LogisticalConundrum Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
164	How to spot a Deadbeat Dad but then you look at the statistics saying 90% (depending on the country) of men don't even request a shared custody so... This. 90% of child custody arrangements are informal and settled out of court, and the majority of them favor the mother as primary custodian becuase a lot of Dads have no interest in parenting their children. But I'd stay away from Dads with a history of high conflict custody battles as well, becuase in every example I've seen or read about, the source of the conflict is al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/22 06:17 PM
28	Wealthy men and mistresses The women who are attached to wealthy men like this are the female counterparts to their gross old man depravity. A lot of those women are pretty nasty themselves. Like they look pretty but a lot of them would seriously knife fight someone in a pee soaked alley. So just steer clear. The wives are always pretty angry, too. I just try to be kind and respectful, honestly, because I think all those women, the wives and the mistresses probably deal with a lot of horrific treatment that people don't s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/22 03:28 PM
8	Following our intuition can save our lives; the story of Rodney Alcala - prolific serial killer. A demented man whom appeared and won on a 70s’ Dating show and the Bachelorette, Cheryl Bradshaw who avoided a terrible demise. I have a question from people who are into this sort of thing: It seems like the late 60's and 70's had a real serial killer problem and all the notorious serial killers were from this era. Why is it that we don't seem to have modern serial killers that killed at the scale that these dudes did? Is it because that kind of stuff just doesn't get publicized until after the fact so notorious serial killers of the 2020's just wouldn't be common knowledge until 2040, is it something about the culture …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/22 05:24 PM
95	Tonight is the night… Wow really? That just makes the whole Superbowl Sunday back to back with Valentines day this year super creepy to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 07:01 AM
81	Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them. A lot of them are watching incest porn so they probaly see their mothers and grandmothers as potential fuckholes too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/22 07:15 PM
47	How to win in family court: a PSA from a lawyer. I'd say just don't talk to your ex about your case at all. Only talk through lawyers. As a woman you're in a much better postion to negotiate when your abusive ex doesn't have his hooks in you. It causes all sorts of issues when high conflict parents communicate outside of a legal setting, gives him opportunites to manupilate and control, and your lawyer will be frustrated with you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 09:27 PM
3	this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣 I don't think this is a new phenomenon. I'm actually shocked that any man has ever stepped up in the history of humankind. Women step up becuase we are biologically equipped to have children.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 03:31 AM
72	Woman levels up, LVM ex is vengeful and escalating. She's trying to co-parent for their daughter but it's entirely one sided. It'd be one thing if you were reasonably sure your ex would be a hands-off deadbeat, but if you know he's the controlling, manipulative, vindictive type who'll insist on shared custody, you are doing your child a massive disservice bringing them into that. My whole hobby now is researching the things that go on in custody battles and I've come away with a couple of insights. 1) it's always a mistake to accommodate a male co-parent without a custody agreement in place if you broke up with him bec…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 10:24 PM
5	What is female liberation? Women pursuing careers and life paths towards self-sufficiency and financial independence. Women doing personal work to heal trauma caused by being raised to be a woman and trauma caused by men and boys. Women organizing towards to common goal of systemic change in the systems and institutions that are the source of inequity between men and women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 04:59 PM
86	You might've seen the article on men creating AI girlfriends and verbally abusing them. I was curious after that news came out and decided to download Replika (where these incidents occured). This is the program that they were abusing. Yea, it's another way to desensitize themselves to violence and abuse against real women, just like porn.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 06:03 AM
13	girl what This man has all the audacity. He basically told her, 'I won't go to marriage counseling, but I will start financially abusing you instead.' He made it a requirement to divorce him. Although this divorce is going to be ugly because it's sure as shit that he'll end up going in for alimony and half her assets because pre-nups don't necessarily trump divorce property laws. I think in the post it said he has the value of half an Audi saved up so that may not be as much as her but it's enough to hire…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/22 03:19 PM
4	We owe it to our grandmothers to live out our best lives Yep, my maternal grandma had five kids one died young and she almost died from an illegal abortion before she left her alcoholic abusive husband. She had to cede custody of her four kids to the abuser and his new victim. Her mother had 8 kids, all boys except her. My paternal grandma had to immigrate to the US and leave her whole family and everything she knew behind because she fell pregnant from her GI boyfriend during the Korean War. My mom was a teenager in 1971 when they passed the Equal Cr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 07:22 AM
5	Looking the same after babies I think way more celebrity babies are gestated by surrogates than the media would have you believe. Most of those baby bump pics in the tabloids are probably fake.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 04:26 PM
12	The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasy Thinking of my ex I dumped a couple of years ago who was 6 years older them me. He already had gross wrinkly face skin and was getting a beer gut when we broke up. Now I'm the same age he was when we split and I'm still waiting for my first wrinkle. Still maintaining my weight and don't drink nearly as much as he does so I'm going to be in much better shape in my 40's that he is. I've also doubled my income in the last couple years and he's still doing the same old thing. And bald. He always tre…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 08:03 PM
92	I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchy Therapy is for healing emotional wounds and dealing with unhealthy coping strategies that cause negative outcomes. Most men aren't abusing women because they have unresolved emotional wounds, they're doing it because they've been trained to dehumanize women by watching porn and they feel entitled to dominate women from participating in patriarchal cultural groups. Men abuse women because they have an internal value set that makes them feel entitled to dominate women, physically if necessary, and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 09:47 PM
211	We're not doing it anymore Someone please explain to me this fantasy that men have of this mythical woman who does not recoil in disgust over their legitimately detestable behaviors? Like this is another one of their weird mommy fantasies again? My mommy spent years cleaning up my bodily functions she still loves me so a woman can't love me enough unless she's willing to wade knee deep in my own literal and proverbial shit just like mommy? I've totally encountered this attitude before and I can't wrap my brain around it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/21 02:14 AM
17	You Have to Vet Harder Despite Health Complications After being treated this way, I think it’s made me realize that instead of settling and being treated in this manner, I’m going to vet harder for the sake of my own happiness. You absolutely have to vet harder, not just for your happiness but because having a disability can make a situation with an NVM even more dangerous and difficult to leave. Vet because you value your life. How many stories have we seen with LVM/NVM who fuck with their girlfriend's meds or try to feed her known allergens? …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/21 11:26 PM
31	As I was reading this... I was thinking "He must be significantly older than her." But she handled it perfectly. 💅 👑 Was it here that I was reading something about men who like to take girls out on boats because they have to consent to sex? I'm sure this dude is just boggled that girls aren't lining up to get on his rape boat.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/21 09:01 PM
2	and another thing on not ever dating single fathers "not wanting to raise some other woman's kids" Single fathers are sooooo guilty of expecting any random woman they happen to be banging to raise their kids. This is major projection.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 11:33 PM
3	Missing Utah college student Madelyn Allen found alive, 'covered in coal' in suspect's basement Ah, of course it's in Utah for some straight Buffalo Bill level psycho shit. Depraved males and extremist patriarchal religions. They need to persecute this guy so he never gets out of prison because there's no way this wasn't a lead up to murder. But they won't.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 04:56 PM
1	Relationship status = single Men are always putting themselves on the same level as children except they're 1000x less lovable than actual children when they do that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/21 07:01 PM
5	This is narcissistic abuse. It’s like abusers follow all the same steps. They do, and that's their main weakness. You can pretty much predict what they will do and plan around it very effectively. The thing that is just mind-boggling is where they learned to do it and why they can't behave differently.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/21 06:51 AM
6	This is narcissistic abuse. Terrible temper over literally made up things - The whole practice of making up things to get angry about really enrages me for some reason. It's just deeply antagonistic to my entire being. In a macro sense, we seem to have a whole society that is built on this kind of behavior.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/21 06:48 AM
160	50/50 trap, listen to this queen! I can't believe how many of the posts on parenting forums could be solved by just getting rid of the fully grown adult male in the house who contributes nothing but conflict and extra work.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/21 07:16 PM
9	Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside. How many kids does this lady have? Damn. Get the boys, the girls, obviously some toddler/baby action in there and Luca too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 11:29 PM
48	Misogyny is normalised because it only effects women That shit is on another level. When I was going through my divorce and custody proceedings and stress redditing, the stories I read on the custody subs was absolute nightmare fuel compared to my own case. My impression of family court is that it's a lawful evil sort of scenario, and it's workable if you have a decent lawyer. There is definitely bias against women, but also most judges don't wish to flagrantly break the laws of their jurisdiction. The real losing ground for most women is everythi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/21 06:49 AM
137	Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through? He treated her worse than any of us. This. These guys are a unique breed of LVM because they're conscious enough of their LV behavior to know that it will have consequences if they take it into an intimate relationship but not motivated to do the self-work required to change it. So they opt for putting up emotional walls and keeping their distance so they can get sex and maid services from women instead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/21 03:13 AM
49	How big of an age gap in relationships is acceptable? The problem with being 36-37 now is that all the men act like cranky old men even when they're technically 'age appropriate', and the men 4+ years older are giving serious grandpa vibes. Men get so decrepit at the same time that women seem to be coming into their maturity and power gracefully.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/21 05:58 PM
55	Is marriage always a good idea for a woman with assets? It really depends on what your desired lifestyle is, who you're getting married to, income and wealth of the male partner relative to the female partner, age and career differences between partners, whether you're going to have kids or own property together or not. I think wealthy women and poor man pairings are not good, because of the increased risk of DV and the consequences of him deciding to be a stay at home freeloader. Wide age gaps are also not a good choice for wealthy women who are in …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 08:55 PM
4	Dating outside of your race I'm mixed race so technically all dating is dating outside of my race. 🤣 You gotta have high standards and cultural barriers can be a huge thing to overcome disregarding any other of the usual pitfalls in hetero relations.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 09:46 PM
11	Did you guys see the house wife unpopular opinion post on front page? I make a ton of money and the only thing that would make my life better is having a housewife, unfortunately I'm straight so I think the best I could do is have a roomie who doesn't mind picking up the slack in domestic duties for inexpensive stable housing,-- which I'm wokring on by saving to get a BIG house. Personally, I hate doing chores and thinking about homemaking stuff just makes me anxious, so, for me, having a stable career is the only way. Now, I totally commend women who have the kna…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/21 01:50 AM
1	I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response: The type of low key emotional abuse that men rely on to control women requires creating a state of confusion in a target. So yes, it is harder to confuse an intelligent woman with a good memory.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/21 05:30 PM
1	I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response: This is true.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/21 05:21 PM
35	I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response: This is propaganda against average intelligence women to diminish themselves and not pursue educational attainment, which is super sad and insidious. High IQ ladies are well aware of the drawbacks of IQ in dating but you can't exactly make yourself dumber just like you can't make yourself grow 5 inches by wishing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 04:51 PM
9	FDS needs to be applying to grants Yes, grants and stuff for female creatives and content creators! A think a lot of grants for women's health and services would be reserved for non-profits but there are loads and loads of grant programs and funding opps for creatives and you don't have to be a non-profit usually.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/21 12:41 AM
59	Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse. I'd say that in the case where she's recovering from a severe illness or injury and he still refuses to care for children or household, it's not just mental abuse, it's straight up physical abuse too.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 07:59 PM
4	So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men: Kinda weird he preaches about responsibility so much & mocks women as ‘emotional chaos’ That's some projection right there, most men have brains that are wired for addiction if you look at the prevalence of life destroying vices they fall prey to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/21 04:05 PM
82	Gabby Petito's case; Police bodycam footage shows how Brian made Gabby seem hysterical while he played it off cool I can't even describe the rage that these men feel when you respond to their efforts with stoic calm or leaving the sitiation. It's easy to do if you have the mindset that their behavior is their own and so are the consequences. Worth understanding if your goal is to imprison him or go to court. These men definitely feed off the hysterical woman energy they create.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/21 01:41 PM
54	WOC and our current complex feelings about missing woman media coverage This is why intersectional feminism can be a rocky terrain to navigate. I think it's important to talk about both the very obvious way that systemic misogyny was recorded and on display for the world to witness in Petito's case,-- and it's worth noting that even though she's a pretty white girl the cops on that call were still so willing to leave her in the clutches of that monster and even if we have so much 'empathy' for her what is that even worth if we refuse to acknowledge the systematic an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 06:27 PM
58	Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls? A woman can go her whole life without finding a romantic partner who will actually cherish her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/21 01:46 AM
55	Kicked out my LVM roommate. I feel like I can finally enjoy life again 😄 This dude sounds like a straight up sociopath. Not normal even for a male roommate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 09:14 PM
8	He can make more money than you and still be a hobosexual We need more people speaking the truth that lots of men are too burdensome, disruptive, violent or conflict seeking to keep around when there are actual dependents in the home. If he leaves her with young children he's probaly cheating or something, and no woman leaves a man with young children unless his behavior is absolutely beyond reason bad. Single dads are just walking red flags.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 04:45 PM
28	He can make more money than you and still be a hobosexual There are two types of single moms, it seems like they either take zero shit or all the shit from just about any dude. Is there never an in between? Like, whhhyyyy ever entertain this guy for one second?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 06:11 AM
59	Misogynist slob (with maybe wife & daughter in tow) harasses young women for wearing --get this-- bathing suits at the beach. He equates women's bodys with pornography, because he's a depraved misogynist, only porno-addicts look at naked women and see pornography. I don't imagine that fool has any kind of exceptional talents but imagine what he could do if he spent as much time as he spends wanking it to porn on learning a musical instrument or studying.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 03:34 AM
34	If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them? I've been reading too much /r/arethestraightsokay becuase it seems like a lot of men think they're going to be fucking their own daughters or something. They don't want peak mothers they want doormat mother's who allow predatory men to harm their children.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 06:06 AM
8	Women don’t hate their own biology and sex differences....they hate men who exploit them for those differences. That they’re expected to tolerate endless abuse, cheating and harassment and never complain - just for being born female. Privilege? I wouldn’t go that far - most men are intolerable that’s why we stay single. One defintpey has to have social class priveledge to become financially independent in our broken economy-- regardless of ones sex. I think that's what we are talking about when we say being a single woman is a priveledge.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/21 12:14 PM
22	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 24 - Pre-Sex Sexual Compatibility Tests + Birthday SadBoy On Birthday Sadboy, I totally had an ex who would reassure me about things, saying he was okay with something and then would go back and 'pull the rug out' afterwards. And he totally did turn out to be a full on abusive piece of shit. That's one of those red flags that merits an immediate dumping.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 10:41 PM
8	What are ways that we actively advocate against misogynistic terrorists groups and make meaningful change? Yea, we need counterradicalism programs for these groups. I don't know how those programs are run though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/21 08:27 PM
6	Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens! I put a man who is basically my equal. If you assume that human male/female populations are going to exist on similar bell curves than there should be roughly equal numbers of male equivalents to my stats. Not married Any race (I'm mixed) Late 30's age range 90th percentile for male height (6') (5'7" female) top 10% for male income (150k+) (100K+ female) I got a 0.24%, but if that is true, how can I exist? I may actually be some kind a AI masquerading as a human on the internet. What's the rever…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/21 03:44 AM
32	I don't think men are capable of seeing us as humans, ever If men think you are inferior, they want to date you and will “love” you but they don’t respect you. If men see you as their equal, they respect you but feel emasculated by you, and won’t date you. This kind of summarizes my romantic life. Typically once I start getting to know who a man is and enjoying their company is about when they also get to know me and decide that they're not interested in my romantically. The men I tend to actually get in relationships with don't know me, and they also s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 03:53 AM