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MOOD FOR LIFEOk-Appearance5982/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:12 AM
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1

Totally. Add too hot to handle. These shows are the new OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 01:37 PM
11

Cheating is a reflection of the cheater and not your worth. The trick is not internalizing people’s bad behaviour. See the behaviour for what it is and then move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 09:15 AM
18

*don’t question them on the red flags. Just move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 09:48 AM
3

Follow your gut. If you feel something is off, then it’s most likely off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:56 AM
3

You’re welcome 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 06:50 AM
3

Deciding to move on 💯is the first step to healing and forgiving yourself. You have to force yourself to never connect with him again. Give yourself time to heal and remember that healing is not linear. A 38 year old in a situanship is a red flag. The age gap is a red flag. You didn’t lose anything,you’re gaining more by not being with a man like him. It’s possible to heal , it’s possible to make better choices. Just be patient with yourself day by day and work on loving yourself more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 06:37 AM
1

🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 06:25 AM
3

😲that’s disturbing. Please be cautious and avoid him at all costs. Switch to another religious community for your safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 06:16 AM
6

She lost me at “ I strongly believe he cares about me”. She needs an FDS rescue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 06:04 AM
29

She’s right about the double standards. We live in a sick world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 05:34 AM
2

This is not a healthy friendship. It’s great that she helped you to leave your ex, but there are a lot of red flags. She doesn’t have your best interests at heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:20 AM
12

🤣🤣🤣he’s soooo jealous! Ladies this is so common and absolutely unacceptable. Runaway from men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:54 AM
34

Saving this 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:41 AM
1

Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 09:54 AM
2

This is some scary shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 09:46 AM
1

It’s the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 09:05 AM
1

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 08:37 AM
2

I’d tell her that she was right all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 08:14 AM
3

I think they are not compatible. She’s a Christian and he’s Agnostic. I don’t think it will work out in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:22 AM
2

First of all the perfect guy wouldn’t even think about fisting! I can’t believe he put that in the same sentence. Nice try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:10 AM
10

This is very true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:04 AM
143

This or nothing 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:53 AM
2

“How to get the guy” Matthew Hussey 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 07:29 AM
3

It truly is a matter of life and death. Let’s choose life by vetting, following our intuition and leaving when you see one red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 06:52 AM
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This is only the beginning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 06:43 AM
6

Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:25 PM
152

Guilty until proven HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:20 PM
41

Nah they mostly care about themselves. It has nothing to do with how good or how bad you are. It says a lot about their character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:31 PM
31

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:29 PM
17

Take time off dating for a while , at minimum a year. The reason I say this is because you need some time to get to know you more. You need time to experience what healthy feels like. You need to desensitize men from your life. Use this time to heal and treat yourself the way you wanted to be treated by your father and all these abusive men. Continue with therapy and you need to learn how to reparent yourself. There are a lot of videos about reparenting on YouTube. Dress up and take yourself out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:11 PM
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Wedding vows need to be changed because “in sickness and in health” is very one-sided 🤨.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:02 AM
3

I’d rather die single because this🤢 She’s his sex toy. That’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:42 AM
1

This “seeing each other” phrase is nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:13 AM
8

Too many red flags, end the relationship. It will only get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:41 PM
37

Why do men do this? Unfortunately it’s very common. They meet you as wholesome person that you are and then do whatever it takes to dim your light. It can be hobbies, makeup, career , interests, personality etc. Why do men feel so entitled to dominate and control women? Whenever a man tries to change who you are, leave, block and delete. It doesn’t matter how big or how small his requests for you to change are . Rather lose a man than lose who you are. This is abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:18 PM
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I think so 🤣 this is fiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:21 PM
1

True. Also a man may say positive things about these points and still be extremely LVM. Be careful out there. Always vet and block as soon as there’s a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:25 PM
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I once told a friend that it’s not a proposal if there’s no ring. They broke up months later. Words are cheap ladies, look at his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:20 PM
3

Too many red flags. Even though the MIL’s delivery was harsh, she’s totally right .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:14 PM
5

I couldn’t agree more. Not everyone deserves your forgiveness. You owe it to yourself to forgive yourself. Forgiving others is non-essential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:09 PM
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The shadow side of being pretty is in relationships. Men date you for their ego and to show off to their male friends. Not because they genuinely like you as a human-being. They date you for their social status and their friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:59 PM
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I’m glad that women have options to conceive. However, I have a concern about the quality of sperm and sperm donor. It reminds me of an episode on friends when Joey Tribbiani was a sperm donor. I can’t imagine having a mini Joey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:39 PM
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This is scary 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:38 AM
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Blanket punishment until proven HVM over a long period. Even after realizing you’re HV , I’ll ABV and leave at any sign of disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 01:50 PM
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I’d rather be single forever. Side note: she’s pretty ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:27 AM
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Monied Queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:21 AM
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No and I’m not educating either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:04 AM
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While it’s great to learn about the dark side of the world we live in. I also believe it serves as a distraction. I scheduled time for this in my calendar so that I don’t expose myself to heavy content everyday. This saves me time and energy to focus on the things I truly enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:19 PM
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The global mode feature is giving 90 day fiancée vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 01:34 PM
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Totally because men are quick to switch up on you and women are left to pick up the pieces. Always pursue your goals and dreams. You’re an individual first before you are a wife/fiancée/girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:28 AM
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When I say I’ve retired from being “nice”😂🤣I’m a savage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:02 PM
2

This 🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:54 AM
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Me to my friends ☺️ one day they’ll see the light and we’ll be HVW together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:05 AM
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Congratulations on the business 💐 and here’s to choosing yourself 🍵.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:18 PM
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Spot on. I’ve been avoiding movies or tv shows with shady titles or trailers e.g love hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:13 PM
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It’s that time of the year when ex’s come out of the woodwork. You chose a better life for yourself by leaving him. Cry and then throwaway the letter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:44 AM
1

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:37 AM
2

Blockity block block!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:13 AM
27

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:12 AM
19

😂❤️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:56 AM
2

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:38 PM
1

OP you dodged a bullet. It really is a blessing in disguise. It’s good that you found out who he is so soon. Learn from this experience and don’t tell your pickme friends about your future dating experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:09 AM
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Same! but you know what? Sooner is better than later. What I know now cannot be taken away from me. My standards are so high now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:45 AM
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“I’m willing to see if this site has what I’m looking for” is a red flag. He’s already planting a seed for pickme’s to prove that they are what he’s looking for!! LMAO😂😭 I don’t know if I should laugh or cry because I can smell the bs from miles away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:24 AM
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Women are socialized to make things look/sound better than they actually are. Using buzzwords is low key gaslighting and it disconnects us from the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:48 AM
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Trust your intuition, it knows way more than you can comprehend at this moment. Feeling confused is not peace. For some reason your connection with him gives you anxiety. You don’t have to find out why you feel that way around him. Your gut loves you because it’s there to protect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:25 AM
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It’s better if he travels to you (financially and time wise). One thing about lvm men is that they don’t mind wasting a woman’s time. Whereas we are intentional with our time and finances. We don’t invest time in people we don’t like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:08 AM
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Congrats on taking your power back and respecting your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:54 AM
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I love the baggage reclaim so I can’t wait to listen to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:46 AM
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I love Seoul. The street food, the vibes and shopping for skincare products argh 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:31 PM
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This is a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:24 PM
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And we can’t focus on our self-care, self-love and goals. It’s a distraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 11:03 AM
2

Yup💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:55 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣no you didn’t😂🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:15 AM
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You tell him that you’re not ready to be exclusive. You still want to get to know him. He can decide if he wants to continue dating you or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:12 PM
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It never is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:24 PM
1

I just hope Willow and Jaden are ok mentally and emotionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:50 AM
3

Happy birthday 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:55 AM
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I struggled to read through the first page. This man is damaged🥴🤢. This is why we don’t give the benefit of the doubt. Leave, block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:12 AM
11

This 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:04 AM
10

What the😂🤣 what is going on?! I’m so confused 😅 what did I just read? I’m done internetting for the day because wow lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:54 AM
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😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:43 AM
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Never give anyone an opportunity to destroy you. Leaving at the first sign of disrespect is the most loving thing you can do for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:41 PM
3

The weird feeling could be your gut feeling. He’s rushing a connection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:10 PM
76

That’s the LVM singing while we have them blocked and living our lives to the fullest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:33 PM
13

Agreed and sell it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:01 PM
41

It’s the first time I hear of “dread game” but it sounds like emotional abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:00 PM
3

🤨🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:19 AM
2

He’s lying to you. Don’t mistake your intuition for confusion or being silly. Trust yourself more than you trust his lies. I’m sorry to say this but it won’t get any better, it will only get worse. Take your time back and reinvest in searching for things that will empower you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:56 AM
5

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:56 AM
1

This 🔥💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:02 PM
6

This was a lovely. This year has been a year of fully embracing my inner conqueress. A lot of hard work but I’m content with my journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:54 AM
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Talk is cheap and actions speak louder. Vet forever and educate yourself. I’ve been watching a lot of documentaries and I’ve learnt and still learning a lot about our society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:23 PM
1

Agreed. Derrick Jaxn is needs serious help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:12 PM
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Oh my 😂🤣🤡 His advice is 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:09 PM
1

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:02 PM
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Queen I love little mix especially “break up song” , “woman like me” and “touch”. I’m disappointed that they are baby mamas.At least they have the money and resources to support their kids. But I’m against baby mama culture , it doesn’t benefit women as a collective. More especially us( ordinary women with 9-5 jobs).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:53 PM
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I agree. Integrity, respect and a great sense of humor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:06 PM
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“Men use women for ego boost, for validation. It's not about a loving relationship, it's about looking good for other men.” This 🎯 never forget this ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:37 AM
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You dodged a bullet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:44 AM
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Hey I’m on and off Instagram for months (I disable my account ). Even though I miss out on seeing people’s photos and stories it hasn’t affected my relationships. Those that I’m close to have my cellphone number and email. As for the people you block , I suggest you block them indefinitely across all social media platforms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:05 AM
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Same!!! and I agree it’s definitely good for vetting and Mark is not so “innocent” after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:51 PM
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Right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:44 AM
4

Ah you’re probably right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:53 AM
29

I watched Love is blind after the alter. Damian had the audacity to triangulate two women who are out of his league. Unfortunately the women are pickme’s. One is giving me “cool girl” energy and the other one is so focused on the outcome of love and marriage that she’s not putting her well-being first. Also Diamond’s date is hot but I saw the red flags from their first encounter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:41 AM
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This is too much. I’m tired from just listening to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:32 PM
14

It does sound poetic. I can’t believe what I just read 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:48 PM
2

🤣😂this cracked me up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:45 PM
1

Congratulations❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:53 AM
19

Omg🤣😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:46 AM
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I relate to the spf one. The devil’s son was trying to talk me out of my skincare routine and wearing spf because “you don’t need all of that”. The fuck! I’ve been wearing spf for years! He also sabotaged my healthy diet so many times. My dream HVM eats healthy and takes care of his skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:49 PM
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Things were never good in the olden days just hidden. There’s an entire race in Africa that wouldn’t have existed if white men didn’t rape black women. I remember being in Thailand wondering why there were a lot of old white men (grey hair probably 60s). And then it hit me... the red-light districts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:30 AM
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“😉😘🔥😍🥵😈👅”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:51 AM
102

Yes. Old me loved deep conversations and over sharing. I didn’t know any better . New me loves privacy and boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:45 AM
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Great post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:29 AM
4

A reminder why we should vet friends too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 01:48 AM
8

Totally. Narcissists are good at mirroring and shapeshifting into the the type of man you want. This question is similar to “why are you single?”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:11 PM
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A much needed conversation 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:20 PM
8

🤣😂@ “his poor dog was following over 2k Instagram models/pornstars”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:02 AM
9

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:43 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:23 AM
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I hope you don’t feel attacked by my comments or the comments of other women. We’re here to uplift and empower each other. So many of us here have been in similar situations. We just want you to put yourself first and your well-being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:20 AM
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This “stop letting him gaslight you”. I empathize with OP because chances are, he’s been gaslighting her since 2012. I hope OP starts trusting herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:28 PM
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I have a feeling that things were not as good as he made them out to be. He just became better at hiding his bad behaviour. The fact that he suffers from severe depression and refuses to get help is another red flag. And then the rape comment is also a major red flag. He seems good at apologizing and talking, but I don’t think he’s being genuine. He also lied to your face multiple times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:20 PM
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Love this 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:45 AM
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Same 😂😭🤣 I can’t! Wow!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:11 AM
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Besides pretending and let’s say the world was full of HVM. That time period is not even enough to get to know a HVM. His character , how he handles accomplishments, stress, different seasons and this goes both ways. It’s not a crash course. Now that I think of it relationships are a big investment (looking for a lifetime partner) and high risk (emotional, mental, financial and physical). In my opinion slow is better. Keep in mind that slow doesn’t guarantee a happily ever after. However , I’m s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:05 AM
2

Say that again! It’s so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:51 AM
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This is why I like the concept of not giving someone the benefit of the doubt. It’s not ruthless it’s self-preservation. It lowers therapy costs too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:10 AM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:45 AM
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Right! My routine will remain the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:10 AM
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Well damn 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:08 AM
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I love Meg’s verse 😂💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:42 AM
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Saying how you feel is not worth it. It’s been three years already and this situation doesn’t deserve any conversation. Conversations are only for HV men who care about your needs. Only men who are invested in your peace and happiness deserve a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:26 PM
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Leave, block him everywhere and celebrate putting your needs first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:21 PM
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Right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:04 PM
4

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:14 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:59 PM
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Listening to your intuition , do you feel anxious or not grounded. If something feels too good to be true then it’s probably too good to be true (aka love bombing). Does the dating experience or relationship feel too rushed? Have boundaries and let your no be no and yes be yes. It’s easy for someone to con you when you’re isolated . So make sure your close friends and family meet him several times. Meet his friends too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:29 AM
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Thank you for this post. There are a lot of pretentious and manipulative people out there. Always vet at every stage (dating, relationship and marriage). You always have power. Don’t give the benefit of the doubt, assert your boundaries and be willing to walk away at any time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:22 AM
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I’m sorry I didn’t see the +. I apologize. I’m glad we share the same sentiment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:50 AM
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For the first 3 months or for however long you need. If it’s more than 3 months it’s ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:38 AM
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“I don’t have an answer for that” “I don’t know how to respond to you” and then talk about something else. “ It happens” “That’s a weird question to ask”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:23 PM
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Same. I’m winning so much and I can’t believe how much my life has changed in a short period of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:55 PM
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He hates his wife publicly (reference the tone) then lies to her privately (blames it on credit cards vs she wants to make me her bitch). The sad world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:48 PM
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Reciprocity ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 05:23 AM
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I’m constantly updating mine and even put them into sections: self, work, family, friends, dating etc. Yesterday something happened at work that made me feel angry. I felt the anger and had self-talk about why I’m feeling this way. I realized that a boundary was crossed. Now I have a new boundary that I didn’t have before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:14 PM
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Same. I’m putting boundaries and it’s not easy but I can’t go back. I really can’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:33 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:09 AM
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😂 or katakana
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:09 AM
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I don’t watch her content anymore, it’s not for me. I like chloe_
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:32 AM
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I think people forget that there’s no one size fits all strategy on how to be a HVW. Being the woman your are or aspire to be is a personal journey. There are many ways to be a HVW and It’s different for everyone. I personally love this post because it makes sense to me and this is where I am in my journey. I don’t have to force myself to do any of these things , I’m already doing this willingly. If this list doesn’t align with you, then you don’t have to follow it or “fake it till you make it” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:22 AM
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Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:37 AM
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Behaviour/mindset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:46 AM
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The women applauding this post are the women that resonate with this post. Obviously it’s impossible to like everything that you see on this subreddit. There’s nothing wrong or bad with masculinity in women if it works for you. However in my case and because of my collective experiences (past relationships, cultural background, childhood systems)... being highly masculine wasn’t good for my well-being. I had to unlearn certain things and I needed to learn how to balance my masculinity and femini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:26 PM
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I’m sorry I don’t. You can check out recommendations in the FDS handbook or wiki.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:05 PM
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That’s so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:03 PM
2

Congrats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:03 PM
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It helps me to focus on my career/financial goals, self-care, mental health and friendships. I think all of those things contribute to being a high-value woman. When you’re in a good space financially or in your career, you’re more likely to leave a relationship that isn’t good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:04 PM
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Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:51 AM
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I watch Chloe as well. I used to watch school of affluence, the feminine fancy and dr Michelle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:50 AM
5

Thank you I’ll check her page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:21 AM
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Welcome and all the best with your journey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:36 AM
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Thank you queen 👑. If you haven’t already follow female level up strategy on Reddit and check out The baggage reclaim podcast. This is not a resource but I always check how I feel and what I need and cater to those needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:43 AM
6

Thank you 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:33 AM
1

I love this song 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:27 AM
8

Awesome movie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:25 AM
4

OMG crafting texts lmao! It just hit me now that I used to be an author/copywriter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:05 AM
2

You break free by grieving, taking good care of yourself and being patient with your healing journey. If you can, spend time with loving friends and schedule time for fun activities. Try to find a therapist that you`re compatible with and do soothing activities (yoga, meditation, get a massage, take a long bath, drink calming herbal teas like lavender or chamomile and drink lots of water). Focus on shadow work and heal your inner child. if you can, commit to an activity that you enjoy and do it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 05:58 AM
46

I’d also test the “we have a lot in common “ theory over a long period of time. The truth is some people are genuine and others are fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:59 PM
8

😂🤣 the last part and the mic though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:55 PM
20

I stay positive by creating a beautiful life that I enjoy. I stay positive by knowing that I am whole and I don’t need anyone to complete me. If I meet someone awesome ...great !if I don’t it’s also great because I’d rather be alone than in an unhappy relationship. I stay positive by looking at great couples I admire. I stay positive by consuming content that uplifts me and staying away from anything that brings me down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:58 PM
2

Someone who has the same qualities as me if not better. Character: Respect, kindness, integrity, caring, affectionate etc. lifestyle: eats healthy, works out , clean and warm home, loves being in nature etc career: a job that pays well/ has a successful business . Dating/relationships : no kids, never been married , no history of treating people bad in relationships. Basically someone who has the same operating system as me or better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:36 PM
52

I died @ “boy boss” 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:16 PM
16

Please ghost him and don’t look back. It’s going to be painful but you will heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:04 PM
24

Yes I do. If I meet a great man and we get married then absolutely. I’m also considering the option of getting a sperm donor /ivf if ever I don’t meet the right man. Having a child grow up in a healthy and secure environment is very important for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 12:32 PM
2

Virtual hugs your way 🤗 thanks sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:41 PM
2

Oh my! I never thought of that, I can imagine being halfway through a book and a shitty character pops up. I guess we need to vet authors and books too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:58 PM
4

That’s so cool! All the best with your dreams and plans. Good thing the tables are turning and we’re starting to live for ourselves... not for male validation. As long as you have healthy boundaries then you’ll be ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:27 PM
1

Love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:15 PM
3

That’s rare. A good reminder not to build a man because it can be detrimental to your well-being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:01 PM
3

That was painful to watch. It took me a good week to recover from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:00 PM
3

I know what you mean. It’s crazy how we were brainwashed in a subtle way. I love mainstream music but I realized it’s low vibrational. What doesn’t align with the woman I am and becoming needs to go... including music
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:52 PM
1

Yes 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:50 PM
4

Yes sure I’m listening to these songs 1. Jhene Aiko - (speak, frequency, born tired) 2. Kamauu - (mango remix , boodha) 3. Masego - (Queen tings , mystery lady) 4. Amy steinberg - exactly 5. Vargas & Lagola (big hearted , hurts be hurt) 6. Foushee - singleaf 7. Kelis - acapella ( this song is about her pregnancy and the love she has for her first child, it’s so beautiful) 8. Umi- introspection 9. Beverly knight - gold 10. Birdy - start again 11. Maria isabel- buy your own flowers 12. Joe Hertz -…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:49 PM
2

Lol that was refreshing to read 🤗 I’ll check out her video . Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:34 PM
2

Always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:31 PM
933

Them: Build with him Me: I shan’t Edit: thank you for the wholesome award 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:24 PM
173

It’s pure projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:19 PM
88

I never liked his music and I didn’t understand why until now. So thank you! I’ve been doing a music cleanse for the past month. My music is now emotionally mature, healthy and wholesome. It uplifts my spirit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:02 PM
28

Yeah I was disappointed 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:58 PM
20

Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:57 PM
10

Love love number 3. I’d like to add that you shouldn’t change your life for someone you just met or accelerate the dating /relationship experience. Take your time (there’s no rush). Get to know the person over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:47 AM
15

Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:57 AM
24

@ building a shrine 😂🤣I can’t anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:57 PM
8

❤️💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:28 AM
1

The toxic traits I’ve acquired are self-love, boundaries, standards, working towards my goals and living for myself not for validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:24 AM
2

He’s so fine 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:43 AM
4

I’ve experienced this and thank you for posting this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:37 AM
5

Whatever it is that I’m comfortable with and whatever I’d wear if he wasn’t around. So basically my style is consistent whether I’m single or in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:52 PM
2

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:36 PM
59

Please stop 🤣🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:35 PM
4

I’m seeing a pattern. I feel like having a close relationship with others be it family, romantic partner or friends can really cloud our judgement. “My husband”, “my ex”, “my boyfriend” and “my insert word” actually waters down their wrong actions. It makes us focus more on the title and the relationship we have with them rather than their actions. Ask yourself this question. If a stranger did the same thing how would I feel? If someone violated your body or abused you then what would you ? Chan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:19 PM
12

Same . It was very hard for me to read this. Wrong on all levels and very disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:10 PM
14

Totally. Even after being exclusive , if you’re not ready to have sex then the boyfriend can wait. Being official doesn’t automatically translate to sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:02 PM
7

I totally agree with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:55 PM
3

Congrats 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:27 PM
6

Block him indefinitely. He’s abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:26 PM
7

The second paragraph took me out 🤣😂. I live abroad so the meetup fee here has a hierarchy... 1. Free for foreign women 2. 1/2 the price for native women. 3. Full price for foreign men 4. Double the price for native men. The meetup is always followed by “free shots for all”. I hate it and never go to those kind of meetups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:21 PM
17

I’m happy you’re out of that relationship. You deserve a partner that will respect you and protect what you have together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:28 AM
25

At this point I won’t be with someone who visually depicts the behaviour that I don’t subscribe to. If I’m with someone and they are already doing things that are not aligned with my character I’m just going to stop dating them completely. You can’t change someone’s character. However if it’s someone that I’m in a committed relationship with and all of a sudden I see that they are following or doing something shady, then I will call them out once. I’ll see if there’s changed behaviour over a lon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:27 AM
39

Seeing someone following certain people is a red flag 🚩. It’s a sign that we don’t have the same principles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:16 AM
68

So beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:08 AM
6

Rather focus more on a person’s character , patterns/history than race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:32 AM
12

Same. I’m focusing on my health, dreams and adventures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:32 PM
-1

The title 🔥and the image 💯🥺wow ladies this is foreign to me. It’s good to know that decent people exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:31 PM
3

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:57 AM
8

I’m rewatching friends at the moment:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:48 AM
3

I hope she seeks therapy and is surrounded by good friends. She needs to heal and focus on her children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:23 AM
8

Sometimes I think we as women we gaslight ourselves. At the end of the day what happened made her feel uncomfortable and it doesn’t sit well with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:34 PM
3

😂💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:40 PM
6

This is where self-discipline comes in ... instead of calling him ... call friends, family , everyone else in the world but him. It’ll take time but saying no to yourself is so powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:02 PM
3

Love this 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:45 PM
12

Omg I’m grateful for this post! I used to watch their videos but something felt off. I just couldn’t figure out what it was , just my gut. I always felt so drained and low vibrational after watching their content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:19 AM
9

This is so true. At first it will feel like they care about you, but they’re just collecting data to use it against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:10 AM
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