they rely on women being naïve and heckle those who know the truth about male nature.
What you described in the first paragraph is called negging. Men use it often to break down your confidence and manipulate you into pandering for their attention.
I don't get why these men are always absolved from being critiqued when it comes to the role that they play in patriarchal oppression. Libfems always give them a pass.
The typical misogyny. These women were constantly bodyshamed by their gheigh male fans, their mental health problems were also ridiculed. And this same fanbase would also mock them when they get attacked by crazed male fans.
My hyper vigilance doesn't reduce. All men are taught to exploit women for their personal gain. Just because he's not attracted to women, doesn't really mean much to me. I still remember how the ghey community treated Britney Spears, Madonna, Lana Del Rey and many more of their female "faves".
I've been seeing the term "high value" being tossed around for men doing the bare minimum. That's not what a value man is. A high value man goes above and beyond. And you only know if a man is high value by how he treats people "beneath" him, how he handles the vulnerable, his reliability and by his commitment to his choices.
There is no such thing as a man's neutral presence in your life. He is either a threat, a burden or a blessing. If he's one of the former two, then dump him in the trash and move on.
This is so sad. It sounds like she made herself the supporting character in his life rather than being the leading character in her own life. He used her and now he wants to discard her.
I've found moc to be even more sexist and they will often use their "culture" as an excuse to hide behind. I'm saying this as a blk woman. So many people give moc a pass for misogyny.
They all look creepy. I reay don't understand how some women are comfortable having their privates examined by men. And I feel like because we're not the same sex, he won't be able to emphasize, we're just a " work project", or an object to them. Men in this field don't operate with humanity.
I'm pretty sure that they do understand the difference, they're just trying to manipulate people into doing their bidding. Trying to force their perspective on others.
Western Canada: Angry Conservative dudes who drive pick up trucks Road rage Uneducated Average Joe with no ambition Looks down on art and literature. Most fine arts too Love intimidating young girls like many "isms" in Canada, covertly sexist Lazy Lovers, unromantic, they stop trying after getting engaged Hate paying for dates or anything for a lady -As plain as white bread, no hobbies, no taste, uncultured swine Addicted to video games and cheap bear
I think she's wearing them for comfort. I assume she does most if the domestic labour in the house and it's much easier to do them in leggings than in jeans or a skirt.
This is why I hate pickmeshas and don't pity them. They offer women up on a silver platter for men to use and abuse. There's a special place in hell for women like that.
I hate to break it to you but all men are taught to be entitled. Regardless of their sexual orientation. I find it weird that women always automatically see ghey men as allies and are pikachu surprised when they also display misogyny when ghey men receive the same patriarchal upbringing as straight men.
Man, this comment section is heartbreaking. My heart goes out to all the ladies here who shared their stories of being abandoned whilst ill. You all deserve the world💕
I'm 24 and a virgin too. I don't get the sense that I'm missing out on anything. In fact, I'm glad I don't have any sexual baggage. The guys who've approached me just weren't worth it.
He's treating her like a bangmaid and refuses to see why it turns her off. He really thinks taking care of children and keeping the house clean full time is a walk in the park.
I don't like to blame the victim but when it comes to rappers, the signs are GLARINGLY obvious. There is a reason why the entire rap industry is seen as scum and other countries are tying to ban the entire genre. You really have to be blind not to see the NVM in that industry. I feel bad for her though. No woman deserves to be treated this way.
I see this a lot with ballet. Ballet is a really physically demanding sport and men mock it all the time. But none of these wankers could ever accomplish what ballerinas do
So young and worried about crusty wankers. What the hell? Girl, go live your life and have fun. Men are nothing but cheap tricks so don't give a dman about them. You don't have to accept anything that makes you uncomfortable.
When the TV show Vikings was released. Many wankers were upset because they included shieldmaidens. Even though that's historically correct. That show really brought forth the misogyny that many men keep hidden.
You're thinking of tight lacing. It's different but it often gets mistaken for a corset. Regular corsets that everyday women wore, even working women, were designed to be comfortable and provide support. They did not modify the waist size or restrict movement.
I'd prefer if this sub remained more secret. I don't think we should go around talking about it to men. They'll try to infiltrate it or get it shut down. Not everything is meant to be shared.
You know what else is gross? The director made these young girls audition in front of grown men for the role. They had to perform these sexualized dances in front of men. It's absolutely repulsive, and I can't even begin to imagine how uncomfortable and violated these girls must have felt.
There is no such thing as 50/50. Especially not when pregancy/kids come in the equation. For most women, it ends up being 80/20 or even worse. That's why it's best to get with a generous man. One who is cheap or "dutch" in regards to finances, will also be cheap in other ways and it will gradually wesr you down.
Thst director did exactly wat she's criticising society for. She also sexualized the little girls in her film, with no regard for their wellbeing and how this will affect them later in life.
The blm movement is protecting so many predatory males. Even George Floys was a predator. He broke into a pregant woman's home and threatened to shoot her. These folks are really out there, marching, looting and chanting for violent men. Whilst ignoring the safety and wellbeing of black women. Where are these marches when black girls and women are trafficked? Why isn't there outroar for 60% of black girls that are sexually assaulted before they turn 18? The whole movement is bs.
Third wave libfeminism does no effort to recognize the unique struggles that woc face that are also problems created by the patriarchy. Even though they keep preaching about representation. Libfems want to pretend that we all have the same starting point and it's ridiculous. For example, second wave feminists were more willing to call out the misogyny in African Americans music and stand up with African American women. But third wave libfems openly embrace the misogynoir lyrics in rap and hiphop…
Same. And third wave feminism is the dominant school of feminism now but it does nothing to benefit women. And on top of that, it has further driven a wedge between woc and ww then the preceding waves. It's sickening. It's getting harder and harder to identify with feminism because its current form is male pandering and authoritarian.
Same. It's the dominant form of feminism in society and pop culture. The other feminist schools of thought are either being silenced or they're not active enough.
Even r/gendercritical catered to men sometimes. It rochechet between talking about trans women or making fun of girly girls and calling them dumb/stupid/insignificant because it's the only thing that men agree with. It was tiring.
I got banned from r/AskWomen for not believing that men are women. Reddit is very male dominated, even the female subs. And on top of that, the current wave of feminism no longer serves or prioritizes women. It's all about being pc and not offending men. The moment they made feminism for "everyone" is when feminism turned against women.
Not true. Moc profit too. Financially and socially. Many moc have their hands in bleaching creams aimed at women as well hair texturalizers and products. Cosmetic surgery too. Look at South Korea. No men are innocent.
Prince Naveen is a lazy prince. And not to mention that he's royalty but did not give Tiana the princes lifestyle in the denouement. Toana deserved better.
They know the time and place, they just don't care. They are socialized to treat women as their personal playthings, not actual human beings. And trust and believe that they know it's wrong. They just don't stop because it benefits them and society rewards them for their predatory behaviour.
They're high on third wave liberal feminism over there. According to them, porn is empowering for women and men are women too. If you say otherwise, they ban you. There's no room for debate or discussion.
I find it really disturbing and also misogynistic how pickmeshas take out their frustrations on women whom are well treated by their S/O, rather than confront their lvm whom their frustration is really aimed at.
The age gap Why is she married at 24? Too young He's a predator and financially abusing her If she knew the outcome of what this situation, why was she still trying for a baby? Knowingly birthing children in unfavourable conditions or poverty is incredibly reckless. He's trash and she's naive.
Not all makeup is toxic and not all heels are bad for you. Nit if you wear them in moderation. Not every woman wants to look boyish or androgynous. Some of us like a little glam.
Thank you so much for all you efforts. This sub has been so helpful to me, because many of its info is not what we're taught to learn. Barely any one is out there teaching young girls to prioritize themself. Thanks for all the hard work!.
What the actual hell? She needs to finish this demon! And I'll bet my pink starburst that this man was not cleaning a garage. He was probably out there cheating. This poor lady is married to a donkey. This is the type of man you need to go Genghis Khan on in the divorce court. He deserves no mercy. He's wife is out there giving live, she could've died doing so! And this donkey decides to be absent. Finish him!!!
Right?! Black women have always been made to work and be "tough". So her working so hard is not exactly revolutionary. Especially not alongside a goddamn prince. Tiana being duped out of a life of luxury whilst all her white princess counterparts get if is actually faulty.
There's a lot of gay men who use women to prolong their stay in the closet. Which is toxic. That's what these women are alluding to when they call men gay.
What in the fresh hell is this?!!! How is jacking off the black women supposed to protect black women from being murdered? These males are gross as fuck.
I also want to know why so many women are obsessed with the uselessness of feeling empowered rather than actually being empowered and accumulating tangible benefits. Why does libfem care so much about the illusion and the feeling of empowerment?
I feel like this is only a thing for girls with small boobs. Yet they're such a loud minority. Women with big boobs like bras. It's not uncomfortable for us
I would've bashed his face in already. I wouldn't care if he's my nephew. This kid is ruined by porn and he's probably already harmed girls in his school. He needs to be taken out.
This looks like white feminism. Unfortunately this isn't true. Everyday they're victims in third world countries, some girls are married off at the age of 9. In Ethiopia 13 year old get married. And both my parents are Congolese and even they said this isn't true. Pedophilia is unacceptable, but let's not pretend that all the societies only targeted teen girls. Some girls are already married before they reach double digits.
I could never get with a man from a third or second world country. Most by adulthood see extreme misogyny as normal as the blue sky. And they're not afraid to kill their wife and daughters.
Wow, op I'm so sorry! That's just terrible! But congrats and mustering the courage to confront him. That's not an easy thing to do and many never get there.
One thing that I've always hated about modern feminism is that it is very bad at acknowledging the different perspectives that women may have. Modern feminism operates like a totalitarian government, it demands submission from all women to its rules. It's no longer about liberating women, but rather about creating a beehive and demanding obedience from all women. And moreover modern feminism uses patriarchal ideals to judge women. Such as shaming women for having traditionally feminine careers a…
It makes it difficult for me to recognize my own emotions and express them. Especially in real time. It also makes it harder to connect with people. But it primarily concerns emotions regarding situations and events that happen to you, not how you feel about people. Therefore it usually manifests during trauma and stressful situations. Not so much mundane situations or interactions. I'd also like to stress that it's a condition much like a personality trait. It's not a mental illness. Therefore …
The sexual revolution didn't really benefit women at all. It ended with women performing porn fantasies for men who don't see them as human beings and who couldn't be bothered about female orgasms.
Thank you! I've always been shamed for not wanting these dates because they're very popular in my area. But I find them tacky. Not to mention that a man who wants you under the influence on a first date is not in it for the long haul and probably doesn't have good intentions or healthy habits.
I pretend to be stupid to get men to do stuff for me. The same way they pretend to be clueless when it comes to housework. I like to conserve my energy
Right! The only time femininity is deemed acceptable is when it's for male consumption. But if a woman is naturally like that for herself, then it's ridiculed. I'm so goddamn tired of it. How about letting girls be who they want to be? Girly, tomboyish, a mix of both, goth or whatever, it shouldn't matter as long as it's for herself. And men who want "cool girls" should just date and marry their male friends like you said. Lol don't they go around screeching "ho*s before bros" all the time? They…
Men have been gold diggers since the beginning of time. They always feel entitled to what we have or what we can do. Wether it's household chores, beauty or our money, they always feel entitled to it.
The glorification of masculinity and the mockery of femininity is really problematic. It's a form of misogyny. And unfortunately, third wave feminism is also responsible for perpetuating it. A woman doesn't need to be stereotypically like a man to be a person of value and worth respect.
True! Drake has also been exposed. He's been texting teenage girls, including pop star Billie Eilish. Pedophilia in the hip hop/rap community is very big and often swept under the rug. People just give them a pass even though it's wrong. And so these men get to prey on people to their heart's content and one day they eventually marry someone, often one of their victims. It's sickening.
Beyoncé was 16 when they started dating, he was well into his 30s. If that's not a pedophile then I don't know what is. And the worst thing is nobody batted an eye.
Her husband is a pedophile, a serial cheater and a misogynist. What is there to desire? And who said all the girls who listened to that track are lonely?
It's because men date who they can, whilst women can date who they want. We control the dating market. And furthermore, most men were not raised to one day be independent, they're raised to attach themself to any woman they can get like a leech. Hence, men who can't get their dream girl will do exactly that.
Probably their ever coddling parents and their low value friends. I also think it's a cycle. Many folks here blame the mothers but it's actually the fathers that create sons like this. LVM have LVM fathers and so the douche apple doesn't fall far from the douche tree.
That's exactly what she said in an interview. That she's not trying to represent what a healthy relationship looks like or be a role model, that what she sings about is autobiographic
That line in Norman Fucking Rockwell really annoys me. I love her music, she's my favourite singer. But she does have a knack for shitty boyfriends, judging by her lyrics.
How is he a HVM when he cheats on his wife and lets his brother and sister in law be hounded by the media? He's a wimp. And on top of that he strung Kate along for years! Nearly a decade before agreeing to marry her.
Start talking about getting married, financial planning for couples, baby proofing the new house that HE will buy, meeting his folks and bringing the baby and so on. I don't think he'll stick around after that.
Please report him. He shouldn't get away with behaviour like this. And since he knows where you live, he might attempt it again or try to harm you otherwise. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you stay safe
Jesus. That's so gross. He can choke. And I'm so tired of men thinking femininity is for their consumption. Ugh, it's not. Feminine women are feminine for themselves, because it's fun, relaxing and powerful. It's not for some crusty manlet
Exactly! He gives me predator vibes. Any man who can't respect 'no" is a predator/potential rapist. Women shouldn't have to repeat themselves over and over again. If he can't respect boundaries than he's a predator.
He's not using the correct platform to "respectfully connect" with her. LinkedIn isn't meant for that, plus it creepy since folks have access to a lot of private information. And secondly, if a man is reaching out to you a year later, you're what we call in french his "plan cul". His romp plan for the night, he's casting a huge net to see who'll bite the bait because he was dumped or he's simply bored. If a man is truly into a girl, he wouldn't take that long to contact her. If he does, he doesn…
Women hold all the power in dating and relationships. Men know this and they hate us for it. You can choose your husband, but your kids can't choose their father. Therefore be picky, as if the future of the human species depends on it.
Women may want or enjoy sex as equally as men, but Mother Nature is unkind. Women have to be more careful because, it is us that end up taken advantage of, it's us that end up with an unwanted pregnancy or an std. and it's also us that'll have to mend the pieces of a broken heart. Taking these consequences into account, it's not wise for women to act on their sexual impulses.
It's still no excuse though. It's 2019, information is everywhere. I too have been shielded from the very worst of men but I still do my research and educate myself.
Its also pick me logic to think in terms of quantity over quality. They don't care about what kind of men women are partnered with, as long as it's a man it ok. That's why they demean single women
I'd go even further and say that porn exploits women. Porn sites don't check if the participants in the video have consented, this porn sites contain a lot of videos of trafficked women whom are being raped. And it's advertised as rough sex or bdsm.
They're acting mad if women hold them at gunpoint whilst screaming "pay for my dinner!". At the end of the day, these men pay voluntarily. That's why I don't also believe in gold digger shaming men do. Gold diggers are not armed robbers cornering men. The men they have consent to paying for everything. No one is under duress.
This reminded me of Clockwork Orange. Many men find that film cinematic genius, by there's so much misogyny that's perpetuated by the protagonist. Very disturbing. It's weird how the act of hating and killing women on film is deemed art by male critics. It's horrifying
