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Same in my area 🤢 and most the women are actually pretty attractive! I always fight the urge to match with them just so I can beat some FDS sense into the women's heads. It's so obvious they're just going along with it for the scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:34 PM
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I just get a lot of joy thinking about this man child receiving a minimum of 7 texts a day for weeks and the potential of him realizing his one text every 2 weeks ain't shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 01:59 PM
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You need to start texting him every. single. time. you clean ANYTHING. Maybe he'll get the hint. He won't, but it would be funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:25 AM
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If I ever get the inclination a male is asking something just to give their response, I always go for the "oh idk so anyways subject change" all in one breath just to take it away from them 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:15 AM
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He literally didn't even listen to your answer. He just wanted an excuse to tell you his 🤢 otherwise he would have aborted mission and acted like a fucking adult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:11 AM
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Who the F advises this? I'm not kissing anywhere I know there's cologne. I'm not trying to get a mouth full of bitter ass alcohol flavored sweat🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:06 AM
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When are we going to normalize turning around and walking the opposite direction when this happens? I've never heard of this happening before this sub and I am shocked. If he's ahead, it's going to take him a bit to notice you're gone unless he's looking back every few moments, but that's even more Fing weird. Like making sure your puppy is still following 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:52 AM
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🤏 lmao This is our irl gang sign, right? Like, this is how we spot each other in the wild? Cos I'm here for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:19 PM
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I started OLD for the first time ever like a month ago and I feel like I've already seen it all lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:23 AM
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Ugh I forgot the "I'm not on here often" ok so you're not actively searching for a relationship. Got it. Or is it you want me to chase you? Yeah. That's better. Oorrr is it that you're in a fucking relationship and need to take it to an app that auto deletes so you can claim you just forgot to delete your profile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:06 AM
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No bio is my biggest peeve. It either says that they're low effort or they are so full of themselves they don't think they need one. It's almost always the ones I find especially attractive that don't have one 😤 Ok maybe my biggest peeve is when they just have their Snapchat handle. For reference I'm in my 30s. These men shouldn't even have that app Surprisingly I only saw alpha male once, but that was a hilarious one. 6'whatever "because/in case that matters" ENM every time I see this I want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:51 AM
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Because it's their tricksy way of saying casual. They can next you after they get what they want. It means they're not actively seeking something serious. They're ok with, or would rather it not get to that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:31 AM
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Ugh. She's falling in love with potential. Hopefully she realizes that sooner rather than later. All I heard here is "my gut's telling me something's wrong, will you guys gas light me please?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:21 AM
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Predictable plot twist: he never finds a 'decent job'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 04:57 AM
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It's easier to leave a marriage than Parenthood. This is why we never stop vetting. If he's pushing kids once married, start with a puppy or other high maintenance pet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:36 AM
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not an afterthought or like a plant that has to be watered occasionally. Great red flag to look out for! Also congrats on the HVM 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:07 PM
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Good distinction!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:05 PM
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I've been listening to the podcast a lot lately and seeing everything they say line up with posts like this just confirms we need to vet like crazy and guard access to sex like our worth depends on it. There's truly a disconnect on why men and women get into relationships and I'm glad we're finally waking up to the realities on what the other side is thinking. Thank you FDS for helping me level up and realize that I deserve better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:02 PM
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This is my dilemma. I feel like once I start dating again I'm just gonna bring it up once things look like they're getting serious. Just tell him that I want full mutual access to each other's phones. Cheating men don't stop because of this, but either I'll find out sooner rather than later or he'll have to work extra hard to keep scrubbing and it's satisfying to think he'll always be sweating it. But sneaking peeks just doesn't sit right with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:43 AM
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I feel like giving the real # and blocking isn't good enough. I'm worried they're gonna scrub the internet to find accounts that number is linked to. I don't like being paranoid, but I like being safe 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:30 AM
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I've had ex boyfriends, ex guy friends and guys that were interested that I never gave the time of day to try and text me. I noticed a pattern with them, they always texted between 11pm and 3-4am. I started making it a point to text them back the next morning to see what they needed 🤣 either they didn't respond or they have some lame as excuse that don't make sense. Often they aren't single either, it's disgusting and predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:26 AM
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That doesn't always work. Wish it did. No one wants to play this game. We're adapting out of necessity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:16 AM
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A possible solution is having a texting app. It's great for online/casual dating and moments like this. (I downloaded one recently because I'm job hunting now. Also good for searching for car insurance and basically anything like that) Ask him for his number and text him your name/fake name. There's so many times they'll text you right then and just stare stupidly waiting for you to get out your phone so they can see it worked. This way they think they won and you can just get a new number as so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:07 AM
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All 👏 of 👏 this. You literally hit every point. This isn't 'leveled up' talk, this is 'beat the game on expert' talk. Iloveyou<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:47 AM
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Yeah. It's not instinctual, it's ingrained. Smoking, drinking, porn, none of it is instinctual. It's a fucking habit. But because habits are hard to break, most weak individuals will just find something to blame instead of putting in the work to change it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:42 AM
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It's comments like this that makes me wish there was a 'super like' button
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:35 AM
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Of course we should use our bodies to vet. What else would we use? Our brains?!? Ugh we can't be trusted with that 🙄 /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:30 AM
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I for the most part never read magazines, never followed trends, was always quirky and followed my own personal compass. That being said, I have always dreamt of finding my forever human. That's just honestly one of my main goals. I remember being way too young and reading some teen mag like the ones with the posters on the middle and general kiddish stuff but of course there was an article in there about how to give a man his best orgasm ever and I swear that shit was fried into my brain deeper…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:25 AM
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Lmfao this is gold. There's definitely a woman on that advertising crew among us trolling the pick me's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:39 AM
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Men like this will never give you the satisfaction of closure. I feel like that last little bit of emotion is going to have to be dealt with solo. You're gonna ask him why and he. will. not. give. you. a. real. answer. I promise 😕 it'll be a run around or he'll flip it on how you pushed him to do it. Vanishing will put the power in your hands. If you talk it out anyways (because this is your choice and your life) please have pepper spray on you and watch out for all the signs! Keep a level head …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:24 AM
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I don't wish suffering on them, I try not to perpetuate it, but if they bring it on themselves I'm gonna enjoy the shit show 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:43 PM
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Lmao I was gonna say being an incel isn't a 'voluntary hardship' involuntary is literally the first part of the word 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:20 PM
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Lmaoo nothing involuntary about the celibacy. We do it on purpose. Or...you could make the point that it's involuntary because there's no decent men around. Better than being attracted to all of them and still not getting any 🤣🤣 die mad scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 10:02 PM
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I think I've posted there a few times. Howeverrrr I'll choose FDS over that sub any day. It works out for women tho! They'll ban us and it will become an echo chamber of tactics and advice that don't work 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 09:57 PM
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It's because they're male moderated 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 09:55 PM
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vowed to never do again You're not alone, babe. Don't ever feel bad for being nice! But remember, following a man's lead on matters involving his family is not un-nice. You just play the oblivious card. They would never blame you for their son showing up empty handed. But my take is fun and petty " I bought you guys something ☺️ sorry, if I knew LVM was gonna show up empty handed I would have put a bit more into it" 🥺 not that you actually would, it just highlights his shitty behavior while simu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:57 PM
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I hit 9/11! Can I PleEEeeAsSssEeE be chosen oh great one?! A few were half points, but I promise to try oh so hard 🥺 Lmao but for real, 'must not nag/complain' is my favorite. Reads "must not have a negative opinion on the shitty things I do"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:03 PM
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Obviously you should anticipate his needs like a real woman! /S I hated him in the first 2 paragraphs, the Spanish thing is just the icing on the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:05 PM
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Oh, for sure! The answer is no regardless. You had responsibilities the next day that you take seriously. But it's just a show of their character when they do shit like this. Playing wounded bird in hopes we'll take charge and mother them instead of straight up asking for what they need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:02 PM
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Yikes. Depending on what the situation is, the first response should have been "Hey! Since lvx is the invited and I'm the +1 you should teach out to him. Should I send you his number?" Or "Hey, I can only comment on my own invite. Have you tried reaching out to lvx? I'm not sure what he wants to do"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:58 PM
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I hate this. You didn't say no because a question wasn't asked. Baiting someone to offer their help is way different than humbly asking for assistance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:49 PM
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If you want to feel needed, bring something of value to the table 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:30 PM
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Haha reminds me of the family guy scene. Lois complaining about Peter acting immature. "Well if I'm a child, you know what that makes you, Lois? A pedophile" Never their fault, is it 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:09 PM
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If he managed before me, he'll have to manage with me. I read a horror story of a wife being absolutely berated for not playing human alarm clock. Fucking scrote cried about how he can't go to sleep unless he pushes himself to absolute exhaustion and passes out wherever he finds himself at the moment LIKE A FUCKING TODDLER. He would often miss alarms and be late and somehow it was her fault 😭 first off how do you even make it to live-in conditions with a man like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:04 PM
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Something I've vowed to never do again is the emotional labor of doing shit for them or their families (on their behalf). "Oh was it your sister's birthday? Why didn't you tell me? I would have texted her" "You didn't set your alarm for work? That sucks" "What? You didn't get your parents a Christmas present? Well this one was from me specifically so you should figure that out" as we're driving over there "Huh you missed another doctor's appt? You should keep better track of that"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:58 PM
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Fucking queen 👑 also he wasn't making up fort it, it's just that his first attempt didn't go as planned. He wouldn't have even interacted with someone he didn't find attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:25 AM
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Yupp. #3 hit home for me. I'm always begging girls not to call out what men are doing wrong "you're just making him a better sociopath".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:19 AM
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This right here is why I do self defense fighting 2-4 times a week. If a man ever touched me like that, I would either choke him unconscious or preferably, break a bone. Beautiful thing about it is the eye witnesses and the simple fact that women generally get a pass with excessive force with the simple explanation that the male is naturally bigger and stronger and "I just couldn't be sure that he wouldn't continue the aggression" I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. It's disgusting that we c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:44 AM
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I was camping with the family like 20 years ago. A man comes up to me and my siblings/other kids asking for help finding his dog on the beach. We had walkie talkies to our parents and thank God we asked first. Dad was like "hell no! Fuck that guy. In fact come play poker" or some shit. When we got back he told us the probable reasoning behind it and that if an adult really needed help he would find another adult. I feel the same here, like others and you have said, if it were a real issue he nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:30 PM
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We're just NPCs and props to them. Which makes sense since most are addicted to video games and porn 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:53 AM
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I have ruined SO many dishes because men tried so hard to involve me 🤣 like sorry bro. I told you I'm awful at this. Now re make it, thanks 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:14 AM
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Ya know...I bet he doesn't even remember it was you he pissed off in the beginning. I sometimes feel like men see us as cardboard cut outs in the background of their oh so important life story. "Ugh, this thing is in my way" 2 weeks later "ooh! This prop can cook!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:09 AM
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It wasn't on purpose, but I never learned how to cook. Now that I'm older and seeing these men for what they're not worth, I'm glad for it. "Oh, you can't cook? Oops, neither can I. Guess we're not compatible" 🤷‍♀️ lmao I also don't want children and learned from shitty room mates to pettily clean up exactly my mess and nothing more. If a guy wants me, it's gonna be for ME probably why I'm still single sigh oh well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:59 AM
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My victory feels hollow, I just got extremely lucky. I would give anything to find a way to be a vigilante for the women in your situation. I wish there was something we could collectively do to force these scrotes to take care of just their portion. The fact that they unload it all onto the mother makes me absolutely sick. It's not like we're asking them to go above and beyond, like just take full care of yourself and half care of your carbon copies ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:25 AM
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I've said it a million times and I'll say it a billion more: "BEING GAY IS NOT A CHOICE otherwise most women would be" I tried 😭 I tried so hard to be in a loving relationship with a woman, a few actually. I just couldn't do it long term. I hate it. They get all the orgasms, love, stability (for the most part) it's just not fair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:19 AM
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Unfortunately, the struggle is ours alone. There will be a few beautiful allies that will stick up for us, but most of them will be paralyzed by the bystander effect no matter how much they sympathize. However, I absolutely believe we will find the power to flip the patriarchy on it's head. The sooner we convert the pickmieshas, the sooner lvm will be backed against the wall. We'll be faced with the last burst of flames before the fire dies out, but it will because we're no longer feeding it the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:09 AM
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My heart absolutely aches for you. I also married the nice guy, the good Catholic that was going to be the wonderful leader of our family. Ho-ly-shit did I fuck up. I was 20 and as soon as we got married (we dated for like 3 years) he IMMEDIATELY changed. Cos, ya know, Catholics can't get divorced 🙄 he was so emotionally abusive, wouldn't let me see my family, even took me to another state. He got me pregnant pretty early in the marriage but I miscarried and we were so deviated at first. I left …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:55 AM
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Ah, that actually gives me a bit of hope! I think you explained it well, but my ADHD brain jumps around a lot. And since I'm so cynical I didn't think they'd be hurt for her, just hurt that they had to read mean things. Lol I really need to heal from all these lvm before I miss out on all the good in the world. Thank you for fleshing it out for my dense self ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:41 AM
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With your comment, my brain auto jumped to thinking they made the guys think the tweets were about them for some social experiment or something. Then I re read it and nope the man bebes couldn't even read mean things not about them. How. Just how have they convinced the world they are the strong ones, the leaders, the rational ones?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:24 AM
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"pregnancy risks double after age 35" what they don't tell you is it doubled from .5% to 1%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 09:38 PM
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So glad to have y'all back! Excited to see the posts that come out of the new changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:42 AM
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I'm in the same boat but I'm dealing with it by staying to myself lmao. I'd like to find a HVM but the effort to look exhausts me just thinking about it. Took a class mate to a concert this week just for someone to go with and the 200$ I made off my extra ticket n he had the audacity to try n kiss me! No conversations about it, I kept my distance and even shrugged away from the touching he tried first. Like WHAT IN THE EVER LIVING HELL I FUCKING HATE YOU MAN CHILDREN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:09 AM
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My poor friend is with someone who constantly 'scans'. He gas lights her and she has the audacity to say "well he does look at unattractive people too and makes comments about everyone". I try to tell her he should be so focused and engaged with her that he shouldn't have time to 'people watch'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:38 PM
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I don't plan on dating for quite a while, but I'm definitely gonna start asking about vasectomies! From what I've read and dealt with, this seems to be the only way to weed out fence sitters and liars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:55 AM
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