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ROAST-A-SCROTEDivineGoddess1111111/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:41 AM
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When a guy asks you to go on a walk for a date, usually in a park. Fuckboys like free dates because it lets them cast their net wide to trawl for sex. Plus it is extremely unsafe to walk somewhere alone with a complete stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 02:47 PM
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Why would you want to bring kids into this hellscape of a world? If I was in my twenties now, I certainly wouldn't have had mine. If I lived in America, I wouldn't even bother dating until my bodily autonomy was guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 12:01 AM
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I continue to plant seeds everywhere and always will
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:53 AM
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I wanted to question that one woman using the word "females." I think it's a fake account belonging to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:16 AM
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This is why they should definitely pay. Weeds out scrotes looking for a pump and dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:15 AM
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Sad but also enraging as they lower the bar for all of us. You should see the reeeees and angry reacts when I say the man should pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 10:12 AM
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I'm putting votes right wing and is in a red flag career like the military or police force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 01:10 AM
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Well at least it was a guy doing it. It actually sounds like an interesting movie. Still think your date should be blocked though, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 12:15 AM
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I stopped reading halfway through too. I just read the rest and he's already complaining about how expensive their dates are AND they went to a movie with a dildo show. What the actual fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 10:38 PM
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I used to have posters of Johnny on my wall as a teenager. Now he disgusts me. All I see is a washed up angry short abuser. Manipulative POS. He has a long history of arrests for assault and destroying property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:48 AM
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The fact she's even making this post and asking us after 4 dates says it all. Women need to really learn to trust their instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:44 AM
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How about you girls The majority of women in this subreddit are over 18 so are women. Calling women "girls" makes us seem childlike and less than. It's a hard habit to get out of but an important one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:33 AM
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That's my motto too, guilty until proven innocent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:30 AM
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Yes, Johnny reminds me of my abusive, alcoholic narc ex. Trying to flip reactive abuse by his victim as being the whole story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:24 AM
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It's the fourth date and he is already trying to trauma bond with you over his past, talking about sex and triangulating you with other women. These were just a few of the many, many red flags he is flying (surrogacy is the most vile one.) BLOCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 03:22 AM
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They hate sex workers because they all believe they should get sex for free whenever they want. Paying a sex worker is proof they can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:42 PM
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Yes, I despise it. I'm forever correcting or roasting men who use the word girl for adult women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 07:39 PM
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But has takeaway as one of his likes. He totally does look like he's sucking in his gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 12:19 PM
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My comment on that original post was that he sounds really short. So many red flags it seems like a parody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 12:14 PM
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yes he does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 06:59 AM
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They are both terrible people. Peterson is a racist and advocates for a woman being given to every man by the government (slavery.) If you watch their channels you are actively supporting them to spread their filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 03:04 AM
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I've always dated younger for this reason. Men my age (forties) look 20 years or more older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:44 AM
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Gen X is always forgotten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 07:37 AM
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So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 01:38 AM
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Honestly, a man complaining about "gold diggers" is a red flag, especially if he is middle class or lower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 12:46 AM
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Coincidentally, I've never met an Adam who wasn't a complete fuckwit. It's a red flag name for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 01:17 AM
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Once a week is generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 01:13 AM
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Exactly what I was thinking when I read about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 12:22 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 01:33 AM
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Reports are that ASAP and Rhianna have broken up because of....cheating of course. He's cheating on her with some shoe designer that has been his "friend" for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 12:36 AM
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The going rate is my city is $600 an hour for just sex. There are guys bitching in my singles groups about forking out for a coffee if they aren't going to get a root. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 06:03 AM
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Or Australia. Our healthcare is good and our right-wing government is looking like it's gone by the end of next month. Australian men are trash though. Same as everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 05:43 AM
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Thank you. My daughter and I discovered FDS at pretty much the same time. She was following it very well but has recently had a small pick me backslide. It happens. Sometimes I have pick me brain farts where a guy says something and I'm like "awww that's sweet" and then I'm like fuck no, it's controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:09 AM
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It's way too big a gap. Most domestic violence cases have a large age gap between partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:14 AM
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It sounds like you also had an age gap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:08 AM
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Yes, she will learn the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 07:04 AM
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Thanks for this post. I've tried explaining this to my daughter but she doesn't believe me because I'm old 🙄 I've told her if you make the first move, men think you're desperate and something is wrong with you. The egg doesn't chase the sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 01:36 AM
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This post doesn't align at all with what FDS says in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 12:02 AM
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Is that a spell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:57 PM
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I call them community dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:54 PM
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He's not interested. He has the perfect opportunity to plan a date around this hobby, but he wants to do it on his own. Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:52 PM
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They're on Reddit. Most of Reddit consists of teenage boys. Do we actually believe them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 04:21 AM
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It's Uber Eats for free sex workers for scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 11:23 PM
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Military is a red flag career anyway. Any job that utilises weapons and violence is a left swipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 11:03 PM
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He was absolutely a sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 03:38 AM
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Same. The mask dropped the day we married. We dated for FIVE years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 02:31 AM
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A habitual drug user is also an instant nope for me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 01:44 AM
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He told her he doesn't even go down on them. That would be a throw in the bin moment for me. Possibly he's trying to triangulate OP but he's doing a shit job of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 01:50 AM
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The fact that he told her about his set up shows he doesn't respect OP in any way. He wouldn't tell a woman he was romantically interested in about his harem. It makes him look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 12:25 AM
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Your boyfriend sounds wonderful. I would also let stray cats in my house and have. I adore cats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 12:58 AM
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It would be illegal here to distribute nudes, that woman could be charged. If you must send nudes, obviously never show your face. In my pickme days, that saved me. I had some of them shared widely on Facebook and messenger. I just denied and denied. I would never, ever send so much as a cleavage shot these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 12:55 AM
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I won't do a single thing at work that isn't in my job description. I got screwed over a few years ago when a colleague got fired. I took over her job on top of my own and didn't get compensated even a cent. I was an absolute FOOL. Lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 12:49 AM
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A pair of old men's work boots at the door would work just as well to repell any potential home invaders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 11:33 AM
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Yes, our Divine Mother is most definitely a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 11:08 AM
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I never questioned the idea of getting married and having kids when I was young. I was a pick me and of course ended up with a NV man. If I was young now, no way would I do either even though I love my kids. The system grooms us to want these things whilst most men are LV and there is very little support for mothers in the workplace. I drop subtle shit all the time to women like "if he wanted to he would".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 11:43 PM
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That's my goal, too. To reach women. I've managed to convert a couple of huge pick mes so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 09:01 PM
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Yes, my post about why testing for sexual compatibility on a man's side is bullshit. They were so confused about the chickens 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 08:19 PM
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My son thought FDS pros was the real subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 08:16 PM
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Nah, I know he would be bulk sending them to any woman he knows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 08:35 AM
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A South African man with empathy is even more of a miracle 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 03:50 AM
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Yeah, I know it. He's a cheater. Thank you 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 03:49 AM
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You met an Australian man with high empathy? Miracles can happen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 02:53 AM
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I seriously can't love this comment enough, take my award!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 02:47 AM
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SAME. If she thought he was useless, then who am I to question her judgement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 02:45 AM
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My ex kept sending me dick videos with the caption "miss this?" On snapchat. I thought it was amusing and maybe a little validation for me as he is much younger than me. But it also made me feel bad because he also treated me like an option always. So I blocked him on the last place he could talk to me. I felt so much better afterwards. I thought I was OK with occasionally messaging me but he's no value and would just drag me down into his cesspit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 02:27 AM
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A high value man would not be a daily drug user. A HV man would not "forget" to see you if he truly valued you. Would you forget to meet up with someone you were interested in? Scrote is already trying to triangulate you with his ex. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 08:00 AM
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EXACTLY what I was going to say!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:00 AM
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I'm always cautious about telling the husband as I don't know if he will get violent and I don't want blood on my hands. I will always tell the wife, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 12:53 AM
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If you are inside a Cafe or restaurant was when I was thinking you could ask them to leave you alone. Only when other people are around and say it loudly so they can hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 11:32 PM
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You can absolutely say "leave me alone, please" and if he does not comply report him to staff wherever you are that he's harassing you. He ignored all of your body language. He knows. They all know. They need to start getting some push back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 10:53 PM
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Exactly what I was going to say. Dump these triangulating scrotes immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:50 AM
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I'm beyond disgusted that a woman would do this. I hope you're OK OP. I don't use dating apps and haven't for years. I call them fuck apps because it's just for LV men to get free prostitutes and pick mes to delude themselves that a rotation pump and dump means anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:44 AM
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So I looked up the post and his comments. I also looked at his posts and past comments. His condo is in foreclosure He's asking for advice to go on swinging holidays as a single man (creepy community dick without a community) He got blocked by the woman in the story because he took an incels advice and told her "our chemistry isn't worth steak, only sushi." He has left past comments that are racist and misogynist. He also thinks the woman in this story is a prostitute. Queen did the right thing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:36 AM
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For tradespeople, there are websites that have specifically female tradespeople. I'm going to use as many women as possible when I buy my house next month. I honestly don't want men with their gross deranged dick energy in my home. I use vetting strategies for everyone. I was looking for a new job recently and not one passed my vetting. I think because all of them were owned and ran predominantly by men. I'm finding it really hard to find HV or even MV women. They are all very much pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 01:56 AM
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I second this. Don't ever underestimate a violent, threatening man. Get that paper trail happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 01:48 AM
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Yes, lots of overseas degrees require a bridging course in my country to allow immigrants to work with their degree. Still don't understand why she is getting kicked out of her house when scrote didn't have a house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 02:57 AM
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Tell them you love them and then the next day complain that they are "suffocating you".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:41 AM
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DEAD 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:38 AM
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I'm confused why this woman with multiple degrees has to work three jobs? Also the scrote had no home or car. So why is the woman getting kicked out of the apartment? You should encourage this woman to not get involved with a man until she has been through therapy and some time to get to know herself and what she wants without a scrote draining her. Can you get her to join FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:36 AM
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That's what I thought. He wanted to fuck thr daughter and took his anger out on her coz he couldn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:34 AM
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I look at them and think "if you can get even one woman to agree to fuck you, you should hold on like grim death."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:33 AM
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They WISH they were the prize, simply for existing. Not anymore. Women are waking up and I love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:23 AM
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I LOVE that you drove home. QUEEN 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 11:01 AM
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Is she actually insane? I can't even with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 10:51 AM
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What's with his obsession with Boa snakes? He sounds like a predator who wants to heave his 300 pounds on top of her and then consume her, and not in a good way. This man has never made his wife orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 10:48 AM
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It sounds like you have a boyfriend. Tell men that it would be disrespectful to your boyfriend for you to hang out with other men. If they press, tell them no is a complete sentence. Men value an unknown male over a known woman any day of the week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 12:41 AM
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I think with lots of wine and valium.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 12:36 AM
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All the articles on this are from 2016. I can't find what the outcome was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 12:31 AM
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I think with the right lawyer, she would have a good case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 12:27 AM
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He makes me want to vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 11:52 PM
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Goddess, I so hope the LNP gets voted out. What a misogynistic, homophobic hellscape they have made this country thanks to their Pentecostal leader.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 12:49 AM
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I'm happy that you feel it's going well. Just always keep vetting, it's not wrong to snoop to protect your mental health and listen to your intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 12:13 AM
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Cassie is on a self destructive spiral. She will take you with her and anyone else in her orbit. Pick mes are DANGEROUS to be around. A HVW would find different living arrangements and remove this person from their life. If that's not possible, at the very least don't socialise with her. Wtf is up with hanging out with all these cheating, one night stand loser frat boys? The fact you hang out with Cassie will make you "ferda" as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 12:07 AM
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Yeah, I was thinking Cassie from Euphoria too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 12:03 AM
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I don't talk to men who are strangers. I don't have male friends and I would particularly not have male friends that work in violent professions like the military. Men don't do real friendships with women unless they are HV and we know how rare they are. Do you think a HV man would want to work in a job where he kills and rapes women and kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:25 PM
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Jim Jeffries is your perfect example of your average Australian man. Absolutely disgusting misogynists, racist and homophobic. I think I will be single the rest of my life because this is what is available. Some hide it a lot better than others but I have never met a HV man in my entire life here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 11:18 PM
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It can be agonising to realise that most men hate us and don't see us as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:49 AM
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He's dropping the ball already. Asking for date ideas after 3 dates? A HVM is consistent. This man is not. He should be enthusiastic. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:38 AM
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I also recommend snooping. I would have wasted a lot more time with my last ex if I didn't snoop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 12:06 AM
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I did the NSA sex after my separation and they don't understand why you don't get feelings or why you boot them out because their performance is subpar. They can't do NSA. They don't want to date you or have any feelings for you but they want you to be in love with them. Like lol no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:26 PM
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Devastated she wasn't crying in her pillow. Instead she's living her best life. Queen 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:16 PM
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She has used surrogates for a few of her pregnancies. Alec also lives in a separate apartment to the wife and kids. They are both disgusting people. I pity their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:15 PM
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I always say "my kink is kink shaming" when they start frothing at me. OP, can you send this woman an FDS rescue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:12 AM
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Yes, I'm a very spiritually awake type. The thing is, there are different kinds of soul mates. Some people can be multiple categories. You know they are some kind of soul mate when you get this feeling of recognition when you first meet them. There are soul family. These are souls that always incarnate with you. They might not be blood family members in this life. There are karmic soul mates. These have incarnated with you to work off some sort of karmic debt owed. Also vice versa. Then there ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:53 AM
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I find it annoying too. I detest people talking with food in their mouth. Also I keep thinking he's going to choke lying down eating like that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:45 AM
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English men are awful, almost as bad as Australian men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:38 AM
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Her article sounds like it was sponsored by Tinder. She has been divorced twice and is still in her early thirties. I'm not sure why anyone would take her advice. She's from Sydney and changed her location so she could "date" a bunch of guys in New York. In Australia we call that a root and boot. Similar to a pump and dump. Basically she's saying that you can get heaps of sex off Tinder. DUHHHHHHHH 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:37 AM
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There would be no men left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:24 AM
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I truly think they see women on the apps as not marriage material. They think a woman being on there is proof she's some kind of free prostitute. All their disgusting messages, not wanting to go on proper dates and ghosting makes sense when you look at it in this light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:56 PM
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Just remind yourself of all his scrote ways, constantly, when you start thinking about him. I think about contacting scrote exes when I'm horny as they had really good dick. Then I remind myself that one had a filthy hovel which is so not worth the full body disinfectant for an orgasm. Also he talked way too much about himself, just exhaustingly boring monologues. The other had really weird sex talk, calling me mummy and mummy milf. It was so mood killing. I'm sure your scrote has his own gross …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:40 AM
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They actually disgust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:32 AM
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It's an absolute cesspit. Men treat it like uber eats for free sex workers. Finding a HVM on there would be a miracle comparable to the parting of the red sea. AVOID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:23 AM
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There are absolutely no benefits of anal sex for women and plenty of risks including ending up permanently with a colostomy bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:39 AM
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Yeah I thought he was such community dick. He would be riddled with STDs which he would pass on to her and most if not all were incurable then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:35 AM
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What I really disliked is the sense that he didn't see OP as a autonomous human being, but some kind of possession. "I get to decide when we're done wahhhhh female appliance is malfunctioning"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 11:56 PM
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I get messages all the time on Reddit and Facebook from men. I report them as spam here and leave them as message requests on Facebook. Not a single one of them do I respond to. They are not worthy of a moment of my time or energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 11:53 PM
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When I saw that, her whole point was immediately invalid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:01 PM
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It's terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:35 AM
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Yes, she makes me want to do a Will Smith.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:27 AM
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I mean, I think most people would like to slap Chris Rock upside the head. We don't though, because we are living in a civilised society. Violence is never the answer. Will could have used his words and used them well. This could have been an amazing moment and he ruined it with violence, profanity and stating ownership of another human being. Still really dislike Chris. Will seems to be having a breakdown. He has always set my gaydar pinging so maybe it's having to hide who he is. The gossip co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:43 AM
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She can totally tap on his leg with her brain starved of oxygen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:44 AM
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25 minutes is generous for most of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:08 AM
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Omg, they are DROWNING women now? When is this absolute hellscape going to end? When is someone with power to change things going to say enough is enough?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 11:48 PM
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Still wouldn't trust his word that he was actually taking it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:02 PM
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She needs to STFU and stop gaslighting women. She is literally excusing useless men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:56 PM
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The more you learn about LV men, the more they will sicken you. The words of disgust just roll off my tongue like pearls before swine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:19 AM
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I always do the "you must be really poor" sad face 😞 which makes them so angry. "If I knew you were so poor, I would have texted you some coupons" 😔😔 "I think you are too poor to be dating, if a couple of drinks might send you into bankruptcy." And "I don't date people going through a crisis. I think you should concentrate on getting out of poverty. Best of luck!" Any of these comments will be like a punch to the guts. The giving a stranger a lift home thing - I would cause a huge scene with tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:13 AM
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I do walking meditation and shower meditation. Walking in nature helps me connect with our Divine Mother and creator. I also use these walks to manifest. At the moment I am doing a manifestation for women to abandon the dating apps and casual sex. Water always helps me connect to source aka our Divine Mother. In the shower I let the water pour all over me and thus am able to communicate with Source.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 11:07 PM
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He's already trying to chase 20 year olds but they just see an ugly, fat, bald middle aged loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:52 AM
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I do, I'm leaving in 126 days which is when I can cash in an accrual that can't be cashed in before then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:50 AM
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I suffer from depression so I'm always using tactics to keep myself from falling into a dark pit. I'm also getting over burnout from work. I like reading pretty much any genre. At the moment I'm reading the first book of "The Wheel Of Time" series and just finished reading "The Expanse" series. I'm watching Yellow Jackets on Prime. Highly recommend. I'm looking forward to the Bridgerton series starting, it's a visually pleasing and easy to watch series. A good distraction. I'm also watching "Cra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:56 AM
102

Only a man would make a business decision to revolve around his dick. He even has strippers and nude waitresses in the office after hours. I found that one out by complete accident. He has his position purely because of nepotism. He didn't go to university or has any formal qualifications. This company will go bankrupt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 06:37 AM
102

It works very badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 05:40 AM
7

Yes, literally. He has a fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 05:40 AM
37

Especially if their kids are small. I always think how useless a man he must be if his wife dumped him when their kids are at their most exhausting and challenging age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:48 AM
50

College doesn't cost what it does in the US, here. You can defer paying it until you are earning a certain amount and the loan is very low interest. She's probably waiting until the kids are 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:08 AM
59

126 days until I leave lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:06 AM
84

Yes, but she's sticking around. Goddess knows why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:06 AM
83

Birds of a feather flock together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:52 AM
50

Valerie Solanas was soooooo right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:49 AM
314

Yeah, it seems to have served my coworker well. She started as a cleaner, now a manager. Getting paid the same as me and she didn't finish highschool. Can't spell, can't do simple math and she handles money for our company. She started an affair with the boss when she was still a cleaner. Both were married. She is earning more than she will ever earn anywhere else but she has been a side piece for over a decade. Boss is still with his wife, her husband left her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 12:37 AM
95

He's in his fifties. The woman in the photos looks the same age as him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 11:52 AM
35

She has been with an amazing man for the past five years. Joe is making Taylor very happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:55 AM
192

I remember seeing him flirting with women in a club in the nineties when he was very much married to his co-star on the show here that made him famous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:52 AM
90

This apparently is about John Mayer who is fucking disgusting. He likes to shit and piss on his intimate partners or masturbate on them and then walk out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:23 AM
7

Lol true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 04:55 AM
34

I kinda feel like the price range and stay in your lane wording feels like it's about a car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:29 PM
99

Not loving the comparison to cars and I hate the word chick to describe a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:18 PM
41

Most snakes in my country are in the top ten deadliest in the world. Aussie men aren't much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:05 AM
53

She's probably wondering if she should block him. I bet he's negging the hell outta her. Leopards don't change their spots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 11:45 PM
73

Ever notice how a lot of men will describe their dream woman as "kind" "nice" and "listens to me" "sweet" "thoughtful" This translated from scrote means "inexperienced, naive and willing to take all of my abuse." I have always prided myself on being difficult, feisty and will call them out on their behaviour, even though I look sweet so it's very confusing for scrotes. Being sweet never got anyone anywhere worth going. Resist, don't comply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 11:30 PM
33

I'm battling with denial about it all because the thought that he KNOWINGLY hurt me is just too painful to believe :( This was a lesson that took me years to learn and accept in my mind. Most of them not only know they are causing you pain, they enjoy it. They get off on the power they have over you. I've had horrible on off relationships where if I had realised this one fact, they would have been over with very quickly. I'm sorry this happened to you and hope you find peace of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:58 PM
23

I messaged her with a link to FDS and she said she may look into it. Here's hoping!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:49 PM
13

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:25 AM
9

I would carry that 99.99 to infinity decimal placement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:24 AM
55

If they looked, scotes wouldn't even care. They would be like "its her fault they have a dead bedroom, she's not kinky enough". You can't win with scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:24 AM
28

I had male friends my whole life and a male best friend up until a few years ago. We can be real friends to men, they cant be real friends to us. There is always an ulterior motive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:21 AM
54

I've sent her the message. Pray to Goddess she takes action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:20 AM
44

I agree. Male friends aren't friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:47 AM
646

A man who valued you wouldn't behave like this because he would be scared of losing you. If he's playing stupid games, he doesn't want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:25 AM
59

I'm gonna message her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:07 AM
164

Throwing away 70 thousand to help someone out with their investment that you aren't in any way legally attached to? That was never gonna fly. You know in the relationship subs they would be calling her selfish for not helping him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 02:58 AM
8

Ok, what I'm learning from the comments is to never date a guy with this style of handwriting 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:48 PM
363

Every single comment on that post said NO. Let's hope she listens as she said he would probably break up with her if she refused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:23 PM
33

I love your style 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:45 AM
50

You can't trust pick me women who are trying to hold on to their man at any cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 12:58 AM
12

Like a woman hater would listen to anything a woman said. She did right to roast him. Shaming him might give him the kick in the ass to get his shit together. His poor mum is going to be in the retirement home before she gets away from this loser, otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:32 PM
3

Thirr that. She's amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:23 PM
5

I messaged her. She read the message but didn't say anything. I think she's going to stay with him and give up on the idea of marriage. That's what I got from her comments on the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:16 PM
4

Never will be me either. He's either HV or GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:15 PM
89

Stay by Kid Laroi and Justin Bieber. Peak scrotery. I do the same thing I told you that I never would I told you I'd change, even when I knew I never could Know that I can't find nobody else as good as you I need you to stay, need you to stay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:02 AM
2

I'm in my forties. A lot of women my age and older have definitely not "learned from their mistakes." The grooming of the patriarchy runs deep and most pick me's never learn their lessons. I have a "friend" (slowly grey rocking her out of my life, we work together) who married a heroin addict when she was in her forties. He is now a FIFO alcoholic (common in the mining industry.) He's not her first addict, she had her only child with a meth addict. Her story isn't unique. Some will never learn. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:56 AM
359

God, that's so terrifying. That poor girl (I assume she's under-age and a girl.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:31 AM
5

Thanks for the gold, sis 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 03:03 AM
30

It's not like she doesn't live with the idiot and can ask him any time she wants 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:17 AM
11

I'm Australian and the women here are pick mes big time, but even they would only go 50 50 or pickup the guy for the date (cringe).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:09 AM
5

I adore that movie. So fabulous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:06 AM
30

So disgusting. If Kanye was a woman, he would be in a locked ward and placed under a conservatorship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:05 AM
8

I like female villains because they are giving the middle finger to the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:03 AM
13

I keep hoping he takes a trip on one of his rockets and misfires himself into the sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:02 AM
33

My fave line from Cruella.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 12:02 PM
104

Why are you friends with these pick me's? They aren't just completing destroying the bar for all women but can be dangerous. They will throw you under a bus if they have to chose between you and a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 07:14 AM
235

Uh oh, I actually love Cruella 😂 I know what you're saying, though. So many men love the Joker. It's a red flag along with hero worshipping parasitic billionaires, politicians, fighters and problematic celebrities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 06:19 AM
2

That's amazing, I might do that one too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 05:16 AM
5

How are you finding the social media course? Is it good?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 10:11 PM
35

Most men look at the dating apps as Uber Eats for sex. You are extremely unlikely to meet a HVM there. Concentrate on changing your job to one with hours where you can actually socialise and get more involved in the Meet Ups groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:55 PM
56

He has extreme height challenged vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 10:50 AM
18

I never thought I would like anything a Mormon has to say, but here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:07 AM
40

Raised Catholic, always thought it was BS as women have no leadership roles or voice in the church. I believe all organised religion exists to police women and their bodies. A man who is a member of an organised religion is always a red flag to me. At the very least it shows lack of empathy to women and a lack of critical thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:51 AM
14

OP, can you share what you say in your initial message to these women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 10:18 PM
76

I saw a guy yesterday with 12k upvotes because he said FDS is a hate group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 10:16 PM
44

It's been around at least since the 60s. I read it in the book "Scum Manifesto."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 10:15 PM
12

Thank you, I will try that! Bonus is that bleach will totally destroy my potential attackers outfit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:39 AM
13

What would you suggest for something easy to carry when you're walking? I walk to work, that's pretty much the only time I'm vulnerable as it's so early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:35 AM
27

My country won't even let us carry Pepper spray. Guns are pretty much banned here. If I could carry, I would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:13 PM
-8

Middle age is 35 onwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:40 PM
98

Same, I was so confused why she would want to cook with all that make-up on 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:47 AM
134

Is that make-up a filter? I thought she was a Euphoria Stan 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:30 AM
14

I do this too. I pull the Zendaya disgusted wtf face. It's like involuntary at the point, I've been doing it so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:28 AM
51

She's in her late thirties and shockingly uneducated in the ways of the world for someone who is middle aged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:22 AM
207

It made me so angry and turned me into a radfem. I look back on my life and see so many times that I was groomed. I used to go to a neighbours house who had girls my age. The parents used to walk around nude and have sex in front of us. I was told if I said anything I wouldn't be able to come over anymore. I was 7. Nothing further happened to me but it was close. I remember the dad taking a very close interest in me. I have also been treated incredibly unfairly solely because I'm a woman. I'm th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:11 AM
32

Hahahahaha I beat them up too until they got too big lollllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:58 AM
15

He just reignited my CPTSD. Whoever is having sex with this thing needs to stop. I couldn't face the trauma of putting the sound on but I assume he's getting a BJ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:55 AM
66

I know and have known a few sex workers and they absolutely detest all of their clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:14 AM
23

Says it all. What reason does a middle aged man want to be around predominantly teenagers? We all know the reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:03 AM
40

Happens to me in there all the time but men are free to say whatever they want. Look who owns Facebook - alpha android bot scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:36 AM
141

I don't know of a single Facebook singles group where women outnumber the men it's always a sausage fest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:33 AM
180

I'm Gen X as well. I've had men try to change me saying stuff like "I don't like women who do that." I laughed in their face and told them "sounds like a you problem." Men should be fucking grateful to have a woman in their lives, most of them don't deserve it. The going to bed with make-up is just gross. Like I would get make-up all over my expensive silk bedlinen for some scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:15 AM
19

The answer is yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 12:50 AM
164

Because they don't see us as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 08:53 AM
66

Our financial accomplishments turn them on if they think they can use it to their own advantage eg sit at home on their unwashed ass playing video games whilst we support them. Or be a "stay at home dad." Or underemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:40 AM
406

I was with my ex husband for 21 years. He was a lot like your guy and I also wrote him long letters. Pretty sure he didn't read them. I wish I had walked out when I thought it was too hard. Basically the point you are now. Engaged, living together with shared pets and friends. Believe me, it's much harder when you're married with kids and share assets. Leave now. Don't waste your youth on this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:29 AM
6

That they are unfit makes it even better, they will get taken out in basic training.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:22 AM
36

I thought the same thing. So glad she got away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:17 AM
66

Same. I have spare rooms but I don't want to deal with strange men in my house. I don't let men in my house that aren't tradesmen fixing something or are family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:11 AM
121

"You women"....I hope he gets drafted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:57 AM
47

They are also cheats with on-site wives. Plus all the sexual harassment they inflict on women FIFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 02:21 AM
53

Was he FIFO? They are an absolute red flag for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:37 AM
201

What a manipulative way to deflect from the fact he's an actual rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:36 AM
16

He did you a favour then, the apps are atrocious. Full of this type of guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:31 AM
6

Only twice in 2021.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:29 AM
15

I used to have a LVM bestie too and he said the exact same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:57 PM
32

Women do express preferences for tall men and it's a shit show on the dating app subreddits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:54 PM
24

I would disown him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:45 PM
31

Why are YOU riddled with guilt? This is all his own fault. He cheated, he got caught. If he wasn't caught it with you, it would be with one of the under-age kids he's grooming. BLOCK and DELETE. You need to find a different therapist. Needs to be a woman and she needs to not be a pick me as whoever is giving you therapy is excusing all if your destructive behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:10 PM
236

The mother is probably still in the picture. I've noticed lots of guys never showing that they have a wife, girlfriend or kids on social media. Always be suspicious of these types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:29 AM
146

My ex husband kept a mask on for five years until the day we got married. If it's slipping now, imagine when you are actually married? He will think he has you totally locked down and can do what he wants. That's what my ex thought. You have to go through a bit of pain now but believe me, nothing is more painful than an unhappy marriage. It affects every area of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:16 AM
19

I'm so here for everything you just said 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:30 AM
116

I've always looked much younger than my age and I'm a small woman with a sweet, some say angelic (LOL) face. I've had men approaching since I was ten. I soon developed a stone cold bitch stare and I always walk with my head held high and very purposefully through my spaces. If they still approach me I stare at them blankly and ask "who are you?" Then they introduce themselves and I'm all "nah, I don't know you mate." And continue the dumb face if they persist or even scream something really emba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:58 AM
2

I understand completely. You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:01 AM
1

That's fair enough that you want to be healthy 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:59 AM
6

Don't do friendships with men unless he is HV and we know how rare they are. Women can be a true friend to a man. Most men can't return the favour, it's always transactional with them. It's safest to just not be friends with any of them. Also women who are a size 8 are deserving of a HVM too. A size 8 isn't even overweight. I noticed your whole post went on about looks. I would concentrate on getting healthy for myself, not some man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:12 AM
0

I will never be a size 2 nor do I want to be. I'm extremely curvey, have been since aged 12. Does this mean I don't deserve a HVM? OP seems a little looks obsessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:07 AM
10

So did I. My Goddess, it was a disaster. My stone cold b!tch face keeps them away now 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:04 AM
31

If I could go back in time to 25 year old me, I would say don't do it. Marriage isn't an asset to women like it is to men. Mostly it's a huge liability. We do damage to our bodies and careers by sacrificing our lives to give birth to their children. Do most of the housework, emotional labour and child rearing. Only to be left for another woman when they have their midlife crisis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:01 AM
9

I suppose the scrote husband got all her money too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:49 PM
79

The sex that runs the world. Can't control themselves around body parts. No wonder the planet is in such a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 10:10 PM
7

I was just reading about Eris today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 12:25 PM
40

My daughter didn't understand the paying for dinner thing either. I explained it's a way to filter out losers who just want to bulk date on the cheap to try and score as much sex as possible. It was unheard of for the woman to pay on a date in previous generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:18 AM
51

It's Women's Day already in my country. I heard on the news this morning that parliament rejected a bill to pay women superannuation when they are on maternity leave. Happy Women's Day, Australia 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:04 AM
104

Don't tell them where they are going wrong or what is turning off women EVER. It just alerts them to hide that behaviour when they are trying to manipulate some poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:03 AM
21

Ewww he was actually soliciting on social media. Rank 🤮 I never believe them when they say they don't have social media. It's always bullshit. Sorry thay happened to you but glad you got rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 07:25 AM
105

All the scrotes in the comments are totally on the husbands side, of course. What is the bet the husband is no prize? I hope she meets a hot new man at the gym and leaves husbands dusty ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:00 AM
40

Do these women that want to marry him not have the ability to see or hear?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 01:14 PM
3

Thanks sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:38 PM
57

She wouldn't have accepted a "spiritual" marriage if she was an FDSer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 06:43 AM
10

I've said that but that was too logical for them. Been banned from most of the dating subreddits for saying the same thing, defending FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:01 AM
25

Yeah, I got banned from there too. There is no fighting the patriarchy in that group. Just over spells to lure in some LV POS not worth having.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:55 AM
19

With men, humiliation isn't a kink, it's in their DNA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:53 AM
23

Whenever a man comments, I tell them to shoo and it's a women only space and they soon get booted. Even if they are being faux reasonable in their comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:52 AM
26

It's just women. The things we say in there would make a man testerical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:51 AM
21

Fourthwavewomen is also women only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:00 AM
18

If only 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:58 AM
56

. Then he hit me up the next day saying that it was his roomates birthday🎂 and that I was invited over they'd all be 🍻drinking This gave me gang rape vibes. So glad you said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:48 AM
16

The worst of them seem to be on Facebook. I just want to scream at them. One went on 120 dates in a year but wouldn't let me post a meme in her group that had an FDS watermark because "FDS is a group of man haters." She is constantly whining that she can't find someone genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:40 AM
32

Yes, I work with people with schizophrenia, bipolar and psychosis. Some of them are dangerous without their medication. Personally, I wouldn't be able to function without my antidepressants. I would most likely be dead by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:34 AM
8

Libfems don't like radfems. We aren't the fun kind of feminists. We don't think hookups, prostitution and porn are empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:06 AM
10

Knew he would be short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:04 AM
8

This one and the fourth wave one isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:52 AM
14

They also sent me a message that they didn't want FDS members with their "fake feminism" in their subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:51 AM
62

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:45 AM
283

And never make you cum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:21 AM
239

What a disgusting POS. I bet he's a 2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:25 AM
119

Even though he's supportive of Kim, he still doesn't see her as a human being. He was so close to getting it right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 06:10 AM
151

I'm in Australia. My dead husbands kid with his affair partner got 80 percent of his super. My kids each got ten percent. He had changed his beneficiary from me to her but they overruled him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:41 AM
288

Don't like he objectified women by calling them "pussy" but he makes very good points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:37 AM
8

Thank you. I think I will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:32 AM
12

Thank you. I think I will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:32 AM
39

I've been booted from most of the so called feminist subreddits. Full of libfems who pander to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:14 AM
53

So gross. I've actually toyed with the idea of making my middle name my last name for the last few years. Not a fan of my father or his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 12:58 AM
205

I got married in the nineties and kept my last name. I got banned from the feminism subreddit for stating the reason why. It's because I felt like taking his last name was branding me like cattle as his property. My only regret is that I didn't give my kids my last name too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 12:09 AM
10

That's what I'm wondering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 11:55 PM
1

He's an absolute GOD among men 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:26 PM
14

It's up to you, hun. I know you're in love with him and you want to see him as having good intentions. All I would suggest is snoop. A lot. Look at his search history and who he's following on Instagram. What chat apps he has. Because he sounds pornsick. Women cumming from anal is straight porn fantasy BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:55 AM
2

Phew, well that's good. Are you both in your early twenties? I would be more lenient on him if he is but I still think he's a bad idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:50 AM
5

Is he actually your boyfriend? Has he talked with you about being in a relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:42 AM
19

How long have you been actually dating this guy? This guys seems to know zilch about women's bodies. The thing about short dicks is bullshit, the thing about blowing in the ass is bullshit. Does he think he can actually stimulate the Gspot through anal? Sis, he sounds really stupid. Also pornsick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:20 AM
8

It took YEARS for him to even be charged. Thousands of women marching all over the country. He hasn't even gone to trial yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:14 AM
70

You can end up with a colostomy bag permanently. It's way too risky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 08:51 AM
24

I was going to use your exact description in my comment further down 😂 How on earth could they believe the anus is better? It's also dangerous, you can cause permanent damage. Women and girls have ended up with colostomy bags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 07:08 AM
123

Some things you never recover from and cause you permanent damage for life. Drug and porn addiction cause permanent brain damage. Criminals have their record affecting their employment for life. Women should be aware of the risks in dating these types and never feel that they should have to date them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 06:58 AM
2

Thank Goddess, I hope she takes your advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:36 AM
117

No way would I fight in any war. MEN start wars, MEN can fucking fight. They created this society and war was always a man's business. They can deal with it and the mess they have made for the past thousands of years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:33 AM
47

: 1) it was different, not better or worse Most heterosexual men would not claim that an anus and vagina were the same in giving pleasure. The vagina has natural lubrication and is purpose built for sex. 2) it adds variety. Get a fcking hobby. I guarantee this guy is pornsick. The ones always chasing variety are regular porn consumers. 3) some parts of the anatomy of a woman can only be estimulated with anal. This shows such lack of knowledge of the female anatomy that I would block him just for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 04:52 AM
1

Revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 04:15 AM
49

I think it's got a lot worse on there since then. I think the pandemic made it worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 12:09 AM
23

I think all men should look like Jensen Ackles but I don't shit on them for not meeting my standards. In my head I do though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 12:07 AM
27

How long ago did you meet your HVM on OLD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 10:20 PM
9

Yes, I most definitely was out of his league in every way. The women he cheated with were homely with questionable characters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:53 PM
28

I'm seeing memes not to curse Putin because he's spiritually protected and it will blowback on you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 11:13 AM
11

How they have all whinged about not being able to go on their cheap Bali and Thailand holidays during Covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 11:11 AM
3

That comment about the toddler is horrifying. I think you need a trigger warning for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:46 AM
106

I ask who they voted for in the last federal election. They are always pretty willing to give up this information. There are other ways to get things out if them like ask their opinion on the situation in Ukraine or Afghanistan. They will slip up. Most of them aren't very clever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:44 AM
48

Even though I have hideous taste in men, I have never been attracted to "simple" men. I'm complex, I don't want basic. Simple men remind me of what we call bogans here. They just want to eat lots of meat, get pissed, watch the footie and the cricket, sexually harass women, be racist and misogynistic. No thanks. PS - Australian men are awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:11 AM
177

My ex husband always accused me of cheating. He would go through my phone all the time and call me numerous times when I went out, even if it was just to get groceries. He would make such a huge fuss if I wanted to go out with friends, that I eventually stopped going. I found out latter that he was cheating the whole way through our relationship. I think they use it to deflect from what they are doing and also they think if they are getting away with it, you must be too. I also think it's a sign…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:01 AM
80

Yeah I used to make noise and talk dirty to get it over with in my marriage. He had given me the ick years prior and I was so turned off by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:31 AM
147

My inlaws were awful. My ex husband cheated and got her pregnant and left us with a ton of debt he refused to pay his share of. His family totally wrote me and our kids off. The kids didn't even hear from them for years. They took my shitty cheating ex and his baby mamas side in every way. This despite the exact same scenario happened to my mother in law, when my father in law left her for another woman. If more in laws were like the couple in this post, the world would be a better place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:26 AM
25

We have had a very famous case of a young woman who was raped in our parliament house by a coworker. She was also black out drunk. Of course all the scrotes saying she just regretted it in the morning because she has a boyfriend, so she called it raped. She was found alone, naked and passed out in her workplace which is the seat of our federal government. What woman would consent to that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:19 AM
14

I found the ones who were great with their messages were terrible in real life. Couldn't communicate or just really unintelligent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:04 AM
17

You have to own your mistakes and not blame it on everyone else. That's where men go wrong. They don't like admitting fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 12:00 AM
23

I had an ex go to therapy and all he did was lie to the therapist about his biggest issue (and my biggest issue with him), his raging drug addiction. My dead husband went a few times and all he did was bitch about me and his mum. Men don't seem to want to do the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:41 PM
28

Thank Goddess he's an ex. Sorry this happened to you, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:54 PM
3

They are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:53 PM
38

You poor thing. What an absolute rapist evil POS he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:45 PM
17

Either did I. I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:43 PM
67

Generous of you to give them a whole 0.01% 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:43 AM
156

I always get the icks when they ask me to explain things that have been around for decades. I shouldn't have to explain feminism to someone although I did to my boss the other day. Only because I couldn't say to him "Google it you dumb fuck."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:36 AM
81

He can't spell, block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:35 AM
10

Yep. In this case, there was an under-age child this POS cut out. Imagine your own father cutting you out of the will but not his other kids with his ex wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:18 AM
480

Yeah it's happened to me, the old "whoops it slipped in" or "I thought it was your vag." I don't trust them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:30 AM
40

Yeah, that one with Kid Laroi and Justin Bieber is such a bop, but the lyrics are like scrote 101. I always have to skip it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:26 AM
1216

That is so horrifying. It's rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:21 AM
5

Yeah, he's 36. He thinks he is such a fcking prize 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:19 AM
6

I was going to take him to task on that but there was just soooo much else to roast him about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:07 AM
5

They are from Female Dating Strategy. A member there made them for all of us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:58 AM
23

I had an argument with a scrote who insisted that men hit their prime in their forties and fifties. None of the biological facts could sway him. So I booted him from the group (I was admin hahaha).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:45 AM
19

I am living for this energy. Marriage, in most cases, is a prison for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:49 AM
31

Your wife and dependants are absolutely entitled to your money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:04 AM
24

He looks like a praying mantis and she looks like a goddess. They never made sense to me. She could have gone with the other lead singer of the band who looked like an angel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:01 AM
16

They really think they're the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 11:17 PM
9

Yeah, he was right about that which is infuriating. I wish women would refuse these situationships and always insist on the best for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:46 PM
13

Oooh, I missed that one! Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:41 PM
12

The entitlement of these mediocre men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:41 PM
85

I think he wants a free babysitter for his kid while he gets stoned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 11:08 AM
57

I'm so sorry. My MIL was a absolute POS too. One of the best things about being divorced is never having to see my POS in-laws ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:44 AM
65

Also we know they always add at least 2 inches to height so he's a short ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:42 AM
23

I wanted to see him start frothing at the mouth. Objective achieved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:43 AM
66

You get a lot of that in there . Guys asking for opinions and absolutely cracking the shits when people are honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:40 AM
102

Yeah, he was super gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:31 AM
98

Good Goddess, I wish I was a lesbian sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:07 AM
61

21 years 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:58 AM
134

I lived this as well. It's horrible. The mask slipped after we got married and then a whole new demon was released when I gave birth to our son. Hope this woman leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:50 AM
106

That was my favourite bit too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:25 AM
22

I ADORE her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:18 AM
24

They get worse in their forties plus they usually have baggage from a divorce and hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:54 AM
36

Would a reasonable argument be that the men 4 years younger than me look 20 years older than me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:59 AM
7

She thinks getting married to someone after being with them 2 months is a sensible idea. All of her opinions therefore should be laughed at. I would greyrock her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:10 AM
176

If they have had a long term drug or porn addiction, then no. These have real consequences including permanent brain damage to the frontal cortex. This destroys the part of the brain that feels empathy and regulates impulse control. Not someone you want to be in a relationship with. Also fuckboys and cheaters get off on the thrill and the chase and the pain they cause. I don't think you can rehabilitate community dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:10 AM
6

I thought I had such hideous taste in men that I've sworn off them the past 3 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:57 AM
43

When my husband went bald in his twenties, I lost all of my physical attraction to him. I didn't admit that to myself and he was the one who ended up leaving. If it had happened to me, I would have done something about it. He couldn't have cared less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:56 AM
13

I'm so sorry you have to go through this too. I hope you find an amazing job very soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:36 AM
34

I also work in a workplace with a lot of sexual harassment but most of it is by the owner of the company. He knows I'm a feminist so he will say stuff like women are just objects and only good to fuck and to make sandwiches. He thinks he's so funny. He's a fat bald middle aged shrek looking MF with bad health (hopefully he has a heart attack soon.) I too am looking for another job but it's on pause until a major life event is past in the next 3 months. It's killing me being there with this absol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:42 AM
34

I know a guy who played nice and caring partner through his girlfriends abortion. He wanted to dump her but he wanted to make sure she went through with it before dumping her. He reckoned if he dumped her beforehand, she would keep the baby out of spite. This is how these scrotes think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:11 AM
1074

I'm so sorry this happened to you. He's a worthless POS. He made sure you got that abortion so he wouldn't be on the hook for child support and then legged it. He is absolute scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 11:43 AM
37

She actually transferred the money. He has it. He was still making double what she was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 03:50 AM
3

Yes, also Australian. The Americans don't seem to have the same laws in regards to defactos which is why they are so keen on marriage, I think. I know someone who is taking her defacto for thousands. He thought he could just boot her out of the house that she paid for renovations for, with no financial repercussions. Always keep meticulous records, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 03:41 AM
9

Some of the worst betrayals I've had, have been from coworkers. We should regard work with the same standards that apply to scrotes. Any disrespect and we are out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 03:37 AM
25

There are so many boundaries pushers, not just partners I have coworkers and friends often pushing my time boundaries. I've had to learn to grey rock, make up prior engagements or deadlines to not have work that isn't my job dumped on me or constant phone calls that last way too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:32 AM
23

I would have let them rip the machine and building apart, just because they wouldn't take a woman's advice .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:27 AM
47

Definitely true. Men who are fussy with food are also bad in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:21 AM
48

I get down voted to hell when I say men should pay for proper dinner dates and do all the planning. I think the majority of men on Reddit are incel losers. Like they would have any chance of dating any of us 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:40 AM
102

I'm interested in men in their late thirties to forties. If they don't know what they want at this stage of life, it's a nope from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:50 AM
60

Doing free labour? Which women are constantly expected to perform and what feminism is trying to overcome? UNMATCHED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:48 AM
41

Sending links and suggestions is doing emotional or mental labour. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:47 AM
207

She sounds very young. I hope she learns to value herself more and that she blocks this guy forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:45 PM
10

Yes, but how many female police officers are beating up their significant others?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:29 PM
22

Not even the last century, more over the last 50 to 60 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:27 PM
82

This was when I was freshly separated from my marriage and kinda nuts with the new freedoms I had and the attention I was getting I hadn't been single since the 90s so I had no clue how much things had changed. I was active in local Facebook groups and becoming know for my funny posts. I interacted with this gorgeous looking guy who was very smart and seemed sweet. Well he was in his twenties, we had a HUGE age gap. He convinced me that this didn't matter because we were soul mates due to all th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:04 AM
98

And calling the cops on him for trespassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 03:51 AM
127

I hope women are realising what a rotten deal they are getting now with cohabiting and child bearing with useless men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:58 AM
5

Yes, I noticed that too the last time I used it! I am not attracted to older men, but the app kept pushing them on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:55 PM
30

He would end up with a mouthful of vomit 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:57 PM
12

That sounds like Australian men. Think they are the shit when they are on welfare with a drug addiction and sleeping on a mates couch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:44 AM
89

The patriarchy grooms us from birth to centre our lives around men. Once you have broken the programming, it's hard to see it through awakened eyes. I doubt all of these men are even that "nice." Nice isn't even a virtue. It's the bare minimum for interacting in a society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:26 AM
204

I don't know who these people are but I can see that she is gorgeous and half his age. He looks like a grey skinned old dusty posing proudly with his daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:23 AM
15

No offence, but I've found men from the UK to be even worse than Australian men. I didn't think that was possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:15 AM
24

I don't think most of then on the apps would pass the test. STDs in my city are out of control thanks to hookup culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:14 AM
21

Great response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:10 AM
47

This was so me the last time I used it. Absolutely hideous swamp animals all looking for FWB or something casual. If someone actually consented to fuck them, they should put a ring on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:10 AM
68

Yeah, they really think its Uber Eats for free prostitutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:08 AM
17

These are fantastic, thanks so much Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:48 AM
18

Statistics are available regarding the percentage of each sex on the apps. The men far outweigh the women . 80 percent men to 20 percent women on Tinder. I also wonder what percentage of that 20 percent are sex workers and Only Fans creators?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:34 AM
65

Yes, it's sexual coercion and I believe it should be a crime. Women should avoid community dick at all costs. That's the type that are on the apps and one of the reasons I think women should avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:43 AM
74

Ahh, that dead eyed stare. I see it so often. It's like they are becoming bots, just mindless zombies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:30 AM
95

Thanks for voicing this! I hated having to give out all of these details, especially location. I had a stalker at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:17 AM
12

I'm not shopping anything but I want to protect my privacy. I'm sure you understand, Queen 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:59 AM
133

The apps are saturated with men that women in real life, don't want. They can't use ten years old and 20 pounds lighter photos in real life. I saw TWO attractive men in real life for the entirety of 2021.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:31 AM
179

I also found it extremely exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:28 AM
41

Nah, I've found way more of them say the wife would never let them do it and they absolutely are "craving the taste". I heard this a LOT when I was OLD. Guaranteed wife got the ick from him acting like a man baby and never doing his share of childcare and housework.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:00 AM
157

It's even more skewed for Tinder, 80 percent men to 20 percent women. Hopefully women are starting to see that hookup culture doesn't serve their best interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:49 AM
23

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:47 AM
232

Excellent points, thanks so much. That women are the product is an excellent point. Men will probably argue that they are the product also but considering men far outnumber women on apps, they would be wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:47 AM
104

Guaranteed he was useless at it, that's why 17 years long Mrs didn't want it. Also him posing with his very small children 😬 If a woman chucks out a man when her kids are small, Guaranteed there is something seriously wrong with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:29 AM
49

I think FDS says that talking about exes is a no no for the first few months. Even then, don't reveal the details or any trauma of that split. For instance, my ex husband died two months after we divorced. He was a complete nightmare psychopath and I hope he's burning in hell. To any date I would say "oh, we just grew apart because we got together so young."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:56 PM
197

LOVE HER ❤ I love how she has to mouth all the words and keeps calling men b!tches..coz they so are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:21 AM
213

I've always had fake accounts to do a check on guys I'm interested in or dating. A lot will block your legit original account and then say they have no social media. Then I go and look and bam! They are there. Thank Goddess for stupid males that couldn't fool a first grader.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:36 AM
24

If someone tells me that they met their partner on OLD, I assume he's LV. Just because they magically found a boyfriend on the apps, doesn't mean he's a good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:25 AM
77

The ones I've encountered that know about it say "isn't that a hate group against men?" I can't even with these people 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:37 AM
68

I've been mentoring my daughter with FDS principles. She had terrible mental health thanks to her interactions with LVM and her NV father. No direction in life, unemployed and miserable. Now she's employed, at university and a lot happier. She is more interested in levelling up than in men. Men her age are awful (20). A lot of young women will say they need a man because they want sex. I point out that most of them are shit at it and won't make you cum. You are better off with your hands and toy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:35 AM
13

Do you actually need whatever you have left there? If you can't bring a trusted male with you, I would forget about your stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:26 PM
6

He makes 60k a year, no one's gold digging that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:54 AM
620

Because that always works so well 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:09 AM
3

None.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:08 AM
60

This guy was definitely looking for someone to rape. If you are following FDS to the letter, it should make it very hard for some scrote like this to have access to you. An FDSer wouldn't engage in overly sexual messages with a stranger "jumping on the D". An FDSer wouldn't let a stranger walk them to their car or even park the car somewhere deserted or dark. And FDSer wouldn't have a makeout session on the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:17 AM
42

Unless it's Harvard. Isn't that know for its law school?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:21 AM
48

No Way, That Can't Be True.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:42 AM
43

I would have reported him to the flight attendant for public indecency
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:15 AM
49

Getting off the dating app so he can delete it and talk to you somewhere he can hide it from his wife or trying to stalk you with the information revealed by your phone number. It's never for a good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:24 AM
134

Yes, it's sexual coercion and should be criminal. Lying about your intentions in order to get sex. The apps are complete garbage. I honestly think it's a red flag if a guy I'm interested in uses them. I assume he's community dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:12 AM
145

Men don't deserve woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:00 AM
6

Let them grow up but still tell them when you think they are doing something stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:13 AM
77

He is absolutely vile, with his two toned hair, like some sort of scrote skunk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:43 AM
25

It's really only changed in the last 50 years. Women still needed permission from their father or husband to get a bank account here in the seventies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:50 AM
33

Guilty until proven innocent is my motto.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:59 AM
8

Wow, you actually should write a novel. I'm so glad his father and brother helped you. Usually you find that relatives enable or excuse their behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:25 AM
38

I have a 20 year old daughter and she would never hear the end of my tirade if she did this. This mother has thrown her daughter to the wolves. My daughter told a story of another 20 year old she just met who also lives in a studio. Met a guy 5 months ago who lives in a van. He asked her to be his girlfriend the night they met. Now 5 months later, she is going to propose to him. My daughter and I both agree this girl needs an FDS rescue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 12:11 AM
96

The primary demographic of Reddit is young males. Teenagers to mid twenties. Once you know this, all of the comments on Reddit make sense. Basically stupid, porn fried children sharing their lack of knowledge of everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:51 PM
9

Or in my country, on disability pension. A lot of young to middle aged men on permanent disability because they fried their brains with drugs and can't ever work again. I know a lot of these types through work and I see them on the apps saying they are entrepreneurs, day traders, CEO, self employed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:35 PM
6

I have found engineers to be really strange individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:29 PM
148

I think a lot of them are unemployed or underemployed or being a parasite of parents or a partner. The only thing they are engineers of is their death gripped pee pee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:24 PM
165

What I learned from my divorce is to communicate in writing only as much as possible. I was down to just emails in the end. We had kids so I was forced to communicate with him until they were 18. Then I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:55 AM
5

It was over 20 years ago so probably not back then. Stealthing isn't even a crime here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:41 AM
24

I'm white but the same thing happened to me. I split up with my ex husband when our son was small and had to give up sex to get my son "baby sitted" or I couldn't go to work (ex husband of course was unemployed.) He put holes in the condoms we used and baby trapped me with my wonderful daughter. I got back with him after this as I didn't think I could cope with two kids on my own. I regret this decision a lot. When we split up for good the next time, both our kids were teenagers. He still tried …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:42 AM
4

Happy cake day! 🎂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:20 AM
27

Because they are brain damaged from excessive porn use since they were children. They are mostly bots and NPCs at this stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:04 AM
3

I have a narcissist mother who does the same. Always trying to get me to work for my gift like ordering it or picking it up. I tell her cold hard cash or nothing, please. I don't have time to do labour for so called "gifts." 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:37 AM
21

I destest cops. They are on my red flag, never date professions amongst many others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:34 AM
31

The CEO and COO at my work are both having affairs with subordinates. All parties are married with young children. It's disgusting. You think when your man is at work, he's working. Nah, sis. Can't even trust them at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:33 AM
50

I would have ditched him after that conversation about being jealous of you dating other guys but not offering the same exclusivity for himself. It shows blatant sexism. Different rules for you than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:00 AM
38

Google him, he's a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:01 PM
1

Thank you Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:51 PM
5

Yes but Adonis was the son of two humans, not Gods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:50 PM
81

She's kinda answered her own question. She can and she shouldn't. There is no going back from this, she has the ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:34 AM
12

I'm considering it and yes, I'm delighted he's dead. It was like karma and that my prayers and my protection spell had worked. He was very dangerous towards the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:08 AM
20

I live for blocking them. I get a sweet satisfaction from blocking their inane pig snorting messages . "You know females...." BLOCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:04 AM
62

They are all just soooo LAZY. They don't want to make an effort in any way. 99.9999 percent of men are disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:56 AM
48

And the sex toy is still in the mail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:28 AM
17

Thank you. He was under investigation by the police when he died, they said he was a "monster." I gave them a tirade about my arrest. Abusers love to flip it on you and make out to everyone that you are the abuser. Well known example, Gabby Pepito.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:48 AM
61

Adonis wasn't actually a God but the product of incest. Meant to be a real hottie, Aphrodite was into him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:18 AM
158

I'm guessing Eros, the God of carnal love. The male equivalent to Aphrodite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:07 AM
29

It should be like this everywhere. Who on earth wants to support a grown ass adult like they are your child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:56 PM
60

But overall I think women are treated well in the west Umm this subreddit wouldn't exist if women were treated well 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:53 PM
30

To those saying it might be fake - almost the exact same thing happened to me. My husband set me up. I was arrested, strip searched, finger printed and photographed, the whole deal. I now have a police record thanks to that POS who is thankfully, dead now. It's a spent conviction so no employer can see it but cops can. I had no interaction with police prior to my arrest. Now I absolutely hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:51 PM
121

Don't answer them. Don't give them any validation. Report the message as spam which also blocks them. I've had some hideous messages from my FDS activity. ALL reported as spam and blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:29 AM
132

The term pick me has been around for a while. Both of the women in the badly drawn picture are just being themselves. It's like women are all different or something, not just made to order appliances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:20 AM
21

Aww thank you so much 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:12 AM
79

It makes him feel like a king to have you flirting and bantering with him. Think about when you like a guy. You want to know about him. This guy could care less. There are a thousand things he could ask. I have a daughter your age and I would tell her to forget him, he doesn't deserve her. You can do much better hun, a guy who is excited to get to know all about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:03 AM
86

He likes the ego stroke. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:44 AM
5

Many critics would disagree with you. Also tests how they feel about men who just watch and don't say anything about terrible things that happen to women and continue to be friends with the perpetrators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:42 AM
15

I don't like any Star Wars apart from the 3 original. The ones that came out in the 90s were garbage and I haven't even looked at previews for the Disney ones. I hate superhero movies. The all women ghostbusers was garbage. LOVE Cruella, what a girl boss. I would shit test him with some good movies with a female lead. Try "Promising Young Woman." That one is always a good shit test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:43 AM
128

Rape is one of the few crimes where the victim is usually blamed. Ask your mother if when she has encountered an extremely drunk person, has she ever gone on to rape them? That should reframe this a little in her mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:35 AM
68

This is why you need to keep vetting and questioning your partner for the entire length of the relationship. His opinions about pregnancy should have been discussed BEFORE she got pregnant in the whole 7 years they had prior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:19 AM
69

Get her on to FDS as soon as she is of dating age. I did with my daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:16 AM
51

Give me the diamonds please. At least I have something of value when I leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:47 AM
3

That was a fabulous read, what a QUEEN the woman was in that story. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:44 AM
51

He's a drug dealer and addict. He's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:31 AM
84

I would divorce him. Dysons aren't all that, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:30 AM
5

Exactly what I was thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:25 AM
12

I can see this scrote posting somewhere about the woman who dated him just to get free dinners lolll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:55 AM
7

This is sooooo what I was thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:53 AM
50

I also thought it was so he didn't have to buy a valentine's gift and then he would come hovering back later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:51 AM
146

He honestly sounds like he doesn't find women attractive or maybe he only finds pornstars attractive. I have no idea why this 21 year old is persisting with this useless, pornsick creep and why her mum isn't telling her to dump him. Why are mum and her friend discussing her daughters sex life? It's a bit creepy. I have a daughter that age and I would tell her to leave rather than discussing her inadequate sex life with a pornsick scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:29 AM
119

He practically IS already living with her, he spends 75 percent of his week living at hers. If she dumps him, she could afford her studio with the reduced food and utility bills. Would have time for a side hustle too without the parasitic leech boyfriend sucking the life out of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:35 AM
75

Yes, don't live with a man. You are guaranteed to be doing way more than your fair share of domestic, physical and emotional labour and have to pay 50 50 and work fulltime. All so he can sit on his ass gaming. I will never get married again and never live with a man again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 08:30 AM
95

It wouldn't be so bad in your forties but in your twenties, it's light years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:10 AM
125

Never give them any information about exes treating you badly. They think they can hit that low bar too. I would just find some really mundane reason like they had to move away or you grew apart. Even if he was a raging sociopath like a couple of my exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:38 AM
199

If you're not excitedly saying yes, then it's a big NOPE. Plus, please read the handbook. We don't move in with boyfriends unless we are engaged. Don't get engaged to this guy. Also, that's too much of an age gap. Don't date potential either. Anything can happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:33 AM
32

Beards are disgusting. Fecal and bacterial matter traps. Revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:28 AM
44

I think some get you off the app so they can delete it and engage with you on another app their wife won't be suspicious about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:49 PM
2

DEAD 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:34 PM
96

She was still living with him after she broke up with him. I'm convinced you should move yourself out when he's not in the house and then break up with him by text and block and delete. These scrotes are only getting more entitled and more dangerous the more and more women push back and demand equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:33 AM
97

All are guilty until proven innocent. That's my motto.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:30 AM
2

My sympathies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:36 AM
5

😂😂😂 he's a little scary actually. Incel shooter in the making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:36 AM
3

That's what I thought too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:32 AM
37

He needs the thing that makes your eyes look bigger like Ariana Grande had done. His are beady and scrote like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 12:19 PM
307

What's the bet he's balding under that hat. I'm getting hatfish vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:18 AM
210

It's definitely his repulsive, women hating personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:16 AM
34

Slow clap, this is amazing 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:15 AM
19

I would want a refund
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 08:10 AM
43

I'm a radfem from Australia. Can confirm it is full of LVM, libfems and pickmes. An actual hellscape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:45 AM
25

It's the same here in Australia. You can lose your unemployment benefits by turning down a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:40 AM
64

Yes, most are useless at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:33 AM
46

Fantastic news. I hope to see the day that these sites are all banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:12 AM
203

I'm way more brutal. I get asked "have you got a man in your life?" My answer "why on earth would I want one of those? Men are redundant." "Why are you still single?" Answer "just lucky, I guess."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:10 AM
67

Get a child blocker ffs. On all devices. Then give him long lectures about the dangers of long-term porn use. Then radfem lectures about the paedophilia, trafficking and rape if he continues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:52 AM
26

You should decide if you vibe on a video call before the date. Dinner is to gauge if they take dating seriously and are on the same page as you (looking for a relationship.) It's harder to date numerous women for most men if they have to shell out for dinner constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:22 AM
23

I support those terrible opinions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:15 AM
63

I've found the ones that screech the loudest about gold diggers are in minimum wage jobs or on welfare or the disability pension. What gold? Barely can afford their ciggies and cheap Aldi beer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:59 PM
24

Gosh, my cynical brain is thinking "what's the angle for these scrotes?" Weaponising things taught to them in therapy so they can blame every woman in their life for their problems? I would love if they were actually getting long term help but most therapists are misogynists and pick mes as they reflect our population. So, doubtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:53 PM
16

For example, if a man is giving you low effort communication and not answering for a whole day, leave him on read and don’t respond. Honestly, who can be bothered with their childishness? Just block and move on...NEXT VICTIM PLZ 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:47 PM
132

The actual audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:22 PM
503

That poor, poor girl. I'm so sad for her. I wonder how old her scrote is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:20 PM
80

Anyone who calls women "chicks" and uses haha is an actual predator. My observations with men is that they all judge themselves way more attractive then they are. Deducting 5 points for what they rate themselves seems to work. So if this guy thinks he's a ten then he's actually a five. I also always deduct 2 inches from height and dick size. This man is an obvious misogynist with his use of "chick" and rating women like livestock. I bet the only women who he scores are drunk too and unable to gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:21 AM
17

Side of the road is tempting 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:47 AM
199

Are they ripping on the OP in the comments? So disgusting. I keep telling my 22 year old son that he will get permanent brain damage, erectile dysfunction and go bald if he watches it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:43 AM
60

Same. They can make use of their millions of dollars they have hoarded, straight into a nursing home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 11:30 PM
35

I would be suss of them following female Olympic athletes. I would assume he was yanking it to their Instagram pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:34 AM
10

Please take on what everyone is saying to you on this post. You are not ready to date. Please read the handbook again. This guy had red flags absolutely flying and you didn't see them. You are not ready to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:54 AM
146

I couldn't read that without falling into a brain-dead coma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:50 AM
65

I see libfems as the worst kind of pickmes. Radical feminism is the real feminism. The unfun kind that men and pickmes don't Ike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:16 AM
7

Perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:15 AM
7

SAME 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:15 AM
19

I have avoidant attachment type too thanks to the men I've dated. I am extremely risk averse now when it comes to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:12 AM
15

Your ex sounds exactly like my ex. He was also the one that made me swear off men, nearly 4 years now. He wouldn't have got past the first message with FDS. No one I've been interested in since has got past the first phone call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:10 AM
42

An unemployed person has no business dating. They should be bettering their circumstances and putting all their energy into getting a job. Unemployed fuckboys use OLD. The "only does casual" remark from this scrote and being unemployed should have been a huge red flag for this poster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:04 AM
22

They have long term relationships with their crusty cum socks under the bed. It's wasn't you sis, he was a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:01 AM
33

When the talk show host introduces him as the heart throb scientist, I thought "oh good, they are going to get a guy who's actually good looking. Oh wait, she means Leo. Cringe."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:22 AM
15

I LOVE thriftng too but this is something to do with a boyfriend, not a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:15 AM
30

Oh gosh, did he play music and all? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:14 AM
131

Probably have some no strings scrote sex complete with grass stains and no orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:11 AM
334

What a disgusting, vile POS that husband is. Sadly, this is a common story. They forget about the "in good health and bad" in their wedding vows. Women rarely leave a sick husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:07 AM
17

I got banned from most of those subreddits for giving my honest opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:38 AM
25

You were only seeing him for a couple of months but he knows where you live? Be careful sis, sounds like he has anger issues and him being ex military too. A red flag career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:32 AM
20

These types should have been bred out of the gene pool but charity pussy gave them a chance. Say NO to mediocre and ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:23 AM
72

Yes, because money is all they have to offer. Not that they would spend it on you. I've found these types to be incredibly stingy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:58 AM
152

If we didn't step up, our children would starve and we would be homeless. Most men are less than useless now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:52 AM
106

He looked like he had just rolled out of bed in that movie. Almost unrecognisable until he smiled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:50 AM
9

I never wanted to get into FIFO because of all the rapey, women hating bogans on site. Now all of this is coming to light with more and more women coming forward about being raped and assaulted at mine sites. FIFO men are know to have a partner at home and an on-site wife. That job is an instant nope for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:25 AM
147

I bet it's not just porn. He's probably got accounts on dating apps and is chatting with them during his bathroom time. Getting them to come over when the wife and kids are out all day. This scrote is in scrote heaven. Mummy bangmaid to raise his kids, do all the chores and earn the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:47 PM
33

Spot on 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:48 AM
68

Oh, we know. They are even worse than Australian men, who are misogynistic bogan trash. Hugh Grant is a cheater who uses prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:48 AM
55

I've always thought this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:46 AM
67

I think your comment has ignited my PTSD over the ghosts of scrotes past. So accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:36 AM
21

I'm working on levelling up in my career so that is one area where I will wear make-up and nice clothes. I also do it for me. It helps my self esteem if I feel healthy and well groomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:29 AM
34

Not weird at all. He was a negging scrote trying to bring you down to his level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 10:04 AM
73

I can't love this enough 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 09:38 AM
3

I feel like I've slipped a bit and am not being brutal enough in my comments if I'm not getting a few Reddit cares and angry SD energy scrote messages every week. That being said, I do not respond to any of them and report all of their messages as spam which also blocks them. I'm in my forties and have long reconciled myself to the facts that most men hate women. I'm stone cold, their rants do nothing to me but laugh at how they can't control their emotions. What he threatened that men will do t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:38 AM
204

I would have simultaneously vomitted on him while I dug my fingernails right right up high into the walls of his poop shoot. Then I would start organising a divorce. The fact he was so "disgustingly dirty" is the reason he woke her up, something she said didn't happen often. He wanted to humiliate her by making her choke on his filthy worm and finger his putrid ass. Something he KNEW she hated doing. He totally got off on making her do something so vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:21 PM
52

I know real life stories and stuff that has happened to me that is similar or much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:02 AM
88

I introduced my daughter to FDS. Now she's basically sworn off men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:00 AM
3

Fabulous idea 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:46 PM
11

Jake, Jarrad, James..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:38 PM
43

I would want to crush that rock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:10 AM
145

Well same and I actually feel bad for the cockroach being called after my NVX and getting eaten and the animal eating it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:23 AM
4

My ex from four years ago sent me a video of him wanking his dick and then panned up to his stupid face winking at me. His dick was actually the only good thing about him, so at least he knows his key selling point. Still would rather gargle on broken glass than breathe the same air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:43 AM
56

If I reveal a real pet peeve but a tiny one, does that work as well? I hate this emoji 😏 To me it's the fuckboi emoji.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:34 PM
142

She isn't just a pick me, she is evil. Putting the needs of some man over her own flesh and blood. She left her daughter HOMELESS. I hope she's getting slaughtered in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:24 PM
132

Did the mother or father post this? Absolutely disgusting, either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:03 PM
16

Spot on. Love bombing pedo were my thoughts as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:39 AM
120

Tell her she shouldn't be dating, she needs therapy to work through why she likes being treated like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:11 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:23 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:48 AM
59

Oppressors rarely help the oppressed. The only way that things will change is if women make their stand. FDS is a great tool for this. It demands that men change to meet our standards or remain alone. Women should stop breeding and giving wife privileges to boyfriends and situationships. I think that if we brought in Universal Basic Income, it would be a game changer. There wouldn't be the need to have financial support from a man to raise children. Men would have to be actually likeable and goo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:47 PM
151

Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:12 PM
7

Yeah, he was trash 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:07 PM
12

I think New Zealand is similar to Australia in regards to defacto partners. A defacto is entitled to half or more of assets acquired during the relationship after 2 years of living together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:40 AM
51

Pierce Brosnan is wonderful. I hope all FDS ladies can find a man like him 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:46 AM
86

I think if a man pisses anywhere but a toilet unless you're camping, it's a red flag. Husband used to piss right near the front door when we got home, into the garden like a dog. He couldn't even wait until he got inside and use an actual toilet. Last ex had no screen on his bedroom window and used to piss out the window into the garden. The toilet was literally metres away. Of course both were totally negative value times infinity. Also, they are the reason I haven't dated for over three years …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:14 AM
38

Jacinda is a forever girlfriend although meant to get married "this summer." She's been with him for NINE years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:07 AM
29

I've had old ex friends and acquaintances pop up plus a dick video from an ex. Can't wait for Retrograde to be over 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:00 AM
65

Yes, it's so disgusting. I hope that Bill doesn't pass and LNP get voted out this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 12:08 AM
28

Yeah, you cant search for me by number. I hate Facebook. The men there are almost as bad as Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:58 PM
32

Wow, that's disgusting. Can't even trust the bartender. Glad you're OK x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:56 PM
43

That's how I caught out a few who were trying to cheat on their wives. You can also do a search for their phone number on Facebook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:37 PM
47

I'm in my forties and I don't know of ANY women in my life who aren't a pick me except for my daughter and her best friend. The women in ther fifties and sixties are worse than some of the younger women. My mother is in her seventies, is a huge pick me. I call her the gatekeeper for the patriarchy, she gets so annoyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:02 PM
102

Don't leave your drink or food unattended. Make sure the restaurant he chooses is in your area so it's familiar to you and you know where to park and walk to it safely. Obviously, don't let him know it's your area. Don't go to his place or have him at yours. I've seen this mentioned quite a few times in posts. Not only is it dangerous but FDS says no sex without committing. He one hundred percent expects sex if you're going to each other's homes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:49 PM
359

Yes, I'm seeing too many stories on here about women getting in cars with men they barely know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:05 AM
60

Calm down, little guy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:25 AM
4

I posted about this a few days ago. Is the guy still posting about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:35 AM
7

I loved that too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 01:59 AM
66

I'm naturally a night owl but get up really early for work. I have a nothing after 8pm rule. I need my sleep! I've blocked men who have pushed past this boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:21 AM
122

Your intuition is speaking to you, listen. Also, if you are applying FDS principles then why have you already had sex "several" times but have only been "speaking" with him a short while? No sex before committing. You need to vet him thoroughly and no boyfriend privileges until he actually is a boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:13 AM
54

This isn't investing, this is gambling. She is supporting a gambling addiction. This will continue for as long as they are together. I hope people are telling her this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:57 AM
121

I snorted at "flop flop pee pee"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:54 AM
392

Well he certainly eats like a toddler. What adult person gets food all over furniture? I reckon he wiped his hands on that cushion. She should dump him. She will be cooking separate meals and cleaning up after man baby forever, if she doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:36 PM
125

My ex husband turned completely evil when we split. He told me that me and our kids were dead to him. He tried to destroy my life in any way possible, even moving house to where I was when I tried to get away. His true colours definitely came out when he split.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:33 PM
6

Oh nooooo, you're killing my dreams here 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:25 PM
94

I got married at 25. No way would I choose to get married now, it has no value to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:57 AM
65

I already posted about this a few hours ago. I think it's real tbh. The men on Reddit are such whining babies. Regardless, scrote left links to FDS so hopefully lots of new members wanting to be scrote free 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:30 AM
131

I feel like he did this deliberately. Like some sort of punishment because you wouldn't tell him what you actually wanted. He got mad because he had to use his scrote brain and "punished" you with a gift that is literally poison to you. Glad he's blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:28 AM
4

Seems like there are a lot of broke men living with their parents, on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:02 AM
16

Every revolution has casualties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:44 AM
10

GOOD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:38 AM
37

I ditched OLD in 2015 when I worked out quickly that it was full of men too cheap to pay for a sex worker. I downloaded Bumble in 2021 briefly to test my vetting skills and I couldn't believe how much the quality of men had dropped. It looked like they were all residents of our cities homeless shelter. Every man I chatted to cancelled himself within a couple of sentences. There was absolutely no challenge to vetting them, they freely gave me information to block and delete. I deleted in disgust …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:37 AM
51

I want to move to Iceland. They just banned strip clubs there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:29 AM
23

LOVE the Enya cameo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:29 AM
117

Her poor mother is a victim of domestic violence. They both need to move out and not give scrote father their address. Of course the mother doesn't want to burden her daughter with everything that's going on in the marriage. I was married to a DV abuser. My kids only know what they saw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:25 AM
11

I was suspecting that too. Love that he included a link to FDS in his post so new members can find us 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:21 AM
313

Marriage benefits men so much more but women are sold the lie about it being our happily ever after. Marriage for me was like a slow death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:11 AM
19

I soooo want to move to Iceland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:26 AM
29

Because true consent can't be bought, it must be freely and enthusiastically given.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:49 PM
8

Or use you to triangulate with some other woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:05 AM
31

I'm sure all of them did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:52 AM
22

That's a lot of words for "I'm looking for an excuse to have an affair."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:50 AM
65

That's what I was thinking. He knew she wasn't into it when he married her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:49 AM
43

True consent is freely and happily given. You can't truly buy consent. Human bodies aren't a commodity to be bought and sold. We abolished slavery but women's bodies are still for sale. I'm aware that slavery and human trafficking still very much exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:21 AM
18

🤮 Revolting. Even chimps groom themselves and pick out lice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:06 AM
21

I don't even want to breathe the same air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:05 AM
10

Your brother is a lost cause. Your mother will have to step in if the forever girlfriend wises up and leaves. I feel sorry for both of these women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:03 AM
17

I hope you dumped him. I love interior design too and would also be wanting to check out his space to see how he expresses himself in his home environment. I would hate to see another woman's touch all over the house and would be wondering if she was still in the picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:42 AM
74

I have a very close family member who does OF. Like any job, it's WORK. She has worked hard to get in the top 1.7 percent and she earns thousands per month. Thankfully she never shows her face. Of course scrotes will share images and customs. They don't even care that they can't see her face, women are just body parts to them. I'm a radfem so of course I'm not thrilled with it. It's actually made me even more disgusted with men, if that's possible. They are vile primates, obsessed with gripping …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:36 AM
21

Mums that do this stuff are making a huge burden for their sons future wives. My son had a NV father but he still does all his laundry, cleans and cooks better than me. Also trying to deprogram him from his NV father's upbringing but it's a bigger task in a patriarchy. At least his future wife won't be stuck with all of the housework and if she was, I would have some strong words to say to my son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:26 AM
1

Some pickme would report back to the scrotes. I used to be active in Facebook singles groups. We had women only group chats to give each other information about the guys. Guaranteed it would always end up in flames with one or more pickmes taking screenshots and passing them on to the scrotes in question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:36 AM
17

Gosh, Ellen could be me. I'm currently actively searching for a new job. This should be talked about more. Low value workplaces are absolutely toxic. As bad as a low value partner and I've had some absolute negative value exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:42 PM
89

I love wearing make-up but I've been on a no buy for some time, just using things up before I replace instead of having multiples. I don't like the wastefulness of it all, considering how expensive a lot of it is and how quickly it goes off. I only use cruelty free vegan brands and these go off extremely quickly. A lot of radical feminists share the same beliefs with you about the beauty industry. Try the subreddit fourthwavewomen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:21 AM
9

I noticed that too. She's 32 in the title but 30 at the end of the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:34 AM
133

Men who are terrible at sex are guaranteed to be regular porn consumers. If he has been consuming porn since adolescence then he is guaranteed to have frontal lobe damage to the brain which is irreparable. Porn abusers should be bred out of the gene pool. They are violent, have erectile dysfunction, no impulse control, deformed penis from death grip (peyronies disease) and early male pattern baldness. Don't engage with the equivalent of masturbating monkeys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:09 AM
45

I think this question is a good shit test for most men. I asked one ex who I thought was maybe medium value (this was pre FDS) what he would want to do hypothetically if I got pregnant and he said "drive me out to the forest and make me dig my own grave." He thought that was funny. Another sad he would run as far as he could and change his identity. He also thought this was funny. I don't think most men would be that blatantly vile but I think the question is a good one to ask to see their react…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:58 AM
2

I'm considering it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:41 AM
26

I'm INTJ as well and I hate time wasting. A video or phone call really cancels out a lot of them. I haven't been on a date in over three years because of speaking to prospective men on the phone first. Australian men are the worst. Mansplaining, conversation monopolising bogan idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:33 AM
37

They really think they are such a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:28 AM
37

This is what I hate about the apps. All these different levels to describe how good someone looks in a photo. Like we are all livestock being graded about how pure-bred we are. It's all bullshit. Some people aren't photogenic. I matched with an slightly above average guy. When I met him for a date, he was the best looking guy I had seen in my whole life, movie star looks. It's all so demeaning and dehumanising. When I was last on OLD I saw very few Chad's. I saw many scruffy neckbeard bloated mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:27 AM
48

I just googled "West Elm Caleb" and the amount of articles defending Ratatouille on meth (thanks for that description above commenter 😂) is sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:15 AM
55

My ex had this loud cackling laugh that everyone found annoying but I thought was hilarious because I was attracted to him. If I was getting the ick about mannerisms, I would take it as a sign that he wasn't the right guy for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 11:15 PM
46

My motto with men is "guilty until proven innocent." Best of luck and thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:48 AM
90

Birds of a feather flock together. Men can wear a mask for a LONG time but there are always hints. His choice of friends is one. My ex husband kept his mask on for 5 years until the day we got married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:53 AM
183

I hope they are telling her to leave this fuckwit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:47 AM
138

Fantastic news. Rapists can be bred out of the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 10:33 AM
10

I'm using that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 12:38 AM
68

These guys just dig their own miserable ditch to die in alone. Good! I hope they all do die alone without having propagated their stupid DNA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 12:21 AM
22

So your boyfriend was friends with a 24 year old man when he was 12? That's really weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 12:11 AM
24

To them, abuse is being asked to pick up their shit stained underwear off the floor. Men are such delicate flowers 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 12:03 AM
55

And he's not even in custody. She was a CHILD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 11:46 PM
3

It doesn't but it should!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:57 PM
5

I got blocked. I'm glad. It was really annoying seeing how stupid people who are nearly middle aged are about dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:57 PM
4

Thank you 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 09:52 PM
10

It's on dating over thirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:18 PM
90

I LOVE your dad. My own father lied about his height. I measured him and my brother at Christmas. Both 3 inches shorter than what they told me previously all my life. My son though was spot on down to the half centimetre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:47 AM
51

With a kid too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:16 AM
165

I have a work colleague who is a Freemason. He puts way more effort into that than his wife, kids, and my other work colleague that he's cheating with. The hard truth is that most men just see women as appliances that give them sex, housework, kids and free therapy. That is usually the best you can expect from the majority of them. The worst absolutely hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:51 AM
119

Whyyyy do we keep seeing these stories? It's horrendous. Men want to take on women's role of being a stay at home parent. Well this means childcare, cooking and cleaning! How on earth did they manage to persuade women to accept the deal of working, childcare and housework whilst they do what? Have lots of free time to cheat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:21 AM
36

I'm a radfem so I believe male female "friendships" don't exist. A woman can absolutely be just friends with a man, but it is always transactional on a man's side. Yes, the OP is a scrote, I blocked him after roasting him in the comments. There were others roasting him too. I had one commenter message me saying that I shouldn't make a big deal out of people cheating 🤡 I reported his message as spam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:53 AM
80

I went through a phase of this too after my divorce. It got old real quick. I found it empty. If it makes you happy, then continue on. If it's not, then stop. Meet only in public and for proper dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:10 AM
68

The OP admitted in the comments that they were more serious than just friends. I don't know if the woman concerned knows its serious. My hope is that she friend zoned him ten months ago. I've had an absolute ball roasting the OP though. He's now removed his post 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:07 AM
93

He's already making you stressed and over thinking things and you haven't even met. His energy is dropping. Drop him. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:04 AM
251

You are very much in the minority. Only 6 percent of women orgasm with casual sex. The risks of STDs are huge, condoms don't protect you from all STDS. You also put yourself in danger of encountering an abuser. More and more men are getting their homicide charges dropped because they pled the violent sex defence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:41 AM
115

Wants to keep her on the side to triangulate with the new girlfriend. I hope they both block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:56 AM
70

Goddess, I hope so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:39 AM
117

I'm very cynical in regards to men. I think they like to see you upset. What's the bet they never had proper dates so she would get excited over the prospect of a "real" date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:30 AM
133

Gosh, I hope so. That would be fantastic 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:08 AM
163

Gosh, so true. I didn't pick up on that. I'm going to comment that too on his post 🤣 I'm expecting a ban from what I've already said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:58 AM
452

This is becoming beyond ridiculous now. How on earth could anyone think this is equitable when you have grown and birthed a whole child? Men can't give birth so if they want to propagate their stupid DNA legacy then they need to PAY FOR IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:57 AM
105

It's gross and pathetic. Men share them in their group chats. Do you want all his mates to know what your vagina looks like? I will never send nudes. If you aren't seeing it in person then it's not for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 12:50 AM
17

The first blobfish looks like a dead ringer for a geriatric guy at work who regularly sexually harasses me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:07 PM
172

Literally every sentence written by him is a red flag. I pity his mother. What a useless, sexist, misogynistic lump, I would disown him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:07 AM
174

The apps are hell for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:39 AM
482

I hope that guy in on a watch list. He hates women. Is also insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:33 AM
55

Yes, it's revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:55 AM
10

Where was this girls parents for the past four years this pedo was grooming her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:45 AM
15

Did you have any luck reporting him to the dating app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:43 AM
394

Maybe he should try not bring community dick? Drake is a fucking paedophile, can't wait for him to be cancelled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:15 AM
184

I always got told "good luck to you, you're a braver woman than me." I detest my ex mother in law, didn't like her from the start. I've witnessed her abusing her children. But gosh was she spot on with this comment. I should have RAN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:58 AM
489

Yep, they know. Watch them gaslight women in relationships subreddits about sporadic texters though. They always play devils advocate for other bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:30 AM
17

I'm always in Facebook jail because of similar comments to LVM 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:25 AM
94

All men are guilty until proven innocent. This is the most prudent choice as statistics prove. Too many are predators of women and children, too many are devil's advocates and bystanders to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:47 AM
10

Dump him. It won't get better. Will he even pay rent in YOUR condo? Don't give boyfriends husband privilege like cooking for them and living with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:40 AM
10

🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:22 AM
41

That look of anger when he says "that's it." CHILLS. This man is dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:36 AM
36

Any man who idolises the disgustingly rich while the world burns is a block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:34 AM
192

If that was my daughter, I would start giving her long radical feminism lectures at every possible chance about the foolishness of polygamy. How it only benefits men, how women around the world are forced into polygamy and are miserable. I would uninvite both of them from the trip until she wakes up to herself. My actual daughter wouldn't ever consider this foolishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:04 AM
35

Remember the old days when a man who got turned on by beating and choking a woman was called a psychopath? Now thanks to liberal feminism it's "don't kink shame."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:43 AM
27

So a horror story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:34 AM
14

I'm deceased 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:28 AM
41

Should have sent him home. What use is he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:24 AM
108

Every man I know my age looks 10 to 20 years older. Most of the ones 10 years younger than me look older than me. Your coworker just wants to prey on younger women. Can you report him to the app for catfishing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:23 AM
54

I know what my height is and what my adult son is. I size them up by standing near them and work out how badly they are lying in relation to my sons height who is six foot. It's great I know what 6 foot actually looks like now. Turns out some men had been lying for years about their height. One family member had told me he was 5ft 9, turns out he is 5ft6. Another said he was 5ft11, he is 5ft8.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:21 AM
6

They "got their dick wet". Getting sex with false pretences should be classed as rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:05 AM
32

I used to do the same thing when I used OLD, it worked a charm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:20 PM
34

She can do soooo much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:15 PM
29

All my friends are pickmes. In fact, I don't know a single woman apart from myself and my daughter (who was told about FDS by me) who isn't one. I wish I could have a real life FDS friendship group!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:15 AM
34

I think two thirds is being generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:00 AM
117

I know for a fact they do. In my pickme days, I was actually friends with a few fuckboys who told me that it was easier to get laid if they say they are looking for a relationship. Goddess forgive me for my atrocious behaviour of actually having friendships with these vile creatures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:57 AM
75

A low value type may be asking you about family to gauge your trauma and make use of it. I have narcissistic parents. I have very limited contact with them, less than once a month for a phone call. I only see them a few times a year and they live close by. Don't reveal any trauma for at least six months if not more. I'm thinking at least a year. Be vague when asked about family. I just say the basics (they exist, are still together etc) and then change the topic or ask about their family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:55 AM
39

Once upon a time, I too believed in twin flames. Twin flame seems to translate to "I will put up with any crap you dish out because we are halves of the same soul and planned to be together before we were born." I'm still very spiritual, my own type of spirituality that is different from most. I absolutely believe that soul mates exist but if I met one (we have more than one and different types) and he was low value, it would be a NOPE. No connection is worth the trauma of a low value man. All t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:37 AM
231

Thank Goddess he is too stupid to hide his shallow, community dick nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:20 AM
452

It continues to amaze me how utterly inept most men are at chatting with a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:14 AM
196

No one wants a man who plays games at any age. Good on you for recognising this as manipulation tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:11 AM
15

I don't know what she did. I stole it from a subreddit who stole it from another subreddit 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:58 AM
10

Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:58 AM
17

Sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:19 AM
101

Oh. He's trying to be frugal. Goddess help us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:18 AM
74

Yeah, I don't get it either. It sounds pathological.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:40 AM
253

It's so rotten. What is the point of hiding hair in soap? Let it wash down the drain. Psychiatrist needed STAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:14 AM
150

Absolutely not, zero tolerance always. Guaranteed he is watching it everyday, not "a few times a month." Apart from the trafficked girls and women and the violent and degrading sex depicted, porn addicts are as permanently brain damaged as drug addicts. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:27 AM
44

Porn sickness causes permanent damage of the frontal lobe. Much like drug abuse, the damage can never be repaired. The frontal lobe is involved with decision making, will power and empathy. The more they use porn, the more grey matter they destroy, the more unlikely it is they will quit. It is why even ex addicts are basically a no go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:44 PM
287

Note how they have had previous discussions about him getting therapy. There is way more to this than he is telling us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:35 PM
90

Let him die or divorce him. Whichever comes first. Win/win either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:14 AM
116

How can he be honest if he can't even spell the word?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:12 AM
28

Wow, that is next level. So glad you got out of it relatively ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:23 AM
56

And this was 7 years ago. Men have got way more aggressive since then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:50 AM
342

He probably doesn't use much TP coz he never wipes his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:49 AM
193

First thing I noticed. Way to tell us right at the start that you see your girlfriend as an appliance like THE vacuum, THE microwave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:49 AM
51

Yep. There are so many aggressive types out there who think women owe them their time just for existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:34 AM
50

So gross. Hope she doesn't give in or get baby trapped. She should get on a birth control that can't be tampered with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:33 AM
166

A guy found me once when I said I was "2 minutes away." He drove around the neighbourhood until he spotted my car then bashed on the door. LESSON LEARNED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:50 AM
22

DEAD 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:48 AM
40

Not only do they exist, there are a LOT of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:43 AM
207

What a success story! Girlfriend gets rid of a scrote and learns FDS principles so well, she becomes a mod!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:50 AM
36

😂😂😂😂 Gold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:41 AM
75

He's definitely a subscriber. I thought he probably follows someone who looks like OP and was trying to get her to admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 02:12 AM
147

FDS always says to NEVER pay for that first date and to always leave when this happens. You can still eat and then tell the waitress you will only be paying for what you actually consume and to split the bill that way. Block and delete at the table or as soon as you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:28 AM
552

Block them. You didn't respond right away so he's "punishing" you by making you wait until tomorrow. Who needs this childishness in their life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 02:42 AM
134

They all look so dusty except the one she picked. Even the one she picked said he "might call her." She can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:51 PM
163

Also, if a female actress let herself go like Leo has, she would never work again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 07:43 AM
31

The only time you see a glimpse of old Leo is when he smiles. Which he hardly does in this movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 07:42 AM
181

There is a reason you don't want to have sex with him. You're exhausted with a new baby and so called "great guy" is likely not pulling his weight. Does he let you sleep in when he's available in the morning for childcare so you can make up for your huge sleep deficit dealing with a newborn? Does he do extra chores to make up for all the childcare you are doing? Don't feel bad about going through his phone. I think you haven't gone through his phone ENOUGH. Look for apps you don't recognise or c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:54 AM
213

He's an utter creep in real life. Can't believe he hasn't been cancelled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:22 AM
3

Yes, being an introvert doesn't mean you are shy or socially awkward, just that you find most people exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:14 AM
44

I LOVE Flip the rooster. Animals seem to be more evolved than human males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:29 AM
756

I LOVE how Hollywood for once gave Leo an age appropriate wife and grown ass kids. Like most nearly 50 married with kids parents. I couldn't get over how much he looked like your average middle aged guy in the street, with the beer gut, old man ass and scruffy beard. I also love that his affair partner is also age appropriate, not some 20 something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:26 AM
16

It's sad to see someone so young, so ignorant. I have hopes that the youngest generation will change things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:14 AM
140

Yes, 90 percent of leadership positions are filled by men. This is THEIR mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:27 PM
705

It's absolutely true. Women were meant to be the leaders, the matriarchs. We would decide who was fit to breed with us. Men are not fit to lead. They have enslaved women and destroyed our planet with their uncontrollable rage and need to hump everything like an unneutered dog. They simply can't control their emotions (anger, envy, pride.) They were meant to protect us, the matriarchs and our offspring from predatory animals and contribute labour for the gift of continuing their DNA via said offs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:27 AM
12

Thank you. I feel very badly for her and any potential child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:06 AM
9

If she was here, I would get the police to do a mental health check visit. Can you do that there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:29 AM
21

Do you know her family? Someone with severe mental health issues is not able to consent. If she does get pregnant, the baby will get taken from her. Her family needs to step in and get her help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:27 AM
30

The mum in me was shouting "get your fingers out of your mouth, you will get a virus" 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:12 AM
105

Like he hasn't already looked it up and had multiple fap sessions over it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:06 AM
97

That incessant compulsive porn use has rotted their brains. They have regressed to sub primate levels. If they were animals, they would be put down for being dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:05 AM
84

I have an older woman at work who does this. I always tell her to speak up and stop muttering. It's like she thinks everything she is saying is highly confidential. I'm a quiet introvert, but I speak at the same voice volume as any man. Fuck them if they don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:30 AM
109

I looked up Cage because I thought he was way older than 57. Turns out he turned 58 today 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:53 AM
41

The fact that men have got away with murder using the consensual rough sex defence should put off any woman for life. The woman is no longer around to state if she did actually consent to get choked to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:35 PM
13

Please dm me a link to that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:29 PM
93

I know a woman who's been engaged for over 20 years. He's cheating on her with a work colleague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:17 AM
54

I had to shut off that chomping man baby, his whining was irritating as fuck. All I could hear was "wah wah I can't force my wife to do what I want." Be safe OP, he gives me bad vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:11 AM
116

She has an eating disorder and he is exacerbating it. He is pure evil and I hope he gets grab asssed in hell for eternity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:31 AM
55

Nothing definitive at this point, mostly articles from hair loss businesses. I love to say it though, it annoys the shit out of them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:21 AM
82

So glad she left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:46 PM
31

What a QUEEN love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:30 PM
88

Also Peyronies disease and early male pattern baldness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:27 PM
133

Beards disgust me. Now I can say it's because they give you skin infections as well as the fact that they are usually ungroomed messes hiding a weak chin and jawline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:08 AM
26

Who he voted for in the last election, what he thinks about climate change, abortion rights (gives me an idea of how left or right he is.) His longest relationship, who he lives with, if he's employed (gives me an idea of how much of an adult he is.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:30 AM
123

I think I just got PTSD from an imagined visual of sex with that yellow toothed, scraggly beard, small dick man 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:22 AM
24

I'm in my forties. They all look like they are over 60.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:24 AM
23

There is a radfem subreddit that doesn't allow men that is growing r/fourthwavewomen All the rest allow men and are moderated by men. I'm pretty much banned from every feminist subreddit from stating redfem ideology like sex work isn't empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:44 AM
74

Now I'm wondering if the reason men look so awful in my age group on OLD is because they are actually 10 years older 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:31 AM
13

He looks like an overweight Justin Bieber
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:24 AM
72

If they talk about sex workers then they frequent them. Same if they follow lots of Only Fans women on Instagram. They definitely subscribe. Caught one out today who was trying to chat me up by going through who he was following. He readily admitted to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 01:21 PM
68

John's are the WORST. Actually, all men with J names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 12:28 PM
51

I don't think they stop trying at 25, I think they NEVER tried. It was just youth and a fast metabolism that kept them looking attractive and then the lifetime of neglect starts to show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 12:11 PM
22

They're probably in front of a screen wanking in the dark 24/7 to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 10:53 AM
1

The workplace has opened my eyes to how revolting your average male is. More so than my train wreck past relationships. Apart from the outright cheating; there is the constant flirting and sexual harassment. Mediocre men being promoted over more qualified women. Mediocre women being promoted if they are banging the right manager. Then just the constant racism, homophoia and misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:48 AM
28

I saw one with an attractive face but he was wearing socks with sandals. Instant ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:20 AM
75

I find that gay men look after themselves physically. Sydney has a large gay population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:01 AM
27

Are there any movements to get arranged marriage made illegal? That article is so sad to read. Those poor innocent angels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:41 AM
65

Yes, all the men in my age bracket are hideous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:38 AM
154

Your last sentence is pretty much your average guy I see here in Australia. I saw a total of TWO attractive men last year and they were in their early twenties. They seem to hit a wall around age 24 to 24 when they can't coast on their genes and youth and have to make an actual effort to look good. I so wish arranged marriage would be outlawed everywhere. If this was was case though, do you think there would be a huge increase in female infanticide?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:21 AM
39

She needs an FDS rescue. I'm going to see if I can message her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:54 PM
25

I don't believe anything a man says without proof. I'm one hundred percent a cynic when it comes to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:29 PM
13

He's a cheater. Totally LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:54 AM
28

Just a reminder that Australian men are awful. Proud of that Queen. My NVX died owing me child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:39 AM
23

They are actual predators. Glad you're safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:10 AM
39

If he wanted to be such a great example to his "two little men" he should have worked harder on the marriage and stayed with their mum. Mothers don't leave when their kids are small unless there is a huge defect with the man. I wonder if he did this stuff when they were actually together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:29 AM
26

Divine Goddess here, I agree 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:51 PM
6

Lilith is a QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:49 PM
19

I read it. It sounds like you're blaming mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:44 PM
7

Thank you 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:42 AM
4

Yes, he has zero respect for commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:09 AM
9

Never get involved with someone who has a partner, especially one they are living with. If he hasn't moved out then they are still together. And if they did break up, why would you want to be with someone who is fresh out of a long-term relationship? It takes years to recover and process all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:53 AM
10

How do you know for sure any of these conversations actually happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:51 AM
42

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you, well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:43 AM
11

I had one message me "how do I please my girlfriend if I have a really small penis?" I told him to get really, really good at oral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:17 AM
24

That video is just offensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:15 AM
37

Poor young children, not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:58 AM
28

I'm a single mum of a son. That weird pseudo husband thing would never happen. I point out low value behaviour with him constantly and have got him levelling up. I also give my son and daughter talks about the patriarchy a lot, much to their annoyance. Parts of it gets through though, I've heard them quoting back to me or their friends. I would also never take his money. Being high value means being self supporting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:29 AM
2

I did say most, not all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:46 AM
6

Good call. Men still involved with an ex are a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:14 PM
3

In any of those scenarios, it's a block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:07 PM
15

Most boomers are disgusting, I can't wait for thay generation to die off. I'm Gen X. I sadly grew up with these idiots as my parents, teachers, bosses etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 02:59 PM
2

This all sounds like a fantasy lol. You might find one guy in a million who will happily parent step kids but two? Nah sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 02:57 PM
18

I'd say they aren't really divorced or he's still sleeping with her. Men barely look after their own kids, let alone step kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:49 PM
50

I'm an older woman with children. My identity was never wrapped up in being a mother. I rarely discuss my kids with work colleagues, even though they bore me to death talking about theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:38 PM
38

Definitely my mantra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:24 PM
50

Yes, I felt scared for her. It's like a stranger danger commercial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:23 AM
174

Yeah, we're done with the whiplash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:42 AM
179

"Cannot compete in their own age group"..BURN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:41 AM
195

"Your happiness is worth any price"....gosh that slightly melted my cold, dead heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:15 PM
157

Life is short and so is he.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:06 AM
3

They were a lot younger than me. I saw exactly zero men in their forties who were attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:05 AM
7

We need to bring back shame. One hundred years ago, this man would be absolutely shamed by everyone in his community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:49 AM
18

I saw two attractive men in all of 2021.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:35 PM
14

I did a post on so called sexual incompatibility, it's complete bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:33 PM
9

We know we can get sex any time we want. What we can't get is SATISFYING sex with a man we find attractive. If we were happy to fuck animals, McChickens and cum rags then we would be incels I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:37 PM
47

How does she know he doesn't have a second phone? Has she gone through all his files and downloads? Accessed his secret and locked files and apps? I really don't think so. She knows he's a POS because she was compelled to do an extensive search through his phone. Everyone can see she's deluding herself. She will wake up when he leaves her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:29 PM
21

He didn't tell her he loved her until AFTER they broke up. He's so exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:56 AM
36

99 percent of rapes are perpetrated by MEN. That is a statistical fact. The smaller men have a huge chip on their shoulder from being stunted so they are definitely raping too. A man the same height as me is 40 percent stronger than me. My mum used to say stupid shit like this but she learned after getting schooled by me every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:17 AM
38

I vet everyone in my life. Pick mes can be dangerous, they are gatekeepers and enablers for abusive men. Honestly, I would quit that group and find a new one or start your own. They all sound disgusting and I hope karma blows their lives apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:27 AM
52

Tell them to stop pushing ugly old men on to you. If you were interested in geriatrics, you would trawl for old D at a nursing home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:20 AM
5

This guy sounds disgusting and like he might be much older than you. I feel like he was taking advantage of your youth. My advice would be don't have male friends. Ever. They don't do platonic, there are ALWAYS ulterior motives. Also, when they get a girlfriend, they disappear like your worst pick me friend. Utterly worthless at best and traumatic abuser at worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:12 AM
237

If you agree to go to a man's house or have him at yours, he will think it's for sex, no matter what you say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 10:05 AM
10

Dudes say a lot of stuff. Doesn't mean any of it is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:56 AM
10

I noticed that in the conversation too. That woman does not sound intelligent in that conversation. I thought she was actually OP and I was wondering how an FDS member could fall for such obvious love bombing and future faking. I was cringing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:55 AM
19

Oh God yes. The men I work with are repulsive. Grey skin, wrinkles, wild scraggly beards and beer guts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:05 AM
48

How many attractive women did you see? I see them every day. Men have really dropped the ball on grooming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:44 AM
85

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. Men are raised to see women as less than them, almost as sub human. They then have the cognitive dissonance of being attracted to and wanting to fck them. Cognitive dissonance is a difficult state for a brain to be in. It's probably one of the reasons most of them are mentally ill, violent assholes. Most women, despite how we are treated from birth, don't hate men. I didn't either until about 3 years ago when I started to get heavily into feminism and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:22 AM
9

I hate wearing bracelets, I never do. A heavy jangling teenage looking charm bracelet would be the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:40 AM
63

Has she though? I hope she has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:49 AM
174

Like being adopted is so trauma free for a child 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:49 AM
235

Talk about dating down. I feel embarrassed for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:47 AM
146

The guy in that video looks really, really short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:46 AM
43

Yes, I'm sure TRP members could describe accurately how to piss with an acorn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:47 AM
43

I think he would have to plant his hands on the door and lean forward or risk pissing on himself. Gosh, I'm getting this ick so hard and I didn't even date him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:26 AM
31

Did it get much bigger when he was hard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:15 AM
115

I have never believed this, even when boys were trying to use it as a reason to have sex when I was a teenager. I laughed in their face and told them to have a wank like a normal person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:14 AM
25

Disgusting how little self control so many of them have. Actually deforming yourself because you can't stop fapping to paid rape. They all deserve this and way, way more. Disabled monkeys with no impulse control. I see this as well deserved karma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:18 AM
19

Pffffttt they don't even raise their own kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:11 AM
81

I hope they are all telling him what a useless POS he is in the comments. Like he can't control being lazy. In the bin with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:45 AM
44

That was my fave part too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:44 AM
8

My son can cook better than I can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:18 AM
47

Same. I couldn't watch it. She is obviously a longterm victim of abuse, she looks completely defeated. He is gross looking with dead psychopath eyes, a tiny head and no chin. RANK 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:04 PM
288

I wouldn't date a guy who was close to his ex. He's either fcking her or wanting to fck her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:17 AM
25

I don't reveal those either or scrotes will fake them. I only share them with my daughter and other women, more as a teachable moment as to why a certain standard is a good idea to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:43 AM
4

How old is this kid who is having sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 03:10 AM
3

I said the dog was the least of the red flags. She put her children at risk with a violent man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:10 AM
23

They look like creepy dolls. One reminds me of Betsey Wetsey, the crying doll. We know how men like to fuck inanimate objects so this is obviously pandering to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:08 AM
1

Couldn't have said it better myself 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:49 PM
26

Yes, the bar is so horribly low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:22 PM
27

All that you listed is just bare minimum to me. The basics of what you need to be an adult human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:56 AM
11

It shows that he doesn't value her at all, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:50 AM
15

She said he was well groomed in his photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:41 AM
6

I have children too and I don't want a dog. I still love dogs and still feel sorry for the dog in this story. I hope it finds a good home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:37 AM
13

She enjoyed a nice coffee on a beautiful sunny morning here, scrote free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:33 AM
10

Yes, I will never travel to India either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:13 AM
27

The icing on the cake of this story is that the cheating husband is now in prison for manslaughter. Scrotes gonna scrote. Sad someone else had to die for scrote to get karma. link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:09 AM
13

I feel so sorry for that poor dog. Honestly think there is something wrong with people who don't like dogs and I'm a cat person. All the reasons she should have noped out with this guy, but it was the poor innocent puppy that made her leave. She sounds like a huge pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:36 AM
41

I feel like I haven't been brutal enough if I don't get one of those Reddit Cares messages at least once a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:32 AM
220

Thankfully he told on himself so quickly and didn't waste too much of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:21 AM
38

My former marriage too. Hell on earth. A prison with no release for good behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 02:15 AM
64

Get a female room-mate. He sounds exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 02:10 AM
22

With the thoughts you are having, do you think you are ready to date? It takes time to move on from a long term relationship. Years in some cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:30 AM
85

I used to buy gifts and remind my ex husband about birthdays early in our marriage. Then I stopped. Who do you think got the blame? "Why didn't you remind me/ buy a gift?" "Do you buy gifts for my family? No. So why do I have to buy them for yours because I have a v@gina? Buy gifts for your own damn family." Of course, hus family blamed me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:48 AM
22

When I unwrapped "Superstar Barbie" as a very small child. I thought she was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:44 AM
54

Just wait for her to come back to you. Deep down, she knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:42 AM
39

"What do you bring to the table?" "Dude, I AM the damn table." Block. Delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:38 AM
258

He's probably given her the heads up about you. I can hear the conversation now. "My crazy ex will try and message you and tell you that I fcked her insane ass. She's obsessed babe. I think she might be dangerous to us both. Just block her babe. She's just jealous because I never loved her like I love you." If she comes back, please speak to her. She is going through the trauma of this man just like you did. Pity her. Give time to women trying to become scrote free. Block scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:19 AM
68

Why should we give away our labour for free? Men don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 01:46 PM
17

It sounds like you want to meet someone to get a new housemate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:45 AM
121

It's sadly so true which makes it even more disturbing. The last one especially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:12 AM
7

He lives with his mum in his forties and doesn't pay child support to his ex. Still not as bad as my actual ex husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:11 AM
21

I thought that would be the case. Disgusting. Block them all, sis. Your ex too, he's useless in every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:10 AM
50

Tell his family member to mind their own business and block them. Oh wow, your ex gave his kids money. They are HIS kids! Does he pay child support? My ex only gave the kids 50 bucks cash here and there. No child support. Meanwhile I'm paying thousands to shelter, feed, clothe and educate them. Best thing about separating from my NV ex husband was blocking all of his hideous family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:58 AM
119

Personally, I'm shrugging. I minimise actively the amount of emotional and unpaid labour I will contribute and my mental health has never been better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:53 AM
349

Those cartoons are extremely disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:51 AM
12

Yes, some gang shoot out. She has worse taste in men than me and that's saying something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:46 AM
40

I briefly downloaded Bumble recently and my eyeballs felt assaulted by all the bloated, fat, unwashed, hairy and very, very short over 40 men. Deleted it soon after. If that's what's available, hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:08 AM
56

I encounter many of them at work and I was married to one. I recognise those dead eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:45 AM
175

JLo has the worst taste in men. Affleck still looks like he's drinking to me. He has that bloated waxy skinned alcoholic face. Rank. Of course the cheating POS blamed his wife for the divorce. It couldn't possibly be sticking his dick in the kids nanny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:05 AM
3

You said unemployed yet "somehow self sufficient" which implied you didn't know how he was making ends meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:42 PM
24

It's not called "helping" when you are cleaning your own house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:39 PM
14

A man who dumps a woman once he thinks he has levelled up doesn't see a woman as a fully formed human being. These types are abusive so no loss there. There are ALWAYS red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:24 PM
103

I had a little crush on this guy and then he wore socks with sandals 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:09 PM
108

Your dad is right. Men and women can't be friends. He is using you for emotional validation. Nothing more. If he was actually interested in you, he would have asked you on a date in the EIGHT years you have known him. Grey Rock him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:02 PM
31

How was he self sufficient with no job? Parents? Crypto bro? Drug dealer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:29 PM
39

Thanks so much for the blonde tiny penis I asked for! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:24 PM
6

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:22 PM
112

He has short man energy though. Scurrying like a squirrel is definitely short behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:44 PM
137

He sounds short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:05 PM
19

So much YES. It's the man in this story who is married, not the woman. She's a terrible pick me but he's breaking actual vows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:49 AM
12

He would have baby trapped you if he could have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:36 AM
12

Is Eden the one who impregnated a contestant from MAFS and then proceeded to get restraining orders against her? I couldn't keep watching these shows. They were so depressing, the utter steaming bags of shit the men were. The women were mostly lovely. The producers should be sued. I don't know why the women in the shows so aggressively pursue these very mediocre, disgusting men. Do they shit money and breathe through their ears?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:27 AM
14

A blonde doing the tiny penis gesture 😂 I love the expression of the woman with straight brown hair at the bottom. Great work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:21 AM
51

All my stuff can only be accessed by passwords. I don't trust facial recognition and now I see there is good reason. I made my cheating scrote boss freak out by telling him that people have got past facial recognition with photos and a lot of cheaters have got caught that way. He spent the rest of the day testing it out and I laughed on the inside with glee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:15 AM
83

"I think about hurting people all the time". Me - " you should get therapy for that." Leaves and calls the police to get him on a watch list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:10 AM
290

Do not date him. My ex husband hated his dad for leaving his mum and 5 kids to run off with a woman younger than my ex. He swore he would never do the same. Reader, he did. Cheating has become normalised to him when his brain was still forming. RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:50 AM
12

Yeah, but those seeds will be planted and she will dwell on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 06:36 AM
11

I would leave cheaper products at my exes place, cutting my losses in case we broke up. Yes, I was a 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:40 AM
41

Your mum is deluded. Women giving men a chance gets them emotionally scarred at best, raped and murdered at worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:32 AM
30

I dated one too who was supposedly sober but was using all along. This was before I found out how the damage it does to your brain lasts for life and ex addicts are undateable. Never known an ex meth addict to not relapse. Imagine having this guy as the father of your children. His has no empathy. His sperm have damaged DNA. His offspring can have all sorts of disabilities because of his defective sperm. Maybe she will consider the thought of raising kids with disabilities and a husband who will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:29 AM
37

I make comments like "ewww he's old enough to be your dad." Or " when you're 47 he will be 75. Do you think he will be senile then? Maybe you can stick him in an old people's home."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:32 AM
40

What does she think is going to happen if she has a kid with this man? I work with long term meth addicts. He will develop schizophrenia if he hasn't already plus his frontal lobe cortex is destroyed. He will struggle to have feelings or empathy. She is marrying a robot. Plus amphetamines are a drug that has a huge relapse rate. 1 year off is nothing if that's even true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:29 AM
34

What a queen that poster was. Perfect reaction to a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:30 AM
26

28 in dog years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:09 AM
16

It had many links to actual statistics of marriage and divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:06 AM
13

Snap! Men in Australia have that same spent, balding, dead eyes look too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:03 AM
14

The first thing I would do would be to address the alcohol addiction and the depression. Medication really helps. Also therapy to address why you have the addiction in the first place. You're still in the breakup period, so the depression may be solely because of that. You should be kind to yourself. You deserve to be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:53 AM
32

I will only see women now for any health care needs. I have had enough of creepy doctors and other health care providers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:41 AM
22

Please tell me that the comments are telling her to leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:39 AM
168

If I saw a woman alone who is looking her absolute best, I would assume she was meeting someone there for a date and leave her alone. But then I'm not an idiot man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:21 AM
5

I'm so sorry this happened to you. They are disgusting, they always abuse any power they have. I'm trying to find female coworkers at my next job but it's hard in my field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:40 AM
11

My boss is having an affair with the receptionist and a manager in the office next to me is having an affair with his subordinate. Meanwhile they have SAH wives thinking their man is only going to the office so he must be faithful. Men disgust me at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:21 AM
18

I only answer questions they ask me and offer no assistance when they complain about some work issue that isn't my job. I don't hang out and chat and stroke their egos like all the other pick mes. I give them a blank face when they try and make me their therapist. It is easier for me to disengage as I'm looking for another job. I despise the men I work with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:33 AM
106

I used to have male friends and a male bestie when I was a pick me. Men don't do real friendship with women. That is because a lot of them don't see us as fully actualised human beings like they do with other men. We are objects to be sexualised and squandered for our free labour. I will never do male friendship again and I greyrock all my male work colleagues apart from one who is high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:36 AM
40

NONE OF IT. Hentai is literally cartoonised child porn. BLOCK AND DELETE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:35 AM
231

Basically that guy is saying he's lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 11:49 PM
80

The video isn't available in my country. From your description, this girl is desperately seeking male validation. Who taught her that? I'm guessing mum. I also doubt that her "blunt" conversation was blunt enough. I was absolutely brutal in my description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:52 AM
177

I talked to my children very early on about the types of people (let's be honest, men) who take advantage of kids. I told them it's like how it was when I was a kid (offering candy or a puppy to get in the car) but now they do it online. I told them that you never know who is speaking to you on the other side of that screen. You might think you are talking to a cute 14 year old boy but in reality it's a 60 year old paedophile wanting to jerk off to pictures of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:42 AM
14

Absolutely detest weddings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:41 PM
53

Yes, my house has never been tidier and I still have my kids living with me. I don't ever want to live with a man again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:32 PM
81

You're just an unpaid slave who will never get any thanks or recognition for all the work you do. Especially the behind the scenes stuff that useless husband never sees like appointments and play dates and scheduling for kids and family events.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:31 PM
30

100 creme eggs! I would have been cursing him, they are soooo good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:07 PM
123

I was married for many years. I don't recommend it. I never would again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:00 PM
13

Boyfriend is a LV POS, it's not that complicated. Pretty sure Satan would think his work was done; this scote can't sink any lower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:07 AM
5

I thought it was a autocorrect error at first, but nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:05 AM
28

Especially when very few men are worth any effort at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:11 AM
77

"Do men lie?" Is the pope Catholic? Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:07 AM
176

What a vile, deceitful POS that man is. I hope his girlfriend leaves him asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:02 AM
44

Is this a fake account made by a man? Surely no woman could be this stupid 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:00 AM
68

Women should boycott clubs at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:00 AM
111

The men here in Australia are bullshit too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:55 PM
66

I wish I could have that done in needlework and put on my wall 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:55 PM
17

I get told that a lot. At this point, who cares what pickmes and scrotes think? I just ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:53 PM
13

Gosh, that sounds wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:52 PM
14

LOVE your user name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:34 PM
22

Love the aberrant chimps analogy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:28 PM
16

Four months and you have only seen him seven times?! I think this guy has a roster. He's already putting you on the backfoot so you try and "earn" that spark. Block and delete sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:20 PM
103

This man is dangerous. What's the bet he has another family somewhere, probably where his pretend brother is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:16 PM
23

So many women have drunk the koolaid in regards to liberal feminism. I had pick mes pile on me yesterday because I questioned a woman picking up a man for a first date. I said it was like she was his mother and he obviously didn't value her as he wasn't making his best effort. I got called sexist. I get the same when I suggest women shouldn't chase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:11 PM
22

Sooooo much mediocrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:08 PM
409

It never works. It puts you on the backfoot because men don't think you're being some "yay equality" progressive libfem. They just think you're desperate and there must be something wrong with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:18 AM
111

I'm Australian. Turn him in NOW. He sounds dangerous. Men like him put me off working in the FIFO industry and I bet a lot of women have quit over men like him. He's trying to get you to quit. He's angry he got called out over his sexism and he wants to make you pay. The FIFO industry has been in the news this year because of sexual assaults and harassment and they are finally being taken to task. Please be safe. Report him now. He needs to be stood down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:57 AM
18

I work in mental health and a lot of people end up with psychiatric disorders due to meth. Not to mention the physical damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:12 AM
44

Have known a few to get meth addictions because of a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:07 AM
23

What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:07 AM
92

SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:38 AM
61

You will get banned from a lot of subreddits for being a member here or using FDS terminology like scrote. I got a comment removed saying it was red pill language just for using that word. Most of these subreddits are filled with LV and NVM, pickemes and libfems. No great loss, in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:37 AM
31

No. Being a single mum has been way easier than dealing with my POS NV ex husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:36 PM
8

What an actual disgrace. I would disown him if he was my son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:34 PM
23

I never changed my name and I'm so happy I didn't. The only thing I regret is giving my kids his last name. I did all the work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:24 PM
185

What an actual fucking idiot. I hope she got ripped in the replies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:47 AM
67

Bin him sis. He screams scrote. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:23 AM
66

I just don't like the word in general. Sounds kind of boomerish. I would block him for that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:22 AM
52

I hope that scrote is getting a lot of rough sex in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:11 AM
77

The moment she should have had this talk was BEFORE sex and BEFORE forgoing condoms. She's too old to be this stupid. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:58 AM
42

He knew the moment he laid eyes on her. He just stuck around to see if she was a 3 date gal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 11:40 PM
2

Yes bur only if the kids were grown up like mine. If I was under 30, I would absolutely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:49 AM
28

I've never had such a peaceful life than the last three years being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:30 AM
13

To me, it's that a man meets the basic requirements of being an adult which includes having a job that can support them. A woman also needs a job that can support her and her children if she needs to leave a LVM. A man's character is what makes him HV to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:12 AM
10

He saw himself as her stepdad. He was trying to get to me though her. My daughter blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:32 AM
25

Maybe he had a girlfriend all along. There are a large amount of men with wives and girlfriends on OD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:46 AM
18

I just got a dick pic from an ex from three years ago. Another sent a message to my daughter. They are pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:20 AM
18

So here for this comment 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:44 AM
27

You're right to dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:38 AM
20

Freemasons are POS too even though they will tell you they are mainly a charity and help people. I think they just help their fellow brothers or people they owe or can do them favours. Source - family, in laws and coworkers are members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:24 AM
19

Also the high rate of domestic violence perps within the police force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:22 AM
23

SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:59 AM
23

Did he actually move into your house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:58 AM
22

That's not Seth Rogan, just some other fat, hairy middle aged guy 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:46 AM
50

He had syphilis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:47 AM
22

I fully agree with you. Learned this the hard way with my NVX. You need to be in a good headspace to start anything new, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:34 AM
5

80k isn't enough to support a family in my country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:30 PM
132

I'm so sorry, my American sisters. If our current government in Australia gets another term, we will be heading down the same path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:28 PM
72

He wasn't in the right frame of mind to start a relationship with at the very beginning with his mum passing. The ruthless strategy would be to blockand delete him right at the beginning. In a more empathic way of course, but this relationship should have never happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:27 PM
16

A NVM apparently 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 02:06 AM
22

I always say "yes, hopefully" or "you say that like it's a bad thing." I want to normalise being single as a valid choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:25 PM
59

My ex used my gorgeous new throw rug to wipe pizza grease out his hands. I kicked him out after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:32 PM
14

I've always preferred younger but not too young. Late thirties to early forties. But they are all chasing twenty somethings 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:51 AM
21

An easy question to ask is are you on Instagram? See if he's following Only Fans and other sex workers Say your battery has died on your phone and can you borrow his for a second? Then do a quick search.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:42 AM
38

The ones my age are mostly gross too. They all look 20 years older than they are due to not looking after themselves. If you don't wear sunscreen in my country, I ages you a LOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:08 AM
108

I'm over 40 too. When a guy in his 60s or 70s approaches me I say "ewwww you're older than my dad, gross." I like to take them down a few pegs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:31 PM
27

It's always a red flag and a block and delete for me. I had an argument with a pick me that her boyfriends lie about which college he went to was only because she went to a better one and he felt insecure. I told her that one hundred percent of abusers are insecure. That the lies you caught are the tip of the iceberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:21 AM
15

I think one thing all criminals would have in common is that they lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:26 AM
63

You think a man lying to you is NOT a red flag?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:53 AM
24

It's not even a van, it's an SUV. Feral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:14 PM
7

Please get a good lawyer ASAP and terminate this marriage before your business becomes any larger. He will absolutely try and take some of it from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:53 AM
14

I'm guessing he will move back in with his parents. He's a parasite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:51 AM
15

Sorry that happened to you, I can relate so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:11 PM
74

My last ex treated his pets WAY better than me. I was less than them in the hierarchy although I did so much for the scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:34 PM
205

I never look at love of animals as a HV quality. Lots of terrible men have loved their pets including Hitler, Ted Bundy and Harvey Weinstein.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:08 PM
25

We are taking something from them, but they never deserved it in the first place. Ever. Since the beginning of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:26 AM
45

I'm all for it 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:02 AM
77

Women weren't allowed to do anything, we were literally property. No better off than slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:47 AM
65

It's an ego boost. Future faking so she becomes invested and then he pulls out the rug from under her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:42 AM
20

If you were my daughter, I would be so proud of your accomplishments, becoming a lawyer after your family had escaped from a war torn country. You mother sounds very old fashioned. I can sympathise as mine is a boomer and a devout Catholic. She knows if she comes at me with her patriarchal religious beliefs I will shut her down and ghost her. I think you need to do the same with yours. She's not good for your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:17 AM
45

I'm in my forties and made a similar mistake when I connected with am old highschool friend I had a small crush on back then. He was in his forties and never married, no kids. I initiated the contact and God that put me on the backfoot with the whole interaction. He kept asking to come over for coffee and then asked for drinks and coffee dates. This was all pre FDS but even my pick me self knew this was reallyow effort. I should have binned him at the suggestion of coming over for coffee. Anyway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:42 AM
91

I think this guy is a very good actor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:03 PM
10

I just had a bot remove my comment because it thinks I'm male!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:36 AM
15

Yes, she's totally supporting him financially. He could have lots of side businesses that are cash in hand. He's just a lazy scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:34 AM
51

The fact that I'm still sexually attracted to men proves that sexuality isn't a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:33 AM
9

Yes, I definitely have to take breaks. I take breaks from the news too, it's just too upsetting. A guy here murdered his wife and got his charge reduced to manslaughter because he said she was cheating on him. She's not around to verify that. Imagine if she had murdered him, she would have been in jail for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:09 AM
27

Honestly, I would take a medium value man if I was ready to date but they don't seem in abundance either. It's just LVM as far as the eyes can see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:12 AM
38

You sound young. You have every chance in the world to level up and stay strict with your standards and boundaries. I would stay single for a while if I were you, and work on myself. You deserve a man who acts like an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:09 AM
98

You know what FDS says with parasites which is totally what your scrote is. Block and delete. If he was so loving and wonderful, he would have got a job by now. He knows it's an issue and he is a fully grown man bordering on middle aged. You are supporting a fully grown man. Imagine having kids with this person. It won't get better. In my stupid youth, I married a frequently unemployed person. I had kids with this person. I remember crying in the shower because he had "lost" our last twenty doll…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:06 AM
146

He's using you. He knew. He's lazy and getting a free ride with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:59 AM
73

Do you find it really depressing? The deeper I dive, the more I realise how the system has been against women from the beginning and how much most men hate women. The problem is, once your eyes are opened you can't go back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:07 AM
170

After my last breakup, I decided my choice in men was hideous and I needed to be single for a while. 3 years later man free and I'm loving the freedom and the peace. My life is so drama free now. I also got more and more into feminism after my last breakup. I'm pretty much a radfem now. Men seem redundant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:08 PM
73

He probably had a date lined up there with someone else or goes there regularly with his girlfriend. Didn't want to chance the waiters blurting something out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:32 AM
76

Keanu is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:16 AM
44

My kids are actually adults. I have watched a few game walk throughs he did but years ago. My daughter follows FDS but she likes Pewdiepie so I was curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:52 AM
90

1 - bad sign. Probably has nudes and didn't want you to scroll. 2 - My kids love Pewdiepie so not sure what he's done. But yes, following scrotes is a very bad sign. 3 - he thinks this behaviour is OK and actually commendable. Bad sign x 100. Block and delete all the men in your three examples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:22 AM
264

It's your boyfriends family, he should be shutting them down about their blatant disrespect of you. If he considers you as wife material, then why isn't he standing up for you? I don't think this looks good for your future together. I had horrible inlaws. Biggest red flag before I married my ex and I ignored it thinking "well ex isn't like them." He WAS like them, just took a few years to show it. It's hard to unlearn childhood indoctrination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:18 AM
11

No. I look back now and think are friendship was bullshit and he was very much a fuckboy. He used to tell me some horror stories and I would tell him off but I should have cut him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:29 AM
8

This is one of my vetting questions before we meet. If he's right wing then he is straight in the bin. If he professes to be left wing or a feminist ally then various questions can ascertain if that is actually true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:10 AM
45

My last male bestie ghosted me when he got a serious girlfriend. Never again. I keep males to acquaintances at best now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:52 PM
1

He wore sweatpants to a date. She should have walked out at right there. She said she wasn't attracted to him. Any further time spent with him was a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 11:29 PM
16

He's shit on SNL, he always seems like he is on multiple valiums chased with a shitload of weed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 12:05 PM
81

He's not just all the things described above, he's a drug addict. Kaia Gerber's parents had to rescue her from him when he was in the middle of a meth induced psychosis. This man isn't just LV, he's dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:34 AM
43

He definitely has another woman or women, hence the not posting on social media on the account she actually knows about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:44 AM
19

Yes, I get the same, mostly from other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:23 AM
43

Gosh, I actively encourage my daughter to NEVER use dating apps. I downloaded one this year in a bored moment and JFC. What a dumpster fire hellscape. It has gotten at least ten times worse than when I was last on there a few years ago. Your mum has absolutely no idea. If she had on her profile "just wanting to have fun" she would be drowned in dickpics and sexual harassment. My own mother wouldn't dare encourage me to get a man because she gets a barrage of radfem rhetoric and called a handmaid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:23 AM
5

She should report him for vandalism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:37 AM
275

I think the erectile dysfunction would be the main reason for them quitting, not any thought or care for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:01 AM
23

I've heard from LVM that they love the thrill.of the chase more than the actual sex. That's why they always go after someone new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:41 PM
27

I wish I could link him to my post about sexual compatibility 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 02:19 AM
20

This comment is everything 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:32 PM
47

What's the bet she paid half?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:47 AM
2

I just read it. What a day to be literate 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:02 AM
25

Mine is 19. I started talking to her about this stuff pretty early, I would say she was probably 12. I wasn't so graphic then but I drove home how manipulative males are to get sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:55 PM
46

Thank you so much. I wish my mum had been like me. Mine was "don't have sex before marriage" and that was basically it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:20 PM
18

Oh God, dare I ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:18 PM
8

Yeah, my mother could never explain this one either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:21 AM
67

I had a long term marriage and I would have been so much better off if I had stayed single for life. Men have destroyed my life and I have a strong aversion to them as a consequence My daughter is bisexual and I have strongly encouraged her to choose women for love and forget men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:21 AM
45

Vet a potential employer like you would vet any man and don't reveal trauma or problems with previous employers. The FDS principles work very well when used at work or to find a new job. I'm looking for a new job at the moment. Each potential employer has had multiple red flags come up. I would have ignored them in the past and ended up working for another abusive lunatic like my current boss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:54 AM
36

What a terrible story. Can you rescue her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:48 AM
72

Yes, a man who can't kiss will be terrible in bed. I've never gone further if they can't kiss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:39 AM
23

My mother said if I was giving birth and it was a choice between my life or the baby's then God would want me to choose the baby. Love how Catholics and churchie types think they can speak for God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:38 AM
63

She realises. I'm quite brutal in my assessments of men and their motives, particularly the ones she's interested in. She is kind of losing hope of ever meeting a HVM. I've told her it's way more likely at her young age that it will happen for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:53 AM
108

Most men disgust me with their casual misogyny. I have as little to do with men as possible except for my dad and son. They both hear a lot of radfem rhetoric from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:15 AM
116

Most of them have no idea how to please a woman and nor do they care to. That's why we should never have sex with LVM so we can breed them out of the gene pool 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:10 AM
108

It's an immediate block and delete for me and my daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:02 AM
208

I honestly think that sex obtained by deception or coercion should be criminalised. I have heard so many stories about women dating a man for months and when they finally have sex, they immediately ghost. I know from my pick me days when I had male friends that they absolutely view getting sex as a sport. A few told me that the chase was way more exciting than the actual sex. The more they had to bullshit their way into bed, the more exciting it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:01 AM
6

Yeah, I'm seeing more and more of these posts. If you don't want to follow FDS then go on the Tinder subreddit or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:25 AM
10

Here in Australia we call it dick cheese 😂 You just KNOW this dude will have massive skid marks in his jocks and leave them all over the sheets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:12 AM
10

You took the words right out of my mouth. It feels like OP hasn't even glanced at the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:10 AM
20

In ancient times, our God was feminine and we worshipped our Divine Mother. The Egyptian goddess Isis is a more modern version of Mother. Mary, mother of Jesus, was a retelling of the story of Isis and her son Horus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:05 AM
44

Brought up as a Catholic and went to Catholic schools. I knew the religion was bullshit from a very young age because women had no voice. All organised religion is bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:00 AM
19

What FDS is saying is that it's better to be alone than engage with the types you find on OLD. Regardless if it is your only way to meet men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:58 AM
212

Imagine how gross and smegma coated that dick would be under all those fat rolls. This fuckwit is absolutely delusional, he isn't cute and chubby. He is morbidly obese. The audacity for judging his fwbs for being fat. What's the bet that the women are actually cute and chubby and think they are giving an ugly guy a chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:47 AM
18

Yes, it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:44 PM
25

Get a new manicurist. I couldn't handle being around this, you know it's only going to get much, much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:06 AM
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