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STRATEGYFDSDedicated/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 03:46 AM
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A similar thing happened to a friend of a friend. They had been together about 18 months when he freaked out and said he wasn't sure she was his forever person. She told him to figure himself out, and ignored him until he came back, chastened, and said he wanted to be with her forever. Fast forward, they're married, own a house together and have two kids. The oldest kid was about 5 when he told her this whole "marriage and family thing" wasn't working for him, and left. When my friend and I were…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 06:49 AM
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Yes! As a follow-on comment, when I was doing OLD, I actually avoided guys who were traditionally "hot" because if they seemed to be too looks-focused, I assumed (fairly or not) they would be shallow and few other interests. Instead I would look for guys whose looks I liked/found appealing, and whose profiles were otherwise interesting to me. And, most importantly, I would skim over any low-effort profile and any profile where there was even a whisper of resentment, especially about past relatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:55 PM
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By your own description he has already broken physical boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:57 PM
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The good news is, the older you get, the less you care about what the world expects from you. Living well becomes its own reward. Go get those goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 10:30 AM
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I didn't used to like organized tours, but having taken a few now with my alumni travel organization, I am a convert. The planned experiences they set up are top notch (guided tours, local restaurants, special museum access, etc.) and it's so nice to just show up in the appointed city and let them take over. But, as you mention, with a decent amount of free time for some less structured wandering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:14 AM
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I once went to cancun without a plan and it sucked. I spent the better part of one day just trying to rent a scooter and a good part of another day trying to figure out the most non-touristy way to get to chichen itza. I enjoyed my activities once I had stuff worked out, but I blew a lot of vaca time on tasks I could have done in advance. But, I guess if your idea of a good time is to spend the whole trip drunk or high and trying to get laid, you don't need much of a plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:08 AM
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Over the years I've progressed from being moderately no-nonsense in my thirties, to largely impatient with fools in my 40s, to an absolute stone cold bitch in my 50s. It's wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:43 AM
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The screenshot of the sister alone should have been a dumpable offense. That's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:15 AM
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I have a friend whose MIL literally told her that her marriage was unhappy but it was OK because she had her son (my friends husband) as a backup. To his credit her husband's response was that they didn't need to see the mom ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:30 PM
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Omg, is this the actual fds Lilith? I'm honored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:49 PM
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Best. Podcast. Ever. Also, is anyone else kind of low key in love with Lundy Bancroft?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 08:05 PM
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Ugh, I feel slimy just from reading that. I'm sorry your friend was such a disappointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:27 AM
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I used to feel badly about being single and childless, but the more I see of married women's lives the more I think I dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:28 AM
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She's only trapped if she lets herself be trapped. I hope she takes the cats and leaves him to his filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:50 PM
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Yeah, I hear that from guys I work with - they change the oil on the cars and mow the lawn and they figure that's equal to: cooking 2 meals a day, meal planning and grocery shopping, daily and deep cleaning, organizing and tidying, planning social activities, managing family health appointments, maintaining everyone's wardrobe. Meanwhile he changes the oil, then stays in the garage for the rest of the day tinkering on his pet projects, or man-caving with his bros, or gaming. Totally 50/50. Total…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:00 PM
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I know numerous plus sized women who are with good guys. And I know numerous thin women who are with assholes. And vice-versa of both situations. If you keep your standards high and follow Fds rules you will weed out the awful guys who see you as less-than.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:08 PM
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A friend was waving at a guy to pull out in front of her in traffic and he held up his left hand and pointed at his ring. Yes, Chad, she wasnt just being polite in traffic, she was trying to get you to pull over and ask her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:01 PM
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Is this a joke? I mean, I know it's not, but it almost reads like a pickme parody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:21 PM
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Same. Mine has even done global hoboeing. The steady drip of willing victims is what amazes me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:54 AM
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I mean, I like oreos, but I can just buy some at the store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:34 AM
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A few years back I traveled through several countries in Eastern Africa, and I noticed how, everywhere I went, people were sparkling clean, with pressed, crisp clothing. In the cities and in the most rural villages. There is no excuse for American men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:00 PM
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No, no, you misunderstand. The peen is so large, they're actually using it to push the gas pedal. I mean, obvs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:09 PM
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Regarding turning an available guy down b/c you're stuck on a narcissist loser - a friend of mine once told me "you can never have too many new guys." It's a great thing to keep in mind - you're not committed to anyone until you're committed, and until then you can flirt and date and meet new guys as much as you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:39 AM
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A friends HV husband gave her a full course in money as soon as they were engaged. They were young and she was kind of afraid of money and didn't understand it, and he had already built some wealth. He walked her through all their accounts and showed her how to access everything, plus how to save, track, and invest, so she would be OK if anything happened to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:04 PM
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"Oh, we're not really close" covers a lot of situations, while being both true and vague. If they press, you can tactfully change the subject. If they press after that you can block and delete because they're either emotionally clueless or they're deliberately trying to run over your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:39 AM
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This was a lesson I finally figured out while watching the romantic trajectory of a drop-dead beautiful college friend. She married a guy who openly bragged about how she was a trophy, and would literally interrupt her in front of other people to say "no one gives a F*CK what you think." Women my age (mid 50s) were sold such a bill of goods - that attracting and keeping a man would make our lives so happy and rewarding. By all of the traditional measures she should have had the best life, becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 09:43 PM
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Wait, you mean you don't talk about the chiseled jawlines of the men you date? To me, that was as big a giveaway as "gal." 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:08 PM
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Regarding the question "what do you do?" I think it can be an elitist question, and I believe you if he came across that way, but I want to offer a differing interpretation of the question in general. I like what I do for a living, and most people find it interesting, so I'm always happy to answer the question. And, since I find work (or at least some types of work) interesting, I like to ask the question of others. Also, since we do spend a lot of time working (unless we're really lucky) it's a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 10:27 PM
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I agree. I wonder if he gave her a choice between divorce and poly, and she was so afraid of divorce she agreed to poly. And then I imagine, what if she had the courage to leave him? Think of the freedom of coming home to a drama free house, never being kept awake by the sound of your husband rutting with another woman, never wasting your precious time on earth feeling anxious and hurt by a dynamic that's always right in your face? Also, how much do you want to bet he's going to leave her for th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:36 PM
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The b plot of this post is that a man you don't know very well vomited his emotional junk all over you. It drives me crazy that so many guys see women as open dumping grounds for whatever they feel anxious or sad about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:51 AM
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Yeah, I was reading with dread, waiting for her to say he hit or shook the baby. Not yet, at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 12:36 AM
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