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No because lots of guys hit on everyone to see what bites. However, I do select men based on how good I feel about myself at the time, so I limit my dating to when I feel grand. If I feel blah, I don't date. I never date to make myself feel better. If I don't feel my best, I do what I have to do to achieve that, and only then do I consider spending time dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:18 PM
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I remember feeling like that...and then something happened and now I'm the one wearing summer clothes in the office while everyone around me has jumpers, men included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:25 AM
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BLOCK. DELETE. Go do something more productive like floss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:46 AM
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Just want to share one snopes link with links to several articles about people reporting airtag used for these purposes, https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/apple-airtag-tracker-stalker/ and https://stopstalkerware.org/ with information on protecting ourselves ​ Apple has provided a guide for these situations. The iPad and iPhone maker says: "AirTag and the Find My network have also been designed to discourage unwanted tracking. To discourage tracking without your knowledge, Find My will notify yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:22 PM
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Or fly-agaric reindeer pee, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:05 PM
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to grow mushrooms in... ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:08 AM
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I think in part a lack of firm boundaries and accountability. I'd start there. And keep a healthy diet, high sugar diets were linked to increase in violent behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:43 AM
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That is another one, I knew nothing about. (I don't live in the US so I only hear about these things from people in the US who mention them) I was thinking of Joel Guy Jr, Chandler Halderson, and a third guy whose name escapes me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:40 AM
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I was watching courtroom trials, just know it is not pleasant. They are factual and don't explain the why. Some were at https://www.youtube.com/c/LawCrimeNetwork/playlists and Joel Guy Jr. and Chandler Halderson are two that come to mind as entitled coddled pieces of excrement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:38 AM
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I hope you blocked and deleted her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:37 PM
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I was thinking of this two weeks ago while watching trials for a few men who were very coddled and entitled and ended up killing their parents, because the parents decided to stop paying their rent/pushed them to get a job/etc. If only the parents had started putting boundaries when they were young children, who knows if the outcome might have been different. One was a guy whose mother worked exclusively to hand over the paycheck to him, which I would have strongly advised against had I known hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:26 PM
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he seems to have confused bumble with a "flatmates needed" app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:41 AM
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Same here. Pull your bootstraps and teach yourself. Passiveness like that is a turnoff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:18 PM
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30's??? I thought it was late teens to early twenties?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:43 PM
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Follow instructions to block anyone from following you, and block messages except from users you allow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:42 PM
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Always think: if it was me, and my family member got a health scare, would I find time to text this person? The answer is probably yes, because a short text from a hospital takes five seconds. I'll be very cynical but I would not doubt if that health scare was bs and it was just he found someone to go on a date with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:25 PM
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He had something come up with family (a health scare) so he can't talk to anyone because he's overwhelmed That was the point at which I'd just block and delete. You can't have a five minute chat because you are so overwhelmed? Puhlease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:06 AM
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He works in healthcare. I assume he will get the scoop on when it is safe to meet in person again, and be the one to inform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:19 AM
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Just corrected my choice of words to earbuds. Yes, I do the same, I can listen to music in safe areas and turn it off when I need to pay more attention. I also have those cordless ones that let all the surrounding noise in so it is almost like the environment has music, not my headphones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:07 AM
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I wear earplugs earbuds even if I'm not listening to anything, walk with a purpose, head high, look far ahead and not at anyone (you can train yourself to not look at people). So yeah sorry not sorry, did not hear you. I never smile at anyone walking past me (besides I'd look like a weirdo doing so in Europe!), and I don't talk to anyone crossing my road unless I have to interact with them (cashier etc.) I feel the minute you acknowledge someone's presence, or even engage with an unnecessary smi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:48 PM
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No. Don't mention your savings to any dates. Your financial status and mortgage status is on a need to know basis. One thing is being honest and another being transparent (i.e. blurting out all about you) You don't need to mention you live in a house that you own or whether it is paid in full. Just say "I live in Throwaway District or or in a one-storey house. How about you?" and divert the topic away from home ownership unless they have facilitated that information first and they own their plac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:20 AM
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Paternity: it does not end at conception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:10 AM
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I'm the hard love type. I would have let him sleep in and be late the first day. Anyone will learn the lesson after one instance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:08 AM
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I'm also the "I won't do it, but I'll tell you how to do it while you do it" type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:06 AM
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Reading this I recalled Ted Bundy's tactic pretending to need help/ask questions. Yikes. Once I was getting fuel at night (in this place people put the fuel in for you, you don't have to get out of the car) and I noticed a car parked with a man inside. I started to drive away and noticed the car moving following me. From the gas station I got on to the highway, because I was not going to go straight home and let that person know where I lived; I managed to at the very last minute grab an exit an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:46 AM
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Reading more info posted by OP it seems she has never masturbated and is against it. Which might mean some issue about sex :-/ Some people offered good advice and a lot of people suggested a vibrator; but if she is against masturbation I wonder if she will be against a vibrator too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:33 PM
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Or creativity, apparently. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:03 PM
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Why I would share my instagram with a stranger is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:50 PM
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Congratulations on your uni acceptance, your promotion, and your freedom!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:44 PM
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Confilct-free, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:11 PM
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A stopped clock is 100% correct twice a day. More than I can say for the others..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:54 PM
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Oh dear, I eat lots of greens!! Need to stop :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:52 PM
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There is a guy who did not do the bare minimum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:48 PM
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Minecraft can be played offline Now you can see my deep understanding of video games :-/ or any games that are not solid objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:41 PM
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A picture of the deceased spouse maybe on the mantle together with other pcitures of family, why not? Pictures all over the house like a fan club, nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:51 AM
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LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:27 AM
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Wow he knows the whole alphabet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:23 AM
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Female coworker here: I expect a professional relationship and professional, respectful behaviour; if we have shared life experiences (same or similar ethnicity/culture; lived in same countries; etc.) I am ok with some minor chatting at work and outside work. No flirting absolutely! I do have an excolleague and we are friends; while still working at the same place, we did commiserate about our previous office and engage in some gossiping about the politics of the place, and about a coworker who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:05 AM
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Second this. Not an Arab here, but have met soooo many and lived in an Arab country: Most will waste your time and won't commit and instead look for a 'decent' girl "back home". I do know of 4 that did marry their non-Arab women, but from the start these guys were adamant about never moving back (to Syria, Iraq, Lebanon).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:45 AM
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look at the bright side: you can cease to waste your precious time with some of that media :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:40 AM
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See how they treat their own women: you won't get any better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:38 AM
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I have nothing to contribute but reading the title, I was reminded of that episode of Sex and the City where Charlotte dates a widower, only to find he was dating lots of women under the same excuse of his pity party. I made back then a mental note: if he is not over her death, nope it. He needs to get therapy until he is a happy man again, sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:36 AM
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Looking at Part I, and the very large Asian continent, I'm willing to bet it applies to Russian and Indian women, both of whom I think are also fetishised. So I'd say all of Asia, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:34 AM
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He won't be depressed. This man is a parasite, he will just find another host.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:46 AM
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I also have a miniature house kit I got and have been decorating and making all furniture with cardboard scrap, thin wood veneer, and junk (toothpaste lids, packaging plastic etc). Where there is a will, there is a way :) I'd love to have a wood shop and tools, I could make much better furniture for my miniature house, and probably an extension. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:44 AM
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Given he is SO damn lazy, he probably will move into the gf's house instead of going through any trouble doing anything. He seems the POLR (path of least resistance) guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:42 AM
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I"ve never played online stuff, but I do have Lego...but yeah point taken :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:41 AM
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Glad to know. In this case it would be supremely unfair that he would keep anything. He was but a lump at the end of a penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:40 AM
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with the author's signature. Unless it is from Shakespeare X-D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:40 AM
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and the piss bottles to prove it. Eeewww. Let's all agree to leave those trolls in their dungeons, please. Don't reproduce with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:34 PM
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Especially because he himself said he "just" got her a book. Not "I got her a first edition book" or anything remotely special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:31 PM
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Which he also expects you to cook, since he did not say he'll cook it. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:28 PM
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It is so pathetic right? Like now they are celebrating that they succesfully jerked off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:16 PM
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Ladies, if you want to build something, get some Lego. Only accept already built functioning adult men. End of my Ted Talk. Edit: that QUEEN's checklist should be saved. It could help so many others. This woman sounds amazing and I do hope she learns from this lesson to never do this for another guy again. She deserves so much better!! Edit 2: I saw comments saying that the stuff she bought him (suits, tablet, etc.) is considered his property and she can get into trouble for taking that away. Do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:26 PM
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Indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:22 PM
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Apparently this, not sure https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=tribute%20photo Yeah, sorry I replied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 03:00 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy, three years with a lvm have been 'invested'. Wants to cOmmUnIcATe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 02:57 PM
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Correct. The nice details are "necessary but not sufficient".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:52 PM
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23-4 years relationship means 19 y.o. with a 45 y.o. male after her. Pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:23 PM
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There are dogs with way more self control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:16 PM
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SCUM lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:16 PM
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If he wanted to, he would have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:14 PM
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Straight out tell them "I'm not looking to date at the moment" and change the subject. Just abruptly change it and take control of the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:08 AM
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If you are the +1, it tells me the invite was not addressed to "Datedude and Comprehensive-Sky465", only to "Datedude", so they are his friends and it is his gift. You are going only to keep him company and meet his people. So since it is his gift, he pays for it and signs the card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:00 AM
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Yeah make sure you are only stopping by on the way to a date, like a concert or ballet which is already paid for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:57 AM
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Today is stressful because I am closing on a property sale, but after that, it will be 100% peace and freedom! No pressures to do anything for anyone (but my pet, and that is voluntary). Holidays in real life are not like the cheesy movies. We need to not hold ourselves up to ficticious standards. I hope everyone has a safe, peaceful and tranquil holiday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:51 AM
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follow these settings: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/qfgfpo/comment/hi30hy9/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:45 AM
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Exactly. Do you unlove yourself enough to die for his orgasm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:44 AM
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Wow his work is beautiful! Belongs in a real gothic building's garden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:49 PM
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Exactly. An asshole is an asshole no matter what it is attached to; same functionality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:46 PM
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positively thrilled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:20 PM
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Oh I've said that to men before: "you sound like you don't really like women. why don't you date men? You should, you'd be happy" and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:07 AM
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Absolutely! They need to have the definition of love adjusted. Also, saying but I love him/her as an excuse for not making a hard decision is somewhat childish, for lack of a better term: you are just saying oh that decision will be not pleasurable so I want to avoid it even if it benefits me. Hey, adulting means choosing what is right over what is pleasurable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:52 AM
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They should have had a wank before the date. Their mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:46 AM
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Congrats on the scrotal weight loss!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:43 AM
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That is a great achievement ,to get rid of debt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:42 AM
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Instead of storing, consider decluttering and getting rid of anything that does not bring you joy or you haven't used. You can donate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:41 AM
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If you are able to afford some time for yourself, take it. That is the most valuable gift. Relax, nap, take a long bath, or curl up with a good book and a hot cuppa. I am not buying myself stuff (only bought one thing and ate it), but instead spending these days removing items from my home and making free space. No need to go out and purchase stuff, we can all celebrate in our own ways, that satisfy us. Happy holidays!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:39 AM
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to remind me that the only tears I should have are diamonds. 100% true!! Tears you can cut anything with, too, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:34 AM
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I'm curious about your plant propagation station...who is the artist? I don't need any material things right now unless I can consume them, so I bought myself my first black truffle (Tuber melanosporum). It arrived last Friday, and I spent a whole weekend making things with it (olive oil; butter; tartines; pasta gratin, omelette, etc.) and eating some of them. I've properly frozen some of it for the future, too. I met some women via a women's walking group and a few of us are meeting today to ce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:32 AM
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Some women need to stop using the 'but I love him' excuse; she is afraid to bring up HER OWN SAFETY to him, that is not love you feel for him! That is bottom of the barrel desperation. So what if you think you love him? He is dangerous to your health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:14 AM
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My body count is a positive integer but off the top of my head I don't remember; oral sex counts, and anyone who gives you an orgasm counts. I never saw the point of sex if I was not going to get off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:21 PM
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That might have been sleep apnea... ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:48 PM
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And if I am in the mood, I share my bed with books
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:47 PM
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get all the info you can on him report all to FBI https://www.fbi.gov/tips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:51 AM
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I already have a cat I serve brekkie to first, and this just because she can't open my cupboards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:50 AM
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tiny brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:29 AM
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"Alpha males are very fragile, they never want to see anyone harder than them"-David Goggins, who can surely beat this guy to anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:28 AM
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Yes he is right, we 100% don't care. I never want kids, and being single so far has worked wonderfully for me. I get to spend all my free time on stuff I want and never put up with shit from anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:14 AM
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Take the presents to a shelter and give them away. Toss the card in the paper recycling bin. It is all bullshit to keep you from moving forward, and just cheap bait to make you stay and put up with shit. Getting rid of the stuff will keep you from any temptation and besides there might be others who can use the stuff. Block and delete him. That way you don't have to be mean, and you can move on and continue with therapy. Don't date for a while, as you say take time to reflect. Pamper yourself an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:09 AM
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Ladies if any of you have sons, please make sure they learn to make some food as kids and can feed themselves by the time they are teenagers. Omelettes, salads, pasta, grilled stuff. It is not hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:45 PM
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"Let them perish"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:43 PM
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If you drink alcohol, I'd avoid completely having any alcohol where you might run into him since it does lower inhibitions and might make you feel more comfortable than ideal, if you think there is even the smallest chance to be tempted. Otherwise I'd just talk to him like I would to any other acquaintance, with respect, and casualness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:38 PM
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I'd adviser her as a safety precaution to next time get some dude to say the tanning machine stopped working and so sorry but we have to cancel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:34 PM
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Coomer pedos My brain read "Comer pedos"="Eating farts" and was confused... I don't know what a coomer is but guys like you described are so damn disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:59 PM
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X-D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:13 PM
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Isn't the norm to pump some milk which he then can give, instead of feeding a baby some manufactured food? Bathing the kid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:32 PM
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all the while the extra 180 lbs in the house does nothing. so not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:04 PM
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Congratulations on losing the ~180 lbs. Plan a lovely holiday season for yourself, pamper yourself, and enjoy the peace of being in your very own home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:02 PM
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I've never met a person who says they are that, but if anyone does I'm ready to troll them. "So are you feeling the contempt I have for you already? How about my deep desire for you to f*ck off?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:03 PM
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I hear you. I have zero desire to bother to date at the moment. He'd have to be pretty damn special for me to want to be with him. I have a good living, good salary, own properties, and have lots of free time and I really don't feel like trading part of my freedom just for a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:57 PM
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our culture is different The culture might be different for women and sex, but that does not mean it is for men and sex. I have yet to meet a culture where the men are not interested in sex at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:26 AM
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He sounds like a waste of time. He sounds like it is for sex, even if you won't do it, that does not mean he does not hope for it even if the chances are slim or zero. He is not truly interested in you, otherwise he would pursue you and not be hot and colding you. You are in the back burner just in case, and I'm sure he is seeing different women. If this situationship is starting to eat your head, just discard it asap. This is not worth your neurons working overtime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:23 AM
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Yes I wonder why López is with him. He is yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:16 AM
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Seems like some men are not needed for anything anymore. They have made their own fears into reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:14 AM
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Block all these people. See if you can move elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:51 AM
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How to address it? Leave him, you'll lose 200 lbs of shit in one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:27 PM
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It is mostly "bEcaUSe iT hUrTs mY pEeN" :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:26 PM
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My boss once told me that if they give you what you asked for straight up, you asked for too little. So very good that you raised the rate. Screw that impostor syndrome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:25 PM
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Hope dated pictures were taken as proof in case he comes back complaining and moaning it was clean, as Determinedblonde suggested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:18 PM
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Can you charge that filthy being extra to bring the biohazardous room back to normal human standards? How can some men be so disgusting. Animals are cleaner than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:36 PM
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Many many congratulations on accomplishing so much. You are a wonderful example for your daughters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:27 PM
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Since FDSing I've watched some episodes of Married at First Sight and Judge Judy to test my red-flag-radar against LV people and see what mental gymnastics people do when trying to justify stupid shite. It is beeping, beeping where it would have softly hummed before. I think these are good to test ourselves and catch those flags soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:24 PM
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"El ladrón juzga por su condición" (a thief judges others according to his own condition, i.e. being a thief) so I wonder if he is not trusting her fidelity bc he is not faithful himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:20 PM
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Congratulations on supporting your higher standards!!!! You should celebrate this milestone; candlelit bath with music, or manicure, or massage, or new movie or anything else you like!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:15 PM
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everyone went an apartment of a different friend a couple doors No one told you they were going? I find that objectionable. I am so sorry that happened!! Sounds terrible...I'm relieved to hear your friend confronted him; I hope she remains watchful of her potential r@pist brother! The minute he said some grotesque things about your career, red flag, disrespect. Stay guarded towards a disrespectful man in the future. It is terrible we have to live in such a paranoid state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:19 PM
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I used to, through college it was a list of bad relationships and hearing her complain...and the last time I saw her, I was going out with a friend anyway and she tagged along (this was about 15 years ago easily). Through the night I found out she was available that night bc she had fought w her flavour of the month. And so I just got rid of that fakeship; just disappeared and never saw her again. Not worth keeping it because you are just the back burner friend who is used when needed, which is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:02 PM
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If natural selection did not take care of him, she should just divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:47 AM
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YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:51 PM
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"Don't bring dessert" would be my request.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:39 PM
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But with tiny peens if they are hidden in the palm being wanked, they are literally invisible to the public so the flashing is not 'effective' X-D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:38 PM
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Was he easy to manipulate if you asked for the opposite of what you wanted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:04 PM
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I open doors or hold doors for people walking with me into a building because it is normal politeness towards others. I definitely expect the same from anyone walking with me. I see no reason why a guy going to dinner or theater with you would not do the same. I am just saying this in case he starts on some rant about equality, because equality does not mean people should stop polite manners with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:51 PM
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"I'M NOT DONE YET!" said loudly while you lift the index finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 01:25 PM
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None, because for flashers, the thrill is to show their tiny peens, not to wank in the sidewalk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:57 PM
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I'd say also refusing to learn and correct behaviour detrimental to her after being shown or told that such behaviour needs correcting, all because guys. The source of the problem being, having a guy is the single most important thing above all, even above one's self esteem, health, future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:16 PM
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I do not want to marry. I've been like that since I was little, never interested in the whole deal; dont' like big puffy dresses; don't see sense to spending so much on a wedding, etc. Plus I never wanted children so the minute a guy started talking about that, I knew the relationship had an expiration date. I think if I found a very adequate man, we might share a new place together or live together but I would not be interested in getting married at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:13 PM
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Taking time to not date at all and spend it all on me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:01 PM
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Oh so relieved. I have been thinking about your post since. Best of luck with the new venture!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:50 PM
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It was a fraction of a second choice because of how he said it, made me feel like he was going to be hard to get rid off, and that was a bit scary to me, so I figured the best non-confrontational and effective approach would be to be boring AF and get dumped. I recommend it. Just be all like meh I don't know, meh I don't feel like having sex, meh I don't feel like going out etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:47 PM
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at this point in my life: just a salary raise and leave me TF alone. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:31 PM
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Not always. For one I actually had to become very boring so he'd dump me...took a week or two (success!! I had tried to break up but he gave me some shit about how no matter what he'd continue to pursue me, which smelled like a red flag to me, so I figured if I got him bored of me, he'd think breaking up was his idea and be gone. I started to not want to do much, just sit there like a lump most times, he got bored and broke up. I was so happy). Another, I remember telling some guy friends of his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:21 PM
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OP are you ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:27 PM
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injected heads and lips with Botox to make them bigger, inflated body parts with rubber bands, and used fillers to relax their faces. Methinks they got it wrong: fillers to make things bigger, Botox to stiffen muscles and avoid wrinkles. I am glad they were disqualified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:25 PM
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She is losing weight, getting fit, and he feels left behind. She should take the eggnog to the office and share it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:22 PM
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That is how I behaved with guys I am not that into at all...in hopes they eventually disappear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:20 PM
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TF is a sigma male??? Why are we using the 18th letter now??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:29 PM
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I'd block him. He should not have slep with you if there was no spark. Take a break from dating to recharge and spend time on yourself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:01 PM
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Oh totally. He fancies himself Mr. Emily Post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:52 PM
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I come from a culture where this is not done and I find it terribly sexist!!! Why does a woman have to give up part of her identity just because she gets married? It makes no sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:49 PM
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I have decent table manners and have never heard of this stupid wait five minutes to eat the bread.. what for, so it gets cold? Ryan is a bumbling moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:29 PM
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Yeah "Water" and "Cuba" really bring a totally different image to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:19 PM
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ha ha ha OK Stupid, for LVM dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:17 PM
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waterboarding a form of torture in which water is poured over a cloth covering the face and breathing passages of an immobilized captive, causing the person to experience the sensation of drowning from wikipedia. yes, horrible stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:21 PM
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Male Corollary: "If I'm the common denominator, it is because everyone else is wrong" ​ Yes, that poorly spelled out on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:20 PM
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I think you did the right thing because I can see him either growing resentful of not being able to afford the stuff you can and feeling emasculated all the time or living off you. I ...am secretly hoping he'll get his shit together, will change overnight just for me and we'll be together again lol Yeah no, don't believe Cinderella stories and faerie tales.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended\_reading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:13 PM
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I was born single and it is my natural state. Same with you. Learn to enjoy and appreciate how great your own company is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:06 PM
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block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:03 PM
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I agree and empathise. When I was late 20s I wanted to do it and the (male) obgyns refused. I guess at late 20s I can vote, drive, go to war, drink, but not own my own damn body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:13 PM
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Really sorry about your mum. Your brother is an idiot, but you knew that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:11 PM
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A third option for those who know they do not want children, is to get tubes tied or similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:54 PM
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You should break up and block him and delete him. What he is offering you sounds terrible. If he has debt and you marry him, it becomes YOUR debt. You have only been dating long distance so you don't really know this person. Do not marry him please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:55 PM
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If I had time and was not busy making a gingerbread house I'd troll him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:54 PM
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Hasthag TOXIC Masculinity Saturday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:52 PM
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"Ei kiitos" ​ Block that person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:22 PM
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My personal ideal would be many small conversations over time Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:37 PM
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Who are these three eyesores?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:32 PM
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Derrick has not caugh on to the real reason. But yeah, let him think it is tiredness....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:35 PM
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If you need to ask him, block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:27 PM
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I'd be terrified if I had a daughter under 30 these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:20 AM
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if we could send them off to some island somewhere, like the mental lepers they are. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:00 AM
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I'd rather grow a beard than let that guy touch me. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:40 AM
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I'd ask them if they have had it appraised so they can get a document certifying its value 'for insurance, just in case'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:27 AM
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We should celebrate an FDS holiday "Free woman's day". Yet another excuse to get chocolate truffles..or whatever you are into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:21 AM
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"Let them perish!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:13 AM
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I hover my mouse over links and read at bottom left of the browser where they go. If in doubt you can always google what it is instead of clicking. However, it was not possible for me to comment until the mods approved me, so I am sort of quite confident most of the commenters are people who belong in this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:07 AM
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Every time I run into someone sevening, I inwardly shake my head and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:58 AM
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It depends what type of things he was saying. Were they inappropriate? If they made you feel uncomfortable, you have the right to ask to not be told those things. If he is saying inappropriate things it is not your job to worry about him being himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:56 AM
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Dry by just scrunching your waves/curls. From ends to roots scrunch away. Same when you put hair product, scrunch scrunch. Borrow the Curly Girl method from your library for tips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:15 AM
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Reading these I'm so glad my housemate is of the feline kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:14 PM
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are you using enough conditioner? are you rubbing the hair (don't!)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:09 PM
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Came here late to say this. Sounds like a curly haired woman (special towel, no blow drying, not a lot of hair products or styling). source: curly haired woman here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:06 PM
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He baked at home? Back then? That is wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:02 PM
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I am separating a person who has not had sex from the abstract concept of virginity. I believe the abstract concept IS used against women as a patriarchal sexist tool. I personally don't find particular value in the concept of virginity or in being proud of being labelled a virgin or not being labelled one; that is personal and private and nobody's business. I am not saying a woman who has not had sex is worth less than one who has; a woman is always worth a woman, a human being. Not worthless. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:56 PM
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As an engineer, this is utter bullshit. I'd say a mass of complaint emails is in order. Edit: just emailed the WOMAN PRESIDENT of Boise university. "Dear Madam President, As a very independent, unmedicated woman, and an engineer, I am deeply distrubed that deeply misogynistic ideas such as this one are coming out of Boise. (picture of tweet, link to article) Connections to eternity delivered through family? Since when is anatomy our destiny? The "feminine goals of homemaking and having children"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:30 PM
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If a PLANT can change and improve itself, there’s no excuse a scrote can’t. The difference is, a plant probably wants to... :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 05:00 PM
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I would see if there are any gyms that have hours for women only, or women-only gyms. Otherwise, if you have the room at home, you could get some dumbbells secondhand and look at exercises in bodybuilding.com (free videos) and train at home. Yeah I'd never lift because men like it; only to keep my muscles strong, for ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:46 PM
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I am glad he is single. Hope he never reproduces. Also, brian laundrie vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:53 PM
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Congratulations on your success and your business and I wish you the best for 2022. Also congrats on losing ~200 lbs of junk in one weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:12 AM
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Apparently doing anything alone as a woman must be sad and horrible. People who think that really just don't know how well we take ourselves out on dates and what great company we are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:09 AM
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I begun big smiling, in a way so OTT it’s a little aggressive and low key threatening and ugly. Basically big laughing, ugly in their faces How does that look? I am imagining an old fashioned movie where the 'evil' character laughs bua ha ha ha ha with a fake but thunderous laugh. Is that it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:05 AM
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It would be good if more of us agreed to not cooperate with systematic animal cruelty like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:01 AM
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And yet for some reason he felt alluded. Think about that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:00 AM
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The lady speaketh the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:00 AM
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her husband which made out Chad was the better catch Poor Sarah is tryng to justify her choice in husbands so hard, she can't even be polite enough to not compare out loud. I pity her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:50 AM
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Hopefully porn culture and redpill has removed him from the gene pool. Fingers and toes crossed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:44 AM
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In true form I'd type "WHAT DID YOU DO TO MAKE HER WANT TO LEAVE?" in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:43 AM
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It is all bullshit. Burn that letter. And next time an evelope comes from him don't open it, just burn it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:40 AM
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I end up feeling jealous over the ex who he did more for, That he said he did more for, but who knows if it is true. I am going out on a limb and saying because societies condition women that they should be coupled up. So we end up chasing that dream as if it was a right. From faerie tales when you are little, to toys that seem to be geared to making girls housewives (nothing wrong with that, but ffs, there are legos, meccanos, laboratory kits etc, and girls should get all those too!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:38 AM
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they’d quickly post on multiple subs for validation that they in fact are not the asshole 😂 ha ha ha ha that would be so very pathetic: lost at sea but let's see what social media says first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:11 PM
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Put these men in a barge and push them out to sea. I wonder if they would bother to row, or just perish. ​ Love your username lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:06 PM
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Exactly, at least she can get income by renting the room to the housemate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:04 PM
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He is more useless than my cat, I have to say. At least she wakes me up every morning. Edit: that woman should just pack up and leave. There is no point in keeping such a parasite at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:02 PM
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I disagree in a way. A smile would have probably just excited the cat caller more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 07:27 PM
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Never underestimate the desire for control!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:07 PM
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She once told me I have “nothing” without a husband and kids. Holy hell, your mum is literally spewing 2/3 of this poster. I can only assume that those were the ideas beat into her brain all her life and it is the only 'known' to her. And as the saying goes 'better the evil you know'. Look at it that way, she is pushing the agenda that is familiar, even if it is not the right agenda. Look ahead; you won't be able to change her, but you will be able to plan and live your life the way YOU want. Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:06 PM
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Hi, I just saw this, not in the US. I think it is great you walked out rather than stay there and have to deal with shite. I hope you had a tasty dinner in your own great company last night. I find it great that you are a lawyer! Your mum sounds like she is stuck in 1950; look ahead at your life and live it the way you want. She already lived hers the way she wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:03 PM
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One comeback I've always had for men who start to criticise women or complain about wives in general is "if you don't like women why don't you date/marry men?". Shuts them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:44 PM
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"A Scrotemas Carol" by ewokblubber
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:55 PM
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Came here to say that. Just create a gmail account for that number, and not with your name, and just give that number out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:39 PM
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That was easy – you gave me your phone number, Scrote, that was not PERMISSION to show up at his house. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:37 PM
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came here to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:30 PM
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Mooch. He is a lazy mooch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:54 PM
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did you ever have to bathe in an outdoor bathing area during the rainy season? We did that after a hurricane when water was cut off, in the Caribbean. It was a slow trickle from the roof, but we bathed anyway. None of us wanted to be stinky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:49 PM
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Thanks for letting cynical me know. A young life cut short is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:36 PM
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GREETINGS! WHO DOTH DESIRE TO RIDE MY AGED UNDERSIZED PEEN?!” ha ha ha thanks for the laughter with my coffee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:25 AM
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I'd leave him. He has done the bare basic good things with you with support etc. Now you know that is the bare minimum. If some random guy I don't know on the street started complimenting me, I'd be like who asked you about your opinion. I don't like that. It is one thing to say a compliment to a woman he knows and another at random passing women. That is just a refined catcall. Strike out. Surrounding himself with LVM and LVW, can only mean he is ok with that, and at their level. Strike out. If…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:22 AM
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If I was super sad about a death from a loved one, and had just started seeing a guy, I would have the consideration to tell him 'hey, I am super sad and don't feel like I can leave the house today, I'm sorry' or something to that effect. Even via text message, takes five seconds. If he wanted to, he would. I think you did the right thing. Evil me wonders if there was really a death in the family or if this was just an excuse to be unavailable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:15 AM
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Exactly. We can be brainwashed by family implying things like 'oh look at your cousin, she is 19 and already has a formal boyfriend' ...while you don't even date because you are busy with your degree. Unless a woman has her priorities straight, a comment like that can make her think somethign is amiss. I actually had my cousin born two days after me direct that phrase at me; I went to finish 2 degrees and a Masters and work in several countries. She got divorced from the formal boyfriend a few y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:59 AM
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Thank you for the award, Mighty Wombat42! Yes, there is a difference between me valuing me for my virginity, and me valuing my body. If I value my body, I value it always, whether I've slept with someone or not. Me not being a virgin in no way makes me less worthy, and no woman (or man!) should be brought up to think a woman is worth less if the virginity is lost. Valuing virginity (which is lost in a second) does not equal me valuing my body (which is with me until I die)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:51 AM
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Stay strong as a bull, torabull! You will have days of some sadness but keep your eye on the prize: your freedom and future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:47 AM
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Like the hare in the fable, every little step counts! That is why vetting is especially important, to minimise the risk of bad choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:46 AM
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ha ha, certainly not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:44 AM
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I have lashes in the inner corner of my eyes too! Just rememberd, some dude I dated said he wanted to pluck them out and I told him he should not dare touch them ever or else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:26 PM
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She is waaaaay prettier than him, with his pubic facial hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:17 PM
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So he is planning to be sick until Friday, and feel fine then, but Saturday he might still be sick so he can't meet you? He's got another person for a date on Saturday. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:06 PM
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I've dated guys who cook, and we share the cooking, or one cooks and one cleans. If the guy does not know how to cook, I expect him to clean up. I expect anyone who comes to my house to at the very least offer to clean up; if I visit someone and we cook there, I offer to help clean up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:04 PM
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Unlearn. Unteach yourself. Society will throw lots of shit at everyone (remember the fable of the man, the son and the donkey? nothing they did stopped people from criticising them), we need to build ourselves inside so we don't succumb to bullshit as much as possible. My mum raised me always to study and get a job and not depend on any man, because she was from a generation that pressured women to marry and have children so they would not feel like losers. She recognised this was wrong and stop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:01 PM
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The idea of virginity is yet another concept used to control and manipulate women, and demanded of women as a way to value or devalue them. What exactly is virginity in a woman? It is an unripped hymen, a tiny piece of tissue. And it is wrong to value that more than valuing the body it is attached to. Virginity is lost and never got back again, and in that small moment, in societies that value a woman's virginity over herself, the woman's value goes down to zero the moment the virginity is lost.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:54 PM
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It says we should NOT teach our girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:51 PM
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I am lucky no man has tried to pressure me into sex with other women or threesomes or kissing other women. Any woman I've kissed it has been because I wanted to! (Never slept with any women bc I did not get turned on) I've also been very open around men who brought up the topic of threesomes, always saying "both guys would need to please ME"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:44 PM
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I would read the FDS hanbook linked up above, just to make sure you can vet adequately. I would try to remember this is JUST a date, and this person might be a LVM or not, so not to get overly excited. Look at more as you conducting an interview for a potential second date. He does need to impress you, the possibility of a second date is YOUR decision, not his. YOU are the prize here, keep that in mind. Also, I hope that whatever is planned is a fun activity (eating dinner counts) so you can con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:24 PM
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saying that they will unalive themselves This is not your problem so don't make it yours; if they want to do that they can go ahead. Seriously: ignore this manipulative threat. This people will either unalive a woman or themselves, so I rather it is themselves. I’m getting to the point that I’m starting to believe I am the problem, that I might be the toxic one You are not. You are fighting to be free from them, that is contrary to the definition of being a toxic person. Block this person; block…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:26 PM
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Now I need to see your outstanding tear ducts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:13 PM
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She is a hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:11 PM
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Classic religious bigot move, because women are the temptresses and sources of evil. Poor men like untrained dogs, they have no control over their impulses. Pfff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:57 PM
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Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:01 PM
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Yeah but you try changing your mind! Chaos ensues and you don't know what you want etc. Shaggy It Wasn't Me is basically a guy blatantly gaslighting, believing his own lies. A man in such desire for denial is never going to own up, so why waste our precious time trying to get him to? This is why it is better to say nothing and the minute you find out X and Y, just take quiet action: move out, change the locks, block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 09:40 AM
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Can we clone Keanu? Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:51 AM
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Reading this makes me feel appreciative for living with a cat that screams at me when she wants treats, and makes very stinky poops. It also makes me appreciate that I live alone (except for the cat). Happy Happy Peaceful Holidays!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:44 AM
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This woman is likely not a vegetarian (I am) but I totally want to be in a kitchen with her making awesome food, baking, and listening to her!!!! (making food is one way I like to share with others). Queen! The tree with the ornaments and all, ha ha ha ha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:46 AM
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Phone dude might have nudes from other women in the phone, or something else, that he does not want you to see. Pewdiepie dude deep down agrees with scrotes and is probably one. Friend of the slut dude admires his friend's sluttiness and wants to be like him, and probably is. I'd block and delete and get new scrotation candidates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:33 AM
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When his father first found out my boyfriend was spending the night at my place he tried to have my boyfriend excommunicate himself from their church.... His father is relatively kind to my face, but behind my back will make comments to my boyfriend basically implying that I’m a whore. his parents are aware we’ve had sex and clearly hold it against me. These are NOT kind people. Let's not do that where we call them one thing when their actions imply the total opposite. Do they have kind moments?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:03 AM
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why did he not stop her the moment her hand touched him? this is some scrote's fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:56 AM
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What you describe sounds scary AF, and I'd run for the hills, so there would be NO friendship or relationship. Sounds to me your inner instinct was screaming. Listen to it. Please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:57 PM
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I would print the picture on glossy paper and frame it nicely and keep it in my house. But not on SM, just because I don't want anyone to download it for whatever purpose, or anyone to start giving you attention after making assumptions about you. In addition, I don't know your age or field but I'd prefer to keep pics of me very private so they are not seen by future employers... or predators of any kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:51 PM
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So it always makes me wonder if my personality is shitty enough because I'm incapable of making a guy stay with me even when sex is temporarily out of the table Don't blame yourself for the existence of LVM's shitty personalities. It's not you, it's them. sooner or later it comes to a point in which they ask me when sex will finally happen and I feel pressured They should not be asking; they should be letting you decide. If they ask in a pressuring manner, just block and delete. I know of one gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:47 PM
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how much he would like for his future wife to work with him side by side. And he's from quite a religious background, so he seems really serious about this. So she can't have her own interests/studies/career, controlling much, and on top religious patriarchal shackles ? Nah, sis. He kept arguing with me for a good twenty minutes trying to justify "angry" behavior. Too angry. Over you having an opinion. Nah, sis. she called off the wedding and is now a working girl, aka a prostitute She called of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:37 PM
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Block and delete. You can't be your own vaccinated self around him on Skype, imagine how you will feel in person. Nah sis, block and delete now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:30 PM
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Accomplished woman from a town who moved to the city to accomplish stuff leaves accomplished boyfriend in the city to go back home to run into the LVM ex boyfriend who did not accomplish anything, and decides he is the keeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:14 PM
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I get busy! Busy with hobbies, books, anything social, whatever it is, I get a jam packed schedule. Plans with friends, rearranging the house, learning to cook something, try something new (new dance, new class, new museum, workout, new nail polish, whatever). I avoid going on dates, I use this time for me and myself, and maybe friends too. If you can, going on a trip away from your city/town is a good way to come back refreshed. Watching movies I had on my list but never watched is also an opti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:12 PM
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Sounds like you came out winning big time: scrote < <<<<paid PhD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 04:07 PM
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“You’re the only girl who has made it to the third date. At this point I usually find something wrong with a woman I’m seeing. " Does this chap even like women, or is he into dudes? Curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 04:02 PM
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Welcome the anger, it is that FDS-inner-you breaking out and speaking to your soon-to-be-past-self. Take a moment to feel that anger, and whatever else you are actually feeling physically inside. What is going on in your stomach, or belly, or your heart and veins....Then vow and promise to yourself that you will do everything in your power to never feel this way again. ​ ​ Take some time to go for a walk or lift weights, or watch something that makes you belly-laugh or take a nice bath with your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 03:42 PM
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"he will go on for hours about how much he misses me" why are these people putting up with this shite for hours? Seems they need to learn about grey-rocking themselves :-/ Just in a friendly and polite manner tell your acquaintances that you have moved on and have no desire to hear about this person, and that if the comes to them whinging they should think about how they want their own time to be used. I had an acquaintance in college who had some guy I briefly dated come to her with some sob st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:39 PM
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She'll be begging him for a divorce soon. I feel sorry for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:12 PM
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I venture to say massive amounts; several Marie Curies, Katherine Johnsons/Dorothy Vaughans, Frida Kahlos, etc etc etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:58 PM
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husband could not feed himself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:46 PM
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They don't even respect themselves and know they are shite, so if you settle for them, they will lose respect for you 'because you have shite standards'. Also, believe every man who says you are too good for them or that they do not deserve you. Run for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:43 PM
194

No matter who I dine with, even if it is my boss who takes the team out for dinner, or a girlfriend who wanted to cook, it is basically polite to say Thanks for lunch/dinner, food was great/delicious. I would not add the 'love to do it again'. Let him be the one to show interest in doing dinner again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:02 PM
17

Very well said. Hopefully he will stop being so condescending towards you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:59 PM
3

Yes, he lived alone and kept his place pristine. Of course, who knows what he'd develop into if he lived with someone else who could also clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:03 PM
17

That sounds like an awesome date night!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:01 PM
184

"standards for me not for thee" scrote type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:01 PM
14

Prefiero los hombres políglotas, paso de limitarme a uno que solamente pueda hablar una lengua. (I prefer men who speak several languages, I can't be arsed to limit myself to one that only speaks one language) So like, hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:00 PM
10

1000% this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:54 PM
61

Men die younger than us so we will die alone anyway. I might as well just skip the BS, my current cat is a very naughty girl anyway so I don't need more :D I've seen some groups of older ladies in Japan, all widows, all having a great time going on travels together. I think that is a great goal to have, to be like those old ladies! Sign me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:54 PM
17

I just plan to not have pets by then bc I don't want them to suffer...or eat me. But I second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:51 PM
8

YES. A total moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:16 PM
35

Quel con.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:32 PM
108

Clipping my toenails, ewwwww. All he celebrates is all she does for him. This is really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:20 PM
7

Queens together strong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:18 PM
14

¡Viva!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:16 PM
8

"my parents keep on reminding me no matter how rewarding my career is, I'll always feel empty without a man" Empty how? If you invest in your career and make good money, have a job you love, develop quality friends, manage your money wisely, enjoy what your salary can provide (after saving at least 12%), how is anyone's life empty? That makes no sense. You are reacting to the nonsense your parents are telling you. Do you really believe you need a man? Or you realise you don't, but don't know how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:11 PM
6

Same here. This account is only FDS, and all chat and messaging options are blocked, except for the mods which I added. If anyone else wants to talk to me they must leave a comment in response to my comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:32 PM
43

Good to know this happened, I will keep it in mind forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:01 PM
153

Some "men" who say they want a strong independent woman just want to try and dominate them so they feel like what they think a man feels like. It is just their misogynistic fantasy to be able to 'put them in their place' or domesticate them as if they were a wild animal and not a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:51 PM
1

I use the website on my phone, https://open.spotify.com/show/1yEtiYEtlLyutV8w3jpeTZ , not the app, and I am not logged in either. I don't see any ads. However I do see a label "explicit" under the podcast so I think that might be why they lumped FDS with a bunch of shite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:46 PM
29

"she makes more money than him, does more housework and pretty much handles all the emotional labor." Sounds like she really does not need him around. I hope she sees the light, gets out, hires a cleaner, and enjoys the rest of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:13 AM
33

Yes, because back then women had NO way out! And for centuries, no way to get educated and work/make money so they had to depend on a man to be able to eat. And in many places still, women might be left destitute if they divorce so that is a sad reason to stay married, so you don't starve to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:51 AM
30

I am really sorry your friends have reacted that way instead of supporting you and actually listening to what you were saying. I've noticed sometimes people do that, they try to paint all these rosy images instead of accepting reality as it is. I think they are parroting what has been told do them, and by parroting I mean repeating without analysing. Yes, definitely, if a man is interested, they would find a way to meet/see/go on a date with a woman. I would slowly tell them less and less. I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 08:45 AM
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