| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 52 | How do I avoid men coming up to me?You can't really avoid this. Those men are pigs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:10 AM |
| 111 | Every year on International Women’s Day, Google searches for International Men’s Day spike…Yup! And they wanna be the victims soooo badly. Ever notice when people talk about women's struggles, some insecure dude ALWAYS pipes in: wHaT aBoUt MeNnNNnN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 21 | Friends with Men?I have several guy friends. Some are able to handle it as a normal, platonic friendship, like an adult. Some try to turn it into some weird friends-to-lovers fantasy. Usually, they show their true intentions pretty quickly. Which is good because I don't waste much time with them, but also super sucks cause I lose them as a friend. But it's not worth entertaining these pathetic fantasies just to keep the friendship. They'd rather throw away a perfectly good friendship over their pp's feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 02:11 AM |
| 227 | Fucking idiot 🤡Lol he's so fucking pathetic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:00 PM |
| 5 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..100% accurate. He knows women his age wouldn't put up with his literal SHIT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 06:33 PM |
| 4 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..Jar Jar Stinks lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 06:32 PM |
| 3 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..God, there's nothing I can do but laugh at this story about Jar Jar Stinks 💩 Good for her for not caving in. What a literal shit show! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 06:31 PM |
| 21 | Be careful posting elsewhereHonestly, I feel like they're silencing us. It's a way for new members to find us. Some people could look at our comments and then look at our post history and then find FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 09:38 PM |
| 82 | Be careful posting elsewhereI'm not going to discuss which one as it might cause more "brigading" (their words). I made zero mention of this sub. I was just commenting on one of their posts. I'm assuming the auto-mod banned me because it could see my post history, but I could be wrong... Not entirely sure how it all works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂I didn't know who he was and had to Google him... That's crazy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 183 | (TW) Her husband PEED IN HERWHAT THE FUCK. My vagina just sewed itself shut. I wonder how many comments say cOmMuNiCaTe!! Yeah, she already did that. She firmly said no and he did it anyway. Then he has the cheek to say she "killed the fun". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 04:39 PM |
| 10 | Adopt a scroteHave you met my former best friend? This IS EXACTLY what she's doing and she's fucking proud of it. Disgusting. She hates it when guys do the same thing but was bragging about being a "cougar". I felt bad for her new guy... Being talked about like a piece of meat in front of everyone. So dehumanizing. Oh, and she cheated on her husband with this guy. Didn't tell me. Didn't tell me they got a divorce, either. Just ghosted me for 9+ months and showed up to a party with an entirely new dude like it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 12:40 PM |
| 389 | Remember no man can be "baby trapped" if he doesn't let it happenRemember: To scrotes, nothing is EVER the man's fault. It's just sad cause they can't admit that there are even SOME bad men out there. Yet, they're just as shitty as those men, all while saying, "NoT aLl MeN!!" Also, Mulaney is a giant man whore. He fucked around and found out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:12 PM |
| 202 | On men frequenting OF/internet models/cam girls etc : If this were the 90s would you date a man who carried around a box of swimsuit model magazines 📖 so he could ogle them a couple times an hour??Great point! And how would he feel if you were looking at massive dongs all day? Would he be the "cool guy" and not let it bother him? Hiiiighly doubt it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 108 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.I didn't think it could get worse, then I'd swipe to the next panel. HOLY FUCK. I had to unhinge my jaw for it to go lower. The mom is just as bad as the husband! How the fuck could they do that for that long?? And what he said at the end in a mediated conversation... I wonder if she'd ever get that out of him if he didn't have a mediator there. It's like... He knows he'd be protected from his wife's (very rightful) clapback, cause he's a fucking coward. Otherwise, he'd probably never tell her t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 04:06 PM |
| 133 | Adopt a scroteI love how she poses herself as so much more mature, yet she's still a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 114 | Using your hobby to vetAt least they're weeding their own dumb asses out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:36 PM |
| 27 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItGuy-Fieri-lookin'-ass-motherfucker but I'm sure he can't even cook and will NEVER take you to flavor town. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:51 PM |
| 29 | Dump him firstThe a u d a c i t y | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 216 | When being a pornsick pickme trying to fulfill an unasked for male fantasy goes wrongYeah, but what's crazy is he jumped right in after she suggested it. It just proves how shitty a lot of men are. His willingness to act on this without questions for his gf is a huge red flag. Yes, the girl is a giant pickme, but the guy is not much better. Especially his behavior after the encounter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Let’s talk hobbies! What are your current hobbies? What’s a hobby you’re interested in starting?I turned one of my hobbies into a job: I'm an artist. I also enjoy chess, hiking, and cycling. I would love to try archery! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 10:29 AM |
| 30 | Dump him firstThat's 100% on-point. He was way too proud to accept that he wasn't as great as he thought he was. He was EXTREMELY egotistical. What's even worse is during one of his calls with me while he was on tour, he admitted paying for handjob at some massage parlor. I freaked and he said, "No, this was BEFORE I was with you, and I realize my mistake." I told him I was very upset and wanted to break up--I didn't want a partner who has EVER done that. A guy who sinks to that level isn't someone I want to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:28 AM |
| 26 | Dump him firstThe funny thing is, when he showed it to me, he was like, "My friend showed this to his now-girlfriend, too." Like, "Hey, other girls have seen this and chose to stay with their guy." So fucking manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:14 AM |
| 108 | Dump him firstThanks, I had all these uncomfortable feelings about it. I'm glad I listened to my gut. I'm much more assertive now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:53 PM |
| 461 | Dump him firstTrue story, I dated a guy who was in the Navy. We dated for a few weeks and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I agreed. Then, he told me a few days later that he was going on tour for 4 months. I tried to break up with him, but he wouldn't let me. He kept guilting me into staying with him. He showed me some Green Day song where the girl wants to break up with her boyfriend because he was going to war. I was impressionable, so I stayed with him. A few weeks after that, his tour started. It was mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:02 PM |
| 362 | Dump him firstEvery guy I've dumped acts this way. I gave them reasons, yet it seems like they're more upset that I was the one who dumped them, not necessarily the reasons why I dumped them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 10:49 PM |
| 58 | Never Forget: Men will stop at nothing to chase their DreamGirl. If you know or suspect you're not her, then disengage immediately.I really wouldn't want a man to fixate on me because I might be his "DreamGirl". These types of men are caught up in a fantasy. I'm sure the DreamGirls in their heads are barely humanized, zero flaws, etc. When these men start realizing the reality of relationships, the give-and-take, and the work that goes into it--they tend to get disengaged because we're no longer the perfect DreamGirl anymore. They just wanna go into Build-a-Whore and walk out with the perfect DreamGirl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 3 | A teenage boy full of gratitude to his mom & treating her after years of sacrifice is a good thing to see. This is what a (possible) baby HVM looks like. Take note, lurkersLVM lurkers be like: ThE mOm BeTtEr PuT oUt!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:26 PM |
| 4 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮What's so sad is she's been conditioned to think this is an amazing gift. And she's basically telling all the low-effort men grasping for ideas on Reddit to get their SOs to settle for a household item that has no deep meaning for the recipient AT ALL. How insulted do you think he'd feel if she bought the vacuum for HIM? Or, better yet, a fucking vibrator? Think of his outrage. Loser men on Reddit have been trained to give selfish gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 07:13 PM |
| 10 | Reddit Moment: Guy Admits to Sexually Harassing Women, Women Get Pissed On For Calling Him Out (Including Pickmes!)Dude, what's so hard about an ass-out hug? Why did he have to press his crotchal region against hers?? Edit: Also, I remember 2 of my guy friends telling me about "the tuck". Like, they talked about getting awkward boners in high school and they learned how to inconspicuously tuck it into their waistbands so people wouldn't notice and make fun of them. This scrote 100% wanted her to know he was turned on. But if she freaked out, it's all: It'S nAtUrAl!! It'S jUsTbIoLoGy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 04:05 PM |
| 491 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄That's the problem. Men think it's ALWAYS their looks because they judge women on their looks. I've NEVER dumped or rejected a guy because of his looks. It has 100% unequivocally been about his personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 03:58 PM |
| 36 | Scrote seduces his boss on a work trip, has sex with her, and shares her photos on Reddit in his profile for everyone to see. Someone needs to find her and tell her.Totally agree. These are good rules to follow, but he's the shithead here and should take all of the blame. Men have centuries worth of porn readily-accessible in their pockets, yet it's not enough for them. They just want more, more, more. And if they can hurt a woman in the process, they'll do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:52 PM |
| 21 | Scrote seduces his boss on a work trip, has sex with her, and shares her photos on Reddit in his profile for everyone to see. Someone needs to find her and tell her.Exactly! She could totally lose her job over his dumb ass. All for internet clout. What a fucking waste he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:47 PM |
| 34 | Scrote seduces his boss on a work trip, has sex with her, and shares her photos on Reddit in his profile for everyone to see. Someone needs to find her and tell her.Pimeyes is a better source, but you have to pay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:04 PM |
| 102 | Scrote seduces his boss on a work trip, has sex with her, and shares her photos on Reddit in his profile for everyone to see. Someone needs to find her and tell her.100% agree. He sounds like a vile human being. Open marriages are extremely dependent on open and honest communication on both sides. This asshole just sounds like he wants to brag and share the boss's pics without her consent, which SCREAMS not following his partner's boundaries, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:02 PM |
| 186 | Scrote seduces his boss on a work trip, has sex with her, and shares her photos on Reddit in his profile for everyone to see. Someone needs to find her and tell her.Men: "DoN't HaTe Us, We'Re GoOd GuYs!!!" Also men: "wAnNa SeE pIcS aGaInSt HeR cOnSeNt???" Other men: "YeAh, BrOoo!!" I'm willing to bet his wife doesn't know. Also, why the fuck would you want to have sex with other women if your wife is "gorgeous" (I'm using the scrote's chosen adjective.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 10:59 PM |
| 37 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedI've already got some hatermail in my inbox. Stay mad, scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:53 AM |
| 67 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedNo kidding! A lot of men think you want to fuck them if you say, "Hey, I like your shirt." How can you blame them when they ONLY compliment women they want to fuck. They think the inverse is true: Women who compliment them want to fuck them which is RARELY true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 89 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvoted100% this!! Guys ALWAYS complain about not receiving enough compliments. But when they do, they automatically think you want to fuck them. Makes me reeeeeeally careful about who I compliment so it isn't taken out of context. They've created this environment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 11:07 PM |
| 35 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedYou know, you have a very good point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:43 PM |
| 49 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Well, thank god I'm a 6.99 so I could dodge this man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:39 PM |
| 58 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvoted100% agree with you. I hold/open doors for anyone who is relatively close to me going into the same building. It's just common courtesy and polite. I never EVER expect sex out of such an infinitely tiny gesture of kindness. Men who make a big deal about it KNOW other guys don't normally do that so they make a big show of it. They hope they can trick you into being wowed because they know it's low-effort. If they can get you to accept this low-effort gesture and be wowed by it, they won't have to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 3 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀Right, because her BMI is dangerously too low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:11 PM |
| 135 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedI really hope this is true. Otherwise, he met the pickme-est of all pickmeshias. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:08 PM |
| 170 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvoted👏Stop 👏 conditioning 👏 men 👏 to 👏 do 👏 the 👏 bare 👏 minimum 👏 for 👏 sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:07 PM |
| 3 | If he doesn’t lovingly and passionately kiss you during sex, he does NOT love you.Was he Terry from Reno 911? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 83 | [deleted by user]Yep, exactly. Suuuper fake just to drum up more hatred for this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:47 PM |
| 32 | [deleted by user]How dare us!? What's the worst thing that guys do to women hmmm... Rhymes with milling... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Thinking of dropping my LVF friend because of her cheatingDrop her. I did the same for my former best friend. Once I did, I realized how much other shitty behavior she's done in the past that I just ignored cause she was my friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:01 PM |
| 44 | Proof that the main beneficiary of casual sex & relationships is men!!!!"Feminist" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 36 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??Very good point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:04 AM |
| 148 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??Because porn. Porn has fucked their expectations so they think girls will enjoy basically anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 69 | Lil Miss Cheetah catches a Cheater red-handed 🥴😂The saddest part of his lame ass effort to clear his name was at the end, he says, "Yeah... I did come up to her." And then he shuts the recording off. It's almost like he realizes, "Oh, shit... That WAS wrong to do..." Like why the fuck are you approaching women when you're not single, dude?? Especially with her friend filming! How dumb are these scrotes?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 02:11 PM |
| 71 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?How fucking dumb is Drake to think this works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 202 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?I haven't been paying attention to him much anymore. Last I heard, he was texting that girl from Stranger Things late at night and trying to be her "friend". She was 14 at the time. Who knows how many other underaged girls he's groomed and coerced into sex/raped because he's famous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:52 AM |
| 18 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.I knew a guy JUST LIKE this who went to one of my ex-boyfriend's church. Gave me the creepy vibes even before I met his "wife" aka victim. No one said shit because he was one of the pastors. shudders One of the many, many reasons I'm no longer religious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:49 AM |
| 47 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.I wish I could upvote this harder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:43 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of your partner having long weekends without you?Very good information and insight! Thanks 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 28 | What do you think of your partner having long weekends without you?Thanks for your input! Sounds like you were able to come to an agreement and he was encouraging. Glad it worked so well 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 04:59 PM |
| 272 | Do men understand the difference between flirting and being friendly?This sounds like some sick, twisted sexual fantasy of his... Wear his "cute" female roommate down until she admits she wants to have sex with him. Reddit is full of stupid male fantasies like this. They NEVER consider that the woman might not be into them, or, you know, they just want to FUCKING LIVE IN A HOUSE IN PEACE AND QUIET WITHOUT CONSTANT UNWANTED ADVANCES FROM A DUDE THEY'RE NOT INTERESTED IN. Sorry for yelling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 01:26 PM |
| 46 | Just another day in the mind of a LVM. Men shouldn’t be allowed to date, they’re evolving from walks to wanting to run errands on dates for their own benefitThis comment! Here, take my fake Reddit gold 🏅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 01:09 PM |
| 46 | Thank you thank you FDSGreat job, OP! 💪 Also, what the fuck is it with men and not dealing with their issues?? They'd rather abuse weed and escape their problems to the tune of $400 a month. Meanwhile, the problems are just fucking sitting there and never resolving. If they instead went to THERAPY, you know, like a fucking adult, they'd fix their problems and have a much better life without relying on a substance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Have your first impressions of men been accurate?First and foremost, everyone is on their best behavior at the beginning of a relationship. Men, women, gender fluid/non-binary, etc, every fucking one. With that being said, if he's already handing out red flags within a month or so of dating him, RUN. He's not going to get better. He won't change, and it's NOT your responsibility to fix him! For the most part, the first few relationships I've had, I've ignored red flags and thought the guys would change. They never do. I have, however, gotten m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 28 | R*pe by deception is seen as normal by men in the comments.You can 100% bet the guys allll look like fucking Homer Simpson. No attractive man who respects himself would EVER go for this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 21 | R*pe by deception is seen as normal by men in the comments.What in the ever-loving fuck is this pickme bullshit? Girl, go to a sperm bank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 417 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littleHe looks like he could be her fucking grandpa, wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:02 AM |
| 228 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much pornSeriously, though. Their obsession with teens is fucking sickening, especially the older they get. I've found that I'm not attracted to guys 5+ years younger than I am. But if you ask any guy, no matter what age they are, they'll respond that girls in their early teens/20s are very attractive. The fuck is wrong with these men?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:00 AM |
| 35 | Guy murders his separated wife... Horrible men in the comment section are defending his actionsBrazen, because they've been unchecked for too fucking long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 119 | Guy murders his separated wife... Horrible men in the comment section are defending his actionsYup. Shitty men will NEVER accept that other men are the problem... It's ALWAYS a woman's fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 09:14 PM |
| 233 | Guy murders his separated wife... Horrible men in the comment section are defending his actionsMore info: Another woman is MURDERED because her husband spied and discovered her talking with another man. They were separated and she had her own place, but apparently, it's not okay for her to talk to other men. Lots of women-haters in the comment section. And one voice speaking about the injustices women face gets met with someone referring them to the suicide hotline. Seriously?? Just seems like they never want to actually internalize what we say... just push us off so someone else can deal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 126 | [deleted by user]100% agree about men being celebrated for picking the pretty girl and/or the girl who's willing to put out without much effort on his part. Let's call these men what they are: Sexdiggers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 255 | Flip that script and call a spade a spade!The ONLY men who complain about some women being "high maintenance" are ALWAYS low value men. They want to get pussy for the least effort possible. And it's perpetuated enough in society that some women (pick-mes) make a HUGE deal about being "low maintenance" - AKA sacrifice their wants/needs when it's just basic relationship stuff. And what these men think high maintenance means is something along the lines of: "What?? You want me to have a job, perform basic hygiene, not ask for sex on the fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 04:58 PM |
| 298 | Trust him, he’s worth itPeople literally said the phrase "bull in a china shop" to him, meaning he doesn't think carefully before he says stuff and ends up hurting people. Yet, in the next line, he says he's sEnSiTiVe and CaRiNg. Dude, pick one. He at least has the sensitive part right. And he's only caring about his own feelings and not others. Why does he think he'd be worth getting to know better? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 05:55 AM |
| 38 | How should a man act with female co workers?Same way he acts with other men at work. With other men, he'll strictly keep convos to work-only and won't text them later at night. If anything is bothering you about his behavior, let him know. If he raises a fit or crosses your boundaries; drop him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 05:14 AM |
| 18 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.Lol no kidding. I cAn'T wRaP!! And the gift looks like a freaking 4-year-old wrapped it. It just requires a little more time + attention and they're just not willing to do that shit. It's almost like they'd rather piss us off than put in a little more effort. Meanwhile, we're 9 times out of 10 the ones planning everything, baking, cooking, decorating the house, etc. We're usually the ones putting in time, effort, and attention to make things memorable. It's like they're so used to their mommies … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:34 PM |
| 27 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.No joke, when my partner and I first started dating, Pandora was just getting popular. Around Christmastime, we were watching TV and a Pandora commercial came on. I looked him dead in his face and said, "Don't EVER buy me this, PLEASE." He laughed. And he never bought me any of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 12:03 AM |
| 29 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.My god, that is satisfying as fuck to read lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:56 PM |
| 12 | Only the real feminist men can pass this test!Whitney Houston | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 01:17 PM |
| 53 | The tea is hotWhat's hilarious is the ONLY guy I know personally who dresses like that is an HVM. Treats his wife super well and his look definitely is deceiving. I've known him since high school, and he's always been an HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 01:15 PM |
| 110 | In North America, why is prostitution illegal but “massage parlours” AKA brothels operate so blatantly everywhere?This. Exactly this. They don't give a fuck about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 01:10 PM |
| 37 | 50/50 trap, listen to this queen!If nothing else, this makes me even happier that I don't have kids with a scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 02:24 AM |
| 332 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?Not really a dollar amount, but I do expect some effort. Like planning a nice day for me and activities for us to do together. I'm very much a quality time type of person. For instance, I couldn't give two shits about a $2,000 purse. But if he spent $500 on a cooking class for both of us to take together, I'd much, much, much rather have that any day of the week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 07:26 PM |
| 49 | Lmfao didn’t we learn on an episode of FDS Podcast that this “curve” is actually scar tissue from excessive wanking? They’re reframing it, I’m wheezing.Yes, exactly. It could be caused by autoimmune or connective tissue disorders as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 433 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)My guess is a bunch of scrotes who lurk on that sub got their feelings hurt because they felt kinkshamed so they reported you. Or it could be that someone just reported you over using the word r-pe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 212 | If you wouldn’t date a drug addict, don’t date a guy that watches porn.I knew guys got addicted to it, but I didn't realize it was this bad. Not to mention, they condition themselves to expect this shit and are willing to murder us if we don't give them what they want. Neato. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 34 | This holiday season I urge you to take trip down the girls toy aisle.This is 100% why I played with "boy" toys when I was growing up. Couldn't stand all the makeup kits and baby dolls. I'm a kid. Let me be a fucking kid. Not gonna lie, when I first read "girl toy", I was thinking you meant something else lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:33 PM |
| 27 | Ben Affleck casts blame on Jennifer Garner for his drinking problemOh, cool. Another rich white guy never dealing with his own fucking problems and blaming everything on his SO. How original. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:26 PM |
| 3 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.No fuckin kidding! I hope these scrotes never marry. I feel sorry for their poor wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:23 PM |
| 17 | This is not how you ask about financial healthI completely agree. And it sounds like she has to downgrade her experiences (eating at less expensive places, etc) just so he doesn't freak out about her having more money than him. She doesn't even know how he'll react, and they haven't even gotten past the job title stage of disclosure yet. I feel like keeping a huge secret about my wealth from my partner would be more stress than it's worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 03:35 PM |
| 252 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileCame here to say this. It's simply just being assertive and writing out what she wants/doesn't want. For women, assertive = bitchy. For men, assertive = assertive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:35 PM |
| 10 | As a Black woman I am (sadly) familiar with fetishization in the dating pool. Black women and other WOC, PLEASE be advised that LV potential suitors will not see you as fully human, just as someone who ticks a specific box.We're just customizable commodities to these sick fucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 11:25 PM |
| 35 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩No kidding lol. 50-YeAr-oLdS cAn'T kNoW aBoUt ThIs. My scrote, this show came out 16 years ago... meaning the older guys were likely in their 30s when it came out. It's one of the most popular sitcoms and has been for over a decade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 11:20 PM |
| 150 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩Fuckin' ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 77 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.1.) Who the fuck is 'everyone' in this scenario? Oh, it's just him. I've literally never heard this rule in my life. 2.) Hot rolls > cold rolls 3.) You're going to a restaurant TO EAT. What, does he also judge you for not standing idly in the restroom for 5 minutes before heading into a stall, too?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:31 PM |
| 78 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩And the character he's referring to is Dennis. He's a sociopath who rapes and abuses women. Here's a post about his "system" on FDS: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hg1fmy/the_dennis_system/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 46 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:18 PM |
| 150 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩100% agree. We can't depend on other men to protect us, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 538 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩The worst part is he acknowledges that it's creepy and scary, yet still laughs about it. Male fuckin privilege. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:00 PM |
| 142 | The Lennie DefensePretty fitting as Lennie didn't feel remorse for what he did; he was only afraid that George would be mad at him over it. Just as these human shit stains only care about what other men think of them, not about how their victims felt right before their death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 207 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?I won't. I heard of a couple who combined their last names into a new last name. I thought the idea was pretty neat and represented a new chapter of both of your lives, equally. Both parties have to change their last names. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:50 PM |
| 32 | Are all adults just getting dumber?So many guys laugh at Ow My Balls without realizing it's supposed to be satirical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 65 | Are all adults just getting dumber?I've noticed this, too. Makes me think of Fahrenheit 451. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:57 PM |
| 86 | Men telling on themselves on OLD, exhibit ARight. Blame women for their "daddy issues" caused by a piece of shit father. Scrotes gonna scrote. What the fuck is his end game here? Do women actually give this idiot the time of day with this opener? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 18 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.Did this scrote just make a fucking golf joke?? The fuck did I just read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 07:33 PM |
| 44 | Unbelievable... my brother can't come visit our dying mother several states away but has time to go to a further state to sky dive with his bros.Fuckin men and their fuckin bro time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:51 PM |
| 265 | Roe will likely be overturned.I hear you! I was losing my shit when Kavanaugh became a supreme court justice. Not just because he's a horrible scrote who committed sexual assault and got away with it, but I knew what it meant for this country... Overturned Roe v. Wade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 183 | Roe will likely be overturned.These people are pro-birth, not pro-life. If they actually cared about children, they would be doing everything in their power to fund social programs that take care of children and single parents (a vast majority of the time, women)--but they don't. It's just another way to control women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 95 | Roe will likely be overturned.100% agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:32 PM |
| 236 | This made me feel dirty, I'm glad I broke up with himHoly lovebombing, Batman! And notice all the sentences revolve around what HE wants... Typical narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:33 PM |
| 18 | red flag: "I can't cook"I came from a south Asian family as well. ALL the men in my family cook (and they're damn good at it, too.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:01 PM |
| 103 | You Really Are the Prize Followup - As a poster mentioned earlier- guys will do/spend anything for your attentionScrotes' dilemma: a.) Don't let my girlfriend move in so I can fuck whoever I want without her knowing b.) Let my girlfriend move in and pay half of everything, essentially funding my frivolous lifestyle on her meager salary while unloading all of my problems onto her since she's now a live-in therapist/bangmaid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 79 | Just saw a post about someone tricking a woman into a date…What does he think he's even gaining there? Yeah, it's a cheap way to get a "date" from a girl, but she's already not going to take him seriously. Guys seriously mess things up all by themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:53 PM |
| 196 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesRead: Help, I realize I'm old and want to ensure I have a wife to take care of me for the next 18+ years since she'll already be taking full responsibility of the kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:29 PM |
| 37 | Yes please, more of that eagerness and love.I can totally see this. Guys always think they're even more of a catch when they're married. It makes sense why he'd make up being married just to make her feel like she shouldn't have rejected him. Scrote logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:41 PM |
| 79 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesSuch a good point! I'll keep seeing stuff on other subs where people write a motivational quote and the guy will respond, "Thanks, I'm cured." Bro, you're the moron looking for an easy ticket to improve yourself. IT TAKES WORK. 1 simple quote isn't going to fix everything for you, nor should it. It just reiterates the fact that their mommy/daddy and society has given them EVERYTHING and they can't deal when they need to fix a problem themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:40 PM |
| 722 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesRecently-divorced 40-somethings who have neglected themselves for decades thinking they deserve 10/10 20-year-olds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:16 PM |
| 401 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesGuys who refuse to go to therapy or work on themselves in ANY regard but expect you to be perfect in every way (while taking care of their every need) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Lmao at his whiny edit. The holidays really bringing the scrotes out.Yeah, I'd never let my family make rude comments like that to my SO. And she probably didn't say anything because women have been trained to accept mistreatment from men. If she were to stand up for herself, she'd be labeled as a bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 01:17 PM |
| 17 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”No kidding! Hank Hill called and wants his lack of ass back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 10:36 PM |
| 103 | Even in a best case scenario with a seemingly “ok” man, age gap relationships still suckGood Lord, the fucking edit/update. Basically, Reddit told her that ShE's JuSt PrOjEcTiNg HeR oWn InSeCuRiTiEs AbOuT aGiNg! Fuck that noise. He fucking groomed an 18-year-old when he was 28. And she's now mature enough to realize how messed up that is. This is exactly why old scrotes go for young women--Get them before ~25 and dump them before they realize what's happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 08:22 PM |
| 247 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.It's really scary because a lot of them think they deserve young, hot women who are genuinely interested in them. And they get really bitter and rude about it. They'll eventually trap a younger woman who is usually dealing with trauma or just not wanting to be alone--taking advantage of her. She'll be the only one who accepts his shitty half-assed efforts at a relationship because she has low self-esteem. Then they'll feel like getting a young, hot girl should be the norm, just because it happen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 07:17 PM |
| 31 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.Came here to say this. It's so important to have him specify if the figure he gives you is before or after taxes. And I also 100% agree about the emergency fund in the bank if you plan to be a SAHM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 12:31 PM |
| 44 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.No kidding! The whole fantasy exchange is so delusional! Any guy over 30 that would hit on me at the gym when I was in my early 20s looked fucking OLD to me. And it didn't really matter how attractive they were... I go to the gym to work out and go home; leave me alone. It's not fucking 'fulfill male fantasies hour'. My first instinct is to just laugh at this post and say, "Let them just live in their delusional world cause they'll never get any of us." But that's the problem. They think that th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 02:28 PM |
| 91 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?No kidding. But I'd imagine there'd be a lot more rapes and murders, cause men can't fucking hold their shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:06 AM |
| 328 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)Last guy has it exactly right. The thing about most short guys is if you reject them, they call you a bitch and assume you rejected them because of their height. Nope. 9/10 it's really their shitty attitude and projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 02:14 AM |
| 122 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.Lol no kidding or, "CaN yOu KeEp Up WiTh Me?" Why, cause you run away at haunted houses? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:08 PM |
| 73 | Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series).Wait, is that speech bubble at the beginning supposed to be blank? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 29 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingSingle men who go to strip clubs are STILL scum. Strip clubs and other sex work in general just give men EXACTLY what they want all while keeping women down. It tells men that they can act as shitty as they want to, as long as they pay money to do so. It teaches women that money is an acceptable rectification for being treated like an OBJECT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:49 PM |
| 26 | Please form the queue ladiesSmall dick energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 42 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsFirst of all, you are absolutely allowed to call off the wedding if you don't want to marry him for ANY reason. If he is okay with his friend starting out his marriage with a LIE, then it shows that he would probably be comfortable with lying TO YOU as well. He overtly told you that his friend did not respect his wife's boundaries... Think about what he might keep secret from you about his friends or his own behaviors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:31 PM |
| 9 | Confiding in your boyfriend about how other men sometimes do bad things is apparently "crazy". Men shouldn't "stick their dick in crazy", or do, because that's all women are good for, but don't ever have a relationship with themAh, no worries! It would make more sense if you actually saw the video ☺️ And yes, I think we need to recruit men who are allies. I don't think we can turn things around by ourselves because it's a man's world, unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:58 AM |
| 37 | Confiding in your boyfriend about how other men sometimes do bad things is apparently "crazy". Men shouldn't "stick their dick in crazy", or do, because that's all women are good for, but don't ever have a relationship with themSorry, I might have not explained it properly. The male coworkers were reading Tweets that the toxic fans (other men) directed towards their female coworkers. I think it showed a truly genuine side of them being heartbroken over realizing that women go through this on a daily basis. It was just the shocking realization of it all. Yes, we ultimately want to get to where more men are aware of stuff like this (so they can help us fix this problem), but they did seem very caring and empathetic towar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:33 AM |
| 20 | Confiding in your boyfriend about how other men sometimes do bad things is apparently "crazy". Men shouldn't "stick their dick in crazy", or do, because that's all women are good for, but don't ever have a relationship with themYep, exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:25 AM |
| 112 | Confiding in your boyfriend about how other men sometimes do bad things is apparently "crazy". Men shouldn't "stick their dick in crazy", or do, because that's all women are good for, but don't ever have a relationship with themExactly! There was a YouTube video a few years ago about what women sports journalists face in terms of fans/audience insults. The male coworkers read Tweets directed at their female counterparts. The men either couldn't read them at all, or cried while reading them. I don't think a lot of men truly understand what women go through on a day-to-day basis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:41 AM |
| 36 | Women who like women, approach them in a totally different way than men. Plus they are sexy in a different wayRight?? Like a person with feelings, likes/dislikes, hopes, and dreams? Not a sentient sex doll?? Refreshing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:17 PM |
| 85 | Yep! Men are truly disgusting!I agree with you. When women are assertive at work, we get called a bitch or we're labeled as bossy. When men are assertive at work, they're respected and get promoted. Most workplaces I've worked in exhibit this toxic environment as my field is HEAVILY male-dominated. It took me a while to find a place that was progressive, and I encourage everyone to try to find a place that is more welcoming towards assertive women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:52 AM |
| 82 | That’s all women are good for, porn genreAnd they wonder why we're getting tired of their shit 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:08 AM |
| 18 | Men will have sex and date “younger women” who act like literal children. How can anyone be turned on by that? 🤮Fucking puke. Guarantee you there would be a lot of men happy if they lowered the legal age from 18 to 16 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 03:58 AM |
| 105 | And y’all are still using OLD?And of he gets any matches, he'll just hit them up with a single "hey" and then get mad when they match his extremely low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:21 AM |
| 123 | Sis needs helpYup. Poor girl; must've been torture. And he literally is treating the new girl like a shiny new car that he can also fuck. I bet he's only so lively because he's trying to show off to his friends and rub it in his ex's face. Grade A Scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:10 AM |
| 15 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.Best comment ever lol I wouldn't doubt the guy does shit like this all the time as a pickme "test" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 35 | Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice.How dare us for calling shitty men out on their bullshit! It's so not fair! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Seeing too much bad things. Sharing my favorite TikTok couple. (They’ve met in 1992). Get yourself a man who is excited to take you out.Thanks for posting this, OP! So refreshing to see stuff like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meTotally agree, of course. Men have it much, much easier with this lifestyle/goal than women do by far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 38 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meThis guy is an extreme case, but a lot of these guys have high-paying jobs and move up the ladder very quickly (just focus all effort in earning more and not tending to your actual fucking family.) You can actually retire pretty quickly (within 10-15 years) if you save at least half of your income and invest in index funds. But you have to be very diligent and strict about it. I would say most people in the FIRE movement are focused on living a meager lifestyle (living expenses are usually $24k-… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 124 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meRight?? The whole FIRE movement is toxic as fuck. I looked into it years ago and realized that 95% of the men just use their wives and girlfriends to get ahead. Then they don't spend on "unnecessary" things like dinners or vacations. The idea is to save 50%+ of what you earn and retire decades sooner than you normally would. To each their own, but I'm sure the female counterparts of the relationships feel severely underappreciated as a lot of the men don't even do romantic things because they're… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 07:00 PM |
| 4 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manThis isn't what stoicism teaches. They just want another excuse to be shitty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:37 AM |
| 5 | 🙄🙄🙄 I just want to say I never like this excuse for a manYeah, cause Spartans totally sat around and ate breakfast and didn't do shit otherwise /s Why do men use this as an excuse to be fucking shitty? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:36 AM |
| 5 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesSame. And someone would have to work really hard to convince me otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:11 PM |
| 11 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodThat explains my old Pickme days... One of the first couple dates I would have, I'd cook a meal from scratch and we'd eat at my place. Looking back, it explains why a lot of the boyfriends I had dropped engagement hints after ~3-9 months of dating. These guys were making $50-$70k+ and I was making $7/hour. I came from a very poor family where my mom guilted me into thinking ANY money spent on me was a burden. Society also pressures women into asking for less or else we're suddenly golddiggers. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 12:33 PM |
| 94 | Stop telling these men what your idea of a HVM is, LVM/NVM love to pretend to be HV and you just gave them to blueprint what HVM is to you.100% agree with this. All the male lurkers read this sub and use it to their benefit. They don't really care about bettering themselves... All just to get into our pants or whatever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:27 AM |
| 76 | BARE MINIMUM: The LEAST You Should AcceptSame. So dried out. I think a better bullet point would be: "Practices good hygiene." Showering/bathing is so individual. A lot of it depends on how often they work out or the types of jobs they have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:39 PM |
| 166 | BARE MINIMUM: The LEAST You Should AcceptI have a few points. Bathing 2x a day sounds kind of weird to me. Like is he getting that stinky to NEED that twice a day? To me, it sounds like an unresolved medical issue. I'm fine with once a day. And the mental health thing... It's okay to have mental health problems. All I ask is to be actively working on them; (i.e., be in therapy.) Avoiding someone with mental health problems just perpetuates the mental health stigma, which I dislike. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:04 PM |
| 13 | Can we make '#YouToo' a flair? As in, "Wow, I thought you were a good guy, but you're actually horrible just like the others?"So true about the 'not all men' crowd!! Wouldn't it make more sense of them to call men out on their bullshit rather than whining about women being cautious? Oh right, it's because they don't give a fuck about us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 08:00 PM |
| 11 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)Mods just re-approved it! 😄 Apparently, the scrotes got really mad and reported this over and over, so the auto-mod deleted it. Making scrotes mad is just a great byproduct of helping my sisters 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:11 PM |
| 226 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.I also knew a guy like that. I knew another guy who refused to wear condoms and got an STI... His dick was literally bleeding and he was wanting his gf to have sex with him WITHOUT a condom still. Like WTF?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)Thanks! Same 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 08:05 PM |
| 7 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)I just got a notification from the AutoMod that the post was removed due to low quality content 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 10:30 PM |
| 17 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)Fuckin' ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:05 PM |
| 24 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)What's also scary is these men tend to work a lot and take business trips (or so they say). They have a built-in alibi for whenever they want to get their dicks wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:46 PM |
| 36 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)That makes me super sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:54 PM |
| 35 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)I WILL cry. Also, Dwayne Johnson... The only cheating I want him to do is with his meals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:22 PM |
| 100 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)Yep, exactly. It reminds me of that Gillette ad they had a few years ago where they were calling out toxic masculinity and calling upon good men to help stop it. All the scrotes came out of the woodwork losing their minds over how we apparently think that all men act this way. We don't. All the ad was saying is to do better, and if you see a guy acting toxic, speak up; and they got triggered. How do they not see the flaw in their logic? If they help curb toxic masculinity, everyone wins. But nop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 05:04 PM |
| 58 | How do you feel about video games?Oh, I bet all the lurking scrotes will get mad with this one. YoU jUsT dOn'T wAnT mEn To HaVe AnY fUn! Nah, it's just that you've never really learned to be a full-ass grown adult man and rely on games as escape instead of bettering yourself. There's nothing wrong with video games. It's just these men have been enabled to play them for long hours EVERY DAY and become addicted to them. Their reward centers are rewired to entitlement for ANY shred of work--INCLUDING WOMEN. They think that you owe … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 04:07 PM |
| 64 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)I completely lost it at "fat IT guy" lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 03:54 PM |
| 193 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)No kidding!! I said this the other day talking about Drake. He has tons of songs bitching about how women only want him for his fame and money... Then has way more songs bragging about having so many women BECAUSE OF his fame and money. You can't fucking win with them. They will blame women for EVERYTHING. Even problems THEY created themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 153 | Successful men and their entitlement to women's bodies (#YouToo)Let's start this 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:35 PM |
| 190 | Raising Shitty SonsNot to mention the weaponized incompetence that their dads have, too... They just mimic their lazy, quiet-the-game's-on, pathetic, I-ain't-doing-women's-work dads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:35 PM |
| 28 | The amount of hypocrisy I've seen from men is just staggering.Every point of this is spot-on. 👏👏👏 Mods, can we please sticky this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 10:02 AM |
| 11 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.I'm curious what group this is or where I can find posts about it. I might not be able to hold my phone and read it because I'll be too busy rubbing my hands together like Mr. Burns lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:29 PM |
| 171 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.Christ on a bike. I liked Mulaney. Well, not anymore now. I want to start a hashtag like #metoo, but instead it will be #youtoo (?) As in, "Oh fuck, I thought you were good, but you're actually just like all those other LVM, too??" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I post an image?So it's not just me 😅 Wonder if it has something to do with the maintenance from the last 2 days... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 12:24 PM |
| 22 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.I'm proud of you for standing up for her, even though she might not have liked the message. 😊 And it sounds like the other women have A LOT of internalized misogyny. Do they think men would stick with a girl through all that stuff? Probably not. And yes, I missed this place too! It's my oasis in a desert of subs/websites with varying degrees of misogyny. Some places are better than others. But wow, after having exposure to zero misogyny, then going out to my other subs, it's like freaking EVERYW… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:12 AM |
| 16 | What are some red flags about men’s cleanliness?My LVX would shower every day yet still have stinky balls. 🤮 Like he just checked the "shower" box on his daily to-do list but didn't actually have a full shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Comments say a man standing on his toes is fair because the women he is talking to is wearing heels 🤡 Thoughts?Lol when I wear heels, I tend to be more worried about falling over rather than the height of every person I talk to 🤷♀️ I don't understand the short man complex. They allllways think women hate them because of their height. Nah, we hate you because 9/10 times, you have a really shitty fragile attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 08:11 PM |
| 14 | Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with?It aggravates me to no end how sooo many men will make double, triple, or even more of what their girlfriend makes and still want them to split the expenses 50/50. It's like an assured way to get their girlfriends dependent on them to survive... If he is able to get her to unfairly pay more than she should, it ensures she can't save as much to leave his ass. He gets to have his lifestyle at a huge discount in the process. He also will treat her like shit so she feels mentally and emotionally uns… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 06:48 PM |
| 15 | Why are Jordan Peterson’s views problematic to FDS?He's a giant turd. I've been sexually harassed multiple times in the workplace and I NEVER wear ANY makeup, not even in my everyday life. He's just making an excuse for shitty men and their shitty behavior, like all misogynists do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 6 | ICYMI - the dude who roasted Dell Curry last week is back with another threadSis is definitely on FDS... But the only thing that worries me is her using metal tongs on a non-stick pan 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 04:10 PM |
| 29 | 🚨ALWAYS EARN YOUR OWN MONEY! Financial freedom is the ultimate power💲💰💪It pains me to think of how many women I know stuck in horrible marriages that they can't leave because they gave up their careers to be stay at home moms. It's interesting that a lot of these couples are also fairly religious... I'm noticing a pattern... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | To those completely new to FDS. You cannot "communicate" your way out of this patriarchal system. Level up and never settle.100%. It is because oppressors normally don't see their victims as human beings and, therefore, lack a good moral compass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Your experiences with Liberal vs. Conservative men.I tend to only date liberal men now. In the past, the conservative men I've dated usually have some form of racism or distaste towards immigrants and/or the less fortunate. Conservative men are also very against women trying to get ahead. I've dropped them once they voiced this (and usually they do early-on so thankfully, I didn't waste too much time on them.) It could just be the extremely conservative state that I live in as to why the conservative men are so outspoken about their views, but t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:30 AM |
| 3 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.Thank you for posting... As eye-opening as it is gag-inducing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:36 PM |
| 220 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.I hated every moment of this 😫 The one guy talking about his daughter being 26 so he makes sure to get a prostitute who is 27 really got me... Like he thinks he's a fucking saint for that shit?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Facts"BuT i'M a NiCe GuY tHo!!" Oh, really? I guess calling me a whore after I didn't want to sleep with you right away is what nice people do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | When you see it..I know, right?? But I really needed to hear this 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Public Service Announcement for Fellow Queens: Male Sexual Interest in you is NOT unique or special!mud puddles ?? The bar is in the Earth's core, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.So true! He'll definitely feel emasculated and will never feel 100% comfortable with the woman who gave him everything. I never even realized this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.This is so weird. He's not a stray dog. And if the roles were reversed, it seriously gives me creepy predatory vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:30 PM |
| 6 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.What annoys me is when artists like Drake make songs complaining about girls just wanting to fuck him cause he's famous... Ummm isn't that what you brag about in every other fucking song? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | This is probably exactly how some scrotes process mundane, everyday transactionsThis was totally written by Dennis Reynolds lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | And this is why you should NEVER allow yourself to become financially dependent on a man.Total BS. What guy would just stop paying these things and not tell her he was going to stop? I mean, I feel like any man would loom it over her head or something... Not just go silent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:22 AM |
| 13 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?What annoys me is they act like the opposite wouldn't be true. Like if a woman who they found unattractive/too old/fat/etc. approached them, they would totally shut her down and complain to their friends about it. But if a woman they found attractive did these things, they'd be all over it. Also, a MAJOR difference is women are at a huge disadvantage and could be assaulted, raped, or even killed by men (especially pursuing her secretively). Men are hardly ever at this disadvantage when it comes … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | So close...Exactly. I've never seen a woman do this. This is yet another backhanded compliment to women. His edits make me want to puke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | So close...OTHER MEN give men shit for being virgins, just sayin' 🤷♀️ It's all just the classic toxic masculinity/misogyny women deal with on a daily basis.. and when it's directed towards men, they realize how shitty it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Scrotes are planning to invade Mexico and spread diseaseMisogynistic AND racist?? What woman wouldn't go for these guys?? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 13 | Scrotes in the comments were pissed😂 Keep raising those standards queens👑So true! And the single dads out there get praised so much yet single moms are hated on... All because men are more likely to leave their children and mother to those children high and dry. Men who stay and actually BE a parent get so much respect because there are so many men who don't | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | To the Moon! Nah, we’re aiming farther than the moon, to Venus!So great to see this... I'm just a new member along for the ride 🤠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:16 PM |
| 3 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnMakes me wonder how many men are just better at hiding their porn addiction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:08 PM |
| 43 | “Age is just a number.”So is a prison sentence.Yep, exactly. They take advantage of their naivety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | No words.Well, I was about to eat lunch, but nevermind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself.Yep, and then it's okay for guys to run off because they're "scared" when their girl becomes pregnant... Yet the girl is pressured to have the baby AND take care of it, usually by herself. Scrotes/society doesn't think she's scared, too?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 08:13 PM |
| 62 | “FBoy Island” on HBO Max - has anyone else watched?I literally just started watching this last night. I've only seen one episode so far, but I started getting mad at the girls because they would ignore so many red flags and even acknowledged doing so 🤦♀️ Though I've only seen one episode, I wouldn't doubt it that all of them men are actually fuckboys, even the ones who are supposedly nice guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Is she high maintenance tho?Hope she gets out before he asks her to move in and split the rent and then say ThInGs ShOuLd bE eQuAl! All while he doesn't contribute anything else to the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Pakistan Horror: Crazy entitlement and depravity and victim-blaming and gross animalistic behavior - All wrapped in oneLook how well these patriarchal societies are doing /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:28 PM |
| 476 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies."Men want wholesome women" hahahaaa okay, Kyle. Don't get pissy and whine on Reddit when your girl doesn't want to be called a whore while you slap her and spit in her face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.Yep, they only cuddle you at the end because they want you to keep giving them what they want. The second you stop giving it to them, they post on dead bedrooms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…What a long-winded way to admit to everyone he has a small dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 136 | The F*ck boy hotline. See? Men know what they’re doing."Have you tried gaslighting her into thinking she's a crazy bitch for demanding the bare minimum?" Too. Real. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:42 AM |
| 17 | LVM and NVM in a nutshellYep, and then the scrotes are always outraged when you are a little cautious about them. NoT aLl MeN, tHo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | A little dating satire based off the platforms🎵Tale as old as time🎵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:52 PM |
| 70 | Don't worry if you miss one red flag, they come in groups.It's definitely the pandemic. They are desperate and unpracticed with hiding their red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Vetting strategy-- does he practice preventive strategies to take care of his health?Unfortunately, for a lot of these guys, they won't change anything until they have a serious wake up call, like getting diabetes or a heart condition at an early age. They treat their bodies like shit and think not going to the doctor is 'macho' or something. It's total horseshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Don't give a guy a chance after he offers a coffee date, even if he offers a nice dinner date after you say no to coffee.One of the guys I dated years ago took me to get ice cream on our first date. Cute, I thought. After that, it was a series of "hangouts" at my place. Okay, fine, casual. Eight or so "dates" later, he got Little Caesars pizza. Granted, I was 20 at the time. I thought it was a little low-effort and cheap. Having my hindsight now, it was a huge red flag. I went to college full-time and worked 40 hours a week. I made roughly $20k a year, paid rent as well as all my bills myself. He made $50k, lived … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 12:58 PM |
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